If your boyfriend shows up at your place with hickies on his neck and chest and then tells you he passed out from drinking and his buddies did it using a vacuum cleaner would you believe him?
214618
get rid of him, he might have been drunk but i bet there were no vaccums
441786
I'd probably just laugh and ask him if he'd like to wear them for me.  Since he's drunk, I'd probably get some really good pics too. lol
586911
One like this:  'Do you shower in the nude?'  I thought that was dumb because obviously we all do that!! Does he expect us to put on as many clothes as possible and shower with them all on! Come on!!! (i hope the guy doesn't read this!!) It actually made me laugh in a way so that's why i answered it!
647059
I'm not sure why he'd freak out.  Some people are just way more prude than me.  I'm thinking that as long as the kids (if you have any) can't hear it or know what you're doing, why not?  I'd just like to see your friends' pay stubs first to make sure it's not too good to be true.  Sleazy?  I don't actually know that I'd advertise it if that's what I did - but mainly because of the prudes out there, not because I think there's anything wrong with it.\nI have to concur and add that I wouldn't do it secretely either.  But I would ask him to explain and justify exactly why he is so opposed to it.  Then you two can examine if it's feelings or facts he's upset about.
314310
Sounds like your friend is a skank.
281727
He's lying. The way they test him for it is the same way they tested you. So therefore if they didn't stick the     Q-tip up his penis then he didn't get tested for it.\n\nWhy don't u ask the doc to treat him for it anyway. That's what they did with my hubby. They just treated him anyway without the swab test.  \n\nIf he was sleeping with you he most likely contracted it.  Don't give him any until you have proof!!!!!
559352
Yes, trust me it's not funny it's very serious if you have i suggest you report it to the police or seek help. if you don't it might affect you in future relationships.
311116
At some point you're going to have to face what you did, I mean were there other people who saw who could tell your man, or do you think this person you kissed will take it personally. I understand what happened, we all have done some stupid stuff drunk. I would talk to the guy you kissed, no matter how uncomfortable it maybe, the last thing you need is this guy thinking it meant something and harassing you, you need to draw the line and say it was a mistake (who knows maybe he thinks it was a mistake too). As for your man, it's up to you whether you tell him, although IF there is even the SLIGHTEST possibility he will find out from other means then YOU need to be the one to tell him if you hope to stay with him, he will think more of your honesty if you come out with it than he will your dishonesty if he finds out through someone else. ALTHOUGH IF there is NO possibility he will find out I would say keep it to yourself, there's no need to drag your guilt out and punish him, believe me I know my boyfriend told me about some girl he had sex with then afterward he said, I feel SO much better for getting that off my chest, yeah well then I felt horrible and I wasn't the one who had done anything wrong!
171533
is there any reason to tell him other than to just get it off of your chest? if there is no way he is ever going to find out about it, then dont tell him. Even if it happened a long time ago, he could still feel betrayed. like i said. he has all the right to be pissed if you told him already. but if you guys are good friends you will be able to forget about it over a couple cases of beer.
433202
I'd take it to the local police station, tell them that theirs this old janitor man lurking around in the halls, and that i've been getting wierd notes ever since he started doing that...\nthey'd have that note analyzed!! and they'd tell me who it really was and how wrong i was in thinking it was the janitor guy..
308071
because he probaly roofied your drink
94191
HaHa, my brother came home from the bar and caught his roomate @ like 2 something in the morning looking at porn on the net with a bottle of lotion. \n\nI was over the next day and they told me to ask him something about did he get some last night. They didn't tell me why and when I asked him he said F you guys. Then they told me what had happened.
631205
If he did that and you were barely out of his sight, that guy is a creep and a loser.\nBest you lose him fast, and find a guy, who would have at least taken you home and waited to see if you needed help.Then gone home himself.\nI'd trust your friend more than that boyfriend of yours. He stayed there, didn't he, knowing you were needed at home. Shows off his character.
452751
yes, brain damage.\n\nthis guy's an old alcoholic... i'm amazed he can put sentences together at all any more.\n\ni still think he drinks the way he looks and talks......\n\nand how unaware he is of his surroundings.. come on.. open mic all the time?   give it up bush stop it!
371848
ok what i would like to know  is your boyfriend going to dump you after you told everyone on the internet that he has a teeny weeny. not to smart your but might be booted
580008
YES!!! I know a couple myself. Guys who do this are called "Down Low" guys. I would strongly urge you to warn your friends about  how rampant Aids and HiV are in this community. You guys may never know the full truth... but tell your friend to protect her heart and let him GO.
563966
i would be mad at first but get over it quikly...he has a life too and i wouldnt want  him to hate me just because i wont let him hang out with a bunch of friends while im sick....of course the girls there would get me nervous but if he was really a true bf then he wouldnt do anything with them.....but he SHOULD see u ALOT while u are sick and if he hasnt before the party then yes i would be pissed