if your crush liked you and youliked him back and so you might go out but he hates your bff, and idk what to do and she wants me to go out wit him but i dont want to hurt her cuz she kinda likes her to and so dose everybody else. what should i do????
205715
your friend will always be there, he wont.
511360
gurl please. dont allow urself to be hurt again. MOVE ON! find a new crush.
45449
Well..if it was me i wouldn't go out with my best friends bf, cause it just wrong. No matter how hot the guy is. And plus (this is an old saying but who cares? xD) Theres pletty fish in the sea..meh..i guess you could not ingore him though just if things starts getting back to flirting and more than flirting, then i subject to stop with the flirting if it gets to far (hopefully that might answer your question.. >.>'')
48006
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
339043
1) get a new crush\nand 2) Confront your friend about it cuz if she was your BFF and you were hers she would have invited you BUT\nShe prolly is scared that something will happen between you 2 while on this trip and she cant stand to see you hurt she might be protecting your saftey.\nHope all goes well sweety
251846
ow, that hurts. I'm sorry, well did he know you liked this girl? If he did that was really mean. Your right that punching him won't make anything better and it might affect how the girl you like thinks of you. What did the girl say? If she said yes just hang out around your best friend and her so you know what shes like to boys, if she said no you still have a chance.
85147
your avatar is cute! Now, if he is a butthead break up wit him. your friend shouldn'y of made u go out wit him if you didn't like him! Anyway, if S.M. did ask you out and if you like him, go for it! Good Luck! :)
240902
If she says yes and  doesn't like him, he will only be more hurt later. She shouldn't go out with him. However, even if he's a geek, he may be a really nice guy. Who knows. Give him a chance, with a friendship, and see if anything goes from there.
95325
well first of all you guys are all friends right.. think about how you would feel if one of your best friends dated your crush, sure you wouldnt say anything because they are your friends but inside you'd be hurt.. do you want her to feel like that? she needs to ask him how he feels, and get it all out in the open. if not someone's going to get hurt and it's never going to get resolved!!
82511
Woah there is alot of "liking" going on here...sounds like a middle school love triangle....that's cool. Just remember this, there will be plenty more of him liking you, while he likes your best friend, but she likes this other guy, and he thinks he shouldn't like niether one of you...so he decides to like your sister, but your sister doesn't want to hurt you becuase you like him, in the future.
375723
I have the same situation..I like them both but one doesn't like one of my bestfriend...I realized,if she treat me as a friend she should accept & respect me & my bestfriends.There is no reason to hate my bestfriend because she is not bad..Maybe,if my bestfriend is bad,rude or something which is not acceptable maybe i can understand my friend.But there is no reason because i've known her for so long and became my bestfriend.I realized,that my other friend has been jealous that's why she hate her and she just doesn't like my bestfriend's style.If i were you,as long as you know,trust and you like your bestfriend there's no way to worry about your bestfriend.But the other friend,you have to ask him/her why?then try to analyze and figure ot out...
148553
First of all a guy is not worth a friendship!!!\n\nYou should not be in their relationship either that is just going to cause problems, especially since you are friends with both of them.\n\nAlso if you date him she will be mad at you and then if you and him break up he will be mad at you to and then you will not have a best friend. And I honestly dont think you want to risk both of their friend ships just because of the crush you have on him!
444857
uhhh...girl if you really like this guy why dont you really get at him!!and if this "alicen" do exist then why dont you proove it wit your own eyes, and then if you see them lovey lovey wit each other then gurl my advice to you is that to move on cuz a bestfriend like that would not just "kiss" you a goodnight kiss and just forget about you like that and i mean, asking another gurl out after what happened!!!wow!whatta abestfriend dont cha think???
57387
I take it dat u dont dig d best frienhd.in an ideal world d best friend shud back off,n let her friend b happy.d girl dat u like wuld probably b feeling guilty if her going out with u wuld break her friend's heart.or she might just take u.\nu might want to wait n see how things work out for a while..until d bst frriend finds sumone else to like?den ask ur dream girl out.GUD LUCK..
21659
Is this a trick question?  Find some one else to like ... if the guy you like "hates" you, why would you bother??  Why would you bother exploring ANYTHING with other guys that you hate?  Tons of fish in the sea!!
186345
its not that she hates you. from my point of view, i dunno if you two were friends, but she does not like you back. that's it simple as that. or something is holding her back from liking you. probably bad timing. i know how it feels when you dont get that back in return. but guaranteed, there are too many ppl out there for any of us. go swimming and find them. or u could wait around for her, but that's only hurting urself.
608686
If you all like the same guy - there are going to be 2 people getting hurt.  Talk with your friends and try to come to a conclusion where either 2 of you back off and let one girl have a chance or you all decide to leave him alone and just stay friends.  This situation does have potential to cause problems between you and your friends, so be aware of what the consequences might be and if going out with a guy is worth it.