I've got a date tomorrow afternoon--at noon with a girl I met online through a popular dating site. We spoke once last night and over the course of the conversation, she asked me out. The conversation pretty much ended with her saying, "Great, I'll see you then, lookin' forward to it." Should I call her tonight just to say hi and make sure things are still on? Is that being pushy, polite or\n un-neccessary? I'm still a little nervous talking with her so I'm wondering if it's better to wait till we meet. However, regardless of whether I'm nervous, should I or shouldn't I call her?
202671
Call her to confirm the date . . . that is it.\n\nWhile you are on the date . . . make sure you get separate checks . . because if she is independent like she says she is . . . she should be willing to pay for her own meal.  If she objects . . . tell her that you are respecting her independence and since you asked me out . . . the asker is responsible for the entire bill . . . and I would rather pay my own way.
83591
I think you need to know all the medical facts before asking this girl out.  If she has questions she wants answered it won't look too good, if you don't know the answers yourself.  You're right though, you don't want to get involved with someone and then go, "Hey, guess what?!" Just in case they freak.  No need to mention it on the first date, but second date for sure.
206970
Call her. If she gave you her number, it means that she expects that you can call her. Go for it dude!!
105872
Up to you!  My roomie says that if a guy doesn't call her back the very next day then he's not willing to give her the attention she wants- and she forgets about him.  I've known other people who said never call the next day or you'll seem desparate!  Most guys like to wait between 2 and 4 days, just to look 'cool'.  Guys who wait longer than that have either lost or -thrown away- your phone number.  Call him up!  Find out why he hasn't called you!  Don't just sit around waiting on a guy.  That's soooo 1958.\n;)
438420
If I were you I'd leave it until you hear from her. If you haven't heard anything from her by Sunday night. Then I'd send her a text just saying hello and how are you. If however you still haven't heard from her by Wednesday, then I'd leave it all together.\n\nHowever just because you haven't heard from her yet, it doesn't mean that she doesn't like you, maybe she had lost her phone, or her battery isn't charged etc you never know what could have happened. However if you still haven't heard from her a week later, move on
9970
I don't see anything wrong if a girl walks by and just says hi. Walking up to a guy saying hi and stopping as if you're waiting for an answer from him may be a harder way to go about it. I suggest if you want to introduce yourself to him, the walk by and saying hi, will not show desperation. But don't walk too fast or too far away because he may want to talk to you. It will apear that you are friendly and that you are can be approached or approachable.  acting or showing an approachable image around men in public wil invite them easily to you, and it does'nt show that you are too forward or anything like that. It just shows that you are allowing men to approach you. I never approach women who look unapproachable. Who would?
666783
Well, she did give you a heads up that she would be busy this weekend. I'm sure this is question requiring a sensible answer from a female. But what i would think is wait till after the weekend and maybe just one more day. If no reply, two possibilities, a)She's REALLY busy b)Something's wrong between you two. Face things as they come and dont get paranoid. And ease up on the emails and texts.
540028
Some questions to ponder: Is she already involved with someone else? Was it totally her idea to hang out today, or did you make a suggestion first? How long did you see each other when you ran into her at first? Hmmm. I say wait a week and give it one more try. There are numerous possiblitlies, and hard to second guess. She may have actually had some situation arise, needing to be somewhere else, or she simply wanted options and was leaving herself something to do in case whatever did not happen.....It is really impossible to know, if you are interested don't contact her for a week see if she calls you if not call. If it all goes the same way again - forget it.
347413
Don't try to plan conversation......just go with it.\n\nMy one suggestion......pay for the date!
488493
You were waiting for her call???  What was stopping you from calling her? DUMMY!\nNow she's invited you for a date and you're thinking of brushing her off???  Idiot!!!\nDon't you get it? She's taken the initiative by calling you, since you were too busy trying to figure her ways.\nNow, go with her, before you blow your second chance!!!
183026
all the way doesn't seem much like a date as it does a rompfest.  \n\nIf there's dinner, dancing or movie and kissing and talking I see that being an awesome date.  \n\nAnd if both parties feel comfortable "going all the way" then I guess all the better.  But please I hope you don't feel like you have to do it just to make the date good.  Cause the date can be incredible without it going that route.
629858
wow, calm it down turbo.\n\nwhat if her voicemail isn't working? what if she had a crazy week and couldn't call you back?\n\nleave a message with the date plans and tell her you can't wait to see her then.\n\ndon't be a spaz and overthink it too much.
431764
Good Call But You May Want To Phrase It Different.\nLike Say " I Just Wanted To Let You Know That I Like You And I Was Wondering If You Wanted To Go Out" You know or something like that because u say im just putting it out there then she might just say ok and walk away and things will never be the same with u two.\nBUT GOOD LUCK\n<3 Lauren
232791
I can say that making the first move is never a bad descision I actually like it when the girl makes the first move despite tradition. Call him one more time or text him or whatever form of communication you chose. Then if he doesn't call you back don't cal lhim back if he waits a long time to call you back and then all of a sudden wants to go out again say you found someone else. Not alwase subtle but it gets the job done.
69030
what's 7 hr. drive if this turns out to b something really special??? why get your buddy in the middle? give it a few days and then call her...send a cute card..just to say"HELLO"..if its meant to be then where ther's a will, there's a way..best of luck to ya!!!
52017
It depends on how the date ends.\n\nIf you have a LOT of fun you may say "hey we should do this again sometime" and go on from there.\n\nAnything less than that either wait a while before you make another date or if the date is a disaster move on unless you want to give it another shot.
516533
He probably means call him tomorrow, saying "call me" and meaning "go away" is more of a girl thing...guys usually mean it. It's kind of tricky because traditionally the guy is supposed to make the call but in this modern, freaky world calling a woman might get you labeled a stalker or something lol.