Women have a lot of accesories to choose from... like purses, hair pins, infinite kinds of jewerly, etc... However men are limited in this department. What would be the one thing every man must have besides good clothes and good shoes?
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Well, I was thinking about it, and I never realized this before, but a nice watch really looks good on a guy! It's classy and adds something, I'm not sure what.  I'm not saying it's totally necessary though, cuz I've seen guys look pretty good without watches, but it's a nice feature.  \n\nI'm NOT into chains...like gold chains around the neck, or chains hanging from your pocket. There are some good necklaces out there for guys that look really good. Like the stuff at Hollister or Abercrombie, kinda that surfer look...I like that kind of stuff on guys.
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Flowers are cool, but men are practical and women are emotional. We get women flowers because it tugs on your emotions. Men are practical and buying us flowers probably won't get the same emotional response from him that it would get from a woman. He would probably like it more to get something he can keep or use more than a few days. I would say ask your man if HE likes flowers. It's always better to get someone something they want instead of something we think they should have. See the difference?? Ask him what he likes and get him that. He may like it better to get a bag of Jolly Ranchers or BlowPops! That can still be just as cute. You usually can't go wrong with candy or food when you're dealing with a sentimental gift for a guy!! And don't get us a box of chocolates either, unless that chocolate is covering some peanuts and caramel. Like a Snickers bar!
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Sex is the biggest NEED for a man.  Most men I know would have little trouble choosing between sex and a steak dinner.\nHaving said that sex is important, most men, whether they admit it or not, seek emotional connection THROUGH sex.  Most women seek emotional connection BEFORE sex.\nNow just having generalized, I don't think about it ALL the time.  And I can testify that it is possible for a guy to stay faithful.
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A lot of things....boys,money,life,\nbeauty,education,family.
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Education, money, love, family & friends.\nThis is because any individuals should obtain awareness of the world. Thats the most important thing. This is what differentiates an American from say a Somali.\nThis education fetches one the money he/she needs for his survival which is the basic human need. Survival of the fittest is described in today's world first by education and then by money.\nOnce the person is loaded with money, it is easy for the opposite sex to fall for. It forms the basis of love because it forms the basis of a comfortable life. The man can 'buy' things to please the woman whose failure in most cases leads to misunderstandings and failure of love.\nFamily and friends are your constant guides to success, but never the 'sculptor' of your success. So their support is essential but not before you learn to support yourself through your education.\nThus the chain, thus the priorities
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I don't know. My friend and I were discussing it the other day, we don't get it either and we ARE women. Personally I have about 4 pairs of shoes, I have trouble finding any that I like so I don't get how some women have hundreds of pairs. That would be impossible for me! Every time I need a new pair I trawl through about a dozen shoe stores before I find a pair that I'd even consider. It's such a hassle, don't know how people could call shoe shopping fun!
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If I had a woman that did things like that, I know that it would take a great amount of pressure off from me in getting ready.  Now a man should be capable of getting his things together for trips, but if he has a woman that just automatically does this for him, I think she would need to be appreciated deeply by her man.  I think that a lot of men would not know how to react to a woman that shows that kind of attentiveness.  that is why they maybe tend toward a woman that acts bitchy?  That is what some men have seen and are most familiar with.
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something tasteful and personal, but not too personal. Lik a gift basket or something. Don't give the female bath products. Try tea and cookies instead. For the guy, some small tech thing is usually welcomed. you can get nice stuff of this nature without spending too much, too. www.gifts.com can help, too
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They have more shoes than you do. \nMore colognes than you do.\nMore clothes than you do.\nThey have clearasil, noxema, shaving gels, shaving cream, after shave, three different types of Razor blades, three types of grooming kits for their hair, and at least 2 for their nails, 2 different moisturizers...Dang I THINK I HAVE A HIGH MAINTENANCE MAN!....LOL...OK WAIT i gotta do something about this....
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Not having much money is a huge disadvantage for a guy. Women like to believe in the notion of pure love, or soul mates, or what not, but in the end they always seem to fall in love with guys who have something going for them strangely enough . . . \n\nHaving said that, money is not everything. Women are not attracted to money per se, it is that money creates an aura around a guy of success, power, character, passion, and various other traits that women find attractive. Having money often implies certain things about the man's character (of course, a few women just go purely for the money, but usually it is that money implies something about the man). But there are other ways of conveying those traits than having money. Confidence in your personality can convey as much "power" as does having lots of money for example. \n\nBut there can be little doubt that having less money is a disadvantage. That isn't to say that no women will be attracted to you because you don't have money, but rather that IF you took yourself exactly as you are, and then added a million dollars in your bank account, suddenly a whole range of women who were previously out of your league would be flocking to you like sheep.\n\nGood luck!\n\nFootnote: you cannot "choose" to be gay. You either are, or are not. So that option isn't an option.
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Virtue.\nIt can be hard to find these days, but a virtuous woman's worth is far above jewels.
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i would say a man spends 200 dollars or more. my man takes me to a seafood dinner, give me a dozen roses, candy and sometimes jewerly can cost more. i spend mabye like 100 dollars. i buy a sexy longerie, card, candy, colgne, and sometimes sexy underwares for him. they are cute they have a hole buy his penis.
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The size of a man's equipment is about as important to the ladies as the size of a woman's is to a man.  We are genetically programmed to want the best to pass on to our children.  Having said that, we are not completely subject to the whims of our hormones.  \n\nWe date to discover what is truly under all that bluff and bluster than men are constantly throwing around.   And to find out if the pros of a huge schlong outweigh the cons of having to put up with this particular slob.
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from what i've seen, Determination is the most appealing freature women look on men and resilience the least one.\n\nSo i think some women that hold one or more of this features will not find attractive in a man to have the same feature, they would rather go for the "compliment argument": between men, they would chose the one who reinforces what they lack.\n\nBut to each is own. The outcome of such choice of features or feature can not be predicted since every woman is different.
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I would be a little inside but would try not to show it. When you're dating a guy they want to be the most special relationship to you. Hell I would get jealous if my girfriend wore a ring a female friend got her instead of the one I did. Jewelry is kinda seen by guys as a gift of romantic intrest because it's expensive and it serves no practical purpose other than looking nice. If a guy is buying you jewelry I would see it as him caring for you as more than friends. Not that that's necessarily the case but that's just how guys look at it.
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WOmen just do not understand one thing about men:\nWe are simple animals.\n\nWomen try to make everything too deep.\n\nUs Men like:\n1. Sex\n2. Food\n3. Sports (usually)\n4. Quiet bathroom time\n\nIf you make sure we have those things, all will be well.\nStop trying to make us more complicated than we are.
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Maybe you two should compromise on things. Just because you like certain brands of items doens't make you high maitenance.  I love my Coach purse but I also love my Walmart flip-flops.  Its all about taste.  If you only see yourself in Armani, versace and other well known classy brands and ONLY want those things and won't get anything other than that then perhaps you are High Maitenance but if also enjoy other things that your b/f does then you are not so high maitenance.