this other girl a lot and I feel like he likes her much more. He doesn't know I love him... What do I do? How can I let him know how I feel? (this is really hard for me) (the other girl is kind of sluttyish and all perky and preppy and im lik suttle and not perky and im like pretty much the opposite of her. the guy keeps telling me im pretty and beautiful and keeps saying such nice things but i think that he might just be saying that because i was crying because i love him so much that it hurts.)
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Wow maybe you should try  give him some comments back when he tells you something nice! believe me we man like a lady in the streets but a freak in in the sheets so dont try to compete with the slutish. ask him wats he doing on the weekend or somting  then said something like you want to go see ice age2 or something see if he invites you. if that dont work then you should try to talk to him and let him know how you feel if that dont work\n leave him alone for while see wat he does if then let it go!
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First, sorry that first guy didn't feel the same.  Second, why did your friend say that to the second guy?  If you like this second guy as a friend, then his reaction shouldn't matter, he's your friend.  But to answer your question, it sounds like he feels like you do.  He is your friend.  Your friend is causing problems by asking this second guy.  My advice would be to approach the guys you like and not your friends do it for you.  It may be tough, but then you will know for sure.  It will make you a stronger person.  Good luck, there are a lot of fish in the sea.
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he is trying to tell u that he likes this other girl instead of u in a non hateful way. that's all there is 2 it. ur rite he should have told u some thing, but he should be the one to make the move, but if he's too lazy 2, then u have to ask him "whats going on with us?" or something like that, \n\ngood luck!\n\n~heather~
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the situation you're in is kinda confusing but if you already told him about how you feel (and i think that was really brave) and he juz smiled at you and didnt tell you what you expected to hear than i guess he's not as into you as you are with him. he smiled at you coz he doesnt want to be rude. it'll be tough coz you really like him (love him even) but you gotta move on i think. you deserve better. tc
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Sounds like he gets your pulse racing.  Love to hear about those feelings.  Im jealous.  All that aside, So you like him and he likes you, whats the problem?  Oh, the girl...that could be a problem if she doesnt know about your bisexuality.  I don't see anything wrong unless someone might get hurt...hhhmmm.
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it's about power of control to see who the weaker sex is and guess what girl you lost and he's laughing at you for being this way. ( get over him and move on find another boyfriend and have him to kick his ass  and tell him to stay the hell away from you for now on, you got it ) don't let him make you feel any less than you already feel and don't show anymore feelings toward him after this. ! sorry to sound Harsh but guys like that make me sick too !
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ask him what the hell is his problem, he ask you a favor then this is what you get from it. one more thing , the girl says yes so what is he cramming about. i think he is making a way to make you jealous. maybe ur the one he likes
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Honey, all i can say is.. take some time with him.. not enough soo other girl will become suspecious. Im sorry to say that but, you know you cant do anything about it... like going to him and saying hang out with me more.. or some thing like that.. last thing you want is both them not talking to you.. but i got to say, be happy for him girl!!! if you think he likes her more.. then thats o.k. you just know he  has not forgotten about you girl. He still knows you, not like your out of his life.. he wants to hangout with you too.. just do this.. give him some space for a while.. and things will be ok.. life goes on.. and we cherish the moments we had with another.. i promise you that doll face.. nothing we do or happens to any of us in the world can be changed from our minds.. it is always there which keeps us moving on in life.... having a family.. kids... house.. it never stops.. just be happy you know him now, and that he knows you... try asking him to like hangout with you.... see what he feels about it.. he can choose who he wants to be with.. if things dont go well between you two... dont worry.. cant express that enough.. its not your fault if he makes a decision you dont like..\n\nHope it works out for best of you anne\nSincers\nShawn Miller\nToronto, Ontario
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Hey:\nI understand just how he feels. I have this friend that "sweet" talks and when I turn around he gets beat up by another girl.\n\nThis is the answer. You hook him up with someone. Tell him how funny, sensitive or sweet he is with another girl to make her go out with him. You'll see how that will change in anything.\n\nAnother is that find a beautiful girl who matches him. Who has a lot in common with him. That would work just fine. \n\nAnother one is that make him go out with a girl that likes HIM. That will help even more.\n\nWhen it doesn't work in one of them, cheer him up.\nWell, nice writing.
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Frankly, this guy seems like a bit of a jerk. I mean, how could he ask YOU for love advice concerning another girl when he knows how you feel towards him ?? !! ??\nPlease forget about him and find someone your own age.
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THIS IS NOT AN EASY SUBJECT!! FIRST HE NEEDS TO ASK HISSELF WHAT HE WANTS FROM HER A FRIEND OR A GF! CAUSE ONCE YOU CROSS THAT LINE ITS HARD TO GO BACK. AND HE DOESNT NEED TO FORGET ABOUT THE GF HE HAS RIGHT NOW. WHAT IF HE LOSES HER AN THE OTHER GIRL DOESNT HAVE THE SAME FEELINGS FOR HIM. BE CAREFUL IF YOU ARE GIVING THIS PERSON ADVICE. SOMEONE COULD GET HURT!!!
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Interesting, you should have mixed feelings. Of course you are going to feel terrible but his comments to you should make you feel a bit better. Some people live in dark when they are infatuated with someone.
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I think that you should both wait till you can both sort your feelings out. It looks like there is something on his mind that he doesn't wanna hurt you wdith or he has a girlfriend and he doesnt want her to know that his feelings are diverted to somewhere else!!
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Have a talk with this guy, find out why he says he loves you because this guy sees something with in you that this guy likes about you. Give this guy some reason why you don't feel the same.Tell him you don't feel comfortable  with hime following you. Tell him could be friends get to know more about each other [ likes- dislikes ] Tell him you are not intrested in him at the present time. who knows maybe in the future a relation ship could develope between you two.
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maybe if you arent the shy type tell the girl that got made fun of that it wasnt you who made fun of her and that you told her that you told the other guy to shutup. trust me a girl likes the feeling that she is being protected like that. and for the other girl that you like like. i think you should tell her your real feelings for her.hope it helps
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Well it seems 2 me that both of them really like you, the second one more than the first. In fact from what you have said about both of them i wud say that this second guy may just be in love with you but may be scared that you dont feel the same way. Talk to them both and see where you stand. Be careful though because if im right... then youre goin to have a choice to make
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If you love your boyfriend then how can you love another?Sounds like to me that you have not figured out what real love is.Also does he tell you that he cares for you just to hit the booty?Remember that men love to have more than one on the side.And if he cares for you so much,why is he still with his girl?