sometimes he asks my sister if i really do love him and i really do.i need a way to show him that i care.
198893
just tell him that you love him, it's not that difficult.
659829
He is just being a big brother... He probably will always see you as his responsibility... Some siblings are just made up that way... If you were hurt, he'd hurt and would want to find an outlet...\n\nJust let him know you appreciate the kindness... And if you need any help, he is the first you'd approach, but some things you need to go through yourself without a safety net... Then kiss him on the cheek and wink at him... :D
99319
perhaps you can say it without a single word. you can give him attention more than usually, take good care, always be there when he needs you, or some sort like that. love does not always came through words.
358154
well just let him know how you feel  and if he really loves you thn he will understand
144185
It sounds like he likes you a lot more than you care for him. Go ahead and tell him how you feel, but in a gentle way. Tell him how you really feel now, before it goes any further and he feels he's been mislead.
636401
I'm in a similar relationship with my sister.\nThe only thing you can do is love her from a distance.\nCall her with little things like, "You were on my mind" and ask her how she's doing.  AVOID anything that might start conflict.\n\nKeep the lines of communication open, but keep your business to yourself.  Helps me.\n\n=^)
41999
I feel for you 100%. I know that it's hard not knowing what to say to him. I think that you should tell him that you love him to death and that you can feel it when he's not feeling right himself. Let him know that whatever he has on his mind from day to day, is nothing that bad for him to tell you about. Tell him that you don't want to annoy him by constantly asking him if he's ok, but you cant help it. You see I used to be with someone that would be in such down moods out of no where and I just didn't know what was wrong with him. It killed me b/c I wanted to make him feel better so bad but he just wouldn't speak out how he was feeling inside about things. After a while he finally told me what was wrong and expressed how he felt. He finally told me that the reason as to why he didn't tell me anything and it was b/c he didn't want to bring me down. At fisrt it used to get me mad b/c he kept saying that he didn't want to have me worrying about him. But anyway, just tell him that you love him and that anything that he may be going through, you both are going to go through together b/c you guys are a team. Just give him time to be able to open up. Don't nag him about it. He'll come around when he feels ready to. You guys are gonna be alright. And I most definitely congradulate you 2 guys for sticking together for so long. May you have many more years of happiness!!!!!!\nGOOD LUCK!!!!!
317443
Tell him how you feel.
196378
if you really love him, just say it, it might be hard to start but when you say the first word, you won`t be able to stop, besides it feels good, and he will feel good as well. good luck!! make sure you say it not over the phone;)
230663
accept his difficulty...some people just cant express their love in words..\ni myself am brought up in a loving family, but we have never said 'i love u' verbally...only written and actions that show we love\nand today i find it hard expressing myself in person unless im really really really close to the person...a chance to open up more\ndont blame him if u dont hear what u want to hear\njust accept him and allow him space to learn how to express himself froom u. thats the beaty of love...u grow to express in each other
152696
Go tell him that you love him.. and that you will do anything for him!! Not speaking through experience though..
93556
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
265471
maybe u should tell ur sister frist so ur can get the worst aprt over with and then go tell Nate how u feel about him, and from ur story it sounds like he may have feelings for u too
9849
tell him you still love him and that he is sweet
122161
Just be true to him and to your self cuz it aint matter what people say if you really do still love him!
253260
Talk to you sister and him and tell them how you feel about all this.
238487
Tell him that you need more respect and that if he loves you, he'd give it to you. Tell him also where you are when you are chatting so that he may understand your situation.