Im currently 22 years old, every girl in my life so far has turned out to be "fake" it seemed great at first but ended up far from it, i don't know what to do, i always have the worst of luck when it comes to women, any help for a guy like me?
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it's hard to give advice on that subject, really.  i mean, i guess i could just say that you just have to keep trying.  every guy i've ever met has turned out to be obsessive.  but that won't stop me from going out with others.  i think you need to look at the type of girls you're attracted to.  there could be a pattern there and that's the reason you find they are all fake.  maybe you should try going out with someone you wouldn't normally. you may be pleasantly surprised.  other than that, i'm sorry i can't be of any more help.
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Well my friend just a few words of wisdom, you're lucky to look younger than your age. Imagine when you are 30 & you still look for the female attention you'd look just 27..!! Most 25 year olds today look like they're 30+ & consumed up all of their fuel & gas for life. They live the life actually of a 40 year old. So its good for you, take it in  a positive way. But just make sure you actually don't act like a 16 year old. but a 19 year old. Do justice with your personality... GOOD LUCK MY FRIEND..!!
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first, girls would rather have an honest man who is real than someone who just molds themselves to get a girl to like them, least that's how i am. its nice to find a guy who has his own interests..i mean it would be boring if you guys liked the same things about everything. you shouldnt have to constantly change who you are...its true, just be yourself no matter how "weird" you think it is. n there are some women who will try to change things about you..but only change if you want to or healthier for you and feel that its right for you. the right girl for you will love you just the way you are..craziness..weirdness..silliness and all. just be patient and she'll come along :)
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Not trusting women too much a? If you would let yourself to get to know one of them, maybe you would even like her....and try something more longer with her.\nHad some traumas maybe? Something made you like that for sure.
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From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. You are the man! Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. You are the Man!  Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself, put the past behind you, concentrate on the future, which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation. Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.  You are the Man!
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Don't give up my dear! There is more than one fish in the sea and as long as we end up happy and treated with love from the people we are with, I believe that life would be satisfying.\nI also am over 40. I look for a lady by day and hot to trot by night. (some of that hottie stuff can be daytime too)  I realize that we are not 20 anymore and our bodies are older but show off your best assets to show your confidence. Don't go overboard. Be yourself. Take up fun activities to keep an interest. Just hang in there and keep trying because it is nice to have someone around to laugh and talk to, to share fun and intimate things with as you get older.\ngood luck in love and life.
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I think this is just the girls you know. They're probably too insecure to trust you.\n\n\nI day find another girl! (hint hint)
222209
AMEN SISTER!!i felt the same way just give it a break and im tellin you when you do thats when you least expect it.maybe your trying to hard that was my problem, i just didnt want to be alone but sometimes it is worth waiting.it is good that you have noticed some guys will just say what they think you want to hear! the fake ones, and there are lots of them.good luck dont give up!!!
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Nope, just desparate.\n\nYou sound like my evil twin dude. Exact same situation except you seem to be stepping up your effort while I really couldn't give a lesser f***. Maybe I'm the evil side.\n\nTo me, the whole thing with women is they expect us to go to all this effort, driven on by our hormones, and all they do is stare at us and make eyes like we're supposed to use that as an excuse to approach them.\n\nRecently, I said *#&$ it. If all women can muster is to stare at me and flip their hair then they can all go to he**. I'll leave it up to circumstance whether I find a wife or not, otherwise I've got better things to do and I don't need to waste time satisfying hormones.\n\nYou don't gotta feel bad about doin' s#*% like this because that's what it comes down to if you want to get anywhere with females. You gotta put it all on the line while they sit there and decide if your doing enough for them, and if you're not; they throw you out like last year's shoes.\n\nI'm certain there's better things to life than females at this age like playing sports, developing skills, getting a solid education and finding a worthwhile career that can be totally satisfying. All I ever hear women talking about is their boyfriends and relationship crap like that. I have no interest in anyone that dependent or shallow. If I happen to come across an independent, self-motivated and self-confident female who has definite goals other than making suckers out of guys like me, then maybe I'll consider changing my tone.\n\nI wish you the best of luck dude.
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Used to be there bro, so listen! Wussy nice guys finish last! Confident nice guys win everytime with chicks that are worth it.\n\nBe YOURSELF (not an arrogant ass) BE CONFIDENT (if you aren't confident in yourself, then fake it till you are) Everyone fails at some time... deal with it and move on. :)
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Do not change except to change how you feel about this silly girl. She doesn't seem to respect you much at all from the sounds of it.Learn how to really like who you are!!! Rejection can make people doubt themselves and who they are.that can be natural at first,but you have to let it go.You must like yourself better than anyone,and enjoy being who you are before you can know what woman will be right for you. The one who accepts you as you really are is the one worth the wait and your time. hang in there,and be good to yourself. Do what you love to do,and enjoy being free while it lasts!!! Best wishes to ya'!
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It all depends on your nature,if you have a nice nature you will have problem with being bad and if you have a bad nature you cant be nice.\nif you believe in faking out,it may work for sometime but not for rest of yourself.fakeness washes away with time.Its always good to be yourself and let people love you and like you for who you are.I would not want to change for anyone,i would rather have someone or people to like me and appriciate me for who how and what i am.Life would be and is easier that way.\nBye
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You should be honest with her sweetie - you seem much older than 18, and hopefully she will understand why you lied.\nIt is much better to come clean sooner rather than later, as if it does end because of it, you will be less hurt.\nAnd no need to self concious, you are a lovely bloke, and I'm sure lots of girls are beating down your door!\nWe've got to try and stay positive about these things, who knows - maybe it'll work this time round!  If not, there are always other women (me lol)  :)
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Tell you what,  I went through that experience . In my day things were a little different.   Now a days,   huh ?\nAnyway  my point,   Get some balls and just go talk to the  the dude.   Life is too short. Live for the now !  Do ya dig girl?   Balls    Do It !  ?
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Hey, i went through the same thing when i was your age. i am now 16 and the whole talking thing is getting much easier! i can talk to some guys and i have made many new friends. you just have to ACT LIKE YOURSELF and if they think you are a dork and weird, then just remember that it is their loss. heck, you have nothing to lose, plus, you'll never know if you dont try! Goodluck!
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don't trip bro...that is totally normal.  i had my first serious relationship when i was around your age, i'm 26 now.  even though my girlfriend at the time was hot as hell, i needed to be with more girls, even if they were uglier or shorter or whatever, just to experience and see exactly what it is in a girl that i want to look for.  i'll tell you one thing though...my first one was my best one...and now she's married with a kid.  i was too inexperienced and let a good one go.  so, just think about that before you make any serious decisions about breaking up with her or cheating on her.
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Forget all the answers.  It's because girls are stupid until about the age of 25 (maybe later). I don't know what happens after that as I am only 27, but I can tell you that a good guy is all I want now.  When I was 18-24, not so much, the bad boy thing intrigued me, but bad boys tend to be bad boys forever and girls don't want that.\n\nDon't worry, sweetheart, your time is coming and you're going to get the girl all the other guys wish they had (even if they won't admit it).