I've lost that person... need help fast.
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its always painful to lose a close friend....i'm sorry that you did...but keep your head up and hold the memories that you guys had together close to you....and if its possible let things between you guys cool off and talk...you regret if it you dont
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Faith, Honey, faith. I am so sorry for your loss, but she does hear you as does God. Whenever you are out, do ever see something out of the blue that she liked? Sometimes they let us know in very subtle ways. It can be in the smallest things that we take for granted every day. You can see her in the innocent beauty of a childs smile or a picture of a snow-white dove. A rainbow or a picture of a rainbow. Whenever I need to know that God is hearing me, I ask to see a rainbow or a dove and lo and behold, I will see one even if I'm not looking for it. Look for her in everyday things that make you feel warm and happy and you will find her. She is watching you from above. Also, being as you have found Yahoo Answers, even if it was before your daughter passed away, you were brought here for a reason. God knows that you need friends now and you have found friendship and hopefully comfort here. We are like a family here on YA and we do our best to support each other. If God was not listening, you would not have found your way here or to any other means of comfort and support. The people here on YA are the best and some of the most forgiving, caring and loving people I've ever had the pleasure and the honor to meet. Keep your faith and know that your daughter is in the arms of Jesus now and he feels your pain as we do as well. You are in my prayers and if you need to talk, you may send me a message. I'm a mother too and I know how strong a mother's love is. Don't worry, God is in control and you will meet with your daughter again. Just look around. She is in every flower, gentle breeze, every act of kindness, in every beautiful sunrise and sunset but most of all, she is in your heart forever. God bless, sweetie. I'll pray for you, we all will.
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Condolences.\n\nJust continue doing what you're doing right now. Just be there for him. If he gets mad, try to understand him because you know what he's going through right now. And don't forget to pray for him.
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aawww, that is sooo cute, i was really moved to tears..\ni hope you really find that person..\n\nGood luck.. ^^
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  Whatever you do - do something.  No matter how insignifcant whatever you do may seem to you at the moment - it will mean more than you can imagine to the family.  They understand the distance in miles associated with this loss.  God bless you and yours at this time!
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missing you you can post a message or try bt.com or friends reunited good luck
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Hope someone can help you.
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I just lost mine 2 days ago and I hadn't seen her in 11 yrs. I had left my home country and have not gone back since then. Also I am not able to leave right now to attend the funeral, it is tearing me up so much.  I feel your pain and understand where you are in this.  As hard as it may seem we simply have to think of the good times in memory and how much joy she brought into our lives.  Life is never the same when your mother passes away, however you must go on.  Maybe you can do something together with family that will keep her memory alive.
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Turn to God. I also lost my father at age 10. I am now 30. It hurts but God can turn any sadness to joy. I know this because 4 years ago I also lost my first born. God has a reason for everything and even though we may not agree or like it he will make good come from it. My suggestion to you is to turn it over to God. He is the only one that completely understands how you feel and he is the only one that knows exactly what you need. I hope this helps, even if just a little.\nGod Bless.
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Please seek some professional help or help from your church.  My good friend did the same thing when her dad died suddenly.  It's been 10 years and I swear she is stuck in a grieving time warp.  She still cries about it today like she did 10 years ago.  She never sought any kind of help or even medication.  You really need someone who can guide you through the grieving process.
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You can't forget about him, and we both know that. Just try to relax, and take the steps that follow in your life. If it's meant to be, he will be back. If not, then someone better is waiting on you in the future. I have NEVER lost anyone that there wasn't somebody better there to replace them. Good Luck!!
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Trying to resuscitate the person who collapsed next to me about 15 minutes ago...
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I know how you feel, i lost my brother 6 years ago on monday. I still cry i miss him so much. Sorry for your loss. Keep strong, he is in a better place now and will always be in your heart.
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I feel bad for you.  I'm so sorry that you have lost someone in your life that sounds like a soul mate.  I hope you will always be friends with this person even if you are not "in love with each other or anything like that."  I would not accept loosing this person in my life if I was you.  Not with computers and pen and paper and phones.  I would talk to my Mom about it and I would contact him and tell him how you feel, that he is important to you and that you would like to remain friends even 3000 miles apart.  Good friends are worth the effort.
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I am very sorry for you loss. Each person grieves differently and for various times. As each days passes it will hopefully get easier for you. Take care and I will keep you in my prayers.
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That's a tough situation and I'm so sorry for your loss. You should definitely talk openly about this with other family members and friends. You should also consider seeing your doctor for depression. Since you can't bring your mom back, try to focus on how to celebrate her. Put together a memorial with her pictures, hobbies and guest speakers. Did she have any dreams? Live out some of her fantasies for her. Feel her passion and feel her spirit inside you. The mourning period needs some closure so you can move on with your life. Try talking with more people like teachers, counselors, and even strangers. Cry a lot. Also...go ahead and talk to your mom. Ask her for advice and let your heart guide you. But don't ever give up!
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. \nI think you need to be patient with yourself and allow yourself to grieve. Don't rush yourself through the grieving process. Allow yourself to cry if that's what you need to do. You said you and your sister were really close. Six months ago is still pretty fresh. Have you tried talking with others?  Having a support network can be helpful. Also, it can be helpful to read books on the grieving process. You are in my prayers during this difficult time.