I dont understand why some guys play games whether they know it or not...not bitter just trying to understand?
206941
ever heard the term, "the grass is greener...?" some people (this includes guys AND gals) always want what they can't have. this is the main reason they 'play games.' go for someone who'll want YOU. and forget the loser who isn't happy that you want him.
329745
sometimes its right and other times its wrong, sometimes the guys dont play their full game becuz there afraid they might hurt the girls, but it sure is fun lol ;)
288013
Why play so many complicated games?\n\nJust be honest with her.
367344
=I wouldn't say that he is a player because that would be saying something negative about your friend. I think he is just out ;;joking and having a good time with his friends. I wouldn't make a move yet as to get rejected and hurt the friendship. He is just a tease at this point. Let him make the first move. Meanwhile enjoy his flirting with you. You never know!
518501
Yup I'd say he is just playing games...the girl should just ignore him ....and not even talk to him...he is a loser..
512204
To me, guys ask that question moreless to see if you would mess with so-and-so because if you said that you would then they can assume that you are easy and a hoe but if you say that you wouldn't mess with him that you are uptight. Sometimes a guy just ask the question to see how you respond to them. I know I have been in that predictiment plenty of times. So the best way to answer it is to say, "I don't know who or what you are referring to because I never went anywhere with so-and-so." Because that leads them to believe that so-and-so lied about alot of things and they will try to mend what they feel was inappropiate.
495525
that happend all the time to me when i was single.\nguys love flirting with girls even if they have a gf.\nsome of them even pretend to be single.\n\nit's an attention game after all.  you were just tricked by him.\nignore those players and find a good honest one.
329875
Guys like the idea of a chase. They like to do the chasing and they like to be chased. Maybe he wanted to see how you reacted to the situation so he could make a better assumption of your feelings for him. Guys do stupid stuff to find out what the girl is thinking in her head. You know that girls are different creatures from a different planet and their brain procedures are very differnet from men. he probably A. wantd to see if you'd say something or B. you're over analysing something stupid
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to some guys..thats everything to them..gambaholics..me..i'd play some poker like on the weekends with the homies or something..its fun sometimes..if i win lots of money : ) \nbut no thats not everything to all guys..just some..and im not one of those guys haha
568741
Im a guy and I hate dudes that do this kind of stuff,makes it hard for those of us that dont cheat.[we're not all dogs] So check it out CONFRONT HIM.
452387
It sounds like the truth...suprisingly. If you and him were having sex, I would say it was game. But he actually seems like a young man who wants to do right by a wholesome girl who is having issues with not-so-wholesome girls tempting him. Sounds like a keeper =)
675196
sometimes they do. I'm a girl, and way into sports. i don't mind takling about a soccer game with guys, or even going to a basket ball game.  I love it.  But some girls only act like they like sports to get your attention, and make some guy think that they are into the same kind of things. I'll admit, i've acted interested in Golf to get a guy interested....
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Mind games .... Hmmmm.\n\nMind games come into play on a couple of occasions. 1. To test you and your commitment. 2. To act as if he doesn't really think your a major part of his life (usually peer driven - remember the movie Grease).\n\nI have done it myself "in high school!!" but when the girl got fed up with it, broke it off with me. I was devastated (but still cool LOL).\n\nNo seriously, if he's trying to impress its the wrong thing to do. Loving someone is always taken for granted until that person is gone. Mind games is childish and a huge waste of time. If you love someone, a smile will come to your face just thinking about that person.\n\nBacking off is a form of mind games and could have the same effect. A girl backing off from me would make me think she is disinterested in me. \n\nBe careful in both cases, be forward about mind games and catch him off guard. Get angry at them for doing it (its like backing off) and watch them come crawling back. If they don't call or come back ... then their game served its purpose... to drive a wedge in your relationship.
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Sounds like to me that he is just being friendly.  Sometimes he's in the mood to play sometimes he's not...don't YOU have changes in moods yourself?  I think you are reading way too much in to his silly flirtations.  Flirting doesn't mean one wants a realtionship, flirting is just being silly, and friendly with someone you hope likes you as a friend.
69147
Don't whine about it; just accept that that's how it is and deal with it -- women like guys who play games.  An attractive woman has guys approaching her with honesty dozens of times a day, and she's bored with it -- games are the only way to get her attention.  Games prove you're smart and interesting and have a sense of humor, and then once you're gotten to know her, you can go with the honesty.
75053
some guys like girls to play hard to get. try flirting, before telling them exactly how you feel.
191293
Yep, it means he doesn't want you to think he's playing games with you and your heart, that he's serious about you. Or, he may have said this to throw you off and he really is cheating. Maybe I have some serious trust issues, but I wouldn't put it past any man (or woman) to say some stuff like that to trick you while they're doing wrong behind your back..... But until you have proof, I wouldn't worry about it.