This 34 woman lets the kids hang out at her house and party.\nThe 34 woman's boyfriend 18 years old. She is teacher at another school not the same as my neice, but she did teach at my neices school 1 year thats how found the 18 year old boyfriend.
200616
prettyyyy sick!!!!!!!!!
365179
Here's one for you, I'm 25, and my boyfriend, whom I've been with for almost a year now.. is 18. And believe it or not, it works amazingly well, I've never been happier and he's far more mature and loving than my ex-husband ever was (and he's my same age). How many 18 year olds do you know who fall in love with divorced women with two kids? LOL He's really amazing.\n\nI don't think age makes too much of a difference, as long as you're both LEGAL.\n\nAlso a friend of mine's fiance is eleven years older and they've been together for years, even have a child together.
218833
Why not just be an adult and ask the other set of parents?  Let's try to stop putting children in the middle of our quarrels.  It sounds like there is a bit of a feud going on here, so keep it off of school property.
386313
If your boyfriend says shes just a friend, that's probably all it is. In school, my best friends were boys. I didn't mess around with them, we just enjoyed talking. Girls were somewhat boring, worrying about clothes and make up and cheerleading, etc. I loved music and art. I even took drafting, we had coed drafting, it was great. alot of cool guys were in that class. I miss my boy "friends" all the time. Even now, my best and closest friend is  a guy, we just have more to share than any girl. And we will never get intimate, ever. We are both married, but we don't get together with our spouses, they would be bored because our conversations wouldn't include anything relating to them. As long as sneaky stuff doesn't start happening, everything should be cool between her and your boyfriend.
661985
Man this line is long... have you rode this ride before?\n\nLOL. Well there can't be anything wrong with it... but it all depends on the age of the kids how close they are together and how many guys she's been with since then and how many was she having an affair with at the time seeing other guys. I know I might be confusing but it all depends.
29768
They have to set a date somewhere. How much does that sort of thing affect you now? Seriously, so they're with a different group, and a year later. Big deal. It really means that they will be one of the more mature kids, that could be a great advantage, certainly better than being one of the least mature when you hit puberty!
4977
not a problem. married a woman that is 7 years older than me. and have a couple buddies that married older woman
59298
Her parents obviously aren't paying enough attention to where she is, what she's doing, or anything else. An 8 year old can't just walk into the gas station and buy a pack, someone has to be buying them for her. I can't stand parents who don't keep tabs on their kids. Sadly, she'll probably be the 14 year old pregnant girl with a drug problem.
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Unfortunately, there's no real way to do this without somoeone getting hurt, but my 14 yr old step-daughter has a suggestion - maybe get your niece to 'sus' out the circle of friends to find out if any of the other girls like him (apparently this is common in large circles), & then with the permission of the other girl, your niece could drop a few hints to the bf, & let him know that it's okay for him to date this girls if he wants & that she could set it up for him.  \nMy personal feeling is to teach your niece the right thing now, & get her to sit him down somewhere private, away from the 'circle' & just be honest with him & explain how she feels, making sure she assures him that she considers him a good friend, & that sometimes having a good friend is better than having a bf or gf. I found this worked for me at 15, with the bf at the time ending up being my VERY, VERY BEST friend for 15 years, until his untimely death at 30, & it's something I will always be grateful for & treasure forever. Even now at 41, if he were alive, I just know we would still be inseparable friends.
356517
I think it's wrong. Now correct me if I am wrong but what can a 17 yr old boy have in common with a 35yr woman? Woman are more mature than men, let alone she is a self made woman she has a career he is still trying to have one. So she is always going to pay for everything, and buy him clothes and video games, and maybe his 1st car at that too. What about his parents they must think it's crazy, what if he has a curfew isn't she going to get tiered or better yet how do you introduce him to family and friends"oh this is my student and lover"?...not a good idea
594884
I am not close to being an expert, but let me just say this. I am 35 and I am a single mother of three kids. I have a fifteen year old, a six year and a four year old. So I have only two of them in school right now.\n\nMy 15 year old son is on honor roll and my six year old daughter just received high honors. \n\nI am not bregging but only trying to paint a picture. I do not force any kind of studying habits. I think my success has been mostly more about how I raise and communicate with them.\n\nGrowing up I have never talked baby talk with any of them and they all talked exceptionally well when they were little. So well to the point people would always ask how does you little girl or boy talk so well, they are using sentences and they are so tiny.\n\nMy son has told me that the reason everything comes so easy to him is because half of the things he studys in school are things that I have included in everyday conversation with him so he already knows about it and it gives him the opportunity to participate in conversation in class and it makes him strive more when he knows about it and the teacher is impressed.\n\nIf my kids have a question while watching tv I answer it and bring up other things in relation. If they don't want to watch the news I don't have a problem with that, I watch and telll them later about all the things that are going on.\n\nMy son told me at school for his graduation they played a movie they made of all the major news and events that happened in the past decade and when they showed things like Tim Mcvey, Jon Bonet or even the last space shuttle that blew up and he said that after the movie his friends were saying they didn't even know who or what half the things in the video were.\n\nMy son's comment was "Don't these kids parents talk to them?"
257775
I wouldn't do it.  When I was her age I had a lot of older friends who bought alcohol for me and it just allowed me a lot more opportunities to drink than I would have had otherwise.  Also, my husband had a brother who was about 6 years older than he was and same thing, he had access to lots of stuff he should not have been doing.  I would understand if it was JUST your sister and you gave her a simple girlie drink while you were watching a movie or something, just one, but definately not her friend.  You never know how it could effect her, what if she did something stupid or had a bad reaction or even told another friend who told her parents who told the girl's parents.. you could go to jail or be sued.. not worth it in this day and age.  You don't have to appear cool to 14 year olds.. with that age difference you are more of an adult role model.  Good luck, I'm sure it is tough.. but definately not the friend!
51331
Well, let me make this as painless as possible. My daughter is 16, and if she EVER did that, she wouldn't move for a year! And I'd really feel sorry for her boyfriend!! LOL!
382802
Something does not add up you been with him 7 years and he has a2yr old by someone else ! Yes she is trying to be funny tell him to tell her don't call that's just ridiculous . She needs to get a life using the children played out a long time ago.
542039
Seems like she is making some bad decisons Mom!  But you are allowing them and at the same time trying to restrict them!  You can't do both.  Hard mission as her Mother.\n\nAdvice:  She has made the transition from needy child to adult situations.  BUT, she is now back in YOUR home?  You can instill a curfew regardless of her age out of respect to the peace of mind in your own home.  Demand that she respect that!  Stick to it, or she should locate her own level of permission by moving out or the boyfriend needs to allow her to move in with HIM!  And he probally won't (let's hope) I don't agree with the 28 year old Father of 3 dating an 18 year old at all. \n\nYou absolutely can NOT balance what you want for your daughter and what she wants for herself.  Requiring a time frame for her to be home is different from when she was strickly under your wing.  \n\nThe rules change when she becomes a house quest, self sufficent and reliable to her word.    Sit her down, talk to her, explain your thoughts and concerns.  Give her the ground rules for returning home.  Give her a time frame for making her way back out of her parents home.  6 months should be sufficent.\n\nShe lies due to her feeling like an adult, but still answering to Mom.  Tell her she is an adult, but living with Mom, thus she does have certain obligations toward the family.\n\nI understand your anger Mom.  Give allowances, take no acceptions.
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how many 50 somethings do you see at the school gates??\nhe has done the bringing up kids bit and is now prob just looking forward to a easy life now the responsibility of bringing up kids has gone \nyou really need to talk to him about this and not ask on here yes you'll get a lot of advise but no answers, you'll only get them from talking to your partner,\nfor the record im 38 and would never have another child too old but that's just my personal view and not worth toffee
86267
5th grade is way too young to be trying to work out relationships. Neither one is mature enough to even know what they are doing. They are just mimicking what they see older kids doing. Plenty of time for relationships, just have fun for now.