i miss my man so much and i want to see himm but i cant the people wont let me see him im so sad what should i do
203708
there's nothng u can do other than continue to miss him. try to write down ur thoughts when u r think about him then let him read it after he comes back.it could be a big turn on every time he reads it.
667730
You can't forget about him, and we both know that. Just try to relax, and take the steps that follow in your life. If it's meant to be, he will be back. If not, then someone better is waiting on you in the future. I have NEVER lost anyone that there wasn't somebody better there to replace them. Good Luck!!
85426
Your going to have to explaing it to him again and again if necessary . if u dont love him you better not accept any proposal outa guilt..itll only hurt you both later. but if he cant accept that it will be best to not see him for a month or so. give him some time to cool off and get over you. youll find its very hard to get over somebody when they are always right in front of you. after he "heals" you just may be able to be friends.
509099
You let him be free,And the best way is to let him go,He is the one missing out on someone special,He is such a loser,i pity him.He lost someone who truely loves and cares about him,True love which is mightier than power,You lost someone who's a jerk.Cheer up girl.You deserve someone better who can give you all that love.
271691
i know it hurts, but just forget about him. have a good cry and move on. when u leave the country with your family, im sure you will find someone better and be happy again. dont bother trying to contact him. just let it be, it wasnt meant to be.
116538
Just stop initiating plans with him and make him feel like you have other priorities and plans. See if he will realize that he hasn't been seeing much of you for a while, maybe then he will feel he misses you and decide to make plans first and ask to see you. They only realize they miss you when you're not as available anymore. Give that a try and see how it goes.
652390
Yes it will get better. You will eventually make new friends and be happy again. It just takes time. if you know you wont ever see him again and you just wanna get over it just delete him from your memory by throwing out all letters, pics, other things that remind you of him. do something else to get him off your mind, get a hobby, read a book about something that interests you.
222484
stop looking and enjoy life while you can. he'll show up somewhere unexpected. we all miss the couple stuff.
470495
Instead of telling him you miss him try meet him and make it look like an accident so that you can have a chance to know him more. And when you do meet him, talk with him so next time he won't be so much a stranger! It's not easy to begin with, but will be easier and such things need some time to find their way
162328
Pull the band aid quickly. Why don't you go see them either together or alone. Just sit down with them and tell them the same thing you told us---that you love this man and you have never been happier. Hopefully they can appreciate that and respect you for your decision. Good luck and congrats
613767
Don't dwell on him, it won't help your situation and will only make things harder.  Go on with your life and you'll meet new people.  Eventually you'll meet someone that takes your mind off him and none of what you're feeling right now will exist in your mind.  And if things are truly meant to be between the two of you, one day you'll find yourselves back with each other, but it'll happen naturally.  This doesn't mean you should plan for that either.  Meet other people, time will heal.  Promise!
99366
I know what you are going through, and I completely understand... missing your husband so much that it physically hurts.  It isn't the same seeing them on web-cam, or chatting in the Internet. Sometimes it helps to have a good cry (I always feel better after having a good cry), take a good long look at your kids, spend allot of time with them, watch them sleep for a bit, and hold them close... It will help.  Tomorrow is another day. Like the other posts said, start a journal, put all your feelings down on paper. Go see your parents or friends, get out of the house! Remember, take things one day at a time, and put your trust in god.  He will be there for you, he will shelter you, and he will take away the pain. I know this isn't really helping much but you will pull through this. I will pray for you tonight (and your hubby & kids.) Virtual Hugs (wish I was there to give you one in person) God Bless
496205
I think you need to get over this dude and fast\nForget his number ( its a figur of speach cause if you trully loved him samthings you just cant forget ).....Stay away from the friends that will ask you about him....Just go cold Tercky if you know what i mean.......Its hard to do and even harded to maintain nut keep telling yourself its for the best\n\nThe fact that you not showing intrest in him anymore will creat a feeling of curiosity on his part.....If the dosnt chace you he wasnt worth it if he does you in\nRemember the man thats worth your tears wont man you cry
533567
you have a big heart.\nDont cry over him...just continue to be nice, stop in and chat with him occasionally and that will mean the world to him.  \nDont be mean to everyone else...just try and be happy.  Think, he will be going to THE perfect place with THE perfect person...no pain, no suffering.......if anything, be jealous- Hes Heaven bound and we're stuck here in hell on Earth.\nIt'll be ok.  Talk to your friends and family about this.  Talking to people makes it easier on you and then too, they will understand whats wrong with you.\n\nStay strong
265480
I remember how I felt when I left my sweetheart.  I was only able to see her once a weekend.  She lived like 20 miles from where I lived and I had to take the bus every Saturday to see her.  Man, what great times.  But at day's end, my heart hurt something fierce.  Don't feel embarrassed.  You may be afraid to lose this great feeling you have.  You don't ever want it to go away.  This is your insecurities talking.  You need to know that you are everything he wants.  Gain confidence in you and your relationship.  You possess the power.
187267
doing that to yourself is  not the answer. do you want your family to go through what your bf's family just did. i also lost someone close to me recently (younger brother) and know what it feels like to lose someone that you love very much. hurting yourself will not bring them back, but try and remember all the good things and times that you had with them and cherish them. Dont you think that he would be upset with you if you done something like that to harm yourself. even though he is not here with you he is still in your heart and sometimes that is closer than if he were still here. no one can take away his memory of him from you. Hold your head up and make him proud that he had the best girl by his side while he was here.
414410
Aww, I'm sorry! I know this is NOT fun, but me tell you, if you stay home, you will probably just feel worse. Go to the Winter Formal. Show these guys that you can have fun without them, just you and your friend! And be proud that your BF is in the army...thats a truly honorable reason why he cant be there with you.