I'M NOT SAYING ITS A GOOD THING BUT CERTAIN PEOPLE DO DO THIS, ME FOR ONE. okay so my question is: how much is too much??? how deep is too deep???? i want to know what you guys think.....
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If you don't cut, please stop berating those who do or offering your two cents.  You have *no* idea.  People don't cut just to feel.  That might be one reason for one person but not the whole reason for everyone.  I have Bipolar Disorder.  I started cutting when I was 12 and continued to do so for about 15 years on and off.  When I went through a mixed episode, I just *had* to cut.  The intense emotions and anxiety were too much to handle and I had no other outlet at the time.  So, I took a razer blade and cut my arms and my legs.  It was so bad that I carried the stupid thing around with me through high school.\n\nI still get the urge when I'm really stressed out.  I do anything else I can possibly think of.  I read a book, I watch a movie, I go for a walk.  The thing I've found that works best is cleaning.  Yes, cleaning.  It's a brainless activity that helps you get energy out in a non-destructive manner.  I clean until I'm tired or until I feel better.  Just find *anything* else to do.\n\nIf you're still underage, talk to your parents.  If you can't do that, talk to you school counselor.  Anyone who can get you help.  It's not a matter of how deep is too deep.  It's a matter of finding someone to help yourself.\n\nPlease email me if you'd like.  I do understand.
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yeah..its irritating.\nsome people do that intentionally.
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truthfully, i put very little "out in the world".  it is far too easy to be hurt.  and my experience here (YA) indicates that much of what is "put out" is misconstrued and mangled.  all the roads that lead me there are winding.\n\ni would "give out" to most others only that which is appreciated: no more than that should be required.  unsolicited ideas are NOT welcome by the general populace on YA, i am quite sure of that.  as in so many places in life, independent thought is frowned upon, if not entirely discouraged.  "you are not here to think!" may be a sign i will see soon.  still, the need to share, to reach out, to seek a kindred... that HAS garnished a prize, a beautiful prize.  \n\nthis site has served its purpose for me.  it's time to turn to different, better, more important matters that are close at hand.  i now am so lucky to have another place to "put things out"... a place where i know i am appreciated and will reap that which i have sown.  yes, i do have an overwhelming need to give out in THAT forum: so much to share, so much to learn, so much to love.  intentionally, naturally, eternally.
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we all have it in our souls to become control freaks, some however feel the need to dish it out more than others. sad but true. know stop asking these questions. oh sorry it just slipped out see what i mean.
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yeah, extremely true...  i usually do that with girls that i really like. For example the other day, this girl i like and I were making fun of each other, and i said to her 'do you know theres a point where you stop talking? yeah? well youve reached your point. so shut up" i know its just plain cheesy stuff, but it just happens because its just manly nature.. i think its cause we dont want the girl to know we're all over them, so we add a little twist to the whole 'procedure'.. but sometimes some guys go way too far, and it hurts the girl, and guys should know where their limits are..
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Yeah ,,,,but mine is by choice...lol\nSeriously,,,I've only done it a few times and it only lasted about a minute....\nMy Buddy however,,,,use to do it all the time and as it turned out,,,,He had some major health issues going on that I wont get into cause I dont wanna scare the meat balls off of you..... \nHell,,,,my advice is to just enjoy it,,,,there's nothing wrong with forgetting about everything for a moment or so.lol
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mav's questions have always been deep .... i guess this one's a bit too deep for me LOL\n\nhave a nice day :) ...... or what's left of it
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Ok.. I have to say that I know a few people who do this... some very close to me... and.. well... OH I hate to say this, but... NO IT IS NOT.  Wussies!!  (Please don't tell them I said that!!)
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hey, ball-sy question to ask but...\ni USED to hold it too long and ended up get frequent pains? down there? \nanyways, my friend, too said she used to do this, but she actually ended up getting a bladder INFECTION! so, after hearing this, of course i don't hold it too long. \nIts understandable sometimes, but i would suggest not doing this regularly!\n;)
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Sure - anyone who says they've never done this is likely lying.  It's natural to gravitate toward what is familiar.  Some people obviously bring it a lot farther than others.  I can't really say I'm ashamed of it, but I try to stay aware of my responses to avoid offending others.  I judge people all the time, not just on race or nationality though; I make judgements about people by the way they look, act, speak, etc.
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what do you mean by too much?  are you experiencing chaffing?
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... listen, you can spell "masturbate" without stupid hyphens. *rolls eyes* And how dumb of a question is THAT!?! What? You don't think we get horny? I personally love masturbating. It's one of my favorite things to do. I do it whenever I feel like it, and that would be frequently. Several times a day, sure... it depends on my mood. In general, women just tend to be more discreet about it...
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from personal experience: no matter what age, religion, education or how much money you have we all tend to do it at some point or another.  we all gossip about everyone from celebrities, friends, coworkers or even family member's. we may have different reason such as a form of complains about the other person, envy , and just plain bored.  i came to the conclusion that everyone those whether they believe or not . so i guess it's part of human nature. it might be wrong but that's life.  it seems that it becomes more that just a conversations when person "A" and "b" are talking about person "c" and then person "A" goes and tells persons "C" what person "B" said about her.  that's really when it becomes a problem  we should  just learn to take it as a conversation and that all it is
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Sometimes I give people things that I can, in turn, use myself. For instance, if I give a friend a fantastically cute shirt I usually give it to them on a condition: that I can borrow it. However, I don't usually let anyone borrow my things. I want credit for my cute and unique clothing, I don't want someone else to get the credit.\n\nThis isn't answering your question, only furthering my belief that there is something wrong with me...
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I am a content, deep-thinking person who does some writing.  I believe in things most people can't see so I don't always appear to have my feet on the ground. I don't naturally like to impose my opinions, but when I am on here I feel I do it a little too much.  I prefer to genuinely help people, if at all possible.  I don't like spending too much time on here because it becomes hard to leave it, so I limit myself now.  This is just a little indulgence for me each day.  I look forward to reading some of the other answers to this question!
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because that's what is in THEIR head, people tend to think about others what they really mean about themselvs. when they say that , they are saying : do I really love him/her. it's their question and their thought about what they feel. byron katie has done some interesting work on this subject, I think her site is www.thework.com    take a peek there it is really enlightening.
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Yes !  Dang it I go to alot of trouble to come up with those questions...the least the could do is give me an lol along with the thanks weirdo.   I am still freakin over the weird old lady comment from the other day.  Do you thinkI  have grounds to report them for abusing me????  lol..Why not its a big reporting free for all around here!!\n\nNow what was your question..oh yeah..I am still trying to discover my purpose in life.  At the moment I am pretty sure it has something to do with dishes and laundry   :-)