I'm the 30-year-old who was interested in the 18-year-old.  I heard from a girl he goes to school with that he was going around calling me a MILF.  At first I was offended, but she said it was a good thing.  I know what it stands for, but is it really a compliment??  Plus just to let you guys know, he has another girl so I won't be getting involved with him.
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MILF---- Mother I'd like to F@@K, if I was 30, I would take it as a compliment!! That means that even though your getting up in age, you still look good!! :)
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It means he thinks she is hot and sexy. It is also kind of rude to do that.
371778
Nope he's just attracted to you and wanted to let you know it.Try giving it back to him and if he don't like it than he'll stop or get defensive.I'd just go with it he could call you alot worse believe me.And to all the man haters no it's not creepy.
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I've always preferred older guys and always will, I like their wisdom and life experience and women also mature quite fast so this works well with older guys. I always find it odd when older women go out with younger guys, I really can't comprehend that one.
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When I refer to my girlfriend as 'gf', I am of course referring to your milf. The abbreviations would then signify her being a gruesome filly, and a mare in lasting foolishness.
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Hi. I looked at your old emails and discovered that  you are 16. That is the age I was when I was involved with a 24 year old man. Boy was it a journey! I could write a novel answering this question...\n\nfirst of all this guy was WAY beyond where i was in my life. he had experienced so much more than me. everything we did wasn't that big of a deal to him but it was to me. I thought it was really cool that he'd take me out to dinner and we ordered wine, he had a really nice car, money and a cool appartment... i only wished i didn't live with my parents. of course all of this eventually led to sexual intimacy. and of course it meant more to me than him. and then that led to me having twins as a teenager. then becoming a single mom. i did all this sneaking around behind my parents back after they found out we were interested in eachother because my dad literally drug me away from him and forbid us to see eachother knowing that he was 24!\n\nthe other thing is that if he's 24 even if you consent it is called statutory rape. your parents can have him thrown in jail without your agreement and at any time they want to.\n\nmy suggestion??? don't get involved with a 24 year old. i know it sounds coooooll. and maybe it is but it's not worth it!!!!!!!! it took me 15 years after that to finally start dating one man my age. and when i did i finally felt at peace in dating and a relationship. the connection between someone your age is quite different. and well, i married that guy.  \n\nnext..... a 24 year old guy should know better! if he is interested in you he's doesn't have it all quite together up in the old noggin. or he is extremely selfish and not thinking about anyting except his selfish desires to be with a very young woman! run! you don't need a guy like this! \n\nif you are lonely or just looking for friends the best way to do it is to think of something that interests you or something you are willing to try and get involved in it. it's the easiest way to meet new people... there should be a teen center in your area check them out this summer and see waht kind of activities they have. or volunteer working with kids this summer or..... volunteer anywhere you'd like to learn something about...... get involved in a hiking group or sailing or tennis or art or film making or ????? if i knew what you were interested in i could help point you in the right direction... but get out there! hope this helps. if you want to talk more email me, k?
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I'm going to go out on a limb here and say it is a culture thing. How he was raised. Maybe his dad taught him that only a whore would do that, so he is confused. Tell him you apologize for the action, and say that you know if you two would become sexual that he should be the one to initiate the advances. That's probably how he was brought up.
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Dont matter what anyone thinks!! Go 4 it! I have no idea why the man has to be older than the woman anyway? Whats that all about? Im 42yrs, my mans 30yrs. There will always be people with a gripe mate! Sad people on this planet! Fact! You go for it and ignore everyones elses opinion! Good luck hun!
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a booty call. Heck I've only HEARD of the song, never heard the song itself, and I KNOW what it is. I would think people who listen to the song and have a CLUE know what it is. It's a girl that you can call and get laid. That is all the call is for. It doesn't mean he has to treat her bad. Just means they both know he is just calling her for sex and she is fine with that.
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Well if nick is only interested in girls with big boobs, maybe it's not worth your time to go after him.  My best advice is to just tell him how you are feeling.  Ask him if there is any chance of you two hooking up and just go from there.  I don't mean to sound like a mother here, but is Kayla really a bioch?  Or are you just saying that b/c she has something you want?  Anyway, just talk to him and if there is a future there, great, if not, find someone else who isn't only interested in big boobs.
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Having been on both sides of the "ex" fence, I can say with assurance that some females simply cannot grasp that the man they are with can be with someone after her, and some females simply cannot grasp that the man they are with was with someone before her. (Men do it too, it isn't a gender issue, it is a maturity issue.)I was married to a man who currently has a show on A&E! I have to listen to his "woman" tell lies and take credit for my children, and guess what....I hate it. On the other side, I have an ex-boyfriend whose current whateversheis  feels duty-bound to berate me for my conduct in situations that she was not privy to. All I can say for sure is that ultimately, YOU are responsible for YOUR conduct, and while losing your patience is understandable, it is probably better to always take the high road. Additionally, as an often attacked, but never bested ex, I can say without exception that a soft answer always turns away wrath, and ignoring small children(or adults acting like two-year olds) tends to put a stop to immature behavior. (On the practical side, a good log to document another's constant bad behavior goes a long way in court and should always be used.)
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In today's world, it means that a bunch old men should have sex sex with innocent and young girls. \nBack then, IDK. I hope it doesn't mean the same thing.
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nooooo. the student may be living out a high school fantasy by pursuing you, it is doubtful they are mature enough to be in a relationship with someone 10 years older for awhile. It seems a bit unethical to me as well.
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My bf is 22 and he never had a gf till he was 19.  I think it's cute and shows he had other interests besides just getting laid in high school.  \n\nhe won't laugh at you, why would he?\n\nif anyone asks you again, say "no i haven't had a boyfriend, i've been busy with other things like ___" or "I've been open to the idea of seeing what's out there rather than getting tied down to one person."
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They have to set a date somewhere. How much does that sort of thing affect you now? Seriously, so they're with a different group, and a year later. Big deal. It really means that they will be one of the more mature kids, that could be a great advantage, certainly better than being one of the least mature when you hit puberty!
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Sounds to me like Bruce said "Sure I love you, baby - now take off your panties", and "I want to be your boyfriend" means "I want to have sex with you again". If you are 19, you are certainly better for him than "Ms. Right" or "Ms. Left", but he is probably not taking YOUR best interests into consideration - only his own pleasure.
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Ew...I think he's just a big cheese. Who really says things like that without underlying meanings? He's probably just trying to get laid. And I agree with the lady who posted first, I am kind of offended that that is how he described the work we do. My marriage is more like a  partnership where we share all of the responsibilities whether it be child-rearing, house-cleaning, or working. I don't like being described as someone whp has the dinner on the table by five o'clock and has the kids bathed so my husband doesn't have to do a thing to help. That's just ridiculous.