How can i get rid of my shyness to girls?
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why?....if your a true man then confront that shyness in you.girls are nice to hang with,you have that self-confidence naturally..what you have to do is try to make some girl friend,just friends..talk with them..and here's how to get a girl's attention...offer some help,maybe a friendly favor that most girls ask from boys...be a gentleman and you must have yourself a sense of humor...ok?
232105
try beinggirl. I found loads of advice there when i was too shy to ask my parents.
193723
People here have given some decent advice but here's the real deal. There is no shame in being shy. the shame is in not doing anything about it. u hafta attack it head on. start slowly by getting comfortable conversing with women u are attracted to. Talk about any and everything as the situation presents itself. Through this conversing you will know whether it's in your interest to take it to the next level. examples:If she is smiling and looking at u intently as u talk, asking questions she's probably interested. If she seems distant, not asking questions or responding with one or two word answers she's probably not.\nGot it??
608979
TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of girls and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, what am I gonna do?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time choosing the best girlfriend.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports. Hang out with your friends in those places (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. Ask for referrals.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
629143
Girls eat up the shy thing. Just try to use it in your advantage.
74195
Oh.. u sound sweet. Listen, if some guy is to shy to approach a girl, then i think that the guydoesn't like here that much
201254
Get involved in a group that contains both guys and girls. This way you can be comfortable around your male counterparts, and also get to observe girls up-close. If you play your cards right, you'll be seen as "that shy guy"... which most girls find rather intriguing. Take your time, get to know a girl and realize that she's not a being entirely different than your guy friends. Sure she might be wearing make-up and a skirt... but guys have their own things too.\n\nPerhaps some of your guy friends from engineering know some girls and would be willing to introduce you to them and hang around so you still have someone familiar around.\n\nMainly, just relax, take a deep breath and let what a great guy you are shine through.
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The only thing wrong is that you are very shy and have not found a way to work around the problem. My advice would be to use your hobbies and interests to help you find someone that has things in common with you. Join groups or teams or go places that have to do with your hobbies and interests. The people that you will find in the groups or on the teams will have the same thing in common with you and it will give you something to talk about. Once you have broken the ice it will be easier to continue the conversation. I strongly believe that you don't "Find" love, that it will find you, but it never hurts to put yourself in a place where it will have a chance to find you. By joining groups or going to places that you have an interest in, you are automatically placing yourself with people that have the same interests as yourself and giving you something to open a conversation with that you will feel confident talking about, which will help with your shyness. Good Luck!! =-)
74486
Shy girls like men who are partially shy but able to make the first move on them (on the girls.). Well, you could try talking to her about starting and running your own business.\nBut you have to know what kind of business.
671493
I assume you are pretty young.\n\nFirst, don't worry about being shy with girls.  Stay friends with the one you mention but don't feel that has to be a romantic relationship.  That friendship should help you overcome your shyness, and--if her status changes later on--you might be in a good position to build a more romantic relationship.\n\nDon't worry about the one that blew you off.\n\nMany girls are shy with guys.  There isn't that much to either guys or girls to be shy about.  Friendship can always work.  Don't ask for more unless you're sure.
143719
Those three little words are the hardest things to say so you have a good reason to be shy. Here's a suggestion, write a journal about how you feel about her. You would have the sense that she would never find out so you would feel more comfortable about it. Then let her read it...from the clues she would know your talking about her and she would know exactly how you feel without having to make you feel uncomfortable.
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I would suggest approaching them within the first three seconds of noticing them. Don't think about anything. Just go up to her and speak. Make sure to maintain eye contact. Make sure you smile.\nJust speak honestly, tell them your mostly shy, but you want to get to know them.\n\nIf you fail then don't worry about it. Don't kick yourself in the arse - its not the end of the world. Every time you do it, you'll get better at knowing what to say... just make sure your attention is on the person your talking to (not on your own behavior or attitude). Women like confidence. Even if you can fake it.
651469
Be verry confident in yourself, if you have to ( think like your crap dont stink) works every time. One other thing DO NOT aproach a girl you like when shes with her friends. They will eat you alive like a pack a wolfs. The girls know what im talk'in about.
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the best way to get confidence in your self is to confront your fears head-on.  even if you fail, at least you tried, and you can take solace in that.\n\nby the way, not all girls can read your mind...  but most can.  hee hee!  :)\n\nif you stop looking at them like "girls" and start seeing them as "people", you will find it much easier to deal with them!  ;)
439804
You just have to be brave and just talk to her. If you act nervous, she'll turn away from you. Just be confident, be yourself, and tallk to her!
360856
I find shy girls far more attractive than boisterous outgoing flirting with everybody girls.  'Course I'm shy too.  But there goes the opposites attract theory.
255066
Are you a shy geek?\nFirst rule, you shouldn't care about other men, and shouldn't care about being shy.\nSecond, how many beautiful girls in your class?  If it's only one, then, your chance are very slim because it's mathematical probability.  If your chance are very slim, you should forget it and get the average girl in your classroom.\nThird, the only way to make girl to like you is to know how to talk to her.  You need to master of conversation with girls. Girls like to talk about themselves and you need to make her laugh with funny stories.\nYou also need to smile a lot.\nYou need to have confidence and self-esteem. \nFourth, you can watch and learn from movies like Hitch or 40 year old virgin.