I,m 20 years old never had a first kiss
211944
being a swimmer helps. Girls dig guy swimmers and guys dig girl swimmers. Face however is more important then body for most guys
345088
there is nothing wrong with not dating until you are your age. i had never even kissed a guy until a was older than you. your father is right that girls do not need a romantic ride to the movies, you just need a ride in general. everyone gets rejected at some point in life, you just have to take a chance.
293930
Don't be afraid!\npeople have different times to do those things than others. I thought i was the only one like that, i'm 14yo 15 this year and i have never even been close to having a kiss with a guy. But i am homeschooled, and never have much interaction with guys, and i am quite shy until i know the guy. So that would be my reason, so what is yours? Shy? Go to pieces soon as you see a guy? I went to your space, you obviously have low self-esteem, and if you have low self-esteem then you wont think your good enough for any guy, then you never will be, you have to love yourself before anyone else will. If you walk around with your head down, and very insecure (like me), then guys don't like that, they like you to be a bit flambouyant, and a titch full of yourself.\n\nSo my advice would be to:\ngo to an acting class or some kind of social group, and get you self asteem up, then i bet you guys will be crawling all over you.\n\nGood Luck!!
420134
Dont rush it and you are not alone. Just think about how special it is for someone to have your first kiss and think about how it will be once you have given it to someone, that goes for first other things to. since you havent had it, you can have one you want forget with someone you want forget. many people cant say that.\n\nit may help to look at other things like hugging, oh hugging is good\nyes i know its not the same but it is still good and you have that contact with someone else and thats what most people really want. people really dont want the headache and heartache that comes with kissing, sex, and love they want the contact the connection, the holding, the feeling of care, and you can very much get that from hugging. BIG HUG from ME to YOU!!
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i remember my first kiss   i was 14,, and the boy was my brothers good friend..he was 17...and it was not at all what i thought it would be!  lol.. he was way too experienced for my first kiss..(all tongue) i always wished i had waited until i was w someone i cared deeply about dating...i did not kiss again until i was 15 1/2 and even then it was not too kool to me   i was more into riding in their awesome cars and trucks  and going mudding....not kissing   so concentrate on other things and try stay in public eye  so ur not alone w him   that is when the trouble starts!
517660
I'm 17 and I had never had a girlfriend. Sometimes I feel that I need to share with someone but when I analise the ending of my friends' relationships I feel it's OK to take the time to choose.
510918
im 17 and i haven`t kiss anyone:(b.c im waiting for the right girl(^_^)
526090
you my dear are going through the process of growing up. after being a child you have suddenly found the world outside is big and everyone has problems of one sort or another, if your parents won't believe how you are feeling have you another relative you can confide in?as for your first kiss I was 17 when I had mine, and we were married 2 years later which lasted for 35 yrs. till he passed away. you are a very worthwhile person in this world, you seem a very kind and caring person, good luck.
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It shouldn't matter. If you're cute, most guys would be flattered to be your first kiss.\n\nTo keep things level though, why not try to find a guy who has never been kissed before either to be your first kiss. I think that way you'll both have something unique to remember about it, and maybe it'll mean more to both of you.
478155
Just think of hating yourself as a waste of your life. Work on liking yourself more and gather some confidence up. Everyone can find someone they enjoy being with, or multiple partners. You're only 20. I know people that didn't lose their virginity until much older. Your life doesn't have to be perfect fresh out of your teenage years. When you like yourself more (I know it's hard) then gradually people will take notice. It mostly depends upon how you carry yourself. Also, try approaching more women, if you don't talk to anyone, you won't get noticed as much.
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You mean "caucasian." Anyway, you are 12 and you're too young to date. Guys your age are only after one thing, so don't even bother. Wait until you are older to date, i'd say 18. You can flirt, maybe go on dates, movies, kiss a little but don't go falling head over heels for every good looking guy. Take it easy. Focus on school work hehe :) How do you choose a guy? how about you choose zero, zilch, nada, nothing! trust me, you don't need a boyfriend now. When I was your age I never wanted a boyfriend because I knew they only wanted sex and wanted to have fun then break my heart so I chose not to get involved with any at all and now I am 21 and have a great b/f. Even grown men take a long time to mature lol, how can a young one like 13 grow up?? They want fun and you will only be just that. I'm not trying to get in your case but wait ok, and be patient!! Don't date, don't do anything you will regret; your reputation is on the line and once it's screwed up it cannot be fixed. You are probably an 8th or 9th grader. No boys needed. Chill with your female friends. Ciao.
631794
Its normal.  Chances are you probably haven't spotted a guy worthy of your time.  I was 17 when I had my first real kiss and didn't give it up till I was 21.  You've got some time.  Hang on and hold out for the right one.  One worthy of the wonderful experience that you can offer.
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16 to date, dear. I have 4 girls 7, 9, 11, 12. They (the oldest ones) are allowed to have a boyfriend, but in name only. No touching, no dating, the only thing they would be allowed to do is have the boy over here to visit, with me here to supervise. I am shocked that you already had your first kiss. Take it easy, you have the rest of your life, and the sooner you start, the younger you will be when you actually do IT. You don't want to be wearing maternity clothes in the 12th grade. Slow it down, be friends, no dating, and tell those boys to keep their paws to themselves.
363906
i didn't get my first kiss or first relationship til i was 24. it was a long wait and i know it can be frustrating.. but try not to let it bother you..  there's not much you can do other than live your life and try to keep a possitive attitude..  feel free to click on my profile and send me a message if you'd like to talk further..
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I don't think you are prude.  You are just fine.  Don't let dictate how you run your life.  When YOU are ready to kiss then you will.  Don't let anyone rush you.  Experiences like that should be savored.  If you do it get to get it over with you won't really enjoy it.
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trust me you're not the only one in the 5th grade that hasn't been kissed. i didn't get my first kiss until i was 14. there is nothing wrong with you or your friends. in fact, it is perfectly normal. you want your first kiss to be special, so don't rush it.
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don't worry about anything just go with the flow. i remember my first kiss it was a total disaster because i stressed over if i was doing it right or wrong. so son't worry, just let it happen. you'll learn sooner or later.