Ok heres the thing........I like this guy and when we walk down the hallway we usally talk and stuff and when we talk he always looks me right in the eye...but one day in gym class this girl abt our age was leavin for a baseball game and he said to her good luck sexy.........does this guy sound like a jerk that i should forget abt or do u think he was just jokin wit her or tryin to see what ppls reactions would be\n\n              plz help me i'm confused
204646
Well there are some guys out there with completely no hope. It sounds like to me that he's just a super friendly guy and somewhat of a flirt. If you really think that theres something there then talk to him about it and maybe you'll get a hook up. Good luck
205745
look hon, you are young and you don't need to stress over somthing like this. i know you don't want to hear the usual, "your too young, concentrate on school" but i'm not stupid and i know that you will probably pursue him anyway. just have fun but don't stress,(you don't want wrinkles before you get to high school right? ;)
484106
It sounds like he is interested...If you're interested in him or think that there might be something there, I would ask him.  If you don't like him, I would still approach him anyway because staring is just plain rude! :)
350692
haha. I agree with Soulful_kris. Girls do like older guys. But we're not here to shake your confidence. In fact, that's your most powerful asset. Be confident. Girls hate guys that can't look them in the eye.Try really hard not to stutter and keep it casual. Ask her to lunch or if she wants to talk. Tell her how beautiful she is and that she lights up your day. Don't tell her stuff like, she's your world and you love her and whatnot. That's just too much for a first impression. Good luck.
557122
You really like this guy huh? That's sweet. I woud suggest that you think back on the time that you two spent together and evaluate whether or not you were able to pick up on any signals from this young lad. Did he flirt with you? Did he drop any hints that he may like you too? If not, I would suggest that you lay off him for a while, and then attempt to contact him (by phone, skip the txt messaging) and ask him if he wants to hang out. The squeaky wheel gets the oil. Perhaps the young lad is shy? If you do not let him know, then perhaps he will never know. Therefore, wait a week, and give him a call and ask him to hang out. If he agrees, do not jump his bones, just play it cool and use the time to really determine if he is throwing any hints or signals that he may like you.  Good luck and have fun.
159005
Yes he likes you, stick with him, he should be a good one.  Sounds like he is a bit shy and unsure of himself.  Help him out a bit.
155184
I had a hard time talking to guys when I was younger. I would get so nervous that the thought of talking to him about anything but maybe a basketball game seemed impossible. I understand that the direct approach is a no, this doesnt come easy for all of us. The spreading of the word is an okay idea but just because you hear someone likes you doesnt mean you will believe it. I would suggest letting a mutual friend know that you like him and having them see what he thinks of you. It may seem like a not so great choice of action but it can prove to be successful. If you are not up to that get a friend to go on messenger or something with you (presuming your guy friend has it also) and let them type for you and ask him what he thinks of you. I used to use that one all the time to make me seem bold while I was biting my nails in the background. Good Luck!!!
307247
OK, sweetie. you gave him your number FIRST? that takes a lot of balls (pardon the language). guys are that way all the time. it took my current boyfriend ages to decide himself and get the guts to ask me out... but i knew from the start he was into me, so i waited patiently.So do you really see him interested? guys flirt all the time, some of them are even close to seducing their moms. so maybe that's not a real sign. maybe you should ask yourself if he's worth the try. like you said, he's a senior... so if you really like the guy, what are you waiting for??? give it a try, YOU ask him out. either way, if he says no, who cares? he's leaving anyway...
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i understand what you mean i was there. hun you just have to hang in there and do the same thing to him act cutie around him. small talk like he dose to you then sooner or later he will get the hit. he likes seeing you like this dont let him. act happy with out him and see what happens
48006
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
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ok, can i just start off by saying "awwwwww!!" well, obviously it sounds like you have quite a thing for this girl. according to what you have written, it seems as though she kind of likes you also. her talking about you with her friends is usually a good sign, especially when you add it to the "she looks at me, i look at her, and she looks away" thing. the only thing that i would be slightly hesitant about is the age difference. although, all of my friends(minus 2) are in or have been in relationships with younger guys (about 1 yr younger), so there is a definite possibility that it could work out. i'm no "love" expert myself, i am just hoping that you get some encouragement to pursue this. i hope that everything works out. you deserve it :)
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I am really quite familiar with the kind of guy that you described.  [I was exactly like that before!]  It sounds like he is favoring up to you and you are catching the vibes that he is sending out.  He seems to have other "multiple activity" going on in his life; but believe me, you can surely bring all of that to a halt, and turn him into a lovable little Teddy Bear.  It really does appear that it's you that he is after.  And you just watch!  Once you nail him, he will forget all of those other gals as if they never even existed to begin with.  And once they pick it up that someone nailed him, they won't have anything to do with him either.  It's like a mating-season.  If you are not in it then you don't even notice it. BTW, a well-known symptom of what you described is for him to ask you to hook up with one of your friends.  It's not your friends he is after!  He IS AFTER YOU!!!
531855
Hey, sometimes things just don't work out. I know you really like this guy; we've all been there, I promise. Maybe this flirting that's going back and forth will lead somewhere, maybe it won't, but don't beat yourself up for it. Try and get involved in something else you're passionate about- reading, or hanging with your girlfriends, or anything. Just don't do anything to break up him and his girlfriend, okay? That never leads anywhere good. Good luck!
509605
Esha, I'm talking to you from the perspectives of a guy. I want to consider you a luck gurl for having a guy who wants to displays his affection for you in public. It's only a guy that has no skeleton in his cupboard that does this to a gurl. He really wants to show you that he's the same person to you whether in private or public. Also, he's just trying to pull your legs with those flirting stuff. He wants to know how jealous you could be, but I can bet you he doesn't mean any harm. The next time he does that, you either pretend you don't notice that or if you can, say something as if you're encouraging him in his flirting game. In the contrary, this will shock him and you'll be better for it - trust me. I wish you a happy and fulfilling relationship with your guy. Cheers!
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her there girly ok yeah this guy is totaly in to you and i think i you like him you should smile back at him becuase i know that thats what my b-f started doing at first and i went along with it and started saying hi in the halls and now we have been going out steady for and 5 months and i am so glad....so if you like this guy at all then go for it i have faith in you girly \none girly to another girly \nlove ya \ngood luck
547316
If this guy is about your age, I guarantee you that he is every bit as nervous as you are.  I remember thinking that girls had to be some kind of different species than guys.\n\nThe truth however, is that we are almost exactly the same.  We have the same hopes, the same fears, the same desires, the same concerns, and the same ambitions.  The only difference between us is that we are male and you are female.   Keep that in mind, and you will quickly see that there is no special way to treat him.  \n\nJust be nice.  Be friendly.  Smile.  Ask questions. (Does he go to school?  How does he like it?  What's the best part?  What does he like to do when he gets home?  Oh, so he plays the drums/goes out to football practice/belongs to the chess club--tell me some more about that.)  I can promise you that he will be aware of your natural (female) heritage without you having to flaunt it for him.  And if he finds that he feels comfortable being around you and talking to you, guess what?  He will want to come around more and more, to be with you and talk with you!! \n\nGood luck!!
538304
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.