i can be standing around just talking to someone . and for no reason at all . i think about punching them?? somtimes i have to cut the talking to a minuim so i can walk away before i actually do it?? i see myself in my head hitting them?? is this a mental condition??
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I work in telecommunications as a telephone operator. I am not normally a violent person but sometimes I would like to just reach through the phone and choke someone! (Instead of Touch someone) Are people generally stupid?
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hm this is a very hard question...well ask them why are you doing this and see their face if they dont answer or didd not say the turth  and show your feeling to them and if they still never tell you said to them that you dont want to talk to them... well  this happen to me too i did that.. and sorry about this :( i dint mean to said this but good luck!
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DAM WHY DID YOU ASK THIS ? \nI HATE TO SAY THIS TO YOU, BUT I WOULD BE 1 OF THOSE RUDE PEOPLE, BUT NOT BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO. IT'S SO QUICK WHEN YOU BY PASS SOMEONE. THEREFORE IN MY HEAD I JUST THINK WHY DIDN'T YOU SMILE BACK HOW RUDE OF ME, MOST OF THE TIME PEOPLE ARE THINKING VERY HARD OF SOMETHING, WELL I CAN ONLY TALK FOR MY SELF, BUT I DO FEEL BAD WHEN THAT HAPPENS, I'M SORRY .
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A mental problem? Not even close! You sound like you are simply preoccupied or experiencing anxiety about your next task or place to be . Try this, The next time you are walking to a class or any place you have to be,YOU start a very simple conversation with the person you are with. It could be the weather or a job , just small talk . Even plan out what you want to say before hand and just take one word or sentence at a time. Work on relaxing and no " tough" topics that can cause anxiety.\n\nSee if this helps and most important don't build this up to be "Oh no there is something wrong with me". because there is not .\n\nWe all have some funky thing about us that makes us unique. I have trouble putting sequences together sometimes. If somebody asks me about a movie that I saw I have a hard time explaining the movie because  I have trouble putting things in sequence and vocalizing them but then again I can play complex classical music on the guitar so maybe I'm autistic, who knows? But your OK . Just relax..
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Get your mind of it no matter what it takes. pre-occupy yourself with something that'll keep you busy. You can try talking to different people about it to see their perspectives which may give you some new thoughts on the situation. also the more the think about it the more you're likely ot give in so try your best to avoid dwelling on it. If it's something you want to control at an exact moment (like in your example) i advise you rather keep it to yourself for the time being. Its not good to bottle up feelings, so let it out when you're not around that person any more. This way you feel no regrets. Sometimes I clench my fist or bite by teeth to get rid of some of that anger temporarily... well hope I helped!
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hmmm, a guy just did that to me recently.  She has gone through a lot of thoughts in her head by now.  If you want any chance at all, you need to own up to the fact that you hurt her by not talking to her, and apologize and say you'd like another chance.\n\nWhy did you stop talking to her?
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I talk to myself too sometimes. Nah, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I think it's a good thing because then when you have problems, you can just talk and talk without anyone knowing how you feel.\n\nI have a really REALLY hard time telling people I know how I feel, so I just talk to myself to get it all out.
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I have this! I also have Painic disorder with Agorabia.  "fear of being in public".... Be understanding to them... One step at a time. When with this person talk with them the whole time. Dont leave their side, until they tell you they are ok. When they tell you they want to leave now, it means NOW, not 5 min. from now, but NOW!!! Sometimes holding their hand will help. Show them that they are with you, and that no one will try anything, or say anything unless you want them too.  Never get mad at them, even if you dont understand. The more you know the more you'll understand. The more you understand the more you can help them.
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I know exactly how you feel....\nYou know what's really bad though...Is those times you catch yourself doing that...\nI think in most cases it's not intended to be rude.  People just like to make conversation about anything and get so caught up in something they've been wanting to say they forget about being rude.\nAnd in some cases people might change the subject because they can't handle the one that's being discussed....\nYou're right, sometimes it is funny...\nWith your really good friends, you ever notice that sometimes you can have two or three conversations going at once.....and everyone knows what everyone else is talking about...Never missing a beat.. That's hecka cool.\nIt's only the ones who want all the attention on themselves you've got to watch out for...\nGoodaytoyou...\nAnd maybe you should thing about becoming a play-writer! !
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Read this, it may shed some light on the matter:\nhttp://mentalhelp.net/psyhelp/chap7/\n\nI've always been a time bomb but I've never hurt anyone physically (no lie). You just have to learn to control it because it can lead you down a dark road.
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It could just mean that your shy, or it could mean you have Social Anxiety - the fear of being around a crowd of people, being nervous and feeling paranoid of the people around you.  I have that also.  You want to join in on convo and talk but you get so nervous thinking about what you're going to say that you can't think of anything to say.  You can't be yourself....there is medication for it but I'm not on it.   I try to get over it myself, and so far it's been ok.
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You already know that you are not the things that this person has called you, you said so yourself. Now all you need to do is get that person out of your system and move on with your life. Meet new people, try new things. I think that when people are abusive to other people weather it's emotional, physical or verbal it's because that have low self esteem and they want to bring someone down with them. You do not deserve to be treated just anyway. Now that you are out of this relationship you can chooses how you want to be treated. DO NOT let anyone treat you any other way then you want to be. Good luck.
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I'm not the type to confront ppl. So I tend to let those Dopey Big-Headed ppl get to me. I often bottle up my emotions and take it out on others. It's not right, I wish I was the type of person to put dopey big-headed ppl in their place and make them have a small head. thank you.
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I have a very bad temper. I find this very annoying, because every time some one insults me, i embarrass myself. Eg. When I was away at a camp with my friends, we were sitting in the cafeteria eating lunch with around 230 others near us, when I got \nreally angry at one of my friends. I stood up, fists clenched and \nsaid "I am going to kill you" she returned "Id like to see you try" To my later annoyance, I then raised my voice and repeated " I am going to kill you", Until one of my other friends next to me calmed me down. This is a very personal subject and to show your gratitude, could you please vote for me, as I have trouble talking about my temper with others.
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Do something and increase your self confidence.When talking don't too fast take your time and let the words come out.Those who laugh at you aren't worthy of being called friends.I know I had this problem too,still have it but not so evident.Hope this helps.
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Your situation is just like mine ..thats why i always think that those who are descent or qite get the most criticizm ..today was a really bad day and it bothered me really badly when i heard hat girl talking crap loudly about me ..i just carry on and go to talk to those who are good or nice because theres got to be somebody who's nice even so if they are two faced noobody is perfect jake...always try to have a good time and dont care about such situations coz you will be finding yourself loosing alot of time thinking about those who buggs you off ...just be you and dont get too much offended by people and those who dont like it ..Screw Them !!!\n\n\n\nhope i helped
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u r doing the right thing. if you "talk", your opponent can blame you for distracting him. I find that complete silence is even more irritating to your oppenent because they know you are being quiet on purpose. also, always stand or sit out of the oppenents line of vision. that gives then the creeps because they keep thinking you might bump them accidently, or ever so lightly on purpose. don't do anything that could bother your opponent. it will backfire.