He loves my feet, he will massage them and suck on my toes. But that isnt his only fetish. Everytime I see him I end up (quite happily) letting him kiss and lick me from head to toe, but his favorite is ....well, you know....my female place. Now I dont prectice promiscuity, I havent even had sex for about 4 years. LOL But when he comes to town we do this to each other, all these other things, and I feel better than I ever had when I was with with someone. The bummer is that he lives a few hundred miles away and has a whole nother life...we just do business from time to time through my online co. But every few months this magic happens when he comes to see me. I alway feel like a million bucks after he has touched me and made me come to life. Of course I am not married and I dont have a steady bf, but I am a Christian. LOL I just cant resist. Am I doing a terrible thing? Should I feel guilty? Because I dont. LOL He makes me laugh, smile, feel good about myself.... is that so wrong?
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Absolutely not!  You should feel lucky to have him.  If you want the relationship to grow then you always have that.  I too am a christian (getting baptized this Sunday!) but I believe what you have is far from wrong.  It seems that your feelings for him are deeper than sexual and that is something Christ cherished, LOVE.
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If you are comfortable in how you look.... That is all that matters.  Pardon me for saying this, but this guy sounds like a jerk.  How come you are staying with him if you feel that he does not find you attractive?  Perhaps you should move on to somebody that will love you for "you" and not need to turn to porn for sexual gratification.  \nHave you ever just confronted him and ask if he finds you appealing in a sexual way?  I still think it is time for you to start looking for a better relationship.\n\nI can't believe you offered to let him take pictures of you, and he declined..... Most guys would jump at the chance to take some hot pics.  \n\nIf he is making you feel stupid or ugly, you really don't need that in your life!  A good partner in a relationship should make you feel happy, and he should not be afraid to show you exactly how much you mean to him.... At least that is my opinion...  If you want to "vent" more about this situation, you can always email me.. I am a good listener.\n\nI wish you luck!  I hope things improve for you!  don't let this guy get you down!
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Hold on you live with him still? First off I've never heard of that arangement before in my life. Also what do you mean by living with are you two still together but still sexually active? If so he's using you no wonder you feel lost. You need to get yourself outta there and if your parents won't take you in find a place foryourself. In times of need there are several places like main stay suites that offer cheep extending living. Once you've done that try and find a really decent guy i'm not talking about going bar hopping, i'm talking about a place like church (by the way if you don't have religion at this poin that's another reason you feel lost, there are many christains like myself that are here to help you if you need some with comming to Christ ;) ) I know you most likely love this guy but the sooner you come to relize its time to move on you'll feel bad at first but it will get better. Don't think its not because you won't love the ex because yes you will love doesn't go away, but you have to save whats left of your heart and mend it together for that guy who's still out there you haven't met yet.
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It sounds as if you are a bit confused, Look at yourself, what this individual likes in you, what about you attracts him.when you find out then you can be the person he loves don't be pushy, give him space make suggestions, never dictate. Ask for his input in things you both do together. Be a lady not a woman, The times you both spend together should not necessary be quantity but quality, find out what turns him on be caring and loving but don't be too frivolous. Give him things to always think positive of you, Be honest in all you do and say
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god forgive me for stereotyping but I only have limited info for going on! from what you say, there is only one adult in the relationship and it's not him!!!\nok, he sounds like a typical man, wanting to have his cake and eat it too - basically he feels it's a bit wrong to be with you, but he wants you to make it ok.\nso he's being cautious and flaky so that most of the hard work comes from you and you end up saying all the stuff people usually don't want to be the first to say (ie tell me how you feel/why are you sending out mixed signals - making you look needy)- don't fall into that trap. as much as you want some clarity, pull back and let him do the hard work. it is obvious he likes you despite the age diff (dirty old man - just kidding) so he will try to engineer the opportunity to kiss you again- at which point, i think you should play a bit hard to get so he has to SAY those things he is obviously avoiding saying  in case it all goes tits up, i presume. \nanyway, only my opinion, so let me know if i was totally wrong - and good luck!!!
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My bf loves my feet and I love it!  I love it when he rubs my feet and he likes to fun bite them during sex.
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Well mostly I agree with jessica13183 (sorry if I transposed the numbers), but what she said :)...\n\nIt's best if you have a particular interest in say feet if you let that be known BEFORE you slip the engagement ring on her finger. That's right if you are going to want to "really love on her feet" or something else that she may consider "out of the ordinary" then I think you should be up front with it. If it's something you really desire, but she cannot tolerate say because she is VERY ticklish and it really makes her miserable, then you may find that you begin to search to fulfill that fantasy with a woman who will enjoy it too. \n\nI speak from experience, I was single for 14 years between my cheating husband #1 and 2nd loyal and wonderful husband now (10 years in November!) and I did not exactly live a "cloistered life" so I know there are some men out there that just are in love with women's feet or have something else quirky that they REALLY want. I still think the number one fantasy of all time for men would be either being able to watch 2 women "together" or to also be able to join the two women and make it a threesome.  \n\nNow when you have big ugly flat feet (like mine) and some guy says he thinks they are really hot, that is a sure fire sign that he is a foot lover. Alas I am TERMINALLY TICKLISH! So the relationship lost a lot of it's appeal to both of us...when I began to TRY to open my mind and let him dive on my dogs. I can laugh just thinking about it, there is something about the hysterical laughter of a woman that takes some of the joy out of a fetish, I guess? It was not long before he found a gal who was not so ticklish...he was a real nice man other than that...and that was not TERRIBLE, but I would laugh so hard I would have an asthma attack! If you know it's something you want, shop around and maybe you could introduce  your lover to a fetish of yours and she will learn to enjoy it, it's good to know before you make lifetime commitments.\n\nDepending on the fetish and the person, I guess...good luck! Oh and I am fairly sure if you are into beating the crap out of someone for your kicks, then you won't find too many women that will really want to hang around for that more than once. Different strokes for different folks...not everybody likes the same things!\nruthie~
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All of your thoughts are definetly valid ones.  You know that the beginning of "where's this going" relationship stuff is NO picnic.All I can say is, keep your eyes WIDE OPEN.  Pay close attention to any RED FLAGS along the way (if there are any).  You know, it's just one of those things in life that really, only time will tell.  By all means don't put yourself in the position to feel obligated in to rushing in to anything.  I WOULD recommend paying close attention to his ACTIONS.  Be cautious of charming talkers.  Please, allow time to take it's course.  \n\nI would be curious why he feels it's necessary for you to know where he is, even if it is work related.  To me, it's just a bit odd.  That would get on my nerves after a while.  I mean, his employer is the one that really needs to know where's he's at all the time, not you. That's merely MY opinion.  Is he borderline needy without actually being needed?  Not that there's any crime of being 45 years old, having never married.\n\nAhh.  Like I said, just allow time to take it's course.  If it's really meant to go anywhere, then it surely will.\nDon't be too hard on him, or yourself.  Just be smart, okay?\nTake care.\n\nP.S.  Hey there c68!  I sure hope this turns out to be something good for you.  Be patient, enjoy each other, learn about each other.Maybe this is one that deserves your time.  I really do hope he's a good person.  Keep on your toes.  You seem to be a smart cookie.  Keep it up!\nI'm thinkin' about ya and if it helps, I'm pullin' for ya too. (Well, you know,...for both of you)  Take care.
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You said in your question, if you take a second and read it again that, u are lucky to have found this guy,u feel self-conscious, and you wonder if u will be able to satisfy him, what can u do? I think what you need to realize is that a man IS satisfied by a woman that treats him good. period. physical attributes mean very little if you give him your love and respect. You have to know that you are a woman with everything on that body and in that heart that a man would ever want. please keep in mind that relationships at your age are probably not forever. it was what i went through as a man then that gave me the wisdom and maturity to see a good woman as more than a physical lust. i took women for granted,blindly, and because of my own insecurities and shortcomings. dont be scared to live and love deeply. dont feel like your body lacks anything. if you do love him, make sure its love you get back. i hope that he treats you right, and respects you like he should. baby, it's not the breasts, it's the heart behind it that makes a man fall in love.
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My man LOVES feet ... and knowing this I love driving him crazy.  There is NOTHING wrong with it - in fact its a huge turn on. I don't think its gross at all.
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Glad you can admit you're no good to him or any other good guys out there.  Break up with him, coz you're obviously not in love with him and you don't truly appreciate him, and it'll be better for him in the long run.  As for you,  I 'm not sure if you could ever find true love only because you may cheat on the next guy you're with.  I can only assume that you need a lot of attention, and ONE guy can't fully satisfy you.  Do him a favor, leave him...he doesn't deserve you.  Give him a chance to find someone who will love him and appreciate him.  If you're having seconds thoughts about being a whore, then hopefully it will be the last time he will forgive you.  For him not to move on from all this suggests that he has some sort of low self-esteem, AND you sleeping around just adds more to that.  Stop making him miserable, he deserves more than you.  Stop making yourself miserable by "feeling guilt".  If you truly feel this, you wouldn't have cheated on him again and again and again.  Once a cheater, always a cheater.  Good luck on finding the right guy, coz the next guy may not be as a doormat like this current one.  OR the next one will cheat on you too.  So take your pick, karma's a b**ch.  And as you've heard it, what goes around, comes around.  Also, I hope you didn't transfer any STDs to your so-called boyfriend(don't tell me he's just a friend).  You only have yourself to blame.
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if he is only interested in sex with u,then it is understandable that he loves only your physical body. it indicates he does not want long lasting relationship with you.\n   dont worry,god will definitely help you.
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No, why would you feel guilty? No one got hurt, right? You both enjoyed it?\n\nThe only thing you might want to think about is if you are really interested in having a serious relationship with this guy, you might want to slow down a bit.\n\nMost guys don't take "easy" women that seriously.\n\nBut you shouldn't feel guilty at all.
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God bless you, All you can do is stay normal as you can. Do not  push your limit, make him comfortable when he is with you. All (REAL) mans are looking two things in their life, first good sex partner and  second, somewhere back in their mind they are looking for good homely atmosphere (meaning they want to see how comfortable they are with you), if you offer both of these two things to him. then you must 'BELIEVE ME' he is not going anywhere, he will be with you forever.
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Not weird at all... my man has the same fetish as U. It's perfectly normal and causes no damage.  I would love to get a massage from U.. but I'm afraid I'm too far away from U.. but Yeah.. why not?? sounds kind of exciting!\nBy the way... I prefer chocolate syrup.. lol..
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If you really loved your boyfriend in Florida, you wouldn't even be considering the possibility of having sex with someone else.  This guy is not really your friend.  He just wants to get into your pants.  If you're having all these doubts you need to reconsider how you really feel about your bf.  It's not fair to him if he really loves you.
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look, its not evil, but the truth is if you started something, on his side it would be purely sexual. simply put, your agaes arent that far apart, but al lot happens between 17 and 22, a lot more than between 80 and 86. thats just the way of the world.  it might be fun for a while, no denying that, but it wont work out, and youll end up hurt. hes not moving because he knows that, and good for him.  or because you live somewhere that 17 is underage,a and hes waiting for next year. i know this can drive you nuts, and his attention is flattering, but move on, find some one a little closer to your age.  it stinks.  sorry.