It really sucks, but I'm kind of just used to it by now. Does that sound strange? That I won't settle?
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being single isn`t all that bad.When in doubt, hold up your right hand and renew your vows; TO MY WIFE FOR LIFE!   My hand never bitches,bleeds,has a headache,gets knocked up, or cheats on me. THIS IS GOOD
219786
At one point or another, now matter what relationship you are in...it will suck, every now and again!! Good Luck-this to shall pass!! :)
657902
No, it's not normal.  Haven't enough people answered questions about this relationship for you to get out of it yet?
192519
my boyfriend tried to do it once, and i felt like i'm going to poo or something. yet there's this good feeling but i still don't like it that much.. really makes me feel sooooo uncomfortable
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becoz if we showed to you and told you that it`s hard then you will think that is too harder than you think right now so people tell you that its ok you will get over it oon and you will 4 get....it`s true but it needs time .... we will be hurt coz it`s normal to be like that but you will not feel hurt to the rest of your life ...so try to forget and think about so thing els ...do things make you 4 get...that`s what I can tell you ...so Good luck with it....
193842
no not at all, its an uncomfortable experience
64121
i have been there done that!  it doesn't work for long!  But hell, take it for as long as you can.  Just like everyone else said...eventually feelings get in the way!
328637
Yes, it's a big change, but don't worry, everyone feels the exact same way.  Give yourself a few weeks to settle in and you'll do fine.
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I am a few years out of a long marriage and have no desire to jump right back in...at first I was but the longer I am single the more comfortable being single I am becoming....and establishing finances, housing..activities doesn't allow me to consider settling down...its crazy enough doing the dating thing.
341507
I have a nervous giggle.Some men have told me that they find it charming.I dislike it though:(
158121
i do have this experience...it is not a good one... the only thing i  know to tell you is that you should try to talk to him about how you really feel. it worked for me...
380596
I'm going through the same thing. And I know someone who went through it and is happily married now. So that makes me optimistic. I guess what I'm saying is NEVER SETTLE... Don't u want to b happy.
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yes it makes me feel very weird because i'm not sure if i'm actually saying it right.
492049
I know it's very frustrating, but not all do this.\n\nBlessed Be
571321
no, my road to being independent had a slow start, too. i just chalked it up to experiance, a good learning lesson. keep plugging at it and good luck!!!
561545
It defo feels wierd.  I dont like using them, but its better being safe than sorry!
334661
depends on how long you've been in your new area. if it hasnt been that long i suggest seeing if things pan out. but if you stay for a long time and find that you're miserable and still cant call the place "home" then i'd get out.