Every since I got a job he wakes up really early and he comes home later then he use to and he has no excuss to and when he does come home he doesn't even want to touch me
205892
Your gut instinct is usually correct.
259314
my 18 year old son is a very heavy sleeper. he does not hear alarms when he is sleeping. we have very good relationship and he loves me very much. he as even seen doctors about this problem. i have to wake him for work. during this process many times he will hit at me and call me bad names. every day he gives me a hug and tells me he loves me. i know his waking behavoir causes him bad feelings and i know he does not know what he is doing when he does those things. the state of mind during the waking process is an in between place. if you don't think you will put yourself in danger fake a snooze sometime, if only for peace of mind.
337449
Sweety you're mad because you do not know or understand what is going on with him. It very well may be that he is trying to pack and work at the same time and trust me it is not easy.I did this one day and the next thing I know there was a female officer in my face in the middle of the night because I did not hear anyone knocking at the door. My boyfriend at the time had them kick the door in so that he could see if I was okay. Personally I think it was something else. Plus, I had children to take care of.
517844
Your last few words sum it up well,...when you say, "he never calls me."\n\nSounds like he is using you sweetie. I am sure you have a lot to offer someone. Move on to someone who appreciates you and wants to spend time with you, doing more than having sex.
616075
you better get all you can!!! because we earned it.\n\nsometimes in our lives it comes a time we have to work on our selves it is kind of a wake up call, everything happens for a reason. Work on yor self get a start to build a career, go to school start a business, or get a city job it is time to get more money or to find a feild that is more promising. You can no longer  be comfortable and accept that kind of abusive.\n\nI was always told never mess with matters of the heart it can get dangerous, I know you are tired, start making a way for yourself where you would need no one to survive. \n\nhe knows how much you make and he feel your not going anywhere BECAUSE you accepted what he is doing, no saying you like but by staying there over and over make he feel he can treat you the way he do. he feel you need him to survive. I would show him a thing or two IT IS TIME TO CHANGE!!! \n\nknow what you are worth.\n\nfind a room mating situation untill you get a higher paying job.I know it is not easy to room mate but it help out and look at it as a temporary situation.
281622
hi sorry to hear this...well its true about working late...i was and still am a repo man it calls for long hours..i am the same way..when i get home i do alot of the same..internet,movies,t.v...whatever.. it does take a while to unwind and let the day slip away..then when your unwound and ready for bed..your just waking up..its hard i know this aint what you wanna hear but he has to want to spend time with you..he has to compramize..with your feelings..i had to as well..how long has he worked 2nd shift? if he recently started doing the 2nd shift this will fade away..he will become tired sooner and be in bed with you sooner..i hope i helped if you have any further questions...please dont be afraid to e mail me and ask...good luck
78915
no they dont!\nsounds like your is in the retarted zone! if he dont wake up unplug his game, put it in the closet and tell him when he grows up and acts like a big boy he can have it back!
148975
It sounds as if he is displeased with the state of your life together.  You are both working way too much in my opinion.  You should both cut back.  Then he'll have plenty of time to sleep and you'll have more time to spend together.
109121
Talk it out, dude. That's the only way to get things right. But hey, be careful in doing so. It might be too much to ask but believe me, you'll need ounces of patience and tons of prudent speech as this maybe a sensitive ish. He probably needs to shower more often so he wouldn't have to do that again. Good luck! =)
407064
it sounds like he had no respect for you, and the next time you prepare a meal for him and he doesn't come to the table throw it in the garbage and continue to do so and until he gets the message or he gets hungry enough to come when you call him the first time. It sounds like he needs to be trained.
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he's an excellent husband.  when i pull late nighters to study for tests he will get up and call to wake me up (he's a truck driver, that's why he has to call) or when he's home he will get up early to make me coffee and breakfast and warm up my car, he checks out my car whenever he gets home to make sure the fluids are as they should be, he just generally goes out of his way to help in any way he can.
286215
Girl, I am in the same boat. I work days and then P/T at night. My honey works Night shift. When he comes home, I go to work. When I get home he's already gone to work. We only have small amounts of time to share, and sometimes it gets real tough.\nYou need to sit down and TALK. It's important to share your feelings with him. Tell him you love him and miss him. Make some special time, and rediscover the passion.  LOL to you.
473253
If you really like him, just try to encourage him to more responsible to his life. But in gently way ya. Dont tell him to stop sleeping in 1 - 4 pm, just  make him wanna fight to start looking for job. Coz, when He has a job, otomaticly he couldn`t sleep in that time anymore.\nIf he just your closed friend (not lover), you could say in an easy way, tell him how come later he could take responsible to his future life, starting a family, and become a provider for his future wife and kids meanwhile he has no responsible at all to his life like now?\nIf he is your lover now, and this is you want for long term realtionship. So say to him tactfully, choose the right moment and time, this is quite sensitive matter. Tell him basicly you will lean on him, coz he will be the head of family. And He will lead this to a bright future...so from now tell Him that you will help and support his effort to be prepared in future, incuding his effort to look for job. Tell Him that you`ll be the suporter for him whatever happened in this fight..\nGood luck...
146289
I think perhaps you are being to patient.  You should be more "Assertive" not necessarily agressive.  Put him on the spot and don't leave his office until you start to get some sort of resolution to your problem.  If he needs to get info/approval from other departments for certain things make him do it IN FRONT of you, that way you know it is happening.
159002
Well he is tired as he is working and now he has other things to deal with,as in the baby and you.\nThis can take a lot out of a guy in the first year or to,as he now is dealing with 3 people and not just looking after him.\nIt's the mental side of things that is weighing him down,so plan something special,a candlelit dinner and a romp in the bedroom,just let him know that you appreciate and love him for what he is doing.\nAs for your jealous thing,it's the reason you are taking so much time in getting ready,you have changed in body and soul and you are not sure if he desires you any more.Wrong!\nJust do this dinner thing on a regular basis and give him your whole you,you both will be fine.
203712
Talk to him...find out if its you or something you do that turns him off...and i'm not saying this to be mean or anything but its obvious that something is wrong...have you ever considered the fact that he might be gay??? or maybe hes cheating on you...either way you need to leave and find you someone else that is more into you...every women needs attention...especially in the bed...who dont wanna be told your beautiful or how much someone was think of you and missed you...baby girl your missing out...hes not giving you what you need as a women....you need to get up and leave...and go get you some...anyway it turns out...i wish u the best...Good luck
92271
usually a mental thing... have a relaxing evening....candles, massages.... he should be "up" in no time...