i think it because he hates me.\nhe be talking about me behide my back. how do i tell him off with out loosing the person i think is my friend
209918
don't even bother him anymore, if he likes u he'll talk to u. try ignoring him for a couple of weeks and see what he does. (dress nice to atract his atention but at the same time to let him know u could do better).
84347
Maybe their jealous of your friendship.  You don't have to prove anything to them, if you did like him, that's between your friend and you and NOBODY else.  Your friend shouldn't let his friends interfere with your friendship with him and if he's allowing that to happen, he isn't a very good friend.
666415
Neither of you are ready for any contact between each other.\n\nYou have already answered your own question:\n\n"To tell you the truth, I don't want to be friends with you. You hurt me and I'm past that now. It's not that I hate you, it's just that I don't want to be around when you start dating again.  Please let us go."
237824
Life's hard enough without having our 'friends' treat us like that. Tell her it was nice knowing her but you feel your friendship has fizzled out & you need your own space & so on. Don't go playing her at her own game & calling her names, try to part on friendly terms cos she sounds like the sort to hold a grudge & may go out for revenge if you end it by telling her where to go.
68654
u told him in a nice way that u dont want him, then let it go. u cant baby him through this. just assure him that you want to remain friends THATS ALL
239436
Tell him that life isn't as bad as it seems. He needs to look at the bright side of eveerything. Do you really want to stop being his friend because he is someone who doesn't see the good of things? Think about it. You said you were friends. Don't let him go because of his problems. Help him through it. Make your friend let him know gently that they don't have a chance. Just do things lightly, and think more about him. Don't ditch the dude for his personal things he needs to take care of.
283039
He was never your friend. Why shopuld you care for someone who says he doesn't care for your friendship.\n\nIF YOU HAVE BEEN HONEST, i GUESS THE LEAST YOU CAN ASK FOR IS HONESTY.\n\nAppreciate yourself and try to talk to him first, if things definitely will not work out let him go and be happy on your own... Actually he is the one that will have lost a friend, not you, understand? :)
41760
I would ask him why he wants you to hate him. If he changes the subject again tell him not to because you want to know why. If he doesn't tell you, he probably doesn't like you anymore or something is very wrong. I'm just wondering if he used to live here and moved to london because ou said that you have been friends forever. If he really is your friend then he will tell you whats wrong because you guys tell each other everything. I think that you should ask him one more time and tell him not to change the subject and tell you why he wants you to hate him. I've had this done to me before. He wouldn't tell me either and he always changed the subject when I asked about it. We are still friends because I finally got it out of him. So, all that I can say is to keep on keepin on and if he deosn't tell you then do what you think is best!
515898
tell that person, but try not to be mean. tell that person that you don't like him and that you think of him as a regular friend only. if he get REALLY annoying, then just tell that you can't stand him and that he should stop what ever it is that he is doing and just leave you alone.
150543
He may be doing this to get on his friend's good side. He may be doing this because he is angry at you or jealous of you. (He may have these feelings even if he hasn't expressed them to you.)\n\nWhat he did was a violation of your trust and your privacy, and, yes, you have every right to be angry with him if that is how you feel.
164911
It's a reflection of his own insecurity.  You must seem like an easy target, he's an emotional bully who is just insecure in who he is.
652613
Tell your friend how you feel starting your statements with "I" than he can't fight against them cuz they are your feelings not his. Good Luck!!
124738
Obviously she's not a friend if she treats you this way. try hanging out with someone else who is NOT ashamed of being seen with you. And if she keeps giving you attitude, stop talking to her. I'm sure you're not the only person she does this to. A TRUE friend does not treat a friend like dirt. And if she's saying lies about you then she's jealous about something. I can already tell that you are a TRUE friend, because you are willing to save this friendship with this nasty person by finding out what you can do. We need more people like you. So in answering your question, when you walk by her just smile. BIG!!
475608
Come right out and tell him.....you know, you talk too much and it gets on my nerves....\n\nI have a friend like that two......it is annoying!!
345308
Sounds like your friend scared him off for you.  Tell your friend to STOP texting this guy on your behalf, and then find a way to tell the guy your over-anxious friend is going to leave him alone.  That's pestering someone and very immature.
265031
Let me understand this...he is your "friend" and you don't know his last name? Huh? I know all of my friends last names! I think you should forget this so-called friend.
321698
I think he is. Did you try to explain to him how much it hurts you when he withdraws from you? He needs to tell you when you do something to upset him so you can work it out and get it out in the open. He is holding things in which only makes it worse. Make sure he understands that he has to be open and honest with you in order for your friendship to last. That is part of what being a good friend is. I wish you luck and hope you two work things out. Good friends are hard to come by so that makes it worth trying to work things out.