When am having sex with my man I always get excited thinking of him doing it with a girl. I was wonderin if I should tell him, if he will. Only if I can watch.And I pick the girl.{Not anyone we know}.
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Oh silly virgo, no worries, you are not weird. We all have our own sexual fantasies, you are brave enough to admit them in an open forum. It's good to be in touch with yourself. I would tell your man, but be very careful before you act on anything. Once the door is open on that sort of fantasy, it is very hard to shut. Jealousy is a hard thing to deal with, even if you were never to see her again.
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I am very attracted to other women, they are sensual and passionate.  Being with another woman sexually is an incredible experience.  I have only been with one woman but the passion and the emotion that was involved in sex was incredible.  I have never been with a guy that I have felt that way with
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He just doesn't want it to get boring.  I get scared of the same thing b/c I do want sex all the time with my man.  I LOVE HIM!  But you just have to talk with him and give it time.  Maybe they dated a long time and that's why he was comfortable doing crazy sex scenes with her.  Your time will come.  OKAY?
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My oppinion is that you are a few of the smart loyal and honest men out there and I applaud you for your well train of thought and consideration. I do not feel anyone should look down on you just because you have considered things that for others it doesn't even cross their mind. Continue your great way of thought simply because so many of us fall under pressure especially when being tempted with sex, and drugs. I was also a virgin when I got married and so many friends told me I'd regret it but I've been married for a year and the thought of cheating on my husband because I never had anyone before him never crosses my mind. Not to mention the great respect I got and continue to get from my husband everytime we make love!  I'm sure you will find somone someday who is going to also appriciate your well thought in life! Good luck and God bless
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i don't want to think'bout that, for the very... thought that he has a girl breaks my heart. why all hot men are.. not ours? why there are never guys like that in your college or university, or neighborhood?
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why would you want your sister to have sex with you? that is not exactly someone you want to brag about having sex with, is it?  this must be a trick question becuase it is absurd.
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Yes, because I feel a heightened intimacy during that time of the month. I took a tip from someone else on this site who suggested doing it in the shower, vaginally, with your man behind you, while the water streams down on the 2 of you. It is SOOO HOTTT!!! "Should women?" There is no harm in it. I would suggest trying it if you are curious about it. If you don't like it, you don't have to do it again. As far as your question,"Should HE be the one to choose?" Heck no, girl. Nobody else ever chooses what I do with my body!!! EVER!!!
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I'm in the beginning of a relationship with a celebrity that I'm sure you all know. She said she has taken a chance on dating someone not famous so I have to be absolutely quite about it until we see where it goes. I'm starting to calm about it but I'm still super excited to just tell someone. I can't mention it to my friends, family, nobody-you are the first to know! We both like each other very much. It's been 5 months. I spend about 3 days a week with her-I wish it was more, but I don't think I can take the anonymity forever. If we get serious and go longer than a year I think it will be time to let the cat out of the bag by then. I'm always excited about this happening. It will be so crazy for my friends and family to find out on TV. You will know to. Keep an eye out because you will remember that I answered this question!
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years.....we were each others firsts and everything....I still LOVE being intimate with him....We spice things up by like getting into Kama Sutra or a video....we actually went into a porn store yesterday together it was fun....Definitely encourage her to play with herself....i never knew until i found out for myself...i dunno how comfortable she is about this subject, but she can email me if she'd like help
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dude your a human being, and your biologically wired to be aroused when you see a member of the opposite sex. So why wouldn't you be aroused when you see them actually performing sex? your human nature is in conflict with your morality. we all go through that. Its a good thing really, otherwise we'd just fuck and eat everything with out thought of the consequences.
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I know i am not a guy, but can i would like to share an experience.\n\nMy boyfriend now, was my first, and i was worried about the same things. He could tell, as soon as he stuck a finger in me.  He actually loved the fact i was, and was patient with me. He loves the thought that i'm experiencing everything the first time with him, and he can show me how to please him.  Its has been 8 months now, and we have an awesome sex life.  email me if you have more questions about this....i have been there.\n\nallyalexmch@yahoo.com
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I would ask him, I mean you watched things with him to turn him on. I  dont think he will be upset!! Its best you tell him instead of doing it behind his back!!!
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what does this have to do with me?\n\nyour title sucks!\n\n\nif your adventurous enough to be with a girl i guess you might be maturenough to be with a guy, however if your questioning it and second guessing at all.\nyou prob shouldn't have sex.\n\nnow heres an idea... this i what i would suggest to someone older but i have to just accept the fact that young ppl have goin crazy and f**king all the itme....\n\nget a guy or two and a girl and let him/them watch you with the other chich, and they are allowed to service themselves but they can't touch you unless you touch them first.....\nthat way they get pleasure and so do you and you ccan decide in the moment if your ready for it.\n\ni dunno thats what I would do anyway...and really what guy wouldn't want to watch two chicks goin at it?\nplus theres the off chance he could get tag teamed....
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heck yea its possible i was that way for a long time,lol,i just make up stuff or let people give me ideas,have yall ever been able to openly talk about sex ,swinging,or stuff of that nature,she might be worried about what you will think if she really tells you,like hanin a menage trois,2 male 1 female ,that was really hard for me to tell my husband ,because i thought he would think less of me.
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Hey, Conan, here's a newsflash:  you're normal!  Right, some men aren't quite as driven as you and some are even more driven.  But they're normal, too.  As long as you don't hurt anyone, including yourself, ain't no sweat.  And as long as it does not bother your GF...Look, there is no absolute regarding what endorphins do or do not do for you.  There is a range of acceptable responses and yours do fall within that range.  By the way, if she gets you that hot 'n bothered, would ya mind posting her pic so's us other guys can see what we're missing?
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Okay, I know Im a gal, but I must say this.....I LOVE the fact that my husband speaks his mind. We have had arguments of opinion, but I would HATE him if he just agreed with me to please me. I want a MAN not a wimp. I fell in love with my man for being who he is, not want he thinks I want. We have a very strong relationship because even when we disagree at least we are comfortable enough to be who we are without fear. Love that about us!
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He is definitely a cute guy.  I'm in my early 20's, how old is he?  My older sister said she thinks he's super sexy.  Then she said she wondered if that was any different than when grown men make comments on young actresses.  I don't think it's any different.  But anyway, haha, all my sisters and I think he's sexy.