its something i want to share with my family but i cant seem to find a way of telling them.
214105
tell your mom first then figure out how to tell everyone else.Your mom will still love you ,you always will be her baby.
572374
The easiest way to tell your parents is to simply sit down and ask to have an adult conversation with them. It's best not to sugar coat anything, just keep it real. Tell them you have a boyfriend and it might be nice if you tell them that you would really like them to meet him and get to know him. That way they feel like they are involved in your life. Whatever you do don't put it off any longer because the longer you wait the worse it will be when you tell them.
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While this situation may be "morally disturbing" to some ppl....sexual relationships between non-related individuals is not a crime....nor is it a sin.\n\nAlthough you were raised as brothers and sisters....there is no other connection.  \n\nAs awkward as the situation seems....telling your parents could perhaps cause an even worse situation for the entire family.\n\nIf their relationship is merely a sexual one, it may end on it's own.  If they truly love each other....telling on them will not stop it.\n\nAge needs to be considered here also.  If both of them are minors....or....if one is a minor....and one isn't....that would raise itself to an entirely different level of acceptability.\n\nBefore you talk to your parents, and before you have any further confrontations with the involved parties....try talking to a pastor....or a school counselor if you are still in school.
11580
Be honest.  Hopefully she will respect your honesty.  Remember that she is your mother and you can tell her anything.  Just tell her.  Trust and open communication between you and your parents are the most important things you can have with them.
125274
well it would seem that the first thing that you deserve to do is sit down and be honest with your family about how you feel you can't be honest with them about your life due to fear of judgement and see if they are aware of this fact or if it is merely created by you.  Being in a similar family I would tend to think it is a little of both.  After you have done some work to dispell this space that is between you and your parents then let them know that you have a boyfriend that you have known for a long time.  If you have to make little white lies to lead up to where you are to continue to tiptoe around them then that is the way it is going to have to be.  But the healthier route would be to break down this barrier that you have with your parents and judgement and creat some unconditional love between you all.
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Its something which you have to sit down and explain to them. If you are uncomfortable about addressing the whole family, then speak to them one/two at a time. If you are uneasy about your family, then get some LGBT friends and come out to them - knowing that you've got people on your side will make it easier to come out to other people (including your family).\n\nYou're probably feeling uneasy because you lied to them. Chances are, you also lied to yourself. You need to explain this to them, and mention how difficult it is coming out in a homophobic society. You only have to look at the amount of LGBT counselling resources to appreciate the difficulty LGBT people have in coming out.
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I definitely think if you are worried about scaring them it may be too soon for you to verbally tell them, but perhaps you need to tell them in other ways through body language, gestures and making sure you show them how much they mean to you at every opportunity.  These actions will take the pressure off when it does come time to tell them verbally, cause they would have already known. GOOD LUCK.
380738
I know eveyone you just listed, but I can't give it out1- Sorry!\nThey only give it out to really close friends, Costars, and family.
410401
tell ur partens ur feeling on this and then have ur sister to sit down with u and u ur partens and stringhen her out
179915
Juts tell them, Babe.\n\nIt's the only way.
236417
My atheism is mostly a private affair with myself.  I only share when asked and if I trust the person enough to tell them.  Religious discussion is not a big issue in my immediate family, so it was unneccessary to "tell anyone".\n\nOnly person I may not tell is my 88 y.o. paternal Granny.  I would only tell her if she asked....but other than that, no.  I do not want to upset what GOOD relationship I have with her, and I want to make our love for each other count for while she remains.
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hey hoteve i wish the same thing my family is crazy . sometimes i feel like they dont even know i am here . i also feel like my two older sister get the most of my mom and dad's attention . but i a little bit learned that my parents cant help it they r  just being parents .wishing they would go to hell is not a very good thing . they do do some things for us though . if u ever need to talk just im me it should be listed
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Im trying to support my own family...not everyone else
12263
I can definitely relate to you, and let me tell you, unless you are happy with the decisions they are making for you then you need to tell them immediately. You are the one that is going to live your life for the rest of your life. Not your parents. I am sure they are doing it out of love and concern for your future, but if it something you cannot stand, you are gonna end up being depressed and resentful. Good Luck!
422260
Your family seem like they are trying, but seriously you should tell them this- that there support means a whole lot to you and you love and respect them and you just want the same and deserve the same like any human being does.\nIf it concerns you why dont you sit with them alone and bring the subject up and you can all have your say. \nI really hope it works out for you and everyone else concerned.
517093
its a secret.. I can't share
54484
Your parents have their reasons, I'm sure. But have you asked them to explain to you? They may not be able to, or they may not want to, but consider the possiblity that they did what was best, not only for them, but for you too. \n\nMy husband and I are seperated for reasons I hope I never have to tell my children.