Pt. 1\nMy b/f asked me if I wanted to marry him, I froze, for me that has always ben a scarry tought, I didn't say anything, he got upset, didn't talk to me till the next day, didn't bring it up again.\n\nPt. 2\nI let another day pass by for him to cool off, he came over to spend the night, I brought it up, I told him like this, "I'm sorry for reacting the way I did, and I just wanted to tell you that I would love to start a life with you, and I would love to marry you" He just gave me this mean look and didn't say anything, yet afterwards, well I'll just say we had a good night, but he still hasnt said anything else sinse yesterday.\n\nNow I ask guys cause you can guess better what the heck was going trough his head, now I'm more scared than ever.
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Because you froze he thought you didn't want to. Lots of things will be going through his mind so he was probly unsure wot to think. Now yourve said yes he will be happy, but i guess unsure wot to do! its not everyday this happens, so prehaps he doesn't know what to do next! try and spend a weekend away together, just you too. He can't escape so you will have plenty of time to talk and errr....well wot eva else you choose to do!!
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I have had plenty of male friends who have been through this before. Before the two of you call it quits you should have a nice dinner (preferably at home becuase it might get emotional) to just talk...tell her that you just want to start over. Pretend this dinner is your first date, use it as a way to rekindle what you had and find out why you guys decided to get married. Also explain the way you feel and encourage her to do the same.
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I guess he felt uncomfortable and did not want to create an unnecessary scene. Don't read too deep into him because I think if he wanted you, you would've know it way before the party started...Sounds like he wanted to avoid any possible confrontation. Some females don't take "moving on" too well -  sounds, like you handled yourself very maturely. Good Girl.
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Girlfriend: there're 2 scenario's! Number 1 is he's playing you. Now I know you don't wanna hear this, but keep an open mind! He's either met someone his own age (or younger) that might not 'intimidate' him as much, or he's just being stupid. Second scenario: he really digs you, but he's too shy/afraid/clueless as to how to tell you this. (Let's both hope for your sake this is the true reason for his being distant...) Either way, keep your chin up, and your head open. Don't go losing your heart to this guy just yet... Good luck!
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For 90% of them, a shrug would suffice.  That leaves 3:\n\n1. That's what you get for being a ho, \nthough I can't really say that I told you so.\nYou could have chose love instead of money, \nbut now you're knocked up by a loser, honey.\n\n2. I wish we had met at another time and under better circumstances.  We were so right for each other at the wrong time.  I wish I could have gone to church with you.  Maybe I wouldn't have lost faith like I did... Or maybe it was inevitable.\n\n3. Even if it could never have worked out, I don't regret loving you.  I guess that's what made leaving so difficult and why I got so screwed up afterwards.  That's the part I regret.  A part of me died when I had to say goodbye and I don't know if it will ever come back.
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how about saying....  i am sorry if i embarressed you friday...  i normally do not get that drunk and behave that way..  Hope we are still ok????   or\n\nsend him a questionaire (this worked for me once after a date which i didnt hear from him in about 4 days)  \n\nDear_______\nplease respond to the following survey ASAP\n\n1...  Had a wonderful time, not casey behaved like a true lady\n\n2...  Had a horrible time never want to see not casey again\n\n3...  Had a date Friday???\n\n4... Not casey appeared to have gotten a little drunk, would like to see her again though if she promises to behave\n\n5....  Friday was_(please fill in the blank)_____________________________________
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Females:\n1. You’re like a brother to me – Do you remember that geek in “deliverance” that played the banjo?\n2. There is a tiny age difference between us – I don’t want to date my dad\n3. You don’t attract me in THAT kind of a way – You’re the ugliest person I’ve ever seen\n4. My life is too complicated right now – I don’t want you there all night to hear my phone discussions with the other men I’m currently dating\n5. I have a boyfriend – I prefer my cat and 2l of Cola\n6. I don’t date my colleagues from work – I wouldn’t date you even if we were galaxy neighbours…\n7. It’s not your fault, it’s mine – It’s your fault\n8. I’m single – I sworn not to date men like you\n9. Let’s be friends – I want you to stay close by so that I can tell you about the men I am dating and currently having sex with. It’s the men perspective about things. \n10 I'm curentlly concentrating on my career - even something as boring and unsatisfactory as my job is better than dating you\n\n\nMales:\n1. You’re like a brother to me – You're ugly\n2. There is a tiny age difference between us – You're SO ugly\n3. You don’t attract me in THAT kind of a way – You're damn ugly\n4. My life is too complicated right now – You're Hideouslly ugly\n5. I have girlfriend – You're too ugly\n6. I don’t date my colleagues from work – You're UGLY\n7. It’s not your fault, it’s mine – You're... ugly\n8. I’m single – You're ugly\n9. Let’s be friends – You're U_G_L_Y \n10. I'm currentlly concentrating on my career - you're the most ugly person ever
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haha .. this is funny because before i got with my bf we were good friends ... we flirted back and forth all the time... and well we got talking on the phone a lot and after i had knew him for a while i had mad fehone i for him.. one night when we were on the phone i was falling half asleep.. i told him that i loved him! and then i heard myself and thought "did i just tell him what i think i did?" and i didnt want to bear the embarrasement so i just pretended to stay asleep... the next day he asked me if i rem what i said on the phone ... i was like "naw ..what'd i say?" he told me ... an i was still embarrassed so i just told him i was kidding... but a couple days later i confessed and told the truth about how i truely felt about him... now we have been together for 2 1/2 yrs and still going strong =D
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Translation:\n\nHi. Whats happening is this dang boy is getting on my last nerve. I hate it. Anyway, he says he wants to go out with me, and his friend says it too. His friend just called me to say that. Then, this girl that used to like him (but he wouldn't go out with her) said it was a joke. She said she asked him and thats was what he said. What should I do? I guess we're going out, but I don't know if we are or not.\n\nOk, now that people don't have such a hard time reading what you were trying to say, maybe they can answer.
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i had the sweetest day of my life...\n\nmy boyf and i didnt plan anything for V-day because we both had work and we had conflicting schedules...(i go home 6am he goes to work 7am, i leave for work 8pm he arrives from work 6pm) so I wasn't really expecting anything...\n\nBut when it's time for me to go home from work (6am feb.14), some of my officemates were already teasing that a guy is waiting for someone outside and i said "no he's not my boyf" because I wasn't really expecting him but when I went outside there he was waiting for me with a big smile and as I was walking towards him...guess what?!! I didn't see this one coming...he handed me a bouquet of pink roses (a really nice one) and my officemates were like, "oh my gawd! he's so sweet"...\n\nI was very surprised and very touched. I felt very special that moment. Then we just had breakfast at his house then off we went to our different destinations...\n\nI love my man!! :)
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I've started and deleted this a couple times and thought about what to say to you, but am having a hard time.\n\nI can't map in for some reason, so I apologize if my response is a scatterbrained collection of thoughts.\n\nOn one hand I hesitate because you don't want to be his 'mom'.....coming to rescue him.\n\n1st....he may not feel good about being rescued by a woman. I'm not taking a shot at you or anything....I happen to be open to someone helping me if I need it, but I don't think (most?) men warm up to that......unless they are insecure, and then you don't get a man for your partner, you get an adult momma's boy.\n\n2nd....he may not like a woman coming on to strong. He may regard your advances as just that, and regard it as another element to deal with.\n\nIf you've offered coffee, and other such things and have been turned down....that's male communication for.....'thank you, but not now'.\n\n3rd He may have an ego......one that may preclude him from admitting to himself that he needs help at all.\n\n:)\n\nMen like to tackle things completely (most of the time I think) and then move on to the next issue to deal with. It's possible that you are on the 'list'...so-to-speak. I'm sorry for making you sound like a line item. I don't think that, but for brevity I phrased it that way...and to help illustrate what I'm saying.\n\nIt's also likely that whatever he's going thru is deeper than you realize and it requires all his attention. Men (most) are somewhat single-minded and throw a lot of attention on one problem at a time, depending on what it is. This could be one of those situations.\n\nHe may regard the starting of a relationship...even a new friendship right now to be a taxing endeavor that he just doesn't want to deal with.\n\nI'd say that if you've made the offers.....then take stock in that......he knows.....he knows you're there. Don't be pushy.....we men really, really don't like that. I can speak for myself on that one....lol.\n\nDon't keep asking him for coffee....he'll just think you're a pain or think you have stock in Juan Valdez (geeze is he still around?) or something....lol.\n\nThe best thing to do is be a friend. Don't be a pain, don't be annoying and just hang.....being helpful to HIM won't be your idea of 'helpful'. And if you want to ingratiate yourself to him...you will have to figure out how you can be helpful to HIM. Do you know what I mean? That may just be being an ear for him if he wants to talk, sending him some jokes on the internet.....whatever.\n\nDon't be selfish with what you want.....do what is best for him right now.\n\nHope that helps....a little anyway. I hope it works out.....send me a wedding invitation....k?\n\n;)
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I WILL NOT ANSWER\nREAD THE STORY & YOU WILL GET IT-\nI have a boyfriend who grew up with me. His name is Jin. I always thought of him as a friend\nuntil last year, when we went to a trip from a club. I found that I fell in love with him. Before that\ntrip was over, I took a step and confessed my love for him. And soon, we became a pair of\nlovers, but we loved each other in different ways. I always concentrated on him only, but by\nhis side, there were so many other girls. To me, he was the only one, but to him, maybe I was just another girl… \n\n \n \n\n“Jin, do you want to go watch a movie?” I asked.\n“I can’t”\n“Why? You need to study at home?” I felt disappointment grabbing me.\n“No… I am going to meet a friend…\n\nHe was always like that. He met girls in front of me, like it was nothing. To him, I was just a girlfriend. The word ‘love’ only came out from my mouth. Since I knew him, I had never heard him say ‘I love you’ before. To us, there weren’t any anniversaries at all. He didn’t say anything from the first day and it continued till 100 days…200days… Everyday, before we say goodbye, he would just hand me a doll, everyday, without fail. I don’t know why…\n\nThen one day…\n \nMe: Um, Jin, I …\nJin: What…don’t drag, just say..\nMe: I love you.\nJin: ……you….um, just take this doll and go home.\nThat was how he ignored my ‘three words’ and handed me the doll. Then he disappeared, like he was running away. The dolls I received from him everyday, filled my room, one by one. There were many…\nThen one day came, my 15th year old birthday. When I got up in the morning, I pictured a party with him, and stranded myself in my room, waiting for his call. But… lunch passed, dinner passed… and soon the sky was dark… he still didn’t call. It was already tiring to look at the phone anymore. Then around 2am in the morning, he suddenly called me and woke me from my sleep. He told me to come out of the house. Still, I felt joy and I ran out happily. \n\n \n\nMe: Jin…\nJin: Here…take this…\nAgain, he handed me a little doll.\nMe: What’s this?\nJin: I didn’t give it to you yesterday, so I am giving it to you now. I’m going home now, bye.\nMe: Wait, wait! Do you know what today is?\nJin: Today? Huh?\nI felt so sad, I thought he would remember my birthday. He turned around and walked away like nothing had happen. Then I shouted… “Wait…”\nJin: You have something to say?\nMe: Tell me, tell me you love me…\nJin: What?!\nMe: Tell me\nI put my pathetic self behind and clung on to him. But he just said simple cold words and left.\n“I don’t want to say…that I love someone so easily, if you are desperate to hear it, then find someone else.”\nThat was what he said. Then he ran off. My legs felt numb… and I collapsed to the ground. He didn’t want to say it easily… How could he…. I felt that… Maybe he is not the right guy for me…\nAfter that day, I stranded myself at home crying, just crying. He didn’t call me, although I was waiting. He just continued handing me a little doll every morning outside my house. That’s how those dolls piled up in my room… everyday\nAfter a month, I got myself together and went to school. But what made the pain resurface was that… I saw him on a street… with another girl… He had a smile on his face, one that he never showed me…as he touched the doll… I ran straight back home and looked at the dolls in my room, and tears fell… Why did he gave these to me… Those dolls are probably picked out by some other girls…In a fit of anger, I threw the dolls around. Then suddenly, the phone rang. It was him. He told me to come out to the bus stop outside my house. I tried to calm myself down and walked to the bus stop. I kept reminding myself that I am going to forget him, that… it’s going to end. Then he came into my sight, holding a big doll.   \nJin: Jo, I thought you were pissed, you really came?
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I just can't say the name.  Major crossed signals.  He liked me, I didn't like him.  I liked him but was too indecisive.  This went on for about 8 yrs.  Then suddenly I discovered I loved him.  Like I was finally seeing him for the first time.  It was like a bolt of lightning & I realized we were perfect together.  I finally got up the nerve to tell him I had come around, and before I got the chance to say anything, he told me that he had started dating my good friend.  \n\nI was shocked, but I figured it wouldn't last; I knew in my heart eventually he'd come crawling back to me.  I mean, come on, how could he not?  :)\n\nBut love was cruel... instead of him coming 2 his senses & sweeping me off my feet like in some Hollywood finale, I somehow ended up in their WEDDING.  You have no idea how much that sucked.  I drank myself silly that night out of a broken heart.  *sniff*
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It's up to you, but Let me tell you a little story."there once was this girl that kept getting played by all the guys she ever been with, so she began to think it was something wrong with her and she didn't go out with guys anymore, for about a year or so, then one day she decided to go out with a guy and they had been talking for about three months, kinda like you, and then the guy asked her if she would like to date on a permanate basis, she played hard to get for about a month after that in fear of getting her heart broken, now this guy though was different from the rest, he, treated her well, told her the truth about EVERYTHIMG, NEVER KEPT A Secret from her, unless it was for a surprise or something like that, but the Guy got tired of waiting for her so one day he asked one of her friends, "Am I wasting my time, becuase I really like your friend but she's not talking to me" The girl knew then that she was about to loose this guy, one who finally was different from her usual guys, so she went out on a limb and went with him, and you know what?.................................................................................................................................Now there happily married and the girl is very happy she chose to give it one more shot"  So dont give up we as women have to hold our heads high and kept it up and never let a man, keep us from reaching our goals or dreams and Never let on idot keep you from missing out on Prince Charming. And if later on the down the line, if this guy you with doesn't work out, wipe the dust off your feet and keep steppin.
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On This Morning once a guy phoned in asking for advice on how to propose to his girlfriend, and Richard asked if he had a ring.  When they guy said yes, Richard replied: "Well just tell her you love her and whip it out!"\n\nEveryone was in hysterics.
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Um...this is WAY too long and I'm tired. Good night.\n...\nFine! Don't TRY. Let it flow naturally. Otherwise, it just makes you seem desparate. I don't think guys like that...
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WOMAN'S DIARY: Saturday 29th April 2006.\n\nSaw him in the evening and he was acting really strangely. I went shopping in the afternoon with the girls and I did turn up a bit late so thought it might be that.\n\n\nThe bar was really crowded and loud so I suggested we go somewhere quieter to talk. He was still very subdued and distracted so I suggested we go somewhere nice to eat. All through dinner he just didn't seem himself; he hardly laughed, and didn't seem to be paying any attention to me or to what I was saying. I just knew that something was wrong.\n\n\nHe dropped me back home and I wondered if he was going to come in, he hesitated, but followed. I asked him again if there was something the matter but he just half shook his head and turned the television on. \nAfter about 10 minutes of silence, I said I was going upstairs to bed. I put my arms around him and told him that I loved him deeply. He just gave a sigh, and a sad sort of smile. He didn't follow me up, but later\nhe did, and I was surprised when we made love.\n\n\nHe still seemed distant and a bit cold, and I started to think that he was going to leave me, and that he had found someone else... I cried myself to sleep..............\n\n........\n\n.......\n\n\n\n \n\n \n\n MAN'S DIARY: Saturday 29th April 2006.\n\nRooney's probably out of the World Cup, there go our chances then, gutted! Got a shag though