i have a friend who has a boyfriend who's boyfriend tells her everything u or someone says then his girlfriend hets onto u?
211340
Easy, don't talk smack about her or talk about any surpises you may have for her.
542378
When your friend lets you hang around with her and bf it's not right to try to entice him from her.Btetter stick with your own bf as you'll get a bad name if your other friends can't trust you
321188
If she's really your friend I think you NEED to tell her what happend. Just tell exactly what he said about her that will make more sence to her.  She will be devestated but it's always best to know.  Just turn the situation around, would you like to know or would you like your friends to tell you. Plus is not the end of the world, she will lose her boyfriend that dosen't want to be with her anymore but that's why you are there for!
317383
Well untill your boyfriend feels as excepted as your friend there will always be that jealousy, us guys are funny that way for example when you fight with your boyfriend you usually talk to your friend, Yes? So that right there your turning to your friend and not your boyfriend, thats one.\nYou don't fight with your friend like you do your boyfriend, that's two. So bottom line your boyfriend thinks you treat him better than you your boyfriend because there are hardly no arguments between you and your friend and there is between you and him. Now you and I both know one is just a friend and the other you love but to us guys even if this were explained to him he still won't see it that way. So for a while and your friend will understand if you explain to him (funny how that works) tell your friend to stay low key until your boyfriend feels secure in the relationship and to try and understand us guys can be real immature sometimes.
674239
Hmm... Sounds familiar, and I really should (but probably wont) take my own advice. You care or possibly love your boyfriend. And this person is very important to him. They have probably been through a lot together and yadda yadda yadda. So I say you just got to go and deal with it. Trust me, I know it's not easy. But you might find something about one of them that you like. No one said you have to be there best friend.
76838
I went through this myself, and the best advise I can give you is to let it roll off your back.  If your friend who is/was your  best friend believes someone over you than she was never your best friend to begin with.  The other girl who is lying, sure it would be nice to call her out, show who she really is, but then again, your friendship with BF will never be the same anyway, now the trust is broken.  As hard as it may be you should just try to get past this betrayal and find another healthy friendship with someone else. Sometime when we are in relationship rather they be romantic, or just friendships, we discover one side has stronger feeling than the other.  Never sell yourself short.  You seem intelligent, I doubt you will have any trouble finding a new buddy!! Good luck to you!!!!
673673
YOU ARE GOING TO GET YOUR BEST FRIEND HURT IS THAT REALLY WHAT YOU WANT? PLEASE HAVE HER BOYFRIEND BREAK UP WITH HER THEN GET TOGETHER WITH YOU..BUT YOU ARE BREAKING THE FRIENDSHIP CODE...
217927
I am concerned over the fact that he doesn't want her to say anything to anyone.  To me, that screams out that he has another girlfriend.  Sounds like he is cheating on another girl...there is no other reason to keep their relationship secret.
300692
If you do not like them both then tell them the truth.  If you like one and not the other tell them the truth.  If you like them both then, go on a date with each one and see who treats you better.  Not girlfriend boyfriend dates, just friend dates
317131
good on you for telling her off.\nThey are probably continuing more discreetly.\nFace it, they both lied to you until you found them out.
137006
all you need to do is tell her that boyfriends can break up with but friends are always there (even after their boyfriend dumps them)
601637
If you are in a trusting relationship with your boyfriend, then you need to tell him what his best friend is up to....if your bf doesn't believe you, then you need to end your relationship.
590715
There are two issues here. The first is that your friend is not respecting your request to stop flirting with your boyfriend. If she isn't willing to stop, is she really a good friend? Is she the kind of friend you want hanging out around your boyfriend? If you've been friends with her for a while, try talking to her again and really impressing upon her how much her behavior bothers you.\n\nThe second issue is that she's telling your boyfriends that you and your friends are cheating on them. I can't imagine a good justification for that. What do you have to lose by asking her why she would say those things, and asking her not to? If she wants to continue being disrespectful, then she's obviously not worth your friendship.
530256
she is using you as someone to get her mind off of her break up with her boyfriend. I wouldnt get my hopes up just yeah. whoa....back boy!
604086
Your boyfriend is breakin up with you.  I've done it like that b4 myself.  dont need to come out and say it, just let it drift apart n by the time the girl asks whats goin on, i'm already with someone else.
21892
Tell your friend out of respect.  They deserve to know that their boyfriend likes someone else.  Unfortunately for you, unless your friend doesn't like her boyfriend you probably won't be friends very long if you date her ex.  Decide whether the boy or friend is more important to you because this will be a situation where you only get to keep one.
479435
mind our own business. let them sort out their own life. my friend's boyfriend was unfaithful as well and we didn't tell her but she did discover and it's for her to deal with it cause it's her relationship, as friends we can only lend an listening ear and be with her if she needs too. we are all adults.