I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, I love him to death, he is my best friend but he is my first boyfriend. I have never really experienced being with anyone else besideshim and i was just wondering if you think i should stay with him or leave him to explore what is out there?\nThanks guys
201420
I think you've already made up your mind!\n(it's gonna hurt but,don't be afraid of your decision you need to know what other people have to offer,the only problem you have right now is he is your first and you are use to him.Honey after you taste someone else's cooking the only regret you'll have is tying yourself down to one person at such at young age)
492754
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
9765
Have you slept with him yet?  You are sure that you love him?  Im sure he loves his girlfriend right now, but is it really anything serious?  If you could be with him right now, would you?  If you can, tell him and see what he says.  You wouldnt be messing up his relationship if he loves you, well you would be, but if you think you are a better replacement, go for it.
536395
if his cuter than your boyfriend, leave your boyfriend and get his best friend;) go girl! go!
631921
I would definitely rather have a loving boyfriend who would always be there for me.  The later would probably be very lonely, as you would not have as deep or as close of a bond with multiple men. But everyone is different!\nIf you're asking this question because you are doubting your own relationship, then I suggest you think long and hard about the situation as a whole.  No one else can tell you what to do in a situation like this, as you probably already have your mind made up.
139408
In my experience go with your heart.  I was always worrying about my family liking my boyfriends and everything but then I sat down and thought about how much I actually see my family and I hardly ever saw them and I was with my boyfriend...now my husband...all the time.  He was what made me happy not my family or my friends who didn't like him.  If this guy is unpredictable...why risk being hurt by someone like that when you can be with someone who does love you and  you know that for sure without a doubt.  Who cares what other people think of your sexuality.  They don't have to live out your life and they don't have to be with the girl...so do what you want and mroe importantly what your heart wants.
27000
hell no! you should leave him because from the start, knowing his sexual preference, the relationship would never work. Face facts, what would you feel if he started going out with other guys? You can save yourself from more pain if you let him go
295415
Single is good for awhile. My guy friend reminded me of the concept of "dating". You are going back out into the social scene and just meeting new people. Forming a friendship is the most healthy way to building a romantic relationship. Your giving yourself and your friend, time to really honestly, get to know each other inside and out. Jumping in is never healthy. If your jumping in for the wrong reasons (lonliness, a "need" for a mate), then you will soon find your relationship ending in a firey crash and burn. Practice patience with your new friend. It's ok to be attracted to him/her but keep a level head and don't let your emotions rule your decisions. I am experiencing this very phenomena about building a friendship first. Together, we are keeping level heads, (even though he is just so dang hot), and it is much more fulfilling and healthy, than any relationship I've had before. The communication is great, we understand and accept where we stand with each other, and we're keeping the door open for the possibility of a wonderful, romantic, relationship to develop. I admit, it's not easy. I am still learning the whole patience thing myself. But this is so good, and healthy. I wish you luck, and hope that you will not jump in to something out of desparation. Be positive, be patient, and ask God to help. God Bless you friend.
11893
It sounds an awful lot like you're his backup.  Some people don't like to leave one lover until they have someone else waiting in the wings.  I personally do not much trust this type.  They leave me with the impression that their commitment to a relationship is transitory, and that when things get rough, as all relationships do from time to time, they start looking for the next one in line.
639941
First of all, you can do better. Secondly, he is a jerk. From the way he does it, it seems like he is putting you as a 'back-up girlfriend'. For all you know, he could have gone out to see other girls and probably get intimate with them. He was 'tempted by other people', you say? Bull. Don't let his mistake be yours. He left you for that period of time because he was afraid that your love wasn't 'good enough'. Well, if I were you, I'd dump him for good even though I love him so much. I'm sorry miss, but you can do better than a person who puts his priority as an option.
241695
If you really loved your boyfriend in Florida, you wouldn't even be considering the possibility of having sex with someone else.  This guy is not really your friend.  He just wants to get into your pants.  If you're having all these doubts you need to reconsider how you really feel about your bf.  It's not fair to him if he really loves you.
345505
If I had been in your situation, that would have bothered me terribly.  You just have to remember that your boyfriend wasn't with you (maybe he didn't even know you) when that happened.  He wasn't thinking about saving himself for you...maybe he thought SHE was the one.  But he's with you now, which is far more important.  Maybe you just want to be extra careful before you two sleep together...make sure he's the one, so you don't repeat his mistake.  But honestly, these days, finding THE one the first time is difficult and unlikely.  So maybe you should base your decision on whether you truly love him.  If you do, you'll have no regrets.  Love is something special and rare...even if/when it's gone, you'll remember how great it was and your decision won't seem like the wrong one.  Most importantly, cut yourself some slack, too...no one's perfect, not even your boyfriend.  Best of luck!
113014
There is nothing wrong with you, you are just growing up.  From the ages of 17 to 25 people grow and experience a lot of stuff.  It is a time for them to really begin to figure out who they are and where their lives will eventually lead.  Unfortunately sometimes that means we grow apart and away from relationships we previously thought would be with us forever.  I think you will probably need to let your boyfriend down and be single for awhile so you can continue to grow and figure out who you are and what you want in life.
183835
Is it that you don't trust him or you don't trust anyone? If it is just him, then whether you are right or wrong, move on. Without trust, it's doomed. If you have a problem with trust period, then you might as well stay with him and try working on your issues. Otherwise you (not anyone else) will prevent you from ever being happy with anyone.
518032
how long have you known him? Why would you save him for last? Being around other people means that you date other people? Traces are not real love-FYI.
213864
STAY WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND, GIRL!!!!  You should totally stay with a guy that you know is good.  You don't know this other guy, and just because kissing him felt good, that doesn't mean that it was right.  What if you end up dumping your BF, and going with this guy and finding out that he's not the right guy?  I mean, all this is up to you, but I would definitely stay with your first man.  Just try to forget the new guy.  Spend more time with your current BF.  You might regret dumping him, so forget the new guy.  Stay with the old.
507059
Guess one would question if you ever really loved your boyfriend of 1yr+ in the first place.  I can say from experience that when you break up with someone that you truly feel for, all you can think about is them and the thought of another relationship is the farthest thing from your mind.  But then again people react differently to different situations, and this may be perfectly fine.  The only person who really knows is you.  If you feel fine with how it all went down, then what does it matter what other people think, they're not the ones who live your life.  If you feel good then don't let anyone tell you otherwise, good luck!