u know she broke up with me but i dont know why.  i have done so much things for her.  i even gave her four-leaf clover and it took me five days to find that thing and for her birthday present i gave her watch, perfume, and the letter.  We walked school together and even though she was late to meet me i didnt care and i always smiled at her.  And i helped her gave her alot of stuff. and before we went out i asked her three times and she said he wanna be friends and i still didnt give up. and we finally went out then she said her parent disprove our relationship and she said she feels different about our feeling. i mean when we went out, she was ticlkling me and tickled her back and i mean we had fun but i dont know why her feeling have changed that fast. i dont know what to do. And she even said ur perfect and romentic. i talk to her every week on the phone for like 10 hours. do u think she really feels different about me? or becuase of her parents. is there any way i can get her back?
211647
just move on man. give her some space and if she comes back, be thankful, if not be thankful, too cause there are more fishes greater than her. youll find someone that will treat you the way you should be treated.
94347
First know why she came bacjk and why she left you... If it seems that its for your own good and know that she's got better things for you now... then see if she's true to what she is saying... why not... since she's the reason why your here...
524376
Hey Thor, I've been there. So, i can feel what you are going thru. Let me tell you this..Leave the past alone. Dont think of it. I didnt see you writting that you love her. True that u have feelings for her & she is ur 1st. But still, she broke up with you.i.e dont want to be with you. Move on...leave ny thing that remind you with her. Look to the future. It will take time to move on i know...but time is all what you have
233465
she misses you....i dont think she really wanted to break up with you...its that or she still cares for you..not exactly loves you but she still hopes the best for u...maybe you should talk to her sometime and just see how shes doing..maybe start going out again ..
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i think you should stop calling her. I realize it will be difficult as sounds as though you really care for her but she is playing with your feelings. Sounds like she is out for her and not ready to be in a relationship. A friend of mine just went through something similar. Each time he got hurt more and more.  Guess I would tell her how you feel about what she is doing then if it continues its time to find someone new or accept the fact that is how she is.
128912
Sometimes we go through these things before we find out why we left to begain with and than we want them back. So one more chance dont hurt if you still care. Go buy her a present and you two enjoy a special brithday together and if someone knocks on the door dont answer it. This will be both of your time alone.\n\nI came back and seen what else you typed she didnot show up then but if she is wanting to make up, try one more time you have nothing to lose. This time maybe different i sure hope so you seem to care alot and thats hard to get from someone is the love you have for her. From me to you i hope you find away for you both.
276261
I know what is going on here, I had the same thing happen to me to, she broke up with me and then one day she called me and kept calling me. She probably made a mistake by breaking it off, and now that she realizes that, she wants to try to reconcile that and see if there is possibly another chance that you two might get back together. Don't be surprised if she says, "I miss you" the next time you two talk if she hasn't already said it. Hopefully all will work out for you, take care.
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I  would NOT go out with her again.  I would however give her my foot up her butt!  Why put yourself thru the heartache and drama when you know she makes a habit of dumping u at the drop of a pin?  Dont do that to yourself.  YOU DESERVE to find a girl who is going to love you and respect your feelings and this girl is completely selfish, immature, and uncaring.  The only person she cares about is herself!  Get rid of her for good!  Find a girl who will love u and not desert you every week!  Good luck to u!  DONT PUT YOURSELF THRU THEHEARTACHE OF THIS GIRL ANYMORE!
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what she did...how quickly she seemed to "get over you" hurt you...when people hurt us, it's hard to forget that pain we went through...\nbut you know what i've found out? our brains are very powerful organs...if we choose to not let it hurt us, then pretty soon we'll convince ourselves that it doesn't...maybe think of it in a different way...obviously she was trying to move on as quickly as possible b/c it hurt her too much to be without you...have you thought of it this way?...maybe it was her defense mechanism so she wouldn't be hurting so bad, either...obviously she still loved you b/c she came back to you...\nlife gets to be routine and sometimes can feel like you're in a rut or bored...but you know what? a good relationship isn't worth throwing away over a little boredom...if you really love each other, then find new ways of doing things...do things you wouldn't normally do...go on a vacation together and experience something new together...like hiking or white water rafting...something in which you won't be alone the whole time...spice up your sex life...\nyou take care of your part...you plan things to surprise her...you know, do your part and she'll do hers...come up with a list of things you want to do and plan them out according to your finances and do them together...\nbut trust me, being in a rut with a good person is worth way more than jumping from relationship to relationship trying to find something new...
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well kiddo...(j/k ,im 13 ) well i dont know if you do care about her or not but its most likly you do b/c u posted it ...so my advice is to find out her favrit flower and buy her 50 to 1000 flowers of that kind  and im preatty sure you'll get her back and if that dont work... then you really f****d it up for both of you up !!!!!!\nbut trust me...EVERY girl LOVES flowers!!!!!(and a huge teddy bear)
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She's a bit insecure, and like the idea of having you on a leash.\n\nshe is playing emotional mind games with you and keeping you hanging on, pretending that you may have a chance.\n\nShe may also have broken up with you because she wanted to start another relationship with someone else, and then the other guy blew her off - she is stuck in a rut and has no-one to give her attention - and she knows that you still have feelings, so she calls you again, and makes a re-connection.\n\nshe is playing games with you - trust me, I have done this to a few guys, it's not nice but it's part of life.\n\nif you really wanna give it another go, try and get back with her, but give her conditions and ground rules, so she doesn't take advantage of your naivety and vulnerability, cos she knows that you are a bit soft and gullible, etc... sorry.\n\nanyway, if i was you, i'd GET RID!
485305
Cherish, you have done all that you can do. The best thing you can now is to begin making new friends. I always tell younger people such as yourself to make as many friends in this life as possible, because you never know what around the corner. Hopefully she will wise up and be the friend to you that she was before. But don't  sit around waiting ok. Don't worry your heart will heal.
262490
sounds like she used you.  she could see how you felt about her by how you treated her.  some girls/women are idiots & don't realize a good thing when they have it.  just move on & find someone else.
400414
I'd say she's feeling lonely and want you back. If you still love her, move your butt out of that computer chair and ask her to have lunch or dinner with you. I wish you two best of luck. Remember, there may not be any 2nd chances like this.
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we meet new people everyday.and someone affects us in someway.we cant fight it.we are humans.not God.I guess, being in love with your current girl is not everything it is in the relationship.maybe you have longed for more and you never realised it.probably,this girl you just met made you to feel much better, someway.perhaps this is how you wanted to feel or to be treated.7 years of a relationship is very long.and it started when you were a teen.hats off to you, but now you are saying that this girl makes you to feel special.means that you are being appreciated.maybe this is what you expected from your gf. you never had it.there's no growth in your relationship.you guys have stopped explaoring each orther.maybe she thinks she knows in and out of you.but you know there's more.more about you. be frank about your feelings to your gf.she deserves to know on how you are feeling about the relationship.maybe she has an answer too.
232471
It sounds like she might have something for you. But until you ask, you'll never know. Start off slow, and ask her if she's ready for a relationship. If she says no, leave things alone. If she asks why, tell her you were just wondering. If she says yes, ask her out. If she says she wants a relationship with you, tell her glad you are, and how good it makes you feel. Noone can answer the question to wether or not your just used to having a companion around, and that's why you miss her, or whether or not you love her and she loves you. You'll just have to ask. But before you jump into things, stop and think about how it is you really feel, and make sure you really do want her back, and that she wants you back.
25666
The date didn`t seem bad at all...and i don`t think the freeway thing scared her off so bad that she doesn`t wanna meet u anymore. She just came out of a relationship maybe she wants to wait a little be4 she gets serious again. U said u told her everything...did u also tell her that u are understanding if she doesn`t want to rush into a new relationship? About the b day...how about u send her a nice b day card with a coupon for a nice dinner?Or...u go over there give her some flowers and the card with the dinner coupon in there..?If she says yes to dinner u guys have some time to talk  and u can let her know that u never wanted to put pressure on her. U know her since 3 yrs..and u still didn`t give up i think thats awesome and i wish u the best of luck !