I'm 19 for God's sake.  How can I turn my sex drive back on?
211796
You may have something going on with yourself. When some people acquire the dreadful disease of high blood or diabetes, their sex life changes, especially if this occurrence is sudden. Get your self check out, talk to your doctor about this and don't be ashamed to ask question.
429648
It is normal for a female of your age to lose her sex drive. Men and women have different their sex drives at different times. You will get your sex drive back. Until then try to have some fun before you start.
560412
Please try to continue waiting.. You should also talk to someone.. a priest or some kind of counselor.. a celibate priest could REALLY help you because they had to overcome alot of urges.. It does sound like an addiction but you really need to talk to someone about this.\n\nNow, on the other hand, you COULD be exaggerating this - I get the feeling that you grew up in a strict environment and probably were taught that sexual desires were very wrong.. Is this true?\nHow often are you acting on your feelings?  If it is happening more than 3-4 times a day, and if you are constantly thinking about banging every chick you see on the streets, then you have  a problem.. However, this is all about context.. If you are only doing this like 3-4 times a week.. and don't think about very much about it .. it is just the context of how you grew up and the guilt you place on these actions..\n\n\nI think you just personally place alot of guilt on yourself about this - that may or may not be justified\n\nHow old are you? What was your background? How often is this going on??   If you feel comfortable, please try to post more info so I and others can help you ..  If not, please refer to the links below..  You can take the self-test on the second link
486566
There really is nothing you can do. It is normal for us high schoolers to get random and spontaneous boners, with no prompting, and not until college age will we see them subside a little. Try focusing your mind away from "holy crap I have a boner" to something non-sexual, or completely hideous. I just count in my head, and focus on that, and by the time I reach 60, it is gone.
359334
You should know that having sex is a great responsibility because of the consequences it may have, is not something you can take easily more of you are so young. Try to talk to your mom about your way of feeling and tell her that is important for you to have information to be prepared to  take a decision when the moment comes
88568
forget about tablets honey, what you need is to let ur sexual partner know how to turn u on!! In order to get really turned on u need some time to urself aswel, to just relax and unwind. Maybe u cud try thinkin of a sexual fantasy that gets ur blood pumpin. Remember to clear ur mind from stress and anything else that mite distract u. Then, let the good times roll...good luck!
23233
The only reason that you might want him back is because either he was your first(popped cherry), or he was the guy that came after a traumatic relationship. Another reason is he is your babies daddy! Cheer up boo, there are a lot of men out there. You know you really shouldn't be having sex at 15 1/2 kid. I did not realize how young you were, talk to your parents for sure. Keep your mind off of boys and focus on school, remember that your concentration and focus on school will determine how much green you will make. You only get one chance to make things in high school. "A mind is a terrible thing to waste." UNCF.
675576
Feel lucky you have such a great sex drive! As long as you are not participating in unhealthy behaviors like having multiple partners without condoms and your masturbation and sex drive is not interfiering in your day to day life, you have nothing to worry about!  Your one of the lucky few!!! I've had an abnormally high sex drive like you since I was 16 and still have it and my husbands friends and my friends husbands are always very envious of our relationship. Many many women loose their sex drive as they get older!
527940
If your a teenager going through hormonal changes than that's normal because of your body urging you to have sex, if your 21 than that's just fucking hot. And if your 40 then maybe your just a huge pervert.
601866
Toys won't get you pregnant, cheat on you, give you an STD, treat you like crap, lie, use up all the gas in your car, leave the seat up, squeeze the middle of the toothpaste, get drunk and act like idiots, insult your best friend, stand you up to go out with their friends, swear, sweat, belch, fart or scratch themselves in public.\n\nBut  . . . . if you really want to move on to the real thing and you are old enough to handle the possible pregnancy, old enough to go to the gynecologist and get on birth control, or at least old enough and mature enough to discuss with your parents (or at least one of them) the fact that you are having sex so that you can get on the pill, knock yourself out.
547042
Tell him honestly that you dont wanna sex up until you are 17.Hope he understand and respect your decision,if he doesnt dump him.You desereve someone better.
153283
Being aroused is the important thing here...if you are alive and breathing then you can be aroused, by what or whom is your choice.  When you turn 18...it's legal so beware!! LOL
280082
try going to adult stores, read up on it. try the pill x. Works wonders just dont get to into it.
96521
I've been out with lots of men who were older then me... much older. They all seem to be interested in the same aspect of the younger woman... our vitality, our fun loving nature, and what innocence we still have.\n\nMy suggestion is "be yourself", because if you aren't some day you could wake up and relalize how much time you've wasted.\n\nAs for sex... the best part about sex, at least in my opinion, is the experimentation with each other. Communication goes right with it... talk about your sex life, see what you like together, see where you might like to experiment a bit more. Buy a karma sutra book if it comes to it, but don't try to cram it all into the first few months... Believe me, you want something interesting later on down the road to try.
644540
That happens because you are thinking about getting laid.  Even if your brain is not thinking about sex, your body is.  Your body wants it.  But enjoy it man.  I wish I still had wet dreams (assuming you get them at that age).
252657
Limit your contact with the boyfriend.  If you're kissing and petting then that's got a lot do with it.  You're 15 and your hormones are raging.  Don't tempt them with the types of foreplay you're talking about.  You two need to enjoy each other's company in the presence of adults who would likely not really approve of what you've been doing.  They know it could lead to premarital sex which could lead to teen pregnancy or worse.\n  Perhaps if you provided yourself with an orgasm your desires would wane a bit.\n  Also, focus on other things.  The more you dwell on those sexual feelings the harder it will be to resist them.  Put together a puzzle or buy some flowers and plant them in the flowerbed.  Something to get your minds off it.
8939
Don't look elsewhere, this is actually pretty normal.    Try talking to him and telling him that you'd like to be more intimate.  DOn't make things into a chore, like "eat, drive to movies, blah, sex"... Usually, I find that a good makeout session will be enough to rev up your latent sex drives!