Well my friends have been seeming distant and this is causeing major stress om my heart and mind , ive been getting sick now and ive lost my opinonus thought. Am i going into depression..... well i hope not, its just i cant rightfully love anyone any more or think striaght.
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Perhaps I can help you out a little.  I have been dealing with a bout of depression for about a year now.  So I understand your situation.\n\nIf your friends seem to be distancing themselves from you, perhaps you should voice your concerns to them.  Ask them if you have done something to offend them, because you feel that they are shutting you out of their lives.  If they do not offer any answers, perhaps it is time to find some new friends.  \nPeople change over time, so do their opinions of others.  \n\nYou really should not allow it to hurt you physically.  True loosing a friendship is a traumatic event, but you have to be able to move on.  If you begin to dwell on why somebody dislikes you, you may miss out on forming another friendship with somebody else.\n\nI'm sorry you are feeling "down" from all of this.  All I can say is keep your head up, and live your life to suit YOU, and not those around you.\n\nI wish you all the best of luck in working through this situation.  If you ever need to just talk to somebody with a sympathetic ear, you can feel free to e-mail me anytime.  jam961@yahoo.com\n\nTake care, and God Bless You!
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Oh my GOD!!! That has to be the saddest story that I have ever read on here. You poor poor fella. This is for you *A great big hug* If it helps I have some nice boobs. I hope the best for you, and you have to remember that Tomorrow WILL BE BETTER!!! It has to be. You should think about dumping that skank of a ho girlfriend You deserve a lot better and you know that you do, and you should think about going to the doctor and if you need a little help there is no shame in it, I too have been cheated on and it is the worse and most horrible feeling, I had to go on Zoloft, but the good thing is that it helps and once you can come out of the fog of depression you can see more clearly. You deserve better! Get you a plan of action and figure out what you need to do, Evalute every aspect of your life... is it time for a lifestyle change... change of job, if at all possible kick her out because adding a move on top of everything is going to be more stressful, and what a B*tch to laugh at you after what you went through, find a safer jogging route... and did you ever think that maybe that guy punched you because she is banging him? I kinda wondered that when I read, because that is just too strange that a guy would punch you for NO reason, and then she laughed on top of it... Go out with some friends or family, if you don't have any... make some, you need to surround yourself with loving and caring people. Best of luck to you, and I hope that your nose isn't broken a nice guy like you doesn't deserve that. *Another big hug and maybe a  little kiss on the cheek*
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I sometimes feel the same way that you feel...and I hate it. I'm so sorry that you feel that way and no I dont think that it should be normal but everybody had bad days so what I try to do is find something to do so I want think about whatever got me down. I love you, so put a smile on your face! :)
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I think that you need more than a friend...I think that you need someone that you can talk to who can help with why you are feeling this way.  Best of Luck!
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the truth will set YOU free and i think you will feel much better about yourself and feel much healthier, believe it or not, stress is a major cause of illness, but its a chance you take when you meet someone you think highly of to tell them the truth about yourself... its a gamble but it may just pay off... at least you'll know that that person cares for you WITH all your flaws... and lets face it no-one is perfect and everyone has a past whether they admit it or not!! good luck, love will find you when you're least expecting it... just live life to the fullest for you...be happy.
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I used to. A lot of my friends and family have been taken in horrific ways and I miss them but Ive other pals and family and pets aswell so life has to go on. You could be depressed, maybe your GP could help you or just go and see a good pal. Am sorry for your loss.
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Did something happen to make you feel ill about people?you need to find why you are having these feelings and deal with them. Its not so easy all the time, but you'll have a better life for it. the best way to deal with a*sh**es , b/c they may be crazy,is to stay away! Go to a doctor whom you can talk to, maybe there is something chemical going on in your brain, have you ever taken drugs, as that can alter behavior. also find one person you can feel free to talk to so you can get the steam off. You do not want to let it go beyond, b/c a worse problem can arise.take care, get involved in something worthwhile........
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It sounds like you're depressed. And you just need "me time", relax and just calm down. Dont put yourself down so much. And dont assume things that may not be true.  You may just be habing a bad week.
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Hello there! I am sorry to hear you are feeling so down. People are so quick to say someone has depression. You say that you act like you are the happiest person on earth, but you aren't happy on the inside. You just have to believe that you do deserve happiness! I believe that you just have low self-esteem and self worth. 17 is a hard age! Believe me...looking back I felt the same way and wondered what the heck was wrong with myself. Just the pressures nowadays that are being put on young people is enough to make someone want to give up! I know to be happy is easier said than done sometimes, and it is a lot of work sometimes. Once you start believing in yourself it will get more simple. Life is too short not to have fun--experience life. I am not saying go out there and do foolish things, but enjoy the silly stuff. I am an adult and I still like to go to toy stores and play with the puppets! Because it makes me happy. I am not here to make anyone happy but myself. It sounds selfish, but before we can help others, we have to help ourselves. Just the fact that you asked the question on here shows that you are ready and willing to make a change for yourself. I have done a lot of "stupid" things in my life, but I have learned that loved ones are there for you no matter what you do. If people really love you, they are there for you no matter what! You can make little changes in your life. Use positive affirmation..when you start to feel those thoughts of hopelessness creep in--say to yourself that you are not listening anymore. If you are still feeling beyond hopelessness, there are many people you can go to to talk about it. It is not a sign of weakness to ask for some help and guidance. It is you standing up and saying you are sick of being that way and taking control of your life. I wish you luck and hope that I helped a little! Take care!
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Get out and make friend. Maybe you are depressed and need to see a doctor. What has changed in your life to make you feel this way?
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it could be the base of depression...talk to someone about how your feeling before you start to feel worse, or it could just be that your exhausted from over doing things and just need a good sleep to give your body time to repair
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I think you need new friends Genler . Sounds to me,  by all your questions, that your friends are sick individuals, do you live near a mental hospital or something? You need to get away from that place & your so called friends before you turn out to be a sick, inbreeding, mental,  pedophile, unless you already have. Your friend "A" has many issues probably dating back to childhood, this uncle "V" probably molested her as a child regardless she needs counseling & a straight jacket . Are you asking this to make sure other people feel the same way you do to prove to yourself you are sane? I think that is what it is. You need reassurance that you are not a mental water head like your friends.Here is alittle advice that I always practice to keep myself out of trouble or bad situations. When you hear a story or a situation, or a offer whatever your first instinct is go with it. You 1st instinct is always the best. You don't want to re think a situation, go with a different thought & then kick yourself in the A$$ later for not following your heart good luck
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you just really need totalk to someone. i lost a frien to suicide unfortunately i was in the room when it happened. i know how hard it is. i also had to attend 23 funerals in 10 months jst a few years ago between friends and family i wasn't surei wold make it either i really felt like my world was caving in on me. the thing that got me throgh it was my husband he always talked me through things, to this day he still makes sure i don't forget thememories of those friends and family members. one other thing i did was write letters to the people i was closest to especially my mom when i was feeling as you are now. i've read them at later times some i just keep in a box. good luck and please talk to someone!
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Hate to say this but you are putting you through the emotional rollercoaster.  It's possible to stop.  Think about being open and honest with these two about your feelings, doubts, and fears.  You'll feel better.  And remember, the world won't end if this connection you feel goes away.  You'll still be worthwhile and valuable as a person.
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A lot of times, people are so consumed in their own problems, they don't even realize what they are doing.  Hang in there.  I have come to realize that if we have one awesome friend, we are quite fortunate.  I am sure you still have people around you that care about you.
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Good decision. I'm glad to hear that you are getting this resolved. The stress you are going through over this,is not good for you. Try to relax and go for a walk or get involved in something fun until your appt.
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im doing well...except ive been kinda sad latly, i think its because girls overthink things and i can't help think about a guy whose in the marines for 4 years but we keep in touch....hes in oklahoma and im in N.Y....so its kinda depressing because he's always on my mind.  I'm sure he'll visit time to time but its very lonly without him here physically too....so today im doing well compared to other days where i can't get him out of my head for the life of me, and when we talk on the phone, i hate silent moments so i start rambling on to the dumbest stuff like out of know where...i wrapped presents today....god i feel so stupid!