In the pursuit of love, what is the dumbest thing you've done, and did it get you the guy or girl?
213097
Spent my life savings on an engagement ring\n\nIt worked =)
460081
Wow, a good question, with only my esteem and somewhat shame to uphold.\n\nHere goes.\n\nI loved "that guy" once.  And though I would have given him anything under the sun, including honesty, manogomy and love....in my deep caring for him I also had to give him space.  I had to honor his present situation(as hard as that was) and told him I didn't intend on being "the other woman" only to one realize I WAS.  I respected what ever he wanted and only wanted him to be happy.\n\nI then stopped talking to him, and put on my Captain Avoido outfit and a woderful thing happened.  He figured his life out, honestly with out any obstacles and called me about a year later and asked for a date.   Go figure.  It was ONLY then that he could hold me with esteem that he once carried for his previous love.\n\nThere should be no pressure............if she really cares.
607059
Did you choose to be stupid?
328099
unless the guy is an idiot it would have been awsome to have been in love with the first one and stayed with that one for life,but it just doesnt ssem like many of us are lucky enough to actually be with that right person on the first encounter.
364220
A few years ago, but never really acted on it. I have kissed other girls, but nothing else. I wish I would have acted on those feelings when I was younger and had the chance. I think a few of my girl-friends would have been into if we would have known what it was at the time. Oh the memories of youth I could have had! What about you? How far have you gone?
390822
you're screw*d girl...hahhaha
421296
Yeah. One time the guy I liked said," You really hate me, don't you?" I don't even know where he got that idea from... I was like," No, I don't hate you!" I guess he thought I hated him because I didn't really talk to him. And I kind of laughed when he did stupid things.
322127
i once had a glass of wine with a date and got so drunk that i accidently backhanded his glass at him and covered him in it...he just smiled and said "that is the hottest thing i have ever seen in my life"...which was good cuz i was ready to crawl under the table..lol\n\ni am obviously a light weight...
591693
I met my boyfriend through a friend. Our friend wanted me to go play cards and stuff with him and maybe a little more. Then like I went home and the next day he called me and said you remember the guy that had to leave early? And I responded yeah...why and he told me that he wanted me to go to the movie with him the next Friday. I agreed and we hit it off decent. Went out the next day (Saturday) again and it just kind of happened. I wasn't really looking for anyone at the time but just hoping to get with the guy that hooked us up. It all turned out well though a little of 6 months later we are still happier than ever!
109441
I think its awesome. I know for a fact that I've missed out on many great opportunities simply because I did not think the girl was interested in me. Or even worse, I was too worried about being rejected. My wife of 10 years persued me. I never even knew she felt like that about me. Just think, if she never made "the move" we would probably not be so happy together right now. I say go for it. It was perfectly fine back then and its more acceptable now.
326594
I've had a bad experience with dating a girl that I'd been friends with. It was pretty awkward, both of us knew eachother and what we like with the exception of relationship needs. I was so used to us just being friends that I made minimal moves. Unfortunately, she believed in the man making all the moves. She eventually got bored and went after someonme else.
621315
First of all dumbo, NO ONE OWNS ANYONE! so if a girl sees someone she likes and goes for it and he likes her back so be it. you dumb itchbays kill me! even in MARRIAGE no one OWNS you. dumbass get a grip!
382509
i did twice, almost at the same time. i was dating this guy that i absolutely loved. we dated a year before we ended it. it was really heartbreaking. he didnt cheat on me or anything, atleast i dont think he did. i thought we were going to get married! in the middle of that relationship, i also became friends with this guy who had a crush on me. i had a crush on him too but we never dated or anything because i was so in love with my boyfriend. my friend and i stopped talking because i wanted to be with my boyfriend and i felt i was cheating on him because i had a crush on him. anyway, bad idea. i got my heart broken twice.... my boyfriend dumped me and i lost my chance with my friend =( im glad to say that my friend and i are friends again and still close. i still believe i lost my chance with him though =/
64705
I think that he wab=nted to ask you out cause he was acting retarded and stuff. good luck
313897
My younger sister and I are really close. We hang out a lot. Well, I had this crush on one of my guy friends. He was coming over to show me this new game he bought. My sister and I were down in the basement listening to music. We were dressed in these Daisy Duke outfits and dancing on the coffee table to "Save a Horse, Ride A Cowboy". I was using a remote control as a microphone. My crush got to my house really early and my mom  just let him in and told him that I was downstairs. He walked right in on me and my sister dancing on a coffee table and singing into remote control.
29581
becasue love will make you do crazy things lol..more than likely you lost your *******mind...or you never had one...
27159
the craziest? that's tough.when im in love i tend to do lots of crazy stuff. Although there's this one time i went overboard and almost killed myself for love. I wont go into details, leave the revolting details behind...hehe