Ok, so my friend gave me this guys sn and he lives in a different state.(yes, my friend knows him)i started talking to him in like september 05' and hes REALLY HOTT AND CUTEE and has a rlly good personality and yea, i pretty much love everything about him and i REALLY WANA MEET HIM!!! and its really hard never getting to see some1 u really like... what should i do? ( p.s were in middle school))
217351
just wait if it was ment to be yall will meet some day
14589
girl, you are so right. if you like him and he is good to you and good for you, go for it. chance are, your "friends" are just jealous 'cause this guy is crazy over you. you true friends will want to see you happy. the rest will just fuss cause he doesn't fit in to their click. you are being more mature than your friends and it's nice to see everybody doesn't base everything on looks alone! good for you! good luck!
672932
So you had one phone call and a lot of fun!!!\nI think you should try talking to him more often.\nBuild on things that you like in him, common interests and stuff like that.\nLong distence relationships are particularly tedious, but if you make it, then there is nothing like it.\nTell him that you find him interesting and fun. Ask him what he feels about you. \nFollow the 'One Step' process.\nTake one step closer to knowing him on every interaction.\nAsk him about himself, his past, his future, his aspirations, what he expects out of you, and stuff.\nIn a couple of months, if you are still going steady, then plan to meet up for date. This way, there would not be any nasty surprises either.\nTake Care, and all the best!!
136359
Yeah... it could be love and it might not be. But my advice to you (trust me), since you're still a teenager, just be his friend. Don't talk about love with him. Forget he has a girlfriend and just talk to him like you are talking to one of your girlfriends. No teenage guy is ready for a big commitment so even if you are currently his girlfriend, it won't last... but if you are just friends, you have a much better chance of still keeping in touch 10 years from now and him winning your trust than his current girlfriend. And this might get him to finally realize you have always been there for him. I hope you get my point ( and I hope you take my advice)
139425
I'm going to be blatently honest with you.  If this guy has gotten to know you already and still declined dating, then he's just not interested in you.  he'd make room for dating if he liked you like that.  However, if he doesn;t know you very well, actively try to start a friendhsip.  just put ti to him like this 'everybody has to have friends- it releives stress, and you can't have stress getting in the way of your schoolwork'.  if after he gets to know you he still seems disinterested, then either keep him as a friend or move on.
344301
hey...this is almost similar to my situation! only i see him evry day at school (university) we're good friends and email...contact him thru phonebook or something...track him down!
473243
It is three years later, and you are both three years older and more mature.  Now is definitely time to find that chemistry again. If you still care about this guy, go and re-introduce yourself to him.  He may not be available right now, but it doesn't hurt to find out. :-)\n\nGood luck!!
30393
There is no possible way you could be in love w/ this guy.  You hardly know him at all especially if youve only seen him for 4 days.  You may like him a lot but its not love.  Talk to that friend and have him give Travis your phone number.  If Travis is interested, he will call you.  If not, then he wont.  Dont say you love someone until you have dated them AT LEAST 3 months solid.  You are only asking for a world of hurt then if you say it earlier.
432396
He seems very nice. I think you should talk to him in person all you need to say is hi to him then eventually you gonna start talking more and you should hurry because if you like him and he's a senior you don't have that long until the end of the year since time pass by fast you well probley regret not talking to him or do something about it in the end if you don't try. If you want to talk to him on myspace all you need to do say is"hey whats up" then when he reply just ask him what ever like what he's doing over the weekend or how was his weekend. Hope it goes well!
328267
he still wants to be able to talk to, but it looks like hes a different person. when hes in a big crowd your not the kinda person that he wants to be, its like 2 best friends in different crowds. one goes skater, one goes prep. they still like each other but they turn into two different people. what i would do is just come out and say it. rejection can be hard, but at least you'll know the truth if he says yes. all goes well and y'all give it a chance. if he says no than ask to be friends and leave it at that.
557122
You really like this guy huh? That's sweet. I woud suggest that you think back on the time that you two spent together and evaluate whether or not you were able to pick up on any signals from this young lad. Did he flirt with you? Did he drop any hints that he may like you too? If not, I would suggest that you lay off him for a while, and then attempt to contact him (by phone, skip the txt messaging) and ask him if he wants to hang out. The squeaky wheel gets the oil. Perhaps the young lad is shy? If you do not let him know, then perhaps he will never know. Therefore, wait a week, and give him a call and ask him to hang out. If he agrees, do not jump his bones, just play it cool and use the time to really determine if he is throwing any hints or signals that he may like you.  Good luck and have fun.
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if you dont want to be with him for what ever reason you really cant help seeing him unless you dont want any contact with him whatsoever and i dont think thats the case..so what i say is admire his sexiness..shoot..that wont hurt anything now will it lol...just keep thinking of his as "just a friend (no matter how hard that will be)
324039
Ever try walking by him or showing up where he's at all dressed up or wearing a cute outfit?  There's not much more you are going to be able to do without getting the nerve to finally talk to him.  If he's worth it you'll get over your shyness!  Don't do what my friend did and become a stalker.  She had a huge crush on this guy who was in training to become a fireman and she chased him everywhere.  She drove by where they were practicing putting out a house fire and he turned and saw her and fell into the burning house.  He wasn't hurt and the weird thing is they ended up married.
67013
Given the choice I always say be flattered, it makes life so much more enjoyable.  If you want to find out for sure then take time to make sure he knows your name and give him an oportunity to talk to you a little bit.  It never hurts to give it a chance and find out if there is potential, especially if your atracted to the guy.
445430
Sounds like you guys have a great friendship going on.  Just keep up the good friendship and if you want to take it to the next level and you don't know if he does or not, then you are going to have to find out.  When you think the time is right, talk with him and ask him if he could ever see you two together?  Make sure after you ask that you get a serious answer.  After that you will know if the time is right for a relationship and if he is ready or not.  He may like you but not be ready, so it's your call when and if you want to pursue it further.
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just tell him that you really liked him and that you would want to keep in touch with him.  is he coming back?  just wait and keep in touch with him.  as time goes by your hearts will began to grow fonder of one another and if it is meant to be it will happen.  as for now if you just want to get some lovin, I would say don't do that because it will ruin everything even the friendship.  just call him once a week or bi-weekly when he leaves and make sure the conversations are good.  Also every now and then just say that you met this guy and you went to a movie or something to make him a little jealous but when you do this make sure he knows that you two are just friends but don't over do the friend part.  you know what to do.  or that's an idea take him to a dinner and a movie for a going away gift and just when he thinks he's going to get some be strong and leave!!!!
496743
maybe you should take intiative..but dont come on to strong...dont show him that you like him so much just make it seem like a chat buddy.....i was actually talking to my now current bf for like 2 months b4 i actually met him....and one day he surprised me with a call....so ya. just go for it...if this guy doesnt respond to your call then well dont waste your time on him.\n\n\nhope i helped :]