do male virgins necessarly get attached to girls they have forplay with and then eventually sleep with?
207562
Unless it's traumatic, your first sexual experience is highly significant - whether you are a man or a woman.\n\nYour first love is also highly significant.  Even if there was no sex involved.
408456
i love virgins.  there is nothing wrong in saving your self for the right person.  i feel that there is moe to life and a relationship than sex.  i would love to meet a virgin my self because ther is no presure to have sex and you can have all the fun you want and have a real relationship with the person you are with. I must be the only guy but if you want to chat just im me.
361902
This is not a rule, but often virgins are shier and more timid while the rest... are not
190014
Im female and have never slept with someone the first night I met them but the question you should be asking is do you think your any less bf material since you slept with her the first night you met ?? U were pretty easy too.
13698
Yes you can use that term refering to a male. Virgin is defined as happening for the first time. In this case it would be intercourse for the first time.
549106
your not a loser for being a virgin.  Machoism is over rated and normally held in high regards by idiots, morons, and ignorate people who just accept machoism as the one truth in life.  At most no sex can cause sexual frustration or even over whelming curiousity about how sex feels like.  I lost my virginity to a prositute not because I wanted to be a man.  But because my curiousity was driving me nuts.  I am also bit of a odd ball so I suggest to wait for a girl you like before losiing it.  It would probly feel better then my experience.  My experience only lead to my thinking whether meaning ful sex feels better then hollow sex.  If you dont want to be a virgin forever start dating.  If your having trouble with that read books on the subject.  Hopefully you will have better luck then me.  Well good luck
53178
Neither are worth too much the effort. While you can say the virgin will not stray, she may not enjoy it with you and leave, or she may enjoy it too much and want it more than you can provide.\n\nChances are whichever way you go, they are going to leave
578843
No, I don't think it is the same thing. Though very unlikely that you would only have an oral encounter and not sex. I think there must be penetration in order to be counted as actual sex referring to intercourse. Now there are sexual acts that includes oral and such but it would not be correct to say you had "sex' with them. Virgins would not loose their virginity by fellatio or cunnilingus.\n\nThe key is the penetration being present or not to define actual sex.
577142
We all loose our virginity eventually.  Whether its a good thing or not, really only depends on you.  If you felt it was right at the time then why bother with anyone else.     The only person to judge you , is you and no one else.   Now that you have lost your virginity,  just be careful.   And it does get better.   I just hope the guy likes you too and isn't just using you.   Take care.
80349
This is slowly fading.  Post Sex and the City, females have begun to explore sexuality in the way men do.\n\nHowever, traditionally, being called a ______ never really meant a guy knew the girl slept around.  It was simply his way of redeeming himself or recapturing some power he has lost.
468357
You're on the right path. Hold on to your virginity and be honest about this. Most of them are jerks, but this will weed them out and you'll eventually be likely to come across a decent man.
52297
nope....its the last thing i would see in a girl. Well all of us relate virginity to being pure in sexual life but why not relate it also to her heart. Even if I marry a prostitute but she has a gem of a charecter I would still call her a Virgin!!!Of course no guy is pure in this world to say that my wife should be a virgin. All men know what they really are.
41571
No, as long as I was in love, I wouldn’t feel as if I had missed out on anything - even if she was the ONLY one I had ever slept with. I think the thing that traps most guys is not the idea of having multiple sex partners (although it is for some), but mostly the different sex experiences they get from the various women. Typically what happens in a relationship is the guy, (and girl too) get bored of the same sex, the same way, the same style - it almost becomes routine and robotic - instead of exciting and fun. If a couple can try new things, and keep their sex life interesting, the guy will never feel like he’s missing out on anything! In fact, he may brag to his friends that their missing out on something, but she will be all to himself!
611459
men and women think differently about sex, women have an emotional attachment to the person afterwards whereas men can just view you as someone they have had sex with, thats why they can sleep with different women and not remember her name or call her the day after....the only way a man be emotionally attached to you after sex is if he really likes you as a whole person or is in love with you. but women tend to involve alot of feelings when it comes to sex and yes they can get aroused it just takes longer whereas men are visual and really dont need much coaching to be easily aroused
308260
Well, I dont know if you're refering to all girls in general or just the majority. I'm not offended at all. I'm 16 and proud to be a virgin. I think that these girls are just becoming more and more stupid and immature over time and guys tell them they love them and the girls are like omg he loves me let's have sex.
166937
It depends on the persons concept of virginity, virginity is defined as the state of being pure, untouched by another physical being, the term is only identified with intercourse because of bible scriptures, mary becoming a mother via the power of the lord. in that sense they have lost their virginity because they are within the realms of being unpure and had their views tainted by sin since masterbation is considered to be a sin. in todays modern soceity however this view would rarley stand up as popular culture has deemed it normal. In my personal opinion i dont think a person can lose their virginity through the use of a sex toy due to them not experiencing another person. the person you had this little argument with clearly is an advocate of modern culture though and does have a valid point becuase that person I'm asumming male considers the use of a toy to be 'naughty, nasty' or whatever you want to call it therefore makeing the person unpure and not innocent.\n\nP.s sorry for being so convoluted, and yes i do have a lot of time on my hands ;)
438894
No, if he is a virgin he is probably nervous and feeling guilty. If he is feeling guilty he may not be able to get off.