recently got married...am so bored at home all the time..i feel useless...while all my friends are being promoted this greencard is getting on my nerves..so if anyone has/had this experience please share...i plan to go to college..i think that volunteer work would be great..but i need to know the average waiting period for my greencard interview..i already got fingerprinted...Thank you
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My husband is in the same situation as you.   He is still waiting for his interview  and has been fingerprinted.   He has not even gotten his work permit yet.  He is bored also sitting  at home.   I tell him that it is just a process and soon you will get it.  You can go online to www.USCIS.gov to check the status of your case by the receipt number.
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Don't get married to this guy just for the green card. The green card is kinda hard to get depending on where you are from. Germany shouldn't bee too much of a problem. My husband is Middle Eastern and some of his family has been waiting for 13 years at the most for the green card. It is a long process and tehy investigate everything. You have to go through interviews and show proof that the marriage is real. Take lots of pictures. It also is faster if you get married in you home country and he files papers here.
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i went to job corps in sept 2001, it was an experience. i attended Flatwoods in Coeburn west virginia. i was a 21 high school graduate and some college and a three year old. i went to get away from everything that was going on in my life to find some directions and sort out what i wanted to do with my future. well it is really a "what you make it" kind of situation.  because there is kids there from all types of areas, family background, and dealing with different situations. it is kind of structured. i mean if you dont have a high school diploma then you go to school then to your trade. if you have a high school diploma then you go to your trade all day, and/or college. you go to lunch at certian times, but breakfast and dinner is all at once and by choice. you do have liberty on weekends to stay up late and go to other job corps for dances or to the movies or skating. you have to pay for this out of your allowance. the worse part is the interaction from some of th e students is not always positive. there is a lot of fights and arguements some times. i had to fight twice to prove myself and after that i didnt have to anymore. so just keep in contact with your boys, send them monthly items like magazines a little money, snacks, and personal items so that they dont have to spend save up 30 dollar checks every two weeks or borrow.
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I have recently run into the problem of getting a cousin into the States permanently from another country.\nI've asked around at work to other who have immigrated and heard some of the most ridiculous stories you could possibly imagine.\nOne girl had a similar problem as yours.\nHer legally married husband was already an American citizen and gainfully employed in a decent paying medical profession.\nBut it was still not enough to get her here.\nShe and her family were privately informed to get all of her PARENTS property, i.e., their automobiles and bank accounts transferred into HER name alone.\nWhen the records were checked...not delved into, just checked...she was admitted immediately.\n\nThey only wanted to prove she was not destitute and become a welfare recipient.\n\nShe assured me that after the proof of income in the bank accounts and two cars, it was never mentioned again.  And the money was NOT substantial.  Her mother was a secretary and her father a machinist.\n\nAfterwards they just transferred everything right back into her parents name as before.\nIt took three months.\nShe, of course, immediately became a naturalized Citizen upon her arrival to the States to forego any future problems.\nShe's been here for 6 years with no problems whatsoever.\nShe even found employment immediately... at a 7-11 down there street from me ran by a Filipino woman...neither really spoke English.  LOL\n\nBest of luck to you friend!
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I married my husband (now ex) in Jan 98.  He was just visiting the US when we got married and so we had to go through all the immigration stuff to have him stay here.  Did you go to the interview alone?  If you missed the interview as well, the Immigration service will consider that an abandonment of your application.  If your application is no longer in process then your visa status may have expired - you may now be in the country illegally.  I would call an immigration attorney ASAP.
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I'm in exactly the same spot as you are.  I just got through paring down my list, and I removed the "weak-ties" and those I seldom see.  I keep in touch with some by e-mail, and others will probably just fade away.  It had to be done, however.  You could still send a greeting card or note to them after the first of the year if you're really feeling guilty (or if you happen to get a card from them : (
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Hey I gave one of those old women a bad time.  \n\nI am writing from my hospital bed.  The Doctor says I should be out of traction in about 3 months.  Then we can do the reconstructive surgery.  All together I expect to be home in 8 or 9 months.  If I make it in less than 9 months I will be able to celebrate my 21St birthday at home.  Unfortunately the Doctor tells me my jaw will still be wired shut, but what the heck I am getting used to milkshakes.  BTW, it is not Kung-Fu, it is Louisville Slugger, and believe me I know.\n\nJust having some fun.  Actually I am a senior citizen and although I don't work at Wal-Mart I know three other seniors who do.  None of them need the money, they all work part time, it gives them a reason to keep living.  Personally my wife keeps me busy and I am considering doing some volunteer work at an local aviation museum.  Too many retired folks don't have a timeclock to punch anywhere.  Hence, they lay in bed and die...\n\nKEEP MOVING STAY YOUNG.
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You still have a lot of time to figure things out.  I say go to college.  Dont feel bad I am 26 and feel that I have done nothing.  I have not gone to college yet and really want to but life is busy I dont have time.  Go to college before you are 26 wondering why you didnt go when you could have.
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Sometimes it takes more than 3 years you know. It depends on where you end up, your state of mind and your circumstances.\nI am glad to read that you like it a lot...at least it is better than reading : I hate it here and I wish I were home.\nI have been in both positions. Some places : I could Never, Never get used to.......I missed home like hell. Others and very different from my "known" environment just took about 6 months and I never wanted to leave.\nI think the longer you have lived in your home country, the longer - generally - it takes for people to get used to another way of living, thinking etc...\nBut to get to your question : are there any groups, communities of your own nationality you could join ? Get connected with people with whom you share the same values, language, points of view, behavioural ways etc. It is very refreshing and helps you cope. A bit like a home away from home.\nI am not sure if there are any absolute answer to that since each is an individual.\nSome people adapt very very well.......some never will and will be pining for their home country until they die.\nThink and reassess the reasons why you left your country and think of the benefits you have now. Try to picture your life if you were still back at home.: what would you choose ?\nSometimes putting things in perspective makes one feels better too.\nI was assuming - for some reason - that you were a foreigner.......After reading the other answers, I realise that it might just be a change of city, state...(so stay connected, like the previous answers advised you)\nI wish you the best.
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you do realize this isn't a question right...i am just jokin! hon, i can so relate. been going thru a crappy time lately too and as a young mom, wife, and college student there is a lack of people to talk to... i hear ya and i know how it feels when u just need a hug or a girl friend. (i sincerly mean a girl who is a friend, who might relate or something...or at least let you gripe and then hang out and take your mind off it!) Had to clear that up since I am a married woman (to a man who works 60 hours a week) :( - but hey i hear ya!! hang in there, i know the points on the license is terrible cause insurance is already high enough...ugh. You better learn your lesson tho woman: no more speeding, regardless! hehe besides with the price of gas, who can afford tickets!! :-) you can add me to your messenger if u wanna :) always happy to chat. hope everything gets better soon!!
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I had an L1 and it lasted for either 5 or 7 years.  Why do you want to change?  I was told that you can use your L1 for any similar position as long as you stay with the same company.  I actually got married to a US citizen before the L1 expired and got a green card.  That worked out great as my wife is awesome.
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lets pray that the weed has already been wiped out of your system. anyway, it has been 3 months. you have to think positive and try to relax. it will not do you any good if you become tense. think that there are still a lot of companies where you can apply.
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I graduated nearly 3 years ago from homeschool, and yes, I was by myself.  My mom threw a HUGE party for me.  I had to walk down the the aisle of our church with a cap and gown in front of a couple dozen friends and family.  People got up and talked about me (very flattering) and then I even gave a "speech" (very nerve-wracking).  We had cake and then went out to dinner afterwards.  In the back of the room we had laid out photos and binders from unit studies I had done.  My 2003 gold and white tassel hangs by my bed.\n\nOh, and btw, I have adjusted to "real life" just fine.  I've taken online college classes through Patrick Henry College (consider this a recommendation) and am now working as a receptionist for a loan company and semi-secretary for an attorney.  I'm hoping to attend Bob Jones University in the fall.  Sorry!  You probably weren't requesting an auto-biography.  I just wanted to let you and everyone else know that homeschool grads aren't wierd! :-)  Just unique...;-)
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I've been in this situation many times. I think what gets me through is knowing that these times pass and I do get through them. I force myself to just accept that this is the way I'll feel sometimes and then I usually feel less anxious about being depressed. Regarding your job situation, maybe just focus on sending a few applications to places you are really interested in and then, let it go - don't drive yourself crazy wondering if you are going to get a call for an interview. Start on some more applications and refocus again. Eventually a door will open, often when you least expect it. Also, take some community classes in something you are really interested in, like art, music, etc. You never know what that can do for you. Re: your marriage - well, sometimes things improve when you feel better about yourself, sometimes you need to look at marriage counseling and sometimes you need to move on. \nHope this helps and best of luck to you!
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I have a friend that has immigrated from Germany.I was helping her find out all she had to do to become a citizen.In the process we came upon a practice naturalization test.I was stumped on some questions.Yes I find it very ironic that most citizens don't know everything that immigrants have to know to become citizens.
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Well she is now illegal in this country! The whole thing about the k1 visa is that she has to marry you to legalize or adjust her status! If you two are already married, she is supposed to have condition residence until you both apply to remove those conditions after two years ! So if she left, her green card is only good for two years! Which brings me back to my point! She will be illegal after two years.Notify USBCIS on the situation! If you have already done the I-751( Petition to Remove conditions on permanent residence) Regardless if you signed I-864 ( Affidavit Of Support) I am afraid there is nothing you can do if she doesn't want to come home. Still notify USBCIS on the situation though! What sucks is you still me responsible for them after divorce! Re read the form and get a lawyer! Sorry man , but good luck!
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There could be any number of problems.  First, it may seem like you apply to tons of jobs and never get one when in reality you aren't applying to that many. The issue of not getting hired where your mom works could be that they don't hire family members or try not to.  It's also possible that as a college student they don't want just part time help or temporary summer help.\n\nYou may want to think about the types of jobs you're applying for as well.  I know how hard it is to take a crap job when you really want to do something that relates to your degree or future dream job.  However, most people have to work those not-so-fun jobs like waiting tables, retail, etc. before they get the fun jobs (and some people like waiting, retail etc. and consider them their fun jobs).  \n\nAnother problem could be experience.  Usually experience is relied on heavily for jobs.  Even if you'd be a great addition to a company they might not hire you if a so-so person with 15 years experience applies as well.  \n\nAlthough it's unlikely at 19, you may have too good of a resume.  I have an MA, publications, conference presentations, and teaching experience on my resume.  I applied for an office job over the summer before I start my PhD in a factory and didn't add all of that in there (they don't need to know I'm published or presented at conferences or the extent of my teaching experience because it wasn't relevant...instead I played up other skills that might be important to the job).\n\nSomething else to consider is that having a great resume isn't everything.  I've been hired with resumes that had typos, I've had conference proposals accepted that had typos, and I've not been hired at places/been asked to present when I had no typos.  It's all a game of chance.  Just keep trying and give in and apply to some jobs that you don't really want but know you could get (like retail and waitressing).  Once you have a job you'll have some money and feel better but can continue to keep looking for a better job that you'd like more (but don't let on this in an interview because then you may not be hired at all).\n\nGood luck!