How do you feel brown skin women fit into society. I hear a lot of people saying that some girls are cute to be darkskin and I hear people saying that light skin girls are conceited. How so you guys view us brown women. Do we just fall into place? As far as outer appearance, what do the majority of males want their womens skin tone to be. What do you guys prefer?
203392
I think it's the other qualities you posses not your skin tone that matters. There are beautiful as well as ugly women of all different skin tones. Your attitude, appearance and sexuality is what make you attractive.
264591
Would you rather have them call you yellow? Maybe Old Yeller? I'm a brunette and I'm tired of people calling me brown - Wait.... nobody calls me that! ;-))\n(Whatever they call you - you're a great girl!)
159537
i just went from red to brown and feel i get taken more seriously by people. just know that going from blonde to brown is a b *tch to reverse so be sure when you do. good luck in your decision!
56295
I don't understand it.  Why would people think anyone is different because of the color of their skin?  If you're white and you get a tan, does that change your personality?  No!  So why would being a different skin color mean anything?  Unfortunately I think there will always be racists...makes me sad.
318850
Well coming from another girl wear natural makeup. It looks sexier. Don't wear skanky clothes or try to hard. This one poll took these answers from guys. And trust me do not try to act like someone you are not. It comes across as a wanabee and anyone who dosen't like you for you (person wise) should go F*@# a cow!
467888
It is an age old problem.  Part of it has to do with the European influence from colonization.  Also, part of it has to do with just our cultural ideals that are not always realistic.  Just as many Africans want to be lighter skinned, white people want to be darker (thus, tanning).  People of all races have thousands upon thousands of years of ever-changing ideals which leaves everyone who doesn't live up to the ideals feeling bad about themselves.  Somewhere along the lines someone decided that light skin was better just as it was decided men are superior to women, for example.  It is false, and it is changing, but it is still with us all over the world, sadly.  Like you I wish we could just appreciate beauty in all its colors.
487859
I think it depends on your natural skin tone. If you ever watch Desperate Housewives, Brie (marcia cross) has alabaster skin. It's practically white! She's a natural redhead and that whole tone suits her. She wouldn't look good tan. Now me, for instance, I have a lot of natural olive tones in my skin, but I'm still a white guy. However, the olive tones allow me to tan really easily and as a result I look a lot healthier and radiant with a tan. I think the general consensus is that if you have light features, a fair complexion suits you better. Now judging by your avatar, I'd say you have dark dark hair and pale skin. If your look is kinda pale, maybe you want to add a little color with some blush, but if you're really pale?? Then I'd suggest staying really white, because chances are you have a northern european background, which means STAY away from the sun. In my opinion, stay pale if your're super pale already, chances are your skin quality is fantastic, and try to tan if you can tan easily, like me.\n\nHope this helps! Vote me for best answer, I'm trying to get my level up! ;-)
77727
Well, I have been discrminiated against and racially profiled. I am a militray wife and been just about every where and because of my fair skin I have been assumed to be Everything but, black. Because they say I "sound" white. Many people are under the assumption that all black people are "brown skinned". NOT TRUE. we come in different shades. I am mixed with Seminole Indian, African American, German and Irish. Despite of my many mixed nationalities I am abdominatly "Black". But, it's ashame to see that people still use the "N" word even within the black community. But, as soon as a person of a different race says it, it's offending. So, why call eachother that. It is a sticky discussion and can go on for years to come.
659068
The unshaven look has it's sex appeal, but it's rough on our faces and other areas.  So, she'll be asking you to shave soon.  I really have this thing about hands-they have to look masculine.  I also really love a man with deep dark eyes.  Looks will only get you so far, though.  Women like to be pampered with a chance to be independent also.  We like it when you make us laugh, but make sure you're sympathetic when we need a shoulder to cry on.  Don't try to fix our problems for us, just listen to them... trust me, it will save you a lot of trouble!  Good luck!
176679
Of course we are beautiful!!  Smartgirl, you are too smart to let this one man's preference make you doubt yourself.  Latina women are pretty, but that's not to say that other women are not half as good.  I don't know why people can't give a compliment without slamming others.  There is beauty in all races.  This is true for us as well.  From our full lips to our rounded hips to that fantastic African shelf--we're slamming!  I'm not conceited by the way; I just appreciate what God made me and I don't care if y'all either can't or refuse to see it. :o)
248101
I like to take a few things from all races.... as far as fashion goes. I am white and I was born with a big ol booty, thick hair and big lips.....so guess its not just a black thang anymore. I really don't understand the conflict between black and white.....I live in the south and its always a heated debate. We live in this world together and I think that we just need to open our eyes and realize that. Learn from one another
366125
It is not true that blacks are ugly. I am not a black but brown.\nFor your answer: Brain Lara
123876
I want to commend you on the way you ask what could considered a racsit question. "Dark-skinned folks" are up set because there are still some prople in 2006   believe that "lighter-skinned folks"  treat them as  slaves or as if they are second class citizens which is far from the truth. A lot of "dark-skinned folks help build this country as well as "lighter-skinned folks". And as for the being lazy and needing to go to work. Most "dark-skinned folks do work and work hard for all they have. SO YOU GET OVER IT.
302074
I'm currently in the process of growing my hair out (I had to cut off some damaged ends because I dyed it too much), and back when it was long it was completely unnatural fire-engine red. I don't really think I could go pink- my hair is very, very dark, and I don't want to bleach it.\n\nI think people should just stop worrying about other people's hair/make-up/clothes/what-the-hell-ever and focus on their own lives. :)
645387
I'm not black, but I like alot of black artists, so why should the color of your skin matter? Why should it matter, period? God made us all in His image. I think saying you should do this or that, or shouldn't do this or that because your white, black, etc. is absolutely ridiculous. We are all human beings! Listen to what you like! Be your own person!
340586
Actually, a large percentage of Latinas are mixed with Black.  Hello?  Either way, we all have "Flava" and curves!  LOL!\n\nHawkthree, the skin lightening is to lighten blemishes.  Black women come in so many different colors that many have no reason to lighten the skin.  Wherever we are, we can find man who prefers whatever kind of chocolate his heart desires (and yes, we come in white chocolate too, lol!)
508890
I prefer any skin tone.  My husband happens to be very brown.  He is from SouthEast Asia.  I don't think that colors are important at all.  God made everyone.  :)