I met her in my college algebra class.  At first we were friendly, and talked . During class we would constantly catch each others eyes and smile.Then one day i was talking to one of the other guys before class, and didn't see her standing nearby until I stood up and left to go talk to my adviser for a minute. After that she wouldn't even talk tome for a while.  She continued to look over my way, but when i caught her eye she would look away quickly.Then that guy i was talking to that day started talking to her.  THAT JERK!!! Last week afer we took our test, as we were leaving she attempted  to speak to me saying "I guess I'll see you later"  Did I do something wrong? Did I blow it with her?How do I let her know that I do like her? Maybe she thought that i didn't her?  Maybe I sent her the wrong signals? HELP!!!! I might have really screwed up this time!  Also how can I tell if some of the other girls like me?
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Sometimes you have to use the direct approach and just ask! If you have a problem with a face-to-face, find out if she has an e-mail address you can write to. Think before you speak and if needed, you can write yourself a "script" so you can get some ideas of what you want to say. It's better to know than to wonder.
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Ok...my advice would be...wait...let me think a bit...*30mins later* Ok...one day, when you see her alone (alone as in walking to class, getting books or something) walk up to her and say "Hey how are you going?". Just small talk. Do the same everyday, not actually at the same place,but just ask her how she is going, how her day is etc. It will go from there.\nGood luck :)\nP.S. Not the best answer but hey-life can be tough you know? :P
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It sounds like you really care about her.  However, she's going to do whatever she wants to do no matter what anyone says to her.  All that will happen is she will distance herself even more.  As I'm sure you realize, that's not a healthy thing to do.  Especially being so young and experiencing lots of 'firsts'.\n\nI would think that the best thing to do is just remind her that you're still around.  Even just saying 'Hey' in the hallway between classes can make all the difference in the world.  When the inevitable (that you believe will happen) happens, chances are, she'll remember that you were at least willing to give her the time of day when she was with this guy when everyone else gave up on her.  Empathize with her (I'm sure you've probably had your share of heartbreaks too), let her know that it's not the end of the world.\n\nI know that this is all easier said than done.  True friendships are built on solid ground.  In this instance, patience really is a virtue.  I'm not saying to spend all of your time waiting around for her to call you, by all means, continue living your life and going to school.  But like I said, just remind her that YOU are still willing to be her friend when she's ready.\n\nGood luck and I hope this helps!!!
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When a lady wants to approach me to talk to me, the first thing she will usually do, is to look at me, and smile. She will see what I do in return. If I smile back, then later on in the evening, she will smile again, this time a little more friendly, and longer. If I return it this time, she will normally walk over and say. "HI, I'm Carol". I tell her my name, and then normally she will say,"May I sit down?" Of course she can, so then we begin to talk. The important thing is, until she actually came over , the conversation had already begun....with smiles, and looks in each other's direction. She knew I was interested before she came over, so that made it a lot easier for her to approach me. Try this.....the nesxt guy that catches your eye, smile real big at him, then later on, smile at him again..I'll make you a bet. Before the evening is over, he will be putty in your hands....TRY IT!! Good LUCK!!
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try talking to her dude! Sounds like she's interested and has a long attention span....
613125
If you didn't want anyone to know, you just told everybody!  Sounds like you are needing attention.  This girl is giving you plenty of it!  Take it as a compliment.  I had several girls like that at my school.  Some would make fun of me, then start doing the same things...others would just stare at me...and do the same things....She looks up to you!  Give her a chance!
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Well, it sounds like she likes you.  Maybe she is confused.  It could be she's dating someone else right now and feels guilty about liking you.  It could be she doesn't trust guys too much right now and is afraid to start dating.  Maybe she'd be more comfortable in ag roup activity.  Like if a bunch of you from class are getting together and studying.
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hi there!i was thinking to tell u something with ur topic:well its obvious something hapend between u and her something that probably didnt liked her to much odherwise why she did meet with u 3weeks and after no  answer no nothing?u must ask ur self what was wrong during this 3weeks time couse, if she didnt like u from the begining why she did  go on and meet with u 3weeks and not just 1time???think well and see if was something from ur side...and if not if u cant see u did something wrong then are many posibilitye:eidher she find out in this time that u arent what she is looking for and she is doing this to u now couse she is feeling shy to tell u in face  or maibe she find someone else who its more comatible with her or difrent reason as parents for examples....maibe someone like her friends say something bad about u and in her opinion her friends are to much importand. \nwell i think i made u more confuze but u must think what u can do to feel ok with all this and dont be afraid do whatever u feel to and need to after all its ur life and u are a man so act like one!!
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Maybe you can approach her by discussing your same major or something about class.  Its actually easier if you have the same interests (e.g. your majors) and you could easily ask her if she had any free time after class and maybe head to student union and grab a sandwich or something.  Great conversation starter, its worked before.  Hope it helps and good luck!
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It sounds to me like she does! Ask her! Easier said than done huh? I have that same problem. Anyways, I know what I act that way around a guy I'm trying to get him to come talk to me, so if you like her go for it! Good luck!
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THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME!!! all i did was just ignore her and not talk to her for days. but one day she herself said "hi" to me and i was shocked cuz she was talking to ME. so i said hi and now we r frends. not talkin made her feel really bad and she started talkin to me! peace and good luck!!!!!!
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she sounds like a very very good friend to you... no wonder you dont wana hurt her feelings... but have you thought of it before? that either way she will get hurt... she will be hurt to find out that guy is just trying to make a fool out of her but she will be hurt also if that guy humiliates her infront of anyone or everyone in sch&#92;college.... u should talk to her nicely ask her to think properly wats the attitude and personality of this guy.... if u have noticed him hitting on so many girls in school i m sure your friend noticed as well its just up to her whether she wants to admit it or not.... or u can use a nastier way... try calling up that guy and ask him if your friend liked him will he accept her record whatever he says n let your friend listen to it.... with proof it'll be tough for your friend not to believe you and it'll be easier to convince her if she was just trying to lie to herself that he likes her as well....
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Well my man...you could not have handled this any worse. She talks to you and asks if you would like to study together. You assume from that it must mean she wants to be your girl. Girls do not want to be responsible for directly hurting guys. So by not calling back she was telling you she wasn't interested . But in your hot  pursuit you did not get that.\n\nBy calling all the time you made it clear to her you were desperate. No girl wants or needs a desperate boy and not much will chase them off sooner. And man you were desperate.\n\nFrom the beginning you blew it. You had her number. You were going to study together. \nMan what more could you ask for huh? Well you wanted her as a girl friend in the worse way so you really pushed yourself on her.\nThis not only turns a girl off she runs from it. You have to get her interested before you can be her boyfriend. And you must know how to do that.\n\nSo what should you have done. Took the number. Called only when it was time to study. While studying, while you were together, you get to know each other. You begin to develop some social value with her and when and if, only if, the time is right you could make your move.\n\nHave you ever heard of this phrase? The worse you want it the worse you will get it.  Guess what....you are living proof that this phrase is correct.\n\nBack off.....find another girl to study with and this time do it right.
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Is she flirty? Does she look at you a lot? Does she play with her hair when she talks to you? Does she smile at you? These are things I remember doing when I had a crush on a boy. Slip her a note in her locker or backpack. At this age it is really hard because I'm sure she is always with her friends. Try to get her alone for a sec with out everyone watching just to ask her if she wants to go for a walk or something. Don't think you are going to jump her bones though. Just get the courage to at least say hi and smile at her. If she is not into you, move on. Don't get clingy. Girls don't like that. They like that balance of mystery. Like don't talk too much about stuff. Ask her questions with sincerity. She'll fall for it. I would love to know how this turns out. Good luck! If you have any other questions email me at yahoo using my name.
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Go for what you feel...Don't be stuck with what if, and when you are at college, I bet you will still think of her.  That tends to ruin how you view other girls.  I think you will gain the knowledge of what she feels, and that is powerful knowledge.  Good luck, and never give up!
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She seems like she has some issues. I mean, for one thing she said clearly that she did not want to come over. Then she was like see you later, she was ready to get off the phone with you quick and definitely didn't want to talk any longer. She seems like she is sending you mixed signals, and if she doesn't like you, then she should just tell you. I mean, don't throw hints, just be like she wants to be friends. Then as for being shy, she could have just said that she didn't feel comfortable coming back to your place. You would have understood that I am sure. Basically, you should just see where it goes this time, if she tries to be intimate, like showing you affection, just come out and ask her what is up. Don't be rude, but be like, Do you like me? Do you see me as a boyfriend or just a friend. You need to know, because she can't be like I want you one second and then don't want to be around you next. She needs to be honest. I hope that whatever happens you don't get played, so if you can see it isn't going to get better, leave her alone.
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Yup you blew it....but not completely.  Just keep at it.  She is probably thinking the exact same thing as you.....why do I go blank...  It happens, you just have to push past it.\nStart today.....put it in your mind that the next time you see her....don't wait for the right time.....just walk up to her and say Hi, how did the game film turn out......cool.  Can I see it..  Girls like the guy to make the move.....so the ball is in your court.  Nothing you say....is dumb, so drop that thought.....  Ask, if she's tried some other energy drink....tell her what you like......hey, this is easy.......so just go after it.........you won't think its so hard when you two are having a great time.