i never had sex with the person.She's my friend and she keeps playing with it, touching it. She has an brakeout on her arm.That's want she keep playing with
199675
it can be spread throug body fluids and contact with sores...on her arm? not for sure to be a herpes outbreak....small children can have sores of a herpes symplex, but it is'nt really comman to have those break out in areas that are not mucous membrane...not really heard of..I am gonna now do some research and i'll modify answer later....
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Well give her time. May be its something going on in her life, that you might want to ask her, and l;isten to her, and help her out!\nMay be she was raped(God Forbid)\nMay be its something you did during one of your sex sessions!\n\nDont ask her for sex now or why she cant have sex with you now, \nTalk to her and dont be like without sex there is nothing that can happen between u 2!\n\nShe might even be pregnant and fearing to tell you!  Or she might have done some one else!\n\nTo know the right answer, you gota sit down with her and talk to her. Listen to her speak and dont interupt.
223180
i think that your friend needs to go to the doctors.  i wouldnt be fooling around down there and i sure in the heck wouldnt let noone touch me with nothing hot nor a needle down there.  I am a woman but it still would hurt
108784
well, she isn't much of a friend then if you don't like to play with her.\n\nIt is difficult to tell people things like that without hurting their feelings.You need to be polite and allow your friend to know that you would rather not play with her.
546306
No, it wouldn't stop me.  \n\nWhy?  Because I'm a gentleman.  That means I care about her, not her body.  It sounds like you need a guy who will be your friend.\n\nA boyfriend who is really a friend will be willing to wait.  If you are having a hard day (like the anniversary date) he will be understanding and caring.\n\nIf he is just a selfish jerk, he will get impatient for you to "get over it" so he can have sex.  Don't fall for a guy who thinks of himself first.
20742
Heres what you can do.  Hook her up with one of your guy friends she does not know. Tell your friend to put it in her a** during intercourse. That should keep her away from guys for a while.
169934
Yes I would be kinda scared off to! Dont tickle fight with her any more,seems like she has a big issue to deal with!Maybe your friend needs to find herself a sex partner to relieve her,but if thats not what she wants,Id have a serious talk with her before she gets the wrong impressions!!
471654
She could be...or it could just be a friendly way of showing support.\nMen and women can be touchy-feely without having sex.
426516
well you obviously led her on. sex is never casual for a woman... duh! we have all these emotions that get all tied up in everything whether we like it or not! so, you need to talk to her about it nicely. explain how you thought it was casual & weren't looking for a relationship. you can't tell her off!!!! that is so mean!\n\nbut what would happen if you gave her a chance? get to know her? you might just find out she is really cool? if no, then you should never have slept with her! never sleep with a girl you don't remotely like because you never know if you might accidentally impregnate her through failed contraception and end up attached to her for life not only through your wallet but a child... (unless you are a girl... and you have a relationship with a girl... )
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WOW... My friend does this too! Alot. She meets them on myspace, talks to them for a few days on the phone and on myspace and then HOOKS UP with them the first night she meets them. Its her lifestyle and I have no desire to judge her or anything. So I dont say anything. She uses condoms and even tho I KNOW its not healthy and is dangerous. Its NOT my decision. So I suggest not saying anything. Or if you choose to, just simply say that YOU could never do that, because you've heard so many horror stories about people getting raped when meeting people online. Explain to her YOUR PERSONAL reasons why you would never do it. Good luck
220015
It may have been a completely unrelated incident. Have you experienced it more than once? If, not it probably had nothing to do with the sex. It was just a coincidence.
33078
If you are wanting her for just that what does it matter if she is a virgin or not? I think the question is how do you get her to have sex with you? Start slow by holding her hand and then go further, like a silent game of chicken. Always worked on me.
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haha she sounds like a load of fun, she has no inhibitions ..don't worry about it,, she sees you as her bro .. nothing sexual in it.   Seems she is very comfortable in her own skin .. just don't look ok..lol  out of respect for her.
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What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl.  Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him?  There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them.  Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.
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Did you expect her to be a virgin?  Come on, seriously.\n\nShe's with you now.  So if she liked their shafts that much, shed be with them.  Maybe at the same time.\n\nJust get over it.\n\nThis is exactly what I mean when I say that I wonder if a relationship isn't just a license to OWN somebody's SEX.  It's silly.  You're getting jealous over the past.
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Your question answers itself.  It looks to me to have been a series of physical-only relationships--if you can call them that--that she either constantly mistook for love or worse yet, thought that it didn't matter.\n\nI'd guess that all those partners were a good deal older than her, and primarily interested only in hot sex with a teenager.  It's a wonder she could survive at all.\n\nI'd guess she needs a bunch of healing.  She likely figures it's pointless to care when it'll never come back to her.  As her friend, you need to get her to see that there's so much more to life than just meaningless sexual encounters.  You might be able to help, but if not she may need some counseling.\n\nBe her friend.  Help her feel again.  It'll do you both a lot of good.
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i think you answered your own question, anyone your friend has, you want! i think you are jealous of your friend and a little insecure with yourself and think that sexual attention is a way of validating yourself?  its your'friend' i feel sorry for not only does she have a boyfriend that she cant trust she also has you, someone who cant wait to betray her, grow up and go live somewhere that you cant mess with other peoples lives..