Whats there problem whats so wrong with being les,gay, or bi why are some people mean
218581
Lack of love in their hearts.
562930
U know i dont know why people make sucj a big deal its not like their criminals or something i mean they should be  worrying about important stuff like the enviroment and not stupid things like beign gay i mean they r people just like u and me but that like to be with the same sex
111872
People are always looking for something to blame for their problems. It's more than easy to say that their problems is a result of their chosen sexual orientation.Some straight people blame their problem on other things also...poverty, ethnicty, or other things. Good question...why should they be allowed to 'throw fits' and get all the attention?
365320
I think why people do things like that is because they are scared to be who they really are for fear of being thrown of "normal" society.  All it is, is insecure people trying to be the opposite of gay to try and throw people off.  I mean come on, you know how many bashers I knew in high school that I saw at gay clubs a few years later?
438471
Contemporary research proves that the vast majority of men and women are bi-sexual to one degree or another. For some of us, it is only a quick recognition of the beauty of our own gender, as you suggest, but for others it is something we could act on in an intimate way. So be at peace. You are in good company with about 80% of the human race,
103258
People don't understand that their is physical gender and then there is brain gender. Sometimes they just don't match up. As far as waiting til the christians get here, you can be a christian and still not have a problem with transsexuals, gays, or lesbians. Live and let live. Be who it is that you are in your heart.
470768
Think of it as a whole spectrum, not just 3 categories.  On one end of the spectrum, you have completely straight, on the other end, you have completely gay, but in between there are all sorts of levels of preference.  If you can be with a girl AND guy at all, you're bi, but you seem to prefer men; and that's fine.  I'm also bi but prefer men (and I married one).  By the way, once is "normal" for a guy, and anything more than that is impressive.  :)
535435
Hi there. I agree... these people answering can show more respect towards u as an individual! Man ppl... it's just a question... ANSWER IT!!! Anways, I read ur question and personally, u maybe have a tendency to lean towards bisexuality... however, since you didnt mention ur age or anything, it might be hormones. I do believe no matter your sexuality, people need to show 'respect' & 'dignity' (as these p-r-i-c-k-s didnt), you need that! It doesnt really matter on ur sexuality, I personally do not think being bi or gay is morally right, but it is a choice ppl make. I hope this helps u and i hope u find out more soon!!!
31391
The pornographers are selling the women of the world a bill of goods. Because a lot of men get a thrill out of seeing two girls together, women are being made to feel like being bi or gay is cool. If you are bi or gay, thats a choice you make. In my opinion, its obvious that men and women are biologically meant to be together. If you change that, plan on dealing with negative social issues as a result of your choice. But if you are bi because some guy thinks its cool, then you are being controlled by a hard stick.
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I think it disturbs people to see someone harm themselves (cutting).  It is a sign of mental illness.  Even then though, people should not be mean about it.\n\nAs far as the gay, lesbian and bi... that is very different.  I agree with you this is a lifestyle choice and not a mental illness or a sign of something wrong.
554211
Why use 'gay' as a bad thing?  I'm not gay, but I have gay friends, and it upsets me that people always use the word gay to describe some bad or annoying...just stop.
350183
lesb/gay, some maybe born this way, others may not. I used to dislike them, but at a later stage, I find myself attracted to e same sex also. It can be very personal preference, like straight hope to spend their life w/ e opposite sex n they find happiness n satisfaction in tat, u noe...but we prefer to find happiness w/ e same sex as we feel that each other can be more understanding n caring than to understand e opposite sex.\nAnd other wise, I personally felt that, our "Creator" played a trick on us somehow. Eg, some gals can be born w/ handsome face, body/behaviour/heart n sexual preference of a guy, and vice versa, which others may not understand. They started to mock on y do one wanna behave like tis n like tat, family members can be e one giving e most penalization ....at times, we ourselves cant understand it n it can be quit saddening . But, we've learnt to slowly accept n like ourselves. \nLike me, I posed more attractive n popular among gals than to guys. Gal who r straight can fail in love w/ me. they don understand it also. No! they r not lesbian at all n they freak out aft tat. But no guys ever want to get tat close to me..... this could be e reason y I slowly prefer to find a gal partner to spend my life w/.\nHack care abt other call u gay or wat so ever. Straight jus use these name w/o understanding......  So, no matter wat type of fren u might met, lesb/gay, do be kind to them 'cos we need to find understanding frens oso.
71841
Largely just because that's the word's connotation today.\n"Gay" is associated with a negative image of "sissy" guys in weird outfits who do "gay" things like sing sappy songs and act obnoxious.  At the same time, many students are aware that this is not how all gay people really are.  A lot of kids today might have a gay friend or know gay people, thus seeing they are "real" people.\nHowever, even gay people use the word "gay" to describe stuff sometimes, because it is part of the lexicon and because sometimes they will be the first to admit that something is lame and stereotypically sissy or obnoxious or whatever the connotation is (sorry, can't think of better examples).\n\nWhat I'm trying to say is, right now it's part of the culture.  But I think you're right in that it will change.\nEven now, teens of all orientations are starting to speak out against prejudice and creative positive change in the way their peers treat people who might be a little "different", this being increased due to the counter-cultural "individualist" movements and attitudes prevalent today and increased social awareness about these kinds of things.
191101
I agree with you to an extent. I think as a society there is too much emphasis on labeling and marginalizing people. Everyone's different though. I'm sure plenty of people are specifically attracted to one gender and not the other, while some people could potentially be attracted to/fall in love with someone of the same or opposite sex. I think people should accept love wherever and however they find it.
148059
Love is love. If they fall in love with the same sex then so be it. Besides, its their choice we should have no say in it. They dont make fun of us for being straight, why should we give them hell for being different?
596096
Are you asking a question? I mean I see the questions marks but what is your question?\n\nI think English is your second language. No?\n\nPeople normally don't hate me but then I am not out per-se. Most people like me. But if they knew I was bisexual I don't know if they would be as accepting of me. I imagine some of my relatives would have problems but I would like to think they would still love me.
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Because currently, it is a very taboo subject.\nPeople are scared of the unknown and things they don't understand, so to cover up for their ignorance they mock and disrespect gays.\n\nPeople can be real dumb sometimes.