What should I do? I try ignoring her, but people just stare. I don't want people doing that. What if she's taking advantage of me? I'm not sure at all of this.
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why are you afraid to tell her that you dont like her behavior? I was in your situation when I was in collage and this girl was always chasing me! she wanted to be where I was because i was with my handsome and popular friends all the time (what could i do if they were my classmates!) anyway, one day I was just not in the mood to deal with her and I said: you know what, you have very good qualities but IT BOTHERS ME that you are with me because you want to hang out with my friends. Soooo.... stop being so obvious and let me have fun with them!  so, she got my point. she never spoke to me again (and my friends were happy for that too). it was sad because after all she was a good girl but A REAL PAIN IN THE BUTT!
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put your self in other people shoes. Even she keeps saying whatever she wants, she cannot destroys the person you are interiorly. Let her say whatever she wants it's a free country, don't worry about rumors, maybe she went through the same thing she's doing to you. Keep doing the good things, and people will appreciate you.
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Ignoring you isn't my definition of "nice".\n\nTherefore, I conclude that she is NOT nice, and I'd suggest you find some authentically nice friends.\n\nGood luck!
106403
Ignore her . . . don't pay any mind . . . because if she knows you are getting under your skin . . . she will do it more.\n\nEspecially when girls wants something they can not have . . .
221126
I've gone through this too, and unfortunately I handled it the wrong way, by ignoring the person. Leave your pride behind and tell this girl that she is moving too fast and tell her that you want to keep it at a friend level for now. If she can't except that, oh well.
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She is playing with you.She sounds like a real nasty if you ask me.You sound sweet there are plenty of nice girls around.Dont take her calls if she tries to call or if you see her ignore her she will soon get the message that your not playing her silly little games.:)
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She sounds like she only wants you when you ignore her.. Forget her, you deserve much better than that.\nShe just wants everything her way, life's not like that. You could do much better.\nBest of luck.
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Ignore her for a few days and stop doing all the stuff you usually do i.e. picking her up after work or call her every 2 times a day, go to parties without her. Send the message hey if you can live without me so can I. \n\nIts harsh BUT that is one of the way to get attention.  If she enjoys all the things you do to ignore her, then my freind something is wrong with your relationship, she might be seeing someone else
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O ITS ON GRLFRIEND! jst ignore her, its not like she'll care. i know how u feel i knda had that kinda experience 2. jst ignore her & if she calls u bk, thn jst say wut? & jst gve her dirty looks. i mean if  she really was ur friend u wouldn't b so annoyed & h8 hert hat much
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I think she has an integrity issue and I think you should leave her alone.  It also occurs to me that if anything came of you and her, wouldn't everyone know?  I think she's toying with you and seeking a little more gossip to spread.\n\nSorry sweetie.  There are really good girls out there and you deserve so much better than this.
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Leave her alone for a while ... she'll wonder what happened and want to pursue you ... works every time.  People always seem to want what they can't have.
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Dude shes playing hard to get...she knows she wants you bad but wants the attention.\n\nBtw have you seen her bf? Cuz it could be an invisable one meaning she doesn't have one.
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It depends on what you mean by 'ignore'...if she doesnt even hold your hand in public I'm guessing she's either embarassed by you or doesnt want to appear taken. Also depends on what you mean by 'public', the above suggestion would apply to wouldn't know them for a bar of soap public, but if you mean her family/friends maybe there is some weird 'still not quite over it' situation to do with her ex if she has one...either an issue for her or her family/friends. Or maybe she thinks that you dont want to display affection in public. \nToo many maybe's in this situation. I would suggest raising it with her as something that is bothering you...talking it out is the only way.
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Just chill and wait for her to come to you. You've put yourself out there now it's her to return the favor. :) But don't ignore her. :P
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Report her behind...let me kno her screen name and I'll get her to stop and if she follows me...she can meet me in the trap it's goin down....but all I can tell you is report her....or just let her know how you feel what can she do over the internet...just let me know tha names luckygurl409
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Just stay out of it...she needs to get a grip. She is intimidated by you ....she knows the truth but just fails to live it. Move on you can do better. What goes around comes around. Don't waste too much time being mad at this.
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She's looking for attention even if it's negative attention.  If she's your EX and YOU want to keep it that way--for whatever reason, then continue ignoring her and eventually she'll get the clue.  I think she's trying to either get you mad by talking to your friends, or get your attention just to keep you hooked.  Either way, it's not very mature, but there again, you and her are still in school--the both of you have alot of growing up to do, before you become mature.