I've had a crush on her for a while and simply got sick of being on the side-lines. Did I make the right call?
216361
Keep trying man, but don't push things, just try to talk to here in the more relaxed way possible, like you didn't care about her, and pay attention to what she says, then you could discover what she likes and then start talking about what she likes. This should help you, it it doesn't, move on, there are always other girls.
95310
i sincerely hope you speak better than you type, because that was cryptic at best.\n\nto put it bluntly, you sound like an over-sensitive wuss who's far too obsessed with someone 1/2 your age. if i were in her place, i wouldn't call you back either.
521272
You have it bad for her.  If she liked you, she would have went out with her when you asked her!  Seems like you need to get her out of your system!  It she wanted to go out with her and you asked her, she would no doubt let you know that she was willing to go out with you now!  It seems like you need to get real and forget her!
490215
Well- you have honestly already messed things up for you and her to have any kind of serious relationship.  You have shown her how selfish you are by not listening to her when she was trying to vent to you about an ex.  The next thing you messed up with is not telling her that you liked her.  Do you really think she was happy about hearing that you really didn't like anyone?  You had the perfect oppurtunity to get on her "good" side and say "yeah- I really like you!"  So far you have shown her that you don't care about her feelings and that you lie.  Do ya think she might realize you are using her as a sex object instead of a person with feelings???  Good luck!
505221
wow that is a really tough one to answer, i think shes interested in you, but if you really want her then i personally would lay low for awhile just to make sure, now that you've made your point of hanging out with her and stuff, I really think you should back off to see her true feelings\n\nHope everything works out!!
400652
Well my man...you could not have handled this any worse. She talks to you and asks if you would like to study together. You assume from that it must mean she wants to be your girl. Girls do not want to be responsible for directly hurting guys. So by not calling back she was telling you she wasn't interested . But in your hot  pursuit you did not get that.\n\nBy calling all the time you made it clear to her you were desperate. No girl wants or needs a desperate boy and not much will chase them off sooner. And man you were desperate.\n\nFrom the beginning you blew it. You had her number. You were going to study together. \nMan what more could you ask for huh? Well you wanted her as a girl friend in the worse way so you really pushed yourself on her.\nThis not only turns a girl off she runs from it. You have to get her interested before you can be her boyfriend. And you must know how to do that.\n\nSo what should you have done. Took the number. Called only when it was time to study. While studying, while you were together, you get to know each other. You begin to develop some social value with her and when and if, only if, the time is right you could make your move.\n\nHave you ever heard of this phrase? The worse you want it the worse you will get it.  Guess what....you are living proof that this phrase is correct.\n\nBack off.....find another girl to study with and this time do it right.
410620
I think you should hear it from her before you move on. Who knows, maybe she likes you. Good luck and ther's plenty more girlz out there, don't worry, you'll find the right one! :)
7352
No, you shouldn't especially if you had strong feelings for her.  I recently broke up with a guy I've been dating for almost 3 months.  He wants to continue the friendship but I told him no, not this time.  I said maybe later when I'm completely over him, and it will all sort of happen by itself if we're meant to be friends.  Good luck.
402245
Sounds like she was interested, and waiting for you to make a move. When you didn't she decided to change tactic and see if she gets a reaction out of you with her current behaviour.\n\nTell her how you feel and if she doesn't feel that way, it's not like you lost anything.
9371
When you are turned down by a gal, it is time to move on.  Consider that she has done you a favor.  You would not want to spend your life with a woman who does not share a special chemistry with you.  She may tell her friends because by asking her you paid her a very high compliment.  Love can rekindle but she would have to make a direct move to give you (not her friends) a signal.  Many seniors who both lose mates, find and marry their high school sweethearts; perhaps both have matured enough in the passing years to re-discover that they "missed a good thing."  Good luck.
103484
Perhaps you are taking away the "thrill of the chase" for her.  Try not to show your interest in her for a while - call once a week, visit her once every couple of weeks, keep everything friendly, don't profess your love for her.  After a while, she'll start to miss the person who was always right there - YOU!
62013
don't hook back up with her again, I have a feeling shes just playing the "I wonder" game. Dont let her put you through another long, heartbreaking year! I say go for one of the other girls you mentioned, but please dont hold back your feelings just because that girl hurt you, we all should get a fresh new start with each other right, good luck.
112339
That's a tough call.  She could have just been making polite conversation.  I have done the exact same thing.  But then on the other hand, it could have been an opening line for you to make "the next move."  Sorry I can't help you any better.
330464
You have to make the move. You wont get anywhere in any aspect in life if you do not take risks. Chances are she still has some feelings for you. Tell her how you feel before its too late...or atleast ask her to hang out or go to coffee or maybe to something you used to do together. You HAVE to talk to her. If you are just trying to attract her do subtle things that remind her of when you were together but either way you have to show/tell her that you are interested again. Follow your heart!
272382
No, I don't think you made a mistake! However, her response sounds to me like SHE has issues - it doesn't mean yes, or no - in other words, she is undecided. I can't tell from that, whether or not you should pursue this...that has to be your decision. Good luck with whatever you decide (at least she was honest with you!)
339826
sure, call her, what have you got to lose, she can only say yes or no, right, but a little bit of advise, that you didn't ask for, lol, i don't recommend that you wear your heart on your sleeve as you are doing, you may get hurt, an you sound like a nice fellow, sometimes girls will take advantage of a nice guy.anyway, good luck an have fun if you two do go out!!
404683
What????? Talk about a run-on sentence, geez!\nNow your speaking my language..... Anyways, yes. It is normal for you to change your mind about wanting to be with someone. It's especially normal if you find out things you didn't already know initially about this person. Ever heard, "The grass is always greener on the other side." ? Of course you have, it's a popular saying. My point is that sometimes you are attracted to someone when they no longer want you. The reason for that is probably because the ball is no longer in your court. In other words, you like the feeling of being in a position to turn someone down, or accept them. Once they no longer care about you, YOU in-turn actually get a feeling of rejection! Aren't humans strange????? P.S. Why did you feel it was necessary to give me a "thumbs-down" just because I pointed out the fact that your question was a run-on sentence? I wasn't trying to be rude, sorry....