The guy I gave my number to finally called actually text message, I thought it was a prank so i called him and when he said hello i said hello back i heard his voice and I instantly knew it was him. I said that I'd call him back cause he told me that he was watching a movie.But then when I called him back the conversation was kinda going dry and it ws hard keeping it to go smoothly but i realli like him i don't know what i should do. Okay the question is it a sign that there is no chemistry when the convo. doesn't go smoothly? but i realli like him and I'd hate it if we have no chemistry HELP ME !!!!!!!
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Guys always wait to call - You problem caught him off guard by dialing his digits back.  He Probly wasn't ready for a voice to voice conversation.  You should have text him back - girls are notorious for jumping the gun - however with that said - chill - wait a couple of days and think of something funny and text him - he'll respond - he probly feels awkward too because the conversation didn't go so well.
374479
Be careful, I've been in this situation and it didn't work out.  \n\nI think guys that do this aren't sure what they want, or they know that they really like you, but kind of want to store you for later, when they want a proper relationship.  Or they just like a bit of fun when they are out, but nothing else.  \n\nWhy do you keep waiting to meet by chance if he's texting you to meet up?  Why don't you meet up with him and see what happens.  Or say I'm busy, but we could arrange to meet up just the two of us on a different day.  You just don't know what will happen, unless you put yourself out there.
332316
If you are comforatable with him & do know him well, then by all means give him your #...You can get to know each other better by just talking & the phone is a nice safe place foe that!...just like you would any new friend...let the "romance" side of things set on the back burner for now...let things develope slowly...
389479
Because he's not creative enough to find ways to actually convince you that he's a great catch with his actions. He may be trying to appeal to your sense of pity, and I'm sure this approach has worked for him in the past.\n\nGood for you for not falling for it. You might want to even go so far as to tell him to stop texting you or else you will block his number. Don't let him disrespect you by not heeding your wishes.
265784
you called him and didnt leave a message,now that is not good. leave a message. then he really wont have no excuse. if he dont get back to you, forget him. i know its hard when you like someone, but i know you would be saying the same thing to me if i had your prob. leave a message saying how great the other nite was and how you are looking forward to his cal. gud luck. x
557122
You really like this guy huh? That's sweet. I woud suggest that you think back on the time that you two spent together and evaluate whether or not you were able to pick up on any signals from this young lad. Did he flirt with you? Did he drop any hints that he may like you too? If not, I would suggest that you lay off him for a while, and then attempt to contact him (by phone, skip the txt messaging) and ask him if he wants to hang out. The squeaky wheel gets the oil. Perhaps the young lad is shy? If you do not let him know, then perhaps he will never know. Therefore, wait a week, and give him a call and ask him to hang out. If he agrees, do not jump his bones, just play it cool and use the time to really determine if he is throwing any hints or signals that he may like you.  Good luck and have fun.
304628
Just wait for his call, he will contact you again and you wil soon enough find out what kind of relationship he wants with you. By the way, what kind of relationship do you want with him? That you have to ask yourself too
630090
He gave you his number(hopefully not a dud) so obviously he wants you to call him. If would not have given it to you if he didn't want you to. Call him even if its for a chat or you could ask him to go out somewhere just don't take too long though as he might think your not interested.
314516
Really guys like to be called by girls.  In fact all girls should start calling guys first.  It would make things easier for us guys.  But if your worried try this.  Write down 3 or 4 things you could talk about.  Like his old job with you, something he mentioned when you talked to him 2 weeks ago, something that's going on in your life, etc.  Then just have this paper when you call and if it goes into awkward silence.... you've got something to say!  It's like an outline sort of.  And don't forget to ask if he wants to hang out!
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i think that you should stop texting him cuz it does seem a little bit desperate but if you really like him then i think that you should talk more with him at church and try and get to know him more outside of church. If you want some tips on how to see him outside of church without it lookin like you want it to be a date den you could just go somewhere with a bunch of friends and invite him as well. If you want to just go for it and ask him for a date then you could just casually go up to him after church and just chill together. also jsut because he doesn't text you back it doesn't mean he doesn't like you. some people just dunt like doing that kind of stuff.
538304
Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
650329
I'm like this girl too! When I meet a new guy (are you new in her life?) I get really shy when it comes to the phone, even if I'm NOT shy with everything else. Give her some time and STOP calling her until she's comfortable with the idea, otherwise she'll keep pulling away! At least that's what I think she'll do. Hope this helps! :)
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
516011
I would call her again, this time, not leaving a message. Then call again the next day at a different time, and if you don't get her, than leave a message... After that, if she doesn't call you back.. I dunno, man.. maybe she's not interested.  I dunno though. When she told you to call her back, I'm thinking she meant that genuinely. I'm the sort of girl who wouldn't say that unless i meant it. I'm also the sort of girl who only gives my number to guys I'm interested in. But I'm also the sort of girl who would wait until the guy called me. So she may just be hoping you catch her when she's in
207206
I think I'd move on or call him.  I hate these little dating games.  I flirted with a guy for over 2 months it was mutual, and I expressed my attraction and he never responded.  No call, no nothing.  So, if they don't call, screw them, and if they call 8 months later, screw them then, too!
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Call her and ask.  Don't get into the text messaging game and just open up communication. Maybe its a girls thing but it doesn't hurt to actually ask.  If you text somebody they can't tell in what tone you mean it.  If you TALK to her calmly, the tone of voice that you use will help, something that texting can never accomplish.
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i think you are playing games with your own mind. honestly, not to sound sarcastic. but in my eyes you are really overanalyzing the whole situation. just breathe, stretch, shake and let it go. relax. if he calls, he calls, if not then oh well. act on your feelings. do what feels right to you-----not what you think he'll most likely respond to.