Webroke up about 7 months ago and it is all his stupid fault for not quiting drinking in the first place.
210766
If he is an alcoholic then you need to forget him all together. I have been in relationships with two and it is very self destructing and lowers your self esteem. Keep him DUMPED.
482164
If a group of you can sit down with him and tell him he has 2 choices\nHe either goes immediately to treatment and afterwards he must remain sober (go to AA, too)......or\nYou will have to go over his head and report him.  It's ruining your department and you all are NOT going to take the blame for his behavior.
363648
There isn't any real proof that Bush isn't still drinking and cooking back cola. His behaviors are of a dry drunk without any recovery program. Those first three steps can really be hard for an active addict you know...
187659
pretty much... so people can act like idiots then forget what they did or else blame it on "being drunk"
402917
blame it on the alcohol...it was drunken sex and stick with that.
563289
You've passed the enough stage.  Don't fight with a drunk...it's usless.  You need to pack your bags and leave.  It's the only way.  Most Alcoholics don't stop drinking until they reach rock bottom...l'd get him there quick if you want to save his life.
198293
He has repeatedly been in trouble (as have other conservative alcoholic hate spewers) for everything from DUI's to prescription scams to employment of illegals.\n\nThese people never practice what they preach...\n\nIt will be funny when he gets around to going to a 12 step meeting and has to take advice from blacks, gays and divorced mothers on how to handle HIS problem...
135599
Do the whole world a favor and turn this person in to the proper authorities. It isn't fair to the folks who are going to rehab to end up with a counselor who isn't honest about THEIR sobriety. There are those who take all that as a joke, but it isn't a joke to ones who are serious about getting their lives back under control! Let this person find another line of work (preferrably one that is legal) and stop the fronting.
163536
Surely your son is classed as an adult at the age of 20 and is therefore responsible for his own actions. Personally I would refuse to take the blame for what he did and let him deal with the consequences (to a certain degree)! I also think you should seek advice from someone who specialises in drug law and/or reformed drug user groups as they have first hand experience with the stuff!!!
202689
Well, make your decision when sober.  "accidently" doing it when boozed up isn't fair to anybody.
32826
because he hated himself.
89132
Sorry, But unfortunitly, you can't help him. UNLESS of curse he wants help. I have a brother who has basically lost everything. House, Wife, Family and most of his friends. Why because he is a BIG TIME DRUNK. He wakes up by the bottle, he goes to sleep with the bottle, and he most likely will die by the bottle. He recently went to jail. YES for aocohol related stuff. He spent 3 months in jail. He couldn't smoke or drink any alcohol. Now keep in mind he was there for three months. I picked him up when he got released and took him home. His girlfriend later told me that when she got to his apartment he was DRUNK and smoking away. Good luck tho I hope he makes it.
172893
Sounds just like me and my now husband.  We changed everything. Our friends our jobs.everything. AA helps alot. Go to different meetings they are all different. Take some of it leave some of it, some of it is cheesy. Him and I both knew nothing other than drinking. It just seemed like the thing to do. Finally one day he screwed up really bad and it was done. Our lives are great..one year 2 days ago.SOBER. Give it a chance ....from one drunk to another give it a try !!!!!!!!!QUIT.
295958
neither one of you should be drinking.Being drunk is just an excuse for acting stupid.You need to work out your feelings about what happened or you may explode one of these days.
41880
He should see a doctor AND definately try to quit...\nThat's all I'm saying.
266786
I feel like as long as you are responsible you should be able to drink. You made a good point. It's all screwed up!!
4914
He is dumb. Mainly because he has never had to do anything for himself in his life. Family money and influence got him anything he wanted. He never had to work a day in his life. He was a drunk until he was 40.  \nHe never even had to think for himself. thus, he is dumb.