Please dont just say YES or No...\nExplain how you feel and what is your perception of your future...\nYou feel there are more opportinities for you in America ?\nCareer wise, revenue wise, standard of living... \nTo raise a family, educate medical and other basic necessities...\nAnd even buying your own home '-)\n\nPlease, give it a shot and just write something a little more elaborate on the subject...
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No i don't. I am a single mother, i can't even move out of my parents house because everything cost so much. I could get 2 jobs but then the cost of babysitters would spend all my money and then i wouldn't have time for my child.\n\nGovernment doesn't want to help anyone unless you need all there help. They won't just give you a little boost. \n\nIts hard to find a good job with decent pay. i feel bad for the children growing up in todays world that all.
236654
some of your present needs may be fulfilled.But in the future you have to sacrifice many things viz.,youth,friends and family etc.you have no other way.Better organize a forum and make your representations.
487285
It's a hard thing to see. If you could see how your future would be like with someone, though, it would be pointless. Hate to make this short and sweet, but the best way you can go about this is going with the flow. Arguments are bound to happen, but if you can work through them, that is what you can look forward to. To see that things can work out.
190749
HEY WHY NOT ITS A FREE COUNTRY YOU CAN CHANGE IF YOU WANT TO.\nCERTAIN PEOPLE WILL MAKE YOU FEEL VERY WELCOME.\nMY FRIEND THE CHOICE IS YOURS.
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Sit down with your parents  and tell them you love and respect them.Then show them in writing that you have a concrete plan for your future.For example the program you want to take, where you will live, budget, if you must work,etc. Also try to show you have prepared for emergencies and have alternate plans and options. Your parents will be more receptive to your wishes if you can show them you have given this plan a lot of thought and consideration.
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We think much alike. What you have to do is Educate yourself. You can work 5-10 years to Build your own home and OWN it and buy your car, boat, etc. for entertainment. Then stop working and do a few odd jobs for paying your bills. Many Americans follow this concept and I even gave a presentation about owning a home in 5 years at a college. Just this one concept will take 10 years out of your work life. Good Luck.
446967
Move to america or change your country
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Sounds like the so called American Dream isn't right for you.\nListen, if it doesn't feel right, don't do it.\nDon't let your parents or your government tell you what to do!\nLook at them, they're hypocrites.\nAt least you're honest.\n\nIf those things were really good for you, then they'd feel good.\nThey may be good for someone, but they're robbing you of your soul.  \nYou shouldn't feel guilty for not fitting in.\nDon't be another zombie, another robot; Be your own true self!
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STOP!!!! THINK for a minute here -- and really LISTEN to those who know you the best.  There are some IMPORTANT Points to think about:\n\nYou just got your real estate license, and are starting work for a broker.  OK -- that is fine ... but really ... have you thought about BENEFITS?  You know, are you on salary -- do you have a medical, dental, hospitalization plan -- life or disability insurance -- is it enough to live on your own and pay your own bills -- well into the future?\n\nand ... now that you are in the 4th year -- WHY GIVE UP NOW -- you do realize that NOT having a Degree is a Financial Disadvantage in moving up in ANY Business Environment -- so how in the world do you think you will be able to branch out into property management, mortgage brokerage, or any other specialization in Real Estate that will allow you more earning power IF you do NOT have a degree with you?
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It is a very tough situation. And sadly there are no easy answers. I'd would at least try to speak with your children on the phone and see how they are doing.\nTry not to be too picky with work, and if you do get a job try and get at least a used car; yeah I know about used cars but if you are in a tight situation including $$$$$ then you should go with what you can afford. \nIn regards to living samething start small and then work your way up, rent or room-mate with someone for the time being.
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You reasons sound good - but do you have enough detail to support them - if you do - I would say go for it!!!!\n\nGood Luck!!!
494402
Go for the more logical step with better prospects. After you have worked hard and made money then you have the freedom to follow your dreams!
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When you come here, you should have enough funds to support yourself and your family.\n\nUnfortunately many, many people is abusing this "emergency" Social Assistance and that's why so many people is angry about this.\n\nWhen you get your visa, you and your husband will be able to work in a restaurant or store they are always hiring. Keep this job until you get familiar and keep applying to the work you'd love to have. Be improving your income by getting a better job each time, sometimes you/or your husband will have to have 2 jobs to be able to settle down. \n\nGet a cheap rent apartment, if you have family or friends they can start looking for you. The same goes for a car, get an older car that is dependable.\n\nPLEASE DON'T USE WELFARE, because it is for poor people. If you can work, you can be a Millionaire in this Country and you will be ashamed you were on welfare when you didn't need it.
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spend your money here in America. it's were you live. Help keep jobs here.
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19 and looking into the future..\nThat is a great start my young grasshopper....\nYou are on you way to big adventures if you are smart with your decisions...\n1st you need to evaluate your expenses becasue if you do not have the money, you can not do it....\nIf I were you start looking at prices and conditions, meaning size of house, bedrooms, bathroom, lot size, taxes, insurance, etc...\nNow start saving $5000 per year, and in 5 years you will have $25,000 to put down on a nice home.....The more you put down the better loan you will get and easier process.\nYou have to calculate what you make a year and to see if you can afford the Mortgage, taxes, and insurance, etc....\n\nI bought my 1st home when I was 27, I put $20,000 into it, and now I own 3 more houses...\n\ngood luck
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Oh sweetie there are so many reasons to live . For one thing there is no changing your mind once it's done . You never know what is just around\nthe next corner in your life , it could be something wonderful . I've been where you are . Please if you want help get in touch with me by way of my 360 page . Let me help .
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I;m in the same boat u are and I think u should follow ur heart if u wanna move then move, if u change ur mind go ahead its what makes u well u. I have a feeling a lot of people are fickle about their future just too scared to admit it. Good luck on whatever u may do.