Incase we have an argument and i know that my friend is at fault,should i try to correct her(but what if she gets offended)or just keep my mouth shut and end the argument by saying shez right.
213974
This is like most relationships. Its give and take...Your friend wont be a real friend if she cant deal with your feelings and opinions. You may be wrong, so what, you have the feelings correct or not. If you talk things out you will find a common ground.
598235
well i would be pissed off. if she keeps insisting it's fine and she isn't laughing it's not fine. you fucked up. good luck:D
365234
If you're not torn up about it, let it go. If you tell them "this person said you said this..." the situation may resolve itself.\n\n.
373399
well i think u should tell her to shut up and mind her own business, she has no right to tell u what friends u can have and what guys you should like, and if she is still in ur way then i say u should punch the bitch
440154
I would genuinely apologize for saying something that offended him and assure him that it won't happen again ---- and then let the ball be in his court. Also, you might mention that his actions in that situation won't be tolerated either. Just watch out for this guy -- he seems kind of like a loose cannon. And definitely one of those people that can "dish it, but not take it" --- just apologize and see what happens. Good Luck!
320022
You tell her that what she did truly hurt you, and see how she reacts.\n\nIf it doesn't seem like she's really sorry or just doesn't seem right, tell her you were JK and you're surprised she took the bait. (Lie, but it saves face and makes her mad. Spite is a sin, however.)\n\nIf she seems genuanly (Spllng?) sorry, it should all be good. Just remember, Her BF has priority, she herself proved that.
273287
Even a honest and sincere apology coming straight from your heart may mot be sufficient to make it acceptable without doubt. You must understand the personality of your friend because he/she has to accept the apology. Do whatever he/she expects in the form of a sincere apology. Some people would be satisfied with a mere sorry. Others might demand 'a pound of flesh'.
166765
first calm down. 2nd apologize..and explain that whatever it is you meant was taken the wrong way. If they are really your friends they will hear you out.\nxoxo
100930
If she has seen the evidence and still refuses to believe the facts, then there is nothing else you can do. If you keep pushing the subject she could get angry with you and you could lose a friend. And keep in mind that it IS possible you and other friends have misread his actions. But if in the end, she realizes what has happened, just be sure to comfort her and avoid telling her, "I told you so."
35183
I strongly recommend writing him a letter. Make sure that when you apologize, if that's what you want to do, to do it for all the things that you said, and none of the things that he might have said at that time. Do not bring his part of the conversation into it; it's about you and your self-defense mechanism of being hurtful, not about anything he may have said (it's important to keep that in mind). Let him know why you lashed out, and that it's something that you do from time to time, and how it's something you wish you could avoid but can't right now, and that you're working on it (then you can make yourself work on it, right?). Then tell him that you value his friendship and hope that you can be friends once again. But remember that when you apologize you must do it from what went wrong on your side, not his. You can't change him, only yourself. And give it time. Guys have a warped view of time; we can let months pass without realizing it. Be nice, be honest, and be yourself, and he'll be your friend again.
271697
Do what you think is right.  If she can't respect you for that she really might not be that good of a friend to begi nwith.
374570
If you are friends maybe you should just agree to disagree and forget the whole thing. This may be her way of doing that
265399
Don't waste your time being mad. Just find other friends, and some day she will realize the errors of her ways and change. If she doesn't, then you are not a friend, so it won't matter.
381479
He want's you to be what you were before you argued, but he's not sure how to do that. I don't know who was wrong becasue you didn't write anything here, but I suspect he may think that you owe him a sincere apology.\n\nJust a theory. If you were wrong somehow, it's a bigger person to be able to say you are sorry.
461911
Stop messing up maybe.  Sometimes people won't take apology's if you keep repeating your bad actions. Show her your sorry instead of saying it.
109160
Pretend that you're confused or baffled or something... Then walk up to her and say "My friend and I were arguing , and we want to know ...." Basically ask any question. Just appear to be confused and appear that you really need their help.
60339
6 years ago - what you're friend said to you was very insensitive.  It sounds as if she finally realized what she's done wrong, but if she acted as if nothing's happened and can't seem to recall the hurtful things she's said to you years before, mayB U need to remind her that what she said to you (when you were in a state a mourning) was very hurtful and let her know that her remark had placed a damper on your friendship.  Honestly, we're all human and we all do make mistakes with the things we say or do.  I'd say give your friend another chance, but be clear on the reasons why you haven't kept in touch with her all those years and be honest with how you really felt.\n\nAt least this is my opinion.  I've also learned from past mistakes and I've lost some valuable friendships, because I've never expressed to them how I really felt about certain issues.