How old were you when u lost your virginity?? do you regret losing it when u did?
206572
14\n\nYes! Yes! Yes! I regret it.  It is sad girls feel they need to have sex with boys to feel loved.  My advice- wait! The older you are the better your decisions will be.
86734
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21. I kept it because I thought it was what God would want me to do. Once I lost it, I almost became a nympho. I felt I had to make up for lost time. All of my friends were out getting laid and partying and now they still think of me as the nerd. You might as well know that one day, sex is going to be a huge part of your life...for the rest of your life so when you feel the time is right, I say go for it. Don't be a slut, but for that person you have feelings for, go for it.
358841
I had sex for the first time when I was 17 and had multiple partners throughout the years.  I am now married and I regret not sharing this special intimate moment with him first.  I admire couples who had waited til marriage.  But when you're young, you don't always think of those things.
312412
Yes, of course. I am willing to wait until I get married. A lot of my friends have lost their virginity two years ago or when we were 14/15/16 and they definitely regretted it. I told them not to but they didn't listen. But I guess it's just that most teenagers just do it to express themselves or release anger/frustration/sadness/whatever and they don't care what they are doing anymore.
569412
Well, I definitely don't think it's uncommon for guys to choose the "wrong" girl. Guys tend to think about the wrong thing when it comes to virginity, which is what they're doing instead of who they're doing it with. To me, it doesn't matter how old you are when you lose it, because it's not a contest. It's all about feeling comfortable with the person you're with and wanting it to be with them. I say to hell with today's standards because there are kids in elementary school these days having sex and getting pregnant - it's ridiculous! But somehow our society would rather have that than being embarrassed by a plethora of 25 year-old virgins.\n\nI never was phased by my peers when it came to my choices. I lost mine at a fairly "normal" age, which was 15, and it also needs to be kept in mind that I am much more mature in my thinking than others that age because of how I grew up with a bunch of brothers who were pretty promiscuous. I knew I wasn't going to do it unless I REALLY felt it was right, and that's exactly what happened. I am glad that I did it, because it helped me learn even more (but in a good way since it was my own content choice). And, I haven't had any other partners since him.\n\nI say, don't have any shame if you lost it at 20 - I actually praise you for that because most guys would have broke down just to be a part of the crowd well before that. But if you wish it was with another girl, just take it as future advice for yourself. You can't change what happened before but you know how to feel about it now, so I think that's what's important. I'd rather be like that than someone who does it with 10 wrong girls.
378575
There are plenty of people your age and beyond who haven't had sexual intercourse. I didn't have intercourse until I was 23. It's nothing to feel bad about just because society might say it's 'different.'\n\nYes, it can be a very beautiful thing between 2 people who love one another, but only if you're ready for it. The worst thing would be to do something you're not ready for just because someone else says you should.\n\nBe true to your own needs, and you won't have to worry about it. I think the fact that I waited instead of giving in to peer pressure, enabled me to enjoy it, where if I hadn't waited, it might've turned out to be something traumatizing that I wouldn't have wanted to do again.\n\nAs far as a therapist, I wouldn't suggest it now unless it's something you can't stop thinking about. After you're not a virgin anymore, see what happens. If you've been doing it for a while and if you still feel really bad, then I'd think about talking with a therapist.\n\nSo my advice is not to worry about it. You've got plenty of time, and when you're ready for it, it'll happen the right way.\n\n________
79540
i think it's good your still a virgin. I'm 25 and still one. I'm one who still believes you need to be married to have sex.
656115
never do until you really ready .... virginity is a big value in your live ... look to your future first ...there is few people out there i consider them winners . be one until you have the  one that care about you than care for sex first . god bless you .
253595
probably because you regret it. you should have waited till you were married. your virginity is suppose to be a precious gift you give to your spouse on wedding night. now you don't have that. GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!
662354
hey, dont you think you are too young to have sex??\n\natleast i feel so...sorry!!!
492600
Well it all depends. You can expect bleeding, although many women do not bleed at all their first time, and then there are others who do. I did not bleed when i lost my virginity. It may hurt, it depends on a lot.    Make sure you go slow so it doesn't hurt too bad, and you have a less chance of bleeding. Other than that, expect pleasure :) It's awesome haha. Goodluck :)
225519
You sound somewhat like me a year ago. I don't have Christian values, but I valued myself enough that I didn't take sex lightly. I waited until I was 21 and would have waited longer if I had not found the perfect guy that I know I want to be with forever. Stick to what you believe and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin and waiting until you're ready to have sex. Worry about school, that's the most important part, not what your friends think.
288564
i lost mine at 15, w/ the wrong guy...but i am glad ive had sex with the guy im w/ now
315612
MY 1ST TIME WAS PAINFUL @ FIRST, BUT THEN ENJOYABLE AFTER THE PAIN SUBSIDED...HE WAS ONLY ABOUT 5 INCHES & DID NOT POP MY CHERRY, SO TECHNICALLY I WAS STILL A VIRGIN....UNTIL I CAUGHT HOLD OF MY NEXT SEXUAL PARTNER...WHICH WAS AN 8 INCHER....LOL...I WAS CRYING & HIS COUSIN KEPT WALKING IN ACTING LIKE SHE DIDNT KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON...NOW 2 THINK ABOUT IT, DA CHYCK MIGHT'VE BEEN GAY...OR THEY MIGHT'VE HAD A LIL INCEST GOIN ON THERE,LOL...........
263653
oh my god when you were nine??????\nI'm 17 and still a virgin
155920
Fear not, there are others like you, not me though I lost mine at 15. But if you are looking for love, then what does sex have to do with it until you have found the right person. Many people regret losing their virginity to the people they lost it to. Some wish they had waited, it would have made the moment special and more intimate. \nThe main problem is that most people today treat sex like entertainment instead of the complex emotional event that it once was. Sad but true, Best of luck. And keep looking for love, it is looking for you too.
166319
i was 16y/o......yup had turned sweet 16 and never been kissed!...didn't make it the whole way though!  Ended up dating the guy all through hs....good memories but glad i didn't end up w/him.