In my high school, I am a okay looking girl and I have okay personality. But every guy wants to date a girl who they can sleep with or who they can get to sleep with easily. Otherwise, it is a total dumb girl but hot yet so bitchy towards other girls. Why is that?????
216927
Because high school guy are going through puberty and want to fulfill their fantasies. And they wanna look cool in front of their friends so they don't want someone unattractive to show to their friends.
18300
Girl trust me I do the same thing, and ask myself the same question. I finally came to realize that I don't think we do it on porpose, sometimes it just happens that way. Maybe we are afraid of being happy, or maybe we grew up in a really strict family, and we are good girls, and opposites really do attract. It's kindof like we realize that we will never be bad girls, so jerky, bad boys are what attracts us. Sometimes for me it's fun to get my heart broken so that I can be sad. You will realize though girl that in the end it's not worth it. I regret turning down good guys for jerks, cuz in the end I always lose. And a lot of times the good guys are nerdy, because since they have no looks they have to treat girl good. Maybe we are just to picky. But trust me there are good looking guys that will treat you good. Just don't give up.
316816
Usually, hot girls are also popular.  Guys prefer attractive ladies, who tend to be popular.  So it's not that they want a popular girl, they want a pretty girl.  Popularity is just an extra.
9098
wow...and again im in highschool and i DONT hang around vary many girls(talk to much crap). i have mostly guy friends and trust me they know im there! guys like girls with self confidence, so if there talking about how ugly some girl is agree with them and say "oh i know im so prettier than that person" like that other person said wear parfume and makup too! show some clevage, skirts, and or some clothes you normally dont wear! trust me girly once they see you in a skirt withsome clevage showing they diff. well notice! or just ask them if they notice anything diff. about you!
523957
You know, I am a smart person, I have always been smart, I am also very pretty. But there seen to be these guys that only want girls that want to give themselves to them. I'm not like that. But a lot of smart girls are forced to become that way because we don;t get guys, we can be the most gorgeous women in the world, but if we don;t have sex right away, the relationship goes nowhere and we are left on our butts wonder " what the hell was that?" Look beyond the most obvious, look for the inner beauty (not saying some snaggle-toothed hill billy) but look for a woman that may not be the blonde hair, blue eye buety every other man wants. You may just find the right smart, attractive woman you want.
134174
cute accent even in the writing.....well find a nicer looking girl that isnt sleeping with everyone.....you'll forget the other girl because if she is just going around in the circle do you really want your friends making fun of you....or you could just use her and sleep with her thats what american boys do alot of girls go around in the same group of friends....its quite funny thats why thank god i am out of that game...(i shouldn't say alot but alot of the ones that i know) It will eliminate the curiousity
169914
I`m going to have to go ahead and disagree with u, in my country at least, it is we the "ugly" ones who are with the gorgeous females, why because the pretty boys are so selfcentered and narcisist that they do not think about anything else.. the rest of us, are just looking to party and have a great time, u know.  Also because we really don`t care much about anything, we can say pretty much whatever the hell we like,  and that my friend turns out to be a great "FISH" ( which in slang translated means sweet talk).  SUAE
556301
you sound great! i don't know why they're such jerks...i like guys who are just friends...i'm not into that bf/gf stuff yet (i'm a teen!) i like guys who respect themselves...you sound AWESOME!!! i'm sorry that people say that kind of stuff :(
160496
She doesn't want to get the label, "Nerd", "dork", or "geek" so she acts stupid so people won't know she's smart.  I do that all the time.  I am a smart, nice girl and it's just like that saying with guys, "nice guys finish last."  The same is true with girls.  Only the stupid, flirty, gorgeous girls have lots of dates.  Us smart, nice, average looking girls have a hard time so we act dumb hoping to get the guys to notice us.
123854
It IS a guy thing. Even the most commited guys look at other girls. Maybe even sexually. If you (can) trust him, everything should be fine. Perfectly normal, all guys do it...sorry! *lol* Don't worry.
674078
Some girls like guys for their personality, and some girls like guys with looks. Some like both. Some girls look for guys who can buy them things and spoil them. Some girls go for jerks maybe because some girls like guys who treat them like crap and maybe the guy that is a jerk has good looks or money or its just their bad luck and thats why the girls choose them. But it happens. Its life and they are the ones who get hurt in the relationship. I go for personality. I go for a guy who is lay back and funny and outgoing and not a push over. Can be himself around me. Well thanks for answering my question and have freaking cool day. See ya.
161569
good for you! .. i think some quiet girls in class like me wants a good relationship and not sex\nif the girl you are with thinks that you want sex, them many you should please them more, with little simple things like noticing anything new like a haircut or an eyebrow trim, give little gifts for every holiday, invite her more to dinners or movies and take her home with a good bye kiss on the cheeck or forehead, etc.. \n\nand this doesn't mean that you are sentitive, it just that you dont like people looking at you the wrong way.\ntry to act more like a GENTLEMAN, and stop flirting with other girls
610224
You failed to mention anything about your personality. Looks are great but if YOU suck as a person then who cares about your looks. Also, don't be so egocentric. Have you considered that maybe the guys around you aren't a good match for you and that your friends might be compromising alot to tolerate the boys you all interact with.
190507
if you go to  a small school like me then what i am telling you is that guys don't want to date a girl that they have known for like a long time, they want new faces. That is why guys at other schools will date you because they don't really know you. also the guys at your school probably don't want to have to get really involved and then when they break up with you always be seeing you in the hallways and everything and it be all awkward like
397048
Those are the lamest people.. especially when they wear skin tight girl's pants. What's wrong with these guys? I'm only 22 and when I was in HS there wasn't any of this BS going around. I'm surprised some girls are into "guys" that look like girls.
311272
dont you hate that\n\nDitch her, girls wont date guys with female friends, they just get jealous, your a guy, get some action
488475
"Girls" in general don't. For sure, some do. Turn it around, "why do guys go for girls who are brainless or mean, but stacked?"\n\n'Cause shallow people, or confused people, make their decisions based on shallow or mistaken assumptions. Do you want to be with a girl who is "cute" physically but not perceptive enough to pick up on the fact that a lot of great, smart, funny, kind guys aren't gorgeous?\n\nIf so, does that make you just as shallow?\n\nYou need to widen your horizons, chum -- get out and take classes, try activities that you think might interest you, get to know some girls, make some girl friends (real friends, not "let's be friends").  Practice talking to girls and really listening to what they say, making them feel interesting (everyone wants to be thought interesting), making them want to be around you because around you is a safe, enjoyable place to be where they'll be accepted and valued as they are.\n\nMake sure some of those girls are not the babes, but girls you might actually enjoy spending time with and talking to.\n\nMight take some time to get the hang of it, but once you do, you will be swamped.