Its personal I jsut want to gain the trust of the person i hurt by accident.
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I think when the trust is broken,\nyou'd really need to give it time.\n\nYou cannot expect it to be alright after doing something as an apology, meaning, it might really be difficult to wipe away the hurt caused.\n\nIf it's something you did that hurt him/her,\nmaybe you have to use your actions to show him/her that that was just a mistake and it would never happen again.\n\nIt's going to take time,\nI don't think it'll be an immediate effect.\n\nSo if he/she's really so important to you,\nand you didn't mean to hurt her.\nYou have to be patient.\n\nBecuase it's not so easy.\nAll the best.
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Just come out and tell them.  Say you know you may have made a mistake by taking it further than it should have gone, but you are human and we all make mistakes.  And tell them you hope you can still remain friends
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dear broken hearted,you have to understand the difference between a lie and actually physical harm.i know what physical harm is.i loved someone and because of this i trusted him.but i really found out the hard way.i was almost killed due to an accident he caused because i was letting him go for his lies.so be thankful you only have a broken heart to deal with.i forgave him but i can never be with him again .my life is worth more than that.so you will heal in time and find someone who will treat you good and you can trust.i have .so anything is possible.take care and move on.
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It's different with everyone, people have varying levels of healing ability.  Just remember the old saying.."Once bitten twice shy".\nIf he is gunshy you're going to have to prove to him he can trust you...not an easy task.
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Maybe you should try believing in something tangible. Someone who actually will listen to you and help you with your problems.
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With time and some effort on your part - it is quite possible to trust another guy again
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You can't! You blew it! Time to move on. A woman will forgive, but she will never forget. Neither should you and next time you meet someone you really care about, consider not doing things that will make her not trust you.
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Why are you thinking so hard on this?  To you, and in your heart taz was your friend, that is all that matters.  He may or may not have been, what does it matter now except in your heart.  You said you trusted him, so trust or don't, don't beat yourself up over something that can only bring pain.
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Well i will tell you what i am in a similar situation and we are trying to rebuild the trust but if he is gonna do it again then there is nothing you can do to stop it so you should try not to worry too much and you just love that person as much as you can. I know it is easier said then done cause i am really haveing a hard time as well.
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some times you might have friends who told you man cannot be trusted but the reallt thing is you have try 1st before you jump to conclution.\n\naeeyo1314@yahoo.com
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Well done for realising you have a problem, that is the first step in the right direction, and so is asking for help too. I think you should see your doctor who can help you or reffer you to someone else who is trained in dealing with such conditions. You need to think positively, relax, and deep breathe when you think you may hurt someone. Walk away from any situation you fear may lead  you want to hurt someone. Remind your self it is not acceptable to hurt someone and that you are a nice person. Take more control in what you do by being a positive you. Has anything ever happened to you in the past to make you want to hurt someone else?? You need to ask yourself why do I want to hurt that person? Then realise what you are thinking and control it. I know it may sound easy, but it will not be. The more you do not give in the easier it will become over time, but you do need to see your doctor to get advice. Hope all will turn out well.
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look....if danny is ur true friend then he should understand that wot happened was a mistake and the fact that u let him beat u up was all u could do to say u were sorry.but u can go to lisa and ask her try explaining danny the whole thing..that it was a mistake,and wud never happen again..but lemme tell u 1 important stuff,dude..once u lose some1's trust,its not hard..but its impossible to get it back!!even if things cool down between both of u,hez not gonna trust u anymore,dude.im sorry to say this,but its a fact.happened even with me.hence it wud be better to slowly cast away from danny(as well as lisa).if thats not possible(e.g. if both of u r in a grp)..then try maintaining a VERY formal relation with the 2 of them.in course of time,he might realise your true worth.but therez nothing else to do than wait and watch.hope it works out for u,dude..coz i have been in similar situations and i know how awful it feels.best of luck!!
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u messed up!anyway u have to agree that u were on the wrong.and tell him how u feel,(truly feel) the truth matters now.and if u dont say what u feel u will regreat.so in other words just say the truth,what comes out from ur heart then let him take it the way he wants to take it.but u messed up and do u think if u were done for  the some thing u would want that person back to ur life.i dont think so coz the person will repect the same thing or in a different way.dont have ur hopes up.pray and let it be.
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because of my personal experience.
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Sounds like a parent, I could be wrong. Trust is something that is very hard to regain.If you still love love them let them know it. If its validation, or approval you want, no one can please you as much as yourself.If you know you are doing the right and are happy. That is all thet matters.If it is guilt, they should feel guilty.Don't always trust your feelings in these matters, Nobody likes to be hurt deeply twice. Especialy by the same person.
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Hey, I'm sorry about this incident, but everything happens for a reason, and maybe this is it: reappreciating everything that you are and all that you have, giving you a different perspective of life.  I don't think its too much of you to ask your friend to be with you. But all that depends on what level and to what extent. For example she may not be comfortable with intimacy, since you are supposed to be 'friends' for now, cause I think she may think that you'd be using the accident as an excuse to have your way or gain sympathy and all that. You need to state clearly your terms for needing her, and let her know what you need her for. And if you need her for keeps and all that, then maybe you could ask her that too, but not too soon after this accident.  Take your time and see if she'd still keep coming and things may kick off from there. Glad to know you're alive and well... dudes in my town haven't been so lucky with accidents this year...
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You have to be honest with yourself and trust yourself before others can trust you. Would you trust you if you were any of these people? Why? Whynot? Answer these questions to yourself. You could admit to these people that you do occasionally bend the truth, but as you said, not to intentionally hurt anyone. Let them know that deep down you are an honest, trustworthy person.