I have like five fat friends and they never have bfs. Why? There nice, there clean too. What is it with men? THey dress nice too.
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yeah of course thay do, the bigger the cushion the sweeter the pushin.
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Guys like anything that will please them sexually. Big boobs are one of them. But those are the guys who will not respect you.
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He has a weak character. I think it's probably virtually impossible for him to compromise. I know guys like that. BUT there are probably some other guys out there who would be so into being close to you, they would not care if you are fat... and some who think you're sexy as you are. Find them instead, and let this guy feel your absence and hurt about it a bit. Maybe he'd learn something valuable.
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Women are beautiful delicate creatures.  Men are sinewy and tough.  Women smell nice and fresh.  Men smell musky and musty.  Women are sexy with big boobs, big butts and long hair... built for comfort.  Men are built to lift heavy things like lumber and hay bales.  Built for utility.  Wow maybe I should switch teams.
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Well I am not a guy But I see the inner beauty in the men I date. After all the cute is gone you are left with a cute asshole nobody. I figure it is that way for men also when they look for a mate. Of coarse everybody wants that perfect person who is all that .but think of it this way "our skin is just our garage where we                temporarily store our souls."
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its all a matter of preference. some guys like what some guys like.  \n\nthe real question is: why are heavy men acceptable in our socety, but heavy women arent?!
547007
Do you  have a personality? I'm not trying to be an ass but my girl friend just went out with some guy who is super super nice but she said he just had no personality. No spunk. He wasn't funny, he wasn't sarcastic, he wasn't artsy, he wasn't into music, he wasn't really passionate about anything. But he was nice. What the ladies love is a funny guy, or a guy who really loves something. Animals, art, music, nature, sports...whatever. And of course it's always important to be clean and presentable. A nice guy will never win if he's got bad hygiene or smells bad. Smell good! Be talkative. Be a little more than nice. Be passionate. Don't be creepy and nothing but complimentary, that's like you're a girl's gay best friend. Just be presentable.
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RIGHT HERE! I have ONE female friend. And because I have a boyfriend AND a job I have one male friend....my boyfriend. Girl its been like that for me since the seventh grade. Girls for whatever reason do not like me. I dont know why either. I'm the nicest person I know for real. I try to talk to females but they just dont like me for some reason. It drives me crazy!
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I think that they are.  Guys who are fat is the norm for us (USA).  I mean I work with several HUGE men.  But I also work with a few HUGE women.  Who gets the most sh*t about being overweight?  The woman.  Most people think that a pretty girl is a skinny girl.  I'm overweight but not grossly so.  I hate feeling the ugly one when I happen to be standing next to a skinny girl and a guy checks her out and ignores me.  But hey I don't really hvae to worry about it.  I have a loving guy in my life who loves me for ME.
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Who says gay men aren't sexy? I have a lot of gay friends and they are all sexy...the men & the women!!
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i don't know how big my guy is, but as long as it's getting the job done, do you really care?\n\ni think your friends are just jealous.. and have no idea what they're missing out on.
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I like nice guyz because they give you RESPECT un like bad boyz who don't. To me it doesn't matter if they are alone or with their friends but it would be easier to talk to a guy that is not with his friends.
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Well it is no surprise to the ladies... and a charming guy would never say so.  Look around and you will see lots of guys like a little meat on them bones...just more to love.
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look, truth be told, some ppl just aren't 'ppl ppl' if u know what i mean... they prefer to be alone and r actually better off that way. \n\nbut if u ask me, even those ppl could use a good friend at some point in their life. it might be during the difficult teens, maybe the late thirties, or even after the dubbed "middle-age"...but that time always comes! \n\nfriends aren't the ppl who hang out with u and make u do drugs... friends r those who hold u up on their shoulders so u can check out that pretty chick/hunk behind the fence, they r the ppl who tell u that outfit makes u look fat (that just means they r honest and don't want to c u make a fool of urself), they r the ones who lend u their favorite CDs and don't mind if it takes u ten weeks to give 'em back, the ones who help u cheat on a test without being afraid they'll get caught in the process, they r the ones who actually take the blame for something YOU did and not regret it, the ones who let u sleep over (and in THEIR bed, too!) when ur wife/husband kicks u out, the ones who play poker with u when ur kids dump u in an old-ppl's home and forget u there...\n\nthe friends u've had so far obviously didn't fall under that category...find urself some REAL buds and use criteria like: same inetersts, similar mind-frequency, humor, logic, and most of all...THAT THEY R THERE 4 U WHEN U NEED THEM!!!
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Because guys are shallow
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I am a woman just over 50 and would really like to look like I did 30 years ago, but reality is reality, and I know men just don't tend to look at things that way.  But my hubby assures me that he loves me however I look, so maybe it is mostly single men who think that way, I don't know.  I just know that when he was younger, he and his best friend had alot to say about heavier women and that is where my insecurities come from.  Also, I do see single, older men wanting the younger, thin, sexier appearing women.  Maybe it is an ego thing.  Who kknows why guys think the way they do.  But you do have a good point.  Sometimes I think they just don't think.  They want.
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men are like that cause they are big babies..  it's pathetic i know  but thats just the way it is.. love em or hate em..lol