a couple of weeks ago, i took my girlfriend's virginity, and i used protection, pulled out and everything. my question is, she's having cramps and everything, but has not started bleeding yet and she is worried. is this normal or she i take her to a doctor?
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go buy a pregnancy test.
555876
this happened to me for 2 years after i began having sex. My doctor said that it was no big deal, that my partner was just slighty um, "large" down there, and that my hymen was just not fully broken before him. It stopped and the pain i was having with it stopped too. no problems since, good luck!!
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Just because you bled doesnt mean it was popped again and again. If you are a smaller chick then just the stretching of the skin can cause some bleeding, now if we are talking a lot of bleeding, then there could be other things. How much blood, how long was it between you had sex, and did it continue. Hell, it could mean you are pregnant and are experiencing implantation bleeding if you bled the first time and didnt do it for a couple weeks then tried again, or your period is going wacky, stress, who knows. I would say more than likey though if you had sex pretty soon after each time, then he's just stretching you out. you will get used to it.
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It didn't hurt me, but I did it with a guy that had an average sized piece of manhood. The size of his penis will be a factor in whether or not it hurts the first time. Spotting is a very normal thing to happen once the hymen is broken. Also, how old are you? You don't sound ready to lose your virginity. Be sure to think it through... I am not meaning to preach, but make sure that you are ready. I lost mine when I was seventeen because I thought I had found the right guy, but we then broke up and I hated myself for it. And be sure to use protection... Also, don't do it because he wants it... It must be a mutual agreement. Both of you must be ready for the consequences if the contraceptive devices do not work.
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If your gf is a virgin still, you will have to penetrate a small seal of thin skin. This is what causes the bleeding and some very short but powerful pain. The amount of blood is minor and you may miss it, it will be on the sheets, or whatever, afterwards. However, as a male with such sensitivity on the top of your, uh, staff, you will feel the blockage, as well as when you rupture it. If you really do care for her, you will be as gentle as possible to her, if not, leave her alone for someone who really does care.
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Sometimes if your period is due sexual stimulation can cause your period to start. \n\nBut you are a virgin and it is possible that your hymen has now been broken.
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lier lier is all i can say.. even for a guy when losing his virginity it is kinda a nervous-ish experience. i am sure not as indepth as the ladies BUT STILL AN EXPIERIENCE..why? well there is a stereotype for guys and this dude you speak off seems to be exemplifying this stereotype... more than likely his first time was shorter than that.. maybe 5 to 15 minutes the most... why well even if he was with an experienced female... she probably would have orgasmed by then... with me and my virginity it was like 5 minutes.. i didn't have an orgasm and the primary reason for the above turn out was because i was doing it with my girlfriend and it was her first time as well... in all honesty after like 30 seconds of actual penetration and trust we stopped because it was painful for her... the first time usually encounters physical obstacles... the pain of your hymen breaking... I have had this same experience with 3 more young ladies where they were losing thier virginities. A couple times went by like this until they had healed up, gotten over the psycological fears of pregnancy and all that.. and actually got into enjoying the feelings actually generated by the act of intercourse/making love...after those initial 2 to 3 times ...well it's all climax from there!!!! no pun intended.. hoped this helps.. \n\none more thing.. don't be in such a rush to loose your virginity... it makes a big difference in your life... i guarantee it.. picture yourself at 21 or 27 and a friend asked you about your first time... the answer can either go one of two ways.. ohh its something i'll never forget cause it was with a great guy.. boyfriend of mine where we had a good and long relationship OR i regreted my first time... it was wack... i didn't really feel anything (emothionally or otherwise) i don't even remember that guy. i wish i had waited longer...  when that time comes.. i guarantee you'll remember The Thinker!
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wasting ur time. happened to me like 5 times! it's normal. it just means u didn't shed all ur blood and the vagnia is getting rid of some more. for me it lasted 3 days after mmy regular period. don't worry, it is normal. but if u r still nervous go to a different dr to get a different oppinion.
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If it is your first time, then it was perfectly normal. After first sex, bleading cause of the tear of hymen, that protect your virginia. But if it isn't ur first time, then may be that time you are not relaxed. If not, then I advice please contact to the doctor. No, you are not pregnant if you took any precaution, like condom, pills etc.
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yes that's normal.  and kudos for keeping your virginity this long.  once you give it away you can never get it back.  if the person you give it to truly loves you, and hopefully she will, size won't matter anyway.
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Here's the honest scoop...I have a 15 year old daughter and I found a note of her promising a boy her virginity...so as her mom I freaked out. Well, I took her to get on birth control just in case and in the meantime I scared the heck out of her, hoping that if she did have sex she would just tell me so I would know and could offer her protection and help her deal with any problems that may come from it. Truth be told, when I took her to the gynocologist, the doctor asked me to leave the room when they examined her and also explained to me that anything she discussed with her or learned was strictly doctor patient confidentiality. I even tried to scare her after the exam by telling her the doctor told me something and she was in big trouble. I tried scaring her needlessly...I think. Bottom line, no the doctor keeps all of that confidential by a law known as HIPPA now and from the doctor patient confidentiality oaths they take. Even if your mom says the doctor told her something, she's only going on suspicion and trying  to scare the truth out of you. If you do decide to have sex, just make sure that you are protected, please. I had to add that....as a mom :o)
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I guess it's too late to say "don't have sex"... so here it goes: When your hymen is broken you might bleed, but not all girls bleed a lot, so you may not notice it. If he is big, maybe he didn't go in all the way to where it would hit it and break it. If you really want to know for sure, you can go see a doctor and they can tell you.
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Madam, you understand the system all wrong.\n\nBeing a virgin is having the hymen intact. Now a days due to exercises, cycling and other sports, the hymen tears itself,but that does not mean the virginity islost.\n\nEven during virginity, the menstrual flow comes autmatically, as there is space in the vagina to discharge it.The cramps will follow in either case.Tampons/pads you will have to use.\n\nAnd there is no question of saving the eggs.They are produced every cycle of 28 days, and discharged if not consumed by male sperms during cotius.\n\nRemove the silly myths from your mind.\n\nI am a male, and have a daughter your age. I know better.
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ok first are you peeing blood?second did they give you anti-biotics to prevent infection? when i had mine put in they gave me anti-biotics to prevent infection and they also set me up with a follow up appointment 3-4 weeks later.some of what your saying does sound normal.i bleed for a few days after i had mine put in and i had cramping.from my experience i would say dont worry unless if you are in so much pain you cant take it.the thing is there is something new in your body and it will take some time for your body to adjust it.i had mine done in june of this year and im just starting to get used to it.so give it some time and make a follow up appointment.
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I didn't bleed, it was just a little uncomfortable. It's normal to bleed, though, and I'd say that your amount of bleeding is normal, too, as long as it stopped after a few days. Don't worry.
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you guys are young!\ni was in a situation very similar to hers. \ni thought i would die if the guy i loved didn't take me in his arms and "consummate" our relationship (as you say) \nand well he caved to my wishes and it hurts now. every so often i regret not being a virgin. and we are in a long distance relationship too. and even though its working its tough.\n\ni would say wait. tell her whats in your heart. and it sounds like you have her feelings in mind in deciding not to have sex with her and if u explain that to her I'm sure she would appreciatte that you considered her emotions.
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all girls cycles are different i bleed alot more on than off most are as long as 2-3 months with only 4 days stopped its normal for some to not bleed at all or very light just to be on safe side pop to doctors it may be nothing but might put your mind at ease