There's this guy I care about alot and when I told him I had feelings for him he didn't say anything! I'm with his friend right now, but this guy know's how unhappy I am and that I'm going to be leaving him. Last night another one of their friends kissed me, but I pulled away. When I told this guy about it he got defensive and asked, "what u like him now", I said no that I liked him, but he never said ANYTHING. I'm so confused, y didn't he tell me that either he felt the same or not.
205362
Why you want to tell him about the kiss?  Didn't you know that it would make him mad? You're with his friend, you tell him you care about him before you break up with the friend, then another friend kissed you, all before you broke up with the first guy, have I got it right?  Tell me what you would think if a guy did this?
411092
You telling him about the kiss made him jealous, which he responded by allowing a girl to give him head.  Guys like to feel that they are the best.  By you showing attention to another man, he felt less important to you and responded the only way he knew how.  If he is the kind of guy that will try to hurt your feelings every time you hurt his then you should not date, and definitely shouldn't be friends.  I would start dating him casually and let the trust build from there.  The only sad thing is, is that if this does not work out then you are probably going to lose a friend.
247975
sorry 2 hear tht... yeah i saw ur other questions about ths guy b4. actually i also experienced ths kinda situation b4. at first, i was really good friend with ths grl & passed 2 funfull yrs until i found out tht i love her. and i had hint tht she loved me too. but other things came up i couldn't give her a chance 2 express herself. but whn i expressed myself, she rejected saying tht she never felt like ths towards me, which's a lie. also all on a sudden she hooked up with some1 else to take myself off her mind & replace me with him. the most shocking part is, being heartbroken i still tried to be her friend but slowly she made a distance between us & destroyed our beautiful friendship.\n\nmy point is, affection towards a friend happens all the time. but there r some issues involved regarding friendship, other ppl around u etc. as a friend, u were suppose 2 knw tht he already has a gf. but u didn't, which is not usual. so mayb he doesn't hav any gf & story of having a gf is the most reasonable way to dump u with hurting u less. and don't bother if he doesn't like u or not. if he didn't like u, u wouldn't be yur friend. but it can be true tht he's not feeling attracted 2 u as he told u. tht doesn't mean tht u r not attractive or he doesn't like u. there can be a lot of different reasons involved regarding friendship or something else.\n\nfrom my opinion, look into yur heart. if u think tht u really want him & u knw tht he has actually feelings for u thn stick 2gether & mayb someday things'll work out. but the downside is u donno if thts gonna happen. so there's a chance to get heartbroken again frm the same person for the same reason. on the other hand, continue being friend & move on, find another guy who understands u & doesn't hurt u like ths. but whtever happens, yur friendship wth ths guy will not gonna be same frm now on.\n\nhope ths works. feeling sorry 4 u!
101379
It sounds like he probably had some interest in you but possibly not beyond friendship.  I'm betting he has another girl that he likes and he is shutting you out because of that.
61291
I'm not emailing you...sorry, I don't need any more friends but it sounds like your not even interested in this dude. Why would you even consider dating him if you don't even like him? Remind yourself why it didn't work out with you guys to begin with and just tell him your not interested anymore. Or if you think there might stillbe something there spend some time with him as a friend. No sex or kissing...really just friends for awhile.
336643
that's good you told him, you had to let your feelings out, now ,if he only likes you as a friend let him know it's still OK with you if you'll are still friends.also, if he doesn't show that he likes you back don't feel bad sometimes it is better to have a friendship relationship instead of no relationship at all.but also give him time maybe he likes you too, but has not had a chance to tell you yet.
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
290411
Well if you told your guy friend that you like his friend and the your guy friend did not speak up then there should not be a problem. A kiss is just that a kiss.
87326
GIRL I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL THATS THE POSITION I'M IN RIGHT NOW BUT DON'T WORRY JUST DON'T TALK 2 YO FRIEND BECAUSE SHE NO GOOD .THAT MEAN SHE LIKED  HIM THE WHOLE TIME BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T EVEN ASK U WAS IT COOL AND HE WRONG FOR ASKING YO FRIEND THAT MEANS HE MAD BECAUSE U BROKE UP WITH HIM JUST STAY COOL OR DO WHAT I'M DOING TALK 2 ONE OF HIS FRIENDS AND ACT LIKE YALL GO OUT 2 GET HIM BACK SO THAT HE WILL KNOW HOW IT FEELS.
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Guys can be so awful sometimes. he seems really pathetic. any way i dont think u can continue liking him after wat he said... can you?? i know it must hurt a lot coz u were in love wid this guy for so long.u must have probably thought that he was great guy thats y u were in love wid him. but now he has opened ur eyes n proved to u that he is really a creep and not someone u can give ur heart to.
522205
I think that you should talk to him about it. He may be feeling awkward because you told him how you felt and he's not ready to make the transition from "friends" to "more than friends." Talk to him and see where his head is at, try to make him feel comfortable so that he won't blow you off. Things like this are never easy, but you'll never until you ask. Good luck....
99081
i had one guy actually say to me, "so you like me right?" and i was absolutely stunned. I DID, but it was just very awkward. see if you cant spend some time with her one on one and get a better feel for her.
212681
Well I think that if you really like him just let him kno how you feel about him and see wha he says. Maybe you could even ask him how he feels about you. You dont have to ask him out or anything but just talk to him and see how he feels about you maybe he is with someone else right now that he doesnt want to be in a relationship with you right now.
172637
Have a talk with this guy, find out why he says he loves you because this guy sees something with in you that this guy likes about you. Give this guy some reason why you don't feel the same.Tell him you don't feel comfortable  with hime following you. Tell him could be friends get to know more about each other [ likes- dislikes ] Tell him you are not intrested in him at the present time. who knows maybe in the future a relation ship could develope between you two.
71903
YOU WASTE ALL YOUR TIME OBSSESSING ABOUT HIM BE-CUZ YOU REALLY LIKE HIM AND CAN'T LET HIM GO. I GUESS HE LEFT YOU WITH SOMETHING THAT NO OTHER GUY HAS LEFT YOU WITH AND THAT WHAT MAKES HIM SO SPECIAL TO YOU. JUST TELL HIM AND IF HE PUTS YOU DOWN THEN JUST LEAVE HIM. HE'LL COME BACK AROUND AND REALIZE YOU WERE BRAVE ENOUGH TO TELL HIM. THAT'S JUST MY GUESS THOUGH.
237578
If what he lied about is not that serious, i say give him another chance, he sounds nice enough.  But dont do anything you dont feel comfortable with.  Obviously you posting this q tells me that you still feel something for this guy, or else this wouldnt have bothered you so much, to tell the truth, if you felt nothing it wouldn't have bothered you at all.  Go sort out how you feel about him, and then decide if you want to be friends, more than friends or if you want to give it a miss all together...
417321
If he's a really good friend, you should be able to tell him anything. You should tell him what your friends said, and ask him how he feels about it. Let him know, though, that you consider him as a good friend and that you don't want that to change if he does like you more than a friend. If he cares about you, he will understand and not pressure you to feel differently. Who knows, maybe he'll laugh at what your friends said! Just don't be afraid to talk to a good friend you trust about anything. Good luck!