i think i luv the wrong guy!hes the bad guy type, he got suspended from skool for takin drugs and gang related activites, and then got suspended from the ROC (idk y its like juvy) and he only wants girls for their bodies and stuff. and the thing is i love him! i do. i think bout him all the time....and always want to see him. i actually have the guts to talk to him unlike other guys i have liked. but idk y? is it cuz hes cute? his style? he asked me out once, and i really dont have a bust, so does this mean he liked me for who i was? ( i didnt kno him well back then so i said no BIG regret!)he has a girlfriend, and i kno it wont work with us, so how can i 4 get him? y cant i stop loving him?
200636
Why can't you people just speak english instead of that stupid computer thug crap........you would make a lot more sense
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I am really quite familiar with the kind of guy that you described.  [I was exactly like that before!]  It sounds like he is favoring up to you and you are catching the vibes that he is sending out.  He seems to have other "multiple activity" going on in his life; but believe me, you can surely bring all of that to a halt, and turn him into a lovable little Teddy Bear.  It really does appear that it's you that he is after.  And you just watch!  Once you nail him, he will forget all of those other gals as if they never even existed to begin with.  And once they pick it up that someone nailed him, they won't have anything to do with him either.  It's like a mating-season.  If you are not in it then you don't even notice it. BTW, a well-known symptom of what you described is for him to ask you to hook up with one of your friends.  It's not your friends he is after!  He IS AFTER YOU!!!
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I met this dude on myspace.. he was a year older than me.. and he became bloody obsessed with me. Called me several times a day.. always asked to meet up.. I ended up saying I was dating my best friend so he would leave me alone. Then he tried to say it was all my fault that he liked me.. how is that MY fault?? hes a weirdo.. and I dont like him. And he has AWFUL taste in fashion.. lol
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Your so mean !!!\nOf course you still like him, and he sure as heck likes you.\nHe might be upset he never did anything and now your going around talking to other guys and potentially going to forget completely about him.
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I'm sorry, but it is clear to me that you have a self image problem.  You want him solely because you can't get him and you have dropped out of school because of him.\n\nYou are intelligent enough to realize the underlining problem.  Are you mature enough to act appropriately?\n\nIf he stayed with you, knowing how you feel, he would probably (human nature) take advantage of you and there is a very good possibility that he would sexually and physically abuse you.  This would further decrease your self image.\n\nSTOP NOW!\n\nIf you can not do it yourself, seek professional help.  This is not to belittle you.  I am impressed that you recognized the problem and am taking steps to seek help.\n\nWhat I did in a similiar situation was to recall something stupid that the person did and everytime I found myself thinking about that person I would force myself to recall the stupid things that person did.  After repeatedly laughing about the stupidity (we all do stupid things) of the person I found myself free of my self imposed connection to the person.\n\nI have since found a person that I truly love and who loves me.  The person respects me (and I respect myself) for whom I am.\n\nRemember everyone, no matter who they are, have good qualities.  You are a very special person.  No one else is exactly like you.  If you thought about it you would realize all that you contribute to the world through the people you know and those you don't realize you know.\n\nRemember the movie "While you were sleeping" with Sandra Bullock.  She was a ticket taker on the subway.  She convinced herself that she loved a man who did not know she existed, but in the end, she found her true love who loved her.\n\nBest of luck.
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Well, for me i think there is this one guy. He's bizarre-ly my type. (: Okay, he's not Brad Pitt, but in my eyes he's good-looking. (he is self-conscious too) At any rate, he's not all that great because he smokes. He is into art like I am and I can really see myself with him. (we are not together though, not yet ha) Hopefully sparks will happen! Today, I asked him. What are you doing today? And he replied with I'm going to church. (I think.. is he saying that to make it so I would believe he's a good boy) lol. He is a gentleman, he's pure too and I see in him, almost as if he's a guy version of me. So much the same. We do the same things (school, work, family.. all in different aspects) but our interests are matched up if you know what i mean. He is just like me and the fact that he knows how to treat a lady (i see it in his character) is attractive. He is himself and he doesn't try to be any other person trying ot be "cool" or sets himself to have what's "in". He told me once how I'm low-key, that I'm a fun-girl. Those words just simply expressed who I am and I liked that he just says it so right like that. So, to you the boy that asked this question.. Yes! I do believe some guys have a special attractive power which is pulling me... You see, I went all out and became an extreme provider for him (gave him plenty of weed.. not cause' i liked him though it would be that way, but because I also wanted to smoke him out :) and i showered him in other ways too. All of what i did was what was pulling me into him... though his image may be bad for me... i am fondly attracted. not sure if someday, we will hook up, but if so, that's real good.
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Damn baby, I wanna date you...LOL. If you like getting walked on, then keep taking him back. If you want to respect yourself, kick him to the curb and keep moving forward with someone that will treat you better. Don't put up with crap. People will only do to you what you let them do.
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Why are girls always so optimistic over being able to change a guy? I'm not against taking chances in love or anything, but usually it just doesn't work. There is a reason why someone behaves the way they do.\n\nIf you feel that he's mean to the others for a valid reason (e.g. if the other people are annoying him etc), then it might still be reasonable for you two to get together. However, if he's just mean for the sake of being mean, then I would advise against it. Most likely he'll end up treating you like the others in the future, because to him, that's the norm.
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it's ok kid, it happens to almost everybody at your age really. Just think about this though, in the future, that dude will get a broken heart as well, by some other girl, and he gonna regret about it heh? For now your heart has shattered into a million pieces, I'm sure a million guys would be happy to put it back together for ya, not just that one dude :). Cheer up, there're a few billions of human beings on this planet, you'll meet someone else who is more capable of appreciate and value your love, obviously this dude isn't worth your love, screw him heh? hehe. :)
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He's a really sweet guy. He figured out that you didn't like him and he made up a fake gf so that you wouldn't feel bad for rejecting him.\n\nDon't judge.
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Yes, I think your absolutely right about everything  you said that concerns you, your friend, and this guy. Just be glad that it wasn't you with this guy no matter how good he flirts or looks. I really feel for your friend because if she gives it up to him he's going to be gone like the wind soon afterwords. Hopefully things won't get that far for him and her, but if they do I hope that maybe she'll learn a lesson from it. You seem like a very smart girl to me. Don't ever let yourself be taken advantage of. Your worth something.
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You know the girl? is she your friend or no? Either way it may have been in bad taste but be warned if he left that girl as quick as he did for you-he would more likely drop you as quick as a bad habit for someone he may think is hotter than you. I think that's the best reason it's not a good thing.
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I think you should go with your gut feeling. If you don't feel like hooking up with him yet then don't do it. Your friends already warned you that he could be a player and its nothing more hurtful then giving in to temptation and then getting your feeling hurt. I think you should talk to the guy and tell him how you feel about the situation and if he doesn't understand where you're coming from then its obviously that he's not the right guy for you. And to answer your other question about if he grabs you after you tell him no....then he doesn't respect you and you should move on.
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haha I'm in 9th grade to. Anywho, I know a guy like that And i thought about him His name is Doug. Anywho, he tells you that stuff because he does feel an atraction to you but i think its only towards your looks.    So I wouldn't let it bother you find some one else. cause he is just looking for a girl who will give in.
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U and me, we unlucky- well that is if you don't like him- cuz i am pretty sure this guy that rides the bus i do was checking me out just yesterday plus he asked my younger brother if i was single and I don't like him at least not his looks. So anyway if ur the type to give any guy a chance go ahead if not do the following: do you have a perfect guy- kinda like an imaginary prince you made up except your hoping to met him some day?- if so i know this dude probably doesn't match up perfectly but does he have anything in common with your perfect man? Such as looks,attitude,goals,personality? Next ask around surely he has dated/gone out before and some one can tell you alittle about what he is like. 1 if you can not find anything in common to your perfect man NO. if he has bad being with grlz history NO 2. if he has a few things in common and good history TRY IT 3 if he is alot in common with ur perfect guy YES and good history YES YES if you don't have a type of perfect man go with your gut if he seems nice then go for him if you have a twisting in your gut mabey stay away.
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if he were interested in you he wouldn't be with his girlfriend or he would drop her for you. but bear in mind that:1. he might do the same to you one day. 2. you will have to think about the consequences if you cause them to separate- it's probably all about feeling guilty 3. you wouldn't like this to happen to you if you were the girlfriend 4. there are so many guys around that you could pick- why complicate your life with someone who's in a relationship already? 5. you may appear as attractive and adventurous to him, but what if he takes you for something else?\nbetter forget him him to have a light conscience- you'll find your soulmate if that's what you're looking for. maybe this relationship is just not meant to be!
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do you still talk you should call him and ask him if he  would comsider going back with you but don't get your friends involved because he might start liking them i know you might think that it won't happen to you but trust me it can happen to anyone well good luck with that and be brave