she is one of my very close friends that i hang out with at the mall or go to the thearer with to see a movie. We do something about 1 or 2 times a month, (on the weekends), and i just don't know how to tell her i like her without freaking her out. please help me!!!
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if ya'll are at your house watching tv when a commercial\ncomes up turn to her and tell her you've been meaning to tell her how you feel about her take a nice breath and tell\nher. good luck
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all you have to do is simply tell that person! no need to be scared to confess your feelings for that person. theres nothing wrong with that! maybe u should ask her out for dinner! then if she says yes, its your perfect time to tell her... well if her answer is no, just walk to her when shes alone and tell her, i like you, do you like me too? or i hav feelings for you... im trying to find the perfect website for you! just wait... and please visit my website (madkids101...}
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Hmmm... Alot of people will say, then just HINT him! Drop obvious hints to tell him you like him.\n\nIn my point of view, you can like ask him, to the activities you are orgranising, get him to help out.. or you can ask him out for coffee. Basically small gestures, saying hey I want to know you more, I am interested. Doing all these actions, also need not mean that you like him as well. As many close friends of mine will do this kind of invites, to ensure the friendship between each other is not broken.\n\nThe best option in my point of view, is to invite him out for shopping, with your friends or alone. Do be sure to get some of his friends, if you are going out with yours. If not it will be very strange for him.\n\nI hope that helps! Do Message me, if you have any other questions. \n\nCheers!
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tell her shes a lovely girl and you really like spending time with her. this is not to full on but if she likes you back she would probably say it back x good luck hope it works out x
614135
Tell her how you feel....there's nothing wrong with telling someone you like them.  Just think about what you wrote..."I think she likes me too"!  Go for it!!!
554762
Well, tell her the truth. Flat out, say that you think shes a really cool girl, and you want to get to know her better. Maybe ask her out to a movie. You'll never know what she'll say without trying, right? I mean, it's better then to have tried, then to have gome without knowing what she had said. \nHope it all works out for you!\n-Hope I've Been A Great Help!
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next time you see her...get eye contact and smile,that is the biggest thing....and if you're feeling brave....walk up to her one day and start a little conversation and if u want to make you're liking her very obvious then just say to her casually..."God,(her name)u are so gorgeous....i like u alot"
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Tricky...everyone's different.\nIf you're already good friends then she's used to you touching..to an extent.  increase the hugging and gazing into her eyes and maybe link arms more when you're walking somewhere.  try a spontaneous hand-hold and see how it goes.  don't be icky about it, though, there's a fine line. she'll get the hint after a while and if she'd interested back you'll notice b/c she'll give hints too. then tell her how you feel...or just grab her and kiss her like you've never kissed anyone before.\nif she just doesn't get it...you're jsut going to have to go bold and tell her...\n\ngood luck!
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the next time you to see each other ask her for her phone number and just talk to her. Maybe ask her to go out to the movies or some where with a group of friends so that she won't feel like your moving to fast for her. Then from then on start hanging out with her more , and talking to her more. so then she'll become closer to you and be comfortable around you as well. the n when the time is right you can talk to her about the way you feel.
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You obviously have an awesomely amazing friendship. Girls seem to be more in tune, with one another...in comparrison to guys being in tune with girls. I can see how this attraction came to be. I'm sure its been quit awkward. If the two of you don't want to loose your friendship, you should try and discuss the issue. Perhaps you could get her a card, or something light...that lets her know, that whatever happens, you will always be there for her. You could talk about your attraction to one another...and find out if it was just curiousity or if it involves more. Regardless, let her know, that you will always be her friend. No matter what. She is probably just as shocked as you. I've always believed that women could relate to women on a more "natural" level...you've both got in you you...you both owe it to yourselves to get to the bottom of this. I wish you the best. I'm sure it will be a Halloween to remember!
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Have you tryed explaining your feeling to her???....if yall have been hanging out that much she should be able to open up to you mabi there is a bigger issue that she is tryin to get past...try to confide in her and comfort and make sure she knows that you like her
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Just go tell her you like her because she obviously knows already by your staring.  Tell her you want to go out with her to a movie or something and start trying to hang out with her more if she is into you, everything will go smoothly if not then get over her n move on to your next crush.
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Well I am a girl, so I have experience with this. Hint that you are going to ask her BEFORE you do it!! Just say something like "hey I have something important to ask you later" This prepares her so she kind of knows whats going to happen. Then talk to her FACE-TO-FACE!! This is really important because it shows her that you care and will not be awkward with her if she says yes. Girls are always afraid of losing a friend or making it "wierd" between them.
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she isnt gonna say much cuz shes shy. u need to just ask her. she'll get nervous around u and try to get away if u talk to her like that. when the guy i like talks to me like that it makes me feel like an idiot and i always leave really quick cuz its embarrassing. just ask her. when ur talking. instead of saying dont be shy if u already are friends then ask her if she wants to go out sometime.
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Tell him that one of your friends likes him a lot and it would hurt her feelings if you were to say yes to him but you want to be good friends with him in case she changes her mind.\n\nIf he asks who it is, tell him she told you not to tell because she's too shy and she's not ready for him to know yet.\n\nAlso, If you told him you aren't allowed to date then it would seem odd if you went out with someone else, so I don't think that would be a good idea.\n\nGood Luck!
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I think you ought to take her out on a really fun date.  Wait a while until you both are feeling comfortable and laughing and have done something enjoyable.  \n\nThen, tell her that you have something that you'd like to talk to her about, something on the serious side.  Tell her what you've just told all of us.  Ask her what she thinks about that, if she might be interested.  \n\nMaybe she'll agree or just want to be friends.  But, if you don't try, you'll just continue to be in knots.  If you don't ask, you'll never know.  If you do, something wonderful might happen...or might not.  That's the risk you'll have to take.  \n\nIf you let yourself be paralyzed with fear, you'll just stay stuck and that's a miserable place to be, or you wouldn't have written for responses from us--you're already in that space.  \n\nTry. .
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dont invite other people, just go on this movie "date" with her. Talk to more and get to know eachother. Just relax and just go to the movies, you dont need to talk much seeing as yous will be interested in the movie, Just ask her if she wants anything to eat or drink and than get it for her, rather than that dont need to say much just watch the movie. At the end than yous can talk about the movie, the likes and dislikes about it. Tell her it was a lot of fun and would love to do it again sometime. Just try to get really close to her as a friend and dont push it into anything more yet. And if yous keep going out on these dates than maybe she will see how great you are and than start likeing you more than this other guy. Just be there for her to listen to and give advice. Just a guy who she can go out and have fun with. If there is any connection with yous than it will be noticable later on thats when you make the move.