ok i have a good boyfriend but i am still in love with my EX what should i do ??
212803
Why did u break up wih the X in the first place?\nDid he break up with u or u with him?\nAs Michael J. says Remember the time.  \nGood or Bad?
130036
If you are in a relationship, you have to do what it is that you think is best. If your boyfriend your with now is not where your heart is, why are you wasting his and your time, move on because it is not fair. It seems as if you want your cake and to eat it too.  You have to be fair to yourself and to your boyfriend and to your ex. Follow your heart.
380000
I am not sure you want to know what you  should  do...because You know you have to move on and you still think about him might break up with his current gf?\nwhy do you want to be the second choice while there are many who can make you feel real love...Just delete and ignore him and try to forget about him..past has passed ..so live in present..you'll find the right one i promise!
667796
No one can answer that question for you.  Only you know whether you are emotionally ready to commit to someone else yet.  I would be suspicious, however, if it was less than six months or a year after a relationship as important as the one you describe.  But people vary, and maybe you just lucked out and found the right guy.\n\nHowever, ask youself these questions:  \n1) Are you sure that you are not just looking for *anyone* to love you, after the hurt and rejection of your breakup?  Would you love the new guy if you had met him first?  IIn other words, be sure you are not grabbing for validation.rather truly in love.\n2) Is there any chance that you are attracted to the new guy because he is the opposite of the old one?  This is trickier, because you certainly don't want to end up with another guy who is just like the one you broke up with.  But some people swing too far in the other direction when they are on the rebound, and you need to watch out for that.  Obviously, there were *some* things about the ex that you found good, or you would not have been together for so long.  So decide whether the new guy is a real improvement over the old one, or just very different.\n\nGood luck!
83345
Be the bigger person. Wait, till you find real good eveidences. may be the ex still has a crush on ur b/f... happends many time, people dont realize how important a person is till he/she is gone. \nIn my opinion be the bigger person, try to understand more, clearly communicate with your b/f. \nOr otherwise try to communicate with your b/f CLEARLY, and come to a resolution.
120403
Well it sounds like he is still in love with her. I mean if I am seeing you and then tlaking with my ex on a regular basis then something is up. Look I have been in this situtaion before. No matter how much he denys it, the fact is that he can't let go. Let him know that he has a choice between you and that other girl. If he really cares for you then he will move one. Now I just hope that you are not doing the same. I think it is important that you both want the same in thing. And no matter what he tells you it is obvouis that he still loves her. Look the worst thing is to countue talking with someone that you were with and then deny that you have no feelings for her. I think you have a choice and it is up to you if your gonna play second place to that other girl.
476742
You need to get over your ex first hun. I have been down that road recently and thats what you gotta do first before you move to another person. If you dont you will just compare your next bf to your ex and end up ending things with them because you still have that hope of having your ex back. It's not easy letting go but in order to make yourself happy get over your ex before you start a new relationship
606484
To spare him, dont go out with him. Since you are not into him fully... dont bother. You'll just want your ex.
665168
show your current boyfriend some respect.  if you don't love him anymore, breakup with him.  it may be hard to do but it's easier to get over being dumped than it is to get over being cheated on.
543844
The grass sure is always greener on the other side, isn't it?  You left boyfriend number 2 because you were thinking back to boyfriend number 1 and wanting to to back with him.  Now you are with him and you are thinking back to number 2 and wanting to be with him.  Do we see a pattern?  Don't judge him (number 2) by how he treated you when you broke up with him for another guy!  Even the best guy would be slightly peeved and act out a little.  Instead of constantly thinking about what guy you want to be with, think of who you want to be.  Maybe this misery is your heart's way of telling you that neither one is right for you.  If you really don't feel that's the case, then realize that you decided to be with number one for a number of reasons and remind yourself of those reasons.  Don't keep going back and forth, that gets really old for everyone involved really fast.  \n\nBasically, my advice is to get away from both of them.  It will be hard not to think of the good things and miss them both, but you can do it.  Make a list of the bad things about each one!  That should deter you!  \n\nGood luck!
144701
U broke up for a reason.... it wouldnt be fair on your current boyfriend to finish it with him just because he comes back on the scene. It isn't easy, but his lost you, urve gone onto better things. Do stay mates tho...you never know whats around the corner, so if something did happen between you and your current c/f, he will still be ther!
440491
Wow that a messed up position, But you know what you have to do, Get that ex outta your head a cheater will never stop and to put yourslf throght that ..it really isnt worth it ...try and think what you missed about your ex and do it with your new guy ....STAY AWAY FROM HIM!! it cant be worth it...ow yeah thx for my answer too im gunna do just that and stay away from my ex....Just like you should be doing ....good advice you need to take it!
232940
It sounds like he has another girl. If he is your EX-Boyfriend, I wouldn't even waste my time with him. There are lots of other guys out there, who would treat you right. If you really can't live without him, then when you see him, ask him in all honesty what is going on. Tell him to be up front & honest with you, you deserve it. Long distance realtionships are very hard. But all in all I would dump him, & take a break from guys. The right one will come along, just give it time.
156539
You need to do what your heart tells you.  Why did you and your ex break up in the first place? You need to take a look at that too.  Whatever you do, be honest with the other and don't cheat on the guy in jail.  That would be cold and will backfire on you.
673263
Honey,....MOVE ON! Your ex does not deserve you! You have found a guy who treats you right, so stay with him!
322994
it seems like he is a sweet person and he loves you stay with him you dont want to ruin a good thing!!!!! Thats how me and my boyfriend was i broke up wit him and now i miss him and want him back but he has a new girlfriend and dont want me . dont do what i did you'll be more unhappy then before!!!!!
317582
do u care a lot about the guy ur with like u do now with ex bf? cause if u don't just dump him and go out with ur ex bf and make him happy again. ur ex bf prob. had deep feelings about u and u ruined it for  him and now he is upset about it. so i'd think it over if i were u.\n\nShorty