my husband is getting his results 2marrow for the MRI that he got , what if its somthing really bad , and something really bad happens to him , we have 3 kids , hes my foundation and i wouldnt be able to live life with out him.
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Trust in the Lord and give everything over to Him.\nHe will take care of you and your family. Tell Him what is bothering you and believe me, He will guide you.
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For the sake of your children and keeping your marriage, I would see someone.  This is deep seeded and if you don't seek counseling I'm afraid more "stuff" will push you into that black hole you won't be able to crawl out of and cause you to do something your family will suffer for later.  Go seek counseling BECAUSE you love your family.  I'm sure your husband will support you if he is a good man.  Best wishes to you.
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Hello.\nFirst, when you say doctor, do you mean a GP or a specialist?\nSecond, as you said, doctor ran no test or anything before saying it was epilepsy. So no wonder your husband feels upset and rightly so!\n\nI think you should calm down and calm him down and tell him to wait for all the test and results. At the end it could be nothing or nothing serious. \n\nYou should consult and specialist/neurologist because he is the best person to evaluate your hubby's situation. He will ask you or/and your husband when it start,what was his reaction,for how long did it last (the fit) etc. Only after having all this(and maybe other) information and a scan result EEG,MRI that the neurologist can actually say if he suffers from epilepsy and what type of seizures is he having.\n\nIf it is actually epilepsy then his life will change. He might not be able to drive or work with machinery which could affect his work. The medication that he will be on will,somehow,also affect him due to the side effects. Read very carefully all the leaflets.\n\nYou said that the scan is next week. Why don't you do some research about epilepsy on the net?\n\nI find this website very good. It has peoples story,how did they cope with it and tons of information about it.\n\nhttp://www.epilepsy.com/
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Wow..that was harsh!! He obviously wasn't ready for the long haul with you..(sorry if that sounds too terribly blunt) A lot of people have issues dating or marrying someone who they think cannot have kids. Everyone will deal with things in their own way but he couldn't have been the one for you if this has happened. Be glad you knew the outcome before you two got married. You see, what the doc said is only a possibility..not a fact. God gives miracles..keep your head up honey..everything will be fine.
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Your family comes first and I totally understand wanting to follow your dreams and you thought this medical career would help your family, but if both of you are not happy with this there will be big problems. Sit with your wife and talk this out and get some input from her and it will make her feel as part of this plan.............
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Go ahead, do what feels right. I noticed that when I follow that "feels right" thing, everything good happens. And when I don't.... Things get worse. IF YOU DO what's best for you, life will reward you. I don't know how it happens, but it does so every time. BE honest with yourself and your husband. THAT's the BEST way to go. And don't be afraid, things will work out for him too. Good luck!
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Good luck to you. My husband had a biopsy yesterday and we're supposed to get the results sometime tonight.
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See what the dr says first if he reccomends surgery then i would also get a 2nd opinion. I did and found out i had cancer I am fine today and fully recovered . Have never had it a 2nd time thank god . Hopefully never will. God bless you and your husband. Good luck to you as well.
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I understand how you feel, I get really upset with my husband when he looks at prn too. And I confront with it and we sometimes get into bad fights.
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I've never heard of anything like this before......before we started that aspect of our relationship my (now) husband got blue balls and felt really sick and chills and such.....maybe you hold out so long that that happens to you.  I am so sorry to hear that!
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I would be afraid, but if it was suggested to me by at least three different doctors, I would be inclined to do chemo.\nI am so sorry to hear of your mother-in-law's passing.\nIt is important to remember, though, that cancer is, indeed, a SILENT killer.  Even with all the technology and knowledge of today, doctors just aren't infallible.  They do commendable work, but they just can't hit the nail on the head every time.\nSo, so sad.  Continue being there for your husband and I sure feel badly for the loss of his mother.  I lost my mother from cancer and think of her EVERY SINGLE DAY, so I understand the "place" your husband is in.  It's the PITS.
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There may have been some nerve damage from the operation or temporary healing of the body.\n\nLet the doctor know about what is going on. It is best to learn about the operation in order to handle the after effects of surgery on your husband.
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Do you have family?  I would stay close to your family, and your husband's family, and lean on them as much as possible to help you through this, at least initially....
566690
I am sorry to hear of your misfortune, but I am sure that your doctor is giving you the correct information. If you feel that his response is not acceptable then go for a second opinion, it wouldn't hurt. I wish you all the best!
50974
Get him tested, you get tested and if you two plan on staying together this time. You two have to leave the pass, the what if's out of your starting over and coming back together as a family.
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If the operation prolongs life, even by a year or two, then yes. I'd also seek a 3rd and even 4th opinion. Are you the person with the cancer? Whoever it is, I'm deeply sorry. I know what it's like to have that horrible disease in the family. You'll come to the right decision and remember, sometimes miracles do happen. The very best of luck to you and yours
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Many things are possible. Keep up the hope and I'm sure that it'll happen. Wish you and your hubby all the best!