what do most guys look for in  a  girl?
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a girl which can love them truely.\na girl which they can live together, share a life.\na girl which is willing to sacrifice for him, tolerate him.\ndo i look greedy?
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I don't know about other guys, but I like a girl that's attentive. If she is preoccupied with the rest of the world and is easily distracted then she probably will not make a good companion or mate. I think guys notice these things because it shows discipline for the future and when a woman treats me like there is no other guy on the planet it means a lot.\nA nice smile and good heart are a plus also
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Maybe what you find as unattractive in a girl is actually attractive to most guys.  Plus you have to realize that you have to be beautiful on the inside not just on the outside for a relationship to last.
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a bit of both for me, i like a guy with a great personality and good looks! i like a guy that is outgoing, alittle wild and crazy, fun, sweet, honest, careing and faithful!...Im pretty picky when it comes to looks, now he doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous (like the man in my dreams), but i like a guy that is tall like 6 feet tall or taller, slim but muscular (not too skinny and definitly not fat) nice facail structures, nice smile, pretty eyes, if he looks good with trimmed up facial hair thats even better, short hair, not long hair (long hair is for girls) and last but not least gotta have a nice smooth chest *alittle patch of chest hair is ok* (but i hate hair men) and i like dark hair guys, not to fond of the blondes and redheads!
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I will look 3 factors \n\n1. Personality - She will be ideal for me if she is neither too outgoing nor too shy . \n\n2. Character - She must have kindness toward others .\n\n3. Physical - I don't like fat girls , Height must be slightly less than me. Other organs must be medium in size .
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first is personality. she has to be supportive, intelligent, honest, and someone thats gonna be there for me. im looking for someone thats likes me enough to give me some hugs and kisses. shes gotta hav looks too. im not gonna spend most of my time with someone that looks ugly. beauty is a plus. she has to hav some good habits too like not smoking, drinking or doing drugs. i like a clean girl not like those punk rocker girls with a bunch of makeup and tatoos and chains and skulls everywhere. i dont like rings on the nose or lip. belly button is ok i guess
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hi.i'm 17,Asian,Christian & i'm still in college.ok.i have a good friend who's a guy.i met him recently in my new college & even though we've only known each other for a few months up2 now.we have so much fun & he wants to take the same career path as mine.\n\nthe qualities i mostly look for in a guy for a great friendship are the ability to have fun & to joke around,ability to carry on a great conversation,respects me-THOSE ARE A MUST FOR ME!has to be outgoing,adventurous & should care abt me too(as a good friend)like,calls me when i'm down to cheer me up & helps me out in a situation.& something else is that i love it if a guy protects me(not overly-protective),like in a brotherly sort of way.should be somewhat of a gentleman,like open doors,offers you his seat..oh,they shouldn't also mind my bugging them,hehe(this applies only to some girls,lik me,lol)\n-my best guy-friend is exactly like that!\n\nanyway,hope i covered everything-cheers! :)
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In my experience, women look for 1 of 4 things, in no particular order:\n\n1. Charm/Humour\n2. Money\n3. Meanness\n4. Looks\n\nJust because you're not mean and don't want to be mean to a woman, doesn't mean you can't bring one of the other 3 "talents" to the table.
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A guy like you shouldn't be looking for a girl. Girls should be looking for someone like you!! (Too bad you are not into guys)
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The first thing I look at are their eyes, and then their teeth.  My guy has to have good teeth and a nice smile.  I also like guys with strong looking hands and lower arms (think guitar players).  I love a guy who has a great personality and a good sense of humor.  They have to be smart enought to hold an intelligent conversation with me.
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Hi AJ,\n\nThe most important things in any long term relationship are honesty, kindness, a good sense of humor and a willingness to be there during the good times as well as the bad.  That said, the first thing that attracts me to a guy is his smile and the way he carries himself, with confidence but not too cocky or over the top.  A guy who is clean, dressed appropriately and who has a pleasant demeanor and makes the first move conversationally will get my attention and that of most ladies out there.\n\nBTW: Any woman who would value a man for his wallet alone is in the same league as a man who values a woman solely for her looks, both types are players and ultimately bad news.\n\nGood luck and best wishes from bookyone :)
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Every guy has different preferences, so there is no right answer for this. Guys like girls who are confident in themselves, who know what they want and who have an opinion, but not too outspoken. Guys want a girl who will make them feel good about themselves and who cares about him. But don't be all over the guy--keep him interested by having your own thing going on. The important thing is that you have to be yourself and should never act differently because you think that is what the guy wants.
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most important....a great sense of humor..I can't handle a guy who doesn't have one..\n\nalso, I like guys who are witty...smart...I don't mean book smart, though that's ok too, I mean someone who can figure things out..that I don't have to explain everything to..someone who loves his family...is good to his friends, loves animals..someone who believes in being faithful...compassionate, loving...
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As a guy, apperance comes 2nd for me.\nIf a girl has a great personality and has a certain amount of confidence, that will make the girl prettier on the inside(cliche but true.)\nA girl with JUST good looks will get boring after a while, she has no real "core" to her.
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i look for a girl that is shorter than me and of course at first the physical part is what draws you to them but i want a girl that is very family oriented, like they have to like spending time with there family and when we are in a relationship they have to like having me accomapny them at the family evens becuase i do the same.  they have to be smart, funny, and most of all confident, not only with there body but there mind. a strong person that can say "NO". they have to be able to listen becuase i am a great listner. they have to be looking for love and not lust! someone that i know will take care of me when i need it and i will treat them like a princess, like there is no tomorrow!
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You have to be sure of your self and be in the way you are, girls  like a lot of things in a guy, a mean maybe is stupid but nice, we like that, or smart and ugly, or a lot of different ways, but we always like something so you have to be fine in the way your are,trust in what so u think your good at....
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It's hard to explain in my personal preference.  You could have a supermodel and an "average" woman, and I may choose the latter.  Looks aren't everything, but they are somewhat involved, I'm not going to lie.  Other than that, I look for a fun personality, capability to have a good conversation (serious or otherwise), attitude, and a sense of humility.  But some other guys are just in it for the looks...sad, as it may be less fulfilling.