Pretend that you used to like me.ALOT. Then, you couldnt see me anymore, because there where some problems between families. Now, you come back once in a while.But in a trip we wenttogether, also your brother and my sister, you mentioned that you missed a girl. And, before that I started feeling something for you.\n1.-Were you just trying to make me feel jealous?\nDo you guys think he still has feelings for me. How should I express mine?
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I think he likes you, why would he want to make you jealous if you like him?  Selah.\n\nPeter
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He's trying to feel you out and see what your like now since he hasn't seen you in awhile. You never know he might want to see if anything develops. Good luck!
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You were naive to think an older lover would pop out of the woodwork and just want to talk.\n\nHis brother is and *ss however for being so blunt. However I think he may have felt he had one shot at warning you and he took it.\n\nIf you would like to get back with your old lover for a sexual relationship again...take his calls. If not let him go.\n\nOld lovers always think of you in one way. On your back.\nI am sorry to be so blunt but it is true. And it very well could be he is without a girl friend right now and you came up.
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Dear Chery:\n\nI am sad that we have not spoken in such a long time.  I miss your company and your wit. \n\nI was hurt when you lied to me, and I may have over-reacted.  Whatever hard feeling we have, I wish we could put behind us because I value yur friendhsip too much to lose it.\n\nPleae let me know if you can overlook our differences and get back to being the friends we once were.\n\nIf you cannot forgive me, then at least stop sending me e-mails, because it just makes me hurt more.  \n\nAnd if that doesn't work, write to her and tell her she sucks. And the only reason you wanted to make up is that you wanted to put her in your will, but too late now.
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Hi!..excuse me...are you new around?or if you touch her..Pls excuse me:did I hurt you? try not to be tensed.Be yourself..and words will come naturaly from your own soul.
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I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
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Sounds like he may be scared of your brother for whatever reason. Most brothers are protective of their sisters. I know I am. But, you had it worse: your brother was friends with your ex. So, maybe this guy was scared of a double beat down. Or, the other possibility is this: he may not have really liked you but was being polite when he cuddled with you or he freaked when you cuddled and didn't know what to do. Then, at the last minute he realized he made a mistake by leading you on and freaked out, like most idiot guys do. Instead of just talking to you about it, he ran to your brother to tell him nothing happened and in his own juvenile way, he saved himself the agony of having to tell you he lead you on and used your brother as an excuse!!
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Don't feel bad okay, he is a jerk that why your sister brake up with him, if he is your sister boyfriend he should treat you like his own family, maybe your sister and him doesn't have any feeling or relationship again so don't worry a thing.
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About your other question regarding your brother...\n\nI wish you would've left it on.\nI have a brother who I feel the same way about and we are best friends.  Don't let these goofs' jealous responses cause you to remove your questions.  You have a great brother who you are proud of and wanted to tell the world.\nPost it again....all the negative remarks are from those that are jealous and "not" intelligent.\n\nSmooches!!
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would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
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Well, you definitely laid it all out there. I've gotten a few letters like this, and if there was still feelings, I would have gone back.\n\nI say send it. If he has feelings for you, he'll be back. If not, you can start looking for someone who deserves you.\n\nGood Luck!
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me and my guy was online and i read him you question..this is da answer he gave me ....\n\n"We almost are in the same situation as you..I'm gonna go to another country for 4 years for my higher studies and she will only see me few times a year.. the thing is this is not as difficult as it seems.. dear sis you are not the first one to go through this.. there are loads of people who came through this or if not you have us... even we were pretty much worried in the first place as what to do... but let me give an advice to you... don't let go... just hold on...we are going to have a harder time than you even... cos it's a way longer period and we are both in seperate other countries which is not our mothercountry... so sister the distance doesn't matter...the only thing you have to do is to have a long distance dedication..... the key thing is to keep in touch as much as ppossible... not seeing your guy is tough... i know... but with time you may be able to adapt to that... just keep him in your heart..i'm just saying.. "so close no matter how far, couldn't be much more from the heart, forever trusting who we are , and nothing else matters.." goodluck sister... this will be posted by my girl who's in a country so far away while i'm writing this...\n\nhy im his gal hear ..darling  im teling u pls go ahead i dont regreat..taking the chance caz my guy is da best no matter how far he is his jus near my heart..and his all mine ..dont b scard i ws scrad my self....belive me ...i didnt know wht to do but jus go aead ..its better dan nt knwing wht u 2 wil end up with.
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Pick up the phone and ask him to meet you somewhere near , but private enough to talk. Like a park or maybe a nice restaurant maybe. Tell him you just wanted to know "Why did you put your brother up to tell me you wanted to end our relationship?" Your still dumb. Let him tell you that it's not true. Then go on to ask do he still have feelings for you. Is there anyone else since you alls separation. You know everything will fall into place. Good Luck and GOD BLESS!!!!!
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talk to your sister first of all, because its your life, your decision. if you don't feel that way about him its best to let him know now so you don't end up dragging him through a more hurtful experience.
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Translation:\n\nHi. Whats happening is this dang boy is getting on my last nerve. I hate it. Anyway, he says he wants to go out with me, and his friend says it too. His friend just called me to say that. Then, this girl that used to like him (but he wouldn't go out with her) said it was a joke. She said she asked him and thats was what he said. What should I do? I guess we're going out, but I don't know if we are or not.\n\nOk, now that people don't have such a hard time reading what you were trying to say, maybe they can answer.
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What were they thinking? You have a brother. How cool is that? What to do from here? I would ask your sisters why they didn't tell you. Don't be too quick to be pissed yet. There may be a reason. I can't think of any but give them a chance. Have they been good sisters in the past or have they always left you out? Take your time and get your ducks in a row. It would be great to find out he is a real nice guy that anyone would love to have as a brother. You don't have to hurry or rush to judgment. I sure hope things work out. Good Luck.
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tell him the exact thing u just said.."i think of u as more of a cousin,sorry but can we still be friends like we were before?" u would not be hurting his feelings,but sometimes guys get wierd about that stuff and dont even want to talk to you anymore,but im sure if you have known scott that long it will be ok!