alrighgt ..u can say im a hoe or whatever but i really dont like to settle down..i like the fact of bein single..i dont really want to get all caught up in thaat musshy musshy sh*t..i mean ive loved B4 and i was hurt...and i think maybe thats why i dont wanna go through it again...am i wrong by that or what.....???????
201749
No you are not wrong . . . I wished there were more girls like you.
606434
maybe cuz you wanting a serious relationship is the problem..thats scaring them away..most guys dont want a serious relationship..that scares them...guys like freedom to do whatever..and i mean whatever they want to do..they dont want to answer to no body..they dont want no body all up in there bussiness and so on..they dont want to wake up knowin they got a girl and they got another girl they intersted in and they think of the things they CANT do juts because they have a girlfriend..you know waht im saying? guys arnt ready and they dont want to be ready for a realtionship..i been through it..seen it ..done it..my ex was the same..i guess he wasnt ready for a relationship..nor a serious relationship at that..find somebody that wants the same thigns you want..find somebody thats willing to give just as much as you're willing to give.maybe being too nice and too leinent is a problem also..good luck..hope i helped..im too much of a nice perosn..i bend over backwards to make sure my boyfriend is happy and it doesnt seem to work out either for me..like in the end im the one hurt..so i dont know girly..whats meant to be is meant to be..theres somebody else out there.you're being prepared..there only lessons..things you learn from it..so you think positive..say "it was nice while it lasted"..you take from it what you take from it and move on..theres someone out there worth your while..love will come when its time and then your heart will heal
267966
i know how you feel b/c i can never stay with the same person for a long time. the guys talk about what ever and dont care about me or what i think. if your were a nice guy who did care, i probably could get attached
287961
I have to agree with Y Stroke 28. I think its a blast to be single, going out with girlfriends, partying, and just having a really good time. However, I think it does get a little old, and eventually you want that person to come home to, or like y stroke 28 said, just having that companionship of knowing someone really cares about you. I on one hand would like to get married, and eventually have children someday, so I really do not want to stay single for too long. I love to be single, but it does get old to me. But I don't think being single is a bad thing...I just like to know that I have someone to care about and share things with...and cuddling!\nGood Question!
278491
If you have to ask, you know the answer.\nGive yourself a bit of time, there's nothing wrong with being single and there is a lot wrong with going from one man to another willy nilly just to avoid being alone.\nEspecially since your commitment level is already not the deepest.... I mean, really, how much are you really willing to invest if you give up on a guy you were prepared to marry as soon as trouble hits?\nBe solo a while, hang out with friends, date casually, when you're ready for a real relationship, you'll know.
620728
Well, when someone says they settled for whatever type of relationship they are in is because they can not be alone and have no respect for themselves or their partner. It's one of those situations that solves being lonely quick. In the long run unfortunately does not work out and the one that settled is the one that is regretting and feeling at a loss...
481009
I think that is a fabulous idea. I believe everybody needs love, but timing is very important. I am a very independent person. I didn't want to be one of those needy or high maintenance chicks that had to have someone to take care of them. It turns out that guys really dig people like me and you usually stumble on love when you least expect it or when you aren't even looking. I think you should focus on studies now. Pamper yourself once in a while, and just be happy with yourself...the rest will fall into place.
623025
have a break girl.. think of other stuff, you love life while sort itself out.......cupid will turn up when you least expect it .... your soul mate is out there be patient.... hope you find some one really nice soon
609343
The good news is that time is on your side. So you'll surely get over it.\nOne way to speed things up a little, could be if you focus your memory on all the things that you didn't like and that made you upset.\nAnother good way of making it easier, is to go out and see all the others who are looking for a relationship themselves.
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no, cute gal you are not crazy it is HUMAN NATURE, matters of the heart!!!\n\nI am so happy you acted responsible with this situation it could of costed you time and emotional scars and we all know that is very hard to clear up or face yourself when you are emotionally a reck. \n\nbut what you have did is very important to all mankind you listen and stayed true to yourself, you know what you want and this tells me  you are on the path to getting it!!! \n\nnever accept less, you deserve the world you have to know and acknowledge that first, then others will give to you!!!\nthey can't handle you in any way unless you allow it.\n\nyou will get over this person and be on to the next. \nstay in control!!!
39497
Relax girl, you're still young. Enjou your single life now ....chill~
516871
Yes..i just don&#92;'t want...!\nIf you are single or going throught a break up and you are looking and need someone, please visit my site, join free and start dating:\nhttp://tinyurl.com/ykj7bm
625277
Well it seems to me that you are an insecure person and you suround yourself with people who are equally insecure as yourself.  Because to you it's easy that way.  It's easy to live unchallenged and it's easier for you to just take what is offered.  When you don't like a situation that you are in you have to figure out how your gonna change it.  The first step is too stop taking advantage of other ppl especially if they let you because they are just as lost as you are and you will surely never find your way.  The next step is to work on being comfortable with yourself.  You have to be by yourself to do that. I would suggest that you stop dating or having any type of romantic relationship because nobody will ever be able to appreciate you if you don't even appreciate yourself. And then , after all that is worked out, you find a good secure, honest, independent woman, that isn't gonna let you fall back into your usual routine.  After that i can't say it will all be wonderful, but at least you know its something that you want instead of something that's just there. Godd luck!
207371
Don't be with someone because your friends are married, or your relatives are married or the what not.  Be with someone because you LOVE them and want to be with them.  If you don't feel that way about a person, you're better off not being with them so that they don't get hurt in the long term.  \n\nAs a chronically single person, I can tell you that there is nothing wrong with not being with someone.  I've had probably what seems, at least to me, the worst luck in the universe, and if it isn't, then I'd hate to meet the person who has had worse.  I am very unsure that I will find my soulmate some days.  \n\nI'd like to tell you that you're just looking in the wrong place or that some day you'll just get completely and totally swept off your feed.  I wish that for you, as I wish that for me, but nothing is certain in this world.  \n\nIt is your life.  You should do what you think makes you happy.  If you want to take a break from dating, do it.  There's nothing wrong with showing up alone to places or just being happy with your life as it is.  There's no shame in realizing that a relationship with a guy ain't gonna make you happy in the long term.  \n\nBecause, if you do find your true love, he will give you that spark.  \n\nBest of luck and best of wishes.
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i know how u feel...it sux putting in that much time and winding up where u were before u met her....my best advice is to go out and meet new people...go to the mall, bar, library, or even a grocery store...but whatever u do dont jump into another relationship just to fill the void u have now...
435429
Move on.  Life is too short to waste your time & your heart on someone who does not value you enough to be honorable & to be truthful.  You should value yourself enough not to waste your time on someone who is out shopping around for something better than you.  You cannot get upset if you choose to play stupid because you will be "settling" & this is what you can expect for the future.  Cut your losses while you are ahead.  Move on.
355157
I've been there, and I've found that waiting for at least date 3 to have sex seems to work a lot better than hooking up on date 1!! I've never had a serious relationship develop out of a one-night stand. I'm not saying this will be the case with you, but maybe it's time to move on and save yourself the confusion. Clean slate and all.