This is to all ladies...does it scare you if u hav a bf but d meanwhile u r goin out with other guys and doin anal sex at the meantime?..scare or fun?
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no. have you ever been cheated on??? look at it from ur bf's perspective. plus if you want a meaningful relationship that if one or all of them find out that it is curtains for you. trust is the hardest thing to gain back.
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be up front with the situation to your friend and the guy so there will not be any expectations that you dont feel comfortable with. there is no reason for pressure. if you dont want a bf then dont have one now.
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If you're scared, you need to tell your boyfriend.  It could be your body's way of telling you that you're not ready just yet.  It's okay to be nervous and scared.
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absolutely.  I've had it happen to me on more than one occasion.  they are nervous for one reason or the other.  if he was really into you, then sometimes that's a scary thing for a man, because they want it to be good and therefore get performance anxiety and just can't.  don't worry about it, take it as a compliment.  just gives you something to look forward to the next time.
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I think its really his call on what to do, you're the one in the wrong.  I would be very suspicious about a guy that wants to have a threesome with another guy, in particular a good friend.  Maybe he was using you to get at your guy.
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People accept 2 girls easier because it's apparently sexy...I think people get disgusted by men having intercourse together because they stick their doda's in their poopers....It's funny too because when I was a hetero-sexual, men loved the idea of sticking their doda's in my pooper(I didn't let them), but were all like *ewwwww when male to male pooper pumping was mentioned....I'm sure I am going to get a violation for my answer to this question...altho I don't think I said anything profane at all!!!!!!!!!
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hi there. i think guys like that are fun. my bf pulls a lot of pranks on me and i think theyre funny.. he's a very jokie kinda guy. i think thats very important.. you want someone who you can have fun with cuz life itself is often taken too seriously so just need some time off to have fun. so i'd say having a bf or gf that can take a prank is important!\njust dont over-do it, then they just get annoying (your pranks).\nHave fun and make sure that whatever you do or say doesnt hurt anyone physically but also emotionally! otherwise: joke away ;-)
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My hubby does all the time!  He says it's kinda sweet, and it makes him feel close to me, in a wierd way.  Doesn't bother me at all...kind of a turn-on actually.  If it doesn't bother you, then go for it.
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sex is like the best, but only with your bf.  \nbut fooling around is ok if you dont really know the guy. i guess
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umm sex isn't everything you guys can work on that there is plenty of things that can change that.. but if your thinking about other guys during sex you don't need to be with him ...and if your thinking about your ex with your current bf you dont need him either! take a break and figure things out on your own
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Hey sista! It happened to me and it was quite bad with no sound of music or anything, i felt like the whole world had heard it! I was quite conscious about it for a while and then i gave it a thought....\nDon't we all fart every now and then? so what if it happened at the wrong time for me? if the guy loves being with me, he should reason all this out for himself rather than me giving him some covering explanation.\n\nWe never talked about it but continued with our relationship, after about a year the same thing happened to him and we just laughed like crazy about it.\n\nDon't worry, be yourself. Things will improve on their own. \nDon't try too hard, coz that way it will look more awkward.
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yes , all mean like this it is their dream if you are thinking of doing this  you need to start out small , men aren't patient with this area they just want to rush but a woman can't enjoy this if they rush its like looseing you vignity again but in you butt. why they like it is because it hardcore and all men like butts. so good luck .
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Its normal.... Most guys want this.... I have tried it and have enjoyed it. You should pick somone you are comfortable with. I am straight also but have had a 3sum twice both with 2 of my best friends. Its just exploration and should be fun. It doesnt mean he isnt dedicated to you he is just curious. and its good he came to you about it and explained his fantasy. Just try and find someone you can both agree on that you dont find threatening. Ask him if he has any ideas but make sure you stay in control ;) its better that way
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its not really something you can think about cause then it kinda just ruins it\nbut its not as scary as it sounds i mean yeah of course its not scary. but dont be scared of doing something wrong, take your time and enjoy it yourself\n\ngood luck♥ im sure hell love it
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Are you comfortable with your body.  If you can't feel pleasure by your self, then there won't be any benefit if someone else is there.  This is easy for guys.  All normal guys pleasure their self.  Of course it's way better when a girl that is into them goes to town, but in the end, the guy already knew he could do it.  Apply this thought process in your own way, and you might start having more fun.  Just remember that it is just that.  Having pleasure is fun.
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I'm not sure if i would be in that type of position when I get into a serious relationship (hope so lol) but I would do it if i was with someone I trusted. I like kinky stuff like that anyways, it's not immature, it's fun.
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Don't do it.  It will backfire.\n\nNothing turns me on more than to be with a sexy woman, who flirts a little with other men, but makes sure everyone knows she's with me.