I have found myself in a situation that if I choose my job then I will have no chance with a relationship that I am working on then if I choose the relationship I don't know how far I could have gone in my current job.
204513
Because bothe dont go together they are born enenemies
419355
Don't rush things.  Go to the interview and weigh all of your options if you get a job offer.   If you turn down the interview you might regret it and might resent him for your mistake.  He's already told you he's not ready to make a major commitment yet, so just things play out the way they should.  Whatever you do don't force him to make a declaration of love to you just because you might be leaving.
485005
Well this is part of our life. In our life nothing is plain sailing and all these are part of our challenges and it depends on how you take it.  I used to feel the same way as you are but after giving some thought I feel that we should face the challenge. No matter what sort of working environment you are in, you face the same problem.\nYou really heve to take it positively and take things at a step when it comes. You can give it a try and I believe you can do it.\nAll the best to you
144965
sometimes you don't know you can only hope.I have been in realtionsh;ips where I was in love and thought that all was great, just to find out that the other person could not stand to be in the relationship. I have also been on the the opposite side of the relationship. Time tells no lies.
415999
If you like your job, keep it friends.  Most relationships come to an end at some point.  If you are very lucky, one of them lasts forever.  The rest end.  So this will probably end, too, and then you will be seeing the guy every day.  That cannot be comfortable.\n\nGood luck!!
406896
Think twice before you start something with someone you work with. If she is not interested in you, you will feel uncomfortable around her in the future. How will that affect you at work?
187203
If you want a relationship to work long-term, each person needs to have a life outside of their relationship.  However, you need to be able to trust the person you are with.  It sounds like you have some reasons why you don't feel like you can trust him.  If that's the case, you need to consider if this is the relationship you want to be in.
261974
Get out now.  The longer you drag it on the worse it will be.  No job is worth giving up your happieness either.  You do not want to be in a marriage when you don't love someone.  Trust me I know.  I'm married with two kids and not in love with my husband anymore.  If I'd have known what I know now....
654949
It sounds like right now you shouldn't choose either.  You need to take some time to yourself and figure out what you really want. Otherwise you're going to end up getting hurt or hurting them in the process.
667740
I would pass on it. Being happy at your job is priceless. You are so lucky. Keep excelling at what you are presently doing, and a better opportunity will probably come up sooner or later. Just keep on looking and making contacts.
99706
Your right but there are some exceptions.  There are things often that you know you can't work through or differences that exist that aren't even things that involve working through.  You can try everything possible to make a relationship work but at some point no matter how much you love someone you have to be honest about if it is really a relationship that can work.
516214
If I feel like I'm seeking someone and there aren't any choices that may be good enough, then there isn't any choice to be attached. I haven't met any guys recently whom I was very attracted to. It was like I was looking for something I knew it was not gonna be there, because that's what they are and they can't be changed. So, I wouldn't want to settle for less if they didn't seem good enough for me.
225526
You should probably be looking to yourself for the answers. You are probably the only one that truly knows what happened, and why.\n\nIf this is about a job, the simplest solution would seem to be finding another job and avoiding the mistakes of the past. Mistakes that caused you to lose the first job - unless that's what you really wanted.\n\nIf this is about the meaning of life, I truly do not believe that anyone has the answer. There is no single answer. You decide what you get out of life and you decide what the boundaries of your life will be. If losing your job has made you reflect on greater meanings, then maybe you're already on your way to better things. \n\nRight and wrong paths only seem that way when we are on them. Until then, they are merely options. Life is a series of choices and all choices can lead to right or wrong. It is how we learn from those choices, and how we apply that knowledge, that makes future choices easier and more productive.\n\nAll I am trying to say is that a job is not going to answer all of life's questions, and neither is losing one. If your life of choice is no bigger than your present vocation, then you don't really need many answers, do you? Relax. Figure out what went wrong. Learn from the experience. Get your life back on track.\n\nBest of luck to you.
250928
You sound as if you are young and just starting out so please take the new job. Your current job can now be a good refernce since they were willing to increase your hours to keep you there. Also, if you feel you are leaving the current job in a bind and your new job is parttime maybe you could still help out until they find someone more permanent. This way you never "burn your bridge" at the current job. Good luck and remember, your new job has benefits and opportunity for growth.
517660
I'm 17 and I had never had a girlfriend. Sometimes I feel that I need to share with someone but when I analise the ending of my friends' relationships I feel it's OK to take the time to choose.
595512
You may not know what you want to do but it is likely you know what you DON'T want to do.  That is a beginning.  Next take a look at what you do with your spare time.  What hobbies are you interested in.  Computers? Photography? Games? Stamp or Card Collecting?  Look for an association between your 'hobby' and what could possibly be your 'career'.  There are many jobs/careers out there that you may not have thought about before.  You know what you don't like.. you are half way there!
485313
Work relationships are bad news.\n\nFocus on someone that is not in your business world.