ok brittany is one of mi best friends and i want to trust her but she keeps lyin to me and her exuse when i figure out that she is lyin all she has to say is"i lied cuz ur gullible" and i cant take this any more she is goin through a rough time her boyfriend broke up with her six months ago but they were goin out for a year and she really loved him and she still does so i guess im askin two questions here how do i trust her again and how do i help her not cry when she listens to wake me up when september ends{they broke up in sept.}and she also cries when she hears the song the dance by garth brooks and for those of u who arent fans green day sings wake me up when september ends and she listens to i cant unlove you by kenny rogers so plz help im in need of desparate help oh and her ex boy friend is named daniel
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She shouldn't lie to a friend at all especially if ya'll are both best friends. About her boyfriend, I know it's hard but look he has prabably has moved on by now and she needs to too. He was just her boyfriend, that didn't mean he was going to be with her 4 the rest of her life. She wouldn't like it if u lied to her so tell her how u feel and that she needs to stop!
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If this is your best female friend, its hard to believe that you havent been 'out' already. Thats what best friends do..... Surely by now you have a relationship that is based on mutual trust and understanding. Just talk to her and tell her how you feel. Keep it low key and make sure that she understands that you are cool with whatever response comes your way. If you cant handle the answer then its best you move on anyhow. Best friends trust each other with their emotions - this one should be no different. You'd kick yourself if later on you discovered she was thinking the same as you but neither of you had the hutzpah to speak up. Carpe Diem - seize the day!
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Hey, I'm actually at the opposite end of your situation and just found out that I had been lied to about her past for a good 18 months. It's really hard and I don't know what to do. I was absolutely head over heals for this girl, and now mentally it is starting to crumble because I don't know they truth. She also won't talk about it because it bothers her too much, which in turn makes me feel extremely guilty when I need questions answered Unfortunately, her unwillingness to be open about it is driving my stress levels ridiculously high. \nI guess, from my perspective, what I wanted her to do most was to ask for forgiveness, which she never did. It's been nearly 4 months since the incident and she still hasn't asked. I wanted - needed - that.\nI also just wanted her to be honest. Completely honest. People are so bad about telling white lies or playing down the truth and that's what makes the imagination run wild.\nI think the best thing you could do is to comfort her. Ask her to forgive you for what you did (if you're sorry). And be willing to answer any questions she may have - letting her know she may get answers she doesn't want to hear.\nI think, after that, if she can't get over it, she'll never get over it. I'm debating that option now.\nIf she's not going to get over it, you will have to make the realization that there are more girls out there (billions) and you'll find one that will be more accepting and just as great as this one.\n\nI wish the best to you and I hope my experience has helped your insight. Good luck!
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Honey, please don't tear yourself up.  Remember, that you are a valued person, your have a life that can be beautiful. Don't let her use you, respect yourself, where is your self-esteem? Next time she calls, be polite and considerate, but let her know that you have your own life and she isn't in it.  Politely tell her to find another ex to cry to.You my friend are worth so much more than to be used as a sounding board. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and find someone who appreciate you for you . Please, do this for yourself.  I found someone I adore and am adore back, we would nerve be disrespectful of each other as she is to you.  Take a long hard look at yourself, you are one hell of a women. Someone out there is dying to meet you.
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''best friends means i pulled the trigger, best friends means you get what you deserve.''\nit's about two best friends but one of them(John) had an affair with the others(Jesse) girlfriend so now they hate each other. the lyrics from the cd 'TellAllYourFriends' arent the EXACT lyrics to the song. it's kind of like a diary entry with the song verses stuck somewhere in it. so it describes what it's about and how the friend is feeeling. \n\n-- the song is a reply to jesse lacey's song 'seventy times 7' from the band Brand New.\n\n-- it was between Jesse Lacey (Brand New frontman) and John Nolan (TBS backup singer, guitarist) & john nolan is no longer part of TBS.\n\n-- the point of Jesse's song being titled 'seventy times 7' was that he forgave John.\n\n-- the popular verse in 'seventy times 7' is there because when Jesse & John were angry at each other those words were actually said by Jesse on the phone. ''Is that what you call tact?\nYou're as subtle as a brick in the small of my back.\nSo let's end this call and end this conversation.''\n\nTaking Back Sunday\nThere's No 'I' in Team\n\nWell I can't regret, \ncan't you just forget it? \nI started something I couldn't finish \nAnd if we go down, \nwe go down together \nbest friends means, \nwell best friends means \n\nAnd I've got a twenty-dollar bill \nthat says you're up late night starting \nfist fights versus fences in your backyard \nWearing your black eye like a badge of honor \nSoaking in sympathy \nfrom friends who never loved you \nnearly half as much as me \n\nBroken down in bars and bathrooms \nAll I did was what I had to \nDon't believe me when I tell you \nit's just what anyone would do \nTake the time to talk about it \nThink a lot and live without it \nDon't believe me when I tell you \nit's something unforgivable...ohoh \n\nWell I can't regret, \ncan't you just forget it? \nI started something I couldn't finish \nIf we go down, \nwe go down together \nbest friends means, \nwell best friends means \n\nYou never knew \nwell i never told you... \nEverything I know about breaking hearts \nI learned from you, it's true \nI've never done it with the style and grace you have \nBut I've made long term plans \nbased on these mistakes \n\nBroken down in bars and bathrooms \nAll I did was what I had to \nDon't believe me when I tell you \nit's just what anyone would do \nTake the time to talk about it \nThink a lot and live without it \nDon't believe me when I tell you \nit's something unforgivable \n\nIs this what you call tact? \nI swear you're as subtle as a brick in the small of my back \nso let's end this call, \nand end this conversation \nthere's nothing worse... \n(that's right he said, that's right he said it) \nI swear, you have no idea \nThe jealousy that became me thinking \n(that's right he said) \nthat you always had it way too easy \n\nBroken down in bars and bathrooms \nAll I did was what I had to \nDon't believe me when I tell you \nit's just what anyone would do \nTake the time to talk about it \nThink a lot and live without it \nDon't believe me when I tell you \nit's something unforgivable \n\nBest friends means I pulled the trigger \nBest friends means you get what you deserve \nBest friends means I pulled the trigger \nBest friends means you get what you deserve \nBest friends means I pulled the trigger \nBest friends means you get what you deserve \nBest friends means I pulled the trigger \nBest friends means you get what you deserve \nBest friends means I pulled the trigger \nBest friends means you get what you deserve \n\nBest friends means I pulled the trigger!!! \nBest friends means you get what you deserve!!!\n\n\nBrand New\nSeventy Times 7\n\nBack in school they never taught us, \nWhat we needed to know. \nLike how to deal with d
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You are one great guy. Wish I knew some more like you. Let her have some time to get over her ex and then when the time is right to hint to her again you'll know. The only warning I would give is, don't give too much of yourself that you may be hurt- eg giving her money when she may never want you two to be anything more than "good friends" don't let her use you because if she things you still like her but are a soft touch and if she's feeling hurt right now, it might be 2nd nature for her to crave attention even when she may not want the same sort of attention that you have in mind to give her (ie.g/bfriend type) All the best and know that the right one is out there for you even if its not her. You sound like a great support to her when she needed someone most, but don't neglect your own needs  :)
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ok this is fro the girl above me \nhow could Brendon be looking over your sholder \nwhen i know for a fact \nthey arent even in the west coast\n4 days ago they played a show in new jersey\nday before that they were in NY\ni dont think that Brendon has the the time \nto fly back to vegas a pretty much 6 hour flight \njust to look over your sholder when some one asks a question about him\nand he isnt that mean\nso yea just saying there is nooooooo way you could of seen him \nthe last time i got to hang with him \nwas the last time they were in vegas \nsorry hun i just dont believe you
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Never heard the song huh? \nViet. vet going off to war , no girlfriend, asks waitress to let him write, she's O.K wit it, He writes, she reads, soldier dies , girl cries at his funeral.  The chorus is at least repetition..Lyrics and chords on link.  Song written by Bruce Robison. Bro n law to Emily Robison, D/C Banjo, Dobro & b/u vocals.  Good luck and get some sleep.
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Dude, I am sorry. It sounds like she is just like me. I have put my boyfriend through serious heartache because dumb me doesn't know what I want. You really need to move on and when she's ready, she'll quit playing her games and come back to you or find out that you're not the one. She's young and she's still trying to find out who she is, like me, and she's keeping you on the back burner to make sure you're worth holding on to. If you just back off and get on with your life, things will fall into place. But still love her and pray for her, but go out and have fun!!!
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Well, her boyfriend is a loser if he's breaking up through a freaking note! That should give her a lot of comfort knowing he's lame.  Just letting her know you're there for her and if she needs to talk or just needs someone's shoulder to cry on you're there.  Sometimes people need someone to listen to them or just be in the same room without anyone talking.  Also, Ben & Jerry's icecream is the BEST cure ever.  Have a girs' night out when she's ready.  Let her know life isn't over and that her boyfriend is the one who is at loss! Who writes notes to end an important relationship?? Like I said, his loss.
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I think in this situation I think perhaps you ought to take Kym out for a day (or however long you can) and spend some quality time with her (doing mainly the things you two enjoy but more particularly the things she likes).  Whilst you are out with her, I think you ought to remind her how much she means to you and that you value her as a friend.  I don't think you ought to talk about Aurie too much or this will irritate her.  Why don't you try thinking (note, think for the time being) about the things Aurie and Kym actually have in common.  It is often that people who are enemies actually have a lot in common.  Then, when you have common grounds for the three of you, work on it, suggest the three of you go out and do whatever it might be.  Hopefully, this will help Kym overcome her jealousy over Aurie and make the three of you bond.  Good luck.
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I did this with one of my bf and finally my best friend said you know your my best friend and I love to hear about your life but enough is enough and I didn't even realize I was doing it and i was so glad that she let me know instead of just letting it go on. Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel most likely she doesn't even really even know how often she really talks about him.
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I would be glad that you guys are still friends and just keep her close. Let her feel not just know that you are there no matter what....when guys do her wrong...or when she's scared...or sick or just needs someone to listen to her. That's more then anything you could give her at this time. She'll soon see if the love is true that you've been buy her side ever since...in due time. Both of you will grow and she'll see that so whatever rocky issues you guys had, you now can get over how-ever you all choose.
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Just because things went wrong with his relationship with your friend doesnt mean it wont work out for you and him.  SHE could just be telling u things to make u not trust him so you dont go out with him.  NEVER EVER listen to other people!  always go on your own judgement and what he tells u himself!  She was all moddy because she is still hurting  from the break up.  So of course she will be moody and a little upset for awhile.  I say things could work for u and him as long as u stop listening to other people and judge him for himself!  Good luck to u
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Comfort your friend and tell her NOT TO DO ANYTHING! As in completely nothing... Tell her not to call her boyfriend, not to go to the guy's place, not to talk with his friends, anything that has to do with the guy. Play cool and she should act as if he's not a big loss. DON'T EVER MAKE HIM FEEL SPECIAL. You're all good and he's not the center of her universe. She was born without him anyway plus he is just an OBSTACLE. She'll get over him. Just always be there for your friend. Oh how I hate cheaters! Plus I believe in carma... I say good luck to that di*khead
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Honey, You no in your heart what she is doing to you. I no it hurts and the whole thing sucks but we all been through it.It's right there in our face and we refuse  to see it.If you keep after her she will tell you point blank that she doesn't love you any more and she has been seeing her ex for awhile now.Don 't let her do that to you,beat her to the punch.Tell her you don't care what she does because you have been seeing someone for over 6 months now and you love her.I no you won't take my advise. You don't no me but I am giving you good advise so please take it. I hope everything works out for you.If the pain gets to hard for you, don't think about tomorrow take it a minute at a time or a hour what ever it takes. Don't let this girl get the best of you.
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The only way to trust her is if she earns it, she lost it with all those lies. \n\nI would not trust you or the "best friends". \n \nYou are all talking s^%& about your girl. \n\nSo what?  True or false, you are being just as immature. \n\n(sorry I have issues with any man that would call someone his sig. other then talk about her behind her back to other people NO MATTER WHAT. Are you talking to girls???? Her 'best' friends are telling you her buisness???? \nWhy should'nt she lie to all of you. \nnone of you deserve the truth or obvoiusly can not handle it)