Should I dump my guy I'm going out with??\n\nAlso I know that the other guy I like kinda likes me, and he sometimes flirts with me. So...yeh.
214180
just think about it and you will know!!\ncuzz it comes from your hart not by asking someone.
199428
Let it go, he left the store with you...not her! Guys will be guys and they will ALWAYS check out other girls no matter how commited they are to you! You could dump him for it, however, your next man will just do the same thing. It is just programmed into their brains! Not much you can do about it. I am sure it was harmless!
403289
OK, that's hardcore flirting and a prelude most likely to them exploring more. It's totally disrespectful to your relationship and if any more of it occurs I'd inform him to hit the road and not come back. Keep your eyes open on that one.
137895
Maybe its your girldfirend that just wants your money.  But I would hate to think my best friend would stab me in the back and date a guy i cared about.  Does this tell you anything about the girl you are thinking of asking out? If that is the way she treats her best friend is she really gonna be that good to you?  Either way if you current girlfriend is that bad to you - you need to let her go and tell her why.  If things happen between you and the other girl after that -  then all is fair.  Good luck to you
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
377646
If he isn't into his girl, then that sure says a lot about him. I wouldn't worry about hurting your friend's feelings, just tell her. She will be hurt more once she finds out the truth about what a jerk he is. You said you are interested in him? Why? He knows you're taken and you're happy with the one you are with. I would stay where you are and forget about this other guy if I were you.
623004
I'm having that EXACT same problem right now with a guy I'm hanging out with.\n\nAre you friends with him?  does he call you?  Do you hang out together?  Or are you wanting to know whether or not he is interested in doing these things with you?  Because there is a big difference, at least to me.
250842
OK first find out if the other guy likes you then good but if he do sent then just dont stay with your boyfriend if you dont love him because at the end hes going to be more hurt that if you had done it now because by the time hes going to get closer to you and he will love you more so i think that you should break up with him because at the end hes the one that's going to get hurt at the end.
514914
i totally agree....i have this guy friend...that when i first met him...started flirting with me...we got a little closer....made out a couple times and i really like him...then he goes and says that he doesnt want a relationship and that he is just cuddly with his friends....it kind of pissed me off...especially because i liked him....we are still good friends tho.
129460
Maybe he is going to break up with the other girl and go out with you. He may just want to get to know you more.
495823
In the end only you can decide to go out with the guy but don't play with the poor guy. If you like him and think it would be nice to do things together date him. If you really don't like the guy and don't think you see him as your boyfriend forget about it but don't mess the guy about.
133527
First you must finish with your boyfriend and as gentle as possible as it's not his fault, then when you are free this other guy might take the hint, If not, then make it clear that you like him. If he dosent make a move then you are wasting your time. You sound young so it may not be the love of your life.
439249
how the hell would we know. we dont know what either of u look like, but i can tell u this, neither of u should go out with him, bc its not right for him to do that to either of u, ur friends. and no boi is worth loosen ur friend over. i just see this guy as being a problem for both of u.  bc if u or ur friend date him, one of u will get ur feelings hurt, or try to take him away from the other, and oh boy just a big mess.
604735
Better not ask him out together since both your friend and you like the same guy. I got a friend in the same situation. Later he got together with one of the gals and the 3 of them are like really awkward! Think of your friendship!
666550
get over the other guy and go out with the next and the next.....have fun......the other guy missed out or maybe you did not put out....or maybe you did to quick......either way forget him....talk to the other guy to see what he is about....you might just like it
443259
Oh God...more of those?!! If you don't know how to make up your mind which guy you want and you are seeking advice online, sorry but there's something wrong there...\n\nOh, and if it helps,choose the new guy...of course he deserves a chance the poor guy...oh, bless
130806
Step back, look at this situation, is this really how you want the rest of your life to be? I would say walk away, no run. Don't look back just run. And on another note if you are willing to dump the current boyfriend for another guy then why waste your time with him, obviously he is not who you want, might as well get rid of him too, time to clean house back up and punt. Just a little tip from your uncle Will.