Though whom i love not loves me. Today he not even wants to talk to me. He was being one of my close friend. I shared every little feelings with him and today he is not in my life.He hurts me by saying abuse words and told me not to call him any more.When ever i remember those words he have said feel myself very bad thinking i have nothing in me that one loves me.As a person i feel i am a big failure though i give him 100% love, care, trust, friendship but still he not becomes my friend.But still i want him back in my life.I still loves him a lot. Is there any way that he will come back to me?If he once apolozise and wants to come back as my friend i feel very happy.its very painful for me to forget him.And i donn't want to.For him i have done a lots of prayers.God also not want to fulfill my wish then where will i go who will fullfill my wish.I love him from the core of my heart. I always want to marry him. I not even think to marry someone else.I want he too miss me the way i am.Help
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Simply ask yourself a question. Why do you need him? What is so special about him? Do you love him or you only want him to love you? RIGHT THING to do in life is to marry and live with a person who loves you. And in this case he does not love you at all. Thus you NEED a person who will love you and your life will be full of bliss. Look for a person out of so many available in this world and simply leave the person who does not love you.
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Well I'm here right with you... The man I feel in my heart is my soulmate has the same problems as your ex... in fact because of the last incident that occured two months ago, were I came home from my father's after visiting for a few hours and he became very physically abusive, I left him... but i guess my heart stayed with him.. I still keep in contact with him, we talk twice a week, I love him more than anyone could ever imagine... he knows that I would take him back but he would need to get help... we tried once a year ago while we were together, but he didn't want the help for himself (he wasn't ready), he was doing it for me... the important thing is not to push them to do anything they don't want because then they may become resentful... I love him so much, it breaks my heart when I see him, because looking at him I know that he's not taking care of himself (he's diabetic, 31, and insulin dependent)... I always remind him that I really fo care and love him, and that when he's ready to get help, I'll be right there with him... just make sure that he wants the help.. if anthing email me... we can chat
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I think that you should lean on God for help and friends. I am sorry for what he did to you. Focus on the baby.. if you need someone to talk to I would be more then happy to be here... I'll pray..
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You still seem to be focused on your own feelings. He doesn't seem to want to talk about it. Why are you bringing up hurt feelings. He has said that it is over and he forgives you. You seem  to be dwelling on it as if you feel that he didn't punish you enough. Sometimes you have to accept that everything will not get the necessary 'closure' that we all need. He might be the type of person who likes to work out their issues quietly within himself. He might be one of the types of men who heal better by just having time and thought. If he feels you are pushing him so you can have some kind of GUILT RELIEF and call it closure, he just might leave. You feel taken for granted but guilty about what you did. You want closure. You feel like he doesn't love YOU. You don't talk about it (You and he). You are willing to talk. You have changed.  He doesn't want to talk about it. He doesn't see the change. I would be tired of you if I was him your whole thing seems so self motivated and yet you are the one who messed up. It depends on what you did because if you cheated, honey he will never forget that and you will have to either stick in there until he is ready to completely forgive you or you can let him find someone who is more interested in the word WE and not HE and I.
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U muz love him a lot to hurt so badly. But u muz also feel feep in your heart this guy is not worth all the heartbreak u are feeling now. He is full of lies. I hope u r not considering going back to him as a leopard can never change his spots. Don't give him a second chance to hurt you! Tell yourself, u r greatful for this learning experience. U have become the wiser for it. U r gorgeous and not lacking in anything. U have the world spread out in front of you. Who is he? He is just a nobody u shld leave behind
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I feel for you, you must be broken at the moment, but sadly I think he has made the decision not to be with at the moment for himself and wants to pull himself together on his own. I would ask him once if there's anything you can do to help, if so than he needs you as a support, if not, back off but ask after him to show you care until he's ready to share his life again, good luck.
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okay well this guy is head over heels for you. i think he is trying so hard because he thinks you feel this way about him deep down and your afraid to get out your feelings. what you can do is be sensitive with him. tell him that your more than flattered and surprised that he proposed to you, but we can only stay simple friends right now. im not ready top get married right now and believe it or not i have dreams and goals i want to make come true. and i know you do too. and dont tell me that the only dream you have is to be my husband. i know you have things to accomplish in life. so thats why. we can still be really good friends b ut thats all we are going to be. if you liked me this much you would accept it and move on."if after that he still doesnt understand then maybe you shouldnt talk to him anymore. try avoiding him if he makes you feel uncomfortable. if he does understand then thats one less thing to worry about in life.
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He's always listening, sweetheart! You might not be able to feel God in your life right now, but he's there, because you have asked him to be with your prayers. God hears all sincere prayers that are in line with his will, and has your best interests at heart. I am so very sorry for your pain, whatever is causing it! I know when I am in need of a shoulder and comfort from God, I read  in Psalms. You might try Psalm  4, 23, 25, 27, 34... all of these may bring you some relief from your feelings. Good luck, and you can get in touch via my 360 page if you need to 'talk'.
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It is important to remember that love is not an emotion, but a commitment. Let's look at Jesus for a moment: When He died on the cross, His motivation was not based on His emotional connection to us. No, He made a commitment, which He intended to stick with until the bitter end, no matter how much it might cost Him. The emotions may have played a part, but it was not the driving force behind His decision. So, even though you may feel distant from Christ, the fact that you are still interested in Him is a good sign. Don't let this go! Make sure to read the Word everyday! This is very important, as without it, you will likely become bitter and resentful towards your friends, your family, and even God. The Word is food for your Spirit Man: without it, you will soon feel the consequences. Also: pray, pray, PRAY! Be completely honest with God. Tell Him how you are feeling. Tell Him that you feel distant. God loves it when we get personal with Him. If you do, I'm sure that your passion will begin to reignite, because it is a sign that you are drawing near to Him. You are making a conscious effort to get to know Him better, and He recognizes this. He will reward you for it. Also, I encourage you to get involved in church events. Communication with other Christians is crucial to your spiritual health, they will encourage and support you in your walk with Jesus (and if they do not, I suggest you find another church). You may wish to get an accountability partner. This person will phone or communicate with you on a regular basis to check on how you are doing in terms of your relationship with God. Pick someone within your church or (Christian!) group of friends that you know you can trust. I'm sure that every Christian has felt this way at some point in their walk with God, I know that I have. Know that you are not alone. Make sure not to base your relationship with God solely on the love you feel for Him. Make sure to serve Him no matter how you feel, and I can pretty much guarantee that you will feel that passion once again. If there is anything I can do to help, feel free to contact me! God bless, and remember, Jesus loves you no matter what!\n\nSomething that I am sure will reignite your passion is the movie called "The Passion of The Christ." It is very accurate in it's portrayal of Jesus and the suffering He went through; all for you!(you may wish to have a kleenex box close at hand, this movie is a real tear jerker).
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i could not imagine what you are going through. i personally have never experience or been in that situation.i think you do not love yourself or feel worthy for someone to love you.that is very important no matter what family drama or life changes you have to go through you must always remember to love yourself.
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Baby that  will hurt, please don't do that, you need to talk to some one who will give good advice and listen to your problems, Do you love the Lord, I hope so because When I have no one to talk to I call on him, He is the only one that helps me thru and in a way of his own he may send someone to me to help or give me an answer to my problem, Honey God Works in amazing ways, just ask him to help you and sincerely know and believe, I promise He will help.  I now how you feel,  a time before I thought about ways of taking my life but the Lord stopped me and I know that if he helped me out of my depression, that he will do the same for you.  God Bless You.
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I feel bad for you.  I'm so sorry that you have lost someone in your life that sounds like a soul mate.  I hope you will always be friends with this person even if you are not "in love with each other or anything like that."  I would not accept loosing this person in my life if I was you.  Not with computers and pen and paper and phones.  I would talk to my Mom about it and I would contact him and tell him how you feel, that he is important to you and that you would like to remain friends even 3000 miles apart.  Good friends are worth the effort.
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wow thats scary,this just happen to me lastnight,but me and her have only been together for 2 months,i feel like my heart has been torn out and burn until there were no ashes left,it really help,i really just feel like dieing rightnow,for you,don't feel that way,please.it will get better,it's just going to take time and you never know in the future yall will get back together, when yall are closer,you know whats scary,this all happen to me the same way,and you should pray,you never know what will happen when you pray,and if you do pray and it doesn't seem like you prayer is comeing true,don't lose hope
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Im a Christian but i still agree with you.. When Im hurt i dont wanna here just pray or go read your bible. Even as someone who does believe in God, that jus doesnt help me be comforted. Thats the problem with a lot of christians, they jus give the "right" answer and move along instead of maybe actually trying to spend some time with the person or really listening. I know how it feels to have your heart broken and what got me thru wasnt reading my bible and praying, although i dont think those thingss are neccessarily bad, it was suport from my closest friends, who probably did pray for me. Anyway i think you should call those people out on it and see what they say, if they knew how you felt about their advice i think it would change their actions next time theyre put it that situation. Well i hope ive maybe helped a lil and that your heart isnt broken anymore. God Bless.
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You have to take care of yourself first. I've been through it. I thought I was strong enough to watch him date and be with other women and still be be he's friend. I stood by him and listened to he's phone calls at 1:00am when nobody would talk to him thinking that he would come back and love me. Of course that never happened. You need to get on with your life. Because I guarantee he knows you will be there for him.And you need to let him know he can't use you
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It doesn't sound like there is much of friendship there.  He probably feels guilty that you wacked out the way you did.  Have you tried giving it time to get over him?  I'm sorry that you had to go to such lengths to get his attention.  I feel sorry for him and for you.  I hope you have learned that no man is worth your life and I hope you realize how lucky you are to be alive today.  Give it time and get into group or one on one therapy or both.  You may feel his is your soul mate but; don't you think that if he was your soul mate, things would not have gone the way did.  If you were truly meant to be, you would be but; your not.  What does that tell you?
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i felt this way for a long time, thought no one wanted me or ever would. i believed his opinion of me, and it did cause low self worth. i still wanted my ex back also even after he did what he did. but i began praying, i stopped blaming myself, stopped expecting any more from that man, know that u have a place in this world, and a purpose, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move on. u stll love him, cause u always will but now u have to make some changes. why allow someone who kicked u to the curb win? why let this hurt influence the rest of your life. we can and do move on, but takes time to rebuild trust, you are filled with resentment and bitterness, when someone hurts us we do feel they owe us something, but that just keeps us feeling bad. so forgive him, as well as yourself. forgiveness doesn't mean they are off the hook for what they did,  forgiveness means they no longer owe us a thing in life. people will want to be around u if u quit bringing up the past, and what happened to u. move forward in life, don't look back, don't define yourself by what he did to u. that's not who u are. find someone else to love, don't love someone who doesn't love u. just move past what he did and know it isn't about u, it's about a selfish man, and another woman who is pulling all of the strings. but there is such a thing as karma, and one day he will get back what he has given to u.