what should i do worried disabled mom
217989
Talk to him like an adult, much like you'd talk to one of your dear friends that you suspect has a substance abuse problem. Acknowledge his adulthood and show him you're concerned for his well being without judging. Show him that you trust his judgment.\n\nCall a professional counselor and ask their opinion. If nothing else, at least you can learn some coping skills.\n\nI was late the day they handed out the parent's manual, too.
585491
you got to obey her she is your mother but try to convince her that this something you really want to do and that if you love it that much you will risk spraining your ankle and getting sunburned tell her it wont kill you
114947
Call in an anonymous disturbance of the peace to the police.. if you can hear them..so can others.. and you may be their (wife and kids) only hope.\n\nLearning disabilities are stressful, but they should never progress into violence and abuse. Help that kid and mom.. then sleep peacefully that you did what you had to do.
302180
I understand what you must be going thru beacuase I faced the same dilema few years ago. Mother is like a shelter, saving her child from all evils. She cares for you and prays for you.\n\nI suggest you should maintain a contact with her. Not physically or mentally but spritually. Do good for her. If she left a sister behind her, pay respect to her as if she is your mom. Feed the poor and hungry on behalf of your mother and rest assured she'd be very happy to receive these gifts from you.\n\nYou will feel comfortable that way and it would be easier to bear the pain.
594241
well it is ur life and ur an adult so ur mom has 2 get used 2 the fact that ur ganna move away sometime u should ease her into it tell her that u will visit her and u will call her and then she can go somewere diffrent 2 visit u good luck
562953
your mom is going through empty nest syndrom...\n\nWith no kids to take care of she is lonley and is in need of some companionship...\nDrink is a way for her to cope with  this...\n\nHow ever she might be getting into the drinking to much...\n\nTry an interventions of sorts .. Get your other sibblings together and a range a family get together...\nYou might find this could help..\n\nAlso try calling your mom for no reason at all and ask her a silly question about cooking cleaning anything... \nI think your mom need to feel that she is needed and by asking her silly questions she will feel she is wanted ....
369418
go see a dietician .....and take your mom
506174
Sweetheart, you are really going to need to tell your mom. What is happening to you is not normal and your mom needs to make a doctors appointment......
123584
well she certainly has a mental disorder, multiple at that. \n\npersonality disorder and depression I am sure there is panic/anxiety in there too \n\nShe really needs help, she needs medication and a good evaluation. \n\nHere is something for you. I know you are worried about your mother, I dont know how old you are. Make sure that you have relative that knows what the situation is so that if there is a time where she does that a relative is there to save the day. Because if by chance you were unsucessfull at stopping her, you might blame yourself. Please do not blame yourself. Seek therapy for yourself also, through your doctor or school.\n\nNow I wouldnt recommend this to any child to do, but call Social Services to get your mom the help. Youmight get placed in a foster home or with relatives until your mother gets help, the court can order her to do it and/or commit her themselves.
314414
pray for her. There place I go to pray on the net and it gets  lot people praying. Its klove.com. under pray requests. Be postive about it and keep the faith. I just prayed for your mother in law.
40217
you are so sweet!  most kids don't see things the way you seem to.  now, i don't have any of my own, but since i am someone's (now adult) child, i think i can give you a few suggestions.  first of all, while it may not be your responsibility to take care of your mother (or anyone else in your family), it is nice that you want to help out.  nothing wrong with that.  now, maybe you can start helping with laundry or other chores.  if you already do help at home, then maybe you can talk to some of your other relatives to see if  they are willing to talk with your mom and get her some help.  or at least give your mom a break by hanging out with you kids (or just you, if you're an only child) while she spends some time alone.  if you want to get her a gift, i'm sure she'll love anything from you.  maybe something for the bath, or some relaxing music?  good luck, and i hope you and your family realize what a good daughter you are:)
178714
Let your mom know that you'd like to spend quality time with her.  She really might not know that you feel neglected.  Talk to her--and to the evil sister.
96237
That is tough on you, I'm sure!  Take it slow.  Introduce new people in a place where is is comfortable, like the home.  Perhaps you know someone who works in a place you can take him?  Say a girlfriend works at Denny's.  Have her come over to your house, in her uniform, and get to know him.  Then take him to Denny's when she is working.  It's a MUST that he learn to be okay in public situations.  Ask a counselor at school for more tips.  They run into things like this all the time.  Join an online discussion group for moms with disabled kids.  They will support you and help you so much!  It's really a true must-have for you.  So you don't feel alone or so overwhelmed.  Look around for one that is all you need it to be!  Lastly, do talk to his doctor.  Just to be sure it's not medication that helps this problem etc.  Always best to talk to your doctor.  Hang in there, it's an adjustment for both of you.
624849
Your mom needs to begin by scheduling some alone time.  She can relieve some stress by taking leisure walks or long hot baths.  Find out what things are relaxing for her.  Maybe planting a beautiful garden or reading a book. If she is a single parent, you could help her with the cleaning or cooking to relieve some of the stress of the household chores.  Remember her health is vital to your happiness.
209274
u should be proud of her to actaully admitting her illness and getting help!! there is nothing better then that.. u should stand by her side ans support her.. she is ur mom..and the one and only mom..maybes she wasnt the best in the past to u..but she is willing to change.JUST FOR YOU!!! u should support her..cuz now she is feeling more depressed just becuase u dont wanna talk to herr..and she is going through a very tough time now..
241466
Seek professional help for your mother.  she may be nuts
259243
Hi,\n I'm sorry to hear about your mother, i would said pray and ask God what to do next. i would find people to talk with, sometime it help to have other listen to how you feel do you have other family member there. talk with them about your mom, and remember she is away there in your heart, she is looking over you.e-mail me anytime, florencewhittaker@yahoo.com