When I notice a guy being a flirt with me or shows interest.. I will make fun of him or give him a dirty look. I don't know how to get out of this habit. Help!
216503
I for one would take you making fun of me as a flirting gesture and would make fun of you back until u finally said yes when I asked you out for dinner :)\n\nSeems to me you have a defense mechanism, have you been burned in the past? somtimes people will do that subconciously so they don't get hurt again.\n\nI dated somone that made fun me all the time and I made fun of her. it was a really fun relationship because we could be who we really were and we didn't care cuz we were happy around each other :) hope this helps
434890
Hello Karen, some men are going to do what ever it takes and you happened across one of these guys. I go out with my hubby in micro minis on our date nights. I am with him and don't care what anyone else may see or say. I don't pay attention. In your case you were asking for help and I'm sorry that you ran across someone who did that to you. Just laugh it off and hope he enjoyed his little peek at you. Life is too short to worry about a pervert peeking at you.
138515
I think we women are way more obvious when we flirt than men are.  Do you catch her looking at you?  Smiling and laughing at the silliest things you say?  Start by doing things together out of work.  Going for a quick drink after work.  Meeting with others from work for drinks or dinner.  Pay close attention and ask questions, you'll figure it out.  :o)
86133
i dont know cause in having the same prob..but maybe i can try to help you before i help myself maybe you shold try to flirt like big time and like get real close to him(not phisicaly)and take it from thair...hey...i just helped myself too!!....cool:)i hope my advice helps you I REALLY DO.
652948
My answer is don't do anything that seems like your flirting.  In other words, from my experience guys seem to read women wrong.  If You are totally flirting most guys think your not.  AND when YOU ARE NOT flirting guys think you are.
297510
Ah, so many a time I have had situations like that and wished I had done something.  I know exactly what you mean.  I think you ought to do some teasing back ;)  I reckon he is playing hard to get to tease you.  He is probably checking you out.  I say get right in there.  If you're doing something like watching a film again together, when you're thinking, I want to kiss him, first of all, build your confidence, and make a big smile to yourself.  It helps!  Then, just maybe put your hand on his leg or something.  He'll probably look round at you.  When he does, smile and look in his eyes, then take his face in your other hand, then hopefully the rest should happen by itself.  However, if this fails, still have your hand on his leg and then snuggle up to him.  He'll like this, it will make him feel "da man!".  Hopefully, he'll then work the rest out himself.  I hope this helps.  Good luck and have fun!
28170
First, they like you, you just have to get it out of them.  and second, just be pointedly nice to him in some small way and he'll start leaning your way.  Don't make it too obvious, that's a turn off, but any little gesture that is from you to him and something you don't have to do will make him think about you.
669894
smile, be yourself, don't act cheesy. by cheesy i mean don't laugh at every single thing he says and don't be fake. but just remember, there really is no need for flirting, just be yourself, no need to seduce someone. if you want them to notice you, BE YOURSELF. if they don't notice what a great person you are, then they're probably not worth it, and you all probably weren't meant to be. and don't chase after guys, let them chase after you. and don't take all this, well what if they're shy crap and they don't like to make the first move.....if they notice how wonderful you are, then they'll take a chance, no matter how nervous they are.
115073
OKAY GIRL, FIRST OFF, HE'S DOING BOTH! HE'S PLAYING DUMB SO THAT MAYBE YOU TALK TO HIM A LITTLE MORE...LET ME TELL YOU GUYS LIKE IT WHEN GIRLS TAKE THE FIRST STEP...IT TAKES THE PRESSURE OFF OF THEM. THERE ARE MANY POSSIBILITIES TO THIS SITUATION...FLIRT WITH HIM A LITTLE BIT...OBSERVE HIS REACTIONS TO THE COMMENTS YOU MAKE THAT ARE DIRECTED TOWARDS HIM...WHEN YOU ARE AROUND HIM JUST BE YOURSELF...IF NOT HE WILL PICK UP ON IT AND IT WILL MAKE HIM FEEL EXTREMELY AWKWARD...MAYBE EVEN MORE SO...PLUS IF HE DOES LIKE YOU, AND YOU ARE YOURSELF HE WILL FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND YOU AND WANT TO BE AROUND YOU MORE AND MORE...JOKE WITH HIM...IF YOU CAN DO ALL OF THIS WHILE KEEPING YOUR COOL, HE WILL DEFINATELY STOP PLAYING THE GAMES...HE WILL SEE THAT YOU ARE SERIOUSLY INTO HIM...AND TRUST ME GUYS LOVE THAT! HOPE I WAS OF SOME HELP...
25640
My advice to you is do what you want to do but before you do make sure he likes you or your so called friends would make fun of you just because you like a guy I hope this makes senses if not then here I 'll clear it up. Go a head and tell them you like him and if they make fun of you oh well you can always make more friends and there could be girls out there that like him to. Tell me how it goes
448810
flirt and talk with him. If your sitting by him in class or something rub ure leg on his or something like that and see how he reacts if he moves it closer your succeeding if not then too bad. and Don't act like a skank, that is definitely a turnoff for me, but some guys may be different. good luck
441252
man...this is a toughy....he sux man why in the world would he do that n e way..and in fornt of you..HE HAS THE NERVE!!!!!\n\n\nyeah but i think you SHOULD flirt with a certain someone...rite in front of HIM....if that doesnt work....then see what his problem is ,...
166064
Ok I had this exact same relationship with my first boyfriend. First and foremost: Remain abstinet until you are certain you are ready. Do not let him affect that decision. Second: You have to lay it down straight. Make sure he does like you. Right now without you dating there is nothing you can do about his flirting but it is possible he is trying to make you jealous to see if you care. Show him you care but don't come off as jealous. Ask him out on a date, get the realtionship going then if he continues to flirt let him know how you feel about it.
526776
I love talking dirty and being talked dirty to.  You just need to get yourself in the right frame of mind.  Act confident and assertive and the rest will follow ...... stud!
419174
just give them the eye...most guys know that you're checkin them out if they can catch you staring at them...then its easier for them to come over and flirt.  Just be yourself...don't try to overdue yourself.
177991
You know what, I'm really sure that guy is flirting with, its just a different approach... You know, when guys like us flirt, it doesn't always mean that we have to touch you or something to make you feel that we are interested with you, always remember that when a guy only talks, makes you laugh, wants to have constant communication with you, that's a solid proof that he flirts with you... And for me, be proud of yourself because that guy will not show respect to you even he flirts with you if you don't deserve it, it only means that for him, you are a descent woman that deserves to be respected... And that's a compliment... And its good that he knows his limitations to you...
103476
The game goes- A guy wants what he cannot have. So by not showing interest in him he likes that because it's a challenge for him. SO my suggestion to you is keep playing the game by backing off a little and make him work for you. You already showed your interest now it's his turn!