is there any reference anywhere in the world to determine which is the right size for a penis... except for a girls vagina? I mean which is small, medium, large, extra large, xxlarge, xxxlarge etc.
201610
just to let you know average size of a penis about 6 inches.  So I guess you could say 6" is medium anything shorter is small, 8" is large, anything over that is Xlarge and beyond.  Hope this helps you out.
207517
Ok maybe a 2nd opinion would be helpful & also lets start by saying the word penis...why would a woman want a penis thru a sex change? You've heard of tomboys, princesses, jocks etc..these are labels about gender identification, meaning what people mentally feel comfortable being. I've had it discribed to me as so: You go to the shoe store & the only thing you're able to buy & wear for the rest of your life is a 6" high heel that's a full size too small. You can wear it & manage to walk in it for a while, but soon you've got blisters & your ankles ache & even if you sit down to take the pressure off, you KNOW they're still on your feet. All you can think of is how comfortable your sneakers are.\nThat's what it feels like to people who believe they are in the wrong body. I imagine its much the same for men who want to be women.
560981
NO. This is a question on a par with women's 'my boobs are too small' or 'am I too fat-I weight 98 lbs'. I know you probably feel like you need more length to please a woman, but believe me, I have NEVER stopped a guy before sex to say, "HOLD IT! Gotta measure that thing FIRST." Your confidence in yourself is essential, REGARDLESS of size. Guys with statistically "larger" penises have just as much doubt about their sexual attractiveness if they have no confidence in their ability to interest a woman.
69869
Your penis is like an artist’s paintbrush.  It’s not how long it is that matters.  It’s how skillfully you use it and how many different brush strokes you know.\n\nThese penis size questions come up again and again on this site.  Women almost always say it doesn’t matter to them.  And if it actually does matter to a small minority of women, so what?  There are still plenty left who don’t think it’s very important.  \n\nWhat’s far more important is whether you’re skilled at using your penis to satisfy your woman.  Can you last as long as you want?  Can you vary the depth of your strokes, the pace of them, the angle of them, so that you can offer your woman a little teasing and unpredictability at times?  Are you skilled enough at other ways to pleasure her, so that penis-vagina intercourse is only one of the things on the menu you offer her?  \n\nEven if you can’t do all of these things at present, these are all things you can LEARN to do.  But you can’t learn to have a bigger penis.\n\nAnd let’s not forget, it’s usually the person attached to the penis that decides whether a woman finds you appealing or not.  You could be hung like a horse, but if you’re an inconsiderate jerk you still won’t be very attractive to women.
537639
Like all others are saying, if you are in love with the person, it doesn't matter what size it is.  However, it can be a little surprising if the girl can't feel penetration at all.  It is not a deal breaker.\n\n"There have been several studies regarding the average size of the human penis. The majority of such studies could be unreliable due to self-selection bias: men with a smaller than average penis might be less likely to allow themselves to be measured, while men with a larger than average penis might be more likely to allow themselves to be measured. It is unknown if this conjectured self-selection bias has been confirmed by any studies, or if any studies have attempted to account for potential self-selection bias regarding penis size."
151678
I think that is abnormal. The average penis length is 6.16 inches.\nThe average girth is 4.84 inches. (http://www.edu.uni-klu.ac.at/~amiklaut/dr_nick/answer19.htm)\nBut you asked, how much is too much? I think the answer depends on your partner. If she can take it then it is quite alright. But if she can't take it, then you must ease down. This site (www.askmen.com/sports/health/health3.html) can give you tips.
165723
You are stuck with what you have. Do all you guys asking this or similar questions measure your manhood or ability to satisfy a sexual partner by the size of your dick? If you do I think you need to be asking questions in the mental health section. Like "Why do I feel I'm not a man because my dick is the size of a clit?" or "Why am I so sexually insecure?" or "Why am I not man enough?".\n\nSorry about the attitude but this question appears here about 24 times a day or once an hour. Just learn to use it properly.
60111
Size is not the end-all, be-all in sex.  The vagina is very flexible and can adapt to fit larger or smaller penises.  As long as she is happy and satisfied, he should not worry about the size of his penis as this will only lead to self doubt, performance problems, and the dissatisfaction of his partner.
92406
Oh, please!!!!! Enough with this "does size matter" questions already!!! \n\nRead on;\n\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/search/search_result;_ylt=Ais_0_mi7bIuM8xOSMy8RRYezKIX?p=size+matter
177059
My ex would disagree with you all. In fact, he believed it worked so well he went around bragging about it. In my opinion I agree with the others..penis exercises, pumps, etc. do no good. He never got any bigger. So my advice is to learn to love what you got, because its probably not going to change unless you still have puberty to go through.
437374
Statistically speaking the 6 inch (15.2cm) "Wang" is an anomoly. This goes back to early last century when medical surveys on such things were done by asking men how long their wang was. As we all now know, not the most reliable source. (How many guys will admit to being a bit undersized?). Independent medical surveys now say that 4.5-5.0 (10.1-12.7cm) inches is a more realistic "measure" of the "norm"\n\nKeep in mind, if you measure from the top, you get a different measurement than if you measure from the bottom. Medically the measurement is done from the bottom (the longer measurement) as the base of the penis actually extends into the scrotum.\n\nCongratulations, you may be a bit bigger than "normal".
652839
You are just fine.  If the size of your penis bothers the chick you are with too much, then you don't need her.  And if there hasn't been any complaints, what the heck are you worrying about.
461011
No penis is ever too big or too small, but I'm sure some people may be more intimidated by anything bigger (as a 5'5" girl, people who are 6'5" plus are a bit intimidating too!). The average vagina is about 6 inches deep, so if having vaginal sex, make sure you don't try to go all the way in; you'll be poking her in the cervix and that can cause some painful cramping, etc.  Having sex in a real entry ("doggy style") position can make it easier, as the vagina can open up more when positioned as such (and as always, the more turned on a woman is, the less anything hurts, as the muscles are less tensed up, so make sure she's not nervous, and is having fun as well).  Lots of lube will also help.\n\nGood luck!\n\nEssin' Em, www.hotmoviesforher.com
451051
Size of a penis is determined by mother nature and unless you want to incur her wrath you might as well be happy with what she gave you regardless of it's size.\n\nAnd yes, you are right to say that most of the devices and pills out there for penis emlargement don;t really produce permanent results. In addition many of them can do you more harm than good.\n\nBut if you keep healthy through proper nutrition, fresh air, exercise, plenty of sleep and all that stuff, you will find your penis works as good as you do. And supplements whether vitamins or herbal concoctions can definitely help with overall health improvement. And of course you need to learn how to use yoru equipment really well. Lots of practice is essenmtial to knowing how it works and what it likes. Also, when engaging in sexual activity always communicate with yoru partner so as to learn all the truly wonderful ways you can please them. Yes, even a small penis can do marvelous things with the right training.
299822
oh come on.  There isn't a man (or boy) alive who hasn't measured his penis. 5 1/2 is supposed to be normal size.  I have found most men are closer to 6" when erect. If you  are worried about size don't be.  Women fall in love with the man, not the penis.  If we love you whatever you got will make us happy.  The kissing, caressing, and holding is what we find important.  You can have a hugh penis but if we don"t love you and you don"t provide the above attention you are outta here!!!
224819
You probably have a good sense of where you fit in the distribution of size for \nmore commonly visible measurements of body size: height, size of hands, feet, \nweight and so on. However, unless you spend a lot of time in a nudist \nenvironment, there are, understandably other measurements for which you don’t \nhave a good sense of where you fit. Penis size is an obvious example. It’s also \none that can make a lot of people uncomfortable. They worry about whether they \nare abnormal, “too small,” “too large,” and so on. As with most characteristics \nof human anatomy, there is a lot of individual variation. You can differ \nsubstantially from average without being unusual or freakish and without any \nneed for concern or medical intervention. If you have concerns, by all means \nconsult a doctor, but chances are good that you have nothing to worry about.\n\nOn the other hand, there is always a fascination with people who are \nsignificantly different for the normal range. This applies to height and \nweight, size of hands and feet, and, yes, also to penis size. So what \nis “normal”? Surprisingly, perhaps, given how common concerns about penis size \nseem to be, there are very little good data based on large samples. There are \ndata, though, and the numbers seem to agree well enough to suggest that the \nsample size must be large enough to give reasonably accurate measures of \naverages and distributions. A good summary of recent data can be found at \nAverage-Penis.com:\n\nhttp://www.average-penis.com/\n\nThere are additional links there to other studies as well.\n\nThe average length of an erect penis (measured along the top) is 16.1 cm (6.34 \nin).\n90% of measurements fall between 10 and 21 cm (4 and 8.25 in).\nThe average girth of an erect penis is 12.3 cm (4.84 in).\nThe average length of the flaccid penis is about 9 cm (3.5 in) with most \nmeasurements falling between 5 cm (2 in) and 12.5 cm  (5 in).\n\nThese numbers appear to be approximately independent of such parameters as age \n(post-puberty) and nationality despite any anecdotal information you may have \nheard to the contrary, though reliable data on such variations is quite limited.\n\nYou can decide what “big” is, but just as you probably wouldn’t particularly \nlabel someone as “tall” unless they were in the top few percent, you probably \nwouldn’t want to label someone’s penis as “big” unless it was larger than the \nnormal ranges quoted above (greater than 21 cm erect length, 12.5 cm flaccid \nlength). There also appears to be a large variability in the ratio of the erect \nlength to flaccid length. Average is about 1.8, but ratios from about 1 to 4 \nare not uncommon.\n\nYou can turn up a lot of additional reading material on this subject with a \nGoogle search on:\n\nAverage penis size\n\nAnd if you are concerned about appearance, you might also want to look at the \nPenis size page,\n\nhttp://www.penis-size-page.com\n\nThis site has many pictures of both average and more unusual penises that you \ncan compare to your own.\n\nI hope this information helps you to better understand what is “normal” \nand “big.” Again, if you have concerns, consult your doctor. You may also see \nmany advertisements for companies that claim to help you increase penis size. I \nwould caution you against considering their services because of questionable \nefficacy in many cases, and because it is unlikely that there is any real \nreason why you should need to change your size.
187717
This is what I found from askmen website, which is self-explanatory:\n\n//quote///\nYes, penis size does matter. But don't head to the surgeon's office just yet there; it matters, but not in the way that you think. \nAfter asking 200 women of all ages (over 18), sizes, ethnicities, and sexual habits, the conclusion was that 82% of these women were content with a penis that was big enough to satisfy them, which averaged at about 6 inches. That, by the way, is just about the average penis size for men, according to the Lifestyle Condom Penis Size survey, which measured the erect penis size of 300 men.\n....\nThe unfortunate blunder men make when it comes to penis size is believing that bigger is always better; that is not always the case. In fact, many women who dated men with abnormally larger penises complained that they weren't able to comfortably enjoy certain sexual positions, nor were they able to adequately ********* sex. The last thing a woman wants is to have her man's penis knocking against her cervix during sex or creating stretch marks around the corners of her mouth. \n//End of quote// \n\nSource(s):\nhttp://www.askmen.com/love/vanessa_60/87...