I have a son currently in a Farmington Treatment Center, They seem to think he is his Father, I need to clearr this up because he is due to be released in 34 days. Why would they have information on his Father who has never been in D.O.C. I'm confused and need assistance. Cn you help me?
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http://www.courts.mo.gov/casenet/base/we... is the site for case net.  I don't completely understand your question, but another site to find information on offenders is http://www.vinelink.com/offender/searchNew.jsp \n\nHope this helps.
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I am not totally not sure in Texas but, the way it goes here in Illinois If you have all of that information you could go right on the Internet and type up something like:\nFort Worth Texas Prison System- Once you get there If there is no instruction or anything put in the info you have on that person and see what comes up..\nI know that my daughter did the same thing and found her father in the system, it gave her his full name: prison number: what prison he was in: What charges he has: What date he was convicted: How long he has done: When his parole date comes out: and even what day his time is up: She also says that they tell you what kind of dental work he has received.\nThey gave her a lot of info and I will not say that she had to pay for the information because she was like 14-15 yrs-old when she did it and she didn't use my credit card or anything, so I am sure with the right information about the person you are looking for, you to should be able to find the person you are searching for.\nGood Luck in your search, I also hope that this helps you some what....\nI would just like to add one more thing, there are a lot of bad people in this world So I would advise you to remove that SS# from this question very quickly, before someone thinks to do something very bad with it.
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I am sorry to hear about your situation. I was in a similar situation 7 years ago but her father was actually convicted of molesting a young girl in town and he was sent to jail so i have sole custody of her. But I do know from working with troubled kids that there are supervised visits you can ask for where the visits are in a safe location with a member of social services or another agency like that present during the visit. It may be an option for you to look into and i hope everything works out.
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Hi, I keep a low profile when visiting my Alzheimer's Patients husband. He is in a care facility. It sounds to me that in your caring so much about your sons father, perhaps you have reacted to the lack of proper care he is receiving.\n\nThe law is on your side. He needs an advocate from the system to monitor his care. You pissed somebody off.\n\nYou might suggest that the authorities check on him in the middle of the night. They will look in his mouth with a flashlight, to see if his teeth are being brushed. Also, he should be re-positioned in his bed, and his depends checked, every two hours minimum. \n\nIf you just back off, and it sounds like you have, they will drop their guard, and then someone can nail them. Your son has rights to see his father, and unfortunately you might have to play hardball another way. Someone in this format must have the particulars on what you can do. This can effect your well-being, esp. if you are on SSD. \n\nSounds like he was dehydrated, I assume that is what you meant, when you said his Depends were dry for a long period of time. I think you just need to Zip your Lip, and hunker down, and get the proper Authorities on your side. The system is corrupt. During my training for Alzheimers, I fought for the rights of the Patients, along with another C.N.A, and a Nurse. \n\nMany issues were never resolved. At that time, I was encouraging relatives of the Patients, to visit at unusual times to view the subtle abuses\n\nUnfortunately, the abusers already had an anchor in the Facility, and it was impossible for us to make any changes. It went to the top. I finished my Certifications and left the facility, as did my co-workers who really cared.\n\nSounds like you need to step back, send in a spy with a camera, and a time stamp on it. I used to see people in another section, sitting in their wheel chairs, waiting  three to four hours, to be taken to bed. No hygeine, just flopped in bed. The way they landed, was the way they were all night. I would walk down the hallway, and try to make them comfortable. \n\nAlso I  had three old Vets with Hep. C. I was reported to the upper staff, for wearing Nitrile gloves to hand feed bread, etc.,to keep from transferring from one patient to another.The Facility had no Universal Precautions in place. (how to handle blood etc.) I know exactly what you are talking about with his care.\n\nWe had a little **** of a Gestapo, mean, mean mean. I told her, that for every mean thing she said to a patient, that I would be right behind her, saying something nice. I went nose to nose with her on many occasion.\n\nIt is true that Caregivers are over worked and under paid, but when on burn out, guess who suffers.\n\nWell, I hope you can work your way back to what you had with your son and his father. He still needs you. You will find a way. \n\nDon't talk to his Guardian at this time. It is just ammunition for her.\nCan you send him a bouquet of flowers, say from neighbors gardens for him through a friend? \n\nHe will have a Caregiver that will tell him it is from you. There is always the good and the evil. The good will win over.\n\n\n\n\n.
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Krystal.. way to go Violating the Privacy Act and abusing your access to SECURE military information.  Ever hear of PERSEC?!  You have NO way of knowing of the Original Question asker is legit or a phsycho stalker or even someone out to cause trouble in other ways.  \n\nAs for answeringt he question:  If you are a family member, you can contact the Rear D and ask them.  Altrenatively, you can request the American Red Cross to do a Welfare check.  You would need to provide them with his name, rank, Social Secuirty Number and his Duty station, and they will try and contact him and tell him you are looking for him.  they may NOT however, tell you any information as to where he is, nor can they make him contcat you.
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I have worked in a group home that was affiliated with an actual residential treatment facility. It would seem that this child is currently in crisis. If he is in a group home, he should have been receiving some sort of wrap-around services. I would get in touch with either the judge, his DCFS caseworker or his therapist and they can initiate a 3 day psychological crisis placement in a hospital to evaluate the child. ( I am not sure how old he is which could affect this advice) If this is done, and it appears that he needs extra support, it would probably be a good idea for him to lose unsupervised home visits for a while until he is stabilized. If he continues to escalate, then it is possible he needs a more restrictive environment (residential) for a while, again his therapist and case managers would have to be involved in the facilitation and the determination of this type of placement. In the meantime...take his clothes and shoes, put him in pajamas until he earns back the privileges that go with being trusted.\n\nThis is what we did with our kids when they went AWOL and we kept a supply of pajamas just for these instances. The kids had no slippers, shoes or clothes and this was a real deterrent to running away.\n\nI hope this helps, and I hope the young chap gets some help, it really sounds like something bad may have happened while he was at home and this is his reaction.\n\nGood Luck
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You need to pose your question to a lawyer in your local area. Your son may have a remedy through the courts, but there may be time restrictions that could bar recovery.
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From everything you have said it is only quite obvious that he doesn't have the stability for custody, however the court will probably give him some sort of visitation because he is the father and wants to see his children. The mother could have stipulations put on this such as court ordered drug testing and supervised visits to make sure that he is staying clean, and considering his past with drugs, the court would be likely do this. You didn't mention if your friend had an attorney. It would probably be a good idea to seek an attorney's advice on this.
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Your son did good by leaving and should counter file against her for filing false police report. Also if there were any adult witness in the facility it would be best for him to get statements form them to take with him that he was the bigger person and left.
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Wow.  You gave me chills.  My husband works for the D.O.T.  How can I help you.  Please e-mail me immediately.  What state are you in?  I can help.  Please let me help you.
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My heart and soul goes out to you after having read your life's story.   You are 100% right that your son is a danger to himself and others.  Believe me it would take nothing for him to kill you, himself or other around him.    \n\nI really fail to understand the "State Hospital", where you reside.  They should have never released him to a half way house as he really belongs in a unit for the "Criminal Insane".  (This does not mean that he is a "Crimial").  These units are used for people like your son who have serious mental illness.  And the staff, including the psychiatrist have special training on dealing with patients who can become psychotic or any given reason.  \n\nIn all reality in need to stay there and not be released to the general public.     I know that he is your son, but you have every reason to fear for your life.  \n\nI don't see what SSI, is going to do for him, because he requires supervision 24 hours per day with the psychiatic DX., that you have described.  He is not capable of living on his own.  Plus he is a danger to you and society.   \n\nI know you love your son.  And the very best you can do for your son is to get a judge to commit him back into the State Hospital onto a "Criminal Unit", where they have the skills and training to control aggressive behavior and psychotic behavior.   \n\nWish I could offer you a better solution. Dealing with reality is very difficult when it is your flesh and blood.  If you value your life and the life of others, plus your love for your son.  Please do all possible with your own State Government to have him placed back into the hospital for good.   \n\nAll patients have mental advocates to protect their rights.  And alot of judges don't have the qualifications to deal with these types of situations.  But they have the power being a judge to over-ride my professional desire to keep a person like you son in the hospital without release.  They can let them out and then if the person harms some one or themselves they have to live with it forever.    \n\nGod bless you and watch over you.  Hope that your government and country will do the right things for your son.    (What is sad, is that local governments only act when a life is taken).  \n\nClinical Psychiatrist, France\n\nExcuse my english
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If he took your son, then call the cops. They will put out an amber alert for him. If he doesn't want to be found, most likely he won't be. America's most wanted loves guys like these if he took your son from you. If he didn't then I would say www.anywho.com. That is helpful. Keep trying and don't give up and yet don't let it run your life either okay? good luck to you!
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What was his offense? It's pretty easy these days to become a "Registered Sex Offender"... I know one guy who wound up charged with sex crimes when "Drunk in Public" would have been the appropriate charge...he urinated in public (the parking lot) and did not zip back up... and now must register as an SO for the next 5 years... all I'm saying is that there may be more to the story and this guy may not be any danger at all, to anyone...If the dad truly should be kept away from his daughter, she should contact a victim's rights advocacy group for advice.
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Your husband may have a mental disorder but he still has rights and if he is being released the agency must feel he can function in society.  This does not mean they are right but they are only following the rules of the agency.  If the doctor felt he should still be hospitalized they would ask for a Judicial Commitment. They can not keep him if they believe he is better.  It is unfortunate that your husband is not giving you more information or including you in the discharge plane because it may help ease some of your fears. Since you do not have any proof that your son has seen your husband acting out sexually it may be difficult to prove.  Also, I don't see how the therapist could have you son removed if he has no proof of abuse. What he has is a possible event in which your son saw your husband participating in cyber sex.  How many children have walked on their parents having sex? I am not saying your reason is not valid or a reason for concern I am just saying it just may not be consider abuse or neglect. \n\nSo where does that leave you and your son? You are his mother and if you feel he has been affected by your husband sexual voyeurism please do everything possible to protect him.  Do you have your own income, can you move out, is there a friend or family member you can stay with.  Are you afraid of your husband?  You may need to contact a women's shelter if you have run out of options.  It may also be possible that your husband has gotten better but his disorder is too difficult for you to manage.  If this is the case it may be time for you to start taking steps to dissolving the marriage and living on your own.  It is very difficult to live with someone with a mental disorder especially someone with an Axis I of DID.  I know right now you feel lonely, frustrated, and angry.  It may appear that everyone is looking out for your husband but there are know options for you son.  If I were you I would call child protection myself to start an investigation go with your guts because it is better to be safe than sorry.
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OK you say he is a recovering addict, How long? Dose he ask for money? How did he get clean? Please Email me with more details as I've been clean for 3 years and i think i could help. I started at 14 until i was 20. You can contact me if you have a look at my profile
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He needs to get in contact with the child support agency that his is sending his money to.  And a lawyer,  if he has visitation rights.  Than he has the right to know where his child is and to see them.  The cops are just going to say that they can't do anything unless he has full custody.  Go to the court and talk to the judge that signed the visitation order.  They may be able to help know what he signed and what to do.  He should have never signed something that  he didn't completely understand.  I did that, and the people ended up getting full custody of my son and took off with him,  When they and their lawyers told me over and over that I was signing a temporary custody agreement.  Legal papers are so confusing even to very smart people.  Keep standing behind him and helping your man.  I commend you for being a real woman, and hold on to your hope and strength.  Because it may take time and money that you think that you don't have.  But every thing will work out for you.
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I am a Bail Bond Agent in Phoenix, Arizona.  The main jail information number is 602 876-0322, and the main switchboard number is 602 876-1000.   You can also call me at work at 602 252-1777 and I would be happy to help you out if I can.\n\nAs for your visiting your son.  Even if you were a felon, you may still visit.  The "no felon, no visit" rule does not apply to immediate family members.  You may have to write to the Captain of the jail to get permission first; sometimes just a call will suffice.\n\nNow  when you say no one listens to you there, well -YOU'RE RIGHT!  Don't feel lonely.  I come in contact with many people over at the jail daily and believe me, they don't listen to me either.  Don't take it personally, but they all know better then we do (hahaha). \n\nHope this helps, call me at work if not.  Good Luck!