do you think his with someone else? if he ask me if he can stay with me and eats somewhere else and sleeps too.
200323
THAT IS MESSED UP. YOU SHOULD JUST CUT ALL TIES CAUSE IT SEEMS TO STILL BE AFFECTING YOU. SO JUST LET HIM GO
274143
you are just giving him space, not breaking up with him.  you shouldn't get with this other guy.  i would consider that cheating.
510115
Offer him dinner? LOL_
237470
you are making an excuse "can't keep...living through him."\nif you wanted to be with him you would go with him.\nif you don't want to go overseas, don't.\nit seems completely reasonable that you simply prefer to stay where you are.\nyou are ready to settle down but feel awkward about pressuring him to do so.
392015
What makes you think the Jed wants to be your boyfriend?  Maybe he just wants to sleep with you.  You know that he just broke up with his girlfiriend, right?
281677
no, i think he should have the guts to ask me himself. And if he doesn't then he doesn't love me and he doesn't deserve to have me around.
214683
I doubt it! Refuse to sleep with him and see if he wants to spend time with you with your clothes on! Time will tell!
612997
Okay first of all since the break up nothing has changed so I'm assuming that you all are still intimate with one another and you're still arguing like lovers do.  The only thing that's bothering you right now is that you don't have that "TITLE" anymore as lovers which means that he can do what he wants and so can you.  So basically this dude is getting his cake and eating it too served on a silver platter with a platinum fork.  Do not allow him to question your where abouts every time especially if he's doing it in a "boyfriend" way.  I mean at this point he's looking at the situation and saying to himself " Why get back together when breaking up with her is just the same plus I get to mess around and not be faulted for it" Does it makes sense to you now!!! Lay down some rules and set boundaries within your relationship as friends and I guarantee you he'll miss that feeling as being your boyfriend and coming running back, it never fells.
138355
that sounds like a no.  if he really wanted you, then he would make time for you and make an effort to go out with you.
443057
have you asked him what he wants ????? if he's not helping you in that area then just take him out ot dinner or something. who doesn't like good food ?
530023
Yes, he probably has someone else - sorry
533695
You are not the smothering type like one person above me said. \n\nYour boyfriend sounds like he's trying to have his cake and eat it too.  You nailed it when you said: "To me, I think this seems like he wants to be able to have me around if/when he wants me, but for me not to get mad if I can't have him around when I want him. Like he wants to be with me, and for me to be there for him, but he doesn't want to have to be there for me."\n\nI knew a guy who was sleeping with this girl for a year and a half and he refused to call her his girlfriend..he just told people they're "seeing each other."  This generally means a non-exclusive relationship, and while he was sleeping with her, he was also seeing other girls and possibly sleeping with them too.  \n\nTell him you're not looking to take a step backward and that if he wants space that badly then he can have all the space he wants because you're leaving him.  He doesn't want to be committed to you? Then he shouldn't get sex or anything else from you.  Don't get used.
22069
Why would he get a female roommate? Why didn't you move in with him? If you're not into living with a guy, that's cool. he might not think so, though and is looking for some other.
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I'm sure that if things were reversed and  you were coming home at 1am every night, he would ask you were have you been.  You can ask him the question but you may not get a truthful answer.  Either way, he's being disrespectful towards you.  I wouldn't jump into this with accusations, but I certainly would want an explanation.  After wards, you have to decide if you can trust him, or not.  Remember this, if he is cheating on you, you don't know if he is using protection, be careful with this.  Don't become a statistic.
82251
Nope!  He's staying with me. I'd teach him everything he needs to know and do to please me.
204742
do you want to fall asleep with him every night?\ndo you want to wake up with him every morning?\nif you answered yes you probably want to be with him forever.\nmorning breath,snoring and all.
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What does your boyfriend think about this??