I moved out her to california got into it with a family member i moved in with another family member and within a week that relative i was previously  staying with gave away all my property
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If you can't prove ownership, NOTHING.
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I would suggest that you go into the house and get any papers that you might need.  You are not entering illegally as you have a key and your uncle doesn't want his son to deal with it.  You will have to let the solicitor know.  I've been in a similar position and in the end i decided i loved my grandad more than my aunt  so i was going to do what he wanted and not worry about upsetting my aunt and going against her and my mothers wishes. I am happy that I did.
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NO, you were completely justified. It isn't even a matter of her being grateful (which of course, she should be) it is also a matter of her being a decent human being and having some level of manners. When someone goes out thier way to help you with something, the LEAST that you could do is say thank you or tell them how much you apprectiate all they have done for you. She stayed in thier house not just as a guest, but as a memeber of the family, and in such, should appreciate that level of acceptance and support. You and your parents seem like good people, and deserve that much respect.
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Well, the 'rents did the best they could. I was a Navy brat and we moved often. There was an incestuous perv in the family but I lucked out there. The trouble started in high school...I was a lonely child...LOL
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are you the child's relative. I can probably answer you if i had more info to go on. I just went throught this myself.
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I have a similar situation. But it is SHE in my case. Plz..help us both(the asker and me).
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She hasn't called u cuz she's avoidin u.  N thats not a bestfriend, bf don't bail out on any situation. She has no concern for u n your family now that she has a place.  n her boyfriend stayed with her, i'm sorry but sounds like they took advantage of your hospitality, giving them both a place to stay. If she's a real bf she'll find a way to get her half n help out.  You r a good friend to her, u might have to reconsider your friendship. Hope things work out for u n family.
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That is tough... I've been there done that. At one time or another I have had:\nMy Sister and her husband\nMy Brother, his wife and their 4 kids\nand then\nMy sister in-law and her two kids.\n\nAll varying in length of stay from 6 weeks to 6 months.\n\nJust this past Jan I had a friend that had been living with us since Aug move out.\n\nIt can be tough..\n\nWhy do you ask?
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Your best bet is to contact some local movers and ask them to come and do a survey of your possessions.  They can give you an estimate.  It's impossible to offer any kind of amount without knowing more about how much "stuff" you have packed into that 4 BR house.  We have moved 4 times in the past 8 years and it's amazing how much we have.
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Yes -- because in August this year -- one of my adult children willingly helped my Ex-Spouse (from over 13 years AFTER the divorce) Burglarize MY Home -- and then went with that jerk.
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She seems to want you out because she already has another renter ready to take your place.  \nUsually you get minimum 30 days, she can't make you get out before that.  Nov 9, you get at least to the Dec 9th\n\nShe can't keep the money for that reason, those money were for the following:\nAny charge specified in the apartment lease agreement or any charge resulting from your breaking the lease.  You didn't break the lease, she kicked you out.\n\nCharges for damages, wear and tear resulting from negligence, carelessness, accident or abuse on your part. "Normal wear and tear" items cannot be deducted.   Did you!\n\n\nUnpaid rent and other unpaid charges listed in your apartment lease, such as those for late rent payment, returned checks, missing furniture or fixtures, keys you don't return to the apartment manager, etc.\n\n\nThe reasonable cost of cleaning if you fail to properly clean your apartment before you leave. Many rental properties have written cleaning instructions for you to follow.\n \nIf not, you still have a leg to stand on, and depending on your contract with them, you can still negotiate until the end of Dec.  \n\nIf she has someone already lined up to take your place, that can be good for you.  You can use it to get extra money from her, because if you don't leave by that time, she will lose her new tenant.  Check the laws in your area, before you do anything, but it seems the ball is in your court.\n\nYou are not giving enough infor, to give you a fair answer, hope that help with the little infos in your question.\n\nOne more thing.  Before you give the keys up.  Take pictures of the whole place, and make sure you have the walk through with her, to make sure that she will not be able later on, to keep the money because of how you left the place.  Take picture.  As they say picture tells a thousand words.  protect yourself, so you can get your money back.\nGood Luck
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wow-i can relate having moved in w/friends a month ago after leaving my husband. be honest and upfront. sit her down w/your facts written out in front of you.\n\nHave a time-line for you to leave if she cannot pay her share. If she's in over her head - offer to help her find subsidized housing/sell her place etc.\n\nIt's awful to lose good friends over money, honesty is the best policy before you and your other half resent her or worse. Good luck and Happy New Years, Pat
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OOps sorry let me edit this..\n\nMost important question is - are they LEGALLY your gaurdian?  It sounds like this might be your sister.. or maybe a young aunt.\n\nWhat state are you in?  How old are you?  It depends on how your caregiver will react.  I did the same thing when I was 17 and my parents freaked and were able to take me back.  I spent a few days in Juvi.. but other than that nothing terrible will happen.  If you are 17, I suggest talking to your parents about this and seeing if they would let you.  Does your friends family want you to move there?  Have them talk to your caregiver.  If you are any younger, either wait or have the family talk to your caregiver..  I totally understand where you are coming from, sometimes your home can just be toxic, especially if your parents are going through a divorce, or some issues of their own.. I've been moved out for 2 years now, and even when I come to visit, it just sucks my soul dry.. Some people and places are just so bad for you.  Talk to them .. really.  OR just go ahead and do it, but know this - they will be able to find you - and they will force you to come back - BUT after that happens, they will be open for dialog with you - you will be able to tell them how damaging their home is to you - and they will be able to take you seriously.. This is what happened to me- They never listened until after I ran away.. Then they let me finish my high school degree online and let me move out when I needed to.\n\nTo help you any further, I would need to know your age and your state.\n\nAnd like the other person mentioned, if you are working and making some of your own money, you might be able to get emancipated. \n\nChoices Other Than Emancipation\n\nEmancipation is only one of several alternatives available to you if you feel you cannot live with your caregiver.  You may want to consider other options such as:\n\nfamily counseling or mediation service between you and your parents; \nliving with another responsible adult (aunt, uncle, grandparent, or family friend); \nseeking assistance from public and private agencies; \nan informal agreement with your caregiver allowing you to live outside your home. \n\n\nMy final advice to you is this - family counseling - if nothing else works - this will.  The other person there can help you communicate effectively with your caregiver - and don't assume they will only be on your caregivers side either.  Present your case to them, and unless you have no reason for wanting to move out, they will support you and help you work out a solution with your family..\n\nGood luck, ok?  Feel free to personally email me if you need any personal or legal advice..  Bj_Osterhout@yahoo.com
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I have to move...So a nice medium house...I was a good girl
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Since she left then you can claim abandonment which will minimize what if anything she would have been entitled to, but for right now file for a legal separation and change her as the beneficiary on all of your policies, as well as cancelling all of your joint accounts and opening separate accounts. Sounds to me like your married to a golddigger. Dump that troll.
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why are you living there in the first place???\n\nsounds like you have a problem.\n\nfirst, you should be grateful to them for giving you a place to live.\n\nsecond, you should get your stuff and try to find a relative or family member you can stay with.\n\nthird, eat crow and apologize to his family and ask for their forgiveness, if you were being a brat at THEIR house.\n\ntake care
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You should have left her when she wouldn't let you see her house.  There were MANY clues here which you seemed to ignore!  She was using you.  Go find someone decent!