ok so i found out that the guy i like likes me back, but he has a G/f. she knows that he likes me, but hasent dumped him. he hasent dumped her. im tired of waiting, its been a week! i still like him. but wut should i do??
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Don't pressure him to dump his g/f for you, if it was meant for you and him to be together... you and him will be together. Only time will tell. If he dumps his g/f for you and another girl comes along while you and him are in a relationship don't you think he just might dump you for her. So I'm not saying sit around and wait for him to come around, there are plenty of fish in the sea- explore your options. If he wants to be with you it will happen!!
604567
hope both of them find some one better and leave you!!!!!!!\n\nits not fair of you to keep 2 girls hanging on till you find out which one likes you the most!
265295
just stay friends unless he is willing to break it off with his gf...by the way i like your name alot
260650
i say drop him. either hes into to you, or hes not. but you shouldnt have to wait around for him. play hard to get girlll!. once he realizes other guys are a threat he'll make the move =]
359708
Don't dump your boyfriend. Give it time. Eventually you might find that your boyfriend is a better man than the guy who "wasn't ready". Obviously your boyfriend had the respect and the guts to have a relationship with you. I say give him some respect and stick with him for a while. If after you give it time, you find that you are still having strong feelings for the other guy, then you should make your move of dumping one for the other. Just be cautious, and weigh all your options. Remember, you are not the only one who could get hurt. GOOD LUCK :-)
480782
just stay friend for now with both of them. i know what I'm taken about these are words of wisdom I'm telling you. really people get hurt don't mess around with this ok?! \ntell yourself that u are going to wait.\noh and if that guy says he can't waite than ask him if your worth waiting for. look him in the eyes when u ask though. guys will respect a girl that wants time for this kind of thing. and respect is important in something like this.\n\nnow remember "am i worth waiting for" ask them both why don't yu than u can see both their eyes and look for the truth not what you want to see. \n\ngood luck hope u do the right thing.\ni'l pray for you.
465830
Dont give him no time because look its your time that is getting wasted....go up to him and ask him what is he going to do...stick with you or go to that other gurl.....i mean its not fare to you that you have to wait for him to decide what gurl he wants.....Look if he really likes you like he says he does then there is no reason to even have to think about who he wants......he has to think that, that other gurl stoped calling him not him to her...why is he even going to think about giving her another chance when he now has a good ass gurl? Think about it gurl. Dont go wasting your time....Remember life is short.
136887
I'm not sure I understand your question?  Don't do anything.  If your friend likes this guy, and he likes her (or him) back, then be happy for them.  You never know, he might be really nice once you get to know him better.
614361
i think that guy is just playing with you. don't take him seriously he lost his chance so well it all depends on you really do u still like ur actual bf or ur willing tobreak up him to go with the other guy. dunno this is complicated.
247975
sorry 2 hear tht... yeah i saw ur other questions about ths guy b4. actually i also experienced ths kinda situation b4. at first, i was really good friend with ths grl & passed 2 funfull yrs until i found out tht i love her. and i had hint tht she loved me too. but other things came up i couldn't give her a chance 2 express herself. but whn i expressed myself, she rejected saying tht she never felt like ths towards me, which's a lie. also all on a sudden she hooked up with some1 else to take myself off her mind & replace me with him. the most shocking part is, being heartbroken i still tried to be her friend but slowly she made a distance between us & destroyed our beautiful friendship.\n\nmy point is, affection towards a friend happens all the time. but there r some issues involved regarding friendship, other ppl around u etc. as a friend, u were suppose 2 knw tht he already has a gf. but u didn't, which is not usual. so mayb he doesn't hav any gf & story of having a gf is the most reasonable way to dump u with hurting u less. and don't bother if he doesn't like u or not. if he didn't like u, u wouldn't be yur friend. but it can be true tht he's not feeling attracted 2 u as he told u. tht doesn't mean tht u r not attractive or he doesn't like u. there can be a lot of different reasons involved regarding friendship or something else.\n\nfrom my opinion, look into yur heart. if u think tht u really want him & u knw tht he has actually feelings for u thn stick 2gether & mayb someday things'll work out. but the downside is u donno if thts gonna happen. so there's a chance to get heartbroken again frm the same person for the same reason. on the other hand, continue being friend & move on, find another guy who understands u & doesn't hurt u like ths. but whtever happens, yur friendship wth ths guy will not gonna be same frm now on.\n\nhope ths works. feeling sorry 4 u!
101542
He has someone.  Why waste your time.  You are setting your own standard.  If you know he has someone, and he knows you know he has someone, but you continue to try to be with him you are allowing him to use you as a toy.  You would allow him to have his cake and eat it too.  Why would he leave his current girl if you will let him have "access" to you?  \n\nWhy do you want someone who will inevitable "do u like he's doing his current girl"?  \n\nYou are worth much more than that and believe me, if you don't realize that right now, later on, you will!!  \n\nGood Luck!!
331946
You should not mess with him since he has a girlfriend. If he really cared about you that much he would have respect for the two of you and end his currrent relationship. Don't be the side chick and fall for his bulls***. It seems that this is just lust for him and not love. Though it could be a start for love. To be on the safe side just tell him you want to remain friends and see what happens.
322741
Think about it.  If he leaves his girlfriend for you, what's to stop him from leaving you for someone else who likes him and tells him.  So you're screwed either way - find someone who's single!
298408
Please continue to be his friend.  Relationships that start out as friends always last.  Since your friend now has a girlfriend, you should "take the high road" and quietly stand on the sidelines where their relationship is concerned.  If you "butt in", you will only cause confusion and discord, and may ultimately end up losing him as a friend.  Should their relationship break-up in the future, you will still have him as a friend and perhaps then your relationship with him will turn into something more.  Have a lovely rest of the day.
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i've often been in this situation! the best thing i have done is just kind of flirt around, if he feels threatened, stop, and either move on, or wait til they (prolly sometime) breakup, \n\nif he flirts alot back just tell him "listen i know you have a girlfriend, and i don't want to get between you 2, but i just waned you to know that i do like you"   then see what happens from there, if he's for it (to date you) don't do anything til he breaks up with his girl, you don't want to be that kind of 'girl' if he's not for it, MOVE ON!\n\n\n\n\n\n---if you need any more advice on this situation or any other one you have DON NOT hesitate to message me!!!----
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was in that situation before.\n(assuming that this is on the same day?)\n\n\nI chose the one I like.\nwhy? because this is a change of a lifetime!\n\nfor the one I asked out?\nwell, he as to wait.\n\nbut if this is for a long period of time.....\n\ngo with the one you like most.\nwell of course you have to try to go out with both of them.\nbut even if you want to date both of them tell them, because if someone actually has real feellings for you he should be prepared to feel hurt.\n\nmy advice: enjoy it girl. but dont hurt other peoples feeling. that brings you nothing but problems(whether guilt or rumors). trust me, I saw some really ugly things in this Area.\n\nASiH
82563
YES: YOU LIKE HIM BUT WHY WAIT FOR HIM TO COME AROUND? THERE ARE SO MANY GUYS OUT THERE. WHY DENY THEM THE CHANCE TO BE WITH A HOT FEMALE LIKE YOURSELF?