this guy i like always holds me and hugs me but i am not fsur if he likes me bcause i am too shy to ask him for fear of him to stop hugging holding etc... what do i do?
216197
i understand where you're coming from because i am sort of going through the same thing. he gives signs that he may feel the same way i do but i want to know for sure. i'm afraid to ask him because if he does'nt feel the same way things may get ackward between us and i dont want that. i think that you should give little signs that you like him so that way if he likes you and realizes you feel the same way you can take things to the next level.
164104
if he really likes you he will wise up and say something before he loses you. if you feel brave confront him. let him know that you notice he is always staring at you. if you like him say something to him. try to get together and hang out at some point. good luck.
51339
I think that he likes you, but afraid of rejection from you or he is not ready for commitment yet.....so just wait and see.
421912
Maybe when you go to end the hug, your the one that always ends it first or you aren't hugging him tight enough. If you want to reassure him that you are all for hugs try to hug him more often then he hugs you :)
413792
i would say either he is shy or just not comfortable tellling someone who is not in his circle of friends his feelings for you. you should comfront him about it or just ask one of his friends. maybe just ask him straight up when your friend is nearby and see what he says.
190755
All I can say is don't be afraid. If you are, overcome it by spending more time with him directly (like studying with him) or indirectly (like hanging out with him and his friends) etc... get to know him better, let him get to know you better and move on from there.\n\nIf you aren't afraid, then what are you waiting for? Just invite him to a party or something. If he likes you and wants to take it a level higher, he'll make it clear.\n\nGood luck!
422891
First you have to ask yourself, "Do you like him enough to kiss him?" if the answer is yes, then what is the problem?\nMaybe you're just scared? Talk to him about it.\n\nKissing will come naturally to you, so don't worry and good luck!
174779
Maybe he is afraid of his own feelings for you, and protect himself,by \nsaying: "he doesn't like you". \nMaybe he is not ready yet, for a friendship, or ,relationship. \nIt sounds to me like an insecure reaction. \nLook out for someone who likes you! Things will fall in place when it is\nmeant to be......
529777
hey there...he probably is nervous or unsure as to whether you like him or not...before you go leaping into asking him out or anything make sure that you can cope with someone who may be very shy...i know i couldn't it would drive me nuts,lol...but it might be just your cup of tea...think about it though because shyness in a guy can initially seem cute but can often blend into you having to do all the work and that can become tedious...just advice and it depends on you...it may well suit you down to the ground...good luck whatever you decide ;0)
554702
Maybe he's just kinda shy in that catagory when he's in public. If you alone with him and he doesn't stop you....he likes it. Affection is the way we show we care about someone. I'd say if you like him....keep on a touch'n. Never knew a guy that didn't like a girls touch....unless he was gay.
555456
He's probably shy.  If he agreed to go out again, he digs you.  You may have to make the first move, but once it's made, it's made.  Try talking to him too.  Tell him you're into him and that you wouldn't mind if he held your hand.  Once the pressure is off, he's more likely to do it.
287068
Great for you. He likes you. Please dont hide your feelings so well. If guys knew what girls really tought they wouldnt be so scared to ask you out. show that you like him more. Touch him a lot and give him lots of hugs just try it. dont be scared. Hes the scared one. Good luck!!!!\n\nThe answer above me sounds crazy but its true just watch his eyes all the time if hes looks at you or around you a lot he likes you.
669761
girl u go talk 2 him if u have something 2 say. i mean wat r u afraid of by asking him? is he scary? then tell him wat u feel and say that u know how he feels about u but u cant hide ur feelings anymore. believe me this will do nothing but good 2 u. try it out and let me know what happens with u i really wanna know ok? u can send me an IM. im waiting!
370190
yo, it sounds like he may be afraid to make the first move ... if you think he really likes you.. go for it, youl do him a favor if hes really afraid.. if not he will just say sry not interested... no harm done
21087
You have to be brave and tell him other wise you will never know if he likes you too.\nIf he doesn't then you can move on but if he does than you will have a relationship with him and what could be better than that?
560113
You should  know how he feels about u, then ask him, think of it this way, u have nothing to lose, he prob feels the same way and is shy too. Good Luck!!!
6440
Well the first approach is simple.....ASK\n\nBut if you are afraid of rejection, you can observe his actions after the date.  If he calls, he likes you. If not, he is not intrested and you should move on.  If your not sure, you can call him and pursue the relationship and see how he reacts.  If you get alot of excuses, he moree than likely is not intrested.\n\nGood luck and keep your chin up!