my friend is such a brat i need to tell her if i dont she will be like this forever no one really likes her we all talk behind her back which is wrong but we need to tell her can you help me?
203634
A friend does not talk like this about another friend.  Maybe you need to re-evaluate yourself to determine who the real "brat" is.\n\nHow do you think your friend would feel if she heard that you are talking behind her back and making fun of her?  How would you feel if it was being done to you?  Never, ever treat someone any differently than you yourself would like to be treated.\n\nMaybe you need to tell your friend what a "brat" you are and suggest that she deserves a better friend than what you are capable of being.
115173
Don't be afraid of confrontation. Just tell her that you don't appreciate how she b*tches about everything. In fact, tell those girls what she says about then and you can all confront her at the same time.
121938
Just give her the cold shoulder for a while or don't talk to her because if she is doing this to you she is not really your friend she is just a backstabber.But I would just give her the cold shoulder for a lil bit and see what happens.
514846
Tell her to stop then because it is hurting your feelings.  If she don't want to stop, then you should stop hanging out with her.  Friends should respect each other.  Stick to your decision, no matter what the consequence maybe.  Don't worry about her gossiping about you, the most important thing is you stick to who you are as a person.  Eventually your action will speak louder than her words, if she retaliate like that.
200733
well if its only one class that she does that.. BUT still that is not wat a friend would do! If i were you i would talk to her alone like at one of your houses or even during lunch at skool. just say " i need to talk to you privatly" and then she'll understand that its important and you can just tell her that u dont like her leaving you behind. if she is your friend, she'll understand.
309369
You should give her the opportunity to know how you feel and what is going to happen if she doesn't change the way she is behaving.  She is probably in actuality a very insecure girl that feels that she needs to put others down.  Tell her that a friend doesn't act that way, and that just as you would for her, you are defending your friends and their feelings...that is what friends do.
94292
Try talking with her and tell her why she isnt a very good friend, be frank with her and that will help, she may later become a good friend. Remember, it isnt easy to get "GOOD" friends.
496538
You have to tell her. Its just what friends have to do. I know it's hard to tell her. But she'll think ur not a good friend. And probably will never trust you again. I know it's going to be hard but worth.
280628
If she is talking about you behind your back but being nice to your face, call her out on it. This world needs people with integrity, so tell her you know what she's doing and you don't appreciate it. Ask her if there is some deep-seeded hurt or regret that she may have against you. Don't play the highschool game. Just ask for honesty and be honest back. Even if it makes things worse, at least you spoke your mind. Then forgive her and forget. That's the only way that you'll find closure.
498022
hey, i'm in the sixth grade too!!  I went through this last year.  It sounds like Justice really wants to be YOUR friend (she likes attention)  Tell her you do not apreciate the way she's acting and you would like her to stop or else you will not hang around her anymore.  If she doesn't stop do exactly that!  (The way this works is Justice will be lonely, trust me even if she does say really bad things to you if you have to stop hanging out with her she will most likely come runnning back to you oneday!  When this happens you must set promises in your friendship, like to be your friend she'll have to not talk about your other friends or anyone else.)  If she never does come back you really don't need a friend who talks about others and makes you feel uncomfortable.)  Good luck!!!
469288
Be up front and serious with him.  Tell him if he doesn't knock it off you will never be his friend again.  Do it in private, don't make it a shouting match.  If he doesn't take you seriously, start doing to him what he is doing to you.  Start acting like he likes the ugliest slut in the school and embarrass him really bad about it.  He will get the point.
659819
Just tell her you can't be friends with someone like that, but you would be happy to help her turn her life around. If she is truly your best friend, she will change
525492
Tell your friend that he is a piece of sh*t and that she needs to ditch him. But do not tell her that he is trying to get with you.
232713
dont forgive her talk to her. tell her whats bothering you and ask her to stop. if she doesnt stop then tell her you guys are through. i had the same prob many many times, lost a few friends but not many. and i dont regret anything so hey take my advice, or leave it, its up to you, all your decions are up to you, none else. good luck.
323706
Just tell her how you feel and if that doesn't work, tell her that you want nothing more to do with her.  Tell her that it is callous and in poor taste to be discussing it with you around and that you have better things to do than to listen to her discussing that sort of thing.  Good luck!
347961
Tell her that you won't let her do that to you anymore.  If she values your friendship, then you need to let her know that you will not allow her to continued to do this.  People will always walk all over you until they know that they can't.  YOu have to stick up for yourself.  Don't talk to her for a week or so.  Then call her up and say.....next time, it will be over.  Don't treat me like that anymore.
329943
Tell her the truth. Let her know that the other individual is your friend and that you don't want to talk negatively about anyone. If she can't respect that, she doesn't respect your friendship.