I broke up with my ex,coz he didnt want to resolve issues after getting back from a previous breakup.He danced with another girl infront of me,the same night,though i know they're just friends........
199952
What possible reason would you have to call your ex other than to get back together!
582801
How about a bad break up story? \n\nI was waiting for my b/f to bring me my boom box to teach a dance class. He was supposed to be there by 8pm. We waited and waited for him. At 2am when the place closed, I walked out with my students and friends to find a note on my car. He said that he had waited for me but since I didn't come out (like I was supposed to know he was outside!), he had to leave a note. What it came down to was that he was a coward and couldn't break up face to face and in front of my friends. \n\nAnyway, after telling me that afternoon that he loved me, he told me in the note that it wasn't working out........what a loser! I am better off without him!
258838
Suppose.... your ex stops contacting you and stays away from you, AND your current boyfriend also stops contacting you and stays away from you.\n\nWhich one of them would you miss more?
273588
Your ex is your ex for a reason. Remember that. It sounds like you have a good relationship with this other guy, I think you need to let your ex go and forget about anything that might take you back to him. You are not being fair to either guy by running to the other when you have problems. Instead, get on yahoo answers to help solve your problems...lol! just kidding. But seriously, you need to move on with this new guy. You might feel things for your ex and that is natural because you have a past together...but it's just that, a past. Time to look to the future and move on. Good luck!
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It's normal.. we all go through the same thing.. (I mean unless we had a flamin' bad break up that is!) Does the current bf know about this? ..and deal w/it? He sounds like a kool dude if so. It'd be hard, but could ya like change where ya R hangin' out, so ya 2 don't meet up? I kow it's rough if ya got the same friends, right? If ya have a bad breakup ONE of the good things about it is you got a TON of bad info. to use mentally to get over the bad dudes. I mean if he beat ya up, dissed ya, you gotta make that memory a WHOLE lot better.. (helps ya get over the hurt.) How long it been since ya broke up? It'll get better, I promise! If it's too new a hurt, I think it's kool ya got wit another guy already too.. later-     melancholia
411921
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
392015
What makes you think the Jed wants to be your boyfriend?  Maybe he just wants to sleep with you.  You know that he just broke up with his girlfiriend, right?
567389
Isn't it surprising how easily one gets into a 'situation' without really meaning to? It´s time to move on, you'll survive. Stop seeing the 'ex-best friend' and maybe you two will get together again in the future, much wiser for the experience.
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Why did the two of split? If it was your decision, why did it seem like a good idea at the time? If it was his decision, what has changed about his situation or attitude since then? If he left you for someone else, then I'd say, no, don't do it, because there's nothing to say he won't do it again. If you left him, maybe you need to think a bit about whether or not those reasons are still valid, or if something has actually changed to make another relationship with him worth pursuing.
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I am very good friends with 2 of my ex-boyfriends.  We have been friends for years.  They're both great people... it just turned out that we made better friends than partners.
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My daughter goes to dances, as did I many moons ago.\nI'd say it wasn't as much of a date as you wanted it to be. It sounds more like it was a mutual "I'll be there, if you're there" kinda thing.\n He could also be the kind of guy who danced with all those other gals just to show you how lucky you are that, of all the girls he could have, he chose you. Are you sure you could compete with his ego in a relationship with him?\n Maybe it was your dancing. Ask your friends if you look OK dancing. My daughter's given her friends pointers, and vice-versa.\n Talk to him about it, but don't let him know you cried over him. That's giving him way too much control over you, and that's not healthy in any relationship.\nJust let him know you weren't happy how the whole thing turned out, and that you'll see him around. \n Hanging around & waiting for him won't get you noticed. Putting him off, will. Good luck.
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hey girl my ex boyfriend for 1year and a month he also went out with one of my friends when they were going out he relized that he should be with me just give the guy time and maybe you to will get back together just give him space and let him relize that you are the one for him
420811
That my ex girlfriend had s*x with her best friend's boyfriend- I never got round to it though :-/
522406
maybe you didn't have closure with the ex.  I know that's the reason my ex still haunts me after 5 years.  fortunately i've got the greatest gf in the world, and i can talk to her about this.  I LOVE NIKI!!!
223652
Girl move on he was a lil hoe anyways you better than him don't sweat it sweetie...everything happens for a reason and i believe this happened so that a better guy can move on in...trust me
330618
I would break up with him and move on. Don't go back with you ex. Show all of them that your a bigger person than them. You don't need them.  Get a new guy, that would make him really jealous!
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Ditch them both...\n\nWhy would you want him back after this?