I mean if you see a man who is much better than your husband, better face or body and is interested to make relation with you, in case if your husband is not able to suspect any thing, so will you make sex with that man?
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No i have never cheated on my partner and i never would if it got to that point i would have the respect to leave him before i even thought about another man
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There is no way to know unless you have developed a relationship where you can see his true character, and where he can see yours.\n\nCheating means breaking rules.  What are the rules?  If you don't know what your rules are and you don't know what his rules are, he might be cheating in your book, and having a good fair time in his.\n\nI believe in abstinence before marriage, so if you are sleeping with him, you are both cheating in my book.\n\nOnce again, it's a matter of rules and knowledge.  If you both have the same rules, you need to know each other well enough to just understand and then your question will dissapear.  But that you have the question would indicate to me that you aren't both playing with the same rules--or maybe you have none at all.  Then he can't be cheating no matter what he's doing.
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Okay, I'm going to go out on a limb on this one and say if your Yahoo Icon picture is any example of how you behave on a day-to-day basis, then you're asking for the attention of other men.  I believe you like your husband to be jealous; otherwise, you wouldn't promote yourself in public with that type of picture, or with a name that suggests someone who has absolutely no intention of staying married to one man.
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And you look exactly like a Greek God, yeah.  If you are a married man, you should realize there is competition out there. If you are a married man, you should be in the top 10% of the most handsome men where ever you live. If you are not, you won't be able to keep your wife. This is not a fairy tale world we live in....just keepin it real...  nuff said!
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I think all threw your life even when u get married and or have a BF u will always be attracted to other people we are only human, but for the sake of your husband who prob. loves u a lot id deff just be friends with this guy because u don't want to brake someones heart or mess up his marriage
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The saying 'playing with fire' applies here... make sure that both you and your husband have a strong enough relationship that you won't be accusing one another of paying too much attention to your new play mate.
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No, it doesn't mean you don't really love him. Some of the things my husband does embarasses me. If I think he could be a 'better' person, then I suggest to him about changing. Sometimes I just live with it. :-)
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My husband weighs 250 and hes hot.  He has a shaved head too does that count?  Anyway I think he is hot but what is most important is his personality and the way he treats me.  That is seriously what attracted me to him, not to be sappy or anything.  So that would be a yes.
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I tend to choose a man for his character.  Do I like who I am when I am with him?  Am I comfortable around him?  Is he respected in the community?  Other things like that.  With that said, a nice face and fly size is a bonus.
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Depends.\nSometimes I smile wayy too much and can't find good/witty things to say for the life of me to him because I'm so distracted. So in other words: I may look like a, uh, smiling idiot.\n\nI will ALWAYS notice his presence... whether or not I show it, which I usually do if we are close enough to make eye contact.\n\nI may find excuses to be around him. \n\nI am much more responsive to him if he sends me a quick email or asks me some questions about myself.\n\nI look at his face/into his eyes much much longer than men I don't like.\n\nI admit I've sometimes ignored them to try to forget about them, or to avoid showing I'm very interested, or even once so I wouldn't have to breathe on them because I just ate some garlicky thing.\n\nOne way you can find out if a woman is interested is innocently go into her personal space and see if she lets you or pulls back. If she likes you, her body language will do a bit of talking and she may let you farther into her bubble than other people.\n\nAs for us not admitting in liking someone... it's because we want to be wanted and it sucks to lay it all out there and be rejected, especially in a work situtation or situation where you know you'll see the person a lot in the future. I know this is the same for men, but I find that if a man wants you, he wants you, and you can't convince them to like you by pouring your heart out. So I'd rather stay quiet until the man knows what he wants. If you are interested in a woman like me, charm me up and watch my reaction. You'll know quite soon where we stand.
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Personally, I wouldn't want my hubby to do that. \nHowever, talk to your wife about it first to see if she's okay with it. Even if you disguise her face people will still link it back to being her. So, if your wife is okay with it, then I don't see any harm to it.
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Honestly?  I don't think it matters.  The guy I was in love with for YEARS before I met my husband isn't overly good-looking, but he's very intelligent, kind, interesting, talented (he writes poetry, sings, and plays the guitar), a good father, loyal, sensitive...basically, he's the perfect man.\nWe weren't meant for each other though.  Still really good friends.\nMy point is, looks don't really matter so much, as long as you take good care of yourself, and you pay more attention to your personality.\nAs a sidenote, if your avatar really is how you look, you're not bad-looking at all.  You kind of remind me of Peter Steele (lead singer of Type O Negative).
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All men are visual creatures.  Most men like to look at the female body, we find it attractive.  We do not have sex with a woman based on the way we "feel" about her, it's about the way she looks.  Just because your husband is getting the visual stimulation from watching porn, it doesn't mean that he isn't attracted to you.  He propbaly lied to you about the porn because you admitted to watching it "to make him feel okay" and he believes that you dissaprove of it and he doesn't want to offend you.  So, if you are truly okay with it, let it ride.  If not, he'll keep hiding it.  Nevertheless, boys will be boys, don't let it get to you.
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Not necessarily......just being friends with someone who happens to be attractive does not mean they are having an affair.  It could be that after she spends time with him she realizes how lucky she is to have you, that explains why her sex drive is up.\n\nThis question is far to vague and asks more questions before an opinion can be formed.
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Yes, i think it is perfectly normal for happily married people to get enamored with another person from time to time...! The flirting that you think came from him may just be friendly interaction...I wouldn't risk acting on my feelings if i were you! You may embarrass yourself, and alienate your hubby! Good luck...
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Of course, I will rather have a good and faithful husband than to have a fun loving or gorgeous man! A good husband will be the perfect lifelong companion but a gorgeous looking man can only be a short term partner! Nothing can be compared to having a reliable and wonderful husband, don't you agree? He's unlikely cheat on you and do things to hurt you. And when a guy truly loves you, you'll know, it's for real and you know his love is sincere! I'm thinking are you on the verge of thinking cheating your hubby? If not, you wldn't have ask us for advices. Don't ever do something that will make you regret for life and also hurt another party. Don't ever try to ruin a happy marriage too!!!
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i will choose the intellectually stimulating person. he may not be that handsome like richard gere or tom cruise, but he has the knowledge and wisdom that will make him look more handsome than those people i mentioned.\n\nalso, he may not be sexually desirable guy, since he  is intelligent enough, he can be taught on how to be sexually desirable guy. anyhow, being sexually desirable is not a talent, it is earned thru experiences. and i will teach him more experiences than can make him more desirable in sex, and i am lucky because it will be for me only.