still have a chance? (I was nervous the first two times and seemed awkward when i talked to her - she didnt seem to cool with it, but now she says hello to me and i say hello to her. that's it for now.) SO MY QUESTION IS: IF I SCREWED UP THE INITIAL FIRST TWO IMPRESSIONS, BUT I'M COOL, SHOULD I STILL CONTINUE, OR SHOULD I BACK OFF??? what could she be thinking?!!!!!!!!!
202619
she's either thinking you were nervous or you are a dork.  Only way to find out is to open your mouth and talk to her.
389468
I think you are very scared of being rejected. Don't be. It happens all the time to all of us. Now, if you go back to that store, try to chat a little bit with that woman. Say something like: "Oh by the way, you've got lovely eyes." She'll problably say thanks. Then you can ask her: "Would you like to have a cup of coffe with me sometime?" If she says no, don't feel offended or rejected. It may be because she has a boyfriend already. Let me know what happen, will you? I'd like to help more if things doesn't work out. Good luck any way.
579550
Please, Please by all means, love ask her. She maybe waiting for you to be up front. It don't hurt to try. So go for it. :)
402245
Sounds like she was interested, and waiting for you to make a move. When you didn't she decided to change tactic and see if she gets a reaction out of you with her current behaviour.\n\nTell her how you feel and if she doesn't feel that way, it's not like you lost anything.
275758
think positive think what happens if she says yes. i just asked a girl out today with the same question you hade ( see my asked questions the 1 at the top) just start with petty talk and work up. if she says no just think "hey this one didnt like me mabe the next one will"
556945
help yourself and go talk to her. who cares if she's from a different group. group dynamics eventually change, ppl from different 'classes' are always pairing up. stop wasting your time and go for it. and good luck!
268631
Well since you two already had lunches and a few emails, sounds like she's interested in being more than friends with you too. I don't think it would've mattered if you waited, you two both know you're not going to be with your previous mates, so it was a now or later type of situation and you went for now which isn't a problem. If she's not intrested, or just not ready yet, you should just respect her decision and don't blow off what you two have. When she sees your giving her space and a lot of respect for her position, shell grow to like you even more.
288180
if you're afraid you shouldn't bother introducing yourself...gotta go in with the mindset that she WANTS to meet you.  \n\nconfidence man!  nothing ventured nothing gained
114821
Do you think she is like a role model to you? Or are there things that's he has that you may like or want? If so I can see why you would be nervous. But what I would suggest is you just find something to talk to her about and then start talking. Also, when ever you are talking to people a great conversation starter is a compliment. No matter if you are man or woman!!
504301
the fact dat u not goin to the gala might not be such a bad thing cuz 2morrow wen u see her comming your way then u get to have a reason to stop her by simply sayin hi..how are u..how waz the gala since i didnt go?..then she will tell u about her experience then u tell her about yours and dat how u start to get to kno her and next time you guys could go togeter and just show her a good time and wat u all about!..the key is to just go with the flow dont force any topic into the conversation. i hope it works out!!
422178
go for it man.  nothing ventured, nothing gained.  what if you wait and she asks someone else?  get in there!!
506177
She wants you to make the first move in asking her out. She may not be shy at all. She may just want to feel important in the fact that it's you who initiated things with her. I say go for it! The signs are all there! &#92;m/
155247
why don't you ask her next time you speak to her or next time she looks at you wave to her, that usually says a silent "hello". if she likes being around you, there's a good chance she doesn't have a b/f, so what's stopping you?after all there's no harm in asking, is there? before someone else does and you could regret it later.
624065
Yep if you told me that when you first met me I would be scared,, but again she may appreciate your honesty up front.\nIt's anyone's guess whether she will see you again,, just wait it out and see.
336137
Yes I was afraid and said no after our 2nd date and have  regretted it ever since as I missed out on a very good opportunity. You never get a second chance.\n\nTherefore if it is not right move on til it feels right.\n\nGood Luck
455589
Wait to see what her reaction is. See how she acts around you the next couple of days. Don't come on too strong. Play it cool.
222071
im thinking if your thinking about taking a shot at being w/ her, I would go for it.. By her response and what you were saying in the poem, to me she is clearly giving a green light.. go for it .. good luck.. nice poem.. I might have to borrow that... lol