Without giving too much personal info, I am 40-ish but am receiving many responses from 20-ish guys. My close-up photo is posted on my profile, and I don't look my age...but I'm not out for play alone. I want a mate.\n\nGuys, even if you are younger, are you looking for love? Or just something to add to your jourmal?\n\nIf you are not able to leave a serious reply, then don't leave any, please. You only display your immaturity when you do that. Which is the reason I have to post such a question in the first place. Thank you to all serious replies!
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My last long term relationship was with a woman 10 years older than me. The reason? I wastired of dating girls and I wanted to date a WOMAN! I was looking for someone emotionally mature/secure that knew what she wanted and wasn't into playing games. It's very alluring when you can find that eclectic mixture of someone that's fun and responsible, has enough experience in life to realise that every good relationship is give and take.  I wasn't looking to add notches to my gun belt or pages in a journal, I was very much looking for love and quite honestly it was the closest ever I'd come in so far as matching my hopes to my expectations. I can't speak for the masses out there but, there are a few of us guys that are sentimental enough to hold out hope for love, I hear rumors that it still exists (wink)....
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Considering the recent questions this guy has posted, nothing he has stated here can be taken seriously.\n\n"Anyone here who is Married and looking for some extra fun, notthreesome?\nAsked by matkalland - 1 answer - Marriage & Divorce - 6 minutes ago - Open\nAnyone here going to University of St.thomas and is looking for causalsex?\nAsked by matkalland - 0 answers - Singles & Dating - 10 minutes ago - Open\nAny one from Twin Cities interested in casual sex?\nAsked by matkalland - 4 answers - Singles & Dating - 13 minutes ago - Open\nI am looking for a MILF inMinnesota? Anyone interested Please let me know, handsome,works goes to the U?\nAsked by matkalland - 3 answers - Singles & Dating - 16 minutes ago - Open"
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i didn't get my first kiss or first relationship til i was 24. it was a long wait and i know it can be frustrating.. but try not to let it bother you..  there's not much you can do other than live your life and try to keep a possitive attitude..  feel free to click on my profile and send me a message if you'd like to talk further..
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Don't give up my dear! There is more than one fish in the sea and as long as we end up happy and treated with love from the people we are with, I believe that life would be satisfying.\nI also am over 40. I look for a lady by day and hot to trot by night. (some of that hottie stuff can be daytime too)  I realize that we are not 20 anymore and our bodies are older but show off your best assets to show your confidence. Don't go overboard. Be yourself. Take up fun activities to keep an interest. Just hang in there and keep trying because it is nice to have someone around to laugh and talk to, to share fun and intimate things with as you get older.\ngood luck in love and life.
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I am right there with you! That guy seems to have some weird notion that talking like that will turn a girl on. I've never understood why guys put stuff like that in their profiles. I can understand them talking about things like that once they've developed a relationship with a person, but putting it out there before they even know a person isn't really sending out the best message. But, in the end it's up to you. You may want to give him a chance and what he has to offer....he may just be all talk. He's at the age where he knows what he wants, maybe he's tired of playing games and just wants to put his "wish list" out there. :)
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been there. sucks. confidence all low and crap cause we're not 20 anymore! fortunately for you, these Young girls think older guys are hot! guys get more distinguished looking. women just get older. i'm sure you'll find some one new to rock your world. just be careful. it's not the same world you dated in 20 years ago! best of luck!
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Hmmm...Well I think you're cute. Probably one good looking hottie, as a matter of fact. Here's my email address if you wanna talk. supra_324_nova@yahoo.com Oh, I am about the same age as you.\nThanks for your advice before.
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The reason is, after 2 days on a personals site, a women is going to be overwhelm with responses by men. Many will be desperate men. Alot of them will be scum of the earth. If you are a decent guy and meet up to some of the minimum requirements, I would go for it. One word of caution, Don't tryto put on that you are something you are not. It will show up in most cases right there between the lines. No matter what a woman says she is looking for in a man, I can say, without a doubt, the number 1 trait that will get her is honesty.
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so a woman posts a profile (on the internet) and a guy responds to her profile because he is interested?\n\nWell, maybe what the women found from the guy who was interested in their profile, was not something that they were interested. \n\nI personally don't think that women posting a profile for a date is desperate because it appears that this world has turned into mostly internet.  And we all have a right to chose who we want to go out with.  We don't have to go out with the first guy that posts to the profile.  We have the right to choose, because we are the ones that need to be happy also.  Not just the guy.\n\nI met my significant other through the internet and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me.
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HA. Speak for yourself!\n\nWhy on earth would you want to kind a "cute guy" online?  It's MUCH better to actually find them in the real world, don't you think?
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I am in my 20's and scared for all these people under 16 trying to find boyfriends on line.  They need to enjoy their childhood not be looking for love.  Its dangerous.  I am suprised how many young people are on here.
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I have been in a relationship with my partner since September of 1994.  We broke up a few times in the early years.  The longest period of time was for 6 months.  But we always get back together.  It isn't perfect.  He does not have an affectionate or romantic bone is his body, and I really need affection and romance sometimes.  But I'm not perfect either.  I get moody and depressed quite a bit.  So we just accept each other for who we are.  The big secret to a relationship is compromise.  \n\nNow to answer each of your questions:\n\nWhat are you as a gay man looking for in a life partner?  A best friend.\n\nWhat age range?  A maximum 8 year age difference.  If I was single, I would not date anyone younger than 22 or older than 38.\n\nAre looks more important than what is in the heart?  If so, why?  There has to be a physical attraction there, but looks are not what keeps a relationship going.\n\nIf his heart is more important they why?  There is nothing you can ever do to stop age, but love can stay eternally young.\n\nDo you really want a life long partner?  If so, why or why not?  I have been blessed with a wonderful life partner.  People are not meant to be alone.  Life needs to be shared with someone you love.
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How old are you ?? But you will find someone soon , you just have to stop looking !!
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Look past the age for a minute.  I mean, I know some 30 year olds that act like they're 50 and I know some 50 year olds that act like they're 30.  Age is irrelevant to some extent. Let me emphasize "some extent".  Although the mind may think younger, the body will eventually answer the question "What's my age again?".   Ok, re-track back to my first statement. *waits while you read it again*.  Now, it is very nice to be complimented.  (if I may, your nose looks quite lovely today!) and it is nice that someone has taken an interest in you.  But, the real question is, would YOU date him?  The mere fact that you are contemplating it leads me to believe you may have some interest.  But, is this interest only because he has showed you some attention?  Perhaps you should casually spend some time with him and see if he is someone you would date.  I don't know the man.  I mean, if you want, I can shoot down to....."where?" and scope out the situation.  You know, stare him up and down and ask him what his intentions are......shake him up a little.
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32 is not old, you're just in a slump girl, we all get to feeling a little bad sometimes and take it out on ourselves via age or looks or weight etc..  32 is in no way old and you are doing just great!  keep your chin up and eyes bright, things will get better for you and you will once again realise how young you are!  Stop looking for that special guy and you'll be surprised just how fast he shows up.  Did enjoy the "spinster" part though, <thump you on head>  quit being so tough on you will ya please?  LOL  Life doesn't even start until 50 or so they tell me, am surely hoping they are right too.
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IT IS GREAT THAT YOU THINK LIKE THIS. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. I DON'T SEE WHY U SHOULD SETTLE FOR LESS. I AM PRETTY SURE THAT IF YOU KEEP ON LOOKING YOU WILL FIND THAT GREAT PERSON YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. YOU SHOULD GO AHEAD AND BREAK UP WITH THIS GUY THOUGH. WHY BE WITH HIM IF IT IS NOT LEADING TO ANYTHING. LIKE YOU SAY YOU ARE 27 ALREADY. WHY WASTE TIME LIKE THIS.
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JJ,\nHow old are you?  What do you want to talk to mature ladies about...preferably by IM??