i try to chat on gay.com and it won't let me at all... the messenger box comes up but never connects to the system.... what do i do to get on???
201400
Did you ever consider that maybe the modem had a long day and wasn't up for chatting?
15106
why not try changing your connection in your yahoo messanger..i had that kind of problem and i found out my ISP blocks yahoo messanger..
534424
if you are talking about kidzworld.com i had the same problem\nand it never worked out but if you are a kid or a teenager\nall you have to do is go to www.yahoo.com and search in the search bar for kids chatting websites and you'll be chatting in no time.
215825
for some reason, the service might be down. if not, try to check your firewall and configure it to allow all connections for yahoo messenger. Also, u could try a clean install of our yahoo messenger on your pc.. uninstall and install the latest version.\n\nbut i think its because of the service is down.. but however, good luck in trying my solutions.
643854
This is a really weird question.  Lol.  But sure, why not.  I'm gay, I'm a man.  Just go into my profile thing and do the whole Y! Messenger thing.\n\nEdit: I really am gay.  Lol.  If that's what you're worried about.  :-P  Just hit me up on Yahoo Messenger, assuming you have it.
16802
I agree with you.  I have pretty well given up on Chat.  Found other outlets -like Yahoo! Answers and MySpace.  \n\nI guess when I got spam, I reported it to yahoo and ignored the username.  \n\nPS. I have my settings set up so that people who IM me and are not on my friends list all go into one little box, not to crowd my screen of the important things of life - music.
207718
Mabbe its because you are not 18 years of age.\nYahoo chatrooms are now available to only those who are 18yrs or more older
453720
I can't get into mine either. Messenger seems to be having a few problems of late but apparently they're fixing it. Must be gremlins in the system again.
104021
It has to do with your PC settings or the specific chat room. Different on-line chat sites will allow different settings.
288970
I am having the same problem. Seems yahoo did something to their system and have not resolved the problem as of yet. They just keep sending me garbage to make me feel better. It has been 4 weeks now since I have been able to get into chat or get my web cam to work and they are too stupid to figure out what is wrong. Have you tried contacting them? Go into the help pages and you can contact them through customer care. Good luck and if you get yours solved first, tell me how you did it.
203933
Boy do I hear you!  I used to use the chat rooms alot back in the beginning of my computer useage, but it became such a hassle to sort thru who was for real and who were 'posers' just out to cause issues with you that I had to stop.  I have not had any chatting for a long time now.  Good luck, and best regards.
320471
I've had the same problem with messenger in the past. It probably isn't anything you are doing wrong. More than likely all of yahoo messenger is messed up. Try contacting yahoo...there should be a troubleshooting site. I usually just either notify them or give up.
608651
hi,i'm a real member of this community-this is your first question and you have made no answers so far,this is an unlucky time as the boards are flooded at the moment with the chat problem people who did not read the community guidelines at all-it's a must,right to the bottom-so the board will fill up and fly by giving it no time hardly for a serious site user to help you.- if you wish click on my avatar and you will be on my home page-look through some of my questions and answer's to get the idea-you can do this with averyone-and so can they !sorry i'm a people person and can't help with the other question,i tend to answer the one i think you asked-i'll be online about an hour if you need any advice on the site-feel free to contact me in that time-welcome.x
90143
Try to check if you installed firewall or not. Your McAfee might have blocked the path to connect your messenger. If you think it's because of McAfee, you should be able to connect when you disable the McAfee Software. I believe you can easily allowed the messenger's path to connect to internet. (I used zonealarm to block unblock programs). I hope it's just the firewall issue... =&#92;
101997
I dunno. Where do I find a chat site??? I'm being serious, so could you tell me by adding details? Please?
197348
try no proxy but the server could be having troubles too . look in the computer question theres like a million problems with chat messagers with hardly any solution i hope somone can help you.
115573
try gay.com it has a really  nice chat program where you can find others with your similar desires