my ex boyfriend and i broke up about 1 month ago and we still talk. Sometimes he makes it seem like he still likes me but he doesn't want to get back with me!! how can i tell if he still does??
217757
Ask him, but what does it matter if he likes you or not, you already said that he doesn't want to get back together so why do you care if he still likes you? GET OVER HIM!!!
226045
With time, I think there is a good possibility that the two of you will get back together. To find somebody that you enjoy being around, and that you find interesting , is RARE! He obviously enjoyed it as much as you did, so why wouldn't he be back? It's soon for him I know, but just give him time. It's okay to call and see how he is, just don't push(hard to do I know). If the two of you connected, and I believe you did,  just be patient. He'll be back!
459063
Sounds like he wants you two to get back together again but is too shy or too ashamed to ask, may be that he is afraid you will turn him down.  Hang loose awhile and see what the outcome will be.  If he still likes you, you will hear from him before very long.  Good luck kid.
111240
It sounds like he still likes you.  If you guiys are still on speaking terms I think you should talk to him and ask him about all the shit hes been spreading.  If he's just mean, you might have to get your bf to avoid him and his friends or if the situation gets really desperate tell someone who has more control over him(your ex)
308679
Open Communication here is key. You have to be able to talk to your ex and feel comfortable about talking about everything or anything that is on your mind. \n\nIf your ex holds back in any way shape or form in conversation, then he has other intentions and is probably just using you for sex.
525743
I'm in a similar situation...the way my ex tells me that he misses me is by saying he thinks about me alot, and mentions specific things he remembers or wants to do next time we have a chance. I think guys in general might have a hard time coming out and saying it, especially if he does think you are over him. I think you'd be able to tell if he didn't though...like if he started ignoring you, not returning your calls, etc. \nSome hints that he misses you would be the phone calls, calling you or returning your calls, texting you frequently, talking about things pertaining to your relationship, making plans to hang out, things like that.\n\nHope things turn out alright!
417687
YAWN.... he likes you. Persue him. PERIOD. Hell give in and you two will get together. You say he doesnt believe that you got over your ex but i can see how you have if your ex wasnt good to you. Its easy to get over a jerk. So go for this new guy. Persue. I know guys are supposed to persue, but i think it will be to your advantage to persue this fellow. Good luck!
497314
It sounds like he's very hurt by not only the break up, but by your harsh actions of how you treated him after the relationship ended. He's seen you in a new light that was not good and now in turmoil over whether or not to get back with you. Best thing to do now would be to back off to give him time and space to figure things out. By you constantly calling and asking him what's he going to do is probably just making matters worse. Let him have his time to think about things and so he can make his decision.
26414
Heh.\n\nHe prolly doesn't know how to act. Maybe he does want to be with you but feels uncomfortable. Sounds like there's prolly still some bad blood that has to do with the breakup from before.
315767
forget him, if he doesn't want you back find someone who is better than him - he'll want you back then, just like you want him back now\n\nyou break up for a reason, why get back together?  did things really change?  (they usually don't)
258623
Well, it seems that your ex has some feelings left over for you.  Either that or he's not completely over you.  It's his way of caring...misdirected as it seems, but he definitely cares.  He knows you well enough, and hopefully, you know him well enough, that his heart is in the right place.  He's looking out for you whether you like it or not.  Approach your ex with an open mind and heart, and simply talk to him about it.  Let him vent out his feelings about the whole thing and ask him questions as to why.  I'm sure he'll say the same thing as I did, only a longer version of it.  He just cares about you!  He has a funny way of showing it, I know, but that's the truth.  Plain and yet so simple.
521378
flurt with other guys to see if he still likes you if he gets mad then he does. If you want him back just play hard to get and he will make all the moves
437954
i think he likes you but wasn't ready to make a big commitment after his last break up. so that's why he said he just wants to be friends! and next time the subject comes up on IM just say you do like him. i hope everything goes well!
162331
Did he give you a reason for the break-up?  I'm thinking that he doesn't want to rush into another relationship right now because he is still nursing a broken heart and doesn't want it broken again.  Give him so time.  The good news is that he still keeps in touch with you. Let him know that you're still interested and let him call the shots unless it looks like he's calling all the wrong plays.  In that case, put your foot down and tell him that you want him back but you agree to take it slow.  Let him know that you love him and don't want to hurt him.
37281
He doesn't like you, he wants you, there's a difference. He may have realized he lost a good thing, but that's the key; he lost it. You have a new guy now and he sounds like he's not to bad a guy. Your ex on the other-hand approached you and tried to get you to dump your guy! If he cared at all for what you felt he'd have left you alone.
297401
Why get back together with him?\nThe deal is you broke up with him. He's moving on. You should too.
139770
I know how it feel to be broke up but want your ex back, it hurts badly, just see it like this, if it's meant for you to be together, he will come back on his on, if it's not, he won't...even if he does, if it's not meant to last, he will leave again, but if it is, eventually he will be there with you forever.....although nothing last forever, he will be with you until one of you die, so just hold on and see what happens, but remember, although you love him, if he doesn't come back, there are plenty others out ther that will be there, I had to make myself realize that, I thought that no-one else out there can make me feel like he did...A LIE!!! when there's something good there's always something better!!!! good luck!!