i love a nice girl but she could not love me
208423
you can't make someone love you..they either do or they don't. just remember that if you are willing to give true love that you deserve it in return. Don't settle for anything less.
247113
Wow!!! Are you for real!! Seriously, you're a nice perfect guy and now you want your girlfriend to be nice and perfect too. If this girl is so important to you and vice versa, then maybe she can make a little effort to change herself and you can try to be a bit more tolerant. A little compromise from both of you can take this relationship places but dont expect perfection. Good luck!!
101635
There are many forms of love and they are all very powerfull.  What you need to be is patient but also realistic. How long are you going to wait sans a life for this girl? Go find you a girl that likes you as much as you like that girl and realize you need someone that loves you just as much as you love them.
302066
Always a tough call.\n\nYou have to examine your feelings for her and respect that she told you that she cannot see you in that way.\n\nContinue to be pleasant and polite to her and just have her be a good friend.\n\nYou should find another who is willing to reciprocate the love you have to give. She will understand this decision that you have made and you can still be friends.
283567
you have to think about why it is that you feel this way. why do you think you aren't good enough for her. once you figure this out you can start the healing process within yourself. it's okay to argue.. it's part of life. the tough part is how you are going to handle it and manning up to any mistakes you may have made. that is the true test of a relationship. this doesn't mean that you don't deserve her. if anything.. she's putting you on to things so you are aware how you are hurting her, yourself, and the relationship. if she says she loves you .. believe it. communication is the key. have a talk with her and try to sort out your feelings. if you really love her .. try and work it out. but you gotta trust her. live and let go.. easier said than done.. but you'll be happier in the long run with the one you love.. hope it helps..
428680
Well, I've had that problem before and its not fun. Just take a chance at the relationship but don't promise anything, you never know where life will take you. Tell her you cant promise her anything, but just taken a chance. It could be the best thing you ever do.
210755
thats just the thing,if she loves u then there is no way u can do it without hurting her.she will hurt.but what u need to do is tell her what u have just told me.tell her that u dont think she is the one and that u think that she will find someone who will love her verry much.tell her that u love her but ur not in love with her(if thats the case)let her know all of this cause the longer u wait the harder it will be to do.but just try ur hardest to let her know how u feel and try to make her understand how u feel and understand that she will find someone else who will love her and she will love back.good luck and hope it works out
284277
you seem like such a lovely guy and to be honest.. from what you have said   that girl does not deserve you.. You deserve someone who will love you as much as you love her.. and im sure she's out there somewhere.. it seems like this girl is keeping you on standby just incase things don't work out with the other guy..and even if she does loose this guy she will have another on standby sooner or later...she knows your too good for her and she's taking advantage of it!!please do yourself a favour and start the process of letting her go now cause it will take time .. and time heals!! and the one thats right for you will come along after you have healed from this girl.You derserve better and i think you know it !!It's not worth loving someone who doesn't do the right thing by you hun!It eventually makes your heart turn cold!
187462
It's so hard to believe you don't love her. This is because you don't love her and still don't want to hurt her feelings. You are a really nice guy and I mean it.\n\nBut since you are sure you don't love her, it's time you tell her this immediately rather than waste her time. Tell her it just wasn't meant to be. You two can be great friends after your breakup too. All the Best pal.
168052
neither. clearly you don't have Strong enough feelings for either girl, so move on to another girl who has everything you want, don't settle for mediocrity, even at you age. if you develop good habits like this now you will save yourself a world of trouble when you get older when it really counts.
274068
Too bad we can't tell her just how much you don't deserve her. For all you know she could be the most loving person you ever met. If she isn't your type, just say so. Don't slur her, it isn't called for.
132253
Maybe it is not that kind of love.  Find a way to spend more time with her and make sure before you just lay it on her and completely blow her mind.
258376
Apparently, you never loved her.  You were into the chase for her.  You have hurt her badly.  As a person, you will need to grow from this and explain to her about your feelings.  She will feel betrayed by you.  She probably knew that you were not serious, but your persistance made her second guess herself and accept you as a boyfriend.  Know you have thrown this in her face.  Very sad.
631197
well is she a b*tch personality wise? if she is then its obvoiusly your guts are telling you to not love a person because of her looks, but because her personality. if she is a nice girl with a nice body, then its you who is tooo spoiled to have almost everything a guy wants and your not being thankful for it. just wait until the break up comes, thennnn youll really get it.
480093
Sorry, but you cannot make anyone love you.  If she wants your friend, you are not going to be able to convince her that she wants you instead.  Besides, if you introduced the two of them, presumably you wanted them to like each other.  It would be really sh-tty of you now to try to undo that.\n\nAll you can do at this point is to stand by and let things run their course.  People tend to forget that all relationships end at some point.  (Well, if you are lucky, you find one that doesn't, but all the others do.)  So, stand back, be supportive of your friend and the girl, and wait to see what happens.  Almost certainly, they will fizzle out somewhere along the line.  If you stay friendly, but on the outside, she may eventually look at you again, and discover that there is a really cute, nice guy that she overlooked.\n\nGood luck!!
187202
Yes she loves you. She probubly loves alot of people. She sounds like a kind person.  That is probubly what attracts you to her.  but unless she dumps her boyfriend for you she probubly doesn't love you the way you think.  take care to cherish your friendship.  they are hard to come by.
221312
How about for now just let her have her space,you cannot force a girl to love you,but you could be kind to her,be there for her when she needs you and then she will slowly start to relize how she feels,also,don't just stick with her,there may be someone else for you,you never know,for now just keep in touch with her and tell her she will be in your mind while you are in London,hopefully she will feel the same way for you in the future,good luck.^^