Why would someone when asked directly claim to not be interested in  certain people that it is obvious they are interested in??\nDo they not realize that lying will cause a serious lack of trust and loss of interest in them because of it?
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I agree, They should at least have it in them to admit it.. LOL...but I think men do it, in case some other girl is listening, so he can have her as a back up, in case the one he is interested in, doesn't want him...  :)
137044
Yes, but because you have to be so careful to weed out the liars and those who don't interest you, it's just not worth the time and effort. And after a while, the experience with a few bad apples makes you leary of trusting anyone. That's no way to be when what you want to do is open your heart.
32068
People lie to you because they don't want you to know the truth...
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I read your question and your answers.....no one attacked you. I was expecting to read some evil, vulgar things....but no.  There was one or two in which they were quite blunt with you, but all the others were quite sensitive and informative.\n\nBut, on this thing people are going to be jerks. Even to the most legit questions get a$$hole remarks. \n\nPersonally, I think you should have confirmed the rumor with him, before just dumping him. I mean, you've known the guy for  4 years, so you HAVE to know how is with women......right?\n\n To avoid that happening again is kind of an impossibilty. Because, most people put on such a facade in the beginning of a relationship.
467961
Hm... it might be best to trust your gut, here.  I've told people, even best friends, that I'm not interested in people I'm actually interested in.
48725
They hate when someone else recognizes that they are lying or they don't want to admit something to themselves. It doesn't seem so bad until they hear it from another person.\n\nI'd personally rather hear the truth even if it makes me mad. At least I respect you for saying it.
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The reason they do it is that they expect a strong reaction from you, even a denial, so they can have cheap fun. So, if you just say "So what?" to whoever brings it up, it would probably make them lose interest, and leave you alone. Be more careful in your choice of friends.
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Honesty.....it is the one thing most do not have, though they would nearly always refute the accusation if challenged ,and that in its self is dishonesty. They seem to have alterior motives in everthing they say and do, in business especially. I am a cynic as I have proved on many occasion that the above is prevelant in most people.
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any one that says they dont do it is a liar whether they are in a relationship or not(unless of course its physically impossible for them!!)so i wouldnt worry mate people have needs they need to cater 4 if it makes you happy why stop.
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Certain things happen when folks lie. It is hard to make eye contact so you may want to try forcing that. Most people will give more details to a lie than when they are telling the truth. \nBut can you handle the truth?
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I think that people are more "open" on-line than in real life, so while you meet somebody on-line you know more about him/her, know more about his/her deep feelings, personality than if you knew them in real life. If you meet them they may seem different and you might feel cheated, but actually it's not because they were lying to you, it's because in real life we all try to put on the mask to fit in society.
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You shouldn't judge people by what they look like, but then again if they did lie, how would you ever be able to trust them to always tell the truth.\nThen again if you aren't sure if people on such sites are truthful, then just don't arrange to meet people from such sites.
98448
Its not what your saying hun....It`s who your saying it too!Some people cant keep secrets and those are the ones you talk to obviously,sorry but its true...:(
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Why start you relationship off lying...
81055
fukin people! 1.Why is honesty so difficult for people?\nOne of them is lying....Right????? Or it's the clinton end around.She isn't sleeping with him, their wide awake while banging each other.\n2.Whats with the bullshit? If i cant have it(or don't want it)you can't have it either--"ex" husband. Why not let them be happy. Oh wait, that takes honesty.
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Hi the biggest phoney of them all! I would have to say the same as you.\n\nI hope that doesn't make me the second biggest phoney of them all. Actually, I think those are all very important qualities, along with open-mindedness and honesty. Without honesty, all the others are pretty much rendered moot for me, since there won't be any trust.\n\n_____________________
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good ? ppl lie online, that's for sure. but in a bar, you see them in person and they can still lie to you. i dont know. either way isnt too smart, but shit happens. and sometimes ppl fall in love, rarely, meeting ppl this way.