i have a friend and she has been spending all her time with other friend which is totally cool but know she is phoning me up and insisting that she come here for a girlie night in she has not mentioned anything about her party she had last week which i was not invited to and we are supposed to be best friends, she talks to all of my friends and says things when i talk to her about this she says its not true, her mother and my mum are friends and its awkward
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My daughter went through this not very long ago.  It hurt her very much.  Why are girls so evil at this age.  The girl continued to call and my daughter has finally realized that she just enjoys drama.  She finally told her so- called best friend not to call and she no longer wants to have her friendship.  Since, this girl has gossiped and tried to have others ignore my daughter.  Didn't work since they have all realize that she is a phony..
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has she started taking drugs or drinking..this could explain alot.\n\nAre her new friends telling what she wants to hear...your pretty, popular...cool when you hang out with us. If you hang out with your other friends you are a loser...they may be telling her that, and in the interest of being accepted and being with the cool group she is not being true to herself.
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She's probably jealous of you, if I were you I would confront her. If she's a backstabber you have no friendship to lose. She's already ruined it.
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First of all, your friend is really petty. She should be mad at your mother for calling her a liar, but if she is one, then she just is one. No need to front, but she is not a worthy friend, she seems trashy. I don't care, don't ever talk to your friend's guy. Even if you are not together anymore, that's just the rule. I don't know if you guys were together, but it still applies, don't go after guys your friends like. I have always felt that anyone who would stab their friend in the back like that doesn't deserve to remain friends with the person. End your friendship, if she is doing stuff like this now, imagine down the line, when the guy is your boyfriend, fiance, or husband. What is she going to do when she gets mad at you then, sleep with them to get back at you for a petty argument. Also the guy, you should not even care about him either. He is suppose to be hooking up with you, but hooks up with your friend, knowing how you feel about him, let them be together, they deserve each other. You'll find someone else, but definitely don't remain friends with the girl, she seems very devious.
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This friend of yours is not a good person. She is definitely simply leeching out favours from others. Just leave her, don't talk to her. She'll definitely come back for more assurance. I think she needs some counseling.
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when you care about someones feeling or respect someone  you give them an explanation why you break plans,  obviously she doesnt consider your feeling, so i really dont think shes much of a friend. Shes more like an acquaintance. Stop calling her and maybe she'll give you a call if she misses you.And if she doesnt call just dont worry about it, get a new friend
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i would talk to her about the situation and see why she has changed.  you can't ignore it, especially if you guys were the bestest of friends.  i mean i would want to know if my friend didn't want to hang out with me anymore, i think i would deserve some sort of explanation.
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the only suggestion I can think of is to ride it out.....wait until something happens. Either your friend AM is making the whole thing up cause she's jealous or something, or TM's shy....anything could be true. Anyways, just wait for something to happen, and then go from there, instead of getting worked up about it.
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Your old friend is probably feeling betrayed by you.  She thought that she was doing a good thing by being nice to the 'new girl' and in turn has lost her best friend.  \n\nyou probably need to make it known that she still means as much to you as before and that you dont want another person to come between you.  Good luck and let me know what happens
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Find some thing else to do give them some time together. if she is a Friend she will not forget you she will realize that she has been leaving you out.
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I have the same problem she thinks that I ignore her around my other firends and then she does the same thing. When I confront her about it, it always ends up to be a fight or she responds with " Your a slut" and I am not. If i were you i would confront her about it or ignore her untill she sees what good of a friend you are to her.
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Believe her for the time being. If she says nothing is between them, nothing is between them BUT be aware because something is BOUND to happen because she is not telling you everything. While she's sneaking and lying to you, YOU have a decision to make. She's either your friend or she isn't. This has nothing to do with your "ex" because he is your ex, this is a friend who crossed the line and she must be dealt with. I'm not saying that you have to fight with her but you have to realize, this might be the first time and it might not be the last time she does this. BUT please before you react, give her the benefit of the doubt, let her decide which is more important, her friendship to you or some guy.
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IDK, tell her u have other friends that you wanna hang out with, tell her she's NOT ur only friend. tell her how u really feel.
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I have the same problem. my friend thinks just because she's sooooo popular she can stop hanging around her best friend. maybe you should tell her she doesn't know what type of friend she's leaving behind. if she doesn't listen to you, don't hang out with her anymore and ind a new friend.
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Oh boy!! That's a touchy one.  First thing I would do is start off by letting her know that she is your friend and you don't want anything to come between you.  Sit her down and let her know you want to talk to her.  Then tell her you are her friend and you don't want anything to come between you and her.  Then tell her what has been happening. The tough parts are not coming across as a threat and letting her know you are sincere and really am talking to her about this because you value her as a friend.
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I surely wouldn't go hang out with her. You don't need that stress, besides it sounds like a set up. brush her off your shoulders and find a new friend
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She sounds like she's confused. next time you talk to her, just tell her that you think she's cool but you don't want to get in the middle of her and her bf's relationship. If she wants to be friends with you that's fine but if she wants to take it further she needs to say bye to him. Good luck!!