My friends kathy and thalia were very close but then i went out with this boy named jay i  used 2 get jealous when all jay wanted 2 do  is talk about my friends so i got jealous and some things 1 of the things i did was that i told my kathy that i hate her and that she a bad friend for evr wanting 2 go out with my man while i was going out with him
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Your friend was wrong to making a move on your bf, if she did. Maybe your boyfriend was talking about your friends because he knows how important they are in your life? Try talking about it with all three of them. Get each other sides of the story before you jump to anymore conclusions! Good luck!
466046
same thing happened to me when i was younger! this is what i did. i was still her friend but we werent close as we use to be. now i found new friends who hate my bf but they respect our love for each other♥
37135
I am very good friends with 2 of my ex-boyfriends.  We have been friends for years.  They're both great people... it just turned out that we made better friends than partners.
489334
Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
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you should go with him and if your friend gets mad at you then she is not a real friend.just because she does not like him does not mean she has to start being friends with him.but if you do go with him and yall are still friends just do things with him when she is not around.
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exactly\nthis girl used to be my friend well she want really my friend just my friend's friend but we all hung out together but i never liked her and i just tolerated her because of my friend\nshe would try to be cool and say all that..but it just annoyed and she was such a bitch..i even asked her why she spoke like that and she just stared at me and said why are you such a nerd..and that is so stupid..she was new and trying to fit in..but she left my friend \nshe had just used her to make other friends\neven though my firend had beene her first friend when she was new\nso whenever i hear people talk like that it just annoys me and the only reason they speak like that is to try to be cool
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well, i was looking forward to my 16th birthday a couple of yrs back and had invited heaps of people from my grade. everything was fine until my mum had me get all their house numbers. i was excited to hear they were actually gonna come, but once that happened, they became weird and said that they 'may' come. im just like, ok. on the day of the party, i was waiting a while, and my best friend came, but it didnt seem like any1 else was gonna come. i got a call from this guy who i sorta had a crush on and he asked me if guys that were his friends at school were gonna b there, and i told him that they said they would, and so they probably would. unfortunately, none of my friends from school came. i had my family there, like my cousin laura and my cousin elizabeth, n my cousin jessica came too, n the music was kinda cool, but i still felt bad because out of all the people that i had invited from skool, only 1 came, my crush, expecting that the guys were gonna come. (my best friend had left school the previous yr, in yr 10). i thought things couldnt get any worse on my birthday. then, all of a sudden, a fight breaks out between my cousins laura and elizabeth - a sorta catfight (slapping, hitting, shoving). elizabeth locked herself in the bathroom while laura stormed off to my parents room, fully angry with elizabeth. laura's sister tania also was angry with elizabeth and called her names n told her off. suddenly, my birthday had turned into a horrible day, with me having to try to settle things down. i spoke to each one of them - elizabeth, laura and tania, and they calmed down a bit, but once elizabeth came out, they got into another fight b4 things were settled down again. apparently they were fighting over some guy. when they all left, i went to my room crying. it was the worst birthday ever! and not how i want to remember my sweet 16th.
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Never break up a friendship b/c u are insecure. Just tell ya man that she said those things so he can handle it. Being jealous of the friend isn't gonna help anything.
47053
She is just jealous that one of your friends is way closer than the other one. Try to talk to her. It may work.
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Ummm.  If you hate her, then is she really your best friend?  Seems contradictory to me.  \n\nWhy don't you just hang out with people you actually enjoy spending time with? \n\nGood luck.
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I had a friend just like him. My mother was diagnosed with cancer and was going through treatments. I was helping her as much as I could and my "friend" kept going on with drama stuff in her life. I got angry and told her to stop being so self centered and look what others are going through. She still did not get it and I finally wrote her a letter telling her that I could not take any more of her drama. It was stressing me out too much and I needed all my focus to be on my mom. To make a long story short, I ended up not calling her anymore and when she called me, I told her I could n't talk on the phone right now. I ended our friendship.......Do whats best for you, free your self from this drama. Theres nothing worse than having other people think YOU are a drama queen too because you hang around him.
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Ive been in that situation. In a perfect world, it would be great if you could all hang out together at the same time and be cool.  But since this is the REAL world and they actually HATE each others guts... for your sanity and out of respect for your friends, keep them apart ALWAYS.  Good Luck!
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she is jealous of your friendship with him especially the fact that you have been since kindergarten \na lot of people are like that\nshe is afraid of losing you \nprobably the only one person she hangs out with \nis you so ask her to try a different approach when all of you guys are together\ncause the one she has now is just causing friction \nask her to try being nice and talk about something that interests her and him\nboth\nif she is a real friend she will at least try to approach him with a different attitude
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My bestfriend was a guy and we started out like you but I was the one in your position.. my friends didnt want me to date him b/c they wanted him. Then one day things clicked and we've been together for two years. I say Screw your friends listen to you.
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You probably should have asked your friend what her plans were before you hung out with you other friends, maybe she just assumed since you had already asked her to hang out that the plan was still on.She's probably feeling like you ditched her, send her an email explaining that you thought since she didn't let you know if she could hang out with you that she couldn't so you made other plans, and just tell her you're sorry.She'll get over it.
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My b-friend and his ex talked the whole first year him and I were together.  She too broke up with him and I knew she really hurt him.  It drove me crazy too.  1)  I had to decide if I trusted my b-friend or not.  If I didn't trust him then I shouldn't b with him.  \n2) If the two of them ended up together then him and I weren't meant to be.  \nWe've been together for a little over a year, the ex has faded quickly.  Just hang in there, she's an ex for a reason.
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Sounds like this B has a lot of jealousy towards you. Ignore it. She was never really your friend to start with.