I like this woman i talk to in work she is single but is 10 years older than me i think she likes me how do i tell adn would it be ok to do anything about it?
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just like its ok for a man to have a relationship with a 10 years younger woman and everybody accept it and society is fine with it, well, the same should stand for a man who likes a 10 years older woman..since you are over 18, we are cool..
295229
If she has a boyfriend already then you just need to back off.  How would you feel if a co-worker was trying to get with your girl?  As for the work relationship, keep in mind that even a friendship would affect the work relationship, so a romantic relationship will affect it more deeply.  Move on and try someone else.
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You sound very excited, Al.  Take it easy.  \n\nFrom your descritpion, it sounds like she may like you, but not too much right now.  At my age I know that men imagination is NOT often correct about this. \n\nDo not crowd her too much.  Invite her out to lunch no more than once a week. Flirt with her, but subtly.  Do not grab at her but compliment her hair, smile or clothing etc.  \n\nThen stay away for a couple of days and do not call her on the phone.  I promise you she will begin to like you more.
225152
It's a possobility. She might like you, but you never know for sure. Talk to her about it, or just start having normal conversations with her and see where it takes you. You need to say /something/ to her, at least.
450053
You need to be very careful of how you handle this. If you approach her, she could take it as sexual harassment. Either way it goes, this will effect your job.  I would suggest finding another job before bringing this up to her. I understand that this may not be as easy as it sounds, but you should understand that once you do bring this up, things at work will change. What if she feels the way that you do, but someone later breaks it off? Will you still be able to work with her? Will she want to work with you? You also need to think about what will happen if she doesn't respond well to you. She may not take it as far as the sexual harassment that I mentioned earlier, but it could make her uncomfortable enough to not want to work with you anymore. You are probably safer fantasizing about her for now.
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If you are 30 and she is 5, then you've got some serious hard time ahead of you.\n\nBut, if she's 20 and your 45, then "you the man!"
36732
yea..ask if she is single first and get tha digits..that way u can get 2 know her..and then work from there
49297
I think she's trying to be bold.She wants you but you are too shy to tell her what you feel.Anyway,my thought is that u shouldn't tell her about any girl anymore if u really like her.Women will always be jealous.They are created like that.Even men are also jealous but its more pronounced in women.This "co-worker" of yours is showing you that she likes you and she does not want any girl in your mind except her.So,if u wanna play along,best of luck!But do not step on her toes anymore.....
454289
If you're happy. You are old enough to make your own desicion. I know a couple where the woman is 10yrs older and they've been together 15 years.
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Unless you are very, very, very attracted to each other, it is not a good idea.  What are you going to do if the relationship falls apart?  Will one of you be passing on nasty stories about the other to co-workers and bosses?  You have to consider the possible fallout from a relationship gone sour.
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When you meet the one you know it, period, you just know it. There is no way to describe how you'd know, you just do. If you seriously feel this strongly about her then yes, tell her. It'd be a shame to look back in 30 or 40 yrs and have regrets for letting the 'one' get away.....tell her.\n\nGood luck!
625345
Say that you've been friends for a long time and I wonderd if you would like to be more then friends. Tell her that you like her very much and go on from there
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Well, it seems she is comfortable talking about the subject.\n\nI would suggest you ask her if she'd like to have lunch, or coffee, or some other casual/private get together.  NO PRESSURE. Then, you can feel your way through the situation.  See how comfortable you are with her, get to know her better... TAKE IT SLOW.\n\nIt sounds like you may be younger, and (obviously) don't have experience in this area, so I would advise caution... you don't want to get your heart trampled on, or feel ashamed or embarrassed at work.\n\nI wish you much luck, and keep in mind that you don't have to be 100% one or the other... love who you want to love, and who loves you back.\n\nALWAYS BE SAFE ABOUT IT!
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If you like each other go for it.  Get together outside of the office.  you can't be scared of what will happen if it doesn't work out.  If everyone was like that then no one would ever get together.  If there is an office policy that coworkers can not date then you need to be sneaky.  You never know, you might have found your soul mate.
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jus mail me and tell how old r u and old is the other person . but i think just when both of you and her r alone write on a paper that what personalities do u except form ur future husband and ask to to write the answer on the paper .then u tell 'i like u more than a friend ,u know what i mean , i love u .would u except my proposal ?'
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I think this lady has a problem, not just with you, but with her mind.You might have a fatal attraction situation.I think you should understand sometimes people take the smallest kindnesses as a way to intrude in your life. I think you should tell her once again that your not interested in her or having a relationship with her. I will say that never let anyone define you, You know who you are inside, so don't give her a second thought. I think your nice to even wonder about her, that does you have integrity and care about others feelings.
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Let me just say, that i was and am till now interested in mature women i'm 33 and i would like to have older.\nwhen i was 17 i met a lady of 35+, we mingle for awhile, i should have had more intamacy with her, so if the oportunity comes up for one of you guys take it, you will regret it later if you don't take the lady. Belive me...\nBesides the lady i went out with, is married till these date. ;) don't worry about age differences enjoy the moment, who cares what they say aslong as you keep it betwen you two(secret).