Most guys usually lie about Not being one, but would there be a reason to lie about being one? My cousin said her ex told her she was his "first". Would there be a reason for him to lie about it?
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Just off the top of my head:\n * To be "special" to the lady in question - offering virginity is a precious gift\n * To show that they were safe from STDs\n * To show that they have strong will, and that you are the one to break it down.\n * Wants her to take the lead - it is FUN to be seduced.
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For those that think that it is easy for a guy to confess or admit, it definitely isn't true(Personal experience). Sometimes all they need is a little hint. If you do not want to tell him, i suggest you look for the extreme. Guys whom usually like someone will act exceedingly rude/polite as a rule. Good Luck!
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well if the girl isn't virgin well that is kind of bad that means she couldn't wait any longer so there you are 19 yrs. virgin with her. so if i was you i would lie to her but believe me once she looks at it she will know you are virgin so i think you deserve someone better someone that is virgin. by the way if i had a boyfriend that is 19 and is still virgin wow i'll get  all excited i am virgin and i would have sex with you so both would be virgin so if you wanna talk to me as a friend and tell me your real problem i would gladly do so www.billypapi@yahoo or call me 9565726222 and my name is marisol yes this is my real number people!!!!!!!
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Yea I think that they should be real with you. I dont understand and this goes for both girls and guys...whats the point in pretending who you are. Its better to be yourself. If your a B*i*t*c*h or an A Hole then just be real about it no need to pretend the truth ALWAYS COMES OUT!
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That'a a hard one. Is he known for lying in the past? It's good to have trust, but we careful you don't get hurt and mislead.
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girl, i think you need to sit him down by himself and tell him how you feel about the lies he been telling you.\nbecause girl the reason he is not telling you the truth is because he might already got a girlfriend or a wife.\nthe only reason he never tell you where he lives or don't give you the right number is because he might be using you.\nmy friend went through that and she still don't believe that he had a girlfriend.\ni just don't want another girl through that.
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What is there to be confused about?  If you have to lie to someone in order for them to like you then you obviously don't need them.
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Lying to protect your feelings... is that what they're calling it now?\nWhen a guy is seeing someone, other female friends need to be kept at a distance. Socializing together in groups of friends is ok, but he needs to cut the one on one bs. Would he like it if you went out with former boyfriends? I didn't think so. This looks one sided in this sense. Tell him to cool it on the female dating, he has you. Lying by omission is still lying. It's how all guys fool around! I meet more and more guys with a regular gf plus a side wack. Don't make excuses for him, either. If the guy wants to date, then he shouldn't get serious with anyone and play the field. Be firm, and draw the line. You are not being unreasonable by confronting him and saying what you really feel on this matter. If he loves you, he'll respect your point of view.
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You might want to really consider a relationship with this person.  That he dated your mother, previously, and now that you are dating him, makes for situation in which he has to operate with some deception.  I wouldn't worry if he was straightforward with you but given that you suspect he lied to you and you haven't discussed this with him, you're relationship might be in trouble.  If you aren't able to communicate to him freely and he with you, then you will need to reconsider your relationship.  Is he lying to you?  Most likely he is, but you have to ask him yourself. Consider the state of your communications in your relationship and consider his answer to your suspicions.  It will tell.  If he comes clean then its ok.  If not, then you might want to consider other options before getting more involved.  Good luck, cheers!
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I am always honest with all my guy friends, but it is okay to lie if it keeps from hurting other people, like when I have guys trying to ask me confidential things about my friends and always lie so I do not betray their secrets. I keep things secret when a person doesnt need to know about it, its usually none of their business anyways.
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If he hasn't asked then he's prob just having respect for you and your past and doesn't want to invade. He prob feels it's up to you if you choose to one day tell him. If he tells you that he isn't interested then don't be offended, after all the past is in the past and why is there a need to tell him about it. He's interested in what's going on in the present and not what happened in the past. Don't think to much of it.
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If it was me, I wouldn't bother with him if he broke up with me before, but on the other hand, he may have matured enough to be serious.  If you like him, just tell him! If he can't appreciate the honesty, then you don't need him! <3
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I agree with you that he could be lying, but let me tell you more about what I think he is,\n\nI believe he never had a gf before and he likes you so much, so if it happens you could be the first one in his life ( I mean he could have no experience so bear with him ) also he is not a kind of a social person but he could try to seem social , he is a dreamer,  he also could be affectionate and romantic if you help him to get over his blushing.\n\nTry not to question if he likes you before you know if you like him first or not, if we respond to admiration we would have had several gfs and bfs, but none one would really love, its only true ones that we should choose, so be careful.
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because its a mans first insticnt to do whatever it takes to get out of trouble. Most guys lie about it because they don't like getting in fights with their girlfriends and they don't like to see them cry. Also a lot of men are shallow, and if for some reason you "aren't giving him what he 'needs' then they feel bad about window shopping for another girlfriend. I know, its happened to me a few times. Men are stupid sometimes.
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did you think you would get an honest answer? If so, how could you expect that when you already think women are liars?\n\nI disagree with the payback philosophy though, because at the most it is a 50/50 thing- guys lie 99% more than women?  Thats a laugh to say the least!\n\nI have found that women are liars too, basically because I dont lie to them.  So I think what happenes is that ONE person in the relationship is a liar that why theres problems, otherwise if both were liars, it would probably work!  I know men that lie to their women too, so I dont just think women are liars- and in those cases it is the women that are honest.\n\nSomething else to consider, and ladies, you are not qualified to respond to what I am about to say here- because you will either never admit it, or you dont see it in yourselves;  women want you to read their minds. They will tell you something with absolutely no details, but then expect you to be ABLE to recall those details later.  You may be able to recall the whole conversation, but she will tell you she told you something else, and if there is one detail you dont remember (because she didnt tell you) she will say "you never listen to me!" The fact is we listen, but what they say to us means something else to them than it does to us.  Thats why it seems like they are ALWAYS lying, because when they say things, they dont mean them in the way that plain english defines them.
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You must not lie to hurt or harm. You must not lie if your friends new hair dew is  the eqvilent of a rats nest and say it is good. Lie to prevent hurt for ex. your bro draws a space ships thats looks like spagetti dont say it!Just say somthing nice and no one gets hurt
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depends on if they are secure or not. Do men lie about their age? I know a lot who have. They say they are older.........or the same age as I am.........go figure