I am an asian and Iam going to marry whit a pure white\n(anglo-saxon)\nshe never mind to opinion of her family and friends\nbut I am realy worry , I love her and I want her\nbut I dont want to do anything that may hurt her or her\nworth or her chance in the society\nplease realy answer me:\ndo you hate me and my dear fiance?\n you hate or not ,thank for your answer
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NO! I don't hate anyone for their skin color, and I think it's wonderful that you and your fiance have found one another. I hope everything works out for you and I wish you only the best! Congratulations on your engagement and good luck to you both!
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Married White Female\nMarried White Male
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yes, I was married to a black man for 20 years.  I loved him very much but we caught hell from both sides white and black.  People were always trying to under-mind our relationship.  His family had problems with it, especially the females in his family.  My family at first was not happy, but when they saw him for who he was, we had a great relationship.  So, you can't force people to except your love of another person of any other color or country.  You both have to work on  your love of one another because there is always going to be hateful, mean people out there who are not going to be thrilled with your love and will say things and try to do things to end it.  People are just hateful.  But, I don't regret it.  My husband died and he was a good person and we endure a lot, but we loved each other and people saw that and pretty much had no issues with it.
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It is not just English who wear white to be married - Scottish, Welsh and Irish do too.\n\nIndian is Red (usually a sari) and I think Chinese is too but a lot now opt for the Western white dresses.\n\nTraditionally you just got married in your Sunday best but when Victoria married Albert in white it started a trend which has continued until today.
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marry the one you love. my wife is a sikh and i am a englishman and she had the same problem with her family.  the guy you dont know will treat you like trash so dont do it. stand your ground the world is changing be yourself and do what you want.
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H.  I don't know why you have to ask what you should do.  To marry because you don't want to hurt family, or to save yourself from embarrassment is ludicrous.  No one should enter into marriage unless they love their fiance and plan to stay with them til death do they part. It is really not fair to your fiance to begin this union feeling the way you do, and have you even considered what kind of life would any children have if you did not love their mother.  There really is nothing to contemplate.  You should break off the engagement, stop the wedding and go on with your life.  Marry only when you know you want to spend the rest of your life with the chosen one. Good Luck!
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Right on sister! Your logic is impecable. \nI once dated a student of German - therefore I am NAZI.\nI once dated a singer - therefore I am not tone deaf.\nI once dated a pre-med - therefore I am not unfit.\nI married a Norsk - therefore I am not anti-lutifisk. Dumb me.\nI once adopted 2 Asians and 2 Roms - therefore I am an Thai Gypsy.\nSheesh. If I didn't know better, I would say I once answered a black chick's question and therefore I am a White Supremist...and why do they get that capitalized?
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i'm considered as white, and my husband is asian\n\nand i asked the same Q\ncheck it out here\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnLkO4TyQgj9YNy.UCq9Jqnsy6IX?qid=1006030401937
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He understands perfectly.  He is just trying to get you to change your mind.  Stand your ground, you are doing the right thing.  Tell him you are engaged, very much in love and respect your fiance.  Do you know his wife?  Tell him you will ask her opinion of his proposition.  If all people had your attitude, there wouldn't be anyone to cheat with. I applaud you.  Best wishes on your upcoming wedding.
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you should change your Yahoo ID to "I Like White Meat"\n\nBut seriously, folks - have we gotten THAT politically correct in our society that now DATING preferences can be construed as racist?  This makes no sense, especially since you haven't even mentioned a preference for white guys; just that your last three "crushes" and a bf have been white.  \n\nThis is like saying "the last three job applicants and the guy I ultimately hired were all white, so I must be a racist."  This makes no sense, either.\n\nHowever, perhaps you are expressing some guilt about dating guys outsiede your race.  You don't indicate your race in your question.  Your avatar is ambiguous with respect to race, so I won't assume you are of any particular race.  I can assume that you are not white, and if that's the case, i have to wonder why you are feeling as if you are racist.  Are you feeling pressure from family or friends to date your "kind" (man- what an obsolete word - "kind")?  Do you feel duty bound to follow some sort of government-mandated affirmative action program?  If so, then throw in a brutha every 4th crush and you should be just fine.
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Even if I were surprised, that they were a different race, I would still invite them in and treat them with the upmost respect. It's kind of hard for me answer this question in an honest way, because i'm in a interracial relationship (marriage) myself, so quite naturally, that's the reason, I feel the way I do, when it comes to interracial relationships. If a person told me that they don't believe in interracial relationships, I would not be offended, because that is your right, to feel the way, that you do. I would have more respect for a person, because of their honesty. It's wrong to tell a person that you're ok with something and then the first chance you get, you go talk to someone else about how awful you think it is.
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I'm an American of Irish decent, married to a American of German decent. It made my family so angry when I married outside my species that they all got piss drunk and beat me up. And then, they sentenced me to..........."The Wearin' of the Green Shoes"! So now, if I return to Ireland, I'll be marked for assassination by both Protestants and Catholics alike.  ;-)
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I married a man of another race.  My family has been pretty accepting of him, thankfully.  But I have also seen a good friend of mine struggle with her dad for years to accept her boyfriend of another race, and he never did, and they eventually broke up.  Her dad was afraid of how other people would treat my friend and her boyfriend, and their children someday.  I think the generations before us have seen people do really mean things because of racism, and sometimes they are scared of that stuff happening to their kids.  You are in a tough place.  I hope your mom can get to know your boyfriend and see him for what you see in him.
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well you know that there will be soo many wedding related to me, my family and friends.\nI like to go for wedding.\n\nand what colore????\n\ndobt???? \nany way I dont think that  I will not were the colore which you wear!!!!\n\nI like the orenge color\n\nWhat do you like??\nsend me your answer my ID is jishnu_vv@yahoo.com
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_____(her name)\n\n         Thanks for being so sweet. Thank you for being everything i've ever wanted in a girlfriend. Here's something to let you know I love you, in case you ever felt like underappreciated. (or something lol) There's nothing I wouldn't do for you. It's hard nowadays to find a girl like you, it seems like you have everything. I want this relationship to really last a lifetime. \n\n\nomg i dont know..lol..i just made something up really quick. y  are you asking this, though? isnt  this supposed to come from YOU?
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I hurt with you. A lot of things should not be an issue, but they are in family situations. All four of our children are from different races than my wife and I. It took one side some time to get used to the idea and relearn what racism smells like.\nOur two oldest sons are Asian married/relating to white women. A little brag - the women's parents think our sons are such great material, they are thrilled. Thus:\nLesson 1: Only bring quality material home to mother. The girl will know how to handle her by praising and showing interest in your heritage.\nLesson 2: Show your own interest in your heritage so your mother will know her "life" will not be forgotten.\nLesson 3: This is neither new nor unique to you. Latino's and blacks, previously Roman Catholics and anyone else, my good Irish stock w/ English, in dating it was my lower middle class vs. upper class. Hang in there. You are helping make a new world.\nAt last.
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LOL-will you marry me???-D