Do any of you have advice on giving my girlfriend oral sex, I am unexperienced?
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Being unexperierienced is not somthing to be feeling "a how about."  We are and wer inexperience din everything in life until we were either taught or learned on our own through experiences. Personally I do not feel any one person can give you the advice you seek, but I do know that if this is someone you care for, and are in that phase of your relationship, then just take you time and do what comes naturally. Being that close and interacting in a physical manner does not require and instruction booklet. As you begin the process simply be gentle, and aware of the 'vibes' you receive. Just as you can tell if a person is in a room is interested in you, the same way you can tell what is good and works and whats not so good. It is a learning process together, and also if you have the key to any relationship "communication', then a small discussion after (not necessarily immediately after) always helps. I have been in a sucessful realtionship for 11 yrs and I know that regardless of the situation, (1) we are all inexperienced at something at sometime, (2) life is about trial and error, (3) Nothing works or can survive without communication.\nMy best advice is "Do what comes naturally."
267611
Use a condom.  Talk about how you wanna go about it.  Know boundaries etc.  Decide which position you want to be in and take it from their. Don't forget plenty of foreplay to help and relax the lady and to give her more pleasure.  Don't be a selfish lover!  Once you are "in" you can take it from there and decide how fast/slow you wanna go.  Make the effort to make it special.
122102
massage and bribary,,,,, hot bath, long massage, all over, and ask if its ok to touch paticular parts,,,,dont be pushy, and if you need to have sex that bad with her, go to the bathroom and mastu_rbate on ya own, 1st, this might calm you down and she`ll not feel so pressured to give in, time will tell, dont talk about it for days to her, is it just her you want or just sex with her...... she will give in, but be paitent,,,,,,talk to her about her fears, and both go to the library for books and advise, or go to a family planning center for leaflets... just except its hers to give,,,not yours to take.
334566
Workout and eat right. Maybe she needs to orgasm more. Do you give her oral???? Alot of guys aviod this.....big mistake.
195623
i had the same problem...even if i just put a little in i would gag....BUT! I learned....you don't always have to move up and down with your mouth......do as many things you can possibly think of...without hurting him....with your tongue, lips, mouth, hands, take your time and don't think you have to be a porn star....take your time and you know, your boyfriend i'm sure would be happy to tell you what or how he wants it.......just ask
141522
Have dinner in bed, chosing food you can eat or better still, lick from each other's bodies. Put grapes or olives into her you-know-what and get them out using only your tongue. Drink champagne out of her. I LOVE that!!!
212049
Variety is the spice of life! You may be satisfying her quite well but when you throw in something different every once in a while...... it keeps the flame burning hot and long if you know what I mean.\nNext time you try it, move your tongue slowly at first over her clitoris, just take your time and watch her reaction. \nFrom there you or her will figure out the rest of it.\nGood luck!
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She's too young or I would volunteer to demonstrate. There is a first time for everything. To begin with, you should wait. If you can't wait, be sure to wear a condom. If you can't wear a condom, wait. \n\nOtherwise, she will help out. Remember, sex is only about 30% of making love. What surrounds that 30% is what makes you a great lover.
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It's honestly all in your head. Once you get the situation out of your mind you'll do a lot better and maybe not even need those kind of condoms anymore. For instance, think of something totally unrelated, like the steps you take to change your oil in your car or something like that. At least do it so she can orgasm, cause of course once she goes, it's no sweat for us to follow right behind....see what happens..
670608
You got a gf? Then get her to "give you a hand". Or better still, a BJ. \nAnd don't forget to return the favour.
564027
always wear a condom !! use lots of lube.....patience patience patience...slow down the penetrations...leave it in for her to adjust to your size.....tell her to relax...lots of touching and kissing instead of focusing just on the penetration alone....lots of reassurance....
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usually it just comes naturally. Dont slobber, remember to swallow.\nGood tips: Lick her lips slowly before getting to it. I nearly come everytime my boyfriend does that to me.\n                 Tell her to stick her tongue out and when she does, suck it slowly. Another totally hot maneuver.
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You know... sex is an odd thing. You don't learn it anywhere - no matter how many porn tapes you see or karmasutra you read.\nWe assume we will learn by *instinct*.. but instinct is only worried about the reproduction part - not the pleasure. So we are left with absolutely nothing at hand to know how to properly please women. Add the fact that every woman is different. Some will want it here - others over there. Some harder, others softer. Some want you to scratch and pull, others just want you to carress. You get the picture.\nYou know your body more than any man will ever know it. Of course, there are skilled men that know how to discover the sweet spots and what cool things you like having yourself put through. But most men don't.\nSo please. Please. Please. Please tell us! If you see we aren't going at it right for you... then grab our hand or even our genitalia and guide it as you feel pleases you! Both you and your partner will appreciate it.
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Let me start by saying 1. you should not be having sex with someone you are just talking to and 2. THANK YOU for using protection!!!! Most guys your age do not even think about all the consiquences that coem along with having unprotected sex.\n\nOk now to the real business.. your question.\n\nMost girls always experience some pain and discomfort when its there first time ( I know I did) soem will actualyl not enjoy it the first few times. It is up to you to get ehr to enjoy it. Here are a few things you can do that might help. ONE you must know that I am sure she is nervous, she peobably has no idea waht to do so this might make her even tighter and cause her to not get as wet.  Don't jump to the sex part right away. Have some foreplay kiss, rub, get her to the point where she tells you I she wants it. Then its all about patience!! Take your time, there is no rush. You need to be gentle and take it slow, let her knwo you wont hurt her tell her to tell you how she feels if it hurt slow down take it easy... also you can always use lubrication (that might help .. some KY jelly).  \n\nWell if you need any more help just email me.. I dont want to write a huge story here (because believe me if you let me I will..lol)
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Your girlfriend sounds like she has experience with this so just kiss her and go with the flow...she will show you how by just doing it...you will catch on. She sounds like she likes you too so don't be embarassed you haven't made-out or anything like that. its pretty easy to pick up just keep trying it's fun!
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You are placing too much importance on it. You make ME feel uncomfortable about it, and I'm a guy.\n\nObviously, you need a refresher course in 'No'. \n\nMaybe you need to be more slow, gradual, and patient. You can cause tremendous discomfort if you don't do it right, and stop chewing on her like a cheeseburger !!!\n\nor maybe she is afraid she might pee....\nso, stop assuming.
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talk about tryin new things to gather. you just dont want to spring something on her shes not ready for. For starters try watching dirty movies, role play or even try out each others fantasy.