Does the first gay sex hurt at all?
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Oral sex doesn't hurt at all (unless someone doesn't know what to do with their teeth), but being the bottom (receiver) of anal sex does hurt the first time.  The best thing to do is have the top (giver) lay on his back and then "sit" on his erect penis, allowing yourself to control the speed and the distance the erect penis is pushed into you.  It will still hurt the first time, but you will have a measure of control that you just don't get from laying on your stomach and letting him push it in.  The right lubrication is very important, too.  KY Jelly is for straights and should not be used during gay sex.  Wet is an excellent lubricant for gay sex.  If condoms are involved (which they most definitely should be), then make sure you use a water-based lubricant.  Oil based lubricants erode the latex of the condom, causing microscopic holes which semen could escape through.  Never use 2 condoms at once on the same dick.  Instead of adding extra protection, they rub against each other and cause a greater risk of condom failure.
266853
yes it will hurt...unless youve had objects in your vagina as big as his penis.you may or may not bleed depending on what youve had in yourself.
604223
I'm not a guy, but I have to speak up here.  I think that down the road, you will regret having sex for the first time with someone who means nothing to you.  However, I suspect you don't believe that now.  My advice, if you go through with it, is use a CONDOM!
83991
Not really coz it did hurt. I even swooned lol but then after 3 or 4 times it gets better as u learn to relax and  understand the way yr body works and what makes u excited. U can tell yr partner what u like and basically it depends on how lubricated ur. There are various lubricating gels available in stores these days and they are quite helpful. Being emotionally close with yr partner makes the sexual experience with him even better !
566383
lier lier is all i can say.. even for a guy when losing his virginity it is kinda a nervous-ish experience. i am sure not as indepth as the ladies BUT STILL AN EXPIERIENCE..why? well there is a stereotype for guys and this dude you speak off seems to be exemplifying this stereotype... more than likely his first time was shorter than that.. maybe 5 to 15 minutes the most... why well even if he was with an experienced female... she probably would have orgasmed by then... with me and my virginity it was like 5 minutes.. i didn't have an orgasm and the primary reason for the above turn out was because i was doing it with my girlfriend and it was her first time as well... in all honesty after like 30 seconds of actual penetration and trust we stopped because it was painful for her... the first time usually encounters physical obstacles... the pain of your hymen breaking... I have had this same experience with 3 more young ladies where they were losing thier virginities. A couple times went by like this until they had healed up, gotten over the psycological fears of pregnancy and all that.. and actually got into enjoying the feelings actually generated by the act of intercourse/making love...after those initial 2 to 3 times ...well it's all climax from there!!!! no pun intended.. hoped this helps.. \n\none more thing.. don't be in such a rush to loose your virginity... it makes a big difference in your life... i guarantee it.. picture yourself at 21 or 27 and a friend asked you about your first time... the answer can either go one of two ways.. ohh its something i'll never forget cause it was with a great guy.. boyfriend of mine where we had a good and long relationship OR i regreted my first time... it was wack... i didn't really feel anything (emothionally or otherwise) i don't even remember that guy. i wish i had waited longer...  when that time comes.. i guarantee you'll remember The Thinker!
316738
Yes it does hurt. You should never have sex
96325
no it doesn't hurt, because it's not like if you get swelling from an injury - that causes pain because there isn't any room for expansion and the swelling stimulates stretch receptors in the skin, causing pain. But in the penis there is room for the extra blood flow, so it doesn't hurt.
548882
yess it really hurts, i guess it burns or something like that:) careful next time, gurls are sensitive.
213347
It's not that bad once u get used to it. If u don't use anything then once it goes in it will hurt for just a second. After that it is great. Tell your b/f to go buy anal ease or Adam and eve. @ the adult store. This will numb the butt so it will not hurt. (Sorry I work in an adult store)
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If you've begun to use tampons before your first time, it won't hurt as much. Or if you've been fingered a lot it will not hurt that much, if at all. Plus, things like horseback-riding, bicycle-riding, etc. lower chances of extreme pain during sex. There's a thin layer if skin that gets brokn through the first time. That's what makes it painful; but what we don't realize is that it may already have been broken and we don't know it. That doesn't mean your virginity was lost though. BUT FOR A FIRST-TIMER, IF HE JUST RAMS IT IN, BELIEVE ME IT WILL BE UNPLEASANT.
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my balls ache only if my gf turns me on incredibly and after that ... nothing. Then not only my balls, but my stomach as well are aching as hell. It's not that the balls are aching all the time if a boy don't do sex....this is just an excuse. So i'll give you a valuable advice - DO NOT turn on your bf unless you've got any further intentions:)))) But to be easiest to compare it - just imagine how do you feel at the first or second day of your period, although it is not the same but just for the protocol.....
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It depends, do the feelings such as the 'knot in your stomach', come from a curiosity to explore the beautiful familiarities of your bodies, or does it seem to stem from an emotional, love, reaction.\nI personally experienced my first same sex encounter when I was 19 years old. I am now 44. I had several since. I do not consider myself bisexual or homosexual. I consider myself straight, because I could not fall 'in love' with another woman. I couldn't see myself 'marrying' another woman either. What I did have were sensual experiences with women friends. Listen to your head, your heart. Are you merely appreciating this girl's beauty, and are fantasizing sharing intimacy or do your feelings run more deep.
569334
Sex will hurt the first time.  I didn't bleed, but alot of girls do.  It will hurt, and most likely none of it will feel good for the first few times.\n\nTo prevent it from hurting, abstanince.\n\nBest advice, wait until you are with the right person.  then the pain and unpleasentness doesn't matter.  It will be special because it is with the right person.
610287
Ha..ha..ha..ha..ha!\nWhat a question Kim? I'm sorry to laugh, it's just that you don't usually ask questions like this one. Anyway, wherever your (not you exactly) desires drive you to, surely you'll find joy there. Anything will be painfull until you get used to it, and then pain becomes joy. Normal sexual intercourse is painful at or shortly after loosing virginity, but once you get used to it, nothing else matters in the world except sex. The same principle applies to anal sex. Those who engage in it will surely experience extreme pain first, but once they get used to it, they will completely forget if the vagina has ever existed.
183436
Yes it does hurt the first few times. If you are nervous or scared it might make it hurt worse, and make sure you are not dry down there. If you are you might need to use some extra lubrication.
651645
It does hurt most girls when you have sex for the first time.  However, there are many things that you can do to ensure that it wont hurt as much as it normally would.  I sugguest going onto passionparties.com and buying a product called numbit.  A few minutes before you have sex, put some in your vagina around where your hymen (flap of skin that tears during sex) is and it will numb the area.  You might be saying that you want to feel all of it, but trust me... you dont.  If it is going to hurt, it usually hurts a lot.  If it doesnt hurt, your first time is never any good anyway, so it doesnt even matter if you feel anything or not.  \n\nBefore sex, you also need to loosen up a LOT.  You need a lot of foreplay before you have sex, especially the first time to make sure that you are naturally lubricated and open.  If you skip foreplay, you will be freaking out and not dying to have sex, and if you want to have sex really badly the pain of your first time wont be as bad as it would be if you just go at it.  If you have an orgasm before you have sex the first time, that is even better.  Just make sure that you really want to have sex and the area is numb, and you should be fine.\n\nGood luck, and dont expect much from your first time.  It will get better as time goes on.
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It didn't hurt me, but I did it with a guy that had an average sized piece of manhood. The size of his penis will be a factor in whether or not it hurts the first time. Spotting is a very normal thing to happen once the hymen is broken. Also, how old are you? You don't sound ready to lose your virginity. Be sure to think it through... I am not meaning to preach, but make sure that you are ready. I lost mine when I was seventeen because I thought I had found the right guy, but we then broke up and I hated myself for it. And be sure to use protection... Also, don't do it because he wants it... It must be a mutual agreement. Both of you must be ready for the consequences if the contraceptive devices do not work.