i need help my 2 best friends have girlfriends, but i am still single. i am in 10th grade. i feel out of place when i am with them. i am gettin depressed. i need help. i have tried to be kind sweet and nice. givin gifts didnt help either, so plz i need help cause it makin me go crazy
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try to just be yourself
196859
You are overreacting.  It is not the end of the world that you don't have a boyfriend...Believe me, I should know--been there and still there.  I don't let it depress me, why should I?  There is so much more to life than having a boyfriend and in time, you will have one if that is what you want.
587490
I know how you feel, been there and done that. And still am feeling that way. I need friends pretty bad myself and I am a very depression person right now. But it is not worth killing your self over it, I promise you!!!  There are people out there that do love you and care about you. Some people are just really dumb when it comes to being involved with someone and the other person don't realize what they have. You really do need a friend to talk with when you are really down in the dumps. I'm here to listen if you need someone to talk to--who knows--we might be able to help out each other!!!
239285
Sounds like you have 2 BEST FREINDS who have issues with self esteem & you aren't the one to fix their problems... you should deal with your own... you said it oursel they are adult ladies (ladies is a word I wouldn't use for them) who should know better
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trust me, thats a very bad idea\ndont look for a girl just cuz you feelin sh!tty\nit will lead to a dependancy on others (your girl)\nthe best way to deal with your problems is good help, not dependency\n\nso im sayin you need to talk and somone to listen
76026
need girl friend someone can make you happy some you can love so go to the mall and get a make over get out the house and make new friends your friends will help you if there you friend so go and get that make over things will get better for you stop takeing the pills so much that is not good for you tell your DR. he know how danger that is so get out that house know so good luck!!!1
638555
RIGHT HERE! I have ONE female friend. And because I have a boyfriend AND a job I have one male friend....my boyfriend. Girl its been like that for me since the seventh grade. Girls for whatever reason do not like me. I dont know why either. I'm the nicest person I know for real. I try to talk to females but they just dont like me for some reason. It drives me crazy!
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Dont listen to people's sarcastic answers to this.  You could do a ton of different things.  If you dont have any friends that you feel comfortable enough with to confide in, you could always look in places like this!  I'm sure people would love to reach out to someone like you.  If you have reasons why you are feeling sad then you could look into the root of those to see how you can change them.  There are a ton of things.  When I was younger, in high school, I went through some depressing times and it really wasnt good to hold it in.  You should talk it out, even if it is with a stranger.  If you are ever feeling really down you can email me, I'm a stranger but I care about others.  Sometime in the next couple of years I will be a teacher and run into things like this all of the time.  I could use some practice.  If you ever feel like you really should talk to someone my email is mobz585@yahoo.com.  I will talk about anything!  Even if its nothing, anything to help!  Remember to keep your head up!
20822
I used to be like that and all of my friends tried to help me but it was something that I had to learn on my own.  I went through a hard break-up and then I didn't even think about guys for around 6 months.  Now I have a new man and I'm happy but I realize that I could make it on my own and be happy w/out a man.  My situation may be different that your friend's though.
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This happened to me when I was in high school too.  I ended up following them around and trying so hard to be included, now looking back I just wish that I would have played it more cool.  Find some other firends to hang around with until things settle down with your 2 BF's.  That shows them that you are your own person and you aren't desperate!  When they seem to go out of your way to not include you act like you had better things to do anyways and the make some plans dont sit around... Oh and what ever you do DONT be b!tchy to them..that makes you the bad one.  Just be nice and courteaous and go about your business eventually they will go back to the way things were.
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One thing I've learned through the years that what you and your friends feel is cool now, won't be when you grow up.  Who cares what other people think.  You should give it a try and see what happens.  If they were such good friends, they would want you to be happy.  Who else knows but you?
593965
Awww so sweet. \n\nRide it out cowboy! Talking to people would help too.\n\nYour not alone.\n\nI feel alone, because I am sad, not because I don't have someone.
58342
Mmmmm thats a toughy. It is always good to be yourself and follow your own path in life. I am sure that you have at least one or two friends. What the others think might seem important now, but believe me,later in the future you will see that what they thought doesn't matter then and not now. Be proud of who you are and don't fall to peer pressure. be youself. It will be ok even though you don't think so now.
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Find a friend, if that doesn't work there is always BEN&JERRYS Chunky Monkey, it always makes everything better.\n\nBut honestly, I have felt all of those things, and that is not a good place to be.  I hope that you can realize that you are special and of infinate worth.  It breaks my heart that you feel that way. Feel free to email and we can talk, you don't have to feel so alone and that can be a start.
509758
you need to sped more time with some of ur friends .. just hang out with them or talk to them\nand please dont listen to those love songs... they will make u feel down\ndo some activity... sports always help
114859
Just because your in 8th grade doesn't mean you have to have a boyfriend!\n    Listen if you dont have a boyfriend it probably because your not ready, or if you like someone it's probably beacuse your not ready or don't feel comfortable telling them. You know just because your friends have boyfriends, or are always talking about them doesn't mean you have to get one. Maybe a guy likes you but is too scared to tell you...boys at this age are stupid and aren't ready to commit to a relationship. Believe me having a boyfriend isn't all that.....there is heartbreak no matter what. Just look at your friends when they are dumped...you really want that?\n    When your ready to have a boyfriend you should feel comfortable with that person ,and around them. If a guy only likes you for your looks than he's most likely a pervert. If a guy doesnt like you for your looks, or something like that then...well....first. he doesnt like you. second. he needs to stop being shallow.third.. he needs to get to know a girl b4 he goes out with you.Most guys date the pretty girls or skinny girls or w/e and then dump them because they are stuck-up and rude. lol. plus if you think its ur weight, its not. if a guy liks u it sould be your personality and whats in your heart. boyfriends arent everything these days.....ull thank me someday wen u find the right guy ull be happy u didnt go though out all the breakups and waited for the right guy!!!!\n     \n           *i wish you luck, and now i hope you understand looks arent everything!!!!!!!!!!
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you are in this world cause you are needed.  Someone needs to hold you, someone needs to see you smile, someone needs to hear your words, someone needs you to love them.  You need to look at everything that is beautiful in this world....if you are depressed because of a girl, let me tell you that if you are not with her it's for a reason, the person you are supposed to be with is waiting for you....when you find her you'll realize the waiting was worth it.  I've been in your shoes, and thank God I realized there is so much for me to do in this world that I haven't done....believe me, you should be living and enjoying every beautiful thing in life, there are lots of them! =)