I'm selling my home and moving to York but my 22 y/o daughter is without a place. She has 2 dogs and a slight physical disability.
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Try craigslist in Philly.
339257
Wow!  That is quite a burden for a young man just starting out.  I live in the US.  Here and in most western societies it is common for women to work to help support the family.  I've been married for 28 years and did not work only when my children were very small.  Once they went to school I went to work.  How else can a family have a decent home and vehicles?  I'm sorry that your girl's family rejected you - maybe it wasn't meant to be?  Once you graduate and are in a better position financially try again.  Hopefully your girl will still be unattached and available if not then you know she wasn't meant for you and your real mate is out there waiting for you to find her.  I wish you good luck.
106313
If she doesn't mine you living there and you and your kid likes it you could stay a while and save up some money for a down payment on a house or something. But if you are not happy then by all means move out.
124698
I would you need alot more hours then 15! You need to do some research before you move and make sure that the job is stable enough for you to move so you can provide for your family! Also make sure that it is a good place for your daughter you don't want to be stuck in a bad neighborhood with a crappy job! I'm looking to relocate myself but its scary I don't know if I would be worse off then I am now! Its a huge step so put some thought in it. GOOD LUCK
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Just be honest with him and tell him that you need his room for the new child, and that you will be happy to help him look for a new place to live. Tell him that you will give him his last month free so he can use that money to help offset the cost of paying rent and probably a security deposit to move to a new place. Perhaps help him try and get into low income housing for senior citizens where he will have security and people closer to his age. If he gets too upset with your suggestion that he needs to move...drop it and tell him he can stay. Then, just work around things til he does pass away. But, don't stress him out too much or you will feel really guilty if anything does happen to him then.
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Okay, this is a tough one.  Legally, you can petition the courts for a change in custody from your ex-wife to yourself.  The reason would be, of course, that your ex-wife is doing a lousy job parenting by not actually parenting your daughter.  This puts your daughter in your custody in your house in New York.\n\nAnd here's the problematic part because a 17 year-old generally does not go anywhere she doesn't want to go.  So if you take her out of that situation and bring her to New York, she'll just run away and turn up (if you're lucky) back in Florida.  Moreover, when she turns 18, she can go any place she likes and no Court can tell her differently.\n\nSo there's actually very little that you can do.  One thing, of course, is you probably don't have to pay your wife child support anymore.  If you are paying, you should petition immediately to stop.  Otherwise, you may have very little room to maneuver.
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This is a hard one to answer.... Theres no point in calling the wife back unless she can get back to the kitchen quicker than your daughter can get down the stairs so I would recomend the daughter option. Although I feel sympathy for your situation I do believe you may be slightly insane allowing your wife to leave the home and get a job.
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nothing much. just let her know that while you understand that she's the adult and is probably making the decision she thinks is best for everyone, you would appreciate it if she would listen to why you want to stay where you are and that you are really upset about this move. \nyou just have to be respectful or she won't listen at all. and if it doesn't work, i've heard colorado is really nice and moving is kinda fun and u can completly start over and be a diff. person if u want to. \ngood luck, and im sure ur mum is only trying to do the best thing.
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The problem is that, unless she's disabled, her income is probably not going to be high enough to allow her to purchase a home.  If she and her son-to-be-exhusband owned a home, she might be able to use her share of the equity from that home to purchase a place to live, if there is enough equity, depending upon the terms of the divorce..  \n\nShe could look into low-income rentals, known as Section 8.  Unfortunately, she doesn't have young children living with her and she's not yet elderly, so she may not qualify for that either. \n\nHer best bet would be to contact the local welfare office and ask them for any assistance or leads that they can provide for low-income housing.\n\nGood luck!
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Get a court to issue an eviction notice at once! You must inform her in writing that she must clean up her stuff because it is a health hazarded. If it is really bad you can call the Dept. of Health  or Fire Marshall on her. Hording is a disease but it can lead to serous health and fire hazards. Tell you dad what you want and be HONEST! She is not family and you want to start a family!
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She can apply for emancipation. which will make her a legal adult.  But she does seem too young for you.  She probably thinks you are the way out of the hell she is in.  It sounds like the baby would be better off elsewhere, and not with you.  You like the young ones right?
371974
He should speak to the Citizens Advice Bureau. As far as I know, unless the house is in joint names or she can prove a significant financial contribution to the upkeep,  she is only entitled to maintenance for the child if they are not married.
558619
Would she be receptive to a heart to heart talk?  Try sitting down with her and talking about her plans for the future.  Maybe she's afraid to move back out on her own.  Can she afford to now with her present job?  Ask if she would like your help looking for a new place.  Maybe you could ask her to pay some rent to you--and then come to the conclusion that if she's paying rent she may as well have her own place.  Good luck to you!
650621
My word.  That is a lot of people and stress.   Is it possible for you to move into a place away or maybe down the road form your relatives, just to get you out of the chaos?  There are usually places that offer low/reduced rent for fixed incomes.   Maybe your children can do things to help around the house so when you come home you have some peace and don't feel like you have to race around and clean, cook, do laundry etc.  Good luck.
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NOOOOOOOOO! it is not your obligation. you need to have some tough love with this child! Lay down the rules, and tell her that if she can't live with these rules that she is 20 years old and is free to move out. You are babying her! If you don't help your daughter find confidence in her abilty to take care of herself she may live with you FOREVER!!! or at least rely on you each time she is "down and out"
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Yes, I would.  Contact your local Housing Authority to look for housing assistance.
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OOps sorry let me edit this..\n\nMost important question is - are they LEGALLY your gaurdian?  It sounds like this might be your sister.. or maybe a young aunt.\n\nWhat state are you in?  How old are you?  It depends on how your caregiver will react.  I did the same thing when I was 17 and my parents freaked and were able to take me back.  I spent a few days in Juvi.. but other than that nothing terrible will happen.  If you are 17, I suggest talking to your parents about this and seeing if they would let you.  Does your friends family want you to move there?  Have them talk to your caregiver.  If you are any younger, either wait or have the family talk to your caregiver..  I totally understand where you are coming from, sometimes your home can just be toxic, especially if your parents are going through a divorce, or some issues of their own.. I've been moved out for 2 years now, and even when I come to visit, it just sucks my soul dry.. Some people and places are just so bad for you.  Talk to them .. really.  OR just go ahead and do it, but know this - they will be able to find you - and they will force you to come back - BUT after that happens, they will be open for dialog with you - you will be able to tell them how damaging their home is to you - and they will be able to take you seriously.. This is what happened to me- They never listened until after I ran away.. Then they let me finish my high school degree online and let me move out when I needed to.\n\nTo help you any further, I would need to know your age and your state.\n\nAnd like the other person mentioned, if you are working and making some of your own money, you might be able to get emancipated. \n\nChoices Other Than Emancipation\n\nEmancipation is only one of several alternatives available to you if you feel you cannot live with your caregiver.  You may want to consider other options such as:\n\nfamily counseling or mediation service between you and your parents; \nliving with another responsible adult (aunt, uncle, grandparent, or family friend); \nseeking assistance from public and private agencies; \nan informal agreement with your caregiver allowing you to live outside your home. \n\n\nMy final advice to you is this - family counseling - if nothing else works - this will.  The other person there can help you communicate effectively with your caregiver - and don't assume they will only be on your caregivers side either.  Present your case to them, and unless you have no reason for wanting to move out, they will support you and help you work out a solution with your family..\n\nGood luck, ok?  Feel free to personally email me if you need any personal or legal advice..  Bj_Osterhout@yahoo.com