our prom is coming up towards the end of this month.. and theres 2 guys ive been talkin to but i dont know which one to ask to prom..one i just  meet not to long ago at a club and we've been talkin ever since and the other ive known forever and we lost touch and then we got back in touch and have been talkin...but the guy i just meet is talkin about a relationship which idk about..and i dont wanna ask the other guy out and then this guy i just meet ask me out.. and the long time friend is soo much more good lookin then the guy i just meet and so much nicer well as far as i know.. but im not sure if he has a girlfriend or not.. I NEED HELP!! PLS SOMEONE HELP ME!!!
205624
Think about who you'd have more fun with. I went to my junior prom with just a male friend, not even a boyfriend. Have a good time, It doesn't have to end in a relationship, or even a kiss at the end of the night. Just dance, dress up and have fun!
453988
If you don't ask her anytime soon, someone else is going to and she'll say yes. What's worse than being rejected? She waiting for you to ask her but thought you wouldn't and ended up with another date. Go up to her and ask her if anyone has asked her to the prom then ask her if she'll go with you. Worry too much about being rejected and you won't get the girl.
630255
Of course he likes you, which is why he is going to such extremes to get the other guy out of the picture. IF you still like him, ask him out, and see for yourself. Good luck!! I miss high school issues sometimes. lol
347589
First let him know that its important to you that he goes and prom means more to you than he thinks it does. Well, if he's not going to go with you why not go with someone else? It might bother him to the point that he will go with you. Guys will never understand women, so its best not to bother, especially at this age.
66534
If you've already said yes to the first guy, you should be a classy lady and go with him to the prom.  If you explain the situation to the second guy, he should understand if he's a good guy.
187617
just flip a coin, and ask one person.\n\nyou'll be able to tell if that particular guy is into you as well.  and then it won't even matter about the other guy.\n\nas a bonus though, the other guy might get super jealous.  which is a bad thing.  but if the first guy seems kinda plain (which means there's no spark) and the other guy kinda seems jealous, but doesn't want to say anything because he just wants you to be happy, then go with the other guy
422257
Maybe you should not move so fast into something. I know you are excited and probably dying for you two to kiss and hold hands, but you should try to get to know this guy a little better first, doesnt matter that this would be the 3rd time you guys hung out. Have a nice evening out, ask each other questions, and really try to determine your compatability with each other before rushing into things. You might discover that this guy is not that interesting and feel differently about him, and then you will have to deal with you and him still working together. Get my meaning?
92217
Its just going to take time to get over this other guy.  You shared memories with him and for now they depress u a little but in time when u think of these things it will make u smile and will not hurt anymore.  And before u know it you'll be thinking " what was that guys name that took me to the prom????  hmmmmmm"  Dont allow it to interfere with your new guy.  Otherwise its going to hurt him in the long run!
134723
of guy #1 wantd to go as friends in the first place, then as a friend, he would understand his situation and not have a problem with you going with guy#2 and you should tell him soon so he will have enough time to get anothr date.
138812
Okay may i just say I disagree with a couple of previous responses here for the following reasons:\n\ngalaxy500: A prom is NOT for two people who "have something going". I've never heard anything about Prom beign exclusively for couples, otherwise you'd might as well say "Fellas, single ladies, now's your last chance to get a gf/bf otherwise you might as well not turn up, yer loser!"\n\nmrs.iv: Why oh why would you emotionally blackmail a guy into going to the prom "cause its a tough time for the girl". Its a tough time for the guy also - he has to pay for the thing, getthe car/transport, pick HER up at a decent time, make sure they get in okay, see that she enjoys herself (if you've gone with her THEN you HAVE to be hospitable!), AND get her home safely! (As much as most guys wanna "get a room", lets be gentlemanly and remember most girls have dads who want them home by midnight!)\n\nHowever, in answer to the question: DON'T go with her. Other realistic options are:\n1) Go with someone else (another girl maybe?)\n2) Go with a a friend or few\n3) Don't go at all and give the tickets to someone else (selling them is an option).\n\nYou are in NO WAY obligated to go with her - thats emotional blackmail.  And NEVER for once think "oh its a couple thing" otherwise you'll just end up feeling sorry for myself then next banging your head thinking "Why don't I hve a gf".  I've been there - it ain't a nice place to be.
197408
you don't need a date to go to prom. If you don't want to go alone, go with a group or friends (what i did the 2nd time i went, the 1st i had a date). Or go with a female friend that also has no date. But like i said, you don't need a date to go to prom. GO!!! HAVE FUN!!!!!! DANCE!!!!!! ;D
48992
i recently found myself in the same situation, so i know what you're going through.  the guy gets mad because he's worried that (like the other dude said), you guys are talking about him behind his back.  he may also be worried because you two may find out that he was cheating on both of you with the other one...as in my case.  Regardless, if you two really are friends and have lots in common, then screw the guy and thank him for a really good friend.  It'll really piss him off...
465850
well, unfortunately you have to do the right thing and so does he.  He already told this girl he would go with her.  The proper thing for him to do is to say to this other girl "look I kind of like this other girl (you) and we just started going out".  "Maybe you can try to find someone else to go to homecoming with but if you cant we can still go as friends".\nGood luck!
560073
will what i would do is go out with the girl or in your case the guy you have more feelings for b/c but i would go out with iono thats a good question but i would talk to both and then figure out which one i would go and then maybe theyll make me happy and if they dont then thats a mistake i made and thats what i call chances just rember which one you know better the closest frined will long more then a boi you just meet follow your heart not your head iight anymore questions holla at me at babyboychris32@yahoo.com iight duces my frds call me babyboy so yuh holla
227732
be front about it, and get the ball rolling. if its to hard, try it over the phone instead of in person. or be romantic about it. my current boyfriend started things up with me by asking me to prom. in each class that i went to during the course of the day, he left an envelope with some cut up pieces of paper. at the end of the day, i put the pieces of paper together, and it turns out it was a puzzle, which read "will you go to prom with me?" and on the envelope it said to meet him at a certain time, so i did, with my own envelope with a puzzled 'yes' in it. it was really sweet. of course, in your situation, mold it so that the envelopes follow his daily schedule.
502777
Put yourself in the other girls shoes first! How would you feel if you were her?\nHow long have they been together? \nIs he interested in you simply to try something different from his current girl?\nJust how much do you like him? Is it like or love?\nAsk yourself these questions and take time to think things over.\nIs he really worth all of this trouble?\nIf he is and you want to go for it, then proceed with things out in the open before you and he do anything even kiss!  You do not want to be just a fancy bit on the side!  The other girl deserves respect and a chance to retain some dignity! She will be mad and rightly so!\nI have a rule I create for myself when I was a teenager, if a guy I like is with someone else, I forget about him and move on!  I had feelings for a guy once when he had a girl too.  I kept to my rule and left it alone.  Three years later I saw him at a party and he was single.  We dated for 1 wonderful year, we drifted apart but it all worked out.\nGood Luck!
26505
Thats kind of odd that someone with a girlfriend asked you... and if you feel that it would not be appropriate to go with the other guy then don't.  If there is someone you would much rather go with, feel them out about if they would want to go with you!  Overall, just do what you believe is right.  And most importantly, forget the drama and have fun!