I am planning on getting engaged around December and I would like to start finding a ring. I am not sure where to start looking.
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I was in this situation a couple of months ago, until it all fell apart, but that's an answer for a different question. ;-)\n\nI was really happy with some designs I found at a local custom jewelry shop... big companies overcharge, and can't be nearly as flexible with their designs (they have to sell what appeals to the masses).  If you find a small shop you trust, they'll probably give you a great deal on *exactly* the ring that you want.  That was my experience anyway.
617558
If you're in the beginning phases of planning a wedding (which it sounds like you are), your best bet would be to talk to your fiance so that you can determine what you both want in your ceremony and reception.  Start broad: come up with what time of year you want to get married (winter, summer, etc.), what kind of place you'd like to get married (church, beach, etc.), and how big you'd like it to be.\n\nOnce you've narrowed down your options, go to a planning website like www.theknot.com, www.wedalert.com/, or www.brides.com.  They'll give you options on ideas, and you should be able to use their interactive planning calendars too.\n\nUse the given dates to plan dress shopping, invitation sending, and everything else.  They may even have a budget calculator to make it even easier!\n\nBest of luck to you...\n~mm~
573009
You just know.  My husband knew I was the one on our first date - I knew a few dates after that.  I was 25 and he was 33.  We looked at rings a month later, were engaged 4 months after that, and got married 2 years later after saving up money for our dream wedding.  We've almost been married a year now.  It's not a feeling you can even explain - it just hits you and sticks with you.  It sounds like you are both too young and not ready yet.
433111
I don't normally do this, but that is bad advice.  Don't wait just because you are struggling financially.  Its not like he's a deadbeat!  2 jobs and in school!  Wow.  \n\nI don't know about a princess cut.. diamonds are insanely expensive.\n\nI found something else that I loved, and my wife loves it too.  Side benefit is A) far less expensive) and B) More unique and C)(even though this might clash with B) it is an older tradition.\n\nThe diamond industry has convinced us that a man is supposed to spend 2 months salary (!!!) on an engagement ring.  When you are broke, wanting to buy a house, in school, that's just silly.\n\nA Sapphire engagement ring.  I got mine from Hamilton Jewelers (in NJ), emerald cut sapphire with two trillion cut diamonds.  Its beautiful.  There are some others on Blue Nile (at least there were).  Some people do birthstones as well.\n\n**If that doesn't suit your style, get a CZ, replace it sometime in the future when Mr. Hardwork strikes it rich.  Are your friends gemologists?  Nobody has to know...\n\nGood luck!!
313595
Ask him about it, if it is a lady who sells wedding rings for a living it would be good for him to call it!!! Just ask him, you have to have trust to have a relationship!
393504
You're going to be wearing this ring for a long, long time, hopefully for the rest of your life, so for heaven's sake, get what you like! A good bet is to think about the jewelry you wear now, the stuff you find yourself grabbing again and again because you prefer it and it flatters you (watch, earrings, necklaces, etc.) If it's mostly yellow gold, then that's probably what you should choose in a wedding ring.\n\nAnd, no, there's no reason in the world that your two rings need to match. You are two different people, with two different styles, which is a great thing, and should be celebrated. (by the way, my fiancee chose an antique styled yellow gold band, and I chose a more modern styled white gold one. we have the same psalm inscribed in our rings, which unites our two very different styled rings.)\n\nGood luck, and congrats!
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This is an exercise that will require you to use every bit of knowledge you obtained over your 16 years of matrimony.\n\nAssumedly, "looking around" won't work because you don't want her to know that you're even considering it.\n\nGo to jewelry stores that have a return policy. They do exist, but it happens to be a tricky process.\n\nJust go with your hunch, and don't get anything crazy or different from the general feeling that you have about what she wants.
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bidz.com\n\nyou can buy really really non-expensive jewlery! Its great. you can find a nice charm braclet or whatever. real diamonds and birth stones. great stuff! and cheap!\n\ni have found lots on nice things. good luck
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you might want to take a look on ebay to look for a real diamond ring or maybe a pawn shop will do it instead of a fancy jewerly store...
482795
I recommend that you go to the knot.com and try their gown search feature.  You can search for all the features you want.
252524
just tell him that you want a ring!!!! duh
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If you have a loving girlfriend who doesn't care about how much her ring costs I would say to not spend more then $1,000. If you want her to have better quality than no more than $3,000. Just remember one thing...do not get a loan or pay for the ring with a credit card. If you don't have enough money to pay for one then purchase a cheap one! No girlfriend wants you to pay for her ring like you do a car! I would say a fair price based on your income is about $1,500.
48024
First off, I'd like to say that angel_baby0824's idea is super romantic :)  Now, I decided to get my boyfriend a ring this year (one for him, one for me kind of thing).  You can get them with any message on them at http://www.personalizationmall.com  But, they also have TONS of other great ideas.  They even have a Romantic Gifts section.  Good luck :)
292761
contact the place where you purchased the ring and ask for their advice. good luck
617830
okay. here's my take on engagement rings. someone once wanted to get me a 2k ring. now, i am not one who likes a guy to spend a great amount of money on me. in fact...i have a limit. i wouldn't wear anything that is over 500 dollars. it just wouldn't happen. i believe in saving up for the future...not spending everything on a ring. so to me, size doesnt' matter.
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A ring. Not 900+ ones, you know, those 20+ engagement bands. Mm. Flowers. Perfume. Or maybe a kiss. Don't make her feel like you're a sugardaddy instead of a boyfriend, please.
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If you are looking to find an online jewler, a good reputable site is bluenile.com.\n\nOther than that, I would suggest watching for bridal shows in your area.  Even if there are no jewelers at the event, the other wedding vendors should be able to point you in the direction of someone.\n\nAlso, don't forget to ask family and friends!