i am black and i am so ashamed to say that i cant even shake a lil a.ss to save my life. any tips on learning how to? videos? etc?
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I don't know either.  Somebody, answer-I have this on my watch list.
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first let me tell you that alot of blacks are scared of black people too...it's not a bad thing like you think the only thing that you need to do is stop listening to all the negative things those around you have to say and take the time to get to know some black people...just a few at a time in a mixed crowd...before to long you'll begin to realize that we are people just like you, and just like all races, there are good ones and there are bad ones...just give me a holla if you ever have any more questions...
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That is so admirable that you were able to persevere in that situation.  I would like to thank you for fighting racism in the most productive way possible.\n\nI am white, but I too have experienced racism.  My best friend is black, and many people assumed that we were dating.  There were many people who would not talk to me or even look at me- mostly black women and white men.\n\nAnother time, I asked my neighbor (black) to turn down his music because we could not hear the TV in our own apartment.  One of the guys came out and called me a "white c*nt" and said that if he were listening to country I would not mind the music and several other mean and disrespectful things.  He had me cornered and I was not able to get away.  As soon as I got into my apartment and locked the door, I started crying.  I cried a little because of fear, a little out of anger, but mostly because of the extreme display of how much hatred one person can show to another with the smallest provocation.\n\nRacism is an ugly thing.  I think that it weakens our country more than terrorism ever could.  It's like a virus from the inside whereas terrorism is like an attack from the outside.  I long for the day when we all call ourselves Americans instead of black, white, or whatever.
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I've been accused of it.  Always speak quickly, with a sense of urgency, like you're going to be late, or you just HAVE to get it all out.  Not so fast that you stumble, just more quickly.  Then make your R's soft, sorta roll an R into an l.  Like Saying York like Yalk.  See if it helps.
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My best friend and i tried this one recently. A  backwards kick will do the trick. I speak from painful experience!
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do it, try practicing on a banana first, it takes only a few times till u get used to ur gag refelex or just lay on ur back and let him stand on top of u.
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PRACTICE, i know uve heard it a million times.By now you expect yourself to stammer. you are going to need to do alot of talking to yourself practice getting it right when theres no audiance, plan what u are gonna say and pactice just being able to get it done. then mov on to publick stuff, MAKE yourself speak up in groups. and remember that everyone has problems, you arent gonna get thr over night, but one of the best publick speakers ive ever heard STAMMERED a little during his speach, i met him aftrward, and he said about what you said in your question. it had been a life long struggle for him too.
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open your arms wide and turn in a circular motion ... ull get dizzy ..bt with practice ull get better ...... :) If they loved ur breez they will keep u .... if not they will pull u down :)
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Smile :) Be loud :0 And sharp. Practice in front of a mirror so you can make sure your motions are right and sharp. Slopy motion will make it so you won't make it. Perform any tricks you can like jumps, handsprings and cartweels.\n\nGood luck
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dont worry about what you can't do because you won't be able to learn how to do a lay-up  by tommorw. So concentrate on what  your best skills are, like if your really fast or if you have a good shootling touch. Have confidence in what you can do and don't worry about what you can't.
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First, don't panic, just keep doing what you were doing.\n\nSecond, you have been doing this all of your life, it should not be that hard to figure out what you need to do, shake it or wipe it, depending on your position.
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Races other than blacks & whites need to step up & make some noises. Black people wouldn't have gotten this far without speaking up on prejudice & racial injustice. It's worth dying for.
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Scream a lot and whisper a lot. Those both stress your voice a ton. lol That's a funny question though! Good luck!
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Look sweetheart don't trip, just go with the blows. Its always something wherever we go. No one will ever understand completely the pressures we face each and everyday living as black Americans. Its all ignorance if you ask me. Never let anyone move you from your comfort. If that job is producing your comfort at home, Milk that job for all its worth of all its knowledge, and paychecks and one day soon start your own Company. I know its hard, but learn to adapt to that work force environment. Its the only way to get ahead.
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Dude, be yourself.  Always shake as you feel.  Don't get caught up in any power games.  A firm and friendly shake will always take you farther than an over-the-top clamp, whether you are male or female.
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seriously practice alot it in front of the mirror. tilt forward a wee bit and remember to keep loose and to not get too rigid in the knees. also watch michael on you tube. he's amazing
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I would suggest on stocking up on plenty of gorilla glue(krazy glue) and glue your thies together cause a big black chick named Big Bertha is going to be your new best friend in cell block d but hey look on the bright side look at how much you will learn while serving time. LMAO