I really like him but he's into my friend.  I want my friend to back off, and I want to tell her that, without hurting her.  I don't want to tell the guy this but I want him to want me.
215179
invite him over and start getting closer and have him do you
83388
I understand, but I think you'de ought to tell him that you really like him, but don't want your friendship with him and you to break... Break it to him gently, but say you still want to be his friend. Do what your heart tells you!
146581
Keep doing what your doing and put your feelings aside unless you want to risk losing your friend.  This is her time and her relationship or at least possible relationship.  If things between them don't work out then you should ask your friend if she thinks you and this guy might work out.
52073
I would pull him aside with out his g/f and tell him that you would just like to tell him something but you do not want his g/f to know and let him know and let him know that you do not want this to change your relationship as friends with him unless he would like to!  How he responds will let you know how he feels about you!
646782
well.. if she is your friend then you should feel comfortable with just telling her, and if she decides to get an attitude, bring up the fact that he likes you.. not her.
262805
try talking to ur friend first if u can. Well do u like the guy too??Cause that will deff. make a difference. lol. but if u do like him and he likes u maybe u guys could be. and if ur friend gets mad, then tell her that u already told her that he dont like her and she didnt want to accept that. Then it would be her fault,that she didnt get him and you did. But if u dont like him then dont go for him juss tell him that u dont think that it would work out cause u dont want to hurt ur friendship with ur b.f. or something along them lines. Hope i help  good luck!
502370
tell your friend that you werent flirting. to make her feel better try to talk less to him, cause its obvious that she likes him, and you dont, so just back off for a bit.
418021
If maces is really your friend and you want to continue being friends with him although he is gay then you should let him know that whatever he does with his personal life is not your business and that you will continue to be his friend.\nIf you don't want him to 'hit on' you in that way, let him know as well.\nIf however, you feel that you cannot under any circumstances continue being friends with Maces then you should part with him amicably and move on!
381431
Personally, I don't think it's right for your friend to be looking for ways to get closer to that guy when she already has a boyfriend. \n\nI think perhaps you could wait for sometime to observe if your crush likes you? You can tell him your feelings and see if he feels the same way. But I don't think it is entirely right to keep ur friend in the dark too. You should tell her how you feel about him soon. Yeap. If she is really your friend she will understand that you have a right to crush him too :)\n\ngood luck!
425567
Talk to your friend and be open and honest about the situation. If you feel that this guy is going to cause a problem with your friendship, then its not worth it. Good luck.
451341
I think it depends on how you look at the situation.  If it was me, I would say something just because every woman knows the unwritten rule, "Do not mess with anyone that a friend of yours likes."  There are no exceptions. I really don't care if he likes her back.  However, if the way you feel is, oh they like each other maybe they should date, then leave it alone.  From the sound of it though, that's not it so I would just let my voice be heard girlfriend!
525492
Tell your friend that he is a piece of sh*t and that she needs to ditch him. But do not tell her that he is trying to get with you.
48006
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
192019
condition-Do you want him? If you do then youve got a predicament. You might tear apart your friend marrige for you won desire. If you do, count youself one less friend, once she finds out, think about who she might tell and if their's anyone else you don't want to loose as a friend, If your married yourself think about your husband. Another thing if you do it don't ever count on this guy as a man that will stick around, in other words, don't seek a relationship with him, he's done it once he'll more then likely do it again. \n\nIf you don't want him just tell him to back off and let it be at that sence you don't want to tell your friend.
369492
I don’t know why your friend keeps thinking that you like the guy she likes, but you need not be upset.\n\nIt is better to leave her alone for a short while to avoid further misunderstanding. The truth will be out and from what you are saying it won’t take long.\n\nAnd here is one more suggestion. About this someone else that you mentioned you like. If you got yourself closer to him, your friend should notice it and then believe in you.\n\nGood luck!
358066
I think he told you didn't he, from what I surmise from your text is there is lots of signals in your mind that say he is in to you, which may not be the case. don't use your friend to do the work that really scares you, you bring a 3rd party in to negotiate a relationship, you are asking for trouble, it's OK to use one to break the ice so to speak, like hey my friend likes you kinda thing. but for him to tell his feelings to your friend, not a good idea.
510296
If you like him more than your friend, you may try, but I say leave him alone. If he's really yours, he'll come back later when it's not so hot.