There's this really hot girl that i really like but i never get the chance to talk to her because all her friends are around her all the time and i dont want to look stupid in front of her.
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seriously whatever you do don't listen to the last guy... i'm guessing you're in high school or something. Coffee isn't exactly something you want to offer someone. Find out something that you have in common with her. When she's alone or just with one of her friends... (grow balls) then walk up to her and just be like hey what up? i'm (name here) i here you like (fill in interest) i'm really into that to, maybe we could hang out sometime..., but in high school if you don't look up to her caliber she could just carry you, but either way it's worth a shot.
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I would try to get to know her first and offer to be her friend but let her know you are thinking of being a little more than that eventually.  If she still isn't interested in you, move on because you can't make someone want you the way you want them.  Also while you are wasting your time there could be someone already interested in you but your not picking up on their signals because you are only interested in a girl who is already going out with someone else.  Trust me I wasted too much time trying to chase the wrong guys for me when there were guys who were really nice who were interested in me but I couldn't see that then.  Good luck!
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Come on, it sounds like you don't really want to be her best friend.  You have romantic interests in her, right?\n\nLet me get some thing straight here.  Unless that girl is a very special person, you are either a romantic interest, or you are just a friend.  I hope you know how to choose.\n\nBut here is the answer: guys that end up being friends with girls are non-threatening, trust-worthy, a good listener, sensitive, and generally all the good stuff that girls want, but are not looking for in a romantic interest.  Express your concerns for her, and be attentive when she has something to say.  Making friends with girls isn't that hard, but most guys will never have that, because they are only interested in girls for other reasons.  Figure that out, and you are there.
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why are you afraid to tell her that you dont like her behavior? I was in your situation when I was in collage and this girl was always chasing me! she wanted to be where I was because i was with my handsome and popular friends all the time (what could i do if they were my classmates!) anyway, one day I was just not in the mood to deal with her and I said: you know what, you have very good qualities but IT BOTHERS ME that you are with me because you want to hang out with my friends. Soooo.... stop being so obvious and let me have fun with them!  so, she got my point. she never spoke to me again (and my friends were happy for that too). it was sad because after all she was a good girl but A REAL PAIN IN THE BUTT!
142419
long distant relationship's usly never work and as bad as your friend my feel try hooking her up with one of your other friends to take her mind of him
408507
She is hoping you will pick up on the hint.  you make a good friend, but she prolly picks up on the vibe that you like her.  That makes her feel uncomfy to be around you, unless its a joking or group situation.  So you are going ot have to get over your crush...get a girlfriend, and then she will prolly open up to you.
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u like this girl, but you can't talk to her. That's normal because you are afraid that she might reject you, and think you are out of your league. BUT if you like her, try finding out what she likes and talk to her about it. For example, before mi boy friend found out i like soccer, so when he went to talk to me, he talked to me about soccer. After that he was just himself. You should do the same, but i'm not talking about stalking her, just find out.
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I think the best way to deal with it is to convince yourself that you dont like her. The more you think of her as just a friend, the eisier it is to talk normally. Everyone gets ally shy around crushes. Its just normal i guess.
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maybe they feel intimidated. go up and talk to them show them you are interested.believe me if you are so cool as you say you are, that shy pretty girl would melt in her shoes if you would only show interest
597232
Well the first thing you have to do is stop being afraid!  A date will never happen until you get the nerve up to talk to her and ask her out.  Even then she may reject you due to peer pressure since her friends don't like you but if she does then she isn't worth pursuing anyway.  Good luck!
481154
Oh that tough. Um.. try letting things just fall where they want. If that doesn't work try just keeping the friends you have and start thinking about an other girl because I really don't think this girl you like is going to go anywhere(sorry if that's harsh). Now I mayb wrong but it souds like you might like the girl you've known since you where five. Best of Luck!! :)
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dont you hate that\n\nDitch her, girls wont date guys with female friends, they just get jealous, your a guy, get some action
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this seems to always be the case..i guess you just have to try and be yourself..since you both probably hang out with each other a lot..try to be more outgoing than her and change it up a little bit..however..dont try too hard they may start to notice
412781
Perhaps the girl has no friends and is looking to fit in? Although you need not let her into your circle of friends you should at least be pleasant with her.
287679
You should make sure she knows how you feel. If she doesn't want to hear it, try the one thing all us girls love; compliments. Tell her how beautiful she is and try to form a friendship. One at friendship level go to relatiopnship status. But remember, go easy on the compliments. You don't want her to think you're a stalker. I love it when a guy compliments me for anything, i bet she will too!\n                                   Good Luck
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i have the same problem, talking to girls, i have no problem. but when it comes to talking to that one girl... damn im out of words... just ask her... if you get rejected, shake it off...shes not the one for you
534697
Damn i've been in this same situation, and this might help u out, just go up to her one day and spill a bunch of emotional things on her, like "im sorry i never talk to you and i know u probably think wrong of me and dont like me, but i just wanted you to know that im crazy about you, even though u arent about me, i just wanted you to know that" TRUST ME IT WILL WORK BUDDY, IT WORKED FOR ME, NOW IM GETTING LAID EVERYNIGHT!! LOL