There's this moron at my school who keeps spreading all these ridiculous rumors about me. He makes fun of almost everything I do behind my back, and he even once said that I cut my wrists every day (I dont). And he pretends he's my friend occasionally..
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Ignore him, turn the other cheek.
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It's not fun, I know how you feel.\nYou just have to learn to not care.\nIt's tough...and I know it's a lot easier to say then do.\nSo what if they find out? If they treat you any differently, then they aren't good friends and don't deserve to have you as a friend.\nAnd if you are worried about people like, making fun of you or something, then just know that the only reason they are making fun of you is to raise thier own self-esteem, and that you are better then that.\nTry and take pride in being irregular, then again, I'm not sure exactly why you're irregular, but ya.\nIf it still bothers you, talk to the teachers about it, and ask them if maybe there is some way you could be called on the normal roll call.\n\n\nI hope that I helped. ^_^
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Hey, if any guy doesn't like me because he thinks I'm pretending to be dumb when I know otherwise, I'd dump his sorry butt in a heartbeat.  And I wouldn't even consider anyone who hung out with him.  Losers!  All of them!
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Well, my old boss at blockbuster went to school with him(his name is Brian Warner)and says in school he was a geek...I figure he's just making up for it and psychologically speaking, it's amazing what happens to people when bullies pick on them...think maybe he's getting back at those bullies now, no matter how wierd he is?
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Man, I was going through the samething with this really obnoxious girl once. I feel your pain. my plan of dealing with people like him is to stay clear of them. It might not be easy at first but once you keep avoiding and stay clear of him overtime he won't be a problem, and talk to your teacher about changing your seat, tell him/her that you have problems with this kid and that you don't get along with him that should help, and if that doesn't work well, you before taking things into your own hands try the plan first.
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You might want to go to your guidance/adjustment counselor with your feelings.  In this day and age when this sort of thing goes on everywhere, it is good that you talk to someone.  If you are uncomfortable it will make you feel better about the situation.  I would too talk to your parents, let them know that you have something of importance to talk to them about.\n\nIt is not professional for him to be doing these things.  He has crossed the line handing out his myspace info to his students.  Even if it is innocent, it is not appropriate behavior for a teacher.  You NEED to talk to someone in your school (school nurse, another teacher, guidance/adjustment counselor, someone)...let them know that you want this to be on record...it could save someones life or sanity.  Most school's keep student's identity anonymous...you are under 18 I take it?\n\nI wish you luck.  Do not let others persuade you to NOT talk...it is a matter of heath and safety!  \n\nAnd the first answerer...you don't even have the b*alls to put a name to your picture you are the one that is small minded!  And truly you could be the teacher she is talking about!
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Well it clearly sounds like your friend is jealous of you if he is trying to steal your identity.  Since he used to push you around it just shows that he is jealous of things about you and he wants to be just like you.  If you like this friend enough you can sit down and speak to him and ask him why he is copying your identity and not having his own, or you can let go of a friend like that because friends dont' push other friends around.
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Have you told someone in the school who have authority to stop him from bothering you? Did you tell him that you don't want to be bothered? If you did that, and things haven't changed, then make a complaint to the big office. If he haven't stopped after that, then I suggest you call the cops. But let him know that if he doesn't stop bothering you, then your going to get him into trouble.
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It sounds to me that he has some serious immaturity issues.  My advice is to ignore him completely.  Don't glance in his direction and if you hear rumors about yourself, just say, "it's really sad that he has to pump himself up by spreading nasty rumors."
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i can tell you that hes an idiot. i think he judged you by how you look rather than get to know you, the real you. i think he acted the way he did cause he didnt want to be outcast by his friends and to be taunted by other peers. people now hold their reputations up high, ego maniacs. just keep your head up and dont let anyone put you down. there are much better people out there so just forget about that dude. good luck and take care!
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you on my space with this dude it don't matter he could be a pervert people lie all the time on chat rooms my advice don't go with anybody on chat rooms in case you already know him personally
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I would not worry about the gossip and your parents shouldn't either. I have found that people who have a habit of gossipping are usually focusing on others when they should be addressing their own problems (which some of them never do). Don't let them interfere with your good intentions. I would talk (with the permission of this young man) to the school counselor to see what assistance he/she can offer to this young man and he/she may also be able to be of help to you with this endeavor. It's unfortunate that the coach wasn't very helpful and didn't have a more positive attitude. One of the courses in college that might be helpful to him is one that will help boost his self-esteem. His lack of self-esteem is probably what led to his bad reputation and attitude and probably played a key role in a lot of his situations including his lack of friendships . He needs to understand that changing his image and attitude is the key to his success in college and in other situations. Good luck in your endeavor.
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i am exactly like you are.  I'm always.. stuck and getting picked on.  But i just ignore them.  I stick with my friend.  dont' worry about them.  there obviously immature and just ignore them and they will stop.  I know that its hard and that sometimes  you want to go up and smack them.  but it will make things worse if you do it to by talking about htem behind there back.  just remember how much that it hurt you.  and now you don't want to hurt htem.  they will EVENTUALLY grow up.  and if they don't.. well then thats there problem.  just be how you want to be.  its okay to cry. i've cried at school a million times.  all because of DRAMA.. it sucks but you'll make it through.  good luck.. best of wishes<33
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I always think that if for some reason, someone you don't know is going out of his or her way to spread vicious rumors about you, you must either be quite popular, or pretty, or clever. Or, someone that person secretly or publicly likes, made a nice comment about you. Or it could be someone you inadvertently snubbed.\n\nPeople who do this usually have low self-esteem already, they are constantly criticising themselves in the back of their head, and many of them don't even know it. So, when they meet up with someone who is loads better than themselves, sometimes it is only apparent to them, or has someone see through their pretensions, their self-loathing is exposed and the only way they can avoid having to deal with their own self-hate, is to throw mud onto someobody else. That way, they can point at the 'mud' on the other person and hope that their 'mud' will go un-noticed.\n\nIf the rumors are particularly vicious, then a confrontation may not help, as you will be dealing with a lot of hatred, and this means a higher chance of it blowing up in your face. Explain to your friends that these are just rumors, have them help you to spread the facts about you. Be friendlier, nicer, show others that the real you is different. Show courage in weathering this, and you may gain more respect, and perhaps get more friends, at the end of it.\n\nChin up, you will be alright.
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Just ignore him and don't react to any of his comments as long as he knows he's getting to you he will continue the minute he knows that you absolutely don't care what he says it will burn him up and he'll stop..Tell the person who relates these messages to you to stop ..and you don't want to hear anything that comes from this person.And honestly what kind of friend is this that tells you hurtfull things..really now..
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A boy at school that I went out with briefly spread a load of rumours. He wanted to have sex, but I said no, so he broke up with me, and then told half the school that we'd done it, and loads of other stuff, including that I'd give BJs in the school toilets for money. What really hurt was that everyone believed him, but no-one believed me when I denied it. Basically my life at school for the rest of that term was hell, but by the following term other gossip had taken over instead.
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stick to your morals eventually they will give up either there your friends and respect you or if they continue to pressurise you then they really are not true friends ,and maybe you should consider distancing yourself from this bullying crowd