is it alwasy taken that bf means boyfriend...why not best friend? lol not everyone is desperate in the world...i know im not
211219
Because best friend can be a female also.
310741
As difficult as this seems it is really quite easy. A best friend, the way i see it, it someone who you enjoy spending time with. More than any other friend. If you hang out with others more than your so called "best friend" than they really arent your best friend anyway.
201659
Your friend was wrong to making a move on your bf, if she did. Maybe your boyfriend was talking about your friends because he knows how important they are in your life? Try talking about it with all three of them. Get each other sides of the story before you jump to anymore conclusions! Good luck!
164273
Do you two spend any time alone? Like studying or just hanging out? DOn't just ask him just because all of your friends have a boyfriend. If he is your best friend, then you should have no problem asking him if he has a girlfrir=end. If he ask you why are you asking? Just tell him that you are curious that's all. Leave it at that no matter what his answer is. If it is a no then wait a few days or weeks and if you are comfortable then ask him the big question. Try this:"I was wondering, I know we are best friends and I am glad that we are. But how do you feel if we take it a step further? But I also don't want our friendship to mess up if you say no or we break up. I feel really comfortable around you and I like you alot. What do you think" After this just pt=ray he says yes. Also talk to your parents first and ask them what you think. Because they are your parents and they will be driving you two around if you hook up. Because if you don't have the ok it will mess up your relationship big time with him or anyone else. Good luck.
674239
Hmm... Sounds familiar, and I really should (but probably wont) take my own advice. You care or possibly love your boyfriend. And this person is very important to him. They have probably been through a lot together and yadda yadda yadda. So I say you just got to go and deal with it. Trust me, I know it's not easy. But you might find something about one of them that you like. No one said you have to be there best friend.
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I would think that this means he really likes you. Don't be so quick to assume that he still likes your best friend. You know guys... they can never make up their minds. If the guy didn't like you, trust me, he would be acting like you don't exist. Have you tried to talk to him about this? Or are you shy? If you're shy, why don't you try to write him a secret admirer letter or something creative like that. Hope this helps.
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Well remember, ur friend will always be there for u but guys come and go. If u end up w/him and eventually "u will" break up- odds are. Then what? u don't have him and ur best friend has found another. Let me tell u, I had a very best friend in high sch. and we were inseperable 1 day another friend of mine says;tell her or I will! Sooooo.. my frined say's I F*****-John (my bf) I was heart broken! she almost laughed. She was my best friend!? what the hell? but now he ended up being a loser and she ended up w/3 kids to 3 diff guys and she's w/none. I am married 16 yrs w/2 kids and happy. I know u didn't need to hear my life story but u got it anyway. Chose ur friend! plenty of guys will come along later. Don't b a friend like mine was to me.
260673
He is playing a game with you....OF COURSE HE MEANS YOU!   Listen a best friend always makes the best relationship....you know everything about each other, and you know how the please the other person....I would just straight up tell him how you feel.  What do you have to lose?  But when doing this, say "listen, lately I have really enjoyed spending more time with you than usualy and I have started to have these feelings for you, I felt you should know b/c you are a friend....and regardless I always want that first...but I do like you, and I hope that something can come out that."  GOOD LUCK GIRL!
190364
By what your saying, it's obvious that he doesn't care about you or your feelings. If he is your boyfriend then why is he kissing your best friend and even better why is your so called best friend kissing him. I think you need to drop both of them.
144767
Your not doing anything wrong, he is a friend and if your bf becomes jealous maybe he isn't the right bf for you. Karma may come back on you but you have to determine if want to be with a jealous person.
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as friends yeah but he might get jealous.sounds like you are bf and gf but just arent saying it. dating and holding hands, sounds like it to me. he probobly likes you but is afraid of the pressure and akward questions.\ngood luck\ngod bless +
509119
Give it time, let him get to know you, my bf was the same way but after we spent time talking and just hangin out he realized that I was different and that I did not want to hurt him or mess with him, now we are in love and I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him and he feels the same way. I hope everything works out.\n ~Kim~
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What I seem to think it means \nYou have a comfortable relationship or bond with you best friend and maybe your boyfriend has notice it \n\nMaybe no matter what happens between your boyfriend and you the friendship will always be there.\n\nI have had a wonderful friendship with a male since I was 14, I am now 43  a lot of  people are envious of our friendship.\n\nBut you can look it up for yourself if you want on the link below\n\nhttp://www.soulfuture.com/dream_dictionary/dream_dictionary_main.asp\n\nLove & Blessings \nMilly
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Hi! That happened to me before, my male bestfriend was falling in love with me, everyone in our group knows about it and advising me that it would be better to have a boyfriend from the bestfriend level as it always works. But I kind of aloof everytime I know he might ask me a question, or something as I only want to remain friends. Because what I believe before, if we became boyfriends/girlfriends and split up, we might never be friends again, and I like having him as my best friend. I was a teenager back then. Now i'm 30 and he's now married. And I'm still single.\n\nLet her know how you feel when she's no longer in a relationship. Or if you can't wait that long, let her know now, who knows. She might be open minded about it and let you know how she feels for you.\n\nCheers!\n\nMitch
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dont worry about it seriously ppl say things all the time to start drama. just follow your heart. if he really loves you he didnt say that and he still wants to be with you. who knows maybe ur best friend has a thing for your boyfriend and wants you two to break up. just let it roll right off ur shoulder and act like you never heard anything.
374603
No.  I am sure you are still his best friend.  He is just into his girlfriend.  Give him a call and try to schedule a time at least once a week.  Unfortunately, it does happen, when someone gets a boyfriend/girlfriend, they "forget" their friends for a little while.  You can let him know that it isn't healthy to spend all his time with her, that it is important to spend some time with his other friends too.  It isn't going to be the same though.  Try to get him to spend some time, like once a week as a guys night out, or once every week.  You haven't lost him.  He is just distracted at the moment.  \n\nDon't give up on him.  Best friends stay together and are there for each other when needed.
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I know exactly what you are going through! I was always worried either of them were going to pull the question "Me or Him" or "Me or Her". Luckily I talked to my bff and she and I agreed on walking to school together and my bf and I walk home together, while she and our other friends walk home in an opposite shorter way home. If you end up doing something similar make sure it's even for both your bf and bff... my bf had basketball practice after school on Wednesdays so that also gave me and my bff more time together, while from 4:30-7:00 pm on Sunday nights I would go to church with my bf... so it was even and no relationship was broken... and my bff and bf didn't have to spend any time together!!