...by a fellow worker.  I thuoght of this person as a friend, but did not feel comfortable with this situation.  Should I tell my boss?
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It just depends. Is this guy/girl hot? Because if so, then I don't see why you don't feel comfortable. But if they are ugly, then I'd tell them to back the f*ck off and don't freaking do it again.
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It depends on whether you boss is human or not, I am very sorry for your loss, but life has to go on, and so does your job, compassion and business are not good friends,
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in the future i would keep all info like this to myself.  I know it would be hard and ,you need to get things like that off your chest,but people cant resist a good gossip .  think to yourself have you NEVER told someone something you have promised someone else you who keep quite. or have  you caught yourself saying " don't say any thing but........ " i wouldn't be too angry at your friend as I'm sure we've all been guilty at one time or another.  I just hope you can nip this one in the bud before rumours start flying . good luck with your friend and hopefully your new job !!!!!
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here's the deal, try and work it out.  did you ever let her know calling you at work was not acceptable?  do that.  if it doesn't work......let her go and remain friends.
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I did. My boss came in one day and asked why I always looked like I was in a bad mood(he said it with an attitude) so I said: You'd be in a bad mood too if you worked for an As*hole like you. He looked at me, shocked and then said , you know I should fire you for that...I replied: Fire me then.....We stood there glaring at each other for a moment then he said....go back to work.. and that was the end of it. I guess you have to know how far you can push the envelope with your boss.
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Gone unchallenged, this problem will not fix itself.\nIf your friends are content with this...do nothing, but if it unacceptable behaviour by someone at work, then talking to your boss without being confrontational is absolutely appropriate. Sometimes a boss is unaware of all that goes on so give them the opportunity to hear your concerns. \nAlways document incidents/dates/times/who is involved just in case you require future reference though.
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it isn't what you think that it was.  perhaps she was just being friendly and opened you up for the purpose of feeling her way around the office, people tend to do that either when they're new on the job and aren't sure what the office politics are there or when they're more seasoned and want to ensure that the newer person isn't any type of a threat or will give them any problems.  you can never really trust a relationship with someone who has been at that same job for years without first seeing how things work outside of the office first.  \n\nthe fact that she says that she is focused on her work either means that she doesn't see what the advantage to the friendship would be for her or she feels that the friendship would cause her issues on the job later on.  what type of job is this anyway?  because if it's an office job or a call center or something i would just keep it moving, yet keep that door open just in case you need that friendship in the future.  you can never tell ...
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Tell your new boss you have to finish out your time because it's the right thing to do.  They should admire you for that.\n\nIf not then tell your old boss that you're going to lose the other job and that you are sorry to let the down.\n\nJust be honest.  Don't look for excuses or sneaky ways to get out of it.
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hmmm...that's a tough one, I think I would want to tell her too, but that could cause big problems for your place of business...maybe talk to your manager about it and let him know your concern that even though no one likes this lady, that's just not right
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I think he is just being friendly.  I would just leave it alone.  Be friendly in return, but nothing more.  Anything else will create a messy or awkward situation at work.
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You must realize that some people are two-faced, back-stabbing losers that are so miserable with their own life that they try to make yours miserable.&#92;\n\nAlso, this guy may smile in your face and be nice to you to get you to talk to him and trust him so that you will confide certain things in him.  Then, when the timing is right he can tell your boss things that you've said or even twist things that you've said around in order to make you look bad and him look good.  Often people do this in order to get a co-worker fired or demoted in order to take over their position.  Surely you've heard of keep your friends close and your enemies closer!  If this is the case with your co-worker, then do not tell him any of your business and talk to your boss about the problem.  If possible, turn the tables on him and screw him out of his position or there's the other alternative....whip his azz when you're off work so bad that he won't ever want to mess with you again.
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Don't go there, That is grounds for a sexual harrassment case waiting to happen.  If you let on that you like him, or if you reported it to others, either one of you could be fired.  Find another job before you even think about telling him you like him.
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I have found that it is usually best not to mix work life with personal life.  Sure, sometimes people get lucky and become friends through their jobs, and nothing bad happens.  But often the person you become "friends" with will try to take advantage of the situation, or worse, one day may get promoted and become your boss, creating an awkward situation.  Co-workers especially in an office) tend to be back-stabbers who will stop at nothing to get ahead.  They just might "accidentally" tell the boss about a mistake you made and corrected.  Or put you in a position you do not feel comfortable being in (lying to cover for them).  Or steal the promotion/raise that you were supposed to get.
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m_k4376 says...dont mess with the boss's man...unless  you are not worried about losing the job. First question to ask yourself is what is your relationship with your boss..if your boss is a friend, then be a friend and stay away. If not, and you dont care about the job then see where it goes. the boss may be using him to get to you for a little action, if your into that kind of thing. if your not into that kind of thing then wait till they break up then pursue him. but then, if you dont care about the job or your boss, go for it and the next time he hits on you... reach back and grab his package.  let me know how it works out...@ yahoo
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I would tell her how I felt, but I would not turn her in. Its really her on business, her employers will find out what she know once she is hired.
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You asked for serious advice so here goes, usually when individuals act the way your boss does, they are very insecure people. Now here goes the hard part, if you like your job well enough to stay there and hold your position, then you have to pray for him, I hope you like to pray because I have found that it is the only way to get ahead in life is by prayer, not getting upset or mad at the man, but just let it roll off, and know who you are in God's eyes, you are God's child and He loves you and He will promote you, these are all very trying learning experiences for all of us at one time or another but the ones who hang in there and do their job to the best of their ability, will prosper, how do I know this?o.k. It happened to me several times, and even though it was tuff to pray for someone I personally had no feelings for, I thought well , the Word teaches us to pray for our enemies, and right now this person was my enemy, so I prayed that they would be promoted clear out of my life,,LOL and guess what I was the one that got promoted to a great new position, and with great people that I had a blast with, I mean God is awesome, He knows exactly what you need, sorry to be so long winded, but just want you to know that things can change, and you are not the victim, he is. Keep on girl and you'll some out ahead!!!!!WhEEEEEE!
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Unless it is extremely over the top or all the time let it go.  You are at work and you need to leave your feelings at home.  People do things intentionally all the time that step on other peoples toes.  You just have to let it slide.  Save your feelings for your personal life.  Maybe your boss was just having a bad day or you pushed one of his buttons(we all have them).  If that is the case you could just make the situation worse, and if your boss is a jerk he really won't give a flying flip that your feelings were hurt.  Remember he, or maybe she, is the boss and you will be the one to lose a conflict and are more replaceable than someone higher up on the food chain.\nOh and if you boss is a jerk start looking for another job.