{laughz}\n\nNow I've been having her & her child stay here for at least 3 monthz now and a old flame called me and wnated to be back with me.  So now I have to kick out my ex with her 2 y/o girl (not my child). She waz living out her car. So am I wrong for what I'm about to do?
206933
Most of the answers are pretty hostile to you, but I won't be.  \nIf you offered a place to your ex and her baby, you seem like a generous and kind person.  You had compassion on her especially if she was living out of her car. Why does that compassion have to stop if you want to be involved with somebody else?  Is there anybody else she can depend on? What was the agreement you had with her when she moved in?  Temporary til she found a place, or indefinte?\n \nA single mother and child needs stability and security, and if you aren't willing or able anymore to provide that for her, then hopefully you will help her make other arrangements.   The old flame may or may not work out, but it really shows your character as to how you handle the situation.
435410
Tell you ex's GF to take it on a hike.  She has no business wanting to know your child.  And for that matter, neither does your ex.  Be strong, and best wishes to you.
421802
Seems a little strange that you would post that. Agree with first answer seems like more than a question.  Did you just want to tell the world that she lives with a 39 year old...well you just did.  Hope if she finds out that the 39 year old is not an attorney or knows one because this could constitute harassment. Just a little friendly advice.
639235
first thing to do: CELEBRATE. Do your HAPPY DANCE and be HAPPY that your ex is finally out of your life. We don't need selfish people in our lives and she sounds like one of them.
651073
YOU ARE SUCH A F*#!**# JERK SHE SHOULD BE TRYING TO DITCH YOU!\n\n  A**H#$*
272493
am you again try for 2 months if nothing happening then use her fully again to make something happening if not at your home then sleazy motel might be better to try touch her there....or you could just make sure you have a proper seal around the air intake valve when you're blowing the damn thing up....
335247
Take a break. You've been betrayed. \nGo away for a little while, maybe, but this one is going to take some time, if ever.\nStop imagining that she was having sex like she does with you.\nDon't do that to yourself, because I guarantee it wasn't. Only the two of you have sex like the two of you.\nCan you handle the answer if you ask her to give you a blow- by-blow description of the night? A sort of "putting yourself in her shoes" for the night?\nIt's risky, but if you can listen, It just may benefit you so you can be angry, and then move on either way.\nShe should be ashamed of herself, and getting angry at her once and blasting her does not relieve her of the tremendous weight she's put on you.\nYou may never be able to trust her again. That sucks for you, because you had no part in it, and want things the way they were.\nWas there a problem that wasn't being addressed before this night?\nDoes anyone have their head buried in the sand??\nYou may need to take this time to get right into each others brains and decided what each of you REALLY wants out of life.\nPlease don't make the same mistake she did. You'll hate yourself.\nI can say that it is not the worst thing that can happen, but it is way up there.\nShe betrayed you, plain and simple. maybe she should live without you for a while and the two of you can really see where you're at. get yourself some legal assistance so you don't lose touch with your child.
607461
First of all, if you have to asked, "should I be angry," then the answer is NO.  You are either angry or you are not. So that is question and answer one. \nCheating? Well of course it is, but if it doesn't matter to you, then all is ok...let it go (it is ok with you, because you had to ask, "should I be angry?"\nWhat has her getting it on with two girls have to do with you getting it on with a man???? Sort of twisted logic there. WHo knows, maybe this will open the door to some wild times for you when she gets home. Don't be judgemental..things will work out one way or another. Relax, there is time enough to get things 'straight' when she gets here.
49410
Think about this were do u want this to go.  Long term would u realy wonna take her home to mom, heck would u want her to be the mother of your children.  Short term lucking for some fun, go for it.
205056
It seems she may be using emotional blackmail to get you to stay, the best thing to do is walk out the door and make her responsible for her actions. If she has close family members that you can confide in then I'd advise you to tell them you are planning to leave and let them be aware of her threats. This is to anybody that is in a relationship that is over regardless of the cause........Get out before you end up making yourself crazy and miserable.
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Hi, i viewed your 360 page, you havea cute baby! I have a 2 and a half yr old daughter, im not married, never been married and i have been raiseing my daughter on my own since last yr. I was a stay at home, from the time my daughter was born til she was 14 months old and had a job for about a month, but then stuff blow up between my ex and i and we split i had a joob for 10  months last yr and then went back to being a stay at home mom for 5 months, i am back to working now, if your bored and like to chat send me a message to renae8003@yahoo.com, hope you like my answer and get back to me!
611992
Babydoll, I think you haven't really thought this through too well. This  piece of buttwipe did you a favor & you want him to hurt you more?? If you ever think about relocating to The Sun City, you come on over & "Holla" at me & I'll be showing you what it feels like to have someone care about you, your feelings & not be such an arsehole to continuously rub your nose in mistakes of your past (believe me, I should know about mistakes from my past!)
359293
Wow, you are a cool guy not to be completely turned off by this. I am impressed.\n\nI don't know what this girl is feeling about you but I do have a guess about what she is feeling about her ex...\nHis baby is growing inside of her. She wants him to accept her more than anything right now. She might be fooling herself about the relationship but for your own sanity...let it go. \n\nListen to me...LET IT GO
644956
Who cares if she loves you or not! Her actions scream, her words are quiet. Don't be a fool...you deserve far better than this, and if it is like this at this point, do you really think it will go anywhere but DOWNHILL ? Wise up, send her packing (I am not a hearless person and usually pick the opposite side), for this one is divorced for a very good reason...and you are finding the reason. You do NOT need to have a significant other, you will be fine on your own, and ... guess what! It won't be long before you find (0r are found) another who will appreciate all you do, all you are, and all you will be. This one will never be that person. Good luck to you both.
141991
Yes. It's time to wake up. She obviously is still hung up on this guy. Why else did you go to the club he was playing at? I'm ashamed to say "been there, done that", although I did not drag some poor guy along to watch! Leave her to yearn for the guy who treated her so badly and find a lady who is free to be with a nice guy like you.
361512
Mom???  J/K.  My younger sister threatened my mother like that not too long ago, sister said she was going to move in with me or her dad.  Well, I heard this and told her there was no way in hell I would put up with her crap and if she thought for one second that she would just move in with me she was sadly mistaken.  If your daughter really feels that way, let her move in with sis or dad and see what that's all about.  It sounds to me like it's just a threat, if and when it comes right down to it she's not going to move in with dad or sis.  If that was a viable option, don't you think she would have done it by now?  She's bluffing, call her bluff.  If you want to move to a better area she needs to be adult enough to realize that you are making a decision that will better your life and hers, and at 14 she should be able to wrap her little self-absorbed head around that.  You are still the adult in the relationship, she is the child and that's what she's acting like....a complete child.  Maybe you can try to include her in choosing where you two will live if you want to try to reason with her that is.  Sit down with her and tell her that you know she's upset about moving to a different area but you would really like her to go with you, blah, blah, blah, do the mom thing.  Maybe if you level with her and speak to her like an adult she will realize that you're not doing this to like totally ruin her life and she will come to her senses.  Good luck.  God, I can't wait to have children!  Hasn't anyone figured out how to skip right through those lovely teenage years?  Alcohol, lots and lots of alcohol.  I'm gonna make a great mom someday, don't ya think?
527791
honey I so feel your pain. I want to give you some advice and please read carefully. Do not waste one more moment of your life fretting over this woman. This situation will always be a thorn in your side if you let it. DONT LET IT. You said your not a hateful person but if you let it this or she will make you one. Trust me I have been married to a man for 10 years and his ex is the beast master GOG OF MAGOG.I finally had to let it go but it just about ate me alive before I realized. I became bitter, hateful, obsessed, you name it. It will hurt no one but you.