why is it that girls will date jerks who treat them badly and when a nice guy that knows how to treat girl right thay look at him like he's not even there.
200919
I hear you pal...\n\nI beats me... I've seen it way too many times to be just a fluke... Chicks are definately messed up...\nWhen I find out, I'll let you know...\n\nKeep your chin up,\nWe good guyz get our gals in the end...\n(That's if they aint too f*@^ed up by their traumatic experiences)... When will they ever learn?
562715
Are you serious??? There are still guys like that? Haha. That’s quite funny because you don’t find many guys who think or feel that way anymore.  And when you do your lucky. The reason girls feel like that is because that’s probably all guys had wanted from them before. No matter how many times guy say “not all guys are jerks” The moment we start to believe some guys are nice and give them a chance, is when we end up getting fooled and hurt. Some girls get so hurt by the fact of being used and being told lies so that guys could get what they wanted. If you really are interested in a girl, prove to her your not like that. It may be hard work at first but in the end, it’ll be worth it. Goodluck.
288861
I cant answer this question because Im trying to understand that also.To many times women will stay with the guy that doesnt treat them right or make them feel cared for etc. and they dont want to find that guy that is waiting to be given a chance to treat someone with everything thier heart can put out.They would rather sit at home and complain than do anything about it,just so you know,that wonderful charming guy is trying to find you but cant because you are still in a relationship..... best wishes
131768
most girls who stay in those kind of relationship have bad self esteem. they think that no one else will love them or that they earned being treated that way.
164444
because women like them better than someone who treats them decent. i guess they see it as weakness. i cant make myself be abusive so i dont get the girl. dont bother sticking up for her either, they somehow get offended by that.
203030
take it from me, they play that, bc they have to make sure the guy is up for anything. in other words, they want to make sure that YOU are SURE you want to be with them before they devote all their time and energy into a relationship with you. duh! guys hurt gals in so many sick and twisted and horrible ways, if you dont know. everyone is different, i know, but that's why they shy away, to make sure that's what YOU really want, so they dont jump in and scare YOU away like sum guys. its an emotion thing.!!!
360390
I think this works both ways.\n\nSome guys will always think a girl being nice to them is flirting with them.  They will try to pursue it and only get shot down.\n\nSome other guys (like me) always think girls are just being nice to them even when they are flirting or hitting on them.  We never try to pursue it and have to wait on the girl to come after us.\n\nI know guys that fall into the middle of course but most guys I know are one type or the other.  We really can not tell what you girls are doing most of the time, so we go to one extreme.
655944
Women don't like jerks, they're just kind of biologically drawn to them...\n\nWomen love confidence.  Even when they're not confident, jerks are typically a bit cocky (which ironically, is a sign that one lacks confidence).  Cocky resembles confidence just enough to get the girl.  Being a domineering control freak is also an attribute that women commonly mistake for confidence, and as a result, such men often get the girl while the nice guy loses out.  Meek & indecisive are the two most effective female repellants out there!   \n\nWomen also love mystery.  Jerks are not open with their feelings, which makes them a bit mysterious.  Nice guys are frequently open with their feelings which kills the mystery.  While women CLAIM they want a man who's open with his feelings, deep down they much prefer a man who keeps some mystery about him.  \n\nIgnore what women SAY they want in a man; instead, pay attention to what they RESPOND to.  Generally, the key with women is to be "the man with a plan" (e.g. don't ask her where she wants to go on a date, just take her there) who's fun to be around (most important: make her laugh) but doesn't talk too much (don't tell her your life story right away, make her work for it), all without being a domineering a-hole.
674078
Some girls like guys for their personality, and some girls like guys with looks. Some like both. Some girls look for guys who can buy them things and spoil them. Some girls go for jerks maybe because some girls like guys who treat them like crap and maybe the guy that is a jerk has good looks or money or its just their bad luck and thats why the girls choose them. But it happens. Its life and they are the ones who get hurt in the relationship. I go for personality. I go for a guy who is lay back and funny and outgoing and not a push over. Can be himself around me. Well thanks for answering my question and have freaking cool day. See ya.
479046
Most like the assertive type,,, a take control kinda guy,,,,,,,, but they are the first to trash guys because guys are just ass holes,,,,,\n\nnow if they dated more quiet reserved guys they would see a whole other side,,, but the "nice guy is usually left in the dust,,,
91603
You've fallen into the friendship trap, and she's using you. Seriously, girls like that are no good for a "nice guy" because they only respond to abuse. You will never get romantically involved with this girl, so stop paying for anything and tell her you're not interested in just being friends.
245893
Well actually I have found that most twomen will sooner cheat on a jerk than a nice guy because often women cheat to get back at someone, or in order to feel that they aren't being held in tight reign so as I have seen it, nice guys actually are cheated on less because there isn't any reason to cheat on them.
123505
not to me..it would be nice..but da girl has to know how to treat the guy.
201217
sometimes if they really like the girl and dont want to screw up, and some guys dont b/c they know how to handle the situation
198942
Well....not everyone learns their lesson.  I'd rather be with a handsome sweet honest guy.  Sometimes girls dont learn that "bad boys" are toxic and they just keep going after them cause they want to "help" them.  Though...It is far better to be with one who is nice and appreciates you.\n\nI also dont understand the opposite, nice guys with girls who are drama queens and treat them like dirt and tear their heart out and rip it to shreads so that they can hardly believe that there are good girls out there.
328055
FIRST OF ALL....IF YOU GUYS ARE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS YOU WONT PAY ATTENTION TO THEN...AND THOZE STUPID GIRLS...WELL SINCE THEY AINT GOT SHIT TO DO AND OBVIOUSLY THEY ENVY YOU, DONT PAY ATTENTION TO THEM. THEY JUST HATE THE FACT THAT YOU GUYS PROBABLY HAVE A STRONGER FRIENDSHIP THEN THEM THEY ARE JUST TRYING TO SEPARATE YOU ...
254965
maybe u were to nice. some girls don't like that. i do.. i \nhave wonderful husband that is the nicest man around. u guys only come one in a million