i have it was the time i became friends with thmeanest girl EVER!no joke i hate her now i wish i would have never hung out with her oh well i have better friends now!:)
201042
No point in regretting anything unless you have a time machine
186345
its not that she hates you. from my point of view, i dunno if you two were friends, but she does not like you back. that's it simple as that. or something is holding her back from liking you. probably bad timing. i know how it feels when you dont get that back in return. but guaranteed, there are too many ppl out there for any of us. go swimming and find them. or u could wait around for her, but that's only hurting urself.
82709
Ummm.  If you hate her, then is she really your best friend?  Seems contradictory to me.  \n\nWhy don't you just hang out with people you actually enjoy spending time with? \n\nGood luck.
353038
it happened to me. I never talked to my former friend who told me his feelings. This happens most of the times. I think the problem is the girl starts to feel uncomfortable with you. Of course she knows that you treat her more than a friend. I think you should try to treat her like the way you treat your friends, if you want your friendship. If you want her love, then court her. Never let your fears block your way. Besides, also give her time ti think and a little more space.. Good luck!
21493
good boy - you did the right thing. Find an available girl and your conscience will thank you for it. If your friend is a true one, she will stop avoiding you once she gets over her embarassment.
217122
My daughter went through this not very long ago.  It hurt her very much.  Why are girls so evil at this age.  The girl continued to call and my daughter has finally realized that she just enjoys drama.  She finally told her so- called best friend not to call and she no longer wants to have her friendship.  Since, this girl has gossiped and tried to have others ignore my daughter.  Didn't work since they have all realize that she is a phony..
398574
Yes you should hold the friendship you had with her really dear.One of dis days you'll be glad you did but dat doesnt mean you can't make other friends.I guess it was a wonderful feeling but am sure if she has any means to communicate with you,she definitely will.Cheer up.
194753
This stuff happens all of the time.  What you should do is plan things with other friends.  I know you guys are "best" friends, but hopefully you have some other friends.  I'm in a similar situation, but what I do is be as nice as I can be to that other girl and if she's not nice to me, then there's really no excuse and you can hate her justifiably.  Try to keep dates with Blaire that are only the two of you and just say that Krysta isn't very nice to you and you don't understand why because you've been trying to be her friend.  If you're in high school or younger, then it's a really hard situation and I'm sorry, I know it hurts.  You'll be ok though.
129439
i don't know what anybody did but she just started making up crap about me and i felt so crushed cuz she was my closest frient and she was making up things about me right in front of my face i deny but she goes on ifelt so horrible i didn't know what to do but i decided to talk to her a bit and then ignore the whole situations and now things are better but i still cant stand going to the friend that she made up crap about me in front of my face ;(
440627
THIS PERSON MUST NO TAHVE BEEN YOUR BEST FRIEND B/C IF THEY WERE , THEY WOULD NOT HAVE DUMPED YOU FOR SOME OTHER FRIEND !!
492011
i just went through the same exact thing it was heart breaking! i simply told my other friend that i didn't get along with her other friend and i would NEVER ask her to choose, but i would like it if we could spend our own time together. now she seperates the weekends and spends like ever-other one with me. and because i was so laid back about it and her other friend was kind of rude she is starting to see how it really is. she is spending more and more time with me and complaining about the other girl but i try and not complain with her that way she thinks i am just a listener\nall the while i am dancing inside lol
155554
I'm a girl but I have listened to my friends over my heart and I regret it. Do whatever you feel is right. Good Luck!
153291
THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME!!! all i did was just ignore her and not talk to her for days. but one day she herself said "hi" to me and i was shocked cuz she was talking to ME. so i said hi and now we r frends. not talkin made her feel really bad and she started talkin to me! peace and good luck!!!!!!
216009
It's a tough one.  But, from a female perspective...don't change your attitude towards her.  Most guys would start acting like a jerk towards her because they're hurt and can't handle the uncomfortable situation that they are now in as her friend.  I think you should just blow it off, don't make a big deal about it.  Act like she was the girl of yesterday, and a friend of today.  She could have been telling the truth or just making up an excuse because she's just not interested or ready for a relationship at the time.  If you show her that our friendship comes first she just may "see the light" and come around.  Or maybe not, and if so, don't sweat it so much-at least you'll still have the friendship, and hope for something more as long as you want a chance.
145439
Oh hell yeah!\n\nI was being hated by my friends because I was not popular. My father was a teacher in that school as well, so they all went to see my dad and told him thing I did. They exaggerated those facts so my dad actually scolded the hell out of me. I could never forget those girls who pretended to be my friends but they went to harm me behind my back!! Sorry if I gotten abit personal.
326594
I've had a bad experience with dating a girl that I'd been friends with. It was pretty awkward, both of us knew eachother and what we like with the exception of relationship needs. I was so used to us just being friends that I made minimal moves. Unfortunately, she believed in the man making all the moves. She eventually got bored and went after someonme else.
585628
I learnt that no matter what u do in life or what u do for others u will always have haters.you will always have fake and foony friends. I also learnt that your family is the most perciuos gift you will have in life. And when my sister dead when i was the age of 9, that things happen for a reason.