i feel like guys dont know me and they think of me as the ugly girl  in the class. there is this one boy that i like and he knows that i like him and all and he is the only boy that kind of talks to me. but i dont get it if he knows i like him why does he just not ask me out i ask my best friend and we think that he is scared cuz my dad works with his dad but idk some help
202453
Your time will come,I see many UGLY girls get guys and I am sure you are not that ugly after all, it's just how you see yourself at this time. Trust me, you will find the one somday,
169510
well noone has answered and im a girl but i will answer anyways! I would feel like they didnt like me. You'd better call him just say hi and bye short and sweet so he knows ur thinking about him.
466962
ok well i am in 10th grade so hopefully i have some good advice.  the guy thinks he is a big shot because he is in high school. he also prob thinks hes cute or something and knows you think hes cute since you smiled and glared at him. he prob noticed it then when he was with his friends he wanted to act like a big shot because a girl smiled and glared at him. so he wanted to seem popular around his buds. and you are right he was just trying to get a reaction out of you. guys are just like that, as you get older you'll learn that all they want is a girls attention and when they do get her attention they feel like they are all that so they will obiously brag about it. think if some hott guy glared at you and smiled at you, wouldnt you go and tell your best friends? thats exactly what he did. hope it all works out for you, good luck in school!
510070
boys aren't that smart, and they are terrified of being rejected. you need to walk up to him and strike up a conversation. be sure to take it slow, start off by going out with him in a group setting. that's probably the best way to get to know him. and remember if you come on too strong he is going to be thinking of sex and nothing else.
666652
He's flattered that you like him. It boosts his self-esteem. Sounds to me like he's got a lower confindence level than you realize. He probably cares alot about what the popular kids in school think about him? You may not realize, but he really does care.\nSounds to me like he likes you but is afraid of what the other kids will think if he goes out with you. He's just too young to realize right now. But, hey, he wants to be your friend. Be his friend!\nThat's how the greatest, longest-lasting relationships start out. Don't fawn over him, just chill w/ him. Be buds! They love that.
458418
Take a deep breath, it will all be fine, if he's not interested big deal. He's not going to walk around telling everyone you asked him out and he turned you down. You know what my personal moto is- Glory to the brave. When ever I want to ask out a girl or approach a girl and I start to fear rejection I say to myself Glory to the Brave and do it. I've got rejected before, but in a few days you'll never remember and I've also gone out with some beautiful girls, and that wouldn't have happened if I didn't have the balls to make a move
399413
First off...there isn't anything wrong with you. It's the boys that ur talking to. Their either too stupid to realize how awesome you are or their really really shy. Just act comfortable, flirt and get to know them...I'm sure they'll like you. You'll know if the boy likes you if he always makes an effort to talk to you or stops everything he's doing just to talk to you or if he always hugs you and only you. If ur really popular then I guess ur not shy...u just need to be able to talk more around boys...but don't talk to too many boys...they'll start to think that ur a big flirt and just wanna...ya know...so just do those things and I'm sure you'll find an awesome guy.
367440
it is not true that no one likes you, as u say you feel more confident when your friends are around.  i quess that makes you like able because u have friends.  perhaps you feel uncomfortable on your own  i presume u are young because u go  to school.  just going to school can be distressful and your age is stressful because you are just learning about yourself.  being free and happy comes with a price, and the price is self confidence.  learn to like yourself, and understand your limitations, and that u are a important person.  learn also to accept some of the things u don't like about yourself, and if possible work on these things u don't like about yourself  being more content and self confident in yourself will make u feel more free and happy.  u may see a lot of things u don't like about yourself, and feel, that the guys are not interested in you, because they can see these negative things about you.  that might not be true, it sounds like your must feel negative about yourself, and it may show in your interactions.  don't be too hard on yourself, nobody is perfect.  if u feel more confident about yourself, and have a sense of humor, that may attract more boysl   \ngood luck, hope this helps, and take care of yourself, a new hairdo or a consultation with a beautician can go a long ways
514078
I know just what you mean.  I really don't know how to explain any of this because when I was in school there was this girl that really did like me but she would never asked me how to say anything to me.  She was really shy but very pretty after several years I found out that she really did like me a lot.  I wish I would have knew this or she would have told me because I wouldn't love to go out with her.  Maybe the best thing that you can do is try to find out whether or not this guy is at all interested in her.  If he is maybe you should drop the few hints around and maybe he will get the idea that it is okay for him to ask her out.  Some guys are really intimidated when girls come on to them.  Try to find how he feels and try to get him to make the first move.  Good luck
261388
omg of course he likes you! If he didnt y would he even be im'ing u so much. Hes probably found out that u guys hav so much in common with each other. Y not try to plan on hanging out with him or something. If u dont get too atleast when u start school again try to talking to him more and stuf not just on the pc. But if u like this try to keep chatting wit him so he'll get to know u more. And believe me your lucky cuz most gurls cant even talk to there crushes!
479404
Try and spend more time getting to know yourself. What makes you happy. Be comfortable with yourself, school is one big popularity contest, don't buy into it. Spend more time making yourself happy than worrying about guys. It's not who you love, but who loves you.
404135
How do you know if he likes you or not? Did you ask him? He's got a reason for starring at you, and I DON'T think it's because he dislikes you.\nWhen you play volleyball, try to hit the ball where he is, near him when the ball comes his way. Pretend to accidently trip on him to get his attention, then after class, if he is alone say youre sorry, you were just trying to make a good play.\nStart off like that, see if you can't get a conversation going, maybe about your teacher, or something In English class like some really hard homework you have. That will give you something in common, try and get him to laugh. Act relaxed around him, and funny, don't act shy. Boy's like confident girls. GOOD LUCK!\n\nDont just come out and ask him if he likes you! That's a mistake, usually. A boy feels confronted then, and gets nervous, and he might say something back to you that might be insulting, just because he's nervous, and thinking you might make fun of him. it puts him in an awkward position, on the spot, dont do that!
545351
It sounds like he likes you especially if he's doing all that staring. He may be to shy or maybe he doesn't have a conversation starter. Just talk to him as a friend at first, don't be too flirty. Talk to him about general stuff going on at school, a hard test, music, movies or TV shows. He will be comfortable with stuff like that and then you can move on later. And if there's any kind of party going on casually invite him. Hope this helps.
307016
Sounds to me like you suffer from low self esteem.  You don't think you're good enough for other people to like you, so you are worried that they won't.  You are so obsessed with what they think of you, that you aren't even paying attention to them.  So, they probably won't like you...no one likes to be ignored when they are talking, which will only make your problem worse.\n\nIf you want to get comfortable with someone, you have to get to know them.  The best way to do this is to get them talking about themselves.   Listen to what they say.  Respond to them.\n\nNerves can be bad, but there is no magic pill that will fix what your problem is.  Only practice can help.  Don't worry about what the other person thinks about you. The worse that can happen is they won't be interested and you move on.  Try not to pressure yourself and try to relax and be yourself.  Girls aren't looking for un-nervous guys, we're looking for guys that pay attention to us.
36275
well lady diana, i personally think the guy is just scared to talk to you.  I mean, if he stalks you, maybe he wants to ask you out but isn't sure how to say it. so he follows you while thinking of ways to approach you.  Anyways, i think that you should take a shot at it. ask him out. you never know what would happen. Live Life to the Fullest
300396
Unfortunately, guys that age aren't very good at expressing their feelings due to the amount of pressure imposed on them by their mates. If you have a school party or something your going to ask him if he'll go with you? Be confident. Do you have his number or email address? Txt or email him - not as embarrasing! I wouldn't rely on how he acts when he's with his mates, get him when he's alone.
600716
He sounds very confused and juvenile. This actually takes me back to the days of 5th grade....Maybe he thinks that you're attractive but doesn't value you as a person. Maybe he's trying to "tease" you but is coming off as mean. Guys can be stupid when they try to show a girl that they like her. Don't waste your time worrying about him -- he's not worth the brain cells.