my gf broke up with me today what should i do i cant get her off my mind and we decised to be just friends and maybe we could go back together she said maybe but i just cant get her off my mind
213490
don't count on getting back together, or being very good friends for that matter. my ex gf said the same thing about maybe getting back together, now shes dating one of my friends and we barley ever talk
120363
Laugh at them. I mean, she couldn't handle being single and fell into a rebound relationship that is doomed for failure. It's painful, I know, but don't worry. You're over her, what she does shouldn't bother you. Let her find another guy, let her screw up that relationship, and push her from your mind. You'll find someone else soon enough.
265716
Wow... you sound like me. I have this guy that I still love, but we weren't really together. Try sitting down with this girl and tell her how you feel and all. Let your feelings out and all. Remember, you might or may not get her back. But, anything is possiable. Good Luck!
522412
I don't want to sound mean but maybe you were moving too fast. Also, something might have happened in her family or in her personal life. Try to be extra nice to her even though she broke up with you, because then she might explain why she did what she did or maybe you can just stay friends and if all else fails just smile and wave whenever its possible. Good Luck!
570649
call her and ask her whats going on?if she dos'nt want you back try to figure out what [if anything] went wrong and try not to repeat with next girlfriend. women are crazy so good luck!!
333605
well theres nothing better than to be there for her..\nif u feel like doing something maybe u should go on a trip together to take her mind off everything 4 a few hours or a few days...
236600
my boyfriend just broke up with me the best thing to do is think of something else
17840
The sooner you tell her how you feel, the better. If you drag this out, it will be more painful for the two of you. Just sit down with her and discuss the situation like adults and explain to her why you feel that you can't be with her anymore. Don't feel like your reasons aren't good enough. And don't let her convince you to stay with her if you don't want to. She might get emotional, but stand by your feelings and be strong about it.
465434
Ok you kinda screwed up but you have to let this go. She obviously cares for you and trusts you she is back with you. Don't take this wrong but maybe you should just talk to a professional about this. You need to let it go because it will eat at you and eventually becaome an obsatcle to you being together. Find someone you can trut to talk this out, forgive yourself and enjoy your time with your special lady! life is too short my friend to do anything else!
437320
try to be friends again. good friends are hard to find...if u consider her a good friend.
120418
tell her your break up kinda ment you needed your space not to be mean but you dont talk to your other friends that much and it should be the same with her
280768
time to move on pal...talk to her first. because talk is cheap. explain your feelings and make it clear why you want to move on and follow through on it. then you will see if she values your relationship or not. if she breaks down and tells you not to break it off, make an agreement for her to get some type of therapy or professional counseling b4 trying again...good luck
153016
dude dont feel bad. the same exact fuckin thing happened to me recently. were you sooo in love to where you couldnt stop thinking about her and you would take a bullet so long as it meant that she lived?  you were not wrong in any way shape or form. the best thing you can do is to forget about her no matter how bad it hurts.  it will take a while but i believe that you can do it. if you keep thinking about her its just going to get worse. if you need more advice just e-mail me.  just tryin to help. peace man
540642
Have you tried talking to her? Maybe she's trying to tell you something in a different way. Honesty is the best answer  so sit down with her tell you how you feel about what she's doing and ask her why she's doing it. Maybe she does want a break up or maybe she just wants your attention and some special time together. You won't know till you try but I'd see whats up before permanent damage is done to your relationship.
625942
Sounds to me like shes moved on and you are just a past time for when she is bored. I think if I were you I would move on and forget her. I dont think I would be looking for suggestions to get her back, theres a saying that says something about set it free and if it comes back its love if it doesnt than it wasnt meant to be, something like that lol so if she didnt come back than shes not going to. You deserve someone who will love you no strings or plans attached, so your only cheating yourself and her if you try to get her back and she doesnt want to be back it wont work out again it will only be worse.
61823
I dont think she is playing a game. You two broke up and i think your prolonged contact with her is making it hard for her to let go. She might well have feelings for you still but having feelings for someone doesn't mean she wants to be with you. You giving her things keeps her feeling obligated to talk to you. I would wish her a happy valentines day and tell her happy birthday when it rolls around but back off to some degree. The only real way to know if she wants to get back together with you is to be straight up and ask or back off and see if she comes looking for you.
83241
Ending a relationship hurts.  Just take time for yourself.  Do the things you didn't get to do as often when you were with her.  Try something new.  But definitly don't rush into a new relationship.  It's only been a day, like you said.  It will get better, I promise!