wut wud u do if da 1 u luv 2 death says his lettin u go....will u let dem walk away or will u go after dem until things r baq 2 normal?
200769
If you haven't tried talking to him, talk to him and if he stills feel the same, let him go.
584919
Well..in my opinion, u should let him go coz if anything is to happen between them, be thankful that u are only at the beginning stage of your relationship..that shows that this chap is indecisive and if he can hurt you like this...what more?
79076
i definitely use my creativity on how to get even!!!\n\nhahaha! hope not to come this far because the one we love always hurt us the most...\n\nlearn to let go...\n\nit's not easy to 4give nor 4get but simply letting go and accepting the fact of losing the person you cherished and leave you badly hurt can weaken you...\n\nbe tough and face the reality.
168750
Escape only if you truly love him.I was affraid to do that with my ex and I regret it.
665454
sweetie if he dont want you move on to someone that does.
208382
I'd let him go...if he's not into you, is it worth it to debase yourself or do something you don't necessarily want to do to get back together?
71627
yes...you let them go. It would be selfish not to. After all when you truly love someone you want their happiness.
307223
Its always easier said than done.. but say goodbye now..!! Why because experience speaks for itself.. I had the same problem i forgave him once, but then it happened again and again and again.. It was the hardest part to say goodbye to someone u love too much, but its rips ur heart apart to know they're abusing the love and affection you give them...!! And remember this, wen women hurt, they hurt badly and then there comes a point where they go COLD and then theres no turning back... so its best to say goodbye now and save yourself from the more despising feeling of anger and hate... Best of luck with the decision u choose :o)
637417
You should move on.\n\nYou cannot force someone to love you.
107290
No. move on you may find someone you really love and that really loves you!! Someone may be waiting for you to move on.
27952
It is always easier to say then do. People mean well. They are saying move on because they want to see you happy and going on with you life. Also I believe we say 'move on,' because we all have been there at one time or another. It never is easy though. You need to go through your pain and feel the loss. Cry about it, talk about it and work through it. Everybody's time table is different. People talk from experience and if you are in love with a man that is either married or has another girlfriend then eventually you need to realize that this type of situation is a 'no win' situation. You are deserving of having someone who can be available for you. We cannot change others. Cannot force others to stay with us. So take your time and when you are ready to move on...you will. However; if you are holding on to this person you are truly causing harm to your own self esteem. Moving on and holding on a two different situations.  Good luck! \nDr. Karen
101895
yeah i loved more then nything else my 1st grl friend.i was jst crazy 4 her n we had bout 1-2 year long relation.then she told me dat she loved someone else and not me.an witout me knowing nythin c was moving wid him.yeah i loved her but i didnot stopped her bcoz no use of dying 4 someone who doesnt care.i had lot of problem initially but m tellin u no use of getin sad.its of no use.u have your own life n no one have got the right 3 make it hell.why should u care 4 someone who doesnot value and respect your love.get up from it.der iz lott 4rm life den that person get involved with it.n watever hapens hapens 4 the good.there r obiosly much better things hidden 4 u. dis may noy b the perfect answer you r lookin for but hope so it can help it.i myself have xperinced it and is leading a much better life.BEST OF LUCK
214978
leave him.  That would freak me out
638113
I would see where things lead. And if it end up that you two break up for awhile it will be okay. I am going through a break-up right now. My ex did it because he needed time to himself to figure himself out, that sort of thing. He still loves me.\n\nMove on with your life. Moving on doesn't mean that you don't still love him or that you might not get back together one day, it just means that you're moving on. You can't waste your life waiting on someone who doesn't know what they want.\n\nI wish you the best and remember if you're supposed to be with him you will be.
91239
I would say to leave him to himself. If not completely, atleast for alittle while. I was raised to treat a woman like the princess that she is. I'm not saying that he should do exactly everything perfectly, but if I loved someone, I would want to spend time with them, i would go out of my way to see them and i would show as much affection as i could.\nLastly no one should ever put you down, I mean no one, especially someone who says they love you...
92623
I think you are doing the right thing and just to let you know it will end soon. If you were to back off now that would defeat your whole purpose and have wasted yours and his time. I know you did not want to hear this but, there is always a but isnt there? But If you cant see him changing or being flexible enough on this subject then you may have to let him go, if you fold and let the relationship go back to what is was it will be worse than it was before. I would hang in there, but not for too long.
478598
simple way around this, dont give it to him, if hes still waiting then id assume he wants to commit, if he leaves you, then id say u have had a lucky escape