i always lend him stuff whhen he ask to borrow it what shoud i do.
215223
yes definetely hes not worth it.
280898
May be you must have borrowed some money from him....:-j\nDont ever generalise...
137234
Give him something that you'd like for him to have. It needs to be something that he's like to have too.
653123
First sit down, than think twice! \nNow make a list of every good situated man from who U may dare to ask financial help! Those U expect would help U, put last on your list! \nNow GO! Don't stop! Be U! Be your busines, make them wish to help U!\nGood Luck!
419196
i can never say no to someone that needs my help
444276
Tell him to get you something ( clothes, jewellery, shoe etc etc) whenever he ask you to go with him very soon he will stop this habit.
541790
Then flirt alot with him, a girl that flirts always gets my attention...\nOr ask him for help in something..
170425
OFFER TO\n DO STUFF WITH HIM. IF HE NEEDS A HAIRCUT GET ONE TOGETHER. IF HE NEEDS A SHOWER ETC. ETC.
294637
He's got perfect legal right to do what he did, unfortunately.It was wrong not to ask if money was there first, but he did it. I suggest you close that account, open another one for just you, just your name on it, and open another account for both of you for bills only. Put a certain amount of money in the bill account every week and put the rest in your account. Thats way he screws himself if he pulls that again, not you!!...GL;)
128857
Tell him he's right.  That you'll have to let the judge determine how much he should be giving you and his wages should be garnished for it, that way when he is too busy, he doesn't have to stop the important stuff he is doing to go give you the money.
356977
Start respecting yourself more than that!!!!! This man is paying you for services. kick him to the curb. If was giving you money to help you out he wouldn't want to sleep with you. Pay him back when you get on your feet and find someone who respects you. Don't let a man use you like that.
519661
Go ahead and ask!  You helped him, so he should help you.\n\nGood luck.
591283
you cant. you would need to have him give it to you / you give it to yourself.
643281
Go for it!\n\nOr even better, sell his stuff to pay the rent!
327888
I would give him money its much cheaper, besides give him what you think he deserves according to how he trets you
555755
as parents rules goes as long as you live under my roof.........you'll go by my rules.....................just do what he asks and one day show him all the responsibility.you have and suggest an allowance.....................good luck kid........just be glad your not being beaten
82670
You can offer to pay - but do it discreetly. Most guys like to be a gentleman and pay for everything - but it does get expensive! Maybe, let the guy pay. Then discreetly give him the money to pay for something - so it looks like he's paying. He will think you're thoughtful - you've considered his finances and understood his pride! \n\nOf course you can take it in turns paying. You also have to take into account who has the higher income - if he does and he insists on paying - maybe you should let him - if there are no strings attached. But some men see paying for everything as "buying" you and you then feel under their control. Don't let that happen.