Why wont the "hicks" be nice?
205396
As a "hick" I must say that I have a true problem with most "Yankees." The main reason is that you think you are so much better than us.  We may speak a little slower, but there is a southern hospitality that no Yankee can understand.  For example, sometimes Yankees are so short and rude; you won't find that in the South. We are more likely to be polite and personal in all of our conversations! (No offense :) )
285294
Sweetie, there is nothing wrong with being a nice person. Nothing at all. And you can still get what you need/want by being a nice person. Sometimes though, you have to assert yourself. That doesn't mean being a B*tch. That means the next time you go to check into work, and someone butts in front of you, or the person checking you in lets someone get ahead of you, you simply step up and say firmly and politely "So sorry, but I was here first". Being assertive and getting what you need is not being mean. Sounds like you almost have a case of being too nice. Don't let people push you around. Unfortunately some people percieve kindness as weakness...Prove them wrong.
142741
Being cruel in return only perpetuates the problem.  Just ignore them and be the better person!
571218
As far as I can tell, everybody is insulted.  It's kinda like being a guest on Don Imus' morning radio show -- if you can endure the heckling, you'll be invited back.
320296
If you answer "be kind and courteous and polite" you wouldn't get picked for the show.  They only take people that are going to make fools of themselves.  No one would watch a show with people being nice.
168254
I have the same problem also as you.People make fun of me,I just leave them alone.They hit me,I forgive them.They made fun of me in front of other people.For three yearsmthis has been my problem with a$$holes.I have a long line of patience and it is running out,my temper is suddenly changing.Let me tell you a story.One day,where everybody is busy with their project(including me)and this a$$hole got my charcoal,when i asked him to get it back,he said nasty words in front of me.It was the second time I got frustrated(the first of course when I was a little kid)then I did some Muay Thai to him and it broke his arms for weeks.It was the first time they realized not to take too much of my patience.I am a very friendly person and I don't like a$$holes.Muay Thai is the most effective way to handle fights.If you want to learn it,just email me at Oklahoma_My_State@yahoo.com.BTW,I did some Chuck Norris roundhouse kicks too.Good luck in your a$$ kickin'
629994
Unfortunately not uncommon.  Those people can be charitably described as "jerks" and "freeloaders."  There are other names I've used, not for public consumption.
565096
You nearly made me cry!! it makes me so mad to think of how nasty people are!  Forget those people they are worth the dirt on your shoes!! There are plenty of nice people out there who arent judgmental!  You do seem like a lovely person - keep you chin up, know its hard but you know the saying what doesnt kill us makes us stronger
574362
I think they take a special course in intimidation instead of a much needed one in community relations. They want to rule by fear instead of repect, but expect to be respected. And then are stupid enough to think we are impressed by them. Hmmmm.
454586
It sounds like you are bi-polar like myself.  In this world there are Garfields and Odies...we are Odies, we work to help and please people but once they do not return the kindness we become Garfields with a vengence.  I truly understand how you feel but your family and friends are right, you are fine.  We are known as "people pleasers" and it is hard to accept that people do not return the kindness. The temper and hard to forgive are normal if not extreme.  I bet you believe the same as me "What goes around,,,comes around" ie "What you put out will come back to you" or in modern terms PAY IT FORWARD....but you really are fine and a good person.
375363
Most people who act like that are using it defensively because they're jealous.  So don't feel bad.  They're ugly people, inside and most likely out.  Only go if you want to go to events/occassions.  Otherwise, don't waste your time and don't give them the pleasure of being able to make you feel like crap.  If they say something nasty to you just smile and nod and say "Thanks for letting me know...I had NO idea..."  and then walk away.  They want a reaction out of you and if you respond politely and sweetly they'll either stop or get really pissed off.  My mother always taught me "Kill 'em with kindness"...and it works almost every time!
588769
i dont know but that is seriously annoying! i guess they think that by constantly nagging someone they will change their mind! i know a lot of ppl like that and it annoys the jesus out of me! try to avoid him, or send him hate mail
52738
Rude as hell. \nAny noise that is loud enough to disturb is a pollutant. Plus this behavior smacks of total disregard of other peoples comfort and should be fined/banned/beheaded (kidding :P)!
526712
Sounds like you've got some life experience under your belt.  I am much more afraid of fake people like the super-nice type you described.  You never know what to expect from them.  If they're genuine, great.  There's a rare treat, but if they turn out to be the typical backstabbing schmucks so many shiny happy I've got my best customer service voice on people are, you're better off with the cold type.  At least you know what they're all about.  Great question.
519658
some people are just miserable and want others to feel the same way.....i try to be frank with my answers, after all they want direct answers, so i try to be as honest as i can...not a nasty person tho....i think it has something to do with, it's not what you read, it's how you read it....hmmmm i don't really know
656711
Why would you want to insult anybody?\nChill, and enjoy life chum!\nst
402675
It is a shame that there are people like that here, but there is always one in a crowd, no matter where you are. \nI have found that the good ones out number the mean, rude ones though. Please don't let those few keep you from helping people find the answers they need. God be with you.