I seem to attract cancer men of ages and I'm in love with a cancer...we seem to have the same values on life and i'm wondering would we be good together
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As long as your in love, that is all that matters.\nGo for it!
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i believe in lifetime relationships... but a  good man is hard to come by..
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CANCER goes with Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus and Virgo. (best match is Taurus)
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I'd say your doomed.  You will wait and hang around this one in your mind perfect guy..and let the world pass you by.  Then one day you will be old and alone with a bunch of kids and no guy will want you..
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Cancer and Pisces are both water elemental signs. If you look at your characteristics I think you might find that you are both moody, changeable types of people. the problem is that cancers need constant love and reassurance. Pisces doesn't know what it wants! Scorpio is also a match for you! p.s. I'm a moody crab too!
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Of course he's suffering inside, but that just comes with having a cancer sun. we worry, hate rejection and are very sensitive. but we always have a way of coping with it. usualy you can judge how bad it really is by looking at how bad his reactions are (which will usualy be goverend by his moon sign). but if you truly want to not see this guy, then i would make it a clean break before he can sink those clingy cancer claws into you again. even the littles bit of concern thrown his way can show you may be having second thoughts, we can be very easily led on.
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story of my life.. 21 but am attracted to men anywhere from late 20's to even 50's.  And I have discovered there are alot of us May-December lovers out there... something about am older man just makes me feel more comfortable...
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No!  You are not wrong to look for a relationship.  Being alone is very scary because you have no one to talk to and share your fears with.  No one to embrace you through those difficult times.\n\n If you have a terminal illness, that means that you have but a short time to live.  People normally look for a long term relationship so that they can invest their lives in it.  You have a known limited time to live, so investing their time and emotions in you is short, and roller coaster like because you could go at anytime.  It would take a very special person whom is willing to overlook your condition, and there are not too many of those around.\n\nIf you do not want to die alone, seek your family out and spend it with them.  If you are not in speaking terms, this is the time to mend fences!  If you do not have any family,  find a Bible believing Church with support groups whom will be there for you and with you.\nSpend more time with God.\n   If your terminal illness is related to sexual immorality ask God for forgiveness!  He is listening and hurting for you; because He loves you!\nIf you need someone to talk to, I will make it so that "you" can IM me!  It is not what you are looking for, but having someone to talk to can help you through the hard times.\nWrite a little note under your message and I will work it out to communicate with you.\nGod's Blessings and All My Best Wishes
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I think you should consider if the man will live long enough to finish raising your children and be there for you in your later years.  I was told by my parents to find someone within three year of my age and that did not work.
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Definitely.  They are both very into the home and family life as well as possessing a strong sensuality.  The Taurus will appreciate the Cancer's seductive sexuality and the Cancer will benefit from the Taurus' down-to-earth mentality (and in-bed attention too). The Taurean laid-back attitude helps when the Cancer's emotions and insecurities start to swirl around too strongly, and Tauruses rarely get caught up in the Cancer "drama."  The only problem that could arise (I think) is if the Taurus is too narrow-minded.  Definitely not ALL Tauruses are like this, but a few are.  Water and Earth generally go well together, and they are both "young" signs, which are generally compatible too.\n\nSince you mention the emotional differences, I definitely think it's true that there will be significant differences in this regard. Tauruses, especially men, are not sentimental, whereas the Cancers are to an extreme.  Like I mentioned before, though, this could be a good grounding for you because a Cancer's emotions can be so strong, they can be very confusing.  So, I guess it depends on what you feel you need: someone to feel what you feel, or someone to give you a hug and make you laugh.
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There is someone out there for every man and woman alive! Its possible there are multiple "good choices" but I believe there is only one "best choice". Make the best choices that life offers you! Good Luck!
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To be drawn into a relationship like this would probably mean to sacrifice so much of your own life.  There would be two people that you had to deal with, the loving beautiful person and the unwell person who would probably drain you more than you can ever realise.  Sadly he is not in control of his illness it will always control him and whatever promises were made on a good day can be snatched away within hours on a bad.  I would walk away before I allowed myself to fall in love, to be drawn in to a point where you were responsible, if anything did ever happen you would carry that burden with you all of your life.
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I'm Taurus too.  I got along best with Cancers and Geminis.  It may have been co-incidental.  There are people of any sign that you may also get along with, so do not limit yourself or have preconceived notions that may mess up a good thing.  Enjoy your relationship and do not blame or credit the sign for its outcome.  It's what you conciously invest in it that will make it work.
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Cancer men want you to be the dominant one.  However, how you come off to him is important.  He needs to know you are a good person, b/c they are very sensitive.  So, you want to seem in control over yourself and some over other people-in a good way.  Then, you just wait for them to see you are in control and come to you.  See, Cancerians are just insecure people and want a mommy.  But, a good mommy.
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Unless you have a very distorted sense of reality (your track record should tell you whether you do or not), then I would say yes.  If you feel loved, then chances are you are receiving, and being loved.  Cherish it!  :)
13745
Yes, there are men out there that want the same thing as you, the only bad thing is finding them.  Just from the description you gave of yourself I like you (not like that though) because it's what's on the inside that makes you beautiful or ugly.  I've seen some REALLY beautiful women as far as looks but thought they were ugly because of their 'I'm better than you' attitude.  So just give it time and eventually (even though it may be hard to wait) you'll find your special someone...
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Absolutely, YES. Opposites attract and for a reason. If we all thought the same our lives would be boring. Being with someone who doesn't think exactly like you or who has a different lifestyle, opens up YOUR world to different things and learning experiences.