I just had this gut feeling that my best friend is beginning to think of me as more of a friend. How do I know if my intuition is correct?
204634
As I see there are two choices\n\n1- yes, your intuition is right, just because you are feeling it, it´s your friend and you know how it behaves.\n\n2- no, it´s you the one feeling attracted and pretending to hide behind "the feeling"\n\nEither case, in love and friendship only the one involved know...
151605
If you think your friend is good to you, see for yourself. Your friends are telling you to watch out right? So I think you shouold. I have been in this situation myself, and what I do is I stay friends with the person, and if I start to notice that they are bad, I trust my other friends on that. It's all about instinct!
376595
You are thinking with your heart and other parts of your body besides your head. Your friends are just looking out. If you are confused there is a reason for it. Sit your friends down and have them tell you why they feel the way they do. They will probably open up your eyes and brain instead of him opening up something else.
309570
This is always a tricky situation, and its often feared that the friendship might be ruined if the other person doesn't feel the same way. I think that if you two are 'best friends' and really close and have a healthy relationship, then if he doesn't feel the same way, maintaining the friendship should be easy.\n\nI think you should tell him and for all you know he could be feeling the exact same way, and having the same fears! So take the risk. If you don't then you are risking a really good chance to be with someone in a relationship that you really care for.\n\nPlan the right way to do it for you- whether that be on the phone, face to face, through a hand written letter, email or msn...whichever is best for you, the point is that you do it and get it out in the open of your relationship. \n\nJust remember of all the great possibilities, that's why you should do it.
628326
I know that feeling (the terribal feeling not very well)\nTry to be nice, if you are not feeling what he is... Just be honest, your friendship will change of course but he knows it will, he took the risk by saying he loves you...\nDo not be rude he is just been honest, but you do not share the feeling so be clear state it correctly... \nRelation will change so be prepare you will never look at him as it was before, but you can be mature enough to go over this bad feeling you have and time will put you back together again and you will someday laugh about, if you both are real friends OK... sooner or latter you will accept him as he is.
506328
Yea, it does sound like a friend to me. Get to know him more as he gets to know you a little more. Don't worry too much.
500751
I don't mean to be judgmental but the least of your concern should be telling your bestfriend about it.\n\nYour concern should be first and foremost is the way you've been behaving (especially if it's still ongoing) and why did you allow yourself to be in this kind of situation and deceived the person whom you consider to be your bestfriend.\n\nI know that you are very much aware that what you're doing is downright wrong.  People will be telling you a lot of things with the foremost emphasis that you need to stop.  Maybe these will fall on deaf ears.  Maybe it will not.\n\nAnd my prayer is that it don't, that you will choose to act upon the situation and come to the realization that you are not only hurting your bestfriend but you're hurting yourself as well.\n\nYou've allowed yourself to be the "other woman" and settled...
498186
hey it seems like you really care for your friendship more than she dose. let me ask you. are you marred with children? this believe it or not makes a lot of difference. because if your not this make her feel that she has more incoment with this new friend of hers. don't brake your mine trying to figer this out i know it hurts to be left out . but think shes like a child with a new toy, give her some time to see things over to value the friendship you both have stay away for a while to she come to her seances. if she looks for you than you have a friend if she do sent than you only had a fake friend. so let it be continue your life with out her. remember that only good friends stick around. that's way there hart to find.
188034
You need to be upfront and honest with your Best Friend. Let her now how you feel.  But you are still calling her your best friend so maybe if the two of you talked about what makes you uncomfortable about still being friends, it can be worked out!  But make sure you are honest with her.  Just because you don't have the same beliefs as her doesn't mean you need to disrepect her and her disrepect you.  Good luck to you!
85616
I had the same problem. my friend of 6 years kept getting really jealous over my friend of just 2 months. Every time she came close my friend would jump in and pull me away. Not only that she was very close knit. I mean when ever she introduced me to someone she would say "MY BEST FRIEND". It got a little annoying when she wanted me to do the same. It got really bad when she started to make fun of my other friend. That's when I told her, hey listen, you have been my best friend so all these years. And if you think that she is going to steal me away from you, then you must not trust me enough, do you really think i am going to drop you after so many years together? I told her that if i wanted to stop being her friend I would have stopped, but I'm still here. I think you should just tell it to her straight, and if she doesn't believe you, that's her fault.
264644
Think of the friendship,It would mean more to me.
157611
yes she probably is but she might still be ur best friend even if u werent bailling her out all the time try it and find out u might be surprised
254161
In my experience you really should not have people in your life who do not give you the importance that you feel you deserve. It is obvious that you do not feel that you are receiving what you deserve from this friend. Usually when people feel this way it is because they aren't in the position that they know they should be in. In other words you worth more that what you are getting from this "friend".\n\nMy advice is for you to do two things. First, stop being the one who is after him, keeping the friendship alive. All relationships are composed of two or more people and should involve equal effort in maintaining it. Second never forget that you are worth as much as you believe. So take a stand and do let permit this person to be that way with you.\n\nYou've already talked about, with no results. You've taken the first step. Feel very proud of yourself for that. But now is the time for action. If you still do not see any changes, then you really don't mean so much to him as he does for you.
45901
Girl, you HVE TO TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND! Friends will always be friends, it will offend her more if you keep it as a secret. Are you not aware of what they call "Girl's Instinct"? For sure, she feels something and is just not sure about it or is just waiting for you to tell, so go, tell her. You'll see how relieved you will be.
519950
. Maybe it is time to consider finding a new friend Friends accept us for what we are the best of and the worst. If you feel strange there problem is something going on. Are sure they are friends and can you really be yourself around them. If so how can you be thinking you can mess things up? Life is to short to be up happy either ask them straight out or accept the way thing are.
59658
i say yes, meet the guy someday, but as for whether he has "feelings" for you or not... i am not a mind reader. can't help you there... but i think i can say that he thinks you're a good friend...
599868
I went through the same thing you did.  It kind of gets frustrating.  How does your friend react to it?  Does your friend go along with it or just gets quiet.  Cause my friend at times gave the hint that we were together.  Sorry to say that She no longer is my friend cause she was in fact giving hints that we were closer that friends.  In order to avoid it talk to your friend and also try not to give certain hints to people when you hang out together.  Sometimes people will jump to conclusions due to you hanging out with your friend way too much.