I like this guy alot, almost to the point where i think i love him! He's perfect, everything I've ever wanted, he's real, and just so amazing. We are distant friends and see each other everyday. Earlier in the yearhe found out that I like him, but that was just a small crush that has now grown into deep infatuation. All his friends who are girls seem to dance and flirt with him all the time, he cant stay single for more than a month, and he's the perfect ladies man, he's dated about 4 of my friends, some even 2 or 3 times, and it seems like the other girls with him, have this perfect friendship with one another, like they've known him forever. I just met him this year, but I am so In love. I want him to know how I feel, and know as a fact that he doesnt like me, I cant torture him into it, but I just want him to understand that wasnt JUST another girl that liked him. I cant tell him strait forward. I want him to see this difrint side of me, because I cant show it at skool. Help me!
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just tell him how u feel
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
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It sounds like he may like her. Probably he is trying to show you that he has options and that other girls can take an interest in him as you once did. Pride is something people have a hard time letting go of. Indifference on your part could lead him to believe that he can continue to act this way. Mention to him that you'd be really upset if he dated your friend. Also acknowledge to him that he has many options outside your social circle and that you'd feel more comfortable if he looked elsewhere for dates.
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DON'T STOP liking him!. Acknowledge and embrace the fact that he's a.) unavailable and b.) a great guy. Hang out with him, be best friends with him, whatever... Guy friends are one of the most wonderful relationships to have, seriously (All of my best friends are guys). You can appreciate him as a friend for a longer (not to mention less complicated) time anyway. You'll probably still like him for a while, but the sooner you re-categorize him as your buddy, the sooner your heart will be available to another great and AVAILABLE guy. There are plenty out there, but you are probably too preoccupied with this one to notice. Plus, the better you get to know him as a friend, the more likely you'll see factors that aren't what you want in YOUR guy in him.
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If he really is a very good-looking guy, chances are that he has lots of beautiful girls chasing after him all the time... especially in his line of work.\n\nI would let myself be known to him, that you like him and would like to see where things could go. Put the ball in his court. But I wouldn't wait around for him cos its likely that he will be easily distracted by other girls. He's probably spoilt for choice, so I wouldn't pin my hopes on this one. Sorry babe.
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Hello, \nHow are you doing?\n\nLet me tell you a secret if you want a guy to admit his True Feelings instead of admitting them yourself, just adore him. \n\nI mean just adore him for everything he has done for you. For all those good times.\nFor all the fun you had when you talk to him.\nFor al the time he had helped you out.\nBottum line only adore him for all the good reasons but don't over do it.and thats if you really like him ofcourse as If he is the one.\n \nThe only thing was wondering personaly if you have seen him if not in person then atleast web came or internet conversation or something. there are a lot of Flerts/Frauds on the web too you.\n\nHe could be just shy you know, like I was, and my girlfriend did that to me, I felt special, and finaly have some guts to ask her out. Because All I wanted to know what do you think about me. If you would be some ussual girl he might would have not care for anything. 4 years seems a lot, WoW! What do you guys talk about?\n\nBut after you would adore him for that he wil get the idea and trust (if I'm not mistaken) Guys always go with the girl who make them Special.\n\nLet me know how it go?\n& yeah "NO KISS ON THE FIRST DATE.....lol!"\n"A NICE HUG WILL BE JUST FINE PLUS MYSTEIRIOUS"\nGOOD LUCK!
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well, i guess it's normal, happened to me too. But u should listen to your heart. And I think u already know the answer: he seems a player, so he's not good for u. Besides, u're friend likes him and u don't want to hurt her. If u feel like it u can play hard to get with him for a while because it's soooo nice to have someone et u're feet, isn't it? But don't get involved if u don't feel like it.
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be yourself. In order for him to like you, he has to like YOU. not someone else. unless he jumps from girl to girl alot, i doubt he will just dump his girl for you, but if he does, would you really want to date someone like that? cause you never know when he will turn around and do it to you. just give it time, he will come around. be friends before dating. and if it dosnt work out, then there was a reason that it turned out that way
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Celebrate your friendship.  In time you will find someone that makes your heart pitter-patter, but for now celebrate the fact that there is someone out there you can trust, because that is what is most important in this life.  You need to take him out and tell him that you are "Celebrating Being Friends!!" and really mean it.  He'll think you're kind of strange, but just make sure you go out with a third person that understands what is going on......she doesn't have to be a mutual friend, but at least a friend of yours.  When you're young friendships can last a lifetime, but relationships only a week or just a month.  Go with the flow and remember, perhaps you may not be right for him now, but when he sees you take this like a mature person and then grow from it a little bit.........hmmm, maybe a little later girly girl.  Good luck and relax......Jack
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Sweetheart. I know how much this hurts. He chose what was most important to him and that was his friends and not you. If he loves you, Then YOU would have been his choice instead of his friends. I am pretty sure you wouldn't have minded hanging out with all those friends, but the girl that intrudes was in the middle. You deserve SO much better than that! If I were you...I would try to get over this guy. \nI am sure you told him how you feel already, but if you haven't, do that. You are going to have to have closure. \nMove on by showing him what he is going to miss out on by his choice. Always look your best! If you have any good looking guy friends that are single...Spend some time in the public eye with them. \nDon't go out with anyone else until you are ready, but do move on. \nHe sounds like a jerk and doesn't deserve you! It's true that a man will chose his girl over and above all else when he's in love. He didn't do that and he didn't deserve the chance to start with!
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Okay, here's the thing, i may not be a professional relationship advisor or something but for you to try to stop liking someone is just inane. Feelings aren't there for you to just ignore. Admit that you still like the guy even though he has someone else already. And it's not like they are married or anything, right? Oh... please... do not mistaken my last sentence for something like trying to destroy their relationship. DON"T! All i am saying is that, it is normal for you to still like the guy. I mean, if he's really that charming or likeable like what you think, sure. However, ask yourself, do you know what kind of guy he really is? You see, people tend to like other people because they like the idea of actually having someone to adore because so far all you've seen him is be charming. You must consider other factors and possibilities. At this point, try looking for things about him (directly -since you mentioned you are coworkers [you can be a friend to him and not flirt] or indirectly - from other people who knows him well more than you do) Curiosity doesn't always kills a cat, you know. Asking is better for you to find out if he is worth your attention or not. Instead of actually falling for this guy (you did mention that it is just a crush, right?) but after a day or two, that's the only time you'd find out she has more than one current girlfriend.
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Giggles,giggles, giggles!!!!\nWhat's up?\nAre you still trying to figure out what to do about dude?\nLook let's just look at it this way, okay If he dissed you once because of a female (that was there before you, might I add)\nWhat's to stop him from trying to do it again?\nNow you know I do not lie to you right?\nLet me tell you the low-down on guys, If you let a guy get away with something once they will do it again, just because they can and they know you will put up with it.\nNow If you KNOW FOR A FACT that you & him will not get into some serious type relationship and it's cool that HE knows that you are not avaiable to him  and the same goes for you as well then I would say go for the "THE HOMIE" thing, just do not get confused on the terms of what "HOMIE" means.\nAre we talking about "Homie-Lover-Friend"\nIf so It will get very complaicated before the summer ends, and you know what I am talking about right?\nPlease Giggles just remember he do have a girlfriend, and like I told you before do not be surpised if there may be more than one girlfriend okay?\nAnd always think like this:     "How would I feel if MY boyfriend was seeing a chick on the side"\nLet me know how it turns out okay?
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if you tell him what you told me then that is a good way to express your feelings. If he doesn't like you then, he is not the right guy for you. I bet your a great girl and he missed out on someone terrific!☺\n                                   ☺♥♫ Your friend,\n                                                            Chuchi
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There is no possible way you could be in love w/ this guy.  You hardly know him at all especially if youve only seen him for 4 days.  You may like him a lot but its not love.  Talk to that friend and have him give Travis your phone number.  If Travis is interested, he will call you.  If not, then he wont.  Dont say you love someone until you have dated them AT LEAST 3 months solid.  You are only asking for a world of hurt then if you say it earlier.
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YES: YOU LIKE HIM BUT WHY WAIT FOR HIM TO COME AROUND? THERE ARE SO MANY GUYS OUT THERE. WHY DENY THEM THE CHANCE TO BE WITH A HOT FEMALE LIKE YOURSELF?
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He has a girlfriend and so you need to put that into perspective. You might like him holding you but how does that look knowing he has someone else? Let him get rid of his girlfriend. Then if he does see if he's still interested in you. If he is then it will be up to the two of you as to what you will call yourselves. As far as the other girls go if theyre calling you a s**t or a sk**k, or some other evil word, then jealousy is about 85% of the problem. The other 15% is that they feel that you are giving yourself up easy because hes is with you all the time. To the these girls you hit them intellectually with facts. If you havent slept with him then let them know that. You cant be a wh**re if you havent done anything with him. The next step is to ignore them. Hard as that may be it works. Its great that you can take these girls on, but dont look to fight them if you dont have to. Especially over some guy. It just aint worth your time. You have a life of your own to deal with. Second and above all else the most important factor. Research this guy some more. What is he doing with you if he has a woman. Maybe he cant get the love, care and attention from her so he seeks it through you. Also you said he asked you out so you know that he likes you. Perhaps then his girlfriend is a front for his true feelings for you. You wont know however until you tell him to clean up his act. If he really likes you he will do what is right, even at the expense of hurting the other girl. Hopefully this can be a stepping stone for you to take action that will give you results. Good luck!
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I had this problem, just pretend your only interested in his friendship and act like you're a very confident person.  Guys love a girl who is confident it makes you seem more attractive.