I met him the end of February, when we first met he called me all the time, and we hung out together we had  good conversation, and now I'm lucky to hear from every couple of days, and he does not stay on the phone with me as long.  He does live 2 1/2 hours away from me.  What do I do?
211838
Spice a date up a little. Do something different. Show interest. The fact that he is farther away from other people makes it more difficult for you to talk to him and interact with him. But make a date for both of you to get together.
516941
It would be great if that "honeymoon" period would last forever :) I know I have been disappointed before when the calls and invitations slow down.\n\nIt is normal. He was probably getting to know you at first. Now, y'all are running out of new and interesting topics. If things are still good when you do talk to or see each other, then you shouldn't worry about it too much. If he keeps on calling and/or seeing you on a daily basis, it will probably eventually get boring for both of you. ... Unless your daily lives are full of extreme and exciting activities. \n\nMy advice to you if there are future relationships with other guys... Try not to make yourself quite as available. I use to think that it was silly to pretend that you are busy when you aren't really, but it does  help it take longer to get to the point where you are now. ... Hanging out with a guy 2 or 3 times a week and talking to him maybe 4 days a week should be plenty at first. Even though I know it is tempting to try for all you can get! \n\nAs far as how to talk to him about it, you will have to play that one by ear. You may start by hinting to him how much you enjoyed those daily talks. You could tell him it would be sweet to occasionally get a quick call to just say "hi." If he doesn't take the hint, try briefly calling him once a day or every other day, just to let him know that you're thinking of him. If this doesn't work out, then you may have to just come right out and ask if he likes how things are going or if he thinks the two of you need to back off a bit.
430653
Ask him to stop calling you. You guys need to move on and memories of each other are bringing both of you down. Just say, _______ please don't call me anymore, I'm ready to move on. IT sounds like your the girl when there's no one lese and you never want to be that. Don't sit in an unhealthy long distance relationship when you know things aren't goin to work out. Be the bigger person and stop the calls. If they don't stop, change your number because you need to move on and so does he.
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You don't say how long you know this guy, nor do you say how long has it been since you've heard from him.\n\nWhen one calls regularly, and that stops, we tend to think the worst.  There could be a reason why he hasn't called, but there is no law to say that you cannot try calling him.\n\nSee what sort of reception you get - is he warm and friendly, or is he cold and distant?  That in itself will tell you where the relationship could be headed.\n\nBetter to know now, so you can mourn - if you need to mourn - the relationship, then move on to find someone who will truly call you back.\n\nGood Luck!
301863
Besides stalking him, you could bring it to his attention he's being distant. On the other hand, its been two months, it may be nothing and you're being a bit to needy, especially in light of his old g/f coming back.
29234
It sounds like you too have a deep connection, he called you and you keep loving him and thinking about him plus you two talked "in silence" too its as if you have a body language connection as well.I think you two should try being together again, try another date and tell him how much you enjoy his company and his personality and how people make mistakes.that might bring him back too you.hope this helps.
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Appreciate that he is returning your calls and has let you know that they're HIS issues, not yours.\n\nYou've only been hanging out a month.  Depending on what he has going on, that's really not enough time to develop trust.  It happens over time, and this relationship is in it's beginning stages.  It may not be an exclusive relationship, though it sounds like it's heading that way.\n\nDon't put any more pressure on him.  He knows you're there, he knows you're concerned.  That's enough.  If you continue to call him, then you need to ask yourself "Am I really concerned about him, or am I feeling insecure because I'm not part of what's going on?"  He's having some challenges right now, and I think he's handling this appropriately.  If you're really concerned about him, then keep it about him.  Be available to him if / when he needs you.  \n\nWhat's going on with him has nothing to do with you.  Keep this situation in its proper perspective; otherwise, you will lose him before you've gotten things off the ground.
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To start don't come on too strong until you get to know each other better. After a while if you still feel like you have to play games he's not the one for you. My boyfriends calls me to tell me he misses me if I haven't been in touch for a few days and we never worry about who's turn it is.  If we are thinking about each other we let the other person know and it very comfortable...but once i dated a guy who said i called him too much because i called him twice in one day.  Thank god we split up and i met me current boyfriend!
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With time, I think there is a good possibility that the two of you will get back together. To find somebody that you enjoy being around, and that you find interesting , is RARE! He obviously enjoyed it as much as you did, so why wouldn't he be back? It's soon for him I know, but just give him time. It's okay to call and see how he is, just don't push(hard to do I know). If the two of you connected, and I believe you did,  just be patient. He'll be back!
201506
don't stress about it.  You should never sit around waiting for the phone to ring.  Go out and do something for yourself.  Go shopping or to a movie and get your mind of this.  Interact with people you haven't hung out with in awhile because of him.  When he's ready to talk he'll call.  Don't let your whole world be around him.  If he needs to find himself, let him.  Be there for him when he's ready to talk.  Take this time yourself to think about your relationship, have things ready to talk about when he's ready.
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talk with him and hang out with him. I mean if you have his phone number trying calling at 8pm and talk for an hour. if he is busy, you can hear what kind of reason he is giving. Mainily "oh i got another phone call, can i call you back or talk later" just do this for a few nights. If he keep stoping the talk at 9pm every night, then he has a girl that he is calling or the girl is calling him.
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You're moving right? Well worst case- you bug him a little too much and then move away, he's gone. So take ur chances with him while u still can. Don't just call to call- it can get annoying. Call to invite him somewhere or out on a date.
156514
If he's worth it, do it. My boyfriend lives 3 hours away from me and we're only able to see eachother once a month (maybe twice). If I didn't like him as much as I do, it wouldn't be worth it. I won't lie, it's hard. But I feel like our relationship is strong enough to get through the times we can't see each other. It also depends on how old you are. If you're too young to be able to drive yourselves to see each other, it's probably not the best idea since it'll make it harder. But if you really like this guy and you think it's worth having someone 3 hours away, rather than 3 minutes, do it. Sometimes long distance relationships help you to get to know each other better. When you're not together, you can only talk to each other. You don't have the physical stuff (even if that stuff is fun) to distract you. You have this opportunity to get to know each other very well.
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I was in a long distance relationship for more than two years - we lived an hour apart - & at first we talked all day too & were together whenever we could be - but the last 9 months or so he stopped callin - it tapered off to once a day, then only once a week & we didn't spend so much time together - well, he ended the relationship a month ago with no explanation, just an e-mail. \nSo it sounds like even tho ya'll love each other, you are starting to drift as we did - it happens & it's hard to keep it from going south unless one of you can change to spend more time together. I was the only one making the effort there, too, for a long time - I drove to see him, never the other way around. I don't know - you may have to let this one go & move along. It bites, I know. Good luck.
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You can continue to be friends but don't saddle yourself down to him as he is long distance. If you still feel the same about him when you are older then save some cash to meet him. But take someone with you as you don't know who you are really chatting with he could be an old perv!
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if i were you i would call the guy again and if he still doesn't call you, you should move on to the next.don't let anyone have the upper hand on you.most likely he's no just seeing you and that's why he hasn't called.on the other hand he could have something going on in his life right now that's consuming all of his time.if it's meant ot be it'll happen no matter what.in the meantime go out and enjoy life.
530514
i had EXACTLY  same situation,,,love at first site, college ddays gone, never spoken to him.....once i sent him a sms abt frdship with my name n i got reply....now v r frds n chat half d day....\ndon t know whether it ll work 4 u.... don t risk t...hope u get d right advice....all d best...i understand how it is like.....