We have been married for two years, so far so good. i want to surprise him with something special, because lately he has been having a hard time at work. I cook ,clean, bathe him and lotion him down with a massage. So now I want to do something even more special to let him know that his hard work is appreciated and I Love Him !!!!
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Be waiting totally naked some champagne on ice rose pedals leading to and on your bed, strawberries and if you like some sex toys or fun food products whatever you are into
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I take it your 21 since you have it in your name. Do you live together? If so cook him a nice dinner, if you cant cook call one of your favorite resturants and order to pick up. Go to walmart and get some Boonsfarm Wine its cheap but tastes pretty good. \n\nCheck out Xandria.com has nice selection of sex toys, lotions, and massage oils. Have fun with it pick ouit some nice things. Get an outfit from Fredicks of hollywood online or Vitcoria Secret. If you can afford all of this. \n\nAfter having a nice dinner with him. You should both take a nice warm bath together light some candles and turn out the lights. Afterwards move to the bed, lay him down and start giving him a massage. After awhile tell him its your turn and then you lay down. Let him take over from there. He will love it.\n\nAnd there is always your picnics in the park and going out to eat and a movie but that is usually the average thing.....\n\nJust sit back for awhile and think what you would like to do and it will come to you.\n\nHave fun and good luck
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It's good that you want to make sweet gestures like that. \nI've been with my hubby for 19 years & still do soppy things. Last week I left a big chocolate heart on his pillow when I went to work for him to find when he came home from work tired. Send him text messages to say you miss him when you haven't seen him all day. Leave notes around the house. One of my favourite places to leave notes is in the glove box of his car cos he always leaves his radio in there & I know he's sure to find it. Tell him...I tell my hubby every day I love him & he does the same with me.
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lets see if you just wanna make your husband adore you, you could try changing your look, or giving him a surprise, like a sexy evening! \nI draped some black sheets over our couch and over the TV set and lit a bunch of candles i also put out some champagne and and strawberry's on our coffee table, and i bought some very sexy lingerie! its a bold move but he seemed to really like it and from that day on he just looked at me differently! you should try it!!
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Well, do things like he did,\n\nsometimes it's the little things that keep it fresh \n\ndo things like leave little notes to him leave it in his car,  his pocket, on the mirror \n\nsend him flowers just because, leave messages on his cellphone  voicemail saying u were thinking about him& u love him\n\nwhen u look at him blow a kiss at him wink at him.\n\n have a picnic N the middle of ur livingroom floor, give him a pet name, tell him he so cute even if he just woke up and looking a mess, rub his neck. Come up behind him and hug him.When ur out together act as if ur on a first date( role play)if u role play stay in charater until ur get home\n\nJust anything that will make him & YOU happy to be together and look  4ward to being hubby& wife =-)\n\nGood Luck sweetie\n\nAnd Congaulations =-)
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I have had to go out of town for a few days leaving the kids with my husband.  He thought he could do it just fine.  When I came home he just hugged me and said "how in the hell do you do it??"  I just laughed at him.  he never took my job for granted again.  Now when he gets home he cooks and lets me sit and relax because he knows I am exhausted.\n\nSo to answer your question, I say go out of town for a few days and see what he says when you get home.  This is something that they cant understand till they are in your shoes.
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The best gift I ever received was from my daughter.  It was a back massager for my computer chair.  I had tweaked my back months before and, although I complained about the pain for awhile, never did anything about it.  It was very thoughtful and showed me that she was paying attention to me.  That's what you need to do...find some little indulgent thing that he would never get for himself but that shows you pay attention to him.  Good Luck!
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My husband was in a firefighter academy when we married. I had just finished my degree and was looking for work teaching preschool. We were planning to wait until he graduated and found work and that way we would have saved up some money. Our schedules were so crazy though, that we really missed time together. Ultimately, we decided that having a big fancy wedding and a nice expensive honeymoon was not what it was all about. We just wanted to be married. We had a beautiful small wedding with just close friends and family. Today is our 9 year anniversary and we are so happy. (Except that I am waiting for him to get out of traffic and get home!) Sometimes you have to weigh what is most important to you. We did not live together before we married either, and the best moment of every day was coming home to be together. Good luck to you!
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Blow up a great picture of you ( and kids if u have them) and put them in a nice frame and he will love it.  Or last year I got my hubby a pocket watch with an engraving on it!  Make him some sex and romance candles with your own hands on Red construction paper- its ALWAYS my hubbys favorite present!  lol    One year I bought a basket and in it I put bubble bath scented candles and a bottle lf champagne and scented lotion.  When hubby opened it he was very confused until I told him WE would use it later TOGETHER!  Thats his 2nd favorite gift each year!!!!!
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Before he comes over, sprinkle red and white rose petals trailing from your front door, to the living room. Watch your-guyses fave movie together, and after that, go out to eat to a fancy resteraunt. I know it doesn't seem like a present to you, but it'll mean a whole lot to him <3 hope it works out!
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What about personalized coupons for things he likes, ie a massage, you cook a favorite dinner, etc.  Or how about tickets to a sporting event or other event he likes? A scrapbook of the two of you?
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im sure that your first thought would be to do something grand and over the top, but i would suggest that you do something simple. a little quiet time with just you two will be a good start. if you want to have a welcome home party for him, i would suggest that you have it the week after he gets home, to allow him time to adjust. and as for you... be prepared for some changes, and dont expect things just to fall back into the place where you were when he left. accept the fact that your husband is a changed man. because he is. just be patient with him, and take things slow. caution your friends and loved one not to make him talk about his experiences. he will tell you when he is ready. and above all, just make sure that you are there for him. out of everything that you want to plan for him, do for him, and do to him, im sure that all he really wants is a hug from the woman he loves.
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i know exactly how you feel my 5yr anniversary is coming up too and i have no idea, i was thinking maybe a weekend break or something, just something to show him that he's still the one :) if i have any other ideas i'll try and let you know :) good luck and congrats :)
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Cook a nice romantic meal and tell him you love him. Look him in the eye when you tell him. Tell him the things about him that you love so much. Share a good bottle of wine with him. Finish off by giving him a nice gentle foot massage. We men don't need much to feel appreciated. It's the simple things that mean most to us. It's more important to us to see the smile on your face and the love in your eyes than any grand gesture. Like women, we want to be loved and you wanting to spend time with us is more than enough to please us! Have a wonderful evening!
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That is really sweet of you.  He is very lucky to have a great girl like you to take care of him on his b-day!  Sounds like you have done good with the dinner and webcam so far.  What else can you do for him?  Well, I believe the obvious would of course be providing him with some one-on-one personal entertainment later in the evening, perhaps with some new fun toys, outfits, or something.  But besides that, you could buy him something cool for his car (if he is into that kind of thing), or maybe some jewelry (if he wears a chain or earrings).  Cigars and alcohol are always good, since those last a long time, allows him to relax, and he will be thinking of you when he enjoys them.  THose are just my thoughts.  Good luck, and have a great time celebrating with him!
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don't go by that. (the paper thing that is) The best gifts I've gotten from my husband are from his heart, something he takes the time to prepare himself, that is unique. Buy her a single rose, go with yellow because everyone gets red or pink, and write her a poem or letter telling you why you love her and what she means to you, actually write it yourself, don't do it on the pc!, then cook her her favorite meal. Give her the rose and your letter or poem at dinner. That will mean more to her than any store bought item, I guarantee it! Good luck, and happy anniversary!
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I think that the best way to show a man that you love him is to do something really special.  Like make him his favorite meal & if you don't know it....ask his friends or family what it is.  OR treat him to a "salon" day.  Most men nowadays love being pampered just like us women do.  Other than that, you'll have to just really think on your own.