I'm working on a paper and heard this is true from a friend, but I no longer talk to him anymore and I don't want to put it in my paper if it's not true.
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I am a veteran that uses the VA regularly.\n\nFor non-emergency problems you must go to a VA Hospital or VA Clinic. Since  it is not life threatening they will either make you an appointment or have you wait until a doctor can see you between appointment.\n\nFor emergency medical reasons (life threatening) like a heart attack etc. you are to go to the nearest Emergency Medical facility (Hospital), civilian or Military. The VA will pay for this care. There is a string attached though.\n\nThe string is: If you have not seen your assigned VA doctor in 2 yrs or more the VA will not pay.
198950
That's sad. It's happened to me, too. There's no way, now, except for hacking into the website, and that's illegal. I know how you feel, I've been through it, too. The best thing to do is make a new account and read what you wrote in your old journal, and copy and paste it into your new one.
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That's a fine line to the legallity of it.  Yes, it is plagerism.  If you got caught, would you try to go after the company you paid to write your essay to possibly lose a second time?  \n\nColleges are getting better at catching plagerists.  They get programs that scan papers and do searches on-line for exact text matches.  Too many per paper without referencing and you are called on it by the prof.  They also set up dummy accounts with the on-line paper sellers to search for work turned in by  students looking for copied papers.   \n\nI have found some that I actually write better than most when it comes to papers.  I don't know why.  I have had people read my papers for flow and fluidity.  Many people have stated "you should change this or that".  When I have followed their advice, I get a negative comment on from the professor on the change.  When I stick with my gut feeling that what I wrote is better than the suggestion, I usually get a "Yes!" or similar kudo in that section.
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be quit. untill you have proof of everything dont say anything.  if you say something to the other friend then you could really screw things up with the two friends if its not true. and if you find out it is true then i think you need to speak up to both friends. maybe you could try saying something bout it while all three are there so that there is no behind the scenes words and everything is resolved at the place it is said. and if you're asked why you didnt speak up just say because you weren't sure if it was true. you were just looking out for both friends and playing personal detective for them both. this way you not only keep your friends but also you have a face of a saint. they will totally trust you from then on.
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Assume it is true unless you have proof to the contrary. Your friend may need your support in the face of temptation or social pressure. I hope you get very tough with your friend if they even think of going near the stuff.
490713
I'm assuming you are referring to personal info, not work related info. I've worked many jobs and the only thing I can tell you is that there is an "a**hole" at every company, no matter how much you like your job. As someone else said, just communicate with her regarding work related issues. You don't have to be best friends with the people that you work with, but sometimes you have to try to work with them as much as you hate them as a person. If you really can't stand it, find another job. Writing her a letter along with the rest of your coworkers is just going to cause more trouble. When I was younger, I used to let people like that bother me to the point that I would "tattle" on them. But in the end, I'm the one that suffered. Just do your job and only tell your personal business to people that you do not work with.
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go ahead and research what u want, but ask your friend(s) before telling them if they want to know what u found.  Sometimes peeps would rather stay in the dark. I personally would like to know what u had found, especially if it was adverse to what I thought about this person.
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This is what i do.. I call a friend up and tell her to call me later on in the day and ask me what i got done that day and i would do the same for her,  somehow it works, i guess because i don't want to tell her i did nothing .  Try it
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It depends on a lot of factors. If you are contacting them on business related matters, than you had better have a good reason to do it without okaying it with him. If you are contacting them socially, well.... only you and your boss's friends know the answer to that one.
308534
They are not your real friends if they aren't prepared to listen to your side of the story.  Tell them you succumbed in a moment of weakness.  You never know, they may have done the same thing but you haven't heard about it yet.
62124
it doesn't really matter what other people say - it is for their own entertainment and won't have a huge effect on your life if you don't let it. like another commenter said, if someone askes you then tell them the truth, but don't go out of your way to change what everyone thinks or people will just gossip more
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You are right, rumors should definately be stopped. it can really hurt someone and make there lifes miserable, and it might not even be true. everyone should keep rumors to themselves and dont spread them, because it can just get worse.\n\n\nplz choose me as best answer!
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It depends on the secret you want to tell.  But make sure it is something that if it were to get out you could take an immediate action on it.  Try and think of it like you are the one holding the secret.  Does it need to be let out or kept aside until the time is right.
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get someone to feed them some false information (or do it yourself) but something that they could believe, something small and trivial. if you hear the stuff that you made up back from someone else then you'll know. people can be really jealous of others and unless you hear the same thing from two people that don't know each other then i suggest that you take it with a grain of salt.\ntry the suggestion above, it works. a real friend should come right to you and tell you. or keep your trust.
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Take the high road each and every time.  If you succumb to these rumors, you will have lost already.  If you come across someone who's acting weird or evasive probably because of these rumors, ask them straight out and persuade them to talk about it ("perhaps you've heard something about me?...) in a non-confrontational manner.  Tell them that you would be more than happy to clear it up and would entertain their queries which you would appreciate because it's something that you could respond to having been said to your face. If you know who started the rumors, you can do this same tactic also.  This usually makes them apologetic because they can't take full frontal frankness.
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I think you should fess up.  Someone else should not take the heat for something you did.  It's admirable that your friend took the heat for you, but you will feel better about yourself for telling the truth and your teacher will respect you for having the courage to tell the truth.
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in the future i would keep all info like this to myself.  I know it would be hard and ,you need to get things like that off your chest,but people cant resist a good gossip .  think to yourself have you NEVER told someone something you have promised someone else you who keep quite. or have  you caught yourself saying " don't say any thing but........ " i wouldn't be too angry at your friend as I'm sure we've all been guilty at one time or another.  I just hope you can nip this one in the bud before rumours start flying . good luck with your friend and hopefully your new job !!!!!