she joined 2 call centre & now she is refusing me. i dunno y! she told my friend dat dats 4 my best. she is my neighbour. i wanted her 4 one night. plz tel me wat 2 do!
208948
Talk to her and ask why she is running away?  Maybe she doesnt want you for just one night - maybe she wants more
111985
i think this is the start of friendship..and maybe she is doing job or something like this..so when she busy she dosnt accept your call because she wants to talk to u easily not in a front of anyone...she wants to talk to u alone ON PHONE...when u called her and she dosnt reply..it means that she remove herself to somewhere so she can talk to u easily..well there r alot of reasons too, i dont know the rest of all, i know only this reasion because sometimes u know girl/guy dont like to talk in a front of people on phone..i had this problem too but not now...
557127
That's really rude.  Perhaps she wasn't as a good a friend as you thought.\nThe most appropriate action is to move on.  If you want to keep her as an aquaintance, that could work but she gave you a pretty clear message about where you stand with her.
669917
Honey, please don't tear yourself up.  Remember, that you are a valued person, your have a life that can be beautiful. Don't let her use you, respect yourself, where is your self-esteem? Next time she calls, be polite and considerate, but let her know that you have your own life and she isn't in it.  Politely tell her to find another ex to cry to.You my friend are worth so much more than to be used as a sounding board. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and find someone who appreciate you for you . Please, do this for yourself.  I found someone I adore and am adore back, we would nerve be disrespectful of each other as she is to you.  Take a long hard look at yourself, you are one hell of a women. Someone out there is dying to meet you.
417173
She's what you call a "fair-weather friend". She's only around when it suits HER but not vice-versa.  I've had a few like that and the best thing is to cut them loose.  You are right not to talk to her anymore.  Some people are so immature they cannot see how their actions drive others away.  Don't call her bcz it will put the ball in her court and she will end up not calling YOU just to get back at you.\nIf you end up answering the phone when she calls just explain calmly and simply that you didn't appreciate how she blew you off AND lied to you during the crisis, when you really needed her, and obviously her priorities had been somewhere else.  You feel your friendship came to an end a long time ago.  Tell her you wish her luck and to take care of herself, that you're sure she will understand.  End with a firm 'goodbye'.  Keep your tone neutral and even. Don't be sarcastic or profane.  Remember, you're not going to lower yourself to her level.  Hope this helps.  It worked for me.
517592
I think it's a little weird that she was pissed when you needed to leave the next morning.  It's almost insecure.  When she cut you off on the phone it does sound like a game.  I bet she is waiting to see if you call her, not IM.  If you really like her, get over the issue of calling her place and give her a buzz. Otherwise sooner or later I'm sure she'll call you. Be careful....it seems too soon for her to be so over the top about you not staying longer.
31325
LOL.....man......I wish I had caller ID a few times too. I had this exact same thing happen to me! You described it well too. I thought I'd split a gut when you said that about the caller ID....ROFL.\n\nWell meaning person, sweet, intelligent....but MAN, just could not understand plain, well-stated english.\n\nOk.....I don't know which way you want to go....\n\n....but I tried and tried...and tried and tried and tried and tried....and did I mention that I tried?...to be polite, respectful, caring.\n\nTo carefully lay barriers (even tho I wanted to hide in a tank), talked with her, communicated in person, on the phone. And it's not like we were strong buds or anything it was just a low-level friendship, but she was treating me like a nuclear-powered soul mate. It was very inappropriate.\n\nI'd speak to her....kindly, clearly, but the message did not sink in. I asked her about what her feelings were, and she squarely, flatly said friendship. I asked her several times...just to be sure, and she emphatically said friendship. \n\nI tried my best to be this woman's friend, but it was never enough. She demanded more and more of my time and attention. It got worse and worse, and I communicated more and more firmly with her. I was starting to look for tickets to the next Shuttle launch so I could get away.\n\nI eventually had to warn her that she was quickly going to lose a friend if she didn't cut it out.....and she didn't....and I had to finally be rude to her. :(\n\nIt's a shame, but I wanted to make sure I did everything I could on my end, to give her every possible chance to keep the friendship. Severing a frendship is a pretty major thing, and I felt bad but things were getting pretty trippy.\n\nDunno what you can glean outta all this, but I wish you luck!     :D
232168
DON'T answer the phone, and tell her kindly that the friendship thing just isn't working for you. Obviously she thrives on head games and you are letting her do this to you. As the old saying goes....there are plenty of fish in the sea..find a girl to respect you, and give yourself a break, you deserve it.
346516
you should have a heart to heart talk with her. you have every right to get upset with her after all she didn't honour your request. but you could have handled it better. \n\ncall her and ask her to meet with you. apologize for reacting the way you did but not for the reason. it was your life she was discussing with her friend and you have every right to choose who knows about it. but don't let your friendship end because of it. if she cares enough she'll understand where your coming from. \n\ngood luck!
76203
Give her time to cool off.I am sure that if she is a good friend she will think about it and know that you would never do that to her. If she want listen to you then send someone else to talk for you. Leave her a message on her voice-mail, write a letter, or email. She has to listen or read one of them.
524820
yer hunny i know its hard but yer forget her find a better friend bbz.\n\ngood luck\n\npinky
346734
Take yourself out of the middle of this equation. Casually tell her that you didn't get around to asking them if they wanted to hang out and suggest that she call them and ask them herself. Let them have to explain themselves.
443447
Remind her who you report to...follow the chain of command. Is she your immediate supervisor? If so, then you have to comply with her requests, if she isn't, then you are within your rights to turn her down. Have your co-workers handle her the same way. She will soon get the message and back down. Try to keep one step ahead of her always.
375377
Hm...where'd you mess up with her? I'm not sure I understand what exactly happened. Maybe you came on too strong and she's not ready to have a relationship with anyone just yet. How old are you 2? It's something to consider. It sounded like she wanted to be your friend but you pushed it and pushed it and now she wants to stay away from you. Dunno. That's my guess, though.
472728
ok chill,\ni am going through something totally similiar and ive gone through it many times. here is some advice, dont say anything about any1 that might get u in trouble with them, also ur "friend" bob. if bob calls again asking 2 b ur friend again u gotta say no, hang out wit the ppl u trust. also kevin, i dont noe but he might be lyk bob wit the whole bored thing. just ignore these ppl bcos they obviously arent self confident wit themselves and r taking it out on u.\n:) hope it works out
384515
Just stay out of it...she needs to get a grip. She is intimidated by you ....she knows the truth but just fails to live it. Move on you can do better. What goes around comes around. Don't waste too much time being mad at this.
373034
INSTEAD OF TELLING HER TO LEAVE YOU ALNE, WHY DONT YOU TRY TO BECOME HER FRIEND? SHE MIGHT NEED ONE. JUST LIKE YOU NEEED SOME ONE TO GIVE YOU THIS ADVICE.