I forgave my gf after she gave me crabs but last week I caught her giving my brother a gobble, Should I finish with her, she has a really good job and I dont work?
216873
You are a genuine goofball
103312
damn this sucks pretty bad . well as you said you never made her any  promises so yes you should move along .since this is going to be painful for her regardless just be really honest with her and tell her why your leaving ...exactly why ...women have a tendency to try and pick things apart too much ...if shes in some sort of denial shes gonna have a hard time understanding why your leaving her  , as long as your really clear she wont have to judge herself too  hard and wonder what she did wrong . and by all means dont let hurting her stand in the way of you being happy ...but no i dont think you necessarily think you shouldve left earlier sometimes we like to hang on too long thinking that magically things are going to falll in place but it rarely happens that way damn im blabbing hahah sorry
524952
If you really loved her it shouldn't have been important if she didn't want to go any further, but it also depends how long you two were going out. Offcourse at this age love is not that important yet, and it's more about the fact you've got a gf. If she forgives you for flirting with her friend, there should be no worry of going out together because, noone would be happy if you were straight away hooking up with someone, even worse if it was your friend. Just slowly get into doing things. And never push them into doing things they don't want!
451831
Tell him how you feel about what happened and that you're willing to come back, but he owes you an apology for what he did.  Hopefully he learned from his last gf that he should consider you first.
498064
At least your gf told you the truth, which means she cares for you. She could have lied, and you would never know.\n    So don't be too angry
675040
Well no, you should have not done that but do let her know what you have done.  She may be more willing to forgive you if she sees that your confessing your mistake...Good luck!
114562
If I were you I'd talk to your girlfriend about it see what she thinks.  She could get her brother to back off.  If not u may get the hell out of there.
218593
if she doesnt forgive you just forgive yourself and go on.some people cant take constructive criticism.maybe she can forgive you.i wouldnt loose any sleep over it ok.good luck and keep your head up. =)
5849
Giving something to someone because everyone else is caught up in the game (X-mas in the USA) is really quite selfish if you stop and think about it.  Is it for them? or is it for YOU?  Doing it so you don't look cheap?  Then you can resent her for putting you in debt for the rest of the year?  I suggest you give her something that is meaningfull.  Think about it.  Your time on this blue marble is very limited and that makes your time your most valuable posession.  Think about it.
310679
Keep doing what you are doing, eventually you will get over it.  Never change something unless it never poses a problem.  You might be a little nervous, but that is ok, because you love your gf. Show more love and consideration still, someday you will see the appreciation.
169048
I have heard about way too many guys letting women bring home the bacon and not giving back a whole lot in return lately.  Honey if he doesn't want to shout it out that you are going to be his wife, ditch the dirt bag.  Spend your money on yourself have a good time.  Don't give up on love though, just find someone who loves and respects you.....first you have to love and respect yourself.
511849
I think you deserve a hell of a lot better than this chick.  She's clearly using you, and you're letting her.  I understand that you guys had fun together and all that, but it's really not a good idea to be with someone who already has a significant other.  Eventually he will find out and it may not turn out good for one or both of you.  I would just go to Germany, relax a bit, go out clubbing or whatever to have fun... but just enjoy your leave.  Don't waste your time with girls who are only gonna drop you.
111457
Bro's before Hoe's....\n\nThere's a good chance it wont matter. Sorry but I know when I was younger and my brother and I lived together there was no way we would let a girl do that... I do have to be honest and say that we had let her think she had broken us apart. When in fact it was just so we both could score and toss her on. Dont mess with family. Family will always, always, always win sooner or later.
16429
Your dilemma is a tough one.  \n\nOn one hand, you’ve got Confucius’s Creed of “Bro’s before Ho’s.”  But on the other hand, none of your boys is going to step up and give you your daily tug job.  \n\nOn one hand your boys want to hang out, play bocce, and watch the Braves.  On the other hand, you’re dying to see “Sleepless in Seattle” again with your Honey.  \n\nWhat to do..what to do?  \n\nI’m sure your girlfriend will understand that you want to hang out with your friends from time to time.  Moderation is a good thing.  Why don’t you have a cookout with your friends on February 4th and buy all the beer and meat to make up for it?  It's the least you can do...
536353
yes, u wanna b with her because ur so used to it that its hard to stop, its like a routine that u have going and without it u feel lost and confused, so u should try to find another girl that makes u more happy and maybe then ull b ok to break up with the old gf bc u can then start a new routine, one u actually enjoy :)
155778
I don't think anybody else can really help you with this, brotha. It's all based on the decision you make. My advice is if you're digging her, go for her. If you want to be a jerk, go for everybody else. It's not that I'm calling you a jerk, but how do you think she would feel about the whole thing?
460794
you did the right thing. dont feel bad honestly. if you kept dating her then youw ould have made things a whole lot worse because later on, she might have fallen in love with you. leave things the way it is. tell her to call you once she is okay enough to accept things with how they are and you just want to be friends. that you will always be there for her even though you arent with her.