they say guys are polygamous but wait is there still a good and faithful guy living on earth? hey by the way THANKS TO THOSE PEOPLE WHO ANSWERED MY QUESTION "HELP ME PUUUHHHLLEEEZZZZ!' BOW WE'RE COOL! TAHNK YAH!
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There are a few decent and honest guys out there, but you got to look in the right place! Bars, clubs are meat markets, stay away from that kind of environment. It also helps when you stop looking so hard, just relax, when the time is right it will happen. That's how I met my hubby.
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im sick of people repaeting this and that line of the bible. if i wanted that answer id read it for myself haha.my logic says there must be a god but it also tells me that another man shouldnt judge me by his own standards of how to be a good follower
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There are a LOT of happy monogamous bisexuals, believe me.  I generally notice that most of them are the so-called 'established' bisexuals- ones who have known their sexual orientation for a long time and come to terms with it.  It seems that most people grappling with bicurious/bisexual feelings start to think that they should have the 'best of both worlds', not realizing that bisexuality does not equal polyamory.\n\nI agree with you that it's a tired old excuse to say that people who want relationships with both men and women simultaneously do it because they are bi.  I hate that excuse, and the negative stereotypes it furthers.  I still feel that monogamy is the best expression of love between two individuals, and I, a bisexual female, will almost without a doubt be monogamous in my future.\n\nHowever, even though they aren't for me (or most people), polyamorous relationships can be and are, indeed, loving.  That was the only thing that irked me about your post- for some, it's not 'passing it off as love'- there is true, deep genuine devotion betwen two, three, or however many other indivuals are involved in the relationship.  Loyalty has little to do with it, since polyamory isn't cheating (it always must be okayed with everyone involved).  A lot of people do cheat and call it polyamory, but that's not right.\n\nAll in all, just know that you aren't alone.  Long live bisexual monogamists!
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Tomorrow I celebrate my 11th wedding anniversary with the most incredible lady in the world! We are happier now than the day we met! I love her with all of my heart and wake up each morning with a smile when I see her laying next to me.\nYes there are good guys out there that don't cheat, that are also looking for love, marriage, family and a long happy life with their spouse. There are also lots of guys like the ones you talked about who cheat, lie and do other things they shouldn't. I would say to you to just be yourself, stay positive, you sound like a great catch for a lucky guy! I know because I married a great catch!\nHang in there and I wish you the best of luck in your life.
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The mormon church no longer promotes or tolerates polygamy or bigamy.  The bigger question is do YOU want to join the church?  You shouldn't join because someone else wants you to.  It is a decision you should think long and hard about before making an informed decision.  I am a former member, so if you need someone to talk to or have anymore questions feel free to IM me.  (I'm Bookbaby2004 here on Yahoo)
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I've heard of it before...but never knew the actual term of it. It's not for me though. I'm stingy, I suppose. I don't like to share. I'd be too jealous and hurt if my husband brought another woman into our marriage...as I'm sure he would be if I did. I think it sort of...degrades?...the sanctuary of a relationship...along w/ having an open marriage or relationship. It takes something away from the sacredness...not just religion wise, but also morally. But, to each is their own, as the saying goes. So long as the people involved are content w/ it, then why not? Whatever makes a person happy, I suppose, so long as it doesn't hurt others.
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Yeah it's hard because people automatically associate "polygamy" with "Mormon" so they of course think we all practice polygamy.  If others REALLY knew what we believed, one thing is we believe in obeying the laws of the land.  Polygamy is against the law, so we don't practice it.  Also, it was only practiced for a certain amount of time, which was short.  People need to just get over it.
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I think you aren't being fair! all men don't cheat. My wife is the one who has cheated on me! And I thought I was being the Ideal husband but I found out wrong. I'm sorry that you think all men are cheaters, but keep in mind if it wasn't for the willing woman out there men wouldn't be able to cheat.
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I remember a dinner I had with a super hot girl (1st & last date) and she told me how all Mormons were polygimasts and abducted children to increase their numbers.  I attempted to calmly explain how ridiculous this was and I urged her to reach out to some Mormons to learn the truth, or at least read a little about them.  I don't think it worked, but I tried...
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You ask a good question.  You are right about love in a marriage being better than extramarital love or infidelity.  You are right about the hypocrisy in our society that says its okay to be promiscuous but not be married to more than one wife.  You are also right about having multiple wives solving a population imbalance.  I particularly wonder about the number of good men compared to the number of good women.  I fear that there are way more good women than there are good men, meaning that the women would have to share in order to not have to settle for something less than what they should have.  I wouldn't want any woman to have to saddle herself with a bad man just because there aren't enough good men to go around.  \nHaving said all of that, the reality is that we do have this double standard plaguing our society.  When the LDS church tried polygamy, or more correctly plural marriage, it was for the purpose of caring for the extra women in the church population and for raising a new generation of church members as quickly as possible.  The ambient population was outraged that such a practice was going on around them and created such an environment of persecution that the church was ultimately forced to abandon the practice.  Even then the poiticians had to reluctantly admit that their own promiscuous ways weren't any better than what they were fussing over about polygamy.  \nI suggested to the church that we could probably get the old laws against plural marriage overturned in todays legal environment but the church declined to get involved so thus it sits.\nWe might see some of those laws get overturned by the ACLU in the not too distant future because of the blatant double standard that is exibited in our society today.  Time will tell.
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Dear SellCar,\n\ni really hope you got a good reason behind those questions, anyways ill answer your question.\n\ni read some strange answer above ;(, so i hope i can make it clear \n\n\nOfcourse every woman hates polygamy, God created woman to hate anyone that shares her love, but in Holy Quran it says and made it clear for men that they should not take more than one wife unless they have their reasons, like for example some wives dont have the ability to be pregnant, its no body's fault of course but as a man everyone likes to be a father, therefore he can marry another wife.\n\nanother reason for men might be that some men need more than one woman and he is not getting enough, therefore he could make sin with other woman which is bad for Islam teachings and social life and reputation, or he can marry another woman that will give him more pleasure and in the same time he is not making any sin.\n\nMoreover, if you now make a study you will find that number of men is much more less than number of women in the world, years ago in Germany they where surprised to find that 1 man is being borned for every 4 women!!\n\nfor a reason that no one knows except God he knew that this will be the case, therefore he authorised to have more than wife, or else we will have more than half of the woman not married for the rest of their lives.(speaking about Islam societies only, western countires men and woman stays with no marriage usually for the rest of their lives)\n\nGod authorised polygamy for more better reasons ofcourse, but i only know these.\n\nand of course there is no polygamy for men in Islam ;), because at that stage we cant know who is son or daughter of whom.\n\nand for a man being with a legal woman is ofcourse much better than being with a new woman everyday or month ;(\n\nIslam makes a great social life by its teachings.\n\n============\n\ni really dont know the exact age of Muhammad(PBUH) when he married Aisha, but i think in 40's.\n\nGod didnt authorise for muslims to marry more than four wives and in a certain conditions, but for messenger of God (Muhmmad PBUH) he authorised for him to marry more, i do know one reason now for this is that Mohammad(PBUH) wanted to make links with the arab tribes across arabia to spread Islam, and as a messenger of God marrying one of the women in a tribe it was a very good impression to make for those tribes, which later he made friendship with them and they followed Islam teachings, therefore marrying more than one wife helped the spread of Islam at that time, and it made for Islam a good base in Arabia.
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I personaly dont like the fact that my man would be doing ANYTHING with another person but me. Its just not right why be married if its to more than one person. \nI just think that it is wrong. There should only be one person you love at a time that is what makes love such a strong thing. It can keep people together for years. \n\nBut we have people who want to tarnish that with their polygamist ways....i think that if you dont want to commit you shouldnt be in a relationship at all. You should just be single...whats the matter with that. You cant have your cake and eat it too.
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Isn't a Married Man with a mistress... kinda Polygamy?\n\nIt's very prevelent in this culture.
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My brother is a Mormon (LDS). I've heard the strangest things about how they sacrifice animals and they have more than one wife (not true of LDS - only of fundamentalist Mormon denominations, which are few and far between), and they are so annoying and this and that on and on. When I hear people talk about them, I usually just listen and say, "Really?" every now and then until they are finished. Then I tell them that my brother is a Mormon. That usually produces a Kodak moment :) \n\nI don't agree with the Book of Mormon (see link for good reasons why) or some of the doctrines, but neither have I ever met a Mormon that I didn't like. Even Trey Parker and Matt Stone were man enough to portray them as really nice and loving people.
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"Everybody waits until marriage to have sex" ? You're kidding around correct? When a woman or man say I Know that person of the opposite sex, and mean that in the biblical sense! That Is Utopia!
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Either it will make polygamy sound like something men want to try or no impact. I think since its fictional it won't have too much of an effect. If it was a reality show I think it would have more of an effect.
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i don't think guys really care.  they'll say they do, but i have my doubts.  when it comes to getting laid................  well in your case it's cause you're his wife.  another "couple" means he's having the "other guys" wife or what ever the case may be.  but the idea of watching a guy please his wife, well there's ego involved.  see, by having the other guys significant other there's an unspoken rule.  sort of like being even.  actually, guys could answer it better.  just sometimes (even on here) i've noticed they try to be delicate about it.  lol