Your best friend just told you he/she was having an affair with your wife/husband. What do you say, or do?
214869
Kick both of their a s s e s .
71869
Betrayal is one of the most tragic things that can happen to a person.  Betrayal from a friend is the worst kind.  I hosnestly don't know what I would do.  I would be heartbroken for sure.  would it make you feel better to just go kick his a**? Really, I am stumped on this one.  I can imagine the pain of betrayal, and would be at a loss as what to do.  So, I guess I'd just go to the person and tell them how much he has hurt me and tell them that I'd never get over it, how much I had trusted him, and then try to get on with my life.
467306
no, what goes on in their marriage is really their business. he may already know, or she may choose to keep it from him. i hope that it was some one-time mistake on her part and that they've already worked through it, but it's not your responsibility to tell him.
258871
I would first confront him with it and then tell her I knew about the affair just to see what she would have to say about it. Trust is an important part of a marriage so if you don't have that you need to think about what you want out of life...............
385783
Good thing you found out before you got married to him: \nLike the saying goes:\nMy husband ran away with my best friend. Someday I am going to have to meet her.\nMight ought to thank her for keeping you out of a ugly drawn out divorce or from being eat up with STD's. Then tell her to hit the road because with friends like her you don't need enemies.\n\nOH! AND BY THE WAY DITCH THE BUM TOO!
46802
Ah, dumb move on your part, I'd say.\n\nHe's going to find out. \n\nYou can be honest and tell him, or somebody else will.\n\nYou have a real problem here.\n\nlol lol lol  Give tompj64us best answer, PLEASE!!
261110
Oh sweety, told you told you told you?? You can't believe all this. You should have told him from the second he said he was leaving "ok, i'll be here for you once you get everything sorted out." He might leave his wife, but my gut like urs is saying he's a lier and he's not planning on leaving his wife. When the week is up, his time is up too.
221977
Have a long, quiet talk with him. Stay calm, and try to be a good listener.  If by your feminine intuition, you sense that he's lying, try to get advice from a close trusted friend, who's been married for a long time.  Or better yet, talk to your friend first.
46737
Do you get to see her in person? If you do, then I'd recommend telling her. If he's cheating on her, then she has a right to know. Besides, she'll probably find out in the end anyway; these things have a way of coming up, and a lot of times, it's at a bad time.\n\nAt first, she may deny it profusely, yell at you, hate you, whatever. But in the end, it's for her own good and it'll save her months, or even years, of heartache. Never delay bad news; the longer you keep something secret, the worse it'll be when it comes out.\n\nGood luck with whatever happens.
36517
Ask his best friend! He probably knows the truth or at least can find out!
349856
no she shouldn't have an affair if he doesn't get the picture then she isn't comming right out and saying it and you telling her to have an affair....you are some friend.
552346
It was before they got married so tell her to drop it.and let her cry on your shoulder,until she gets it all out.it want do any good to say anything to him.they weren't married at the time ,probably just a last fling .
381435
omg u poor dear. i know u wanna do the right thing, but it seems that by doing the right thing, ull hurt innocent people.. its a really difficult situation and what u gta is tell ur friend right away to make it clear to this married guy that nothing can ever happen and her to tell him that its wrong for him to ever consider cheating when he's got a wonderful life and family as it is. if this doesnt work, then u may have to approach his wife. i know its horrible, but its worse to have her and the kids be led on by this lie and hurt even worse later on when they find out. i really hope some miracle happens and this whole problem somehow works itself out. best of luck for whatever u chose to do and i commend u for trying to fix what u see is horribly wrong.
500751
I don't mean to be judgmental but the least of your concern should be telling your bestfriend about it.\n\nYour concern should be first and foremost is the way you've been behaving (especially if it's still ongoing) and why did you allow yourself to be in this kind of situation and deceived the person whom you consider to be your bestfriend.\n\nI know that you are very much aware that what you're doing is downright wrong.  People will be telling you a lot of things with the foremost emphasis that you need to stop.  Maybe these will fall on deaf ears.  Maybe it will not.\n\nAnd my prayer is that it don't, that you will choose to act upon the situation and come to the realization that you are not only hurting your bestfriend but you're hurting yourself as well.\n\nYou've allowed yourself to be the "other woman" and settled...
430727
i just answer the same quistion,[excpt the brother already found out]ok. i would applogize and be ashamed of my self for doing so and stop having the affair.
114678
You dont report her. Your hubby gets what he deserves.More importantly, why is he still your hubby if he had an affair with a student from singapore? What goes around comes around. You'll see her again, when she comes back to study and your hubby has another encounter with her. Too bad, so sad.
453055
Tell him the truth NOW, this is going downhill fast...\n\nThey are not talking about you or testing you, they are both trying to figure out what's going on and your man suspects something. It's only a matter of time before he finds out. Tell him now!