my friends bf is sooooo annoying he keeps flirting with me! and says hes not gona kiss his girl friend on her b-day and she wont dump him! any advice?
209339
That is really up to your friend. That's something that she is going to have to learn from on her own. When someone is in love with someone else, they do not want to listen to anything anyone is telling them and often times they know that it's wrong but they are afraid to admit it due to insecurity. They are afraid of letting go because they are afraid that they may not be able to find someone else or they are afraid of the painful consequences it is going to cause. \n\nYour friend is going to learn the hard way. That is how many of us learn is the hard way. Just let it be. The guy is a jerk and she is having a difficult time seeing that. \nIt is unfortunate, but she is going to end up with a broken heart, but only experience will be able to tell her that. \n\nJust support her and let her know that you are there for her if she needs you.
264848
You sure you want him for him or just to stick-it to your  "friend"??  I wouldn't call what she's doing the act of a friend!  You certainly don't need any more "friends" like her!\n\nForget Josh - you're too good for this fickle slob!  And what he's doing isn't "sweet".\n\nAdjust your standards and go find a "real" bf - they're out there, believe me!
424628
I have a friend like that.  And it gets very annoying!!  Her main thing is with guys though, she always has to be center of attention.  Whenever I would be talking about something to do with me, she would always butt in and start talking about herself.  Finally one time she butted in and I stopped her and said,"Can I finish my story that I wanted to tell you and then I will listen to yours!"  I was just honest with her about always interrupting me with her stories, and when it came to guys she was always being too pushy for me to get with someone. (She's married so it was like she would do the flirting for me-and that is NOT GOOD!)\nShe is better now but she still has her moments.  I have known her for about 10 years now so we are pretty honest with each other, and we know we will always be there when the other has a problem.  So I say just be honest with her, a little at a time, and remember there are probably things about you that annoy her also and if she mentions any just take it as constructive criticism.  No one is perfect and who better to tell you about your faults than your best friend, that way you can work on being a better person together.\n\nRemember be gentle and honest!
175399
just tell him that it annoys you when he does it. if he doesn't stop then you've got to re-think some stuff. if he respects the whole you then he will respect your request to stop hiting you even if it's a way of flirting for him.
473264
I was in the same situation once. Talk to him and tell him how you feel and that you want him.Or you can flirt around him, but don't do it all of a sudden.Take it day by day,get a little flirtyer every day and you may have a chance.....If she threatens you she probably isn't your real friend.Talk to her to and tell her.
278829
Leave it be. She is jealous that he gets your attention over her. Immature of her. She needs a BF.
662435
Maybe ur jealous of her. If ur b/f  ares about u and wants to be with u, then I don't think he would leave u, I guess u got a try and trust ur b/f. If u call her then its just gonna make u look bad. Probably sound better if ur b/f ask her him self to stop flirting with him. But don't start forcing ur b/f to tell her to leave him alone. I dunno how u stop being jealous of people.
201659
Your friend was wrong to making a move on your bf, if she did. Maybe your boyfriend was talking about your friends because he knows how important they are in your life? Try talking about it with all three of them. Get each other sides of the story before you jump to anymore conclusions! Good luck!
514557
leave him alone.. omg it pisses me off when girls hit on a guy that already haves a fuckin gf... LEAVE HIM ALONEEE.. when the time comes and he breaks up with his gf.. then wait a little (a month and a half minium) because his gf is prob rli HURT at the moment just dont be a bitch to her and leave her guy alone!
25712
He's using you as an emotional band-aid. You deserve someone who is attentive to just you. You  prop up his stupid ego and that's it- get rid of him. Pay attention- nice guys are flirting with you every day that you don't notice because you are busy being a booty call for a jerk!
164991
Ok, who's boyfriend is it yours or hers? All right then, go up to her and say that you don't appreciate her touching your bf. Also that he got a girl now and she can't act the like if he don't got a girl, that she got to respect the fact that he got a girl.
432728
If you do not like him, just be frank and direct with him once and for all. Tell him waht a loser he is and how he makes you pity him. Or if you like him have "the talk" with him, but he needs to know no matter what u feel about him always flirting with you. Then he should stop.
93374
Keep being cautious!  You can still hang out with him and see how he handles being around other women.  If you notice he is a major flirt, know that his behavior is a reg flag of possible playeritus.  If your friends are saying those things about him, ask them how they know that he messes around with lots of other girls.  Maybe one of your friends has had a personal experience with the guy that justifies their warnings to you.   A good way to find out more about his behavior is to ask his (guy) friends about his dating history.  If he jumps from one girl to another as easy as frogs can jump from lily pad to lily pad, there's another red flag for you.  I'm glad he hasn't tried to pull the screwing trick on you--but always be ready that he could do that to you when you least expect it (particularly if alcohol or the likes are involved).  Well, good luck!
542137
Maybe you are doing what you might think of as harmless flirting, but apparently your friends dont think so. They think its inconsiderate and disrespectful to them. All you can do is apologize and back off when thier boyfriends are around.
626261
sorry girl they are annoying no matter what ya do!!!  sounds like he feels insecure about the relationship, is there anything you can do to make him feel more secure?  Are you providing him with his love language?  ( what ever makes him feel most loved, etc., gifts, words of affirmation, or acts of service?)  if not try something, anything that will help him know you are still in love with him.
502370
tell your friend that you werent flirting. to make her feel better try to talk less to him, cause its obvious that she likes him, and you dont, so just back off for a bit.
10516
I think he must be hanging out with my ex-boyfriend because he did the same thing. Only problem ... I let him get away with it for longer than I'm willing to admit. Girl, I'm sure you are so sweet, smart and better than him. Just move on. I know I should take my own advice at times.. lol. This guy is doing one of two things or two of two things. He's either 1. Terribly immature and doesn't want to appear "whipped" in front of his buddies - AKA "Bro's before Ho's theory...or 2. Cheating and trying to keep you at the same time. AKA- having his cake and eating it, too. Either way, pls dump him,go out this weekend and forget about his immature, childish, sick, evil ass. Boys like him deserve to wake up with nothing but themselves,cheap beer and their dumb buddies drooling on them.