Im an 18 year old female my boyfriend is 23 and was a virgin until 2 weeks ago now he says he loves me is he for real or is it just because I was his first?
203336
I think he do love you, due to the fact you lost your women head to him so there are feelins all around you teo relationship. Just give it a try it want hurt, Just be careful with yourself
193774
sex isn't just an act there are emotions that will go along with being with someone in this way . If he really loves you he will wait dont comprimise your morals  your only a virgin once once you have you cant go back  yes you can remain from having sex but your so young sex will always be there. i dont know him  but the guys i dated will tell you what ever it takes to get you into bed the good ones wont pressure you    i know  its hard  we have all been there   also if you happen to get prenant are you really ready for  all that respnsiblity  it will change your life .  some people are more mature than others at this age  just write down your thoughts  maybe seeing it on paper will help you decide    go talk to girls your age and get there input the ones that have babies on just the ones that have been through this stuff   you said you have morals and goals    if you are a religious person  go talk to a  teen  counselor than can help without judging  you . and if your parents  change their mind and decide to press legal charges against him because of his age  prison isnt going to be a place for him    dont risk  doing that to him     even if you dont want them to they can still override  and go to the law    i'm  not trying to scare you  just want you to get all the  facts before you make the decision   i wish someone would have told me about all the emotionally things that go along with sex    i have been with several  guys  when i was your age  i'm 20 something   and i still have  emotions from my first time  and  the times after  that.  there is so much life to experience  take it and run but be carful.
676387
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18.  Sex is not something that should be taken lightly.  Tell her that she shouldn't have sex until she's ready and that if some guy cant' accept that, he's not worth it.
266764
whoa.. 17 is really young! you're probably not even in college yet.. \ni would recommend waiting a little while, and if he really loves you he'll wait until you're ready..
5060
First of all, if you're that worried about this you're probably not mature enough to have sex yet.  Secondly, if he tells you he's a virgin and insists on it and whatever just believe him.  I don't understand how someone can "look like a virgin."  We were all virgins at some point.  Lastly, it's really easy to find out about sexual things from movies, books, the internet, magazines, friends and so on and so on.  Knowing about sex doesn't mean you have it all the time.  Just don't worry so much and enjoy being a friggin teenager.
463687
Definetely tell him if you aren't ready. If he pressures you when you don't feel ready, you might want to re-evaluate your relationship with him. If he's a real gentleman, he'll realize that you're worth the wait and not force you to do anything.\n\nAs for the fact that you lied, it would be a bigger deal if you had lied about being a virgin when you weren't. But, since that's not the case he shouldn't be too mad, and if he is, he is overreacting. \n\nGood job on sticking to your morals and not having sex whenever, wherever, you should be proud of yourself and don't let others eat away at your self-esteem. Doing something just because everyone else does it is rarely a good reason for anything. \n\nPeace and good luck!
600530
follow your heart and remember to stand firm on your beliefs. What a precious gift to give someone you truely love. I would definately talk with him again. Sometimes young men that age think if you don't go farther in a relationship that you don't really love them or you have doubts. That simply isn't true...wouldn't he rather you wait until you can fully give yourself to the person you are gonna spend the rest of your life with. You are a very smart young lady to realize that you are to young to proceed further. You only get one chance to be young and innocent. Don't let him pressure you into doing ANYTHING you are not fully ready for mentally or physically. It's a gift you can truely only give once. Be safe sweetie.
282634
I say, go with what seems right.  If you really love this man and I hope you do, than you should know who/how many he has been with in the past.  Also, if you love each other, than you are not being used.  If he is pressuring you and you are not ready, I would move on.\n  Then, if you are a virgin and say he has been with 2 other women, he probably doesn't have too much experience either.  All men are different, so it is hard to say what his expectations may be.  The only man I have ever had sex with is my husband.  He had sex with one other woman before me, so I knew a little of what I was up against.  She was no competition so I wasn't worried that I wouldn't make him happy in bed even though I was a virgin.  Just gently stroke him, try to be comfortable in your own skin when you do the deed and if you  are completely clueless, follow his lead.  Good luck!
27341
if you have never seen a penis and he knows this and is still wanting to have sex with you then his care or you is not very deep. He may care for you kinda. But not the way he should to have the right to take your virginity. This is a fact. YOU WILL NEVER FORGET THE PERSON WHO TOOK YOUR VIRGINITY! Is this the guy you really want to remember when you are 40 and married and have kids running around the house? When you and your college girlfreinds talk about your frst time, is your story going to be one of compassion and care, or one of you not knowing anything and being at his mercy to hope he doesn't hurt you, because YES it will hurt the first time. What is your value? How much are you worth? Are you a good person who is nice and tries to do her best? Then you are very valuable and your virginity can only be given away once. Is this guy so great to you that you want him to have something that you can only give to one person in all your life? When you are young it is very very very hard to tell a guy no. Guys have a way of saying things that make our insides melt. and some will pressure us and accuse of us not caring about them if we don't have sex with them. But if they think we don't care about them, then why are they trying to have sex with us??? hmmmmmm   some will even threaten to spread rumors about us if we don't have sex with them. and i'll tell you how to handle those guys....you tell them if they say anything bad about you that you will tell everybody you DID sleep with them and they had a tiny penis. That will shut them up! As for seeing a penis before you have sex, go to the library and look under books on human sexuality. You can find proper pictures of both a mans body and yours'. This is a decision that will be your first step into making big decisions that affect your life for the rest of your life. If you think you want to wait a week or two and go see some books at the library first to know more before you have sex, then tell him you have decided to wait for a few days. If he says that it is not fair or wants to now why, tell him it is your decision not his or anybody elses and you will let him know when you are sure you are ready.
526207
Kudos for you still being a virgin, I hope that my daught will say that many, many, many years from now.  And the right guy will be comming along.  Just dont stress.  you will be noticed when you least expect it.
577142
We all loose our virginity eventually.  Whether its a good thing or not, really only depends on you.  If you felt it was right at the time then why bother with anyone else.     The only person to judge you , is you and no one else.   Now that you have lost your virginity,  just be careful.   And it does get better.   I just hope the guy likes you too and isn't just using you.   Take care.
10413
he probably wants you for the wrong reasons. hold off because, being a virgin makes you very desirable.
598951
No it is not bad to think twice! absolutely not! you are way too young to be serious about whatever it is between you and your guy.  there is much more in life that both of you can enjoy. lay low with the hot stuff of love. love will always be there if it's solid as the rock that you'll have when the right time comes. i say, wait for some time. enjoy life! anyway, life is a box of chocolate... you'll never know what you'll get!
228580
nO THIS DOESNT SOUND DUMB SWEETY..LOOK I WAS 20 B4 I LOS MY VIRGINITY AND IM PROUD..DONT DO IT UNLESS U ARE READY AND U KNOW THE PERSON IS THE RIGHT PERSON I WISH I COULD TAKE MY VIRGINITY BACK FROM WHO I GAVE IT TO TO GIVE IT TO THE MAN DEEPLY LOVE...WHEN U ARE READY JUST TAKE IT SLOW. DONT LET ANY MAN PRESSURE U INTO IT ITS YOUR BODY UR CHOICE.
255143
Im glad to hear that there r  some more smart girls in the  world than i thought!!! i live in europe and rare who loose virginity being 16 or earlier there. I know in US there is different.  Congradulations!!!  Dont be affraid...U know when i lost mine? Last  year, being 21. And im very glad about that. Cause  i found that guy who i want to be with all my life...  And  i am so proud i could had that  moment with him only.  im not sorry   i have been waiting till this moment so long. I remember the minute, wheh i told him i am still a virgin. He was. liek "wow...  im proud.."  trust me, he adores me now, cause  nowadays it is so  hard to find virgin girls..  We r going to get marriage in the future...  And i am so happy :))))))\n\nSo dont   be affraid..If u feel  this is a man u wanna be with,  of course tell him, he is going to be first. I odnt see anything u should be shame of... What going on with the world today...   Why we r trying to get adults so fast..  There r so many pure things, which we r forced to be shame of...\n\nI am with you!!!!\n\nSo wish u luck  on sharing that special moment with a guy u love and wnat to be with.   U will always rememebr that moemnt :))))))))\n\nps. sorry, if my english is not as perfect as i wish it to be :))))))))))
16722
leave him now or, find out the hard way.  He is taking advantage of you because you are young.  Be with someone your own age before you loose your self esteam and self confidence.
168909
No. I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 15. It was not a good experience. I was with someone I loved, someone I'm still with to this day (over a year later). But I wasn't ready. In truth, I didn't really know what was happening until it was too late. Don't get me wrong, I knew what sex was. I just didn't know we were going to have it. Lol. I felt pressured. He was 18 and extremely experienced. And when I say extremely, I mean he'd been with 33 girls before me. I also didn't like the WAY it happened. There were no candles, no soft music. Just a movie playing. And it was rushed and tense because my grandparents were in the other room. So if you're thinking about having sex for the first time, loving the person's not the only thing you have to worry about. Make sure you're completely comfortable with the idea. Make sure you're alone and you use protection. (Which I didn't.) Plan ahead of time. And make it special. Remember, you only get one first time.