I just want to date and have fun with these 3 guys, no sex, but they dont like that I see other men and its to hard to hide it.
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Because most guys feel the same way as YOU do but once they find out YOU dont want a committment all of a sudden they want what they cant have!!!!!  its just like us women- I go in a sotre with $50 and I see a sweater thats $40 and another one for $60 I automatically like the one I dont have enough money for!  LOL  They just find it as a challenge to their manhood and cant figure you out so its throwing them off!
153829
Ohhh this is the same thing I used to do.  I think it begins with men being a huge priority in life.  Do more with your friends! I bet you don't hang out with friends when you're with a guy.  Do a Friday date, and Saturday with girls. Take up a hobby, take your mind off of men. \n\nMost times after I used to have a date, less than a day would pass before we talked again, and I just seemed to click so well with everyone, I moved from one serious relationship to another.  Have this new mantra: "I am only going out to have fun. I am not looking for anything but a nice evening tonight." Set yourself some rules; don't let yourself get too comfortable with them. Make sure not to tell them everything about you in the first couple dates, and let at least 3-4 days pass between dates.  Going to each other's house is also very personal, make the first couple weeks dates "out".  Don't get too comfortable, don't get too close.  Be more picky.
86862
Have a threesome huney, two guys are better then one.   LOL
128003
i wouldnt get mad id perve to cause im bisexual and want a threesome so im looking for a chick. but its like this you can look but not touch i hate it when guys sit there and go look at the boobs on that one. id like to take her home and whatever else guys say
596599
u have to make up ur mind!! u can't keep stringing along all these guys. it's not fair to them. just pick one. if u can't maybe u're not supposed to be with any of them. ever thought about that! until u sort urself out u have no business telling others what to do. at most u should sit them all down (including ur boyfriend) and explain the situation. they might stop fighting with each other if they realised that u didn't really favour one over the other. just how many guys are after u anyway??!!
367615
I am in the same boat as you, and I have the exact same feelings. I think that we have this problem because people around us are dating, and we're not so we feel left out. Just try to have fun with your friends, like I do. You'll stop wondering about your romantic future. Who knows...maybe you'll see him that night. Just make sure that isn't the only goals to your plan.
221300
just start working on building back your friendships with those he wouldnt let you contact. concentrate on moving on. i know what its like to date someone who didnt treat you right and kind of left you humuliated that you ever let them get away with those things. as hard as it is, try not to dwell on it, keep doing the things that make you happy and most importantly when you feel ready to date again remember that not all guys are going to treat you like that. it would be so much easier if we could just go back and erase things like that  but since we cant all we can do is rebuild it all and get past it. hang in there :)
556158
Well if you want a date i suggest you one thing. Go and look for some other guy and go for a date with him. Let the guys in your group get jealous of you and realise that you're a gal and you've your feelings too. If they realise its well and good, if not at least you're with some other guy. Even if you're not dating anyother guy just pretend it for a while to them and be excited. Praise this imaginary guy b4 them. Create jealosy. Show some attitude. Be hard to get. Trust me you'll date anyone soon.
203062
Not much u can do, that is part of the danger of dating friends from your group of friends, like sleeping with a co-worker, things go bad, u are stuck with them.  One suggestion though is finding another guy will, if he has/had any feelings for u at all, make him want to not be around as much when he knows u both will be there.
51602
You better get your priorities straight before you are left with neither of these guys.\n\nThe one you like but don't have sex with should be the only one in your life.  You can get along without sex.....many girls are not having sex at age 17.  What you're doing is very selfish and has the potential to be very hurtful to the guy who believes you care about him.  Stop it!
218486
Why bother with what other's say... u r happy n comfortable with guys right? so do I... so, ignore what other might think or say, just get on with your own lifestyle... and trust me, they wish they could do the same thing but THEY CAN'T. hahaha...pity on them.
186007
there's nothing wrong with that .you just don't like any of them. take your time, when you find the one you like, it will be diffirent and worth it.
27713
I bet you've given in to some of those jerks too and let them in.  You know not all guys are like that, you see them everyday.  You just avoid talking to good guys b/c you love the attention you get from the rest.
544289
Nah.... I try to keep out of small areas cluttered with men that may or may not like man sex..... just not my cup of tea...
314338
This is not your fault. They probably had it planned! You and your friend should go on and find different guys!
669425
Yes, it really matters but only to those guys that are interested in a real relationship.  Those other guys are interested in sex and social stature and aren't worth your time.
286991
First off, please please speak and type in proper english. And if you want to date all four, then do it.  Don't make a commitment to any one of them and you shouldn't have any problems.   Until you commit, you are free to date whomever you want.