should a guy stay with a girl that is always down on every thing he does and is negative to every thing he trys to do,just because he loves her????.
212150
I would talk to her about this first, maybe she does not realize she does that and it depends on what your doing, also.  If you love her, be open and honest with her on how this makes you feel and then if she continues doing this, I would find someone that makes me happy.  Good Luck
564795
Sit down with him and tell him exactly what you posted. Well, maybe leave out the 'loathe' part but he deserves to know the rest. \n\nDon't stay with someone simply because of the financial obligations YOU have. That's unfair to both parties.
298686
Your g/f is very immature. I know you said to answer yes or no. But you need to know something...If she is this immature and selfish (which is what it is) then that means she will "growup" in time. When she does its very likely she will also "out grow" you. I don't mean this as putting you down. I mean it as a warning to you. You have accepted this behavior in her. When she changes she may very well decide that she doesn't want a guy who would put up with this. DON'T put up with it. Its rude. And she needs to know you can't treat people this way.\nGood LUck To YOU!
416703
Right on girl! Smart decision! He's a jerk. Smart girls doesn't need jerks who can't move on from the past.
518501
Yup I'd say he is just playing games...the girl should just ignore him ....and not even talk to him...he is a loser..
94835
You need to back up and QUICKLY. You have sevral issues going on here and NONE are good. If you are doing these things as you say than you don't trust him. This is bad. And you have actually written to a lady, this was/is also wrong. I would start by sitting down with him and explaining to him that you want to be closer to him and how much you really care for him. But you still gotta back up like I said and the quicker the better. You may need to talk to someone about your mistrust issues. Has he given you reason to believe he is screwing around. Until he does back off. And if he is screwing around, then DUMP him.
503918
wow small world i tell you. i love my bf and he loves me and would do anything for me as far as i know.hes ina different state and hes movin back in a few months. theres this guy that keeps hittin on me tho. honestly theres nothing you can do about it you need to talk to the gurl and have her talk to him about if she truly loves you she will handle it the way she feels it should be handled.thats all i can say i hope everything works out for you guys
257942
thats hilarious... look at it this way... would you rather be with someoen who is spoiled and acts like a roughneck, or someone who is violent? Look at it this way... its not just what you like about a person.. its the crap that you are able to put up with... if you can put up with him and no problem than go wtih it... if not and you think you will find someone else wiht less annoying qualities then go for it....
294364
it sounds like you're a great guy-faithful to your girlfriend-as well as a good friend [you've tried to explain your situation to the girl but she just doesn't listen]. you have to make a choice: do you want to keep your girlfriend? if you want to, have NOTHING to do with this friend. don't go over, don't stay alone with her, don't take her calls, delete her messages. it's not that your friend doesn't GET it..it's that she doesn't CARE or RESPECT your life and your wishes. get away from her and dump her..otherwise she's going to cause YOU to get dumped.
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I should hope you are very secure in your relationship, and if so then his hangin with them is not the issue.  If you have some concern for him hooking back up with her (which would be stupid) then you should let him go.  He was smart enough to leave her, can't imagine that he would find anything she does attractive.  You are the better woman and if he does not know how you feel (since you said you don't want to stop him?) then how can things change? The ball is in your court.  Good Luck!!
250616
If he keeps getting these so called " fling-rings" or txts, then just forget about him. You might love him, but if he can't control himself around girls, then that's going to be a problem. He will be around girls everyday in his life, and then one day you gonna get hurt b/c he couldn't control himself. But, if he can stop, and you see him change completely then, stay with him and see what happens, test him, not to often to see if he just trying to trick you or if he really done changed.
522793
He is keeping you as a back up sorry to say.  Plus why would you want to break this girls heart by getting him to leave her?  Don't think of only yourself but her feelings too.
427380
sounds like a fking AS_HOLE oh my god. what a terrible person. you have to feel bad for his girlfriend, too...my god, DITCH THE FKER and good job for not making a "move"
31592
That isnt the way a mature individual reacts to a normal relationship problem. He may have some problems or he may be cheating or something like that. Either way, someone who deals so badly with a girl he said he loved is not someone worth your time.
210796
Obviously you guys love each other bad attitude that's why you guys get in the relationship in the first place. Do you think your next boyfriend who might not have a bad attitude can tolerate your bad attitude? Maybe you guys were meant to be together with both bad attitudes.
227388
Absolutely.  If a guys isn't as comfortable as he thought he was, what's the point in going through with something that's probably going to screw up anything relationship-wise that could be possible?  It's not fair if girls are the only ones abiding by "no means no"...although, he might consider not going through all the motions (just as women should) if he's not going to play the whole game.
234902
Just call it a bad answer, but I'd kill him. Then again I'm in a bad mood, soooooo. I suppose she should break up with him, no girl deserves to be beaten. And you, being the guy, have to take responsibility and see her once in a while. You know, like spring breaks and stuff.