There's this girl that I really like in one of my classes.  what should i do to win her heart? how should i ask her out? id appreciate it if you are answering that you have had experience with this stuff before.  Your kindness is greatly appreciated.
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Ask her can you have a quick word alone. Tell her that you are a bit nervous but if you dont tell her whats on your mind, you may regret it forever. (she will apriciate you for having the bottle to do and say this).  Tell her that you realy like her and it would be great if she will go out with you OR if she will be your girl (but dont go over the top). It would be nice to get a positve response, but be prepared for a negative one. DO NOT worry about a negative response as this may stop you taking action. And besides you will get over it in a few hours. Make a decision, do it, or dont do it. ASAP.
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Once upon a time a girl that I hung out with told me she had a friend who saw me a lot and thought she might like me, and wanted to know what I liked in a girl to see if she might want to ask me out. I told her that I liked a girl who would talk to me, so that we could both get to know each other a little first before thinking about whether or not we should go out. \n\nSo my advice is to just talk to him and see how he responds to being around you. Since he's in most of your classes then you have plenty of opportunity and excuse to talk to him about things.\n\nEdit: Concerning your additional details.\n\nIf I had to make an educated guess from what you wrote I would say that he does like you and would like to spend some time with you outside of school. You paint him as being smart enough on his own, so he isn't trying to be near you so that he can use you to get good grades. And he is trying to point out things you have in common, like the answers, to show that you two are compatable.
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ask her out. she sounds like you really like her. the worst that she can say is no. maybe she really was busy, girls get busy sometimes, just like guys. girls are not so different, go for it and good luck. i agree with the other answer that suggested that you ask her if she is really interested or not. say, I LIKE YOU A LOT AND WANT TO ASK YOU OUT AGAIN BUT YOU KEEP SAYING NO. DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GO OUT? put it in your words. i know that this would be difficult to say but...girls like vulnerability. hope it works out.
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The best time to talk to a girl when you see her for the first time...talk to her when she's stopped somewhere like in a store or at a drink machine or something, not when she's walking.  Give her a genuine compliment like "You look nice today" or "You have a pretty smile."  Most of the time a girl won't shrug you off or look at you weird when  you compliment them, but there are some people out there who think that every guy who looks at them wants something.  A nice girl will thank you and smile.  Take it from there with something like "I was thinking about buying this cd (name a band or something), have you heard them?  Are they a good band?"  Ask her opinionated questions and if she's nice and wants to be approached by you, she'll continue talking to you.  If she doesn't want to be approached by you, she'll keep it short or give a reason to just walk away.  Don't sweat it.  It's not as hard to get the NICE girls as it seems.  The bitchy ones will be difficult and put up a fight. lol.
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Well if she's giving all the signs like hanging about round you and talkin to you and lookn at u chances are she likes you so what have you got to lose? Ask her out and if she says no then it's her loss and just move on. Gosh I wish the guy I like would ask me out. Instead he chooses to act oblivious...grrr!
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You should just talk to her in general. Maybe asking her about her classes/courses or something about her family would break the ice. You might find out that she really likes you too and is shy herself.
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Just casually ask her if she'd like to go grab some coffee after class.  Or if she'd like to go with you to the football game this weekend or to see a specific movie, or some other event.  She's probably wondering why you haven't asked her out yet, so you may as well.  The worst thing that can happen is that she says no, but it would be worse to never know, wouldn't it?  And if she does say no, be sure to act normal around her afterwards.  Don't let it get to you or at least don't let her see that it gets to you!
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wow, must've shocked you that the girl you really like, you just turned down! maybe nxt time you see her in math you could say, "sry about last time, i was really out of it! is that offer to help you still free?" if she really needs help and your super good in math she'll probably say yes. if she really likes you and asking for help in math is just a way to spend time with you then AW!
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I think it might help if you could change your perspective and try to see it from a woman's point of view.\n\nObviously, if the person you want to ask out is someone you have strong feelings for... you have have a lot at stake emotionally and that's going to be scary for anyone.\n\nBut, in general, having someone take an active interest in you or ask you out is flattering... even if you are already in a relationship (sometimes, especially so!), you aren't in a "dating" place in your life right then,  or if the person asking doesn't click for you.\n\nSo, don't make it about whether or not YOU get a date.  Just make it about giving HER something to smile about, maybe.\n\nAlso, please remember that most of us HATE hurting guys with rejection... so if you really want to leave her with a smile, you have to look like it would make you happy if she said yes, but doesn't crush you to the core if she says no.\n\nIf it REALLY freaks you out to approach women, I have two suggestions:\n\n1) Get into something where you are around women more... join a book club or a take a class and get in a study group with women... it gives you guaranteed stuff to talk about and is very good practice.\n\n2) Set up minimum attempts each week.  Start with just one a week.  Whether she says yes or no isn't the point.  It's good practice... and after a while you'll feel more comfortable with it - especially if you luck out with a "yes" every now and then.  (PS Don't start by asking the women out where you work.  It looks really bad when guys do the "rounds".  The complement becomes an insult at that point.)\n\nBest of luck!
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She might, it all depends on the girl. But what do you like about the girl? Spanish is a good class, I have a guy I like who's in my class before lunch too, so same prolem there. I think that you should just tell her you like her, or if you can't do that, like me, you can write them a note saying you like them, but dont put your name on it, and tell one of your other friends to give it to her, but dont say who it is from. That might work! Good luck! You could spend your days wondering if she might like you, and never know. so take a chance and hope for the best!
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get a quiet moment alone with her and tell her how u feel and y.then,if she seems pleased at how u feel ask her out 2 a cinema or something.If she is one of those girls who is always surrounded by a crowd of people put a note in her bag or give it 2 her,though just giving should b saved till everything else fails.If u have her phone number go 2 your room,ask not 2 b disturbed as u r doing homework,put your  homework out then phone her and tell her how u feel.u could just turn your music on and up then phone,aswell.It could b hard 2 ask her out because school is kindda an awkward place 4 that sorta stuff.If u r a bit nervous u could go as a group with others first then date.u could get a friend 2 give her the note,but 1 who u trust and wouldn't read it.She'll think it's sweet that u r shy.Good luck.
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put your act together man! gather all the guts you have and go for it. just ask her out on a little date.
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yo welcome to my world. Forget bout shyness. heres what to do. say hi to her everyday like really loud and smile at her after. wave at her when u c her in the hallway. Make fun of someone else to make her laugh. then make fun of the teacher. look at her always when u have class. dont make it look like ur staring though. Since shes letting u make the move, get one of ur freinds to say something like u 2 should go out together. then u should say may b we should. then say something u wanna see a movie friday. see if she says yes or no.. Good luck bro. pe@ce
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How about, \nI was just wondering what you are doing later, or if you have a class with her say, do you understand what is going on in...insert subject here.  Or you can try the old, my God you are the most beatiful girl here, could I take you out sometime...good luck, let me know how it goes, The 8 ball has a good feeling about this!!!
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I had a guy I asked out in the 11th grade. Only time I ever did it and the only reason I did do it is because he had been writing me letters and giving them to my friends. :/ Anyways. When I asked him he said " Oh if you insist " and smiled at me and said he'd love too. Sometimes a little humour and straightforwardness is your best option. Good luck.
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My sources say yes. ;D\n\n\nMagic 8 Ball aside, you've really done all you can do besides pray and hope. Of course, you could tell her how you feel and ask her out. Try something simple and honest, like: "I am very interested in you and I think we have things in common. Wanna go get a burger after school?"\n\nBest of luck with making a new connection!\n~Tia~
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oh just ask her out. don't be shy. if you have to just ask her out as friends and maybe something will grow from that.