It seems like every guy i try to be friends with get mad at me because i want have sex with them. After that they don't even want to be friends. why can't men be friends with females even if there attractive.
200899
I have had mostly guy friend all my life...so...I think it can happen.  I don't know if they have thought about having sex with me, but none of them have tried anyway...\n:)
556301
you sound great! i don't know why they're such jerks...i like guys who are just friends...i'm not into that bf/gf stuff yet (i'm a teen!) i like guys who respect themselves...you sound AWESOME!!! i'm sorry that people say that kind of stuff :(
573867
uh, why do either of you need your own friends of the opposite sex? Any friends me and Hubby have, are both our friends, (usually other cpls) but we never have over friends of the opposite sex that we are both not friends with. He is 'friends' with everyone @ his work, (male and female) but never hangs with them other than at lunch, or the 1-2 times a yr their is a work party, or Christmas party, both of which I go to with him. One chick tried to get some alone time with him, but he told her no. (this was a few yrs back) I know what she was trying to do and it made me mad as heck, but he thinks she meant nothing by it. Wrong! Guys are very naive sometimes. Sounds to me like she's trying to wedge herself in there. I wouldn't suggest you getting a 'friend' too, I would suggest counciling to figure out why either of you feels the need for seperate friends. I can totally relate though, cause men always assume if you talk about another guy, (like oh so and so did this) or whatever, even when it's nothing, just you mentioning another guy's name, even in telling a story, makes them think you want the guy. But yet they can't see that when a woman hangs on to their every word (like she appears to be) or tries to spend time with a married man, that she is up to no good. A good councelor may be able to help him see that. Make sure you go to one that believes in manogomy though, because I know there are some strange councelors out there that swing and all that though, (saw one on Montel) so be careful where you go. I would definitely put an end to it, though.now.
169914
I`m going to have to go ahead and disagree with u, in my country at least, it is we the "ugly" ones who are with the gorgeous females, why because the pretty boys are so selfcentered and narcisist that they do not think about anything else.. the rest of us, are just looking to party and have a great time, u know.  Also because we really don`t care much about anything, we can say pretty much whatever the hell we like,  and that my friend turns out to be a great "FISH" ( which in slang translated means sweet talk).  SUAE
332886
I have always gotten along better with guys than with girls. Girls and I just do not seem to mix well; I guess it is the cattiness issue. lol\n\nMy fiance recently got annoyed with me, more than annoyed actually, because I go eat dinner with my friends from law school (most are guys). He told me that it does not look right for a woman to be doing that, especially an engaged woman of 28. So, I have limited my outings with my friends because it is something that I do not want to become a problem again.\n\nMy answer then, is, that it depends on what type of relationship you are in. Make sense? :o) The more serious and long term the relationship is, the more you will "have to" be conscious of who is around you.
70045
Why . . . because they have no game . . . and they don't know how to play.  They are dirt a** broke . . . and are desperate for companionship.\n\nI may not be the hottest guy around . . . but I still get my pick of the litter . . . and I don't have to say a word to do it.
177605
sad knowing some people cant take a simple question seriously.\n\nAnyway, yes, guys and girls can be friends without strings attached. Why some people are so shallow or so up on themselves to think people today cant just be friends without expecting something I dont know.
231215
Men have a natural driven desire to have sex , Most guys are not interested in a relationship they want to satisfy their carnal lust and move on to the next person . I am having a hard time finding someone that will get to know me and take the time it takes to build a relationship . Most guys are so superficial they just want to have a one night stand . Good luck
251757
As a gay guy I think it has to do with rejection and all that. Homosexual men get tons of abuse and are sometimes in need of counseling to deal with it properly. I myself am a super nice guy but some are so suspicious of being liked because so many people abuse them and rail against them that they end up doing the same thing to a guy that approaches them.\n\n  Another thing is that some people think of us all as sluts out for one thing and since society in general reject the idea of homosexual covanant relationships it becomes self fulfilling prophesy in some cases. Some guys have no manners and grab in ways they would not think of doing to a woman in bars and social settings so ....
617195
Unfortunately, you have learned a valuable lesson in life...females consider themselves to all be in competition with eachother...genetic, perhaps??? Men are not like this. They actually like other men and support them. This is  a lesson my mother taught me when I was relatively young. Glad you have noticed. Beware of other females, even your best friend will knife you in the back if she can gain from it...of course, she will be the first to say, "I'm sorry" after the damage is done. Beware!
218452
Guys are socially conditioned to equate emotional expression with being effeminate. In this day and age of penis enlargement patches and big cars, men are trying to be more and more masculine, women are trying to be more and more feminine (shaving everything) and the lines of communication are failing as a result. Many guys (especially those without older sisters) are simply unable to communicate emotionally- except anger- anger is regarded as okay. I think it is really sad and that guys are doing themselves out of half the friendships they could have.
600943
Because they are desperate for any form of sexual interaction with any female who will oblige them.  The guys who seek this kind of interaction are most likely the ones with so little going for them that they can't find a real relationship.  Just ignore them.
39181
dude, i can relate. maybe we've known each other from childhood. i am also a ladies' man (not the playboy kind but the gentleman kind) and i've seen and been with women with mates who treat them like dirt. and somehow, i've managed to make some of them to wake up and break up (ooh, a rhyme!!!)\n\nsee, what i do is, i protect the girl in any means possible, be there for her when she need a shoulder to cry on, and probably (but never did) kick the guys sorry a**!!! women are fascinating people that should never be taken advantage of, so that's why i try my best to be the gentleman they want. consistent persuasion might work, and don't let the girl look at herself as a doormat. she should learn to get respect from her partner, coz deep down, we know we only want their happiness...\n\n=P ~^_^~
277367
Maybe he's one of those rare, one in a million guys who actually just want to be friends with a gal.  Just go with out.  You sound quite lucky to me.
598144
YOUR RIGHT men are dogs and it's not always the girls fault  for what they do (i admit sometimes it is) but I do think that your friends are using the fact that you are angry with men in general against you.  They need to ask themselves if they would feel the same way you do if they were put in those types of positions.  Don't stay mad thought cause one day you will meet a really nice guy that deserves you and you don't want your bitterness to ruin that.  And NO it isn't you I'm married to a  faithful man and I feel the same way you do.
426818
I have been in just about the same situation as this.  I hate to say it but, once a cheater always a cheater.  If she went out with other guy and even if she said she never had sex or what ever she will keep going out with him because she is thinking that he is the light at the end of the tunnel.  Or if they are just friends.  Sorry but there not.  Guys can not be friends with women, we always want more.  You know what I mean\nWomen are crazy.  \nEveryone says no one can understand women, that's because women don't even understand themselves.
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lol even tho ive never witnessed this i think its mostly because women r shy to talk with other men so they stick with their friends and hope that one of their friends will make the first move to talk to some other people. also like they probably talk to each other because that culd have been the plan go out and have fun whereever they r and talking to their friends. if u want to talk to one then go up to them and chat ;-)