i really want a baby girl but he does not want to comit all he wants to do is have sex with out anyresults other than being relieved i keep asking him but he refuses so now we have sex lees and less
207652
If you want a baby, it is time to find someone who wants marriage and a family.  It is obvious that he only wants sex...he has no intention of committing.  Move on and find someone who loves you enough to want to marry you and have a family.
367402
Why are you wasting your time on men that play games like this?  If you want a commitment and he won't give it but he wants the sex, he is just using you.  Stay away from this kind of user and loser!
260466
Until you said "When I am more than willing to have sex and try new things all the time?" I thought I had the solution for you.  If he's not fulfilling your sexual needs you need to drop him.  Let him play in cyber land and find someone that can appreciate a real woman.
142413
WOW. You really have to think... is this guys "small problem" something you want to live with? To me it sounds like you already know the answer. Sex has its part in a relationship and no matter how big of a part you want it do be, (no pun intended) it is still there. If you are not satisfied then keep him as a playmate (maybe he can perform good in "other" ways), but keep your options open. If your not happy, your not happy. So don't BS your self.
262320
maybe hes just not ready to have sex.\nif hes already had sex then maybe he doesnt like her as much as he says he does.\ni say tell her to talk to him about it& if nothing works out then break up with him.\nsometimes you need an emotional as well as a physical relationship.\ngoodluckkk
294934
He is using you. If he left you while you were pregnant then he is a looser. Then he just wants to have sex. He is just using you until he finds someone else don't put your self in that mess with him. You feel guilty because you have his child. Don't be that girl.
87993
well if the only thing he wants you for is just sex then the relation will not last anyway...i personally think he is being a baby about it...i have had women ask not to have sex that day for one reason or another... but i was still there with them...because i enjoyed there company\n\nthe only ones that i didn't want to be around are the ones i dated just for the sex...and those were the worst relationships i have ever had (in more ways then one)
283164
He sounds a complete asshole...I'm not surprised you've lost your sex drive.\nDump him,move on,meet a guy who respects and cares for you,your desires will be restored!
103324
If you don't want to, you are not obligated to do so. Sex is a great thing, and it is to be made with the correct person at the correct time. Just tell him that you don't want to; if he's your real friend, he will understand and respect your decision.
613174
You're obviously one of those chicks that think all dudes just like sex and nothing else. Have you tried talking to him about this, or did you immediately label him gay and come to Yahoo? The problem might be as simple as he's expecting more than to get laid.
65368
You are poor girl,you know that he has a gf and she is pregnant and will give him his baby..what is your place between them? I think he is just using you for his desires
359696
well right now you are just a convienience, you will have sex and not require commitment.  Why would you want a guy like that?  He has made his wants obvious.  I say quit giving yourself away to a guy who is most certainly using you and find somone who deserves you, who wants more than a quick role in the hay.
640715
Because he's horny. You need to sit and explain that sex is not the goal for you and that he needs to respect the fact that you do not want to go all the way with him. Set up those boundaries at a time when you are not in the heat of the moment so that you do not feel any pressure to go further than you'd like at any time.\n\nAnd, if he doesn't respect that, get him out of the picture. You deserve someone who will respect your body and your choices.
140843
He doesn't want you that much, he's not doing things that many guys do when they really like a girl and want to spend time with her.\n\nMaybe he just wants to have sex with you.  Is that what you want?
494543
Maybe he doesn't want a relationship right now. Maybe he was he is scared and backed out your life.A daughter and you being a mother is a little too much baggage for him. Donrt worry keep ur daughter 1st priority.
72819
Strongly tell him that it's out of the question.  If he persists, stop hanging around him.  You might need to get adults involved soon.  You don't want to ever give him the opportunity to hurt you.\n\nYou're TOO YOUNG to be having sex.  Find a trusted adult to talk with.
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I was feeling the same way not so long ago.\n\nMaybe it's just a female urge, but I really wanted to get pregnant. I wanted to have a baby who was half of me, and half of him, I wanted a baby I could love and watch grow up.\n\nBut, I realized the life of that child would be deprived. As much as I know I would love him or her, they'd have very few chances at a good and equal future. If you guys aren't seeing each other enough, maybe you should talk to him about it. If basketball comes before you, then maybe that relationship just isn't the right one to commit yourself with a child to. Who knows when he'd leave you?\n\nBut, if you are pregnant, I suggest you seriously discuss it with him, and if you aren't completely sure he can provide for you and the baby, then maybe you need to think about adoption. It's a hard decision, but if it's in the best interest of the baby, it's quite possibly the best decision, too.\n\nGood luck,\n~Morgan~