i ask my ex an question about his friend about wat was his race and he got madd and i told him to tell his freind for me that he is a good rapper and he got mad but he has a gurl so why do he cares i don't want to go with his friend because i don't like him and dat just nasty so i wanna know wat do insercure mean? and how is my ex being insercure?
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the spelling's insecure and it means your boyfie is not so sure of himself...or lacks self-confidence. what does that mean? means he gets nervous or irritated becos of certain shortcomings that make him afraid...
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You don't want your friend to fornicate with your ex, that's understandable, but you're no longer with him so they're gonna do whatever they want. It bothers you because either you're jealous, concerned because you don't want him messing with her heart (if he's the reason you guys broke up), annoyed that she's going for him even though she's well within her rights, or you still got feelings for him. Or maybe you're into your friend? Whatever, get over it, he's not your problem anymore, right?
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From what it sounds like, you are either insecure with your relationship and your position in his life, or you, deep down, want out of the relationship, so you ask questions that will in effect cause him to break things off, so you don't have to.
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CAN I ASKED YOU A QUESTION \n\nWHAT DO THIS MEAN WHEN YOU BE WITH SOME ONE FOR 2 YEARS AND YOU HAD TOOK ALL OF HIS WORDS ON THE INSIDE AND SAYIN HE LOVE YOU AND HE WANT TO MARRIED YOU   AND NOW 2YEARS YESTERDAY WE WENT TO THE MOVIES FOR THE FIRST TIME TOGETHER AND WE HAD SET IN THE BACK NOBODY COULD'NT SEE US I PUT MY HANDS AROUND HIM AND HE WANT LET ME HE SAID HE'S NOT READY FOR ME TO DOD THAT AROUND PLUBLIC   TEARS JUST FALLING FROM MY EYES RIGHT NOW. BUT ANYWAY HE SAID HE'S CONFORTBLE AROUND GAY PEOPLE BUT NOT AROUND STRAIGHT PEOPLE AND ITS WAS DARK MANNNNNNNN I MEAN IT BEEN FUCKING 2 YEARS AND I DID'NT HEARD THIS SHITED BEFORE HE WANT TO MARRIED ME PLEASE TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO HE'S ON HERE TELL PEOPLE AND THEY SAYING HE NEED TO BE WITH GIRL AND THEY WERE SAYING MAYBLE IT'S NOT MENT TO BE
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it means, don't chase this, it'll blow up in your face. and, I tell you this from the voice of experience: I'm really, really, really, really not lying when I say that once he's your ex, leave it that way.
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Depending on your relationship with the person, it was an insult, a compliment, or he/she was being arrogant.\n\nThis line has historically had 3 meanings:\n1) A friend says that to you, it's a compliment.  He is saying that you look especially good today.\n2) Someone who doesn't like you says that to you, it's an insult.  He's saying that you are vain, conceited, egotistical, you have an Eros complex, or he's making fun of the way you look.  (This quote has been used more recently by advertisers to get overweight people to join expensive gyms or pay for expensive diet plans.)\n3) Someone you know to be full of himself says this to you or in general, he is reaffirming that he thinks he looks good and is probably way too sure of himself.
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It means he is an insecure dumbass, move on girl!
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My b-friend and his ex talked the whole first year him and I were together.  She too broke up with him and I knew she really hurt him.  It drove me crazy too.  1)  I had to decide if I trusted my b-friend or not.  If I didn't trust him then I shouldn't b with him.  \n2) If the two of them ended up together then him and I weren't meant to be.  \nWe've been together for a little over a year, the ex has faded quickly.  Just hang in there, she's an ex for a reason.
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mmmmmm...\n\nWell i thought about this one, when my ex and i broke up, we only dated for a couple of months but we were like best friends. We ended in a stupid way, we just stopped talking well he was ingnoring me and i to him and so forth.\n\nBut if he ever rang me back after so long like in your case, yeah i would catch up with him. I would make sure i looked my best and meet him somewhere, to show how much i have grown and how much i look better. If i were you honey i'd meet him and dress real hot. Don't talk about what went wrong, if he was ignoring you well its his loss. And rub it in his face and show him how much he's missed.\n\nThats what i did once, i met with another of my ex's who said similar things along that line, and he saw me, and after our interlude, he rang me back and asked me out again after 3yrs. what do you think i did??? I just said, sorry i just wana be friends, even though i thought we had something going on, but i realised, he ignored me and played around. I was over it and so i met him just for a coffee, and he was wishin he had never let go of me!!\n\nSO basically, if i were you, i would be friends, sometimes if you and your ex were good friends, its good to keep it that way, cos you both know alot about eachother from the past. But dont forget the reason you broke up, remember why it ended and dont fall for the i still love you crap, cos if they did, honey they would of never left the picture. And even if they left for a bit, it doesent take 1 1/2yrs to realise and come back. \n\nI would talk about all the good things that i have done( rub it in their faces) all the ppl i've met, and so forth. You know the best revenge on ex's is success. You dont have to hate eachtoher, you can be good friends, but it will kill him for ever letting you go and not contacting you all this time.\n\nmake sure you look super hot!!!! But leave it as friends. By the way my ex and i are still good friends. I know in his eyes he wants me, but thats the beauty of break ups, you have control of the situation, and you can think things through and move on, whilst still being good friends or not
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it vould mean a lot  of thing s men are hard to understand so trust me don't try to figure them out, he might wantt to be freinds or it just means he is breakking up with you or it means that he just wants to hang
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Translation:\n\nHi. Whats happening is this dang boy is getting on my last nerve. I hate it. Anyway, he says he wants to go out with me, and his friend says it too. His friend just called me to say that. Then, this girl that used to like him (but he wouldn't go out with her) said it was a joke. She said she asked him and thats was what he said. What should I do? I guess we're going out, but I don't know if we are or not.\n\nOk, now that people don't have such a hard time reading what you were trying to say, maybe they can answer.
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Being constantly compared to someone means that you aren't appreciated enough for who you are. Apparently the ex bf is the benchmark she is using to define you in her eyes. The fact that you don't get the chance to meet your "human standard" means that your gf likely gets off on the control issue.\n\nYou know your gf better than I do, so I'm just going off the vibe I'm getting in your question.
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so why does it matter he told you right? so that means he's honest and caring... then he cried and told you sorry, caring and emotional. and he shows signs of regert ! are you complaining? you porably have an amazing man who was honest caring and sincere you are say how can i forgive him???? the trust oh okay well he stoped her didnt he? yeah exactly! he did so now you know that he wont go out and cheat on you!  so whats the problem here?
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Leave things alone and let it work itself out. You haven't done anything so if you start trying to fix it then it's only going to make you look even more guilty. He'll learn in time that you never did any of the things she said and he'll have to be the one to find a way to make it up to you. Let him see that your a stronger person then what she is making you out to be. and he will respect you more for it. I would just let him know that your not guilty but your not going to start trying to prove it to him either, and that he'll have to work it out himself. If you start having to prove things to someone you will be having to prove things to them from now on. If his going to believe you then let nature take its course. As for her why are you even friends with her. Dump her and if you do date her ex so what, that's why his her ex.
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I would also feel very insecure about this situation. the only thing you can do is be aware of it.  The fact that they dated could either be a good or bad thing.  He could still be holding a torch for her, or it could be that it just didn't work out romantically for them.  I wouldn't quiz him too much on it just keep an eye on what he is doing and when and what he is telling you.  If it makes you feel unstable in your relationship then I think you should tell him how you feel without making it sound like you are jealous.  Tell him how it is - its your ex, but you don't tell me that you are seeng her.  I feel like you are hiding something, even though i know aren't.  if he is hiding something there's no guarantee you will find out, but if that's the case and you can't trust him, there's no relationship.
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if it were meant to be you would be together. if you are both in pain why don't you get together and talk? if he cares about you why isn't he doing anything about it. sometimes guys just say these things because they don't want to hurt you. it doesn't necessarily mean that they care for you in the context you are putting it. as hard as it is the less you see of this person the easier it will become. at first the pain is so intense but in time with all hurt it fades little by little everyday.
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" and I have a boyfriend that tonight told his friend to basically have sex with me...."\n\n???WTF?? There is a word for people like that- dang girl- get your head out of whatever dark place it is in and get rid of both of them..neither one of them respect you..why don't you respect yourself