i have to make her smile i love her but i run out of things to say to her
202784
OMG. do you not realise that you just answered your own question? tell her she makes you speechless. that when you're around her, you're lost for words.
238185
Well, just show her you care. Eventually, she will realize that. Maybe it's hard for her to say things, because as you have said, it is too soon. Give it time, and try not to push her into doing/saying things. I know you really care for her. And if it doesn't work out between the two of you, just try to be her friend. You don't have to be her boyfriend so you can help her. You only have to be there, to listen or anything. The best way here is for you to be patient. You don't have to rush things. And then maybe, not someday but in the near future, she'll come to realize how special you are.
212150
I would talk to her about this first, maybe she does not realize she does that and it depends on what your doing, also.  If you love her, be open and honest with her on how this makes you feel and then if she continues doing this, I would find someone that makes me happy.  Good Luck
608939
write her a letter telling her that you love her and that you need someone better than who you have now. oh and some flowers might help too.
67890
ok you dnt ask her again. u know maybe she just doesnt have the same feeling for you that u do to her. send her the flowers and see what she sayd. pamper her and do everhting you can for her and see what she does. let her know that u care by being there for her. be a friend first and then see what she sayd by sayin hey i have to tell you something and let her know how you fill in person not over the internet. thats kinda chessey sorry but it is.
304817
Just short of telling her how you feel..try giviing her cards that can express how you feel and either sign them with your name or a secret admirer eventually letting her know its you by something you have shared with her or she with you and something only you two know..:)Good luck!
601946
withdraw yourself for some time. don't make it worse than it already is! she is 10 years older than you. even if she loves you, she might also be totally confused now.\n\ntime will solve it.\nin any case, you did enough because you told her about your feelings. don't go crazy if she is quiet. get yourself busy with your own things for a while. maybe you can make peace some time later.\n\nlook. I also did like this with my closest male friend two weeks ago! (what a coincidence). but here the reason was different: I fell in love with HIM. and we also had a fight before that.\nof course we had, cause everybody was expecting something else from the whole relationship than he/she got!\nso it is the same: we don't talk and also don't write now.\nI told him not to!\ncause I can't take it any more, cause it hurts, cause... blahblahblah!\n\nbut the truth is that now after two weeks I calmed down and I would really want to make peace - if I only knew how!!!\n\nI think it is best you give her and yourself TIME.\n"and time can do so much...\noh myyyy love.. my darling, I hunger for\nyour touch\nalone"\n:-)\n\ncomm'on, put some good music and cheer up.\nyou are not the only one on this planet who messes up friendship for love!\nhere is another one, hellooo there!\nbut this one, over here.. ye she is female.\n \n((maybe you want a younger woman than 31? can we exchange ur ex-friends? instead of writing them poems? well, I haven't started writing poems yet, but I must tell, I am not far from it!!!\nI already sent him songs! hm.\nit is only the world cup keeping me mentally busy now, otherwise I would be writing poems and crying all day!\n\nI am OLNY 25, by the way! don't despair, the sea if full of good fresh fish!!!))
426901
Well you mentioned that you said jokes with each other,right? So how about letting her know of your feeling the same way,the next time you see her.\n\nFor a start just say to her,"hi,do you miss me?"(i.e in the form of joke) It doesn't matter if she says no.Tell her that you do because you have another joke to share with her.Make her feel that you are fun and comfortable to be with.Just let out your feeling to her in a way she enjoys your company and have fun.Another thing is while enjoying each others company with jokes and interesting conversation,what you can do is try to attract her attention by showing how caring you are.Let her see that you are not only good with your jokes but how passionate you can be giving her all the attention and affection that any girl would ever dream of.Who knows with your fun but loving approach,she would be impressed.\n\nWell it is just an idea.Anyway good luck to you.
443406
Perhaps if you sit down and talk to her quietly and tell her that if you can not always go every week because you are very busy at times  but it does not stop you thinking about her and you are wanting to get your degree so she will be proud of you -- then give her a big hug and say thanks gran for all you have done for me i really love you for it and as soon as i get my degree sorted out and it is done with think of all the extra time we will have together -- then another hug i am sure she will start to understand  then say i know you know what i mean and always remember i love you because your so special - then give her a kiss. then say i feel lonely to at times when it is just me and the books and then i look forward to being here again with my very special gran.
249991
funny is good, but not too much, i very good thing is to keep your mouth shut!! let her talk about herself, it says you are really listening to her
252948
I feel bad for you, as it hurts so badly I am sure. I don't think you can make her have feelings for you if they are really gone. Life's too short to be anything but happy, just remember that. If there is no love, then a happy marriage is not really possible. Don't make a mistake you may later regret. The best advice I could offer is to say you two need to talk and be honest with each other about your feelings. Express to her how much you do love her and want to work it out (if that's in fact what you do want).
619791
If I read that correctly, it sounds like you said "I love you" to her and she did not immediately reply. You called her on it and she said that she says it all the time but did not say it just then. Is that correct? If so, then your apology should probably be that you were forcing a conversation when she already expressed that she was very tired and you are aware that she loves you too.
318314
yeah, show her what you've posted!! Or rephrase it in a letter. Maybe a poem if you're creative? You could arrange to have a bouquet sent to her, or think of other things you could do. An easy one is to send her an e-card. Aw, nice to hear that there are some men out there who are all loved up and adore their women!
107672
Sounds like you can't just come out and say you love her....I would say, just mention that you care for her a lot every now and then, and then let your actions show your feelings. If you love her, do everything you want to do for her, make her gifts, take care of her when she's sick, help her with her schoolwork or work, you know. Let the actions show your love if you can't tell her. Hopefully then you will be able to tell her in time.
126851
tlk to her about it and tell her how u feel about it etc u should have no secrets tell her that and tel her u love her maybe she doesnt think u love her :) good luck and have fun cya
441652
if you love her that much then you need to tell her how you feel about it all and that you dont want her to go and that you enjoy seeing her and being with her and that she makes your world whole if thats the way it is sometime people mess up good luck and hope it all  works out
590279
Tell her you want to spend more time with her. Make a date ahead of time and make her keep that day open for you.\n☺