I am just wandering why at the age of 34, i still cud not find somebody to spend the rest of my life with. I'm 34, 5 ft tall,and fair skinned. Laid back person and proud.
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Am sorry for that, but all u need u to do is dat, u must not proud of yaself and u must be the person that can endure and u must also be tolerant, so that u will get the right man for yourself and u must also be vigilant so that u will not fall in love wit eat and run guys. Because Marriage is not temporary thing is permanent and it's a bad thing 2 move out of one marriage and move into another one as if u are changing cloth, It's very nefarious, so think and study the man u will fall in love wit before agree with him that u will marry him, I wish u best of luck.
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I have a history of long-term relationships but lately have had trouble finding someone interested in something long term.  Hard to find a good man sometimes.
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when you find one, let me know... i'm feeling the same way... *25 yrs old but feel like i'm 40.. lol*
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Hey girlfriend I'm 44 and I'm in the prime of my life and I feel young and I been told I look young for my age. We are still young. 40 is just the beginning. Don't think so much about death Just be happy and live everyday to the fullest. I sometimes get scared too but all I can do is pray and ask god to at least let me live as long as my father did and he was only 67. Now you tell me that is young Huh? So see we are still young. Actually younger guys ask me out. The older we get the better we look and feel!
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I would think off the top of my head that 28 is too old for 20. Since i turned 20, which was only five years ago i experienced the biggest growth area in my life {so far}. When i turn 28 i expect to have undergone many more changes which i consider to be a great deal more then i knew or really could relate to at 20.  Now not to say that you cant be in a relationship that has common ground in an eight year difference,just saying at this point in my life i cant imagine being with someone eight years younger than me. I would think that no matter the maturity of the person the age always comes into play and vice versa. Basically if you are attracted to someone in this age group go for it, have fun, and be in the now, its experiences that really teach you anything any way, not what someone else has to say about theirs.
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I understand where you are coming from and I too am single and feel that I will be forever unless I do something pretty soon!. I am a very lovely and single, beautiful 33 year old and grown out of pubs and clubbing where there are streams of teenagers and mid twenties.  \n\nThere is no where in my town appropriate for people of my age socializing-wize and used to meet my partners whilst at University so now I am no longer a student, this makes things akward again!.  Everywhere I go, I see married couples and loved-up youngsters or singles like myself. Most are all now on the internet but I am so wary of that stuff when there are married men posing as single on these sites and men who post on every sight in search of more than one love-interest.\n\nIt is diffocult I must admit but the trick is to remain optomistic and be very specific about what you are looking for in a man and then go to places that you are most likely to meet these types of men. Bars and clubs are okay, but there are a lot out there looking for fun only and unless you are prepared for that and happy with it until you get to know a guy, then sitting around will do not much good either.\n\nI am more conscious as I have gotten older but also more decided about what I want in a man and that is friendship.  This is the best basis for all relationships to be lasting.  I am determined to be married but once I get myself off my but and start making things happen.
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i have PERSONAL experince dude.  listen to this. i met a woman when i was 24, and she was 34.  the sex was amazing, she was very experience. but thats the only thing that was good.  her mentality was more mature than i was and we didnt have any common intrest, im not saying that it wont work out for you. you just have to see how you feel about her,  there are couples out there who are that big of an age difference and they are happy with it.  but most of the time it wont work out. when you reach 20 she will be 30. etc.  are you willing to be with an old woman when you are 40 and she is 50.  thats the question you need to ask yourself.  but in the mean time, enjoy each other and see waht happens, just enjoy the moments, thats the best advice i can give you
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I am 74 and started a new career last year. They asked me how long I will be staying there and I said "at least till I am 80". I am charming. Don't know about the sexy but life is what you make it. I never feel my age and I work very hard at least 10 hours a day and I do go dancing with my grandson now and then. I had more fun in my life than my children. I feel bad about that. I went to dances with my mother when I was young and I had a blast. I did not know back then that you HAD to have THINGS. That made a big difference.
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Hey there,\n\nAll heights are acceptable, no matter what. I felt exactly the same way as you when I was younger. I am 19 and i'm 4'9 and my feet are really small and my figure frame is tiny as well. You should be happy with your body, its really fun to be short and a lot of advantages do come with it. And as for guys and dating, you will find a guy who will love you for who you are and he will love your height as well. Well when people are different, I guess a lot of people will be self conscious or stare when they are around different persons. It seems to happen all over the world. I guess its human nature for us to be self conscious about someone different around us until we get to know them.
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I`m 23, 5'5", single, I like rock music, horror movies, open minded people. I hope I have been helpful, I can be from time to time.
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True, I struggle with this myself... My solution...? Look for someone in the 5'0"-5'5" height range... Stay away from 5'6" and up...though there are many tall girls that have no issues dating a shorter guy...\n\nJust keep looking...ultimately, you will find her...\n\nGood luck...
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Hey Hun....No you're not alone....I am also young but have never been interested in just getting laid...I've always been more interested in a strong long term relationship...For me...The relationships always start off like they will last forever...and then BAM! all the effort and love I put into those relationships are taken for granted....I'm dealing with this sort of thing now with my boyfriend of almost 1 yr and half...He just up and decided he needed a break...now when we talk it's awkward...and there is no love in his voice...it breaks my heart and I too feel afraid that one day I will wake up and be 40 and have no one....no kids and no life...and end up hating myself for not being able to find a real relationship where both people love equally....it's scary...but alot of people say "you're young and you will find someoen to respect who you are...and WANT to be with you as much as you WANT  to be with them" I know it's hard to believe that there is someone out there for everyone...But as hard as it is...what other idea can we really hold on to? I hope you find someone to share your life with too...GOOD LUCK hun....feel free to e-mail me...if you wanna chat more...or add me to msn....hoffababe@hotmail.com...caio
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Thank you "Lady Wyn"...very good answer...I am 42 and my girlfirend just turned 21 and It has nothing at all to do with her age on why we are going out....its all about liking the same stuff....we love the same music, the same books, the same tv shows, the same places to eat....we both love to play pool and love the beach...and in general just enjoy each others company. I have dated women from 18-50 and had a great time with all of them and I don't keep looking for one certian age group....its whoever appeals to me and who I also appeal to...so stop being so shallow!
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don't trip bro...that is totally normal.  i had my first serious relationship when i was around your age, i'm 26 now.  even though my girlfriend at the time was hot as hell, i needed to be with more girls, even if they were uglier or shorter or whatever, just to experience and see exactly what it is in a girl that i want to look for.  i'll tell you one thing though...my first one was my best one...and now she's married with a kid.  i was too inexperienced and let a good one go.  so, just think about that before you make any serious decisions about breaking up with her or cheating on her.
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And yet you are asking for an even taller man.\n\nCall a kettle black lately?\n\nBut seriously, 5'-9"?  Not tooo tall.  I'd go out with you.  I'm 34.  You seem extremely sexy at 127 pounds.  But I'm only 5'-11" tall so sorry, I don't quite meet your requirements.
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Well, I'm 32 and I don't have a steady boyfriend. I like my freedom. But I do like my guy friend to spend some time with me. But I also love my quite time alone. So yes some people are meant to be alone.
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If I feel like I'm seeking someone and there aren't any choices that may be good enough, then there isn't any choice to be attached. I haven't met any guys recently whom I was very attracted to. It was like I was looking for something I knew it was not gonna be there, because that's what they are and they can't be changed. So, I wouldn't want to settle for less if they didn't seem good enough for me.