without being mean.Serious help needed about what to say
214732
Just be honest, tell him you just don't think it is working out the way you thought it would.  That will let him know you were interested but it is just not clicking now.
468268
Nothing wrong with talking .... just don't be too quick to rush into something a little more serious till you're sure of the facts \nGood Luck :)
232053
Say "how interesting! I'll keep that in mind." Or "thank you for sharing that." Then say no more. \n\nBe polite, be non-agressive, and be sure to keep a smile on your face. \n\nIf they can't get a rise out of you, if you act as though you really aren't bothered, they'll go find someone else to bother. \n\nVerbal bullies need to see their 'victims' reacte. Don't give them the satisfaction.
76491
Be upfront and sincere. Maybe they can tell already : )
99319
perhaps you can say it without a single word. you can give him attention more than usually, take good care, always be there when he needs you, or some sort like that. love does not always came through words.
422668
Relax. Every once in a while say 'What the hell you mean".\n\nJust kidding.Do not say that.\n\nJust relax and listen to the questions. GOOD LUCK !
562641
stick up for yourself assretivly, tell them you arent stupid, you dont appreciate the insination or accusation that you are and you would prefer if they never said that to you again. dont be mean, dont yell, be calm and say what you feel, then dont back down or feel guilty for it.
354849
I would apologize to the girls for thinking of them as objects (boobs, tushes, etc).  Tell them you know that you were insensitive & will try not to be in the future.  Also, why not ask them to let you know in the future if you do say something insensitive again as you want to learn how to improve. That way they'll really know that you mean it.
582650
Well that's easy my friend. Try to flatter her. (we love that) Joke around with her. say something funny.(not rude) Don't try so hard. And most of all, always try to be yourself. We gals hate liars. i wish u the best of luck.
456157
say it an inderct way, don't make it sound too much serious although it is. best of luck.
18869
you shuld gradually start talking to her. dont give her any reason to think you are mean. ask her some ?'s and say something funny when you are around her, GOOD LUCK
57605
A very simple Hi....how are you?.....with a big smile will do just fine. Or how about "where have you been all my life"? Or even....."You are so pretty". Maybe even a classic..."Have I seen you before?"....but act as if you really seen her before. Good luck. I hope these work to at least break the ice.
237351
Go over and apologize. Bring a peace offering with you like a pie or something. Make sure that the source of the disagreement doesn't crop up again.  You don't even have to actually say you're sorry, just say something like "I know things have been tense between us but we're neighbors and things could be better." If he doesn't slam the door in your face and accepts the peace offering, that's a good start.  Check for non-verbals since Chinese culture has lots of nuances that are reflected in gestures, facial reactions and not in verbiage mostly.
22704
I would just be upfront about it and spit it out. Find a non-uptight moment and sit down and explain the problem. Decide on what would be best to fix the problem and do it. Just talk it out with them.
135552
Ouch! Don't make it sound like a big deal if you bring it up with her.  Just say something like, "Hey, haha, at the airport, when you hugged me goodbye, sorry about that stomach-poking..."  And laugh while you're saying it, but make it sound like you don't find it completely funny like an immature idiot, but a bit embarrassed in a cute way.  Try to blush bit, if you can, and sound as sincere as you can while laughing.
442281
You only sacrifice dignity when you act dramatic, not victimized.  This person hurt you. There is nothing wrong with you letting them know that.  Just do so in a calm cool manner, no yelling crying or profanity. If you can keep your composure you may be able to end this unfortunate situation, with closure and feeling good about yourself.
235083
Definitely say something. "you know what I said earlier I didn't mean. I''m sorry" It's really hard sometimes to say. But you've got to clear the air or it'll just surface again at some other point.