he want to get marride because his parents say he is living in sin what do i do
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If you have to ask, then no.  Why haven't y'all married before now?  Do you love him?  Do you want to marry him?  Be honest with yourself and you'll know the right answer for you....
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Do not give him an ultimatum. You can not make a grown man do anything that he is not inclined to do. \n\nYour spiritual growth and development is your number one priority, and sacrificing it for this man who neither shares your faith nor supports your spiritual growth is a type of spiritual suicide. \n\nGet out now before you fall even further away from your faith. YOu have made a mistake, and its okay, but you have to get back on the right track now. I know it seems huge to have to undo the home you have made with him, but it is really best for all involved. \n\nIf you fall away from your faith, you will resent this man because you'll see him as a block between you and your spiritual expression. Both of you will suffer, and that is unfair and unneccesary.\n\nEven if you have to move back home for financial reasons, or move into your own place thats not as nice, you can not afford to sell your soul.
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people make choices in life. you are not willing to move in which means that you are not that committed to him and his situation. social services could help him. notify him to call social services.
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If he was truly saved, and is falling into the temptations of Satan, he will turn away from it (one day) and go back to following Jesus. \n\nIf he was never saved, then it will be harder for him to resist these temptations.\n\nSatan knows that God hates homosexuality, and he is using this to either spite God, or to keep this man from ever receiving the Blessing of true salvation. \n\nWhen you speak to his mother, pray with her--everytime, as often as she comes to you. Tell her to love him, no matter what. Tell her that no matter how mad her son may get that it is her duty to quote scripture to him about homosexuality. Tell her not to shun his partner, but to love him as she does any other person in Christ. \n\nThat doesn't mean that she should accept them behaving like lovers at her house or in her presence. She needs to set ground rules and say, "You may both come here, but you may not act unnaturally in my presence. And, as your mother, I would ask that you respect me enough to NOT act this way when I am in your presence, at your home." \n\nHer son will reject her and Christ, as long as he feels that he is being attacked. She must find a way to love him, unconditionally, just as God loves all of us. \n\nShe must also share this with as many true Christians as she can, so that they can pray for her and her son, as well as his lover(s).\n\nI would also like to add that she needs to let her son know that not only is he sinning against God, but against himself, and the men that he lays with.
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Can you get your priest or clergyman to help you?  Perhaps you could meet with him and your fiance and talk it out with him.  Or maybe a therapist?  \n\nGood luck, girl, and don't let your parents or your fiance talk you into something you don't want to do.  GOOD LUCK!
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You turn your life back over to God.Make a contious effert no to sin again.Ask HIM for forgiveness for your sin,and mean it.Get in a bible believeing bible teaching church.I once turned away from God because i had all of the questions that you have.Like you i already know what i was doing was wrong,but i kept doing them because i thouhgt it was fun,i didn't think i had to look at my life as it was.I thought i was free to do any and every thing i wanted to do.I was wrong,just as you are wrong.Everything that the word of GOD tells us to do,sociaty tells us it's alright to do.Drinking,drugs,pornography,lying and cheating in any form.there are a host of things i could mention but i think you get the point.If you have not found out already you will see that those thing and some can only lead to a distructive life style.If you want to turn your life over to GOD here's your chance.Get on your knees,humble yourself before the LORD.As HIM for forgiveness for your sins and mean it.Speak your sin to HIM out loud in a private place so that it will be you and HIM.Tell HIM everything you can think of,and especially the things you want no one else to hear.Turn your heart,your mind and your soul over to GOD,you will see a big differents in how you think,how you talk,how youact.You do have to be awear that your so called friend are going to think you are strange,but if you really want ro do this you will accept what in front of you,not your past.
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The first thing you should do is pray and ask Jehovah God for direction. Don't take just anybody's advice...pray about it, and God always gives the same word more than 2 times to conform his word in your life. If he begins to act out of the norm! Watch him and see sooner or later he will slip up...the devil always gives his self away. Don't let it fester up and make you parnoid or consume your life and the happiness that you deserve.
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well just let your parents know about him and let them see that you are a responsible adult by letting them know. you shouldn't hold it in and then they find out on their own and then it will all go down hill from there. that's my advice.
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If he's living with you and hasn't offerd to marry you, he's keeping his options open just in case someone better comes along. She may be prettier, cook better, be more willing to let her life revolve around his son, or just look better in a tight sweater.\n\nOnce (if) you are married, you've got 6 more years of coming in second to his son. Once the son turns 18, he will go live on his own, unless he doesn't.\n\nThis guy must have SOME good features or you'd have left him long ago; that or you are desperate.\n\nTake a deep breath, remind yourself that he isn't going to change, and ask yourself if life with him (an UNCHANGED him) is better than life without him. \n\nIf so, learn to live with it and stop complaining, because - guess what? he isn't going to change. If not, leave him.\n\nBoy, other people's problems are easy to solve, aren't they?\n\nYou have any ideas about an 18-year old daughter who considers me evil because I eat meat?
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I agree for the most part with TypeANegative.  I believe that your sister has a serious crush on this guy and/or wants to run away from home with him.  Have you tried talking to this guy yet?  Maybe pointing out the difficulties involved will help.  If he doesn't budge from his position, try talking to his mom, and try to explain yourself to her.  If neither of these things work, then you probably should talk to your parents if you trust them, or if worse comes to worse you can try taking it to the police.\n\n\nI think that your sister shouldn't get married unless she's mature enough. Has enough education to be a good housewife,\nHas the approval of both sets of parents, and has somewhere to live after they're married.  I seriously think that you should talk with somebody that you know and trust who has gone through something like this before, e.g. running away from home, having a crush on a guy, marrying too young, etc.\n\nIf you don't have anyone to turn to and you've tried all of these things, well, I think that you should tell your parents anyways out of love for your sister even if you get in hot water with your parents and your sister.  It'll be hard but it'll probably be better in the long run.
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Don't listen to that dumb guy's comment up there... I'm a christian, too, and my mom is also.. She got a divorce from my stepdad and is now dating. People don't realize that in the new testament, God said His blood washes away your sins and you are forgiven.. You got married to a man that wasn't for you, then you became a christian and asked him for forgiveness I hope, so now you can correct the mistake you made by having a divorce from someone who is from your old life, know what I mean?? You shouldn't take abuse from your husband and it's time to begin your new life now. Talk to the guy you love and let him know this... Bless you and good luck..
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Thas not true.  I am neither one of those but I can tell you that God says no sin is greater than the other.  Wether you murder your parents or do a man when your a man thats still sin to him and every soul may seek forgiveness.  You may not be correct in your actions, you may not follow all the laws of god, but you can still believe.  God says that taking the same sex to bed together is a sin and he also says that gossip is a sin but nine out of ten times i bet you do that, so what makes you or anyone else better than the other.  If you are gay or a lesbain, to me, that is your sin, you will answer to god just like me for my sins.  Which is greater?  How can god put a scale on how bad you hurt him?  A sin is just that, a sin to god.  Worldly pleasures are just worldly pleasures.  Just try and live your life as correct as possible for god and it shouldn't matter if you're gay or a lesbain.  Just let him know you believe and ask him to live in your heart.  If you truely except him than the lord will help you discover who he has planned for you to love.
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Wise? No. Love is never wise. Love is madness.\n\nIf he can tolerate and respect your religion, and you can tollerate his, it's all good. The one thing you DONT want to do is convert to his. I know that would give your relationship more understanding, but that would KILL your parents. \n\nIf he asks you to convert to be w/ him, dump him. YOU certainly aren't asking something so drastic of him, why should he care?\n\nAs for parents, if they're very conservative, it won't be pretty, but if it's a very serious relationship, then don't worry about it. Parents usually come around for things like weddings! I would, however, make it clear to my parents that I had no intention of deserting my own customs and beliefs. And that the man I was dating understood that as well and was not making moves to convert me!
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Get sponsers from your church that god has led you to get help from along with family. Don't worry if it's god's will he will make a way. Just pray and it should be okay sounds corny but hopely that helps.
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Donot compel him to go to church.\n\nGod is everywhere and let his realize this truth. God says in Gita, "whoever sees Me in everything and everything in ME does not leave Me and not do I leave away from him"\n\nMore you compel the more he will rebel and move away from religion.
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Pray about it and ask for His guidance. The Holy Spirit may be using your daughter as a vessel to lead him to Christ. That's how I came to the Lord - through my wife - and only after we'd been married for a couple of years. I think the Bible mentions this situation but do not know where, sorry.\nGod bless.
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do not unless he asks. just pray for him. and if he does ask, prayer's still good part of the help.