You know how it is you dont wanna talk to no one you dont wanna see no one you just wanna be left alone and when someone asks you whats wrong you wanna smash them in their face and cry! HELP ME!!!
203707
I think most ppl go through that, but if it lasts, something may need to be changed somewhere. \nTry to find something that you enjoy or something new you wanted to try.\n \nGoing for walks or exercise can help.\nDoing enjoyable things and exercise release feel good endorphins.You may not feel like doing it, but you have to force yourself to try something in order to make the change in how you feel. \nThe alternative is to stay feeling crappy. \n\nIf you have tried making changes like these to no avail, you may need to your doctor or some other professional about how you feel.
568166
other miserable people feed off of others' misery. it makes them feel better. and people see your misery as a weakness, and they attack it... it's petty, but it makes them feel like they have power over you. all you need to do is stop giving them such an easy target. don't react/overreact to them. find someone to talk to about your own problems and tell the others to flag off.
620204
They are afraid to upset you or make you feel bad.  They also probably heard gossip or wrong information about your breakdown.  The best thing to do is act like you usually do and they will stop acting weird after a while.
350227
Having no friends, and having no desire for social interaction isn't wrong. It may be not normal, but nobody's "normal".\n\nIf you don't want friends, don't have any. However, I'm concerned about how you treat others at school. You say you ignore people if they talk to you. That isn't a good thing to do. You don't have to be friends with anyone if you don't want to, but you do have to communicate with others. Unless you have enough money to live my yourself and have food and other supplies delivered to you, then you have to interact with the world. Maybe the people who are offended are only offended that you are rude, and not because you choose not to partake in the same social activities that they do. You don't need to attend any social activities, or have friends, but do you need to be civil to others. \n\nMaybe try working on simply being polite to other people. If you are ignoring everyone because you don't want anything to do with them, then suck it up and just be polite and civil. You don't need to make friends with people or be friendly or even be nice, you just need to work on being polite and civil. \n\nHowever, if you ignore people because you are scared of talking to them, because you don't know how, but you secretly would like to be able to have a pleasant polite conversation with others once in a while, then you can still start by trying to be polite to others.\n\nIf you are happy, then that's great, but it's not okay to be mean to people. It's not wrong to not have friends, but it IS wrong to be mean to people.\n\nIf you're interested in therapy possibly, then you should try going to a psychologist instead of a psychiatrist. I may be wrong, but I think a psychologist deals with behavior and pretty much talks with you and tries to help you that way, and a psychiatrist prescribes medicine. I'm sure your mom would be happy to arrange an appointment with that type of therapist (the kind that doesn't prescribe medicine) if you would let her know that you don't want drugs, but you would like a professional to talk to.\n\nGood luck!
235261
tell them if they cant say nothing nice to not say anything at all
623095
Make your enemy your friend. It is safer to keep an enemy close by your side. Plus if you had an argument try and resolve it. It feel better knowing you have lots of people who care about you, rather then hating you. Never know the other person may feel lonely as well. You be the bigger person and apologize, this will start some open and honest conversation. Good Luck.
404201
you need to talk to the right people, not here\nb
385614
Take time off the computer Lol. Thats what you do when something or someone irritates you. Dont stare into it, relax ur eyes from time to time and look around the room.
135994
Just ignore them. People would rather pursue the destructive side of their own nature rather than being constructive.Have you ever noticed that bad news and gossip spreads much faster than good news? Your real friends will not either care or call you names so concentrate on them and forget the rest as I have known some exceptionally nice people who have had different physical handicaps.
338462
dont get pissed do wat u like ignore them
578175
I don't understand why.  I hate hurting someone's feelings.  It's a horrible feeling, ya know?
417144
I think I'd go insane if I had someone wanting to talk about their feelings and how I may have hurt them and all my faults. Communication is one thing; nitpicking every minute of the day is tiresome and manipulative.
486930
I have the same problem.  People always say "think b4 u talk", but that's fricking hard!  There are only a few seconds to which there is time alloted for you to think of an answer.  Then the person leaves you in the dust.  It's like a reflex...you defend yourself before anyone else has a chance to inflict another blow.  Next time, just relax yourself b4 a conversation and remind yourself not to lash out, no matter what.  Of course, you will forget to remind yourself after a while, but the next lash-out will bring you crashing back down to earth.  But for now...just apologize to the girl and explain that you didnt know what you were saying.  She should understand.  It is hard to deal with this stuff, but you will get over it.  Dont dwell on anything.
307107
Well, it is normal to have friends and not want to see them hurt or upset, but maybe you should also make some other friends also.  SOunds like you should get out and do other things with larger groups of people too.
179216
Get in their face and yell at them about it. They will see that you are serious and will leave you alone.
497003
just be brave and face it.  if anyone asked u anything, just tell them that nothing happened and that if something happened u would'nt be sitting there like that the very next day.\n\nso actually nothing really happened and u dont care what the people say.  just be defiant, b'cos if u fight shy or cry, then the saddists will make up stories to fit their imagination.  \n\nif somebody is persistant, then tell them that their daughter or sister also was one among your group and if something had happened to you, the same had happened to her also.  and that if they continue tormenting u, then u would tell the others that they were also present there.  just be brave girl and face it.  dont cry.
670456
of coarse hearing someone else problem makes your spirit a little lighter but that is just human.  When you listen to other people it just makes you kinda forget about yours and more about them.  Not only that there are people out there that are having a worse time then yourself.  One thing that always helps me if I don't have anybody to talk to is to just tell myself it could always be worse, and it can.