when you and a friend of the opposite sex are realliy close and you both have feelings for each other and your friend starts talking to another person and decides not to talk to you on the phone like they did before they met that other person but still talks to you are they falling for that other person and ignoring you or what?
213183
tell him/her what u feel..  nothing is wrong in admitting the truth.. yes, truth hurts but its how u face ur fears.. \n\nif he/she reject u.. go on.. move on.. let them go.. thats life.. sh*t happens..
215962
This is typical after a breakup if the two people remain friends.  The problem is that even though you aren't together, you still have feelings for each other and everyone around you will still often treat you like a couple so it is very easy to fall into old patterns.  It doesn't mean anything has changed or that you two should be together, it just means your not able to move on because you two are still so connected by life in general.
271565
Ok let me tackle your question one by one.Always know if a friend comes to you only when she needs something then shes BAD NEWS.just this week i got rid of a friend like that now shes gone into hiding.Both your best friends are playing with you.One of them disses you about the other NOT because she doesnt like that other girl BECOZ she wants to see what you have to say about her to go and tell the other girl or she must have made something up.My advice loose both of them as friends make friends with mature girls who are smart and educated who know what life is and not bitchy since im surrounded by such friends and life is such bliss trust me when u get friends like that ull know what true friendship means
59269
not sure. maybe he has an interest in you but because of his conflicting feelings with the other person he probably doesnt want to hurt you until he gets things straightened out.
69736
you have opposing but co-existent feelings toward that person.\nThat is, you do care and yet you do not.
290411
Well if you told your guy friend that you like his friend and the your guy friend did not speak up then there should not be a problem. A kiss is just that a kiss.
518481
He could be falling for you, or he could be just hanging out with you because he sees you as a good friend.  Guys sometimes feel really comfortable with their female friends, but they aren't necessarily looking to start a relationship.   I think you should let him know how you feel about him *and* your concerns that you could ruin his relationship with the other girl...since both of these reflect what appears to be your truth.  Honesty is important in any relationship....be it intimate or just friends.  Good luck.
532532
You know I've been in this same situation. It's really hard to deal with if you guys are so close. I just let my friend be and went to hang out with other people. I would call her and invite her places but she always turned me down because she had already made plans with her new man. This went on for about three months. When she called one day I told her. I'm not mad at you anymore but I would like for you to know that what you did really hurt me. We had been friends for five years and this guy comes and now you act like I don't exist. She apologized and we started hanging out again. Some people just get caught up in situations and forget about the feelings of others. You just have to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in a new relationship you might do the same thing to her. It's something new and right at this time you're just caught up in it. As long as you talk to her and tell her how you feel about it she should make it a point to try and share her time between the two of you. If she just blows you off then she wasn't a good friend to begin with and you'd be better off finding someone who cares about you and what your feelings are. Good luck with it. I hope she comes around.
599990
when you care about someones feeling or respect someone  you give them an explanation why you break plans,  obviously she doesnt consider your feeling, so i really dont think shes much of a friend. Shes more like an acquaintance. Stop calling her and maybe she'll give you a call if she misses you.And if she doesnt call just dont worry about it, get a new friend
361060
The person you added  does not want to be added to you as a friend. But because you added him or her it still counts....It has happened to me and that was the answer I got.
615495
I don't think they are really your 'friends'. I mean, you've known them for a long time, but a real friend would never ignore you or treat you like that. They would tell you what you did or said that they didn't like and wait for you to apologize or explain.\n\nGo right up to them and ask what's wrong.
236845
A lot of people say that. I say it all the time. When I say it it usually means I'm confused and I need some time to think. Well if he's keeping you a secret maybe he's not man enough to admit that he likes you or something. If his friend has a crush on you and he wants to take a break maybe he doesn't want his friend to find out about you two.
501736
when your friend starts liking someone its always tough because they want to try and spend so much time with that person to see where the feelings there will go and unfortunately, that means spending less time with you and probably his other friends too. its just a natural thing that happens. the best thing you can do now is be supportive, so at least he knows that when things dont work out  with that girl, youll still be there for him
155263
is that when you're around or when you're not around? if its when you're not around, get over it, she's got friends. waht should she think if u call your friends? nothing right? if she's on the phone all the time when you are around it means u bore her -take her out for a nice meal, make her feel special. or get a movie out so the two of u can order in pizza and watch a movie together. get her interested in you again.
318723
"Will they ever accept me like the once did?" - No, you have broken their trust and hurt their friend. He has feelings for you and may forgive you, however you will have broken his trust as well. While you may be able to have a relationship with him, it will never be "like it was".
123006
it might and it might not it could just mean she things your a good guy and she would like to fine a good guy but then again she could be hinting it feel it she how she reacts to a little casual closeness flirt if  you can tell she isnt feelin it then back off and stay friends remember not to over do it so then you can still keep your friendship
447583
looks like friend 2 is trying to steal friend one from you...ask friend 1 if you can talk to her privately and see what's really wrong...this happened to my too i decided to stop being friends with those losers and get some cool kid friends my other friends wanted me back but i was like hellz no..well the point of my story is ive had my "new" friends for 5 years now so...yeah! good times