What are the signs that a guy likes a girl for more than a piece of ass? He can go a week without talking to me, but we have been hanging out almost every weekend for the past 2 months. When we do hang out, he is pretty impersonal, but he gives signs that make me believe he likes me. He sits towards me when at a table, and most of the time his leg is rested against mine, or when he gets up, he makes it a point to brush up against me. He told me when we first met that he wants a g/f that can let him have his space. Is he just trying to "feel" me out to see if I'll end up getting clingy? Or is he not really that interested in persuing anything outside of a "friendship with benefits". I have also met quite a few of his friends, and he stays the night at my house every time we go out and usually hangs out for most of the next day. How do I get him to open up about his personal life and get him to talk about what he thinks about me or where he thinks our "friendship" will go?
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HE MAY JUST BE SHY WHEN IT COMES TO PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS SO MAYBE YOU NEED TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.
294902
It sounds like he may really like you, but it also sounds like he is a bit overprotective. If you decide to pursue this relationship, make sure that he understands the rules. You have to have your space, and if he insists on being with you ALL the time, he may be a bit more serious than you would be comfortable with. If you don't want to be in a exclusive relationship (which is what it sounds like he wants), I'd look elsewhere.
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maybe he has never imagined being more than friends, i think it happened to me, this girl kept talking to me and i didn't even imagine her liking me, but i didnt notice until recently that she might like me because she kept showing signs of it. but i never even noticed.  Try a little harder. Try talking directly to him.  Get comfortable talking to each other and tell him how you feel.  If you are too shy write a letter and give it to him when hes alone or have a friend do it.
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From reading your description, it's sooo obvious that he likes you. I mean, why else would he hold your hand or rub your leg while at the movies. And hang out with you? If he doesn't like you, why would he wanna spend 5 hours talking on the phone to you? So YES, HE LIKES YOU. Now, if you like him back, just tell him that you like him and i'm sure he'll say that he'll like you back. :)
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Sweetie, there are a lot of reasons guys hang out, but only a few why they hang out with the opposite sex- and it aint just freindship-  ask him straight up...if he is down with you he will tell you.
140843
He doesn't want you that much, he's not doing things that many guys do when they really like a girl and want to spend time with her.\n\nMaybe he just wants to have sex with you.  Is that what you want?
81824
First of all, self confidence.  Be brave, walk up to him, and say, Do you want to hang out this weekend?  The worst that can happen is he could say he already had plans.  If thats the case, if he's a nice guy he will offer a day or time when he's free and make plans with you.  If not, then he's probably not right for you.
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mmm...sometimes the girl won't show any signs that he does like you, even though she did. What i means is the conservative girl type. Like me, i didn't show any signs to the boy that i like, cause i was scared and shy. But, i accidentally sent a text message to him that said that i have feeling for him via sms. Now, we are friends and hope that we can not just be friends.Anyway, good lock to you.
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Sounds like he's really flirting with you.  Does he talk to you about other girls?  If so, then you're probably just a "buddy".  If not, then he's probably into you.  Depending on how well you know the guy, meaning his personality, you might already have other clues as to whether or not he likes you.  Does he let you pick out the movie?  Does he listen to what you say, not just sit there with a blank look on his face?  The face lighting up thing is a give-away, but be careful, friends will often tell you what YOU want to hear.  FYI guys are not always primitive, depending on your personality maybe he wants you to make the first move.  Guys sometimes like a "sure thing" too (nothing dirty is implied by that).  Another thing, why would he go to the trouble of faking flirting with you?  Does he get something out of "fake" flirting???  If all else fails, be direct, ask him if he thinks you're girlfriend material.  Depending on how he answers the question, you'll know.
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He probably doesn't want to give his new girlfriend the wrong impression about you and his relationship. Yeah, I know, it doesn't make sence, but when we find a girl that we really like, it makes us do things that aren't typically things we'd do. Plus, he's probably out more and simple has let it slip his mind. Don't take it personally, just guys showing interest in one thing at a time.
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Well guys are a little dorky into the late twenties, yea he likes you or you would not have been in his story, he has been checking you out and is probably waiting for the right time or even a signal from you to say you like him to ask him to study with you and bring up the subject of dating what he looks for what would he do if he likes a girl, etc..
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Sounds like he's interested.  Why don't you let him know you think he's nice and would like to hang out sometime.  This would be the quickest and nicest way to find out.... I bet he says sure!!!
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If he is finding stupid reasons to be near you,just touching you to do  it,tries to make himself seem big and important to you,he likes you.If he is doing these things,talk to him about something,then ask him what he is doing this weekend.Make the move to see him.
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He is a guy, and if he can get  physical with you without a commitment, he will. Most guys don't need to love a girl or even like her to get physical.  He is using you and you are letting him.
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I think he might actually like you. Not 100% certain, but it could be true. I mean, why else would he do all of this stuff if he didn't even remotely like you? Either he likes you, or he's trying to stalk you, and the latter is very uncommon.\n\nAs to why he told you that he didn't like you - a lot of guys will deny stuff like this if they're frontly approached about it. If a girl randomly walked up to me and said "Do you like me?", I highly doubt I'd give a straight-forward "Yes" or "No" since it'd be hard for me to explain it in such little words, so I'd lean more towards "Not in that way" to just ease it off. And, if I did like the girl, I'd think of a way to really show her that when I was ready. \n\nKind of a complex process, and I wouldn't be freaked out by this. Just observe his actions/body language some more. You should be able to tell eventually if he likes you or not.
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Girlfriend that is a sign of affection to you, he wants to be more than friends now he wants you for himself, girl go on and get that kiss and make it a good one! LOL
518481
He could be falling for you, or he could be just hanging out with you because he sees you as a good friend.  Guys sometimes feel really comfortable with their female friends, but they aren't necessarily looking to start a relationship.   I think you should let him know how you feel about him *and* your concerns that you could ruin his relationship with the other girl...since both of these reflect what appears to be your truth.  Honesty is important in any relationship....be it intimate or just friends.  Good luck.