If your bf is rich and is born in a rich family in a big city, but you are poor, born in a poor family of a small town. He wants to break up with you and telling you that you two are diffrent and just don't live in the same world. What do you feel ? for me, i get hurt from thoses words, coz i am poor and feel very poor.
207942
If you love the guy, you will definitely get hurt. But I think it's a good thing that he broke up with you because you don't deserve someone who doesn't know how to love unconditionally. Find someone that will love and accept you for who you are.
258959
If you broke up w/ him there must have been a reason. What was that reason ? Do you want to go through it all over again ? I think I can relate to what you're saying tho. I went to the city partly to get away fr him for the wk'd after we broke up. Well, we were still talking on the phone sometimes but when he phoned it'd be more like "geeeeeeez... :( " but I'd still answer the phone. While in the city I didn't have a very good time. It felt like my fam was abandoning me or something. Like they were tryna get rid of me or didn't wanna see me, etc. :( I was very hurt. The main reason why I was thinking of moving to the city was to be near my fam too... After that I felt that my ex was the only one who really cared bout me. When I got back home I jut HAD to see him so I went to see him. I told him bout what happened in the city & how I felt that he was the only one who cared bout me. For a whole wk I wanted to be w/ him. I wanted to be w/ him every chance I had. We were @ this pt, just "friends". We went to see Default & I guess he was gonna go home after the concert. I didn't want him to leave. I didn't wanna go home either. He was gonna drink but I didn't really care if he did, as long as I could be w/ him. Well, his mom & sis were gone to the city, so he let me spend the night, which I did. I felt that I wanted to get back w/ him. B/w the day I got back home fr the city to the time we got back together officially was Apr 7th-13th I believe. There was even a time AFTER that that I thought that we'd be together forever. But in the past 2 or 3 wks I haven't been feeling that way. I wanna break up w/ him. When & how is the Q. This'll be our 4th break up. :( \nYou may also experience this as well. Have you broken up in the past ? If you have I think that this will only continue to happen. Don't let it. Be strong. Easier said that done I know, but when you feel like talking to him, call a friend. Maybe even get together w/ a friend or friends. It's better than giving in to urges. Hope this helps !!!
228264
It's still early on in the relationship. If you don't feel it's the appropriate amount to spend, I'd talk to him and let him know how you feel.  And maybe come to terms with a spending amount for both of you. I know you may want to get it for him to make him happy, but then you may resent it and this feeling will not be good towards the start of your relationship.  You have to do it from the heart.
604086
Your boyfriend is breakin up with you.  I've done it like that b4 myself.  dont need to come out and say it, just let it drift apart n by the time the girl asks whats goin on, i'm already with someone else.
611992
Babydoll, I think you haven't really thought this through too well. This  piece of buttwipe did you a favor & you want him to hurt you more?? If you ever think about relocating to The Sun City, you come on over & "Holla" at me & I'll be showing you what it feels like to have someone care about you, your feelings & not be such an arsehole to continuously rub your nose in mistakes of your past (believe me, I should know about mistakes from my past!)
492754
I'd say...I jumped into this relationship and now I regret it. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I need out. Then, leave. You are right, if you keep on it will hurt more later and I promise you...the longer you wait, the harder it will be to do.
141588
There's nothing about being selfish in this situation you're being reasonable. You can let this new guy know where you stand and let him know that you need sometime to sort through things in your life before getting back into another relationship. At the end of the if he wants to start another relationship with someone else you guys can still be friends and move on from there. On the other hand, if he wants to wait for you then you know he's in deed a really good guy. With my friendship/relationship I've been with my boyfriend for a 1.5 years and we were in the same state but then I went out of state to complete a Masters' degree and to be fair I gave him the option of being with someone else if someone else came along before I came back to MI to be with him. I did that because either one of us has never had a long distance relationship, so I didn't want to make him feel that he is "tied to me" while i'm out of state at Graduate school. The "separation" didn't happen we ended up still being together and when I came back to MI to visit him the love was there as if I was always there with him. So good things happen if its suppose to happen that way. Good luck and I wish you all the best.
287092
Hi, what you feel now is understandable, especially at this age,well-known as crisis of teenager period. But please trust me, if your parents separated it is not because of you and you should not be selfish,they have a right to live their own lives,if they do not want to be together. Would you prefer them to pretend and play happy family when they may not be happy together. Believe me, if they are apart it does not mean they love you less - both love and cherish you and your task now to help them by being understandable. You will understand them when you will start dating and get married. Put yourself in their position: will you live with a person you are not in love anymore. I mean they still love each other but it different love, not passionate. Please be understandable you are mature enough,be brave.
102595
Hey, the world didn't make you break up with him.  That was your choice based upon what you felt was best for you.  There is no right or wrong in that, it is just what it is.  Life is what you make of it and if you choose to go around being mad at the world then that is your choice but as long as you do that, you will never be able to find the love that is out there awaiting you.
26414
Heh.\n\nHe prolly doesn't know how to act. Maybe he does want to be with you but feels uncomfortable. Sounds like there's prolly still some bad blood that has to do with the breakup from before.
60468
Well, from a legal stand point it is perfectly fine to be dating him. You do need to consider though, his experience in life vs your own. Chances are he has done a lot more living then you have. In the begining your age differences may not effect your relationship much, but in time he could become possesive and controlling and try to stop you from living your young carefree life. Wanting to settle down ect... I watched this happen to my sister, and before she knew what was happening she felt stuck, and had a baby, and he had her convinced that she was nothing without him, often using his experience in life against her youhful ways. She did finally get out, after a few years, but now she is a single mom trying to make a life for her and her child and this guy is still a thorn in her side and will be for the rest of her life since she shares a child with him. While you might be thinking this would never happen to me, once upon a time my sister thought the same thing. Be careful & good luck.
344270
omg, i'm so sorry for you. it made me cry just to think about. at first i thought you were talking about telling your BF that you love him before he dumps you, but then the word 'murdered' just sort of jumped out at me. i've never had anything like that happen to me before, but i can guess how you must feel. i wanted to tell my bf that i love him, but i was scared, and now its too late, and he broke up with me...\n\nI'm really sorry. I hope he rots in jail. Sorry.
27388
well I would move out cause It'll get worse, before it get better,if he thinks you stole his money,then he does'nt think much of you. sorry that your going through that, I hope it gets better for you, stay strong.
107201
he could've really meant it in a good way - saying u have a lot of a$$. (and guys love a lot of a$$) and im sure if he didn't like ur a$$ - or if u didnt have enough a$$ - then he prolly wouldn't even be with u. but if u decide to forgive him and stay with him - then just make sure he doesn't verbally or emotionally abuse you. if he does then u dump him without hesitation!
54590
"if you don't know where to go, stay where you are." \nweigh your feelings. you and your bf have been together for four years... you love your bf... yes, you argue... don't all couples do? i think you're just bored. and it's understandable. it happens. for all you know your bf may be feeling the same way and just doesn't want to give up. \ndon't risk it.
279084
HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!!!!!!   and there is nothing wrong with you!!!!  I'm sorry if this will hit you hard, but from what you are saying something is definetly wrong with this guy, and he is just using you!!   If he is telling you to get away, then you may need to make some Big changes with yourself and your baby
137494
Interesting, you should have mixed feelings. Of course you are going to feel terrible but his comments to you should make you feel a bit better. Some people live in dark when they are infatuated with someone.