Ok i tried twice to tell him.\n1. I was going to tell him personally but the classroom was closed so i couldn't go in and wait for him to drop off his books.\n2. then i decided to tell him by a note but he came in to class late and my friend couldn't give it to him. \n\nso what do i do now do i tell him personlly tomorrow or by \nnote and have him email me or give me a note monday or don't tell him at all or tell him on monday\nmaybe these were signs that i shouldn't tell him or is a third time the charm
217221
Tell him in person.  It will mean more that way.  And try until you get a chance to say what you need to say.  Good luck sweetie.
531391
It's hard to say what the signs are, but here's a good tip: don't reveal anything until you're sure you want to tell him.  When you finally know you want to tell him, use an analogy to bring it up casually.  In other words, pretend your friend likes some guy and you need him to tell you advice on how to get them together.  He should practically give you the answer of what he wants.\n\nGood luck!
70340
I would talk to the principle and ask her/him to have your locker switched.  Just avoid the jerk!  It's makes no sense to comfront him with a teacher, because it usually makes matters worse.  You don't want him or his friends to call you names like, "tattle-tale" or "snitch".  Boys can be really cruel and immature.  Best to just get away from him.
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My first question is this: are you sure he's ignoring you? There may be a perfectly valid reason. Did you send him an email and he just hasn't responded? Did you send him an IM that he didn't reply to?  Did you call and leave a vmail and not get a call-back?\n\nFirst, make sure that he is not out-of-town on a family emergency. If you are positive that he has been receiving your messages and purposely not responding to you, only then should you proceed with what I call my secret weapon: the handwritten letter.\n\nWrite him a letter that says the following:\n1. Intro paragraph. Tell him that you really value your friendship and that you are concerned about him. He has not been responding to your calls/ims/emails like he normally does, and you would like to know what's wrong.\n\n2. Body. Tell him that you are not sure if there is anything going on in his life (maybe he is depressed and not speaking to anyone? maybe a relative passed away and he is trying to cope with the loss?), but that you want to be there for him because you care about him. He should know that he can call you any time, day or night.\n\n3. Body, Part II. Tell him that if nothing is wrong, that you were worried that he was angry with you. Describe your last interaction and how you thought that all was well between you at that time. Apologize in advance if you offended him and assure him that it was completely unintentional. Finally, tell him that if it was something that you did, that you would like to talk about it.\n\n4. Finally... Tell him that you miss talking to him and hope that everything is ok. Tell him that you were thinking of some fun time that you guys shared together and that you hope to see him soon. Tell him to take care of himself and sign it \n\nYour friend always,\nXXXXXX\n\nThen, deliver it straight to his door or mail it to his house. Either way, nothing has the impact of a handwritten note in terms of sincerity and thoughtfulness. Try it. I promise he'll be back in no time. ;)
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Just tell him. What's the worst that could happen? Really. Could he inflict physical pain on you? Cause you to flunk classes? Maim your family members? No.\nThe worst thing he could do is tell you that he doesn't feel the same. And the worst thing that could happen is that your friendship is awkward, but if it's a strong enough bond, then you should be able to get over that hump. Life is too short to play games and to try all these secretive ways to discover someone's feelings. Try being open. Try being honest. It's very liberating.
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I would just tell him and get it off of your chest. Explain to him that your very sorry and that's the only tings you have ever kept from him.
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I'm assuming you are good friends since you've known each other for so long but I wouldn't want you to scare him off either.  I would just kinda drop hints and see how he takes it and when the time is right to tell him then you will know.
440394
well i was once in a situation like this.. maybe call him and tell him your feelings( thats how i did) or ask him to talk to you after school about something without his friends.. \nthen if he likes you he likes you, if he doesnt he doesnt... \n\ndon't listen to that first guy or the one that said 'flirt flirt flirt' ,,... im still very close friends with the guy /best friend i went out with.  we went out like... 2 years ago.. and im still best friends with him, talk to him all the time, his friends and my friends sit at the same table for lunch... went trick or treating with him and his friends and mine..and i didn't flirt with him either..  so don't listen to 'dat wangsta soundin' guy ' (aka the first guy dat talkedid like diss) or the big flirt one   \n(sorry you two if i offended you)
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Tell him how you feel about him.  You can never go wrong with being honest.  If he doesn't return your feelings then cut off the friendship because it would be to painful and he would a least know the truth. ( and so would you ) \nAs for cutting yourself - This is a terrible outlet for difficult feelings.  Talk to a counselor if you can't stop this behaivior.
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Well I guy is never going to be able to tell unless you tell him straight up - we are simple that way - i am kinda surprised that he hasnt come up to you first - I wouldnt be surprised if he is asking the same question on yahoo answers right now - dont worry about what he will say though, remember he is your friend - he is not going to turn into some mean ogre - worst case scenario which also happens to be the least likely is that he will give you a "I am flattered" line, but more likely than not, he will want to give it a try no matter what ....
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Yes, go ahead and tell him now. Don't make him do the scariest thing in guy world - asking a girl out - only to be turned down. You can say "I am really glad that I have you as a friend, but I kinda get the feeling that you might want more. I love you and I don't want to hurt you, but I just don't feel anything but friendship for you."
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its a good idea  to let him know, but you need to do it your self, dont let your friends do it for you. he will appreciate it more if you tell him yourself.
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well when you get home call him right alway and tell him what happend and make sure that next time you two are going to meet up be prepare for everithing and your friend that didnt want you to have the # he probably realy cares for you so talk to him and tell him y is the reason he didnt give it to you
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I have been in that situation before. Don't tell him yet. Give him small hints that you like him, but not obvious ones. Don't give all your hints at the same time.
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I strongly recommend writing him a letter. Make sure that when you apologize, if that's what you want to do, to do it for all the things that you said, and none of the things that he might have said at that time. Do not bring his part of the conversation into it; it's about you and your self-defense mechanism of being hurtful, not about anything he may have said (it's important to keep that in mind). Let him know why you lashed out, and that it's something that you do from time to time, and how it's something you wish you could avoid but can't right now, and that you're working on it (then you can make yourself work on it, right?). Then tell him that you value his friendship and hope that you can be friends once again. But remember that when you apologize you must do it from what went wrong on your side, not his. You can't change him, only yourself. And give it time. Guys have a warped view of time; we can let months pass without realizing it. Be nice, be honest, and be yourself, and he'll be your friend again.
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How long has your friend been jealous of you?  You're entitled to be hurt and annoyed, but if a straight forward request of your friend to please stop doesn't work, then perhaps this friends should seek other company.  Do not respond in a like manner - how do two wrongs make a right?  Do not expect your teachers to get involved unless you're in actual physical jeapardy from this "bully".  Sounds to me more like jealousy, not bullying.  I'd feel sorry for this "friend".  And probably distance myself from him as well.
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If you don't want him to know just brush it off and be confident... but if you do then just tell him...\n\nWhat's the worst that can happen? Rejection? Better to know now then wait and to find the same thing out later... you move on quicker that way... \n\nTell your friend to GROW UP