0K S33, IV3 KNOWN DIZ KID 4 ABOUT 2 YRZ NOW. WE"VE B33N BEST FRIENDz 4 MOST OF DA TIME WE KNEW EACHOTHR. ABOUT A MONTH AGO HE ASK ME OUT TO HIZ SENIOR PROM nd ABOUT A W33K L8R ASK ME TO B HIZ GURL. OF COURSE I SED YEA, TRYNA B NICE. DIZ WAS ONLY ABOUT 2 MONTHZ AFTER I GOT OUT OF MAH LAST RELATIONSHIP, ND I REALLLLLY LIKED THAT BOY. BUT I DONT LIKE HIM LIKE DAT, I ONLY C US AS FRIENDZ BUT NOW IM WORRIED DAT IF I BREAK UP WIT HIM WE WONT EVEN B THAT NEMORE. HEz A SENIOR {IMA SOPHOMORE} SO HEz GOIN TO COLLEGE NEXT YEAR NEWAY. SO SHOULD I JUZZ STAY WIT HIM TILL JUNE WEN HE GRADUATEZ or BREAK IT OFF WIT HIM NOW B4 HE GROWz NE NEW F33LINGZ? I REALLY DONT THINK I CAN WAIT BUT I COULDNT STAIND TO C HIM HURT LIKE DAT ... PLUS HEz MOVIN A LIL T00 FAST 4 MEH.\n\nP.S. ii THINK I MAY B A LESBIAN??? N0T SUR3 TH0 ... 0H nd I DONT HAVE NE1 ELSE IN MIND RIGHT NOW ,, I JUZZ WANNA B SINGLE 4 A WHILE
213673
okay first of all all that was not really hard to read its a slang way to write...so yall can stop being so fuckin mean shit
208874
This is what I think (and it's just an opinion)\n\nHe suddenly realizes that he has no date for the prom. You have been emailing each other, so he figures he will ask you out. \n\nThis is what you should do:\n\nFind someone else to go to the prom with. If he really likes you, he will make it known during or after the prom is over. \n\nWhy should you do this:\n\nFor one, you need to teach him that you will not always be there for his last choice. Second, he needs to know that he made a not so good decision for dumping you (and the prom will do just that, when he see's you dancing with someone else.) And three, this will test the both of you and make one or both of you realize that you have feelings for one another.\n\nGood Luck!
586595
I don't think she'll wait on you....college is one big party, and it's a time in your life for self discovery and adventure, and you two are so young anyway, you should both just go your seperate ways for now, and if it's mean to be, it will be, just stay in touch and stay "friends" and it will all work out in the end if it's suppose to. Who know's you may find someone else you're more interested in after two years!
583722
Well maybe this "other girl" he likes is you. Some men give complicated signals like that. And I honestly think your friendship is over since you like him in romance way. So you have nothing to lose. You can not live all your life wondering what would happen if you have asked. So I think you should stand for what you want and ask him out. If he wants you too then it is alright but if he does not I still think your friendship will not be over. Cause you were dating before too and after break up you are still friends. I think everything will be fine just ask him. Good luck.
465850
well, unfortunately you have to do the right thing and so does he.  He already told this girl he would go with her.  The proper thing for him to do is to say to this other girl "look I kind of like this other girl (you) and we just started going out".  "Maybe you can try to find someone else to go to homecoming with but if you cant we can still go as friends".\nGood luck!
472695
I take it you are in high school. You have a very long life to go and thinking you just cant make it over a high school crush is ridiculous. Everything happens for a reason and if it is meant for you to go to different schools then so be it. I not thinking that it is to serious if he doesn't want to admit that you are going out and you cant even talk about the fact you might be dating. I suggest that you go your separate ways and enjoy life as it happens and if it ends up working to be with this guy than so be it.
416039
Yeah darlin' it sounds like you're feelings are stronger than his at this point, sorry.From his point: I think it's hard to be best friends w/ a member of the opposite sex when you're  involved with someone. He may feel like he's betraying her. She may be putting some sort of pressure or negative input. \nAbout you  feeling "used" when he comes back after their break up... (which BTW their future break up is 99.9% probabable, statistically)..though I do see your point,  if you understand human nature, and as you get older you'll see this same thing again and again, very common, because people change, life is change. Change can be difficult, especially in relationships. \nNow as for numbering your friends in a ranking system, and should you call him this lable or that lable... I think once you guys can get past that "disastrous system" and began to see all the people that you really enjoy being around as your "closest friends" without the number/lable system, I believe there will be a lot less hurt feelings and heartache between all of you. Not saying we didn't do the same exact thing when I was your age,and it sucked being  #2,3 or 4 then, just as it does now. But since I did survive my teen years, I want to share that with you! My advice to you is to be the best friend that you feel comfortable with being to him, and her, without crossing the boundaries and getting into their "relationship space". He's your friend, she's your friend until either of them stops being what you consider to be a friend, at which time they are no longer a friend...\nMeanwhile use YOUR energy on YOU not him!  Good luck girl...
527066
WHOAH!!!!\n\nthis had red flags all over it. you are interested in another "boy" that has a girl and is friends with your current boyfriend.... if you are trying to create your own soap opera you are on the right track but in reality this is a huge recipe for disaster. friendships and relationships are at stake here and people will get hurt. if you want to date other people look outside the group so the drama does not dissrupt the group. you are puting alot of relationships at stake here! friends will choose sides, rumors will start. its not looking good. if you are in high school steer clear of this situation because it could ruin your high school experience. dont be drama. be the bigger person. be an adult. and as ironic as this sounds DONT BE HIGH SCHOOL!
392625
I would continue the crush from afar and consider a relationship in the future when you are no longer his student.  If you are so attracted to each other then you can wait until it is appropriate for you to date him.  And in the meantime, how about dating one of your peers -- a fellow student.
45204
1) Independent of your decision on what to do with the boy who was expelled you should break up with your boyfriend.  It sounds like you just aren't that into him, and that should be your reason for breaking up, not because some other guy asked you out.\n2)  Steer clear of bachelor number two as well, for two reasons\n    1)  He is asking you out when he knows that you already have a boyfriend, which should tell you that \n           a) he doesn't respect relationships\n           b) he is the kind of guy who would impede on another man's happiness\n    2)  This guy has been expelled from high school, and I know that it's difficult to think of the future when you are at an age where the present seems so all-consuming.  But if you project his current actions and attitudes into the future, odds are this guy will be pumping gas / flipping burgers for the rest of his life if he isn't serving time.  \n\nSo to sum up:  \nDump your current boyfriend\nDitch your suitor\nFind a guy whom you like and likes you back.  There are over THREE BILLION guys out there, you can afford to be picky, you WILL find one who has whatever you are looking for.
163931
ok, he chose his friends over you.  What else do you need? He obviously doesnt like you "enough".  you will have many, many opportunities after school, high school can be horrible when u r not one of the "popular crowd members"...ride it out, you will become a swan after graduation....keep smiling
310546
if he is not leaving for college what's the problem. you will have plenty of time for your parents to change there mind. if they like him ask him over for dinner with everyone. if that doesn't work out do not worry time is on your side. life will bring you many things to come. enjoy today if he likes you he will be there tomorrow. if not it maybe was never meant to be. what you want today is not always what you want tomorrow. there are plenty of fish in the sea.
67964
Move on baby , hook up the lovy at school andlet the guy in the  joint enjoy  the  joint .Time is always  short being young means freedom  to  choose , a boy friend is just  a boy friend not a husband you still  have  your  options all open to experince  other people .\n\nThe boy playing watch dog should be  informed that  he is stepping your  rights and he already knows  that so he will not  stay longer , just confirm to him  that you are moving on  that will be enough for him.
565
you said that you still like him but you didn't mention if he still likes you and i think he would not get involve with someone else if he is still interested in you.i can suggest that you focus on other things, instead of constantly thinking of him in class why not focus more on your studies, enroll in music or art classes. keep yourself busy until you heal and ready to get into another relationship. good luck:)
511360
gurl please. dont allow urself to be hurt again. MOVE ON! find a new crush.
330575
Do not end the friendship with him, but don't pursue him romantically either. Guys come and go, but best friends should be forever.  \n\nHowever, if he likes you and HE makes a move, talk to your friends about this and ask if they think it would be okay, because they would likely say yes, and you get to be with him and keep your best friends.\n\nBut if you make a move, your best friends may not like you so much anymore, and if he doesn't return the feelings, then you have no best friends and no boyfriend.
110502
Stick with him, until you do find someone better. But eitehr way, be his friend and be open to eventually being more than friends with him. Except in high school, what grade one is in, is irrelevant to age.