every girl needs to be a little more open to guys that come up to them and want to have a consvesation with them. who knows, the guy could be nice and it could turn into a good relationship.. girls i've seen are worried about how much money someone makes, what kind of car he drives, whats his social standing is. not to be mean, but the most girls i've seen do this is girls that are hot and have hot friends..girls that have fat or ugly friends you know they are a little less judgemental and guys are more inclined to go up and talk to them because they know the girl will not just tell him to go away, some actually will talk for a little bit and even possibly give a number. my point is girls get to emotionally attached to guys and should be a little more open and look for other guys instead of just hangind around one or trying to find ways to make him jealous i mean come on theres a lot of guys out there who would like to have a chance with a beatiful girl
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Well i really dont agree on a certain level. b/c every gilr aint the same.  I really dont care if u cant afford a car. As long as you like me for me and RESPECT me adn wouldnt do anything to hurt me then we are cool.  i also gotta have a good time with you too in order for me to like you, u also gotta make me laugh.  Well i think that girls should open up to the guys to a certain extent2.
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"Girls" in general don't. For sure, some do. Turn it around, "why do guys go for girls who are brainless or mean, but stacked?"\n\n'Cause shallow people, or confused people, make their decisions based on shallow or mistaken assumptions. Do you want to be with a girl who is "cute" physically but not perceptive enough to pick up on the fact that a lot of great, smart, funny, kind guys aren't gorgeous?\n\nIf so, does that make you just as shallow?\n\nYou need to widen your horizons, chum -- get out and take classes, try activities that you think might interest you, get to know some girls, make some girl friends (real friends, not "let's be friends").  Practice talking to girls and really listening to what they say, making them feel interesting (everyone wants to be thought interesting), making them want to be around you because around you is a safe, enjoyable place to be where they'll be accepted and valued as they are.\n\nMake sure some of those girls are not the babes, but girls you might actually enjoy spending time with and talking to.\n\nMight take some time to get the hang of it, but once you do, you will be swamped.
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Hey Dude. \n\nIt is not polite to ask this question to any girl. Girl love decent guys and they like to respected. Better change your attitude because arrogance costs friends and girl friends
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Yes, because guys do not know if you like them or not.  I can never read girls right; when I think that they like me, how wrong am I!  I wish girls would be more open about their feelings, instead of playing hard to get.
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It is very important for a girl to have a male friend who is just a friend. Girls are rarely good in friendship. They tell your secrets to everyone, they may forgive about friendship etc. That is why guy friends are so treasured. I had such a friend and although I understood 100% that he is interested in me more than a friend I made myself believe that we are just friends. He could even stay for a night in my house, sleep on a couch in my room etc. But then he had a promotion to a different country and proposed to me (and we didn't even kiss). Of course I denied ;(.
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men think that because there are certain types of girls that are into that thing and those are the kinds of girls they hope to attract. also guys that are like that are often lacking in personality or other things and are trying to compensate for their inadequacies
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Not all girls are. But you have to ask yourself, are you superficial.  A lot of guys in your position look for a hot chick, when there could be a perfect girl for you that isn't the most beautiful or the skinniest.  If you aren't superficial then you'll find her eventually. If you are, prepare for heartbreak.
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Some girls like guys for their personality, and some girls like guys with looks. Some like both. Some girls look for guys who can buy them things and spoil them. Some girls go for jerks maybe because some girls like guys who treat them like crap and maybe the guy that is a jerk has good looks or money or its just their bad luck and thats why the girls choose them. But it happens. Its life and they are the ones who get hurt in the relationship. I go for personality. I go for a guy who is lay back and funny and outgoing and not a push over. Can be himself around me. Well thanks for answering my question and have freaking cool day. See ya.
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trust me this can not be a problem...i have guy friends who were scarred to have a girlfriend because they really never had one...when i advised them if they were ready i told them to go out in groups and when your guy friends talk to girls get in the mix and talk to them back...ask for a number....and trust me although you have never been with a girl it is ok...not all girls like it when a guy tries to make it seem like he know it all...as for me good guys are the ones worth being with...take your time and get out there and mingle and dont be scared to just talk...
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Well, it really depends on her confidence level.  I'm not very self-confident, so if I see a guy that I think is super-hot, I really don't think I have a chance with him, so I'll act pretty shy and aloof, and you know, check him out when he's not looking.  Secretly, I want to go up to him and start a conversation, but I'm afraid of getting shot down.  Of course, each girl really is different.
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Well....not everyone learns their lesson.  I'd rather be with a handsome sweet honest guy.  Sometimes girls dont learn that "bad boys" are toxic and they just keep going after them cause they want to "help" them.  Though...It is far better to be with one who is nice and appreciates you.\n\nI also dont understand the opposite, nice guys with girls who are drama queens and treat them like dirt and tear their heart out and rip it to shreads so that they can hardly believe that there are good girls out there.
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Because guys are immature. They look at what is outside not inside. Look for someone older.Plus boys are not even suppose to be in your mind. Focus on school.In the end it benefits you. Later on guys want girls with a career. Plus those girls won't look like that all the time.
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In school at that age.. I did'nt have many girl friends.. sometimes I think girls find it easier to have guy friends.. because a male friend at that age is less likely to be judgemental. I wouldnt worry at all.
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One of my best friends believes that all pretty women are haughty, because whenever he asked a hot girl out, he was either turned down, or  dumped when he was out of money. Because  he was betrayed so many times, he often took offence, and even resorted to bad language. Ever since, he has had a bad attitude towards pretty women. He even refused to have a blind date with a sexy girl whom I recommended very highly. He thinks that all of the sexy girls are only interested in  money, and they only want to go out with a handsome guy or a rich man. For that reason, he has a negative attitude, and he doesn't want to go out with sexy girls any more. In addition, he regards all  pretty women with great suspicion. I have had a lot of arguments with him about that, but I think most of the sexy women are both pretty and smart. No one should  be judged purely by their appearance. I have seen many  women who are both kind and pretty. Not all pretty women are bad.
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Not a lot of girls deserves a virgin man, and many wouldn't want one these days. but if there were more men like you, we would be in a better shape these days. and girls/guys relations would be much healthier. with no illusions about bad guys or cheating girls matters. but unfortunately its not whats going on. and the dating game will continue to rule our relationships.
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In all reality, girls would probably go for a LOT less than they say. If the guy was standing in front of you with a couple hundred, I'm sure you'd probably take it. Expecially if it was a guy that the girl knew. The power of money is endless...
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Dont' try so hard, guys can see how desperate some girls are. The best way is to have a large group of friends and have some of your friends pair you with someone that would be good for you. It'll take a little bit of time but if you want something, go and get it, don't expect everything to be handed down to you. Good luck