i  wanna  do the right thing but it is just so hott.i love my wife very much and take good care of my family. i dont drink or do drugs. so is having sex with someone else really such a bad thing.
213849
Yes it is...WAKE UP....obviously everything is not right in your marriage if you are having sex with someone else. Don't fool yourself by saying you are taking good care of your family. STOP your cheating now and talk to your wife about whatever is bothering you. If you truly love your wife you will fix things now.
113262
Sure...you see an attractive person of the opposite sex and maybe think about it, but as long as you don't follow through or make any attempt to actually do anything I think it's natural.  As a girl, I personally think guys are much more vulnerable to this type of thinking (maybe vulnerable isn't the best word, but you know what I mean).  Yes, it would be devasting to your wife/gf if she found you having an affair.  But just looking at an attractive person isn't bad.  But don't go off flirting with them or anything like that.  Use that energy on your wife/gf!
677060
My fella and l aren't officially "a couple" any more, but only for the past few weeks, we're still having sex though.\nlt doesn't feel like a bad thing cos we only split cos of my weird family, we still see one another(well have sex) but it doesn't feel bad cos we both want it and we know we would still be together any way if not for my family.
245408
That's a sin some where. And any way would you like you wife to cheat on you? "Do into others as you have them do into you" Get it think about that  for awhile!
344472
Yea!!  i most definetly agree!\n\nI dont know why ppl think that having a lot of sex (monogomus) is a bad thing. It encourages you to be more weight/body smart- dampers the depression/headaches you might be expierencing... hell it even takes away mentrual cramps. I do it in the daily, sumtymes multiple times--- and im the one jumping on my boyfriend to take a ride...lol....\n\nso saddle up girls and practice your reverse cowgirl... sex is officially one of the best things to happen to man kind!\n\n\n( ALWAYS USE PROTECTION- BE SAFE AND WATCH OUT FOR YOURSELF AND THE ONE YOU LOVE/INTIMATE WITH)\n\n**Raises glass.. cheers!\n\nKC
521303
okay im not down for all of that but I do have some advice... You guys should try swinging..Its were the two of you get together with other couples who are interested in the same thing as u,  and you switch partners...for example, you with another wife, her with another husband.but u do it the same room around eachother that way u both know what went on and its alot safer then random men... Most of the time swingers will test for aids,stds, and other stuff more frequently then random people will.Its the safest way to have fun with other people without catching something...But for the record...I am not down with that!!!
51497
It has been proven that the more sex you have, the more you want.  Totally normal and healthy.  I would say that if you are thinking about sex with only the woman then, maybe that is the type sex you want, but if you would be happy with just you and a man, than it is probably just moer sex you crave.
158270
ya, it's true love!!!!!!  being married to someone doesn't mean that you have to have sex..
50559
If being with another woman AND your husband is a fantasy of your then I say go ahead. If you are being told that you need to do this pr else I am leaving or whatever, then NO!\n\nEven if this is oyur fantasy you will need to very careful as you mentioned STD's, whackos and all the EMOTIONAL trauma this may cause. Finding the right third is the real issue, do not bring a stranger into your house.
200782
Sex is a wonderful, and integral part of a marriage. If one party is no longer interested, there IS a reason. Seek counseling and get to the bottom of it!! My (now ex) wife would not, and we had sex 4 times the last 6 months we where together.. Or I should I had sex 4 times, she had it a lot more, so I found out later.. Like I said, something is wrong.. .Depression, cheating, resentments, physical illness, something!
197112
I hate to look at things this way, but I'm a factual person. The stats show that ppl who live together before getting married are more likely to get divorced. I waited until I was married to have sex. This brings a real sense of security to our relationship. I could go on about the other benefits, but I'm tired.
209750
I wouldn't ask my wife to have a threesome, and even if I did, I would drop it if she disagreed. I wouldn't want to jeopardize my relationship over something that would likely jeopardize it if it actually happened. That's just me =&#92;
421118
About marriage.. not only do you rob yourself from living your life with someone you DO find sexually atractive, you also rob your wife from her sexuality! Basically you are living a lie and you pull her with you in that. She is living your lie, and living with a man she must feel is not sexually interested in her. That goes against her self asteem, her self apreciation, it must make her very insecure about herself. She deserves the thruth in this!\n\nAnd so do you. You are living a lie yourself, doing yourself short. You only have one life to live for as far as we know, so what do you want to do with it? \nI hope for you that you will die on old age. And that on your deathbed you think back upon your life in a good way. That you honestly can say to yourself that you have lived like your true self, and not the life of someone you are not.\n\nSorry if I sound a bit harsh. I don't mean to.\nMy advice would be: talk to your wife, and seriously find out who you are and what your needs are. In that way you are much more able to find happiness then you are now.
32609
It is normal to be curious about how it would be with someone else.  But if you love him you know that it would never be as good.  Sex is more than technique...its truly a spiritual thing.
661999
The issue isn't if your husband is cool with it.  Are you?  I would guess not, or you wouldn't mask your emotions under a cloud of alcohol.  Or is the husband thing your excuse for being drunk?  I don't know, only you can.  Having great drunken sex is a plus in any relationship, but I don't think I would stay with someone just for the O factor, but hey, I don't have it that way! Personally, I stayed in a bad marriage way too long.  I would either find a way to make you happy in the current relationship or find a way to live without your husband.
245458
I don't mean to sound disrespectful but... I think it's time to move on.I would say otherwise if he wasn't married but going after another womans husband is wrong and not only that but if you did get to have sex with him again it wouldn't satisfy you only make you want more than a sexual relationship. It obviously wasn't meant to be so getcha grove on girl there are lots of guys that probably would love to go out with you, ya just gotta be patient.
69287
never done that, but i would feel guilty too. Sex is supposed to be between one man and one woman (in the context of marriage, by my belief) not a couple of each. She feels guilty because she doesnt feel right about what you did.