Do u accept doing SEX only when u married with ur husband or doing SEX with guys?\n\nIs it embarrased to you when ur husband say "are u virgin??" while u had SEX experince with someone else \n\nplz give us ur opinion!!
202005
are you like 10?  doing sex?
275080
There's nothing wrong with waiting to give yourself to your spouse.  I think it's more romantic to save yourself for your spouse than to "test drive" people in a misguided attempt for compatibility.  Nowadays "test driving" can kill you; I'm not willing to put my life in the hands of a condom.  I'd rather just wait.  I know that my body is special and not to be shared with just anyone; not everyone is supposed to share such a private,special, intimate and sacred act with me.  I guess I'm just old fashioned, but I don't care.
69287
never done that, but i would feel guilty too. Sex is supposed to be between one man and one woman (in the context of marriage, by my belief) not a couple of each. She feels guilty because she doesnt feel right about what you did.
162440
are you asking if someone has had sex before getting married in general?  or are you asking if someone has had sex before marriage with the person s/he are married to?  or are you asking if someone has lost their virginity to the one person they are married to?  those are all very different questions and have very different answers with different meanings.\n\ni can say- yes, yes and no.  i am very happy i did not marry the guy i lost my virginity to.  i was too young and dumb.  i am glad that i have had some experience before i met my current husband.  do i wish i had waited until marriage to my husband to have sex, not necessarily.  but i do wish i had waited a lot longer.  \n\ni am happy that my husband and i lived together and loved together BEFORE marriage.  we were married a little over a year after we met.  we've been together several years now.  the marriage is AWESOME, our sex life is great (7+ times a week- no lie).  but we were not virgins when we met, but we did have sex out of wedlock and became married.  it all depends on your heart's intent, level of religiousness (interpretation) and commitment level.  it CAN and DOES work (against my strict protestant upbringing)!
37022
I thik now a days it should not realy matter to waite till your married there is some men that do preffer a virgin rather than someone that has been with another man,but the woman is not always lucky do find a man that is a virgin. I think yo explre safe in life is not bad due to you only want to keep your marrige happy and know what he and you may both want intimatly.
187377
I had my first sex 4 1/2 years ago, with the one who is my husband now. I was 17 years old and I think it was the right time. Don't do it too early. And try to find the right person for it. This isn't easy, but one should try. I am, personally, happy that I had my first sex with the one who is now my husband. I am really happy whith that. On the other hand, there are many people telling you should have several partners before getting married. This is what you have to find out yourself. Anyway, take your time. Don't force yourself to anything.
526582
Why is it ewwwww. You people need to try things before you say ewwwwwwww. I'm married. Even before I was married I have been with women. It spices things up. Its far from ewww..
470273
i am an 18 yr. old female who is still a virgin as well, and i totally charash it. it is the most preshes thing to me. being a  virgin(keeping your verginity tell your married) is very rare now days. and trust me i have had many chances to brake it several times, but i just cant do that because i would be just like all the other people. i might even end up with an unwanted pregancy, std's, aids, the shame of loosing your verginity to someone who you really dont love and care to spend time with every day of your life, for the rest of your life, ect..... i could go on all night and day listing things but i wont.\nI also agree with you. i would charish it tell your married and have that be your first time. hopefually that will be her first time too. and that way you both will have something special to look forward to, and you wont really have a clue if your bad or good the first time. stay strong and keep your virginity. i know that it's hard but its possible. dont let people bolly you into it. I personally would prefure someone who is still a virgin when i marry him. best of luck. remember if you have sex just one time their is no being a vergin again.
188199
I married and worship a girl who was a virgin when we met.\n\nIf she hadn't been, I would have treated her as just another girl and never married her.  \n\nWhat I mean is that she was far more special than other girls I had dated.  Why?  Because I knew that when she gave herself to me, it was something very valuable and a big step for her.\n\nAs I said, I still worship her.\n\nOh, and she has a personality and innocence that far exceed those of other women I know.  I view her as a rare angel.\n\nI think her willingness to stay a virgin indicated how amazing of a person she truly is.\n\nGirls who don't keep their virginity?  Well, they get divorced every day.  Why not dump a girl who has had another penis in her?  She's not THAT special
225519
You sound somewhat like me a year ago. I don't have Christian values, but I valued myself enough that I didn't take sex lightly. I waited until I was 21 and would have waited longer if I had not found the perfect guy that I know I want to be with forever. Stick to what you believe and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin and waiting until you're ready to have sex. Worry about school, that's the most important part, not what your friends think.
189483
God made sex a sacred thing meant to be only for married couples, plus I hear that it's better when you're married. No pressure or worries about babies or anything else you might not be ready for...
216272
Did it ever occur to you that there is nothing wrong?  There are some guys who want to be virgins until married.  Why should that be an issue?  A guy has the right to say no and to wait until marriage.  Some guys don't believe in a double standard...they want a virgin so they will also remain virginal.
505857
My oppinion is that you are a few of the smart loyal and honest men out there and I applaud you for your well train of thought and consideration. I do not feel anyone should look down on you just because you have considered things that for others it doesn't even cross their mind. Continue your great way of thought simply because so many of us fall under pressure especially when being tempted with sex, and drugs. I was also a virgin when I got married and so many friends told me I'd regret it but I've been married for a year and the thought of cheating on my husband because I never had anyone before him never crosses my mind. Not to mention the great respect I got and continue to get from my husband everytime we make love!  I'm sure you will find somone someday who is going to also appriciate your well thought in life! Good luck and God bless
521303
okay im not down for all of that but I do have some advice... You guys should try swinging..Its were the two of you get together with other couples who are interested in the same thing as u,  and you switch partners...for example, you with another wife, her with another husband.but u do it the same room around eachother that way u both know what went on and its alot safer then random men... Most of the time swingers will test for aids,stds, and other stuff more frequently then random people will.Its the safest way to have fun with other people without catching something...But for the record...I am not down with that!!!
52056
I think it's wonderful your staying a virgin thats the way it's suposed to be..your suposed to save it for when you married thats the most wonderful gift you can give your husband...if this man doesn't respect your decision then you need to find someone who will..it's hard in todays world to find someone to respect that but you will and when you do you'll know he truley loves you if he will wait for you..good luck
294514
Sex with another woman when you are married is not innocent...(It can also give you sexually transmitted diseases.) It is disrespectful to your relationship and to your wife.  How would you feel if your wife is having sex with another person?  Even though it is okay in your religion, it is not okay in your relationship because you have made a commitment to love your wife.  Think before you do something that you'll regret.  Good luck.
224167
do i get points for this? b/c it might shock you. lol. anal sex. although i love vaginal (normal) sex and of course oral...anal sex is freaking amazing. lol. now i'm waiting until im married though...so hopefully that'll be soon. hehe.