i have gained access to a birth certificate but i believe he was not given my mothers maiden name when he was given away
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Here’s a link  to search resources\n\nhttp://www.adopteerights.org/search/internetresources.htm\n\nbest wishes and God bless
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You would have to check the law of your state. If you can't get his permission because you cannot locate him you would propbaly have to petition the court to get the ball rolling. Without knowing which state you are in it is hard to give a definite answer.
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God! Just give out all the info for your poor son. I see why you can't find him. He probably ran from YOU! Maybe you can't find him for a reason. Can we have his Social Securtiy Number and Birth date and his signature too?
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Wow are you serious?! Well if that is true then you should start by looking for your birth certificate and if his name is on it then maybe you could ask his parents if you know them or check the yellow pages or things like that.\n\nGood Luck and God Bless
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Contact the county clerk's office in the county you were born in. They should either get you a copy of can point you in the right direction.
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Leagally, he has rights to see her.  To take her from you, he has to prove you to be unfit.  That can be hard to do.  He will have to pay child support do to the fact that he is, by all rights, her father.  They could issue a paternity test since he name is not on the birth cirtificate but what I would do if I were you is find yourself a real good lawyer right now and get on the right track to securing your and your daughters future.  They would be far more knowledgable in this field and could help you more than strangers.  Everyone will have their own opinion, but it is up to you to do the right thing.
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Some counties have it online but I don't think that other than 'going through them by hand down there' is it gonna be free.. in fact I doubt that you can?  Does he know what county they were supposedly married in?  Because he's the one that's supposedly married, if there is a record there, he can get a copy...but it will still cost.  I do not know of a national 'marriage license search' for free.. and there are the online ones that are available for a fee.\n\n** Boy, I dunno..... if you have no 'idea' where they got married, the only other way to 'know' is if she changed her last name (does she have the same last name?  If so, did she change it at Social Security - if so - he could call there to see if it's been reported he's married?).  The other thing is, if she won't produce 'proof' or give a county that they were married in, get a lawyer, and 'subpeona' the records.  She probably is BS'in you guys, but that's gonna be the only way to know for sure, if you can't find out any other way.....\n\nThe ONLY state I know for sure that does NOT have a 24 hour or better waiting period is Nevada (i.e. Reno, Las Vegas) and I know because I got married there.
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ask your local dhs. but no he has to have DNA test she can say he is not the dad to by sometime untell she can get legal help. the local cops can tell her what the law is in her town/state.
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THIS  DOES HAPPENS ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS GO TO YOUR LOCAL D.A. OFFICE AND EX PLANE CALL 866-480-6081 SOME TIMES SOME ONE HAS THE SAME NAME  ..ALL YOU DO IS ASK FOR A PATERNITY TEST TO BE DONE IT IS NO COAST TO YOU IF THE PARENT THAT CLAMES YOU ARE THE FATHER IS WRONG THEY MUST PAY THEN WHEN IT IS OUT IN THE OPEN ASK THAT YOUR NAME BE REMOVED FROM THE FORMS AND THE CHILD .. TAKE THE BOOD TEST   ..THIS HAS HAPPEN TO A FRIEND
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I would imagine that someone up at the Clerk of Courts office could help you, or possibly assist you in finding the person that you need to talk to about it.
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They were not married during the time of the birth.... so this means that the child has not been legitimized.  Does not matter if he signed the birth certificate are not..... He would have to go through a court proceeding legitimizing this child...... Mother has all rights to this baby until father has child legitimized.... she may do as she wishes
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That depends on how much information you have about him.  In my case I am adopted and have no information.  And as I was born in NY and it is a sealed records state all I can do is post with the adoption search boards and registries and wait and hope.  But if you know his name you have many other options.  internet phone search of the area where he last lived and such.  IF you truely want help you will need to give more information.\n\nBut please note.  You are not likely to find the reunion at the end you are hoping for.  You may forgive him but he is not likely to forgive himself.  From what I have seen that is what makes many parents who abandon kids stay away.  It is easier to pretend you dont exist than to face you and have to deal with the guilt for what they have done.
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Contact the state you live in. They might have a registery for renuon or a medical exchange program. Also ask for your records. They can lead you to the rooght places. If you know the hosiptal you were born at contact that. They too might have a registry .. Definately register and ask for your records. You might get lucky and someone forgets to black out a name or too. Then you can search for that name.\nGo to online sites and post. Search angels look up people all the time and could get a hit for it too. \n\nIn renuion now for 3 months. Myselkf so good luck
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Do you know what state they were married in?\nIf you do all you have to do is contact the dept of vital records because if it is a legal marriage it would of gone through that dept.
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email, or ask his mom or wife or family. one of them has to have it, or know who they can ask for it. When my ex was deployed, I got his address as well as a contact person in case anything happened.
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If his name is not on the birth certificate then he has no rights at all and you can do what you please.\n\nIf it is then he would have to take you to court, he def won't get legal aid earning 60k.  So yeah, you do not have to let him see the child untill the courts force you.  If he is abusive then I hope everything goes in your favour.
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Contact a family attorney. Chances are you can do a petition to the courts on grounds of Abandonment as it has been 2 yrs since they spoke to him so he hasn't been in their life but basically the judge would have to give permission to change their name.\n IN MD KY and GA 1 yr with no communication is considered abandonment