Love him or loathe him? This is your chance to show what you feel. \n\nImagine this: your plane crashes on a deserted island in the South Seas. The only survivors are Dubya and you. Everything you own is gone, except the clothes on your back. He is in the same situation. There's enough fish in the sea and fruit on the trees to keep you alive, plus a fresh well to drink from. You know that a boat will pass the island in a month... But what will you do until then?\n\nNow, a fairy godmother appears and says she can't grant any amazing wishes, but she will provide you three material things. What would you ask for?
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a iraqi an afgan and a mexican
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take a laugh at life and realise how lucky u r.do u have a all your faculties about you?have all your limbs?get at least one meal a day?is your house being bombed?do you hae access to the internet?things are never so bad if you look at the bigger picture.you will be fine....wait 20 mins,you might feel better than now.laugh at this joke:why do they bury mother in laws 18ft down......cause deep down they really are nice people!!!chin up,you are loved by somebody out there!!!
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Wow.  I did read your blog and cried for you.  \n\nDon't listen to Meezerz.  It's not that she's bad, she's just misinformed and speaking from her fear.\n\nYour fear is the least likely part of you to tell the truth.  Fear is too biased to know the truth.\n\nI don't think you're nuts at all.  I think you have had that scenario playing in your mind in some form ever since it happened six years ago.\n\nI'm so thankful that you are in therapy and that you are giving the voices in your head a voice in therapy.  There's an odd sort of safety in blaming yourself.  But in the end, it's not as safe as it looks.  It ends up hurting you more.\n\nWhatever control is to be gained by assuming responsibility for something you could not control is not worth the guilt and the shame and the lie you are forced to live.\n\nThough he took the place your first lover should have, he was in no way a lover.  He was a disrespectful, sub-human, bully.  Don't put him and any form of the word love together if you can help it.\n\nIn the future, the man who really loves you, really will love you for the first time.  No matter what this experience took from you, or caused you to do in reaction, when you are free from the baggage this experience has thrust upon you, you will be free to love for the first time.  \n\nYou continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
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just be there for him as his freind, support him while hes gone fighting for our country. he sounds like a really nice guy. but if its only been 4 days, make a little space between you,it seems like he is moving fast,
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you have a big heart.\nDont cry over him...just continue to be nice, stop in and chat with him occasionally and that will mean the world to him.  \nDont be mean to everyone else...just try and be happy.  Think, he will be going to THE perfect place with THE perfect person...no pain, no suffering.......if anything, be jealous- Hes Heaven bound and we're stuck here in hell on Earth.\nIt'll be ok.  Talk to your friends and family about this.  Talking to people makes it easier on you and then too, they will understand whats wrong with you.\n\nStay strong
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Hi! This is not a "dream" but an out of body experience. Flying is a great high but next time, why don't you try landing,enter the nearest building and "know" /create a door.Open the door "knowing" and creating a flight of stairs behind it.Climb the stairs and at the top "know" /create several doors. Stand before one of the doors and "know"/ create someone whom you love, who has crossed over into the next dimension, is standing on the other side of that door and is anxious to see you again. Knock on the door and identify yourself then, enjoy the time you have w/your loved one! Good luck! E-mail me for further question or pointers, OK?
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WOW Ok i will give this a shot at!  First thing that came to my mind is , Don't Change anything. If you start to cuddle him more or start changing due to this news, he will feel like you feel sorry for him, and he will feel worse. Stay the way you are, The second thought is,,,He JUST  found out TODAY! So yes allot is going threw his head and will for awhile. Just be yourself, the women he fell in love with. Be there when he needs you. Stand by him. Don't make it the TOPIC everyday, let him bring it up. He will talk when the shock of it all has settled abit. JUST LOVE HIM AS YOU BEEN DOING! My prayers are with him & you.  Peace.
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Hi Lvy,\n    i think still ur not  accepting tht its over now , u 've some hope , m i rite ? if not , temme wats reason to remember ur past . it will effect ur coming life if ur goin to continue remembering tht person ...ya if u 've some hope and still want to continue wid him , wat ur waiting for go and tell him tht u can not live without him and ask him not to leave u ....\n   Luy u sud not love them who dun care for ur feelings and u . try to keep in mind tht its all over now and tht was ur past nuthing else .. i think ur young ....and some1 has to some in ur coming life ...think for him atleast start preparing for ur coming "SOME-ONE" . lol ...hahahah i said preparing ...i was saying tht washout ur mind and dun go after ur past .......every1 have some past and we have to forget tht ...\n   one more thing Keep Smiling .........:)\n     sorry if any of my word hurttttss
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i can see his side ---of wanting to come back, full force, make mad love----it sounds very romantic...especially since he's coming back from war. \n\nhowever---i don't think it's wrong to ask him to wait. as romantic as the scenerio in his brain sounds, in reality, you are not ready for it. you are not nearly as intimate as before---however---if you still love him, it will come back. it will take time though. it might even feel weird to hold hands at first----but sooner or later, it'll seem natural, and just keep going from there. \n\nhaha, one thing tho, is that all this might fly out the window when you see him get off that plane. it will be a big flood of emotions and you just might get caught up in the moment....then, anything goes....
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That 'magical' feeling we all get only seems to be there when we can't get that special person.  He has been honest with you and said from the beginning that he doesn't want anything serious, so it's all down to you and whether you would be able to put up with what he has to offer. It's easy to give in and see him to get that magical feeling but is the high worth the massive low you could also get. You could be lucky and end up winning his heart but in my experience it rarely happens like that. I wish you so much luck because I know it's a horrible situation to be in.
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Looks like the guy is a mommys boy?!! If hes from a single parent family especially, drop everything cut ur losses and run like the wind dudette!  on a serious note, I understand you must now be feeling like you cant ever go on with  out him and that your world will end. trust me it wont, you are best to put an ultematum (is tht how u spell it? oh who cares!) to him and say either u marry me or stay with the mom.  Also dont be a martyr and live with them, live separately even if its a yard from his moms home.  If he wont leave his mom, u have to leave him and look onwards, it may not appear so right now, but you will meet someone else who deserves all your love and will reciprocate unconditionally without a mom for free!
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aww that is not good! You guys are sibs! Y'all need to love and respect each other and remember, it is the Holidays and God loves you and wants y'all to show your love for each other.  You know deep down you love him no matter how big of a little twirp he may be ;).  Don't ever wish he would die, you know how many people will be without loved ones this year because of horrible accidents, diseases/illnesses, or other reasons.  Just be lucky to be with your family and feel blessed! God has blessed you and may he continue to do so! :)\n\n<3 Happy Thanksgiving!!! :)
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I really feel for you, thats a tough situation.\nAre you sure that you are really in love with him, as you only said that you believe you are in love with him. Be careful not to confuse other feelings for love.\nDid you know he was your uncle before you got involved?\nI know you fall in love with who you fall in love with but there is a brief window in which you can apply the breaks.\nWhat about the other woman he is with? Has he spoken to her yet?\nIf I were you, I would try to steer clear and if he manages to end the relationship with the other lady and keep his relationship with the kids maybe you could think about him again.\n\nI don't know about the law and deformities. I would say no to both questions, but just think of the people involved in this tangled web and how your decisions will effect them\n\nIts tough I know.\n\nGood luck.
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You mourn.  You remember and cherish the good times you had with him.  You might even do something to honor his memory.  And you wait for time to heal that wound his death made in your heart.  Trust me, the healing will come.
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YOU NEED TIME TO GRIEVE...YOU WILL GET BETTER OVER TIME...DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU TO "GET OVER IT"...AT LEAST YOU HAVE A HEART...MY SYMPATHY TO YOU...AND I'M NOT ASHAMED TO SAY "GOD WEEPS FOR YOU TOO. HE GETS NO PLEASURE IN SEEING PEOPLE SUFFER." CRY WHEN YOU MUST...SOME OF US HERE CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS...BEST TO YOU...Phantom of the Blog
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Sadness is a natural reaction to this kind of information.\n\nHis honesty is a good sign for the future of your relationship.  If he needs to resolve lingering feelings before committing 100% to you then you are wise to let him.\n\nIt sucks that he is ruining your holidays by giving you something to worry about.\n\nKnow that there is nothing that you can do to change this.  It has all to do with the fantasy that he still has about her.\n\nShe has moved on.  If you can be patient and focus on something outside of your relationship during the holidays you will be better off.\n\nTake care of yourself.
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well,girl...you tell them that he is a lier!!!or,just let some time and it will not be a top subject as might be now.trust me,dont let him to feel as a winner here!!!he didn't get you,so this is his sick way to get over it,maybe.whatever his reason is,if someone whants to destroy you...you destroy him first! but if you wanna stay good girl anyway...then wait some time..he will have another victim by then.by the way..there is no country who can see in your bed...