I used to like this girl, so I wrote a poem for her and a note after it, and put it in her locker. She was freaked out because she didn't know who it was. So when she found out it was me, I apoligized for freaking her out and stuff, and she said, "you seem like a nice guy, but i have a bf {boyfriend}."
206576
She didn't want to hurt your feelings and wants to be your friend more then likely coz I have said that to someone who is nice but,just not my romantic type!
209549
It seem that way, this girl that was in my class was clingy to her boyfriend, they argued all of the time. eventually they broke up, but she was still stalkin him and harrassing him, it was crazy, then she tried to move on with this other guy and the same thing happened. I think that she was the problem.....
466046
same thing happened to me when i was younger! this is what i did. i was still her friend but we werent close as we use to be. now i found new friends who hate my bf but they respect our love for each other♥
496068
If you really like her and want to be with her then tell her and maybe she feels the same... some girls keep boyfriends no matter if they like other guys because they fear ending up alone and being rejected from the new guy... so, maybe she's waiting for you to make a move... i think you should definitely go for it and if she doesn't feel the same, then break off every contact with her and try to forget about her... if she'll say yes, then great... but if she'll say no, it'll be easier for you to forget about her... because she rejected you, so now instead of liking her you might start hating her... it's better to go for it, so you won't wonder about it later of what could've happened if you went for it... so, i encourage you to tell her what's up... either way you have nothing to lose, but to gain possibly... good luck...
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I had a HUGE crush on this guy named Gary. I'd use any excuse I could to talk to him...but of course I'd never actually admit to liking him. Somewhere in my diary is the sentence "I think about him all the time, but until he starts thinking about me all the time, we're not getting anywhere."\n\nWe had a tradition in my school called senior slave day, where students would bid actual real money to get the (non-X-rated) services of a senior that day. Of course I "bought" Gary. Poor guy. I made him dress up as a woman (and you know, his bulge showed up MUCH better in a dress *drools*) and carry my books around all day. Luckily he had a good sense of humor and took it all in stride.\n\nWe never did actually date or anything. I think he just put up with me following him around because he was a nice guy. Eventually I realized the obvious when he sat me down in the library and offered to give me a bag of clothes his family didn't need anymore. He eventually graduated and went into the navy, leaving me to spend the next year obsessing over this weird possibly suicidal guy for some odd reason.
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Ummm...thats really wierd i think you described me.I think it's a girl thing cuz i do the same thing to my bf all the time. I really can't describe why i do it. I know its pissess him off. Now does she tell you after a while or does she never tell you whats bothering her?
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im so sorry for u..i see how confussing this must be for you..<i could barely understand this it was so conf..> but i think u need to start from the begginning..why did she think u were ditching her...and tell her "i have a new bff and so do u, u should have thought about ur decsion before u got a new bff" so untill then..lets just stay bf..ok.."\n\nhope this helps..i hope things work out for u..\n\n: )
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It sounds as if she was embarrassed that you involved the teacher in this scheme. She might like you, but it sounds as if she thinks you are a "lose cannon" who will embarrass her in front of others. That's the real reason I suspect that she ran out of the room the next day. I think you need to be authentic (and stop the big surprises) and have a conversation with her. Be real, and apologize if you sense she didn't like your "stealth flower surprise". Maybe, if she gets to know the real you, without the "surprises", you'll have a chance with her.
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omg!i have so been there!this is a perfect question!u see i liked this guy alot!and the same thing happened to me he got a gf so i was sad but then they broke up and now i flirt as mush as possible!so look my point is even though she has a bf still be sweet to her and flirt all the time and then if they break up try to become closer with her and then maybe ask her out!
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I've got two stories.. but we're sort of mean but I was in high school at the time.\n\nThere was this girl that liked me but I wasn't into her. She wasn't in any of my classes  There was this guy in my class and we looked like brothers.  So we decided to pretend we were brothers.  Whenever she would spot one of us we'd confuse her into saying she was talking to the wrong guy.  I thought it would only last a couple of days. This went on for 4 mouths.  Then she kicked my ass in the library when she found out.\n\nSecond one.  I was 14yrs old and I had stoled a dildo from a Spencers.  Couple of my buddies and I dislike this girl.  So we kicked open her locker during class, turned on the dildo and left it on in her locker.  It was so freaking loud that security came to see what was up.  It still cracks me up and that was 20 years ago.
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Im'a guy... and had something similar once... It's possible this is the same situation... Well I had this gurl who always flirted with me... but i knew there would probably be a day my girl would come in or a friend come in and see her flirting with me... So i decided to act like i hated her flirting with me so if my girl ever came in and saw it she wouldn't flip out... But secretly I wanted to get down and dirty with this girl... and was kinda keeping her close incase me and my girl broke up.   so maybe he likes her ...
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Your boyfriend is breakin up with you.  I've done it like that b4 myself.  dont need to come out and say it, just let it drift apart n by the time the girl asks whats goin on, i'm already with someone else.
364262
Wow. When I think about that happening to me I almost start crying. This is a terrible tradgedy and I think you should avoid the subject. You'll never know how she'll react. When she comes in the class room try not to be extra nice to her or anything. She'll catch on sooner or later. Just act normal around her. That's what I think would be the best thing for her.
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She did something she knew was deceptive and against your will. She\n\nthen misled you and was deceptive about it once you caught on. She\n\nflat-out lied about her actions and tried to make out as if it were\n\nyou who was in the wrong and had a lack of understanding (a\n\ngenerational thing that you aren’t able to comprehend).\n\n\n\nShe says Jeff is “easy to talk to” and that he’s “a great listener” –\n\nmajor red flag\n\n\n\nYou made your value of honesty perfectly clear and yet she\n\nintentionally betrayed that in spite of your openness of how much it\n\nmeant to your relationship.\n\n\n\nI find your statement here perplexing:\n\n\n\n“I personally think it’s a bit weird for a guy to be calling a girl\n\nwho has a boyfriend every day, but I also don’t’ want to treat my gf\n\nlike a child.”\n\n\n\nI don’t. \n\n\n\nYour “girlfriend” is acting childish but you don’t want to treat her\n\nlike a child. She has given you every reason to question her integrity\n\nyet you insist on being more permissive. You wonder how a guy (which\n\nshe admittedly feels so comfortable being with and confiding in) would\n\ncall on a girl who has a “boyfriend”. Dude, in my opinion, HE is her\n\nboyfriend too. Is it really that unclear? My guess is that YOU are\n\nprobably NOT her “boyfriend” in HIS mind, but YOU are merely an\n\nobstacle (she never mentions you and he never asks about you) . It\n\nwould seem, on it’s face at least, that she may feel the same way (why\n\nwould she be honest about this too when she found it so easy to lie\n\nabout everything else). The fact remains that she encourage, or at\n\nleast welcomes, his advances which she KNOWS FOR A FACT are totally\n\nagainst your will and undisputedly outside the parameters of trust\n\nthat the two of you have agreed upon for your relationship (in view of\n\nher previous lies about Jeff).\n\n\n\n“she says ‘she thinks about him all the time, and misses him. She’s\n\ndepressed that she can’t see him.”\n\n\n\nI’m not trying to belittle you or suggestion that you are less than\n\nintelligent because I know how love clouds the mind. But, c’mon big\n\nfella; you need to wake up because as hard as this is to swallow, in\n\nmy opinion you’re being had.\n\n\n\n“She says that maybe I don’t trust her, and she can’t spend the rest\n\nof her life with someone who can’t trust her, and she knows I feel the\n\nsame way.”\n\n\n\nShe KNOWS you don’t trust her and she KNOWS you don’t want to be with\n\nsomeone you can’t trust. It kinda makes one wonder if she’s not trying\n\nto help you dump her by continuing to give you reason after reason to\n\nnot trust her, doesn’t it? See what I mean? I don’t think she “feels\n\nbad” because she doesn’t “want to make you upset”, she feels bad\n\nbecause she KNOWS it makes you upset and she KNOWS that isn’t right –\n\nbut she still does it, doesn’t she?\n\n\n\nI find it odd that you think it “might” be ok that she doesn’t tel you\n\nall these little details about her relationship with this guy but that\n\nshe obviously tells him all the little details of her relationship\n\nwith YOU (if you’re not aware, intimate talk is what “easy to talk to”\n\nand “a good listener” often represent). You’re not seeing the two of\n\nthem discuss YOU because he probably already knows more than he cares\n\nto know already.\n\n\n\n>>>Do I let her keep meeting him as long as she’s honest with me about\n\nmeeting him?\n\nYou may not have a choice anymore.\n\n\n\n>>>Should I be worried? \n\nYou bet.\n\n\n\n>>>Do I tell her that she can’t be his friend and my boyfriend at the same time? \n\nYes, you can, but you risk losing her if you do. \n\n\n\n\n\n>>>Can I honestly, in good faith, tell her who she can and can’t be friends with? \n\nYou know what – you can (sort of). In a mature relationship everyone\n\nknows what the rules are. You
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She probably doesn't like you as much as she likes your attention.  I'm sure she knows you like her, and she likes feeling attractive around you, which is why she flirts with you.  Given that she probably knows you like her, you should take it as a hint that she doesn't want to leave her boyfriend for you.  The best thing you can do is ignore her - she'll stop leading you on and you con focus your attentions on a more deserving person!!
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haha .. this is funny because before i got with my bf we were good friends ... we flirted back and forth all the time... and well we got talking on the phone a lot and after i had knew him for a while i had mad fehone i for him.. one night when we were on the phone i was falling half asleep.. i told him that i loved him! and then i heard myself and thought "did i just tell him what i think i did?" and i didnt want to bear the embarrasement so i just pretended to stay asleep... the next day he asked me if i rem what i said on the phone ... i was like "naw ..what'd i say?" he told me ... an i was still embarrassed so i just told him i was kidding... but a couple days later i confessed and told the truth about how i truely felt about him... now we have been together for 2 1/2 yrs and still going strong =D
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Apparently, you never loved her.  You were into the chase for her.  You have hurt her badly.  As a person, you will need to grow from this and explain to her about your feelings.  She will feel betrayed by you.  She probably knew that you were not serious, but your persistance made her second guess herself and accept you as a boyfriend.  Know you have thrown this in her face.  Very sad.