There is this girl at my school i want to get know. I know nothing about her. Never even talked to her before. Soo... How should i approach her or get her attention. If i can get her attention then ill be able to tell if she's interested. I just dont know any good ideas to get her to notice me. So what should i do?
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It's all about attitude and societal-appearance. Girls can feel your "aura of confidence", and are extremely attracted to it. What you need is an "I'd f*** me" attitude. Just say that to yourself under your breathe all day long. \n\nAnd you'll need a running-krew; a group of friends that you ride the city with. One needs to be black...and give him a classic black-guy name like "South Central" or "The Chronic Bubonic". Then the girl can see you chillin' with "the guys", talking on your cell phone like "Yo, South Central, where you at, dawg?! You got the shipment? Cool. Yeah, we need to hit up the club tonight and push pebbles. Let's get our nuts on the concrete and let's roll". \n\nYou don't have to act or dress ghetto. Girls are confused/intrigued if you dress nicely, but also have a "street-life" atmosphere about you. And by "nicely" I don't mean "hollister/AE". You need to dress professional. Khakis and a button down shirt. She'll think you're a drug dealer or something. And she'll "feel" you're "I'd f*** me" overconfidence level. \n\nThen, after a couple weeks to a month, you can come in with some small talk about something...a class, a show, something. But you gotta be LAID-BACK and smooth. Keep your confidence. Keep a light grin, and scan the area with your eyes forbodingly like you're worried about the police coming. And make overly sarcastic/politcally-incorrect remarks whenever you get the chance.\n\nThen you got it.
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If you really like this girl, just be cool. Don't act like your desperate. Try not be too interested in her right now; if she likes you (and that's important too), then she will respond eventually. In the mean time, try looking at another girl. Who knows...You might end up with two at the same time. That's when you come back here and ask another question about that. Got it?
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You should instant message him (it's a lot easier than saying it to his face, where you might blush) and say- Hi. Um... I noticed you were staring at me the other day in math class (Or what ever class it was). I was just wondering if you liked me... It might be a stupid idea, but it has worked for me in the past!
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You don't have to change yourself to get a guy to notice you. Find out if he's interested in anything you are. Then work up a conversation from there. This last school year my friends and I  were anything but popular. Then just days after school ended I was at my friends house (yes the ones that are unpopular)  when we invited a really popular guy to go to the park with us. We had tons of fun and stayed out till after cerfew. It was easy to talk to him when I just took the time to.
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Do you think she would be surprised to know you like her?  If you know her well enough to strike up a conversation with her, start one.  Then swing it around to asking her out.  If you don't know her well enough to just talk to her, get started getting to know her.  Ask her out later.
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Perhaps if you found out what this girl is interested in, you could talk to her about it and recieve longer answers from her. Do you know any of her friends? They could probably help you to get to know her better.
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start things off as friends... but flirt a little. just act cool, and if you need to, act shy so they'll talk to you. or be outgoing and happy! just be yourself... then ask one of them out. if that doesn't work, DON'T immediately ask the next girl you're interested in! if none of that works, just show them your avitar (it's cute lol)
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The key is to just talk to her...you don't have to spill your guts to her right away.  You will be able to tell if she is interested in you or not pretty quickly and if she is the rest will fall into place.  The hardest part is just saying hi.  Start a casual conversation and hopefully that will turn into a lunch together...maybe some phone calls after school...etc...Good Luck
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1st thing you have to make some eye contact with her\n2nd Slowly by slowly she'll recognize and maybe she'll do the same with you\n3rd After she knows your presence, you should do more attractive body language to get her attention\n4th You can go to the next step to get to know her more by talking\n\nGood luck
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Use your friend. Go out with him somewhere when you know she will be there. Or ask him about her, what are her hobbies, where does she like to hang out? Try and see her outside of school, then you can "run into" her and start up a convo. This will make you closer and maybe soon enough the two of you will be more than greeting each other in the halls!\n\nAnd by the way, if she punches you in the hall, it looks like she is flirting with you. So maybe she likes you too! Go for it!
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I'm a girl, and If i was interested in a guy, which i am right now, I'll look at him with a somewhat "I like you look." and i'll keep on looking, i won't just glance and look away like i would do with someone else, but i wouldn't look at him for too long. I would also smile at him and say hi and try to start a conversation with him. But if this girl just started being nicer, she just might have changer her attitude towards people, or just you, she may like you! Just look for those signs I mentioned earlier, and GOOD LUCK!
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Introduce yourself to her and start off with some small chat... let it go naturally from there.  Be yourself and have some confidence... i look for guys that are sincere, honest, funny, cute, can make me smile, a good listener...the usual basic stuff every girl wants.
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How old is she? You sound kind of young, and if she's young it might be that her parents don't like guys calling her. So that could be why she didn't give you her number. Other than that, do you see her and are you able to talk to her on a regular basis? (at school, etc. ?) If so, you might ask her if she'd be interested in going out again sometime.  Sorry to say it, but it sounds like you are just another guy hitting on her, but that's not a bad thing. Don't let that discourage you. Just keep trying unless she straight up says she doesn't want to talk to you. In the meantime, you still have plenty of time to impress her and let her get to know you. Just be yourself and don't put on an act or a show for her. BTW, you do get points for not looking down while talking to her. Every girl notices taht (weather you do or not) so you're already ahead of the game. Best of luck ;)
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Well, if you REALLY like her...\n\n>DO NOT be shy! Girls think you are a wimp, especially if they're popular. Just suck it up, man.\n\n>When she talks to you, about ANYTHING, it leaces you an opening. I find that the best way is to find funny things to say and jump around to different subjects.\n\n>You mentioned her close friend. Stroke of luck right there. Either you can downright ask her about the girl you like (not recommended), or manipulate (in a good way) her to a conversation about her friend.\n\nBottom line: Just become friends with her. Don't wait to long, and don't jump right in, but find the perfect balance of time (Gee, I sound like a buddhist monk here.).
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You don't! But, if she totally ignores you and doesn't even look at you even though you tried several times to bump into her in the hallway and loan her your pen, it could be possible that she is not interested. Other times, she could be so obsessed with you, too, that she can't think of a single decent thing to say when she's around you. Basically, she becomes tongue tied. So, if some girl doesn't do anything but stare at you (I don't mean the dirty look kind.) but she's caught talking someone else's head off, possibly she's really outgoing around everyone but you. Which, could also mean she likes you. Which, is very confusing. But, hey, girls are way mysterious. Right? Who's arguing...lol
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talk to her. her friends were being a bunch of b!tches. does she ever talk to you like in the halls or during class? she smiled at you, that's always a good sign. well i hope i helped! good luck!
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I am exactly like that.  I study a lot, am very shy girl.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I would probably be appauled if some random guy who I thought didn't know me asked me out.  I want someone to act like they care about me, but not in a creepy way.  A lot of the time shy people tend to be lonely, but not always.  GET TO KNOW HER.  I REPEAT, GET TO KNOW HER.!!!!