My boyfriend i thought was a nice guy, but doesnt ever call, e-mail me, im me, nothing, no little cute letters saying hey for the heck of it, he shows no emotion, even towards me that shows that he likes me.. What should i do dump him or take a couple more days and talks some more nothingness and tell'm i'm think about breaking up with him if i dont see changes ????
201970
I personally think that he is a J-E-R-K! I totally agree with you and I think that you should talk to him about it and ask him why is he not calling, emailing (etc) you at all. I'm not saying straight-up break up with him but he needs to show that he actually loves you. If I saw him, I would tell him to be your boyfriend and not to just think he can coast along enjoying the benefits and not doing the love. I hope you find someone who will treat you like a queen and not a servant. -Cody
371085
Ya, im sorry but it sure sounds like from what you said that he is moving on away from you. Especially the part where you say that he didnt even talk to you yesterday at all. Dont say anything to him just yet, but in your mind start planning what you would do if it ended...like who you think you would like to go out with next..or dont even think about relationships at all for awhile, maybe just take a break. You dont always need to be in a relationship. Take time for yourself (buy yourself one of those mud masks or a new nailpolish youve been wanting, indulge in you!) and your family and think about those things for awhile, ya know. Good luck!
300192
Hey girl, I have a strange feeling on why he is ignoring you...Do you think maybe his girlfriend found out he was talking to you? Did his girlfriend know that you guys are friends. The other thing I am thinking too is that he probably really likes you and wants you more than a friend. I also would like to ask you why are you in a relationship with someone you are not satisfied with? I think the issue is that both of you are in love with each other and he has realized this..Maybe he is trying to take his time to figure this all out...I would NOT approach him at his job right away to find out where he is. I would wait another week, try calling again, and if you are still unsuccessful, try and approach him in person. I think maybe right now he needs time to think about your relationship. He may want to take it further in my opinion, and right now is probably confusing for him. Give it time and it will work out! Good Luck!
461284
Wow, I'm sorry but...what? I don't understand hardly a thing that you wrote. Please fix your writing next time. Anyhow, from what I can tell? Dump him. There is to much drama in this relationship for what's it worth. You deserve a guy who respects you and you deserve the best. We all do. Good luck and God bless.
321093
wait..well u should've waited a bit also b4 getting involved but it's ok wait for a while now and if he doesn't call u do and dump him >:]
58767
Delete the entry.  See if he notices.  Lol, why don't you talk to him and see what's up?  Worse comes to worse, he's the wrong man for you and you need to let him go.  Better you find out when he's just a boyfriend, not a husband.
48580
dump him . . . he probably already dumped you . . . and don't want to tell you . . . .
628190
Honey,\nI was in the same spot as you once before. I didn't like it. I didn't brake up with him. He wasn't cheating on me either. My online boyfriend broke his leg and was in the hospital for a few weeks. When I found out I was so freakin sad. I felt bad because I sent him e-mails and told him to stop cheating on me and I totally jumped to conclusions. I have never ever done that after what happened those few weeks. I hope you find out that he is not cheating and that he e-mails you and I hope that you and him  have a good lasting realationship.\nGood luck- babe
93218
hye there... i've read your question... da first thing dat i would like to say is JUST DUMP HIM!! y should u waste your time on a guy that doesn't know how to appreciate you... of coz it is not easy to find a nice guy that suits us... but i believe that soon or later god will bring somebody to your life... just wait n see... your staement clearly shows that your current bf cares more about his frenz than you... you can alwiz make this as your past and learn it so that you will not choose da wrong guy... i'm sure that one day your prince charming will make your life even brighter... dun be sad... k all da best from me... just message me through my ym... cally_lm@yahoo.com... ta8 care...
492860
The relationship just aint working sounds like. Give him an ultimatum either you make some moves on me and call me and take some initiative or it's over and I'm moving on. Yes you'll get the hurt of a breakup but you'll some day find a better guy who will actually "communicate" with you. Good luck with all that.
301394
your heart sounds like it knows something isn't right. you have time in with this guy so you have to part in steps. first stop having sex(it is possible) tell him you are not feeling good in the relationship and you need space. stop initiating contact. see what he does. he should work hard to prove to you he loves you and wants this to work. if he doesn't start trying harder then tell him you need some real time apart. don't date new people get to know yourself better. only no sex and time will really help you see clearly what's going on
618420
Hi Sally Mae! Sorry that you're getting somewhat, mixed signals from your boyfriend. I don't think it's too soon to talk to him openly about this. To me, it doesn't sound like he is about to break up with you. You two have been together for a month now so you should be able to feel comfortable talking to him about this. I really hope things work out because I can tell you really like him. You'll never really know how he feels until you talk to him. You have been in the relationship long enough to deserve to know clearly and exactly what's going on! Good luck to you and I pray everything works out!
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u need to talk things over. communication is one of the keys to a healthy relationship. You both need to listen to each other's opinions and thoughts. Why not try spendin time alone w/ yourself first.Collect your thoughts and asses yourself.Try to see things in an optimistic way.Do not let insecurities overcome you.I'm sure he likes you.Sometimes,there are just things that don't go the way we want them to.
62993
I think you should have some self-respect and dump him, because he's clearly treating you poorly and taking you for granted.  You're better off solo than with someone who isn't treating you the way you deserve to be.
157579
Most guys do that, but i think you should at least try to talk to hime about it. Maybe if you let him know how you feel he might try to change. If he doesn't care well then he shouldn't be your boyfriend.
194315
Dump him the jerk!  Why wasting your beauty on some jerk who doesn't appreciate you?  My advice: you should love yourself more and go out with someone who treats you right.
18393
Honey I'm not sure what to tell ya.  Don't give up on him.  Do you have anyway to contact him?  You should tell him how you feel.  I don't know why he hasn't talked to you in a month.  That concerns me a little.  Like I said, don't think bad, think good.  Hope things work out for you.