I know my ex-boyfriend put something in my gas tank,the car was totaled.About a month later I came home to find roofing nails in my driveway.I know he did it,can not prove it yet.How do I keep him away from my home?
212321
If you can keep track of times and dates that he is seen near your home. Have your neighbors watch and keep a log too. You should record any phone calls, save all messages from answering machines and cell phones. Also any time something like this happens you should call the police and file a report so there is a record of each incident. Even if there is no proof that he is the one doing it now he will more than likely slip up and get caught so a record will make it more solid to prosicute.One more thing you could do for proof would be to set up a motion light in your drive way and a camcorder somewhere like a window aimed at the drive way.Good luck.
88010
If you evict him, he will retaliate! Thats a gangsters mentality. He will bust windows, slash tires or worse! Sounds like you may have to discreetly find a new place to live and move! Theres really no other solution.
372228
Call the police. A blocked driveway is an emergency hazard. The guilty party will learn quickly to park his idiot car correctly.
161914
I pop the tires on my sisters ex-boyfriend, then I dumped paint on he car, all because I found out that he was a fake and that he cheated on my sister. oh I all so broke his back window. this car was a 2005 mustang.
269522
It's perfectly natural to compare what is known and familiar (Your ex) to what is still being learned and unfamiliar (Your boyfriend), and everyone does it consciously or not. Your ex is part of your past that became a familiar territory, you know what makes him tick. If it's the material things that matter to you in life, chances are you might still be with your ex, but there's more to it since you've got the children and you know your current boyfriend is loving. The best thing you can do is to forget about the past, and what your ex has or had (if possible) and concentrate on your new relationship and being happy together with him. It might even seem that though your ex has some of the things you'd love to have (the new audi and 2nd home), you have something that he wants also (your children, and for you to be miserable). Don't give him that power over you! As they say, kill him with kindness... If it's his intent to make you jealous of his new car and 2nd home, brush it off and attempt to be genuinely happy for him! (Remember, he's the one stuck paying all those bills). This should get easier in time.
546608
It depends, whose name is the car in, and is "he" a friend, boyfriend. There are many factors in play here.  Call the local police and get some advise.
487413
An Injunction of Protection is for women or men that are being abused and/or stalked.  You can file an eviction against him.  Contact the court house in your county and ask what you need to do to start the eviction process.\n\nGood Luck and Take Care
288042
I'm pretty sure what he is doing would be considered harassment.  Call the company he works for (EVERYONE has a boss SOMEWHERE) and report him.  If that doesn't work, and he comes back, call the cops on him.  You can get a restraining order where he can't come near your house.
26496
First off change your phone numbers, get to the police station and reuqest a restraining order and also let them know that you are being stalked by an ex - boyfriend. If you fear for your safety then you need to get to the police station ASAP. No matter what state you live in stalking is against the law.
257087
Been there, done that - not an iota of fun. The guy is basically stalking you. My suggestion is the following:\n\n1) File a report with the local police. Even though they may not do anything about it yet, at least it will be in their papers should your ex's abuse continue and/or escalate. \n\n2) Gather ALL evidence. Set up a new e-mail account, get a new phone-number - every measure necessary to restrain his options of being able to contact you. Nonetheless, keep the old phone-number - but let it go directly to the answering-machine. Save the messages - as they will prove your claim if you are forced to drag him to court and (or get a restraining order. Also save all e-mails he sends you for the same reason as above. If he sends you gifts, you shall keep them - whatever he gives you, keep it. This is all about gathering evidence.\n\n3) Tell people around you not to tlak with him due to his stalking. He will pursue alternative means of getting go you, and using your friends and family as a source of information is fully justified in his mind.\n\n4) NEVER EVER talk with/to him - regardless how tempting it may be. For a stalker, even a "F**k off" will be interpreted as a positive gesture. He will interpret "Leave me alone" as a "Oh, I want you to chase me" and so on. If you give in to the temptation once, he will know that it only takes more perservance on his side to get you to answer again and again and again.\nAlso, never tell him what you intend to do unless he leaves you alone. In the event that going to the police does not produce immediate results, your stalking ex will view your plans and intentions as nothing but empty threats.\n\n5) Tell your current boyfriend how much the ex is bothering you. Your ex is currently attempting to drive a wedge between you and your new BF as the ex cannot see you with another man. Any man for that matter except himself. He desires comlete control of your life in every and any aspect, and you do NOT want to subject yourself to that.\nAs for your current BF, if he is not willing to support and help you through this, then he is not worth keeping. Sorry for being so harsh sounding, but it is sadly true. If he loves and cares about you, then he will stay on your side - regardless.\n\n6) Find out if there are any support-groups for stalking-victims in your area - and you will find that you are not alone. The internet also provides different fora that are worth-while looking into - especially what the legal side is concerned.\n\nI broke up with the ex from hell 1 1/2 years ago, and he is still stalking me, thankfully not to the same extent as previously, but I receive e-mails (I changed phone-numbers and got a new e-mail address) from him once or twice a month, and it is still bloody annoying and scaring.\n\nGood luck, this will take time and toil - but know that you are not alone in this hellish situation. I feel for you.
101928
That is crap. If he need to hide it something is SOOOOO wrong. My boyfriend would "magically" need to go get a soda or need to get gas out of no where. I'm talking 10 o'clock at night, or 1st thing in the morning. The funniest was when he would "need a newspaper" but he doesn't read the newspaper. It would take him an hour to do what should take 20 min. we live in a apartment and the dumpster is about 8-10 yards form the back door.When he took the garbage out he felt the need to put it in the truck and drive it around the complex where the dumpster sits in a parking lot. Took him a good 15 min. So a lot of times she(his ex wife) would call him as soon as he walked back in as to say she forgot something. Sometimes I would here him say, OH, I JUST CALLED TO CHECK ON THE KIDS, so I know he had tried to call. I would ask him about it and why he felt the need to leave to call for that and he would say it just happened that way. B/S. Every time he was there and she called, he magically could get no reception on his cell phone. Even if he had just talked to someone else 5 min before with no problem. I got nosey and checked his phone once, and it turned out he was calling her and she was calling him several times a day, for 15 and 20 min conversations(or longer) at a time. When I confronted him, (not only was he pissed) but he claimed he was only "checking on the kids". In that case he was checking on them while they were in school and sleeping etc. By the way, his kids were 11 and 14. Long story short, he is a raving idiot who wants to be with her but can't so he keeps me for comfort. And yes, he slept with her on a regular basis. HE TOLD ME THE SAME THING, THAT HE WANTS ME NOT HER. And he left me to get back with her and came crawling back a week later. But the same crap kept happening so i kicked him out and he tried to get back with her again, but it did not work. PLEASE dont be stuipd like me. i have wasted almost 2 years with this crap. Learn from my mistakes.
166496
I'm sorry this happened to you.  If he's been to your home, CALL THE POLICE.  Do not mess around with this.  If you live with your parents, TELL THEM RIGHT AWAY.  If you're on  your own, TELL THE POLICE.  \n\nThank you for the heads up, but please, protect yourself!
456035
I restraining order works rather well, and so does relocation. He may become dangerous and may try to hurt you. I would definitely seek the help of the authorities. Talk to a policeman and see what they can do or what you should do. Keep friends and family around whenever possible. Do not go anywhere by yourself.
626518
With any luck guilt will win out and they will fess up.  But it depends on what the thing is and what the consequences might be.  If he cheated and is afraid you leave him then he may never tell.  If he left the sprinklers on and ruined your new patio set then he might eventually give it all up.\nBut convince him that for you, knowing the truth is better than doubting a lie.  You will be angry, but you will get over it and you can discuss things like adults.\n(shrug) \ngood luck!
268049
yes, worry about it - better safe than sorry. keep your eyes open, if you live with a room mate/boyfriend/family, tell them what happened. if i were you i would be keeping a baseball bat handy at home. if you have some mace, start carrying that in your purse.\n\nif someone follows you like that again, DO NOT GO HOME. keep driving, try to shake him off. try to read his license plate as you're driving and memorize it. if you can't lose him, drive to the nearest police department or police barracks. if he follows you into the parking lot, go inside and have a chat with the police.
508405
OK, lets look at your question...  "while I was housesitting this week I accidentally ran across undeniable evidence that he has a boyfriend".\n\nNo, you did not "accidentally" run across "evidence", you were being nosy. To justify you being nosy you then turn around and say "he's been LYING to me over and over for months and months". If you feel so hurt and angry, how do you think he will feel when he finds out about what you have done while housesitting? Yes, you should confront him...  about you being judgmental and not being the true friend that you have pretended to be to him.
187989
sp...condemned ;) Very good advice, I would follow what they said above me about calling the gas company, and as long as you have a lease, he will have to go through the normal eviction process, which is different in every state, but if you gave him 30 days notice, put it in writing, verbal's don't mean sh** these days.