He swears nothing is going on, but if there wasn't he wouldn't be calling her and texting behind my back all the time!
218578
You know the the differences when a man is cheating; when they feel they have to hide what they are doing when something is wrong.  At the same time what are you going to do. Guys always do what they want; they have control cause we let them. If you love him to the best of your ability; then you should have no regrets if you want to leave. It about control, build your support group around you. It all stops with you. Its going to be a time when you feel like you have nothing to lose - if he's already gone. IT don't have to be that way, life is what you make it. Besides its the begining of spring time; the parties are jumping
370875
Give her a few days without calling or texting and see if she calls you, if not, she aint worth having anyways!
190363
I wouldn't sit around and wait on the call. If someone has to provoke me, that's not a boyfriend. Is he trying to start a fight over guilty feelings about something???? The only way to get past this is to have an honest talk. Why does he provoke you....why is everything "in his hands"....why the hurtful talk....???? Both sides need to be honest with each other and act more maturely and respectfully towards each other.
653136
well i absolutely hate it when she doesnt put out...................j/k.............mmmmmmmmmmmmmm well i am annoyed when she always looked at my phone n sees whos callin me its not like i'm cheatin or nuttin
529359
You should not order him to do anything as that is an attempt to control his actions.  You should tell him exactly how you feel and that you would prefer he not continue contact with her because she has shown bad motives where he is concerned.\n\nIf he cares for you, he will heed what you say and choose to cut communication with her.  If he doesn't, then you need to be concerned about your relationship, not because of her, but because of him.  In the end, you can't control anyone. You can be open about how you feel and why.\n\nSue
75311
Well, for starters, I would let your boyfriend know that this is happening. I hate to imagine what he would think if he found out that this other guy is contacting you all the time to try to woo you and that you never let him know. That would certainly make him suspicious about why you weren't telling him. Of course you also need to speak with this guy that is bothering you and let him know that you have no interest in a relationship and that you appreciate him as a friend but that you will have to end the friendship if he keeps pushing the issue. He needs to know that this makes you uncomfortable and is inappropriate. If he still continues to contact you, stop accepting his calls. If he still bothers you, I would contact local police to see what actions you should take.
142377
Why doesn't he block her or have his number changes?  She can only contact him and talk to him if he allows it.  The problem here isn't her but your boyfriend.  If he wanted to stop her then he would have.
246226
you r absolutely right and smart to stick to your schedules. thats how you flush out the big phonies!! trsut me there you did not lose anything precious here. if he ever call again dont even bother having anymore conversation with this pervert. learn from these expereince and fell out guys like that in the future!! good going girl!!
133721
Why would he ever let his friends use your cell phone?  I think he is lying.  Call his ex and find out what is going on from her.
635757
hang in there he is probably busy, if you talked that long he does not want to over do it! just be patient, he may be trying to get out of another situation!, if you must call him, tell him you was worried something happened to him. don't seem to aggressive!
610661
I wouldn't call her I mean when she is ready to talk you will notice that she will text you back everytime and won't ever miss one. She will be calling you, I wouldn't call her if I were you I would move on I wouldn't like her wasting my time. Why revolve around her if she isn't going to do the same for you?
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Tell him to prove it to you by any means necessary!  Tell him to give you her number so that you can call her and ask her yourself.  Tell him that it's his JOB to make you feel secure about the situation since he's the one who fucked up in the first place.  If he's really trying - then you should be ok.  If you have any doubt in your mind - you're probably right.
274626
I would call him and ask him what is going on! If he is going to be with you he dont need to avoid you for a week !
65418
Unless there's a legitimate reason for him not calling you back, "he's just not that into you". You make it sound like his behavior is consistent so if you're making the relationship a priority and he isn't, it may be time to move on. Make yourself less available. I would spend more time with friends and ignore his calls. That way you're out there meeting new guys and he'll either come around or you'll find one that returns phone calls.
220369
Time is up for him. If he can't explain why she's visiting, then that's it. I'm sorry this is happening to you.
185707
not a good situation, she is telling you he is cheating to leave him alone and then as soon as your back is turned she is all up on him ! Ohhhh But Noooo, She is the one you should concider getting rid of !
345308
Sounds like your friend scared him off for you.  Tell your friend to STOP texting this guy on your behalf, and then find a way to tell the guy your over-anxious friend is going to leave him alone.  That's pestering someone and very immature.