There is this guy i am very fond of.He has everything one would want in a boyfriend. He is gentle caring funny cute and even innocent.We both are great friends.He often drops me home from university without me asking for it.I threw him a surprise birthday party in a hotel and god i had never seen anybody as happy.he asked me if i was single a few months back.he doesnt call me that often, but my friends keep telling me that he likes me.Does he? how can i know for sure??How do i make him say it if he does?
212101
I reckon he likes you.  Just go for it if you want. Youll know how to approach him. Maybe just hint it to him. Some guys like it when a girl is dominant or straight forward whereas others prefer the girl to be really subtle instead. Itll depend on how he is. But it does sound like he likes you. \n\nJust remember, if you are good friends with him, once you go out it all changes and you need to decide if the chance of losing your friendship is more or less important than the chance of a relationship with this guy. Once you go, you cant ever go back (especially once you sleep with a friend, things change forever).\n\nGood luck!\n\nAll the best ;-)
101903
Hi.  My  advice is, strongly, that if he can't let you know now at the beginning that  he  fancies you, then WALK AWAY NOW before you waste any more energy on him!  It's your job to do your stuff, such as discreetly letting him know that you like him.  If he can't even rise to the occasion to let you know that he likes you back then you are in for utter misery if you keep liking him! Let go, and be ready to meet a guy who has the guts to go after you.  Such a guy will also be able to communicate his feelings while in  relationship.
44727
the best way to find out if he likes you is to let him know how you feel and then ask him if he feels the same. However, you should be ready to accept an answer that you don't want to hear, like that he doesn't want anything more than friendship, or he would like sex but not a relationship. I am not saying these will be his answers, but there is the posibility. The best thing to remember is that if an answer to a question to your friend has the posibility of ruining the friendship, how important to you is finding out the truth?
77551
I think that might be his way of testing the waters with you, I had a guy friend do the same thing with me "I want to meet someone like you" You have to ask yourself if you would want to persue something with him or not, from the way it sounds not. \n\nThis is one of those time when subtle wont work I think you just need to come out and ask him if he is hinting that he wants more. Just tell him you have been getting a different vibe from him lately and you want to know.
226453
c'mon don't be so hard on yourself. of course he likes you enough to spend so much time with you. however, it would be wise to be cautious and tread carefully. why look for signs, just enjoy the now. it does seem you are happy right now, so don't question and don't let doubts prevail.all the best babe!
383230
Well l guess it's all up to you. If he really liked you , you would think he would of asked you out by now. Do you think that perhaps he thinks you just want to be friends with him. You have your work cut out for you then.I guess you will have to give him the nod and let him know you are keen on him. Depending on how long he has been single he may need some more time. Only you will know by the response you get whether he is keen on you or not. Good Luck  just speak to him.
40754
more than likely that he is interested in you, guys don't always come out and say that they like you. just like women have there was of saying it with out saying it. if you are inerested in him then let him keep doing what he is doing, and if you are still not sure what he is doing, that just ask him.
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I am not trying to sound rude but.. unless he has a neon sign that says he doesn't, he does. \n\n1. introduced you to his friends (show of respect and sign that he likes you)\n2. Only girl there - feels he can take you anywhere and that he feels comfortable with just you\n3. "he carried me onto his bedroom and tucked me in with sheets for it was really freezing. and then he asked me, 'do you mind if we cuddle, diane?'" - sounds like somehing out of a romance novel. He OBVIOUSLY likes you. If he did this "just to be nice/friendly" and "as a friend", there is something going on.\n\n4. "He just pat my back and laid his head on my back. He brushed my hair with his hand" - Physical contact = friendship + more (AKA. really likes you)\n\n5."'glad you were here'." - shows appreciation for your presence.\n\nOverall, the odds are that he not only likes you but is crazy about you. If I had a guy do this to me, I would be completely head over heals. YES, Diane, I think there is a 158% chance he not only likes you but wants to be more than friends (quite so actually).\n\nGood luck!
551427
I would say that he is interested in you to some degree.  He doesn't sound too serious either.  Just enjoy the attention that you do get from him and leave it at that.  Just a flirting thing.  Sometimes it's fun just to flirt and not worry about relationships.
254021
Do not just pop over with him and get their raw reaction. That might not go so well. I would break them in slow over a few weeks - start with telling them you have a boyfriend, explain how much you care about him...no details at first. Then pepper in a few hints about him that would give hints about him, then maybe put a picture up or have pictures of you and him together. Give them time to take it all in. Then bring him over so they can find out how good a guy he is.
519507
Considering that he has already asked you out in the past (even if it was a few years back), half of the work is already done. It sounds like he already has feelings for you. I think that what you should do is start talking to him again.. don't just jump right into the relationship, start off talking to him, talk to some friends of his to see if he is single, and if that is not possible.. be like "Your girlfriend's lucky.." and test the waters. Most likely he will then at that point say "I'm single" or "Yea, she is" This would probably be a good indicator. You may not use the exact phrase, but whatever you choose to that extent should take care of that problem. My advice is, gee, just to get the friendship built back up, and get it to where you feel comfortable with him and want to get into a relationship. Just keep in mind, that no matter what happens, it will happen in its own time, no need to hurry things along.. Good luck!
550022
I think that he definitely is interested in you and he probably does want to date you. He wouldn't spend all that time trying to engage you in conversation if he didn't care. However, no one can know if they will be with anyone forever. But that shouldn't deter you from going out with him. Being hurt does suck...but you wont live your life if you are always afraid of what might hurt you. You should go for it and if it doesn't work out just know that it wasn't meant to be and you will find someone else that will love you that much more. You wont ever have your first boyfriend if you don't get that first boyfriend...first relationships are hard. But then you will have all this experience and know exactly what you want out of a relationship for the next time around if this one doesn't work out. Go for it!
478553
You should find a night you're not busy, and ask him if he is doing anything. I if he says yes, than he probably likes you.
141806
Ask him out, I guess that is the only way to ever find out if this "girlfriend" is real or just a way to get your attention. I'm guessing he's just trying to get a reaction from you to see if you really like him or not. Go for it and ask him out!
396531
I agree with you that he could be lying, but let me tell you more about what I think he is,\n\nI believe he never had a gf before and he likes you so much, so if it happens you could be the first one in his life ( I mean he could have no experience so bear with him ) also he is not a kind of a social person but he could try to seem social , he is a dreamer,  he also could be affectionate and romantic if you help him to get over his blushing.\n\nTry not to question if he likes you before you know if you like him first or not, if we respond to admiration we would have had several gfs and bfs, but none one would really love, its only true ones that we should choose, so be careful.
641005
first, asking him for the time is hilarious!  You sound pretty cool!  Hopefully next time hes around you, he will ask you again.  Good luck!
158449
From what you described, I'm 99.9% positive that he has feelings for you. His problem is that he can't make a decision for himself. He's sending you quite a few signals. He's waiting for you to make the first move before breaking it off with his current girlfriend. He's insecure. He doesn't want to be alone. Question is, do you have feelings for him? Do you want to be with a guy that insecure? Remember, the relationship will change once everything is out in the open. Which is more important to you? The friendship or the relationship?