it made me look really stupid because i sad i had to have my break at 3 and we were really busy.  We have been dating for almost 2 yrs.
204983
your boyfriend sucks...you are never supposed to stand a beautiful woman like yourself up to go hang out with your "boys"...you tell him for me that there are a lot of men out here that would love to be with you , and we wouldn't stand you up...
479826
well, i honestly am going through the same sitch right now..i think it more of being jealous that your friend doesn't have time for you anymore & is more likely to be with the guy she is dating..
379317
I think that your unexplained absence at the event likely made her very upset and angry and turned her off for good.  You made her wait, you made her very anxious, and you made her lose face--essentially, you ruined the entire event for her.  That kind of behavior reflects very poorly upon you and is a good indicator of the type of man you are.  You have a right to change your mind, but out of respect for her, you should have called her beforehand to let her know.  Sorry, but I think you lost her for good.
643195
I'm sorry for your heart break. I became disabled a year ago. I walk funny but I still get dates.
276764
that is very sad... I have a rule of thumb when it comes to dating... IF at any point you evaluate your relationship and you know it's never going to work THEN don't waste anymore of your time or hers.
50356
Girl, I know how you feel. If this is occuring on more than one occassion then slack off. Don't hound about it. And first and far most PLEASE YOURSELF. You deserve that first of all. Take the time off to PAMPER yourself and then he/she might take notice. If that doesn't work then it is some questions you need to ask about your relationship and where it is going.  I feel you should at least have or get an answer so you can better understand and deal with this issue.  Peace
626827
Girls tend to be more emotional, and tend to do this more then guys. Why did u date her then?! I don't get it. I agree, but I am somewhat more mature then most of them, and older. I'm not a teen. It's a teen thing. How is it hs bs? It's not bs, nor is it hs! He's 19 duh. Stop being so old! But it is kinda young, and I agree it's over. But some need closure. Aint no harm in calling at least prank calling and reading the blog. I do it. I don't comment on it, but I read it. We never dated, he's just a jackass. I don't agree w a break though, nope, u either stay or break-up. A break is a break-up. Seee, ur a real asshole!!!!!!! It's ur s/n! Moron. I don't agree w it's a game, could be tho. But it is what the other person said. Death blow makes NO sense.
159607
Whew! I pity your boyfriend if you are so needy and clingy that you can't deal with a single long weekend. You sound very high maintenance.
442639
well y did u brake up...if it is over u both now then talk to him about how u feel and try to be nice about it to \ngood luck
560918
The reason I broke up with you is because I DON'T like what you do.  The other girls and I have been talking in the bathroom on first break and we've decided that you absolutely suck in the sack.  We all faked it to get you to go on and finish.  \n\nRent some instructional videos... that is all I can tell ya, buddy.
607528
sweetie u need some councling, sorry u had to go through something like that
297413
Once went on a date where a guy was happen to let me know just how much he was at ease with being a "flake". He used the word more than once. So I felt if he is comfort in his "flakiness" and still has a good job. I should be more relaxed about the fact that I liked being super busy as long as I scheduled my "work time" with my "fun time". I thought things we going well until I started to tell him what I liked doing. He started to go on the defensive about being a flake. It didn't seem to matter that I didn't care either way if he liked to relax a lot. He just resented the fact that I liked "keeping busy" and actually liked my job. He became sarcastic about how much I made, trying to get me to tell him. The date just got very uncomfortable and went from an easy date to just pure disaster. I refuse to think it my fault because I simply talked about myself since he talked about himself. Inferiority complex is a baaaaad thing I tell you. Very unattractive in a man.
243627
The answer to this question depends on the reason for the break-up. Your break-up sounds like it was nasty.
509010
Maybe he was trying to be committed to your relationship and didn't want to cheat on you the way you cheated on him.  Pathetic!
473760
Yes, it made me feel so bad.  But I ended up talking to him about our situation, I didn't want him to think I was a bad person.  He was mad at first then he cooled down, and he was fine with it.
427822
You might have missed an opportunity.  It sounds like you asked him on a specific date, which was bad timing for him.  You should've mentioned that you could get with him another time when he wasn't busy.  Try asking him again.
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I can understand your disappontment! You were counting on going out, so the cancellation was a rude shock.\n\nWas there anything you could have done to salvage the date? Could the two of you have possibly decided to do something spontaneously? It's a shame to let a lack of planning ruin the evening, but maybe there was more to it that you didn't put in your question.\n\nIn the future, you may want to be more assertive and make the plans yourself, especially if this is something that your boyfriend has done before. It could be that he's just not a good planner.\n\nHowever, this could be a symptom of a deeper issue, too, and if it is, you need to address that issue or there will be more disappointments ahead.\n\nDr. Barb Nefer, http://www.bnlifeskills.com