He's depressed about not having a girlfriend right now and he's only 19. I've told him many things, like stop searching and the right one will find you, and stop worrying you're a great guy and when you find someone she will be one of the luckiest girls in the world. I don't know what else to tell him, can you give me some ideas?
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19 is a hard age to not have a mate, it seems most people are hooked up so that can make him feel left out.  It's important that he finds joy in LIFE, not in somebody.  If you rely on another person to make you happy, you won't be happy much at all.  What are his interests?  Many people don't cultivate their interests, they just watch TV and wait for life and love to happen to them.  He needs to get out there and develop interests in life, and not worry about a girlfriend so much.  I'm sure he has talents etc., so he needs to explore that and maybe the loneliness will fade.  Good luck!
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You have to realize, he is a guy, and sounds like a young and immature one at that. People in general do not think about things before they do them, and this guy sounds like he really does not care about anyone but himself. If I were you, I would look at it in a positive manner... At least now you know how he is and you don't have to worry about dating the guy then finding out he is that way. You are much better off. Besides, he may have made that comment because he is so insecure about himself that he has to put someone else down just to bring himself up. Don't worry about it, there are a million good guys out there looking for a great girl, you just have to look in the right place. And by the way.... Looking for guys in clubs you rarely find love, but you normally find a lot of cocky jerks. Good Luck in your search!
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i would say 'see ya later' and go on with my life. i know it must be hard since you have liked him since the 5th grade but if he doesn't want a girlfriend at this moment, don't wait for something that may never come.\n\njust go on with your life and don't be afraid to meet other guys. you never know, you might meet someone who wants to be with you?
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Humm, The sad thing is soem boys/men arent very talkative like we are. I would suggest just telling him how you are feeling. Also dotn worry too much about it just have fun and enjoy your youth, go out with soem friends etc.
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well if he want to fullfill his drean what ever that is he may have been sparing you the heart ach of you being put second in his life and his dream always first. it is always easier to tell the person at first you can not do a girl friend and a career at once. or he is not really that into you and this is the best way to tell you, not to be mean
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Grin and bear it, dear : And be on the lookout for an even better guy !\nThe world is full of nice guys, waiting to be found !
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he probably just needed somebody to talk to, don't neglect or ignore him now he's feeling so low...i suppose it wouldn't hurt to get to know the guy!  find out whats up with him, and tell him if he ever needs to talk that you're there for him!\n\nHe needs a friend, be strong and stick by him u neva know u might like him in the end!\n\nGL hun\nx
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It won't last. There's no way. But maybe you should tell him how you feel about his gf. Don't worry about it too much though, it won't last long at all. I wouldn't talk either if i were you. Good Luck
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There are actually a lot of guys out there that are your brother's age who have never had a girlfriend either.\nDoesn't by any means signify that they're gay.\nIt just means he hasn't found the right girl yet.\nThe fact that he's really shy could be the factor as to why these other girls didn't return his calls.  Maybe he's still a little too hard to talk to?  Maybe he's just getting used to the idea of communicating with the females and just hasn't found his "niche" yet.\nThe fact that your mother babies him doesn't mean anything, either.  It just means that he's most likely to want to settle down with a girl who will treat him the same way, is all.\nThere really is no "recipe" for homosexuality.\nI wouldn't think too much about this.
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Whatever you do, dont give him too much pity! A man likes to feel in charge, he wants to feel like he is valuable, maybe you should suggest some little projects he could do around the house; upon his accomplishment of a project you should reward him ;). Try not to talk about his feelings or what you think about his situation too much, no doubt he is thinking about this all the time, let him know you will be there for him no matter what, not verbally to much, but just by your presence, the ambience of a woman is very nice to a man, but dont talk about the current situation too much whatever you do! your conversations should be future-looking, and if he doesnt want to talk, please respect that!
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Talk about it in a mature way. Be open, honest and direct. Tell him you need assurances your not some sort of sextoy or friend or whatever. This may freak him a little, but it's better than being in the state you are in. It is better to know that waste energy wondering and imagining.\n\nYou may be hurt with the direct approach, but it beats just blowing the whole thing without even knowing. It could be that this guy finds it hard to express his feelings (most men do), so just be gentle, be honest and be natural. \n\nIf he says no, then don't let it bother you, you are not the problem, it's him. This world is huge and full of hundreds of thousands of singles all looking for someone to enjoy spending time with. Enjoy life, don't waste it on worry x
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if you tell him what you told me then that is a good way to express your feelings. If he doesn't like you then, he is not the right guy for you. I bet your a great girl and he missed out on someone terrific!☺\n                                   ☺♥♫ Your friend,\n                                                            Chuchi
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If you have this much doubt, chances are you havent seen a clear sign and should walk away before you get humiliated or humiliate yourself. Chances are he's just a really nice guy who has sisters and and great parents he's learned from. If you want to know you need to straight up ask him and dont' play games. Just say "Listen, are you seeing anyone or looking for a relationship, I am just wondering? " and be serious, say it in a way where he wont really suspect you, or you will have outed yourself.
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what do u mean by "big stuff??".c'mon!!remember...drops make an ocean.make them sit together and sort out the bones of contention.and if u r concerned bout the guy...go up to him n ask him to keep that smile,intact!!the most important thing right now for him is to keep up his confidence!!rest of it will follow.if the girl isn't interested even then...tell him,he deserves something MORE special.ask them to go out for a movie or anywhere.some place where they get time EXCLUSIVELY FOR THEMSELVS!!GUD LUCK!!
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I'm not going to call you a home wrecker, like someone did. You just know what you want, but you also know you can't have him. Just let him know the posit on your in. Tell him you like him, but he's got a gf, and you don't want things to be more difficult then it already is. Tell him, you guys can continue to talk as long as it wont go further until he's ready for it.
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easy.  just tell him how you feel.  Guys like honest girls who know what they want and are not afraid of telling people what they want.  I bet it will work.
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Too boring and serious?  He sounds like a jerk who expects a girl to entertain him.  You are well to be rid of an idiot like that.  Just give a half-smile at him, like you are in on some cosmic joke or something.