after i earned his trust i want 2 know if i should hang out with him\ni asked a cute guy out said no and he used 2 stare now like a week after he stares again and i still like him we dont hang out or anything but should i hang out with him so he knows wat im realy like not the short girl who hes known since 2nd grade or wat i need help
211806
who cares if he stares at u he said he didn't want to hang out wit u. get over it!
589241
Leave him behind, if he had another girl on his arm the very next day after you asked him out, then he is definitely not serious about a relationship, he probably said yes to keep all his bases covered, just go to the bar have a few drinks, maybe play some pool, sit back and unwind you'll most likely meet someone that serious about a relationship in no time at all. And if that's not your goal then grab a rebound guy" been one my self a few times" and show him off to your ex and see what his reaction is. well that's all the advice i can give with out breaking a million more of the guy codes, but hey good luck with what ever you chose.
365878
You obviously waited too long and another girl took the opportunity and swept him off his feet. Its ok though, you're just gonna have to act faster and not be hesitant next time. I know this from experience and I know how it feels when you like somebody and they like you but then someone else comes along. Plus, he may still have feelings for you and if his current relationship doesn't work out, you know what to do.......
650520
you shouldnt ask people out all of the sudden. you might freak him out. first get to know him and become friends. then if he seems to like you and you still like him, go ahead and ask him out.
273675
Before   you  get  involved  with  this  guy,  do  what  any  reasonable   person  would  do. Weigh   the  PROS  and   CONS of  getting  involved  with  him. This  guy is   supposed  to   make  you  happy  not  drown   you  in   worry so  do   what's  best  for  you .Liking  him  is   not  a  bad  thing  all  I'm  saying  is , don't  put  yourself  on  the  line because  of  this.
604735
Better not ask him out together since both your friend and you like the same guy. I got a friend in the same situation. Later he got together with one of the gals and the 3 of them are like really awkward! Think of your friendship!
141806
Ask him out, I guess that is the only way to ever find out if this "girlfriend" is real or just a way to get your attention. I'm guessing he's just trying to get a reaction from you to see if you really like him or not. Go for it and ask him out!
231480
What I would do is something similar to everything that got said before. If you aren't already, be friends with him, get to know him, let him get to know you. If you still feel the same, and he hasn't already done so, you should ask him out. As awkward as it would seem. As a guy that's been asked out in the past myself, I can personally say that this might be the best course of action for you, and maybe een for him.
4846
Well hey listen up let me help! Since you gave me some good advice this is what you should do let the guy talk to you and then like go to the common place to hang out right. ok then what you should do since you really like him is to pop a question about relationships or something. You know next if that bails you should move on to plan "b" like talk about something funny get him going then just say that you like him in a humorous way. Just to let him see you are thinking about something so that encourages him to want more!!!! Well probaly does not help at all but try it and see your results because this is  what happened to me and ive been going out with my Boyfriend for three months.
631640
My rule of thumb, is never to date anyone that works with you, unless they are in a different dept., or you don't see them during your everday.  Because if it doesn't workout it can backfire.  I think the time frame for being in the friend category is anything past 3 flirting sessions.  Then I would wonder does this guys have b.alls enough to ask me out?  I guess not, then I would move on and just be friendly with you.  I hope it works out for you, step it up a notch.  Don't worry if she says no, there are many other girls.
551871
depends. i would probably wait until he surpised me or something. and the moment was right. depends if he is just a f*ck buddy for someone you might see you spending time with alot.it just depends.
477904
I think he still likes you, but he probably chickened out. The tournament COULD have been true...but... The guy could have met another girl, also.  I'd suggest YOU asking him to go out some other time, and see what happens. If he says no, just shrug it off, sort of, "Okay, just thought it'd be fun." If he says yes, well then.... Good luck, girlie!!! ;)
431025
I think you both like each other. However this guy is not sure of how you feel about him so, he's sort of "covering his bases", meaning he's looking for other girls who may also like him. I suggest that you try to get more of his time, (in a non clingy, weird way) like invite him for ice cream or lunch...I think you should keep going and give him that tiny push he needs, to ask you out.
241934
roll with it. everyone has personal do's and dont's. rules are made to be broken. i say that too at first. if this dude really likes you he wont want to see his girl goin out with other guys.
279205
do you guys ever hang out? if you don't you should. flirt with him! he'll get the idea and if he's interested he'll ask you out. otherwise wait awhile and casually be like 'i think i like you.' if he rejects you he wasn't worth your time<3\nxo\nhannah
328531
You assume he knows the answer to that question.  Sometimes guys can look at a girl and be unsure of how they feel (and vice versa).  Sometimes they just want to see what path the relationship takes on its own.  \n\nNow, the question is, do you want to see where that path goes?  Or do you want something more definite if not now, soon?  \n\nI can't tell you what you should do, other than feel around for it.  Search your heart.  And you can take a walk with this and not be committed to him 100%.  Personally I avoid confrontation since it has a tendency to back people into a corner, but if it remains ambiguous and you are unsatisfied with the relationship, I'd talk to him about where he sees you going, if anywhere.
374802
I would trust him until he gives you a reason not to.  A guy doesn't like it when he's with an insecure girl, so be secure with yourself and just give him a chance until he gives you a reason to think otherwise.