Does in affect the orgasm?Do you recommend it or not?How often can we try it?I am a 23 year old guy.
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Not harmful.  Recent studies have shown that men who "exercise" their reproductive organs on a regular basis have a healthier prostate gland and urinary tracts.  It needs exercise like the rest of the body.  Additionally, pre-ejaculant fluid contain components that cleanse the urinary tract of bacteria, so as to minimize the destruction of sperm.  However, if you m-bate quite often, you may not be able to have an orgasm without "flogging your bishop" yourself.  So make sure you "exercise" that area in other ways besides just m-bating.
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Well, it happens sometimes. What works for me is to focus on pleasing her and not to get too crazy with it.  Focus on her rhythm and breathing, and slow the heck down. The more you try to please her the longer you will last and then when she has gone a few times before you then you will find a whole new era for you in the bedroom. She will be quite the satisfied woman.
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It's not bad, it's natural. Your orgasm depends largely on your state of mind and the feelings in your heart. Of course, with practice, it becomes easier to climax, but if your heart isn't in it, or if you are stressing, it's not likely to happen. So relax, enjoy the sex, and try not to worry about whether or not you're climaxing - that way you're much more likely to reach orgasm!\n\np.s. a good technique is to be on top, and to have you or your partner rub your clitoris as you have sex. have fun!
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Have you ever had an orgasm on your own? Meaning, have you ever tried a vibrator or anything else to bring yourself to orgasm? If you have, then I'd suggest talking to your boyfriend and asking him how he'd feel about incorporating "toys" in the bedroom. One thing I'd highly recommend, since it's almost foolproof, is using a vibrator on your clitoris while your boyfriend goes in from behind, doggie style. This way, he can penetrate you fully and you're in position to have access to your clitoris without getting in each other's way.\nMost importantly now....NO, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. I had sex for the first time when I was 16, and to be totally honest, I didn't have my frist real orgasm until I was around 24 (I'm 31 now). It's frustrating, I know, especially because it seems to happen so easily for the guys. Trust me though, when it does happen for you, and it WILL, it'll be well worth the wait. ;) For now, just try and relax and not think about trying to acheive an orgasm...the more pressure you put on yourself, the harder it'll be to have one. When you relax, you might surprise yourself.\nHope this helps you out. Good luck! :)
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What matters is knowing your own body and what you like - BUT also being open to trying new things.  Every woman is different.  Those who enjoy sex usually have done some exploration and know what their body wants and likes and are able to communicate that to their partner.  I know many women who will stimulate their clitoris when they are being penetrated.  I know many who cannot orgasm without doing this - but - it also increases the intensity and enjoyment of being penetrated.  As someone else mentioned - try different things, and yes age and experience makes a HUGE difference.  Having a partner you trust and can communicate with is also crucial.  Inform yourself with knowledge - buy a book or two or do some research on the web about this.
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...When I was with my boyfriend I'd play with my clit while we were in action. It took me 4 years to cum with him. Get totally immersed in what your doing. Body, mind, soul, with an environment to match your deepest fantacies. Maybe do a little yoga to get your mind off of every day life. Watch a porn before you go at it. Have a little chocolate or, better yet all three! If you're having sex just to get an orgasm, it won't come. A little trick I've learned... when he's on top of you, move your hips up and in towards him so he's totally inside you. Keep moving your hips wherever feels best, play with your clit while your at it, stare at his body and into his eyes and keep telling yourself how sexy he is and how much you want him. Use a vibrator while your at it. If all else fails, get a book to better educate yourself or even call a sex therapist. Life is too short to have limited O's.
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Ignoring the PRUDES AND ICE BYTCHES ON THE SITE.  Listen, the hot and cold sensation is great.  Licking him between his *ss  and balls is great.  But if he lets you and that's a big IF while you are giving him his bj gently insert your finger in his a n u s.   (think of a proctology exam)  It tickles his prostate. This sensation will intensify his orgasm. If you swallow (and don't be ashamed if you do) Just remember to breathe before he ejaculates it WILL BE INTENSE.
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Sounds like it has been stretched out from over use. Slow down. Try less partners. Use pelvic exercises to strengthen the muscles. Most of the time the female orgasm is reached from the exterior stimulation anyway. Focus more on this and less on the actual intercourse.  F1sTing is always an option! Let me know if I can help!
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Thats just how most men are made.\nHowever, after the initial act. Believe it or not, men don't operate off of the "thought" of getting it anymore.\nWe need actual stimulation. Give him a few minutes to recover, and then begin with hand or oral stimulation. It works great for me, and I'm 40.
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i see what yu mean. but..... i  don't know if you had the same volves. as me , but mine said in  sickness and in health.. just as it says  in  sickness and in    health...  honey, i know it's hard, but   we have to  endure. my husband  has not given me sex   for 20 years because  of a medical  problem. some times i question   that medical  problem but  i   have to live with it. i masterbate to  fulfill. you may have to  too.  it get old. you can only imagine so much.  i  wish  somehow we could met and satisfy each   other. good luck  humming.....you   want   to get in  touch  with me, my email :tootalljones@yahoo.com we can have im sex want to. im is the   same .yahoo IM down load it.
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You will not loose it if you use it! Do it every day. Keep those muscles strong! Do not listen to propaganda. The ladies can have as many orgasms as they want till they die. The poor men are the ones with erectile dysfunction.\nSmiles~ Go girl.
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Easy for some women but hard for others. You have to give them a G spot climax and the way to do this is, Use 2 or three fingers and gently rub or tap the soft area behind the clit, inside her 3 inches inside. You will find this area is like a pad and as you stimulate it, it will give, when it does so, apply more pressure, gently you fool!! At the same time as you are doing this your tounge should be repetitvly working on her go button. Some women find it hard to let go, they tense up and nothing happens. Some gush wildly, others pass out,  some are frightened by the vastness of their climax. "It's like the universe just passed throughmy entire being, it started at my toes and fingers and in my head, millions of stars tingled towards my secret place and then exploded out. I'm sorry Tony, did you get wet?"
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It is for the MAN!!! LOL But for the woman, hell no! It hurts and it's uncomfortable. I don't like it and I have tried it more than once to see "if it gets better" and it doesn't I've heard women say it gets "more tolerable" after awhile (one woman said "Well after the 14the time...", but why put yourself through that? Have you seen the anus of those chicks who do porn and get it in the... other side?
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It might sound crazy but dont think about it.  An ex of mine had a similar problem and we dound that if he thought about something completely different during intercourse that it helped prolong it.  Over time he was able ot control it for longer periods of time.  Best i can do I am sorry.
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Dont feel bad. I have yet to experience an orgasm with my husband. The only way I can reach that peak is with a vibrator....I feel bad because I have to fake them...and I dont understand it because he can put it down in bed!
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Do you practice delaying techniques?  It would probably be really helpful.\n\nTrial and practice - work on delaying his orgasm with manipulation.
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Can you make yourself orgasm??\nIf yes teach him, if no go to:\nwww.the-clitoris.com\ngood luck!