my bf only trust me 80% out of 100% and i never did anything for him not to have that other 20% lost.. Is it that he is leaving room for dissapointment of he just dosent trust me!
212052
probably he got hurt in a previouse relationship, and is caring that untrust over into your relationship. Or he is not trustworthy himself, and expects you to be the same way. To earn his trust be nice to him and don't give him any reason not to trust you. However if he is untrustworthy he will never fully trust you.
423659
Sounds like the bf has some real issues.  He really did you wrong.  If he is serious about getting back together with you, he needs to prove himself.   I'd take anything REALLY slow.  Keep your eyes open, see if you can trust him again.
27737
I have a girlfriend, and I've felt like "jumping" (lol) someone before because they're being a pain and flirting with my gf or whatever... Anyways, from personal experience I would say he DOES trust you... But that guy's intruding into your relationship so he has to "protect" that... It's kinda hard to explain but I think he does trust you, it's just natural to get jealous and want to do something about it... (not that I recommend he jumps this guy lol)
26030
He is a liar and a cheat. It happened to me, 'cept that my bf went to a movie theater and hosed somebody off. I got mad, but unfortunately, i was also forgiving. And now, I am paranoid that he might still be doing it.
662205
The best thing to do is follow your instincts.  If you trust him, don't worry about it.  If you don't, you need to confront him.
240534
yes you can trust him. But do not always bother him about it. Just try be on his side for any help. He will turn. dont worry. He is normal
46554
It pretty much comes down to this: You either trust him or you don't. There is no "in between" trust. So ask yourself this: Do I trust him? If the answer is yes then there should be no problem with accepting what he says to you. If the answer is no then you would be treating yourself with respect by not staying with him, getting on with your life and not looking back. Once the trust is gone it never comes back. Not truly 100%. The most important thing is to be true to yourself!
514766
you need to deal with your trust issues before you can move forward in any relationship, your jealousy and lack of trust will only bring the relationship down, talk to a professional about the issues you have and how to resolve them, not all men cheat and sometimes you have to have faith that you are with a good guy it may be hard given what has happened before but if you do what you plan such as the testing etc you could potentially drive a good guy away all based on your baggage from a previous relationship....
73990
y did u do it? u don't trust him? if u don't trust him... y b together in the first place? a relationship would not last if both parties do not trust each other... talk it over with him. COMMUNICATION is the word! :)
412818
He sounds like he is just insecure.  If he can't trust you there cannot be a relationship.
600057
maybe its because he doesn't trust you......... yet \nhe is keeping his x close because he thinks that there is a chance that things won't work out & can you blame him if you can't even trust him?
411584
ur girl's crazy. i know im a jealous gf so i know wheres shes coming form. BUT if you let her do that kinda stuff like spend the night at a guys bed. then she should trust you. but if i was you i would dump her!!!\n\n\nGood luck with the crazy gf!
646455
Seems like you have answered your own question, where is the relationship if there is no trust!!! I know what you mean tho. you can't change someone, they have to recognise their failings, and choose to do something about it. Try speaking with him about how you feel and see what he says..Then you will know whether he is willing to make steps to change his behaviour toward you, if he doesn't then you know what youve got to do
654850
To be honest If you have to ask then there is definitely doubt somewhere in the back of your mind. You've heard of the saying once a player, Always a player... well Once a liar, always a liar. But some people do change.... I want you to know that if you do continue your relationship that your always going to have doubts... your always going to be thinking he's hiding something or lying about anything. Just take your time with this.... I wish you the best.
316274
from experience i would say he is probably hiding something. when i was hiding something from my hubby i didn't care where he went, and actually he didn't leave house enough. or may be if y'all go to church then maybe he has grown up and realized GOD SAYS HE NEEDS TO TRUST YOU. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!!!!!
653592
i am sorry i am not like this rest of the people but i do think trust and honesty are the two main ingredients in a relationship maybe hes hiding something do not quote me but usually those who accuse are guilty themselves but good luck you should not have to prove your innocent he should have complete trust if he loves and wants a great relationship best of luck hope i help in at least a tiny bit
23079
Trust is sometimes not there.  He might have done a lot of mistrusting things in his lifetime.  I know one someone who always did not trust his girlfriends.  The reason was that he always cheated on them.  If you cheat, you have a habit of thinking others cheat on you.