I have a friend that I want to know if she is my best friend or not and how I know she is.
208960
Well how do you feel about her?  Do you like her a lot?\nDo you have fun together?  Do you confide in each other?  \nThese are some of the things that equal a best friend.  And if you want her to be your best friend, than you need to be her best friend as well. Then to be sure, you can just ask her...and she will tell you the truth!   :)
174609
Make your own decisions.  If you don't feel like your friend is being honest, take what she says with a grain of salt.  Are other people telling you similar things?  Does what she says make sense?  Does she normally lie to you or mislead you?
658807
If he truly is your best friend as you say then you will do the right thing.  Let her down easy and tell her that your friendship is more valuable than some girl.
496538
You have to tell her. Its just what friends have to do. I know it's hard to tell her. But she'll think ur not a good friend. And probably will never trust you again. I know it's going to be hard but worth.
58158
I am my own best friend.
254929
Seriously...ask them.  Or just listen.  Most people always drop some kind of hint to something they really want.  Maybe she has a favorite performer she has always wanted to see or she collects something, etc.  This is your best friend.  You know who and what they love the most.  Get something that reflects this.
516261
I think that is the name of it:  My Best Friend
500751
I don't mean to be judgmental but the least of your concern should be telling your bestfriend about it.\n\nYour concern should be first and foremost is the way you've been behaving (especially if it's still ongoing) and why did you allow yourself to be in this kind of situation and deceived the person whom you consider to be your bestfriend.\n\nI know that you are very much aware that what you're doing is downright wrong.  People will be telling you a lot of things with the foremost emphasis that you need to stop.  Maybe these will fall on deaf ears.  Maybe it will not.\n\nAnd my prayer is that it don't, that you will choose to act upon the situation and come to the realization that you are not only hurting your bestfriend but you're hurting yourself as well.\n\nYou've allowed yourself to be the "other woman" and settled...
333406
you didn't say how old you are but i'm guessing you are pretty young. friendships sometimes have ups and downs, if she has found a new best friend then maybe you should too. there really isn't much else you can do, except maybe talk to her and ask her about it.
189176
i kind of dont know what you're saying. But, i am going to guess you and this friend have problems. I would talk to her, and tell her you love being her friend, and that it hurt when she insulted you. She'll be your friend
229679
You should ask her how she feels about things thats the only way to find out... If I understood the question correctly.
494231
I believe at this stage, she's not concious about what she asked u.. u need to do something, or say something that will really wake her up, and make her realise that her life, is her own decision.. \nall u can do as a best friend is give suggestion...\n\nu might wanna say something really really serious that will make her realise.. something personal i believe...
335166
I think you should ask her if she does that or not. Then you will know.
454837
Be her friend first and then time will tell.
51121
well then maybe she isnt really your friend\nthe truth hurts sometimes hun
315526
I don't feel as if she is a friend to you.  But "you" know if she is or not because you are around her.  It is very ironic that everyone who you've seemed to have liked she likes to and has been physical with them in some way. I feel as if no "so called" friends should fall out over a guy.  Stick to having a "true friend" someone who doesn't like who you like knowing that you like them.  You aren't losing to your friend sweetheart because as long as you know that she is liking who you like try not to be around her because a true friend wouldn't keep on doing this to you.  This has happened to me but the situation was different.  Eventhough I don't know you I'd like to become your friend or get to know you because we have something in common even if I only give you my opinions or advice.  I wish you the best and if you don't continue to be friends with her don't let it be over the guys let it be because of how she is treating you.
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well i try and be with her most of the time and "pretend" to be her best friend u no... go out of my way to do things for her buy her gifts and stuff, take her out and talk to her alot! then i sart dropping hints like hypothetic questions for ex: "what would i do if i should ask u out?" and see what she has to say!