its almost a month since i met him, he only sends me sms whenever he likes to, doesnt reply much, we even dont know much about each other. We have a common friend who told me not to be serious with this guy.
210199
No. Not worth your time. There's so many guys you can meet, face-to-face, right now, that aren't so socially averse that they can only communicate via SMS. Move on.
389479
Because he's not creative enough to find ways to actually convince you that he's a great catch with his actions. He may be trying to appeal to your sense of pity, and I'm sure this approach has worked for him in the past.\n\nGood for you for not falling for it. You might want to even go so far as to tell him to stop texting you or else you will block his number. Don't let him disrespect you by not heeding your wishes.
61291
I'm not emailing you...sorry, I don't need any more friends but it sounds like your not even interested in this dude. Why would you even consider dating him if you don't even like him? Remind yourself why it didn't work out with you guys to begin with and just tell him your not interested anymore. Or if you think there might stillbe something there spend some time with him as a friend. No sex or kissing...really just friends for awhile.
541202
You dont have to bother about stuff like that at this stage.And that is not supposed to get you worried atall.Why not spend ur leisure time with other friends other than trying to figure him out.whenever you see him just say hi,if there's anything serious you've done he'll let you know in time but in the meantime don't look down on youself cause of him.Cheers.
435919
I dont think he likes you. If he did want to get to know you he wouldve said something. i think you should just leave him alone. maybe someday he will talk to you but for now it sure seems like he thinks you are something else. i dont think you should try and comunicate with him anymore....sorry
269682
He like you and you like him.. to easy. Why would a guy pay so much money on text messaging. Why would he text you instead of your friend? He seem to be only pay attention to you. He like you but he seem to be like taking his time to get to know you also giving to sometime get to know who he is.\nYou dreaming about him. maybe from his text messaging too much and it get to you head. jk.. sound like you are also checking him out too.. you also like him but wasn't sure if you really like him to be more than friend. So by dreaming about him show that you want to know what it would be like if you are with him.. If it is deep though so you might not think about it. It is what in your heart not in your head.\nSo girl.. Keep it up.. i think this relationship might go futher than just friend. who know maybe he might be the one. YOu never know until you two move futher from being just friend.
232769
Ok then...... find another "friend" who will spend time on the phone with you. Move on..... he needs to communicate, or you don't need to waste any more time with him.
550336
Sweetie, you need to read that book "He's Just Not That Into You".  He's obviously placing you last on his list and only bothering with you when he's got nothing better to do.  You DESERVE much better than being last priority in his life.  Don't you want more than talking once a month on the phone from a man?  Don't  you want dinners, walks, affection & attention?  Someone who is always there for you?  Then drop this player and find a real man.  Good luck and keep your chin up!
214990
Sounds like he's a little immature. My advice, don't worry about it and make friends with someone else. He isn't the last boy you'll ever like, and if he's that young, chances are you're young too, and you will meed plenty of other boys in your day, Lord willing. And don't give your friend any more of his messages ;)
613494
possibly.  Just do this...dont message him everytime you see him online.  Let him message you first sometimes, Im sure you are a busy person too.  He could just be busy (like what he told you).
277273
Dont phone him, or at least yet....\nChat for a little while longer, get to know eachother a little better. If u do phone, phone from private nr or at least from a pay phone out of the area u live in. U get strange ppl on the net.\nAnyway..your in doubt about phoning him or not.\nWhen in doubt get out. \nIf he wants a serious relationship, he will wait until he gets to know u better. Exchange photos, and stuff like that. Its just moving a bit fast. After a week he wants to speak to you? Its a bit wierd.
44114
you might just have to give him time if he doesnt want to be in a relationship just yet. but if he is still dragging his feet a month from now you need to take some kind of action
425626
Well... If he was happy to hear from u, and u guys talked for an hour... then maybe he wasn't avoiding you. When u finally talked to him, did you says anything about trying to reach him before? It is kinda weird that he finally answered when u called from a different phone. This is brutally honest, but maybe he was caught off guard when he answered his phone and u were on the other line, so he just decided to talk to u because that would've been obvious if he just hung up when he knew it was u? Did that make sense? lol. I think you should just forget about the dude. If you guys have been flirting for 6 months, and nothing has happened, then he probably isn't as interested as u r! Who knows... just trying to help ya out!\n\n-Eli
489951
if it's only been a month, it's probably not that big of a deal\nand he might not care for you like you want him too right now.\nmaybe he'll come around.\nsounds kind of pointless to pursue him, but good luck
422550
I think you should just tell him that you are starting to dig him and see what he says.  Worst case scenario: he says he's sorry but he's not as into you.  At least he is just online and you won't be so embarrassed because you haven't actually met him and he can't turn you down to your face.  I'm sure if you have been chatting that much then he must have at least a little interest in you though.\n\nGood luck girl!!!!
125567
well it sounds like a puupy love phase but honestly.. i think your infechuwated with him.. and maybe you need to focus on you..... if he not keeping a daliy calling nor email,text and other then maybe he not clicking with feling like you are   so try to focus on you cuz  its sounds like your on a path of getting hurt... but do what you feel is best..... i think your gonna get hurt.
77551
I think that might be his way of testing the waters with you, I had a guy friend do the same thing with me "I want to meet someone like you" You have to ask yourself if you would want to persue something with him or not, from the way it sounds not. \n\nThis is one of those time when subtle wont work I think you just need to come out and ask him if he is hinting that he wants more. Just tell him you have been getting a different vibe from him lately and you want to know.