when you can not be where you want to be..when you chose no be a runer..when you have no way but to be stranger in a strange land oll your coming life. becuse simply you can not go back to where you belong...when you damege your dreams and hopes...and then you weak up and say oh god what i have don .....how you can live with that??
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u can. it's just u made radical change, but hasn'i got used yet. and it's also past effect, u used all ur energy to perform this change and now u feel emotianally exausted and it couses deppression and fear. give urself a short break and then procedd to develop urself and make more positive changes. be in action, don't relax too much and reflect too much on the situation. act, act, act\n\nand the last but not tyhe least, what is done is done and u should never regret.\n\neverything will be ok. believe me. don't afraid and be courageous.
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Sure there are.  What I can say about those who job float is that sometimes they don't really know what to do and they try and find something that they'd like to do for the rest of their life.  I hope you're not too quick to judge them because I think that is braver than being stuck doing something because they are too cowardly to get out of familiar surroundings.  Stability doesn't equal happiness and for those who continue their search for it, they are the brave ones.
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I'm afraid I'll be no help, I'm 33 but in my head I'm still 20!\n\nCoping with life and the situations we find ourselves in will never suddenly 'Happen' We are all a product of our upbringing and experiences. As you go through life you will have many different experiences, some good, some bad. From each one you will learn a little, grow a little and be that much more stronger and able to cope with the big wide world. It's a gradual process which never ends, that's the beauty of the world - there will always be something new to do, always someone new to meet and always something to surprise you. Independance is just another word for confidence. This will build as you experience new things and achieve new things.\n\nThe good will balance out the bad - if you let it! Never dwell on negative things or they will be all you can think of. Keep your mind and heart open while keeping your feet firmly on the ground and you can't go wrong.\n\nLife is like any other good journey - It's the ride, not the destination, that holds the magic.
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You need to move; stretch your wings & see where you "fit". Travel is fun & exciting. I've only found 2 places where I feel I belong...Israel & Alaska.
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1) We can never flee the misery that is within us.\n\nIt took me a long while to realize that I cannot escape myself.  Many moons ago, I had an ex-girlfriend tell me that I was looking for escape.  I agreed with her but I was not sure from what I was seeking escape.  Many moons later, in a hotel bar I sat drinking gin with a woman I met that weekend.  As the night progressed we began waxing philosophical about our lives.  After having drank enough to clear my mind, I had an epiphany about my own life, which I managed to slur in her ear: "You cannot escape yourself.  No matter where you run you are still there."  It was then that I realized what I had been trying to escape was something internal to myself, a melancholic spirit.  I no longer try to escape that part of me, for that spirit has been, remains today, and will continue to be part of who I am.
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Well I would have to guess that maybe your looking for something that you havent found. I am  not sure but you are really the only one that can decide what that might be.. If your happy in a place and you still want to move then it just seems you cant help but think there is something waiting for you somewhere else. Kinda hard to tell with not knowing more about you or how you have lived your life. I do know it isnt normal to want to move all the time tho. \nI hope you find what your looking for in life and maybe you will find the true you while looking. good luck to you..
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I am a follower of Silvia Brown (psycic) and she says that these things sometimes happen. If I were you I'd go for it and try the move to this place you've never been and see if you find the guy. Give it a year or so...if nothing becomes of it at least you can say you had an interesting experience and saw a new place. It may even open the door to something better than what you have found in your dreams so far. Good luck.
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Everyone has his own time, just be patient and keep trying. If you haven't got one, it means it is not your time yet. As simple as that. Good things will come to you when it is your time, of course with efforts. Please don't trust anybody who say you are not good enough, nobody is not good enough.
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Dream Big..Just dont count on going and get to comfortable with thought of going cause then it wont happen you have to keep working hard
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I felt the same way when i graduated high school and started my first semester in college. It's a very scary thing. Unfortunately, I let my anxieties and depression take over and i dropped out. now that I'm older i realize how much of a mistake that was. Whatever you do keep moving/living, things will always get better and you'll look back and be glad you didn't let your feelings at the time hold you back. You should never be embarrassed about who you are. It's you! People can love it or hate it, but as long as your living your life right and not hurting anyone, than Walk, and Walk tall. Be proud of who you are and what you've accomplished and look forward to the many more accomplishments ahead of you. As you go through life you'll meet different people and things will happen naturally. But if you let these feelings keep you stagnant you'll stay in the same place physically/emotionally and these opportunities won't arise.
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I stayed with my dad until he died.  He wanted me to be safe and to take care of me and me of him.  So it worked out fine.  I was not ready to be independent and that was best for me to do in my situation.  I know other people may have looked down on me but that is their problem.  Just because I was not married or independent did not mean that I was stupid or crazy.  They did not and do not know me to judge me.  I did what I wanted and what was best for me.  Then I realized that as my dad got older and in worse health, that he needed me because he would have been all alone and could not be alone as his illness progressed.  One day he told me that he wanted me to stay and not to marry until he died.  That did make me feel good and useful and have a little more dignity when others would say things to me.  But all in all, I would not have changed a thing.  So you do what is best for you.  Your family is the most important thing, if they are good to you, so treasure them.  You will be out and on your own one day when you marry or find a boyfriend or go to college or move for other reasons.  So, do what is best for you. I think that you are lucky.  :)
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went through the same thing...I tried using that to my advantage...make that your main motivation....you have not failed unless you have decided not to get back up and try again...try and think of it as..."failure is not an option" and will never be...\n  you will over come your obsticals trust me...you can and will be someone
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Sometimes it is hard to make the choices that we want with out sacrificing a lot. And on your part, you have to let go in order to achieve those dreams. \n\nHappiness can only be achieved by doing what your heart dictates you. But I must tell you, there are consenquences. \n\nI will not be bias. So the only way I can help you is by letting you see the two sides of the coin. YOU decide. And your decision is one step in making changning your future. or even achieving total happiness and contentment.\n\nIF YOU STAYED AND FINISHED WHAT YOU'VE STARTED...\nthen you might find out sooner or later that this is one way or should I say ANOTHER way in finding happiness. Maybe you haven't yet realized that behind your job lies a dream you haven't yet realized. Or the happiness you haven't yet found because you were so busy soul searching or finding more faults with your decision. Why not learn to accept and be contented? Not everybody has the luxury to have a job. And staying will give you more security in the future. And the risk of being unsuccessful is minimal.\n\nBut\n\nIF YOU FOLLOWED YOUR HEART AND GO\nYou might find what you are truly good at. Maybe that is the answer to all your dilemma. Remember that the BIGGEST RISK IS BY NOT TAKING ONE. We cannot assure ourselves that once we followed what our heart dictates we can became happy because we'll never know unless we are already in that situation. But the joy of know we tried is immense. Atleast you tried. Many people are afraid to go out of their shell in fear of the world outside their cocoon but you cannot see the beauty of the world, even the pain, unless you go out and seek it. Even if it means letting go of you haven.\n\nDo what makes you happy. But Sometimes we also have to think of what we feel.
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WELL SINCE 2004 I WAS LOOKING FOR JOB \nITS DIFFCULT BECAUSE I MOVED IN NEW STATE LIKE U\nBUT THEN I LOOKED TO THE POSTIVE SIDE AND I KNOW DO MY OWN BUSSIENS, WHILE U ARE IN HOME DO SOMETHING U LOVE AND U ARE GOOD IN AND DONT FEEL USELESS BECAUSE U ARE BETTER THEN?\nSO GOOD LUCK SISTER AND KEEP LOOKING
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neverlate to succeed my friend, i was devorced with a kid and alone working day time and made it, because i wanted too.\n\ntake a good exemble of me, make dreams and move on for the best
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Well right or wrong on what you become and what you do with your life, family should be there not matter what! I'm going threw it right now. I met and married a wonderfull man, and family is distant from me cause they didnt agree with it. In time if they still dont like what you become, then tell them that your you and you will be what you want and they can be by your side or not, that if they choose not to be then its not stoping you from becomming what YOU want. I didnt let my parents bring me down cause i married a guy they didnt know. And im not giving up my husband for them. They can take me and him as whole or keep living there lifes without seeing there grandkids or future grandkids. But I know in time they will come around, as a matter of fact they have a little. Just be who YOU want to be dont let anyone bring you down or tell you do what they want. Be yourself and prove to them you can do what you want on your own. Good luck!
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Yours is a tough descision. I went through the same thing when I was in the service. I left as soon as I could and when I was offered a job in the government I ran ,lol. I have been working for myself pretty much since then. To be true to yourself and not conform more than your soul can take is what you have to find out. I wish you good luck and patience.