Was bisexual, why are why not!
213881
What if you met someone, fell in love and then they said they were bi, would you leave??  no way....  If you really like this person and this person wants to hook up with someone and this doesn't bother you, have some fun!
588720
I myself BI!!! and very proud of it. I think that as this world is more open to Homosexuality that people will not be afraid to explore the same sex. I think that being Bi Gay or Straight is a very beautiful thing. Love is Love and that's all that matters.
584087
Kinsey's studies showed that there are very few people who are 100% straight or 100% gay. I've been out of the closet since I was 18 (I'm 37 now). I've never been with a man, but I do occassionally have fantasies about them...and I do find them attractive. However I still identify myself as a lesbian...though I occassionally will question it myself. It's hard when there are social pressures that you have to be one or the other, but (as Kinsey's studies showed) you really don't have to be and perhaps aren't by nature. It's possible that you may be bisexual. And, really, does it matter? There is no rule that says you should or shouldn't be with a man if you're curious.It's ok to be gay, straight, or bi...just  be yourself...and be truly honest with yourself. Don't pressure yourself either way.
643344
according to sigmund freud, everyone is born bisexual. a person may (or may not) have masculine or feminine tenancies, but these are activated (or not)  by how xe experiences the world during crucial childhood development. \n\nthis is, of course just a theory; nobody really knows why we are all attracted to what or whom we are attracted. most of human society supports the "concept" of heterosexuality, so its not surprising that some people don't realize that they are attracted to the same sex right away- or that this attraction often comes as a shock to them and their family/acquaintances. \n\nthe term lesbian has been applied to homosexual women with reference to the girls' school of saffos on the greek island of lesbos. \nin other words... this is girls club hon ;) no boys allowed.
596111
well, if he wants walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, guess what he is???   A  duck!!  The only reason he wouldn't be bi, is if he's plain gay.....hiding behind you. Good luck!
628952
Because that would be Gay ....
628740
I am not lesbian or bi... I think that one of the possible reasons that people are so down on bi women is that unlike lesbians, it has been considered cool, hot and sexy by mainstream media, even so much so that some girls would claim that they are bi for the extra attention that they could receive from males... On the other hand, the lesbian/gay community has been marginalized to a point where a person that could be seen as a 'fence-sitter' (even if that's not the case) would not be accepted fully by the lesbian/gay community, especially when it is more acceptable to be bi than to be gay. Within the straight community, I think we've seen a media-induced increase of bi-sexual girls, many who return to straightness when the novelty wears off, so a truly bisexual woman would be taken less seriously due to the other girls going through 'a phase'.
454618
There are certainly negative aspects of being bi, but you cannot change who you are.  You can be "straight" by dating a woman, just like you can be "gay by dating a man; sexuality is fluid and should be described on your own terms.  You should not feel bad that people call you a bisexual, because you must own who you are.  Live your own life how you want to and only surround yourself with people who respect that.
609944
Just because he didnt have sex with you or the other woman doesnt make him gay. That is jumping to conclusions. Perhaps he was emotional issues?  Perhaps he kept thinking about an ex-girlfriend? Perhaps he just wasn't attracted to you guys???  There are countless scenarios.
554162
Because they are gay!
524919
Dude, your original question was asked in the "Singles & Dating" section, why are you posting follow-up questions here in the "Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgendered" section?
493289
I believe most people are bisexual.  It just depends on how open to the idea you are.
145324
Right now, it's "trendy" for women to be bisexual. It's accepted in a way that bisexuality in males isn't, so it's not unexpected that it's more public.\n\nGenerally, the sexual acts between women are done for the benefit of or to tantalize men. It seems that women are doing it for that reason, for the reason that they're following a trend, and because they enjoy it.
16576
It's called bisexuality and stop trying to find some medical reason for it, enjoy it and have fun with it!!!
115800
Well, I'm not bi. But I do have some friends who once thought they were bi, and it turned out that they were actually gay but in denial. Follow your heart, Sweetie, and do what you need to do to discover yourself. Good luck.
311755
I think that would make you bisexual or at least bicurious. Not that there's anything wrong with that. I just think if you are straight you would not have those thoughts.
415319
Why would anyone choose a difficult life?  Especially when it would be so easy according to straight people to "choose to be straight."  If so, I have a question for them.  Why don't they CHOOSE TO BE GAY?  See all those emotions running through you straights right now?  That's how we feel.  We feel "how can we change, if we could, wouldn't we?  Same as straights who are asked to think gay."  They find it incomprehensible to think about men, as I do about women.  Its just not normal for me, sorry, does that sound like a choice or something I'm stuck with?  I cannot remember feeling anything other way from the age of 5 on up.  The men were always attractive the women were always the nice ones.  So, while it may be a choice for some, it was not for me.  The very idea that I could have CHOSE this life is laughable.