I always find myself falling for guys that are way too old for me.  It seems like all the guys my age are immature jerks.  Any tips on finding a descent guy thats about 13 years old?
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Church can be a good place. Also find a guy whose shy, not like the populur guys at school.
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Older guys are just hot!!!  There is just a "what a stud" feeling that goes along with looking at older men.  My favorites are Sean Connery, Harrison Ford, and Bruce Willis. Ouch they are too hot.
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You are probably more mature than most people your age and that is why you are attracted to the personalities of people older than you. In addition, most poeple your own age probably are threatened by your maturity and intellect and therefore turned off by it because they do not know how else to behave around you.\nSo much to learn from anyone that is older than us....that  not only is it accectable to "hang around" them but advisable whenever you can.\nThe other 14 yr olds are jealuos of you and you should be damn proud that you have much more to offer as a human being then they do.
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They do make a good point, how old are you?  What kind of guy are you into?
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Dear Bunny,\n     Please don't be in a hurry to grow up!!!  You have YEARS ahead of you to become acquainted with men.  Enjoy your friends and peers.  Develop your own interests, activities, and hobbies.  Take time to become "you."  Relationships (especially in the teen years) can be a HUGE drain on your time and energy.  Enjoy being 13 (trust me, you'll be "old" soon enough!).  If this guy really cared about you, he would be willing to step back and wait until you are older.  Please don't let him push you into a relationship!!!  \n     A 17 year old boy who dates 13 year old girls is probably pretty insecure.  Why isn't he dating someone who is 17 or 18??
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So you are a lier too . . . \n\nYou don't like the guys that like you . . . but you dated them . . . which means you like them . . . . \n\nPlus . . . guys your age has no game . . . so they lie to get with you . . . but if I were you I would accuse anyone because you are one too.
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Look past the age for a minute.  I mean, I know some 30 year olds that act like they're 50 and I know some 50 year olds that act like they're 30.  Age is irrelevant to some extent. Let me emphasize "some extent".  Although the mind may think younger, the body will eventually answer the question "What's my age again?".   Ok, re-track back to my first statement. *waits while you read it again*.  Now, it is very nice to be complimented.  (if I may, your nose looks quite lovely today!) and it is nice that someone has taken an interest in you.  But, the real question is, would YOU date him?  The mere fact that you are contemplating it leads me to believe you may have some interest.  But, is this interest only because he has showed you some attention?  Perhaps you should casually spend some time with him and see if he is someone you would date.  I don't know the man.  I mean, if you want, I can shoot down to....."where?" and scope out the situation.  You know, stare him up and down and ask him what his intentions are......shake him up a little.
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I find older men very sexy  I am 25 and I would consider going out with someone thats up to 40.  It just seems they have a presence to them and they are more sexually appealling
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you are matured. better to search a man above you age or minimum equal to your age. Otherwise you will have tough time in the future. cancell his cell phone number. dont response, gently communicate him about your studies to be finished or your parents are not interested. when you are 50 he will be still in his 37.....you will look so old so he may search for some one.
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story of my life.. 21 but am attracted to men anywhere from late 20's to even 50's.  And I have discovered there are alot of us May-December lovers out there... something about am older man just makes me feel more comfortable...
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Lol, I remember people tellin me i was too mature for my age. I think everyone mature's at their own pace and I don't think you should try to spead up the process, have as much fun being "innocent" and nieve/ playful and young as you can. I know i wish I was still young. Even though I'm "all grown up" I still try to act young, I love to be playful and fun (and guys seem to like it too, lol). Just don't grow up to fast, but if you push hard enough, I'm sure you will...  as i did.. :(
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Okay... it's only wrong depending on how low you go...(In Age). but I look for older men, because they are more mature and self sufficient. So no, its not wrong.
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It's ok to have a crush on someone older than you, I was a sophomore when I met my bf (who was in 8th grade) and it always feels like we're the same age.  But you should be careful, some boys can be real jerks, especially high school boys. so just don't let your guard down :)
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Listen to your Momma!  If the guys are worth your time, they will still be interested when you are old enough to date.
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No, don't wear skimpy clothes.  I believe modesty is the best way to go. You can still be sexy and be modest.  So the young guys are not giving you much attention?  I am only 28, but maybe the older guys see a maturity level in you that isn't common for someone your age.    Why they think they have a chance, I don't know.  Maybe the younger guys that you say ignore you just aren't ready for someone like you.  Maybe some guys just want a fling and a little fun and are looking for someone who exudes that personality.  Feel free to PM me if you want to chat.
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Honestly? 16-17 year old boys? (i say boys deliberatly) they are looking for a pulse and a purse dear.  If you have either of those your in the running.  Now slightly older guys (or the guys your talking about in a just a few years) will start looking for sombody who is nice and sweet.  Now this isn't cause to be horrible to them now, but a guy will like you for who you are, don't try and be somthing that your not for them. Because they are too young to know what they want in the long term, and you probably are too.  Now that isn't a put down in anyway, its just the truth, don't be in too much of a hurry to get into an adult relationship there will be plenty of time for that.  Somewhere out there, there are a bunch of guys who will adore and worship you for who you are... Don't settle for less please... Good luck sweetie, and I hope this helps.
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I always used to seem to date younger guys, then I met my husband and he was 4 years older than me.  That's when I realized that all the little twerps I'd been dating were completely immature and selfish.   If you get along, and they're what you're looking for, who cares about the age difference.  Though I will say, when I was 18 I was a lot more gullible and trusting than I am now, so just watch out.