(cont.)always used to call me and sign on to talk to me. do you sense a break up coming? if you do, should i break up with him first? we're both on spring break and haven't seen each other in days. your help is greatly greatly appreciated.
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Ok if you are both on spring break he is probably busy, you need to find something to fill you time other than worrying about whether or not he breaks up with you. It really doesn't matter in the long run, I promise.
86155
Sounds like you guys may not be though. Either way,if you only see each other once in three months,it doesn't sound like much of a relationship. Try to call it off.\nIf he doesn't call you then he doesn't care about you,period. Do yourself a favor and move on.\nPlenty more guys out there... \nYou can IM me for some if you want...
91948
cmon!\ncontinue your relationship,if you guys still meet each other, isee no reason for any kind of break up!\ngo ahead gurl!
479379
I think that the moment you have thoughts of wanting to break up with him, means you should break up with him. If the relationship was going great you wouldn't even think of breaking up with him right? So just go with what you want to do.
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He might be pulling the whole "distant and mean" routine in order to get you to initiate the break-up.  If your boyfriend is particularly lazy, I would bet that this is the case.\n\nThat being said, there is a good likelihood that he is simply at a junction in his life where he is having to divert some of his attention from you and put it on other things.  This happens from time to time and it is something you will have to come to deal with if you ever hope to forge a meaningful and long-lasting relationship with someone.
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Hi Sally Mae! Sorry that you're getting somewhat, mixed signals from your boyfriend. I don't think it's too soon to talk to him openly about this. To me, it doesn't sound like he is about to break up with you. You two have been together for a month now so you should be able to feel comfortable talking to him about this. I really hope things work out because I can tell you really like him. You'll never really know how he feels until you talk to him. You have been in the relationship long enough to deserve to know clearly and exactly what's going on! Good luck to you and I pray everything works out!
203127
He should of been up front with you from the get go, and since \nhe didn't, then maybe you should break up with him.
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you are flipping nuts!  why delete his number!  Thats so final, you only talked about your ex.  He'll get over it.\n\nSay to him, did he use the ex thing as a reason to break up with you?  If he says no, then say well I think you've totally over-reacted let me prove to you that i'm over my ex.  And he'll say how, and you'll say by being with you.  Lets face it thats the only proof you can use.  Time.
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i thin kyou should move on. if he hasnt took the time to actually realize you havnt called him in three days and didnt  call you to ask about it then hes not worried about you. i think you should leave him alone. dont worry about him. hes an ass! and then that message he left you on myspace...that sucked a big one!!!!!
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Honey I'm not sure what to tell ya.  Don't give up on him.  Do you have anyway to contact him?  You should tell him how you feel.  I don't know why he hasn't talked to you in a month.  That concerns me a little.  Like I said, don't think bad, think good.  Hope things work out for you.
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you sound almost like a mirror image of me but i'm at the 3 month stage and i don't know if he's with somone else, the other difference is he said to me that he wants to work things out i haven't seen mine in 20 days and yes im counting. the best advice hang in there, me personally i would tell him how much of a many swearwords he is for hurting me and how could he get with somone else so soon. but as i said hang in there im now ruling my own life but it is hard moving ahead without the one you love. Be Good!
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Guys can tend to get clostrophobic in situations like this. Love having you there but only when they want you there. I'm not sure on his thinking after such a long relationship but it would seem to me that he is distancing himself because he does want out but can't face the fact that he will be alone and probably doesn't want to be alone therefore still calling you.He definately loves you but doesn't know the best way to address the issue, therefore keeps up the pretence that everything is fine by calling you, wanting you etc..\nOn the other hand i could be wrong, i'm no expert
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Don't call him. let him call you.  email maybe once or text but don't call. after he gets the note from you, he will call you back if he wants to talk to you.\n\nhmm... but why can't you still talk on the phone?\n\ni'm sorry but if he is so singleminded that he cannot conduct buisness and a relationship then i don't see you beng involved very long.\n\nsounds like he's trying to break up, but  just because that happened to someone i know doesn't mean it's happening to you.
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If you think dating a guy after one week of being broke up then think of this, I broke up with my BF and I went back out with him that same day. Talk about pathetic! Then we broke up again and are going back out right now. So I think your relationship is going better than mine is, and by next week I`ll have probable broke up with him again. So do what you think is best for the future relationship you might have with this guy.
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From what it sounds like, you are either insecure with your relationship and your position in his life, or you, deep down, want out of the relationship, so you ask questions that will in effect cause him to break things off, so you don't have to.
509057
It sounds as though the two of you really need to sit down and talk, tete-a-tete.  The fact that you have been off and on for a couple of years, he's texting you now after a recent breakup, taking you to lunch, etc. and now you don't know what his motive is - just try to talk about it.\nI think that's the only way you are going to be able to truly get to the bottom of your dilemma.
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It depends....does he finally call and not mention it...or does he tell you why he hasn't called. I suppose some guys think this is fine and it is...if that's the way it has always been..but if this is something new I would worry..sounds like he's losing interest to me. If you don't say anything about it the days between calls will become more and the times he does it more often. If I were you I would find something else to do..turn the tables on him and let him wonder where you are. It will stop you from worrying about him , you could have some fun,. and maybe meet someone that will appreciate you...this guy sounds like he's trying to control the relationship and seeing just how far he can go........OH and also...guys do NOT always let you know when they want to break up with you...they try to piss you off til you break up with them ..they don't have the cahones...I have this on very good authority...a MAN...lol