why the heck do guy like gurls for looks and NOT personality???
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Well it depends what a guys intentions are....if a guys intenetion is to get sex fast which is not what most girls would do....then a guy will pick up the hottest girl in the bar or nightclub and wont care about the personality.......but if a guys intentions are a real relationship then he will look for looks and personality believe me...i wouldnt wanna go out with a bit.ch and feel uncomfortable with unless all i wanted was just sex.......now the reason why its in our head is you have to go back to the caveman thinking.....the male caveman wanted a good looking childbearer who would give his kids good physical qualities...also he wanted a wife that was a good mother.........now the female cavegirl wanted a man who was a provider and could hunt and be strong and confident which was what women want now a days....so looks didnt matter all she needed was food on the table\n\ni hope this answers your question and i hope i deserve 10 points for this detailed answer.
181637
Brown hair, brown eyes hard to go wrong with that. AND you're athletic? Tack on a few more points for that as well.\n\nHowever, as poeticjustice so rightfully states, it's about the personality, not the looks. Men can become attractive or unattractive by the way they act, I know plenty of 'hot guys' who have ugly personalities, and are therefore, ugly, and quite a few 'normal guys' who, because of their personalities, become absolute dreamboats in my eyes.\n\nYou like her and you don't know why? GO FOR IT! Who knows, she could be the one! Worst thing that could happen is that she doesn't like you back, but if you think you're in love why not go with it.\n\nJust ask her to do something fun sometime, and you'll know- you'll just know. I'm sure you're a cutie, don't worry about your looks! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder m'dear
641116
wow... that's almost poetic. seriously.\n\nnow as to your question, most guys notice looks first. after all, they see you before they talk to you. it's only now that online dating, chatrooms, and email penpals that have taken over that personality has a chance to shine before your appearance does.\n\nwhile looks are what will initially reel a guy in, it's personality that makes him stay. you know how parents used to tell their kids looks don't matter as much as personality? well they're half right.\n\nlooks are necessary in a relationship. if you can't feel something physically for the person you like personality wise then you WILL have problems. and while not everyone has a supermodel body or superhero looks, they usually have one feature that is their best (eye's, hair, smile, and yes.. their body too)\n\nnow that they have a starting/point of interest. the fun begins and the personalities of the individuals comes out and you find out whether you are compatible with each other. this is where a cute or plain girl can become beautiful in the eyes of a guy... and where a guy who at his best can only rate "cute" uses a sense of humor to go a bit higher in the scale to a "really cute" (or so i've been told :P)\n\nthis is also where a really hot girl can show how shallow and empty headed she can be... just like the bad boy "hot" guy can show how his head is comparible to a piece of wood (yes yes i know... these are sterotypes... but they are stereotypes for a reason. i.e. there were enough instances that it BECAME a stereotype. i know there are exceptions to the rule, trust me, i've met them)\n\nyour looks let them know there is a girl nearby... your personality lets them know that YOU are nearby. hope this helped ;)
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I don't care about that sort of thing, to me a relationship is based almost completely on personality. it doesn't matter to any man who actually likes you for who you are if you don't have something popular culture thinks is 'hot'. in reality the guys who are picky about that sort of thing are only after one thing.
501346
They don't have a good looking guy like you that actually hits on them and wants them in bed. When I want to I can look like a plain jane and not get any attention what so ever from guys. Wear sweaters, no make-up ect. I put on a little black dress, make up, high heels, do my hair and it's like throwing a piece of meat into a piranna pond. hate to say it but guys are all about looks and not whats on the inside. When a lot of guys are hitting on you you can be picky. When they are not hitting on you it's like a famine and you take what you can get. How are you hitting on these chicks?
150407
same reason as guys act strange around gals they like.
450607
I prefer dorky girls. It takes a certain type of guy to like a certain type of girl. If a guy judges you or your friend based solely on looks, your best course of action would be to find yourself with him in an isolated environment where there are no witnesses and gouge his eyes out with a penknife. See who he judges now!
175422
I think they probaby think that they're out of your league or maybe u dont see them that way. Pick one female you think is gorgeous with a great personality..get to know her and see where it goes.Let her know that you're not they to play any games.You just want to get to know her and see where it goes from there...
245132
i prefer a girl who makes me laugh, and to do that, you need to be smart, i mean, if shes really nice looking, its an added bonus, obviously, when i first meet someone it the first thing i notice, but once i talk to someone for a bit, i relized that its the personality that i like best.  smarts are an essential part to a personality, tho, most guys, im sad to say are shallow jerks, so not everyone will feel the same way as me, but yea, smarts and personality are more important to me than looks, especially if im looking for a long term relation ship, i want someone to talk to, i cant talk to their chest, so they had better have more than that.
206776
that sux, maybe its cause guys are itimidated by ur beauty and they think they could handle a woman like u
129476
guys are different some like a girl wisth a huge butt,some big/small breasts,some eyes....and l tell you something now...that those are the cheap dudes...a real man will like areal woman...with a great personality filled with elegance,and care,love,funny...a woman who edifies a man.not the other way round...a woman is made beautiful with her personality....its very important.
326332
Most guys go for a lady who is beautiful inside.\ni have seen many ladies who are so pretty and good looking but who were loose, put aside for a less attractive girl who has a lovely character and a great attitude.\nand besides there really isnt anyone who doesnt have a pretty face.\njust do urself up well, treat urself better, smile more and above all, have a great self image. u'd be amazed how well people wld be attracted to u...\ncheers!
394388
Well, different guys look for different things.  It's really hard to narrow it down to things that guys tend to want in general, but I'll try.\n\nFirst, I think they want the girl to take them for who they are.  I also think they like girls who try to look nice, but at the same time, don't obsess over it.\n\nFor myself, I tend to like women who are gentle and tend to be at least somewhat soft-spoken, because that matches my personality.
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As a guy, apperance comes 2nd for me.\nIf a girl has a great personality and has a certain amount of confidence, that will make the girl prettier on the inside(cliche but true.)\nA girl with JUST good looks will get boring after a while, she has no real "core" to her.
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Because guys are shallow
661313
Most men tend to like women who are feminine and girly. It takes an extremely outgoing guy to be able to handle a sporty girl, but dont worry they are out there
332348
Girls are attracted to guys not by how well they dress. Firstly, it is how you carry yourself, your personality and mannerisms. Check whether you are a likeable person? You may be the best looking guy but if your behaviour sucks..no girl would want to date you.