I know this guy likes me... I am just not sure if he loves me. We have this thing going on between us. But no official status yet. I want him to love me for what I am. Not because of what I have. I am just having this feeling that maybe he sticks with me because I give him gifts, etc.
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You can't buy love. Maybe he does like you. Constantly receiving gifts causes guilt and stress. You could end up chasing away a friend.
73198
same here! I dont know what to do either. Keep waiting & we will know. I think if he loves you, he will call you so be patient but anyway try to call him sometimes, maybe he's really busy.
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ooooh, i think that probably means he does...coincidence is always possible, but if it happens a lot it might really mean something.  try hinting things at him that he'd only get if he did like you, and see how he reacts.  best of luck!
44601
If you can not be who you really are then he has not fallen for the real you. Wouldn't be better to be with someone who likes you for who you really are then having to try to live up to what he thinks you are? If you are not true to yourself then no one can be true to you.
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Does it really matter?  At this point, does it really matter if he wants to call you back or not?  Sounds like you two aren't exactly 'meant to be'.  Or.. I dunno'.  I could be wrong.  Maybe you're perfect for one another.  (Btw, that wasn't supposed to be an insult.  Well.. for the most part it wasn't..)  \nTo answer your question though:  Don't hold your breath.
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c'mon don't be so hard on yourself. of course he likes you enough to spend so much time with you. however, it would be wise to be cautious and tread carefully. why look for signs, just enjoy the now. it does seem you are happy right now, so don't question and don't let doubts prevail.all the best babe!
142829
Duh! He still has feelings for you even though he might try to hide it. He may not care for you the same way he did when ya'll were going out but, trust me he stills cares for you.
314017
Sounds like all talk and no action. I wouldn't wait around for it. If what he says is true then he would have done something long before now. Don't wait around for him. Do your thing and let him do his. If he is into you, he will make the move. That shouldn't be you job, especially if he claims to have liked you for so long. You didn't miss any sign, because he failed to send you one.
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I'm exactly like him.  Too shy to tell someone I like them.  My suggestion is to tell him you like him and ask if he feels the same, and wants to get to know each other.  I'd love it if a girl did that, would make life so much easier for me and other shy guys like me hehe.
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Sure he likes ya.. (he is crazy about you!) It shows again and again in what you write above! YES you are perceptive about that 'guy code.' I think he's got to work some things out in his head .. this is hard to do BUT it will pay off.. Give it a couple more months. Don't push it! You know one important thing (and it's a biggie) that this guy has got 'good morals..' If he's being respectful of his friends (I think it's kool) think how great and respectful he will be of YOUR feellings?! Am I right? This guy sounds like a real keeper, hon. You are doing o.k. too by the way by playing it cool.. keep it 'casual.'  Play back his 'hey, what's up?' to him. (Real kool how he stayed w/ya and slept there, didn't touch ya.. that what ya wrote, right? he was awkward in the morning..) He sounds like he is not going to cheat on you. (He sounds like a real dear.) I say GO for it!!!!!!
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"If he doesn't know what he wants then he doesn't want what he's got" heard that somewhere. \nIt sounds like he's leading you on and just wants attention. Your best bet is to find someone who wants to be with you NOW. You don't deserve to be strung along. If he decides later on that he wants to be with you then you can give it a chance but until then (and who knows how long that could be if at all) do yourself a favor and find a great guy.
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Thats bc he love the gift you gave he.Things like that make people's day. He may like you too and do not know how to tell you. Talk to him, tell him whats on your mind. Good Luck
535128
I think he likes you, \nbut just doesn't know it and doesn't want to admit it, even to himself. This stuff happens. Don't worry, you'll find out in time.
84958
He is the only one who can say if he loves you or not, and right now he probably doesn't know.  He clearly still cares for you, but relationships are complex.  Caring for someone and loving them are not always the same thing.  He has told you that he can't be in a relationship right now, so for now that is the truth that you have to accept.  If you really care about him, it is okay to wait and see what happens with him, but no one can tell what that will be...
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I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
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just talking? not seeing each other? if you really like him, then you should ask him if he likes you in the same way... but if he really misses you, isn't he suppose to be right there beside you? and it's been a couple of months too, shouldn't he have opened up to you like a long time ago? but, it's still up to you... if you really like him and still want to continue the relationship between you guys, then ok.. but if you really have a strong feeling that he's just playin you and fooling you around, i suggest you end the things between you right now!.. cos he might be planning some stuff that are really unexpected.. especially if you haven't seen him at all! ;)
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Yes, defiantly talk to him about how you feel.  BUT DO NOT DO IT ON-LINE.  Please go see him somewhere and sit down an find out the scoop.  If he likes you and you like him then its settled.  But, if he cant let go of you but is seeing others while so called protecting you, etc., then its time for you to let him go.  Put him on the spot and ask him directly about what he wants and let him know what you want.  PLAIN AND SIMPLE.