now a woman is fallen in love with a guy they just met thru the pics but contact with ph everyday any comments about that case,thx
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it all depends on you. how does he makes you feel whne your talking to him?
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Maybe after talking the woman just doesnt feel a "connection" and doesnt know how to break it off without hurting feelings or losing someone they enjoy chatting with onlilne.  Hang in there.. I met my 2nd husband online and we have a great relationship with a 2 1/2 yr old now!!! Regardless if you meet her online or standing in line at the grocery store someones out there!!
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I think that we have all negleted a friendship when a man came into our life.  It sounds like she is the kind of person who has never had a boyfriend, or someone who really cared about her, and she wanted to do anything to hang onto him.  Forgive her, she just wanted someone to love her like your husband loves you.  You will always have a special place in her heart and now she realized that she screwed up by not being around
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You are so lucky to have each other at this time. I believe you are a gift to each other. I had friends in a similar position as you are in now. They both decided to take everything one day at a time and enjoy every thing including their love each and every day. They went through, thick and thin together in increasing love, for 3 years longer than doctors had predicted. The surviving friend, years later, has told me several times how they would have suffered a much greater loss if they had not been dedicated to each other in love for as long as possible.
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Yep !\nI fell in love with my penpal and vice-versa.\nOur relationship is going on for 5 years now !\nShe's from Clarkston, MI. I'm from Brussels, Belgium.
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I don't think you did anything wrong...unless you spoke to her in a harsh way...if you didn't then it's her over- reacting! If you both are that close...where you were thinking of proposing to her then I believe she should have gotton rid of those old pictures,unless she still has feelings for this past guy. Other than that I see no reason why she should behave like that. I'm sure you both will work through this...good luck.
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You probably had intense feelings for this person, I think it is common. Don't worry about it too much.
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I'd take it as a compliment.  It's only creepy if she goes after you.  I'm sure she didn't consciously pick this woman because of her similarity to you.  The fact that she is interested in someone like you should just show you how much she thinks of you.  My best friend married someone who's personality is just like mine and they've been together for 13 years. The only difference between your situation and mine is that my friend's husband is different from me in one way, and that's gender.Don't look too much into it...just be happy for her and hope things work out!
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I would get some pictures and tell her. Pictures are proof, she might be too blinded by love to take your word and you said you two weren't friends anyway. Or you could just drop off the pics anonymously at her house or work.
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Ouch this is quite mind-boggling.  Ok, on one hand give her credit for being honest that she had feelings for a male friend but then this would lead to you feeling your on shaky grounds and of course distrust would stem up. Now the problem with trust is that we all know, without trust there is no relationship.  You say it took months to rebuild your trust in her.  And then once again she drops a bomb on you by saying 'off-handedly' she got a text from 'brad'. I'm wondering if your girlfriend is considerate about your feelings? It sounds a tad selfish to me.  If I had feelings for someone else I wouldn't go telling my partner I would actually just sit there and tell myself to get over it, that what it really is, is just lust and temptation. Because the more I think about the 'other' guy the more trouble I would cause for myself and my partner.  It's like a test.  To see how strong you are to resist temptation.  Well this kind of test was for your girlfriend and she didn't have to go blahblahblah on you about having feelings for 'brad' without dealing with it first.  The minute it came out of her mouth it caused a reaction to you and how you felt.  Now she was texting him over a 'girlfriend'?! and she called him to see what he was 'up to?!'.  My bad but why should she be so concerned about his girlfriend? If there was feelings still there for 'Brad' she would be comparing herself to this 'girlfriend' and also she seeking attention to 'brad' to boost her esteem and attention?  Maybe you have given her too much love? Maybe she is taking you for granted because she knows you will always love her? If you cannot fully trust her, it is really up to you what you want to do.  It is your choice how you would want to feel.  Nothing will change unless you make the effort of changing it. And remember you must of felt something because it caused you to check her cell phone history, what does that tell you?  Good luck, I hope you find the answer to your problem.
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Hi, My X use to do the same exact things! I know exactly what it feels like, unfortunately the last few lies I found out were from my children. He was hangin around with a white trash piece of shit that was his sisters friend. He swore up and down they were just friends, come to find out he had been seeing her off and on for about 12 years! I was married to this asshole for 17 of them! Please please... Listen to your heart, especially with his track record.. make sure for yourself and I hope its not true, but that there isn't another woman! I don't know how I didn't find out sooner. I guess the kids were younger..not sure.. But the things you were saying is just how it was with us.. and he didn't even care when we didn't talk I think he actually enjoyed it because there was less to cover up if I wasn't asking him questions! But please keep your eyes and ears open, and I hope you find nothing but just in case hun.. take it from someone who has been there. Take care good luck and if anything changes please keep me informed or if u need another woman to talk to email or im me anytime! Good luck & be strong! Kim
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Yeah leave messages on her email and IM account. If you dont hear from her in 24 hours call the cops. Do you have any idea who this guy is she was supposed to meet?  After all online dating can be risky. I understand you being concerned.
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Guess it all depends. My friend has been in a relationship with Tanya from Williston, ND since January. He says he fell in love with her over the phone. when they first met in March he asked her to marry him then went to her home town to move her here to Marinette.  Did not happen. She came to visit again. Again he took her home to move her here and again she did not come.  Since that time they talk on phone daily but not like in beginning. Most times it turned to argument.  His family not like her and her family not like him.  She is again here for a visit.  This time is more to see if any spark still there. Is like when first met she was pretending to be someone she was not. Then while apart she left her real self out.  Guess smartest thing to do is take ones time it does not matter if relationship is far or near it depends on how you get along once you really get to know the person.
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The way I see it, is he isn't really interested. That is was different just emailing each other, but when she goes for a visit, his number is changed, and no contact until she is well out of the area. And now she is moving there, and he is very busy..... One: I would find out if he is married, or has a live in girlfriend. Two: ask him straight out what the deal is. Also you say she wants to cont the "childhood" romance.... she is all grown up now. And she really doesn't know him as a person, it sounds like he has changed. But I think she should ask him if he wants to have some sort of releationship with her. Or if he was just carring on a email romance?? Tell your friend good luck, and I hope she doesn't get her heart broken.
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This is hard advise and hurting your feelings further is definitly not my intent. Please, don't be offended by my observation. Your a beautiful young girl, as your picture surely boasts, and should not waste your time with someone who would cut off communications with you like that. People can be very cruel when the saftey of distance & computers are left out of the equation. In my opinion the jerk is probably married and was just having a good jerk over having such a young beauty interested in him since he never figured you'd ever come close to meeting. Your better than that dear. It time for the revival of the days when a young women was to be courted and persued by an upstanding and respectable young man with more intent than just a quick roll in the hay. What you have to bring to a relationship is a gift from our creator and is precious. There are many more out there that would never allow you to question there sincerety let alone allow you to be hurt. Keep looking sweetheart!
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I think it's kind of weird really.  That's his flesh and blood.  Maybe I could see it if she had died or something  (god forbid) but if she's still alive it seems weird.  Just carry a pic or something.  No permanent gesture is in order, IMO.
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You dont report her. Your hubby gets what he deserves.More importantly, why is he still your hubby if he had an affair with a student from singapore? What goes around comes around. You'll see her again, when she comes back to study and your hubby has another encounter with her. Too bad, so sad.