My fiance is obsessed with having bum sex and we have done it twice but for some reason i just can do it it hurts to much any ladys have some suggestions on what to do to help me out here?
204202
try some special lube see how it works
648115
lots of sex !!!\nput your hips into it...\nit's the best exercise after all !
519983
Use KY's jelly or Durex's lubricant to make things go smoothly your way. By the way, what's with her small....?? I just know your staff = manhood is really big. I think she's going to enjoy very much and maybe you're going to blow off her mind & body.
290156
It sounds like you've tried pretty much everything. Find another girl to take home. They're all over at the bars. If none will be the 3rd, find one that just you can go at it with and let him watch. Also, don't forget his stimulation, two words: rim job.
241859
you didn't say how many times-but if you are totally relaxed with your partner and you are well lubricated then I would have to wonder why it's painful for you. There are some medical conditions that make intercourse painful. If it continues go see your doctor.
207399
Listen,my man does me the same way,but I don't play with myself,I'm just a Bitch for the rest of the evening..This maybe hard for you,but it works for me..Next time he wants it turn him down a few times and show him how it feels then maybe he'll give it up to you more when you want it..Don't cheat on him,that's the worst thing you could do..Since your into playing with yourself just get your own little toy and use it..Or just quit playing with yourself and be the biggest bitch to him and let him know how you feel..Tell him hay your not giving me want I want and need so I'm about to cheat on you..Life ain't nothing without making love..Just give turning him down a try without playing with yourself and see how it will make him feel..If you do that I hope it works..
125039
If he won't let you get a toy, tell him that you are having some slight back pain and could you get a wand massager (the kind that plugs in).  Get the Hitachi Magic Wand Massager and when he is around use it for your back.  When he isn't around, use it to get off.  My wife can have an 0rgasm in under a minute with this thing, it is so strong.  And she keeps really, really happy with it.  \n\nOr just really tell him how you feel and that it isn't cheating, just that he never gets you off but he gets to have his 0rgasms, so it is very unfair.  Just tell him you'd like one small di1do, or a magic bullet, or the wand massager I mentioned above.  \n\nI wish my wife could be more horny like you, she never really wants sex with me, even before I got her toys.  I want it several times a day.  Such is life, eh?  And we are 28 too.
303257
You are not alone.I have done it,I do like it I am in a committed relationship,but I do not have anal sex All the time maybe 2 times a month I have to really be in the mood for it.the reason i want it over vaginal intercourse Is the orgasm Is so awesome it is alot more intense.and I like it.
439390
it's normal, next time when you do it, use a lot of lube, lay on your belly, put a pillow under your belly to elevate your butt and keep your legs closed kinda tight, make him work to get it in, i find that once it gets in, it is easier, then i open up more for him,  i also use a bullet on my clit to keep my mind off the initial pain, if you do it this way then eventually you will learn to like it....i did  LOL
600572
lol holding the butt before the hand huh?\nyour bf is something different...\ni dont know if its a good thing, but keep him for a while longer, he could be fun.
526281
uh....... depends on what turnes you on more.\n\nbut i would say neither but then again, ask boy #1 if he would ever hurt you. and if he says no, then trust him, untill he dose, and boy #2 will just try to get in your pants (aka have sex with you) he may even rape you or force you agains your will to have sex with you. and whan he said you have to returne the favor he ment for you to have sex wit him\n\nmy fiance use to be kindof evil but never that bad he dont hit girls in the first place b/c hes a gentlman i would just say 4get those too just be friends with them and try to find someone else  and remeber this\nyou rather be safe...than sorry....
440768
So no problem; next time you two go for it , get him off ahead of time. Give him a few minutes to get it back up then ride him until he cums.  That way he can get off twice, and so can you, maybe!
198535
try using some lubricant like KY Jelly, also have him only insert it a little at a time until you get used to it. Sometimes it takes a little stretching on your part. Once you have sex several times then you should be able to handle it, and it should not hurt any more. Good luck!
25139
Well something like that is hard to let go. Because it keep replaying in your mind. If you are afradi of this happing again more than likely it will happen again. Because I had a ex-fiance that cheated left and right. He also told me that he would never do it again. But he did. Once they do it they contuine to do it. So your best bet would be to move on with your life with out him...
669945
If you are not comfortable then don't do it.  Or only do it to the point you are comfortable with.  Figure out a codeword that he can use when it gets too much and stop when he says it, explain to him before that though that if you get to a point, say when his skin is getting red or blistering or whatever, that even if he hasn't used the code word, you will stop.  My ex liked to be scratched, really scratched, but I would only do it to the point where he had scratch marks, to me, breaking the skin was not on, even though he liked it.  We stuck to the above, he never used the codeword, but we were both comfortable with what we did and it was a lot of fun.
559481
If youre having sex 15 times a day, your girlfriend must have an asbestos f*nny! She'd be seriously hurt by now. Def stop with the laxatives, thats just downrught cruel. Your best bet is to speak to your girlfriend and point out that sex doesnt necessarily mean love. lots of issues here man!
593304
i dont know exactly what it is but it has happened to me before. but usually after i have had sex where my boyfriend, excuse my language, literally spreads my butt cheeks apart really far. it tears the skin and it burns when water hits it like you said.  maybe thats what happened to you.