my boyfriend gets notes from his ex and they are always signed with AFA.  is it some secret code between them?  what does this mean.  should i be concerned?
199636
The only thing I could find that might remotely translate it was "The word used by al-Tha'labi is the passive (ufa) of the form III perfect verb afa, from afa which means, "to restore to health, heal, cure (someone)." ( http://farms.byu.edu/publications/paperschapter.php?chapid=68 )\n\nI am sorry, I looked and looked. It stands for so many things... from Air Force Association, Anti-Fascist Action, American Family Association.... Good Luck...\n\nBTW, have you ever asked him?
25904
First off why are you needing this code? Are you suspecting him of cheating on you? If, so than usually you can call his service provider, providing you have all the information needed to verify that you are his wife. And more than likely if you are on his account you shouldn't have to worry about that, just say you need to change the code.
257328
Best bet? Mark it as spam on yahoo. Next time he send and email, yahoo will write to him back that "the email address you are trying to reach is not available"\n\n--> BTW, I like your policy about the ex. X is X. Otherwise it leads to emotional threesomes, a huge turmoil.
544773
Not under normal circumstances, but you sign something agreeing to submit if they ask and there has been an occasion or two that I know of when they have.\n\nHave a GREAT day!
476452
I've seen this in some online signatures:\n\n(&#92;__/)\n(='.'=)This is a Bunny. Copy and paste bunny into your\n(")_(")signature to help him gain world domination.
396546
How is he 'blacklisted' from working at other companies?  Was this 'mistake' actually better defined as 'a crime' and its now on his record when background checks are performed?  Or did he settle for deferred adjudication or something of the sort which also has to be discussed often when pursuing employment?  That's the only way I can see his past 'mistake' interfering with obtaining new employment.\n\nPieces are missing to this puzzle.  Your boyfriend should seek legal advice and you might want to sit this one out and wait for the end result.
638572
You didn't do anything wrong if you discovered the letter the way say you did.  Tell her you saw it & read it, you guys need to talk about this before something happens and makes it seem worse than it really is.  Don't let the  "snowball effect" do this to your relationship if you really have feelings for her! Good luck :-)
647581
He is not cheating on you, but it seems like you need to get your act together and understand that he's not with you just for the papers. You are very special to him, and he is just confiding on an old girlfriend with whom he is just friends with.
427042
Anything you see is going to be pure speculation no matter what the links may be.  College grades are considered to be confidential.  If they aren't signed, on official university/college stationery by the registrar and don't have the official seal - they can't be real.    But, its fun to speculate since he's such an idiot and acts and talks like a moron.
642038
I didn't even finish reading your note, but from experience I would recommend ditching him... you deserve someone who can make up his mind and can love you 100%!! I had a fellow like that and I think he kept me around as security, so he wasn't alone and felt loved... don't be his love of last resort! Be strong and move on...
109970
Sounds like the husband fraudulently hid assets from the court and from the wife.  You file a post decree CR 60 (civil rule 60) motion to vacate the final decree. CR 60 is the court rule that gives you a chance to "re-open" a case under circumstances of fraud, misconduct, newly discovered evidence, etc.  So, you file the CR 60 Motion with your affidavit outlining the "fraud" of the ex husband in hiding the valuable assets.  You ask the Judge to sign an "order to show cause" as to why the case should not be re-opened due to the husband's fraud.  You serve the order to show cause on the ex husband, which basically PUTS THE BURDEN ON HIM to appear in court and "show cause" why the final Decree SHOULD NOT be re-opened so the court can remedy the fraud he has committed!!.....You basically can get a new trial and probably get sanctions against the husband for committing a fraud on the wife and on the court!v  Good luck.  If you can show the husband intentionally hid assets in bad faith, he is going to get stung by the court!!!
128556
When A/F is used in the way you described, it is abbreviation for Always Friends. In dialogue online where women are concerned AF is the abbreviation for Aunt Flo, our friendly monthly cycle ; )
573435
Are you a glutton for punishment? Where is your pride, dignity, and self respect? You are in a dead-end relationship with an uncommitted and unfaithful women. What you need to do is lick a stamp and mail her a$$ back to her ex boyfriend permanently! Let her be his headache, not yours.
54917
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
672759
From the information you have provided I suspect you may be imagining things.\n\nYou have been together for 4 years but are still not married or living together. Is this yours or your boyfriend's choice? If your boyfriend's then perhaps his lack of commitment to the relationship is prompting these feelings that he is having an affair.\n\nYou have only given two examples of his suspect behaviour, the second of which is extremely weak. There is nothing in the SMS message that indicates it was addressed to a woman never mind a women he is having an affair with. The fact that he referred to you as his girlfriend makes me sceptical that it would have been to a woman he is romantically involved with.\n\nCatching him out in a lie about his meeting is a little more worrying. However you indicate that he had an excuse - was his excuse reasonable?\n\nPossibly your woman's intuition is just your subconscious telling you that you are no longer satisfied with the relationship and your boyfriend's lack of commitment and you are looking for a way out.\n\nDo you have any close friends that you can talk to about your concerns? They will probably be able  to give you a better opinion than anyone here.
347483
It's never a bad thing to keep a journal and write.  If your not planning on publishing it or sharing it with anyone other than your friend then I'm all for it.  I found a list that my ex had once of all the girls he had been with and he had "hot" written beside my name and nothing beside the other girls...it actually made me feel really good...so go for it....just don't let it get into the wrong hands, especially of anyone who is prone to spreading rumors.
448585
Maybe he didn't expect his ex to attempt to hack into his account?? Just a thought! Whether he goes on porn sites is no longer any of your business, and I doubt he still loves you with no contact... I don't wish to be cruel, but it's time you tried to move on.