i feel my gf is bored because i dont talk well.how can i do ??
209524
Just relax and be yourself. But more important, if you want to learn to talk, you have to first learn how to listen...
206205
don't aggravate her by asking what's wrong a thousand times trust me on this my bf was going through the same thing with me, just hug her and tell her you love her often not just when you are about to leave her or get off the phone, tell her often and during your everyday conversation let her know out the blue that if theres ever anything she wants to talk about , you're there no matter what time it is or how petty or small she may think it is, you're always listening, there maybe times where she don't want you to say ANYTHING but just for you to be there to listen so let her know you're there tell her everyday so when the time come and she want to talk she already know that you're willing to listen
120941
Well if she's not talking then you must be broke up.So no problem,get on with your life
106568
be patient and dont push her too hard\njust be there for her (even only via email)\nstop telling her how you feel for now, it may be quite irritating for someone's out of a bad relationship\ntell her your feeling once again when she's opened up a bit\n\nhope she'll loosened up =)
226394
i have the same problem..but it's not just with girls, ...i'm just not much of a talker. But u work on it by forcong yourself to be more loose. I've improved alot.\n\nsounds corny but u can even rehearse things you wanna say in certain situations
162607
She may just be really busy, honey.  Try to find a time when she's not doing something else.  Ask her if it's a good time to talk and remember to ask what she thinks and talk about what she's interested in, too.
306315
be straight tell her you hate playing games and u want her to be your girlfriend then ask her if she wants to be your gf
323706
Just tell her how you feel and if that doesn't work, tell her that you want nothing more to do with her.  Tell her that it is callous and in poor taste to be discussing it with you around and that you have better things to do than to listen to her discussing that sort of thing.  Good luck!
234778
ill give u girly advice...\nthe best thing i think you shud do that will work is go up to her and say hi and ask her if u cud talk to her alone for a min \nand tell her how u feel. \nshe'll appreciate the fact that u want to have a conversation but not in front of everyone. don't make a scene...\nshe'll listen... \n\ngoood luck
294701
Too boring and serious?  He sounds like a jerk who expects a girl to entertain him.  You are well to be rid of an idiot like that.  Just give a half-smile at him, like you are in on some cosmic joke or something.
273202
Well, it's ambiguous if you've tried talking to her about it, when you say "She seems to think ...".  Have you just come out and asked "Why are you so tense?"  You're not instigating the response by a wham, bam, thank you, ma'am, are you?\n\nSetting the mood, as previous answers suggest, with a bath, a massage, cuddling would certainly help.  Try new positions that would get her to move.  Honestly talk about what feels good and what is awkward during.  It could only lead to more enjoyable situations.
60948
Just let your inhibitions go. If you feel like saying something or making a noise, just do it! If you're worrying about what you're saying the whole time, you're not gonna have as much fun. Just do what comes naturally. If you don't naturally make a lot of noise, that's fine. Just let her know that you love it when she does. Encourage her then afterwards say something like, "you sounded so hot tonight."
218514
well, try to chill with her a couple more times and tell her you have something really special planned (do something nice for her) and try to make it at a time when she doesn't have to work, maybe in the morning or something. then you can see if she'll still blow you off. let her know that you feel like that and see what she says. good luck with this.
561476
I know she may not be able to respond but deep down I really think part of her understands. It may feel weird, but I think you should talk to her like she can understand. Just talk to her, tell her about your fun times together. Tell her your going to miss her. If you don't you will feel terrible later for it. You need to just put in your last words now before it's to late.
184821
to be honest it sounds like she's losing interest, try talking to her about it, and do something sweet for her
313716
Ooooh, touchy subject.\n\nThis is how you do it. I can't guarantee it will work because she maybe very sensitive. \n\nSounds like you have a needy GF. Best way to do it is in person. Preferably, do something nice for her first, take her out on a nice date, a nice ralaxing one. Tell her how much you care about her. Ask her if she knows this? Pay attention to her reactions now! If she looks like she's not sure, you Re-Assure her. Then tell her you want her to do things on her own, things to better herself with. Say she should spend more time with her friends and family because you think it's important that she does that. Tell her you want an independent girl. Tell her you want her to be happy on her own and with herself. And you want to be there for her to add to her happiness. Because between you and me and whom ever is reading this, we are responsible for our own happiness, no one else. You can tell her that too in a nice way. \n\nYou basically make it sound possitive so she doesn't take it the wrong way....Then you tell her that you love to spend time with her but you also need time for yourself too and this is why you want her to do things on her own more. Then tell her again that you are not going anywhere, that you are there when she needs you. \n\nMake sure you give her a hugs and kisses afterwards...."Affection"  - - - i don't know any woman who doesn't go gaga for it.\n\nGood luck!
248036
ok --- how's this ---> when your gu=irl starts acting wierd\n 1. hold her\n 2. tell her that you love her\n 3. make her feel special\n 4. never stop treating her like she is wonderful to you !\n 5. take her out dancing\n 6. bring her a rose , for no reason at all\n 7. always get as hard , and last as long as you did when you met---> we give as much as we get in bed--> so fuc-\nthe sh-t up--->please!!\n 8. actually listen to what she has to say , because her thoughts are actually important to you\n 9. if you decide to cheat -- it's over so, don't bother coming home! You should have just broken up with her before you went out whoring --> she would have alot more respect for you , if you would have.....But , if you really love her--> just be faithful\n  Now , you will be up for a hell of a wonderful relationship , if you follow these simple what to do rules\n  Atleast doing one of these things , will be the key--> to all of her insanity.. DO 1 by 1 to figure out which 1 will fix her problems , so you can both continue being happy!!!