Can men be metro sexual and not be gay?\nI am currently in a relationship where my man is very metro sexual, almost girl like. And has had one sexual experience in his teens with a guy watching porno together and the guy went down on him.\nEver since he told me this, I think hes gay. We have alot of sex and he seems to enjoy it.\nI just dont want to marry him and him tell me 10 years from now that he is gay.\nSo does metro sexual mean gay?
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Yes. If you're not sure if someone is gay or not - they're gay. Me, you'd know right away I'm no homo. When you dump him get yourself checked out to make sure he didn't give you some homo disease (like AIDS) and if you're clean give me a call (seems like you're pretty easy and I like that in a chick).
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Why is it the moment a guy acts like a gentleman, not an ape, some [expletive deleted] has to propose that he is gay.  As if the poor girl would not have guessed by now if that was the case!  Give us a break!\n\nA man does not show how much respect he has for a woman, how much real devotion he is capable of, by crawling all over her like a mindless animal, dominated by his passions.  And he certainly does not convey a sense of having self-control, which is, after all, important to being a man.  Self-control, I mean.  Surely you can think of plenty of reasons why that is true.\n\nSo don't fault the guy for not trying to mangle you in a tango.  He was nervous, you were nervous, but you managed to do something like dancing anyway.  And it apparently meant enough to you to spend your points here asking the same plaintiff question over and over again!\n\nGentle men are to be encouraged and rewarded.  The nicest reward of all, of course, would be the love of a woman he wants.
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ok, first of all, just because you are gay, and he is gay..doesn't mean you get to have sex together!!!  i'm straight and my room mate is straight...and it means nothing..wtf!!!  if you had a mole on your ass, and i had a mole on my ass, do you think i'd want you to tell me about it?
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Oh get a grip woman!  He stated the guy is a true friend...not that he wants to bang him.  Would you had been bothered if he wasn't gay and had your fiance's picture on his page?  What diff does it really make?  Lets say he did want to bang your fiance...why would that matter?  IF your fiance is not gay NONE of it matters.  Get over it.
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I saw this guy on tv once and he was gorgeous and i thought he was so hot, but he was gay. If he's gay, you might not be able to turn him straight. He is in a relationship, but I guess if you want to try you can lol. But sometimes you can't change...
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Possibly you've become Metrosexual and many Metrosexuals live very well when they're dealing with other who have similar Metrosexual values.\n\nYou might be "metrosexual" if:\n\n1. You just can't walk past a Banana Republic store without making a purchase.\n\n2. You own 20 pairs of shoes, half a dozen pairs of sunglasses, just as many watches and you carry a man-purse.\n\n3. You see a stylist instead of a barber, because barbers don't do highlights.\n\n4. You can make her lamb shanks and risotto for dinner and Eggs Benedict for breakfast... all from scratch.\n\n5. You only wear Calvin Klein boxer-briefs.\n\n6. You shave more than just your face. You also exfoliate and moisturize.\n\n7. You would never, ever own a pickup truck.\n\n8. You can't imagine a day without hair styling products.\n\n9. You'd rather drink wine than beer... but you'll find out what estate and vintage first.\n\n10. Despite being flattered (even proud) that gay guys hit on you, you still find the thought of actually getting intimate with another man truly repulsive.\n\n"Some people think he's gay, but he's actually metrosexual."
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Just to make this LOUD AND CLEAR being gay is NOT by choice...I'm gay and i definitely didn't CHOOSE to be this way...and  why even compare str8 and gay relationships? its all the same . You love and you're  being loved ,you're  heart feels right with that person...that's all that matters.
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So he's a cross dresser? Doesn't seem like evidence of homosexuality, if you start seeing him making out with guys, then you might have a hint.
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Isn't that stereotypical?\nEach relataionship hetero or not, has it's own private dynamics. I don't understand why you would want to know. \nA truly gay person would not be asking this question so are you just curious?
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i think it's the media's mistake, now atl east everyay u watch a movie or series on gays and lesb. i don't think is what's natural. God created male and female one completes the other. women know how to touch a women is simply bc they touch the places where they want to be touched. however i think if u do it with someone u have  real feelings to it will be much enjoyable, and it wouldn't hurt if u give him tips about what u like and what u don't like
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If you don't feel anything romantic or sexual, then what is it? My current crush is entirely physical. I'm not the love type, and I don't really think he is, either.
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yes. Sex is more than a man lying on top of a woman  and pumping away while she thinks about the Queen. Sex is a lot of things, and if you have had sex, you are no longer a virgin. Thus, if gay men have sex, they aren't virgins any more.
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This is really too big  a question for a short question/answer format like this but I think you know that and this is only one step in the process.  \nYou use a lot of labels in your question and maybe it might make you feel better to remove some of them.  You are you.  You are not simply hetero/homo/bi or repubican/democrat.  You have to determine what you are yourself.  Not me.  Not your family.  Not people at school or work.  You might spend many years figuring it out and changing your mind a few times.  \nThere is nothing wrong with exploring all your options along the way.  Men are supposed to have a rigid sense of sexuality while women are not only allowed but encouraged to be more fluid in their sexuality.  \nYou might be confusing desire for male company, affection, guidance, love, companionship, and intimacy for homosexuality.  Don't confuse needing men with being gay.  Since the late 20th century, any type of longing for male companionship has been labeled as gay or homo-erotic.  For milenia before that it was considered the norm.  Now, if you do anything with another man that doesn't involve killing someone you start to wonder if you're gay.\nAs for looking at men in photos, you could be projecting yourself as the man in the photo.  That's like longing to be the millionaire in a picture in place of the model next to his Rolls Royce.  I've had friends in the 80s-90s who displayed the cover of Donald Trump's book prominently.  they didn't want to have sex with him but they fantasized about being him in the photo.  They wanted to pretend to be him, have his possessions: the car, the wife, the money, the power, the notoriety.  Similarly, you can see the man in a photo and you'd love to have his possessions: great muscles, gorgeous face, nice hair, nice cock, his long list of sexual conquests.  That's one of the reasons why guys look at porn: to imagine themselves in the position of the guy.  John Holmes was a very popular porn star because the mostly male viewers wanted to live vicariously through him.\n\nTry to relax about it.  Enjoy yourself along the way.  There's no deadline.  Whichever way you go is perfectly alright if it works for you.  You can always dabble if you're respectful, honest, and safe.
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I think that any man that wants to have "backdoor" sex with anyone is GAY, but is in denial.  He wants to do the homosexual type of things, but does not want anyone to know he is gay so he does them with the woman instead.
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hmmm...personally, i'd guess that he's not gay.  I'd say that he's either bisexual, or he's playing that angle to get you to be more relaxed, more comfortable around him, so the transition to a relationship would be easier and less awkward.  It might not work, but that would be my conclusion regarding the whole sitch.
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Do you want a guy that isn't interested in looking at women? Where I come from they call those guys gay. He may be a bit inconsiderate at times, but he's not a perv.
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Well...it is true that there are some hunky gay guys...BUT, there are also some seriously hideous ones. LOL. I, however, tend to find straight guys hotter. For goodness sake, with a straight guy, you always know what's on his mind when he's with you...your boobs, how he can get you into bed...oh, and your boobs. And guess what? That makes you feel sexy (come on, girls, admit it...), so in my opinion, if someone is capable of making ME feel sexy...how sexy is he??? YUMMY! Right? SO Sexy...Just saying...