I work in a service industry,each time i see older women i get attracted to them.Is that healthy or it is against the norm of normal life.
209621
Depends what you call older. But it is a thing a lot of guys fantasise about, and pursue. Great for the more mature ladies who sometimes get themselves a toy boy. Each to their own. Just enjoy. Joan.
607532
I don't mean to be creepy by being in the woman's health section but I though I might be able to help answer a question.  Its good that you point out the fact that your only 14.  I'm 24, when I was 14 I thought pretty was based on popularity.  Thats just the way it was.  The girl I am now about to marry is gorgeous beyond what I thought was possible (at least in my eyes) and she was never popular.  But she surrounded herself with good trust worthy friends and developed her talents, now she is wanted by every man that meets her.  Feel glad that you don't have to deal with stupid immature horny 14 year old boys who can differentiate between their head and ... well your only 14 so thats as far as I can go with that.  when you look back to now when you're 24 you will laugh at these worries and wish you could share what you know with all the other 14 year old girls in the world.  God made women on a much higher level then men, thats why women are so confused about us, I'm not lying.
187027
You are  attracted to a physical design that somewhere you grew accustome too it will pass when you look a personalities and security.  Or you may just be attracted to blondes for life either way there is nothing wrong with it just dont ruel out all men
314189
it is very fine having as much of sex they have depending on their energy. \nYes it is good for health.
435121
IT WAS FOR ME.  MY FIRST EXPERIENCE WAS WHEN I WAS 18 AND HE WAS 43.  YUMMY!!!    AND I MET THE LOVE OF MY LIFE WHEN I WAS 24 AND HE WAS 44.  I SAY GO FOR IT.\n\nMY ATTRACTION WAS IN THE FACT THAT AN OLDER MAN KNEW EXACTLY WHAT HE WANTED OUT OF LIFE, WAS WORKING TO ACHIEVE THAT GOAL, AND I DIDN'T HAVE TO FINISH "RAISING" HIM.  I FOUND THEM TO BE MUCH MORE SELF-CONFIDENT, SETTLED, AND MATURE THAN THE YOUNGER MAN.  AND THE SEX WASN'T BAD EITHER---THEY WERE MUCH MORE INCLINED IN MAKING SURE THAT I WAS SATISFIED.....THEY WEREN'T SELFISH LIKE YOUNG FELLAS WERE.
471093
no and I used to flirt with customers and there is nothing wrong with enhancing the love life even on the job as long as you still get your work done..
137000
I myself am not inclined to date a guy more then a year or two younger then me. The stereotype says that young men are immature and while it does have it's truth I think it's more about life experience and I couldn't handle a guy that not on my level. I am not saying relationships with large age gaps don't work, just that I would pass on that scene. On the flip side women are sometimes attracted to older men, again that whole stereotype that older men are more mature. For one that's not always true and in most cases older guys looking for younger women are just using them for sex and half of those guys are still married. I guess what I am trying to say is they have to much baggage. They have been screwed over by too many other women generally and so again not that those relationships don't work out but I have no intention on venturing there either.
440102
older women know exactly what they want, and how to get it, plus theres something very attractive about a confident women, and nothing more unattractive about a immature girl, plus theres this whole milf thing going on, but for me mature women are just more sexy and more stimulating.
272697
Personally I am more attracted to older women as I find them more understanding but mind you if you live outside the US the society isnt too open as to seeing younger guys to older women but it is acceptable to have a older man with a younger woman. You must have heard the term "sugar daddy". Ever heard of a "sugar momma"?
333135
i am almost 31...and i can honestly tell you that i feel more confident,  more beautiful and more lovable as i get older.  i have dealt with my shit,  i have been there and done it,  and i dont want to play games.  i am at the point where if the right guy comes along,  i am ready to have a lifelong love with him.  the other sweet thing that benefits the man when they have an older woman is....sexual prime for a woman begins at 30....and trust me....if you want a woman who feels the way you did as a teenage boy in the sex department, that is the way to go....
333062
Okay... it's only wrong depending on how low you go...(In Age). but I look for older men, because they are more mature and self sufficient. So no, its not wrong.
568219
Yeah, it can be perfectly normal to find another family member (cousin, uncle, etc) attractive.  Best advice though is to not act on that attraction.
88560
You're in a relationship, you're not dead! There is nothing wrong with having a perfectly healthy sex drive. However, cheating is wrong. If you love and respect this woman you will remain faithful to her. If you really want to be with other women you should end the relationship.
109235
You are probably near menopause, and this is normal.  You are a little past your prime (30's something), and your hormones are doing a number on your libido.  Don't worry.  Talk to your spouse about it for support.  Maybe you're feeling unattractive.  Feeling attractive can make you feel incredibly sensual.  Go get a massage at a spa.  Get a make over.  Some new bras and panties.  Something they'll remind you that you are still a force to be reckoned with.  Remember Demi Moore is in her 40's and has Ashton Cutcher doing his thing with her.  You can remain a sexual person all the way up into your ninety's.  It's all in your mind.  I recommend just standing alone naked in a mirror, and see your self being pleasing and pleased with the one you love.  You first have to know what's going on with you sexually.  You can also talk to your doctor, but I wouldn't recommend meds, because of all the stinky side affects.  I hope you continue your journey as a sexy, beautiful woman.
596931
I'm turning 41 in a few days, and if I was interested in a woman in her 20's and she was interested in me, then more power to us.  11 years is nothing in the big scheme of things.  Don't worry about what your friends say.  Listen to your heart!
149442
I'm in my 50's and I love older women my age. Younger ones are all about how they look and what they wear. Older women usually know what they want and how to get it without all of this bull>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
216011
It is not harmful. No way to avoid it other than being sexually active in some ways. The good news is that when you get a little older they stop or slow down.