Veronica knows I love her. She did not respond back only with you are my next victum. She jokes around with me and makes me think she likes me too but then she pulls back. what do I do?
202320
Sweetie, you need a straight answer from her. Approach the situation carefully, or else you may push her out of your life forever. Slowly ease into the topic and then after a while, ask for a firm yes or no answer to the "do you more than like me?" Give her time to think and consider and don't keep pestering her. If she doesn't give you the answer you want or just doesn't come out with a firm yes or no answer after a bit, then she isn't worth your time or the heartache.
155778
I don't think anybody else can really help you with this, brotha. It's all based on the decision you make. My advice is if you're digging her, go for her. If you want to be a jerk, go for everybody else. It's not that I'm calling you a jerk, but how do you think she would feel about the whole thing?
490215
Well- you have honestly already messed things up for you and her to have any kind of serious relationship.  You have shown her how selfish you are by not listening to her when she was trying to vent to you about an ex.  The next thing you messed up with is not telling her that you liked her.  Do you really think she was happy about hearing that you really didn't like anyone?  You had the perfect oppurtunity to get on her "good" side and say "yeah- I really like you!"  So far you have shown her that you don't care about her feelings and that you lie.  Do ya think she might realize you are using her as a sex object instead of a person with feelings???  Good luck!
376713
she said she loves you..... she AT LEAST likes you!!!!!!!!!! be wit her!
95306
This is too confusing.  Why did you say "she might already like you"? If she was your girlfriend already, isn't she supposed to like you - even more than like you? Are you sure she considers you her boyfriend anyway?
511034
You wrote -- "she know me and know i like her. because i have completed my 10th from her school. so she ignores me."\n\nWell, sorry, but if she is ignoring you because you completed your 10th, then you should probably move on.  Find someone new.
580835
LEAVE THE HO! You deserve better. When she said she likes you she might have been lying to protect your feelings. She obviously doesn't treat you right if she's pulling that crap. You'll get someone better I promise.
294071
Pay her no attention and she will probably like you more..She will miss all the good things you done for her. Just be cool. She will come around.
602071
keep telling her you love her, but dont let the other guy get close to her. you guys sound so cute together, lol
61914
Stop following her around and just talk to her let her know you think she is hot stuff. I don't no why you would want someone who constantly insults people to like you anyway, but hey who am I to judge.
413505
i can see why im confused to.it sounds like she saying dont worry we will f*ck if anything. just try not to get attached till you  figure her out just dont waste to much of your time.it sounds like a game.she probably has another on the side and wants to see who can offer her more. in that case the good guy always loses.
528989
She likes you but is working thru some stuff.  Give her some room and don't smother her.  Realize she can go either way-go closer to you or draw away.  Enjoy your time with her and if things develop more it's a plus.\n\nGood luck!
33978
What are you waiting for just tell her I shure she would like to know who her true love is. Then she might tell you that she like you to. Or maybe she'll just hate you. How is she around you. Is she mean. Because if someone is mean to you they like you. If they are nice to you they hate you. So why don't you just tell her when ever you see her next time then e-mail me back and tell me if my word worked. Or write her a sercret love note she will never know who it was from if you pt from your secret admirer. Like I said it could work listen to my advice.
274195
she might. or, she thinks you are a joke. you need to ask her. see if there are feelings.
178041
Since she didn't take you seriously, it sounds to me like the two of you already know each other.  That's a start.\n\nI wouldn't lay on the "I love you" bit just yet.  It takes some people time to have those feelings for another person.\n\nGet your friends together and ask her or one of her girl friends to go on a picnic or a movie or SOMETHING where there would be a small crowd of you all together. Say, "Bring your friends".\n\nGirls are more likely to go out to places when there are several members of both sexes there.\n\nFrom there just gradually get closer and closer to her until there is a moment when you can kiss her.\n\nDon't ask if it would be OK to kiss her.  Just do it.  Much sexier.\n\nAnother big point.  Don't tell her again that you love her until you feel she is having the same feelings as you.\nOtherwise, you would probably just scare her off.  Wait til you think she's flirting back at you, then make your move.
634971
You're NOT an idiot at all: your actions have shown both courage and devotion...two components of both true love and friendship. How she eventually responds will depend on your shared "chemistry" and where her life experience falls on the learning curve of love.\n\nI can tell you, however, I've been in her place and understand her perspective. A close friend revealed his feelings for me some months ago, and at first it was hard for me to see him as more than a friend (also, I feared losing his friendship!), but he responded similarly to your actions...proving over time he'd not pressure me, and truly cared for me in whatever capacity we could share our lives. Now, he's MUCH more than a friend AND we've found the strength of our friendship helped us overcome typical romantic spats, etc. The time spent in friendship made the love lasting. \n\nPlease do not feel foolish. You've been honest and patient. (Foolish would be never having the guts to tell her how you feel, or rejecting her when she didn't return your desires immediately.) Continue being yourself, and dedicate yourself to the friendship...give her TIME...possibly she'll see your strength and affection, understand the man you can be in her life, and return your feelings. \n\nEither way, here's a quote I like: \n"You are what you love, not what loves you."
390473
Give her a little time. It sounds like she must be really confused right now. If she truly loves you she will call you and come back to you. If not you will just have to find the strength to move on. But I would say form what you have said that she is a very confused girl right now. Give her some time to get things straightened out in her head. As long as she is confused things will never work out.Good luck to you cause it sounds like you care an awful lot about this girl.