NLP is nuero-linguistic-programming. You use certain words, phrases, images and body gestures to manipulate peoples minds. It is used to get the desired effect out of people. Men use it to pick up woman, advertising agency use it to sell their product, politics and government use it to pull the curtain over our eyes. Ill compare it to a computer image. All of the CODED WORDS that they use to make the image you see on a computer screen are the sneeky tools/codes, like words and phrases, the seducer uses. The pretty IMAGE designed to give a receptive, fun, enjoyable and desired time is what you see when the tools/codes are used successfully. Look at the screen and all of the images in front of you. Right click on the screen and click View Source, this is what you would see without the tools/codes needed to cover up what is really there. Would you still be with this site if you always had to see the code. An amatuer using this would be like going back and forth, a pro would look this.
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Well, I guess everyone today has been a victim of it. Neuro Linguistic Programing is a very effective tool used by Intelligence agencies, Ad agencies, the media, the governments etc. It has been in use since very very long time but the name NLP has been given only a few years back. I would say it is good thing if used appropriately to disseminate knowledge, information and rules to lead a good life in oredr to make this world a better place for all.
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Today there is soo much clutter, and its getting harder and harder to break through it (as an advertiser). Basically you need to target your advertistement so it stands out to the people who you want to be your audience - i.e. grab their attention.\n\nNotice how posters of good looking scantily clad women attracts male attention ;)
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A language game (also called secret language or ludling) is a system of manipulating spoken words to render them incomprehensible to the untrained ear. Language games are used primarily by groups attempting to conceal their conversations from others. Some common examples are Pig Latin, which is used all over the globe, the Gibberish family, prevalent in the United States and Sweden, and Verlan, spoken in France.\n\nEach of these language games involves a usually simple standard transformation to speech, thus encoding it. The languages can be easily mentally encoded and decoded by a skilled speaker at the rate of normal speech, while those who either don't know the key or aren't practiced in rapid speech are left hearing nothing but gibberish.\n\nA common difficulty with language games is that they are usually passed down orally. While written translations can be made, they are often imperfect, and thus spelling can vary widely. Some factions argue that words in these spoken tongues should simply be written the way they are pronounced, while others insist that the purity of language demands that the transformation remain visible when the words are imparted to paper. Contrary to what proponents of either side may tell you, there is no one definitive written lexicon for language games, but it is rather a matter of dialect.
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Notice how people with nudie pics posted seem to be loved by everyone? It as if they are making perfect sense in the things they say, when in reality.. people only go there to see the fleshy pics! I think it stupid.. its there for pervs & lonely individuals with identity issues!
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i have thought about this in the past, example when i am wireing a boiler in (for my job) i realised i was setting out the job and coming to a conclusion of how to do it, it was easy to work out in my head and i realised i had worked it out far faster than i could explain it in words. when i think of how this is done the closet i can get too is that we think in some form of brain language,far faster than images you can consiously think of, but images is the nearest word i can think of to explain it.  i think as a hearing person you naturally conbine the "brain language" and spoken language maybe losing the ability to ever understand it. I would love to know if there was any answers, or investigations to this question.
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There is a difference between "why did you choose to have a lot of sex partners?" and "why did you decide to be a slut?" \n\nSo I would say wording has a lot to do with it.
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Ms. Fruitbat does know what you're talking about. There are definitely differences in how males and females communicate, and we women also often think men are nuts because we don't understand their style either. They often seem to me  like there's a whole bunch of nonverbal things going on in the room that show who likes and doesn't like who and all kinds of subtle complex stuff  going on at the same time and it's all going straight over their heads, like if every obvious little thing isn't pointed out to them they just don't have a clue.  \n\nI've heard it all goes back to when men were hunters and communication had to be minimal, direct and simple, (and I assume each males rank had a lot to do with who got to be listened to the most), while females gathered, spread out over a large area without much need for rank, and watching kids too, so they kept up a constant chatter, and as long as they heard everybody carrying on with low key chatter, they could keep track of where everybody was and know that everybody was safe, and what was actually being said wasn't the most important part. Women do say an average of 3 times more words per day than men do.\n\nSo for example even though it seems crystal clear to you, whatever women you're talking about may not realize men mean that harm will come if they don't shut up; they may think that as long as they keep talking, they're keeping negotiations going on that will prevent the next level of force. Also in women-speak, it's considered somewhat rude to bluntly state an opposing opinion, so the way women  participate is to make a neutral comment, or one where their point seems clear to them but is done so subtly that the guys don't even know they're trying to make a point. It is all very interesting, from a distance that is. But close up it's maddening. Ms. Fruitbat wishes you luck.
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I'm a little concerned that anyone who types like that has made it to an Advanced Communication Skills course...\n\nIn addition, I'm sure you realize that most professors want you to use actual studies where the information has been confirmed in your papers.  You can't confirm that information gathered from an online post-board holds any real validity.  Try using JSTOR for journal articles about prostitution.
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very simple approach to words is to see them as labelling things in the world. This works well for some words. Concrete nouns like cat, sheep, or frog are used to refer to certain animals that can readily be described or pointed to. \nHowever, there are many nouns for which this approach will not work. We cannot point to abstractions like feelings, employment, or pleasure, even though we understand the meaning of these concepts. Other word classes also present problems with this simple approach: we cannot point to referents for words like when or until. \n\nIt is useful to make a distinction between this kind of "naming" meaning, which is called denotation, and another kind of meaning, which is called connotation. Connotation refers to the associations that words can have in our minds. \n\nThe denotation of the noun pig is a non-ruminant omnivorous ungulate. \n\nFor some people, the word pig might have connotations of dirty and smelly; others will think of inquisitive or cheeky. \n\nOften we have a choice of words that can express our point of view. One person's din might be another person's music. Some might see terrorists where others see freedom fighters. One person's stunning architectural statement might be another's hideous blot on the landscape. \n\nThe American linguist S. J. Hayakawa invented the terms purr words and snarl words to describe words with different associations in people's minds.\nthinking day-dreaming \ndancing jiggling about \nsmiling smirking \nweeping snivelling \nwriting scribbling \n\nSome words bring very different connotations to mind among different groups of people.\nfeminist\nrugby\nsocialist\ncasino\n\nThose whose profession it is to persuade us, such as advertisers, politicians, preachers, and orators, need to be sensitive to the connotations of the words they use. One way of testing the connotative meaning of words is to ask speakers to rank them on a scale of different qualities. \n\n     good----------bad\n     sincere--------insincere\n     happy---------unhappy\n     light-----------dark\n     beautiful-------ugly\n     strong---------weak\n     valuable-------worthless\n     smooth--------rough\n\nIt might seem a little strange, but people seem to be quite good at saying whether words like natural or fresh or smelly or fragrant are smooth or rough, light or dark, valuable or worthless. \n\nThe connotations of words are culturally determined.\nIn English, the word "red" can have negative connotations of "blood" or "communism". In Russian, krasnyj, the word for "red", has very good connotations. The Russian word for "beautiful" is prekrasnyj, which contains within it the word for "red". \nWithin contemporary society, connotation branches into a culmination of different meanings. These could include the contrast of a word or phrase with its primary, literal meaning (known as a denotation), with what that word or phrase specifically denotes. The connotation essentially relates to how anything may be associated with a word or phrase, for example, an implied value judgement or feelings.\n\nA stubborn person may be described as being either strong-willed or pig-headed. Although these have the same literal meaning (i.e. stubborn), strong-willed connotes admiration for someone's convictions, while pig-headed connotes frustration in dealing with someone. Likewise, used car and previously owned car have the same literal meaning, but many dealerships prefer the latter, since it is thought to have fewer negative connotations. \nIt is often useful to avoid words with strong connotations (especially disparaging ones) when striving to achieve a neutral point of view. A desire for more positive connotations, or fewer negative ones, is one of the main reasons for using euphemisms.\n\nIn logic and in some branches of semantics, connotation is more or less synonymous with intension. Connotation is often contrasted
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This is actually a really great question.\n\nBody language can tell so much about a person.  Whether they are confident, afraid, sad, angry...\n\nIf you want to attract people to you--whether at an interview or another social situation, it is important to present an "openness" about yourself.\n\nWhen you see someone who has long hair and it hides their face, what do you think?  Scared--Low self-esteem?\n\nWhen you see someone who has their arms crossed across their bodies (except for when it's cold out) what you think?  Standoffish? Angry?\n\nThe best way to know what is going on inside someone is by their posture.  \n\nIn an interview--sit on the edge of your chair with your face turned toward your interviewer.  You may cross your legs at your ankles if you are female or hold them ankle to ankle (in a sexually neutral position).  Never spread your legs or hold your hands in your crotch.\n\nDo not cross your arms as this gives a defensive pose and makes you physically and psychologically unapproachable.\n\nLean into the person you're talking to.  Don't lean back with your arm thrown over the back of your chair--this could mean over confidence or cockiness.\n\nAt a party, don't stand against the wall.  If you are nervous, attach yourself to someone who you know and tell them you are nervous and ask them to introduce you to one person.  You immediately know one person and thereby know one more.\n\nGood luck!
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Oh, man, that crap drives me up the wall.  I have no idea what the name of the language is, though, i just know that we call the people who use it all the time n00bs.  But that in and of itself is somewhat netspeak-y, so, eh.  What are you gonna do?
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Excellent point, buddy.  It is often subtle and subliminal (word stucture and sentences).  Good job bringing this to the forefront.
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There are many different AI techniques. Most AI bots simply have massive databases of common phrases and their responses. In essense, they use human evaluation functions that are created with lots of time and care.\n\nOther bots use a language tree, and simply respond with random choices along that tree - or a combination of random and evaluation functions.\n\nYou'd be surprised how simple their basic design is. A language is so complicated that it is nearly impossible to create a good 'fake' speaker without constant human input and tweaking, along with a massive database of some sort to fuel the bot's brain.
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The computer is what each user CHOOSES it to be.  If you think or choose for it to be just porn, games and chat-rooms, that's exactly what it will be.  If it's a resource for information, a tool to express your imagination, or a means of communication to the outside world....well, that's your prerogative,too.
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just words? Word is supposed to be the method to express feelings? I am not too sensitive. But don u use words for your romantic communication? Y some lady addicted to magazine? it's just words and picture?
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I think the mind can capture more than our conscious thoughts can understand, like body language, symbolism, discrete metaphors.  It disturbs me that commercial media manipulates the "dumb consumer", and yes I believe that it's an industry standard to manipulate our subconscious into thinking they need to buy products to feel well, look good, and be healthy. It's sad.  An easy way to avoid the trap is to turn off the tv, and try to limit your exposure to unsolicited advertisements.
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I actually have heard of such programs. However I think it was a word program for word perfect. Someone told me when they told it to type something, it typed things all funky, because it didn't understand what she was saying. \nI am sure there is something of this nature for those people are not able to type. Keep looking, I am sure you will find it!