I went back with my ex-boyfriend because i still had feelings for him and i didn't want to be with no one but him so we went back with each other and now that we are back together he had change and I don't know what to do with him but i want to be with him and that i love him dearly but i just don't know what to do.
201756
IF YOU HAVE TO ASK HE PROBABLY IS SO JUST DROP HIS ***
370594
Not sure I get the question but I was with my ex girlfriend for 3 years and I thought I was in love with her then one day I sat back and thought "I don't actually like her, let alone love her". The revelation kicked me in the ass and after that I couldn't bare to be in the relationship with her anymore. She is a wonderful human being and very beautiful as well but I just felt nothing! I completely devistated her but even now, 6 months after she has gone, I still feel nothing for her! Odd!
585419
Lots of people experience this. Often these kinds of feelings can cause us to act in ways which are not in our best interest.  (e.g. to perpetuate a dysfunctional relationship because we like the way another person makes us feel some of the time.)  Ask yourself: Why is he my *ex*-boyfriend?  Something in the relationship wasn't working for one (or both) of you.  Is there chance that that problem can be overcome and resolved permanently?  Try to look at your own self, and identify ways which you might like to grow as a single person.  You don't actually need this guy, even if it feels like you do.
527660
Well if you really love your ex then go back to him, im in the same situation the exact situation. I realized what I had and I messed it up and im willing to do everything and spend the rest of my life making up to her. However, if you really like this guy try to understand both there feelings and consider which one will make you happy the most you never know you might end up misserable with the new guy. Dont use the new guy for a rebound either because im in the same situation but im a male and im hurting horribly for what i did.
640495
if u still love him think about giving him another chance but b4 making ur decision u should think about why u broke up with him in the first place and if ur rlly over wat he did to u. ask urself if u can rlly trust him again and if it's rlly a good idea to get back together with him the choice is urs \nGood Luck!!!
158268
It is normal to want to get back w/ your ex. However, you should only get back w/ him only if you want to.  Don't let him pressure you into it. There are a lot things you have to take into consideration...i.e. like why did you all separate, can u trust him, and is the relationship worth trying again? Whatever you do, don't rush to make decisions, take things slowly, and remember ur happiness is most important. Good Luck.
513509
sounds like he regrets breaking up with you, kinda like you don't know what you have 'till it's gone.  it's your choice if you decide to take him back.  if you really care for him and feel he is being honest then go for it.
453040
Well, you got angry because he didn't email you back after you dumped him? I think you're confused about your feelings for this guy. But if he wants you back, sure, I'd say give it another shot. But seeing as you've already dumped him, maybe you have to do something special so he'd want you back. The question is, why do you want him back? Why do you want to give him another chance? And why did you dump him again? Don't try to get him back when you're not sure about you feelings for him. You've already hurt him once. Think about it. You really don't want to hurt him again.
441713
I've been in love actually i'm still in love with my ex.  I write her everyday and we talk every day but she tells me that she can not be with me becuase she needs time to heal from when i broke her heart.  So i'm giving her time.  All the time she needs.  I know that in the end it will work out because we both love each other.  It sounds like you have it just as bad as i do so i say you don't let go and you keep talking to each other and anychance you get to go see her, do it.  Eventually there will be a path created for you two to be together.
181383
you should tell the person you're with now your true feelings, that you love him, you care for him, and love him.. but you still have feelings for your ex... tell him that you're sorry, and didn't want to hurt you.. but he's gonna hurt more if you stayed dishonest to him.. tell him that he'll find the right "one" for him, and you're not the "one" for him.. and when you've done that.. maybe now you can work things out with your ex! tell him that you still have feelings for him, and that you couldn't stop thinkin bout him! =)
526711
Tell him that you are very sorry that you hurt him. I don't know what happened to make your relationship go bad...but I know that if I was dating a guy and we broke up for whatever reason I wouldn't want to hurt him. That would make me hesitate to break up with him. Maybe you could point out whatever difference that broke you up is now resolved. Tell him also that you could start out very slow as friends and then get to the dating stage evenutally. If you really love this guy you will be willing to take as long as it takes to win him back. Good luck.
57626
Life is short and u only live once...He was part of ur life b4 and it didn't work out, what makes u think that this time is going to work? There's an old saying: "if u hurt me once is ur fault, but if u hurt me twice is my fault". Ur only falling in love with him because he came back in2 ur life...but think of ur current b/f as well...put urself in his shoes...how would u feel if he was 2 leave u 4 his x?? Ask urself the reason why ur x is back in urlife? What was it that 'caused him 2 come back? What happens if u go back with ur x and then u realize that ur current b/f is the one u were meant 2 b with...u would have lost everything...and u might end up alone...do not play with people's emotions because, what goes around comes around...
293797
if he's changed from what he used to be like before.. then yes... unless you were the one who dumped him and now you want him back.. again that would be a yes..\nbut if he broke up with you and the two of haven't changed.. then no because that would just be a repeat of the relationship you had before.
256709
look ..i'm in the same setuation as you r ...my ex said he not ready ..so we broke up. And i'm not the kind of girl who give up on everything and trying to get what i want but i just relise what is the point of tryting to get someone who doesn't want me. so i think i should be happy with single life and i don't need them to make me happy. But i love him so i give him what he want ..he want to be friends and i friends with him and he don't want me to hate him and angry ..so i don't and i just trying to be cooling off and i don't show him how much i need him and i told him i'm happy and give him his need but at the same time i'm making my self happy and enjoy my life without him...who know, i believe their is someone out there is waiting for you and me ...and i know i will be inlove again and so do u...but if he want to come back let him be and if he don't just set him free as he wish ...\n\nRemember if u trying to make ur self happy and if you happy life is good ...this is just a part of life ..let them go ...
235340
Off and on relationships are confusing because you want to get back together again but at the same time you're tired of the person you're with. It's been my experience that if it fails once it will fail twice, 3 times, 4 times, etc. I don't believe it's worth spending time on. One chance is all I give people now. If it doesn't work out, I move on. People like to think that they change or things will work out but it's just not that way. Move on, it will suck at first especially since you're use to having him around. In the end though you will feel better about the whole situation.
99136
You should talk to him and see if things can be worked out.  From what you said, you did what you needed to at the time and it was probably best for both of you.  He even sounds like he handled it the way a guy who loves you should have.  What you have to realize though is that you are now starting over again so don't compare anything between the two of you to what it was before.  Things will be different and you both will have to adjust.
66713
Been there, done that. It's funny how our minds and emotions can ruin a good thing. One thing that I hightly recomend is getting your self esteem up. It's tough, but once you are sure and proud of who you are, you don't loose that. As for getting your ex back. It may or may not happen. Give him his space now, thats is what he wants. If for some reason he also has a change of heart, you 2 can work things out then. But for now, respect his decision. Take care babe, im rooting for ya :)