my sister is dieing to know who this guy is and I don't know if I should tell my mom or my sister HELP!!!!!!!
212907
Nothing wrong in keeping it to yourself for a while. Tell them when you are ready.
57718
yes .. you have to tell her , right now .. pick the phone and tell her ..\nshe won't like it later when she finds out that you knew that he is a cheeter !!
186493
I think if you are good friends with the mom you should ask her or if you and your bf are close and you don't think he would lie to you ask him. Look forward to hearing from you.
672315
tell her before she finds out form someone else. if it is her brother, she will upset if you do not tell her yourself. \n\nwith the other girl, well, u liked him first so u just need to go for him! but make sure it is ok with his sis first. the ask him out before the other girl can get to it.
33595
She's your SISTER.  the dud... lol, I mean the dude is just another n*gga... (crossing racial barriers here), the guy doesn't care if he offends his woman and doesn't care if he sleeps around with God knows how many chics on the side.  of course you should tell her.
459494
Oh girl I am in the same situation, except it is my sister's HUSBAND!!!  Personally, I would put him in his place.  Tell him you are not interested in him like that.  If he continues then you will have to be a little more forceful and start avoiding him whenever possible.  Never be alone with him.  Everything he does to you try to document it.  Save his emails, voicemails, and text messages, because when your friend does find out guess who she is going to believe....not you.  Cover yourself.  Also, try to get him to hit on a third party friend and show your friend what an idiot he really is.
275673
Wait until the time FEELs right. I think you are still exploring. Nothing wrong with finding out who you are before announcing it to the world. or your parents. you will feel more natural in it as you delve into it and your emotions. maybe try living on your own first and making your own life, then telling her will seem more safe?
141782
Why can't you tell your Mom? Where are you getting teased at? I would walk away and I would seriously think about telling someone who you can trust that will help you.
314675
well dont tell your bro. Have the person come in ur room alone for a min. Tell him you need help or sumthin. then tell him. ask him if he feels the same. Finaly make  him promise not to tell ur bro and dont be public.
514864
You need to tell your dad all of what you've written here and then your mom and her gf need to be investigated by child welfare.  You're a child and shouldn't have to take the responsibility of protecting your sisters -- that's your dad's job but he can't do what is right if he doesn't know what is going on.\n\nADDITIONAL THOUGHTS:\n\nWhy have criminal charges not been brought against those who perpetrated abuse against you?\n\nIf you have already reported this to the police and child welfare and your sister's deny that anything is happening, then there is very little you can do.  At some point your sisters may get fed up with the abuse and report it themselves.   All you can do is let them know that should they need you and Dad in the future, that you'll be there for them.  But no, I don't think you should stay home from college to protect them especially if they don't want your protection.
265471
maybe u should tell ur sister frist so ur can get the worst aprt over with and then go tell Nate how u feel about him, and from ur story it sounds like he may have feelings for u too
444847
If l was you l would tell him to stay away from the both of you. You are right he is a jerk !! He is playing both of you for fools. How did he think he would get away with this rubbish ? Tell him  that you are going to tell your sister everything and she will  also know what a jerk he is. That should be enough to scare him off, if that doesn't keep him away, try putting up some posters with his photo, name and details of what he did around your neighbourhood. That will definately do it. Good Luck.
573709
You can talk to your mom about how you feel about her partner.  Let her know you are worried for her safety as well as your own safety.  You can only let her know how you feel and try to point things out to her - you can't make her see the light or get rid of him.
73542
I have been in the same situation as you.  My father wouldn't give me any information so I asked other family members what they knew especially the last name and where he lived.  I contacted him and he was glad to finally meet me. Talking will be awkward at first like meeting any new person but take your time and a bond will be formed.  Good Luck
254908
well maybe he's not ready to admit it.coming out is a huge deal and takes a LOT of courage-and the last thing he needs is confrontation.if you're a good friend of his-let alone his best friend-try to give him room to breathe, think and summon the courage to come out.in the meantime, if your little sisters are using the same computer and you're afraid they could stumble on the sites, just erase the history on the computer so they won't be able to revisit the same sites. good luck to you both
161399
don't tell her until you both decide to. blood is thicker than water (sisters can mess you up)!
154329
dont say nothin its really none of there business you are who you are im sure they already know my mom said shes known for a while your mom knows shes just scared to say anything dont tell them separate if you wanna tell tell your mom first then  have her sit down with you and your dad