I ahve been told that for some girls it takes many, many years.\n\nWhen did you discover the 'magic' button?
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Well if you're talking about the clit, then when I was about 12......If you're talking about the G-spot, I'm still looking!
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Seriously ,i got no idea iam a girl. The only thing i could tell you is don't rush your self. It takes time for every thing.i know you could do it! GOOD LUCK!
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Love takes a VERY long time. Women don't just wear their hearts on their sleeves.... we do not like to be hurt. If you really care for her be patient.
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yes i have done this before. it doesnt take that long if you use alittle lotion(lube)and are turned on enough. i came pretty fast since i was in a hurry anyway. i was in the bathroom with my girlfriends best friend. she wanted me also. that was some time ago.
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It depends on the girl. Most would not think this is too soon. Try and get clues from the girl herself. (she would know)
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It took you how many years to think of this one?
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I know i am not a guy, but can i would like to share an experience.\n\nMy boyfriend now, was my first, and i was worried about the same things. He could tell, as soon as he stuck a finger in me.  He actually loved the fact i was, and was patient with me. He loves the thought that i'm experiencing everything the first time with him, and he can show me how to please him.  Its has been 8 months now, and we have an awesome sex life.  email me if you have more questions about this....i have been there.\n\nallyalexmch@yahoo.com
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My partner died of (breast) cancer at the age of 34 - ten years ago. I still have a deep love for her...her memory and the time we spent together. I started dating after about three years and eventually married after five years. I occasionally talk about her to my wife who knows that I loved her  agreat deal. It was a very powerful time in my life going through the whole process, both painfull and very special - magical at times and a deeply spiritual expereince. I would never want to forget it as a monumental time. However, life moves forwards in every way. It was funny that my partners mother was in Aushwitz and I went to see her about a month after the funeral. She asked me if I had found a new girlfreind yet! I told her that not enought time had passed. She told me to get on with life. She, if anyone, should know such things. It took me some time to integrate what had happened then I did move on. And now I have a great wife and i am in the next chapter of the story. Turn the page when you are ready and remember that the previous chapter will always be there...dont' wait longer than you need to and let it unfold naturally. Good luck.
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There really isn't a point. I personally had my first boyfriend in the ninth grade and I still wasn't ready! You're just too young at that point. I hated being chained to one person. The girls that switch from one boyfriend to another are just looking for attention. They aren't secure enough in themselves so they find a guy that they think could make them feel better about themselves but it only leaves them emptier.
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hey, my names john, im 16, i used to be exactly like you, until last year i had never even held a girls hand i was so shy, but some things have helped me get over it, send me an email at sox5d@yahoo.com and ill help you out, right now you are being offered one of the greatest gifts i've ever received, you'll be with so many more girls, reply if you're interested...\n(this isnt just about girls but about being the best possible person you can be)
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it took me like 3 monthes.  dead serious.  i was about ready to commit suicide because of all the peer pressure.  dont worry, youll get through it.  just make sure not to put on too much, because the more you put on the longer it takes to work
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YES! I am a female firefighter and I have been for 3 years. I am 26 years old. It really isn't that hard and most of things you learn is common sense! Sure there is a lot of physical work, but when your adrenaline is going, you can do all sorts of things that you never thought possible ( i dragged a guy out of his burning car that weighed 290 lbs, I weigh 150lbs). The guys on my fire dept. were pretty rude at first, but I proved to all of them that I could do it and now they have nothing but total respect for me. You go girl!!! And if you need more advice let me know!!!!
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Noooo, please don't stop. I've asked my own b/f to do something romantic for me for the past 2 years and still nothing. There are girls out there, you just have to be patient. :(
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I just tried it, took me 7 seconds...\n\nI guess it helps if you dont wear panties either :)
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Hey, Magicman. You sound like a dud to me. Okay, let's see if you are as 'magic' as you claim to be. I want two female participants in YA to visit me. We live on different continents. Can you make it happen? I am not going to mention names, if you have super powers, you'll know who they are.\n????????
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Yeah! it's just a stage that almost all girld go through. It usually happen from 12 to 17 but it was last forever so be patient.
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yea thats crazy .some of my boys do that and i ask them why the hell they wait so long.especially since sometimes you see the girl peeping you out even before she crosses in front of them.i think they have insecurities.