This intelligent man that I enjoy conversation with suddenly sent me a dozen roses, a ballon, 2 boxes of chocolates and a huge teddy bear. He has never talked disrepectful or perverted to me and he is really charming. He lives like a dozen states away and he always says that I am a good woman. How should I take this, because when I got the special delivery yesterday it really made my day and I am really flattered. What message is he sending??
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Well he is sending a good message. He likes you obviously. However you have to be really careful. It would be cool for you to on ahead and being flattered and everything but you have to watch out. Bad things can happen. However dont let that stop you from enjoyin this intelligent man as you say. Just stay cautious at times and be careful, whatever you decide to do. I mean hey, he did send you a gift so you might as well go for it. Great men are usually distnaces away. But they will get to you one way or another ( i mean that in a good way)
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I think you should get him a card and think of something he is really in to and try to incorporate that into your gift. Guys aren't all that big on receiving things for valentines day because they figure it's really the "female" hoilday.  So just make it very sweet and thoughtful! And if all fails..you can perform a striptease for him...when he comes home from work have a trail of rose petals leading from the door to the bathroom where you will be waiting in a bubblebath with rose petals in the tub and chocolate and champagne on the side. Then you will tell him how much you love and appreciate everything he has done for you and that you are glad that you two have found true love in each other!! Let me know if I was helpful...
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honey do not worry about it,  First I want to say thank you for the 10 points about the gift idea.  After reading what you wrote I think he just wants to make sure you are satisfied.  I don't want to sound gay but I think you have a great man, that is very secure with himself. beside those Brazilian people are very good people.\n  I think when he makes that comment to you  that will be it, he will put all that he has into it,  I think he just wants to be sure you will be OK with it.  I feel he is looking out for you and your well being when he said that. I know that is twisted but I believe him.  I think he just wants you to see the world and that's it.  I think he wants you to be able to look back after you two are old  and been together for years. he wants you to think that you made the right decision to be with him.  remember that old saying if you really love someone set them free and if they come back they were always yours.  He wants you to be fore sure.  He is more of a man than I,  trust him, and have a good long weekend.  Cheers to you and him,  as I take a drink of my beer.    Mike
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Are you serious?!!  After only two months of 'talking' you really think you love this guy?  Those are some pretty strong feelings to develop in such a short time.  He sounds like he is kidding around or maybe doesn't know what he wants--saids he loves you and wants you to have his baby.  Some guys change their minds as the 'wind blows' (as the expressions goes).  I also don't understand why you'd ask what his intentions are....he's already told you he loves you and wants to make babies.  You need to toughen up or everyone is going to be breaking your heart.  You must admit that you've gotten really attached in a short period of time.  I think you should question how well you know this guy before you go further.  Not responding to an e-mail is one thing (although that was some real serious issues to discuss via internet)....but I wonder if he's stayed in touch otherwise.  If he hasn't contacted you I think I'd be patient and see what develops.  What's the rush anyway.  Good Luck
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buy her sumthin' nice and b prince charming....smile more.even my yahoo id says xxsmileformehxx.SMILE!!!
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I think it's great that he wants you to do that and it's not "weird" at all.  To me it seems that he is still really attracted to ya!  I mean, it's not like he asked to start borrowing your underwear!!  I mean, just say what comes naturally.  Be sexy!  I am sure you know what to say deep down...practice saying it alone before you leave it on his phone.  And the one answer was cool...start with text messages :)   Good luck, and don't feel silly...he wants ya, girl!
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Oh sweet Jesus don't tell him teddy bears and chocolates woman, what's wrong with you?? That is the sickest thing I've heard. Tell him not to buy anything at all until he gets to know her a bit better. I'm sure it won't ruin their night and the next time they meet up he can get something that he has thought of himself. If a guy bought me a teddy bear, on a first date or if we had been seeing each other for a while, it would go at the bottom of the wardrobe and he would get slagged off to hell for it. The best impression he can give her is to be sincere, honest and generally good company. Ask her questions, don't boast about job/personal wealth/car etc......don't allow an awkward bill situation to arise and pay for dinner. See her home and make arrangements to see her again within the next few days if things have gone well. Give her your best kiss ever. \n\nIf he is going to bring anything at all tell him a small bunch of flowers. Tulips are good and the red ones mean "Believe in me" - a good starting gesture.
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i had the sweetest day of my life...\n\nmy boyf and i didnt plan anything for V-day because we both had work and we had conflicting schedules...(i go home 6am he goes to work 7am, i leave for work 8pm he arrives from work 6pm) so I wasn't really expecting anything...\n\nBut when it's time for me to go home from work (6am feb.14), some of my officemates were already teasing that a guy is waiting for someone outside and i said "no he's not my boyf" because I wasn't really expecting him but when I went outside there he was waiting for me with a big smile and as I was walking towards him...guess what?!! I didn't see this one coming...he handed me a bouquet of pink roses (a really nice one) and my officemates were like, "oh my gawd! he's so sweet"...\n\nI was very surprised and very touched. I felt very special that moment. Then we just had breakfast at his house then off we went to our different destinations...\n\nI love my man!! :)
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I think thats why he called you a psycho right there... your reading to much into simple words and look how upset you have gotten yourself. A guy dealing with a chic like that...is not at ease, he always has to becarefull what he says to not freak you out. Maybe you have been a little clingy lately or something. Talk to him later on today, if everything seems fine then just blow it off as passing conversation. It sounds to me like he was trying to make light of you missing him, a form of trying to cheer you up, or maybe just trying to get you to talk about something less sad/depressing. No worries though, ask him about it when your feeling more calm.
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*Smiling lupinely* You are ALWAYS good enough to give a homemade present, including cards. The kind of person who would not appreciate the fact you took the time and effort to make something just for them is simply too shallow to be worth your bother in the 1st place.\n\nAs to what should be on the card, try to come up with a common interest the two of you share and use that as the theme.\n\nBarring that as most guys are not too into heavy sentiment, a simple "thank you for being you" and how happy they make you will suffice...
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A very nice man telling me that I am beautiful.\nI have never heard a man tell me that. I'll take it in a dream: better than never. \n( My husband of 38 years managed to get away without saying it.)
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Trust that he had something more important to do than email you at that current time.  If he treats you great like you said give him some slack and not fret over a missed email he diserves more credit than that.   Maybe if you try treating him like a prince he'll notice you pay attention to his kind efforts and will do more for you.  He sounds like a good guy, little things shouldn't erase the big ones hope i helped good luck :-)
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Oh I hate it when people do that - it's creepy. Just ask him straight out. You want to know, after all... If it's the guy you like sending you stuff, then that's awesome! If it's not, then you can say something like, oh good, it's kinda creepy to not know who it's from and you don't seem like a creepy kinda guy... you know, use it to start a conversation...
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That is really sweet of you.  He is very lucky to have a great girl like you to take care of him on his b-day!  Sounds like you have done good with the dinner and webcam so far.  What else can you do for him?  Well, I believe the obvious would of course be providing him with some one-on-one personal entertainment later in the evening, perhaps with some new fun toys, outfits, or something.  But besides that, you could buy him something cool for his car (if he is into that kind of thing), or maybe some jewelry (if he wears a chain or earrings).  Cigars and alcohol are always good, since those last a long time, allows him to relax, and he will be thinking of you when he enjoys them.  THose are just my thoughts.  Good luck, and have a great time celebrating with him!
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write him another one from "your secret admirer" and another, everyday for a while, with small presents (roses, candy, etc.) after awhile, and he gets REALLY curious, write him a note with your name, and a BIG teddy bear. soon you'll be going out! like magic!
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Maybe he did not get the email.  Maybe the Internet Dog ate it.  Don't leave things up to technology.  Call him and ask him straight out what he thinks about your relationship.
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Wow! You are putting a lot of thoughts into this.  As a woman, roses are nice, gifts are great, and going to a fancy place is even better but in the end, your thoughtfulness and the time you spend with her will make her feel very special and loved.