I am a graduate student who is trying to determine how most people define sexual satisfaction. It is completely confidential -- there is no way to trace who said what. It will take you under 2 minutes to complete. Serious submissions only, please.\n\nThank you!!\n\nhttp://www.surveymonkey.com/s.asp?u=524332005308
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1- by the quality of the orgasm\n2-  how long it is until you want/ need sex again.\n3- by the size of the smile on your face\n4- by how relaxed you feel afterwards
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This is very true.. especially since I have never experienced an orgasm..  I find that even though I have never climaxed in my life( by the way I have been sexually active since the age of 18 and I am 22) I still enjoy sex. I enjoy the emotional connection I feel with the person rather than physical. Don't get me wrong I enjoy the physical aspect. But what truly makes me feel satisfied is the feeling of oneness with the person I am sharing my body with.
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alot of people are offended about it because they think it is something that belongs in the bedroom and in the dark... i personnally don't mind talking about it , infact we had a nice group conversation last night about sex. although i don't mind talking about it, i wouldn't go out and tell every stranger i met things i would or wouldn't do either-- i have to be friends with the person i am talking to.
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What a wonderful subject and I'm surprised you could not find anything on the net already. Try these -\n\nWarning graphic drawings in this link\n****http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/?article=faq&refid=125 ****\n\nhttp://www.somazone.com.au/content.asp?document_id=117\n\nSince you both CLAIM to be clean this might be for you or your partner (I would have said friend but I'm not sure if this kind of activity is friendly, but hey that's just my opinion folks so don't get all hot and bothered) -\n\nhttp://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/2130.html\n\nHave fun.
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sexual self gratification
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I wasn't aware that they were. But if you're receiving answers regarding sexual matters "boring", maybe sex in general is "boring" to you, or maybe your current sexual situation is boring to you. Sexual answers are meant to inform, not to excite......once informed, then you can go on to the sexual encounter with the tools you need to protect, provide satisfaction to your partner, yourself, whatever - that's the exciting part. (-:
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Sex is an natural embedded characteristic or need in all humans. I have not personally done it but yes I have had that feeling or urge, and I have taken a few psych. courses. It is almost up there with hunger, thirst, and air, sex is only a pleasure for most unfortunately, but was made originally for reproductive resources. Sex is uncontrollable for all but it's all about how you act upon it.
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How juicy do you want to hear?\n\nI used to live with somebody and date other people.  The person I lived with was so drunk or high all the time that I would take money from them and they wouldn't even know it.\n\nI stole a girl's necklace in 6th grade right out of her desk.\n\nI want to have sex at least 4 times a week.\n\n\n\nIs all of this true?  You decide.
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Unfortunately, yes to the second part.  And it's unfortunate not because I don't want to know what teenages think or understand, but because so many of the just want to mouth off.  If you're a teenage, please think about your answers. This is nearly a good tool, but will never make it if every other question is about sex or "should I breakup with my bf...".
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Sex and life - too complicated. I am now running out of answers.  Can we ever stand on judgement? Many of us have cheated, in our minds at least, some carry it through  a bit more. You know what, let it be. Que sara sara, it is not your conscience, it is hers.  Things happen and life is so weird
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Not feeling a little bitter are you Asker?\n\nOr are you feeling convicted?\n\nIf it is not such a big deal to you, then why do you place so much emphasis on the opinion of those who believe in this "sky-pixie"?\n\nI'm willing to accept that homosexuality is normal.  In that case though, who are we to say that pedophelia is not ok?  Who is to say that an adult male and a minor male child can not have a consentual meaningful sexual relationship?\n\nWhy should we say incest is bad?  Who cares if there are genetic anomalies that occur, heck with abortion legalized we can always avoid having to see those? The important thing is that we support two people who love and are committed to one another, right?\n\nBeastiality should be taught in our public schools as normative too.  Heck, with all that we spend on our pets, it is obvious that we love them.  And I'm sure when Fluffy puts its head on your lap, it must be looking for some sex.  Since we only have to accept that "NO" means "NO" then we don't have to worry about animals resisting sex since they can't speak human languages (except for some birds I guess).\n\nAnd you know, that person who desires to get naked and have an orgasm while rolling all over the hood of their car is ok too.  And why should I say they can't do that only in the privacy of their home.  It must be love, how many people can say they spent $20,000 on their significant other in a year.\n\nThink about it.
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WOW! WHAT A QUESTION. HOW CAN YOU PUT THE WORDS MEANINGFUL AND RELATIONSHIP IN A QUESTION ASKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND. THAT MAKES A LOT OF SENSE!
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NO SEX TONIGHT\n \nI never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men and women differ so much.\nAnd I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing.\n\nI have never figured out why men think with their head, and women with their heart. \nFor example: \n\nOne evening lasts week, my wife and I were getting into bed, well the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says "I don't \nfeel like it, I just want you to hold me."\n\nI said "What???   What was that?"\n\nSo she says the words that every husband on the planet dreads to hear.... \n\n"You're not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman, enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man." \n\nShe responded to my puzzled look by saying,  "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?" \n\nRealizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.\n\nThe very next day I opted to take the day off work to spend time with her. \n\nWe went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big department store.\n\nI walked around with her while she tried on several different, very expensive outfits. \n\nShe couldn't decide which one to take, so I told her we'd just buy them all. \n\nShe wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said lets get a pair for each outfit.\n\nWe went onto the jeweler department where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings. \n\nLet me tell you . . . . she was so excited.  She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. \n\nI started to think she was testing me, because she asked for a tennis bracelet, when she doesn't even know how to play tennis. \nI think I threw her for a loop when I said,  "That's fine, honey."\n\nShe was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. \n\nSmiling with excited anticipation, she finally said,  "I think this is all dear, let's go to the cashier."\n\nI could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel like it."\n\nHer face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled, "WHAT?"\n\nI then said "Honey!  I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while.  You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man, enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman."\n\nAnd just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added,  "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"\n \nApparently I'm not having sex tonight, either.
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Randy - just maybe they can't cope (promptly) with the amount of abuse being reported to them, across all categories.\n\nThere've been a few questions from trolls, I've sought to answer today, that have been removed by the time I got to the Submit button.\n\nWe could all make a concerted effort simply not to answer such provocative questions (although I suspect that wouldn't be sustained)\n\nAlso, I think it's good etiquette (I've seen others do it) to post a response which says simply Reported - that way others will know not to do likewise.  Of course, in doing so you do lose the anonymity - But I reckon if we can talk about our sexual preferences on this forum, we can be honest enough to admit when we're defending them.   \n \nIn this way, perhaps Yahoo! Answers will find the reports of Abuse a little easier to handle.  \n\nAnyone else got any ideas on how we can help Y!Answers with this?
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Let me ask YOU a question...why do you care what other people find pleasurable or unpleasurable about anal sex in relation to you?  If you're the one doing it, and you hate it, there's your answer.  You're probably never going to like it, you're never going to find an easier way to like it, it's a done deal, over, finito.  If you're the one doing it, find it pleasurable, there's your answer.  Just keep doing it, and enjoying it.  'Nuff said.
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Well Sophie.....I too have been wondering this. It seems like the more unintelligent, the more ludicrous. and the more raunchy an answer is the better it is liked. I will not lower my standards and give a smart A** comment just to make someone smile. I try to give information that is factual, honest and sensitive to the question that is being asked. I do not try to offend anyone with stupid of the wall sexual comments. Most people want to write something disgusting and sexually perverse.
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do i get points for this? b/c it might shock you. lol. anal sex. although i love vaginal (normal) sex and of course oral...anal sex is freaking amazing. lol. now i'm waiting until im married though...so hopefully that'll be soon. hehe.