Let's say the guy approaches you on the street and is kind, shows great interest in you and really wants to get to know you, and then ask for your phone number?\n\nIs this flattering or just annoying?
215857
I'd be very flattered, however he would have to talk to me for a bit first, it would be freaky if some dude just walked up out of nowhere and asked for my number right away.
593584
Call the next day to say thanks for a great time.  Just don't call too much, I had one guy call me 5 times after he asked me out we hadn't even gone out yet, that was a total turn off..
532661
Sure sounds like stalker material to me.  Just stop seeing him/returning his calls and eventually he lose interest.
494535
He would pro ably be flattered, and in fact he pro ably feels the same way about you, you just probably seem a little distanced from him because it sounds like you aren't making the effort to be with him alone, as a guy let me tell you we can be really stupid and blind...Let him know but not straight up tell him he looks cute blah blah make it seem like your interested than call his ass!
299296
yeah,. why can't a girl just return a call? just be honest, don't ignore the guy.
447397
NO !!!\nKEEP WALKING DOWN THE STREET !!!\nIF HE DID HE WOULD HAVE COME UP TO YOU TO TALK TO YOU !!!
607237
I like good conversation, so I'll talk to anybody. I generally will take a guy's number but won't call for the following reasons : He has said something stupid, wearing something stupid, or doing something stupid. Word of advice, if she doesn't offer her number first, don't offer yours. Leave her guessing sometimes.
286132
yes, ask for her number! but do it saying something of the nature of "it was very very nice to meet you too, youre a cool girl, maybe we can talk later or even go out or something? can i have your number?" dont make it seem as tho u only want to date her
142219
I cannot tell you "no" or "yes" without really knowing more of the details of the situation.\n\nBut the very act of you asking this question and wondering whether you should or should not probably means, "nope." Wait a while and give him time.\n\nPlus, if he was charming, he would have you GIVING him your number without him even asking. Or have you asking for HIS. Heh, I wouldn't give in so easy to ya! :)\n\nWait a while till you get to know him. He may be a fantastic guy! Or he might be a rotten egg. And, make sure that you two live within an "okay" distance so you two can easily meet if it does come to that. There is really no sense of him calling and chatting and adoring you if you two cannot physically be together.
100698
I can't really tell you yes he is into you, because I don't know how he acted around you, and I don't know him. What I can tell you is that if it seemed like he really had a great time and you both had fun, then maybe there is hope. I suppose if he called you to let you know he was home safe, that's a plus, because if he didn't care at all, he wouldn't of called at all. Now, about him waiting to call you, maybe he was nervous, busy, like the other person commented, maybe didn't want to seem desperate. Just give it time, and if nothing becomes of it, let it go, there are a ton of men out there waiting to meet ya! ;)
283558
Well if you are in a social scene and a guy wants your phone number, a good rule of thumb to use is to tell them to give you their number instead. Tell them that you are busy tonight, but give me your number and I'll give you a call. This way noone is left with hurt feelings, and the dude will leave you alone.\n\nAs far as the situation the other day, I hate to say it, but since the guy wasn't getting the hint, you should have freaked out on him HARD. I would suggest sarcasm or just plain cruelty: "what the f**k is the matter with you? can't you take no for an answer or are you as stupid as you look?" Be sure to speak loudly if you do try this tactic, as he will be humiliated in front of his friends and is likely to quickly leave before he looks worse in front of them.\n\nYou may also want to consider getting some mace or pepper spray to carry when you are alone. Frankly, if some dude decides he's gonna accoust you, you better have something on hand to defend yourself with!
330955
You can tell a lot, by the way he "looks" at you. If he's interested, there's a look in his eye. You can tell by the number of times he calls, says "HI", smiles at you, and in general, just seems to be where you are at the same time. It wasn't an accident! Good Luck!
380066
I think your asking how to approach a female you don't know so she will like you.  I would like it if a guy came up to me and asked me what my name was, told me his, and we had a normal conversation and he told me he was interested in talking more and would ask for a phone number or give me his.  No lines, no gimmicks, just a simple getting to know you conversation.  I hate it when guys whistle at you and yell hey from across the street.  Its so disrespectful.
516011
I would call her again, this time, not leaving a message. Then call again the next day at a different time, and if you don't get her, than leave a message... After that, if she doesn't call you back.. I dunno, man.. maybe she's not interested.  I dunno though. When she told you to call her back, I'm thinking she meant that genuinely. I'm the sort of girl who wouldn't say that unless i meant it. I'm also the sort of girl who only gives my number to guys I'm interested in. But I'm also the sort of girl who would wait until the guy called me. So she may just be hoping you catch her when she's in
455363
Honestly, females are everywhere you go.  I would say not to worry about where to find them as much as the approach you use when you do spot one that catches your eye.  I've been picked up at a grocery store (of all places), the guy used a very tactful flattering way of hitting on me.  So just be careful with your approach so that you do not in fact come off as a womanizer.  Be clear that this isn't something you normally do but you couldn't leave with out saying......(fill your line in here).  Hope this helps :)
644735
no it juist he is moveing so if u guys get to close he will miss u more so get his phone number girl
202637
Well, yes you should definately try to get his number if you really liked him. Maybe surprise him by calling him up. I am sure he is waiting to get in touch with you too.