i am a christian and she is a brahmin hinddu
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If the religion thing isn't a problem, and it's just that you cannot communicate because she speaks a different language, it's time to start studying her language, and have her do the same with english.
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I cannot give a proper answer without knowing the religion that your girlfriend's family practices. However, since you speak of being born again, I am assuming that you speak of Christianity. \n\nYour girlfriend's parents are to forgive you if they are Christians. However, forgiveness in no way means that they are required to allow you the opprtunity to let it happen again. If someone were to steal from you, you should forgive that person, but forgiving them does not require that you trust them with your possessions again. See what I mean? That being said, you are young, and so is your girlfriend. What she is doing by keeping you up in the air is wrong. It is deceptive to her parents and it is not spiritually or emotionally healthy to you. I think that 18 is plenty old enough to make decisions about dating, but if she still lives with her parents, then she must follow their rules. If she doesn't want to follow them, then she needs to move out. \n\n We are not taught to obey our parents, we are taught to honor them. Honoring our parents often involves obeying them, but in instances where the parents are wrong in their commands, we are not required to obey them. That could be a misunderstanding that your girlfriend has, but it could be that her family accepting you is simply very important to her. Different things are important to different people when dating. Some people find education or income important, and some don't. \n\nI think that you should talk to her parents, and explain that you would like their forgiveness and that you hope as Christians they can give it. That would, of course, be easier for them to do if you make a commitment to stop having sex. It's a bit ridiculous to ask forgiveness for something you still intend to do. I would then talk to your girlfriend and make sure that if you do marry, she understands a few things. When you marry, you become one flesh. The days of doing things your parents' way is over, and her parents should not have as much influence over her once you marry. They can give advice and voice opinions, but they can no longer forbid anything, nor can they call the shots.\n\nIf after doing this, you find that you still cannot have a relationship with her, then put a stop to her visits and put it back in God's hands once again.
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I thought you said you are both Christian. Only pagans celebrate birthdays.
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i think that god has someone spl. for you. and when you will meet her you will not regret. do give your first kiss to the best one. who will be committed for you and you only. like indians.\neither they are crazy but still they have very pious love.
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Remain Christian.\nKeep your beliefs. \nQuestion your friends friendship. \n\nHoney, if she beliefs you are WRONG for that. Then she is also "half christian". Because as a Christian, you are taught a sin is a sin. Regardless. Isn't it a sin to cast judgment on someone else?
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She is a die hard wing nut and does not represent us as Christians. It's her kind of "christianity" that turns people away from their faith. She is at heart, the same kind of christian that takes money from poor old women and disabled people on a limited income and lives a luxurious lifestyle with these poor people's grocery money. Don't judge Christians by her.
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Jesus is with her.  She has a peace unlike many have found.  This may be her time to think and sort things out from the first part of the day.  Don't criticize what you've never experienced.
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Do what Christan Girl says. The lord will help anyone that asks for help.
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i am Muslim now...i started to follow only about a half year ago.  my family is Christian
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how long have you known this woman . marry outside of her religion well i am not the kind to stand in the way of love my frien but have you known her for a while or what well that your right i guess let me be the first to say i hope you and this woman will be happy together in my opion it is you as well marry a woman in her religion she cant marry out of her religion i guess well hope all is fine with you in about.2. years from now god bless in my opion i really hope you know what you are doing well anyway i wish you the best you i figure will need it i am not a person to stand in the way of love but that was quick wish you and the woman the best again ?
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:}\nProvide her with good christian counsel\nPray for her \nSpeak with John regarding G-ds will for his life
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I'm christian living in Ramallah
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Yes now is a good time to tell her, and if she dont believe you let her see passions of the Christ.  Just tell her what you know and what you feel and why you feel,and it may take longer than 1 talk,take her to church, if you have a minister you could have him maybe talk with her....go to this sight,it may help you ,its my blog group,join if you like..look in links...\n\nhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/understandingthebible/
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Look her in the eye, be resolute. Then you should shout at her, "Get thee behind me, Satan. I rebuke thee." Then with Christian love , explain the foolishness of her ways. If she fails to repent, walk away from her and cast the dust off the bottom of your shoes as a witness against her.
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I have been a christian for 43 years.
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hello i am muslim..my name is donya
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you can marry her as long as you convert to Islam