Me and ma man have been together for 7 months and now hez gettin kinda weird. itz almost like he has me so he doesnt hav to try anymore...and i cant help but feel like hez found someone else..i dont kno, but he thinks itz perfectly fine to talk to girls who he practically juzt met...some of the gurls he talks to came after he was talkin to me...HELP!:(
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Talk it over and be frank about how you're feeling. I do hope you don't talk like you spell. It could be disatrous!!!\n7 months is too short to get so hooked on a guy! God made plenty to go around girl.. get a grip and move on if you are feeling unstable but dont let it hamper all of your other relationships.
252646
Wow, that hurts!!Be strong and wise girl.It's hard but remember that theres no way you can control him, or his actions, including him leaving his girlfriend. Your probably thinking that you love him and no one will ever compare to him. I'm a girl too, I know how we are.But I'm sure you've felt that way for someone else before him.Look ahead to the love you will find after him...and know that your new man is all yours.Sometimes you have to look at the big picture for what it is. Your man is lying to both of you...is that fair to you or her? Put yourself in her shoes...how would you feel? And I'm sure you've heard that saying that what goes around comes around. Treat others how you wanna be treated. Anyways...trust your gut....it's already telling you to leave...listen to that and find happiness. Good luck with everything and if you ever wanna talk, feel free to contact me! And please dont let that player win the game.
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!!!Well , you have a problem there!! I would in this particular situation most likely would somehow leave the (cheating) situation alone and let him now how it feels and that maybe he should think twice before making out with some girl he met that night. Also i would not go out with him because he sound like a slut , especially if he is making out with a girl he just met. I can give you advice but i can not  make the decision for you.\nTootles!!!
218332
i think he still wants to be with you. he just seems to be a little over protective and gets jealous when u look at another guy. u should talk to him about that
147097
Your problem is that he's still into her in his head and that's really hard to break down. All you can do is be there for him and show him the contrast between a great gal (you) and a cheat (her).
432928
Seems like he's still a bit emotionally attached but not ready to jump back into a relationship. I'm not sure if this means he's in love with you still, or if he's just having trouble letting go, but either way he seems just as confused as you.\nIf I were you I'd confront him. See what his deal is, and hopefully you can work it out.
407422
He talks to other girls because you let him. You get upset, but you keep seeing him. He has online friends and you still love him. He has learned that he can do whatever he wants because you "love" him and put up with his crap. He doesn't like you talking to guys because he knows the kinds of things guys like him say to girls online.
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This is strange. People are allowed to make their own choices about who they want to talk to or not. If he can't see that, you might want to show him that. Then again, perhaps when he talks to other girls, he is playing the field - meaning dangling the carrot in front of the donkey.\n\nYou're only his girlfriend, not his slave. So you have the right amount of freedom to talk to other guys too. Perhaps he could be insecure that he won't 'allow' you to speak to other guys. He needs to gain more confident in himself and learn to trust you. When you two do that, there is no need for resentment and all will be happy. Hope that helps, cheers.
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Call him, ask if you two want to hang out again sometime. He won't think its an invitation to be your girlfriend, he'll think its just an invitation to have another good time. I know this because this girl Yasmine and I are doing the same thing right now. I want to eventually be her boyfriend though, so maybe our circumstances are a little different.
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um..\nthats kinda messed up,\nif u see that hes still with her, then oviously he doesnt really care what you think.\n\nthink of it this way.. would you want some girl saying that and wondering how she can get ur guy to like her instead of you? and want to break  guys up? i dont think youd like that.\nstop being selfish and get another guy that DOESNT have a girl.\n\ngosh.. i dont like girls like you.
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Do wat I do, give him a taste of his own medicine, go out with your girls & stuff. It seems as if he just talks 2 u when its convenient 2 him, relationships R about compromise. Try confronting him, its good 2 B honest
407365
If he is not willing or "ready" to leave his girl-friend for you, he isnt worth wasting your time on.  He might be fooling you.  Me may "love" the convenience of you being there when he wants you there or he simply wants to keep you around so he just tells you what you want to hear.  Honestly, i think it would be best if you left this guy.  Just think of what your future (if any) with him would be... If the two of you did get together, you will always have it in your mind that he could be straying because that is how your relationship with him started.
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mhmhmhm.. No, it doesnt mean he is talking to any other girls. He might have forgotten.. and got something else to do. it doesnt mean he doesnt like you anymore.. However, if he does this constantly and you dont feel right about it, just talk to him. \n:) \nBye
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Talk to him... tell him you are not comfortable with it. And be understanding, he may have girl friends, but make sure he knows it is bothering you. And make shure he knows you two are more than just friends, and find out whether those other girls are more than just friends.
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I think that you should talk to him about it. He may be feeling awkward because you told him how you felt and he's not ready to make the transition from "friends" to "more than friends." Talk to him and see where his head is at, try to make him feel comfortable so that he won't blow you off. Things like this are never easy, but you'll never until you ask. Good luck....
301120
Well girl sounds like "to little to late" thing to me .Now that you let go of those love feeling , he wants to change!Tell him bye bye,sounds like hes just saying whatever he thinks you might want to hear to keep the relationship.Buy him a 10.00 dollar phone card and tell him to "call someone who gives a shit" Good Luck
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Your boyfriend should not want to be in a realtionship if this is the kind of behavior he likes to do with his female friends. There is no way you will ever feel better about what he is doing. Sound like he doesn't have to much respect for you or your feeling.