Ok... There is this girl at my school i think she is just plain gorgeous, but the problem is that i really dont know nothin about her. I have just seen her around the halls really dont know nothin about her. I've never seen her with a guy or anything so im pretty sure she is single. Im usually not so shy around girls, most of the time ill walk up like already know them or somethin but in this case its like there is something different. So i dont want to walk up to her out of the blue one day and possibly freak her out. Ya know? So the question is what is the best way to approach a complete stranger at school in this situation? Yeah i know i already posted this but i wanted to get some more opinions?
199450
By making a complete fool of yourself in a cute & adorably clumsy way. Girls love that, and if they don't, then they have no sense of humor and aren't down to earth.... of course if she is plain gorgeous, well, she may not be that down to earth. Good luck!
435578
dude calm down. do you even know anything about this girl other than her looks? \nwhat does she like? movies, food, music, hobbies....similarities, differences.\nstrike up a good conversation. no, first get the guts to talk to her. say hi. complement her on something. \nshyness may be flattering, but i think its better when a guy gets the courage to talk to a girl. just make sure you not so full of yourself when you talk. make her the topic of the conversation. put yourself in it once in awhile. NEVER MAKE IT ALL ABOUT YOU. you are the one who came up to her. it's up to her if she's yours or not. just prepare yourself for any bad news that may come your way and enjoy the good stuff.
282219
take it from a girl just talk to her even if it is just WHAT MUSIC YOU INTO? or something along those lines pretend your talking to your closest friend and tell her a joke (one you know for sure is funny) if that doesnt break the ice then its not worth it find some1 who appreciates your admiration if she actually talked to you for three hours i think shes trying to say HI IM INTERESTED MAKE YOUR MOVE!!! girls are much subtle than boys
100616
1 ...walk up to her (preferably both alone maybe after class)\n2 ... ask her on a date \n\nthats it dude ...dont worry if she sais no its her loss right...\nand dont worry so much we all nervous about these kinda things when we young but it aint that big of a deal..k\n\nbtw..dont tell her u love her YET ....she will think its creepy cause u dont even know her yet ..
414259
maybe the guys at this school ain`t like the guys at your old school these guys don`t know you don`t give up just don`t jump out there and make a fool of your self just wait girl you will see he could be right around the corner just to shy to speak to you ,you know what i mean well i hope i could help you
111695
Does she know you exist?  Any eye contact?  How do you react when you do have eye contact.  It doesn't hurt to just say hi and introduce yourself and get to know her a little bit.  Maybe start with a questions about some topic that was discussed in class.  Maybe sit close to her one day and asked if she has a extra pen or pencil you can borrow (even though you have a pen or pencil in your backpack).
232542
1. What is the question? how to get her?\n2. First of all, girls...all girls...are attracted to confidence. You sound like you do'nt have too much of that...If you ACT like you have confidence, that is attractive to women.\n3. It's all about the game of "he who cares less"\n4. Start small - talk to her. Do you have classes with her? Start with little things like..."hi"..then progress to little things like "did you see that movie last weekend?" See? At least get on her radar.\n\nBut really it's the confidence thing you can do.
422178
go for it man.  nothing ventured, nothing gained.  what if you wait and she asks someone else?  get in there!!
272874
yea, go ahead ask her out, she might act like she doesn't know you, but i can garrantee that she probably does like you,, ASK HER OUT!!  thats what happend to me. i acted like i didn't cared, but i did.  i got a girlfriend in a similar situation, what school do you got to?
514078
I know just what you mean.  I really don't know how to explain any of this because when I was in school there was this girl that really did like me but she would never asked me how to say anything to me.  She was really shy but very pretty after several years I found out that she really did like me a lot.  I wish I would have knew this or she would have told me because I wouldn't love to go out with her.  Maybe the best thing that you can do is try to find out whether or not this guy is at all interested in her.  If he is maybe you should drop the few hints around and maybe he will get the idea that it is okay for him to ask her out.  Some guys are really intimidated when girls come on to them.  Try to find how he feels and try to get him to make the first move.  Good luck
27496
I don't know much about how girls should approach guys, but definitely don't send anyone to ask. This is because guys can get turned off by neediness, like you already presumed. Also guys get a big head and they like the rush of being liked, and they want more.\nWhat you need to do is create a scenario where you and him can get to talk, but directly. Any excuse is good. I assume this happens in school, so there are plenty of legit reasons to approach someone. Find a way to do an activity that requires you to contact several people, like when you have to sell junk to other people and stuff, and go and sell it to him. Then try to build rapport by starting a conversation (you know, change the subject a couple of times to something personal). If he follows the conversation, it's a good sign. That first step of talking is key. I swear I've learned this and I use it all the time just to socialize: any excuse works! What time is it, do you have change for a dollar, have you seen my friend whatever, did you hear about the new memo... etc. Just examples. Good luck.
155247
why don't you ask her next time you speak to her or next time she looks at you wave to her, that usually says a silent "hello". if she likes being around you, there's a good chance she doesn't have a b/f, so what's stopping you?after all there's no harm in asking, is there? before someone else does and you could regret it later.
187286
r u friends with any of her friends cause that would give you an in, just start with hello in the hall and stuff like that i mean you really need to know more about her before you can think she is perfect for you, maybe give her a couple secret messages on her locker or something and then reveal who it is....
634993
I would have to know you to say exactly. My sister was a beautiful girl in high school and never got asked out. Then at graduation, a lot of guys said they thought she was already taken. If you walk with confidence, some dudes are intimidated. If you don't show much skin, you send a signal that you're not easy. Just believe in yourself, spend time by yourself, be good to yourself, get to know yourself, and be glad you don't have to deal with all the b.s. that comes with relationships. I can tell you this, a guy that is special to you will come along when you're not expecting it at all. That's always the way it works.
618905
Maybe you can approach her by discussing your same major or something about class.  Its actually easier if you have the same interests (e.g. your majors) and you could easily ask her if she had any free time after class and maybe head to student union and grab a sandwich or something.  Great conversation starter, its worked before.  Hope it helps and good luck!
530938
Hmm, it actually depends on what type of girl she is. Ok, but in general, you should send her a note in her locker saying to meet you afterschool somewhere. girls like these types if notes, I should know, I am one, =P. Ok, don't bring anything, they'll think you're overdoing it. Just tell her you like her, maybe like this, "hey, I just asked you to come today, to say that, ... I like you..." Then you should maybe just wait for a while, then go, let her give you an answer on another day, girls need time to think. lol, ^_^
658853
Just go up to her and talk to her......just say hi and how are you and whats your name.........dont try to a "cool guy" with their lame games that doesnt work......be you and if its meant to be she'll like you too and who knows what will happen from there on.....