How did you get popular. How to make high rankin kids like you.
205530
the popular kids in middle are early bloomers. so youre going to have to rely on genetics. those twins.
453899
You need to create a positive community that these kids can look to.  That means creating a group that has certain goals or purpose.  Maybe it can be finding a place for kids to play together and organizing games, to start.\nThen as your group grows, you can organize more elaborate events that they help put together.  And meanwhile you look for the resources you need, a building, food, etc.\nThe key is to get them involved in improving their own lives.\n\nAs your group comes together, appeal to those who do have resources to help with what you need.  Start small, aiming to grow larger as a network.  You often find that people know people or work for people that may be sympathetic to your idea and may want to help.\n\nYes, if you want this to happen, it will have to be part of everything you do.  It is a huge problem.  Good luck.
388332
im very shy but im alot of fun once u get to know me...im very mature for my age...im considered popular in my own crowed...which is a group of a bunch of...idk what they are..part jock...part prep...pary geek...so i pretty much get along with everyone...but the full blow popular crowd really needs to get a clue that they are not the only people in the school who matter...the emo kind of people need to stop cutting themselves and realize that they only get one life to live...the creepy scummy kind of people need to learn that soap is good for them and the jocks need to learn that takeing drugs only make there  u know whats smaller...and the durggies...they need to get a fucking life...but my group...the geeks need to just...loose the sweater vests...the jocks need to learn that there is more to life then sports..but i think if they both gave eachother some of them everything would be perfect..but itll never happen... what kind of person r u?
325851
Move around alot and over emphasize your actions. Kids like things that change constantly so if you move they will watch you and at the same time be listening.
581463
Hey, I'm a nerd too (at least in high school I was LOL) but I think I've learned a thing or two since then so here goes...\n\nFirst of all, unless you want to be a laughingstock, I wouldn't recommend springing yourself on a group of people in public- they will all be together and you might end up the butt of the joke.\n\nProbably the best thing to do is figure out what it is about that group of kids that attracts you to them-- is it just because they are popular, or do you have an interest in common with them?  If you really have something in common, then try getting close to one or two of them by sharing your common interest... if you make friends with one, chances are the group will pull you in.\n\nBut if you're just wanting to be with them because they are popular and they look like they're having more fun than you are, maybe you should join a club or group where you can meet people you can really relate to.  It's the difference between having "friends" and "acquaintances."\n\nGood luck!
46711
stay cool and simple... Unless you want great attention from others then just be yourself and you will end up with the right people that has the same wants that you do..\n\nCheers
484822
Just don't think of it in terms of popularity. You shouldn't get caught up in labels. (I'm not saying you are).  Be respectful to those who deserve respect. Be firm with people who don't. Don't look to make enemies. Discern between true friends and ass-kissers. Look out for yourself. Focus on what's really important in life. Think about the future.
122796
1.  Avoid doing it online.  Your grammar and spelling are atrocious.  You'll only attract the morons.\n\n2.  Brush your hair and teeth, shower, shampoo, use deodorant (I'm not saying you don't; but if you don't, do!)\n\n3.  Ask about THEM.  Don't talk about yourself.  Everyone loves to talk about themselves to someone who cares.  Nothing is more flattering than a good listener.
78377
People naturally like who they like.\n Be yourself. Don't put on behavior for the sake of "Getting somone to like you". You won't be able to do it well, keep it up, or be sure they Really like who you REALLY are!
661982
Tell people that you care. I know that there are many students who get the impression that their wishes and opinions do not count and I believe that, put together, their number surpasses that of people who get together for a cause. That is the biggest problem, I believe, targeting such a wide array of people. The only way you can get their attention is to shock or to challenge them, depending on the type of person you are. If tou are a popular girl, then people can be amazed without condemning your actions, so you can get your friends together an invent a crazy dance on a song that just won't let you sit down, promise them the formation of a new club or diversification of the cafeteria menu, but make sure that you target as many types of people as you can. Being a popular figure, you could personally speak to students nobody pays too much attention to, and they will feel very happy and vote for you. In case you are not in the middle of everything, I suggest that you choose Saving Jane- Girl Next Door as a theme song and show people how close you actually are to them without them knowing it. And, no matter the type of person you are, you have to change something about yourself to get their attention, but within the limits of staying yourself.The change could be a piece of clothing that everybody will copy or a new hairstyle, but stay true to yourself with the promises you make. Best of luck!
282063
Here's the BEST advice you'll ever get. The most POPULAR people, both male and female, are NOT always the BEST ones PERIOD, or the best for YOU. Sometimes they ARE, but don't count on it. Don't wish for things too hard, you might GET them.\n\nOther than that, just be yourself, try to stay well-groomed, literate, well informed,  be nice, smile and let things happen as they WILL. If HE's interested and has ANY brains at all,  he will let you know. If he's SMART, he will soon recognize that you ARE being yourself instead of just being 'popular', that you are literate, and that you take care of yourself, stay informed, and seem to be  nice and pleasant.\nGet it?
121986
for one thing.  why the F do you care if you have a lot of friends?!?  that was a trend in my area, to have a lot of friends, until people started to notice how stupid it was.\n\nit's sad that you want more friends so it will look like you are popular.  just add a bunch bands. .. that will make you LOOK popular.
423144
Just being yourself and acting the way you do is the most powerful\nspell to being popular & being loved by many......\n\nOf course,there's still praying to God......
276948
don't try to change yourself to fit in just be yourself. start getting involved with more activites it is a great way to make friends. or just try to talk to some people that u may think u hate but who knows they can turn out to be your best friends. believe me i hated this girl from another elementary in 5th grade and now were almost high schoolers and best friends
106191
just keep being yourself, you dont need to do anything special for someone just to make them go crazy.. if they really like you, you're already making them go crazy!
567849
Im not completely sure, but it seems I remember kids hanging out together with kids that were into the same activities and interests. \n\nFor instance the cheerleaders hung out together, and the kids on the debate team ate lunch together... \n\nI don't think you should focus too much on being in the "popular" group. Just get involved in things you love, join clubs and activities and meet people, and you will probably make friends who you have something in common with. You should worry more about having GOOD Friends, honest friends who wont backstab you and stuff, than having "popular" friends. The goal should be to be happy and have a good time and meet nice people.
146600
Just be yourself.  Being popular is overrated, and at my school, the "popular" people aren't really that popular - they think they are, but the majority of people don't like them.  You're awesome the way you are.