i can believe my girl broke up with me. i've done so much things for her. i have been good listener, for example, when her grandma was about to die and when her dad cheated on her mom. i mean i really have been good listener.  Gave her four-leaf clover, it took me about a week to find it, i didnt care if it was cold outside, but when i think of her smiling at me when she gets this and thats what it made me happy, gave her watch, perfume, CD, walk to school together when she ask. I never said no to her. i gave her food.  when i gave her present i always suprise her and make her laugh. she loves that. But about 2 weeks ago she broke up with me becuz of her parents and her parents said high school is to focuz on her studying not dating. when she told me that my ex also said she has no feelings for me.  Now she doesnt talk to me. i didnt do anything wrong.  My friends said she kept looking at me during class. But is it true that she was no feeilings for me? or shes saying that?
210864
Woah she's lucky to have had a boyfriend like you. Dedicated and things like that. Well she's one of those girls who listen to their elderlies without questioning authority. She's probably very sad about having to dump you. Get the picture? She's trying to forget about you, but it's a very painful process. I've done this once. Of course she has feelings for you. She's just saying it.
117493
She was honest enough to tell you how she really feels. You deserve to move on and find somebody who will want you. Do NOT become a stalker by continuing to chase her after she told you she is not interested. I know your feelings are hurt, but she already has a boyfriend and told you so, so in all fairness, you need to move on. There are more girls out there.
95019
there's two possibilities... one is you really changed through out these years... maybe you aren;t caring for her enough or you dont talk like you used to... girls can get very sensitive at somethings she thinks its important... try to put it up with her..... try to think what are you missing... the second possibility is that she's cheating on you but she's trying to build up an excuse for a break up sooner...
372285
She's probably likes her boyfriend but has a crush on you at the same time.   She didn't tell you she had a boyfriend because she thinks you're cute and wants you to like her back. She would probably go out with you if she didn't have a boyfriend.    But since she doesn't dislike her boyfriend she has no reason to break up with him and she likes him enough and or doesn't like you enough to change the way things are.   Also things are stable the way they are and if she breaks up with him there is a chance that she might not get you. She just wants to have someone.\nShe probably does realize that you like her and she likes the attention.   Don't let her push you around or damage your pride but it doesn't hurt to be nice.\nIt's hard to tell without seeing the situation and what you are going through but this could be somewhat similar?   Hope this helps.  \nEither way don't stop being nice...Nice guys get all the girls in college.   Nice guys also get meaningful relationships instead of flings because they are keepers.
470457
It sounds like she just needs some time after her past relationship.  I owuld suggest that you remain her friend through this time and be as close to her as possible.  Maybe if she sees how good of a friend that you are, things will slowly change.  Don't push her to be your girl though.  It will only push her farther away.  Good Luck.
241563
She definately wanted 'company'.  sometimes when a girl breaks up with a guy it's b/c she knows it isn't going anywhere but that doesn't change the fact that she enjoys your company.
61823
I dont think she is playing a game. You two broke up and i think your prolonged contact with her is making it hard for her to let go. She might well have feelings for you still but having feelings for someone doesn't mean she wants to be with you. You giving her things keeps her feeling obligated to talk to you. I would wish her a happy valentines day and tell her happy birthday when it rolls around but back off to some degree. The only real way to know if she wants to get back together with you is to be straight up and ask or back off and see if she comes looking for you.
56858
This is an easy question. How old are you and your girlfriend and how long have you been dating? If she told you she is not in love with you, then she has probably been feeling this way for awhile and finally got the courage to tell you. If you want her back, all you have to do is ignore her, make yourself busy and when you talk, be somewhat short with the conversation. If she still cares about you, more than likely your unavailability will pull her closer. If she really doesn't like you anymore, that will be obvious too. If that is the case, then you should definitely try to not call her as much and find other things to entertain your thoughts so that you can move on.
287590
She's a bit insecure, and like the idea of having you on a leash.\n\nshe is playing emotional mind games with you and keeping you hanging on, pretending that you may have a chance.\n\nShe may also have broken up with you because she wanted to start another relationship with someone else, and then the other guy blew her off - she is stuck in a rut and has no-one to give her attention - and she knows that you still have feelings, so she calls you again, and makes a re-connection.\n\nshe is playing games with you - trust me, I have done this to a few guys, it's not nice but it's part of life.\n\nif you really wanna give it another go, try and get back with her, but give her conditions and ground rules, so she doesn't take advantage of your naivety and vulnerability, cos she knows that you are a bit soft and gullible, etc... sorry.\n\nanyway, if i was you, i'd GET RID!
90951
HELLO, this is serious you broke up with her for a reason. Now you are living in a fantasy forged by all of the "good times" and as time goes on you have her built up to be someone that she could never live up to being. You may want to be with her again because you are plagued with wondering what might have been. I am aware of the incredible pain. You can move on if you want (ask us for help with that) If you are already invested in the drama and choose to seek her out. Do not waste another moment of your precious life and know when to run.
582035
Man, I just got out of a relationship with a girl I didn't think I felt much for, and you know that saying 'you don't know what you've got till it's gone'? Well, I realized how much I truly loved her. Maybe it will hit your ex just like it hit me. Maybe with some time she'll miss you, especially if it was as good of a relationship as you say. And especially if you were her first. You don't forget something special like that. Even if she downplays it, it should be something that will be with her always. Just give it time I say.
466629
I think you need to sit down with her and have a heart to heart conversation and be honest with each other.  She must have done something that made you think she was going to break up with you so you need to tell her that and talk about why it happened.  Also, I'm not too sure I like your reasoning for breaking up with her...that sounds kind of like child's games.  If you liked/loved her you wouldn't have "broke up with her first" just so she couldn't break up with you.  And look where it got you?  She wasn't even going to break up with you!  I think you need to take the time to find out exactly what you want and what will make you happy before you rush back into it.
283872
Always remember that an ex is an ex for a reason. Obviously you two broke up for a reason and she nees to see that. You should just simply call her and explain that you arent trying to be mean but you dont want anything more with her. It sounds like she has codependency issues as well if she is going from you to a gf so soon. Just simply tell her so that it doesnt get out of hand. Dont ignore her because that can send mixed messages and it could be hard for you to stop later.
135259
And we guys can't understand you girls...but anyways, there could be a number of reasons as to why he broke up with her, and him saying that he's bored of her, he sounds like a bastard to me. I don't think that's a very good reason, and it's probably not the reason he did, but then again i don't know the guy. He might have been interested in her at the beginning, just looking for a good time, but now he's found another girl who's  different, which he finds interesting, but will get bored with. Using "I got bored" is a cheap way out, and I'm sure he uses it on all kind of girls after he's had his "fun." Obviously he doesn't love her enough to stick with her, and to talk and say, "We could make more our relationsship more interesting." I say stay away from the guy, get over it, and move on.
233465
she misses you....i dont think she really wanted to break up with you...its that or she still cares for you..not exactly loves you but she still hopes the best for u...maybe you should talk to her sometime and just see how shes doing..maybe start going out again ..
332079
If she took it that seriously you can really tell that it hurt her most because she was already feeling like a nobody.The truth is what hurts people the most. The best perspective here is to think that she's not talking to you because she needs you to suffer a little so you can see that you made a big mistake; if this is the case then it's temporary and she will get back with you. I don't think you should face this,for now, as the end of the relationship,if she loves you,she will forgive you. I think you have done all the right things,as you said, asking for forgiveness and owning up to the mistake.
445151
she sounds like she is just telling the truth.  It is just fine I mean she broke up with him so she could hook you and him up.  I mean it is not like he broke up with her and then asked you out and your friend was heart broken.