I weigh 270lbs and i want to loose weith and all, but people everywhere i go judge me for my apperance alone.
209154
You know what, sweetie?  This world is so focused on the outward appearance that it is a darn shame.  We are who we are and God made us this way.  Unfortunately people feed on Hollywood and glamor.  There are those out here that don't judge on looks...it's what's inside that really matters.  We are all children of God....if you are happy, then who cares!  AND.......\n\nThe response before mine....that life.....was made by someone who has no regard for feelings and has no business even responding.  RUDE.....you should be turned in and not allowed to be in this space with answers like that!\n\nYou, my 270lb. friend, take care and God bless.  The weather is so nice, take walks at lunch...that might help!
196816
It sounds like you lost yourself, and all your stress is stem from the responses from people around you, do something for yourself and do it in a way that you love it with a purpose and forget about how others would think.
235409
Its all about how society see you. Unfourtunally they have the Misconception that fat people are lazy and smelly and sloppy. What you need to do is ignore all the negitive energy that they put out and keep believing that you are a great person. Who cares what others think about you. Anyone that makes fun of someone has insecurities about themselves.  Obvisiouly your not what people claim you are or else you wouldnt have found a wonderful man to marry you??!! Right!!
83668
There's absolutely nothing pathetic about getting up and doing anything by yourself. And you're not the only one. \nWhen people are stareing at you, could it be that they envy you and your self assuredness
101208
I struggle with this too.  You keep on keeping on.  You surround yourself with people who are supportive of you.  And you do fun stuff in between to tie you over.  Keep your chin up and remember to let out some emotion through exercise.
527268
You can't live your life trying to please others and worrying what they think about you. Just be who you are, you sound pretty confident and self assured. You go girl!
152314
Don't worry,you're normal...you just don't want other people to feel uncomfortable with you around..you want to make them feel happy..you always think about others instead of yourself.That's good but you HAVE to learn to love yourself too.Don't let people take you for granted.Hope this answer helps..
318508
i dont want to be rude, but the only thing that helps is maturity, if your weight is the only thing u think about, then u have a maturity problem....you are beautiful just the way u r, and u need to realize that.....every girl goes through this, so ur not alone....but u have accept yourself, good luck
123632
just b ur self & don't let ppl get 2 by calling u fat & if u r shy just try to talk to ppl that u don't kno so u can get over
625277
Well it seems to me that you are an insecure person and you suround yourself with people who are equally insecure as yourself.  Because to you it's easy that way.  It's easy to live unchallenged and it's easier for you to just take what is offered.  When you don't like a situation that you are in you have to figure out how your gonna change it.  The first step is too stop taking advantage of other ppl especially if they let you because they are just as lost as you are and you will surely never find your way.  The next step is to work on being comfortable with yourself.  You have to be by yourself to do that. I would suggest that you stop dating or having any type of romantic relationship because nobody will ever be able to appreciate you if you don't even appreciate yourself. And then , after all that is worked out, you find a good secure, honest, independent woman, that isn't gonna let you fall back into your usual routine.  After that i can't say it will all be wonderful, but at least you know its something that you want instead of something that's just there. Godd luck!
197643
yes, I think everyone feels that way at one time or another. It's really hard because the media pushes everyone to be perfect looking (skinny, extra beautiful, perfect hair and skin). I feel that way sometimes, but I just have to accept how God made me. Besides, if everyone looked the same, it'd be boring. That doesn't mean that if you are fat(not saying you are) that you shouldn't do something about it. Just do your best to exercise and eat right, and just like yourself the way you are.
599937
I'm guessing u think u weigh too much. Have u just tried to talk ur problems out with some who cares or has the same problem? I use to think i didn't/ couldn't weigh enough. I ate everything in sight and couldn't get over a hundred lbs. I couldn't find anything to wear, everything was too big. even my size 0 jeans. So I guess i had to opposite problem. It went away after I had a kid. I use to talk to girls who had eating disorders to help them.
516290
My sister did it and lost some weight but I would stay away from people :(
236746
I'm sorry but you sound nice so don't let them get you down I never rely on people for self esteem .
644320
Maybe you are big boned.  If not, you might want to consider dropping some weight.  Use a BMI calculator to figure out how much you should weigh.
451319
i'm so tired of everyone trying to be the same y cant they just b them selves w/out trying to impress the world with their weight.....your weight is just a number and besides it's starting to get really gross how thin those girls r
560504
Sounds like you have a self-esteem problem.  You should make a list of your good qualities and go over it every day.