school started up i used to  flirt with this boy  i didnt know it at the time i was jus goofing cuz all my friends were boys any ways i thought this boy was really cute but the thing is he looks exactly like my boyfriend so i told my boyfrind he was upset but let it go and than thats where my worrys started about if i still love him and will i always me and my boyfrind have been together for 11 months
212023
I am sure you are going to re-live this moment many times mostly because you are not sure and when you are not sure it is definately not love
506352
woooooow your just about 4 or 5 years younger then me and you still seem a little young, girly you are a little too young, but anyway you need to ask yourself whats more important, your BESTFRIEND or some boy thats going to end up breaking your heart anyway...i dont want to make it seem horrible but who's to say the same thing he's doing to your friend he won't do to you?  how do you know if he's going to be promising your best friend a 'relationship' when you and him are together (3 years from now). just know that boyz come and go but friends last for ever. so ask yourself is he really worth it?
614361
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
40670
oh please think about what you want to do.  Read you statement for yourself. everything that you are telling us about this man is all the reason to leave him.  I have been though it and i thought the same thing you did. (I love him). but it only gets worse. please belive me shy away why you still can. You don't need to stay with this boy, please put yourself in our shoes and read what you have wrote like you are reading a friends letters and see the sings. you might be in love with him now, but as time goes on and it might take years! you will see that this is not for you and that you can not take it anymore.
57194
If your boyfreind were the greatest guy in the world to you , you would not be flirting with other guys, socializing maybe but certainly not thinking about being with them. OOPS, sounds like you got attached to soon. You really should not commit yourself unless you are ready to COMMIT. If you are not prepared to be faithful and serious about your current relationship, then end it, if the guy your with is that great let him go so he can find a girl who is worthy of him.
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Most of the are jealous and feel this is the only way they will look good in the eyes of the boy they want, to make you look bad in the eyes of your boyfriend.\n\nBut sense you tuned the dude down and you told your boyfriend he will trust you more in the future. You did the right thing there.\n\nIgnore her she is a trouble maker...
356750
I think you should do what your heart says. If it is telling you that you love this guy, not a little middle school or high school crush, but actually love the guy, its a tough decision. I was in the same position about 4 months ago, but luckily it worked out for me, my friend did get over my now boyfriend. But I had to sit down and have a talk with her. I actually asked her permission to date him. I didnt want to lose a friend over a guy. It can work, and if she says its ok, then she would have no reason to be angry, but if she says no, she doesnt want you to, then just think of how akward it would be to go out with him? she would always be angry, and it would hurt her alot. What if she made a move for him without talking to u? wouldn't that hurt you? Talk to her, and really consider what you say, how you say it, and listen to what she has to say. do it when things are not rocky, or else it will go horribly wrong. It sounds to me like you two need to talk it out, and if necesary, not have either of you date him. it is weird for a while...trust me. and if she says its ok, then it may be akward for a while, but eventually she will be ok with it unless she really does like that guy. And also be sure this guy is really worth it. Trust me, if its a crush, it could ruin both friendships. just have one on one time with him and talk things out with him too. remember, comunication is key. without it, it can all splash in your face. and listening to how ur friend feels is always important, so dont blow it off, or she will be very upset. more than if u hadn't asked her in the first place. just talk to each of them one on one, get a perspective from both of them, and be sure this guy is worth it and make sure he isnt best as a best friend...make sure u want to take it to the next level. who knows, maybe u guys can be as cute of a couple as everyone claims me and my bf is...and one more thing, GOOD LUCK!!! :)
264446
you should leave the boy on the internet. im sure your first boyfriend would really be upset and im sure he loves you
202929
Haha, I too myself have had similiar relationships. First of all, you guys enjoy making each other mad because both of you have a lot of feelings for each other. It's not that you guys mean to harm one another, it's just another method of "flirting". The both of you can try talking things out and see if you two can get serious. If you really want to get into a relationship & he cares how you feel, then you guys may "soften up". If he doesn't want to, then just continue the way you both are, as long as it does not bring harm.
99177
It sounds like you might be afraid of losing out altogether.  Probably both boys have some appeal to you, but probably neither one is everything you are looking for.  Perhaps if you step back and really look at yourself and look at yourself in relation to your boyfriend(s), you would find that you are afraid of being alone.\n\nDate whomever makes you feel happy, but don't be too involved yet because you aren't emotionally ready.  Spend some time doing things with other friends and get to know yourself better.  Even spend time by yourself doing things you like.  The better you know yourself, the better you will understand yourself in relation to others.
502211
I bet you kissed the other guy cause you wanted some attention that Greg was failing to give you. This happens. I kissed a guy and lost a boyfriend. He wasnt your boyfriend so dont worry about him. Im sure you are not leading him on and being cocky. Give it some time. Let him come to you. If you werent together you shouldnt be trying to prove anything to him. He has an issue with it and in time he will tell you what it is. In the meantime carry on with the norm.
582040
first of all you are to young to be worrying about is your friend a friend or a jealous person. you are still free to date an see whoever it is you like. and as for your friend come on i know you knew that he was diggin on you, so stop trying to make yourself look like the victim.it seems to me that you may have some feelings for him as well, because if you didn,t you wouldn,t be asking for advice.
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Your confusion is a sign that you physical attraction is messing with your ability to make good decisions.  If this relationship is a mistake, then break it off.  Apologize to the boy, tell him you're sorry that you let things get out of hand, that you should have known better.\n\nThen be careful - this kind of thing is a message to you that you aren't ready for relationships like this yet.  Find a boy that you are friends with.  If you can talk to him normal for a few months, you might have a future boyfriend.  But no kiss/hold hands/saying I love you.  That's making a promise you're not ready to keep.\n\nAnd, since you are thinking about it, no sex until you have enough $$$ to have a baby.  When you have a plan as to what you would do if you were pregnant, then you are ready for sex.
390466
Your so mean !!!\nOf course you still like him, and he sure as heck likes you.\nHe might be upset he never did anything and now your going around talking to other guys and potentially going to forget completely about him.
6298
Think about grade school. That's how the boys act when they like a girl. I don't know why they do it, but it happens a lot. My first love was 19 and I was 18. I actually couldn't stand him and avoided him every time I'd see him. Eventually, I accepted when he asked me to go to my senior prom. Something clicked like magic, and it was like I was in heaven! We would be together today, but unfortunately, he has passed on. I still think about him all the time, laughing at the insults and meanness, and smiling at all the wonderful times we had together.
93556
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
112612
well probably yeah, you know how round about my age ( 14 ) boys hormones go all funny, well for a few months i was in love with this boy and im obviously a boy and it was really hard but i couldnt keep it a secret so i told him, he was ok with it for a few weeks but en we never ever spoke again to this day. shame huh. im straight now lol, sorted maself out.