because this kid at school thinks that i think my life is perfect just because i almost get everything i want!! And my life is really not perfect
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Material things are nice but not everything.Nobodys life is perfect.You could give them a couple of reasons why it isn't or just tell them to back off.
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First and foremost, I must say that I applaud you for standing up for someone who you feel is being wronged. So what if she's " kinda big?" If God wanted everyone to be alike, then he would have made us that way. I also want to tell you that I had some hard times attending high school myself because no matter what you do, people are going to be just people. I was known as the "goody two-shoes" girl, but at least I wasn't bullying anybody, and I was able to get good grades. Grades that have put me where I am today. If you do as some people on here has suggested, and be a "goody-two shoes", then people will hate you for being good, and if you're stuck up and snobbish, then they will hate you for that also. Just be YOURSELF!! As long as when you get up in the morning and can still face yourself in the mirror, then you know that you are doing something right. And, I hate to say it, but this is just a growing process that we all must go through at some point in our lives. It sucks, I know, but in the end, at least you'll feel better for going through it, and being the victor!!
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Don't worry, it could be just some kind of added stress on you with school, sports, etc.\n\nIt happens, especially when you're younger like you are.
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He expects a lot and I know its hard sometimes. But he knows your potential. I know sometimes you just can't get a perfect grade. Try talking to him assure him and prove to him that you do work hard and prove that to him and try explaining that its not possible to get perfect grades all the time. Good luck to you. Hang in there and don't forget he loves you.
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Yes, I want my children to have those moments.  I tell my son, he has just entered high school, that this is now some of the best, carefree times of his life.  He needs to enjoy them as he cannot go back.
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I know wat that feels like...so far in the last two years i have had many curveballs thrown at me...and right away i would get angry and question why god would want me to suffer...but now i truly believe that things happen for a reason and that there is a plan for all of us...its just one we cant see yet.. its like our life is little puzzle peices..and someday when its all put together we're gonna stand back and say "so thats wat its all about"
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No there isnt.I cant see what youre doing wrong either.Maybe you just have a bunch of crappy people at your school...lol.Everything right there is something that id find soothing for someone to do on the 1st day...pay attention to me....ask me questions....tell me about yourself.Youre doing nothing wrong.Just keep doing what youre doing & hopefully someone will appreciate your kindness.
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Honestly, I think it's awesome that you are getting such good grades. There is no reason as to why he would be upset with you.\n\nTell him the truth. Say what your grades are before report cards come home. That way, you have nothing to hide, and he may even be lenient towards your grades.\n\nkeep up the good work though. You won't regret it.
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I absolutely see this as doing something good for someone not so fortunate. Knowing exactly how it feels to be a struggling student...i can't deny that that plays a role in my opinion ;-)...no, I think it's a good thing.
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All parents are the same. And I used to feel the same way like you. But the things started to change once when I told them: "Sorry because I am not perfect! Probably, you have never made ANY mistake in your life!"
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Maybe they are jealous of you. U R probably super cute, and to make themselves feel like they have control over you, they make you feel unworthy. Just move on, it's High School, and everyone fits in somewhere.
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Sweetie you sound like a good role model. Some parents are over protective and don't let children learn from their mistakes.  Others let their kids have free  reign with no bouandaries. You probably had a good realtionship with your daughter - one where you sat down and really told why you were raising her a certain way and what your rules and expectations were, as well as why she should always strive for excellence.  Good for you - I bet you are so proud!
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I've had this happen to me, by my friends or family. It's usually because they're jealous or they feel like life isn't doing anything good for them.
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Hey.\nThe word 'Perfect' has a strong meaning. It's just not possible... I can't even imagine the world being Perfect. But I understand, sometimes, I wish everything were all right. Everyone has a different definition of perfect: for me Perfect is a world where everyone has a home. A few weeks ago a 40 year old women was sleeping in a dumpster and was thrown from such height when the truck was dumping the garbage - why sleep in there if you can't wake up. \nFor me perfect is peace and happiness. Kids play out on the streets safely. Going to school and saying I hate it. I do correspondent courses (gr.10) and I haven't gotten in trouble since I started it since gr.8. I actually miss the trouble. Perfect is no more rapists, racist, murders etc. That is impossible. Why? B/c it's obvious. Now, I don't wish for the world being perfect. I wish for more people like my Hero. I wish for the courage and strength as my Hero. My Hero? He’s a Paramedic who saved me. I can't find him - it's been 5 months. I'm searching. People like him can change the world and make it a better place. Can you change everyone's mind? No. My words can change a rude bully to being a nice kid. It can make me win money in contests. But will I be able to change the world...? \nYou know what? I have a perfect world. In my world, lives a Hero who will save me endless times. In my world, there are many people who dedicate their lives to protect ours. In my world, someone just died, a baby is just born, and either they'll do good deeds when they grow up or they'll end up being on the road. In my world, I'm a struggling teenager trying to make a difference. I'm a good daughter, sister, aunt, friend and stranger. In my world education does exist, it means a lot. In my world, I have problems that hopefully will be cleared. I'm searching for my Hero to say thank-you for the past 5 months. In my world, when I feel like running away I think why, it's not going to stop the cons? My world is beautiful, despite the pros and cons I find it very interesting through my eyes... in my world, I wake up looking forward to a new hope of having a better life... I wonder if my little attempts of helping people work. Well, this is my perfect world and I don't think it's going to change until I change it. My world may not be what you consider perfect but again nothing is...\n\nWarm Regards!\nHidden4eternity
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maybe it's because your trying to hard to be miss know it all and i'm not saying that to be mean but some times when u try to hard when u mess up u get mad and it's because u don't want to be wrong for anything try not to be so hard on yourself and when u do get one worng say it's ok to not be perfect
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You sound like a very unhappy person to me. By wishing these things you are basically wishing that you aren't the person you are.\n\nEverything that has happened in your life has made you the person you are and you are beautiful.\n\nAnything that has gone wrong has only made you stronger and you need to start looking at your life differently. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself and beating yourself up over events that are beyond your control.\n\nTake everything that has happened and turn it into a positive, make those things what drives you to get where you want to be.
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Well... look around... Do you like what you see? Are you happy for what lessons you have already learned? Are you pleased on what you are able to do for the better of tomorrow? That is all really. If you are happy. If you are pleased on what you have as a past, to put you in your position you are in now, and where it can lean you from your own ambition from knowing that this is your life. And if you are not happy with anything, well that is something that needs to be worked out within yourself, because you should be happy for everything in your life. Why should there be a reason for you to be un-happy? Are you missing anything? Do you have patience to take the time and effort to get to that point in obtaining that goal? Everything is in your hands. Just remember to take everything as it is and be happy for it. Don't expect anything. Things will flow much better if you do that. Hope this helps. Cheers!