Just wondering if there were any other guys around who are involved with a married woman.\nWould love to hear/share/and talk about experiences, both good and bad.\nI'm on IM as daves_1348
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when I was in college I was, I can't access IM right now due to my location, but I will tell you this. I sped up her divorce, which was good for him and her. I was her Rock, because her family didn't like what she was doing and basically shut her out. After the Divorce her family started to accept her again and at the point I became "to annoying to be with" and now she is living in AZ somewhere with her dream man from HighSchool. So in a sense I ended a bad relationship, Got really really heart broken (which I learned alot about myself) and now 2 other people are happier because of what I did
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My oppinion is that you are a few of the smart loyal and honest men out there and I applaud you for your well train of thought and consideration. I do not feel anyone should look down on you just because you have considered things that for others it doesn't even cross their mind. Continue your great way of thought simply because so many of us fall under pressure especially when being tempted with sex, and drugs. I was also a virgin when I got married and so many friends told me I'd regret it but I've been married for a year and the thought of cheating on my husband because I never had anyone before him never crosses my mind. Not to mention the great respect I got and continue to get from my husband everytime we make love!  I'm sure you will find somone someday who is going to also appriciate your well thought in life! Good luck and God bless
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i met my husband on there ... i met a lot of guys but dated about 5 (plus my husband) ... their were 3 that were okay ... one was just rude, the other 3 were well .. it was easy to understand why they were single ... my husband had the most straightforward down to earth ad ... and we clicked ... 4 years after we met we got married
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Of course.  Yeah you guys aren't on the same level in that regard.  It's perfectly exceptable to find someone esle to talk to about things that your wife can't.  You should check out Luke 12:22.  Great read.  basically says, "don't worry"....it's a good sigh of relief sometimes.
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I have met a couple of really nice guys on Singlesnet. Also, you can email a featured member for free, so if you find a featured member that you are interested in you don't need to join. I haven't paid to join, but have contact with the men I want to contact.
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I've experienced a slightly different situation, I'm very good friends with the husband not so much the wife but I found out that she was cheating on him.  When I told him he totally denied it, refused to accept that it was true and doesn't believe me.  Then he got mad at me for pushing the issue so I guess it depends on the person how they'll react when you tell but I would.
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Hi, My X use to do the same exact things! I know exactly what it feels like, unfortunately the last few lies I found out were from my children. He was hangin around with a white trash piece of shit that was his sisters friend. He swore up and down they were just friends, come to find out he had been seeing her off and on for about 12 years! I was married to this asshole for 17 of them! Please please... Listen to your heart, especially with his track record.. make sure for yourself and I hope its not true, but that there isn't another woman! I don't know how I didn't find out sooner. I guess the kids were younger..not sure.. But the things you were saying is just how it was with us.. and he didn't even care when we didn't talk I think he actually enjoyed it because there was less to cover up if I wasn't asking him questions! But please keep your eyes and ears open, and I hope you find nothing but just in case hun.. take it from someone who has been there. Take care good luck and if anything changes please keep me informed or if u need another woman to talk to email or im me anytime! Good luck & be strong! Kim
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Hello.  I am bi-curious.  I have never been with a woman but I have wanted to try it out for awhile now.  I am not with anyone at the moment, really, and I could always use a friend to chat with.  Hope to chat with you real soon ;)
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I met my first husband on ICQ messenger.  Like I said, 'first' husband.  My second, current, husband I met through a friend that I met online!  This time it is much better.
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Considering the recent questions this guy has posted, nothing he has stated here can be taken seriously.\n\n"Anyone here who is Married and looking for some extra fun, notthreesome?\nAsked by matkalland - 1 answer - Marriage & Divorce - 6 minutes ago - Open\nAnyone here going to University of St.thomas and is looking for causalsex?\nAsked by matkalland - 0 answers - Singles & Dating - 10 minutes ago - Open\nAny one from Twin Cities interested in casual sex?\nAsked by matkalland - 4 answers - Singles & Dating - 13 minutes ago - Open\nI am looking for a MILF inMinnesota? Anyone interested Please let me know, handsome,works goes to the U?\nAsked by matkalland - 3 answers - Singles & Dating - 16 minutes ago - Open"
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I heard of a couple who wrote letters to each other. Never met. But when they did (after 6 months of writing), they met and a few days later, got married. They have been together for over 20 years. So cute.\n\nI've also heard of another couple. One was a nursing student and the other went into the Air Force. They were apart for a couple years... but they waited for each other and visited every now and then. After all of that, they got married. They were together for over 60 years. Aww.\n\nAnd another one. He was friends with a girl for a long time. They met through mutual friends. He always loved her... since before they even met. He saw a picture of her and instantly fell. She only loved him as a friend. Eventually, she realized her feelings for him. They have been together for 9 months now. This is my boyfriend and I.\n\n\nInspiring, isn't it? : }
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My wife and I have an exceptionally happy marriage. We've been together for 15 years, and still love every moment we spend together.\n\nMy wife is bi-sexual, and I am straight, and for years she had fantasies about inviting other women, and other men and other couples into our bed, as did I.\n\nAt some point it became a part of our pillow talk, we talked to each other about our fantasies, and engaged in sharing fantasies as part of our lovemaking.\n\nAfter a few years of that we decided to invite a friend into our bed.\n\nIt was a disaster! We hadn't done any research at all on how to be successful, and foolishly thought all we had to do was enjoy ourselves.\n\nA few more years went by and we continued to share fantasies, and again the subject came up - needless to say we were more cautious this time, we actually found some swingers discussion boards, and became participants - asking questions, and learning how successful swingers did it.\n\nWe joined a couple of swingers match making sites and started to understand what we were looking for and how it matched with what others were looking for.\n\nWe found a great magazine about swinging (I'll put a link in the sources section), and read it cover to cover.\n\nWe looked online and found a swingers club in our area and decided to visit the club.\n\nWe went to the club and get so excited that we couldn't wait and ended up having semi-public sex with each other (which was one of her fantasies - she is very exhibitionistic).\n\nThen we went home and again had fantastic sex.\n\nWe went again the next weekend, and found a couple that looked fairly unthreatening and asked if we could sit down - they were very helpful in explaining all of the etiquette of the swingers lifestyle, and what the expectations were, so we sat with them all night and basically had them do a brain dump of everything they had learned in 25 years of being swingers.\n\nOne of the things we kept hearing was that we needed to set rules - which explained the disaster we experienced in our first attempt - no rules! We didn't know what was expected, there were guilt feelings and jealousy, and recriminations.\n\nWe sat down and developed a set of rules designed so that we would both know whet was okay, what made each of us uncomfortable, what was strictly off-limits, etc.\n\nWe discovered that getting ready to go to the club was so exciting that we almost didn't even need to go, the anticipation, the time we spent naked while bathing, grooming and getting ready, the conversations we had with each other while getting ready, watching her get her sexiest outfits on, and try things on for me, excited both of us so much we almost always had to make love before we even went to the club!\n\nAs we got more comfortable and confident (because of all the open conversation) our sex lives again improved, we couldn;t keep our hands off of each other, riding in the car became really hot, getting ready for work in the morning became really hot, getting ready for bed, going out to dinner, all of our daily activities became huge turn-ons because we were so hot for each other.\n\nWe would spend time talking about things we wanted to try, and watching attractive women walk past would cause secret smiles to cross our faces because we would both be wondering if that sexy soccer mom was really a closet, back scratching, climb-the-headboard s lut!\n\nOne night at the club, after months of playing with just one another, we met a married woman who followed us back to a room and joined us.\n\nIt was incredible! We both felt completely confident in our marriage and in our rules, and fulfilled a couple of our fantasies right then!\n\nWe met her and her husband for dinner a couple of nights later and immediately hit it off - the hardest part of swinging is finding a group of people that all like and respect each other, and find each other attractive!\n\nWe started having foursomes - extremely erotic and enjoyable, and became
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western men are so wierd (you are definitely one)....how can a man accept the fact that his wife cheats on him ? accept, feels sad and even tries to get her back...this is way beyond me !!!!! God.....
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well you must be as old as me or older and i ask why are you wasting time on here talking about something that important.  I got lucky and found this site to stop me from being bored out of my mind at night at work but other then that i spend time with my woman and take care of her in any and every way.  So your wife probably isn't the problem.
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I told you she would find out about us sooner or later!  I am crushed, I told myself I would never do such a thing with a married man.  Then look at what I have gone and done??????  Oh my.  \n\nSeriously now,\nI say run with it, just don't over use it if you know what I mean.  Just watch out for WHEN you find her doing the same.  <wink>  :)
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As far as my personal experience goes....NO! Definately not!\nI have been married twice by so called men who have had affairs with co-workers.
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This really isn't as uncommon as you may think. There are lots of men that are the same way. The term is called 'Cuckold'. What is your wife's opinion of this ????? Once yo have talked to her and if she's game for it, check out www.adulfriendfinder.com\n\nGood luck. Have fun !