i want to have sex with my partner in the sea or bath room deep in the water ...so i afraid if water come to her vagina ...she become sick ...help me to find out the answer .
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The only way it could harm her is if the water is unclean or if a jet of water goes up her vagina which wouldn't happen during sex unless you are using the shower hear or water skiing while you do it or soemthing like that, lol. If you REALLY want to have sex in the water, try doing it either in the shower or in the bath, but make sure there is only water in it and not bubble bath or oils or anything, as it's very easy for a woman to get a yeast infection if the pH of her vagina becomes unbalanced.
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It may have nothing to do with you. She may just be more likely to get them. I am the same way. However, sex and oral sex can cause it, no matter how clean you, because it pushes bacteria into the urethra sometimes, so people who are naturally sensitive to them have a higher chance after sex or oral sex sometimes. \n\nWhen I was having my problem, the doctor said there is something you can continue to take to prevent them, but I never actually needed, they stopped on their own. \n\nCranberry juice might not be a bad idea either.\n\nOh and anytime she is touched down there, from you rubbing her to her wiping, it needs to be from front to back since the anus has bacteria that can cause infections and by rubbing the wrong way, it can cause the bacteria to transfer there. Once my boyfriend learned to not rub me from back to front, my problems went away.
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It's fine to try these things, they won't do any damage to the urinary tract. It's worth noting that excessive use of a vib-rator can cause the clitoris to become desensitised though, so while they're fun to use now and then, it's best not to rely on them solely. As for the water in the bath or from the shower head......wow........that's all I can say!
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All of it has to happen naturally you shouldn't have to plan this in your head... Use protection !!There are many std's
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it is not true, the fact that people still believe things like that is still amazing to me. AIDS can not just come from any where. if you had aids regardless of your period if you and boyfriend where having unprotected sex he will contract it. but if you where both clean before sex regardless of what fluids were exchange you will be clean afterwards. AIDS can not develop were there is no virus.
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It's entirely possible that she has a yeast infection... \n\nMany things can cause it, and you can catch it from her, though it's not as likely as her catching it from you (just plain plumbing issues)\n\nYeast infections are very uncomfortable, expecially when extra fluids are being secreted as in sexual contact.  It causes itching and burning sensations.\n\nAs to whether she is telling the truth or not, I cannot say.  But if it's true, then it's a darn good excuse...  look around the bathroom for something called Canesten or any other antifungal creams or suppositories.  (yes I said FUNGAL - sounds nice doesn't it... believe me, if she has it you do not want to go there... be patient with her.. .it'll be gone in a week or so)
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Showering after sex should not have anything to do with preventing a UTI.  It's the not urinating after sex that can contribute to that.  But, I do understand that many recommend staying laying down when TTC.  So, right before you have sex, make sure you have emptied your bladder.  Avoid rough sex.  Try using a lubricant like KY.  Make sure you shower BEFORE sex and that your butt is scrupulously clean.  Always wipe from front to back (and using wipes after a bowel movement is an excellent habit to get into).  Avoid wearing thong underwear.  Never put anything near the vagina that has been near the anus.  Get cranberry pills from a health food store or online and take them every day.  Most UTI's are caused by bacteria from the anal area getting into the urinary tract.  Some people have honeymoon cystitis which is from having a lot of sex or rough sex that irritates the urethra and can make it more suseptible to infection.  But MOST UTI's can be prevented with scrupulous hygiene.  If you have had frequent UTI's in the past, you may feel like you are having another one, but it can be bladder spasms caused by previous insult to the bladder.  Sex can aggrevate and bring on those spasms.  The next time you think you have gotten a UTI from sex, have your urine tested by your doc (or they do have OTC tests now) to see if indeed it is a UTI.  There are medications for bladder spasms, but they have side effects and should probably not be taken if you may be pregnant anyway.  Good luck!!
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Generally speaking the human body knows what it needs.  If your lady friend is sore and not up to it then you should wait.  I have heard of endowed men ripping vaginal tissue in women and the tissue needing to heal.  I have heard of men needing to rest after pushing to hard on nonwet vaginal tissue, and ripping penis skin.  But if you are of normal size, she was wet and you didn`t jack rabbit her...id say you are good to go so to speak as soon as the two of you want.
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no it wouldn't, listen to the name "wetsuit!!" it simply lets water into the suit and allows your body to warm up that water and thats waht insulates you from the cold. so dont got inot the ocean with a wetsuit, you'll get an infection.
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That's  a tough one. Depends on how you want to approach him...\n You may say something like, "gee, feel free to use the shower anytime you'd like. I don't mind us using water for necessary things like bathing."\n\nI dont know... as I said, thats a tough situation. Hard to figure out a plan that wont hurt feelings. \n\nGood Luck!
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Hello:\nThis is in response to your question posted concerning oral sex and infections. As far as getting infections from either receiving or performing oral sex, yes you can transmit gonorrhea, chlamydia, HIV, HPV (human papilloma virus) and possibly other infections that are not usually considered sexually transmitted. Your comment about being "young" doesn't preclude either one of you from contracting or transmitting STD's. In fact, the largest, fastest growing population of new HIV infections is in the age group 16-24 years old. Now if both of you were virgins when you met and you are sure neither of you has been with anyone else then you are highly unlikely to have any infections. You wouldn't believe how many teens do not consider oral sex having sex but it is. As far as "catching anything from the bacteria in his mouth", it is highly unlikely that you would get anything from him. I treat a lot of people, especially young patients 16-30 years of age for sexually transmitted diseases. The only thing that comes to mind is that if he is a carrier of Group B strep, he can transmit that to your vagina and the only problem with that is, if you get pregnant, the bacteria can cause miscarriages, stillbirths or serious life-threatening infections in the newborn. Now as far as using a condom, the answer is YES. You should use a condom 100% of the time with coitus (penetration) and oral sex. Gonorrhea can cause a severe form of pharyngitis (infection of the throat, kind of like strep throat) but much worse. There is a theoretical possibility that one can transmit HIV through saliva but the risk is very, very low. The normal bacteria in all humans mouths usually cannot be transmitted to the vagina unless you have a cut or abrasion (a break in the skin in and around your vagina/clitoris/urethra) and if you do get an infection from it, it is usually a mild urinary tract infection that can easily be treated with antibiotics. You would know if you had a urinary tract infection because it would be very uncomfortable when you urinate, there could be a foul odor to your urine, you may see blood in the urine, feeling like you have to pee all of the time, back pain, and feeling like you are not finishing urinating when you go to the bathroom. \nI hope this was helpful in answering your questions and I think you are very intelligent and curious to ask such a sensitive question over the internet.\nBest regards, \nWarren Shaffer, M.D.
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we just do it in the shower(stand-up doggystyle), not  a problem. If he's squeamish(I'm not) just tell him not to look down. The water washes it away fairly quickly anyway, but make sure you use lube. My gf says she likes it cause it speeds her period up by about a day, and makes her flow seem lighter.
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wait untill yuor married to a clean person then you wouldn't have to worry about crap like that. AIDS HERPES, DEATH STB= Seavualy Transmited Babys
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How much do you like her?\nHow much do you love her?\nIt's ok to be cautious, considering there are some STD's that have no cure.\nBut maybe you need to take your heart out of that chest you have locked up with a key and surounded by a reinforced concrete container and start taking changes and live you life with someone special to you!
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.... hahaha .... ok that was funny ... blue vagina !\n\nSorry I had to laugh ... It's almost time for me to go home from work and I get a little antsy ... !\n\nI'm not sure what would cause her "thing" to hurt like that .. maybe she was just soar from her "thing" being enlarged, swollen & wet  ( which happens with the right amount of foreplay )
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There are many lubricants and WOW are they slippery !!!  They get even slippery with alittle water, such as swimming, hottub, or saliva.  FUN FUN !\n\nCertainly she should not worry about it... just rise to the occasion and mett it head on !  This is more common than many of you realize and certainly nothing to be embarrassed about.  \n\nAaaaaaagh life a s woman can be damn interesting and annoying at times... HA HA HA HA !!
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Waaaah, Stephie!!!  Your teacher is crazy wrong!  To answer the initial question, can you get an STD from oral sex?  Yes.  Herpes is the most common.  If someone has genital herpes it can go to someone's mouth.  OR (and here's the crazy one) if someone has cold sores, that can become genital herpes.  Someone can also get something gross like chlamydia in their throat, but honestly, it's not all that common.  But know your partner, get tested and use protection!  That's what flavored condoms and dental dams are for!!!