A couple of weeks ago me and my bestfriend got in trouble and we cant hang out any more wat do i do its totally not fare.
208894
TRY TO TAKE TIME OFF FROM WORK AND GO SEE THEM.THATS WHAT I ALWAYS DO.YOU SHOULD TRY TO CONVINCE YUOR PARENTS THAT YOU WON'T DO IT AGAIN AND GIVE YOU ANOTHER CHANCE.
454598
hell yea wut the hell??? shes just trying to start drama cuz she has nothing better to do. u have backstabber untrustworth friends nd u noe wut? its better that this happened cuz atleast u noe that whoever did this to you isnt really your friend nd if i were u just dont talk to her EVER again.....nd if u didnt do anything u really dont owe anybody an explanation....just tell the friend that thinks your said soomething about her what really happened nd if shes a good friend she'll believe you
109155
Just do it.  Man up, pal and your friend will at least have to talk to you.  If things get worse, then you know you tried to resolve the issue.
664108
If he wont be your friend anymore because of that then leave him alone. Dont put yourself in that uncomfortable situation again.
670714
Sounds Like you have already lost your Best Friend.\n\nI would at least write her a letter and let her know your feelings and that since she has decided to go this route, that you will be taking another one of your own.  Maybe she is a control freak..  I do wish you the best.\n\nAlso, Please learn how to properly type in here.  It does make reading the question very difficult, and it is against the rules here.   (Not in English rule)
328970
U should not care about him anymore.Go ahead and forget him and try to make new friends.U have done your bit of clearing any kind of misunderstanding.\nDon't worry about it
586621
I have actually been through something very similar to this situation in my High School Days, where I was accused of doing things that I was would never ever do.  It turned most of my friends against me (or people I thought to be my friends).  It also caused a downturn in the relationship with  the girl that I loved, and it made our relationship very rocky at the time.  Her friends were so hell bent on breaking us up on all accounts and after about 3 years of trying they finally suceeded.  Things like this had made me learn a few things....  \n\nIf you have become an outcast in your group, then screw them.  They obviously do not know the real you and that is now their own problem.  Let them get a new friend to replace you.  Eventually if you didn't do anything wrong, people will come around and realize who was really right and who was really wrong.  And after a certain point, it won't matter anymore.  When you are done with the high school years, you will most likely only have 2 or 3 true friends and if they can't stick by your side now, they surely won't be there when you graduate.   The thing is is just to be yourself.  You can be nice, but be firm and don't give in to the first person just because your desperate to get back in the group.  Its not worth the time nor the effort....\n\n~Chris~
107767
I'm sorry for the loss of your friend, who made a bad choice to fix a temporary problem with a permanent solution. It is unlikely your arrest would give you the chance to confront any of the same ones you blame, or that they would heed your words, and an arrest would, if anything, reduce the respect of your opinion you seek. Mourn, then let it go- there is no other good choice here. Peace to your heart
674656
TELL YOUR BESTFRIEND TO GET A LIFE.. AND GET HER OWN BOY..  DON'T TOUCH WHAT'S NOT BELONG TO HER.. \nYOU CAN GET ANOTHER BEST FRIEND.
23654
If someone is not your best friend anymore that means that either you or he/she or both have changed (assuming there is not a discussion that has made your relationship to grow apart).So if now you have different interests, or have that sharing time with other friends is more amusing, then try to feed those friendships. If you really feel like you still want this friend to be a very close friend, talk it out and see why youa re becoming distant from one the other. Sometimes friends dont keep in touch for a while, but usually they come back when they realize they feel comfortable around.
333406
you didn't say how old you are but i'm guessing you are pretty young. friendships sometimes have ups and downs, if she has found a new best friend then maybe you should too. there really isn't much else you can do, except maybe talk to her and ask her about it.
111582
i would probley try to gain back the freindship and then see where it goes from there.
293356
You probably should have asked your friend what her plans were before you hung out with you other friends, maybe she just assumed since you had already asked her to hang out that the plan was still on.She's probably feeling like you ditched her, send her an email explaining that you thought since she didn't let you know if she could hang out with you that she couldn't so you made other plans, and just tell her you're sorry.She'll get over it.
599868
I went through the same thing you did.  It kind of gets frustrating.  How does your friend react to it?  Does your friend go along with it or just gets quiet.  Cause my friend at times gave the hint that we were together.  Sorry to say that She no longer is my friend cause she was in fact giving hints that we were closer that friends.  In order to avoid it talk to your friend and also try not to give certain hints to people when you hang out together.  Sometimes people will jump to conclusions due to you hanging out with your friend way too much.
319062
You did the right thing by dropping her as your friend. forget her and hang out with your good friends who would never do what she has done to you.
509777
I had the same problem so I just ended our friendship you shouldn't have to live with someone whos mean and always trys to put you down just to make them feel better about them selves
285528
You should tell her that you forgive her for what she has done that you know it was an accident that it just really hurt you and that you shouldnt have let that come between your friendship and that you really miss her and that you just want to try and fix things so they can be back to the way they were and that your sorry you took so long to tell her this but if she could find it in her heart to forgive your reaction to her ruining your important thing and become your friend again.I also dont think you can move on from it because that is a long time to have a friend and if yall were really good friends like you say you will never forget her and you will wonder all the time what if i had told her i missed her and we could have been good friends again so i think you should try and fix the friendship instead of just trying to forget and if she says she doesnt want to will then atleast you can move on knowing that you tried thats all you can do good luck i hope i helped