ok i have 2 best friends a guy and a girl.....they are dating each other.....they have been together for like 2 months and when ever shes around he acts normal but if its jus me and him he always trys to pull my shirt down or flirt with me and he acts like he like me but only when shes not around,i dO NOT FEEL THAT WAY ABOUT HIM I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS And it gets my boyfriend mad a nd me,how do i tell him to stop and how can you tell if he does like me....and if he does do i stop being his friend?
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OK don't stop being his freind because that will make him like you more, ok. talk to him face to face. say you need to stop doing this. or i will tell your GRIL friend. i had to do that one time. it worked for me\n\n\n*giggles*
343476
I was in a similar situation with the guy that I'm with now, only we didn't go to the same school.  We were best of friends for a year and stuff then he started going out with my best friend.  They broke up and it was really hard on my best friend so I told her that I would never go out with him.  Yes, as foolish as it may seem, I had an amazing amount of feelings for him.  But I played along and said, "Haha, yes, we're like brother and sister."\n\nWell, long story short, we got past that [so I thought] and we started going out.  Then, he just randomly comes along one day and says "It's akward because we used to be like brother and sister." etc.  So, that ended, we were still friends and now we're "together" again, I suppose, though not exclusive.\n\nSee, boys are undecisive and it may take some time for them to realize their true feelings for you.  I think you are blessed to have such a good friend but, hon, you can't MAKE him like you.  Just be who you are, and that's what he loves you for, is being you.  Just give it time and maybe someday, he will like you in the way you like him.  If you really like him, you shouldn't tell him, so you don't make it akward between you two.  But, if the time comes along when you just can't take it and you NEED to tell him, do so.  But in the right way.  Just cherish what you have with him, because it's better than nothing.
577874
Your gonna have to talk to your best friend. He's going to have to convince her that your ok, I mean if he likes you and they're in a relationship then she shouldnt have a problem either. She's Probably just a BIATCH.\nI had that problem too. Except My friends girlfriend tried to kick my ass later. ShE had a TaZeR (ouch) =( But eventually she got over it and I got wit her friend We still going out right now.\n\nBut gewd luck wit dat anyway yo
542661
This is a very tough situation, so please handle it with care.  First thing is, does he have a girlfriend, or something that he is currently seeing?  If he does, please do not make a move because it could jeopardize your friendship completely.  Second, you say you haven't spent a lot of time together until a few months ago, why is that, if you have known him for years?  I think if you are seeing more of him recently, you should just try subtle hints and see how he reacts... ie touching his arms more, flirting a little.  If the subtle hints do not work, you can just try being honest with him.  If he is your best guy friend, he will appreciate your honesty, and will respect you for it.
499160
Listen girl...\n\nthe majority of relationships that happen.. the majority are brought together because people are best friends...\ni mean, best friends do get together in some cases.. right? you agree with me... so you know..\n\nmaybe your man is best friends with his Ex.. and they still feel that brotherly - sisterly connection... then there's nothing you can do about it... \n\nbut just.. don't worry about it... all you can do is just trust him.. and besides... since he goes out with his ex... why not take advantage of that.. and go out with some of your guy friends... use it as a sort of an excuse.. "You go out with your ex... why not i go out with my guy-friends"\nI know it's childish, but hey! you can have fun that way...\n\nand i'm sure your b/f has fun with his ex...\nno girl.. not that kind of fun.. lol...\n\ntake care
405438
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years..and it was the same with us! He was doing the same thing, which is why when we finally got together, people thought he was using me but he wasn't! It's just that guys don't want the world knowing their business. It's easier for them to keep stuff in unlike us girls who have to talk to their best friend about it or other peeps, ya know? I think he likes you. Keep persuing it. Don't give up, you can lose an great opportunity! Good luck!!! =D
220164
If u think she likes them more than u why are you best friends with her? also if u know your boyfriend is bad why don't u get rid of him? In fact get rid of them both and you'll probably feel a lot better!x
478632
You have the same problem that I had. That's not a bad thing, though. If you want to catch a specific guy's attention, just make the first move. I think they act that way because either they're afraid of loosing your friendship if you don't like them as boyfriends or you're not their girl I guess! Take a risk by flirting with the guy you like and see what happens. Maybe you'll be seeing yourself with a new boyfriend instead of another boy friend. Good luck!
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Giggles,giggles, giggles!!!!\nWhat's up?\nAre you still trying to figure out what to do about dude?\nLook let's just look at it this way, okay If he dissed you once because of a female (that was there before you, might I add)\nWhat's to stop him from trying to do it again?\nNow you know I do not lie to you right?\nLet me tell you the low-down on guys, If you let a guy get away with something once they will do it again, just because they can and they know you will put up with it.\nNow If you KNOW FOR A FACT that you & him will not get into some serious type relationship and it's cool that HE knows that you are not avaiable to him  and the same goes for you as well then I would say go for the "THE HOMIE" thing, just do not get confused on the terms of what "HOMIE" means.\nAre we talking about "Homie-Lover-Friend"\nIf so It will get very complaicated before the summer ends, and you know what I am talking about right?\nPlease Giggles just remember he do have a girlfriend, and like I told you before do not be surpised if there may be more than one girlfriend okay?\nAnd always think like this:     "How would I feel if MY boyfriend was seeing a chick on the side"\nLet me know how it turns out okay?
95325
well first of all you guys are all friends right.. think about how you would feel if one of your best friends dated your crush, sure you wouldnt say anything because they are your friends but inside you'd be hurt.. do you want her to feel like that? she needs to ask him how he feels, and get it all out in the open. if not someone's going to get hurt and it's never going to get resolved!!
608728
I understand that you are merely trying to protect your bestfriend and make him realize that she's not the right girl for him .... i guess he would be protecting her because he's in love with his girlfriend.  Maybe she was being mean to you because she's jealous about your relationship with her man. Hey, that's human nature... she probably sees you as a threat.  Just let them be, maybe someday he will realize all these .... and mind you, these things don't usually last .... give them a few months :)
298408
Please continue to be his friend.  Relationships that start out as friends always last.  Since your friend now has a girlfriend, you should "take the high road" and quietly stand on the sidelines where their relationship is concerned.  If you "butt in", you will only cause confusion and discord, and may ultimately end up losing him as a friend.  Should their relationship break-up in the future, you will still have him as a friend and perhaps then your relationship with him will turn into something more.  Have a lovely rest of the day.
51033
If he loves you then why would he date your Best Friend? And if she is your best friend, why is she dating the guy you love? Sounds like they have a sensitivity chip missing...get away from both of them
338749
Sounds like he likes you.  Maybe he is thinking to himself, why did I let her go ??  The only way to get rid of the feeling is to not see him all the time but now that your bf is friends with him that will be hard.
63985
Yes, you need to talk to him about how you feel.  Admit that you've tried to be ok with his friendship with this person but as much as you try you really aren't ok with it.  Your suposed to be his best friend now, not her and if your uncomfortable with the relationship he has with her he should be willing and want to end it in order not to ruin what you two have.
466188
Ok so he flirts with you but he is dating someone else. I'm sorry but this guy may be sweet and all that but he sounds like a player. A guy who is with someone else shouldn't be flirting with someone else. That's just not approiacate. next time he flirts with you, you just need to tell him he needs to stop because he is dating your friend and it's not right.
532416
i think you should just ask your friends about it first i mean ait`s not your boyfriend`s fault. tell them how you feel, and ask them what would they do if it`s happening to them. i mean they won`t get it until they`re in someone else`s shoes. if they`re your friend then they would respect you and your boyfriend and lay off him. good luck ! =]