been dating for over 3 months, and I have told her, wont put up with lieing,  but when I tell her, thats not what she told me ealier, she says, she didnt say that!!
217044
Please now this..... One lie leads to others and small lies lead to big ones. If she is lying about small stuff who know is she is lying about other things. I mean look at the situation a liar is a liar. And lying in a relationship breaks the trust. U will stop trusting her and things will fall apart so its best that u set it straight and let her know either she stop lying or its over........
131098
I'm a girl and I would be devastated if my BF told me that.  Sometimes things are just better left unsaid.  She would lose respect for you at the least.  If you don't want the chance of losing her and you DO love her, keep it to yourself. :-)  Believe me, I've kept the same thing to myself.  Girls are sometimes just after some nice hard...ya know..and then we get hit with the love bug!! haha
333830
Why start you relationship off lying...
560941
maybe she has some issues in her past relationships. if she's comfortable enough around you she will tell you, just be patient. Sometimes its not good to assume, it should come from her.
540642
Have you tried talking to her? Maybe she's trying to tell you something in a different way. Honesty is the best answer  so sit down with her tell you how you feel about what she's doing and ask her why she's doing it. Maybe she does want a break up or maybe she just wants your attention and some special time together. You won't know till you try but I'd see whats up before permanent damage is done to your relationship.
113135
If she wasn't going to tell you and couldn't even be honest with you when she was going out on that date, I'd say you did the right thing.  You can't build a life together if there are secrets and lies.  And to me, omission is as good as a lie.
75963
She shouldn't have lied to you, but don't leave her over it. It's her past. She can't help what she's already done. It can't be changed.
114399
Okay, she doesn't love you.  If she did she'd be able to say it.  She'd also be willing to leave her primary relationship.  You appear to be merely a plaything on the side.  She probably is getting a major ego boost out of you being her puppy-dog.  If you're willing to be second-best then by all means continue the sex part of the relationship but don't expect her to tell you she loves you anytime soon.
72332
This is reality. People lie. In a relationship, there has to be honesty or it will never work out. It's best that she is gone. You will find someone new. Learn as you go along in life and always watch your back ...
258467
Have you ever lied?  Ask yourself, why did you lie?\n\nIt sounds like she is lying to protect you and that she does care for you.  She needs to understand how her behavior makes you feel.  "When you lie to me, it makes me feel ___."  Remember, feelings are one-word things, like sad, mad, happy, betrayed, etc.  Feelings are not sentences.  Use "I" statements and tell her about you, not her.  These are the building blocks of effective communication.\n\nIf she won't change her behavior once she understands that her lies are hurting you, then she doesn't care about you and you will have to accept that.\n\nHopefully some clear communication will work this situation out for you both.\n\nAnd remember, half of communication is listening.\n\nBest of luck with a tough situation.
150633
yeah dude she is just trying to get ur attention! leave her well alone she has some deep seated issues. nice of you to try dude but sope people cant be helped. sounds like she lies all the time.stay well away!!
304352
at this point in the relationship it really does not matter. if she told you she was not feeling you then take it as she said it. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU....so in her world it doesn,t matter how much you love her,she doesn,t love you. sorry
167302
She may or may not be telling you the truth.  How would she know anyway?  That being said...maybe you should take a break from starting a new relationship and nurture yourself and your family.  Your value is independent of whomever you are in a relationship with.  Take care of yourself and your girls, and when you are feeling good about yourselves, then its timetogetback into a relationship mindset
132064
Well my first advise is to quit playing games. No girl wants a guy that wont be honest from the beginning. Now you have to work to earn her trust back. When maybe in the first place maybe she would have said yes if you werent playing these dumb games with her
71821
she probably still loves you very much but, its so convient not too. Shes probably thinking that telling you would hurt more you just find out. some people who cheat and dont tell maybe think that its easier not to tell cause that would also mean they have to start all over in finding somewhere to live and someone to live with.
144507
Trust is always a good thing in a relationship and it sounds like she doesn't have it. You guys need to try a calm talk instead of yelling back and forth. Tell her how she's making you feel by always accusing you of cheating. Tell her that you are not cheating. Once she starts yelling (or vice versa) conversation ends. You need to learn how to communicate w/out the yelling. If you guys can't do that and she still can't seem to trust you then it's time to move on and find someone who will.
130689
Did you ever think she may be telling the truth? Give her the benefit of the doubt. The question I have is why is it ok for men to sleep with someone on the first date and get no rep for it, but for women it is different?????? Besides she might be a really great person and you will loose out on the relationship, remember you were there with her!