my girl friend proposed me but i don't know love
201976
Marriage is a serious matter and you cant say yes unless your absolutely sure. You dont have to know what love is to know whether its right or not. No one can be sure of what true love really is because its different for so many people. So instead ask yourself:\n*Can you imagine spending the rest of your life with this    \n woman?\n*Is she the only one that makes you happy?\n*Can you trust her, confide in her, rely on her through good \n times and bad?\n*Does your heart tell you that marrying her is the right   \n thing to do?\n\nRemember that there is no exact definition to the meaning of love. Its something you find within. If she is the one that makes you happy, the one that you trust. If you can be completely open with her and know that you can rely on her then marrying her is the right thing to do. Follow your heart, and you'll make the right decision.
458228
WOW! I think she loves you but knows so much about you and you about her that it's become too difficult to broach the subject of you two being a potential love match. I think you need to ask yourself do I love her in that way? If you do you've got to bite the bullet this weekend and ask her if she has feelings for you other than as a friend? Tell her you want a relationship with a girl and are confused as she seems like a friend most of the time but then when you discuss the subject of other women she doesnt seem able to ddeal with it. DO YOU LIKE HER????? i hope you do and that she feels the same and can finaly get the strength to let you know, some of the best relationships start with 2 people being friends first I think you 2 stand a fair chance of settling down together unless she is just a friend and a possessive one at that. If that is the cse you need to tell her you are interested in having agirlfriend and she needs to allow you to do this if she cant deal with that then you need to meet her a little bit less cos no girlfriend will put up with you having such a female possessive best mate! Good Luck!!
654748
It may well be love, but don't dare tell her that!  Just say something like "Is it just me, or would you be interested in being more than friends/going out sometime/etc.?"  It's low key and low pressure (meaning you should be able to continue to be friends if she does not feel the same) and you will never know if you don't ask!  Please don't assume everyone makes relationship decisions based on their family background.  Good luck!
1508
She really likes you but she is confused, she is not sure if its going to work out or not. she is really scared of getting hurt once again. Just repect her and give her time and space to think.
329816
My advice would be to wait a little longer (just a couple of months) before asking to have her hand in marriage.... but that's just me. You may come on a little strong if you ask her now and that may put distance between the 2 of you if she isn't ready for it. Something that you could do is find a way to bring up the topic in conversation and see if you can get her opinion on the subject (just to get an idea if she is on the same page with her emotions before actually popping the question) or see if one of her sisters can ask (or girlfriends) what her opinion may be on the marriage subject. But regardless of what your decision may be I wish you joy and happiness in the future..... and I really hope that the 2 of you do get married.
439212
Haven't thought of marriage yet but the girl I'm with is the girl of my dreams
158530
she sounds like she likes you more than just friends... i think she had second thoughts after her first refusal of a relationship, if you still want to, you can make your offer again, i think now is a good time and she seems ready.. Good Luck
558011
Hi man. I had a story like this some months ago. I couldn't do nothing, because I didn't want to ruin their love for each other. I just waited, and after three  months they broke up. And she understood that I loved her, and really liked it. I think you should just wait.Maybe you should make activities with other friends, that can help you not to think about your friend.\n    I really think that you'll win her heart.
176856
She is shy thats it man. You got her. Put your proposal again after some time, I am sure she will agree, But for that you will have to try and get in touch with her every now and then so that she will not forget you. You said she is far away from you. Make her feel that you miss her a lot.\n\nKeep sending her e-greeetings from www.123greetings.com or www.love greetings.com.\n\nLook at what she needs, and try not to speak about her past. This will help you a lot loverboy. \n\nAll the best.........
41652
She must feel strongly about it. Sorry. My advice is, accept her decision and start looking in a different direction. The more time you are wasting on her, the more time it will take you to find the right girl. So, stop now, and somebody who is better for you would come along.\nHope that helps.
328468
I think it is safe to say that you are not IN love with her. It sounds like you love her but more as a friend rather than a girlfriend. Be honest with her now because she needs to know how you feel. Things will be ok.
566332
You need to use this time for reflection, love does not disappear that easy! Communication is the key, maybe she is afraid, the best thing you can do is show her that you support her and care. Take it slow and both of you need to rememer the things that brought you together in the first place. If after all this she still does not want to marry, LET GO...
240655
Brickjacks, listen to yourself. You sound as if you're hoping for the impossible; holding onto dear life just because you are not sure how does she feels about you, whether or not she wants to be with you and if she's just toying around with your feelings. Have you already asked her what she thinks of you? Have you told her how you feel about her?\n\nI really can't tell you what she's trying to do or how you should handle this situation and neither can anyone out there who answers your question because quite frankly, we don't know her. She might be a social butterfly or maybe she's a saint after all.\n\nMy opinion, you should have already confronted her by now. The more you stall your feelings for her the more confused you'll get from her reactions and advances.\n\nTake this opportunity to get to know her better. Since you're going out with her, you'll get to see what she's like. Don't stress yourself with impossible questions (i.e. Does she wants to see what kind of person I am before she decides to dump her boyfriend and be with me?)\n\nYou're not some "thing" that could be analyzed and be taken for granted. You're not some low grade ketchup/sauce that needs to be compared with another to determine which of the two taste good. You're a human, you have feelings and you know yourself better.\n\nShow her who you really are TODAY/NOW and if she shows the slightest indication of her being the malicious girl everyone (well, almost everyone) in Y! Answers been telling you, leave her. Just be her friend. She's not worth your aggravation.
528530
love is something that you cannot explain when you are with your loveone...in your case maybe the girl is just confuse..maybe she really loves you but there are things that bothering her mind..try to ask her what's her reason for saying that...I'm sure she can explain..good luck!
50120
What's the meaning of ( you have late ) ? , ask her about the real reason of refusal , did she realize that you're late after 6 years of love ?! it makes no sence I don't understand , but i can understand that you really loves her , don't give up this way and talk to her , if she loves you by her turn be sure that she will be the happiest person with your proposal , if not so there must be something wrong with your relationship , good luck .
299856
I'm not certain what you mean when you say "rude girl", but if you are not romantically involved with her, why would you want to propose to her? Do you mean propose marriage?\n\nHow do you know that she never thinks about love?\n\nYou don't say how long you know her so if you know her for just a short time, you could change the relationship if you propose to her - and maybe that change would not be good.\n\nYou don't say why you want to propose to her - if you were to provide more information, then maybe we could help you more.\n\nGood Luck!
236794
If she proposed to you, then why wouldnt she accept you for who you are? She must have found something she loves about your or she wouldnt have proposed, unless she is just messing with your head.