my sister graduates high this year and none of my friends are going to my school HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Dont worry just be yourself and people will get to like you for you trust me last year i moved to a new school and it was scary but i made frinds in no time although this year was easier since half the class moved (there is only ten in our class 5b 5g) GOOD LUCK I HAVE FIATH IN YOU
194753
This stuff happens all of the time.  What you should do is plan things with other friends.  I know you guys are "best" friends, but hopefully you have some other friends.  I'm in a similar situation, but what I do is be as nice as I can be to that other girl and if she's not nice to me, then there's really no excuse and you can hate her justifiably.  Try to keep dates with Blaire that are only the two of you and just say that Krysta isn't very nice to you and you don't understand why because you've been trying to be her friend.  If you're in high school or younger, then it's a really hard situation and I'm sorry, I know it hurts.  You'll be ok though.
388948
i am in 8th grade but i remember when i was in 7th grade it was really hard at first and there was a lot of drama!!!!!!!!!!!!! i guess cuz it is ur first year of mittle school!!!!but when u get in2 8th grade all the drama ends!!!!!and then starts back up again in 9th!!! and the dances at our school r sooo boring!no 1 even dances!!(its gay i know) well anywho!!!!if u need a friend i will be ur friend!!!the more the marrier!!!! hehe :D
586621
I have actually been through something very similar to this situation in my High School Days, where I was accused of doing things that I was would never ever do.  It turned most of my friends against me (or people I thought to be my friends).  It also caused a downturn in the relationship with  the girl that I loved, and it made our relationship very rocky at the time.  Her friends were so hell bent on breaking us up on all accounts and after about 3 years of trying they finally suceeded.  Things like this had made me learn a few things....  \n\nIf you have become an outcast in your group, then screw them.  They obviously do not know the real you and that is now their own problem.  Let them get a new friend to replace you.  Eventually if you didn't do anything wrong, people will come around and realize who was really right and who was really wrong.  And after a certain point, it won't matter anymore.  When you are done with the high school years, you will most likely only have 2 or 3 true friends and if they can't stick by your side now, they surely won't be there when you graduate.   The thing is is just to be yourself.  You can be nice, but be firm and don't give in to the first person just because your desperate to get back in the group.  Its not worth the time nor the effort....\n\n~Chris~
180202
I have also been in that situation before. Moving to a new school is quite intimidating, but don't fret. The more that you have confidence in yourself and your situation, the faster you will be able to adjust. The best thing to do is join school clubs and volunteer for activities in your school. Being part of a group is a fast way of bringing people together and bonding with one another. Also, surf the Internet and look for local hangouts in your town, most cities have a website advertising the local hangouts...etc. Also, don't hesitate to speak with your guidance counselor at school, they are trained professionals there for your help, whether academically, or personally, they can help give you tips about coping with your move, and even give you good advice about how to meet some people at your school, I guarantee you that they know the local hangouts from hearing the teens talk about it in school. Of course, don't hesitate to talk to your peers, you can initiate a conversation with someone next to you in one of your classes or at lunchtime, lunch is designated as the social event of school!! Good luck, you'll be fine and have a kicking social life in no time!!
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It's a horrible feeling to think nobody cares but I garuntee you there is lots of people who do care and you don't realise it.  As for school, don't worry about them it might seem like a long way away now but believe me before you know it you will be out of school in the real world with real people who have more important things to do than bully somebody, and you will meet people who accept and like you for who you are.  Chin up!!!!
331312
I feel for you.  I have 7 sisters and 1 brother.  I don't know how old you are, but when we were teenagers, I just kind of went along my own merry way.  Being considerate is a big thing, I was, they weren't, so I had to work around things sometimes.  I woke up earlier so I could hit the shower before they woke up.  I played sports and did other things I enjoyed, without any of them.  If they wanted to participate, they were welcome to, but I didn't *try* to get them involved in my life.  Now that we're older, we all have different things we enjoy, but also can get together and enjoy each other's company in a way that a lot of siblings can't.  Hope this helps, and good luck.
413261
I am so sorry. Going through High school with out your friends is hard. I would start by joining clubs - Year book, Cheer, Art...what ever your school has to offer. You will meet new kids that way. Sometimes friends just go away and it has nothing to do with you. I have a feeling you out grew them and they moved on, you can to. I know this doesn't make you feel better, but once you start being busy your depression will go away and you will start feeling better and make new friends.
324097
I'll pray for you. I know how you feel about the schoolwork, though I can't say how it feels to loose a parent, but my friends have. I know it would be tough to lose someone close to you.
297153
i don't go to school!!!
307412
I know How You Feel I lost My best Friend Right After High School It is Not Easy  Getting Over The People You LOVE AND CARE FAR But In Time You Will. Just Think About All THE Good Times That You Had And Remember Your Friend Will Always Be There For But Now She Will Be In Your Heart So You Will Never Be alone
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This happened to me when I was in high school too.  I ended up following them around and trying so hard to be included, now looking back I just wish that I would have played it more cool.  Find some other firends to hang around with until things settle down with your 2 BF's.  That shows them that you are your own person and you aren't desperate!  When they seem to go out of your way to not include you act like you had better things to do anyways and the make some plans dont sit around... Oh and what ever you do DONT be b!tchy to them..that makes you the bad one.  Just be nice and courteaous and go about your business eventually they will go back to the way things were.
418201
ok wow...i personally thing ur friend is a little bit to needy...she needs to realize that ur parents are your parents and they may have different rules...soon...shell probable stop being mad at you and be mad at ur parents and say that they hate her..ive been there...u need to write her a nice long letter explaining that u really do live her ( in the friend way..duh) and tell her that you just cant get over there...and that ur parents wont let you...help her out as much as you can over the phone and dont get so upset at the fact that shes mad at u...kill her with kindness...make her feel like you really do care...but as soon as she starts getting mad at ur parents you need to set her straight and tell her that...u really do care about her but if she doesnt knock it off shes going to lose a really good friend...in in 10th grade too...and ik that people get so dramatic around this time...so just give her time to get over herself...not trying to be harsh but...oh well you can IM me or e-mail me whenever you want (tteotw_thl_ilu@yahoo.com)
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I'm sorry you're going through this but it's quite common in high school.   People are very insecure in high school and the more insecure they are, the more they behave the way your friend (and the others) are behaving so you must first understand that.   Secondly, the best advice that anyone can offer you is to ignore all of it as much as you can, with everyone except your family.  Don't talk about ANY of it with ANYONE at school, no matter how much you think you can trust them.  People are going to talk because doing so makes them feel like they are more in the "circle" than you.  So you have to rise above it.  It's the only way.  You've already talked to her so she is CLEAR on how you feel but she is allowing her insecurities to take over rather than your friendship.  Ignore it, ignore it, ignore it.  When you ignore things and people, they lose interest and get bored and move on to something else.  If anyone tries to talk to you about it and asks questions, simply say "I have no idea what the issues are".  Don't say "her" issues say THE issues.  This way, you're not directing anything towards her and she'll start to feel stupid.  Trust me.  Ignore it and repeat what I said above "I have no idea what the issues are" over and over again.  It will pass.  Thirdly, try your best not to obsess over it.  This has nothing to do with you.  NOTHING.  People have their insecurities.  They always have and they always will.  That never changes, no matter how old you are.  Everyone has insecurities; Presidents, world leaders, Bosses, Celebrities, Singers, parents, friends, family, religious leaders, everyone.  You have your own as well so stop obsessing and understand that you can't change her behavior.  You can only let her get bored with her own behavior-and that is by ignoring it.  Think about other things every time you want to think about it.  You can't change her but you CAN change you and your reactions to it.   Good luck and STAY STRONG.
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You need to tell her you can have more then one friend. If you need someone to chat with about anything add me to your messenger. Lol I went through the same thing in high school. I know what it is like to feel left out. Try to make some more friends... and 2 is company and 3 is a crowed really applies in friendship. You just keep your head up and if you need to chat like I said add me. I am here if ya need someone to talk to.
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Oh, honey, it seems like the end of the world, but seriously, these people will totally forget you in just a couple of months.  In the mean time, find a teacher you can trust or a guidance counselor and tell them about it.  There's alot of pressure to shut up, but there's nothing noble about being a victim.  Physical abuse is not acceptable, and you shouldn't be forced to go somewhere that that happens.  And remember, highschool is the worst part of most peoples lives, but mercifully it has an end.
337957
Yes, let those people go if they are holding you back.  You said you'd be going off to college soon, and that will be a great start for a new social life.  In the meantime, start distancing yourself from your friends; spend more time reading, going new places and different places than you normally hang-out and maybe you can start meeting a whole new "mix" of people.  Good luck, don't let anyone or anything hold you back Girl!!!  Go Get Em!!!!!!!!!