And I've already tried talking to him about it, we always just get into it with each other, and he doesn't get my point, he tells my friends lies, and he just won't leave my life and me alone, please tell me a way to get rid of him forever!!
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best way is to have a new bf and let him tackle this situation. guys are bulls, they fight and they decide once for all. i m ready to pretend to be ur bf, just let me know......i will kick his....
673003
Ignore him.  Really.  Do not respond in any way to anything that he does.  Any response is attention, and that is all he needs to think he still has a chance.  He will get tired of it after a while and stop.
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tell that person, but try not to be mean. tell that person that you don't like him and that you think of him as a regular friend only. if he get REALLY annoying, then just tell that you can't stand him and that he should stop what ever it is that he is doing and just leave you alone.
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The first thing to do is get away from him....he obviously is not good at all for your life. Someone can either add to your life and help u be a better person or take your life away and suck u dry. It sounds like he's a parasite. Get away from him and if possible, move in with ur relatives or a close friend until u can get back on ur feet. Secondly, put yourself around around people that's moving in the same positive direction that u want to move to. THis will help keep u inspired and thinking positive. Third, THINK POSITIVE. WE manfest our thoughts. U can think things into existence, trust me, I know. DOn't use drugs as a crutch or temporary escape. It won't cure the problem. Good luck and hope this helps!
548958
Your boyfriend is lying to you.  You have to either accept someone as a friend, or add them yourself.  I think you should just dump his loser butt and get rid of him.  You deserve better than some liar.
200163
Get rid of him.  He'll never know what he wants.  As long as you let him mess you around like this, he'll continue doing it.
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You don't talk to him, you ignore him. As long as you still talk to him he has the misguided impression that you still like him.\nIgnore him and if he doesn't stop tell him that you've had enough of this crap and call the cops. They'll set him straight.\nMy daughter did that to her boyfriend, pounding on our door and being told to go, but didn't,  never heard from him again.\nThe cop just talked to him and told him what the consequences would be if he kept doing it.
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I agree he need to move out. Maybe get laid. If he's not a total jack*** then continue with your project, but their should be a point were you have to put a stop to it. If you don't see any change in him, then you will have to give up on him as his parents have done. You may also want to talk to his parents and see if they can help you with him. It nice to know that your a true friend to him.
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Just ignore him and don't react to any of his comments as long as he knows he's getting to you he will continue the minute he knows that you absolutely don't care what he says it will burn him up and he'll stop..Tell the person who relates these messages to you to stop ..and you don't want to hear anything that comes from this person.And honestly what kind of friend is this that tells you hurtfull things..really now..
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Give him one chance to prove he is a friend.  In private, tell him how his behavior is hurting you and ask him to stop.  If he does it again, he's not really your friend.
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Try every disgusting thing in the book in front of him, try any type of turn off.  Soon or later he will just get sick of it.  Otherwise try a restraining order, that usually works JK.  Other tactics try to find him a girl that is very much like him, and try to set him up.  That sometimes works.
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Don't even bother wasting your time explaining to him anymore, try ignoring him that always works.
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stay away from him. i think he just has that playboy attitude. he'll not do any good to you.
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You don't tell him anything.\n\nGive him his space. I've tried this twice and it worked both times. If you keep calling him, he'll get tired of you and will even resent you more (trust me, that's happened before!).\n\nAfter having no contact with you whatsoever, he might just realize how boring his life is without you.  He'll notice how lonely it is to be by himself, etc etc. \n\nDon't get your hopes up but it's the best advice I can give you.\n\nDON'T CALL HIM. Avoid him at all costs. \n\nHe will come to you.
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well give him time and tell him how the friend told you alot of lies. Just let it be and if its meant to happen then it will.  When he sees how cool you are about the whole situation he will come for you
57396
Don't get even, that makes you just like him. The best thing to do is just make sure neither of you is actively mad, sit down, and confront him. Make sure you don't yell at him, just let him know that you know that he's lying to you, tell him you wish he'd spend more time with you, and you wish he'd be a little more considerate. If you still care for him and still want to be with him, let him know that too. If he can't handle a calm confrontation like that, you need think about whether or not he's worth spending more time on, considering he's actively lied to you for three years. Please be careful to be calm when you talk to him, and good luck. Also, remember that even though a little lie like this one might seem insignificant, there might be something under it. Even though it's small, if you want to have an open, good relationship, you need to confront the situation, and not have any secrets between you.
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Just tell him to leave your friends alone.