All my wife does is lay around in her underwear all day eating candy and looking at pictures of naked men. She never gains an ounce and is georgous. If I ate that much I would be fat as a pig.  I don't know what to to.
201180
I guess if this doesn't botter you about looking at the naked men than leave her alone about the eating since she isn't gaining weight...K
260055
I understand. My husband was like that with me , but he soon saw that i just don't eat as much as he does. Tell him that you love him but you don't need to eat all the time. You have no problem with how much he eats so he should not have a problem with how little you eat. Stay strong and stand your ground.
910
Are things or situations putting a lot of stress on your wife? Have you and your wife had any kids yet? Have you gained weight yourself? What things have happened in your lives such as eating habits and changes in lifestyle that might have encouraged this weight gain? \nFor one don't divorce her. Two, hopefully you married her on a higher level beyond her looks even though that also was an attraction you had towards her. Also for her to ask you she is already aware of the fact that she has gained this weight and would probably would like to hear such things like, "We can do it together, take it one step at a time,etc..." Do things with her like eating healthy, and exercising, so she knows she has your support in it. Also, try different sexual positions, be more exotic and make love to her because she wants it not just because you want it. Sex can also be a very exciting and fun way to lose weight. If all this doesn't work and you still don't find her sexually attractive then this is beyond her weight and I would advice you get help.
266634
Yes, no, and maybe.  Sounds confusing.\nThe Yes part is I love my wife's body and I do adore it even though she is overweight.  When she dresses sexy or moves a certain way it sometimes gives me a immediate hard on (probably too much information) or it is a real turn on.\nHowever, there are times when she isn't as appealing.  That is the no answer.  This is usually when she isn't happy with herself and her body.  She is afraid to show it off and I think its part that but it is also part of her personality.  She doesn't seam as happy and as talkative and seams to get upset easily.  So even though her outsides are the same her insides are making herself totally unappealing.\nThe maybe part is when she gets like above.  I start to think about her in really sexy cloths and lingerie (stuff she doesn't even own but wich she would go and buy) and it really turns me on.
599937
I'm guessing u think u weigh too much. Have u just tried to talk ur problems out with some who cares or has the same problem? I use to think i didn't/ couldn't weigh enough. I ate everything in sight and couldn't get over a hundred lbs. I couldn't find anything to wear, everything was too big. even my size 0 jeans. So I guess i had to opposite problem. It went away after I had a kid. I use to talk to girls who had eating disorders to help them.
429233
Sorry I am a woman, but you need to confront you wife with this.  It's disrespectful to you and to your marriage.  Sit her down and tell her you know what her butt is up to.
120722
I am in the same predicament you are in. My doctor is telling me stuff I already know and i have no will power. like tonight i ate 3 bags of m&ms and a king sized twix but i will start tomorrow a new and try not to eat that crap.  what I do is excersice with a friend always because if I didnt i would do it. Its motivation. and I use a smaller plate so it can look full for the eyes and when I cook I only cook enough for 1 serving so when I want some more its none so I have to drink water to get full. Yeah, sometimes I dont always follow my rules but I wake up everyday and try again and harder. I havent weighed myself in a while because when i do and see that I have lost weight, my mind goes " what are you doing? lets eat more" and i gain it back but the best thing is to Wake up everyday and start brand new each day. if you break a day, its ok, try again. What I have learned is to not stop eating what you eat(as long if its not too much junk)just eat less of it. and excercise like crazy. oh, I also have been eating alot of fruits. I really dont like all the fruit thats available to me locally but i eat what i like apples, oranges, grapes, watermelon, strawberries, i just eat a different one a day.its called food rotating. Lucky with my job, one of my clients love to walk so 2 days out the week i have a good walk and my other client has to excercise more, so i motivate her by excercising with her and get strength training incorparated into those days. oh, i try to eat at least 6 times a day. breakfast lunch and dinner and 3 snacks but i dont always succeed, but i am losing weight, something i am doing is right because i can feel it in my feet and legs and sides where my bra is. hey, if you want a person to talk to about your days to give you motivation to keep trying im here for you sweety. so good luck. if you want to eat fast foods, try nuggets instead of burgers. and eat tacos. the whole point is to burn more calories than  you eat. good luck.
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Is your wife chewing a lot of sugar free gum, or sugar-free candies to help with her cravings?  If she is, that's your culprit.\n\nOtherwise, for a simple fix, your wife should try taking Beano before she eats - this will help break down the oligosaccharides which feed on the beasties which cause farting.
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Women's wants and needs change over time. Life gets busy and sometimes we don't get a chance to tell each other how much we love our spouses, maybe she looks to this kinds of sex as a way for her to feel loved.It would be good for ya'll to spend the day together expressing your love. maybe then she will come around and realize that just because she has had kids and gained a little weight you still desire her and need her.
259973
I would consider doing it in her presence! It portrays an image of not being satisfied by her! Think about it and imagine you being the one next to your wife masturbating while you arent that asleep!
178732
im in the same position right now. my partner is at least 100lbs overweight and im disgusted with him on many levels. not just the physical part, but his whole attitude. plus sex is unpleasant because i have back problems. i exercise, watch what i eat and am very conscious about my health. he his completely opposite. unfortunately, i cant go anywhere because im completing college and am financially dependant on him with my two children. its tough to be in this situation, i dont even sleep in the same bed with him because theres no room. we should hook them up together.
327305
dude the munchies are going to happen. there is nothing you can do about it. even if you eat before, you will eat later.........you will eat everything that is easy to make. lol. yeah im an army wife now, but back in the day i smoked my share of weed but back then i would give millions to have it perscribed to me. lololol but about the munchies, i havent smoked in like 2 years and when i go grocery shopping, for some reason, i still get munchy foods, dont ask why. but the funny thing about the munchies is that you are not hungry until you think about eating and then when you go in the kitchen, youre like an ethiopian in a grocery store. lol no offense
646102
i've been reading your other posts, and you seem to be really hung up on your wife's sexuality.  You DO realize she's more than whats between her legs right?!  she's a WHOLE PERSON and her sexual exploits of the past are past.\n\nthe first thing you need to do to control these insecurities is the realize that it is YOU that has the problem, not her, so don't you dare take it out on her.  \n\nfrom the number of posts i've seen from you on this topic, i think you need more help than we mere yahoo answerers can offer.  get help, on your own...don't drag her into this.
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Mmmm....no.  Because my body tells me it wants sugars and carbs all the time, and rarely has a craving for protein.  If I listened to my body I'd be a fatas*.  I've got to force myself to get enough protein and eat healthy, because donuts are ALWAYS going to sound better to me than lean chicken breast.
132312
Looks like your letting how you feel confuse you to how things really are. Seems like your husband tries hard to let you know he appreciates you, at least from what it sounds like.\n\nIt sounds to me like you are insecure about your weight, and that you veiw yourself as unattractive. You are trying to solve the problem without, when the problem is within. No ammount of encouragement from your husband will help you unless you make up your mind to be encouraged. It sounds to me like he loves you dearly, finds you very attractive, and wants you very much in his life. Don't let your feelings lie to you and tell you otherwise. It seems to me like you are interperating things from him that he doesn't really feel, because that is really how you feel. It's not him that thinks you are fat and ugly, but you are afraid he does. Again, from what you've told me, I'm fairly sure he thinks just the opposite!\n\nNow, if part of the problem is, as you said above, that he isn't more interested in sex, don't nessisarily look to yourself as the cause. He may be busy at work, which leaves him tired and stressed at night. He may have some difficulties in that area, perhaps something clinical. You should both sit down and talk about this, together, and be patient with him, not nagging, whiney, or demanding, but letting him know how you feel, and listening to his side patiently.\n\nIf you are contributing to this part of the problem at all, it is probably from your insecurity, not your looks. If you feel ugly, and act like you feel ugly, you will make yourself seem less attractive. Don't keep thinking of yourself as unnattractive! Remember that your husband loves you, he wouldn't likely have married you if he didn't think you are attractive! Be confident, quit looking at what you think are your flaws, and concentrate on what makes you attractive. Think of yourself as attractive, and you will BE more attractive simply by how you act from it.\n\nI hope and pray everything works out well, and God bless!
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My wife is the same way. She has to exercise every day, usually walking on the treadmill. She eats small, balanced meals often and avoids beef as much as possible. Also important to eat a little something BALANCED before bed. Balanced = protein + low-glycemic carbs
608331
lmao!! Good for your wife!! I hope that this has taught you a very IMPORTANT lesson!! DONT CHEAT!