I am so into older men I am 25, I had a dad  so I know is not the "father" figure I am looking for... so why I am not attracted to guys my age
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Older guys are just hot!!!  There is just a "what a stud" feeling that goes along with looking at older men.  My favorites are Sean Connery, Harrison Ford, and Bruce Willis. Ouch they are too hot.
191416
Don't give up my dear! There is more than one fish in the sea and as long as we end up happy and treated with love from the people we are with, I believe that life would be satisfying.\nI also am over 40. I look for a lady by day and hot to trot by night. (some of that hottie stuff can be daytime too)  I realize that we are not 20 anymore and our bodies are older but show off your best assets to show your confidence. Don't go overboard. Be yourself. Take up fun activities to keep an interest. Just hang in there and keep trying because it is nice to have someone around to laugh and talk to, to share fun and intimate things with as you get older.\ngood luck in love and life.
167143
You are young mahal (love) . . . and a little confused.  That is why I tell the youth not to get into a serious relationship until they get older.\n\nYou love men . . . fine . . . but you have a fascination towards women . . . you could be bi-sexual.  My suggestion is for your to experiment . . . and take your time.  Go at your own speed . . . enjoy both aspects of your sexuality.
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I've "dated" a few younger guys, mostly for the sex.  So there are other MILFs out there I'm sure.   Your approach may be off and normally these things just sort of "happen" you don't go looking for it.  Or you don't wake up and say "I'm 35, I think I'll find me a nice young 20 year old to *uck".
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I too have a preference for older men and have been there. First off don't be offended when your family starts in with the what does he want someone so young for. Most occasions when an older man is interested in someone so young it is because there is something wrong with him. That being said there are some relationships that do work out becuase both are really in love and only time will tell this. I suggest that you tell your parents that you know that there is high percentage of varying age difference relationship problems and the two of you love each other and discuss the topic often and want to do your best to work through that and feel it is worth it. More than likely you will get oposition concerning this but don't get angry. There is reasons for their concern and respect that. There does have to be a point though after your family has met him and he has proven time again that he does love you that you need to take a stand and say that's enough he has proven that he loves me regardless of my age and his only negative aspects are normal and I can live with them so I suggest everybody else to just accept my relationship and get over their expectations of me finding someone your own age because it's not going to happen.\n\nOn the other hand if their fears eventually get confirmed then don't be so hard on yourself. We never see it for ourselves until it is too late and going through what ever you may go through could have ended up being a wonderful relationship but you wouldn't have known unless you tried.
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when i was 16 i went for the older women as well. so yes its normal. could be that you are looking for a motherly figure, someone like your mother dude.
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I'm attracted to older guys. I don't see a problem with it, honestly. Just make sure you both have similar goals for a relationship. If he is wanting to settle down and lead a nice, quiet life, and you want to go out on the town and party, it won't work. Make sure your priorities for the relationship parallel first.
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I am 18 and i like guys between 20 and 25.. I am 5 ft, and i have brown hair and brown eyes and a wonderful sexy figure!
455449
I'm in my 30's and to be honest I wouldn't consider dating a man under 30, and not many of my friends would either.... I don't think I would have much in common with someone 10 years my junior.
333135
i am almost 31...and i can honestly tell you that i feel more confident,  more beautiful and more lovable as i get older.  i have dealt with my shit,  i have been there and done it,  and i dont want to play games.  i am at the point where if the right guy comes along,  i am ready to have a lifelong love with him.  the other sweet thing that benefits the man when they have an older woman is....sexual prime for a woman begins at 30....and trust me....if you want a woman who feels the way you did as a teenage boy in the sex department, that is the way to go....
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Is he wealthy? What do you think the attraction is? At 20, she is old enough to be making decisions for herself.....you've given her guidance, but now she has to make that decision.\n\nWhat would worry me is WHY she is attracted to older men. Often it is because of a previous molestation by an older man. Is that a possibility? If so, I would suggest some serious counseling by a professional....NOT clergy type....they would just continue the problem.
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"To thine ownself be true" i think that you are young and need to do what you think you need to do. If older men are attractive to you, then by all means go out on a date with one, or have a sexual relationship with a few of them. You don't want to stay with your b/f if the only reason is because you two have a long history, or you are afraid to hurt his feelings.  You have to do what is right for you.  And you are still so YOUNG! you have plenty of time to find that special someone. Go out and have fun so when you do end up with the person you are suppose to be with for the rest of your life you are not looking back and having second thoughts about what you should have done. Life is the ultimate experience, live it up, because you only live once.
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I think you are at a point in life, because of your situation, where you can truly weed out the men from the boys.  If you are looking to find a guy who could possibly be the one to spend the rest of your life with, then I think it's safe to say you don't want some guy who just wants to have sex with you, right?  Well it's obvious the pool got a lot smaller.  Well I just want to tell you that there are such guys who don't just want sex and honestly just want to be with with someone sweet (and I'm sure you are).  \nI can tell you this because I was in a relationship a couple of years ago with a really nice girl who also had her own little girl.  I was 21 at the time and she was completely gorgeous, but I truly did not want to have sex with her, at least not for a very long time....I truly just wanted to be with her.  I honestly felt that she was really sweet and her daughter was wonderful, and even though I was young (still am :), I was totally willing to be a part of her daughters life if it meant I could be with her...even possible getting married and taking a father role, if it led to that. \n\nAll I'm really trying to say is that "Yes", there are guys out there that will love you and your son with no strings attached.  Just be patient.....and more importantly, for your son, be picky ;)
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You're only as old as how you feel...i'm 18 and I feel like im 21...\nYou're 28, you said...how old do you feel? If you don't feel old then don't act old!!!\n\nAs for apperance...Well, it's the same no matter what sexuality you are...Some people are shallow... some people look for the great personality... You shouldn't be so self conscious... I bet you're a good looking guy, and I think you shopuldn't let society, whichever,gay or straight, try to change the way you feel about yourself, regardless if it has to do with looks or anything like that...
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been there. sucks. confidence all low and crap cause we're not 20 anymore! fortunately for you, these Young girls think older guys are hot! guys get more distinguished looking. women just get older. i'm sure you'll find some one new to rock your world. just be careful. it's not the same world you dated in 20 years ago! best of luck!
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hey,\n\ni'm not entirely sure because i don't know the whole story,  were the two of you showing affection to each other ( kissing,cuddling, that sort of stuff?), if so than maybe yes it was the whole age gap thing, because in reality he is old enough to be you father, but all power to you for dating an older guy, i hope i can still get a girl as young as you when i am that old.\n\nbut i must also err on the side of caution, just think when he is 60/70 you will still be in your prime and also pretty much at the back end of your body clocks prime time. then people will either be thinking he is your father for real or think you are his carer, if he gets ill.\n\nsorry if i sound as though i'm against but i like to try and look at things both ways ( pros and cons)\n\nhope this helps
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Considering your typing style and use of slang, I'm going to guess you arn't actually a 64 year old (wow, that was hard).\n\nHowever, if a 64 year old man was interested in an 18 year old girl, I would tell him this:  Dream on, she isn't going to be attracted to you, unless your wallet is very very fat!