i have been chatting with a guy on line for about a month or so, he has asked me to come to where he lives, i would be staying at a hotel...by myself...how safe is this?
216176
I got the same relationship, but I won't go, because I behave on myself. But depends on you girl, isn't that really think so fast? And to look for some more time please!!
598386
you on my space with this dude it don't matter he could be a pervert people lie all the time on chat rooms my advice don't go with anybody on chat rooms in case you already know him personally
659014
It is as safe as anything else really. Don't give out your personal information. Don't talk with people you don't know. Be careful. My myspace info is on my 360 page.
530883
If you are concerned then why not go out with him when he arrives so you will be in a public place - make out that it was a meeting point as opposed to the location for the evening.  It's best to get to know people better before inviting them over - you have to be careful these days.  He may be fine but it's wise to be cautious.
201501
" Technically " NO- heck no- First off it's not like you hacked in - its an open site, second all you did was view a web page - now if you start to change your routines to coincide with his or you start going thourhg his garbage or something then you might have a problem. Besides, most talk is not " in passing" if he said it, it's because he wants people to visit  the site- -but do not confuse his wanting people to view the site with his wanting you in any deeper sort of way
444512
Sounds like a stalker setting you up.  I would keep watching out the window.\n\nCoach
554484
Ok, first, He "Says" he's only 2 years older than you. He "Says" you're in 2 different states. He could be 50 and right next door! Friends online is plenty safe enough, if you keep it that way. Stay friends online for a while longer, more than 2 weeks, more like 5 or 6 months. If he doesn't get tired of it, and you want to exchange phone #'s then, at least you have some time in and have a better idea if he's real or not.
564801
princess,\n\nBusses are reasonably safe.  Don't put yourself in a position where you can be unsafe, though.  Put your purse in a safe place if you sleep, don't take a bathroom break alone, etc.\n\nGood luck with your trip.\nC
489458
$60 a month?  Have you seen the place??  First go see it.  Take somebody with you.  Maybe even some mace.  It sound too cheap to be safe... or even real.  Good luck!
329924
kind of scary. we all all so different and on our best behaviour on line. you are only knowing the part of this person he wants you to know. everyone is right, DO A BACKGROUND CHECK!!!!! make sure it is really him! when i was tending bar, a real nice, clean cut guy came in. for some reason, this guy made the hair on the back of my neck stand up. everyone said go for it. i did do a background check, and the guy did 13 years for rape! what i'm trying to say is that you can't trust people you meet in person, let alone on line. we all hide behind a veil of mystery! i hope you are over 18! please be careful!!!!
233406
maybe u should check it out just to be safe\n\nbut check out this site
312232
I would say get out of there as fast as you can! Leave and go find a different place to stay! My prayers are with you, Please be safe! Cuidado!
256093
Sounds a little over protective to me!!,If your questioning this sort of behaviour, why would you want to be with him??
572843
if someone has stolen your password, or if you left yourself logged in at a public computer terminal at a library or coffee shop or the like, someone could be posting as you.\n\nif you suspect this is the case, change the password on your account immediately.\n\nhave you ever had anyone quote something that you theoretically posted or sent when warning you?  if so, was it something you wrote/sent?  don't forget different people have different tolerances for things, and you need to be mindful of your audience.
35690
I met the guy I'm dating on the internet. He lived 12 hours away and wanted to come and meet me after about 5 months. I was in college and my professors and friends told me to have him come to the school to meet me. That way there were plenty of other people there and they could give me their opinions of what they thought of him. Never meet anyone alone where there are no other people or anyone you know. It's been over three years since that day and we are still together.
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be safe. Meet him in a public place. Don't give him your address invite him to you home or go to his until you know him better. Tell somebody where you are going, who you are meeting and when you expect to be back. Take a mobile phone. Either drive yourself or make sure you can get back by cab or public transport yourself.\n\nHe's probably a really nice guy, most people are, so he won't mind you being cautious.
244008
I met my significant other online.  Met him through reputable personals site.  My advice...be careful.