and also how can you tell the diffrence between love lust and infatuaiton
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you'll get nervous when you are close to him...
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all above have told you what you already know  and I agree with most.\n\nto that I add\n\n\n\nIt does not seem like you have any clue what love is.\n \nyou seem to be in lust.\n\nLove is respect honor when you are really in love all others are not seen like that any longer.\n\nSeems you still have not found true love.\n\nI pray you will know it and be loved too.
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I can't tell you the answer. But I can say that you look at each, and make sure which one has the best qualities. When you choose, you have to live with the choice you make. I hope you fin d true love as I have, and don't let it go for nothing.....  Also please look at my question.... I need someone's help tooooo.....
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In love or obsessed. Good luck
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When you have an infatuation , you think you're in love . \nWhen you're in love , you don't know that you are , till it's too late .
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you both share some thing in common thats why you have attracted each other but one should remember lust and desire.One cannot help who they fall for because it depends on the frequency you are vibrating on because we attract the people we are on the same frequency with so we can teach each other and hopfully comfort each other.
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Loveing someone is a lot different than being in love with someone. loveing someone is like you care about them and would never hurt them. but being in love with someone makes you have a sparkle in your eye when you look at them and when they look at you and wanting to be with them all the time. but dont confuse that with infatuation. people who have been marries 50 years can love eachother a lot but they cant always be in love with eachother. Its takes a lot to stay in love with someone for such a long time but you'll love them unconditionally.
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You choose to continue loving them.  The feelings of love (normally lust) will diminish and you are left with this person who is not what you thought they were now that you can see them without your blinders.  At this point, you choose to continue loving the person by over looking the annoying habits and doing things you know pleases them.  Find their (and your) love language.  It makes a huge difference!  Check out the love language book at your local library.
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Looks like love.\nMaybe love is an obsession or obsessions come from love or none or both but it is you who know exactly what's going on so if you think it's love it's love.
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I think you're in the "In Lust" stage of falling in love.
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see when u r in love u know it, u wont ask urself is it love or jst crush,don go on askin people coz its n ans from ur soul not from people.it is not tht the person u love has to be good lookin n charmin,if tht is wat u r lookin for then u r not in love. u dont think day n night about the person but u care for tht person tht is love,no matter the distance u wil stil b in contact wid tht person tht is love, no matter wat happens u stil believe in tht person,wen tht person is around u u feel secured tht is love according to me.n the moment u feel u love tht person tht is perfectly the right moment u shud tel the person delays wil lead to complications.
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i think it might be very rare to actually fall in love at first sight but it can happen. now, if you see someone and all you think about is "wow, they must be great in bed" that would definitly be lust. but if you feel like you really want to get to know them then yes, i would say it was love. only because that has happened to me. when i first saw my boyfriend (we both met at church) i totally knew that i cared for him. but caring is not the same as love. but it did turn into that. so it is a long process, sure there was attraction but also a deep mutal respect and care for that person as well. sorry if this is confusing but love is sometimes a confusing thing.
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neither. the first is just mutuality and the second is just infatuation. love is the most comfortable place under the sun. you always want to be with that person and never wanna lose them. your tongue doesn't tie anymore because you feel you can say anything at any time. the words i love you just comes naturally and you cant picture your life without that person. its not that feeling you felt when you just started going out any more, its way more that, you're in love with that person, but much more than that at the same time. when you are willing to do anything for that person to be happy, that's love. not when you'll do anything to impress them or keep them satisfied, but make them really happy. when you look at them and realize that someday they'll be old and saggy but also realizing that then you'll love them even more. when that person is truly the most important person in your life and has become the center of your universe.
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You probably love one and lust for the other.
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Good.u got started on the road to self control. just remember, the main difference between a human and an animals is self control. Lust is caused by a wayward mind. Control it and u have nothing else leftto achieve. Dont be led by the illusion that the feeling will pass away.It may, but only after it has devoured 95 percent of ur life. Dont hallucinate that the desire will go away if u indulge in it. As u may have found by now, the more u act upon it , the more it grows into an obsession. It is like feeding the fire with fuel in the hope that it will eventually die away.\nthere is only one way-control ur mind. dont try to cover ur desires cause they will blow up some other time. Instead destroy them permanently. Take every day individually and try to be good.You will not suceed the first, second , third.... time.But you will suceed finally.the more ur effort, the faster will be ur sucess. THIS IS THE WAY TO COMPLETE FREEDOM. YES. THIS IS THE WAY TO GOD. good luck
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You can look all you want...There is no sin in that. So don't worry about looking. \nWhat you should be worrying about is why you are not that interested anymore; think about it. \nTo answer your question: couples fall in and out of love over the years many times. The secret to a lasting relating is that both persons can not fall out of love at the same time. \nWhat I found out about my relation when It went sour was that I've had changed. I did not notice then. Now looking back; my goals, dreams and needs changed during the course of 5 years or so and what my partner was giving me then was the same that he had given me at the beginning of our relationship.....  There has been a change in your relationship and you need to identify it in order for you to fix it. (Wish you happiness)
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You could be either in love or infatuated with either man. Here are the differences:\n\nLove:\n\nIt can develop after months or years of friendship. Love is unselfish; you think about what you can do for him. Love endures the test of time, and I mean years. Love is complete; you see his faults yet love him anyway.\n\nInfatuation:\n\nIt can develop within weeks, even days. Infatuation is selfish; you think about how good he makes YOU feel. Infatuation can wear off after weeks of companionship. Infatuation is blind; you see him as perfect, and once he falls short, he is not worthy of your affection.\n\nRead these carefully and see which man you feel more in love with based on these criteria. I know you will make the right choice.