the thing is that my entire section is full of "popular ppl". So i hav to deal w/ their crappy attitudes all day for the rest of the 4th m.p. How can i avoid this nxt yr. w/ the exception of transferring to a different skool? Or moving to a dumbr section?
217870
You could try to make more friends by joining an afterschool activity or even an out of school activity.  Try to find people who share similar interests and your friendship group will grow.
324813
i felt the same way last year before i went to high skool. i had no friends to start off with literary all my friends from middle skool went to different skools and i was left alone. i was scared alot. but time passed by i made a bunch of friends and class isnt as hard as i thought it would be. it is different then middle skool in away. just sum advice, the ppl who r too nice i mean way too nice dont trust them cuz there just a bunch of like upperclassmen who want to pic on the freshman but ya other than that have fun
256519
I'm only 13 but i go to school with a couple of people who i hate as much as they hate me. they make-fun of people(teachers) and blame it all on me. the so called "nurses" that work with you are probably just jealous of the people they make fun of and you. I advise you to just smile and ignore them. if they make a rude and or inappropriate comment about anyone just walk away. but if this comment is about you say " at least i don't get my fun making-fun of the people who i am jealous about." and by the way i can tell that you are a very smart person by not joining them and keeping your personality alive.
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Your situation is just like mine ..thats why i always think that those who are descent or qite get the most criticizm ..today was a really bad day and it bothered me really badly when i heard hat girl talking crap loudly about me ..i just carry on and go to talk to those who are good or nice because theres got to be somebody who's nice even so if they are two faced noobody is perfect jake...always try to have a good time and dont care about such situations coz you will be finding yourself loosing alot of time thinking about those who buggs you off ...just be you and dont get too much offended by people and those who dont like it ..Screw Them !!!\n\n\n\nhope i helped
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jsut do wat i do, instead of looking at the peoples faces, look at the top of their heads or imagine theyre not there.and a japanese lesson with ur crush?sounds neat.jsut be urself, dont act like sum popstar or sumbody u saw on TV.im here to help any time.o yea just go lie down  not on ur side because that is wat makes u vomet easier if ur trying to sleep.i did that this morninng b4 school.
113047
You don't. That's just the way they are. Unless you want to be ugly and unliked. Maybe it will die down once you get out of school. Maybe.
577782
You are in a difficult position as you are their instructor. You cant get included unless you form a casual relationship of friendship first, by chatting etc. As you build up trust, then you can mention that you are interested in going along to join their activities, or even ask what activities you could get into from them. Maybe better for you to look outside of the school, join social activities like evening classes. Less complications with relationships with "students " etc.
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Talk to your teacher after class and let them know that this boy bothers you and you would really like to have your seat moved.  Tell your teacher that he is distracting you from doing your best in class.  Hopefully your teacher will understand, but if he/she won't change your seat, you could always talk to the principle or have your parents talk to the teacher.  Good luck!
326242
chill kiddo!!....\n\ntake it easy...\n\nthink of it like dis...\n\nd sooner u give ur SATS ...d sooner ur done with it...\n\nthe sooner u can have fun!!
448292
Just ignore them. There's not a lot you can do about people like them. You could always insult them back, but you know that would be wrong. You could stay in a group of girlfriends (or guyfriends) that would help protect you. You could notify the schoolboard, but the likelyhood of them doing anything about it is very low. Oh! A really cool idea is to do something special to your jeans, or at least to one pair. You could draw on them, or tie them up specially (like capris) or you could just make up something! Maybe wear a cool belt and always make sure that you look and smell nice. You don't have to be "cool" per say, but if you have a nice, sleek style then you won't have to worry about them. This is great because it costs nothing! Other things you can do are: 1. wear inexpensive jewlery (just not something cheap looking) 2. Do something with you hair every day. It doesn't have to be fancy, just fun. A messy bun, curly, straight, pulled up in a pony tail, pig tails, crimped etc. Well, that's about all I can think of right now! Also, don't worry about what other people think of you. The main reason I listed all of those things above that you can do to yourself, was for your benefit, not theirs. If you feel good about how you look, then it doesn't matter how everybody else looks at you. \n\nP.S. I only have 3 pairs of jeans too! :D
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Pretend you care but you know you don't inside. Wait till you leave home then you'll be able to do whatever you want. Going against them now might turn into something disasterous especially if you haven't made plans for college yet. Bite your tongue and ignore.
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Just dont say anything just look at them and say NO, I dont feel like playing your silly little game. Cya later. Then get up and walk(dont run) out of the room. If unable to leave the room just pick up a book and start reading. They have no control over you and connot "make" you do this. They are not teachers and you dont "have" to answer them. Stand up for yourself, If you won't no one else will either.
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If someone followed me into the bathroom I'd make a joke out of it, like, "Oh hi! Do you have to go too? What a coincidence!" Or ask them to pass you the toilet paper. \nMean, scary people--stay away. \nTwo-faced people--are at EVERY high school. Ask yourself, what makes them that way? It is their own insecurity and trying too hard to fit in with too many people. If you are confident in yourself and kind to everyone, then it doesn't matter what anyone says to you or about you. Maybe you have heard this a hundred times already. . .but it really is true. As you get older, everyone mellows out and guess what, gets nicer. Really. High school kids can be totally cruel and mean. But if you can rise above it you will be two steps ahead of them. \nI was so shy in high school. I was always kicking myself for the things people said to me and the things I WISH I had said to them (come backs). But now I realize that if I had been more sure of myself I would have definitely had more friends, and I wouldn't have been hurt by the silly things people said (and sometimes they didn't really mean any harm). \nHigh school is a fake world. Whoever is important there will probably never be important again. Whatever happens or is said will be totally forgotten after a year or so. \nMaybe you should try to find friends outside of school, like a mentor or youth group. \nAnd if you smile and say good morning to your teachers you'll find not all of them are so bad. I am sorry if you have bitter losers for teachers. Look at them as if you were their same age. Would you still see them in the same way? Or would you have some sympathy for them?\nTry to get the best education you can. If you have to join some class outside your high school, then so be it. \nWhen I remember being in high school I don't recall it being especially fun. The years immediately following--college and after that--were about a MILLION times better. I don't even think I had many friends in high school. I had one, but she drove me crazy. And then maybe 2 other girls that were younger than me. That was it!! But I did have a couple teachers who were totally cool. I will never forget them, and I'll never forget some of the things we studied, books we read, etc. \nI just kept going and things went totally uphill from then on out. Do not quit!
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Unfortunately, this world is filled with stereotypes. Sadly, as long as there is ignorant people in this world stereotypes will remain and manage to effect everyone and anyone. The most important thing is to know that you are not the self-harming type of person. If you have already told others that what is going around school is nothing more than rumors and they continue to tease you chances are they won't ever listen. The best thing is to ignore their pestering and I guarantee you the teasing will stop.
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It's very simple just go to your guidance counceler and explain what is going on just like you did here.  It is their job to be there for you and help you if they can.  Also if that doesn't work try talking to the Principal. Try and present yourself with a good attitude when talking to these ppl   they will take you more seriously and be more helpful.  The fact that you are concerned means that you care and they will recognize this too.
400361
There always seems to be girls like this in school. Her meanness will show through eventually. There was a popular girl in my college class once who everyone seemed to idolize. She was really mean to me. Invited everyone to a party but not me. At the end of the year party, which she couldn't attend, everybody let out all their anger and frustration about her. Seems I wasn't the only one she was mean to. I was kind of mad because it made my year awful and somebody could have told me. Anyway, hang in there. Don't do anything stupid. Her karma will get her in the end.
624061
Your nerves are understandable. But remember everyone is in the same boat. Ask can you sit with people in the canteen, ask does anyone want to go for coffee/pint.  It takes time to work out who you want to be friends with anyway. Good luck. Enjoy. I wish I was back there!!! (But study too!!!!!!!!!)