but he has a g/f,but she's not really special 2 him.his friends said he likes me and we are like friends but he is not very serious with his g/f and thats why he won't break up with her and go out with me,but he is really funny and cute just like me and we can talk 4 hours and i really like him (like day dreaming about him 24/7)what should i do ....wait 4 him or what?
215083
Talk to him about his g/f.He has to resolve the question about dating her.He is not the onlyone who has to think.You should think too.Do you realy have some feelings about him(like loving him).All my friends are boys and I love those guys only like friends.We all have the same taste but it doesn`t make any sence(well except for our friendship-it`s easyer).Sometimes people horrey too much.
85585
try to find out if he flurts with other girls and not just you if he does then he just like to flirt alot. but if he only flirts with you then i guess he might just like you alot but maybe likes his gf better cause if he liked you more he would have dumped his gf for you. and to relly find out, if you relly like him to then ask him out.
515510
Good Lord woman!  Before I finished reading this, I already knew you shouldn't get into this relationship in that capacity, just be friends and let it be, perhaps later in the future w/o pushing things, maybe things will change, maybe.  If he was interested, he would've let you know already.  Obviously, in his subtle way, he is not interested, get a clue!  You say he still dates other girls, well, that should be enough to tell you he's still not ready or willing to commit to a relationship.  By all means, don't force a relationship!  Relationships should be easy, mutual and wonderfully exciting.
347136
Take some time and examine your feelings for him. If when you finally realize this her has a girlfriend still, you need to put it on the backburner. You can't sabotage his happiness for your's. That's not fair. However, if he is single or is in a bad relationship and about to get out of it, make your move. Just make sure he is officially single.
52361
Wait patiently. You DO NOT want to start something with this guy if he has a girlfriend, even if they are on the rocks. Flirting might be OK if that is all it is and you don't expect anything. Remember, it is all rumors and maybe they are actually happy together with no intention of breaking up.
331187
I'm not going to call you a home wrecker, like someone did. You just know what you want, but you also know you can't have him. Just let him know the posit on your in. Tell him you like him, but he's got a gf, and you don't want things to be more difficult then it already is. Tell him, you guys can continue to talk as long as it wont go further until he's ready for it.
514557
leave him alone.. omg it pisses me off when girls hit on a guy that already haves a fuckin gf... LEAVE HIM ALONEEE.. when the time comes and he breaks up with his gf.. then wait a little (a month and a half minium) because his gf is prob rli HURT at the moment just dont be a bitch to her and leave her guy alone!
343289
He has a girlfriend and so you need to put that into perspective. You might like him holding you but how does that look knowing he has someone else? Let him get rid of his girlfriend. Then if he does see if he's still interested in you. If he is then it will be up to the two of you as to what you will call yourselves. As far as the other girls go if theyre calling you a s**t or a sk**k, or some other evil word, then jealousy is about 85% of the problem. The other 15% is that they feel that you are giving yourself up easy because hes is with you all the time. To the these girls you hit them intellectually with facts. If you havent slept with him then let them know that. You cant be a wh**re if you havent done anything with him. The next step is to ignore them. Hard as that may be it works. Its great that you can take these girls on, but dont look to fight them if you dont have to. Especially over some guy. It just aint worth your time. You have a life of your own to deal with. Second and above all else the most important factor. Research this guy some more. What is he doing with you if he has a woman. Maybe he cant get the love, care and attention from her so he seeks it through you. Also you said he asked you out so you know that he likes you. Perhaps then his girlfriend is a front for his true feelings for you. You wont know however until you tell him to clean up his act. If he really likes you he will do what is right, even at the expense of hurting the other girl. Hopefully this can be a stepping stone for you to take action that will give you results. Good luck!
516358
Okay this has happened to most girls before. You fall for a cute, sweet, smart guy, only to find out he's taken. Well, why wouldn't he be, with all those great qualities? The truth of the matter is, if the guy was as into you as you're into him, he wouldn't be with another girl, he'd be with you. Granted there are a lof of other factors involved, such as how long he's been with her, how old you are, maybe he's afraid to break up with her, etc. Chances are the guy really does like you, but you're right...you can't be "the other girl." And that's what you are shaping up to be at this point. I was in a very similar situation in high school. I really liked this guy who was dating another girl, and I talked to him every night on the phone, hung out with him every weekend, and we flirted constantly, but the end result was he stayed with her and I ended up disappointed, confused and feeling like a jackass. What you need to do is treat the guy like your friend, since that's all he is right now. He'll respect you for not trying to break up his relationship, his girlfriend won't get all upset, and you'll feel better about yourself for not obsessing over him all the time. Talking to him about it might complicate your friendship, and you could risk losing everything you have with him right now. Guys feel weird if put in a position like deciding between two girls, so don't make him choose. He might feel awkward knowing you care about him that way if he doesn't return the feelings. As much as you like the guy, give it time, and if he doesn't come to you, then he's just not into you. Maybe he'll break up with her and then you can tell him how you feel. You sound like a head's up girl, so you'll find someone eventually. You never realize how much you love girls' nights til you have a boyfriend and can't see the gals anymore! Take advantage of being single...when you're meant to have a boyfriend, it'll be that much better when you know he really likes you.
184981
Well you got to  reassure him that well you have been with him this long and you only like them as far as friends and nothing else that youre happy to be with him and happy to be only their friends after that just keep him close by when he meets them! You just gotta hope it works out because a lot of boyfriends aren't always cool w/ their g/f having guy friends
82563
YES: YOU LIKE HIM BUT WHY WAIT FOR HIM TO COME AROUND? THERE ARE SO MANY GUYS OUT THERE. WHY DENY THEM THE CHANCE TO BE WITH A HOT FEMALE LIKE YOURSELF?
283972
I think this is a good strategy...distance yourself from him for a while and when he asks you for advice just tell him "I don't know what to tell you." Start dressing a little more feminine if you usually are more of one of the guys around him. It sounds like you are in high school, and those relationships really don't last very long, so odds are he and his g/f will break up. When you hear that, give him a week or two to get over it, then start being around him more again, this time re-establishing your relationship as more than friends, like flirting obviously. See if he flirts back. Ask him if he wants to go to the movies one weekend...just the two of you. If he still doesn't seem to get the picture, say "Hey, could you ever see us dating?" in a casual way. If he blows the question off I'd assume he's not interested, but you didn't embarrass yourself to the point where you can't be friends anymore. If he is interested he might say "yeah" and then jackpot!
70764
Ask yourself, 'what is it that I like about him?' It sounds like this doesn't work with your current lifestyle. What is his relationship with her? Are they co-worker? another-wards are they entitle to this time together? or Are they friends, and he chooses to spend this time with her? If this is the case, get him to take you out for a dinner at a nice restaurant. Get him to buy some nice wine. Spend the evening together having a beautiful time together, THEM DUMP HIM! Hand him a flower and card with a thank you for the consideration, but no thanks! Good luck! PS my friend is good looking and single.
531855
Hey, sometimes things just don't work out. I know you really like this guy; we've all been there, I promise. Maybe this flirting that's going back and forth will lead somewhere, maybe it won't, but don't beat yourself up for it. Try and get involved in something else you're passionate about- reading, or hanging with your girlfriends, or anything. Just don't do anything to break up him and his girlfriend, okay? That never leads anywhere good. Good luck!
262588
You have to wait - the hardest thing to do - for him to find out if he`s interested in you as a girlfriend. Don`t try to come between him and his current girlfriend, he`s chosen to be with her, and until they split up - if they do - you have to play the waiting game and let him come to you.
22010
"Believe half of what you see, and none of what you hear".  Take things slow (talk on the phone, hang out, etc...if he is persistant than he may be genuine.  Right now to be safe do only things you would do if he did have a girlfriend.  BE VERY CAUTIOUS!!!!!
672464
What do you mean break up ,,it sounds like you haven't been his girlfriend for some time now, and why in the hell are you worried about what your friends say or think,, they don't run your life or pay your bills,, be independent, tell him and all of them to kiss your a** ,,and go out and find some real friends !!!