I am not Catholic, but I am being named Godmother of a little girl.  What are my responsibilities going to be?  Please tell me things besides supporting her christian growth.  Am I supposed to give the best gifts at Christmas, and be there for Birthdays ect.  Any help would be nice.
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Congratulations! Don't be afraid. The parents have chosen you because of your character. It's an honor. The biggest responsibility and the most important is, in the unlikely event that the parents are for some reason unable to provide a nurturing environment due to death or sickness, you will be expected to intervene and provide that.
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Be there for the family as much as you can, that is a great help to her.  Ask her if she would like to speak to someone in the clergy so she can be prepared for what is coming.  I'm sorry that you are all going through such a bad time.
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Considering that Christmas really has nothing to do with the birth of Christ, or Christianity, why are you ranting. Check out what I'm saying. The Christians just gave it a new name. They adopted the holiday that is originally from Pagans. As far as Santa and the reindeer and the elves and the sleigh rides, I've never taught my children to believe in such lies, because if I lied to them about that, then they may just think that I would lie to them about God. I don't celebrate the holidays because of their origins. Try reading Exodus 32:4-10
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On Christmas morning have your three kids each give her a gift. On one tag put "Mommy..." on the next put "Will You..." and on the last one put "Marry Daddy?"have the cam-corder rolling and then be there waiting with her ring! It's a perfect way for you and your family to be involved in this precious event!
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Hi, im an RN, and a Christian.  Has this young girl accepted Christ? Do you know if she was ever given the opportunity? Is she local- Can you visit with her? \nIf you can not call the hospital and ask a Minister to visit her. (you may even want to talk with him as well.) If you can, go to her, hold her hand and whisper clearly into her ear. No one has to hear you if you like, ask to be alone w/ her so you can pray. Tell her Jesus loves her, and that He died for Her sins, ask Her to accept Him into her heart, she doesnt need to respond, just let her hear you. Ask the Lord to cover her in the Blood of Jesus, so that she will be covered, either for healing or for passing on. Pray for the Lord to heal Her and TRUST that He can, He has and He will.\nThe rest is not up to you. Trust and have faith, either way, we are given a special gift of life from our Creator, and we are ALL JUST passing through, no one in the flesh has all the answers to lifes mysteries, but KNOW, and trust that God is Love, and He LOves your friend even more than you.  As far as Satan goes, dont listen to his lies, and rebuke him from your mind whenever he enters. He is a liar and a murderer, but He is no match for our Lord.\nGod Bless you both, and this girls family. My prayers are with you.
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Lord, please protect Maggie from any spirit coming against her that is not of God.  Please send Maggie Christian friends who she can discuss you, and your word with and who will encourage her in seeking your presence in her life.  Please set her feet on the solid ground of your word.  Please infuse in her mind and heart a confidence that you will never leave nor forsake her, that you guide her and protect her from all deceit.  Finally Lord, I ask this coming Christmas season that Maggie experience the wonder of who you are in a new way and that her faith in you grow day by day.  All these things I ask in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
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keep it, dear.\nI'll pray for you.\nRemember that Jesus is with you. He will never forsake you.\n\nMay God bless you and give you the wisdom and the serenity.\nMay God guide you always in your time of trouble and doubt.\nMay God help you in your time of need.\nMay God, the Immanuel, be with you always and guide you with His everlasting love.\n\nGod loves you and He wants you to love this special baby that God has entrust in your hand.\nHe has a special plan for that baby and you.\n\nIn Jesus name,\n\n\nAmen
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Well, that IS a coincidence!  I was there in church, too, and believe me, that voice was much too authoritative and resonant to have been that of Mr. Munson.  The Lord has spoken--and He should know more than Todd's friends!  I envision a long and lasting relationship between you and Todd.  Will you do me a favor, if it's not asking too much?  Can you name your first girl child after me--call her Chain Mistress.  It's a devout and holy name, a variation of Charity.  Thanks!
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Godparents should be a member of the family. They supposed to take the children in if something happens to you. Friends come and go but families are forever and sometimes you loose contact with friends but not with family. Pick a close brother or sister that will want to take them in to raise. Your parents would be too old to even want to do that. If a friend does end up raising them they could loose contact with the family altogether and that is not good for them. Godparent is not a legal position, and should the parents seriously intend the godparents to act as foster parents in case of their death, this must be legally specified through the usual means such as a will. ◄\n\nhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Godparent
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Hello dear sweet sister kat.. :)\n\nYou never have to apologize, for asking us to lift you up in prayer..\n\nDear Heavenly Father Lord God, we ask that You our Lord, will bestow down upon this Your Precious child and our sweet sister kat, Your peace that passeth all understanding..Lord, we know that You are in control and that You will not give us anymore than we can handle..We pray that our sweet sister's losses will be turned into blessings..and Lord we know that You are the Great Physician..we also know that You spoke this world into existence..so we speak healing to this young woman who has cancer..Lord God Jehovah, search our hearts that they be found rightous in Thy sight, so that we know that our prayers will be heard and answered..\n\nLord Your ways are not our ways, as Your thoughts are not as our thoughts..We are trusting and asking in faith believing that all things work together for good, to them that Love the Lord..Thank-You my Lord for my sister who is trusting in You with all her heart and soul..Amen!\n\nI Love you my precious sister kat..I will continue to lift you and your neice up in prayer.. :)\n\nI will also stand in for her at our church on Sunday for her healing..\n\nIn Jesus Most Precious Name..\nWith Love..your sister In Christ..
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Pray about it and ask for His guidance. The Holy Spirit may be using your daughter as a vessel to lead him to Christ. That's how I came to the Lord - through my wife - and only after we'd been married for a couple of years. I think the Bible mentions this situation but do not know where, sorry.\nGod bless.
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Hi; I do appreciation baskets quite often.  I start with a pretty basket I find at Michaels/Hobby Lobby/or any Craft store; know your budget.  Fill with lotion, candles, gift certificate to dinner or movie, nice card telling how much that person means to you.  Add anything special that they collect ... I know our pastor's wife loves pretty journals and pens; anything personal that shows you "thought" about them -- that's the trick.  I recently did this and included the other ladies by having them "donate" to her -- like a money tree -- we gave her the money and it really blessed her.  Also, I had the ladies write down a blessing or special note of appreciation to her and included that in a beautiful china cup for her to read later.  I didn't just use one poem, I used a bunch of blessings -- a basket full of blessings.  Have fun!  She will be blessed just because you thought of her!
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I think your heart to help this girl is amazing.To the question first off pray and as the bible says pray continually that's a first and most important step because God put you in her life for a reason as for her parents there really isn't much you can do actively but I think that you should just continue to be the girls friend to the best of your ability and always be respectful of her parents your life and actions will speak for you and I think that her family will eventually see your true motives .I will keep you and your friend in my prayers.
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I always thought that a Godmother was there to make sure the child was given proper religous upbringing... so if your friends die before the twins are adult, you would be responsible for any religous education or rites of passage.\n\nGodparents aren't responsible to care for the child - as in taking custody.
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First, let me remind you about Romans 8:28, "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."  In all things God works for the good and He has a special purpose for your life. Keep in prayer to God and ask Him how you are to use the gifts He has given you. He will let you know when and how you are to use them.
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Don't know if this is going to offend you, but I suggest Praying for her.  God works in mysterious ways and he has a plan for her and the baby.
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Oh, sweet Katelyn, I am so sorry for you and your sweet nephew! What a tragedy. You are being very brave. Have you discussed taking care of him with your parents? Even if you were to be his primary caregiver they would have to be involved. I know that you are still grieving, but have you thought about how you will finish school if you have the care of a baby? Really, honey, you need to discuss this with your parents. Ask your pastor if there are people at church who could help out. Maybe someone would provide child care during the day while you are at school. You must be a very mature 15 year old to be thinking of this in the midst of your grief. Your sister would be so proud of you. Talk to your parents. I'm sure they'll have some ideas. God bless all of you!