when your in a realtionship, are you just lucky that you found that person. do you have to be a lucky person to fall in love? what happens if your a unlucky person, are you going to be alone forever?
210077
Depends on your actions; As well as both of you're varying ages. I myself have never been married & am still looking for a bride. I will turn 36 in 5 days.\n\nIts WISE to a point to keep looking but never do anything that you will later regret having done. Such as causing a child to be born between the 2 of you. That is just 1 thing...\n\nYou are only unlucky if you SAY & KEEP THINKING YOU ARE such. If you keep telling yourself, be you male or female, you WILL find someone that will be perfect for you & later to marry if its God's Will...
23226
I believe that if you truly love someone you will always love them the only change is the way you love them , if you have remained friends and kept in touch it may be a little hard , because you have gotten used to loving em as just a friend , however if you just run into em one day and start over it wont be if its meant to be . Everything happens for a reason so if the two of you are meant to be together you will . Trust me my first love and I have fallen in and out of love several times over the last 10 years I stopped stressing it when I realized that it will just happen if we are truly meant for eachother !!
128082
there is not one person out there specifically for you. however you may fall in love with any number of people that match some of your wants, needs, desires,. IF you're waiting for one person you're wasting your time. As my uncle says, don't marry the first ten people you fall in love with (WTF ?). well i've only been in love 3 times technically but you know what they say: third times a charm !
551313
Love is a feeling.  What I really mean by that is, it is something that comes from the heart.  It is hard to reason out objectively what makes you want someone, love someone.  So, as a first step try and avoid "reasoning" it out and second guessing yourself.  No one else can judge it better than you can - because you and only you can listen to your heart.\n\nPlease ask yourself a few things such as how patient he is, whether or not he is willing to take the time, whether or not he is willing to give you that time and space, if there are other intellectual or non-emotional reasons for this connection, etc.  We always put our best foot forward in the beginning of any relationship.  And a very common issue people deal with later on is "he or she is totally different now - I completely don't see that same person any more".\n\nIt's almost impossible to explain when or why you've fallen in love with someone.  But it is as easy to recognize it :-)  Just follow your heart and go for it.  Yet, be aware that not every relationship ends up successful.  If you are conscious and prepared for something to naturally/organically go wrong, at least you won't fall as hard if you ever end-up going wrong.\n\nGood luck.
235351
I have, Im with my soulmate and couldnt be happier....:D\n\nThe saying Love is blind couldnt be any more truer, he was right under my nose the whole time (my best friend)\n\nHe watched me have failed relationship after relationship for 4 years, he was my ear to listen and shoulder to cry on. Then one day it was like I had been slapped in the face by a dead fish. I had strong feelings for him over the 4 years but I realised I truly loved him. He felt the same way about me but we were both too shy to make a move. We both thought we never had a chance with each other.\n\nWhen you are looking for something sometimes you can become so obsessed with looking that you overlook. When you least expect it he will come into your life. The more you dwell on it the more you appear needy and scare people away. Just chill and be happy with your life and you will have the guys knocking down your door and I know Mr Right will be amongst them.........Good Luck
174217
There will always be a portion of me that is still attracted to my first love.  For some wierd reason, it's the purity of the feeling and it's new encounter.  It's like remembering your first kiss or a first lay.  You will remember it.  Why?!  When you first love someone, there's no bagging to bring you down.  It's all pure and new.  These days, before I can fall in love, I'm burdened by lots of factors.
298479
Make sure you fix yourself up.  Guys are more visually oriented.  Don't choose the first guy that comes around without first finding out his motives (that would be considered a desperate act - Don't be desperate).  It is possible for you to fall in love, but don't be looking for it at every turn.  Let it come to you!  If is not happening now, don't worry, maybe it is not supposed to happen now (ever think about that?)  Patience is the key.  \n\nIt is totally possible for someone to fall in love with you.\n\nBy the way, you need to work on your self-esteem.  That is something guys don't like.  You need to have some fun in your life (a better outlook on life makes you happier and more attractive!).
576635
you dont just find real love, it just happens. youll know when you found something real because you will feel it. But dont go searching for it because the right person will find you.
169847
very dificult to answer. Some people spend their whole lives searching and never find a perfect partner.
45639
friendship! even before I fall in love with someone, I'm always good friends with them first. And it doesn't matter how much money or material possessions one might have. How will they be happy if they have no one to share it with or keep it all to themselves?
153278
Yea.you just have to be patient.you'll find true love one day.love doesn't just knock on the door you know.you have to go out and find it!!
74737
i cant figure this out, but if you just need someone you will pretty much deal with a bunch of crap just to have someone around...i did it for over two years just cause i wanted someone there...while i was still with that person i met the man who became my husband...and i didnt know for sure then that he was the right person...love just has a funny way of sneakin up on you, and if your not sure then its not love...
208920
Luck, it depends on how you see it, may exist and it may not. I believe in luck. Sure, it has let me down sometimes, but it's still a good partner. You know what I mean?
103483
I kinda have been in your situation and I think you can really fall in love ...but you know ,in my case I was really in love with the guy ...I don't know how it could happen but he really changed my life ...cause I loved him so much ...and I learned alot from it ..really ..so I think that's really the point of it !everything happens for a reason and you have met each other so don't lose it try to get the best out of it you know try to make somehing from it ..learn why you have met her ...believe me you will find out alot of things about yourself and your life ...I still haven't seen him yet but if I could go back and live it all over again I would difinetely do the same thing cause I'm really changed now in a very better way ...hope I could help u :DGOOD LUCK
107518
It's diff. for everybody. Some have a lasting relationship with someone they felt that they're soulmates, some don't lasts. In my opinion, it's your soulmate if u don't even have 2 say anything and u both agree on something just by looking in their eyes.  You have that heavenly feeling everytime u talk, see, and be with that person.  When u meet the right one, you'll know, somehow it's built in inside our being that God put in us to find the special one.  It'll be hard 2 explain fully especially if you haven't experienced it, but just the state of euphoria that comes after you get 2 know the person. As if u can't breathe on your own anymore without him/her, and in your mind you'll do everything to be with him/her, no matter what!
174242
No a great relationship or a long term relationship does not just happen. maby you 2 are meant to be together but things like that dont just happen if both of u think u should be together forever then you both will have to work towards that its not something that just happens.
173831
People are forever saying 'Where've all the good men (or women) gone?' You'd think there was no-one left! Well it's not true. I know finding Mr - or Mrs - Right isn't easy. But there are ways to improve your chances. In fact romance is no different to any other part of your life. It's up to you to make things happen! So, forget all the myths - most of them are wrong anyway. And take charge of your love life. It may sound unromantic - but it works! \n\nThe thing is, your perfect partner isn't just going to appear out of the blue. I know we all believe in love at first sight. We like to hear stories about how people fall in love. We adore the idea of two people's eyes meeting across a crowded room. I'm not saying it never happens. Just not very often.\n\nMore often a long lasting love starts when you meet someone who shares your interests, respect and friendship. So a strategy for meeting people like that can pay dividends. Just about everyone wants love, but few work towards making it happen. They think it's a matter of luck.\n\nBut actually, luck has only a little to do with it! Do you remember the joke about the man who prayed every week to win the lottery. But nothing happened. Then one day, in the midst of his prayers, there's a huge clap of thunder and a voice boomed: 'How can I possibly help you? First you have to buy a ticket!' Just about everyone dreams of finding a soul-mate. But few plan for success. We just hope for the best. In fact most of us put more time and effort into planning a party!\n\nMarriages aren't made in heaven either. If they were, then the angels have made a lot of mistakes! God doesn't provide us with a mate. He gives us the ability to make choices. Mind you, many of us make rotten choices - especially when it comes to choosing a partner. So we need to learn how to make them more effectively. And not just to settle for the first likely person to happen along.\n\nBecause, there's loads of possible partners out there. Lots of people have the right characteristics - if you can only find them. So the trick's to get to know more people who match your needs. Then you can safely fall in love with any of them!