my friend she is the coolest person ever..but she is always lying....i know this because ever time she tells me a story, she changes the name of people and how the story went.. i dont wanna tell her i know she lying but what can i say to hint her on that i know???
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She might not know she is doing this consciously.  She must really need a lot of attention and this is how she feels she can get some.  Just calmly and rationally ask her about some details that you heard from others that she didn't tell you about.  Unfortunately, this will catch up with her and she will reap what she is sowing.
659919
she is a liar. she may not know the difference between the truth and lies.  or she might just lie to make herself look better and others look bad. you need to think abot if you love her enough to tolerate the constant lying or do you think you deserve better.  good luck.
647937
I was always taught that honesty was the best policy. But remember she may not want to here what you have to say. But she needs to know why you do not wish to be friends with her . Just maybe by telling her the truth  and letting her know about the bad things she does might make her think and change her ways . Remember it could always go the other way too . But if she truly wants to be your friend she will listen with an open mind and take in what you have to say . good luck .
559779
What do you want to do? How about the person that told you whatever what said? Was the info. true or not? Do you believe in your friend?\nOne thing I do know from experience is that a true friend will never two face you. My sister, mom, brother, dad true friends have said things about me but in real concern. Sometimes it pisses me off but they have the right to love me. And if someone came to me and repeat their private conversation to make it gossip I would dump their butt, because i do trust "MY" judgment for a friend. So where do you stand with these friends.
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It sounds like your friend is absent minded like mine is... Don't sweat it when she claims an answer you gave her a long time ago. Just remember that you are the one that told her in the first place and be happy she remembered it. Or, if you can't handle being a mentor, simply stop telling her anything. But I hardly believe you would do that since you Are friends.
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suck it up, get her a present for her b-day (she is your friend , right!)and dont worry about what others are saying, what matters is she didnt say it and you didnt say it , so what if others did say it , as you mature you will find out that gossip and rumours are mostly jealousy actions.
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you should be cool about it, dont trip you wil get in more peoples nerves if you tell your friend she cant talk to her no more and well your friend will probably wont listen to you and stop beying your friend, just 4 that and if you can tell me y you hate her so much, at ritz4feet@yahoo.com ill be waiting and i can tell you more too.
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i can just say 1 thing.. she's not really ur frend bcoz if she really is, she wud never believe any false talks abt u. she wud have defended u 2 this other frend of her & tell her that she knows that u wudnt do such a thing..\n\nbelieving d other frend simply proves that ur frenship is not that strong
454598
hell yea wut the hell??? shes just trying to start drama cuz she has nothing better to do. u have backstabber untrustworth friends nd u noe wut? its better that this happened cuz atleast u noe that whoever did this to you isnt really your friend nd if i were u just dont talk to her EVER again.....nd if u didnt do anything u really dont owe anybody an explanation....just tell the friend that thinks your said soomething about her what really happened nd if shes a good friend she'll believe you
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Life is too short to dwell on a petty persons actions isn't it? \nYou know the rumors are not true, and so would a friend, so anyone who can be turned against you so easily, sadly wouldn't have been a true friend.\nI am sorry she is being so bothersome, it can really disrupt someones life to have that happen to them, and I hope things settle down soon for you.\nAs you've already said, about her actions not speaking of intelligence, it sounds very true.\nShe may have a lot going on in her life, but it is not fair of her to play such childish games.\nLive your life, and don't give her the satisfaction of letting her know it bothers you, she just wants to get your goat. \nIn fact, just brushing it off completely, and being happy that you are not the one being so impish would even be better!
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What ever people said about you, true friends never change their minds because someone spread a rumour. \n\nIf it is very important to you stay in this group you must discover who tell this lie and face him/her in public. \n\nIf you can not find it, try to speak with your "best friend" of this group and ask why they change their mood with you. Tell her/him the truth.\n\nBut mostly I think you should search a new group, true friends does not need an explain, they trust you.
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the only suggestion I can think of is to ride it out.....wait until something happens. Either your friend AM is making the whole thing up cause she's jealous or something, or TM's shy....anything could be true. Anyways, just wait for something to happen, and then go from there, instead of getting worked up about it.
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Tell now or deal with a lot worst later. Now with that said, is she really a friend? If so what about the female rule?
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If she is being deceitful behind your back then she is not a true friend. A true friend would be there for you and accept you for who you are and not make fun of you for your choice.\n\ni would tell her but in a slightly confintational manner, show her that you are proud of who you are AND tell her that you know she is being deceitful behind your back and tell her that is she was a true friend she would not be doing that. \n\nIf she at first rejects you and then later on wants to be friends again, tell her that she has to earn your respect back\n\nbest of luck to you
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Sure she does! She tells you these things bc she feels safe with you. Now if that's all she does is tell you all the bad stuff about her life and takes no interest in yours, then you are a crutch to her. It is up to you if you want to hear about her other friends taking a crap on her or whatnot. If you want to be the crutch, I suggest selective hearing. It can be a downer to hear about her crap friends, and keep suggesting that she gets rid of them and the negativity they bring. Hang in there, it may be a phase and she'll realise what a friend you are and drop the losers and hang out with you... someone who cares...
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I had a friend once and she lied ALL the time and even copied my homework but were still friends becuase she is like the only person I have as a freind but I learn to deal with it and now she DONT cheat off of me but we do help each other with our homework she still lies a little bit but maybe it may help if you give her WRONG answers one day then maybe she may ask for HELP on her homework and you two do it together instead of her coping you.
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Tell her the truth. Let her know that the other individual is your friend and that you don't want to talk negatively about anyone. If she can't respect that, she doesn't respect your friendship.