I don't understand it. Is it what you're trying to be on the inside?
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"You guessed it. Selfactualization, self actualisation, and selfactualisation are all misspellings of Self-actualization. You would be amazed how easy it is to misspell it. \n\nBut, whether you spell it selfactualisation or selfactualization, the definition remains the same. Self actualisation is the act of doing what makes you feel fulfilled. This is not the same thing as personal growth or self improvement, both of which imply movement from a lower state to a higher state. Self-actualisation is the higher state. \n\nHere are just a couple definitions of selfactualization: \n\n"A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write, if he is to be at peace with himself. What a man can be, he must be. This is the need we may call self-actualization ... It refers to man's desire for fulfillment, namely to the tendency for him to become actually in what he is potentially: to become everything that one is capable of becoming ..."
524308
I have no idea what it means but i see myself in many of mine.  Maybe it is a way of your mind giving you a real look at yourself, maybe you subconsiously think there is a flaw everyone sees.  I dont know.  Good Luck figuring it out though.  lol
12520
I don't get this question are you sure you worded it right??????
506353
cause your not doing it right
13082
You're getting into some pretty deep issues here. \n\nFirst off, people who need to justify and affirm their own value need to lower the value of others by doing what you're talking about.  This gets into some pretty deep biology and psychology.  Since humans are social animals there is always a social heirarchy.  When someone is at the bottom or middle and wants to move up, this is one of the ways they can feel a little movement.  Immature people will also do this in retaliation to an attack on them by another immature person.  It just turns out to be a self licking ice cream cone.  \n\nI used to think that I had to respond to everything in my honor.  Now, by letting things roll off my back and exercising my personal boundaries, I live a life with a lot less stress or anxiety.  Life is great!
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my inner child is basically good. He was traumatized so he does have his issues. When he wants to contemplate evil it is because he does not trust and is afraid due to his experience. Yet when I have a heart to heart talk with him and assure him I will take care of him - and that takes some doing as he is not apt to trust me either - he usually settles down. So I cannot call him evil, he is just afraid and he feels so alone. He just wants to be loved and cared for. By the way this is a very good question that forces one to do a lot of reflection.
644252
What the heck are you trying to say?
185011
are you trying to escape from someplace?\nwhere the f(u)k are you?\ndude...that picture doesn't cut it!!!\nAnd what the heck exactly is it you're are asking!!!!!?????\nlololololololololol
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Nope - when you are not being 'included' .. that's a very big sign that something is up!\n\nI'm sorry :/  Don't be played like a fool, and just walk away...... don't even go through the drama of 'why'.. anyone that has that kind of disrespect for you or your feelings is never gonna give you an honest 'why' answer anyway!  /comf
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Can you explain what do you mean?
123415
Well this is totally different than what we discussed a few days ago......lol  The "Carry off" portion changes the whole perspective. When you say it this way....I realize you are talking about "masking" feelings with happiness......or promoting the feeling of unhappiness for the sake of your audience. \n\nYes, I'm a master at smiling and making the world think I'm happy. (even when things are crumbling around me) Rarely do people know the blows that life lands on me because I won't allow the efffects to show in my demeanor. It's not that it is work.....it's not that it is hard to do.....it's just how it is. I never want people to feel sorry for me or to feel that they must take on my burdens, so I tackle things on my own in my own time and don't show the negative side. \n\nThus why I said earlier that maintaining a "negative" disposition would be harder work for me. It would mean that I would actually have to bring my issue to the forefront of my mind and think about it. It's such a natural response for me to just "table" it until I'm alone. When someone that knows me well sits me down and says, "Ok, spill it....something is eating at you." Well it takes all the strength and effort in the world to make myself actually "unload." I seriously just have a very very hard time burdening anyone else with the things floating around in my head. So hands down.............it's easier to maintain a positive disposition than a negative one. \n\n*now all of you think I need therapy right? lol....you just might be right!! lol*
140445
I think that you are reading to much into it.  Did it make you uncomfortable?  Take it as a compliment.
441497
it's not clear what you're asking.
317437
what exactly are you trying to do? tell me alittle more and i might can help
531670
keep trying, it just means that you are getting under someones skin.
668369
The only person who is going to meet your needs is YOU, so why shouldn't you be running the whole show...which I assume means running your own life?
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It can work but don't expect to be happy.\nWhy would you want to do this to yourselves?