Ive always been very sensitive and cried easly but as the year have gone ive been able to control it however the past 3 mth only right before and during and a few day after im a mess which is a total of 10 days its become much heavier too and i never had cramps before and now they are so bad i understand it is because im not 16 anymore im becoming a woman but it there anything i can do or take that doesnt require a visit ti the doc ive got no insurance thanks;)
200978
You are not alone... I get the same problem. About a week before my period starts, I get very emotional- I cry about everything and get pissed off over nothing. My legs and thighs feel sore and crampy, I get a migraine and I get nloated like a swollen pig. I think its just normal for some people. I even think the it is hereditary.
38896
You absolutely need to see a doctor!!!  This is not normal.  I had heavy periods but never like that.  Could you have been pregnant?  If so, it could be a miscarriage - but either way - GET TO A DOCTOR!
56734
you need to talk to your Dr. about this!  Maybe its as simple as being put on birth control (which help a lot of people with painful cramps) but it could be something else-- who knows??\n\nAlso exercise is supposed to help- try to do a 30minute walk every day you have them- or even if you know when you will get your period (if you are regular) start the day BEFORE you get it\n\nbut definately ask your Dr.\n\nMine get pretty bad on the first day- I take 3 200mg advil and buy those sticky heat pads- and that usually really helps, but I guess everyone is different
496376
That could mean your periods are on their way. Be prepared with a pad and know how to use it. Generally speaking, girls periods come any time from when they are 10 to when they're 16. Don't worry. Is this your first? If it is I suggest on a private calendar writing that you have cramps and keeping track of PMS, cramps, bloating, and especially periods.\n\nSo, yes you're periods may be near. Talk to your mother (if comfortable to) and tell her you think they may come soon so she can buy you pads to bring to school.
113649
You should see your doctor about this. A normal period is every 28 days with 5-7 days of bleeding. The bad cramps could be a symptom of a potentially serious problem. For example, ten years ago I had severe cramps that weren't helped by OTC meds. An ultrasound revealed a 5cm cyst on a 4cm ovary. Fortunantly birth control was prescribed and the cyst was gone in a month. If it had ruptured, the Dr said it would have required immediate surgery, possibly a hysterectomy. I am not regular (every 28 days) either but that can also be controlled with meds. Definately call your doctor and make an appointment soon. Good luck.
416735
In most cases women who haven't had their period (not b/c of pregnancy) are usually just stressed out. It should come naturally. In the mean time just try to relax and do things that make you feel good. Good luck!
316686
Honey, you are being normal for a 12 year old. Your body is finally changing into adult hood. Talk to your mother about it. It may help you in your feelings. You can be depressed at the age of 12, but you can stop it from happening by talking to her about it. Your period may be about to start, which is scary for someone your age, and as someone who has had her period for 12 years now, I know you have all these emotional things that happen and you dont know why. Sucks, but that is the price we have to pay for being female. Good luck sweety. And feel better.
260829
yep...you're normal.  for the first year you may experience periodic bleeding and sometimes heavier bleeding and cramping almost like a period.  A lot of times after a year the periods go away all together.  That was my experience.  if the cramping and bleeding persists beyond a few days, talk to your doctor.
162421
A miscarriage is different for every woman, but if you were bleeding and having severe cramps, then it may be safe to say you did.  But if you had a period right after, then I highly doubt it.  Your body wouldn't have adjusted that quickly.
523393
Depends how old you are. I took my teenage daughter to the doctor's as her periods are very irregular and he said it's normal at her age for them to be erratic. Perhaps you should visit your doctor and check there is nothing wrong? If the frequency and/or severity of your periods bother you, there is the option of going on a lose dose contraceptive pill to regulate your periods and reduce the pain. If it's only happened this once I really wouldn't worry. I've not heard of the weather affecting menstruation but apparently the moon can. I'd talk to your doctor if you're really worried if only to put your mind at rest x x
542671
My first several periods were not painful at all.  Sometimes you can get cramps in your stomach but not everyone experiences that.  I was 13 when I started my period for the first time.  I had NO CLUE that I had started.  I simply had to go to the bathroom while walking home from school one day.  I went into the Hardee's uptown and used their restroom.  When I went I had dark brown on my underpants and when I wiped.  I have an older sister so I knew what was happening.  I went home and later that evening it became red and like a normal period.  I didn't feel any different though.  Now... later I started having cramping and moodiness but that happened a few years after I began my period.  You are going to be just fine.  It's not as bad as we women make it out to be sometimes.
340753
No way to tell what is going on, pain and cramping is normal to some people during their periods. Best to see your Dr for a check up he/she will know more about it than anyone on here. Don't be scared, get a check up every year anyway just in case there is a problem, if there is one the earlier they know about it the easier it is to fix. Good luck!
537619
You did not say how old you are or whether or not you are menstruating. If you haven't yet started your menses, this condition could be a prelude to that and will go away when you get a regular cycle. Sounds like you need to talk to your parent or responsible female adult to arrange for a check up by a health practitioner, just to relieve your fears.\n\nVitex (aka Chaste Tree) is a good herb to help balance hormones and get things on the right track. Also helps w/ monthly cramps & pimples. Take 1- 500 mg. capsule 2 times every day.
357587
I know this is easier said then done, but I wouldn't worry about it just yet.  Ive had mine for 3 years now and I'm 32 and your body does go through changes all the time.  Just take a deep breath and relax and if things don't change in a week or so, then call a doctor.  I'm a Paramedic and a woman, so just tryin to help 8-)
622290
its differnet for everyone. i also start cramping about a week ahead of time.  it sucks but thats our lot in life.
435751
haha don't worry there. the first year or two your periods are going to be a little off. it's stil adjusting. don't worrry. some girls even skip a month sometimes. don't worry though. if you feel as though you need to see a doctor..see one. but i really do'nt think you should worry. it happens.
591319
You are normal.  If this were abnormal, your mother would be taking you to the doctor.  In the beginning, periods can be very irregular.  In fact, they can be this way throughout your teens.  When I was younger, mine came between 25 and 35 days apart once they got going.  In the very beginning (I was 11), they were even more sporadic.\n\nHave your mother buy you a book about the changes your body is going through to help you know what to expect and why everything is happening the way that it is.  Not only will this make you feel better, it will also give you a point of reference to know when something is NOT normal and when you should go to a doctor.\n\nA good one might be: \nWhat's Happening to My Body? Book for Girls : A Growing Up Guide for Parents and Daughters (Paperback)  by Lynda Madaras