This could be about anything from sports to relationships.However it pertains to you. Wish people wouldn't play favourites and be impartial until they know all the facts. \n\nOpen to interpretation.
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BIAS STEMS FROM A LACK OF EDUCATION AND AN UNDERSTANDING OF OTHER FAITHS AND CULTURES! ALSO PEOPLE FORGET THAT OPINION IS NOT FACT AND EXPECTING EVERYONE TO LIVE BY ONE NARROW MINDED VIEW IS WHAT STOPS PROGRESS! \n\nWE LIVE IN A SOCIETY OF MULTI CULTURES, SHOULD WE NOT, AS A SOCIETY, BE MORE ACCEPTING OF OUR NEIGHBOUR? WE SHOULD BE EMBRACING DIFFERENCES INTEAD OF FEARING THEM!\n\nEVERY LIVING BEING HAS THE SAME INSIDE SO WHY DO WE CONCERN OURSELVES WITH THE OUTER IMAGE! I MEAN WOULD YOU BUY A MAGAZINE AND JUST STARE AT THE COVER?   NO!! YOU OPEN THE PAGES AND DELVE INTO THE INTERESTING CONTENTS!\n\nWE SHOULD ALL BE LOOKING DEEPER THAN THE OUTER LAYER AND ENJOYING WHAT IS IN THE MINDS AND HEARTS OF OUR FELLOW MAN!
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It's the stubborness. And I'm sure every man has it. Wouldn't admit even if they're wrong. A disability to listen. Answering without listening the question. Later be surprised as the first time to know the question...and for giving the wrong answer. Happened all the time, with all the exes and guys friends. Doubt it can be changed. It's in the blood.
555182
No one wants 100%, undiluted truth.  No one.  Just think of all the seriously crude/wicked/insulting/etc random thoughts that wander through our heads...even I don't like knowing I think such things about other people.\n\nI live by the adage 'If you don't want to know, don't ask'.
604593
Right on sister!! Sorry, but what a load of stereotypical nonsense.\n\nAny decent bloke values his wife/girlfriend/friend's opinion.
354241
Differing opinions due to ignorance.Past ,present and future it will still be due to this!
432470
Sorry you are experiancing this. Someone must not be comfortable with you or your views. I'm not really suprised though, it seems some people will do anything to  prevent a person from speaking for themself and presenting a reasonable point of view. If they want to ask silly questions (which can be fun) let them do it for themself.
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Forget about what is being said. People will do anything for easy points. I say, keep doing what you doing and being a playa isn't easy. We players, have reputations to protect from those who want to be like us. Just play it and set it up smoothly. Besides, that's what women are good for. Once they all find out, just play it off like a rumor being spread and move onto the next. DON'T TRIP!!! TRUST ME, HOMIE!!!
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No, that's not good advise.  Nobody needs to know everything about you and you can have your own thoughts without having to share them.  The only time you need to share is when your in a committed relationship and the topic directly effects them.
154491
Not completely. One should never trust only ONE source of information. They may not have every fact on the subject and a single view can be biased. Try a few different sources and get a more well rounded take on it.
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Because you're the bearer of bad news and people don't like hearing bad news at all.\nIf a friend of mine found out that my partner was cheating on me, I would want to be told so I can do something about it.\nTelling me shows that they care about me even though they know I'm going to be hurt by the news.\nREAL friends stick together and help each other through good and bad times .. no matter what.
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There are innumerous people in this site that pass judgement, why they come no one really knows. So while it may seem a little silly sometimes you need to put in a disclaimer i.e. note that you're not asking to challenge but for information or to have an intellectual discussion hopefully that should minimise the backlash, but then again everyone likes to have a bitch.\n\nLuck!
243474
don't take things so personally. there are a lot of freaks in here, who either have nothing better to do or are just looking for points. just go with the answer you like the best. take care.
524092
I had this problem in my favorite sport as well...it doesn't matter what people think...if you love the sport, just go out.
20763
I'd guess, from personal experience, that it can be a lack of self-confidence...people don't want to seem greedy or inappropriate.
99421
some people i know that are into stuff like that have a few underlying issues.  you  might want to figure out what they are.  those situations aren't always controllable.  you'd hate to get hurt.
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My opinion has always been, if there is confusion in any  relationship, friend, work, boy/girl friend, hubby/wife etc...the only way to know any truths for sure is to ask the one that the problem is with. \nSecond hand info adds more confusion, so, when possible, its best, most of the time, to confront those we might have issues with first.
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Good luck.\n\nIt's what they do, they talk about all the stuff that you thought was personal and private to all of their friends for no good reason.