my boyfriend is 35 and im 29 but i look younger like ages range 18-22 and my attitude or i mean he tell or maybe telling his friend im 19 is that right?does he love me and why does he want me to act young and why do guys like 47 yr olds like school girls YIKES!!!!!!im trying to mature but not with guy s making me feel imature lmao this is retarded and i feel like 1 cause i cant figure out what guys want in a woman ???:-s or school girl YIKES!
201516
might be he loves u...but he loves u because u look young...\n\nU will have U'r own reason's to love him...so will he...\n\nLove the fact that he loves U.......and be least bothered \n\nabt what he tells his friends..
324523
it depends how old you are. i'm against age gaps really. my boyfriend is 2 years younger, and he treats me like i'm a retard. i'm the older one, i'm the college graduate, i'm the one with a private out of state education. but... i think because he's the man? maybe he thinks he's smarter than me. it really makes me resent him. and his last girlfriend was 2 years younger than him and an actual idiot, so maybe he thinks he can treat me like he did her.\n\nbut i'm sure you guys could atleast date and make-out if she's interested, but i don't think it would work out long term.
142134
If you are looking for a long term relationship...marriage down the line, I would seriously consider the fact that most men in their latter years prefer a younger woman.  90% that is.  \n\nIn other words, when you are 50, he will be looking 35 year old women.  If you don't believe me, just ask your older female friends.
454696
Oh dear. You think you love him? What is love, then? You are not yet in a relationship do not go there, yet.\n\nHow old you are is important. A lot younger does not tell us much.\nBy 18 a guy has a few ideas on how to start a relationship, you need to let him start it.  If you are too young (>16) please do not do anything with him even if he does start it.\n\nAsk yourself why you want to be with him.\nIs it to be the cool girl dating a much older guy? (That's bad).\n\nIs it because he is a guy you have become comfortable with and developed a crush due to the level of familiarity? (Date someone your age with similar qualities, REMEMBER eventually you will get comfortable with them).\n\nIs it because he pays attention to you? (Other guys will eventually).\n\nIs it because you have sincer feelings?
140030
When I was 20 I dated a guy who was 26... it was fine for awhile but it didn't last.  I say if you feel like you're on the same level maturity wise and he treats you right, go ahead!
296669
Age should not make a difference. I should know, I am dating a younger man. So as long as the age is legal I see no harm in it. But, honestly, what do you think you have in common with a 20 y/o?
60472
well im 34 and my hubby is 40 been with him since i was 18 going on 19 and he was 25 going on 26.i dunno how long ya waited to get married but for me we lived together for years building our trust and relationship before we married . actually i was 26 when we married and he was then 32 . the point is some say age doesnt matter  well in some cases it does. men that are with us younger girls seem to like to keep small tabs on us where we been and with who and how long ya been there all because the age difference makes them feel insecure . perhaps hes noticed  men ur age  looking at you or saying helo or just a friendly smile. thats enough to make any guy jealous.. heres what i did.. id assure him hes the best thing evr happend to me and he should feel proud that other men look , smile, say helo to me when im with him because  that should tell him he has something special right by his side and  that something special is you and he has  you to love, to hold, and to cherish the rest of his life because you married him not for the piece of paper but for the man you met  and fell in love with and their could only be one man like that for you and hes the one. now i dont mean  ya have to be exact in that way but i would just reassure him the luv between yas is still there no matter how much probes. and if all fails  just ask him right out what changed in 2 years time? doesn't hurt to ask sometimes that all  it takes..
469367
Maybe you're finding these young men appreciate you.  That has nothing to do with age.\n\nMaybe you like your men to be more energetic.\n\nMaybe like most men, you like your date to look young and hale.\n\nIf the men are happy to be with you, and you like them, I wouldn't worry too much about it.
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Some idiots will tell you it is gross, or wrong bla bla bla. Most of the world the bride is way younger than the groom. And did you know the average age of consent in the world is 16? Make you wonder why a** backwards Uncle Sam can even talk. If you are cool with Mr Sugar Daddy and he is cool with you. Why not? Maybe HE doesn't feel like a "sugar daddy" but a loving man spoiling his woman. I would. And the age of my woman would not determine how much I spoiled her. Better use what Mother Nature gave you before Father Time takes it away. And when he does he hardly gives it back. What do you want to do? Be with someone the idiots can be comfortable with because it offends them to see a hot young lady like yourself sucking face with someone they only see as "Gramps". If you date some young buck to satify them are they going to purchase for you what this older gentleman wants to buy you? I think not. I'd tell them to go take a flying f***. If you like him a lot or even love him and guilty about what he does for you, you can tell him that you do not need it or take it and donate it to a hospice or something. If you don't like or love him, but feel guilty of using him, then walk away. BUT only do it for YOU, not the idiots. When the lights are out, who can tell how old a person is? If he can get it to rise, I hardly think you can tell when its inside you if it is 20yr phallus or a 55yr old phallus. If it works, it works. enjoy it and the goodies outside the bedroom. Better to be in a Jag with an older man then driving a 15yr old bucket with some young buck who most likely will dump you when he gets bored or the next hot gal comes along.
19201
Why sure, go for it. My boyfriend that I have been with for Almost four years now, and our relationship is still going strong, Im like 21 and he's 23. Some people say girls mature faster than men, which I think is so true. But I really don't think age matters unless there like a minor or something, but hell yeah go for it.
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I always used to seem to date younger guys, then I met my husband and he was 4 years older than me.  That's when I realized that all the little twerps I'd been dating were completely immature and selfish.   If you get along, and they're what you're looking for, who cares about the age difference.  Though I will say, when I was 18 I was a lot more gullible and trusting than I am now, so just watch out.
428384
Congrats. You've made a wise decision.  He can take you anywhere on a date, except bars unless you have a good fake - that will depend on what he is into.  Older men find insecurity annoying.  Mostly I think as men age they are looking for a person to just be themselves because they spent their twenties playing head games with their partners.  After awhile you get sick of the B.S.  The more down to earth you are the better.  If you like him - tell him - be upfront with your feelings - don't play childish games or he will tire of you. Remember to show an interest in what he likes to do - don't be too into yourself.  Also, everyone loves a sense of humour so if you have one let it shine. Good luck.
257915
If you like an older guy, you have to be up to his level in maturity.  Older guys really don't like to hang with immature girls, from my experience that is.  And I am not just talking sex either, conversation is a big factor in a relationship
203458
Age isn't a barrier to love.  I would guess that a lot of the 'eeew' comments are  made by those who are in your age group.  I'm older than your boyfriend, and I can tell you that however old he is physically, he probably doesn't feel that old mentally.  I still feel about 34 but I'm in my fifties! (And I don't look that old, either!)\n\nHowever, you must be practical.  When you are 42 he will be 63.  When you are 63 he will be 84, and he may well be very elderly at that stage while you still have the energy to go dancing.  If the thought of caring for him at that stage doesn't put you off, then keep going, and disregard the funny looks and comments!
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Sounds pretty normal to me.  Most that I know are into older men though for some reason.  I wouldn't say there's anything particularly wrong with dating an older guy, except that they have other reasons than just love usually for dating younger women.  i.e. bragging rights and such.  ALL men are attracted to young, good looking women, so you'll always get hit on by older guys.  Guys your age are probably still getting over insecurities and such, so that could be part of it.\n\nDon't give up and don't settle, but be careful with the older guys...\n\n*edit* "There is nothing wrong with being attracted to older men who are more likely to be more mature and open to commitment than guys your age. I think its smart of you. "  - That is the most naive thing I've ever heard.  Older definitely does not = more mature or open to commitment.....cripes...so much detail and examples could be given here...
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I have the same problem but in reverse, I like younger women and I get some bad looks from other people. Especially when I was dating a 19 year old. And yes I am 41, but I don't care what people think. If you enjoy being with that person do what makes you happy!
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Looking at this and all the other questions you have about your boyfriend leads me to believe that he is not the one with the problem.\n\nYou say you are living with your boyfriend, which leads me to believe that you are at least eighteen years old, but your lack of self-esteem and your dependence makes you seem quite a bit younger than that.\n\nYou may be pushing him away with your insecurities.  Men like independent, self-assured women who are confident in their own looks and personality.  Women who constantly compare themselves to other girls around them, who worry about their boyfriends' every glance at someone else - these women make men want to run and hide.\n\nYou can't change the past.  Worrying about it and snooping around won't come to anything good.  Sit down and talk to your boyfriend about *your* problem (insecurity) and tell him that you want to fix it but that you will need his help, patience and understanding.  Then do some sincere work on just letting go of the past, and building up some confidence in yourself.\n\nIt's not easy but you'll be way better off in the long run.