i want to know because i still luv him and sometimes he seems to love me back, and sometimes he doesn't. how do i know? this question goes for everyone but especially 4 u boys.
211709
Well first of all give yourself space from him. I know you dont want to but it is impossible to heal when the wound is constantly being reopened.\n\nDo things for yourself make yourself feel good. Long baths with nice music,shopping trips,good books,funny movies etc.\n\nAlso give it time. It will feel better!!!
378041
I am in love, with a man that i broke up with 5 years ago, he started seeing someone else 4 months after however we were still sort of seeing each other casualling for 3 years.\n\nEverytime we speak, the spark is still there, he is the person i compare everyone to, he will always be my number one and he knows it. He says the same thing about me.\n\nOnly time will tell.
196356
If you're not sure, you probably don't. I mean, you might like his company and have a comfort level with him that you could confuse with love. But when you're in love with someone, you know. It's not something you have to sit around and think about.\nSo, basically, no one can tell if you love your boyfriend, only your heart.
7755
hey girl, its alright. the easiest way to find out is to just ask him. use your woman's intuition to judge his response. i got other ways if you're REALLY concerned.
25913
Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...
22041
so that is where your problem lies by not knowing if he also likes you. you can feel and sense it if he has a feeling for you but if you really wanted to know his true feelings towards u, ask him point blank and prepare for the consequences.
145401
How would that mean you still have feelings for each other?  The fact that you are even asking this question shows me you still have feelings for him.
586054
I think if you truly feel that you love this guy, you would wait until he gives you a sign that he feels the same way.  If he is not in the same page as you are, then telling him how you feel about him might scare him away.  Or worse, he might not feel the same about you, yet.  Be patient, you will feel it when it's right.  \nBest wishes,
292479
Ok I've said this before to others and I'll say it again. The best way to find out is to just ask. Start out by just jokingly playing around or something. But then if he plays back with you then it's serious.
234780
it sounds like you still love him have you tried talking to him about any of this. i think you should confess your love for him
585839
Saying I love you isnt as powerful as showing it. If he is still treating you the same then you have nothing to worry about. One of the important things in a relationship is trust, if you dont have that then the relationship is doomed to end. Either you trust him and stay with him, or you dont and you move on.
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If he always treats you with respect, kindness, understanding, trust, honesty, and is willing to compromise and to communicate his thoughts and feelings openly with you, I think that he loves you. If he is all of these things, all of the time, I do think it is love! If he never tries to hurt you, and he continually puts into the relationship as much as you, I think that's love!
122243
Unless you can feel what he feels you'll never truly know.  If you love him as much as you say then you should trust him to tell the truth when he says he loves you.  \n\nAsk him to describe what he feels for you.
576486
u can tell if he's all u think about and if u walk in a room full of guys with him hes the only guy u see. I u smile everytime u think about him if u can't go a day without hearing his voice. if just seeing him everyday makes ur day. I can relate to u because im in love with my bf and its hard to explain its like u just know that ur in love. Good luck with u and the guy ur in love with. Only u will know if ur truly in love can't nobody tell u if ur in love
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Ask him how he feels about you and think about how long yall been dating. Think about why you love him cuz alot of ppl be sayin they love somebody and cant back it up with the reason why they love that person. Think about all the things yall have done together and do yall enjoy each. Think about your relationship structure and have you ever been in a relationship with somebody that you said you loved before and what was their outcome. Ask him how he felt about you saying that to him and why he said ok instead of saying it back. Ask him about his past and has he ever been heart by someone who he thought he loved.\n\nThats it my wrist is gettin tired but good luck though.
542295
try to find out if he still feels the same about you... if he doesnt, then move on... if he does love you, have courage to tell him that you are now in love with him.....\njust dont ever make him feel like he has no dignity or self-respect as you have already said no to him once.\nhe might be really hurt OR seeking revenge (not trying to scare ya)
614508
Do it! maybe he still has feelings for you too! Perhaps you can work it out....or at least find out if the sparks are still there. right!?