what is a good conversation for first date?\ni don't want to hear crickets..\nwhat should i talk about that will draw-in my date??\n\nWHAT DO YOU TALK ABOUT?
200625
theres nothing specific, but u have to be aware of various topics that may be of interest to her; music, singers, fashion, shopping, hobbies ...etc.\n\nkeep calm and be confident....just start the conv and let her guide the speech flow ;) good luck!
571848
go someplace you feel comfortable and can talk & get to know each other.  A nice park can be romantic.  I would suggest you go someplace public for a 1st date.  Remember how important first impressions are.   If your hoping to score a kiss ~ some place where there is water, like a nearby lake, river, pool or fountain can be romantic.  Guys love good food, so try and grab a bite to eat somewhere fun during the date (& dont pick at your food, that is a turn off to most guys).  Best Wishes to You!  I miss those days of 'butterflies' in my tummy!!!
5111
Easy: Ask her about herself, her friends, her interests, her family, etc. Nothing too personal (that might seem scary), just enough to let her know you care. Plus it takes pressure off you, since you don't have to do all the talking, and women love a good listener.
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Talk about her. Ask her questions about her.\n\nWhat do you do?\nWhere do you go to school?\nHave you ever been to a rock concert?\nWhat are your favorite subjects in school? Least?\nHave you seen any new movies?\nWould you rather go shopping or get a manicure?\nWhat's your favorite car and why?\nWhat's your favorite food?\n\nMost people are not willing to admit that they like talking about themselves. :-D\n\nDon't ask about past relationships and ex-boyfriends. She might go on a rant or rave about them. Relationship topics is a BIG no-no when it comes to first conversations.
347413
Don't try to plan conversation......just go with it.\n\nMy one suggestion......pay for the date!
90900
Bait: Find a girl that aint a sh*t talker. Be yourself, but not a dork. Pick girls that have numbers close to yours(1-10). \n\nreel & catch: Talk about stuff that she could give relative input on. Asking what her favorite fish is is better then talking about something she can't relate to. Have a decent attitude. Don't make out more often then on a couple of the first dates. Try to score BEFORE the fifth date.
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Picnics, horse riding, balloon rides, visit a vineyard, walk on the beach, dinner at home, go to the zoo, the circus, drive in the country, visit the museum, fishing, dinner at a restaurant, golf, bushwalking, etc, etc, etc\n\nDON"T go the the movies on a date - this sux as you don't talk at all, just sit there watching a screen wishing you were getting to know your date better with conversation
13457
If this is a first date, what mood is desired if not sexual? Sensuality is just as important as sexuality.\nAsking general not personal questions of her on a first date is ok. Be a good listener and flirt. Watch your language as some women are offended by blunt none of your business questions on a first date\nNever talk about your ex's and braggarts are boring.\nHold hands, be a gentleman,compliment her sincerely and above all, pay attention to subtle little gestures she may make to show she's interested in more than just holding hands, but don't be pushy. Honesty is always the best policy, but you don't have to feel obligated to tell her your whole life story. Be a little mysterious. Women are attracted to men who have good manners too, so don't pick your nose when you think she's not looking (only kidding)
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1.) Wasn't school the only thing that could make it start?  2.)Unfortunately, we all think we look fat from time to time. I don't pay attn anymore.  3.) I refuse to share a guy!  4.) My first date was to the beach at night...beauuutiful!  5.) From Virginia  6.) Old enough  7.) California is very laidback compared to the east coast and lovely  8.) No children yet and no brothers  9.) Will be married this year, but still not telling my age  10.) hey...what's up w/ these ages?  11.) Ehhhh...don't wanna say my name here. Pretend I'm one of those grey smiling boxes  12.) Red  13.) Fish? Too allergic to ones that run freely.  Great questions! (well, except for the age ones, LOL)
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I just helped a friend with this actually. Two simple pointers:\n\nBe mysterious: This doesn't mean be so vague it's annoying, it just means don't leave yourself completely open to everyone. Be outgoing, but don't give away your life story. If you pull it off correctly, it makes it look like there's a lot more to you than there really is.\n\nListen: Become their friend, ask them how there day was, and pay attention. Don't interject with your own stories too often. (If you do, make it brief to show you empathise, but don't try to out-do them.)\n\nAnd for anything else, I would recommend the dating game articles on outpostnine.
540217
Good to cut it short --- but poor form on announcing to her friend that you liked her instead\n\nChances are the girl you were supposed to be on the date with found you pretty boring too!!
468268
Nothing wrong with talking .... just don't be too quick to rush into something a little more serious till you're sure of the facts \nGood Luck :)
533033
how about saying....  i am sorry if i embarressed you friday...  i normally do not get that drunk and behave that way..  Hope we are still ok????   or\n\nsend him a questionaire (this worked for me once after a date which i didnt hear from him in about 4 days)  \n\nDear_______\nplease respond to the following survey ASAP\n\n1...  Had a wonderful time, not casey behaved like a true lady\n\n2...  Had a horrible time never want to see not casey again\n\n3...  Had a date Friday???\n\n4... Not casey appeared to have gotten a little drunk, would like to see her again though if she promises to behave\n\n5....  Friday was_(please fill in the blank)_____________________________________
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Ask about common movies you may have seen... if you find there is not one you've both seen, ask if he would like to go to one you both might like. The best way to connect with someone is to share a common experience, so try something like a picnic, or go to a museum, or try the Zoo. This way you'll have something common to talk about not only during the "date" but also afterwards... and it gives you a venue to learn more about each other. This is why I think movies are fine for some dates, but you want a place to go where you can talk and get to know each other (can't during a movie), and learn each other's likes and dislikes. Good luck!
30505
don't go in with any preset questions, then it WILL feel like an interview.  if you want good questions - ask her something that she needs an opinon for.  most people love giving their opinons, and they love when prople really listen and give them feedback.  that kind of conversation always brings up relatable funny/interesting stories.  \n\nonce the ball is rolling, you can talk to someone you don't know for hours because....you don't know each other.  anything you say is something she doesn't know about you, and vice versa.  just relax and let it flow.  you won't have any problems.  if by some chance she doesn't respond to your conversation, it's not your fault....you tried.
52500
On the last date I went on, we were eating at a restaurant and when we got up to leave, my date helped me put my coat on.  He was really good at it!  I made a comment about it and he said that his grandfather had taught him how.  It was a smooth little detail but it was very impressive.\n\nBy the way, in case you're wondering about the trick, he said it's to hold the coat lower than you would think.  This makes sense because it's hard to put your arm up when it's behind you.\n\nThat was a little thing, of course.  What really attracts me to a guy is a positive attitude and if he's willing to just have an open conversation with me.  If I feel like I'm doing all the work to keep the conversation going and on a positive note, that's a turn-off.
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Hi, here to help. First of all, I believe you are encouraging the behaviour a little. You are not completely to blame, but you are encouraging it. This is gonna sound old school, but really you should think about the old saying telling people that they should not kiss on the first date. And this is true.\n  When you kiss on the first date, or even have sex, etc. it makes you appear a little bit easy. Although guys will definitely not argue with the kiss or the sex, they still like to see a girl give them a little bit of a challenge. When you do these things on a first date, you are leaving little to the imagination. Waiting makes the heart grow fonder or something like that, is a very true statement. It is the excitement of the anticipation of waiting.\n  Personally, the first date is very awkward. It is meant for getting to know the person, and seeing if you would like to date this person for a second time. When you kiss, it leads to other things...You sound young, and if I am right, the guys that you are dating are young as well. Believe me, all guys of any age will try things when they kiss you. However, you are in control. You do not have to let the guy feel you up. You can gently place their hands back down on their sides. And if they ask why, you have the right to say you are not ready for that....And you can say this at any age too! I have done that.\n But really, I think you should not be kissing on the first date. Just try and wait, and when you have that first kiss with that special someone it will be more than worth the wait. I am sure a lot of people will not agree with me on kissing on the first date. But it does make you appear more of a lady to the man. I have gotten much more respect when I did not kiss someone on the first date. Usually after the kissing comes other things so in my mind you might as well just wait and enjoy the part of getting to know one another.\n  Love comes with getting to know someone. Unfortunately guys are not like women and are not overly emotional right away. It takes time for a guy to love. They do like the physical aspect first. Take your time girl because you have plenty of it.\n  I have kissed on the first date, and honestly, those are the guys that have not worked out...I don't know and I can't speak for everyone. But I also know that I have enjoyed the anticipation of waiting for the first kiss...\n Good luck!