His dad doesn't take time for him and doesn't know what to say and neither do I.
202655
Its very normal. usually little boys do that around 4-5. Just explain to him in passing that we should always take care of our bodies, and that some parts are more sensitive than others, and that messing with his private parts can cause infection, just as much as sticking your fingers in your eye. \n\nyou should take this time in his life to also reassure him that no one but himself and his parents should ever have a reason to see him unclothed, and that no one but himself should clean or touch that private area. He's a big kid now after all.\n\nAt that age he should be in about 3 or 4th grade thats generally when they start adressing parts of the body in class, its possible he never realized that part of his body was really functional for anything but going potty until then.\n\nA boy of his age would be expected to wonder about his.. bits and pieces. Just reassure him that he's normal and to always take care of himself. It doesnt need to be a huge sit-down discussion.\n\nAlso, if you havent had the talk with him, you might want to take time to do that now. I have never known many children of his age and grade range who didnt know. If he hasnt heard from you its quite possible he's heard from a school mate. Talking about sex is only as difficult and uncomfortable as you make it. So be calm and cover all the bases, your a big grown up person, he's a little kid who has a need to know how to handle his body.
410120
Hes confused and lost my dear. Somthing is troubling him, most likely something from his childhood, maybe his parents beat him a little, it could be a number of things. If you love him then you dont hate him, you just hate the way that he is, talk with him, dig a little but take it slow. Find  out whats going on in that brain of his! Good luck, God bless
12338
well my dad is like that to when he ask you whats up say nothin if he call you put your phone on vibret come on its a dad thats what dads do
150676
I definitally think you should call him! If he is having issues about him thinking that no one cares about him like his parents, maybe him knowing that you care regardless and someone that isnt soposed to care or isnt responcible to look after him cares or loves him enough to look in on him, might just make him see that regardless of what his parents are doing or not doing somone out there gives a shiznet about what happens to him and someone is out there to give a helping hand and give guidance when they dont have to do it, by all means stay in touch with this kid, if he really doesnt have his parents he can have you, i wouldnt pressure him to talk to you about everything but just let him know that you will always be there and you will always hear him out, no matter how lost or confused he is :) Dont be just one more person to turn their back to him, thats just going to make his situation worse ya know :) *HUGS* its awsome that you care!!!
41935
Maybe he isn't worth your time.  Or maybe he is trying to tell you something
474470
The strangeness you feel is a little guilt for the fight and feeling like you made him cry.  But you both talked and apologized to each other.  It's all good, Dad's have big hearts, and they're tough to break.  I think it's great he cried, he obviously felt what you're going through.  If a Dad can't be a shoulder to lean on who can be?  Be yourself, give him a hug and tell him you appreciate that he listened.  The talks with him will get easier from now on.  You broke some ice.  You both cleared some air and that's good it may open things up further between the two of you.
178063
he doesnt no one does live with it
648597
A man who has no clue
333955
I don't even know when father's day is...
377707
Sounds as though he doesn't want to commit real seriously and that he feels if you met the parents it would be doing so.
632625
Yeah, he doesn't give a damn about your opinion and thoughts.
116297
Your dad is trying to hang on to you.  You're growing up too fast for him.  I think he's afraid of loosing you.  Be patient this too shall pass. You must stand your ground though if you are of legal age but reassure him that you will always be his baby.
110719
Is he really that scared?  If you don't make a big deal about it, chances are he won't either.  Kids usually take a que from their parents, and then act on it.
166185
Maybe he has a long lost son you don't know about.
578059
he is probably shy and doesn't like people knowing of his affections.
648010
Listen to your instincts.  Something says that he is a fickle, undecisive, and immature person.  Give him space to grow up a bit.  You never know.  He may change for the better.
75460
it might be true since he does not say anything you should talk to him and find out what is going on