I need help I am trying to move out of my home into my grandparents and my mom won't willfully give up custody so we have to go to court and my counseler told me that teenagers who are older than 13 gained certain legal rights when they turned 13...only I can't figure out these rights online, and my counseler doesn't remember what the rights are.I would highly appreciate it if someone could tell me, if they know. Thank-you
209075
You don't actually gain any new rights.  However, you could get an attorney and try to become emancipated from your mother.  You would have to prove that you have extenuating circumstances, a means of financial support while still attending school and you would have to have someone willing to act as your guardian.
309806
Yes, of course your right...Umm since when does a snooty nosed 15 year old girl get off giving adults orders, especially to you whom she has absolutly no connection with. And because she is only a minor, there is no court on this planet that would even consider giving her any custody rights whatsoever as she has no connection with you or your child. Hell, your ex is also in the sh#t for mandatory rape, if he's going out with this girl and doing the business with her. If I were you, I would move away from all of them to give you at least a mental rest, they all sound like hicks and do you really want your child growing up around people like that. If she continues to do this, I think you need to ring the police yourself and tell them about the situation between this girl and your ex, or ring up a mental health team to come out and get her, she sounds pretty bonkers.
470829
Yes, you can get "emancipated" from your parents and this is a situation in which the judge may grant in your favor.  Check these sites out and try and get more proof of your mom behavior for the courts.  \n\nI dont know what state you live in but in california you only have to be 14 to get emancipated from your parents.
291948
It's called rebellion.  I had 3 teenage girls at the same time.  A teen feels they are old enough to make their own decisions and don't need their parents telling them what to do.  You don't realize that your parents were once teens also and they know and understand what is going on with you because they went through it to.  truth is, you are not old enough to know better.  You think you are, but you are not.  Parents only want what is best for their children no matter what age.  As hard as it may be, try listening to your parents.  Sit down and talk.  Ask them why they are being so forbidden on certain liberties that you want.  You will be surprised how understanding parents can really be.  Don't give up...it gets better, believe me.
640502
There are legal aid society's that can help you with this.  Look up the info on Google.  \n\nGood luck working this out.\n\nSorry people feel that they must interject there own feelings on your situation.  I didn't see any help in there responses.
388897
In the US, Yes. Unless you are officially emancipated, it would then be illegal for you. Your parents have full responsibility of you until you are 18.\n\nOk the stuff that your listing is pretty much child abuse. Even though you are a young adult it's still considered "Child" Abuse... most likely if you can convince a court that you can support yourself, or just convince them that your mother is abusing her responsibilities, then you should be able to get emancipated. \n\nLook for your state's website and then try to find the child abuse and ask them if that is considered child abuse and what they think you should do. How long until you are 18 ?
33652
Why do you think the law says you only become legally adult at 18? That's not because they just want to make your life miserable. It's because a person usually becomes mature enough to understand what MAY happen - what consequences will follow a particular action, and be able to be responsible for it when they reach that age. \n\nHoney at 13, you haven't even experienced all there is you will be responsible for. I strongly suggest that you wait until you are 18. If he loves you, as you say he does, then he will be willing to wait for you too. Then you will be both free to decide and marry.
340397
That all depends on what state you are in.  In Texas at 17, your parents can no longer tell you where to live.  Talk to a lawyer in your state to learn exactly what you would have to do.
361437
I know exactly what you are talking about. My parents did that with me all the time at that age. I'm 21 now, and they know I am free to do what I need to do, but every once in a while they act like they don't want me to go. I can tell you exactly what it is: Your parents are having a hard time accepting the fact that you are no longer a child, but an adult. It is normal for them to seem a little overprotective because of that, they just want the best for you, no matter what your age is, and they still want to be acknowledged as important in your adult life. Even with a full time job, and with my friends and boyfriend, I still try to find time with them, kind of my way of saying that I understand how they are feeling, and because they are my family, no matter what. Before you leave to go somewhere, give them a hug and tell them, "I'll get home safely. I love you. See you later!" Just let them know you appreciate them, and I promise, as you grow older the more they will continue to learn to let go. Good Luck
507098
If she is on public assistance she may have been 'forced' to name the possible father(s).  Or maybe the 13 year old child is starting to ask those questions...  \n\nIf he cooperates and goes through the support agency, chances are it will NOT go back to the day the child was born.  \n\nI also found this "In public assistance cases for one year prior to the date of the filing of the petition or complaint in California. (Family Code § 17402) In non-public assistance cases, retroactive to the date of filing the petition, complaint, or other initial pleading. (Family Code § 4009)"
669802
In most states your daughter and the father have all of the rights over the child, if you have reason to believe that the child is in danger then you should seek legal counsel and find out what your state says about "grandparent rights". Some states have them and others do not. Usually though they will not take away the rights of the parents unless there is VERY serious evidence to support that this would be in the best interest of the child. Both parents have joint decision making rights right now.
34488
In most cases involving minor's counsel, this is an attorney appointed by the Court to represent the child's interests and paid for by the parents.  Unless there is a hotly contested custody hearing, the court usually won't appoint one.  Of course, the exact laws and policies on will vary vary by state.\n\nIf your son wants to come live with you, talk it over with your ex.  You might be able to work something out.  If your ex won't agree, you will need to file a motion for a change of custody and prove to the court that it is in the child's best interest to live with you now.
68748
once your child is 16 you're no longer responsible for their actions. it depends on the situation, however, because if they child decides to move out on their own then they're allowed and you're no longer responsible. at the same time, however, if you're refusing to take care of your child when they need it, you're to blame.\n\nit more so depends on the situation, really. if it's something you can't control, then you're not responsible.
51648
call the child services and report kiddnapp. grandma do have rights, but the child has no voice or choice. You must report this before he leves country. In Calfornia there is lots of help, especialy, free-legal aide. But if YOU DO NOT WANT TO CAUSE PROBLEMS, then you really do not want this child back. Their always help for children, step up and take action.
62605
My guess is that Michigan law is the same as most other states. When you are 18 you are by law a adult. There fore you have a right to put him or her out just as you have a right to tell any one visting your home to leave.
318151
Well i no the state im in you have to be 16 years of age you need to prove to the court you have a job and a place to live otherwise your to young.. they need to see you can take care and support yourself without adults...which means you need to become a little adult.... call your local court house and they will tell you the law there but i bet its alot like the one where i live... good luck
369771
The day you turn 18, you can move out. Before that age, you would be considered a runaway. After that age, you are an adult and can make decisions for your own life. Your parents can no longer tell you what to do, but they also don't have to help you out with anything.\n\nWhen you hit 18, your parents responsibility for you ends. You can pack your bags and hit the road, never looking back, if that's what you want. On the reverse side, when you turn 18, your parents can pack your bags, put you out the door, change the locks, and never look back.\n\nWhat I would suggest is trying to talk to your parents and explain the need to establish yourself as an independent person. Be reasonable, be calm, and be respectful. In the end, it is your decision, but you don't want to do irreparable damage to your relationship with your parents.