that i'm trying to control his family,and that i called to his house telling them off.and i have no idea of what he is talking about. Know he says hes not shure of me and that he cant trust me any more.(by the way hes loked up).
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Hi\n\n    I know this is not what you may want to hear, first of all you said your boyfriend is locked up. He should be happy that you are even sticking by his side while being locked up because as far as I can see what can he do for you while he is locked up. On the other hand if you really love him and want to stick by him totally understandable that is a choice only you can make. I would I advice you to just talk to him and tell him how he makes you feel when he accuse you of things that are not true. If he understands then great if not I would say this realationship is maybe not for you if trust can not be found. I hope I helped!
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his friends were probably just messing around.  i know my friends sometimes call my house and say weird stuff but if you are unsure its best to just go and ask him instead of letting it getr in the way of a relationship.
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Whats next? Think about it! If for one moment he thinks he's losing control of you an attempt on your life could follow. Happens every day. Good Luck.
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He has some serious problems with control. I would think if this is the way I wanted to live. He has no right to tell you that you can't do something. He is your husband not anything else. K
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That is just inviting problems, deception and breaking trust in your family unit. He has some serious issues and needs some counselling. I would never accept it. No wonder he isn't getting any love from his family, they don't trust or respect him.
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tell him he shouldn't try controlling you, because if he does, it'll push you farther away from him. there is no reason why anyone should be allowed to control another person.
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yes...he will get the hint sooner of later. if not just snd him a voice mail and tell him you are not intersted and to have a nice life. you dont owe him an explaination. hope it works out
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I don't know you or your mom but has she said this about any of your other boyfriends?  I didn't believe it and lived to regret not taking the advice of people who really did care for me.  Looking back now I see what I couldn't see then.  Controlling someone else is usually very subtle.  Be careful and always know that your mom will be there if needed.  No matter what he may tell you.  Good luck.
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Sounds like someone got a hold of him and told him something nasty about you.  You might to want to set the record straight.
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Hey bax, its kind of a mess here at the house right now. Ricky is acting up.  He's saying that I'm giving him the cold shoulder. It been 2 months and he barely noticed it.   Same as usual, he sleeps in a different room and ignores me most of the time. hell,what can I do, even if i insist there's nothing. Those are just a few updates. heheh. that's it.  so how are you?, hope to see you again. i got my license. i can drive well now so we can go out if we wanted to, that's good news right? take care always. luv yu!
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Oh what a tangled web we weave when we first deceive...\n\nLeave well enough alone for now... in time an explanation may be needed...if he wants one.\nIn the meantime, GROWN UP lest you want the boomerang effect to happen to you.\n\nWhat goes around.....comes around
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from what you say you only danced with him a few times and he got your name and number and you did not give it to him. and now he comes to your house you did not say wether or not you gave him your address or if he found that to. and now he wants to marry you. Well let me tell you he is a physco. i bet you realised that already. i went to pay my electric bill i called on the phone and started talking to the man that was on the other end. we ended up starting to talk outside of his company. he lived in another state. one day he got on a plane came to my home and said he wanted to get married. i did not no what to say because i thought stalker. within two days a call came in and it was from his daughter that did not no where he went to and did not no who i was. the story finally ends when i found out he has been wanted for 10 years and in 3 different states and i worked closely with them to capture him. now he is in prison. what i am saying to you is you do not no him. why all of a sudden do you think he would become that attatched to you. you need not to worry about his feelings because you need to worry about yourself. you do not no what he really has in store for you. and i would make it clear that he is not to cantact you again and that is it. you do not need to explain anything to him. this is not your problem it is his. if he does call you again then take the steps that you told him you would. be firm and good luck
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It sounds like he isnt very mature- you should talk to your mom and let you know how you feel. It is possible he twisted the story to make himself look better and that isnt right. I cant really say because one of my ex's used to do the same thing and my mother would never side with him unless she heard my side first. I'm her daughter and she wouldnt betray me like that. I think they both have issues. Talk to her.
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I would'nt worry too much if i was you even though i know you're heartbroken i bet you any money he'll be back begging for forgiveness from you very soon.I agree with the rest that he's being controlled by his family it's pathetic just look at it as a blessing in disguise that thankfully you learned his true nature this early on: that he's a spineless toe-rag.Now you can look forward to meeting a real man with a bit of backbone who will appreciate and love you and treat you as you should be treated.Goodluck hun.
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someone made up some story about you. they probabely told him that you dont like him or something. Or said that you told him that he is a pain or some ridiculous thing like that. and if you ask him he will just say, "you know exactly why im not talking to you" right??
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well what you did was not easy  i too have done it but it want just your life that is suffering the life everyone thought they had is now turned up side down and the easiest way out is to blame you. I am so sorry this happen to you  but good for you that you  are not the victim anymore and your family will come around in time but the words we say be it what you say to them or what they say to you will remain as the biggest scar\nyou keep living your live with your head held high and dont think for a minute it was your fault. i would like to have contact information with you so i can discuss this farther i can really help .I will keep you in prayer and your family. i dont know if they will let me post it but it is JLSJSTEPHENS@YAHOO>COM
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well I would move out cause It'll get worse, before it get better,if he thinks you stole his money,then he does'nt think much of you. sorry that your going through that, I hope it gets better for you, stay strong.