Okay i told my crush that i liked her and she said. Her life is complicated now because she just stopped talking to some guy that i didnt know she was talkin to.  Then she said that she doesnt want me to think differntly of her because she thinks our friendship could blossom in the future.  She also says that she wants to do more things now then we did before and she ended by saying that she thanked me for opening up because it is a hard thing to do and she said it felt good to know someone was thinking of her that way.  We have talked everyday since and tonight we are going to hangout again. I guess my question is does she just want to be friends or is she trying to see if we are compatible?
209214
It sounds like a little of both. Sounds like she is not sure what she wants.  I little like me.
95325
well first of all you guys are all friends right.. think about how you would feel if one of your best friends dated your crush, sure you wouldnt say anything because they are your friends but inside you'd be hurt.. do you want her to feel like that? she needs to ask him how he feels, and get it all out in the open. if not someone's going to get hurt and it's never going to get resolved!!
12637
just do it talk, before my x and i got together we didn't really know what to say then when we were alone one day i kissed him another couple of months later we were together, the the start best time of my life, i dunno what's happened now but my point is your crush probably doesn't know what to say to your face, i probably wouldn't tell you this over the phone.
396118
Her feelings can be changed. I think she likes you. just give her a little more time, and try to stay as a friends for a while, then tell her again! Because she might be confused right now that if she likes you or not. So even if you think she likes you, don't be impatient. Give her a little more time. In my opinion, I think she likes you. Oh wait, but I just realized that she might feel uncomfortable around you, cuz you told her that you liked her, but to her you are just a friend right? so after you told her how you feel, she said she wants to stay as a friends, but sometimes it'll get uncomfortable knowing your feeling. I dont' know, you can take it both ways. Its up to you.
443529
i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
268631
Well since you two already had lunches and a few emails, sounds like she's interested in being more than friends with you too. I don't think it would've mattered if you waited, you two both know you're not going to be with your previous mates, so it was a now or later type of situation and you went for now which isn't a problem. If she's not intrested, or just not ready yet, you should just respect her decision and don't blow off what you two have. When she sees your giving her space and a lot of respect for her position, shell grow to like you even more.
445115
what is the question here? you liked him, you had your friend ask him out, he said no. Seems pretty open and shut. Move on
675254
Are you sure she feels that way?\n\n   Tell her how you feel, how much the friendship means to you. \n\n   Maybe I'm missing something, this seems too easy. No offense, but don't females just love to talk, especially about feelings?
448344
Think back, had she been acting weird for a while now? In this conversation she sounds like she's not at all interested in any aspect of your life. You should talk it over with her, and if nothing works, it means the friendship has to end
435973
I think she doesn't know what she wants. I think she's playing mind games with you. I would try being her friend and take it from there.
230977
If you have a past, it must mean that something about her is worth liking/being friends with. If situations like this arise, and the friendship is worth keeping, time will settle whatever weirdness there may be. I would act as though you are friends, and nothing is weird, and hopefully she follows suit.
30556
have you ever told her that you liked her?than yeah i think that you should. start by asking her if she does.if so,then ask if she would be comfortable to go out with you some time.if she doesnt like you as more than a friend than say''lets hang out together,just you and me as friends if you are not to busy.''
315199
She might have gone out with the guy once or twice or maybe they are just not really serious at this point.  There might be room for you if you are persistant.  Ask her what exactly she means.  Ask her if she is into this guy or if they are just hanging out until something else comes along or what.  Then you will know where to go from there.
596731
I would ask her to stay friends, and if you like(more then a friend) to this friend, go out w/ them. Don't let someone that doesn't really like you mess up a possible relationship that would be better than the one that you are about to get in. trust me, messed up my friendship caused the same thing happened to me!
412087
I would ask her if she is seriuos about him but let her know that she can not keep playing with your heart. Let her know that is exactly what she is doing and that you can make her happy and just to give you a chance. she already admitted that she has feelings for you so i just think that she is getting nervous about being with you and possibly ruining your excellent friendship. I would talk to her and let her know what it is doing to you. good luck!
558098
I think that she wants a long-term relationship. She can't make her mind about you cause she isn't sure if you're wanting or ready for a serious relationship. She's pretty sure that if things aren't going well between you two that it's going to be hard to be friends again. Talk to her. Ask her what she wants, what she feels about you....
328267
he still wants to be able to talk to, but it looks like hes a different person. when hes in a big crowd your not the kinda person that he wants to be, its like 2 best friends in different crowds. one goes skater, one goes prep. they still like each other but they turn into two different people. what i would do is just come out and say it. rejection can be hard, but at least you'll know the truth if he says yes. all goes well and y'all give it a chance. if he says no than ask to be friends and leave it at that.