I asked a question two weeks ago. I am going to rephrase the question because i don't think i was clear enough the first time. Are there any MEN out there who have been harassed by other MEN at their job? To the point where they hated going to work. What is your story? What did you do about it?
199740
Yes. \nI hesitated about what to do. If I decided to quit, I could not get any money. So, I made their life so difficult and the business so bad that they put me out of the company and I asked for a good exit package. With that I bought a small flat and set up a Foundation. I do my best to have a great working atmosphere. It goes very well.
433389
Funny ....especially when you work in a all men work place its helps to read these once and a while...(nope Im not a men hater)...its just a booster :)
409544
"I talked to my employer and he told me that this individual had harassed people in this way before, but he was not going to do anything about it, and if I couldn't handle it I should quit."\n\nGet this is writing from the employer then you can go to your state's  workforce commission and file a formal complaint.  Send your complaint in an e-mail and give the employer time to respond.\n\nDon't take any cr*p but you also must have solid ground on which to fight. Good luck.
603557
A number of years ago I applied for a job there. I found the questions on their application too intrusive. One of them was something like "if you knew that another employee was using drugs would you report him?" I think that's a lousy thing to ask someone. After I applied a manager called me and said, "can you be here for an interview in one hour. I said no but I could come later or tomorrow. He never called back, thank god.
307792
Yes, my ex boss was mean to me all the time. She used to yell at me and tell me that I needed to grow up. I used to get the blame for stuff that I knew that I had not done. And when I would try to defend myself she would say, "Well maybe you just spaced out from all the medication you are on!" And I am not on any medications.\n\nThere was also a time that money turned up missing that I honestly believe that never existed. My boss mentioned it in front of customers. And then in the end she fired me over it. I did not take it but in the end I had to pay that money back.\n\nMy best friend who still works there says that someone who once worked with the boss says that that they have done that to people before. And that the money was probably never there at all.\n\nOther people say that they probably did it for unemployment. Either way I had money taken out of my paycheck without my permission and I did not take that money in the first place!!! No police were involved in this or anything.\n\nI never did anything about it. I didn't know what I could do or that I even could do anything.
415889
Yes. I arrived this morning to find that the person I was taking over from, didn't know and was the first person I spoke to!.\nHe was in a temporary post and had no contract, but  he had hopes of getting the 2 year contact given to me. It was a bit of a surprise for him, when I said that I was starting.\nHe spat his dummy out and had gone by 10am, just after speaking to the boss!\nIt could have been better, but it could have been much worse. At least he doesn't know where I live!\nYou should look on the bright side. Even if it doesn't last, anyone can manage to blag their way in a job for a couple of months and that gets you past Christmas (Sorry Winter Holidays!). I have the guilty feeling of taking food away from someones Children for Christmas. (I don't even work for a Hamper Company.)
187940
been there with my job...most of the time it is the employees keeping the managers and supervisors in their job and this is because if it wasn't for us...they wouldn't have their job they would be doing what we are doing. they cant say that they are keeping their jobs because of themselves...it's us small pawns that help them keep their jobs. but what can we do besides try harder and knock them off the ladder or just switch jobs(but if you do that..you're back on square 1)...so let's just play chess shall we?
268954
I've had two. One because the person wanted to get back at me for not answering the question the way they wanted me to. The second one made no sense. To avoid anymore violations, I changed my name and avatar, in case anyone was stalking my name.
497826
This happened to me yesterday!  I work for a major airline.  There are 70+ employees in my station.  Guy calls and gets mad at me because I have no clue as to why someone called him the day before...unbelievable!  \n\nI do not call back numbers on caller ID unless it is a call I have been waiting for and know WHO was doing the calling!  I think to call back like what happened to us is very RUDE!!
126478
Going after someone in your chain of command could be devasting for your career. Imagine if you were to go out and you had an arguement. work would be very uncomfortable the next day wouldn't it?
305552
If you reeeally need this job, I'd go to the Labor Board. It sounds like A$Shole wanted to find a reason to get rid of you.  You might come out on top in this one, but even so, will your employers make your job a living hell by always looking for legal ways to fire you again and again? Just think it over.  "Choose your battles" was some of the best advice I ever got.
632828
my last job I have a very nasty boss. he told me right to my face that no matter what i did it would be wrong, and he was right no matter what he told me to do or how he told lme to do it it was never right It was like working for jeckel and hyde\n\nthis person is no longer in this area he lost his business and his family for drinking on the job.i feel bad for his family but he got what he deserved
592140
i've done it before.... and dont recommend it... i mean, everyone at your job will find out sooner or later, thats wat happened to me... :(\nthen our relationship was not going good... so we ended it... sucked 'cause i had to c him almost everyday.... it was just bothering so much.... i quit my job... :)
362663
Got fired once cause I didn't show up enough.\n\nGot another job cause there's tons of work here.
449766
I am the boss.  I did get a tie one year from some of the women that had worked for me, I have not seen anything since then.  Most of my employees whine and cry and complain about the workplace.  Even when I had bought them doughnuts they complained about what kind I got.  I made them ham and bean soup and they complained about the type of soup.  Some people can be so ungratful.
498426
I know you aren't looking for a real answer but I am going to give you one in brief.\n\nNascar is full of redneck good ole boys. How do I know this? My sister was hired as a mechanical engineer for their research and development department. She was the only female in the entire department besides the receptionist. \n\nAfter about 3 years of her calling me during her lunchtimes, upset from being harrassed, she finally resigned. \n\nI could go on and on about the ways those redneck men harrassed her, but I know you dont' want to hear truth.
449109
I had a guy do that to me until I quit for a while and use another avatar and started over.  when he got lost i came back because I had so many points.  Some guys like to be bullys and they think they can scare you off.  I will help you who is it, we can do it to him.  Probably the same one I had he was a real jerk.