What would you do if you told your boyfriend that you loved him but he didnt say i love you back?
202640
Nothing, i'd rather he'd be real and told me when he eventually did than him lie to my face, now that would hurt!
148407
I have been successful, but I've waited until I felt really right.  There is a differnce between LOVE and INFATUATION.  You might have said "I love you" to a guy, when really you were just still in the infatuation stage.  If you have been with your current boyfriend for almost 2 years, I think it is time for you to say it.  He might just be waiting for you to say it first.  Maybe he feels the same way as you do about saying I love you.  Either say it, or actually TALK to him about it.  Be like "I really feel like I love you, but I don't want to say it and make you uncomfortable.  How do you feel about it?"  Hope this works!
430148
It sounds like you both moved a bit too fast and now he's trying to back off a bit.  If you've only been together a bit over a month, it's a bit too soon for most people to be totally in love.  Just give him his space and if he does love you, your relationship will flourish.  If he doesn't love you and he doesn't "try" in your relationship, then you don't need him!\n(The further you get in a relationship, the less often you feel the need to say "I love you".)
573815
don't over react - Some people need to hear nice things and some people do not mind telling them so they feel good about themselves. have you ever told a guy that they were cute or handsome? has anyone told you that your cute or pretty? I bet yes on all of the above. We all do this but never pay attention that we do. we only notice when someone else says it to another. I think you should think that your boyfriend is soooooo polite and be proud he isn't a jerk. If you love him and feel he loves you then maybe a show of trust is needed. Would it not feel better than getting in his face all mad and giving him the third degree all because your have assumed the worse?
529278
It doesn't sound like he loves you necessarily. Though, if he seems preoccupied with you, then he may have deep feelings for you... or just maybe is trying to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable I think the best way to resolve these issues is to break up with your boyfriend (if you cheated on him you are probably not satisfied completely wtih him) and then tell the guy you really like exactly how you feel.
667150
maybe he was gonna say i love you...talk to him and see what it is he wanted to say and if he did want to break u up then move on
116664
You can't always win. If he has a boyfriend the best you can do is support him. From experience I'm telling you DON'T tell him you think you're in love with him! That will make your relationship uneasy and he won't want to talk to you because he'll be uneasy and wonder what you're thinking. It's always best to hold onto a good thing. Wait it out and see.
582568
NO!! girl, be happy ur man was honest enough to tell you the truth... most men would have said "don't worry bout it" or "she's my homegirl". this guy must really care for you if he didn't go thru with it, i mean seriously for a guy to back out of something like that takes alot of will-power and he even told you the truth. honestly, something like this shows me that not all men are the same and this guy really does love you, hold onto him...
58026
It is hard when you are not ready to accept a negative response. Afraid of being rejected. But it is in trying to find out the truth behind your question if he love you. But if you truly love him, just tell him that you love him. You might be surprised of his rewarding reply, than not telling the words and regret later on. Just say "I LOVE YOU".
50768
time will tell and if he never say it he my not be the one to come out and tell his feelings.give it time my b/f told me he love me with in 2 years
365252
personnally i wouldn't tell someone i loved them in less i wasserious. Unless she said it first and i was obviously joking. Next time say really? and if he says yes IMMEDEATLY then he means it if he hesitates then not so much.\n\n\nP.S. DOESN'T work for all guys some just want in your pants .. it's a sad fact of life. :(
380930
Turn it around and tell him he obviously doesn't trust you, which means he doesn't care (feel love) for you.\nNow have HIM prove it if he doesn't agree!  ;-)
320087
I think that if he loved you, he wouldn't have lied. On the other hand, if he didn't love you, he would lie & thats obviously what he did. Sorry. Meet a real man & give him your love, no someone who is a liar. Good luck.
134446
haha .. this is funny because before i got with my bf we were good friends ... we flirted back and forth all the time... and well we got talking on the phone a lot and after i had knew him for a while i had mad fehone i for him.. one night when we were on the phone i was falling half asleep.. i told him that i loved him! and then i heard myself and thought "did i just tell him what i think i did?" and i didnt want to bear the embarrasement so i just pretended to stay asleep... the next day he asked me if i rem what i said on the phone ... i was like "naw ..what'd i say?" he told me ... an i was still embarrassed so i just told him i was kidding... but a couple days later i confessed and told the truth about how i truely felt about him... now we have been together for 2 1/2 yrs and still going strong =D
66777
He desn't still love you if he did he would tell you where he moved to. Just try to move on. If he does love you and just hasn't realized it, it will be so much better if when he comes back looking for you, you have moved on he will realize how special you are. If not then you have moved on and you don't need him anymore anyway.
445234
IF YOU REALLY LOVE HIM YOU'LL STICK BY YOUR MAN !!!\n\nBE PATIENT !!!\n\nIF IT WAS MEANT TO BE HE'LL BE BACK !!!
151854
Why do you have to tell him that? He already hinted that he doesn't want to be "pressed". The smartest thing to do is ACT like in love, but don't give the actual verbal message. \n\nMy guess is that YOU want him to love you back. It's not about revealing your feelings, it's about making him love you. Unfortunately, this doesn't just happen in a single day and it cannot be coerced by similar questions.\n\nLet him be, act like a loving person and your (and his) feelings will become evident.