Do you think it will damage their daughter more than the 1st time? Do you think they made the right descion to get married again or do you think they should have dated and got to know each other all over? Whats your opinion?
208638
well, i read he went in with no pre-nup - with their history, he is a Fool! and I really feel bad for his daughter... it cannot be good for you having parents who get married, divorce (very bitterly), has her dad tattoo RIP Kim on him and write numerous songs about killing her, and then they remarry only to divorce again. the child will never have a normal relationship, will she?
505284
some say "if you love them let them go...if they come back it was meant to be" but you see, maybe her parents are "controlling" her...i had the same thing happen to me when i was younger..we both waited until i gradutated and i sat down and talked to my mom...i told her, you always told me to follow my heart, and not let anyone tell me what to do...i love ***** and he is my heart and you can either accept him or not it is your choice.....she and my husband are friends....i was with him for 6 years before we finally got married, i am married to him now and i still feel the love like we just began dating! maybe you should talk to her and find out how she feels!
209701
When I divorced my first husband I swore I'd never get married again. Well, a year and a half later I fell in love. Six months after that I remarried a terrific man who helped me raise my sons. That was 20 years ago and we're still together and very much in love.\n\nI agree with you about the bar scene. I was fortunate to meet my husband through my family. Many churches have singles groups for adults. \n\neharmony.com seems to be a great place to meet just the right guy: http://www.eharmony.com/\n\nIt is scary when you first start dating. Sometimes you just have to take a deep breath and say yes to that first date. You already know the things that you don't like from your first marriage. Use that knowledge as you get to know your dates. I'm not saying carry that baggage with you, but it can be a yardstick to measure by. Take your time and don't rush into anything.\n\nOnce you know that you're going to get married, then introduce him to your daughter. Talk to her ahead of time so she knows what to expect. Let their relationship develop at its own pace. \n\nMirror.co.uk has an article that may give you some guidance: http://www.mirror.co.uk/sexandhealth/sexandrelationships/tm_objectid=16872368&method=full&siteid=94762&headline=will-a-new-man-upset-my-child--name_page.html\n\nI found my true love after a disastrous first marriage. You can too! God Bless!
144951
I think that there is not a problem with her going as long as you are comfortable with it. I think that you have a right to be uncomfortable particularly if they were together for a long time. I think that she should try to include you in some way. I can understand that she feels that you don't trust her but you are her husband so you should be included if not the first time but at least sometime like a double date or something.
242766
Brilliant!\nAbsolutely a wonderful idea!\n\nMy own mother could have spared me a DREADFUL first AND SECOND marriage...but I did not listen to her!\nSo, I paid the failure price!\n\nMothers know their children FAR and away better than the children know themselves, simply because they have watched HOW that child makes choices from the first day of its life!!!\n\nI believe this with ALL my heart!\n\nMothers also recognize traits in the child that are known sometimes only to the mother herself, because she may have had them or still have them and knows they are not optimum in Life's choice making!!!\n\nLet you mother choose someone, you will have the final say, after all, the chemistry has got to be THERE for YOU !!!\nBut, trust her instincts and guidance--she loves you like no other human will EVER love you in your Whole EXISTENCE AND only wants GOOD for you.\n\nI believe this even though you and I have never met!\nSome things you just have to Trust.
105362
Well that definitely is a big age difference. Are they sure they are in love? If I were that girl and was truly in love with him, then yes i would get married because age doesn't matter when it comes to true love. What does her parents think?
338326
Hey sis, if you need to talk, I"m here for you. I married a brother who had been married to a sister who cheated on him. If you want to talk to him about it or ask him questions about it, I don't have a problem . Drop me a line, eh? I can understand how hard it is on the 'survivor' , It has been almost 7 years since we got married and there are still trust issues. But I know that eventually he will heal and  I am patiently waiting for that time. Meanwhile, we have a great marriage. Yeah, drop me a line and let's talk.\n( Bap'd 3-10-1990)
349858
You must let them both go. A friend had this happen to her also and they got together got married had two kids and now they are in divorce court. She never got over the fact that her g/f did this to her, but now she sees that she mulled way too long over this. I would not be friends with her anymore as you may never be able to trust her.
497243
Actually, why did they ever hook up?  You're talking about 2 not-so-bright, slightly trashy people who enjoyed having their courtship on TV.  \n\nThey probably never should have gotten married, and the kids were totally a bad idea.  It's so sad, too.  Poor kids.  \n\nshe was k-fed-up.  sorry, i had to say it.  :)
354950
I would forgive but i would be weary of it happening again, the trouble is that when something like this happens the trust is broken, and unfortunately trust is the hardest thing to get back once you have lost it.\nIf i was in love with this person than i would like to think that i would forgive and forget but i would only be able to do  it once, If it happened again than i would have to say no way. If i had gained the trust level back and it happened again i know i could not trust for the third time.
188723
I'm not too sure if it will last or not.  He seems very fond of her, but maybe its because she had his children.  I kind of get the feeling that he thinks of marriage/engagement as a jinx, afterall he has been married once, and engaged about 3 times(I think).  When it comes to JD and marriage, something always stops it and ends it.  Maybe thats why they havent gotten married.  But yes, I see him sticking with her for the kids sake.\n\n=)
507123
I think it is inapropriate if the relationship  is not serious ie. engaged or close to it.  I think it also depends on how your  daughter felt about just her mother being there.  She may not have wanted to be different from the other children.  I have a six year old, and believe me, this is a big deal to them at that age.
209062
no! when a girl proposed! the marriage doesnt usually last, we conducted a research, with 2 couples, and 100% they got divorced a month later
474489
Maybe he is proposing a date with her.  I cannot imagine he is ready to jump in and get married without having a relationship first.  Besides, if she is only separated, that means she is still married, and he would be smart to stay out of her life until she is legally divorced.
173656
I had a best friend from college.  He was the DJ in my first wedding.  I was a bridesmaid in his first wedding. He was at the hospital the day my twins were born. 15 years later, after we were both divorced, he finally kissed me.  I asked him what took so long and he said he was afraid because he didn't know how I felt abou him!  After 5 years of dating,we got married in Las Vegas and we willhave our 2nd anniversary 8/31/2006! I am so lucky to be married to my best friend. GO FOR IT!
218678
First of all, the second girl (the one who the guy marries) should not worry about what happened previously, she's got him  NOW.  That is all that matters.  As long the guy treats her like gold, she should not worry about the past.  The past is the past.  The girl should look toward the future with her new husband!
590284
The kids shouldn't meet dad's new gf until hes sure that shes going to be sticking around for a long time.  Its not good to introduce kids to a bunch of gf because if they end up liking one then they break up then the kids have to deal with not being able to see that girl anymore.