I don't like her and she doensn't like me-that the simple version of it. I'm always talking behind her back, and I'm sure she does the same. We only talk to eachother via email not in science-the only class we have together. Almost ALL of he emails are nasty ones. Sometimes I wonder if we will EVER stop fighting. How can I stop it without sounding like a wimp?
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I think in reality you like each other. Why do you email each other. Why do you care enough to fight? Because even if you won't admit it you like her and she likes you.
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this is why office love is a bad idea.  But stop letting her bully you around.  go to these other so called friends and ask them what is going on.  Hearsay is a nasty habit, and you dont really want to partake in that and you dont want friends who do. I ould also confront the girl saying that you dont need to be friends, but to stop trying to sabotage other realtionships.  if it still presists, then maybe you can transfer out?
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Awww...that is so sad. It reminds of my relationship with my sister. She is also older than me. It's about a year and a half older...Seriously, we do and don't get along. It's not like one of those sibling love and hate conflicts, where we would just fight occasionaly. It's similar to yours, too, but it's not like we hate each other guts. Though we bicker and argue pretty much every day, even on the small and petty things. And when we're like really angry (which can happen like every now...ish^^)...we like literally fight and call each other names. Like when we were younger, like around the age of six-seven ish, there was this time when she pushed me off the stairs (O.o)...and another time where she poked me near the eye with a pen. Now I have a small bump on my forehead and a dot near my eye...She is a violent one, like a bull she is....Anyway, now I'm getting off subject, even after all we do, from arguements and fights, I still actually do love her. Once in a while, we have these heart-to-heart talks, but we do and really don't know each other at all. We just get out of each other's way...most of the times at least^^...Ok, enough with my story. Hmm, well you could act out a suicide attempt- like if she hates you so much and wishes you were dead, just be like, "FINE", you want me dead. Then stomp off to the kitchen, pull out a knife, make sure she follows you and sees you. She should have a heart, and be like, what the hell are you doing or something. Then like just tell her, whilst crying, about all your problems with her and you don't understand why she is being like that....Though death is not a funny matter, so you shouldn't really do that. You can always tell your parents about the situation, though your sister might hate you even more. All in all, you can just ignore her in school and home. And if she provokes you first (MAYBE that's what she wants and is plotting) then just be like yea, I know, whatever....Try doing a guilt trip on her....Gah, so yea, this post might not have helped you at all, but hope it did. ^^ Good luck with your sis.
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Boy have I.  Just don't do what I did and make an ass of yourself through e-mail.  If you're going to risk anything do it to their face so you can at least gauge what their reaction really is while you are in the middle of it.
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She is not your friend if she keeps on getting mad at you for no reason at all. You should talk to her about that. Misery loves company and this is not something you should even have to put up with. Find new friends and don't sweat the small stuff.
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She's what you call a "fair-weather friend". She's only around when it suits HER but not vice-versa.  I've had a few like that and the best thing is to cut them loose.  You are right not to talk to her anymore.  Some people are so immature they cannot see how their actions drive others away.  Don't call her bcz it will put the ball in her court and she will end up not calling YOU just to get back at you.\nIf you end up answering the phone when she calls just explain calmly and simply that you didn't appreciate how she blew you off AND lied to you during the crisis, when you really needed her, and obviously her priorities had been somewhere else.  You feel your friendship came to an end a long time ago.  Tell her you wish her luck and to take care of herself, that you're sure she will understand.  End with a firm 'goodbye'.  Keep your tone neutral and even. Don't be sarcastic or profane.  Remember, you're not going to lower yourself to her level.  Hope this helps.  It worked for me.
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She obviously already dissed you.  What you already know is enough to come to that conclusion.  From now on, do not regard her as close of a friend as you had thought or hoped.  Try talking and hanging with some other people, than just this group.  Also, look around for some other young hotties to set your eyes and energy on.  Give this friendship some space.  If it is a truly a good friendship it will still be there.  But, don't ask.  Let it be.  Do your own thing for a little bit.  I would not ask her anything because she knows your feelings for him.  If she needs to share with you something in regards with them then that is her job to come to you. She needs to be responsible for getting that out on the table with you.  Just be like whatever. If she cares about you and is close as you say, she will know to say something to you.
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hahaha, thats a good one. maybe you should compromise with her. talk with her, address the issue. Let your voice be heard and let her know. If you don't she will continue to ignore you. Or you can encourage her, maybe you two should go exercise together and that  way you can get her off her ass
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Ummm.  If you hate her, then is she really your best friend?  Seems contradictory to me.  \n\nWhy don't you just hang out with people you actually enjoy spending time with? \n\nGood luck.
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Give her time to cool off.I am sure that if she is a good friend she will think about it and know that you would never do that to her. If she want listen to you then send someone else to talk for you. Leave her a message on her voice-mail, write a letter, or email. She has to listen or read one of them.
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GIVE UP ALREADY! If you keep trying to contact you, she can go apply for a restraining order due to harassment. Don't follow her around or she can add stalking to the charge. They're crimes,  you know, and I really think if your statement "we both like each other" was so true then she'd get back in touch with you. Maybe she liked you but just not that way, you know, liked you as a friend and wanted nothing more... or after getting involved realized you weren't who she thought you were.\n\nBut quit trying to contact her! Take the nint and leave her alone!
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You need to learn when a person is not interested and leave it alone....stop bothering a person when she is not reacting to you..You can't force no one to like you..
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It sounds like you need to find new friends. It is a sad fact that as you get older people change. You are smart enough to see that what she is doing is not right and that is a great start. Ignore what she says and be the bigger person and act like it does not bother you. Stop trying to be her friend as there are plenty of other great people out there that would love to be your friend! If she asks why you two are not friends anymore, just tell her that you don't need to be around people like her. Don't sweat it kiddo! You will make some great friends! Good luck!
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Just CALMLY confront her straight out, asking one question at a time.  Do not let up on the questions until she breaks down and starts talking.  Do not raise your voice or act angry:\n\nI don't understand why you are treating me this way when I have done so much for you, and you have been so nice to me over the email.  Is there something I should know about?  Did I do something wrong?  Did something change?  Are you unhappy visiting me? Should I stop sending you money?  What is going on?
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Dear Dear such a scene and how is it possible. You all fight because you all still are individuals who have  opinions. But you all are still friends because you all have good qualities to be Compatible, Adjustable and someone fun to get along with.\nFighting and still being friends assures the Fact that you both enjoy each other's Company a lot. So continue fighting because that is what helps both of you all to keeep the energy in the Relationship(Fight,talk, Patchup and Fight - a good clean cycle where you all pickup grudges and still come clean by forgiving each other for what has been done).\nSo try to keep up the True Spirit of Friendship that you now have.\nTry Dreaming and think how it would be if you did not have her in your life as your Best Friend(so much would be missing in your life and maybe hers too)
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ummmm...relax yaar..i understand how u feel.. well some people will irritate u..but neva listen to it,u know how you are!!for few days she will continue the same,but if she finds no response from your side then she will leave you soon!do u wanna b smart??so just ignore it..if you behave as how she is,then there will not be any difference between u and her..so adjust it for few days she will leave you soon..dont worry be cool...
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Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx