do you love for your guy to be control of you and tell you what to do and spank you in bed.and do you like it when he gets does it rough.please answer i just want to make my girl happy im not a perv
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Why don't you ask her?  \n\nWhereas one girl might like all of what you suggest, another girl might never want to see you again.  \n\nAn intimate dance is just that.  Intimate.  Special.\n\nGo ask her and forget what everybody else says.  It doesn't matter what we all think.  What matters the most is what SHE thinks!
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My girl is the same way and I am 23. It's sorta weird for me not to be in control of when we have sex. I believe if she didn't want to have sex so much then I would. Its a weird situation but I think its true.
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If you are comfortable with it,then I say go for it. He will respond by giving you some of the best lovin you could hope for!! This kind of talk turns him on and in turn he will want to do more for you.....If he doesn't,then all he is wanting is his own satisfaction. If this turns out to be the case,I would think seriously about how this relationship is going. On a personal note. I love for my woman to talk to me while we are making love. Not that it has to be dirty in nature,but letting me know how much she is enjoying the moment. That in turn makes me want to please her even more. Hope I have been of help....Keith...
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Wow Robert, that's a deep question.  While I'm not exactly sure where your position is in this question... are you the one abusing or watching someone be abused?  It appears that you are the one abusing, so I will go with that.  I have been an abused woman, mentally, physically, monetarily and sexually.  I didn't like it one bit.  It is a demeaning and horrible thing to do to another person.  After the initial shock of it all, one begins to think they deserve it until it becomes a way of life.  Thankfully, I woke up before he killed me.  \nThere are people who are submissive totally by nature who are into BDSM and to them, they need a dominant figure in their lives.  Someone to guide them and discipline them and to them this is love.  To their Masters or Owners, who crave this, between both of them, it is the most generous gift one can give to the other.  I will not disagree with these people because they are the only ones that know what they "need" to exist and feel at peace within themselves.  \nIf I understand your question correctly and you are wanting to change the fact that you abuse women and then loose the relationship, I would suggest finding a support group of some kind to help you with it.  If you find it is something you truly need in your life, then perhaps you may want to do some research on the BDSM lifestyle and learn what it is about.  My best friend is a Dom and explained it to me in a way that I truly understand what he means when he says he does not "abuse" his submissive.  While it's not something I would be interested in, I feel it gives him and his partner an opportunity for them both to get what they crave.  I will add here that that lifestyle requires a certain mind set and a complete understanding of it.
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it hurts some girls, and sometimes it doesn't.  Just depends on you and the guy.  It didn't hurt me at all, but the guy I gave it to was gentale, and took things slow.  I was well excited, and we agreed that if I said stop, or slower, he would...\n\nYou know the time is right, when it feels right for both of you.  it is fun and exciteing, but don't rush it, it is so much better, when you are both ready.
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hey, from a heterosexual point of view, I know that this is not the case.\n\nI don't know why the question's been thumbed down so much because it's perfectly fair.\n\nI've seen relationships between couples where the lady is apparently uncompromisingly dominant and I can't imagine that the bed-place is the only place where the guy would suddenly decide that he wears the trousers...\n\nI like girls that can handle being dominant in bed all they have to do is tell you what to do or get ontop of you to be dominant; it's not complicated and dominance or subservience shouldn't have much to do with who's got the pen!s in my humble opinion!\n\ngood question...
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I am in charge in the bedroom. Things go better for the both of us that way. When I take control, I satisfy her needs first, then worry about mine later.\nIf you laugh, tell him that he tickled you. Don't tell him that you were thinking about something funny, because we want you to be thinking about us.
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I'm a girl but I know my ex did sometimes pull a muscle having doggie style sex. Hell you can pull a muscle having any kind of sex. Period! But hey at least you are pulling a muscle having sex :)
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You are a bad boy.  Naughty.   you deserve a spanking, does that excite you too??\n\n\n10/10
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I would imagine (because that's all a guy can do) that we feel the same way about satisfying our partner as a woman does; self-satisfaction that we could make her feel VERY good.  \n\nAs to being told what to do, that really depends on the mood of the moment.  Am I in a kinda selfish mood where I want the satisfaction? Or is it her turn?  In the case of the former, mo directions needed!  In the latter, guidance--explicit guidance would be quite helpful (for both of us) and a refreshing change.  Being able to 'read' your partner is one thing, but actually being able to know what exactly they want?  Come on, nobody's a mindreader!
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oh my god i totally agree! i love it! so yes its definitely normal! haha even though some people are all sketchy about i dont know theres just something about an angry anxious guy that turns me on. If he doesnt want it that bad that he wont make you then what the point..i like it because then i know that im really making the guy happy and doing what he wants. im definitely glad i came across this question...but my answer is yes you're normal and i couldnt agree more :)
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I think when a guy really listens to a girl.  This really pleases her also trying to understand her when she is being a girl.  Meaning things we do that guys don't understand, try a little harder to.  As far as in the bedroom.  Variety, is always a plus, wanting to fulfill her as much or more then you want to please yourself.  This should actually please you anyway, because you feel good that you can do this so well!!!
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when you only hear what he is saying when his pants are off. lol. Do you enjoy each other outside of sex (sex includes dates that are only meant to lead to sex)? Would you still want to be with him and would he still want to be with you if there was no sex involved?
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OK MY QUESTION IS,IF YOU DONT WANT HER THEN WHY WOULD YOU LET HER DO ORAL SEX ON YOU? DRUNK OR NOT TRUE FEELINGS COME OUT,WHAT ARE YOU SCARED OF? DO YOU WANT HER OR ARE YOU JUST SCARED ABOUT ADMITTING IT TO YOURSELF
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I'm not sure if i would be in that type of position when I get into a serious relationship (hope so lol) but I would do it if i was with someone I trusted. I like kinky stuff like that anyways, it's not immature, it's fun.
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She really likes what you are doing to her and it makes her hormones run wild. She is lucky to have you. You must be a real stud to make her feel that way without the 2 of you actually doing it. I wish i had a guy like that.
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In every relationship, there is a person who likes to dominate, and a person who likes to be taken care of.  There is nothing wrong with either type, it takes both to make a relationship work.  In this case, it sounds like you both want to wear the pants.  It's going to take some compromise on both your parts.  The man is traditionally the one who provides, and he enjoys doing this for you, so why not sit back and relax a little and let him take over?  It takes a lot of trust to let this happen, which will only bring you closer together.  I'm an independent woman so I used to have the same issue that you had...it took me a while to appreciate a man who opens doors, pays the check at the restaurant, and takes care of me...now I wouldn't settle for anything else.  Good luck to both of you.