i have bn chattin to this boy for almost 2 years, i feel so attached to him, i really love him , he feels the same abt me.he thinks is tru love, we are already planing how our life gonna be like wen we meet finally. bcos of him i cant make way for anyboy into my life.
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I loved this question..gives me a chance to tell my story, lol.  YES! it's very possible!  I'm not saying that ppl don't lie online, and turn out to be someone entirely different when a person meets them, but not everyone is that way.  Here's my story....\n\nI met my husband over a year and a half ago online.  LOL, yes, you read right, my husband!  We just got married March 23.  From the moment we started talking, it was just..."right".  We fell in love almost instantaneously.  We are truly soulmates.\n\nAnyway, I'm all for following your heart.  I can't count how many times friends would tell me to "wait and see" when we met.  But not having met yet didn't matter to us.  I flew to where he lived, he picked me up from the airport, and within an hour we were married.  One look into each other's eyes and everything we had felt for a year and a half had been solidly confirmed.\n\nWhatever you do, follow your heart, follow your instincts.  I did and all of my dreams came true.  I found and married my soulmate...ONLINE!
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If your boyfreind were the greatest guy in the world to you , you would not be flirting with other guys, socializing maybe but certainly not thinking about being with them. OOPS, sounds like you got attached to soon. You really should not commit yourself unless you are ready to COMMIT. If you are not prepared to be faithful and serious about your current relationship, then end it, if the guy your with is that great let him go so he can find a girl who is worthy of him.
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i know how you feel cause i'm going through this too but you have to handle it right , just leave the first move for the boy , if he really likes you he'd talk to you and declare his feelings ..anyway it's just my opinion and you have the last word ...anytime you need me i'd be so happy to offer my help ----> Nancy
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I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
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fact is that you and him cannot see each other too often... and both of you are still very young.. I think each of you should live your life, but always do keep in touch. then, see what happen with your life in the next few years after you both graduate. you will never know what will happen, things are happening fast at your age. not to be wasted. either of you are planning to make serious commitment soon anyway right?
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yes baby this is true love the love which can last for life time  .......i think u must express him ur love gooo on my dear dnt miss this ur ture love is near u knw express it before he goes far away
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Find someone to love. He will always be there for you. :)
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That is soo me, I have the same problem, I have been hurt soooo many times that I can't even count on my hands how many times I have been heart broken. But i seem to go on, and now I really like this boy, and I afraid to ask him because of what his friends will say, so I'm just keeping it in, and its tearing me up inside, and I can't take it anymore. So, I have came to a conclusion that I'm never going to be w/him, and I'm just trying to forget about him, but I will always have that feeling, and that hope that he will realize that he likes me. Well, I say go w/your heart. \n\n                                 Good Luck!!!!!
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i know the feeling girl... i guess i should just ask you to let it go. let time take its course... i had the same situation, we didn't get the closeness back, it didn't matter what i do anymore... he hardly ever speaks to me now... i'm not saying you'll end up like us... just to avoid getting hurt, move on and let time decide for you... if he's for you, then no matter how long it takes... love would find its way and fate would bring you back together...
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i was talkin to this guy online for about 2 weeks met him and that was 2 years ago and now we are still together in love so yes sometimes its good!! just be safe about it
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look i dont know the nature of that boy and neither the age..cuz older they r..they bcom a bit more sensible...so..i dont know all that but i know ur situation.....u did a good job..telling him all that truth..cuz the better it is if it comes bfore from u then anyone else.....so u did 100% correct thing.........\nnow bout the thing that whether he'll talk to u or not.....just stop worrying bout that......go ahead and talk to him if he does not comes to u.....dont feel any guilt...cuz that wass right wat u did...jst initiate a talk about anything else and if u feel the things getting right at their original way then resume this matter...just try to take this matter in a calm way and u'll understand it in a better way then...\nbelieve me.....ive seen many such cases and i know ur condition..have faith in urself..u did the right thing.....just stay clam and do all ive said...best of all ur luck !!!!
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Give it time, let him get to know you, my bf was the same way but after we spent time talking and just hangin out he realized that I was different and that I did not want to hurt him or mess with him, now we are in love and I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him and he feels the same way. I hope everything works out.\n ~Kim~
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:)..you're sweet..u don't realise that u are inlove..and that is a good thing cause u don't want to be dissapointed by him..the boy U ARE INLOVE WITH...cause u are..trust me...i am in the same situation..but i know that he feels the same...we are together now...and at the begging i felt the same...but i wasn't sure...and now i'm happy thinking about him in reality or in dreams...i love him!..and u love your guy..don't worry just be yourself and love always love cause life is made to love...to live for love!...so LIVE FOR YOUR LOVE like i live:)...kisses:*
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I would call that infatuation. I rather say that you are in 'like' with the guy. Love is too strong a feeling for what you described there. You probably just like him and have no problem being around him.
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you don't sorry move on .but you know i just bet this guy like you more of what he saying .so if you want your boy hang in there .but don't make a fool of youself it just a game young guys play.
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You have to be true to your heart.  If that leads you to this boy, then you should sit down and talk to your best friend and explain how you feel.  If she is any kind of friend, then she should only want your happiness.  After all, we can't control who we fall in love with.  If we could this world would be a very boring place to live!
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I think you're probably in love but you are scared to admit it  'cause you are afraid to loose her , And I think if you tell her \nhow you really feel  , it will really ease your life and just tell her  what ever that you think about that doesn't let you concentrate on your studies , and be true to her , I don't think any girl could resist a boy like that.