I luv a girl but she just wants us to be friends bcoz she once had a bad experience with another guy before.
203549
well if you real love her you need to let her know how you real fell about her and let her know she can trust you. and if she say she still doesn't want to just give her some time and she well see how much you real love her and that she can trust you it well take some time i know just give it time i was like her to at one time she well get over it one of this days and you well be there for her good luck and i hope thing go your way
23732
Now that she knows your feelings, it's up to her to choose between you and the other guy. If she chooses the other guy, you need to move on. You can be her friend, but should respect her relationship with the other guy.
649557
you already know the right decision.  move on!!!  do you really want to give her another chance to hurt you?  sounds like this is a heartless girl anyways so why would you want to date her? don't be blinded by love cuz nobody deserves to be treated like she treated you.
403647
Well you're in a good position b/c most good relationships start with good friendship... but @ the same time, it might be hard for her to adjust to the fact that u really like her b/c she thinks of u more as a friend and she's probably never been in a situation like that. Just give it some time... if you two are really good friends then u dont have anything to worry about! =)
171860
Let it go and be a friend.  Afterall, that sounds like what she needs anyway.  Later on down the road when she sees you have changed she may be willing to let you back in.
225953
Its not a bad thing to just be friends with your lover, if you are not comfortable with being just friends; then I guess you should leave her alone. If she only wants to be friends, then that is a sign she doesnt love you like you had thought she did.\n\nThere was a guy I dated in high school, unfortunately he broke it off. But I think that we were better off as friends than a couple. I used to get so depressed whenever I seen him with another girl though. Took me sometime to cope. But then time went by n i didnt care anymore. Poor guy still loves me..
559370
Well, maybe you should tell her how you feel about her! She may only think you want to be friends, so I would tell her soon. Ask her how she may feel about the idea of the two of you dating.  She may be happy that you have spoken up!  When you start dating a good friend sometimes it changes the friendship. You can only hope that the feelings for one another become more intense and more loving. If you happen to drift apart, then the original friendship may be forever changed.  I thought I would toss that in for your to consider. I mean if things do not work out well for you, you can only hope that you can still be friendly, and not resent any new fellows that may come along in her future if the two of you fail at your attempt at a relationship...do you see what I mean?\n\nGood luck, I hope she feels the same for you too, you sound so nice!
284286
i think she just wants to be ur friend
123006
it might and it might not it could just mean she things your a good guy and she would like to fine a good guy but then again she could be hinting it feel it she how she reacts to a little casual closeness flirt if  you can tell she isnt feelin it then back off and stay friends remember not to over do it so then you can still keep your friendship
159036
I suggest that you two should just be friends. If you really loved her you wouldn't have dumped her
256801
I think your doing the right thing and you should explain to her that you are just friends and if she continues you'll have to separate yourself from, unless you want your girl to beat your friend's ass.
254815
She is jealous and insecure.  You seem to be having success that is eluding her.  So she strikes back by being mean and trying to diminish your accomplishments.\n\nIf you want to give her another chance but not be hurt any more, you will have to tell her that her current behavior is unacceptable.  You don't need friends like that.\n\nBut if you've decided that she is not the kind of friend that you don't want to have, you will have to be honest with her and tell her that you don't need friends who are constantly critical and mean.  You owe her the truth for the sake of your past friendship.\n\nWhatever you decide is really up to you.  But if you just want to know why she did all this, it's jealousy and insecurity on her part.
185244
Why not. If you are open with your communications right now, she may be shy about telling you how she feels about you too. And let her know that no matter how she feels about you, you still want to be her friend. Some of my best friends are guys who love me, but they are more like brothers or close friends to me.
323183
Yes. Just be her friend for now, but not too good of one or it will just help her stay with the other guy too because then she'll have the best of both worlds.  Let her know how you feel about her and that you are there for her, but that until she is free from other ties that you need to keep your distance.
530858
This guy would be mad to even consider getting back together with this girl. She doesn't deserve a second chance. To be honest I don't even know why you want a " friend " like her - you sound like a nice person !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Talk to the guy and give him your opinion - does he really want to go through that kind of sh*t again ?
281058
Call her and tell her you just want to be friends and hope what you said earlier will not stop her from being friends..............
637807
well sounds like she already knows how you feel, so leave it alone she will follow her heart. you don't want to push her into being with you and she will always wonder if she made the right choice by not being with the other guy. just let things happen the way they are suppose to