Im not sure if he is or not but you know how boys can try and be sneaky just for some butt (lol) but I dont know if my b/f is cheating cuz when we're 2gether I feel like im in love but when we're not 2gether i am talking to him sometimes but I juss have dis feeling he "MIGHT" be cheating on me. Wat do I do??
201806
Well really you don't know, but women have intuition we have a gut feeling, in your heart you know your suspisicions are right. You can find out if u want to though.
274143
you are just giving him space, not breaking up with him.  you shouldn't get with this other guy.  i would consider that cheating.
347557
well staying in the relationship cuz of transportation reasons is really a bad and probably unhappy choice. You definintely need to break it off with him.he's not respecting you and even if he hasn't physically cheated on you he is still cheating by obviously saying stuff to girls he doesn't want you to know. in 2002 when I was with my b/f at the time,I was in his dorm and I was sitting on the bed and he had this chart thing on the comp, it had everyone's phone number and he freaked out at me, cuz I was looking at the screen and it was because there was a girl's phone number on there. I wouldn't have thought anything of it but he was feeling guilty.he eventually told me everything a week or so later.Everything started to make sense. he said ya know how I've been acting strange. well an example was I was talking to him on the phone and he said he was going out and I said oh what are you doing and he said GOING OUT! and I'm like omg wtf? ya know and it hurt,again that was him feeling bad about what he was doing.I mean what wrote seems a lot like what my friend Tom does.he's in a kinda controling relationship.he actually got married a year ago,definitely too young and he does say stuff to me that he shouldn't,so he sneaks around too on the phone and internet.You already saw a pic of a girls butt on his phone.that's cheating enough.You need to be like I'm letting you go.You obviously don't want 2 be here and you don't respect me and you don't care enough so you don't have to sneak around anymore cuz I'm threw with you. and then tell him to leave. ya gotta be tough like that cuz if you're not you might break down and let him back in.block his number and any communincation with him cuz it seems you might just go back to him.I dunno how old you guys are,but most likely he's gonna stay this way,unless he's a teenager and still young.Don't try to change him.just be done with him.Guys won't change unless they want to and you can't make them want to change.so many girls waste their time trying to change guys and it won't work and all it does is hurt you.Ya gotta just try and be happy and I'm sure another guy will come along.Just stay strong and be with family and friends for support.I hope everything works out for you.Just keep your hopes up and everything will be good.Think positively and confidently and you'll be happy.
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I feel for you on this one.......what I've noticed with the one girl that cheated on me is that you stop talking about your feeling for one another and try to hide what he did that night.  The shorter the conversations the more likely it is that the other person is cheating on you........
557194
i think that you have every right to be suspicious and i think that he is most likely cheating again. i would say to divorce him. and dont' feel bad about it. the bible states the reason for divorce being adultery. so you're in the right. *hug* God bless you, hon and email or IM me if you want to talk some more.
315444
If you dont trust him then you shouldnt be together.  E/one needs a part of them, all to themselves.  He's telling you stuff, so just accept what he tells ya.  But you need to see others as well.  Sneaky is not good.
558209
Is it a "was" or happening now? Im confused. Anyway, cheaters usually cannot look straight in the eyes of their partners if being confronted about it. Be aware of his actions like stepping a few meters away from you when talking on the phone, whispering and having a good (and naughty) laugh. Suspect him that he's cheating if you do not see your picture in his wallet anymore.\nBut are you really sure or your just paranoid? If he really does, then start asking yourself why he's into it. Examine yourself if you may be in fault. To make him stop, assure him of your love and express (and emphasize in action) why he should be sticking with you more than anyone else. :D
93556
I have bad news for you: YOU are playing *him*.  He's been nothing but honest with you, and you're not being honest even with yourself.  You know how he feels, yet still keep in contact with him... because you like the attention.  He makes you feel good about yourself.  But you're only stringing him along.
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It doesn't sound like he loves you necessarily. Though, if he seems preoccupied with you, then he may have deep feelings for you... or just maybe is trying to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable I think the best way to resolve these issues is to break up with your boyfriend (if you cheated on him you are probably not satisfied completely wtih him) and then tell the guy you really like exactly how you feel.
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don't always believe guys who are telling you that your bf fooled around cause true friends don't tell sometimes guys say that cause they want you but if you truly feel he cheated then there is a 99% chance he did. look for little signs like he tries kissing different, and see how they act around each other people always tell on themselves that way. and if they act strange then leave men are replace able
513534
Ask some friends if they think he is cheating on you.  Confront your boyfriend and see how he responds.  Of course, you don't want to tell him who told you.  Check out his body language and try to gauge his sincerity if he says he didn't.  If someone's telling you what you really want to hear, it's hard to tell if they're being honest or lying, so watch carefully and pay attention to what your instincts tell you.  This friend of his might have been telling you the truth, but he might have been lying to you in hopes that you'll break it off with his friend and he'll have a chance with you himself.
236449
No. He's basically hiding things from you. You feel like he should be able to tell you anything. But because he's keeping things from you, its like he doing something behind your back, like cheating. You may be feeling a little insecure but its only because he's making you feel that way.
437384
Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
173687
Ask him. By his response, you can tell if he is lying or not. Look for signs that he is cheating. He is loving you or avoiding you? Follow your heart, but don't be afraid to play the field too!
418912
Well I dont quite know what to think either?\n\nJudging by the question, you seem to have troubles with the boyfriend? I am probably wrong here because you question is a little hard to understand. However, I shall answer it like this anyway.\n\n\nFirstly, you should NEVER jumped to conclusions that he's cheating \nbecause you dont get to talk to him, etc.\n\nHowever, I would get a little suspisious of something in your position. I think you need to re-consider his intentions? What exactly does he want in your relasionship?\n\nAt the end of the day, your question isnt really detailed enough to come up with some useful answers (if any lol). I mean, how long have the two of you been dating?\n\nIf you havent been dating long enough.... then dont take this guy seriously. I wouldnt take a girl seriously if she acts the way your guy does. Oh well.... what do I know?\n\nGoing by your question, he doesnt take you seriously and the best way to solve this issue is by talking to him. I hope it all goes well for you, but be prepared to leave him if he contiues the same ways. I would certainly prepare myself for this, etc.\n\nGood luck!!
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you can tell if he is cheating on you, if he is acting strange when you ask him questions, if he isnt spending as much time with you as  he use too spend. only you can tell if she has changed since you started your relationship. if you are questioning his honesty now, then maybe he is cheating on you.
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You poor thing.  Finding little clues to him maybe cheating are probably eating you up inside.  If he won't admit anything, don't push it.  I would just keep a close eye on him with out him getting a clue as to what you are doing.  Act normal.  He WILL mess up.  I promise.  When he does, even though it hurts, leave him and take him for all he's got.  No one, even if you have a bad relationship, deserves to be treated like that.