when i was havin Sex with my girlfriend, suddenly she took the name of some other Guy. i dont understand What should i do?
212919
Talk to her, it doen't mean she is cheating. There are times when your in the peak of passion your brain can just turn to mush.
379746
I did that a few times while dating.. Called the guy by the wrong name. He didn't seem to matter. He said that I was with him not the other guy!!!!!
242894
well how did they find out...but u should tell her its not true, but try to work things out first w/ her then those 2 guys....
634985
Stop sleeping with her.  Really.\n\nThis isn't an answer out of prudishness, you'll be hard pressed to find someone sluttier then me.  I love sex.  But right now, you're giving her everything she wants without making her give any back.  You need to stop being a door mat.\n\nRepeat after me: "I'm sorry (insert her name here), but this really isn't working for me.  We broke up two weeks ago, and this is co-dependent and unhealthy.  If you want to rekindle our relationship, I'm willing to consider it, but whatever this is, it's over".\n\nThat puts the burden on her.  If she wants you back, now she knows she will have to actually act on it.  If she doesn't want you back, hey, you're no longer being used by your ex.  Win-win.
560661
I'm kind of confused.  Her boyfriend has been away right?  She still loves him.  But since he's been gone, she found another guy right?  But the second guy has a another girlfriend???  Ummm....that's real simple.  Dump the second guy since he's obviously got two gals on the string...and go back to the first guy if she still loves HIM.  There's nothing to tell HIM.  Even if she can't make up her mind between the two of them, obviously guy #2 hasn't made up his mind which gal he wants so.....if she isn't his OBVIOUS choice she needn't waste any more of her time.  Why hurt the first guy when it isn't even necessary????
291227
I'm sorry but I think you should forget her...that's ridiculous to say "having sex with him she was thinking of me "...sorry once again
118013
Hard situation to talk yourself out of.  I have been in this predicament three times.  Twice I got out of it alive and well.  Try to either convince him that fantasy is safe as long as it is him that you are with (Maybe even encourage him to do the same)  OR  Exclaim a different name next time you are intimate (Preferably not another ex)  The one time it did not work, I said her name the next time.  May have been the girls, may have been the tactics... Never will know.\n\nGood Luck
5912
You did the right thing... don't worry bout it ... u'll find someone else!! i'm sure another girl would appreciate u better!!
316143
HELL NO, Do you want another guy touching your lady? I wouldn't. What the hell is up with people these days over the 3 sums? I like it with me and my partner and NOONE else. But that is up to you. You have to live with the fact that your g/f wants to be with another man. What if she like it or him? Will you be willing to have another? I dont
238006
keep up the good work....trust is EARNED\nshe must have been hurt REAL BAD b4...\ndon't EVER give her a reason to not trust you\nif she EVER catches you flirting with another gal...it'll take EVEN longer for her to trust you again...
86253
Talk to him about. You have to COMMUNICATE with the other person involved in your relationship. But I would give him the benefit of the the doubt with this one, it's kind of stupid to give another girl your number when you're physically with your girlfriend.\n\nIf this crap continues, confront him.
675214
Talk to her, apologize.\nHope she'll have you back.  You may have to work at it.\nWomen don't trust men like you, better be prepared to prove you'll behave this time.\n& don't ever make the same silly Mistake again.
630480
She is insecure and is afraid that you are going to leave her for somebody else.  Compliment her more and make her feel like you love her the most in the whole world! One thing you should never do and that is compliment another girl around your girlfriend!
124520
Sorry dude, this is the way of the world. The truth is that you were dating "the kind of girl" that would do that. So, it's better that you not be with her. \n\nConsider yourself a free man. Go forth and date other women. Just make sure you don't take her back or act like it is ruining your life. You need to be the better man (or at least act like it). Your best bet is to show confidence and near indifference to what happened. Other girls will flock to you.
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Should you feel guilty that you are thinking about another man while having sex with your boyfriend?  That would be a yes.  You dated this gorgeous successful man while you and your boyfriend took a break from one another, so why didn't that work?  For what ever reason it didn't happen between you and the other man, you really need to get over it and try to be in a respectful relationship with the guy you call your "boyfriend".
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Love sometimes hurts.  This is one of those times.  You must either break up with her or insist that she break up with him.  This type of situation can lead to devastating results.  What if he finds out you are having sex with her and goes crazy?\n\nIt sounds like your total breakup is only a matter of time.  That being the case, the sooner the better.   The longer you are involved, the more hurt you will feel and the deeper the pain will be.  If she cheats on him, she will cheat on you.\n\nIf you get back together,  learn to be more considerate.  Better to bite your tongue off than to say things just to be hurtful.  Write your feeling down.  Read them back to yourself two days later.  Then you might want to edit what you wrote or even destroy it.\n\nI'm sure you know a lot of other girls.  Wait a while to heal and get to know some of them better.  You will be so much better off.\n\nGood luck.
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i think you should wait a while because you say she JUST got dumped. It doesn't seem right if she got dumped one second and is dating another guy the next (unless she dos that all the time). As for the figuring out part i think you should ask her directly but play it cool and try to do it when she is alone because you might embarass yourself if it is in front of a lot of other people.