This girl that we were best friends for about 5 years and i seen her saturday and she acted like she didnt even know me WHAT SHOULD I DO?
208486
then call her up and ask if you two are still cool and if she doesnt say anything then ask her why she didnt say somethin to you!!! cuz you never know she was probably waiting for you to do or say something first but just talk it out
446707
is this boyfriend by chance jealous of your friendship with her ? it is possible he may have made something up so he could have her to himself...\nI would let her know that best friends are there even when boyfriends come and go, tell her you care about her and how important it is to trust each other.\nLet her also know you have no interest in hanging out with her boyfriend and u would be even more happy to just meet her in town at the mall or coffee shop.\nI too have recently suffered the same fate with my best friend too.\nFortunately we have made it through stronger than ever she has been dealing with a very possessive boyfriend that she is getting ready to leave now.\ngood luck..
215357
Your X-friend is just that. She is not your friend. Stop playing her game with her and move on. You can rest assured that someday she will be sorry she lost a real friend and she will know why.
282506
IT sounds like this girl broke up with you and may be regreetting it, but due to peer pressure she cant talk to you. I know it may be hard but either say hello to her or just ignore her completly make sure she knows that you are still into her. \n\nGood luck
398574
Yes you should hold the friendship you had with her really dear.One of dis days you'll be glad you did but dat doesnt mean you can't make other friends.I guess it was a wonderful feeling but am sure if she has any means to communicate with you,she definitely will.Cheer up.
515286
first get a close friend to say to her why she didn't invite you and if its something negative girl beat her @$$ just kidding. talk it out with her and get everything straight
570759
Dude trust me and give her time and just stay in touch with her and start at the friendship level again and see where it will go if you presist on calling her or showing up where she is you will just piss her off more and push her away
293916
how long have you been friends??? frankly, it really should be okay because you've moved on, right? unless, your friend is your bestfriend and she knows how you still feel about him, then maybe that's another question...so, maybe you need to ask your friend what is going on...you know, talk to her or something...but if she's not that close, leave it! like i said, you've moved on right? go find someone else better...someone who deserves you... ^_^
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thats a tough situation \nbut you cant go back in time and changed what you said then\nbut im sure things will turn out for the best in the long run\nbtu for now i would suggest maybe backing of alittle bit\ncall ehr sometimes maybe causually ask her what shes doing that weekend and hint that yall should hang out\niif shes interested she will probably agree to that and continue makign  plans
333406
you didn't say how old you are but i'm guessing you are pretty young. friendships sometimes have ups and downs, if she has found a new best friend then maybe you should too. there really isn't much else you can do, except maybe talk to her and ask her about it.
381931
She's just feeling uncomfortable,same as you. It will take awhile for you two to get back to the friendship you had-so take it slow and just let her know that you value her friendship,and will always be there for her.
41034
If she is your best friend then she should understand. You know you can't make someone like you and you know you mustn't live your life according to someone else's ideas or wants. It is normal that she might hate you or feel jealous. Guess what it ain't your fault. SO TELL HIM!!!
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If this is your best female friend, its hard to believe that you havent been 'out' already. Thats what best friends do..... Surely by now you have a relationship that is based on mutual trust and understanding. Just talk to her and tell her how you feel. Keep it low key and make sure that she understands that you are cool with whatever response comes your way. If you cant handle the answer then its best you move on anyhow. Best friends trust each other with their emotions - this one should be no different. You'd kick yourself if later on you discovered she was thinking the same as you but neither of you had the hutzpah to speak up. Carpe Diem - seize the day!
37893
this sounds just like a girl i considered my best friend in high school, even though i knew that if the table was turned she'd not do the same for me.  this was 10 yrs. ago. in retro-spect; while she was my friend, she wasnt the best friend. lack of appreciation and also i think respect.  you dont have to let go, but see for what it is. stay open to other people that will be as good a freind to you.
374959
Communicate with her!\nIf she is supposed to be your friend then you need to tell her how you feel, it's the grown up thing to do, don't just be sneaky and ditch her. You should maybe also stop to think about how *she* feels,  why is she acting this way? Ask her, maybe she is feeling left out, have you ever felt left out, it's not a nice feeling and It can make people act out and say things they don't mean. \nJust take her aside on day and talk to her and ask her why she is behaving like she is. She will probably apriciate your honesty.
130140
Be honest with her and explain to her what happened.  And if your friend is such a great friend, maybe he wouldn't mind doing most of the explaining for you.  If you really like this girl then try your best and hopefully she can see the truth and not what seemed to be...
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If she has been your best friend for a long time, I would encourage you to not make a hasty decision. You can find friends (and even boyfriends) anywhere, but best friends take years to grow. You should do your best to save this friendship before calling it quits.\n\nMy advice is talk to her before you take the final step of "de-friending" her. Explain to her that you've valued her friendship, but that her current behavior isn't excusable. Confront her about her rudeness, and don't be afraid to name specific times and places where she acted like a bee-yotch. She apparently USED to act nice, because otherwise you never would have been friends with her. Remind her of those days. Finally, tell her (in very clear terms) that if she doesn't start acting right, you want nothing to do with her.\n\nThis puts all of the pressure on her, see? If she changes her evil ways, then you've kept your best friend and are better off than before. If she doesn't, at least it isn't your fault that the friendship ended. Anyway, I wish you the best of luck. Hopefully your friend will see the light, but if not... at least the blame will be on her head, not yours.