I mean, there's a LOT of men out there with all those qualities, but women seem to be in denial about it.  If he's nice, he must be boring, passive, etc.
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It's simple. Some women just don't know what they want. They always want the fantasy, the romance, the trumpets. I'm a woman and I think it's a lot of bull. I'm with a guy who is nice and fun, sexy and confident. He may be just an ordinary guy at times (sit in front of the TV, feast on pizza) but when he wants to impress me or be romantic he surprises me!
155927
That is because the majority of them are out for one thing and if they don't get what they want, they move on.  Now I said majority!!  There are a number of men out there that are predictable and will be the man of your dreams!!
70045
Why . . . because they have no game . . . and they don't know how to play.  They are dirt a** broke . . . and are desperate for companionship.\n\nI may not be the hottest guy around . . . but I still get my pick of the litter . . . and I don't have to say a word to do it.
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Well, there is a thrill in the hunt. Some guys see a beautiful woman, and don't think they have any chance at all in her being interested in them. And then if she does show an interest, there is an accomplishment for them. But, I will tell you, No matter how beautiful a gal is, most guys will run if they think she is High Maintenance.
601993
There are good and honest single guys out there....but sometimes they hide because "nice guys" always finish last so why put yourself out there. Take a look at my 360 page if you would like. Send me a msg. I know a couple good and nice guys.
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Mental is a big aspect.  He's gotta be smart enough to respect women and intelligent enough to hold a converation.  Looks, while not a MAJOR priority... I still gotta be attracted to the guy.  What's the point in dating the perfect man if the though of fooling around gives you the creeps?
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Some guys are just so unsecure with themselfs that they put up a front. Some are shy etc etc etc etc. Then again some are just jerks that have to put on a show for their "friends" so they do not lose face. If a guy really wants you to be around, he'll do just that no matter what his "friends" think or do.
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This is only true when women don't really know what they want!  I have so many girlfriends that tell me how lucky I am to be married to such a sweet and sensitive guy, and how they want to be married and having a family.  But then, I witness them meet nice guys all the time, get bored, and then dump them!  I tell them, yes, I am lucky!  Lucky that I found a sweet and sensitive guy, and also lucky that I encountered enough A-holes before him to appreciate him!  They will appreciate and love the nice guy, once they've had their share of the bad, and are really ready to settle down!
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I consider myself a nice, respectful guy with a good body, and it's difficult to find girls who are the same way.  A lot of girls think that its superficial for a guy to be interested in girls who take good care of themselves, but it's not.  If someone has an active lifestyle and eats reasonably, their body will show it.
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why do women always think the guy is angling after something.i will do anything for anyone.no matter how old,or young,or ugly,or beautiful they are.maybe he is just a nice guy.it sounds to me as if you have had trouble with men in the past and are taring them all with the same brush.
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Are you serious??? There are still guys like that? Haha. That’s quite funny because you don’t find many guys who think or feel that way anymore.  And when you do your lucky. The reason girls feel like that is because that’s probably all guys had wanted from them before. No matter how many times guy say “not all guys are jerks” The moment we start to believe some guys are nice and give them a chance, is when we end up getting fooled and hurt. Some girls get so hurt by the fact of being used and being told lies so that guys could get what they wanted. If you really are interested in a girl, prove to her your not like that. It may be hard work at first but in the end, it’ll be worth it. Goodluck.
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ahhhhhhhhh. You're going to get reamed for stating this truth, my friend. :) It's MAJORLY politically incorrect. Even though it's the honest truth. \n\nWomen choose a**holes to marry, becaue they crave excitement and mystery. But, the qualities that attract these men to women, make them extremely poor choices for an LTR. but women think they can CHANGE ceratin aspects of the man, thereby having their cake and eating it too. In reality, the male will use the woman for what he will, them leave her when he becomes bored with her. WHY? Because he knows he can easily go find another. The majority of women WANT the personality traits that these individuals possess; confidence, arrogance, bad-boy attitude. And then the women will complain bitterly when they are left high and dry. \n\nNot all women are this way. JUST the majority. Conversely, not all men are a**holes. But the minority in both cases, seems to be getting smaller and smaller every day.
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I do not know what you are talking about. If a man tries to talk to you and you tell them that you are involved or not interested, you become a snob. Sometimes womwn are just not interested!!
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No, I think you are being realistic.  I think intelligent men probably hang out at bars and stuff too, but they probably aren't as brash and stand out like the others.  They are probably more low-keyed.  One way of possibly meeting some is thru your friends and family.  Hopefully, they would be a good judge of character for you.
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I think it depends on how you portray your confidence.  A lot of times guys think they are just being confident, but to everyone else it seems like they're being cocky.  There's a fine line.
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Because genetically women GENERALLY are looking fora good provider - - so years and years of training has caused men to attempt to prove they can be a good provider, and to do this they brag on the possessions they have acquired.\n\nWhat you might consider is peeling the onion.  Rather than dismissing a man simply because he took the wrong route to get your attention attempt to redirect his focus.  Don't be so callous as to dismiss him but ask him questions about things that interest you.  \n\nI promise being understanding and nice and kind doesn't hurt at all.  You might find it to be useful, unless you plan to live the rest of your life alone and angry.
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He displays more feminine qualities than masculine ones. I just think he hasn't been exposed to sex, hanging out, just being less uptight. He probably has been sheltered and just hasn't came out of it yet. He needs to though, it is not cool to be this old and not acting mature. As for the females, he might just be intimidated by them, but as for acting like a mature college student, he needs to grow up, he is a bad role model for the children he babysits.