Igo to Niles North High School and this nasty janitor abused  2 girls 13-17 somewhere between thoose ages and he is 22  years old... and i read the chicago tribune article about it and it pointed everything to him.. but it was there falt because they went with it also... and he took them both to a forest but at differnt times..they did it in the forest thats what the article said....but  they went in the car with him and did it with him  so i think they did it also.. so can u please tell me what u really think about this...and  he works in the boys  locker room..........just please tell me what u think about this.....
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I think if 22 year old janitor had sex with a girl under the age of 16 years then it doesnt matter as to whether she gave him consent, it's still classed as rape (well over in England it is) so for him to get away with it they must've been 16+. If the girls were that old then it sound like they're just seeking for some attention and trying to get him into trouble, maybe because they're jelous, feel used or just bored and attention seeking type of girls. Either way i hope you and your mates are fully aware of keeping out his car!
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as a victim of molestation I have to tell you , please report it.  If he molested you, it is likely that he molested his own daughter and even if not, how many other girls has he molested that are afraid to come forward?  If you do nothing, how many other girls are going to have to be molested before he is not allowed to do this any longer.\nMy sister was raped by a neighbor at 10 and told no one until she was 16- she still struggles with fear because she waited so long and now he is in hiding.  How many other girls has he abused and how many more is he going to be allowed to abuse?  \nAs the victim of abuse, in order to make things seem not so bad for us, we wind up defending the abuser, putting their family and their reputation above ourselves because we feel not worth it.  \nLet me tell you now- YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!!\nYOU ARE SPECIAL!!!\nYOU DO NOT DESERVE TO BE ABUSED!!!\nno one has the right to treat you like this and what has happened to you is terrible.  Don't trivialize it, there is nothing wrong with you- he is a sick sick man who needs help and if he refuses help then he needs to be disciplined for what he has done to you- it is NOT acceptable!!  Unless you stand up for your rights and say this is not right and see that justice is done, oyu not only leave him open to abusing other girls, you leave yourself open to continue being a victim.\nPlease, I don't know how old you were when this happened, but for my children who are 10 and 14, and other children all over the US- report him!  You are not shaming him and his family and don't let anyone make oyu believe that- HE made a poor choice and HE alone has shamed himself and brought these consequences on his family- what happens to his family is his fault and his fault alone- don't forget that!
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i do it often enough. whats disturbing is how many sex offenders live so close to elementary schools. i tell my son where these bad people are and show him their picture. not to make him paranoid but kids need to be aware of the dangers that are out there for them.
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I think about the guy who beat , raped and cut off the arms of a thirteen year old girl...Got out of jail in 5 yrs...and did the same crime again...\nThe Dad that set his five year old son on fire....got out in 6 yrs,  ended up killing a young woman over money....\nThe woman who drove her car into the lake with both her little boys in the back seat...\nI could go on and on...Crazy??  Maybe so...but to tell the truth\nI really don't give a flying fu--!!\nAll these people should have Alpo stamped on their butts and be driven straight to the pound.\nI'll never in my life be able to understand our justice system.\nIf there is someone out there who knows why  this can happen over and over, please explain it to me.
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I didn't go past the 5th grade in school...... WHY THE HELL DO YOU THINK I'M A JANITOR?!?!?!?!?
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We guys were not even allowed in the gym when the girls were in there, much less being stuck dancing with them.  Once in high school I saw a class of girls in their gym clothes - they were out on the archery range.  Us guys were not even allowed out of the building while the girls were doing that.  Guess administration thought they were guarding our morals or some such foolishness.  Didn't do much good; our community had one of the highest rates of teenage illegitimate pregnancy in the country...which really teed me off, 'cause I couldn't get a date with the sluttiest girl in a graduating class of six hundred all through my four years of high school.
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i think first off you should talk to a offical at your high school, a teacher, counsler, adminstator, etc.  someone who is an adult with a job at the school that you feel comfortable talking to.  tell them what has been going on and that you want it to stop.  if he keeps breaking your stuff, that is not right!  it sounds like he might have an anger problem, and i hope he doesn't hit you!\n\ni am also sixteen and even tho my problem was different from yours, i went to a teacher and told her and everything became better afterwards.  i was nervous talking to her and then the counsler and then to an adminstrator and then i had to talk to a off campus police officer!  my case was a friend told me that this guy tried to rape her.  and well i asked the teacher what my friend could do, and she really helped me out.  \n\ngo to someone you know can help a.s.a.p.!
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Abusing a child for reporting sexual abuse.\n\nWhat kind of message does that send?\n\nHe should have to at least do supervised community service.  Something positive for the community and a learning experience for him.  \n\nFace it, the molester probably won't get much jail time.  It's infuriating, but true.\n\nHe definitely doesn't need to counsel anymore!\n\nIf he is sincere, but horribly misguided, maybe he could be rehabilitated in some way.  Sadly some people are in the ministry who just have no business being there and it's a cover for their maladjustment.\n\n\nThat poor girl!  Personally, I don't think her mother is without fault in this, either.  She probably gave him permission.
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Yes, my youngest brother, 12 years my junior, was a school teacher.  In 1998 he was arrested for molestation of three girls (two were his students).  He plead to the charges and went to jail for four years (not long enough).\n\nYou see, I had been molested as a child, not by a teacher but that mattered little.  And, I work with many women and even some men who were molested as a child.  I became so angry that I made myself ill.\n\nEveryone in my family suffered horribly.  My parents, in shame, not knowing who or what to believe (they know now its true) spent every weekend going to see in him prison.  They had just retired and their retirement plans were blown away.  Even if we wanted to have a family event and have them miss a weekend, he would cry and manipulate them into going.  They went from happy and healthy people (in their 60s) to tired and aged by the time he got out.\n\nI have gotten help for my mom and she now accepts what happened and that she is in no way to blame.\n\nMy poor neice and nephew had to go into that awful place to visit their dad.  He deserved it, they did not.  After he got out they were not allowed to see him at all.  To make matters worse, they lied to my neice about why he was gone.\n\nThe rest of us also suffered because our family was torn asunder and our children and grandchildren were deprived of their grandparents as well.\n\nAnd his victims...well, their lives are a mess.\n\nI have come to terms with it and forgiven him, but never will I forget.  He stole my parents good years, he hurt his own children emotionally, and three girls out there will NEVER be the same.
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I am guessing that you are a 7th grade teacher.  And, I would further venture that you are fairly new in your profession.  Thirteen year old girls are quite prone to their emotions, things can seem rather drastic to them.  Is there a chance that what she is telling you is true? Definitely.  Not all abused/neglected kids are unkempt and come from families would fit a particular stereotype.  That is HER reality right now.  Next time you see her, it could be different.  Re read what you wrote in the further details:  "I do not know how to deal with this situation...."  Stay within your scope.  Do what you do best, teach.  Hand the emotional issues off to the people who are trained in these issues.  \n\nRefer her to a Guidance Counselor AND continue to listen.  Discuss any new information she gives you with her Counselor.  I think it may be wise for YOU to ask the Guidance Counselor how you might stay more objective when these sort of things are brought to your attention.
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This is wrong....no matter how innocent he may try to make it sound......if you need something from a room - you wait until your adolescent daughter tells you to come in.....also the whole peeping thing is disturbing.....if i was her i would mention it to my mum....if she can't talk to her own mother about this....maybe a school counsellor or someone in a trustworthy position that could help her & maybe even raise this issue with her parents. Ahich ever way you decide....it has to be raised....because men like this need help...if it wasn't your girlfirend he was doing it to - what other young girl may he target in the future?? Best of luck :)
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i think something should have been done to the first guy when he was younger both to shape him up and to punish him. he was however somewhat innocent when he was younger, and also a minor, so even if he should be punished now, it should not be nearly as severe as the second guy who should get a long prision sentence or if he is justifiably mentally ill, a term in a mental institution.
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good point ,\n\nyes someone sumwhere jas got it wrong . he is not a role model for kids
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This exact same thing happened to me when I was in junior high.  I didn't report him to anyone myself, but I told my best friend.  And because she cared so much about me, she reported it to the counselor's for me and it was taken care of.  His parents were called, my mom was called, everyone had a meeting, and he was suspended from the school.  I don't know if your case is as extreme as mine was, but the best piece of advice I can give you is report it to someone you trust.
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Wait a minute people, did you bother to read the whole thing or just react to the first lines? We are talking about 2 kids and vengeful parents and probably a very vengeful little girl.\nA good attorney should be able to get a reversal based on nothing more than the facts!\nThis guy was 18, GF was 16, had been together 2 years, she gave it up, and probably enjoyed it more than once! Then, as often happens, they both change,as they are still maturing, and go separate ways. Girlie's mad so calls the cops. Did you people remain virgins until you were over the age of consent? I DOUBT IT! Just because it is a GIRL the courts feel justified,l I highly doubt there is any thought in the guys mind of little girls in this case!\n\nREAD THIS:\n\nHe was 18 and she was 16 when he got charged with a sex offence, they had been dating for 2 years at the time. When he decided to end it, her parents turned him in.
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It's wrong, and the little girl admits he did it! Plus, he did it with other girls. He should be locked up forever or even hung! People who do sexual harrassment with any underaged girl, they should be hunged! The baby may love his dad, but when she's older, he will do it again, and make the baby not say anything! If I could, he should just go to hell...where he blongs!\n\n-Advice Chick
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well done, it needed to be said.  but look you said it yourself too 'i was in an abusive situation once...it took me some time (as i was younger and less experienced)'  \n\ndo you realize that a LOT of people on here are teenagers who are at that 'younger and less [life] experienced' phase that you were at?\n\nit's good that you are here to shout sense into people..sorry to hear of your abusive encounter before. hope as many people as possible read your post here today and get some thinkin going on!