i really don't know why men do the thangs they do to there soon to be ex-wifes and all that shit.why men say they love you and then they find in 2 weeks another woman why is that.is it becuase they just get mad at woman or just get bord
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Hey now !! Not all Men are that way.. LOL. Sorry to hear your soon to be ex-husband is being a penishead in this case, and the women he's seeing sounds like a real penisleech out to get what you have, don't worry he really screwed up and I think he knows it too. men cheat for one reason because they don't give a rats a*s about them selves and have no Self respect for anyone but the crap they think they can pull on the women they're with, Hey wait a minute now I'm a guy too. LOL ! but I'm older and wiser too and I'm no stud like most of these guys in the state of Oklahoma think they are ! believe me there's women out there  that play these guys for what they have and when they are divorce is final they want nothing at all to do with the guy in the end and they end up crawling back wanting to start over again until another girl comes along thinking she can give him a better deal too.. this is  funny !!! because these guys think women are all over them for looks, LMAO.. Good luck and let the games begin because he's on the looser side, and you have the winning hand !!!
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i think it's somewhat a disrespect when a man checks out another woman -- right in front of his spouse. can't he at least do it when his spouse is not around?\nscientifically, men are driven by sight -- they will look at something they find interesting.\nmen are stupid (well not all of them) -- i once like this guy who didn't pay attention to me. so finally i moved on and found someone else -- then he was all over me. \nobviously when they're looking for women, they're not looking for the possibility of love, but rather who's stock is really high in the market -- the unattainable one. (no matter how trampy she is) and then regret it when they find someone better. they're stupid.\nit's so hard finding a guy who's genuine, humble, and true nowadays. that's sad.\ni know this is not answering your question... well the "stupid" part kinda answers it.
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well if she just met him and had sex with him, chances are hes not looking for a relationship, usually that makes a guy think youre easy what ever goes through their heads, also if he was willing to have sex (especially that much) after just meeting, he probably does that with other women, sorry to say. Men like a chase, so if she really wants him, she should not be 'available' all the time, and definately not have anymore sex with him (if she wants a relationship). if he decides not to try anymore, he was just in it for sex and hes no good anyway
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I admire the honest mature questioning. Do men get tired of the same woman? Genetically...deep down where the desire to procreate comes from I'm sure. But that's why we have a developed brain. We can move beyond the animalistic impulses and focus our attentions on the woman we love. If I, as a man, want something new in my sex life, why would I NOT express and share it with the one woman with whom I am comfortable and love the most? Some of us can think this way. Others.....not so much. Judge us not by others, but by our own actions.
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Guys like this are professionals, P.I.M.P's and they prey on women that are established as having it going on, meaning own stable living quarters, job, money car etc. He just needed time to fill you out see what you were willing to give. 9 times out of ten he already has a girl and if not he is looking for someone that is willing to pay to play , don't let that be you.
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Get over him. He obviously has no respect for women or himself. He strung you along while he was out looking for something more convenient. Now he's with a married woman, he does not want a commitment.
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people hurt each other's feelings quite a lot.Many guys wud say tht they've gotten hurt thanks 2 women,so its not fair 2 say tht only guyz hurt galz feelings.\nAlso,sometimes,it happens unknowingly and sometimes,\nit just so happens tht what's good 4 1 person may hurt some1 else.That's how i look at it
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If he is telling other women that your two are broke up, then he is trying to do something with them.  You have your own answer right there.  He is a cheater and he is willing to cheat with one of your friends.  Get someone who respects you and your feelings and leave the trash to the bitchesss.  good luck, you deserve better than that!!!
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"Love" after 2 weeks?  No way can love develop that quick.  \n\nWhen he tells you that, you can reply "thank you" or "I have feelings for you too".
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I can talk from experience about jealousy, being insecure. It's both. Men like this who get mad because you're wanting to feel good about yourself, is and can be a problem. It's a form of control. These type of men, will not change. I know, talking 12 years of it here. It starts out with them accusing you of flirting, or being too nice to the next guy, spending too much time with friends or family and that isn't always the case. Men like these are so insecure about themselves, they don't want you looking nice or feeling good about yourself because they don't feel good about themselves. Next thing you know, you're being blamed for their insecurity. I know, it happened to me. You can try to talk to him and tell him how that makes you feel when he's accusing you of trying to impress other men at your job but if he isn't listening to you or tries on work on that jealousy or insecurity, then you may need to re-think on your relationship. Men like these don't want you to feel good about yourself and for whatever reason, they want to control everything in your life. Don't let him do that or you'll end up like me, miserable and unhappy. My husband and I are divorcing now but it doesn't take away all the pain of him being jealous of everything or everyone I knew. He should be complimenting on your new looks or your new hairdo, whatever the case may be and get over his insecurity and jealousy because if he doesn't, it will drive you away. I know. Hope this helps!
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You are right, I see some of my old friends play guys and it makes me sick. When they start in a relationship she thinks she wants him and him only, and 2 weeks later, she wants his best friend too. then both guys get hurt (heart break) and she moves on to the next guy, who falls for her... and it goes on and on... Just sickening...  Some men do women the same way though, not as many men as women though. Don't stop being the nice guy, there are some good women left that appreciate a great guy, and that sounds like what you are. Good Luck with the next one.
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I think there a lot fewer men than people think.  Men talk big around friends, that they get it everyday.  That just isn't the case most of the time.  I think if your partner is getting it 4 times a week, he should consider himself very lucky.
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You've just answered your question. Now, I consider myself to be a gentleman.\nBut, look at what you said here. The women are the ones falling in love in your scenario. The guy is just dating and enjoying what's happening. The woman here is probably reading way too much into it, or she's the kind of woman who's "in love with falling in love".\n\nBy the way, when I was dating the woman who became my wife, I was the one who said the "I love you" first.\nHer response to that?... she said, "I know you do".
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why do women always think the guy is angling after something.i will do anything for anyone.no matter how old,or young,or ugly,or beautiful they are.maybe he is just a nice guy.it sounds to me as if you have had trouble with men in the past and are taring them all with the same brush.
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I think its because they think they already have you. They dont feel that they have to work to get you excited.  But if it bothers you that much i think you should talk to your man and let him know that you dont just wanna jump in to F**k-ing.  Let him know you exactly what you would like him to do.
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It's because some women are very greedy and they just want what they can't have.  Have you every wanted something, but were told you couldn't have it?  It's like that.  I'm not saying it's a good thing.  On the contrary, I think dating married men or women is terrible, but the reason they do it is because if they know someone is unatainable (married or seeing someone) they will go after that person to prove that they CAN have him or her.  I'm sorry about this double-date thing, by the way.
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you have to try to understand what happened in arouba, he might have met someone and is having second thoughts about you...you never know with guys, you have to be always on your toes....he might never admit it, if that was what happened, but you will understand it...as you said, men have this problem with being truthful and straight forward, at least 99% of them, i guess it's got something to do with their egos, they think it's clever to play games with us and it shows they are more in control...strange creatures and so immature, right??!