i want to forget this person and whatever which happen between us...any remedies?my feeling, emotions n physical were played on....how do i get rid away from this?
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I went through the same thing.  It took me two years go get over my ex which was the hardest thing because he was the love of my life (never felt that way before). I'm sorry to bring it to you, but you will never forget.\n\nEven bad memories you can't forget (a bastard I dated who I do not like to remember at all). I try to forget, you just can't.\n\nThe most that you can do is preoccupy yourself. At first it will be very hard because all you can do is think and be reminded of the things that happened, but TIME (as much I as I hate saying it) will do its thing.\n\nI know this doesn't help much and you're probably not going to listen, but it's the hardcore truth.\n\nSome people like to do dramatic changes in their life and it's something you can try (change the way you look, change your diet, change your routine, etc), but if you don't want change, then TIME again.  Some like to do outrageous things (date a lot of people at once w/o having a care in the world - NOT recommended!, immerse themself in work/school/social world, etc) \n\nBut whatever you do, it'll still be there (even the faintest memory will linger).  Mine still does (both the good & the bad) and after a while you just deal with it.  I even still cry. It has been 3 years now (the love one).\n\nIt's also helpful if you help those who are like you. It's therapeutic rather than talking about your problems if you can relate to other people (***like me!***)
120836
Good Question, human nature is not to forget. I think it is possible to forgive without forgetting. Forgiving is easy. Forgetiing is not, especially the pain. Forgetting may never happen, however do not make it a habit to shove the mistake down the person's throat. Not forgetting doens not mean living in the past either. In other words...don't keep bringing it up. if it bothers you talk to her about it. Otherwise...sorry..no forgiveness\n\nOne more thing...always forgive. It is an act of selfishness. Forgive the person for yourself. \n\nI know where you are coming from. You probably wont ever forget. But I think you forgave her.
545667
you are simply attached to ur ex..... hopefully, after some time, you will forget about her.  since it just happened its still fresh in your mind.  relax yourself and let time pass.  Open your mind to new opportunities and see wat happens.
590320
u need to be true with ur self first,these unmindful relations always put one in trouble,try to keep ur self away from this episode,dump it as ur past,begin fresh relations.
639375
I do the same thing.  Nothing is wrong with getting rid of the possesions that remind you of an ex-lover.  And if his feelings were hurt, TOO BAD!
213914
no, cute gal you are not crazy it is HUMAN NATURE, matters of the heart!!!\n\nI am so happy you acted responsible with this situation it could of costed you time and emotional scars and we all know that is very hard to clear up or face yourself when you are emotionally a reck. \n\nbut what you have did is very important to all mankind you listen and stayed true to yourself, you know what you want and this tells me  you are on the path to getting it!!! \n\nnever accept less, you deserve the world you have to know and acknowledge that first, then others will give to you!!!\nthey can't handle you in any way unless you allow it.\n\nyou will get over this person and be on to the next. \nstay in control!!!
460843
Hi!..excuse me...are you new around?or if you touch her..Pls excuse me:did I hurt you? try not to be tensed.Be yourself..and words will come naturaly from your own soul.
168250
hmmm, a guy just did that to me recently.  She has gone through a lot of thoughts in her head by now.  If you want any chance at all, you need to own up to the fact that you hurt her by not talking to her, and apologize and say you'd like another chance.\n\nWhy did you stop talking to her?
398169
It's natural to feel this way and with time you'll feel less and less of this compitetion.\n\nOnce you move on you'll forget all about it.\n\nGood luck!
352744
You might never forget, i still think about someone from 15 years ago. Unless they were total a__holes why forget? Keep the good parts and look for someone that has those parts in them as you move forward. Relationships and friendships come and go, but you need to be able to talk it out with someone to at least start the healing. The mind and heart suck sometimes!
375633
Get your mind of it no matter what it takes. pre-occupy yourself with something that'll keep you busy. You can try talking to different people about it to see their perspectives which may give you some new thoughts on the situation. also the more the think about it the more you're likely ot give in so try your best to avoid dwelling on it. If it's something you want to control at an exact moment (like in your example) i advise you rather keep it to yourself for the time being. Its not good to bottle up feelings, so let it out when you're not around that person any more. This way you feel no regrets. Sometimes I clench my fist or bite by teeth to get rid of some of that anger temporarily... well hope I helped!
460067
Sometimes you never forget someone who is really special.  You've got to just keep trying to be happy and move on but you may never forget.  Hang in there!
463888
You can stop when you stop checking up on him. As long as you dig around to see if he is okay or listen to stories about him, you are feeding your fantasy/dreams/neurosis.\nStop all check/sightings/following. Then when you start to think of him, repeat the mantra "I distinctly remember forgetting about him." This will help reprogram your mind.
304133
i feel ya, girl! yeh, it seems somewhat pathetic to some people that i had this HUGE crush on someone i barley knew but for some reason i can't forget him or anything he said to me the few occasions we talked. I haven't seen him or talked to him in the past 2 years but i'm still completly in love with him!\n      gee.......i didn't really answer your question, well maybe you'll fall in love with someone else and forget all about him. Anywho, good luck with everything!
186105
Don't feel guilty... she's the one leaving you remember... Just move on, if she really loves you or even likes you she will come to you. And find someone else to love or to hang out with, not someone that goes in and out of your life like nothing.
242324
You can't just block him out of your memory...Learn from it and move on...He did....
98857
I am sorry to hear that. That is a very painful process.  Every minute it's always the person in your mind.  I know how you feel.  Well, I would suggest a few ideas, they might not be the best.  However, time will eventually heals and I hope soon. My suggestion would be: (1) go out and meet new friends.  If you can't find new friends, at least hang out with the old ones (2) take a break and go for vacation with some friends if possible (3) take on hobbies - gymn, dance classes, swimming, meditation, etc .... (4) volunteer working at nursing homes and hospitals because sometimes seeing the others who have worse situation than you will make you realize how fortunate you are compared to the rest (5) watch movies, DVD's, etc ..... (6) if you believe in GOD, then you should also start praying. The bottom line is, you must keep you mind occupied most of the time. Therefore there is no room for him to bug your mind.  You must take courage to accept it and move on with your life.  I hope you find these tips helpful.  Meanwhile, I wish you the best.