my x girlfriend just hit me up after 6 months of not speaking to each other.  She is in another relationship as well as i am!  she asked me if i am happy in my new relationship! she also asked me if i ever look back onto our relationship.  Does she want something with me still?
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Sounds like she's been reminiscing about you and maybe missing you.  I don't know what broke you up in the first place.  That would have something to do with whether or not you try again.  But,  if you are missing her and love her...don't be a fool.  Go chase her man!!!!! Some woman need a lot of chasing to be caught.  That's because we are also sometimes a little niave.
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I know that in past experience, its really tempting and persuading, if an ex calls you and asks you for a night of passion! ;) but... your relationship has ended, and it seems to me like she is trying to manipulate you in the process?\n\nShe is already with her partner, and so is not only abusing his trust and loosing respect for herself-but if you are the third spoke in her relationship (even if this is just "sex") then, surely this will make you no better than her?\n\nI split up with my ex over 9 months ago, and i have since been in a long term relationship with my current partner for the past 8 months. I was with my ex for 3 and half years, and all he did was cheat on me with various other women! We too had a great sex life-but, id much rather a realtionship that is based on trust and respect anyday (plus great sex is a bonus ;) ) My ex contacted me near enough every day for 6 months asking me for sex, but not once did i say yes, cos i love my partner and respect him. She doesnt have respect fro anyone??\n\nPerhaps, as your ex knows that you are single, that she is taking you for advantage! Its possible that she doesnt want you to be with anyone else-as she knows that you probabley wont be, if you are seeing her? She also  thinks that she can get away with two timing both of you (even with your consent!) what kind of person does this?\n\nI know its tempting but you have to ask her to stop calling you and asking for sex. Its low! And someone with such low morals, is obviousley someone to be wary off.... STI's spring to mind? You also have to ask yourself-are you the only one shes trying to cheat with?\n\nIn the end, what goes around comes around-my ex cheated on me with 5 other women, and ended up catching STI's!! So it serves him damn right lol!\n\nAnd why did your relationship end? Obviousley for a good reason! \n\nGood luck!! \n\nx
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If she said that she don't want to get involved with anyone for a while, then that's somewhat a good thing. She NEVER told you YES (NOR) did she tell you (NO)! That mean's there's still hope in the future. Maybe she is trying to she if your a patient guy, one who would be true to her, and willing to wait and prove it! Go out together (as friends) and get her to like and admire you more. Good Luck.
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Wow. I don't think your being unreasonable with how you feel, but she did just start a new job. Lord willing, there will be more annaversaries, but she is probably very stressed right now from the change. Give her some time. If she doesn't want to party, ask what she wants. Find something that works for her and you. She will probably do better once things get easier.\n\nThis breaking up and getting back together thing concerns me though, and might have something to do with it all. Sounds like something hasn't been going right in your relationship. Perhaps something neither one of you is even aware of. You might want to get some councling on this.\n\nBut you should sit down with her and talk to her about the lack of attention she's giving you. I wouldn't expect her to e-mail you back every day on her cell, and she may feel smothered by too much attention. It may be that you aren't giving her enough space, and she's withdrawn. It may also be that she enjoys your e-mails, even if she doesn't respond all the time. Talk with her about how she feels about it all, and ask her if you could improve in any area.\n\nGive it some time and be patient, but she should do her best on this to let you know that she cares about you, and that even with the new job, she still loves you and more than intends to make time for you. This may not happen instantly, so don't be too pushy, but do be plainspoken and truthful. But, if she refuses to at least care about your feelings on this, and that not caring continues, you may want to look into finding a new girlfriend.
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Probably she got really hurt when you dumped her (girls are quite sensitive).  She's still asking about you because she still can't forget you and perhaps the feeling is still there though she realized now that her ex-bf is much better than you.
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She can be bitter and hurt. You said that you went out with her right? well maybe she had true feelings for you and you broke her heart in a very harsh way. So, for her not to be the fool for everyone else she became this nasty Bi@tch. She is like that around you, because that is her cry for her and attention from you. I think that she wants you back.
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Hi Eugene T, My question is..."Do you really want a girl who is rebounding from a relationship"? And, it sounds like your rebounding too. Please take this "SLOWLY". I know, I sound like a parent...that's because I am! LOL! Focus on your friends/classmates/sports etc. There is plenty of time. Wouldn't you rather take it slow and learn more about "her" break-up[both sides of the story?], while "reflecting" on what went wrong with your relationship? OK OK, I've lectured you enough! XOXO Moonpie P.S. And go with those words of wisdom from diagofald..."HIT IT"!
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Just from what you told us here, how can we guess? It may be sth you've said or done, or sth you've not done while it was expected!.. Tell her that you feel her getting out of your relationship and ask her what the problem is. This is how things happen in real world!
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It all depends on what you want, and are looking for. It's not like she did all these things while she was with you, t's not like she cheated. Do you think she has changed? It's really up to you... I think that you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
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Quick Fix/ Do you love her? YES.   Have you been hurt in the past? YES.  Who cares my friend. You are franklly just scared.  Moments of intimacy cover it up sometimes and that is why you feel happy.  Let go of this fear. This girl you have in front of you is going to make you very happy.  Let go of your past, and live.  Otherwise, the next question you are going to be asking us is" How do I get her back?"
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Simply, she doesnt want to be committed.  She wants to be "friends with benefits".  Something she doesnt feel tied down to.  Why that is, is up to her, really.  Was her last relationship that bad, maybe?  Does she want to not be exclusive to one person?  An honest conversation would do wonders.
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i can see why im confused to.it sounds like she saying dont worry we will f*ck if anything. just try not to get attached till you  figure her out just dont waste to much of your time.it sounds like a game.she probably has another on the side and wants to see who can offer her more. in that case the good guy always loses.
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I dont think she is playing a game. You two broke up and i think your prolonged contact with her is making it hard for her to let go. She might well have feelings for you still but having feelings for someone doesn't mean she wants to be with you. You giving her things keeps her feeling obligated to talk to you. I would wish her a happy valentines day and tell her happy birthday when it rolls around but back off to some degree. The only real way to know if she wants to get back together with you is to be straight up and ask or back off and see if she comes looking for you.
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She has moved on with her life.  It is time for you to do the same.  She is clearly not interested in a relationship or trying to patch things up.
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There might be some sort of communication problem that is going on. Politely ask her if anything is wrong or unusual about how she is feeling. Does she maybe think you have done something? Does she maybe think or feel you have left her behind or betrayed her? You can never know how someone feels unless you ask them. Questions are the key to results in any situation. If you do not ask you can not learn. Do not be rude when confronting her, but confront her none the less. She might have issues beyond the two of you and your relationship. She might have outside problems that she thinks no one can fix. Help her and also help her understand you are there for her. Don't sit back and let it go on. Talk to her and find out the truth. Don't let it sit still and dwindle till it is to late.
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well i guess maybe she was trying to be honest. but it sounds like she is actually trying to hurt u. she should've just said she wanted to break up or at least have an open relashonship and date other people. but she is entertaining the thought of her being involved with another man - regardless of ur feelings. and she told you in a way that is going to have u going thru the rest of ur relashonship feeling unsure and uncertain. and u cant go on like that. she doesnt really love u because if she did then u wouldn't be going thru "this" in the 1st place. she "might care" for u. but something isn't right with this. it's almost like she is trying to make u jealous of this mystery man. and she's enjoying it. and she's only being half honest with u by telling u about him but by not telling u who he is. u might just wanna go ahead and end things with her - let her have this mystery man she that wants to be with so much. and u find someone who will love u and respect u and be honest with u. because u deserve better than this girl.
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Hello Chuck, Do not respond to her text message at all. And what she basically means is that she did not know what i good thing was when she had it (being you). She did not appreciate you or the things you did for her. She left you for someone else. This other person she appreciated and did things for this person and she got handled the same way she handled you (what comes around goes around) ,,,,,,,he did not appreciate her and left her for to be with his Ex-girlfriend. And that is why she was telling you that Karma was a b-*ch. Just move on with your life,,,see other ladies that will appreciate you and not take you for granted. Find someone that will love and adore you the way you love and adore them. Take care and good luck sweetheart.