I have dreams of a certain person which are really enjoyable.  I think about him alot.  He has no idea! I have no intentions of making anything of it.  How do you stop have thoughts or feelings which are soooo appealing and bring you into such a blissful state?
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Everyone has dreams..........just don't act on them.  We are all human...
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Trust.  You feel that you can share all your thoughts and feelings with that person.  You can talk about the evil things you did, your future dreams, and the things you are scared about.  You can trust that person with your deepest secrets.\n\nRespect.  You respect that person.  You care what they think because you value them and their opinions.\n\nYou enjoy spending time with them.  You are at ease and comfortable in their presence (that is... when there isn't a strong sexual tension ; )\n\nThere's probably a myriad of other factors... but that's what I think of when I think of love.
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dreams do not always mean what they are about. they are more of subconcious memorys. \nwhat do you do?  what can you do?
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I'm so glad you asked this question! I've always done this and I was always too afraid to mention it to anyone. Mine is like a whole different life but it's me. The life continues every night like I'm actually living it. I've had the same "movie" going and progressing for a few months now. When one life gets boring, I create a whole new scenario in my head of an ideal life and fantasize about that life until it gets boring(They usually last months at a time). I use this to fall asleep also. It's the only way I've found calm my mind enough to sleep. Thanks for easing my worries and I hope my and the other's answers help ease your worries. :^)
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When you repeatly dream of something, that must either be very special or your are emotionally rooted to it. You see, you may not conciously thinking about it but dreams are not like that. Dreams happened unconciously. And those that we dream can be the things that we are unconciously thinking, worrying or often ponder. Forgetting those people we hate doesn't necessarily means discarding that feeling of hate. And we cannot stop hating if we don't do anything about it. I know so because I've been there.\n\nDon't worry, those dream will eventually change. Like it did to me. It's hard to forgive a person if they don't want to forgivess. And its hard to forgive if they're not asking for it. I don't blame you for hating them.
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try to think of a person that makes you feel the opposite of the song thats in your head.  it works for me.  = )
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That happens to me too. I do not know what kind of dreams is she having, but mine are not sweet dreams. I have a friend how is experiencing the same as , we have talked about it and concluded the dreams are happening because we had bad relationships, we were traumatized and need to work on that because the memory of those bad relationships and bad experiences are haunting us.
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It is normal! Its like a "what if" type of problem. I think our subconscious asks what would happen if we were together. And if you care about someone you cant turn those feelings off or erase them. Your normal. Take care!!
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When I was 16 (I'm 19 now) I was madly in love with a guy from school. He broke my heart, and I was so devestated. I was insanely depressed for 3 weeks and after 2 months appeared happy but I was still so miserable inside. I was obsessed. I couldn't stop thinking about him for even a SECOND. I spent a year of my life with him on my mind, 24/7. Sometimes I'd wake up in the night and not be able to go back to sleep because his memory was so painful and I couldn't get him off my mind. Even when the pain of losing him was gone a few months later, I still felt anger about the situation.\n\nYou want to know when everything disapeared? 2 1/2 years later while at work, I looked to my right and the most gorgeous guy walked in the room. At that moment, my ex's memory disapeared. My mind returned to normal. I fell in love again.\n\nUntil something of that nature happens to you, start going out with friends. Surround yourself with people. Keep yourself busy AT ALL times. TRY to not think about her (even though I know how impossible it can be). Eventually, time will heal your pain.
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When your 1st thought of the day is of him.When it's only been a couple of hours and you miss him already.\nWhen you can picture yourself growing old with him.\nWhen his feelings matter so much that you are saddened when you inadvertently say something that offends or saddens him,and it hurts your heart and you must fix it immediately.\nWhen you live to hear him laugh and see him smile.\nWhen you believe in him even when others don't.\nWhen your happy just because he is.\nWhen the last thought you have when you go to bed is of him..and the fact that you cannot wait to spend more time with him.
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Some dreams are our subconcious telling us something were afraid of, something we feel guilty of , someone we miss, there are alot of different way to interpert dreams, especially if you are remembering this one, you may take a closer look and try and sort it out.
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Too much aspirin can cause this side effect. I myself am a very intuitive person, but I never have thoughts of others. i just know what they're thinking. This really sucks because I hate knowing what people think about things and my partner, she gets really upset with me because I do this with her, but I am always right. These thoughts are your thoughts. But, if your intuitive, then listen to the thoughts and find out if they coralate with where you are, or who you are talking with.
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Do you think about him a lot? Do you find yourself wanting to be with him? Wanting him besides you? Does he make u laugh? Do u like how he makes u feel when ure with him? Hopefully those helped. \n\nI must say tho- I dont think u like him. If u like someone- U KNOW. If u had to think about it, then Im sure u dont.
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I watched a discovery channel show on this topic (dreams) and was really fascinated, the reason that you can do unheard-of things in your dreams is bc the part of your brain that tells you that something is impractical shuts down when you sleep but certain thoughts that you thought the day before and weren't able to find a solution for might pop up in your head while you're asleep and because at this time your brain can't tell whats practical adn impractical, you find a way to do it that subconsiously seems to be a good choice. as far as the controlling your dreams goes, it can be a part of what people call "out-of-body" experinces, neurologists say that it's very hard to do but certain people (like you apparently) have been able to do things that they want to do in their dreams. scientists havent even touched the slight capabilities of the human brain, i guarante that. like deja vu and thinking about a song on the radio and then it comes on, its all things that most people think to be coincidences but after some study of occurences, scientists are starting to think it might be some form of brain function that humans haven't learned to controll yet. I, being a Christian, think that God gave us so much more than we know of, think about when man first walked the earth, they knew nothing about dreams or the brain or any of it until God told them in one way or another. \nThis is one of my favorite topics of science as you can prolly tell but I hope this helps.
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It's not the dream part that should bother you but the fact that he does want to sleep with her in real life.  I give him credit for admitting that to you.  If he is serious about it then you might want to reconsider his devotion and feelings towards you.  It's one thing to fantasize about others but another to be willing to act upon it if given the chance.
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You know you don't want to not think about it!!  You know you keep thinking about what I do to you....how's that for a 'brain exercise'?
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You have always been making things happen.  We make our own reality, individually, and as a race.  But before you start thinking you can harm someone with your thought: we each have a natural psychic defense, a protection.  \n\nYou do dream, but they apparently are quite deep, and so cannot be consciously recalled.  \n\nGo find books by Jane Roberts...they will help.