we are really good friends, and if he doesnt like me, i dont want the a ruined friendship
216179
Only way to tell is how he treats you... \n\nIf you are in a group ask him which girl he likes in the group and how much.\n\nIf he is a good friend you should be able to ask him and not have any come back.\n\nIt work both ways if a man like you he ask you ques and will try not to let you know.\n\nIts part of the growing up game.
364169
I guess he did realise that it would not be right to do something that both of you would regret later. I think he likes you more then he lets on and would like to get to know you better before taking things to another level. There is no problem to see and meet each other as both of you know that nothing happened and it has not affected your friendship.
381878
there's this guys that's like my best friend and i'm not sure if i like him or not, but i wouldn't tell him cuz i don't want to take chances with our friendship :P
203660
Most guys feel relieved if there's mutual attraction and the girl makes the first move. If he is unsure as to whether his affection will be returned, he might not want to say anything.\n\nIf he doesn't like you, he's not going to be disappointed. He'll likely be taken off guard. If he's a good friend, there aren't going to be negative feelings
667153
First of all stop worrying about what will or won't ruin your friendship.  The fact is that your friendship is going to change one way or the other simply because he has feelings for you.  So if you have any thoughts at all about being more than friends with him you need to consider taking a chance and pursuing it.  If not, sit him down and make it clear that he is endangering your friendship by hitting on you and that you need him to stop before things get out of control.
483654
Continue doing what you are doing because apparently it's working. There is no bad blood and you two are getting along so don't change on him, because that will not guarantee that i will stay like that, and if you like him, its best to keep it as friends thats from experience unless he has expressed that he likes you. If not then you gotta suck it up because its better to have not said anything and keep him as a close friend than to say something and chance losing him as a friend.
361403
just remember that friends are always gonna be there but sometimes you have them friends that dont care about your feelings as long as they get wat they want i say if the guy likes you try to work it out but make sure that if you were to lose your friend hes worth losing her over do wat you think is best but really think bout it
648614
just tell him how you feel you won't ruin your friendship!!
99879
You know that there is an unwritten rule between friends, if your friend likes someone and they like YOU, you need to stay away. Great friends are hard to come by but guys are a dime a dozen!! Besides you mentioned that he was short so obviously it's a problem with you and why would you risk a friendship for someone your not really attracted to anyway?
207475
don't put him in that position . . . be his friend even if he is friends with your enemy
472924
tell him so u won't lead him on. Just say how u feel and make him understand that u still want to hang out and be friends though. If he cant accept that then oh well.
153372
If you two are really that good of friends, then nothing can ruin that friendship. Be honest with him & let love take its course. If he's not cool with it; let him know that you still value your friendship & would like to remain friends. Flirt with him & have fun. Friends of the opposite sex are always fun to have around. The key is to take it slow.
20855
theres really no way around just go ahead and talk to him let him know you value his friendship, but  and you go from there, but try to do this as soon as possible because you dont want to keep anything from him the longer you wait the more complicated it will be.
233690
If hes that good of a friend he wont hate you for what you say. Hes probally waiting for you to ask cause hes scared of you hating him for having feelings for you.
83388
I understand, but I think you'de ought to tell him that you really like him, but don't want your friendship with him and you to break... Break it to him gently, but say you still want to be his friend. Do what your heart tells you!
120759
It depends. he might not want to go out with you even though he may like you becuase he may thinks that it will ruin your friendship
430816
If you and your best friend likes him then he should automatically be off limits to both of you. You don't want your friendship to be ruined over some guy. There are plenty other guys that you will like.....don't risk your friendship