i'm 24 M London, and beginning to feel like theres no cute girls out there....
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I have a friend ther.Do you want to contact her?She's a direct decendant of JACK THE RIPPER!!!!
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theres bars and clubs were you can find some ladies. trust me there out there your just got to get out thhere and look hunny....
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read my screen name! so my only question to u is where do u stay? just b cuz ur lezbian that doesn't mean u have to lower ur standards and sleep with sum ugly a$$ girls just to get u some! i suggest u keep going out of town and meeting new girls. u prolly just live in a "dry" town.
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I'd get some help. You might need some confidence to actually go out with more attainable women.
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We were just born at different times and different places that kept us apart.  Everything you described about yourself is qualities that I find very attractive.  I like someone who is open minded and opininated and independent.  You have awesome qualities.  When you are opininated that means you believe in what you are saying.  I have restored my own house and totally independent and can fix pretty much anything.  I cannot find the right girl to save my life.  Most girls are so boring it kills my spirit.  There are guys out there who would love a girl like you.  I think you need to move out of the city you live in and start fresh.  I think your life would change for the better in no time.  On the inadequacy and shame, see a therapist, they can get those things out of you.  We were all wounded in some way as children.  You have to go back in and reopen the wounds and let them heal correctly, otherwise they will fester for a long long time.
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I can completely relate to your question - particularly the London aspect - I work there and it can at times look like the whole of the capital is having a party that you weren't invited to.\n\nThere is nothing on this planet worse than feeling lonely to me - it can be all consuming. Sounds like you're doing all the right things - good for you for getting out there - maybe you just need to relax a bit and be patient. \n\nI think Guinea Pig is spot on when they say that all these people who look bubbly and like they've got loads of friends could well be lonely too. I think we're all lonely at some point in our lives.\n\nAt the moment I'm trying to be comfortable with myself so that I don't have to rely on other people and be needy and desperate. Not only is it unattractive but it scares off potential new friends too. I'm not talking about you here in particular by the way - just making a general point and I've seen myself be needy and not liked what I saw.\n\nSo anyway, hang on in there, and while you're being patient - I'm happy to be your 360 friend if you like.\n\nTake care :-)
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im 17 and i haven`t kiss anyone:(b.c im waiting for the right girl(^_^)
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Are you really as cute and sexy as you say?  Just kidding.  But seriously it's hard to move around and try to make new friends.  Just try smiling and saying hi to people at first and if they seem receptive then start up a convo or ask them out for pizza or something.   Grab that bull by the balls and go for it! (figuratively speaking of course)
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boy i dont know why u have low self esteem!?\nur not ugly! and yes people have different taste but ur not ugly so dont get those things confused.\ni think the only thing thats keeping u down is ur lack of boldness.\ndont be scared to ask a girl out. \ni guess u first have to feel good about urself so that vibe goes out and then others follow.\nits all about the vibe u send out!\nso try to feel better about ur self!\ndont hide behind ur hair or glasses\nlook up\nand proud!\nand i bet in a while once it comes  natural youll get the courage to ask a girl...if once u dont succed....then try again!\nno one person is good enough to give up after them!\nremeber that!\n\nwell hope i helped\nChau\nand feel better ok dear!
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perhaps u are so desperate that with every woman you look at there is a sign popping over their heads saying "girlfriend material" or "not girlfriend material". Have you looked at yourself lately? Perhaps when girls look at you, there is no sign over your head saying "not boyfriend material".  \nWhy don't u try to play up your SINCERELY POSITIVE SIDE and not dwell on why u don't have any girlfriend. If you are a nice guy, even if you are not that good looking, perhaps there is still hope for you. Good luck!\n\nP.S. Try not to let your desperation show. You have to start with being friends first.
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It's all about self-confidence, not what others tell you.  Don't think your hot because other people tell you, think it because you know it. (but not too much so, vanity is only good in small doses.)  work your way back into hitting on girls, go to a new bar and find girls that your not "really" interested in, and just try different approaches (don't go in looking for sex, but looking to find out how to be confident in your mannerisms), get comfortable talking to new girls, and then try on someone you actually like, and maybe good things will happen.  Eyes are the key, a woman's eyes will tell you everything.
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Been tru some crap myself.... people use you and just treat you like a sweet wrapper.... Dont bother going out with those girls anymore, they sound mean and sorry if its harsh but you need to get to know yourself. Know thyself and you will then know that you are better and worth more than a million of those girls..\nSpend time reading or journal writing or spirituality. Spend quality time with you, focus on a hobby... anything. By the way I am 25 and not some old granny trying to give you wholesome advice.\nI have been in this situ b4 so when I started telling my so called friends that I couldent go out or do that favor (for watever made up reason.. my dog is sick, I have an appointment, my car brokedown, ) I began to realise the reason I felt so bad about myself was because they manipulated me to feel just that in their own twisted way.\nAfter some time of spending time with you or people who only judge you by your standards you will see that you are worth so much more and have lovely qualities and attributes that are highlighted by those who love you. Thos girls bring out the worst in you. Dont give them that chance any more. It will take some time and you will get frustrated by lonliness but come on , dont suffer these fools gladly... Best of Luck xxxx
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Your time will come,I see many UGLY girls get guys and I am sure you are not that ugly after all, it's just how you see yourself at this time. Trust me, you will find the one somday,
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yes, grow up.  I would guess you are around 14-17.  This is not uncommon to get this feeling.  I've been there, you will be there again.  The girl you meet that makes you feel good to be you and doesn't give you reason to worry, is the girl you want.  Don't settle for less.  There are a lot of unstable girls out there.  But remember, your young, girls at this age are just growing up too.  Don't be too hard on them.
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If your smart, remain smart! Maybe they do look at you but are too shy to ask you out. Right now you are doubting yourself and thinking its a nationality thing. You just have to be yourself , and I'm sure you would find the right guy, whether he was english or not , that will take you in as you are :)...! Time will take care of you, just go out there and give your best, who knows your magic might work instantly, or it might work over the course of several weeks. Socialize, go out with friends and look around. Good luck :)
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where do you live and what do you look like. I have no gf right now. Maybe a beggining...
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first learn to love yourself you need to be able to feel good about you \ndress well and try tone up extra pounds look good if they are muscle but not too much muscle it looks bad \ngo to places where you will meet alot of people club , pub ect when a girl comes over to you be nice dont give tacky 1 liners and be your self good luck