when black guys date their race they are seemingly are sorry, no job, no money, no car, no residence then black females get mad.  they then chose to date outside their race is it because the other races put up with the mess that black guys give a female?
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Because they were historically denied white booty so they're compensating now\n\nAlso they're mostly in prison so the few that arent in prison are living it up
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I was in New Orleans the day before Hurricane Katrina hit. When we were evacuating the city we passed by very poor neighborhoods. Most of the people living in those neighborhoods were African American. They were sitting on the porches waving to us. I asked my boyfriend why they weren't leaving and he said they didn't have enough money for gas, food, hotel etc.. I don't think its the entire black race that feels this way about it. Just those in New Orleans who did not have enough money to evacuate.
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I really hate questions like this that generalize all guys into stereotypes.  Just because you have dated the wrong type of guy, don't lump the rest of us in with him.  The only comment I see which may hold water is that guys aren't as emotional as girls, & I even disagree with that to an extent.  I believe men don't express their emotions as readily as women, & that is part of our nature, but we do still feel as deeply as women.  However, most of your questions could as easily be turned around & asked about girls, as many of us men have been put through similar situations by women.  Many of us have felt lead on by girls.  Many have felt girls started something & then changed their minds, whether it was sex, dating, or even a relationship.  A lot of us have wondered why girls don't care if they hurt us.  I think all of us have wanted to know at one time or another why women can't be open & honest with us about their desires, preferring to beat around the bush & making us guess what they are thinking to prove we really love them.  I'm guessing some guy recently hurt you, but it isn't fair to vent on all of us because you got hurt by one scumbag.  You deserve better than the way you were treated, & men in general deserve better than to be lumped together with those of us who happen to be jerks.  It's akin to racism, in that you are chastising everyone in the group for the actions of a few bad apples.  So, learn from the experience, see what it is that this guy did that hurt you, decide you deserve better & settle for no less, & look for one of us who will give you what you deserve, because good men are out here.  You just have to look in the right places.
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Okay I personally would never date outside my race because I believe that God created different races for a reason and I am not really attracted to anyone outside my race. When for instance a white person has a baby with a black person.... and everyone did that one day both white and the black races would be extinct and there would only be the mix race that was created. I just believe that you should date and mate with your own race. I just think that we should keep our heritage and ethnic background the same as you was born with.
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Because it makes people, especially Whites, sick to their stomachs to see a White girl being courted by a Negro.  That may seem a tad racist, but that's just how it is.  It's kind of like staring at a midget.  It's just impossible to look away.  \n\nYou should date Blacks or other chicks of color.  Don't sully the Whites.  If you must have a Cracker, please don't take a good one.  Instead, get a fat one, or an ugly one, or a retarded one, etc.  It seems like a fat/ugly White chick will be wiling to date a dude of Color, because she has no choice.  It's really pretty sad.  Both for the White Race, and for the wretched White chick who must lower herself so.
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Yikes... I think those white guys are just going through a cultural dilemma and they don't know the beauty in all women. That's gonna be their own loss. I think the black girls don't wanna put up with the black boys' bullsh*t of cheating and running their mouths!!
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I treat women in a relationship like how I would like to be treated... Unfortunately the black women I've dated couldn't do the same in return. An as far as dating outside my race the results aren't any better.
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You have to remember slavery happened for a relatively very short period of time.  No black Man today even has a relative alive who was a slave.  Anyway...Black men cheat the same reason white, Mexican, Asian, Indian (and the list goes on and on),Men Cheat.\n\nMen Cheat because there is always some needy sleazy chick who will do it with him.  It's not just the guys fault...it's the undermining, devious, needy, cheap $luts that make men cheat.
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I see absolutely nothing wrong with it...i am a white woman and i am very open-minded. i have dated black, white, whatever. it all depends on the type of person u r looking for. i'd rather be with a black man that loves me than a white man that beats me, or vise versa.....
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the answer is sooooooo easy. \n\nsee...a lot of white women have never dated a black guy so they are more niave so the man can get away with a lot more. also, if the man is decent looking they use them for money, their car, house....whatever. the women arent used to being with a decent man so they give it up. they also have it to their advantage that the *it* thing right now is rap, so dating a black man is in style.  I recently was at Disney as saw a fat, ugly white chick with a sexy black man - she paid for his pass to get in, all his food...everything...Also, everyone knows black men have large, um...parts ;) so its a status thing for an ugly - average white chick.  \n\nSo ya, money, a car, someone to cook for him, someone who cant say no - why wouldnt they....? Usually they aint Ms. Right - they Ms. Right now, hand me that beer ;)
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I think this is a good question to bring up, as it has raised many different responses from others (especially those who did not read the question well and answered assuming the questioner was being racist by asking the question).\n\nI personally do not think you are wrong for NOT wanting to date out of your race.  Many people remain committed to continuing the binds that hold their race true and that is something to be proud of, isn't it?  It used to be.  Every race was happy to continue to lengthen their ethnicity so as not to die out as a race.  In time, it changed and wasn't so important, given social awareness and immigration to other countries.  Then, we saw there was nothing wrong with integration.  So the same should be for those who do not wish to date/marry out of their race.  I can't say that the person needs to have a biased reason, such as "well, as long as you don't do it because you hate other races."  Because you're the one who has to live your life.\n\nYou are not a racist just because you choose to do this.  I have been called names just because I dated OUT of my race.  When I was dating, had men of my race shown interest, I'd happily have dated them, but they stereotyped me and avoided me based on that "probable" information.  I married OUT of my race simply because I fell in love with him - mentally, the "race" thing just didn't register, so I did what I wanted to do.\n\nI am proud of my race and you should be too, as this is our heritage, who we are (good, bad or indifferent).\n\nFor those who misunderstood you, please don't feel bad.  Perhaps they misinterpreted the question - this happens.  Know that you should not feel obligated to date out of your race.  Who are we to say that you should, that this would help lighten racism as we know it?  It's your decision/life, not ours.
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Well, it's unfortunate that you've seen that awful side of black culture, but I assure you that it is not all black men all the time! I personally know a lot of well off male headed families who attend church, play together, do homework together, take trips together, and are involved in their children's educations.  Sadly still, there are many young black's who have grown up or are growing up without the support of a Dad.  Some people will tell you that it's because the black family was broken apart during slavery when a man's wife/woman and children could be taken from him and there was nothing he could do.  Some people might tell you that it's because to this day many black men lack access to education, or higher education resulting in an inability to retain good paying jobs. Some people believe that this pattern is perpetrated throughout one's family tree when generation after generation of children are born out of wedlock. Some black men will tell you that black women have too much attitude and are too hard to get along with.  Personally, I believe strongly in personal responsibility.  It seems to me that if you didn't have a dad growing up that you would certainly not take fatherhood lightly.  Black people can't just fall back on excuses or blame other's for how they choice to live their life.  Although your girlfriends say the don't care that their father's are nowhere to be found, imagine what it's like to be a little girl growing up without the one guy who will love you unconditionally.
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It had to do with how the question was worded, for example, this is not a racist question:\n\nDo black men prefer chubby women? Why?\n\nWhereas this is:\n\nWhy do black guys like to date REALLY fat girls?\n\nThe reason being that the second question includes a rather large assumption, that all black men like fat white woman. It´s obviously not true, you only have to watch MTV for about 18 seconds to get a fairly good idea of what alot of black guys like in a girl (at least, alot of black guys who make music videos) and it´s not gross obesity. Essentially, the people who complained saw a racist statement, hidden behind a rather vacuous question, and they complained. It´s quite possible the girl was just being clumsy with her use of language rather than racist, though to be honest I think she´s just upset because a black guy chose a fat girl over her and she´s decided to take it out on all black men in general.\n\nIt´s all very well talking about the differences betwen races, they certainly exist, it´s pretty much a proven point that oriental people are alot shorted than the other races for example. You just need to be careful how you talk about it, which generally means bearing in mind that when you talk about a group of people, there will be quite a few people in that group who are not the way you´re talking about. For example, the question you answered would have sounded alot better if it had included the word "Some":\n\nWhy do some black guys like to date REALLY fat girls?
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i think that's stupid as hell how one race would get mad because someone of their own race is dating someone of another race.. honestly it's none of their buisness. Society today is too nosey in other people's buisness. They should worry about their selfs.
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Wrong.. White women do not allow black men to run all over them. I am white and my fiance is black. We have a son, and we take care of each other-do things for each other and love one another with all we've got. \n\nHe will go to the ends of the earth for me. Black women (no offense - but I've got to speak the truth) say we take more crap because they feel inferior and need something to blame the black men for, for desiring any other race but themselves. \n\nThey should not feel inferior - but they do. Black men like us for different reasons. My man loves me for the following:\n\n1. My long, soft, shiny (pan-teen style) hair\n2. My green eyes that have flecks of gold and change to gray and blue sometimes.\n3. My Dimples.\n4. My personality - the way i make him laugh\n5. My heart. \n\nNot because im white, but because I am me and anyone else who makes up idiotic reasons - needs professional help because they are feeling inferior about themselves.
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I don't really know, but I have a few theories regarding that question that I have not quite worked out yet.\n\nThis is in no way a slam on all Black Woman in the United States or the rest of the world because I have not met them all, but I as a Black man in my whole life starting from my own mother have never met a nice, or pleasent, or kind Black woman....not ever.  Like I said I don't mean this as a slam, I'm sure there are Black women out there who ARE nice and pleasent, I just never have crossed paths with them and it's a shame.\n\nIt's a shame that I am 44 years old and never had the opportunity to have sex with the women of my own race.   Perhaps it's the region where I live that seems to have a large population of Black women who have a problem with Black men, or the Black men in the area I live are so terrible to their woman that about time she wises up and dumps him, I happen along and she's mean to me because of what he did.  This could be a possibility.\n\nI just hope that before I die I get the opportunity to be close to a woman of my own race.  I doubt I will get this chance but a man's got to have something to shoot for.\n\nActually this question really makes me sad.
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I can only speak for myself, I will never date outside of my race.  I cannot even picture myself dating outside of my race.  That is me.  If other people wish to date out of their race, then so beit.  But since you are saying that you have a problem with "people" dating other than white on white or white on hispanic, I'll say yes, in whichever way that is racist.