see we've known eacother for about 2 years and we both know we like eachother, but then one day we just made out and its been all about that since then...only happened once..anyways, last night i was like, so we're eachother bootycalls and he agreed with that when i was being sarcastic..does he see me for anything more than that?
214683
I doubt it! Refuse to sleep with him and see if he wants to spend time with you with your clothes on! Time will tell!
105342
I would say he does like you.  When you two are around other people, I think he observes you because he wants to see you interacting with others.  Plus he's checking to see if you two "can be" something.\nBut a word of advice.  You two have been friends along time.  That is worth so much.  Don't go out on a limb here.  If you two are meant to be, it will happen.  And there will be nothing holding you back.  But if you pursue this PREMATURELY it will it will change your friendship relationship.
502765
I did this once, and it changed everything.  We are still friendly, but not the friends we used to be.  Give him some time, and see what happens.  Most likely he just needs you to back off a little bit.  If it's just friends with benefits, sending notes about how wonderful he is is probably not a good idea.  Would you have sent something like that to him before the sex?  Probably not.  So don't do it now. Act the same way as you always have.  That was your agreement and you have to stick by it now.
492115
Well, it depends on if you two talk alot... What I mean is, He might just be trying to get your attention and he wants to know more about you... OR he does like you. It's your move now.
323201
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
39899
Dear Penny,\nBefore asking any questions, or even analysing the myriad of eye movements, hand gestures and pupil dilating which probably indicate commitment, think what YOU want from this relationship. \n\nThe previous respondent talked about friends with benefits, but in this instance I have the feeling it applies to you also. \n\nSo: how do you feel about him? Honestly? Do YOU want to commit? If the answer is yes, be brave, be honest, and let him know you're ready to take this relationship to the next level.\n\nGood luck!
112637
I would say let him look for you.. I don't know the terms that you guys are in right now.. But if you guys are only friends and haven't been giving each other hopes then I don't see anything wrong if you call him first.. But you still don't want to look desperate, let some time pass.. Call him next day or if he gets there in the morning then call him at night..
364169
I guess he did realise that it would not be right to do something that both of you would regret later. I think he likes you more then he lets on and would like to get to know you better before taking things to another level. There is no problem to see and meet each other as both of you know that nothing happened and it has not affected your friendship.
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He was defiantly flirting.  Odds are that he has always liked you as more than a friend and though this was a good chance to give it a shot and see what might happen.  Chances are though that if something had happened he wouldn't have left his girl friend.
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well it sounds to me like he may well have liked you seeing as he was calling you 2 and 3 times a week but when he seen you with this other guy he got jealous and stopped calling,id say that is it,i mean speaking from my own experience like this one that is what happened me but it turned out she liked me,what i would do is call him up,i mean just cause hes a guy doesnt mean he has to do all the running,or you could just simply ask him out,i mean lifes too short for regrets,right?? hope that helped abit!! \nGood luck
134446
haha .. this is funny because before i got with my bf we were good friends ... we flirted back and forth all the time... and well we got talking on the phone a lot and after i had knew him for a while i had mad fehone i for him.. one night when we were on the phone i was falling half asleep.. i told him that i loved him! and then i heard myself and thought "did i just tell him what i think i did?" and i didnt want to bear the embarrasement so i just pretended to stay asleep... the next day he asked me if i rem what i said on the phone ... i was like "naw ..what'd i say?" he told me ... an i was still embarrassed so i just told him i was kidding... but a couple days later i confessed and told the truth about how i truely felt about him... now we have been together for 2 1/2 yrs and still going strong =D
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You are being used for booty and will never be anything more to him. I wish it didn't sound so harsh, but that's your truth. Either enjoy your "benefits" or move on. You may tell him you love him, but I bet your intuition has already told you the response to that and that is why you are scared. Actually I belive you should tell him, get it off your chest....and still move on.
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Maybe he was just being sarcastic or funny? Or he thought you'd be flattered?\n\nI'm a guy and I'll tell you: either A) He didn't mean it or B) He lost his phone with your number and the text message was never received (this didn't happen - I'm just trying to save your feelings here. See A)
407652
AWWW!! that is so cute! I would say that yeah he definitly likes you, to hold your hand and cuddle and do nice things like that. I hope he calls you too, but remember guys are lazy and it might take him a few days to get around to it. pffft dont let it bother you. Its obvious that you like him too, so i really hope it works out! Good luck and congrats!\n\n:D
62852
does he pay attention to every move you make? if you answered yes to that question then you already know the answer. \n\nthen you should tell him how you feel. otherwise you are going to wonder if there could ever have been the chance on that opportunity of you guys being together.
314017
Sounds like all talk and no action. I wouldn't wait around for it. If what he says is true then he would have done something long before now. Don't wait around for him. Do your thing and let him do his. If he is into you, he will make the move. That shouldn't be you job, especially if he claims to have liked you for so long. You didn't miss any sign, because he failed to send you one.
57946
It seems to me that he likes you but not as intensly as you like him. I think you've freaked him a bit but he's curious to see how much he likes you.\n\nYou've given it your best shot (a scary one too!) and now the ball's in his court. He seems interested. Good luck