it's about my ex-boyfriend I found out he was cheating on me but I really love him and want to be with him we been to gather about 7 years but I'm not about to deal with him cheating on me he need to get his life togather.
217222
Good decision. But if it was the first time that he's cheated on you, maybe give him another chance. If not, then you don't need someone like that.
217968
If you love the other guy, stay with him! An ex should always be forgotten. But I don't blame you for feeling a little cheated on. You'll get over it if you love the boyfriend you're with at the moment.
582840
"Kinda cheated"?  LOL.  Anyway, being young teens and in a relationship with "cheating" for 11 months makes me think you should both move on.  Just my 2 cents.
42548
im on your situation and the thing that i could share and say is you still love him...are u realy thinking bout the bad situation or the times youve been with each other....u know 7 months is too long for recovery but i think you havent really forget him yet...
60971
You're not over it or in denial because you are just trying to get on with your life rather than trying to get him back.  It doesn't mean you didn't love him because you are trying to go on with your life; it just mean that your mind has made up its mind to do what it needs to do to start living again.  It will take time but in the meantime; I think your body and mind is trying to survive through all that has been going on.
89092
First off, you didn't cheat.  You were broken up and living your life and moving forward.  Personally I think it was a bad choice for you to get back with your old boyfriend.  He guilted you into it, and the truth is that nothing has changed.  You deserve to be happy and I don't think you will ever be happy with him.  End this relationship and realize that if he wants to lay in your yard and cry that is his choice and your not responsible for him.  You should never feel bad for doing what is best for you.
300866
He may well have thought he had someone else then found out otherwise. He has some serious explaining to do before you take him back. just because you love him does not mean he can treat you like dirt.
586942
It takes time to get over someone that you have loved and trusted so deeply. I know that's probably not what you want to hear but it is true. The last thing that you need to do right now is to jump into another relationship. Take your time and let love happen to you again in its own time. In the mean time try to occupy your time with other things and don't dwell on missing him so much. I know its easier said than done but trust me in time it will get better.
6331
After 7 years if he wants to move on you better let him go.  Everyone goes through a lot of hurt, and the next guy you're with will have gone through a lot of hurt with someone else.  That's how you learn throughout your life.  Don't bang your head against the wall for someone who has said they need to move on.
640353
I think you're too smart to be that naive. It's a matter of you making up your mind to offer him the choice of life with you and without his ex's in any way at any time or not. Personally, I think you should skip this step and just move on. If he disrespects you that much and honestly thinks you're that naive then you're in for a lot more heartache in the future.
673215
i think you should leave him. if he really cared about you and loved you he wouldn't have slept with someone else. he has hurt you and you could "never forget it". and i agree with you, it should've been OBVIOUS what to do if he's been with you for 6 years! if you forgive him and let him back into your life, he'll be even worse and go "play" with a whole bunch of other girls. he isnt worth your time . . . you should try to forget bout him and look for new people. \ni hope this helped (even though i dont really think it did)\nbut GOOD LUCK!\nhope everything works out for you = ]
96149
If he is cheating on you after 3 years you really need to find a real man one that wants you and no one else. But if you want to try to fix it find out if he still loves you and why he is doing this to you.
8316
what a flimsy excuse! of course it is cheating. and no,you wouldn't be in the WRONG for still liking him and wanting him back. but you WOULD be setting yourself up for a lot of heartbreak in the future.
619721
When did it stop? Did it stop by itself or was it because you found out?\n\nSince you two have been through a lot together, I think you should give him a second chance but make him earn your trust back. Sure he cheated but those 6 years and all the stuff you two have been through most likely trumps one meaningless "afternoon delight."\n\n\n[edit: apparently, your e-mail or whatever is not confirmed or something]\nI think you just need to have a little faith. \n\nYour partner told you that he felt like you were ignoring him, so he probably only participated in the sex site because he wanted attention. But after he got that attention, he realized that it wasn't the kind of attention he wanted, he wanted your attention. I truly believe that he's over that and won't do it again because he stopped himself before things went further and admitted it to you. Those are two very big steps.\n\nI'm sure it hurts that he put those actions on photos but that was just an embarrassing, low point in his life that he's over. I think you two should raise your communication levels with each other so things like this don't happen again. Tell him to inform you if he feels that you're ignoring him or if he feels anything is wrong with your relationship.\n\nThough I partially believe in the "once a cheater, always a cheater" thing, I don't think that it applies. Those 4 months can't compare to the 6 years you two have spent together.
76113
the person who i loved with all my heart cheated on me after 2 years of relationship. it crushed me but i couldn't imagine my life without him and i tried to make things work. there were many promises from him, explanations, excuses, anything you can just think about. so i tried. all i got was another 3 years of misery, tears and broken heart. he did cheat again... and again... and again... so i just wasted years from my life and it ended in a break up anyway. it took me long time even after that to get over him but now i'm married and am the happiest woman on earth. i beg you girl, DON'T BELIEVE A CHEATER!!!!
156615
If you are not in Love with this man, or if you care less for your self, then you should go your way, or stay taking a chance on ending your life.  Enjoy the single life.  A man who Cheats against you is like having your enemy next to you.  Cheating is bad and it threatens your life.  There are too many things that can happen when one partner cheats against the other.  Sorry is not the issue. Do he/she understand the nature of trust, honesty and caring.  Not just to say, yes, I can now be trusted.  No, they must understand that playing with your life is no joke.  Good luck.......
116522
Well i will tell you what i am in a similar situation and we are trying to rebuild the trust but if he is gonna do it again then there is nothing you can do to stop it so you should try not to worry too much and you just love that person as much as you can. I know it is easier said then done cause i am really haveing a hard time as well.