Me and my boyfriend were in the store the other day and I was standing next to this girl. While he was talking to me, he looks over at her and looks her up and down checking her out. I'm I wrong for being mad about this or is someone else with me?
199428
Let it go, he left the store with you...not her! Guys will be guys and they will ALWAYS check out other girls no matter how commited they are to you! You could dump him for it, however, your next man will just do the same thing. It is just programmed into their brains! Not much you can do about it. I am sure it was harmless!
109676
I would confront him but dont be angry about it at first, because he could have a reason. My boyfriend had the same issue , but once i found out the reasons it became okay, talk to your boyfriend calmly , he will react better and might not get so defensive. i would have him delete her from his list so that he couldnt talk to her, that way you and him would feel better. Explain to him it makes you unhappy and that you have insecurities about begin left and that you are worried that you are not making him happy , and he wants what he had. He should then feel sad and will want to cuddle you and then try to be emotional that way he knows you do care about the two of you begin together. Good Luck
337166
Well, obviously this chic is jealous of something about you if she has gone out of her way to speak of you in such a way.So two things I would do- first- confront the other girl-ask her is she's a lessie- then of course there might be an arguement but keep things cool by opening up the conversation with " for info only"...or "it seems, the way they come across"..., then you can throw the rumor back at them- or simply put on a bigger show when your with your boyfriend to let others know your not gay.
327314
I'm sort of confused on this question.  Who are you talking about?  Is your boyfriend for the past 12 yrs the 19 year old.  I hope not!  Who gets jealous?  The boyfriend or the 19 y/o?  You are looking for an answer to something I can't decipher.  You need to try again.
326691
just because your boyfriend doesnt talk much to your friends thats no big deal and i wouldnt talk to him about this friend of yours either if he has this type of problem with social situations its not his fault if hes smiling at people  then hes trying to be friendly in his own way and that seems to enough for most people,right, and what the other person said up the list aways if your boyfriend talks to other girls it doesnt mean hes gonna leave you for one of the other girls sounds like that girl has some jealousy problems or insecure.
88207
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and half years, and I have never once caught him looking at another female. Girls come onto him all the time. He used to work at a restaurant and all the waitresses would hit on him and ask him out and he would tell them about me and how much he loves me. All his friends ever say to me is how he is so committed to me and is so in love with me. If you catch your boyfriend looking at women, talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel and tell him that it hurts you when you see him looking at other girls.
170505
Yes, it is wrong and to be truthful, you know it.  Your ex is in a relationship and you are now the other woman...the interloper.  His girlfriend does not have to like you...only him.  It sounds to me like she has a great reason for not liking you...you are sabotaging their relationship.  How would you like it if he was your boyfriend and his ex was having sex with him?  You wouldn't so take that into consideration.  What goes around comes around and no good will come from this.
124463
hey,...i m kinda in such a situation too. just joined this new company, and there's this guy who always look at me whenever I pass by. He even looked at me admiringly when there was once we were in lift, and he was with another girl, whom I heard later that the girl is his girlfriend. Mmm....but then, I have bf too. But, I kinda like the attention, and think that he's cool. Never talked to him, but I have fantasy about doing it with him. Am i bad?
232158
He is no loyal boyfriend. Its not jealousy when another woman touches your boyfriend in intimate places, and its not respect or loyalty to you when he makes you the bad guy for her inappropriate behavior. \n\nHe lied to you. \nHe disrespects you. \n\nDump this loser.
247285
My BF looks and he is not subtle about it at all!!! It bothers me with him which is weird because it never bothered me with other guys. But I think it is because he is not subtle about it he cuts off in mid-sentence to look at some girl, I haven't figured a way around him looking or my jealousy over it. Sometimes I say outrageous things to get his attention but it hasn't worked so far. I think I will just buy him some dark sunglasses so at least  I won't notice as much.
217927
I am concerned over the fact that he doesn't want her to say anything to anyone.  To me, that screams out that he has another girlfriend.  Sounds like he is cheating on another girl...there is no other reason to keep their relationship secret.
489923
she probably thinks your cute \nI'm guilty of staring and thinking guys are cute and have a boyfriend I love at the same time.\nthis girl might be thinking of dumping her boyfriend, i dnt know. but if you're interested in her, i would still talk to her anyways so you can see.
480886
It's perfectly natural to just look, and it's perfectly okay to look around as long as you don't act on this "window shopping", but your neighbor seems to be taking it a bit too far.His girlfriend is obviously hurt by it and if he wants to keep her he should it least make it a little less obvious.
656424
In my opinion, this sounds strange to me. Maybe her boyfriend said something to her about you after you and your fiancee' left that night. Since you just met this couple awhile back, he may be using you as an excuse to break up with her. Or he may have found you very attractive and keeps telling her that. That would make any woman upset. Whatever the case, she is mad for something her boyfriend said, not what you had said. For the dirty looks, and she tells you to go find a hobby. The man had something to do with this. If it happened to me, I would go on with my life. I don't need friends like that to ruin things for me.
300217
If you and your boyfriend we're truely happy you wouldn't be checking out other guys, there has to be some underlying relationship problems if you have fallen for another guy. Its only fair that you are honest with both guys, and more importantly yourself. You need to do what's best for you, if your unhappy with your boyfriend you need to get out of the relationship. Even if your feeling for the other guy pass (and that's highly unlikely that you will suddenly not like him anymore) there will be other guys after that. Reevaluate your current beau.
342021
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it sounds like he has a girlfriend. It might not be the best thing to do, but I would "spy" on him and find out. If you see a girl, then its obvious! There is no reason for unnecessary hurt!!!
51685
The way I look at it is.... When someone I am with looks at other girls, it is me that he is going home with and I would be worried if he wasn't looking at other girls, cuz that would mean that he may be cheating.