what kinky things have people done? i'm looking to expand the limits of my sex life but don't quite know how to go about doing it.
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lock yourself up in a room for a weekend with someone and do it all weekend long. no breaks. no food. no water. do it upside down, hanging from the ceiling, on video,etc. you get the idea rite?
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The wikipedia entry is a good start, because it contains a lot of info and links:\n\nhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM\n\nAnd next there is the book "Different loving" by Gloria Brame, which I liked a lot: \nhttp://gloria-brame.com/diflove.htm\n\nHave fun!
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Look online for bdsm clubs &/or informational meetings in your area.  Many clubs meet just to talk and teach "safe play", it's not as intimidating as you might think.\nRead books, I would suggest "Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns" for a beginner.\nLook online, there are tons of websites:\nwww.collarme.com\nwww.bdsmlibrary.com\nwww.castlerealm.com\nwww.bondage.com\nHave fun discovering the kink!
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Interesting sex life you have.  Maybe you should try spanking your wife and her girlfriend too.  Could turn all three of you on wonderfully.
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Anything you do in the privacy of your bedroom is ok between 2 concenting adults. Don't worry about it being weird because it's fairly mild compared to some of the stuff people get up to in their sex lives. Enjoy your time together and use whatever you can to make things better for you both! Rollplay is a great way of keeping things fresh in the bedroom so you shouldn't be afraid or embarrassed to experiment. And well done to you both!!!
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well, for a little while and then let him get involved.  Not just sit there and watch you go to town and make yourself orgasm.  When I'm going down on my wife, she will sometimes push my head away and do it herself for a while.  It"s hot, but then I want to finish what I started.
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Sure, I'll be glad to help you out. With a little imagination, just about anything can be used. Just remember to keep it clean, anything that is going in or on your vagina needs to be clean. Also, you'll want to be able to clean the item, so it will be ready for next time. NEVER insert anything that can break-off, like a bananna, or something. You wouldn't want an embarrising trip to the ER!!\n\nThe kitchen is a good place to start, a lot of utensils have very interesting handles. Some are nice and thick, others have a lot of ridges or bumps. Also you'll get a kick out of seeing somebody use it after you have... :)\n\nYou can also use the tub, turn on a GENTAL stream of WARM water, then lay under the spout with your feet up on the wall. Position your vagina right under the stream, it feels wonderful!!!\nAn adjustable shower head works just as well. You can also use an electric toothbrush, not the brush side. Place the back of it against your clit, and turn it on. \n\nYou can also hump your way to an orgasm. Just stack a few pillows, climb on top, squeeze with your legs so that they are firm, then start thrusting back and forth. If you have a stuffed animal, you can ride his face the same way. A bear or pig, or something with a snout adds extra pleasure.\n\nYou can add even more pleasure by inserting something your butt. Start small and work your way. You  can use lotion as lubricant. Your finger works well, you can also use a tampoon or something similar, just remember, nothing breakable, and you need to be able to remove it when your done.\n\nLet me know how it works out for you.
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I have a bf like this and it is very liberating for me to be on the other side. But it is only role playing and I definitely like for him to be controlling too. I have had orgasms doing it and it is about the domination I believe. He loves it. What ever two consenting adults want they should have..Live and let live....
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Some people have a hard time communicating with this subject. For one do lots of touching and kissing. All over her whole body from neck down her back her stomach etc. Then whisper to her how she wants it. Start talking dirty to her. I gaurantee she'll love it. Funny thing is is I can tell you this but I haven't quite gotten it across to my husband yet.
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Darling, I could go into just how yummy being tied up is, but I actually recommend speaking with the person you know. I would suspect that if you are asking in sincere curiosity and are not being judgmental (which it doesn't sound like you are), you'll get a much better explanation from your conversation. I will say that those who are in heaven with this have multitudes or reasons, so keep that in mind.
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get some toys. me and my hubby just got a nice sized dildo, we have never done anything like that before but it was definitely something i do not regret buying!
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Actually, my dear, there is nothing that "you" should do...he is the one with the "issue". Sex is supposed to be fun, sex is supposed to be caring, sex is supposed to be sacred(and I mean doing things together that bring you closer, not thinking like this). I am frankly outraged that your boyfriend is acting...aherm...like such a jerk. \nNow don't get me wrong, I love getting "kinky"...but my husband, not so much; not because he is prudish, or because he doesn't want to please me, but because he is not comfortable. You are 18, you should be having a good time, not worring about whether or not you're getting enough "kink" into your relationship with your apparently very immature boyfriend. \nAnd he is demanding that you do things...BAH...that is loathsome to me...it is one thing to request or suggest...maybe even "dabble" in the kinky to see if you both enjoy it...but if you don't enjoy it; that's it, game over...if you wish to try it again, it will be on your terms, not his...and watching a lot of porn is not an excuse.\nLet me give you the perfect example, and hopefully you'll see my point...I am very into bondage, my husband is more than happy to "dish it" but not much for taking it...so okay, I can work with that. I let my inner dominatrix out in other ways; but anyway, one nite he felt like exploring, so I tied him up. He did not like it, not one bit and kinky things usually had to deal with trust...so I let it go. A couple of nites later, he was willing to try it again, and so on and so forth. \nSo from my example hopefully you can see that what your boyfriend is doing is not "adult"; it is the utmost in immaturity and a complete lack of understanding. Talk to him, frankly tell him I said so, a kinky woman that understands the rules in the adult playground...and if he doesn't get it; dump him. There are more fish in the sea than him...and probably better ones (if you know what I mean) than him as well. If you don't play by the rules, you're going to get flown off of the merry-go-round, and it's just that simple honey...so put on your big girl boots and lay down the rules for his little games...and if he breaks 'em; he's out...and somebody new can play "red-rover" with you.
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There is reason why, recently, we have seen the use of the term 'consenting adults' in relation to sexual practice. It is because, in order for it to be 'ok', both partners must have knowledge of what they are doing, what to expect and be in agreement about wanting to complete the act. This is about the time that 'communication' comes into play. It may seem kind of strange and uncomfortable, but it is important to discuss the 'fantasy', establish boundaries and (this will come in handy) decide on a keyword or phrase that one of you can use to let the other know that things have gotten out of hand or gone too far. You are stepping into an area that falls under the category 'S/M' which includes Bondage and Discipline, Sado-Masochism and Dom/Sub play. Talking it over first can make it an enjoyable experience...acting on the 'knowledge' that 'she-wants-it' IS rape and could land you in big trouble.
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It's not wierd if you both enjoyed it!!!! (wink, big smile) It is normal to change things up sexually and will only become a fetish if you let it.
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I have been submissive for most of my adult life.  I have had genital torture, nipple torture, candle wax torture, spanking with paddles, hands, whips. I have been humiliated, slapped, as well as spanked by groups.\n  The most important thing to remember is trust.  You must trust your partner BEFORE EVER letting them tie you up.  Talking is very important, before, during, and after.  Both should know a safe word meaning stop. And both should know stop MEANS stop.\n  It is a very interesting fetish, but one that should be approached \nvery cautiously and slowly.  Be very careful and safe.
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Three is nothing wrong with a little kinky foreplay.  I do what my husband asks, and he likewise, to keep our marriage exciting.  I think you should tell your wife, ask her to play along with you - what have you got to lose?  If she loves you, she wants you to be happy in bed.  Thats the key to keeping yourself from asking the question  "SHould I cheat on my wife?"