my boss is unreliable,he always give me lots of work,and his promise always be empty.he is my companion serveral years ago, now he is my boss in a new company.how can I deal with him?
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Do something which your boss does not anticipate which really helps him come out of a tight situation.\n\nLots of fruitful work is an opportunity, do it, you will learn.\n\nA companion as a boss is good as you know him. ( You remember, a known devil...... )\n\nThink after all he is a guy like you not God. Enjoy.
106149
Point it out to your boss.  Your boss should take the initaitve to watch him and fire him if he is out of line.
342308
He has been unfairly dissmissed. Go see a solicitor or CAB, citizens advice bureo thingy and they will start a cliam and take it to the employment tribunal. The boss CANNOT sack him because of that. I say tell your bro to get a new job, tell him to go see the doc an say he is depressed cause of his job. by the time it goes to court, he wil get so much in compensation for stress and that. Goodluck. x
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why dont you try going on your own.  do you have a contract with your boss.  i would "suggest" to him/her that you are going on your own and may "borrow" some of his clients cause you can do things cheaper and better.  then tell him you wont quit for the bonuses back.  or you could try to get your boss to increase commission on sales and rentals to cover the loss of your bonuses.  its time to play some hardball.  whats the worse that could happen.  you leave and work for someone else?
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Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.\n\nbefriend this person, don't complain about them any more, and wham when ever they say  bad - you can casually mention to the boss which is negative about the job or your boss let your boss know :)  Yeah be a backstabber/brown noser
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Let's see.  In work, you usually have to put up professional appearances.  So, I would say don't go there.  If your ex-boss cannot be professional with you at work..what makes you think he will be a nice guy outside of work?  \n\nWhat you just described..is a case of displacement..or kicking the dog once you get home.  He was frustrated..so he took it out on you..and you yourself said you couldn't take it.  I don't think this would bode well for a real relationship.  Think about it.\n\nAlso, I think you may just be feeling sorry for the guy..its true businesses can go bad...but thats life.  Many businesses fail..and he probably just hurt his business ...by treating you badly and hence..you leaving...\n\nLet go...and try to enjoy your new job.
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Tell your boss  to either raise the pay more and pay the price everyday or you quit. Most likely he won't like to lose you. Otherwise, the only problem is finding another job.
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Tell your boss. She is being irresponsible.  You are being taken advantage of, you need to stand up for yourself.
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Aww don't worry about it .  Just remember your boss didn't become a boss by sitting in one branch stagnating. Even if she is annoyed, it will simply be because you are a good worker, she will still understand you have to move on for your own career. Ignore the idiot above. ;)  Good luck!
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I try to let them boss know I appreciate the guidance. If you're training, take notes and let her know you understand her point of veiw. Also, try not to take things personally if you're new. No one likes to be told they're doing something wrong, but try to be objective and not feel demoralized. You're not in grade school and you aren't going to get a sticker by your name if you do something right. You're expected to get things right and you have to motivate yourself.\n\nIf your job really sucks, look for another one. Just remember, there are none out there that don't come with problems. Also, get yourself in school if you aren't already, so you can do more than just scrape by in the future. The stress isn't half as bad if you know you'll be moving on to bigger and better things eventully.
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GET OUT NOW!!\n\nYou don't owe this person ANYTHING!!\n\nFor a boss to say it's a 'personality clash' is diabolical!!\n\nWhat kind of management style is that? S**t - that's what!!\n\nYou SO deserve better.\n\nGO RIGHT THIS MINUTE AND DON'T LOOK BACK!
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You must realize that some people are two-faced, back-stabbing losers that are so miserable with their own life that they try to make yours miserable.&#92;\n\nAlso, this guy may smile in your face and be nice to you to get you to talk to him and trust him so that you will confide certain things in him.  Then, when the timing is right he can tell your boss things that you've said or even twist things that you've said around in order to make you look bad and him look good.  Often people do this in order to get a co-worker fired or demoted in order to take over their position.  Surely you've heard of keep your friends close and your enemies closer!  If this is the case with your co-worker, then do not tell him any of your business and talk to your boss about the problem.  If possible, turn the tables on him and screw him out of his position or there's the other alternative....whip his azz when you're off work so bad that he won't ever want to mess with you again.
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It all depends on your boss.  does he know that he is ineffectual?  If so, you can feed him ideas.  Use social engineering to help him on his way.  Having no backbone is a common trait in state jobs.  No one dares make any waves!!!  If they are kind to you, dont force them to be the wave maker.  You don't want them to stress about job security.  Read dilbert cartoons religiously.  Pay tithe to Scott Adams, for the ideas expressed by his cartoons will only help you on your journey.
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He's trying to keep his job secure by being the one that does all the work. If everybody is picking on him, then he has to feel vulnerable to being fired. But if he is thew one getting the job done, then he's good to have around. You need to talk to him again and explain that you need to be able to do the work too. And maybe you could stick up for the guy on occasion, that might help too. And by the way, your supervisor is an azz for belittling and making fun of the people under him especially in front of other employees.
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tell u what women we are faced with such problems especially at work,don't leave the job,ignore him,let him talk but don't answer,or met the human resource,if that fool is the boss himself then pack your body out, but if is not stay and continue with your job,and talk to mature people around u.am sure they will help
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JUST KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK .\nTHEN SOMEDAY YOU MAY BE THE BOSS
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m_k4376 says...dont mess with the boss's man...unless  you are not worried about losing the job. First question to ask yourself is what is your relationship with your boss..if your boss is a friend, then be a friend and stay away. If not, and you dont care about the job then see where it goes. the boss may be using him to get to you for a little action, if your into that kind of thing. if your not into that kind of thing then wait till they break up then pursue him. but then, if you dont care about the job or your boss, go for it and the next time he hits on you... reach back and grab his package.  let me know how it works out...@ yahoo