while having sex with her i usually cum with 2-4 minutes and then shortly after fall asleep.  And i dont think she is enjoying it anymore...id appreciate any help.
201397
WHAT THE HELL? YOU DO NT EVEN GIVE HER AN ORGASM!! BOY YOU NEED TO MAKE HER ORGASM SO MANY TIMES TILL SHE SAYS TO STOP (AND THEN!!!!) GO A LITTLE MORE. AT THAT POINT YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU WANT. EVEN CHEAT BECAUSE IF YOUR GOOD IN BED SHE AIN'T EVER GONNA LEAVE. BECAUSE YOU WILL BE THE MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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it depends i guess. sometimes i go in like 5 mins. sometimes it takes me 20. so yeah it's normal, just remember how much your g/f is going to love it, you shouldn't get bored then. lol maybe tired, but hey..you gotta do what you gotta do.
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i dont know about other girls, but i have a really easy time, last weekend while my boyfriend and i had sex, i came 7 times. but it also lasted 2 1/2 hours, not just three minutes..lol\nusually a girl gets wet when she starts to feel frisky, so being wet is associated with feeling good, but it takes more than just being wet to come.
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Take it slow, soft, and gentle, you will have to stay on or around that special spot for quite some time. Also it helps if you go just a tiny bit off center because that spot sometimes gets too tender and it will make her jerk and move away. Ask her to guide you by the movement of her hips or her hands. Some women get very embarrassed having oral sex performed on them and can't let go and end up just giving up. It all takes, time, patients and understanding. Also it helps to be in a very dark room if she is insecure and or embarrassed. Hope I could be of help! Oh, one more hint: A lot of women will be right there, but then the person changes to another spot and the woman losses it ! You can do a lot of other things down there, in the beginning, but when it is time to bring her to orgasm, you must STAY on one spot till the job is done! Good Luck!        P.S. I was in the middle of typing you this answer, when you asked the next question, I am a slow typer!
385397
it depends who is running the show, how tired does the men gets? how many times he has done it lately.. like for example I am young when i do it like  4+ times in a week ur  mind is prepared but if u havent done anything for a week or more lets say a month you can come within seconds and it happens then there are other days that u can go forever until you want to come.is all in the mind and funny thing is you cant change it.. if you want this girl and you become very exicited and  you haven't  had a chance to have sex in weeks you will ejaculate fast... 80% ejaculate in less than 3 minutes.. then the second time you can go until ur pennis go soft or ejaculate. then there are the days that is like u taking pills or something lol.. where ur penis never goes donw.. ready for a marathon..whatever man, time does not matter, make her cum if not try , girls like even if u try :) some women can't take a penis for hours because it becomes sore. hopes it helps
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Only minutes? Dont think so. A guy should try to learn to make love 1st. there are no time limits. You work to the point where you almost climax, then slow it down so it builds up in yourself and your partner. Timing for the both of you is very important. No girl wants to get worked up and then wham it is all done because the guy came too soon. Where is the satisfaction for her? Guys should smarten up. If they ever want to be with the same lady again, then make sure that LADY is just as satisfied before you drop your load.
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I would consider doing it in her presence! It portrays an image of not being satisfied by her! Think about it and imagine you being the one next to your wife masturbating while you arent that asleep!
75395
Have you tried talking to her about this? Is she aware that things have changed?  You both may want to talk to her doctor to see if you have any options on a medical point of view.  You may have to make some changes as to the way your sex life used to be while she is going through this. Let her know how much you love her and how she makes you feel and let her know that even though you don't understand what she is going through you are there for her. I think it is wonderful how you described your feelings for her. You also may want to do some research on menopause. It doesn't effect every woman the same way. If she is having hot flashes she may want to try Remifemin, which is over the counter. Of course, she should ask her doctor about this first. If he says it is okay to try and she would have the need to use it you can go to their website and they will send her a free sample. I believe it is enough for at least 2 weeks. It really helped me.  Good Luck to both of you.
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You can tell if she is faking because it is to much, unless your packing.  It depends, the fake moans are usually to get it over with because that is what makes some of you guys get done.  Or she can be doing it to fake an orgasm.    If her moans are not in sync with your sex then more then likely she is faking.  I don't want to get graphic so that's all I can say for now.
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dont use your hips use your arms and keep your back, butt, and legs straight it helps me.\n also if your getting close pull out and take a second before going back in. try masterbating about 1-2 hours befor sex or drink some alcohol.\n sex should last at least 20 minuets for both you and her
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when women reach climax and are tired, after 2 min maximum 3 min will get normal, like they had nothing! Not every woman has ejaculation! Only few, so i dunno
60141
Does each of you take a turn sleeping? anyway i don't think it's possible to have good sex for 8-10 hours straight
101541
well since Im married, I can attest that I never had this problem when we were younger, but as we get older she has gotten to where she dosent want it every other night as before, and now it has began, so for you single men not getting it every other day, (mispelled to get to show) mansturbate every other day, if done daily sex or mansturbation can desensitise to the point that the man can't finish, but the women usually love this when younger, but again as they age they become less into sex for 6 to 10 hours and are more into sleep, but there are the men like me who will never mansturbate, so in that case, if she wants me to last anytime since she's got us on a weekly cycle, is a little ORAL ACTIVITY in the morning so I can last in the evening, works great, and I get double the satisfaction, but she dose too, remember guy's if she gose down you had better get there also, and do it right, ask her if she likes things, and do her favorite's
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You can use some desensitizing creams, found in adult shops, but for me what worked was thinking of other things, making out more (and not rubbing her or me) or just cumming and then lasting more the second time around. After that first cum you can concentrate on her, make her enjoy more, and by the time you are ready again she is hot and willing.
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Well, a very highly aroused, young, inexperienced male might last a minute at most.  And Sting (the famous singer) has bragged about being able to go on all night- literally- without a climax.  There's huge variance.\n\nOptimally, a good amount of time is about fifteen to twenty minutes of actual thrusting; with the overall lovemaking experience going from forty five minutes to an hour, if not longer.\n\nIf you can't, there's nothing wrong- you can get better with time.  Just practice controlling yourself (try thinking of non-sexy things when you get close- like grandma on the toilet, lol- and masturbate beforehand so you aren't so close and on the edge going into things.  And let your partner know what's going on- when you get close, stop, take a breather on yourself, and focus on her/him, then go back to spending some time on you or together, and so on, give and take, until you are both breathlessly ready for climax.  It's a thing that both of you can deal with.\n\nIf you still climax too soon, just remember that sex isn't over!  Your partner deserves to climax, too.  Keep a spare dildo in the drawer next to the bed, or even a strap-on (quite a few men wear strap-on dildos over their flaccid penises) to keep things going once you go soft, or just rely on your hands, mouth, and fingers to get help him/her out!\n\nRemember not to stress overmuch, and good luck!
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you need to break it to her slowly. tell her it has to be over but yall can still have sex when one of you needs it. kind of like fu*k buddies. see if she will go for that and then slowly ween yourself off of her.
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Ok dude, I have one word for you “communication”. If you’re a minute man that’s cool but you need to make sure that she gets off as well. You sound like you’re kind of young and if she’s not throwing a fit because she didn’t orgasm she may never have had one. My advice would be to experiment with touch. Try using your hand down south instead of Mr. winky. But most of all just sit down and talk to her about it. See what she says and how she fells about it. If you’re uncomfortable with talking to her then you shouldn’t be having sex with her.