I really like this girl and we are kinda dating but we text each other alot n we talk online more than we do in person
201553
You def. only have an idea of this girl..like that other person posted...def. meet her and talk to her alot more in person...its a whole other character face to face....you'll have to suck that up and get comfortable in person..otherwise..you have no relationship...
134157
I think you've waited long enough. If you really like this girl, then why don't start talking to her more often. Become good friends with her and then ask her out, this will take longer, will almost be a sure fire way to get her to say yes, and will eliminate all thoughts of you being shallow.
427333
Maybe she likes you too and is just too shy, or gets nervous whenever you are around, whether it be online or in real life. Sorry I don't have any great advice, but I wish you the best of luck!
482821
I know it's tough when that happens but how about talking to her and just letting her know you miss having some time to hang out with her. Maybe you could suggest that the two of you plan something to do together... go to the mall? go for a walk whatever it is you both like to do and then to show that you see she is building another new friendship make an additional plan to get together with all your friends both Kelsey and Alex and suggest including the new girl. You can get to know her too and you can all find out what you have in common and make more friends. I hope it works out, I know having lots of girlfriends can be fun but can be hard work too, sometimes girls don't get along perfectly I'm afraid your experiencing that right now.
89572
I think it all depends on how close you guys are. just try talkin to her.
28822
First of all...you have to ask yourself...do I really love this girl, or am I just caught up in being a couple?  If you have just recently started dating...give it more time...make sure you know what you are really feeling.\n\nSometimes you just have to take a chance and be the first one to put your feelings out there.  Is it scary...omg, yes.  But you never know sometimes...she could very well be waiting on you to make that first move.  ;)\n\nThere is no way to "make" someone fall in love with you.  Just be yourself.  If you are completely sure of your feelings...then the best thing to do is discuss them with her...in person!  Don't do this over the phone, email, etc.  Don't expect her to say she has the same feelings back.  She might need time to think about this.  You can't force love on anyone...and everyone feels things at different intervels in a relationship.  Be patient.
194710
You two must be very cute...\nI think you're far from ruining your relationship :)\nIf you really are scared of this, investigate a little bit more with your friends, to make sure that she really feels something more of friendhip for you, and then if she does, please come on!\n\nIt's going to be great, because you know her well in many ways so far, but you're going to discover each other in a very different other way...
144631
As a girl, if she is keeping him around there is some kind of attraction involved.  Your proof? There was a relationship with him in the past, so he is obviously dating material in her mind.  If she is only an online girlfriend, find someone who will want to stay true to you.
316216
How many is a couple?  Like two or three?  This isn't enough for her to put her whole social life on hold just yet.  It's possible that she's just not that into you, but it may be that she's just busy.  Lots of us have a lot going on.  If she's calling you withint a couple of days then I wouldn't worry about it.
590279
Tell her you want to spend more time with her. Make a date ahead of time and make her keep that day open for you.\n☺
675734
get a tighter friendship with her but not too close.\nthen talk to her on the phone alotdo things together\nget her comfortable with you\ntalk to her about how you feel and that you want to be something more
449249
You could ask her to a group activity --a movie with friends, a party, etc. instead of a one on one date, just to get a feel for what she's thinking and for her to get more comfortable. Make sure to be attentive to her and ask questions when you want to, give her a chance to open up and joke around with you. It sounds like she likes you, she might just be having a hard time finding a way to express it!
553503
first you have to realize that long distance relationships are difficult, but possible...how well do you know this gal? if youve only IM'd, then it might be best to take it slow, get to know her...also consider that 'she' might not really says who 'she' says she is...never know man, could be a freakin weirdo using made up pics...start with the e mail thing, then get a phone # and talk for a while-and i mean a while-months...get to know her and make sure she is on the up and up before you consider meeting...lust is a powerful emotion, but dont let it cloud your judgement
520530
You need to be honest with her and tell her how you feel. It's easier over the phone rather than face to face.
259076
I dont think that you should try to split them up or anything. It sounds corny but if u are meant to be together then you wont need to do anything. Their relationship will end naturally and u and this girl will be free to date without worrying about bad karma. If she really likes u that much, she will end the present relationship herself anyway (but dont push her into doin so!)
235427
Easy, tell her you wish to move on now and although you want to be mates, you would find it easier if she initially didn't text you as much. Be a man and dtell her to her face. After you have done that if she still contacts you all the time, only answer her occasionally. Then gradually reduce the amount of time you answer her. If she still contacts you, change your number and contact the police lol
138914
Just ask her to go do something that you both enjoy. if you talk to her everyday you have to have a similar interest and if you don't just fake one of her's. the best idea is to ask her to go with you to something that you know she will enjoy. that way you have something that you both can talk about and enjoy together.