i asked this realy cute guy out that ive known since like 2nd grade but i got rejected as i thought but he used 2 stare now we dont even make eye contact and it realy sucks cause i realy like him and my friends say i should move on but i dont want 2 I NEED HELP please im so upset
207710
yeah, moving on would be best.
460325
Ok, maybe the reason he said no is b/c he doesn't want the whole world to know he likes you. You shouldn't have asked people to talk to him for you so many times. A couple should have been enough. If you like him so much, ask him out yourself.
671392
think first if he will accept your back, if he doesn't dont even dare to try!\n you will feal misrable if he rejected you, but if you think we will accept you try to look at his eyes, eyes do magic!
312912
just be honest and tell him u dont want to date anymore. then go out with your friends and have fun until someone u really like asks u out.
316321
If he wrote it was too bad you didn't go out, he so likes you.  Call him and see if he asks you out.  If you really do like him, go for it.  If he doesn't ask, see if you can get up the courage to ask him.  He'll probably say yes!!
456342
This job wasn't meant to be...Don't dwell on it.  Move on to the next one.  If that doesn't work take a number two pencil and stick it to your left eye.  That would be less painful than thinking about your rejection.
255581
Start talking to this boy!  Please don't tell him how you feel, you will make a fool out of yourself in his eyes and think about the pain you will be feeling after having done it, if he is not interested in you.  I know everyone says to do that, but remember there are a lot of junior and high school kids answering these questions.  That's okay on that level, but in real life it is dumb.  Start by talking and see where it goes.  If he likes you, he will ask, or he will want to be around you more.  Good luck!  I know this is hard.
625402
This too shall pass.  Get on with your life.  Get out there and do what you like to do best.  Force yourself.  There are many more fish in the sea.  Put away the reminders.  The pictures, the letters, etc. from your ex.  Focus on yourself for awhile and not this rejection.  It hurts.  I know; but it will pass.  Make yourself attractive everyday.  You will feel better.  DO IT FOR YOU! Learn more about who you are and what you enjoy.  One day you will attract someone else who is attracted to the evolved you.
305889
yes, ask him out!! if he says no, then you go on with ur life.. why get other boyfriends when he might like you too??\n\nwhat do you have to lose? nothing... what do you have to gain? hopefully the guy =)\n\ngood luck
87953
Just ask him and be confident in yourself. Don't say you don't look good. Have faith in you because nobody else will. If he isn't interested its not the end of the world, trust me. I've been turned down myself and it didnt kill me. It might hurt for a while, but you'll move on. So cheer up and just be straight up with him about how you feel and see where his mind is.
420456
well did u say anything that could have hurt his feelings, or talked about him to ur friends and he maybe onerheard and took it the wrong way? he probablt still likes u, just ask him whats wrong and if he says he dosint like u anymore dont get mad at him (even though u probably want to) just acept his feelings and move on t0 the next cute guy!!!
48006
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
458418
Take a deep breath, it will all be fine, if he's not interested big deal. He's not going to walk around telling everyone you asked him out and he turned you down. You know what my personal moto is- Glory to the brave. When ever I want to ask out a girl or approach a girl and I start to fear rejection I say to myself Glory to the Brave and do it. I've got rejected before, but in a few days you'll never remember and I've also gone out with some beautiful girls, and that wouldn't have happened if I didn't have the balls to make a move
162873
You pretty much rejected him in his eyes.\n\nNow you are wondering why he is shy and does not ask you out again? I mean cmon. It is your turn to make the move, otherwise he will be gone.\n\nGuys are not just commodities that you can use whenever you have nothing else to do. We do notice.
293859
Some guys like to tease...he could be staring because he happends to catch you staring and that's all.However,if the guy was me-that would mean that I like you...so maybe he does have a thing for you.It would be wise of you to think of all the possibilities before anything.If you can't handle rejection then maybe you should just wait till he makes a move.On the other hand,he may be a little shy too.Why don't you just talk with him about anything and take it from there...and take it slow.When you both are comfortable in each others presence it will be easier to open up...good luck.
535649
You are in a major dilemma here.  Looks like you've entered the guy department maybe... too much.  Your situation is the same one mostly everyone is in - too afraid to ask him about because you're afraid he'll turn you down.  Just go for it!  If he says no, so be it!  At least you tried, and you can't hate yourself for that.
601763
The same way a boy does it:  Go up to him and say, "Would you like to go out with me?"  But, be prepared to be rejected.  It's what boys suffer all the time.  Embarassed?  Why?  Aren't you being honest with him?  If he rejects you, that's HIS loss...not yours!\n\nIf he does reject you, you don't want him, or you THINK you want him, but it's for the WRONG reasons!  Just face the fact that you made a bad choice, and ask yourself, "WHY him?"  The answer will be you discovering your TRUE love.  (Obviously, you chose him because getting him would satisfy some inner shortage you fell about yourself.  That's NOT "love".  Love yourself FIRST, and Mr. Perfect will find YOU!)