doesn't try and spend time with me unless it is convient for him which is only saturdays, nor does he call or make an effort in general.
202173
dump him and find someone who will send time with you and treat you right...
373299
Dont take it personally. Unless he set up times and such then he isnt committed.
52917
They should have time for you. On the far side they never do anything with you and the other sise is that you never let him do anything himself. You shoul be somewhere in the middle.
56610
sometimes homwork is more important than a dinner date.  try it again on a weekend, and if he makes an excuse, he not into you.
219094
i think HE should take the initiative...you need to know that he needs you as much as you THINK you need him....if he doesnt call or get in contact with you you will realize that he isnt what you expected....and a complete jerk....do what you feel will be good for yourself...
273654
Two hours is nothing for him to drive and take you out or spend the day with you.  I would, if I liked someone and they equally liked me!  There is always the telephone in between times when you can't see each other.  Doesn't sound like a problem to me.
492445
Sounds like he's blowing you off. Even if he doesn't think anything is wrong, just the fact that you feel that way should be enough for him to try and make the situation better. If he's not attentive to your feelings and needs, he's being selfish. Give it a little while, and if he's not making an effort, you should start looking for some new endeavors.
279806
Pay attention to him when he's around.You say he's traveling because of work,so he's working to help support you right?Well when he's home,put friends on hold and some things you want to do,put on hold until he goes out of town again.That will give you plenty of ME time when he's gone. Make him feel like you want him around,ask about his plans for that day.Maybe he wants to spend time with you,maybe alone,you never know until you ask,but he most likely wants time with you since he's not around much. I'm sure he missed you. he might want to visit some of his friends or relatives while he's home too,just ask what his plans might be for the day. If he visits his friends then you can maybe visit yours or do something on your own. You can work things out with a traveling partner,it just takes some adjustment.You have spent alot of time alone and have got into suiting yourself alot.It does take time to readjust to someone else being around. Just try to communicate as much as possible.Even your eating habits might have changed since he's been gone so you have to figure,what time is lunch and will we be eating together?Just be available as much as you can so you both can decide on your days activities together.
260537
If he knows that you want to work it out and you haven't heard from him, then just let him be and if he wants to reconcile, then it's in his court. You can't force him to feel a certain way. Meanwhile, focus on building other relationships in your life.
471255
Well it looks like he's not biting, the only suggestion that I can give you that I used to use, is wait a week or 2 or a month before you cantact him agian then when you contact him state that you know he was not interested at the time before but you have some awesome things going on (deals, etc) and you wanted to give him the opportunity to catch them, no obligations I just would like to meet w/ you for 10 min., only 10 min of your time, I know your a very busy man, I just would like to give you some more information on some things are company can provide for you that would make your life alot easier (or better). I am very busy as well and would be able to put aside 10 min for you. And MEET w/ him and Close him. Or you can always show up at his work so maybe you can press to meet right there in person as well. I hope this helps I wish I could give u some more tips but I would end up writing a book.
564045
You might be able to tell if he doesn't call you as often or if he sounds strange on the phone, especially when you ask him how his day was. Good luck and try to trust him.
548979
most guys are afraid of commitment like myself..if you initiate contact i guarentee he will talk to you..just go over to him and sit beside him ask him something as simple as "what are we doing this weekend?" you got to let the comfort roll in you can't force it.just show him you like him and if he doesn't have the confidence to speak to you as a bf i'm sorry but maybe you were better off friends.
368273
Just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime after work, if he says yes than he is probably interested.  But that way if he says no then you didn't come out with your feelings so he won't act any differently.
27428
if your life is that busy you need to set aside a day to meet and have fun. like make saturday your day to hang out no work no school just you. if you cant do that then maybe you need to break off for a while so you both can focus on what is obviously more important to you.
96156
You need to ask him that question.\nEverybody needs some time to themselves even if they are not on their own. You cannot judge his willingness to communicate with your own as people are different. Understand why he needs time to himself, find a compromise between the two of you and then respect each others needs (his to isolation, yours to communication).
649858
Have you ever talked to him about this? maybe he has o clue how you feel, maybe he thinks you don't even want to go out with him and his friends. Ask him about it, tell him how you feel. If he is getting all defensive and really not wanting you there on Saturday, you may wonder whats going on, and you can still drop in on him one night. But maybe he wants you to come, or maybe you can make compromises where he goes out the one week and stays with you the other? Relationships always are about communication. If you let the other one know how you feel, you can work on a solution together. if he really cares about you, he will be willing to solve this problem with you. Good luck!
241517
He certainly sounds interested, but not quite certain enough of what he wants (unless he is just looking to use you when it's convenient for him.)\n\nPerhaps he thought the visit that didn't work out was your way of politely trying to put him off?  If you think his intentions are honorable, you should just call him, so he knows that you are still thinking of him.  If that isn't enough to get him to invest more effort, then perhaps he's not worth the trouble.  Listen to your heart, but proceed cautiously.  Good luck!  :)