This girl at my school says she don't like black people(I'm black) and she smells REALLY bad is it a sin to tease?Also she always wants to start **** with everyone so we end up teasing her and she lives in her car.
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sometimes people are so down the only way they can feel good about themselves is to put other people down...and then that's the only kind of attention a person gets, they get used to it and it's better than nothing......sad, sad, life......If I were you, I'd kill her with kindness....I'd be nice to her until she cries.
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first-i am a brunette-that means black hair in this case-second-you so need a life, but i bet your 17-so figures.\nand if not-the horny part-ha-gets WORSE-trust me
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Does it make me straight if i like the smell of some hot chick who walks by me? No. of course not.  if you like the smell, it must be comforting in some way, so most people might not agree and think its gross, to hell with them. each to their own i guess!
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Unfortunately, Muslimah, someone will still take offense, no matter how kindly a question is asked. Some people simply have it in their nature to be unpleasant.\n\nYou, however, are one of those rare pleasant askers, and your questions are never offensive to anyone. If more people here were as thoughtful as you are, it would be a better place indeed. Have a wonderful day.\n\nEdit: for Acid above me...how dare you speak to a lady that way! You have just proven my point that some people are unpleasant simply for the sake of being so.\n\n***You are most welcome,Muslimah.Anything for you my friend
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well lokking at the situation i think the girls jealous of u. but she has no right to call u a whore coz she herself  is playing with so many. next time she says something like that act bitchy and give her a good argument sweetly .dont let anyone say things like that to u and if it continues why not spank her to death and more milder way ask her what her problem is. i think she is damn jealous.
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Well as you know, Black people rarely stick together.  According to our ancestry, we are all African by birth.\n\nI would suggest contacting the principal of the school and the other child's parents to have a sit down to rectify this situation.  Let the child know that is totally uncalled for.\n\nFurthermore, I would suggest that the child being slurred try to ignore the comments.  Easier said than done, but if one ignores foolish acts, it makes life a little easier.
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It is highly impossible to attain all the facts to prove that an entire race is bad. You are entitled to feel how you feel, but one bad apple does not spoil the whole bunch, so keep an open mind and don't be so quick to judge.  There is no written rule that says a person has to like everyone that they come in contact with, but at the very least being tolerant of someone that is different is essential.
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Your first question is about why people like to insult people's beliefs.  Simple: People like to insult.  Whether it's someone's beliefs or looks or intelligence doesn't matter.  The insulting is what people like. It's a quick and cheap way to feel big about oneself.  Now, to the rest of your question / analysis / religious convictions / complaints:  Simple.  We're human, and being what you think is right ain't always so easy, for you as well as for the rest of us.  Keep up your moral focus.  Keep yourself on track as well as help others, and maybe sometime we'll make it.  And then maybe we won't.  I can only pray to Jesus our Christ for such a time, and try to be Christian, as best I understand Christ, myself.  Good luck to your efforts, and, as a believer that Jesus our Christ is the ONLY GOD, I add, God Bless you.
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well, it depends on a lot of other things.  Since I know so little about you it's hard to say. They may very well be teasing you because of how you dress, that's pretty common, but there could be other factors as well. Most people get teased at some point during school regardless of what click they are a part of, but if you are in a click that is considered deviant you are more likely to get picked on frequently.  It's part of human nature to an extent to attack anything different.  When I was in high school I remember the goths and other "counter culture" types would always bad mouth the jock, and cheerleader types, the so called "popular" kids and vice versa.  Once you get out of high school you will probably encounter being teased rarely if at all.  The best way to deal with getting teased is to just not take it seriously, but of course that's easier said than done.
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There always seems to be girls like this in school. Her meanness will show through eventually. There was a popular girl in my college class once who everyone seemed to idolize. She was really mean to me. Invited everyone to a party but not me. At the end of the year party, which she couldn't attend, everybody let out all their anger and frustration about her. Seems I wasn't the only one she was mean to. I was kind of mad because it made my year awful and somebody could have told me. Anyway, hang in there. Don't do anything stupid. Her karma will get her in the end.
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Is he teasing you or calling you profane names? It really makes a difference. If he's calling you profane or horribly degrading names, tell a family member and ask for advice. If he's only teasing, talk to your sister and him about it. Get him to stop or completely ignore and avoid him.
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I see your view! But it is mighty funny how we see every other race trying to be like us. It seems as if almost everybody wants to be black so bad but yet they put us down. But I know why it's because we are unique we have our own style that some will never understand. Don't trip off of what others think about us just be proud that we have so many haters. We must keep on doing things to make them hate on us and continue to move on. But I also see the points of others some black people give off that vibe and make that reputation for us. But I don't because I know that I am not the stereotypical black person I am aobve others expectations of  what black people are.
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I think it is the fear of others thinking they are UN-cool, I know when I was that age, your body starts changing, you are painfully aware of your physical self, and others would make fun at anything that was "different" to them because no one wanted to stick out. For fear of getting harassed, girls where and are especially cruel about this. And for the comment made by Bianca, you obviously have no manners... duh.
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as an educated muliracial woman, i am offended by such comments.  i think comments like this are ignorant.\n\ndoes the person who says this mean to say that black is a behavior and that white is a behavior?  and if so, then that means that to be black is to be stupid and loud and to be white is to be intelligent and proper.\n\ndoes the person who says this mean to say that black people can't be smart, and that white people can't listen to rap if they want to?\n\ni think it's a disgusting comment and the people who say it have no imagination.  anyone can be whatever they want to be.
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I was just thinking about this issue the other day. I'm a teacher at a university and sometimes I walk into class and people will be glaring at me. I used to be a little insecure about it and think there was sometime wrong with me or I was doing something that they didn't like. However, as time went on, I realized that some people just have glaring expressions as their "normal" expression. Those students are always glaring, but it's not because their irritated, it's just how they hold their face. I don't let it get to me anymore. I would hope the same is true in your situation.\n\nAs far as the race question goes...people are people. There are nice people and there are jerks, regardless of their race. I've had people of all races be extremely nice to me, and I've also experienced the other extreme. I don't think the race issue is the case in your situation...unless you have a big confederate flag bumpersticker on your car. I would say just try buying your gas in a nicer area if it is a continuous problem.\n\nI hope I've helped. Remember that just because someone is mad doesn't mean their mad at you, you just crossed their path at the wrong time.\n\nAND...as much as you want to send a glare right back at them, it always makes the situation worse when you do. Just keep cool.\n...If this stuff happens to you often, maybe get some Mace spray and put it on your keychain.\n\nGood luck.
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satan your a moron, and she said she wasnt a racist!  Anyway, You dont have a mental issue, your just attracted to the people your attracted to. no big deal. as for white guys, we do that all the time, you r totally right for saying that. [but of course i dont rape people, and im honest, just ask my gf.]
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Based on the lack of information you've provided, it's impossible to offer you any insight into why life is so hard for you. As for taking insults and mockery from both your white and black friends, this is driven by their own insecurities in who they are and possibly even they're jealousy of who you are. You should just be yourself with respect to that. As for making life not so hard, I would be better able to give you advice and suggestion if I knew more about your circumstances at present.