and if it matters, do you prefer girth or length, or a nice healthy balance of the two?
205603
Size really doesn't matter take it from someone who's been around the block more then a few times. It's all in how you use it. A guy could have a big one and not even know how to get the girl off. I guess it kinda depends on the girl to.
449823
That's well above average, on both length and width (girth).  It might appear to be thin to you because of the increased length.
111177
Size is not important John. Mine is a bit longer than 5inches (do you think 5inches+ a big one). With my 5inches+ during a long sex intercourse I can bring my girl to get her orgasm several times. We have a wonderful sex together
562273
thicker is better.  too long is just painful when it bumps the end of the cervix (plus all the nerves are in the first inch or so, so really long is just a waste).
581447
It's all about girth not length (no I'm not saying that because I have a short fat one).
135317
I am a firm believer that size does not matter. I have met many guys with big ones and did not know how to use it. I have been satisfied with men who have had little ones only because they knew what they were doing. Wither you are big or little if you know how you use it your fine by me.
172579
I personaly think slim,petite and average size is sexy. But I have seen some above average ladies that have turned my head and grabbed my attention. It's really all about how you carry yourself and how confident you are with yourself. Sometimes thick can be sexy. But all in all i like petite,slim healthy ladies..NOT BONEY!
407627
that depends on how the two of you fit together there big man. If you are too long then yeah, you start bangin on the cervix- which hurts like hell.  I personally prefer rear entry and it doesnt hurt unless he is tryin to find some buried treasure in there.  Actually, many women prefer being on top than on bottom. Personal preferance (and size/shape ratio) really....
466537
I like a happy medium of both.  A gal that likes to get dirty and go hiking, yet can clean up and act like a nice lady is always attractive to me.  Yes, I am a girl......I can answer this question too!
28832
I prefer motion. but if its too small then no matter the size of the ocean waves you had better compensate for the size.  I also must say that girth is much more important then length.
616558
Size truely does not matter - it's what you do with it that counts
15239
Size, length, width, none of that matters if you either really like a guy or love a guy...\nMy husband is overweight and it is hard to get in many positions, but when we make love, it is like the first time all over again because I love him so much...
333477
Oddly, I like very long hair and sometimes really short hair on a woman. My first preference is very long. But that's just me.\n\nShoulder length does nothing for me.
525184
size isnt the issue....its what you do with it that counts........i have known people to be totally dissatisfied with 8inches and totally happy with 5inches......just remember that there is a lot more to sex than just penetration.....
570179
It's ok..depends on the person..I like both
93129
nah! it depends on the girl... me personally i prefer personality
129204
it depends on your height, if we're talking on a health basis.\n\nif you're asking me if i strive to loose weight to attract guys; nah, i don't do that. \n\ni want my weight to be proportional to my height, because i want to have a healthy body.