This guy I have been seeing off and on for 3 years know has been trying to get back with me.Well I got back with him them some girl calls my phone telling me that is her man to leave him alone.And come to find out that we both recently had a birthday and he not only bought me a puppy but he bought her one as well ...he is playing games...or is he acting like a little kid...I meen come on he is 26 with 2 kids and im 18 with one...he does drugs and i dont...Am I wasteing my time?
208091
Do you really need anyone to answer this question? He's a douche bag and doesn't deserve either of you. Why would you want to be with someone who lies to you and is seeing someone else? I know it can be hard because at least your feelings are pure and honest but it will never work when this jerk only thinks of himself. He might be 26 and you might be considerably younger, but let's face it I have seen 10 year old boys act more mature then this moron. Your young and you have many years to find someone else, so don't waste your time on him because that great guy who will treat great and be the love of your life might pass you by. Think about your child too, would you want him to be a role model for them or to learn about relationships by seeing the abuse that he is putting you through? This man clearly does not know your worth and hopefully you do and will be smart enough to pursue a life without him. It might be hard to be on your own but its probably alot lonlier being with a scumbag like him. Take care and I wish you the best of luck with whatever decision that you make.
394216
He sounds like a very controlling guy the next time he does this don't contact him in any way he wants control and you are giving it to him every time there are so many better guys out there you don't need a guy who constantly makes you feel bad about yourself. Get rid of him he does not deserve you.
522434
Wow how old are you?\n\nThis guys a sleaze for taking advantage of you, he spent all the time with you? He just doesn't have to charm anyone else when your already there, thats all.\nThe oldest trick in the book , he wants a long term relationship?\n\nHoney, he's using you, ok, and you fell for it, im sorry.
172408
sounds like he needs to grow up and you say he's 30!!! that's really sad...the only advice i can give you is put him in situations where he has to talk to you but to be honest with you it sounds like he doesn't respect you and maybe he is trying to find excuses to leave you you say he did this with his ex's well look where they are now  i hope you are able to solve this problem good luck.
597860
Given that you live so far away from each other, I would have to say that he found someone else, and is trying to see what happens with that person. I would get out of that situation!!! Do you really want to be a backup plan? Find someone who is willing to be there and not play games with you.
349064
NO!  I beg of you, use your head not your heart.  Wouldn't he have called you or a friend or a locksmith for that matter, if he were locked out of his place?  The fact that you knew where the girlfriend lives and works makes it seems as if this is not the first time and you and the ex has a (fighting) history.  Find someone more loyal, more discreet or maybe a little smarter... How on earth did he let her get the phone?!\nGood Luck!
211824
He has not grown up.  Sounds as if he is still playing childish games because he realizes that in the end you will always be there for him.  Short and to the point, my dear, you're being manipulated by a man-child!
31708
Change your phone number!  It sounds like another person likes one of you and is trying to break you guys up!  Change the # and be careful who you give it to!
37939
Sounds like he's getting the best of both worlds. He gets to keep you (at a distance, with NO strings attached), and he also gets to do whatever else he wants. I think you are being taken advantage of. What you decide to do about it is your deal. Good luck.
391666
Move on,-she already has!! Yes, this guy probably is using her, but...she's letting him.  I wish you the best! It's got to be so hard for the kids!!!
87087
Your right to be concerned.  It sounds like this guy is all talk and no action.  If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then he would.  Right now it sounds like this is just a game for him with you being his back up.
238084
Sounds like a game, call him back if you like playing them.  Don't call him back if you don't like playing games.  Sounds like he needs to grow up some.
254668
I think that you should be mad at him because now he is going out with a nother girl and sounds like he used you for money. Are you single and how old are you and what state do you live in?
526369
duhhhhh he's keepin you around just in case. things might not be going as well as he wished with shit new girl. so he's gettin back with you as "friends".\n\non the other hand, he might be genuinely interested in a friendship.\n\npersonally, i think he's just tryin to keep those lines of communication open. maybe its time for you to move on and find a boyfriend so it doesn't matter what he wants.
402054
you need to stop checkin gup on your man.  if you consider your relationship to be serious then he does too.  if he has things that he deleted he probably just deleted the number of some of his buddies you don;t like.  from a guy in the same situation as your man i can say he probably isn't calling a bunch of girls so give dude a break.  i live with my girl and she checks my phone all the time.  what is that number who is that if i call will a girl pick up who have you been calling all that is annoying.  it's the pizza place, it's my work number.  that's were i let somebody borrow my phone.  \n\nhe probably just cleared out anything that he thought you would bitch about and he doesn't want to hear it
83984
I've heard that guys will do whatever women let them get away with.  This guy wants to use and abuse you and you're letting him, and even paying him!  The answer is NO, he doesn't care about you.  It seems like you don't even care about you.\n \nSorry if this sounded cruel. Deep down you know you should kick his loser ass to the curb.  You've just gotta find the\ncourage to do it.  Think of how much money you'll save once he's gone.  \n\nBe good to yourself and good luck.
522793
He is keeping you as a back up sorry to say.  Plus why would you want to break this girls heart by getting him to leave her?  Don't think of only yourself but her feelings too.