all of his friends tell me to step my game up an tell him how i feel he acts like we go out i stay cacthing him lookin at me even when he tries to sit somewhere i cant see him. hes always worried about me and if i dont go to school its a problem.he always ask my opinion on things. and we still have sex, he always lookin  at me in my eyes he gets mad if i look at another boy
218332
i think he still wants to be with you. he just seems to be a little over protective and gets jealous when u look at another guy. u should talk to him about that
664947
Talk to him about it.  Tell him that you don't feel secure wit hthe way his "friends" look.  Explain that you love him and are jealous.
34720
Find a way to communicate with him outside of school.  Try sending him an email, or if you've got his telephone # call him. He probably just don't need the kids teasing him about you and prefer to not deal with it, but that does not mean that he does not like you, he may or may not, but there is only one way to find out, so try to speak with him on different grounds and you'd know exactly how he feels.
566862
He is a shy guy and you are is second girlfriend. Give him time to be comftable around you. He is probably nervous that you will not like him. I am shy too, but after a while I'll trust and feel comftable around guys I meet. \n\nBut I don't get the part of his friends following him when he was following you.
524032
I know what its like . Does he treat you the same way he treats any other girl? If he does things like smile at you all the time it is a big chance theres chemistry. Send your friend undercov. again to talk to him about you then ask her what he said. You can show him that you're interested by touching his arm and laughing at jokes but dont get too personal 'cause if theres a chance he doesn't feel the same way you will be totally embarrassed
502291
Well, i've been in kind of the same situation. I say try and talk to him about it. If he's always hitting on you and such there has to be something behind it maybe he's with the girl to get you jealous and to want him more. Us girls do sometimes tend to like the guys we can't have so maybe he's playing that role. But first just talk to him about how you feel if he feels the same way then great, if not what do you really have to lose?
193406
stir things up a bit, start joking and looking at other guys in his presence,see how he likes it,it doesn't feel so great when the shoe is on the other foot,he will either become jealous and speak to you about it,or just ingnore the fact that you are now looking too,if he becomes jealous and confronts you about it,tell him you are only doing it so he can see how much his doing it hurts you,if he is still a jerk and doesn't get it,dump him,if he completly ignores the fact you are looking at other men he is either to the point he doesn't care about you anymore or he is totally secure in the realationship that you have together,it sounds to me like he is a jerk anyway,if you have already mentioned that it bothers you then he should have stopped out of consideration for you,and saved that type of behavior when he is around his guy friends,it is only natural for him to look at other women but it isn't right for him to be doing it in front of you,you are supposed to be his world and have the attention when he is with you\n if you aren't ready to part with him just yet maybe you can turn it into a game,start rating the women he looks at on a scale from 1-10,if he sees a pretty woman and makes a coment,say to him i give her a 10 or a 3 or whatever you like,if you show it doesn't bother you he actually may like you more,he is probably liking the negative attention he is getting from you,scolding him for looking is making him feel important and wanted he knows it makes you jealous,if you turn things around to a positive thing he may either stop doing it as he knows it doesn't bother you anymore or it will bring you closer...good luck
193439
I think the reason he's acting this way is that he likes you.. he really really likes you, and has romantic feelings towards you.  By talking about other girls, he's trying to make you jealous.  i think that you should just give him time to come around and realize how much he misses your friendship.  or, you should be straightforward with him and tell him that you value your friendship, and you don't like him romantically (just so you don't give him any false hope).
157175
Sounds like he just wants you to be a groupie of his. If you don't want to, then stick to your guns! Give him the cold shoulder, if you have to. You don't need him.
46402
having been that dorky nervous guy in a previous life, i can tell you this, you will hurt him.  No matter what you do, but how badly is something you can control. here is my suggestion:  don't slam him, don't tell him how you feel straight out.  when he is around talk about other guys your interested in, maybe talk about how you like certain things about them that he doesn't do, such as when they flirt they aren't annoying.  and when you talk to him about your relationship make it very clear that he is "like a brother" to you and that he is just such a great FRIEND.  if things get really bad you could start saying things like Jokingly saying "you are a rad friend, which is good cause i think if we ever dated We'ld kill each other."  or other things that make it obvious that you have no intention of ever taking the relationship to a higher level.
261079
I wouldn't ask anybody if he likes you, but him himself!  I mean can't nobody tell you the truth, but him.  I think you should really talk to him and let him know how you feel if he is mature enough to talk to.  If not, why be with him??? What is it about this person that makes you really all into him that you can't find from somebody else that treats you better and doesn't get mad at you over petty stuff, you don't have to give him sex everytime you see him, and you can talk to during the day?  Are you the only one he is talking too and having sex with?  Don't put yourself out there if you know what I mean.  But seriously, what guy do you know isn't going to get mad at you if he finds out that you are talking to somebody... lets not be dumb about it.  A male will get mad because he thinks you are giving another male the attention that he wants.  Dude may like you or should I say the way you look, but that is it... like maybe it would be better off if ya'll were just friends... would it hurt???  How long were you all friends before you started dating or more importantly having sex with him???  Think about your feelings.  If you aren't happy or feeling like you are unsure about things, that is a sign that you should move on.  I bet if you stop having sex with him he will start treating you like crap and why is it that he can't call you during the day?  These are the types of things that I used to have to ask myself when I would find myself in those types of situations.  I am young and I just like sharing the type of advice that I learned from all three of my brothers and both of my sisters.  So trust me, I have seen the game played and all.   What do you think you should do???
43088
If he is constantly flirting with other girls, then it's understandable to be jealous. If you told him you don't like him flirting all the time and he does it anyway, then you should break up with him. He won't stop doing it, and his behavior is making you unhappy.\n\nBUT (and this is a big but) if he is just talking to other girls, you are in the wrong and should try to control your feelings. Boys don't put up with girls telling them who they can and can't talk to or be friends with. You are going to drive him (and many other boys) away. You should try to reevaluate your feelings.
97893
There's no way for this to not be a two-part answer. Firstly, he's right in that it is human nature for males to notice other females *and* for females to notice other males - it's just an animalistic, survival thing.\n\nHOWEVER, it is *exceptionally* disrespectful toward you for him to admit being aroused by looking at other women, or to blatantly look at other women (especially when in your presence.) It is not at all unrealistic of you to be upset by his behavior and ask him to tone it down. He should care enough about your feelings that he won't want to intentionally hurt you by keeping it up.\n\nIf you explain that it hurts your feelings (and probably your self-esteem) when he behaves this way, ask him to be more discreet, and he *still* doesn't bother, it may be time to look into counseling. This is obviously his hang-up, and he may need help to see the effect that his behavior is having on your relationship. Good luck.
190174
Some boys are like that. Try and get over it. Tell him that you only like him as a friend and that you like someone else.
271414
Yes, I've been there. It sucks! But you have to be true to yourself. I let the guy know that I wasn't all about being his P.O.A. I wanted a relationship. I am not the type of girl that you can call whenever you want a booty-call. I told him that. I gave him a few chances to change how he was towards me, and he didn't. I told him I was tired of how he treated me, and I left. You have to be true to you, and don't give in to be with someone. Don't give him the chance to use you for sex. Make him want you before he wants sex. You are young. You will find someone who wants to be with you for you and not for sex. Make the person wait. If he's into you, he'll wanna be with you for you before you sleep with him. As far as the following, and calling thing. Tell him he needs to get over it, and stop his crap. If he doesn't, and it gets to where you are scared (past the point of just plain tired of it) I would look into a restraining order, or talk with a police officer or counselor at school as far as what you should do, but be careful. Dont let something like that go, either. That could get ugly, and scary.
164104
if he really likes you he will wise up and say something before he loses you. if you feel brave confront him. let him know that you notice he is always staring at you. if you like him say something to him. try to get together and hang out at some point. good luck.
554828
hes retarded....if he were worth the time he would confront the situation and ask you out...not play stupid power games with other boys...its not about you that he does that in front of the other guy\n...its about him...and being better than the other guy, he cares nothing for you