well my best friend made me a promise and she broke if and when she went to talk to me i did not know what to do and i was confused why would a real friend do that?
204841
that's not a real friend. period.
494231
I believe at this stage, she's not concious about what she asked u.. u need to do something, or say something that will really wake her up, and make her realise that her life, is her own decision.. \nall u can do as a best friend is give suggestion...\n\nu might wanna say something really really serious that will make her realise.. something personal i believe...
55573
i would talk to her about the situation and see why she has changed.  you can't ignore it, especially if you guys were the bestest of friends.  i mean i would want to know if my friend didn't want to hang out with me anymore, i think i would deserve some sort of explanation.
599868
I went through the same thing you did.  It kind of gets frustrating.  How does your friend react to it?  Does your friend go along with it or just gets quiet.  Cause my friend at times gave the hint that we were together.  Sorry to say that She no longer is my friend cause she was in fact giving hints that we were closer that friends.  In order to avoid it talk to your friend and also try not to give certain hints to people when you hang out together.  Sometimes people will jump to conclusions due to you hanging out with your friend way too much.
308045
im so sorry for u..i see how confussing this must be for you..<i could barely understand this it was so conf..> but i think u need to start from the begginning..why did she think u were ditching her...and tell her "i have a new bff and so do u, u should have thought about ur decsion before u got a new bff" so untill then..lets just stay bf..ok.."\n\nhope this helps..i hope things work out for u..\n\n: )
564988
She feels something for you but she isn't exactly sure what she's feeling. You should talk to her about it to let her know she is safe around you. I also think that she doesn't want to lose your friendship. Sometimes being with someone who is your friend makes things a little awkward, and she doesn't exactly want to do that yet. Keep on being friends for now and see where that takes you.
670994
If you are good friends, why would you jepordize that. If you think it won't change things between you then your kidding yourself. If you cross that line, you can't ever go back. You must decide if things go bad after it happens, are you willing to do that and lose a friend just to find out what it would be like?
247926
Well, it is hard to talk past those butterflies and the lump in your throat.  Calm down and take a breath....relax dude.  When you talk to her next time, try not to get all bent up about who you are talking to.  Pretend you are talking to your best friend, it will get easier from there.
54337
You aren't goingto like my answer, but it is the truth. If you were told a secret then you are breaking the confidence that you share with the friend who told you the secret. Breaking the trust of your friend by telling the secret means that you can not be trusted, or so it seems.\n\nAll we have in this world is our word. Take care to keep yours clear.\n\nJust for future reference, if one friend starts talking negativly about another, tell them you don't want to hear it...they are your friend, too. Any friend should respect your being a good friend to your other  friends.
481867
WOw. I've been through the same exact thing this is what i did i just straight up told her that i was feeling left out and when i was hanging out with her and her new friend it was akward cuz she wouldn't act the same. You have to tell her cuz it will drive u carzy and will cause drama. If she is a real true friend she'll understand and make things better. If not find a new best friend that wont skrew u over for another person instead of treatin u the same
3478
Yes, a woman with whom I was a really good friend (I will call her Jane) just turned on me and almost refuses to talk to me now. We don't live near each other anymore, so it's not as big a deal now as it once was. But I have no idea what I did or said to turn her against me. I am one who has really good relationships with people and long-term friendships. So this really took me by surprise.\n\nJane and I used to spend hours together every week and a lot of time on the phone. We were both members of the same professional association. I saw her there and she was really rude to me like I had offended her in a big way. \n\nI am still mystified by this situation and it took place nearly eight years ago. I was told, by a mutual friend who asked me about the break up that Jane had done this in other relationships. That made me feel a little less confused, but I am still saddened by the loss of what I considered a great friendship.
85616
I had the same problem. my friend of 6 years kept getting really jealous over my friend of just 2 months. Every time she came close my friend would jump in and pull me away. Not only that she was very close knit. I mean when ever she introduced me to someone she would say "MY BEST FRIEND". It got a little annoying when she wanted me to do the same. It got really bad when she started to make fun of my other friend. That's when I told her, hey listen, you have been my best friend so all these years. And if you think that she is going to steal me away from you, then you must not trust me enough, do you really think i am going to drop you after so many years together? I told her that if i wanted to stop being her friend I would have stopped, but I'm still here. I think you should just tell it to her straight, and if she doesn't believe you, that's her fault.
324344
well it might be that she think`s you are not going to have time for her no more or she really was not your true friend in the first place. true friend`s dont just walk out like that
599990
when you care about someones feeling or respect someone  you give them an explanation why you break plans,  obviously she doesnt consider your feeling, so i really dont think shes much of a friend. Shes more like an acquaintance. Stop calling her and maybe she'll give you a call if she misses you.And if she doesnt call just dont worry about it, get a new friend
629312
Maybe she thought she was talking to you as a friend and then got a sense that you were interested in her for more than friendship.  If she wasn't interested in you in that way, perhaps she didn't want to lead you on and then decided to back off.  Just a guess.
6658
Do not stoop to her level. It is sad that she betrayed you, but do you still call her a friend? Does she know how much she hurt you? Just remember you will have been the better person, Karma can be a drag sometimes so just know hers will be catching up with her at some point.
105132
try not to bring the subject up again for a while beome more of a best friend before bringing the question again let her know that she can trust you and that you're willing to treat her right like nobody ever will then you'll be good to go above all just let her know she can trust you and that she can tell you anything and you'll always listen and try to understand