how do you yo still know your still in love wiith the person you have been wiht sometimes jus feel like i dont care if i do stuff or not and i would never leave him i have been with him for 11 months today
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you know that your still in love, if you can't stop thinking of him Or that you like him too much and be jealous or angry if any girl try to bother him while your getting something
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U still think of him/her almost everyday, u like to remember the good and bad moments spent together, u take his/her name often, u want to email, chat or sms (short message service) him/her. U often ask the question: how would been my life if I was still with him/her. And when u asking other people 'how do you knwo if you're still in love'.
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hey, leave it out guys he wrote "in love" he's distinguishing between saying he loves her and being "in love". so u say she's great and u must be feeling the butterflies in your tummy and everything.. i know that feeling, i'm still feeling it after six months and loving every minute of it..and i'm glad i took the risk...i wanted to bail at the start because i had been burned badly in the past and was afraid of the really strong feelings i was feeling..afraid of being hurt again\nbut there's no fun without the risk...and there's never a guarantee\n\ntake the chance, enjoy your time with her, if she's as great as u say she is then she won't treat u as a doormat and take advantage of u, love is a two way street... she'll be thrilled to have found a partner who's not afraid to show his feelings!\n\nand it'll work out...\n\nand if it doesn't be glad of the time u had together, of the feelings u felt.. i never thought that i'd be able to open up and let someone in.. but i could and i did and it was the best thing i ever did..\n\ncut the girl some slack, sounds like she's worth it...enjoy the time and good luck :)
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I've never stopped loving anyone I've been in love with.\n\nThat said, some relationships just are not healthy. I just left one 10 months ago, even though I was in love with them and they were in love with me.\n\nIt has been extremely hard dealing with. I still have to be around them at the dojo, which makes it much worse.\n\nTime does make things better. I can now talk pleasantly with one of them. The other may too, someday.\n\nIt still hurts, but not as much as it did. I still would like to go back to them, but the reasons I left haven't changed.\n\nSo I just deal with it, day by day.
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you should look for someone else unless you know for sure that you still love him
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It's only been two weeks.  I know it's cliched, but give it time, devote yourself to other things and spend more time with your friends and family.  Eventually, you'll see that you made the right decision and remember why you broke up with him in the first place.  If, in three or four months, you still feel the same way, you need to re-examine the entire situation.  Hopefully, by them you'll have someone that either is or potentially is a better fit for you.
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You should feel special and irreplaceable, but it will take some time, are you sure you want to stay with him, ask your self is me and my b/f headed down that marriage path? if the answer is no, than why are you with him? your wasting your time, if the answer is yes, get some counseling together, and work things out, fight for your relationship (not the girls he was txt'ing) but work hard, and it will blossom, it will take some time, are you willing to put in that time?
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you sound almost like a mirror image of me but i'm at the 3 month stage and i don't know if he's with somone else, the other difference is he said to me that he wants to work things out i haven't seen mine in 20 days and yes im counting. the best advice hang in there, me personally i would tell him how much of a many swearwords he is for hurting me and how could he get with somone else so soon. but as i said hang in there im now ruling my own life but it is hard moving ahead without the one you love. Be Good!
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it takes time because it always seem you can never forget but if you are in love you will look over it.good luck and remember you need time to get over the hurt!
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You're in love.. that's good. Why question yourself of your feelings? Enjoy that love. :)
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Ah...this is an age-old question. Not an easy answer on this either. Does he feel the same way about you? Would you be willing to give up all that you have to be with him, knowing you can't go back if things fall apart? I know I'm not answering your question but giving you more questions. This is something you have to follow in your heart.
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If you still love him,tell him the true. Do not make the same mistake I made. I'm been married for seven years, but I still feeling something for my ex-boyfriend. I know isn't love,but maybe butterflies in my stomach. That is strange or not?
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Think about the stress he's going to be under. He will see a lot of things he wished he wouldn't and do things that might stay with him forever. God forbid, but he might get wounded or worse.\n\nI really think you should ask him if he wants to take the lead in this. Would he like to stay in contact with you? Would he understand your feelings of confusion?\n\nSince you aren't in love yet, it seems like you should see how it goes. He might be over there a year before he comes back, and he might or might not have changed in ways neither of you can predict.\n\nI guess the main thing is to establish how you are going to stay in contact, and above all promise that you will be honest with each other in your communications.\n\nGood luck to both of you.
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A year is a long time.  Now you make your decision.  Either go straight up to him and tell him how you feel, or move on.  You shouldn't dwindle on this any longer.
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Talk it over and be frank about how you're feeling. I do hope you don't talk like you spell. It could be disatrous!!!\n7 months is too short to get so hooked on a guy! God made plenty to go around girl.. get a grip and move on if you are feeling unstable but dont let it hamper all of your other relationships.
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It sounds like it could be love to me...\nIn my experience love is always enduring.  There's been girls I've felt incredible about and had a great time with, but it wears off anywhere between 6 weeks and 6 months.  Of course everyone is different, and I don't know how long you've been dating, but if you still feel this way after 10 or 12 months I'd say it's most likely love.  You'll be able to look past all of her weird little issues and accept them and love her anyway, and you won't be able to imagine life without her.\nIf you've been dating her less than 4-5 months, then it's still possible that this feeling could wear-off.  I know I wouldn't feel right planning on marriage before having known her at least 1 year.  A lot can develop/change in the first year, for better or for worse.  Good Luck!
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Hi, I think the only way to really know is to look into your heart and go with what you are feeling.  If you cant trust your partner then maybe you shouldnt be with that person.  I know its hard, but until they give you a reason NOT to trust them, try to trust their word.  Its miserable when you dont trust your partner, so just believe they have been faithful until you find out differently.  You might find that they have been faithful all along.  Good luck to ya, Debi