He did sort of cheat on his gf.
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NO DEFINATELY NOT!!! WOT AN IDIOT. CHANTELLE IS NO-ONE. HE GOT ENGAGED TO HIS FORMER GILFRIEND, MET CHANTELLE AFTER 6 WEEKS AND DUMPED HIS FIANCEE TO GET ENGAGED TO HER!!!
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It isn't a good idea to be with someone who cheats on you. That just shows their lack of loyalty to your relationship with them.
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More than likely he probably is cheating. And the reason men are jerks because they tend to think  with their smaller head.
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Man! That's a tough one! But the fact of the matter is that the boyfriend was cheating! Doesnt matter if it was with another man, woman or she-male. So I would kick some butt then dump the boyfriend.
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He's using you and no ur not using him, if you were your emotions wouldnt be invested in it and entertaining the thought of being his gf again. He has a gf and you on the side and what do you have? Some empty sex w/ a loser that your pining away after? Oh yeah, you really have the upper hand in this one. Stop being used and gain a lil respect for yourself and go find some guy that isnt a cheating a*shole.
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He might not have the right but he still might be hurt, people cheat for different reasons and you can't say that he dont love her.  His cheating is disrespective but you can't say he dont luv her.
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Not likely,see the links attached, I am sorry this is really messed up, but if you know you did not cheat on him..... and you know you did not have it before him...Well you do the math - numbers do no lie..\nQuestion: Has he been tested if my GF came down with something I would want to be tested. They could tell who had it longer by who's case is more advanced. -- Bottom line you can't just ignore this. You have to get treatment.
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Honestly once a guy cheats it's like Pringles.  You never can have just one.  Once a cheater always a cheater.  If he has done it 3 times and knows you'll take him back then pretty much he knows he can get away with it and u won't do anything about it.  Leave his ass!
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she cheated, it doesnt matter who it was with. you have to decide if you're willing to forgive her and trust her that she won't  do it again.
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cheating is cheating whether it is a man or woman
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Once a cheater always a cheater...forget about whether he likes or not but think about what kind of person he is that thinking about going out with you while having a girl friend. He has to finish the relationship and then move on to you.What! Is He holding the girl he's dating as a back up...or he's thinking you as a back up!
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I don't think that sounds like cheating at all; however, I can totally see why you would feel jealous because I'd feel that way if I had a gf like that! I think that they just happen to have very similar schedules, so they tend to be around each other a lot. Unless he constantly talks about how amazing she is all the time, or goes completely out of his way to make plans with her instead of being around you, then I'd start to worry and ask him what's going on. Until then, I don't think you need to feel threatened.
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HERE'S WHAT WENT DOWN. NICK HAD A GIRLFRIEND BEFORE HE HOOKED UP WITH CHRISTINA. WELL CHRISTINE DIDN'T CARE AND STOLE HIM FROM HIS GIRLFRIEND.  THEN WHILE NICK AND CHRISTINA WERE DATING, HE SPEND IN UPWARDS OF 2 MILLION DOLLARS ON HER. SHE CHEATED ON HIM. HE CHEATED ON HER, AND SHE BROKE INTO HIS BLACKBERRY READING HIS TEXTS MESSAGES FROM OTHER GIRLS. SO THERE YOU HAVE IT. THEY CHEATED ON EACH OTHER.
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YES ITS STILL CHEATING OF YOUR BF DOESNT KNOW BOUT IT
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Answers:\n1. Guy's are pre-programmed by nature to cheat. It's nature, and look how the animals interact with sex. they just seek pleasure and no commitment.\n2. You let him Cheat you. You showed something like "cheating is OK.\n3. He has a Cheater friend. It's peer pressure here.\n4. He has a broken family background: History repeats itself.
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Honestly, cheaters are cheaters.  Even if these things did not mean anything, which they likely didn't sicne they are in cyber world, he would probably mess with  them if he had the chance.  If they live nearby, it is probably just a matter of time before he gets with them.> Sounds to me like he likes flirting with danger, and unfortunately, most times people get swept away by the games they play.
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He was either looking to cheat or he was looking for a better girl. 50/50 chance on this one.