I'm 22 and spending my spring break in california!  One problem, I'm staying with relatives and sharing a room(/queen sized bed) with my 15 year old cousin.  I enjoy sleeping TOPLESSS but don't know if it'll just turn him on?
212381
Common sense should tell you that if you are sleeping in a bed with a family member then yes you really should wear all your clothes. Sleeping naked or partially naked is fine if you are by yourself or with your boyfriend but not with your cousin.
472700
you should have a lock on your door especially if you change in your room.  No one should be able to walk in on you when u are naked.  I would talk to your parents and discuss it with them rationally.
107260
i don't know any lesbian friends who would be willing to spend the night with you but my cousin stars in a lot of gay porn movies. he is quite the "man". he said he would like to spend one night with you and then you could give your opinion the next day of what you thought about your new adventure.
404703
me and my girlfriend at the time had sex on my roof.I suntan up there.And we were hanging out listening to music and next thing you know were having sex.After we were done we noticed the neighbour boy and some of his friends had been watching the whole time.Thank God he didn't tell his parents.You ask how you can spice it up well how about in the park or movie theatre.Use you imagination cause the sky is the limit and have fun trying new things.
608984
you need to be more specific on the sleep with him part because that sounds real sick. if you mean sexual encounters you need to call the police and tell your mom and if you mean sleep in the same bed then you still need to tell your mom your uncomfortable and tell her why and if she dont care tella school counselor or call child protective services and tell them. you have rights to be protected from stuff like that.
153383
My dear Sarah, how can she get pregnant with a pillow?  Don't worry, it's just a phase, she will get over it.  She is just experiencing feeling for the first time and they are over whelming her.  Let her be or educate her properly about sex.  This is nothing to worry about.  Every person whether male or female, goes through puberty.  It's no big deal.  I bet you did it too, just didn't have a nosy older sister spying on you.  (I don't mean to be rude, but it's hard not to be sarcastic.  Sorry)
417710
Ok..... since no one else is truly answering your question I will give it my best shot. Since its your body it is your decision however I will tell you that if you decide to pleaseeeee make sure he cares about you as much as you seem to care about him. It will save you a lot of grief down the road. Anyways boys at the age of 16 live their life being turned on. But heres a few extra hints. Most guys like there necks being kissed on or licked. Especially right by their ears. Massages work wonders too. Especially with some massage oil. He may not be into that though.... however you could bring it up and see what he says. I know this is not a lot of tips.. but like I said boys at that age are always turned on. I have just one favor..... please please please use protection like condoms.... Its no fun getting pregnant only to realize he's not the ONE. Trust me I know. Plus with all the STD's out there u never know. Good luck if this is really what you want.
426059
No.  I wasn't allowed to stay home alone overnight until I was 17.  At ALMOST 15, she could be charged with negligence if anything happened to you.
539827
Just part of the deal. I'm 57 now, and it slowed down when I turned 50. Until then I got one about every half hour. And it had nothing to do with thinking about sex. It just happened. I just lived with it.
90624
You haven't installed an on/off switch on your back.  Only on your stomach.  Maybe it's better that way since your comfortable both ways.  One way is to resolve things and the other to sleep on them.
648678
yes the floor is the best place for him.  its just not right to have him sleep in between you and your cousin.  or if you r staying at a hotel why doesnt he get his own room.
151236
My cousin once tried it 4 a month, sleeping in a bra, cause she heard this.  Nothing happened!
234966
dude, you're looking at it the wrong way. it has more to do with your age, and what time the curfew is. the fact that you're asking a question like this might just prove that you're not ready to have a later curfew. \n\nnow, if she's telling you that you need to be asleep by 8:00 and you're 17, thats not cool. if you're 13 and she wants you to be home by 8:00 and in bed by 11:00, seems to me that she's not out of line.
596899
When I was growing up in the South, a girl just didn't even go to a guys house if his parents weren't home and certainly would never go into the guys bedroom. I realize things are different now however, one thing hasn't changed: This guy will think better of you if you don't do anything or allow anything to happen that could lead to sex. If you tell him you don't want to go into his bedroom even to "see" something, he may protest, but inside he will like you more. If you are attracted to him and want to date him pulling away a bit is a good way to accomplish this. People usually badly want what they can't easily have - it's a fact of life! Maybe bring a board game (is that cheesy?) or come with some CD's to listen to together. If he has a computer, come prepared with some things to look at together online. Maybe bring a DVD you like. Maybe plan to hang out in the house just for a little while, and then go to get something to eat or go to another friends house together, or go to a movie or the mall. Good luck and have fun!
616137
Its best to be honest with your parents.  I seriously doubt that they will object to you sleeping nude unless its really cold or something.  Just tell them outright that you plan to be sleeping nude.  Chances are they will have no problem with it.\n\nIf you try sleeping naked without them knowing, there is almost a guarantee that they will find out anyway and everybody will get embarrassed.  Bad situation because the shock of it will cause problems for you later.\n\nSo just tell them up front that you are going to be sleeping naked from now on.  \n\nJust don't be prudish about it.  They are probably going to see you naked sometimes but its highly unlikely that they will object to it.  Some guys are shy, but its wrong to be embarrassed about being naked in front of others - especially parents who changed your diapers.  \n\nI sleep naked all the time.  Its really comfortable and very free feeling. You won't want to sleep with boxers ever again.  I recommend it to everyone.
93833
well, it depends on how bad their situation. If they are just bored, 1st floor. If they are in their 40's and still living with mom and dad, 2nd floor. But if they got drunk and found out they slept with the same sex, try the 10th floor.
312975
its illegal. and it raise questions whether or not she is taking advantage because according to the law(in most western countries-i don't know which one is yours)it would be a form of rape because your not old enough to make the decision (this is assuming your sleeping together). \n\n5 years difference isn't much really but it seems a great deal bigger at your age, if it was 30 and 35 no-one would think anything of it.\n\npersonally i think you should wait a couple of years so its not a kid with an adult. but its up to you if your responsible and obviously if your parents are fine with your relationship.\n\nif your going to see her make sure its a partnership and your comfortable with the what takes place in the relationship. there is nothing wrong with you not being ready for some of the things she is (i though i should say that just in case).\n\ni can understand your interest, it makes you look cool to your friends but its quite odd that a 20 year old is interested in a 15 year old child(no offence) and its bordering on paedophilia.\n\n\ni think the perfect age for a boys girlfriend is supposed to be something like half his age plus seven, so in theory your perfect girlfriend should be 14.5 years old.