My Best Friend Left Me without any reason. When I tried to contact her she was not willing to talk even. Please Help me Get my best friend Back in my Life.
206027
There had to be a reason that your friend ditched you. Try talking to your friend and see whats up!
139560
That is such a painful experience she is undergoing right now ...I believe for you to be able to help her to get through with this is to be with her most of the time if not always in order for her to feel the caring of another human being which she needs badly as of the moment. She needs you to there when she would like somebody to talk to. With regards to the legals matters the police and the authorities will do their best to solve this problem. All you gotta do just remember is to stay as her bestfriend all this time. hope this helps yah.
279900
You should ask her whats bothering her and talk to her about it. Maybe shes depressed and she just needs someone to ask her "Whats wrong?". Listen to her and maybe there is something else going on there.\n\nIf I ever had a best friend who was acting differently than normal. I would worry and try to find out whats going on.
41034
If she is your best friend then she should understand. You know you can't make someone like you and you know you mustn't live your life according to someone else's ideas or wants. It is normal that she might hate you or feel jealous. Guess what it ain't your fault. SO TELL HIM!!!
505977
Brush you're self off and get back up... You don't need so called best friends who all of a sudden stop being you're friend there not worth you're time or you're friendship..so move on and find another friend who is worthy of a true friend like yourself...Keep smiling!!!!\n\n    Hey don't Listen to Zink she came in here and gave everyone thumbs down on helping you out about you're best friend now what kind of friend would she be? Not one i would want BACK STABBERS stay away from them!!!
252113
i was so unbelievably upset. i thought: how could they do this to me? i thought that they were my best friends. i talked to them and asked them why they did it. they gave a very stupid reason but i forgave them since i can't hold a grudge. a couple years later they backstabbed me again, they didn't even realize what they did wrong. those @ssholes!
91931
Take it slow... tell her that you really want her to listen to you and that you seriously want her to take the time to listen to what you have to say, if there have been many times when you've had a heart to heart and no results, tell her that it'd be best if you get everything out of the way so you can both make up your minds about whatever it is. Tell her you miss her, tell her being 'just a friend' isn't what you want but if it's all you're going to get then it's fine. If you don't think hat way then express how you really feel. Ask her why she wants to be your friend so badly all of a sudden. Maybe she really wants you back or she's trying to start all over again or she misses how you were as a friend. Let it all out, relieve her and yourself of your issues and you can go on from there.
636307
Your best friend doesn't have to care as long as she is a good listerner. That is the main thing. Alot of times you just need to talk. If she is atleast listening....then that is really what you needed aways. Does she help you when you really need it. Can you call her anytime to just talk? Can she call you anytime to just talk. Is it just one sided. Are you there for her every-time she needs something? Does she ever need you and you don't help? Good friends will help you kill someone...Best friends will help you bury them..LOL (only joking) Really ask yourself why you are asking this question,,. It may be because this friendship is one sided. Or  it may be because she has other friends that you are jealous of. I know that doesn't sound good. But, hey it happens..I had what I thought was a best friend. She would help me with anything. Then she moved on...I was hurt and jealous. .She is still a friend. but, I found out she could only have one real best friend at a time..She moves on about every 4 years. She has been through about 6 now. We hardly ever see each other now days.  (Almost Forgotten)
100662
Are you one? A liar. All friends have problems but friendship is based on trust and forgiveness if she doesnt trust you and is into name calling/ talking behind your back then who needs a friend like that. Tell her she not being a good friend and discuss whatever it is that made her call you that. If that doesnt work, ignore her and find a new best friend.
525735
If you really want your friend back give her name to GOD and pray for her a lot he listen especially when not asking for yourself and you'll see and don't give up on her yet hold on a later longer she'll come around and remember trust in GOD he'll give her back to you
423743
talk to her in person, whether or not it's awkward or emotionally filled. \n\nyou were best friends for a reason... moving in together sometimes strains those relationships, but it shouldn't be the end of the friendship. \n\nshe is worth it, so are you. so try to reach out to her this way. if her heart softens, great. if not, at least you tried and you should keep the invitation of friendship open for her to give her some time to mull on it. once you've done everything you could to make things right, you will be able to walk away knowing you did what you could.\n\ntell her you are sorry of what happened between you two, you care about her and love her, and in order for you two have any friendship to salvage- you both need to live separately. it'll take a while, and things may never be exactly the same (and you definitely don't have to have her as a BEST friend, especially if you have lost trust in her), but time WILL heal things. It will be awkward/difficult to do, but it has the best possible outcome. good luck and God bless
498920
I am sorry honey. This is tough for you to go through. But really there is nothing you can do physically anyway.\nAll you can do is pray and be supportive. \nChances are her mom will get her back and probably the best thing for them would be to move out of the state and start fresh no matter how hard that is on you.\nBut in todays day and age this doesnt have to be the end of your friendship. There is the internet and of course telephones and good old writing a letter. You can still keep in touch if you really want to. \nBe kind and supportive and understanding. A good listener. Hang in there it will work out!
166588
My best friend. She was someone who I developed a close bond with early in life, her sister and my brother dated that's how we met. We grew up together and had many wonderful and memorable times together. We were like night and day, have you ever seen the movie beaches that was one of our favorites. She was a very talented and a beautiful girl, she had a great family and she excelled in school. Her parents lived in a well known neighborhood and were active in the community. As she got older she started dating older guys which was gross to me because i had two older brothers and they forbid their friends to even look at me. Anyways my friend went down a dangerous slope. This went on from her high school years till sshe was 19. Towards the end she was recovering from a two week drug binge when she lefther boyfriend. She disappeared during those 2 weeks. She called me once while she was gone, but wouldn't tell me where she was. She returned from her 2 weeks very sick and in need of detoxifing and sleep mainly. She didn't call until after 2 days she had been at her parents. The house where we used to have slumber parties and watch movies, sing and play on the piano, I had my first kiss there. I went to see her she was in poor health, thin and very tired and weak. I remember sitting in the room with her just holding her hand and talking to her. It was so hard to see my friend going through this, I remember telling her that things may be bad and they may get worst but your at at your lowest and you can only go up and that we are all here for her. She recovered and was doing well and living back with her boyfriend. They were talking about getting married and she was going to go to college. A couple of weeks later I got a call from her,she was upset and crying. She said she wanted to leave because her boyfriend/fiance was angry at her. She asked what I was doing. I told her I had plans for a friends bday but she was welcome to go ahead and come over and i would be home later. When I came home that night, my mom was waiting up for me, she told me that my best friend had died, they said she killed herself, no investigation, case closed. That's probably more than you bargained for but it feels good to talk about it. I am not really the type of person who indulges on my feelings to my family, friends and my boyfriend about it.
55573
i would talk to her about the situation and see why she has changed.  you can't ignore it, especially if you guys were the bestest of friends.  i mean i would want to know if my friend didn't want to hang out with me anymore, i think i would deserve some sort of explanation.
310100
Can you call someone who is your best friend if she hurts you? You can forgive herr but it doesn't mean you need to keep contact with her until you miss her so much and she is worthy to give her one more chance. Everything is depeneded on you and your feeling about her. But I can tell you that nothing wrong if you don't contact at all. It's your freedom to choose who are your friends and who are not.
80594
look it is not you . so you need to get  your  friend  to talk to you and ask her why is she doing this OK but just be there 4 her or your friend that is what she need and want OK just be there she need you and try no to be mad ta her or she will not talk to you (i know one of my Friend did the same.) hey if you want some more 411 Emil me at (preppygurl0687@yahoo.com) OK go luck i know what is going on i was there to OK
468540
Talk to her about it. If she is going to do everything in her power to hurt you, you don't need her. Tell her she needs to act like a friend for you to be a friend. She is just using you to her advantage to get what she wants.. My best friend did that for awhile but i told her that if she kept using me like that......she will have to find a new bff. She straightened up fast cuz she realized that she'd lose me for good.