Whenever i start love making with my wife my pre seminal fluid starts very quickly and because of this i start losing my erection and i cannot wear condom so long so it slips out of my dick. How can i reduce the amount. Thanks
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I think yours just is a case of Praecox ejaculation.\nIn fact its is any ejaculation that occurs involuntarily during the sexual act and BEFORE the penetration can occur even. Any short time concerning the duration of the sexual act mustn’t confused with the premature ejaculation. In fact, medically the penetration and the ejaculation inside the vagina exclude the problem. \nI don’t know what exactly your problem can be, but since it’s mainly a psychological or mind problem, some specific drug could be taken, but ONLY with the consent of the doctor, while there are some different methods to fight it too. I think it could be a hyper sensibility case too. \nIt’s not the right place here to prolong and I’ll advice you to talk with some specific doctor.
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Hey it happens...men are pretty sexual beings and they are lucky to have the ability to have such immediate responses...sometimes. Try to get him to slow down...spend some more time focusing on you and your body..and giving you pleasure first...then take a minute before letting him do his thing. As a man he is really in tune with the sensation of about to reach climax...get him to realize this and he,,or you can stop it grasping him right behind his testicles and apply some pressure to that area until the sensation subsides. It will take some practice. You need to apply the pressure to the underside of the penis, pushing up and in where the testicles are up against his body. This is an ac-cue pressure point that relieves sexual tension. After trying this a few times in a session your partner should find that he can last longer, and won't loose his erection. Another trick that works, but not as practical is to have him masturbate about 20 min or so before sex then he should have better staying power. Good luck and have fun!!!
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I too have this problem. I solved it by applying Olive oil on the inner skin (before erection). Camellia or sunflower oil can be used too. Good luck!!!
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Foreplay: Keep at it untill you are wet (Not getting wet could be you have a condition, see tyour doctor, or you are too young for sex, stop immediately)\n\nSex should be enjoyable for both partners, but if your partner rushes too fast you can get hurt. Also see your gynocologist. my wife found that I can't get her off in a certain postion due to an inverted unterus, but certain positions work in seconds for her. \n\nBe patient tlak to a doctor, and just take it easy next time.
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This is just a small portion of my hubby's database:\n\n\nZinc has been shown to improve both the amount of sperm you produce and the sperm's ability to move spontaneously and independently. Coupled with amino acids (see above), this will increase sperm volume significantly.\n(Butter's note: Not as miraculous as they make it sound, but regular zinc intake (50mgs a day) does increase quantity somewhat.)\n\nWhatever a pill company's claims are, you can probably do just as well with zinc and lecithin supplements. (Use zinc supplements in moderation; too much zinc intake can be dangerous.) For some guys, these nutrients do have a noticeable effect on ejaculation volume, and they're a lot cheaper and easier to get. In general, stay away from mail-order pills sold by less-than-reputable companies; you really don't know what's in them, and their claims are almost always untrue or at least greatly exaggerated.\n\nPC Exercises:\nWhile Kegel exercises can help you last longer, they can also aid in increasing sperm volume. There are a host of exercises you can do to keep your penis in great shape and shoot like a champion. \n(Butter's note: PC muscle exercises have proven to help reduce prostate troubles in advancing age, but I have yet to see improvements in my ejaculate's volume through this method)
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Not harmful.  Recent studies have shown that men who "exercise" their reproductive organs on a regular basis have a healthier prostate gland and urinary tracts.  It needs exercise like the rest of the body.  Additionally, pre-ejaculant fluid contain components that cleanse the urinary tract of bacteria, so as to minimize the destruction of sperm.  However, if you m-bate quite often, you may not be able to have an orgasm without "flogging your bishop" yourself.  So make sure you "exercise" that area in other ways besides just m-bating.
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this is a common problem, the early ejaculation, there some exercises he can do to prevent that , and about the erection, i think he should see a doc., it might be nothing like stress or something or the doc. might give him some meds., is he taking any kind of medications, because sometimes blood pressure meds. can cause a weak erection. Good Luck
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Why lubricant? and why Mastu****** in the first place.\n\nFollow a health life style, save your genes and chromoshomes for a latter day happy married life.\n\nWish you best if you follow the abovesaid.\n\nIf you dont, GOD help you.
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I feel for ya. \nBy the way, I noticed your question about premature ejaculation, and wanted to help.\nTo help him help himself, get him to excercise his "pc" muscles--stands for pubococyxx, or something like that, and you have them too. When he urinates, have him clench down to stop the flow--those are his pc muscles. The simplest way to excercise them is by stopping and starting urination. Then, when you two get back in the bedroom, he can clench down to stop ejaculation--although it does take willpower.\nFor external help, there are several possibilities, depending on how kinky you want to get. Wearing a thicker condom is a good solution, most of the time. There are also creams availible. And of course, you can try a c0ck ring--or c0ck rings. Play around, have fun with it!\nAnd in the meantime, feel flattered that you excite him so much.
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Your question isn't very clear. You say it's a white liquid? Then something is wrong. You shouldn't leak semen or ejaculate by just talking on the phone. However, I assume that what you mean is a colourless thick liquid. In that case, I guess it's normal...The colourless fluid that is secreted is called Pre-ejaculate (also known as pre-ejaculatory fluid or Cowper's fluid). It is the clear lubricating fluid that is issued from a man's penis when he is aroused. Slang terms for pre-ejaculate include pre-come, precum, dog water, and speed drop.
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Well, you could try the "head pinch" technique when he's about to finish, or get some over-the-counter desensitising cream where you buy condoms, but there is one more bit of information you need to give before anyone can give youu good advice: How long does he last and how long would it take for you to finish?\n\nIt could be *you're* taking too long, in which case you should masturbate more on your own to better tune yourself in to what gets you there, in addition to the increased foreplay you should have in either case.\n\nMy wife & I don't have that problem. I finish her before I start.
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premature ejaculation, its a problem that lots of guys have, try wearing 2 condoms to lessen the pleasure impact, u just get overly excited
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How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation\n\n\nWorried that you don't last long enough during sex? Feel like a “minute man”? Well, you’re not alone – not by a long shot. Premature ejaculation is the number one question we get here – more than penis size, more than pregnancy, more than STDs, more than anything. \n\nAn Army of Minute Men?\nOf course, you would never guess that premature ejaculation (PE) is so common, because nobody ever talks about it. Even if it’s really bugging them, most guys won’t even bring it up with their doctor. The truth is, almost every guy experiences this kind of tool trouble at least once or twice during his sexual career. And many, many more have an ongoing struggle with it. In fact, some statistics say 20 to 30% of all men experience PE. That’s around one in four. Way more guys have trouble with being too quick on the trigger than have a problem getting it up. That’s why we’re going to give you some straight answers on PE and what you can do about it. \n\nHow Long Should I Be Lasting? \nThe term “minute man” pretty much sums it up: if you shoot your wad in a minute or less after penetration, you probably have what would be called premature ejaculation. You might even come before you get it in. Technically, PE means you’re coming sooner than you want to or expect to during sex, you don’t have any control over it, and it’s stressing you out or making you feel bad. If you come in a couple of minutes, but you don’t mind and your girlfriend is cool with it, then there’s not really a problem. But if every sexual encounter climaxes with you saying to your date, “Oops, sorry,” then that qualifies as having a problem with PE. \n\nLet’s Get Real\nOf course, lots of guys have unrealistic expectations about how long they’re supposed to last while fucking, and even how long women want them to last. The guys in porn videos pound away for what looks like hours at a time, but that’s all staged. Like average penis size, stamina in bed is vastly overestimated. In real life, most men don’t really last all that long – some surveys put the average lasting time before ejaculation at about seven minutes, which means a lot of guys actually last less than that. If you’re young and amped up, three to four minutes is more like it. It’s simply not realistic to think that you should be able to fuck like a stallion for half an hour, then climax at will at the exact moment your expertly skilled thrusting brings your partner to a screaming orgasm. Believe us, it just doesn’t happen that way. And as far as what women want, the truth is, most women (60 to 70%) cannot come through fucking alone; even if you could go all night, they’d only get sore. So a few minutes of intercourse is probably enough as long as you can back it up with some other sexual skills like fingering and oral sex. \n\nWhat Causes Premature Ejaculation? \nIf you do have PE, there’s a small chance it’s being caused by a disease or a medication you’re taking, but this is rarely the case. Most of the time there is no clear reason for premature ejaculation, and doctors still aren’t sure what causes the majority of PE cases. Current theories focus on biochemical factors, such as how sensitive your nervous system is, or the role of the neurotransmitter serotonin. We can tell you for a fact what doesn’t cause PE. It is not caused by excessive masturbation, poor sexual technique, lack of willpower or control, or any personal inadequacy on your part. In other words, if you have PE, don’t blame yourself, and don’t worry too much about what’s causing it. Instead, focus on what you can do about it. \n\nProven Techniques for Lasting Longer\nProbably the most effective way of dealing with PE long term, and the treatment most commonly recommended by sexual experts, is using a method like the stop-start or pinch technique to slow down your reaction time once you get turned on. These methods have been devel
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You can increase your time  of erection with some exercises that are designed to do this and to ejaculate later than 5-10 min.\n\n  You must train the muscle which is having a big roll in those processes.When you go to the bathroom for a pee you may stop for peeing several times so the muscle will be stronger and easier to control.\n\n  My advice is to take some pills for this kind of problem.Thereare not veri expensive and the results are really good.After two or maybe three month of treatement you can increase your sperm volume with over 300%.\n\n  I have tried some pills which are 100% natural and with no side effect and I am ok now.You can contact me for give you the web-adress.\n\n  Keep in touch.
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you produce a certain amount of sperm every day and everyday yesterdays sperm dies and new sperm is produced so if you ejaculate more than once a day your sperm will be decreased for that day but you will make more tomorrow... masurbation is a wonderful thing it teaches you about your likes and dislikes and ultimately will make you a better lover... and though your penis might get bigger when you have an erection it won't stay that way and it sure isn't going to shrink.
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You're not strong, and you're weak, too? How is that possible? \nYour solution, watery ejaculate means that you masturbate too much. You're going to rub it away. Viscosity descreased because you jerk too much, and you don't drink enough water. Get zinc and vitamin E. An herb that helps is arginine, but really quit choking the chicken so much.
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I've heard old rumors from people in a similar situation that zinc and lecithin increase ejaculatory volume. zinc you have to be careful with when taking, not too much, but supplementing in general can help. lecithin is not as much of a big deal to take. \n\ngood luck!