i realy like this guy and i know he likes me he looks at me some tims but i want him to ask me out but he is shy and so am i what do i do also there is this other girl that likes him and i think he might be intersted i her also how do i talk his attion from her and make him look at me
217002
Open your mouth and say "Hi" and then smile.
366626
since your shy it may be easier to go out in a group date or outing.  some of your friends and some of his.  go bowling or something interactive (not the movies, you cant talk- or see for that matter)  and take it slowly.  ask him about simple things then move on from there.  if he likes you as much as he shows you, once you start to show interest he'll come around to you.
5440
You have to ask yourself if you think he may be worth the effort of finding out just what his deal is. It might be like some of the others said and he may just be shy or nervous.  If you really like him step up and take charge, ask him out. If isnt worth a little effort then dont put in the effort. It's totally up to you.  Then again you could just tell him that if he wants a chance with you at all he is just gonna have to prove to you that he wants one.
548328
Just come to him and deliver these lines with a complete straight face:\n\n"Hey, [HIS NAME]!\n\nI've seen you around and [PAUSE] I was thinking what kind of guy you are. You look like a cool guy, but a little bit shy. Am I right?"\n\nNow, when he is trying to convince you he is not shy, ask him why he looked at you so many times but didn't ask you out.
433557
let him know you like him and see how he reacts to this then say maybe we can go out some time. that way he can be able to ask you out instead. then you don't have to worry about it.
555320
Do you like him? You need to start talking to him and be friends. Since I am shy, I would get one of my friends who know him to introduce him to me when we are all together. You could also approach him and introduce yourself as a friend of one of your friends. Find a common interest (sports, activities) and start up a conversation. This should get you guys talking, and then you can move further. Good luck!
589590
hmmm...try to talk to him and see how's his reaction towards the conversation..if he likes you,he'll start talking,ask you to accompany him to go places..maybe will even ask u out..good luck..don't rush..
169634
Yeah I think he likes you but maybe he's just shy.  Why don't you try talking to him, see what his reaction is.  You could just start off with casual conversation and take it from there.
24894
Well it seems that your doing everything right so far.\n\nBut you must remember that guys are shy when it becomes to girls that they like. \n\nI really think he likes you (which is why he is quiet) so if you up to it, just ask him and i know he will feel more confident and start talking more about his feelings.\n\nAt least that works for me.
74079
I think you should just ask him why he's staring at you, and if he doesn't tell you then just either ignore it or have your sister ask his interestif she told him, or if she knows anything about what's going on.\n\nAlso if he likes another girl (are you absolutely sure? if he told you then that's basically the end of it, but if someone else told you then it might not be true.) then you shouldn't think about him and you should try to move on, because you never know... there might be someone else that likes you, and you haven't noticed because you're focusing on him too much.\n\nAnother thing, if he keeps on staring at you, and not talking about it or not explaining himself, then he might not have a purely romantic intrest in you, and he might be looking for something else, (especially if he likes another girl...) and you should definitely try to get to the bottom of it, or completely forget about him.
658812
Chances are high that he likes you too. What you can do: \n\n1) If he flirts back and he knows you'r single, chances are even better than he likes you.\n\n2) Get him in a group with some of your other girlfriends. Girls are pretty good at telling whether or not a guy likes another girl. Get the ladys' advice. \n\n3) Keep hanging out with him and see what happens. The last thing you want is to think that you like him when you actually just miss him as a really good friend. Figure stuff out for yourself before figuring out what to do with him. \n\n4) You can always ask his friends. Chances are his guy friends will tell him that you asked about him though. So watch out. \n\nGood luck!
530367
Ok, if he is a more outgoing guy, chances are that he will try to get closer to you over a short period of time. He may start talking to you more and more (ect.). If he is shy, he will likely give you lots of glances, but may be too nervous to talk to you. The best way in either case would be to start talking to them. Hope this helped a bit and good luck.
456941
I had this same problem not too long ago. He made me feel like I was already his gf but I wasn't. He asked me out a couple times but I always thought of it as a joke, because he told me he liked these other girl(s). So my advise to you is, don't fall for it just yet. He might of liked you last year and maybe likes you this year too. But just to make sure ask him in person if he was just kidding or if he really meant it. Hope my advise helps you.
170344
Ask him yourself.  Don't pay someone to do it for you.  If you like a guy, express it, communicate it and if he isn't interested, move on.  Don't waste time on him.  Ultimately, it is for your benefit to get together with this guy and it is best if you try to get over some of your shyness.  You never will if you don't try.  Good luck.
210545
The problem I see here is that you, as well as me, are the kind of person who assumes too much and is always dreading to take risks because you wouldn't like other people (=not only guys) to dislike you or reject you.  If the game is ASSUMING then why don't you assume that he is as shy as you are and he just doesn't find the way to approach you.  Get rid of assumptions!  You won't go on him and tell him... 'Hey, I like you... no wait... I like you so much that I even think I love you..."  Nahhhhh!  If it is difficult for you to talk to guys they think of him as a girl (=don't laugh I mean it)  I also went to a gilrs school but it was for 3 years and besides I have a brother, anyway, IT DOES WORK!  Any time I wanted to tell something to a guy I thought 'ok he is the same of a girl because both are people'.\n\nThe obstacle here is the fact that you like him so pretend (=just pretend) that you don't like him and that you are going to go on ANYONE else... this way you won't be so nervous and it will be easier.\n\nOnce you talk then you can think on making your movements, you'll be more confident then... you might discover that he is shy too, or that he has the same feelings for you or that he just likes you as a friend (crossed fingers that not).  \n\nIn short,\n#1 Do not assume too much.\n#2 Take the risk.\n#3 Pretend that you don't like him and go on him.\n#4 Talk with him, know him, have fun.\n#5 What other people think is not yerr business.\n\n,-)
206663
I think i know how this guy feels. He's just like me. I'm a very shy person, especially to towards this one girl I like. I think she knows that i like her but my head is confused (about: if she is the one). \nWhat I do is bring a friend that knows the both of us (or a very easy to talk to friend) and i invite HER along to do something. So I told them both I needed help shopping for clothes. And it worked out pretty good.\nSo think of doing something that you both will enjoy and try it. And if he is like me, he might be a klutz too. When I'm around HER I always mess something up, so don't be surprise if he anything like that happens.
227912
If you want to know, you have to know the real him...I dont mean get to know him cuz, that takes too long. You have to see how he flirts with you and the other girls...or Sht, Just ask him....If ur too shy, You can tell by the look in his eyes....Eye's neva lie