can i try to improve myself on people trusting in me?
213267
Sure, why not?..............................................
318469
well i think if you get hurt bad enough it just takes time you have to take risks and trust someone again and again until it becomes easier you may get burned here and there but you have to get past it. It just isn't fair for everyone around you to be judged by your fears of being hurt - sometimes you can push people to do what you are afraid they'll do by insinuating it or you will miss out on a lot of good times because you are afraid to get too close You are damaging your life by being unable to trust Just get over the past and trust little by little . . .good luck I AM STILL WORKING THROUGH THE SAME ISSUES but i have learned that you can hurt the people you love by not giving them your full trust you just have to learn to risk it . .
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Simply believe in yourself. You could do anything just as good or better than any other person, if you really wanted to.\n\nTake TV commercials for example, you've seen some pretty stupid ones before, right? And you probably thought, "I could do a better job than that!"\nAnd more than likely, you could!!\nAnd so it is, with most everything.
620239
Trust takes a lot to earn back i have a lot of trust issues as people tend to walk all over me therefore i am now a very guarded person i only trust me
145311
you're well on your way to becoming one heck of a good person. on the one hand, you should care very much how other people perceive you. on the other hand, you have to draw the line somewhere and be your own person. there are lots of people out there that you shouldn't give a flip about what they think about you. choose your judges carefully. don't worry about the rest of them. the most important question is, what do YOU think about you?
658056
Humble yourself under the mighty hand of God.  If you just go about the day saying good things about people and not getting caught up in gossip as others, you will turn things around.  Let your light shine that they may see your good deeds and works and soon others will follow.
431227
There is little advice anybody can give you.  You have to want to trust somebody and be able to do it on your own judgement and values.
530150
True frienship is selfless. Never expect anything from friend. To gain confidence, initiallly fix little time bound targets. Once you are able to achieve these small targets, then fix bigger and long time targets. Thus day by day your confidence grows.\nBe in touch with your friend ,be it joys or sorrows. Sorrows will reduce and joys will increase by sharing. Honesty counts in life.
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Friends appreciate loyalty. Friends want you to be at least as concerned about their problems as you expect them to be about yours. Sometimes it's better to concentrate on the quality of your friendships rather than the quantity. Be to others the kind of friend you would like to have. Eventually you will find kindred souls. If you have "friends" who are always trying to change you or make you act a certain way, realize these are not people who appreciate you for yourself. Find people with whom you can be completely comfortable being yourself and extend to them the same courtesy. Those are real friends.
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You are the only one that you can really rely on. People will always fail your expectations because we have faults. Its ok to cherish and admire another person, but realize that they too have faults and that they are not perfect. When you get right down to it, you are the one that you must cherish and admire most. When you hurt or dissapoint yourself its easier to live with because you cant abandon yourself. Its good to be open to others, just dont expect that they will always have your back.
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no...you have to trust again at some point.  just be careful at first, and give yourself plenty of time to heal from the wounds others have given you.  you can't go through life not trusting anyone.  just be careful about who you trust, and don't do it right away.  make them earn your trust.
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Wow, you sound a lot like me.\n\nI have problems trusting people too.  But sometimes... I can't stay quiet and I start trusting people.  But then I get afraid and I runaway from them.\n\nYou need to find a friend you could trust and try your best to not runaway from (if you are anything like me).  \n\nEmail me if you want and I could try to help.  It seems we have a lot in common.
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Just try to get out of the habit.  It could be a great first step to let them know you would like to do better too.  Stick with it keeping in mind that it will take some time to change yourself, and how others react to you.\nGood work, and good luck, I'm sure you will be happier.\n\nps Only those with limited life experience would ever confuse a nice person with a weak person.
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you can honestly trust me. i will just help you and thats it. i swear. if you need help from me just send me an email at: aerogurl099@yahoo.com
216025
Yes You can get anyone to trust you just make him trust you by being repectful, and loveing show him you would never hert him.
504072
I 'm trying to be a better person.I read a lot of self help books because i want to have high self-esteem and become an assertive person.I'm inspired to keep working at that.
497522
you need to work on your confidence level and learn to tell people to fuck off and move one with your day, put yourself first and who cares what others think there retarded anyways right?