Look at Hefner. He is about as desirable to a 21 year old as I am.  NOT.\nYet, they swarm around him "cause they "love" him, and want to be with him for the rest of her life.  She means "his" life.
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A bomb shell will only marry an old man for money, bottom line.
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Your ex-bf's problem has nothing to do with age. He wants to "have his cake and eat it too". (I hate that cliche). I agree with phattphatt. This guy is unstable and needs to be kicked to the curb. If he keeps this crap up she will do the same and he will have lost you both. I'm not so sure what the age problem is, she is only a year younger. Your first statement made it sound like he a was dating a child and he was in his thirtys. Give him the boot and find yourself a real man.
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I think it's wrong. Now correct me if I am wrong but what can a 17 yr old boy have in common with a 35yr woman? Woman are more mature than men, let alone she is a self made woman she has a career he is still trying to have one. So she is always going to pay for everything, and buy him clothes and video games, and maybe his 1st car at that too. What about his parents they must think it's crazy, what if he has a curfew isn't she going to get tiered or better yet how do you introduce him to family and friends"oh this is my student and lover"?...not a good idea
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I'm going to guess that they're either young or poor.  Or maybe shallow.  Or perhaps they buy into the myth that more money means more happiness.  You could really play with them though, saying things like, "I'm planning to give it all to the church" or "I can only keep it if I remain celibate."  But that would be mean.  \nYou realize, of course, that there were probably some women at that party who were saying, "There was this cute guy, but he wouldn't pay attention to me because I was (pick one) flat-chested, not great-looking, too short, too tall, etc."  So, you get to say that they were shallow only if you weren't, but since you focused on only the "great-looking women" then you count as shallow, too.
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If you are looking for a long term relationship...marriage down the line, I would seriously consider the fact that most men in their latter years prefer a younger woman.  90% that is.  \n\nIn other words, when you are 50, he will be looking 35 year old women.  If you don't believe me, just ask your older female friends.
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When someone is a minor, age just isn't a number...it's a criminal offense. \nThink about it...24 year olds are into a lot of stuff 17 year olds aren't.  If his past relationships bother you take it as a red flag and find someone else.
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I'm guessing you mean she finds him attractive, but only physically. If this is the case you have nothing to worry about because she told you. If she lusted for him in secret then it would cause you worry. Since she told you about it then it's not any different than you commenting on a pretty lady when the two of you are watching a movie. there are lots of attractive people out there man and women. That's why we have models. It doesn't mean she wants to be with them emotionally. Sounds like she is reserving that for you. Just be proud that your the one shes with and wants to be with.
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Not trying to be sarcastic but, trying to impress a guy who's really hot with a gun doesn't sound like a 29 yo but more like a teenager. Would think at 29 you would have developed an adult viewpoint. I would think that it would be a bad idea if this "hot" guy has that much influence what will he want you to do with this gun to impress him even more. It's easy to start down a path like that but dealing with the consequences can sometimes be difficult to cope with.
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Oh!  By older guys, I really though older guys (of course I'm an adult).  I think it's because boys that age lose their minds.  It's the time in their lives when their friends' opinions is the most important.  And they get it worse than us girls do, because they have that ego thing.  The poor things ^_^;\n\nWith older men who try to get my attention, it's still all about the ego.  But they want to feel mre virile.  I get that a lot unfortunately.  I'm a 29-year-old who looks like an 18-yr-old.  I get both types of "boys"--young or old.  UGH!
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I don't know about cursing their future, but I do believe that 16 is way too young to be invloved in a sexual relationship.  There are so many emotions invloved in romance and 16 is a hard enough age without the trouble of trying to figure out the aspects of love.  Grown men have gone to their grave without ever having figured it out.
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Why is he still single (unmarried) at 43? Why do you always have to start the discussion about moving in together? Why did he make that remark?\n\nI think you are right to wonder about his commitment to the relationship. But don't overreact - take it easy. I may be wrong!
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yes it is, sounds like someone wants to be boss and are selfish and wants it only their way, yet they sound like they cant lead but only wants followers........ if someone told me that, i would be very hurt and walk !!! it takes 2 to make a couple a happy couple !!! a relationship is a 2 way street, not a dictatorship !!!!!!!!
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If they are truly in love then age shouldnt matter .After all , he is just a guy and she is just a girl ,and they are both just looking for that special someone . Just make sure the girl knows to take it slow and theyll be fine.
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I can't believe all the bullkaka I am reading here.\n\nSo a man can be 20 yrs older but not a woman?  Get serious people and start realizing that life is not always about your young tight a$$.  There is much more out there than most of you will ever experience, especially with an attitude like I see from some of you.  LOL
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Jesus!  Dump this guy TONIGHT!\n\nA 37 year old giving a 32 year old (and once before married) a freaking PROMISE RING?\n\nWhat's next-- he's going to give you his pledge pin?\n\nGet a guy with balls.
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Most women don't know what they want even at an older age. I think most of us go through a period of yes, we do want the type of guy listed above, cute, smart, funny, respectful, but when we get that there just not bad enough. Don't have enough edge, they seem sissy to us. As women mature and grow older then we realize that those bad boys are just well, bad boys and we actually want a commitment from a guy not some loser w/o a job or ambition for anything.   While it's hard on guys, you just have to be patient there's  girl out there that's wanting a nice guy and can't find them and get's stuck w/ losers...hell, i always did. I think sometimes it maybe not so much a sense of false hope just maybe afraid of oh, my gosh what are my friends going to think b/c he's just so nice and this might make them think he's too sissy. I wish you luck in you search. God bless.
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Simply put, move on. If you're under 30 (and judging from your grammar, you are.) You're too young to be serious about anyone in the first place.