is it personality, looks, humor? i want to know
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a smile, the curve in the small of her back, her hearth laugh, her rosy cheeks when I tell her I love her, the way she wants me when we make out, her green eyes, her golden hair and her stature- 5 feet tall.
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to me a perfect guy will be:\n1-intelligent\n2-humourous\n3-assertive\n4-kind/sensitive\n5-romantic\n\ni could go on but i think they cover the generic wishes of women.  As for looks every woman has her idealistic look but usually ends up  with something completely different.  Personality will always win over looks but women do appreciate a man who grooms, makes an effort and has good personal hygiene.  If in doubt be urseld cos we love confidence, never be fake. and u know what if she doesnt appreciate what uv got or tries to change u - go find someone who'll love u for what u are. good luck in love.
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Here's my honest list:\nGodly, Geeky, Brilliant, quirky sense of humor, impulsive, compassionate, politically aware (preferably liberal), honest, sensitive, not afraid of debate, and likes board games.\nAs far as looks, I'm not too obesessed, preferences: soulful eyes, blonde (though I am often physically attracted to African American men as well, so blonde is only a caucasian thing), Clean shaven, tall, skinny, maybe hair a little below the ears-- but that's not important- it's really the personality thing above that does it for me
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most important....a great sense of humor..I can't handle a guy who doesn't have one..\n\nalso, I like guys who are witty...smart...I don't mean book smart, though that's ok too, I mean someone who can figure things out..that I don't have to explain everything to..someone who loves his family...is good to his friends, loves animals..someone who believes in being faithful...compassionate, loving...
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A great personality. Looks do matter but a great attitude and personality can certainly make up for "average" or "below average" looks while no matter how "great" looking one is if the personality and attitude aren't there, I'll see ya later.
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a guy that is open minded, understanding, a great personality. a great smile, and one that knows how to please me...
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For me, intelligence is key.  At the risk of sounding arrogant, I could never date someone I didn't think was on my level.  Besides that, I have to respect him.  He also should have a good sense of humor.  Of course, it's always nice if he's cute, too ;)
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charm is one of the best 'attributes' that a man can have =)\nplus, you're honest, romantic, and giving\nwhat else could a woman want?\nage and look are not important these days\nso, if i'm not married, i would surely date you!\nbe more confident with yourself =)
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1 great sense of humor\n2. good communication skills\n3 great personality\n4 likes sex
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looks are important of course, every girl wants a guy that is attractice, but personality wise someone funny, caring, confident, yet shy can be really cute too. Basically a guy that is fun and brings out the best in you :)
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Honesty, Sense of Humor, Morals, Strong Character, Intelligence
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Personality: she should be intelligent and outgoing. I like somebody I could talk to for hours without getting bored. Even if we're just sitting at a park or in the car, always have something to talk about. She has to be confident about herself in general, her sexuality, her looks, her emotions. She has to be romantic and sweet, but at the same time strong and ambitious. She needs to know about other cultures, maybe a foreign language (or two). She needs to enjoy traveling too. Mature of course. \n\nLooks: if she has all (or almost) of the above, looks don't matter that much. She could be any color and I'd like her. It'd be nice if she's into sports, since I am. It doesn't matter if she's feminine or not. They have to dress nice tho, not like a little teenage girl. \n\nWoW...I didn't know these until you made me think about it LOL. Am I being too exigent?
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they look for\n1.b***s,b**ts\n2. independent\n3. sense of humour\n4. not too emotional\n5. simple and natural\n6. those who boost their ego\n7. charm and smile works wonders
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i prefer a girl who makes me laugh, and to do that, you need to be smart, i mean, if shes really nice looking, its an added bonus, obviously, when i first meet someone it the first thing i notice, but once i talk to someone for a bit, i relized that its the personality that i like best.  smarts are an essential part to a personality, tho, most guys, im sad to say are shallow jerks, so not everyone will feel the same way as me, but yea, smarts and personality are more important to me than looks, especially if im looking for a long term relation ship, i want someone to talk to, i cant talk to their chest, so they had better have more than that.
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The eyes, face,and a nice smile..Cuz really what good is a body with out some pretty eyes and a nice face and smile to go along with it...
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Honesty.  Trust.  Self assuredness and confidence.  Good looks of course.  Funny.  Smart.  Good sense of style.  Turnoffs would be jealousy, clinginess, poor personal hygiene.
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Intelligence, maturity and confidence are up there at the top of the list.  Good sense of humor is near the top too.  Don't use stupid pick up lines, don't act like a jerk and don't make idiotic sexual references to everything!\n\nIf you find any guys like this let me know, because they seem to be extinct or in hiding!\n\nChivalry can't be dead!\n\n(Ha Ha!  Good answer vamp!:-)  I agree!)