OK look I have been trying to get over my ex and now I going out with his Cuz and now Coty (my ex) is writting me and saying that my boyfriend doesn't like me. and Now Coty is ammitting all the things he did be hind my back when he promsed he wansn't. Now I don't know what to do I have to see him every day in school and I don't want to start crying and I think he told his Cuz somethings about me and made him mad at me what should I do how do I make him STOP right now!!!!????????????Please if anybody who reads this tell me how to stop him from hurtting me. Oh and he has this thing that he can go out with girls but it's like he is telling the guys I like from going out with me so if anybody could please tell me what to do because right now All I feel like doing is crying and giving up on every thing!!!??
212369
grow up. ditch them both. enjoy your high school days...im sure any guy would want to be with you if you are freaky...lol
321732
uh oh i have been in this exact situation before and it didnt turn out to good because i didnt take action. i just let it go, and he eneded up dumping me. you have to ask him whats going on between us or something will happen, because my last bf only wanted me, and not me(like my personality) he just wanted to make out and it was badddddd ACT FAST. NO JOKE!!!!1\nor mabey you should listen to everyone else, i mean, if he barley talks to you, does that mean he bareley says i love you or he wont TALK to you? mabey he doesnt want to say i love u around his friends or something. mabey he's past the stage of the everyday i love you, youre beautiful thing.
266807
You need to get on the phone and call all of your friends. Have lots of girls nights out. Have some fun. Forget about him. Its hard, you will think about him all the whole time. But force yourself to keep busy. Keep your mind busy. Eventually it will get easier. Your ex is playing you and his girlfriend. He feels insecure about himself and his current relationship. He isnt worth your time of day! Don't you feel sorry for her that he is actually leading you on. Telling you that he is going to come back to you? Wouldn't that be considered "emotional cheating" on her? Think- if he is doing this to her, then he must have done the same to you. You are better then him. Go OUT ! Have fun while you are single. If it was meant to be, then so be it. But don't wait your precious time sitting around waiting for him when you could be spending it with people who really care about you- "your friends & family" Who knows, one of these days you might meet somebody who treats you with respect, "unlike your ex" and then you can tell him.... "Now who will be sitting around waiting..."\n\nHave fun!
196494
This guy doesn't sound like a keeper.  Instead of letting him jerk you around, YOU should take control of your own life.  It might be difficult, but if I were you I would tell him that you want to take a break- and then I would date someone else for awhile. \n\nI've always found that the best way to get over someone is to find someone new.  Just make sure that anyone new respects you- because your current boyfriend sure doesn't.
311628
Don't let him know because I have the same problem and when I told him what I heard wasn't pretty ... He said that I broke his heart and he doesn't want i happening all over again. make him jealous of you and let him hear about you see you most of the time. If you go after him he will always be running away from you.
526711
Tell him that you are very sorry that you hurt him. I don't know what happened to make your relationship go bad...but I know that if I was dating a guy and we broke up for whatever reason I wouldn't want to hurt him. That would make me hesitate to break up with him. Maybe you could point out whatever difference that broke you up is now resolved. Tell him also that you could start out very slow as friends and then get to the dating stage evenutally. If you really love this guy you will be willing to take as long as it takes to win him back. Good luck.
370484
Let me get this straight...you have been seeing a guy for 2 weeks...but he wants to go out with someone else, who he knows it won't work with, so that when it's over he can go out with you.....He starts seeing the other girl, then, the next day can't keep his hands off of you...... What should you do?....Get some self respect and tell him to sling his hook.....you would  be setting the tone for your whole relationship with him if you accept this situation......walk now ...it will save you a lot of heartache in the end
621282
If there was a friendship b4 the relationship, then yeah I'd probably would be a little sad too.  But if you all just started dating and it's been only a month, girl please you're not in love press on.  Trust me once he leaves and you never see him again, you will cope in no time, enjoy yourself and go out w/the girls to get your mind off him. Trust me you'll be okay, if you're not I'll give you $100 dollars.
596239
tell me why does it really matter to cody since you and him are not together anymore. he left you for someone else. you should tell jonathon how you really feel for him. if that doesn't work then talk to cody and tell him that you were always interested in jonathon. and that since you and cody went out for awhile that you and jonathon would like to  try to be with together. but jonathon is afraid that cody would get mad. which to me it should not make a difference who you are with now. go see if cody would have a problem with you two being together, then go from there. good luck  fools always let the good ones go.
200371
Everyone is saying the same thing and its true.  He is playing you like a deck of cards.  Dont worry about his feelings any more.  You have to take care of YOU!  The relationship is really, already over.  Now you just have to make it official.  Tell him good bye and good luck.  He isnt worth your time or tears.  No man is.
153691
Well, Ms. Badass.. You're not a badass after all.\n\nYou haven't told us the reason for the breakup other that "I was really hurt".. What does that mean?  Did he meet another girl that is better looking, more intellegent than you?? Of course not!! No one is better than you.. Remember, you're a badass!\n\nIf he really cares for you and if he hurt you in anyway.  Then it is up to him to apologize to you and try to win your heart back, if he has any type of decency in his bone.  If not, I say... Good riddance..  Pick yourself up and get someone better.  Don't get into the habit of yoyoing back to someone who has hurt you in some way (unless it is just a simple misunderstanding).  \n\nIt is natural to want him back since you miss that companionship and everything that comes with it. But you will have to understand within yourself if you really want him (he, who has hurt you) back or move on to greater things!
573382
What did his mother do to you? I mean, come on. What kind of friends ditch you after your guy's ex told them not to talk to you? Drop those 'friends' that you had. You are dating a guy who is single. She's his EX, remind her that. \n\nYou're not doing anything wrong. Your college mates are just babies, so ignore them and find some other mature friends to hang out with. \n\nAfter all, your bf and you love each other and you're not doing anything wrong - who cares what the others think? You're not dating your bf to make them happy. You seriously don't have to care about them. Better friends will come along.\n\nGood luck!
10430
tell him that he is a jerk! going out with someone to make your ex jelous is so pathetic! Breakup with him and tell Brandi what he did.
409056
I know exactly what you're going through.  There's no advice that anyone can give you to get you through this, which makes it so much harder.  And I think you're doing the right thing by acting happy and like you're fine.  You don't want to wear your heart on your sleeve.  That's only for your closest of friends to know - and that's what they're there for.  You need to continue your life without him as hard as that is.  \n\nIf you know there's 0 chance of getting him back, just realize that that's the reality.  You're probably beating yourself up trying to figure out how to win him back, but reality hits hard and you just need to accept it.  You have to be happy for him if he's happy and just know that you did what you could and you can't do anymore.  \n\nSomeone once told me that guys always realize what they've done wrong when they're older and wiser, but they'll never admit to it.  Just continue with your life the way you are and cry when you need to.  If you live day to day with a sad face, it' s not going to help your situation any more.  It's not going to bring him back, not going to make you happier, not going to change anything.  \n\nTime is the only healer.  I think about my ex all the time.  He won't return any of my calls or talk to me.  So I just leave him messages telling him I'm thinking of him and if he needs anything I'll be there.  But I still don't hear from him.  So slowly, I'm letting go.  I know it's already been 4 months.  But I've known people that it's taken them a year or more to get over someone.  \n\nMaybe it just wasn't in the stars for the both of you to be together.  Take what you've learned in the relationship and only remember the good things.  I'm sure he's a wonderful guy, but that doesn't mean you'll find someone more wonderful who will make that committment to you and stick with it.  Don't rush into another relationship because you know you're still not over him.  Be honest with yourself.  That's fine if you think about him all the time - you really love him.  \n\nBut if you really love someone, let it go.  If it comes back to you it's meant to be.  And in this case, since he's moved on, it just wasn't meant to be.  I'm sorry.  I definitely know break-ups are not easy, but don't forget to continue respecting yourself.  You're not alone...
74515
WHOA! You should defintaly try to explain yourself again and make her understand. I would be furiuos if my girlfriend stayed at her Exs for a week. Thats totally uncalled for and you have every right to be pissed. I mean theyre Exs for a reason right? Yea man thats definatly not cool, and if she insists on keeping contact with the Ex then maybe theres still some latent feelings towards him. If she doesnt get it, then tell her that her still talking with him is directly effecting your relationship and could possibly be the downfall of it as well. Godd luck with that man.
342541
he obviously still has feelings for you.  its easier to hide your true feelings than it is to put yourself out there with the risk of being hurt worse. i would guess that sometimes hes in a mood where he thinks that being mean to you will get him over you and other times he thinks being nice could get you back... or he could be playing the game where he thinks you'll want what you can't have (making out with other girls)  depending on the history and context of the break-up there could also be things that hes reminded of when he sees you that cause him to lash out.  if theres still anything there for you, call him out on it and say that he'd be better off telling you how he really feels than making himself look worse every time.  good luck.
35605
You need to cy and let all your anger go. You should not keep it to your self. Cry for him now but in the furure not. He doesn't deserve you to be crying for him. If he din't tell you why you two broke up then he doesn't deserve you.