Does this happen often? A guy tells a girl he likes her, the girl feels the same but won't say she likes him.\n\nAlso, how would u get the girl to admit? \nI heard it's best to not pressure the girl.
202563
Exactly, Do NOT pressure her to say anything unless she wants to say it!! Seriously, you will mess up something good!!  All good things come to those who wait!!!
81217
I have known girls to feel rejected when a man doesn't insist on sleeping with them immediately.  I know it is stupid, but she probably thinks less of you because of it.  Anyone who thinks like that isn't worth your effort anyway, if you are actually worried about how she would feel about it.  As to whether she had any feelings or not, she was probably too confused to know herself, so she couldn't tell you one way or the other.
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Most guys really appreciate a girl being up front.  It can be nerve wracking as a guy always having to make the first move.  He will probably respect you even more for being so up front with him, and since he clearly returns the sentiment, once you've broached the subject with him then things should begin to develop!  Best of luck.
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i would just tell her to be careful... guys can be real jerks... if you tell her exactly what he told you, she might get mad at you, and think that you like him or something, or that you are jealous, but if you just hint around how much of a jerk some guys can be, maybe she will catch on... after all... guys are the ones who don't do subtle very well, we women are masters of subtlety...
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just tell him the truth... if you liked a guy and he didnt like you wouldnt you want him to tell you straight up... and not beat around the bush and leaving the other person wondering?
220438
yeah, extremely true...  i usually do that with girls that i really like. For example the other day, this girl i like and I were making fun of each other, and i said to her 'do you know theres a point where you stop talking? yeah? well youve reached your point. so shut up" i know its just plain cheesy stuff, but it just happens because its just manly nature.. i think its cause we dont want the girl to know we're all over them, so we add a little twist to the whole 'procedure'.. but sometimes some guys go way too far, and it hurts the girl, and guys should know where their limits are..
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I'm a guy. It's hard because you don't want to mess up something that could be a potential go. Why don't you put yourself in our shoes.... We aren't sure if you like us in return (perhaps you already have a boyfriend), we're nervous because we probably think that you're out of our league and so on...... It would be easier if you let us know how you feel first. then we would be alot more comfortable telling you how we feel.
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It sounds good to me. I would only do it if I KNEW she liked me, though. I almost did a similar thing with this guy I like, but I changed my mind because I wasn't sure how he felt. BE CAREFUL, and plan what you'll do if she doesn't respond the way you want her to!
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u know its funny...this has happened with me and my extremely close friend just recently...we always flirt and it feels like something more than just a regular friendship and i want that...but she is confused and doesnt want to lose me.  i still have feelings for her and we talk a lot and are very close.  i am still trying to be myself yet i am trying to develop a different and closer relationship.  i say you just keep trying to do what you want and just see how it turns out.  whos to say another guy wont come around if this doesnt work out. good luck
204848
I'm sorry, but guys do the same... I know... I share your feeling... what's up with that? \nI think she doesn't want to hurt your feelings but is to shy to tell you... but hell... I have no clue... sorry. \n\nMaybe you should ask what's up? Or just forget her... but that doesn't sound like a very attractiv solution, does it? :)\nGood luck with that!
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Girls are weird when it comes to friendships.  Usually when they say **** about each other is because the first one that started saying **** about the other, was in some way jealous of the other.  Then when the other one started saying **** about the first one, it was because she was hurt by being talked badly about.  I don't know if that is what is going on in that situation or not, but most likely.  I don't know that there is really anything that you can do, other than not get in the middle or take sides.  If one of them say **** about the other to you, just tell her that they are both your friends and you do not want to get in the middle or be put in a situation to where you feel like they are wanting you to choose between the two of them.  I hope that everything works out well for you.  Best of luck!
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For those that think that it is easy for a guy to confess or admit, it definitely isn't true(Personal experience). Sometimes all they need is a little hint. If you do not want to tell him, i suggest you look for the extreme. Guys whom usually like someone will act exceedingly rude/polite as a rule. Good Luck!
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It depends on what kind of person she is. If it happened to me, I'd think that the guy just wanna get to know me, but I wouldn't think that he likes me or something. \nSo if you want to show that you like the girl, I think that you will need your friend to help you. ;)
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The truth is Like: Not every Girl or Guy think alike. But the Most Common reasoning for a Guy Is the Behavior of a Girl. If a Girl gives that extra bit of attention to a guy, You could be pushing him to imagine things that are'nt really there.\n   I'm not saying to ignore. But don't pay too much attention either.\n   Being a Guy: I Can read a Girls Mind, i Just Speak to find out. Though I would never mention it or Show a difference. \n   See another way to Make that difference would be(That's if u talk to him) try doing the opposite to what he says. See his reaction to find out if he's really after you or he just playing around. Here i would like the Question How Sure are you that he's interested in you or just has a passing phase crush on you?\n   I would end by saying,"Think what's right in your situation, and do it" coz "All of us have sometime or the other gone through the phase and in my case i have always done it without help". Though me being a guy. hope u like the Answer as its my 1st on Yahoo Answers!\n\nQ:-How can I make it clear that I just want to be friends without seeming stuck up?\nA:-If i were to make a point clear i would just be a bit shrude and say,"Hey guys you all are so sweet i hope u guy/s will present at my wedding" !\n\nIf u get the answer above through and maybe add,"Hey you guys are so sweet,I bet my boy friend would be very happy to meet you guys". Point Through and everything's Clear !\n\nThis is my 1st editing to my 1st answer on Yahoo! Answers! lol
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i think its pretty cool when girls have there friends do this sort of stuff  for them. i know i don't mid it. i think the best thing to do would not to just say that your friend likes him. juts kinda be like so what do you think of this person. he will probably be like why do You ask. just be like idk just asking. he already knows by now that your friend like him so he will either ignore what your telling him because he doesn't like her or he will go talk to your Friend and stuff.          \n\nthat's how its happen to me before and if the whole thing turns out like i just wrote it down your friend is in good shape
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Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
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Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.