I went on a blind date with this guy and right away I thought, "he's not at all cute." But 2 dates later I got curious (I wanted to see if they're was chemistry) and kissed him and wowwwww! We were both blown away! But I feel disappointed cuz I don't think he's cute. Am I being totally superficial?? Is this normal? Anyone else feel like this about someone?
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yes, but looks dont matter
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When I first met my husband I thought he was a total dork and wanted nothing to do with him (in that way).  We became great friends and somewhere down the road he became very attractive to me.  So I guess the answer to your question is yes.  I was not physically attracted to him at first, then when I really got to know him his outter beauty was magnified by his inner beauty.
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You are seeking that guy's approval in some way.  You want him to say you're cute too. It doesn't matter who the guy is - BTW - you need him to say something nice about you.  If I were you, I'd assess why you may feel the need to get the man's approval of your looks and why it feels not so good if a guy says another girl/woman is cute. Don't worry about it....just take a step back and look at yourself and how you feel.
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Yes I have felt empty inside and I sort of still do once in a while.  It's kinda weird because you keep asking yourself why do I feel this way?  I was valedictorian of my class and I always had a lot of friends around, but I still felt empty inside.  I would see all the couples around hugging and kissing and looking all happy and I would wonder why can't that happen to me?  It seemed like an acceptable guy would never like me. I concentrated on studying harder because I felt that was all I had.  I really wanted a boyfriend then I stopped thinking about it so much and I finally got one.  Hope you find who/what you are looking for! Good Luck!
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Love it blind, YES, definatly, when I fell in love, I fell in love with a screen! (internet friend), and he's not as good looking as I expected my partener will be, but my feelings for him are CRAZY and overwhelming, he's irresistable...!\nBut I dunno what happens to men when they fall in love, cause I am a girl, but all I can tell you is that they become like KIDS!
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I willingly went on a blind date with a guy who reminded me of E.T. ..... I was the one who felt like phoning home... does that count?
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You are beautiful no matter how you look. You are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud of yourself. I'm sure a right guy will come to you. \n\nI used to think I'm unattractive, and nobody asked me out. But when I say "F*ck this, I don't care what people think about me" and be myself, then my true love (now) just come right to me and say hi. See, ZI think guys got attracted by the woman's confidence, not their look. \n\nDon't rush. Congratulate yourself that you're still single. Don't you see us women who have bf always have to struggle and be hurt?
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of course u notice looks first ... then personality ..  if u think about it .... if the guy looks like frankenstien ..has 1 damaged eye.. but his personality is perfect ... come on ... u are not goin to date him ..or think twice about him
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i want to see a pic.  I understand how you feel.  Everyone tells me i'm cute but they all don't want to date me. I don't understand either.  I'm single and girls i like date guys who lie to them and treat them bad, but don't want to date a nice guy.
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you need to find one thing good about yourself, one thing that you apprecaite and like.  I recently gained some weight and felt disgusted about myself.  I used to attract guys because of the confidence i had.  After gaining all the weight i no longer had that confidence and found it hard to pick up guys.  So i askked someone what was one good thing about me.  They told me my eyes so i would always look at my eyes and then i would slowly bring in other thiungs about myself.  Noone is going to want to date someone with no self asteem even if you are attractive.  Confidence is the key.
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James, I would be glad to fill you in. One thing I like about other men is their attitudes clearly state "boy". Secondly, many men have attractive bodies (and each person has their own ideal "type"), as for personalities I like the funny and cute guys... if they're shy, that'll work too. Body parts that I like are the face (especially the eyes), and the back (although other gay men like other things.). When I see a cute man, I feel rather anxious. I feel like I want to talk to him, I feel like I want to ask him out, and I also feel sad that I live in a world where I can't just do that freely. Also, if I see a cute man but I'm around my step-dad (the one person in the world I can't come out to for some personal reasons), I feel angry that I might have missed my chance because I couldn't be "out" around him. Hope this helps. Contact me if this isn't clear enough for you.\nAloha,\nDavid
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Once Pitagora (if I correctly recall), said: "either way, you will regret it". I think that either way you will be happy, too. Given the distance, normally the guy is obliged to come meet you. For a girl to "expose" herself in such a manner... I guess he has some fantasies about you left in some corners of his brains... It is you who decides what step should take next, but if he mentioned that is still attracted by you, it's just normal for him to come show you this (not yet consumed) affection for you. I know that the fog persists in your mind... try to do whatever your heart tells you :)
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Fawning can resemble desperation, which is a major turnoff for me. I am intrigued by a man who acts like he doesn't need a woman but yet he is paying extra attention to me. This makes me think he might like me more than just any girl (crazy isn't it!). Keep me guessing, to a certain extent, and my desire level rises.
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What cracks me up is that we are all lumped together.  Not all men or women or fake.  And not all of us are stuckup.  I admit some are.  Usally the really pretty ones or real handsome men will be that way, but they are the ones I feel sorry for, I dont envy them at all.  I look deeper to your heart and that is where I find the beauty.  So please dont lump us all together.
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Assuming that I am single and he is single I'd be flattered. I'd think it was sweet and I'd consider seeing more of this guy who made me feel special.\nGood luck.
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Well this guy isn't exactly my soulmate but i hope in the future he will be.\nI love his personality, he is so sweet and i have never seen him cross. Hes a lovely guy and his smile brightens my day. \nxox
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Interesting, you should have mixed feelings. Of course you are going to feel terrible but his comments to you should make you feel a bit better. Some people live in dark when they are infatuated with someone.