What makes guys fall in love with a girl? He asked me out for a movie..what should i do in order to catch his attention in our first personal date?
206085
He asked you on a date, obviously he digs you already. Give it some time and see how it develops. \n\nA southern accent, if you can do one, couldn't hurt ;-)
465992
dont invite other people, just go on this movie "date" with her. Talk to more and get to know eachother. Just relax and just go to the movies, you dont need to talk much seeing as yous will be interested in the movie, Just ask her if she wants anything to eat or drink and than get it for her, rather than that dont need to say much just watch the movie. At the end than yous can talk about the movie, the likes and dislikes about it. Tell her it was a lot of fun and would love to do it again sometime. Just try to get really close to her as a friend and dont push it into anything more yet. And if yous keep going out on these dates than maybe she will see how great you are and than start likeing you more than this other guy. Just be there for her to listen to and give advice. Just a guy who she can go out and have fun with. If there is any connection with yous than it will be noticable later on thats when you make the move.
342646
I would prefer an arm around me at the movies. Because if you are holding hands, the guys usually start sweating. It makes a girl feel comfortable to lean on him (in your case, you) and it makes us girls feel safe and protected with her man holding her. Do you get what I mean??? Well good luck. I am so far guessing this is your first date. I hope everything goes well.
659312
next time he is tlaking to your friend go over there and be like "what are you guys talking about.." and then just casually ask your friend and him if they want to go to the movies. Later your friend will become suddenly "ill" and unable to go to the movies thus leaving you and will on a first date!
243286
Sounds great but it's a lot different than the movies.\n\nYou will be together for at least 2 hours doing nothing but talking, you should prepare for that. And if he refuses don't judge him, maybe he's not ready for that yet.\n\nGood luck.
77885
what do u mean by "big stuff??".c'mon!!remember...drops make an ocean.make them sit together and sort out the bones of contention.and if u r concerned bout the guy...go up to him n ask him to keep that smile,intact!!the most important thing right now for him is to keep up his confidence!!rest of it will follow.if the girl isn't interested even then...tell him,he deserves something MORE special.ask them to go out for a movie or anywhere.some place where they get time EXCLUSIVELY FOR THEMSELVS!!GUD LUCK!!
638422
Make the first move if you are interested,he sounds a shy guy.This could go on and on.He probably thinks you are out of his league.go for it girl!
24464
I would just say - try and talk to this guy more and do little filrty things, like smile and laugh at things he says, try getting real close to him when you talk, and let him see that you are going out of your way to talk to him! And if you do get the guts to asking him to the movies just sound sure of yourself. Good luck, and smile alot, but most important, just be who you are!
403023
If he asked you, then that's a good thing!  Just relax and have a good time.  Just try to keep your hormones in check since you have a really big crush on this guy.  Try to act yourself and just get to know him.  Maybe he has a thing for you if he asked you to the movies.  \n\nGood luck!
474871
That all depends how you have been expressing yourself to him. A lot of guys can not pick up signals or they misinterperted signals from girls.\n\nMost people (espically guys) are afriad of rejection. If you know that he has feelings for you and you feel the same way for him and he's too chicken to ask you out, then you should make the first move or you both would be waiting for nothing to happen.....
265402
I think that movies are a cop out on a first date...I agree with those who say do something low-key and fun.  Outdoor activities are great and you could take a picnic.  Have fun!
345589
well this guy is a pefect carbon copy of me.\n\nSo if you make a move on him he wouldn't look you down or anything, but as he is a man/guy he prefers to make the move. So what you basically need to do is to make it very easy for him so that he feels very comfortable to ask you out.\nI would say it wouldn't hurt if you become a bit bolder and show some confidence yet at the same time asure him that you are not embarrased by his shyness and you want him to ask you out. \nI know there are ways of doing this without talking much. I can't tell you since I am not a girl. But show him something. If you get the chance touch him ,like on his back or something. And show a lot of smile. The kind of smile the says " Come here baby, I want you" \nI still do believe he should make the move.\nI don't know this is exactly my problem. What I told you is what I think best if a girl acts in a way so that I would feel conmfortable talking to her.\n\nGood luck.
581414
Become friends with him if you haven't already. Find out what he's interested in. For example, if you both want to see this movie, be like "Would you like to come with me?" If he says no, then just be like "Whatever, I'll just ask one of my other friends." If he says yes, then it may be the start of something great. (:
330783
Talk to him, as a chick you hold all the cards in dating and relationships. Ask him out, chances are you'll catch him off guard but he'll probably go out on a date with you.(guys tend to fall for friends more often than they'd admit). If your not comfortable with that spend time with his ala'date but as friends first.
429528
Oh boy, you've got a handfull, don't you?\n\nHere's an idea.  Be a good example.  Show him a romantic gesture.  Make it a good one.  Wait several days.  Don't ask his right away; cause it will come off to planned.  Then challenge him to best what you did for him.  Bet you didn't think of that, now did you?\n\nOh whatever you do must be good too.  Go buy some flower pedals, not Rose pedals (Because you'll take away an easy realization for him to discover.), and create a trail fro the living room to your bedroom.  Walk him down the trail.........\n\nYou can fill in the rest of that scene.\n\nRemember the Golden Rule.  He'll catch on.\n\nAlso go to some romantic movies or watch some videos with him.  Then in a womanly way, drop some hints about what you like in the movie.\n\nThere now, all better!  Go get 'em!\n\nOne more thing, if you aren't getting something that you really want from him then perhaps you need to rethink you're actual involvement.  If you suggest that you both take a break for a while and you date some others then one of two things may occur:  1) You'll cause this guy to rethink what he may lose in you.  2) You may find somebody better.\n\nI'm outta here, babe.
294561
oooh so cute your first bf^^ you should do something natural that you usualy do with a friend... don't try to be too romentic the first time, go walk in a park and talk with him... take this first date to try to know him a litle bit more. Good luck :D
308736
:) I'm not sure I'm like most women, but personally I do love when a guy asks me out... as long as it's in a nice way. If you don't know her, a look at her eyes and a smile when she notices should make her smile back. If she does, then you can come closer and introduce yourself, then start chatting a bit and ask her to have a coffee (if she can't but is interested she will probably offer to exchange numbers). About numbers, here are my "rules": if I'm really interested I will take his number and give him mine -no risk to miss an opportunity-, if I'm not too interested I will just take his -I decide-, if I want to see if he really is interested (and if I am) I will give him mine -let's see if he wil call-.\nNow if you know her already (classmate, for example) you can try to chat with her from time to time and see if you have something in common that could be used: like if you talk about cinema, maybe she will mention a movie she wanted to see. If you want to be direct with a girl I would go for the "I was wondering if you would have time to have a coffee with me one day?". It's still casual, she can decline easily (important!), and again if she really can't but is interested she will offer another solution. Don't do too much, she has to feel she can refuse.\nOn a more general basis, if I see a guy I like I will do the smile-and-bat-my-eyes trick, this is usually enough to encourage the guy to move ahead. If he smiles backs and seems interested but won't move, I will probably offer a coffee myself if there is a possibility  won't see him again (subaway etc.) :)\nAnd about the bf... you're not supposed to know! If she say she has one, just don't say you're not jealous... please! ;) And don't worry, if you act nicely I don't think a girl will reject you roughly. She will probably be flattered: what girls have everyday it's guys making kiss sounds or saying comments about their body, not an actual sentence. That's not that common... ;)