A group of friends came over this sunday for lunch. One friend brought a guy I had never met. He stayed for lunch and got on with everyone really well. Unfortunately we did not swap numbers. He is single, lives close by and others noticed we got on well. He mentioned over lunch it would be cool to pop by to my house again but did not get my number or make any arrangements. I can get his number easily from my friend as can he vice versa. Do I get the number and call him and if I do what do I say. I do like him and would like to get to know him better or even go on a date. Advice please? Was thinking of phoning and casually askign him over when I have other friends around or is that to childish shoudl i grab the bull by the horns and what? Im late 20's hes early 30's if that makes a difference.
207856
If you got along well, men rarely turn away from a woman he knows likes him.  Men are usually only putzes because they doubt woman like them.  Be very upfront about what you want, and I bet that you can get it.
446656
Well you are on the right track you just need to think of it a little more. Dinner yes seems like a date, but how about lunch, lunch is a nice casual thing that friends do, and if you pick the right place it will just seem like you are just hanging out, dont go to a fancy place but dont go to a fast food place. ASnd it all depends on if you are driving, Dont pick her up, cause that is kinda datish, and if you dont drive find a place you might be able to walk to etc. And movies are the same thing go in the day time not in the night time, and it would look as much like a date
142219
I cannot tell you "no" or "yes" without really knowing more of the details of the situation.\n\nBut the very act of you asking this question and wondering whether you should or should not probably means, "nope." Wait a while and give him time.\n\nPlus, if he was charming, he would have you GIVING him your number without him even asking. Or have you asking for HIS. Heh, I wouldn't give in so easy to ya! :)\n\nWait a while till you get to know him. He may be a fantastic guy! Or he might be a rotten egg. And, make sure that you two live within an "okay" distance so you two can easily meet if it does come to that. There is really no sense of him calling and chatting and adoring you if you two cannot physically be together.
80131
Just ask if he wants to out for drinks some time.  If he declines, then he is not interested, if he says maybe, then give him your phone number.  There's really no worst case scenario, so just ask.
360804
I wouldn't worry about it, nor would I call again. You made the effort and hopefully in your message you explained how crazy the move was and told him who you were down to the very last detail. If he's interested he'll give you a call back. He could be very busy or debating on whether or not he should call you. I wouldn't call him back again for the simple fact that he might think you are stalking him so just give it some time, and if he never calls, then move on. Its not worth getting worried or upset about.
264204
get his number and get it on with :P though it may be just a quick way to get into your pants :D
389845
Some guys want to tap the town ho but they don't want to be seen with someone every other guy may have had, too. Not saying this is what you are, but it's the mentality of some guys if something comes easy. It seems like he is already on his next conquest. He may contact you for a booty call down the road, but you need to decide if that's all you want from him. Move on dear, you are calling the shots with guys, remember. You have what they want.
447278
Try giving this new lady a call (Get her number from your friend), and setting up a lunch date. Not really a romantic date, but a friendly date. Just start to get to know her! Enjoy her company, learn more about her, etc.
371584
just tell him that you really liked him and that you would want to keep in touch with him.  is he coming back?  just wait and keep in touch with him.  as time goes by your hearts will began to grow fonder of one another and if it is meant to be it will happen.  as for now if you just want to get some lovin, I would say don't do that because it will ruin everything even the friendship.  just call him once a week or bi-weekly when he leaves and make sure the conversations are good.  Also every now and then just say that you met this guy and you went to a movie or something to make him a little jealous but when you do this make sure he knows that you two are just friends but don't over do the friend part.  you know what to do.  or that's an idea take him to a dinner and a movie for a going away gift and just when he thinks he's going to get some be strong and leave!!!!
393393
Firstly if I were you, I wouldn't call at 7:00. Have you been keeping contact with him throughout the month, or is this the first you've heard from him? If it is the first you've heard from him, I would most definitely not call until like..... 8:15 - 8:45. Make it seem like you haven't been waiting for him, and that you've got better things to do than abide to his schedule. \n\nAs for what to say to him..................... if y'all are still cool,  I don't think it should matter, talk to him like he was just another friend. But again, if I WERE YOU (lol) I wouldn't say much, and I'd give off a "what-is-it-you-need-from-me" kinda attitude.\n\nYa. I'm rude. \n"You must not know 'bout me, you must not know 'bout me............" lol
545760
Are you sure he's not a very busy person?  Is he already seeing someone else?  Other than that I can only think of two answers:  1)  You're coming across as too needy somehow and scaring him away.....\n2)  Sorry to say, he might not like you much, or just not that way.\n\nIf it was me I would act very nonchalant about it.  Don't call too much, and say you've been busy if he asks.  Or you could come up with a "date" plan yourself.  Pick out a movie that you both could enjoy, and say you're dying to see it and you can't get your friends to go for various reasons, etc.  I don't know how old you are....any "manly" things you could ask him to do for you in your house?  Ask him to make a trip to the hardware or auto parts store with you?  Do you cook?  Tell him you're just dying for some chili but you always have too many leftovers!  You're dying for a banana split at such-an-such a restaurant, but don't want to go by yourself.....etc.  These are ideas for after you give him a tad of the cold shoulder for a couple of days and make sure you're not coming across as needy.   Good luck!  (You also could be coming across as not interested enough!!  I've had that happen to me a couple of times.  You have to figure out which it is!)
424391
#1...Gotta play hard to get.  Men love a challenge.  Do not make yourself so readily available.  DONT call him...Make him call you.  No "last minute dates".  \n\n#2.....If you do have another date with this man...watch for signs he might be married...something fishy about this one...I am willing to bet he is attached somehow....(sorry, you might not want to hear that)...just keep this in the back of your mind hon...\n\nGood luck
288977
If you feel like you'd like to know her better, then give her a call.  When you talk to her, you can figure out who the guy was and if you'd like to pursue things further.\n\nI don't see how a simple conversation can hurt anything.  And, if she gave you her card and asked you to call....it probably means nothing is serious with her guy friend.\n\nAnyway, nothing like good old fashioned straight talking conversation, to work it all out.  Ya never know what might happen!
500462
Don't go back because he probably already has another image of you in mind and thought you one of those easily available girls. He never bothered to exchange numbers. But if you must, just go there with your friends and act as if you don't remember anything. Only if he approaches you or shows signs of recognition, you can just go and say 'Hello'. Ask him that you believe that you have met him before and does he remember you? Ask very casually as if he was a business client you are meeting. His response will make it clear, which turn you will want to take.
62788
His just proably very busy and his thinking about you. Maybe his thinking about what to do with you next. Relax you dont want to scare this guy away. I've been there and done that. Its not cool becuase you hurt yourself for what you did. Just go with it and get to know him first. Don't jump to the marriage part. you guys just met.  I really think that there's things he needs to do and haven't had time to call you.  GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT!!!!  unless you go out one day and caught him with someone else then just look at it like you don't care but don't let him see you be hurt. " Those who wait will be reward!!"
102537
ok here ya go, ask her to hang out like maybe go grab a bite to eat beforwe work, ya know not like a date date but more of a friend. then start a conversation about how great she is. she will get the picture that you are interested. but hey girls get scared and they think the guy might not feel the same. so you might can just ask her if she likes you like that she will say yes, if not she will still be your friend because she is coming to your house anyway. I dunno I always called a girl and iasked, but the girl i got now my friend hooked us up.
286132
yes, ask for her number! but do it saying something of the nature of "it was very very nice to meet you too, youre a cool girl, maybe we can talk later or even go out or something? can i have your number?" dont make it seem as tho u only want to date her