You see i'm 15 years old is anything wrong with that?He very shy and would play games with me but I don't know how to follow. He can be a little off sometimes but I still love him. Please can someone help me?????!!!!!!
214360
I think 15 and 20 might be a good match. Nothing wrong with that.\n\nEDIT:\n\nIf that's against the law that is pretty sad. In that case there is nothing wrong with it SAVE for it being against the law.
630104
how old are u first? and how old is this boy that u are talking about ? it sound like it is just puppy love between the two of u
421382
sound young to me. he needs to grow up. although i do not know what age you and your bo is but his action sounds like a young teen. tell him to take his toys home that your looking for someone more mature.
648010
Listen to your instincts.  Something says that he is a fickle, undecisive, and immature person.  Give him space to grow up a bit.  You never know.  He may change for the better.
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pssst, it's me.  We talked on YIM a lot.  ;)\n\nMy opinion was that you should see how 1 date goes.  If you both have a spectacualr time, then at the end tell him your age.  He won't care whether of not you're 15 if he enjoyed the date.  : )\n\n\nLet me know if ya need more help, Good Luck,\n-Alexis
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Why does it seem odd. And who cares? You like him, he likes you, whats the problem? Love is love no matter who its between. As long as hes not one of those 'oh look at me im so big' (when hes really small) type of guys. Cause most guys into that stuff are really concieted. Well im 14 and dont play sports, i write alot, poetry and songs, i play guitar, and i still get alotta girls(not to brag) and i bench over 220 which is really good but i dont brag like most guys do..If hes concieted, f u c k him.
95917
His age is not nearly so important as how he treats you.  Other people will probably be uncomfortable with it, but they will get used to it.  If he really cares about you, and not just your body, then it is not wrong at all.
588616
First of all if the guy is 7-8 years older than you (you are 13 right?) that would just be a problem.  Second...you have no clue about his history or life story.  You dont know the real him!  He could have a girlfriend...be married...and is obviously just to freakin old for you.  All of these things may be reasons why HE has never approached you!  Please honey...u are 13.  Are you not thinking about other things?  Ok let me give you some GOOD advice...he is 21...he is thinking about sex, all the time, you are 13....very bad right there.  Next....hopefully he is not even interested in little girls cause that would just be gross.  And just think about this next time you see this complete stranger...."Hmm...I have no idea who this guy is, he could be a rapist, woman (girl) beater, flat out jerk, married, have a girlfriend, or just be a plain old loser."  Hopefully this will stop you in your tracks.
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Sounds to me like you are 13 years old... give or take 1 year. Don't tell him you love him, that will only scare him, especially if he doesn't really know you.
76884
Are you fairly young? If so, I think he most likely is trying to achieve longevity. He wants to stregnthen the friendship first, then will move on to a more intimate relationship. When you are young you go through many relationships, or bfs/gfs. I'm sure he realizes this & wants this relationship to last. So, he is trying to create a stable foundation for a successful & lasting relationship. My husband "loved" me since we were 15 yrs. old. I refused to be more than friends until the age of 18. I loved him, but I knew the likelyhood of it lasting forever at 15 yrs. old was not good. The result...we've been happily married for 8yrs. now! Good luck!!
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nope- he doesn't know what he wants and he's too immature it sounds like- I went through the same thing.  Boys can turn on and off emotions in a pinch- (think about a situation where they should be crying, but aren't!  They can control their emotions- even love- better than we can) maybe he had a crush on you at one point, but he's just playing you now
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i don't think its love at all.... it seems like you have a crush and he wants to be friends with you. he is too old for you anyways. you are only 14 and 1/2 and he is too old. maybe it doesn't seem like it, but he is. of course he would talk to you he is a neighbor. neighbors always do that.  I'd say mutual respect. he may have a chrush on you, but wait till YOU are 17/18 to go out w/ him if you ever do.
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Aww honey thats just normal i guess?? no actually its not.\nyou have to tell her your underage.\nshes 21.\n\nand idk whats wrong with her.\n\nyour probably very charming.\nAwww :)
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abolutely nothing wrong with being a late bloomer.  The biggest worry i would have is his shyness about being with people who have already "spurted".  I didnt' "spurt" until i was 16, and believe me, i was shy, felt like crap.  shy to be with girls when all of the other 16 year olds had girlfriends.  Wasn't fun.  Wouldn't worry about it. just got to get past the shyness. or embarrrasment.  \n\nhey, as long as he's healthy. I didn't start growing taller until i was about 18 or 19.  Stopped when i was 25 or so.
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I was 11 once, so I can tell you that crushing on a 15 year old guy is way normal. But to be honest with I don't think I would of be able to handle a real relationship with a 15 year old when I was 11. I don't know you and I and I don't know her, I do know that most people would that you where abnormal guy just try to get with a girl you figured was easy. I'm not saying you are; I’m just saying that's what most people will think.\n\nI think if you really cared for her that you would never ever make her do anything she wasn't ready for, that you might be ready for. You don't want her to have to cut her childhood short or that will send you to jail. And even if she says, she is ready, she's not no one is ready at 11, 12, 13, 14, or even 15 years old, she will be just trying to please you. So, as long as her parents are okay with this and you respect her and understand she shouldn’t be ready for anything more than kissing for years to come, than you're good. I think that a lot people forget that two people can love and care about each other for years with out having sex. And that two people can connect with each other and be different not just in age and still find common ground.\n\nI do recommend you to take things slow with her, to respect her, and to remember that she may seem older to you in a lot of ways, but she and you are both just children learning and growing, and change.  Be a friend to her first and a boyfriend second.  Also, remember that not everyone is going to approve of this relationship if it's more than friendship, that's going to be very hard even too much for you and her to deal with. You might want to think about being friends for now and more than friends when she’s older. If it’s meant to be it will be, waiting might suck but it also might me the best thing for you both.
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yes!  he likes you, you already know this so stop acting like a five year old and go talk to him tomorrow at church.  it is ridiculous to send your best friend to go talk to him... i remember doing stuff like that when i was around your age, but i look back on it now -- i am 27--- like it was very immature and ridiculous.  don't make excuses for yourself that you are a wimp or too shy, just stand up for your own, and go talk to the kid, i promise that he will want to hang with you, it is pretty obvious.
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i suggest as a person who fell in love at the same age that i am now which is 15, dont fall in love. for me as a guy it ruined atleast half my future,so just dont go their at all in the first place. but idk what you should make him.