These 2 guys asked me out and I do not know which one to choose!One is sooooooo HOT and popular!!! But he is not the nicest person in the world. The other one is nice but is really bad looking and he is a geek! Which one should I date?\nI really like the hot guy but I kind of like the nice guy!
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i think you should date me
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the best way to choose between them is to sit them both down at the same time and explain ur feelings. next, ask them if they would b OK with u going out on a few dates with each one b4 u make ur final decision.  most guys are cool about it and if one of them isnt cool with it, go out with the other one. another way that might help u is if u make a list of all the things u have interests in and then separate lists for each of the guys. seeing how many interests they have in common with u will help u decide which one u might have more fun with
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If you do not like them both then tell them the truth.  If you like one and not the other tell them the truth.  If you like them both then, go on a date with each one and see who treats you better.  Not girlfriend boyfriend dates, just friend dates
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I would go with the one you like best...i wouldn't base it on looks alone...which one has the nicest personality and which one do you feel most comfortable and natural around?...you have to like somebody before you can really love them.
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Buullshieeet! You like hounest guys to be sure they'll not cheat on you. And of course you like those who say what you want to hear!\nThat was my comment, this is my answer:\nNow, choosing between these two types you mentioned is a matter of a girl's character.
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your avatar is cute! Now, if he is a butthead break up wit him. your friend shouldn'y of made u go out wit him if you didn't like him! Anyway, if S.M. did ask you out and if you like him, go for it! Good Luck! :)
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My first choice would be a old fashion boring dude with a beutiful heart and my second choice would be a weirdo that knows how to treat a woman right. the reason for my first choice is because i only look within the guys personality and if he got a huge heart he will respect me and love me for who i am. and i would go with the weirdo as second choice because evryone is differnt meaning evryone do their weird things for once in a while but hey if this guy do evryhting weird it aint that bad as he dont beat on me or something.
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*Pondering a moment for I do not see the prob here* So ask the guy you are most interested in out. It is the Naughties (double zero decade you pervs so keep it clean) after all. Take the initiative and snag that guy...
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It depends what you're looking for, really. The benefit of taking the nerdy guy that you might not have considered is that if ya chose him, you'd give him a night he'd remember for the rest of his life just by getting to spend an evening with you. You might not have the best time that way, but the best way to be happy is to make someone else happy.
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I think that is shallow...picking between the two based on looks.... but who are you more attracted to. This is a personal preference decision. Who treats you the way you want to be treated...in ALL ways!
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Hmm.. which one to choose...\n\nAbout 2 months ago I agreed to meet a guy that I had met off of a certain dating site. Lets see.. he said his body type was average ( for a hippo maybe ) and that he was 5'6". Now I am 5'3" and I was eye to eye with this guy.. maybe his gut had pulled him down 3 inches I am not sure lol. \n\nAnyway the comedy of errors started with dinner. It was a cute little Italian place. The portions were huge and my date proceeded to eat his entire plate (which took like an hour because he eats so slow) and in the process managed to drop alot of it on his shirt. YUCK!! Then came the bill.. he kept scrounging around for his wallet.. didnt produce it and then went to the bathroom forever... I felt sorry for the server and paid the bill myself, hoping he would at least leave the tip. When he finally came out and saw the bill was gone, he asked if I was ready to leave. I mentioned that she might need a tip and he flipped 2 bucks out of the wallet that had been missing in action 20 minutes ago and put it on the table. No thank you for paying or anything. As we were walking out to our cars, he asked what else I would like to do. Um.. go home was all I could come up with lol. He leaned in for the kiss goodnight and got the famous one handed pat on the back.. the kiss of death on dates!!
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If she says yes and  doesn't like him, he will only be more hurt later. She shouldn't go out with him. However, even if he's a geek, he may be a really nice guy. Who knows. Give him a chance, with a friendship, and see if anything goes from there.
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Frank Castle can't date anyone! How is he supposed to take time away from his psychotic quest to take some girl out to dinner? Even if it is the lovely southern belle, Rogue. \n\nFrank's more likely to satifsy his "needs" with some girl he picks up in a bar and then never sees again than to have a steady.\n\nAnyway, Rogue would never go for Frank. He's too spooky without a hint of charm.\n\nRogue: So, sugah, what are y'all into?\nFrank: Vengance.\nRogue (arching her eyebrows): Anything else?\nFrank: Guns.\n<An uncomfortable moment of silence passes between them.>\nFrank: Bombs.\nRogue: Check, please.
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How old are ya ??? ok, I hope you are at least 16... but, if ya like them both, you need to step back and really think about each of them... who they are, what they are, what they stand for, are they good guys, etc.. list the good and bad of each on paper... I know it sounds calculating, and maybe it is, but you do not want hurt feelings by going from one to the other do ya ?? anyway, look at the list and with all honesty pick the one that brings out the best in you and that fits the* inside your head* want list of a good b/f... I hope this helps a little... God bless
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No, I think it's normal - human beings are programmed to be attracted to one another. Have fun! Lucky you to have two hot guys to choose from. Only problem will be if this continues...and you still can't choose way down the line. In which case, it might be that neither of them is right for you.
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I'd say calm down!  First, someone is going to get hurt.  That is not the end of the world so try and put that out of your mind.  Second, I think your decision comes down to whether or not you want to settle down.  That is the decision you have to make.  Guy #1 wants to settle down, Guy #2 sounds like he doesn't.  If you're ready to settle down, the choice is pretty clear.  Dating two different people is always messy, and you're going to have to be prepared for some fallout because of it.  However, if you make your decision firmly and honestly, you'll minimize the damage.  Good luck.
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Well, first go out with the cute one, let it be secret. The other one have him alone and tell him he is nice and all, but you dont want him as boyfriend, and you should be friends. So after just tell everyone one by one about you and the other one. And be friends with the one you dont like. Follow your heart girl, follow your heart.