I want to fine out if he is for real or someone out to get money from me.
199143
if he is not willing to give you his name, business address, and telephone number, it's almost guaranteed to be a scam. the other guarantee is if they promise a lot but insist on payment first. almost all "legitimate" businesses will show you everything you should expect before they accept any money from you.
189463
Look for some dirt on this guy.  It's there.  Trust me.
421621
If you mean he fast talks them out of things, that's one thing. If it's an actual swindle, that's something quite different -- and something quite illegal. If you are sure of your facts, you can report him, either to the police and/or the better business bureau, but it's hard to make a charge stand if the people he swindles are happy about it. How does he manage that?
511778
what exactly do you want me to do..Is this a scam?
550633
Sounds like he is using you now.  Before you cut him out of your life, get your money and ipod back!
554727
Talk to him if he's a good guy he'll listen, take a risk if you have to, the worst thing that can happen is he'll say no or if you want to be sly about it have a friend or pay off one of his to do some undercover work for you!
379889
YOU ARE ABOUT TO GET SCAMMED!! .. if you don't know who this is that is supposedly sending you money then watch out..looks like this person is trying to get your bank account info..
18908
yes give him his money back u cant take his money for nothing.
322351
sure send me your bank details and I'll just transfer my life savings for you to look after\n\n\nyou sound so convincing and honest I'm just going to pinch myself and see if you're real!!!
604108
try contacting someone their and find out.
415777
well you simply dont ship it until you receive funds, make sure its through paypal. dont accept a cashier or bank check, they look real and can fool the banks as well until weeks later when they retract your funds. Just get a shipping confirmation, when the item is delivered he will have to sign for it, its only a few dollars, and well worth it
537083
There is one an only way to get your money or part of it back. In a very innocent way ask him to sell to you something valuable he owns, like a laptop or TV set. Tell him that you need this item and that you would pay him in a few days, (it is incredible but this kind of people almost always believe that) and do not pay him until he pays you.  I had done it many, times and believe me, it works.
368002
ask somebody at ebay or paypal.
113975
It's shady alright.  Report him to the tax or labour authorities.
252595
then tell him to mail it to you, IF they say there is a "processing fee" tell them to go fucj themselves.\n\nIf they do mail it to you, deposit, and WAIT until the check actually clears your account.\n\nThe other option is to call the police in the area code and ask them if they are aware of this company, also the Better Business Bureau.
552308
If I were you I would delve a little deeper into the money withdrawal thing. Could be he got all confrontational to throw you off the scent. Find out if that's the case then if you want to forgive him be prayerful and patient and God will help you forgive him. But remember this... Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.
633956
Report him to the dating service you are using. This is a well known scam. They use the Nigeria scam on other sites as well. No one should ever send money to people they meet on the internet! I listed one of the many sites that explain these scams. Good luck and Be careful