i'm 28 yrs old, i'm married to the one i love, i have 2 incredible girls. i really dont know what's wrong with me, am i ungrateful to what god gave me or am i just exhausted from my responsibilities? can anyone help me?
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you are happy with those around u but not with yourself. Spend some time alone getting to know the real U.
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God has been my only companion through my depression. You should never ? God, you should go to mass, pray and ask god for something that will help you renew your faith. If you need you can contact me for more help, i've got tacts (contacts)
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you are expecting too much.\n\ngod doesnt control everything in your life. \nand he also doesnt make lives perfect. \nhe simply loves, forgives, and watches over you. \n\nif you are ever with your friends and you guys are doing somethin wrong. and you get that bad feeling in your stomach. \nthats him showing you the right way. \n\nthe choice is yours to ignore his guidence or to follow.\n\nyou need to understand that god doesnt walk you step by step through your life. so anything bad that happens is not because of him.
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Well i love someone but i will get married with someone i dont love. This is a big sacrifice for me, but i dont want to make sacrifice but i ma helpless, i cant do anything.\nThis is my life.... full of sacrifices...\n\nIs this same with you... tell me something more about your life.. email me on sam_kel2004@yahoo.com
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My oppinion is that you are a few of the smart loyal and honest men out there and I applaud you for your well train of thought and consideration. I do not feel anyone should look down on you just because you have considered things that for others it doesn't even cross their mind. Continue your great way of thought simply because so many of us fall under pressure especially when being tempted with sex, and drugs. I was also a virgin when I got married and so many friends told me I'd regret it but I've been married for a year and the thought of cheating on my husband because I never had anyone before him never crosses my mind. Not to mention the great respect I got and continue to get from my husband everytime we make love!  I'm sure you will find somone someday who is going to also appriciate your well thought in life! Good luck and God bless
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I'm in the same situation you're in i cant seem to find a good man but hey I'm praying and i stepping out on faith that GOD will bring someone good in my life so my advice to you is to pray and ask GOD for guidance.
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Hi Mitch,\nI'm sorry to hear you are having these feeling at your age. I'm a clinical therapist and work children/adults with many different disorders. I can only go on what you are telling so please bear with me. \nFirst I feel you really need to sit down with your gf and tell her what is going on. If you have plans to marry this women,you can't have any secrets.If you really love this women tell her you have not passed your courses.However, you will take some night classes or finsh online. Getting your education is going to be very important. If you want to be a stay at home dad you better let your gf know,you will have to know her feelings on this matter as well,be honest,open.\n\nYour parents what whats best for you, I'm sure if you tell them you have been overwhelmed and that you feel depressed. They might understand what is going on with you,and get you the help you need.\n\nLast but not least you need to go to see a Dr. to see why you are feeling down.Could be if you get on the right meds you will start to feel better and become your old self. \n\nAlso Mitch, drinking is not going to help you forget your problems,it will only numb it for a while. But tomorrow you will be facing the same thing.\n\nLike I told you sit down maybe take her out to dinner and tell her you have not been feeling well, you not sure why,but you think you should see a Dr. to see if her can help you get yourself together.I will be glad to help you..                                              email is lessnesmonster@yahoo.com\n\nHope to hear from you and God Bless
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what do you do as a job? i found that i had to change my attitude in a lot of different areas of my life. i don't know exactly what i'd suggest for you since i'm not sure what type of work you do. are you religious at all? that is something i got away from and i found myself sinking deeper and deeper into anger and despair. have you talked to your doctor about it? i have had to stay on an antidepressant. my family has a history of depression. sometimes we just have chemicals in our brains that are out of whack. it is hard to deal with life if your brain isn't working properly. i have made myself always look on the bright side. i dont' know you, but as a starter, you can be happy that you have a roof over your head and at least some type of employment. i honestly know how you feel. please don't consider killing yourself. i don't know how many times i made passive/aggressive attempts to harm myself. i was wreckless and i did not care at all. it's an awful feeling. i really suggest you talk to a doctor. psychological sickness is the same as physical sickness. some people do not understand that. there are methods to heal yourself. please talk to someone. i'll say a prayer for you.
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I feel badly for you  but rest in this:  Most of the time when you are wronged by someone else great blessing will come to you. It might not be immediately but it will come.  Do you remember that situation where the man and woman divorced and the woman was wronged and then she won the lottery?  That's just one example.  The main thing is to not try to get back at the one who wronged you. Put it in the hands of God and He will take care of it for you.   Of course if you aren't a Christian this probably won't work.  You first must believe that Jesus Christ paid the penalty for your sins and then you will have a relationship with the Creator of the universe.  He will take good care of you in every situation in  your life. Trust me this is true.
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The only person that can help you out of this situation is you. You have a mind set that everyone is leaving you behind and is going on with there own lives getting married gettin wraped up in there jobs. You should find what makes you happy and try not concentrating on what the people around you are doing. Be your own person.. and try to find the little things that make you happy. It also sounds like you might be a litte depressed... talk to some one if you can to help you release what your feeling inside.
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It may be that his church is filled with husband/wife couples and he feels the lack. Or people have asked him where his wife is. My husband and I are in nearly the same situation. I think religion issues have done almost as much damage to marriages as having affairs. Try to discuss this when he's not angry?
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Dont you have any friends to hang out with?  What about hobbies?  What do you do on the weekends?  When you grow up, your life will be pretty much the same as it is now but with work unless you do something yourself to change it.  And since you have very philisophical questions, I recommend talking to your minister who can better answer them for you.  Your life is not pitiful.  Its what you make of it.  If you want to be happy, do something happy.  If you want to be sad, then sit there and do nothing.  Your choice.
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Never okay about suicide.  The fact that my heart went out to you despite not even knowing who you are I hope in some way will show you that your presence here on earth is valuable.  Life is hard.  Everyone has problems, you are not alone in that. Sometimes you can't help but thinking that you want to just throw in the towel and say the hell with everything but that is the easy way out.  Life is precious.  Millions of people everywhere in hospital beds, on battle fields, you name it, are fighting to preserve their lives right now.  You must find a reason to carry on.  Lonliness is easily cured.  Meet people, get out there. Happiness is never constant but we can't be ready to end it all when our lives aren't going as we'd like.  I am sorry that you have no wife and family and your parents are dead and that you and your siblings are not speaking and your finances aren't so good right now. But God still has a purpose for you.  You may be just what someone else needs in the form of a friend or companion.  I hope I have helped you in some way. It breaks my heart when I hear that someone has taken their own life. May God bless you and help you see the gift that you are regardless of your current circumstances. You are in my prayers.
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I feel your pain I have gone thru alot of crap in my life that others my age hve never gone thru I wonder the same thing why does god do this? I even get mad at god for making me go thru so much. But in the end you have to be positive and think that there is a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Just think you are going thru this right now but later is going to make up for it there is always light and darkness. It is time for our light!
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For a lot of reasons, you can just feel unsatisfied with where you are in life.  That's not only restricted to middle age.  If it's been going on for 6 months, you should try and do something about it.  You don't want to be unhappy and you don't want your unhappiness to affect your family life.  Take a good look at things: do you feel like there's something in particular that's missing?  Would you feel more fulfilled if you tried something new and exciting?  I wish you the best of luck.
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Everyone feels lost at some point.  You -could pray-.  Of course, you're asking for something concrete here.\n\nI was...19 before I met the woman who was to be my wife.  Of course, you will eventually have to accept that a marital relationship, though it makes your life full of love and life, will not fill you inside the way you think it will.  You can only be filled by the truth combined with spirituality, in search of God.  I am Catholic.
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u r sick maybe bcs god punishes u 4 sex b4 marriage.i suggest u to pray to God wishing that u will b forgiven.