we've been living togegher for two years, the first 6 months was full of attention and loving making, now love making is like a favour from him to me
207105
I see nothing in your words that refer to "love".  All I see is that you aren't "gettin" as much as you used to.  If that's all love means to you then I suggest you go your seperate ways.  If, however, the reduction of sex is just one part of your problems, then seek some professional help.
303801
tell him how you feel because i've liked the same boy for two years also and i told him and things are going pretty great!!!
52949
I've been with my SO for almost 3 years. What don't I love about him should be the question. He's in the navy so his job is EXTREMLY stressful. I love how when he gets home the first thing he wants to do is give me a huge hug and kiss. I love how when his lips touch mine I feel like there's no other place I could EVER want to be. I love how when he holds me....we fit together. I love how he whispers in my ear goodnight and kisses me so gently. I love how when we haven't seen each other for a while he'll hold me forever and not let me go. I love how when we're on long car trips he'll look over at me and just sigh. I love how when we're sitting at home watching TV he can't stand to be more than a half a centimeter away from me. I love how he can make me laugh no matter how sad, how mad, or how frustrated I may be. I love how the sound of his voice makes my heart skip a beat. I love how everytime he walks in the door from work my stomach fills with butterflies and my heart beats fastser. I love how when he hugs me it feels like nothing can hurt me. I love how when we're out in public he ALWAYS has either his arm around me or my hand in his to let all the guys out there know that I'm his. I love how when we get to a party...he'll spend 30 min introducing me to everyone as "the woman who puts up with everything and still sticks around". I love how when he's sick...all he wants to do is lay his head in my lap and sleep. We've been through SOOOO much....good friends of mine dying in Iraq, some rather serious things in both my life and his and yet we're closer now than we were when we started dating. Everyday I talk to him and see him our love grows more and more.
660423
Yes, because what you are doing is teasing him. You just need to wait until it is the right time. That shows you that he does have a lot of respect for you.
437716
2 weeks.  The marriage only has to last 6 months.
69022
i would say yah but dont be shy about it tell him they way you really feel thats how i got mine and we have been together for 7 months and we r still going strong
148695
He probably IS toying with your heart. Try this. Say..."I know you think it's funny, but I don't. If you like me, let me know. I have a lot of feelings for you and I think there's something between us." If that's too cheesy for you, change it up a big. :D...\n\n6 years really isn't TOO big of a deal. If it's true love, it shouldn't be anything but an age. good luck!
268808
sounds like a great guy. if you feel like you definatly want more then that give it a shot. i have been in your situation to the  point my parents even call him their surragate son and i'll tell you what he confessed how much he loved me after it was too late. now after marrying others and kids we will never be able to go back to that first innocent love we once had for each other.
498629
sometimes it takes time for love to grow...  And maybe he is realizing now that you two are in this together.  But show him you love him two men sometimes need that reassurance.  Best of luck..
21950
If this guy hasn't cam around in over two years he has no interest - best to work on what you can do for yourself and the baby.  You would have better odds finding someone new and better for your family life.
176997
When I heard 3 month old, I figured that would be a turning point and then you mentioned it started as soon as you knew you were going to be parents...obviously this wasn't planned, and your man is now feeling his life as he knew it is changed forever, what a shame, it could and would be changed for the better if he would only open his heart to the bigger picture of what life is all about, family...early months for anyone is a struggle, after 6 months he should be able to recognize himself within his own sons eyes and begin to form a bond, if you feel he will totally rejects this notion, then seek family counseling, either professionally or thru a local Church, Please don't allow your child to be subjected to such conditions that resulted from his birth to carry on for years and emotionally scar his childhood because his father didn't want to know any better.
596540
Damn you are so lucky. But in a way I am lucky too cause my man makes me do all that stuff as well. He also makes some sounds that makes me want to pull him closer to me and caress his boby.
50516
Yes, I have been in love.  What I did to tell him was to sew shirts for him, play chef's assistant when he wanted to cook, and cook when he did not want to, wash his clothes . . . but you get the idea.  When you love someone, actions speak way louder than words.  Anyone can say "I love you" and not mean it, maybe not even know what love is.  But doing nice things for him, things HE considers nice, will show him.  I used to read to Steve, books he had chosen for me to read, one chapter at a time.  Certainly he could read for himself, but he liked this little "ritual" of togetherness.  The important thing is to do what he wants you to do, not those things you want to do which force your tastes on him or try to change him.  If he wants you to do something you find immoral or distasteful, you can tell him that.  But if you can do it, and you know how to do it, love means you will want to do it.  And no, I'm not particularly talking about sex, although that is undoubtedly included in what he wants you to do!
616267
Seems like he is in love with you
14727
It could be a stage in your life.  Believe me after 25 years, there are stages just like stages of a child's growth.  Remember why and how you fell in love.  Start looking at him the way you use to.  Treating him the way you use to. At first it will be strange but it works, they come around and you'll end up being and doing amazing things in the bedroom.
571657
I find myself worrying how financially capable he is to take care of stuff.  I dont want him to give me money or anything, I got my own, but I want to know his worth so I know if the "WE" thing will work.  I dont expect him to pay for everything, Im gainfully employed so I will carry my own weight.  I want him to be responsible, take care of his kids (if he has any) and his family - that shows me he has responsibility to the things he holds dear.  I want him to be content with my love for him, and love me back - maybe not the way I love him coz I can get crazy!  But I want to know and feel that that love is there.  I like spontaneous and explosive sex, and to have him "addicted" to me would be a bonus!  When all this is in place, I could just lie in his arms and feel so safe, secure and complete...
136354
It sounds like infatuation.