does anyone else feel ugly next to their avatar?
199933
I think your avatar is ugly. So you must be really ugly
273801
but sweetheart i look just like my avatar!!!! ha ha\nso of course you feel the way you do! i am fantabulous!
476056
Well, your body is pretty animated looking.  lol. You probably need an actual pic of you to know what you look like, but your avatar is pretty.
172550
My Avatar looks like me give or take a few...50 pounds...maybe.
367986
I think I look like my avatar quite a bit
375574
just think about how many really ugly people are out there,and how they would be happy to look like u.im sure u do look good and well done to u,that u managed to loose w8.fight ur selfcoonciousness,because it does affect life bad,if u dont feel good in ur own skin.my exboyfriend was very insecure and i know how much it ruins his life.be strong.
365687
hahaha i've wondered that myself.... I think most of them are just pictures they found....since some people feel more liberated online then they do in the real world... the ones that yahoo lets you create are more closest to what we look like...you know... my avatar is close to me...except I'm not constantly smiling...
227629
I remember my face.  I'm just glad I can't ALWAYS see my face.  That would mean one of my eyes are out of socket and THAT would be REALLY ugly.
94900
I think you just needed to vent a little! You should be proud of how you look no matter what size you are. As long as you're healthy and happy, that is all that matters. Don't worry about what other people think.
143919
I have pretty much the same thing. I have very fair skin and my face gets red and blotchy when I am over heated, upset or laughing. I've just learned to live with it. IT is part of who I am. When I want to go out and look nice, I put on makeup, I makesure to buy the good stuff. And then I try not to worry about it or let it ruin my day.\n\nI have found that very few people care or notice, and if they are really shallow and rude enough to point it out, I don't want to have anything to do with them anyhow.
656967
You shouldn't feel guilty, that's the normal response by all guys.   I also like to see girls dressed beautiful with gud shape.   If I say, I like to something ugly, do u think u will believe me?  It is normal as what it is.  If u not doing something to harm anyone, or urself, then ur fine & pretty ok!
412163
LOL! You're avatar brought a huge smile to my face!!! \nWell, I don't want a reminder!! :-)
525566
You are not ugly, girl. You may want to talk to a counselor about this problem of yours, but stay away from antidepressants! They are addictive and cause abnormalties in the chemical processes of your brain. And if you smiled, you would look very pretty. Talk to someone about it in a messenger thing or to a couselor who you know for sure wouldn't be saying things like, "Oh, don't be rediculous! You're beautiful!" like something a best friend or parent would tell you. However, I usually find that this makes people feel worse about themselves. My best advice: talk to a counselor.
290420
For the most part I agree with you but I think that being ugly or feeling ugly can not be easily catorgrized by simply saying that an ugly person can cope with life better. It depends on your defintion of coping and in what area. Some people who feel ugly are walking around broken and damamged and it affects other area's of their life. It affects their confidence, their ability to do things, and pursue certain avenues of life and if that means that they are coping with being ugly then it is not very healthy. I think that society squezzes beauty in to such a small box that many people suffer needlessly and become victims of society and the media at a very young age. But since you speak of reality, in reality anyone who sees themselves as ugly has deeper issues in life other than their apperance. And any man or woman who wants to be with a person based more so on beauty that character has issues as well. But personally when I was young I thought that I was dreadfully ugly I would walk past a mirror in a mall and cry. It was horrible and my expectations of how I should be treated was low because an ugly person should just be happy that someone wants to be with them. But I can not not compare this experience to what it is like to beautiful and have everyone think that same to me that sounds like a nightmare to.
439388
No your avatar is fine why should you change just because of someone else!  I may not agree with you but you have the right to be who you are!  You are not evil but only believe differently.  None of us believe exactly the same anyway!
126920
Well, my avatar looks as much like me as I can get it.  My natural shade of red is lighter and my eyes are Hazel though. \n\n OH...and my cat (which you can't see) is not properly represented either, because Yahoo is racist against black cats I think. LOL  NO...bad joke...but there aren't black cats available.  I'll have to write an e-mail to yahoo now...see what you started?
266723
well, judging on your avatar...YAH