My bf and I broke up bcuz he HEARD I was cheatin but I really wasn't I wouldn't even do dat 2 him. So his friend and him made a bet about who could get dis gurl 1st and he got her. So I walked in my class room and saw him and da gurl name written BIG on the white board so dat nite when he called me he told me dat he only wrote his name sumbody else wrote da gurl name but now he's still talkin 2 da gurl but he told me its just da BET I don't kno wat 2 do bcuz I luv him so much
199120
Why do you care . . . you already broken up . . . and he is looking for someone new.\n\nIf the guys made a wager on who can date this one girl . . . then this is a gag date . . . nothing serious.  Odds are they don't give a damn about her . . . so blow it off . . . and who cares.  It is not like you are dating him still.
110910
just play along with his little bi(t)chmade games...you're probably cute to him when you get jealous...that must get his rocks off.If he's not cheating then so what...take the other peeps advice,see what happens.Play a game similar to his,see how he likes it.Or pretend that you don't care,he'll probably try something else to annoy you...if that's the case then confront him and/or find a real "G" who doesn't play games....................
189726
It seems to me that ur BF is trying to make u jealous.  I dont think that u should have to try to get him back.  I think u should get with someone else and see how it goes.  Who knows- maybe u can love someone else.
121603
ok\nif you are his original GF\nthen you shoulnt freak\nPRETEND you are about to break up and then your BF will come comfort you \nand not that other girl
277592
Forget him and just move on to someone else. You shouldn't be with someone like that anyway. And your friend is also immature what doing what she did, are you sure she was telling the truth. I wouldn't trust her again.
550638
Do you still love him?  If you do then I would say try again.  BUT, you need to have a serious conversation with him before you put yourself out there again.  Explain to him that you never cheated and you were offended when he just blindly believed a rumor instead of even asking your side.  This is your life and your decision, do you think he is worth your time?  Is he going to just believe anything anyone says about you?  He needs to realize that the 2 of you are the only ones in your relationship...  Hope everything works out good for you.
274628
If he is telling other women that your two are broke up, then he is trying to do something with them.  You have your own answer right there.  He is a cheater and he is willing to cheat with one of your friends.  Get someone who respects you and your feelings and leave the trash to the bitchesss.  good luck, you deserve better than that!!!
111240
It sounds like he still likes you.  If you guiys are still on speaking terms I think you should talk to him and ask him about all the shit hes been spreading.  If he's just mean, you might have to get your bf to avoid him and his friends or if the situation gets really desperate tell someone who has more control over him(your ex)
121452
I think what you did was within your right.  You talked to your bf and he said that he talked to her about it and it didn't stop.  I don't want you to not trust your bf but there is a chance that he never said anything to her.  I had a similar situation where my ex-bf's ex-gf kept calling all the time for advice.  I realize they were just friends but she would call at all hours of the night becuase she had a fight with her current bf.  I talked to my ex about this and he said he would talk to her.  One night she called around 3:30 and I picked up the phone.  I told her that I wasn't happy about her calling this late and my bf had already talked to her about this.  She told me that he hadn't said anything to her at all.  So with that long story ;) that was my point there is a chance he didn't tell her that you had a problem with it all.
176292
It seems like you dont really trust him in my opinion. You say he goes on myspace and talks to girls 24/7, they could just be friends. Another reason he could be going on is to meet a new girl. Sorry to tell you this. You should just ask him why he goes on myspace on the time, he could say just to meet new people. But all girls, cooooome oooon lol. No boy who has a girlfriend would go on myspace just to talk to girls. It really seems like this guy is playing you girl, and you do not need that in your life. You should go talk to him and see what he has to say. When you do note how he reacts. If he reacts all calm hes probably just trying to make some friends. If he reacts all negative like 'why are you accusing me of cheatin, yea theyre girls, but theyre friends' ya boy is most likely two playing you. If you stil dont know what to do you should get a myspace account and talk to some guys 'just for fun and friends' the same time amount that he does, mabey that will fix him.
567297
Sounds like your bf is looking for a girl do do all of his work. Girl, I am inspired by your dream to become a NFL coach! If your ex-bf gets mad at you for being aggressive, who gives? I am glad that you dumped him, cause if you are living your dream, live it up!
91193
girl let me tell you a lil suttin suttin, n diz iz from xperience, juss bkuz a guy callz u everyday dont mean he care, juss cuz he tellz u he luvz u, dont mean he really luvz u it can b bkuz deii trinna get btween ya legz u feel me??  but u nva kno, i mean y did u break up with ur boyfriend in da 1st place??  dats wat u gotta think bout bkuz uve known ur boyfriend well now x for six months and uve only been talkin to diz new kat for 3 months..think it ova n really pay attn to their actions there4 u kno wat their intentions are...
472020
I don't think he knew. He sounds like a real jerk. I know it is MUCH easier said than done, but you need to just let that boy go. If you have been with someone that long whether they are a jerk or not it's going to be tough to let them go. Cry about it, but don't beg him to come back. As long as you are with him he will continue to treat you like dirt and you can continue to be un happy. If you let him go you may be un happy for a while, but imagine if you were with him forever you'd be unhappy for that long. No girl deserves to be lied to and cheated on\n\nYeah, some guys may have played with you like that wit ht the text message if they knew it was you, but breaking up with you after sounds a little fishy to me. Plus, he's cheated on you and treated you like sh*t before.  What makes you thin he isn't like that now. Good Luck!
196531
OKAY WELL WHO CAME FIRST YOU OR THE GIRLFRIEND? IF SHE CAME FIRST THEN YOU SHOULD JUST BACK OFF. HE ISNT WORTH YOUR TIME. IF HE CHEATED ON HIS CURRENT GIRLFRIEND WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT HE WILL HONESTLY NOT DO THE SAME THING TO YOU. I KNOW ITS HARD BUT THERE ARE OTHER GUYS OUT THERE THAT YOU DESERVE AND THEY ARE SO MUCH BETTER THAN THE GUY YOU ARE SEEING RIGHT NOW. IT WILL BE HARD TO GET OVER HIM BUT WITH FRIENDS AROUND TO HELP YOU THINGS MIGHT GO FASTER THAN YOU THINK. GOOD LUCK AND JUST FORGET ABOUT HIM
462056
if this girl is his first LOVE it is VERY HARD to let go, trust me!  You have trust him and put your faith in his words that he loves you for real. They shared many deep thoughts together and its like trying to break your first piggy bank, very hard to do bhut eventually you break it cause of what u need out of it.\n\nlet him work it out on his own however 1 red flag is that if she looks a lot like you, then it means he was trying to replace her with a copy cat. If this is true leave him because its not over with his ex!!\n\ngood luck
184623
Just because things went wrong with his relationship with your friend doesnt mean it wont work out for you and him.  SHE could just be telling u things to make u not trust him so you dont go out with him.  NEVER EVER listen to other people!  always go on your own judgement and what he tells u himself!  She was all moddy because she is still hurting  from the break up.  So of course she will be moody and a little upset for awhile.  I say things could work for u and him as long as u stop listening to other people and judge him for himself!  Good luck to u
468262
it is difficult because you are making it difficult. you are still obsessing over the idea if you should trust him or not and you should not! he can do the talk but can he walk the walk? i dont think so from what it seems! he seems as though he is playing both you and his ex and he is telling you that he wants to be with you just because that is what you want to hear! if he actually would love you he would act on other better terms and not like a jerk who wants his cake and to eat it too! i have broken up with my bf and so has he with me but none of us have talked with our ex's or tried to play the other person since we are both with our ex's-we are 22 and almost 24! i would not accept this guy's behavior no matter how much you love him since he obviously is not mature enough for you, your needs, his actions or his behavior! he thinks that playing with people's minds is fun, therefore he does not know and i think that this guy at some point will surprise you by cheating on you! do not accept him and all his drama into your life but rather focus on what you have and how young you are as well as that time will not  not come a second time around as well as how you should take care of yourself first and be in a healthy relationship! this relationship from what i can make out of it is not the best relationship so you might want to rethink it and make yourself happy with someone who can take care of you and knows what he wants out of life as well as treating you better than this! if you go back with this guy you are headed for splitsville another couple of times as well as more tension, lack of trust and frustration building! i have given you the info from personal experiences and i hope that at least you consider some of them!