he says he loves me all the time but he never wants to spend genuine time together. he just wants to kiss and touch me.  i don't mind being intimate but is it that much to ask for him to show an interest in what i'm saying?!
212899
You know, if he shows no interest in what you're saying, then he's not ever going to.  And therefore, he's not interested in you.  Maybe in the physical aspect he is, but nothing more..
471744
You are entitled to withhold sex whenever you want.  I think, however that Love is not demonstrated just in sex.  Does he do other things that make you feel like he loves you, does he care about your well-being?  about your interest? does he treat you with respect and affection?  If he loves you he would not want to hurt you and confuse you.  If it was me, I would stop having sex, and would start simply dating.  I just want to say that you want a guy who is certain that he wants you and wants to work on the entire relationship not just sex.
620266
He may not be comfortable expressing his romantic side with you because he is unsure of how you will see him. He may want to be seen as masculine and may see showing tenderness as feminine. This is why I don't get into the gender bending stuff. He may be confused that real men don't want to kiss and he sees you as his woman so he is not going to initiate anything tender. Or maybe he is used to not having to initiate anything. If he has only been with guys much older they may have done everything to him so he didn't have to make a move on his own.  If he enjoys the sex then he will eventually learn that you require some heating up on his part and you need to give him positive reinforcement. When he does even the smallest nice thing for you praise him as though it where a grand romantic gesture. As he realizes how much that turns you on he will gradually expound on that. \nOne other thing that might just might help. Talk to him. Tell him you want him to take the lead every once in a while tell him you need him to take your hand on occasion and sometimes you would like him to just reach out and grab you, pull you close and kiss you. It may be awkward at first but if he gets enough reward for his efforts then he will continue with gusto.
377660
Am sorry to say so,but it seems he's not very much in love with you (even if he says that he is) if he loves you,he would create time for you ...no words such as "busy"when it comes to a loved one...consider breaking up with him,and see how does he react...if he freaked and changed his way with you,give him another chance ,if not...then you find yourself someone as sweet as you are...you deserve much more than phone chatting.BTW if caring didn't come from deep inside of him,you wouldn't be able to MAKE him care.
78904
If you are not in a relationship, then the line has already been drawn.  He's overstepping his boundaries, and needs to be put in his place.  If he's possessive and you're not in a relationship already, please don't get into a relationship with him.
30572
To me if he keeps playing with you he dosen't take you seriously. Or maybe he's just afraid to tell you what he is really feeling. You should have a talk with him and just lay everything on the tableto see what's really going on.
78197
From what I can see he wants you for sex only. and seeing as you don't like sex why would your consider having sex with a guy like this? This is a guy wants sex not a relationship. Stay clear and forget this guy. I hope you can find a guy that does like sex either. Good luck
87087
Your right to be concerned.  It sounds like this guy is all talk and no action.  If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then he would.  Right now it sounds like this is just a game for him with you being his back up.
432928
Seems like he's still a bit emotionally attached but not ready to jump back into a relationship. I'm not sure if this means he's in love with you still, or if he's just having trouble letting go, but either way he seems just as confused as you.\nIf I were you I'd confront him. See what his deal is, and hopefully you can work it out.
449564
i would ask him what he really wants because i can already tell your not just in it for the sex. if he doesn't want to be with you i'd stop the sex because your just gonna keep getting more attatched good luck :)
28043
Depending on my realationship with this man depends on how I want him to act. \n\nFirst, you did say cuddling in the movies, so I can only assume that both of us would have to be into each other so I think I would like for a man to be slightly aggressive, to let me know he is just as interested as I am. \n\nI would love a man that asks if everything is cool in regards to the hungry, thirsty, etc. But as far as him asking if Im just ok?, it would depend on if there was really something bothering me. I wouldn't want a guy to just ask it and keep asking when theres nothing wrong with me. Its really cool when he can tell if I am upset or if I'm just in a quiet mood. \n\nI definitely like  the man that can just sit back and kick it. It means that you two are comfortable enough to just hang with each other without all the groping and grunting all the time. It's nice to know you can just relax around someone that you are also romantically interested in. If he can't just relax some days out of the time you are dating and always has to have his hands on you, I dont like that. I mean, a hand on the knee or arm around the shoulder is cool, but I dont want to make out every second of every time we are together. I hope that answers your question lol.
422399
Well I am currently dating a Libra and he is still unsure after 3 years if he wants to move this relationship to the next level.  I ask him and he freaks out that I am pressuring him.  We really don't have conflicts.  Just basic relationship woes everyone goes through.  I knew he liked me when he started calling me on a daily basis.  He doesn't like talking on the phone and doesn't answer it unless it's me calling.
467710
Sounds to me like he got a lil flaky on you and his attraction for you is wavering because of a: You not responding and b: maybe it'st just his thing. The tables have turned so if you really want to persue this relationship, go and do more then just call him up. Meet with him and discuss things.
537214
If he is only making comments about the two of you being together when you are alone, I don't think he is very serious about creating a different relationship.  If he says these things in front of others, then he probably wants to pursue a romance with you.
191710
ask him why he says "no" everytime you want to get intimate. If he says he wants to wait, then give him some time and be patient. You can't push a man, believe me! If you really like him then respect his wishes, but first ask him why he says no. Talk things out. Maybe that should clear things up for ya.
248937
I think you're best letting this one go. He obviously isn't in for the "long haul" and if he gets bored with you that easy, then he's just not the one for you.  Yes, the "love rush" wears off in ANY relationship, but if there isn't a friendship and caring left that makes him want to stay, then let him go. I'm sorry this happened to you, but you are better off honey. Find someone who will always love you.
560260
Sounds more like he is lusting after you. Not love. If you decide to get in a relationship with him, make sure he knows that you aren't looking for a physical relationship. Unless that is what you are looking for.