and i have a  view more thing to say why do mens think they can rule somebody and tell womens what to do and how how to do it. and tell me another thing y do men r so lazy? like they the king and this household
201862
I would say we did not exist before God. We only existed in his mind as he was planning to create us.\nMen probably think they can rule somebody because they are strong enough to do it but not smart enough to understand they don't have to do it.\nI would say the contrary concerning about men avoiding household.
193519
the average man is controlled by pride and ego and by being a chauvinist it boosts their self esteem. they want to be in controll of their affairs and want to be in command therefore they prefer women to either be or pretend to be less important, intelligent or able than they are.
426042
Goodness no.  I think that sometimes men DON'T WANT women to be as smart as they are - but I'm not going to act stupid for anybody.  I WILL acknowledge when my man does or says something smart - but I won't pretend to be less intelligent than I am.  That would be too hard.
306191
its the macho stuff.  they want to show how independent they are and how they can work on you. Guys never learn smart people have more respect for those that show respect than smart a--es.
333849
Because men get tired of what they know they "have".  A wife is like an insurance policy that is always there when he cant get any play somewhere else.  As`sad as it is, its the truth.
368175
I have a hard time understanding this kind of thing...men not helping around the house. BEFORE my husband and I were married, I told him I wanted us to be EQUAL partners. That meant, we'd both work, we'd both do housework, and we'd both pay the bills and raise the kids TOGETHER. I didn't want him to HELP. I wanted him to SHARE the responsibilities. He agreed, so I married him. Yes, I do a bit more housework, but he does a bit more working outside the house, and we do share the childcare. You need to sit down and TALK to him.  It goes like this: "I want us to start sharing more of the work. I am getting exhausted doing all the housework myself. If you don't want to do your 50%, then YOU need to hire me a cleaning service. It's your choice."
88132
Problem is your making it a problem. Let it go try not to stress about it. Everybody get's tired sometimes, tell your significant other to step it up and take the lead for a while. Try not to worry about it. Forget the male stereotype that men "have" to dominate. Sit back, relax, concentrate on letting him/her get it up for you!
225936
Not all men feel as though they can control everybody.  Why do you feel this way and why do you attract men like that is the more important question.
344649
I agree, I always wondered that myself. I work with a lot of women who talk about women can do everything a man can do, but let a heavy box land in front of them and it's like they forgot everything they said about their abilities.
140725
beacuse men flat out dnt give a damn boo. I honestly think that there thought process is slower than women by the time they stop and think about there actions if they think at all it's 2 late. Not that women are any better but that's part of tha reason i had to leave men alone. There 2 damn dumb for there own good. and the better the looks the worse they are LOL
123575
Men need a looooooottttttt of attention. Practically everything they do most of them want you to say, "OMG, I HAVE NEVER SEEN SOMEONE EMPTY THE DISHWASHER WITH QUITE THE STYLE, FINESSE AND ACUMEN AS YOU JUST DID!!!!!  PLEASE PLEASE THROW ME DOWN RIGHT NOW ON THIS TABLE HERE YOU MANLY CREATURE!!!!!!!"\n\nPerhaps this isn't your guy, but give this a try and see if his complaints lessen any.
132838
This is natural human mind, according to a survey mens are 9 times sexually excited as compare to woman so that is the reason guys can't control them selves. I can't provide you with the information of that survey.
534214
Unfortunately these men are chauvinists. Chauvinists in general tend to be somewhat jealous of women.
306697
That's men for you. They don't have a clue as to how a woman think. Guess you just have to spell it out for him. It'd be easier to join a group of like- minded people or you could get one together. Good Luck!
351286
It's just popular society belief that men are the brave and noble ones who must fight to protect the women and children. Ya know, one of those old fashioned sayings that developed back before women's rights and all that jazz.
186981
Despite the so-called "modern" mind-set of women in today's society, many still believe in what is often referred to as the ancient ways of relationships. This is the basic idea that the male is the dominate one and should therefore be the one to initiate all aspects of the relationship. This is, of course, complete crap! Women are just as afraid of rejection as men are. Good Luck!!
337149
Yes, and maybe women should dominate the relationships, and go off to work leaving five men at home all day.  Somehow I don't think you would like that idea nearly so much.\n\nAny culture or religion that allows men to be in charge of women, especially in numbers, wants to keep women subservient to men and to keep them shut out of anything they could have any influence on.  They also tend to be much more tolerant of men physically and verbally abusing women.\n\nThe men in these relationships are happy because they are in total control and can have sex whenever they want to because if one woman isn't in the mood, another is bound to be.  The women are only contented because it is the only life they have ever known; it is how they are taught they are supposed to live, and they are never allowed to develop their intellects enough to consider that there might be other options.