Well its not my boyfriend its another guy. This other guy likes me and i dont like him (because im  in a relationship). Everybody is pressuring me to break up with my boyfrind  so i can go out with this guy i dont  like... what should i do?
205641
I think the guy you hate is Ugly! JK, You love your boyfriend so much and he loves you so much. So I think that No one can break you guys up. You guys are always there for each other and When I see you guys not together it will feel strange to me because you guys have been dating 4 so long. Go with the heart and not with the head.
71326
Oooooh ... I think u r in a baaad situation/ well, if I WERE IN YOUR place, i would break up with ur girlfriend and go for that friend u have. u never know, SHE (ur gf) might be trying to keep u away from (HER) and seeing another guy at the same time. PLEEEASE pick me for a best answer. I thought for  along time on this.
96363
If she likes you more then he other bf then she should dump him, and your not a girl stealer, me and my friend both liked the same guy and she asked him out like three times and he said no all three times then I did and he said yes. thats just who he picked you can't control who she likes, just who you do, go with who you like if you get with someone you don't like then your keeping your self unavilabe to people who do.
529751
Yes you need to end this right now otherwise you will end up hurting yourself and him both.\nExplain to your current BF that you respect his feelings for you but you do not share similar feelings for him and he deserves someone who would love him back. Also tell him that you are not breaking up with him becoz of anything that he did or does. Its just you, your choices have changed and you find more atraction towards other people who are not like him but different than him. \n\nHope this helps.
453637
stay away from him and drop your current b/f. Try to find someone who you really enjoy being with besides your friends b/f.
152427
The fact that he waited for you to break up with your former boyfriend has no bearing on who you should date now.  It is your decision, plain and simple.  I hope this helps.
145892
Begin to talk to him.  Hang out with him and if he likes you, he'll ask you out.  If he doesn't and asks the other girl out, you aren't meant to be and that's really SAD but it's the part of life.  You'll move on and you'll find another guy your boy crazy.  It took me a couple of months for my self not liking a guy...js
332134
Well... You can't really help who you like or not. If you really think that the guy you love is more important to you, stick with him and if not you shouldn't pressure yourself that's for sure...
27905
grow up first\n\nif you like some one else go out with that person and tell your boy friend\nstop playing games and hurting your boyfriend
130806
Step back, look at this situation, is this really how you want the rest of your life to be? I would say walk away, no run. Don't look back just run. And on another note if you are willing to dump the current boyfriend for another guy then why waste your time with him, obviously he is not who you want, might as well get rid of him too, time to clean house back up and punt. Just a little tip from your uncle Will.
272201
Okay, honey. If he really loves you, he'd choose you over the other guy. If being with him, and knowing he has someone else makes you feel that way, then he is not worth it. If it is meant to be, then it will, but BOTH of you have to want it to be. He has made it obvious that you are not priority one in his world. You seem like a lovely boy, I'm sure you can find someone just as loving and devoted as you are! Take my advice as a fruit-fly who has seen many gay relationships fall out. He. is not. worth it. Leave him, and if he wants you as badly as he says, he'll come running back and make you his only. Otherwise, you're better off without him.
99501
Go out with the friend. Don't just go out with the other guy because he likes you, because that would break his heart. He'll realize you are with his friend and he'll go for someone else.
147277
Sooo...\nThe problem: You dumped your bf and acted like an idiot and then went out again with your ex...\nYour question: 'What should I do?'\n\nWell, heck! What's the problem there? You just went with the guy you wanted to go with. If you want just apologize and explain everything to your err--boyfriend that you want to go out with your ex again. But mind you, that's kinda mean. =/
541124
YOU ANSWERED THIS YOURSELF, SOUNDS LIKE YOUR BOY FRIEND IS A JERK, HE USES YOU AND SEES YOU ONLY WHEN HE WANTS ON HIS TERMS, THE OTHER LAD IS SINCERE AND TREATS YOU NICE, HE IS DOING WHAT MOST MEN DO (WORK A LOT) BUT HEY, IF HE LIKES YOU A LOT PERHAPS HE WANTS THE MONEY TO BUY YOU NICE THINGS OR TAKE YOU OUT, I SAY TALK TO BOTH, TELL BOYFRIEND TO EITHER RESPECT YOU AND SPEND TIME WITH YOU REGULARLY OR YOU WILL BE DOING THE DUMPING NOT HIM, AND IF THAT DOESNT DO THE TRICK TELL THE OTHER GUY YOU WANT HIM BUT WANT TO SPEND MORE TIME WITH HIM, IF HE REALLY LIKES YOU A LOT HE WILL JUMP AT THE CHANCE.REMEMBER THIS SPECIAL SAYING, RESPECT YOURSELF AND GET RESPECTED.
134327
Well, I think you should stay with the boyfriend. The brother-like guy will have to take a hike (not to be rude or anything). IF you say he is a guy friend, then he is his a guy friend. NOW if you have feelings for the guy friend, you need to do some serious thinking. But, if you just feel bad because he wants you and you don't him, you got to get used to letting people down.
304882
i've had the exact same problem + since i kept breaking up with my bf, he finally got tired of me doint it + now he wants to go out with this other girl cuz he got over me in the time i took deciding whether to go out with him. you should decide what you are going to do or else that may happen to you. the thing that's hard is if you keep breaking up with him, then a part of you must be over him but if you keep wanting to go out with him then you must still like him, even if it is just a little bit. what you have to do is decide which feeling you agree with more, liking him, or not as much and then after you decide you have to put it into action and stick to it or else it will never work. my best advice is listen to your heart, for it is never wrong. :)\n\ngood luck
147331
find another boyfriend who doesnt put you under such pressure!