Hey! I'm a dancer and I have lots of male friends who are in Ballet. And of course they have to wear tights...\nThey've gotten used to it so it doesn't phase them.\nBut what do non-dancers think when they see a man in tights??\nDo you see it as a work uniform, or are you just simply grossed out?
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I went to a ballet a couple months ago, and i wasnt GROSSED out.. but i was surpised-- they're quite tight :O\nbut.. they were awesome dancers, and it IS part of a typical ballet costume, so i didnt really think it was that weird...\nlol... and they have quite muscular legs!
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Those are the same women who dress like that at work and then complain when a guy asks them out. They also are the ones who think their bodies will get them anything they want and get pissy when it doesn't work out like that. Now, I'm not saying that those women are "asking" for it or anything but seriously, ladies, what the f do you expect to get for attention when you dress like a hooker?\n\nBoredgal: I've gotta say, I find the women who dress like hookers a lot more offensive than men who leer and drool. 1) We expect men to act like pigs. 2) We know it is going to happen when we dress like sluts. 3) Just as it is your right to dress as you choose, it is also a man's right to LOOK where he chooses. If you don't want him leering down your dress, don't put it all out there.
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Girl, please do not do that. That is a fashion no no. It's like you're mixing two different seasons. Tights are for winter and bikinis are for summer weather. NO I don't think would look very appealing or sexy.
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Who said that dress is for women and pants is for men? I have friend straight man loves to wear woman's clothes. He thinks it is beautiful to wear.\n\n\nPeace!
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I was thinking about something like this just the other day, how liberated women are to be able to wear what they like suits, trousers, ties no one bats an eyelid - yet if a man wears a skirt or make up everyone throws a hoohaa and the guy is labelled a pervert or worse. This is simply not right, I hope that society will overcome this shameful stigma rapidly and appreciate that we should be able to wear what we like when we like.\n\nI wish you the best of luck with what you do, but don't keep this as a thing which you are embarrassed or ashamed about - the more people who are proud of who they are, I firmly believe, the faster society will accept it. And if you are planning to surprise your partner with your stilettos I advise you warn them because you don't want any of the above narrow-minded reactions :)
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Cajirenee what was the point of your answer? If you don't like the question don't answer it then. What are you begging for 2 measly points? How about try getting a few "best answers" since I see you have NONE. The question seems to be very detailed in explaining she wasn't sure where to post it, and what she was looking for. She wasn't obscene or perverted in her question. I don't see what your problem is. What happened to trying to have an open mind?\n\nAnd in response to the question. I know of a few places to check, but nothing in white. Hot topic around Halloween time has some cool PVC and vinyl wear. But nothing appropriate for a wedding, and of coarse that's months and months away. I would check some of the major adult stores. Try places like NY and CA, they seem to be good places that produce adult apparel. Maybe even a place that sells "dancer" apparel. I don't know I am sure this doesn't help much. One of the above answers has a website XTC wear or something. That seems to be the most helpful I have seen on this list of answers. Best of luck, GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR WEDDING!
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I think it is a good idea to avoid lust and there is nothing primitive about wearing the clothes you want to wear. Some people are ignorant and don't understand or refuse to understand people's beliefs. \n\nAs far as the getting attention thing goes here is my theory:\nDo what you think is right, but don't rub it in people's faces. Doing so makes it seem that you are doing something strictly for attention.
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I had a gym teacher who did the same thing!  And to answer to the twisted thing someone above said - if thinking the gym teacher was looking at the girls was a "fantasy" then why would the lesbian teacher get angry if they moved to a place where she could not see her?  Obviously she WANTED to see the girls change.  But since gays are are so stuck on pushing their agenda, and trying to insinuate everyone else is twisted, they usually are ignorant when it comes to the facts.  I do have to admit, the gym teacher I had did not get mad if you went where she could not see you, but it did make me uncomfortable to have her standing there watching.
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You don't have to do all that.  I have never seen a guy who didn't go crazy over over a girl in stockings and a garter belt.  Just wear a short skirt, and some sheer black stockings and a garterbelt and let him have a peak at the tops when you are sitting there.  If he makes a comment show him a little more, and if he doesn't , show him a little more until he does.
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To me it sounds like your friend is jealous.  I don't see anything wrong with running in the proper attire, I'm pretty sure that the guys would not be offended.  Guys don't hate it, overweight chicks with low self-esteem might though.
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It's no big deal.  A lot of men wear hosiery.  Men are discovering the great comfort and benefits of wearing pantyhose.  So much so there are companies that make hosiery specifically for men.  Check out http://www.comfilon.com
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10% of men are Cross Dressers (me for one)\nAbout 40% have at least tried on women's clothing.\nNot all CDs are Bi-sexual, just like not all men are Bi.\n\nCross dressers come from all parts of our society. \nBuisness men, manual workers, Doctors, police etc.\n\nThe majority of CDs are happily married with families.\nAre we mocking women? Certainly not. We appreciate women more than your average man. Why would we dress as something we hate.\n\nYou all know a cross dresser, that I am sure.\nThere are far more than you think. The majority being in the closet for fear of ridicule, or worse. In todays world, homosexuals are more accepted than CDs.
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Well my room mate and I read your post and thought it was very interesting that a guy would just wonder that instead of thanking God for the "blessing" that some men think that is. Some women do show their thongs on purpose. Usually the ones that crave attention (as cliche as that sounds), and i don't get the mini either. I think there is really only one body style that can pull that look off. Since a vast majority of the world is not a size 0, that leaves the rest of us out of luck. And just because you can wear them  doesn't mean that they should. NOW, I have a question for you...\nDo men like seeing girls thongs? Or barely covered in a mini skirts? Or does it matter who is wearing them? What do guys think when they see a girl walking down the street in either/both of these two ways?\n\nps...i don't think your a pervert...:)
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First, I think training every day, much less sparring every day, is overkill.  Overtraining can lead to burnout, or even worse, injury.  \n\nBeyond that, as long as you DO spar so that you can begin to apply your technique against a non-compliant partner in less than ideal conditions, there's no right or wrong amount of time.  You just can't learn the timing and coordination of performing any technique without doing so under stress and without attempting them against a partner that is actively trying to keep you from being successful in the technique and also is moving at full speed in an unpredictable manner.  There's nothing wrong with drills and that stuff, but if that's ALL you do, you aren't learning a practical martial art.\n\nAs for the "art" stuff, there are different opinions.  In my opinion, without sparring or some sort of pressure testing of the "art", you might as well be learning ballet because you'll have effectively removed all the "martial".  In ballet, you'll get all of the same benefits of performing endless kata and forms, including balance, flexibility, coordination, great core strength and a grace of motion.  It's a great workout and you'll definitely be in good shape.
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I really don't understand it either... I don't know if guys think it's attractive or what, but when I see guys dressed like that I'm totally turned off.  Sure, I don't want a guy to have tighter pants than I do (which I don't wear skin-tight pants like some girls) but there has to be some balance.  LOL and the whole sagging them way below their butt is so unattractive as well.  I could see not wearing them right at your waist, but that far down is too extreme.
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Do you seriously think an outfit is going to say that to a guy?  Maybe lingerie says something but regular clothes doesn't get noticed by guys.  Say it out loud in words he can understand.
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First fact is that the 99.99 percent of us, guys , is to mantains ours ANACONDAS free. Second fact the reason that your boyfriend might wears briefs at work is that gives  him the break of not letting his ANACONDA of been seen if is tries to escape for go hunting and at home is more save if this situations ocurrs. And my advice he should be naked when he's at home just for conmfortness.