I am staight but me and my girlfriends sometimes kiss when were out drinking. Im tempted to take it further
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Well, make your decision when sober.  "accidently" doing it when boozed up isn't fair to anybody.
306503
dude you've only french kissed the girl twice and you already want to move further??? ummm.... you're probably going to scare the girl off.... don't move so fast! slow down, its REALLY NOT alllll about sex. talk to the girl, get to know her interests, what she like to do. girls like guys who will get to know them first and move things slowly. good luck, but slow down!
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Well ask yourself what do you want? Ask him what he wants. If you feel you like him then i think you should tell him. But everyones a different person when their drunk. If you do feel awkward together then maybe things shouldn't go further because you've got to be comfortable with someone. I can understand why it would be awkward though, the day after is always awkward. Only you'll know what the next step is. Were you attracted to him before last night happened?\n\nI'm only 18 but already have regrets, from not going for things when i should of, do what you feel is right.\n\nGoodLuck ;-)
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kissing means different things to different people, perhaps your gf doesnt view it the same as you.\ndont let it bug you. havent you ever heard the saying "you have to kiss alot of frogs..."
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stay right away from that girl you made out with,and focus all your attention everyday on your girl friend and make sure you go out of your way everyday to let her know that you only love her and only want to be with her,if you do the slightest thing at even looking at another girl it will rock the boat with you and your girl friend,but if you do truley love your girl friend you wont have any hasdsles in showing her shes tyhe only one for you,
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thats normal for me maybe your just in the mood my advice is to go party have a good time and make out with a new person it should calm you down for a while
625561
You are obviously feeling guilty about making out with your\nboyfriend
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Dont listen to the people trying to say your not Gay or Bisexual, because you might be, only you can know. Yes @ 13 you are going through puburty(sp?) and will experiment. But only you know if you are or are not. If she wants to kiss you to, I say go for it. But as with any friend a relationship can possibly mess it up. \n\nThere is nothing wrong with you, you are normal. Dont ever let someone try to make you bad or that you are wrong for feeling the way you do. Be careful with who you tell because some people are not open and bad things can happen, because people are so close minded.\n\np.s- I am 22 years old and have gone through the same thing you are. So I know from personal experience and I am a Bisexual adult, I always knew ever since I was little. It took me some time to accept myself for who I am.
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My dear, the way that I see it you seem like a "deprived" person in the area of self expression. SO you say, you have a great family and supportive friends. And that you are a social person. Have you ever behaved that way sexually when you were still in your teens?.. or even while you were in your early twenties?\n\nAs to the relationships that you had in the past,  Perhaps you have honestly loved at least one of them. I think that is not the issue. May be you're still in love with one, but something's pulling you back. Just a thought in your mind is quite different from actually doing it. You are not scared of the thought of commitment, but the actual practice of it, I am sorry to say that you still lack it. Who knows, you may have already found her but you just do not realize it?\n\nIt is hard to answer your questions outright because it needs details to be understood. But the way I see it, going for one-night stands is your way of dealing with your self expression. These women are strangers and you pay them for pleasure, so you get to "say" everything and that they will just have to follow. The way I see it, there are things that you want to be done your way and perhaps sometime in the past, things did not happen the way that you wanted them to happen that is why you vent your frustration on a "safe" avenue where you can easily get away with - your sexual activities with multiple women. So you say, it must feel really good. I am sure you are not scared of STDs and AIDS because you're just having fun, right? But what happens when pleasure is over? That, you have to deal with again, and the cycle continues. See, for as long as the root cause is not properly dealt with, this will go on and on and on with your life. This is not a normal guy thing. I suggest you seek professional help about it.\n\nYou've asked this question because you feel that something is not right somewhere. Congratulations, that is a good start.
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you where right all the way. you shouldnt use being drunk as an excuse because its you cant blame anyone else for being drunk.  if he didnt deserve the punch in the face from u about trying to kiss ur gal then he deserved it for being drunk. u shouldnt feel bad and if it still haunts u try to let the past go..
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It sounds like the two of you are really well paired with each other. Even though you tease and pick at each other, you seem to stay together anyways. Maybe the way to go is for you to not tease her as much. Try not to call her names, either. If she asks you not to call her a name or pick at her about something, try to stop doing so. Also, if drinking makes you fight and hurt her, try to not drink as much. Nobody is perfect, so when you know that you are wrong, say that you're sorry , and when she is wrong, try to forgive her. It looks like a good relationship otherwise. Don't hurt her! Good luck!
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Do yourself a favor. DO NOT DRINK THIS WEEK-END. Go no further than kissing him. Keep ALL your clothing on. It's key you show him that you normally have boundaries and that he needs to respect those boundaries. That way he won't get the wrong idea and think you do it--the first time every time and that if he really wants you he's gonna have to put a little effort into it.
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Honey, the words are STILL and THOUGH. You need to concentrate more on your studies and less on kissing. Unless you want to know if metal can make out with cookie mix.
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Hi, i think you should do what your heart desires. In other words if you want to stay with your girlfriends stay but if you want to meet guyfriends go for it too. but , honestly i think you should talk to your girlfriends and tell them how you feel.
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It would help some to know how old you are first.  I will assume that all parties of of legal age (21)since it is not otherwise stated.\nDoes your girl have a drinking problem?  If not it is pretty unreasonable for you to ask her not to drink.  What right do you have?   If she does have a drinking problem, asking her not to drink will not make her not drink.  \n\nAlso, asking anyone not to hang out with their friends is not reasonable what right do you have to tell her who she can and cannot hang out with?  \n\nYou are correct though, she shouldn't have agreed to what you asked, as you are overstepping your bounds as a boyfriend.  \n\nYou ask her to do things that are not reasonable, then you get mad when she doesn't do them.  You don't trust her to start with, then you ask her to keep promises that you know she won't and you then in turn trust her even less.  You are making yourself miserable, you either need to learn what you limits are as a boyfriend (what you can ask another person to do/not do) or you need to get out of this relationship.   \n\nHow would you feel if she asked you to do the same things that you ask of her?  Would you feel it was fair?  You might feel that you are trying to look out for her best interest, but it sounds like it might be coming across as overbearing.\n\n*UPDATED*  I can't solve your problem.  Relationships are hard and yet simple, either you and the other person are happy, or you aren't.  If you both aren't happy, and you've tried to make it better and you still aren't happy, then what's the point of continuing?  You can not change a persons behavior and although, you may want to look out for her and vice versa you can not make her do something she doesn't want to.  Just like she can't make you do something you don't want to do.  You only do it because you want to, you want to please her and make her happy.  It's a two way street, you can give her your opinion and your advice, but you can't make her do anything. If you are happy with her behavior then stay, if not leave; she is going to be who she is, if you don't like that then maybe you don't really like her, but you like who you can turn her into; which again isn't really her.  Regardless, you either stay or leave it is your choice, but know who she is as a person and know that you can only advise and nothing more then that.  *********************\n2-1-06\nIt's sad, she needs to learn to love herself.  She has to learn to do that on her own, sadly; you cannot teach her that.  That's all I have to say about this, and I mean it this time.
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Go experiement. If you like being with girls, then you must be.
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In my experience alcohol can definitely assist people in doing things they wouldn't normally do without alcohol in their system.  I don't think you would do anything stupid because of the fact that you are aware of this fear you have of acting innapropriate.  It's the chance we all take when hanging out with friends who are drinking, that they may do something they wouldn't normally do.  If she is a true friend she will laught with you and tell you to stop your just being drunk.  If your obnoxious when you get drunk however she may not want to hang out with you anymore.  Maybe you should just be honest with her and get it out in the open so that you both may enjoy the evening and you already know how she would react.  She may surprise you and tell you that she would be delighted to make out with you.  '-)