My Husband asked me to go down on him and i was like what he said he heard me Then he said i like doing it to you so whats the problem with doing it to me. Can any body give me any suggestions because i know it is alot of people who do it and it is my husband would I be wrong for doing it but it shouldn't matter right.
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not sure what your hubby asked you to do so can't say if its right or wrong trying reasking and using a different word.
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I like to serve my husband but NOT because he tells me too.  It is great feel so needed but I would never consider myself submissive... why would you even describe your self that way?  The reason why people look down on submissive wives is becasue no one deserves to be bossed around and treated like a slave, so when you see someone doing that you have to wonder what the hell is wrong wit them?  Do nice things for your man becasue you love him..not becasue he makes you!
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I enjoy it.  But I use to be like you, I thought it was the most disgusting thing ever.  Until I found someone I really loved.  Then it became such a turn on to me.  Because I know I'm pleasing my man.  But he have to satisfy me also.  Make sure you make that a point if you ever do it.
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I've caught my husband doing it frequently also. We had a talk about it though and he told me sometimes he just doesnt feel like sex because he needs release and just wants to get it over with. I actually woke up one night and he was releasing himself while watching a porno on mute. I freaked out about it. I love pleasing him and it offends me too. Although I can kind of relate to why he does it without me sometimes because I do it without him sometimes too. I just dont want to have sex sometimes. it seems though that he doesnt want to have sex with you at all...and if that is what your saying, let him catch you a few times...if it doesnt make him jump your bones right then...I guess the only thing to do is look into couples therapy. Some guys are actually addicted to masterbating.
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Woman on woman action is totally natural.  It sounds like things are getting stale in your relationship, so it's either do it or end it, so you might as well do it.  I think you might like the power trip of telling another woman to suck your man.  I have a (female) friend that told me she really dug it.
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Primal sex is quite often a fantasy of most guys, if I were you I'd have a chat with your hubbie, theres a good chance he will be happy to help you, as long as your not asking him to hit you or anything like that, just tell him that you want him to come home from work and with out saying anything to you, throw you up against the wall, hike up your skirt and rip your panties off and have at it right there on the kitchen table...I serious doubt he will have any problems with that. Talk to him thats the best advise I can give you...Hope this helps, IM me n let me know
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I have the same problem...my bf is like that...he thinks it's a serious thing, I think it's because he feels like if I do that then he isn't satisfying me himself, so it's kind of letting himself down. That's all that I can come up with.
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Oh you too hah sista girl.   I agree with Malfean,....deep within (and if you are honest with yourself), you would like to know what it would be like to experience a sexual encounter with this individual you're fantasizing about. Been there and came damb close; however, I've realized that.... this was all I pictured him for (sex and a little intimatcy....hugging - kissing)....there was nothing else....no visions of hangging with friends together, walking in the park, dinner and the movies, sitting up together on the sofa having good dilogue about whatever, bringing the paycheck home to you (hello..).... it was just sex, good sex, more sex and sex....I tried picturing doing other things with him and the imaganation didn't go that far....why???.....well, your soul mate (and that's your husband) have and will probably always supply you with those little things that truely matters. The things mentioned above (hangging together..etc.) will go farther than a good quick fix in the sack. I know it's just fantacy...but sometimes you have to see it for what it truely is...you'll realize it means nothing...so let it go.\n \nNow sometimes our spouses becomes less attractive to us over the years depending on how much they have let themselves go in appearance or how lazy and boring they may have become,...so we fantasize about someone who is just the opposite of your spouse; however, I've learned that if I'm to be in this thing 'til death do us part', I benefit more by talking to him (my spouse) about what we can do to make daily interaction with each other more exciting.... therefore, bring that excitement to the bedroom later on.....\n\nGirrrrllll...look at me giving advise about something I need to work on myself....but non the less, I know it's what I need to do to keep thoughts of other men out of my head when I'm with my husband. (Oooh, I did say other MEN hah....ummm...I mean that man...)..SMILE!!!!.... It's working though.\n\nSo good so far. It may get tough at times, but keep your interaction with each other positive and exciting...laugh a lot...it helps.
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Yup and pleasuring one's self isn't a biggie as long as it's not interfering with your own sex life between the two of you!  It's natural and healthy :)\n\nNo, because I was honest about it with my spouse that I felt it was natural so no big.  \n\nAnd yep, I have been 'caught', and it was all fine with me.
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I would but I'm not going to do it just to please you or anyone else for that matter.  It is a private concern and you should be asking this of your local kink groups, not the net in general and expect a response on D/s relationships for such a carelessly worded question.
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wow i've never really thought about saying the right thing. being intimate with someone just comes naturaly i think. if you have to think that hard about it, then it probably isn't right and will sound rehearsed and that's a turnoff.
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i have heard that married men have an internal feeling/thought that he shouldn't enjoy oral sex from his wife.  like its something a wife shouldn't be doing.  i would just tell him how you feel.  tell him that you really enjoy it and that its okay because your married.
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Maybe your so used to self pleasuring yourself that you dont know how to do it when someone else is doing it.  Try to teach your partner to please you the way you like_
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Yesss! Not only is it wrong it is gross! How would you like it if you husband did that to you? HU HU? I don't think you should be with him if you like some one else.
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Not all people, male or female, are comfortable with oral sex, and nobody should pressure another person into doing it. \n\nThe comments about your hair, smell, etc are just excuses. For some reason he doesn't want to come out and tell you that he doesn't want to do it, so he just comes up with silliness to "explain" why he doesn't want to. He may even have talked himself into believing these excuses, but that is all they are.\n\nIf you're otherwise okay with the relationship, then stop asking him to go down on you. But if this is a relationship breaker, then so be it. If you shave, he'll complain about the rash/zits/whatever.  Either you go along with his squeamishness or you break up. Shaving is not going to solve anything. \n\nAnd if you enjoy going down on him but don't really care about his doing the same for you, that's okay - there does not have to be a linkage between giving and getting oral. That is up to the two of you.  But don't pressure him or let him pressure you into doing anything that makes the other person uncomfortable.
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If you are comfortable with it,then I say go for it. He will respond by giving you some of the best lovin you could hope for!! This kind of talk turns him on and in turn he will want to do more for you.....If he doesn't,then all he is wanting is his own satisfaction. If this turns out to be the case,I would think seriously about how this relationship is going. On a personal note. I love for my woman to talk to me while we are making love. Not that it has to be dirty in nature,but letting me know how much she is enjoying the moment. That in turn makes me want to please her even more. Hope I have been of help....Keith...
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I do enjoy it when my wife is vocal. When she is having an orgasm sometimes she just can't help it! I enjoy that, other times she is a bit more restrained. Some times when I am about to orgasm she can talk very dirty and I must admit, this is incredible!\nNext time DH makes a comment, tell him how lucky he is!