How can I get to know that my wife is cheating on me. Please let me know. Signs of a cheating wife.
201555
I know a lot about husbands, maybe these are transferable\nA lot of new male "friends"\nBeing secretive about phone calls\nUnexplained expendatures\nNew items or gifts you did not purchase her\nTime where she cannot give you an explaination of where she was, or it doesn't match up with the facts (she couldn't have been at Beth's house b/c Beth was in Cancun)\nPhone calls that suddenly hang up\nLooking especially nice for no reason\nlack of sexual interest in you\n\nIf you think she is, confront her; often if you have a gut instinct, it is right. I hope all turns out well.
30687
Read this article about emotional cheating.\n\nhttp://www.nydailynews.com/front/v-pfriendly/story/335439p-286396c.html\n\nYou're a brave man to put your - and your kid's picture - on the net, next to this question. Let's hope your wife and all of her friends can't read. ;-) Do you want her to find out? Is this a cry for help? A way of starting a conversation? I am not judging you, I am only asking because I can't understand it completely but I admire the frankness and openness in it.\n\nGood luck!
212919
Talk to her, it doen't mean she is cheating. There are times when your in the peak of passion your brain can just turn to mush.
368935
Well......see it was when you said you were having sex last night that she became skeptical. Afterall... she knew you were with your wife. Sex with your wife? *smacks his head* Sheesh....what were you thinking! Of course your girlfriend isn't going to buy that. \n\nI suggest you write your wife a cute little note like we used to do in 6th grade and say:\n\n"Hey sweetie... I enjoyed making love to you last night. Did you? Check one:\n\n______ yes      _________ no\n\n(oh and will you sign your name at the bottom as well?)\n\n\n\n~~~~~ \nThen show this to your girlfriend. Surely it will be as good as an affadavit.
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The fact that you see your fault in your current marital problems indicates that you are NOT crazy.\nI do think, however, that you should maybe see someone about your jealousy issues PRONTO.\nIn what I've seen here, it doesn't sound like you don't trust her, just that you're making your own self crazy, and making her a little crazy too.\nYou need to fix what you can, and fix it fast.  \nWhat you CAN fix:  You, anything that has to do with YOU, what it is that YOU do, what YOU think, what YOU feel, etc.\nWhat you can NOT fix:  What someone else does, what someone else thinks, what someone else wants, what someone else feels, etc. (someone else = your wife)\nIf you're smart, you will get off it & keep your mouth shut, before you do have a hand in driving her into someone else's arms, be it this guy or anyone else.  FYI, you stated yourself that their relationship is more professional, and again I say...you've not indicated in the slightest that you do not trust your wife.\nGet your head on right, and stop pressing the issue before it's too late.\nAnd to answer your initial question:  They're only friends.
511725
Well get a device and put it on the car or have a friend you trust follow her and record her or call cheaters or be forth right open and honest and tell her to her face; I believe you are cheating on me, if you deny and I find out its over, if your honest maybe we can work this out. Why hide? If you want the evidence up front hire a detective.
660075
Do you really need to ask this? it's obvious she's cheating.
184941
I've experienced a slightly different situation, I'm very good friends with the husband not so much the wife but I found out that she was cheating on him.  When I told him he totally denied it, refused to accept that it was true and doesn't believe me.  Then he got mad at me for pushing the issue so I guess it depends on the person how they'll react when you tell but I would.
233265
The choice is all yours. If you feel you can trust your wife than go for it if not than tell her she done screwed up. She's returning for a reason maybe she knows your involved with another woman and that made her jealous or maybe her parter that she left you for left her and she feels alone. Let her know you will remain her friend but thats about it. Either way just remember she cheated once she may do it again. Good Luck.
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First I would like to say that with you being in the military you can get in a lot of trouble for cheating on your wife, second how would you feel if you came home and she said "Hon, you just dont do it for me any more and I've been cheating on you while you were gone. I want a divorce." I know that I just sounded like a cold hearted B**** but my husband is also in Iraq and I would like to think that he is NOT cheating on me out there.  No matter what you are going to hurt her and you should have thought about HER before you cheated.
587730
Please, please, please tell her or at least your best friend.  My husband cheated on me for years and a lot of people knew about it.It made the situation worse.  I feel like they were laughing at how stupid I was for not knowing.  I also felt betrayed by them.  They are NOT my friends; they and my husband made me feel like such a loser.  My husband and I are working on our marriage and he and I lost a lot of good friends over his cheating.  My life will never be the same.  I will never trust my husband again and a lot of joy at the 'little things' is now gone.
563519
You need to be honest to both women, You just got back with your wife, don't let her hear this from anyone but you. This is the fastest way to ruin trust. Be nice to the Friend, tell her you like her but only want to be friends. You can also tell her that you may be working things out with your wife. Don't let both women think you have been leading them on. you can loose your wife for good and that doesn't sound like what you want. Tell HER Now. Marriage is a blessing and your wife's feelings should come first. if the friends gets mad then so what. At least your wife knows you're not trying to play games with her.
404806
no free websites that i'm aware of. If your wife is suspicious of someone for a good reason, you maybe able to go down to your local police station and have them check. If she's just being nosey (which all of like to do) then you may have to throw down a few bucks.
153355
My opinion...feel shame, before cheating ur wife
628633
Talk to her make sure you know the situation. Don't jump to conclusions, but at the same time women do the same things to guys as far as looking in your phone so, you're not wrong and trust your instics they are there for a reason. If she lies to you, don't scream, don't yell just walk away from the relationship.  I'd treat her like a stranger I walked past on the street, with no familiarity, and be done with it. There had to be some other things that you've been noticing before now if she is cheating. That is the Ulitimate disrespect, and no one deserves it. I hate to accuse casue I don't know her but sounds like your trust in her is already damaged.
301977
Is your wife under more stress than normal? As far as not knowing what your wife wants, ask her. I'm sure she'd be happy to let you know.
551179
I say she is cheating and divorce rather than separate. I have been there...my ex husband did this. It is an easy way to ask for a divorce. LL.