I met him, and it felt like I knew him forever. We did everything togather - restaurants, walking in the park, fitness, movies. Everythign happened on the 3rd day - and it was great. He was nice and carying. Will this relationship last? Or when a relationship starts from sex - it doesn't last?
209247
It depends on the people not just about having sex right away...but you still should have waited.
422399
Well I am currently dating a Libra and he is still unsure after 3 years if he wants to move this relationship to the next level.  I ask him and he freaks out that I am pressuring him.  We really don't have conflicts.  Just basic relationship woes everyone goes through.  I knew he liked me when he started calling me on a daily basis.  He doesn't like talking on the phone and doesn't answer it unless it's me calling.
667007
YES........  I would do it all over again.. Even though he can be a real pain in my ***, sometimes....  I have invested so much energy into him and the things we have overcome and survived through, have no doubt made us stronger and more committed to each other.  And the fact that he has given me the ~BEST part of him with our two beautiful baby girls.~  He is more beautiful today than the day we met and I thought he was oh wow so damn fine when we met. He charmed my pants right off of me... And I think that one big factor is that he still does........~  Thank you for the trip down memory lane.......!~  He will get a Special treat just because of you...........~   Sorry I guess that was too much information, wasn't it?!
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I met this guy at some chats last year. We realized that we were really serious about each other.He proposed that he find a really good job in my country (we're one oceans apart), just so that he can be closer to me.He's not here in my country YET but yeh, he got a GREAT job already and he's arriving at the airport THIS SUNDAY!!!!! I'm very optimistic about our relationship face-to-face.. It's definitely going to be better than chats.. at least we can touch now ;) Just take note of this. If he's serious about you, ask if he can go to YOUR place. You'll know how much he's serious then. \nAnd it also depends on how serious YOU are about him. Think about it yeh? Good luck!
67763
How did he get that good?  He never got bored with his greatest love.\n\nYou could contact him and ask.  What's he going to say?  No?  Oh well :)  Then again he might say Yes :)
296147
Maybe it was good and "almost perfect" for you, but clearly not for him!\n\nSeems there was a serious failure to communicate here!\n\nA relationship is more than just about feeling good and good times!  The real test: is he/she still interested when things are rough?\n\nAnd believe me, there will be rough times!\n\nthat's why it takes time to see your lover in a lot of different situations before making a serious commitment.\n\nBut don't take it so hard - your lucky to have this relationship terminate before it got any more serious - like marriage! You're young and can move on with the rest of your life, and meeting your real "soul mate".\n\nGood luck!  :-)
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I think you guys will last for a good little while. I mean everything seems to be going well between you two. All you have to do is find time to go out with him. Ya'll needs to go a have fun,enjoy ya'll time together while ya'll still have time.But besides that everything sounds good and yes I think ya'll should last for a while....
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i'm now engaged to the most wonderful guy in the world after starting as online friends who eventually fell for each other. he came to visit me after his stint in iraq and after staying with me for about 3 weeks, he proposed. love happens. in the weirdest of circumstances. as long as you're careful, i still think hooking up with someone online is a lot better than meeting someone at a bar. the distance took it's toll and we separated several times. But prayers do work. If you pray enough and both of you are as committed to the relationship, Miracles DO happen. Good luck to you!
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Yes.. I was his trainer, and we clicked right away.. \nHe was so hot, I didn't think that we would do anything, cause I figured I wasn't his type, so i was content being his friend.. Then like 2 weeks into training him, we went out for lunch together.. he had a Ford Explorer.. so he drove to a residential st and he stopped the car, and said.. "you know.. im not really hungry.. leaned over and kissed me.." and \nwe ended up in the back seat.. \nIT was fun.. I never regretted it.. he was still really professional at work..\nand every so often we will take our lunch breaks together
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I'm so happy for you two!  Great job on waiting.  \n\nI know you two have waited for the sex but I'm not sure if you guys have done the all the things that lead up to that point.  There is a lot of fun to be had with foreplay.  Also, keep in mind that he will have an O within minutes of you guys starting your festivities.  Hopefully, he can go the distance and be able to get it back a few more times.  If not, there is no rush!  Having good sex takes patience and willingness to learn and experiment.  Don't forget to talk to each other about what you like and it wouldn't hurt to read some sex tips books together.  (Not a suggestion on how to pass the night but just in general.)\n\nI don't know if you guys are in a hotel or what but I would make sure that some chilly water and a snack with substance is on hand for later.  Also, a friend told me that she wished she had a pretty robe to wear when she came out of the restroom in her lingerie.  Since it was the first time for him to see her in that kind of dress she felt a little awkward crossing the room in such attire.  \n\nIt sounds to me like you already have it covered.  You guys waited so it will be unusually special, the strawberries are tasty and cider is very good (both flavors).  Just the fact that you are planning and being thoughtful covers your side of being romantic.  Make sure that he doesn't rush because the more anxious and rushed you are the less pleasurable it will be for you.  Have fun!
198583
I was 16yrs old, and on vacation with my family in Texas.  I met the girl who was a friend of my cousins there.  we hung out alot and ended up at a friends house late one night and we had sex.  It was great for me, but not so great for her.  I had no experience and I was done before she got started!  It was not a one night stand though.  We had sex several more times.  It was special to me, and I will never forget her.
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At a bar. We would go to the same club regularly and he was friends with a friend of a friend. We would hang out the bar almsot every weekend for about 6 months. It wasn't planned though. We just liked the same scene. He was dating other girls at the time, but had his eye on me and I was interested in something strictly casual, but never tried with him because he was cool and I thought we'd be 'just friends'. \n\nWell, one night he called me because he broke up with his girlfriend and wanted to come over and eat mushrooms. I had nothing else to do and thought he was cool, so I let him come over and we had a good time. Nothing happened that night, but about a week later I got extrodinarly wasted and we hooked up. It started out as a casual thing scratch that as a very casual thing and I had little intentions of it being serious, but we ended up falling in love and I settled down a little bit. \n\nThis was after he moved in because his 'rents kicked him out of their place and he was staying in his car. We were already sleeping together, so I said he could stay at my place for a few days and that few days turned to months and that casual time with a guy who was actually worthy of my friendship unlike my other casual boys turned into a serious relationship. We've been together for almost two years and plan on getting married in 2008. \n\nWhat makes us stay together? Well, our geniune love for eachother and partially our own narcissisms. We love ourselves and I'm his female counterpart and he's the male version of myself. Our similar interests and goals and problem solving techniques help as well as compatible senses of humour.\n\nThe story I tell my parents and family? We met through friends of friends at church.
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I've met a lot of people on a dating website.  Some guys are just on it to find some girl that they can have sex with.  Some guys are on there to find mr/mrs right.  I have met both types.  I met my current boyfriend off of a dating website, and I can see me being with him for the long haul.  We talked a fair amount online, then we started chatting on MSN, and then we talked ont he phone.  It sounds a little funny but our first date, wasn't that much of a normal date (movie/coffee), I needed a lift to our mall, cause my vehicle was busted and needed to get fixed and he offered me the ride.  We have almost been together ever since and talk every day.  You just have to be careful, and don't let the bad ones ruin it for you.
121865
Here's the old mystical I Love Vs. In Love question again. If you Love him and Respect him, ask yourself what would be differant if you where "IN LOVE" with him? You have already stated "we are totally comfortable with each other from day 1. We laugh a lot, rarely argue, understand one another, accept one anothers faults and strengths. The sex is quite fun as well." How else would you quantify a good relationship? Then ask yourself the real tuff question, could you live in England? Are your skills that transportable? Could he live here? Are his skills that transportable?
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i've dated a guy like that.  he was very shy, but very sweet.  I helped him break his shell, and then ripped his heart apart when we broke up.  I still feel guilty to this day and wish I would of kept him. he was a sweetheart, i was young and flighty.  i learned my lesson, and he had enough experience to move on and find a very nice wife and just started a family. i'm very happy for him.  can't say this will happen but if i had to do it again i would. we both benefitted in the long term.  as for the masturbating, all guys do it, and all to different degrees whether they have had sex or not. it's not so much sexual as a tension release for them or something to clear their minds.  like a journal but they only get as far as sharpening the pencil.
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Sounds great but it's a lot different than the movies.\n\nYou will be together for at least 2 hours doing nothing but talking, you should prepare for that. And if he refuses don't judge him, maybe he's not ready for that yet.\n\nGood luck.
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The fact of sex doesn't mean a thing one way or the other.  If I enjoyed being with her, and if I think I would enjoy being with her again, I'll call.   But if we were just taking care of a biologicial urge, and there was no real connection between us, I would not want to go out with her again.\n\nIn other words, if we really liked each other and ended up in bed together, then that's just great.  But if we didn't have anything in common except the sex, why bother?\n\nJust one man's opinion. Good luck!!