Well, there's this guy that i've been crushing on for like 2 years now. The thing is he's 3 years older than me (me being a freshman and him a junior). I know that he may be after me just for his own fun and games and junk, but theres also the possibility he may like me. Like we talk online all the time and we're always flirting. He even filled this survey out on myspace for me (like in February) and it was just so... well it made it seem like he did like me after all. But he used to hate me and when my friend IMed him one day and told him i liked him... he said i was "cool" what does that mean? i cant post the survey.. so i'll post what i can from it... HELP ME PLZZZZ\n\n8. If you were to take me out to a movie would we watch the movie? only if we got bored! \n9. If not what would we be doing? nothing your parents would like.\nwould you evr\nask me out: yes, but you have too many boyfriends so i don't know if it would work out ^.^ and you would probably say you wouldnt want to...
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well just cool might  be the answer you will get take time!\n if  you has brothers or sisters of if you have brother or sisters invite them round to see the true terror to be ensposed to the  parents to say "see their monsters!" (no affence) just try and hang around but dont change yourself just for him be yourself and have good fun!
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Sorry to burst your bubble, but if he has a (what I assume you are saying) crush on someone else, he probably doesn't like you. He might just be being nice because he sees you as a great friend and nothing more. Don't give up hope though - try to win him back. Flirt, smile a lot...hopefully things will improve from there. GL
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Well, as an MUNER, I've seen this happen. It's lucky that you were admin because if that note had been confiscated, there would be consequences. Anyways, you are right in asking him straight off would scare him. You don't really know this guy, do you? It seems like 2 or 3 weeks at most  and you already say he's NOT the player type. Maybe he is. If he really liked you, he would have called. This guy is not a perfect gentleman as he hasn't fulfilled his promise to call. I think he's keeping you as a safety as he flirts with you online but not in a more meaningful way. He maybe interested in another girl. There are other guys out there. Good luck.
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would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
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boys are hard to interpret.  i had guys pick on me from kindergarten to highschool--i thought they hated me, turns out they thought i was hot!! your best bet--ask him to a movie, library study date, or something.  or if you're shy you can just smile, relax, be yourself and see what happens.
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I don't believe he cares for you, how can he have a crush on you and end up asking your friend out. He thinks he's smart, he want to have a go at both you and your friend. He's finished with your friend, it's now your turn. If you want to find yourself out on your butt, then go ahead. Forget how you feel about him, he does not feel the same. Throw him to the trash where he belongs.
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This guy has:\n\n1) "Been Chasing me for ages and ages (even when i was in a serious relationship)" - shows persistency, and also means that you are not just a fling or a crush for him.\n2) "He Always compliments me and makes conversation with me" - could be that's he's trying to get points, or that he simply is a nice guy. find out if he also compliments other women/people. about the conversation, it shows that you guys have chemistry.\n3) "i always catch him looking at me" - and he always catches you... :)\n4) "he doesnt flirt with any other girls" - now, i don't know you so  i could not say how you found this out, or if you are just supposing it. it ccould b that he does when you are not around, as well as that he could really be a no flirt type of guy (good :))\n\nBUT:\n\n1) "he only texts me at the weekends to meet him out" - maybe he is busy/ maybe he thinks YOU are busy/ maybe he is "busy", if you know what i mean (another person...)\n2) "he asked how im enjoying he single life (as if just come out of a 5 year relationship 8 months ago). I said i was enjoying it!" - now, you are, but why do you wonder if he likes you? :)\n3) "He said he wishes he could meet some like me (when i was in my previous relationship)" - it could be that he considers you a good friend and a good person. depending on your relationship, you are the best judge of the meaning of this sentence. he could be cueing you to think you are the right person for him, but it could also mean a sincere compliment.\n\nDoes he like me?Any advice?\nit seems he does, but again, YOU are the best judge for that :)\nit seems to me that YES he does.
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Obviously you have openly revealed this 'crush' of yours - and somehow the word must have got to him ! So, egoist that he is, your 'crush' is playing 'hard to get' : one of the oldest ploys, resorted to, by most males, to prove that they are highly 'in demand'.\nDon't fall for this, mariah : What possibly caused you to develop this 'crush' on him was possibly also just another 'false front' put up by him - to 'impress' impressionable gals like you !\n...When you find a guy who remains totally natural, while relating to both his male and female friends and acquaintances - HE is the kind of person you should have a 'crush' on.\nAnd when such a nice guy gets to know of your crush, he will not play games with you : He will either hug you in a tight crush to reveal that he likes you too, or will frankly admit right away, in a way that will not hurt you, that he is otherwise attached.\nBest of Luck, chum !\n:-))
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Perhaps he doesn't like you the way you like him and he's avoiding you because he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Lay low from him, if he comes around then maybe he was just planning on how to ask you out, or how to tell you that he likes you, maybe he's shy. I hope he likes you!
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I think its a crush to and if you care about him leave him alone and when your 18 look him up . I sure if he wants you he will wait!
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If he is acting jealous, then he probably has a crush on you and is afraid of telling you. Does he look at you differently (the expressions on his face)? Does he sound different when he talks to you (the tone of his voice or how he words things)? Does he walk closer to you then he use to? I'm not sure what ways he is acting weird, so it is kinda hard to answer specifically. Does he want to spend more time with you then he did before? If the answer to these questions is Yes, then yup he does like you. Figure out if you like him in that way before you talk to him about it. If you do like him in that way, then just tell him you want to go on a date with just you and him. I hope this helps.
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I'm not emailing you...sorry, I don't need any more friends but it sounds like your not even interested in this dude. Why would you even consider dating him if you don't even like him? Remind yourself why it didn't work out with you guys to begin with and just tell him your not interested anymore. Or if you think there might stillbe something there spend some time with him as a friend. No sex or kissing...really just friends for awhile.
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If it makes you happy to know, I am 100% sure that he has a crush on you. Too much proximity while you two are alone, might tempt him to kiss you or be physical - that's what he meant. And I'm sure you understood that perfectly well.
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It isnt an approach.  And this spam advertising above is annoying as hell.\n\nSeems like you two are around 17-19?\n\nHe REALLY likes you and wants to touch you to be closer but he doesnt know you well enough.  He doesnt have alot of experience in these things so he does the best he can.\n\nHe is flirting and is probably a shy but affectionate person.\n\nRemember, try to see it from a GUY point of view so you won't trash him by acting pissy and sassy.  He will remember it and you will have been the one to turn another nice guy into a jerk.\n\nAsk yourself this, when was the last time YoU approached a unknown guy alone and by yourself and asked him out?  Never huh.
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A) You are still very young and guys are far less mature.\n\nB) Guys don't get signs, hints or looks...\n\nC) Don't get sexaul... At most kissing and holding hands and not too heavy at that either.\n\nNote and this is someone with no problems suggesting people go further in high school and Im REALLY open attiude wise.\n\nIf a guy likes you and not a dickhead he will like you to ask him out. Though if you do give him a choice of date or with mates choice...\n\nUsually if a guy fancies you he will be staring like you... Mostly at your boobs...and usually just as awkards as you if not much more.\n\nHowever as you are very young you can't lay it on to thick to get his attention as Id advise older girls too.\n\nDon't try and be them. You aint yet and doing so will only hurt you.\n\nGet involved in things like skateboarding, Join a martial arts group (get fit, learn to fight and can play wrestle him if get good) Whats he into? get good at that.\n\nLearn the guitar too.\n\nIf you get on a date nothing to formal...something like bowling or cinema.and rest up against him.\n\n\nIf he is confused he may not fancy you or even be aware of girls much and you are staring at him like stunned which he may feel strange as aint done it himself yet ie fancy anyone. He don't get whats going on Im guessing.\n\nDon't mean he won't.\n\nGuys often develop feelings for girl mates, especailly if they are lots of fun but in a couple of years
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I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(
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Oh, this just SMACKS of "his feelings being hurt".\nSOMEBODY had to have said something to him such as :you said something bad about him.  OR, he has a crush on you and someone,(maybe even you),lead him to believe that you are attracted to another guy or had sex with another guy.\n\nHE IS EXIBITING ALL THE SIGNS OF BEING HURT!!!\n\nTRUST ME ON THIS ONE!  I've seen THIS movie so many times, I lost COUNT!\n\nAsk him what's bothering him and keep pursuing him for the answer.  He'll want you to, so he can keep saying "nothing 87 times.\n\nThen he will tell you.\n\nOH! the suspense is killing me.  You are going to be surprised.\n\nHe likes you more than you THOUGHT!