What do you do if your Gothic and dont believe in god, and you like a girl who does?
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If she's really worth your time and you have a lot in common it shouldn't be an issue.  Talk to her, you'll find that you have a lot more in common then you have differences.
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As we live in a Christian Society I'm afraid like the rest of us Atheists you only have two choices.\n1 Go but sit quietly when prayers are said, and dont sing the hymns.(Most people wont notice if you sit and stand when they do) You support them by showing respect for their beliefs.\n2 Dont go to the church but attend the reception or party afterwards. If they are friends then they should respect your beliefs too.\nAs a teacher you could try approaching the Head-master. Most schools nowadays dont use Religion in Assemblies or make provision for pupils whose beliefs may conflict. You could perhaps supervise those pupils. If you must attend do as I suggest for a church service.\nDevout is usually not used as people tend to think of it in religious terms. It actually means devoted to your belief so is grammatically correct but most WONT see it that way!\nOnly you can choose how you will behave!
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i have no idea what is considered a sin or not a sin\nbut in my opinion, if you believe in God, go ahead!\nyou dont have to worry about those mean looks\nyou're there to pray and worship\nthey have no right to judge you by your looks\nit's a matter of preference\ni dont think people who dress conservatively are all good!\nthey may have some bad vibes behind those clothes\ni mean it's just clothing for God sake\n\nps: i know it's annoying to have people staring at you, maybe you can make friends with them, let them know the "real nice" you behind your goth look =)\ngood luck\nand i accidentally deleted your message on 360, can you me another one? thx
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If your girl-friend is a staunch Catholic, then she knows that they don't believe in pre-marital sex, period.  They also don't believe in birth control, abortion and divorce.  That is just the beginning.  Good luck.
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If you like him, and he likes you and you both want to date then go for it. You friend should support you, if she doesn't like him, then don't ahng out with them at the same time very much. But if she is a good friend, she won't try and prevent you from dating someone you like just becasue she doesn;t like goths. Which by the way is wrong in the first place, how can she not like someone based on how they dress and what she thinks she know about him. Thats very judgemental.\n\n\n\nI think some people misunderstood the question. The way you worded it is kinda hard to understand.
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well first off you have to be yourself in any matter. look if you just be you and she doesnt like it then to hell with her because that aint the type of girl you need any way. but if you do get her then be yourself and just dont change
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I'd say to let her have her space. If she gains some wisdom, and learns to understand that hers is only one way of believing, then maybe you'll rekindle a relationship.\n\nThe problem in this world is that many Christians just can't accept other ways of believing, thinking them all of the Devil. Just keep being who you are, and you'll be a witness to the world that kindness and morality aren't the domain of Christians alone.
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First of all, to Enano K, that is the most ignorant thing I have ever heard in my life. I know plenty of goths, there is no generalization that they don't believe in God is a judgmental statement and God don't like ugly.
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Go to Church!\n\n\n-LOVE YOUR NIEGHBOR AS YOURSELF
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Seems that you and God disagree.\n\nIt works like this. Once God had a wonderful idea. An idea so lovely, so perfect that She did not want to be without it. God loved this idea so much that she thought a part of herself to have enough individuality to see it's self as separate as a unit as an individual as you.\n\nGod did this so that She might have you to love and so that She might have you to love Her.\n\nNo matter what you think of yourself, this makes you pretty special. Special enough that we love you. pangel told you you could write to her if you wanted. Why don't you. She will help you to see your self as God sees you.\n\nReligion may have told you some pretty strange things But the truth is God loves you more than you could possibly imagine.\n\nTake care.\n\nlove and blessings Don
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Dear:Jennifer     You are a Christian,The Truth will set you\nFREE,Tell his parents who you are,and do not be ashamed. If\nthey accept you good,if not them ? GOD IS LOVE
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The answer to this is trust in your Savior. God sometimes hides himself to test your faith. If you truly love Him, continue to follow Him and seek Him out and you will find the peace and comfort you so long for. Satan may try to turn you away (which I don't know everything, but it seems to me like He is) but just remain faithful to God.
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Relax.  Just accept that fact that there is no god outside of yourself.  Go outside and breath the air for a while and stop thinking so hard on this stuff.  Sometimes you have to clear your mind to let the answers come.  There is no god punishing you, that is a myth.
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With your detailed story I feel that your dreams have made the whole story into a love relationship and your faith in God is so high.......Do you really think that God was fulfilling your desire or is it a coincidence.......I wanted to know more details but I think you didn't have space to write more anyways............If God is with you who can be against you..........Just hang on  buddy you will come with flying colours and as you say she isn't so handsome or beautiful then how do you still love her........It is surely a spiritual business. It is a triangle between You, girl and God...........
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ok...god does not dislike someone because he knows they are gonna go out and commit a crime....he in fact gives them the bennifit of the doubt..and sees if they will do the right thing..what i'm saying is..dont judge a book by its cover..if you really dont want him no more...then dont talk to him he will get the hint..if you do like him then dont be afraid to try something new..try dating him if he is nice then continue..if he is not...then chances are someone will be jealouse that you gave him a shot and not them...now you have guys waiting in line for you if he is a jerk
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Did you talk to her/him?   Ask them out if they reject you, get over it- but try not to stare that definitely freaks a person out!  good luck
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Look her in the eye, be resolute. Then you should shout at her, "Get thee behind me, Satan. I rebuke thee." Then with Christian love , explain the foolishness of her ways. If she fails to repent, walk away from her and cast the dust off the bottom of your shoes as a witness against her.