we starting talking to each other, and we went out only once everything was kool he told me liked me and well i liked him too everything was perfect he didnt call for days than all of a sudden he has a new gurlfriend now.....i dont understand him....
213918
i have been that guy before. It is because the guy really needed some lovin, and takes whatever he could get, and takes whoever he can to be his girlfriend ASAP so you probably didnt respond fast enough. it's gonna be hard to talk to him from now on
263060
Give it a few days, he might just be following some silly rule about not getting back to you right away.\n\nOr he just changed his mind :(
159005
Yes he likes you, stick with him, he should be a good one.  Sounds like he is a bit shy and unsure of himself.  Help him out a bit.
423317
Maybe he liked you but for some reason is trying to back away. Maybe he thinks you don't like him? Try sending clues, like when he talks to you smile at him and keep the conversation going. Don't be shy, you have nothing to lose because he liked you at the begginning anyways. Just remember to not overdo it. Another good thing to do is for YOU to say hi to him once in a while, if he likes you he'll greatly appreciate that! Hope everything goes well!!
187757
Awww! I hate it when that happens... \nMaybe he just wasn't good enough for you...\nI don't know what you told him but possibly, something that you told him about your personal stuff made him think that you're not the right one for him... I don't know! \nDon't worry about it. It was just a date! Move on... there's plenty more fish in the sea :)
151344
Don't worry too much about it, maybe he went out with you and decided he didn't like you as much as he thought he did.  Men (and women) are like this all the time and instead of being honest and telling what it is...they do things like this.  He's trying to "let you down easy" and not confront the situation.  My advice is to get involved with other things (friends, family, etc) and keep it moving.  You can't get someone to be interested in you if they aren't.
347000
He could have been confused and tried denying how he really felt... especially since you both are so close it would almost be natural for him since there's already a connection between the two of you.\n\nI doubt he was leading you on and if he wasn't letting anyone know that he was gay there would almost be no way of you knowing.  He probably feels worse than you do right now and he might even be thinking be that he did lead you on in some way.  \n\nThe only thing I can say is that the longer you wait to talk to him again the more ackward things are going to be.  The sooner you get things out in the open and talk about it, the quicker everything will go back to normal.\n\nI'm bi and I actually had a similar expirience with a friend of mine who was gay.  We use to work together and he was always touchy feely; I assumed maybe he was bi like me... needless to say I was wrong.  (Even though I now know he is as gay as gay can be, he's got this thing with boobs lol, which I guess all guys do.)  \n\nI felt stupid for a long time but I didn't want my misunderstanding to affect things between us.  We talked about it and I realized that it wasn't an option to be his lover but "friends" aren't bad either.  I knew that keeping him as a friend meant I wouldn't lose him and losing him was the last thing that I wanted to happen.\n\nEverything is fine now and we're still really good friends.  Don't think that you're the first girl to fall for a gay guy because that's not true at all.  You get a man with the caring part of a woman... all straight ladies want that!!!  Just talk to him and let him know that no matter what you're going to continue to be there for him just as he will be there for you.
327535
maybe he just got tired of waiting on you, so now he thinks that you may be playing games since you all have been hanging out for 5 months and now all of a sudden you want to be serious with him.  Find out if maybe he just found another girl and if he hasn't then just let him know how you feel about him
665532
Yeah...I would say he was nervous. If you like him, you should be the "outgoing" one and talk to him. Ask him questions so he doesn't have to be nervous and think of what to talk about....(When he gets back.)
201891
he heard you liked him.So he sent you signals to see if it was true.So your now labeled as "this chick that likes me".just act like you lost interest and when he resends the signals to see if you still like him then ask him what hes doing.Like dude whats up you sendin me signals you want to get with me or what?then if he says yes or no its not a rejection just a question about  what HES doing
644145
would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
477904
I think he still likes you, but he probably chickened out. The tournament COULD have been true...but... The guy could have met another girl, also.  I'd suggest YOU asking him to go out some other time, and see what happens. If he says no, just shrug it off, sort of, "Okay, just thought it'd be fun." If he says yes, well then.... Good luck, girlie!!! ;)
423829
He obviously just liked you as friend, but you have more feelings for him than that. However for the time being, give him space and hopefully he will start talking to you. I know that it hurts but if he doesn't like you in that way you will have to find someone else.  The next time you see him, don't say anything just smile and then after that just say hello. Give it time and hopefully he will start speaking to you again
451721
weird, maybe he is with someone already, and was just teasin u?\nhope not
171905
He was defiantly flirting.  Odds are that he has always liked you as more than a friend and though this was a good chance to give it a shot and see what might happen.  Chances are though that if something had happened he wouldn't have left his girl friend.
668739
Sounds like he likes you. So go for it. Maybe he had feelings for you which is why he had broke up with his girlfriend. He wants you and now he wants to see how you feel about him. Let him know by flirting back, hang out more, talk more and see how things work out.
98600
it seems like theres something about you that he likes. i should know-i did the same thing but ended up being rejected when i told this girl what i felt for her.