Rather than the person that had made a comitment and promise to them?  Quite often the couple will stay together, but always hate the other person, who had no reason not to enter the relationship.
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it's just a natural human instict. you look for someone to lash out at because your heart can't understand that you have been betrayed. It's so much easier to attack the person who took your place. \nwhich is bizarre but it happens. Now if the little bi**h KNEW that was my husband and/or was a good friend of mine, she DESERVES an @ss whooping.
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there has to be a reason for a couple to break up
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If you are not liking the person there is not point in continuing your relation with him/her
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If two people do get as involved as you want then emotions are inevitable.  Even if two people try to make a commitment to not get emotionally attached it is next to impossible for one or both of them to stay emotionally distant.  Taking long walks usually means there is a commitment of some sort.  You want a physical relationship with no strings attached right?  Well it never works out.  One way or another emotions are going to get evolved.  If not the luvy-duvy type then the angry type.  Unfortunately many people have an idea as to what the ideal relationship is.  The guy is supposed to be the bread winner or the woman is supposed to cook and clean and many other things like that.  Everyone wants to pick and choose what happens when two people get together, but because the two people are different people then this is impossible.  You can't just pick and choose exactly what you want when you're with someone.  You want all the physical, but no emotional aspects of a relationship and unfortuantely for you it can't be done.
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Women often stay in those types of relationships because they think they can't do any better than that (i.e., low self-esteem).  They also may not think they can "make it" on their own, especially if they do not have a college education.
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I dont know why peolpe want to change others to fit their definition of how they should be. I agree that when you decide to be in a relationship with an individual that you decided to be with them and all of them. Their bad habits good, habits language, extra issues before you came alone, and any other thing that they have going on in their lives. The more you try to chance a man or anyone the more they will be pushed away from you. You have to except people for who they are and not for what you expect for them to be.
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He is an "ex" for a reason.......usually better for them to stay that way.
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They have a bad relationship.
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the question is are willing to stay with him or not... i mean if your not ready to handle a little drama with him then maybe he isnt the one.
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Juliet's attitude toward Paris is not a friendly one. The quote you've mentioned shows that she does not approve of him thinking of her as his lady or his wife because she is not (yet) married to him despite her father's promises and arrangements made. Probably she does not outright hate him but feels a resentment that he would simply assume her to be overjoyed at the arrangement of marriage she had no part in making.
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very likely, most people who cheat or are sneaky will occasionally try to project this trait onto the other partner to take away any feelings of what they are doing wrong and to make it look like you the other partner is just crazy and the one actuallly doing the wrong.
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I think if they had a choice they would not have been married again also.\nthey were married to someone they loved so much,that they remained faithful to his memory through the years.\n\nwill you pick me for the best answer this time to show people how yahoo answer is going to ?\nanyway I forgive you for what you've said.
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The relationship ended for a reason, and therefore you don't wanna have to make the same mistake twice.... if it was merely a small spat that never got resolved then obviously your communication skills never were up to par anyway.\n\n"fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me" also applies to this because if only one really is showing they wanna be back together then obviously the other doesn't... so if they got together... one would already have the upper hand of power
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Yes, often there is resentment, or jealousy even, when one mate excels and the other one doesn't. It seems to escalate more when the successful one is female.
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You NEVER!!! truly get a person you have loved completely out  of your heart...  The pain will go away in time but you will never forget, and you shouldn't.  The best thing (In my opinion) would be to look back at GOD and ask for his guidance.  Hatred in any situation only leads to more hatred.  Foul tempers are never truly cooled unless both sides are able and willing to give (be flexible and understanding)  He seems to want to blame you for his inability to be faithful.  But it takes a conscious effort to say Yes or No to infidelity.  There are no excuses for it, and no explanations to water it down.  He is making excuses and the true fault lies squarely at his feet.  If he has a problem with you it needed to be discussed by BOTH OF YOU...  No problem cant be worked through if both sides are willing to try.  Do NOT take excuses...  Take action and let him suffer his illusions and lies by himself.  You can do better, and deep down you know it!!!\nGood luck and I hope you finally find your "happiness".
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sometimes if you atre not who they really want but just a fill in untill they find someone else
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Boyfriends come,and go,Family is forever!!Sometimes we think we love someone that our family does'nt care about,as a way of rebeling.I dated a guy one time that my family hated,I even excepted when he proposed,I did it just to prove to my family,that they could'nt tell me who to be with.When I finally came to my senses this guy tried to kill me.He told me that if he could'nt have me,noone else was gonna be with me.When my family started acting like they liked him,it was like I woke up to the truth.