i have a crush on a boy who has a girlfriend how do i let it go ?
215539
Who says you have to let it go? If you like him, you like him. I'm not saying go out and break them up so you can have him, but I do say be his friend so you can get to know him better. What do you really know about him anyway other than how he looks? be his friend and get to know the "real" him. Maybe you'll see he's not really right for you then it will be easier to let him go and you'll have all the right reasons to do so. If he's a good guy and one day he breaks up with his girlfriend on his own, guess who'll be in the prime position to be his new girlfriend....  (lucky you)
382123
both of you just need to completely forget about him. NEVER LET A GUY GET IN THE WAY OF YOU AND YOUR BEST FRIEND!!! it will/would be hard to do that, but you must. unless she is willing to just look and not touch, both of you need to forget about him. what you should do [instead of] is just go up and talk to him. if you cant have him, he might have some hot friends or brothers or something.\n\nLuv Ya,\nTAY
402935
You should not break their relationship being a friend.  Meet other boys. You will find some one of your liking.
359864
Okay, here's the thing, i may not be a professional relationship advisor or something but for you to try to stop liking someone is just inane. Feelings aren't there for you to just ignore. Admit that you still like the guy even though he has someone else already. And it's not like they are married or anything, right? Oh... please... do not mistaken my last sentence for something like trying to destroy their relationship. DON"T! All i am saying is that, it is normal for you to still like the guy. I mean, if he's really that charming or likeable like what you think, sure. However, ask yourself, do you know what kind of guy he really is? You see, people tend to like other people because they like the idea of actually having someone to adore because so far all you've seen him is be charming. You must consider other factors and possibilities. At this point, try looking for things about him (directly -since you mentioned you are coworkers [you can be a friend to him and not flirt] or indirectly - from other people who knows him well more than you do) Curiosity doesn't always kills a cat, you know. Asking is better for you to find out if he is worth your attention or not. Instead of actually falling for this guy (you did mention that it is just a crush, right?) but after a day or two, that's the only time you'd find out she has more than one current girlfriend.
26622
yes u have 2 move on i spent all of last year in that same situation and it doesnt workout,find another guy ur interested in.he probably isnt gonna leave his g/f 4 u and if he does then he would do that 2 u too.i pretty much had 2 erase him from my mind,it was hard but i did it and im fine now.(if u find a sweetie then go 4 him instead)
173187
Just try to stay busy. It normal to feel an attraction to someone but if you really dont want anythin to happen try to stay away because if your close to him youll just think about him more. And if you really want somethin ask your friend how would she feel if somebody she knew went out with her ex...right there youll see if it bugs her or not...then you can know if you should go for him or not.
202146
not much you can do about your teacher.your boy friend tell "your out of here" and the guy you like just ask him out
212369
grow up. ditch them both. enjoy your high school days...im sure any guy would want to be with you if you are freaky...lol
568828
I don't think you have a boy friend , He is your friend and likes you as s fiend but is not sexually attracted to you . You are simply not his type . There is no need to end the friendship just accept the fact that he is not in love with you and move on to find someone who finds you sexually attractive . You can't always have everything you want in life . There is no no need to get rid of a good friend . A friend who loves you will be around to support you and hang out with you when the boy friends are gone . Keep your friend and look for a boy friend .
165072
Yeah, I totally have a crush on my bestfriend's boyfriend, he's so hott!  U handle the situation by being a good friend don't do anything, not like i would ever get the chance, but friends first.
379100
You're both adults, so act accordingly! and if you do not intend to act on your "crush", then keep it to yourself!!!
168030
Take it easy.  Give it time.  Since you used the term "boy" I am assuming that you are not an adult.  Trust me, the feelings you have now will no longer exist when you become an adult.  When you get older, this boy won't matter to you at all.  Therefore, you have only two options here. Either way you have to first realize that this REALLY isn't that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. \n\nhere are your options...\n1. Realize that your situation is nonsense and forget about it altogether.\n \n2.  Realize that none of this is going to matter at all one day so you have nothing to lose.  Just tell him how you feel.  If he doesn't feel the same about you, oh well.  Doesn't matter.  Move on.  \n\nIn a few months or years you'll have a new crush and you can make this decision all over again at that point in time, with the same two options.  Also, if you go ahead and tell him how you feel, there's always the chance he feels the same and you two can do whatever it is you plan to do with each other.  (yay!)
573499
Sweetheart, that is why they call it a crush... sometimes you just have to acknowledge that the truth is out and move on... think of it this way... would you want him to get rid of her just to date you? Cuz I believe that karma comes back around and do unto others as you would have them do unto you... the best advice I can give is to just be friends with him and if she has a problem of you showing him attention then become friends with her as well... you get to spend time getting to know the real him and how he treats her and you get a new friend... if a no go on her and u hitting it off then its best to keep your distance... It will be hard, but it will be benefitial in the long run... I hope this helps...
274069
Um... I had the same problem. Don't hurt your friend. He may be cute, but there are plenty of cute boys. I know from experience that your friendship is better. If they break up wait a little while, and then hang out with him. Maybe you'll quit liking him. If not, stay away, about 50 YARDS AWAY AT ALL TIMES FROM HIM!!!! LISTEN TO MY ADVICE. I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT.
281034
You should ask him because you dont want to see another girl take the boy you like and you want to to something before its to late,everyone gets a little shy and shaky around their crush and you dont have to be loud like him ,just be you! to me thats luv!
346251
All you need to do is just do things girly. Shopping, get your nails, done, etc. You shouldn't think about him then. Or just do things to distract you from him. My friend who's a girl had this same problem, and I told her this same stuff, and so she didn't think about the guy she liked.
381431
Personally, I don't think it's right for your friend to be looking for ways to get closer to that guy when she already has a boyfriend. \n\nI think perhaps you could wait for sometime to observe if your crush likes you? You can tell him your feelings and see if he feels the same way. But I don't think it is entirely right to keep ur friend in the dark too. You should tell her how you feel about him soon. Yeap. If she is really your friend she will understand that you have a right to crush him too :)\n\ngood luck!