I CONSIDER myself alittle odd stuck in the middle between hot-jok and geeks I am neither,Is this why women act wierd around  me.
215866
many women are simply not used to being around guys that are nice and, therefore, aren't sure how to act. It does not mean that they don't find this a turn on, you simply might have made them feel flustered, which is usually a very good thing. Take a risk and ask a girl out that has caught your eye. You may be pleasantly surprised at the answer you receive. Good Luck.
427797
You are in the vast majority of women, dear, and there's nothing strange about you.  It's not a "problem".  Also, it's not even a problem if you don't have an orgasm with each sexual encounter.  Women are different from men!
606572
others would say that i am crazy because i am turned on by non-traditional things.  i think that i am mild because i have not yet fulfilled everything that i want to (maybe at that time i'll say that i'm wild, i just can't make that claim yet).  i don't think anyone would say that  i'm boring though, i am very much a pleaser.  and i am very vocal and love to hear other's fantasies, so i'll make you comfortable enough to tell me, get off hearing it, and then make it come true.\n\ni think i was born this way.  i can remember getting busted touching myself when i was 3... nothing's changed!
399551
Well, I think you are wrong.  I tend to have the same problems.  You are too serious even in your approach.  Girls just wanta have fun.  If you approach a girl with such a straight forward attitude you'll scare her off.  Big Yes on the self-confidence though.  You need to come across like you're fun to hang out with and you're looking for others that are fun to hang out with.  Friendship first buddy.  Ask general open-ended questions then listen.  School, work, hobbies, pets, etc  LISTEN to what she is saying and don't let your mind wander.  I know what happens.  She's talking and your thinking, oh crap what do I say, she's pretty, does she like me, how do I look, how can I be funny, what do I say, oh crap... If you're not listening then you can not 'join' the conversation.  The more you talk the more you both will loosen up.
336826
hi dear, i like being cute n cuddly n that is what I'm :-). guess being sexy n hot is too common. tk cr.
361738
OMG me too!  I think I'm nuts at times.  Like "what the hell is wrong with me, it's a damn cartoon thingy" is what I think.  But hey it's fun, I have enough trouble trying to figure out what heck i want to wear at home, so maybe that's why.  I guess you could say this my quick fix from hell in my closet lol!!!
622543
Who cares if they think you are a nerd?? You know what you are and what you aren't so what does it matter.  If people cant accept you for who you are then don't care! Those are the people you should stay away from because they are two faced.  How do you even know guys think that about you? Maybe they look at you and think you're so gorgeous and would love to date you but they don't want to because they are shy or scared of you or something.  Stop caring about what people think of you and live your life the way you are and how you want to!
314178
Whoa! I have to admit, I'd be a little freaked out. You should definitely sit down and talk to her about it. She might like you, she might have some kind of a fetish, but it will help to get things out in the open.
303461
I would be, I'm open minded, caring and generous.  Not trying to be a creep though.  Maybe what they are saying is that you need to meet someone genuine, not the "typical" guy who thinks of himself superior to women, and that a women's place is in the kitchen, stuff like that.  But rather a man that would treat you with the respect and understanding that your friends think you desrve.  Good luck on finding that special someone.
651055
You sound fine. It is normal to adapt your behaviour slightly depending on the situation you are in. For example, would you act the same way in a job interview as you would chilling with friends? \n\nEverybody can change when they're with different people, it's only a bad thing if you're constantly lying to people or really actively pretending to be something you're not... \n\nYou shouldn't feel like you're putting on an act.
511850
Sounds like you're hanging with people you're not happy with.  Why not explore different venues.  Different places, different people.\n\nExplore other things of interest to you.  What do you enjoy doing?  Gym? Skiing?  Blading? Cycling? Dirt biking? Computers? Reading?  What do you like to do?  When you make a list of things that interest you, check out community centres, clubs, etc., and join up.  There are more people out there who are more like yourself. :-)\n\nSurely, there are more types of people than those who just want your body. :p  Good luck on that!
574644
I have with several different girls. Sometimes I asked, sometimes I didnt. No, none of them thought I was weird.
390532
it depends. i think i wud be somewhere in between. at times u need to be vague, atleast i have been in situations like that.
212690
it's hard to give advice on that subject, really.  i mean, i guess i could just say that you just have to keep trying.  every guy i've ever met has turned out to be obsessive.  but that won't stop me from going out with others.  i think you need to look at the type of girls you're attracted to.  there could be a pattern there and that's the reason you find they are all fake.  maybe you should try going out with someone you wouldn't normally. you may be pleasantly surprised.  other than that, i'm sorry i can't be of any more help.
649399
yeh be yrself. nothing wrong with that. personality of a person counts for half of who you are. anyway if there are other girls yr meeting im sure they will make you welcome
202619
she's either thinking you were nervous or you are a dork.  Only way to find out is to open your mouth and talk to her.
517104
Perhaps the fact that you are lonely and the fact that it is more-so the physcological traits that attract you to women, are related in some way?\nMaybe it's not that you aren't normal, it's just that you are looking to be appreciated or loved, and perhaps want more solid, sound advice and love than crazy teenage junk. \nPersonally, if that's the case, i think that's sort of admirable.