I like this boy shakeem and he is so great(an kind of freaky). Though i like him his girlfriend will probably really get mad and beat the crap out of me. Any way how do i make sure she doesnt find out.
199515
by not disrespecting another sister.  getting your own man and remembering what goes around comes around.  Why would you want to do that? We have such a serious problem with the whole cheating thing going on, that people are starting to think that it's ok, to the point of actually asking people on Yahoo.  I'm not trying to be disrespectful or condescending.  But shouldn't you give this young lady your utmost respect, (even if you don't know her), since you know this guy has a girlfriend. And "No", it doesn't matter to me if he likes you back.  You should be doing the sister a favor and pointing him right back in the direction of his girlfriend.
28724
If you like him you should tell him. Although sense he has a girlfriend you should prepare yourself for him not wanting a relationship, but at least if he knows you like him maybe he will look to you if his current relationship does not work out.
38777
Okay, I was in a similar sitution. This girl at my school, who happened to be my boyfriend's (at the time) ex, tried to break us up. It worked, also for like a day, and we got back together. Then she was saying stuff like she wanted to kick my a s s and run me over with a truck and crap like that. I told my boyfriend about it and he said that if she did anything to me, he would make her face unidentifiable. Ha! She never did anything about it, I think she was just trying to sound tough about it. I'd tell your boyfriend and he can tell her off, and I'm sure he'll keep you safe.
88315
just be careful and just see what is up with this girl she is playing her boyfriend so she is probably playing you too be careful because you dont want anyone to get pissed at you even though it is her fault.
238680
You need to sit with your girlfriend and talk to her openly abt how you feel.Sometimes girls just want to be there and be nice to their friends. She might not know that all this is making you uncomfortable. If she tells you there is nothing to worry abt and everything is fine, you need to tell her to be more considerate of your feelings and try to behave in a manner that would not put a strain on your relationship. But if she admits to liking the guy, there is no point in you hanging around there. You just need to let go and tell yourself that somethings r just not meant to be. Sometimes you need to be strong and take decisions with your head and not your heart.
335193
I would be a little worried, but don't over-react. Ask him and this girl *separately* about how they know each other, and compare their stories. If they don't match up, then confront him about it, calmly, making sure that he knows you aren't upset, just a little concerned.
210830
Try and get to know the girl you like and give her a chance to get to know you for herself. Not every one listens only to what other people say, if she has a mind of her own ( which is what you want) she will judge you for her self. Also sometimes if we hear bad things about someone and we then get to know them and they are the complete opposite of what we expected ( because of what we heard about them) then it can make us like the person more because we are so pleased they haven't turned out to be awful. \nThe nasty girl will probably come across to the girl you like as a bit of a gossip- we pick up on these things- just a little niggle that tells us something isn't right.\ngood luck- and if the bitchy girl does gossip to her then you should ask her why she is doing it. ( don't let her realise you like this other girl- hey perhaps bitchy girl fancies you and worked  out to get hot for you and is now mad cos you don't notice her!) hmmmmm???
108854
You should never beat on him.  But, honestly, tell him if it is making you uncomfortable, or if you are interested. :)
171703
Well, think for a minute. If he is going out with this girl, he obviously likes her and wants to go out with her. If you say that he has a horrible girlfriend and should go out with you instead, he might end up hating you. Just be a good, nice person and if he likes you, he will do something.
12424
Yeah,I like this boy named Jerry Beledsoe but Im afraid to tell him because im afraid of what he is going to say and I really dont want to get heart broken!It been 4 years so far and on my birthday I turn his age and Im very confident to tell him now!Im not going to wait intill he get a girlfriend because every time I see him with another girl I get mad because he is mine!I knew him since the \n5th grade!Im going to tell him before its to late!All I got to say to you is that go for it thoes signals she  throw at you means that she like you and dont wait for the last miniute to talk to her!
353399
If I were the guy, I would want to know. He sounds like he has morals and deserves much better than what he's getting. I wouldn't tell him until you have proof of what she is doing, that way she can't lie her way out of it and it would make things more believeable for him. If she gets mad, well she shouldn't be doing this to begin with, so she'd mad she got caught is most likely the real reason for her anger. Who knows what she could be passing on to the b/f and that's sad. If it were me in the situation and wondering whether to tell or not, I'd tell. I've been there and done that before and I have never once regretted it. I couldn't look someone in the eye knowing what I know that person should know and not tell. You and the b/f deserve better ppl in your lives.
649538
lol dont bury her, just be brave and go talk to her, she might be mad and maybe take away your privaliges to see him, but maybe if you see him when she thinks it is ok, and can see that you are really trying to do the right thing because you want her to respect you and show her respect in return, you never know she might just get to know him and end up likeing him and see what you see in him. Go talk to her, the worst she can do is yell at you! Then if she does dont loose your cool, tell her that you want ot talk to her about this, and not turn it into a screaming match. Good Luck Gurlie~
95448
There is no way that a guy can like you and be with someone else, as far as I'm concerned he's probably trying to get something out of you, sorry but its true. If he "somewhat" liked you he would totally break up with his current girlfriend, and go with you. No, doubt about that happening but if he does like you and means it, he'll do it.
599717
Sorry but you can't really. Any guy that lets you know he likes your mate more than you is a jerk. Don't waste your time and find someone decent. After all, you don't seriously want to be known as someone who only accepts sloppy seconds do you!\n\nI'm talking from experience here, I had the same situation as you but with girlfriends! DON'T DO IT!!!!!!! Get rid of him first!!
369495
The best way to tell her is to take her aside and tell her the situations that you've witnessed. Be on her side and support her. Tell her that you understand that she can't help who she likes but you hope that she'll get over this guy because he's so rude about he behind her back and she deserves more than that. It would probably hurt her more to think that this guy genuinely likes her and find out that you didn't tell her. Tell her alone and be ready with the cookie dough and tissues. I hope you are able to tell her and support her!
208163
emmmmm isn't it obvious !!!\nshe like  you and says you are hot !! dahhh she want you to do (&#92;&#92;&#92;) with her !! and yah she wana keep her boyfriend coz she probably love him !!!\nwhat you should do ?? just ignore her she's no good for you or anybody ... don't accept to be a tool in her hands !!
166382
Tell her to explain things with him. However, do not interfere with the girl's problems, especially since she will think you are helping to draw her away from her current boyfriend. Or, more directly, you can talk to her boyfriend about the crime he is doing and ask him why he would actually harrass her friend. He's probably not the real boyfriend your crush should have.