ok..I'm 13 years old (14 in 4 months) and there is this boy I want to date but he is 17 (he tured 17 last month)...Ilike him alot...and everyone says all he wants is sex..but he told he would never do anything like that because he had older sister who all had sex at a young age and got pregnant and he wouldnt want that to happen to me....so should I date him or not?
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guys who only want sex will say anything to get it, even "I would never do anything like that because I had an older sister who had sex at a young age and got pregnant and I wouldnt want that to happen to you!"  I'd stay far away from him if I were you.
290416
look...dating sometimes is not the answer...\ni don't know if you should date him or not....but first you have to be sure that he wants to date you....if he doesn't want to date you then don't....coz like this you will make your self a whore running after him....\nand don't feel that you are a whore if you don't date him...\njust forget it....and live life the way it was
411588
look, its not evil, but the truth is if you started something, on his side it would be purely sexual. simply put, your agaes arent that far apart, but al lot happens between 17 and 22, a lot more than between 80 and 86. thats just the way of the world.  it might be fun for a while, no denying that, but it wont work out, and youll end up hurt. hes not moving because he knows that, and good for him.  or because you live somewhere that 17 is underage,a and hes waiting for next year. i know this can drive you nuts, and his attention is flattering, but move on, find some one a little closer to your age.  it stinks.  sorry.
169075
I am 14 and I would be honored to ask an almost 16 year-old girl on a date.  I hope you find the right guy and have a lot of good times. :)
308335
Your "boyfried" has other, much more serious, things to be doing and taking responsibility for right now.  At 18 he's an adult with a family of his own - why would you even consider dating him?!  Is this what you want for your own life - a guy who has a baby to you then is off to the next 15 year old?  I doubt this will remain a friendship - if it does encourage him to support the baby and it's mother as he should.  Get YOUR priorities in order!!  You deserve much better!  Figure out what you want from life, work hard in school to get it, and stay focused.  Boys at this stage will mess up your goals much more than help them!  Good luck to you and God bless you.
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Babygirl listen, you don't have to go there even though you already have. Girls these days always want to please these HORNY, NAPPY headed boys. FOR WHAT!!! Focus on school sweetheart. When he see's you going places and using your mind to better yourself, that's a powerful thing. \n\nIf you don't want to end up like your sister and pregnant at a young age, then quit getting your freak on. WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS? They should be your inspiration to better yourself. Make school your top priority and excel at it as much as possible and any other hobby you like to do. When the time comes for relationships and boy's you'll know. If your into praying, pray about the situation. I've seen to many of my friend's who had babies at a young age and missed out on being teenagers. That life was not for me. I enjoyed being a teenager. PLEASE LEARN FROM THAT. You don' t let a boy disrespect you in anyway or pressure you to do jack squat you hear me!!! \n\nIf he gives you the old everybody's doing it, or all my boy's are laughing at me because I ain't getting none, or better yet if you loved me you would do it, who the hell cares? What matter's is how you feel and if that is what you want and are ready to do. Most teenage girls are not ready for that. It's the hormones sweetie. There outta control, but it's ok. Not saying you can't date and kiss boy's but the whole taking it to the next level might not be what you are prepared for (Dirty diapers and 3am feedings). Not football games and prom...\n\nBecause if you give it up and he drops you, you'll regret it, and he might not give a d*** about you. He might just be thinking with the wrong head. Just being real with you. I'm a bit older than you, and trust me when I say W-A-I-T, you'll thank yourself for it later, take care of yourself, LOVE LIVE LIFE...........................
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That's kind of iffy. There are a lot of differences between those ages that don't exist when you're, say, talking about a 25 year old and a 27 year old.\n\nThe big difference is experience, and if you were my younger sister, I'd tell you that the 17 year old boy just wants one thing.\n\nStick with other 14 year olds for now, guys who have other things in common with you than that "one thing".
131594
You mean "caucasian." Anyway, you are 12 and you're too young to date. Guys your age are only after one thing, so don't even bother. Wait until you are older to date, i'd say 18. You can flirt, maybe go on dates, movies, kiss a little but don't go falling head over heels for every good looking guy. Take it easy. Focus on school work hehe :) How do you choose a guy? how about you choose zero, zilch, nada, nothing! trust me, you don't need a boyfriend now. When I was your age I never wanted a boyfriend because I knew they only wanted sex and wanted to have fun then break my heart so I chose not to get involved with any at all and now I am 21 and have a great b/f. Even grown men take a long time to mature lol, how can a young one like 13 grow up?? They want fun and you will only be just that. I'm not trying to get in your case but wait ok, and be patient!! Don't date, don't do anything you will regret; your reputation is on the line and once it's screwed up it cannot be fixed. You are probably an 8th or 9th grader. No boys needed. Chill with your female friends. Ciao.
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ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!\n\nJeez... this is happening earlier these years...\n\nI don't think you should let him, I mean- come on, you're not even a teeenager yet. Don't rush into certain things. Put boundaries. If you're not comfortable, or if you're uneasy with what he's doing, one word sweetie- NO!\n\nJust say NO! \n\nAnd if you let him keep touching you... chances are you might even end up having sex, and you're way TOO young to experience sex or end up getting pregnant or something.\n\nBe careful.
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none if your not 18. she doesnt wanna go to jail.\nand yes i would date a younger guy, my boyfriend is 2 years younger then me.
455671
I think that you should wait until you do reach 18 before getting romanticly involved with him because too many bad things could happen if you guys get into a fight since you are still a minor. But after you turn 18, you should go for it. I'm 26 and am dating a 42 year old. Most of them still act like they're 15 not matter how old they get. lol
413083
Young teens and dating are a conflict to everybody on one hand you know you want more and on the other you know you should not go that far because your not ready for that kind of responsibility. ages 11 - 14 is a major period of learning about yourself and finding out who and what you are so explore a bit and be careful not to go to far. good luck and enjoy
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I'm 15 and I date and so does everyone in my high school.  You can't put an age limit on love and attraction so it shouldn't matter how old you are, as long as you are being safe.  I think that teen dating is great because i sure can't imagine life without it.  It's great that you've found someone that you love and you shouldn't let anyone tell you that you are not old enough to have a serious boyfriend.
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Hey sweetheart,\n\nAt 13 years old you should be worried about oral sex. Worry about getting good grades and going to college. This is the best time of your life, enjoy your friends and truly find out what makes you special in this world. Don't worry about guys, we are a dime a dozen.  My God-daughter is 1 year older then you and she had a baby 4 months ago. Now her childhood is over, she has to be a mom now. So my advise to you, is stop having sex and realize that you're worth more then cheap sex. Plus ask yourself, if you do get pregnant will the guy be there to support you? My God-daughter's boyfriend left her and move to another state. So who pays for the baby now? Well it's her Father and Myself. Be good.
195057
Yes its OK providing you are over the age of consent. There is nothing wrong with relationships between older men and younger women providing that both are old enough to consent to what they are doing. \n\nYou are probably not old enough to consent to a relationship so it cause problems. I would leave it until you are both old enough to enter a relationship legally. You or he may have found someone else and have moved on by then. If not, you might want to see how you feel about each other then.\n\nMy brother married a girl who was 13 years younger than him and they have three kids.\n\nBest wishes to you for the future.
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And even if you engage in no sexual conduct whatsoever, your boyfriend may be charged with Contributing to the Delinquency of a Minor, Custodial Interference, Kidnaapping and more.\n\nBasically, the law is written around a very simple concept:  18 year-olds and 14 year-olds have very little in common.  14 year-olds are still figuring out who they are.  They can't drive or work or do much of anything except go to school.  18 year-olds already know who they are.  They're not in school.  They have jobs and cars.  Why would an 18 year-old want to spend time with a girl who's 14?  Why isn't he capable of dating a girl who's his own age and who has had the same experiences as he has?\n\nThe answer is that any 18 year-old who wants to spend time with someone 4 years younger, is not well adjusted socially.  He shouldn't be around children.  And children like you shouldn't be around him.  Find a better boyfriend, one who has more in common with you.
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IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT WRONG!!! 1 year is NOTHING. It is much more about how you 2 connect with eachother than how close you are in years.  I once had a thing with a guy 2.5 yrs younger than me, and we are still great friends, cuz he was an absolutely AMAZING person, and was super cute, and quite frankly was more mature than most guys my age. Guys the same age as me were always pressuring me to do things I didn't want to, but since I was older than him, this boy was SO respectful of me and my decisions and feelings. And what a sweetheart... as you can see, I could talk for hours.  Obviously dating a guy like 5 years younger than you is kinda weird, but just a few years is NO reason to hide feelings for a guy. If he treats you well, who cares how old he is? And if you're worried about being made fun of, then DON'T! YOU like him, and it's YOUR business. End of story. Best of luck with him! <3