Why does it seem more and more girls are becoming bi, most of my high school female friends are bi or even lesbian?  Do other girls out there like that too, yes im lesbian?  Girls on answer please
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Why does it seem that way? Because, as you said, you hang out with a bunch of homos. Most of my friends aren't homo so I would say ... Why does it seem like less and less people are becoming homo these days?\n\nGet some new friends.
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my dear, don't you worry, i have friends that are guys and yes, they are bisexual.  in truth, i am as well.  i don't believe it is a transition... because yes, i like girls, but i like guys too.  i still say 'hey, he's cute, hey, i should hook up with him'... but i do the same with girls.  so don't you worry, alright?  it will be fine, trust me, you do what you like, and it will all work out!\n\n<3<3<3
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If you like being with men, you aren't a lesbian.  People fantasize about all kinds of things during sex that might not necessarily turn them on outside of sex.  I'm a lesbian but I like to watch straight porn.  I think it really boils down to when you are having sex who are you having sex with.  If you're curious, try it out.  You could be disgusted by the thought because you are actually straight (I know I'm disgusted thinking about sex w/ guys in a normal situation - no offense guys!) but it also could be society's pressure on you to be "normal" or your desire to be normal in which case you could be bi.  But if you enjoy being in relationships with a guy and you enjoy sleeping with guys then you are probably straight or bi, definitely not a lesbian.  Sexuality is fluid and on a long continuum.  I think it makes it confusing to dichotomize it.  In my opinion it sounds like you're straight with kinky fantasies... that's all.
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dearie i went through the same thing with this group of girls in highschool. they were pretty, popular and they wer all the dream girl type with straight a+ gpa and every one wanted to be them. and i was pretty smart as well so i got put in the same class as them for 12th grade calc. and i had the same problem as you, around them i couldnt think of anything good to say my mind always drew a blank. and i got all miffed too. finally after a looong time i figured out that although i have no selfesteem probs and i know im pretty my mind had aldready put htese girls on a platform on my mind because of what other people said and i couldint act normmaly around them. but this was after i graduated so i never got to make friends, shame. but dont worry you arent lesbian or bi (not that it is bad)\nmy advice is to start thinking of them as normal people same as your friends
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I was once a lesbian, but have since chosen to be with a man. I have a lot of friends who are still lesbians though, and I understand why they choose to be like that. In the cases that I know (including mine), fellow females understand the psyche of their own gender. It's true in most cases, since a lesbian (even if she's a butch lesbian) would still be a girl, and girls get what other girls need and want in a relationship. Of course, there's also some people who just wish to experiment. I would advise that you talk to your friends, learn about what it is about lesbianism that attracts them, and accept them. It is NEVER easy for a gay person to come out, and if they trusted you enough to tell you about this, that speaks a lot about what kind of a friend you are. I am glad that you accept them, and that you want to understand. Frankly my dear, you might never fully comprehend until you are in THAT kind of relationship. But, I admire how you are going about with your confusion. Just be a friend to them. It is their choice. Their lifestyle. And they are your friends. =)\n\nI hope this helps you out. =)
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Yeah, there ARE a lot more yaoi titles being released lately. You know why? Because there are a lot of girls out there who love to watch animes about cute anime gay boys. There's even: http://www.yaoi-manga.com/ \n\nI know for me being a general member of the teenage world, a lot of guys also seem to have some kind of facination with lesbians, so yaoi also works with the fan girls. The pretty boys must be even more appealing to female fans if they are gay. \n\nAlthough males who are gay would argue that they also like yaoi because of preference and it bothers them that people view yaoi as a mainly girls' genre of anime and manga.
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I think it is very normal to question your sexuality, especially in your pre-teen and teen years. I know I have questioned it my whole life. Now in my 30s and figure I must be bi.
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I know you asked for lesbians .. I'm not quite a lesbian but I do enjoy being with a women sexually ( I guess most would say BI .. but whatever you want to call it is fine with me )\nI would be very cautious with this woman .. she seems like she really digs you .. but she's also going through a major change in her life .. most people can only handle one at a time .. divorced & experimenting with her feelings at the same time - that sounds scary to me !\n\nMaybe become friends .. go out a few times .. see what her expectations of the relationship will be ..  get closer and really get to know her.  You might find out she truly is falling in love with a woman and not just using you .. there's only one way to find out !
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You are not lesbian at all. You just get attracted towards girls for their looks for the time being but not forever....
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I don't think it means you are a Lesbian or bi-sexual,I think alot of women out there Like looking at pictures of women and there are alot that find watching a porn with a woman on woman scene is arousing,but it does not make them Lesbians,I will watch porn with my fiancee and get turned on by 2 women,but that does not mean I am going to go be with a woman,I have never and I do not plan on ever being with a woman in a sexual situation,so I think you are normal,just more honest about your feelings than some women.
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Hello.  I am bi-curious.  I have never been with a woman but I have wanted to try it out for awhile now.  I am not with anyone at the moment, really, and I could always use a friend to chat with.  Hope to chat with you real soon ;)
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i support it when the bisexuals are girls .i find it discusting when the bisexuals are man u may find my answer bios but thats what i like
525211
I fully understand. My Partner adn I are also in a long term relationship and we finally found the *only* gay bar in Oshkosh. People were constantly coming up to ask us things and were very surprised (but mostly pleasently surprised, I must say) that we were a couple and a long-term one at that. Of course we're Lesbians. Perhaps it's different for us? Actually straight bars are just as rife with people looking for each other; it's just that we're used to seeing it more. Blessings.
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The pornographers are selling the women of the world a bill of goods. Because a lot of men get a thrill out of seeing two girls together, women are being made to feel like being bi or gay is cool. If you are bi or gay, thats a choice you make. In my opinion, its obvious that men and women are biologically meant to be together. If you change that, plan on dealing with negative social issues as a result of your choice. But if you are bi because some guy thinks its cool, then you are being controlled by a hard stick.
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Yes, it is a double standard. But an understandable one, IMO. When seeing two guys together, you think of the sexual implications, and they generally aren't very pleasant. With women it is different. Women are by far the fairer sex, and the view of what they'd do together is much less "intense" so to speak. Just to clarify, I have no problem at all with someone being gay, bi, or lesbian. I can't afford to. ;P
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... you're a girl? (my inference from your name). Well, girls TEND to be more open-minded than guys, so it's good that you're at least not going, "Gross! I don't want to be this way!" like some b*tch in denial. lol Sorry, I've just met so many of them on this site... anyway, it COULD be that you're bicurious or bisexual. I personally believe that EVERYONE is bisexual, but whatever... I myself am omnisexual, so there! Why not like both sexes? There's nothing wrong with being bi. *shrugs* It just means more for you to choose from.
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I'm straight, but I love the story of how my best friend came out to me, if you'll listen. I was the first person she ever told. We went for a walk (for no "apparent" reason) and she had me sit down with her on an empty bench in the hotel near where we were living. She started talking, talking in circles, dropping hints and getting really upset. I was so worried about her. I wasn't sure what it was, but I knew it was something sexual. Was she raped? Was she pregnant? If she had been raped, I would break the guy's face, but she wasn't the type to get pregnant. Then it clicked in my head. I asked her if it was ok for me to guess what she was trying to tell me, and she nodded. I asked if she was trying to come out to me, and she didn't move. I asked again, and she nodded. I hugged her so tight! I told her how relieved I was, how I thought something bad had happened. She told me how she had been keeping it hidden for so long, and if she hadn't come out to me, she never would have. We're so close now, I go around calling her my sister. The one problem is that we both like the same type of girl, so if there's a nice bi girl we both like, there may be a discussion... ;P