OK so i met this guy online and he's 31. well he has this social phobia thing and hes like really suicidal. well every now and then he gets really depressed and he starts talking about how he hates everyone and just wants to take some pills and go to sleep and kill himself. well now i think he's serious. cus i was talking to him and out of nowhere he goes. im sooo pissed of and im like wut why? and he goes f*** everyone. bye. and im like no F*** u. and i left. and im really scared hes going to kill himself. ive known him for about a month but he's never acted like that before and he never cusses. i dont know wut to do and i am very confused and scared
215003
first of all,you have to be really careful theese days who you talk to ok,second,it seems he has real issues,and is playing mind games with you,if he were to kill himself there is nothing you can do ok,third,most people who talk suicide never do it,its the ones who dont say anything who do,fourth i love you !!!!!!!!!!!!!! =) it will be ok,just please be very careful ok.
638664
You are being a friend.  Talk to their family and explain your concerns and hopefully they will be worried enough to seek help for your friend.  You can also call the local mental health center to see what they can advise you or if there is a hotline to call.  Your friend needs to know that there is more in this life than one relationship and how much they would hurt the ones that really love them and how it would destroy them if they hurt themself.  Just because one relationship doesn't work shouldn't end the world.   My prayers are with you.
473889
Before you kill yourself, give yourself a chance. The military has some kind of counseling. It's usually always darkest right before things get better. I get depressed to and think about killing myself, but I'm glad I havent done that. Good things are coming I promise, you just need to be patient. Now do me a huge favor and talk to a professional. It's free for you.\n\nDo you see how many people in here care about what happens to you?
286209
If you are serious then you should get help. Sometimes extreme thoughts seem to drive out more rational thoughts and we become confused. We think that we should hurt or kill ourselves, but that is the product of confused thinking.\n\nSometimes, the chemicals in our brain go haywire and lead us to thoughts of suicide.\n\nWhatever the cause or reason, don't act upon those thoughts. Help is available. If you don't know where to turn, and if you are in the US, call 1-800-555-1212 and ask for the Samaritans. They can help you for free.\n\nGood luck. My prayers are with you.
467847
I would call a Suicide Hotline. They exist in most areas. Look in the phone book. One of their counselors could no doubt give you some pointers.\n\nGood luck.
652655
Quit being depressed. This much you can control. Never put your life on hold for a man, unless your engaged or married to him. Always make sure you have a safety net. As far as what he thinks and who he is, it is hard to know what's going thru that head of his. I don't even want to guess, because I don't think anything is going to help you until you talk to him. So lets address you. He is far away, you need to get out and have some good clean fun. Call your friends. Go to dinner or a movie, the mall, what eve it takes to get your mind off him for now. If you don't want to call him, then there is nothing to do but wait for him to call you. But don't stop your life. This will also make time go by faste. I hope you the very best from this outcome. Remember, there is only one person in this world you can "really" count on,...and that is you. So don't let yourself down, and keep your heart safe.
356273
Is easier for me to answer if you are the person who's want to kill yourself,but is hard to answer indirectly cause we have to touch his feeling by his words,messages or conversations.Anyways,you should e-mail him or call him,don't talk to him like he needs help,talk to him like a close friend who's care of him,concern about his feeling,talk to him about the N.H.L./N.B.A./M.L.B.etc.What ever he likes .Do you know any friends or family member lived close to him ,call them for help.may be they can give him a hand,a good timing help.
569923
If he is talking suicide, then you need to get him help. You could call the cops in the area were he lives to go get him and take him to a local ER. The ER doc will evaluate him and committ him if needed. I hope the best for the both of you.
2574
I would recommend a psych evaluation - s/he may be depressed, or maybe the trauma made the person react in this way when s/he normally would not.  either way, it doesn't sound safe, so someone professional should talk to him/her and find out how to keep the person safe until things improve!
512224
he is afraid, and well he should be, to come out fully. Leave it alone, don't bring it up, and certainly do not tell anyone else what he has said. He confided in you and it is a secret between you. He will find himself in time, but right now, if he is gay, he is very lonely, feels like the odd ball in a sea of people who are not gay. IT is NOT a nice feeling. IF it were to get out that he is gay, others will pick on him and make his life miserable. IT is a fact that suicide rates in Gay male teens is 5 times higher than the rest of teen males...a difficult time as it is, but being Gay make it much harder ... Good luck
104431
Get busy girlfriend!!!  I am talking get involved in anything. Turn your negative energy to positive.  Suicide is not the answer.  You were put here for a reason.  Without you, your task cannot be completed and that could involve affecting a lot of people you have not even met yet.  Counseling should be an option if you are really serious about wanting help.  I have lost family to suicide and its so painful for the ones you leave behind.  I can't help my brother who left this world in 2001, but if I had a second chance this is what I would tell him.  "I know it seems you were dealt a bad hand in life.  But "we" can get threw this, together.  Let me help you, you are not alone.  I know you think leaving this world is the answer and the people around you would be better off.  That is so far from how it is.  You have a very important role here and you can't leave yet.  We love you and care about you more than we tell you and for that we are wrong.  Leaving is only permitting the ones you love to cop out when things get bad with them.  Please don't leave that message for your family or friends.  Lean on me and never, ever give up."
528907
You're 22 and he is 24? Seriously?  Are you really sure you're not in middle school? Your description of the situation is BEYOND juvenile! Stop worrying about this guy, worry about yourself and stop calling Psychics! not PHYCHIC.
550601
He is a teenager i assume and if he is thats how most teenagers behave andlike to upset their parents. Hormones are going crazy hopfully it will just be a phase like mine was. Also could be for attention and teenagers tend to be really gloomy and depressed BUTTT at the same time we are a nation where most of the population is becoming depressed and suicide rate is increasing. It sucks because we dont know if they are being serious or looking for attention. My advice is...really keep an eye on him if he brings something up again or tries to hurt himself.. call the police and they will decide if he needs to be put  into a hospital. If he was only looking for attention i can pretty much promise you that he will not pull any of those stunts again. lol If he was serious well then hopefully he gets the help he needs. I was put on effexor for a year and it has reallllllly helped me big  time!!!  short term side effects ( sleepy) and after that I felt great! After being on it a year my doctor weened me off it and I am  doing good on my own. No one has to stay on medication forever just until it fixes the chemical imbalence if it can. Good luck!
650919
this guy sounds hopeless... you should go out with someone who has more on their mind
420737
If it were me I'd stick with you to make sure you are okay.  Even if it's just physical there is something there.  As far as him being creeped out, what is he 16?  If it's no strings and he's a prick he'll probably leave.  Good Luck and whatever happens hold your head up and be positive.
490819
I dont think you should do anything about it. This guy could end up bieng one of those sick perverts preying on high school kids. I say that you stop talking to him. Delete your profile with that chat site or whatever it is and make another one under a different name. You dont want to end up like those girls on the news bieng raped because they thought they found thier soulmate and it turned out to be some 30 year old virgin who's addicted to his Star Wars Collection.
631249
hmmm...sounds like a suicide attempt. I  wanted to ignore your post, but I want to tell you, there's counselors in almost every community.  \nSeek help and don't slice that wrist.