boys are always trying to get some from me and they wont listen when I say we are just friends.
201928
its hard just trying to be friends with the opposite sex\nwhen you say u are just trying to be friends they are thinking yeah i no i am going to have sex with her because we are going to be very close and do things together so they think sex is part of the deal
209583
boys r just stupid like that. i mean not all are like the ones my sisters had but if you really want him to call you when he says he will, tell him the next time you talk becausse if you dont, it will drag on like that
279788
Just ignore them, it usually distracts them when they're trying to get your attention.\n\nFocus on what you're there to do; win.
36634
Well u cant continue havin this cuz its obviously makin u uncomfortable so u gotta let them down try givin them hints that he doesnt make u feel comfortable followin u.If he doesnt catch on u gotta tell him straight up to not follow u. he might get hurt but he'll get over it. It might seem mean but its better than actin fake to sum1.
12156
they might not know they are being insensitive. girls can be hypersensitive, and boys don't understand why. maybe he's saying things that sound good in his head, but come out wrong. maybe he's doing it to look macho in front of his friends. there are a multitude of reasons. unless they are emo or gay (or dr. phil) there is no way a guy will be able to know exactly how you want him to respond to anything...therefore he doesn't respond right, and you label him as insensitve.
41503
Guys want what they think they can't have, so give up on him and maybe he will start chasing you
568488
if these guys are being mean to u, don't force ur self on them because they were once ur friends, these types of friends are called backbitters, and u need to stay away from them, and realise that u need to go out and find new friends that will appreciate u fr who u r!!
482716
you're only twelve.  too young for any type of relationship other than friends.  if they shun you as a friend then they are really not the kind of friend you want to have.  besides, boys get their growth spurts in highschool.
311443
If they make fun of you then they aren't your friends.  You seem to have fun with the girls and later in life, the other boys will envy your ability to get along well with girls...when they are having trouble talking to girls, you will have plenty of girls at your side.  Think of the future..and oh what a future!!!
178131
It's best to think they're just being friendly rather than think that everyone is flirting with you.  That way you will always act natural and be yourself and guys will love that, I think.
190174
Some boys are like that. Try and get over it. Tell him that you only like him as a friend and that you like someone else.
497949
Definitely not a true friend. \n\nBut. You both have a lot going on right now. I think you two should just have some fun 'girls night' or something and forget about these boys.\n\nStick with your friends, it's silly when girls fight over boys.
348457
Boys are immature!  They will say things even though they don't mean them.  Sometimes when they say they don't want a relationship, it means they jsut don't want one with you.  They're just not that into you.  It's time to move on and focus on schoolwork and less on boys, or at least find a nice guy who will not trick you and lie and try to make you believe things that are only half true.  Believe me, if a guy likes you alot, he will make it known to you and won't have other girlfriends around!
84347
Maybe their jealous of your friendship.  You don't have to prove anything to them, if you did like him, that's between your friend and you and NOBODY else.  Your friend shouldn't let his friends interfere with your friendship with him and if he's allowing that to happen, he isn't a very good friend.
95991
I think you need to move on and find someone who is interested in being with you.  You said that that you have tried and all they want is your friendship.  Be happy for that friendship and respect their choice to be just friends.
578104
obviously an immature person that cannot own up to their responsibilities.  you should ask: why to the males that i know...\nperhaps it is the males you pick as friends.
393247
yikes honey, these guys sound like obsessive stalkers. what they are doing is wrong and it is illegal.  i'd suggest filing a report with the police..  get them arrested for tresspassing if they are on your property without permission.\n\nyour college should have some sort of guidance department that can help you cope with these issues.\n\nas far as why people do this? because they are insane. these people don't cope well with rejection, and instead of moving on in their life, they make it their obsession.. these people need serious mental help.\n\nas far as why or how you always seem to attract these type of guys? i have no idea..