My life has not been smooth sailing, but rough seas, What would you do if you was in  my life?
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sweetie, life will indeed have these types of time periods. The very very MOST important thing you can possibly do right now is try and believe with all your heart that this tough time will pass and that it will get better. It may even take a little bit of time but chances are your life can end up being even better than it was before this hard time started. In the meantime, write out your feelings in a journal and/or talk with a close friend or relative you trust not to judge you. The choice is ultimatly up to you. You can either try your hardest to believe that life will turn around for the better and aim for that goal of better times or give into all the negative energy around you. Please don't give in to it and give up. It will pass.......just believe in the better things and in yourself.
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Well, you have picked a rough road but I think you can do it with support and patience as well as consistency.  Truly the best thing you can do is take care of you, bipolar disorder affects loved ones even harder and I believe you need to find a support group, or even better a church you can get involved with for the help and love you need =)  Praying for you and your girlfriend =)
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i have had a rough life , my only brother killed hisself at 12 , my parents didn't want us , they are both dead now as well , i went from man to man looking for love and support , now i have 5 children , 3 still at home , no job experience , no help , but i keep going , so maybe your life will be better than mine has , enjoy your day , everyday
472720
Life is short. Do what you have to in a nice way. Make it short and sweet. Move on.
170623
Go out for a nice meal, you probbaly had a tough day, as your question sounds depressing. So Go out, have some fun, an denjoy the city, or town, or wherever it is that you live.
256994
Bad situation. Maybe things just feel distant because of the rough time he's going through. Hang in a bit longer,after the rough times are over,and take it from there. Good luck with everything.
675394
this may sound harsh but I do not mean it 2.get ur ass up stop worrying about the past n make a future 4 u n ur children.woman all over the world do it every day.dont look 4 others 2 do what u need 2 do 4 urself.if you have the will u will find the way.stop worrying about what busy bodies with no lives have 2 say n start getting ur act 2gether.if you cannot care 4 ur children by urself get state aid,councelors,training 2 become job ready.just take it one step at a time n by this time next year you will be suppirsed at how far u have come.do not give up hope,in our darkest hour,will come a great light.good luck
545826
Sounds like your life is coming to an end before it even started. I would like to think things could have been a lot better but who knows maybe we are destined to be what we are and where we end up.
294461
Life is too short while there are so many choices and things to do.\nI wouldn't worry about it one bit. If you are not happy where you are now, move on!
66007
I wouldnt stay anywhere I felt uneasy. you can do better give yourself a chance. your family need a father not a dead  one.your wife and kids have to help you it may be hard at first.good luck.
159883
Never okay about suicide.  The fact that my heart went out to you despite not even knowing who you are I hope in some way will show you that your presence here on earth is valuable.  Life is hard.  Everyone has problems, you are not alone in that. Sometimes you can't help but thinking that you want to just throw in the towel and say the hell with everything but that is the easy way out.  Life is precious.  Millions of people everywhere in hospital beds, on battle fields, you name it, are fighting to preserve their lives right now.  You must find a reason to carry on.  Lonliness is easily cured.  Meet people, get out there. Happiness is never constant but we can't be ready to end it all when our lives aren't going as we'd like.  I am sorry that you have no wife and family and your parents are dead and that you and your siblings are not speaking and your finances aren't so good right now. But God still has a purpose for you.  You may be just what someone else needs in the form of a friend or companion.  I hope I have helped you in some way. It breaks my heart when I hear that someone has taken their own life. May God bless you and help you see the gift that you are regardless of your current circumstances. You are in my prayers.
108730
move on with my life is what i would do
606857
Only if you make it a bigger problem than it really is.\nJust sit back and chill a little bit.\nYou will be just fine, and the world will not end tomarrow because of it. Life is only as difficult as you want to make it.\nDo what works for you, and enjoy!!!\n\n; )
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A few years ago, I thought everything was going great.  I had just gotten married, and we had recently moved into a new house.  I thought I was right where God wanted me.\n\nThen it happened.  The company that my father and I were working on building together lost its largest client and, with that client, went 40% of its revenue.  Obviously that was a major blow, and it threw our life into a major upheavel.  In order to help supplement our income, my wife stopped working for me and went to work for our church full time, and I started working there part time a few months later.\n\nI began to feel like God was telling me something, but I didn't want to pick up my life, go back to school, and start a new career when I finish school at 36.  Then at a Christmas Eve service, the pastor preached a sermon about how the wise men were late, but it was never too late to do what God is calling you to do.\n\nSo, I prayed and told God that I needed to know for sure that he was calling me to do this, and within a few weeks, I was hit with even more financial difficulty.  The lesson here is:  be careful what you pray for; you just might get it.\n\nSo, I decided that I would do what I felt God calling me to do and started looking at schools.  I ended up at The Divinity School at Wake Forest University, which was not my first or even second choice.\n\nI won't say that everything has been perfect, but everything has worked out to get me where I am now.  The house we bought had appreciated enough in value for us to be able to pay cash for the small condo we live in now, etc.\n\nIn the end it came down to this.  I KNEW that God was calling me into the ministry, I had no doubt about it.  I think the majority of people are sure.  They may argue with God about it, like Moses who basically responded "Here am I, send Aaron."\n\nIf I could sum it up, I guess I would say if you have significant doubts that you are being called into ministry, you probably aren't.
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My life has never been perfect (even till now). Ups and downs and sideways, too. But the essence of life is how you live it during the good times and , unfortunately, during the bad times, too. So all of those bad things I charge to experience and hope that I don't trip over the same rock twice. And for the good things, keep on coming.\n\nMost of those who reply to this question so far say that they should have done better in elementary or high school or college. Right answers. There are no wrong answers. But come to think of it, don't you guys feel that your misses and "mistakes" have helped you to grow stronger and better equipped to face more challenges? What do you think?
118059
Well Life isn't really easy. If you wish to attempt to make life a bit less difficult you should plan out what your are going to do first in the day. I recommend get some kind of a planner/diary type of thing and list down what you are to do every day and what times to start and finish. You could also try to memerize what to do next but it might be some what stressfull trying to do this.
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Maybe things are rough right now with her boyfriend.  Continue on as you are.