I have liked this guy ever since the 3rd grade and im now in the 9th... so i told him  how i felt and so we became friends and then when i asked him out he said no that he didint want 2 lose wut we had...Wut can i do i really love this guy alot...He is my life my world my everything?
202744
Leave it at that and just be friends, maybe in the future it will turn to more but don't force it or you could lose his as a friend.
170995
well if you really like him does it matter what your friends think? just follow your heart and it will lead you down the right path. i hope you make the right decision because it sounds like this guy really likes you.  just try it!!!! nothing will happen and if you really and truly like him and you want to stay with him tell your "friends" that they should accept him and if they refuse tell them " hey f**k off!" and just ditch their assiz if they don't like him but you do and their willing to give you up for a reason like that their not true friends. hope you take my advice and god bless!
384870
ask a friend to ask him... i did that and in the end he didnt like me but that was ok.. at least he didnt do it to my face... and i got over him in an hour even though i liked him for 3 years\n\n\nbut if you dont mind rejection than go ahead and do it!!
377283
Ask him out!  If you guys are friends, he probably already knows you like him.  If he's been cool with you so far, I don't think it's unwise to take the next step.  I don't know whether that makes you feel any better, but i hope this helps.
540789
Either you want him or you don't.  If you do, be blunt, honest and willing to lose him.  I wish you luck sweety.
185042
Go for it.  Life is to short to sit around womdering what might have been.  Ask him out on a date.  Maybe he doesn't see you as more than a friend because he doesn't want to lose your friendship.
33024
Hello, \nHow are you doing?\n\nLet me tell you a secret if you want a guy to admit his True Feelings instead of admitting them yourself, just adore him. \n\nI mean just adore him for everything he has done for you. For all those good times.\nFor all the fun you had when you talk to him.\nFor al the time he had helped you out.\nBottum line only adore him for all the good reasons but don't over do it.and thats if you really like him ofcourse as If he is the one.\n \nThe only thing was wondering personaly if you have seen him if not in person then atleast web came or internet conversation or something. there are a lot of Flerts/Frauds on the web too you.\n\nHe could be just shy you know, like I was, and my girlfriend did that to me, I felt special, and finaly have some guts to ask her out. Because All I wanted to know what do you think about me. If you would be some ussual girl he might would have not care for anything. 4 years seems a lot, WoW! What do you guys talk about?\n\nBut after you would adore him for that he wil get the idea and trust (if I'm not mistaken) Guys always go with the girl who make them Special.\n\nLet me know how it go?\n& yeah "NO KISS ON THE FIRST DATE.....lol!"\n"A NICE HUG WILL BE JUST FINE PLUS MYSTEIRIOUS"\nGOOD LUCK!
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Its from my personal experience i'm telling you this.. I've been crazy about a guy for over 4 years.. I did everything that you are doing right now.. I'm that kind of girl that can go babbling about anything and mostly i talk to guys only.. But i was completely unable to talk to the guy i liked.. Every time i see him i move away from that place.. It kinda made it look like i didn't like him.. But after 4 years i finally talked and he really liked me as well.. \n\nSo i'd suggest that you make the first move.. Jus ask her.. Maybe she already likes you and is waititng to be asked out.. \nDo your best..\n\nGood Luck Dude ;-)
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i don't think its love at all.... it seems like you have a crush and he wants to be friends with you. he is too old for you anyways. you are only 14 and 1/2 and he is too old. maybe it doesn't seem like it, but he is. of course he would talk to you he is a neighbor. neighbors always do that.  I'd say mutual respect. he may have a chrush on you, but wait till YOU are 17/18 to go out w/ him if you ever do.
352199
Yes, ask him out. You have more to gain than loose. If he says no it will not ruin your frendship unless you let it.
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I've fallen in love only once. Yesterday we broke up, I did it only because it was the right thing to do, yes, I got very hurt. Now I wanna fall out of live with him, if that's even possible. The problem is that love makes me always see all his good qualities, never the bad ones. I hope it's true what they say that time heals, 'cause I'm as sad as my avatar looks. As far as advices go, i don't really have any, love is a different experience for each person. Just enjoy it, take chances and live at 100%, you might get hurt, but otherwise, you might feel like you never lived in the first place. Thanks for letting me share, I know it's quite long. Good luck ;)
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Your question leave's me to believe your on a rocky road, very unstable. You have all the fact's, your the only one who can make the move's, stay or go, that is the question. From the way you phrased it, I would only think, maybe, you should move on. But, you only know how much love for this guy is in your heart. I truly wish you the best in your decission... Dr Checko... Nickname)
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You must be such a sweet girl and he seems one of your  good friends with you.\n\nPlease be natural, because he likes you the way you are, and I hope that your friendship between you and he will last from now on. \n\nPlease take your time and enjoy your life, being healthy and happy with him and with your good friends around you!  \n\nGood luck!
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You won't listen to this because you are young- but he is the 1st love, not the last. Forget the boys(I know that's hard to do). Concentrate on developing yourself to be a powerful, intelligent, and successful young lady. Trust me love is worth waiting for and it only becomes love after friendship and maturiy. You are 14/15...love will come when its right-he's hot, he'severything that keeps your mind away from yourself...love yourself for now and tell those boys who are waiting in line for you to hold on-you have you to think about at the moment. I hope that helps
108761
if your feelings are true and you admire him greatly then go out together. if your not sure if hes avaliable, ask him. if he is ask him out. if he doesnt like you the same way then thats just life. move on
17941
Pancharito is right! I know you want to be friends with him, but you are in love with him. You will always be tempted to just crumble and tell him you want more. But you have to respect his wishes before those of your own if you truly do love him. *sigh* That's the part of love that is so hard. You'll never really fall out of love with him. But distancing yourself will make things easier for you. Get involved in activities you love and it will take your mind off of your heart. Besides, you might make some great new friends through your outside involvement. I do wish you luck........I know it is hard!
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Hi Friend...that;s wonderful for you!  Nothing sweeter than falling in love! Okay...is he just shy or mysterious? If mysterious...then solve the mystery first which will help you know him better and also will not give you any shocks later! But then again...mysterious is always attractive they say. Anyway, if you love him so much and if you feel that he is the one for you...dont doubt whether you can win him or not! After all, he is your friend and you should know him well enough to tell him your feelings without losing the friendship! It's okay to be scared and have doubts but is never okay to let the moments go by lest someone else grabs him. Tell him today how you feel about him....go to the movies or go somewhere both of you are relaxed and enjoying it and then open your heart. Well, in the worst case, drop him a nice sweet loving card...but it's not that fun! Nothing like expressing your emotions face to face...for good or for the worse, still it's worth it! And if you feel that you would prefer to win his love first...then as a good friend, you would know what he likes the most and what his passions are and so go out of the way to make him feel that you have something for him..and if he feels the same about you which we all wish for you...Bingo! Good luck my friend...wish you loving stars all the way...