say like u and your gurl/man on the phone and yall have talked about everything that went on that day and yall ain't got nothing else to talk about..what is there to talk about just start talking about other stuff???what do u do to entertain the other person???
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That is a great question. But here's my thing...why can't two people just enjoy the silence? Isn't it good enough sometimes to just know the person you love/care about is on the other end of the line, spending time with you? Why are people so afraid of silence.... Maybe I'm just weird like that.
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don't go in with any preset questions, then it WILL feel like an interview.  if you want good questions - ask her something that she needs an opinon for.  most people love giving their opinons, and they love when prople really listen and give them feedback.  that kind of conversation always brings up relatable funny/interesting stories.  \n\nonce the ball is rolling, you can talk to someone you don't know for hours because....you don't know each other.  anything you say is something she doesn't know about you, and vice versa.  just relax and let it flow.  you won't have any problems.  if by some chance she doesn't respond to your conversation, it's not your fault....you tried.
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You two need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk about this issue - open up and reveal everything you have said here --- don't leave out anything
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Nothing wrong with talking .... just don't be too quick to rush into something a little more serious till you're sure of the facts \nGood Luck :)
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Just talk about funny stuff. Movies. And if their immature and still play video games than video games. And of course sex.
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How was school today?\nDid you like your friends?\nWhat did you played today?\nDo you like your teacher?\nSing that song you learned...\n\nAs much as you get and understand about their world as much as you find topics that help to establish a conversation, and believe me it could be much more interesting than this!
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I think you should just bring it up.  He's not with this girl anymore, he's "on the market".  Go for it.  Just say something like, "Remember what we talked about the other day?" and see what he says.  That's what I'd do anyway.
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talk about what you like/love, ask the person you're talking to about his/her likes and dislikes.talk about current news.you could even try a bit of gossip.talk about your job and his/her job.recent movies/tv shows or books you've read lately.just ease your mind of any kind of tension and continue a flow of talk about anything that comes to your mind.dont feel shy or back out easily \nAsk questions! You can ask a date anything. What do they do in their free time, what is their favorite food, music? Have they taken any interesting vacations, do they have any pets. \nDon't worry about it! It's easy, just talk about things going on now, or ask what they have plans on doing in the near future, or ask what they like, or if there having fun. Don't necessarily talk about u to much ask them to.\nYou are talking about a date right?? you should probably write some answers down. \nI can sympathize with you. I used to be like that. Best thing to do is relax. Talk about anything, it really doesn't matter, just don't start babbling. If you're with a girl you like, talk about a movie you liked, an interesting book you've read, something funny you heard. Look at her, don't stare. Compliment her on something you like about her. Be subtle, but sincere. Ask open ended questions and let her answer them, but really listen to what she's saying also. You can feed off of each others Q&A's. Don't worry, just be yourself and when you're with the right girl, things will just flow naturally. If you run out of things to say, gently take her hand and ask if she wouldn't mind going for a walk or something. Let your sense of sight, smell, touch, and sound guide you making small talk. If a girls see's that you are at least trying to hold a conversation, many times they will do what they can to help the conversation flow. Before you with someone you're interested in, I used to find it helpful to practice having a conversation before I meet up with her. Although not spontaneous, it does help you build up some confidence. Smile and look at her eyes, this will show that you also care. Good luck to you.
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i Think you should call the person and ask them politely but firmly why they haven't called you. if they say something like I've been busy or caught up with things, let it slide this once. if this is not the the first time they did this, you should ask them how come they couldn't give me a call at least to see how u were doing. it depends on how long you have been with the person, if its a serious, and other things like that.\n  in my opinion, i address thee problem with them after the 5th day i hadn't heard from them.
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DONT TALK ABOUT SEX. Not yet anyway. Find out all you can about him. His hobbies, ask in detail about his job, his family, school, vacations he may have gone on. Talk about things that interest you and things you have done. Like if you like art, talk about your favorite artist. Make sure to read the paper or watch the news so you can throw some into in about whats going on in the world. (don't get into a convo about ex's u want to keep the focus on the 2 of u and also dont get into a convo about religion or anything else that could get the 2 of u heated up) Unfortunatley the more uncomfortable u feel the more anxiety is going to build up and the worse the situation is going to be. Try to relax (i know its easier said than done) When you know the 2 of u are going to be alone try to come up with a list of questions u want to ask him before you see him.\nGOOD LUCK. Hope this help u out a bit.
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Just talk about whatever.  "hey, how was your day?" "what are you doing this weekend?"  Ask her about her interests, school, family, etc.  \n\nIf you click it won't be hard at all.
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Watch movies (funny ones are best!), have loadsa snacks, have music, instant message together, if you have a trampoline or a pool or something like that- go on/in that, chat about stuff and don't be afraid to tell your mates anything (not really personal stuff though) unless they're really immature- because then they will do the same and it just makes the chat so much more interesting and you really get to know people when you share stuff! \nWhen I have sleepovers we litrally talk non stop until about five in the morning! Your not a little kid anymore so it's not as if you need arranged activities to do but have something like that on hand just incase your mates want to do that.\nAt my last sleepover with my best mates we ended up drawing on tshirts with fabric pens and we are going to wear them to all our danceing competitions! Another sleepover I had a while back we made faces on pizzas! The next sleepover I have we're hoping to make a video to put on youtube of us just messing about really, but it depends if we find the time because we TALK SO MUCH! lol!\n\nSo yeah, Hope I gave you some Ideas
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I'm bad on the phone too. We just leave the phone for when we make plans, and have actual conversations face to face. If you're in a long distance relationship and need to communicate this way, talk about your day and then use the events to spark up conversations on your thoughts about certain topics.
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if yall can talk about deep stuff together maybe yall can talk about that together. be honest and tell him. if he isnt interested you still have dignity and your friendship. best wishes
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Talk 2 them together!!! They need 2 know how u feel!!!
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Since you love listening, then listen. Take in what they are talking about and the way they discuss things. This will give you plenty of clues as to what they want to talk about and how they expect people who are speaking to them to talk about those things. Once you are familiar with all of this, then learn something about any subjects they talk about that you don't know much about, so that you can carry on a decent conversation.
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How about talking to each other?