I have known this other man for 6 months and i know it is love but i also love my husband
201019
What does MARRIED mean to you?? Figure that out and you'll have your answer.
105464
It will not be easy, but the best advice I can give you is to pray and ask GOD to take away the feelings that you have for this man, and to renew the love,desire and passion you once had for your husband.
164169
I hope that you are very careful with what you are doing with this guy.  Remember that you are married and you may lack a certain thing in your marriage which will be better work out with your husband.  I understand that it is kind of nice to have someone interested in your despite you are married but why are you dragging him on?  Will you be happy to divorce your husband because this guy sweet talk to you?  Are you sure that you will have a better future with this man than your current husband.  I suggest that you spend more time with your husband and rediscover him then talking to this guy, unless you have no hope in your marriage!  Good Luck!
498629
sometimes it takes time for love to grow...  And maybe he is realizing now that you two are in this together.  But show him you love him two men sometimes need that reassurance.  Best of luck..
198278
If you really love him how could you tell him something so hurtful . Love doesn't hurt the people it cares about .  you may love some other guy but the thing is that other guy is not your husband .  You really need to sit back and pull yourself together .  You promised you would love your husband till death parted you . Don't break that promise I think he loves  you and you crushed him .
271463
What you are experiencing is simply the thrill of "dating" your husband without the strings attached.  It is exciting because you are now the other woman and he is the other man.  It is like you're living a fantasy.  You two no longer have to share responsibilities and obligations.  It seems as if you are really in love, but that is not the truth.  You are the same people you were in divorce court.  Frustrated, bitter, and tired of each other.\n\nMove on with your life.  If he really loved you nothing would prevent him from getting back with you.
218707
i am still in love with my sons father who i have been split up with for almost 3 years
190091
oh no, I love my guy and we have had it rough over the last eight months, we work it out. our love is stronger than any fight, but you have to really really know you love him and he love you for it to work.
407118
I think that whatever the reason for your intereste in this other man, it is telling you one very important thing: you probably arent ready for marriage. as much as you probably do want to get married, maybe this is a way of telling you to give it a bit more time. it doesnt mean that you dont love your partner. perhaps you should just take a bit of time before deciding on marriage, and spend it on analysing your relationship and if this is really what you want. marriage should be for life. so your partner should be the only man in your life, when you decide to marry. perhaps just for now, take time to enjoy eachothers company and maybe you can look forward to a Valentine's Day Proposal in a few months time!\nWhatever you decide, follow your heart. The decision either way has to be right for you, as you are the one living your life.\n\nMaybe discuss with your partner your concerns? &#92;\n\nBest of luck in your relationship
266193
The one who loves me.
172019
I would say yes, Why not.!  i mean you can love your partner and your kids etc so why not another man.  Your only problem would be if you had to choose between them.
312006
i had a 5+ yr friendship with someone     we became best of friends   then we decided we wanted more.... todsy he is my hubby......
54949
You probably will not be over him completely until you are involved with another man.  There is, as you know, a man-shaped space inside your . . . heart . . . that you need to fill.  Choose wisely this time, and you won't have to go through this again.
232822
Well it seems 2 me that both of them really like you, the second one more than the first. In fact from what you have said about both of them i wud say that this second guy may just be in love with you but may be scared that you dont feel the same way. Talk to them both and see where you stand. Be careful though because if im right... then youre goin to have a choice to make
123531
I am not sure that you comprehend what love is.  It is quite normal to develop feelings for other people and some of those people will be males of course and some of those feelings will go quite deep, but if you look upon another man and think you are in love with him it means that you do not know what love is hence other people can obtain the same level of feeling with you that you have with your husband and that is bad because sooner or later, when things are not going good in the marriage, you will develop a “the grass is greener on the other side of the fence” mentality and probably screw up the best opportunity you have for a marriage that will last you a life time.  Very rarely do second marriages last, unless they come because of the worst of circumstances, in other words the Lady has been Widowed.  It is just too easy to keep think that the Grass is greener when things get tough in a marriage.\n\nI would recommend spending more time with your husband and developing your relationship.  It sounds like you moved to fast to marriage and if you do not work on finding true love with him now; you might never have the chance.\n\nJohn B.
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No, you don't love both of them.  You may like both of them but you don't truely love both of them.  The fact that he is your sons father shouldn't play a role in this decision because your not currently together.  So do what is really in your heart and what is best for your life.
121812
I married the perfect guy, but I still feel something for the man I was suposed to marry. I've contact him after 11 yrs and he is still mad at me, besides we have an ocean between us, and I dont want to leave my hubby! wilmary69@yahoo.com