Hey I would really like guys opinions on this but girls are welcome too. My boyfriends birthday is coming up and I really need some good ideas. I can't be with him on his birthday so I can't take him out like I wanted to. And since we are christian we don't have sex. So I need some good clean ideas. Help me if you can. ~~~Thanx~me
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I thought you said you are both Christian. Only pagans celebrate birthdays.
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Forget about the tools.  Do something original for him.  Cook him dinner and than surprise him by taking him to a strip club and buying him a lap dance.  Trust me, you think I'm being perverted or funny, but this would really mean a lot to your bf.  It tells him that you love him enough to do something that you wouldn't normally do and that you trust him.
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Well yea, I would definitely invite him to the prom and make out with him in front of everyone.  In high school you seem to get more respect when you date older men.  Especially since he has a nice car, I would give him a real special treat when we went for a drive afterwards.  I hope you have a "ball".  Good Luck at the prom.
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Ok...in my experience...you are better off telling him what you want. Otherwise, you will get something you don't want. For example, last year for my birthday my husband got me a gift certificate for an OIL CHANGE!! So, think of something you want...spa package, jewelry, new pajamas, nice romantic dinner at home, whatever. Just tell the poor guy so he doesn't have to worry himself. he just wants to make you happy!
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Bake something yummy. Guys are always impressed by a girl that can bake, something homemade like cinnamon rolls or pumpkin muffins or chewy cookies (don't give them to him if you overbake them, it won't be so impressive), etc. With the baked goods you could give him some anime pens or something, tied to the package with some curling ribbon and a nice card. \n\nI snagged my husband by cooking for him, guys LOVE it :)
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Have her come over and have arrows leading to the bedroom, then go to suriseparties.com, check out what they have, order something different, and have a good time.  Try drawing a nice bubble bath for her, and wash her hair,etc. Make a nice dinner in the nude. Just spend a nice nite together watching movies, drink a bit of wine, or beverage of choice, and let things go. I did the arrows and IT WAS GREAT, had the wine, chocolates, and well we got a movie and just got up to eat lunch.  Had a great time. The surpriseparty.com, has a LOT OF GREAT ideas.  LUCK and have fun.
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Candle-lit dinner.. Bubble bath (with candles, be careful), Nice romantic music... Sometimes men appreciate flowers, maybe rose petals around the bed or something... Good luck!
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Wow.  You've got some personal conviction going on.  Why can't he tell that you are Christian??  A necklace isn't going to do it- a lot of hypocrats wear those things, too, not just people who love Jesus.  Deep down, this guy probably desires a woman who is beautiful because God made her, a woman who loves Jesus more than anything (and reflects that by showing love, patience, kindness, service, etc), and someone who is clean fun to be around.  You may perfectly fit that bill already.  There shouldn't be any questions as to which side of the faith fence you ride.  If you have some habits (we ALL do) that you aren't proud of, or you know would make Jesus sad, then make that a priority to change.  If this guy is the right one for you, then it is going to work.  If not, that just means that God has some other things that He needs you to do before getting you together with Mr. Forever.  You'll do fine.
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Hi Mandy-Sue! I'm just learning how to do this 'Answers' thing, and since you helped me with my question, (I'm the skinny girl trying to gain weight!), I'll try to give you some V-day ideas... maybe a way to incorporate all the things that you listed as his likes, what about a 'Naughty-but-Nice' basket of goodies: Maybe a video game that he's had his eye on, maybe either a 'coupon' to cook his favorite meal, or reservations to a favorite restaurant (maybe he'll pay if you work it just right!), and/or some 'male' munchies: pretzles, nuts, jerky, chips, beer (if he drinks - a few cans or bottles stuffed in the basket), maybe a magazine of one of his hobbies - they have magazines on video games if you can believe that!, or a subscription to a magazine - those aren't too expensive, and it's a gift that keeps on giving all year! and last but not least...i'll try to keep this clean, but that 'N'-catagory has tons of options! I got my guy something we both enjoyed, and he loved it because it literally put the 'control' in his hand...there are places that sell panties with a small, ummmm, battery-operated device that is 'remote-controlled'! Yep, he had a little trigger that he'd turn on and off at his whim! We went to a bar where he proceeded to 'go order us a drink' and from some secret location, he watched my reaction in mid-sentence with people as he turned that thing on and off! It was a riot! I was hysterical, so was he from afar! We had the best times with that thing! However, they can be pricey ($30-$50)? But, in those same stores, there are countless options! I'm sure you can find something that will fit perfectly in that basket of goodies! Good luck! If you want, let me know what you decided! Take care, kcberry5
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i wouldn't worry about it. guys can be very dirty- and so can girls for that matter. - -maybe get him to be a bad boy with you??????could  be fun
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I take it your 21 since you have it in your name. Do you live together? If so cook him a nice dinner, if you cant cook call one of your favorite resturants and order to pick up. Go to walmart and get some Boonsfarm Wine its cheap but tastes pretty good. \n\nCheck out Xandria.com has nice selection of sex toys, lotions, and massage oils. Have fun with it pick ouit some nice things. Get an outfit from Fredicks of hollywood online or Vitcoria Secret. If you can afford all of this. \n\nAfter having a nice dinner with him. You should both take a nice warm bath together light some candles and turn out the lights. Afterwards move to the bed, lay him down and start giving him a massage. After awhile tell him its your turn and then you lay down. Let him take over from there. He will love it.\n\nAnd there is always your picnics in the park and going out to eat and a movie but that is usually the average thing.....\n\nJust sit back for awhile and think what you would like to do and it will come to you.\n\nHave fun and good luck
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There are probably a million things that you can do for him for his birthday without costing you anything. Men are really not all that different from woman in what pleases them. Think of what you would like and go from there. You probably wouldn't even have to leave the bedroom let alone the house. Good luck and have fun.
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I think that is totally commendable!!! Keep it up - respect. And if ANY guy tells you that he won't date you unless you have sex with him - he doesnt deserve or respect you - you are worth waiting for and a guy who loves you will respect that! all the best - you will be tempted at times because you're human but I think it is totally possible.
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I would have to say since your pregnant NO this idea is just due to your hormones being out of whack.  Try cooking him dinner in the nude of course while he's watching you. Then maybe the two of you could take a candlelight bubble bath.  You and only you can do the nasty with him.  Put silk sheets on the bed and through rose petals all over the floor and the bed.  With your hormones on the blitz if you get the girls to join, you will probably then start accusing him of having an affair. So keep the birthday PARTY just for you and him.  Good Luck and have fun.
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First of all, Happy Birthday!!! I say talk to your boyfriend before wrecking your relationship. Mabe something bad happened to him and he didn't feel like talking about it. Or mabe he's being a giant jerk. But find out before moving on to the new guy. Good luck and no matter what have fun today!!!
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Whenever I'm in that situation (for anyone, not just boyfriends) I make a list of everything he or she likes. Try to be as specific as possible. As you're making the list you might start to come up with some possible ideas. My boyfriend (who buys everything he wants and is consequently extremely difficult to shop for) just had a birthday and I did the same thing for him. The list was ridiculously long, but I ended up buying him season 1 of Stella, an incredibly stupid sitcom that lasted only 10 episodes. Anyway, he absolutely loved it. He said that it was one of the most thoughtful gifts anyone had ever bought him and that he wouldn't even have thought of buying himself that. So give it a try-- maybe you'll come up with the perfect gift! Good luck!
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He has a strong sex drive. Skipping work once in a while to have sex sounds like fun to me though. He's probably not going to change how often he wants sex - why do girls always think they can change their boyfriend? You may need someone who's slightly less needy. That sounds a little excessive to me - he could be using that to control you. He is also not considerate of you in trying to manipulate you into doing more. The getting mad part is a huge problem - you shouldn't put up with that.