However, when I was single I didn't have a problem with random sex. Now that I'm with my partner I can't have sex with my partner,\nDue to my beliefs I have reaquainted with.\n1. If you were my partner how would you feel?\n2. If you were my partner what would you do?
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Fuck the belief have sex rip her close off play with her boobs lick her pussy have fun!!!!!
402299
uhmm i was in a position where i was in a awkward spot. i didn't have sex with more than one guy at a time..but they would have been game had i said yes. we were up watching a movie..and one of them kissed me and stuff..and then of course the other thought it was time for him to join in. \nwe didn't go all out and have sex, but i guess you could say there was some intimate contact..
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Wouldn't want it. That would totally take the fun out of the dating experience, and having a real live person to interact with. I kinda like not knowing what to totally expect out of a partner. I like the spontaneity that mutual attraction brings. I don't want to have to program anything, besides everyday my needs could change. what I wanted to do yesterday may not be the same thing I want to do today. Then I would have to task of reprogramming the thing. What if I'm not too computer savvy? No thanks. I don't even like the electrical gadgets they have out now for a woman's enjoyment. Personally I Iike a warm, firm hand to touch me, and a nice warm body to lay down with. Don't want nothing robotic, what if it short circuits in the act. Talk about some SHOCKING sex. LOL.
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actually you predicament isn't bad. what could be? when a married person is in the same situation! as a single you've plenty of liberty (except getting into bed) to socialize.
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never done that, but i would feel guilty too. Sex is supposed to be between one man and one woman (in the context of marriage, by my belief) not a couple of each. She feels guilty because she doesnt feel right about what you did.
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It may have been a completely unrelated incident. Have you experienced it more than once? If, not it probably had nothing to do with the sex. It was just a coincidence.
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I am a doctor and while having wild trouble with my wife, I decided to never be with here again.  I have 2 kids. A few months later, 4 to be exact, I started living with one of my patients, who is 40, and had a wild drive for me since 2 years ago. While being my patient nothing happened, but we started talking after I left my wife, never to return I thought. I lived with this woman for over a year, and that was the happiest time of my life. Nevertheless, my kids were having very serious trouble, and even though I did not wish to see my wife again, I decided to return to my kids and get them out of trouble. I will never stop loving my patient, she was the sweetest girl I've never known, but I cannot live happily with her while my kids are going down hill. I may be damned, but I need my kids to be OK for me to be happy, and they demand my presence. I could never feel happy while being with the woman I love while my kids are going through trouble. You being a virgin is not an issue to me, it should not be an issue to you, it should not be an issue for anybody loving you. What worries me is to find you left aside because this guy is married. I am not saying it is right or wrong, I am saying I doubt he will feel absolutely and sincerely happy with you while thinking about his kids. Been there, done that, don't go there, yo don't want to go there. You'll be happy for a while, and then you will know hell. Excuse my honesty, but I do not wish any human being to go through my experience. Hence I have the need to speak about it. And only anonimously. Take my word: you don't want this.\nPD: I am aged 46.
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I believe in no premarital sex. Say you meet someone you supposedly love, and you decide to have sex. Then if it doesn't work, you have no way to take it back. Then after that you find someone who is a virgin and you love them, you are going to regret your first encounter. Yes, I'd rather wait.
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I would not be in any realtionship untill I figured out myself.  I had a void for 27years and felt the same way.  I would scream out on occassion "GOD IF YOU'RE REAL HELP ME!!!!" and nothing would happen.  but one day I got on my knees and said "GOD, I love life and people and want to be a big part of it, please help find the way and I will live your way."  I sware to god my life changed.  I dropped a drug and alchol problem and have zero desire to return. (trying to fill that void) I went from my longest relationship of nine months to being happily married about 2yrs later.  I am still married and have 4 beautiful and incredible children.  No exaggeration I love life truely and feel like I lack nothing.  We all have issues to deal with but we all don't to have voids to fill. (Sorry so long)
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Firstly, i would like to know what normal is? And to answer your question, if you feel within your soul that you want to find out about your sexuality then make sure that your partner knows exactly how you feel. Your body will let you know how the experience outcomes. Do take your time and be comfortable within your own skin and mind before you do anything around intimacy. Hugs are great and i am giving you one now to keep on finding your inner self and be at peace with your soul. \n\n:)
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It depends.....how did I feel if I slept around on someone I didn't care about??? Well, honestly, not too bad. I don't sleep around if I'm in a commited relationship though.
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i don't know exactly what casues it. it might be different for each person. but for me it was becasue i was rapped and then the first time that i had consentual sex he didn't know what he was doing and he went to fast and hurt me too much. so i think that is why now i have no sex drive. but it might in her case not be that drastic. some people jsut don't like having sex. there is no reason to be concerned. or maybe she just hasn't found what she likes yet.
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I'm bisexual and I've been in an open relationship with my girlfriend for about two years now.  We haven't had any threesomes or groups, she had another lover for a short period of time and I've had a string of one night stands.  I would love to do threesomes, but she is a very shy person due to some traumatic childhood events, and we just haven't met the right person yet. \n\nMy last relationship was also open, for three years, and we had a LOT of threesomes, in fact, that was our arrangement, we didn't do anything without each other.  That relationship ended mutually because I lived two hours away and the distance was too hard.\n\nI also have some family friends who have been in a plural marriage for about 25-30 years.  The two women are bisexual but the man is not.  The three of them raised two wonderful kids together and very happy.
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are you asking if someone has had sex before getting married in general?  or are you asking if someone has had sex before marriage with the person s/he are married to?  or are you asking if someone has lost their virginity to the one person they are married to?  those are all very different questions and have very different answers with different meanings.\n\ni can say- yes, yes and no.  i am very happy i did not marry the guy i lost my virginity to.  i was too young and dumb.  i am glad that i have had some experience before i met my current husband.  do i wish i had waited until marriage to my husband to have sex, not necessarily.  but i do wish i had waited a lot longer.  \n\ni am happy that my husband and i lived together and loved together BEFORE marriage.  we were married a little over a year after we met.  we've been together several years now.  the marriage is AWESOME, our sex life is great (7+ times a week- no lie).  but we were not virgins when we met, but we did have sex out of wedlock and became married.  it all depends on your heart's intent, level of religiousness (interpretation) and commitment level.  it CAN and DOES work (against my strict protestant upbringing)!
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okay im not down for all of that but I do have some advice... You guys should try swinging..Its were the two of you get together with other couples who are interested in the same thing as u,  and you switch partners...for example, you with another wife, her with another husband.but u do it the same room around eachother that way u both know what went on and its alot safer then random men... Most of the time swingers will test for aids,stds, and other stuff more frequently then random people will.Its the safest way to have fun with other people without catching something...But for the record...I am not down with that!!!
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If you're married, no. You knew what you were getting into. If you're not married ... ask yourself why you got into this relationship in the first place. Are you that fickle that you'll change partners on a whim. I'd say your partner would probably be better off without you.
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This makes me laugh... lol.\nOkay, sex doesn't last for a few mintues I'll tell you that.\nYou can make it last a long time... enjoy it.\nWhat is normal? I don't think there is a standing time for normality... just do it till both of you well.. how do I put it? Feel satisfied.\nSex is something that is for the both of you remember that.\nHow many times should you start over? Depends on you and your partner. Does she want to do it again? Can you still keep on going? Ask yourself and your partner these questions.\nHope this helps. ^_^