hi !!! my g/f just yesterday tells me about a wierd problem  shes been havin this problem for5-6 months but she never told me about it until yesterday she said that she was gettin wet without even being horny or touching herself. ? is this normal?\n\nwe were together at the beach yesterday, we got there it was a quite drive about an hour i'd say, when we get there she said my ass feels wet i thought it was sweat from long sittin now today shes sayin when she got home at night that was realy wet she had this sticky thing on her underwear she was realy scared. she's so worried now she's afriad of askin her mom, hm. i asked her if she had this problem b4 when she was virgin. she said i dont remember but she says she has it for 5-6 months now. but yesterday was just a lot and even today she said after she came from school she was all wet, she says she doestn remember a day passin by where she didtn change her underwear twice. please tell me wat to tell her.
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The first thing I notice among the answers you got is that most of them(not all) are rude and not helpful.They have no right to accuse you of anything.In my opinion,the best thing you could do is go with her to a gynecologist for a check.It could be normal,but if you say that it's been going on for so many months maybe it's a problem.Don't worry,the doctor is the only one who can help her.In the meantime,tell her to make some vaginal irrigations with TANTUM ROSA(a powder) if you can find it.You boil water and you let it get cold.Then you put the tantum rosa in the water and with this solution she will make an irrigation(she must have a vaginal irrigator).This medicine is over the counter,you don't need a doctor's prescription and it's not harmful.I've used it too,it's for general cleaning of the vagina and to relieve her from the uncomfortable sensation.\nSo,I wish good luck to you both.:)
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Well I have the same prob, but not having sex anymore (lol). When I was having sex the vaginal sponge helped. It made sex way more comfortable. It still might be a good idea for her to get checked out. Good luck ~Rosanne~
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She is trying to numb some pain... ask her when she has been sober for a day, what is hurting her to the point of why she is so distructive, get deep with her because she probably feels guilty for having sex so soon and giving into the peer pressure.  Hope you all will be okay
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If she's not pregnant and you are sure about that, then a visit to your doctors would be very advisable, has she had regular periods before this date? if not then it might be that she hasn't reached full womanhood yet and that her body is still getting things sorted. hope this helps.
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That's bizarre.  Does it bother her, like does it hurt or is it infected or anything?  \n\nNo STD that I know of would cause that without some other hard to miss symptoms.  Maybe she was just born that way.\n\nYou should tell her to go to the doctor.  My first thought is that it probably isn't anything wrong.  But, if it IS bad news, something like that is only going to get worse if she doesn't go to the Dr.
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HELL YEA, LET HER GO. ITS NOT PLEASURABLE TO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR BLADDER FULL.  BESIDES IF YOU ARE SCARED THAT YOUR SH#T WILL GO DOWN, MAYBE YOU ARENT SO SKILLED AT IT. BESIDE U CAN START ALL OVER AGAIN FOREPLAY U KNOW, UNLESS U ARE THE CLASSIC. 2 MIN. MAN.
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She need to see a doctor, now!  Could be too many things to even mention.  Trying all kinds of stuff is not the answer, most only hide the symptoms.
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I know this is an embarassing condition, and talking to a Dr would help but it is hard to bring up.  Maybe it would be easier to bring it up to another female.  The school nurse would also be able to help.  She will not judge you or make fun of you, but will handle the matter professionally.  Some questions that he or she will want to know and for you to consider:\n\n1.  Has this been a problem since childhood, or is it a recent occurence?\n\n2.  Do you have any other muscle control problems or any other type of nerve disorders?\n\n3. Are you having any certain emotions that may be causing it, (not just and effect of it) and how many times a day does this happen?\n\n4.  are there any other symptoms that accompany it such as tingling, burning?  Do you have a fever or other pains?  This may indicate a bladder, kidney, or complete urinary tract infection.  Have you had unprotected sex? It could be caused by an STD.\n\n5.  Is your urine unusually smelly, have floaty things in it, pink or bloody?\n\n6. Are you able to feel the NEED to urinate (us people who think we know everything call it "urgency")? OR, do you feel the need to urinate and then you try to go but just a trickle comes out? How many times a day do you pee?  How much do you drink?\n\nthere are probably more things that you need to consider but this is just a small list.  I hope you find out what is going on.  Just be ready to answer some of these questions.  I hope this helps.
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Ok dude, I have one word for you “communication”. If you’re a minute man that’s cool but you need to make sure that she gets off as well. You sound like you’re kind of young and if she’s not throwing a fit because she didn’t orgasm she may never have had one. My advice would be to experiment with touch. Try using your hand down south instead of Mr. winky. But most of all just sit down and talk to her about it. See what she says and how she fells about it. If you’re uncomfortable with talking to her then you shouldn’t be having sex with her.
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Please read this all the way through, my heart is with you. I have two boys 10 and 6 that did the same thing (flushing). Charging 10 cents every time I found the bowl full stopped my problem. But your daughter seems like she has hit rebellion already. My 6 year old became very sore and he learned his lesson at 4 about wiping. But with your daughter "dirty down there" is not going to work. She's 10 not 4, don't patronize her, think back to when you were 10. Let's face it we were all picking up info from friends about sex. You 3 parents have to get together as a group and realize she is not a child she is a young lady/woman. Lectures and threats are not going to work anymore. She needs to start making her own decisions, educated decisions. Talk to a gynecologist get facts about what could happen if she doesn't clean up her act. Pictures if necessary, of what these diseases can do to her body. She could pick up staf infection just to name one, and wind up in the hospital. (My husband being a fire fighter had a call at one time about a woman with an upset stomach. She wasn't a wiper either her whole body smelt of crap. When they got her to the hospital because no one wanted to check between her legs (which was where the real discomfort was) they found her vagina was infested, stuffed with maggots.)Please do everything in your power to educate her in a way that will help her to help herself make the right choices. Also is she happy with herself, looks, school, and friends. These are all very important to her right now. If she doesn't have it yet soon she will be starting her cycle. You think you have problems now, wait. This is the summer of change for your family. Make it that way, help her, she needs you all just to hear her, and realize she is not a little girl, or even a big girl, she is a young lady/woman. A new hair style, a light colored eyeshadow if not wearing makeup, a few new clothes, you might want to rethink the panty thing. Is she wearing panties that make her feel like a young lady/woman, or is she wearing widebottomed, widesided diaperwear. Help her to feel different about herself. Chin up, no one ever said this parent thing was easy, but think of the good times, keep an open mind, and email me if you need to. We have all been there in one way or another.
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It sounds to me like she is sexually attracted to you but for some reason this is unacceptable to her. Are you very different from the types of guys she has been with before you? Or perhaps a sexual relationship between the two of you is inappropriate or even off limits for some reason (such as being relatives or having a large age difference)? This might explain her contradictory behavior. But please consider that asking her about this directly probably won't get you anywhere since she has worked hard to convince herself that she has no attraction for you and it's somehow making her feel safe and/or in control of the situation... she is unlikely to let go of this self deception very easily. But what you really need to realize here is that this girl is confused and conflicted and it is not your fault.
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Get a second opinion. She could have a thyroid function problem. So seek more medical advice. There has to be a reason.
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It sounds like a sexually transmitted disease- she should definitely go back to see a doctor - a gynecologist to be exact.  They can culture the sores and find exactly what type of infection she has.  Tell her NOT to touch the sores and if she does inadvertently when going to the bathroom- to scrub her hands with antibacterial soap.
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I realize you werew asking for girls to answer this, but...my girlfriend had this problem.  What she wound up doing was using a towel to clean up immediately after we finished. (Or as soon as I could walk, anyway). It helped her a lot.
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She could easily be faking it if those contractions are not present. (I'm a woman, but I've never understood the logic in faking it, when that only promotes the very thing that is leaving us unsatisfied.)... Anyway, I'm pressuming your fingers are inside her, and if so, you should be able to feel those contractions.  No matter how strong our inner muscles are, we can't really fake the strenght and frequency of orgasmic spasms.\n\nSome girls find it difficult to reach orgasm.  Often because of hang-ups or sexual prejudices (sadly, we've still haven't quite  overcome the old teachings that sex was something a man enjoyed and a woman endured.).  If she's relunctant to touch herself, she probably doesn't know how to best stimulate herself and cannot show you what works for her.  If she's not getting as wet as she could, your ministrations might very well irritate her and she's faking it so that you'd stop.  Or she might have some psychological block that prevents her from letting go of herself to that extent.  Orgasm is a very vulnerable time and sometimes it's hard to let go if you don't really trust the person  you're sharing it with.\n\nYou can also tell when a woman is having an orgasm by her coloring.  She would blush basically all over.  Her whole body would become warmer and her breathing should become more shallow (another thing you can't really fake. How self involved does a man have to be to be fooled like that?).  In some cases, you can even see her pulse racing.\n\nBy the way, this is a fairly anonimous site, so I wouldn't worry that she might be upset by you posting this question here.  I wouldn't suggest you discussing it with people close to her, though.\n\nAsk her.  Try to get her to open up.  That's really the best way to find out what she's really feeling... Good luck
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Women cant smell themselves, let her know your concerned.  It doesn't mean she is dirty, if the rest of her is clean.  It could be STD so be careful.  It could also be she is too clean.  Too clean kills off the normal bacteria women need down there to keep the bad bacteria away.  If this is someone special talk to her about it really nice.  Say I love it in that area but you are concerned,  If there is any green moisture its infection.  Use a condom and talk... Also dont do it in a car thats cheezy, may you can wait until the right place comes along
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Personally i don't think she was a vrigin .The reason why is not because she did not bleed coz a lot of girls can losse that in other ways like too much excersice apart from that if she has been mastubating.you see it's her reaction during and after sex that is not rection i will be expecting from a vrigin ,except she has been watching a lot of porn.Anyways just take care that is in the past just look forward ok.it's the present and future that matters not the past, maybe she was just trying to impresses you.