What's up with me not being able to find a boyfriend? I consider myself to be smart, cute, athletic...i play soccer, and just a fun person to hang out with. All of my friends would agree with me...but how come i can't find a boyfriend..i talk to alot of guys but none of them are asking me out...what's wrong with me?
210130
Just give it time! Everything takes time. I used to be the same way but I gave it time, and it was all good.
10119
You are beautiful no matter how you look. You are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud of yourself. I'm sure a right guy will come to you. \n\nI used to think I'm unattractive, and nobody asked me out. But when I say "F*ck this, I don't care what people think about me" and be myself, then my true love (now) just come right to me and say hi. See, ZI think guys got attracted by the woman's confidence, not their look. \n\nDon't rush. Congratulate yourself that you're still single. Don't you see us women who have bf always have to struggle and be hurt?
96020
we sure could use more of u around here.\na lot of girls go for the 'bad' guys, but as they \nget ready to settle down, the girls will find you.\nbut meanwhile, try to enjoy being single.\nmy motto for now- be smart stay single. best of luck!
431998
iv'e never had a boyfriend either and i'm in highschool 2, but maybe the right guy hasn't came along for you yet. and he will you just have to be patient. i no u probably want one because all of your friends have one right and its all they talk about........same here. well good luck!! wish me luck 2!!! bye
627440
no problems, took me a long time to find someone myself.  Just be happy with what you got, keep your eyes open, not only for someone but for that little click that just tells you it's right.  Be confident as well.  A nice guy will come around when the time is right.  Just don't make yourself paranoid while you wait.
232174
Listen..you sound like a wonderful person. You seem very respectful unlike many guys out there. I love the way you think, we need more guys out there like you. Your doing everything right dont worry, your time will come that you meet that special someone. Good Luck!
233768
if you have messenger you can just look people up in your area, and then if you see that they're single IM them. I have guys doing it to me all the time, only worked for one to get a date though... lol but he's my boyfriend now so I guess it worked for him.
574139
I think it depends on where you are looking and how!!  My friend asked the same question but was only looking in bars and just really wanted a girlfriend so he didn't have the highest standards.  Many times it's when you aren't looking and you are happy with where you are that someone comes along.  I met my boyfriend through a mutual friend.  Meet up with people who enjoy the same things with you.  \nTrust me... there are great honest girls out there.. you just have to look hard for us! :)  Good Luck :)
180322
Are you really as cute and sexy as you say?  Just kidding.  But seriously it's hard to move around and try to make new friends.  Just try smiling and saying hi to people at first and if they seem receptive then start up a convo or ask them out for pizza or something.   Grab that bull by the balls and go for it! (figuratively speaking of course)
126062
I don't know what these people are talking about, I flirt all the time and because of this I have never had any trouble finding someone to be with. The trick is to be confident and sweet. And if you have a good sense of humor use it like crazy... but don't bray at your own jokes like a donkey, that's NOT attractive. Give it a try ladies and gents, it works ;)
640257
Well you probably have one of a couple problems.\n\n1) sampling problems.  Where are you trying to find dates?  Are you going places where openly gay people congregate?  Because you're not just going to have the perfect gay guy drop out of the sky.\n\n2) are you openly gay?  I mean really openly gay.  Because once it is common knowledge that you are gay, then most women will stop hitting on you.  \n\n3) are you a loser?  That sounds harsh, but I'm serious.  It is so critically important, in my opinion, for a guy to come to the point where he is happy with himself and his life and is secure and confident in who he is BEFORE he tries to get into a relationship. If he enters a relationship without being confident and secure, then he is only going to dump his problems, his insecurities, and his self pity on the person he tries to end up with. I believe that it is self-pity, lack of self-esteem and lack of self-respect that people find unattractive and hence make some people unable to get dates
350773
Just continue to live your and be confident in yourself. Don't seem so desperate and anxious. It's okay, everything will come in time. So what you're obese? You know what that means? You weed out all the shallow people and you'll find someone really good. Thats how it was for me...I was 17 when I had my first kiss..and I was kinda fat...and I eventually lost 55 pounds about. But I was glad someone accepted me for me. All the time I was down because I didnt have a boyfriend and everyone else had one and when I was least expecting to meet someone, I did. I was with that person for about a year too. Realize how beautiful you are without a boyfriend and then one will come.
258050
is the reason you haven't had a boyfriend because of them or you? i know lots of people in wheel chairs that have relationships. so is it you? maybe your so afraid of no one liking you that you give off the vibe to stay away. if your not confidant in your self or you dont like yourself...men can pick up on that. try cahnging your attitude about yourself and im sure things will change
114859
Just because your in 8th grade doesn't mean you have to have a boyfriend!\n    Listen if you dont have a boyfriend it probably because your not ready, or if you like someone it's probably beacuse your not ready or don't feel comfortable telling them. You know just because your friends have boyfriends, or are always talking about them doesn't mean you have to get one. Maybe a guy likes you but is too scared to tell you...boys at this age are stupid and aren't ready to commit to a relationship. Believe me having a boyfriend isn't all that.....there is heartbreak no matter what. Just look at your friends when they are dumped...you really want that?\n    When your ready to have a boyfriend you should feel comfortable with that person ,and around them. If a guy only likes you for your looks than he's most likely a pervert. If a guy doesnt like you for your looks, or something like that then...well....first. he doesnt like you. second. he needs to stop being shallow.third.. he needs to get to know a girl b4 he goes out with you.Most guys date the pretty girls or skinny girls or w/e and then dump them because they are stuck-up and rude. lol. plus if you think its ur weight, its not. if a guy liks u it sould be your personality and whats in your heart. boyfriends arent everything these days.....ull thank me someday wen u find the right guy ull be happy u didnt go though out all the breakups and waited for the right guy!!!!\n     \n           *i wish you luck, and now i hope you understand looks arent everything!!!!!!!!!!
16624
hey, i went online, maybe you can too.  I've gotten lots of attention but haven't found anyone yet that I'm interested in dating full time.  It takes time but if you meet this person online, you could get to know her a little better and then maybe after a few emails, a few message sessions, and a few phone calls you might actually work up your courage to go on a date.  It might work!
204741
You can feel alone even when you are with someone. More than likely you are more mature than the guys you have been running into and have more of an intellect. When the right guy comes along he will notice you. Besides you may find if you go out with some of these guys you mentioned, that they are very shallow and have no real personality. You don't really want to have a boyfriend just to have a boyfriend. I would not let not having a boyfriend bother you. In fact, I would use the time you spend by yourself to allow you to become more independent. This may sound corny, but if you can be a friend to yourself and be happy being by yourself when the right guy comes along, he will see your self-confidence and that you know who you are on the inside, and your relationship with that special guy will last for a lifetime. When you run into that special guy on your journey through life, trust me, you will sparkle.
487869
I used to have that problem, I am a big girl too ( tall) and found it very hard to find guys my size.  I was teased as well but I learned The hell with them.. Its really what counts inside.... If your a good person you will find the right guy..People can be rude but the ones that are rude to you are the ones you dont want to be around anyway.. The hell with them...Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.. God is good and he will be good to you.. Be around people that are going to postive around you,  That will help your self esteem. Dont go looking for the right guy he will find you.. and dont go to bars you wont find anythere either.. Check into single dating clubs... of going out with the girls to a nice club and just have a good time.. Put yourself out there to be noticed.. .. you will be fine.. Good Luck to you...