i thought it was just typical nervousness but he starts shaking and stuttering so bad. i dont know how to help him
205588
i had this fear myself.  i took a public speaking class from a university.  speaking in front of small groups, then building up to larger groups really helped build my confidence.  speaking about something i was truly passionate about helped as well.  i constantly had to force myself to speak at some sort of public function to overcome this fear.  now i emcee large events with ease, because i have done it over and over.   if that doesn't help him, he actually may need to seek help from a professional for possible social anxity disorder.
644846
You might want to have him checked for diabetes or hypoglycemia.  A high or low blood sugar can cause tremors and both can be very dangerous if left untreated. Have him take his lunch with him and eat it while on the road.
637717
he needs counselling, surely the baby will be fine and he's just scared.  good luck!
362815
yeah i would say he doesnt either that or he is shy and scared of comitment
387966
Ist he must realize that he has a problem. That he is sometimes up, up and up and other times down and bothered.\n\n2ndly He should set an appointment with his physician and talk about ups and downs. The physician can help him to understand his roller coaster ride and his lack of courage to do something with his life.\n\n3rdly if he can get a few hours of talking with a mental health professional he may come to see that his situation is shared by many people and there are therapies and medication that can have a positive affect.\n\n4thly you should support him as he comes to realize his situation.\nyou can encourage him to know that you are ready to help him in \nhis next steps.\n\nHe may need to know that he has more support than it appears. You may also understand that you cannot solve the problems he chooses to face.
636516
Sounds to me as if he is totally stressed out.  I would offer to him to vent, and then ask him if there is anything you can do to help.\nThen seriously help him and maybe plan on taking a vacation for a while. Come back with a clear mind and get back to work.
455091
well maybe something happened at boarding school that he is too embarressed to talk to you guys about. I would get him alone and ask him what hapened and tell him that your there for him and see if that works
249576
You really need to send him to a good psychiatrist. This is something that is really dangerous. If he gets too crazy, he might turn out like one of those kids who kills people at school or their parents.
429206
it's not too unusual.  most school districts have a speech therapist who is trained to work with such kids.  most of the time this will naturally lessen as the child gets older.  i recommend private speech therapy if the school doesn't provide it.  get on a stuttering list or something so you can understand people who have the stuttering issue more.  it often reduced people's confidence.  you  may have  to make extra efforts to keep your son's confidence up as he ages.
359391
Your nervous, He's nervous.  Go up to him sometime and just chat.  Nothing to it but to do it!
453453
He has a problem that will only ge worse if it is not adressed.  Suck it up and tell him to get the help he needs.  If it is meant to be, then it will be.
458393
he is shocked to the point of fear
526625
well I really have to tell u this he ikes u but he is nervous and he will not tell u that becuz he is a guy and he will not admit things of that nature but u should not rush it or him to get comfortable with u just say little things to let him know it is ok .....point blank just make him comfortable dont by things u do dont force him to be
354489
He may be shy. Or he might have a little OHH HOO and is embarassed about it.
615909
he's probably shy since he's only a child.  does he have any friends?  that could also be the possibility to why he has a low self-esteem.  ask him if there is anything bothering him, and hopefully he can open up and tell you.
381971
sounds like he has got a hyper tension dude..... may be it's coz of the relationship too. better speak to him and let him know and get him prepared to meet a counsellor and then arrange it.
140988
I suggest to have a go again , observe and see. It could be due to his nervousness, cos both can be just as nervous and excited! So just relax and have another go. Just Relax and take it from there. If it happens again, see a doctor. Please also communicate with each other! It is the main thing to do! Talk things through and be there for one another.  Cheers!