you like her a lot, but when it comes to sex, she tells you that she does not want to do it before marriage  what you do and think?
216865
You have found yourself a real gem of a woman.  She has morals and beliefs and is not afraid to live by them.  She's a keeper.
234541
If she doesn't enjoy sex maybe it is time to find out why.  Find out what she likes and dislikes and don't make the assumption that this is personally directed towards you.  It could be an issue that she believes only affects her and it doesn't.  Whatever the cause it is best to find out as many answers to your questions with her honestly and openly.  If there is no way to resolve your sex life then you will know whether or not you want to move on.
159385
She's freaked out that it's getting serious. She may be in the habit of keeping emotionally distant. Good at being intimate sexually, but when there's the possibility  to add a relationship into the mix, she may freak out and be distant. Her attempt to push you away to make sure doesn't get too serious.
90691
Does she love you?? if your answer is yes, stop proposing to her for some time, try to make her enjoy your lives together as it might be what she hates to lose after marrying you.some women fear that they might lose what they have after marriage. may be she needs some more time,..to think about it. or may be she doesn't feels like she is  ready for marriage yet. try taking things real slow..but serious..things will work out well for you.  good luck!
315464
Break It off.  If you are unsure and she won't wait then you should break it off.  It is not good to go into a marriage unsure of your feelings.  If your to-be wife won't respect your feelings then maybe she isn't the right person for you.  Better to end it now then find out in six months what you already knew.
604668
if you both are okay with having pre marital sex then by all means have it .. and yes that is very true about affairs not sure what you get then you have what you both don't want.
402065
Seeing that she is the type that is looking for a mature relationship or for a man to spend her life with and not a sexual relationship, i would tell you to not french kiss her tonight, but hold off until you get to know her, if she wants a kiss on the lips she'll lean into it, but if she doesn't don't fret and just give her a peck on the cheek or a hug or something small like that, keep it slow until you know how far you both are willing to go in the relationship. if you move too fast you will push her away and she'll never get the chance to see you for who you really are, all she'll see is the person that wants her for sex, and that's not what you want i assume right? Plus if you have a tendency to end up in bed with her if you kiss her, then yes, things will escalate and you will probably lose her, deep it slow and let her know you are willing to hold off on things until she's ready, she'll respect you more and will feel more comfortable around you...so take it slow
521946
FIRST PRE-MARITAL SEX IS IMMORAL !!!\n\nGET MARRIED FIRST !!!\n\nTHEN BE GENTLE WITH HER !!!
482303
Sounds as if both of you are not ready to marry.
163218
Do you seriously believe she'd want to marry you if she didn't like you?  I suggest you marry her.
631893
What does it matter, at the end of the day this woman may like both sexes, but she made her choice to marry a man, period.\n\nSo it is up to her what she has or hasn't done in her life.\n\nIf you ask because she has said this to you as a means of pulling you then ignore the immoral woman.
139210
Don't pressure her. Bring it up, and have a calm honest discussion about it. See how she feels, and respect her decision no matter what.
203231
Listen up, the sooner you learn this the better.  When to have sex has and will always be her choice.  The best you can hope for is that she feels the same way about you.
186126
I wanted to answer this only because I appreciated the answer you gave my question.\n\nSo, no one has actually given you a real answer yet. Have you noticed?\n\nYou feel obligated to commit for one reason only: more sex.\n\nHave you noticed almost all the answers you got came from girls, most of them not even mature enough to have any experience of a committed relationship.\n\nGirls say they want a commitment usually AFTER SEX!\n\nWhy is that?\n\ncontrol of you, buddy. She has her own agenda, just like you, two human beings finding out what this part of life is like. \n\nDon't know until you have the experience.\nNo one is wrong in this, she knew what she was getting into when she let you inside her. Otherwise all the responsibility is placed on your head.\nAre you her parent? Are you responsible for her feelings?\n\nMy experience is that only I am responsible for my feelings. I am also responsible for my actions.\nYou sound like you want to be accountable for yourself, so is she willing to be accountable for her actions, too.\n\nBoth of you didn't communicate very well, and that's what people do. We get to learn how to do this stuff the hard way, by doing it. You always have a second chance you do the right thing.\n\nNow, can you be honest with her about what YOU want?\nIs she ready to truely commit?\nWhat is it you want in a relationship?\n\nTry writing this stuff down and ask the men you trust about how to know what is important to you.\n\nGood job.
676369
If it is someone I really like I would wait as long as they wanted. It would totally be her decision and I wouldn't want to pressure her into doing something she doesn't want to do. If a girl wanted to give it up too soon I would ask her to wait, and think about what she was doing, to make sure it is what she really wanted. I wouldn't want her to regret it later. I think that at least a month should go by without sexual relations as a minimum if it is someone you really like. Anything less and either her or I would regret it.
454232
It will come between you and it already has. Its good that she is being upfront but you need to tell her that its actually not ok with you and for those exact reasons that you stated, emotions and feelings become involved. From my perspective, its so hard to seperate sex from feelings and emotion and if she is married to you she cannot emotionally invest in another relationship, whether thats with another man or another woman.......unless you want to get divorced?\nYou need to be more honest with your feelings to her about this and let her know that you are uncomfortable with it.
455828
Her behavior is a good indication of what she really wants in life.  You need to tell her that you want the marriage to be important, and not the material things.  If this is how you truly feel, you need to break (or at least postpone) the engagement.  Engagement (and marriage) should only be entered into if you have NO feelings of uncertainty.  This is not your circumstance, so act now - before it's too late.