well i have been going out with this guy but when the movie ends why cant we just kiss and get it over with??/ hes really shy and so am i
204539
Because he is shy and u are waiting for HIM to make the move.  Thank goodness we live in 2006 and IT IS OK for u to make the first move!  He may be worried that you will slap him, or not want to kiss him back.  So if I were you just jump right in there and lay a lip lock on him that he will never forget!!!!!
112107
He's probably a little nervous, and that's quite understandable. Don't push it yet. Make him feel more comfortable, and after a little while, if he doesn't ask you out and you think he still wants to, ask him.
243286
Sounds great but it's a lot different than the movies.\n\nYou will be together for at least 2 hours doing nothing but talking, you should prepare for that. And if he refuses don't judge him, maybe he's not ready for that yet.\n\nGood luck.
465992
dont invite other people, just go on this movie "date" with her. Talk to more and get to know eachother. Just relax and just go to the movies, you dont need to talk much seeing as yous will be interested in the movie, Just ask her if she wants anything to eat or drink and than get it for her, rather than that dont need to say much just watch the movie. At the end than yous can talk about the movie, the likes and dislikes about it. Tell her it was a lot of fun and would love to do it again sometime. Just try to get really close to her as a friend and dont push it into anything more yet. And if yous keep going out on these dates than maybe she will see how great you are and than start likeing you more than this other guy. Just be there for her to listen to and give advice. Just a guy who she can go out and have fun with. If there is any connection with yous than it will be noticable later on thats when you make the move.
555456
He's probably shy.  If he agreed to go out again, he digs you.  You may have to make the first move, but once it's made, it's made.  Try talking to him too.  Tell him you're into him and that you wouldn't mind if he held your hand.  Once the pressure is off, he's more likely to do it.
403023
If he asked you, then that's a good thing!  Just relax and have a good time.  Just try to keep your hormones in check since you have a really big crush on this guy.  Try to act yourself and just get to know him.  Maybe he has a thing for you if he asked you to the movies.  \n\nGood luck!
459533
i say good for you for liking a nerd.. i hate seeing nice guys finishing last... well if there is anything you have in common that is nerdy talk about that (like lord of the rings, video games, magic card game, ect.) but dont forget to show your real side... just because you may not be into all that nerd stuff doesnt mean he wont like you... he's understanding because you are different... ask him to the movies.. dont feel inferior because he maybe be more intelligent, just be who you are....
327281
I'm sure since u have been going out that long he wants to kiss you by now.  You both are attracted to eachother, if you werent u wouldnt be bf gf so just make the move yourself....he must be really shy
187408
Be honest.  Tell him that you are not much of a talker.  Tell him what you do like, though.  Tell him what makes you feel comfortable.\n\nA movie is a good place to go, because you don't have to talk, and when it is over, you have something to talk about!
493798
Is he asking for your first kiss or are you just gonna jump to him and kiss him?....ok if you are going out or if you like him and he is acting all weird that means he is having mixed feelings. I wait to have my boyfriend kiss me i dont kiss him til he kisses me first. If your gonna jump just give it time tell him you like him and if he likes you back go out for a bit then kiss him if your close. And if he doesnt like you back... well tell him he is missing out and kiss him and then say...told you! \n                                            ~LillyÜ\nGood Luck
629788
It sounds to me as if he is quite shy. she should try to initiate another date and wait for his reaction. We live in the 21st century after all.
451695
Omg...I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I was way too scared to kiss a guy too because I thought he would think less of me or like you say- reject me- if I'm a bad kisser. So earlier this year, I meet this guy. I'm 18 and he's 22. We discussed our past relationships and ok, I wasn't going to be like "I've never had my first kiss" because he was older and I thought he would find me childish, especially since he wasn't even a virgin and I was. So I told him I was a virgin but completely left out the kissing part. THEN...one night...we were watching a movie. And he leaned over and kissed me. I got really nervous. Wondering what to do and whatnot...BUT...it was very very simple! You pretty much have to go with the flow. AND the FUNNIEST part is after we kissed, he said I'm a very good kisser and he doesn't beleive that I'm not a virgin because I seem experienced...haha. I thought that was great. \n\nGuilty, I never confessed that he was my first and he never knew. And I kissed many guys after and guess what- EVERYONE KISSES DIFFERENT! There is no just one way. The problem is that people THINK about it and ANALYZE it too much. Just go with it. And TRUST ME- you'll do fine if not great. Just don't be shy and be CONFIDENT.\n\n If this girl is the sweet kind, I would tell her you lied and have never kissed. It might make you feel better and will make this easier. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about it.\n\nEither way best of luck :-)
144076
ok, first of all, awwwww!srry. had to secondly there is a very, very GOOD cance that he does like you but it's only the start of a relationship if one of you makes a move. So mabie he's just shy - you never know - ask him out! Guys like that. : )
507879
it be ok everyone dose but it seem to me like you need to get to know him better that why you are freezing up turst me the olny place i kiss is at school because i dont dae yet i been on one date before but i know what  i am tlaking about
582805
If he isint talking either, he is shy too, so maybe hes waiting for you to bust a move. So, be fearless, give him a call and ask to go out to see new Superman movie or something. He will say yes... Then talk about the movie afterwards. Hope this helps.
642376
YOU can make the move, maybe he is just shy\n\ndo it anywhere
172294
i think he likes you but is very shy.. also he might feel ackward kissing you bcuz others have told you thats what you want.. oh and about your friends askin if it was official.. that might have put him on the spot.. not always a great place to be!