Im not happy with my new friend, and I have feelings for someone else. I've forcing myself to like the person I'm talking to, but he is a cool person. Will the person that I have fellings for ever get the chance to talk to me.\n\nI have feelings for a person, and the person knows. He says he wants to be my friend right now. Is that a sign that he would ask me sooner or later.
200470
Don't push your new friend into something he is not sure of. I am sure he just wants time to get to know you and do things with you. And if I were you I would tell your other friend how you really feel. There is nothing worse then giving someone mixed signals. So just be honest and things will work out.
404007
You have not explained what you meant when you said your Friend saw you in 'trouble' what trouble? As we don't know what trouble you were having, we have know way of gauging if that is the cause of his cool attitude towards you. Having said that! I would think he saw or heard something that did not impress him about you. Can you think of anything you did that would cause him to feel this way towards you?
345972
If you dont want to ask him directly, no problem, are you cool with any of his friends?  Try to find out from his friends.  Or have a friend ask him who he likes.  Does he act differently toward you or does he do this to everyone else?  I know some guys acts extremely nice to you when they first meet you, then after a while, it just seems to fade and it becomes any regular friendship.  \n\nI believe its best to just ask him, because if he does, then he would know exactly how you feel about him too.  Well anyhow, good luck finding out. :]
674691
I think he is being unfair. If he is really your friend, then he would talk to you about the letter and your feelings regardless of how he feels.  Maybe he is shy about it and feels the same way, or maybe he was just flirting with you and only likes you as a friend and is scared to tell you. I would give it one more day to let him unwind.
473210
Sounds like you have a good heart and an open mind. My advice is to just let it go. A person like you will have no trouble making more friends, and maybe these two will grow up a little and it'll work out. Don't worry about it in the meantime. Just look on the bright side, you know you're a good friend no matter what.
93556
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
225169
I have been in this situation.  How long have you been talking?  I've learned that you can't go off of looks these days.  The best advice that I can give is to lay off of any feelings that you think you might have and offer that friendship to him long enough until you figure the "real" him out.  But, while you're doing that, make sure you make it clear that you're not "really" looking for anything right now, but that there's always the future.  Some times men put on a front in the beginning (if this is a new situation) and he may be trying to hide his true feelings by being rude...just give it some time.
399617
ok hun  i have one of those friends and you should b able ta ask or talk to him about anything so just may b you have more feelings than what ur letting on  good luck
481734
If a friend stops talking to you because of your orientation, that person is not a friend.  You are what you are, and there are people out there who will love you no matter what.  Those people are out there, and if you decide to tell the world you are a #######, those people will appear in your life.
286542
I think you have some feelings for him your self. I mean it's obvious that you like him, cause if you didn't you wouldn't be asking. You'd deny it now, but sooner or later, you'll stop living in denial and accept that you like him as well. \n\nWell the odds to this is most likely a yes. But he could only want you as a friend. I mean no one will really know the truth. Only he will know. But for now, if I were you just keep this friend ship between him and yourself close. Cause if you do like him as well, you'll know that he will always be there for you. So don't ruin this relationship. You might not know what you really have, when you have it, and when you don't have it, you'll want it back. Trust me, I've been in this same situation. You might not approve, but it'll happen.
447583
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times
377810
You are certainly entitled to your feelings of loss and sorrow in this situation.  But there has to come a time when you slowly start to care much much less.  This other person will experience the very same rejection from someone else, that is a guarantee!  Personally, I feel that this person valued you enough to tell you straight from their heart.  So many people we admire take advantage of our vulnerability and use us.  Now imagine the fallout from being left after being used!  This person has honorable intentions.  Your choices are evident.  Either abide by this person's commital of friendship, or make YOUR CHOICE to abandon them due to the fact that, "it just makes you feel better." \nThat is something YOU have complete control over.  YOURSELF and NO ONE should Ever take a front seat over your very precious emotional feelings.  Fix yourself by realizing there are too many others and so little time.  Get busy.  You will also be much more attractive by staying busy.  YOU do have a life of your own.  YOU work people in when you want to! Do not give up the power of you to anyone!  Good Luck
158449
From what you described, I'm 99.9% positive that he has feelings for you. His problem is that he can't make a decision for himself. He's sending you quite a few signals. He's waiting for you to make the first move before breaking it off with his current girlfriend. He's insecure. He doesn't want to be alone. Question is, do you have feelings for him? Do you want to be with a guy that insecure? Remember, the relationship will change once everything is out in the open. Which is more important to you? The friendship or the relationship?
71096
well if he knows it is from you, why not talk to him and tell him how you feel.  Honesty is the best.  What happens if he thinks it is from your friend and he ends up likeing your friend instead of you
286166
It sounds like he llikes you. He may be scare he will get hurt again. If you and he become an item then that may spoil the great friendship you have and then he'd he hurt if he loses that too\n\nSo just bare with him he's trying to deal with this and the last thing he needs is to lose another.\n\nThe feelings u feel is just him having fun with his friend and may be u just in hopes that theres something there
596731
I would ask her to stay friends, and if you like(more then a friend) to this friend, go out w/ them. Don't let someone that doesn't really like you mess up a possible relationship that would be better than the one that you are about to get in. trust me, messed up my friendship caused the same thing happened to me!
539595
Hello, Well you could try to be his friend, but you couldn't have a normal friendship because there would allways be that feeling of rejection that he had toward you. And the fact that he's acted like an *** in the past probably means that that the future with him wouldn't be too solid. Really the best thing to do is find another guy to start new with - because I think what you really want is more than a friend relationship and that's a love relationship...right?  You can speak to him and have a casual frienship but look somewhere else for a guy who can make you feel special...Love is what you really want...and I hope you find it...good luck ...ok? ....bye bye