also what should i do if im scared to ask a guy out?
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God nidhidavey! Don't tell her to be a prostitute, she say's she wants a guy not an STD!
22950
I have the exact same problem i am so scared to ask him becouse i do not know what he will say. Maybe you should try to talk to him and work your way up. Maybe he likes you to.
462956
you could always make the first move and ask him out instead of waiting until he figures out that you like him. good luck ! =D
538606
It's not wrong, if you like a guy, then go for it. I don't know what this guy's problem is, but just forget about him. You didn't scare him away by asking him out. I would never have the courage to ask a guy out. IF he was weirded out, then he's not good enough for you. If probably just wasn't interested, you can still keep an eye out for him, but don't get your hopes up. I would keep my eye out for someone else to ask out too (if I had the courage). I think it's good that you're not waiting for someone else to start your life. Go for it!
94021
If you are to shy to ask him out, try asking a group including him to go out. Invite he and his friends to go out with you and your friends someplace.
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Just conquer your fears and go for it.\n\nAsk how he is doing and if he would like to hang out sometimes.
1351
Just do it... more then likely hes just as afraid as you are... he may look intimidating.. but hes not.. hes just a regular guy.. ya never know he may surprise ya.. just start talking to him then mention a movie or dinner or something.
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be yourself..make sure you have enough courage and maybe if you first ask him out to hang with some of your friends that will make u more comfortable and then a date on your own and go from there that could also push him to ask u
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A girl asking out a guy is not desperate, in fact it's a pretty common thing nowadays.  As for being hella scary, well, that part can't be denied.  It's always a frightening thing to put yourself out there when you are uncertain of what the response will be.  The feelings you have for him have nutured a hope, and should he decline, it would be the end of a very promising, very wonderful dream.  The thing is, as wonderful as having a crush is, it is even better when you have those feelings reciprocated.  And if one of you doesn't make a move, that may never happen.  From the sounds of what you say, it is very likely that he likes you too.  For all you know, he's on here right now asking what the best way to ask out this amazing girl is.  You won't know unless you talk to him.  \nIf you can work up the courage to ask him about this, you've got a lot of good things going for you. First, girls look damn cute when they're nervous, so even if you feel like you're talking like a monkey etc., he'll think its cute.  I know because I've had a couple of guys I managed to ask out tell me this very thing.  Second, if he wasn't interested before, your confidence and forwardness could very well instigate attraction.  Like I said, times are a changing, and a lot of guys like a girl who knows what she wants.  And last, I know it's scary, but you aren't going to seem desperate, you aren't going to seem pathetic, and if the worst happens and he doesn't want to pursue something more than friendship with you, well, he'll still feel flattered, and he'll still want to be your friend, and you'll know where you stand.\nI wouldn't be too scared though, seriously, from the sounds of it, he's just too scared to make a move, and he's just wishing that you would walk up to him and say " you know, i really like you..." so he can sweep you off your feet and you can live happily ever after!
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Confidence is sexy - you arent going to get his attention without approaching him, so take a deep breath, think about what you are going to say, and go for it. Guys love it when a girl has the guts to ask him out.
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Be yourself and don't be scared to talk to him he is probably is just as scared to talk to you. Beleve it or not guys are just as scared to talk as girls are. So if you like him bite the bullet and talk to him before someone else does. Good luck.
575809
welcome to a mans world with the fear of rejection.  If you don't do anything now, you might pass up a great thing.  You never know until you do something about it.  Ask him if he wants to do dinner sometime.
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lol learn how to type but if your question is how to ask a guy out its simple\n\n1. start a simple conversation and gradually work your way into it\n2. you can write him a note if shes shy then give it to a freind to give to him\n3. Who cares if a buddy asks for you some people are just shy im not in that category but still alot of people are and he needs to get over himself!
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Just take a few deep breaths and realize he is probably just as nervous as you are.  He is just another person, no one to really be afraid of.  And remember, if you say somehting wrong/silly around him, he will probably just chuckle and forget about it and that's all you can do too
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u had better tell him cause he might like u and he might think u dont like him and not make a move on u because he is scared of rejection, go for it
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You should get to know dis guy first then get him intrested maybe he will relize you aren't so bad then maybe he will ask u out.
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i was the same way you are. i liked this guy and i wanted to ask him out. i was afraid to because i was afraid of being rejected.the thing is girls arnt the only ones afriad of rejection. guys are also afraid of rejection.for all you know it he could like you back but is afriad that you dont like him, so he is afraid that you will reject him.just go for it. ask him out, you two could actually end up together at the end.rejection is going to happen to you eventually wether its rejection from a job,college, etc. so why not get over the fear and ask him. you only live once so make the best of it and take chances.