i know im most likely not gay but i just need to know maybe why this happens?
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You're most likely just nervous.  A good way to "check yourself" in terms of sexuality is to track the very last thing you think about when you.... er... take matters into your own hands, and are alone.  Not 30 seconds before, not what kind of dirty little magazine is helping you along, not what movie is playing for encouragement, but that VERY last thing you think about.  Is it a man or a woman?  If it's a man, then you just need to deal with the fact that you might be gay and learn to accept that and realize it doesn't mean anything other than that fact.\n\nAnd it's OK to be nervous.  If this has been an ongoing issue, think about talking to someone about it.  Start with your doctor, and perhaps think of seeing a therapist.  You'll sort it all out.  It's happens to many men a lot.  Just not with me.\n\nIf it's a woman you think of in that last second of glory, then get in touch.  I'm sure I can help you out with that last minute "hurdle".  No man has left my bed without leaving a little something behind for Mama....
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It sounds like you're bi curious.  It could just be a phase.  If/when you try it, you might decide that was enough...or you might like it and want more--which could mean you're bi.\n\nRight now, I'd say you're just curious. (Like many other people!)
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You are going through a phase.  You are Bi-curious.  If you were gay, you would not desire to be with a man.  I do not desire to be with a man, I am a lesbian.  It is really not that complicated.  \nIt is O.K. to be curious, however, you should be careful, you might get turned out and not understand how you ended up in a certain situation.
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It's usually caused by a lack of affirmation in early childhood. It's ironic because the thing gay men seem to crave the most is masculinity.\n\nSame thing for butch women. Lack of affirmation as females in early childhood.
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Don't worry, it could be just some kind of added stress on you with school, sports, etc.\n\nIt happens, especially when you're younger like you are.
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Well, that person was making an innacurate assumption. Don't let it bug you. You know you aren't gay. There is nothing wrong with being quiet.
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I have no idea but I'm gay
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Sounds like you are questioning yor sexuality!Or just coming out? whatever just don't worry unless you deside to stalk, then see a therapist please. There is medicine for that! Be safe and have Happy Holidays !!!!Dude
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I think it is quite possible that someone could be gay and not know it themself.
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Welcom to the wonderful world!\n\nDont worry u are normal and fine - we are all intrigured by homosexuality but few of us admit to it....
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I would say if you have feelings for members of the same sex and you want to act on them, or you do act on them then you might be gay. And if you're not at all interested in being with someone of the opposite sex, but only someone of your same sex. It's also possible you could just be confused.
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how old are you?it might be a phase that you are going through or you might just like woman which that would make you a lesbian.most people have had fantasies or true experiences with the same sex but i think that is normal.you will know whats going on in time and so what if you like boobs they are beautiful and i am a woman too but i like the male gender they make me feel so much better you know what i mean
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You didn't just find yourself chatting to gay men in chat rooms, you initiated it. You initiated it because you had an interest in it. Your interest in it has resulted in you starting to get off on the idea of being with another guy. You don't mention anything about women, so I do not know if you are sexually attracted to them or not. If you are sexually attracted to women as well, you are bisexual. If you are not sexually attracted to women as well you are gay. Your body/heart/mind tells you who you are attracted to, so just go with the flow and don't fight your own feelings.
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I can understand why you wouldnt like this specific person, great, and its great that you dont hold that against gay people. Feeling wierded out is totally natural, am i right in suggesting that youve never really come across it before? literally, there is hardley a difference between you and me. We are both human beings, only i prefer having relationships with guys. Dont let that be what gets to you. you shouldnt judge people on who they are, based on gender, sexuality, race or class, but instead as who they are as a person. its best to get to know the person before you judge them for being gay. Just remember, that single person who did something to a family member of yours is an individual, dont judge everybody else based on their actions (it wouldnt be fair!)\n\njust get to know them before you judge them :D and its great to know that there is somebody out there who doesnt "HATE" the gay crowd!
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I guess a bunch of guy are into you! Same thing has happened to me too! And ya it's probably normal! Have fun!
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Please leave him alone.  He's straight and doesn't want the advances.  \nHe probably knows you're gay (we straight guys all have very sharp gaydar) and therefore the reaction is because of feeling awkward.\n\nWe do the same thing with chicks.  Check them out, they feel awkward, we take it as a mutual feeling.  It ain't so.
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... you're a girl? (my inference from your name). Well, girls TEND to be more open-minded than guys, so it's good that you're at least not going, "Gross! I don't want to be this way!" like some b*tch in denial. lol Sorry, I've just met so many of them on this site... anyway, it COULD be that you're bicurious or bisexual. I personally believe that EVERYONE is bisexual, but whatever... I myself am omnisexual, so there! Why not like both sexes? There's nothing wrong with being bi. *shrugs* It just means more for you to choose from.