My son (age 14) is moving to his father's this summer and wants to live there permanently.  The State Atty General's office is telling me that we must wait 6 months before a custodial change can be made.  I can't locate an atty who will answer this for me for free. (jerks) SO can you tell me if this is an Atty General policy or a state law?
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Ok, I can't find a law stating that.  My inclination is that whoever told you that is wrong.  If your son is moving and wants to stay and everyone agrees, you should be able to go to court to modify whenever you want to, no waiting period.  That doesn't make any sense.\n\nGood luck.
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I am so sorry to hear. It must be very difficult for you and your family. \nI hate to say this, but if my son had this many charges against him, I would have to let him deal with the consequences. Otherwise, the only thing he would learn is that "mom and dad (or one or the other) will bail me out." I've seen this happen to someone who I am very close to and she is on the verge on losing everything, including her mind, trying to keep her son from dealing with the responsibility of his actions. What happens when mom and/or dad are no longer there to bail him out? When does he start learning responsibility for his actions? Chances are that he will outlive you and if he doesn't learn now, then what happens to him? Not to mention the people he has harmed by committing these crimes. It is harsh, I know, and I'm sorry. I know this has to be extremely painful for you. \nHaving said that, if I were determined to try to help him, what I would do is contact an attorney for a consultation. Many atty's give initial consulations for free. I would contact Legal Services which is for people who cannot afford to hire an attorney and is usually located in the blue pages in your local phone book (if your phone book doesn't have blue pages, I mean the section for government phone numbers). I know in our area they have certain times each week you can call, speak to an atty and ask for legal advice, no charge. \nThe website is for a criminal defense lawyer in Lubbock. Don't know how close you are to him but his site says initial consultation is free.
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It depends on what state you're in. Check with your state legislature.
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why did you ask if you think you know so much? IN AZ-they are seizing rental cars for 30 days and it is expensive. Why would you "keep your stuff like a lease of rental from your parents?"
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I am not sure why your daughter was sent to live with your mother, but it sounds like something similar that I went through. I had moved away from my children at one point and it was only supposed to be temporary. I had to write a letter stating specifically that my mother had temporary custody and made decisions on behalf of my children. This is what the local DSHS office wanted to get my children enrolled in medical. And as far as enrolling them in school, I had to contact the school and tell them that my mother would be acting as their guardian in my place. So, as long as this situation is only temporary, I see no reason why a written letter from you and a few phone calls from you wouldn't be sufficient.
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lol, I'm with Teri. I would say contact a tax professional in the state that he will be filing and they should have those answers, as state tax laws vary state to state. Sorry I couldn't be of more assistance. :)
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They couldn't possibly be just trying to prove a point, could they?  His parents are the ones responsible for bringing him into the world, so how can they justify making him responsible for preparing him to be self-sufficient?  There is no way they can collect on that bill; parents are legally responsible for their children's welfare until the age of 18.  They can legally kick him out of their house now that he's 18.  If I was your friend, I would move out as soon as possible, and try to make his parents understand their responsibilities.
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Hi there and welcome to texas. my mom has been an apt. manager here in Mesquite, Texas for 21 yrs. I tried to call her and she is out getting things to decorate her tree. She suggested that you call the Texas Housing Authority. Now, while this is actually an organization to help low income families obtain housing they will be very informative on the things you need to know and will be happy to answer your questions. Explain to them your situation and they will direct you and let you know what is legal. Your lease may be null and void now. I tried to find a number for you and there are many different lines for different things. Go to www.texashousingauthority.com and click the link that looks best for you. Good Luck and Happy Holidays!
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not all leases are for a year. explain the situation...maybe you can sign a month to month lease. also, because he is in the military, there are loopholes that can help you to get out of the lease. this has less to do with section 8 as it has to do with the individual place you move to. just explain your situation. look at it like this. you have waited for a long time and finally it is your turn (i was on the list for almost three years and they dropped me for a reason i'm still not sure of)and it will be nice if for nothing else, to save up some money for a few months. then if and when you move, you will be able to allow someone else to move up on the list. i am sure that most renters, if you explain what is going on with your guy, they will understand. and if you end up breaking you lease, well, as long as you pay the money that is required for breaking it, then you won't have a problem but i doubt it will even come to that...
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I am an army wife of 6 years and have moved with my husband on 2 different AIT's.  Once to Okalahoma, he deployed twice and now he re-classed to MI and we are in Arizona.  ANY AIT that is over 6 months is considered a PCS move and you and your family will be allowed to move there.  The army will move your household belongings.  You can also qualify for on-post housing.  Now if any is available is another question.  We just left Georgia after spending alomst 5 years there.  Please E-mail me and I will send you all the info you need including phone numbers and help you step-bystep.  It is a very hard confusing process, since your hubby is new to, he will not know all the in's and out's.  Hope to talk to you soon.  Barbara
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I don't know what city or state you're from...but if you live in California..we have some very tight restrictions about landlords bilking tenants...first and foremost document everything...second hire an atty...may cost you some $$$ but it sounds like you can sue for initial money back plus some...good luck
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First, I'm from Pa. S I dont know the intracacies of Cal law.  But from what I've read and know from experience, I would definitely NOT rent to them.  Let me see!  you're looking for an apt, a $1000 one at that, and you dont have the $$ for the deposit?  Believe me, they won't have the $$ for anything else either.  It seems to me they cant afford tit in the first place.  The fact that you took a partial deposit has no bearing on whether to accept them or not.  BTW, did they fill out a rental ap?  I'll bet any references they gave if any are sketchy at best.  CALL to verify employment or where ever the $$ is coming from. If they cant pass the application phase, they cant afford it.  DO NOT RENT TO THEM UNTIL YOU ARE SURE THEY CAN PAY THE RENT.Better yet, tell them that until you receive the full deposit, you HAVE to keep showing the apt.  If they dont move on that, then consider it a excellent sign that they never had the $$ to begin with.\nI just ask me cousin who lives in LA about this.  She's never heard of such a law and they have rented apts in the past.  Tell them to hit the bricks.
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That's definitely a question best handled by the professionals involved, like your realtor and your attorney. Just don't know, it'll be different from state-to-state. Plz talk to your attorney!
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Ignore those first two comments.  Those people don't know what they're talking about.  I don't know what the laws are in your state but I have a general idea.  I am a California lawyer who practices landlord/tenant law.  While the laws in your state will be somewhat different, the general thrust of the laws will more than likely be the same.\n\nFirst of all, DO NOT change the locks.  Self-help is more than likely not allowed in your state.  I can't imagine a single state that would allow that remedy.  If you go that route, you're looking at getting your butt sued.\n\nSecond, don't bother with the county prosecutor.  The prosecutor or District Attorney only cares about criminal acts.  Yours is a civil dispute.\n\nCheck out the website for your local county court.  Many counties have self-help sections for landlords.  Or, go to the county court clerk's office and see if they offer any free legal clinics or any self-help resources for landlords.  Third, go to your local bookstore.  I guarantee that they will have a number of books on how a landlord can evict people in your area.\n\nChances are that the very first thing you need to do is post a notice on your tenant's door to pay rent or quit.  In California, it is a 3 day notice.  \n\nIf you've never done this before, it may be worthwhile to talk to a laywer in your area who specializes in landlord/tenant disputes.  Go to www.martindale.com for a listing of landlord/tenant attorneys in your area.  If you move quickly, you can get your tenant evicted in 30 days or less.  \n\nGood luck.
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Oh Hun my heart goes out to you re the temp. housing...been there done that...............right as for your RIGHTS, this is gonna be bad news but you dont have any..............the thing is it is actually wrote into the local councils guidelines that NO ONE should remain in temp. housing for longer than 6 weeks.......so where did that leave me nearly two years later STILL in the same place..................my HONEST opinion is make waves but in a sensible way.....for instance what council area are you in..why are you in temp. housing etc .please please feel free to email me OFF this so I can give you specifics that I really dont think should be put on here as they are too personal OK.\n\nGood Luck
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Yeah, whoever said that once the $$ is in your bank its just considered $$ is right.  They won't take it out of your child support check, but once its in the bank its fair game.\n\nMy suggestion is not leaving any money in the bank until you can find a way to work out payments.  Just cash your check or get an account at another bank if you have to.  But I am not totally sure that the atty won't find the other bank account.  Keeping the $$ out of the bank is the best way to secure it and keep it in your posession.
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LOL... sorry but this is really bs.\n\n1. A lease is for a specific period of time, till May 1st.\n2. There are typically(or atleast I've never seen) provisions for automatic renewal(unless month to month) or, and this is laughable, rent that is due after the lease is terminated...\n\nUnless you were on a month to month lease, you would not have to give notice to quit.  There are typically notice periods only for yor wish to renew.\n\nAnother issue that I have with this situation is when did they give you notice of the rent change?  Typically, cause I don't know what state you are in, 30 day notice is required by the landlord to make changes... The door swings both ways here... They CANT raise your rent without providing sufficient notice, either!\n\nFinally, there is an unwritten rule of reason/ability which is what I've come into contact with any time I've had to go to court for a real estate deal.  No court is going to penalize you for giving 22 days notice in a month, even if you were terminating a lease for a set term.\n\nYou have to call the corporate office or talk to this managers supervisor.  Read your lease, then make a stink.