Now i feel funny around him . Dont know what to do . Sometimes i think the girl is the one playing us , why do women like to sleep with thier man's best mates
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and why do best mates sleep with each others girl is probably more the question you tell us why did you do it.\ngo to church right now say 200 hail maries  ask God to forgive you,and confess to the vicar,\nrepent and beat yourself on the back with birch twigs and may God have mercy on your soul you lowdown four nikator
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sounds like a fking AS_HOLE oh my god. what a terrible person. you have to feel bad for his girlfriend, too...my god, DITCH THE FKER and good job for not making a "move"
619042
Yes. What a way to make you feel lonely. Maybe suggest that she also invite one of her man's cute single friends for you to hook up with!
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I think you should go with your gut feeling. If you don't feel like hooking up with him yet then don't do it. Your friends already warned you that he could be a player and its nothing more hurtful then giving in to temptation and then getting your feeling hurt. I think you should talk to the guy and tell him how you feel about the situation and if he doesn't understand where you're coming from then its obviously that he's not the right guy for you. And to answer your other question about if he grabs you after you tell him no....then he doesn't respect you and you should move on.
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I would say that you have unresovled feeligs for him. Either talk to him about it or try to move on, maybe a girls night out?
414497
not to sound mean,  but the guy sounds like a loser. He just had sex with her, he prob loves her, my best advice, stay away. There are probably so many other guys that r intrested in u.
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The bottom line here is is that he is treating you like a 'Thing' not a person, I dont see how you cant get over this guy, he sounds like a player.\n\nGive him the flick girl!
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Go up and talk to him and talk about the fun you had with him and friends at the pub.  Then suggest you all do it again sometime soon.  See what he SAYS to this.  That's about all you can do.
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dont be with him. if he has sex with other girls(to make it worse your BEST friends) and it doesnt mean anything why do it? thats tottally out of the question. i would say no untile i know 4 sure that hes stop having sexx with ur best friends. in my opinion i think he might like you for ur looks and not because he likes you. he is having lots of sex with lots of girls. what a jerk. i think he just wants to get in your pants. i am not laughing when i write this u know! dead serious. stay away from him. i know its hard, but come on. reread that question u wrote and tell me if you really want to be with a man like THAT.
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Please leave him alone.  He's straight and doesn't want the advances.  \nHe probably knows you're gay (we straight guys all have very sharp gaydar) and therefore the reaction is because of feeling awkward.\n\nWe do the same thing with chicks.  Check them out, they feel awkward, we take it as a mutual feeling.  It ain't so.
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girl this has just happened to me and you shouldn't feel guilty. i felt guilty but i really should have. Why don't you try talking to them or telling your friend thats here if he really likes you he will wait until you're sure. and the long distance relationship i was in i cheated on him and i felt so guilty i told him about it and we broke up. Maybe you should ask him to take a brake and set up a date you will become bf/gf on that specific date. That will show you if you know what you have or not. Maybe this will help and maybe it won't but this is what i would do if i relieved this.
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He sounds like a player.   If he made out with your friend, he should not then turn around and approach you.\n\nSounds like you need to make a new friend (because she was wrong).  Also find another guy, because this one seems to be suffering from short attention span.
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Really its sort of getting out of hand,have a chat with your mate,sort of bring up the girl in a none committal way,if she is just a casual thing to him let him know you could really go for her,but don't want to upset any one,if you don't find out that way,call it a day with happy memories
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A whore is someone who sleeps w/ a whole bunch of people. So, no, you're not a whore. All you guys did was make out. You're reading  too much into it. What happened was:Both of you were feeling vournerable. And both of yall emotions just took over. It's totally natural. Nobody is at fault here. So don't worry about it honey. I mean, think about it. You guys are still friends right? And he probably hasn't even brought it up again right? He might feel like you feel. But it's no big deal.
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He was probably testing how you'd react. If you really feel odd about what happened, you should talk to him about it some time. Only he can explain to you why he acted that way. Good luck!
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Sounds kinda fishy, i'd think he already did something with this chick and even more so if you said he said she was a slut and all this crap and now all of a sudden he is friends with her and hasn't told you when they went out ??  They go to lunch once in a while and he claimed she used to wear slutty outfits ?  Sounds like they have the flirting down and maybe something more.  Do some investigating, you can never be too sure, these women know how to get what they want and they.  If I were you I would talk to my husband about your insecurities and tell her he would not like it if it was the other way around and to pls quit the friendship with her, because believe me if it hasn't happened yet it is well on its way.
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Well I hope you don't let him fool you a third time.  My first love did this to me. Guys can be very tricky. He befriended me for a year before I decided to have sex with him. He was my best Friend.  After we had sex he dumped me.  Guys like the game especially as teenagers, so becareful.  I grieved the relationship for quite some time.  I got together with my girlfriends who let me cry. I concentrated on my work and having fun.  With time my heart healed and so will yours. Just be patient with yourself and don't keep in touch  with him. He is not a real friend.