Listening to others makes my stuff so insignificant,I forget about being depressed and pissed off!
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I came across your comment....\nI have a gurlfreind who stays in stockton, I live in sac. We hardly have tme to speak anymore but I love my baby to death. I just hate the fact that we dont get that much time with each other. She's in high school and i'm in Med School.. what can i do?
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good thankyou, i like listening to other peoples problems cause it makes my problems look small, thankyou for taking an interested in how other people are feeling so im going to ask how you are
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Overwhelm yourself with friends. \nI get over things like that when I hang out with one person or a group of people that NEVER make me feel bad. \nAlso pick one person to cry on. Don't conseal it completely or you'll explode!
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Your situation is just like mine ..thats why i always think that those who are descent or qite get the most criticizm ..today was a really bad day and it bothered me really badly when i heard hat girl talking crap loudly about me ..i just carry on and go to talk to those who are good or nice because theres got to be somebody who's nice even so if they are two faced noobody is perfect jake...always try to have a good time and dont care about such situations coz you will be finding yourself loosing alot of time thinking about those who buggs you off ...just be you and dont get too much offended by people and those who dont like it ..Screw Them !!!\n\n\n\nhope i helped
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first of all you need to stop comparing urself to other ppl....no two persons are alike,remember that, take some time out by yourself and seach ur heart...ask urself ,what has happened to you in the past which may influence you to feel this way,because sometimes things happens to us which affects our entire view of ourselves,and untill wefirst deal with those issues we will be forever trapped within ourself. take my advice....get out of your house...take a long walk..listen to some music...take it slow...u dont have to judge yourself by the characteristics of others..in doing so ,you are ignoring your very own unique characteristics.we are all beautiful sweetheart......never put yourself down ..,
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The only thing it solves is the problem of taking the energy and initiative to look for mature and humane ways to deal with one another. I mean, if I can put somebody in a little box, I don't have to look at him or her as an individual. I can then continue you be mentally lazy and blame others for my own bad feelings. I feel just the same way you do; we ought to just get on with it and wish each other well.
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YES !! I completely understand you . Like i'm in high school and the way some poeple treat each other just sickens me . So what , you're a little different, but when it all comes down to nothing, we're all the same without our little peppy clothes or stupid jock attitudes. Deep inside when we're not with our friends who require us to act a certain way or expect us to act or be a certain way towards others WE ARE ALL THE SAME !!We're all human who deserve to be treated with respect, integrity, loyalty ! ....humans, who deserve and want joy, interaction, friendship, love ! that's all we want , if everyone was provided with all the love and great emotions in the world that we all want, i think that WOULD  make the world more peaceful . It's about time someone realized it AND said something about it . Sheesh !!!!!! ok that's all i had to say, sorry for the lecture . ! lol
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Yea..unfortunately i know exactly how you feel. I think most people feel this way at one point or another. It's a terribly easy slump to get into, but now that you are fed up with it start making some changes. Start practicing saying no to people sometimes and giving yourself a littlle time for yourself. It's hard to be a good friend or partner to anyone if your all used up. Unfortunately though it's easy to get into a pattern of just saying ok and going with everyone else's flow! Think of things you enjoy doing and set aside some time to do them... it will go a long way in helping you get back some energy and re-centering yourself. Good Luck and lotsa luv!
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You are basically a good chap. What is wrong with you is you are short tempered. You have to control your anger which can be done by minimising your expectations from others. Secondly, remember that this world is imperfect and to expect your degree of perfection in others conduct is unrealistic. You yourself introspect and discover how imperfect you are. The more you look within and try to take some correctional measures, within no time you will be liked by others; and you will start loving yourself. People do not remember how nice you have been to them but once you are uncouth in your treatment towards others, they never forget and hence never forgive.
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oh i feel so sorry for you.\nFirst, blinking your eye once is a while is good but can be annoying.Try and tell your close friends about this and ask them to talk to you about life and the near future.That should keep you busy.You should get over it.Troy and build up a will power where slowly you'll see resluts.Talk to people.Be heard.Express Yourslef!\nI hope my theory works! That is all i can do to help!
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There are a few things going on here.  One is that you question your self-worth and the value of your ideas after you have defended them.  Another is that you most likely hate confrontation or "getting into it" with another person.  You value their opinions, but sometimes you just WISH they'd stop and LISTEN to yours also.  Having to almost force someone to listen gets old.  Another thing could possibly be your afraid they really are mad at you and now think less of you and your friendship, when all they need is a small break to think about things.  Its rare to lose a true friend over a silly argument, and in the long run most arguments are just that.  Try to realize that you are JUST AS VALUABLE AND WORTHWHILE, SMART AND KIND as anyone else.  You have every right to contribute your thoughts and ideas, on the other hand, is what their saying really making any sense and do you really want to be a part of it? lol\n\nEither way, good luck!  I suggest you keep a journal of your positive thoughts for each day.  No negative ones, just those that inspire you, and make your life have direction.  Those things that give you ideas, hobbies, etc., when you get depressed you can thumb through this and find hope.  Perhaps even start a collage or something positive just for yourself.  \n\nJust remember your life is really about to begin and when you start school and/or work; you will need to put up with alot of distractions, if necessary consult a doctor for something for anxiety (which is what it sounds like you have) and see if that helps.  If you still feel bad after the first 30 days, return to see if he can upgrade your prescription.
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I regret not telling the people around me how much they mean to me.
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I found that KEEPING YOUR SELF BUSY doing ANYTHING  helped me out alot. That and being around friends and family, cuz itd be the  WORST when i was by myself cuz all i did was think and remember the way things USED to be, or id notice that EVERYTHING reminded me of that person in some stupid way....lol. But just know that things really do take time to get better....and the more time that passes by, the EASIER it gets. GOOD LUCK! :-)
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i really don't give a flying F*ck what people think of me and you should't either!
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talk to her. Let her know that you feel unappreciated. Sometimes people get so wrapped up in their lives, that the little things are overseen.
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Hay, your far too good looking to do something like that!\nfind someone to talk to, mayb your hanging out with the wrong people. i don't kno what say cos i don't kno you, but i'm depressed too and sometimes you feel like that.\n\ndon't people keep telling you it'll be alright? i you just think "shut up, you don't kno wut yor talking about", \nthe only advice i can give is to try take things a step at a time,take a break from your stressful life, see a professional, it will be better with abit of time,
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I only get grumpy after i remember i have to go to work. =(