I told my parents after all of your guys' advice. Thank You so much. My dad accepted it well, but my mom jumped out of the window. We live on the 17th floor of our apartment complex. My dad was so sad that my mom killed herself that he kicked me out. I now brought my lap top to the hotel room I am staying in. It's ok I have a male prostitute over. Wish Me luck please.
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are we supposed to believe you!! firs of all I really dont think your mom jumped out the window, just does'nt jive with me! and second of all if you do have a prositute over what the hell are you on the computer for! wouldn't you be busy doing it? I know i would , if i was getting laid the last thing i would being thinking about is yahoo Q & A'S, so no we don't believe you pathic story!
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OOps sorry let me edit this..\n\nMost important question is - are they LEGALLY your gaurdian?  It sounds like this might be your sister.. or maybe a young aunt.\n\nWhat state are you in?  How old are you?  It depends on how your caregiver will react.  I did the same thing when I was 17 and my parents freaked and were able to take me back.  I spent a few days in Juvi.. but other than that nothing terrible will happen.  If you are 17, I suggest talking to your parents about this and seeing if they would let you.  Does your friends family want you to move there?  Have them talk to your caregiver.  If you are any younger, either wait or have the family talk to your caregiver..  I totally understand where you are coming from, sometimes your home can just be toxic, especially if your parents are going through a divorce, or some issues of their own.. I've been moved out for 2 years now, and even when I come to visit, it just sucks my soul dry.. Some people and places are just so bad for you.  Talk to them .. really.  OR just go ahead and do it, but know this - they will be able to find you - and they will force you to come back - BUT after that happens, they will be open for dialog with you - you will be able to tell them how damaging their home is to you - and they will be able to take you seriously.. This is what happened to me- They never listened until after I ran away.. Then they let me finish my high school degree online and let me move out when I needed to.\n\nTo help you any further, I would need to know your age and your state.\n\nAnd like the other person mentioned, if you are working and making some of your own money, you might be able to get emancipated. \n\nChoices Other Than Emancipation\n\nEmancipation is only one of several alternatives available to you if you feel you cannot live with your caregiver.  You may want to consider other options such as:\n\nfamily counseling or mediation service between you and your parents; \nliving with another responsible adult (aunt, uncle, grandparent, or family friend); \nseeking assistance from public and private agencies; \nan informal agreement with your caregiver allowing you to live outside your home. \n\n\nMy final advice to you is this - family counseling - if nothing else works - this will.  The other person there can help you communicate effectively with your caregiver - and don't assume they will only be on your caregivers side either.  Present your case to them, and unless you have no reason for wanting to move out, they will support you and help you work out a solution with your family..\n\nGood luck, ok?  Feel free to personally email me if you need any personal or legal advice..  Bj_Osterhout@yahoo.com
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First, Im sorry that you are going through such a horrific experience. However, Your are comforting your mother in the best way possible. Telling her the truth helps her prepare and say and do the things she needs to before leaving this place. Your honesty will let her lay in peace and your love will keep her alive longer warm and happy!\n\nMy thoughts are are with you and your family! xoxox
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I have one here. My father had an affair with his secretary and even picked her up to and fro from work in his car..he even asked me to call her mum..i declined of course. But I still claimed that I have a very happy family in front of my classmates..especially when my mother is crying practically every night and on one saturday i remembered i heard the sound of glass smashing from the kitchen. When I came out,my father disappeared and my mother was lying on the floor with fresh blood oozing out from her hand...they divorced soon afterthat. My mother refused to give me to father and I was kept away from him since then. I had a dark period for 3 years and I became anti-social,until 2 years ago when suddenly I started to open up gradually...you know what? I once stayed indoors for a consecutive 2 months.
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Im sorry to hear about that too.  Im about to lose everything too.  My dad doesn't have much money, or his drivers license, or anyone to watch my lil brothers.  My mom just left for another man, and she pays most of the bills in the house.  So i guess im about to experience what you've been experiencing. But anyways, homegurlz right.  Dr.Phil or Oprah aint going to help you any.  They are way to buissy with their television and stuff.  But never give up hope gurl. So here is the number to Dr. Phil if you want to know, (323.461.PHIL ).  You have to leave your name and your number and a message.  Sorry about your dad too.  I hope he really gets to see his Grandchildren.  If you live around your aunts, uncles, cousins or anybody, ask them to take you and your boys to your dads house.  They might be willing to help out, you never know.
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I am sorry to hear about your father. Sounds like your mother may need some help.  I can't begin to give you advice, but my heart goes out to you and your family.
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Call the police ASAP, my good friend spent every penny he had on the drug, he spent about $250 a week and lost his job and most all of his contacts.  I finally called the cops on him and he thanks me to this day for saving his life.  If I would of waited any longer, I don't know if he would of been around.  Know that you can call the police from a pay phone and not give them your name.  Please do your mother a favor and get her into treatment before it's too late.  This is a very serious thing, and I know you love her, please do the right thing and get her help.
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**********************************************I tried to respond to your email but Answers says your email address hasn't been confirmed yet. I truly do want to talk to you more and help you in any way that I can. So, please get your email address confirmed and email me again! Hugs and Blessings, Marty (Martha)*******************************************************************\n\nSometimes life throws so much stuff at you that you cannot see how you are going to get through it. At those times it takes all my strength and God's to get through the day. With Him on my side I can do anything. Those days I sometimes take it minute by minute and rejoice that I've made it through each minute. The "magic" way through the really tough stuff for me is relying on God and His amazing strength. I pray and pray and pray! He has gotten me through depression and suicidal thought. Through my husband's many illnesses, surgeries and hospitalizations. Through my brother's suicide and my Dad's death. Honestly, without my faith I would not be here today. You don't have to pray formal prayers, just pour out what is in your heart. God loves you so very much and wants to lighten your burdens. Trust in Him. He won't ever let you down. God bless you!
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I'm so sorry.  I know this is an awful time, made even worse by the fact that you're not able to be home right now.  When you call home, have your dad put the phone to the dogs ear and talk to him as you would if you were there...hearing your voice will be comforting to him and will also make you feel closer.  As difficult as it is to do...I have always been with my pets when they were "put to sleep" or died on their own...it gives you closure, and also the comfort of knowing your presence was felt by the pet and the last thiing they see before going.  I have been thru this a few times, and my heart aches for you.  Just do your best and stay in touch with your family
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i went through a very similar experience, though my parents were just divorced, but my dad was with my stepmother before my parents separated. she's this woman who completley changed him, in every way. he knows this because he cant be himself around her totally. im not sure how to give you advice because it sounds like your dads wife is just as crazy. i basically gave up the fight after awhile and havent really seen my dad. maybe some family therapy? im not sure, i just know its hard to deal with and i understand what you're going through. i hope that things get better! sorry this wasnt so much advice, as a comment but thats all i got.
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I stayed with my dad until he died.  He wanted me to be safe and to take care of me and me of him.  So it worked out fine.  I was not ready to be independent and that was best for me to do in my situation.  I know other people may have looked down on me but that is their problem.  Just because I was not married or independent did not mean that I was stupid or crazy.  They did not and do not know me to judge me.  I did what I wanted and what was best for me.  Then I realized that as my dad got older and in worse health, that he needed me because he would have been all alone and could not be alone as his illness progressed.  One day he told me that he wanted me to stay and not to marry until he died.  That did make me feel good and useful and have a little more dignity when others would say things to me.  But all in all, I would not have changed a thing.  So you do what is best for you.  Your family is the most important thing, if they are good to you, so treasure them.  You will be out and on your own one day when you marry or find a boyfriend or go to college or move for other reasons.  So, do what is best for you. I think that you are lucky.  :)
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Tell your mother yourself. This will help both of you. Lock the door next time  ;)
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personal expirience \n \n     \n\nromeonaamera\n14 seconds ago\n\n\n \n Ya, Ofcourse.\nActually I & my family slept with it for complete 2 nights in complete anonity.\nBrief description: Actually, in our relation, there occurred a death. The dying person was a lady (married) and having a 3 month old baby in her womb. Then there is a long time interval of nearly 3-4 years passed in Court and legal cases, etc.\nNow I come to main issue. Due to this court and legal matter, all the family in-laws members of the deceased lady were in jail, except 3 children (one boy = 4 years old named Mannu, actual son of deceased lady, one girl = 5 years old named Komal, and other boy = 6-7 years old named Kapil). These three were very small and have to live in their home, lonely. So, all the other relatives decided that to help them, one by one among the left of the relatives, will stay at their home in turn matter. So, this turn matter continues.\nNow what actually happened is that, one turn came of this girl, named ASHA (21-22 years old). She was living happily at their home, lonely with those 3 children. Then, suddenly after 3-4 days, the parents of Asha were continuously being informed by neighbours of place, where Asha was living with the 3 children, that Asha is not doing work, she continues to sleep,etc. Their family members thought it is a regular issue of this age that, this age girl not wants to work and stay away from their home. They thought it to be a normal issue. After 1 ½ days of these issues being continuous, my (me, Parmod from romeonaamera@yahoo.co.in) family decided to bring the girl back home. So, my elder brother, Manish brought her home at night 10 pm. She came normal, actually not normal, and she did strange gestures of ghost like, which I cannot explain verbally. We thought that this may be due to living lonely in a home, having occurred a death. So, we neglected her gestures. But after one day, when she was at our home, her own parents came to take her to their home. To our shock…..\nAs soon as this girl, saw the first sight of her mother, She did a very strange (actually ghost like) action, which is totally dramatic and dreadened. We all thought this is also normal, of a child, on seeing her mother after a long interval of time. So, we all neglected this also. But.. to our very anonity. This girl, was actually intercepted and entered into by the ghost of the lady named Madhu, which I described above as the dying person. In the evening of that day, she actually is starting showing her actions, etc.\nQ. 1What is our name?\nA. 1Though her real name is Asha only, but she took the name of the dying lady, named Madhu.\nQ. 2Where do you live?\nA. 2.Though She lived at near Shahdara but she explained that she has come from the home of Madhu (i.e. from Ghaziabad).\n\nThese are only some of the few questions among a large number of other normal, and small questions, which she also explained if she was not Asha but actually is Madhu (the dead lady). Then after that day, we all family members took her to a priest to make look into the matter, if what she is saying. (Only Indians can understand nowabout this). The pandit (Hindu priest) also inquired with the girl and after many-many questions, just concluded that this girl or this person whom, I am speaking is not Asha, but Madhu (the deceased lady). Can anyone understand, what I am saying? The matter, which the Asha was speaking (the actual live girl), is not spoken by this girl, but by the dead lady named, Madhu, whose GHOST had actually entered into the body of a live girl Asha.\nThen, this girl was returned to our (my own home). She remained with us for complete two days and 2 nights.\nOh my God, only I and my younger sister can tell, how we have spent those 2 days and 2 nights, with a GHOST in our home. That ghost actually did not slept for that period spent at our home and continulusly mourned of . The GHOST Madhu continuously asked for meeting with her child, (discussed a
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I would say get out of there as fast as you can! Leave and go find a different place to stay! My prayers are with you, Please be safe! Cuidado!
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i was sad and glad at the same time cause of the memory it brought back. we lived in 2 places, i bug my mom to cook me something for my 18th birthday, so she need to see me in the city and leave my dad with my 2 younger brothers in the farm. she arrive safe in the city carrying my request noodles and sweet rice.\n\nthat night, my dad and brothers encountered the worst nightmare of their lives. some thieves are stealing our cows, they spray bullets through the whole house and almost kill my dad, he was bleeding though and my brothers run like hell.  \n\nif i didn't bug my mom to cook me those special foods, she probably dead by now. she is still alive thank god and just gotten married for the second time on monday.
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It happened to me. My husband and my sister no less.  It ruined my marriage, even after 28 years I haven't forgiven him.  He ended up with a terminal illness- Multiple Sclerosis for 15 years. He passed away in 2004. I felt like I had to stay and help him.  His actions affected my relationship with my older son and my sister...not that she was worth a second chance. But, I did try.  My mother, father, and baby sister didn't talk to me for 15 years- yea, like it was my fault. My brother and I remained estranged until he passed away. All I did was stay with the guy.  Big mistake! My younger son is not really part of the family every one shuns him because he looks like my husband. My sister's daughter ended up being an outcast and tried to commit suicide twice. What should you do?  Move on...make a life for yourself, find someone that respects you and loves you for who you are now... don't wait it will only hurt you! I am 53 back in college and making a life for myself for the first time. I have never been happier. I plan on traveling and staying alive! With as much enthusiasum as possible..If you need to have someone beside you I am sure that there will be that certain someone around the corner.  For myself, I just love being myself. One day maybe I'll meet someone but, for now my happiness and peace of mind it what counts to me.
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Oh my...this is an extreme version of a Romeo and Juliet situation!  My heart cries for both of you!  I am teary eyed right now  :(   Are you both in Israel?  I do hope both of you are very careful and is practicing safe sex.  It is like the wall that divides the Jews and Palestinians.  In your young age both of you are very vunerable and dependent to your respective families.  If you can keep your secret, then keep it until you reach an age that both of you can leave your parents home.  When you get to college, study in a school away from your home and if possible outside your country.