I trust my boy friend completly and he feels the same way...he's told me...we have talked about it and talked about usin a comdom we're both 14 and we have been together 4 1 year and 4 months should i have sex wid him?
205219
what about after having sex?\ndid you ask that?\nwill he tell to all his friends what he have done to you at bed?\ngirls don't ask herself those trivial questions?\n\nwill he leave you after that?
182454
I say DONT HAVE SEX  with him and is you two back together or what. And don't rush yourself (never let a boy rush u into what u don't want to do) And u will be having peddity sex if u do cuz u is only doin it because u scared he might leave u. But first find out what he wants and tell him tha truth on how u feel about having sex. Don't let anyone tell u that if u don't have sex with them then they will break up with you. Remember your body is not a playground and its not for everybody.
193774
sex isn't just an act there are emotions that will go along with being with someone in this way . If he really loves you he will wait dont comprimise your morals  your only a virgin once once you have you cant go back  yes you can remain from having sex but your so young sex will always be there. i dont know him  but the guys i dated will tell you what ever it takes to get you into bed the good ones wont pressure you    i know  its hard  we have all been there   also if you happen to get prenant are you really ready for  all that respnsiblity  it will change your life .  some people are more mature than others at this age  just write down your thoughts  maybe seeing it on paper will help you decide    go talk to girls your age and get there input the ones that have babies on just the ones that have been through this stuff   you said you have morals and goals    if you are a religious person  go talk to a  teen  counselor than can help without judging  you . and if your parents  change their mind and decide to press legal charges against him because of his age  prison isnt going to be a place for him    dont risk  doing that to him     even if you dont want them to they can still override  and go to the law    i'm  not trying to scare you  just want you to get all the  facts before you make the decision   i wish someone would have told me about all the emotionally things that go along with sex    i have been with several  guys  when i was your age  i'm 20 something   and i still have  emotions from my first time  and  the times after  that.  there is so much life to experience  take it and run but be carful.
424418
4 years is quite a long time.....but it wasnt spent together so umm i dont know....but you guys managed to do something which for some people is almost impossible,4 years and you are still together.....i dont think a guy would ask a girl to marry him if he didnt mean it though so it should be a good sign.if you love him,then dont think about it twice and do it.marry him and be happy.if you are not sure about his feelings for you,,then give it some time to think about it,or talk to him to clear your doubts.\nonly you can find the answer to what you need to know,only you can make a decision.\nall the best.
31991
Well if you really think this boy you like is really cool and you can trust him I suggest you go for it, but still try and change your borhters opinion. Try and convince about you and his friend.
600530
follow your heart and remember to stand firm on your beliefs. What a precious gift to give someone you truely love. I would definately talk with him again. Sometimes young men that age think if you don't go farther in a relationship that you don't really love them or you have doubts. That simply isn't true...wouldn't he rather you wait until you can fully give yourself to the person you are gonna spend the rest of your life with. You are a very smart young lady to realize that you are to young to proceed further. You only get one chance to be young and innocent. Don't let him pressure you into doing ANYTHING you are not fully ready for mentally or physically. It's a gift you can truely only give once. Be safe sweetie.
143815
If by trust him you mean he will be the one who has to stop when your overly excited right?  Well I've been with my girl for 3 years, and we've never had sex, and we're both virgins.  I wouldn't have been able to do that w/o her help, and she wouldn't have made it either w/o mine.  Its not going to be just on him kiddo.  Your part of the picture too..\nYou guys are shaping a beautiful relationship by waiting...
462714
Yea I think you should, I don't know how old you are, but it seems that he might not be ready for a commitment. and if you ask a question if you should just move on, you most likely should. good luck
45975
This is a very difficult situation you are in. While 4 years may or may not seem like a lot. At his age, and at yours, four years can be critical. People change a lot in four years (emotionally) at his and your age. He still has to go through highschool, you will soon be entering your young adult years. While now you two may seem to have a lot in common or can see the world through the same eyes, you can just as easily find that you are worlds a part in as little as a year. I would recommend you talk to an adult that you trust and has your best interests at heart. There guidance can help you decide what to do since they know you better than we do. I wish you well.
501098
well he is ready. sounds liek what my bf and i were liek not too long ago. (weve been sating for 2 years) always talked abotu having sex. i told him how i wasnt comfortable wih the idea yet and wasnt sure (we were both virgins) so i just told him that. he didnt bother me abotu to as much as he used to before. i knew he respected my decision. i eneded up waiting over 1 and a half years intot he realthionship till i felt liek i was comfortable wiht it and everything. you shoudl just tell him that you dont know if your ready yet and if he relaly loves you he will respect your decision and stick it out till you feel more ready. there are better ways to please a guy that just sex. you can always make him dinner or something =) good luck. just dont rush into things if you dont feel ready. i dont konw how old you are. but advise waiting till you are in a serious relationship to loose it or have sex.
50556
Wow you sure are asking alot of your guy, why? Are you so insecure that he has to think of you and nothing or anyone else. You must be very very young to think this way, so that can be excused, but if you are over the age of 14, you are in for a world of heartache with that kind of attitude.\n Let him be his own man and that will be the greatest thing you can ever do for him, don't expect him to think of you always that just is not possible and is totally unrealistic in fact. And very selfish of you.
336919
I think that its o.k and you should wait cuz you are too young. I am not telling you what to do , but be wise and smart. If you choose to have sex, be safe and think about it first. Dont do it cuz others are doing it or eer pressure. I am in the 8th grade going to the 9th grade and trust me I understand. Everyday I see girls at my school that just dont care and regret doing it. I am a virgen and I make wise choices. Also think about your consequences.
474115
First of all...I congratulate you on your decision.  \n\nYour body and your virginity are sacred, and you should wait until YOU feel comfortable and ready. Your bf will wait as long as it takes if he loves and respects you...so don't worry about that. \n\nAnd don't listen to what other people have to say..they have their choices and you have yours. \n\nI commend you for being such a bright young woman, and not falling for peer pressure.
254188
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!\n\nJeez... this is happening earlier these years...\n\nI don't think you should let him, I mean- come on, you're not even a teeenager yet. Don't rush into certain things. Put boundaries. If you're not comfortable, or if you're uneasy with what he's doing, one word sweetie- NO!\n\nJust say NO! \n\nAnd if you let him keep touching you... chances are you might even end up having sex, and you're way TOO young to experience sex or end up getting pregnant or something.\n\nBe careful.
567435
considering you two are so close, you may just belong together. if he feels the same way, then go for it. \nbut i'll advise you this: are you sure you can risk losing your friendship with him? i mean, what if you break up and then are you sure things will be the same as before?\nthink about it...\ngood luck
620782
dude, don't be stressin too much.\n\nmy boyfriend and i started as best friends, yes having sex and all that stuff [not so often]. we were best friends for 2 years and today is infact our third month anniversary =]\n\ni think, you should just be happy. and make sure that you guys have fun.\n\ndon't have doubts, as doubts may ruin a relationship. instead, enjoy.
62597
I'm sorry but thats really not safe or health. There is so much mental and pysical development going on between 13 and 18, its not safe for you or for him. If you two end up having sex (which you deffinetly shouldnt be doing if youre 13) then he could be arrested for statuary rape, even if you were willing. Please, do me a personal favor and find a nice hot guy your age! Good luck!