someone that I loved pass away. I just found out about it today. How do u say goodbye?
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don't say goodbye.  He/she will always be with you in every word said, in every advice given, in every laughter and in every moment you two spent together. \nI lost both my parents and grandmother in a car crash a few years back and even though was very hard not seeing them again, they still live in me and in every person's life they touched. I still see my father's look in my son's eyes and can still listen to my mother's advices every time I'm in need of them.\nSo, they're not gone and certainly not forgotten, so don't say goodbye to your loved one. Just close your eyes and he/she will be at your side forever.
405302
Im sorry for your loss.  Be there for them by listening to what they have to say, crying with them and remembering memories and good times that you have had.  You of course are going to lose it at some point and do not try not to.  That's really all you can do at this point.  Pray wtih them also.  You will get thru this.
561476
I know she may not be able to respond but deep down I really think part of her understands. It may feel weird, but I think you should talk to her like she can understand. Just talk to her, tell her about your fun times together. Tell her your going to miss her. If you don't you will feel terrible later for it. You need to just put in your last words now before it's to late.
367304
Sorry to hear it, you should try and find a way to tell your mother, it won't be east but she needs to know. You could try contacting a bereavement counselling service such as cruse or a similar organisation.\nA great site for finding people is B4USEARCH.COM you just put in the full name or even just the surname and the town or city and it shows you all the details you need, it's great for finding lost friends and relatives. Click the link. http://www.b4usearch.com/
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My mother passed on 3-17-01. My dad passed on 3-18-01. They were buried on 3-20-01. They divorced in 1959 and never saw each other again. Not a day goes by  without them in my thoughts. I think only of the good memories and although I miss them terribly, I have accepted it for what it is.  I had them for 46 years and now God has them for eternity. No one can tell you how to grieve, but time is a great healer. You`ll be fine. A Friend.
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how do you start dealing with grief,,,not that we are taught that now are we.\n\nI lost my dad 4 years ago xmas eve ( so when people are getting all happy ready for xmas i'm not) and he died also suddenley,.\n \nI see rest of family getting on with it so I think why cant I, but are they???, they prob feeling the same.  think of him at times and then I get upset.\n\nI think also because it was sudden doesnt mean it hurts more than if u know someone is going to die before hand, like my friends mother who had cancer.\nThey prepared themselves for her not being round much longer.... but\n Shock of loosing a loved one is that SHOCK.\n\ntalking does help, listen to me hey lol i can only talk to strangers about this.\n\n its hard cause they ie parents have been there all our life we have known them forever and now they not there.\n\n\n\nSo as far as i know it is normal still to greive, cause you dont think about them doesnt mean you have forgotton them\n\n\nI hope this makes sense sometimes you cant get your words out.\ngood luck sweetie xx
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Did you know the woman personally, or anything special about her (hobbies, collections, etc., especially ones you might share)?  If so, you might want to throw in a happy memory or something like that.  If not, his thought that YOU thought enough to send  condolences will probably serve.
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=I am sorry for the loss of your classmate. The guidance counselor is always there to help you as well as keep talking about it because it helps process the grief you are feeling.  Try to go to the wake and maybe the funeral with someone.  It would also be a nice gesture on your part to send the family a sympathy card telling them why their loved one was so special to you.  God Bless.
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I FEEL FOR YOU. I LOST MY MOM TO PANCREATIC CANCER. I TOO MISSED HER FINAL MOMENT ON THIS WORLD..IT'S NOT EASY.. BUT TALK TO PEOPLE DON'T HOLD ANYTHING IN. LET IT ALL OUT...GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
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Losing someone you love is always hard.  You may not feel like it right now because the sorrow is so overwhelming, but try to think of the good times and the love and joy he brought to you.  Remember that he is still in your heart.  He will always be a part of you and that will never go away.  He is never truly gone as long as you remember him and love him.\nIt's okay to hurt and it's okay to cry.....healing takes time.
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i have found the best way to get over someone is to think about them as though they have died.  that way you can keep the memories you have about the good times you had with him but accept there will be no more.  stay busy and go different places and do different things than you did when you were with him.   try very hard not to see him or hear about him.  it's a cliche but time does really heal and every day gets a little easier.  don't stay home and be sad now even though no guys measure up right now.  the next one who will measure up is out there and you won't meet him while you're at home feeling sad.  and once you meet him you'll wonder what you ever saw in the guy who made you sad.  good luck!!
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Of course you should call him up! While your at it, say something like, "I am so sorry for your loss, i know he meant a great deal to you." \nDuring times like this, it's not so much what you say, it's being there to listen. A grieving person usually wants to tell someone their memories of that person, share moments they had. It honors their memory and keeps them alive in the minds of those who loved them. \nI think it is cool that you are concerned enough to want to do the right thing! Good luck.
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do a google search with the last name and city and state in quotation marks.  \nAnother thing that is okay to do is to call the co-worker and offer your condolences then ask either where to send the card or which place is taking care of the service. I would avoid telling them you are sending flowers as most people will say "ahh you don't have to do that"  but deep down the effort is appreciated.
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Sorry for your loss! It's hard to decide what is good enough for a special family member during times such as these. I didn't write a obituary but I read to "To Where You Are" by Josh Groban at my mother's memorial service. Very beautiful!
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Start by listing her accomplishments. Then why we will miss her, and your relatonship with her (or in this case her music.) Close by saying how mch she will be missed. I just wrote a fake eulogy for a fake person in school>
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That's the problem my brotha.  You need to tell her how u feel.  You sittin here and you seem to know the exact words that you want to say to her....so let me give you some advice....TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!!!! I know from firsthand experience that when she is gone it will be the worst feeling in the world.  Talk to her when it is just you and her alone.  I promise you nothing bad will come of it.
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Well here's an idea don't act so enwrapped to the relationshiop with him.  HIS DAD JSUT DIED you want to show you like him so show some comapssion towards the expired body.  You want to start talkin to him Start like this:\nHey i heard what happened to your father are you alright?\nHim: yea im getting over it.\nyou: wanna discuss it? \nHim: no i dont\nyou: well you should be at peace before you go on. What was he like? \nthen he'll tell you or cry i dunno \nthis only workd if you dont know his father otherwise itll seem obnoxious.