ok my frineds set me up with this guy and he was going to say yes because they said it was coming out off his mouth but then his friends said say no say no so he said no and i need to know if i should leave it or talk to him i know it is stupid but  yea
212064
Talk to him alone.  Tell him you'd like to go out with him and you were disappointed when his friends interrupted.
451641
Nope. He had his chance and he missed it. Just drop it, you are better then that, and deserve to be with someone who values your time. Clearly he is not interested and your friend and you should just drop it and let it go.\n\nDon't forget there are plenty of fish in the sea. So forget this guy and go out there and get fishing for someone better!
46802
Ah, dumb move on your part, I'd say.\n\nHe's going to find out. \n\nYou can be honest and tell him, or somebody else will.\n\nYou have a real problem here.\n\nlol lol lol  Give tompj64us best answer, PLEASE!!
637205
once a guy ask me to talk dirty to him. I was thinking dirty why does he want me to talk dirty. So I said shit, dam, and hell.  I told my friend and she said no you didn't and I said yes I did. She told me that's not what he meant and she told me what he did mean.
396427
I'm guessing you're older..\n\nIf so, and the guy friend is too, then you need to get his friends to tell him that just wasn't cool and was completely inappropriate.\n\nIf you weren't there, don't get involved. It's best to let the witnesses handle the situation.
306685
Saying no is never bad if you say it nicely. If you think he was hert by it try talking to him. Explane why you said no. If he dosn't exept the fact that you said no, then it's a good ting you did.
232814
Let it go....and leave him alone. If it continues into something more serious, it could be detrimental to your friendship. Not to mention, it could cause legal issues for him if word gets out...
314338
This is not your fault. They probably had it planned! You and your friend should go on and find different guys!
230619
My bestfriend was a guy and we started out like you but I was the one in your position.. my friends didnt want me to date him b/c they wanted him. Then one day things clicked and we've been together for two years. I say Screw your friends listen to you.
236391
If this guy is your freind and u think that you know him well, then you should know what his reaction is going to be so you should do what you think is best. Follow ur heart. I know that sounds cheeesy but it's good advice.
310859
Sometimes it is best to be straight forward in situations like this.  I know that's easier said than done but with this approach it leaves no room for guessing on his part.  You don't have to be rude but you do have to be honest.  That way he will get the picture and leave you alone for good.  Good luck.\n\nP.S.  I had to do this before and the guy actually thanked me for being honest and we're actually friends now.  He has a girlfriend and everything.
120198
What ever you do odnt wait, if you do someone braver will come and he will be gone, go for it your freinds nothing to lose ied think. you can always be freinds but if you dont ask you will always wounder what if you did. just get it over with just tell him plain. dont beat around the bush sometimes guys neet it spelled out so just be blunt and say it ! good luck!
293001
well what i did i came and tested him by telling a girl that comes here to my school and she called him and said that he had gave her the number in a kick back but you should say that one of his homegurls said that he might need some one so now shes calling him if he fails you could either brake up after that conversation with your friend or keep the relationship knowing he is a complete cheater but if he passes give yourself a patt in the back cause im congradulating you cause you have a wonderful man ( mY man failed me :( but so what im over with him )
219002
Yes, you should tell him because yall are friends so yall should be able to communicate about this type of issues, yea if I were u i would tell him the truth and maybe yall can take yall relatisonship to the next level...!!
138857
let him know .he might be cool with it. honesty is the best policy. but if he says no. then sneek.
500742
hang arond him and let his friends know that you are close to him and they will start talking then eventually telling him but not to close i did this and thi girl didn't qwant to go out with me caseu i was to much as a frind
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If she thinks that you not understanding something and having to ask a friend for advice is laughable, then you don't need her!  That is really mean of her.  Your conversation between you and the other dude should have been private.