She's not sure where she stands...only seeing the guy 6 times in two months. They had sexual relations already. Is there long term potential in this relationship or should she just forget about it.
202354
YES!!!!  Call him but don't seem too desperate.  I guess only you two know if you gave it up easy or not.  There could be a long term potential but it has to be built on more than sex.  I say call, but don't be a stalker.  Lay the bait out ther and see if he will respond.  If he doesn't then you may want to walk away soon.  Sex confuses things.  Try to hang out one night without having sex.  That will tell you alot, because it will force him to talk.  Trust me, I've been there.. And without sex, talking is the only alternative- unless he bails, then you may have a lot of work on your hands.
911
Personally, I would say no.  He sounds like he does not know what he wants, or worse, like he was waiting to see what would happen with her before he moved on to you.  And you should never accept being someone's second choice.
567725
If she said that she don't want to get involved with anyone for a while, then that's somewhat a good thing. She NEVER told you YES (NOR) did she tell you (NO)! That mean's there's still hope in the future. Maybe she is trying to she if your a patient guy, one who would be true to her, and willing to wait and prove it! Go out together (as friends) and get her to like and admire you more. Good Luck.
134490
That is the worst idea I have ever heard.  Why would she want him to have sex with other people? Sounds like she has some issues and that is not a healthy lifestyle for you to be getting into. Since you are asking, I would say deep down you probably have your own reservations about it and know the answer already.
586172
Well if she got engaged to him then she has the intention of marrying him, but if she's having doubts then maybe she sould move on. You can't always take someone else's word on things, although it sometimes could land up in you being hurt. Something I can't comprehend is how can you spend one month with someone then make a commitment with the intentions of spending the rest of your life with that person, I mean it's not possible to know someone in one month. It takes months, sometimes years to get to know someone. Does she want to go into a marriadge not knowing her partner? If so then she's taking a chance. She shouldn't be so desperate, rather tell her to not enter such a commitment  so soon. Rather take time than later on sit with regret.
42175
Sounds like she may be going through a confusing time right now.  You should use your best judgement in terms of whether she seems like she has fully resolved her feelings about her pst relationship.  If things seemed settled than go for it you never know this may be what destiny has in store for you both.
147390
Myself personaly would not have said it if it were not the case.  I am shy and would be glad he said he thinks about me.  It sounds like she may be a little shy also.  Try talking more to her about what you've been thinking.
624561
I would say she had to be somewhat interested. She wouldn't have called after a month if she wasn't, she would have just let it go. She may just want to be friends, not sure, but, at least you know she was thinkin about you. Long distance relationships are hard, but Wish you luck.
413505
i can see why im confused to.it sounds like she saying dont worry we will f*ck if anything. just try not to get attached till you  figure her out just dont waste to much of your time.it sounds like a game.she probably has another on the side and wants to see who can offer her more. in that case the good guy always loses.
281948
You know what spooky it ain't you it's her she want another man or is already seeing one. i know i have been there with my ex-fiance when i started giving excuses for not sleeping with him i had my own thing on the side. so don't be a fool you better go get you some cause she already is.
119296
I'd avoid getting involved in this mess. If she likes you, let her figure out how to work it out. She sounds a little flaky to me. What happens when someone more interesting comes along once you two hook up? Is she going to want to be friends with him? See my point?
556190
How long were they together?  Its possible that she was a major part of his life, and you can't expect him to just let go of that completely.  Just remember, though, he is with YOU, and not with her.
652030
she's still talking to him through the messenger, but why cant she see him physically to talk to him, or does he have a speech impediment? either way if she has no problem with it and she's content with the relationship let her still date him....
63036
It seems as you wasting your time ,4 years and you donot know if you are going to love her or not???Do you think that she have no bf now as you didnot date her for the last 6 months? Realy i doesnot think so....sorry for you
74704
It sounds like she really loves the guy.  That's not something that you just get rid of over night.  It's there and it'll be there for a while.  All you can do is help introduce her to new guys, ones that will help keep her mind off of her old boyfriend.
377221
As I understand it, she wants to continue seeing him, but he's moving a little too fast for her.  If that's the truth, I think that's what she ought to tell him.\n\nIt's not like she has to choose between moving as fast as he wants, and breaking up with him.\n\nOn the other hand, if he's pressuring her into sex, or a commitment that she isn't ready for, and he won't take no for an answer, she needs to be less concerned about hurting his feelings, and just ditch him.
272382
No, I don't think you made a mistake! However, her response sounds to me like SHE has issues - it doesn't mean yes, or no - in other words, she is undecided. I can't tell from that, whether or not you should pursue this...that has to be your decision. Good luck with whatever you decide (at least she was honest with you!)