Ok, I'm not going to play stupid, because I'm not....this on-line dating is new to me.....do people really hookup alot with ALOT of different people? Because I certainly would not want to waste my time... What happened is I reviewed all his answers and saw a comment he made and I don't know if he was talking about ME OR SOMEONE ELSE????
213348
well maybe he is and maybe he is not.  is that his right to answer what he wants without question of what he is talking about.
264155
in my past i did, and only 1 did i never meet. the rest and i met and fell for each other. i've had some pretty decent times with that. why are you asking about online dating? i thought you had a boyfriend? will i online date anyone now? no. not for me. i'm waiting for God's best.
632888
Why does he have the ability to send you messages?  I think you just want attention.  This is the 3rd posting about the same topic!  I think you just want someone to ask you/prove that you are hot!  get over yourself!  And the important question is, "What is wrong with you?"
194653
so a woman posts a profile (on the internet) and a guy responds to her profile because he is interested?\n\nWell, maybe what the women found from the guy who was interested in their profile, was not something that they were interested. \n\nI personally don't think that women posting a profile for a date is desperate because it appears that this world has turned into mostly internet.  And we all have a right to chose who we want to go out with.  We don't have to go out with the first guy that posts to the profile.  We have the right to choose, because we are the ones that need to be happy also.  Not just the guy.\n\nI met my significant other through the internet and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me.
270254
Boy, I just LUV this questions! I'm wondering the same thing.. I think they're all sex addicts (and it's a clanny 'perv hangout!') Boy oh boy. (It's not me that thinks so, eh?) I say skip the dating sites.. I can't find anyone worth a darn in this small town (of l,500) either. Everyone 'knows everyone else.' So am I really stuck or what?!? Yeah, you are sharp.. when they want to be friends, it's just sex.. (yep.) Real men wanna make you happy and take you out to dinner, a show, be considerate.. (right on!) I think you are on the right track .. don't give in!!! later
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well first, is there any way you can tell if he's been active on this account or not? maybe he had it on there and forgot about it? just mention to him that you found it and was wondering about it...this might bring questions as to why you were there also, he might think that you were looking on match.com, or don't trust him. neither are what you would want him to think if it's not true. \nso simply ask him about it, if he isn't straight up with you about it, then odds are that he's always keeping another door open. men do this for many reasons, like fear of being hurt, finding something better, or that's just thier lifestyle. i wouldn't put up with it if he says he wants to marry me, because marriage is permanent. if he's talking about something permanent then he needs to be sure about it before he mentions it.
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kind of scary. we all all so different and on our best behaviour on line. you are only knowing the part of this person he wants you to know. everyone is right, DO A BACKGROUND CHECK!!!!! make sure it is really him! when i was tending bar, a real nice, clean cut guy came in. for some reason, this guy made the hair on the back of my neck stand up. everyone said go for it. i did do a background check, and the guy did 13 years for rape! what i'm trying to say is that you can't trust people you meet in person, let alone on line. we all hide behind a veil of mystery! i hope you are over 18! please be careful!!!!
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i met my husband on there ... i met a lot of guys but dated about 5 (plus my husband) ... their were 3 that were okay ... one was just rude, the other 3 were well .. it was easy to understand why they were single ... my husband had the most straightforward down to earth ad ... and we clicked ... 4 years after we met we got married
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He might have been looking to spice things up for both of you, however, he should have discussed it with you first. Its cheating once that profile and picture were posted, and I suggest you put your foot down and stop it before he ends up bringing home something you can't cure with medication....GL;)
490819
I dont think you should do anything about it. This guy could end up bieng one of those sick perverts preying on high school kids. I say that you stop talking to him. Delete your profile with that chat site or whatever it is and make another one under a different name. You dont want to end up like those girls on the news bieng raped because they thought they found thier soulmate and it turned out to be some 30 year old virgin who's addicted to his Star Wars Collection.
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SNAP!!!!!!\n\ndid the same thing with a guy i met on her too. stayed up all hours just chatting about stuff and listing old songs! \n\nok, here's what i think. when you meet someone you just 'click' with, it is easy to get carried away with yourself and be consumed with it all. thats not to say that there is not anything serious there. all i am saying is reality is often different to fantasy.\n\nme and the guy i'm still chatting too met a couple of weeks ago. he is a great guy but i think we both felt that reality was a little different. we still chat and i am due to see him again shortly.\n\nwhat we decided was to take things slowly, get to know eachother better as friends as see what develops from that. it's the most sensible option i think.
316263
This sort of guy usually persists until you put out but don't do that. He also seldom takes no for an answer. I had the same problem in 2001-2002. I just began sharing details about dates I went on with other guys untill he faded into the background. I am happily married to someone else now so don't believe that hype about him being meant for you.
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But of course on line friendship survives!! You just gotta keep it alive. If you keep in touch, then the friendship stays alive. If you stop communicating, then the friendship dies. I know this from a few times of experience. Dude, I am not kidding when I say this, either, you are the longest I have kept in touch with solely over the computer. A little over 2 months already!! My longest before this was only for about 2 weeks. They stopped communication for some reason. Guess things got tiresome and they were starting to do other things for themselves.... You can stick to someone off the internet just like you do in real life. I have heard from several that some people they know personally actually married each other because they got along so well on the internet. Just like the dating sites. You find someone that you get along with over the computer. And then they meet each other after talking over the computer for quite some time.
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not me. i think its pretty dumb. many questions are like "is there guys/grils in (blah)? want to go out with me"\n\nthose are like soo annoying. Its like dont lyou know that its not safe meeting strangers on the internet? Also if you are a dating material then why not go to places where you meet new people?
284754
I would just leave it be.  You will always have experiences that will tickle your fancy, but since you met this dude online and he does not even remember you, I would just let it pass.  Plenty of real people to meet out there in reality land.
16624
hey, i went online, maybe you can too.  I've gotten lots of attention but haven't found anyone yet that I'm interested in dating full time.  It takes time but if you meet this person online, you could get to know her a little better and then maybe after a few emails, a few message sessions, and a few phone calls you might actually work up your courage to go on a date.  It might work!
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I joined eHarmony back in September and have had a great experience with it.  Yes, it is a lot of money, but for me, I was looking for a serious relationship, not just someone to have a brief fling with.\n\nI met someone through eHarmony. We're not officially together, but we're definitely headed in that direction. He's a really sweet guy and we have SO much in common. He's the person I've been looking for.  He's worth the money I spent to use the site, and so much more!  :)