hey ppl\n\n\ni really dunno what to say\nthe next year is the final year at  scool n i wanna study uni  sure\nbut i wanna  study it in other  country that am living here\nn my parents doesn't accept that\nso what shoul i do  what should i tell them\n\ni really wanna study out there  \nplzzzz help me :(( ...
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well, u can try to talk to ur parents by stating WHY u want to go study aboard....give them clear reasons and evidences that PROVE u can take care of urself when u r out there...espeically u r YOUNG and a GIRL...usually parents wont allow that...nonetheless, u need to ASK URSELF : "why i want to go study aboard" first b4 u can present ur case to ur parents....clear and sort out ur minds so u know EXACTLY why u want to make this decision and carry through it! :)\n\nmoreover, u can talk to the advisors from other colleges that provide study aboard plans and ask them for their advice....seriously, there r MANY THINGS to do b4 u actually can go there...i tried it b4 so i know...;)  and i m a person who came to U.S. to study as well...^^\n\nhave fun searching for the answer.  if u need help, just email me or wait for more great answers from others.\nnonetheless, u can ask Jesus to help ya, He will be glad to help u! :)  Jesus loves u!
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Q:"i want to go to websites that are block by the school computers. "\n\nA:Buy your own computer and internet access. And maybe pay more attention in English class.
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me and my guy was online and i read him you question..this is da answer he gave me ....\n\n"We almost are in the same situation as you..I'm gonna go to another country for 4 years for my higher studies and she will only see me few times a year.. the thing is this is not as difficult as it seems.. dear sis you are not the first one to go through this.. there are loads of people who came through this or if not you have us... even we were pretty much worried in the first place as what to do... but let me give an advice to you... don't let go... just hold on...we are going to have a harder time than you even... cos it's a way longer period and we are both in seperate other countries which is not our mothercountry... so sister the distance doesn't matter...the only thing you have to do is to have a long distance dedication..... the key thing is to keep in touch as much as ppossible... not seeing your guy is tough... i know... but with time you may be able to adapt to that... just keep him in your heart..i'm just saying.. "so close no matter how far, couldn't be much more from the heart, forever trusting who we are , and nothing else matters.." goodluck sister... this will be posted by my girl who's in a country so far away while i'm writing this...\n\nhy im his gal hear ..darling  im teling u pls go ahead i dont regreat..taking the chance caz my guy is da best no matter how far he is his jus near my heart..and his all mine ..dont b scard i ws scrad my self....belive me ...i didnt know wht to do but jus go aead ..its better dan nt knwing wht u 2 wil end up with.
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try for government scolarships. If there are any voluntary organisations which finance studentsplease apply there also,if thereare night collegefor the degree course then get some day time job and join yhe night college.what is your% of marks? what are your fees? what is the duration of the course?what work your parents do? how many sibblings you have?Is it nessesary for you to support your family? these are all important questions you should answer to get help from anybody.
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tell your parent and try not to stay any where near you . if your parents dont listen tell someone else until somebody listens . dont waste time do it today if you have a chance .
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Spend more time to really know about him before you make that kind of decision, time do mean a good testing for both side to see this relationship is real or not...plus you maybe still too young or have lot of other time to see more people or more things in a more mature view later time.\n\nMost important is how your parents think? try to seek their advice, try to understand what they say to you is reasonable or not. As it is surely TOO risky for you that so young and have to follow this man to another country...as what may happen if things not work out well? that will be a big price to pay not mention may effect your study and future as well.\n\nHope you find your answer very soon then :)
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"what" should be What \nbeast way? Do you mean "best" way?\n"going" should be go\nto another\n"conutery" should be country\n"studing" should be studying\n"in other" should be another\n"fild" should be field\n"I now" should be I am now\n"studing" should be studying\nin an university\n".?" should be just ?\n\nRephrase: What is the best way for me to go to another country for studying another field? I am now studying in an university.\n\nTry spell check next time. It works wonders.
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My plan is to get as far away from home as possible, and have as many new experiences, and meet as many new people as I can. Do what feels right to you, and remember that even though moving somewhere new for Uni seems scary, most other people are in that situation too, so you won't be alone.
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Slight giggles, I am a US Citizen and desire to study in India. My answer might not be helpful but the only way you can change your parents attitude and thoughts is by telling them to give you a chance to prove yourself. You're not a small girl anymore. You need to step in the big bad world and face everything by yourself! Tell them about the pros and cons of studying abroad. While it is true that no place is as safe as your home town because you've been around it so much, everything has it's ups and downs. Is there a specific place you want to study? Do some research, share important facts with your parents so they can start believing you. It is nothing more than the lack of trust that is holding you back. Don't give up on your dreams, pursue them anyway. Your strong steps today will make a bolder woman tomorrow. Good luck with your future.
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Your parents will already know that the job market is a strange place. What's "in-demand" today could very well become obsolete during the four years it takes you to train up for the job - especially in the high-tec sector.\nAnd as Wildbill points out, there's an extremely good chance that your career plans will change while you're at uni anyway. So my advice is go your own way for now.\n\nPS Bollocks to the idea that your parents can dictate because they're paying.
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talk with ur parents and tell them everything clearly and if you think that you have a courage to talk with boy explain him softly that all these thing looks good if they are done after completing ur studies and tell him that if everything remains same after that period also offcourse u will accept the proposal and tell him that if he loves u he has to do something(in terms of career) in life to achieve u.so both of u have to wait for that period.
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It's perfectly OK that you are still unsure about the path you want your life to take. Many people are still unsure when they are ready to graduate from high school or college. Don't worry about what your friends think. Each of us makes these choices when the time is right for us. You will, too. Take your time and don't let anyone push you into making a choice before you are ready. God Bless!
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First priority is to WORK on your studies -- and HONOR That financial Commitment to your future (you sound very young -- and that means for the most part, that your parents are paying for your college and investing in YOUR future - a VERY Caring act).\n\nDO NOT go to the Clubs -- DO NOT waste time there -- there is only one occasion to go out and have fun -- that is when you have SUCCESSFULLY completed all the final exams for the courses, you go back home for the break, and ... for the most part -- you are with your family/friends and want to spend some time with them in enjoyment.\n\nOther than that -- I did see many my age (when I obtained my UGrad Degrees and Grad Degrees) who partied and ... guess what ... they NEVER finished their Advanced Education ... were failed out, and dropped out.  That is NOT what you want or your parents would want for you.
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Tell them the truth.  Right now it seems like a really big deal.\n\nWhen you look back, you're going to say it wasn't such a big deal.  Just be prepared to study alot more.\n\nHope this helps.
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Hello again, it is good to see you are willing to speak in here. \n\nI know what you mean when you say your parents are not taking your serious! \n\nYour parents are saying things that are not useful and it's not because they don't love or care about you, it’s because they are not sure what to say to make you feel better straight away. \nParents can't help saying things like; "don't worry about that", or "you shouldn't be taking that so seriously", or "everyone will like you" "just be yourself and say hello" or "it's just a faze your going through" and "everything will be alright".\n\nParents find it hard to believe they don't understand their children; they hope they did a good job raising you to be a confident person. They are thinking back to when you were little and you made friends easily. They might even say “whatever happened to (little Susie)”; someone who you were friends with in grade 4 and haven't seen in 6 years. That's just the sort of things parents do when they get desperate, feel frightened, or run out of ideas.\n\nYOU NEED TO TALK TO YOUR MOTHER OR FATHER SEPARATELY AND ALONE.\n\nYOU NEED TO SAY “I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY I FEEL THIS WAY BUT I DO” AND “TELLING YOU NOT THE WORRY ABOUT IT ISN'T HELPING YOU FEEL ANY BETTER” AND IF ANYTHING IT IS MAKING YOU FEEL MORE INADEQUATE. OR WHATEVER IT IS YOU NEED TO SAY.\n\nIF YOU’RE PARENTS ARE STILL UNABLE TO UNDERSTAND OR GIVE GOOD ADVICE; PLEASE MAKE AN APPOINTMENT WITH YOUR FAMILY DOCTOR; IF HE DOESN'T HELP DON'T BE SCARED TO TELL YOU DOCTOR TO WRITE A REFERRAL TO A PHYCOLOGIST OR PSYCHIATRIST.\n\nUNTREATED ANXIETY CAN BECOME A PROBLEM AS PHOBIA’S CAN BE LEARNT AND DEPRESSION WILL FOLLOW.
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You said you and your parents don't get along. Does this mean you do not love them? I am sure you do. turn the tables and think about your question. \n\nyou go to bed tonight and when you wake up your parents are gone - they didn't bother to tell you and didn't leave a note as to where they were. \n\nwould you be worried? would you be hurt? would you feel like maybe they should have told you? I think that would be a yes. \n\nand you know that no matter what you love your parents and would not want them to worry about what happened to you. \n\nYou going to college so this tells me your smart - I think maybe you could if you really wanted to find ways to improve the relationship you have with your parents. \n\nbest of luck.
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Do something that you like, or you will be misrable.  Do NOT do what your parents think you would like or be good at.  They screwed me even years after high school w/ that one!