What interests a guy?I know the iniatial thing is usually looks so i'm interested in knowing what else...and are most guys just into the phsyical appearance?
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Confidence, control and wit.  The combination of these characteristics are very sexy in a woman.  Looks can only get you so far.  I've known plenty of beautiful looking women, but when they displayed their true colors they became "ugly" to me.
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Personally, I first find the looks attractive. I know its kinda shallow, but after that i make a decision based on who she hangs out with, how she acts, her personality and her sense of humor. I think her personality is the biggest factor after I get to know her more. But, first impressions are looks.
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Do you want a guy that isn't interested in looking at women? Where I come from they call those guys gay. He may be a bit inconsiderate at times, but he's not a perv.
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CONFIDENCE.  He doesn't believe in himself, why should I?  OF COURSE, all those nice surface features matter but, even the corniest guy can be cute if he has principles and believes in what he is doing.
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First off, congrats on realizing beauty. Most ppl overlook it. Second, you don't really want a guy who only likes you because of how you look. But I'm sure you knew that. To answer your question, it differs from person to person. In my experience, if I have one particular guy I want to notice me, I smile at him, and try to be friendly, and make lots of eye contact. This shows that you're into him, without being creepy. Guys don't generally like girls who hang all over them. If he shows similar signs, then I know he's interested. If you are just trying to find somebody, and don't know how to start, then my advice to you is, STOP! If you just go, and have fun, and make sure that you look great, no matter what, guys will come to you. But if you seem like you're trying too hard, it's not a good vibe. Desperation will call unlikely characters, and those aren't the ones you want hanging around. I hope this helps you're question, and don't give up hope. Mr. Right could be right around the corner! Good Luck!
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Wat is your favorite part of the male body? his lips and eyes\nWat do u like most about a guy? his personality\nWhat is your idea personality for a guy? funny, out-going, shy\nHow many years apart do u believe u should be?age aint nuthin but a number when it comes to luv\nWat or who is ur dream guy? a like a guy wit a lot of charm, not too flirty, romantic, and knows how to mke me laugh
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Every guy has different preferences, so there is no right answer for this. Guys like girls who are confident in themselves, who know what they want and who have an opinion, but not too outspoken. Guys want a girl who will make them feel good about themselves and who cares about him. But don't be all over the guy--keep him interested by having your own thing going on. The important thing is that you have to be yourself and should never act differently because you think that is what the guy wants.
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i would be lying if i said looks do not matter. how a guy looks and carries himself is what draws your eyes to him in the first place. but after the initial attraction, there has to be substance in him. his personality, his values and beliefs, his attitude. what's a good-looking guy with a bad-as  attitude or personality? zero.\nhe has to be one who values his family and cares for them. he has to have a sense of humor and be easy-going but at the same time be as steady as a rock. in what way? he has to be a constant fixture in your life. not just in bed, but in all ways... even when you drag him shopping!:)
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don't know about the others as i usually don't have many female friends but i know for me someone who shows interest in some of the things i do, someone that i can hold a conversation with, someone that will hold the door for me. he's got to be caring, non judgemental, open minded, open to trying new things (doesn't mean in the bedroom), fun loving, lives life to the fullest, willing to take care of me as i would take care of him. looks aren't all that important but to have a good relationship there is definately a need for a physical attraction but over all it's how he carries himself. if he's sure of himself then i know i can be sure of him.
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I know it sounds bad, but usually the first thing a guy looks for is how the girl looks.  If she is good looking, then he wants to find out other things about her.  That is just how most guys are.  And I am always busy, but if I really like a girl, I always find time to kick it with her.  And the only reason I'm always busy is because I don't want to be broke, because when you are broke you are no fun.
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If he's interested in "better-looking girls" then he's probably better looking himself.  Why don't you go after a not-so-good-lookin guy and you won't have that problem.  There's many out there, trust me :)
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guys look for the height, the eyes, and the body figure. smile cute, flutter ur eyelashes( but dont ovrdo it )keep ur back strait, kno when to talk rite, were the rite clothing, dont smell bad (evn if he does, but does that mattar? no, ur trying to talk to him, not him to u) dont shake or look nervous. oh yeh, dont panic. look confident, but if u look too confi, then thats gonna blow the guy away. keep a good pose (thats diffy for evry gal) and importantly, kno what to say!!!!! thats what stumps a lot of gals.
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The main thing I look for in a guy is a good sense of humour. He has to make me laugh. I really don't care about looks. I like a guy who can laugh at himself and make me laugh.
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well its more about personality i would rather have a nice guy any day over nice features but i like hair to play with and eyes to look deep into and nice smiles:)
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how bout ... Gorgeous? thats what i always use and im 17 so... yeah... guys ive dated hav never had a prob with that =) Good luck
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Well, for me i think there is this one guy. He's bizarre-ly my type. (: Okay, he's not Brad Pitt, but in my eyes he's good-looking. (he is self-conscious too) At any rate, he's not all that great because he smokes. He is into art like I am and I can really see myself with him. (we are not together though, not yet ha) Hopefully sparks will happen! Today, I asked him. What are you doing today? And he replied with I'm going to church. (I think.. is he saying that to make it so I would believe he's a good boy) lol. He is a gentleman, he's pure too and I see in him, almost as if he's a guy version of me. So much the same. We do the same things (school, work, family.. all in different aspects) but our interests are matched up if you know what i mean. He is just like me and the fact that he knows how to treat a lady (i see it in his character) is attractive. He is himself and he doesn't try to be any other person trying ot be "cool" or sets himself to have what's "in". He told me once how I'm low-key, that I'm a fun-girl. Those words just simply expressed who I am and I liked that he just says it so right like that. So, to you the boy that asked this question.. Yes! I do believe some guys have a special attractive power which is pulling me... You see, I went all out and became an extreme provider for him (gave him plenty of weed.. not cause' i liked him though it would be that way, but because I also wanted to smoke him out :) and i showered him in other ways too. All of what i did was what was pulling me into him... though his image may be bad for me... i am fondly attracted. not sure if someday, we will hook up, but if so, that's real good.
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what i look for in a guy is basically someone i can have a good time with.  I go for personality first and he has to be able to make me laugh and smile. no one likes a serious stiff guy. but u have to be careful also that the guy isnt took much of a clown. Looks always come second to me because sure u can have a good time showing off your boyfriend if he's cute but u cant always have a good time with him.