I believe my vaginal structure is slightly odd..My outer pussy lips are just too thick & the inner lips are tightly enclosed inside.Infact my inner pussy lips are so tiny that they can hardly be seen without spreading my outer lips..Is this is the reason my husband finds it difficult to penetrate my vagina even when I m totally turned on and juicing..Me & my close friends have so often dressed together and have even seen each other nude..From what I have seen of them,their inner lips are bigger & protrude outside the outer lips..Also my hubby has shown me a few nude pictures of naked women on the net and it's the same with them as well..So if there anything wrong with me?Do I need to go to a gynaec for this problem or need to get a surgery to get this rectified?This question is in general intended for women since I really doubt if guys would have an answer for the same.Any solutions or answers reg this would be highly appreciated....Thanks
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Sorry, I'm a guy and I can't help but answer this one!!  I think that kind of, UMMMM "look" is the most attractive.  There are some cultures that pull on theirs to make them longer and obviously most porn stars have this look too.  Probably from overuse, but also just genetics.  Don't worry about it you are fine and like I said, I think it is more appealing than someone who is just hanging, if you know what I mean!!!  Anyways, as far as the penetration, I'm not sure if it would matter or not, it shouldn't if you are aroused, but maybe you are just "tightly wound"!!  I don't know but I would consider myself lucky...
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i think one of the most "common" sign if someone lost their hymen when there is already a penetration of a male organ inside the female organ, "yes with the consent of the female partner". But for some cases it don't because some hymens are so thin that both partners didn't notice that her hymen already broke while some other hymen are so thick that cannot be broken easily. still the basis of being a virgin is not in the hymen only but the person you are, what I'm trying to point out here is that its just a medical concept that a broken hymen means she's not a virgin anymore. for me not all who have broken hymen are not virgin anymore.  but if its you're culture it is their option whether to believe it. and you have two option: just tell him the truth and free your mind from worries and guilt or just keep this huge white eliphant between the two of you inside your room until he discover what really happend.  it your choice. theres nothing to worry about when the reason is reasonable.  if he got turned off then its not your lost.  :p
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I have had anal sex with my boyfriend once and I asked him which he liked better and why.\n\nHe said, vagina definately. He said bum is nice and tight but it feels like a tube, whereas a vagina fully surrounds and swallows his muscle. "It is snug, warm and cosy" he said.\n\nOh, as for your size. Yes 6.5 is perfectly fine. The normal size is between 5 and 6.5 so nothing to worry about there.
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As a woman ages, the vaginal walls get thinner and less pliable, therefore producing less natural lubrication.  As said before, it's a normal process of your lady getting older and is unfortunately unavoidable.  I wouldn't take it as an afront to your "manhood" in any such way or form.  Your question gives me the impression that you are.\nBe thankful that you and your lady are still very much sexually active and have a happy marriage.  From what I've read, many are not nearly as fortunate.  So....stock up on the KY, make light of it, and enjoy yourselves!!!!!!
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Hey, I'm all NATURAL even if I do wax during bikini weather.  But with the skimpy thongs and bikini bottoms that are prevelant today, a gal has to wax, shave or trim close just to not have hair hanging out of the sides or top of their swimsuit.  It was bad before I'm sure, but a nice trim would handle the job just 13 years ago or so when I first started to wear bikinis.  \nAlso, men seem to like bare lips cause of easy access...LOL...and I know that I like them bare because men seem to 'eat at the Y' more enthusiastically if not having to worry about hair in their mouths.  Also I seem to be much more sensitive even though my natural 'covering' is skimpy even left unwaxed.
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No, there's nothing wrong with that. There are a lot of women out there who cannot have vaginal orgasms, only clitoral ones. So when you guys are doing it, tell him to come closer to you (if missionary) and the rubbing will get you off. If you're in some other position, stimulate your clitoris yourself. On the other hand, maybe you're just not in the mood of having sex when they do. Ask yourself, do you get completely aroused? Is he hurting you? Is he too big for you? Who knows? maybe it's something more simple than you think ;o)
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If you did it in a new position and you went deeper than usual then yes, that is a very good possibility.  Is it near time for your period? You don't seem very experienced in sex.  How old are you?   WHY, OH WHY are you having unprotected sex?  Are you married?  You are just being plain stupid if you are not.\nI'm not being mean but I am trying to make a point to you.\nIf you are worried about anything at all please go to a doctor and get his opinion and get tested for sexually transmitted diseases.\nThank goodness I have been married for many years and don't have to worry about all this.\nGood luck!  I hope everything is ok.
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Does that have anything to do with calling yourself airplanegirl? Honestly, your nose looks just fine! I'm being honest. Maybe you look at it too much trying to think of a solution for it. That can make it seem out of proportion. I think you are a very pretty lady. (I peaked at your 360 account, by the way.) Stop worrying-there is nothing out of the ordinary about you, Ok?
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It's not strange. That's acutally normal. My man is not circumsized. It's all good. If you are ok with it your lover will be. Just keep it clean.
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You are normal . . . some are small and tight . . . odds are you are young . . . and probably very inexperienced.\n\nWhen you get a little older it may become more pronounced . . . but I wouldn't worry about it . . . next time you have a visit to your gyno . . . if you have one . . . ask your mother to set one up for you . . . and ask her these question.\n\nBut to answer your question . . . you are normal my child.
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Talk to a plastic surgeon. I don't know if they can lighten that region, but I do know they bleach out anal sphincters.\n\nGirls sometimes worry about the dumbest stuff.  You should know that ANY guy that is lucky enough to see, touch and play with your vulva (and the outside is your vulva, the vagina is on the inside and no..you can't mess with the color in there), is SOOOOO happy to be there. He's going to think its beautiful!\n\nRight guys????\n\nIf you've actually had the misfortune of meeting a guy who proclaims your "parts" as less than attractive, he's a dumbass who doesn't deserve to touch you.\n\nReally...there are so many more important things to worry about.\n\nOh..and men love variety (kind of why so many are manwhores). If our vulvas all looked the same, they'd be mighty bored.  So...appreciate your uniqueness!
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dont feel bad.  most people dont realize how common this is and how frequently it comes back. sometimes you can do everything possible and it still comes back. some people get it alot because they have alot of sex.  here are some tips: do not douce-EVER., do not touch the  anal area during sex and then touch the vagina, do not wear thong underwear, do not use perfumed soaps, sprays or anything down there,  do not wear a tampon for more than 2-3 hrs.  basically, the women who get bv alot do not have sufficient amounts of good bacteria in their vagina called lactobacillus.  unfortunately, there is no known way to increase your lactobacillus.  you may just end up dealing with it periodically, unfortunately-many women do.
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The average depth of a woman is between 3-4 inches.  Therefore, you can gauge how far you will go depending on your size.  But remember that tissue is extremely elastic and some women can handle larger men while other's can't.  Also, if she is a virgin, you will most likely encounter resistance at her "cherry" and if you keep going will tear her.  A hymen will be present in most virgins, but not all.  It can be broken by fingers or tampons and some girls never have one.  Her age will also be a factor.  The younger she is, the smaller she will be (relatively).  But you appear to be quite young in asking this question and I would hesitate to encourage you in this matter.  Life is more than just sex.  After all, you have two hands.  Don't get hung up on the matter.  When it is supposed to happen, everything will work just fine.  My advice, wait a little while until you are as emotionally and socially capable of handling this situation as your are physically.  It might be good now, but it will be out of this world great with the right person at the right time.
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If you have never had sex before in this manner, (as the woman), this can be very painful.  That particular opening is not use to anything going in nor anything larger than fecal matter coming out.  After a period of time of trying, it may become comfortable for her; possibly enjoyable.  However, I wouldn't force the issue.  Just think of the first Virgin you were ever with, (if ever).  She was sore and may not have completely enjoyed it, until she got used to it. So please be mindful of your wife's reactions and/or discomfort level when it comes to this. Hope this helps
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u know honestly i cant really tell u what that means. if i were to guess i would probably have to say that they are just having a hard time inserting the speculum into ur vagina. im sure it doesnt mean much. but if your doctor told u that and didnt explain what he meant then i would suggest finding another doctor that can help u to undrstand. but really the only advice that i can give u is to go ask ur doctor to explain again....\n~Hope this helped you!~
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Maybe you are pregnant! Are the mens private areas rather large? Ifso you could be suffering from 'sops' Stretched Out P@#SY Syndrom...lol
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My first question to you is:\n\nWhy would any man compare his woman with an ex? Tacky, tacky, tacky, and HIGHLY disrespectful to you! \n\nMy second question is- do you feel adequately lubricated to enjoy sex? As long a sex isn't uncomfortable, you don't have to worry about how you compare to other women. Also, depending on where you are at in your cycle, you can produce more or less lubrication. If you are pregnant or breastfeeding, that can affect it, as can many different medications.\n\nIt sounds like *he* is the one with the problem. ;) \n\nIf you want to know more about this, I suggest picking up Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler, it will explain how your hormones fluctuate (in a very easy to understand way, it's not boring at all)- I haven't met a woman who has read this book who wasn't blown away by how much we are NOT taught about our bodies, and how normal we truly are!