i have an Ex-Boyfriend, and he's so sweet,but a few months ago I broke up with him. The other day, i got a forwarded message from my friend saying that my true love will come back if I send the message to 5 other people. So I thought about it for a while, and I didn't send it to anyone. I guess it's because, I'm still mad at him. Or maybe it's because I still love him and I don't know what to do about it. Will someone help me figure out what to do. Someone please give me advice, I need it desperatly!
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Sweety, you have tofollow your heart, Im in the same boat, except if my ex would have me back, I would go running to him, I dont have to think about it I know what I want Im just scared to tell him because what if he rejects me!!!  So just take your time right now to think about what you really truly want, why did you break up, is it worth it, will things be different, what is your heart saying?  good luck...xxx
66744
I think that you should just tell him how you feel... because you will always play the "what-if" game.  You are jealous that his girlfriend is getting something that you once had and will always lust over.  He was probably your soulmate and you gave it all away when you broke off your communication.  Should have just gone with the long distance thing.  You should talk to him... maybe he feels the same way.  By the way, what is the new distance between u two?
661081
My b-friend and his ex talked the whole first year him and I were together.  She too broke up with him and I knew she really hurt him.  It drove me crazy too.  1)  I had to decide if I trusted my b-friend or not.  If I didn't trust him then I shouldn't b with him.  \n2) If the two of them ended up together then him and I weren't meant to be.  \nWe've been together for a little over a year, the ex has faded quickly.  Just hang in there, she's an ex for a reason.
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Love is like that, we tend to go to things that we are familiar with.  I'm not saying it's the ideal thing to do, but I don't think it's as bad as it seems to you right now.  You shared an intimate personal moment with someone that you had many with in the past.  I say not to make a big deal of it and take it for what it was.  If it was something that brings you guys together again, then congrats.  If it was a quickie from someone that you trust, then I still say congrats, we all are not so lucky.  Don't worry about just relish in the positives of it.
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OK first of all vow to never vow that you will never date again! and i had them same thing happen to me, calm down things will get better.Just because you have gotten hurt so many times doesn't mean all guys are bad. You just need to move eon, you don't love him you just had lust for him, i know you hate hearing that because everyone hate hearing it. Just remember this little thing, nothing lasts forever so,live ti up drink it down avoid bull sh** and have no regrets cause a t one point what you did was exactly what you wanted. I f he cheated on you then he is not worthy of you! The only reason he cheated on you was because he had to make himself look good and make you look like the innocent type that can be easily broke and tamed. Never get to attached until yopu are absoultely sure that person would do nothing to hurt you, a way you can do that is ask ur friends to see what he says to his friends. I did that with my bf and they said he always talked about me and this other chick. Thats how i got the hint that he was cheating and then i dumped him b4 he could hurt me.All you nned to do is watch out
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Well, Ms. Badass.. You're not a badass after all.\n\nYou haven't told us the reason for the breakup other that "I was really hurt".. What does that mean?  Did he meet another girl that is better looking, more intellegent than you?? Of course not!! No one is better than you.. Remember, you're a badass!\n\nIf he really cares for you and if he hurt you in anyway.  Then it is up to him to apologize to you and try to win your heart back, if he has any type of decency in his bone.  If not, I say... Good riddance..  Pick yourself up and get someone better.  Don't get into the habit of yoyoing back to someone who has hurt you in some way (unless it is just a simple misunderstanding).  \n\nIt is natural to want him back since you miss that companionship and everything that comes with it. But you will have to understand within yourself if you really want him (he, who has hurt you) back or move on to greater things!
676544
It sounds cool to me.  I have multiple ex bfs in my phone and I would never cheat on a guy even if I was unhappy with the relationship.  Unfortunately sometimes ex contact is necessary.  Don't fret.
464701
If the guy respects you, that's great. I wouldn't go back to your ex who doesn't want a real relationship, but if you don't like your current boyfriend then you don't have to go out with him. I'm sure one day you'll find a guy you like a lot AND who respects you as well. Don't think this guy you're dating now is the only one in the world so you might as well stay with him. Basically, follow your heart, and good luck!
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He probably didn't want the akwardness of the situation....plus if he is your EX why would you stop to talk to him while you have your boyfriend with you, and he has his FIANCEE with him?  Its understandable if you guys still keep in touch but there is no need to cause drama with someone he is willing to Marry and possibly start a family with.  My advice would be to forget about him and move on, Im sure thats what your boyfriend and your Ex's Fiancee would like as well!  And if you see him again just smile and keep walking!
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I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
617444
Dear ___,How are you?I have tried introducing your friend to many of my single friends who have liked him alot though hes not regularly in touch with them neither has given me any feedback.Though i volunteered for this i would kindly like to excuse myself this time around due to a personal family friend(some reason).I wish your friend good luck and thanks for passing this message to your friend.Love,Your name.
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I'm sorry about your breakup, I know things like this can be hard and no matter what people say, we always want things to come out the way we hope it does. \n\nBut it seems like, almost a year is going by, and no progress.  Do you realize that if you keep trying to get back with someone who doesn't want you, you may miss the one intended for you?  It seems like it's really over between the two of you, and maybe it's time to move on and spend some time recovering from your breakup.  Then get back into the dating field and see what happens.  \n\nI hope you find who you are looking for, because it isn't this other girl.  \n\nGood Luck!\n:)
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Honestly if you still love ur ex dont cheat the new person out of finding someone that loves them entirely. I mean would you want someone to treat you with half of their time and attention cause that is what you will really be doing especially if you start hangin with your ex and you have the feelings still. You will cheat. I would honestly break up up with the new person to prevent hurting them and dont run back to your ex because there was obviously some isues as to why you guys broke up in the first place. So just stay single you can still talk to your ex and communicate to solve the problem and then maybe try being together or you have to decide that you guys are better as friends and thats its. That way when you are with someone else and your ex wants to hang out it will be as friends and you dont diss your friends. I speak cause I have been there and done that. Trust me. make sure that you are completely over your ex though, otherwise you will be in a world of hurt
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DAMN gurl thats the same thang going on wit me! well i think we still like our ex's. we just are being ignorant and trying to avoid them topop up in our heads, y? cuz we regret going out wit them in a way, but at the same time we dont! were mad we broke up and just think we hate them but we dont!!! and trust me it wasnt luv gurl, u still got a lot of yo life left, ull find ur true luv! \n\nhope this helped \nkarina\nnina02-atx@yahoo.com\nps: did yall eva do sumthin that when u think of it u wish u arent thinking of it for sum reason? maybe thats whats bothering u! its botheirng me!
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Maybe you should take your mind off boys and relationships for the moment.\n\nHave you given thoughts to your own career? Set your own priorities right.\n\nLet me share what someone told me when I parted with my first love (so many years ago)\n\n"If you love something, let it go.\nIf it comes back, then it is yours to keep.\nIf it did not come back, it was never yours in the first place"\n\nThink about it. Good luck. :)
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Have you told him you want him back? Also, I think it would be a good idea if you told him you can't stop thinking about him. Make sure to say your sorry and that you were confused. Tell him that you will not hurt him if he gives you a second chance.\nGood Luck Girl!
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LISTEN TO ME...STOP CRYIN'!!!!\nIF YOU HEARD THE MESSAGE THAN YOU ALREADY KNOW WHERE THIS GUYS HEADS AT....AND TRUST THIS....IF SOMEONE HAS TO SAY SORRY FOR SOMETHING THEY'VE DONE...WELL, THE QUESTION YOU SHOULD BE ASKING IS....WHY WOULD ANYONE THAT TRULY CARED ABOUT ME DO SOMETHING TO HURT ME IN THE FIRST PLACE....SORRY, IS NOT PART OF A GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.... PEOPLE THAT ARE IN LOVE SHOULD ALWAYS BE THINKING ABOUT THE PERSON THEY LOVE AND HOW THEY WOULD FEEL ABOUT WHAT THEIR DOING.  IF PEOPLE SCREW UP AND HURT THE ONE THEY LOVE THAN .... MAYBE THEY AREN'T FIRST PRIORITY AND EITHER ARE THEIR FEELINGS...SOUNDS LIKE YOUR LOVER IS A SELFISH JERK AND YOU SHOULD PROBABLY SEND HIM PACKING.  TELL HIM TO CALL THAT OTHER GIRL... AND YOU GIVE ALL THAT LOVE TO SOMEONE WHO DESERVES IT  AND GIVES YOU THE SAME LOVE BACK~~~GOOD LUCK BUCK~SHOT~~~