Decent looking guy, blond,blue eyes, good education and creativity. Fit 30\n\nIt's like trying to excite an aloof kitty kat ? What gives.
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From your description, it sounds like the girls should be all over you. I'm guessing you must be either really shy or have some sort of personality issue going on. Desperation drives girls away.\n\nAnyway, I would recommend coffee shops and bookstores to find girls in the same educational league (so to speak) as yourself. I've never had luck with guys there, but I keep trying.\n\nThe grocery store is good too because you can tell a lot of a woman by what she has in her cart, but that's kind of cliche.\n\nBasically, unless you have a personality issue, just try and be honest, open, and yourself. Women don't like guys who are posturing and fake; women who can't tell when you are tend to be vapid and a little scary, so everyone loses here.\n\nBest of luck.
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attractive, good lookin, sexy, cool, someone in style
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i dont quite go on looks. Looks dsnt matter.. but the personality does. if a guy has a good personality and he'z sweet and easy to talk to and friendly .. datz enough. the guy i would be attracted to wont be BORing... i would go for a decent guy.. not a guy who just wntz 2 hook up with you.
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I prefer a man who can make me laugh. Life is way too serious. Everyone needs to learn to laugh more. Luckily, I found the right one for me. He is a good loving man. Looks never got me interested. I'm more interested in intellect and a good sense of humor.
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You probably are...wouldn't know though......  the things I look for in a guy have nothing to do with what he looks like.....  good sense of humor, caring, generous, fun, honest......  someone i can relate to.  Good looks are just a bonus to a beautiful soul.
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why you want a guys opinion on this is beyond me.  First thing get a magazine like Elle, Vogue, Cosmo...something with lots of pics and adds.  See what is going down in the world of fashion.  Look at Paris Hilton Blonde Hair blue eyes.  What can she do...she can get her hair dyed red and put green contacts in and she'll look like the queen of the amazon's....she'll get lots of attention and then we'll all turn the page and see what's happening somewhere else.  The question you ask is personal....one guy may want blonde hair and blue eyes or black hair and green eyes.   I myself like dark brown hair deep blue eyes and fire engine red lips.   A pair of dark frame glasses and the hair tied up and I'm a gonner.    Who cares what guys like.   Guys don't even know.  You show 'em what they like.  Go get your colors done by a professional and see what hair color and clothing color goes best with your skin tone and you will start stopping traffic.  The Doc knows.   You show me a man that says he only dates blondes and I'll show you a man that hasn't met Julianne Moore in person.
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I'm into this guy I thought wasn't very attractive at first but let me tell you sweetie, it's what's INSIDE that counts. You don't need to worry about other people. Just realize you have a winner! If you think he's cute then he's cute. for the record, I think this guy i'm into is GORGEOUS! different than what I'm used to? definitly! but also cute! and you have to take that into consideration. one more thing.: women will talk themselves into thinking a guy is cute BECAUSE he treats them well. I've never seen them do it because he's rich, though. it's always been about him being a  good person. so maybe in time you will really fall for him.
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Maybe you are...\n\n\nKeep in mind that guys with a big smile and a great personality are hot.\n\nI met a guy once, and at first I thought he was ok looking.  He spent a lot of time with my friends and I, opening doors and being funny and sweet and by the end of the weekend we all thought he was super hot.\n\nSo there you go!
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No, don't wear skimpy clothes.  I believe modesty is the best way to go. You can still be sexy and be modest.  So the young guys are not giving you much attention?  I am only 28, but maybe the older guys see a maturity level in you that isn't common for someone your age.    Why they think they have a chance, I don't know.  Maybe the younger guys that you say ignore you just aren't ready for someone like you.  Maybe some guys just want a fling and a little fun and are looking for someone who exudes that personality.  Feel free to PM me if you want to chat.
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i would be lying if i said looks do not matter. how a guy looks and carries himself is what draws your eyes to him in the first place. but after the initial attraction, there has to be substance in him. his personality, his values and beliefs, his attitude. what's a good-looking guy with a bad-as  attitude or personality? zero.\nhe has to be one who values his family and cares for them. he has to have a sense of humor and be easy-going but at the same time be as steady as a rock. in what way? he has to be a constant fixture in your life. not just in bed, but in all ways... even when you drag him shopping!:)
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Sounds great tbh. Did you know that sometimes being too perfect will put guys off. They might just assume you are already taken or simply 'out of their league'. This happens to a friend of mine who is beautiful, smart etc.\n\nBy the way I'm 18
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Mental is a big aspect.  He's gotta be smart enough to respect women and intelligent enough to hold a converation.  Looks, while not a MAJOR priority... I still gotta be attracted to the guy.  What's the point in dating the perfect man if the though of fooling around gives you the creeps?
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I like the way you phrased this question.  I was thinking the same thing...he's not hot but he's kinda cute...
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He's trying to get laid.\n\n"Date" is a relative term.
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Not trying to be sarcastic but, trying to impress a guy who's really hot with a gun doesn't sound like a 29 yo but more like a teenager. Would think at 29 you would have developed an adult viewpoint. I would think that it would be a bad idea if this "hot" guy has that much influence what will he want you to do with this gun to impress him even more. It's easy to start down a path like that but dealing with the consequences can sometimes be difficult to cope with.
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a casual guy, who isn't afraid to have fun.\n(if you're honest, and a great sense of humour that helps too..)
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First thing I notice: clothing. what you wear says a lot about who you are. generally I look for clean clothes, comfortable, perhaps buttoned shirt or polo. Jeans and their fit say a lot about a person. a person who wears jeans that expose their posterior and most of their boxers says "I'm a faux gangster tryin' to live tha thug lifestyle before mommy comes and picks me up. I have no ambition and fewer prospects." (I should mention that I'm in my early 20's, and this is still the impression I get about guys around my age) a guy who has slightly baggy pants, but shows no a** tells me "I'm relaxed and easy going overall. I'm not too conservative, but I'm decent". a well dressed man in slacks and a nice shirt says "I'm corporate. I make money and I'm doing well for myself". guys who tuck in their shirts and wear tight jeans with big belts say "I'm a dude, and I don't take S**t from women" (basically, it appears they have a stick shoved in their rectum... and who wants to date that?) guys in dirty or seriously ripped clothing says "I don't care about me, and I'll care less about you". and guys in all black with black hair and black painted nails scream "I want to suck your blood and make love to your corpse". Run!\n\nThe next thing is build. since I'm a bigger woman, a man with a small frame is not a good suit for me. I'll break them in half before anything good gets going! then again, huge muscles are kind of creepy, in my opinion. a medium build of medium height is sufficient. weight doesn't really bother me all that much. it's preferrable to be shorter than the guy, but I'd hate to be accused of being sizist. you just don't know who's a good guy until you look.\n\nNext I look at what they are doing. are they flirting with everyone? not really a good choice. their attention is easily divided. are they having a good conversation? that could be interesting. are they looking around? they're interested in what's going on, and so might be easier to approach. are they approaching me? sure, I'll give you the time of day. are they being infantile? Sorry, I'm not a pedophile. I want to be with a man! there are many more situations that can make me assess things in all kinds of ways. but the number one rule: if they are with another woman, HANDS OFF! you automatically assume he is interested in her, and poaching is not cool.\n\nThe last thing to scope is the face. look at the eyes. You really can see a lot about a person in their eyes. knitted eyebrows, small, hard eyes, round, open eyes, laugh lines, etc. all the little details in that area give clues about who you are talking to. the mouth: is it tightly set? is it smiling? scowling? laughing? frowning? going up to a moody guy is not my idea of fun.\n\nOther than that, it's a free-for-all. That's just the preliminary 2 second staredown that I give. for more permanent situations, I'd have to write a book, which I don't think many people would want to read. hope that answers your question!