me and my crush liked eachother (we never went out) but we flited alot and this went on 4 about a year i know that person isnt for me but i dont know how to let go...HELP!
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Introduce me to him..(twice)
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I answered your last question, but now that I know more of how you are with things it helps me to understand it a little more.\n\nI agree that you should pray about it, and give it to God.\n\n  I would talk with her about it and let her know that you have to work on yourself more before you can give yourself to someone else.  Tell her that you do like her, but let her know that right now is not the right time for the two of you to be together and that you would like to stay the amazing friends that you are because she lights up your life when she is in it.\n\nGood luck and God bless.
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I would continue the crush from afar and consider a relationship in the future when you are no longer his student.  If you are so attracted to each other then you can wait until it is appropriate for you to date him.  And in the meantime, how about dating one of your peers -- a fellow student.
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why do you think there is anything to do?  You told him--and good for you for being brave!--but apparently he doesn't feel the same way and that's life.  Move on, you took a chance, it didn't work out but you should feel good about acting on your feelings.  Some day you will tell someone you like them and they will say they like you, too.
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A year is a long time.  Now you make your decision.  Either go straight up to him and tell him how you feel, or move on.  You shouldn't dwindle on this any longer.
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Take some time to yourself.\n\nYou need a breathe of fresh air. A popular girl like you needs to have a chance to think before she decides.\n\nGive it a couple of days alone and see where your feelings go. I would go with the person who actually respects your desicion to be alone for a while... he's the one worth keeping. But the choice is really up to you.
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stick with the one you like more and let the other go. dont hold onto someone when he could be finding someone who will care for him more
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I know how you feel.  I am going through that right now.  I just graduated college and I never got a chance to tell the guy I liked for 2 years that I liked him.  Our relationship is confusing.  Sometimes it seemed like he liked me other times it seemed like he hated me.  That's why I didn't pursue the relationship.  Like my friend tells me, "If we are meant to be together, we will be together.  God will see to it."
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i know its very difficult bcoz i'm going thru a similar situation... but believe me, if u dont let go then its only u who'll suffer.. at this point of time my life is just like hell... but i knw one thing only u can do this, no other person can help u... so the best thing would b to stop thinking bout him n put yr mind in other things... make yrself so busy that u dont get the time to think bout him... n stop doing things that would remind u of him... if u dont make yrself strong, u'll not b able to get on with with yr life... so u gotta accept the situation n move on...
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I feel for you Molly, I have been in that situation twice myself. The one really positive thing in your situation is that you want to move forward.... I know I didn't even want to move on from my first unrequited love, I just kept on hoping that one day she would return my love, which was really stupid since she was straight.  So, I ended up wasting 5 years of my life!  And then, apparently not having learned anything, I fell in love with another girl who was bi, but who couldn't commit to actually having a relationship with another girl.  She only wanted a physical relationship without any emotional ties, so there went another 2 years of my life.  Finally I learned that the only way I was ever going to be happy was if I worked on my self-esteem and learned to trust my intuition.... I had known from the start that both of the girls I fell for were completely unattainable, so really I had nobody to blame but myself for what I perceived as rejection. And I really believe now that subconsciously I wasn't ready for a realtionship, and that's why I was seeking out unattainable people. I needed to love myself and have the confidence to put myself out there in the world, instead of fooling myself that I could find some kind of happiness or fulfilment in unrequited love. I have no idea if you will relate to my story at all or not, but I guess my advice would be to just get out there, meet new people, make friends, enjoy life, be honest and open with yourself and others, and of course love and respect yourself.  Although it may seem impossible to imagine now, you will get over the heartache, but you have to make a conscious effort to do so which you seem to want to do.  I wish you all the very best.  Stay strong! Keep smiling! Love will find you!
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Your doing the right thing.  Your crush is in a relationship and ultimately is not going to be around any more.  For your sake and hers, you need to continue to just ignore her and your feelings for her.  Focus on your own life and relationships.  Ultimately time will make things easier.  Right now your just wasting your life away making it harder on yourself and your relationships by letting this be anything more than a crush.
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Try to move on. I know this will be difficult and we all have to let go of people we like/love in life. Being rejected stinks but take comfort in the fact that you're not alone in this.
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Don't move on since you are great friends.  You had a chance one time, but he had a crush on another girl.  They will break up one day.  Be there to console him.  Since you've been best friends since you were 4, YOU should be his soul-mate, don't you think?  Who is this new girl?  They all disappear.  All but one.  Be the one.
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be patient, i really fell for my best friend once, i told him and he wanted to just be friends, we are still frinds and that's been 14 years ago,back in 2003 i drove over2400 miles to see him and he had a girl friend but i quickly relized he did like me alot and wanted me to stay up there. \n\nthings can change so chin up
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Avoid the stupid comments some people are putting up 4 you to read. It will take time to get over someone you adored but you can't stay sitting around thinking about it go out somewhere  and have a great time.Move on you'll know when you find love again.Hope I could Help
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Wow. A question that actuially fits my situation. Ok, im going to tell you what happened then im going to tell you what you should do. I really liked this girl. I've known her for four years and liked her for two of them. She liked me, then she didn't, she liked me then  she didn't, etc. She basicially led me on some times. I tried to ask her out and she said somthing like "I like you too, just not like you like me, bla bla bla no". It sucked. I was crushed. I tried to forget about her twice and it just ended up me looking like an ass and getting farther away from my goal. I would do anything for this girl, if she was sad id do whatever i could to cheer her up. if she was mad id listen and talk to her about it. if she was feeling down i told her exactly how i felt about her. Then she went out with this guy. Of course I was pissed off. I got in so many verbal fights with him because, by that time, the whole school knew I liked her by the way word gets around. I really don't know why nothing happened, everything was there, she thought I was hot I thought she was beautiful, We got along really well, liked the same music, everything fit. I'd give anything for a second chance at that first time I asked her out. Nothing will happen. I now know that. as much as i dont want to accept that, its true. and i need to.\n\nBut anyways, my story doesn't help you, but it gives you a realization of what can happen.\n\nYou have two options.\n1. Tell him you don't like him like that and expect him to be sad.\n2. If theres any attraction on your part, you can go out with him, if it works out great if it doesn't, oh well. because i bet hed do anything for that one chance.\n\nthe choice is up to you though. of course im going to lean towards the second option but the right choice is probably the first one. good luck.
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I don't care if you give me the points or not, but I say...If you feel special about this person and he is unattached (or you hope he is)  then go for it!  Really, what is the worst thing that could happen? He could say "No"?\n\nIf both of you are single then talk to him!  Even if he doesn't like you in the same way, perhaps you will have made a friendship that could, (in time) grow to be more!\n\nOh and good luck!