why is it that when you date a guy from another country, where english is not their first language.  They teach you only bad-you can't say them to his mother-words?  My husband, at the time b/f, taught me a whole vocabulary of bad words..that I can't use because I'm sure they'll get me slapped\n\nI don't know if girls (from another country) do the same...I'm sure they do..or maybe not.  Do they?
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almost everybody who teaches someone else their langeuage teaches that. doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl. a lot of people think those are more fun than actually useful stuff.
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huh?what omg ur english is soo bad!\nwhy did u slap him for?\nviolent is never good u should know how to use words...\nu can still win in a fight with wordssssss
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Women get used to being treated like dirt. It's sad, but it's true. When I met my "great guy" it took everything in me not to toss him away because I didn't know how to react to a guy listening to me, giving me good advice, opening doors for me and offering to pick up the bill instead of "borrowing" money. I think women often get the idea that they don't deserve to be treated well. I definitely think one should be careful with the use of those three naughty words (I l#v! y@u.)  I've had to tell friends to calm down and enjoy the ride when they've freaked out because they're being treated well---I think it's the acceleration a relationship can have when things go well that can often lead to catastrophy. Most of all, if she can't take your good treatment, SHE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU. That's the downfall of good guys. The gentlemen just need to stay gentlemen and know that they are worth something. We don't need our good men going to trashy b*tc%es anyway.
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They say we shouldn't even use the word "you". Because it will make a person go on the defensive, even if we're not talking about them personally. But use words like we, or someone.\nOne guy told me if I said "we", that's when he'd get offended, because then\nI'd be including him! Can't please everybody!
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no sure how long you two have been dating, but beware.  Guys who usually rush into marriage thinking should send up warning flags.  I was in a relationship that moved like that one, and he was very emotionally abusive, and would most likely have been physically abusive if we had gotten married.
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My Fiance and I have a very interesting relationship and how we carry our languages in our relationship as well.. I love him and he loves me .. We always teach eachouther many different languages. It makes us soo special when we know many different languages and languages of love. \n\nAnyway, My mother tongue is English .. I know Malay and Malay sign language- two internships in Malaysia, French- Touring the city twice, Malayalam and Hindi from my freinds in the Indian communiuties, Arabic from my Fiance, American Sign language- Deaf/DeafBlind students  at the public schools where i work at (interesting and FUN JOB for me) and Spanish-my family\n\nMy Fiance is the mother tougue of Arabic. of course he speaks Arabic(Egyptian), French-Touring the city with me once,Turkish-friends, learns sign language from me for fun, and English as well. \n\nWe have the most interesting of how we carry our language of love. ( maybe its not good idea to post it becz its not according ur question as u asked for. )
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They are actually called "phrasal verbs" and yes, they cause foreigners like me a lot of trouble. Think about it, you'd ve had a fight with your best friend, you want to make up but you forget and say that you want to make out. Not bad if they are a pretty girl, but what if they are a guy? Akward....:-) \n\nTo answer your question, I don't know, English is weird enough without it...
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No, it is not a curse word.  She probably just doesn't like slang.  I can't see any reason why she would be upset.  Take care.
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Your boyfriend has to make an end to this if he really wants to.\nYour word doesn't mean anything, because it has to come from your boyfriend. Talk to your boyfriend and let him know, that this is bothering you. Some girls are right down nasty, don't deal with them, it's his job.
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have watched so many friends make so many bad choices about the men in their lives.\n\nBut that's not really my business. Except for in cases of abuse, I've known to keep my mouth shut. Physical abuse is obvious, and demands to be addressed. I don't think anyone can claim to love a person, and then politely pretend to not notice black eyes.\n\nBut the topic is never as easy to raise at it ought to be. To watch her in physical pain hurt me deeply, but for her to respond to my concern with anger nearly killed me. My heart broke when this rational, intelligent woman looked me in the eye and actually uttered that sick joke of a cliché -- "But I love him."\n\nThere are a hundred ways to argue with that statement. None of them will work. For all of the women determined to stay in violent relationships, there is at least one person who has tried everything to get her out.\n\nI think why they stay is apparent. The abuse never starts out as physical. He doesn't break her jaw on the first date. If he did, he'd be a straight out psychopath, and not your everyday neighbor/wife-beater. \n\nMen, I understand and appreciate that the vast majority of you do not beat up women. But, the bottom-line is there are far too many of you fuckers who do. Perhaps it is unfair, but I am also left to wonder how many potential wife-beaters are out there, just waiting for a woman to stick around long enough. \n\nBy the time a man full-on hits a woman, he is comfortable that she's not going anywhere. He's confident because he has already put her through a courtship full of gradually increasing psychological torture. As any good misogynist knows, a broken woman is not born, she is cultivated.\n\nCareful observation can often identify an abusive man within 10 minutes of talking to him. Sometimes, it takes longer. But, by Date #3, I guarantee he has thrown out at least one neon-sign of a clue that he will someday drag her by her hair. \n\nSome women will dismiss the warning signs as being insignificant. Or, worse, an infatuated women could see the character defects as endearing. She may find his jealousy to be charming, or determine that his rudeness to the waiter is manly, in a take-no-shit kind of way.\n\nThe goal of a batterer is to convince this woman that she cannot live without him. He accomplishes this by stifling anything about her that is her own. With an abusive man, what begins as a jealousy will inevitably turn into raging paranoia. At first, she may find it sweet that he really wants her to be with him, and not join her friends after work. Soon, her friends will stop asking, knowing she "can't" go. She'll be grateful, because the lack of an invitation is easier than making up excuses. Eventually he will cut her off completely from her friends and family, leaving her with no support outside of him. She will be utterly dependent on him, which, of course, was his entire plan.\n\nShe will love him, and she will need him, because he will be all that she has.\n\nBy the time the actual physical abuse occurs, it's too late. The physical violence is simply the culmination of a long and carefully planned ego-trip. Proof, in a maniacal frenzy, that he can do whatever the hell he wants.\n\nIt is far too late for her friends and family to help her. Where were they when she said (again) that she couldn't attend the [fill-in-the-blank]? Why didn't they speak up when he openly insulted her at the last function they did make it to?\n\nThey were where I have been: biting their tongues, knowing it's not their business, and waiting for something bad enough to happen that could justify butting in.\n\nThey will wait for a bruise, and she will say "but I love him." Their hands will be tied, and their hearts will break.
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The very fact that you have poor english and are asking ignorant questions, tells me you aren't from here. \n \nIt's a figure of speech. For example... He has a wife, but sees another woman on the side. He wants to have both. \n\nWhy do people come in American Q&A when they are from different countries?\n\nNow, to "help you out" at the bottom of the page, click on the flag that represents your country and ask them questions.
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Well I can't speak for American girls, but as a Canadian girl I can say there are few things sexier then a nice accent, British, Australian, Irish.... YUMMY!! So yeah, play it up. What's the worst that can happen really? It's not like you are lying, you are still British after all.
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I am in the electronics business an have had dealings with many different cultures and languages.  The one thing I have been surprised with is how many people to whom English is a second( or third) language can have such great difficulty pronouncing words in English can perfectly pronoun slang and curse words.  For example, many Koreans I know cannot pronounce F's and P's correctly but can say Mother *ucker perfectly.  Interesting.
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I'm sure a majority are non-native english speaking.  I find that in the gaming community as well.\n\nOne girl (I answered her question not to her liking) e-mailed me a long, rude and profane message and  informed me it's slang these days and perfectly acceptable to have poor grammer, spelling and sentence structure.  She knew how to spell and if she wanted to spell it that way she would.  If so, I wonder why they bother to put spell check available here?\n\nI hope I'm dead by the time they all take over the country.....
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hey lizzie, my advice is YEA. cause im the same damn way. i call this girl EVERY night. and i call her names like big-head, or slow, or nerd ,dork, just stuff that wouldnt really insult her. so yea my guess is he does.
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Maybe it's a culture thing her parents may not approve of her dating outside of her race. Find out first before you take it personally. Good luck.
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I'm having the same problem myself. The way I decided to solve my problem, was to be great friends, but casual daters. If you value your relationship (as friends and lovers) talk about it...over chinese food or pizza or something. Really talk about if you think the relationship will last more than a month and what would really change once you 'officially' started dating. would there really be a difference in how you act around each other other than physically (i.e. hand-holding, kissing, etc.)?