at what point are you confident enough that she likes you, that you're willing to ask her out?
206995
When they make lots of eye contact, and laugh at what you say/do, and touch you whenever you can, but that's later in the game (unless she's slutty).
428538
just try to be totally urself and if she likes u too then shes prolly nervous too and if u want to ask her out well try to ind out for sure if she likes u and then im sure that if she does then that will give u more confidence to ask her out
91681
Yeah why not.  You have nothing to lose.  If she likes you she'll let you know right then and there if she'll go out with you.
482372
Ok... I've got two answers for you... so here goes...\n\nThe simple answer:  Probably.\n\nThe more complicated, and more important answer....\n\nYou are insecure. You know this... I know you know this, because you are an obviously intelligent person, but you simply haven't gotten to that point where you are really comfortable "going for it." I know this, because I was the same way for most of my life.\n\nGuess what? So is she. So is everyone. Everyone is insecure about things... over time those insecurities change to different things, but everyone has them. Yeah, most likely she likes you... but here's the best part, even if she doesn't, it doesn't really matter. Let's say you go talk to her, and ask her out... there's only really three things that can happen:\n\n1) She says yes, all is well and good with the world, you go off and have a wonderful time, and who knows...\n\n2) She says no. It doesn't matter what the reason is, just be nice and courteous, and let her know that you were interested, and to have a good life or whatever. Remember this: being nice now truly will be good for you later. After all, she might be taken, but that doesn't mean her hot friend is.\n\n3) She doesn't give you a clear answer. This can go a lot of ways, but usually if a girl doesn't make it fairly apparent that the answer is no, that means that the answer would be yes, except there is just something else going on that is keeping her from saying it. That can be anything from purely an insecurity issue, to having just gotten out of a relationship, and not feeling ready to date, etc... but the important thing is this: She didn't say no.\n\nIf #3 happens, let her know you are interested, tell her something nice, and let it go. In a week or two, take another shot and see what happens. If you end up doing this a couple times and she simply isn't going to say yes, then assume there is something you can'd do anything about, and move on.\n\nAnyway, good luck... and ask her out.
609996
Take a chance and ask her out regardless.  You just might be surprised.
70082
Well, first make sure you're not doing anything weird that might make her nervous in a not-good way.  Then just ask her out.  If she says yes, chances are she likes you.  Don't assume she's immediately going to want to have sex though.
22715
Wow, I'm suprised someone other than me has this probablem! Okay well first off don't ever be nervous around her, even if she thinks it's adorable. Kind of hint it at her, like flirt with her often but not too often. If the hinting don't help gather up all your guts and ask her out, if she says yeah good for ya, if she says no, don't give up just keep it cool with her and wait for a little longer.
64787
Just ask her "I am looking for a girl who will realize me. Can you?". ;)
216174
I'm a guy. If a girl just came up to me and asked if I wanted to go out, I would be ecstatic. \n\nJust say "Hey, I think you're attractive and I'd like to take you to dinner and a movie"\n\nHe'll like it. I swear.
361111
don't be shy come on you can do this! you know if you really like her don't be afraid to ask her out.
8485
If she likes you it is just fine
24202
I know its not easy most of the times to ask a girl out, even if you are almost sure that she's gonna say yes. But just gather your courage once and tell her that you really like her and you want to go out with her. Since you already know her, you should hopefully have some idea about her feelings for you. If you think there is a chance that she likes you, then chances are that she does..so go for it.  If you think otherwise then wait for a while and see how things progress..but make sure that if you ask her, then ask her either face to face or if you are too scared then at most over the phone. No emails, ims or text, since you'll never know when she'll get the message (she might be in a bad mood when she does which might go against you). Good luck!
44173
my opinion is that this girl is comfortable around you, because she she knows you for such a long time, i know what its like comming home after a few years and what she wants is security, her feelings are more then likely just friendly, you could always ask her straight out?...
378664
Just try to be yourself. Ask her out sometime and do not be shy about that, it's so natural. I mean, if you want someone open the door to you, you at least(!), have to knack in it...\nHow more simple can it be?
621561
maybe she is waiting for you to ask her out
497334
Are you afraid of rejection? If not, gather courage and tell this girl.
646145
Confidence! Have confidence, man!  Don't slap her on the donkey or anything, just be assertive. ASK HER OUT! If she's making eye contact, she's likin' you too.