My bf whats to break up because of what his cosen told he about what i said to her. i asked him to give me a nother chance. he said he will think about it . is that a good sign that he is willing to think about it and if he does not want to get back toghter what should i do?
203347
what will be will be, if he loves you he will be back and if not it is better to know now
595898
If he says he doesn't want to break up with you. Then he doesn't. It's summer. He has a right to also rest and go on vacation withhis family or whatever. He still wants you. Don't break up such a beautiful thing for that. He didn't cheat on you or degrade you, he just is going on vacation. That doesn't deserve a break up. Be individual and do your own thing to. Good luck ;) and I hope you stay with him ;)!
476871
the slight possibility and the only now and again says something....he may want to get back with her, so just leave him to it...don't mean to sound bad when i say this but i think it's time to just move on...he has stated that he wants to be just mates with you...so respect him for being honest...you'll find someone else, but waiting around for him is a waste of time...he still has it for his ex
203315
Sweety, you have tofollow your heart, Im in the same boat, except if my ex would have me back, I would go running to him, I dont have to think about it I know what I want Im just scared to tell him because what if he rejects me!!!  So just take your time right now to think about what you really truly want, why did you break up, is it worth it, will things be different, what is your heart saying?  good luck...xxx
338749
Sounds like he likes you.  Maybe he is thinking to himself, why did I let her go ??  The only way to get rid of the feeling is to not see him all the time but now that your bf is friends with him that will be hard.
330305
His feelings are hurt.  He probably still likes you and realizes he made a mistake breaking up with you.  Give him some time.
162331
Did he give you a reason for the break-up?  I'm thinking that he doesn't want to rush into another relationship right now because he is still nursing a broken heart and doesn't want it broken again.  Give him so time.  The good news is that he still keeps in touch with you. Let him know that you're still interested and let him call the shots unless it looks like he's calling all the wrong plays.  In that case, put your foot down and tell him that you want him back but you agree to take it slow.  Let him know that you love him and don't want to hurt him.
41575
I think he was just trying to dump you easily. Though it sounds mean for him doing it, he was trying to be nice and blame hisself and not you for him wanting to break up. As for why he wanted to break up, I wouldn't worry about it because atleast you know it's over and you can find someone now that wants your love.\n   Good Luck.
612997
Okay first of all since the break up nothing has changed so I'm assuming that you all are still intimate with one another and you're still arguing like lovers do.  The only thing that's bothering you right now is that you don't have that "TITLE" anymore as lovers which means that he can do what he wants and so can you.  So basically this dude is getting his cake and eating it too served on a silver platter with a platinum fork.  Do not allow him to question your where abouts every time especially if he's doing it in a "boyfriend" way.  I mean at this point he's looking at the situation and saying to himself " Why get back together when breaking up with her is just the same plus I get to mess around and not be faulted for it" Does it makes sense to you now!!! Lay down some rules and set boundaries within your relationship as friends and I guarantee you he'll miss that feeling as being your boyfriend and coming running back, it never fells.
507773
It sounds like you need to make the decision for him and break it off.  If he is still talking with his ex, then he is not over her and will not be able to fully commit to you or anyone else until he is.  It sounds like he needs to be taking care of his issues with his ex and not getting involved with anyone else until he has that figured out.  You sound more like his safety net than anything and if she was to call him back and tell him to come back to her, you would be dumped and he would be gone.
667150
maybe he was gonna say i love you...talk to him and see what it is he wanted to say and if he did want to break u up then move on
318132
I've been in your shoes and I've been in the opposite side of your shoes. Clearly, like previously stated, this man does not know what he wants. Do you really think it's possible for a man to break up with you and change all those feelings of romance into friendship in just three days?!? He's just lonely and trying to fill the void (platoniclly, sexually, who knows), and he's probably unaware that your heart is at stake. If you want to be "friends" with someone after you've dated them, break up for real, cut contact, go about your life normally again, see other people, wait AT LEAST 3 months (maybe more), then see how you feel. A few years ago I had a gf and we went back and forth with the break-up/friend thing, and looking back it was such a waste of time. We ended up breaking up for good and we don't talk anymore. Now life is good. I have found another great girl and I don't need to be friends with my ex. After two years we've never done the break-up back and forth thing.\n\nGo after the one you love, don't waste your time and energy trying to decide if this confused guy is for you - he's obviously not. Your heart, future, family, etc. is too valuable.
416106
While we like to believe the our friends have the best intentions when telling us something that someone else said about us or our relationship, they don't always get it right.  It sounds like this is the case.  He said, "not at the moment" - he didn't rule it out forever, just not right now.  You have to ask yourself if this person is worth waiting for, if the relationship is worth working for.  Something I have discovered is that when people break up there is usually a reason, and unless that reason is resolved completely, it is only a matter of time, if they get back together, that they break up again.\n\nBottom line here - if you believe him, does it really matter what anyone else says or thinks?
144701
U broke up for a reason.... it wouldnt be fair on your current boyfriend to finish it with him just because he comes back on the scene. It isn't easy, but his lost you, urve gone onto better things. Do stay mates tho...you never know whats around the corner, so if something did happen between you and your current c/f, he will still be ther!
349772
OK, perhaps he sees it this way: He likes you still and on some level feels guilty about dumping you. Even if he believes that breaking up was the right thing to do. But he still would like to see you and perhaps hang out with you, but he doesn't want to how do I put this, insist upon seeing you since that could lead to an awkward moment with you telling him no or not saying no but implying it. So he left it up to you to decide if you want to hang out with him or not. This allows you to politely say no without the awkwardness of saying no. You just don't give him a shout out. You're "too busy" or it slipped your mind or something like that.\n\nOf course, he could also be doing it as a means to get back together, but he could also just miss hanging out with you. \n\nAnd yes, I have hung out with exes before. See how they were doing and all that. Sometimes you miss a part of your life, even if you have moved on.
328531
You assume he knows the answer to that question.  Sometimes guys can look at a girl and be unsure of how they feel (and vice versa).  Sometimes they just want to see what path the relationship takes on its own.  \n\nNow, the question is, do you want to see where that path goes?  Or do you want something more definite if not now, soon?  \n\nI can't tell you what you should do, other than feel around for it.  Search your heart.  And you can take a walk with this and not be committed to him 100%.  Personally I avoid confrontation since it has a tendency to back people into a corner, but if it remains ambiguous and you are unsatisfied with the relationship, I'd talk to him about where he sees you going, if anywhere.
513509
sounds like he regrets breaking up with you, kinda like you don't know what you have 'till it's gone.  it's your choice if you decide to take him back.  if you really care for him and feel he is being honest then go for it.