She is always very dramatic, and I try to stay out of it, but I always end up getting drawn in. what do I say or do to avoid all this.
201255
tell her you dont want to be involved. if she still insists on pulling you into it, then tell her that you are going to be honest and tell her exactly how u feel on the issue that is at hand
417578
don't let her get to you...surround yourself with people that DON'T talk bad about you! :)
278908
The more you try to keep Krystal away from Ashley, the more she is going to be drawn to Ashley. If you know Ashley is a troublemaker, just let Krystal know that you are there for her, anytime, then just let things happen. You are helping to blind Krystal to Ashley because you are telling her all of this negative stuff, and Krystal hasn't seen it for herself, yet. Let her see it. STOP telling her about it. Ashley may be a professional at making herself look good in front of those who she wants to be close to. And, she may also be a professional at making those she hates--look bad to their friends. Chances are, you are helping Ashley do just what she wants you to do, which is look bad in front of Krystal. Just be there for Krystal. She will need you to pick up the pieces when Ashley lets her down time after time. Show her the qualities in you that Ashley does not have. The more you push Ashley, the more she is going to talk about you. \n\nAnd, so what if Krystal did tell Ashley that you don't like her. YOU DON'T, right! \n\nCall Krystal or write to her and apologize, even if she was the one who was wrong. It will go a long way. Tell her that you understand that she has and makes other friends, but that you were feeling left out, and you would like to spend some time with her. But when you do get to see her or talk to her--BITE YOUR TONGUE when it comes to talking bad about Ashley. Don't say a word about her. Just talk to Krystal like you used to. You will see a difference in her attitude, if you don't talk about her new friend.
65219
Your best way is to be funny. Tell her that it is a premonitory dream and you are going to dominate the world. Or maybe make her think about a different topic, like "oh yes, and I dreamt about this hot actor" so that there is not much importance given.
634629
Keep caring ... dont stop caring....\nBefore going to see her. \nBuild yourself up emotionally, it will be easier to be around her...\nonce you leave...do the same thing...\nPlan your visits between two positive things.\n\nBut really, honestly, dont stop caring.\nJust be there! Thats it! Be there!
513795
Well... I say stay awy because you might be getting into something you can not imagine. But, on the other hand...life is once and there just might be more spark with the sister. LL.
482318
Be mature and adult about it. Confront her again and tell her that u don't appreciate the made up drama and that u don't need that in your life and ignore her until you have to deal with her-then just do what you gotta do with her and roll on. I wouldn't even hold much of a convo with her unless if I had 2.
254932
Why does everything has to become a creepy drama?.  Confidence is ur greatest weapon for attraction, keep that in mind.  So in order to let her know u know what u want ( confidence), talk to her out of the blue one day, about anything with little importance but in a funny, flirting kinda way, then just drop the line, like it is no big deal ( cause it really isn't) " by the way , there's this thing at that place... i think u will enjoy it, specially with my company"  and let her be the one that, points out the details of the outing!.  have a good one. SUAE
564929
Try talking to her and hang out sometimes! Go to the theatres, shop, whatever! And remember to dig into her side of the story. Try adapting to her "styles" as in speech and dress. When you shop for clothes, don't go looking for old fashioned stuff (if you do, that is) but go to where she always go. Give her space, as well. If she refuses to tell you something, don't nag her. Just wait and treat her kindly, ignore the fact she's lying.... get comfortable with her. If she doesn't mind, try to garden and do some of the hobbies you like to do. Remember, teen age goes away after awhile. Good luck!
395459
Tell her not to tell you anything else of that nature. If she doesn't want any help, then keep you out of it...I'm sure that you already have enough stress, and friends like this will cause you to have a mental breakdown...
47890
Get mad and get over it.  Do not try to get even.\nThese things have a way of working out for the best if you do not escalate what has already taken place.\nYou would be better off doing your best to ignore her.  In the end, this will "put her in her place" far better than any retaliation that you could plan.
230002
You have all the makings of a soap opera!\nLet her know how you feel about everything,honestly!\nIf that doesn't work,use your clear head,and move on.
375616
Chances are you are playing her to feed your own ego. What are YOU doing to encourage her behavior? Be nice. Tell her you do not feel any chemistry towards her. That's all. Then avoid seeing her and contacting her in any way. Don't take her calls, don't respond to her emails.
519887
Gently tell her what you told us.  You should not be forced to do what you're not ready for.  It's not like you're ruling it out - you're just not ready.
228025
HEY HONEY NEEDLESS TO SAY I HAVE ONE LIKE THAT TOO..BEST ADVICE....LEAVE IT ALONE, YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW SHE IS YOU WILL MOST LIKELY BE THE ONE TO GET HURT!!!DROP IT LIKE ITS HOTTTTTT...
252079
Maybe you should just stay out of the middle of it. Give her support, but just tell her that you rather just not get involoved, unless he did something serious to her.
109289
tell her that u have strong feelings for her and that u really want to be with her and u dont want to pretend anymore. tell her that u need to know how she feels about u..and i would put a stop to all the touching and kissing until then. u never know u could be getting strung along.