Post-op, transsexuals. Thanks for your help!
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Be happy with what God gave you. Why modify your body to appeal to a particular guy. That is crazy. Enjoy what you have and be happy with no plastic surgery. I like girls with a booty. My wife has a good one. It is all muscle and stands up all by itself. \n You see so many women who look good in jeans, but when they wear a swim suit, it hangs to the back of their knees. Gross.
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That is up to your surgeon, not  you. Sorry. Give his nurse a call, she'll/he'll have the correct answer for you, not us, anyway,haha.
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A she-male is another word for pre-op, which means a man that is just about to have surgery to become a woman.  They have to take estrogen and other woman's hormones before they have surgery.  They will grow breasts and obtain other female features.  You need ovaries to produce eggs and a uterus to have a baby and only women are born with those.
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I did it 3 yrs ago this December.  Scars look different, depends on how large you are and what you go down to. I was told I'd probably be a C (small, average or full C, but a C), but I'm a small D.  But I was a 36G or larger on a size 6 or 8 size body, that is a lot.  I had back pain, shoulder pain, etc.  Mine was covered by medical ins.   It was day surgery (8 hrs in and out total) and they took off a total of about 3.5 lbs of tissue between the two.  Scarring is inevitable and I scar easily. So I couldn't fairly say what it is like. They had to do the most comprehensive reduction because of my size so my incisions go pretty far onto the side of my torso.  I had a friend who had it done and she showed me her scars 5 yrs after so I could have an idea and I could **barely** see them, her incision scars were much smaller and shorter. Another friend did it and the incisions were far less than what I had, hers looked way better one week after she had it done(she showed me).  I'd do it again in a heartbeat for the confidence I finally have and "feeling within the realm of normal" for a woman's figure.  It's life altering.  I feel attractive now, not googled at by men. and scowled at by women.    What size are you now?
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Well, you say that you would feel more comfortable as a male, so I guess that would be true.  You DEFINITELY don't have to know from childhood that you were transgendered.  There are people who live their lives fine, happily, and then, at 20, 30, 50, 60, whenever- realize that they want to change their sex.  Knowing beforehand is not a prerequisite.\n\nShouldn't you really want male reproductive parts?  Not necessarily.  I mean, there are two different things we're dealing with here, sex, and gender.  Your sex- hormones and genitals and breasts, and something very private.  Few people- mostly doctors and lovers- are only going to see your sex.  However, everyone will see your gender, your presentation as male, and how they react and treat you and interact with you is a big part of gender, much more than a mind-body mismatch.  I think that's the heart of your feelings, and I think that you are transgendered, but not transsexual- i.e. you want to be taken as a man, but it isn't as though you're trapped in a woman's body, but rather, trapped by society's gender definitions.  So break free of those definitions, if you want, by passing as a man.\n\nI hope that helps- and just remember, I'm no expert.  Just trying to dole out good advice if I think I have some.
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Gladly!\n\nA transgender individual is one who does not fit into traditional definitions of gender (gender being the way one looks and behaves).  There are many 'varieities' of transgendered people, so to speak, from those who feel they embody both masculine and feminine characteristics and hence aren't truly one or the other, those who feel they are both, neither, or are a 'third gender', so to speak, some cross-dressers and other folk who don't necessarily think of themselves as men or women in the way that society defines men and women.  They do not alter their bodies with surgery or hormones, however.\n\nTranssexuals usually have gender dysphoria, where they feel a mind-body dissonance (that they were born in the wrong body), and they take steps to remedy that with surgery and hormones.  Oftentimes transgender individuals will become transsexuals, and some transsexuals, even after their transitions, will realize that they are transgender, and that although they love and prefer their new bodies, they still have traits of each within them (for a wonderful discussion of this, read some of Kate Bornstein's work).\n\nHope that helped!  A lot of people confuse the term- I'm trying to set them all straight, but it will take a while . . .
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Please, before you take any steps with changing any part of your body, get counseling from a professional.  \n\nThere will be alot of changes taking place within yourself and you need to know what you can and should expect.\n\nGood Luck with your decision.\n\nHave a lovely rest of the evening.
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There is a lot of great information on the web and a lot of sisters who are more than willing to talk and give advice.  I am going through my own gender transition and have reached out to many resources.  I personally recommend finding a local support group.  Try looking in www.tgforum.com or the www.tsroadmap.com , both excellent sites with a lot of information.\n\nI wish you the best of luck with your journey and if you would ever like to chat please send me an e-mail or IM.\n\nHuggs and Kisses,\nJackie
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Female. Female.\n\nYou couldn't pay me enough to be a male! I am happy as I am, thanks :-))
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Don't listen to those people above. A young MAN and a young woman? No offense, but how do they know how to answer that?\n\nMy best friend had a child and ended up gaining a ton of weight due to toxemia. (sp?) Anyways, she had a lift, not a reduction. She also had a tummy tuck. She said she didn't hardly have pain after a few days with the lift. She looks wonderful by the way!\n\nYou have worked hard, raised kids and deserve something for you to give yourself a lift! (literally lol!)\n\nI have had a child and am planning on getting implants since I lost a cup size. It is nobody's decision but your own. Life is short, do what makes you happy!
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female to male? and accidentally? how in the hell do you accidentally become a man? don't think so
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First hand experience!  I went from a G cup (seriously!) to a D in December of 2004.  The surgeon took off 13 pounds from me - he said it was the largest he had ever done.  I had three compressed vertebrae, was in constant pain and was tired of being gawked at.  By far the best thing I've ever done.  I was off work for three weeks.  The first couple of days are painful, especially if you drainage tubes.  Because the tubes are inserted into you, shifting positions can make you sore.  They give you narcotic painkillers and your best bet is rest.  I propped myself up on pillows, watched movies and just slept.  My surgery was performed on Friday.  My drainage tubes were removed on Wednesday (warning, when they pull them, it hurts like hades, but only briefly, once they're gone, the pain is pretty much over!).  I took painkillers on Wednesday and Thursday morning.  After that, it was plain Tylenol!  I was a bit tired, but it really didn't hurt.  Because of the stitches, they don't want you exercising or lifting anything.  My Mum came to stay with me and took care of everything.  \n\nThe relief in my back was immediate.  Within two weeks post-surgery, my vertebrae had completely decompressed.  I do have some scarring on my sides and underneath because he removed a huge amount of tissue, but the results are so stunningly beautiful!  I still look in the mirror all the time and admire them, they're perky and cute!  Its amazing how  wonderful it feels to have someone look in my eyes when they're talking to me now.  Good luck to you!  It will change your life.
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oooh it's on the tip of my tongue but I can't think of him right now..\n\nAlso, I'm not real familiar with male to female SRS surgeons, I know more about the surgeons that do female to male chest reconstruction, because that's where MY focus is right now..ugh, gotta come up with about 7 grand.
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Oh YES. Tell. Immediately. That's not something that should be kept a secret. The only transgendered person I ever knew (best dang hairdresser in Minneapolis, by the way) was very upfront about her operation, and all it entailed.
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just keep them and have a sex change. Save him money on implants that you can use to travel to exotic locations where he can show off his delightful bosom, much to the delight of the local natives who will build a shrine to him. They shall call him Bigum Manoboob. They shall bring him offerings for the hope to be able to suckle at his breast. Well, thats how I see it going down anyway
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Penis shaped. thanks for the points.