What does a girl feels if someone says "you are beautiful"?
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Every girl likes to hear that she is beautiful.  It makes us feel good that someone appreciates the amount of work we out into looking good.  Like eating right, exercising, buying nice clothes, hair, makeup the whole nine yards is worth it.  I also take into consideration his non-verbal signals as he say the words.  \n\nFor instance, if YOU were to tell me that I am beautiful but you are staring at my breasts, I wouldn't feel like you are sincere and I would just probably walk away.\nIf you were to look me in the eyes and say that, I would be flushed and talk to you for a little bit.
288557
Remember Ursula Andress, the beautiful Swedish actress who was a Bond girl?  Look at her today.  Look at any beautiful woman from 10,20,30,40 years ago, they were all stunning, but we all age, we all lose that youthful beauty eventually.  Have you ever met someone who was very attractive then got to know them and found that their character was so unpleasant it made their physical appearance ugly?  Not only is physical beauty something that is transient, it really is in the eye of the beholder.  Real and lasting beauty lies in who you are, the way you express your self.  Think about the people you just like to be around; not because they 'look' good, but because they are fun, calming, sympathetic, vibrant, wise, amusing... qualities which can't be bought.  Many people believe that those who have beauty, good health or wealth must be the happiest.  It's not true is it?  Look at Micheal Jackson, Kate Moss.  The issue here is low self-esteem.  If you're self-esteem is based on your appearance it's no surprise you feel insecure, that is not a firm foundation for self-worth.  It is really sad that you would feel threatened by sharing the attention and affection of your own child with your husband.  Think about it.  I would recommend that you seek the help of a good therapist to help you get to the bottom of why you have this fragile self-esteem.  You need to build yourself up...from the inside.  I wish you all the best.
86627
If someone likes you they will treat you with respect. They will trust you. They will share their real honest feelings with you. That is all.
669332
there are 2 things a person does not know about themselves... what they sound like and what they look like.  your own self-perceptions prevent you from knowing this.  If this guy likes the way you look, than perhaps he knows better what other people see when they look at you.  Your low self esteem will prevent you from seeing yourself as beautiful as long as you think you are not.
542982
awwww... listen to that song by CHRISTINA AGUILARA..."you are beautiful, no matter what they say..."\nthat's what I'm saying to you and that to not worry...you'll find that special somebody...=}
422100
I think you are beautiful would be nice :)
373756
you think the woman's body's beautiful.\n\nhe's not doing it right and you know a girl would know how it feels down there and what to make "it" feel happy.\n\nbut overall, you love the feeling of a guys ... yeah...
280355
baby girl, if you are describing yourself, then you're just beautiful.
27702
YES because i feel like being nice today!! plus you are problly the prettiest girl in your whole entire school, so i would have to say yes.
454335
Nope, sounds just like what I would say...\n...except, well yeah that is what I would say.\nIf she says is it because im not pretty, either joke around and be like YES  ____, that is exactly why. Or if she isnt that kind of person be like no, youre very beautiful but i just dont think that a relationship between us would be right.
573431
girls do not like it when guys say things like.\nwhat do you like about me?\nhow handsom am i?\nif you can change anything about me what would it be?\n\nallow people to express how they feel naturally. if someone thinks your cute then wait for it dont fish for nice things to come to you. If you ask chances are they will be rude to you or they will just tell you what they think you want to hear just to shut you up.
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Hmmm...\n\nYes, it's extremely common, with both guys and girls.\nI constantly have those sorts of feelings - it is insecurity, but it is also self-objectification.\nWhy should it matter if we are physically beautiful or not?\nIt's all artificially created and perpetuated.\nBut understanding this doesn't always help.
111831
Girls like confidence, a sense of humor and attentiveness. If she talks, listen. Compliment her (be honest though). Maybe you don't feel confident, but if you pretend you are, you'll convince yourself. We ALL get nervous around "the one"- even in our 20's. There's more to being attractive then just whats physical about you.
402039
Tell her she looks nice or tell her she smells pretty!  I love to be told that I smell pretty!
236128
You are seeking that guy's approval in some way.  You want him to say you're cute too. It doesn't matter who the guy is - BTW - you need him to say something nice about you.  If I were you, I'd assess why you may feel the need to get the man's approval of your looks and why it feels not so good if a guy says another girl/woman is cute. Don't worry about it....just take a step back and look at yourself and how you feel.
582019
You know little of one's personality just from looks, so lets scratch that one.  Beautiful though, is anyone that makes you look twice, no matter what it is.  Beautiful is when you see someone that makes your heart pound, and you remember them the next day.
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i think it depends on your relationship with the person and the situation...\ni had put on some weight once and ran into an aquaintance and at first i felt kinda wierd cuz i had gained the weight and kinda embarrassed....but then the girl said "it's been a long time since i've seen you...you look great, you've put on some weight and you look so healthy and so much less stressed out"\n....you might ask how she's doing...maybe she just had a baby or maybe she has  a health issue...\nor maybe say "wow you've changed so much since i last saw you..." and then add a compliment like "i really like how you're wearing your hair now, you look great"