you need to face your problems not run from them.........ppl go thru alot when they are suicidal........why cant u just try to help instead of encourage ppl to either run or kill themselves?
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Must you be so rude. I know from personal experience it is extremely hard to face up to certain things in life. It does seem easier to run and hide from them. \n\nDo you even know the entire story? Do you know every aspect of that person's life? I am going to guess that you don't. So before you start acting like an as*s and judging people, I think you need to back off. Let them live there life as it needs to be. You are not God, so don't be so judgemental. Only God can judge. IDIOT.
562111
i guess i would just think of im trying to save these peoples lives. if it wasnt for EMT's i dont think i would be here right now. if it bothers you too much see a therapist, or talk to someone who your close to.
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first of all,you have to be really careful theese days who you talk to ok,second,it seems he has real issues,and is playing mind games with you,if he were to kill himself there is nothing you can do ok,third,most people who talk suicide never do it,its the ones who dont say anything who do,fourth i love you !!!!!!!!!!!!!! =) it will be ok,just please be very careful ok.
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Some people feel so hopeless that they feel it is better to be gone than to have to face their problems.  For them, their problems are over and they no longer have to deal with them.  For the people around them, yes, they will have to deal with it but the person that commits suicide is beyond being concerned about that both before and after the suicide.
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i understand your comments and to a point id agree,but i do think when people ask for help on here it is very brave of them and they are probably desperate.i have a degree in psychogy and i can assure you ssometimes friends family will not say to you what they feel they should.\ni am however concernd to a point that although i am sure every one on here will always give thier best advice ity is open for abuse by anyone looking for and with ulterior motives.\nso yes i agree with you but would to say people telling thier problems on here is very brave and to be admired and for some this is real desperation\nmike
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depression alot of people deal with...alot of people deal with stress from other people like family feeling not good enough all different reasons...but u hurting urself dont make u feel better its a way to vent a little but ur still pissed or bummed out in the end...thinking that killing urself will help it wont...u'll have ur family thinking why did u do that..or why was he so stupid or selfish..and if someone or people dont like u then u killing urself makes them feel like they win..why give up on the fight..and let them feel like they win...prove them wrong by getting up and start thinking ok im goin to do this and this and get my life back on track...one step at a time..and if someone trys to say u cant do that or what r u doing..don't let them get u down get an attitude with them and be like look this is what im doin i dont need to explain to u, as long as ur happy screw everyone else...use ur anger into ur power and make urself stronger...seriously..i know ur thinking yeah right u dont know anything im goin through..thats right i dont know what ur goin through..but i know i overcome abuse and sexual abuse and mental and physical abuse my whole life and yeah i wanted to give up and die more than once and the first time i was 3 years old...and im still here im 24 now and happy and dont deal with depression anymore..i dont let myself get bummed out..i fight myself im like no im not letting this drag me down i know its not my fault yeah it hurts and sucks but ill get over it..u just have to think positive..u want to talk to me ill share what i can with u..my yahoo messenger id is the same as my name on here so i.m ill try to help u..but im just letting u know that killing urself is like giving up and life is a blessing and filled with fun and excitement u got to be adventourus and have patience for things to get better and enjoy day to day,it just takes time...
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Help Yourself When You’re Feeling Suicidal\n\n\nThe following are some ways to help you cope with suicidal feelings: Tell your therapist, a friend, a family member, or someone else who can help.\n\nDistance yourself from any means of suicide. If you are thinking of taking an overdose, give your medicines to someone who can give them to you one day at a time. Remove any dangerous objects or weapons from your home.\n\n\nAvoid alcohol and other drugs of abuse.\n\n\nAvoid doing things you're likely to fail at or find difficult until you're feeling better. Know what your present limits are and don't try to go beyond them until you feel better. Set realistic goals for yourself and work at them slowly, one step at a time.\n\n\nMake a written schedule for yourself every day and stick to it no matter what. Set priorities for the things that need to be done first. Cross things out on your schedule as you finish them. A written schedule gives you a sense of predictability and control. Crossing out tasks as you complete them gives a feeling of accomplishment.\n\n\nIn your daily schedule don't forget to schedule at least two 30-minute periods for activities which in the past have given you some pleasure such as: listening to music, playing a musical instrument, meditating doing relaxation exercises, doing needlework, reading a book or magazine, taking a warm bath, sewing, writing, shopping, playing games, watching your favorite DVD or video, gardening, playing with your pet, participating in a hobby, taking a drive or a walk.\n\n\nTake care of your physical health. Eat a well-balanced diet. Don't skip meals. Get as much sleep as you need, and go out for one or two 30-minute walks each day..\n\n\nMake sure you spend at least 30-minutes a day in the sun. Bright light is good for everyone with depression, not just people with Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). \n\nYou may not feel very social but make yourself talk to other people. Whether you talk about your feelings or about any other topic, reducing your social isolation is likely to be helpful.\n\n\nRemember that while it may feel as if it will never end, depression is not a permanent condition.\n1-800-273-TALK
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Don't run away that will make things worse.  To be honest it wont matter what anyone says to you because your going to hear what you want and go from there.  I realize things may be difficult and it sounds like you just need someone positive to talk to and someone who will just listen.
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Should we be worried about you doing something to yourself, or do you have a health condition that might cause your death?\n\nIf you're considering suicide, PLEASE speak to someone.
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So often in life we see a bad situation and desperately want to make it better. Most of the time we can't really do much. You indeed describe a terrible situation, but there is little you can do. More importantly though, take this opportunity to explore what is within yourself - why do you so desperately want to help someone who does not want to be helped? Every hear that joke: How many psychologists does it take to change a light bulb? - Just one, but the light bulb has to WANT to change. It's true. You can't help people that don't want to be helped. When she hits rock bottom and decides to pick her life back up, that's when you will be able to help. Not before. Good luck.
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No, Don't commit suicide. there is some who's :-W for you. Please if you feel like you need some one that you talk with contact me.
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I've had friends like that too. And you can only do so much. Sometimes, they need to learn on their own, as much as it may hurt you to see them get hurt, but at least you know that you have trie to advise them well. However, let them know that you are there and that you are willing to listen. Perhaps, you can find a place where they help teens with problems and get help together.
552007
Definetely seek some professional help....Otherwise, you aren't going to get help...you gotta help yourself first.
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First of all - there is nothing "wrong" with YOU aside from, perhaps, a chemical imbalence that can be treated. Secondly, if you are thinking about suicide it is important that you reach out to a professional because you probably won't be able - at this point - to pull yourself out of this alone and...you are NOT alone.  There are many, many people who suffer or who have suffered from depression or a bipolar disorder.  I have been bipolar for 25 years and it IS controllable.  I don't know how old you are but it sounds as though you need to find a responsible adult who will listen to what you're saying, take you seriously and assist you in finding treatment of some sort.  DON'T GIVE UP!  There are many of us who have been there (more then once) and survived!  :-)
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Is easier for me to answer if you are the person who's want to kill yourself,but is hard to answer indirectly cause we have to touch his feeling by his words,messages or conversations.Anyways,you should e-mail him or call him,don't talk to him like he needs help,talk to him like a close friend who's care of him,concern about his feeling,talk to him about the N.H.L./N.B.A./M.L.B.etc.What ever he likes .Do you know any friends or family member lived close to him ,call them for help.may be they can give him a hand,a good timing help.
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You let them know that you love them and support them (not their choices) regardless. It's kinda like when a child gets falls after running when you already said walk. You comfort them because you love them. You don't show them approval for running, but you help them dust themselves off. You know that they will fall down again eventually but that's life. All you can do is be there for people. You can't make them listen. Just don't get sucked into their problems. Be an listening ear offer advice from time to time but ultimately they have to make their own mistakes.
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It is very common for people to feel guilty for asking for help. Many people feel like they are just trying to 'act sick for attention' or whatever.  I believe that you want help and think you need it. You are not acting and not just seeking attention even if that is what part of you might be whispering.  I don't know you, but it sounds like you are having a very awful time right now and I really do believe that you are of great importance to those around you even if that doesn't remotely seem true.  Heck, I happy to even have you here to be typing to you.  Death is just too final.  You are taking antidepressants so perhaps these feelings of suicide are coming from the mood disorder you are suffering from.  It is nothing to be ashamed of! many many people suffer from things like this.  Believe me that it can and will get better! This is just one phase of your life and you have so much more joy to confront as you continue to move through life.  Seek help.  Call up a help hotline, they can be very helpful.\n\nHelp is out there.  I hope i have done a bit to help you. It is not much, but I don't want you to keep the world from having someone as special as you.\n\nAlso, I don't know how old you are, but younger adolescents sometimes react poorly to antidepressants and it can make them suicidal.  Call up your doctor.  Find the number and just call him yourself if you don't think your mom will help.  This may or may not be the case, but something to ask your doctor about.\n\nI will hope and pray that you will come to know how much of a joy you are to the world and that you will get past this and find out that this was a rough patch.... very rough.. but has passed.  It will pass. Find help and believe you can get past this.