ex gives me a gift, my newbie has a sh*t fit snd leavs because i dont return the gift including s message that informs ex to leave me th hell alone?  whos more head screwed??
208923
Sounds like a control freak. Roundhouse kick her to the curb!
118338
If your boyfriend believes her over you, you should be happy to get rid of him!! For real send her a thank you card if she gets him to break up with you, just say it wasnt worth fighting for you could of just asked nicely and i would of handed him over along with his shot record from the dog shelter and his favorite collar.... if he picks her over you he wasnt worth it!
212781
Hell yeah!!!  SOunds like she wanted you and your ex to split so she can make her move.  Kick her to the curb girl.
33435
By law the rings were gifts and are hers to do with as she pleases.  She should be having no contact with this man for any reason.  Have her block his emails and if that doesn't work she should get a new email address.
609337
Why are you trying to hold onto this controlling, abusive man in any way? The greatest graduation gift you can give your daughter is to get this man out of your life. You are paying because you have allowed yourself to be dependent on a person who was not good for you or your kids. Move on, take responsibility for supporting yourself and your kids. Your daughter does not need any presents from your ex-boyfriend. She needs a mother who will put her first.
331554
If he is your Ex, tell him it is over and quit playing games...If you are done with the Ex leave him alone and reassure your new BF that it is over and he has nothing to worry about with him...\n\nDon't play games...someone could get really hurt and it may be you!!  Be careful when dealing with someones heart!!!
463835
Ally hunny...if you don't trust this person then it's best to reply and tell her she has the wrong email address...OR you could ignore her...if she's acting like a bunny boiler then it's best to just steer clear of her, she may be nice for a short time, then turn into a nut case later....trust your instincts and just ignore her message....don't answer it...delete it and put a block on hers so she does not contact you again
435410
Tell you ex's GF to take it on a hike.  She has no business wanting to know your child.  And for that matter, neither does your ex.  Be strong, and best wishes to you.
501961
Unless you are absolutely insane, and want trouble, leave the ex alone.  Do not call him, do not see him.  You say he never actually cared about you, so why would you even consider talking to him.  Do not mess us a good thing!
229660
get rid of her!! trust me i went through the same shit with my ex and turns out he was just playing me and another girl at the same time
493307
Eeeks that sucks.  First of all the cheating is DISRESPECTFUL.. I think the ex saying hi is pretty rude too, but its the ex you have to expect that kind of stuff from them... your fiance should have said... hey you remember my fiance... and introduced you, that way it put you in the power and the ex is left looking and feeling stupid... you need to talk to your fiance and let him know that he has messed up in the past and you forgave him, but he has to really step it up in situations like that.  Whenever a girl comes up to talk to him in front of you, make sure he knows to introduce you and don't be shy make sure you make your presence known to those mean girls.  You have chose to stay with your fiance even though he has cheated so its up to you to make sure he knows you will not put up with cheating or disresting from other females.... don't worry he will never let that happen again after you have a talk.
206782
My guess would be it wasn't something you did it was something or some one he wanted to do and couldn't as long as he had a commitment to you. The gift was a nice gesture and if it made you feel better, then it was twice the gift you thought it was. Mend and move on girl. There's one out there for you.
44842
I would be a little irritated, but not for too long. Obviously your b/f is kind of taking liberties with the expectations of a gift, and of course when you exchange gifts everyone expects some type of equitable balance, but I tell ya, this is just in the U.S!. In general, it's OK for a boyfriend to go all out with a gift just to show his love and appreciation. In latin America, that type of display is actually OK, like filling up a room with roses or bringing a whole band of mariachis to your house to serenade you. Maybe he has that concept of chivalry or something. Just let him be and enjoy it. Maybe go for the $10 stuffed bear instead of the $5.\nOh and P.S. Don't mention anything to him about the cost or how he wasted money. That's rude and hurtful. Trust me, in about 3 years he'll be getting you the $10 bear at Walgreens.
179064
You don't ask for gifts. I just don't get it. Why do people EXPECT gifts and tell people what they want. I think that's tacky as hell!
132906
wow- you're angry.  Sounds like you picked a wrong partner.  But I bet you're no picnic to live with either, especially if ANY of this hostility comes through.  Hopefully you just had a bad day and needed to vent, if not- call a lawyer before there's children involved!
1346
Say thanks, and if you need to take it back, ask them if they got a gift receipt.  If they have one, then politely explain to them that you'd really like a napster subscription better, and so you'd like to exchange it.  It's not a big deal unless you make it one.
379797
Quite a lousy situation.  However, my take on it is this.  Sounds like your boyfriend holds some of the cards here.  Unless his ex had a signed contract with him regarding the money she had loaned him, she would be hard pressed to get it back unless she is willing to go through some major legal wrangling.  And yes, he was being used as a "storage unit" so he should definitely be entitled to the market rate of what that would have cost the ex had she done it properly.  I know what I would do.  Don't pay her a cent and dare her to try to take it to court.  In fact, you probably would have a better chance to prevail in a lawsuit you would bring against her considering the lack of 30 day notice as added ammo as well.  You may want to consider small claims court, since you could most likely do this on your own w/o lawyering up.