I have a close friend who is a girl, She already has a bf though. Anyways I just found out she might be pregnant! My heart is broken cause we been close friends for the longest. When I say close I mean we talk, and touch as if we were together. I'm really hurt about this what should I do
199311
Sounds like you have some deep feelings for this girl that you should have told her about a long time ago.  She may now be expecting someone else's child and, if so, you must stay out of the situation...especially if she stays with the father of the baby.\n\nShould they break up, if you are still interested in her and willing to accept the situation, then you should speak up and tell her how you feel.  I'm sure she would need and appreciate the emotional support.
83105
Do you think she might already know/have a feeling? Either way, think with your Heart...then, just say/tell her how you REALLY have felt. Pretty sure if the two of you are this close, Let Your Heart Speak!!!
88865
hello trgrim,\n  fist let me say congradulations to you and baby, as for this friend..friendship is a rare thing and they be there thick and thing. true friendship is all entrinty..it really dose not matter if male are female .honsty is the first thing and most immportant.\n as for the people that did not come see the baby and you its there lost..the must not be able to  face the beutiful wonder that god giving u. so look at this way u are the lucky one take them with grain of salt because one day karma will do the same thing to them and when they come to u u can also turn them away 2
218746
My heart really goes out to you, I can't imagine what you are going through with your daughter. It sounds like you have made a great start with the day to day stuff and i think this is the best thing to do -concentrate on each day and don't look too far ahead. Rely on your family and friends and don't stop talking about it, play with your baby and wait. The waiting is the hardest part, but if you take it slowly and don't set a time limit - don't say for example that by next week you will have stopped crying, or that by next month you will be over him and don't judge your own 'get over him' time by someone elses, everybody does things in their own way. But i promise you that if you keep doing what you're doing it will go away, it really will, you just have to wait. Wishing you all future happiness xxxx
266075
the thing is she got a bf and that should make you think twice before telling her how you feel, but thod she knew??\nbut if you really wanna let her know just tell her that you know and understand that she has a bf and in that case you wouldnt do something stupid like separate them both but tell her you really care for her and you respect her as a lady, and you feel really lucky to have her as your friend and tell her that you will always be the first to lend a hand a shoulder to cry on when life's cruel (as a friend)\nin that way she will apreciate you.
110503
At the risk of putting myself out there?.. Tell her.. she should know.. I have a man in my life who has a child with someone else.. SHE and I don't talk..I wish we could, but its complicated as it is.. Tell her..she should know the truth.. and leave the door open for her to talk with you.. I regretably closed that door at the request of the man, and now I wish I didn't.. and I would love for the other woman to contact me.. so I could know what the hell is going on and have the full story.. but I didn't.. so I have more questions then answers.. I am sure she feels the same way and wants to know the full story,a nd what is really going on.. so tell her..
304118
First off let me say I am very sorry you have lost a friend. Second call your fiance's Dr., explain the situation and they will probably give her something to keep her calm, There is really no way to make it seem better, just love and support her in every way you can, and let her talk about it if she needs to, even if it is over and over again. Help with the new baby(CONGRATS!!!!!) as much as you can, and let her rest when she is able to.   But please call her Dr. as soon as possible for all of your sakes.  God Bless.
54130
I think the best thing for you to do is just be honest with her.  Let her know how you feel in a nice quiet moment, you'll know the time.  Share your feelings.  At the very worst, the two of you will stay friends.  At least you won't have to worry about not knowing.
321188
If she's really your friend I think you NEED to tell her what happend. Just tell exactly what he said about her that will make more sence to her.  She will be devestated but it's always best to know.  Just turn the situation around, would you like to know or would you like your friends to tell you. Plus is not the end of the world, she will lose her boyfriend that dosen't want to be with her anymore but that's why you are there for!
609988
great! now here is an another superb story by world's best story teller! doesn't ur friend and that dumb lady know about a medical process called abortion! and if they don't agree for abortion then congrates to ur friend coz he is going to be father! there is nothing u can do for ur friend for this! but if u are a true friend,be always with him.he may need moral support to handle this situation!
538792
It's hard living with someone.  I would just leave her alone and focus on trying to keep your stress down.  How far along are you?  It could just be that you're on an emotional rollercoaster, I was (and am) with all my pregnancies.  I'm around your age and 12 weeks pregnant, so if you want to me to kinda be there throughout it you're more than welcome to email me at kalliea923@yahoo.com  I hope all gets better with the living situation, and just remember that nothing lasts forever.  She may get over it soon.
135203
first off, internet love is never a sure thing.  always be careful who you meet, cause the chances of them being who they really say they are are usually slim to none, and thats just asking to get hurt.\n\nnow, she got pregnant by someone else?  that should tell yo right there that she doesnt care about you as much as you care about her.  my advice is to get out of the relationship.  but, if you think its really love, talk to her.  one thing to remember: how would you feel raisising someone else's kid?  is she worth it to you?
234960
You are breaking my heart.  I don't know whether to believe you or not.  If you are being honest, then you have some real issue to deal with.  The main issue is your pregnancy.  The minute you became pregnant, it stopped being about you.  Go to an adult, figure out what you are going to do, and do it.  You no longer have the luxury of being young and stupid.
154325
If he's such a good friend of yours why hadn't you met his wife before the party? I don't know that I,d tell him right away I,d ask her first if the baby is yours. But before you are all set to be babies daddy you better request a blood test to make sure its yours. Chances are you and her husband might not be the only  ones who could have fathered her baby if shes that fast to have sex with someone shes never met with her husband that close by.
335919
i think maybe he is starting to feel something for you since u r having his baby,..but if u are with someone else dont blow it.. let ur friend make the first move as to his feelings for u
236024
That question depends on your future w/ your current baby's daddy.  If the relationship looks like you guys will be married then you don't want to jeopardize that because of your child.  If you can keep your friend and remain faithful no matter how hard times are, then I see no problem w/ you guys being friends as long as the benefits are only talking
340597
Be as honest with yourself and others as soon as possible... I know it is awful to be where you are at right now, but telling someone in your family or hers that you have the best relationship with is going to be your best bet long term.  You need support.  Since you are both minors, it is unfortunant that you have this in front of you, but I don't think it is a crime... If one of you were an adult that would be a problem.  Be as strong as you can.  This will get better.  There are other choices.  There are many families out there that wish to adopt a child.  But still at least be there as her friend and make sure she gets the proper medical care and emotional support.  Please don't wait any longer to tell an adult... Time will make matters harder to deal with.  I suggest not to break up with someone because of her medical condition.  She's got to be emotional too right now.  If you have other problems than the pregnancy, consider doing so because of that.... But you should really be there for each other since you both created the dilema.