in the begining i was excited and curious but now somehow i find it very disgusting! i cant think about sex anymore without feeling the need to puke! help!
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Porn is highly emotionless.  You have to seperate real experience in your mind with those seen in porn.  A friend of mne worked in a porn shop and was so overcome with porn images he didn't find the naked body exciting at all.  He eventually seperated the two, real and fiction, and met a girlfriend that although could not show him anything he hadn't SEEN bafore, he hadn't FELT it.  Not physically or emotionally.  Porn is aimed at the imagination.  You imagine it happening to you.  Real life is different and far more sensual.  Reacquaint yourself with it.
657997
okay, this is really gross too.  I have a friend (yes really, a friend, not me) that went on a blind date.  She was having a great time and really liked the guy and was trying for a second date.  Well that afternoon (before the date) she was feeling a little "irregular" so she took a laxative.  So by the end of the date she had been "holding it in" if you know what I mean.  The guy pulls up in front of her house and you know the usual first awkward kiss is supposed to happen. but instead my friend farted spraying poop everywhere.  All over herself, the seat and the upholstery in the car which I might add was beige!  Needless to say the second date never happened.  Oh yeah,  did I mention she was wearing white?
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I don't think it's an issue do you??? I mean you're taking the whole sex maniac thing to a whole new level but as long as you're happy.. who cares what we have to say about it??? \n Hey all I got to say is: If you have an Itch ... go ahead and scratch!!!
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Maybe the people who changed were not all that stable to begin with, sorta like they were searching for something or they didn't have a great self image, then they had sex and thought they had found the answer to their void.   It is also like taking that step into something you know you should not be doing, then once you do it, feel like, what the hay, I've already messed up, why stop now.  I admire you for staying a virgin. Save it for marriage, you will not regret it, but please don't marry just so you can have sex. (know what I mean?)
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Disgust for your own body?  Sad story.\nI do it all the time, love it, and would never stop!  In fact, my husband helps!\n"Classic" lady??  Nice try.  \nPRUDE is more like it.  Get in tune with your own body, then come back and answer these mature questions...How can someone know what you like, if YOU don't even know!!
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Ok, this may shock you as I have different feelings about sex than you do but hear me out. Sex is not that big a deal. It is a natural thing that occurs everywhere all the time. Losing your virginity is NOT that big a deal either, it shows you the beginning to a world of natural instincts, however it has consequences so be careful from now on. Get it out the way (not from a young age mind you, I was 17 when I lost mine and that is a common age even though sometimes I feel the kids of today are starting to blossom earlier - I am going on now...). Nothing came from having unprotected sex did it? No babies on the way? No STD's or diseases? No? Then realise that you had a good time with no consquences of a physical nature and move on, not point dwelling on the past - you can't change it. Just learn from it. Don't be afraid to try new things either, its fun and you're not the first ever to try it ok.\n\nLife is not always that bad, not always great but not that bad either. Partying is always fun, but going to the extreme and partying all the time is bad for your health. I suggest you join a group or get a job (good luck with the interview by the way) and meet new people that way. Charity work is always rewarding and you meet new people too. As for your roomate, there are ways to live with people even if you don't like them. I work with guys I can't stand and as I am in the Army, its hard to get away from them, I learn to deal with it. It strengthens my character to be the bigger man and act like the mature adult I am rather than stoop to their lows. Just remember that there are others out there less fortunate than yourself and pick up your head. \n\nOn the God thing..... I am agnostic. If he exists, which in your case you believe he does, you must seek him, not the other way around. He won't come and say hey, pick your chin up and be better for it. You have to do it yourself, and thank Him for the realisation that the only thing you can do to help someone is to show them how to help themselves. \n\nSo remember, sex is great, join a social group, find a charity to work for or a paying job (school first though), live life with your head held high and proud, and look after yourself in a hard world. Good luck.
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If you have these feelings after sex, it means you have emotional problems that need to be treated by a professional. Sex is a beautiful act that should be performed between people that love each other, and would never leave you "sick and empty." I hope you seek help because this reaction is not normal.
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you've gone overboard LOL\n\njust hope it's not nasty!
414758
not only is this disgusting..but,what if he did that to you..yes it can be transmitted..go get treated,and stop spreading your joy
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Trust me, this is so normal and I actually feel like this all the time.  I love giving my BF oral sex. Just the thought of tasting him right now makes me quiver.  I also think that it has a lot to do with me making him feel as good as I do.  To know that he's 6 years older than me and I've given him the best oral sex in his life makes me overwhelmed.  I actually thought that I was the only one who felt like this, Thanks girl you made me feel a lot better
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To be honest I was not satisfied, I had this built up image of sex in my head, I thought it was going to be great and enjoyable. But it wasn't, It's not the same as pleasuring yourself lol, because your starting off with that person you have to learn what each others likes and dislikes are, but that was just me, I dont know about other people, I talked to some people and they felt the same way but I guess thas something that changes with time or from person to person well hope your first time is a blast! have fun.
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I am not even going to waste my time and reply to most of what you are saying because you said yourself you CAN'T GET IT. But I just wanted to point out that you are wrong about animals and homosexuality, there is large numbers of research that shows homosexual activity in animals, all types of animals. So who says it isn't natural?\nHere are just a couple of links to studies done on it. One artical is even from the national geographic.\nSo maybe you should REALLY know what you're talking about before you get on a homophobic rant.\n\nEDIT\nOk since you really want to know. Then no I don't see it as an illness, and to me it is prefectly natural. As another poster said, I can still look at a man and see him as good looking, but when it comes to sex I am just not interested and i actually get grossed out at the thought some times. \nCan you think of a man that you know that you would NEVER want to think of sexually and if you did it would totally gross you out? Like a family member or maybe some nasty dude that lived down the street or the plummer with the hairy crack? Thats how I feel when I think of most guys sexually, I don't want any sweaty stinky .....thing coming anywhere near me.\nNow women on the other hand...true some of us can be sweaty and stinky and nasty but over all women are just beautiful, everything about a woman is beautiful, inside and out.
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This is the curse of our modern society, i really felt it as i read your Q. I have an uneducated theory,that sais give in to it, the regret only gets worse......Unexpressed emotions get inherited by our children... this goes for sexual issues double........ You may explore staying in your confinement but try doing things a little more expressive of how you feel....... shock people.....  but hey i am only 32 and not sure this advice is good,,,,,,,,just a theory,,,,,,,
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Honey this sounds serious you really need to go see a doctor. ecspecially if you used to benge eat and vomit afterwards. 2-3 months is great but at the same time it is not that much time so you could very well be having some problems from it. so go see a doctor no matter what it takes.
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I've been watching. I love it too except the last test I couldn't watch because it made me want to throw up. I have a weak stomach. As long as there aren't anymore shows where they have to eat something gross, I'll be watching.
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what a gross question
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5 guys in one night!!  Aren't u concerned with diseases?  Or getting pregnant?  I'm sorry to tell you, but yeah in my opinion it makes you dirty.  In fact if you were a friend of mine I would have a few other choice words to say to you.  Wrap it up girl, you're gonna end up with some horrible STD if you continue.