... otherwise we would marry our best guy friend who is a blast, funny, and likes to do lots of guy stuff.\n\nDo you girls have any comments on that?  (Given this, it is really no surprise that we check out your bodies all of the time?)\n\nDo you girls marry for money, security, sex or ?????
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Not just for sex. Why would you commit to one person for the rest of your life and deny yourself all of the other women you could have if that is all there is!
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I met a girl on line.  Now she's my wife and we have a son.  But before this happened I visited her in her county for a number of weeks over some months.  It was only after this time that I felt happy enough to ask her to marry me.\n\nSo I suggest if you can go visit her.  Also is this your first real love?
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I have always gotten along better with guys than with girls. Girls and I just do not seem to mix well; I guess it is the cattiness issue. lol\n\nMy fiance recently got annoyed with me, more than annoyed actually, because I go eat dinner with my friends from law school (most are guys). He told me that it does not look right for a woman to be doing that, especially an engaged woman of 28. So, I have limited my outings with my friends because it is something that I do not want to become a problem again.\n\nMy answer then, is, that it depends on what type of relationship you are in. Make sense? :o) The more serious and long term the relationship is, the more you will "have to" be conscious of who is around you.
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The stupidest? Hmmm, let's see. Oh, I know! "Will You marry me?" I keep saying it and still I never learn. Ah what the heck, my Sweetie will be different than those other girls. I just know She is the One!!!
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yes, I would be anyway.\n\nworst case, its very very flattering. Might only happen every decade or so for some guys, if that. \n\nif he and you want each other then maybe more, find out I think.\n\nHappily married or not? It matters I think.
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yes i would.  but think of this.. my best friend and i have been bf since the early 80's when we were in elementary adn we told each other back then we would be each others bridesmaids... but here is what happened. they are still  your bf but sometimes they get new people in their life, but still have you as a bf but felt like they wanted someone else in their wedding party.. so, when my bf got married 3 years ago, she used someone she went to college with ad then i just got married and i used my lil cousin.. ;P  so dont be offended, just be happy that she chose you.. :D  either way you want to wish her a very happy marriage to her and her fiance. :)
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For me I want companionship and a best friend.  I can't imagine a marriage where the relationship isn't like that.  I want to be the first one he goes to dilemmas, advice, opinions.  I want him to want to share most aspects of his life with me.  And yet balanced with the fact that all marriages need some space (me time, my time with just my girlfriends, and vice versa).  It's hard to explain, but I don't want to be the person he just goes home to everyday, and raises his kids.  I want to be his equal, and not to be forgotten when he leaves home.  Does that make any sense?
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I'm a girl. I have a few wonderful guy friends. I wouldn't know what to do without them in my life. They are my support system. They are much more sincere than some girls I know.
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I PRAYED for a girl. I had a girl, I had another girl and couldn't be happier. I knew I would have nothing in common with a boy child and as I am right, I am now divorced and would be seriously screwed if I had sons. I LOVE my girls. GIRLS RULE!! We do hair, nails, shop, cook, all the wonderful things there are about being a woman.
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WOW! If you're doing it for the right reasons it is! And both of you are in agreement and God has revealed to you both that you're meant for each other, and are going to get married. I'd say most girls wouldn't find it attractive. But I do. In fact I'm doing the same thing. I'm waiting for marriage, and I think its great! Go you! What self-control!\nKeep at it hun, you gonna make your bride feel like a queen on her wedding day knowing you waited all your life for her!!
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It feels pretty...AWESOME! I mean for example: if a guy cheats on you or something, you have every reason to go up to him, smile sweet like so his gaurd's down and give it to him like it's a soccer ball. I mean, I wouldn't go up to just any guy and do that. Their "package" is just a bunch of nerves, but I would only do it to someone who deserves it...
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Absolutely!! What girl doesn't dream of getting married and starting a family!! I think for the most part, most girls want that at one point or another! Sometimes, it happens early for some than it does earlier!! And going to a wedding and seeing the new couple together can make anyone excited for that type of committment! But it sounds like you have your head on your shoulders and know you don't want it yet, but yes, you are normal!! We all want the fairytale!! :-)
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Seems that there are a lot of diplomatic answers here, and that TwirlGirl's husband is the best diplomat of them all. Sure, men will not take a stance on this 'cus some boobbie is better than no boobbie.\n\nMy opinion is, as long as there is love, appearances don't matter.\n\nYeah, like I'm gonna be the one to blow off my chances.
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If you are asking concerning friends of the same sex, I really don't see a problem with that based on all the aspect you mentioned, but if it is with the opposite sex I don't think its advisable concerning the physical aspect, in the sense that you are both good friends why jeopardize your friendship? Because its only if ink runs in your veins, you have lost your sense of sight and you are dead to all physical contact that nothing will happen between the two of you.\n\nAside from this if you both go that deep and you don't end up getting married to each other, you would loose respect for one another.\n\nIn the emotional aspect, ladies have been endowed with the capability of reaching men better. They are like mothers to us. They are ready to comfort you and listen to you, they share your burden with you some go to the extent of carrying the whole thing as if it was theirs.\nAnyway this is not the case with emotional ladies seeking a guy to comfort them this often ends up in something else.\n\nThe mental aspect I think both sex are OK and can handle the situation depending on the type of response and reasoning you want.
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We do fart. Wait, one day you'll get married. Then it starts!! lol
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I'd be the first one. I, like any guy, have hormones. Male hormones, to be specific. Testosterone does some really messed up stuff to your head. So I'm not going to lie, the second option sounds more FUN. But fun is only part of life. And no matter what anyone says, fun does NOT equal happiness. Happiness, for me, is finding a girl who I connect with, who I can enjoy simply spending time with. It's having a woman who can be my best friend, my wife, my confidant, my lover, and the woman I get wild and crazy with however we decide to. It's all things. And none of those things are ever surface deep. You can never find those happinesses with just any woman, no matter how attractive. As for honor, courage, humility, sensitivity, for me at least, these are things I tend to embrace naturally. Some people say I'm an old soul. I believe in honor and courage and treating others like a decent human being, and these are the things I try to adhere to in all that I do. So, to make a long rant short, I'm definitely the first option.
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Why can't you allow your boyfriend to have female friends?  Why are you so insecure?  I have female friends and I have been happily married for several years.  I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone so insecure that they would force me to choose my friends based solely on if they have a penis or not.  What's up with you?  Do you sleep with every guy you know?  If not, cut some slack.  On the other hand if you can't trust your boyfriend based on his behavior that is a different story.  Remember you don't have to trust everyone who enters his life, you just have to trust him.  Now here is a heads up for how guys think.  If my wife is even slightly jealous of a female, I love it.  It's just another way for her to say "I love you".  Of course she trusts me and I have never given her reason not to.  Stop nagging and start bragging.  Tell me I'm a saint and a king and I might believe you and act like one.  Tell me I'm a dog and a snake, and who knows?