do you have ne tips on keeping it kool when asking a lady out
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by increasing your self confidence
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I think if you want to ask her out, you should first become more confident in your self. Girls can sense insecurity, and it's a total turn off. Then you need to just ask, like "I was going to go to go see... on friday, wanna come?"\nthen at least you can play it off like you just wanted to chill, but if it works in your favor GREAT!!!!
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It's not so much what you say, but how you say something. You could say any number of things to break the ice and be successful in your pursuits, but this is highly dependent on your mindset. Keep in mind that women (even the pretty ones) are not perfect or without their own insecurities. Most women are worried about the same things you are--their looks, attitude, and appearing confident to the opposite gender. Once you realize that the woman is probably as nervous as you, then it should become apparent that you both have something in common already. All that's left to do is ask how they feel, what they like, what do they think about, and so on in an attempt to learn what else you both might have in common. The object isn't to persuade this woman to be a date or something similar, rather it is your goal to see if their is enough common ground for you and her to be friends. If you cannot be friends, than she'll probably won't make for much of a date or love interest.
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You're probably just a bit nervous - that's normal.  Try getting to know her before you ask her out.  Avoid the pick up joint and go places you will meet people with common interests.
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Be honest with her.  If you think you came on too strong, take her out to a nice dinner and explain yourself.  Tell her you were so eager to get to know her better you let your heart act instead of listening to your head.  Tell her you want to be something more, but you want to take things at a pace that is comfortable for the both of you.  If its meant to be, it'll be.  Give yourself a little credit, at least you are trying to read your woman's heart.  If she's not interested, then you could do better anyway!  Lots of women out there would love to find a man like you!
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Dude ask her out you are in love and she obviously thinks your dating material. Worst she can say is no, then you know, but if you never ask you'll always wonder what if.
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Just be yourself, stay happy, and dont let it show that you are too worried, just a bit and the person that asked you out should be able to see and understand, most people have ways to make others more comforatable, so talk, be honest, and i hope it all works out for you!  :)
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Wow, I'm suprised someone other than me has this probablem! Okay well first off don't ever be nervous around her, even if she thinks it's adorable. Kind of hint it at her, like flirt with her often but not too often. If the hinting don't help gather up all your guts and ask her out, if she says yeah good for ya, if she says no, don't give up just keep it cool with her and wait for a little longer.
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you don't need pickup lines.  They are cheesy.  Just be yourself and go have a real conversation with her.  At first, say "Hi, my name is _______"  Be genuine.  It is not necessary to impress her, or seek her approval.  Turns some women off.  Be yourself.
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The only way to avoid being "scary" or giving her the creeps is to avoid pickup lines or trying to hide your agenda. If you are talking to her she going to assume it's because you are interested in her. Be confident and ask her to do something specific like having coffee at three.  Don't ask if she has a boyfriend or if you can take her out sometime because it makes you look weak and insecure.  If you can make her laugh without trying too hard you are golden.
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sure, call her, what have you got to lose, she can only say yes or no, right, but a little bit of advise, that you didn't ask for, lol, i don't recommend that you wear your heart on your sleeve as you are doing, you may get hurt, an you sound like a nice fellow, sometimes girls will take advantage of a nice guy.anyway, good luck an have fun if you two do go out!!
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Confidence! Have confidence, man!  Don't slap her on the donkey or anything, just be assertive. ASK HER OUT! If she's making eye contact, she's likin' you too.
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I don't mind if a girl asks me out. Before you ask someone out you must be aware of one thing that all men know. When you ask someone out, they might say no.
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Just be honest and ask if she would like a cup of coffee or if she would have lunch with you. Don't use a pic up line, that is the fastest way to turn us down. Just be yourself and don't stress about it, it will come naturally.
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well don't change what u are ur nice keep it that way just concentrate ur niceness to asking a girl (thats on ur level) if she sould like to go out to a movie take it easy
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Women like men who are up front and confident.  Just go up to her and ask her if you could talk privately with her. She'll most likely say Ok. Then just tell her you find her attractive or just say you like her and would she be interested in going out on a date.  She'll either say no thanks, sure I would love to, or I'll think about it. If she says no, then forget it. If she says yes, then you got it made. If she says I'll think about it, it usually means she's interested in you and will go out with you. But don't be timid, be up-front. It won't kill you if she says no. Just count it as practice, and ask another girl out.
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be yourself. say are you doing anything some night & ask her to a movie. make it about her, not you & your sure to get a second date.