What's the big deal about cyber sex?  I mean what do these people get out of it?  You're in front of a desk or something, palying with yourself...  I just can't seem to find the part that's sexy about that, maybe it's just me, though.  What do you guys think?
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Oh come on now desperate lonely people need loving too and if there hand is all they can get give them a break and let them have at it....at least they aren't out there reproducing.
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Hmmm...  *devious mind is at work here*...  It's just me (insert evil laugh here) but I think I'd have a friend go online and flirt with him a little bit.  If he participates, then she has all the proof she needs to let him know that she knows it's him and not the roommate.  And besides, it's sort of fun to watch them try to squirm themselves out of a predicament when they've been cold-busted!
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Wow, great question but it sounds like Adult Content to me and I don't want any of those weasel Puritans flagging me again... Wish I could help, but Yahoo is going full bore with this censorship thing. And here I thought it was just the poor Chi-Coms that got censored by them...  Contact me and I'd be more than happy to discuss it away from prying Puritan eyes...
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He had an "emotional" connection with this person, so...by definition, he already cheated, hence a "real affair".  Sometimes it is worse than when it is just for physical gratification, with no emotion attached.  Don't know if he would have a physical relationship with someone other than his wife...some men prefer to not go beyond the cyber thing, as that is what their turn on is, so it's just a matter of who and how he is, and how sound the marriage is.
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I can't tell if there is really a serious question in here or not, but I will answer as if there is.\n\nI think the Internet is causing more people to become anti-social in the real world and more dependent on the (nearly) instant gratification we can get in here...porn, electronics overnight, movies on demand, the list goes on.\n\nAlso, people are starting to become dependent on the "relationships" they form in here in chat rooms and dating sites and spending less time with friends and family.  \n\nBottom line is, people were designed to be social, moving creatures, experiencing new people, sites, tastes and smells. Not sat in one place for hours chatting with total strangers who we know little about.  It's rotting our minds and moderation is the key, just like anything else in life.\n\nWe're all going to hell in a hand basket and the only thing that will stop the downfall of society is if mother nature steps in and takes away the power.  Then we'd be back to hand tools and horses and we'd all know and trust our neighbors a whole lot more.\n\nI'll step off my soap box now...sorry.
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Talking dirty and cyber are 2 different things... You can talk dirty to someone being playful, but the point of cyber is to actually get off.  For me personally, it holds no interest.  I'm a hands-on kind of girl...
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Awww that's so sweet honey!! I think that it's easy for people to dismiss the validity of others in cyberspace....but at the other end of the computer is a human being, I think it's perfectly sweet that you think of your YA friends.  I have met some fantastic people on here and I don't count them as less valuable because it's the internet.  (((((hug)))))
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Wanting, and needing to cheat? Shows that there are, in some cases a different set of circumstances that trigger such desires to be accomplish, as much for man as for woman's? Honesty and dedication are the basic needs that in such scenario are obviously missing. I don't really know what, and why there are such impulses so indescribably real, though I believed overall cheating is a sign of immaturity as well of insecurity from the two, as well than the third sided triangle? been involved in the act of cheating. Though I know that depend of the circumstances and especial cases of each individuals involved the results are most all the time, disastrous. As well than a very bad and sad experiences, if there are Children's involved.---Thou lol..., I will subjects to all to avoid it-----, especially went this become a sex-basic act of betrayal.
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It is because both sides are bored and perverted. What is sex to begin with? Depends how you define it as well, you can't physically have sex with the other person if you are in totally different places. Having someone talk in that certain manner to them brings sexual pleasure to possibly do other things. Its all about the pleasure not the purpose...if that makes any sense ha.
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Randy - just maybe they can't cope (promptly) with the amount of abuse being reported to them, across all categories.\n\nThere've been a few questions from trolls, I've sought to answer today, that have been removed by the time I got to the Submit button.\n\nWe could all make a concerted effort simply not to answer such provocative questions (although I suspect that wouldn't be sustained)\n\nAlso, I think it's good etiquette (I've seen others do it) to post a response which says simply Reported - that way others will know not to do likewise.  Of course, in doing so you do lose the anonymity - But I reckon if we can talk about our sexual preferences on this forum, we can be honest enough to admit when we're defending them.   \n \nIn this way, perhaps Yahoo! Answers will find the reports of Abuse a little easier to handle.  \n\nAnyone else got any ideas on how we can help Y!Answers with this?
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It's not intended to be for kids or perverts only.  It's intended to be a networking site as a way for people to communicate and keep up with one another.  It just happens that it took off for younger people quicker then it did for others.
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i really dont understand how it could at all. i mean... its the same as watching porn... and all u can do is M*st*rb*t* to remove the sexual tension from yourself... what good is that?
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I assume you mean "cybersex"\n\nCybersex or computer sex or net sex is a virtual sex encounter in which two or more persons connected remotely via a computer network send one another sexually explicit messages describing a sexual experience. It is a form of role-playing in which the participants pretend they are having actual sexual intercourse, by describing their actions and responding to their chat partners in a mostly written form designed to stimulate their own sexual feelings and fantasies. It sometimes includes masturbation. The quality of a cybersex encounter typically depends upon the participants' abilities to evoke a vivid, visceral mental picture in the minds of their partners. Imagination and suspension of disbelief are also critically important. Cybersex can occur either within the context of existing or intimate relationships, e.g. among lovers who are geographically separated, or among individuals who have no prior knowledge of one another and meet in virtual spaces or cyberspaces and may even remain anonymous to one another. In some contexts cybersex is enhanced by the use of webcams to transmit real-time video of the partners.
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I know what you mean. You need AOL for the real chat rooms that so not include 12-21yr-olds selling their own porn. AOL's chatrooms labeled nutrition actually talks about nutrition/weight loss NOT age/sex/location cyber sex like AIM chats.
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cybersoulmate.com is a dating/social site that's free...and I've seen people post about plentyofish.com (I think that's it, do a search)
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Ha!\n\nFunny how its always a 'friend' with strange habits eh? If your 'friend' tells you  these intimate things about himself, then why don't you just ask your 'friend' what he gets out of it???\n\nThe problem with posting questions about 'friends' is that some cynical people will believe the 'friend' is the person posting the question who just wants to talk about something that turns them on.
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The computer is what each user CHOOSES it to be.  If you think or choose for it to be just porn, games and chat-rooms, that's exactly what it will be.  If it's a resource for information, a tool to express your imagination, or a means of communication to the outside world....well, that's your prerogative,too.