last night, he kiss me and said what about your boyfriend. and then he said 'umm  i got to go' see you at my house. now i can't get him out of my mine.the last time i'v had ever herd him talk to me like that was when we were in the 12th grade.
206134
hmmm...personally, i'd guess that he's not gay.  I'd say that he's either bisexual, or he's playing that angle to get you to be more relaxed, more comfortable around him, so the transition to a relationship would be easier and less awkward.  It might not work, but that would be my conclusion regarding the whole sitch.
54345
Not necessarily.  He probably got scared off.  May be he is interested but perhaps you sounded pretty serious for your relationship.  Give him a little time, but don't close all the doors.  Meet new people (just friends) you don't know what might happend nex
518785
Well if he said that, I do not know why you are with him anymore. I do understand what he does say though. I do not think that anyone would ever say anything like that. I think that is something that happens all the time with guys and life. It always is the way, guys want what they can not or do not have. I would really rethink being with him if he is telling you about thinking about other girls.
321732
uh oh i have been in this exact situation before and it didnt turn out to good because i didnt take action. i just let it go, and he eneded up dumping me. you have to ask him whats going on between us or something will happen, because my last bf only wanted me, and not me(like my personality) he just wanted to make out and it was badddddd ACT FAST. NO JOKE!!!!1\nor mabey you should listen to everyone else, i mean, if he barley talks to you, does that mean he bareley says i love you or he wont TALK to you? mabey he doesnt want to say i love u around his friends or something. mabey he's past the stage of the everyday i love you, youre beautiful thing.
180147
Sorry dear...but it seems you've already lost him...it sounds as if he has moved on with out you and he's waiting for you to just hit the road...\nDon't fall into the category of "girls that stick to *ssholes"...I'm sure you deserve alot better...if that is true then move on and get yourself another hottie!
208417
how long have you been going out cause if he haven't kissed and you love him its kinda odd.Make a move maybe he's afraid to cause you might turn him away.
121264
Well if your question is any indication of your true style of communication, no wonder he wants to be done with you.  He's just keeping you around until he finds someone better.  Dump him because he's going get rid of you soon.
371085
Ya, im sorry but it sure sounds like from what you said that he is moving on away from you. Especially the part where you say that he didnt even talk to you yesterday at all. Dont say anything to him just yet, but in your mind start planning what you would do if it ended...like who you think you would like to go out with next..or dont even think about relationships at all for awhile, maybe just take a break. You dont always need to be in a relationship. Take time for yourself (buy yourself one of those mud masks or a new nailpolish youve been wanting, indulge in you!) and your family and think about those things for awhile, ya know. Good luck!
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There are two poeple answering this so\n\nNate- Ok so i feel that maybe just maybe he is scared and he feels like he has lost the connection that you guys once had because it sound like you were always hand and hand but now that you are seperated your not as close as you once were. So finally to my point, Talk to him and spark up some of the old conversations that you use to have and bring up something that only you two can laugh about because it makes it personal and he'll know that it was ment for just you and him.\n\n\n\n\n\nTweety- i saw this the other way i liked the girl but she paid no mind to me even thought we used to walk arm and arm down the Lowell High hallwayz but she has a friend who always told her not to go out with me and those are the ones you have to pay attention to the most. You know what girl u go up to him and say what up! cuz he probably scared of you.
270599
He will never stop loving you. There isn't anything you can say that will stop that. You just have to keep letting him know that nothing can or will ever happen between the two of you. You value his friendship too much to jeopardize that. Tell him that boyfriends come and boyfriends go. You don't want that to happen to him. Friends are forever.
271414
Yes, I've been there. It sucks! But you have to be true to yourself. I let the guy know that I wasn't all about being his P.O.A. I wanted a relationship. I am not the type of girl that you can call whenever you want a booty-call. I told him that. I gave him a few chances to change how he was towards me, and he didn't. I told him I was tired of how he treated me, and I left. You have to be true to you, and don't give in to be with someone. Don't give him the chance to use you for sex. Make him want you before he wants sex. You are young. You will find someone who wants to be with you for you and not for sex. Make the person wait. If he's into you, he'll wanna be with you for you before you sleep with him. As far as the following, and calling thing. Tell him he needs to get over it, and stop his crap. If he doesn't, and it gets to where you are scared (past the point of just plain tired of it) I would look into a restraining order, or talk with a police officer or counselor at school as far as what you should do, but be careful. Dont let something like that go, either. That could get ugly, and scary.
131525
Guys are really hard to understand.  Maybe he just want some one on one time with you or maybe he just want sex.  My parents were really strict and when I was in college I had my first boyfriend.  His name was Kenneth.  He was my age but he was a senior in high school and I was a college freshman.  We both lived with our  parents.  Throughout our entire year of dating, we never were alone.  I swear to God, we were never alone anywhere together.  There was always my parents, my cousins, my sister, his family, or his friends.  We lived within walking distance of each other.  Niether one of us had a car or could drive.  It was frustating to him because he wanted to have sex but I didn't care because we were both virgins and I wasn't going there.  After a year of dating he ended up breaking up with me for that very frustrating reason.  We are still friends 12 years later.  When I ask him why we broke up then, he always tells me he was a horny little teenager and I wasn't trying to hear it.  So I'm sure that might have something to do with it.  If so, leave him alone.  You're probably about 16 anyways and don't need to be around a guy alone.  I appreciate my parents strict rules.  Remember, your parents always want the best for you.
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He was just in the moment....if you really didnt like it tell him now, after the fact...if you ever talk to me like that again you better enjoy it because it will be the LAST time.  If it didnt bother you, get into it to...talking dirty and nasty in the bedroom is fun!
366974
Maybe try talking to him a little more.  Try flirting a little too.  See how he reacts.  Maybe even in a lite, off hand sort of way say something like "I should have grabbed you when I had the chance."
92931
How long has it been since you two talked? If not long like a couple of days, just give him some space. Try not to sweat it too hard, if it was meant to be it will happen. GOOD LUCK!!!
176256
good possibility: maybe he's worried that your relationship is begining to be based on the kissing. he may want to make it based more on an emotional connection, and then go back to all the kissing.\nbad possibility: he is loosing interest.
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You were naive to think an older lover would pop out of the woodwork and just want to talk.\n\nHis brother is and *ss however for being so blunt. However I think he may have felt he had one shot at warning you and he took it.\n\nIf you would like to get back with your old lover for a sexual relationship again...take his calls. If not let him go.\n\nOld lovers always think of you in one way. On your back.\nI am sorry to be so blunt but it is true. And it very well could be he is without a girl friend right now and you came up.