My girlfriend keeps making me wear her lingerie when we have sex. She says that thats the only way she'll have sex. Does this mean she's lesbian? Do any other guys girlfriends do this?
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If she was a lesbian, she wouldn't be sleeping with you at all. Maybe she just has a fetish for men who cross dress.
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There could be several possible reasons for this, but I think the top three are - 1.  She's very self-conscious.   2.  She's very tired, and doesn't want to get you "all riled up", or 3.  She's just wearing what's comfortable.  \n\nIf it's #1 - make sure she knows how attractive you think she is, and how much you enjoy it when she wears stuff to show herself off.  Compliment her whenever she wears something even slightly revealing.  Offer to take her lingerie shopping - and hand out over-the-top praise on everything she tries on.  She'll come around eventually, but it may take some time.\n\nIf it's #2 - tell her you just want to admire her lovely figure, and promise not to make a move until and unless she does.  There may be a couple of uncomfortable nights of sleeping for you, but once she realizes that you'll actually let her sleep when she comes to bed in lingerie, odds are she'll do it more often.  Every woman loves to feel sexy - we're just not always in the mood for sex.\n\nIf it's #3 - I don't think most men realize how uncomfortable the sexy stuff can be to sleep in.  Suggest she try sleeping in the nude (or in just panties).  I tried it on the suggestion of a boyfriend many years ago (I used to sleep in nightmarish flannel pj's), and will never go back to wearing nightie's again.  It's a little strange at first, but so liberating once you get used to it - and waaay more comfortable.\n\nIf you're not sure about the reason why she always wears plain jane pj's, ask her.  Odds are she'll give you a fairly direct answer if it's number 2 or 3.  She'll hedge around the question if she's self-conscious.  Good luck!
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thats one of the most relative questions ive seen yet. thank you. i understand. girls wear clothing that could easily qualify for soft core porn andif a guy looks she gets pissed. and it causes problems for us guys who are in relationships because our girlfriends get pissed if we even glance.  let me tell you, the pain it causes on my testicles, is just unbearable at times. its crazy the way they are. they don't dress decently. they dress like their from the most popular corner of camden. i feel ya man. your not alone...im behind you. j/k
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Well my room mate and I read your post and thought it was very interesting that a guy would just wonder that instead of thanking God for the "blessing" that some men think that is. Some women do show their thongs on purpose. Usually the ones that crave attention (as cliche as that sounds), and i don't get the mini either. I think there is really only one body style that can pull that look off. Since a vast majority of the world is not a size 0, that leaves the rest of us out of luck. And just because you can wear them  doesn't mean that they should. NOW, I have a question for you...\nDo men like seeing girls thongs? Or barely covered in a mini skirts? Or does it matter who is wearing them? What do guys think when they see a girl walking down the street in either/both of these two ways?\n\nps...i don't think your a pervert...:)
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I am a female and my boyfriend likes to wear pantyhose sometimes when we have been partying.  At first it kind of freaked me out, but I am a very very open and exploratory type of person and now it turns me on!  It has nothing to do with him being gay, it is just something sexual that turns him on and it now turns me on as well!
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You should consider yourself a lucky man. I think your girlfriend is bi sexual and she wanted to fulfill her fantasy as well as your's I'm sure. Have fun and don't think too much about it. Make sure you don't flirt or do anything with her friend when she's not there. She trusts you this is why she did this. I know from experience. Live a little.
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Hey, Conan, here's a newsflash:  you're normal!  Right, some men aren't quite as driven as you and some are even more driven.  But they're normal, too.  As long as you don't hurt anyone, including yourself, ain't no sweat.  And as long as it does not bother your GF...Look, there is no absolute regarding what endorphins do or do not do for you.  There is a range of acceptable responses and yours do fall within that range.  By the way, if she gets you that hot 'n bothered, would ya mind posting her pic so's us other guys can see what we're missing?
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My gf is kinda like this. She's more into sex than I am. I'm usually up for it once a day, given I'm not really tired or depressed. Her sexual appetite worries me only in that I worry about what kind of trouble it may get her into when I'm not around, but I try to satisfy her needs whenever we're together. And no, I'm not tired of her--I love her more than she loves me, and she admits this herself. Don't be ashamed of yourself, though. I'm glad that she's really into me, and that she's open and honest.
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mee too! i like breasts. and I"M A GIRL!!! I'm not lesbian in any way. I admire breasts. I like looking at them. Sometimes I wish my boyfriend and I can switch bodies so I can stick my face in my original body's big boobs. hehehe... and i would love to have a penis even for a day. i have an idea, let's switch bodies! hahahahah
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I dont think you can ask her to become a lesbian.  Like "hey you wanna be a lesbian with me". If shes not a lesbian already shes not a lesbian.
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It is just underwear, it may be provocative to you, but to her its normal. She isn't doing anything wrong...most likely she is only wearing them because all the girls in the locker room are, not to attract boys. Don't make it a big deal or she will just become rebellious (speaking from experience) \nI was the same way and my parents threw a fit over every little thing so I stopped confiding in them and purposely did things to upset them. (I was a teenager, it made since back then)\nPick your battles wisely with teenagers, if it isn't hurting anything just let it be, even if you don't understand it. then when she wants to break curfew or be alone at her boyfriends house, you will be able to put your foot down without so much fighting. Because she will know that you really don't approve and thats its a big deal not just another rule.\nThings lose meaning after hearing them so much. Let her make a few small mistakes, its the only way to learn...and she will feel more in control of her life. Which she will be soon. She will be in college or on her own soon, now is the time to prepare her be a responsible adult. \nJust remember that it is only underwear.
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i would love to see my guy in a thong!!!!!  it is awesome that you are into it.  i love it that my boyfriend is so comfortable with himself.  he looks great and you prob do too!!
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Femme-andro borderline. I am feminine in action and personality, but I don't wear the clothes that most women my age(20) wear because I think it looks slutty.\n\nYou don't really have to be a lesbian to be in those categories though do you?
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For me, I have always tried to ask permission before doing anything.  When my girlfriend and I was getting to know each other, I was playing with her breasts and tried to steal third base.  She told me that her pussy was off limits so I still half hearted tried to move my hands down there, but stuck mainly to her breasts she was also sitting on my lap at this time.  Not all guys are creeps.  I have done other things with my girlfriend that we have had to take slowly to minimize pain and discomfort.
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Doesshe have to be bi? I'm bi-sexual, but I'm taken... Anyway she sounds like she meant a lot. Just keep looking for em', she out there.\nsexkitten01
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no i dont think she is a lesbian i think shes just strange!! A little crazy but not les!! I would just ya know call johnny depp and see which one she chooses! if she chooses johnny depp(which she will) obviously shes not fruity!!!i dont have anything against fruity people but you seem to be fruity urself!
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The only  "unsolved"  issue in your Question seems to be about underwear.  I think that when women wear panties that say  "Princess"  (or whatever), they  wear them as a form of subliminal entertainment.  Both for themselves,  and for their boyfriend/husband/lover.  Kind of like,  "I'm wearing these and nobody knows about it, except for me and him (or her)".  It's sort of a romantic/erotic secret.\n\nAs for the other locations  (on shirts and on the back of pants):  I'm all for it.  If a woman's got the word  NIKE  across her bottom,  I'm probably gonna read it.  That's what it's there for.  I like them too,  and I cannot lie.