i is deflected to right side n little down, i dont think my wife is gonna enjoy it. what do i do i want to make it straight. please help.
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shel enjoy it.  just push it in and out.
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Dont just lay there.  It'll be like making it with a dead fish!! Rock your pelvis back and forth.  Meet him blow for blow!!! or hold your own legs back and let him plow on.  Its wonderful.
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Be very patient, this is the time when she needs you to be by her side and just understand, even if you have no real clue about what’s going on. Take the time out to (listen) to what ever she has or want to tell you. This is your time to be supportive, be the man she married and stay true to your vowels.
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Use a condom.  Talk about how you wanna go about it.  Know boundaries etc.  Decide which position you want to be in and take it from their. Don't forget plenty of foreplay to help and relax the lady and to give her more pleasure.  Don't be a selfish lover!  Once you are "in" you can take it from there and decide how fast/slow you wanna go.  Make the effort to make it special.
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Kiss her cheek or lips. It will show that you are not trying to jump in her pants, and she'll respect you for that. If I were in that situation and my guy kissed me on my lips or cheek, I would think that was sooo sweet. My first kiss from my husband was on my right cheek when we were 15. I still think it's sweet. (I'm 20)  :)
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Sit back on your heels and rock back and forth.  YOu can get deeper that way.  Also small circles feels nice too.\nTry a bunch of different positions to see what you like best.  Your man won't mind all the extra attention and fooling that he gets
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don't stick your tongue down her throat the first time and choke him.  Move your lips with hers and enjoy the ride. Ever see the movie Hitch?  Don't pucker your lips up like Mr. Brenneman did...all hard and stiff.  Keep your lips soft like a sponge. Aiming for the bottom part of the lips is nice too.  lol  Good luck and enjoy!
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Just keep practicing and stick to it.  You know the technique for stopping left, just reverse it for right.
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Dear Omar,\nAm sorry to hear about your wife. It must really be tuff to hold out like you have. In my opinion, I dont think she would damn you for taking on a female friend. I realize it gets lonely especially for a guy. I empathize with you.  You know, I understand you want to stay faithful and probably have thought, what if it was me. Well, my friend, you ARE being faithful, as far as I know. Only God is the judge of what you do. And God knows your heart, whether you are being malicious or not. I don't believe he wants you to be with out companionship. Now sex is another story. You will be taking on alot of guilt because you are not free of your wife in your mind or heart.And suppose you get so involved you fall in love with this person. Then what? Do you chuck your wife and go with her? It is such a fine line as to what to do in this case. I mean what do the docs say about your wife? Is she brain dead? Is she losing body mass by laying? Is she deteriating, What? I say, just be careful not to add additional problems to your life that you may not be able to handle. Choose someone that clearly understands the situation and keep it plotonic(yeah right, huh?). Its nice to know you have someone to talk to and go to dinner and have conversation with, right? To go for walks and the movies. I know what you are talking about. So really you have to make that call and when you do make sure you have a clear conscience.
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I WOULD THINK 8" WOULD BE ENOUGH FOR ANYONE, I KNOW IT WOULD BE TO MUCH FOR ME.  MAYBE YOUR WIFE SHOULD DO SOME TONING EXERCISES WITH HER PRIVATE PART.  (YES THERE IS EXERCISES WOMEN CAN DO TO HELP MAKE IT TIGHTER)  I WOULD NOT HAVE SURGERY TO PLEASE SOMEONE ELSE, EVEN IF IT IS YOUR WIFE.  THAT IS SELFISH OF HER TO ASK THAT.  TELL HER TO GO HAVE SURGERY AND HAVE HERS TIGHTENED UP AND THEN THERE WOULD BE NOT PROBLEM.  GOOD LUCK
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You are so nasty.  Keep trying and she will tell you what she likes.  I hope you can follow directions well.
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Do what feels comfortable to you and him.  Take your time and work up to it.  He should spend time with foreplay so you will be wet and lubricated and/or use a lubricating jelly such as KY Jelly.  He should work in slowly the first time.  It may or may not seem a little uncomfortable, but if you relax your muscles in that area, it will be easier.\n\nIf your hymen has not broken, since you are a virgin, there is likely to be a little blood.  Do not worry about that.  It's normal for a virgin because of the hymen breaking.  Sometimes it is broken anyway because of sports, etc. and you won't bleed.\n\nAnother young gal once asked me what it would be like.  I told her that I had seen how her intended looked at her and he adored her. I knew that he would be gentle and loving and she would be just fine.  When she came back from the honeymoon, we had a little reception for them.  She took me aside and said, "You know that little conversation we had?"  I said, "Yes...."   And she gave me the hand gesture that meant everything was wonderful, with a big smile on her face and a wink.\n\nIf your intended loves you, it will be just fine.  Relax and enjoy becoming one.\n\nBest Wishes for your future as man and wife.  God Bless!\n\nSue
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Dear wanna,\n\nIt is perfectly normal that some penises are not 100% straight when hard. It affects 1% of men. If it is slightly bent or curvy, your sexual partner will not mind.
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nothing to be scared.i have learned more and more about this matter.you must be masturbating using your left hand.that's why your penis has been curved left.use your right hand if you need it to be straighten.but curved penis brings more happy to women.it makes a woman wild and crazy.because it touches more parts of the vagina.have more fun with your member.
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I would go to a pro, so if it does mess up,  maybe it will be covered. But it sounds like you're not adjusting everything properly.
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There are no problems with this issue. Unless it causes pain when erect. There is nothing to worry I'd heard about tilted penises touching G spot better than straight one ...\nLucky your girl;;;;;;;
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It will come between you and it already has. Its good that she is being upfront but you need to tell her that its actually not ok with you and for those exact reasons that you stated, emotions and feelings become involved. From my perspective, its so hard to seperate sex from feelings and emotion and if she is married to you she cannot emotionally invest in another relationship, whether thats with another man or another woman.......unless you want to get divorced?\nYou need to be more honest with your feelings to her about this and let her know that you are uncomfortable with it.