we can all find passion in something or someone ... but if the passion is first can we have love in that... or should we hae love that is just all passion and comes together at once?
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Remember love is not everything. Without passion life is boring. I would definately require passion above all.
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My friends and I were just talking about this last night...We have came to the conclusion that Love is a very strong word.  So many people today believe that they are in love, but love is to give unconditionally... love is putting someone elses needs before your own.  I have thought I was in love 2 times, I am now divorced with three kids and I can honestly say I have never loved anyone the way I love my children... If you can honestly say to your self that I would die for them  I mean being truthful to yourself and saying I would die for you... that's love... and I have never felt that way before.... and you don't have to be in love to be with someone...if you enjoy the company why say it's over... just enjoy your life  you only have one.
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It's an awe. When you watch someone and love their mannerisms, their words, the way their mind clicks, their reactions, their little idiosyncracies.... you realize that you are just in awe. We fall in love because experiences have taught us how to appreciate those things we see in another. Usually we fall in love with someone that has the kind of traits that complement what you have in your life. Love isn't really complicated. It's honestly so simple. But it's rare.....very rare. So once we find it.....we tend to want to cling to that feeling and that person forever.  :)
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love happens. you don't have to 'find' it :)\nsometimes you love someone so much, but if the timing ain't right for either of you, it's a regret, no?\nsometimes, you don't really love that person so much, but he comes @ the right time, & vroooom! you have a stable partner.\njust choose a committed partner, & see how things move on from there...\ncheers!
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Yes Dear,,, Its Really Heartening to be in that Situation,,But if your Love is True and Pure,, then where ever u are what ever you are,, and where ever your Lover Might be ,,and what ever he/she Might be doing,, You must see that he/she  is Happy ,,When u have that Kind of Heart,, Naturally You will Blossom to a Greater Height and you get Far more Love than anything else,, God Bless you,, ""U have Really a Kind Heart"" can i be your Friend,,if u too desire,, just mail me at boreda_chan@yahoo.co.in
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I personally believe you can love two people at the same time.  We are complex beings and it is somewhat naive to think one person can meet all of our emotional, psychological, and physical needs.  It is however, very complicated and most people will not tolerate this kind of a relationship.  This presents a dilema for the person who has two loves - do you tell them both or do you hide this from both of them and try to have a relationship with both.  And if you do, how complicated will it get before you are found out?  You risk loosing both lovers....
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Love is something which cannot be explained but only can be experienced... Its something which needs feelings, not only attraction... If the person you love is in pain, you should be getting tears with love... If the person you love needs help, you should do it for them before even them asking you about it... It's the way two hearts talk... I dont really know if everyone can be loved but all i know is everyone can love... And for you to be loved is the greatest gift of all...
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Has love found me?  - it has in the past, at this moment I don't believe so.\n\nDid I pass it by?  - Most likely I have once or twice\n\nAm I looking for it?  - Who isn't?! lol   seriously though, I would love to have it right now, but I can be patient, because I know its worth waiting for...\n\nDo I think it really exists?  - Of course, I was born because of love, 1 - Because God wanted to give me life, and 2 -  Because my of my parents love....\n\nIt's out there, waiting for the right moment... There aren't words to describe love, its something each person needs to experience to know fully the definition of it, but even once they find it and feel it, they won't be able to put it into words... Words would not do the description of love justice... and I know this and haven't experienced unconditional love just yet.. I've been loved and gave love to another before, but I am sure it wasn't complete...  \n\nJust thinking of love is magical, what must it be like... :)  <3
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Yes. I never thought that "love at first sight" was possible until it happened to me. I figured it as being something made up by people that were in love with love. I'm not sure if there is a scientific explanation for this kind of chemistry, but there is certainly something that happens differently to anyone that experiences this! After 2 1/2 years of making sure it wasn't a fluke, we were married six months ago. He still makes my heart speed up just looking at him!
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I feel your pain...humanity has a lot to learn about love.  It is not showing its love on this planet right now...but some are.  It begins individually. One light at a time, like stars in the night sky.  Until we learn to love ourselves and not project our negative stuff on others it will go on as is.  Let your light shine...
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I don't believe there is love at first sight.  I believe there is lust at first sight (initial physical attraction) then love can come later.
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Unfortunately love can be painful as well as joyous.  Remember that just because we care or love someone else does not necessarily mean that person feels the same way toward us.  Its a tough situation when you love someone who cannot return the feelings.  But, its better to find that out now rather then later.  Best of luck to you.
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in the long run love dosnt last if it is a feeling. a long way down the road you will be disaponted if you expect that feeling to stay but it will pop up from time to make you feel good. i think love should be a commitiment to treat some one well. a feeling can become selfish some times and make you do dumb things but it is still lot of fun.
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I think its possible to fall in love with that person's spirit or how you perceive their spirit and soul. It takes years sometimes to find out if a person is who you believe they are. As for a physical attraction, that will take an in person meeting. But maybe this is how you were supposed to meet your soulmate so take a chance otherwise you might regret it later and always wonder....what if?
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I believe that true love exist. I think that there is more than one person out there that can make you experience it. No one will ever be just perfect for you that is way you get to have possibilities. If there were only one person out there that is right for you then it will be nearly impossible to find them.
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Yes, we all can be in love with many aspects of a person and not lust for them...it is an unsatisfying affair, at best. Your "friend" is looking for someone to take care of him, not a whole lot more. Relationships are built on less, I suppose. Not for me, not my diea of an affair...to each his own.
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It's a fact of life that people who are 'in love' will eventually simply love one another. It's impossible for the raging fire that was once your feelings for each other to continue indefinitely. This is very normal. Eventually, you will feel the same and you will accept it and be happy that you have someone who loves you. There are people in this world who never have that.