can a man really be a sexy woman doing this.  and it just seems like a lot of work to hide your natural self.
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If a person is truly a male to female (MtF) transsexual, then they are a woman on the inside, with the body of a male. They are not changing the person they are on the inside- they are changing the body to match the person on the inside.\n\nMany people who are MtF transsexual have learned to ACT like a male, but it's just an act- not the real person. That's why people get confused when the person starts acting like they normally would- as a woman, and not a man. People have only seen this person acting like a man, and not a woman, that's why they think acting like a woman is an act and not the real thing.\n\nBeing a female in a male body is definitely NOT a natural state for a woman to be in, so the male body is not natural for the woman in it.\n\nOK- to answer your question, some male bodied transgendered people manage to avoid the masculinizing effects of testosterone- you know, the baby faces, or girly faces? It makes it SO much easier to present to the world as a woman than someone that has strong masculine features. Hoever, if a person decides to change their sex even after years of exposure to testosterone, there are procedures lumped under the title FFS, Or Feminizing Facial Surgery.\n\nThere are also procedures such as liposuction, breast implants, and long term hormonal therapy.\n\nGoogle this website for some pictures of very pretty MtF transsexuals- Lynn Conway- look under transsexual women's successes and the photos section.\n\nAlso- something to think about- the reason why you never see ugly transsexual women is that most people just assume they are women- it's called stealth- there's no better way to hide than out in the open.\n\nHope this helps  =^.^=\n\nP.S. I am a MtF transsexual- not too bad looking, and if I walked past you in the mall, you would just assume I was just another woman. A little tall and Amazonish, but definitely a girl.
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I know you hear people talking about "working" on a marriage or relationships, but its not like putting a wing on a house.  From what you say it sounds like you want him to be more sensitive as you perceive yourself to be.  Men and women are different, why do you want to feminize him?
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is this some kind of re-curring wet dream??????? ha ha\n\nokay here we go........women do that so men notice them, and clearly it works a treat! we get quite excited when a man notices are bodies and think we are hot!!! i still do it when my BF is around and it's still driving him crazy!! a womans body is hypnotic to a man we know how to use it and obviously we know how to get a mans attention. why they keep doing it to u, i don't know??? are u complaining???
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Wow...we could go way deep into this one if we wanted to. It's the same reason that it's okay for a girl to be a "tomboy" but not okay for a guy to be "girly." Masculinity is admired---so if women are a little more masculine it's okay, but if a guy does anything to challenge his masculinity he's in trouble.
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Sure it is.  There are even very sincere male Goddess-worshipers, who find something sacred and divine in women.  There are also men who, while not going that far, are sincere in their affection for all that is a woman, not just the part she keeps covered by her underwear.  But such gentlemen must be raised by gentlemen, and have ladies worthy of that sort of devotion modeled for them in their mothers, sisters, aunts, cousins.  \n\nJust as obnoxious, overbearing and even violent men have often learned that from their fathers, grandfathers and uncles, noble gentlemen learn from their male relatives. Most people learn by example most of the time.  (Sobering thought, isn't it, parents!)
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No it's possible, the woman needs to be really relaxed and really, really turned on..\n\nI am a Lesbian, I KNOW,lol
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I don't think that's messed up at all, I mean really there are way worse things out there that you could be turned on by.  I think it's kind of sexy that you are that comfortable in yoru own skin, as long as it doesn't affect your day to day life, I say rock on.
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Yes, I do think some men look mysterious yet sexy. I'd love to know who you're talking about, because I haven't seen any on this site!\n\nBy the way, I think you have a sexy yet mysterious look going on in that picture as well. I love it!
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hell no!!! Are you Joan Cleaver???  this not leave it to beaver, and guys need to realize this.  The new man every woman loves is the self efficient type.  It is a new package deal, and he needs to get with it.
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Absolutely!  We just don't like to admit it to the X due to the fact that for some strange reason we feel that it would make us look weak and not in control.  Funny how we think... I believe it to be the striving to be an alpha male perhaps, not sure.
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dress the sexiest you have ever been so sexy when u look in the mirror u say DAMN!! to your self. not to slutty or to reveiling i would say comfortable but sexy. clean hand to bottom of your feet. and confidence in yourself and in what you are tryin to persuit. relax dont make it seem rehersed natural is always good.trust i bagged a few shorties that way and im a girl it works for guys and PLEASE BRUSH TEETH the smell can also tally your vote on what they think. have gum but dont chew when u talk or a small ment u know what u like to smell on another persons breath and you should bave that aswell. GOOD LUCK!!!
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I can sympathize with you. I am and always have been female through and through but it must be very difficult for you.\nI would love to hear sometime what is feels like to be in a male body yet feel like a female. It is hard to imagine.\nIs it just a craving to wear woman's clothes and makeup?\nI just have no frame of reference, since it was always my body, changing, cycling, having hips and boobs, and my love of flowers, colors, furnishings, men, and animals, that made me think like a woman.\nI wonder if it isn't just a desire to be seductive the way a woman is that is the appeal of it.
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i don't think there's anything wrong with it.  i really admire women who have so much discipline that they can make their bodies look like that.  it's not nasty at all.\n\nand to the girls who said they shouldn't be stronger than the man--why not?  some men are secure with having a partner who is better than them at some things, and a guy who is comfortable with himself is a turn-on.
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No you are not sweetie.  Yeah it is hard because some females just don't want to come out and admit it.  I would suggest finding a swingers online site.  There you will find others that just want to be themselves.  Good Luck.
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Try rephrasing next time. Got a headache trying to figgure out what you were asking. If he has a natural penis, he's a real man not surgically engineared. Otherwise it's to you to decide if he meets your needs. Don't cut on him for being who he is. Just move on if you're not satisfied. No reason to demasculate him here.
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I agree that certain things are done male or female in some relationships, but it falls to order in what the two people decide.  In our relationship, in everyday life, to all appearances my partner looks more the female, stays at home, babysits an infant, does alot (but not all) the housework  and does all the cooking.  I play the more male role has a very male job (drive semi) does the lawn work,(again not all) the gardening, pays the bills.  However, in the bedroom our roles are switched and it's my turn to be the sensitive one.  And we do this, 99% of the time for 25 years now.  We're frequently told this relationship is quite unique in the lesbian circles, but it works for us.  So it goes to prove, whatever feels good, I guess.
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Don't you dare hide it, There are alot of men/women that think scars are sexy as hell. AND I'm one of them. Besides I am a walking scar, I'm a Rancher I brake horses,put up fence,I do the whole bit. Scars come with the job. But I'll bet your scar is sexy as hell.