i dont know but i get bored when my gf wants me 2 talk alot with her or meet here alot or being with here alot \nis that wrong or what ??
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it is not wrong... i get bored with men like that too.  I just need my own space.
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The answer is:\n\nIt's not the amount of time that you should be focused on. It's the quality of time. If you have a fantastic time with each other whenever you are together, then you are in good shape. \n\nOtherwise it's not like she will like you less if you spend more time with her etc. If she say otherwise, then it's usually some other hidden reasons. Watch out.
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I dont see the problem...You really cant habe too much sex,I just cant have enough too and so does my woman,we enjoy,every minute,every position,every kinky detail!But the thing is that we're together for almost 7 years,how long have you been together for?When(if) the lust evaporates,suddendly one of you will get suspicious.Is she/he seeing someone else?is he/she getting bored?If you work your way around it youll be fine but questions that are oftenly asked,and seldomly answered could harm your relationship.
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talk about tis openly to ur gf cos must b that she cant understand u or u might be getting 2 much possessive abt her.  give her some space ok, cheer up
444216
Are you the  guy? If so, she talks to you because she needs that to fill a void! Actually meeting the person you chat or talk with is a huge step...she's probably scared!
208446
Your situation is very similar to what I am in. My b/f and I met online, talked for 3 weeks, then met.  We had the most unbelieveable weekend together!!  We now have been living together 5 months, but he works out of state for 2 to 3 weeks at a time.  Hopefully I can help with that I know.  \n\nThe void in your heart when you aren't talking to her is because all you two have right now, is talking.  You can't see each other every day so that's what you cling to.  Makes perfect sense, I felt the same way then.\n\nAlthough she isn't calling you as often as you'd like, what do you two have to talk about, that you haven't talked about in the last 2 months?  Those hour long phone calls don't last forever because seriously, what else is there to talk about?  My b/f and I decided a call in the morning and a call in the evening would be the best way to handle that.  We could wish each other good morning and tell each other have a good day, but we'd play catch up at night.  We always make sure to tell each other even the little things that happen throughout our day because we both feel like we too are experiencing things even when we can't be together.  \n\nWe do have seperate lives too.  When he is home, we are together 100% but when we are apart, I go out with my girlfriends and he goes out with his work crew.  Don't think for a minute I am not thinking of him when I am out.  He feels the same because many times, he calls me when he is out with the guys.  My point is, you can't just sit at home and mope, wondering what the other is doing.  You need to live too.  Have fun, do hobbies, go out with your buddies.  Keep your mind busy until you can be with her again.  \n\nIf it's meant to be, it will happen.  Don't rush or pressure her and don't be clingy and needy. You have to trust her.  If you don't, you will lose her for sure.
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well you must be as old as me or older and i ask why are you wasting time on here talking about something that important.  I got lucky and found this site to stop me from being bored out of my mind at night at work but other then that i spend time with my woman and take care of her in any and every way.  So your wife probably isn't the problem.
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IT DEPENDS ON HOW LONG YOU HAVE BEEN SEEING EACH OTHER...IF YOU HAVE BEEN DATING FOR OVER 6 MONTHS AND STILL DON'T KNOW HOW TO COMMUNICATE , THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG AND THE TWO OF YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT AND TRY TO OPEN UP TO EACH OTHER. IT MAY BE THAT YOU ARE SO IN LOVE WITH HER THAT YOU ARE SCARRED SAYING THE WRONG THING MIGHT END YOUR RELATIONSHIP, BUT IF YOU HAVE TO ASK THIS QUESTION IT MUST BE WEIGHING ON YOUR MIND. JUST TRY TO TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL AND HOPEFULLY SHE FEELS THE SAME AND YOU BOTH CAN START TALKING ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL WITHOUT BEING SCARRED.
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Good communication makes relationships work.\n\nWhat to chat about:  Ask your girlfriend about how her day went, what she wants to do, where she wants to go with you.  When you're interested in her, it'll make her feel more special. Then when she's done, share with her your experiences...\n\nSo go ahead and chat with your girlfriend.  Enjoy! =)
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yes, u wanna b with her because ur so used to it that its hard to stop, its like a routine that u have going and without it u feel lost and confused, so u should try to find another girl that makes u more happy and maybe then ull b ok to break up with the old gf bc u can then start a new routine, one u actually enjoy :)
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Have you tried to talk with your girlfriend about how you feel? When my sweetie feels like nothing is special, she talks with me and says "I miss when we used to ..." or "I feel like we are in a rut, do you think so too?" She usually gets the ball rolling and brings her dissatisfaction with the status quo to my attention. You can do the same. \n\nAnother idea is for each of you to list all the things you like and don't like about the relationship and compare your lists. You probably already know this, but when sharing your lists, do so in a positive and non-confrontational way.\n\nThen again, if this all sounds like too much work, figure out what you would like in the relationship and talk with her about that.\n\nJC
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Just from what you told us here, how can we guess? It may be sth you've said or done, or sth you've not done while it was expected!.. Tell her that you feel her getting out of your relationship and ask her what the problem is. This is how things happen in real world!
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Ummm...thats really wierd i think you described me.I think it's a girl thing cuz i do the same thing to my bf all the time. I really can't describe why i do it. I know its pissess him off. Now does she tell you after a while or does she never tell you whats bothering her?
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STOP feeling that way....that is wrong... dont spend so much time with her and if need be get some help...
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You are very strong for asking this question. You are certainly not asking for too much. This is not a problem she has with you, but a problem she has with commitment. She, for some reason, is not prepared to be as selfless and giving in a relationship as you have been with her. Maybe something is going on with her that is , creating this distance between the two of you. All though you probably already have, I suggest that you confront her and ask if their is an outside issue. If there is an outside issue and you help her through it, then you're relationship will be sstronger than ever. Best of luck to you!
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its summer, everybody is busy, i went from talking to my girlfriend every night to like once a month in a course of a month, once summer slows down youll have time again, just let it ride :)
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Sounds like you are over-compromising and not being yourself. If you always do what she wants, how can she do what you want and why would she?! A relationship should be give and take but if someone can get away with making no effort etc, then they are going to. Start suggesting what you want to do, don;t always agree with everything she says. It might also make you a bit more exciting to her again. That is not about being raised right - you can still be polite etc but just about being yourself not a doormat.