I have two questions. If you liked a guy and you were good friends with his sister, would you say something like "I love you, (my sister), and I like you too, (my name)!" Would this be something you say to test whether he likes you or not?\n\nAnd if he reacted by making a weird face about the whole comment, how would you feel? Would you stay away from him for the rest of the evening after flirting with him heavily before that?\n\nHelp me out! I am trying to figure out this girl based on her actions. Thanks for any and all ideas!
217537
Yes, that would be a way to test the waters. And as for making a weird face...that might tell her that u dont like her or either that or ur confused.
261079
I wouldn't ask anybody if he likes you, but him himself!  I mean can't nobody tell you the truth, but him.  I think you should really talk to him and let him know how you feel if he is mature enough to talk to.  If not, why be with him??? What is it about this person that makes you really all into him that you can't find from somebody else that treats you better and doesn't get mad at you over petty stuff, you don't have to give him sex everytime you see him, and you can talk to during the day?  Are you the only one he is talking too and having sex with?  Don't put yourself out there if you know what I mean.  But seriously, what guy do you know isn't going to get mad at you if he finds out that you are talking to somebody... lets not be dumb about it.  A male will get mad because he thinks you are giving another male the attention that he wants.  Dude may like you or should I say the way you look, but that is it... like maybe it would be better off if ya'll were just friends... would it hurt???  How long were you all friends before you started dating or more importantly having sex with him???  Think about your feelings.  If you aren't happy or feeling like you are unsure about things, that is a sign that you should move on.  I bet if you stop having sex with him he will start treating you like crap and why is it that he can't call you during the day?  These are the types of things that I used to have to ask myself when I would find myself in those types of situations.  I am young and I just like sharing the type of advice that I learned from all three of my brothers and both of my sisters.  So trust me, I have seen the game played and all.   What do you think you should do???
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Tuesday January 24, 2006 \n\nand I had a crazy weekend.  I told Kina about Brian.  I really regret even beginning anything with him it was just because of curiosity and not only was it a waste of time, (because I love Kina too much to end things) but it didnt satisfy any curiosity that I had.  I liked Brian because he was funny and he wanted me.  But then I broke it down and figured out why ?  Because he knows i am taken.  He is only 23, he has massive amounts of women that he knows well and chills with them.  He just liked the challange.  But I never did anything like that with him.  Althought I did want to, the fact remains, Kina does me o-so-well.  Maybe sometimes he will conk out or his buddy might get a lil tired, he does make a valid effort to make sure my hearing goes down when we are done (lol) and he is the only one who knows what to say and how to say it..\naaanyway so I am at work, thinking about food.  my salvation.  Grub.  Well i am probably going home today.  I havent been home since Friday the 20th damn right?  I miss my pup.  Xeeny Weeny.  I miss her so fuckin much.  You know what i dont really miss?  MYSPACE!  at work I miss it but i have psycho steve monitering my every myspace move.  That shit head.  And he swears up and down to Lauren that Kay told him she was with Ryan that night.  He denies it.  But i believe my sister over anybody.  and Kay knows that, so what is he hiding?  I dont know, so much shit.  I really want to have my own place.  I want to feel freedom.  But i dont want a lot of bills.  Kina said when i talk about moving in with him I make it seem so farefetched.  And its true, when I think about it, I feel like even thought I want it so bad, it is almost impossible to happen.  What Kina wont hear me say is that I dont have a lot of faith in him to do the right thing so I feel our chances of making it together are slim to none.  I hope that I am wrong.  But im not getting any younger.  What am I really trying to say?  I dont fucking know man.  i really dont.
437843
Does he say an actual name of a girl he likes? Or does he just say "Theres this girl i like" if he says a name he may be seeing how you will react when he says there is another girl, like he wants to see if you act upset then he'd know you kind of like him. If hes saying an actual name, thats odd because to me i would say he likes you he asked you to a dance and all but then maybe he feels like your  more that a friend....but my honest opinion is that he likes you and is talking about another girl to see what your reaction is so he can get a feel of how your feeling! Just go with the flow and have fun! Good luck at the Dance!
257334
"I don't normally do this, but uh..., I saw you from across the party and I felt compelled to tell you that you have one breath-taking hiney...I want to be friends with it, I mean that thing is good."\n\nor\n\n"I don't know how to tell you this, but I'm kind of a big deal. people know me. I'm important, I have many leather-bound books and my apartment smells of rich mahogany. Merlin Olsin comes over on occasion."\n\nor\n\n"I wanna be on you."\n\nbut for real, what REALLY works...\n\n"Hi...my name is __________, and I just wanted to come over here to tell you that you are really pretty and you seem like a really cool person, and I was wondering if I could buy you a drink." (not very creative, but sincerity always works best.)...then sit down and ask the girl about herself and let her talk...girls love to talk about themselves and men rarely listen, so you will make an impression.
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I actually don't know, but what ever you do, think about this....\n\nIf you were in her shoes, how would you feel if you were rejected by your friends?\nHow would you feel, if someone did not want to be associated with you?\n\nSometimes some friendships are not good for us, but then we have to ask ourselves; is it because I am too proud to be associated with him / her… \n..or is she / he a bad influence on me.\n\nWhat ever you do, search your own heart, \nbe honest, and,\nspeak to her openly, but be careful not to hurt her,  the table might turn!\n\nThat which you sow, you will reap…
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Ok let me clear this ....\n\nI like this guy ...>>>\n\nFine u like that guy.... \n\nwho is best friend with my guy- best friend...(that part is confusing) \n\nI think ur trying to say that u have another GUY best friend and the guy u like is the best friend of that guy. Okkkkkk\n\nFine....\n\nWENT out wit my best friend so its she...obviously...\n\nSo ur guy best friend dated wit ur best friend where the guy u like have been introduced to ur best friend...\n\nAnd u feel that he likes her....\nok \nthat's enough... u pls add more details....\n\n\nBut all i can say is dont think, that will lead u into problems...talk and deside..\n\nGOOD LUCK.
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YOU ARE IN A TOUGH SITUATION; HOWEVER, WOULDN'T YOU WANT TO KNOW.  YOU NEVER KNOW HOW THE SISTER MIGHT REACT SHE COULD EITHER BE MAD THAT YOU JUST BROKE THE NEWS TO HER, BUT LATER WHEN SHE DOES A LITTLE EXPLORING THE FACTS ON HER OWN I WOULD IMAGINE SHE WILL THINK YOU.  I HAVE A FRIEND OF MINE THAT NEVER TOLD HER OTHER FRIEND THAT HER BOYFRIEND TRIED TO COME OVER FOR A BOOTY CALL.  MY FRIEND TURNED THE GUY DOWN AND CHOSE TO KEEP THIS INFO TO HERSELF. A FEW MONTHS LATER SOMEONE ELSE TOLD THE OTHER FRIEND AND THE TWO USE TO BE FRIENDS HAVE NEVER TALKED SINCE, IF SHE REALLY MEANS ANYTHING TO YOU, YOU WOULD BE BETRAYING HER IF YOU JUST LET THIS GUY TREAT HER LIKE THAT. WE ALL NEED PEOPLE TO WATCH OUT FOR US AND IF MY RELATIONSHIP WAS IN JEOPRODY WITH A FRIEND FOR TELLING ME THE TRUTH I WOULD COME TO MY SENSES EVENTUALLY.
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How does she say it? does it sound like she means it?or do you provoke her into saying it,does she say it with a hug,kiss.does she say it around her friends and or family if so she probably does if not maybe its total B-S.but on the other hand i'm not there and i dont know her or your relationship so no one online can help you with that..
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Wow. A question that actuially fits my situation. Ok, im going to tell you what happened then im going to tell you what you should do. I really liked this girl. I've known her for four years and liked her for two of them. She liked me, then she didn't, she liked me then  she didn't, etc. She basicially led me on some times. I tried to ask her out and she said somthing like "I like you too, just not like you like me, bla bla bla no". It sucked. I was crushed. I tried to forget about her twice and it just ended up me looking like an ass and getting farther away from my goal. I would do anything for this girl, if she was sad id do whatever i could to cheer her up. if she was mad id listen and talk to her about it. if she was feeling down i told her exactly how i felt about her. Then she went out with this guy. Of course I was pissed off. I got in so many verbal fights with him because, by that time, the whole school knew I liked her by the way word gets around. I really don't know why nothing happened, everything was there, she thought I was hot I thought she was beautiful, We got along really well, liked the same music, everything fit. I'd give anything for a second chance at that first time I asked her out. Nothing will happen. I now know that. as much as i dont want to accept that, its true. and i need to.\n\nBut anyways, my story doesn't help you, but it gives you a realization of what can happen.\n\nYou have two options.\n1. Tell him you don't like him like that and expect him to be sad.\n2. If theres any attraction on your part, you can go out with him, if it works out great if it doesn't, oh well. because i bet hed do anything for that one chance.\n\nthe choice is up to you though. of course im going to lean towards the second option but the right choice is probably the first one. good luck.
602269
if he did not like you, he would not make that comment. He is putting a filler out to see if you cool or are you going to shoot him down. You should reply, in a flirtatious manner to let him know you are game!
176047
If you don't mind the games as you suggest, then I'd say go for it. If you're looking for something more on the serious side, the best thing to do is ask her out. If I flirted with only one man, I definitely would be trying to send him the signal that I like him. I wouldn't be playing games. Sounds like she's just waiting on some type of response back from you. What are you waiting for?? lol
301749
Check this out:\n\nThis girl that I really liked, that I had been do'n...back in my freshman year of college came over to me and my best friends dorm room one night to meet me.  I was way late getting back from something and basically the same thing happened, except he didnt nail her.  They were just messing around.  I didn't catch them in the act.  He told me later that night even though I never suspected a thing.\n\nI know it sounds way shady, but I was never really all that pizzed, because it was better to find out she was a skeezer from him than the entire fraternity!  More importantly, he came clean.\n\nWhere you fugged up is still hanging with her after your buddy got all pizzed.  You should have kicked her to the curb that night and explained to your buddy that it was a good thing that you found out for him that she was a skeezer.  \n\nDid he love this chick?  Did you know he loved her?  If he talked to you about love and was all about this girl, then you really messed up.  YOu also messed up by not kicking the girl to the curb the night of the incident.  If you were a real good friend and valued him, you would have done that...dont you think?
615447
Ok, if i had a sister and my bf kissed her and asked her if they want to futher their feeling, and he came back to me and said that he doesnt want to leave mo, i would tell him that he should have never kissed my sister if he dont want me to leave. If she did it once, she will do it again.
460335
okay well since your shy have a friend (while you guys are messing around or something) ask are you guys going out? or do you guys like each other or just single him out and have them ask gee it seems like you like her...do you? and even if he says no see what he does like with his face and stuff.......
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i got in a fight with another girl (at school, no1 was watching) that liked my crush. My crush came over and asked us why we were fighting. I said its about some guy and she practicly yelled "that guy is u and u like me beta rite?" well he was a little taken aback and said he'd think about it well after school he said he liked me better because i don't yell and i'm pretty and kind and all this other kind comments and now we've been going out for 2 years and like each other very much.\n\nremember to be yourself, i no i no thats what every1 says but if you pretend to be some1 else then he might think your acting weird and when he finds out what your really like he will ask you why you lied and bla bla bla. I wish you luck. :)
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Well....the idea was ok. You were just trying to create an excuse to be there to talk to him. That part is cool. You should *not* have told him your friend liked him. What if he went for her and not you. Now that seed is planted in his mind.\n\nIt could so totally blow up in your face and cause you and everyone major probs.\n\nNext time just say that someone dared her to take the pics and she did it. That way there's no outside elements that could hose up the scheme.\n\nHope things work out for you.     :)