There is a girl in my high school who is two years older than me. Ever since we met she has flirted with me, she even told me she used to like me.  We talk every night, and she leaves wierd messages on my phone.  She is very competitive with me in gym class and I am not sure if she likes me or not. She says stuff to me that might hint she likes me, but then most of the time she says she is just kidding. Any one have some advice?
200144
Unless that girl is really outgoing or not timid at all, I don't think she likes you. It's not that easy to reveal their feeling to their crush. I think she is using you to make someone jealous or made a bet with her friend.(You can ask my friend for one) I say you should hang out with her, but never tell her your feeling toward her unless you know it absolutely for sure
556211
Your question doesn't make much sense, but I'll try. I am 14 and have been through many dating experiences. I take it that u r a popular guy at your school, and this girl thought u would tease her because the other cool kids did (wow, I've been in this situation-I'm a girl by the way). U need to become her friend, get her to trust u and understand that u r not trying to tease her or hurt her in anyway. Once she understands this then maybe u can move further, if she is ready. If she has basically said that all boys r going to tease her, then she has probably been through some bad experiences, so give her time. I know this might sound weird coming from someone who is only one year older than u, but u r still young. Sometimes u can think u like someone, but really not. Take some time, think about it, and if u r sure, trying doing what I said. \nHope it works out well for u, u sound like a great guy.
78442
me, being a girl who has dumped, and loved a lot of guys, i personnally think that she likes you because when i like a guy , i mainly try and avoid him (so that he doesn't find out i like him)and , yah, when we are sitting at the lunch table, and he says something funny, of course i will laugh, its basically a comliment to u saying, "ur joke was really funny, ur good at jokes", u know what though, that fact that she doesnt talk to u alot, is actually kind of obvious, alot of girls get too embarrassed when they talk to someone they like, so they just, dont talk to them at all!(i do that all the time!!!)\n\nTIPS\n\nif u want to find out if she likes u before u tell her, \n\nFIND A WAY FOR ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS, TO START UP A CONVERSATION WITH ONE OF HER CLOSEST FRIENDS, AND SOMEHOW GET IT OUT OF HER TO SAY IF SHE LIKES U OR NOT.\n\n (i dont think that u need to be that worried about it because , all of the clues piont to the fact that she likes u anyway) \n\nif u want to be her secret admirare, \n\nTYPE HER A LOVE NOTE.\n\nif u want her to know that u like her, \n\nWRITE HER A LOVE NOT, AND SAY WHO ITS FROM (make it fancy)
540676
Once upon a time a girl that I hung out with told me she had a friend who saw me a lot and thought she might like me, and wanted to know what I liked in a girl to see if she might want to ask me out. I told her that I liked a girl who would talk to me, so that we could both get to know each other a little first before thinking about whether or not we should go out. \n\nSo my advice is to just talk to him and see how he responds to being around you. Since he's in most of your classes then you have plenty of opportunity and excuse to talk to him about things.\n\nEdit: Concerning your additional details.\n\nIf I had to make an educated guess from what you wrote I would say that he does like you and would like to spend some time with you outside of school. You paint him as being smart enough on his own, so he isn't trying to be near you so that he can use you to get good grades. And he is trying to point out things you have in common, like the answers, to show that you two are compatable.
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i got in a fight with another girl (at school, no1 was watching) that liked my crush. My crush came over and asked us why we were fighting. I said its about some guy and she practicly yelled "that guy is u and u like me beta rite?" well he was a little taken aback and said he'd think about it well after school he said he liked me better because i don't yell and i'm pretty and kind and all this other kind comments and now we've been going out for 2 years and like each other very much.\n\nremember to be yourself, i no i no thats what every1 says but if you pretend to be some1 else then he might think your acting weird and when he finds out what your really like he will ask you why you lied and bla bla bla. I wish you luck. :)
1508
She really likes you but she is confused, she is not sure if its going to work out or not. she is really scared of getting hurt once again. Just repect her and give her time and space to think.
332194
If she goes out of her way just to see you thats a clue, also if she play hits you a lot...girls r very complicated but just go for it! Youll never get a 2nd change in highschool so just go for it nothing bad can happen! =)
579655
yes, if she still has feelings for you then go a head. If shes talking to guy friends , then ask if one of them is her boyfriend, maybe she will open up. Also ,if one of them its not , then ask her (to make sure ) if she still likes you. \n\nAll girls have guy friends , that aren't there boyfriends. ^_^
241627
Sounds like she is just being friendly.. so even if she would say yes to helping you with homework, it doesn't necesarily mean she likes you like that. Just talk to her and see where it goes.
510203
Here are my signs to tell if a girl likes you:\n-You are in school and you look up and just happen to see her staring at you \n-You talk to another girl and she acts funny or tries to break up the conversation or join in out of no where\n-She asks you if you have a girlfriend (but this one is not guarantee because she could be asking for a friend)\n-She ask you alot of questions about yourself\n-She seems to do anything for your attention even annoying things\n-She gives you a longer hug than she gives other guys
156724
Well, it sounds like she likes you.  Maybe she is confused.  It could be she's dating someone else right now and feels guilty about liking you.  It could be she doesn't trust guys too much right now and is afraid to start dating.  Maybe she'd be more comfortable in ag roup activity.  Like if a bunch of you from class are getting together and studying.
105918
Ok. I'm a student and I'm seeing a lecturer, and have been for the past two years, so we aren't all after good grades. I would say that she really likes you,and trust me, it is harder for her to ask you out than vice versa, as she would be scared of you laughing, or being shocked, and that her grades might suffer (although we all know that its impossible to get away with something so petty). I would ask her for coffee, somewhere nutral, like on campus, and see how it goes then. If she likes you, you will know then.
555112
be careful. the joke isn't funny it hurts. I ran from a guy in high school for the same reason. But found out after I graduated he really really liked me ALOT. Might not ever know unless you try it. Might be a joke.  There may be more than one reason why other girls don't like you they may just be jealous cause he likes you more ;) hard to tell try talking to him. if its a joke its a joke you'll be laughed at for awhile and it'll be better then sitting when you are 30 wondering about the what ifs!
133361
ok if they talk to their friends about you that's a DEFINITE yes to whether they like you or not. flirts with you? this doesn't always mean that they like you. i flirt a lot and i don't always have a crush on the person i'm flirting with. invites you to spend time with them= obvious yes. unless they try to get in your pants or something. asks you out= well they MUST like you at least a bit if they want to be your gf/bf. rumors should never be counted on for accuracy so i'd say ignore those.
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She's flirting with you, is interested in you.  If you're in class together, go talk with her normally.  Don't worry about asking her out yet, but find out what kind of person she is (do you have a friend in common?) and if she's still OK, then ask her out.\n\nDon't play around too much.  Find out whether she's a possible match, and if so, tell her and ask her out.  If not, tell her and move on.
229987
This is typical of high school and middle school. She isnt going to fight you, or even try. She is telling you she's going to fight you on the last day because everyone will forget about it by next year, and no one will be around after school. This girl is jelous of you, and if she does try to fight you(odds are she won't) stick up for yourself. No matter the consequenses, you always have to defend yourself.
364760
She likes you, shes probably just shy and is waiting for you to make the first move. Her friends giggle because they know she likes you. Give it a shot talk to her!