Please help me!!! This guy likes me... 4 of my friends HATE him and 13 of my friends like him... I could loose 4 of my good friends for saying "yes" and 13 of my other fiends if i say "no"...i really like him but i dont wannah loose all of my fiends in the process of answering!!! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!
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OKay do what u want and if u like him u should deff go out with him and ur friends shouldnt get mad either way u go and if they do then thats their problem and they should be happy for u if u do go out wiht him and if u dont they need to understand ur reasoning that u just dont like him and if they get mad their just being dumb and they will eventually get over it and if they dont then u dont want them as a friend cause Friends dont get mad over guys that u like or dont!! well whatever u do Good luck and i hope for the best=)
51442
just ask one of his friends to do it for you on the phone so you wont feeel inberist and if your friends dont like them thats there problem not your its up to you who you like not if your friends like him or not.
48006
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
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If you dont want to ask him directly, no problem, are you cool with any of his friends?  Try to find out from his friends.  Or have a friend ask him who he likes.  Does he act differently toward you or does he do this to everyone else?  I know some guys acts extremely nice to you when they first meet you, then after a while, it just seems to fade and it becomes any regular friendship.  \n\nI believe its best to just ask him, because if he does, then he would know exactly how you feel about him too.  Well anyhow, good luck finding out. :]
604735
Better not ask him out together since both your friend and you like the same guy. I got a friend in the same situation. Later he got together with one of the gals and the 3 of them are like really awkward! Think of your friendship!
239676
i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
70959
Honestly you CAN like 3 people at once but there is always ONE that you like the MOST. So go for the one you ca see yourself with. Having fun together, etc. The one that you know will like you back as much as you like him. But you are in LUST with 2 and like one. make up your mind before they all lose inteest and do NOT play mind games. Good luck ;)
608686
If you all like the same guy - there are going to be 2 people getting hurt.  Talk with your friends and try to come to a conclusion where either 2 of you back off and let one girl have a chance or you all decide to leave him alone and just stay friends.  This situation does have potential to cause problems between you and your friends, so be aware of what the consequences might be and if going out with a guy is worth it.
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Tell him that one of your friends likes him a lot and it would hurt her feelings if you were to say yes to him but you want to be good friends with him in case she changes her mind.\n\nIf he asks who it is, tell him she told you not to tell because she's too shy and she's not ready for him to know yet.\n\nAlso, If you told him you aren't allowed to date then it would seem odd if you went out with someone else, so I don't think that would be a good idea.\n\nGood Luck!
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I would first maybe talk to some of his friend and then your friends to see how he feels about you. Because you don't want to tell him then get your feelings hurt if it is not the same for him. I honestly believe that you can truly tell if some one likes you so talk to the friend and feel the situation out a little before making your move.
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sounds like he does like you.\nyou should tell him that you like him and hopefully he'll tell you if he likes you too.\nor just talk to his friends =] -see what they know
537828
If you really like this boy I believe you do what you want to do. Peer pressure is such a bad influence on teens. Most of the time it is for all the wrong reasons. Try talking to your friends. Are they doing it out of jealousy? Or do they have a point on why they dont like him? If you talk to them about this maybe they will realize your feelings. If this guy is great. I think I would be finding different friends then. Friends are suppose to be happy for us if they are truly friends. But if they are truly good friends who are trying to tell you something about this guy that you are just to blind to see, then listen. But above all, do whats best after you think about all the pros and cons. Hope things work out.
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well you could always right him a note asking him if you like him and make it a nice note dont make it seem like its a bad thing if he likes you because then he will probably say no. or you could always just straight up and ask him if he likes you. but dont have another guy ask him because he will feel akward. i hoped i helped!
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I'm not emailing you...sorry, I don't need any more friends but it sounds like your not even interested in this dude. Why would you even consider dating him if you don't even like him? Remind yourself why it didn't work out with you guys to begin with and just tell him your not interested anymore. Or if you think there might stillbe something there spend some time with him as a friend. No sex or kissing...really just friends for awhile.
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he still wants to be able to talk to, but it looks like hes a different person. when hes in a big crowd your not the kinda person that he wants to be, its like 2 best friends in different crowds. one goes skater, one goes prep. they still like each other but they turn into two different people. what i would do is just come out and say it. rejection can be hard, but at least you'll know the truth if he says yes. all goes well and y'all give it a chance. if he says no than ask to be friends and leave it at that.
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call him and tell him how u feel. if "kk" was in your shoes (if shes a good enough friend) then she would let you have him. when two friends like the same guy, whoever gets to him first gets him. so good luck.
648955
Well, the advice I would give to myself if I had this problem(which i have had before) is to go for it! Tell him in person that you likr him and you hope he likes you to. I have alot of guy friends and they all come to me for advice on girls. They all say they hate to get notes from someones best friend asking them out. They love girls who are brave enough to ask them themselves! And if he says no then at least you know and you can try to move on!! Keep in touch and tell me hoe it goes. sammie_robison@yahoo.com