Or is it just wishfull thinking? And also Ive heard that a lot of Asian women these days are breaking with tradition and going out with westerners...or is this wishfull thinking also?
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I'm a Westerner married to a Chinese lady. Yes, they love blue eyes but don't think just because you have blue eyes they will be falling at your feet. Asian women are damn smart and have great integrity.
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you know what.. I am a Filipino and I have a lot of online friends... even foreigners..\n\nit is so sad to see this kind of stories involving my countrywoman.. i won't blame you guys if you condemn her but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do not try to make us ALL Filipinos look like SOCIAL CLIMBERS nor GOLD DIGGERS... Remember, this is not a unique issue! And we are not sure if this is the first time for it to happen... I bet, it also happened to your country... it may not be an INTERACIAL CONFLICT....\n\nTo the one who made this question.. I hope you'll move on as soon as possible.. you take care :)
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I DON'T UNDERSTAND YOUR STORY. \nWHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?? WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY "WE OVERSEA VIETNAMESE DO NOT THINK WIFE HAVE TO CONTROL HUSBAND."???
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Any man with experience will tell you that very few women are weak and fewer still are subservient.  \n\nThere are a vast number of Asians out there and thus there are a vast number of different personalities but if any generalization at all could me made, on could say that Asian women are not weak nor subservient.  Its an act.  They are very good actors. \n\nAmerican women, like most humans, are jealous when they don't get enough attention and will make up just about anything to satisfy their jealousy.  \n\nIts interesting, in most things I can see good and bad but in jealousy I can't see any redeeming feature.
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The eyefolds exaggerate the "bedroom eyes" appearance.\nActually the primary thing going for Asian women is the perception, often accurate, that they subordinate themselves to men.  This is very appealing to men who still have a biological imperative to protect and control.
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Its fine.\n\nIts society that has hardwired women through many centuries stating that if a woman makes the advance first she's "loose". In present times this is starting to die off. So go for it.\n\nalso, fuck society.
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Ask they how they would feel if the Western World said "yes" but it had to apply both ways?\n\nI suspect that might not be as acceptable :-)\n\nBasically folks should follow their own paths - most versions of polygamy that I have seen described are one-way both in gender and in the purpose of it (the 4 wives description above is quite telling).
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No I think it is an archaic tradition of backward People desiring to remain so. I believe marriage is something that should be decided between to people that have enough love to get them through. Marriage is tough enough in the busy world we are in today. A man & a women need to be like minded for this decision.\nIt takes a very high level of commitment, and trust to give it ago.
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I think y ou might have something there.  As you can see from the previous answers, we're thinking like rational Westerners, when we're dealing with people who are alien to us.  If it works, let's do it.
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I believe that they fall into these ethnically biased stereotypes. Most white men view Asian women as small, delicate creatures that are subservient. This appeals to them be cause men, especially white men have a desire to dominate. This should be apparent with all of the conquering and enslavement done by the white man. They also feel think that Asian women give great oral sex. This is a widely believed stereotype by many white males. If ever you have a question about males and are searching for the answer look towards the sex. That is all we are about, almost every decision we make and action we take is a step towards sex or driven by sex, at least with in our own minds. If these statements offend anyone, I am sorry. This is what I truly believe and have come to this conclusion through the many interactions I have had with guys throughout my life.
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I would say that depends where in Japan, in the major cities women  are  competing  with men for the same jobs and are valued just as highly as men, in the  suburbs perhaps not as  much...  but still they have definitely  joined   other progressive  countries ..
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"miss.china d" must have had a bad experience with them..\nMy buddy can say all asian women are whores since his mom cheated on his dad and all his sisters are hoes and his ex g/f(asian chic)wanted to cheat on him with me.She's probably pretending to be asian w/fake avatar anyways-(it's common in this site)...\n\nI can tell ya that all races have there A-h o l e s...\nI know that asian guys are the same as any...I know alot from school/work/parties,etc. and most of them are pretty cool and kick it like any other.There are way too many breeds(thai,vietnamese,cambodian,korean,and the list goes on for ever)...you'll get alot unfamiliararities due to many different upbringings...it gets confusing but I'm use to it cause the heavy population of them where I live.Hope ya get good contacts.
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we "modern humans", both men and women, i have seen have started getting such tendencies to seek a relationship outside even if they are satisfied .\n\neven in countries like mine - India - which is much more conservative and where marriages are by and large done once in a life and they survive till both die\n\ni attribute 2 reasons for it - greed and the need for change.\n\nGreed because man & woman want more and more out of life in the area of sexual and emotional fulfilment. Meaning they want such things from more than 1 people\n\nChange because like every other thing, many people have started taking relationships as a commodity, which should be changed frequently. Instead of understanding the partner, they just live them alone for self-good.
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Sure it is.  There are even very sincere male Goddess-worshipers, who find something sacred and divine in women.  There are also men who, while not going that far, are sincere in their affection for all that is a woman, not just the part she keeps covered by her underwear.  But such gentlemen must be raised by gentlemen, and have ladies worthy of that sort of devotion modeled for them in their mothers, sisters, aunts, cousins.  \n\nJust as obnoxious, overbearing and even violent men have often learned that from their fathers, grandfathers and uncles, noble gentlemen learn from their male relatives. Most people learn by example most of the time.  (Sobering thought, isn't it, parents!)
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There are many different customs/traditions regarding dating and what not in various countries. From what I've seen, most european countries, the women are more bold and open to dating. In the US it is more of a game, and a lot of women can  be very cold and stuck up. It's a shame, really.
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it's a steroetype that Asians are, let's say prostitutes because the Japanese had an open mind about sex and pilligamy (sp?) or having a lot of wives were acceptable in China. And it's been said by a long of guys that they like Asian girls more than others.\nIt's just that the stereotype on Chinese are two different types. China dolls, of shy girls that are quiet and submissive that some aggressive guys in movies like. and dragon ladies, which are like the girls who like to be on top in a basic sense.
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Most Asian are born like that and not only that, their family is the one who put them on that path. I'm an girl n i'm Asian, I bend my parents rules, I dont care much about electronic, as long as i kno how to read electronic instructions, that's all it matter. They just born out natural smart n more into computer shit. I also have Asian friends who are major in engineer, n they look soo crappy bc of all the staring on the computer all days. Well, all i have to say is, yea, Asian are weird.