We got pretty close and I decided that I was going to pursue her but she wanted to only be friends and that's cool I mean she's a sweet girl but there are other girls right?  So I move on while maintainng our friendship but she gets mad when I even glance at another girl and we end up arguing and it won't even be about my staring, it will be about something totally unrelated to it.  What is going on?
217326
either she loves you! or she's afraid that if you start dating someone you won't spend as much time with her! You should sit her down and have a talk!
148940
She sounds like she's confused. next time you talk to her, just tell her that you think she's cool but you don't want to get in the middle of her and her bf's relationship. If she wants to be friends with you that's fine but if she wants to take it further she needs to say bye to him. Good luck!!
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Maybe its your girldfirend that just wants your money.  But I would hate to think my best friend would stab me in the back and date a guy i cared about.  Does this tell you anything about the girl you are thinking of asking out? If that is the way she treats her best friend is she really gonna be that good to you?  Either way if you current girlfriend is that bad to you - you need to let her go and tell her why.  If things happen between you and the other girl after that -  then all is fair.  Good luck to you
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I think she is testing you to see what you will do. Sometimes girls play hard to get and thats sometimes their way of doing it. Ask her again. Tell her you can't stop thinking about her and that you really like her and you would like to your friendship to a new level like dating.
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It's a tough one.  But, from a female perspective...don't change your attitude towards her.  Most guys would start acting like a jerk towards her because they're hurt and can't handle the uncomfortable situation that they are now in as her friend.  I think you should just blow it off, don't make a big deal about it.  Act like she was the girl of yesterday, and a friend of today.  She could have been telling the truth or just making up an excuse because she's just not interested or ready for a relationship at the time.  If you show her that our friendship comes first she just may "see the light" and come around.  Or maybe not, and if so, don't sweat it so much-at least you'll still have the friendship, and hope for something more as long as you want a chance.
342854
Extremely weird, she wants to look into a relationship, but all the goodies go to your friend.  Sorry, need to next her.  You're friend can have her, no wait he has....
398120
She sounds like a real jerk\n\nAre you SURE you even want to bother with her?\n\nHere's a suggestion - find another girl to talk to. Either one of two things will probably happen - maybe that second girl will actually like you, or the first girl will get jealous that you're not paying attention to her, and she'll start being nice to you.\n\nIf your lucky, BOTH girls will be into you - and you can have your pick!!!
339070
u know its funny...this has happened with me and my extremely close friend just recently...we always flirt and it feels like something more than just a regular friendship and i want that...but she is confused and doesnt want to lose me.  i still have feelings for her and we talk a lot and are very close.  i am still trying to be myself yet i am trying to develop a different and closer relationship.  i say you just keep trying to do what you want and just see how it turns out.  whos to say another guy wont come around if this doesnt work out. good luck
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I agree that it's when you've agreed to be exclusive.  I understand though why girls might get upset with you.  No one wants to feel like they are in a competition and they might feel that if you're seeing other girls at the same time they are not getting your full attention.
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Girls are weird when it comes to friendships.  Usually when they say **** about each other is because the first one that started saying **** about the other, was in some way jealous of the other.  Then when the other one started saying **** about the first one, it was because she was hurt by being talked badly about.  I don't know if that is what is going on in that situation or not, but most likely.  I don't know that there is really anything that you can do, other than not get in the middle or take sides.  If one of them say **** about the other to you, just tell her that they are both your friends and you do not want to get in the middle or be put in a situation to where you feel like they are wanting you to choose between the two of them.  I hope that everything works out well for you.  Best of luck!
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wow I'm just surprise , that you think your self so little. why are you in a competing with your friend, why do you feel like you have be , better than her . you not going to like this but i dint think the girl is the problem , i think the problem is you , not feeling confident in your self to know that you have a great personality, an even if the girl is around you still stand out no matter what trick she tries. so  you need to work on yourself , an dint worrier about what the other girl is doing, because she doing what she likes , now what are you going to do. be yourself an know who you are, an if you friends take her an disc you it just mean there not your true Friend
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Girls know what they want and she thinks she is being kind by giving you excuses.  Before you get hurt any further get yourself away from her.  Don't even talk with her.  There are plenty of other girls out there that will want what you have to offer.  If this girl has to make up excuses - it is over!  I have been down that road many times.  It's hard to tell someone that you have had relations with that it is over.  Most caring people don't like to hurt others so see it for what it is - over.  I am so sorry for your situation but unfortunately the truth hurts.  I also have been on your side of the situation.  You are looking for any gleam of hope for this relationship to work but unfortunately its only one sided.  It hurts.  The sooner you walk away the better off you will be.  Ten months, while it is a long time, it would be worse if longer.   The "perfect guy for her" is more than likely her way of saying she honors your friendship.  When women are in relationships and opt to get out they want their cake and eat it too.  It's ok for her to move on but she doesn't want anybody else to have you.  Hope this helps and good luck to you.
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The first thing I wonder is why did you break up?\n\nI don't have that information but from your question I can tell she is mad at you, and dude, when that is the case, let it go because it is a no hoper.\n\nWant to know something?\n\nRight now, it hurts bad, I can tell, but that is good, because it means you two once had something good and you are simply replaying all those moments in your head. It's natural.\n\nWant to know something else?\n\nLook around...there are attractive, smart, fun, great girls everywhere. Your town, this world, a biggggggg place. You are going to find a new girl, and once you establish some kind of wonderful with her, you will be fine.\n\nAccept your pain, but keep your eyes open and your CONFIDENCE up, for the next great girl.
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Dear Dear such a scene and how is it possible. You all fight because you all still are individuals who have  opinions. But you all are still friends because you all have good qualities to be Compatible, Adjustable and someone fun to get along with.\nFighting and still being friends assures the Fact that you both enjoy each other's Company a lot. So continue fighting because that is what helps both of you all to keeep the energy in the Relationship(Fight,talk, Patchup and Fight - a good clean cycle where you all pickup grudges and still come clean by forgiving each other for what has been done).\nSo try to keep up the True Spirit of Friendship that you now have.\nTry Dreaming and think how it would be if you did not have her in your life as your Best Friend(so much would be missing in your life and maybe hers too)
354190
Why don't you find another guy to be friendly with.  You don't sound like a very good friend.  She is probably a little insecure and you are making it worse.
13411
there may be reasons why they talk about her, maybe she did something wrong, talk about it. just stay by her side. its nice that she still has YOU as her friend who would not turn against her. RIGHT?
500487
sometimes people are just better off as friends,relationships sometimes ruin a good friendship.she may be jealous of the fact if you find someone else then your friendship wont be as strong because you will have someone else in your life,doesnt mean she wants you as a partner herself.im in a similar situation myself,my boyfriend has a female best friend,she is in love with him.its difficult.but only time will tell what will happen.