At My School, Theirs A Kid That's Just Like Me, Same Hair\nSame Weight, Same Looks Basically... And He Gets Alot Of Friends And I Barely Get Any, Why Is That?
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u have to go find some friend is not like people gonna came to u and be come friend u have to go out and find some friends
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it is not true that no one likes you, as u say you feel more confident when your friends are around.  i quess that makes you like able because u have friends.  perhaps you feel uncomfortable on your own  i presume u are young because u go  to school.  just going to school can be distressful and your age is stressful because you are just learning about yourself.  being free and happy comes with a price, and the price is self confidence.  learn to like yourself, and understand your limitations, and that u are a important person.  learn also to accept some of the things u don't like about yourself, and if possible work on these things u don't like about yourself  being more content and self confident in yourself will make u feel more free and happy.  u may see a lot of things u don't like about yourself, and feel, that the guys are not interested in you, because they can see these negative things about you.  that might not be true, it sounds like your must feel negative about yourself, and it may show in your interactions.  don't be too hard on yourself, nobody is perfect.  if u feel more confident about yourself, and have a sense of humor, that may attract more boysl   \ngood luck, hope this helps, and take care of yourself, a new hairdo or a consultation with a beautician can go a long ways
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yes people do that. It's apart of society. It's really sad because there are so many nice and good people out there that may look or act a certain way, but have a heart of gold. I've done that myself and I'm sorry to say because i did that it took a long time to find out a certain person was as nice as she could be. I just though because of how she looked and acted that she wasn't worth the time to get to know. Plus the people i rolled with or looked up too didn't want to deal with people that wasn't like them or worth the time to use. After growing up and learning the hard way that this mind set only brings u pain and sometimes embarassement. Because so many of the girls that were popular in school are now like haggs. Gotten fat and look old because of the way they lived. SO, it doesn't pay to judge or even think that u are better than anyone else. Because the best person in the world are those that aren't considered worth anything. So hun don't worry about what they think or feel about u, be u and confident in yourself. SOmeone out there will come to like u for u. Trust me I know. I would be glad to get to know u and be your friend. I don't meet strangers, you only become a stranger to me if u start acting like a butthole. So, look for more people like me there are some out there. God bless u hun.
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Hey, I'm a nerd too (at least in high school I was LOL) but I think I've learned a thing or two since then so here goes...\n\nFirst of all, unless you want to be a laughingstock, I wouldn't recommend springing yourself on a group of people in public- they will all be together and you might end up the butt of the joke.\n\nProbably the best thing to do is figure out what it is about that group of kids that attracts you to them-- is it just because they are popular, or do you have an interest in common with them?  If you really have something in common, then try getting close to one or two of them by sharing your common interest... if you make friends with one, chances are the group will pull you in.\n\nBut if you're just wanting to be with them because they are popular and they look like they're having more fun than you are, maybe you should join a club or group where you can meet people you can really relate to.  It's the difference between having "friends" and "acquaintances."\n\nGood luck!
383254
It's much more important to have good friends then a lot of friends. So don't try to make new friends just for the sake of having more friends. But if you must, try getting involved in a school activity or volunteer program. You'll be with a group of people that have simlar interests and you are bound to make new friends.
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I know to be a popular person at school is so fun, but not a big problem if not.\nmore popular, get more extra-activities, for guy, join some sport activities. study hard and get high grade. gatting around with others and more talking (conversation), have some humours or funny stories, it will help you more popular.
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At that age it's not so much looks as it is a feeling of a kindred spirit, so to speak. Boys may want to brag about being with the prettiest girl in school, but they really prefer to be with someone they can talk to, on the same level. Just be yourself and the right boy will come along, probably when you least expect it ;-)
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You are popular too. You are cool and unique. Don't let what\nothers are doing bother you. People will do anything for\nattention. which is quite dumb to do. Because being yourself\nis how you get attention. Your friends are going the wrong\nway of doing things. We are all different. No two people are\nthe same. So don't compare yourself to them. God made you\nand He loves you. You are special even if you don't fit in.\nWe were not born to fit in this world. Weare to here for one\nreason---to worship the Lord. Get your mind off your friends\nand get your mind on your lesson.
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i guess it would kind of help you socially.  i mean its someone that you could talk to and get social news from and things, but its not going to give you tons more friends or anything.  i have a brother and a sister, my sister being around the same age as me, and i personally get alot of school gossip and such from her that i would not normally get, so i guess having her has helped me socially, however my brother is much younger and just talks about computer games and things lol
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im very shy but im alot of fun once u get to know me...im very mature for my age...im considered popular in my own crowed...which is a group of a bunch of...idk what they are..part jock...part prep...pary geek...so i pretty much get along with everyone...but the full blow popular crowd really needs to get a clue that they are not the only people in the school who matter...the emo kind of people need to stop cutting themselves and realize that they only get one life to live...the creepy scummy kind of people need to learn that soap is good for them and the jocks need to learn that takeing drugs only make there  u know whats smaller...and the durggies...they need to get a fucking life...but my group...the geeks need to just...loose the sweater vests...the jocks need to learn that there is more to life then sports..but i think if they both gave eachother some of them everything would be perfect..but itll never happen... what kind of person r u?
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Well, to be completely honest, that school is pretty much for people who didn't fit in at all in high school, and it shows.  A freind of mine with similar problems went, and she said it was like being around a whole group of people with no real social skills and she ended up leaving after a year.
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Let me tell you about friends babe.  Most people confuse acquaintances with friends.  If you have 2 or 3 friends that last you over a life time you are a very rich person indeed.  Only your family will be there for you.  Talk to your mom or dad but don't expect a lot.  Teachers don't seem to be the same standard as when I went to school.  Their behaviour leaves a lot to be desired, especially in maturity.  I say to you , you are on the right track.  Study hard and don't let offence from immature people worry you.  They have a problem not you.  You are not a loner either.  You are simply a mature person.  Congratulations on being you.
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doesn't he go to school where there are other people, and cant he find his own friends to talk to online instead of having you do it?
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SAME WITH ME I FEEL SO left out wat you should do is try to blend in my friend are popular and all pretty and have expensive clothes and shoes. i feel left out because they have alla that and i dont but i try my best to hang out with then and stuff no one has 50000 friends so who gives a care you could also try to find another friend but still try hanging out with the others. best of luck i no how your feeling it really does hurt alot or email me and that other girl who answered first
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Dont worry just be yourself and people will get to like you for you trust me last year i moved to a new school and it was scary but i made frinds in no time although this year was easier since half the class moved (there is only ten in our class 5b 5g) GOOD LUCK I HAVE FIATH IN YOU
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Confidence and being outgoing makes one popular in school. People who generate positive energy (they love life) attract people the way honey attracts bees. In short people who are themselves earn respect from peers.\nWhat you can do to make friends is take up various new activities in school, get involved..have fun, be confident.. make the most of your young years. You will miss it!!Trust me.. Don't worry about having many friends, a true friend is more significant. Look for a TRUE friend. She/he will always be there for you but others can be decieving. So be careful what you wish for.
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Don't mean to be rude but this isn't Friends Re-United. You could try there. Start a section on your school and see who turns up.