i like this girl a lot and she says that she likes me a lot too but when i ask her out she says that she isnt ready for another relationship so what do i do
205940
if she says she isn't ready, she isn't ready but the best relationships start out as friends.  and I'm sure she wouldn't mine that.  its possible if your there when she is ready supporting her now could make you desirable when she's ready.
343796
i think you should stop calling her. I realize it will be difficult as sounds as though you really care for her but she is playing with your feelings. Sounds like she is out for her and not ready to be in a relationship. A friend of mine just went through something similar. Each time he got hurt more and more.  Guess I would tell her how you feel about what she is doing then if it continues its time to find someone new or accept the fact that is how she is.
315199
She might have gone out with the guy once or twice or maybe they are just not really serious at this point.  There might be room for you if you are persistant.  Ask her what exactly she means.  Ask her if she is into this guy or if they are just hanging out until something else comes along or what.  Then you will know where to go from there.
237992
I don't think she was ready to hear that. shes avoiding you. I just feel you should stay away for awhile, coz you have already shown it all to her that you like her. I don't think shes shy...shes just not ready or this was really an unexpected thing to her. Stay away for a while, Not completely--do keep intouh.. and lets see if she'll make any move... \nCheer up! and Good Luck :)
225249
I'm sorry to say that means she's not really "into" you anymore.  It will hurt for awhile, but try to move on and date new girls.  Go ahead and be friendly, and for heavens sake don't burn any bridges.  Just be cool, give her space and do a little fishin for that one and a million fish in the sea!  Good Luck
406429
Well for starters every girl loves attention so even if you ask her out and she says no, she wont mind knowing you care :)\n\nI think the whole 'I still like my other boyfriend' is just a front so she doesnt have to feel akward around you and can be herself.\n\nWhen your out with her next, go for the hand, if she likes you, you will see major sparks if not then she will just let go of yours and say something funny or nice to let go of your hand. \n\nBut I think the best and longer lasting relationships are the ones that started out as friends, So good luck mate :)
427275
most probably the girl likes you more than you actually think and she is shy and didn't want to show you her feelings. if you really like her, you should go ahead and ask her out!! after all you have nothing to loose!!!!!\nGood luck
282381
Sounds like you two have a lot in common...basically wanting someone, but yet not to get hurt again. See if you can take her out and tell her that you really do like her and have like her for the past couple of months, but like her are looking for someone special and are afraid of being hurt. You respect her decision of not dating just to be dating, b/c once again you are looking for someone special to make your life complete. Pray to God for the strength to approach the situation with honor and dignity. Don't ever be afraid of no, b/c you never know until you ask. Keep your head up and your confidence high, you sound like a terrific sweet gentleman and I wish you and her both luck! God Bless!
561747
aawww u sound so sweet but i think u did the right thing, may be she is not ready for a relationship right now.
582188
You need time. A relationship is like a tree. When it dies you have to figure out what went wrong. Then you have to fill in the hole where the tree was, before you can plant another tree. In short, take some time to contemplate your old relationship. Where did it go right? Where did it go wrong? Only after you are whole again should you start  dating. Otherwise that girl you want to date is just a transitional relationship and that isn't fair to her.
96428
tis is what you say.."hie,i really like you and i`ve been wondering if you`d like to go out with mie."if she doesn` like it then you tell her that you love her andyou`d really like it if she gave you a chance.if she doesn` like it then maybe she`s  taken or she `s juss not what you`re looking for.
339743
Well it sounds to me as if you two are already going out, and if you really love her you should let her know how you feel, it was that way with my gf and i got the same advice, so far we are going steady and i coldn't be happy, so give it a shot, ask her out, i mean come on you dont want to be sitting there looking back and wondering what could have been do you?
653390
either she is not intrested in u or is confused. ask her for the last time and if she again says no then move on find a new gf,  u cant wait for her all ur life.
251866
Ask her on a date. There is hardly a girl any where that will turn down a real date, like goping out to dinner, because most girls have never been on a real date, once you got her there ask her how she feels about you. It's not very nice for her to be messing with your emotions. But it sounds like she likes you and is too afraid to just flat out say it.
565629
Yeah bro you're sprung\n\nI am sure you're a nice and u deserve better than that\n\nIf she don't want u move on I am sure there's a girl that feels the same about you.\n Forget her man life is too valuable.
95306
This is too confusing.  Why did you say "she might already like you"? If she was your girlfriend already, isn't she supposed to like you - even more than like you? Are you sure she considers you her boyfriend anyway?
158530
she sounds like she likes you more than just friends... i think she had second thoughts after her first refusal of a relationship, if you still want to, you can make your offer again, i think now is a good time and she seems ready.. Good Luck