I am a 17 year old male.Im black and indian mix.And i have a 10 inch member.Please help because my girl doesnt want to do anything because she says it hurts.Is there a way for her and me too do it?
210451
YES THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY JUST BE VERY GENTEL AND YOU CAN DO IT
550990
Hey, Conan, here's a newsflash:  you're normal!  Right, some men aren't quite as driven as you and some are even more driven.  But they're normal, too.  As long as you don't hurt anyone, including yourself, ain't no sweat.  And as long as it does not bother your GF...Look, there is no absolute regarding what endorphins do or do not do for you.  There is a range of acceptable responses and yours do fall within that range.  By the way, if she gets you that hot 'n bothered, would ya mind posting her pic so's us other guys can see what we're missing?
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Dude...you need to put down whatever you're using on yourself and get to the nearest hospital, pronto! That could totally mess with not only your sexual function, but your ability to urinate normally. And even though I'm a girl, I'm sure it must hurt like h**l!
337733
Yes, and I suggest some serious douching ...that is something that can cause a nasty infection... this ain't funny...either find a guy with a bigger tool, or get a smaller condom for the guy you have. Good luck
112904
I think the best thing to do is to take it slowly. You also need to talk to your partner about it. He needs to understand that it is not pleasurable for you, he does not need to use all the 10 inches for you guys to enjoy it.  \n\nThat hole should contract and relax, he just has to be patient with you. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable for both of you. It is a problem if your partner does not understand that or does not consider that you are not having fun. \n\nTell him to start really slowly, with lots of lubrication.\n\nI hope this helps!
199572
it all depends! Remember a womens body is designed to fit a baby out so it should never hurt. Just make sure you use a lot of Lub and feel comfortable with who your with, so that if they are hurting you you tell them to stop!
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Sorry, but size DOES matter.  Whoever said otherwise lied while trying to make himself feel better.\n\nFortunately, for you, though.  A woman is most sensitive on the clitoris, which is outside, so you don't really need a penis to satisfy a woman.  As a matter of fact, the best lover I ever had was impontent and could rarely get an erection.  No dildo was ever required.  He was beautifully talented with his hands and lips.  If you open up and explore your girl and ask her what she likes, she won't really care about the 4 inches.\n\nAs for tecniquest to make it better, try moving your hips in a slow, circular motion.  Slide up a little higher as you thrust in and out so that her clitoris is stimulated as you slide in and out. Suckling her breasts while you do this will produce an incredible sensation.  Also suggest that she practice her kegals excersises so that her vaginal muscles are strenghened for her increased enjoyment and yours... Go to any book store and pick up some sexual manuals.  The joy of sex is a classic.\n\nHappy loving.\n\nPS.  Your email is bouncing back, so I've resorted to editing... You missed my point.  Your penis won't make you a good lover, so stop obsessing on it.  If it works for you, concentrate on pleasuring her (which you'd need to do at any size), and then let her take care of you.  She won't be unsatisfied.  Plus, you must know that you're probably hurting her by rejecting her.  Be honest and creative.  Manhood is more than a penis.  Your greatest sexual tool is found between your ears, NOT between your legs.
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It shouldn't be a problem unless the pain is \n\n1) Severe or \n2)Long-lasting\n\nA lot of women feel mild pain if the penis is pressing up near the cervix (girl-on-top is a big culprit here).  Serious pain, in sex as in life, is always a sign to slow up and take it easy.  Since you seem to be pretty content with things I'd say you are fine.  If the pain is bothering you, try some different angles and positions... there's bound to be some that allow for mindblowing sex without any pain.
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First off, I have never heard of a penis reduction!!!!  I don't know, maybe there is such a thing, but I have never heard of it.  I think you should leave "it" alone and let it stay like it is.  She'll eventually get used to it.  I don't know n e one that doesn't like 'em big.
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it hurts some girls, and sometimes it doesn't.  Just depends on you and the guy.  It didn't hurt me at all, but the guy I gave it to was gentale, and took things slow.  I was well excited, and we agreed that if I said stop, or slower, he would...\n\nYou know the time is right, when it feels right for both of you.  it is fun and exciteing, but don't rush it, it is so much better, when you are both ready.
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yess it really hurts, i guess it burns or something like that:) careful next time, gurls are sensitive.
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MY 1ST TIME WAS PAINFUL @ FIRST, BUT THEN ENJOYABLE AFTER THE PAIN SUBSIDED...HE WAS ONLY ABOUT 5 INCHES & DID NOT POP MY CHERRY, SO TECHNICALLY I WAS STILL A VIRGIN....UNTIL I CAUGHT HOLD OF MY NEXT SEXUAL PARTNER...WHICH WAS AN 8 INCHER....LOL...I WAS CRYING & HIS COUSIN KEPT WALKING IN ACTING LIKE SHE DIDNT KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON...NOW 2 THINK ABOUT IT, DA CHYCK MIGHT'VE BEEN GAY...OR THEY MIGHT'VE HAD A LIL INCEST GOIN ON THERE,LOL...........
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Tie the end of your penis to a brick, then heave it, it will hurt, but it will work. It may take several attempts, so I recommend a cinder block
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I'm a girl but I know my ex did sometimes pull a muscle having doggie style sex. Hell you can pull a muscle having any kind of sex. Period! But hey at least you are pulling a muscle having sex :)
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I have been there; \n\nThe reason it is hurting is because you are dry before he inserts his penis; and likely he is too young to know that he should first get you to the point that you are excited and your vagina is secreting for lubrication for the penis.  If you are not wet or not feeling really good before he puts his penis in you; than you need to perform more foreplay.\n\nAnd if it still hurts even when you are lubricated, then it is probably an infection in your cervix.  If it is a "burning sensation" when he puts it in, or even when you stop and it still burns then you have an infection of some sort and should see a doctor.
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hey man it's very important that u b gentle. it takes some time to break it so be smooth, gentl, and patient and remember she'll be in a lot of pain if u thrust hard. I personally spread the enjoyment on 3 days!
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go slow and be very gently with her...i have the same problem..me and my guy...he takes his time and loves on me when he inserts to help take my mind off the pain...don't be too anxious...slow is the key...