Well I have a bf right now and I dont know if I wanna be with him n e longer cause we fight and all that other stuff but I like this other guy I think and I wanna get him to notice me with out makeing an ass about it either but what would you do or what would you like a girl to do to get your attention?
208168
First, you need to be fair to your bf of right now. If you don't want to be with him, let him know and end the relationship. Don't keep him because you don't want to be without a bf. Then once you are single, pursue the guy you like. Start off be finding out more about him (not stalking) by asking him about himself. See if you share intersts and then just ask him to do something that you both like to do. Or just ask him out for coffee or something very casual so that there isn't pressure and just get to know each other. If something is there, the spark will ignite.
520969
if you are genuinly interested in this guy then tell him, but dont start anything untill you and your bf have broken it off. cheating is not kewl.  \nJust hang with the bro and be friends, see what comes of it.
98320
Talk about other guys and/or go on a date with another guy, and watch how he reacts to it. If he gets protective and/or jealous, it's because he likes you.
107911
her there girly ok yeah this guy is totaly in to you and i think i you like him you should smile back at him becuase i know that thats what my b-f started doing at first and i went along with it and started saying hi in the halls and now we have been going out steady for and 5 months and i am so glad....so if you like this guy at all then go for it i have faith in you girly \none girly to another girly \nlove ya \ngood luck
540625
You need to get yourself noticed by him.  Chasing him makes you seem desperate.\n\nTake a look at your wardrobe and see if you can make yourself more noticable with your clothes and the way you present yourself.\n\nI'm a guy and I can tell you one thing that entices me is when a girl becomes friends with a friend of mine and ignores me (not in a mean way though).   Try to chum up with one of his closest friends.
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Dont try to look for a bf... just make sure you associate with guys...guys can be found anywhere... but clubs and youth groups are good places to associate with guys... so ther real question is HOW to get one... \nMake your self attractive,,, not nessary hot but attractive... like but a little makeup on,,, dress with style....\ndon’t worry about trying to MAKE guys like you. There is someone always there. The more you think about it the less likely something like that will happen. This is what happened to me until 2 weeks ago and finally got my first boyfriend. Be yourself and don’t look unless you want to ask. Guys can tell if a girl just wants a boyfriend or is sincerely looking for fun.. (guys don’t like to be used either). Make sure you do talk to guys though. Just don’t be desperate and take the first guy you see (unless you like them) ....to get a real relationship you will have to actually stand the guy!!! So overall BE YOURSELF, TALK TO GUYS and HAVE FUN... (don’t just try and land yourself a boyfriend)
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Well for starters every girl loves attention so even if you ask her out and she says no, she wont mind knowing you care :)\n\nI think the whole 'I still like my other boyfriend' is just a front so she doesnt have to feel akward around you and can be herself.\n\nWhen your out with her next, go for the hand, if she likes you, you will see major sparks if not then she will just let go of yours and say something funny or nice to let go of your hand. \n\nBut I think the best and longer lasting relationships are the ones that started out as friends, So good luck mate :)
496068
If you really like her and want to be with her then tell her and maybe she feels the same... some girls keep boyfriends no matter if they like other guys because they fear ending up alone and being rejected from the new guy... so, maybe she's waiting for you to make a move... i think you should definitely go for it and if she doesn't feel the same, then break off every contact with her and try to forget about her... if she'll say yes, then great... but if she'll say no, it'll be easier for you to forget about her... because she rejected you, so now instead of liking her you might start hating her... it's better to go for it, so you won't wonder about it later of what could've happened if you went for it... so, i encourage you to tell her what's up... either way you have nothing to lose, but to gain possibly... good luck...
429896
It all boils down to you wanting attention. You want this guy to pay attention to you even though you have no feelings for him. Your jealous because the attention is not on you. You can't expect it to be about you anymore. It doesn't work like that.
400565
the guy is soo in love with u :), especially if u know he's single. u should definitely play it sweet and shyish kinda and be like: hey, um i wuz just wonderin if u were single? id like to be ur gurl...u know...\nso you will totally get it. U should just shove that wimpiness lol, out at least for that moment and talk to the guy. be his "best friend" :) so he'll be llike wanting u everyday\njust be nice,non-shy, and sway the guy...thats all hes lookin for apparently\ngood luck. u've got him ....
625460
It's a sign of your boredom, but not a sign for you to ship out... A guy gives you attention and you think you're attracted to him? hey, just because you're having a rough patch in your relationship, doesn't mean it's going downhill. Think twice. And if you have some love and respect for your boyfriend, don't hurt him that fast... afterall, he's gonna be hurt by two people he cares about, his girl and his friend... Ouch.
336243
give him the time to understand the situation, and at the same time, let him know that you're interested and really want him back, without smothering him.  Act now before the other girl can.
376420
well i think a good way to get a guy to notice you is to just be yourself. if he is the right guy for you then he will definitely notice you.
563872
you get him to notice you by just being yourself. never change who you are for someone. and if you do want to change yourself make sure its to benfit you and not someone else. you can introduce yourself to him know your interested.
93709
well if you want a guy to know you are interested these days they will get the point most easily if the girl simply flirts verbally. Talk to them, let them now you exist. Make eye contact and when you do smile sweetly. Make sure that you are consistant but yet distant about your intrest you are wanting him to notice. Give him a look that just tells him that you want him, I mean go old school and look him up and down....just checkin him out like there is no tomorrow. He should get your point really quick, especially if he is interested in you as well. If he does not make response within, I would say, no more than 2 weeks than you just need to give up that interest and move on.
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Do not just pop over with him and get their raw reaction. That might not go so well. I would break them in slow over a few weeks - start with telling them you have a boyfriend, explain how much you care about him...no details at first. Then pepper in a few hints about him that would give hints about him, then maybe put a picture up or have pictures of you and him together. Give them time to take it all in. Then bring him over so they can find out how good a guy he is.
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i would confront the guy and ask him personally if he was intrested in me, then i would probably ignore the popular girl. like you said shes probalby just jealous because youre getting all of this guys attention. and if the guy is as nice as you say he is then i would go for it, but make sure hes ready for another serious relationship so soon after a break-up.