i want to know how to make a relationship grow and keep it strong
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i would like to know the same thing
105028
Just tell her straight out that you want to be closer to her, and that you want your relationship to evolve into something deeper. Women appreciate honesty in a man...at least I know I do! Don't make her guess over your feelings. Who knows, she might want to be closer to you, but is scared to make the first move. Best of luck to you!
628101
go for it\nget into the relationship\ndon't loose her
56115
I think it's a personal question that has to be addressed individually. It depends on what is important to you. If you have an absolute need to know what the other person is like every day, all the time, then perhaps you should. Or if you believe in love and what a commitment to marriage means, then take the faith that you love this person no matter what their personal habits. You can get to know a person's character without living with them, but again, it's up to you and them. As for strengthening a relationship, more studies show that it doesn't, but everybody's different. You also have to think about your potential kids and what kind of an example would you want to set for them? Years down the road what are you going to want to be able to say to them about moving in with their partners? That usually will reflect what is in your own heart and you should listen to that.
207292
ask him!\n\nthe number one key of a successful relationship is communication.
491416
you need to ask your WIFE\n\ncommunication is the key to a succesful marriage or relationship
137733
Compliments to you for being a gentleman. When we rush things, we don't allow ourselves to savor whatever we're trying to enjoy.  You say you want "to keep this one"...well, take your time and really get to know her and what she's all about.  The more deeply you know her, if she's for you, the more you will love her.  Knowing someone on a spiritually(not physically) intimate level, allows you to really commit and give of yourself; which, by the way, makes for a great formula for relationship success. Best of luck!
13915
Unfortunately, this is how many, many relationships fail. The best thing to do, (if you want to save your relationship) is to be spontanious. Don't let things turn stagnant, because it gets boring, and one or the other of you will look elsewhere for something exciting.
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If they mean all of that, then trust and communication would be the greatest strengths for a relationship.  You may want to reconsider making someone else responsible for your total happiness.  If they are responsible for EVERYTHING, where would your responsibilities lie.  Trust and communication are two of the most importatnt things in a relationship but I also believe that you both should have faith in God.  God will be your friend and he won't feel burdensome because you are putting so much trust in him.  I just wouldn't want to see you give anyone so much control (not that you would) to someone who may one day cave under the pressure of your eternal happiness.
356063
you need to comfront him/her about it. you dont have to acuse them of anything, you just need to ask. if your relationship is strong enough it will all work out.
392877
try to create the spark you guys had when you first met each other...hope this helps
109584
be patient and dont attack him when telling him\nlet him ease into the relationship at his own speed\nyou would want the same
320566
u need to talk things over. communication is one of the keys to a healthy relationship. You both need to listen to each other's opinions and thoughts. Why not try spendin time alone w/ yourself first.Collect your thoughts and asses yourself.Try to see things in an optimistic way.Do not let insecurities overcome you.I'm sure he likes you.Sometimes,there are just things that don't go the way we want them to.
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Sounds like you're on the right track but the only thing you can do is to keep it up. Just keep being wonderful and eventually he will have to see that you are different than the rest. I am in a similar position, though I've only been with mine a matter of months and he is still not willing to let down his guard as much as I'd hope. But I know that it will take time and patience for me and it will for you too. Most importantly, don't betray him in any way. Just show him you are infinitely consistent, honest, and trustworthy.
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Communication, and understanding\nYou each have your own lives, let them cross but let each have their own space...!\n\nLearn everyday, bend every so often.\n\nBe open to new things, always try!!
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What I think you need is to relax. You can't over push a relationship. If it is destined to fail it will no matter what you do. Stop trying to make everything so perfect and realize that it already is! Just remember this one thing. If you two stay together forever.... thats along time to try and stress over making things perfect! imagine how stressed you'd be then! Just hang loose and let him see the real you the relaxed you! He'll love it even more and then you can enjoy your time together instead of worrying all the time.
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If you love him, then support him in his journey, but keep in touch for the day when you can see each other again. Love isn't strengthened by denying people the opportunity to grow.