guys have easy orgasm at times, do gals reach pinnacle of their pleasure, and once reached, does it feel like getting a shock of 11000V current
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Reaching an orgasm varies in women. Personally, it all depends on if your partner is experienced or not in getting you there, OR if you know your own body well enough in assisting him or you doing it yourself. Most women I know, DO NOT have orgasms often. I would think that its harder for women.
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If it happens just before, during, and a few minutes after orgasm, that's normal. The rapid pulses through the nerves as you orgasm spread through the whole groin and spread through the rest of the body. Since the nerves to the legs are the closest branches of nerves, it affects them first and more than the rest of the body. Imagine you're trying to draw a straight line down the middle of a piece of paper. If someone came up behind you and patted you on the shoulder then bumped your elbow during your task that line is going to look pretty shakey. Same effect is happening to your legs during sex.\n\nYou shouldn't be embarassed about your legs shaking during orgasm. If the person your with asks you why your legs are shaking tell them you just orgasmed, they'll be glad to know this and they'll be looking for that every time to make sure you're satisfied. \n\nIf you're overly concerned about your legs shaking you can always take yoga and get flexible enough to tuck them behind your head, that's a turn-on for most guys, or you can get into some light bondage and just have you legs tied up so they don't move.\n\nI think you should let them shake. Most guys hate it when women fake their orgasms, because faking is the same as lying. Once a guy knows what to look for (shaking legs, flaring nostrils, eyes go cross-eyed, a particular giggle, etc.) when the woman has a real orgasm they will keep going until they see those signals that tell him he succeeded in giving the woman pleasure.
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Yes, it is possible. Just as for men, female orgasms can be very different and their intensity can vary a lot too. Some can be really draining. Then again, it can be a nice excuse to avoid sex... I think that by observing her reactions you can estimate if her orgasms are really so intense and draining.
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hell yeah you a freak but I gotta agree with you. There is something erotic and sensual about a man cumming on me. Anywhere as long as I can see his face when he does it. But don't go telling no man that because then he will look at you like you hoor. So even if you like it keep it to yourself and play the good girl role. That advice is for free.
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Oh yes it can happen for sure.It is the result of a super intense orgasm.\nLOL Georgio you da luv stud hehehe
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It might feel unusual but you are one of many women with a healthy sex drive. Testosterone, although a male hormone, is present in women (in varying levels) and you might have higher levels without exhibiting some of the more obvious effects (such as increased body hair, aggressive/competitive behaviour etc.). Chances are this is not an excess male hormone thing. If it was it should not detract from your femininity. Many young women have high sex drives like (or exceeding) yours. The trick is to manage what are perfectly normal urges and channel the energy (gym, outdoor activity, painting etc.). Otherwise, it is not perverted to buy sex toys or masturbate to relieve the tension. Good luck!
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It depends on if she orgasmed or not if she climaxed it is the same feeling as a guy relaxed, destressed, if she didnt she is thinking that was it what about me!!! Yo dude get it back up I'm not done!!!
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No. Not every person feels the same during orgasm. I don't know how you feel during orgasm... but I feel different at different times. It is always pleasent... but sometimes it is Great... and sometimes it is Greater... Thankfully I have hit the Greatest many times.  The person you are having an orgasm with plays an important part in just how Great you feel!!!
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What is an orgasm?\nIn 1953 a well-known therapist defined it as "an explosive discharge of neuromuscular tension". There are other definitions, but the word 'tension' comes up in most. Which suggests that when you have sex you deliberately wind yourself up just so that you can experience the pleasure of returning to normal afterwards. Bizarre!\n\nWhat happens in the body?\nThe technical stuff that creates all this tension is pretty amazing. \n\nYour heart pumps faster and your breathing gets heavier to fuel those tensing muscles.\nHormones such as endorphins and oxytocin are pumped round your brain and body, telling you this is fun.\nBlood is pumped to your genitals to create the tension that will ultimately trigger a pudendal reflex (muscular spasm of the genitals).\nThat reflex will result in your pelvic-floor muscles contracting between five and 15 times at 0.8-second intervals. This is an orgasm as we know it.\nA wandering neural pathway that bypasses the spine has recently been discovered, explaining why some paraplegics say they can experience orgasms.\nWhat an orgasm isn't\nAn orgasm should never be the objective of sex. You can have a great time with a partner, feeling aroused, sensual, intimate and loving, and not have an orgasm. Yes, it's fun - but unless you're trying to get pregnant it shouldn't be your primary goal.\n\nYou can't make someone have an orgasm. What you can do, besides physically stimulating your partner, is create a safe, comfortable and caring environment for them in which an orgasm might happen. \n\nOrgasm is not limited to the genitals; some people can experience orgasm without their genitals being touched. Some people describe the sensation as a "tingle"; for others the feelings go all over the body.\n\nFaking it\nWhy do some people - male and female - fake orgasms? Maybe because we tend to see orgasm as the signal to stop sex. If, for some reason, your mind or body doesn't fancy an orgasm you could be at it forever.\n\nMost people who fake it do so to please their partner. They feel they're letting them down if they don't make it. Instead of pretending, try and create a relationship where, if you're not in the mood or you've lost the momentum, you can say so honestly. \n\nQuality not quantity\nWe tend to make a huge fuss about orgasms in our society. Most articles about enhancing your sex life focus on improving orgasms or having more of them. But the intensity of an orgasm is not an indication of sexual satisfaction. If you want a good orgasm, you can do it yourself. If you want a satisfying sexual relationship, you'll need a lot more. \n\nIn psychosexual therapy, people are told about the 2-6-2 rule. Out of every ten times you have sex, the chances are that twice it'll be fantastic and mind-blowing, and the earth will move; six times it'll be nice but nothing special; and twice you'll wish you hadn't bothered.
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This is very true.. especially since I have never experienced an orgasm..  I find that even though I have never climaxed in my life( by the way I have been sexually active since the age of 18 and I am 22) I still enjoy sex. I enjoy the emotional connection I feel with the person rather than physical. Don't get me wrong I enjoy the physical aspect. But what truly makes me feel satisfied is the feeling of oneness with the person I am sharing my body with.
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The feeling of approaching an orgasm is different for each male and is extremely difficult to describe. Certain muscles contract and your brain releases certain hormones, but other than that the feeling is individual (this question is akin to a guy asking a woman how painful childbirth is; there's no way an individual can measure another individual's pain or other physical feelings)
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There is a way. It is a secret you learn from experience. You see orgasm is a physical thing with men. But women are a little bit more tricky its a mind and body thing both have to be on the same page. Try on top if you are waiting for him you will be sixty by the time you orgasm. On top you can accomplish clitoral and cervical stimulation by a rocking back and forth motion you will have to determine how slow or fast. but again I say you have to be mentally motivated. Good Luck.
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Not as much of a reaction. Sex appeal isn't as physical for females as it is for males. I become very self-conscious and a little nervous, my heart starts beating faster, and my voice gets a little shaky. I've only met maybe five or six people in my entire life who were so attractive that I had any sort of sexual reaction when I first met them.
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LMAO that is cute. \n\nI love it when women are able to shock men.They are so disgusting and expect us to be all prim and proper all the time. What about when we dont feel like it???\n\nHahahaha thanks for the laugh!!!
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yes very very normal...........................just one qsn though, how can u be sure she has orgasms
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The intensity of a woman's orgasm has more to do with her head ie state of mind then with any physical manipulation.  If she is able to relax and is "open" to the idea (of using a vibrator) most likely she'll have the orgasm.
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You will definitely know when it happens. It's not a metaphor to say it's like an explosion. That's exactly what it feels like, an explosion of pleasure. There is no mistaking it.\n\nI know it's irritating to hear people say that, but it's like asking "what does a sneeze feel like." How else would you describe that than saying "you'll know when it happens, it's like an explosion." Actually, sneezes ARE very similar to orgasms.\n\nAs for biological signs: your vagina will contract and spasm, you'll feel a sudden release and you may get goose bumps.\n\nTry more self-exploration. The water stream from a detachable shower head, or from the facet on your bath are good places to start.