My heart races whenever he's around. But at the sametime, I'm calm whenever he's around. He called me and talked to me all weekend. Like he thinks I am totally hott. That he feels like angels are around when I'm around. We REALLY like each other, you know? He told me he really wants to go out with me. I told him the same thing. But one problem. I am 15 and he's the same age but he just turned 15. I'll be 16 in a month. He thinks I'll find someone better than he'll ever be. But no one thinks of me as much as he does. Oh gosh, and I can't start dating till i actually turn 16. And that's making him very aggitated.\n\nWhat should I do?
202174
Don't just jump into the water wade into it an see how deep it is, In other words make sure it is love and not just lust the you are feeling.
171162
Look past the age for a minute.  I mean, I know some 30 year olds that act like they're 50 and I know some 50 year olds that act like they're 30.  Age is irrelevant to some extent. Let me emphasize "some extent".  Although the mind may think younger, the body will eventually answer the question "What's my age again?".   Ok, re-track back to my first statement. *waits while you read it again*.  Now, it is very nice to be complimented.  (if I may, your nose looks quite lovely today!) and it is nice that someone has taken an interest in you.  But, the real question is, would YOU date him?  The mere fact that you are contemplating it leads me to believe you may have some interest.  But, is this interest only because he has showed you some attention?  Perhaps you should casually spend some time with him and see if he is someone you would date.  I don't know the man.  I mean, if you want, I can shoot down to....."where?" and scope out the situation.  You know, stare him up and down and ask him what his intentions are......shake him up a little.
121992
No i think that is perfectly fine!!! Well i would think that when me and my better half got together i was 20 and he was 29, 3 years later and we have a awsome strong relationship, i was ready for something serious to plant my feet into and so was he, we had alot of things in common, i mean yes there are times when i think wow hes really been around alot more then i have and i can feel a little bit intimidated, but in the long run im thankfull he has those experiances to help guide our steps, I think he has come to believe that im never going to be perfect, even though i really try to do everything well, im not completely at his level on thinking, he has more life lessons to reflect on, but i dont think its a problem when we both discuss everything and keep the lines of communication open, just like any other relationship, my best friend is in the same boat, her husband is 10 years older then her and oddly enough shes the more responcible one, i dont see why any one would think its wrong, now if you were 25 and she was 15 there might be a huge responce to you sick mo fo lol but i dont think there is anything wrong with you liking her, ask her out, she might be into older guys, and with good reason, guys that are 20-24 are enough to make you want to puke, they only want one thing, they havnt figured out yet theres more to life then a nice set of boobs lol they dont know how to deal with money worth a crap, they only look out for themselfs, where older guys have alot more figured out, theres so many more perks to dating a older guy i could go on forever, more or less your more established at 30... id say go for it :) you have nothing to lose
158767
pssst, it's me.  We talked on YIM a lot.  ;)\n\nMy opinion was that you should see how 1 date goes.  If you both have a spectacualr time, then at the end tell him your age.  He won't care whether of not you're 15 if he enjoyed the date.  : )\n\n\nLet me know if ya need more help, Good Luck,\n-Alexis
592277
i don't think its love at all.... it seems like you have a crush and he wants to be friends with you. he is too old for you anyways. you are only 14 and 1/2 and he is too old. maybe it doesn't seem like it, but he is. of course he would talk to you he is a neighbor. neighbors always do that.  I'd say mutual respect. he may have a chrush on you, but wait till YOU are 17/18 to go out w/ him if you ever do.
381811
i think thats the only way to take it. obviously he thinks hes too good for you. you sound very mature. i hes going to act like a child, then youre too good for him.
527185
O sweets! The "one" is so complicated. I think when all girls have a crush at that age, they think/wish/hope he is the "one". But seriously... He probably isnt. Who he is now, wont even be close to who he becomes later. I dont know anyone who is the same person at 25 that they were at 15. 10 years makes a huge difference, and the cold hard truth is that relationships started when so young, USUALLY dont last. Over 85% of marriages between the ages of 18-25 end in divorce. Thats the majority of people getting married. You can never really know someone till you've lived with them for a few years. There is an old saying, Love is blind, and marriage is a real eye opener. I wouldnt worry too much about finding the "one" right now. I believe destiny and fate have everything worked out already for you and when its right, things will fall into place for you and him to finally come together. Good luck
261079
I wouldn't ask anybody if he likes you, but him himself!  I mean can't nobody tell you the truth, but him.  I think you should really talk to him and let him know how you feel if he is mature enough to talk to.  If not, why be with him??? What is it about this person that makes you really all into him that you can't find from somebody else that treats you better and doesn't get mad at you over petty stuff, you don't have to give him sex everytime you see him, and you can talk to during the day?  Are you the only one he is talking too and having sex with?  Don't put yourself out there if you know what I mean.  But seriously, what guy do you know isn't going to get mad at you if he finds out that you are talking to somebody... lets not be dumb about it.  A male will get mad because he thinks you are giving another male the attention that he wants.  Dude may like you or should I say the way you look, but that is it... like maybe it would be better off if ya'll were just friends... would it hurt???  How long were you all friends before you started dating or more importantly having sex with him???  Think about your feelings.  If you aren't happy or feeling like you are unsure about things, that is a sign that you should move on.  I bet if you stop having sex with him he will start treating you like crap and why is it that he can't call you during the day?  These are the types of things that I used to have to ask myself when I would find myself in those types of situations.  I am young and I just like sharing the type of advice that I learned from all three of my brothers and both of my sisters.  So trust me, I have seen the game played and all.   What do you think you should do???
666652
He's flattered that you like him. It boosts his self-esteem. Sounds to me like he's got a lower confindence level than you realize. He probably cares alot about what the popular kids in school think about him? You may not realize, but he really does care.\nSounds to me like he likes you but is afraid of what the other kids will think if he goes out with you. He's just too young to realize right now. But, hey, he wants to be your friend. Be his friend!\nThat's how the greatest, longest-lasting relationships start out. Don't fawn over him, just chill w/ him. Be buds! They love that.
448714
i would  suggest getting toget to know him better. This sounds like just a crush to me you are kind of young .
41602
You really like this guy, but you think he is to old for you? He is to old for you, forget him untill you are 18, seriously he could actually get in some deep trouble if lets say you two hooked up and he turned 18 and you are still a minor, for instance you two are lets say having sex. \n\nNot trying to be mean but I really would doubt he will give you the time of day, you are in Jr. High and he's a Junior in High School. Think of the &$%# he would get if he was dating a girl in Jr. High. I'd move on if I was you, age does matter when it comes to one being a minor and the other is of legal age. ( or in this case probably close to legal age )
520852
This sounds like a typical teenage issue. He likes you, he is just young and dumb, and trying to be "cool"; or just plain scared. We are sometimes retarded like that. You can either wait, or you can approach him. Good Luck!
294902
It sounds like he may really like you, but it also sounds like he is a bit overprotective. If you decide to pursue this relationship, make sure that he understands the rules. You have to have your space, and if he insists on being with you ALL the time, he may be a bit more serious than you would be comfortable with. If you don't want to be in a exclusive relationship (which is what it sounds like he wants), I'd look elsewhere.
546775
Aww! I kind of relate to that. So let's see... it sounds like he's noticing you, and you don't want to date him yet. Read some teen magazines and put on a little makeup on days you have classes with him. Wear cute clothes, wear your hair nice, sounds like you're doing pretty well though.
288490
i would say that this guy does like you. and your cousin is doing a very good thing for you right now because he know what guys are all about right now and thats why he is protecting you. my dad ones told me when i was young because my brothers and their friends woudn't let of guys get here me. and my dad told me just what i just told you why your cousin is your bodyguard. he doesn't want to see you get hurt if that guy that likes you gets what he only wants from you right now and then move on to the next girl that catches his eyes.the way guys think at your age if not what girls really want from that guy. just remember you only have one time to be a teenager without any rules from a guy.have lots of fun with your friends because before you know it you will be married and can't do the thing you want any more. you only that only time to have the right fun not like the guys do they have fun with theri friends plus see how many girls they can play with as they have fun with no rules to go by either and if that guy is lucky to find a girl that has not fooled around alot to marry and thats what guys will look for to marry even if they have had alot of parters through their teenage days. they don't want to have one as a wife and mother of theri children. so  just have fun and you're lucky to have a cousin like you have. just know o'hey i can turn guys heads and that good but no playing the way they will want to. good luck .ps. guys call me when i was in my teens ac---- teaser. at the time i didn't know what they meant. but i proud of that. i can hole my head high.i've been married for 28 years now and i choose my husband he didn't pick me.and when i was ready to set down i looked for a guy that just want to have fun in his tennage days as i did.(not giving it up) besides that guys respect you more also. good luck little one.grow up happy.
324905
The question is... DO YOU LIKE HIM?\n\nIs he interesting?\n\nWell groomed?\n\nClean?\n\nDoes he pay attention to you?\n\nCan you see spending the rest of your life with him? (This is for some one 20 years or older, not a teenager).\n\nNow, seeing that other people see you as a couple, they must think that you two have a lot in common.  But, even still, I have seen a lot of people who "went for it" and got divorced after awhile because it didnt work out.\n\nWhy dont you date him for 6months and find out how it will be, then if it doesnt work out, find some one new...\n\nJust my opinion...\n\nJesse
274235
He has got the absolute hots for you! He is most likely fantasizing about you right now! He is probably thinking you are so hot that you would never date him! Guys can get like that. We see a girl who is really hot and we think there is no way we would ever have a chance of getting a date with the really hot women. Ask him out! Tell him you think he is really hot! It will turn him on! Good Luck!