want to find a man thats caring, loving, honest is a must, and loves kids and wants something serious no games
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They are very hard to find but don't loose hope.  You may have already passed a few good ones bye.  The question may be on yourself.  I know it was on my shoulders after I asked the same question at the same age with the same situation.  I got involved with playing volleyball and then joining a health club and going to church on a regular basis.  I picked apart each and every guy I got a date with.  I finally realized that they must be doing the same to me and then started to look at myself and decided that there are faults in all including myself so I needed to look for someone that wasn't what everyone else thought was great.  I needed to find the greatness in the man of my dreams.  And 2 years later found him.  He loved my daughter as his own.  We have now been married for 9 years with 3 more children, and it is as good as it was when we first met.  Good luck to you and hopefully you too will find the man of your dreams.
44851
don't know about the others as i usually don't have many female friends but i know for me someone who shows interest in some of the things i do, someone that i can hold a conversation with, someone that will hold the door for me. he's got to be caring, non judgemental, open minded, open to trying new things (doesn't mean in the bedroom), fun loving, lives life to the fullest, willing to take care of me as i would take care of him. looks aren't all that important but to have a good relationship there is definately a need for a physical attraction but over all it's how he carries himself. if he's sure of himself then i know i can be sure of him.
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I AGREE WITH YOU IAM 25 AND A SINGLE MOTHER AND LOOKING FOR A MAN TO BE WITH ME THE REST OF MY LIFE BUT I TOO SEEM TO HAVE THAT PROBLEM I BELIEVE THE BEST THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT.  YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.
459903
I want someone who is kind, loving, affectionate and a good comumicator.\nHaven't found him yet...so I guess he just doesn't exist.
169702
You have me CONFUSED here... you mean to tell me you are more interested in finding someone i.e. a date? (correct me if I am wrong) Than getting your CHILDREN back??? Finding a man should be the LAST thing on your mind I would think, if he has taken your kids, I would fight to my death for my kids?????\n\nYea... you know I really wonder what's going on here... I mean if your kids are 6 & 8 and you were only with him for 3 years... the Math doesn't add up.  Is he even the father of these kids?  And there must have been some problem if the courts took them away.  Maybe you should spend some time working on you before looking for a man or even considering getting your children.  It sort of sounds like they might be better off with their Father if that's the case or where ever the judge decided to send them.  My BEST suggestion is to work on YOU and the rest will come don't go looking for another MAN just yet.  GOOD LUCK!
627849
take you time. when you find the right one it will happen naturally.... your young enjoy being a kid.. life is too quick.....
592275
well , it depends what you realy need in a man, if you're looking for some1 to take care of you and love you and your kids , you need to look where you don't even expect to find him.\ntry parks , by the lake ,........... at movie theaters.....
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no one is perfect and when you realize that you'll be happy with what you choose ,but the qualities i look for is honesty,caring faithful,a good sense of humor fun to be with ,someone who will love me for who i am not what i look like not that i look bad,my point being that outside looks are not all that important it is how you are as a person inside that counts.someone to respect me and care for me when i'm sick,a man who can give me space when i need it.love me unconditionally,and i must do all of the above for him.by the way i have found a man just as i have described and i have had him for 30 yrs and i hope you to find your ideal mate good luck
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What I look for in a man is for him to be honest, ready to have a serious relationship, a great personality, ability to communicate, basically all the necessary stuff. As far as looks or how he is at sex, I would have to say looks. There has to be some sort of physical attraction for sex to even happen. I am lucky enough to have a man that has it all. Great personality, easy to be with, extremely good looking, and incredible at sex. Usually, if the relationship is good, then the sex sucks...or, if the sex is great, the relationship sucks, but lucky for be both the sex and relationship are great!
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Relax, it won't be easy but there are good guys out there who are interested in dating a woman like you.  When I was single, I had no problem with dating a woman who had kids.  The key is to be picky and always put your kids first.  Unfortunately there are a lot of bad people out there who will try to prey on you and your kids so don't put up with any crap and don't settle for anyone less than what your looking for.
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yes, and he will vary for every woman.  You may have to look for a while, but he is out there.  Look for characteristics in guys that stand out.  For instance, if they value a family, they might take any mother joke very seriously.  If they are kind natured and gentle, look for them to treat every person they meet with respect.  Whatever things you like in a man, look for them coming out in his life when you see him.  Good luck, I hope that helped.
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Very caring, respectful of women, nice looking, funny, never down, makes me laugh, loves to hug and kiss me, show me off to friends and public, honors me, adores me, makes a living (not a bumb), always says what he means and means what he says, never lies!  Hmmmm, wonder if there is someone out there like this?
569182
An honest, loyal guy who will respect me, treat me well, love me for me, respect and love my family, have a good sense of humor, and a great personality... the list goes on, but those are just the basics.  Oh, and of course, you've gotta' have chemistry. :)
578831
ALL!!! His looks, personality, religion and other things like his job, how many kids he wants and if he treats me right!!!
24187
Well when I look for a man, I look for someone I can be "me" around. Someone who is attractive in his only way. Someone nice, a little cocky. Nice truck or car is a bonus, but he has to be able to make me laugh.
562709
I want a guy who's sweet,honest,sensitive to my feelings,loyal, and will be willing to risk his life just to save mine.