Well, I have a crush on this guy and he told me he loved me thru his text. He texted me for weeks and then one day it stopped. He likes to surprise me, by covering my eyes and asking "who is this?" and at one time he hugged me (does he even really mean it? *sigh*). We've known each other for almost 2 years. When he looks at me, I couldn't even look back at him. Argh, what is wrong with me? I just want to ask if he really loves me or he's just giving me false hopes... I hope someone could give me a decent answer.
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nope- he doesn't know what he wants and he's too immature it sounds like- I went through the same thing.  Boys can turn on and off emotions in a pinch- (think about a situation where they should be crying, but aren't!  They can control their emotions- even love- better than we can) maybe he had a crush on you at one point, but he's just playing you now
598439
Has he told you that he loves you? If he has, then he is probably patiently waiting for you to express your love for him, so he really won't care how you do it, as long as you're authentic. If he hasn't then he's most likely too shy and is wondering how you feel about him...
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Perhaps he likes you, but something prevent his feelings to be revealed. Actually, I've faced sth similer to what happen to you. I decided to leave and to start my life away of him. And I'm sure if he interested in me, he'll try at least to call and say hello!!!
457950
What u say , i feel scared of . Because in chat our identity is false, age , everything is false. How can u depent on that. But may be he likes u. Join the chat room today and ask him through instant message"does he loves u or not" , if yes then move forward with ur relationship. And if not then just forget it out . I think this will be the best way of nowing ur answer. Thanks for sharing ur question and seeing it with my veiw. In future i would like to see more of u . Take care.
553100
If you really like this guy, maybe you should ask him how he feels. Lots of guys find it difficult to confess how they feel. He may like you quite alot, but has personal reasons as to why he can't admit to it. Maybe he is going through rough times at home or is starting to question his sexuality. This is not uncommon, if you like him, be there for him as a friend until you feel confident to ask him if he likes you. As for the text message, maybe he's freaked out because he didn't know you liked him? Take your time and don't cling to him-good luck!
425344
you guys like each other..............dont worry...go ahead and text him ONCE.....he'll respond when he can.\n\n\ngood luck
350328
You probably don't want to hear this but...I don't think he loves you, I think he likes you and he was probably horny. If I was you I would just keep him as a friend and start dating other people and leave my options open. Good luck.
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Without you giving the whole story I can only take a shot at this one...If you broke up with him and he is still texting you, then he is in denial. He must still have feelings for you and thinks that there is still a good chance that you will want him back. When it actually starts to hit him, that you have moved on, then he may start to get more intense with these types of intrusions...just be aware that some guys get a bit nuts in this situation and that it sounds like that could be starting...he will either just give up or kick it up a notch...Now, if he was the one that broke it off...he is just trying to lay the groundwork for getting you back...But from the way you wrote your question that doesn't really seem to be the case. I just thought I would throw that in there too.\n\nNow you added details...So I guess that I was right in throwing that last little bit. So here is what you aught to do...You should act a little pissed off that he is still "bothering" you and that you just want to be left alone in order to move on. Tell him that it was hard enough when he broke it off, but now you just need some space to set yourself right and move on and with these constant reminders, you can't do so...If he is really wanting you back (and seems to me that he does), this will put the ball back into play. He should then go from there and say that he just can't stop thinking of you and really wants you back...If that is the case, and you end up taking him back, then you really need to get down to the bottom of why he broke it off in the first place. There is obviously something that you two didn't get out in the open earlier and if it doesn't get out there, then you guys would be doomed from the start of this new start...
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He like you and you like him.. to easy. Why would a guy pay so much money on text messaging. Why would he text you instead of your friend? He seem to be only pay attention to you. He like you but he seem to be like taking his time to get to know you also giving to sometime get to know who he is.\nYou dreaming about him. maybe from his text messaging too much and it get to you head. jk.. sound like you are also checking him out too.. you also like him but wasn't sure if you really like him to be more than friend. So by dreaming about him show that you want to know what it would be like if you are with him.. If it is deep though so you might not think about it. It is what in your heart not in your head.\nSo girl.. Keep it up.. i think this relationship might go futher than just friend. who know maybe he might be the one. YOu never know until you two move futher from being just friend.
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You have only talked to this guy once. More importantly, he has only talked to you once. There is no way you have feelings for this guy. There is also no way he has any for you. It sounds like an act of desparation to me. If you must continue to talk to this guy, take it VERRRRRRRRRY Slowly, and for god's sake, be careful!!
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you called him and didnt leave a message,now that is not good. leave a message. then he really wont have no excuse. if he dont get back to you, forget him. i know its hard when you like someone, but i know you would be saying the same thing to me if i had your prob. leave a message saying how great the other nite was and how you are looking forward to his cal. gud luck. x
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it can mean two things; one) that the person may actually have some feelings for you but is unsure of his feelings and can't make up his mind as to proceed forward or not\nsecond) that the person actually likes you and is scared or afraid to speak to you regarding the same (for fear of rejection or getting a black eye ) \n\neither way, you are at the receiving end and there is no sure shot way to find out whether he truly likes you.\n\nmy personal opinion is that if he likes you he will tell you about it himself and if he doesn't, he doesn't deserve the unnecessary attention from you.
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He obviosly likes you. I mean if you can really trust the people who are telling you that he likes you than you  should beleave them. I'm a guy and what he said to you doesn't suprise me. If he really likes you he is not going to openly tell you. Im in this situation myself. I know that if the girl I like ever asked me if I like her I would say no even if I really did like her. The reason why is because I don't know if she likes me back. He is probably wondering the same thing about you. I think you should flirt a little or maybe hint to him that you like him. He might be afraid of rejection. If he knows that you like him he would have nothing to worry about.\n\nP.S. When a Guy makes fun of you and acts like a jerk around you he likes you. If thats the case than you should ask him out. Remember never send a messenger, they never work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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hey....dude......this guy did something like that to me once. he would stare and compliment me and stuff.he started being nice to my friends because he liked me. for a while he was all i tlked about and i thought i was in love. no love isnt something like that you need to get to know this person before u think of love.
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This guy has:\n\n1) "Been Chasing me for ages and ages (even when i was in a serious relationship)" - shows persistency, and also means that you are not just a fling or a crush for him.\n2) "He Always compliments me and makes conversation with me" - could be that's he's trying to get points, or that he simply is a nice guy. find out if he also compliments other women/people. about the conversation, it shows that you guys have chemistry.\n3) "i always catch him looking at me" - and he always catches you... :)\n4) "he doesnt flirt with any other girls" - now, i don't know you so  i could not say how you found this out, or if you are just supposing it. it ccould b that he does when you are not around, as well as that he could really be a no flirt type of guy (good :))\n\nBUT:\n\n1) "he only texts me at the weekends to meet him out" - maybe he is busy/ maybe he thinks YOU are busy/ maybe he is "busy", if you know what i mean (another person...)\n2) "he asked how im enjoying he single life (as if just come out of a 5 year relationship 8 months ago). I said i was enjoying it!" - now, you are, but why do you wonder if he likes you? :)\n3) "He said he wishes he could meet some like me (when i was in my previous relationship)" - it could be that he considers you a good friend and a good person. depending on your relationship, you are the best judge of the meaning of this sentence. he could be cueing you to think you are the right person for him, but it could also mean a sincere compliment.\n\nDoes he like me?Any advice?\nit seems he does, but again, YOU are the best judge for that :)\nit seems to me that YES he does.
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Oh, this just SMACKS of "his feelings being hurt".\nSOMEBODY had to have said something to him such as :you said something bad about him.  OR, he has a crush on you and someone,(maybe even you),lead him to believe that you are attracted to another guy or had sex with another guy.\n\nHE IS EXIBITING ALL THE SIGNS OF BEING HURT!!!\n\nTRUST ME ON THIS ONE!  I've seen THIS movie so many times, I lost COUNT!\n\nAsk him what's bothering him and keep pursuing him for the answer.  He'll want you to, so he can keep saying "nothing 87 times.\n\nThen he will tell you.\n\nOH! the suspense is killing me.  You are going to be surprised.\n\nHe likes you more than you THOUGHT!
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Well... If he was happy to hear from u, and u guys talked for an hour... then maybe he wasn't avoiding you. When u finally talked to him, did you says anything about trying to reach him before? It is kinda weird that he finally answered when u called from a different phone. This is brutally honest, but maybe he was caught off guard when he answered his phone and u were on the other line, so he just decided to talk to u because that would've been obvious if he just hung up when he knew it was u? Did that make sense? lol. I think you should just forget about the dude. If you guys have been flirting for 6 months, and nothing has happened, then he probably isn't as interested as u r! Who knows... just trying to help ya out!\n\n-Eli