Do you think it's wrong to wear white in your wedding if you're not a virgin?
214217
No! Not at all. You wear what you want to. It's your day!
609938
Cajirenee what was the point of your answer? If you don't like the question don't answer it then. What are you begging for 2 measly points? How about try getting a few "best answers" since I see you have NONE. The question seems to be very detailed in explaining she wasn't sure where to post it, and what she was looking for. She wasn't obscene or perverted in her question. I don't see what your problem is. What happened to trying to have an open mind?\n\nAnd in response to the question. I know of a few places to check, but nothing in white. Hot topic around Halloween time has some cool PVC and vinyl wear. But nothing appropriate for a wedding, and of coarse that's months and months away. I would check some of the major adult stores. Try places like NY and CA, they seem to be good places that produce adult apparel. Maybe even a place that sells "dancer" apparel. I don't know I am sure this doesn't help much. One of the above answers has a website XTC wear or something. That seems to be the most helpful I have seen on this list of answers. Best of luck, GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR WEDDING!
177341
Not white: (symbolic of death in China).  Wear a neutral color.  Better yet, tell your secretary, "Thank you for inviting me to your wedding.  I am very honored & I will attend."  Then ask your secretary, "I'm not sure what to wear to a wedding. Would it be appropriate to wear a black suit, or a navy suit?"  This should get a response on how formal the wedding is, too.  I doubt you could go "business casual" (polo shirt & pants) but I could be wrong. She shouldn't be offended at your saying this, but rather flattered that you care how you present yourself to her life-changing event.
414985
In my opinion no i dont think its wrong. If u feel its right and you lvoe being the way you are why should it be wrong? Go with what you love and stick with it no matter what others say.
563359
I am getting married in three weeks, and I would not be offended. I think as long as you do not wear solid white you would be fine. And it's the lower half and would certainly not be that obvious. I would assume also, that the bride would have more going on that day, than to really notice what color your skirt is.
323411
Well I am virgin. I do not know if I will wait until I get married but in most of muslam countries almost all girls wait until they get married. But I haven't heard a guy doing this. I would not like to marry a virgin guy but maybe some girls will find this cute.
619695
YES IT'S OK TO REMAIN A VIRGIN.   YES YOU SHOULD REMAIN A VIRGIN.  SAVE YOURSELF FOR THE MAN YOU LOVE AND GIVE YOUR ALL TO HIM ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT.  THAT'S THE WAY GOD INTENDED IT. \nIF HE REALLY LOVES YOU, HE SHOULD UNDERSTAND AND BE WILLING TO WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE.  (YES...IT'S HARD TO WAIT)    BUT IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU....HE WILL RESPECT YOU AND WON'T DEMAND ANYTHING OF YOU.\n\nBESIDES....SOME GUYS LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS ...........\n"WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE?"     NOT SAYING YOU'RE A COW...JUST USING AN EXAMPLE..."WHY WAIT TO MARRY A GIRL WHEN I CAN GET SEX FROM HER WITHOUT THE RING?"\n\n"MAKING LOVE"  AND "HAVING SEX"  ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.\n\nMAKING LOVE IS GIVING YOURSELF AND ALL YOUR LOVE TO THE PERSON YOU LOVE AND ARE MARRIED TO.\n\nHAVING SEX IS JUST THAT !!!!   HAVING SEX WITH A PARTNER.\n\nIS THAT WHAT YOU WANT?   \n\nYOU LOVE HIM, HE'S DEMANDING SEX. DON'T DO IT JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID YOU'LL LOSE HIM IF YOU DON'T.  IF HE DROPS YOU BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE SEX ........HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. NOT REALLY... IN LOVE WITH YOU...BECAUSE IF HE IS..........HE'LL RESPECT YOU AND WAIT.\n\nHOPE THIS HELPS...\nDON'T DO ANYTHING YOU'RE NOT READY FOR.\n\nGOOD LUCK!
275687
I believe in sex before marriage. I don't believe people should just sleep around though. If you've been with a person for awhile and truly loves them, I think it's ok to have sex.
312412
Yes, of course. I am willing to wait until I get married. A lot of my friends have lost their virginity two years ago or when we were 14/15/16 and they definitely regretted it. I told them not to but they didn't listen. But I guess it's just that most teenagers just do it to express themselves or release anger/frustration/sadness/whatever and they don't care what they are doing anymore.
677149
My virgintiy was important to me.  Me and my fiance gave our virginity to each other and we considered it to be the most precious and beautiful thing that we could give each other.  It is very special to us that we lost our virginity to each other.  I hav found myself and (i know some of my friends feel the same), that when you lose your virginity to someone, it is as if a bond almost a blood bond has been formed between you both.  and no matter what else you do, it will always be with you.\n\nVirginity should be equally important to men, i believe it is to many men but they are loathed to admit it because of the way they have been socialised.\n\nIf I loved someone and they were not a virgin i would marry them if they loved me but I would much prefer the situation I currently have.  I am lucky to be marrying the man who i lost my virginity to and who lost his virginity to me.
37022
I thik now a days it should not realy matter to waite till your married there is some men that do preffer a virgin rather than someone that has been with another man,but the woman is not always lucky do find a man that is a virgin. I think yo explre safe in life is not bad due to you only want to keep your marrige happy and know what he and you may both want intimatly.
185635
Virgin is not a question at all, it depend on them, for just going for sex it not necessary but when going for marry some unknown female they think that there better half should be virgin. if the gal is not virgin she should keep in herself for life long or her hubby is good & understandable one he will mannage the sutiuation of loosing virginity
511552
My personaly opinion is as long as it's not in a church the go for it. However personally I feel that you shouldn't wear just the strapless inside the church. If your plan was jacket during the ceremony and without the jacket for the reception this I think it's just fine.
234021
Assuming that you were all invited I would think it would a breach of etiquette to do that but honestly I don't see a problem with it.  First of all the couple isn't going to know because there are usually so many people at weddings they wouldn't even know that weren't at the actual ceremony. When the bride comes down the aisle she is going to have her eye on one person.......the groom.  I doubt anybody would even notice if you just showed up at the reception.  Secondly for all they know you could have to work or something and could only make it in time to the reception.  If you really don't want to go to the ceremony I wouldn't blame you for just going to the reception and giving the happy couple your well wishes.
171490
I'm sure there are some people who want to stay virgins. I wish I could. But girl just because your friends are pregnant doesn't mean you have to be. Be smart and wait or else you really regret it when you are my age. Plus sex will alwayz be there and it will be more romantic and passionate if you wait til your wedding nite.
333883
YES IT IS WRONG TO GIVE URSELF UP!!! IF HE IS THE "1" HE WILL WAIT AND RESPECT U!!! I HAVE SAID THIS SO MANY TIMES...WHAT BETTER THAN TO GIVE YOUR HUSBAND YOUR VIRGINITY WHEN MARRIED? NOTHING IS!! IF A MAN TRULY LOVES AND CARES HE WILL WAIT AND WILL RESPECT U HIGHLY!!!
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Hi there,\nI know that the pressure of being a virgin is extremely hard for one to handle, especially in the Western societies that we live in; but virginity is worth striking for.  \nI'm in my 20s and the group of friends that I have is also in their 20s and we are all virgins.  I think the most important thing that one needs to keep in mind is that virginity is for ONESELF, not for anyone else (or sometimes you might wanna save it for you future husband).  Once you are determined about it, it would be less difficult when you think of whether to have sex or not.  \nMy friends and I choose not to have sex before marriage b/c we see SEX as LOVE, and we respect our body as well as our partners'.  When you love someone unconditionally, you don't just want to own the physical body, do you??  Moreoever, when one has premarital sex, the wedding is not something that precious and special anymore, don't you think???  What is it special about the wedding night if you've already know everything about the other person???\nI also have friends who had sex in their teen years and most of them regreted later on.  Most of them lived for the moment and after that, they are the ones who "loose".  Plus, when we are in our teenage years, we don't really know what love is!!!  Believe me, when you find the one who really loves and cares for you, he wouldn't might if you want to save sex for marriage.  (My bf and I both compromise on that, and we're pretty happy).  Hope you find this a helpful!!  Good luck!