For example, I am preparing for college and stressed out. Me an my fiance have been together for 4 months and sometimes he rather text then call! maybe i'm to clingy any advice? Thank you.
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take some time out for yourself doing things you enjoy like shopping, enjoying nature, doing a hobby, go to a spa or just hang out with the girls. try not to think about school and let your fiance know how you feel about the phone problems because you need to work things out, no matter how small they might seem. good luck hun!
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I have a similar problem in reverse. I always find that guys (some of which are my friends) have a tendency to be clingy. This rattles my cage very much, however the best thing you can do, is bring it up casually (but not passive-aggressively) in a conversation, listen to that person's response, then fill in the blanks yourself. Don't dwell on it. If it's been a long relationship (5+ months) and there have been very few or no instances of cheating, I would trust the person to not do that to you. I hope this has been of help but I am not very good at giving advice.
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Dear Am I Being Unreasonable:\n  I know how you are feeling unfortanely I have been in that same situation but I was on the other side. I had a best friend whom I had forever when I started dating this guy.Well the boy friend didnt like that fact that we "hung out" so much. He "just knew" that we were doing something. Well it turns out he was right we were and actually ended up getting married after a long drawn out process. The point Im trying to make is if your boyfriend is keeping things from you and lying then you dont need him. You deserve better. It sound like he wants his cake and eat it too. A realtionship is built on trust (or suppose to be). I haop that I have helped. I have enclose my email and yahoo messenger if you want to hit back at me !!
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Um.. Yes, this is weird, but maybe you should try and act nonchalant about it. Maybe she is trying to give you a hint that you are too clingy. Back off a bit bro. Don't be so over aggressive, like "OH MY CRAP WHERE DID YOU GO!!" Every 5 min.
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Appreciate that he is returning your calls and has let you know that they're HIS issues, not yours.\n\nYou've only been hanging out a month.  Depending on what he has going on, that's really not enough time to develop trust.  It happens over time, and this relationship is in it's beginning stages.  It may not be an exclusive relationship, though it sounds like it's heading that way.\n\nDon't put any more pressure on him.  He knows you're there, he knows you're concerned.  That's enough.  If you continue to call him, then you need to ask yourself "Am I really concerned about him, or am I feeling insecure because I'm not part of what's going on?"  He's having some challenges right now, and I think he's handling this appropriately.  If you're really concerned about him, then keep it about him.  Be available to him if / when he needs you.  \n\nWhat's going on with him has nothing to do with you.  Keep this situation in its proper perspective; otherwise, you will lose him before you've gotten things off the ground.
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Sounds like you already know what you need to do. Have you talked to him about it if so and he won't change then sounds as though you are not happy and who could be with someone so clingy. A good relationship you need some time away from each other as well as together time. So if it doesn't look like things are going to get any better cute your losses and run.
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Your situation is very similar to what I am in. My b/f and I met online, talked for 3 weeks, then met.  We had the most unbelieveable weekend together!!  We now have been living together 5 months, but he works out of state for 2 to 3 weeks at a time.  Hopefully I can help with that I know.  \n\nThe void in your heart when you aren't talking to her is because all you two have right now, is talking.  You can't see each other every day so that's what you cling to.  Makes perfect sense, I felt the same way then.\n\nAlthough she isn't calling you as often as you'd like, what do you two have to talk about, that you haven't talked about in the last 2 months?  Those hour long phone calls don't last forever because seriously, what else is there to talk about?  My b/f and I decided a call in the morning and a call in the evening would be the best way to handle that.  We could wish each other good morning and tell each other have a good day, but we'd play catch up at night.  We always make sure to tell each other even the little things that happen throughout our day because we both feel like we too are experiencing things even when we can't be together.  \n\nWe do have seperate lives too.  When he is home, we are together 100% but when we are apart, I go out with my girlfriends and he goes out with his work crew.  Don't think for a minute I am not thinking of him when I am out.  He feels the same because many times, he calls me when he is out with the guys.  My point is, you can't just sit at home and mope, wondering what the other is doing.  You need to live too.  Have fun, do hobbies, go out with your buddies.  Keep your mind busy until you can be with her again.  \n\nIf it's meant to be, it will happen.  Don't rush or pressure her and don't be clingy and needy. You have to trust her.  If you don't, you will lose her for sure.
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just keep it going..i'm away from my bf too and not likely to meet soon..don't lose touch to keep it fresh...
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If you need more than he can offer, you should sit down and talk it over with him.  If you cannot come to a compromise and he cannot at least answer you once in a while.  Tell him your expectations of a relationship.  If your expectations are not being met and he isn't trying to a point, then you can tell him in person that you need more.  Nothing wrong with what you need.  If you don't constantly call or IM him, I do not see why he can't take a few seconds to IM you or call you.  If I had a boyfriend, I would make time, and call him.  After all, if he is busy, it can be just a 30 second call saying.... I am busy, just wanted to say hi and to have a good evening.  It sounds like he really isn't interested if he isn't even talking to you at school.  I think it is better to talk about it in person versus over the phone.
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im in a situation just like you ilove my guy to death but i feel isolated but ive been going out with him for 3 years. ive stayed with him by making him want me. i just did simple things like call him and tell him i just wanted to say hi and hear your voice so net i gotta go talk to you later and then i realize (on my ID) that he called me like 3 or 4 times he never leaves a full messge its either hey baby or hi and thats how he keeps me wanting him!\n       good luck!!!!
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Your not needy, your just acting like a female. what you have to remember is that guys are different from girls.They believe that if they call a girl once in a week thats plenty. For us it seems inconsiderate and unromantic. I am in a relationship for about the same time as period as yourself and he calls me probably twice a week, even though I confronted him about it.Your not insecure or maybe you are but this happens in a relationship, insecurities,possesiveness,love.............\nWhat I think that you should do is confront him, you'll feel much better.You should count yourself lucky because I see mines once a week, not by choice I might add.If he doesn't call for the day send him a text or e-mail him.When your with him do things that will make him wanna see you more if thats what you want.\nGOOD LUCK and I hope that this helped.
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My boyfriend is coming back in July too from the Marines. I just try to occupy myself by working and going to school. Just try to talk to him on the phone and keep your relationship fresh. I usually just hang out with my friends and have a good time but also stay faithful to my boyfriend
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Of course you miss him and your thinking about stuff you did together.  It perfectly natural.  Without knowing the nature of the break up and how long ago it was, this is difficult to answer.  If you broke up because of a "clingy" issue - take a step back and give him some space to breath.  \nIf it is for some other reason - e-mail him and just say "I just wanted to tell you I miss you."  Relationship are work - they will take effort on both sides.  If you think you can date someone without ever disagreeing on something your fooling yourself and will be breaking up with a lot of people throughout your life.  You can never go wrong with telling someone how you really feel - especially when you are telling someone something nice like you love them and care for them.\nJust as a disclaimer: If this guy put an aggressive finger on you in any way, STAY AWAY!!!  You deserve better.
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Are you trying to talk and he is not interested?  Is it a comfortable silence where you are just content to be together and possibly know each others thoughts?  Do you want to break up, but are waiting for him to make the move or do you want to stay together and are worried he already left so you are afraid to put yourself out on a limb and reach out to him - maybe this is what he is waiting for?  Is there other demands on his or your time that limit the time to talk?\nIt may be a sign of breaking up, a sign that more effort is required, or that you are comfortable enough not to have to talk all the time.  I am sure these are the things you are already thinking, but only you and he can decide if it is over or if you want it to be over as we don't know the personality quirks of either of you.  If the communication is so bad that you cannot ask him then I guess it is over or never was.
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Yes, unfortunately it's natural for the initial magic to die out.  However that's an ideal time because it's the time when a true bond between 2 people start forming and the relationship gets stronger.  So, yes the initial magic and euphoria ends; however, it is replaced by a magic that is much stronger.  Sometimes things like emails and text messages die out, but don't focus too much on the trifles.  Instead, look for other things.  Does he seem happy or miserable when he sees you?  Also, if you really liked the text messages and emails you can ask him what happened to all of those?  Just don't make too big a deal out of it when you do.  Tell him that you liked it when he did that.  Maybe he's had a very busy schedule and it's harder to do that.  Otherwise, maybe he's still waiting for you to text him and email him back from the last time.  Maybe you don't do that as much as you did if you also did that for him.  Maybe he also misses the text messages and the emails.  I'd suggest that maybe you start doing little nice things for him without expecting anything back in return.  This will add more passion to the relationship and he will probably notice and eventually do something a little creative back for you to show you that he loves you greatly as well.  If you think about it, this makes the relationship exciting again like it was just started all over again because now you have the thrill of not knowing what the other person is thinking and trying to figure him out all over again.  Good luck to you!  :-)
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oh.. wow.. first talking in any relationship is key.... I guess you guys didnt talk about ground rules: what will and Wont be cool in the relationship. \n\nFriends are friends thats cool if he has little femmes text messaging him, but the queston is, would he be cool if guys were textin you? Its gotta be equal or its not going to work. You both need to talk about this cause if you cant shrug it off you know its only gonna get worst: your going to read one or many of his messages and find some female is just a little too cutsey with him.\n\nBoundaries you guys needed to create some before all of this: now you Have to talk with him: cause this isnt cool...\n\ndont text a chick back...\ndont accuse him of anything\n\nbe specfic in what you dont feel right about and make him picture if you were in the same situation: would it be ok if guys texting you?
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thats a hard one okay i have been through it so many times and the urge to not pick up the phone is hard.what was the reason you and her broke up?she needed her space,3 years is along time but sometimes people grow apart it happens.this guy i was seeing we broke up and its been 8 months and i still want to call him its hard.i waited for him to call me but he did'nt.just wait and see if she calls you most of the time if you don't call she will wonder why and she will call you .just give it time.if she don't call move on it will take some time but you will get through it good luck