it's been a yr since we officially broke up and i had notice her cell number popped up in my phone last july i still love her what do you guys think?
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GIVE HER A CHANCE SHE STILL CARES 4R U..OLD LOVE NEVER DIES
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Have you called her to let her know how much you love and miss her, and how your day's have been going? Remember a relationship takes two! If you haven't called her,she might be feeling the exact same way that you are feeling. But if you have been calling her and she acts like she is to busy or is in a rush to talk with you. The next time when the two of you talk again you should bring this subject up to her, and if she is still to busy to have a down-to-earth conversation with you, then you should just stop calling her all together. And let her see how she likes getting a taste of her own medicine!\nGood Luck!!!
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Ok this kinda situation is not that rare... I can't tell you what to do, you'll have to decide that for yourself.  i would suggest thinking of how bad it hurt when she left.  Then how longit was before she called/ spole with you.  Its the little things in life that lead to the big picture.  Think of the little things in the past that made the relationship stronger and compare them to those that pushed you apart.  Asses the nature of the issues that came between you both.  Finally, know that the world is full of beautiful women, there's one around every turn.  Don't let the fact that they may not always be around blur your vision of what will make YOU happy.  Hope this helps,\nHang in there brotha'\nSean
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She's still not over you. Even through she's dating another guy, you're still on  her mind. Its just not easy or quick for girls to move on. \nIf you don't have any feelings for her, then discourage her from contacting you.
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There is definitely trouble brewing.  She obviously still has something for him, since she sought him out on MySpace and is actively chatting.  Never trust a partner who still talks to their ex!
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Actually, I think the amount of time that passed is NOT important, however, did you change? Did she change? Why did you split up 7 years ago? Consider these answers before leaping again, and make sure you both know what you are expecting from the other.
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have you done something that could annoy her? or probably she's having second thoughts on breaking up with his ex. maybe you should give her some time alone. but keep the communication line open. text her from time to time (but not too much), ask her how she is. but do not annoy her by texting too much. if this scenario continues for days, try giving her a letter and express how you really feel. tell her you really like her but having second thoughts on pursuing cause she might think you're taking things too fast. just be honest.
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If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
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There are two things I should say about your relationship:\n1. she still cares about him \n2. you shouldn't "spy" her text messages .. you need to trust her..but if you don't, there is a reason ..
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I think you need to give more details on your situation because I don't know what you are asking. What do you mean by you are "seperated"? \n\nDid you two once go out as boyfriend and girlfriend and was living much closer to each, but now live far apart but now the relationship is long term?\n\nAnd what do you mean you have problems talking to her on the phone? Describe what the problem is.....\n\nMore details please...
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no, if you just broke up she should maybe give you some time. If she talks to you everday, it will seem like before. So at first it's probably not a good idea. But if its been a while then its fine if it doesn't bother you.
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I've been in love actually i'm still in love with my ex.  I write her everyday and we talk every day but she tells me that she can not be with me becuase she needs time to heal from when i broke her heart.  So i'm giving her time.  All the time she needs.  I know that in the end it will work out because we both love each other.  It sounds like you have it just as bad as i do so i say you don't let go and you keep talking to each other and anychance you get to go see her, do it.  Eventually there will be a path created for you two to be together.
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depends on how much you like him - it must be a lot though cos you did sleep with him in July.  if you have not seen him since then - only text messages - then how you think he expects you to drop everything to see him?\n\nif you are not interested in him then i think you should stop texting him cos by keeping in contact all the time then you are giving him false hope.\n\nhope it all works out well for you.
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By doing this makes you a stronger man...you did good by leaving her alone...it is hard when you have been in love, then it's all over, it hurts immensely and life seems pointless at that stage, give yourself some healing time...it's natural to feel the way you feel...by ignoring her and not staying in contact is a good way to go...as much as it hurts you are proving to yourself that you can move on, despite the hurt and heartache...good man...at least your not hassling her with calls and constantly on her case...never call yourself a coward, you are no where near to being a coward...your doing the right thing...you are saving your feelings from being hurt further and you are also respecting your ex by letting her get on with her life...there should be more out there like you...stay with it and focus on other things to ease your pain, it's hard not to see or hear about her new fella but there's no other way to tackle this...lets know how you get on in a months time...the pain won't be as intense as it is now...bless you....x
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Sounds suspicious to me.  Are you sure she's his ex?  How long have you been together?  Call her back and have a girl to girl talk.  She'll give you her side of the story.
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i think she made up an excuse to break up with you. she had this guy on the backburner and was thinking of hooking up with him while she was with you. but with this excuse she can blame you in stead of saying, "i like this other guy instead so i'm breaking up with you." cool off, and start finding another chick. don't waste you timing thinking about your ex.
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wow-- u sould like a great guy, i wish i had a guy like you. I think she cant believe what she has. Maybe she is taking a break to find out what she has is true. Dont ignor her, just give her time. dont call her, dont do anything. wait for her to gather her thoughts. and she will come back, she will realize what she has. Did she say y she broke up with you? I know its hard, and we have all gone through it, just give her time... time heals. dont call her.