I would neva cheat on him for NOBODY and I always tell everyboy (including him) no matter how sexy the other boy is I will stick wit my man I got now & nobody else.He walks with otha girls but I know for a proven fact their just his friends but when I go to my cousins house she has boys their sometimes but I would neva cheat on him and he thinks I would do something wit them just cuz I had a picture of them in my lil book of pictures.
216579
Tell him he has to trust you. Without trust theirs nothing. If you can trust him then he should be able to trust you. Don't let him treat you unfairly.
667766
yeah, his hot! just like my type. but i will never marry him coz there are many hot boys everywhere. but im not mean.
665704
yes, you are the only one thats going to get hurt, and if he cheats on his girlfriend, he'll cheat on you. also, think of how you would feel if you were the girlfriend and found out, it would crush you. there are so many other boys in the world that you could date. be true to yourself, dont let someone elses guy take a kiss from you. once ok, its daring and taboo but youll find the consequences are far too great to put yourself in that situation. also, he said he loves you. does he even know you? love takes a lot of time, and usually if a boy who has a girlfriend is kissing another girl and professing love to her, he only wants one thing, or more. if you think nobody knows, think again, if you told anyone, or someone may have seen, and you may get a rep for stealing other girls guys you dont want that. show respect for yourself and others, and you will attract the type of guy thats right for you. you dont want to always be the other woman...they only get heartbreak. keep your chin up and leave that situation alone...
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I have to much respect for myself to EVER stay with a man who cheated on me. Regardless if he begged for forgiveness or not. You should move on to someone who truly respects you.\n\n\nhttp://groups.myspace.com/closetednerd
429408
Sometimes guys like a girl who is taken. If they can get her to cheat, they get the goodies without haveing to buy her anything, take her anywhere or go to her family events.
329446
are you saying that this is your x's brother?!?! if so then you need to find another guy. im pretty sure there are other guys out there! why do you want to be that kind of girl who comes between two brothers? come on grow up and instead of knocking on the door down the hall to find a new guy try going down the block at least, not two  guys that live in the same house and who are blood related
424214
No your not being to drastic, if he would  make a pass at your sister then he will make a pass at anyone. once a cheater always a cheater. and even if he promises to change how can you ever trust him.
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Honey don't waste your time and energy being jealous and hurt over this.  You need to work on your own self esteem it seems.  Your energy would be better spent building your own self confidence.  And if this relationship you have with him is going to work it will have to include trust and communication.  If you had a problem with him going to a place like that you should not have made him believe otherwise only to bring it up later.  You say you don't think he would cheat so you must have some basis for believing he will be true to you.  And I can assure you if he is going to cheat it most likely will not be with the lap dancing stripper in front of everyone.  However, I certainly would question the solidity of what this relationship is based on now if I were you.  Doesn't sound like the actions of a man who respects your relationship to me  because regardless of his intentions his actions were very public and seemingly not terribly concerned how it looked.  Now you say he is going again even after you told him you were hurt by his actions. Does he respect you or not?  Do you really care?  You make sure you are confident and sure in who you are and what you stand for.  Walk proud and do not be swayed or controlled by the actions of anyone else.  I promise you any man will be more attracted to a confident woman who doesn't give a second thought to being jealous over such things as a juvenile boys will be boys outburst meant to boost his own ego.  You will be a much happier person and there will be far fewer nights spent home alone wondering what or who he is doing.  Take care of you and the rest will take care of itself. I promise.  I don't believe in jealousy.  It is  a waste of time and energy.
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If he is constantly flirting with other girls, then it's understandable to be jealous. If you told him you don't like him flirting all the time and he does it anyway, then you should break up with him. He won't stop doing it, and his behavior is making you unhappy.\n\nBUT (and this is a big but) if he is just talking to other girls, you are in the wrong and should try to control your feelings. Boys don't put up with girls telling them who they can and can't talk to or be friends with. You are going to drive him (and many other boys) away. You should try to reevaluate your feelings.
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I would say yes it is cheating if it's not something that's already been agreed upon. Ultimately, the real answer to the question would be his answer in conjunction with yours. I personally wouldn't do anything to jeopardize what you have going. My boyfriend and I started fooling around with each other a few months before we started dating. But, off the bat we decided and made it clear that messing around with other people was completely off limits. I was completely happy with that, because frankly I would think of myself as a whore to be sleeping with two guys at the same time. What made things really different though, is that him and I have been friends since we were 11. This didn't start happening til just after high school. But, we decided to become a couple and have been dating ever since.\nThe moral to all of this, really, is that you shouldn't do anything to f**k up what you already have going, because it may turn out to be the best thing that you'll ever find. At the very least, talk to him about it first. He seems to be pretty devoted to you, cherish because not many people can find others who are devoted.
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I'm sure that there are guys who are faithful when they are away just like there are some women who are faithful while they are alone.  But the majority of them probably cheat and think that no one will find out.
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It is okay to look at others, but a person should have respect not to do it so obviously in front of his girlfriend.\n\nI don't think he will do anything with the other girls.  But every girl likes to feel that the boyfriend only has eyes for her.  He is insensitive to this issue.\n\nI think you are right.  If he continues to do it, do it on his own time.  If this doesn't slow down, it might be time for a new boyfriend.  One that respect you.
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he sound pretty insecure to me . some boys and men are like dogs.they jump from one female to another.if they can't have one they go to the next, or previous one.if you don't respect yourself, no one else will.
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WELL, IT IS NEVER GOOD TO KEEP SECREST FROM YOUR GUY, IT IS A BOMB JUST WAITING TO EXPLODE. YOU SHOULD TELL HIM. BETTER YET IT REALLY ISN'T APPROPRIATE FOR YOU TO BE HANGING OUT WITH OTHER MEN AND TAKING THINGS FROM THEM WHETHER YOU ARE BEING A GOOD GIRL OR NOT. WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF THE TABLES WERE REVERSED. IF YOU SAY YOU WOULDN'T MIND OR CARE THEN YOU DO NOT LOVE THIS MAN. I BELIEVE THE ONLY FRIENDS COUPLES SHOULD HAVE ARE FRIENDS THEY BOTH HANG OUT WITH. YOUR FRIENDS BECOME HIS AND HIS YOURS. SAVE YOU HOTNESS FOR YOUR GUY AND GIVE HIM THE CHANCE TO GIVE YOU THE THINGS THESE OTHER GUYS ARE OFFERING. DON'T BE NIEVE, THOSE GUYS ARE AFTER ONE THING, AND YOU HAVE TO KNOW THAT. DON'T PLAY GAMES WITH THEM OR YOUR GUY CAUSE YOU MIGHT END UP LOOSING HIM.I THINK IT IS STILL CHEATING MAYBE NOT IN ACTION, BUT IN THOUGHT AND THAT IS JUST AS BAD WHEN IT IS DELIBERATE.HAVING FEELINGS LIKE THIS MEANS YOU ARE IMMATURE AND NOT READY FOR A STEADY RELATIONSHIP. SORRY THE TRUTH HURTS.
575643
IF I WAS SINGLE, I MIGHT GO OUT WITH HIM BUT I WOULDN'T HAVE RANDOM SEX IF HE WAS A STRANGER. AND IF I HAD A BOYFRIEND, I WOULD NEVER CHEAT ON HIM.
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i think if a friend told me that my man was wit another girl i would confront him for sure, find out wat was goin on and if i need to get more information first i would, u no wat us women do best investigate b4 i confront him, and if all is true i would leave him, cuz i no that i would b able to please my man in every which way therefore he would have no reason to cheat apart from greediness and if that is the case he will do it again!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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No offense but I really just do not like the idea of relations with other people while you are in a monogamous relationship. Being bi isn't an excuse to cheat and I really don't understand how he can be okay with it. Are you sure he's okay with you being with other people or that he's just okay with you being bi, there is a big difference. Then again it's not my place to judge so good luck.