my boyfriend moved in with this guy huge house his own bedroom and bathroom...6 months later the guy that owns the house had a female move in... i really do not like it what do i do??? what would you do!!!
199648
Trust your boyfriend, is there anything wrong for you not to trust him? If he has his own bath and room and knows he has a girlfriend then she should respect that. Just make sure the girl roommate understands he's taken. Your just going to have to trust your man and spend time at the house in the begining so you can put her check.
278242
you shouldn't have moved away with your boyfriend in the first place. Go back home and let him come to you.
663534
girl, if this guy is the one that has your heart...then you need to honest to the one you're living with. How would you feel if he was the one that wanted to go with some other girl? It's gonna hurt...when you tell him, but you need to honest with him & yourself. There's no easy way to break it to him, without it hurting.\nWhy do live with a guy that you're not in love with? That must be difficult. Best wishes.
70757
I agree. Dump him, he has no respect for you and it will only get worse!
618393
Hey lady, you are like a married woman. This is like a married life. Can't you just accept it? How about the boyfriend who just suddenly appears? How reliable can he be? You may end up loosing both and a lot of money.\n\nYou should not go to your new boyfriend. You should give your  boyfriend a scolding. Maybe threaten to leave him.
619190
When my boyfriend (now my husband) and I first moved out of our parents houses we did have a room mate.  We had a baby and so did she.  It seemed like a good solution to share an apartment.  That lasted for 3 months and we kicked her skanky butt out.  Looking back it wasn't the nicest thing to do but we were so young and just didn't care.  We had our own apartment for several years and I thought we would never get our own house.  Then I got pregnant with our second child and after she was born we moved in with my husbands dad and step mom.  Yuck.  But we saved enough $ to buy our own first little house.  We lived there for 5 years sold it and then moved in with my mom while our new house was being built.  She was great to live with and what an experience.  A dog, two cats, and the five of us including my mom in her little 2 bedroom 1 bath condo.  We have been in our home for 4 years now.  Doing things the way we did taught me alot.  I'll never forget thinking "I will never own a home"  and here we are...it is quite remarkable.  One thing is for sure we were just as happy poor as we are well off and we have got some good poor stories.   :)   \nHope I didn't bore you with too many details...that was fun to reminisce though...thanks!!!
181764
start out as you mean to go on. Most guys end up letting you do all the cleaning, cooking etc. If that is fine with you then ok. If not then do not let them get away with it. It is no use letting him do what he wants now and then complain about it a few years down the line. Talk about who will do what around the house, who pays for what etc. \nThe last thing you will be thinking of right now is breaking up. But if it should ever happen who get's what? Talk it all through now and write down what was agreed upon. Believe me it will spare you alot of heart ache in the future. Keep lists of who paid for what.\nOh and make sure both your names are on the lease.  \nHope everything goes well for you both.
169884
both. he is emotionally abusive, and you don't need to put up with it.  find a friend or someone to stay with while you save money to get your own place. then if he changes, then keep your own place, and allow yourself to Maybe hang out at his place with him.  that way if he acts bad in any way you can leave and show him it's not a permitable activity
636946
just listen to them both...... but thats the best you can do, do not suggest anything cuz they must be responsible for their own actions..... you dont want to take responsibility of being a home wrecker... do not at anytime suggest that they breakup with their existing partner and try each other out..... cuz they might blame you for the disasterous results\njust ask them to talk to each other and sort things out for themselves.....\n\ngood luck
676336
Thats not a problem. Do you rather have him cheat on you and go with other women? It helps a marrage to have change once in a while. Do you keep the same curtains up, year after year? Good luck and have fun with the changes! ;)
113168
some things are better left unsaid so just break it off with you'll live in boyfriend and tell him that it's not working out anymore and tell the next guy you made a big mistake but now you know that you only want to be with him and him only
136799
I could write on book on this, but I'll try to keep it short.  First, try to follow his request and let him make the first move.  If he doesn't make a move in a week then I'd say there's something wrong with the relationship.  My first guess is that moving in together has caused some problems. By moving in together, he may have learned some things about you that he doesn't like.  It could be that you're messy or your just getting way too much into his business he now misses the privacy he once enjoyed.  You should ask him if there's anything that you do that gets on his nerves and watch his reaction.  If he needs his privacy back, then let him hang out with the boys once a week and don't set a curfew because that will just piss him off even more.  If he wants to stay out late then just tell him to sleep on the sofa.  Good luck...
291147
im sorry\nthe same thing happened to me w/my x. He would move out anywhere from couple days - month. \nwell eventually i had enough we are not together. \nleaving for while wil not solve any problems at all either.\nwell good  luck to you i hope things work out for you!!!
659873
Currently I just broke up with my boyfriend and I'm pregnant with his baby.  I had to move back in with my parents after being on my own for 4 years.  Talk about uncomfortable!!
103988
Be honest with him ... "putting out" has nothing to do with "moving in" ... they are entirely different aspects.  Take it slow from here on out.
610957
Why did he move out? I can see that you are sooo proud of making more money than him, because you said it when it doesn't have any relevance to the situation. Did you maybe throw it in his face, or did you start an arguement? You can either listen to the other answers from women who hate men, or you could take a step back and LOGICALLY determine whether you have caused this problem yourself or whether he isn't a great guy. No one, including the other women who've answered that hate men, can tell this from what you've put.  Either you have real issues and need to deal with them, or the guy has done something wrong and you're not telling us(I seriously doubt he moved out for no reason--and if he did, then leave him alone).
90820
yes, move in!  He sounds like he loves you and you need to live with him be fore he pops the question.  what if you hadn't moved in with your ex?  You wouldn't have found out how mean he was until you were already married.  Move in.  when I move in my my man we still fought here and there but we saw each other more and that time is valuable in a relationship.