i'm a pretty girl and have a good personality, but i have a small chest and have thought about implants for me to feel better about myself and for my b/f. My boyfriend always tells me i don't need them, but we have never been with anyone else and i feel like he's missing out...any advice?
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At some level its difficult to answer the question. Does chest size matter to whom? Well, it doesn't to your boyfriend, and that's good. Frankly, he sounds like a really great person, and is able to see that there is a lot more to you than your breasts.\n\nI personally don't think that you should get implants to feel better about yourself. I would say that people should get any type of cosmetic surgery only after they already feel good about themselves. Because often after the surgery it doesn't change doubts that you have about yourself. At any rate, wait a few years first before you do it.\n\nAnd, really, your boyfriend is not "missing out" on anything! He's got you, and you have him, and that is what is important. \n\nListen to your boyfriend. Smart guy.
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Both. I've know a few women that had amazingly low self esteem because they had nothing up top. They felt like there was something missing and they weren't adequate as women. They got implants and it was like a completely different person. They were so much more confident. This is turn made guys more attracted to them. There are some out there that just do it for attention. I mean look at some of these porn stars! There's 1 that has over 1 gallon of implants in each breast-that's just INSANE!
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I am 20, 5'4" 110lbs and I'm just barely an A cup. I have also been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he loves them. I get hit on often, even though I have a small chest. When I was in high school I was much more self conscious and had lower self esteem. My boyfriend has helped me learn to love my body, and I think that's what you need to do. Be happy you have a small chest! You don't have to worry about them getting in the way with sports or getting nasty floppy when you get old! Trust me... learn to love your body, and find people who love you for who you are. Not only because you have fake boobs. A lot of people will have more respect for you for being real and having small boobs, than being fake and having big boobs.
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I don't think that i would have the implant.We have medical records to show about ourselves,and if it is something really bad of an illness most people wear a medical bracelet to show medics or Doctor's upon arrival anyhow.I think it is great that everyday there is room for improvement with our technology,but somethings are not really in need of such extremity.This is really something you and your loved ones should sit down and discuss if you are truly serious about this issue of such an implant.Best wishes and Good Luck!
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OK, here it is. First of all, ALL men, yes ALL, have fantasies and they all want to have a spicy intimate relationship with the one person they have to chose to be intimate with. Now, all you have to do is gain some confidence in yourself and have some fun turn this issue around to where it's no longer an issue. Yes, I know it's easier said then done. Listen to me, tell yourself how great you are, how lucky any man would be to be with you. You have to carry that attitude around because if you can't feel good and comfortable with yourself, how can you expect anyone else to? Think about it. When you feel confident, you welcome other people to get closer, and when you feel fear, you build an invisible shield that even you can't get through eventually. Stop what you have been doing, because as you can see, it isn't working for you, and put a smile on your face and get what you want! I really believe that your lack of confidence has created this problem. Didn't your boyfriend fall in love with you for the way you look? Well, you are still you, love yourself the way he does...for you. If you lose yourself, he'll lose who you are too, and that makes for a very unhappy relationship.
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I make this short and sweet. If your bf can't and won't wait than maybe he's not the one for you. Find someone who can respect your morals and most of all someone who can respect your body.
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Well...   I'd look into the point as to "WHY" your breast make you self concious.   Is it that you don't like them?  Or has someone made a comment?  \n\nI think you have to find your inner self, and like yourself, and build your confidence to feel sexy.  It's not a body part that makes a woman sexy, it's the self confidence that you can nock his socks off... lol
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Dont worry about it.  You are what you are.  People will accept you when you accept yourself.  I would be grateful to have a good woman in my life.
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Yes, we definitely need to put YOU on something.  You said you love her dearly.  Really?  Then you should accept and appreciate the person that she is NOW and stop putting stupid ideas like big boobs = beautiful into her head.  This is wrong in so many levels.
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Don't be discouraged by all of these biased answers.  For some reason people can be so hateful, and ugly when it comes to this topic.  If they don't have them or have first hand experience with them, I would take their advice with a grain of salt.\nI have implants and I love them.  My husband said that he was happy with what I had too, but I wasn't.  I got them for me.  My clothes fit better now, because I actually have something to fill my shirts.  And people are not going to say anything about it, that girl is so uninformed about implants.  No one will even know, unless you want them to.\nI researched it for over a year, before I finally made my decision.  I have had them for about a year now, and I absolutely love them, and have no regrets.\n\nThis website helped me tremendously when making my decision:\nhttp://allaboutplasticsurgery.com/
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I used to be a big girl, and let me tell you, I look back at photos of myself and think I was so much more photogenic, was stunning, so sexy with all the curves.  At the time I had low self-esteem, but I wish now I could go back to that girl and tell her what she really is: Perfect.\n\nAnyway, if I were a man, I would want a big woman.  If I were gay I would want a big woman.  I love big women, all my friends are big women, I've TRIED being big again (the weight just didn't gain in the same spots as it was before).\n\nI think that when I felt used backthen was when I didn't care enough about myself, was insecure, and so I gave myself away faster than I would make a man work, earn, prove that he deserved me.  If I could do it over again, I'd be big and I would know how worthwhile I was.  Good luck to you, sweetheart.  I went out with one boy back then who broke up with me when I lost weight!  He wasn't having anything to do with a little woman, and he was as small as boys come!
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I hope you enjoyed yourself.Do you still do it?I don't think they will make your breast grow,But why would you want bigger breast you sould feel happy the way you are.if you think i'm    talking alot crap you can have implants.
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I have a sexy boyfriend of 4 years.  It's like ALL chics go for him.  The reason why he went for and kept with me I think is b/c I'm not the jealous type (guys like to have a 'pawn' to play against their mates when it comes to bargaining the relationship if anything goes wrong, and jealousy can get dangerous and irritable, causing a rift).  He LIKES that I'm easy-going and not jealous, so that gives me extra confidence points he can appreciate.  If I were to act out of jealousy, it may just wear my mystery out instead of confirm my love for him.  If we get into stupid fights, I act as if I don't care if he thinks he can just go out with somebody else (he threatens to at worst, but then he chooses not to on his own)!  My point is, ACT INDEPENDENT, so that he has something to respect you for.  DON'T be at his beck-and-call so that he thinks "oh, I can just have her anytime I want; that chic is always available to me".
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I guess it depends on how much dignity and self-respect you have.  If it is okay with you that your significant other is not faith-full, then be with him while he is with other girls and don't complain.  Otherwise, move on and find someone worthy of your love and attention.   Why is it that us women invest so much time in worthless men?  I'm just betting that you are a beautiful, intelligent woman that could find a wonderful, caring and fun guy to be with.
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Hmmm...\n\nYes, it's extremely common, with both guys and girls.\nI constantly have those sorts of feelings - it is insecurity, but it is also self-objectification.\nWhy should it matter if we are physically beautiful or not?\nIt's all artificially created and perpetuated.\nBut understanding this doesn't always help.
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Sounds like he was not held enough or breast-fed enough as an infant. Missing mother love. Well, you can make an issue of it, but I doubt that he will change. He was like that before he met you. You have to decide how bad it bugs you. If it is too much, then guess you have to find another boyfriend who is a bit more considerate. \n\nAll men look at women. They seem to be judging whether or not the woman is attractive, worthy of more of their attention. Hormones, mating urge, I don't know. Men look. We are visual creatures. Women look too. Maybe they are more discreet. \n\nAgain, your decision on how much it bothers you.
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there are not many ppl like you.. ppl get used to the mask and it is comfortable to them.. they dont know how to be real or them selves.. dont be so hard on others.. it is good you are you, but accept the fact that you are in a club not many belong to.. if you are up front with b/f and he is not an out spoken person , you either accept or you dont... your choice.. but just maybe they mite learn from you if you think they are worth the effort.. ppl have to learn to trust and maybe in his back ground some where he learned how NOT to trust !!!!!!! God bless