I recently was told that when this particular woman learned to have an orgasm, it takes so much energy that she can only really wants to do it once or twice a week. Is this possible?
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Yes, it is possible. Just as for men, female orgasms can be very different and their intensity can vary a lot too. Some can be really draining. Then again, it can be a nice excuse to avoid sex... I think that by observing her reactions you can estimate if her orgasms are really so intense and draining.
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Orgasms with sex didn't happen for me until I got a little older, more comfortable with my own body, in tune with my own sexuality, and finding what worked for me and going after it, and practice of course.\n\nRead this, good advice:\n\nhttp://www.talksexwithsue.com/femaleorgasm.html\n\nAlso, just my opinion, but stop faking it.  You don't do you or your partner any favors by faking it.
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Is the  *****  self induced orgasm? If it is that can't be true...you have enough of that stuff to last a lifetime.
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all your energies are focused tooo!!!!!! much on da orgasm... creating too much anxeity...and too much expectation... which creates a block... Next time you have sexs dont be in a hurry...and dont search for orgasm somewhere in your brain or any other part... just realx and have sexes as if orgasm never existed...just wait and watch...it will come as surprise guest!!! all da best...
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My dear Marky, you really can't know (unless she is just terrible at faking it) Just because a woman does not orgasm, DOES NOT mean the she didn't have fun with her partner. The number one reason women will fake an orgasm is because they don't want their partner to feel insecure or that he didn't perform well enough to bring her to orgasm. Don't worry so much!
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She could easily be faking it if those contractions are not present. (I'm a woman, but I've never understood the logic in faking it, when that only promotes the very thing that is leaving us unsatisfied.)... Anyway, I'm pressuming your fingers are inside her, and if so, you should be able to feel those contractions.  No matter how strong our inner muscles are, we can't really fake the strenght and frequency of orgasmic spasms.\n\nSome girls find it difficult to reach orgasm.  Often because of hang-ups or sexual prejudices (sadly, we've still haven't quite  overcome the old teachings that sex was something a man enjoyed and a woman endured.).  If she's relunctant to touch herself, she probably doesn't know how to best stimulate herself and cannot show you what works for her.  If she's not getting as wet as she could, your ministrations might very well irritate her and she's faking it so that you'd stop.  Or she might have some psychological block that prevents her from letting go of herself to that extent.  Orgasm is a very vulnerable time and sometimes it's hard to let go if you don't really trust the person  you're sharing it with.\n\nYou can also tell when a woman is having an orgasm by her coloring.  She would blush basically all over.  Her whole body would become warmer and her breathing should become more shallow (another thing you can't really fake. How self involved does a man have to be to be fooled like that?).  In some cases, you can even see her pulse racing.\n\nBy the way, this is a fairly anonimous site, so I wouldn't worry that she might be upset by you posting this question here.  I wouldn't suggest you discussing it with people close to her, though.\n\nAsk her.  Try to get her to open up.  That's really the best way to find out what she's really feeling... Good luck
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just be very careful and take it very slow, and be sure you use lubrication, yes it is possible for a woman to enjoy it that much, the first few times are rough, but it isn't bad after that.
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The intensity of a woman's orgasm has more to do with her head ie state of mind then with any physical manipulation.  If she is able to relax and is "open" to the idea (of using a vibrator) most likely she'll have the orgasm.
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i am assuming you mean faking an orgasm. yes i have a few times. but for all the guys that read this let me tell you that you CAN know when a woman is faking. when a woman really has an orgasm her muscles contract very very rapidly. this is a very hard action to fake at aproximatly a contraction every .08 seconds. so guys if you tune in to what's happening then she won't be able to fake it anymore.
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well since Im married, I can attest that I never had this problem when we were younger, but as we get older she has gotten to where she dosent want it every other night as before, and now it has began, so for you single men not getting it every other day, (mispelled to get to show) mansturbate every other day, if done daily sex or mansturbation can desensitise to the point that the man can't finish, but the women usually love this when younger, but again as they age they become less into sex for 6 to 10 hours and are more into sleep, but there are the men like me who will never mansturbate, so in that case, if she wants me to last anytime since she's got us on a weekly cycle, is a little ORAL ACTIVITY in the morning so I can last in the evening, works great, and I get double the satisfaction, but she dose too, remember guy's if she gose down you had better get there also, and do it right, ask her if she likes things, and do her favorite's
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yes, I can and not just from g-spot stimulation, and it does tend to occur during orgasm.  it's a wonderful thing.  if you can make a woman squirt you are truly gifted!
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The flow of energy you are refereeing to is always there. It is all around us all the time.It is great with sex, but is also good just to have. You can tap into it anytime you want to,
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I've done 8 in a 24 hour period, and thought i would die!  Needed lots and lots or gatorade and KY.  My girl thinks she was somewhere around 20 that day.  Sometimes i wish i could have multiple orgasms!
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all men have different sex drives.I am now a married man, but when i was single it was sometimes up to 3 times.of course when you are a very young man and you first discover the orgasm,then you want it over and over again .when this first happened to me, i can remember i just kept on going untill i was so sore i had to stop.
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Workout and eat right. Maybe she needs to orgasm more. Do you give her oral???? Alot of guys aviod this.....big mistake.
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Theres really no perfect time. To me it matters if i can get her to have an orgasm. If i accomplish that it doesnt matter how long or how soon i finish. Now if you dont care about that stuff you just want to look like you can handle yourself you can't go wrong with 10 min on 3 different positions. A half hour is decent.  Woman like to talk trash and say they want at least an hour. Trust me if you're giving them the business the average woman would be hurting after 50 minutes of straight action. You'll always have your exceptions of course... God bless the freaks and pornstars!
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There is no limit as to the number of times a girl can have sex for a day. As long as she has the energy to do it, she can have it after each short interval. If she knows how to enjoy sex and can have multiple orgasm, then she knows her own limit which would be at least 5 times for the day.