me and my bestfriend used to date for qabout a month and we were intimate i thought things were great we did everything together then he started ignoring me then we became bestfriends and we cant be with out each other we do everything together but when we date other people we scare them off from each other on accident but now we are both serious with other people great people but wew pay close attention more to each other what is the deal
214708
I think that deep down that you truly love each other and want to be with each other.. just give it a shot.. your best friends already.. so go for it!
80740
I've been there and what i did was just start talking to him that way you don't feel so weird to be around him. we both are dating other people and we just talk as normal people b-cuz we realized we cant be as close Friends as we were before but we still hang out with the same people and its better to be talkin to each other than not talkin at all.
303385
Tricky situation.. You both care about each other, but probably arent sure to the extent of that caring.. \n\nI know a lot of people who prefer dating people they are friends with first, but you gotta be careful and look at what the friendship means to you because if a relationship doesnt work out - how is the friendship going to change?\n\nTake some time and just think about how you feel, try talking to him about what he means to you - that should clear up some confusion - best of luck
45182
i dated one of my really good friends and it only lasted for a couple months and we realized we were much better friends than a couple. we then just became just friends again and we got the questions about dating out of the way. if you are good enough friends its worth a try because something great could come out of it. if it doesnt work out, you need to try and stay friends afterwards which isnt too hard if you are really bestfriends. just respect each others opinios during and possibly after the relationship.
213490
don't count on getting back together, or being very good friends for that matter. my ex gf said the same thing about maybe getting back together, now shes dating one of my friends and we barley ever talk
463502
One ruled....never date/sex with friends. \nShe right, if ' we do that it gone to change our relationship for the worst' because once you do it, you both are not best friend anymore but now couple. That mean that you will see each other differently and act differently, and most relationship don't last. I think she worry that if you guy do it you guy wont be the same toward each other again-no more best friend.\n\nAnd where the hell you get the idea of losing it will your best friend, I never have that idea and i have a best friend for 10years, and never thinking of doing it with her.
650037
If you've been best buds for a while it wouldn't be abnormal for you to call him first. Get together and discuss what happened. Could be that you both have feelings for each other but aren't sure if the friendship could withstand the pressures of dating or be lost in the event that a romantic relationship didn't work. You need to talk about what happened and see where that leads you. Good Luck.
599868
I went through the same thing you did.  It kind of gets frustrating.  How does your friend react to it?  Does your friend go along with it or just gets quiet.  Cause my friend at times gave the hint that we were together.  Sorry to say that She no longer is my friend cause she was in fact giving hints that we were closer that friends.  In order to avoid it talk to your friend and also try not to give certain hints to people when you hang out together.  Sometimes people will jump to conclusions due to you hanging out with your friend way too much.
76838
I went through this myself, and the best advise I can give you is to let it roll off your back.  If your friend who is/was your  best friend believes someone over you than she was never your best friend to begin with.  The other girl who is lying, sure it would be nice to call her out, show who she really is, but then again, your friendship with BF will never be the same anyway, now the trust is broken.  As hard as it may be you should just try to get past this betrayal and find another healthy friendship with someone else. Sometime when we are in relationship rather they be romantic, or just friendships, we discover one side has stronger feeling than the other.  Never sell yourself short.  You seem intelligent, I doubt you will have any trouble finding a new buddy!! Good luck to you!!!!
326594
I've had a bad experience with dating a girl that I'd been friends with. It was pretty awkward, both of us knew eachother and what we like with the exception of relationship needs. I was so used to us just being friends that I made minimal moves. Unfortunately, she believed in the man making all the moves. She eventually got bored and went after someonme else.
244856
Not good business to date your friends exs.  Tell him you feel like he has cross the line of your friendship, because he use to date your best friend.
524775
Whenever anyone gets into a relationship they tend to have tunnel vision for awhile, they tend to devote much of their time to the other persons wants over even their own. So themselves and other friends basically get left out of the picture for awhile.  Your friendship will probably come back but unfortunately not until your friend realizes that he needs more than one person to make his life complete. Sorry it is a hard time to loose a good friend, and if he has become a WORSE person than before, then maybe just drop a call and say hey dude, I am happy for you and all, but you are totally different, call me when you get a chance to hang out I miss that in a DUDE way =) Good Luck............
293347
Hi! That happened to me before, my male bestfriend was falling in love with me, everyone in our group knows about it and advising me that it would be better to have a boyfriend from the bestfriend level as it always works. But I kind of aloof everytime I know he might ask me a question, or something as I only want to remain friends. Because what I believe before, if we became boyfriends/girlfriends and split up, we might never be friends again, and I like having him as my best friend. I was a teenager back then. Now i'm 30 and he's now married. And I'm still single.\n\nLet her know how you feel when she's no longer in a relationship. Or if you can't wait that long, let her know now, who knows. She might be open minded about it and let you know how she feels for you.\n\nCheers!\n\nMitch
303662
Friends come and go.They drift apart and come back together. If this friend does not understand you then maybe they never knew you You are and always will be your own bf You just have to enjoy being with yourself. And until you completley know yourself,how can you begin to really know someone else?Be careful of who you call friend.
203062
Not much u can do, that is part of the danger of dating friends from your group of friends, like sleeping with a co-worker, things go bad, u are stuck with them.  One suggestion though is finding another guy will, if he has/had any feelings for u at all, make him want to not be around as much when he knows u both will be there.
578835
Always, I have that issue or as i introduce my new intrest to my friends... he ends up dating one of them and not me... thats happened way to much...i understand your pain *hugs*
176374
it sounds like they dont care how you feel, is ther someone that she really like so that you all can hang out together so they can see what they are doing to you is not fair.  How long have you been goin with him. tell them you dont like it and you mean when you say it and if they dont listen hit them where it hurts be even dirtier then they are date someone else becuase he is cheating on you with your best friend