My ex doesn't have an accurate reason of why he hates me. He won't tell anybody and he's b*tching about things that aren't even true! I wanna know if he really hates me for a good reason, or just because!
207794
Well, start by not stereotyping all guys because your ex does something. He's probably still just upset about the breakup, and is taking it out by saying bad things about you.
214015
What?  I have no freaking idea what your question is anymore.  I am not even certain of who broke up with whom. I am not sure if you got back together again or what.
470339
Sorry, but if he hates you, there really isn't much you can do. You can't force someone to like you in any way at all, it is called free will.
233690
If hes that good of a friend he wont hate you for what you say. Hes probally waiting for you to ask cause hes scared of you hating him for having feelings for you.
401235
How over is it with your ex??? Is it over for good or don't you know? This guy sounds really nice and If he likes you  you should give it a chance. he was trying to avoid you because he is Trying to protect himself from getting hurt and from being in a weird situation with his boy. But that does not mean he isn't willing to try if you are.
663755
AGAIN I CANNOT REPEAT THIS ENOUGH \n\n\nAN EX IS AN EX FOR A REASON
49709
no he doesnt hate you he is trying to make you feel how he felt when you were with rayn and he still has feelings for you but doesnt want to show them so all you can do is try to become friends with him again and let him know that your intersted with out being pushy or hurting your friend
429866
Of course he is going to deny it. He seems very immature and apparently has issues. Tell him that you will get the police involved if necessary and have your phone number changed. That's bizzare, since he's the one that broke up with you. Steer clear of him. Something just don't sound right.
66713
Been there, done that. It's funny how our minds and emotions can ruin a good thing. One thing that I hightly recomend is getting your self esteem up. It's tough, but once you are sure and proud of who you are, you don't loose that. As for getting your ex back. It may or may not happen. Give him his space now, thats is what he wants. If for some reason he also has a change of heart, you 2 can work things out then. But for now, respect his decision. Take care babe, im rooting for ya :)
560672
He probably doesn't hate you.  He also may be a little jealous, that is his brother and chances are before you came along they probably spent more time hanging out and more time confiding in one another.  I doubt he hates you, however lay off of him a little bit.  Not everyone likes to deal with an annoying little girl.  Learn to calm yourself around his brother and learn that you have to respect his brother, chances are he has made it clear why you annoy him, and as far as that, the easiest way to avoid miscommunication or problems with your bf and his family, is to lay off and give his brother his respect and space.  Good Luck!
40403
If you really hate him..you should talk to the girl that has been calling and tell her not to date him! but if i were you..i would still talk to him..he is your ex after all and you and him need to move on!
314171
Hi there again. Was thinking about writing direct but didn't want to bother you again.\nI had a break up last June after a 7+ yera relationship/engagement and it took a little (underexagerating) time to get through.\nThe fact that he didn't seem to be bothered by it at all made me even more upset. I couldn't figure out how he could just walk out and that be it. No contact, no explanation of why, no nothing. People need some kind of closure to move along the healing process and I didn't have that.\nWhen I finally started thinking a little more clearly (took about a couple months), I started to realize the reason he was able to walk away as cut and dry as he did. It was because he had already been done long before he'd walked out.\nI started being able to put myself on the outside, looking in instead of the inside, looking in (hope you understand that). Then I started allowing myself to realize all the things that weren't so great and hadn't been so great for a while.\nI went from a deep sadness and loss to realizing I was worth more than how I was treated by him, either directly or indirectly.\nToday I am glad he left and didn't ever try to contact me AND I'm also glad he left.\nMy belief (and I've seen it proved many times over) is the karma people like that earn will pay them back tenfold for what they uncaringly do to people.\nOnly you will be able to put this to rest within yourself and only in the time that is right for you.\nI wish you all the best in the world. And try to remember you are worth more than the sum of one cheating man.\nAlso, sorry this is so long.
549285
you are flipping nuts!  why delete his number!  Thats so final, you only talked about your ex.  He'll get over it.\n\nSay to him, did he use the ex thing as a reason to break up with you?  If he says no, then say well I think you've totally over-reacted let me prove to you that i'm over my ex.  And he'll say how, and you'll say by being with you.  Lets face it thats the only proof you can use.  Time.
535122
well, forget him. it's annoying you, i know. but we don't know what's the problem with him. we never met him anything. you better avoid him and let's see what happens. if you didn't do anything for him to hate you,  then let go. cheer up. don't think about him too much.
399586
Most of the time when someone gets that defensive, it means they are guilty of something.  Now, he may not be...especially if you (or maybe an ex girlfriend) are very jealous and always make those type of accusations.  But if all you did what innocently ask about them and he blew up about it...I'd be suspicious.
38777
Okay, I was in a similar sitution. This girl at my school, who happened to be my boyfriend's (at the time) ex, tried to break us up. It worked, also for like a day, and we got back together. Then she was saying stuff like she wanted to kick my a s s and run me over with a truck and crap like that. I told my boyfriend about it and he said that if she did anything to me, he would make her face unidentifiable. Ha! She never did anything about it, I think she was just trying to sound tough about it. I'd tell your boyfriend and he can tell her off, and I'm sure he'll keep you safe.
142819
No you don't treat them bad. When you love someone you tell the world and you feel like shouting it from the rooftops...not telling your ex that "he ain't nothing". As for the rumors, you know the truth and if he knows the real you then he does too. And just for future reference...don't talk to ex's (speaking from personal experience) it never ends up being good.