i want to but I am really scared...
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You know when you are ready to accept all the consequences: the good and above all, the bad. When you think you are ready to raise a child if you get pregnant, or to live the rest of your life with a sexual transmitted disease like aids and syphilis. If the guy then is worth it and you are prepared to tell your child why you had him/her, then go for it. If you can't accept the possibility and probability of any of the above, then don't.
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Give your self permission to face fear, even if it's scary.  Then forgive yourself for feeling fear and guilt if (when) it happens next time.  Old habits die hard sometimes.\n\nStart with baby steps.  Learn from mistakes.  Go back to the beginning if you need to.  You don't fail this way; you only learn.  Failure becomes a learning experience.  Success, step by step, is inevitable.   There's no rush; remember that.\n\nLove ya.\n\ndakotanroscoe
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You should talk to your girlfriend, explain that your nervous and why your nervous, she might be able to put you mind at ease. Or if you feel to uncomfortable just say you can't make it. No point going away if your not going to enjoy it : )
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You shouldn't be scared... although it's no small matter. Just try to live your life to it's fullest, and make sure you tell loved ones what they mean to you.\ntruthfully, probably everyone has a mental disorder, diagnosed or not. we're in a pretty screwed up world, and we're pretty screwed up people.
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try looking at the skirts and blouses last. maybe take a cooking class, joining the theater class. Put yourself in the middle of the fear. things will get better.
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Confront your fears and make a strong stand.  You don't know how good it really is until you try.  Just don't change your mind again once you do what you do.
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Being scared will never take you too far. You should take charge! Come up with something you both will enjoy doing, and smile more. You need to take the initiative into your own hands, and start having fun. Also, know when it is the time to be serious, and attentive. He will always appreciate your concern.
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You need to tell your dad how scared you are and he can't leave you responsible.  Speak to him, please.\n\nIs there another family member you can confinde in?\n\nThis isn't your burden to bear hun, I feel so bad for you.\n\nSpeak to someone who can help you, please. x
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I am reluctant to do this.
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If you are already having negative feelings about it then I would suggest you do some research. It is almost impossible to accomplish if you fear it. You will defeat your own efforts. There is nothing evil or devilish about it. God gave us these abilities so that we could connect.\nlove n light\nsharon
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tell him straight that he dont stand a chance.mention to him that he's scaring you..just tell him what you really fee..but in a nice way ok? goodluck!
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i'm scared and a little bit turned on..all at the same time
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Hey.. you sound so sweet! \n\nSometimes you need to step out of your comfort zone and face your true fears. If you dont your not really going to grow and develop.\n\nI really dont see what options you have in this situation. Be confident, relax and have fun and people will want to be around you.\n\nGood luck
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Nope.  You have had proper recent assessments.  Please don't  worry so.  There is no reason to be scared.  Good luck to you.  RN
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Yes!  You are already there all the time.  Go for it.  Those words will come out when he is ready.  It only matters that you feel it...not that he says it.  He's just probably too scared right now.  Good Luck!
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Im terrified of commiting...to anything! Im so scared that I'll make the wrong decision, that I dont make any decision at all? Strange.
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My dear , you should go & get help from the doctor , don't be scared . I am here to give you support .