i like this girl. let's just call her "vanessa" (minnillo lol). the weird thing is i only like her for her looks.  the other day vanessa was in short shorts and that practically killed me! is this good or bad? anything i should do?
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i think that maybe you just like her looks because you said nothing about her personality or anything else all you were talking about was her body. so maybe you should try and get to know her for more than her body before you decide that you like this girl and are not just lusting over her
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i agree with pancharito because that is how it normally works.  normally girls with good personalities are better than the good-looking ones.\n\nof course, maybe she is good  looking and nice.  if she is, then that is great.  there are good-looking girls out there who have great personalities, but most of them i'd say don't.\n\nas far as keeping conversations going...just be yourself, find out what she likes, and if you have anything in common, start talking about that.  maybe you have a class together or both like a band or sport.  you can find something.  talk about something that's happened to you recently.  tell her a story about yourself.  ask her how she is doing, if she had a good day at school, what she did the past weekend, etc.\n\nbut you need to realise that you can't make people like you.  they have to like you for who you are and sometimes that requires them to realise something in you that they like.
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Well put yourself in her shoes and really think about this.  First she is turned down by a guy she really likes.  Next, she "knows" you like her but you won't even have the decency to ask her out, and has to "find out through other people", instead of you going to her face and letting her know you like her yourself?  How would you feel if you were her?  Whatever you do don't go over to her and say anything about short people.  You have already insulted her enough by not asking her out and having to hear it from other people instead of you.  She's been insulted enough considering all this.  She's probably annoyed with the male gender right now and I don't blame her.  What else does she have to do to get you to ask her out.  She's already tried to make you jealous and you still haven't asked her out.  Does she have to stand on her head next to get you to ask her.
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She is cute, i looked at the link. Surely, I would not say "hey babes" how about a simple hello! the conversation should flow from there. Good luck
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i say let her wear it. when you hear a comment from someone go ahead and look at them and proudly say, "yea, that's my wife." be happy shes still hot and gets comments. the best i ever got was, "uhh, you ugly!" it still haunts me. lol. let her look good. and remember, whos the one who gets to take the dress off after the party? YOU! enjoy!
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what really makes someone "popular"? she (or he) is full of he/rself. whats up with the pink hair? is it a transvestite? and she says she's why girls shove their fingers down their throats? wtf? its hideous! ahhhh!!! i may never sleep again...=0/...oops i was mean again...is that really music?
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what a biatch, sounds like one of those teasers. She might tease you forever. But you still have a  chance buddy, make her jealous. Invite her to join you and another female friend. Ask her to help you out.
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I think i know how this guy feels. He's just like me. I'm a very shy person, especially to towards this one girl I like. I think she knows that i like her but my head is confused (about: if she is the one). \nWhat I do is bring a friend that knows the both of us (or a very easy to talk to friend) and i invite HER along to do something. So I told them both I needed help shopping for clothes. And it worked out pretty good.\nSo think of doing something that you both will enjoy and try it. And if he is like me, he might be a klutz too. When I'm around HER I always mess something up, so don't be surprise if he anything like that happens.
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So what if your a little obsessed!! Go with it girl!! Have fun and dance your ass off!!! \n\nLife is short, be Happy (feet)!!
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i had one guy actually say to me, "so you like me right?" and i was absolutely stunned. I DID, but it was just very awkward. see if you cant spend some time with her one on one and get a better feel for her.
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Give up on the girl who doesn't notice you.  If she hasn't noticed how cool you are by now, then she is not worthy.  There are lots, and I mean LOTS of women around that are hot, down to earth, smart and funny (like me!).  Besides, it sounds like you don't really know her, so what if she is a totat brat or really prude or has no sense of humor or is stuck up or whatever.  You may have seen her from afar, but do you REALLY know who this girl is?  Do you really want to take a GIANT leap and give up what you have for something that may not be as good as what you have now?  The grass isn't always greener on the other side, pal.\n\nAs far as the long distance thing goes, I would give a try for a while and if something does not happen soon with getting closer together, then ditch the situation.  Like I said, there are lots of women out there.
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Sounds like he gets your pulse racing.  Love to hear about those feelings.  Im jealous.  All that aside, So you like him and he likes you, whats the problem?  Oh, the girl...that could be a problem if she doesnt know about your bisexuality.  I don't see anything wrong unless someone might get hurt...hhhmmm.
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Give it a try. If they ur "buddy" they should know what you like and they wouldn't be talking to you about this "perfect" chick if she ain't worth it. Your friend is telling you she "perfect" for a reason. It don't matter. If you like her, you keep seeing her. If you don't like her, f*ck it then-you dnt need to be with her. I know how it could be and how you feel. I never been in something like that, but I can relate and kinda put myself in your position. cuz NO, I haven't been on one and I don't really know what it's like, but I'm not dumb-I would go ahead and do have the damn blind date. I mean, if my friend tells me things I like about this person, then yeah, why not? Find out about her first, though. You wouldn't wanna waste your precious time when you can find out about her now. If you like what you hear, then... do it. It would be nice if u had a pic, but that's the point of a blind date (i think)... watever.\n\nSo, yeah... go ahead and do it. And if you feel "apprehensive"... i dnt kno what dat means. lol. sry :(
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I just broke up with my fiancé after years of being un-happy with each other.  The reason why I waited so long....she is beautiful.  I enjoyed the fact that every time we went out people always commented on how hot my fiancé was.  But that only lasted for so long, other then her looks I couldn’t stand her towards the end.  So from personal experience, next girl I date is going to be interesting and have a personality more like mine, if she is a looker then even better but will not be a deal breaker if she isn't.
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I hate to let you down, but, not really.\n(Your picture scares me a little.Don't know exactly why, tho.)\n\n\nOMG, plham, ROFLMAO at you! now THAT'S funny!  A little mean, but funny. BTW, rockin, you actually have great legs, just a little wintry looking in shorts, I think, is what is startling. Please no offense taking, will you? *smiles ruefully*
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Stop following her around and just talk to her let her know you think she is hot stuff. I don't no why you would want someone who constantly insults people to like you anyway, but hey who am I to judge.
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The girl you like huh..hmm...tell her she looks beautiful...don't you DARE use the word hot!!  or I will virtually BEAT YOU! haha good luck!