My girlfriends have always complained that I have a tendency of being cryptic. I always imagined that I was expressing myself fully and being disarmingly charming, like kryptonite. Don't girls like the romantic "I'll write you a song" type?
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yes!!! write me a song, but only once in a while.  don't be too dramatic or to pressed (obsessive).  girls like romantic with a touch of thugishness (roughness).  "i know my man is sensitive enough to write me a song about how he feels about me, wild enough to not be afraid of heights, and tough enough to protect me when in harms way"
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I know how everyone perceives me. I have fallen into the dumb blonde (But brunette) cheerleader that everyone comes to advice and humor. Sadly, little do they know, I'm actually smart but horrible at organization. It appears that I'm very verbal but I hide more things than anyone could ever imagine. I come off as someone with tons of confidence but really, I'm criticizing myself to other girls. My mind seems pure and free of bad thoughts but its really full of thoughts that would shock most.
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I used to be like that.  I learned to pretend that I was more confident and outgoing than I really was - I mean these people didn't know I was shy etc, so they would not find it strange.  Eventually I just became more confident and outgoing.
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im not a guy but i coulnt keep my hands from typing\nif i were a guy iwould like u very much ithink u would have a good\nchance of doing wat u just wrote\ni used to have a friend that had the same problem she turned out well\nshe got a good guy and they wre like best friends, he waited fur her. that was the sweetest thing\nbest of luck :)
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Awwwww that was a great poem if i was her I would like it. Girls always like that sweet love stuff and they really like it from a guy they date.
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Because girls rarely experience that. Just back up what you are saying with actions and then they will know that you are for real.
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The question is, do you think you're hot?  Only your opinion of yourself matters.  How you feel about yourself is actually projected to others in how you carry yourself and your personality.  I'm not talking about being snobby or stuck up but confident.  You'd be suprised in how attractive a confident person can be to the opposite sex.
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Buullshieeet! You like hounest guys to be sure they'll not cheat on you. And of course you like those who say what you want to hear!\nThat was my comment, this is my answer:\nNow, choosing between these two types you mentioned is a matter of a girl's character.
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hey..u'r made like that,u'r personality is like that.But b in a bit control about it.And u'r lovelife is gonna b wonderful.there's no doubt in that.it is even common.u generally get attracted 2 u'r opposite sex.no need 2 worry about u'r personality dear.
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i have the same problem..but it's not just with girls, ...i'm just not much of a talker. But u work on it by forcong yourself to be more loose. I've improved alot.\n\nsounds corny but u can even rehearse things you wanna say in certain situations
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The truth being that I really would not change anything about my girl. Yes there are things that makes me want to jump out the third story window but this is who she is. Overall her weaknesses are no match for her strengths and this what I love most. And actually, we can talk about our weaknesses and actually turn it into something positive. This way we always have something to work on. If there were no weaknesses or stuff that drove me nuts at times, it would actually be boring and that would be no fun.
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I think it's always funny when guys say girls are complicated.  We really aren't, we just wear our emotions on our sleeves.  I think communicating is the hardest thing for men and women to do.  It's almost like we both speak seperate languages sometimes!  But listening and really hearing must be learned.  So many things are simply misunderstood.
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yeah, extremely true...  i usually do that with girls that i really like. For example the other day, this girl i like and I were making fun of each other, and i said to her 'do you know theres a point where you stop talking? yeah? well youve reached your point. so shut up" i know its just plain cheesy stuff, but it just happens because its just manly nature.. i think its cause we dont want the girl to know we're all over them, so we add a little twist to the whole 'procedure'.. but sometimes some guys go way too far, and it hurts the girl, and guys should know where their limits are..
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Too much info doesn't lead to the build up excitement of meeting.  Two to three things about yourself is okay, but more than that is more info then needed.  \n\nAlso some girls think when guys mention that they're not just intrested in our bodies and looks <-- just mentioning this is definitely what we think you are interested in only.  As for being shy, this may be true but that sounds like you just want more girls to reply.  \n\nMost important thing to write and what girls love is;  A sense of humor and make a commit about something funny.
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AWWW! I LOVE IT! i love poetry that is written from the heart and that poem was! great job!!!! why aren't there more men like you out there! you're gonna make some girl very happy! :)
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Very witty...\nfor a moment i wanted to put No because i just read the part that said 'not a girl'.... but i am a girl... \nagain: nice one & u almost got me!
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WOW.  I feel that same way right about a girl.  I never told her though.  Now I regret that and am trying to contact her.  I think about her constantly.  She meant so much to me and I wish she would know that.  She is smart, nice, caring, and so beautiful.  She is my dream girl in reality.  Seriously.  We didn't talk that much (I'm kinda shy) but when we did, they were unforgettable.  I can tell you exactly what she said each conversation.  I like her so much.  I've had girlfriends, but she is totally different.  I really want to go out with her.  I gotta find her.  Well that's my story.  Hope you like it.