I met this real cute guy on the internet,i know hes not a fake because he should me pictures,and i want to find out if hes lying to me,he thinks i'm really hot !!,he lives in Saskatoon and im moving there this summer sometime,but he told me he wants to see me and i told him i want to see him too.And he said he thinks im the one...,and i asked him whats your three wishes that you want to come true.And he said 1.I want you to move in saskatoon right now 2.Want you to go out with me 3.to merry me,and i said thats really sweet..,and he want's to be with me forever.He tells me that alot,but the thing is he cheated on a girl in the past and he felt bad after he said.And he wont do it again..,but i don't know what to beleive anymore i dont' know if hes a player or WHAT..,please help me..\nP.S. in case your woundering whats my age im 17 and the guy i like is 17 almost 18..
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He sounds nuts to me, you know nothing about him except what he tells you, you're only 17 which is too young to settle down let alone with some Whack Job!!!
149424
Dont be fool by givin him a chance like that..First find out his details and be sure of his privacy..May be he is a play boy..^ may be he gots lot of guls like u on messenger...Nowadays its very hard 2 believe someone like that..One of my friend also had a bad time with an online love..Beware of them p/z ..best of luck
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This guy has:\n\n1) "Been Chasing me for ages and ages (even when i was in a serious relationship)" - shows persistency, and also means that you are not just a fling or a crush for him.\n2) "He Always compliments me and makes conversation with me" - could be that's he's trying to get points, or that he simply is a nice guy. find out if he also compliments other women/people. about the conversation, it shows that you guys have chemistry.\n3) "i always catch him looking at me" - and he always catches you... :)\n4) "he doesnt flirt with any other girls" - now, i don't know you so  i could not say how you found this out, or if you are just supposing it. it ccould b that he does when you are not around, as well as that he could really be a no flirt type of guy (good :))\n\nBUT:\n\n1) "he only texts me at the weekends to meet him out" - maybe he is busy/ maybe he thinks YOU are busy/ maybe he is "busy", if you know what i mean (another person...)\n2) "he asked how im enjoying he single life (as if just come out of a 5 year relationship 8 months ago). I said i was enjoying it!" - now, you are, but why do you wonder if he likes you? :)\n3) "He said he wishes he could meet some like me (when i was in my previous relationship)" - it could be that he considers you a good friend and a good person. depending on your relationship, you are the best judge of the meaning of this sentence. he could be cueing you to think you are the right person for him, but it could also mean a sincere compliment.\n\nDoes he like me?Any advice?\nit seems he does, but again, YOU are the best judge for that :)\nit seems to me that YES he does.
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Considering the recent questions this guy has posted, nothing he has stated here can be taken seriously.\n\n"Anyone here who is Married and looking for some extra fun, notthreesome?\nAsked by matkalland - 1 answer - Marriage & Divorce - 6 minutes ago - Open\nAnyone here going to University of St.thomas and is looking for causalsex?\nAsked by matkalland - 0 answers - Singles & Dating - 10 minutes ago - Open\nAny one from Twin Cities interested in casual sex?\nAsked by matkalland - 4 answers - Singles & Dating - 13 minutes ago - Open\nI am looking for a MILF inMinnesota? Anyone interested Please let me know, handsome,works goes to the U?\nAsked by matkalland - 3 answers - Singles & Dating - 16 minutes ago - Open"
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it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!
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Once Pitagora (if I correctly recall), said: "either way, you will regret it". I think that either way you will be happy, too. Given the distance, normally the guy is obliged to come meet you. For a girl to "expose" herself in such a manner... I guess he has some fantasies about you left in some corners of his brains... It is you who decides what step should take next, but if he mentioned that is still attracted by you, it's just normal for him to come show you this (not yet consumed) affection for you. I know that the fog persists in your mind... try to do whatever your heart tells you :)
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Okay.  first of all, i get the impression you are quite young.  what is happening here is the original boy you knew who spoke with you online and in church is now very unsure of the type of girl you are.  all three of these boys who clamour for your attention sound like troublemakers.  i would say get away from them as soon as possible and try to talk things over with the original young man before it's too late.
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Does he wish to go out with you?  If yes, that is one less thing you have to consider.\n\nAge is DEFINATELY just a number, though if you are not of legal age in your country and he is, please stop all contact with him or stay only friends because he could get in trouble for being with a minor.  \n\nAnother thing is... Please use caution with being online.  I honestly cannot stess enough the stories I have heard of people who have pretended to be someone they are not, people who try to take advantage of others in illegal or hurtful ways, and all of this stuff. If you take your relationship into offline life make sure that you do the following:  tell your friends about this person (including his name, where he is from and all of that) make sure that if you do meet you do so in a public place with other people around and take a friend with you, if you are in a position to do a background check on him do so, and the rest of the necessary things to keep you safe.  I am NOT saying all people online are predators, some are very nice people and I met my future husband in a Yahoo! Chatroom but I also used very reasonable precautions when going forward with meeting with him and such.\n\nIf you both like eachother and are both of legal age, go for it; a wonderful, trusting relationship is a rare find and sometimes you have to take it where you can get it.  Just try not to pay attention to what people say about finding someone off the internet.  Though, if you feel there is something wrong in your relationship at anytime, look into it... don't dismiss anything.
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i would tell him you have to grow up sooner or later and doesn't he want their own privacy. by the way i wanted to tell you i really like your avatar it is by far one of the cutest!
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How do you know he is 25?  That is just a little old for you don't you think?  How can you be in love with someone when you have never met him?  You know he could be a 50 year old fat pervert.  Don't ever trust someones identity on the Internet!  I wish I had your phone number so I could call your parents.  Do you have any idea how many young girl's are raped and murdered by men they have met on the Internet and then meet in person?  I'm sorry, but I fear for your safety and I hope you never try to meet this person or tell him where you live.
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It sounds to me like he was kind of hinting for a date.  After the washing my hair line he was probably too intimidated to ask you out directly so he was feeling you out to see what kind of reaction he would get.  As far as your age difference goes, I can't say what is or is not appropriate.  I have know some 19 year old men who were more honest, level headed, and mature than some 30 year old men I know.  People grow and mature at different rates and what matters isn't that your ages be compatible, but that your maturity levels be compatible.
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Sure he likes ya.. (he is crazy about you!) It shows again and again in what you write above! YES you are perceptive about that 'guy code.' I think he's got to work some things out in his head .. this is hard to do BUT it will pay off.. Give it a couple more months. Don't push it! You know one important thing (and it's a biggie) that this guy has got 'good morals..' If he's being respectful of his friends (I think it's kool) think how great and respectful he will be of YOUR feellings?! Am I right? This guy sounds like a real keeper, hon. You are doing o.k. too by the way by playing it cool.. keep it 'casual.'  Play back his 'hey, what's up?' to him. (Real kool how he stayed w/ya and slept there, didn't touch ya.. that what ya wrote, right? he was awkward in the morning..) He sounds like he is not going to cheat on you. (He sounds like a real dear.) I say GO for it!!!!!!
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Geez, I'm in a rut right now with one.  I want to believe something will really happen, but the longer it goes, and his stories change, I"m starting to feel he's making me play games now.  \n\nI have however made 2 very good friends from the online dateing!  It's like we have been friends forever. The problem was, we weren't compatable with all the lovey, romance, sex stuff.\nBut I'll love their friendship and hold them dear in my heart forever!
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ok, why would he forget to change the details on it when he met you? is he not serious about you? why did he lie first when you confronted him if it was innocent?\n\nsame thing happened to me and i fell for every lie he told. you have to ask yourself these questions. something tells me you know the answer already.\n\nmy advice is, he is lying. he kept that web page and deliberately kept his profile without changing it because he was keeping his 'options open'. don't fall for any more of his lies. get out now before he really breaks your heart..................
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You really like this guy, but you think he is to old for you? He is to old for you, forget him untill you are 18, seriously he could actually get in some deep trouble if lets say you two hooked up and he turned 18 and you are still a minor, for instance you two are lets say having sex. \n\nNot trying to be mean but I really would doubt he will give you the time of day, you are in Jr. High and he's a Junior in High School. Think of the &$%# he would get if he was dating a girl in Jr. High. I'd move on if I was you, age does matter when it comes to one being a minor and the other is of legal age. ( or in this case probably close to legal age )
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Well did you boink the guy or what? I mean I need more details how can I live vicariously through others if your not more specific.\n\nI believe thats suffienct time. Your going to have to put out if you expect to keep some of the obviously rare online guys out their lol.\n\nHope this helps! If it doesn't work out their is also icecream remember that.
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Girlfriend: there're 2 scenario's! Number 1 is he's playing you. Now I know you don't wanna hear this, but keep an open mind! He's either met someone his own age (or younger) that might not 'intimidate' him as much, or he's just being stupid. Second scenario: he really digs you, but he's too shy/afraid/clueless as to how to tell you this. (Let's both hope for your sake this is the true reason for his being distant...) Either way, keep your chin up, and your head open. Don't go losing your heart to this guy just yet... Good luck!