If i have a girlfriend, and then i go and do somthing with a guy is that cheatin with her, or is he like another person to go out with so i can have two?
209163
You have to keep in mind that "cheating" is defined by the people involved. A better question would be "does she consider it cheating?" or "Based on what I have told her regarding the status of our relationship (whether or not we are exclusive, or exclusive to the sex of the person - no more than 1 gf or 1 bf, or whatever you all have discussed) would she consider it cheating?" She may or may not. She is who you should be asking, only she can decide. By definition monogamy is one person, not one person - per sex. So if she feels you are in a monogamous relationship, you may need to redefine what your relationship is. Your relationship, both of you could decide, is really where you all do whatever you want with guys however are faithful to each other. It is, what you both can agree that it is. Honesty is always the best policy.
473320
Go for more.. you can still be boyfriend and girlfriend without going out somewhere.\nIf you are her friend... how could you handle the situation when she dates another guy and tells you all about it?
84111
He's probably cheating or looking for other women to cheat with.  Once a cheater it's always in their nature to do it again.  You're probably better off leaving this guy and moving on to someone else that makes you happier.
46090
Not unless you did something you shouldn't have while out. Let your girlfriend know that you are just friends with them and that's as far as it goes. She shouldn't be like that over friends. Does she still have guy friends she hangs with?
271185
Sounds to me that you dont need to make a choice.  They're your friends.  If you had 2 girlfriends, would you need to choose only one of them as well?
27983
The first thing you do is ask yourself if your "best friend" is really they type you want to be romantically involved with. I bring that up because he was obviously cheating on his girlfriend by making out with you. This means that he has a disposition to cheating. Do you really want to pursue a relationship with someone you know cheats? You'll always wonder in the back of your mind if he's cheating on you knowing that he cheated on this other girl.\n\nStart getting involved with volunteer activities that allow you to have more interactions with other people. This will keep you busy and possibly help you find a real gem that takes being in a relationship serious.\n\nRemember... once a cheater, always a cheater.
631375
You kind of answered your own question.  It sucks to be cheated on so why would you want to put another person through that?  If the girl really wants you then she should dump her man and be with you.
287300
You say you care about your girlfriend. Cheating is not the action of a caring man. If you want something/someone else then first split with your girlfriend.\nTell her that you want something different ... Honesty is the best (and kindest) policy.
255593
Have you ever considered the possibility of simply not being monogamous. That way, you wont be cheating. You can keep this guy as a play-friend, while continuing to search for a more appropriate primary. The more you find out, the more the poly lifestyle makes sense.
463199
If i were you, because this guy has cheated on his girlfriend he will also do the same to you and disregard your feelings in time to come by going off with someone else....best advice i can give you is to protect your heart.
641872
Hey if my girl lets some guy lick her pu$$y, then it's cheating.  Also that $hit can lead to something else.  If i walked into a situation like that, i would bash someone's head in.
71326
Oooooh ... I think u r in a baaad situation/ well, if I WERE IN YOUR place, i would break up with ur girlfriend and go for that friend u have. u never know, SHE (ur gf) might be trying to keep u away from (HER) and seeing another guy at the same time. PLEEEASE pick me for a best answer. I thought for  along time on this.
87561
Its like this, if your boyfriend is going to cheat he would have probably done it already, but some guys like to flirt with other girls because they think they are players, and others they will flirt with other girl, but they don't want them, they just want to see if they can get them if they wanted them.
316143
HELL NO, Do you want another guy touching your lady? I wouldn't. What the hell is up with people these days over the 3 sums? I like it with me and my partner and NOONE else. But that is up to you. You have to live with the fact that your g/f wants to be with another man. What if she like it or him? Will you be willing to have another? I dont
309211
It's possible, but you're making yourself sound like a cheater. If you love someone else while you're already in a relationship then that's bad. It's better to be in love with two people when you're not with one of them already. If you love someone else while in a relatonship then it means that you want the other person who isn't your boyfriend/girlfriend. \n\nTry asking yourself what you can get from this person 'on the side' that you're not getting from your significant other. If the reasons outweigh the reson to stay with the person you're currently with, then maybe it's time to end the relationship, hm?
474410
If a guy is flirting and talking to you for whatever reason and doesnt mention he has a woman then no he really doesnt care for her. And if i were you i wouldnt be the next one to go out with him because im sure he will do the same to you. Its obvious he has no quam about cheating on his girlfriends if he has to hide the fact that he has a girl in the first place. Hes no good.
533382
No thats not considered cheating.  Its always fine to go to the movies with a friend but if she makes a move on you, you know she wants more than a friend.  Maybe instead of movies, talk to her about her current relationship, that way, you guys can build a better relationship and besides, no one will misunderstand and think shes cheating on her bf with you