i ofter feel that i am taking school or education tooo serious. like i'm missing out in life. i know it is very important and it will one day pay off, but i feel like a teen who really  doesnt have a life
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If school and education is important to what you hope to do in the future, you should take these very seriously. That said, it is important that your life have balance. When you are applying to colleges, they want to see that you have activities and passions outside of the classroom. Whether it's sports or clubs or volunteer work, you should spend at least five hours a week doing something constructive that isn't school work. And you should have down time as well -- time to hang with friends or family and have fun. You do need to have a life, but it doesn't mean you have to give up on your long term goals. Work hard but schedule some time in your life for stuff other than school work.
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I'm glad to hear that you're enjoying your life, even thought it may be challenging to do some of the things you're doing!\nMost of the time it is really hard to face life's challenges up ahead since we don't really know what to do, or how it will turn out... i normally cower from them and try to avoid making any changes in my life, but eventually they must happen..  However, there are many "great teachers" in present day life, who can help us through any challenges or problems we have.
44008
first of all, it's ok. it's normal. some people would say you're going through a quarter-life crisis. school, up to this point, is all you've known. teachers guiding your schedule, classmates keeping you company, a bubble (campus) that is safe and warm.\n\nnow, you've exited the womb that is school. you're crying as the world slaps you on the back. HE'S BREATHING!! the world is excited. you can take a few days in the incubator, or you can move on with your life. \n\nthe job fair sounds hopeful--not because it promises a career, but because it's something that's getting you out of the house, defining your goals, and pushing you toward the next phase of your life.\n\nhow did i recover from depression?\n-fought every negative thought, no matter how much it hurt my pride\n-filled my schedule with activites (church, the gym, music lessons, lunch, coffee, theater, etc.)\n-called a friend\n-turned off the tv\n-took a walk\n-before bed, write down a list of things you want to accomplish the next day. this gives you a reason to wake up and get going (like school!)\n-pick out your outfit for the next day. choose something that makes you feel smart/sexy/confident\n-set your alarm for the next day!\n\nrock the job fair! and if you can't wait that long, print up an application and head out. start talking to people. jobs are more likely to turn up if you're networking, than hiding away.\n\nnote: a job can be a way of continuing the "womb." be aware of this, and focus on this concept in therapy. you have to be confident and loving life no matter what you're doing. because some day, you'll retire, and then it will be much harder to get accustomed to life outside the womb.\n\ngood luck! you can do it!
116684
I am out of school long time ago. Glad to know that you are doing good in school. Doesn't it feel good? You are working hard -- that's why. Keep it up.
677269
I think it's perfectly normal.  When change occurs it can be really scary even if it is good change.  People go through a grief process at these stages of life.  I think if you try not to let yourself become overwhelmed with thoughts of the future and you allow yourself a little time to adjust, you will be just fine.    Try to focus on the positives and let yourself get excited about all of the possibilities in front of you.  There is so much more than either going to college or getting an entry level job.  People these days are starting businesses and doing really incredible things right out of high school.  Be open to your options and seek good advice when you need it!  Best of luck to you and I hope you do great things that make you happy!
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I like it endeed, but not always. I mean there are some people there that make me feel great, but some not. Plus as my senior year approaches I feel quite anxious about my exams. But all in all it's OK.
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sometimes i feel that way too...but keep pushing..keep fighting your way up that hill and take the handcart with you ..it holds everything that is your life and makes you who you are..things will get better...just don't give up..if you need someone to talk to you can e-mail me and i will get back to you as soon as i can...i don't know you but i care about you and what happens ...good luck ...be blessed
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You're a teenager and these feelings are normal.  I've found that being yourself and letting go of trying to be perfect can help.  Then you start to see the things that really matter to you, and you find friends that genuinely make you happy.  But the first step is going to see someone about it, someone who you can talk to and vent.  Try a school councilor or therapist.
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I've felt that way before and I doubt if the answer is the same for everyone.  The first thing I do is take time to be thankful for all that I have.  For all those things that seem so mundane to me, but realize that there are millions of people out there that would kill to have a tenth of the life I have.  Then I take time to remember, that life is a long road and there are always going to be stretches that are as boring as driving across western Kansas but you have to push yourself through that to make it to those things in life that make it all worth while like driving into the mountains in Colorado.
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I think you need to redirect your energy on things which will someday have a profound effect on your life. I found your story very interesting, but what you need to work on is your education. I think that you should try thinking on a different level, instead of worrying about the trivial mundane affairs of other people. Your education is everything. If your spending all your time thinking about what boy your going to be with and not thinking about your life, then you are going to be in for a long ride. None of the people in your click will be around when your older. By then you will say "I wish I had studied more". The corner store don't pay enough for you to live. If you don't take the time to educate yourself and leave the small thinkers behind, then you are always going to be the same.
91994
know that everyone feels the same way that you do. We all have expectations of what others think of us. Realize that noone is perfect. It is nothighschool anymore, people have matured. Just have a good time, catch up with people.
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i'm in a slightly similar situation...so i know exactly how u feel.\ni just feel so alone most the time, even thought here are lots of people around who i know crae and stuff, but i still feel alone.\njust thought i'd say that to let you know ure not alone in feeling alone...
556541
Not right now but I SOOOO know how you feel. You need to pursue something you're interested in. That's what keeps me from being down, I just make sure I always have something to work towards.
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i'm a junior in highschool experiencing almost the samething. i need help to.
130164
I think your friend is just looking out for you.  How are you going to feel when they are heading off to college while your still behind in highschool, because you skipped so much.
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You could be depressed.  It's nothing to be embarrassed about.  If you cry alot, and don't get joy from things you liked before, it could be.  Why do you think she is wrong?  \n\nLife is too short to feel so sad.  It might help you to be open minded about depression.  You have a computer - get more information, help yourself as much as you can.\n\nYour school counselor is probably concerned about you.  You can talk to your parents if you feel comfortable with that.  If you don't go do a teacher, friends mom, or other adult you can trust.  \n\nI have been depressed in my life, and it is so easily treated.  I should never have suffered as long as I did.  There's counselling, and or medications that can help tremendously.  Please don't give up.  \n\nI always remember life is too short, and I don't want to feel so sad.  Please help yourself so you can be a happy and content person.\n\nGod Bless
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Well it depends, I am a teenager and I have  a positive outlook on life. But I have a lot of friends that are bored sad and depressed because they have really bad grades. But I know some really smart teens that I think will grow up to do something useful. I do have alot of stress though. when i am stressed out, I break out so I try to only worry about stuff like what am I going to wear and do i look good.