he is totally different from school and online. hes so shy at school but online we can talk for hours about nothing and it will be fun and i will feel like ive known him my whole life. what should i do?
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Move from online personas to the phone... just tell him one night while you're chatting online that you'd like to hear his voice as he's cracking jokes - makes it more personal. Then from there, you two should be able to slowly move from the phone to in person without too much awkwardness.\n\nSome relationships don't survive the online to face-to-face move... but friendship will always remain if you keep at it. Best of luck!
369180
Communication is key to a happy relationship.  If you guys don't talk at all at school then he doesn't really like you.....dump him and find you a real man.  There's over a billion men out there, go have fun!
462353
He very well might - you should see if he can hang out outside of school one day... make it a group thing so there is less pressure -like get some friends together to watch a movie or whatever you like to do.... then you two can hang out and talk and get to know eachother more.  thats the best way to go about it!
321524
you can't make a person like you.. but since you've known him since 3rd grade you prob know him really well.. so try to show him how you two have some of the same interests.. and do things for him that you know he likes..
315838
as long as your bro's fine with it, try to talk to him. if you two can't chill without seeing eachother in school, then there's no point of even trying to have a relationship with him. if you really like eachother, you will make it work. give him a call
30801
the best thing I can suggest for you is to see if he has an email address and email him. don't show him that you are too shy. just express your feelings for him. If you like this guy go for it.
128841
Keen as you both may be I think you are both nervous about putting yourself out there... it is scary to say how you feel with no guarantee about how the other feels, and he may be feeling the same.\n\nI would say try not to rush it... try to find things that you can do together as friends... things that include groups of others... then a few others... then a couple of others.\n\nYou dont have to tell someone that you like them... they say actions speak louder than words!\nSo smile at him a lot, send him a cute card when you get a chance, buy him a small easter egg, if he likes a particular group then look up info about them online and learn a bit about them so you can share his enthusiasm...\nit is the little things that make the biggest impact.\n\nOnce both of you are comfortable together... and you are both fairly confident of each others feelings towards each other, nature will probably take over.\n\nGood luck!
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I'm going to be blatently honest with you.  If this guy has gotten to know you already and still declined dating, then he's just not interested in you.  he'd make room for dating if he liked you like that.  However, if he doesn;t know you very well, actively try to start a friendhsip.  just put ti to him like this 'everybody has to have friends- it releives stress, and you can't have stress getting in the way of your schoolwork'.  if after he gets to know you he still seems disinterested, then either keep him as a friend or move on.
405786
Maybe he's just not into going out right now, maybe focusing on school?  Don't worry, just leave him alone, or talk to him and see what's going on with him
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ok. i 've got a plan. try to participate in a lot of activities at his school. although you are a 7th grader, there may be activities at his school still. you can become more easily known. like that, some time sooner or later, the boy will come up to you and say, "Hey, you are in the ...*whatever you participated in*" and you will say, "Yeah, I am." ANd then you can began a short introduction there. it won't take too many guts, because he approached you. If he doesn't approach you, then just appraoch him. With things like, "Hi! Do you want to join this club too?" Pretend to be advertising a club. ANd you can say,"This club is really cool becasue of *blank* if you ever want to join contact me I am *say ur name*." It's not that hard.
399891
I would just casually flirt with him at school and talk about guy things to him and if you can cook, invite him for dinner one evening. that always works. Then reel him in.
174444
just think of it this way...if he came up to you and said hey, you'd say hey back right? there is no harm in saying hey? i mean you talk online, why not in person? and ask questions, i mean you have the simple ones like..."whats up?", "what did you do today?", "how was school?", "what are you gonna do for the weekend?" they love it when you are interested in them...later on you get into "what sports do you do?" and so on, just do whatever have no regrets, we're young this will all blow over when we're older and we'll forget about this, have fun.
380327
doesn't he go to school where there are other people, and cant he find his own friends to talk to online instead of having you do it?
168760
if you met him on myspace then just ask him if he would like to do something sometime. if he says yes then you are golden but if he says no then you will probably have the same relationship with myspace. so pretty much you just have an online relationship that you can find pretty much anywhere on the internet or you could have a relationship with a guy you like in real life. give up the online relationship if you have to and just ask him out. you have the saftey blanket of being online so you wont get too nervous in person to tell him.
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Just play it cool - go up to him and tell him you think he's cute. He'll probably go bright red, but just smile and ask him if he wants to come over and do some homework or something together.\n\nIf he's really shy then you need to make the move or else you may never get together! Good luck! Be Brave!
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Be mature and do it yourself. But maybe don't just go up to him in class and be all, "Hey I like you!!!" Try to hang out with him first, you know, as "friends."  Then when you think the timing is right, let him know how you feel.
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i almost have the same situation like you..\nmaybe you can talk to him on a place where there's no too much people.ask him what he feels about you,let him talk first.but if he doesn't tell what he really feels,he might be shy.but,look at his eyes while he is talking,you might get what he wants to tell you!!\n\nand, you are only 13, that isn't love already..it is only puppy love or a crush, do not take it seriously..when yo gedt older,you can meet other guys and might find another one,for now,just enjoy what is happening on both you! and do not expect anything from him!!don't always give meanings on what is happening on bot of you!!just enjoy!!^^,)