If youare sexually active and your man still masterbates what does this mean? \n\nI will do anything for him ,s why the need to masterbate.\n\nTry to be honest, but not hurt my feelings!
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It a very natural thing for men and women to do so don't worry about it. It doesn't mean that you are doing anything wrong.
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Why can't you have an orgasm with him?  Is it something he is doing or not doing?  In that case tell him.  If not, maybe it is in your head.
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I would keep watching even if he knew it...depends on what he's doing...is he just changing, showering, or is he actually touching himself.  I like to watch men having sex with women, pornos are fine but I would love to watch it in person...
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i see what yu mean. but..... i  don't know if you had the same volves. as me , but mine said in  sickness and in health.. just as it says  in  sickness and in    health...  honey, i know it's hard, but   we have to  endure. my husband  has not given me sex   for 20 years because  of a medical  problem. some times i question   that medical  problem but  i   have to live with it. i masterbate to  fulfill. you may have to  too.  it get old. you can only imagine so much.  i  wish  somehow we could met and satisfy each   other. good luck  humming.....you   want   to get in  touch  with me, my email :tootalljones@yahoo.com we can have im sex want to. im is the   same .yahoo IM down load it.
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I would imagine (because that's all a guy can do) that we feel the same way about satisfying our partner as a woman does; self-satisfaction that we could make her feel VERY good.  \n\nAs to being told what to do, that really depends on the mood of the moment.  Am I in a kinda selfish mood where I want the satisfaction? Or is it her turn?  In the case of the former, mo directions needed!  In the latter, guidance--explicit guidance would be quite helpful (for both of us) and a refreshing change.  Being able to 'read' your partner is one thing, but actually being able to know what exactly they want?  Come on, nobody's a mindreader!
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Maybe he should try an energy enhancement, like Red Bull. It'll help him get thru the evening without falling asleep on you. You don't believe in masturbating?? I think he's not the one with issues here. I'm sorry, if my hubby couldn't perform for me, after a few days, I have to do something. I have toys, plus do the other stuff. Women have needs, and there's nothing wrong with masturbation, unless you have no idea how to do it....Its perfectly normal and healthy to masturbate!....GL;)
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sometimes they can be, it depends on what they were doing before. i am not so necessarily sure that they want to masterbate just because they been around guys all day...it is for for a personal pleasure. im around guys all day...i dont go home and masterbate...it depends what i did that day.
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we jsut pretend to hide it so when you find we can be all " omg what are you doing looking through that stuff! my friend sent it to me" in reality we just dont care. want your man to stop looking at porn? then supply him with enough pics and videos of you wearing, doing, saying all kinds of kinky stuff. chances are we will still look at porn though.
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Dirty Brother, how can anyone respond to this statement/question when the reward that is to be received is impossible to attain, so what is the use of even responding?\n\nIf you had another reward i.e., masturbating left handed or using a vacuum (this is something I am sure you can do) then maybe I will answer your statement.
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What's big to you? Im only 8inches long with about 7inches girth....is that big? Anyways, the reason for telling is because  i do not THINK or KNOW i have a big cock, but i do get told i do. Now in bed i've heard girls say what u have said, but they say im different cause i use my hips and im alot more active. I just feel u cant just stick it in and move lil bit, u gotta go to work! lol So, not all guys with big cocks are lazy!
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I don't know that I quite understand all of your question.  What are you saying about your boyfriend masturbating?  Are you worried that because he masturbates, he's not horny enough to have more sex with you?  Believe me, masturbation doesn't change your sex drive; it merely takes care of it.  If he has enough desire to masturbate, he's got enough to have sex with you.\n\nAs for oral . . . no, not all men like to do it.  Some dislike the smell/taste, some find it difficult to do (I've heard things like complaints of tongue cramping, believe it or not), some feel it's beneath them (that a 'real man' can satisfy his woman through penetration alone), some merely don't care about her orgasm and won't do the work for it, some are nervous or feel inexperienced and don't want to do it because they're scared of failing (they don't know how to locate the clitoris; and some women are slightly hard to get off).  Or it's just not really their thing.  A lot of guys love to do it, but a lot don't, too.\n\nI can't say if your boyfriend's gay; you'll have to decide that.  But, if it's worth anything, there are straight males out there who masturbate often, don't like to perform oral sex on women, and don't have sex as often enough as their wives/girlfriends would like.\n\nHope that helps.
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Ok - I hate to play it off as a "guy" thing but it seems to be as such. We just don't realize when we're doing it. It's not a sexual thing - we just tend to have a hold of "ping and pong" without realizing it.My wife points out all the time that I am doing it - she says I hold them more than she does. I hereby apologize for the entire male population for our actions - ( but actually we'll still do it unknowingly ) - - - just from an honest guy standpoint
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I don't know about anyone else... and this was new to me... but when I got with my BF that I am with now, he told me he does it a LOT, like 8 times a day a lot! LOL.... I think it's hott, as long as I'm not around to give him any... hehe! He slowed down now cuz he has me around all the time! Maybe you just need to find a grilfriend to take out all that frustration on LOL! If your 'thangs' no raw... than wack on! LOL
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tia: There are lots of guys out here that would "do you" at a "drop of a hat".  But why would you want to be used just for sex?  After you do the act ... then, what?  You have to be with the guy who had you.  How do you know he will then, stay with you ?  Chances are, he will tell all his friends about what you did with him, ( he will add more to the story than actually went on), and the guys he told will all start coming around to use you.  Sex toys will prove to work against you because later on, you will find that no guy can perform like a sex toy with batteries.  This will leave you feeling down and unfulfilled.  Focus on the quality of the guy you want ... ask yourself, " do I want just sex or a guy who really loves me?"
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I have the same problem...my bf is like that...he thinks it's a serious thing, I think it's because he feels like if I do that then he isn't satisfying me himself, so it's kind of letting himself down. That's all that I can come up with.
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What the heck is this premature idea anyway.  Whenever a guy cums, he does, period.  Instead of fighting what is natural and normal, think of some little variations in how you handle it and it will work just fine.  It is not all or nothing.  Some times, we have quick good feelings and other times it lasts much longer.  All kinds of factors influence us guys.  Our thoughts are likely the most important.\n\nWe usually get what we expect.  If you expect a fast experience, that is what you will get.  If you expect more, that is what you will get.
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I enjoy it.  But I use to be like you, I thought it was the most disgusting thing ever.  Until I found someone I really loved.  Then it became such a turn on to me.  Because I know I'm pleasing my man.  But he have to satisfy me also.  Make sure you make that a point if you ever do it.