He is very introvert in his feelings,on the other hand I am very emotional and pasionate about him.Tell me to find out ways that convince me he too loves me as I do.
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Stop thinking about it !! Too much thinking and wondering brings about trouble... He may not be as emotional as you by nature, but this doesn't mean he doesn't love you just as much... If you keep up the worrying and the wondering it will show you as insecure, he will get bored with you and will drift away, men don't like insecure women who lack confidence... Just love him and trust him and enjoy your marriage as long as you have it...Good luck
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yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!
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hi dear!!!\nu know what???\nwe're in the same situation,,,,\nhe's like a girl,, pickle minded,,,\nhe said he loves me then in few week,, he'll say that he still love his x,,\ndamn!!! freaks me out\nyou know what,,, i still trust him everytime hetells me that he loves me,,, though i cant feel it much for he lives in england and im here in philippines... well,, dear,, in your case,,, if you really love her,, dont give up,,, talk to her again,,, let her know how much you love her and how you feel,,, be brave,,, speak out,,\ntalk!!! if ahe cried,, there's still love,,, dont give up,,, you might regret not doing anything to have her in your life!!!\n\nhope you could have the right lady whom yoou deserve to have!!!!\nsomeone you love and could love you too!!!\ntake care!!!\nGod bless!!!\n\n\nl_e_a_h_02@yahoo.com
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If he always treats you with respect, kindness, understanding, trust, honesty, and is willing to compromise and to communicate his thoughts and feelings openly with you, I think that he loves you. If he is all of these things, all of the time, I do think it is love! If he never tries to hurt you, and he continually puts into the relationship as much as you, I think that's love!
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If you truly love this guy, that really wouldn't matter, but I can understand where you are coming from.  People say you are a reflection of the people you choose to have around you.  But since he doesn't act that way around you, it's hard to know the real him!  It's makes me think he might be just trying too hard around other people, while he feels comfortable enough around you to just be himself.  If you believe he is more "himself" with you than with other people, then eventually the "true him" will shine through in all his relationships with a little time and maturity.  :)\n\nGood luck!
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Okay tell him you may be moving. If he reacts saddly then you know he care. Now to see if he loves you; ask him how does he feel, and if yall are not together play a fake boyfriend role. And other words you can tell by the way yall kiss if it's gentle then it's okay and yall hugg if he pulls away quickly then somethings wrong and if he reacts strangely in public then somethings wrong. But it's the way things go to how you can tell. If yall can talk for hours then it's love and if you have problems with people and he is always there then it's love! Trust me you will know because of the way you feel when you are around him!!!!!!!!!!
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He is selfish, and doesnt care about your feelings, because you have strong feelings for him, you cant realize this.\n\nSo unless you can get a hold of your emotions, and your feelings you will be destined to re-live this scenario in future relationships...
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Actions speak louder than words.  Being there for him is a big thing, and accept him for who he is.  Make him feel important.  Tell him often that you love him, especially when you are looking into his eyes.
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You could start by saying, you know was thinking about how to accurately evaluate my feelings for you and I think I could love you.....If you were to evaluate your feelings how would you say you feel about me?....\n\nDon't be surprised to hear I don't know....Means he's probably scared to say he loves you.....If that occurs, don't be disappointed continue to try to convince him that he loves you.\n\nGood luck
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I love you. That took about 1.7 seconds. But he just won't say it, huh. He may say it tomorrow or he may never say it, that isn't exactly the strongest sign that he honestly loves you. There are many factors at work and it will be up to you to muddle your way through it all. Let me see if I can help you do that.\n\nYou will find as you age that Love will take on many faces. \n\nAt times, Love will make you feel like the happiest girl in the world. You will be so filled with It that Love will spill over and get on everyone around you. The whole mood of a room will change when you walk through the door.\n\nOther times, It will take your heart and stomp it into the ground. Just when you think it is done, it will turn and spit on you.\n\nLove will be the thing that defines different periods of your life. Love is better as a group activity but that doesn't mean you can't be alone in your feelings of Love also.\n\nWhat you have to look at here is your boyfriends comfortable zone. In some families the word love is used in everyday language. The children and the parents are quick to assure each other of Its existance. \n\nIn other families, It is said only at times when someone feels a strong need to assure another that they do indeed feel love for them.\n\nThen there are those families where speaking the Word is a bit uncomfortable and is almost or totally absent from their interactions. So...\n\nWhich of these fits your boyfriend's experience. Is the word so common to him that he might find it easy to say even if he feels only a little bit of it towards you? Is he someone that understands his feelings enough to say it only if he is sure of it? Or could he feel an overwhelming Love for you but still not vocalize it? \n\nHere is the defination of "what love is" as given in the Bible. It's not a definition of being in love. It gives a definition that defines what will be present if love is present. Even if the word Love is never said, this is how you will recocnize it.\n\n"Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, (love) is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury,  \nit does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. \n\nIt bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails... So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love."\n\nDon't try to force the Word from him. Don't think that hearing him say the Word is the definitive event that proves It's existance. Actions speak so much louder than words ever will. Instead, look for the signs of Love. Now you know what those signs are.
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Judge his love by his actions,not so much by his words. Does he kiss you tenderly and tell you he loves you often?\nDoes he introduce you to others with great zeal?Does he ask you often if there is anything he can do to make you happy?\nDoes he bring you little gifts often to show that you are constantly on his mind and heart? Do you have great communications between your and your mate? Does he ask you if there is anything you need? Use what I have said as a guideline. Good luck.
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PLEASE GIVE MORE DETAILS!!! Sorry, but I really try to answer these questions to the best of my ability but it's damn near impossible when it's so vague.  Anyway, with that said, the only adice I can give you is to get yourself calm and relaxed and simply ask him to discuss his feelings toward you as honestly as possible and let him know that it is very important for you to hear about his true feelings.
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YES HE LOVES U HE JUS HAS ISSUES WITHIN HIMSELF HE NEEDS TO DEAL WITH TAKE TIME AND LET HIM SEE AND FEEL WHAT HES MISSING......
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Are you secure with yourself as a person?  Are you honest to yourself (and him) about your feelings for him?  I am not judging you in anyway at all... I can just understand where you are coming from.  If you really love this man, don't try to change him or try to get him to do things that he would not normally do (emotionally).  To love someone unconditionally for who they are is the greatest thing of all and with that comes compromise and not trying to change who that person is on the inside.  I wish you luck with your relationship!!!!
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He has made it very clear that your feelings arent very important to him, and I dont think he loves you as much as you love him, or as much as you deserve to be loved!\nYou sound like a wonderful girl, and there are plenty of good guys who would treat you right and appreciate all that you do. Hold out for just that!\nYour boyfriend might be sorry, but he needs a lesson in life. You cant treat people badly and expect them to put up with it!
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Well I think that if he really loves you than he wouldn't care about what people say or do, and would only focus on only being with you...so if he loves you as he says then  why is he with another one? \nand doing anything for each other does not come from one side it comes from both sides of the relationship.(which is you and him)
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i am sorry you are going through this   he sounds conflicted and i would like to see you with a guy that after knowing you so well would find it easy to love you be with you and have the courage the vision and the energy to offer you proper attention touch affection and be emotionally available for you  please look else where and make your self available after knowing him well the man of your reality not this lost soul if he comes around later and gives you a proper romantic relationship then fine please don't be blind to the ones probably screaming for your attention