There is a 11 year age difference and we can't go out cause it is illeagal. but i know he likes me too.he has told me. but i don't know what to do.i know i love him i get butterflies everytime he is around me and he has came around for 6 monthes. and when he isn;t around that is all i think about!!i used to go ridin around with him all the time we were like always together. i don't know hat to do wait intell i'm of age or just try to let it go?please help me! i want to wait but i don't know if he will for me. and do u think i should let it go cause of the age difference or not?
200035
IF he feels the same way, he will wait if that's what you want to do.  You have to follow your heart.  Take time and think it through with your brains not your hormones.  Good luck, I know it can be confusing.
602118
He's not ready to date yet. He likes you but he's still not ready. How old is he? If he's below 16 he's propably not all too ready. Give him some time.
399556
IT'S WHATEVER YOU WANT IT TO BE. I'M LONG PAST MY TEENAGE YEARS BUT I STILL THINK THAT'S REALLY SWEET. WHEN YOU GET BACK TELL HIM THAT YOU REALLY LIKE HIM. IM SURE HE ALREADY KNOWS. HAVE A GREAT VACATION!!!!
524844
ok look....this can be a touchy thing..but you shouldnt let age get in the way. If you really like him it shouldnt matter. My bf is 18 and i'm 16 and we work out fine. I can understand why he lied because i was dating a 12 year old when i was 15 and he lied to me too. the only reason we broke up was because of distance.  I don't think it's wrong at all. Like I said if you like him, then forget his age...and he obviously wants to be with you..take advantage of that :)
411588
look, its not evil, but the truth is if you started something, on his side it would be purely sexual. simply put, your agaes arent that far apart, but al lot happens between 17 and 22, a lot more than between 80 and 86. thats just the way of the world.  it might be fun for a while, no denying that, but it wont work out, and youll end up hurt. hes not moving because he knows that, and good for him.  or because you live somewhere that 17 is underage,a and hes waiting for next year. i know this can drive you nuts, and his attention is flattering, but move on, find some one a little closer to your age.  it stinks.  sorry.
592277
i don't think its love at all.... it seems like you have a crush and he wants to be friends with you. he is too old for you anyways. you are only 14 and 1/2 and he is too old. maybe it doesn't seem like it, but he is. of course he would talk to you he is a neighbor. neighbors always do that.  I'd say mutual respect. he may have a chrush on you, but wait till YOU are 17/18 to go out w/ him if you ever do.
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Just talk to him and communicate with each other about what you like and where you see your lives headed.  The scary part about an age difference is that there is an life experience gap.  You have to bridge that gap and talk about the differences in order to make that gap smaller.  In time if he can see that you are mature and closer to where he is headed in life he will see the age difference as a more minor thing in your relationship.
86676
Gosh. I totally understand everything you are saying.. just give it a little time.. you know what you want.. but your just waiting on him, right? ok... just wait. Love will always wait.. remember...love is love
172357
move on. there will be others. as hard as it is to think about right now... and plus.. if he isnt "allowed to date" that leads me to believe you are younger.... sooo dont think that what youre feeling is true love. dont rush into being soo adult... you have a LOT of time.
589702
I think its a crush to and if you care about him leave him alone and when your 18 look him up . I sure if he wants you he will wait!
240348
If you are legal age (you didn't mention your age) then dating him is no big deal if you are both interested in one another.  If there is a huge age difference between you both you might keep in mind that your relationship with him might not be long term, as you might not have much in common.  However, as long as you are of legal age then go for it - who's to stop you.
505350
because hes that much older than u, see if u really like him. also he is leaving soon too so think about that.
350220
I was in your exact situation.  Seems like the timing is never right, there's always something. Just tell him how you feel, and that you are ready to get this ball rolling.  Don't give him an ultimatum b.c you are right that will just push him away.  But definitely stress on the fact that you aren't getting any younger.
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he may just be saying that,cause he doesnt want to hurt your feelings, he might not like you, reality, most 18 year olds arent interested in 14 year olds, alot of guys that age are into older, more experienced woman. 2 years is a long time to wait for someone, do you really think that you or him will actually wait that long for one another?i wouldnt put myself on hold for 2 years on a guy that i wasnt 100% sure that i was gonna be with, have fun, go out with friends and get to know guys your age and you might just find someone you like more than this 18 year old
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Alexandra, i think when you like somebody...or love somebody you should not wait...just you should go and tell him...god knows within a year if he finds his best match then what will you do?  so just go and tell him that how much you love and wanna spend life with him....best luck!!!
647896
Ask yourself who is more important to you at this point in your life. Your age is not real important, but I would say that you are a younger girl, and therefore you need to ask yourself what your gut instinct is telling you. If you ask the guy out of he asks you, you are certain to loose a friend. Will the guy still be with you 1, 2, 3 years down the road? Will your friend still be your friend the same amount of time down the road if you and he are not together? Your heart and you feelings will cloud this issue. Don't follow it, follow your gut instincts, as they will lead you to a better and safer place in life.
552657
The question is, do you like him?  Don't worry about the age difference, but take things slowly.  I don't know many guys who touch girls a lot unless they're interested in them.  Still, he's in 7th grade so I wouldn't bet the farm on him for a few years.  He's going through major changes.  But I bet if you go your separate ways, he'll remember you for many years.