Hi, Okay, So, I  play with online game the sims online and knew this guy for maybe a year or so and he knew how I felt about him, and stuff, but he continues to like other girls, he'll say he likes me and stuff but then the next day hes with another girl :/.. Do you know WHY hes doing this? then he likes this other girl right now.. and, im so jealous.. and I really dont think he understands, one time we went out and like for two days because he wasnt over this girl so we broke up, and I need some advice on what to do..Thanks
203339
he gonna kidnap you soon.
591083
If you're jealous, there's probably a good reason for it.  This guy has already broken your trust once and hasn't built it back yet.  I'd talk to him and tell him that the things he's donig are making you uncomfortable and until you feel you can trust him fully he needs to back off the other girls for awhile.  If he's not willing to help you trust him, he's not worth your trust.  And usually your gut instinct is right.  9 out of 10 times, once a cheater, always a cheater!
103271
You missed your chance with him and now you are out of luck.  He has moved on and made his choice so let him go and find a single guy to chase after.  If he is doing it to just make you jealous then don't play his games because you deserve to be treated better.
550756
he still loves you,,wanting you,,using her,,she is the most stupid one in this game,, but he is stupid too,,coz he is expressing his love that way,,, but he wants you,, but you gave up,,you made him want to do anything to get you back or hurt you,, not coz he hates you,,but coz he still wants you\nGood Luck
390529
I've been guilty of doing this same thing in the past.  He probably loves his girlfriend and wouldn't trade her for the world.  However, he wants to know that he can still get attention from other females.  So, he's flirty with you to satisfy the attention craving.  It's an ego thing. \n\nWhat I would do, if you are interested, is break his ego.  Tell him that he only flirts with you because he needs to know if he can get other girls.  If he really likes you and wants to be with you then he should break up with his girlfriend first before making a pass at you.\n\nI wouldn't tell his girlfriend about the situation.  You may cause problems in their relationship and trust me you won't get the rebound if they break up.  He will resent you.
286424
he just started dating this other girl, if your quick, tell him how you feel and that you are interested.  He might tell you sorry, and that he's found someone else... but if he liked you and there was somehow a misunderstanding its not too late to fix. Then again its always possible he just likes her better :(
309958
that first answer about usin you was a bunch of BS\nif it is true, dump him... but I hope for the better that it is not. I'm a guy with a lot of gfs too (cept I kinda wanna be single over summer, so I'm  not makin any moves) and I'm sure they are all jealouse when I hang out with one or the other. Its natural, just like I'm jealous when the one I've liked forever hangs out with other guys. If you talk to you bf a lot, then it should be no problem talking to him about this. If you don't talk to him, then you should either start talking to him or rething about whether or not this is the guy you want to be with. There are plenty of guys out there, and one will eventually be the right one for you. just hang in there, and if you lose this one, it'll be alright\n-- God Bless
343289
He has a girlfriend and so you need to put that into perspective. You might like him holding you but how does that look knowing he has someone else? Let him get rid of his girlfriend. Then if he does see if he's still interested in you. If he is then it will be up to the two of you as to what you will call yourselves. As far as the other girls go if theyre calling you a s**t or a sk**k, or some other evil word, then jealousy is about 85% of the problem. The other 15% is that they feel that you are giving yourself up easy because hes is with you all the time. To the these girls you hit them intellectually with facts. If you havent slept with him then let them know that. You cant be a wh**re if you havent done anything with him. The next step is to ignore them. Hard as that may be it works. Its great that you can take these girls on, but dont look to fight them if you dont have to. Especially over some guy. It just aint worth your time. You have a life of your own to deal with. Second and above all else the most important factor. Research this guy some more. What is he doing with you if he has a woman. Maybe he cant get the love, care and attention from her so he seeks it through you. Also you said he asked you out so you know that he likes you. Perhaps then his girlfriend is a front for his true feelings for you. You wont know however until you tell him to clean up his act. If he really likes you he will do what is right, even at the expense of hurting the other girl. Hopefully this can be a stepping stone for you to take action that will give you results. Good luck!
510991
I have the same problem. It seems like he likes me then he goes and talks (flirty, but not as much with her than with me). I get so jealous I try to calm myself though.good luck
133983
I think you should probably forget him. Chances are if he's with another girl all the time he's not interested in a relationship and if you do get into one with him he'll probably cheat on you. Try to find someone that's after you for who you are, not what you have to offer.
101379
It sounds like he probably had some interest in you but possibly not beyond friendship.  I'm betting he has another girl that he likes and he is shutting you out because of that.
591840
dont get physical with him - thats going to make him want you even more, and then as a result hes going to keep going after you, its guna be hard but in the long run its worth it... thats usualy the way to get a player to stick with one girl...just keep things gong real slow, and im the meantime he might get with other girls, but you will always be at the back of his mind, hes guna be thinking that he cant have you, so he will definitly want you more than he does now, and he will definitly be thinking more seriously, rather than just a one night stand or a fling
129460
Maybe he is going to break up with the other girl and go out with you. He may just want to get to know you more.
449470
Let him go, obviously, he wanted your friend and he realized that you were still the girl for him.  What makes you think, that he wont do this again.  He finds another girl that he is attracted to and says   f-you...i want her now.\n\nGirl, go find a good  man becuz he doesnt even deserve you.
516358
Okay this has happened to most girls before. You fall for a cute, sweet, smart guy, only to find out he's taken. Well, why wouldn't he be, with all those great qualities? The truth of the matter is, if the guy was as into you as you're into him, he wouldn't be with another girl, he'd be with you. Granted there are a lof of other factors involved, such as how long he's been with her, how old you are, maybe he's afraid to break up with her, etc. Chances are the guy really does like you, but you're right...you can't be "the other girl." And that's what you are shaping up to be at this point. I was in a very similar situation in high school. I really liked this guy who was dating another girl, and I talked to him every night on the phone, hung out with him every weekend, and we flirted constantly, but the end result was he stayed with her and I ended up disappointed, confused and feeling like a jackass. What you need to do is treat the guy like your friend, since that's all he is right now. He'll respect you for not trying to break up his relationship, his girlfriend won't get all upset, and you'll feel better about yourself for not obsessing over him all the time. Talking to him about it might complicate your friendship, and you could risk losing everything you have with him right now. Guys feel weird if put in a position like deciding between two girls, so don't make him choose. He might feel awkward knowing you care about him that way if he doesn't return the feelings. As much as you like the guy, give it time, and if he doesn't come to you, then he's just not into you. Maybe he'll break up with her and then you can tell him how you feel. You sound like a head's up girl, so you'll find someone eventually. You never realize how much you love girls' nights til you have a boyfriend and can't see the gals anymore! Take advantage of being single...when you're meant to have a boyfriend, it'll be that much better when you know he really likes you.
477904
I think he still likes you, but he probably chickened out. The tournament COULD have been true...but... The guy could have met another girl, also.  I'd suggest YOU asking him to go out some other time, and see what happens. If he says no, just shrug it off, sort of, "Okay, just thought it'd be fun." If he says yes, well then.... Good luck, girlie!!! ;)
618032
No ma'am!!!!!! before i give u the typical answer, i will give you the 'i;ve been through this before" answer. this man has no respect for you, the other girls or himself, b/c if he did he would never put u in this situation. You have your whole life ahead if you and this headache is not worth it. find someone who thinks u and only you is special enough to spend time with.