my ex and i broke up 3 monthz ago he has a gurl but when i as a question about his friend he was like wat u wanna go out with him then go then he got madd he said if i have him under my friendz list in sconex dat he was gonna fu*k me up wat does dis mean?
214424
It's either of the 2:\n\n1. He still loves yopu (which could most likely be not); and\n\n2. his ego is just hurt because you got over him sooner than he thought.\n\nDon't mind him..
129460
Maybe he is going to break up with the other girl and go out with you. He may just want to get to know you more.
26414
Heh.\n\nHe prolly doesn't know how to act. Maybe he does want to be with you but feels uncomfortable. Sounds like there's prolly still some bad blood that has to do with the breakup from before.
666970
It means he is getting some, some where else and doesnt need you any more. Also he is trying not to burn his bridge with you just in case he ends up alone.
576306
"It didn't go over well", huh ?  You mean that SHE broke up with you and you dabbled around with someone else, then you two got back together and she is ticked off ?  if that's what you are saying, then she is merely not in control of the Green-Eyed Monster.  You see, what she meant by breaking up with you was "See ?  See how much you will miss me ?  See how empty your life is without me ?" ....she didn't mean that you two were really "broken up" - it was just a test for you to see how important SHE was to you and when you went on to someone else,  - WELL - that wasn't exactly in her plans.  And she is hurt and she is angry.\n\nWell, you are not responsible for either emotion that she is feeling, although it would not hurt if you understood them.  She did this to herself.  You can empathize that she feels bad that you were able to so quickly "replace" her (because that is what she feels....and, to tell the truth....that is what happend.)  We human beings don't like to think that we are easily replaceable.  But, indeed, we are.  (Ah yes, for all our talk about "soulmates" the truth of the matter is that many people can be our "soulmate" and that means it is not quite so much destiny as timing.)  She may well have expected you to pine away after her and when you did not, she is angry.\n\nLife is all about growing up - all the way until we die.  You both have gone through an episode that should have taught you both some lessons - different lessons than the other could have learned.  Now you are back together and going forward, hopefully not backward.  (She is looking backward, by the way.)\n\nAnd, as a side note, this idea of full disclosure - telling new girlfriends or boyfriends about your past - not a good idea.  Not particularly respectful of the people in the relationships in your past.  The same holds true for interim relationships - you weren't "with" your current girlfriend during the time you were broken up, you should not share details about whatever you did in your interim relationship.  It is not her business and it is disrespectful to the other girl.  (None of this "oh, if you loved me you would share with me" - see what it got you ?  She's pissed.)\n\nAnd no, it wasn't cheating.
251510
that just means yo friend likes you cuz he tryin to fuck up yo shit you know? so now you pick is yo " friend " worth losin yo man for if so.....keep em if not cut it loose trust babe i been there before it aint worth it im sure let it go!
446160
Well, it could mean one of two things.  One she likes him herself and doesn't want to you so she can pursue something with him later.  Or two, she knows him in one way or another and knows it won't work.  Either way, she is not being a very good friend towards you right now  and if you want to talk to him then you should just do it.  You don't need her approval to talk to somebody else.
565543
he know's he did the wrong thing by dumping you. he's probably trying to act like he is in control. and it's obvious he still likes you but won't admit it coz he's a guy and wants to act like a 'man' and 'tough' n all. all i know he wasn't thinking when he dumped you and did something very stupid. \non the other hand he is also jealous when you talk to other guys or other new guys take an interest in you.\n\nb happy ur free n single coz he lost you now ;)
339372
It means she's through with you and she's playing a power game.  She's trying to take control of her life and take what she feels is hers so that nothing of herself remains in your possession.  She is really angry with you and wants to make sure that you don't have "any" part of her.  It's not a good thing, unless of course your were less than nice to her?
445151
she sounds like she is just telling the truth.  It is just fine I mean she broke up with him so she could hook you and him up.  I mean it is not like he broke up with her and then asked you out and your friend was heart broken.
287590
She's a bit insecure, and like the idea of having you on a leash.\n\nshe is playing emotional mind games with you and keeping you hanging on, pretending that you may have a chance.\n\nShe may also have broken up with you because she wanted to start another relationship with someone else, and then the other guy blew her off - she is stuck in a rut and has no-one to give her attention - and she knows that you still have feelings, so she calls you again, and makes a re-connection.\n\nshe is playing games with you - trust me, I have done this to a few guys, it's not nice but it's part of life.\n\nif you really wanna give it another go, try and get back with her, but give her conditions and ground rules, so she doesn't take advantage of your naivety and vulnerability, cos she knows that you are a bit soft and gullible, etc... sorry.\n\nanyway, if i was you, i'd GET RID!
135259
And we guys can't understand you girls...but anyways, there could be a number of reasons as to why he broke up with her, and him saying that he's bored of her, he sounds like a bastard to me. I don't think that's a very good reason, and it's probably not the reason he did, but then again i don't know the guy. He might have been interested in her at the beginning, just looking for a good time, but now he's found another girl who's  different, which he finds interesting, but will get bored with. Using "I got bored" is a cheap way out, and I'm sure he uses it on all kind of girls after he's had his "fun." Obviously he doesn't love her enough to stick with her, and to talk and say, "We could make more our relationsship more interesting." I say stay away from the guy, get over it, and move on.
99679
I think that the answer could be a couple of different things.\nHe could just be the type of person who does not care for another.  He is only interested in what he can get out of the situation and not concerned about the feelings of someone else.\nAnother thing could be that he was running his mouth a little too much after your breakup.  He could have been talking to his friends and got caught up in macho talk.  Things like that do happen.\nThe last thing that I could consider is that he is upset at breaking up and needs to justify it.  He needs to cut you down to make himself feel better.  By doing so he can better deal with the fact that you are no longer together, even if he is the one who broke it off.  The best people for him to talk to would be his friends.\nI can only make these assumptions from the information provided, but if I had to take a guess I think it may have been number one.  He doesn't care.  My justification for that would be the number of girlfriends he has had in the past.\nI hope that all works out for you.
342541
he obviously still has feelings for you.  its easier to hide your true feelings than it is to put yourself out there with the risk of being hurt worse. i would guess that sometimes hes in a mood where he thinks that being mean to you will get him over you and other times he thinks being nice could get you back... or he could be playing the game where he thinks you'll want what you can't have (making out with other girls)  depending on the history and context of the break-up there could also be things that hes reminded of when he sees you that cause him to lash out.  if theres still anything there for you, call him out on it and say that he'd be better off telling you how he really feels than making himself look worse every time.  good luck.
437954
i think he likes you but wasn't ready to make a big commitment after his last break up. so that's why he said he just wants to be friends! and next time the subject comes up on IM just say you do like him. i hope everything goes well!
528986
Its means he's trying to let you down nicely.  He has a girlfriend and generally 3 is 1 too many!  So no, hang out with someone else and go to someone elses house.
147350
Did she say 'we need time apart' or 'we need to be apart'?  If the former, it could mean that she needs some time to herself.  Everyone needs some alone time, or just space to relax with your friends, get your head together, etc.  Absence makes the heart grow fonder.\n\nIf she said the latter, well, she dumpped you man.  Pick up the pieces and move on.