My friend is a virgin,well maybe, last night she allowed her boyfriend to give her oral.Today she asked me if it counts as her virginity being taken,I am also a virgin so I don't know.Can someone help me?
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The definition by Law is: any contact by the sex organs or by mouth is considered a sexual act, so no one is a virgin if they have any (Contact of a sexual nature).\n\nIt has nothing to do with a person having an orgasm, some women live their entire life and never have an orgasm. \nThe hymen does  not have tobe broken in order to be considered a non-virgin.\n\nI did not know so many people in the world did not know this.
265222
Technically you are still a virgin since you haven't had sex yet, but some pople consider that you are no longer a virgin if you have cut off the 'maidenhead". So it depends on what you believe. But in this modern day society, you are still a virgin
574185
The desire to make your girlfriend hurt because her friend bragged about it is kinda lame.  It's possible they had rough sex.  It's possible she's sore from having had her hymen torn while losing her virginity that night.\n\nIt's possible you don't need to copy anyone and what you two do in the privacy of your relationship could be more powerful and intimate than anything you'd need to brag about...\n\nJust a thought...\n:)
52297
nope....its the last thing i would see in a girl. Well all of us relate virginity to being pure in sexual life but why not relate it also to her heart. Even if I marry a prostitute but she has a gem of a charecter I would still call her a Virgin!!!Of course no guy is pure in this world to say that my wife should be a virgin. All men know what they really are.
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Virginity is not a matter of mind. It is a physical condition. \n\nLets say a young girl is forced to prostituion (could be any reason which is out of her control). Then is she still a virgin? If that is so, then all most all prostitues would call themselves virgins. But lets not undermine a rape victim with a prostitute. This is just an analogy.\n\nMind my being so blunt and disagreeing with your point of view.
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if a mans' penis goes inside of a girls' vagina, then you are not a virgin anymore. penetration of the penis makes a girl no longer a virgin. no, the sperm release is not the deciding factor of being a virgin.
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This whole virgin thing makes me sick. I wish people would accept the fact that virginity is a guilt trip created by so-called religious doctrine that is actually a control with fear tool in order to prevent young members of so-called society from exploring their natural human sexuality at the time they experience it... Thus I could care less whether or not a female member of our so-called society has had sexual intercourse or not, for that is solely her business, and it DOES NOT make her anything other than human.
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Just like it impossible to tell if a man is a virgin by inspecting his genitals, it is impossible to tell that a woman is a virgin by inspecting her genitals.\n\nThe way people used to tell if women were virgins was by inspecting the hymen in the vagina. The hymen, however, is not reliable. For one, the hymen is rarely in tact after a woman hits puberty. The hymen can break from play (slips/falls, bike riding, tree climbing, etc.). Furthermore, a woman who has a hymen is also not necessarily a virgin. Hymens vary, and some can stretch and never actually be completely in tact in the first place (a "complete" hymen, i.e. one that covers the canal entirely, would not allow passage of menstrual fluids). So, it is possible that a woman who has had sex can have still have an "in tact" hymen.
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First off being a virgin is perfectly admirable and I give props to any one that has the ability and will to abstain.  If it was me though I'd go out with someone that had a lil experience maybe 5-10 partners.  That way I already knows she knows what she likes and hopefully she's not too  uptight so we both can play and have a lil fun teaching each other what we've learned.  However, if I were to date a virgin it would be to contain myself but, I'd still try to respect her wishes.
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Ask yourself...do you love her as much as you think you do? cos if you do, you wouldn't bother to find out whether she's still a virgin. Does her virginity really matters that much to you?
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Please, stay a virgin! I'm one and I'm proud of it even though some may consider me a loser. I'll bet a lot of your friends secretly regret losing theirs to some idiot boy that didn't really care about them. Do not feel pressured to lose your virginity; you're too young and boys at that age are very immature.
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Yes, if you've done this many times.  But if this is the first time, No and learn from this mistake.\n\nGuys have their preferences, if virginity is important to them they will surely feel bad about it and most probably shy away from a long term relationship with you.
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Virginity is a relative term. Remember it applies to both men and women.\n\nA girl/boy who had sex can still be called virgin at heart. \n\nTake the example of a girl who had been raped. It was totally against her desire, will and wish. Does it mean she lost her virginity. Absolutely not. I would say she still is a virgin at heart. Just because her 'cherry' or 'hymen' is broken, it doesnt mean she lost her virginity. \n\nSports women in all probability will have their hymen torn or ripped naturally. Does it mean they have lost their virginity. No.\n\nIf a girl likes a boy and only that boy, as regards to that boy she is a virgin whether her 'cherry' is broken or not.\nAs regards to others, she is not a virgin because she has someone in her heart.\nHope i solved the meaning of virginity.
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Ummmmm.....nope. If you're friend's definition of "sleeping" with a woman is actually having sex with her, and you're definition of "sleeping" with a woman is just that, sleeping, no intercourse...then sorry my friend, you're still a virgin.
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I think maybe you are being very general in saying that it seems that way......I know alot of young women who take great pride in being virgins (my 19 year old daughter being one), and I wish I would have stayed a virgin for a bit longer (my first sexual experience was at a very young age). I'm very proud to know that young women are staying virgins until they are old enough to decide what is truly best for them. Take care dear, and does it matter what others think??????
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Virginity is a very subjective definition. For example, if a woman who is not sexually active is sexually assaulted, does that mean she is no longer a virgin?\n\nVirginity is defined differently by each person.  Some lesbian women consider themselves life long virgins, some feel they lose their virginity when using a dildo with a partner, and some feel the first time they have oral sex is when they lost their virginity.\n\nIf you feel that you have not had what you define as sex, then you are still a virgin.  Some people define oral sex or anal sex as sex, others don't.  Some might say that any penetration is sex, where as others feel that they and their partner must climax for it to be real sex.\n\nAll in all, this is your own question to answer.  Do you feel that you're still a virgin? If so, you are, and that's all that matters.\n\nEssin' Em, hotmoviesforher.com
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in my book anyone who is raped before they willingly had sex is still a virgin.  popped cherries as you call it is the hymen brearking and this has no determing factor on virginity...they can break from lots of things...also a girl can willingly lose her virginity before her first period....there is no connection.