People judge to negative about a person when they hear how a person talks and see how a person walks. Without a real explaination from the person him or herself. Thus, there comes at hurt, "retard", "slow", "crazy", and "dumb". Even if that person made perfection for him/herself, people still want to putdown with such words that are fifth and tell people about them that are lies/misunderstanding. I feel people with disabilities from physical to mental are perfectionate people who can do things in life.
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My son has a moderate to severe speech problem, but he is right on track with the rest of his classmates physically and academically, but i agree he is misjudged and people should know that a speech problem has nothing to do with retardation or any other impairment it is simply a speech problem
597254
No.  It is just how some people have fun,or get their point across more aggressively or lack other forms of vocabulary..  Some are just plain rude or demented..:)
96194
Actually good and bad boil down to perception of the person.  For some what is good to them is bad for another and the other way around.  It just depends on the person and their perception of it.
174691
yes its highly agitating.  its so easy for somebody to judge somebody else without ever experiencing their problems.  its just one of the many forms of ignorance.  next time you start to get mad when somebody talks like that, consider where its coming form.  a most likely completely uninformed individual.
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I think that it is a combination of both things. Some people just are attention freaks and have to have attention (this is probably because they didn't get enough attention from their parents as small kids). Other people might seriously have some disability or whatnot.\n\nWhatever it is, though, it's pretty annoying to be around these kind of people.
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When I am around people that think or talk negatively all the time, I simply remove myself from that situation.  The negative people are just looking for that additional attention.  By not giving it, you are telling them that that is not cool.  They will either change or be alone.  When you do come across someone that is negative, find things that are positive to talk about.  Just dont let them bring you down with them.
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Everyone is flawed in major ways. We are all driven by feelings, emotions and this just totally messes up with the logic that is everyones dream: Trust and Love. The solution is to not give up hope, because there are still some cool people out there that are honest and genuine. Everyone else is a slave to their own small fears, prejudices and silly mood changing crap. Dont accept it from anyone.
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My wife works with people with disabilties funded partly by the state. \n\nSurprisingly, these people are given excellent care. But i do see your point. \n\nI guess some of the human race forgot what compassion meant, unfortunately.
332269
there are many people that do not have the capacity or the know how to think for themselves. this is an age where most people's opinions are not formed by actually reading or looking at something from several different sources or viewpoints to form their own opinions, but from 4 second soundbites from whatever "news"&#92;entertainment show they choose to believe, or "the did you hear" from someone. sad, isn't it?
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I beleive in it. Some people are really Mentally unstable, However there are people who play the system. I have a friend who acts like she is Bi polar and she is not. Ive know her for years and she was on Welfare for years. Well her kids are older so Welfare told her she had to get a job and she is lazy and really ds not have job skills. She acted like she was having suicidal thoughts. Its all a scam. Well, Long story short she got it. She now gets disability wich is alot more than welfare was giving her and gets disability for 2 of the kids. She made them get tested for ADD or something like that. Its ridiculous. They put those kids on meds and they dont need it. She is playing the system.
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because people are ignorant.they seem to forget that one person can excell at one thing and really suck at another. My sister is dyslexic and very sucessful. I wouldnt worry too much about what others think of you. by posting this question I can tell that you are not a mean spirited person and understand exactly what I am saying. Pehaps they thought they were funny and would get picked for best answer. I dont think so by the way. chin up and keep smiling
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Most people are never really around mentally disabled people so the use of the word becomes a part of their vocabulary as do all slurs. Uunfortunately, when there is nobody around that people think would be offended, it becomes easy to spew it out of their mouths. The USA has a major problem with this. All races and ethnic groups in our country have these double standards.\n\nPeace
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What do you consider normal? Anyone who is just like you? Do you think God placed handicapped people on this earth to benefit themselves? Probably not, many have rough lives. So, that means they are here to help us. To help us to learn to have compassion. \n\nIt's not our place to decide if someone has worth or value. We can do our part to help the handicapped, and it will actually help us. Our lives will be much "fuller" when we are helping others.
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This question is to easy to answer;\n\nthose individuals that you are asking about have no respect for themselves... they recognize themselves as potential failures and therefore; they need to feel better about themselves... \n\nThe plain truth is that after the above thought goes through their unexercised brain..they haven't the ability, or knowledge to express their thoughts in any other fashion.\n\nYou, on the other hand, must be sensitive, caring, thoughtful and highly intelligent....thanx for making our world a better place in which to live.
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well this is kind of yahoo answers, in order to evaluate a situation some judging has to come into play. i don't judge too harshly though but the most important thing is you. i've had people call me some pretty ragged names over the years and quess what? doesn't matter. i have in fact become proud of the traits that most judgmental people hate. i masterbate several times a day if i can find the time and i love it. people tell me i'm a loser for it and thats their opinion but if it really bothered me i'd stop. freedom of speech means everyone from the kkk to the black panthers is allowed to speak their minds freely without worrying about consequences. i personally would rather racist people be open about it so we know they are idiots and can ignore them. rather than have them hide it from us so we don't judge them. so yeah, don't judge people, but if people do judge, who cares, no biggie, ignore them.
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I think it is because everyone has their own defintion of perfect. To each individual, 'perfect' has its own limits and therefore if people or ourselves do not reach that limit, we start to critisize it. Its all part of the way the mind works towards things and the competition in order to get to the perfection. Anything below that perfect limit is regarded as an imperfection and seen as something bad. Its a thing that happens with out us noticing. Its just a natural reaction to how well we expect things to be done, and when they dont reach that standard, we critisize it.\n By critisizing, we push ourselves to do the best we can and improve the task given to us. If we never critisized, and saw everything as perfect, i think everyone would be SO lazy because they would see no point in improvement and advancing forward in life.
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People are self centered. They may be insecure of themselves so they put one down to bring them up. There is positive criticism though, which is tough to take but may be healthy.