By this I mean even though a partner may appear to take notice of certain situations, the bulk of the responsibilities seem to fall with the woman. Is it us do we ask for it, should we do more to assert ourselves. What really is the meaning of !TIRED!
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i think it stems from our history of nurturing......we took care of everything while the men were out "hunting".  it is in our nature to take care of everything and as tired as it might make us we do feel fullfilled when everyone is taken care of.  i think we are more tired now because most of us have to hold down jobs AND take care of the home/kids.  more respect needs to be put on the womans role in society as "taking care of a home"
625678
My husband and I talk a lot during. Sometimes it's just a matter of telling the other what we want at the moment and other times it can get a bit dirty...LOL...It just has to do with the moment and what we are feeling.
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I can't remember where I read this, but it's a good defination.\n\n"Women are rheostats, men are light switches."\n\nA woman's committment is far more involved than a man's so they can afford to be more cagey than a man.\n\nOne could say it's a woman's prerogative, but you should always approach an encounter with the mindset that it may go nowhere.
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Women are attracted to men with intelligence. Ones that can converse in a manner worthy of conversation.\n\nTalking with the mentality like this really makes women  tired, so I am off to bed. I suppose your goal was accomplished.
314337
When you ask ---a question you have tobe honest about it if you want an honest response..The truth is that you probably use him that is why he is tired of you ----and that is the reason why you do not want to loose him---he is useful when you need him------I am rigth---pls correct me if i am wron..
307238
yes we should ask cause we do not know in which mood the other person is and have some urgent busy schedule
674462
NO!!! ...But -how rude if that was said to you,noone should be making someone feeling they are not good enough in anything ,specially that envolves emotions,sex is not a sport-and if someone thinks they (are such an expert?!)and thay should say something to their partner about it-shouldnt be so direct,but may be make suggestions or give ideas,or ..anything else,but say -you are bad in bed!Thats all wrong and surely wouldnt make you feel better,but quite the opposite-and i'm guessing every time you are having sex you are very aware that youre being judged-like is some sort of competition..If you are in LOVE there is no right or wrong way,you just have to communicate more and understand what works for each other best =)\n...Am i wrong?!
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Ahh yes, welcome to the game.\n\nHere it is, we act like we don't give a sh*t and it drives you women wild.  You get a little pissed that we would rather do almost anything other than beg you for some attention, so you come busting in and make us notice you.\n\nShow a little interest and then let them stew for awhile.\nNo more than 1 call a week.\nNever make set plans, but occasionally suggest that you meet up with us somewhere. (we might not be there)\nAlways seem too busy for you, but sometimes give in and change our 'plans' to accommodate you.\n\nSound familiar?  Then you are playing the game.
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Well, the fact is that when colleagues pass in the hall at work, they say such things as, "Hi! How's it going..?" and "Hey, what's up?" These, at first sight, appear to be questions regarding one's well-being. In fact they are just pleasant greetings. The correct response to both is along the lines of, "I'm good, how're you?" to which they should respond similarly. Now, the last thing that they are expecting is for you to say, "Well, I've got this problem..."\n\nNow, in a different setting, with certain people, usually where you have a closer relationship, you may be able to discuss certain personal issues you have. When the bond is tighter there is more chance that the person will actually hear you, and respond with possible solutions or some kind of comforting thought. These situations are normal for partners in a relationship, close family members, 'best friends'. Sometimes, the closeness of the relationship precludes any discussion whatsoever, a certain amount of removal is required.\n\nAnother point to consider, is that when someone is 'wrapped up in their own problems' they often get comfort from hearing about the problems of others. This makes them feel less alone in their strife. They may even want you to give them more details and they'll listen intently as their problem seems less and less serious.\n\nA major difference between men and women (in general) is that women make for better listeners than men. Sometimes, the person expressing their problem is not looking for advice, or a solution, but simply wants to air the issue aloud. Men, on the other hand, view every problem as something to be resolved. The concept of 'just listening' is something that must be explained to men. This is even more so when the person expressing their grievance is a woman or a child. Men have an inate 'protection' desire that kicks in  in these situations. When the problem is emotional it is sometimes difficult for men to show empathy. Men are better suited to fixing a broken toilet than a broken heart.\n\nBut, at the end of the day, we are all human, and as such most of us try our hardest to provide comfort to people that we care about. Sometimes, fear or life or even shyness may get in the way.
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Every feeling or emotion we have is not driven by the significant woman in our life.\nWe can get upset because of something outside a relationship.\n"It's not you, it's me" actually applies here. lol
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please! lol@men taking care of womens emotional needs ..thats what we   have each other for\n\nof course its physical (if you are doing it right; otherwise it is duty)
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She needs to suggest that they work out together and start eating healthier.\nShe can say that she's been letting herself go and that she would like him to do some of the working out and eating healthier with her to keep her motivated.
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its hard because women get upset when a man says I am tired then she gets even more upset and starts thinking there is something wrong with her also if your man is suffering from a lot of stress he may not be able to get into the mood as well there are a lot of reasons why men cant express them selves either could be there upbringing maybe dad didn't show mom a lot of affection and it just rubbed of on him
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Dude, you're either in the mood or you're not. Sounds like she has a sh*tload of stuff going on in her life right now. Don't take it personal when she says no. It doesn't sound like it's you.  The poor woman is worn out. Try to help her out a little more.  Good example: you had the day off, why wait until she gets home for her to cook dinner?  Have it ready when she gets home. It's the little things.\nSeducing a woman is an all day every day process. You can't take her to bed after a day like that and expect her to be "in the mood."\nSounds like you two need some adult time, anyway. Try to plan some time for just the two of you.\n\nGood luck!
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Yes most definitely. The second man must have that little extra to 'rock her boat'. A woman does not always, even if she is doing a bit of harmless flirting, want to sleep with him. Some women may not give the signs but may want to hop into bed with the guy..
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We define "normal" between ourselves in relationships. She has to weigh all the factors in the relationship to decide whether or not to stay. I couldn't be with someone like that unless the conversation was fantastic.
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Twice a day is a lot for any man. Ok, maybe when I was 17, but... If he says he's too tired, that would be truth. If he had another lover, he would still have time and energy for you. I did when I was 17.