While growing up I've always had a lot of guy friends that I hang out with along with my girl friends...but it seems like thats all I will have...any help on what I should do???
212542
its okay im the exact same way, i even play football with the guys, but you'll find somebody, dont worry... just flirt around a bit. youll b fine
119026
BECAUSE YOU WANT ATTENTION FROM YOUR FRIENDS. . YOU WANT TO BE THE CENTER OF EVERYTHING . . THATS WHAT IT SEEMS LIKE TO ME AND THAT IF YOUR GUY FRIENDS FIND GURLFRIENDS THEN YOUR SCARED THAT THEY WONT HAVE TIME FOR YOU ANYMORE
277367
Maybe he's one of those rare, one in a million guys who actually just want to be friends with a gal.  Just go with out.  You sound quite lucky to me.
510919
nice....sweet...intelligent...and good looking?  sounds good to me..dont worry about wont be long before the guys come flocking......btw you do seem kinda full of yourself though....might want to work on it.....the whole "i have a LOT of friends" thing made you seem a little too into being popular....
524775
Whenever anyone gets into a relationship they tend to have tunnel vision for awhile, they tend to devote much of their time to the other persons wants over even their own. So themselves and other friends basically get left out of the picture for awhile.  Your friendship will probably come back but unfortunately not until your friend realizes that he needs more than one person to make his life complete. Sorry it is a hard time to loose a good friend, and if he has become a WORSE person than before, then maybe just drop a call and say hey dude, I am happy for you and all, but you are totally different, call me when you get a chance to hang out I miss that in a DUDE way =) Good Luck............
472200
hey mama I am in the exact same position and my guy friend has mentioned he hates when girls make the first move so I am petrified to tell him, I feel like I have to wait for him to come to me. But he is probably thinking the same as you. Whenever drink, stuff happens and I usually spend every day with him and we do everything together. Work out together, party together, occasionally sleep together the whole 9. Whenever we need anything, we're the first ones each other calls. If you figure this out- lemme know!\nLauramr015@yahoo.com
629337
You will come across these kinds of people for the rest of your life.  I live my life very guarded and am very particular about who my friends are.  I use the rule that I keep people at a distance, enjoy their company but don't confide in them about anything personal.  After a while you tend to weed out the ones that you know won't be there for you if you need them or will stab you in the back the minute you walk away.  Don't let this slight your judgment in the future on seeking out companionship....just be a little more cautious!
648444
It is very important for a girl to have a male friend who is just a friend. Girls are rarely good in friendship. They tell your secrets to everyone, they may forgive about friendship etc. That is why guy friends are so treasured. I had such a friend and although I understood 100% that he is interested in me more than a friend I made myself believe that we are just friends. He could even stay for a night in my house, sleep on a couch in my room etc. But then he had a promotion to a different country and proposed to me (and we didn't even kiss). Of course I denied ;(.
58342
Mmmmm thats a toughy. It is always good to be yourself and follow your own path in life. I am sure that you have at least one or two friends. What the others think might seem important now, but believe me,later in the future you will see that what they thought doesn't matter then and not now. Be proud of who you are and don't fall to peer pressure. be youself. It will be ok even though you don't think so now.
309958
that first answer about usin you was a bunch of BS\nif it is true, dump him... but I hope for the better that it is not. I'm a guy with a lot of gfs too (cept I kinda wanna be single over summer, so I'm  not makin any moves) and I'm sure they are all jealouse when I hang out with one or the other. Its natural, just like I'm jealous when the one I've liked forever hangs out with other guys. If you talk to you bf a lot, then it should be no problem talking to him about this. If you don't talk to him, then you should either start talking to him or rething about whether or not this is the guy you want to be with. There are plenty of guys out there, and one will eventually be the right one for you. just hang in there, and if you lose this one, it'll be alright\n-- God Bless
179355
Enjoy being 12.  Don't be a follower be a leader.  Not because your 12 year old friends have boyfriends means that you have to do the same.  They are a little to young to be involved with boys anyway, so don't feel bad, take your time.  Get your education, in a few years when you are a successful professional in whatever field of study you choose, they would probably have a few kids, a few baby daddies and no real job.  So don't allow yourself to be influenced and led astray, stay true to what you know is right.  Make yourself proud by doing the right thing and just have fun being a kid.
249952
I'd just hang around and be friends with them and have them be friends with you. You will become confident in the company of guys while still hanging out with your friends. That way, when you find that special guy, you will be able to speak to him without as many butterflies. Remember, they are probably just as nervous around you at that age.\n\nHave fun and enjoy your youth.
256107
you're just normal. im the same way, but im a girl. i just chill. im friends with a lot of different types of people. i listen to what i want, wear what i want and think what i want not worring about fitting into a clique or whatever. and you should do the samee! :) its more fun this way.
306900
Well it depends on how you love them, if you love them as friends its fine, but if its more then that then you have to get to know both better and find out who you have less in common with, yes most people say to find someone with more things but it does not work, i had the same problem and one of my friends (they were both girls yes im a guy) i had so much in common with her that we never had anything to talk about!,
46090
Not unless you did something you shouldn't have while out. Let your girlfriend know that you are just friends with them and that's as far as it goes. She shouldn't be like that over friends. Does she still have guy friends she hangs with?
433804
man u got to chill out, be cool, don't worry about it, just do ur own thing and u will be fine. the more u stress the less the girls will notice. girls like cool and confidant guys who do there own thing. don't follow the pack do ur own thing and the girls will come to u..... all the best man..........
29173
Nope, you will date guys.  They look at you as one of the homies now, and that's cool, because some of the other girls probably wish they were in your shoes. Maybe one of your guy friends can set you up on a few dates, maybe even double date, and you can hook one of them up with a friend of yours.  If so, look your best, but make sure you feel comfortable! And have fun!!!