me amd my first love had a very healthy relationship he had been together for 2 years then i had to travle to a next country she promise me that she will always love me .we keep in touch then we had a argument she told me she dont love me anymore everytime i call her she hang up her phone on me when i send her any email she turn off her computer she make me fell like if i am a dog or she naver love me.
199224
Forget her! Make her feel stupid on missing out on a very nice guy. All you should say is good ridance. There is a very good chance that she is with another guy if she trying to ignore you. She went on, and you should to.
447717
Because she realized during the first call that she really didn't want a relationship with you, and depending on how quickly you called backl (i.e. within 24 hours), she likely is afraid of whatever broke you up in the first place - maybe a little obsession on the part of one of you? \n\nlet her go...
258376
Apparently, you never loved her.  You were into the chase for her.  You have hurt her badly.  As a person, you will need to grow from this and explain to her about your feelings.  She will feel betrayed by you.  She probably knew that you were not serious, but your persistance made her second guess herself and accept you as a boyfriend.  Know you have thrown this in her face.  Very sad.
536382
it will take you some time to get over this person but you will trust me.  they are obviously emotionally imature.  on some level they likely do love you, just don't really understand what real love is and throw the word around without understanding the reprecussions of what it may do to the person the say it to.  could be a serial commitmentphobe or just an immature person who has no clue what they are doing.   be thankful to be out of it before it has been months or years.
230930
Hi, well the reason they keep calling you and telling you they love you is \n1): and old saying you don't know what you have until it is gone. \n2): You may have some unfinished business the reason why you broke up, maybe you will have to think about it and then talk it out with them.\nIf you have nothing you think you need to deal with cut off the energy that means tell them it is over and for them to move on, don't answers the calls and then they won't make you feel sorry for them and you will have time to think about you.\nIf you don't it will put pressure on the relationship that you have now!\nYou need to get on with you life go with your heart and your head, you need to do some soul searching and see what is best for you.\nAnd at the end of the day it is you that counts first.\nA time of peace, is a time to think clearly without pressure.\n\nLove & blessings \nMilly
161028
I met a girl on line.  Now she's my wife and we have a son.  But before this happened I visited her in her county for a number of weeks over some months.  It was only after this time that I felt happy enough to ask her to marry me.\n\nSo I suggest if you can go visit her.  Also is this your first real love?
182343
this is Jennifer im 28 years old i been with my man sense August 6,2003.that would make it almost 3 years that we been togather.he had told me he loved me first.it was just a few months into our relationship.I had a lot of people at my house alll the time and one evening we were all partying and he left..he called me after he left and we were argueing he left me a message on my voice mail he said all this bull**** then he said I LOVE YOU<there i said it...and thats how it went...
128439
yeah girl u did the right thing u deserve better than being second, i was in a situation like that it lasted for a year and a half and i tried to get out of it on my own but like u he would b tellin me how much he loves me he would call come to my work everything so i stayed, than the wifey found out bout me on my bday that nite he was to sleep over and everything well thing blew up and mostly fo him at the ending of the day he chose his wife over me, n thou i new that was probably goin to happen i was hoping fo something different and it hurt like hell i was depressed fo awhile, this was mayb 5yrs ago it was a hard lesson to learn i will never talk to a man who is wit or talkn to anyone, this guy and i still talk its funny, he calls just to see how im doin or if he's in my area he will pass threw just to say hi but we both have moved on his wifey took him back and im completely over him but we have that respect fo each other, girl u did the right thing don't go back and wait til it blows up cuz it ain't gonna b pretty
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She's a bit insecure, and like the idea of having you on a leash.\n\nshe is playing emotional mind games with you and keeping you hanging on, pretending that you may have a chance.\n\nShe may also have broken up with you because she wanted to start another relationship with someone else, and then the other guy blew her off - she is stuck in a rut and has no-one to give her attention - and she knows that you still have feelings, so she calls you again, and makes a re-connection.\n\nshe is playing games with you - trust me, I have done this to a few guys, it's not nice but it's part of life.\n\nif you really wanna give it another go, try and get back with her, but give her conditions and ground rules, so she doesn't take advantage of your naivety and vulnerability, cos she knows that you are a bit soft and gullible, etc... sorry.\n\nanyway, if i was you, i'd GET RID!
18125
Boy thats a tough one! I had a similar problem with my first love. If I were you I would try and think about why he was with you in the first place... what made him need you. Possibly show him that you two were good for each other that you brought out great qualities in one another. But sometimes people just lose touch and intrest sad as it may seem. Just be careful not to put yourself out there too far, you have to respect yourself before anyone else will.\n\nIf your ruthless a good dose of jealousy might work too ; D
16939
i really feel you, i just experienced the same ordeal.she didnt go to another country, but she was only 2 hours away.i can tell you that alot of times long distant relations dont work, or at least they havent worked for me.
251097
apparently she loves you!  not many people are left in this world that are willing to put aside their own emotions to spare anothers.  let her help you or just let her be there.  anymore love is hard to find, you have found someone who apparently will stick behind you through thick and thin don't let that go, you may regret it down the road.  she is on your side shes not against you, lean on her don't push her away
274125
You are a very passionate man it seems and you truly love her but it doesn't seem that these feelings are mutual. Unfortunately i think you should move on. She's told you three times now that she doesn't want to be with you. As much as it hurts if you love her you should try and let her go. Plus not always when two people have very similar personalities do they get along. Give yourself some space from her and go looking around the pond. Like the saying goes there are a lot of fish in the ocean. Look for someone who is just as passionate as you are.
535003
I can relate to you perfectly. The guy I have been with for just about a year did not know if he wanted to keep the relationship going. After a long talk I said I was willing to work on it but he still needed time to think it has been like 6 days now and he hasn't even called me. Your entitled to be sad and angry after all she wasn't 100% honest with you and that is always painful. About the being torn part the best thing I can say to you is to pray and ask who ever your god may be to give you the strength to get past this and to open your mind and heart so that you can know what it is you have to do. Also taking a break with her might not be a bad thing after all you never know what you have until you lose it. Good luck and I'll keep you in my prayers.
651960
Did I ever....had a friend that I wanted as more than a friend.  My friend moved out of state,  and we kept in touch my telephone for about two years.  Through a couple more moves on his part and some on mine,  we lost touch, for three yrs.  I connected with a  friend of his and found out he'd be in town,  so we made plans to see one another,  only to have a blizzard cancel plans,  he flew out of town the next morning.  When he got home,  he told me on the phone that he'd been in love with me for the last five years or more.  Time goes by,  we lose connection again,  but for FIVE years this time.  We've now been reconnected by phone and internet for about four or five years.  He begs me to move accross the country with him (even with my five kids, lol, he must have it bad, huh??lol).  I told him he should've said something while he lived here,  but he thinks I should've been the one to say it.  Just one of those things that makes ya wonder????What if????  The bad thing about missing the chance,  is that I know we would've been perfect for eachother.  The good thing is that I am in a happy marriage with five wonderful children.  Regretfully,  there's just no way to ever know,  leaving me with more "wonder" than I really care to have sometimes.
47454
If she doesn't love you, it sounds like you've already lost her.  I'm sorry, but I think you should end the relationship and find someone who loves you.
487654
Hi Che,  The way you ask the question with all the information, You both sounded like a happy couple. I don't think you did anything wrong,(if you didn't leave something out). She is very confused about her love for you,or she has found someone else to replace you.It's one or the other. I would find a nice girl who know's what her feeling are. That way you don't have to go through this again. Your right us girls don't all do this.I have a old man and i would never do this to him. Good Luck My Friend.\n\n  Clowmy