As that boy is only one for them they did'nt agree & said their answer at face ,but stopped to contact us.Even that boy did'nt reply to any of my e-mails.As we've been very close, now iam thinking of those sweet memories & is not able to continue my studies.Thinking of all these i got brain prob & have to get surgery on Jun 6th.My exams r from may 16th.Iam not able to decide to go in which way.Iam trying to forget all those.Due to my medicines iam feeling moody & not feeling to study but i have to study as i applied for exams.if i'll not attend exams next full yr'll b wasted.After 2/3 yrs if my parents'll get a match by hearing all my paste no good one'll obey for marriage.If for some reason-for money,property etc. someone may obey & if i'll get married to that type of one i feel i'll not b happy.Iam feeling not to marry at all bec'z i got married,non-thinkingly, by signing & again got engaged(been very close) with other.i mean,i've been a partner to 2 persons.So what should i Do...Do.
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i have read this like 3 times and i still dont seem to be getting what the problem is here \nAre u seriuos with all the writings \nplease summarise and ask your problem
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Is there a legitimate reason for you to feel this way?  Has anything happened in your relationship recently to cause these feelings, ie: abuse?  1 of 2 things can be going on here, either A. your subconscious/gut/intuition is telling you that you're about to make a MAJOR mistake in marrying this guy or B. you're major league stressed out over the wedding.  B becomes more probable the bigger your wedding is.  With 3 more weeks to go, the stress will continue to accumulate.  So I'd be more inclined to say this is nerves.  Try to keep your stress level lower, and remember to do something for yourself that isn't wedding related every day.\n\nTalk to someone you trust about your feelings, hopefully that would be your financee.  But if it's not, then really think hard about marrying him.  It's much better and easier all around to end an engagement than a marriage.  Your husband should be your best friend, there should be nothing you cannot share with him.
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I'm guessing that you're young, and I can tell you that what you think and feel right now is not at all what you will be thinking and feeling 5, 10, 20 years from now. Life changes without our even realizing it. Hold on for now, and just have faith that things will change and someday you'll look back and thank God that you didn't make a rash decision based on what really is just a fleeting moment in time.And for goodness sakes, talk it out with someone! You're not alone!
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hi moll.  i'm so sorry for the way that you feel.  and i do wish i could make it better, but i can't.  i can offer you this though it may not help much right now.  sometimes when parents have a "special" child, they feel guilty. whether or not it could or couldn't have been prevented.  unfortunately, the guilt they feel, not only punishes them, but all those involved.  your brother included.  the only advixe i can offer is that you hang in there girl!  try to talkt o your parents, or the one parent who seems more receptive.  maybe you wanna ask or volunteer to participate in things with your brother and parents?  you sound like a sensitve person, and i'm sure your parents love you.  they may feel that you are better equipped to deal with less attention because you are "normal", though i don't personally believe that is true.  all children need, want, and deserve attention... maybe just in different ways.  find someone you can talk to, that will listen and hear your feelings.  i'll put you in my prayers.
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I completely kow how you feel I went through the same thing with my husband the only man I was ever with and still with. I couldnt wait for him to marry me so I could finally enjoy our sexual relations,I even remember crying during sex the guilt was so bad and I'm not even Catholic but in my faith along with most this is a major sin.  I dont your stat with you boyfriend but it wont get better until he marries you .  I bet you had parents who made you feel like everything you did you go to hell for.  I will end it saying this even though it will only help if you can truly belive it yourself "God is mericiful,and his mercy out weights his wrath",also I bet you boyfreind thinks your parents brainwashed the hell into you to make you feel this way and he probably hates your religion because of that..Good Luck I hope you can have a wholesome satisfing relationship soon and feel good about your relationship with god.
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Its really fun....I'm going through the same thing myself...my girlfriend of 2 yrs called it off 3 days ago and I'm suck in the same predicament. I absolutely can relate to you because I'm afraid that I won't ever find someone that I care and love. Not to mention she was my first girlfriend. To make it worse she tells me that she doesn't really see a future with me even though she tells me she loves me. Anyways I just want to tell you that its ok and hopefully both of us will be ok in the future. I wish you luck and I feel your pain. Oh, and the Dr. Steve answer is not fair... I'm not a teenager and I'm going through this so to say that "its a meaningless relationship" is cruel.
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So, you're questions a couple of weeks ago said you didn't know who to choose, a girl who was messing you around, or a boy who you used to be friends with. Now you are talking about marraige? Are you sure? Hoping it's just a bracelet as a present, and you'll think a lot more before making any decisions that affect your future :)
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Dear Giridhar,\nFirst of all you must understand that the +2 chemistry  alone is not your life.Of-course you have to study and pass it in either the June exam.or in the coming October exam.Don't be disheartened by this.\nYou can try other sources and earn a technical degree.You can join next year or you can join AMIE and do it. So nothing has come to an end.You need not feel so sad or need not get depressed .\nBetter luck next time.When one door is closed there will always be another door open which will lead you to a better  life than what you have been  trying. So be confident of a very bright life.Degrees alone are not the breadwinners.\nDon't think that these marks,degrees and the related paraphernalia are  alone going to give life.Be cheerful.\nBest wishes.
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Hon, one thing I have learned, is no matter how hurtful it feels...sometimes you got to make choices that will benefit you and not your significant other. After all, you got to focus on what is best for you, because no one else will!! \n\nLet him go now, before it is too late. I quit school for a month and got bored because all of my friends were in school so there was nothing for me to do. So, I went back to school. I am so glad I did. STAY IN SCHOOL!! \n\nDon't make a decision you could regret. And do what is best for your FUTURE, not today.
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Hi Lvy,\n    i think still ur not  accepting tht its over now , u 've some hope , m i rite ? if not , temme wats reason to remember ur past . it will effect ur coming life if ur goin to continue remembering tht person ...ya if u 've some hope and still want to continue wid him , wat ur waiting for go and tell him tht u can not live without him and ask him not to leave u ....\n   Luy u sud not love them who dun care for ur feelings and u . try to keep in mind tht its all over now and tht was ur past nuthing else .. i think ur young ....and some1 has to some in ur coming life ...think for him atleast start preparing for ur coming "SOME-ONE" . lol ...hahahah i said preparing ...i was saying tht washout ur mind and dun go after ur past .......every1 have some past and we have to forget tht ...\n   one more thing Keep Smiling .........:)\n     sorry if any of my word hurttttss
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All my friends are getting married too. And I haven't even found a soul mate. But it doesn't bother me. I think everything happens for a reason. Maybe is a good think you did not get married in August. Maybe your fiance wasn't right for you. A guy of your dreams might be closer than you think. There are too many maybes but no real answer. Right?\nI think you should meet new guys, go on dates, and have fun. You don't have to sleep with them. Guys who are interested in you just so they can get you in bed, those are wrong guys. See, you haven't find a guy of your dreams yet. And he is out there. It will happen when the time is right. \nDon't get depressed over this. It is not worth it. Why do we have to get devastated about guys? Why don't they get devastated about us? \nYour friends who got married they found their soul mates, but let me tell you, lot of them don't really tell you the way they feel. Not all of them are happy. And most of them are jealous of you b/c you are single. \nLive your life why you can and enjoy every single day of your single life. Do things. Go travel, visit  friends in different cities you haven't seen in a while. Go to places you haven't been to yet, you don't have to do that by yourself but go with a friend, sister or brother. Even taking vacation with your parents would be an option too.
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Hi. Look this is a no win situation for you. I know as I've been there.The best thing to do is ask your man to join you no matter what the situation is. Your kids have to get use to the idea that your have a life and you are entitled to be able to get on with it just as they do. They don't ask your permission as to who they date and don't expect you to be in a mood because of it. My partner and i nearly ended up apart when we tried to please everyone. You have to think of you and your boyfriend as he will be there for you when you need him and they wont as they have there own life to get on with AS you have. Good Luck and Merry Christmas and a happy new year
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Good luck with that one.  Try talking with a counsellor at the school you are planning on attending.
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Hi, what you feel now is understandable, especially at this age,well-known as crisis of teenager period. But please trust me, if your parents separated it is not because of you and you should not be selfish,they have a right to live their own lives,if they do not want to be together. Would you prefer them to pretend and play happy family when they may not be happy together. Believe me, if they are apart it does not mean they love you less - both love and cherish you and your task now to help them by being understandable. You will understand them when you will start dating and get married. Put yourself in their position: will you live with a person you are not in love anymore. I mean they still love each other but it different love, not passionate. Please be understandable you are mature enough,be brave.
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Im sure they r aware of your past with him if not let them know!  I as a aparent only want happiness for my son and i know if he comes to me and tells me he loves someone and is getting married then I want only his happiness.  Go for it girl do not let love get away a second time around life is too short and love too hard to findCongradulations!
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Honey, i know it feels awful, & i know no words can ever compensate u, but plz let GOD do his job, marriage is fate & if it is fate to marry him , it will come 2 u even in 100 yrs. Try to 4get, give urself the time, do stuff , do ur best, call ur gf & go out , excercise, & beleive me by time u 'll 4get. Good luck baby
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I know you would love for me to just give you a simple answer and your problem would be solved....well it's not that simple. Me and my ex boyfried are kind of going through the same thing. I have a new boyfriend and everything but like you i don't feel whole and i miss him. Well the best answer i can give you is you can't forget a love like that that means so much to you. He will always be in your thoughts and you will always feel like you need him. But you just have to think that your decision was the best option and try not to think about all of the regrets but think about the happy times your having now.