In what situations could fighting ever be sexy, Brave or honorable?
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think bradd pitt and that hulk guy fighting over a girl  :)\nor spiderman with any of his enemies, a guy in red and blue spandex jumping around fighting bad guys ? ehm... :)
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It takes TWO TO FIGHT.\n\nYou gotta figure out what you want.\n\nHe's not going to keep coming back to you if it's all confrontation.\n\nThat gets old no matter HOW tough a guy is.\n\nHe will go looking for someone he doesn't have to fight with.\n\ngood luck....
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Heroes are ordinary people in extraordinary times. People need opportunities and luck to be a hero :)
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it depends on what kind of opponent hes having.if its a girl he must have all the sex he can get before the fight so he doesnt think of making love to her during the fight and he can kick her ass.\n\nno  really , abstaining from sex is said to help conserve energy but that is a lot of bs in my opinion , its an example of allegories gone wild (people think its an effort from saying things like i fked her brains out etc, then they believe it!)\ni think sex is a natural analgesic and sedative and should be in moderation a part of the preparation for a fight.\n\n(to get maximum  fighting capacity and hostility you might consider preventing a fighter from having sex for a month and then  keep  naked chicks behind his adversary during the game,\nthen he will subconciously summon all his strength to take that poor guy out of the way to get that puss.\n\nit also depends whether you are gay  or normal, preventing a fighter from having sex  whos gay might lead to a funny  boxing match.
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Chivalry isn't dead.  Doing little things like opening doors or offering to carry something for is still very flattering to most girls even if she says no.
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The battle between being a good person and an evil person. When raised in an abusive environment one has to choose whether to beat them or join them. Instinct and years of programming makes you want to join them, but making a conscious effort to be a decent person is worth it.
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How can one possibly fight for peace? Already the word "fighting" has a military connotation. Do you see the oximoron here? \nSomebody mentioned Neville Chamberlain here. A peace fighter? How noble. Are we to forget that he almost let Hitler have his way? How are you to reach your peace with someone like Hitler, or his modern equivalents? Your only way would be to first fight them, and then when you won the war, force them to peace. That is why it is so rare to find a peace fighter. Most of so called peace factions, when you really and honsetly think about it, encourage you to basically cave in to the side that started the agression in the first place, thus excluding the possibility of true peace. \nThis is not to say that what you seek doesn't exist. You just need to change the formulation. No peace fighter with its inherent contradiction, but peace seeker. And you can find those noble heroes who hoped to find peace. \nNestor was, for example, a Greek hero king, who at first urged the Greeks to turn away from the siege of Troy.\nIn the modern times we can probably mention Ghandi, with his passive resistance movemen, that eventually won him and India the independence they have been hoping for, without bloodshed. \nSo, look for heroes who were peace seekers instead, but not for peace fighters. For the most part, those who proclaim themselves to be peace fighter, do whatever they do against the benefit of their people. They are consequently not considered heroes, and history doesn't carry their memory forth. This is the reason for your difficulty, I believe.\nWe all remember Hamilkar and his renown son Hannibal, who, to gain peace for their country, fought against the Roman, but we cannot recall the names of the elders of Carthage who pushed for what they called peace, and was really submission. We cannot remember them, and why the heck should we? In spite of their declaration, they weren't true peace fighters, their political opponents, father and son both, were. So, basically, a hero who works for peace, has occasionally to start a war. In our imperfect world, it couldn't be otherwise. This is why your search couldn't be successfull as one would hope for. Hope this helps.
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Having morals and discipline does not mean that you are ineffectual in battle.  Many people with both of those characteristics are easily able to reconcile killing enemy with their values.  One of our greatest American heroes from WWI, Sergeant York, originally applied for conscientious objector status, before determining that it was ethical for him to kill in battle.  Once there he certainly didn't hesitate.  \nI would imagine that you want a different answer because your past (or whoever you are speaking about) is influencing your ability to join.  Accept what you can't change and do the best with the opportunities you do have available.
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It's just popular society belief that men are the brave and noble ones who must fight to protect the women and children. Ya know, one of those old fashioned sayings that developed back before women's rights and all that jazz.
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Society dictates it to be. Do you want to do things a man does, like go to war? How will society look on men that take up feminine jobs?\n\nThink and you'll have your answer.
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In my opinion it would depend on two this: 1. whether you're adhering to specific rules during your fight (e.g. boxing) 2. who you're fighting.\n\nI think the 'idea' of a fair fight is one in which both combatants agree to only use their advantage of skill. Thus in a boxing match, the skill is in dodging punches and throwing them... a dirty move in this instance would be punching to part of the body not permitted, grabbing, biting etc. In terms of men fighting, a 'dirty' move - one which relies on no advantage of skill - for example, is the shot to the crotch. Same for women really. As is hair pulling etc. etc. \n\nFair fights are about the combatants' abilities. 'Dirty' moves are ones which inflict pain or damage in an unskilled and dishonourable way.
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Agree. Arguments can be healthy for a relationship sometimes too. Means your not just giving in to keep the peace, but can stay yourself.
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Simply,\n\nWhen the stakes are high such as war or the love of your life then anything you can do to win you should do to win.\n\nComplicatedly,\n\nDerived from Victorian England where everything was strictly controlled and stuffy the renaissance came. People started to open up a bit but this caused a lot of hurt feelings and generally people were very confused. They went from a fairly well defined state of existence (all those etiquette rules) to one where things were more lose.\n\nAll is fair in love and war was a way for people to indicate that the game had changed and you could start actively perusing women rather than trying to woo them through typical methods.
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It is possible to hold a conversation with one's enemy.\nGod can do whatever He pleases.
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Of course fighting is never right but if you let someone push you around without doing anything they will push you around more and more as time goes by.  You do have to show them that you will not be treated like that.
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There are many definitions of the word Honor. My personal favorite is: \n\nA keen sense of ethical conduct.\n\nOne becomes honorable by striving to do the right thing in the face of all adversity in order to protect one's reputation.
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It depends on who's fighting,if it's kids I\nsay yes If they are grown you might get hurt\ntrying to stop them - I like to see two women\nfight,it's comical.