what do you do if you have fallen for your friend and you wanna tell him but you are scared of rejection? what do i do?
208174
You must tell him. How would he know about your feelings if you never tell a guy.
247521
Tell him that one of your friends likes him a lot and it would hurt her feelings if you were to say yes to him but you want to be good friends with him in case she changes her mind.\n\nIf he asks who it is, tell him she told you not to tell because she's too shy and she's not ready for him to know yet.\n\nAlso, If you told him you aren't allowed to date then it would seem odd if you went out with someone else, so I don't think that would be a good idea.\n\nGood Luck!
590100
i no how you feel im going through this to.you should stand up to and tell him how you feel.shoot with my crush im man shy.But if you really love or like him you'll stand up to him and tell him how you feel.Im your friend so i give you the\nbest wishes.
313873
why do you think there is anything to do?  You told him--and good for you for being brave!--but apparently he doesn't feel the same way and that's life.  Move on, you took a chance, it didn't work out but you should feel good about acting on your feelings.  Some day you will tell someone you like them and they will say they like you, too.
452818
Go back and tell him the truth. If he's a true friend he'll listen. Let him know you were afraid at first because if he doesn't feel the same you still want to try to have a friendly relationship.
32736
if you're afraid of rejection, you're not ready.  Be casual.  Offer coffe or lunch or something, or invite him along to this or that place under the pretense that you're bored and/or lonely (but not pathetic).  You buy.  Get to be friends.  Maybe he'll look at you a little differently once he gets to know you a bit  :-)
109958
Tell him exactly what you are feeling.\nTell him you would like to still be friends but have concerns.\nTell him why you are concerned & explain quite simply that this can not continue to happen.\nTell him how it makes you feel and how you would NEVER do that to him...\nAfter saying this, listen to his reaction & proceed however you think is best.\nMy guess is things will change for the better, but this is up to you to decide. (If he really was a good friend, give him a chance to redeem himself and make things good again.)
621213
if you tell him what you told me then that is a good way to express your feelings. If he doesn't like you then, he is not the right guy for you. I bet your a great girl and he missed out on someone terrific!☺\n                                   ☺♥♫ Your friend,\n                                                            Chuchi
509152
Okay i was just in this situation. I love my friend and we have been friends for a while. I mean we have fooled around and stuff and I fell for him I mean really fell. However he didnt feel the same for me he just kind wanted to do stuff. It made me mad about the whole situation I mean if you do try and go for stuff like this make sure your friend is feeling the same way torwards you. Dont pressure anything make sure it is the right thing to do for the both of you analyze the situation and if you decide you should just be friends that is great.
417202
There's a very fine line between love and friendship.  If you're going to tell him, you have to be sure that's what you want.  You've got to decide what you value more, your friendship or your feelings for him.  \nIf you really do like him, then I say go for it. Its better to try and fail than to never try and regret it.  Even if he doesn't feel the same about you, what do you have to lose?    Hope that helps and good luck.
588143
Aww iv had this problem, what can i say mine worked out i finally got the guy i wanted to be with and we've been together for almost a year now. It's a complicated matter and i know how you feel, its either: let her know how you feel and ruin your friendship or not let her know and keep wondering. I say give it a bit more time it may seem like forever but you must know guys and girls can't be friends cause sexuality and emotions kick in, its a fact. But if u have a good feeling that she likes you back then go ahead and tell her how you feel. Girls hide their feelings very well.
484422
Well if you like him as a friend then just tell him that you feel more comfortable being friends and that if he accepts that tell him that you'll ALWAYS like him like that again maybe but you just wanna be friends for now..\n\n\ngood luck
116535
i was the same way you are. i liked this guy and i wanted to ask him out. i was afraid to because i was afraid of being rejected.the thing is girls arnt the only ones afriad of rejection. guys are also afraid of rejection.for all you know it he could like you back but is afriad that you dont like him, so he is afraid that you will reject him.just go for it. ask him out, you two could actually end up together at the end.rejection is going to happen to you eventually wether its rejection from a job,college, etc. so why not get over the fear and ask him. you only live once so make the best of it and take chances.
655778
I think you need to ask him about it and tell him how you feel but dont scare him off. Say something like i am beggining to kinda like you...But if you are not into me then i would love to still be friends. But tell him that no matter what happens i want to still be your friend.
638107
If you don't want him to know just brush it off and be confident... but if you do then just tell him...\n\nWhat's the worst that can happen? Rejection? Better to know now then wait and to find the same thing out later... you move on quicker that way... \n\nTell your friend to GROW UP
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tell the truth, just not in a harsh way.\n\nsay one of these if you feel like on of these\n\n1)you already have a boyfreind but if you didn't you would say yes\n\n2)he is really nice/cute/smart (whatever) but i just dont feel that "spark"\n\nalso tell him that you are flattered, that helped when i got rejected.
10445
I think you should think about it and tell him if you are relly sure you want to. Does it seem like he feels something for you? If you break up or are rejected there is a possibility that your frienship will change. But it is not good to keep it to yourself because you might have a chance and if you dont tell him you might regret not taking the risk later on in your life.