i know a female who is married but is seeing a guy on the same ship. her husband is not in the navy
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Of course they *can* have such a relationship.\n\nBut doing so would jeopardize them in terms of the Code of Military Justice, as there are Naval regulations against adultery and also against fraternization in the ranks.  Additionally, if one of the two is a sailor and the other is an officer, there would be a third legal problem of fraternization between officers and enlisted personnel.
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There is nothing wrong with seeing two men . She has to find out which one is right for her and in time she will .I am jealous of her! Hope everything works out for her and thats all you can do .Wait and time will tell.
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Wow you have a long time to think.  My husband is in the navy and I'm in the Coast guard.  I think there is more to do in the Coast Guard then in the navy.  They seem to treat him more like a number then a person.  The navy moral is very down too.  I joined the Coast guard more for law enforcement.  And because they were a smaller brach.  You are seen more as a person then a number.  But this is my point of view.  Go talk to both recruiters.  They will tell you the down side of both and what there upsides are.  If you have any questions write me.  Between my husband and me we can probably tell you.
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I have been through this same thing you are going through. (My husband is active duty in the military too BTW) When he got nice all of a sudden it was because he was having an affair. So I don't think he will keep the new changes. My advice is to be cautious.
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Men are visually stimulated, so when he is not at the beach, he probably does think about his g/f, but when they see a half naken woman they may not want to be with her, but certainly enjoy looking.
114678
You dont report her. Your hubby gets what he deserves.More importantly, why is he still your hubby if he had an affair with a student from singapore? What goes around comes around. You'll see her again, when she comes back to study and your hubby has another encounter with her. Too bad, so sad.
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If I'm understanding you correctly, your friend is abroad (out of the country) and his wife isn't happy.  Maintaining a long-distance relationship takes a lot of commitment and it doesn't always work out.  What part of the relationship doesn't she understand?  It would help to have more info about the situation.
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I have a Husband who is in the Air Foce and is deployed right now. I also have a brother in law who is Deployed. I have Alot of friends in the military as well that are deployed. My cousin too. My whole family has in ome point been military.
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When I was in the Marines I dated a Sailor.
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Yes, the Navy would move your wife to your duty station and even help her find a job.  They might not be able to move her right away, but they would eventually.  \n\nThe Nevy does such sometimes.  You get very little sleep, work long hours and get paid crap. I wish I could attach a "but...." to that, but I cant think of a good one.  ummmm, They will pay for college when you are done?  I guess thats a good thing. \n\nMy boyfriend is in the Navy and his little sister is in the Air Force.  Honestly, she seems happier with her choice.  The Air Force seems, I dont know, cushier.  You sleep more and deal with less BS.  In the Navy there is ALOT of BS.  \n\nBut, I have known sailors who truly enjoyed their time in the Navy.  Its up to you.  Its your choice and your life. \n\nGood luck to you.
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Don't sweat it! Jus' make U'r day's w/ her the best! Tell her U'r feel'ns about her go'n N2 the navy! I think she'll want 2 spend as much time w/ U as possible so that when she's N the Navy she could think of something else nice like the best time spent w/ U
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What does the husband think? If there is an understanding between the two of them, then I think its fine. Whatever her real agenda is going on a trip alone without her husband, if she does have something hidden behind her sleeves, then its she is taking an advantage of her husband's trust. And if thats the case, I feel pity for her and the husband as well.
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According to Askmen.com, she's still married.
565687
yep, its called the military (lol)\n\na military wife
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Her and her other men?
34042
This is probably not what you want to hear, but let it go. Don't sweat the small stuff and everything is small stuff. The freind doesnt sound like much of a friend. You might have to let your wife find that out by herself. Also Good for you for not breaking up with you wife/girlfreind when you where called to duty.  I saw it happen so many times, before a deployment. So many broken hearts :(
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I think she enjoys the Goverment Benefits. Thats quite obvious.\n Some women marry a Military man for one reason. the assurance of a monthly income.\n\n\nGood Luck.