Okay, so there's a saying that love conquers all. Do you think this is true?? Im in a situation where i love this guy with all of my heart and i know he loves me too but he does things to hurt me. Maybe he doesnt know what he's doing, but i try to give him hints. Despite his lying and cheating should i stay with him because i know for sure that i love him??? \nSerious Answers gets 10 deserving points and a good comment.
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Love does conquor all, but real love doesn't lie, cheat, or do things to hurt. Love is kind, selfless, and nurturing, not self-centered. But, if it is something he doesnt know he is doing, don't drop hints, TELL HIM. Your hints may not be obvious to him, and it's not fair to just beat around the bush and expect him to respond. Confront him if you believe he truely loves you, and if he does, it will turn out all right.\nBut, if by "things to hurt me" you mean abusive, purposeful things, then he doesn't love you, and you need to get out of there while you can.
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Males can't..repeat..can't be trusted. They were born liars. Ok, maybe not all of them. Go with gut instinct. In our defense, we females were gifted with intuition. Make sure you convience yourself you can live without him..just in case. Love is a state of mind as well as a state of the heart. One can heal the other. Life is too precious to depend on someone else's love. If you have found it, that's great. If not, you will find it elsewhere. It's one of life's grand lessons. You have to go through it to grow. Good luck.
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Love differs in every person, but for my experience i grown to love this person, we starts as friends, in just a short time i feel comfortable being close with him, i trust everything about my self, i fell secured everytime he's with me, i told him even the shamefull experience i had. I am never bother with my weaknesses for i know that with him everything will be alright. There is always security in this relationship. i fell contented.
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hey man, are you dating my girlfriend?  I cant believe there is anyone I can relate so well with - \n\nI guess all I can say is to just trust her until something really messed up is proven to you- give her the benefit of the doubt man!  Does she tell you she loves you? I know they can lie about that too, but at least they are saying it.  If she turns out to be a liar, dont do what I did once in my past- dont even attempt to make her feel guilty, because chances are she wont anyways.
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Is it really love? Or is it more of a comfront blanket type situation? I mean, I know there are probably still sparks there but is it really worth it to travel across country to find out that maybe, just maybe your feelings aren't all that strong as you thought? All I can say- is do what's in your heart and what feels right... Because then you'll always ask the "What if's?" and if you really love himm- then you'll have no regrets one way or another!
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Knowing he will always be within your heart, he taught you bow to love. Now it is destined for you to go on with life experience different loves, there is always something to learn or to teach. This time you were learning, maybe now it is your turn to teach someone what you've learned from loving him. Consider this carefully...
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He may still love you, yes.  But what exactly is keeping him from being in a relationship with you?  \n\nI would not count on this individual to commit to you.  This guy sounds like he may be confused or unsure.  And he may take a long time making up his mind.  If his indecision is causing you heartache, then you need to do what is going to preserve your sanity.  You need to do what is good for you.  This may mean moving on.  This may mean not waiting around for him.\n\nI'm sorry if this sounds harsh.  It sounds like you still have feelings for him.  I don't know your exact circumstances.  However, I do know what it is like to be jerked around by a guy who couldn't decide if I was "the one."  It's not fun, and it's not worth your time.  \n\nIf you are really set on this guy, you may have to wait for a long time for him to come to his senses.  Ask yourself, honestly, is he worth it?\n\nGood luck.
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Actions do speak louder than words, but unfortunately actions are not always clearly defined. Your man may really love you, even though his spending habits cause you much frustration. Men tend to be a bit obtuse when it comes to their creature comforts. You may not be able to get his attention on these matters unless you raise the stakes high enough. My question to you is, how important is this issue? Is it worth breaking up over? If he loves you, he will modify his behavior to keep you from leaving. Good luck...
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For a minute I thought I was reading my journal...take it from me..I've been there...and I did give up...I gave up on looking for something that's just not there. We talked and I told him it just seemed to good to be true...but that's just it it is too good and you have to realize you are worth all the devotion he is giving you. He sounds like he may really be a good guy and if you keeping flipping out..he will leave..my man almost left me and we were in the same predicament, living together and he did everything right but b/c I had been hurt before I looked for the stuff my ex used to do and never found it...STOP IT!! before you lose the man that may really be for you!!! good luck and take my advice sweetie!!
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For me trust is number one. If you lie to, steal from, or cheat on me, there are no second chances. I was in a five year relationship. We lived together all 5 years, however he began to lie to me about Little things, then bigger things. This upset me because I felt like I had to have a law degree just to decipher through the lies. I left him! I now have a healthy relationship with a man I adore. Had I stayed with MR. Can't GET Right, I would be miserable. Don't stand for it!
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Well:  Water puts fire out!\nThat doesn't mean you should base your decisions upon it.  "Love conquers all?"\nBut, if he gets ALONG better with someone else, this is a BIG deal.  Who wants to spend the rest of their life \nf i g h t i n g   ?!!
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Ah...this is an age-old question. Not an easy answer on this either. Does he feel the same way about you? Would you be willing to give up all that you have to be with him, knowing you can't go back if things fall apart? I know I'm not answering your question but giving you more questions. This is something you have to follow in your heart.
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I don't think you have true love there or his love. If he loved you then he would speak up or for you. Time to move on and find some one else that will.
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Well I hate to say it but if he truly loved you he would have crossed all barriers to make it work . You would be setting yourself up for all kinds of hurt if you let him sweettalk you into something you know in  your heart is wrong . Why do that to yourself and prolong the agony ? You have already made your feelings known now the ball is in his court ! How does the old saying go "If you love something set it free and if it comes back to you its yours and if it dont it never was" Just DO IT ! It could save you alot of heartache on down the road .
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You poor thing.  Finding little clues to him maybe cheating are probably eating you up inside.  If he won't admit anything, don't push it.  I would just keep a close eye on him with out him getting a clue as to what you are doing.  Act normal.  He WILL mess up.  I promise.  When he does, even though it hurts, leave him and take him for all he's got.  No one, even if you have a bad relationship, deserves to be treated like that.
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yes its quite true i think. everyone that i have talked to or have actually know to have been cheated on the same person has done it again after all the promises. they probably do love you but they cant help but try to see if they can still get the charm going to get someone else to. its hard to find someone that will be up front honest trusting and will never cheat. read tips on love and relationships to help you better on this site
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His lying. When I realized I was willing to share my heart and soul and he was still lying. I remember the moment well. I knew of information he didn't know I had. As we talked, I prayed in my head "Please don't let him this time Please!" He lied again and I had proof of it. Falling out of love felt like it did when I fell in. The moment went just as fast as it came.  I don't regret having had loved him. I do regret the time invested in a relationship with someone who lie just for the hell of it.  The postitive side of it is, when meeting new people I am not apprenhensive about things I want to know about.  If they feel I am invading their space, I chalk it up to they are wasting my time.