if u where, or are in a relationship with someone that was or is, one of the best persons that u ever dated or married and u love that person 2 death, but the sex is very bad what do u do stay or leave?
214693
Stay. There is sooo much you can do to improve sex. Maybe just talk to him, give him gentle hints. Maybe add some toys or videos. Maybe you both can learn alternate ways to please each other. Go on line, maybe Dr. Ruth has a website that can be helpful.
256671
If you are not happy in the relationship then you should get out of it.Dont stay with a person and then cheat on them and justify it by saying"oh but i wasnt happy",have some respect.
606069
Be miserable, like I am. It wouldn't be so bad if the man I married loved and respected me. I guess that doesn't help you, but these things happen. Do what you need to do to make things right, if you can.
104496
Leave his @ss...if it's weird and doesn't feel right, then that's not a relationship you need to be in. Just because you've been together for 2 years doesn't mean you have to stay together for old times sake. If he keeps leaving, this time you be the strong woman and walk away. Trust me, Honey, I know. I did it and I am much better for it. You may love him, but he obviously is not treating you the way you deserve to be treated and you need to cut your losses and get out.
311952
Its not fair to you to be in love with someone that doesn't love you back. And sex isn't everything in a relationship. You have to be able to communicate and enjoy being around each other besides in the bedroom. Its not easy to just turn off your feelings, maybe you should stay away from him until your feelings for him aren't so intense. Find someone that will love you back.
503685
even though we say that he is no good for us..we still continue to miss and love that person..and that is the right way to heal..admit that you do or did love that person..next just reassure yourself that you WILL be fine..if you need to cry.. cry..let it out...I wish I could tell you move on..but the truth is that the sh*t hurts like hell..you heart is hurting..part of you feel like you cant go on...\nit took me 2 years to get over a guy that i feel in love with..I remember those sleepless nights..all to well..I loved that guy soo much and it hurt me to know that he could sleep with me and act like he wanted me ..but thats all he wanted was to sleep with me...and to be honest from time to time I still think about him....but today i am glad that we are not together...he is who he is and he likes what he likes...I have moved on but honestly if I see him today..i know that apart of me will melt..sometimes in life we have that one guy that just does this sh*t to us....treat us like sh*t..uses us only for sex..cheats.. lie..and all in all we still fall in love with them and they make us weak in the knees....he is one that we surrender to..\ngive it time...just accept all the emotions you are going through.\npray...good luck
671513
Most people go through periods in their relationship in which they wonder if the "grass is greener" somewhere else.  If you feel like wanting to leave much of the time, then you need to figure out what you are missing in this relationship.  If it is just a passing thought, then your relationship is probably fine.\n\nSit down and think about what your life would be like if you left your man versus what it will be like if you stayed with him.  Which gives you more of a feeling of happiness?\n\nMaybe you're not ready to settle down and need time to explore other relationships.  If this is the case, you should end your current relationship as if you don't, you will most likely regret it later and may even come to resent your boyfriend.\n\nIf you do indeed decide to stay with your current man, then spicing up the relationship would be a great idea.  Talk over and role play sexual fantasies with him.  Watch erotic videos together. Go out on dates like you did when you first met.  Try some new activities together so you have more in common.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from ny
93473
You let the man who saved your life drive off with the old lady, and stay with the one you love.\n\nDamn... I'm not fast enough! Hunt and peck... hunt and peck. I knew I should have learned to type.
629641
Do what's best for yourself.  People will come and go all your life, but you'll always have you.  If you think the relationship is stronger with the one who is leaving, that's who you should stay with.
168750
Escape only if you truly love him.I was affraid to do that with my ex and I regret it.
549658
This is your reaction to your bad experience and it is temporary..\n\nLife is like a running water wherein you can not enter twice.. Everything is changing continuously and you are going to have variety of experiences ahead.. So obviously your decision will not stay forever...\n\nIf you have encountered with one bad person it does not mean everyone is bad.. Dont think that good people have died out...\n\nA gal or a guy are born to have each other.. this is an arrangement of God... If it was not that then what was the need to create these different sexes.. So try to remove the hatred from your heart and look ahead with fresh mind...\n\nI also know it is very easy to advise and it is equally difficult to pass through the real life situation but what i have said it hard fact and realistic approach towards life..\n\nI wish you all the best for a Very Happy Life..
99343
Sweety love hurts, but it is not good to stay in an unhealthy relationship. If you are pouring out you heart to this guy and he gives you the opposite treatment, Why stay? Why be with someone that treats you bad? You deserve better. You need to realize that you are a beautiful person inside and out and you deserve much more than you are getting. You are probably afraid to be alone, but it's only for a short while, you will get someone better. Alone is good, less drama.
174000
If you married this person for better or worse than please tell me what happened to that vow. Goodness this is stupid to even think about running out on the person you married when they need you the most//////////
76800
Really at that time you where not officialy committed at 2 week's so let the guilt go. Some thing's are better left alone and if you care for him this is one. Old saying let dead dog's lay dont dig them up. You have now falling in love but at that time you where not and now you start your life happy together the pass can haunt you for many year's if you say something are even lose him. Keep your beautiful relationship in place you will never sleep with another man but him. Ya'll have a great life together ok.
107332
Sex is awesome - you can hate the person and that can make it even better.\n\nPost relationship sex is very common - it leads to issues when one party decides to move on...beware!
84379
Well because when it comes to the fact that one of you is leaving for good then reality has set in and that terrifies you two b/c you love one another and don't want to end things. You 2 may need to really sit down and talk, I mean really communicate about your feelings, everything that is frusterating both of you or if that does not work, seek counseling.
292227
Love b/c you can lose your heart,and you can lose respect for someone or thing and you can have the worst life but you can always love someone, even on your death bed.