Why I ask this question, because until now I haven't found yet a true happiness, despite of all I have experiencing like attraction with different sex, go along with friends and always finding what really makes me comfortable to accompany with. I have a long lost friend that someday we will met and hopefully I can see the true happiness with that friend because I was always dreaming and hoping to met and find comfort with. but I think all of which is in vain, I do not know where that friend is now. I feel that I am in nowhere, I do not know where I am now, I keep wandering what is the meaning of life, I am always confused of what really is the purpose of human life, why are those good looking guys are more luckier than those who are unfortunately less physical advantage (ugly). Please help me know the fact, because I can no longer handle this long, as a matter of fact I am very upset to what i am now.
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smille up and be confidense and keep health body, avoid stress and keep a relation with family, with my friends ang my good. doing a something with good ang focus
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Why would anyone choose a difficult life?  Especially when it would be so easy according to straight people to "choose to be straight."  If so, I have a question for them.  Why don't they CHOOSE TO BE GAY?  See all those emotions running through you straights right now?  That's how we feel.  We feel "how can we change, if we could, wouldn't we?  Same as straights who are asked to think gay."  They find it incomprehensible to think about men, as I do about women.  Its just not normal for me, sorry, does that sound like a choice or something I'm stuck with?  I cannot remember feeling anything other way from the age of 5 on up.  The men were always attractive the women were always the nice ones.  So, while it may be a choice for some, it was not for me.  The very idea that I could have CHOSE this life is laughable.
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well, you shouldn't be looking, or it won't be true it will be sought after and kind of planned in a way. true love should just happen, maybe if you stop looking it will be there in front of you. focus on other things in your life that make you happy.
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Most people look for other people who feel good about themselves and are enjoying their lives.  Girls will look at you wondering what you know that they don't.  Just try enjoying things - it doesn't matter what.  If you are looking at a rainbow, really look and enjoy it.  Feel good about yourself and let yourself have fun.  Others will want to be there.\n\nA lesson from life.
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Yes I believe it it simply mean there is no love to be found where there is none and to find love you must look in the places that are familiar to you . Among the people you already know and love you . Cheer up life has a way of showing us the person who is right for us if we just watch and wait . You have many people who love you I am sure , so get out and visit a friend or call someone who will be upbeat and have dinner with them . I hope you will soon feel like yourself again .
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How often do you ask yourself "What’s it all about?"" What’s my purpose?" "Where am I going?" Like most people, many times I would imagine.\n\nIn reality we won’t know the answer to that question while we are alive. We can speculate and guess and make educated hypotheses. We can also learn to listen to our inner voice, telling us that something just feels right.\n\nFor some, being on Earth is to wake up in the morning, do your “thing” during the day and go to bed at night, then repeat it all the next day; with no in-depth meaning of what life is about. For others, being on Earth is about experiencing life, being glad you are alive and looking forward to the next day because it has meaning for you.\n\nThere will always be extremists who believe in one extreme or another. At one end are the people who view life as having no meaning. They don’t believe in God or any form of a higher Being. Its okay when things are going well but they are ill equipped to handle the rough spots. At the other end are the people who have a deep-seated belief in a Divine Being. These people have something to fall back onto when the going gets rough. It may still be painful but nevertheless, they have some form of meaning in their life.\n\nWhy are we here? Those who have no religious or spiritual beliefs won’t care very much. “Maybe its all an accident of nature” say some. “We were cloned and put here from another planet to populate Earth” say others. Fortunately, there are many that believe that we are here on planet Earth to grow in consciousness, to express love and even be a co-creator with God.\n\nSurprisingly, many people who live in tyranny and desperate poverty are able to grow in consciousness despite the absence of outside ideas or help. One would think that the daily challenge of subsistence living would take all of their effort. Nevertheless, many develop a deep belief system –individually or with their local group- and often seem to achieve that growth more quickly than people in more affluent countries.\n\nWe should never lose sight of the fact that the United States is a wonderful place to live. Here we have above all, freedom of speech and belief. Our environment is conducive for learning and expanding our consciousness. However, all the luxuries that we have often make us lose track of the significance of keeping in touch with our spiritual side. To grow in consciousness and be an expression of the Divine Source requires some effort on our part. But, it is well worth the effort.\n\nThink of your life as an expression of God, experiencing a journey on planet Earth. Learning to be a creature of love, still faced with trials and obstacles of everyday life but developing faith and trust in a Divine Plan. Know that there is a reason for your life, and if we all start by trusting the Divine Source, life is less painful, more tranquil, and more rewarding. We all have a choice in life; to be kind and understanding or be cold and uncaring, with no concern for others. You will find that life actually goes more smoothly for you if you follow the path of Loving-Kindness.\n\nEvery time someone does a kind deed or says words of kindness it helps to raise the level of consciousness as a whole. Just think what a wonderful world it would be, if everyday each person consciously committed an act of loving-kindness. It doesn’t take much, just a smile or even making eye contact with someone whom is in need of a “pick me up.” Then think what the world would be like if we all went around self-serving and full of bitterness, each person caring only for him or her self. Not a very pretty picture, surely not what the Creator had in mind, not what its all about.\n\nThe world is made a better place one step at a time by each one of us taking the time to be considerate and caring. It really doesn't take much effort on our part and the benefits are well worth it. Try it, you might like it
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Happiness comes in many different forms for many different people. I personally don't find happiness in hurting others, but some do...then again that is their own disillusioned sense of self esteem rising. Creating good karma can bring happiness, giving to those less fortunate, helping a little old person with a door or carrying groceries. Love is also another big bringer of happiness, but I strongly believe that true love can't be found it finds you. Children are also a great source of happiness..they say the funniest things and make the greatest observation. Not to say you should run out and have a child, having the responsibility of a child and caring for one a few hours a day are totally different perspectives. All in all I believe that love, affection, giving your time and attention are great ways to give happiness as well as get it in return. Material things will never bring happiness, most often only debt or short lived satisfaciton. Being a good person is what I need to feel happy.
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I'd be the first one. I, like any guy, have hormones. Male hormones, to be specific. Testosterone does some really messed up stuff to your head. So I'm not going to lie, the second option sounds more FUN. But fun is only part of life. And no matter what anyone says, fun does NOT equal happiness. Happiness, for me, is finding a girl who I connect with, who I can enjoy simply spending time with. It's having a woman who can be my best friend, my wife, my confidant, my lover, and the woman I get wild and crazy with however we decide to. It's all things. And none of those things are ever surface deep. You can never find those happinesses with just any woman, no matter how attractive. As for honor, courage, humility, sensitivity, for me at least, these are things I tend to embrace naturally. Some people say I'm an old soul. I believe in honor and courage and treating others like a decent human being, and these are the things I try to adhere to in all that I do. So, to make a long rant short, I'm definitely the first option.
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you are who you are by genes.  your hair, eye color, over all mass/bone structure, height, etc is all done by genes.\n\nbe happy with who you are....as life is not a competition.  we are each our own shape for a reason, for a purpose.  some day you'll realize that purpose and you'll be happy for your height, weight, size, etc.\n\nsame with opposite sex.  we are all slightly different so when we find our mate we fit like a puzzle...2 lost pieces coming together.
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I met my soul mate when I stopped looking...you have to be happy with yourself first before you can expect to be happy with anohter.
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There is no ONE right person for you.\nPotentially you could be happy with any one, it's just a question of focusing on their uniqueness. \n\nHowever, when we're attracted to someone, we start thinking about them and they take on more and more importance. \n\nEventually we believe that they are the only person we could be happy with.\n\nIf we get with that person, they'll inevitably do things that irritate us and we start questioning whether they are right. \n\nHowever when you are not with someone, or they are less committed than you, we don't have these doubts. So the longer it lasts the more and more convinced we are that this person is the only one who can makes us feel "whole" or "happy"\n\nLoving someone who does not return the love is agony. If you find yourself in this position all you can do is distract yourself and try and find the fun in life regardless. The other person may grow to love you and, if not, someone else will.\n\nList the qualities you that make you love the person and try to be those things yourself. Without doubt this person is not someone who is sitting in obsessing about someone they can not have - they will be out and about, actually living their life. You must do the same.\n\nGood luck
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If I feel like I'm seeking someone and there aren't any choices that may be good enough, then there isn't any choice to be attached. I haven't met any guys recently whom I was very attracted to. It was like I was looking for something I knew it was not gonna be there, because that's what they are and they can't be changed. So, I wouldn't want to settle for less if they didn't seem good enough for me.
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Happiness is a choice. Your circumstances don't get to decide if you have a happy life or not. Only you do. The people you are referring to just haven't figured it out yet. They're still blaming the world, circumstances, others for their problems. If they would just learn to appreciate what they do have and be happy more good things would continue to come into their experience. Dr. Wayne Dyer says "what you focus on expands" and he's right. I've tried it and compeletely turned my life around.
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Finally ,now I  can die and rest, someone is happy , hurray,,\n\nI believe I will be happy, when I do not care when I lose anything, and do not care when I gain something..I will be happy when I have the free will to chose or reject, I will be happy when I feel I am secure,, I will be happy when I feel I am loved  and I feel I love,, I will feel happy when I feel I understand why people are not happy,,,\nU notice that I always say when I FEEL (secure, love, loved, understand...) because all that are  just a feeling,, do not have to be true, changeable from person to person,, So I will be happy when I accept what is there  ,what I have and what I do not have , Acceptance is the secret to be happy. ...\n(of-course there are constant terms for happiness, one of them is  to see more 100 pics of urs in bikini)
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Live Life, Love, and be Happy.  I found my success and happiness through Jesus.  Maybe you will too.  My lifes direction is answered in prayer.  When I feel confused or uncertain I ask the Lord for guidance, there is always an answer, though sometimes it may not be easy, there is always a way to acheive my goals. \nBefore I asked Jesus into my heart my life was a MESS; I was broke, miserable, and lonely.  Now I own my own business, met (and married) the love of my life, and now get to do something I once only "dreamed of" doing,..to travel extensively.
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I can not believe that it is a truly good feeling for anyone in the long run. Oh, you may get some temporary thrill but you don't feel good in the long run and that is what keeps you going in that direction.If you felt good about yourself and your life you would not need that type of fulfillment. It is cheap and dangerous thrills that will take you away from anything that can possibly bring you real peace and happiness. You are playing a real fools game. You will never win. You are lost in the wilderness and need to trust someone to help show you the way to get out of that path. Best of luck.
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Don't be lookin' so hard .... it's out there and it will find you .... just live your life and be the best person you can be ... someday a heart beating in time with yours will connect to you and you'll be happy\nGood Luck :)