i am a very moody person i get angry easily i don't talk much when eeveri join a new company but if they really get to knowme or we become close friends then they wull all say u are not as bad as u act i don't quite get it
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Just learn how to ask people about themselves and when they answer be a very good listener and show interest in what they are saying.  People will think you are a great friend and a great person.  It's amazing what will happen.  You will become the most popular person in the group.
126187
im not mad it u... lol, and i do feel for u... been there done that. don't worry all ur feelings of people being mad at u will pass... everyone can't be mad at u forever... they'll come to their senses that life is too short for people to get mad at other people.
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if you have bitter experiences with most people u meet,the problem is with ur own character and behaviour\nyou may be teasing someone.......not giving respect.....\ndo have patience to hear others words and after thier turn only answer them and answer in a pleasing way too\nFIRST CHECK IF YOU ARE GIVING OTHERS WHAT YOU EXPECT FROM THEM!!!!
375363
Most people who act like that are using it defensively because they're jealous.  So don't feel bad.  They're ugly people, inside and most likely out.  Only go if you want to go to events/occassions.  Otherwise, don't waste your time and don't give them the pleasure of being able to make you feel like crap.  If they say something nasty to you just smile and nod and say "Thanks for letting me know...I had NO idea..."  and then walk away.  They want a reaction out of you and if you respond politely and sweetly they'll either stop or get really pissed off.  My mother always taught me "Kill 'em with kindness"...and it works almost every time!
185137
easy, pple tend to hate u, just because u act differently when yourself, but its nothing really. also its because of the "role" figuare is probally the one they compare u to. If they hate u, ask yourself this- "Do I care about what they think?"
439541
all you have to do is be a little more mean and tell straight up. i had a friend like but now he is not as much and we get along great
77682
All of the above has happened to me more than once; at restaurants I have complained to the managers and if they are just as bad as their staff, I inform them that I will be telling everyone that I know how bad they're place is and those people will tell they're friend and so on. I have left stores that ignore me, my hard earned money is better spent elsewhere. And if I feel like I am being followed I stop, turn and confront the person doing the following!
566138
I would rather have a few honest friends then the drama of a bunch of arrogant a$$es.  It's good that you are choosy, continue to make good informed decisions like that and you can avoid alot of unnecessary troubles in your future.
376694
I found that it usually how you treat and deal with people which results in how they act toward you.  It helps to be friendly and  polite. \n\nDepending on the situtation, some workers will  see you as an impedance or worse as a threat to their job.   Others considered their behaviour as being professional.
277461
i feel like they think im just pure thick sometimes gets to me real bad its like people who have done 1 better than u grrr
308086
maybe it's because your trying to hard to be miss know it all and i'm not saying that to be mean but some times when u try to hard when u mess up u get mad and it's because u don't want to be wrong for anything try not to be so hard on yourself and when u do get one worng say it's ok to not be perfect
614816
e yea & if you act normal or happy ,you`re a con-they can`t understand it`s an act,& you`ll pay mentally later. also they have no idea of how much medicine you have to take to act normal.noone in my family,friends( my husband does) believe i`m mentall ill,because i worked for27 yrs, then had anervous breakdown,maybe because i wasn`t hospitized-lots of out-patient
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hun if people don't like you it cause they are jealous of you for one reason or another, lots of people don't like me n recently i found out it was cause i had the good life n they were to busy dwellin on the past to move on and make there own life good. don't let them get you down, what ever it is you are doin keep doin it its your life not theres let them be jealous after all people bein jealous of your life can sometimes be a good thing.\n\ntake care and keep smiling, if you smile the whole world will smile with you, a smile is like the flu people cant help but to catch it.
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Maybe you're just dealing with the wrong kind of people. Some people are just moron-magnets (like myself.) I got yelled at the other day for saying "Jeese John!!" When my foods classmate upturned all my kebabs in the oven. \nOn the other hand, maybe people think you're arrogant. From what you're saying, it sounds like these people aren't just being kind and telling you how to correct your faults, they're labeling you as "strong willed" or "defensive" \nDo you have a high amount of self esteem and do you show it off? Are you confident and don't need a large group of friends to accomplish tasks adequately? It may be that you're just dealing with jealousy to a certain extent. But next time, if someone gives you a helpful hint, remember that you're not superman and you can try that advice for next time. Smile and say thank you.
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Are these 'friends' who work with you?  If so, in my experience no matter how close you are and care about each other, you will always first and foremost be work colleagues.  So its natural for them to not want to share information with you, they see you as a threat.  But then its also natural for you to no longer consider them friends.  They're just workmates, I'm sure there are other people in your life who deserve to be called your real friends, so don't let it bother you too much.
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I believe they are insecure and probably don't have social skills that are appropriate to gains friends/ loyalty / trust, so they talk about illness and pain to gain attention, and think that's the way to get it. I once just confronted a co-worker with something like this " I know you have things wrong in your life, but it drives people away to hear so much negativity." Feelings were a little hurt, but it did help. Mostly you deal with it by ignoring it, change the subject to something cheerful.
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1st of all why do u have to b jealous when u sound so much better than anyone \nu seem to feel very bad about this\nanyway dont feel bad u can get more attention by just being more beter