what is your personal idea of the sweetest thing that a person could do that would let you know they were "the one?" For me it's that they would dance in the rain with me. I know it's sounds but it would touch me on so many levels. 1, they are willing to take chances, 2, they have a sense of spontaneouity 3, it is romantic, 4, they have a sense of adventure 5, they are willing to take chance on something even if it is something as odd and silly as dancing in the rain and 6, it is symbolic of the fact that they will be there through the good and bad helping me to make the best of a bad situation. I talk too much sorry. But pls answer. What is your personal idea of the main thing that a person can do that would let you know they were the one?
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When a person forgives something tragic you did, which goes against their beliefs, and is still willing to make a life with you.. that's love.
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_____(her name)\n\n         Thanks for being so sweet. Thank you for being everything i've ever wanted in a girlfriend. Here's something to let you know I love you, in case you ever felt like underappreciated. (or something lol) There's nothing I wouldn't do for you. It's hard nowadays to find a girl like you, it seems like you have everything. I want this relationship to really last a lifetime. \n\n\nomg i dont know..lol..i just made something up really quick. y  are you asking this, though? isnt  this supposed to come from YOU?
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It is so true that "you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince."  I remember feeling so afraid that I was going to be alone forever because dating totally sucked, I never met the right guy, and this town is too small. I finally met someone, completely out of the blue, and we knew we were perfect for each other.  I was married at the age of 25, and I am so glad I had to go thru the frogs to catch my Principe Azul!\nMoral of the story: It happens when you are not looking for it!
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My crush. He's sweet, nice, kind, funny, smart...anything I could ask for! Unfortunately...he really doesn't exactly know that I exist...Anyway, nice question!
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I met a girl on line.  Now she's my wife and we have a son.  But before this happened I visited her in her county for a number of weeks over some months.  It was only after this time that I felt happy enough to ask her to marry me.\n\nSo I suggest if you can go visit her.  Also is this your first real love?
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Falling in love with someone and only been in the realtionship less then a month. SLOW DOWN! One day at a time, get to know each other before the I love you's come out. I mean I believe in love at first sight, but i also believe in moving to fast. Just be careful. You'll know if hes the one after time passes
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1.romantic.. not puching ever to go far or do things but just being sweet and there. saying all the right things to make her smile..\n2.smart.. i don't want someone who's lazy or anything. i want them to not be stupid just someone who tries and is motivated
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Um...okay I wrote something on your first question before in a fanfiction. Don't mind the weird name:\n\nYukito sat there thoughtfully and said, “I honestly, don’t know. I’ve never experienced love. I’ll try my best. But... I imagine love as something that takes is own course and is one of the things that fate cannot control. It’s a feeling of  hurt, and joy. Words cannot describe it. It’s like a sacrifice, yet a joy, a curse, yet a gift. We have the gift to love, but love is a strong feeling that can control other senses. Just by hearing someone you love say “I hate you.” could make you do anything.”\n“It’ll make you be angry or sad or make you feel like a total idiot. It is deceiving and sneaky. When you think you love someone, one day you may just think “I don’t like them.”. It leaves you even more alone in the end than when you didn’t love them. But as you go on you gain an understanding of what love is, and maybe be able to find it. No one forces us to love, it just happens. And we ourselves in the end are responsible."\n\nOkay, I'm a pessimist that doesn't reslly beleive in love (it's nice to imagine though) so if you don't agree, don't fret. The world is a big place, you're probably not alone. You sound young (not that I'm not either) so you'll bounce back. I've got a lot more crap on stuff like this so if you want to read, I suggest clicking the link on my profile. Don't worry, love will find you. I hope I did SOMETHING to help.
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My boyfriend thinks his first love is his true love..but you never end up with them.  But..you can also have a deep love for another maybe even deeper..and your first love can still be your true love.  I don't know...I think there's something special about the first person you ever loved..it's a new experience, a new feeling, and I think maybe part of it's falling in love w/the feeling.  It's like experiencing anything for the first time..then the more you do it, you get used to it and it's not as exciting you already know those feelings.
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Hi, I met my husband at my place of employment. I only thought of him as a nice person, possibly a friend. He came in one day and asked me to go to a band job with him(he is a drummer). I said I wanted to go and he was a perfect gentleman in every way. When I got home he said goodnight and patted my hand. I really knew he was a good guy and I would date him many times after that. After two years of dating we had a beautiful wedding. I still love him so much I could not tell you.
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That 'magical' feeling we all get only seems to be there when we can't get that special person.  He has been honest with you and said from the beginning that he doesn't want anything serious, so it's all down to you and whether you would be able to put up with what he has to offer. It's easy to give in and see him to get that magical feeling but is the high worth the massive low you could also get. You could be lucky and end up winning his heart but in my experience it rarely happens like that. I wish you so much luck because I know it's a horrible situation to be in.
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This is a good question- so when you find out let me know, haha~! I'm pretty much in the same boat to be honest. I think when your in love it means you can fight, get along, laugh, cry, everything togeather no matter what and still have feelings for that person. To other people it means their soalmate whatever that is I don't know. But how your going to tell him? I'm waiting for that right moment when he does something "unforgetable", but I would say it when he's feeling his worst, after a really bad day. Then he doesn't have to say anything and even if he does, at least you know he'll feel better about himself no matter what he says. And if he says something you wern't expecting that's negative, he's probably not worth your time either that or he's "really" not having a good day. Good Luck & Best of Wishes~! :)
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You are extremely happy, like you have never been before. It is almost too good to be true! You let yourself be carried by that person, for a moment there you forget about the world and think that only you and your partner exist. It is amazing, but as good as it can get, it can get pretty bad too.
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How sweet!  Yes, I have dreamed about someone I met.  He is wonderful, strong, intelligent, etc.  In other words - he is the perfect man for me.  Too bad he did not know it at the time!  I felt the way you describe in your poem.  Luckily for me, he now realizes that I am also the perfect woman for him!
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Why don't you write her a letter expressing your feelings.  This is something a guy friend once wrote to me and we were just friends, at least on my side.  " i have never met someone as sweet endearing and kind as you.  A day doesn't go by when i don't thank god you bringing you into my life, your pressence in my life makes it so much more meaningful"  Another one " faith makes all things possible.  hope makes all things work and you are the best thing in my life", another is " life has no guarantees:  Part of growin is learning Part of hapiness is tears Part of loving is hurting and Part of Me- will always be thankful for meeting you"  Another is " someday when the pages of my life end i know that u'l be one of it's beautiful chapters & if i eva get to read it i will open it to the day when we met.  this is one of my favourites "a star has five sides:  1 represents your Kindness,2nd your smile,3rd your charm, 4th your personality and 5th your beauty."  another is between a thousand yesterdays and a million tommorrows there is only one today. I wouldn't let this day pass without saying that i think you are truly special."  hope this helps goodluck and let me know if it helps.
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a guy needs to show total commitment. he needs to be honest, respectful, caring, sweet and thoughtful. he should buy something not expensive, but thoughful like every couple weeks or so, like a flower or a necklace or make something to show that he cares about me and is thinking of me always. he should be able to hang with me and my friends and be respecting of them. i want him to call me every day so we can talk about stuff like how we've been and i like to have long conversations about all kinds of stuff-places we've been, what we want to do for the rest of our lives, favorite foods and stuff like that. just talk to get to know eachother completely. he has to always tell the complete truth about everything. but if he really just doesnt want to talk about something, i wouldnt push it. i want someone who treats me like the only one, and dedicates himself to me and thinks about everything hes about to say, like he thinks about how i'll feel and what i'd do if he said or did a certain something. i want him to make plans for us to hang out, and come up with his own unique ideas on how to spend time together. i dont want him to be afraid to tell me anything. i want to be the one person he completely trusts and can pour his heart out to and come to me first with any kind of problem. he needs to be mature and strong enough for the both of us, but i also want him to feel like i can protect him and he can lean on me when he needs someone to cry to. i want him to treat me like a queen. i want him to put effort into our relationship and not be lazy and leave everything up to me. he's got to be full of love and kindness, but can stand up for me when i need it. he has to learn how to take a joke and has a sense of humor. in short, the answer to your question is, we like to be loved like we're really loved.
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no offense, but what kind of guy would ask you if you loved him on the first date?\n\n...sounds like a player...imho\n\n...and why would you ASK him if he was playing you?  You think he would say "yes" if he was?  \n\nAnyways, if he isn't asking for anything "physical", then he's probably truly interested in you...but he might just consider it a challenge, too...beware!