and when i asked him about he said it was a friend he had when he use to be a truck driver,i call the back and curse her out on her vice mail she didn't answer
212041
Call her and ask her why your husband has her number?????\nThen go from there.
529723
Awwww, I feel so bad for you.  I think you send her a heartfelt email and tell her how you feel.  Although I'm pretty sure she knows this but tell her the same things you told us.  Tell her that you have no friends, you have no one to talk to, you confided in her and now she will not speak or respond to you, tell her you miss her and that she's like a big sister to you.  Tell her how much she has made a difference in your life.  I'm pretty sure this should get her attention.  Don't be rude to her, that's probably the reason why she's distanced herself from you in the first place.  My guess is that you've done it before.  Tell her that you are not giving up on her or the friendship and keep trying your best to reach her.  Be honest.  Tell her exactly how you feel.  Hopefully I was able to capture your feelings because it was obvious to me that you really care for her and really miss her.  And if that's the case, she needs to know.
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Hello! Well here is my advice because I went through the same thing twice. Now I'll be HONEST and go straight to the point.\n\nIF YOU DON'T LIKE HIM LIKE HE DOES SORRY YOU CAN'T BE FRIENDS BUT IF YOU HAVE THE SAME FILLINGS THAN HE DOES CALL HIM AND TELL HIMS SO...BUT YOU HAVE TO LET ME KNOW WHAT HAPPENED => \n\nBest of luck,\n\nGaby
141657
It sounds like he was either asking if you worked there or just trying to start a conversation.
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i would ask him yourself. no one else knows him here like you do.  Your friend may or may not of told you the truth either. He may have said yes. But he also may have said no. Have some dignity for yourself and ask him yourself. He would respect you more for doing that.
1516
i sent couple times,`coz they answers had an insult tones.one of them wrote me that i`m gay and the other one,i`don`t remember,but it was so unpretty from his side.and it had no intensions with an answer/question
431419
It sounds like your friend is absent minded like mine is... Don't sweat it when she claims an answer you gave her a long time ago. Just remember that you are the one that told her in the first place and be happy she remembered it. Or, if you can't handle being a mentor, simply stop telling her anything. But I hardly believe you would do that since you Are friends.
409375
sounds like u missed the bus, your window of opprotunity wa when you first met him you should have had the confidence to tell him thats just too bad live with it and learn from it
540576
They are both lying to you!  Wake up!  Neither of them say anything about the fact that they contact each other - that's one.  Number two is the fact that he got angry when you brought it up.  Number three is her b.s. response that it is all a scheme to make you jealous.  And what kind of friend does something like that? A scheme that they kept a secret?  How is that supposed to make you jealous if they don't tell you about it?  Please...wake up and smell the coffee.  You should get rid of both of them.
70803
i am not a man but i have been there and done that you must have really pissed her off...hopefully someday she will mail it back to you...until then contact Lorainna Bobbits husband.
431300
First of all.....my sympathies for the loss of your babies.\n\nI have been in this situation...friend-wise....and can only tell you of this experience. This person told everyone I was her "best friend" but would only call me or come to see me if she had nothing else to do. She didn't have time to talk when I called her if something that sounded more fun came up. Basically, she used me until I became fed up with it. I finally told her I couldn't be her "fair weather" friend anymore, it wasn't worth the effort since I had nothing glamorous to offer her.\n\nThe short of it is...no matter how you handle it, this type of person won't get it. They're never at fault, never wrong and consider themselves to be the best thing walking upright! Avoid her and always be busy when she decides to call or come around. You're worth more than what she has to offer!!
676725
Do you think you should, she told you off in the letter and that is not what a friend should do. if she had a problem with you she should've done it in a nicer way. dont let her bring you down find a new friend. GOOD LUCK!!!
248274
I take it since you hung so tight before you know where she lives. I would send her a registered letter(so you know she will have to get it)on good stationary. I would lay the logic down to her. All that, might have been in HIS mind. Maybe he was fantasizing about getting with you. Lay out your cards that you did not have any aspirations on him and show the evidence. \n\nWhen it all happened. 1st I would have had security remove the sister for acting an a** at your place of work. I would have immediately after work, contacted your friend and asked her what that was all about. The you didn't appreciate the sister coming you your job causing a scene, and ask if she knew. And if she said so, I would ask if she believed it and why. Then I would have suggested YOU ALL go talk to the boyfriend. When confronted by both of you he would have to be a very good liar under pressure not to cross up his story. Then the whole mess could have been out to bed back in Oct. \n\nBut I would send her the letter, and point out if she want to throw away all you had over a boy, who she may not even have right now, or maybe gone in the next 8 months. Show the logic that guys always ad stuff to the mix. If she can't see the logic. Wait until she crashes then be the better girl and show her you were right and help her pick up the pieces. Maybe next time she will give more weight to your words.
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I suppose that your friend knows that you got in trouble?\nThen your friend made two mistakes.\nIf they were a true friend, they would not let you take the blame. Therefore, if they fail to come forward and take the blame away from you, it is safe to say that they were not your "friend" in the first place and you would be well within your right to set the record straight.
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The only thing I can say is she wasnt a friend to start with. And that dont worry about others  they have to answer for the things they do not you. Just move on and dont show any emotion about it. There is a saying what comes around goes around and sooner or later she will have someone do to her what she did to you.
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Firstly if I were you, I wouldn't call at 7:00. Have you been keeping contact with him throughout the month, or is this the first you've heard from him? If it is the first you've heard from him, I would most definitely not call until like..... 8:15 - 8:45. Make it seem like you haven't been waiting for him, and that you've got better things to do than abide to his schedule. \n\nAs for what to say to him..................... if y'all are still cool,  I don't think it should matter, talk to him like he was just another friend. But again, if I WERE YOU (lol) I wouldn't say much, and I'd give off a "what-is-it-you-need-from-me" kinda attitude.\n\nYa. I'm rude. \n"You must not know 'bout me, you must not know 'bout me............" lol
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have you been replying back to your friend? sometimes a lack of communication can lead to this.  send an email to your friend to see what's up.\n\n(btw, i believe there is an other topic for friend issues. just for future reference)