Some people tend to get stuck in the negative things that are happening in life instead of looking at all the good things............what are some positives happening in your life right now...positive things in relationships, great memory, etc.
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I know what you mean.  My husband is a soldier in the Army.  We spend a lot of time apart with him in very dangerous situations. It would be really easy to get down, or be negative.  I just keep in mind that my husband is a great and brave man fighting for those too weak to fight for themselves.  What keeps me going is the pride I feel for him, and the wonderful moments come everyday when you treasure each other the way we do.\n\nGet Blessed!
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You are extremely happy, like you have never been before. It is almost too good to be true! You let yourself be carried by that person, for a moment there you forget about the world and think that only you and your partner exist. It is amazing, but as good as it can get, it can get pretty bad too.
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you are being a little pessimistic\n\nthere are plenty of happy couples and people out there living good full lives.\n\nGet away from the people living badly and look for good friends.\n\nIt is a great day to be alive!!\n\nGood Luck and God Bless!!
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I do not believe it is Always possible to stay Positive and happy. But I do believe that if you try to do at least one thing a day that makes you feel good about you that will help. Whenever an event happens that makes you sad you should try to do or find something to make that situation a wee bit better.Try to figure something about that situation that will make you feel a tiny bit better(if there isn't anything try to think about something you may be able to that in itself will help ? HUGS
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Kinda. What I want to know, is why bad things happen to the best people. I've been thinking about that a lot, these last few days.
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Life has a strange way of just happening; with or without our permission.  Circumstance sometimes dictate change, and change may not always mean a sign of instability, in fact sometimes its the exact opposite.  We all have to constantly go back to the drawing board when it comes to life; in other words--let life happen, accept what we can't change, and hopefully be able to smoothly transition into whatever new challenges come our way........
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My dear woman, every life is a life worth living. Yes it is hard to see all the bad things that happen in the world, but there are many more wonderful things that happen everyday, the news just doesn`t report them. You may not realize how your very life may affect someone else.It could be a young person or old. Friend or stranger....you make brave sentences but you have fear inside you. Let go of the fear, replace it with the joy of life...there is more joy in the world only if people like you put it there. Be at peace.
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none!!! :D if you wanna change something in your life that means your not happy but im happy ant lets just make our lives beautiful and enjoy it even if it is full of miseries!!!!!!
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It depends on the person and what goes on, but in most cases I would guess that people worry too much about making something good turn bad that they pass up on the whole good thing entirely.\n\nSometimes you just have to take the risks and hope things turn out alright in the end.
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There is one thing you can be sure of.... that is that every thing changes. It's the law of the universe! So if things are going bad, just ride it out because it has to change. And if things are going good, suck up every moment and enjoy. You have to have the bad to appreciate the good!
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That's life. . .sometimes it changes for the better ,other times for the worse. . .
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I completely agree...sometimes there are things that affect our feelings regardless of what we do, but for the most part, it is the way you view the things that happen.  Sometimes it's hard to remember this, but you are completely right...positive attitude=positive day; negative attitude=negative day. :)
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Yeah its sadly part of life. As new parts of your life open up, the people you share it with usually change. You just have to move on.
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We are all here for a purpose...try looking at the good things in life, like the fact that woke up today. A lot of people go to sleep and never wake up. Sometimes bad things need to happen to us before we start appreciating life. It happened to me.
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Good for you. :) I like when people post good things like this. You know, everyday is a good for me. I have my problems, but we all do. Sometimes my problems are unbearable,but I learn to live with them knowing that someone is feeling worse than I am and I know that every problem has its solution and it's a matter of attitude.  A good attitude really chases the pain away. :)\n\nI wish that you have more good days ahead of you.
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Life itself, it is amazing and wonderful to be here, even in the bad times.  The people you meet, the things yo can see, you get out what you put in.
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why don't you write down all the negative thoughts... then opposite as many positive ones you can for each of them\n Not sure how true it is...but the last thought you have will be the one you act on..so why not prepare yourself with a positive one for the time when you need to have a positive thought.\n you could also be just trying to look at the pros and cons of making a big move and change in your life...\n Reverse  it to cons and pros each time you think about something you want to do in your life..\n I have told this to some of my friends who were always so negative they missed out on great improvements and awesome times in their life...now when they start to think negative ,they immediately have a couple of positives to end the thoughts with.They do more things,are much more fun to be around and some have improved their lives 100%...\n Nothing ventured nothing gained ! \n You CAN DO IT !!!! \nBest of luck with it..