We work together and she says she is about to get married, but we're overseas and she has to wait until she gets back to the states. When ever she has a chance to talk to me she does, and she asks almost everyday what I'm doing for the night. I never really thought of picking her up, because she has a fiance, but I would if this means she's interested. No, answers about I shouldn't, because of her fiance.
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Sometimes females have men for best friends this could be in your case or she would be done said something and not be planning her life with another man. So be her friend unless she comes to you. Because you may mess up a good friendship between you two.*
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Well she may be moving on she already stated she don't want a long distance relationship, and know that you have a "girlfriend" she may be trying to find her own that pause mean she has been dating but nothing serious.  But you opened up the possibility she can find someone too. You guys are good friends but I think the time isn't right for the both of you.  Not to say if you visit her she want come see you or vice versa, but i don't know what's going on in HER mind she would have to tell you that and just ask ! Email her and ask her for her honest opinion if you want more from her then you both can come to an agreement of what this relationship is truly going to be just friends or lovers!!!
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yeah asking her to do something is a good idea. if she hesitates, back off, but if not then maybe you'll have the chance to discuss if she is staying with her man or what. beaware, though. would you really want to date someone who will stay with a man if they are currently looking for a new fish? sounds like a bad idea to me, she also may be one of those needy ppl that can't be alone and will have whoever they can have, as long as they have someone. \n\ngood luck.
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Your boss is crossing the line.  She should stay professional and not get involved with co-workers.  It doesn't matter if you like her back or not.  There's a level of professionalism that should be in tact in every business.  It sounds like she's interested in you, however I warn you- don't get involved.  As a manager, she's crossing the line.  Getting involved romantically at the work place is a no-no.  Mixing business and pleasure is a quality that nobody in upper management should posess.
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Well I'm a female, and I'll be the first to admit that women can and do send mixed signals.  Sorry!  I personally find that  tYpe liKe ThIs to be extremely annoying, but then again, maybe  she thinks it's playful.  Sounds like you are on her mind right now, who knows why.  If you want it to be more (again) then respond.  If you are over her, then be polite but don't get engaged in it.
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Ok, from how you explain it...it sounds like she likes you, so just talk like you always do and maybe one day when you are gone, ask her the same question when you get back...you know, maybe she wants to ease into a relationship
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she might, i would maybe ask her questions like that, and unless you don't want to go out with her if she does, don't string her along, or you could also ask a friend of hers. or just ask her directly, think of "what would you do if you are in her position?"
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Don't let her do it! She's taking advantage of you, and if she wants all that she should stay married to you! Obviously you're a catch and if she can only see that she might want to save the marriage:)
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She is messing with you head.  She knows and has known that you like her, she loves the attention and doesn't really give a darn about your feelings.  Sorry to say the harsh truth.
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yeah, i do! and she is wonderful.. now it's a parttime job you don't like? absolutely...why not? but it will make work a little odd-and good... be careful ,if the relationship goes bad it can mean drama at work... no peace...
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You know what spooky it ain't you it's her she want another man or is already seeing one. i know i have been there with my ex-fiance when i started giving excuses for not sleeping with him i had my own thing on the side. so don't be a fool you better go get you some cause she already is.
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I think she is really enjoying your flirtations (is that a word?) I would keep it up and just try to spend more time with her. If she continues to respond positively, then she probably wants more. Just enjoy it! Don't stress it, it takes the fun out of it. :)
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I think it's soo sweet that you want to make sure this is a special move for her. It sounds like she is definitely interested, so almost anything you do will be seen as fantastic to her. I know if it was me, I would just want you to put some thought into it-maybe surprise show up with a single rose, or a night when you surprise her with a movie you rented for her, and then just ask her after she responds to your arrival. Just tell her," we've been spending so much time together, and I really enjoy your company, and I want to only enjoy your company-I think we should be official". Something of this nature.\nThis is so so cute, good luck, I'm sure she'll accept, and make sure to keep up this attitude of wanting to "wow" her during your relationship, b/c that will mean a lot to her. I wish I had a guy doing this for me right now!
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She is using you, she has a boyfriend that she will marry if you don't stop talking to her now your going to get hurt even more. C'mon you are a doctor you can have anybody you don't need to limit yourself.
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I THINK THIS YOUNG LADY IS PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU\nI UNDERSTAND THAT BOTH 0F YOU HAVE THINGS GOING\nON IN YOUR LIFE.BUT TI SOUND LIKE SHE NOT REALLY\nTHE ONE FOR YOU. ALSO THE FACT THAT SHE 24 ,MAY\nHAVE SOMETHIING TO DO  WITH WHAT GOING ON WITH\nHER. ALSO SHE MAY HAVE SOMEONE ELSE IN THE PICTURE\nAS WELL.
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dude i would hold off a little longer. there is some truth to what she is saying. the festive season can be pretty full on. with family stuff and buying presents. if you come on to striong and like you said pester her, she will not go out with you. she is definitely keen to go out with you though, otherwise she woulnt have given you her number. keep talking to her at work, say hello etc. but wait a little longer before you ask her out.
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If she's already engaged you shouldn't try to be hers. If you really like her just talk to her more and just be real close friends. Don't let her fiance get suspicious.