my boyfriend and i know eachother by my other friend, Lindsay, and i only talked to him on the phone once. he was sick so i gave him my phone number so he could call me back. he didn't in about ten months. HELP ME!! also our parents only know eachother bc my mom cleaned their house ( that's her job, cleaning ppl's houses).
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What should you do?  Wait till you hit high school & go for a REAL boyfriend-type relationship (duh)\nSounds like you're what, about 11?
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Hi hon!\nThis happened to a friend of mine also.  He was 19, had cancer.  Was on some serious medication, but was getting by.  Then we all stopped hearing from him.  Visited his house, but his mom said he had died.  But his shoes were in the hallway.\nSo we all grieved, and moved on.  \nYears later he showed up on one of my friends doorstep.  His mom had told all his friends that he had died.  What a bitch.\nMaybe he didn't want people to see him like that.  Maybe his mom thought his friends would stress him out.  I don't know.  All I do know is we aren't friends with him anymore, we wish him well, but what a terrible thing to do to your "friends".\nSo I shared a little something with you there didn't I?  Take it for what it is, an experience.  Perhaps you aren't getting the whole story either!\nHave a great week...
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Sorry to hear that. Let me tell you my friend's story. She started seeing her boyfriend when she was 17. And later his boyfriend went to UK to study. And now, after 6 years, they are still going strong.  They still talk to each other on the phone everyday. \n\nSo, just believe in it and things may work out somehow!\n\nWish you and your girfriend the very best!
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my boyfriend\nthe question is why do you not call regularly\nbecause his not calling hurts me\nwhy? because he is my boyfriend and is suppose to call
87677
I just don't see how people can actually say that they have a relationship with someone and call them your boyfriend/girlfriend if you only talk on the phone. If you do not see one another then its not a relationship and it won't go anywhere. It doesn't sound like it is going anywhere so if I was you I would just break it off and quit wasting time on someone who you can't see and find a girl that you can see and share friendship, turst, honesty,love, lust,passion,ext with,all the neccities that a healthy relationship requires.
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Hopefully he will call but, I would give it about a week and then call him back and see whats up. He may be working or caught up in something at the moment. I think most worry about relationships when they are long distance because of the unknown.
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It kinda sounds like your boyfriend isn't that interested anymore. Either that, or he's into someone else (or both). Stop calling him for a bit and see how long it takes for him to contact you. Perhaps you should think about moving on. I'm really sorry but I know how you feel (i'm going through the same thing)
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Surpise him and go see him But if you both care about each other you would find time to be together even if it is just on the phone if you wnat to call him then do it! Why ask us? We don't know what your relashionship is like or how old you are! I don't see why you don't talk as much on the phone as you do in person it shouldn't matter! But if you really want to go see him then go and give him that hug! Follow your heart!
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I feel bad for you.  I'm so sorry that you have lost someone in your life that sounds like a soul mate.  I hope you will always be friends with this person even if you are not "in love with each other or anything like that."  I would not accept loosing this person in my life if I was you.  Not with computers and pen and paper and phones.  I would talk to my Mom about it and I would contact him and tell him how you feel, that he is important to you and that you would like to remain friends even 3000 miles apart.  Good friends are worth the effort.
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Well, you kind of confirmed his suspicion that you wouldn't take it well with your sarcastic email, didn't you?  Perhaps they found out that they both really wanted to go to the same place, it was cheaper to go together and since 1.you'd been split up for over 6 months and 2. he wasn't your best friend anyway, there really was nothing morally wrong in what they were doing.  You could look at it as a compliment that they thought enough of your feelings not to want to hurt you and that's why they didn't tell you.  Yes, it would have been a courtesy to let you know, but really, you don't have any right to interfere in the lives of two people you don't have close relationships with.
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ummmm....im a guy so its best that i say that if I was cheating (unfortunately i have), i would probly do just the opposite. Id call all the time to make you seem less suspicious, and id give you excuses as to why i had to go, like, "my mom wants me to help her cook, so i guess ill talk to you l8r", and in reality, some other chick is calling and i dont want to miss the call. But some guys make it obvious, so if you feel that he is, you shouldnt have to feel that way so its probly best that you move on anyways......... you should be able to trust the guy, cuz after all, thats what a relationship is based on....TRUST. hope i could be of assistance even though im like 17 lol.
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if you feel confortable, get each others phone numbers. \nYou can talk to him and see what he is really about. \nI personally met my boyfriend of so far 2 years online, we talked online for 2 months, and things have been going perfectly by now. \nIf you decide to meet him, make sure you know enought of him and feel comfortable. Bring a friend along for safety
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I would say too soon.  In my single days, I never shared my number until a few phone coversations with the other person!  I always asked for their number and blocked mine when I called.  I would wait a few weeks or even a few months...but that's just me.\n\nMy work doesn't even have my home number, just my cell - I'm very secretive about that.  :P
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you really need to be careful. remember that is his friend. you don't want to break up his friendship and your relationship. i think deep down you probably feel at least SOMETHING for him, but u r in denial. he probably likes you 2. or it could be that he was bored. i call everybody and their grandma when i am bored. maybe you should ask him. also, u need to tell your boyfriend to step up his game. plus, if he didn't pick up the phone anything could have happened. i know if a guy is callin me that early....i will not wake up. also, u needs to always have a plan B.<<<<take that the way u want to interpret it.
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i broke up with my bf in october, and it is still so hard for me not to pick up that phone and tell him to come home... he moved everything out and i havent felt like i am at home in my apartment since... its hard for everybody... you just have to let it go for awhile, why don't you call up some friends and go out... you will see, he will be back before you know it.
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I think if you are good friends with the mom you should ask her or if you and your bf are close and you don't think he would lie to you ask him. Look forward to hearing from you.
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Time will heal all wounds.  He is hurt right now.  He needs time.  Yes, it is wrong of him to ignore you, but that is his way of dealing with the issue.  Its not a good way, but its his way. It could also hurt your relationship now, with your new boyfriend, if you let it get in the way.  It is a friend of yours though, and you may need to let your boyfriend know that.  Anyone respecting boyfriend will understand.  Obviously you care, or it wouldn't be bothering you.  A true friend will come back to you.  If he is a true friend he'll be back, if not than he won't.  If you were honest with him than, you shouldn't have to take any abuse.  He may not understand what he is doing to you right now.  Understand his situation also, your not the only one who is hurting right now.  Give him some time.  Time will tell.