What will you do if you and your (partern)two have friends in common that are a couple, but you saw her husband cheatting on her (making out) in the car with some one else will you tell your friend even if you don't know  how is she going to react ( either she believe you or not) you might lose her friendship or maybe she will thank you and kick her husband butt, what to do ???
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Please tell!  Losing a husband can hurt.  Losing a husband and a friend is worse.  What if she finds out you knew and didn't tell her?  Try it this way, start off with a deep conversation about love and marriage then ask her if she saw your partner cheating would she tell you.  Then ask her if she would want you to tell if her husband is cheating on her.  Go from there.  Don't let this man waste her life if he's not interested.
243747
i think you should tell your friend cos if you'll are true friends she will know that you are doing this in her best interest i am saying this because my best friends boyfriend was doing the exact same thing to her and i told my friend that she needs to put her foot down and confront her boyfriend cos if he truly loved her he wouldn't treat her that way.  it's harsh but sometimes you have to be firm with the people you really care about.
206993
Been there with my best friend. She did that to me a few times, but I finally had enough and told her if she didn't find her own men, I was not going to be around her anymore. Its a trust thing: You trusted her with the knowledge that you liked this guy, and she went ahead and screwed around with him....Not Cool!!\n\nHowever, if the guy didn't know you like him, then its not his fault. If he did, he holds half the blame.\n\nI'd do the same thing again with my best friend, I'd let her have it! My best friend decided that she'd rather be my friend than have anyone I liked!!...GL;)
606649
I vote, forgive AND forget. Why else would you bother calling her your BEST friend rather than just a friend? Take a chance, a risk. I think she's worth it. We all make mistakes.
381435
omg u poor dear. i know u wanna do the right thing, but it seems that by doing the right thing, ull hurt innocent people.. its a really difficult situation and what u gta is tell ur friend right away to make it clear to this married guy that nothing can ever happen and her to tell him that its wrong for him to ever consider cheating when he's got a wonderful life and family as it is. if this doesnt work, then u may have to approach his wife. i know its horrible, but its worse to have her and the kids be led on by this lie and hurt even worse later on when they find out. i really hope some miracle happens and this whole problem somehow works itself out. best of luck for whatever u chose to do and i commend u for trying to fix what u see is horribly wrong.
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Would you want her to tell you if your boyfriend had cheated on you?  I know I would want to know.  Friend's look out for each other.  Just make sure it's not just a "rumor" first... if it is a fact then yes, tell her.
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Darling,\nYou've done your bit and you are a real friend for that. There's nothing else you can do but beeing there for him when he'll realize she's been cheating.\nI wish I had friends like you!
300753
Absolutely but make sure your information is correct and also be prepared for them to be in denial.  A lot of people don't believe that THEIR partner could possibly cheat but you wouldn't be a true friend if you didn't try.  When it comes to things like this always put yourself in their shoes.  Wouldn't you expect them to tell you if the situation were reversed?  It would worse if they found out later from someone else and found out that you knew and didn't tell them.
661012
fu*k both of them. if hes cheating he needs to be booted and if she is messing with your man then she was never really your friend to begin with.
99253
Think to yourself...Is casual sex with my wife's best friend going to hurt or enhance my marriage? You must hate your wife to even consider doing something that would cause her nothing but heart-ache and embarrassment
660546
It's understandable that you are afraid to tell your friend because she can get mad at you for accusing her bf of cheating but you still need to tell her. Don't say it in a factual way like you for a fact that he is cheating on her but say it like you think but you aren't sure. That way, she will probably be a little more aware and pay attention to what he does.
587794
Man! That's a tough one! But the fact of the matter is that the boyfriend was cheating! Doesnt matter if it was with another man, woman or she-male. So I would kick some butt then dump the boyfriend.
527872
I was actually in this situation. I told my sister that I saw her husband kissing a girl in his work place. She called me a liar and didn't speak to me for a year. She called me to come and get her and her son. She was pregnant and he had run off to California with the same girl I saw him with. So if this person were to tell his sister, he needs to be prepared to take some punishment.
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Well, when we know that a guy is married, we just got scared abouth the possible reaction of his wife, we don't want to get involved in those situations that only cause troubles 4 the couple and that everybody is hurt.\nThere's another reason: (My own experience) When two people have a friendship, even when one of them is married it doesn't necessary mean that never could happen something between them, I mean.. with the time of knowing this person U/she could fall in love or confusse the terms.\nI'm telling U this because I was in that situation, I'm not married but I live with someone since 4 years ago, I met someone, in the beginning I was just his friend and tryed to be nice, he was really nice to me too, but with the time I started to feel something really different and to see this guy not only as a friend, but also as someone who could have another kind of relationship with me, I even started to want him to make love to me..\nThat was really wrong! Nothing happened, he respected the fact I'm with someone else.\nBut my point is: is it really possible... I mean.. to be just friends?
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I agree totally with ft402003, and I might add that I was just platonic friends with my husband for TEN LONG YEARS before we knew we loved each other.  TEN YEARS!!!!  That is a long time, buddy.  My sister told me once that friends make the best spouses, and I thought YUCK!  But, she was totally right.  When you talk to your "friend", you might tell her to not be afraid to go a step further, and to not be repulsed by it.  Let her know that you are just as afraid as her.  But, whatever you do, don't let her get away.  It is better to tell her how you feel than to keep suffering.  And if she doesn't go for it, then it is HER loss.  Not yours.  HERS.
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If I were the guy, I would want to know. He sounds like he has morals and deserves much better than what he's getting. I wouldn't tell him until you have proof of what she is doing, that way she can't lie her way out of it and it would make things more believeable for him. If she gets mad, well she shouldn't be doing this to begin with, so she'd mad she got caught is most likely the real reason for her anger. Who knows what she could be passing on to the b/f and that's sad. If it were me in the situation and wondering whether to tell or not, I'd tell. I've been there and done that before and I have never once regretted it. I couldn't look someone in the eye knowing what I know that person should know and not tell. You and the b/f deserve better ppl in your lives.
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LOOK sweetie...married couples are gonna talk...period..you cant get mad at them for that...ask yourself would you get upset if your husband was talk ing to another women all the time??  friend or not i garauntee if its more than a simple hello then you wouldnt like it...as far as your friendship with the girl let her know that no harm was intended and you can still be friends I think...unless just sayinghi dont email him and mess...you might have been talking to him more than his wife was and that can make people uneasy...i would just be careful cuz truthfully he is not your friend he is your friends husband...i hope you can feel me...