ihavent done anything to anybody but it always seems everybody hates me. why is that ? i like everyone but i dont think they like me i say hey how ya doin?and they are like bye later or just plane out rude . why do they hate me? i think i am depressed.Can anyone help raise my spirits?
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Please put a smile on your avatar! It will help you.
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Ok, heres what i got from your sentence:\nfriend said your attitude is bad.\nhe judged you after listening to another person.\nnow he hates you.\nhe doesn't realize that his behavior is extremely bad.\nyou think your a good person, however, he has scolded you about your attitude, while at the same time, his is three times as bad as yours. How can this be? correct?\nAll i can tell you is, the rest of your life (i am assuming you are young?) people will judge you. I am 44, i am judged by my clothing, my hair, my tattoos, my friends, etc. People sometimes just LOOK at me and make judgements. What i decided when i turned 40, that i wish i had decided WAY earlier, is to live my life to please God and myself. To not care what anyone else thought, as long as i was doing right. If your friend wants to believe what someone else says about you, and not listen to you, hes not much of a friend, is he? Tell him you are hurt that he does not listen to you, and move on. There are plenty of people out there who are great friends, supportive of you, and most important, don't worry about little things! Good luck.
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i feel the exact same way. kinda' sucks, huh,so dont really know what to tell u buddy. srry.\n                                   im new , so not much of a  help, althuogh therre are some unplesant jerks on this site, (not me of course)some of them are nice, ive already made some friends!\nonce again srry. im not much of a help, but keep trying!
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I'm actually having that same problem. In my case, yeah, I made a mistake, but I fessed up to it, was honest about it, and tried to apologize for it. I still feel like the other person is trying to make me feel guilty, and I refuse to be around people who are always negative all the time. I thought that I liked people like that, and maybe I did once, but now it just brings me down. I want to feel better, not feel how alone I am, and how much the world sucks. That's my story.
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No matter what you do, not everyone will like you.\nThat is a fact of life.\nBe yourself & people will like you, or not.\nBut being wishy-washy & trying to please everyone will end up making EVERYONE mad at some point.\nIf the site bothers you, kill it.\nIf you like it, make it what you want, only add those people who you you really like & ignore what others say.\nIf you don't like/love yourself, no one else will either.
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Sounds like you are young and you think everyone is out there to get you.  It is not true, you are just paying more attention to the negatives than the positives.  To solve your problem, ask those why they always respond in a negative way.  They may not notice that they are doing it until you bring it to their attention.  Keep your head up, not everyone is ot there to make your life a living hell.
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i know how you feel but i`ve learned that hating him is not the answer. put yourself in his shoes. what if you really liked a guy & he "hated" you. you wouldn`t feel so good now would you ? i understand he might get annoying but he really likes you. you must be really pretty both inside & out. don`t hate people, especially boys, for liking you. just try ignoring him & he`ll EVENTUALLY get over you. like someone else (:
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Why are you even calling yourself a weak character.. \n\nDon't put your own self there.. \n\nRegaurdless race or whatever.. There are going to be someone out there that don't like you or your ways.. \nBe happy with yourelf and F the rest..
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Why do you hate yourself? You really have to ask yourself that very question. Is it because you have low self esteem or is it because your body isnt the way you wanted it? I have never felt hate for myself so I cant really put myself in your shoes, but what I do know is that you really need to tell someone, weather it be a counsler or clergyman. Please, whatever you do, dont hurt yourself. Things WILL get better. Trust me!
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People hate what they can't or don't understand. I'm certain you're a very loving person with a great personality. Try and not let the haters get you down!!!!
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I get along well with men and have had a little difficulty over the years getting along with some women. I know part of it comes from having a mother, a female guardian  and girlfriends being mean to me when I was young. Today, I have plenty of female friends. \n\nI am a nice person and I know I am. I try and remember that if people are mean to me, it's about them, not me. If you're doing the best you can to be friendly and people are turning away from you, find some better people to hang out with. \n\nExamine your behavior to see if you are giving off any negative signals. Smile and be cheerful even if someone doesn't like you. Feel what you feel and let them feel whatever they want. You don't have any control over them anyway. Find a solution to your problems, leave the complaining for someone else. \n\nToday, I like myself so much that I find people are drawn to me. I hope you can find that place too.
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Perhaps I can help you out a little.  I have been dealing with a bout of depression for about a year now.  So I understand your situation.\n\nIf your friends seem to be distancing themselves from you, perhaps you should voice your concerns to them.  Ask them if you have done something to offend them, because you feel that they are shutting you out of their lives.  If they do not offer any answers, perhaps it is time to find some new friends.  \nPeople change over time, so do their opinions of others.  \n\nYou really should not allow it to hurt you physically.  True loosing a friendship is a traumatic event, but you have to be able to move on.  If you begin to dwell on why somebody dislikes you, you may miss out on forming another friendship with somebody else.\n\nI'm sorry you are feeling "down" from all of this.  All I can say is keep your head up, and live your life to suit YOU, and not those around you.\n\nI wish you all the best of luck in working through this situation.  If you ever need to just talk to somebody with a sympathetic ear, you can feel free to e-mail me anytime.  jam961@yahoo.com\n\nTake care, and God Bless You!
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It sounds like you have a problem. Why are you so angry? I understand not likeing someone but  getting angry at them when they are trying to get along with you doesn't make sense. Normally people are able to be civil even when they dislike someone. That anger isn't normal and it's coming from somewhere.I think you need professional help to resolve this consuming anger issue.
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I am sorry if you are feeling rejected by people. You might be suffering from mild depression or mild anxiety because you seem very sensitive to other peoples opinions. Or you might be sensitive or shy. Or you might be young or immature for your age. (not meaning that in a bad way) everyone is different and every body's life style and circumstances are different and your life style affects how you grow up and at what level you mature.\n\nWhen someone says something that hurts your feelings or offends you personally; You should say "I beg your pardon" in a firm but polite manner.\n\nThis means "that wasn't a very nice thing to say and you should think about why you said it" (in a short and more affective way).\n\nThis is what my husband told me to try when I was more like you are now and it seems to work.\n\nPeople are funny that way; they give you more respect when you show you respect yourself and stand up for yourself.
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Take a moment, make some soul searching and ask youself: Why do they hate you? What are the things they dislike about you? If you know the answers of these questions, i guess they'll find you worth their friendship. Avoid doing things other dont like about you or offending to them. Emphasize what good in you so that they'll realize your a good pal after all. :-D
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Just be yourself and don't worry about ignorant people who think they are better than you. These people have to degrade you to make themselves feel better. Let them call you names, joke about how you function in the world, and laugh at your personality,etc., it's just their way of turning the spotlight away from themselves because they are afraid if you look too closely at "them", you may find a few flaws. If they would turn on their brights, they would realize everyone is different; has bad points and good points; and acceptance brings people closer. Maybe they are just sooooo unhappy, they want to drag you down to their dungeon to suffer with them. Try extending an olive branch or making a peace offering, and if that does not work, forget about them, do your own thing, and sooo politely tell them to kiss your arse.   \nP.S.  I am a Redneck, shhhhhh....don't tell anybody!!(:
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Why are you so down on  yourself?\nBeing mean to you isn't good either.\nEveryone has something about them that's good. Find that thing about yourself and go make some friends.