what do i do if a girl i like is in my martial arts class and everytime we talk she would always smile and laugh. (topics are mostly school, martial arts, food, travel, and movies) I even noticed that everytime when I talked to her, she would always be holding/hugging something or having her hands pinned to something. I believe that she is trying not to play with her hair. But I'm very bad at judgment. Although we dont see each other very much, for some reason I still like her and I dont know if its the way back too. We've also been friends ever since we went to a tournament together along with the martial arts team. But I am also shy if you guys answer to ask her out. So what do I do? Note: I am very confused about this. Any guidence?
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shyness is a major problem of mine too. give it a shot. martial arts should teach you self confidence. complement her technique or kata. next time a martial art movie comes out tell her how excited you are to see it. ask her if she wants to see it also. you could also try to get a group to go so its not really a date, but you get to interact with her on a more social level.
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If you really like her and want to be with her then tell her and maybe she feels the same... some girls keep boyfriends no matter if they like other guys because they fear ending up alone and being rejected from the new guy... so, maybe she's waiting for you to make a move... i think you should definitely go for it and if she doesn't feel the same, then break off every contact with her and try to forget about her... if she'll say yes, then great... but if she'll say no, it'll be easier for you to forget about her... because she rejected you, so now instead of liking her you might start hating her... it's better to go for it, so you won't wonder about it later of what could've happened if you went for it... so, i encourage you to tell her what's up... either way you have nothing to lose, but to gain possibly... good luck...
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aw yes i do think she likes you. she might be flirtiing with other guys in front of you, because she may not think YOU like HER. i think you should ask her out. if she pulls you aside or when your alone, (or you pull HER aside) and just smile and say something like, "your very nice and beautiful, and i was wondering if you would like to be my girlfriend?" or something like that. be sure to smile and look into her eyes. girls love that. if she rejects you (which she probably wont) just do a subtle smile, and be understanding, and stay her friend.\n\n\ngood luck! :]
325324
ok i think she does like you. but first you should just try talking to her. if you guys have the same lunch period ask her to sit with you and if you still like her ask her to hang out. i hope it works for you.
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take it slow buddy don't rush it cause' you want her to be your girlfriend right away, my best answer towards your question is that you need to re-evaluate yourself. is there a way she'll like me? i mean, she is interested in me?(you'll know through how she is around you.. you can just feel it... trust yourself) and if you have body odor (not to say you do.. it's just an example) you should know better to clear that up you know.. you have to think about those things. if she likes you as much as you like her.. there will be a sign that will strike you. not literally! haha.. but i mean like.. who knows. you will randomly bump into her again and again and it's a good vibe you'll get out of her. if she talks to you and really carries a conversation it shows she's interested about you and you all in all. if her talks are short and to the point.. she may not be all that into you. and here's something important. like, do NOT i repeat DO NOT take her kindness as her liking you. I have experienced that all the time. I am a really genial person and if I'm helping a guy out with his homework or whatever, he automatically believes I'm into him. Goodness, no! If a girl likes a boy, she'll do whatever means to get to him. It's that natural thing that happens. Overall, you will find out someday if she likes you back. hang in there!
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Well, I think you are wrong.  I tend to have the same problems.  You are too serious even in your approach.  Girls just wanta have fun.  If you approach a girl with such a straight forward attitude you'll scare her off.  Big Yes on the self-confidence though.  You need to come across like you're fun to hang out with and you're looking for others that are fun to hang out with.  Friendship first buddy.  Ask general open-ended questions then listen.  School, work, hobbies, pets, etc  LISTEN to what she is saying and don't let your mind wander.  I know what happens.  She's talking and your thinking, oh crap what do I say, she's pretty, does she like me, how do I look, how can I be funny, what do I say, oh crap... If you're not listening then you can not 'join' the conversation.  The more you talk the more you both will loosen up.
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It's a possobility. She might like you, but you never know for sure. Talk to her about it, or just start having normal conversations with her and see where it takes you. You need to say /something/ to her, at least.
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well how long have you been doing it a couple of weeks? months? if so you're not gonna automatically become a great judoka from just a few weeks of training.\n\nit takes time to get comfortable on the mats, and learn how to use the techniques you learn properly, so just stick with it and it'll come the more you practice it.\n\nas far as the girl you got a crush on, you should use that to your advantage, by using it as motivation to do better in class, and who knows you might just impress her a little. and you should just talk to her every once in awhile and get to know her better (moreso since you two are both students trying to learn Judo, and this is a good way to do it) and that'll prob'ly help with the jitters ya got whenever you get around her, just talk to her about things in class to break the ice and put you (and prob'ly her) at ease.\n\ngood luck dude, and good training
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Should tell her how you feel. Don’t feel scare if she would turn you down. If you’re too shy to approach her,\n What i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to her in person sure has the edge and more advantage.\n\nLove is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. And no rush. Girls look at 2 things, handsome and good personality. You know what handsome is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. \n\nAll the best to u.
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Just talk and be yourself if someone likes you everthing will fall in place. Ask her can you carry her books walk her to class from there if you and her will like each other or become great friends either one you cannot lose.*
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I think you should just call her, because you sound confused and you just confused me by reading all that....lol. But seriously, if you like her find out for sure, because she may be feeling the same way about you (confused). Sometimes people don't give off clear signs on wether they like a person or not...maybe their shy...maybe their scared..or maybe they don't like you.....you never know. Just keep on untill you get a clear YES or NO!!! But in this case if you do get a No..then don't feel stupid or anything, because you already know your a good person and she would probably end up the one missing out!!! Also don't listen when the people on here tell you to start "playing games" that is soooo immature and a waste of time..do what's in your heart. So find out!!! that way you can make your next move.....either you will start a wonderful relationship or you will move the HELL ON!!!!!! (so you can quit wondering) \nGood Luck and Be Blessed!!!!
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She might, it all depends on the girl. But what do you like about the girl? Spanish is a good class, I have a guy I like who's in my class before lunch too, so same prolem there. I think that you should just tell her you like her, or if you can't do that, like me, you can write them a note saying you like them, but dont put your name on it, and tell one of your other friends to give it to her, but dont say who it is from. That might work! Good luck! You could spend your days wondering if she might like you, and never know. so take a chance and hope for the best!
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Wouldn't be 100% sure what to think.  Some girls are just friendly and smile and say "Hey" to anyone they come across in the hall for any reason.  I wouldn't immediately jump to the conclusion that she liked me and that I should ask her out.  If she smiles and says "Hey" to me on a regular basis, however, that's a pretty good indicator that she's interested...
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Yup you blew it....but not completely.  Just keep at it.  She is probably thinking the exact same thing as you.....why do I go blank...  It happens, you just have to push past it.\nStart today.....put it in your mind that the next time you see her....don't wait for the right time.....just walk up to her and say Hi, how did the game film turn out......cool.  Can I see it..  Girls like the guy to make the move.....so the ball is in your court.  Nothing you say....is dumb, so drop that thought.....  Ask, if she's tried some other energy drink....tell her what you like......hey, this is easy.......so just go after it.........you won't think its so hard when you two are having a great time.
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haha. I agree with Soulful_kris. Girls do like older guys. But we're not here to shake your confidence. In fact, that's your most powerful asset. Be confident. Girls hate guys that can't look them in the eye.Try really hard not to stutter and keep it casual. Ask her to lunch or if she wants to talk. Tell her how beautiful she is and that she lights up your day. Don't tell her stuff like, she's your world and you love her and whatnot. That's just too much for a first impression. Good luck.
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Just become really good friends before you start a relationship! Trust me, I've gone into a relationship based on physical things (without a strong friendship) and things didn't work out! I think it's great that you are willing to wait until she seems ready to "make a move"! I wish more guys were like that. Find out what type of things she likes to do. Maybe you could invite her to go bowling you and a couple of friends, or go to coffee(i suggest Starbucks), or out to eat,  or somewhere else that you guys could just talk.  I know the movies are fun but you should do something where the two of you can talk. You can't really get to know someone that well by going to the movies. To keep her interested in you maybe you could just flirt with her a little, every girl likes to be flirted with every once and a while. Good luck! If you want any more advice on it you could always contact me.
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yo welcome to my world. Forget bout shyness. heres what to do. say hi to her everyday like really loud and smile at her after. wave at her when u c her in the hallway. Make fun of someone else to make her laugh. then make fun of the teacher. look at her always when u have class. dont make it look like ur staring though. Since shes letting u make the move, get one of ur freinds to say something like u 2 should go out together. then u should say may b we should. then say something u wanna see a movie friday. see if she says yes or no.. Good luck bro. pe@ce