eg. serious car accident\nIn other words, you wouldn't be able to experience sex anymore unless you slept around. Be honest. If your answer is no, explain how you would overcome your sexual urges. Honest answers please, it's for a sociology project for college.
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Yes I would definitely need sex. If she refused to have sex, it's quit time - I'll be out of it but being unable, that's another story - being unable will change certain desires or urges may die with it - may become asexual and I will be able to provide communication, closeness, fun, humor, excitement and trust, that is if I had vowed to maintain the commitment - but as a guy who does not want to 'breed' I have not figured out the incentive to get hitched.\nFor me sex is like urinating - finding the available urinal - or sperm receptacle.
208575
NO. not at all. First of all, I would like to congratulate you two. You're a match made in heaven. Basically, the bible states that sex is a blessing given to married couples. If you're just living together and not having sex, that's absolutely perfect. It's the most exciting thing you can have once you get married. But if you guys are married but not having sex... then there really is a problem behind that. Try talking to your partner about that.
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i really dont understand how it could at all. i mean... its the same as watching porn... and all u can do is M*st*rb*t* to remove the sexual tension from yourself... what good is that?
643476
Are you willing to have sex with some one else if a chance is presented right now or you feel indifferent toward the idea?\nIf you answer yes then it is psychological (some thing turns you off about him), but if your answer is no then it could be physiological (hormones),drug side effect (antidepressants),or mechanical ( the actual act of sex is painful).
513637
Yes it can cause sexual problems.  The info page link will give you more details
482805
Relationships have various stages. You're probably in the comfortable stage now, and sex isn't the most important thing anymore. Also, one's sex drive has ups and downs (so to speak). I wouldn't worry unless it is causing stress on your relationship. \n\nYou could always do something to spice it up a bit. Sometimes it does get mundane. That doesn't mean it's bad ... just not mind-blowing sex like it is at the beginning.
114649
the only way to be 100% sure is not to have sex. as this is impossible for a lot of people they resort to the methods you have stated, which are about 99% effective when used properly.
298227
Nothing to be ashamed of. Every individual has his own habits and appetite.  Some crave for sex all the time and some don't.  It's just that you have a bigger appetite for sex that makes you think more and more about it.  It is not wrong until it does not effect your work and other activities.
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Yea!!  i most definetly agree!\n\nI dont know why ppl think that having a lot of sex (monogomus) is a bad thing. It encourages you to be more weight/body smart- dampers the depression/headaches you might be expierencing... hell it even takes away mentrual cramps. I do it in the daily, sumtymes multiple times--- and im the one jumping on my boyfriend to take a ride...lol....\n\nso saddle up girls and practice your reverse cowgirl... sex is officially one of the best things to happen to man kind!\n\n\n( ALWAYS USE PROTECTION- BE SAFE AND WATCH OUT FOR YOURSELF AND THE ONE YOU LOVE/INTIMATE WITH)\n\n**Raises glass.. cheers!\n\nKC
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Dude you've got it made. I just hope if you guys do go seroius, that you don't run out of sick and twisted things to do to eachother later on in life. You have got to keep that sense of sexual excitement or else, you know, the magic is gone. Go on now, get naked and get nasty. I think it's friggin awesome.
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How much would you suffer to save a life? \n\nI am sure if you knew the consequences of sex were someones death then you would lose your desire for sex. \n\nHow long? Forever? Then that means you would be dead when they came back to life and that would be pointless. Assuming you want them back to life because you want them there, when they are probably happier dead. Then they would be mad at you anyway and you were sexless forever for nothing!
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well, i have a MUCH higher sex drive than my ex fiancee, so often times i used to just let her go to sleep after she didnt want to have sex.  Then i'd pull her nightie open so i could see her breasts, rear, and p*ssy and rake one out right there.  Usually, though, she'd wake up at odd hours of the night soaking wet down there and wake me up riding me.
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Guys do a lot of funny things to buffer their egos.\n\nAnd there are plenty of guys who do that by telling themselves that if a woman won't sleep with him, she must be gay.\n\nIf you're confident in your decision to go sexless, who cares what anybody else things, right?  You're doing this for you, not for them.\n\nAs for drama... there is a such thing as drama-free sex.  You just need the right partner.
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There is no real way to quantify "too much sex."  It is different for every person.  No amount of sex will make you weak...  other than directly after orgasm.  Too much sex is when it begins to interfere with other aspects of your life.  Too much is when you begin lying, cheating, or disrespecting yourself and others to obtain sex.  If people are only a places to put your penis instead of other humans with personality, promise, hopes and dreams, you are probably having too much sex.
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Losing your virginity is obviously not something that you can take back - once you do it, that's it.  If you are experiencing increased libido, which is perfectly normal, then try masterbating.  I'm not saying that to be funny - everyone does it.  Call me crazy, but I think that you should know your own body before you decide to give it to someone else.  Ultimately, only you can truly decide if and when to become sexually active.  Personally, I think that if you have doubts, then you are probably not ready.  Also, as you mentioned there can be serious consequences.  If you do decide to become sexually active, then PLEASE protect yourself.
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Chocolate doesn't really help with sexual urges, in my experience.  Working out is a great way to get rid of that excess energy, especially something aerobic like running, using a heavy bag, or kick boxing.\n\nAside from that, masturbation can also handle those urges, if that is allowed according to the perosn's individual vow.
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yes.....First, take a look at potential libido-killers in your life. These can take a bite out of your sex drive. Anti-depressants, alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs can do the same. \n\nNext, take a closer look at the emotional stuff. Is it possible that a relationship problem is expressing itself this way? Maybe you're not aware of some issue that's affecting you nonetheless. \n\nLastly, people do have different sex drives, and it's possible that yours isn't a strong one (beyond the initial excitement of being with a new partner). But it sounds like you want to be having sex, so maybe repetition is lulling your libido to sleep. Try exploring new sexual adventures: read sexy books, watch sexy movies, and see if you get inspired!