I dont want to be living a bad manner also i want to have a nice house and car and dress nice as well can some one answer me I really need help again??
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Teaching does NOT make money. You will find that teachers living in financial comfort are married to someone making the big income... it's not from the teacher pay. Most people living on a teaching income only, are either single and living modestly, or hold down a second job on nights/weekends/summers.\n\nIf you want to make the best money possible teaching, then be prepared not to have a life... the only extra money directly from teaching is from stipends, such as sports coaching. That's a big time commitment. Even then, you won't make as good a pay as you would with similar levels of training, time on the job, and degrees in business, law, medicine, etc.
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Isn't it nice Einstein. I have had the good fortune to live in nice neighborhoods most of my life also. They are probably very appreciative of the kind and respectable neighbor you have been to them. Everybody likes nice people, you come across as a darn fine one. Just be you, that will be reward enough for your neighbors.
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Don't worry about it.  Live a good life and things will take care of themselves.\n\nMy religion says that all the good people of the earth will have a place in Paradise.  So-----just be a good person.
155523
Yes you can. But where do you plan on living? The streets? Unless your rich (your own money not your parents money) then it wouldn't be a good idea. Cost of living is super high. I'm 25, and I pay monthly for a car and have a decent job and I couldn't even afford to move out from home. Anyways, point is there are ppl I know who were able to move out at a young age, preferably having a roomate or gf and still make it. But that person had a well paying job, dropped out after highschool same w/ his gf so they could work all day and well so what they're living the chillin life, that is what it's all about right? living paycheck to paycheck, spending money only on booze and partying, never being able to travel like other kids. think about it, you may think right now you want nothing more to move out and find yourself changing your mind.
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I think that if you try to live to the best of your ability your live style will speak for itself. Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good work and honor your Father which is in Heaven. You never know when you might be an example to someone. Let people see Jesus in you and that can be your testimony.
556244
Dont dress like a hoe; wear clothes that dont show your stomach and dont wear a short skirt. Be kind and polite, and respect yourself.
67455
so shy,\nI really feel bad for people in your situation.  But fear not, there are a few things you can do.\n1.  Being that you asked this on a religious board, I'm assuming you belong to a church.  The first thing you need to do is talk to your church leader about this.  They can take up a collection for you to get you out of some immediate debt.  \n2.  You need to really decide what is luxury and need and cut out the luxury for now.  For example, if you subscribe to cable, cancel it.  Unless you need the internet for work, cancel it.  There's an extra $50 a month right there.  \n3.  You can see if you qualify for welfare.  Your local welfare office can help you with this.\n\nI hope this helps and God bless you with your finances.
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Most of your peers will be from the same economic background, so you shouldn't have to sweat being from a good family too. Don't worry about it and just be responsible with your spending and stuff. It's okay to come from a good background.
330185
Responsibility shouldn't keep you from being happy. Depending on your native custom, I think you should pursue your own happiness. Do what will make you happy, and keep your family close.
265807
My dear, lighten up on yourself.  You are still young and not responsible for things that you could be.  Imagine yourself, strapped with children, working all day long, having to pay for groceries, rent, gasoline in your car and not making ends meet.  Would you consider that a better life?\n\nTake care of your young life now.  Get out there and explore the library, go to the movies with your friends, roller skate in the park.  These are the things that you should fill your life with right now.
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I'm only 26 but some words of wisdom, live your life to the fullest and trying to make the world a better place. Start this by making your room your temple.  Buy bamboo, fill your room with positive images, encouraging, motivating you to be a better person.  Remember, everything you do is noted.  Law of the universe, 'what goes around, comes around.'   Maybe in this lifetime or another one.  Join any activity you enjoy and when you are able to help someone, do it.  When we give help to someone, it may not mean much to us, but it means the world to them.  Make at least 5 people smile a day.  Ok, I'll stop rambling now!  Be the Best you can be!
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No such thing as too nice.  What you're doing is amazing.  If only more people in the world were like you.  You just keep doing what you need to make yourself and others happy.  Screw what others think.
650621
My word.  That is a lot of people and stress.   Is it possible for you to move into a place away or maybe down the road form your relatives, just to get you out of the chaos?  There are usually places that offer low/reduced rent for fixed incomes.   Maybe your children can do things to help around the house so when you come home you have some peace and don't feel like you have to race around and clean, cook, do laundry etc.  Good luck.
538615
Do you know any other young wives and mothers in the neighborhood? If you do, why not hang out with them. If you don't, then introduce yourself.  Plan outings and fun things to do. You don't have to stay home 24/7. Do something nice for yourself. Do you have family nearby? See if you can get a family member to babysit for a few hours so that you can go out and enjoy yourself, pamper yourself!!!! I hope that things will get better for you. I know what it feels like. Sometimes we are so busy taking care of everybody else that we forget about ourselves.
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only you can answer that. you are the one living your life. what you want to put up with, is your choice, in the end it doesn't matter what anyone thinks but you. I do believe however, there will come a time where you won't put up with crap anymore. I hope that day isn't to far away. There is a saying...ppl treat you the way you let them.
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You just need to rid yourself & your environment of all things bad, drama causing, & disruptive  ie.. mooching roommates, overly controlling, alcoholic, drug addict boyfriends & any other riff raff that might be around. You will eventually get better in a calm collected loving home.\n\ngood luck you need it
571315
don't worry - everything you want to be is ok. its your decision - even though sometimes it get hard if you have people around you who would not accept your lifestyle....