My girl friend said if I like him and if I wanna go with him Im gonna lose her! I dint want that to happen!I love Marie thats my life,my world,me soul!I cant let this happen!HELP ME!
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damn! baby damn!\ngood gracious God!\ni suppose u r a girl and in love with another girl.\nin one word, lesbian.\ni usually dont like advicing gays and lesbians because they never listen. but girl ur case calls for attention.\nok, \nask urself this question,\nwhy do u like this boy?\nif u cannot come up with up to seven good reasons why,\nthen it is not worth jeopardising ur present (happy) relationship for him.\nu might be happy for the first few days, but it wouldn't last, trust me. ur girlfriend seems like one that holds u down, satisfies u in every single way possible.\nr u aight with her? if yes then stick to it. because mark my words, if u leave her for that boy u say u like,\n"it wouldnt last".\nfunny, do u tell ur girlfriend every single detail of ur life? dont u have secrets? dat should've been one of them.\nanyway,\nglad she didn't react negatively to that one.\n n/b\n    dont let her know u did this.
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You need to sit with your girlfriend and talk to her openly abt how you feel.Sometimes girls just want to be there and be nice to their friends. She might not know that all this is making you uncomfortable. If she tells you there is nothing to worry abt and everything is fine, you need to tell her to be more considerate of your feelings and try to behave in a manner that would not put a strain on your relationship. But if she admits to liking the guy, there is no point in you hanging around there. You just need to let go and tell yourself that somethings r just not meant to be. Sometimes you need to be strong and take decisions with your head and not your heart.
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oh my gosh, this just happened to one of my really good guy friends! tell her how you feel about her, if she doesn't want to be with you then she doesn't deserve you
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Nobody could really tell what's in your heart and mind and soul but you. Everybody could give you an advice but the last decision would comes from you. \nI simply couldn't say, stop seeing the guy and go with the girl. It's unfair to both of them as you should know what you really, truly want to do in your life.\nLet yourself meditate the situation, what's weighs more to you, your feelings and it's your life that would be totally affected and it's no joke, it might affect your life for life.\nGood luck as to whatever decisions you make...
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You obviously waited too long and another girl took the opportunity and swept him off his feet. Its ok though, you're just gonna have to act faster and not be hesitant next time. I know this from experience and I know how it feels when you like somebody and they like you but then someone else comes along. Plus, he may still have feelings for you and if his current relationship doesn't work out, you know what to do.......
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She shouldn't go for it becuz if she does and he ends up telling her that he doesnt like her then she'll b really sad and all. U should tell her as a friend that he doesnt like her but he doesnt no what he's missing becuz she a good friend. And Later she'll thank u for it. She'll find a new person 2 like and she'd have her hopes crushed if she went for it. Good luck!
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Your gonna have to talk to your best friend. He's going to have to convince her that your ok, I mean if he likes you and they're in a relationship then she shouldnt have a problem either. She's Probably just a BIATCH.\nI had that problem too. Except My friends girlfriend tried to kick my ass later. ShE had a TaZeR (ouch) =( But eventually she got over it and I got wit her friend We still going out right now.\n\nBut gewd luck wit dat anyway yo
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wow...I'm in the EXACT same position. I could've asked this question because I'm going through the same thing. I've been absolutely infatuated with this guy and don't know what I will do once he leaves. It's so difficult but the best way to get through it is to find another guy. It sounds much easier than it really is because no one compares to "him."
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So...screw your friends. No, not literally. It's just a figure of speech. What I mean is, okay, you like this guy. Great! But what's holding you back? Talk to your friends. Ask them what they have against him? What have they heard? And if they're serious, then take their advice and just move on. They may be right, and they might even help to prevent you from any unnecessary heart break. \n\nBut on the other hand, if they have no valid argument, just tell them that if they're really your friends, then they'll lay off and respect your judgment, and you may go out with him in peace.\n\nThat's all I have to say. Take it or leave it. It is of no greater consequence.
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I have the same problem. It seems like he likes me then he goes and talks (flirty, but not as much with her than with me). I get so jealous I try to calm myself though.good luck
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Tell him b4 its too late. If ur friend said he liked u and u like him and hes not making the first move, step in, take over. Tomarrow is ur last chance, if u like him, do it. Tell me how it turns out in the end at Lil_melo2009@yahoo.com. Remember, true love always overcomes.
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stay with your guy\nLike you said don't ruin your current relationship for a little crush\nThe feelings will pass
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I'M IN A SIMILAR SITUATION LIKE THAT. ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS IS A MALE AND HE EXPRESSED HIS FEELINGS FOR ME AND I TOLD HIM THAT WE WOULD BE BETTER AS FRIENDS. WE ARE STILL AS CLOSE AS WE EVER WERE. I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD FEAR LOSING HER AS A FRIEND BECAUSE IF YOU ALL ARE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS, YOU EXPRESSING YOUR FEELINGS TO HER SHOULD NOT CHANGE WHAT YOU TWO HAVE. I BELIEVE EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT FOR THE BEST AND YOU SHOULD JUST GO FOR IT. GOOD LUCK...
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I say that you for sure know that there are things about him that you dont like cause you have not him for so long. But you know what them things must not be too bad cause you still have strong feelings for HIM!!! So i say take that chance and see what happens. You never know he might be your soul mate!! But if you dont take that chance you will never know. Also dont do it cause someone else wants you to and dont do not do it cause someone dont wont you to...You know your feelings and your heart and i say follow them because its obvious of what you want to do so do it go for him sweetie!! You dont wont some other female to snatch up your man who may have turned out to be your prince. I feel like the two of you need to have a serious talk and see what each of you want. The relationship can start slow but just dont overlook the chance for it to start!! GO FOR YOUR PRINCE!!!
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Hold your horses and hang in there, girl... You're bound to find your soulmate out there one day. Maybe it just takes time, so that you'll appreciate him more when he arrives! :)
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IN ORDER TO MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION, YOU MUST EVALUATE YOUR FRIENDSHIP. HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN FRIENDS? ARE THE TWO OF YOU INVOLVED IN A SUPPORTIVE HEALTHY FRIENDSHIP?  IF THE ANSWER IS YES TO ANY OF THESE QUESTIONS, THEN BOTH \nYOU AND YOUR FRIEND NEED TO MAKE THIS GUY OFF LIMITS. \nNO MATTER HOW MUCH YOUR LIKE THIS GUY, IF YOU CONTINUE SEEING HIM KNOWING BOTH YOU AND YOUR FRIEND BOTH LIKE HIM, YOU WILL EVENTUALLY LOSE YOUR FRIEND. GUYS COME AND GO, BUT A TRUE BLUE GIRLFRIEND IS HARD TO FIND.
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hey girlie! (lol if any other people read this i am talkin to her like this cuz she is my bff) hey look at all this support you are gettin! i know bout this prob. u have had it for a while. why dont you just ask him? u never know, he truly may like you back. and if you dont ask him, its gunna be to late! u may not see him again! i know you like him a lot. just some advice though, dont  make sumone your everything cuz once they r gone you have nothing. trust me i have been there and you know i have. last bf lol. girl you have nothing to lose, if he says no and embarasses you or he tells his friends, u are goin to a new school ne ways lol. but if he says yes, just imagine! u can come and visit all the time too! hope these answers from me and all these kind people help u!\nlove always and good luck in all you do no matter where you are!\n             your bff christina