And youre no special, youre just one of the 11 men that she opened up to. ISnt it nice to have a girl who waits for the right man instead?
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I absolutely agree that waiting is the best!  I waited for my wedding night to have sex and my wife will never have to worry about me comparing her to another woman in my past or present.  \n\nI think someone that makes a commitment to waiting will ease the anxiety of their partner whether they made that decision as a virgin or after making the mistake of sleeping around.  IMO, the only healthy sexual relationship is a monogamous relationship in a marriage for life!  \n\nAnd the idea that sex with multiple people is "practice" for the "right one" is CRAP!  The connections you make with one person will be completely different that the connections you make with someone else, and to think that the same things that one person liked are the same as another person, is ludicrous and will probably just complicate the situation even more.  Why not get married and practice making love to the ONE person that you will get to know better than anyone else so you can enjoy each other for the rest of your lives without worrying about whether you were practicing the right things on your last lover!
269751
too many girls wait for the guy to ask them out and why this is, I'm not sure. Alot of relationships never happen for this reason.
244304
That's bull.  You can date as many guys as you can handle.  My friend used to date as many as 8 guys and even squeeze in an extra 5 if space permitted in her calendar.
485656
yup, i'm in the same position except i'm the girl and my guy friend is just like you. \n\nso...it's not reciprocated? well, i suggest you get out and meet other girls. that's what i want my guy friend to do but he seems to be into me much more. and i know it's not good for him-i love him as a friend, only. \n\nit sounds harsh, but you might have to spend some tim,e away from her...get out into the dating scene. clubs bars etc if you're into that kind of thing. if she has any heart she will encourage you to do the same.
257854
It could something as simple as...if she is as hot as you say, all the guys think she is already dating some, so why waste their time asking her?
248687
If the girl isn't interested then leave her alone otherwise then that would be relationship that is setup to be failure. don't worry about the othe girls they will eventually like another guy. Hey that's the way love goes.
105584
if you are with a number of girls right now - then you probably are not ready for marriage - when the right one comes along it will be obvious
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I don't think you are missing anything. You seem like you know what you want. That person is out ther, some where. he might not be all those things at the same time, and then again he might be those and more. It is ok to have standards about what you expect from a male.  That is great that you are not just taking anybody that comes along. Keep your head-up.
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It's up to the girl, but since you haven't waited, I think it's unrealistic for you to hope to get a girl who has.
221242
I'm sorry to say, it's probably not the last time your hopes will be crushed. I know, it sometimes seems "some guys have all the luck". But, rarely is it luck when the guy gets the girl. I can honestly say, YES you do have MULITIPLE chances to have a girlfriend and secret crushes with your name on them. Disappointment is real, and happens often to us all. If one doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to be. Shrug it off and look forward to what's around the next corner. It COULD be the one.  A positive tude Dude.. that's what the girls notice!!
193742
sweetheart, it is not that they don't want the good guy first ...sometimes you just can't tell the difference. unfortunately for women, there usually are no flashing lights and ringing bells to let us know that the guy is one of the as..... out there.
487158
Everybody wants what they can't have.  You need to find a girl of your own and stop pining over her.  She isn't worth it.  And yes, women do want the stable, caring guy.  Sadly, girls want the playa, so you may have to wait a few years for them to catch up.  Hang in there.
128403
Why don't you find another guy who can give you what you want, nothing wrong with you it's him.
276283
men will always be there, they'll always want the same thing, and you will always be a good target, or so it sounds. When the right one does come, and he will, let him know, because nothing turns a guy on more than a girl whose been untouched!  In the mean time, be free! you have what so many of us would give anything for!
12811
If your looking for a younger guy... let's say 19 Im the one. Ive always wanted a girl a couple years older than me. I mean I've had an older girl but she was only one year older than me.
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simple guys are horny and r in such a rush to do it they don't even care if it's with the wrong person.fortunally there are good guys out there who are willing to wait for the right time. stick to those boys
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maybe, but if he's willing to admit there are other girls in his life proceed with caution!  keep it casual and let him know you're interested but stay busy.