My girlfriend say that my sex drive is abnormal for someone my age.  I think we have had sex like six times one day but the average would be about three or four.  I am thirty-five, and in good shape.  Is that unnormal?
203681
You are normal...and she is WONDERFUL!
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There's a number of variables to consider...Age and physical fitness, stress on the job, in the home or health related issues. In general, posters claiming that they want it as often as possible are generally correct. But what's 'possible' will vary from man to man. Most men can attain an erection and sustain sex to orgasm once daily at least through their 40's. But sex is as much about the mind as it is the body, and sometimes familiarity can breed contempt, as the saying goes.\n\nMen's hormonal levels drop over the years as well...just as womens hormones change over time. These drops first occur in the mid 20's, and slowly continue over the next several decades. This can also (negatively) affect sex drive. Certain health conditions can affect performance ability, especially some vascular conditions and spinal surgery or injury; which would affect either the ability to get and maintain an erection from a blood standpoint, or the same ability from a nerve or 'feeling' standpoint.\n\nHow often should a healthy man who loves you and finds you exciting and alluring want to have sex with you? The answer remains as often as possible!\n\nIf you've been in a steady physical relationship for a year or more, and your partner is over 30 years old, don't be surprised to see sex slipping to 2-3 times a week. In the 40's and 50's, it's relatively normal for sex to go down to 1-2 times per week. And an occasional bout of absitnence is not unusual, particularly if there's some stress outside the bedroom that's affecting his mind. Remember, there's almost as much going on with the mind as with the body where sex is concerned!\n\nHope this helps a bit!
301111
I am a believer in couples having sex every day, but I realize that with busy lives and hormones and menstruation that just isn't possible. Realistically a couple should have sex at least twice a week, ideally three. They should be reminding each other that they are attractive and appealing and eager to physically express their love.
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I don't think 'every couple of days' is a low sex drive. Men who think about sex constantly should not operate heavy machinery! \n\nI have almost always had a high sex drive, sometimes I think it approaches an addiction. And in that case, maybe I'm using sex to try to satisfy some unmet need in my life. The only times I have felt that I didn't need sex all the time are when I was getting a lot of exercise and reading the Bible daily. At those times I felt generally more fulfilled and didn't need sex (or alcohol) as much. \n\nMaybe your finance is just better balanced than a lot of guys. How's the rest of his life? Is he committed to family, friends, career, without being a mommy's boy, needing to go out with the guys every night, or a workaholic? Look for commitment with balance, and you'll be okay.
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It's completely normal for relationships and individual people to go through highs and lows of lust.  Think about things that make you feel really sexy that you wouldn't normally equate with sex, and translate it for the bedroom.  If a new outfit is exciting, get some funky new undies to show off too.  If you like to exercise and enjoy your body, look up some new positions.  If you like to travel and see new sights, get down and dirty in anyplace other than your bedroom.  And don't feel quilty!  Guys' sex drives peak at about age 18-25, but ours peaks somewhere between age 30-40.  Plus, you feel like sex after your period becuase that's just before you ovulate, which is when you are most fertile and receptive.  Work with that.  But don't worry too much about it.  It's totally normal.
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Testosterone in women... a bit of it... is normal...\nit's responsible for their SEX drive.\n\nToo much caused "problems" like body hair... but... the right amount causes a nice healthy sex drive.\n\nAs with all this stuff... SEE A DOCTOR if you think you have a problem.
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Maybe it's tiring him out by wanting it that much. Different people have different sex drive levels. Stop doing it so much? Or try asking him why.\n\nAnd yes, it is normal. :)
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People might just have different sex drives.\n\nI have two questions for you.\n1. Do you love him?\n2. How important is sex to you?\n\nAnswer these two questions and you might be able to figure out what you need to do.
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Not all women have low sex drives. The mood swings and being tired sounds like she is going through menopause. Women start menopause early even though they don't know it. It starts in the mid 30s on some women. Just be there for her and maybe suggest marriage counseling or try to get her to suggest it herself.
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dude its normal!U are suppressing a wild beast :p .Just let it go man and try to have some more sex.Try not to think abt girls that much or ul become a "sex freak".Figure out whats the most thing abt a girl that excites u the most and go and ahead and seek it and try some intercourse once in a while and satisfy ur sexual desire.
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That is normal to feel this way at the age of 18. It is something new to your life and it feels good. I'm glad that you stay with your boyfriend and that he is there for you most of the time.Masturdating when he is not there is o.k. but fantasizing about a threesome is not healthy. Sex is one on one two people in Love.But remember there is more to Love than just having sex together learn and discover each others interest. Take on more responsibilties in your life you won't be thinking about sex all the time.Love your boyfriend but Love him for more than just sex. It is normal to behave this way at 18, but it is unhealthy as to much sex drains alot of nutrients from the body as you get older it can cause health problems as well as not having enough sex. Once a day is healthy twice a day if you are young. But find other interest. If you have uncontrolable desires, start a hobby or full time job to take your mind off sex for a while. Also eat a healthy diet with lots of vegetables avoid sugar and alcohol these will also drain nutrients out from your body. Good Luck
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If you are a male around the ages of 13-60 (sexual peak time though is about 18-30) or a woman 12-120 (sexual peak time is about 18-60) it is VERY normal to think of sex all time..in fact, if you didn't, that would be a problem.  So relax, enjoy..and by all means..bring yourself to climax often..it keeps the whole reproductive system healthy (this goes for women too).  Sex drive is related to the amount of testosterone in the body.  The more a person has (male or female, and we all have some) the higher the sex drive.  Some have more than others.  Good luck
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From what I heard....\n\nMales spike sexually at 18 while females spike after 30 (this seems true with my 36 year old friend)\n\nstrange how they dont really meet at the same time, but I guess its a good thing eh? We may have too many people in this world if they were at the same time.
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I don't think there is anything wrong with loving sex. Everyone has a different sexual appetite, yours is just strong. You are only a slut if you sleep around. Find other ways to get your fill of sex if you're not with a partner. There is no reason to be ashamed of a high sex drive. Enjoy it. I'm sure your partner will love you for it!
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i'm around that age too and my libido is odd these days. sometimes i'm gagging for it but most of the time I can't be bothered. I think it depends on the relationship, if you are still in love, if you still find your partner attractive sexually, if you are feeling depressed/stressed, also hormones play a big part.
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Contrary to popular belief, you can't tell how much someone is having sex by how much they ejaculate (this does not count for having sex eight times in one day) Could just be that he hasn't been drinking as many fluids, or exercising more, or eating less. Is he on a diet, or started a new exercise routine?  There are lots of variables.  I wouldn't base my opinion on just that...having said that, if you find some undies that aren't yours or his, you may want to have a conversation.
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9, only because I do like and enjoy it in my life immensely, but I don't "gotta have it." Also, it truly matters, to me, what sexual experiences you have to either rate it a 1 or 10, so the question is pretty subjective and open to bias. \n\nAlso, my appetite has increased over the years only because I've gotten more comfortable with my body, pleasing my partner, and enjoying it than when I first started.