last year i liked this guy, but he only liked me as a friend. this year we went to different schools, so i thought that i would forget about him but i cant. we still talk alot and he still considers me his best friend. but im still in love, and i dont know what to do.
215545
ooh world is full with broken heat....wanna tel u.....i lost my ideal person......i m so upset.......i just wanna kill myself.......cant stop crying...missing him so much....\n\nplz tel ur boy friend...before u lose him..coz i cant tel my feeling to u.....and love goes more deep........when its time to say good bye.....plz tel him right now......u love him
631922
you could hint that you think he is cute or something like that.  dont push things or be too forward he might get scared. If you drop a few hints and he responds then maybe he likes you too.  If he just ignores you then maybe you should just stay friends.  This can be tricky cause you can lose friends like this.  But I had a guy friend that was my best friend.  I told him I thought he was cute and he ended up thinking I was cute.  We hooked up and have been together for 2 years, got married, and are very happy with each other.  Sometimes your best friends can be great boyfriends/husbands.  We are still best friends and love each other very much.
440394
well i was once in a situation like this.. maybe call him and tell him your feelings( thats how i did) or ask him to talk to you after school about something without his friends.. \nthen if he likes you he likes you, if he doesnt he doesnt... \n\ndon't listen to that first guy or the one that said 'flirt flirt flirt' ,,... im still very close friends with the guy /best friend i went out with.  we went out like... 2 years ago.. and im still best friends with him, talk to him all the time, his friends and my friends sit at the same table for lunch... went trick or treating with him and his friends and mine..and i didn't flirt with him either..  so don't listen to 'dat wangsta soundin' guy ' (aka the first guy dat talkedid like diss) or the big flirt one   \n(sorry you two if i offended you)
332616
Just keep busy with something else but him. I've been in your shoe before and when everything turned bad I felt very sorry. I ruined our friendship. Thinking of someone is exhausting especially if he never think of you the same way you do
520107
i kind of had the same problem. i fell in love with this girl, she was liek my best friend though. eventually i figured out she liked me back so i was lucky. idk maybe u could just go and see a movie with her as a friend, anddd just go on a few walks, tlak with her, tlak about ur feelings and about how life is. dont talk about your feelings for her but just talk to her. try to make her like u back, if she doesnt already. if u keep talkign to her and become comfertable with talking to her about things that are deep and emoitinal then go for it. if she says no just be like "ok thats fine, becuase i would much rather have u be my firend then have this be akward" id k you would have ti think of exactly waht to say though.
192264
sounds to me you guys are just really goood best friends. if he didnt like you a little bit he would be saying no. your graduation. is a big thing. He wanted to be there and congrate you on your special day. who knows what guys are always thinking, they are really hard to read. but who knows maybe he likes you and maybe he just wants to friends.\ntake it easy and dont rush into any wierd questions. guys dont like to be put on the spot they hate that. so if you did that already, you prob, didnt like your answer, cause they always try to find a way out.
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maybe he has never imagined being more than friends, i think it happened to me, this girl kept talking to me and i didn't even imagine her liking me, but i didnt notice until recently that she might like me because she kept showing signs of it. but i never even noticed.  Try a little harder. Try talking directly to him.  Get comfortable talking to each other and tell him how you feel.  If you are too shy write a letter and give it to him when hes alone or have a friend do it.
197322
I was in that exact situation a few years ago!! Totally clicked with my best friend, and when I pursued something we decided to date, and we never EVER went back to being good friends again. We talk a few times a week online but that is it. Ultimately it's up to you! You make the decision! If it's worth it... go for it!! Over all i think for me it was worth it. I would have always wondered "what if"...
394384
This is so wierd because I am in this same situation right now. I mean to the tee. What i have found is that if you value your best friends friendship, then you should just leave him alone. I mean you and him can still be friends but you need to discuss with him that there is a line there and in order to avoid any hurt feeling, that line should not and will not be crossed. it's tough but you can do it. Its just unfortunate that you didn't get to him first.
106503
Go for it, if he doesn't feel the same and you want to keep the freindship...act like you were just curious and that it wasn't that big of a deal anyway. He may be thinking the same thing as you and you're both afraid to go for it. If you ever get signals from him in that way, he has feelings for you.
86531
I know what your going through because i still am im in love with my best friend and before you decide to tell him or not to just relize it sticks with you dont tell him  that your in love with him if its just a crush because it could ruin your friendship maybe not ruin but change it thats how mine is with my friend now  i told them how i felt and was told me they didnt like me as more than a friend,im not discourageing it i think that if you really like him and its not just a crush that  it will have  ruined the friendship even more because when your in love you never just want to be friends cuz it hurts so remember either way you choose if you dont tell him you know youll regret it if he felt the same way about you.Good Luck
330196
uh well maybe,but it might ruin your friendship.r u sure he doesnt like you?well anyway,you might just want to keep quiet for a while,so u can still hang out with him and enjoy being around him,its your decition    GOOD LUCK
289090
I know how you feel.  I am going through that right now.  I just graduated college and I never got a chance to tell the guy I liked for 2 years that I liked him.  Our relationship is confusing.  Sometimes it seemed like he liked me other times it seemed like he hated me.  That's why I didn't pursue the relationship.  Like my friend tells me, "If we are meant to be together, we will be together.  God will see to it."
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My advise is to stay with him. You felt good around him right? You had fun and had nice conversations, right? Take time and think to yourself, "do I like this guy more than a friend or not?" If not, be honest and tell him, don't avoid him. Stop being such an immature little girl, we ain't seven-years old anymore. Men don't have cooties.
200083
tell him that you cannot do it by being friends .. stop talking to him even though it is hard .. if he feels something is missing in his life he will come back to you in the way you want ..but if he doesn't than understand that he wasn't probably your best friend or he doesn't like you so you have to get over him .. but try what I say my best friend did that to me and eventually I had to go out with him .. because I was gonna lose him ..
293916
how long have you been friends??? frankly, it really should be okay because you've moved on, right? unless, your friend is your bestfriend and she knows how you still feel about him, then maybe that's another question...so, maybe you need to ask your friend what is going on...you know, talk to her or something...but if she's not that close, leave it! like i said, you've moved on right? go find someone else better...someone who deserves you... ^_^
80162
Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.