Have you ever been the "Other Woman"?  If so did you care that he was married or had another female?
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I was the other woman, but didn't know it at the time. When I found out, I immediately ended the relationship as not to destroy a family. I didn't tell his wife, but told him that he should. Of course, he didn't. \n\nI just wouldn't want that thought on my mind, that I had been the cause of ending a marriage if it ever came to be  and I definately wouldn't have wanted it to happen to me if I were married.  No person deserves that kind of hurt.
459084
sincerely.... are you looking at what he did as an excuse to leave him for someone else ??
582710
My husband said:\n\nHe likes only one chick, the chick who types for him. LOL
184941
I've experienced a slightly different situation, I'm very good friends with the husband not so much the wife but I found out that she was cheating on him.  When I told him he totally denied it, refused to accept that it was true and doesn't believe me.  Then he got mad at me for pushing the issue so I guess it depends on the person how they'll react when you tell but I would.
347219
I didn't cheat but my ex-husband did. I guess that tells you how it ended. When we went to my parents house to spend weekends he was sneaking out with my younger sister after I fell asleep. My sister confided in my brother and my brother confided in me in return. So my loss was my jerk of a husband(no big loss) and the love of my sister(big loss). We do talk (now) but we will never be best friends as sisters should be. I did forgive her but I will never trust her again but she did open my eyes to what was going on behind my back not only with her but with several other girls where we lived I came to find out later.
608562
i was in this very situation for the last two month, The man left me for another woman and while he was gone he was calling me the whole time and asking me if he could come home. He just went with the other girl for the sex. We had been in a relationship for nine years and have two children together. He eventually left the other girl and is now back with me and we are married now for the last week. Don't get involved with a man who is on the rebound it wont work. I told the other girl he was still seeing me but she didn't believe me.
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I will warn you now from being ther 'other woman'... you are setting yourself (and the prospecitve other woman) and your wife up for a LOT of heartache. I fell in love with a man that I can't have and it has destroyed my life (message me offline if you want to hear it). He calls his wife an ice cube and they have barely had any kind of intimate relationship in four years. I gave him love, affection and my soul only to have it destroyed. Could you honestly hurt anyone like this if it happened?? You have to think of all of the people that will become involved and it will more than likely turn into a big mess.\n\nThink seriously before you proceed.
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yes, my husband looks at other women, sometimes when I'm there with him. I think it's disrespectful but he doesn't see it that way. I can't be bothered with this all the time so I just look the other way. If he wants to cheat with someone else, I'll give him his laundry and tell him to have her do it and tell him to $@%# off.
77079
Yes dear that is why I ask the ? I did. I was married but not in love but I was in like (she is pretty, nice and rich) and horny and wanted a women around so I married.. Then I fell in LOVE with a women that was a kinda  friend of ours..She not a close friend but a regular friend...... This is now going on still..I got a divorce cause I am in LOVE and want that.. not just a friend to have sex with ..but a women to cherish and adore and can't wait to be with...but she even though I feel she likes me holds me off from talking to her... so I'm extremely frustrated and lonely!!!!
412653
Sure.  Had a good friend who married a guy.  His last name was Loogie.   They took hers.
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nah, my man was a male s.lag, hes lost count. hes grown up now and as long as hes strictly a one women man now, i dont really care how many girls he had in his past, not relevant really is it, cus when we are younger we dont think about the future.
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thou shalt not covet another man's wife.\nI can honestly say I have never coveted anothers mans wife.
66247
For about one year, my first wife was a regular bobber.  I loved it!  Then one day she just announced that she wasn't going to do it again.  But, she had a great figure and we did all kinds of other things with toys, etc.  \n\nHowever, 3 years later, she wanted a car of her own.  She didn't work but, as it turned out, she needed something to see her new boyfriend.  Our marriage ended after four years.\n\nNow, I'm with my second wife.  Two months ago, she started crying and told me she couldn't do it anymore.  This week she told me her brother would sell us his car.....\n\nYou can take this respect thing and all that...for me, if the chick aint doing the rounds, my experience is she is not in the relationship for the long haul.\n\nBuddy, you better believe that if you weren't getting it up for her, she'd have you down at the docs getting a script filled...Time to level with her, time for her to get with the program.
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Is he touching her? Is it physical? \nDid you flirt in frount of him previously with another guy? \nIs he just joking around and having fun do you think or is he serious with these women?
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I have. Infact my husband and I both cheated at one point in time. This wsa before marrieage We have been working hard and keeping everone out of our situation. There was a point where his friends said something, and he did not defend me the way I felt he should have. I let him know this and he told me it was because he was angry about the situation and did not care much then. Well I seperated myself from him for a while, we are now married with a baby on the way, and no matter what he defends me even when I am not present. He does not care what they think or if they agree with our situation. Infact everyone who was negative in our lives we agreed to let go. We have never been happier. my best wishes to u
670312
LOL\nYour husband pissed you off or something?
645297
ah yes! Of course hasn't everybody.  I thought about calling lost love to see how he was...he was a great friend in college.  he showed up at me wedding with a very pregnant woman and highly jealous woman, so I don't talk to him anymore. Which is probably for the best but yeah. I think about him from time to time and wonder what it would have been like....