we are friends since 5 yrs down the line. he is in a totally different stream in terms of education. we rarely meet each other.
205575
He is attracted to you my dear . . . and if he sound pathetic . . . to keep bothering you.  Doesn't he have any game?
567675
i'm so sorry to hear tht buddy, but i think you know u'r answer..its better to move on...if he was really intrested to maintain the friendship..he would have answerd to you or call u back how much busy he was at tht time....so its pretty clear tht he has changed...as they say..money changes pple...maybe one day he may realise tht he lost a good friend...so buddy...keep moving on.
107650
Real friends arent like that so he/she isnt ur real friend. I may be wrong..but maybe even your great friends and he is just shy..talk to him Gurly Gurl! Lol, thank you.
327046
Don't rush things.  He's probably scared of losing a friend.  Give him time to sort his feelings out and then let things take their course naturally.  If it's meant to be it will happen.
281616
Former lovers can be friends, not that I've experienced exactly.  I have a couple that still count me as friend, some more that would slash my throat if they could.  First, remember YOU had an affair.  He is being generous and kind and that is worth something good.
431757
It sounds like he does like you but isn't ready to make it more evident yet.  Relationships that are built on a solid foundation of friendship last longer than those that are just built on passion.  Invite him when you are going out and let things develop as they do.
232814
Let it go....and leave him alone. If it continues into something more serious, it could be detrimental to your friendship. Not to mention, it could cause legal issues for him if word gets out...
581040
fact is that you and him cannot see each other too often... and both of you are still very young.. I think each of you should live your life, but always do keep in touch. then, see what happen with your life in the next few years after you both graduate. you will never know what will happen, things are happening fast at your age. not to be wasted. either of you are planning to make serious commitment soon anyway right?
245007
Mine has lasted for over ten years now.  We're good friends.  We're there for each other.  It is a strange thing when you think about it.  We've never had any desire to take our "friendship" any further than where it is now.  It's working for both us.  I guess it's like any other relationship -- each one is unique in how it works.
575855
When that happened to me many years ago, it was devastating to loose a friend who I thought was "a friend."  Now, as time passed, I figured that she was an acquaintance, some one who comes & goes in your life time.  If she was that weak minded to just take his word for something as important as that without consulting you to straighten it out, then she's not your friend.  Get a new one who values your friendship.
136715
You can continue to be friends but don't saddle yourself down to him as he is long distance. If you still feel the same about him when you are older then save some cash to meet him. But take someone with you as you don't know who you are really chatting with he could be an old perv!
260391
Yes he should consider how you feel.  Break away for now and maybe in a few months or years you 2 can become friends.  You want someone to treat you with kindness and respect and do not take anything less.  Good luck.
59658
i say yes, meet the guy someday, but as for whether he has "feelings" for you or not... i am not a mind reader. can't help you there... but i think i can say that he thinks you're a good friend...
594539
I think you should figure that out first. Do you or do you not? Cuz if you're in the so-so, iffy, maybe and you tell him that you do....well thats putting the both of you in a very awkward and deceiving situation.  And if it's a lot of work to decide...maybe you don't.  But then it could be in a developing stage....I dunno. Wait a bit more.And when he comes back, keep being his friend. Talk some more.  Much luck to you!
251015
First of all, how old are you guys? If he is really your friend he wouldn't limit you to friends like that. (not being funny,but...) are you sure being your friend is all he wants?
234997
Friends are sometimes very convenient....other times not....obviously you need to understand that you must move forward in your life...not backward...I have had plenty of experience in this area....ran into someone I had not seen in ten years.....it was a disaster....people you have not seen for years have a snapshot of you from that time....you have moved on....it is sometimes not possible to make up the difference in the time span
392093
I don't know why he dropped the friendship, but you are acting kind of needy--almost stalking like.  take a hint, for whatever reason, he does not want to associate with you.....let it go.