i broke up with my girl couple weeks ago cuz she got a C on reprot card and her mom disprove our relationship cuz she needs to focus on her studying and not a realtionship. but when she broke up with me she told me that and she said she cant like me as a boyfriend. now she doesnt even talk to me. she talks to diferent guys in my class (we have one class together) but my firned who sits next kept telling me shes looking at me and i think she really does. but the think is do u think she really misses me???? does she really meant to say to doesnt like me as a boyfriend? i mean i have done so much thinks for her. i gave her four leaf clover, watch and perfume for her birthday, CD, i always have been good listener if she had bad time, talk to her on the phone for like 10 hours, i suprise her with certain things and she loves it and she even told me that im like the perfect boyfirend cuz im romentic. what should i do, i want her back\nbut she kept looking sometimes in my class
200974
It sounds like she likes you and misses you but her mom has told her to knock it off for a while.
570155
You obviously really like this girl, and if you want her back you should tell her. The worst she can say is 'no' but if you never ask her you will never know. I really think you should try talking to her. Be completly honest, first of all ask if you can talk to her for a bit and then explain to her your reasons for why you broke up with her and how you have changed your mind and you would like to go out with her again, say things like she has a really good sense of humor and a great personality. Complement her but don't over do it because she will know you are being false. Hopefully she will listen to what you have to say and reconsider going out with you again. If not, don't worry, try and stay friends with her, tell her you want to be friends. Most importantly, tell her how you feel, if you don't, you will never know her response. Good Luck and have a good day xx
498132
I think she is still upset about the breakup so she needs time to think about everything that has happened. Deep down even though she is being distant with you she really wants to open up to you but she is so hurt, but dont give up on her give her the time she needs even though it may be a little tough. When she is ready to talk she will trust me!
101091
Girls are big players in love!  I should know, I'm a girl!  But she could just be confused with her feelings and doesn't know what to do so she's testing the waters!  It sounds like she really likes you though because as you say you talk for hours and friends who only care for each other do that!  It sounds like you should be together and give it a go!  It doesn't hurt to try right?  Imagine what it would be like not to see or talk to each other - it's hell!
126795
I think it would be better off if you stayed friends. She has just been dumped by her boyfriend. You are getting ready to go away to college. Congrats! Anyway, this girl needs time to heal with the current breakup situation. She is too young to be concerning herself with breaking up with the boyfriend, the pain of being dumped, getting a cool new boyfriend who is only going to be around for a couple of more months. Be her friend. Try not to initiate anything more. This girl has enough to deal with already. Take care.
647334
hey I'm 16 and i used to have the same problem, i mean I'm single now but my advice worked on my ex. : Just Be Yourself. any girl would be stupid to not go out with someone just because they don't want to give them a chance. I give everyone a chance and the way i see it is if they don't like me for me then i need to move on to someone who will. Just try talking to her about things she and you have in common. It will work just give it time.
634109
if you really think that in her heart she really wants you back, maybe going on a few dates may send a different message to her - that you really don't care about her as much as you said. She seems as if she is taking her time to think about what happened with your relationship and if its a good idea to reconcile. The important thing is that you've been sincere and you let her know how much you love her and would like a second chance, give her as much time as you think to make her decesion, but waiting too long will prevent you from moving on with your life
540642
Have you tried talking to her? Maybe she's trying to tell you something in a different way. Honesty is the best answer  so sit down with her tell you how you feel about what she's doing and ask her why she's doing it. Maybe she does want a break up or maybe she just wants your attention and some special time together. You won't know till you try but I'd see whats up before permanent damage is done to your relationship.
457438
She's not being too nice to you and taking you for granted.  I say break up with her!  She doesn't deserve you at all!!!!!  She's stuck on herself and there are plenty other girls who, I'm sure would love to date you...go for it!
168155
If she complains about her bf ask her then why are you going out with him if things about him make you unhappy .... ask one of her friends if they maybe know whether she still likes you if they say she does then after she breaks up with her bf go for it if she doesnt break up with her bf in like a couple days tell her how you feel about her :)
402930
Dont worry, this relationship with her and her boyfreind will not last very long. When they break up ( which they will ) then you can hugg her and dry her tears and say "its ok, he did everything wrong in being a boyfreind. you need a guy who can appreciate you and love you and care for you." and she will appreciate youre kindness and in a while she will come to you when her heart is healed. i promis!
139897
Sorry to say but most likely shes seeing someone else. Sounds to me like shes just calling you up when she has nothing better to do. I don't mean to be so blunt but I don't know how to sugar coat that one. She probably wants you to stick around because shes unsure of the guy shes seeing and wants you on the back burner in case things don't go well with him she has you to fall back on. Sounds to me like your a pretty good guy. At least loyal. You should just ask her about it. If she can't give you a straight answer then the hell with her. Just move on. Good luck and I hope I'm totally wrong and you get your girl.
492972
She's trying to be nice and stay friends, although it is the wrong thing to do.  It's obvious that she broke up with you because she already had someone she was interested in, and wanted to go for it.  It's possible she is trying to have her cake and eat it too.  I would personally tell her it's over, and to leave it at that.  OVER.  No more calls.  Just tell her to leave you alone.  She is being selfish and not thinking of you.
582035
Man, I just got out of a relationship with a girl I didn't think I felt much for, and you know that saying 'you don't know what you've got till it's gone'? Well, I realized how much I truly loved her. Maybe it will hit your ex just like it hit me. Maybe with some time she'll miss you, especially if it was as good of a relationship as you say. And especially if you were her first. You don't forget something special like that. Even if she downplays it, it should be something that will be with her always. Just give it time I say.
61823
I dont think she is playing a game. You two broke up and i think your prolonged contact with her is making it hard for her to let go. She might well have feelings for you still but having feelings for someone doesn't mean she wants to be with you. You giving her things keeps her feeling obligated to talk to you. I would wish her a happy valentines day and tell her happy birthday when it rolls around but back off to some degree. The only real way to know if she wants to get back together with you is to be straight up and ask or back off and see if she comes looking for you.
323520
She probably still loves you but she doesn't want to fully immerse herself back into the relationship bc she wants to feel that she is in control of the situation.  If its been since last year, she's had some time to think and may not be so sure about wanting to be with you.  You did  give her some time to get over you a little bit.  So she's probably just trying to see whether or not she feels you are the man for her still.  One of the most important things for a woman is having that sense of security with her man.  You broke up w/her so she doesn't feel secure anymore.  Keep taking her out and romancing her.  If she doesn't have someone else in her life that she's into and you can make her trust the relationship again she'll come around.  Good luck.
137785
Well You did not give the reason of your breakup so it's hard to give an advise.  Anyways, I think you still in love with her so why not try to court her again if she's still single.  Don't wait for her to call, she might waiting for your call as well.  Do the first move, she probably waiting for you to call her. Talk things out, or just say hi.