Why are girls having friends with benefits so much,and then changing and saying that they want more?Are they doingthis to trap the guy?Please explain as it is way out of context for girls to do this.
208581
I think that girls start out wanting friends with benefits and then eventually develop feelings for the guy. I don't think it is intentional.
78490
well if she just met him and had sex with him, chances are hes not looking for a relationship, usually that makes a guy think youre easy what ever goes through their heads, also if he was willing to have sex (especially that much) after just meeting, he probably does that with other women, sorry to say. Men like a chase, so if she really wants him, she should not be 'available' all the time, and definately not have anymore sex with him (if she wants a relationship). if he decides not to try anymore, he was just in it for sex and hes no good anyway
660782
i've hooked with several girls that ended in the "friend zone."\ni,ve also hooked up with girl in that zone just to get closer to her \nfine friend,most of the time,IT WORKS.\nin some cased while in the "friend zone" things have happen and we continued to be friends. that why they call it friends with \nbenefits.
276671
it sounds like he just want's a "friends with benefits" relationship. Tell him that you want a real relationship, or nothing. You don't want to be held back from something new because he can't make up his mind.
543347
If it's a women..its a Nymphomaniac.. if it's a guy it's called just another guy. If they're very sexual then they probably do fuck around a lot, or just do it a lot.. they probably are lying about the 5year thing but it's possible.
273600
Simply, she doesnt want to be committed.  She wants to be "friends with benefits".  Something she doesnt feel tied down to.  Why that is, is up to her, really.  Was her last relationship that bad, maybe?  Does she want to not be exclusive to one person?  An honest conversation would do wonders.
425182
Wow!  I think there are easier ways to keep girl friends other than changing your sex.  Perhaps the only thing you need to cut off is your current emasculating friends!
293059
I don't understand it myself.  I think you're right and that it's them trying to show you, "hey look at me, chicks dig me and want to be in relationships with me!  I'm not on this personals site because I can't get women..."
432516
truthfully, don't play games.  first of all if you like her, be leary if she is still kind of hung on her Ex, you don't want to be the rebound guy.  Secondly, when she introduces you as a friend, there isn't anything wrong with that, because technically you guys are friends even though you "hooked up" twice in a week that doesn't mean you are in a relationship. So, sit her down and look her in her eyes and ask her what it is that she wants.  If she wants to be friends, be exclusive or friends with benefits? Because confusion is not cool.....and whatever you do, do not be upset if she does not give you the answer that you want or expected. :)
189490
then this girl doesn't care for the guy she is with, if she is flirting with alot of people. Also my opinion, she is wanting to see if any one will try to take her from her current boyfriend.
436823
What a sweetheart!  I remember your age.  Guys would usually just ask the girl if they want to be boyfriend & girlfriend.  Then the guy usually calls her at night and they hang out together at parties.  Does this answer your question or were you thinking more technical?  Good luck.
642363
From what you said it seem to me what went on with buddies of mine when we were young and stupid. I have had buddies that could not stand their girls. And when the sex got boring it was time to bail. If they heard rumor from the girl's posse that she was thinking of dumping him, or that she had dumped him and he was not told yet. they would do a 360 turn and be the most charming you ever seen. To get her liking them again or take them back. Then they DUMPED HER. So, the official story is that SHE did not dump me, I dumped her. I think that is what he did. She came back, he had the power. And he used it. He was never really into her so much as to be the one to turn on and off the tap. She lost. She better just move on.
672087
I just wanted to say thanks for spelling ho correctly.  Some guys may look at it that way but in all honesty sometimes a girl just wants to get laid too.  If this is a guy that you see yourself wanting to be in a relationship with I wouldn't recommend it, it may just give him the wrong idea about your previous lifestyle.. but like I said, sometimes a girl just wants to get laid, and if that's all you're trying to do.. go for it girl!
361570
It's a way that people flirt. Take it as a compliment. They're saying that you are so great and goodlooking that they can't possibly believe yoiu are single. If you like the girls that are saying it then that's your in to start to flirt back.
329692
She needs to make us work harder.  If guys get it at the beginning, a lot of guys figure they got what they want.  There is nothing else, and move on.  It also puts into a guys mind that she is easy, or a slut.
300802
Women always want men that they cannot have. It's a challenge to them, especially if they think they might have a good chance at fooling around with them. Some women thinks this is a good way to get a man without all the commitment and attatchment. They simply think it's exciting to be with a man that's totally off limits. A lot of women do it to prove a point about men, period.
605098
if it was an innocent message to a guy, she wouldn't care if you saw her doing it or not.  for her to want to hide it, means that its more than nothing.  she might just be in the beginning and just talking to the guy or she might be in a full-fledged affair.  whichever it is, she's definitely doing something she shouldn't.