I make 6 figures and every girl I meet is always wanting something from me. Why arn't there any decent girls out there that dont care about that? And if not why is it so bad if I look for a girl with a good job?
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because most of them are gold diggers. solution: date older girls and dont tell em how much u make. older girls are more down to earth, girls in their early-mid 20s mostly are a bunch of gold diggers look for a hand out. I dont think its wrong to look for a girl with a good job, in fact you should, maybe even in the same field, then there is a less chance she wants to be with you for your money. the bar comes up in a year for me and if i dont find anyone before that, id only date other lawyers, dr's, and other professional women
593875
I have the same problem with women... i cant seem to find one that doesnt go for stupid druggies.... i would to find a girl who is intelligent, confident, assertive, caring, and not shallow..... maybe we are sharing sumting in common? =) im guessing this is common but other ladies on answers have told me to hold out for the best and thas what im doing.... u shud do the same.... sont cheat ureslef, set the standards high!
95432
The only way to get that girl you saw was to have a Master card or Visa to purchase the memebrship online. However, may I point out to you that there are thousands of online chat rooms that have the girls of your dreams and they cost not a single cent! Why do you want to pay? Go online in a chat room that will ahve the singles/dating format too. you can talk all you want  to any girl and see if she is the right one for you. Google chat rooms. tons for your chosing.
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Why would you even bother making such an imature and rediculous post? Men don't always get paid more then women it depends on what the job is and who has the better experience. Infact there are many women who make more money simply because men are stupid enough hire them just because they are good looking and want to watch them all day while they sit on thier butts b****** about thier own wives and hillbilly beer guts. then there are the men that are stupid enought to just hand over money to anything that looks his way.Men have made it easy for women to get by on thier looks alone and for that men acctually make less because the women are getting thier money anyways. Last but not least the women who acctually have intellegance and work for what they want and have because they don't need a man to do it for them (These are called real women who have respect for themselves and goals).
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From your description, it sounds like the girls should be all over you. I'm guessing you must be either really shy or have some sort of personality issue going on. Desperation drives girls away.\n\nAnyway, I would recommend coffee shops and bookstores to find girls in the same educational league (so to speak) as yourself. I've never had luck with guys there, but I keep trying.\n\nThe grocery store is good too because you can tell a lot of a woman by what she has in her cart, but that's kind of cliche.\n\nBasically, unless you have a personality issue, just try and be honest, open, and yourself. Women don't like guys who are posturing and fake; women who can't tell when you are tend to be vapid and a little scary, so everyone loses here.\n\nBest of luck.
623329
You must be dealing with some pretty shallow females if you have to ask this question. No woman worth having is going to care whose name is on your clothes, as long as you look decent and respectable.
97503
some females use that as if you want to get some i need some money.. but if you aint looking for nothing and she still tryna beg then she just looking for a sugar daddy when she need to be hitting up her job not the dude she just met... and they will never admit to being a GOLD DIGGER
313498
I know it sounds bad, but usually the first thing a guy looks for is how the girl looks.  If she is good looking, then he wants to find out other things about her.  That is just how most guys are.  And I am always busy, but if I really like a girl, I always find time to kick it with her.  And the only reason I'm always busy is because I don't want to be broke, because when you are broke you are no fun.
191977
UR JUST NOT LOOKIG FOR THE RIGHT GIRLSSSS.... TRY HARDER..THAT ONE GIRL FOR U IS SOMEWHERE OUT THERE..AND IM SORRY THAT U HAVE TO MEET SL***!!!!
613641
Dont' try so hard, guys can see how desperate some girls are. The best way is to have a large group of friends and have some of your friends pair you with someone that would be good for you. It'll take a little bit of time but if you want something, go and get it, don't expect everything to be handed down to you. Good luck
521808
Women are completely messed up in the head.  They only want things that they can't have.  By sending stuff to them and being nice they realize that they can have you and that makes them feel like their nothing special.  You must first show them that your'e special and get their attention by doing something funny, unique, or impressive all while acting disinterested.  Then pay them some attention and then only start being nice to them after they agree to go out with you.  Even then do not be overbearing just kinda act like theyre ok and then theyll be dying for attention and then in turn begin to develop an affection toward you.
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Maybe your not looking in the right places, are you open to trying maybe a personal dating service??? you might want to look into that, there are great women who are genuine and looking for more in a relationship. They wouldn't be paying for the service if they didn't want something out of it. try it you might find that someone special.
444474
There will always be other girls out there whom you can find. You don't need to worry about it. I'm sure there are other girls at work whom you can find. If not, try asking your friends for people whom they know.
462055
I don't think that having standards is a bad thing. In fact, I think it's great that you are looking for someone that you can form a meaningful relationship with. However, just because someone doesn't fit every single criteria you have listed here, doesn't mean she doesn't deserve a chance. Some of these things aren't necessarily bad qualities for a woman to have, unless they are doing it to the extreme, for example, the being emotional, and even being a bitch. sometimes, you need both of those. You need to look at the individual, and not just the standards, because often times the one you will love will have a couple things about them that you never would have thought you could have wanted in a partner until they came around.
248942
why obsessed with girls and what a good girl should do/should be?  Honey, have some faith in yourself.
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Hey! Don't waste your time with guys like this!\n\nThere are a lot on nice guys out there! He is crazy! Who ask this kind of things from a girl.\n\nThe girls and boys relationship are ALWAY serious.\n\nONLY the Prostitutes have not any serious relationship and their main intention is MONEY! \n\nALL girls meet guys with this HOPE that 'He is the man of My Dream'. So, from first 'LOOK girls are SERIOUS, they love family and marriage and children. \n\nIF guys looking just for SEX, it is better they go and find whores...\n\nYOU looking very nice girl to me and there are a lot nice guys out there, just try to find them.
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pray little mama!! Not all guys play games. like me for example, I don't.  But you do need to be cautious there are alot of "no good-sap-suckers" out there that are just looking for a good girl to ruin. Once you realize your "perfect" self worth, you won't care how many sucker you dismiss because you 'll know in your heart you are getting rid of the for the right reasons. Alright? All you have to do are these three simple things I'm about to tell you and you'll win everytime. First, get a realization of who YOU are. The beautiful sweet woman you are. Two, decied WHAT you want in a man and stick to it. Third,  don't ever sell yourself short..remember..NO FEAR!!!!!