If you had fallen in love with someone and they hurt you,and you were'nt with then anymore,adn then you meet someone else,who you cared about and they cared about you back.\nThey were your closest friend,and then you fell for them,but then they moved away,but still wanted to be friend's with you.\nWhat would you do?
217259
be friends.you do not know what will happen down the road
23226
I believe that if you truly love someone you will always love them the only change is the way you love them , if you have remained friends and kept in touch it may be a little hard , because you have gotten used to loving em as just a friend , however if you just run into em one day and start over it wont be if its meant to be . Everything happens for a reason so if the two of you are meant to be together you will . Trust me my first love and I have fallen in and out of love several times over the last 10 years I stopped stressing it when I realized that it will just happen if we are truly meant for eachother !!
559344
Would you do for him what you wouldn't do for anyone else?  Would you go against yourself if he asked you to?  Would he do the same?  Could you walk away, or can you not live without him?  Do you feel for him so much that it hurts?
53638
be patient, i really fell for my best friend once, i told him and he wanted to just be friends, we are still frinds and that's been 14 years ago,back in 2003 i drove over2400 miles to see him and he had a girl friend but i quickly relized he did like me alot and wanted me to stay up there. \n\nthings can change so chin up
19971
personally i agree with you that it is not love , just a fling.\n\ni would move on, but keep in contact with him as friend
221435
Accept the friendship and hope it grows.  Don't force it or you will drive him away.  If you really care for him, you will be okay with just being his friend as long as he is happy.  It may hurt but, if you love and care for him, you want what is best for him = not you.
180538
keep the friendship going.  maybe later down the line he might fall for you, keep him as an option.  until then date someone else until your friend comes around
591648
If you fall in love with someone, you know when your heart pounds when they enter they room. They make you feel jitterey inside. If all of this is true, you really are into true love. I've had experiences when they don't love you back. Be patient.\n\nIf you can't wait to find out, ask them. Think about it. The worst thing they can say is no. After, ask them if you and he can still be friends.\n\nIf someone else loves you, and you don't love them, the oldest thing to say is tell them that you're sorry but you don't love them back, and can you still be friends. Maybe your crush will turn out to be a jerk and you'll always have this guy to give another chance. It could be the perfect romance.
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how long have you been friends??? frankly, it really should be okay because you've moved on, right? unless, your friend is your bestfriend and she knows how you still feel about him, then maybe that's another question...so, maybe you need to ask your friend what is going on...you know, talk to her or something...but if she's not that close, leave it! like i said, you've moved on right? go find someone else better...someone who deserves you... ^_^
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i would move on with someone else, because it seem to me\nthat if you both were interested in taking this to the next level\nit would already happen, it good to have someone that is a true\nfriend, but i would move on sweetheart.
24887
I had to do something like that recently. just sit down and talk about the situation on hand. my truthfully honest Because i know you would want the same thing if they were telling you. Don't forget you did once think they were your friend and maybe they still do think they are. So give that to them.
536793
I can relate to you. I have felt this way before but I have realized that if someone hurts you, then they do not like you in the same light in which you like them. You call this first person as a substitute for being with your soulmate, but no one can really be with someone who has no feelings for them. On top of this, no one can be with someone when they do not feel it 100%. I hope my advice helps you, and I sincerely hope you can get in contact with your soulmate. Best Wishes.
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Let it go.  Let him go.  Your setting yourself up to be hurt.  Don't get in the middle of that situation because it sounds like it's far from over.  He sounds like he has to deal with his issues with her.  He may get back with her or he may not but it doesn't matter he can't give you what you want from him right now.  It's better to continue being friends if you can.\n\nHopefully you can because friendship is so important.
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You might need to do both.  Don't ditch them, but understand that some may ditch you. I know it hurts, but you have to forgive your friends. You can still be around and be their friends. Pray for them and maybe they will come around. If not, let them go, but love them anyway. \n\nI know it's easier said than done.\nBest of luck and many blessings.
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I hope she realizes how lucky she is to have a friend like you.  You cared enough about her to let her go and be happy.  I wish there were more ppl like you out in this world.  take care...
532532
You know I've been in this same situation. It's really hard to deal with if you guys are so close. I just let my friend be and went to hang out with other people. I would call her and invite her places but she always turned me down because she had already made plans with her new man. This went on for about three months. When she called one day I told her. I'm not mad at you anymore but I would like for you to know that what you did really hurt me. We had been friends for five years and this guy comes and now you act like I don't exist. She apologized and we started hanging out again. Some people just get caught up in situations and forget about the feelings of others. You just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in a new relationship you might do the same thing to her. It's something new and right at this time you're just caught up in it. As long as you talk to her and tell her how you feel about it she should make it a point to try and share her time between the two of you. If she just blows you off then she wasn't a good friend to begin with and you'd be better off finding someone who cares about you and what your feelings are. Good luck with it. I hope she comes around.
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A Rebound, NO WAY!!\nToday, so many people "Lust," and think and call that Love!!\nSince so-n-so does it; I should too, that way I won't be lonely, and I will be accepted by my friends...\nIf you don't want to "Rush-In" to "Dating" then Don't!!\nGood things come to those who wait!! It will come for you, and it will be Worth The Wait, for you as well.\nA True Friend, will not want a friend to be hurting, nor will they hurt a friend by pushing them into something that they are not ready for, like "a rebound" with some one else, so their friend is not alone...\nStay True to yourself; and in time you will "Benefit" from it!!\nGood Luck...