i really like this guy and he flirts with me all the time and he has even said that he would like to go out with me....but when we last talked i told him that i was with josh (a guy friend) and then he tells me that he was with his new girlfriend.....does he want to go out with me or is he just playing games with me?
210987
I think he was just jealous that you said you were with Josh.  Once he heard you were with another guy, he felt like he had to have a comeback.  That's most likely why he said he has a new girlfriend.  You should sit him down and talk to him about how you really feel.  He's probably confused, so you should tell him that Josh is JUST A FRIEND.  Tell him you really like him & still want to go out with him, and ask if he really does have a girlfriend or not.  Good luck with this!
286902
It depends on what type of guy he is!?! Does he flirt alot?!?! My friend made the mistake of going out with one guy everytime he asked her (which was 4 times) and he thought he could get her back everytime he asked!If the guy is nice and if you still like him alot go for it but make sure he knows you wont always be this forgiving! But if he's a player tell him to his face that he's a jackass!!!!
368824
sounds to me like he really wants to go out with you - his problem is that he's not v experienced at all this and probably feeling a bit insecure.  \n\nhe's doing what he can to try and find out what's going on in your head and to see where he stands.  \n\nif you like him and the above is true i'd give him the benefit of the doubt and go out with him - have fun and take things at your own pace but reassure him and make sure you're ultra honest.\n\njust my opionion - if it makes sense might be right!!!!\n\nhave fun xxx
141806
Ask him out, I guess that is the only way to ever find out if this "girlfriend" is real or just a way to get your attention. I'm guessing he's just trying to get a reaction from you to see if you really like him or not. Go for it and ask him out!
79288
hey girl ok here is the low down does this guy flirt and makes sure you notice he's there and that you exist. if so then he is totally into you but you never know until you try something.
387157
Sounds like he just wanted to hang out with a friend... and this would probably go over nicely with you if you liked his friends. People's friends reflect who they are. I think the issue here is, are you willing to accept your boyfriend, and his friends, the way they are? He has something in common with these friends and that is why they hang out together. Wouldn't it be nice to have a boyfriend with friends you truly liked? Don't pick a fight about this.. it is who he is. What is there to fight about? I'd take a long, good hard look at your companion and decide if he's offering you what you want.
550022
I think that he definitely is interested in you and he probably does want to date you. He wouldn't spend all that time trying to engage you in conversation if he didn't care. However, no one can know if they will be with anyone forever. But that shouldn't deter you from going out with him. Being hurt does suck...but you wont live your life if you are always afraid of what might hurt you. You should go for it and if it doesn't work out just know that it wasn't meant to be and you will find someone else that will love you that much more. You wont ever have your first boyfriend if you don't get that first boyfriend...first relationships are hard. But then you will have all this experience and know exactly what you want out of a relationship for the next time around if this one doesn't work out. Go for it!
264338
Maybe he didn't think you liked him. I would say he is in to you, and you should go talk to him. He might just want you to make the next move. Guys don't usually do that, just to play games with girls. If we go out on a limb like that, we really like you.
292497
If you tell him right now, when he just got a new girlfriend, it will sound like you want to ruin his relationship with her.  Give yourself (and him) some time, just be his friend, and see what happens.  He knows you like hanging out with him; that's enough for now.
281340
If he's telling you that he likes you and he already has a GF, then he's being a little sneaky. First, he's disrepecting his current GF, so he'll probably do the same to you.   Don't mess w/ him unless he's single and you can see that he's being honest. Listen to your gut feeling. There is a lot of single people outthere, why dwell on someone that is already taken?
93374
Keep being cautious!  You can still hang out with him and see how he handles being around other women.  If you notice he is a major flirt, know that his behavior is a reg flag of possible playeritus.  If your friends are saying those things about him, ask them how they know that he messes around with lots of other girls.  Maybe one of your friends has had a personal experience with the guy that justifies their warnings to you.   A good way to find out more about his behavior is to ask his (guy) friends about his dating history.  If he jumps from one girl to another as easy as frogs can jump from lily pad to lily pad, there's another red flag for you.  I'm glad he hasn't tried to pull the screwing trick on you--but always be ready that he could do that to you when you least expect it (particularly if alcohol or the likes are involved).  Well, good luck!
432169
Flirt back.  It doesn't mean you have to go out with him.  Besides, once she moves on to her next boyfriend you might want to date him. So don't be one way or the other, just be nice and friendly, flirt a little but don't be too encouraging. It is fun to flirt without having to worry about it going anywhere.
129460
Maybe he is going to break up with the other girl and go out with you. He may just want to get to know you more.
393049
You should kinda flirt a little and if he flirtz back then up the flirtness. if he does it, it is a good sign. i still like a dude i asked out a lot but i don't ever see him anymore. but when i do i kinda do a little flirt smile or sumthing. just take ur time and dont rush it ^-^.
618680
its possible that he does. however he might just be a very flirtatious person. so if you're into him, talk to him. ask him how he feels directly. if you dont wanna take that approach, try seeing how he is around other girls. if he's just as flirty with them as with you, than he's probably just playing around. but if he only does it with you, you may have a chance! good luck! ;-)
94761
You have to go along how he interacts with other girls...If he flirts with every girl then thats what he does...But if he only flirts around you, It could be possible that he likes you.
509605
Esha, I'm talking to you from the perspectives of a guy. I want to consider you a luck gurl for having a guy who wants to displays his affection for you in public. It's only a guy that has no skeleton in his cupboard that does this to a gurl. He really wants to show you that he's the same person to you whether in private or public. Also, he's just trying to pull your legs with those flirting stuff. He wants to know how jealous you could be, but I can bet you he doesn't mean any harm. The next time he does that, you either pretend you don't notice that or if you can, say something as if you're encouraging him in his flirting game. In the contrary, this will shock him and you'll be better for it - trust me. I wish you a happy and fulfilling relationship with your guy. Cheers!