I am in my country again. I worked abroad and I had a good chance for an interesting carreer but my father wanted me to come back to the eurozone.I reflected and i followed his advice. Now in my country there aren't many chances for people with master levels.I mean the one not working yet but re-entering the labour market...and this is the after Easter period and we have many days of holiday scattled in the next weeks...so no one will check cv sent in this lepse of time. More, my previous boss(I had worked here only for a month for an Insurance company) is haunting me sending very humilating communication and paying me 0,89 euros (only with the porpuse of teasing me) when I told him to leave me alone 'cause i  did not want to have nothing to do with him anymore. (He did not respected me when I was in his office and he tried to get some extras...the more he's frustrated 'cause he invented to have obtained a degree in the same university i attended and i checked out and this is not true)
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Well... its simple... take the first flight and go away! The faster you do it the better is for you! If your father wants to see you just pay him a flight to visit you. Sometimes parents cannot see the reality of their children especially in the south of eurozone. I can guess whats your country reading what you say about your previous boss... i think... we maby live in the same country -the only one in eurozone where some boss can propose to pay u 0,89 euros even only teasing you... Just go away if you can as soon as possible! Good luck!
290655
Horsepuckey! His route up the career ladder is paralleling your academic path.  He isn't stalking you.  Why can't you talk to a teacher or parent? Get real!
193661
Ahhh. I have written so much today, my hands are tired. alas, I come to a question i have so much to say about, but don't feel like typing it all out :) Yes, I'm a citizen and damn proud of it. last semester(i'm in college) I worked in the dishroom and served dinner in our school's cafeteria-style dining hall. Dishroom wasn't great, was very hot, humid, and the floor was very slippery. didn't smell too pleasant, and scraping baked-on cheese off of large pans was no fun, either. But to be honest, the job was made fun by my co-workers who similarly didn't care for the job but we made it fun together, ya know? two summers ago, I worked for the State DOT scraping road kill off the side of the road. now tell me THAT is a disgusting job. that job too was made fun by co-workers. I would say working for a hotel cleaning rooms or mopping lobby floors is at least a little more sanitary and enjoyable than shoveling roadkill carcasses, don't you? so if those are the kinds of jobs Americans won't do, am I a sac of potatoes? or worse-- an illegal Maria Chiquita? Thanks a BUNCH for bringing up the anchor baby part of the 14th Amendment, I made an argument the other day and reffered to that. right on. I like your posts and comments so far, I'm glad there are other Americans out there who are fed up with this problem like I am. It hits college students HARD if you're like me. last summer I tried applying to a Jack in the Box part time, guess what? no spots available. the guy at the register spoke no more English than my neighbors' 3 year old. I was pissed that they'd hire someone for customer service (hey come on, cashier is customer service) who spoke that little English, but whatever, it's fast food. hehe
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how are you???how were in europe???l m still working as lm crazy,sorry becouse l didnt write to you!!!l have just turned of relationship with Oscar and now lm enjoying more...lm super...l go out with friends,and here isnt no one to call me to aks where am l(probably as Oscar)...lm super!!!hehehehe...nothing watch new pictures ,l pictured yesterday,so see ya!!!greeting yours!!!
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Its been a week and no response, guess ure outta luck bro.\n\nkeep applying, or immigrate to developing nations, they sure wudnt mind having sum1 as experienced as ureself.
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well i'm thinking of telling my boss to turn the clocks BACK an hour tonight instead of forward... I don't have to work tomorrow!\n\nwe do food deliveries at the restaurant i work at.  one of our drivers is a nice kid, hyper but fun.  when business gets 'backed up' he gets a bit high strung.  how the system works is he gets a delivery bag with a ticket printed on the top with the order, address, and cost.  of course he was so hyped up he grabbed the bag and ran out the door to his car to take it... not knowing that we had printed up a ticket with the restaurant's address on it.  we put a few empty boxes in the delivery bag so it wasn't 'empty' and off he goes.  \n\nwe're watching him out the window as he leaves, zooms out of the parking lot, turns down the side street, gets about 50 feet... and stops.  he's looking around at the restaurant, the businesses next door, the house across the street, and we can see his facial expressions the whole time. finally he saw us looking, gives a big sheepish grin, pulls back into the lot and comes in.  opens the bag and finds a pile of empty boxes inside.  busted!\n\n"hey john, where were you going with that order?"\n\n"%*&$#&@ you guys!"
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Sounds like he was using you. I'd let them know. He doesn't deserve a visa.
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My suggestion go apply for another job,if they are chosing you so why not use chosing for employers,as a working class you cant afford to wait until they call you(unless you got saving)
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Girl, ur not alone on that boat! my man works 20 hours per day. I am serious, no weekends no dinner parties, except when we have to go visit his parents. He works even when he sleeps. He, like been dreaming about some new contracts and a trip to Zurich....one night he said: "please Mr. Gray, you can see our new presentation. It will be send to you frist thing tomorrow morning!" He was writing this thing for weeks......o gosh, I love to have some more time with my man but he works sooo much. You know what is the worst with us. He says he does this for US, so that in a few years I can stay at home taking care of our kids adn having a blue Martini by the pool. Good luck sista, you need to get in a language school, cooking class, yoga and a few more tings to keep yourself occupied. Or if he can afford it just get his visa card and go to shopping!!!!
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A Bedtime Story...\nOnce upon a time there was this guy who was good at math and computers.  He went to school and got some degrees and worked in software and data analysis for a number of years.  He worked at one company in particular for five years.  This company was owned by friends, who treated him like family (this isn't necessarily a good thing) and he worked very hard for them, and earned a good salary doing so.  He was also miserable and irritable most of the time.  Finally, the constant stress caught up with him and he left the company.  For fourteen months, he did odd jobs and barely scraped by, driving him into fairly serious financial issues.  He lost his car, and used public transportation and his bike and his feet to get places.\n\nHe was never happier.\n\nAfter fourteen months, his friends came to him and said that things would be different.  They weren't really, and he didn't expect that, but he thought maybe he was different enough that he could manage.  Again he made good money, again he busted his rear to earn this money.  He was there about 16 months before he left again (fired this time instead of quitting.)  He simply wasn't happy spending his life serving others for nothing more than a paycheck.  \n\nThis guy hadn't learned the lesson that money does NOT equal time.  Money is useful, but the simple fact is, in one hundred years, this guy and pretty much everyone else reading this will be dead, and that money isn't going to make a damn bit of difference in that.  Were he here, this guy would applaud you for discovering that which he can't seem:  being happy for who and for where you are.  That is a gift.
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Sounds like your supervisor is on a power trip when he didn't even earn his power, he married it. I think education should count for something. You should get more pay and your boss should show you that you're appreciated possibly with some type of incentives or bonuses for good workers. While I agree that everyone deserves a chance, if you're better qualified for a position, it should be noted in the workplace. And your paycheck is not your thank you, you earned it.
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Try! you are very, very welcome.  Don't listen to WOLLYwomb & Martin B.  As employers, we adore you people coming to our lovely country.  Before the Eastern Europeans arrived, employers really suffered trying to get staff. Young Brits don't really like working, or they like to be paid in cash, so it doesn't interfere with their benefit claims.  Then there was the many, many, many,many, many, sick days, normally after a binge-drinking evening.  So keep trying. WE NEED YOU!
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I worked for my parents for seven years. I hated it most of the time I was there. I was even given half of the business. After working 60 - 90 hour weeks i finally told my parents I needed a break. We sold the business, I got some money and traveled Europe for a year, then the US. Tell them you need a break and that you'd like to explore some other possibillities. If they are good parents they'll understand and let you go. Just dont leave them in a bind, hire someone to replace you if you have to or see if you can take a vacation. You'll be ready to get back to work afterwards and if your not. oh well.
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Oh my gosh, did you work at the same place I did?  Your story sounded exactly like the situation I had.  Management and supervisory positions had changed at my work and from then on, the nightmare began.  The witch who rose to power was a narcissitic, egotistical backstabber who made it so unbearable for everyone. She continuously found it amusing to berate, belittle and degrade each and every employee in the company by telling us that we were underworked and so grossly over-paid (we all made more $$$$ than her). Someone who is in the psychology field said that this supervisor's had low self-esteem issues (she weighs close to 300 lbs.)and it is satisfying to her to put others down in order to feel better about herself.  She can't control her weight so she tried to control others.  Unfortunately, confronting this supervisor only compounded to the problem, as she could not take constructive criticism from ANY employee...and talking to the owner of the company proved to be useless, as he always avoided any type of problem or confrontation issue.  Since I did not have an advocate or anyone I could really turn to, the stress of going to work every day was taking it's toll on my health.  For peace of mind and sanity, I gave them my two weeks notice but did not burn my bridges upon my resignation. It is a good idea to have something lined up to go to, especially if you need the income and medical benefits.  You really don't want to be at the mercy of your current employer when it comes to recommendations or verifications.  Good luck.....
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It's a damn shame that, this is what it has come to in parts of the country. I work a manual labor job, granted I don't make 5 dollars an hour.. so, I would have to disagree there will always be people to take those jobs.. some sort of jobs. People that really want to provide the best they can for themselves or their families. My boss hired a Mexican lady once, she was legal.. married to a American man. She seemed nice.. BUT... she could NOT read english, barely write it and speak it. I asked her if she was going to learn english... and she told me straight out no!! I was taken aback by this.. as I have never encountered this before but I was pissed. If you want to be legal and come here and work,fine for now I guess!(who knows what the government will do w/amnesty) NOT live off the system.. NOT live in a shitty house with 6 kids and have a brand spanking new car in the garage! I don't know about anyone else but refusing to speak english is a pure insult!! (Sorry, I know part of my response is in the wrong catagory.) I don't think they will get a higher education.. some may and a lot more may not. They just want the money.. but shame on some of our employers for hiring them. It's such a double-edged sword.. you feel bad for them on a level but angry with them on another level. I guess time will tell.
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Amy\n\nI am surprised to see your posting.  Do you not feel we are helping you adequately?  The procedure your father wants carries with it great risks and we are doing our best to find the best surgeons for you rather that turn this into some profit making opportunity.  We have rejected two doctors in India for lack of experience and our chief medical officer is currently in India working on this for you including finding you a surgeon in Singapore as an alternative as well.  We here at planethospital are also very concerned for your father's well being and you know we are working very hard for you.  If you feel otherwise, tell us so that we can satisfy you.  the resources going into helping your father should not go in vain so if you have no intent in using us, or just want to pick our brain then we would need to deploy those resources for other clients.  I hope to hear back from you
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Sounds to me like this guy has very low self-esteem and has to make himself feel important by belittling others.  Find another job or ask for a transfer.  Life is too short to put up with such bullshit!