i love my girl friend very much but recently we have become "seperated" she has become distant and gets defensive at every little thing i say, i just want her to know i love her, any ideas?
211175
the best way to show her that you love her is to spend quality time with her and tell her y you love her. She buy her things but if she really loves you those things dont matter
401923
Give her time and space to think. Let her know you love her but also let her know you will not wait forever that if she doesn't come back soon you will move on with your life. It doesn't sound like there was very much going on to cause the problem more like she was feeling out of control of her own life. Let her take on more responsibility and respect her choices. Try involving her in decision making and let her feel in control part of the time and she will feel loved and respected. \n~Best of Luck~
282932
She loves you but not willing to give you 100% of her heart and soul..She obviously cares but is in doubt of a future with you..She seems to be questioning her own motives for being in a relationship with you..Maybe shes not totally satisfied with the relationship or feel solid enough in it..Seems to me she is willing to be friends but from a distance..Do not give her an alternative..thats instant death!Give her understanding and your friednship but your heart would be more appreciated elsewhere..Good luck!
199634
i have a feeling she suddenly is not seeing you in the "best friend" light anymore, but rather as something more, and doesnt know how to handle it and needs time/space to sort out her feelings. pressing her to talk about it when she is not ready would alienate her even more. she'll come around, just be patient. you hovering around does not help her think.
208831
U NEED 2 TALK.FOLLOW DA CLOSURE THEORY.TELL HER HOW MUCHU LOVE HER.MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL.TELL HER U LOVE HER NOT BCOZ OF WAHAT SHE IS BUT WHO SHE IS.TRUST ME DUDE .ITS GONNA WORK.ALL DA BEST!
536667
I Think she is thinking as more than a friend. And she thinks that you are only one who can understand her feelings and can give some kind of support to her. Plz let it continue the same.\nAnd i think you have to wait for the right moment to express your love.\n\nALL THE BEST!!!!!!
330622
I think you need to give more details on your situation because I don't know what you are asking. What do you mean by you are "seperated"? \n\nDid you two once go out as boyfriend and girlfriend and was living much closer to each, but now live far apart but now the relationship is long term?\n\nAnd what do you mean you have problems talking to her on the phone? Describe what the problem is.....\n\nMore details please...
100758
If you love her so much you shouldn't be asking this question you should already know the answer love is abou ,LOVE, TRUST , RESPCT ADN PATIENCE. If she don't wanna give it up right now wait for her but i do also know that you are a dude and you get that eurge so if you gone do that at least tell her you need space first or brake up with her because that ain't right.
301838
talk about tis openly to ur gf cos must b that she cant understand u or u might be getting 2 much possessive abt her.  give her some space ok, cheer up
114399
Okay, she doesn't love you.  If she did she'd be able to say it.  She'd also be willing to leave her primary relationship.  You appear to be merely a plaything on the side.  She probably is getting a major ego boost out of you being her puppy-dog.  If you're willing to be second-best then by all means continue the sex part of the relationship but don't expect her to tell you she loves you anytime soon.
660408
I can understand why she's feeling distant,I know I would feel overwhelmed...it's a tough call.I would say wait it out,try to get her talk about about what she's feeling,have some patience...it's gotta be a scary time for her and mabe she's afraid to show that?I would at least be there for her and not pressure untill all this is done and behind you both...if you really care about her and she truely wants  this relationship,why riun a good thing?Give her some space.Mabe that's all she needs,to know that you care and are willing to stick by her.
341202
The reason that women act that way is because there are torn in between there "feelings & heart"!! She's IN LOVE WITH YOU!!!\nAnd she's having a hard time couping with that, and now you told her that you want time apart she's really taking it hard!!\nShe really want to be with you but at the same time she don't want to wreck the friendship that you 2 have!\nIf you and she have very strong feelings towards each other don't be shy to make that next step!!!
82037
It sounds like after she got to know you a little bit she found you were not the typ of guy she was looking for,no offence you may be a realy great guy,just maybe for someone else.If you want to work it out sit down with her and explain to her how you feel.If she gets upset right away and doesnt want to talk about it,that is a sign that she may not love youlike you love her.
163079
Share your feelings with her. Then listen to what she has to say. If she says she loves you and wants to be serious, then it is time to evaluate her actions. If she does what it takes to make you feel loved, and she accepts your love in return, there may be a future for you and her.
217326
either she loves you! or she's afraid that if you start dating someone you won't spend as much time with her! You should sit her down and have a talk!
251097
apparently she loves you!  not many people are left in this world that are willing to put aside their own emotions to spare anothers.  let her help you or just let her be there.  anymore love is hard to find, you have found someone who apparently will stick behind you through thick and thin don't let that go, you may regret it down the road.  she is on your side shes not against you, lean on her don't push her away
6993
Wow, tough problem. I think what I'd do is have a heart to heart with the girlfriend. Maybe she really does want him to be happy with you and maybe it's him that's holding out hope for a renewed relationship with her. If that's the case, she'll need to back off, but you need to find out if that's really the way it is or not first. Good luck. I feel for you.