There's a girl in my class (at college, I'm 23) who I like and talk to and chat with but nothing flirty. One day after class I told her she looked nice today.. I don't think that might have been a good idea.. Now I feel awkward and think I blew it \n\nShould I continue to compliment her? What if she thinks I'm ugly or weird
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Girls like to be flattered by guys, and she probably didn't give it a lot of thought.
666544
wow, must've shocked you that the girl you really like, you just turned down! maybe nxt time you see her in math you could say, "sry about last time, i was really out of it! is that offer to help you still free?" if she really needs help and your super good in math she'll probably say yes. if she really likes you and asking for help in math is just a way to spend time with you then AW!
556945
help yourself and go talk to her. who cares if she's from a different group. group dynamics eventually change, ppl from different 'classes' are always pairing up. stop wasting your time and go for it. and good luck!
99081
i had one guy actually say to me, "so you like me right?" and i was absolutely stunned. I DID, but it was just very awkward. see if you cant spend some time with her one on one and get a better feel for her.
372014
Should tell her how you feel. Don’t feel scare if she would turn you down. If you’re too shy to approach her,\n What i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to her in person sure has the edge and more advantage.\n\nLove is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. And no rush. Girls look at 2 things, handsome and good personality. You know what handsome is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. \n\nAll the best to u.
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Hmmm. I would make it about something in the environement. I don't know how you associate with this girl, but if she's in a class you both share, try poking fun at the text book. If you just see her in a place you hang out, like a coffee shop, be a little silly with something they sell like a specialized mug or other type of utensil. Keep doing it until she smiles. When she smiles, celebrate it with a little comment like "There's that smile I've been waiting on," and she'll know the antics were about her, which is a big compliment. \n\nIf she just gets annoyed with the antics, then point blank dare her to smile. And then grin huge. Keep daring her to smile until she does. \n\nI say all of this because it worked on me ; )
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Go for what you feel...Don't be stuck with what if, and when you are at college, I bet you will still think of her.  That tends to ruin how you view other girls.  I think you will gain the knowledge of what she feels, and that is powerful knowledge.  Good luck, and never give up!
56583
From what you're saying, it sounds like you're both interested. I say tell her how you feel. Even if she doesn't like you that way, she'll be flattered.
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she sounds like a very very good friend to you... no wonder you dont wana hurt her feelings... but have you thought of it before? that either way she will get hurt... she will be hurt to find out that guy is just trying to make a fool out of her but she will be hurt also if that guy humiliates her infront of anyone or everyone in sch&#92;college.... u should talk to her nicely ask her to think properly wats the attitude and personality of this guy.... if u have noticed him hitting on so many girls in school i m sure your friend noticed as well its just up to her whether she wants to admit it or not.... or u can use a nastier way... try calling up that guy and ask him if your friend liked him will he accept her record whatever he says n let your friend listen to it.... with proof it'll be tough for your friend not to believe you and it'll be easier to convince her if she was just trying to lie to herself that he likes her as well....
646265
Uhh....sounds OK\nJust because she did that in her past, doesn't mean she still does it now. She may have learned by now....\nGo slow. Tell her you like her. Let her decide.
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When I was single, yes, I would stare, but try not to get caught.  However, I would welcome any chance to talk to or be around the guy.  If she is hot and cold, perhaps that is just how she is. Regarding your haircut, I would take the looking old comment as a compliment, but that could be a totally platonic thing to say.  Any other details you can add?
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Don't worry about impressing her. Be yourself, and she'll feel more comfortable too. But if you do stumble over a few of your words, or forget what you were going to say, be willing to laugh at yourself. It will make you look more confident than you feel. Good luck!
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Honestly you don't sound all that respectful yourself.\n Fake compliments?  Not sure what that means..do you mean\n she sucks up to people with things she doesn't mean? Or\n do you mean she is sarcastic in one of those "mean girl"\n ways?  If you don't like her, tell her why. It might do\n her some good. If not..she should be off your back.
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haha. I agree with Soulful_kris. Girls do like older guys. But we're not here to shake your confidence. In fact, that's your most powerful asset. Be confident. Girls hate guys that can't look them in the eye.Try really hard not to stutter and keep it casual. Ask her to lunch or if she wants to talk. Tell her how beautiful she is and that she lights up your day. Don't tell her stuff like, she's your world and you love her and whatnot. That's just too much for a first impression. Good luck.
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i am a girl so im gunna say what girls wanna hear and see when they are flirting. girls love to be complemented so give her a nice complement about her jewellery or hair... sheel love that. also i'd suggest to just give her a nice smile. ask her some questions about her... but dont get too nosey. some people say that teasing is a way of flirting (i do not suggest this). if you believe you like her too ask her out... just go for it! sheel obviously say yes! stay in touch like msn or texting.... and if you do go out with this girl i'd suggest these four places for a date... picnic at the park or at the beach, a theme park or fair, go see a band you both like, or have brunch in a nice cafe'... hope i could help good luck!
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Hello there!!=) \n\nWell, i think that you just might have come on too strong and she is shocked from what had happened..So i think that you should give her some time to think about how she feels about you. And she'll come around and let you know how she feels. Just give her few days and for now be cool dont push it...hope this is helpful! gud luck n take cares! =) oh and if she dont give you an answer after a few days then just go up to her and ask her watsup? but try to be cool kay! laterz
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Hey, dont rush girls.  No matter how much we may say, at times we just freak out regretfully the next moment we're alone, believe me.  If she keeps on saying it though, she's probably toying with u, being glad to get ur attention.