IF your as bored as I am,lol,take the small quiz and post it here. I know,I know,it's not a question,but hey,it beat's a lot of the questions I've read around here,lol.\n\nYou Are a Natural Flirt  \n \nBelieve it or not, you're a really effective flirt.\nAnd you're so good, you hardly notice that you're flirting.\nYour attitude and confidence make you a natural flirt.\nAnd the fact that you don't know it is just that more attractive!\n\nhttp://www.blogthings.com/whatkindofflirtareyouquiz/
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Well i figure whatever kind of flirt i am, it is not working. I am still single
529010
from experience it really doesnt matter what you do in order to flirt with girls just as long you are confident while doing it. The biggest turn off girls tell me is a guy without confidence so just fake it even if you do not initially feel like a stud. Also all the love movies and shows are bullsh*t. All these cute lines that make the girl smile and fall in love with you on these shows will not happen. I hate to say it but the nice sweety guys will always finish last. Just go with the "take what is yours" mentallity and women will be after you instead of you going after them. Do not be so soft but instead be a little rough around the edges. Trust me, girls will not want to admit it most of the time but being too nice can also be a turn off and boring.
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Maybe you need the right blend of agressive and passive.  Plus, some girls and guys go for one or the other etc.  Also, I know it sounds lame, but just be yourself.  And be ultra-charming.  \nI think you should concentrate on improving yourself, for your own benefit.  And, if you improve, women or men will notice and go "hmmm"
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oh well i absolutely love stuff like this.  its so easy! ok well first of all.. you should realize that everyone who is going because they want to and they want to have fun.   no ones going there to scrutinize anybody.  Well first of all... dress up and look pretty.  So when no one knows anything about you (you have an awesome personality, etc) they will know one good thing about you: you look nice!  So that will give you confidence.  And never stop smiling.  People will be scared to talk to you if you do not come off as super friendly.  And if someone doesnt introduce themselves to you, it is because they are nervous like you are!\n\nHere is how to socialize:\nintroduce yourself.  assertive, eye contact, say hi im "name", that you are so in sos husband.\nThen, ask questions.  (their name if you dont already know it) After a conversation, people always report liking someone a lot when THEY were the ones talking the whole time! so thats a good trick... because they will like you and you wont have to talk much!  Just be really interested in Them!  Tilt head, smile and nodd as they talk.  Eye contact!\n\nHave a bunch of questions thought of before you go so if you get nervous you can just resort to those pre rehearsed Qs (never a yes or no question).\n\nGreat questions:\nWhere do you work?  Are you from around here?  How long have you been in the area?  Who did you come here with?  If they have a job that requires a degree, ask where they attended school.  Do you enjoy the neighborhood?   Usually you should ask questions that naturally follow each other, and not randomly jump around.\n\nYou can propose a problem, and ask them for the solution.  for example:  My husband and I have been trying to find a good italian restaurante, do you know of any?  Do you two have a favorite restaurant?  \n\nYou keep asking these questions until you find something unique you have in common.  example:  you both have kids the same age, are from the same hometown, you had the same major in college.  Once you find something you have in common, this is when the conversation can be fun.  This is when people get into things they start laughing about and when natural conversation comes in.  At this point, you dont really need any rules, just talk openly and ask questions!  Just dont say any really opinionated things like "I think homeschooling is wrong" or "accountants are boring".  Everything should be lighthearded and complimentary.\n\n"Expert" tips:  Ask questions that don't assume anything... like, asking are you here with your husband? that assumes: 1. theyre not gay.  and 2. theyre married.  this could turn into an awkward situation!  But usually things are pretty obvious so dont really worry about that.  \n\nSo SMILE!  Ask questions, become interested in the other person's life, and when in doubt, smile and nodd!!\n\nNow have fun impressing your husband with your amazing social butterfly skills.  By the end of the night hell miss having you cling to his arm.\n\ngood luck but more importantly have fun!! :)
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Absolutely normal if you ask me... You're just not ready yet. My advice: take your time, enjoy flirting and don't put any pressure on yourself. It's not obligatory to date... it's suppose to be fun, remember?
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be smart, funny, witty and caring and stuff..... do everything but flirt with her... thats when they are on their guard and resist more.... this way, she'll keep wondering why u dont make any advances and be interested in u.... and this is when u make ur move.....sometimes the best way to flirt is not to flirt at all..... and the best trick of all- tease her unmercifully as much as possible without turning her off and without being mean... then spring a small compliment somtimes in the middle of ur conversation. keep the compliments rare and the teasing high.... she'll beg for ur approval after sometime....
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nice....sweet...intelligent...and good looking?  sounds good to me..dont worry about wont be long before the guys come flocking......btw you do seem kinda full of yourself though....might want to work on it.....the whole "i have a LOT of friends" thing made you seem a little too into being popular....
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Here's and idea, try just being normal instead of a high maintenance whiney butt!  Just the way you worded this question would turn me off.  You sound almost desperate.  \n\nYou say you are a "dirty blond with blue eyes" and you are "skinny."  For me, it's more about how a girl acts than about any one particular physical attribute.  A girl who knows what she wants and how to get it can be especially alluring.  By this I mean that you girls have a these special little ways of letting us guys know you are interested, without coming on like some cheap whore!  It's the little things you do that drive us crazy, things like moving in close enough to let us smell your perfume, flashing a bright smile, giving a coy little laugh, a glancing bit of eye contact, a gentle touch of your hand (especially on the upper arm, chest or abs) these are all things that send the right signals that you are interested in a guy.  When a girl has the self confidence to give the right signals without coming on like a tramp, that is very sexy and alluring.  \n\nSo, forget about your physical appearance and develop some self confidence.  I'm sure you will be pleased with the results.
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Flirt and see what kind of response you get.
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no.\nflirting is good.\n\nomg too funny! some people said yes!!!\nlol! how do you get "lust" from "flirting"?\n\nif i flirt w/ you, dont freak out, please trust me i dont want you.\nbut if you feel good from an innocent flirt, put a smile on or get a bounce in your step, what harm is that?
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Looks have nothing to do with being sexy, it's something else completely! You could start by practicing your flirting and take it from there! Talk and flirt with as many girls as possible even if you're not that interested. Take it from there. And remember that we all have our own definitions of sexy, so there be no telling who'll be attracted to you. Good luck!!
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lol im a highschool senior how perfect\n\nwell typically if your decent looking with a an ok social status and fun to talk be around one of the above can make up for the rest and make yourself avaliable to some guy.. you bagged him. mmm if you float the idea that there could be a relationship like discretely and jokingly in the conversation.. he'll think about it and say "wow this could work".\n\nas for signs i tease them alot lol and i usually talk really loud to my friends around her so its like giving my crush a preview of what im like or something\n\nyeah im sidetracking now! its pretty obvious from guys you feel lit you know it since supposedly girls are 10x better at being psychics than guys
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i am a flirty type...hey beautiful
259863
Once again the endless limbo.  Shoot and score my friend.  This hardly ends horribly.  Try a little flirting first if she flirts back its definite she has thought about dating you.  Women are very hard to predict.  If you really want to win her over do something romantic, flowers, anything fluffy and cute, or poems.  Whatever works women want to be comfortable make her feel it.  Best of luck and may the elements be with you
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I have 3 words for you. Flirt, flirt, flirt.  You have to come on to a woman for her to respond to you.  Think up some lines.  Think up some comebacks.  Like - when I say "Oh, I've lost a few pounds", you say "hey don't loose too much I like my women to have something to hold on to".. See how clever yet flirtatious..
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First and foremost, take things at face value. Believe none of what you hear and all that you see.\n\nApart from the flirting has he said or done anything to lead you to believe that he's still interested in you?\n\nWhat are the chances for friendship between you two? Could it be that, because you didn't have a 'knock-down, drag-out' break-up he still feels comfortable enough with you to pretend flirt -and isn't really making any moves? Have you ever asked yourself or thought that he might be playing games?\n\nRemember that in situations like this you are in the middle of an epic battle between your brain and your heart (and other parts, too, I'm sure). Question is, what part do you listen to? That's for you to find out. That's part of the adventure of life.
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Looking good will probably get you 20% of the way when talking to girls. So what about the 80% you ask? \n\nConfidence. Body language. Humor. \n\nDude, girls are regular people just like you and me. Talk to them like you would to one of your buddies, don't think too much. Life is short, be a man. It'll show confidence. And remember DON'T THINK TOO MUCH.\n\nAlways, I mean ALWAYS look them straight in the eye. Don't look at their boobs or lips or nose or whatever...they'll know. By looking them straight in the eye (without quivering) will let them know you are not intimidated by them. You are in CONTROL. Be a MAN.\n\nMake them LAUGH. Say something random and remember to always SMILE. Not in a creepy way but more of a natural way. Girls don't like sex jokes so forget about those. They like cute and harmless jokes. Find something regular you do everyday and exaggerate a little bit to make it funny. And remember to look them in the eyes when you are talking to them.\n\nYou'll be fine if you master these techniques. May you use them wisely...and DON'T LET ME DOWN!\n\nP.S. Be a MAN. Don't post any questions like these ever again. Shows weakness...and girls don't like that.