I have tryed to talk to him and he wont discuss a negogation to the matter in hand.  All he says is 'that he is in a raid' on the game and he will discuss it with me later.  I think he thinks the games a temporary thing, and i will always be here for life.  I am fed up he dont respect me.  What can id ? it is not as easy as just throughing him out on the streets.
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The best thing for you to do not discuss it anymore because he's expecting it and to start paying more attention to your needs. Such as, going out to dinner, getting your nails done, taking a class, voluntering at a local hospital, something that is positive and will show him that hey, you have a life and you're not going to bother him with anymore questions. All because you have better things to do.
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It takes two to argue, and I've found the best way to deal with a chronic arguer is to ignore their comments.  Assuming that Ralph doesn't like to argue with Bob and just gets caught up in it, I would talk with Ralph and see if he would agree to just ignore the "bait" that Bob might be throwing down to get him into an argument (probably won't be easy to do that).  Or maybe the group should just get together and tell Bob and Ralph exactly what you all think of their constant bickering.  Hopefully they'll stop.
510163
Sit him down and talk to him.\nI've been in exactly the same situation recently. After a  screaming match with my wife I just sat down with her and voiced my concerns. She loves me enough to accept what I said and is making changes. I hope he can do the same.
304752
What a jerk!!! You really need to stop trying.  Maybe once you stop trying he will wonder and come back...but I guarantee it will only be temporary.  If he were really a friend he would not do that to you.  I am SO sick and tired of players...that's what he is...a player and you don't need him.  I'm sure you have lots of other IM and Myspace friends to chat with...give it a couple weeks and you'll feel better about it...but I know it's hard!!!!  Hang in there and be strong. :)
153254
i don't think you guys are being very nice making fun of her english - she's obviously going through a tough time right now!  If he's run away from you I don't know that theres a lot you can do.  If you are in contact with his family maybe you could ask them for support - see if they know anything and if they can talk to him for you, he hasn't behaved very well and you deserve at least an explanation from him - good luck!
423517
Why not talk to him?\n\nExplain to him just what you've told us. He issued an invitation that you declined and you are uncomfortable with his actions since then.\n\nExplain that you don't want to file charges against him and would rather find ways to work together without the silliness.
256964
The guy doesn't respect you as a player, probably because you're female and that would make him a male chauvinist pig. Another reason might be that he thinks he's the only good player on this team and will hog the ball to shoe how "great" he is. In either case, you should speak to the coach about him. He will probably be a smuck even after the coach speaks to him, so good luck. If it continues and the coach doesn't remedy this you may have to approach the local district sports board.
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I think the coaches were out of line.  They thought they were motivating him, when actually they were tearing him down.  Not all children/people respond well when they are being yelled at all, not very constructive.  Their actions could cause the opposite affect they desire.  Rather than motivate, they chase them away from the sport.  There is a fine line, especially with children playing sports.  You know your little guy and what makes him respond.  If I were you I would talk with all the coaches.  Explain that you didn't raise your child with verbal assaults.  Tell them that you are concerned that they will push him away from the sport rather than help.  Let them know that you don't expect for your child to babied but nurtured.  Suggest taking him out of the game the next time he messes up, rather than verbally embarassing him.  If your son really wants to play he will do the best he can to continue playing.  Another thought would be to get the opinions of other players parents, if they agree, try as a group to discuss this with the coaches.  The only reason I suggest this is if the coaches are jerks your son could pay for your chat with the coaches.  He could be teased and degraded as being a momma's boy when your not around.  Don't act offended of the situation but as a concerned parent who wants her child to excel in the sport.    Being a sports freak myself, I feel that these days people are going overboard when it comes to sports.
594763
I have found that when I try to hold a grudge it's usually harder if that person is making an effort to be cool wit me.  I think you should probably send him a card a explain exactly what you've explained here.  Give him a day or 2 to chew on it then try calling him.  If after that he's still holdin a grudge F*ck him.  It'll be more trouble than its worth.
115166
Just ignore him.  He is being childish and playing games with you.  If he wants something from you then he needs to be man enough to come right out and talk to you.  If he can't then he isn't worth your time.
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He's 15 and isolates himself with the WOW which has alot of adults living out fantasy. Sounds like he needs to be disconnected and brought back into the real world. If you must get him something it might be more memory or another computer because I have heard that WOW is really hard on a system and can easily take it over with all of the stuff that needs to be stored. I also understand why he would be interested in that game because it looks interesting and unpredictable however, it sounds like yours has gone beyond using it for recreation and is HOOKED. Not a good thing for such a young one.
323885
You should show him that you are a team player and a hard worker.  Explore your weaknesses in the game and improve upon them.  Maybe you could even ask him for help in those areas.  Always be supportive of your team and don't be a complainer.
534300
Ask the guy who threatened your date and asks all the nosey questions if he ate paint chips as a child, and suggest that he was very nice to get you two together, but his work is done. Thank him and tell him to go play Cupid with someone else...the 'date' is a tottally different thing. He's freaked out about this clown that's trying to live vicariously through you two. Try sending him a message detailing what you think is going on and ask him what he'd like to do from now on. That's all you can do
20055
people who don`t wanna be helped, can`t be helped...U could try talking to him...but I have a feeling he`d only get angry if U did. try to find some other subject to talk to him about, something safe, but from which U can get to this subject in a way that it seems like that`s the natural course of conversation...and depending on his reaction, U take it from there...it would help for U to offer to go with him...
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Has he always had this habit of inactivity?  If not, I'd suggest you actually try to get him to talk about it.  \n\nCould be because he has physical and/or emotional reasons, and the best thing you could do is 1)  tell him you genuinely want to know why because you're concerned, 2) promise you're not going to try and "fix" him, and 3) keep you promise - close your mouth and listen to what he has to say.
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I had a guy do that to me until I quit for a while and use another avatar and started over.  when he got lost i came back because I had so many points.  Some guys like to be bullys and they think they can scare you off.  I will help you who is it, we can do it to him.  Probably the same one I had he was a real jerk.
238084
Sounds like a game, call him back if you like playing them.  Don't call him back if you don't like playing games.  Sounds like he needs to grow up some.