If you had a career and family living in lets say New Mexico and your Long distance guy/girl lived in Atlanta...would you move to be with them??\n\nDid I mention your in love??
216362
Too many times if of the one party's move to be with other it seems to fail. If not from the area this one of the stresses not being with your family. Trying to fit in the new area finding that job,  find friends, and other social actives it is hard all causing great problems in a relationship.
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IF YOU HAVE TO ASK FOR OPINIONS YOU MUST HAVE RESERVATIONS.  I WAS IN A 2 MO. RELATIONSHIP AND WE MOVED IN TOGETHER, IT WAS THE BEST DECISION I EVER MADE, BUT WE WERE READY.  WE ARE BOTH DIVORCED WITH NO CHILDREN.  I HAD MOVED FROM NY AND HE LIVED ON MY BLOCK, WE BEFRIENDED EACH OTHER AND CLICKED, FRIENDS FIRST SEEMS TO WORK.  YES, I KNEW IT WAS SO FAST, BUT I CONSIDERED HOW I CARE ABOUT HIM AND FIGURED THAT WHEN AN OPPORTUNITY ARISES GO FOR IT, THAT IS WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT.  IF IT DOES NOT WORK, I KNOW THAT I MADE AN ATTEMPT.  I FIGURED LIFE IS SHORT, IF I DONT DO IT, I WOULD ALWAYS WONDER WHAT IF.  GOOD LUCK!
272538
Oh that is so awesome that he is going to be an aggie! Be proud that you've found such a great guy!!! It will definitley be hard to be in a long distance relationship, especially since you are both in college. But I think you guys are both smart, so I have faith that you can do it! Gig 'em Aggies!!!
324527
everything is possible... if ur hearts r loyal then distance doesn't matter.. think postive always!!
638430
LD relationships are really hard.  I have been in mine for 6 months now and he lives in another state (3 hrs flying) but we do everything we can to talk on the phone and cam-2-cam.  we are totally in love.  i think that if you love each other and it's mutual... you will wait for each other and it will happen naturally.  i think that anything can happen though.. but anything can happen (cheating, break-ups, etc) even if the person lives in your town!  it just depends on the 2 individuals to make it work.  good luck to you both!
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no, my dad is in the Air Force so we got moved around a bit.\nI was born in Minot, North Dakota\nThen we moved to Alaska\nThen we moved down south to a little island in the middle of the Pacific Ocea, Guam, looks like a little dot on the map.\nNow we live here in Texas. I still want Rueben, a mini horse. He will be brown and white, and I will name him Rueben.\n\nNorth Dakota - born, lived 1 yr\nAlaska - lived 8 yrs\nGuam - little dot, lived 2 yrs\nTexas - So far we have lived here for 3 1/2 to 4 yrs\nbut we have also passed through alot of States when we would drive by car. That is my favorite way to travel, by car.\n\nI plan on moving to Chicago when I graduate from college. I don't know, wherever the Lord leads me there I shall go.
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I met a girl on line.  Now she's my wife and we have a son.  But before this happened I visited her in her county for a number of weeks over some months.  It was only after this time that I felt happy enough to ask her to marry me.\n\nSo I suggest if you can go visit her.  Also is this your first real love?
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My ex was from Cali. ( he lived in San Fran, then Santa Barbara.) Being a mid-westerner myself, I always had pre-conceived notions of people from Cali. I finally went ther in 2004. The people were so chill and laid back! I loved it! I would definetely live there, even though I think I am a little more conservative then some of the people there.
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i would be willing to move to a distant country for someone that i was IN LOVE WITH; not just someone i loved. also, i have been to asia and europe and realize that the world isn't as big as i thought it was. i don't think that moving to a foreign country would necessarily mean that you wouldn't be able to see your friends and family again. you just may not be able to see them as frequently.
627104
If you've talked and both feel it's right, make the move. Sounds like you could be starting a beautiful family together.
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My first questions are 1) how old are you and 2) why are you thinking of moving to Phoenix?  Is this for work, school, both, something else?\n\nIt sounds as if your boyfriend isn't really into this.  It sounds like he likes to stay where he is.  He may or not have a homegirl; I don't know.  \n\nI think you should go if you really want to move to Phoenix.  If you try to force him, he either won't go at all, or will go and then resent you.  I'm sorry but it sounds like a break-up is going to happen because your lives are going in different directions.\n\nIf you move, though, you will be doing what is best for you and what you really want to do.  So go for it.  Sometimes people aren't in the same place in their lives, and it's regrettable, but it happens.  I'm sorry.  You know in your heart of hearts what the right thing to do is -- so do it.  Don't compromise what you really want to do, and don't put your life on hold for a man.\n\nGood luck, no matter what you decide to do.  But whatever it is, I hope that you get your life on track and do what's right for you.  Let him keep up with you, or go his own way.\n\nCheers, K
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There's a trade-off for everything. I moved a lot for career purposes and in my experience, you make new friends whenever you go somewhere. It really expands your mind because you get to know so many different kinds of people.  My family was a 6 hr flight away. The second move was a 12 hour flight. That was hard, but nowadays there are webcams with free voice, etc. Re the love of your life. If she really is the love of your life, marry her and take her along.  I also have a flat in my hometown that I have rented out. Today, I'm 45 and don't have to work anymore, whereas most people have to work until they're at least 65. That is the trade-off.  Whatever decision you make, consider this: Imagine you're 60 years old and looking in the mirror and asking yourself what your life was like. You don't want to be in a position where you'll say: oh, I wish I had done this and that, because then it'll be too late.
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Here's the old mystical I Love Vs. In Love question again. If you Love him and Respect him, ask yourself what would be differant if you where "IN LOVE" with him? You have already stated "we are totally comfortable with each other from day 1. We laugh a lot, rarely argue, understand one another, accept one anothers faults and strengths. The sex is quite fun as well." How else would you quantify a good relationship? Then ask yourself the real tuff question, could you live in England? Are your skills that transportable? Could he live here? Are his skills that transportable?
599571
how lucky we are to live in such a great state, im not originally from here, but have lived here long enough to not want to live eny where else. they can have the big city. im a certified bonafide hillbilly, and i like it .
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I live in Egypt while my husband lives in America. I moved here with my kids so they could have family. But unfortunately there is no job here for the hubby so he must remain in America to work till he can start a business. Then God willing he will move here and we will live happily ever after.
220800
My wife and I live in Atlanta. We WORK!!! GET A DAMN JOB!!!!!!!
298250
If you are fluent in Spanish, like it hot and dry, then I would choose DFW. On the other hand, if you truly want the southern experience, there is no better place on earth than Atlanta.  It is the heartbeat of the south. It's lush and green. Full of culture and heritage. I guess you can tell where my heart lies. I would move to Atlanta in a nanosecond. Good Luck and God Bless