ok. my friends are the best in the world. but recently we got a new very sexy very male friend. one of my friends has been very touchy-feeley with him and has kissed him in fornt of me just to make me jelous! And she doesnt even like him anmore!!! well, me and my friends have split apart over this amazing guy(our friend). i really want my friends back without the wars and i want this totaly amazing guy too.
200197
Loving your "best friend" is not a bad start.  Does he love you back.\nAnd stop playing with the word "LOVE"!
447583
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times
133035
friends over guys! let your friend know how you feel first and if she tells you its okay and you feel its okay then try to find a way to let this guy know!
343952
Same exact thing happened to me! i have this neibor and every night we would sneek out to see eachother and i'd be like, ok were just hanging out, nothing big. and then id see those eyes and BANG i kissed him AGAIN. my boyfriend got pissed. hes like, if you love ME then you wont be sneeking out to see him! so this is what i did: i didnt want to hurt my neibors feelings, but i really really wanted to keep my boyfriend, so i just looked at the situation for a long time and tried to get my prioritys straight. thats all you have to do. look at the situation, see how you feel about him, and how your friends feel about him, and how your mom feels about him, and see which feelings are more important to you. if you care more about your friends feelings, then just stop. use your friends like a motivator to not do it. if your feelings are more important, go for it ; )
78843
Most of the time your best friend knows what's best for you.  If they are a true friend they are only looking out for your best intrests.  I would get rid of the guy.
639424
his actions are not those of a friend. Friends don't lead each other on or use each other. They don't kiss or any more so let him go before he puts you down even more. You've learnt and now you're free again to meet the real guy that's out there for you. You don't need friends that lie. What a pig!
50069
I'm a girl. I have a few wonderful guy friends. I wouldn't know what to do without them in my life. They are my support system. They are much more sincere than some girls I know.
388951
Sounds like he didn't value your friendship as much as you did. Friendship is like love in a way, sometimes we get burned, and there's nothing we can do other than just move on and keep going. I hope you have other friends to bring joy back into your life.
201172
Funny you asked this question.  This is a constant issue with me.  I have male friends that my boyfriend is a little jelous of but trust me, they could never replace him.  My bf has female friends that I'm not threatened by anymore, but there was a time.  As far as my boyfriend and I, I say that opposite sex friends are perfectly alright as long as the couple knows where to draw the line and the "friends" and couple know not to cross it.
222524
Do you really want to continue to be his friend when he is not nice to the others in your group? He doesn't sound like the sort of person that is good to hang around. You need to alienate yourself from him, and remain with your fiends that are good.
524775
Whenever anyone gets into a relationship they tend to have tunnel vision for awhile, they tend to devote much of their time to the other persons wants over even their own. So themselves and other friends basically get left out of the picture for awhile.  Your friendship will probably come back but unfortunately not until your friend realizes that he needs more than one person to make his life complete. Sorry it is a hard time to loose a good friend, and if he has become a WORSE person than before, then maybe just drop a call and say hey dude, I am happy for you and all, but you are totally different, call me when you get a chance to hang out I miss that in a DUDE way =) Good Luck............
119825
NO seems like your friends have poisoned his mind against you girls/boys have a tendency to do that mostly when they befriend someone else friends or boyfriend or husband or anything other then parents or siblings they try to poison or try to win over that person by putting down the friend or close person whose already there before them through him they befriended or got to know that person.It seems they have got their way so please try to forget him and move on.Its happened to me and i would make such efforts to put things into place but then i realised something very important.Would you want someone as your friend or closer who would listen to other people and change his or her mind about you?That cant be a true friend,close friend,lover,husband or anything else.ITS NOT YOUR LOSS ITS HIS LOSS HE LET SUCH A GREAT FRIEND LIKE YOU GO LISTENING TO OTHERS TALK.Take care and email me if you want to talk.
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What do you mean break up ,,it sounds like you haven't been his girlfriend for some time now, and why in the hell are you worried about what your friends say or think,, they don't run your life or pay your bills,, be independent, tell him and all of them to kiss your a** ,,and go out and find some real friends !!!
634277
Ok. I had the same problem. There was one guy I was with and we broke up so I went without liking anybody for a while. Then one of my best guy friends broke up with his gf and I realized I liked him but then my ex started coming back. So I chose the one that is the sweetest and that I have the most fun with and that wasn't my ex. It just so happens i picked the other guy who's my ex's best friend and we've been together for almost 4 months and I have a great ime with him all the time. although they aren't friends anymore, I still really like my bf. so pick the one that's sweetest to you and that you have the most fun with. even if that means long distance. (i'd choose the ex because he seems like he would be a great bf and that he really cares about you as lot).
87983
that happened to me before too.\ni really like one of my close guyfriends(and he found out. one of my friends told him). but he was dating this other girl, who's one of my closest girl friends. it really sucked. but then after i stopped liking him. we still continued being good friends.
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Been there, done that.  Sooner or later it seems, we all have to face the fact that our close friends can be just as nasty and uncaring as our worst enemies -- when it comes to their lovers or potential spouses.  Some of this is to be expected -- their priorities have changed and are moving on with their lives.  Other times though, these suddenly "hooked-up" friends seem to act as though we never existed and may even completely cut us out of their lives.\n\nLet your friend make her own mistakes.  She'll see the error of her ways and will probably be coming back to you.  In the meantime, move on yourself and begin to develop other friendships.  I know (from experience) that some of these platonic friendships can become so close that the friends are more like siblings than friends -- it's hard to move on but it is something we have to do to survive.  If she happens to pull this nonsense on you again with another guy, you will know better the next time and will also have a new set of friends to fall back on. \n\nIt might be a good idea to rely on your family for socializing and emotional support right now too.\n\nGood luck, dear.  I am thinking about your situation.  I've been there and know what you are going through.
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He's jealous and probably retaliating and pulling away from you b/c of your "guy friends". No man buys the "we're just friends" bit  b/c they always try to read too much into it. Now, if your guy friends are gay they'll tell you to your face what I'm saying now: dump the dude and go for grade 6 tall, dark,handsome & bashful.