my bf recently bought a new car and now this "biatch" (car) is all that he talks about. he even spends evenings in the garage "taking care of her" instead of spending this time with me. he washes her everyother day. it gets on my nerves that he is so addicted to a piece of metal. i think that one day i will take a ladle and smash it on it. why am i so jealous to a piece of metal? should i tell him that?
214753
watch the movie christine, before attack his car. it might backfire on you. lol
457194
Explain to ur BF that he doesn't need to worry about ur friend. If u had a thing for ur friend u would have left ur BF for him. Explain that is not necessary for ur BF to be jealous.That you picked him to be your boyfriend and not your friend. Explain to ur friend that the only thing you can offer him right now is friendship and that is all that you can be right now. Make him understand the boundaries between the two of you.
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ur friend might be absolutely right.they all might be really jealous of u.so don't worry abt people esp those who don't even know u.\ninfact don't worry abt anyone.as long as u r right and as long as u know that u've done nothing wrong don't worry at all.just be urself and talk to those who talk to u properly.be nice to everyone and never put ur head down.if the peoblem persists then just go to ur bf and ask him on his face the reason why he's doing all this.and if he doesn't give any reason then just tell him what u think of him for doing such things and tell him that he's been doing cheap things and all these things don't bother u at all.\n\nmake him feel like a fool.tell him that by doing this he is ruining his own dignity and not urs and tell this to everyone.\nso when u say something like this they'll definitely know that u r quite strong and they'll stop doing such things slowly.\n\nand if u don't want to do all this stuff,then just keep saying this word to urself when anyone says anything to u or whenever u remember anything they say"AKUNAMATATA"=no worries.\nmake it a habit.\n\nTRUST ME IT WORKS.\n\nhope i was of some help to u .all the best.i'm there for u always.\ngood luck.\ncontact me if u have further trouble.
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You shouldn't drive cars you don't want to take care of.  Dude, SHE'S MARRIED!!!! Not only are you allowing her to wreck her own home, you're helping her wreck it.  She's using you as a scapegoat and when you and her decide to live happily ever after, can you really feel good about the fact you got another man's wife and would you feel easy at the fact that she was married when she met you and how easy it was for her to cheat on her husband, she'll do it to you too!
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why are you so obsessed with his looks?\n\nsounds kinda selfish\n\ngo 'head, give me a poor rating i really don't care. I just pray you grow up one day and see that there is more to a person than their appearance. Especially someone you would call your "boyfriend"
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He is insecure.  Do you have a lot of guy friends?  I would recommend cutting down the time you spend with them.  If he doesn't calm down, then I would recommend ending the relationship.  You will not be able to change him.  Women like to try to change men because it is a challenge for them.  He has to change onm his own.  Maybe if he loses you he will change his jealous ways...It worked for me when my girlfriend dumped me!  I got the message!
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I would be a little inside but would try not to show it. When you're dating a guy they want to be the most special relationship to you. Hell I would get jealous if my girfriend wore a ring a female friend got her instead of the one I did. Jewelry is kinda seen by guys as a gift of romantic intrest because it's expensive and it serves no practical purpose other than looking nice. If a guy is buying you jewelry I would see it as him caring for you as more than friends. Not that that's necessarily the case but that's just how guys look at it.
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Weeell, i've been there before. it upset me a lot because he didn't just "look", he gave "several glances" to "several girls" "several times" whenever we were out.no matter what anyone says, its awful.its also absolutely rude to you.i'll guess, not only were you jealous, you felt insulted.the thing i worried most about was, if the girl and other people noticed what he was doing,they'd ask themselves why and check me out, too.maybe even feel sorry for me.i didn't like that thought one bit.i'll tell you what, there are men who are real gentlemen who wouldn't do that.if you're he's girl, he should give you undivided attention, have eyes only for you when you're together.that's what he'd also want from you.no, its absolutely normal that you're upset.i think its just really rude what he's doing.you wouldn't want to be rude enought to check other guys out infront of him, would you?although he does deserve an equal dose of his own medicine.honey, if you're beginning to feel insecure all the time, its not always because there's something wrong with you, although you can help yourself and do something about it.but most likely there is something he's doing to cause it
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I am the same way that you are, the guy I am with is the one for me as well, and we also have a baby on the way. But my jealousy and Insecurity did kind of hurt us, because things are not the same right now, and we are both trying to get back to the way we were, because we both really love each other, and do not want to lose one another, plus we want to because of the baby. I had to learn the hard way to not be that way, because he would never do anything to hurt me. So the best advice I can give you, is just dont let your jealousy get in the way, I mean it isnt going to go away, just dont let it get the best of you, because he will either change (not for the good), or he will end up leaving you. I had a bad past too, and this guy I am with is PERFECT for me, so just try your hardest to let go of your past, and tell yourself that this is your present, and can also be your future if you just let all the bad stuff go. Trust me, I do not wanna be the jealous type anymore either, but it is just something that is hard to get rid of. If he has been able to handle it this long, then he is a great guy, my boyfriend put up with it for a LONG time, but theres only so much one guy can take, so please stop while you are ahead. I hope this helps some.
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WHOA! Stick to your guns! Your gut instinct is correct. The both of you are in a very sticky situation and financially you CANNOT afford it. I think your bf is being very selfish to buy this bike. And here the both of you are mooching off your parents because you fell on your faces. Yes, I can tell you love your bf so much that you would love for him to have this bike more than anything else in the world, but he has to GROW up and be a man and take on some responsibility and STOP thinking about only one person...himself. You are now in the picture and he needs to start thinking about the future (and future with you) instead of the here and now and the obligations he has to fulfill first, such as paying off bills instead of creating more debt. So what if he doesn't have the "nicest" car in the world, if it runs and gets you from point A to point B then that's all that matters. Yes it sounds that you will probably have to replace some parts on it...but that just comes with older cars and is better than making a $500 payment on a brand new car or bike that you really can't afford anyway.\n\nYes, co-signing was a big mistake because guess what??? If either of you split for any reason at all guess who gets stuck making HALF of the payments on a bike that you will never get to utilize.....YOU! \n\nI am sorry that you have had all of this bad luck to deal with. Everyone has times where they are really down and out, this is understandable, but it is the choices you make in life to get you out of this situation that will make you stronger and a better person because of it. I suggest you have a serious talk with the bf about this bike. If he wont reason with you, maybe its time to get rid of this guy and focus on what YOU want in your life for a change. He is going to do nothing but bring you down. Live at home, pay off some debt, and get yourself back on your feet. Honestly can you imagine yourself being married to a guy who is selfish, irrational, has all this extra baggage and problems, and in some serious debt the rest of your life?? Its time to do some soul searching sista. Good luck and I hope you make the best decision for you, what ever that may be.
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He's not trying to make you jealous.  You're already jealous.  It's not your place to tell him anything about his girlfriend.  First of all, you don't even know if those rumors are true.  I know that you want something to be wrong with their relationship because you still like him.  You asked this question earlier and you didn't get the answers that you were looking for.  So you asked it again hoping that someone will make it okay for you to sweat your ex. The fact to the matter is...Your ex is in a relationship and there is nothing you can do about it.  Stop allowing your ex to flirt with you because it is only making matters worst for you.  When he flirts with you remember he has a girlfriend.  You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too.\n\nMove on and find someone else.  This relationship is over.  Don't jump on his back  for rides it only makes you look easy.  He will think that he doesn't have to get back with you because you are acting easy.  Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free? The only person that is getting hurt is you.  I bet he's on the phone right now with his girlfriend so move on.
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About your other question regarding your brother...\n\nI wish you would've left it on.\nI have a brother who I feel the same way about and we are best friends.  Don't let these goofs' jealous responses cause you to remove your questions.  You have a great brother who you are proud of and wanted to tell the world.\nPost it again....all the negative remarks are from those that are jealous and "not" intelligent.\n\nSmooches!!
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U SEEMS TO BE VERY ANGRY AT GIRLS.BUT I DO AGREE WITH YOU ALOT OF GIRLS NOW DAYS ARE VERY MATRIALISTIC WHICH IS NOT A VERY GOOD THINKING.I REALLY DONT CARE ABT WHAT KINDA CAR HE DRIVES.WHAT I CARE ABT IS HOW MUCH RESPECT DOES HE HAVE IN HIS SOCIETY WHAT IS HIS EDUCATION LEVEL IS WHAT IS CULTURE IS WHAT FAMILY VALUES DOES HE CARRY.I MEAN A FREAKIN DRUG DEALER CAN HAVE A BENZ BUT I DONT THINK SO ANY DECENT GIRL WOULD LIKE TO BE WITH HIM.SO MY POINT IS THERE ARE STILL MANY MANY GIRLS OUT THERE WHO MAY UNDERSTAND UR POINT AND WILL GIVE U A CHANCE.GOOD LUCK AND TAKE CARE.
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Aww. you stink for being jealous.. you should be better than that.. but since you're not...\n\n(This was done to me as a fun-loving pranks.. but it ruined a perfectly good picture of me and my hubby on a keychain..so be nice enough to remove any pictures first)\n\nIf he has a car...get a large empty butter bowl, a string and a pencil.. tie the string to the keys, lower into bowl half way.. tie the other end of string to a pencil so the keys stay dead center of the bowl... then fill with water and freeze..that should burst a little of his bubble of getting off of campus the next time he really wants to.  \n\n(It will take forever trying to get a solid block of ice to melt)
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i dont think a car makes a person.... big deal if he doesnt drive do u like him or the car. BE REAL if he is nice as u say it shouldnt matter.material things r not 4ever
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A car is definately something he would LOVE. I know I would. But make sure he's responsible enough to maintain the car, ya know. Insurance, registration, maintenance, and even gas. Otherwise, he's going to keep coming to you for this stuff!
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I think you need to express to him, the importance of her not being in his life as a friend or any other aspect.  The two of you need your own life, without her input.  She's only going to be biased against you because of her situation previously.  You shouldn't talk about being jealous or anything like that, just appeal to him on a more inter personal, relationship aspect level and try to get him to understand and see how that relationship betweem him and her adds absolutely NO value to him or his life now!