My ideal life… Is not impossible, nothing is. \nI'm a teenager, but I've still got time to think about love. That will happen on it's own, I guess. As for friends - I've got the best friends I can ever dream of! \n\nWith determination and hard work I shall achieve it. \nWanting a life without problems is very stupid to think. I want a job, with good pay that I deserve from the hard work I put in it. I will pay all debts, not that I have any. Make my parents proud of me. Be able to help my family, make them smile for long. I don't care about problems - I want the courage and strength to ease them... On the other hand, I just want to prove my individuality :)
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I want a life that is fulfilling and meaning-full to myself and others. I hope to achieve this by continuously working on the following four aspects of my person. \n1) Love - my actions in terms of building and maintaining commitment influence my relationship with people and things that I love.\n2) Faith - (non religious) these are the things I have no proof of but am convinced of. Conviction can be nurtured and feeds the soul. I am convinced of many things and choose to enhance the beautifull because it is to my own benefit. \n3) Trust - this is built on facts. By increasing and testing my knowledge I can enhance my trust in anything, but most importantly in my ability to judge and know.\n4) Hope - life will be hopeless without expectations, so by nurturing my expectations like little pants and making myself aware of exactly what it is that I seek out  of any situation, my hope is inflated.\nThese four together represent anything you will ever be challenged with. there is more to this model which I developed to cope with severely disabling illness, and I live a difficult but meaningful and fulfilling life. I am often tired of life, but happy to live it.\nbest of luck!\nDex
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I would like to get married. It would be my second marriage, but the first was such a strange one, I can barely remember it. (I didn't know that guy very well.) Here's my humble advice about marriage: Wait until it gets really "hot". And, along with that, don't marry someone because your parents think you should or because he has the right qualifications. Marry him because you can't live without him otherwise, because you simply "can't" imagine life without him. Good luck. I think it's a noble aspiration and a worthy goal in life.
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don't worry - everything you want to be is ok. its your decision - even though sometimes it get hard if you have people around you who would not accept your lifestyle....
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Have you taken your search online?  Investigate your options.  What would make you happy?\n\nBecause of your dis-satisfaction with your current situation, your thinking may be temporarily "stuck" there.  You may be unable to see your possibilities.\n\nTake the time to explore what would be interesting and fun for YOU.\n\nYour age is not an issue.  There are NO limitations except between our ears.\n\nCreate your life and Go For It!\n\nBest of Luck to YOU!
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You seem to want to do whatever will earn the most, perhaps in the least time.\n\nThat'sno way to plan your life.\n\nDo what you love doing.
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there is no impossible in God.. If you believe in Him and trust Him, You can have an everlasting life. If you believe your self, Do it!!!
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You shouldn't base your life on what other people tell you that you need to do.\n\nIf you want to go out and have fun do, but if you are happy with doing what you are doing then that is great!\n\nRemember Life is about the journey not the destination.
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I think those expectations are completely rediculous.  We are brainwashed as children to want that perfect family with the perfect life and I know for me I was having a lot of trouble coping with the fact that I won't have that family the US wants me to have.  I have thankfully moved on and realized the fairytale life for me would be what I want the most... A husbear later in life, a nice career, and the ability to live happy.
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I am afraid that I cannot agree with you. Life was always like that anytime. It is our perception which changes about life. There are always challenges in life, they differ from time to time, place to place, age to age and all. If someone want to enjoy life, s/he can do it anytime and all time. You can enjoy life while struggling for job, you can do that in sickness and you can do it when sleeping. So go ahead my friend, be positive about life and enjoy yourself and make life of you and everyone around pleasurable.
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I must say, I'm pretty content with life. I don't really want/need anything... Could I save the wish for a bad day, maybe? haha. I don't think I'd wish for anything, honestly. Obstacles, not knowing everything, not being perfect - It just makes life all the more interesting. I'd give my wish to someone who actually needed it. :)
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I think you are entitled to happiness, like everyone else in this world. Don't allow anyone to tell you otherwise.\n\nSimply ask yourself this question. How important is my happiness?\n\nWould you much rather live a lie to please others, or live with the freedom to choose you own path... besides you have the law on your side. (unless your a minor or already married).\n\nGood luck to you and I wish you happiness.
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- Believe there is no bad life for everyone\n- Understand there is no peaceful life for everyone.\n- If you had struggles at one stage, its nature to gain love and peace in another stage.\n- Do you think its possible to make the negative things as possitive signs.\n- Please remember there are thousands of children even born with knowing their dad, mum or any other relations.\n- Do you believe in GOD.\n- Do you believe in your knowledge and strength.\n- Did you read the great achievers biography and how they have struggled and won.\n- Somebody makes their entire life horrible because they dont belive their own knowledge, strength and potential.\n- Good or bad, anything is depends how they look for themselves.\n- If you think there is a way then you can strive to go through... you will be successful.\n- If you think there is no way and you are dieng and almost died then you are dead.\n- Its not the matter where you are coming from but think and plan where you want to go, how to reach despite the difficulties you face at present.\n- Think you have life, knowledge, power, attitude and will.\n- Wish you all the best for your successful future.
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Hey,\nMy ambition in life is to become a Police Officer! It has been same for the past 8 years. (I'm 16) It used to be the whole gun and power dilemma. As the years past by, I started to respect Police Officers for who they are. Their presence makes me bulletproof...\n\n I was in my first car accident months ago. I met my Hero, who is a Paramedic. He told me “It’s all right you still have a pretty face.” Then he was gone. Just like that, before I could say 'Thank-you'. He left me enough courage and strength to last me the rest of my life. I'll always be thank-full for his presence, which I was blessed with, despite the stitches of my forehead. He told me his first name and with only that I'm a struggling teenager on the search for my Hero for the past 5 months. Just to say thanks and let him know he's my Hero. His brilliant sparkling eyes, warm sweet smile as he held my face his hands covering my face, I can never forget. His words are still fresh in my mind. Just a Thank-you I need to say. \nI've learnt a lot. I think I found myself; I met people I never dared to talk to (Police Officers, Firefighters) b/c they make my knees feel weak and my heart drop low. I've admired them since age 8, and now they tell me they’re proud of me. Wow! My Hero has changed me, he's opened locked doors for me in my life, and so he was my key. I don't know what I'll say if I find him, I'm speechless, I think I'll hug him tight and tell him I can trust him with my life... \nI want to be a good daughter, sister, friend and stranger. \nI have so many problems in life to clear yet my world remains beautiful through my eyes. There's so much more to see, pros and cons - it's life. It's not going to change for me, so I'm going to change it. I just want to be someone who can help... Thanks!\n\nWarm Regards! \nHidden4eternity
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I have a lifelong challenge for you, and if you succeed at it, you will be much more likely to have a happy life:  learn to love yourself the way you are, and focus on your strengths instead of your weaknesses.  Other people will value you as much as you value yourself.  Your height (whatever it winds up being) is part of what you are, so it is something that you must learn to accept, and even to love, just as someone else will someday.
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The world is not all just dishonesty, cruelty and misery. I hope for you that you will give yourself the chance to find some more happiness before you die, or before you choose to die.\nWe have so much possibilities, so many kind of lives to choose. Even if you are disabled to a heavy degree it is still possible to find happiness and the beauty in life.\nThe responsibility in choice is yours. Even if you are bed-bound, there are so many ways left to make life worth living.\n\nI know you might think that it is easier said then done. You're right. Life can be a hell of a struggle. But it is worth it. I know many people will agree with me on that. Including people who are disabled to a heavy point.\n\nI can't answer your question about when you will die. I just hope your next question will be when you will start to live. \n\nI wish you strength.
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Live Life, Love, and be Happy.  I found my success and happiness through Jesus.  Maybe you will too.  My lifes direction is answered in prayer.  When I feel confused or uncertain I ask the Lord for guidance, there is always an answer, though sometimes it may not be easy, there is always a way to acheive my goals. \nBefore I asked Jesus into my heart my life was a MESS; I was broke, miserable, and lonely.  Now I own my own business, met (and married) the love of my life, and now get to do something I once only "dreamed of" doing,..to travel extensively.
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a teenage human \nevery one at some piont of there lives ask them self's \nwhat am i really what are my dreams ambisions for life \nwho do i want to spend the rest of my life with either a person or group etc  \nwhere do i want to live \nwe can never answer these questions for other people \nit sounds like you are just confused as very one else is \ni think once you are older you should experament with differeent people and do different things with then and really know your self's likes and dislikes \nafter learn what you do with them and find the right person for you