My Best Friend is so boring Iam quite poplular in school people say I could have a cooler best mate but I like her and we have just become greater friends but she will still never start a talk with me me it drives me mad if we want to do some together I have to call her she'll never call me she will just sit at home and do nothing!Help Me please I dont want to hurt her feeling?
206419
well every best friend have a unique quality to them. i have a best friend shes always enjoying her self and don't always take thing seriously, me on the other hand i always take things serious ly yes I'm the boring one but i got her to make every thing exciting and me to calm things down at a certain time. best friend are not suppose to be the same.\n\n\nyou can tell her just make sure if you really enjoy your friendship with her it wont mess things up.
310741
As difficult as this seems it is really quite easy. A best friend, the way i see it, it someone who you enjoy spending time with. More than any other friend. If you hang out with others more than your so called "best friend" than they really arent your best friend anyway.
85616
I had the same problem. my friend of 6 years kept getting really jealous over my friend of just 2 months. Every time she came close my friend would jump in and pull me away. Not only that she was very close knit. I mean when ever she introduced me to someone she would say "MY BEST FRIEND". It got a little annoying when she wanted me to do the same. It got really bad when she started to make fun of my other friend. That's when I told her, hey listen, you have been my best friend so all these years. And if you think that she is going to steal me away from you, then you must not trust me enough, do you really think i am going to drop you after so many years together? I told her that if i wanted to stop being her friend I would have stopped, but I'm still here. I think you should just tell it to her straight, and if she doesn't believe you, that's her fault.
652264
well i try and be with her most of the time and "pretend" to be her best friend u no... go out of my way to do things for her buy her gifts and stuff, take her out and talk to her alot! then i sart dropping hints like hypothetic questions for ex: "what would i do if i should ask u out?" and see what she has to say!
370174
Well remember, ur friend will always be there for u but guys come and go. If u end up w/him and eventually "u will" break up- odds are. Then what? u don't have him and ur best friend has found another. Let me tell u, I had a very best friend in high sch. and we were inseperable 1 day another friend of mine says;tell her or I will! Sooooo.. my frined say's I F*****-John (my bf) I was heart broken! she almost laughed. She was my best friend!? what the hell? but now he ended up being a loser and she ended up w/3 kids to 3 diff guys and she's w/none. I am married 16 yrs w/2 kids and happy. I know u didn't need to hear my life story but u got it anyway. Chose ur friend! plenty of guys will come along later. Don't b a friend like mine was to me.
123504
As long as you & your best friend know that you are best friends with each other, its all good.\nThis girl is probably just lonely & wants a best friend, or she could just be trying to cause trouble.\nEither way, just ignore what she says & tell your best friend to do the same & eventually this girl will see that what she's doing is pointless & she will go away.
403418
Your best friend cuz she sounds like a jerk. \n\nBut think about it, becuz if you dump her, then if your boyfriend dumps you, your left with nothing.
25679
hey girl if ur are her best friend she don't want this from u it dosn't matter if she has boy and u don't the thing is try give more time to ur friend ship talk to ur girl hang with her like always and try to find some thing u can do not to be lonly when she is not around i been there honey and i think the problem start when they don't have time for ur frindship so try to make time for each other
534724
OK well first off this is so typical of high school girls and their friends.I am asuming that you are in high school? Next you need to give her a little room to figure this out. She knows that you will always be there for her. That's what BEST FRIENDS are for. Right now it seems the boyfriend is her whole world, but not to worry she will not forget you. Keep on keeping in touch with her, even if it is frustrating to you. Maybe once or twice a week send her an e-mail or a quick phone call. Ask her if you could get together for a girls night maybe a movie or just hang out alone together. Tell her how important it is to you. Good Luck!! Hope it works!!
23081
these things have a way of working out. trust me. Its possible to still be best friends with everyone and still be attracted to one of them. Your other friend is just going to have to accept that PEOPLE fall in love with each other especially if they r close. That means if she is your really your friend u r going to have to tell her what's happening she deserves it. maybe you're going to have to make some "rules" for all this to happen. just remember theres nothing wrong with love
185244
Why not. If you are open with your communications right now, she may be shy about telling you how she feels about you too. And let her know that no matter how she feels about you, you still want to be her friend. Some of my best friends are guys who love me, but they are more like brothers or close friends to me.
299208
best to just do it mate! ask her to go somewhere with you after school or organise a group of u to go to movies or shopping or something.  hopefully you can move around to get a minute alone with her and just tell her how you feel.  Or you could do the chicken way and tell her best friend how you feel and ask them for advice- they usually know everything abou their friends, and will tell them what you say too..so make it romantic and get her on your side!
303961
well if she is your best friend she would beleive you and trust you, so in my opinion she ain't your bestfriend all she is doing is making you believe she fells the same about you, it can also be she needs to blame someone but she has no one else to be angry with.
164330
You can try the back door method.  By this I mean if she considers you like her best freind then don't best friends go out and see movies, go for sodas, take a ride to the beach and so forth?  YOu just do it that way.  \nCall her and ask what she's doing and if nothing, then ask her to go with you.  "Well, friend, I'm bored, you've got nothing to do, how about catching a movie tonite,"  "How about we go an get an ice cream and break up the bordom,...."\n\nLike that.  You never know where it could end up.  She may suddenly after days, weeks or months decided that she really does have feelings other than strictly friend feelings towards you.  YOu know, in order for any relationship to happen, you must first be friends...then the rest comes......................Hope this helps
93754
If your best friend says about you smth. like that----HE (or SHE)IS Not your friend.Real friend will stick up for you.I know that it sounds awfull,but that`s life and you can`t change it.Still there are some good people,it just that it`s difficult to find them.\nWish you luck!!!:)))
247926
Well, it is hard to talk past those butterflies and the lump in your throat.  Calm down and take a breath....relax dude.  When you talk to her next time, try not to get all bent up about who you are talking to.  Pretend you are talking to your best friend, it will get easier from there.
546579
Your old friend is probably feeling betrayed by you.  She thought that she was doing a good thing by being nice to the 'new girl' and in turn has lost her best friend.  \n\nyou probably need to make it known that she still means as much to you as before and that you dont want another person to come between you.  Good luck and let me know what happens