He will work only for you! On contract.\nRephrased question: Would you rather feel great being "the guy"? Or would you be prefer being the person having the resources and the people?
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I'd rather pull the strings any day. I don't like the public eye and I'd much rather have the Lawyer work for me.
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Wrong?? No.  Maybe looked a little foolish, though.  Hey I wouldn't count yourself out on this.  Wait until you hear back from him--you never know!!  Good luck!\n\nEDIT:\n\nYes, it was unprofessional.  As, someone who hires where I work, I would question your ability to make a decision.  But, if I was very impressed with your experience and skills I would probably give you a chance.
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i think you did the right thing- but i feel you may be letting people take advantage of you- should he be mad?  whats that about? why worry about that? he should be reported to the manager, when EVERYONE works together as a team things get done alot faster and they are alot more happier and people would really enjoy and love going to their jobs.  really life is to short, people now days need to love each other just as they would want to be loved and treated.
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My boss is cool. He comes to chit chat everyday and cracks jokes and does everything a normal person would do. As long as you work and get the work done he is ok with you. But if you dont work then you see another side of him.
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Well, the most important thing is to ask yourself, at which job would you be the happiest at?  I mean, regardless of money.  Which job would you "enjoy" more?  I know that this sounds strange, but you could work at one job that you could be paid a lot, but absolutely hate it.  But another, would be more enjoyable, but paid less.\n\nAnother factor to consider is if you have anyone to provide for.  Wife, children, family.  Sometimes sacrifices have to be made to make sure they live well.  \n\nThis is not an easy question to answer...and most likely not an easy one to ask either.  \n\nBut put it into consideration.  Which job would you be happiest at?  Which one would provide the best benefits for you(besides money)?\n\nWishing you luck.
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Sounds like you pretty much already made up your mind and you know what position to accept... Think of the big picture. \n\nHow do you want to be living in the next few months?  Would you like a dependable job w/security, sick days, vacation days, holidays and weeeknds off, with room to grow...or hopping you make a sale this week, working weeekends, holidays and not having room to grow..
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The tenant pays you to use your house.  It is his home while he pays your rent.  He can ruin it or improve it.  He can be a good neighbour or a bad one.  It should be a mutually respectful business deal.\nBut yes, get a contract and stick to it!
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Hi David\nthis really depends on what you want to do with your life\nmoney really isnt everything and sales jobs are always available. like you i would be concerned as the company is not awfully well established. remember too that for more money he could be expecting a lot \nso weigh up the pros and cons carefully\ngood luck whateveer your choice
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The key word there is ~up to~  He can't expect to be paid the maximum right off the start... Have him show his resume, and depending on years experience he could say give me a trial period @ this much if it works out I would like this much.. Nothings ever lost by asking..
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i think u should take the job, these opportunities dnt come very oftenly. just speak and discuss this matter seriously ;)
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i think maybe you should try to work it out, out way your options see whats best for you and go for it.   remember you make the job the job dosen't make you!!!!!!
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LOL!!! that's one good asles guy............if i had a company, i'd definately hire him
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I don't think that you should have to drop him as a client in order to have a relationship with him.  Business wise, there's no need in losing money like that and as far as your personal life goes, if he makes you feel loved or cared for, why miss out on the chance for your happiness?  The two of you should be able to separate business from personal, but if it's not possible, I say keep him as a client and date others.
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lets face it would you realy want to put him on your pay role. haaaaa you can always take blaire as a stand by. when 1 fails in his work the other can take over. double trouble.
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I think you should go with your gut feeling. If you don't feel like hooking up with him yet then don't do it. Your friends already warned you that he could be a player and its nothing more hurtful then giving in to temptation and then getting your feeling hurt. I think you should talk to the guy and tell him how you feel about the situation and if he doesn't understand where you're coming from then its obviously that he's not the right guy for you. And to answer your other question about if he grabs you after you tell him no....then he doesn't respect you and you should move on.
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Selling what?!? Anyhow he's working and not having fun. Respect the fact that he's earning money. Would you rather date someone who needs to borrow money? Just accept it but make sure there is a couple times a week that is just for the 2 of you. Tell him how you feel and you'd appreciate if he set aside uninterupted times for you. Good luck
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That 'magical' feeling we all get only seems to be there when we can't get that special person.  He has been honest with you and said from the beginning that he doesn't want anything serious, so it's all down to you and whether you would be able to put up with what he has to offer. It's easy to give in and see him to get that magical feeling but is the high worth the massive low you could also get. You could be lucky and end up winning his heart but in my experience it rarely happens like that. I wish you so much luck because I know it's a horrible situation to be in.