I have been with my boyfriend for a year and I really love him. But many time I ma not sure about my feelings for him. I can find him annoying or I am not sure he is the one for me. But sometimes I am not sure Ilove him then I see him with one of his female workmate and I'm so scared of loosing him I want to sacream to the world how much I love him. Is this normal?
208326
Well its normal it happens many time maybe to everyone....\nits coz when u 2 r together u know tht now this person is urs n u dont worry of loosin him n try to tell him his faults or start findin sumthins which r not agreeable to u. n u then start thinkin do i seriously love this guy??? Thts da only thing tht is happenin with u n when u see him with other female friends u feel jealous its obvious coz its ur guy u love him a lot u will feel paranoid n possesive abt him... but dont worry just think y do u love this guy think abt his positive aspects tht made u think y do u love him n u`ll forget all his silly faults.... if u really love him u`ll try not to think tht u dont love him becoz i think u shud not break over this relationship just becoz u think he has sum silly faults.... \nCommon u love this guy u cant break up just bcoz of mere misunderstandin.....
493654
It depends how many times and how old are you? I never believed in love at first sight but the night I met my boyfriend the first time I knew he was the one for me.  He completely rocked my world. I never had felt like that about anyone and then the next few days I was struggling to figure out why I felt like that about someone.  Now I still feel the same way and better than I did before. So if it is several times no it is not normal and you probably not falling in love.
21808
I think that you need to talk to her about it.  I know what it is to feel like your going to lose the one you love. The real question is, is it worth it being with someone that doesn't love you the way you love them? Talk to her.  Go to counseling.  You might discover that she does love you and that there is a way to build that love up.  I wish you the best.  Good luck!
148289
You probably still love him but you have to have confidence and cut the ties. If you don't want to be with him, then don't talk with him. I know it's hard but you have to do what's best for you and not play mind games.
68597
Love differs in every person, but for my experience i grown to love this person, we starts as friends, in just a short time i feel comfortable being close with him, i trust everything about my self, i fell secured everytime he's with me, i told him even the shamefull experience i had. I am never bother with my weaknesses for i know that with him everything will be alright. There is always security in this relationship. i fell contented.
315145
Absolutely not! Your only human afterall. Sometimes bonds with another person are so strong we feel as though we have known them all our lives when this happens it hard to picture our lives without them. I have been down this road a time or to. *smile* dear your normal.
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I think about my boyfriend several times with in a day. It is perfectly normal to want to spend time with someone you care about. \n\nWhat is not normal is the need to want to be with him 24/7 and the fact that all you want to do is sit at home and wait until he calls. First off that is not love that is obsession. Also you are going to turn him off with your neediness. A person should not consume your whole life he should be an addition. Are you blowing off time with your friends to wait for his calls? Are you blowing off activities you love? If so not good. You as a person shouldn't be consumed by a guy. He'll be more turned on by you and probably want to spend more time with you if you have your own friends and activities. A girl who lives, breaths, and dies a guy will lose him due to neediness. A person can't be someone's everything. If you expect that you should take a good look at your life to see what you are missing if you need him that bad.
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I think the answer to your question is a resounding YES!  Communication is the key to all relationships and you need to be honest and forthright about your feelings and fears.  You need the reassurance, from him, about how he feels and where your relationship is heading.  It is pointless being in a relationship that you are too much for him and you would be wasting your time and emotions on him.  Otherwise, you are going to be damaging your relationship by being unsure of it.  You need to get the clarity for your own sanity if nothing else!  Good luck!
454777
It sounds like you answered your own question with the "I love my boyfriend very much and don't want me mess things up with him."  Think about whether you really like this other guy or are only lusting after him.  Also if it is just for convenience will it last?  Think about what you would be giving up with your current boyfriend and if you will gain anything other than less distance with the other guy.  Do what your heart tells you is best.  Hope you make the right choice.
119565
its normal you would feel like this, the heart often rules the head, but does this situation make you feel good, if anything ever did happen properly with this man you would never trust him because of how you met. time is a great thing, things change, even after all that been said you need to give him time to think what he really wants, he seems to be going through a difficult time, he needs to give himself a chance to get his own thoughts in order.  but for yourself as a person, you owe to yourself not to be anybodies second fiddle, it would never be enough for anybody because naturally we always want more. hi how are you anyway gav
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The only thing you can do is listen to your heart. What is your heart saying to you when you think of that person? You can't change the way you feel about that person. But ask yourself, How does that person feel about you? Is he taking time to work through your problems with you or are you the only one doing all the work. In order for your relationship to work  both of you have to put up an effort to want to work things out. If he is not interested in helping with the relationship it will fall apart no matter how much you care for him. This will also show how he feels about the relationship. \n\n   Sometimes you have to move on and try someone different. You, of course will need time for yourself before this happens. In doing this you will understand what you really want from a partner. Sometimes God makes things available for you to work and go through in order to get something better for you. But remember it is your decision to continue what you are going through. Dont let it get to the point where it will discourage you from dating or comparing other guys to him. All guys are not the same. Remember\neverything/anything is your choice. No decision is right or wrong, it is a lesson learned.
217556
If you're really not sure of what you feel for him, then just try to entertain him about his feelings for you... Never tell a person you love him/her if you're not sure because it really hurts in their part when you don't show it to them... Try to think first before making any moves and be sure of everything if you're talking about true commitment... You can also try telling him about your feelings that at this moment, you're still not sure what you feel, if he's matured enough, he will understand you, and if he really loves you, he will wait for your decision without lessening his feelings for you... Also use the situation right now to test if what he feels for you is true...
201367
Do you love your boyfriend? If yes, cut off communication.\n\nDo you love those other people? If yes, why are you with your boyfriend?
276546
In love? Doubtful, although you may be very attracted to him. Ask yourself these questions to determine how strongly you feel about him. Does he occupy your mind more often than not? Do you feel miserable when you don't hear from him at least three times a day? Does your day feel empty, or mundane, but brightens up instantly when you see or hear from him? When you're with him, do you feel warm and relaxed?I'm sure that there are some other questions that the ladies may think of... so I'll leave that up to them. But my belief is that while you can be attracted to somebody, it takes more than a week to love them.
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you really shouldn't have to think so hard about it.  if he's not for you, he's not for you.  when you are with the person you're meant to be with, you don't have any doubts.  don't get involved with another person straight away though.  have some time to yourself before getting into another committed relationship and make sure it's for the right reasons.  don't waste your time with people who aren't right for you.
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You need someone to love.  \n\nYou have a very giving nurturing spirit, but feel there is no one who needs it or deserves it.\n.\nYour boyfriend may also be acting indifferent or too independent for you and you feel somewhat lonely.
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Wow that had to hurt you alot. i Cannot imagine the thought that you were holding back someone you loved. BUT i do not think you are. If hes not worried i wouldn't either. Sounds like his boss needs to get with he times and realize that gays, interracial couples, lesbians and most relationships are common place. I am sure if he keeps pushing your boyfriend that he will make a decision to find another firm rather than loose you. Good luck