i got a call from my brother and he told me that she had told him she cheatin on me but didnt want to tell me because i cum home on friday after being in Iraq for 7 months and 13 days! what do i do?
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Confront her. If she really is cheating, dump her. I'm sure you deserve someone much better than her. She's not worth your time. You deserve someone who will support you when you're away and not be talking to other guys. \n\nP.S. Thank You for serving our country. :)
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I'm sorry this is happening to you, but as you said you have not been a good girl. Lying is never a good thing, but if you can live with it more power to you. Now first you have to challenge you man's manhood. You have to seem upset that he will believe made up B.S. tips from a chick he doesn't even know. Then, show how much it hurts that rumors make him question you loyalty to him. Don't over do it. Be suddle, but convincing. Also, consider the fact that he may know who this person is and they may have formed an alliance against you. YES, some females are dirty like that, anything to get your man. If this is true, there is a chance the battle is already lost. Also, you can use that you your advantage. Try to make him understand or believe that the chick will do or say anything to take him away. If is someone you told this information to, use that to your advantage by saying, "She heard all the wonderful things I said about you. Now, she wants you for herself." This boost his ego, and lets him know how happy he makes you and how much you appreciates him.\n\nI hope all goes well. Also...\n\nMoral of the story:\nDon't tell sluts all your personal business.
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If she really was a stalker, he would have told you about her by now.  You said this is a long-term relationship, so he would have confided that informatiojn in you.  He is lying, and I am a guy!!!  Sorry, dude, you are busted.  Move on, sister, he is not being faithful to you and why has he not made a committment to you?  At the very least, he is being emotionally unloyal to you even if he has done nothing with this online "girlfriend."  It has a long time.  Move on.  P.S.  I am married, so I am not saying this to get you or anything.  I know from experience that guys "cheat" on girlfriends with online hussies.
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What were they thinking? You have a brother. How cool is that? What to do from here? I would ask your sisters why they didn't tell you. Don't be too quick to be pissed yet. There may be a reason. I can't think of any but give them a chance. Have they been good sisters in the past or have they always left you out? Take your time and get your ducks in a row. It would be great to find out he is a real nice guy that anyone would love to have as a brother. You don't have to hurry or rush to judgment. I sure hope things work out. Good Luck.
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I would stop wasting my time and energy on a fake brother. Apparently, he was after one thing and one thing only. You go girl keep your panties up.\n\nTHIS GOES OUT TO TROLLIE T SOUND LIKE A BROKE DOWN TROLLEY TO ME. BLACK GIRLS ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE GIVING IT UP WHAT ABOUT THE WHITE GIRLS WHO GIVE YOU ORAL SEX IN THE PARKING LOTS. OBVIOUSLY YOU DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT WOMEN
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Your big mistake was telling your gf  that it was your ex that taught you how to tongue kiss, and maybe you shouldn't of told her you couldn't eat for nine months after she broke up with you...or maybe it was the fact that you told your sex life with your ex ''to the women your suppose to love'' this women has never had a relationship with another male before you '' not even a kiss'' yet you took it upon yourself to hurt her as a women and wife to be...yeah from your suppose to be soul mate...no wonder i get angry with you...let the ppl answer your question with all the truth ''over and out''
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Here's my personal experience from deploying and going to Iraq, no he will not cheat on you, there is no time to, we are  to worried about missing our family and friends.  We tell stories about our families and when not at work or sleep, we're usually working out.\n\nNow on the flip side, while I was deployed, it was my spouse who cheated on me.  So don't worry.  If you have any other questions feel free to email me.  God Bless America!
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ok, if you guys fought, never ever call her too soon.  It shows that you're desperate or lonely, either which will feed her need to dangle you along and make you squirm in agony about her for as long as she can.\n\nbelieve me, women are evil, and will exploit any oppertunity they see in you.  Hang tough and ingnore her until she gives in and breaks communication silence.  it will be worth it, she will give in believe me, they always do.  Girls are more emotional than you, and they always give.  Hang tough and the spoils of war shall be YOURS!  Good luck my brother.
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i think you should let your brother know i mean this is very wrong! who does she think she is!? she not only disrespected her brother but she did the same to you get her out of your place fast what if she is doing it or has done it to your boyfriend and hes to scared to tell you????
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naughty naughty, if it was all her and not you, then you need to say something to your girlfriend, b4 her girlfriend says something to her! you know, girls usually will stick together, if the best friend spills the info out and make it sound like it was all you and not her! most likely you will be out the door first! so when your women comes home, sit down with her, start a nice convo about how her 2 weeks were and stuff and then gradually tell her about her "best friend" tell her the truth, don't lie, im sure she will be upset with you, but more upset with her best friend, in the end hopefully she will forgive you and im sure she'll never be able to trust her best friend again around you or any guy she dates in the future!
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Thats not good you lied to your boyfriend, and went to your EXBOYRFRIENDs house! How can you do that to him? Why did you go anyway? How would you feel like it if he lied to you and told you he was going home, but went to his ex's house? Im sure you wouldnt be dandy! You can lose someones trust in a nana second! And it is s h i t y hard to get that trust back. And if the relationship doesnt have trust and honesty...than that relatiosnhip is   b u l l   s h i t!\n\n\nAnd for your other question, that your boyfriend found you in your boyfriends car, and he accuses you of cheating. Yes. He has a right to. If you wanted to go pick up your stuff, than you shouldve gone with your man!! your killing your relationship sweety, and thats not fair for him! \n\nSo make up your mind and stop hurting your bf and lying to him.
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I cannot agree or disagree with him.  I was not present during all of those 4 to 5 months that the couple was dating.  He says he never promised her to get into a serious relationship, but did he ever tell her that?  Did he just lead her on for the sex?  Did she ever ask him what his intentions were?  Did she just assume that because they were having sex that the relationship was serious (or would lead to more commitments)?\nAnd what business is this of yours (unless the woman was your sister)?\n... and don't you just hate it when somone answers a question with a bunch of questions?
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he was on a break?\nNEVER tell her girl-wake up. don't be sad either-you did what was ok at time-can't see future
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if she waited that long to tell u that then she is not Ur best friend. a real best friend would have told u how she felt even if it was hard b4 it got to the point where y'all broke up and so that u want question her honesty in the past and his.it also depends how long we have been friends and if u trust her. give her another chance cause men cum a dyme a dozen and a friend thts honest, pure, and a good person doesn't cum often. so just sit her down and talk to her without getting mad cause that might have been the love of Ur life right then and their but everything happens 4 a reason and u will have Ur true love and life cause obviously that wasn't him!
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Tell him to prove it to you by any means necessary!  Tell him to give you her number so that you can call her and ask her yourself.  Tell him that it's his JOB to make you feel secure about the situation since he's the one who fucked up in the first place.  If he's really trying - then you should be ok.  If you have any doubt in your mind - you're probably right.
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you need to calm youself first, and maybe even take notes on what exactly you want to say and then talk to him yourself.  you absolutely do not have to take him back - he lied to you and cheated on you.  trust is what relationships are built upon and he just did the two worst things to break that trust.  \n\nhe cannot just leave the navy either - he has a contract with them and they can put him in military jail if he goes AWOL (absent without leave).  he has to finish out his contract before he can leave, so that should give him time to straighten himself out.\n\nyou do not need to cowtow to his sister.  she is concerned for her brother, and that is very nice of her - but it is not your responsibility to keep him in the navy.  he took all responsibility for his welfare away from you when he cheated on you.  now it is up to you whether or not to forgive (you will never forget).\n\nmy neighbor has been married for 13 years and her husband cheated on her when they were first married.  they do have a loving relationship, and as much as she protests that she trusts him - by the things she says i know she does not... at least 12 years later.\ni could never live that way - i told my husband (who joined the navy after we had been together for about 3 years and is now in the army) when we first started dating that there were 2 things he could do and no matter what i would leave him - cheat on me or raise his hand to me.  \nyou need to do what is best for you - he is an adult, he can do what is best for himself.\n\nwow, after reading some of the other responses - please do not think that all men are like this, and do not think that all men in the military cheat on their wives - this is not true.  it is also not an accepted behavior in the military anymore - it may have been years ago, but no longer.  \ndo not let him turn you bitter - you are too young to live your life bitter and angry at all men because of 1 man.
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I was actually in this situation. I told my sister that I saw her husband kissing a girl in his work place. She called me a liar and didn't speak to me for a year. She called me to come and get her and her son. She was pregnant and he had run off to California with the same girl I saw him with. So if this person were to tell his sister, he needs to be prepared to take some punishment.