I've been with him a year. We live together and I am VERY much in love with him. He just drives me CRAZY sometimes! Will the little things that bug me be magnified later on or will I just become immune to them?
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you will eventually get to where they don't bother you. trust me love is worth a little irritation.every once in a while when you are feeling a little irritable.those little things that bug you now will make you positively bitchy. don't worry no matter who your with they are gonna do something that bugs you. if you love this guy. show him you want him even though he can drive you bananas sometimes.
644020
sometimes, verbal revelations could lose the strength of reality.\ndon't expect anymore of any direct love from him.. just go on with your life.... still be nice to him... let him do his style.. dont expect much, otherwise, youll just be hurt... pretend as if you dont mind him... meantime, focus your attention elsewhere...a hobby, a new interesting guy, or your work or studies perhaps..
108880
You just need to work on it. Every time you feel like complaining, think of one complaint she might have at that time. I am very attentive to my fiance's needs and he is not so attentive to mine all the time - I just work harder to be more attentive to his needs in hopes he will be more attentive to mine sometimes.
382209
How long have you been together, and living together?  Did this just start, or has it been an ongoing problem?  I would ask him what's going on and suggest counseling if it's bad enough to start affecting your everyday lives!  Good luck!
663043
Nope.  Frankly, I'm the same way.  My gf let me know it bothers her, so, I'm trying to make adjustments.  But, if you keep asking him, it'll just take longer and make him more irritated, maybe to the point where he can't deal with it anymore.  I'd let him know it bothers you, and leave it.  If he's going to change, he'll do it on his own.
533486
oh god , i think u are crazy fan of him  u noticed every his words\nMaybe he not live with her.
429609
Ok, as someone that's been with my favorite person for over 25 years...\n\n--I have toned down my temper--I pick my battles very carefully!\n--I am MUCH less selfish...I think more of how he will feel about something I am deciding on and I choose activities, etc. that we will both enjoy.\n--I TRY to work a little harder on house work stuff! I'm not great at it, but I'm still trying!
134376
u are seeing too much of him daily so u got sick of him but at the same time u still love him
118246
I felt the same way about my bf, we would argue constantly about things that he would do, and I got fed up one day and I dumped him, then six hours later I took him back, because I realized, I was so sad and I realized that I would argue any day with him, then not have him in my life at all. I love him very much.
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Is his well-being as important to you as your own?  Does he feel the same about you?  Is the long distance problem a necessary thing (you EACH have an ill family member who needs your care, or are completing college at separate institutions which specialize in your field), or is it just not all that convenient to be together?  Are you with him because your life would be poorer without him, or because you're used to him and afraid to find someone who would meet more of your needs?  Are you compatible on your future plans on children (or no children), religious beliefs, monetary issues?\n\nThese are questions you'll have to answer yourselves.  One of you may just have to compromise if you want to live together...one of you may have to move.  If neither of you are willing, I would wonder about the depth of your commitment.
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When my boyfriend returned home, for the first few weeks he acted fine, a little different and jumpy, and he spent alot of money, he would just go and buy whatever he wanted, and after a few weeks, it all hit him.  he started getting depressed and wouldnt hardly leave the house. He tried pushing everyone that cared about him away.  Now after a year he still has his moments but for the most part he's doing fine.  He still has nightmares and things like that but the most you can do is be there for him, just let him know that you are there for him to talk to, but dont push him to talk, he will on his own time.  War changes people, my boyfriend will never be the same person he was when he left, but i thank god every day that he is home safe.  Your boyfriend may or may not have the same symptoms mine did, but if you need to talk about it you can im me.  Thank your boyfriend for me, all of the Soldiers are my heroes.
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it sounds like he also annoys the hell out of you! haha.... i've been there...he's in hardcore lust...if your not feeling him, tell him now, waiting makes it worse... but if you do like him and want to keep him, but want him to tone it down a bit...just sit him down and be real with him... thats really the best way to handle it...
137494
Interesting, you should have mixed feelings. Of course you are going to feel terrible but his comments to you should make you feel a bit better. Some people live in dark when they are infatuated with someone.
341503
obsession is not a good thing but my fiance is 5 years older than me. i met him when i was in high school. everyone doubted us for the longest time and we proved them wrong. age is just a number.
634117
First of all, why would you get mad.  You love this man.  When you met him you thought he was in the same boat as you, regular working class people.  I would still love him no matter what.
443115
It would depend on the kind of relationship you have with him.  Evidently it is not that strong if you are feeling so insecure.  If he has not given you any reason to suspect otherwise, I would let it go.  But if it is still bothering you, I wouldn't marry him until we settled the issue once and for all.
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Well you need to consider, is your love worth maybe having to clean up after him all the time.  Also, if he is not willing to change on small things, what happens when bigger issues come around.  You either have to decide to stick it out or cut your losses.