okay? my friend caitlin likes this guy dylan! and he flirts ALL time! he'll take her sunglasses and put them on! then he'll hug her ll the time! he acts like he really likes her! he told her ''if i didnt go out with cici(his ex)i would have dated her''! should she tell him hoiw she feels??
213549
of course she should tell him what is there to lose shewill never know how he feels unless she lets him know how she feels
538319
Hmm....seems like she has mixed emotions but I'm not too sure. It is possible for her to like you and her boyfriend at the same time and she may be confused about her feelings. She probably likes you more than a friend but is too afraid to tell you in fear of rejection or ruining the friendship. Therefore, she has a boyfriend so that way she won't act on her feelings towards you. Little does she know that she's already making it obvious. Dude, if she hugs you all the time and says that she loves you then I'd say she definitely likes you more than a friend. This is what I think of your situation but I could be wrong. I mean you said that she was never like this before so why the change? Obviously, she has developed feelings for you. So to sum it up, yes she likes/loves you but she is afraid of ruining the friendship. So my best advice for you is to wait until she breaks up with her current boyfriend and then express your feelings to her. Believe me I know what it's like since I've been in a similar situation before.Good luck and best wishes.........
215350
Well if she is your best friend (I'm assuming that is what b.f stands for), and she did that to you, knowing how you felt about him, then she obviously doesn't regard friendship like you do! The joke is on you unfortunately! I would suggests you redefine the quality of what a true friend is and is not! Of course your slowness to be to the point with this guy didn't help. Your friend did what you were hesitant to do and succeeded. You partially have yourself to blame. If this guy is a flirt, it is probably just as well she got him. Flirtation tends to lead to jealously and mistrust. You will see it unfold in front of your eyes, then you can thank your lucky stars that she got stuck with him!
86754
No, I disagree.  What you didn't tell us is why he doesn't like her.  Maybe he has a very good reason.  Maybe your friend is doing/saying things behind your back.  Putting them together would be volitile to say the least and used as a last resort.  Blackmailing them into getting along would not be advised.  Though that might help on the surface, it would fester.  Does your BFF like him?  Maybe she likes him too much?  Just wondering....
98527
i completely understand what ur going through, i was in the same boat a you. my advice is, if he really is happy with his girlfriend right now, i wouldn't say anything. because right now you're his friend, and you should be happy for him, unless she really isn't good for him (meaning she doesn't treat him right). but, if and when you do tell him, make sure you do it in person. just tell him that he is a great friend, and that u love being friends with him b/c he is such a great guy. then tell him that somewhere in the friendship your feelings changed, and now you like him. that's all i can really tell you. i hope i was some help.
361897
Honestly, if she were a true friend, she wouldn't be all up on a guy you like.  You are right to not let a stupid boy come between you and true friend, but this friend doesn't sound true.
397843
It sounds like he may like her. Probably he is trying to show you that he has options and that other girls can take an interest in him as you once did. Pride is something people have a hard time letting go of. Indifference on your part could lead him to believe that he can continue to act this way. Mention to him that you'd be really upset if he dated your friend. Also acknowledge to him that he has many options outside your social circle and that you'd feel more comfortable if he looked elsewhere for dates.
167776
Definitely HERS.  Your ex is just that - your EX.  He no longer has any responsibility to you and doesn't have to answer to you (even though he should no better).  But your "friend" should DEFINITELY know better.  That is just something you DO NOT do to your friends.  She should have come to you and explained the situation and told you that she really likes this guy and asked you if it would bother you if she dated him.  Instead, she snuck around behind your back like a coward.  That is not friend, honey.  Get rid of both of them.\n\nAs for kicking someone's ass - it's so not worth it.
292867
Sounds like he does! Listen if you really like him you need to let him know before he gets to the point that he feels that anything more would mess up the friendship. If he doesn't feel for you the way you hope Hell you still got one totally awesome friend!
448632
How does he feel about her? The noble thing for you to do is to confirm the platonic relationship btw you and him to her if he is interested in pursuing.\nIf not, your female friend shouldn't feel hurt on account of you. It's not your fault if he doesn't feel the same way about her.
411921
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
147844
well does she love him? if she does then they should stay togetheR! but if he treats her like shit then no they shouldnt be together~ give her that advice but dont tell her to do ANYTHING! just let her know that then tell her its her choice and make sure she knows you support her in whatever choice she makes!~
72675
oh my God... Girl.. why did U do such a thing?? Well, now that U did it and there's no way to fix the past, I just think that U should tell your friend the truth.  But anyways.. a boy can't be really forced (in my opinion) to go out with a girl against his own will, so.. if he went out with her maybe he is a little interested on her.\nHave U considered the possibility of talking seriously with him and tell him about the whole situation, that U don't want your friend to suffer because of this.\nWell, good luck, and next time... DON'T INTERFERE IN YOUR FRIEND'S BUSINESS..!
122922
You want to be a good friend and I understand that but if I were in your shoes I would let it happen. If you make a big deal or say anything about it period shes going to wig and maybe end up dating the guy even longer just to spite you and that's just counter-productive. In my opinion she made a bad decision dating one of her friends X's but since that's not the question it's neither here nor there. The point is, she knew how he was before she started dating him, she should have known better. I'm not trying to be cruel but people learn things best firsthand. Be supportive, hope for the best, Maybe your X has changed but be ready to console her and help her move on when he screws her over as well.
36904
she sounds like a very very good friend to you... no wonder you dont wana hurt her feelings... but have you thought of it before? that either way she will get hurt... she will be hurt to find out that guy is just trying to make a fool out of her but she will be hurt also if that guy humiliates her infront of anyone or everyone in sch&#92;college.... u should talk to her nicely ask her to think properly wats the attitude and personality of this guy.... if u have noticed him hitting on so many girls in school i m sure your friend noticed as well its just up to her whether she wants to admit it or not.... or u can use a nastier way... try calling up that guy and ask him if your friend liked him will he accept her record whatever he says n let your friend listen to it.... with proof it'll be tough for your friend not to believe you and it'll be easier to convince her if she was just trying to lie to herself that he likes her as well....
309095
she may not like ur friend. Dont blame the girls.She may love that guy.
625635
well there is no doubt that if she is really messing with this guy, she doesnt deserve your friendship, so 4get about her because she is not being loyal and sincere. but most importantly, forget about the guy! i cant believe he is doing this with your bestfriend when he knows you like him!