but i am too sympathetic and friendly.i dont want to talk to him cos his iq is 2.2. what do i do?
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Get out of his way.  He sounds like a lot more fun than you.  Stop holding him back.  \n*You are so jelous*
494756
Be honest with him if he gets mad at least at the end he can respect the fact that you were upfront and honest. Just explain to him how you feel and tell him that you don't really want a relationship right now but you still want to be friends with him.
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Unfortunately ignorance knows no barriers and unlike this jerk doesn't discriminate.  He probably picks on you because you are a gentle soul and he's a bully.  He's not your friend and you need to stay away from him.  \n\nI don't understand how your other friends who are of a different culture can stand to be around him.  If they don't know his ignorant stand on this subject then tell them and let them know you wont' be keeping company with this Cretan.  Spend time with them without him and explain to them why.\n\nI don't think they will want or should want to hang around with him especially with the way he feels about other cultures.\n\nHe probably hangs out with other cultures because other white people don't want to listen to his s**t and avoid him because they don't want to be painted with the same brush as him.\n\nYou have done nothing wrong but just be in the wrong place at the wrong time.\n\nGood luck and know that all Irish or white people in general don't feel the same way.
175796
Apparantly you are not good enough for him.\nHe is a scumbag.
275798
look the best thing for you to do is to ignore him your wasting your time being stressed over someone who is acting like he is. I don't care if you are straight or gay this man just sounds like he is no good. if he is getting Violent then its only going to get worse
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That's easy. Give him absolute ZERO attention. I mean completely ignore him. Even if he is in your face don't give him the time of day. Don't look at him and don't show any annoyance. Smile and continue to enjoy your friends and especially smile and be normal whenever he is around. Eventually he will realize that he has no effect and will have no choice but to abandon his plight. Once you put your game into action you will discover that this really works. You will actually begin to enjoy (to yourself) him becoming inferior to your being superior.\n\nHis is truly a mind game. Its up to you to show him yours is on a higher plane.
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He is your friend, if that is the case then you won't have any problems. Talk to him really nicely, about how nice he is and stuff then little by little tell him what you don't like about him, hmm let me think.. or you could make up a fib or something a white lie if your up to it. Don't go straight to the point since you don't want to hurt his feelings.
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Report him to Yahoo for abuse.  Put him on your IM's ingore list (from the menu bar - Messenger, Preferences and then Ignore List).\n\nHe obviously is in need of some serious medicating.
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Be nice to him because that nerd will probably be a millionaire someday! Seriously, don't be so shallow, he may be a great person who will make you happy.
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The next step is up to him - congratulations on your courage to tell him how you feel - I know it wasn't easy.\n\nSee how he responds to you from now on.  Is he still friendly or is he aloof now because he, too, feels embarrassed by what you told him?\n\nIf he seems aloof to you, then he doesn't share the same feelings as you - ok - you tried - now go find someone who does share those feelings with you.\n\nGood Luck!
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I shall ignore him also. I am sorry for you , I hope that you meet real friend soon , good luck .
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You are being the better person by not bragging.  I know your age is hard.  My daughter is probably close to your age (she's 12 and I apologize if I didn't get even close to your age) but she is very mature for 12 and there are kids that annoy her to the point that she doesn't even want to be friends but I think she needs to learn how to be tolerable.\n\nNo one person is perfect ever so knowing this we must tolerate the differences in one another.  You know that you are a smart girl but at the same time you don't have to broadcast it because you're afraid people won't like you if you're not...that already makes you the better person.\n\nFeel good about yourself that you don't have to broadcast your strengths because you believe in your abilities and don't rely on that alone.\n\nI don't know if I helped any but you asked a really great question and I wish I would have had a forum like this to go to when I was your age.\n\nBest of luck to you.\n\n~~Theresa
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Drop the Zero, and find yourself a HERO..\nface it sweets...he treated you like a piece of a**...a convienance...he is nothing but a dog...a loathsome cur..cut your ties to him...\nAny man--or woman for that matter....who treats another human in that manner is not worth your time and effort
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You should be grateful he's nice enough to apologize, and you should be glad that he's still willing to be friends with you. Concentrate on the good things in life.
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just hang around maybe he doesnt wanna talk about it with you coz he might be scared that if he opens up to u, u will refuse to talk to him and leave him what i mean is he feels that if he opens up to you b4he's ready,u might decide to endyour friendship with him\ndont push him to tell u anything maybe to him its not a problem just keep telling him that u aint going nowhere and that u will stand by him no matter what that way he will know that u really want to help him ok.DONT LEAVE HIM ALONE BE THERE FOR HIM
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Wow thats a problem (lol) just see which one treats you better or is more kind and intelligent(if you for that type)
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Sounds like he is jsut a bully,,,and probaly has low self esteem and just wants to act cool to boost his ego!! everyone needs to ignore him and i mena litterally dont look his way or aknowlage him  and see what happens