what is the best recipe in a best relationship love or lust because my bf and i have sex 300 times in 3 yrs that were been together.
202273
love!!\nbut seriously, you counted?
9786
First define "normal"!!  I am 35 and he is 47 and we have been together for 6 years, living together for 6 months, and on average I'd say we have sex with each other 4 times a week.  Usually it is weekends 2-3 hour marathons 2-3 times a weekend as well as about twice during the week before saying goodnight!  I have found that too often can sometimes take the fun out of it so when you start seeing signs of sexual "overdose" it's good to refrain for a week or so and don't be afraid to experiment with new positions, places etc in order to keep it alive and fun!
176621
I am 71... and I have loved one person througout my married life for 48 years... (now through death, am single again) and I can tell you that over those 48 years, sex had started out as the "seed" of the loving relationship, but it developed into the "fruit" of the relationship... and the blending of our two personalities and souls into a working relationship became more important than just the sex.  The first 7 years of a relationship are sexually based... Called the "Limerick Stage of Love" (spelling may be wrong...) then that starts to evolve into a deeper more lasting relationship, and this is what builds over the years into a solid foundation that carries you both through the bad, difficult and trying times together.  You each have to decide what is important to you and based upon your decisions, you will then know what is best for you both... and can work things out for each partner's growth and benefit. Hope this helps... Blessings!  \nPS... With the waning of this strong bond of sexual love in those first 7 years... people usually make the mistake that they are "falling out of love" and it is time for a divorce.  They do not follow thru and endure... and have faith that something more wonderful will develop... most loving relationships today are totally sexually based... and as the loss of interest in sex wanes... so goes the relationship... Not the best bases for a 50 year lasting relationship... don't you think???
142732
i use cucumbers and my bf uses whip cream and i lick it off of his di ck ,it's really good
323402
My hubby and I have been married almost 11 years, he still brings me breakfast in bed on the weekends! He is the most romantic, sexy guy in the world to me!\nIt sounds like both of us are very, very lucky!\nGood question!
393592
My boyfriend is amazing too. He would do anything for me and I would do the same for him. We are a team and we have been together for almost 3 1/2 years. We are planning on getting married when we graduate from college. My boyfriend doesn't mind talking about weddings, he wants me to have whatever I want. He looks better than any man I know. He is tall and milk chocolate, like Morris Chestnut or Tyson (the model), but better! The way he loves me confirms that God sent him into my life.
90921
well...if you have have an open relationship with your better half this is the best way to spiceup a relationship,try it once but not all the time.it is addictive but make it fun and be open to each other after the experience.you have to have a really good trusting relationship to be able to go for that.\nit is really quite an experience....
462402
wow he cooked damn! id buy a diamond ring (fugazi of course i aint dat rich) than cook, shiet i have a hard time making peanut butter and jelly sandwhiches. but seriously what he did for you was nice but you are right being 21 is special so for me as a man if my girl was turning 21 id try to make it special for her in anyway. gifts arent always the best present its what you do, if he just cooked and then took you out to drink then it seems he didnt try hard enough (and i know how you women get turned on when we try hard especially for you believe me i know lmao) which is ashame because it sounds like it was a first date than a birthday celebration. im not saying that he doesnt love you or anything but damn 2 years he couldve done all that in the house i mean whats so hard cooking a romantic dinner with candle lights rose pedals and bubble baths u know the works, secondly he shouldnt have never taken you out for drinks he couldve done it at the house wit some champagne and some isley brothers man its ova damn i should write a book lol but nah on a serious tip u seem like a nice person and i know you will do whats right  but i just which your boyfriend had more respect and appreciation which u deserve. its guys like him that makes it hard for other guys like me in the world.
55661
It's probably the best to be used in sex. When you lick melting chocolate off of your partner. That's in my opinion.
280710
I both agree...making love to the person you love it the most wonderful thing. So love and sex would really go side by side. If you're still on to puppylove i would suggest don't go into sex yet. But you always have to remember that once you are into a relationship full of love...sex is part of it.
641371
I think that the reason that people cheat on each other is that they forget why they craved each other in the first place.  Lust is lost in bills, kids, stress, traffic.  Couples forget to say thanks, to hold hands, to appreciate that both have commited to the same end.  Turn off the tv and just chat about anything stupid you feel like, just no talking about bills, kids, stress, traffic..............................
165685
Bread is always tasteful with Butter and Jam.\nor\nTwo filled hands are much better than one filled and one empty hand.\nThis is not him, this is you who still loves him and wants him back in ur life. when he asked for sex (after quiting from ur life)why didnt u kick his back why you still think that u will get positive reply even here in this column.\nDump that guy, u r urself getting used by that guy.
282291
love.... gotta go with love.. cause love is amazing... much better than lust..
228225
how do u kno what love is at 14?? he sounds like more of a best friend! don't get ur feelings hurt! there is a difference between love and lust, this sounds more like lust to me!
292816
What do you do normally?  Its kind of hard to say what to do extra when we don't know whats normal for you but here are some ideas.\n\nCook a great meal, something special or that you rarely cook. Bake him cookies from scratch.\nLeave him a love note inside the door with instructions on where to pick up the next clue, *maybe a flower, and at each flower have something like massage oil, a candle, a cd, etc and lead him to the biggest gift - you in somethng he finds really sexy, or even a new silky lingre.\n\nAnyhow that works for me, my fiance' though would think I was dressed sexy if he followed the clues and found me in my granny's house dress.
281892
Don't sleep with him. That will only take the excitement of sex away and he just might stop seeing you. Show him you love him by being on his side. Thank him for his sweetnesses, give him your time, let him lean on you if he needs to. but by giving him your most precious, Its not showing love, only lust. It shows you are afraid of him leaving you if you don't. Just do everything but that, or anything remotely close to it. enjoy the time you two have together. It'll mean far more in the end.
664688
Girl, just show him u love him all ur heart, cook for a romantic dinner for him surprise him in a really sexy dress sat down and talk to him about it softly saying u really love him and u wouldnt do anything that comes close to ruining u guys' relationship. And give him time.