We have been toghether for 3 weeks and we live around 20 min away from eachother. we are the sam age. We talk for like 4 to 5 hours a night. Somtimes we're up till like 3am talking. I really like him but hardly get to c him!!! What should i do to make things easyer for us???
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lmao, that's so cute. How old are you? Only 20 minutes? Don't you have any buses or other forms of public transportation around you or something?
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NOpe. I don't think that could be an issue. Since you both also have separate personal lives. One thing I could advice though is to keep an open communication. Even if you don't see each other everyday, a call on the phone, a text message, a special delivery, an email could perk up the relationship. You could also think of other ways to keep it spicy. Sometimes being with each other every single day gets kinda boring and infact this will have a deeper negative impact in your relationship rather than giving each other enough personal space with the 3 days a week dates. :-) Hoep everything works well with you and your boyfriend. If you not having a car of your own repells him from you, then that means you don't deserve him. You are far more valuable than a car. If he loves you and you love him, you both will always find a way to see or even just communicate with each otehr everyday. Distance could also make you miss the person, and missing the person makes the times when your together sweeter coz you'll both cherish every moment. :_)
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Talking daily over what sort of period of time? I usually won't consider meeting someone unless I've known them for more than six months. Another important question is: how old are you, and how old are they?\n\nEdit: Hmm, same age, and both male. From this information, it looks like you (physically) are not more vulnerable than they are, which lessens my concern of internet predation.\n\nStill, 3 months is a bit early. I'd certainly wait. You are old enough to make your own decisions, but if you do decide to meet this person, I would recommend having a close friend hang out with you for the first get-together or two, to be safe. \n\nI also recommend that he only come up for a short time--no more than a couple days, because if it turns out that you don't get along as well in person, you aren't stuck with them for too long. And, of course, if it turns out you do get along well, you can just arrange another meeting.
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I would let him know how I feel.Just because he is moving doesn't mean there can't be a relationship. If your to shy to talk to him drop him a line and let him know that way. Who knows maybe he feels the same way about you.
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You need to set aside time that is just for the both of you. It may not be easy because he works, but you need to take control of the situation. \n\nTry and arrange a weekend away. It could even be at a hotel down the road, but the change of environment will do you both a lot of good. Arrange to go out for a meal, both of you dress up. Have the idea that it's a date in your head to make it more exciting.
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MY CHILD FATHER IS A ONE OF THOSE SLOW MOVERS AFTER HE GOT ME AND MOOD SWINGS ARE AWFUL. YOUR SITUATION LOOKS LIKE U NEED TO MOVE ON BUSY OR NOT HE COULD SET A TIME TO CONVERSATE WITH YOU EVEN IF YOU DONT SEE EACH OTHER UNTIL THE WEEKEND OR SET SPECIAL NIGHTS .. SORRY ABOUT ALL CAPS DIDNT NOTICE UNTIL I WAS ALMOST FINISH typing ... Good luck if you continue to continue your search
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well, A good thing to do is to talk. Communication is a great thing, both tell eachother how you feel, etc. Not only does it let it off your chests, but the other then knows whats going on and can react accordingly. The other thing I suggest is to make the precious time that you have count. Try not to argue, because he won't want to spend any extra time with you if thats what you do. Do something special, go out to dinner, have a bottle of wine and watch a film...something intimate and worthwhile, so that you both enjoy the time you spend together.
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I don't think I'd do anything quite yet.  You should probably wait and see what happens. I understand you're worried but if your relationship is strong, you 2 can work this out.  Some people can make long distance relationships work out, some can't.  He says he's taking you with him, do you even want to move? That's something you'll have to decide and that could give you the rest of the answers you need.\nBest of luck to you!
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start by telling him that you guys wont be home. if he comes over on saturday say oh well we wont be home tomorrow and probably not monday either. then when he shows up tuesday say you are spending some alone time together...slowly but surely he will stop comming. or just tell him listen i enjoy your company but you can come over this often. and the rejection hotline is always good too lol
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Nope its not cos u only maintained a friendly relationship with the guy ur talking till wee hours...unless u both had a mutual understanding...as for your bf u said u don't see him for weeks nor talk to him over a week well If I'm on ur shoes i will made a decision for this...if u wear on LDR its okay but if you live with in the same area  its not good and healthy relationship when you see him now then don't for weeks.....do something before u get stray in ur relationship.
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Maybe you should not move so fast into something. I know you are excited and probably dying for you two to kiss and hold hands, but you should try to get to know this guy a little better first, doesnt matter that this would be the 3rd time you guys hung out. Have a nice evening out, ask each other questions, and really try to determine your compatability with each other before rushing into things. You might discover that this guy is not that interesting and feel differently about him, and then you will have to deal with you and him still working together. Get my meaning?
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If he is not moving right away, spend as much time with him as you can. Make sure you guys keep in touch- phone calls, e-mails, any way that you can to contact him. You can also visit him once he moves. It is hard when a friend moves away. You will not get to see him as much, but as long as you guys stay in touch, it wouldn't be as bad.
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Awww that's not stupid, its sweet! Maybe you could get together a group of friends to go out and do something fun...like a carnival or amusement park or something. An outing where you would be likely to communicate. And just try to hang around him a little more than anyone else and see how you vibe with each other. If it seems like things are okay, then maybe you could offer to call and do something together, but nothing too major. Or at least find an excuse to get his number or give him yours. Or even his email address. With myspace and IM and everything, there is always an excuse to get at least that info because its so common! Start slow but have a goal in your head!!! Most women strategize when we aren't quite sure what the outcome will be.  That way we know we have tried, but we cover our butts in case it doesn't go as planned! I wish you the best!!!
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It depends really on your, resources and how old you are. Like if you can't drive yet, if there is a school trip or something, hang out and sit close. Or if you want like a more datish situation I'd start with just going out with some friends. (Or hint, hint an older sibling, if you have one.) Like a group or double date. You might want to pick somewhere were you're comfortable and can talk first, instead of jumping into the movie scene, where there would be major pressure and little emotional connection. \n  As for how I acted towards them, hmm... can't I just not answer? lol. *blush* At first I would so destroy the conversation, I got massively nervous, but some how I would manage to find something to say. Oh well, he was shy too so we would end up laughing at eachother. But then you get used to eachother, so even though they still give you butterflies to where you lose all ability to think, you aren't as worried about how you act, and are more normal towards them. \n  What I did was started to call him several nights a week to get to know him, and figure eachother out. Yall I know it's so much easier to say than do. But after awhile you get use to it, he'll call you, and you won't be able to go to sleep without talking to eachother first. Eventually, you'll know if you're right for eachother and your going out just kind of happens, you just need to confirm it with eachother. It worked for me, and we've been going out for over a year or two.
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I am in one too and its sooo hard.  the best way to make it work is COMMUNICATION and honesty.  I know i have been insecure and sometimes feel heartbroken that I cant be part of his weekend plans, but as long as you are honest w/ each other and see each other during your spare times, then it'll work out.  After all, you'll only pay to get to the other and room and board will be free.  Oh, by the way, from my experience don't do MySpace to KIT.  This has given me lots of headaches. Trust me.  Send lots of loving emails, pictures and at the same time, trust him and let him have his plans w/ friends (both sexes) even though u may feel depressed that you cant be w/ him/her.  my email is: claria_63@yahoo.com if you need to talk.  Good luck!
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Your situation is very similar to what I am in. My b/f and I met online, talked for 3 weeks, then met.  We had the most unbelieveable weekend together!!  We now have been living together 5 months, but he works out of state for 2 to 3 weeks at a time.  Hopefully I can help with that I know.  \n\nThe void in your heart when you aren't talking to her is because all you two have right now, is talking.  You can't see each other every day so that's what you cling to.  Makes perfect sense, I felt the same way then.\n\nAlthough she isn't calling you as often as you'd like, what do you two have to talk about, that you haven't talked about in the last 2 months?  Those hour long phone calls don't last forever because seriously, what else is there to talk about?  My b/f and I decided a call in the morning and a call in the evening would be the best way to handle that.  We could wish each other good morning and tell each other have a good day, but we'd play catch up at night.  We always make sure to tell each other even the little things that happen throughout our day because we both feel like we too are experiencing things even when we can't be together.  \n\nWe do have seperate lives too.  When he is home, we are together 100% but when we are apart, I go out with my girlfriends and he goes out with his work crew.  Don't think for a minute I am not thinking of him when I am out.  He feels the same because many times, he calls me when he is out with the guys.  My point is, you can't just sit at home and mope, wondering what the other is doing.  You need to live too.  Have fun, do hobbies, go out with your buddies.  Keep your mind busy until you can be with her again.  \n\nIf it's meant to be, it will happen.  Don't rush or pressure her and don't be clingy and needy. You have to trust her.  If you don't, you will lose her for sure.
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fact is that you and him cannot see each other too often... and both of you are still very young.. I think each of you should live your life, but always do keep in touch. then, see what happen with your life in the next few years after you both graduate. you will never know what will happen, things are happening fast at your age. not to be wasted. either of you are planning to make serious commitment soon anyway right?