So there's this guy that seemed really interested in me (kept catching him looking at me, asking me to dance, etc) and I began to REALLY like him...but now that i'm into him i feel like he's not anymore.  What's going on?  What do I do?  Stupid guy has me thinking about him constantly!
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Most guys don't play games. In my own experience, I've sent out signals, but saw none in return and decided I needed to move on. Let him know how you feel before you miss the opportunity. If you don't like games, don't play them!
94947
Lighten up. He's afraid of getting caught looking at you, cuz he likes you too! If you get rejected, just shrug it off! If you feel too shy, try hangin round some people who are open about their feelings.\n\nIt sounds like he likes you.
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It means that he's a DUMB ASS!! he's a jerk, he doesn't deserve U and just wanted to play with U and your feelings, I guess he realized that U like him too much, and maybe he just wanted to feel that power on U and after that just leave U with no explanation.\nFORGET ABOUT HIM!!!\nFind someone else, a real man.
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You have only talked to this guy once. More importantly, he has only talked to you once. There is no way you have feelings for this guy. There is also no way he has any for you. It sounds like an act of desparation to me. If you must continue to talk to this guy, take it VERRRRRRRRRY Slowly, and for god's sake, be careful!!
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well it sounds to me like he may well have liked you seeing as he was calling you 2 and 3 times a week but when he seen you with this other guy he got jealous and stopped calling,id say that is it,i mean speaking from my own experience like this one that is what happened me but it turned out she liked me,what i would do is call him up,i mean just cause hes a guy doesnt mean he has to do all the running,or you could just simply ask him out,i mean lifes too short for regrets,right?? hope that helped abit!! \nGood luck
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Girlfriend, you are a doll.  If he's not interested he's nuts.  Try getting around him and being avaible for him to start up a conversation with, smile at him, look at his and when he looks at you, look embrassed and look away.  If you are pressed for time, just ask him who's he going to the dance with, that should more than enuff start the conversation, give him the chance to ask you who you are going with, and maybe yall hook up.  Good Luck.
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Normal. This is a normal situation. You have liked "this guy" for a very long time, and only thought about him. Once you were asked out from the "other guy" then you were "exposed" to another person, which just so happens to be attractive and caught your heart. So therefore, you got over the guy that you "did" like, and now your heart is set for someone else!
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So, you think it's shallow if he likes you now, but you want to play games like "hard to get"?  That is stupid.  If he likes you better now, it might be because you lost weight, or, more likely, because you have more confidence now.  Or, he might feel exactly the same about you--can you handle that?
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I expressed attraction for a guy who didn't bother to respond.  It hurts, but I am not sorry I did it.  We had been very flirty so I know he was attracted but for whatever reason my asking him freaked him out.  Maybe he'll come around but probably not.  I wish it could have worked out, but it didn't.  I'm not sorry I asked though, at least I know and I'm not wondering.
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Apparently you have very strong feelings for this person. I know the feeling. I went to high school with this guy and i left but i always kept bucking in to him, and i knew he like me back but we never said anyting, and even now i still have a feeling to find him to talk to him. Go search for that person. Cause most people only get this feeling once.
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You need to stop fixating on this guy. I like someone, and i can't be with me, especially seeing as i rarely see em, and it means i just think about them, then like them more, and its a really bad cycle\nSTOP\nthe more you think baout him, the more you'll like him. If he thinks your a stalker, then hes not gonna go out with you! You need to take a chill pill, stop obsessing. It will scare him off. Be cool, act uninterested and as if it was jus rumours that escalated. He's more likely to like you that way. \nHe sounds like he is a concieted jerk, but i no how easy it is to fall for em. And if he IS a jerk, the fact he knows you arent running after him MITE annoy him, guys love it when they have admirers, so wen u disappear he could veyr well want you back\nYour not a looser, your gorgeous, if he doesnt reckognise that then f*** him, its his loss. Don't let your self confidense take a dive like mine did when my guy didnt like me back. Be strong, life is full of hurdles the more you overcome the mroe grgs u are ;)
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maybe he has never imagined being more than friends, i think it happened to me, this girl kept talking to me and i didn't even imagine her liking me, but i didnt notice until recently that she might like me because she kept showing signs of it. but i never even noticed.  Try a little harder. Try talking directly to him.  Get comfortable talking to each other and tell him how you feel.  If you are too shy write a letter and give it to him when hes alone or have a friend do it.
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i feel ya, girl! yeh, it seems somewhat pathetic to some people that i had this HUGE crush on someone i barley knew but for some reason i can't forget him or anything he said to me the few occasions we talked. I haven't seen him or talked to him in the past 2 years but i'm still completly in love with him!\n      gee.......i didn't really answer your question, well maybe you'll fall in love with someone else and forget all about him. Anywho, good luck with everything!
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it might not be him at all but rather the idea of him that is making your mind return to him.  You said you really liked the guy.  Well it could just be your brain returning to thought of settling down or whatever that meant in your mind....i.e. safe place, love, purpose.......But then again I am no dream expert.
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if you put yourself out there and made the first move and he didnt grab at it, i wouldnt do it again with this guy. If he is interested, leave it up to him to make the next move. if you do it, it will just make you seem like you cant take no for an answer and he may be uncomfortable. Keep spending time with him, let him know that your interest hasnt changed, and if he's interested hopefully he will sum up the courage to act on it!
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Some guys like to tease...he could be staring because he happends to catch you staring and that's all.However,if the guy was me-that would mean that I like you...so maybe he does have a thing for you.It would be wise of you to think of all the possibilities before anything.If you can't handle rejection then maybe you should just wait till he makes a move.On the other hand,he may be a little shy too.Why don't you just talk with him about anything and take it from there...and take it slow.When you both are comfortable in each others presence it will be easier to open up...good luck.
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Well the fact that you have been talking to this guy every night straight for a week is an indication he is interested.  Now, slow your roll!  If you just ended a bad relationship, try not to get caught up in worrying about where this guys head is at.  You mentioned that you didn't want to rush things but then again you are wanting signs that will tell you if he likes you so you won't be wasting your time.  How are you wasting your time if you aren't trying to rush things?   If anything, you should be looking at him as someone to talk to and if you both share a common interest, enjoy those things.  Down the road, see where things go,if nothing comes of it relationship wise, you might have made a good male friend.  It's possible.