things are hard so wat u should do in so many ways its hard when u fall in love anddont no were to turn when he leaves u ?tell me wat u think
213042
its hard to read the ?'s and understand it...but when he leaves...occupy ur time with ur hobbies or ur friends ...within time it gets easier
613490
ur still in love remember true loves never end up easily nor u forgot it easily ur question shows that u were honest with r relation if evry thing had end and there is no turning back u might have to control ur self form the pain but if there is turning back u should solve ur problem talking with him again if hes sincere with you too else try to busy ur mind in some work
675275
I think you should talk to him directly, he might be suffering from something that you don't know, he might need your help. Make sure he loved you as much as you say you loved him, make sure that the time you send together wasn't just time pass, if all is ok then ask him out and get married. Share his feelings, and share his problems, and you can expect him to share your feelings and problems and your life.
182494
Sometimes it is hard to just walk away from someone you love and care a lot about. But if that person is not either fulfilling your needs or he is not treating you a certain way or you just feel like things are not working, you must make that hard decision because you cannot keep being miserable about this for the rest of your life and that is the truth. I know that your heart is hurting. But let me say that the pain may last for a while but it will go away sooner or later. You can still have style, grace and respect else where, just don't keep your head down all the way you have to rise up and stand firm. Do you know that God placed us here (we women) to survive? And you are a survivor and you have to stand up and live on even though you are having a hard time. Please do this say to yourself that I will survive and I will go on! Say it to yourself daily and it will help you regain your strength in yourself and watch you fly girl.\n\nJust keep your head up because even though I never met you and I just read your article I believe you will make it.\nBe at peace with yourself girl and be true to yourself also.\nPeace with Love!
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Losing someone you love is always hard.  You may not feel like it right now because the sorrow is so overwhelming, but try to think of the good times and the love and joy he brought to you.  Remember that he is still in your heart.  He will always be a part of you and that will never go away.  He is never truly gone as long as you remember him and love him.\nIt's okay to hurt and it's okay to cry.....healing takes time.
601348
i can understand what you mean as there was something similar that happened between me & my boyfriend but cuz of different reasons...but it was my boyfriend who was in your position & i was on the receiving end...its very tough when someone you love says that they can no longer be with you for whatever reasons...just because we love each other so much, we try to understand & do what the other wants even when thats not something we really want...our mind accepts the situations & tries to adjust but our heart just doesnt wants to let go...you imagine all the things that can go wrong & also how tough your life would be without that person...this feeling of insecurity & depression is terrible...you also began to question that whether that person really loves you, cuz if yes than how can that person take such a harsh & insensitive decision...all this is just a matter of your emotions & you imagine everything thats positive or negatve...when this happens you try to take yourself away from that person & try to act tough cuz you dont want that other person to know that after saying that you understand, you have so many questions going on in your mind...this happened with me & though i really love my boyfriend i was still hurt tremendously by his decision to break up even when i agreed & understood his reasons...i think your boyfriend also is really hurt by whatever happened...its good that you plan to go back to him...i would suggest that you talk to him & try to get out all the pain he is carrying in his heart cuz of what happened...you'll have to shower unconditional love to make him feel secure with you again...treat him nicely, spend time with him & appreciate his presence in your life...just let him know that you belong only to him & there's no one who can love & understand you the way he does...i am sure you'll be able to do that cuz you truely love him...Goodluck!!
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I realize that it may be really hard right now but I hope you realize how valuable you are yourself and that you will take care of you during this time. You may or may not\nget the full answer as to why he broke up with you.  I had\na boyfriend in high school that everyone swore or thought\nwe would surely get married and we ended breaking up and we had been dating over a two year period.  Give him his space and see what happens.  Be good to yourself in the meantime.  If you were good to him and know that in your heart  of hearts you gave your best thats all that anyone can ask.  He may have some things he needs to work out.
52964
spend time on your self it sounds like you lost your self in this relationship. spend time with your friends and family fall in love with your self then you will heal
161689
a relationship which is weak cannot last. Move ahead in life if he has already decided to breakup
8049
Keep your chin up, and understand that will be a lot of time apart from each other. But if you really love the person, don't give up, no matter what. It is not easy, if there is not an official commitment to each other, but just keep the love in your heart no matter what happens.
613767
Don't dwell on him, it won't help your situation and will only make things harder.  Go on with your life and you'll meet new people.  Eventually you'll meet someone that takes your mind off him and none of what you're feeling right now will exist in your mind.  And if things are truly meant to be between the two of you, one day you'll find yourselves back with each other, but it'll happen naturally.  This doesn't mean you should plan for that either.  Meet other people, time will heal.  Promise!
675993
Please do not get disheartened moving to a new place i s avery difficult experience everytime even for the most adaptable person. But all one needs to remeebr is that these difficulties are all temporary. soon, u will start finding things that you will like in this new place and one by one things will start falling in place and you will have a great time here. So keep the faith and remember to keep a smile no matter how hard the times are..the good momments are around the corner.
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Actually love is both hard and easy. Love is hard when the person you love doesnt love you back. Love is also hard when the person you love is doing things that hurts your feelings, and if the person you love wants to leave you. Love is easy when the person you love, loves you back, your relationship is going good, and if you know what you got is real.
517368
get some serious help....you cant go through life like this, this is very sad im sorry you have to endure this. Please get some help, love is a wonderful thing and for you not to be able to experience it is so sad
175377
Ah...this is an age-old question. Not an easy answer on this either. Does he feel the same way about you? Would you be willing to give up all that you have to be with him, knowing you can't go back if things fall apart? I know I'm not answering your question but giving you more questions. This is something you have to follow in your heart.
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U know,,i have beenthr this before,,and i can tell how hard it is,,but u know what,,i have learned many things,,if he was so weak,,or so whatecer,,the reason is,,to leave me alone,,with pain in my heart,,HE WAS NOT THE ONE FOR ME,,,if he was the one I trylu deserve,,he wouldnt have left me crying,,he would have rather die than see me weeping,,\nBe stong,,,have faith,,the better is yet to come,,try doing new things,,sports,,,reading,,going out,,try not to focus on him,,,\nI wish u all the best,,and i am sure u will find someone much better soon
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you're probably just going thru a mix of emotions, maybe a litte guilt. but dont worry if you love him, it will be ok. :)