When girls start mast erbatin, how do they have the courege to pop their own cherry, duznt it hurt?! Usealy people cant inflict even a little pain on themselves!? I was always wondering this.
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Masterbation doesnt always mean sticking your fingers right up there. In fact, it feels much better just having clitoral stimulation
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If you use lubricant, foreplay, and above all, relax, it shouldn't hurt too much. If you are not comfortable with it and you tense up, it hurts worse. (I asked this same question on a teen site about sex, I may be wrong. Try typing "Teen nurse" into google, they have a lot of material there about almost everything you would need to know, I hope.)
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We cannot relate at all, I don't think there is a place on a woman's body that is so sensitive and vulnerable.  We have no concept of the level of pain it causes, if the girls are young they might be laughing partly because they are more aware of a guys package when so much attention is being drawn to it.  Also it is a very different behavior for guys who are usually kinda cocky to be laying on the ground and cupping their balls.  People laugh instinctively at things that are out of the ordinary, most of us aren't happy that some one gets hurt cuz it lightens our mood, we just laugh as an instinct.
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Why do you people keep doing this to me? Huh? Why is it that you always embarrass me? NO! IT DOESN'T! And you know why? (I'm quite sure you do else YOU WOULDN'T HAVE ASKED THIS QUESTION!) It's because I HAVEN'T HAD MUCH EXPERIENCE!!! Okay??? The only guy I've been with is Trent Reznor AND for your information, we do it EVERY NIGHT after I've tucked in for bed! There! I've said it!\n\nDAMN YOU ALL!!
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too much of a good thing hmmmm. It could be that it hurts because of many reasons, maybe not enough lubrication, even if the mind is willing sometimes the body just cant keep up and the woman does not always lubricate that is why there are products available such as ky jelly etc... It may not be that at all and it could be something else..ease up on the bedroom activity for a while and till all is well and have some lubricants ready just in case..and yes as others suggested a visit to the doctor to check it out...
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My dear Sarah, how can she get pregnant with a pillow?  Don't worry, it's just a phase, she will get over it.  She is just experiencing feeling for the first time and they are over whelming her.  Let her be or educate her properly about sex.  This is nothing to worry about.  Every person whether male or female, goes through puberty.  It's no big deal.  I bet you did it too, just didn't have a nosy older sister spying on you.  (I don't mean to be rude, but it's hard not to be sarcastic.  Sorry)
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Girl my thoughts are 100% the same with yours. Down with casual sex! People need to grow up and be a man. Having no self control or being a coward by giving into pressure does NOT make someone a man but more like an animal or a child.
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Ok lets give a lession in size. There are women I REPEAT that can not handle a well endowed guy. It does hurt them if they never had a well endowed guy before. I can only imgine how much pain it must be for a virgin to take on a well endowed guy. I know from experance and I will explain this. I myself have had the women I have been with say they where glad they where not virgins because the pain would have been way too much. Women that have had children before are usally more able to handle a well endowed guy. For the women that I have been with they say they felt like they where being ripped apart after I had sex with them. But this goes away over time as the women adjusts to your size. I say this from experance.\n\nOk I am going to give you some tips to make this transition easier.\n\nI have had this problem once before with women who was used to a normal size guy. but was not used to my size. She will normaly experance pain the first few times till she gets used to your size. This is normal to experance pain at first. But you have to be very slow, extremly gental and extremly patient. This is the important part. Let her direct you, let her say when to go in alittle more, litte bit at a time and stop. I mean ALITTLE BIT! Don't go in without her direction. LISTEN that is the key. This will give her time to get used to it. Don't be suprised if in the process her eyes get as big as half dallors. If you see she is having pain stop. Let her direct you more when to go in further. Also once you are full in don't start going at it immedilty give her time to adjust to your size. This is a slow process of adjustment to your size. This is also a good time to be further intmate with her while she is getting used to your size. Do things like kissing, hugging and talk to each other. Remember it's not a mataton. This will also make her feel more confortable while giving her more time to adjust. Let her be your guilde. She will tell ya when ya can start. Ya can't rush things. It's about taking it SLOW and EASY at first. If it takes a 15, or 30 mins thats ok. Let her take her time.\n\nI not saying this just say it too to  brag, But I'm say it I am saying it from EXPERANCE I know I have been there. And just because a women is build to deliver a baby doesn't be mean she is build to handle any size. Like I said before Women that have giving viginal birth are more able to handle it. Like I said I know from my own experances with women. Because the last thing you want too is cause the woman ya love pain. Sex sould be a enjoyble expernace for both of you.
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I took a very hard punch to the vaginal area once, it hurt very bad, I was sore for days following.  The person that hit me was sitting on the floor and hit me from kind of "underneath" and it actually split part of the skin in my vaginal area and left a huge bruise.
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That sucks it is so unfair! Girls are just as tough as guys. I love wrestling and wrestle with my friends Kevin Brandon and Shane all the time. You're probably just like me. You're a tough girl who could really care less about her nails and just wants to have fun. The heck with what the guys say. WE'RE BOTH TOM BOYS, AND PROUD OF IT ! ! !
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Somehow, they find humor in butt sex.  That just tells me that they do not have a clue about butt sex.  If someone actually rammed one right in their little butt crack they would never type butt sex again....which....in my opinion.....is exactly what is going to happen to them when they finally make it to reform school!
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I'm going to be completely honest and tell you that for me the first time hurt like hell. I lost my virginity earlier this year (I'm almost 22), my boyfriend was very understanding and gentle, but it still hurt. I didn't bleed though, which a lot of women have said that they do.\nFrom talking to my doctor there is a less of a chance of pain and bleeding when you lose your virginity at an older age. This is because your hymen gradually goes away throughout the years, and a lot of girls have actually broken it and not known it years earlier. \nIf your really worried I suggest getting a d.ildo/v.ibrator and working yourself in, I did this after the fact to make myself feel more comfortable with it. \nhope that helps
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Hey, Conan, here's a newsflash:  you're normal!  Right, some men aren't quite as driven as you and some are even more driven.  But they're normal, too.  As long as you don't hurt anyone, including yourself, ain't no sweat.  And as long as it does not bother your GF...Look, there is no absolute regarding what endorphins do or do not do for you.  There is a range of acceptable responses and yours do fall within that range.  By the way, if she gets you that hot 'n bothered, would ya mind posting her pic so's us other guys can see what we're missing?
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Yes it does hurt. The pain level is different for every girl. Not to mention that is depends on the guy and his size if you know what I mean.
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In gym class, we were playing floor hockey and one of the boys whipped the rubber ball into the air and it hit me in the chest...hard.\n\nNot only does it hurt like hell (especially if the girl is on her period and they're already sore...OUCH), but it can really knock the wind out of you as well.\n\nFun stuff. Don't try it at home.
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They're not all like that. There are some great guys out there, just hard to find 'em. As for the ones that are, I'm still yet to find out why hurting us women seems to come so naturally to them. You've probably just experienced the ones that think and feel with their dicks.
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some girls just like to see a guy in pain, they find it funny. Some guys find it funny too sometimes when girls are in pain, they laugh and say we're weak, maybe it's just payback. Just so you know i wouldn't do it as it is a pretty harsh thing to do.