He calls and e-mails and duz wut i do, b/c he thinks it impresses me...i met him last summer and haven't seen him sense! I have had many relationships sens then, and i'm in 1 now, but he won't go away!!! (we don't evn live in tha same state nEmore!)
201627
Throw things at him...prefferably muffins
301172
Obviously this guy has issues with commitment. I think he is using you until something better and more appealing comes along. Its like you are his last resort when there isn't someone else. I would move out, stop returning his calls and distance yourself from him. There is nothing but heartache ahead if you allow yourself to become too emotionally involved. Keep him away and keep your heart to yourself if you have to be around him.
656622
Good on you for slowing down your natural impulse to rush headlong into these things.  Keep that up!  Nothing is gained by hurrying - ever.  Consider this - you are going into the summer, when things kick back even further.  I'd say wait....don't send him another e-mail now (you never know, he may send YOU one.)  But no need to wait until you see him again either.  If you don't hear from him in a couple of weeks - invite him to go with you and some friends to wherever your town is doing their fireworks on the 4th of July.  (So you give a nice, even-balanced message: not an intimate one-on-one, with a group of friends, but you have made an invitation.)  THEN - wait for him.  Completely.  He may or may not take you up on the invite (and if he doesn't, it may only  mean he already has plans) - but you have done all you should do and the ball will be in his court.\n\nGood luck, kiddo!
73221
Whoa!  This guy seems to be in too deep way too fast.  If you want to stay with this guy, you need to have a conversation with him and tell him to slow down or you'll have to stop dating.  Explain that you aren't looking for a commitment so fast.\n\nIf this keeps up, let him down easy, and then don't accept any phone calls, visits, emails, etc. from this guy.  Eventually, he'll get the hint and go away.\n\nIf he doesn't go away, try to get a stalking protective order against him.
656211
yes...he will get the hint sooner of later. if not just snd him a voice mail and tell him you are not intersted and to have a nice life. you dont owe him an explaination. hope it works out
669930
I personally do think it works at the moment I'm in a relationship which started over the Internet, although i have not met him yet, we have such a connection and i really love him. we have been going out around 7months now and its been 7 of the best months of my life.
86032
he seems to be one of those who will not make up their minds for a life time.\nhe calls you back because he is lonely,\nthe next minute, he might be gone.\nkeep on the good work by keeping away form him.\nhe can easily hurt feelings.
341730
he's acting like that because you are going to be divorced soon and I bet he is married.... just from the way he is reacting, so move on dear - and give yourself time to heal completely before trying to get into another relationship. (you have to resolve all the issues that lead to your failed marriage - if you don't you'll drag that old baggage into another relationship.) If there was anything there you two would of met in person.... you talked for a long time without meeting and that should of told you something about him. (I've only met one man online who wasn't married and he was honest with me about his personal life and that's the man I'm married to! We talked for about 2 months and then we met in person - he helped me with coming to Canada to meet him.... and we "clicked" - and got married 3 months later! We have been married for 4 yrs. as of Sept.28th).... While I was single and chatting with men online for years --- they all turned out to be married or living with someone(with whom they had kids with).
563185
The way I see it, is he isn't really interested. That is was different just emailing each other, but when she goes for a visit, his number is changed, and no contact until she is well out of the area. And now she is moving there, and he is very busy..... One: I would find out if he is married, or has a live in girlfriend. Two: ask him straight out what the deal is. Also you say she wants to cont the "childhood" romance.... she is all grown up now. And she really doesn't know him as a person, it sounds like he has changed. But I think she should ask him if he wants to have some sort of releationship with her. Or if he was just carring on a email romance?? Tell your friend good luck, and I hope she doesn't get her heart broken.
608570
You went through his personal stuff thinking you would find something and YOU DID! First off, going through his stuff is wrong and you are in the wrong for doing so; however, since you know whats up why do you want someone in you life like that? He's not going to be able to trust you and vice versa...it doenst get better from here even if you two agree to be with other, cause even though we forgive we never forget.\nYou two are just friends, right?  So then you two are allowed to see other people, right?  Technically, he is doing nothing wrong.  If you want more with him then that shouldhave been stated.  The rules needed to out laid down and I'm thinking they weren't, or were maybe unclear.  All in all, why would you want to be with someone who wants to be with other people?  \nI know exactly what youre going through and honey, it wont get easier cause youll keep finding shit out.  Since you had access to his e-mail, youll try to get access to other things, like his phone, voicemail, any other personal stuff...its not cool to go through his shit cause ultimately you know youre gonna find something.  That voice inside, that feeling in your gut...it doesnt lie
294902
It sounds like he may really like you, but it also sounds like he is a bit overprotective. If you decide to pursue this relationship, make sure that he understands the rules. You have to have your space, and if he insists on being with you ALL the time, he may be a bit more serious than you would be comfortable with. If you don't want to be in a exclusive relationship (which is what it sounds like he wants), I'd look elsewhere.
132003
So basically he ditches you?  That's pretty ridiculous, why do you put up with it?  You're just wasting your time.  He obviously doesn't like you if he isn't even willing to spend time with you.  Dump him, seriously.  Stop wasting your time on someone like him.\n-L
397370
Its kind of like losing the best friend you never had. I don't like dating, so i kind of know where your coming from. I get very nervous when im around any guy taht i like. But just because he moved away, doesn't mean you let him go. The next time you see him, you might want to have one of your friends get his number, email, myspace. anything that could be away for you to keep in touch with him. Friends is always a good step to being something more. So try this out and see if it works.
288439
Well getting attached to someone you talk to online is an bit extreme,granted there are some cool people with decent personality but to be truthful any one can portray that online if they know how to talk to people. TO want to go stay with someone over the summer that you've talked to online is moving a little quickly dont ya think? I am sorry that you are sad but think about it this person could have been bad for you and things happen for a reason take it as a learning experience. I would move on and try and meet someone locally, or at least if I talk to them online meet them and get to know them in person before I make a leap that big
150309
this has happend to me before as well. i stopped all contact with this person. i dont think you should have to put up with a guy who plays games. if someone trully likes you, they would have called. sounds like he is lying about tyring to reach you. let me just say i didnt regret once, letting that guy go. and my life has been less complicated since.
125567
well it sounds like a puupy love phase but honestly.. i think your infechuwated with him.. and maybe you need to focus on you..... if he not keeping a daliy calling nor email,text and other then maybe he not clicking with feling like you are   so try to focus on you cuz  its sounds like your on a path of getting hurt... but do what you feel is best..... i think your gonna get hurt.
316263
This sort of guy usually persists until you put out but don't do that. He also seldom takes no for an answer. I had the same problem in 2001-2002. I just began sharing details about dates I went on with other guys untill he faded into the background. I am happily married to someone else now so don't believe that hype about him being meant for you.