If you cheat someone you will also be cheated .\n\nIf you blame someone you will also blamed.\n\nIf you will help someone you will also get help from someone.\n\nIf you reject someone you will also be rejected .\n\nThis means ,everything will be balanced by nature. This happened to me in my life till now. Any thoughts .?
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Ah karma. Nice thought, doesn't hold up in experimentation. It's kind of like that buttered toast falling butter side down thing. We think it always does but if you test objectively its 50/50. Life is ran through our personal filter, we see it one way because we want to, but if you look at objectively its not always that way. That's why there are happy rich people who are jerks and good poor folks starving in this world. Life isn't fair no matter how much we want it to be.
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I'm not one of those people that believes "once a cheater always a cheater".  I think people can change if they are sincerely sorry, and get some help for the problem that made them cheat in the first place.  As far as trusting the cheater, that is something you have to answer for yourself.  Maybe you can't at all.  Maybe you can with some counseling.  You have to make the choice for you.
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Hell to NO!!! its just this simple bad character no matter how you put it. And if you're going to cheat you're going to cheat no matter what. But the question is how long will it be before they decide to cheat?? And people think that they really love the person that they're in a relationship with, but yet and still they decide to cheat and also lack of will power, they're a lot of reasons why people cheat. Now I do believe that if you really love someone that no one can seduce you into cheating with them no matter what.
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yeah, that doesn't sound good, I agree.\n\nBut perhaps it means that they will follow God whether it brings bad things on themselves or not.  For example, let us say that you have a business and it is going under.  You could cheat and be dishonest and keep the business up and running, and prosper.  But that would not be to obey the Lord.  But if you say, "I refuse to cheat.  I will obey God, even though it brings bad fortune upon me - even if I lose my business."\n\nThat's one way that I took the verse.  I'd have to read it in context to see if that could work in context.
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People that cheat are selfish; they don't consider the feelings of another person until after the act is done. Then they're not really sorry unless you're willing to forgive them. But don't take the blame for someone cheating one you, it's not your fault alone, you may have missed all the signs, and made it very easy to do but it's not you're fault.
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That's a very astute quotation. It says that by keeping someone with a lie, you will hurt them more than if you were to lose them by setting them free with the truth.
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it means to take the blame off of someone
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Cheating is a symptom of a relationship where people are not communicating and have lost their connection with each other. it's the fault of the relationship not a particular person.\n\nAs soon as you stop communicating one or both of you become candidates for infidelity....because we all miss intimacy with another person. We'll seek it out if we're not getting it at home.\n\nA man may be attracted by beautiful women but we won't cheat if we are truly intimate with our wife. Our heart won't let us.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater.\n\nYou already caught him once and now he is disappearing.  Sounds very fish.
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Usually it's the jealous person who is having thoughts of doing whatever it is that they are blaming others for.  Sooooo if you are thinking about cheating then you are going to start to think that your boyfriend is thinking about it too.
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All this stuff is a game / play of minds / errors / virtual lies to others or him/herself.\nDon't worry too much. Take it easy.\nDon't be attached too much and you will not be vulnerable.\nYou always have time to decide for yourself.\nIf something happend in unpredictable way, let it go in this way, because it means it's better for you and it was not predefined for you, and not your destiny.\n\nConsider yourself as a part of game. Don't accept such discussion being closer to your heart. You decide what to do.\nIf something touches you, it's an interesting material for your investigation of yourself. Don't hurry, you never miss your single love. It's not that easy to miss something real.\nIf it's real, it's so big, that it always finds you, not matter what.
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cheating can always be forgiven if the cheater is truly sorry and you both really love each other and want things to work out. (so only 1 act of cheating)
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They are both wrong. For one when you get married you are vowing to be with that one person for the rest of your life. No matter what. The other for thinking that person they are cheating with, is being honest with them. Also the people that are cheating take the chance of bringing ruin into so many other lives. All the secrets and dishonesty and the energy it takes to be a cheater. And the diseases out there are another thing to think about.  I know this for a fact. Cheating just destroys lives.....
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I think it refers to u not being greedy or being to attached to physical things. For example a person might be in need or just hint that he/she likes something of yours. If your greedy you might not even want to talk about the subject cause you already know where it's headed. If your attached you might be willing to give that person something else. If your a giving person you'll be able to weigh out the other persons necessity or interest in the object over yours. Giving full hearted, can bring you peace, love, joy and no regrets. But that's only if you do it full heartily. All & all i think the quote is a religious quote, and basically means you cant keep any earthly matter. If u can give willingly then its probably because you've realized that there is someone or something greater than you. If you ask me the most valuable thing anyone can give is their time. What u gain from giving what u cant keep, I think is a lifetime of peace, loves, & laughs, and at the end of it all an eternal life of happiness.
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This is a pretty straightfoward interpretation.\n\nIf you are angry with anyone else, then God will judge you for it (presumably during your life or afterwards).\n\nIf someone should say that anger means that you will answer to God and someone calls that person a fool, then they will be in danger of God's judgement.\n\nBasically, don't be angry at another or you will be judged.  Anyone who denies this will also be judged.
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It means that being a loser is no big deal, but only if you didn't try anyway. \n\nSeriously, that is most cretinous thing I've ever heard (read). What if both people paid the same price?
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It means someone is wrongfully manipulating you, your emotions or your intelect for personal gain whether it be sexual, image or whatnot. What it boils down to is disrespect. Trus is a beautiful thing. But is ugly when it blinds you to the obvious. Again, as with most things, trust your gut instinct. But if you feel he's being dishonest or disrespectful to you behind your back, you need to cut him off and do NOT give in to him later. If he plays you once, that's his mistake. If he plays you twice, that's your mistake cause you let him take advantage of you. Good luck.