more than friendship..but I didnt even flirt with them and didnt have the intention.Oh boy!It just my friendly way,fun personality and I once a boyish girl.Even now I am not a feminine girl and not really good looking, just cute!Drive me crazy you know.
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Maybe you're not good looking, but you are sexy! maybe your curves turn them on or your eyes.\nI understand it could be quite upsetting. Find a way to take advantage of it.
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chances are:\nif by "they" u mean boys then yeah opposites attract.\nif by "they" u mean girls and boys and all.. then theyr probably laughing at u but ur too stupid to know it..and they'r to careful to let it show..\n\ni'm whats u called "ur polar opposite" and trust me i don't like girls ur type..i think they'r dumb and all.. and i don't even try to be their friend.. so uninterested!
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i'm in the same situation & i'm a funny person who's not nervous around guys but i don't have a bf too.guess we'll both just have to wait & see won't we?cheers!
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I know right!!!, And i asked the other day my crush if he liked me back he said no!, i mean....i have a wonderful personailty!!!!, that is what counts, not my looks!
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I had a best friend for like 2 years and we did alot of great things together and I use to get so mad at my hubby cuz he kept saying " this guy wants more than u as a friend" over and over and over.  Well he was always great and never once hit one me.  BUT my hubby WAS right- all that time he was just hoping and praying my hubby and I would seperate- and he was just kinda waiting in line!  It broke my heart when I found out.  He was my FRIEND!  I have trouble believing a guy can just be a girls friend without occasionally WANTING MORE from her.  Its just natural for guys to be attracted to girls.
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basically, all you have to do is talk to them as if they were one of your girlfriends, but a little lighter. just go up to a guy of your choice and introduce yourself and start talking and see how that goes. i really can't explain it any better than that. i have a lot of guy fiends; in fact most of them are guys! just be yourself around them, just not flirty too much. your just tryin to get a guy friend.
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I have one female friend that I like being with, and that is because we have a lot in common, I mean everything, from crappy childhoods and upbringings, to possessive men we have had relationships with.\n\nOther than that, I prefer to hang around guys (as friends).  They seem a lot more straight forward to me.  When I was in high school, a lot of times a girl would act like they were my friend, only to stab me in the back the second I turned the other way.  Some friends I had, even the ones I had friendships with for 10+ years were back stabbers.  Some of them even stole my boyfriends right out from under me.\n\nGuys, on the other hand, are less likely to steal boyfriends (lol), and are much more straight up.  If they don't like you, they are going to tell you to your face, hey F off, I don't like you.  They are not going to be your friend to your face and bad mouth you while you are not around.  If you happen to not be around when they do talk about you, they say mostly positive things, they are not so catty.\n\nThat, and guys are more laid back and easier to talk to.  All girls want to talk about is their 50th pair of brand new shoes they bought and I hate shoes, they take up too much space.
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let me put it to you this way, all girls are b*tches. I am a girl and i have done some pretty ruthless things. i really have no explaination for why i did them except that i wanted to look cool. And i am talking about while i was in high school, i have long since reformed my way.
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To tell you the truth I have a bunch of friends, but I never tell them any of my secrets and I don't enjoy my self around them that much because I don't believe they are really true friends. I can just see it in their eyes that they are just taking me for granted. I also dont like them because they are so mean to others. I mean just because a person is different doesn't mean your better than them. I had one true friend of the opposite gender, but now they are gone. So a little tip from me: don't trust all your friends. Look deep inside them and see who they really are. And show them your true self to see if they like you or not. Once you've found a true friend then spend good times with them.
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the meanest way i rejected a girl was by walking up to a guy and kissing a complete stranger adn saying "i'm not lesbian!"  even though i had a girlfrend at the time!!!! And then after me and my g/f broke up i hooked up with that complete stranger!!!!
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aw man try to understand why and talk this over with them, may be you are sending mixed signals, i have done that, but i am just friendly and others take it the wrong way. just tell them your true intentions and be nice, good friends are really hard to come by! friends rule!
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Girl i used to think that way to there was this boy that has been friends with my brother for years and everytime i seen him i would flirt and he would flirt back. My brother would tell me not to talk to him because it wasnt right for me to talk to his friends. So i just let a crush remain a crush.
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Honey, they are not worth having as your friend if they care that much about how you look. Sounds like that is what they base their decision on and that is not worth it. Find some new people you would like to hang out with and be happy! You shouldnt have to change yourself to make others happy.
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dearie i went through the same thing with this group of girls in highschool. they were pretty, popular and they wer all the dream girl type with straight a+ gpa and every one wanted to be them. and i was pretty smart as well so i got put in the same class as them for 12th grade calc. and i had the same problem as you, around them i couldnt think of anything good to say my mind always drew a blank. and i got all miffed too. finally after a looong time i figured out that although i have no selfesteem probs and i know im pretty my mind had aldready put htese girls on a platform on my mind because of what other people said and i couldint act normmaly around them. but this was after i graduated so i never got to make friends, shame. but dont worry you arent lesbian or bi (not that it is bad)\nmy advice is to start thinking of them as normal people same as your friends
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very reasonable, the flirting and inuendo that comes with a lot of girl "FRIENDS" is totally inappropriate now, you should have made your choice, you can only keep the ones who are JUST friends, you know the ones, they are the ones who the both of you can hang with and act the same way when she is there!!!
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RIGHT HERE! I have ONE female friend. And because I have a boyfriend AND a job I have one male friend....my boyfriend. Girl its been like that for me since the seventh grade. Girls for whatever reason do not like me. I dont know why either. I'm the nicest person I know for real. I try to talk to females but they just dont like me for some reason. It drives me crazy!
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Maybe you act a little effeminate and the girls might think you're gay (no offense meant)? So then girls only see you as a friend and not a potential boyfriend.