I am completely scared.  I have heard so many dreadful stories about mid-terms and finals and not to mention the work load.  I need some clarification on what to expect in college.
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When you're completely unfamiliar with it, the thought can be overwhelming.  Just a hint, though.  Usually the ones who find finals so terrifying are the ones that spent a majority of their time partying!  That doesn't mean that you have to be chained to a desk and chair.  In fact, you should get plenty of exercise and engage in fun activities.  But, always read your assignments carefully.  If you're having any problems, consult with professors or teaching assistants before you get too far behind.  \n\nIf you have the right study attitude, you'll not only succeed but have a marvelous time!
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i loved it. best time of my life (so far!). try getting involved in some clubs or activities. maybe play some IM sports. if you're living on a freshman floor, make an effort to meet people. its really the people you meet that make college worthwhile.
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School is tough at times - no doubt!  It's good that you are stressed... it means you care!  Of course feeling stressed isn't much fun, though!  Sorry to hear you're having a tough time.\n\nFirst, because you care, you can pull through this!  I've been in your shoes before... I'm now on the other end of a college degree and lovin' it.  I wasn't a scholar by any means, but asked for help and ended up on the Dean's list my last five semesters.... believe me, if I can do it, so can you!    \n\nNot knowing you or how you approach things, it's hard to address specifics... rather than making assumptions, I'll cover a range of things in case any of them pertain to you... with that being said, whatever you're doing right now isn't working, so obviously you need to find a different way of studying, etc.  Here are some general tips... feel free to take 'em or leave 'em.\n\nAre you giving 100%?  If so, unfortunately our best isn't always good enough to get the results we want... but at the end of the day, when you look youtrself in the mirror... there's something about knowing you did your best.  If you continue to try your best, you will sort it out.  Of course if you're not trying 100%, then that's where you start... commit to do it!\n\nI would first start by going to your professors or teachers... go over past tests, papers, etc. and see where you didn't do well.  Ask for advice on how to study for his/her class... and find out if he/she knows of any study groups or other students from whom you could receive some additional help/tutoring.  If the class is small enough, they may be able to offer up other observations/suggestions as well.  Also, let them know how you feel and that you want to improve... they are human and all "signed on" to do this as a profession... they are there to help!\n\nThen... examine how you study... and where you study... find a place that is conduscive to studying... if you're near a TV or singing to a song on the radio... or near others where you are being distracted, it's time to find a new place to study.  Also, are you a morning person?  Know yourself... what time(s) of the day are you most alert, etc?  Try to study during those times... your mind associates certain places with certain activities... bedroom = sleep, kitchen = eating, etc.  I found going to the library and getting away form everyting was the best thing for me... and once I got into the routine, I noticed my grades improved... I knew once I stepped into the library, it was study time.  Establishing good sleep and other habits helps as well.  \n\nGo to class every day... skipping is a easy habit to get into - I've been there & it'll do ya in!  If ya don't skip, don't start!\n\nDo you cram for tests?  If so, it doesn't work... not usually anyway.  Procrastination will kick ya in the pants too... and can burn ya!  I had a coach that once said, "fail to prepare, prepare to fail."  Same holds true for school.  If in college, there should be some free academic assistance or tutoring centers that have staff that can address this stuff... same goes for proof reading papers before you hand then in... in in High school, there should be someone who can help you find these resources. Remember, no one makes it alone!  I'm assuming if you can ask for help on Yahoo, that you'd be willing to ask for help at school.  Smart people know when to ask for help!      \n\nRemember, balance is key!  Your future (in a career sense & lifestyle) depends on school... take care of business first... work hard when you have to, then play hard when ya can... finding the balance is key, because you do need both.\n\nSometimes easier said than done, but tell friends that you're struggling... let then know what you need or don't need from them... if friends undersatnd, that helps!\n\nStudy tip... take notes... first, make sure you're t
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It probably does suck to be in school but it sounds like you are going to a great school.  You will end up being a better person for it.  They are teaching you skills that you will come to understand one day when you are older.  You won't end up being some slack ass who quits college or ends up jobless in your 30's.  Don't worry everyone hates school at some point.  You only have a year to go.  Hopefully, your Senior year will be more fun.
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what kind of college is it? Have you ever been to the campus before?\n\nI suggest you go around today or tomorrow and find your classes, and plan out your route so on Monday you aren't wondering around lost. \n\nBe early to your classes because on the first day there are often more people than will fit. If it is a popular class, it will be full. Plus theres a wait list and those people show up on the first day too. So if you want a good seat, or any seat at all, be early.\n\nBring your textbook on the first day. A lot of people make the mistake of thinking the first day will be like it was in high school. It isn't. You may go over the syllabus but after that most professors will put you right to work. \n\nJust remember murphy's law. If something CAN go wrong, it will go wrong. Don't wait until the last minute for anything. For example, "I'll finish my paper in the morning before class" can quickly turn into "WHO TURNED OFF MY ALARM??? I AM LATE AND NOW I DONT HAVE TIME TO WRITE MY PAPER"
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Everybody gets burned out whether your in college or on the job. I just want you to know how proud I am of you. These next 2 years are going to fly. Enjoy it while you can. Set daily goals and give yourself a break once in a while. You'll get through it. I was the same way when I was in college. I am so glad I stuck it out. I have a really good job and a wonderful home to come home to. Think of your future and what your education will give you.
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sounds like everyone needs to grow up in your college.  but it sounds like nothing will happen to you because if something were to happen it would of happened already, i wouldnt worry about anything
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Okay from one procrastinator to another...Ignore that really BAD advice from those folks so not like us.  I am the Student Body President for my University so trust what I say...My first semester was easy.  I was so nervous about flunking out that I did really well in my classes.  However, I will give you some advice to ease first semester.  NEVER take financial aids word on anything.  It's like a doctor, seek a second opinion.  Second, do not be afraid to go talk to your professors. Trust me they like it when you try and get things right (It saves them time.)  Almost all schools have a tutoring center or a person they can recommend, so if you need help...get it!  Also get involved with your Student Government.  I cannot tell you how much networking I have done just from being involved.  Put it this way if I am having trouble or need something fixed...one phone call.  Also for some more academic advice, always review your note right after class or the same day.  I have done it for so long, I barely have to study (and believe me I'm NOT that kind of student)!  Also try and do your homework within that day.  Yes, I know it’s hard but trust me it’s easier!  Oh and for your English class, go to your professor’s office and check out their books and see what interest them.  My instructor had a bunch of feminist books, so I started writing my papers about women, and my grade went from a C to an A, in a flash.  Hit me back if you have any other questions or want anymore pointers!! I got truck loads of tips for the procrastinators!!(We have to stick together)!
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You're not stupid, you're just trying too hard.  Take a deep breath, relax, and enjoy the classes.  Never can tell what will happen!
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Speaking as both a professor and a former student - unless you have some kind of deadline in which you're required to graduate w/in a certain time frame, DON'T overdo it! IF you're taking 8 courses (assuming they're 3 hrs), that's 24 hours, and WAY over a full-time load. If you're also going to work, you will be lucky to just pass those courses. Spread it out over at least 2 semesters, and work part time if you have to. One more semester won't kill you, but trying to cram in 24 hours plus work just might!
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if this happened & you r sure of it go to the head office in your college..and tell them what you know...
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basically i'm screwed for finals\n\none in two hours another in nine\n\none tomorrow and the next day (which will be the worst tests i've ever taken as i haven't opened a book for either class in about 4 weeks)\nwhich means tonight and beyond i will be playing catch up on massive amounts of reading about political theory and such
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HA!  that's funny.  Dude, your in for a big surprise.\n\nFor a real eye opener, talk to your college guidance counselors.
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First off.......I am such a language/English/literature person. But in college I had to take a statistics class. I was scared to death because I just so don't have a mathematical mind. I loved it! The teacher was amazing......and related to each of us on  such a personal level. The hilarious part was that it was one of those huge lecture type classes with over 200 people. Yet, she had this way of making it seem like she was talking straight to you. We would all be working problems and laughing and poking fun at our silly mistakes instead of feeling like we were losers for screwing up. Her tests were monstrously hard, but I ended up with an "A" in the course. Shows you what amazing teaching skills mixed with personable skills can do for students. I loved this question......I'm so glad you asked it. I haven't thought of her in so long. I really should go find her and tell her thanks sometime!
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i felt the same way last year before i went to high skool. i had no friends to start off with literary all my friends from middle skool went to different skools and i was left alone. i was scared alot. but time passed by i made a bunch of friends and class isnt as hard as i thought it would be. it is different then middle skool in away. just sum advice, the ppl who r too nice i mean way too nice dont trust them cuz there just a bunch of like upperclassmen who want to pic on the freshman but ya other than that have fun
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College will be an amazing experience that you can also bring back and share with the people you left behind, who may be having their own amazing experiences. It's natural to feel sadness and even regret when you hit a point of change, and this is not the last time in your life when you will experience it. It's okay to feel what you're feeling. Be good and generous to the people around you in these closing weeks of high school and enjoy the process you are going through. Figure out ways to keep in touch with people, but don't be too disappointed if some of your relationships drift apart. If you feel like you haven't gotten to know as many people as you should have, resolve to do better in college, where some of the barriers of high school will be gone. Some people may tell you that these were the best years of your life, but every year can be even better as you build on the past and create the future. Have a wonderful graduation and an incredible time in college! Good luck!
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i am med student too.. which yr are u in? Its a norm to feel this way in 1st yr. evetually you will get used to it. If u r still in first yr and realise things are getting really harsh. QUIT asap! Seen few of my friends going psycho due to stress. Medicine as a subject isnt that tough actually compared to maths. i think working life would be worse than student'. sleep all u want. listen well in lecture and come back home and do some reading on topic u learn everyay. study 3 hrs a day. and dont forget to do some sports and spend time with group of friends from same faculty or different faculty. cheers. need any help , may email me