and I am the biggest hyopocrite in the world and the biggest coward.  Shes a five foot women that I have beat and stolen from,  I have done such terrible things no one would believe it unless they were from my family. I know I was raised badly but I know what I am doing is wrong for her and the world.  Why can't I stop?  Help me please.
217037
Because you're friggin' retarded.
527791
honey I so feel your pain. I want to give you some advice and please read carefully. Do not waste one more moment of your life fretting over this woman. This situation will always be a thorn in your side if you let it. DONT LET IT. You said your not a hateful person but if you let it this or she will make you one. Trust me I have been married to a man for 10 years and his ex is the beast master GOG OF MAGOG.I finally had to let it go but it just about ate me alive before I realized. I became bitter, hateful, obsessed, you name it. It will hurt no one but you.
538928
join a support group.  i am sure there are others with similar fears.  the most important thing you can do is love yourself regardless of your size and know that even if you cheat a little you are still a special person.  sounds like you are putting too much effort in to controlling your eating habits to prevent gaining weight but you are not nourishing your self worth.
214253
STOP BEATING HER!\n\nyeesh really.
653963
I swear I try not to answer those questions lol, but sometimes my heart gets the best of me. She's just so manipulative and wrong. I will try to stop. I know that she can't possibly believe the stuff she says and that it's all extremist crap to force our blood pressure to skyrocket...so I will try my best to abstain from answering.
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You need to do WHATEVER the prisoner and his sister tell you to do, because they really OUGHT to be running your life.\n\nYou obviously lack the ability to control yourself, so let others control you.\n\nOr-- you could grow a backbone and put and end to it.
64794
I have the same problem with a sister who also phisicly hurts me. You could get revenge or try to ignore her (good luck with that) I really wish I knew.
133154
that freak has no respect for girls whatsoever..just look around u...u have so many answerers to support u. and he has no one except his nuch of cronies wholl eventually stab his bak. I know u hav to accept it. but u know what? accept it and use all those insuklts and mockery to tuffen up urself. I felt the same way too when people used to hit me and take my money away. i felt like killing myself and them...btu then i realised that they r not worth it.vermin like him r here to be ignored.And u arent sum dumb blond. Any more probs feel free to ask me personally, i am always hereto help people out.Keep ur chin up girl  ^_^
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Most women have memories like that.If I were you,I wouldn't blame myself for not being able to defend myself.I coulnd't either.You were young and this sick behaviour of your uncle probably had a shocking effect on you.Don't hate yourself for Godsake.Try to find a therapist take a few therapies and get over it.Sexual abusement in early ages can effect your psycology for a lifetime if not solved.you dont have to forgive that ass hole by the way.I didnt.just forget him and avoid seeing him.\nIf  you need to share your feelings dont hesitate,\nzeynep.nazli.t@hotmail.com\nRegards,\nZeynep
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dont forgive her talk to her. tell her whats bothering you and ask her to stop. if she doesnt stop then tell her you guys are through. i had the same prob many many times, lost a few friends but not many. and i dont regret anything so hey take my advice, or leave it, its up to you, all your decions are up to you, none else. good luck.
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look, honey, it sounds to me like you need to start standing up for yourself. if someone started yelling at me when I was innocent, I would politely tell them to back off. my guess is, people use you because they know they can. they know you'll give them money and never make them pay it back. \nso start getting a backbone dear, or it will be this way your whole life. when you know someone is trying to use you, learn to say no. and don't worry about losing them as a friend. with friends like that you don't need enemies. \ndon't let people get away with walking all over you, and don't let people talk to you any kind of way. you can stand up for yourself without being a jerk, and that's what you should practice. if you don't like something, say so.\nand when people call you names, consider the source. so the skanky girl called you a name, so what? she's the one with the problem.\nwhen you stand up for yourself and respect yourself, people will start seeing you differently. again, don't bend over backwards just to make a friend; that's not what real friends are. take care of yourself first and foremost.\nand remember, if you don't control this now, it WILL go on forever. your bosses, your lovelife, your neighbors, everyone will find ways to abuse you. \nI know it's hard to find that kind of confidence. but you must, or you will not survive. tell yourself every day that you are smart and you are a good person. love yourself. I know that sounds cheesy, but it is the truth. start looking for little ways every day that you can assert yourself, and once you get started, it will get easier.
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You should be honest with her sweetie - you seem much older than 18, and hopefully she will understand why you lied.\nIt is much better to come clean sooner rather than later, as if it does end because of it, you will be less hurt.\nAnd no need to self concious, you are a lovely bloke, and I'm sure lots of girls are beating down your door!\nWe've got to try and stay positive about these things, who knows - maybe it'll work this time round!  If not, there are always other women (me lol)  :)
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Glad you aren't related to me! Yikes!  But, really though you do sound like you have some problems you need help with before you do something you will regret.  Call a mental help line or your doctor or if you really think you might hurt somebody just call the police & they will take you to a place where you can get help.  Please call them BEFORE you hurt or kill anybody ok?
585008
I've been where you are and i'm telling you...be strong!  Stand up to her without getting down to her level...don't get mad or upset...smile in her face and tell her you are comfortable enough with yourself that you don't need to find fault in others to find what's good in you!  This is hard at your age, I know!  The more you fight with her, and the more you react to her the more she will dish it out to you.  Be strong, be yourself and don't worry about what people think of you because you can't, YOU CAN'T make everyone happy!
313408
RENT THE MOVIE"ODD GIRL OUT" NOW YOU SEE WHAT HUNDREDS OF GIRLS GO THROUGH. IM 31 AND BEEN THROUGH IT ALL. THIS GIRL IS ACTING OUT TO FIT IN. THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS IGNORE HER. IF THE DAY COMES THAT YOU GET THE CHANCE TO PUT HER IN HER PLACE IN FRONT OF A LOT OF PEOPLE THEN YOU DO IT AND TELL HER HOW SHE REALLY IS AND HOW SHE REALLY COMES OFF TO PEOPLE. WELL I HAD AN EXPERIENCE WHERE THOUGH MY SISTER KATY WATCHED ME GET BEAT UP BY A GIRL IN FIRST GRADE EVERYDAY. ONE DAY KATY BEAT THIS GIRL UP AND TOSSED HER DOWN A SMALL HILLY RAVINE AT THE SCHOOL. NOT NICE AT ALL BUT MADE THE POINT. I DO NOT PROMOTE VIOLENCE. BUT A LESSON BURNED IS A LESSON EARNED. SO YOU DO WHAT U MUST AND LET HER KNOW IN FRONT OF OTHERS HOW YOU FEEL.AN SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND.
199973
no offence, but if you center your life around it and contantly view our self as a victim then you will never get over it. you can try to move on or do what every other woman does, start/join a movement or protest and "do something about it"
582156
I think you are motherless and had been abused.  I think you may have been so degraded and humiliated, that this is your only way to cry out loud to this public web site to vent out your frustrations out on all women. This is your only way to defend yourself by saying this to try  to hurt women's feelings.   In this place you are looking for the negative answers and preying on those that you think is vulnerable and repeating the cycle of abuse that you so seem to enjoy.  You are so lost in your pitiful world that you may be motherless or have had a mother and your mad at the world because you don't have one to put you in your place and whip the poop out of your behind.  You are so pitiful and nobody likes you.  That is SO sad.  What ever your case is nobody has sympathy for you, nor do they respect you for every negative word that comes out of your mouth you are only making it worse for your own reputation.  Get your mouth out of the sewage bucket and get your mouth washed out with soap.  Bend over and get a good but t whoop en.  You need disappline badly.  You need redirection and counceling to correct your abusive, disrespectful, inconsiderate and manipulative life.