My husbands ex girlfriends still send him emails and birthday cards one even sent his parents a christmas card should i be worried am i just being childish
205682
I think you are already worried or you wouldn't have asked the question on here. I do not think this is appropriate at all. Your husband should tell them, I'm married now and I don't think it is a good idea to "keep in touch". NO WAY are you being childish, your being smart.
186483
If she really was a stalker, he would have told you about her by now.  You said this is a long-term relationship, so he would have confided that informatiojn in you.  He is lying, and I am a guy!!!  Sorry, dude, you are busted.  Move on, sister, he is not being faithful to you and why has he not made a committment to you?  At the very least, he is being emotionally unloyal to you even if he has done nothing with this online "girlfriend."  It has a long time.  Move on.  P.S.  I am married, so I am not saying this to get you or anything.  I know from experience that guys "cheat" on girlfriends with online hussies.
70168
you should not take him seriously he is obviously still sexually intersted in his ex and your isecurity has led you to snoop into his his personal email account because you do not trust him relationships do not grow and flourish on mistrust and insecurity and if you aren't dating others you need to start and move on or stay where you are and continue playing sneaky games
327891
i think it could be a possiblity. just keep a close eye on him. you never know. theres no reason why he should be so insecure about what you're up to if he's not doing the same thing. and him not wanting to show you his cell phone after he ransacked yours, and then coming back in the room a minute later with a phone call deleted is a little supsicious to me.
107576
I think you should be concern.  How did he get your friends email address anyway?  You may want to talk to your friend about not talking to him anymore.  Go to your parents and tell them.  Report his emails as spam when they come in.  A grown man with sense would never just email little girls for any reason!  If he is an adult he should be preoccupied with adult responsibility; like talking to adults not kids!  Okay, please take heed to this and stop talking to this guy!  Tell your friend to cut out all communications.  Do not give out your last name or real name to anyone over the net.  They can find out where you live on the Internet!!!  Keep yourself safe, stop responding to his email.  If he continues to email your friend, turn him over to the police and they can handle it from there.
257753
Is it a must you have to answer them? You received them from the chain e-mails, didn't you? Throw them away and find time for something else better. They are just senseless, and don't believe that you shall get a bad luck for not answer them.
181314
Why are you messaging your ex boyfriend? I think you are creating drama for yourself. So wallow in it, you deserve it.
272134
Sounds like he is having a really hard time letting go. It probably wasn't a good idea to get back into the dating scene as fast as he did. If he's kept all of her old letters, pictures, and gifts, then he really needs to take the time and figure out what he wants to do. It's very likely that he still has feelings for her especially since they were engaged. Have a talk with him and tell him how you feel about the situation. Then, tell him how you feel. Good luck to you!
188039
If he's admitted he still has feelings for his ex then if i were you i would leave him alone, he's using you to help him get over the brake down of his marriage!! you deserve better than that tell him how you feel and that what he's doing is wrong, people need time to get over stuff like that! walk away before you get really hurt! :)
99653
Did you not call him to remind him?? Most men forget birthdays! I dont think they do it on purpose.  I know married men who forget their wives birthdays.  I dont think it is a case of you not being important at all..I think he genuinly forgot.  And yes women are different to men.  Women mark things in diaries..men just dont bother!
606691
A lot of guys... not all, but a lot of them seem to act immaturely until they are at least 24 when they realize that they can't get by with it. With the e-mail thing I think he was testing you to see if you would send her anything. He may want to make you jealous who knows with guy because he seems a little off the walll with oh I have a girlfriend and then treatens you. Not a good thing just watch your back, he may not be a friend any more.
254910
I would think that it isn't expected by any means but if you like her or if it is just 'you' to give a gift then feel free...but I wouldn't go overboard or she might be uncomfortable with it.  New babies are always a good reason to give gifts and unlike birthdays that come every year they only come once in a while (for most people anyway), so they are kind of a different situation.
7255
I would continue sending the cards (as long as there is nothing hateful nor taunting written in 'em...).  \n\nRegardless of whether they bring a warm feeling in her heart or make her cringe, I'm guessing either reaction would bring a smile on your face - so, why not?  ;)
603636
no Sarah you are not overacting the guy is a user and it is his 1st ex who is still being used as for her husband what a wimp. Your better off without him Sarah so good luck in the future and tell him your daughter is unhappy with the arrangements if it carries on making her unhappy get help to make the arrangement you want legal.
553168
no, it's not normal and it's not right for him to secretly be in contact with his ex.  and it's not normal for him to get mad at you for finding out.  I would be getting to the bottom of this.  and fast.  he needs to tell you why in the world he's been talking to her behind your back!  I understand that they have a child together, and I understand that he needs to help support his child.  but the child is fifteen years old!  if the child needs something, he/she is old enough to call and talk to their dad. \nthe only reason I would think that your husband and his ex would need to talk would be about their child.  school, grades, sickness, etc. and that should never be kept from you.  honestly, what's to hide about that sort of thing?  I can't help but think he may be trying to hide more than e-mail from you.  you need to confront this man.  he has a lot of explaining to do.\nI wish you the best.
512794
If he only sent you an email he is probably with his ex, either way it means he does not care that much about you...he has your number, he can call you (right?) and the fact that he did not defend you over his ex, when she was obviously in the wrong, shows he either does not care that much about you, and might still have feelings for his ex, more so than he does for you..I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but i am just trying to give you the best advice, which is to realize (which it sounds like you already have) that this guy does not truly care about you and the best thing for you to for yourself is to just forget about him and move on, as hurtful as it may be. You could email him back demanding an explanantion, and telling him how hurt you are, but it wouldn't make much of a difference.
462276
i'm a girl, but i have done that before, and it means nothing. i didn't have any feelings for my ex, and you should not stress at all over it. if it really bothers you that much, confront her about it, but do not make a huge deal about it because 99.9% it means nothing at all except that its a nice gift she likes.