He is 32 and she is 22, he is lawyer, she is student at economy and work too.She looks good, he looks too, both of them wanna meet the other, they both heared abt the other...and they will have an arranged date by a common friend.Both of them are dedicated to their work and they are busy, but also they are looking for the right person.They want a serious relation....whats ur opinion abt that? Can it work this or better dont push the note?
199455
my parents met on a blind date, my dad was in the service and my mom was still in high school. They've been married 34 years. I don't know about your two, but it is possible
138421
they need to sit down & have a serious talk about their relationship, where it is going etc.... then they both will know if they want the same thing or if they are wasting each others time.... if one gets serious & the other doesn't feelings are going to get hurt & no one wants that...hope it works out for your friend.
220470
Sure love exists, just sometimes not both ways. You must admit office romances are pretty shaky to begin with. Also I think if you reread your query, you must admit, you sound a bit obsessed. You proposed before knowing about her family? This can be scary to a woman. Probably even more uncomfortable since she works with you. In the same light recognize your own goals and how they differ from hers. Do you really think it would work? Don't give up your dreams of film making, etc. Get on with your life. She is 22 and life still isn't all that serious sometimes. She still has alot going on and may not be ready.
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No, you are most definitely being fair and unselfish.  However, I can understand how this relationship would turn sour if you led him on, which I don't think you intend to do... but can sometimes happen accidentally (I speak from experience!).  Make sure that you understand your feelings and that he expresses himself to you truly. Maybe you can agree to not have an orthodox "relationship." Afterall, we are in a new century, brinking on the 7th year, and the possibilities are endless! Maybe you can just 'date,' go to movies, dinner, coffee, have fun together... but just not with all the strings attached that the word 'relationship' attaches! Then, if you both enjoy each other's company you can decide later what to do... it'd be pointless to miss out on the wonderful opportunities and feelings that you'll encounter in a relationship, even if it does only last for a little while. But that's the thing about relationships, friends, love...they come and go and there's really nothing we can do about it except enjoy every minute of the present.  Avoiding the future is hard, and you'll have some decision-making to do come uni time, but just let that wait. Don't stress too much about the future! It's waiting for you, don't wait for it. If you end up falling head over heels, you'll both figure out a way to work it out (I speak from experience!). \n\nHope that helps!!
462613
What an exelent opportunity for a proper courtship, You should court at least till your both legal. If it's so short of a time then why not It would be cute. Who knows you might start a trend!
40484
I believe age has no difference when it comes to loving someone. If you're married and have no intention to part with your present wife, don't make any promises to that girl which you can't keep. If you're single and this romance might develop into something else, do go ahead and don't let this chance pass by you. I have a son with a man who's 20 years older than me. He was lying to me about being divorced and we spend 2 years living together as man and wife. When I had a baby, I found out he was married and had a wife in another country. We're no longer together, but I tell you age has nothing to do with this. I love every moment we spent together except for his lies that screwed up my whole life. Don't do this to the girl you liked, but definitely enjoy every moment of this feeling if it's rightfully yours regardless of the age difference. Good luck! Nika
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All it seems to be showing is that they are together because of feelings, not looks. And since they both are 30, are probably perfect for each other.
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Jea, at the risk of sounding like your father, I would advise you NOT to visit.  No, not for the usual “perverts online” reasoning, but for a purely practical line of thought.\n\nConsider the possibilities:\n(1) The person is, indeed, the perfect match.  If this is the case and the two of you are truly meant for each other, nothing will keep you apart any longer than necessary.  But this can also mean that he can come to you when the time is right.  Love has a way of “making thing happen.”  Love never has to feel rushed.\n(2) The person is not “the one” but is experienced enough to know how to “talk” to you.  This person might suggest getting together for selfish reasons, not for love.  These people will always have a good excuse as to why they cannot come to you, but you must come to them.  It tells them how well they have you “hooked.”\n(3) The person has much in common with you, but what you are feeling is Romance, not Love.  The only way to sort this out is continuing the relationship over a longer time.  Romance fades, Love does not.\n\nJust email?  No phone calls?  No letters?  Never a single flower delivered?  Allow a progression to take place.  Experience the closeness and do not allow fantasy to rule over reality.\n\nIf you feel that you just have to meet this person, do it in a public place, during the daytime, in a neutral location.  Do not go alone.  Go with a friend or two.  Let others know in advance what you are doing.  If you are in your 20’s or older, that is one thing.  If you are still a teen, seriously consider your experience and the life choices involved.
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8 yrs apart is not that great\n\nWhat I see here is a young school gal meeting a mature working adult, of course all your frens will be of no match to his mentality, he has already gone thru 8 years which you & frens did not.\n\nJust continue to be fren and get to know him better, take your time, you are only 18 !
121992
No i think that is perfectly fine!!! Well i would think that when me and my better half got together i was 20 and he was 29, 3 years later and we have a awsome strong relationship, i was ready for something serious to plant my feet into and so was he, we had alot of things in common, i mean yes there are times when i think wow hes really been around alot more then i have and i can feel a little bit intimidated, but in the long run im thankfull he has those experiances to help guide our steps, I think he has come to believe that im never going to be perfect, even though i really try to do everything well, im not completely at his level on thinking, he has more life lessons to reflect on, but i dont think its a problem when we both discuss everything and keep the lines of communication open, just like any other relationship, my best friend is in the same boat, her husband is 10 years older then her and oddly enough shes the more responcible one, i dont see why any one would think its wrong, now if you were 25 and she was 15 there might be a huge responce to you sick mo fo lol but i dont think there is anything wrong with you liking her, ask her out, she might be into older guys, and with good reason, guys that are 20-24 are enough to make you want to puke, they only want one thing, they havnt figured out yet theres more to life then a nice set of boobs lol they dont know how to deal with money worth a crap, they only look out for themselfs, where older guys have alot more figured out, theres so many more perks to dating a older guy i could go on forever, more or less your more established at 30... id say go for it :) you have nothing to lose
71573
If it was like 40 years difference that probably wouldn't work. I don't see any problems with a 30 year old and a 20 year old. It could turn out to be a beautiful relationship.
107899
You make the rules, not them.  They are trying to force the situation, but if you just play it cool, you can continue to date anyone you please for as long as you like.  Trust me, if a 30 year old guy is getting it from a 20 year old chick, he's not dumping her just because.  They will both stick around, where you will have plenty of time to figure out what you may want in the long run.  Until then, tell them to relax and enjoy the gifts that life has to offer.  However, you may wish to keep the other guy to yourself.  That's your business, not a love triangle.  You are free not to choose.
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I don't really know..but how long have u been in contact with the person? it could be love.. there have been situations like this and people ended up being together forever!  I think you need to meet with the guy more..i mean I mean, the guy can say all the right words in a letter and by e-mail...
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The best thing to do is get the two to meet in a non threatening way, it could be at a party or some other social gathering.  Make sure it is as natural and non pressurising as possible.  Then if the two have any ting in common they can find out without any strings!
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First: Sure, it doesn't matter how two of you got introduced each other - through net or social program or at a shopping centre; just couple decades ago freely dating around was same as today's net relation and soon it will become normal exercise in society. So don't worry about how you began. but sure you should consider little longer time to meet him to check his interest keep rising or dimming without having some fun, not in a rush.\n\nSecound: to find out about him - at least try to know and meet his family, friends that he associate with soon you can in a usual manner, before get attached deeply, - well, rest you will know as time pass by. there is no masic pill to be confirmed about any one instantly - so be slow, have control on self,concentrate to figure out he is honest minded or not, and ofcourse, be careful in the beginning. people get hurt / been cheatted - no matter from where they find partner if dive into "Cool" just as swimming pool. Another thing i believe: who ever begin with too charm/ impression - often appears as bitter in later part.\n\nFinally: Just let you know that i found my girl friend through net two and half year ago - we have wonderful relationship that we both proud of, and very happy. this year we are going to marry. personaly i appreciate myself that i never allowed myself to  any cosmetics bundles or showing around * thing * ; feel lucky to get a real lovely girl. you are welcome to look at my yahoo profile " ravinecord " ( although i blur the picture a bit).\n\nSo be confident and in the beginning sure be careful.\n__ best of luck.
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If her parents are the ones getting in the way he should just try to be friends with her, and proove to her parents that he is a steady responsible boy.\n\nIf her parents are fine with her dating, but the girl is un-sure... well he should do basically the same, but perhaps he could broach the subject of dating a little sooner.\n\nBasically he should be respectful of her, and try to get to know her first, proove that he's in it for the long run, and that he really cares for her.
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tough question... just like inter-office dating.. tricky!\n\nyou gotta weigh things out ... i've found most people that spend too much time together will usually split up bad.. this can/will affect the band. \n\nI think Ego's might also be something to consider, if he is lead to u.. or visa versa, it might be a problem. I mean there are so many things to consider but the bottom line is love conquers all and if the rules or what you both want is laid out it should be okay. I guess communication is the main thing.\n\nGood luck and Rock on!