Like were have made plans to hang out but shes a server and never knows when she gets off so it suppusably is always late not sure if shes blowing me off or shouild i wait.Its not a fact that im not good looking and cant find another girl but this ones special(so i think)weve made out at bar but we were both loaded so not sure if that even counts
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well, try to chill with her a couple more times and tell her you have something really special planned (do something nice for her) and try to make it at a time when she doesn't have to work, maybe in the morning or something. then you can see if she'll still blow you off. let her know that you feel like that and see what she says. good luck with this.
162300
wait a little while longer give ger some time instead of rushing her.  if you are good friends and you want to keep it that way(good).  if you ask her now it will pretty much be like a girl on the rebound.  easy for sex thats about it.
69874
Its only been a month. Stop watching MTV - real chicks don't give it up on the bar top. She probably needs to feel more comfortable around you. You should suck it up and just talk to her about it. Good luck.
293277
You haven't called her yet??  Well I guess it would be best not to rush things.  But if you are interested call her tonight and make plans for the weekend.  You don't want her to think that you couldn't find anyone else and wait till the last min. to call her.  You want to give her sometime to prepare. Make sure to tell her how nice of a time you had on fri..  Good luck.
152618
well u know her situation better than us then ab she is lying or not u r the only person who can find it out...do u know her well before u asked her to go out with u ?if its several times that u asked her and she didnt come 1-maybe she is right(buy all of us even if e are too busy have some free times for ourselves) 2-maybe she cant tell u she dont wanna be with u(she is shying or ....)3-maybe she want u but there is something there ,whenever she wanna come out ,it warned her then she didnt.....i dunno more reason...ask her directly cuz even if she wanna be with u and this situation almost always happen ur relation can stand
40600
The short answer is yes. You are supplicating. A Woman NEEDS a man who leads her into unknown teritories. You must make her want you. Be the prize. Never take a girl out to dinner until after you've slept with her. I will tell you a little secret buddy... No matter what you do.. YOU MEAN NOTHING TO HER UNLESS SHE HAS HAD SEX WITH YOU. And taking a women out to dinner WILL NOT LEAD TO SEX 95% of the time.  Be an aventurer, her mystery, her hero and her juices will flow. If you lead she will follow
188819
She seems like she has some issues. I mean, for one thing she said clearly that she did not want to come over. Then she was like see you later, she was ready to get off the phone with you quick and definitely didn't want to talk any longer. She seems like she is sending you mixed signals, and if she doesn't like you, then she should just tell you. I mean, don't throw hints, just be like she wants to be friends. Then as for being shy, she could have just said that she didn't feel comfortable coming back to your place. You would have understood that I am sure. Basically, you should just see where it goes this time, if she tries to be intimate, like showing you affection, just come out and ask her what is up. Don't be rude, but be like, Do you like me? Do you see me as a boyfriend or just a friend. You need to know, because she can't be like I want you one second and then don't want to be around you next. She needs to be honest. I hope that whatever happens you don't get played, so if you can see it isn't going to get better, leave her alone.
644350
Dude.......and your problem is???? Go for it !!! She is young, hot, and 24..........now, that's a NO-BRAINER! What time are you picking her up?? She sees you as strength, and stability. Have a great date! Let us know how it tured out!! Good Luck!!
512152
just ask the girl out already. time... whatever. it depends upon the person & you just never know how long they will need. so, ask her out now rather than never or waiting forever. hey, maybe something else is bothering her, so take that into consideration. yes, she may also be responding to your behavior as well.
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See if the next date goes as plans.\nIf the sitter is a no show and she cancels, then I would say she is not sure how to tell you she is not interested.\nDon't be offended by the hand shake she might just be a lil nervous, so if you should go out on the second date, you get close to her when you walk her to the door, lean into her body just a tad if she moves towards you a lil that is your signal go for the kiss.\nJust be happy she is not easy, some women like to play hard to get just to see if your really interested in her.  I know women can and are a bit confussing :)
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If she slep with him the first night at the bar , he might be thinking she's (easy) and he can get it any time he wants.If he seem's interested one minute and not the next, that's just the way guy's are!It's like there trying to make (Themselv's)beleave they don't need anyone.If she likes this guy she should keep seeing him,but dont make herself  look too available.Dont sleep with him for a wile,have fun doing other things together.Alot of guys are dogs, but the goodguys want a respectable girl.Show him she is!
315199
She might have gone out with the guy once or twice or maybe they are just not really serious at this point.  There might be room for you if you are persistant.  Ask her what exactly she means.  Ask her if she is into this guy or if they are just hanging out until something else comes along or what.  Then you will know where to go from there.
492774
then dude first make her jealous to see if she still likes you then maybe shel'l realize that she still wants you and about the sex part well try some girls in the club there pretty good trust me
298104
Are you sure it was a date? As a woman I can tell you the female species has issues. Yes she will be interested. I am interested in you. I want to know, why after she rejected you, you still hang around? It's an ego thing she keeps you around because she knows you like her, you say nice things to her, you do nice things for her and she can tell her friends that you keep sniffing around even though she has said no. Yes she was happy to see you BECAUSE SHE IS YOUR FRIEND. The interest you think she is showing is just her relaxing because she has told you she is not attracted to you, she thinks you know and understand that. Obviously NOT.
153203
be here friend you never no it could lead to more if you really want her then youll wait
146244
She's probably given you enough signals that she likes you and thinks that the ball is in your court and yet, you're not making a move!!! That gets frustrating for a girl.  Why don't you ask her out or anything that would give her a sure sign that you're interested in her and see how she responds.
539182
ok  this is what i would do if i were a man ... i would walk up to her and ask her hwo her day has been going and if its a monday then ask how her weekend was DONT GIVE HER A CHEEZY @SS pick up line ok?? please girls hate that they really do ... just be yourself and be chill there shouldnt be anything tense about the situation just relax walk up and ask her whats up?? lol i make it sound really simple your probably thinking but really hun it is that simple i promise! <3 lyss