first i wanna apoligize for yet another relationship problem thing.\n\nok... so awhile ago i started getting intrested in this guy, right? we never really talked or hung out, but i just thought he was cool and such. and i didnt think he liked me, so i gave up on him. but i always kind of thought he was cute. \n\nand now as of valentines day i have a boyfriend. its not him. its someone else. \n\nand i saw this other guy for the first time in a long time and we have this really great... like... 40 min. conversation and the whole time i'm in my head like 'omg...' because i love my boyfriend alot (but we really dont talk that much espicaly not in person), but then theres this other guy who's really awesome and then he asks 'hey, ive been meaning to ask you for a while, you wanna go out some time' and im just like  'oh frick.' and i told him i wasn't single, but he still stuck around me the whole rest of the day.\n\nplease help me, what the hell do i do?
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Think with your head and PRIORITIZE ....\n DON'T CONFUES FRIENDS AND lOVERS ... \nCalmly decide what you want from life and who can give it to you ...  Shallow thinking is short lived pleasure.....
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you said that you still like him but you didn't mention if he still likes you and i think he would not get involve with someone else if he is still interested in you.i can suggest that you focus on other things, instead of constantly thinking of him in class why not focus more on your studies, enroll in music or art classes. keep yourself busy until you heal and ready to get into another relationship. good luck:)
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My boyfriend told me something just a little while ago. Before we were going out, he didn't know that I liked him, he said i was sending him mixed messeges! I definatly didn't think I was...I liked him so much! But I liked him so much that I would get nervous when I was around him, because I didn't want to give him the wrong Idea, that is what it sounds like is going on. It sounds like the girl likes you, shes just shy. Don't be shy too!! Go for it!
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tell him straight away how you feel about him.  if he reciprocates then good for you.  if not at least you will be in the clear.  If you do not hurry someone may beat you to it and then you will be left with nothing.  Take a chance.  Don't keep your feelings to yourself.  don't think that love is a game of chance.  Don't ignore him.  instead shower all your attention on him.  this is your self created mess and only you can clear it up.  all the best.  God Bless.
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Find someone else who will deserve my love and affection. I won't accept any other relationship that he has whether it is a fling or a serious thing or a one-night thing!\n\nHow will I deal with it? Ditch him and find another.
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wait until you know how you feel. there is a difference between dating and having a boyfriend. it is totally okay to casually date more than one person at a time as long as they understand you're not exclusive. if you decide that you have very strong feelings for one person, stop dating the others and go exclusive with that person. don't pick one guy and stick with him unless you're sure about it, because that's not fair to him. if your emotions are going back and forth, that probably won't change even if you become his girlfriend, and you could ruin a good friendship. right now i'm rebuilding a friendship for that very reason, and it's slow and sometimes pretty awkward.
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well it sounds to me like he may well have liked you seeing as he was calling you 2 and 3 times a week but when he seen you with this other guy he got jealous and stopped calling,id say that is it,i mean speaking from my own experience like this one that is what happened me but it turned out she liked me,what i would do is call him up,i mean just cause hes a guy doesnt mean he has to do all the running,or you could just simply ask him out,i mean lifes too short for regrets,right?? hope that helped abit!! \nGood luck
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Hey......Ok, listen, my advice would be "talk to him," tell him that you really like him, and you were wondering if he would like to hang out once in a while....If he says "sorry I have a girlfriend" or something like that...Don't feel bad, at least you'll know that you tried!\n\nTrust me there isn't anything worse than not doing anything and after going in your head over and over "I wonder what would of happened if I had talked to him"...and things like that! Sometimes you just have to put yourself out there, sometimes you might get hurt but it's the only way you'll know! If he says no or something, just don't feel rejected, it's not gonna be your loss, but his....ok? Life is about taking risks, if nobody took any risks then life would be boring....and trust me it's the only way to learn! That happens to me all the time, I always end up wondering what would of happened, don't make my mistakes, and go for it! Good Luck!
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If you like dating him.  Date him.  Perhaps he has morals and doesn't want to use you.  Or maybe you should just move on to the next guy.  \nIt sounds like you've been around and It sounds like you are going to hurt this fellow.  Better to end it now before he falls in love with you if he hasn't already.
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Put yourself in the other girls shoes first! How would you feel if you were her?\nHow long have they been together? \nIs he interested in you simply to try something different from his current girl?\nJust how much do you like him? Is it like or love?\nAsk yourself these questions and take time to think things over.\nIs he really worth all of this trouble?\nIf he is and you want to go for it, then proceed with things out in the open before you and he do anything even kiss!  You do not want to be just a fancy bit on the side!  The other girl deserves respect and a chance to retain some dignity! She will be mad and rightly so!\nI have a rule I create for myself when I was a teenager, if a guy I like is with someone else, I forget about him and move on!  I had feelings for a guy once when he had a girl too.  I kept to my rule and left it alone.  Three years later I saw him at a party and he was single.  We dated for 1 wonderful year, we drifted apart but it all worked out.\nGood Luck!
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Go party it up!! Live a little .. Go out and do what single guys do!! You will be fine, it was just a crush we all have them now it's over, find a new one!!
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Hey, sometimes things just don't work out. I know you really like this guy; we've all been there, I promise. Maybe this flirting that's going back and forth will lead somewhere, maybe it won't, but don't beat yourself up for it. Try and get involved in something else you're passionate about- reading, or hanging with your girlfriends, or anything. Just don't do anything to break up him and his girlfriend, okay? That never leads anywhere good. Good luck!
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Get over it!  That's all---just get over it and move on.  You wouldn't want a guy that already has a girlfriend...even if he was willing to dump her  in order to date you.  Wait--and if the couple continues to date it's because they have chosen to do so.  It takes two willing participants in the dating game and he's playing the game with the partner of his choice.  Accept it.  You probably have other options--and once he sees you're a fun date (while observing you dating someone else) he can pursue something later if he chooses.  Otherwise, focus on yourself and having fun.  There are other guys--there always is and always will be.
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If he wants to talk to you he will call. If he wants to see you again he will ask you out.\n\nDon't call him. Would you like to hear this line from him when you give him a ring? : "Oh hello there, sorry I haven't called, I've been busy" Pathetic.\n\nMy present boyfriend called me everyday and it was nice to finally find a guy who didn't play these "mind/dating" games.
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Well who do you like more.. which one are you more compatible with and which do you see as a boyfriend?  They are not clones of each other, there has to be one you have more in common with or like more.  Break it down, girl.
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Be very careful with this dude and take it really slowly.  Get to know him.  Since you told him you liked him, he may just be trying to take advantage of you.  Why would any guy ask you on a date and tell you he likes all this others--something is not right!  Don't put to much into this guy until you really know where it is going from this first date
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Well, it appears that he is no longer interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. I'm sure you're a nice gal but sometimes things aren't meant to be for a reason. We go through these times just to wake up one day and realize that these optical are supposed to guide us to your soul mate! So good luck and I wouldn't act like you're going to be there for him for ever and all ways. Guys take that for granted all too easily. I've done it in the past and learned how bad it can hurt someone too.