2day we received our marks 4 geog test ,both of us were one of the top scorers but i got a mark more than her.she is very angry with me and even complained 2 others than i want 2 score higher than her which is not even true.i can also understand that she is angry coz 4 certain subjects i did not want 2 tell her my marks so i said i do not want 2 tell.how can i solve the problem betwwen us i am feeling miserable coz i would loose her as a freind and others 2 because she told them about me
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You cannot clap with one hand. Friendship can't be single sided. I 2 hv gone thru this same exp. Believe me, it's not you who must apologize but your friend must, if she is your true friend and practical girl, she would hv taken this in a challenging way rather than make you feel mizerable. You 2 are good competitors, she is angry with you, you know what does this prove...She always underestimates you, and when you hv got more than her she can't bear this fact. In this world of cut throat competition, don't go for always making your friends happy, rather think abt yourself n your career. That's my advice.\n\nThe Ques is why don't u wanna score higher than her, You must always try to be excellent. And 1 more thing, r ur other classmates fools, don't they hv their own power of judgement, their own brains, they may get influenced by ur so-called friend for some days, but as truth prevails, they will surely realize u and ur abilities. So don't worry abt it. \n\nI used this policy and today I m more popular than my previous so-called friend.
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do some things w/o her reminding you, and then be a very good kid....break it to her easily....say your grades "might" not be that great.....act responsible to show her you are already trying to improve! (try this, it might not work, but how am i supposed 2 know? i've never gotten a B on a report card! straight As all the way! ...not to make you feel bad or anything.....)
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You should talk to her more often and don't  be shy about start a conversation like after the test is done just be calm about. I'm just sayin go for and be yourself and besides i know you can do it. E-mail me if your having a hard time with this trust me I'm good at these kinds of things.
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Ahh I did the same thing with my friend accept for being mad with him... I do have problems with maths but I accept it... being in middle-school (if i'm not wrong) it'll take sometime for some children to understand people and how human-nature works...\n\nI'll accept my problems and try to work with them, and on the way I found my strength in English, Geography and Biology =]... don't look down on him what so ever... be best friends with him and get him to help you in a subject so that he can feel better
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This isn't about fair. It's about two different perspectives of what happened. It's about getting through this and getting the best grade you can while keeping your relationship with your teacher intact (you do have to stick with her for a while, right?)\n\nThe best way to handle this, in my opinion, is to ask the teacher which assignments are missing, and ask if there is a way that you can either do an oral re-cap of what you wrote on your assignments, or if you can do them over and turn them in a little late. Or, perhaps she can come up with another solution, especially if you seem intersted in working with her.\n\nDefinately don't try to make this into and "I'm right and you're wrong" situation. And certainly don't cry "not fair." Try to negotiate and find a middle ground where you can both be happy. Not only will this be a happier way around the situation, your teacher might actually be so impressed by your maturity that she'll be really nice and give you the benefit of the doubt! (Don't count on it tho :)\n\nIf you find that talking with your teacher is upsetting for you, ask a friend or family member to role-play with you before you go in and talk to her. I know, it sounds lame, but it really does help. In your role playing, you not only will you get a chance to practice steering the conversation to the positive, but you might also come up with some other ideas on how to work everything out.\nGood luck!
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dont forgive her talk to her. tell her whats bothering you and ask her to stop. if she doesnt stop then tell her you guys are through. i had the same prob many many times, lost a few friends but not many. and i dont regret anything so hey take my advice, or leave it, its up to you, all your decions are up to you, none else. good luck.
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This is relative with EQ. I thnk you should try to talk to her to find out what's the problem is and won't do the same thing again in the next time. It will build up your EQ and knowledge of social relationship. Sometimes we did things and we actually didn't notice.\n\nGood luck\n\nJoyce
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Maybe you should try to wait for her, unless that will make you late for school. Just tell her what you are feeling, ask her why she is mad. If you guys are such good friends she will feel okay to answer you honestly. Try to listen to her feelings, and understand why she is feeling this way. Juat be honest with her.
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Your mom will have seen you studying right?  She is not likely to be angry about your inability to grasp a concept that you have tried to get.  \n\nI would think your best approach is allow your nervousness of talking to her to show in your manner (or flat out tell her "I am really nervous to talk to you about this") and ask her for help.  Tell her how you studied so hard and you don't know what happened - why aren't i able to grasp this (you say)?\n\nThere are some really great web sites out there that can help you with your math skills.  I home school my kids and that is what I use for math.  Maybe you can look for some together.  I would suggest some, but without knowing your age and grade, I don't know if that would be helpful.  If you want suggestions, email me with your grade and I will help you look too.\n\nParents, in general, don't get angry because their kids are not able to succeed when they try.  Parents get angry when kids don't try their best or when they don't tell us there's a problem.  Math is important - she wants to help you succeed more than anything else.\n\nPeace!
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You can't. Who wants to be the "second choice?" I don't blame her for being angry.\n\nMove on and chalk it up to a learning experience.
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Talk to her directly. Tell her that you are not exactly pleased about her lying to you for you feel that she didn't need to lie to you because you would've let her visit Sam if she had asked. There isn't a reason for her to "fear your wrath" but she does need to know that you are somewhat disappointed with her.
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She is jealous and insecure.  You seem to be having success that is eluding her.  So she strikes back by being mean and trying to diminish your accomplishments.\n\nIf you want to give her another chance but not be hurt any more, you will have to tell her that her current behavior is unacceptable.  You don't need friends like that.\n\nBut if you've decided that she is not the kind of friend that you don't want to have, you will have to be honest with her and tell her that you don't need friends who are constantly critical and mean.  You owe her the truth for the sake of your past friendship.\n\nWhatever you decide is really up to you.  But if you just want to know why she did all this, it's jealousy and insecurity on her part.
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There always seems to be girls like this in school. Her meanness will show through eventually. There was a popular girl in my college class once who everyone seemed to idolize. She was really mean to me. Invited everyone to a party but not me. At the end of the year party, which she couldn't attend, everybody let out all their anger and frustration about her. Seems I wasn't the only one she was mean to. I was kind of mad because it made my year awful and somebody could have told me. Anyway, hang in there. Don't do anything stupid. Her karma will get her in the end.
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Why shouldn't she learn about it?  Would learning about it hurt her in some way?  The teacher must abide by government regulations when forming curriculum and the students must behave when given assignments.  I think I might know where she is getting the attitude, you yourself said that they "did her wrong."  I find it hard to believe that she was punished for her actions in your home.  In her mind, you just said it was ok to behave like that.
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i just went through the same exact thing it was heart breaking! i simply told my other friend that i didn't get along with her other friend and i would NEVER ask her to choose, but i would like it if we could spend our own time together. now she seperates the weekends and spends like ever-other one with me. and because i was so laid back about it and her other friend was kind of rude she is starting to see how it really is. she is spending more and more time with me and complaining about the other girl but i try and not complain with her that way she thinks i am just a listener\nall the while i am dancing inside lol
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I agree with your mother.  If your teacher is out to get you there is very little that you can do about it.  Go to the principal and say that you have a personality clash with the teacher and would prefer to be moved to another class.  There are laws that prohibit him from discussing this request with the teacher so from a technical standpoint you should be able to push the request through without the teacher ever knowing how or why it was done.  Then the only issue you will face is whether you are put into a class that has a teacher that is influenced by the first teacher.\n\nTeachers can find flaws when there are not any.  I should know.  I'm a teacher!\n\nYou could also try talking to her about her grading system and see if she can justify the grades.  If not then you definitely have a motive for placement in a different class.
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By the way, 25 years old is very young! Now, about your teacher...if she used to be your favorite, then you must have had a good relationship before this.  She will probably appreciate it if you stay after class and talk to her. Tell her that you get the feeling she is angry at you and, if so, you'd like to know how you could do better in her class. Sometimes teachers are misunderstood. I am a teacher myself.  When I was in my twenties, I remember catching a student telling another student that she was sure I hated her.  I was very surprised and had to reflect on why my student thought that way. (However, if your teacher really is angry at you, she should still appreciate that you are brave enough to find out out why. Be really cool and positive. If she really likes teaching, she will learn from you.)