I do not wanna keep asking cause i do not have proof, but she always gives me a strong feeling that she is hiding something from me, and that she doesn't want to tell me about it. She keeps denying & saying she won't lie to me... Am confused, i usually have right inner feelings , and i believe so much in my hunches.
206668
Just let it go. It will come out eventually. She's not going to tell you if she doenst want to.
659919
she is a liar. she may not know the difference between the truth and lies.  or she might just lie to make herself look better and others look bad. you need to think abot if you love her enough to tolerate the constant lying or do you think you deserve better.  good luck.
558449
Hope this works out for you. its probably a bit raw at the moment. could this possibly not be the first time this has happened, as im sure she is trying to tell you something and get a reactionary response. she wants you to want her and fight for her not just give up. im thinking that she wants you to commit after 8 years. she doesnt want to ask you to make it a more secure relationship possibly not long distance. she wants you to come up with that idea and put it to her. so she can feel loved and needed. thats what im thinking and im a chick and sometimes we can be a bit weird like that. so give it a go when things calm down have a honest talk with her and ask her what she really wants or doesnt want from you and decide what you are ready to give. if you arent ready to give everything - why have a relationship anyway. take care and give it some time.
104274
i think that she might be hiddin somethin from you.she could be the one playin you hun.if i were you i would check up on her and se what she gots to hide.theres somthin shes hiddin and i think you should kno.i hope things go good for you.
403679
First of all she is waiting for you to contact her, as she turned you down, she is probably wondering if you are still talking/friends with her. \nShe dosen't wanna change the relationship because the way it is feels safe, and she dosen't wanna change/risk that. By her saying that she dosen't deserve you shows she is maybe a bit insecure and has been hurt in the past, she feels she wouldn't live up to your expectations, Saying your easy means she would be worried that you wouldn't stay faith ful, or you would be off with the next bit of skirt that looked your way, is it that she has seen you cheat or heard how you talk even when your with someone?\nTrust her when she says she wouldn't lie, chill out, txt her saying your sorry if you put her in a difficult situation but it's was because how lovely you think she is, then go back to normal, go out like normal, don't put it off or you''ll both feel weird, just from now on make sure you don't chat up girls in front of her or talk about cheating etc, then you never know, maybe next time she'll be asking you, if it's meant to be you'll get together in time.
552938
I don't know but I think you should ask her "Did you need to tell me something else?" If the answer is no then ask "Did you need to ask me something ?" Tell her that these awkward silences give the feeling that something is being left unsaid and you would like to know what it is.
334389
She made her feelings clear.\nYou didn't want to hear it, but she is not leading you around.\nListen to her!\nBe content you still have her company on some basis and if it gets impossible, go away.
67315
hey man, are you dating my girlfriend?  I cant believe there is anyone I can relate so well with - \n\nI guess all I can say is to just trust her until something really messed up is proven to you- give her the benefit of the doubt man!  Does she tell you she loves you? I know they can lie about that too, but at least they are saying it.  If she turns out to be a liar, dont do what I did once in my past- dont even attempt to make her feel guilty, because chances are she wont anyways.
177976
I don't think it's your problem if she believes. If he's asked you to tell them, then you should. Start out by noting that she doesn't have to believe you, but you have things to tell her, and you want to say them all before she tries to interrupt. Then tell her what he says.
389805
Ask her what she is afraid of. Tell her she doesn't have to go to the extreme to hide anything from you. She can be totally safe and honest with you. You have to build a bridge for her to see and focus on.It's all an act to hide her pain and suffering. She wants desperately to be heard and acknowledged.She won't change until she sees it and acknowledges it. Be a friend and let her know she doesn't have to fake a good deal.
540694
Maybe she's cheating on you.  Either that or she's insecure.  Guilty parties in relationships will often project what they're doing on to the other person.  If she can get you to admit you're cheating then maybe she won't feel as guilty.  That's just one possibility.  Or maybe she really is insecure, in which case perhaps you both need to go to couples counseling because if she keeps it up you may just get fed up and decide to make her accusations come true.
48353
Dear shy country boy, she believes you and is happy to hear this every day. But she would not admit she believes, because unconsciously she fears that you will stop saying this. If she says 'Yeah, how happy i am, i believe you', would you tell her every day ? \nNo, you won't.\nYou will stop, and talk about politics or sport. Then she will say she loves you, so you will have to renew declaration, then she will say it daily and you will one day say 'stop saying this every day, dear, i am interested to hear smth else, please do not misunderstand me, i am happy to hear but not five times a day...'\nSo your gf who is smart provokes you.\nIf you want to check, stop saying it and see what happens. If not, better believe me and accept the game, it's nice and harmless and yes, she loves you too, that's why playing such a game to you.\nSorry answer was long.
205803
NEVER GIVE HER A REASON TO LIE TO YOU!\nUsually, you're wanting to know something that isn't your business, so she will just WITHOLD THE INFORMATION, not lie.
485853
Maybe she is just afraid of what your reaction would be. Maybe instead of hinting you should just come out and say what you feel. It sounds like maybe you are both hinting to one another but neither one is stepping up to the plate. Even if she doesn't see you as botfriend material right now she might later if she knows the opportunity is there.
543479
if she wants you to know,she will tell you.you know we all have skeltons in out closets.maybe she likes to forget about the bad times.well if she brings it up and ask you what you think,then you should tell her,but be nice about it.just dont go digging into her past and telling everyone you meet,thats between you and her,and not anyones elses business.
200667
Sounds to me that she will do herself in with a lack of credibility.  Your only recourse is to make sure YOU remain credible - and keep people like this out of your life as much as possible.  She's got it in for you since you have the ability to see her bad side - and she's probably afraid you will expose her to others.  Some day something will happen where it will be proven to the higher ups that she is a liar and manipulator.  Don't spend too much time worrying about it though.  It takes away from your own life and gives too much to hers.
111990
That's a tough situation.  Just tell her "Look there's something I need to tell you that you aren't going to like, but I think you need to know."  I hope she handles it well and doesn't blame you.  Just be honest, talk to her, and be supportive with whatever she decides to do with the information.