He thinks I am stupid. He thinks I dont know. He is sleeping with my bestfriend.
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he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. He wants to go persue this relationship with your friend and possibly chat on her with you, going back and forth between the two of you.\nget rid of him.
560796
I think you need to let sleeping dogs lie cause he sounds confusing and confusing leads stress, stress leads to pain and pain leads to heartache so move on and find someone else cause he's playing you.
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It's quite possible that he just fell asleep, don't jump to the conclusion that he's lying to you. If you're in love with him and he makes you happy, then go for it. Take a leap of faith.
260673
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
114661
If you told him that then he was properly warned.  He knew the game ahead of time and broke the rules.  Just tell him you aren't interested and that you two won't be sleeping together again.
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the fault is with both of them definitely. but the fault is mostly with your best friend.\n\ncome on! if she was your "best friend" she would Not hit on him. by doing that, she has absolutely no respect for you. if she can do it once, she can do it again. this might not be even the first time. she obviously doesn't treat you as her best friend or she is just too selfish to have anyone in her life apart from herself. you deserve a better friend than her.\n\nand john is definitely at fault too. he was supposed to be with you but he cheated on you with your Best Friend!! he should have some self control. even if he wanted to hook up with your best friend in the first place, he should have the decency to tell you that it is over between the both of you. this is not the kind of guy you would want to spend your time with. the fact that he can cheat on you in your bed speaks volumes of the kind of degenerate person he is.\n\nyou should just shut them out of your life.
85703
He is hoping to reopen the fling. Personally, I think you would be better off letting sleeping dogs lie but its up to you. Perhaps you should talk with him and clear the air.
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He is extremely immature.I turn off my alarm clock,and I cant remember doing it.It is exhaustion,because we are programmed to skivy all the time our brain doesnt shut down.I would not argue over something petty like this.It makes me angry that you have to explain yourself to this pathetic excuse for a man.Tell him calmly you were feeling unwell,and felt completely exhausted to the point you couldnt remember turning the tv off.let him know(through gritted teeth) that you would never deliberately ignore him,and that you love him.men are pains.
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Girl, you snagged a rotten fish.  It was dead when you caught it.  He needs to get a life.  If he was that rude to say that to you you should break up with him.  He was totally wrong to say that to your best friend too.  He probably likes you, or he wouldn't go out with you.  You don't just go out with someone because they're moving.  But you need to break up with him.  I know it's hard.  BELIEVE me...I know it's hard.  But you have to.  You'll probably meet someone a lot sweeter in California anyway.  That's all I can say.  I hope it works out.
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I don't mean to be judgmental but the least of your concern should be telling your bestfriend about it.\n\nYour concern should be first and foremost is the way you've been behaving (especially if it's still ongoing) and why did you allow yourself to be in this kind of situation and deceived the person whom you consider to be your bestfriend.\n\nI know that you are very much aware that what you're doing is downright wrong.  People will be telling you a lot of things with the foremost emphasis that you need to stop.  Maybe these will fall on deaf ears.  Maybe it will not.\n\nAnd my prayer is that it don't, that you will choose to act upon the situation and come to the realization that you are not only hurting your bestfriend but you're hurting yourself as well.\n\nYou've allowed yourself to be the "other woman" and settled...
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sounds like he is being nosey or wants to sleep with you himself.
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Your friend may or may not be homosexual/bisexual, he could just be curious. To advance on you in your sleep is a bit odd, I must admit. \n\nIf you were not comfortable with the situation, tell him immediately, even going so far to say you do not want to spend the night with him again. Do not attack him for being gay or curious - he made a mistake.\n\nAnother aspect that probably will not be covered, is that this was a private moment for him and your having this against him makes him very vulnerable. Don't blow the friendship completely out of the water by telling anyone who walks by what happened. Just talk to him about it and move on.\n\n~Miss Cris\nhttp://lendinganear.wordpress.com
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This guy is a problem and I doubt he is worth you and your best friend having a falling out because he is trying to divide and conquer. \n\nFind a situation where you and your best friend are together, and he is there also. Make it appear the two of you are comparing notes and that you are talking about him, and watch him show his true colors and scramble for cover. \n\nSounds like this guy is extremely immature and is looking for any port in a storm. \n\nPick the one who is interested in you, because of you, not because he is playing some game using you and your best friend as chess pieces to get what he wants. I repeat, do not allow this immature boy to come between you and your best friend. \n\nHe is not the one for you, . . . . . . . .you deserve much better.  \n\nDarryl S.
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I have no idea what she sees in him.  Maybe he is good in bed.  But stupid is as stupid does.  Forest Gump says it all.
190886
Why do you really want to know? The answer may put you in counseling or make you suicidal. Hes not telling out of respect. Screw his best friend and take pics to show him, then he will not respect you anymore and im sure he will say exactly how he feels about you.
265019
he cheated on you and now he's accusing you of cheating on him because you won't sleep with him?!! no offense to you, but somethings really wrong with him. you have to talk to him.
135492
he is still into you. be careful though because he may try to make his move on you even though you are with his best friend. guys can be stupid when it comes to women. actually, guys are always stupid when it comes to women