.. Or is a boy who is exposed to gay sex or male nudity.. during his growing up years.. more likely to be gay when he grows up... Similarly if a growing boy is more exposed to heterosexual sex... or abuse by a woman .. is he more likely to be heterosexual?
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I did a research paper recently and on a website for adult males who were sexually abused as children and some abnormal psych site they cited this group was more likely to become homophobic or unable to maintain long term successful intimate relationships due to substance abuse and self hatred issues
100078
Fear and prejudice, which go hand in hand.  It seems those so anti-gay are afraid of many things about it.  Most being that 80% of people have had, usually as children experimenting, a sexual liaison with someone of the same sex.  Something normal and healthy.  They are so afraid of them being classified as gay because of that it becomes a deep anger at themselves then transmitted outwards.  It's a sad thing to use an inaccurate book to back up your own fears.
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Homosexuals are sexually attracted to adults of the same sex, heterosexuals are sexually attracted to adults of the opposite sex, and pedophiles are sexually attracted to children. Adults are able to consent to sexual relations and children are not. Homosexuals and heterosexuals seek consenting relationships, pedophiles seek abusive relationships. Nobody is hurt in adult homosexual or heterosexual relationships, and a child is hurt in pedophilia. Homosexual and heterosexual people should both be free to engage in adult relationships, and pedophiles should be in psychiatric counseling and jail.
383037
Being a caring person doesn't mean you are gay. You are gay if you want to have sex with other guys. If you want to have sex with other guys but also want to have sex with girls you are bi.
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No, a pedophile is someone who is sexually attracted to prepubescent children, like in middle school or younger. Being attracted to someone with a babyface is not the same thing.
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You absolutely can.  Some people don't understand that there's a difference between having the homosexual trait and practicing homosexual behavior.\n\nA homosexual is a person whose instinctual knowledge makes them much more likely to be attracted to persons of the same gender instead of the opposite gender.\n\nHomosexual children usually start having feelings toward people of the same gender around puberty, the same time that heterosexuals start finding the opposite gender attractive.\n\nThis is why it's possible to be gay and a virgin.
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Either.  It matters more to me who he is, than what he looks like.  \n\nThose descriptions are too vague to assess how sexually attractive he might be.\n\nBesides, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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I am 33 and female. If my child were gay I would accept it . It is what is on the inside that counts. I would rather my son be gay and a loving human being, than straight and a jerk. Think about it this way. If anyone one loves their child, truly loves them, than you can accept them no matter what their lifestyle choice. If someone would say that they would not love their child anymore, than they never really had true love for them in the first place. I do have a son, so this is coming from a Mothers perspective. Understanding, trust, and Love are truly the most important things
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Yes, I've heard that phrase used to indicate that a man is gay.  I guess it refers to the habit of some guys, like Richard Simmons for example, to prance and dance around.  I like Richard Simmons, he's cool.
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If I would have to make a assumption I would say he is borderline gay. He's still in the closet and not sure if he wants to come out and make the full transition into the gay world. His brain is probably still racking on the norm of being straight but likes to keep his homosexual desires hushed. Its very common for this type of gayness to occur. My dad's brother my uncle still dose this and he is in his 40's. He even has lesbian friends he poses of as his wife or girlfriend whatever the case may call. Well hey if things don't work out I'm avavlible.
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Probably just curious. Most women and men have some sort of a homosexual experience before they reach adulthood. It is totally natural. I had my own experience similar to that when I was right at your age. I am not gay now and never was. It is just a part of growing up. I am just sorry you had to learn about this from a stranger.
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actually a pederast is a male who likes young boys. Therefore, by definition, are no heterosexual pederasts. only homosexual. In regard to pedophiles , yes, if you read the postings here there are a lot of gay people who go on about heterosexuals being pedophiles.
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A girl is a female child, we're adults (at least sometimes), how would you feel about being called a boy all the time!
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just because he may show his feminine side does not make him gay. i know a man raised by his grandmother who showed both sides and he was all man. don't never label your boy gay or guesstimate. you tell someone or somebody that long enough you can make them that way. make sure he mingles with both sexes. if, by chance down the road he is would that make you love him any less?? i hope not Kat
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Okay . . . nice trick question.\n\nThe 21 yo is sexually attracted to a 13 yo.\n\nIf the 21 yo does nothing and waits until the 13 yo reaches majority (18) in 5 years . . . the 21 yo is not a Pedophile . . . (sick maybe, but not a pedophile).\n\nIf the 21 yo does do something sexually with the 13 yo before the 13 yo reaches majority . ..  then legally the 21 yo is a pedophile.\n\nDoesn't matter if the 13 yo goes up to the 21 yo or not . . . if the 21 yo does something they are a pedophile . . . if the 21 yo does not do anything . . . then they are not.
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Sorry dude, boys on boys skin touching each other, holding and grabbing each other....  That's just a little too close for me!!!  Those who watch those guys are ones who come out of the closet later in their lives.
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Pedophiles are almost always self identified straight men, no matter who the victim happens to be.\nIt's about power and control.  Not so much about sex.