I am a guy, i am not gay, yet i have femine feature, i have decided to change the way i portray myself in the outside, but not change my personality.  So how does a guy act?  What can i do to act more like the guy i am?
203935
just be who u are. Stop trying to change yourself.
249719
if i traded places with a man i would just sit back and laugh do you really think a man could handle being a woman.  and i'd hope it was that time of the month too. lol\n\nno way a man could handle being a woman.\n\nsee would have answered your question if i saw it.
204471
Guys might wear makeup for all kinds of reasons, that might have nothing to do with their being gay.  Some guys are transvestites, dressing up like women but still being straight men.  Some men want to be women, and they are transsexuals.  There's a whole host of transgendered men who are straight but have whatever alternative gender (not sexual) identities who like to wear makeup for whatever reason.  Some men just love David Bowie, some men are just fashionable and like to look cool, none of this makes them gay.  Of course, some gay men do wear makeup, and they might be fashionable, or they might be drag queens.  \nBut on to your question of why?  It has actually nothing to do with chromosomes, it's just because it's the way they are, it's what they like, and it makes them happy.
476969
Set your goals in a more appropriate order.  Guys are fun.  Focus on having guy friends first and try hard to not put any expectations beyond that.  You'll find that guys love to have girls to pal around with.  As this works for you, you'll learn to lighten up and not put so much emphasis (and your self esteem) on having a guy like you.  You'll have guys like you - certainly as a friend at first.
666966
A gay accent? That's a new one. You mean gay mannerisms? I'd be you'd be surprised to look around you and find out how many men who act "normally hetero" are really gay.\n\nWhy would you be so angry about someone's mannerisms? You might want to lay off the red meat. Sounds like you have too much testosterone.  \n\nSpare me the insulting IMs too.
170272
It has to be an ego thing. I have noticed that most guys dont show how they feel, ever. They hide most everything about themselves. Its got to be a derivitave from the "boys dont cry " way of thinking.
344752
Some guys act exactly like that, some don't. \n\nIt's impossible to generalise.
617722
Only young boys or men who have yet learn to grow up, do this little game that is why you learn not to get too serious until they grow out of it. \n\nIt is a fact that males and females behave differently pending on who is around. when a female is around the guy she likes and other guys are around a greater chance the guy will act like a jerk and when a guy is around a female and other females are around she will act like she is snotty. when males and females mature they improve and many act the same with or without their friends and some don't. \n\nThere is only one way that I know of that you can see how a young person truly is and that is how they behave around their mother.
129476
guys are different some like a girl wisth a huge butt,some big/small breasts,some eyes....and l tell you something now...that those are the cheap dudes...a real man will like areal woman...with a great personality filled with elegance,and care,love,funny...a woman who edifies a man.not the other way round...a woman is made beautiful with her personality....its very important.
215995
1.  I never have to experience getting kicked in the balls.\n2.  As a woman, I can wear guys clothing without being considered a homo.\n3.  I'm not always expected to pick up the check on dates.\n4.  I don't have to put up with emotional women in my relationships.\n5.  The fact that I am short and skinny isn't going to be something that people make fun of me for.\n\n(Modification: I changed my third answer from my ability to hit members of the opposite sex to what it is now)\n\n(Additional modification: Aww heck, I can think of a lot of reasons why I'm glad I'm not a man... I'll probably be thinking of them all day!  Another one would be that I don't have to bend over and spread my buttcheeks during physicals, nor do I have to cough while someone is grabbing my balls)
344497
My advice to you is to always be yourself - no matter the circumstances. Never you try to be someone else. You may not know this - but some guys are just there appreciating you as you are - a cool headed nice gurl. Maintain whatever virtues you're endowed with. Great advice I think that is. Cheers!
241061
Girl, don't try to be something u are not, be yourself, if they like u, cool, if not don't worry about it. u will find a guy that will like u for u. DON'T EVER CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY FOR A GUY. I'm sure u are a smart pretty young lady and when that special guy come around, u will know because he will be interested in the real u and not the person u are trying to be to get along with the other guys.....good luck!
366596
I found that I get a great response from a man when I act dumb.\n\nBesides, it's known that men like to care for women too, we build up your macho when we do that..so why not?
308034
I don't even pretend to like it...not for a guy not for anyone. If they can't like you for who you really are then they aren't worth your time anyway. Don't put on an act for anyone...be yourself and be happy:)
225445
Femininity and masculinity come with different angles. It is actually the aspects of feminity and masculinity, not sloely the presence of either that makes the attractiveness of a person. Actually these labels are TOO comprehensive and are not person-centered. If one really thinks about it, a drag queen can be a total butch queen they are not painted. I have met a few who are. Also, a guy who likes "guy things" can have some truly "girly" features. In essence there are many hybrids in the gay community just as there are queens and butch men. So, I have to speak from the level that it truly the balance of two people that makes it work and not the ambiguities of external qualties. In our community, they can be overly portayed and very misleading. Therefore its the deeper balance of internal virtues that makes you TRULY appreciate a person, however you must look past what I call "acute attraction" to see them. As always, it takes effort. Yet what i understand is there is a dimmension of experience, needs, emotional wavelengths (as well as change) that makes gay men and lesbian women WHO THEY ARE. These things fit into their "eyes of atraction". What they need is very much different, because as people they ARE different than opposite-sex partners. Although I can find a woman atttactive, I know beyond a shadow of a doubt, I can NEVER have the kind of relationship with a woman beyond being a friend, as I do not like to take leadership and would rather be told what I should do. Therefore, for that very reason, I chose a realtionship with an older man who is 25 years my senior and it has proven to work. We have been togther for almost 2 years now. Where I am physically atracted to guys in thier 20s, for the very same reasons, a realtionship with another guy my age would also likley not work for me. Would an older woman guide me like he has while allowing me to help him? I cant say for sure no, but I can almost suspect that the balance would just not be there. It is so much more than whats in the underwear, so much very much more.
353711
i'm a tom boy and i always seem to get a lot of guys, be a little flirty but subtle and not obvious, be a really nice and respectful person, be their friend and flirt so they know there's room for more than friendship, i love having guy friends so work on that first.  You've got to be confident cause that what attracts them, if you act like all you want is a bf then you're not going to find the right one.
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You're transgendered, and that rocks.\n\nTranssexuals are people who feel such discord between their inner selves and their physical bodies that they need to modify such with hormones and surgery so that they match.  They usually identify as one sex or the other, and stick with it.\n\nTransgenders, on the other hand, usually identify as either both sexes, neither sexes, a 'third sex', or just a general mixture of masculine and feminine qualities.  They fly against traditional gender roles.  Even if they call themselves women or men, they are not masculine men or feminine women- they flirt with the other side (hence the 'trans', the crossing over of boundaries, in 'transgender').  It's a fantastic way of being, and I hope you enjoy it!\n\nP.S.- since when are the Muppets girly?