i am in love with my best friend courtney. do i tell her how i feel or wat do i do? please help me!!!!
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Just talk to her. If your honest with her and not all creepy about it she will appreciate it. Good Luck
608642
tell her how you feel. maybe the two of you can work it out.
56131
Y'know a similar thing happened to me when I was still in high school between my best female friend and I.  One of us had feelings for the other but it wasn't reciprocated.  Years later, we're still great friends, and both of us have moved on to find our own special people.  In my experience, if you two are close enough and you don't dwell too much on it, it would be a good thing to tell him how you feel. It's nice not to have to hold anything back from them, and even if the feelings aren't reciprocated, you get a fresh start ^_^  You know your relationship best though, good luck! =D
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Talk to her about it one on one. She probably does not realize that you're feeling this way. My friend did the same thing when she fell in love in high school. Now we're both in different colleges but we still hang out, but her bf has now become one of my friends as well. But yeah the relationship between my friend and I was never the same.
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Here is a defining moment in your life.. \nPut yourself in your friends shoes.. as exciting as it may be to be you right now.. \nHOW would you feel if the sitch was reversed.. NOT too fun to get screwed over by your best friend and boyfriend.. \nDO you become a good person, and decide your BEST friend is more important to you then a guy.. \nOR do you become a beotch (sorry, but that is what you would be) and take your best friends man with no regard for her, or her feelings.. I'm saying.. That would be pretty fu**cked up on your part.. (actually what you're doing right now is pretty f**ked up in itself.. just plotting )to do it.. YOU should be more of a friend then that.. And just remember Karma is a beotch, and who's to say he wont leave you for one of your friends.. ?
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Hey buddy!  There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone... make sense?  Sounds like you love her, but may not be in love with her... or simply stated, may not have the romantic feelings that she has for you... it's a tough spot to be in - sorry!  \n\nThere is no easy way to break someone's heart or "let them down"... but you owe it to yourself and her to be honest... and ASAP!  The longer you "pretend" or carry on like you have stronger feelings than what you do, the harder it will be for her... after all, no one likes to live a lie.  Focus on the qualities you like about her and tell her how ya feel.\n\nDon't be surprised if this rocks your relationship as friends... it may even jeopardize any friendship you hope to have (especially if you wait to tell her ya feel).  Trust is a big thing!!!\n\nBest wishes!
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regret is worser than regection. trust me i know from experience. there was a guy i fell in love with but i had the hesitation that you have. it was actually around your age too. anyway i hesitated and he found someone else he fell in love with. i regret it till this day. i would have prefered to take the chance with our friendship to know than stay wondering what if i did this or that differently. you need to talk to her. let her know how you feel but at the same that if she doesn't feel the same way then you would loved to still stay friends because friendship is better than nothing at all.
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In a situation like this, you can't go by what your friend says. You have to go by his actions. Ask him how he feels about you. If he doesn't love you don't waste your time. If he says he does, tell him he needs to start acting like it. Actions speak louder than words! Life is too short to waste your time on being in love with someone that's not in love with you. Don't stick around thinking you can change thier mind. You will only get hurt in the long run. Trust me, I know because I've tried.
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This is confusing were you guys dating or not?  \n\nIf yes, and he said i love you but you didn't feel that way...why were you dating him in the first place?\n\nIf no, just tell him straight out that you don't feel that way about him but he's an amazing friend and you hope you guys can remain friends because this friendship means a lot to you.
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I definitely know what your feeling. My bestest buddy Teresa is going out with the love of my life, Sean Grant. I thought I loved him a lot. I accidentely broke up with him(Very long story). He still smiles and me and looks at me when we have guitar class together. I don't know for sureif heloves me still. I think what we both need to do is tell the person. I think we wuld feel alot better if we did.
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Well how do you feel about her?  Do you like her a lot?\nDo you have fun together?  Do you confide in each other?  \nThese are some of the things that equal a best friend.  And if you want her to be your best friend, than you need to be her best friend as well. Then to be sure, you can just ask her...and she will tell you the truth!   :)
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ask him how he really feels about you, but be careful, because one way or another, after you cross that line, your friendship will feel different. in other words, you have to make the choice between a good friend that you already have and a potential partener. this is a gamble you have to be willing to make and possibly lose, but the payoff is worth it because the best loves are your best friends, ask anyone who is really in love
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Well she probably feels the same as you do.. i think if your that close to her you should just go for it and tell her.. just have faith shel feel for you the same you feel for her... go for it dont be afraid.. GOOD LUCK!
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i think you should tell her what is what and how you are feeling. get things out in the open. don't bottle your feelings up inside. it will be worse for you that way. you could ask her how she knows if you are in love or not. sometimes, yes, friends,parents, etc see things we don't. know what i mean? good friends are honest and open with each other. the key to a good relationship/friendship is communication.
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I have had this happen to me before and I simply said look I love you as a friend and I am not into that its fine for you to be like that but thats just not for me. Be sure to explain that you won't judge her or look at her any differently and that it will not come between yall friendship. Just tell her in a nice way so that she don't feel like a jackass for telling you because you know its got to take some guts to tell your best friend something like that. I hope that I have helped.!!!!
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It is so nice that you care so much about  both your friend and you.\n\nYou see whatever happened has happened. It can't be changed. So either you find ways to move on or you just slack back.\n\nYou said you are best friends. A lot of things happen between best friends you know so this should not be a hard one to tackle. It happened because you were both passionate about each other. It now appears you are both bi. No big deal.\n\nFirst you said you liked him and now you are saying you don't know if you like him. NO problem about that, you will soon know if you like him or not.\n\nHowever, since you said you have not seen him in a month and this whole thing is getting into you, well i think is about time you talk with him. It does not matter if you are different persons or not, you still have to find out where you stand. You need to talk with him and find out if you are both embarassed about the things that happened and if you still want to be best of friends. If you both still want to keep on having sexual feelings for each other, well that is when to find out, by talking to each other. Please tell him your mind, what you think, what should stop, what should go on and stuffs like that. It will work out.\n\nYou and i both know you don't want to lose a friend like him. Then i think it's about time you spoke to him.\n\nPlease don't feel shy. OK. Open up and tell him every single thing in your heart.\n\nYou will definitely find your answer. Keep it cool and GOOD LUCK.\n\nHave fun too.
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i no how you feel im going through this to.you should stand up to and tell him how you feel.shoot with my crush im man shy.But if you really love or like him you'll stand up to him and tell him how you feel.Im your friend so i give you the\nbest wishes.