I always get imed by men that want sex i just want to talk to people that dont want sex and i wouldnt mind having friends that were the same sex either.
203933
Boy do I hear you!  I used to use the chat rooms alot back in the beginning of my computer useage, but it became such a hassle to sort thru who was for real and who were 'posers' just out to cause issues with you that I had to stop.  I have not had any chatting for a long time now.  Good luck, and best regards.
159353
i like talking about sex. of course there are times that just aren't appropriate and if you catch me in those times i'm gonna dis you bad. it's all about timing and getting her to open up. and guys don't ever start a pm with a sexual line unless you are married to the female cause you are gonna get iggied or played for a fool at best.
492169
Ok...\n1. those guys are pretty desperate and it's pretty sad, if you ask me, if they can't find women face to face\n2. you are not a wet blanket. that was actually an admirable thing to do. If you don't want to take nude pictures for people, that is something you believe in and you should not stray from that viewpoint. It's your morals and your life. You do with it as you see fit.\n3. To mature men, it is not a turn off. On the contrary, it is something proper and a sign that they're talking to a mature woman, which, in both cases of men and women, are becoming scarce these days.\n4. It was probably better off that you didn't talk to them any more because all they wanted to do was to make a personal porn star out of you. If that was not your intention, then it is best for you not to associate with people of that nature.\n\nFollow your beliefs and don't do anything you feel is uncomfortable.\n\nHope this helps!\n\nps: this is a guy speaking
115573
try gay.com it has a really  nice chat program where you can find others with your similar desires
41537
men are not hard to understand and if u sleeping with them before u can answer your own question some thing mite be wrong with u im not at all talking u down but its some thing u need to ask your self - am i hard to get long with and as for as them treating u bad after bed room well maybe u should not took him there in the frist place yes sex plays bigger part in a mans life than wemen i think  u mite be trying to hard too i find that wemen are hard to understand too so your not alone here but dont give up u will find one u can understand or one that u can live with with out understanding him
211369
I like to go online as a woman from time to time and can't believe all the whacked out guys who come on to me like I am a piece of meat for their pleasure.  It's really disgusting.  I am thinking of lowering my age down to 14 and trying that for a while.  I'd like to get two guys to come and meet me at the same place at the same time and see what happens, or to give them my address and tell them my mommy and daddy are not home and to please come to my house and play nasty with me... only my house would turn out to be the local police department. Moral: you never know to whom you are talking in a chat room or on instant messenger. Pedophiles get what they deserve.
201928
its hard just trying to be friends with the opposite sex\nwhen you say u are just trying to be friends they are thinking yeah i no i am going to have sex with her because we are going to be very close and do things together so they think sex is part of the deal
172005
because they are not real men.They want you to feel like you can have no one else but them.Insecurity.But you can do better.
212031
I would prefer a mental connection when comes to sex,but guys are different.
17193
Men are hardwired to crave sex almost constantly. It's encoded in their DNA and has been that way forever. It's not that they think you want sex all the time, it's just that they require it more than women do. It's a biological thing. You're going to have to learn to live with that and just be clear to your man when you aren't in the mood and he is. Just remember, it's really not something they can control.
128003
i wouldnt get mad id perve to cause im bisexual and want a threesome so im looking for a chick. but its like this you can look but not touch i hate it when guys sit there and go look at the boobs on that one. id like to take her home and whatever else guys say
62900
In regards to the last answer. There are guys here that are looking for the same. In some ways this is the only way they can get the courage to talk to others. I can reconmend eharmony.com is a good way to go. Surely you can find an interest there. Not all people are bad. But you can tell by the ones who's talking more than they should. ;-)
119026
BECAUSE YOU WANT ATTENTION FROM YOUR FRIENDS. . YOU WANT TO BE THE CENTER OF EVERYTHING . . THATS WHAT IT SEEMS LIKE TO ME AND THAT IF YOUR GUY FRIENDS FIND GURLFRIENDS THEN YOUR SCARED THAT THEY WONT HAVE TIME FOR YOU ANYMORE
232028
Take a look at what you are wearing. Dressing sexy usually results in that kind of attention from guys. Either that or you are around some seriously sex craved dudes.
199820
Some people are not satisfied with casual sexual encounters and relationships.\n\nI'm a single parent with three kids, and want and need emotional support and intellectual stimulation from a mature adult female, not what I can get from my mates over a pint at the local.\n\nDifferent strokes for different folks.
140798
Snooze ya loose. Men are like women, they always desire what they can't have.
600943
Because they are desperate for any form of sexual interaction with any female who will oblige them.  The guys who seek this kind of interaction are most likely the ones with so little going for them that they can't find a real relationship.  Just ignore them.