I am actually looking for girls in there late 20's to mid 40's to answer this question.  Of course all in put is welcome.  Please tell if your gender.  Thanks.  When is it OK or exspected for the guy to make the first move?  Second date, third, forth?  Is there any sort of standard girls are looking for.  Of course when the time is right but I am looking for a little more info.  Being 38 and divorced, I did not learn all the rules and the rules have changed in the last decade.
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It entirely depends on the girl, I know Im younger than who you wanted to answer but all my friends and roommates are in that age range. Some girls like a guy who is more confident and will make a move sooner, others like a guy to wait. The big key is body language, read into things, I know that feels dumb, but you learn a lot from watching, and having the confidence to make a move when it "feels" right.
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If your looking for a younger guy... let's say 19 Im the one. Ive always wanted a girl a couple years older than me. I mean I've had an older girl but she was only one year older than me.
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I'm only a few years older than you but I would never have sex on the first date.  You need time to know each other and see if the relationship has possibilities before jumping into bed.  Even at 50, you can get a reputation as a sl*t.  How do you know that this guy would keep his mouth shut?  You don't know something like that until you know the person.  Definitely not what I would do but to each their own.
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Girls Love attention!!!\nI just wish some single 50 to 60 year olds had the courage to walk up and start a conversation with me.  \nI am usually alone when I go shopping.\nBut be sweet, don't nasty or suggestive, you will score more points if your are sweet.
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What exactly is a date now a days? Go to the movies?Group or one-on-one? Call themselves dating but never leave their own houses? Having sex? All these questions carry different age levels with them. And maturity levels. Unfortunately for us parents there really aren't any tried and true rules to follow.\n\nGood luck ! I know I need it! Mine are 15,13,13,11..........URGH!!!!!
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I'm very impressed by your input on the situation! Why? Because I'm a divorced father as well, and yes - after a divorce you are somewhat at the mercy of the ex, and at least for me - it's much better to take things slow. I'm a lot more cautious now than I ever was before when it comes to dating!\n\nI don't think he blew you off at all! And for you to suggest fishing? Where can I find someone like you? Got any sisters? (Kidding)\n\nSeriously, be patient, maybe you could even do something as simple as enjoying lunch together somewhere? Take it slow - if he's anything like me, it just takes time.\n\nTry to suggest planning far enough in advance, and see if he can get his ex to be agreeable on the date you've chosen. Sometimes a planned schedule far enough out is the best way to make certain it will work.\n\nGood luck with your situation!
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yes,why not?Date is Date,it's not marry with that old man.But first of all,starting from friend.it could be more than friend in the future...who know!\nI had a date with a man 45 years old.He is very funny,cheerful  and he has a lot of good/bad experiences to talk to me.I could learn many things from him.I mean we exchanged our experience life.Since I know him till now he is one of my best friend.and you know,when I met him,I said "You're an ASSHOLE....I don't care what your name...Art,Arthur or Asshole!!I don't care at all".It's impolite but I said that to him!!I cannot believe myself I said that to him!!!How come!!!
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I am 23 and just broke up with someone who was 52 why do you want someone younger? i think its fine as long as both people are okay with it you can email me if you want allison_buchanan2003@yahoo.com
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for me, it depends more on where we go on the date, not how many dates. [example: if a guy takes me to the movies and dinner or something simple, I'd be comfortable pretty quick. But if he tries taking me to his place or out to a bar, he's gone.]
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You are just being allowed to date this year?  Dear lord...  welcome to the dating rollercoaster ride of ups and downs, highs and lows.  In this day and age, don't expect to settle down for at least a good decade or two.  I don't like anyone either right now.  Don't worry, the odds are that you will like many, many guys sometime between now and death.  So my advice would be to relax, and enjoy having your heart before someone comes and snatches it away.  I hated hearing this when i was younger, but it's true, there is plenty of time.
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This is totally situational... but...\n\nIn general, I love it when a girl makes the move. As a guy, we have an automatic disadvantage, because no matter what, we have to work for it. Now, this is a gross generalization, but most of the time it is true: women can find someone if they really want to, any time.\n\nMen on the other hand, well...\n\nSo to have a woman come up and make it known that she's interested makes things easy. Not to mention, it's not like there's anything to lose really.
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I'm 40 & looking. I hope it's not too late.I don't know what happened to communication,enjoying each others company or intimacy,but damn I miss it!!!!!
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I would reccomend it if your mature for your age. Older men are interesting and don't usually play the games that guys in their 20's do. I'm 33 and I won't date anyone under 40.
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Well, I am married, but I do remember my dating days...\n\nSo Romeo...\nOn date number 1, I think a man should be a perfect gentleman because hey, we don't know each other anyway, and how you gonna prove to me you are worth my effort if you aren't nice on date number one???\n\nDate number 2... I think holding hands and a kiss goodnight is in order...\n\nDate number 3...Maybe if we reached it this far along, we could do some hugging and some major kissing and squeezing...\n\nI would say by date number 4...we might have sex if it is concluded we really like each other, or if it looks like this may lead to a greater relationship...\n\nWhat makes me happy is if the guy is courteous to me and listens to my talking without interupting me...\n\nWhat disappoints me is if he is late or doesn't call or show up or is not courteous in any way...\n\nI think if I start letting the man know my feelings about life in general and in private, I am showing signs of a more serious relationship and he better be prepared if I do...\nOur beliefs should be discussed and what expectations we feel are needed in order to have a nice life...\n\nOur dreams and hopes and our way of living so that the other knows what to expect in the future...\nCommon courtesy and being a real gentlman are worth so much...\n\nI know it sounds old fashioned, but these new aged men who are all about sex, well, they don't really care how a woman feels or what she wants...\n\nYou have to be friends first before you can persue a love or sex relationship next...
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been there. sucks. confidence all low and crap cause we're not 20 anymore! fortunately for you, these Young girls think older guys are hot! guys get more distinguished looking. women just get older. i'm sure you'll find some one new to rock your world. just be careful. it's not the same world you dated in 20 years ago! best of luck!
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Why don't you ask him out yourself?  Women always think that men should always make the first move, don't wait till you get past fifty!
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I feel like I'm already a mature man at age 26.  I've never treated dating as "playing the field".  I once heard that view of dating described like buying a car - "I want this color, not too old, not too many miles".  I think it should be much more than that.  I thought the point of dating was to find that special someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.  (I'll admit to being a romantic.)  I don't understand why some men cheat.  It's disrespecting the woman, plus shooting yourself in the foot.  If you have a good relationship, why ruin it?  The same goes for womanizing.  Why move from one woman to another before you even get to know the first one?  I think things would be a lot better if all of us treated each other with the respect we deserve instead of treating each other as goods that we are trying to buy with cards and chocolates and dinners.