I gave him my phne number over 2 weeks ago how long does it take for him to call me???\nHow long did it take your Guy/BF to call you???\n\nThanks :)\nR.D
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I think I'd move on or call him.  I hate these little dating games.  I flirted with a guy for over 2 months it was mutual, and I expressed my attraction and he never responded.  No call, no nothing.  So, if they don't call, screw them, and if they call 8 months later, screw them then, too!
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Guys always wait to call - You problem caught him off guard by dialing his digits back.  He Probly wasn't ready for a voice to voice conversation.  You should have text him back - girls are notorious for jumping the gun - however with that said - chill - wait a couple of days and think of something funny and text him - he'll respond - he probly feels awkward too because the conversation didn't go so well.
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:) Don't give up until Monday afternoon. My bf (when he first dating me) don't call until 1 hour before he wants to meet me. Guys, preparing for a date, don't take but at most 15 minutes, and they think that girls do the same too. It never appears in their mind of all the kinds of things girls need to do before a date, like take a shower, make up, etc. \n\nSo, he's probably gonna call around SUnday night or Moday morning. Good luck.
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Seriously?  Quit calling him.  It's one of two situations.  Either he's super busy and will get back to you when he can or he's blowing you off.  Either way, calling him non-stop won't make the situation any better.
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you r absolutely right and smart to stick to your schedules. thats how you flush out the big phonies!! trsut me there you did not lose anything precious here. if he ever call again dont even bother having anymore conversation with this pervert. learn from these expereince and fell out guys like that in the future!! good going girl!!
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How can he call you first if he doesn't have your number?  You have to be the one to call him.  The age is really not very different.  When he said he had his own place was it part of the converstion or was he trying to get you to go to his place (big difference!).  If you are not sure, call him, stay in public places for a while, keep it casual.  Or what you could do is call him to thank him again for helping you.  Then he has the chance to get your number or ask you to hang out.
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Guys always try to play it cool and wait a little while before they call you.  Maybe he doesn't want to seem pressed or he doesn't want to make it look like he's sweating you. Believe it or not, guys get nervous about the call as we do, so just give it a little while.  He'll call you.
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call him up again or wait for one more day.don't worry he wil come to u soon.
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i thin kyou should move on. if he hasnt took the time to actually realize you havnt called him in three days and didnt  call you to ask about it then hes not worried about you. i think you should leave him alone. dont worry about him. hes an ass! and then that message he left you on myspace...that sucked a big one!!!!!
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I would call him and ask him what is going on! If he is going to be with you he dont need to avoid you for a week !
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ok, i am in a LDR and its working great!! so, background-we were best friends for two years before we started dating...we would talk for hours every night and had been there for each other through everything! so four months ago, we decided to start dating....now he is in college an hour away so its been kinda tough, just because we miss seeing each other more often....but we both trust each other in everything and b/c our relationship is based on trust and communication, getting to kno each other via phone, etc, it has really been working out.......we call each other for everything and have gotten so much closer....plus it makes the times we get to see each other more special!! =D so it depends on the trust factor really, otherwise there is no relationship.....well, hope this helps!!
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Give her a call. She's prbably wondering what happened to you. I can tell you from a girl's perspective that when a guy is given a girl's phone number and he doesn't call either not at all or for awhile, the girl is going to think something is wrong. So you give her a call, see if she is still interested in seeing you, if the answer is yes, then ask her out and be honest with her. If and when she asks you why it took so long for you to call her, you tell her you had some business to take care of and things are just now slowing down. That way you're neither lying nor is it giving her too much information than what you want her to know. As far as her reaction, she may be upset a little that it's been 3 weeks since you've had her number, but on the other hand she'll be glad that you finally called if she wants to pursue something with you. Hope this helps you.
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Appreciate that he is returning your calls and has let you know that they're HIS issues, not yours.\n\nYou've only been hanging out a month.  Depending on what he has going on, that's really not enough time to develop trust.  It happens over time, and this relationship is in it's beginning stages.  It may not be an exclusive relationship, though it sounds like it's heading that way.\n\nDon't put any more pressure on him.  He knows you're there, he knows you're concerned.  That's enough.  If you continue to call him, then you need to ask yourself "Am I really concerned about him, or am I feeling insecure because I'm not part of what's going on?"  He's having some challenges right now, and I think he's handling this appropriately.  If you're really concerned about him, then keep it about him.  Be available to him if / when he needs you.  \n\nWhat's going on with him has nothing to do with you.  Keep this situation in its proper perspective; otherwise, you will lose him before you've gotten things off the ground.
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I wouldn't call him.  It sounds like he's changed his mind.  Move on.  If he does call, ask for an explanation.
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How long has he not returned your calls, if for weeks then yeah, he is having a fling....
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Relax and quit jumping to assumptions that have no real basis.  IF he goes a couple of weeks and doesn't contact you then you would be right in what your thinking but we are only talking a weekend, and you never know what happened during that time.  For now just relax and enjoy your life and don't worry about it, he will either call or not call.  Either way, life goes on.
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Up to you!  My roomie says that if a guy doesn't call her back the very next day then he's not willing to give her the attention she wants- and she forgets about him.  I've known other people who said never call the next day or you'll seem desparate!  Most guys like to wait between 2 and 4 days, just to look 'cool'.  Guys who wait longer than that have either lost or -thrown away- your phone number.  Call him up!  Find out why he hasn't called you!  Don't just sit around waiting on a guy.  That's soooo 1958.\n;)