look I have a bf and I have no idea what to do I mean I have kissed him and we have been dating for like 6 days and well I have no idea what to do now please help me what to do next  Imeand we cant really have sex is because of his parents are totally against it and so along with my uncle and I have no idea what to do please help me please what to do now where can we go to do it????
206622
Take ur time!! what's the rush to do any thing else? you've only been together 6 days!!
623948
If you are old enough to be in a relationship then you are old enough make your own decisions and stick by them.  Your grandmother may not like that he is a different race, but she needs to let that old school racism go.  She needs to see the person and not the race.  You cannot live your life trying to make your family happy.  If he's good to you and you are happy, then that's all she should be concerned with.  \n\nIf you are not 18, then you shouldn't have sex yet (oral, anal or vaginal).  But it's alright to kiss him.  You won't get cooties. \n\nThis issue could and will affect your relationships with your boyfriend and your gran.  It already is sweetie.
568198
Tell them everything.  Call NOW!!! don't wait to late.  If it is verbal, mental, phis.  They won't be there right away unless you are hurt bad.  But if it is sexual DO SOMETHING NOW!!! You never know what will happen next if you don't.  PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE CALL.  I have been in this situation before.  I know!! If you still feel unsafe call 911 they will help you!
305836
If you can control yourself, anything past kissing is too far. Even just feeling up is intimacy, and can easily lead to other things. Waiting for sex is meant to protect us, not to torture. Now saying all that, I didn't wait. I had a baby and married the guy right before the birth. But the great part is forgiveness. Thank you Lord for forgiveness! But asking forgiveness means you'll try your very absolute best to not repeat your past mistake. So try to find a guy that thinks the same way you do. It'll make it easier if you are both trying to stay pure. I asked for forgiveness, I'm still married (happily) to the only guy I've ever been with. So even mistakes can be turned to good. The hardest part is being human. And since we all are, its hard. So just pray for a great forever kinda guy to come your way. Then you don't have to worry so much. And when you get to the marrying part, make sure he wants forever, just like you do.
575773
Leave him.  Lots of guys can't stay up long enough for good sex.... while that's not a good enough reason for you to leave him, it is not a good sign.  Since you said he was your first, he doesn't sound very satisfied at all.  Despite what he has been telling you this is not your fault.  You are under no obligation to have oral sex with him.. no matter what he says.  I hope he didn't pressure you into having sex with him in the first place.  It sounds like this guy is not in the relationship for the right reasons, and can't make it a pleasurable experience for you.  Get out now and find someone who respects you.
131525
Guys are really hard to understand.  Maybe he just want some one on one time with you or maybe he just want sex.  My parents were really strict and when I was in college I had my first boyfriend.  His name was Kenneth.  He was my age but he was a senior in high school and I was a college freshman.  We both lived with our  parents.  Throughout our entire year of dating, we never were alone.  I swear to God, we were never alone anywhere together.  There was always my parents, my cousins, my sister, his family, or his friends.  We lived within walking distance of each other.  Niether one of us had a car or could drive.  It was frustating to him because he wanted to have sex but I didn't care because we were both virgins and I wasn't going there.  After a year of dating he ended up breaking up with me for that very frustrating reason.  We are still friends 12 years later.  When I ask him why we broke up then, he always tells me he was a horny little teenager and I wasn't trying to hear it.  So I'm sure that might have something to do with it.  If so, leave him alone.  You're probably about 16 anyways and don't need to be around a guy alone.  I appreciate my parents strict rules.  Remember, your parents always want the best for you.
675438
After you have seriously discussed and prepared for SAFE sex.  Try talking to an adult that you are comfortable with (it doesn't have to be your parents).\nP.S. Please, please respect yourself.  Don't have sex in a car or on a mattress lying on the floor.
75414
Please don't do it tonight!!  If you are hear asking, then the two of you are not ready for that step in your relationship yet.  I know my first time I made my boyfriend wait 9 months (I figured if he could wait that long, he MAY be willing to wait that long for a child if anything happened).  Though that was 15 years ago, I am now a single mom and everyday is a challenge.  I couldn't not imagine being 15 and a single mom.  Please take your time, talk with him, make sure you are really ready!  Sometimes you are more ready to say "NO" then you are to handle the consequences.  Good Luck and if things do happen, please use protection (don't rely on him to use it, you both should!)!!!
278684
you should go to a romantic canddle light dinner then a movies after that you should go back to his house and hang out get to know eachother more and just have a good time...you know when i with my boyfriend i fall asleep in his arms and that is the best feeling for him just to hold me maybe you should try it,it's really nice...godd luck on your date! ;)
310212
Talk to him tonight...\n\nit'll be worth it.\n\nYou may sacrifice having sex or anything physical for a little while, but it will be worth it so you know whats really going on.
496489
Because you kissed the guy that doesn't mean that you're not a virgin anymore,just decide what you want.İf you love this guy you shouldn't be hanging out with the others.İf you tell him you probably lose him.
403855
Don't be too eager to be kissed.  You have the rest of your life to know all about it and experiment.  Let the guy take the lead.  Usually they are more nervous than you are.  Follow the mood.  If it was bad, laugh about it and try again.
192176
What were thinking when you guys were having sex. You need to tell your mother and break up with this guy because your just messing up your life and his. If you really want to make sure go to the health clinic and find out for sure it will make you feel a lot better.
507021
Your sis and his aunt have beef on each other.  That's their problem, not yours nor your bf.  \n\nIt's unfair for them to put you and your bf in a difficult situation when you both didn't do anything wrong but love each other.\n\nI say continue on dating and be happy with your boy.  Soon enough your sis and his aunt will cool off.\n\nIt's your life.  Live your life how you want it.  Don't let others make you live your life how they want it to.
519273
OMG ignore that guy above me the harry s cooper! that's AWFUL ...........! you need to talk to your g/f and if she is too blind to do anything talk to her parents PLEASE!! It's so important to end it now, trust me I was in her shoes I had a b/f like you and it is terribly dangerous. if you love your g/f you'll help her.  good luck
20392
Puh-lease...I've never dated, never kissed anyone, none of that and I'm in college.  Don't worry about the boyfriend stuff.  At some point, God'll bring someone to you who really appreciates you for who you are.  Right now, focus on friendships with guys and girls.  The best husbands are best friends, anyway.  :)
313703
I'm so happy for you two!  Great job on waiting.  \n\nI know you two have waited for the sex but I'm not sure if you guys have done the all the things that lead up to that point.  There is a lot of fun to be had with foreplay.  Also, keep in mind that he will have an O within minutes of you guys starting your festivities.  Hopefully, he can go the distance and be able to get it back a few more times.  If not, there is no rush!  Having good sex takes patience and willingness to learn and experiment.  Don't forget to talk to each other about what you like and it wouldn't hurt to read some sex tips books together.  (Not a suggestion on how to pass the night but just in general.)\n\nI don't know if you guys are in a hotel or what but I would make sure that some chilly water and a snack with substance is on hand for later.  Also, a friend told me that she wished she had a pretty robe to wear when she came out of the restroom in her lingerie.  Since it was the first time for him to see her in that kind of dress she felt a little awkward crossing the room in such attire.  \n\nIt sounds to me like you already have it covered.  You guys waited so it will be unusually special, the strawberries are tasty and cider is very good (both flavors).  Just the fact that you are planning and being thoughtful covers your side of being romantic.  Make sure that he doesn't rush because the more anxious and rushed you are the less pleasurable it will be for you.  Have fun!