I am blonde,blue eys,5'8'',and 18 yrs old all of the jocks say i am the hottest girl in our grade and hotter than all the cheerleaders.But none of them will ask me out all they do is flirt with me.I play basketball,softball,soccer,volleyball,cross country,and i am in gymnastics.So what i wanna know is why won't they ask me out or ask me to come hang with them?
218449
because if u r as hot as you say they must think you chill with older guys, so they think you r going shut them down so they think the will look like fools when you dump them lol try flirting with them, and asking them out or to han gout with them, if u like a certain guy try the thing from varsity blues lol let me no how it goes lol
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Since I left a pretty detailed answer for your previous question, I'll keep this brief.  How do you know that "they don't think other guys are hot?"  Maybe some of them do.\n\nI would check out the answers left for your previous question.  There's a lot of good information.  I tried asking guys out for around 10 years, but eventually realized it didn't make me any more atrracted to guys.  It just made both me and them unhappy.  Of course, that doesn't necessarily mean the same thing will happen to you, but it is a possiblity.\n\nWhatever you decide to do, I wish you well.
580545
Do you want to try out? why are you not comfortable...with the trying out or being a cheerleader in general. If she wants you to try out, maybe it's cuz they think you  have what it takes, if they dont know you well, maybe it's some kind of joke?? If your not comfortable, dont do it. Only you know what's best.
227139
Hi, \n\nYou probably are a gorgeous gal, \n\nDon't hang about waiting on losers!!\n\nCheers!!
163284
maybe they feel intimidated. go up and talk to them show them you are interested.believe me if you are so cool as you say you are, that shy pretty girl would melt in her shoes if you would only show interest
233305
I'm also very athletic.  I don't do football, powerlifting, and wrestling (we don't have a team around here!), but I swim, all events in track and field, softball, volleyball, and basketball.  I can't really tell if you're ugly, but most athletic females are usually slim to medium size, which I would expect males would like, and their muscular, so when they walk they don't have fat swinging off their legs or whatever!  I would expect a guy would like that.  With the dominated by men, I completely understand.  I tried playing on a male softball team, and they didn't play me as much etc. etc. etc.  But, once you get good, and they figure out your good (which finally they saw in me), they'll let you play!  Good luck!
210633
Lol I hear where youre getting from. Take it from a female(even thou im 17 lol)I think you just need to show confidence. Do not I repeat Do not show weakness and nervousness, thats just asking for them to diss you by saying no and stuff. If you go up to them being all confident and shiz they most likely will dance with you. Anyways you dont look like you need help getting a girl to dance with you, just my opinion.
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You really should not listen to all people are saying, YOU ARE NOT THAT BAD AT ALL!!!  Remember that there is someone out there for everyone, you just havn't found them yet. If you stop to think about it ,would you really want to go out with any of the juvenile girls that you have asked out recently?  They can't have very much of a personality or  be a genuine person if they can hurt peoples' feelings so easily as they have yours!  Hang in there, I am sure you will find someone who loves you for who you are and when you do you will be very happy together.
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You seem to me to be a confused young lady. You want the guy b/c you feel threatened by other girls that they may makke the first move and take him from you. Young men say alot of things in front of peers to act macho that they wouldn't try alone.He may say to his buddies, "I would really like to see her naked", but in reality he would be scared or embarrassed. Given your age, I would advise you to hold off on offering anyone sex just yet. Especially since it seems like it is a game to you to try to win the boy over from another girl. You don't "HAVE TO" have sex because "EVERYONE" is doing it. Most young adults who say they are really aren't. Please save yourself for someone who truly, deeply cares and respects you b/c once you lose it, it is gone.
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im 14. im from orange county. u sound cool. id date u if i knew you. there are never any good, true girls out there. and chances are, ur not chubby. everybody thinks they're fat. its hardly ever true. anyways, u sound great. im not into the whole internet dating thing though. ill email you if ud like. its up to you. im in all honors classes and am a very good guy. im kind of shy too and am good at basketball. i play guitar but am terrible at it. (not afraid to admit it) anyways, u sould like a great girl. u shouldn't have any problems getting a bf. u sould nice, sincere(how do u spell that). there are hardly any girls left like that. what ever you do, dont stop being the great person you sould like.
192004
You're probably just attractive and wanted. Why not ask them why they like you? Or go out with one if single!
163703
This may be true. They(boys) may find you a bit intimidating because you are confident and probably because of your maturity they may think they don't stand a chance with you.  But don't change because they are too wimpy to approach you.  There are lots of guys that like a challenge and are not intimidated by talented, competitive, confident young ladies. They find this appealing.
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They've got to be funny, for one thing. hair can't be too long... that can get gross! he has to be sensitive, of course, not nervous around you, honest, faithful, ummm as far as looks go, not fat; that sounds mean, but if a guy doesn't have the will power to stay off the twinkies, then he probably won't have the will power to be faithful or make some other choices... i like muscular, tall guys, but i also like the skinny funny ones who are just way too much fun to be with! forget skaterboys and jocks... i like tennis guys! and the ones who really don't care about athletics too much... but don't get me wrong, i do fall for jocks sometimes! i just like it when my guy is smarter than he is athletic
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You failed to mention anything about your personality. Looks are great but if YOU suck as a person then who cares about your looks. Also, don't be so egocentric. Have you considered that maybe the guys around you aren't a good match for you and that your friends might be compromising alot to tolerate the boys you all interact with.
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As hard as you may find this to believe, you may actually find that you are intimidating to them. Boys at that age are more nervous than you might believe. Being a well endowed, or self-aware girl makes you a confident person. There is NOTHING wrong with that, and your friends may even envy you for it. Don't change a thing girl, and let them catch up with YOU... you're doing fine!! Good luck!
523256
If your really that hot then, us guys think your too good for them and want make a move, What I like is when really hot girls gives me hints to know that she is interested in me, try hints like saying "your hot too" or "thanks sexy" when they complement you. If they don't make a move then there either gay or in a relationship already. Us guys don't always know what a girl wants. And a lot a of girls don't make it easy for us. Good luck.
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Well from ur other questions ur probably really young. Im not a guy so i cant say ya thats hot! lol or anything, but if ur jus going into high school or w/e i would recommend you doll urself up! lol lyke get some highlights, a little eyeliner, manicuresss oh do a sport! like cheerleading! lol well thats just me but really you should do sports, u meet alot of people, get popular, and guys will notice u like o thats the girl that plays soccer or w/e. ur description sounds like ur a nice person, maybe not be as much of a teacher pet and being more social! but ya i got a little off topic there lol but yeah u sound nice just look ur best get em to notice you then wheeeeeeeel them in lol!!Crap i forgot be confident in urself too!! u can b pretty but if ur super insecure and shy and stuff it wont get u too far, guys like outgoing girls and confident girls..or so they say! lol