i have a boyfriend but i dont know if i should trust him because he doesnt be sometimes acting sweet with me he sometimes call me when he doesnt he says that he be forgetting
207292
ask him!\n\nthe number one key of a successful relationship is communication.
212052
probably he got hurt in a previouse relationship, and is caring that untrust over into your relationship. Or he is not trustworthy himself, and expects you to be the same way. To earn his trust be nice to him and don't give him any reason not to trust you. However if he is untrustworthy he will never fully trust you.
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Ask him if he's seeing anyone else. If you love him and trust him you will probably believe him. If you don't trust him, even if he's telling the truth it won't matter.\n\nIt could just be that your boyfriend is a shameless flirt! I know I'm dating one. He has more female friends than I do but it doesn't bother me when he hangs out with them or talks to them on the phone because I trust him.
183835
Is it that you don't trust him or you don't trust anyone? If it is just him, then whether you are right or wrong, move on. Without trust, it's doomed. If you have a problem with trust period, then you might as well stay with him and try working on your issues. Otherwise you (not anyone else) will prevent you from ever being happy with anyone.
167008
You need to get a grip on yourself. This kind of behavior is what drives people away. Trust is key in a relationship. If you do not trust him and he has given you no reason to doubt him, then you need to let it go.
422404
he makes time to see and talk to you. if he is aways talking about you in a positive way and pays more attention to you then to his friends when your around.\ni would talk to him and hang out with him to find out if he is really the person i think he is. and if so then i would go for it.(that is how i got my boyfriend)
134623
you say you love him and trust him, but you also say you don't know what to do.  if you trust him, then there isn't anything you need to do.  if something is bothering you, then discuss it with him, and if whatever is bothering you isn't resolved, then move on.\n\nif he love&#92; you, he shouldn't be doing things that make you wonder.  if you trust him, there wouldn't be any doubt.
355906
okay let me tell you a story my girlfriend and i work different hours so if we are lucky to see each other once a week . but i don't have any other ladies or she don't have other men .because there has to be trust in a relationship trust and honesty are the 2 priority's in a relationship i talk to my girlfriend every day .if you love him confront him if he loves he will tell you the truth
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he could be hiding you a lot of things!!! thats what i see in your problem, talk to him about it and ask him questions about how long or why didnt he tell u before and tell him that if hes hiding something from u, that u prefer him to tell u in that moment otherwise u will have to break up with him for not been honest, if retationships are about honesty, loyalty and love he shouldnt care of what u will think of it because u guys are in love, right?
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Confusion is not good. :) I can tell you that now, it's not good. You have to know for sure or not know. \n\nThis one is a hard one. All i can say is if he says that he loves you and if you really love him, you will trust him. Trust is a very very important key in a binding relationship.  I am thinking that he has told you about his past because he wanted to be honest with you which is very noble. It sounds like you have a little bit of jealousy going on your behalf. Be careful with that because that can cause problems in a relationship. You have to buckle down and learn to trust your boyfriend. If it really troubles you talk to him about it, if he loves you and if you are really good friends, then he will listen with understanding and love. If he gets angry with you then you know that there is a real problem\n\nI hope this helps. Good luck to you
326490
If you are innocent, you need to think really hard about whether or not you want to stay with a guy who doesn't trust you.  Letting him go may be the best thing for you, even though you love him.
614850
Good relationships are built in part on a foundation of trust and respect.  It's obvious that he doesn't trust you because he suspects you of cheating when you are not.  It's also obvious that he doesn't respect you because he doesn't believe you when you tell him the truth.  Based on that, your relationship cannot go far, however much you would like it to.\n\nYou have to decide what you will do now.  No one can really tell you how to live your life.  But it were me, I would break up with this fellow.
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Approaching your boyfriend about the situation what the right thing to do.  But before accusing someone of something we have to not be accusing before we know the situation first.  People in the world today are very devious and envious of people and what they have.  They try to cause problems by the little games they play knowing if they push the right button they will get the response they want.  If you believe what he is telling you then we have to have faith and trust in each other.  If you have doubts about what he is telling you, time will tell.  Remember what you do in the dark will come to light.  If he is telling the truth and you and him are still together then that other individual who tried to break you up did not succeed.  If you break up without knowing if it is true or not you obviously are not willing to believe or feel you trust him enough.
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Trust is a very big thing to have when you are in a committed relationship.  Has he done something in the past that would make you think that he is capable of cheating on you?  If so, then maybe this guy isn't right for you.  If he has done something to make you believe that, then more than likely, he probably is or he will.  You live 6 states away, there's no way you would ever find out.  If you truly want things to work out between the both of you, the best thing you can do is go by what he tells you.  But if you are doubting him now, there's probably a reason why you are and in that case, is not worth it.  Meet someone who lives near you and you can spend time with and have 'real' relationship with.  Good luck.
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You ask him and you read his signs, his body language and the way he talks to you and the way he acts when your together but around his friends, so on and so forth. Ask him though, thats the main way. Its basically a question of do you trust him enough to believe him?
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Ask some friends if they think he is cheating on you.  Confront your boyfriend and see how he responds.  Of course, you don't want to tell him who told you.  Check out his body language and try to gauge his sincerity if he says he didn't.  If someone's telling you what you really want to hear, it's hard to tell if they're being honest or lying, so watch carefully and pay attention to what your instincts tell you.  This friend of his might have been telling you the truth, but he might have been lying to you in hopes that you'll break it off with his friend and he'll have a chance with you himself.
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Guys like to hear that you trust them. Tell him you trust him, but be very watchful of his behvavior. If anything suspicious occurs, then talk about it; if things get worse -DUMP HIM! BUT, often times, guys don't change over night, and no matter how pretty you are, they still won't change for you - so you could save yourself time, and get rid of him now - but, the choice is yours.