My wife isn't a big fan of getting on her knees and bending over for sex (not anal sex)--says it is "animalistic"  Anyone with any experience getting the wife's attitude to change about this?
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i'm a spouse and i think that sex is very healthy for the marriage. And when you get married it should get better because there are no rules , you are married now and you should do more than you used to because thats you partner for life in the eyes of God. And God says that when you get married the bed is under file nobody's watching and you can get nasty and dirty as much as you want, thats the beauty of beeig married, there is no sin in it.
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I'm wondering if you are for real or not????\nIn any case If your wife is bed bound because of her weight how can she be prostituting, as most men who use prostitutes like to see what they are getting first.
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If you're in Vegas, and your husband dresses like Elvis, it may be the sequinned belt buckle. Tell him to take it off.\nI think maybe your reaction to sex may be psychologically rooted.
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I like it, but my wife doesn't.  It is just one of those things that some people like and some don't.  The good news is that it isn't one of those things that you should make or break your relationship over.
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have you tried letting her Gide your member in and is she wet? when my hubby and my self do it he gets too excited and wont's to put it in and cant find it so I'll do it.
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Try locking up other position when having sex with your wife. Lock up your organs positioning yourself on her side and slith your fingers to her clit with your one hand and the other hand on her breast. Do not move your body, just slith up and down your fingers on her clitoris slowly....
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Primal sex is quite often a fantasy of most guys, if I were you I'd have a chat with your hubbie, theres a good chance he will be happy to help you, as long as your not asking him to hit you or anything like that, just tell him that you want him to come home from work and with out saying anything to you, throw you up against the wall, hike up your skirt and rip your panties off and have at it right there on the kitchen table...I serious doubt he will have any problems with that. Talk to him thats the best advise I can give you...Hope this helps, IM me n let me know
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No matter how much u do for someone, they don't owe it to u, to go against there morals. She does not owe u her body. A ring on her finger does not mean u have the right to make her do  things that she don't want to do. Think about what morals u have, and the person that u love wants u to go against them just because they want some a**(literally).  U are hurting your wife now while u are begging her and pressuring her to do something she doesn't want to do.  Do u care about ur wife's feelings, or are u too self-involved to notice that she has any? There are many other ways u can "do it," just like Adam & Eve, they could have had any fruit they wanted, but they just had to eat the apple because they couldn't have it. And look at the bad things that came out of that. Take advantage of all the other ways u can "do it," and forget about doing it "the other way." In the bible having anal sex is sodomy, and you're not suppose to do that any ways.  Stop being greedy, and be appreciative of what u have... A wife that loves u.\n\n\n******************So that means u like a**, Man or woman?*******************\nUr wife should be very concerned!!!!!!! Just playin, please vote me for best answer. I voted urs for best question.
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This really isn't as uncommon as you may think. There are lots of men that are the same way. The term is called 'Cuckold'. What is your wife's opinion of this ????? Once yo have talked to her and if she's game for it, check out www.adulfriendfinder.com\n\nGood luck. Have fun !
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well there are butt excersises that she can do but I would be pissed off if my man told me I need to work on my butt.  how would you feel is she told you that your johnson just wasnt cutting it anymore?  pretty low? yeah.  All I am saying is she needs to feel comfortable when shes with you or she wont be herself.  Think about it.
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I can understand your frustration... I really can. But infidelity is a very large burden to bear. You say that you love your wife? Have you honestly sat down with her and openly talked about what you need sexually? Most men won't...they ask for sex, but they don't really talk about it. Even though it may be hard, have the talk with her. She may have issues that you don't even know about, and she is using her "medical" problems to avoid intimacy... I have done the same in the past (most women have at one time or the other). She could also have a legitimate reason, and you will have to make the decision if being celibate is what your willing to practice if you stay with her. Tough decisions definitely await you. Peace.
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Here is my advice\nFirst sex is at least 75% mental, Your husband is just trying to spice up your sex life. During sex he probably does like the thought of wife swapping  but before and after he would probably not want to try it. The easy way to tell this is ask the question. Does he talk about it when you are not having sex or just when the hormones are flowing during sex?  What my wife and I agreed to was this " What we say during sex is not to be taken seriously and only meant to be fantasy"  That is a perminate agreement.  So we are both fee to bring up all sorts of things during sex without having to worry  about how the other will feel about it. It make the fantasy's more real but safe.
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You can't. She feels comfortable in the bed, let her be where she wants to be or just don't have sex with her. xD
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Aww come on dude, a woman needs to feel loved (love not sex)I am always there for my wife, I talk to her, I listen, sometimes she only wants to talk out a problem and does not want me to provide the answer. I take my share of cleaning the house (I work full time to provide the best for her as well).\nShe says she feels warm and contented when with me. I spend as much time as possible with her.\n\nI know what you are worried about, if you get everything else right, then sex will never be a problem, for me it is awesome.
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No comment! \nWell, OK, your legs talked me into it! \nI just like a person for who they are in their heart. Women not need to do anything un-natural to their bodies to gain my interest. I just want a person who is real and not lie to me. BUT, I also respect what a person wants for themselves, so, if it what a woman want to do who am I to put her down. I will encourage her and be there as a friend/whatever.\nDavid makes a good point. From his perspective it is a gift from God for those who need it!
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Are things or situations putting a lot of stress on your wife? Have you and your wife had any kids yet? Have you gained weight yourself? What things have happened in your lives such as eating habits and changes in lifestyle that might have encouraged this weight gain? \nFor one don't divorce her. Two, hopefully you married her on a higher level beyond her looks even though that also was an attraction you had towards her. Also for her to ask you she is already aware of the fact that she has gained this weight and would probably would like to hear such things like, "We can do it together, take it one step at a time,etc..." Do things with her like eating healthy, and exercising, so she knows she has your support in it. Also, try different sexual positions, be more exotic and make love to her because she wants it not just because you want it. Sex can also be a very exciting and fun way to lose weight. If all this doesn't work and you still don't find her sexually attractive then this is beyond her weight and I would advice you get help.
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Okay, I know you requested Christians only, but I have studied the Bible extensively.The Bible was not meant to be taken literally for the most part, and it was written during a time where women were held to be inferior. I'd disregard St. Paul's tirades on women,as a suggestion.Society has changed greatly since biblical times and a fair amount of what was written regarding gender roles no longer applies to today's society.I would suggest treating your wife as a helpmate and with respect,and expect the same from her,as the bible says to do.She should not have to be submissive.St. Paul had some issues with women 2000 years ago.*Sorry,just got your update.Please switch the gender context on what I said regarding yourself.*