well i have this friend shes really nice and we hang out a talk ALOT but in P.E i ask her if i can be on her team and she always picks some one eles i fell left out because she has these three other friends and she always hangs out with them in P.E and not me when i try to hang out with them they leave me even my friend
200733
well if its only one class that she does that.. BUT still that is not wat a friend would do! If i were you i would talk to her alone like at one of your houses or even during lunch at skool. just say " i need to talk to you privatly" and then she'll understand that its important and you can just tell her that u dont like her leaving you behind. if she is your friend, she'll understand.
137280
You can't make anyone like you and you should never change or act like something you're not just to make a "friend".  Chances are, they aren't the kind of friends you really want or need.\nI'd venture to say the track team is jealous of you.  Don't cave in!  Be true to yourself; the issue is theirs, not yours.
493077
Accept your part in the situation she can only take over if you let her. Friend talk thing out they don't  just dump on another. Maybe she has confidence problem and being in charge make her feel good about herself ,express your feelings, what you feel is important and should not be ignored
596731
I would ask her to stay friends, and if you like(more then a friend) to this friend, go out w/ them. Don't let someone that doesn't really like you mess up a possible relationship that would be better than the one that you are about to get in. trust me, messed up my friendship caused the same thing happened to me!
650598
I think you should continue to talk to her, but know your limits when speaking to her. If you keep on talking to her, she will soon realize you are a true friend, and not a ***** like her. Show her that you aren't like her. I also think that if she is talking about you or your bestfriend, she is jealous of you two. Be ahead of the game, don't let her keep you stressing. Don't trip off her she's just another obstacle in life trying to bring others down.
69672
i have the same problem and i am looking 4 answers as well but no one answered me...i even talked 2 her 3 times but she doesnt wanna hang out w/ me and thinks her other best friend is funner...im sick of it
258247
just leave them to it, if the lik, like-like each other, and they're already good friends then if they want to get together they will. Trust me, worst thing to do is to interfere cos you just may ruin a good friendship unintentionally, like
161344
You need to get out there and grow , But maybe your friend is afraid of change or just want things to stay the same. Things have to change in order to get ahead, But who says she can't still be your friend? Don't let anyone hold you down because of their own insecurities!
395525
Just be yourself and keep all the friends you have.  If someone doesn't like a friend of yours, tell them to handle it themselves and leave you out of it.  You are not a messenger nor a mediator.
315505
Invite whoever the hell you want to! Don't let one person decide who you can't hang out with because she doesn't like many people...You sound like a very nice person and I think you should party with whoever you want to....Hate to say it but the friend who doesn't like many people...really doesn't seem to be doing much but trying to bring u down with her!! Be yourself and invite everyone lol...The more the merrier..No matter where or when.
356876
tell them to accept that you are friends with this other person and if they dont want to lose you as a friend than they need to stop being brats about it.\n\nTake Care
181998
You're friend is treating you this way because (im assuming she) she has her own insecurities about herself. i dont know you, but you are probably an attractive popular girl? someone genuin? This other friend wants you to feel about about yourself. The way to tackle this is to understadn she is hating something about herself and try to bring it out of her, subtly and perhaps bit by bit. then when you're feeling more confident you can talk to her about the way she speaks to you and the names she calls you.
248758
I would ask her why her friends do that and have a talk about it. i think she may be jealous of you and this is her way of dealing with it! and if she gets worse after you talk to her then she does deserve you as a friend.
481867
WOw. I've been through the same exact thing this is what i did i just straight up told her that i was feeling left out and when i was hanging out with her and her new friend it was akward cuz she wouldn't act the same. You have to tell her cuz it will drive u carzy and will cause drama. If she is a real true friend she'll understand and make things better. If not find a new best friend that wont skrew u over for another person instead of treatin u the same
362348
Sounds like you are willing to listen to her and be a good friend, but she isn't being nice to you at all. You don't need someone like that! I'm sure that there are lots of other people that would appreciate your friendship and treat you a lot better! Don't even bother with this girl if she's going to act like that cause she'll just pull you down.
376120
Your friend just creates negativity in your life, you've done your part and she will never change her mind.  You should leave her alone and make friends with more intelligent people.
447583
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times