My boyfriend is a pilot and I am a flight attendant. I am basically with him always everyday flying or on our days off...We have been dating for a while...He is deeply in love with me! He told me. I met his family and friends in LA! But when I am not flying with him, he still carries condoms in his bag...he tells me that I am the only one for him. They always come back never used. But why does he do it? Should I worry? Should I speak to him about it? Thank you for your answers.
218130
Yes, you should definitely speak to him about this particular issue if it bothers you. If not, it'll build up your suspicions very quickly and it will rapidly turn your relationship sour. Get it out of your head and clear it up while it's still early.
479882
he is either lieing that he has it or he didn't get tested. unless you seen it. you guy's need to go TOGETHER that way you will know. it is easier for a women to get STD's cause the go into us. but it can be possible for you to have it and not him. he can be a carrier of it. any person can be a carrier of a STD. so he can give it to you and anybody else. and may not know it. but if he is carrier it won't show up in test. a man or a women can be carrier's of STD's. so maybe that is why he tested negative. he could be  carrier. and if you know you didn't sleep with noone else. and you go with him to get tested and see the actually test result's then that mean's he is  carrier and he will just keep giving it to you.
257903
Then one of the movers had it in his pocket and it fell out. Or, your husband is sleeping with someone else. Hopefully the first one though. Although if he is sleeping with someone else at least he uses a condom.
302841
If you recently met this guy you have to be a liitle patient and not just enter a relationship with him. Do you personally know why he travels so frequently? You ahve to be careful when its comes to this type of situation. All I can say is to be a little patient and do not rush into anything.
316747
Don't worry about what you did so much.  He flaked on you when he bailed on the road trip.  His phone had to be working, so He was blowing you off.  He hasn't been returning your calls until he finds out you slept with someone.  Being a guy and see this happen many times, I am almost certain that he has another girl on the side.  If a guy is into you, he can't wait for you to call.  he tries to figure out excuses to call you.  When his phone rings and he knows its you, he will immediately answer.  If he misses the call, he will call you back just as soon as possible.  It doesn't sound like your man does this, so you don't owe him anything.  If anything, he still owes you.  I wouldn't worry if he trusts you, you shouldn't be trusting him.  He isn't acting like a boyfriend, he is acting like he uses you for sex and when he ain't getting it elsewhere, he comes calling on you.  This all smells fishy to me.
518281
NO.Do on to others...\nFirst of all, this guy doesnt sound like a winner.If you have only been talking to this guy for a little while and hes talking about babies and the future, somethings wrong.He cant be too smart if hes talking about kids with a girl he doesnt know.two, he cant care about you that much if hes willing to share you.It sounds like he wants sex without the commitment and the hassle.Classic dog.\nWith AIDS out there I wouldnt be too quick to sleep around.Condoms arent %100 you know.Know who you are dealing with.What if you did get pregnant, would you know whose it was? Lastly show some respect.You say you love your bf but obviously not.If you can be wooed by some guy you just met.What did your bf do to deserve that? What if he cheated on you? Played with your life by spreading disease behind your back?\nYou are young.If you want to date around be single.
54863
Your jealous because you love him and you are worried about anything happening. I never used to be jealous and now I catch myself getting that way when he talks about going to strip clubs and things like that. If there is trust then that is all you need besides love. If there is no trust to begin with then the relationship has nothing. Dont worry but show him you care.
540061
First off, I am sorry you got HSVP2 from your boyfriend. That is the slap in the face with a cold, wet fish. You feel dirty, but you've done nothing wrong.\n\nIt really sounds like you and your boyfriend need to have a serious talk. It seems like everyone you've tried ot talk that he's been avoiding the main issue. This is the issue: you both have HSVP2. You both need to find out where you go it. If he's gone to a swingers club, he needs to tell you.\n\nSit with him and explain your frustrations. Explain to him that your trust for him is waning, which I think is pretty generous. While you have no right to be mad at him for going, the fact that he didn't tell you is disturbing. If he isn't honest with you, how are you supposed to trust him 100%?
96397
It sounds to me like he has some insecurity issues when it comes to women, and he needs to be constantly reassured no matter where he is. He probably does honestly care for you (at least from what you wrote), but he can't truly love anyone else until he learns to love himself, and if he does this to every female that crosses his path, then he is not there yet. The best thing you can do in my opinion, is let him know how you feel, and when he starts freaking out and calling you names, simply tell him that you deserve a guy who will treat you better and not make you feel uncomfortable..then walk AWAY. If the behavior continues, there is not much more you can do except leave him and let him work out his issues. Good Luck.
473140
how about professional use of the English language honey...if you had sex with out a condom he did...there really is no way around it...a small amount of fluid comes out before hand so don't be silly, use condoms.
298814
First fact is that the 99.99 percent of us, guys , is to mantains ours ANACONDAS free. Second fact the reason that your boyfriend might wears briefs at work is that gives  him the break of not letting his ANACONDA of been seen if is tries to escape for go hunting and at home is more save if this situations ocurrs. And my advice he should be naked when he's at home just for conmfortness.
145109
You sound like you have some trust issues with her.  It is totally normal to give someone a ride to work.  Some people adjust seats and leave them that way.  I am sure he is not getting too comfortable.  I am sure it is no big deal.\n\nIf you trusted her then it would not be required for her to tell you that he has dropped him off or not.  How would you feel if she said that to you and you were totally innocent?\n\nYou really need to take a look at the trust issue you have with her.  Why are you concerned with this?  Do you think she would cheat?  Do you think she would lie?  What has she done in the past to make her think that she would?  Analyze that and maybe you will uncover a deeper problem then giving a guy a ride to work.\n\nGood Luck!
5381
Have you asked what the condoms are for?  If you guys don't use condoms then, HELLO?  But if you do then he might have an excuse in that case tell him to leave them with you.  The staying out all night if you didn't know where he was at and you couldn't get in touch with him then you should come to your own conclusion but I think it' pretty clear. I'm sorry.
177610
I was in teh same boat kinda of I started dating a girl who was almost 10 yrs younger. There were times that I just wanted to stay home and be by myself. It had nothing to do with her. She and I lived in different states and saw each other about every month. I moved down here for her things went awry we broke up. I distanced myself from everything and did not want to be bothered I waited a year before I ever dated again. regardless of skin color it should not matter if he loves you truly. I doubt he is using you just for sex. Talk to him or his friends was he hurt in a past rleationship? I hope this can help you out
160250
Wow, this sounds familiar.  I have a guy friend like that who's a five hour plane ride away from me.  She's probably thinking the same thing you are.  She trusts you and likes you and wants more from the relationship, but she's afraid of ruining what she already has with you.  Which as she's told you, is very special to her.  If you really think it's a good idea and you guys can work it out to be together, talk to her about it.  She probably wants to be with you too but doesn't want to pressure you.  If not, always be a good friend to her and maybe there will come a time and place where everything will just click.  Good luck!  I hope it works out!
385912
We always find something wrong with whatever situation we're in- your boyfriend sounds like he needs some room/latitude to check out things. Don't suffocate him. He probably loves you very much but right now is feeling constrained by the relationship. Best thing you can do is let him know you love him and allow him some opportunity do what he wants. It maybe doesn't seem fair, but it's a chance for you to do some thinking/living for yourself ,too. It is said ,"Set it free and if it's real, it'll return to you sooner or later". That's what good love is- trusting, enduring, and patient as well as self-sacrificing.
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If this is a moral question, leave it to your friend to figure out.\n\nIf it's just a concern about health then the more important issue is if your friend is using protection and not how many partners he/she has.