Background: This girl has been showing a lot of interest lately like going dancing, inviting me to hang out with her family member, wanting to go together on a show etc. But in the past she had said that she was interested only in Friendship when I told her that I liked her. Now she was away and I casually offered  to pick her up from the airport  coming from overseas, initially she acted she could use the cab (It was very obvious from her reply that she wanted it)and I did not say anything then all of a sudden she sends me the email that she would very much like me to pick her up if I was still offering. So I pick her up, dropped her at her place, she asks me for  glass of wine, I refused since I had to get home. But her roommate was also present. So question is, I am getting all kind of signals. Can you tell me what is going on?
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She's a little intrigued now that you're not chasing her anymore... keep it up buddy, make her throw herself at you from now on - she will luv you for keeping it that way !
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Is their a possibility that this girl could want something from you? It sounds to me like she is after something.
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It means you will never find out by dancing around the question. Tell her how you feel (with out going overboard) and ask her if she has feelings for you. She may or may not be waiting for you to make the first move, without hearing from her. \n\nYou could say something like "I like you and would like to take you to a movie (or dinner, or whatever). Would you like to go?
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RUN!!\nMaybe she's scared and  thinking along the same lines\nMaybe she got drunk and passed out with her friends\nMaybe she got drunk and just forgot to call,, there's a million reasons why but they do not all mean she's doing something wrong.\nWhen she gets home just be nice like and talk about what you did. DOn't jump in her sh1t as soon as she walks in or you are never going to move in together, perhaps she was just testing you to see if you do in fact go off on her or trust her????\nEither way it does not sound like you know her well enough to move in anyway.\nDon't know but good luck!!
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You were waiting for her call???  What was stopping you from calling her? DUMMY!\nNow she's invited you for a date and you're thinking of brushing her off???  Idiot!!!\nDon't you get it? She's taken the initiative by calling you, since you were too busy trying to figure her ways.\nNow, go with her, before you blow your second chance!!!
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I would stop asking her.... You asked her once which let her know that you were interested.  Now the ball is in her court, maybe she wants time to think about it.  I wouldn't act any different twords her, I would just not ask her out again.  At least for a while.
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Just be yourself. Ask if she is busy on the night in question, and would she be interested in going out with you. Just remember you will not always get a yes, but don't give up on asking people. The next time might be a yes. But in either case be polite. If you are turned down say something like, Thank you maybe another time, or maybe ask for a rain check, which would leave the door open so you could ask her at a different time.
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That's a tough call.  She could have just been making polite conversation.  I have done the exact same thing.  But then on the other hand, it could have been an opening line for you to make "the next move."  Sorry I can't help you any better.
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i wonder what she texts you \n\nif you were not interested then why did you just give her your #\n\nyeah she wants you but do you want her \n\nif yes then go 4 it hook up and go 2 movies etc\n\nall the best\n\ncheers
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You're getting together with her to study, which is fine, because that isn't really a date.  On the other hand, if you ask her to go to a school dance with you, or maybe a movie, oh no, she can't go out with you, because she's seeing somebody.\n\nIf you wait until she isn't seeing anybody, chances are, someone else is waiting for that too, and they'll beat you to the punch.\n\nYou've already got your foot in the door.  You just need to open it a little wider.  Maybe there's something you can do together, besides studying, that she would consider innocent enough.  I can't say what that would be.  That just depends on your interests.\n\nHere's an idea.  Approach her in the hallway, hand her a rose, and ask, "Would you mind holding this for me?"  As soon as she takes it, just walk away.\n\nAny of this stuff can work, but there is no guarantee.  It is possible that she just isn't interested in you, and never will be, but I think some of these ideas can work, if anything will.
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If you are truly attracted to her, then at 8 tonight (if she hasn't contacted you by then) send her a text that says "Hey sexy/gorgeous/sweetie (something of that nature.) I was wondering, what are you doing tomorrow night? Would you like to go out again?"\n\nOr something like that. I'm sure you know how those things go. But anyway, you say that so you have a reason to get ahold of her WITHOUT seeming impatient or desperate. If she's really attracted to you, she should reply shortly and probably accept your invitation to go out again. \n\nGood luck with this - have fun!
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I think it's soo sweet that you want to make sure this is a special move for her. It sounds like she is definitely interested, so almost anything you do will be seen as fantastic to her. I know if it was me, I would just want you to put some thought into it-maybe surprise show up with a single rose, or a night when you surprise her with a movie you rented for her, and then just ask her after she responds to your arrival. Just tell her," we've been spending so much time together, and I really enjoy your company, and I want to only enjoy your company-I think we should be official". Something of this nature.\nThis is so so cute, good luck, I'm sure she'll accept, and make sure to keep up this attitude of wanting to "wow" her during your relationship, b/c that will mean a lot to her. I wish I had a guy doing this for me right now!
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how about saying....  i am sorry if i embarressed you friday...  i normally do not get that drunk and behave that way..  Hope we are still ok????   or\n\nsend him a questionaire (this worked for me once after a date which i didnt hear from him in about 4 days)  \n\nDear_______\nplease respond to the following survey ASAP\n\n1...  Had a wonderful time, not casey behaved like a true lady\n\n2...  Had a horrible time never want to see not casey again\n\n3...  Had a date Friday???\n\n4... Not casey appeared to have gotten a little drunk, would like to see her again though if she promises to behave\n\n5....  Friday was_(please fill in the blank)_____________________________________
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ask her out. she sounds like you really like her. the worst that she can say is no. maybe she really was busy, girls get busy sometimes, just like guys. girls are not so different, go for it and good luck. i agree with the other answer that suggested that you ask her if she is really interested or not. say, I LIKE YOU A LOT AND WANT TO ASK YOU OUT AGAIN BUT YOU KEEP SAYING NO. DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GO OUT? put it in your words. i know that this would be difficult to say but...girls like vulnerability. hope it works out.
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I would call her again, this time, not leaving a message. Then call again the next day at a different time, and if you don't get her, than leave a message... After that, if she doesn't call you back.. I dunno, man.. maybe she's not interested.  I dunno though. When she told you to call her back, I'm thinking she meant that genuinely. I'm the sort of girl who wouldn't say that unless i meant it. I'm also the sort of girl who only gives my number to guys I'm interested in. But I'm also the sort of girl who would wait until the guy called me. So she may just be hoping you catch her when she's in
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Translation:\n\nHi. Whats happening is this dang boy is getting on my last nerve. I hate it. Anyway, he says he wants to go out with me, and his friend says it too. His friend just called me to say that. Then, this girl that used to like him (but he wouldn't go out with her) said it was a joke. She said she asked him and thats was what he said. What should I do? I guess we're going out, but I don't know if we are or not.\n\nOk, now that people don't have such a hard time reading what you were trying to say, maybe they can answer.
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Some questions to ponder: Is she already involved with someone else? Was it totally her idea to hang out today, or did you make a suggestion first? How long did you see each other when you ran into her at first? Hmmm. I say wait a week and give it one more try. There are numerous possiblitlies, and hard to second guess. She may have actually had some situation arise, needing to be somewhere else, or she simply wanted options and was leaving herself something to do in case whatever did not happen.....It is really impossible to know, if you are interested don't contact her for a week see if she calls you if not call. If it all goes the same way again - forget it.