Cam anybody help me  iM scared of talking to girls even though i act cool fearless girls are one thing i cant talk to i think i should give up can u help me
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Goke Just becausee u gave up to day doesn't mean i wont give up no ya these people are giving u really good answers seriously take it there is always the next day stay strong ur buudy Eric\nDont worrry about tori she dont eveb know who u are anymore just chill u havce more friends
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These girls sound young and immature, they are just very insecure.  \n\nYou sound smart, so stay above it, and don't get involved.  Hang with girls that make you feel good about yourself.\n\nPeace....
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Hey.. you sound so sweet! \n\nSometimes you need to step out of your comfort zone and face your true fears. If you dont your not really going to grow and develop.\n\nI really dont see what options you have in this situation. Be confident, relax and have fun and people will want to be around you.\n\nGood luck
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yes you should. when you suppress what you feel, and not way to vent, your only hurting yourself. if you are scared, record yourself in a room and upload it online and see what people think. the most important thing though is how you feel about yourself. know who you are and then the confidence will shine through.
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i have the same problem..but it's not just with girls, ...i'm just not much of a talker. But u work on it by forcong yourself to be more loose. I've improved alot.\n\nsounds corny but u can even rehearse things you wanna say in certain situations
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Rejection is a part of life and Ive been rejected alot. Step out of your comfort zone and approach people who u want to talk to. It might be scary at first but in the end you'll be glad that u've tried
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It depends on your personality if you are timid it may be difficult for you to stand up to her. 9 times out of 10 if you let her know you're not afraid of her by standing your ground she will get the picture that you are not to be bullied. It always seems to be the quiet ones that can only take so much and then they flip out and whoop azz so she better stop pushing your buttons. Otherwise, talk to her alone invite her to hang out then when you guys go out tell her you always got the vibe that she didn't like you. Sometimes all it takes is getting to know somebody and then they see you aren't so bad. Good luck if that doesn't work put some eye drops in her drink it causes extreme diarrehea and it's hilarious.
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i was really nervous around guys until i realized that they weren't jst these big intimidating things, that they could be thinking the same thing i was! if u see her in the hall, say what's up, or something and she'll think ur friendly and be more comfortable around you. make sure u get 2 know her before u become committed. patching things up w/ her sis can't hurt either. and if she turns u down, move on! i know u've probably heard that a ton, but if u get over it quickly, other girls will appreciate your independence, and who knows, it might even help u get the girl!
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They're porbably afraid of what to say to you.  They probably have never had something like that happen before and so they're scared.  Your true friends hopefully feel safe and not scared to be around you and talk to you.  It just takes some time for them to get used to you.  Have a conversation with them and your guidance counselor.  Basically, all you can do is give it some time.  If you don't feel comfortable, have a conversation with your parents about possiblility of transferring schools.  Good luck, I hope you're doing better.  stick with it, life is very precious and you're special, don't ever forget that.
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I feel your pain--I was so shy when I was your age I would panic if someone talked to me, or a friend called me on the phone.  It was terrible.\n\nI am not sure by your question if you are wanting to overcome your shyness, but what I did was started reading books (back then we didnt have the internet) on public speaking, making friends, what to say in social settings, how to make small talk, etc.  I also read up on self esteem building, and many years later I feel comfortable in public settings, and also have done several public speaking engagements in my field.\n\nI am not saying you should NOT be shy or change how you are.  If you are comfortable with who you are, and your friends are not, then find friends who respect you for who you are.  I chose to overcome my shyness because it really was limiting my life.\n\nGood luck!  You have a great life ahead of you!
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Well i know how you feel b/c i am a shy girl, but you have to think if you cant ever talk to her than how will she ever to get to know you. I know popular people can be very intimidating but just work up the courage to talk to her. Once you do you'll feel alot better n then it'll be alot easier to approach people.
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First this is not a problem at all. Take this junk out of ur mind. Making friends with girls is not a problem provided u appear nice, good , trustworthy, compatible and so on and so forth. just look for tht secret charm within urself that makes u different from other men and make sure u look confident and positive when u talk to girls. dont try try to b a casanova and also dont try to ape somebody. be natural and urself. thats the trait any person loves in another person------something 'different'\n\n(gimme 10 points if it works)
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No, as I've gotten older I've found it much easier to approach others. But that's beside the point really. What you need to do is force yourself to come up to people in your class. Your teacher, and your friends out in public. Just start by saying "Hi" and go from there. :) People love talking and if you get a big "talker" then you won't have to worry about saying much. Never be afraid of what people think of you. You are your own person and you shouldn't care what they think. If you say something stupid, laugh it off! I have to a lot. Goodness, just the other day that happened to me and I just laughed. It's like walking into a pole in front of a guy you have a crush on. You just step back, say "wow, that was stupid" and start laughing! It's really freeing! Trust me, I have actually run into things around guys that I've liked in the past! Yeah, it's embarrassing, but that feeling goes away after a while and you feel more confident in yourself. Good luck to ya!
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Honestly there is no easy fix for this. You just have to put yourself in a situation where you have to talk. If you are really that uncomfortable with it and you are in school consider taking the dreaded speech class. It will force you to get up and talk in front of people. The best way to get over a fear like this is to tackle it. Hope that this helps and I wish you luck!
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You are too good to fight a girl. first of all and second what are you accomplishing, you are a young beautiful independent lady and you are going to lower yourself to that of trash. dont do it
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ask if she has myspace its easier to talk thru comments or messages or ask for her aim screename or aol, or yahoo, or msn screename, talking thru screenames isss way easier and they hopefully thatll get you comfortable, & i know this will seem tough but if u really wana just talk to her in person then u just gotta break the wall and talk w her and try and connect u will have such a relief on yourself and not waste anyones time especially your own. also a good way to talk w someone your shy around in person is to take a shot or 2 of vodka or whatever drink u prefer but dont get wasted just a slight buzz but not noticeable to anyone but u itll calm u for sure
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Dude just be yourself and get the courage up and talk to her and don't be shy about just relax and i'm sure things will go just fine. You shouldn't put yourself down you have to learn how to accept who you are 1st then that confidence will take you a long way.You can tell if she likes you when you start talking to her she'll act really shy and nervous around you and also look at you from time to time.So i hoped this out.-PEACE OUT