I met girl in class 1 to 2 weeks ago.She was very of very good nature & vey good friend,always helpful now i want to propose her but afraid of rejection.
217417
Well i guess you should wait for somemore time and get to know her better.By the way are you in love with her???\nIf yes its better you tell her that you love her.People sometimes lose their love cause they never tell that they are in love just because they are afraid of rejection.Well if you dont tell hr now that you love her you might regret it later.If she says no atleast you will know that she doesn't want to have a relationship with you.Atleast you will not have to guess all your life.
640497
dont be impatient, as it could cause disaster. First step i'd suggest u is to talk to her, like hi! my name is( ur name here), if she responds to it and introduces herself then my dear friend ur ready to go to the second step. compliment her on whatever u see in her, as in  her eyes, her smile etc. try 2 find out if she has any bf or is she going around wid some1. if everything is just fine then look for a special day, like her b'day or the day u see  her mood is quite pleasant. just propose her, and tell her what exactly u feel for her. and im sure it'll work.\n\nAs u said u never talked 2 her so i'd be quite risky to propose her on ur first meeting. 'coz she doesn't know u . Make ur first impression quite impressive one. \n\nHope it works, but touch wood if it doesn't then mail me 2 vineet2seide@yahoo.co.in\n\ni'll be there 4 u.
177756
you are just scared that she will say no still.  My friend tony once told me that for every 10 people you ask out 9 will say no, but the 1 that says yes makes the other 9 rejections worth it....  so just do it!!!
379618
fear of being rejected by a girl whom a guy likes can be overwhelming. Not taking a chance is most likely the course, not that it is the right one, just the safe one.
517904
Well, if you really like this girl, you should try asking her out again.  If the same thing happens, then I would definitely take a hint and not bother again.  I feel if they are interested in you, then they would make an effort to go on that date that you plan.  Sure things come up but if it happens repeatedly, I would take it as a sign.
324053
oh.... I do not see why you would have any problem meeting a wonderful girl!!  you have traveled and most likely learned much about life and people, you are not afraid to work hard, your are going to college  I presume to further your career,you are independent and  have your own transportation... you are on the right track n life ... the only obstacle  I could see is the part time job, which may discourage some women, but not all... Some women will see that you are  going to school and understand how difficult that is with a full time job , and  see that you are a good guy, doing your best, and will have faith in you and your future together...and stand by your side.as long as you have a good personality are an honest, loving, warm,intelligent guy with a sense of humor, you will attract  someone special... so a relationship yes... but not marriage yet, not until your out of school , have a full time job, and you are both ready for that step... my best wishes to you !
451061
If you are too shy to verbally ask her out then maybe you are too shy to be dating. Wait until you mature a bit then try again. How can a date work with just letter writing?▲
361111
don't be shy come on you can do this! you know if you really like her don't be afraid to ask her out.
134157
I think you've waited long enough. If you really like this girl, then why don't start talking to her more often. Become good friends with her and then ask her out, this will take longer, will almost be a sure fire way to get her to say yes, and will eliminate all thoughts of you being shallow.
12238
unexpectedly. i mean girls always like surprises. proposals that come out of the blue are the best proposals i think. if you are going to use the tried and tested, planned dinner date with matching scenery and stuff then she might have hinted on it. no use to sigh for that one.
312466
I think if you like the girl, why not take her.  Eventually, if things work out, she will be meeting your friends anyway. If she likes you i don't think meeting your friends would scare her off. You only live once go for it!!!
274824
yeah, write another poem =] it sounds like things are going well and theres a really good chance she'll say yes if you ask her out..good luck! =]
268845
One word brother, RUN.  This girl is afraid of commitment.  If you are looking to marry her, I would advise against it.  If she is not future minded, were dose that leave the two of you.  Just something to think about.
114153
ok one, movies, not a good place. you dont even get to know her that well then. Go to a resturaunt. Much better. NOW, best thing to do is have the guts, because girls really do respect guys that are WILLING and CONFIDENT in their selves. BUT, where there is a will there is a way. Go to one of your buddies, and if he is friends with her have him go up to her and say "hey, i think my friend here likes you, but im not sure, would you want me to hook you up with em?" somthing like that, that way he isnt saying you DO like her. but he isnt asking FOR you. he is just helping HER out kuz he wants to be "matchmaker" ect. so you are excluded from the shame of rejection. but having the guts is recomended. somtimes you just have to take risks for love. good luck dude.
54217
i know exactly where you are coming from.  remember, us guys like girlfriends.  for the longest time i was in the same situation as you (up until a few months ago).  i never did get the courage - she told my friend who told me.  if you really think you cant ask him with the fear of rejection you could ask a friend of him and you to ask him casualy if he would go out with you.  hope i helped - goodluck
667751
First thing to know is if she has any feelings at all towards you. You don't want to express your emotions if she only sees you as a friend. If there is the slightest indication that something could develop, I would phone her and ask to meet somewhere-alone. \n\nI'd say how I feel and grip my heart just in case I get rejected. Be honest and sincere and don't think too much or else you will stumble on your words. Free your mind and let you words flow.\n\nIf you want to be chicken about it, I'd send her a card with your written feelings inside. I would also add flowers.\n\nBe upfont.\nBe Sincere.\nBe confident.\nGood luck.
406901
Well being a girl myself, what i can say is if you want something then you have to go for it. Just relax and step out of your comfort zone and in doing so you will be rewarded. If she says no, then you still have the triumph of overcoming your fears of the opposite sex. If she says yes then you will feel like your risk has payed off, and you will be even more excited about your risky behavior. Life is too short you have to go for what you want!