Who is the romantic in your marriage?
210675
Me more than him, he can be romantic when he wants to be but I'm more so...he hates it when I'm watching a show and some sweet guy is on there and I say see, why can't you do that?...bugs him...
109324
For me being an old fashioned romantic kind of guy and a strictly monogamous gentleman. I wouldn't use those words exactly. But, if we're that much in love and we have a strong long lasting commitment between us. I would let her know that I'd love to have children with her. The woman is ALWAYS included in the package. The family package ! :)
490944
This is my first and only marriage and sometimes we both get bored, but that is the challenge. We keep mixing it up. Nothing kinky but we rediscover each other. Where there is no challenge, there is no marriage.
298574
well best wishes for your marriage and don't forget me in your marriage cermony just say ma name n i'll b there to see you both smilinng holding hands of each others\n\nand about ur Quest\n\nnuffin much special its like marryin g any other person but its special inthe case if you both love each otehr say you do and if you do you will be compromising with him ...there are some habbits on which you both needs compromises likes and dislikes matters alot to do compromises atlast you are living you whole life with each
287586
Being married to my dear husband gives me such a sense of fulfillment and belonging. We have been married almost 20 years and are more in love than ever. It means we can rely on each other no matter what. We have been through some seriously difficult times but have always been there for each other. I don't know what I would do without him. I tell him he is my knight in shining armor. We have our disagreements, but they are much fewer in number now. We complete each other. Our marriage is a blessing from God!
199205
A good wife..\na lover will soon get very boring and what will that leave you with.. a girl who is no longer a good lover and never was a good wife.
125084
Opposites DO attract, but often, eventually they repel. At first, someone with seriously differing viewpoints can seem very interesting, and challenging, especially if they are good looking. Eventually though you realize that when you differ so much, you argue, particularly if the differences are over really important things. In my opinion, being married to your "best friend" is the best option!
212469
In terms of stability, one of the most important things in any partnership is an underlying friendship. That is especially true in marriage. There is nothing that creates more stability in a marriage than for the partners to be best friends and to fully respect one another as such. Being lovers in addition is simply a bonus. =p
81976
i fell in love with my wife as soon as i saw her. we were married in less than 12 months and are still together 17 years later. but do we love each other ? yes we do but i dont think it is the same sort of love we used to have as we are no longer infatuated with each other i think it is more of a friendship love. you dont need sexual love to make a go of things but a little romance now and again keeps the flame burning.
358098
Well the perfect wife for me is someone that I consider my best friends. One that can take a joke without taking it seriously. One that I can vent with in bad times and one that will be the number one person I will call when I have excited about something. One that shares great communication good/bad with me. One that loved to be passionate and affectionate with me. This one sounds lame, but I love it... One that ask's me to go to another room while she gets dressed to go out with me (asthough I am picking her up, but I am just in the next room) because her being all the above things just makes her beautiful to me enough but seeing her open like the bedroom door knowing she got all ready for me is the ultimate. She has to get along and be well loved by everyone including my friends and not bad mouth beautiful women. Men hate that!
99636
My hippie, liberal,peace loving, tree hugging, new age, pagan, mystic, self  has been happily married for 26 years to a conservative, Christian, Hawk, Policeman, rationalist etc.\nWe do well together, makes for some interesting conversations.\n\nMy first spouse shared my politics and religion but the marriage was hell. Nope  mixed marriages in that sense are not inheirantly more prone to failure.
505925
I would say that is normal. Often great romances and happy married couples grow from long friendships.  I hope the  feelings of more than friendship are reciprocal and you both have a happy life.
483761
THAT DEPENDS ON IF THE BOTH OF U WANT TO MAKE IT WORK IT CAN'T JUST BE ONE PERSON. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO MY HUSBAND FOR 4 YEARS AND I'M STILL ATTRACTED TO HIM AND HIM TO ME. YES WE DO HAVE HARD TIMES BUT WE ALWAYS KEEP THE LINES OF COMMUNICATION OPEN TALK TO HER
281248
The differences in men and women are what make it so neat to be with each other. People today don't try to make a relationship last. The trend today seems to be-get what you can out of another and then when things get rough-drop them.Honesty-trust-care-loyalty-understanding-compassion and love are the keys to a great relationship.My wife and I weathered many bad storms in our marriage,and are still together-in love- and will probably stay this way till I die. Oh,by the way,we have been together 21 years!!!!!!
462014
Flowerkid,\nKind, caring, loving, gentle, trusting, honest, interesting, intelligent, understanding, christian, sexy, giving, sharing, etc. These are some of the things that made me attracted to my wife. She has always been a good listener and she is always there for me when I need her most. Never selfish and always willing to make me happy. In return I have always tried to do the same for her to the best I can. We have been married 35 years and I would not change a thing.\nTDCWH
596081
i married one.been together 35yrs.they are sexy and intriguing.
192167
the most romantic thing isn't so much as romance more as love...but we started to discuss how we couldn't live without each other, and how much we needed and loved each other after about 3 months...we talked about marriage, and kids, and where we'd live, and what we wanted to do with our lives (we knew we were in love..normally this kind of thing doesn't happen this early in a relationship)...we came up with little scenarios and asked each other what we would do if put into them (like, sweet scenarios...like...what would you do if i made you a really romantic dinner and kissed you then took you to a beach and watched the sunset).  it was more sweet then romantic...we talk about it a lot actually.