What do girls see in a guy? Here I am asking two questions. \n1> For Sex (If u wanna have sex, what do u look for?)\n2> To be serious (If u wanna marry him then what do u look for?)
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1) Good looks and a great body\n2) Honesty, respect, potential, focus in life, humor, intelligence, total fidelity, sincerity and affection.
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what i look for in a guy is basically someone i can have a good time with.  I go for personality first and he has to be able to make me laugh and smile. no one likes a serious stiff guy. but u have to be careful also that the guy isnt took much of a clown. Looks always come second to me because sure u can have a good time showing off your boyfriend if he's cute but u cant always have a good time with him.
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For a long term relationship: I want a girl whose personality compliments mine. Is easy to talk to and joke with. One that is easy to look at, I not saying she has to look perfect, just not gross. I'd go for a perfectly average girl if she had the right personality.\n\nFor a fling though looks and willingness to put out are right up there!
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a girl will look for something about the guy that interests them.like eyes, smile, butt, or some other physical attraction. then the girl will approch the guy and start talking to him. if you are in a place with alot of people and if that happens she is so interested.
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A paradox. They want a girl who is a clean, virgin like, a good girl who is NOT easy. But they want a girl who is sexy, sexually aggressive, who would be great in the sack. A girl who will dress sexy, flirt, kiss and touch them but never let them screw her. A challenge. A girl who is interested in them without a doubt but is hard to possess. A girl who will not have sex with other guys but she will have sex with you, awesome sex, after you've earned it. Feed a guys ego. Manipulate his animal desires, make him pursue you. Make yourself appear valuable by how much it cost to get you. Yeah, that's something that guys want. Stupid guys. \n\nKeep in mind though that every guy is different. For example, a girl playing hard to get is a HUGE turnoff for me. It makes me feel like she isn't really interested and is the type who would dump me when somone better comes along. What i like is a girl who is madly, and i mean MADLY attracted to me and shows it. If she's at all good looking and not slutty then a girl who throws herself at me is the best. I find girls who are like obsessively in love with me and get jealous of me to be extremely attractive. I just like feeling that i am something special to her and that i can't be replaced. It's an ego boost and also you just know that wow, this girl really cares about me. But again, that's just me, a freak of nature. Most guys enjoy persuing women.\n\nBe a sexy virgin and almost all guys will desire you. But love, that's something else. A happy sustainable relationship cannot be based solely on desire. Lust is important there's no doubt about it but it's only a part of the equation. If you want a lasting relationship then you need to find a guy who you get along with like your best friend. Your personalities just have to click, and they call that love. Lust+bestfriend=true lasting love and marriage.
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If you look up and its in your face... I think you know something's up.\n\nAll guys want to have sex, always so be careful. You should already know this. Make him see the inner you before you give it up.
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The main thing I look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. He has to make me laugh. I really don't care about looks. I like a guy who can laugh at himself and make me laugh.
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I look for how a guy acts. His personality. I mean looks are a definite plus, but thats not what matters all the time... good luck...
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that wld depend as to what type of guy Im interstd in for that week..... or  what type of guy ill be looking for... \n\nclub, if im just looking for a casual date, or short fun\nbookstore, for someone serious \ncoffeshop, for someone whose comfy and relaxed\nchurch if i want a guy whose serious abt relationships and family\nfriends place for someone whose fun to be with
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Follow your heart, and also ask yourself if you really want to get married. Marriage is a serious thing, and make sure he is the one you want to marry. Money, looks means nothing if a guy/girl treats you like crap. Whoever is respectful of you and treats you who should be treated, go for that one. Good Luck!:P
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I read your comments:\n\nI'm looking to date girls to get to know them and have fun, but I'm open to serious relationships, even to marriage.\n\nJulie, I have good manners, I'm good looking, I have good hygiene, and I'm a fun person but I have no success.\nWhat is that of trying too hard?\n\nI think that you need to display for self confidence and girls will notice you.
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I want a girl who's quite, cute, shy, but can be all hot and crazy when she's going all out. And that's the girl next door when I'm in 7th grade. Lol\n\nAnd I know she wants a fun, advanturous, interesting a guy who can lead her, give her good feelings and emotions that she can never find in nice guys, she wants a guy who knows what he's doing; not a wuss, he's not afraid to express his anger at the right moment, also knows the moment to be sweet and loving... etc. \n\nKisses slowly and cuddle with her in the living room, making her feel safe and comforable\nKisses passionatly and violently in the bedroom, making her feel like a total sexual being...\n\nthere are million things more...\n\n\nP.S. \nThank you for your post to my question, these days are important to me for that I'm realizing the most important concept where my family, friends, everybody around me, life have failed me. Your post really cheered me up, now, good luck to you stranger!
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Are you being serious??\n\nYes, when u find a decent guy
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Who cares what a Man wants as long as he wants to date you cause you have a good heart. You should know that when a woman has a good heart that is good enough..if a guy only wants to look at what you are in the outside, he is not worth it...be beautiful inside....
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I respect girls who try new things and go outside their comfort zone.\n\nAny girl who goes after what she wants will be attractive, because she is likely to be happier, more confident, and more driven, in my mind at least.\n\nDo it and don't worry about what guys like.
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lol, good one.  anyway, what would the girl want with the guy if he kinda like did animals. lol, good tho, keep em comin..........the jokes
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Not all guys are SOLELY looking for sex in a romantic relationship. Many men want the same things as many women - commitment, loyalty, love, etcetera.\n\nHowever, that said, be careful not to knock sex in a relationship; it's part of the entire romantic relationship situation, of course. Eventually, it will come up, one way or another. You cannot just say, "I want a commited relationship with a guy and never have sex." That's just nutty. But I do not think that is what you are suggesting here.\n\nMy advice would be to be up-front with guys in which you are interested; let them know whether you want just a casual, sexual relationship, or a commited, serious, long-term one. At that point, most guys will take a hike if they do not agree with your liking for a particular kind of relationship, so you need not worry too much.