So I learnt that this attraction thing that I have going on turns out to be great because its helping me with the guy i like, but all my life I've attracted only black guys.. its not a statistics thing. I'd just like to know why? Even on a site similar to a myspace community where I put up photos of my face and a lot of the time the guys that comment about wanting to know me are usually black. How come? If your black and a guy please help! i'll contact you if you need to more info.. thanks a ton!
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I believe I, as a Black man,have a much different idea of what is beautiful.\nBy European standards my choices may seem odd but I believe I look much deeper at a woman than my European or white counterpart.\nWhere whites may look for thin women I look for women who are "healthy".After much consideration I believe this is because I prefer an equal as oppose to some one I can control.\nThe difference between a show wife and one with rough edges is the ability to be there through thick and thin.\nI believe I have a tendency to look for a woman who will be able to carry my offspring with relatively little problems and raise that child with authority when I am at work.This is all on a sub-conscience level but I believe it is my motivation for choosing a woman and the reason I an attracted to certain types of women.\nThere is the rock hard beauty of diamonds and there is the warm beauty of the sunrise.I prefer the beauty of the sunrise.\nI hope this will set your mind at ease.
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*Shrugs* Its the forbidden fruit.  Women like black guys, black guys like white women, white guys like black women, black women like white guys.\n\nIts attitude and social understanding.  I have a neice thats been pretty much disowned by the entire family simply because she keeps hanging around with black rappers who spend time in jail for doing really stupid crimes.\n\nMeanwhile, my best male friend is black and everyone likes him.\n\nAttitude, and social skills, not money and toolsize is whats important
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satan your a moron, and she said she wasnt a racist!  Anyway, You dont have a mental issue, your just attracted to the people your attracted to. no big deal. as for white guys, we do that all the time, you r totally right for saying that. [but of course i dont rape people, and im honest, just ask my gf.]
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I'm a 22 yr old black girl and i dont date black guys. I used to like them when i was younger, in my teens. But i find them very boring and not very intelligent and they dont seem very articulate. I find it hard to have a decent conversation with a black my age. Alot of them are about rap music, sex, and cars and nothing else. \nI find white guys more attractive and intelligent. I like their pale skin in private places!! White men are just alot more interesting to me. \n\nHowever I dont think white guys treat girls different to black guys, men are men regardless. You have to judge the individual on who they and how they behave. \n\nI agree that there are more white guys with black girls and they seem to be quite possessive. If i walk past a girl with her white man she give you evils lol. Like i care,the girls ive seen are uglier than me anyway. each to there own.\n\nI would marry a white man, my family are from jamaica and i will never on this earth date a jamaican man! Black men are a no no for me. As for sex, white men are far more gental and understanding.
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I don't know,black dudes are overrated and they love the stereotype,they like the positive stereotypes,dont like the negative stereotypes,but all stereotypes are bad(Hypocrites)my Friends have been with loads of black dudes and they say the myth is bull sh it,so heres one when you go black its fu ck in whack!!!
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no i dont think because you are a black man ...\nit is not easy to love & be loved\nfor me i look first at the personality & i guess many girls are like me\ntrust urself more !!!
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I would have to say that you are looking for guys in the wrong place.  If you want to find a guy who "...actually listens to what you say and cares about your opinions..." then you have to find a guy who is attracted to you because of what you say and is interested in your opinion, not because of the way you look.  You should try joining a club or an organization you are interested in.  Be yourself and say what you feel.  Show off your brain, and maybe you'll find what you're looking for.
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1. How old are you? 30\n\n2. What is your race/nationality? Black American\n\n3. Are you male/female? Female\n\n4. Have you ever dated outside of your own race? Yes\n\n5. If yes, What was the experience like? Wonderful\n\n6.Do you believe that interracial relationships can be used to measure racial tolerance? Please explain your answer...\nWell yes,  because 36 years ago they were illegal in most states.\n\n7. Do you believe that people in interracial relationships face challenges and barriers that the same race relationships are not exposed to? explain your answer....\nYes, When me and my bf go out black guys always ask if I’m alright or why am I with him.  Black women always are so angry at me for not wanting a black man.   They say I am selling out or I think I’m too good for a black man.  I think they are jealous because they secretly want to date outside their race.  Same race couples don’t have to deal with perfect stangers critiquing their relationship. \n\n8. How do you think interracial coples can overcome these given barries?  \nIgnore, Ignore, Ignore.  My bf and I know that we care for one another and why we are together.  So ignoring stupid statements and remarks is just part of the territory.\n\n9. Do you believe that interracial relationships can work?  \n\nYes,  I believe that as long as you keep the lines of communication open in any relationship and both parties are open and honest and know where the other stands that any relationship regardless of race can work.\n\n10. what are your peronal views on interracial dating? \nI love it.\n\n11. do your family/friends agree with intteracial relationships?\n\nMy mom and family thinks that I should sit around waiting for a black guy to be interested in me.  I’m like time I wait for no one.  My friends the white ones are totally supportive the black ones are not. My dad says that he doesn’t blame me for going outside my race because he thinks that the black  men of today are lazy, irresponsible and immature.  \n\n12. what do you think about gay interracial couples? \nI say if you have the capacity to love,  you have the capacity to love anyone.
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I dunno, why do a lot of black men date white women... and more importantly - does it matter....???\n\nDate who you want...
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I am right there with you! That guy seems to have some weird notion that talking like that will turn a girl on. I've never understood why guys put stuff like that in their profiles. I can understand them talking about things like that once they've developed a relationship with a person, but putting it out there before they even know a person isn't really sending out the best message. But, in the end it's up to you. You may want to give him a chance and what he has to offer....he may just be all talk. He's at the age where he knows what he wants, maybe he's tired of playing games and just wants to put his "wish list" out there. :)
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No, there are lots of gorgeous dark women.  Beautiful women come in all different shades.  I think that everyone should be happy with what God gave them and work it to the best of their advantage.  I think that boys are attracted to confidence.  Be proud of who you, let them know that they would be lucky to be able to go out with a girl like you, and they'll come flocking.  It sounds cliche, but it's true.  If you believe that you are beautiful, then so will others!
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I don't understand that either.  Is he attracted to ever girl he meets? no.  So what makes him think that a gay guy is going to be attracted to every guy he meets?  Tell him to stop flattering himself; he's not that hot! :P
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I am a strong black woman, and I'm 30--and I will tell you that you should NOT only like black men. \n\nThere is a shortage of available black men in America--because many of them are in prison, are gay or bi-sexual, or the ones who are straight  have 4 kids by 3 different women...So, the black men who are available--like the ones in college and the guys working at good jobs--they KNOW that black women are desperate for a man--so these men wont deal with you unless you sleep with them after 5 minutes of knowing them, move in with them, pay half their bills, and do every sexual act under the sun before he even thinks about marriage...The "good black men" also tend to sleep with several different women while they are dating, and they feel that is their right. (not ALL black men are like this--but about 70% of them are). \n\nHoney--if you are smart- you will realize that you should date and marry men of ANY race--Latino, white, East Asian, Arab, whoever. You should be open to men who treat you with respect and kindness, no matter what his color or race is.\n\n--------EDIT---\nHi I Race Relations! Just saw your Post on my question :) I am just keepin it real, thats all. I been around a long time and I seen it all! Not ALL Black men are like this--but MANY are...Trust me, when you get to be 30, you will see that my words are true. Peace!
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That is an excellent question, because the same thing once happened to me i was walking around campus when a girl named melissa goes "is your dad like white or indain" and when i said no why would you ask that she goes "your hair is very pretty" that answer upset and astounded me all at the same time, it was an answer of ignorance and i couldnt belive someone would actually think that i was mixed as dark as i am (more like a nice chocolate color) and i have noticed even the most kinky haird girls (i mean no harm) will claim "yeah im 1/3 indain"  "im half spanish" (the new trend) and i will just shake my head, they think its cute and makes them more attractive to guys. I also have heard some say when given a compliment like "your very pretty" they quickly say "yeah my dads half asain" "im half indian" and so on, wich just puts our culture down more and hyping up the steryotype that black women are only beautiful when mixed, which is not true. there is nothing wrong with being black but society has brainwashed everyone to beliveing that there is, and you would think going on past things like slavery and other wars ppl would see its not all that great to be white (no offense to my boyfriend) becuase they always seem to be thinking evil things and doing evil things (hitler anyone) and they are quick to seed away anyone who isnt "pure white" i think black women need to come together and realize balck is beautiful and you could go anywhere else in the world and be praised for your black beauty only in america will we be continuously put down and told when all black you cant be beautiful but thats not true in other countires the darker the better "mixed..thats ok" "black..your gorgeous"
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How could it be racial discrimination?  You don't have a pic up, so we can't see you, and the name doesn't indicate one race or another.  Besides, most people aren't so petty like that.  And I went to your profile, and it says you haven't asked any questions before.  Were they under a different screenname or on a different website?
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I am very much attracted to other races. I like white guys. Latin guys yes oh yes I do.  But I did notice something, I have friends that would be interested in white/latin guys but they do not look at them because they're taught or they think white guys wouldn't be interested in them. I bet a lot of those girls are probably interested but were not too sure of your preferences. Maybe you should become friends with one and then ask her out if you see a black girl you like. Just keep being you.
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I actually just read an article written by a black woman about how she was tired of men assuming she was just some big-lipped, big-butt sex object.  Whenever guys payed her compliments (especially white males) it usually had something to do with how they were "into her chocolate love" or "wanted a black girl to boss them around in bed" or something else racist and degrading.  She wished people could just tell her something nice without pointing out that she was black.  How about we just compliment people for who they are and forget their skin-color-stereostypes?  There are millions of nice things that can be said of all women, and each woman is different -- they are all beatifully and wonderfully made; they are individuals.