Me and my girlfriend just broke up. I know that it's high school and not all relationships are gonna last but I really liked this girl..Has anyone experienced this and gotten over it?
210168
u just need time. some ppl get over it faster then others. i get over stuff fast theres no need to keep being up set. if it was ment to be she will come back!
38419
My friend.  you're going to hate yourself afterwards.\nI had a trophy girlfriend too.  We were hot and heavy for about a year, but I knew she wasn't the one.\nHowever, I stayed with her for three more years seeing how hot she was.  I could have easily cheated on her, but I didn't because I just wasn't the type.  Eventhough other girls were yearning for me because of how hot she was; that I must be doing something right horizontally *LOL*\nShe eventually started treating me like sh+t too, and I simply "took it" thinking I couldn't do better.\n\nI wish I had broken up with her after the first year because we would probably still be friends now and perhaps with benefits.  But we learned to hate each other within the three year's time and we went our separate ways not in good terms.\n\nI know you'll never find someone better, but I hope you don't waste the time holding on to something that's not there like I did.\nFortunately I was willing to forgive her and myself and moved on.\n\nI wish you the best.
591687
Love sometimes hurts.  This is one of those times.  You must either break up with her or insist that she break up with him.  This type of situation can lead to devastating results.  What if he finds out you are having sex with her and goes crazy?\n\nIt sounds like your total breakup is only a matter of time.  That being the case, the sooner the better.   The longer you are involved, the more hurt you will feel and the deeper the pain will be.  If she cheats on him, she will cheat on you.\n\nIf you get back together,  learn to be more considerate.  Better to bite your tongue off than to say things just to be hurtful.  Write your feeling down.  Read them back to yourself two days later.  Then you might want to edit what you wrote or even destroy it.\n\nI'm sure you know a lot of other girls.  Wait a while to heal and get to know some of them better.  You will be so much better off.\n\nGood luck.
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i know how you feel cuase i maybe just getting out of that right now...\n\nsee i haven't had a real boyfriend for almost 2 years  and about two weeks ago i asked a guy that is a grade younger out, he said yes becuase i knew he really liked me.. we went out for a week then i said i am just a lil over welmed by the feeling and just need to take a lil break.. after a while he started talking to my friends and practically the whoiole school found out we liked each other and now everyone considers us to be dating...  and we just kinda go with everyone cuase everyone else thinks it is great now im not so overwelmed with the feeling... i think the overwelming i use to feel was that i was afraid of being heartbroken again.\n\ndon't worry you will grow out of the feeling a lil while after you begin dating.. depending on however your emotions work..\n\nnothing to really worry about
120363
Laugh at them. I mean, she couldn't handle being single and fell into a rebound relationship that is doomed for failure. It's painful, I know, but don't worry. You're over her, what she does shouldn't bother you. Let her find another guy, let her screw up that relationship, and push her from your mind. You'll find someone else soon enough.
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I just got over a relationship where my best friend (who was also his x girlfriend) and him kept staying friends. I didnt really let him know how much it bothered me, but now that i look back, it totally bothered me... and now that were not together, im so glad its over because that issue was so annoying, not worth dealing with. Tell him to loose her and if he can't, drop him!
27780
aww how seet you sound like you have a good heart, but if she has a boyfriend then i'm sorry to say but u probably need to let her go, i know it hurts now and it will hurt for a while, but u never know they might have a problem and decide to break up, but for right now it doesn't look like it's going to happen u have a life to live live it to the fullest each day and u and her could be friends.. if u can't have her as a girlfriend u  can atleast have her as a good friend.. other girls will be out there, they may not be like her but i know they will like u and learn to love the person u are...
95886
Put yourself in this situation. Would you get jealous? Yeah, and besides getting jealous you would probably be ticked off that since they got a girlfriend I'm nothing now not even a friend. If she meant the world to her then why could you drop her so easily??? Maybe you should care more about other peoples feeling instead of just your own. Good Luck:) Sorry, if this offends anybody.
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sounds like the girl you want is the girl you broke up with . tell her how you feel and that no one else will do you want her and only her. if she loves you to she will feel the same . good luck i hopeit all works out.
588417
Hey,\n\nits not the end of the world. you have to take it as a learning point and move on. its going to hurt, i can honestly say it will definitely hurt a lot, but you have to look at the bigger picture, its not the end of the world and now that you're single there's more that you will be able to achieve\n\nyou can fulfill your dreams and live life single for awhile, party like a rockstar, and eventually you will end up meeting the right person one day, it could even be the person that broke up with you but at this moment in time maybe you two are not meant to be together but might be together in the future\n\ni'm going thru a similar situation but i realize that i need to move on and do something with my life its not worth to cry everyday, and the quicker you realize that, probably the faster you'll meet someone else.\n\ni hope this helps
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if i were you id give it a while. i mean my guy didn't do that and im still hurt, the break-up was over 2 months ago.\n(ps. im a girl) just do what you think is right.\n good luck
199012
I'd be nice but firm.  Tell her you enjoy her friendship and would like to continue it, but that the relationship is over and that you would like to meet other girls.  Maybe she doesn't realize she's doing this.  If she still has feelings for you, it's gonna hurt no matter how you say it, but eventually, if she's mature enough, she'll get over it and you can restart the friendship.  Good luck!
152856
You really don't have much choice. He broke up with you, so now it is time to move on with your life. Don't see this as a negative thing, instead see it as the chance to develop new relationships. You sound young, so this probably wasn't the right one for you anyway. Love and respect yourself and know that you deserve better. Don't rush into a new relationship right away, because we usually make the wrong choice on the rebound. Enjoy being free and wait for that special guy to come along. He will be worth waiting for! Good Luck! =-)\n\nS.S.
270907
if she broke up with you then she isnt your girlfriend any longer.. but if she was cheating on you when you were together then be thankful she ended it.. once a cheater always a cheater...let it go and find someone that you can be happy with.. if you think she was cheating then more than likely she was or had plans to... move on and have fun.. life is to short...
304255
Well if you really like this girl then why do you have to call it quits? But If you don't like her anymore then don't waste more time and end it ASAP then move on.\nIt's just a matter if what you feel for her is enough for you to hold on to the relationship or is it enough for you to let go. You will still be the one to answer your own question in the long run.
524376
Hey Thor, I've been there. So, i can feel what you are going thru. Let me tell you this..Leave the past alone. Dont think of it. I didnt see you writting that you love her. True that u have feelings for her & she is ur 1st. But still, she broke up with you.i.e dont want to be with you. Move on...leave ny thing that remind you with her. Look to the future. It will take time to move on i know...but time is all what you have
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No, I don't long for her, but I sometimes think it was just a shame that it had to end. Now, I have someone I love who loves me back and I wish my ex happiness. I think it's good to move on and not dwell in the past and long for what is gone. So, I really didn't suffer a "lost opportunity at love" - I HAVE it now!