my brother got married on Sat. and i was in the wedding. at the reception i met this guy named Vern and he was really sweet and we danced and he would sing the songs in my ear. then his friends kept trying to get me to give Vern my number and i wanted to but i just broke up with my bf of 3 years just 3 weeks ago. so i didn't give him my # and he seemed fine with it and he gave me a hug and left. later i gave his cousin my number so she could give it to Vern but i don't know if she did and i don't have any way to get a hold of either one of them. should i try to find a way to get his # or what? help me!
202637
Well, yes you should definately try to get his number if you really liked him. Maybe surprise him by calling him up. I am sure he is waiting to get in touch with you too.
538304
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
584905
Well, I went back & read your other questions. You got a lot of answers telling you to just move on. This is just my opinion but YOU HAVE TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART.\n\nI don't think that you need to find someone else right now, that would just be a rebound relationship. I imagine your ex-bf is in jail in Toledo. I think you need to sit back & wait, if you stay in contact with him & then after court he is going to look to you to help pay his fine. Did he mention why he was arrested?? Because if he is still in jail how did he text you? He may be telling you everything that he knows you want to hear but on the other hand he might have had a rude awakening when he got arrested and realized what he has lost and now he wants you back. Just please don't go out & do the revenge thing & have a one night stand with someone>>& you don't have to have s3x for it to be a one night stand<<. You need to give yourself time, but if he asks you for money then he is trying to play you for a fool. Go to the library & check newspapers for the past few weeks to see who has been arrested. You may find out that your boyfriend is still close by, that could be a reason why he deleted his families numbers because he knew you would call & they would tell you that they haven't heard from him. Men can be very tricky when it comes to getting what they want. Take heed & you will be the one planting the seed.
397370
Its kind of like losing the best friend you never had. I don't like dating, so i kind of know where your coming from. I get very nervous when im around any guy taht i like. But just because he moved away, doesn't mean you let him go. The next time you see him, you might want to have one of your friends get his number, email, myspace. anything that could be away for you to keep in touch with him. Friends is always a good step to being something more. So try this out and see if it works.
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yes i would.  but think of this.. my best friend and i have been bf since the early 80's when we were in elementary adn we told each other back then we would be each others bridesmaids... but here is what happened. they are still  your bf but sometimes they get new people in their life, but still have you as a bf but felt like they wanted someone else in their wedding party.. so, when my bf got married 3 years ago, she used someone she went to college with ad then i just got married and i used my lil cousin.. ;P  so dont be offended, just be happy that she chose you.. :D  either way you want to wish her a very happy marriage to her and her fiance. :)
70458
Follow you heart. You've talked with this guy for a couple weeks already. You should have some idea how important this relationship means to you. If you are ready to taking it to the next step, call him up, give yourself a chance, let him knows how you feel about him. you won't get kill from that.\nThe reason I would say this to you, cause you're sending me a message that you're care about him. There is nothing wrong with sentimental.
10458
YES, YES, YES!! It is more than worth the wait. It's better to wait, than not to wait and regret it. What you have is very precious. You can only give it away once. Let it be to your husband. He will appreciate that you guarded something just for him. It's the most loving thing you can do for your future. There's just so many reasons to guard what you have. Many will tell you it's no big deal...because they already gave theirs away. It IS a big deal. Take it from one who gave it away at 18 and regretted it very much later. Even though my hubby forgave me for the loose life I had led before we got married, I still have all those memories of wasting myself on jerks and idiots. All they wanted was a good time. All I wanted was someone to love me. The guy I married? He's the only one who didn't want to use me like that. He wanted more than a one night stand. Don't think that passing up those guys was a mistake, especially if they didn't want to get to know you as a person without getting the perks first. You just continue guarding what you have. I'm sure there's a guy out there who will appreciate it very much...with a wedding ring. <*)))><
44157
Don't get engaged the minute he steps off the place, tell him that you want to be with him for one month after he arrives.  (He will be a little different than the man you know and love)  After two weeks, reevaluate whether or not he is the one for you.  This gives you two weeks before he pounces on you with his question so be ready.  As for the sister, ask for specifics, maybe she knows something about him that she hasn't told you for fear of hurting you and losing you.
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I think part of you knows you are making a mistake.  If you didn't feel this way, you would want to share the good news with your family.  You wouldn't be worried about their reaction.  Slow down a little bit.  Get to know this guy better.  Finish school if you haven't already.  You have all the time in the world ahead of you.  One month is not enough time to get to know someone.  Marriage takes so much more than just the feeling of love.  Believe it or not, the infatuation you are feeling now will fade and when it does, you will find out if your love is deep enough to sustain  throughout life's challenges.  There's no way you can know that yet.
409216
Sounds like you were really excited to have him come to your party.  Too excited.  Too much pressure.  It sounds like he took your number to placate you.\n\nLet it go.
329091
If his cousin is in love with you, has the cousin tried to talk to you and tell you about it? \n\nDon't feel stupid, because YOU ARE NOT!! As a learning tool, just remember to never give up chances to make someone else happy. Always do what makes you happy and what will benefit you. \n\nGet over this guy and when the right time comes along, the you will meet up with the right guy. \n\nI am sorry you didn't get to go to your prom. You should have went anyway by yourself. You may have had a better time going alone than with a date. Lots of girls are doing the solo thing now.
650620
ok have you asked the twin that wrote her nuber down out yet??? u choose me best for that qestion but then post this one im gettin a bit confuzed, if they're just trying to confuze you then just go along with it BUT ASK THE TWIN OUT!!! (twin that wrote her number)
86540
hmmmmmmmm sounds like you are pretty young still, there is plenty of time for you and plenty of boys out there.You should not be greiving over one boy....but to answer your question,  I would think that if he liked you enough, he would've told you that he is moving and he would've given you his address and if he had a new phone # he would have given it to you or even his e mail if he had one. \n\nIF you really absolutely have to get a hold of him and you know his OLD address, write a letter to that old address and the post office will forward it to the new address, the family should've given the post office that new address so that their mail could be forwarded. I  would maybe ask around and see if anyone knows where he went and stuff\n\nReally, just calm down, yeah I know it's difficult, but I think you are probably still pretty young, in that case, you have plenty of time. \n\nHang in there, okay? ;)
568821
I met my fiance 3 months ago the nite before i moved out of my husbands house to another state.  I continued my moved.  He visited me the next week.  We talked on the phone.  He moved me back 1 month later.  We are so in love and are planning our wedding in Aruba.  All things are possible.
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I'm in agreement with Floweringsun. You know his last name, as well as where he lives right? Look up his number, and even if you have to call 20 people with the same last name, you WILL eventually find him and get to talk to him. If you don't try, then you will find yourself holding a bag of "what if's". Even if just as a friend, it is worth the slight trouble. I have done the same to find a friend that lived in a different state all together! It IS worth it. As for words, just tell him that you are not one to take a backseat and not know how to find someone you want to find. Be the private investigator, and do your research. lol  Good luck!!
616508
if he gave u his number, he didn't give it to ya so u wouldn't call him, and he wouldn't give u his # if he thought u where annoying so go for it ^.^ good luck~~
193321
be front about it, if its to hard, try it over the phone instead of in person. or be romantic about it. my current boyfriend started things up with me by asking me to prom. in each class that i went to during the course of the day, he left an envelope with some cut up pieces of paper. at the end of the day, i put the pieces of paper together, and it turns out it was a puzzle, which read "will you go to prom with me?" and on the envelope it said to meet him at a certain time, so i did, with my own envelope with a puzzled 'yes' in it. it was really sweet.