He has already been married and he has 2 kids....................I love all 3 of them dearly and we just moved into a new home to start a new life, especially after his wife left him after 12 years of marriage.
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He has already been through one failed marriage and most marriages fail because of lack of communication. Your best bet is to just talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. And once you get through this keep talking to him about your feelings and never stop.
84376
to stay together for life.we have 4 sons and 9 grandchildren.we did have a daughter[32]who passed on in jan and will always have a part of her with us.if i didn't have my husband these last 41 years i don't know what i would do.we have our problems but we work through them and solve them the best we can.we still disagree sometimes but thats ok.we cherish the time we have together and pray to god that continues for as long as god sees fit.nobody is perfect.i tell my husband i love him several times a day.all these years haven't been easy but we managed to get through those times.god bless you.
241205
The way my husband did.  He informed me we were already married (we were intimate.)  We argued for 3 weeks until I believed him.  God had already married us without us knowing it.
585133
i married my hs sweetheart even after a yr seperation and us both nearly getting married to other people.....we are very happy it all worked out how it has
191132
Anytime a man walks out on his family and another man wants to raise them he is one special person.\n\nYou have found happiness \ni wish you the best.
540483
6 kids in 8 years??  And he can't get off his butt to support his family??\n\nYou'd probably do better on your own.
667007
YES........  I would do it all over again.. Even though he can be a real pain in my ***, sometimes....  I have invested so much energy into him and the things we have overcome and survived through, have no doubt made us stronger and more committed to each other.  And the fact that he has given me the ~BEST part of him with our two beautiful baby girls.~  He is more beautiful today than the day we met and I thought he was oh wow so damn fine when we met. He charmed my pants right off of me... And I think that one big factor is that he still does........~  Thank you for the trip down memory lane.......!~  He will get a Special treat just because of you...........~   Sorry I guess that was too much information, wasn't it?!
213304
I have three sons. 18,17 and 14. Man is that a loaded question!!!! I consider my kids as such wonderful gifts from God. I haven't and couldn't have ever done anything in my life time to deserve them. I would like to publicly thank God for them!!\nThey are special by the way they smile, the sparkle in their eyes ! They are special by the way they love me back. They are special by their sometimes mischievous ways! Their since of humour,I absolutely love! They have good hearts. Although with three boys as you might imagine, there have been and still are fights! Sometimes very physical!! At times they do or say something that lets you see that they do love one another. They have made me see life in a whole different perspective. You are not the same person you once were after the blessing of a child in your life. They are also special because for me, no matter how old I get, when I have my kids around they make me feel young at heart !!! They are special for who they are and for who they will become. Most of all what makes them so special is that God did create them! The very creator of ALL creation thought of my three sons! Thank you Jesus!!!
568821
I met my fiance 3 months ago the nite before i moved out of my husbands house to another state.  I continued my moved.  He visited me the next week.  We talked on the phone.  He moved me back 1 month later.  We are so in love and are planning our wedding in Aruba.  All things are possible.
417778
easy life ?? he obviously does not have a clue to how exhausting it is to raise kids  i have 4 !  and to tell you the truth i did it all on my own although i was married notice i said WAS . i never got any help . deserve the privilage???  he is privilaged to have such a wonderful wife/mother.. also you should point out that the time he would have while you get well deserved sleep would be great bonding time for him and his daughter !!
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Age: 32 something\nPartners age: 43 years young\nYears or months married: First marriage = 7 years.  We had a two year divorce pause. Second Time Around = 2 years\nHow long have you known each other: 11 years\nKids: Step mom of two wonderful boys.  They were actually the ones that helped get us back together...\nHow much time do you spend together a day?: My hubby is currently serving over-seas right now.  I hope to see him over Christmas, but I may not see him until next September.  I miss him very much, and I appreciate the ten minute phone call that we have once a week.  When he is home, it is as if time stands still.  He is my soul-mate.
185670
I met my hubby at a Christian youth group reunion!  There were hundreds of people there, and I had never met him. \n\nHe had everything I've ever dreamed of in a guy, a heart for God, musical abilities (he's a composer and song writer, and keyboard player)\n We've known each other for over 27 years, and have been married happily for 20.  :-)
16355
I have some high chool friends that moved out there after they got married. they love it. good place to raise a family.
432554
I think its a different love as someone else said. The love for your kids is totally different than the love you have for you spouse...or at least it should be.
128875
Your late husband will ALWAYS know what is going on with you and his boys.  He still loves you, and wants you all to be happy.  If (and when) you meet another man, know that he understands.  He is gone, but you still have a life to continue with.  I can not say I know how you feel.  If I lost my husband, I would have a VERY hard time going on without him.  You have 2 sons to live for and help thru this awful time.  God love you all.
660003
My Hubby of 36 years..........................................
226470
yep, Married him,,,,we were friends for like 4 yrs we ve been married for 1 yr 4 months and to be honest it is the best thing I could have ever done, it is working just so great we don´t need to pretend anything we know each other like the palms of our hands we still can talk like good friends listen to each other ,,The secret of it i guess is to keep on being best friends many ppl forget their spouse should also be a friend to them and limit their relationships ...he knows my past I know his and we don´t use it against each other instead we use it to understand the fears that may still be a part of us..=)....Nope we didn´t really feel atracted at first I was *engaged* , he had a gf...time went by I had another bf...broke up ...and then I began noticing I had fallen for him I asked him about his feelings and I was lucky he felt the same way for me..