I've got this amazing girlfriend, and although we haven't been together for real long, and I just feel like she's everything to me right now.  The thing is, I'm not good with words; when I talk to her I trip on my words and sound kinda dumb. \nSo, I guess my question is: how can I express how awesome she is and how much she means to me without coming on too strong?
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write her a letter. as a woman she will read it over and over and treasure it forever. itll be more romantic too. seal it in an envelope and everything and give it to her at the right moment
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Let me tell you a little bit about my own experience: \n     I tell my girlfriend all the time, very sincerely and sweetly, that i love her.  I do spontaneous things, like buying flowers or candy or some other gift, for no reason at all.  And i sometimes just hang out with her, with no obligations or intentions; just hanging out to be with her.  Yet, she sometimes gets insecure, and doubts me.  It has never been because of something that i have done, just that that is how she is.  Lately, because of this, i have been sensing those things, and i have found myself being emotionally hurt by her, and the little things that she has been doing.........  I love her more than you could imagine, but because of her doubts and insecurities, i have been getting hurt, and i now have doubts as to whether the relationship is fit to survive.  \n     In your case, if he has done nothing to bring about these feelings, then you should probably have no worries.  Innocent until proven guilty.  I know, from personal experience, that it starts to hurt when you signifigant other doubts you and your motives/intentions when you say "i love you."  It is extremely painful because you say those words to someone, expressing what you truly feel inside (not in all cases mind you), and then you are essentially "slapped" in the face when that person questions you.  If your boyfriend is seemingly sweet and sincere, then he probably really means it.  if he respects you as a person, and is supportive of you, then i would say that he probably means it.  Good luck to you, and i hope that i have helped.
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just say hi and ask her how her day is. i know it sounds lame but my guy does it and it makes me feel really good b/c i know he cares about me. Good luck!
488057
Exactly what you just did. Find a nice way to say it. Like maybe I am interested in someone else. And do not elaborate on it.You walk with your dignity as well as her keeping hers. Good luck. Post script. Question for you. What are you looking for on here? Be honest not only with yourself but to your friends online.
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yeah, show her what you've posted!! Or rephrase it in a letter. Maybe a poem if you're creative? You could arrange to have a bouquet sent to her, or think of other things you could do. An easy one is to send her an e-card. Aw, nice to hear that there are some men out there who are all loved up and adore their women!
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hey, leave it out guys he wrote "in love" he's distinguishing between saying he loves her and being "in love". so u say she's great and u must be feeling the butterflies in your tummy and everything.. i know that feeling, i'm still feeling it after six months and loving every minute of it..and i'm glad i took the risk...i wanted to bail at the start because i had been burned badly in the past and was afraid of the really strong feelings i was feeling..afraid of being hurt again\nbut there's no fun without the risk...and there's never a guarantee\n\ntake the chance, enjoy your time with her, if she's as great as u say she is then she won't treat u as a doormat and take advantage of u, love is a two way street... she'll be thrilled to have found a partner who's not afraid to show his feelings!\n\nand it'll work out...\n\nand if it doesn't be glad of the time u had together, of the feelings u felt.. i never thought that i'd be able to open up and let someone in.. but i could and i did and it was the best thing i ever did..\n\ncut the girl some slack, sounds like she's worth it...enjoy the time and good luck :)
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First of all...huh?             Whats the question again?       *Question mark*\n\nOhhhh wait a minute, when you say "brake down" do you mean when your trying to break it down to them and tell them the truth...WAIT A MINUTE, i think i understand the question. Ok. He really means: WHAT DO YOU DO if YOUR GirlfrienD CAN"T COME TO MEET YOU ON VALEnTinEs DAY? There, now everyobody knows what your talkin about. My answer to that question is, you can send her a valentines day card through the mail, and send her and ecard. Also, send her a bouqet of flowers. That way, she will know that and that you didn't forget about her. OH and SEND her a POEM! Girls love poems! At least i do.
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talk to her about exactly how you feel. give her a girlfriend gift that will mean very special to her. apologize and always make her laugh. i believe you're a true friend. good luck!!!! ; )
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I am a honest person and speak out loud alot. You should tell her how you feel; you will be relieved. I can not hold nothing down and you should SPEAK UP.\n\nGood Luck!!!
208831
U NEED 2 TALK.FOLLOW DA CLOSURE THEORY.TELL HER HOW MUCHU LOVE HER.MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL.TELL HER U LOVE HER NOT BCOZ OF WAHAT SHE IS BUT WHO SHE IS.TRUST ME DUDE .ITS GONNA WORK.ALL DA BEST!
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Too bad we can't tell her just how much you don't deserve her. For all you know she could be the most loving person you ever met. If she isn't your type, just say so. Don't slur her, it isn't called for.
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start with telling her about having difficult talking to her.  Share what you are thinking instead of letting it make you go crazy. \n\n"I know its crazy, but since we have been dating I have a hard time thinking of what to say.  Do you feel the same way?"
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Do you have two girlfriends?\n\nOK none of my business. \n\nWhen at all possible, phrase your statements as "I feel" statements (NOT "I feel you don't call")--I feel better when we talk everyday, I love knowing you're thinking about me too--rather than "you do" statements (even Why "you do" statements/ and especially not "you always/you never" statements). Those kinds of statements are sure to get a better reaction.\n\nIf you're the one replying--assume the best of people. Assume they care, and they're asking because they do. When in doubt, try this phrase "I'm sure you didn't mean that the way it sounded." It assumes the best, it gives them a chance to rephrase and it gives you the chance to calm down. If you have the phrase stuck in your head, you'll start to use it automatically when people say something "wrong." Maybe you won't even have to say it, you'll just know it and reply accordingly.\n\nTwo other points: Sometimes when people feel guilty about something, they get very touchy when confronted on it. And, I'm assuming the conversations are taking place in a language you both speak better than your English. (I don't want to offend you, but yeah, your grammar's a bit off, so I am only pretty sure I know what you mean, if you know what I mean? If you're carrying on an actual relationship in a language you're not fluent in, that's a whole other question.)
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try "you're beautiful" by james blunt. it's perfect because it suggests that you love her and you think she's gorgeous, but you're not sugesting that you be together. if you do want to be together, then give her a little look during the song and smile at her so she knows exactly what you're saying. it may sound confusing now, but trust me, it'll work.
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being careful of what you say to her and just listening out for the things that she says to you. let her come to you now not the other way around. you have already expressed yourself and now knows how you feel. now she needs a little time to think about the moves that she is going to make. act par when you are around her and keep par conversations so that she feels comfortable all most as if nothing was ever said. \n\nbasically when she brings it up than you can bring it up if nothing is said than do not say anything at all.
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WOW.  I feel that same way right about a girl.  I never told her though.  Now I regret that and am trying to contact her.  I think about her constantly.  She meant so much to me and I wish she would know that.  She is smart, nice, caring, and so beautiful.  She is my dream girl in reality.  Seriously.  We didn't talk that much (I'm kinda shy) but when we did, they were unforgettable.  I can tell you exactly what she said each conversation.  I like her so much.  I've had girlfriends, but she is totally different.  I really want to go out with her.  I gotta find her.  Well that's my story.  Hope you like it.
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OMG you are smart and know exactly what to say. Just show the boyfriend this question on your computer. He just has to be as smart and nice as you and then he will understand. If you can't show him, you can talk and tell him how you feel. Just set up a special time together to talk and tell him same as you told all of us here. We are all here for you and hope you go ahead and let him know. Good luck