so it is ok as long as the friends are just friends, what if he wants to go out with someone that he mess around with would that be a different thing or would it still be cool in my eyes i dont think it will be fine unless is just strictly friends help please
203479
well only if yall feel comfortable me truly no
418492
Don't do it!\n\nFriends are really important. Dating their exes is not a good idea because it can make things really strange between you. (been there...it's really not nice) and it can be really awkward if you bring him along to something where your friend is too.
221033
Being friends w/ someone you really cared about is very hard for guys , I dunno about females. Im talking loved, im not talking a one night stand fling... If these guys are people that were really special at one time , you just have to understand where they are coming from and they need to respect you as well w/ your choices.. Now if they were flings.. lol then you have a real problem
249189
I say don't date the one in your grade, simply because if you breakup, then you are forced to see each other all the time, and that will disrupt your life.  But, if you are just asking about being friends then, why can't you be friends with both.  What's the problem, they don't like each other?  If that's so, then don't invite one guy to hang out while you are hanging out with the other guy.
411921
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
478777
Good for you honoring your friendship to her, but sometimes we need to be honost with our friends and just tell them the truth, I mean what is going to happen if she keeps wanting to all go out are you gonna try and keep coming up with excuses in order to avoid the situation, OR are you going to tell her the truth (which may hurt her a bit) and let her know the situation. She will get over it and as a true friend she cannot hold you going out with one of the guys that is if she is a friend. Good Luck
670994
If you are good friends, why would you jepordize that. If you think it won't change things between you then your kidding yourself. If you cross that line, you can't ever go back. You must decide if things go bad after it happens, are you willing to do that and lose a friend just to find out what it would be like?
415405
If he's a player, save yourself the heartache, and don't go out with him. The way you said it makes it seem like you don't really like the guy, but you're considering it, purely because he asked. Girl, if you aren't interested, and your heart is saying "he's a player, and he's gone out with my friends" what makes you think your situation will be any different???? Look for someone who will respect you and love you regardless, and won't compromise you! Good luck and hope this helps!
251015
First of all, how old are you guys? If he is really your friend he wouldn't limit you to friends like that. (not being funny,but...) are you sure being your friend is all he wants?
556715
Say yes but make sure he knows its just as friends because you dont want him to think you are gonna go out with him.. wat could it hurt... right!!!
515071
There's nothing wrong with that! One of my friends is going out with a guy two years older than her-has been for 4 years now.\nGood luck :)
437392
`Is the guy single?  Is he dating your friend?  If he is, would you want your best friend to stab you in the back?  If he is single then perhaps it may he may be fair game?  In any case, I would choose friendship over love.  Plenty of people out there in this world to date.
635588
he's being straightforward to you and has been respectful to you. I think you should do the same, if he just wanted to be your friend, you should let it be.
191799
There's no harm in you asking a guy friend to go with you. If he's just a friend , that's fine...no pressure. You go as friends , have a great time, and who knows, when the night is over, you might end up being more than "just friends".....right now, a guy friend just popped into your mind....YES! He's the one! Call him...... invite him, Have a wonderful time at the dance, you and him. Good Luck!
305735
As him how he feels about other people that have friendships that take it to the next level.\n\nIf he is ok with others then ask him if he ever thought of it with your friendship.\n\nIf you dont take a risk then you can never live life to the fullest.\n\nYou may loose, but if you win, you win big!!!!!!!!!
343119
It will possibly ruin your friendship and if you are dating someone you should not even be considering it. If you do there will be conseqences. I suggest that you don't do it, it's not worth loosing a friendship over.
248913
What kind of friend is that person? Being friends is like a sacred bond, you stick together, you have each others backs. THAT is not cool for a friend to do. I would NEVER do that to a friend.