If someone is out of someone else's league, You think they are too intersting, cool etc.. to want to have a relationship with that person or trying to hackle by mean? Pls emphaize if u think its true.stop answer this if u not serious about this answer or u be bad comment!
211857
yes... I am with you, you are absolutely right.
436504
It happens to the best of us. Men who think you are shallow for having prefences are people that you don't need to know. And the men who hang on to hope are just members of your new found fan club!!
76969
You know the girl? is she your friend or no? Either way it may have been in bad taste but be warned if he left that girl as quick as he did for you-he would more likely drop you as quick as a bad habit for someone he may think is hotter than you. I think that's the best reason it's not a good thing.
159929
The only dating I have done as an adult has been from on here.  I usually kind of know the person, have talked on the phone and online for quite awhile before we meet.  I have usually dreamed about the meeting for some time.  I tend to live a bit in a fantasy world.  I think about will we have as much fun together laughing, will he see me and think that I am not what he expected, etc.  I don't worry about how I will see the other person because I have already formed an emotionally satisfying bond from talking for awhile.
605548
I'm a guy. It's hard because you don't want to mess up something that could be a potential go. Why don't you put yourself in our shoes.... We aren't sure if you like us in return (perhaps you already have a boyfriend), we're nervous because we probably think that you're out of our league and so on...... It would be easier if you let us know how you feel first. then we would be alot more comfortable telling you how we feel.
352137
thats bad. i think its wrong. i mean you souldnt just not like someone because they look bad. (just as an example.) or the opposite, completly fall for a big jerk because he looks hott. i just HATE it when people do something like that. both as just examples. i've seen it happen a few times though.
145711
There is nothing wrong with that. I have one close friend that lives in my area. Other friends from school have since moved out of the area. I prefer keeping to myself a lot and I dont think anything is wrong with that. My ex was a loner too. We spent all of free time together and it didnt bother us. I think we had strong connect and just preferred just to be with one another. If you guys enjoy each others company and have no need for others I personally think that is normal. Most ppl think you need a bunch of friends and have to hang out every night of the week but that just isnt so. Be the way you are and dont try to change your b/f.
253778
Using someone to get over another is not a good idea. You can't expect someone else to make you happy, that is something you have to be responsible for.
275980
I think it may mean that you seem unapproachable.  My gosh, all these women around you and interested in you and no one has shown it?  Are are you blind?  Maybe that's it.\nI have often heard that I seem unapproachable.  Confident to a fault?  When I worked on being more "friendly" and let it be known I was available, I got a lot better results.  I was not a player and did not assume people around me were checking me out.  Deciding to get more flirty opened up a whole new playground for me!
326594
I've had a bad experience with dating a girl that I'd been friends with. It was pretty awkward, both of us knew eachother and what we like with the exception of relationship needs. I was so used to us just being friends that I made minimal moves. Unfortunately, she believed in the man making all the moves. She eventually got bored and went after someonme else.
383698
What is this BFF.\nIf you don't want to JUST DONT.\nBecause in the world there are a lot of people who are cute,smart and nice and you can't bug your life thinking about them always.
367344
=I wouldn't say that he is a player because that would be saying something negative about your friend. I think he is just out ;;joking and having a good time with his friends. I wouldn't make a move yet as to get rejected and hurt the friendship. He is just a tease at this point. Let him make the first move. Meanwhile enjoy his flirting with you. You never know!
83888
definately not. it means you are one of the few people who others would be lucky to know. Just because you want your partner to be a good person, doesnt make you a bad one. good 4 u!!!
208932
either she's playing hard-to-get or she fears committment.  when there's a guy you can't have, it's sometimes *so* ridiculously appealing, because a) it's forbidden and b) there's no risk of getting close and getting hurt.  I'm not sure about your particular case, but this is true for me and a lot of the people I know.
416700
some people are just not that interested and they don't what to hurt your feelings. We don't know the real intentions of strangers and we don't know their reasons either for their weird behavior, but I can definately relate to what you're saying. Good luck and I hope you don't let people get you down. It's not worth it! Takes too much out of you and you get nothing in return. Keep your hopes up and reach for the stars!
618065
its in our nature to try and be something were not and to try and show that were the best. in some people its more and in some people its less! if they think that they are better they want others to know or if they dont have friends they want some or in my case if these other people are into the same stuff and they are so cool i eant them to nkow that im cool too! hope this helps!
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They feel they need someone else's advice to weigh their love life. It shows your really not ready for a serious relationship if your depending on complete strangers to fix your love life. You have to go with how you feel, it's YOUR relationship, and it needs to be YOUR UNBIASED decisions. But hey...more points for me!