One option can be that you also sleep with others but why to spoil your charatcer bcoz of her. you can leave her but how o teach her a lesson?
210737
It depends on a couple things, your state of mind, did you happened to roll up on the scene. My situation, I just returned from Iraq, wanted to surprise her. The kid in the basement. Walked in on her & homeboy, I didnt have no beef with homeboy, didnt know him, he just being a playa. My ole lady on the other hand, I wasnt thinking straight, I grabbed the first thing that I could put my hand on, happened to be a hammer, straight up broke in both of her knee's. Didnt do any jail time; definitely got rid of her . I look back, I get a good laugh. I should have just took my stuff & left.
642363
From what you said it seem to me what went on with buddies of mine when we were young and stupid. I have had buddies that could not stand their girls. And when the sex got boring it was time to bail. If they heard rumor from the girl's posse that she was thinking of dumping him, or that she had dumped him and he was not told yet. they would do a 360 turn and be the most charming you ever seen. To get her liking them again or take them back. Then they DUMPED HER. So, the official story is that SHE did not dump me, I dumped her. I think that is what he did. She came back, he had the power. And he used it. He was never really into her so much as to be the one to turn on and off the tap. She lost. She better just move on.
335247
Take a break. You've been betrayed. \nGo away for a little while, maybe, but this one is going to take some time, if ever.\nStop imagining that she was having sex like she does with you.\nDon't do that to yourself, because I guarantee it wasn't. Only the two of you have sex like the two of you.\nCan you handle the answer if you ask her to give you a blow- by-blow description of the night? A sort of "putting yourself in her shoes" for the night?\nIt's risky, but if you can listen, It just may benefit you so you can be angry, and then move on either way.\nShe should be ashamed of herself, and getting angry at her once and blasting her does not relieve her of the tremendous weight she's put on you.\nYou may never be able to trust her again. That sucks for you, because you had no part in it, and want things the way they were.\nWas there a problem that wasn't being addressed before this night?\nDoes anyone have their head buried in the sand??\nYou may need to take this time to get right into each others brains and decided what each of you REALLY wants out of life.\nPlease don't make the same mistake she did. You'll hate yourself.\nI can say that it is not the worst thing that can happen, but it is way up there.\nShe betrayed you, plain and simple. maybe she should live without you for a while and the two of you can really see where you're at. get yourself some legal assistance so you don't lose touch with your child.
619936
she might have found out some dirt about you. did y'all have sex, you might of not treated the booty right. meaning it wasn't good some women like men would quit messing with someone if the sex isn't good. or her boyfriend came back, or got out of jail. if you know any of her friends them talk to them and ask them what's going on with her.
634985
Stop sleeping with her.  Really.\n\nThis isn't an answer out of prudishness, you'll be hard pressed to find someone sluttier then me.  I love sex.  But right now, you're giving her everything she wants without making her give any back.  You need to stop being a door mat.\n\nRepeat after me: "I'm sorry (insert her name here), but this really isn't working for me.  We broke up two weeks ago, and this is co-dependent and unhealthy.  If you want to rekindle our relationship, I'm willing to consider it, but whatever this is, it's over".\n\nThat puts the burden on her.  If she wants you back, now she knows she will have to actually act on it.  If she doesn't want you back, hey, you're no longer being used by your ex.  Win-win.
560393
No, she wont sleep with you again unless it's her idea.  Have you ever considered trying to improve the things she left you for...then she may decide to give you another chance and you can havie it all you want.  Best wishes
326951
I feel sorry for you.My advice is, identify the reason why she did it,also ask your self I am faithful and am I the person who she feels comfortable and secure?After you answer these questions, you can decide.If there is any weakness on your side,(I am not talking about the sexual thing) you better forgive her from the bottom of your heart and leave peacefully.
100970
It appears you do not have a problem getting in her pants after another man has already been there . ooh now that should really make you feel like a man.Sloppy seconds.So what makes you any better than her you up tight jerk.Oh boo hoo someone else has touched her now I feel awful. That is until you really got to touch her yourself .You were not so dissatisfied with her while she was playing with Mr Happy down there were you??? Get over your self for You are now used goods your self and are worse than her because you have a problem with her doing exactly what you yourself did to her. Grow up loser.Harsh words for a preacher yet if you are going to judge her for what you are doing pay back is hard to swallow sometimes.
613917
I really don't think there is much you can do, if she doesn't want to go out with you you should stop sleeping with her and tell her if she won't go out with you then you can not continue the relationship the way it has been going.
306105
Man, get rid of her. There are plenty more out there.. Plus I am sure she is alreading sleeping with someone else.
461858
From what you described, I think it was the only choice.  And why should you feel guilty?  She's the one sleeping with other guys.  Sounds like you fell for a ho.  She did you a favor. Get on with your life and never look back.
250772
They say "love is blind" this proves it.\nYou just can't choose who you fall in love with-I mean if you could I think she would be the last person...but this doesn't mean you should degrade her, people make mistakes and they should be forgiven..She may have been insecure and had low self esteem before, this doesn't mean she will stay that way.If you really love this girl, than you should act like it-for example-stop the name-calling!Everyone deserves respect even if its the least worthy of a situation..People do things that can't be explained by anyone but them.
446714
you deserve everything you get.  You should have never slept with her.  Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.....
656225
You can't. She feels comfortable in the bed, let her be where she wants to be or just don't have sex with her. xD
621583
ask yourself what went wrong the first time. what can you change that made her wanna ******** you before? tell her that you can change, unless she dumped you cuz you slept with one of her friends or something. it'll never work.
283623
I think maybe you are spoiling her too much and she is taking advantage of it. Set some rules just to see what happens.and if anything maybe you should consider leaving.\nGOOD LUCK!!!
89001
if you don't care about her anymore, then it does not matter.  unless you and your best friend had some sort of understanding about exs being off limits, then she is fair game to sleep with or even date.