Okay, I like this girl, she is 27 yrs old, and I'm 26. How do I make a first move?
210196
Smile and see if she smiles back.  Ask her out for something casual, like a coffee.  Take it from there.  (Take it from me, she's noticed you already.)
200799
STOP BEING SHY!\nThe fear of doing it is greater than actually doing it.\n\nThe next time you see her just ask her if you could take her out for lunch sometime.\n\nDon't listen to the girl above me.\nIf you're attracted to someone you can make the first move...doesn't matter if you're female or not. If you sit around waiting for someone to come to you it's probably not going to happen. \n\nWomen today aren't afraid to do what needs to be done to move forward, doesn't matter if it's their "duty" or not. \n\nAnyway, back to my orignial advice:\nJust ask her! That's the only way you'll know for sure.
422178
go for it man.  nothing ventured, nothing gained.  what if you wait and she asks someone else?  get in there!!
240121
its simple, just ask her out... or pass her a note... thats how i got asked out
247350
Just become really good friends before you start a relationship! Trust me, I've gone into a relationship based on physical things (without a strong friendship) and things didn't work out! I think it's great that you are willing to wait until she seems ready to "make a move"! I wish more guys were like that. Find out what type of things she likes to do. Maybe you could invite her to go bowling you and a couple of friends, or go to coffee(i suggest Starbucks), or out to eat,  or somewhere else that you guys could just talk.  I know the movies are fun but you should do something where the two of you can talk. You can't really get to know someone that well by going to the movies. To keep her interested in you maybe you could just flirt with her a little, every girl likes to be flirted with every once and a while. Good luck! If you want any more advice on it you could always contact me.
179356
If you like this girl for more than her looks, then you might know some of the things she is interested in?  If not, take the leap! I am a 20 year old female, I don't know everthing about relationships but one thing I do know is that if you don't take that first step, you may never know what could have been.  If things don't work out and she isn't interested in you like you would hope, then things weren't meant to be.  When I was a sophomore in high school I dated a freshman guy who approached ME.  I knew then as much as I know now that he had a pair of you know what and I credit him for approaching me (I understand it isn't easy!!) And break the habit of talking through the friend to get to the girl, the sooner the better because you're wasting your time!! I hope I was some help : )
38563
i say make the first move,and those feelings you have will go,ask the right question.goodluck.ps.ask the ones that's in your heart and is going to make you happy.
653617
NO it is not wrong to make a move.  Even if she has a boyfriend.  You should be honest with her and let her know how you feel about her.  It really wouldn't be a move, but letting her know that you have feelings.  If she doesn't like you the same way, she will let you know and you won't have to wonder anymore if it will ever happen.
124587
Do you think she would be surprised to know you like her?  If you know her well enough to strike up a conversation with her, start one.  Then swing it around to asking her out.  If you don't know her well enough to just talk to her, get started getting to know her.  Ask her out later.
283285
AGE REALLY DOES NOT MATTER!  ALL THAT MATTERS IS IF YOU RESPECT HER AND SHE RESPECTS YOU, THAT YOU CARE ABOUT HER, AND THAT LOVE CARRIES ALL RELATIONSHIPS!  IF SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY, JUST MINGLE YOUR WAY IN!  IF IT WORKS OUT, THEN EVERYTHING WILL FALL RIGHT INTO PLACE!  GOOD LUCK!
670509
Give her a call back man.  She'll be more than happy to hear back from you.  If she doesn't pick up the phone leave a brief message letting her know you got her call.  As for your first date...Don't lean towards her and instead lean back.  When you lean forwards you send her the 'needy' signal.  In general, you want to use your sense of humor and entertain her while flirting like hell.  During the course of the date do NOT touch her at all.  Let her be the first one to touch you.  When she does finally touch you that shows a sign of interest.  Another sign of interest to look out for...put your arms in an unordinary way on the table.  Watch her body language and if she responds by putting her arms in the exact same way that is an unconcious signal of interest.  She is showing you that she's in sync with you by doing so.  Another sign of interest is dialated pupils, unless of course, you're in a dark room because they'll be dialated anyway.  As for where to take her, do something simple.  Do NOT blow tons of cash on her or buy her roses or chocolates.  The best thing you can do is take her for a nature walk or out for a cup of coffee (depending on your age).  NEVER ask a woman where she would like to be taken.  Women hate to make these decisions and wil appreciate you being the "man with the plan."  Spend as little money as possible and use your personality to make her want you.  In general, the less you try the more success you have.  And finally, be chivalrous at all times.  Open every single door, help push in her chair, and at the end of the night, walk her to the door.  Women appreciate a man that is looking over them.  Despite what may seem lame to men, women absolutely love this.
114514
well..if ur both really shy..then one of u have to b the confident one in a case like this. and since ur the guy..maybe u should make the move. u want to talk to her. walk up to her. girlz arent scary to talk to..it just mite take some confidence in going up to her. best of luck!
11191
You can go up her at lunch or whatever and sit with her and talk.After a couple of days talking to her ask out to a movie or somthing.I am shy myself and when I like a guy I write them a letter or catch them at there lockers.
127685
Well , it depends . If she's maybe always looking at you, or really shy around you then maybe she likes you. You should make the first move if she's shy because shy people don't really know how to do that lol.
143524
Call her up and ask her out.  You gotta start somewhere.
36244
Just be honest.  Tell her you like her and youre interested in taking her out.
522818
One...it depends on how much older she is than you.\n2. It depends on who she is...a teacher? A neighbor? An acquaintance? A co-worker?\n3. Is she involved with someone else?\nYou probably need to be direct with her and just ask her out...something simple at first....say stopping off for a cup of coffee, and maybe the next time a movie and a burger after wards.\nGood Luck.