There is this guy named Tyson, and he is always hanging around me, making up reasons to talk to me, helping me with my homework, but he says he doesn't like me that way, but I'm not sure, I need your opinion people, and I need it quick.\n\nP.S. HE IS MY EX-BOYFRIEND.
204643
well it is one of two things. one he is not over you, but he is afraid of how he feels. if that is the case, he is not doing a good job of hiding his feelings.the other thing could be that he cares for you as a friend, and feels a need to protect you from any one that could hurt you. since the latter sounds a little odd for this situation, i would say the former applies to you.if you still want this boy, talk to him. that could be another reason he doesn't tell you he wants to be with you.
38777
Okay, I was in a similar sitution. This girl at my school, who happened to be my boyfriend's (at the time) ex, tried to break us up. It worked, also for like a day, and we got back together. Then she was saying stuff like she wanted to kick my a s s and run me over with a truck and crap like that. I told my boyfriend about it and he said that if she did anything to me, he would make her face unidentifiable. Ha! She never did anything about it, I think she was just trying to sound tough about it. I'd tell your boyfriend and he can tell her off, and I'm sure he'll keep you safe.
413468
He does the same thing to me!  Just ignore him.  He is just seeking attention.  He obviously has issues.
516379
I just got over a relationship where my best friend (who was also his x girlfriend) and him kept staying friends. I didnt really let him know how much it bothered me, but now that i look back, it totally bothered me... and now that were not together, im so glad its over because that issue was so annoying, not worth dealing with. Tell him to loose her and if he can't, drop him!
660440
LOL!! That was a beautiful way to handle that situation!! <bowing humbly>  There is nothing wrong with what you asked him and if he's never talked to you like this before, I would be a little suspicious.  Why is he so defensive?  It was an innocent question, nothing clingy about it.  Something doesn't sit right with this...I could be wrong...but it sounds like he's trying to hide something.
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
48992
i recently found myself in the same situation, so i know what you're going through.  the guy gets mad because he's worried that (like the other dude said), you guys are talking about him behind his back.  he may also be worried because you two may find out that he was cheating on both of you with the other one...as in my case.  Regardless, if you two really are friends and have lots in common, then screw the guy and thank him for a really good friend.  It'll really piss him off...
468197
he seems like an asshole.  avoid him and perhaps your friend should avoid him as well.  since he is an ex, he has no reason to have contact with you, let alone your friend.
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Guess what L****e, I've noticed that too. * really 'dumps' himself on you whenever he feels he needs help. No offence, but I really dont like him as a person anymore. I did like him in the pre-M****e days, but now... YUCK. Plus, hes an EMO which is really starting to bug me. And his hair!! HELLOOO you are plantinum blonde!! Never gonna get it to go black!! Don't worry though, because  when he remembers that you where there when he was dumped the first time, he'll come crawling back. Either that, or I'll make him remember i.e. hurting him. xx
398033
someone made up some story about you. they probabely told him that you dont like him or something. Or said that you told him that he is a pain or some ridiculous thing like that. and if you ask him he will just say, "you know exactly why im not talking to you" right??
38691
This guy is toying around with you.  He's hot, then he's cold.  Sounds like you'd be better off without all the mind games and drama.  Looks will only get you so far.  Have to have the personality to match!  Don't call.  If he calls, and you still want to be with him, make it conditional.  Ask him to be honest re: what he feels and to stop acting like such a "drama queen."  If he blows up or acts immature again, then leave the relationship alone.  At least you gave him one final chance to prove himself.  You are much better off looking elsewhere.
110018
first off, if y'all did it, thats why he doesn't want to spend time with you.  Second off, if y'all didn't do it, maybe he thought man, this chick is really annoying & I don't want to talk to her anymore I spent all day with her & thats all the time I need to get to know that I don't want to date her.  Or, he's probably just a jerk.
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Are you CRAZY???? This guy just said all the right things, just what you wanted to hear. You Made out with him so quick don't you think he is working you so he can go further? If you don't listen to me I guaranty that when he gets what he wants he is soooo out of there and you well be left alone...
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You don't mention what the arguments are about.  It sounds like he's trying to control you.  You're getting all tied into knots trying to figure out how to please him.  What is he doing to please you?  He gets things all wrong on purpose dear.  He is making you unsure of yourself, and he's with holding his affection from you.  I don't think I'm wrong about this.  Dump this jerk while you still have some self esteem left.
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Aww that's terrible, to me it sounds like he's the one with all the problems and you're going out of your way to be friends with him.  He's being abit patronising and maybe it means he needs to grow up abit, so maybe there isn't anything you can do at the moment except explain to him again all this from your perspective.  When he does degrade make sure you defend yourself, and even if you're not right maybe you can give the thoughts you had that made you think that way.  But it's not an exam, and please don't let him make you feel bad and I really hope it works out!
401235
How over is it with your ex??? Is it over for good or don't you know? This guy sounds really nice and If he likes you  you should give it a chance. he was trying to avoid you because he is Trying to protect himself from getting hurt and from being in a weird situation with his boy. But that does not mean he isn't willing to try if you are.
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to many wholes in this like swiss cheese. think about this for a minute here's a guy that you say is soooooo sweet  and smart. and yet he is with his girlfriend and trys to flirt and pick you up by saying lets hang out only you and me. whats wrong with this picture?\n\nSome sweet guy you have on your hands there. Can't you see he's not so nice of a guy if he's doing this right under his girlfriend nose. what makes you any thing special once he gets bored of you he'll do the same to some other poor sap. Tell him your not interested in being another notch on his belt. The guy has no class.