There is this guy who I usually sit near during lunch. We'll have a conversation now and then, but I we still don't know each other that well. I've had a crush on him for about a month, but I havn't told him or anyone yet.In class or wherever every once in a while, I'll look at him for like 5 seconds and then look away. Sometimes he stares back at me for about 5 seconds and I have this odd felling, like I've known him all my life, like he is the only guy on the earth left.  Why do I feel this way? Do you think it's love or something?
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No, I don't think it's love. It's just a small attraction you two might have for each other, for whatever reason. Staring confuses me too :) but try to actually talk to him. It'll get you past phase 1...right now you're kind of at phase 1/2. GL!
123416
Obviously you have openly revealed this 'crush' of yours - and somehow the word must have got to him ! So, egoist that he is, your 'crush' is playing 'hard to get' : one of the oldest ploys, resorted to, by most males, to prove that they are highly 'in demand'.\nDon't fall for this, mariah : What possibly caused you to develop this 'crush' on him was possibly also just another 'false front' put up by him - to 'impress' impressionable gals like you !\n...When you find a guy who remains totally natural, while relating to both his male and female friends and acquaintances - HE is the kind of person you should have a 'crush' on.\nAnd when such a nice guy gets to know of your crush, he will not play games with you : He will either hug you in a tight crush to reveal that he likes you too, or will frankly admit right away, in a way that will not hurt you, that he is otherwise attached.\nBest of Luck, chum !\n:-))
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if he finds reasons to be in the same room as you or to talk to anyone around you. if he makes eye contact that feels like more than just regular "hey, i am talking to you so i need to look at you." it feels like he is flirting. if he touches you or compliments you. if he invites you to do something with him and/or his friends. if i were you, just ask him in a flirty way like "are you checking me out? am i irresistable to you? (smile smile, wink wink)" and if you are intersted in him, add in something lame like "because i cant stop checking you out. you are just so yummy. do you get that a lot, or am i crazy?" evaluate his response. you'll know. good luck. be brave.
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I know just what you mean.  I really don't know how to explain any of this because when I was in school there was this girl that really did like me but she would never asked me how to say anything to me.  She was really shy but very pretty after several years I found out that she really did like me a lot.  I wish I would have knew this or she would have told me because I wouldn't love to go out with her.  Maybe the best thing that you can do is try to find out whether or not this guy is at all interested in her.  If he is maybe you should drop the few hints around and maybe he will get the idea that it is okay for him to ask her out.  Some guys are really intimidated when girls come on to them.  Try to find how he feels and try to get him to make the first move.  Good luck
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Hey, I had one of those myself! \n\nI ended up asking him out on a group date to the movies, bad idea, he spent the whole time talking to everyone but me, the only interaction we had is when he passed the popcorn...\n\nIt makes it too hard with those feelings going through you to even talk to the guy as you do go all hot and fuzzy and weak at the knees as they say.\n\nSo dont take those feelings to serously as the guy probly doesnt know you exist! \n\nGet one of your friends to maybe ask him if he likes you just to sus the situation out, but good luck and I hope you do a better job than I did with my crush!
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Maybe. He could be stalker-crazy. I think a guy shows how he feels about you by trying his best to please you and keep you keep you happy that includes being honest with you, being a good friend to you and respecting your personal decisions all without loosing his own identity.
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it seems to me that you may not be around alot of guys....you need to get out and meet more guys....I'm sorry about the crush you have on your boss but remember that he's taken....knowing that alone should help get over the crush...stop worrying about everything and everything will work out...Are you going to dr about panic attacks?  if not, you should...then you won't feel so strange if you are given some help..good luck!!
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Oh? I have been in your sitution  before but, I got over it The incident happened to me 30 years ago and I never forget my experience.You only see him far away but you never have a long conversation with him.You just could not date another person.What can you do and you wish to hook up with him?Do you think that he has a wife already or he is a gay man.Do the school or college allow students dates  their teacher?.I do not think so and you might get him fired.Well I have been there and done that.As I recalled,I was 24 years old and I did not approach him and I was afraid that would cause his job so I moved on.It was very painful and I kept thinking about him.( he was single professor and very handsome)Finally,I graduated from my college and found a nice guy to marry.By the way, you should try to say hello and talk to him without reveal your feeling and see how he is.  You never know that you may change your mind about him and life goes on instead of being struck like me and I did not find out about him.
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no offense, but unless he's a first rate jerk, he won't be interested.  It's just a crush(although I'm sure you're sure its love) and will wear off as soon as you see the next hot thing.  Don't get involved with teachers, bosses, or co-workers...it ends up messy.
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I know what you mean that happens....i think your not really over him yet even though you think to your self that you are....i use to think like you, but i know inside that i still like him alot and i can't stand it when some other girls is all over him...don't know why you are feeling that way but that how i felt...\n\nif i where you i'll tell him my feelings and maybe you and him can continue your relationship that you left off....if you want to talk more personal then IM or email me ok
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I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
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the chemistry we have with each other. it was something i never had with no one. the first day i met him was crazy. we talked on the phone for hours and hours and said so much. by the first week that we new each other we already had developed a crush. the way he makes me feel no one has ever done that. i feel so comfortable around him no matter what i say, do, or wear. he understands me and just the little things he does makes me know hes the one. even years later i still get goose bumps when he touches me or what he tells me :)
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just smile at him a lot...you know the one...flirty like you like him. and be cool. umm...tell him that you think hes rad, and cool, cute and stuff...tell him you think he has pretty eyes.you enjoy the time you spend with him at work and ask if he wants to....go minature golfing??? or something. make sure he knows... i have learned to late several times and exposed my crushes to late....after the feelings have passed. youll always wonder what could have been. i loved my best friend...3years after i moved out of state i figured out he loved me too...and it is to late now. i mean i am happy with my life now, but i occasionally wonder what could have been... wether i would be happier.
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maybe because you've been with other guys and he knows about it and he feels like how could you forget about him and be with other guys so soon he's probably as hurt as you guys tend to show their feelings differently than we do give it time and don't be with any other guys if you are still interested in him
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Sounds like a real love "crush" and the only way to know if its the real thing is to get to know the guy.  You know more about his details then all of us do, so start using what you know to be around him and then strike up a polite conversation.  Smile, dress nicely, you know--flirt a little.  See how he reacts.  Sometimes these things need time and effort, so don't be hasty.  My husband took a whole year before telling me how much he liked me and now we've been happily married for 16 years.  Good luck and remember to take long, slow deep breaths whenever you feel like you're gonna pass out, OK?  :)
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If he stares at you, then why dont you just stare back at him? Isnt that simple? When hes alone, you can say hi to him. Have a lil talk, get his Yahoo!, or MSN or AIm or wateva he use. Talk to him at night when u come online too. Spend some time with him, you should be fine. Find out who he is, find out about his personality before you go out with him. You should be fine. Just dont stalk him. Guy hates stalkers ( i myself really do ). Oh yeh, but just one word to warn you, b careful since there are a lot of guys who only think of sex but nothang more thn dat.
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lol  The platonic girl crush.  We've all had them.  Chances are, you're feeling uncomfortable and unconfident in yourself.  You see yourself as someone who hasn't yet grown into everything you want yourself to be.  This girl is who you want to be.  You look up to her and idolize her.  It's normal.  Don't get too obsessive.  It freaks some people out, but rest assured, this is normal.  Eventually, it'll pass and you'll be okay.  You just need to grow out of it.  Good luck!