Now, first off, leave the "church group" out of your answer.  Haha, if you hadn't noticed my screen name.  But I hate bars.  I've been going to a coffee shop and that's been decent.  But what else is out there?
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Dog parks, go to small social gatherings, go to museums and art shows and you can try volunteering with some group. You will meet quality people at those places.
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I love Revolution on Broad St, but that's mostly because I'm single and do quite well in there whenever I'm visiting! The Canalside has a lot of good bars, and as for during the day I find going to the Sea Life aquarium quite a relaxing way to spend an afternoon. Have a nice time!
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What type are you looking for? Same as anywhere. Clubs, bars, churches, grocery stores, community events, libraries...
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look on the internet for sex parties. i dont know the address but i am sure they will have it. a lady will come to the house bringing nightgowns, toys, lotions, etc. i actually went with people who were from a church and they had a blast! they are really really fun and at the end you can buy things.
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You should do a video scavenger hunt or a picture scavenger hunt! Borrow a few video/picture camera and try to find local things about the bars that is unique to them along with those youve mentioned above. Some cool things would be like bring back a beer cap per person per bar. Another good one is how many free drinks you can get per bar.
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A church and church related organizations. There are usually some in every area. Some places have food drives,too. Good luck.
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where can I meet you? a couple drinks would do me some good today!
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well, the gay thing rules out my first choice, a church, but u could get involved in the community. Join an organization in the town, there is bound to be at least one lesbian in the town.
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Try the L bar(a lesbian bar in downtown BR)...174 South Blvd.  225/389-1441\nIt has a great mixed age and socially diverse crowd and cool atmosphere.  It's downtown, under the Mississippi river Bridge by Pastime Lounge and George's on 3rd St.  The only other places maybe other local gay clubs like Splash on Highland Rd. or George's on 3rd St.  Good Luck!!!
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How open are you?\n\nI mean, because Oklahoma City has extremely conservative and extremely liberal churches (both extremes). There are a lot of churches!\n\nThere is the Church of the Open Arms which is part of the United Church of Christ (the one's with the media campaign that says "God doesn't turn away people, neither do we. God is still speaking"). It's located on NW Classen. It is a gay friendly church (just so you know since the denomination allows churches to choose to be "welcoming" as they put it). There is also the Cathedral of Hope, but that's very much a gay church.\n\nSome of the churches downtown are really good and have outreaches. There is two on either side of the Memorial downtown (one right across the street...the other down the street). Not sure if they are denominational or not. But I know they are usually fairly active.\n\nThe City Church is nondenominational. It's downtown. You can't miss it, the building looks like a Cathedral....or like the State Capitol building. If you take the exit off of I-235 towards St. Anthony's Hospital you will pass it. I don't know how active it is, but I know it is has been a church in OKC for a long time.\n\nOklahoma City is rich in spirituality and no matter what religion you are looking for, there is probably some place for you to gather together with others. There are mosques, synagogues, churches, cathedrals, basilicas, mandirs, gurdwaras, and so much more. \n\nThe church section of the Fiest phone book is really good. It lists a lot of churches. The Buyer's Guide which is mailed out free every week to everyone in the metro area is also a good source for looking into churches. The Daily Oklahoman also tries to list churches. The Gayly Oklahoman lists gay friendly churches (if you are looking for something that liberal).\n\nAs I have told my Christian friends before that have moved to OKC...the best way to find a church is to visit a church. Go for about two or three visits and then switch and try another church for two or three visits. Make sure you both write down what it is you are looking for in a church. Make a list. Then rate the churches on a scale that you create (1-2-3 is usually a good scale 1 being that you closely matched what you would like in a church 2 being neutral: that you don't know if it matches or not and 3 being that it didn't match up). Make sure that you put stars next to what are considered "top priorities" then at the end of the three visits, add up the total score for the church. Make sure you give an extra point for each of the stars that get a 1, do nothing if those with the stars get a 2, and take away a point if it gets a 3...when calculating up the total score). It sounds really silly at first, but it can be very helpful and makes it easy to know how you rated the churches you visited. It works not just in Oklahoma City, but anywhere. It has always helped my Christian friends find the best church for them in the areas they live.\n\nI know about all of this because I have friends of a wide variety of religions: Christian, Buddhist, Jewish, Muslim, Pagan, etc. I'm a Hindu and love visiting the Hindu Temple (mandir) of OKC. Visiting all the many houses of worship with them definately lets me know what's available. There are even Orthodox and Unitarian-Universalist churches in OKC. So there is definately something for just about everyone!\n\nGood luck with your search. \n\nFor the record, most of the places I named do have websites if you wanted to visit them. Just do a search for their name (make sure to put the words Oklahoma City otherwise you might get a website for churches with similar names should they exist: Cathedral of Hope for example originates in Dallas so if you don't put Oklahoma City you get the Dallas website).
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http://www.thescottsdaleresort.com/\n\nWe went there in the fall and had a great time.  We were too warm to play tennis but the pool was god, food was good.  I am not happy about a stocked bar in my room, I would have liked instead an ampy fridge.  There is a mall not too far away and also lots of shopping.
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I was raised baptist and drinking period was wrong.  They had grape juice for "lord's supper" lmao...thank god (no pun) I do not practice organized religion anymore.  I love some wine. (from wine country, CA)
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Well, I think that church has to be a key place to meet people, if you are not interested in dating only people from work.  Or perhaps, take a class at the local university (particularly a graduate course)
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I used to date a guy who held church in his home.  His father was a minister without a congregation and his mother was disabled and physically uncomfortable in the traditional church setting so for this reason he held church in his house every Sunday afternoon and every other Wednesday night with his father preaching and his mother attending even though his parents had long since been divorced. It was the best "church" I have ever been to.  The service was meaningful and the singing was beautiful with every voice raised to God, there was no doubt everyone in the very crowded living room was there for God.  I continued to attend "church" at his house for awhile after we quit dating, and frequently think I should still be going there. I learned more there than I ever learned in Sunday school.  I recently took the Alpha class at a local church it was great but I still believe the best church is where you feel the closest to God no matter if it's in a house or a traditional church.
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You don't have to be Christian to receive help from a church.  They're not elitists like that, ya know.  :)  Have you thought about working from the home?
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There are some Fundamentalists around here who hold up big signs on weekend nights in one of the bar districts, informing everybody that they're going to hell for sucking down a margarita. They've been doing it for years. Most people think they're serious nutjobs. I'm a Catholic, and I prefer my religion to be a bit more sutble than that. Let God sort out the sinners; it's not in my job description.
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I probably won't make it again - looking for a new church that is not so "churchie"