I just me this girl on the internet on easter and she has never saw me and we only live a few towns apart and she wants me to come see her. But she dont know what I look like\nand i don't want to loose my friend ship with her because of the way I look. (Her and my freind know each other)
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If it's just a friendship then u shouldn't worry about looks. Friends don't care about how there friends look. If it's a relationship(i.e. g/f b/f), then you shouldn't worry either. Unless you lied about the way you looked, which isn't cool.She hasn't asked you how you looked, which is a good thing. It means she wants to meet you based on personality alone, in other words, she doesn't care what you look like. So you shouldn't either.\n\nThat's the best advice I can give, based on what you said. Best of luck.
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my question to u like his face or the way of he talking if u go to judge her on line friend by way of hie luck that u are not actual date him but u like the way of taking that way is it the best way of judge the person \n\ni hope your online friend not wat to cheat you \ni pray for u
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Would you turn someone in real life down for this cyber friend? If so then I suppose it would work, but I couldn't be do that. Find a real date close to you and have a blast together!
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she obviously had to go to "add friend" to know that you only accept people who know your last name.. therefore, she was trying to friend srequest you!! haha i think you just might be overanalyzing.. sounds like she tried her hardest to be a myspace friend but couldnt so she sent you a message to tell you. and the smiley face is a good sign... she is obviosuly trying to be friendly.\n\nif she wasnt interested in communicating with long lost family she wouldnt have responded.\n\ngodo luck!\n best answer??? <3
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If she's friends with your friends mother, then she will let you go.  I think she was a little annoyed that you didn't get an invite, and then it looked like it was second thought, she could have  given you a written invite, then I don't think your Mom would have raised her eye brows or looked annoyed.  Have fun enjoy
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Some guys get into this mode that they "forget" their friends for a while when they meet a girl they really like. He may grow out of it. However I think you should talk to him and tell him you still want to be friends, and if possible talk to her alone and see if she really "hates" you, or is possibly jealous of your history with her boyfriend. If she isn't, have her suggest to your friend that they and you and your boyfriend go out together some time.
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Maybe her best friend is afraid that you will steal her friend from her and is feeling a bit jealous of your relationship.  You need to reasure her so how about  "I know you are a good friend to X(the name of the girl you like) and I hope you will condsider me as your friend too".  Incidentally do you have a friend  who might be interested in your girl's friend so she doesn't feel left out in the cold!?
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I don't know you, you don't know me.  I would like to get to know you, and sure I would love to be your best friend.  Everyone needs someone to depend on and love.  Advice from friendship helps people realize their faults as well as their best features.  If you would like to email me at true_gurl_keelyc@yahoo.com
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I think it would freak her out a bit to see you looking so different, especially since you were friends with her before this whole thing started.  I personally don't know how I would feel about dating a guy who suddenly reappeared looking handsome in part because of plastic surgery... I prefer natural beauty, and I don't think I'd be able to get it out of my mind that his eyes were "fake."  She's probably already got it in her mind that you're kind of a weirdo, and for you to show up at her doorstep looking like a completely different person would likely scare her off even more... she might get the impression that you're trying too hard.  Of course, I could be completely wrong about how she would react... I'm just saying how I personally would react in this kind of situation.\n\nIf you want to get her attention, I say you should do it in a more subtle way.  You say you're modeling now, so what if you had a mutual friend show her some of your current photos (without mentioning that you had asked the friend to do this for you)?  Or, what if you found a way to "accidentally" run into her somewhere?  Instead of chasing after her, you should make her want to chase after you.
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I DONT C Y NOT I WONDER WHO THIS GUY IS?  DOES HE KNOW WHAT U LOOK LIKE HAVE U SENT HIM A PIC OF U YET?  TAKE YOUR TIME AND LET THINGS FALL WHERE THAY MAY.  U NEVER KNOW, U MIGHT HAVE YOUR NIGHT IN SHINNING ARMOUR.  AND IF NOT AT LEAST U HAVE MET A GOOD FRIEND.   SOMEONE U CAN TALK TO ANYWAY.
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I think you're trying too hard.  If she is your friend that you like let her get to know the real you.  I doubt that you fly your biplane everywhere you go.  Something more romantic an that will get her attention is something simple like a pinic and prepare a nice lunch, feed her chocolate strawberries with champange  and watch the sunset.  You dont want to overdo it, because she'll see right through your act.
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Some girls especially when they are young don't care about other features but your looks. It sucks that you guys are friends and she doesn't like you, maybe she just wants to be friends. I think that it might be in the clique she hangs out with. If her friends don't think you're a really fantastic person, then she won't either.
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You should take her out on her own to start with, get to know each other. It can be very daunting going out as a 4 some when you don't really now them. The poor girl is probably nervous enough about going out with you and what you will think of her. She does not need the pressure of wondering what your friend thinks too.Take her some where nice where you can talk and find things out about each other and have a laugh. Good luck.
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You two must be very cute...\nI think you're far from ruining your relationship :)\nIf you really are scared of this, investigate a little bit more with your friends, to make sure that she really feels something more of friendhip for you, and then if she does, please come on!\n\nIt's going to be great, because you know her well in many ways so far, but you're going to discover each other in a very different other way...
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I hope she realizes how lucky she is to have a friend like you.  You cared enough about her to let her go and be happy.  I wish there were more ppl like you out in this world.  take care...
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You should totally just stop by when you know shes home but ur friend isn't and offer to help her out with something or just start up a conversation. complement her a lot on her looks and other things. You might even try to flirt with her if you don't mind never seeing your friend again if she really doesnt want you and tells your friend what happened
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You're right.\n\nTell someone that she is friends with and hope they relay the message.\nAlmost, ALL girls want to look pretty.\n\nI'll bet, she's not even aware of it.  Purhaps she needs glasses.\n\nWOW!...You really ARE a gentlman.  We don't come across YOUR type every day.\n\nThat's sweet.  Walk this way!