i am whit her for 3 years and we had sex lots a times but i whant to pleasure her in evrey  way posible.
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OK here's what dramatically improved my technique.  Get this book called Guide to Getting it On (Amazon has) and do what it says.  But basically you want to realize that your tongue is capable of all kinds of subtle moves and strokes, and you want put a lot of teasing into it and suspense, not just zero in on the clit and go like a jackhammer.  Be unpredictable. Lick along the lenght of her lips, inner, outer the groove between, and only play a little at the clit and then go away again to something else...and then come back... keep her guessing.  Try different things with a pointy tongue, the broad flat of your tongue, short strokes, long strokes, slow strokes, fast strokes, curvy strokes, whatever.  And make sure you lick her thighs, right where they meet the crotch.  And after a while you can spend more time on her clit and the skin surrounding it, and you can actually suck her clit into your mouth, between your lips, and play with it with your tongue while it's in your mouth.\n\nYou don't need to go fast, that'l just tire you out. Go slow, and last for a long time, that's what she'll appreciate.
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it is only pleasurable if my lover likes it too.  if done right it is enjoyable for both. i love feeling her going wild, no matter what we are doing, is fun to have her peaking from so many different things, this is only one little part of lovemaking.
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I belive if you can make a woman feel sucure in you.That she can trust that you'll be there for her emotionally,good times and bad. that you can always help, or that she can help you.if she feels sucure, she may make the first move tword sex and chances are your  sex will be better. really liston to her and you'll know what to do
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The question you should be asking is WHY hasnt she wanted to have sex with you in 3 months ? Usually women dont want to have sex when they are being treated badly by their man.  Have you ever talked to her about it ? Start there rather than with your little head.
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She will get accustomed to it gradually, she will stretch to fit you.\nBut at first you have to help out by having lots of nice foreplay, \nusing good lubricants, and using positions that let her choose \nthe depth of penetration, or that limit penetration. Let her be on top.\n\nThere's a position guide here, I think you can read through and find ones that are good for less depth...
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Well she is probabley not used to having sex and you just need to take your time..........Just go a little farther each time you do it and it will get better and better I always say the bigger the better and the more pleasure................Good Luck..............
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What I think you should do is the same thing to her. Make sure that you get off first and then roll over and be done. I have to say that depending on how strong your relationship is will have to be the deciding factor as to if you really want to do this, I am a firm believer that if you don't have good sex a relationship probably won't work.
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Offer her oral pleasure.
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Ok, if you are not planning on doing this for 10 years, why are you asking now and how old are you.  And as for you both being virgins, I will say this, just go slow and make sure that she is enjoying it as well, and try not to leave her hanging because no matter what, you will be quick.
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do maximum fore-play with her.. and dont rush for intercourse.. defjietely she will like tahtt also shortly. encourage her for chatss and c couple of porn movies withh her \nbe patient
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Well if she is preggers, sex in the first trimester is kinda icky, to say the least at least it was for me and some other women ive talked to, if she thinks its lacking passion, maybe thats because she has it in her head shes not making love to you anymore shes making a baby with you, maybe thats how your treating it lately, Tell her if she wants passion,youll give her passion... make love to her like you did when you were first together, rediscover every inch of her body, remember that now you probably know how to get her from 0 to 60 in 5 minutes, take your time like you used to, get her to the point where shes close, and start to do something else, tease her with the idea of getting off, dont just hand a orgasum to her on a silver platter, think **here it is but you cant have it** trust me when my better half gets this attitude OMG its MINDBLOWING when he finally lets me have it ;) i hope that helps i know it works when this mentality gets used on me hehe :P
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Sounds like to me that shes doesn't get into it much.  Maybe she feels it is an obligation to have sex.  If you are a needy man and have to have sex all the time, she may feel like it is a chore.  Maybe you need wine and dine her.
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man, that`s so f*cking good ! \nbut that`s great by the way your ex is not normal also coz She felt pain after a 15-20 minutes of intercourse man you are fine !
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I AGREE WITH EVERY OTHER ANSWER, MAYBE YOU BETTER NOT APPROPACH THE SEX AS A SPORT ...\n\nMAYBE YOU BETTER UNDERSTAND THAT IF YOU ARE "WELL ENDOWED"\nyYOU MIGHT BE PROUD, AND NEED TO ACHIEVE YOUR OWN SATISFACTION,,  BUT FRANKLY WHEN ANY OF MY LOVERS WERE VERY]\nLARGE, IT WOULD BE  UNPLEASANT,, AND NOT EASY TO TAKE, AS YOU MAKE THEM  VERY SORE INSIDE, AND THE "THRILL I S GONE"\n\nWHETHER SHE FAINTED, OR SLEPT, GET THE HINT ENOUGH IS ENOUGH\nDONT USE HER LIKE A "CORPSE"  if she STOPPED, AND SAID NOTHING THAN THAT IS PRETTYY OBVIOUS SHE WAS TIRED, AND PROBABLY SORE,\nAND SHE IS NOT A PIN CUSHION,,\n\nHARD AND ROUGH SEX IS FINE IF BOTH PARTIES ARE UP TO IT, BUT IF ONE IS NOT ABLE TO KEEP THAT PACE, YOU SHOULD GIVE IT A REST,\n\nYOU WERE PROBABLY BORN WITH TEN FINGERS,  OR JUST LET IT GO AND BE GRATEFUL FOR THE CLOSENESS, AND THE PERSON LYING THERE] TRYING TO PLEASE YOU,,THAT WILLL TURN HER ON AGAIN\nIF YOU LET HER REST, CATCH UP TO YOUR ENERGY LEVEL,,\nHOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF SHE WAS AT A FAST PACE SHOVING SOMETHING INSIDE YOU....OUCH
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just be very careful and take it very slow, and be sure you use lubrication, yes it is possible for a woman to enjoy it that much, the first few times are rough, but it isn't bad after that.
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i feel you man--but if shes making you happy than make her happy aswell. it might be nasty but do it for once in a while. this is what i did, make a deal with her, for every 5 times she gives you head, you eat her out
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My girl is the same way and I am 23. It's sorta weird for me not to be in control of when we have sex. I believe if she didn't want to have sex so much then I would. Its a weird situation but I think its true.