im 14 right now, and I have not yet had a date, or a kiss. I've had plenty of hugs, but i feel like i'm not getting anywhere...is this normal? when did you have your first date/kiss?
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I think its normal...i didn't have my first kiss until i was 15 and a half..and that was on my first date..i don't think there any nothing wrong with it...a first kiss and date is something that usually catches you off guard so don't worry cause when your not expecting it ..its going to happen ..watch..
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my friend had her first kiss like a month ago at the age of 12. i haven't had mine (im also not allowed to kiss, so that might have something to do with it), Lots of my friends (we are all 12 or 13) have not had there first kiss, except the guy that kissed the girl mentioned above, that was either his first or second. my other friend had her first kiss the same night, and kissed him again twice that night :-), and the guy that she kissed had kissed before  like when he as in 6th grade. and it was all just pecks.
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THANK YOU for asking this question.  i will soon be 15 and am in the EXACT same situation...ive been asked out before but the guys always seem annoying and i want a bf.  no, you're not weird, atleast i hope, b/c this culture is just getting annoying.  not everyone needs a relationship so early, and though i really wish i had my first kiss and am kind of depressed about it, i kind of think of it this way(though i wish i'd ACTUALLY believe it myself): by the time i get my first kiss the guy im with will be mature and it will probably be a magical night...i just wish i wouldn't have to WAIT so long! well good luck and come talk to me if you find a way to overcome this problem(just answer one of my questions)\n\n<3\n\np.s. i just editied this...and actually some of the ppl who said u were strange i went and commented on, b/c i think it is RIDICULOUS to have had your first kiss at 5, doesn't that sound a bit stupid?  you'll find a nice guy who would rather be with a nice girl than a girl who thinks its more important to have been a baby prostetute than a lady...especially a smart lady....just go to school and be the best you can be...then, in 10 years, when you are making lots of $ and you're friend is a hooker, your husband and you can talk about how strange SHE is.  hehe good luck!<3
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If you don't feel ready to date then don't.  When me and my ex broke up about 2 years ago (we've been together for a year)  I didn't want to date anyone for a year...and I didn't date anyone.  It's up to when you think you are ready to date again.  It's different with different people.  Some people heal faster than others.  But in the mean time you should keep busy.  Do things that you like to do.  After we broke up, I did a lot of volunteering.  That made me feel good because I was helping ones in need and it made me realize that things could be a lot worse than breaking up with a boy/girlfriend.  So just find things you like to do and keep your good friends around because they can be a great help as well.  Most importantly don't date until you are ready.  Don't let your boys pressure you into dating because that could make the your situation worse.  Well I hoped that helped.
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if you havent had your first kiss yet, make sure it is with someone you like and then you will treasure it forever.\nmine wasnt great but it was jus awkward more than anythin and i was forced into it. wait until your ready and the times right.
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I was about 15 when I first started have those feelings. I just didn't know what they were or how to act on them. I was 25 when I had my first sexual experience. You never forget your first time.
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actually i am impressed that there are still guys out there that arent so pushy. I dont think you are too young to be kissing and trust me everyone feels wierd at first. It really all depends on how mature you are and if your ready to be kissing.  Only do things that you are comfortable doing-and things that you can live with doing-even if it is just a kiss!
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16 to date, dear. I have 4 girls 7, 9, 11, 12. They (the oldest ones) are allowed to have a boyfriend, but in name only. No touching, no dating, the only thing they would be allowed to do is have the boy over here to visit, with me here to supervise. I am shocked that you already had your first kiss. Take it easy, you have the rest of your life, and the sooner you start, the younger you will be when you actually do IT. You don't want to be wearing maternity clothes in the 12th grade. Slow it down, be friends, no dating, and tell those boys to keep their paws to themselves.
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How long have you been dating first off? Is just starting 4 months? or is it more like 2 weeks because normally before I even kiss the girl I wait at least till the 3rd date, or 4th.
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You are a little young to be dating or in a serious relationship, and it's completely normal to feel that way. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise or try to pressure you to grow up any faster. You are a smart person to realize this about yourself and to take your time with your life. Good luck!
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Just continue to live your and be confident in yourself. Don't seem so desperate and anxious. It's okay, everything will come in time. So what you're obese? You know what that means? You weed out all the shallow people and you'll find someone really good. Thats how it was for me...I was 17 when I had my first kiss..and I was kinda fat...and I eventually lost 55 pounds about. But I was glad someone accepted me for me. All the time I was down because I didnt have a boyfriend and everyone else had one and when I was least expecting to meet someone, I did. I was with that person for about a year too. Realize how beautiful you are without a boyfriend and then one will come.
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Of course it's normal...I didn't have my 1st kiss until I was almost 15...I'm 17 now & never had a boyfriend...\n\nI'm not gonna say I know how you feel 'cause I hate it when ppl say that to me, but don't lose hope\n\nSometimes it can be pretty deppressing, I know, but if you think about it, it's probably just for the best...like they say "The longer the wait, the sweeter the reward" ;)\nKeep that in mind, & whenever u feel upset because of this, think positive...tell yourself that the right person is just waiting for the right time\n\nAs for your parents, be glad that they care enough to talk to you about these things...they only want the best for you & chances are, they know wut they're talking about\n\nGood luck :)
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I'm an older girl.....34....but am VERY curious about how teens deal with being gay/lesbian. I didn't come out until 2 yrs ago and didn't have to go through all the hard stuff as a kid/teen. How do you handle the dating scene? I can't imagine it. I'd have been scared to death to ask someone out for fear they'd 1) reject me and then 2) cause me no end of hell in school for it. Would love to know your thoughts on this! Send me a message if you'd like to share!     :- )
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I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN.I ALSO HAVE FOUGHT SO HARD TO WHERE I AM. I HAVE GONE THRU SO MUCH,AND FOR PEOPLE TO JUDGE YOU BY YOUR AGE. I'M 22 and feel as a 30 year old man, i have my own home, my own car and a good buissnes.i have no problems dateing,but i seem to find the wrong kind of woman that likes to control a man,i have a sense of humor and at times i like to release steam on programs like this yahoo answers,but i'm no kid. i also enjoy the good, silly OR deep answers and questions here at yahoo. i don't care about points,i just need to blow out a little steam and survive another day in this life. FIGHTING FOR AIR as you say. i thank you so much for this public thank you,for you gave me confort and i know i am not alone. THANK YOU!
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After recently divorcing from a 16 yr marriage, I went on my first date. It was terrible. He was the worst kisser ever. Now granted, I hadn't kissed another man in over 16 years but I honestly felt like my face was being pecked to death by a chicken! LOL\nI couldn't wait for that date to be OVER!!!!
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weird that you had a girlfriend but never kissed her?  So now that you are back with her you are wondering if you should kiss her?  You have got to be a kid.  If i were dating someone and they never kissed me I would dump them
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It's completely different for different people.  I know people who are 22 who haven't kissed anyone.