a guy told me he liked dirty talk, but I feel awkward...
217922
Most guys like to hear about your fantasies while you get it on. It's good to hear that your lady is human and sometimes doesn't think just about you. We men don't expect to be the only thing in your life that turns you on and are genuinely interested in hearing about the rest. It helps us to please you better and can bring a little rollplay into your bedroom antics!
141791
I think it's great that he wants you to do that and it's not "weird" at all.  To me it seems that he is still really attracted to ya!  I mean, it's not like he asked to start borrowing your underwear!!  I mean, just say what comes naturally.  Be sexy!  I am sure you know what to say deep down...practice saying it alone before you leave it on his phone.  And the one answer was cool...start with text messages :)   Good luck, and don't feel silly...he wants ya, girl!
532751
wow you must be hot. just don't laugh at him because he's probably still embarrassed update me after you talk
491583
It may be awkward, but going slow and talking about it both are best ways to find out. He may not know either, so may want to experiment. Talk about it before and after, so you both know if things were good and where things need to improve. \nIf you are feeling strange, 1. he will pick up on this. 2. imagine how he feels. He may wonder if you don't want to have sex with someone with his problems. Instead of silently wondering, try opening up with desire for him, and frustration at feeling strange and not wanting to hurt him. Tell him you want it to feel good for him.
133535
I know how you feel, it would make me feel scared and uncomfortable too. I think men take a different approach to things, we are more sensitive and think about things before we say them. You must also think that maybe he was just saying that she was hott, maybe he just thinks that she is attractive. I know that doesnt make you feel much better but try not to assume if you really like him approach him and talk to him about it. Just say that i heard you thought so and so was cute? As long as you approach him in a non accusing way i think that he should understand. If you can't face him then just find someone new :)
637205
once a guy ask me to talk dirty to him. I was thinking dirty why does he want me to talk dirty. So I said shit, dam, and hell.  I told my friend and she said no you didn't and I said yes I did. She told me that's not what he meant and she told me what he did mean.
192519
my boyfriend tried to do it once, and i felt like i'm going to poo or something. yet there's this good feeling but i still don't like it that much.. really makes me feel sooooo uncomfortable
339884
I am right there with you! That guy seems to have some weird notion that talking like that will turn a girl on. I've never understood why guys put stuff like that in their profiles. I can understand them talking about things like that once they've developed a relationship with a person, but putting it out there before they even know a person isn't really sending out the best message. But, in the end it's up to you. You may want to give him a chance and what he has to offer....he may just be all talk. He's at the age where he knows what he wants, maybe he's tired of playing games and just wants to put his "wish list" out there. :)
207114
My first impression is yes. However, it is not cool to jump to conclusions. You might want to confront him about it and ask him why he limits his times with you. During the talk you could tell him that you expect more. Tell him what you expect and if he is not willing to meet your expectation you might want to consider moving on. You deserve someone who cares about you for who you are and not for the good time you can show them. There is so much more to you than sex, and if a guy can't see that and acknowledge it, later for him.
99081
i had one guy actually say to me, "so you like me right?" and i was absolutely stunned. I DID, but it was just very awkward. see if you cant spend some time with her one on one and get a better feel for her.
524437
YES, a lot of guys are like this, and if you wanted more than a quick fling you should have made that clear before, not after.\n\nI think you're too young for this, even though you feel like you want it. Stick to boys your own age if possible, although that's still no guarantee of not getting hurt.\n\nWhen you're older, if you want casual sex, that's your choice, as long as you're careful, but for now this isn't a good idea. \n\nI know it's not easy when you're permanently horny, but remember to respect yourself or nobody else will.\n\n(PS, I don't want to sound rude, but are you sure this really happened, and you didn't just fantasise about it? Because if you did, then that's cool, best way to go about it.)
583315
I would not rush into anything that you are not comfortable with. If it doesn't feel right don't do it. Later you might change you mind. I wish you the best. Slow it down and think about it.
51679
I think thats why he called you a psycho right there... your reading to much into simple words and look how upset you have gotten yourself. A guy dealing with a chic like that...is not at ease, he always has to becarefull what he says to not freak you out. Maybe you have been a little clingy lately or something. Talk to him later on today, if everything seems fine then just blow it off as passing conversation. It sounds to me like he was trying to make light of you missing him, a form of trying to cheer you up, or maybe just trying to get you to talk about something less sad/depressing. No worries though, ask him about it when your feeling more calm.
323201
I know exactly how you feel!Only in kind of a tighter position. Just look at my Q & A.But since your the guy,YOU need to make the first move.Dont be shy,it sounds like you guys really like each other.
491802
Words are cheap.  Obviously his actions are speaking much louder than his words...\n\nSounds like he said just what you wanted to hear so he could get into your pants..  Once conquered he has lost interest.  You are a notch on his belt.\n\nI'm sorry this happened to you.  Move on and learn from your mistake.
487040
he probably thinks that u like it. Maybe you should talk to him and tell him you know i really love it when you touch me but sometimes i feel it is inapropriate and a little too much..
483422
i think he just wanted p*ssy. he just likes you as a friend. he feels awkward because he thinks you are all on him. give him some space. and flirt with other guys and see what happens.