I have just graduated and shes in 9th now, so yea i have to wait little while longer for it to be leagal, but i love her to death. We both find the same things funny, some situations we finish eachothers sentences, plus we flirt all the time, but i dunno if the flirt is more of a bortherly flirt or not. It kills me everyday, that i cant hold her in my arms and tell her i love her. She drives me crazy and im almost possitive that her parents expect that i like her. Thing is im so close to her family that i dont want to screw up  my 10 year friendship with her family, nor her, i dont want to tell her how i really feel and have her weirded out? ANYONE have any ideas or have been in same situaton before? Little bit of help would be most appriciated. Thx
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My dad has always told me that if it will be, it will work. Maybe you can ask her family what they think about you(son-in-law material)I hope I've helped.
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Hi. U really cant test sumbody on how they feel for..id rather suggest u to NOT straight away go and tell her ur feelings for her..but im not saying u should never tell her..try to b friends with her..ur love for her seems very true,there r sum people in this world who go only for looks and not for the real person they r. Try to b frnds with her then mayb ud b able to make out her feelings for u as a frnd or even sumthin more than that.Dont bother about what other people think..its their problem..u mind ur own business..and forget abt what the world arnd u thinks.All The Best.Tke Cre.
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Tell her how you feel....there's nothing wrong with telling someone you like them.  Just think about what you wrote..."I think she likes me too"!  Go for it!!!
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Are you talking about.. how to talk to you.. like phone .. email.. chat? or you are able to talk to her.. just not about love or your feelings for her.. basically.. if you are able to talk to her.. with her parents and her permission, then just slowly let her know tha you like her.. dont start off with love... cause you might be confusing love yourself... take it easy.. dont think too much when it comes to love.. just be yourself.. and try to be her friend.. if possible.. best friend.. if things are all good.. then love would come automatically.
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u know its funny...this has happened with me and my extremely close friend just recently...we always flirt and it feels like something more than just a regular friendship and i want that...but she is confused and doesnt want to lose me.  i still have feelings for her and we talk a lot and are very close.  i am still trying to be myself yet i am trying to develop a different and closer relationship.  i say you just keep trying to do what you want and just see how it turns out.  whos to say another guy wont come around if this doesnt work out. good luck
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I have a friend that is a freshmen with a boyfriend who is already a senior. They hid their relationship because their parents do not seem to approve.\n\nWell, if the both of you are willing to make a sacrifice for your love, then have your relationship hidden. Or...give a good impression to her parents so that they will seem to like you.\nTell her you still love her and keep talking to her. See if it works out.\n\nHope this helps~
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If you're sure of your sexuality, why don't you start by going to her for advise? That will get the "telling her" bit out of the way. \n\nAs to you really liking her, it really does depend on whether or not she loves her girlfriend. If she does, then it wouldn't be right for you to try to come between them. Would it be worth losing her friendship if you did get together and it didn't work out? If she's not totally in love with her girlfriend, then try telling her how you feel about her, but do also tell her that if she rejects your advances, you will accept that & want to remain friends (assuming that you would be able to do that emotionally).
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You should jus tell her how you feel, are you actually in a relationship with this girl? The way that you have to look at it is if you tell her that you do love her and she feels the same, maybe you'll get in2 a relationship! if this girl doesnt move back and decides to stay where she is - doesnt mean that you cant still be together. Me and my boyfriend were living real close in the same city, now hes living in a completely different part of the country - we're working out tho, and you could visit her aswell as her visiting you right?
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i think you should defiantly tell her how you feel, she probably feels the same way. you will never know if you dont make a move. now there are two factors you should consider. first, are you sure you really like her. by telling her if you both arent very mature and understand human nature then it will change your relationship. make sure you arent just lonely. best way to tell is wait until you are in a relationship with someone else and see if you still feel the same about her. the second factor is timing. timing is everything. if you are gonna tell her how you feel you have a better chance after she is out the other relationship. good luck
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unfortunately you cant make someone like you  youre just gonna have to do things to make her feel differently about you  by the way this one guy asked me out five years ago and then asked me out again this year and i still felt the same way  usually if girls say no one time they say no the next time  i dont know this girl though so you could have a chance cause three years is a long time to grow up and change  flirt with her but dont make her uncomfortable  good luck  <3 *abby loves jay*
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WOW! I think she loves you but knows so much about you and you about her that it's become too difficult to broach the subject of you two being a potential love match. I think you need to ask yourself do I love her in that way? If you do you've got to bite the bullet this weekend and ask her if she has feelings for you other than as a friend? Tell her you want a relationship with a girl and are confused as she seems like a friend most of the time but then when you discuss the subject of other women she doesnt seem able to ddeal with it. DO YOU LIKE HER????? i hope you do and that she feels the same and can finaly get the strength to let you know, some of the best relationships start with 2 people being friends first I think you 2 stand a fair chance of settling down together unless she is just a friend and a possessive one at that. If that is the cse you need to tell her you are interested in having agirlfriend and she needs to allow you to do this if she cant deal with that then you need to meet her a little bit less cos no girlfriend will put up with you having such a female possessive best mate! Good Luck!!
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I think that you should take it slow.  Hint around about marriage like ask her if she ever wants to get married and ever wants to have kids.  Beat around the bush and ask her how she feels about you, when she asks you how you feel tell her.  You will know when the right time is to "pop the question."  If you two are such good friends then it should build more of a foundation for the future for you two if there is any possibility that there will be one.
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Aww iv had this problem, what can i say mine worked out i finally got the guy i wanted to be with and we've been together for almost a year now. It's a complicated matter and i know how you feel, its either: let her know how you feel and ruin your friendship or not let her know and keep wondering. I say give it a bit more time it may seem like forever but you must know guys and girls can't be friends cause sexuality and emotions kick in, its a fact. But if u have a good feeling that she likes you back then go ahead and tell her how you feel. Girls hide their feelings very well.
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Two thoughts to consider:\n\nTwo people who like each other (and who aren't separated by extraordinary circumstances) inevitibly hook up.  That's just how love works.  If she wants you, then she'll do what she can to be with you, so don't worry about that.  Let her flirt, and flirt back if you want.\n\nAbout the issue with her parents...\n\nIf she's truly an adult (or ready to be an adult), then she will do what she wants and not just what her parents want.  Letting her parents dictate her love life *would* be a sign of immaturity and lack of independence.\n\nWhat do I think you should do?\n\nDon't even think about what her parents want until you know what she wants.
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I really dpn't get the point why it would break friendship if one would admit their feelings towards the other.. I mean, you two started out as friends and if you are relaly good friends, even if she don't like you, she won't ignore you just because you admitted your feelings for her.. Actually shouldn't it have to be the other way around? As you have said, you two are pretty close friends.. I don't see any problem in taking you relationship a bit further.. Besides, holding hands is a pretty good sign that the girl likes you too.. ~.^\n\nAnyways.. I do think it's the right time for you to tell tyour feelings for her.. Accept whatever she will answer to you ^-^ If you are really into her as you have said, then you definitely should tell her how you feel.. Don't get discouraged if she said she doesn't feel the same way for you (though I think she also likes you). Take courage and tell her!\n\nGood luck then! ^-^
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Tell her how you feel it's better to love and lose than to have not loved at all. Mabye she will like you the same way. You'll never know unless you try.
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I Think she is thinking as more than a friend. And she thinks that you are only one who can understand her feelings and can give some kind of support to her. Plz let it continue the same.\nAnd i think you have to wait for the right moment to express your love.\n\nALL THE BEST!!!!!!