my crush  I still have on this boy is still there and I want to get rid of it beacuse hes not thinking about me hes thinking about another girl which I dislike a lot. I want to tell him how I fell! Can someone help me?! I love him so much! I dont know what to do anymore I feel depressed.
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Hello again Fantasy Foo, I've been were your at, and it's not a good feeling. One good thing about life is....Time heals everything. I was once told: If you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours...if it don't it never was. If you have the fellas number or you know how to get in contact with him...let him know how you feel, but don't hate on his girl...thats tacky.
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You should let him know how you feel about him.  Then you should let him know that you will give him some time to  grow up if he feels the same about you.  Then you should stay away from him and let time run it's course.  Don't stress yourself out over boys.  There are lot's of other things that you can do to occupy your time.
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Okay, here's the thing, i may not be a professional relationship advisor or something but for you to try to stop liking someone is just inane. Feelings aren't there for you to just ignore. Admit that you still like the guy even though he has someone else already. And it's not like they are married or anything, right? Oh... please... do not mistaken my last sentence for something like trying to destroy their relationship. DON"T! All i am saying is that, it is normal for you to still like the guy. I mean, if he's really that charming or likeable like what you think, sure. However, ask yourself, do you know what kind of guy he really is? You see, people tend to like other people because they like the idea of actually having someone to adore because so far all you've seen him is be charming. You must consider other factors and possibilities. At this point, try looking for things about him (directly -since you mentioned you are coworkers [you can be a friend to him and not flirt] or indirectly - from other people who knows him well more than you do) Curiosity doesn't always kills a cat, you know. Asking is better for you to find out if he is worth your attention or not. Instead of actually falling for this guy (you did mention that it is just a crush, right?) but after a day or two, that's the only time you'd find out she has more than one current girlfriend.
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I feel u, im in the same position but its only 3 yrs not 5 ;p well i told him abt 4 months ago that i have feelings (he's my best friend btw) and that i need 2 take a distance to get over him and we stayed like that 4 a month and it didnt work...try 2 get urself involved with other ppl, convince urself that u like some1 else...(i have no idea why am I giving advice) just try 2 get urself 2 think of some1 else
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Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.
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what's the matter with you girl? do you want to be cold TWO TIMER?\nmake sure to what you feel.. know the boy in your school deeper.. atleast you know your boyfriend more. ask this question to your self:\n"Do I still love myboyfriend? because i love another"\nwell, it's only you who can decide..=)
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Break-ups and crushes, bare names that express what we go thru when this happens to us. You can get thru this! The trick is, allowing your heart to catch up with your mental feelings. Try this. Tonight, write him a letter. If you don't have an address, or a way to make contact, that is OK. Pour all your feelings into this letter. After this, tell yourself you are going to beat this. Mentally, keep reassuring yourself this. You have to have a plan. Now think about what you like to do. Make contact with your friends. Especially the one who makes you laugh. You need her humor to take some of the dark out of your life. Get up in the morning and put the plan in action. Shower, fix your hair, put on something that makes you feel good about you. And get with your friends and hang out. Go to the show, book stores, mall, the baseball field, what ever you want. When you set idol , your  mind will start thinking about him and the hurt will follow. So you have to take full control of your thought pattern. The second you start thinking of him, think about this really cute outfit that you know you will look really hot in. Think about anything, but him. Stay as busy as possible. Run in the evening or go to the gym and never look back. This will help time to fly by. You are going to have lots of fun. And the best of it all is your heart is going to heal and when he comes home, he is going to be so sorry he treated you like this. Guys have a tendency to think we woman will just wait around fo them, but we don't anymore. By the next time you see him, you will of probably had several encounters with some of those "other fish in the sea" that people talk about. Remember, your self worth of you, is more important thanwhat others think. The better you feel about you, it will become sooo obvious to everyone around you, how great a person you are. That feeling you hate so much, will die off as soon as you step up the beat. Go Girl!!!
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It's not wrong, so much as any feelings of 'like' can't be wrong. However, if you have a crush on your brother's friend, who thinks that you hate him, there could be some issues with your relationship with said object of affection. To begin, if you intend to pursue this boy, I suggest you stop giving him reason to think you hate him, such as being nice and pleasant in his presence.
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Girl, heres the situation.  You used to not like this boy so you told him that.  He moved on and now likes this other girl.  You got jealous and now you want him but he doesn't want you anymore.  All you have to do to get this boy back, is to pretend you like another guy.  Once he thinks you don't like him anymore he'll be trying to win you back.  Try it:)  If this doesn't work then just move on:)
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I believe he likes the fact that you have a crush on him an doesnt want your feelings to change. He sounds kinda unsure about hisself. I would have to say I bet he feels the same way about you just didnt know how to reply when you told him how you felt. GOOD LUCK LOVE!
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Be postive about it. You can say "So I have a crush on a boy... haven't you before?" Just shrug it off by saying things that says you like him, but don't care if people know.  And just ignore them.  That always works!
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find another guy! cut him off completely.. thats the best way to get over someone. and also finding other guys to keep your mind off him. but dont talk to him. or feelings will just come back. CUT HIM OFF!
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just talk to him... i felt the way u feel now, but i've gotten over it and now i talk to lots of cute boys...
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give it more time, that is probably because you still like him, try to get hi out of your mind by going out with your friends or doing something, yea it won't be easy, trust me, when yu see him tell him what you feel so you can get it off your chest, talk to himthen after that see what happens.
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Forget about him and look at other guys. You won't realize how much fun it is not to have a crush on someone and get to look at guys and be like he cute! and look at aanother guy and be like ;hes cuter!
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i feel ya, girl! yeh, it seems somewhat pathetic to some people that i had this HUGE crush on someone i barley knew but for some reason i can't forget him or anything he said to me the few occasions we talked. I haven't seen him or talked to him in the past 2 years but i'm still completly in love with him!\n      gee.......i didn't really answer your question, well maybe you'll fall in love with someone else and forget all about him. Anywho, good luck with everything!
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You have a crush! It's normal and it happens to the best of us! Nothing is wrong with you, it's part of life. Enjoy and see if it goes anywhere.