i've had girls tease me to death, i can't take it. they tease me when they have boyfriends, they tease me when they're sleeping with four other guys, they tease me while teasing the guy sitting next to me. i don't know, i think girls like playing around with the idea of dating me, but nothin ever happens. if i just wanted to jump into a relationship, i would've done that already, but i don't like the idea of lying to myself to be happy, changing who i am just to be meet someone's expectations. screw it, i'm turning queer...
214278
Good plan. Girls love gays. Modern age, fear of men, etc.
214057
because... their popular and like to be idiots to get themselves some boyfriends...idoits...and i should know..they love to tease me because i actually get all A's..\nthey are just weird
173866
I know i'm a chick, but the title to your question only made me want to read it more...So here's my advice: Throughout your life you'll meet girls that you like and they won't be that into you.  And you'll meet girls and they'll really like you and you won't be that into them.  It's part of life.  And yes, it sucks, but that's why we must continue to pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and move on.  So move on.  Find something that makes you happy.  It doesn't have to be another girl right now, but keep yourself occupied by things in your life that make you happy.  Then when the time is right, another girl will come along.  And you'll think, "what did i ever see in that last girl?  This girl is so much better than her."  Trust me.  I've been there.  Many times.  And from my experience, being single is so much more fun than being tied down to one person.  You're young, go have fun.  Good luck!
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that happend all the time to me when i was single.\nguys love flirting with girls even if they have a gf.\nsome of them even pretend to be single.\n\nit's an attention game after all.  you were just tricked by him.\nignore those players and find a good honest one.
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You are just being allowed to date this year?  Dear lord...  welcome to the dating rollercoaster ride of ups and downs, highs and lows.  In this day and age, don't expect to settle down for at least a good decade or two.  I don't like anyone either right now.  Don't worry, the odds are that you will like many, many guys sometime between now and death.  So my advice would be to relax, and enjoy having your heart before someone comes and snatches it away.  I hated hearing this when i was younger, but it's true, there is plenty of time.
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I just wanted to encourage you. I have serious dating anxiety. I really like people but I always just give and give and so therefore I have trouble even considering dating anyone right now.
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LOL.  You answered your own question.  If they keep choosing to date those kind of guys, then all the guys they date are going to be the same.  It's not rocket-science.  As for the complaining part, they haven't reached the point yet where they realize that the choices they're making are what's causing the problem.  A lot of them never figure it out, too.
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No, I wouldn't go on the show Elimidate.  It is implied that you date whoever the winner is.  I wouldn't compete against other men for a woman because you can't be yourself around her.  She is also not necessarily the woman I would want to be with anyway.  I also wouldn't like a bunch of women competing over me.  Maybe some people would think of that as a fantasy.  If you think about it though, they are acting immature to try to be picked as the one you want.  However, why would I want to pick a woman who is immature?  Isn't that going to have a negative effect on the relationship?  If it's just to sleep with her and not have a serious relationship with her, then why do it at all?  I could just as easily find someone that shallow who just wants to sleep with me at a bar.  I know this is a long answer, but I don't look for immaturity as one of the good qualities in a woman.  So, no I wouldn't go on elimidate.
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you know what...i had a whole paragraph written about how immoral it was and what kind of sleeze you were, but then i erased the entire thing (and wrote this).  i feel like i need to pretect this sixteen year old girl and give her advice...but when i think about it, it is really up to us girls to do what is right.  we cant' rely on guys because many like you don't give a f*** about us.  when girls cry and complain about guys being like you, we really need to take all of the blame because we are letting guys be jerks.  we want so desperatly to be loved and admired that we give all we have and end up with nothing.  she is "down for it"  because you made her believe she is.  and she is dumb for letting you tell her she is.
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dont you hate that\n\nDitch her, girls wont date guys with female friends, they just get jealous, your a guy, get some action
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I had more than a few bad relationships with both girls and guys (you get the picture...*lol*) so I decided about a month ago that I LOVE being single. Sure, I've had my urges here and there, but then I remember my wonderful friends, who've never let me down, and I realize that I don't need anyone--guy or girl--to make me happy. You know? That's my theory, and I've been really happy because of it. :)
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it's hard to give advice on that subject, really.  i mean, i guess i could just say that you just have to keep trying.  every guy i've ever met has turned out to be obsessive.  but that won't stop me from going out with others.  i think you need to look at the type of girls you're attracted to.  there could be a pattern there and that's the reason you find they are all fake.  maybe you should try going out with someone you wouldn't normally. you may be pleasantly surprised.  other than that, i'm sorry i can't be of any more help.
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I don't understand if you're worried about the girl you like or your friend turning into one of the guys you don't get along with. in any case, they should be smart enough to decide for themselves if these guys are worth it or not... but if they're such bad influence you could warn them about it and just hope for the best!
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Nope, you will date guys.  They look at you as one of the homies now, and that's cool, because some of the other girls probably wish they were in your shoes. Maybe one of your guy friends can set you up on a few dates, maybe even double date, and you can hook one of them up with a friend of yours.  If so, look your best, but make sure you feel comfortable! And have fun!!!
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what does this have to do with me?\n\nyour title sucks!\n\n\nif your adventurous enough to be with a girl i guess you might be maturenough to be with a guy, however if your questioning it and second guessing at all.\nyou prob shouldn't have sex.\n\nnow heres an idea... this i what i would suggest to someone older but i have to just accept the fact that young ppl have goin crazy and f**king all the itme....\n\nget a guy or two and a girl and let him/them watch you with the other chich, and they are allowed to service themselves but they can't touch you unless you touch them first.....\nthat way they get pleasure and so do you and you ccan decide in the moment if your ready for it.\n\ni dunno thats what I would do anyway...and really what guy wouldn't want to watch two chicks goin at it?\nplus theres the off chance he could get tag teamed....
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I hate to be the one to tell you this but she's just teasing you. There are fakes like her everywhere; they pretend like they like you but they just doing it for their kicks. I think that you should look around and try to someone else thats good for you. Also try online dating services for teens. Best of luck to you!!
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I agree with Helper.  If you truly are really nice, let EVERYONE see it, not just the crowd you hang out with.  You could also be very intimidating.  If your attitude is like that about girls asking out guys, then you most likely view every situation like that as pathetic.  There is nothing wrong with being old-fashioned, but sometimes you have to go after what you want, don't wait for it to come to you.  Perhaps you just weren't meant to be with tons of people in high school.  Slow down and enjoy life now, don't try to experience everything all at once.