i am pakistani and sometimes i think i never had a bf bc of my nationality and that i must be really fugly.
199578
dont go searching for love coz it will automatically find you .. besides think of it this way. no guy could have the luck or fortune to be with such a nice girl . age is just a number . and dont let the fact that you are 16 matter coz you have plenty of life ahead .at times like these you've gotta show "girl power".think of it this way ... do you think having a boy friend at the age of 16 and then breaking up a few months later is better than patiently waiting for that special one ? besides your man will worship you if he is the first and only man in your  life ... think about that???  pretty cool right .\n                       hey i'll let you in on a little secret..... you wont find love unless you stop looking for it .... and when you do .... no matter how far away you run from it you will run directly into it . be bold ...be strong ... be a real girl !!!!!!!as your cyber sister ... i know that you arent ugly .... ( now do NOT read deep into that!!!!!!!!!!)
538685
Maybe u just dated the wrong types of guys and couldnt see their true selves.  If u are as "hot" as u say u are then u will mostly attract the types of men tht want to use u.  I am sry u feel tht way about most men cause in all honesty most of us arent tht bad.
91369
no, youre not weird for such reasons. Just continue to be yourself. You dont have to measure up to anyones standards. Its simply a blessing to have the friends that you have and if  people of your own race make you feel uncomfortable about your personality, pray for them, kill'm with kindness, theyre just ignoramasses anyway. Betcha they'd need you for something b4 youd need them
650112
heh I feel ya there. happened to me a few times. I just made sure that they saw me with another guy. Yes I know that might hurt his feelings, but at least you will be clear and you can pretend that you didnt know anything about anything at all. thats the only way that worked for me\ngood luck
121135
I am pretty sure I act the same around the opposite sex although you never know what you are doing subconsciously
372936
You are very "rational" and might lack some sexual interest. You may be creative and artistic (with a sense for detail) but above all you are rather nervous and fearful. Expect love at first sight.
115953
I think you're engaging in the same sort of stereotyping that you don't like people to do to you. My Pakistani landlord is wonderful and always tells me that we are all living together as one big family. I regard him the same way. \n\nNo matter where you go there will be people who will dislike you or mistrust you because you are different. Ignore these people and find warm-hearted individuals who will embrace you for just being you.
502949
Why are you even calling yourself a weak character.. \n\nDon't put your own self there.. \n\nRegaurdless race or whatever.. There are going to be someone out there that don't like you or your ways.. \nBe happy with yourelf and F the rest..
453498
Its just who you are. It probably has something to do with how you where raised. My mom was all overprotective and never had a bf or husband. I'm bi.
437674
I have positive feelings but I am not fully out yet, so not much hate thrown towards me yet.  I do want to find a guy to settle down with and but the "play" aspect of my life in the past
142662
what u think? i am from india i am more attractive to white guys then my own race...there is nothing wrong in that,
461030
why is it so hard to find a bf... i feel the same way
324849
Hey I'm a prep and I have never even had a bf!! I have better things to do...even though guys are cool and all. I have a lot of guy friends and I don't get all caught up with dating. I have school work, fencing, and a lot of other things to keep up with. Anyway, don't associate being preppy with dating. Not everyone's like that...even though it may feel like that sometimes. :)
358817
I would consider not believing one or the other if I were you.  You probably didnt have the best of relationships and the ones that you did have you probably got hurt or belittled.  Maybe you just have had so many bad experiences its hard for you to respect guys.\n\nAlso consider the fact that if you have not had any good relationships that have worked for you, then why would you be attracted to the guys?
449916
that was really sad.....you need to look at your own question the answer is inside of you. You are strong and beautiful and can do anything you want to......you just need to find it in yourself.....you don't need a man/women to validate yourself. You were stong before them and you will be strong after them. I know this sounds corney but it is true. You must truly love yourself before someone can truly and completely love you....
605104
I think u are an approval freak. Just be yourself, U can't please or be compatible with everyone. Besides isn't it our differences that makes life more interesting.
222209
AMEN SISTER!!i felt the same way just give it a break and im tellin you when you do thats when you least expect it.maybe your trying to hard that was my problem, i just didnt want to be alone but sometimes it is worth waiting.it is good that you have noticed some guys will just say what they think you want to hear! the fake ones, and there are lots of them.good luck dont give up!!!