I got dumped two weeks ago and really want him back...I started looking on the internet for love spells to bring him back!!!! I bought one aand I am wondering if anyone has ever done this and if it has worked?
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Haven't tried it but it would be fun to see if it worked!
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I'd advise against any love spells.  First, you would be tampering with the free will of someone else and that's never good.  Second, you would never know if the person loved you for you or if it was the spell.  Love spells aren't something I do, I want someone to love me for me, so they're right out.\n\nOne word of caution, don't buy the services of anyone who claims they'll do the spell for you.  Most times, all that happens is you end up paying for something you don't get.\n\nGood luck to you no matter how you choose to go with this.
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I did eHarmony.  I signed up for three months (my subscription actually just ended today, I think).  While it was a little more expensive than I would've liked, I think it was worth it.  I was looking for a serious relationship, and shortly after I paid for the service, I met a guy on there.  We went through the guided communication (you exchange multiple choice questions, short answer questions, and a list of Must Haves and Can't Haves) before open communication, where you email through the site.  After doing that, me and this guy exchanged screennames... then phone numbers... and finally met up a couple of times.  We're not officially together, but I like to call him my "almost boyfriend" :)\n\nI was really happy with my experience at eHarmony, and I would definitely recommend it for anyone looking for a serious relationship (who's also willing to fork over the money for it).
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Girl, the same thing happened to me but my guy was much farther away. It hurt so bad not being able to see him that I dumped him. I felt alot better afterward. You should do the same. He's obviously causing you alot of pain. Do what you think is rigyht, but keep my advice in mind. Good luck!
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Sadly and embarrassingly enough - I know that situation and have been on the girl side. I loved my new bf and just could bear the fact that my ex is just not noticing and forgetting me. Stupid enough I have been to start calling him and even meeting with him saying that I want his friendship. But really I just wanted him to be mine again even though I didn't really need him!!!\n\nBe careful women are fools!! It might not be the same situation, but based on what you said and what I've had it really looks like it!
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I think he just wouldn't feel right and he isn't completely sure of...both of you... because obviously it didn't work out the first time.My advice is give him some more time.Make him believe,and I mean really believe,you guys can work out!I would feel bad if you guys didn't get back together because you didn't prove to him anything.
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Well, I have been the rebound guy once.  She came right out and told me that I was just the "stepping stone"  and I was ok with that because I was in the same position.  But after a month or 2 she started drunk dialing me all the time and leaving me these psychotic messages on my machine professing her undying love for me.  One minute I'm the stepping stone the next I'm the knight in shining armor.  Personally I didn't want any part of that, and I don't think I will put myself in that position again!  I guess what I'm getting at is if you tell him he is the rebound guy keep it at that or just don't bring it up at all.
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I didn't even finish reading your note, but from experience I would recommend ditching him... you deserve someone who can make up his mind and can love you 100%!! I had a fellow like that and I think he kept me around as security, so he wasn't alone and felt loved... don't be his love of last resort! Be strong and move on...
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if he's changed from what he used to be like before.. then yes... unless you were the one who dumped him and now you want him back.. again that would be a yes..\nbut if he broke up with you and the two of haven't changed.. then no because that would just be a repeat of the relationship you had before.
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I am also going through a break up right now. My BF of 4.5 years broke up with me 3 weeks ago. I was happy with him and he was happy with me, but he didn't know what he wanted out of life, blah, blah, blah. He still loves me and I still love him, so I have hope that we will get back together, but I'm not holding my breath.\n\nI too went through the depressed stage. I found that writing in a journal about how I felt helped alot. It let me get my feelings out without being overly emotional in front of other people. \n\nI am now in the angry stage, where I'm just so mad at him for doing this to me. \n\nI've heard that grief has many stages. My advice to you is to not make contact with him. If he calls don't answer and maybe wait a couple of hours to call him back. Make him think that you don't care.\n\nI wish you the best of luck.\n\n(((((HUGS)))))
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Nope. Once someone states that the love is gone..Well that's just it.\nMove on, and get someone who deserves you :)\n\nBest of luck
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if the love was real you would not need the spell to make it so... i know this is not what you want to hear but please hold out for the real thind it is so much better and could you live with your self knowing you made someone love you with a spell...i would try this instead.. get a book on horoscope and be friends with person but learn all you can and be what they want you to be.. you wont be happy but you may have that person you want.. the same thing with a love spell
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I have.  We met through an internet dating site.  We corresponded through email at first, then on the phone, and a short time later we met in person.  Not long after, we fell in love.\n\nI have every reason to believe this relationship is going all the way.  House, marriage, kids...  and he would agree completely.\n\nHere's some tips if you're seeking love through the net:  \n-Be completely honest.  \n-Don't waste time pretending to be someone or something you're not.  \n-If the person you're chatting with doesn't seem to be everything you're looking for, don't waste time giving them a chance (I know it sounds mean, but how much time do you have to waste anyway?)\n\nNever settle for anything less than what you deserve.
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Yes--it's perfectly normal to still miss the person who dumped you and/or the relationship.  Just b/c you miss him doesn't mean that you can't control your behavior or that you have to act on your feelings.  In time, you'll meet other guys, have new experiences, and will enjoy yourself again.  It's impt. to be kind to yourself during this period and take whatever steps are necessary to heal.  I realize it must be tough dealing with the feelings you have, but you will be okay.  It's a real test of your strength and I think you'll be proud of how you dealt with your feelings.  Good Luck
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Love can return. It takes a lot, but I don't see why you would want this if he would never give his number to you, deny straight to you that it was him, lie to you he was in an institution & then abandon you by going offline. I think it's a good thing that he disappeared like this & didn't wait until it had gone too far. I think that you should just move on & try to find someone else. I know those long hours & hour phone calls can be very bonding, & it's hard to let go, but look what he has done to you & you've never met him in person yet! (lied, lied, abandon, & hide stuff).\nI think that he didn't really love you as much as you loved him if he can just jump offline & never think of you again.\nGood luck when you decide to move on
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I did a healing spell for my sister when she was in a car accident. Overnight she took a turn for the better and not only did she walk again but you can't even tell she was in a car accident unless you see the scars. And we were told she'd probably never have children, yet she had my nephew in 2003.\n\nWhat did I get back? I don't know. I didn't do it for whatever form of repayment I'd receive from the Threefold Law. I did it because I love her and didn't want her to suffer and die.\n\nI've done others but none had such a dramatic effect as this healing spell.
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I've been married for 14 years and have continuously thought of my first true love.  Just about 2 months ago I came across his email address and contacted him through email.  Yea, he's married but is so glad that I contacted him.  I'm still his true love although he's now married as well as myself.  We email and occassionally he calls me.  It was such a relief to finally be able to talk with him.  He lives hours away, but we email each other daily.  So, I'm telling you, contact her.  You'll be glad you did.