Every time i call my b/f he starts talking to me and then says i'll call you back and never does
209583
boys r just stupid like that. i mean not all are like the ones my sisters had but if you really want him to call you when he says he will, tell him the next time you talk becausse if you dont, it will drag on like that
170663
Without you giving the whole story I can only take a shot at this one...If you broke up with him and he is still texting you, then he is in denial. He must still have feelings for you and thinks that there is still a good chance that you will want him back. When it actually starts to hit him, that you have moved on, then he may start to get more intense with these types of intrusions...just be aware that some guys get a bit nuts in this situation and that it sounds like that could be starting...he will either just give up or kick it up a notch...Now, if he was the one that broke it off...he is just trying to lay the groundwork for getting you back...But from the way you wrote your question that doesn't really seem to be the case. I just thought I would throw that in there too.\n\nNow you added details...So I guess that I was right in throwing that last little bit. So here is what you aught to do...You should act a little pissed off that he is still "bothering" you and that you just want to be left alone in order to move on. Tell him that it was hard enough when he broke it off, but now you just need some space to set yourself right and move on and with these constant reminders, you can't do so...If he is really wanting you back (and seems to me that he does), this will put the ball back into play. He should then go from there and say that he just can't stop thinking of you and really wants you back...If that is the case, and you end up taking him back, then you really need to get down to the bottom of why he broke it off in the first place. There is obviously something that you two didn't get out in the open earlier and if it doesn't get out there, then you guys would be doomed from the start of this new start...
639436
my ex did that, i took him back several times. \n\nmy advice.. NEVER ever ever talk to him again, just forget about him and you will be better off.. SERIOUSLY.
99758
The best thing you can do is ignore him.  The more you call the more power you are giving him over you.  Have some respect for yourself.  Most men want what they can't have.  If you are constantly calling then he knows he has you right where he wants you.  Pull yourself together and if he truly wants to be with you, he will come crawling back to you.
65418
Unless there's a legitimate reason for him not calling you back, "he's just not that into you". You make it sound like his behavior is consistent so if you're making the relationship a priority and he isn't, it may be time to move on. Make yourself less available. I would spend more time with friends and ignore his calls. That way you're out there meeting new guys and he'll either come around or you'll find one that returns phone calls.
86032
he seems to be one of those who will not make up their minds for a life time.\nhe calls you back because he is lonely,\nthe next minute, he might be gone.\nkeep on the good work by keeping away form him.\nhe can easily hurt feelings.
131765
He does not like you and plus he is afraid of giving you a direct answer.\nFind someone else, because hanging after a guy will make you seem worthless. Show him what you are worth by sending him only one message like "Tell me why you are not talking to me or i will never  want to have to talk with you again. I am more worth than how you  treat me!!!".\nShould he not answer. Do not think about it twice, dump him and go on with your life!!! YOU ARE MORE WORTH than depending on what others might choose for you. \nWho is he that he should determine whether you are good enough to talk to or not. Such people are disgusting!
111848
It sounds as if he is getting comfortable, and he may be a person who is scared of or doesn't want a commitment. Have you voiced your sentiments to him of how badly it makes you feel when he doesn't call? If not, that may be the turning point. You will probably get a better feel of his intentions by his reaction to the conversation. Beyond that, I would definitely not give him your "heart" until you absolutely know what he wants out of the relationship. Good Luck!\n\nLilD
662435
Maybe ur jealous of her. If ur b/f  ares about u and wants to be with u, then I don't think he would leave u, I guess u got a try and trust ur b/f. If u call her then its just gonna make u look bad. Probably sound better if ur b/f ask her him self to stop flirting with him. But don't start forcing ur b/f to tell her to leave him alone. I dunno how u stop being jealous of people.
204362
The next time he calls you, tell him you don't want anything to do with him and that he should stop calling you and stop following you.  Tell him calmly that if he does not back off you will call the cops.  He might not realize he's being really creepy, so that might make him back off.  If he gets really angry or if he keeps calling, call the cops.
626952
Call him!  Who knows, maybe he is wondering the same thing about you?  Communication goes two ways in any relationship.  \n\nIf you don't feel comfortable calling him, at least talk to him about it, ask him to call you!
288842
WELLL U SHOULD JUST TALK TO HIM AND BE OPEN AND HONEST IF HES TRUE LUV HELL LISTN AND WONT GET MAD AND YOU SHOULD CALL HIM HE SHOULDNT ALWAYS HAVE TO CALL YOU
172971
girl if you like him talk to him more and more i know my b/f/f is in the same spot
30572
To me if he keeps playing with you he dosen't take you seriously. Or maybe he's just afraid to tell you what he is really feeling. You should have a talk with him and just lay everything on the tableto see what's really going on.
204748
He sounds a little scary to me. You definately should not call him, he sounds like the type of guy who will turn out to be a stalker.\nIt's much better to be with a man who will give you some space and not leave 4 messages in two days. If you didn't call him back after the first message he should not have called you again.\nFor your own sanity and safety, find a man who isn't so desperate. At some point, this behavior he has shown will drive you crazy if you pursue this relationship.\nGood luck.
365046
leave him alone he will call if he wants you back go out have a good time find someone else he will find you if he loves you if not oh well find someone new
449306
First  u should stop calling him and next u should just stop trying so hard. Hey i have a friend that her guy treats her like she is his everything and she is a bitch to him ( sometimes).  U need to let go.