If a man truly loves a girl then why does'nt he expresses it as much as the girl does?
199561
Some men just think if they express themselves they seem week. We think a woman admires us for our strength and back in the old days it was true that if a man showed fear or sadness or even that he was in love, then he wasn't a "man". It's in our nature to hide any softness. Only women were soft. But some of us have realized, though, that women are more independent now and don't need so much "protection". It's just in our nature to to be strong and silent, though in some cases it's for homophobic reasons. Some men just need to be assured that expressing feelings is not a weakness but that it shows they are comfortable themselves and their mate. Let him know that if he expresses himself to you privately that he doesn't have to be so open when company is around. Trust me, it's not just you he may be protecting himself from. If he's been hurt in the past it could take a long time to open up. Just don't over do it by forcing him. Some men just feel more comfortable keeping it inside, but you have your needs too so don't give up. Hope I could help.
565366
i never believe it when my boyfriends tells me they love me. because half the time boys dont know what is the meaning of 'love' and just tells us girls they love us because they think we want to hear it, or we like hearing it. \n\nif someone really truely loves another, they will show it not say it.
436061
i lot of times when i guy really likes a girl. he wont come out and just overly portray it. but what he will do is he will almost always make an excuse to touch her. its not over the top you know no grabbing or anything but he will make any excuse to brush up against her. and yeah i bet hes still thinking about it. but a good question is: was it really accidental?
503645
Yes, he likes her and has difficulty expressing that emotion in a way in which he is familiar.  Therefore his attentions come out as teasing.  It's very common.
246081
Most guys do, but not all. Some guys want a girl to be submissive, weak, and have no opinion. Stay away from those guys. A real man will love you for just being yourself. Honest and genuine is the way to be. You are still young, take your time and pick out real men.
96941
As a man, I would suggest you to go for the girl who likes you. As a man, You would be able to love that girl whole hearted. Love is a sacrifice and a decision to love, A Man can do that.
672172
Maybe you ARE to good for them; I know, it doesn't make you feel any better... I've had guys say that too. I remember in my one of my Psych classes that guys fall for a girl right away and then there feelings tend to decline, whereas a it takes a girl a while to fall for guy but it usually steadily increases. Maybe that has something to do with it. I also think if guys want a sexual relationship and don't get what they want, they try to find someone else so they can.
67023
When you see each other at school, there are other people around.  Perhaps he does not want them to overhear what you say to each other.  A man can really love a woman but not want to share that fact with others, especially a young man who knows how his buddies tease each other about their girl friends.  Measure how much he loves you by how he behaves when you are together in privacy, or relative privacy.  Now, if he was talking trash to you in front of others, I would worry.  But avoiding talking in that situation is not really an indication that he does not love you.
166804
yes , there r many reasons ,as a man its his duty to make her better half keep smiling, why a man work so hard, its just because of he want that his girl should have what she like, a smile n twinkling eyes r the things a man can die for , and if a man can get this just for showering his hard earned money , only joy happiness and prosperity he can have for always
219565
From a guys view..... we do like girls for who they are and their integrity... however a guy like any other person will start to take disadvantage of anyone that seems to be easy and i know we can use our mouths to get anything we want.... what your doing wrong is that your always falling for the "I LOVE YOU" crap and he is just using that as a password to access the promiss land.... if i may say that... what you need to do is to start to set standards for yourself and hey maybe he will respect you more and cut the crap... check the logics, if he loved and cared for you, yall will be together and most of all he would use u as a booty call...\n   Sorry for sounding so harsh but yall seem to always fall for the same thing.. like my sister... but your more than that and love should not be a hoke up.. there is more to love and living the joys love should be one....\n\nSort out your feelings for him and see if that what you want to do!!! or would you prefer to be with someone that loves you equally and respect you for you and not just what they can get..... \n  i would recommend that you start to avoid places where yall will become alon as that will cause you to do thing you dont want to do and secondly, just try to find someone else that can make you happy....... tell me if it works!!
144720
there are as many things that a girl likes in a man as there are girls.\nbut to start the list, honesty, loyalty, integrity, and just plain not being a jerk are a great start on most women.\nwhile i'm mentioning it, it also depends on what kind of woman you're looking for, or what you want from them.  different behaviors get different results on women.\n\nand as for the telling her "i love her"  only say it if you really mean it.  if you say it and don't truly mean it she'll figure it out, consider you a fake or a flake, and be out the door at the soonest chance she can.
381580
Honestly not really. You should be able to sense and know a persons feelings and love for you through their actions and the way they treat you. Although i get where your coming from, and im a girl myself so I know that's a word we love to hear from our guys... but i'd rather a guy to show me he loves me with his actions rather than him say it and not mean it at all.
164625
some guys have a hard time expressing their feelings, its not the manly thing to do, which is a shame because its what us girls want to hear. all you can do is tell him how you feel, either by talking to him or writing to him. some men are able to write there feeling down rather then talking about them. when he feels more at ease im sure he will be able to tell you his feelings.
391407
He respects her and treats her with dignity. He is fair and listens as much as he talks. He wants to know her opinions and tries to share in making choices with her. He lets her take the lead when the time is right. And in their love making, he is always attentive to her and takes his time.
240
Alot of females lack an amount of respect for themselves. So they deem the amount of sex or the intensity of the act as a means of actually being with someone. Rather than establishing the relationship first and allowing the loving to be the icing on the cake. It's kind of like when we were kids and played make believe. However,the difference would be that we adventually snapped back to reality. As mentioned previously, woman are emotional creatures and once a guy hitz it the right way or tells us something we like to hear. Woman pretty much lose their minds...so sorry fellas but that's just the way it is...
11390
a guy in love usually acts like he cant be aways from his girl...about making mistakes, everyone does...whats on a guys mind is same thing thats on a girls mind...a guy in love should be honest and not cheat...but, a guy doesnt show feelings and emotion like girls...so dont try to guess what hes thinking, just go with it...u will feel real love :)
617740
A girl or woman for that matter wants respect first and foremost from a man. A girl wants to be told and made to feel that she is valuable, beautiful and that the man is going to do his utmost to keep her safe, secure and happy.  In short, a girl wants to be treated right.