this boy is dating a girl with a young daughter and i am worried about this situation. he is basically a lazy bum now.
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Stay out of their business.  They have a child together and this is what they should concentrate on.  You shouldn't even be concerned if they get along or not, because you are only the girlfriend.
603636
no Sarah you are not overacting the guy is a user and it is his 1st ex who is still being used as for her husband what a wimp. Your better off without him Sarah so good luck in the future and tell him your daughter is unhappy with the arrangements if it carries on making her unhappy get help to make the arrangement you want legal.
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If her parents are the ones getting in the way he should just try to be friends with her, and proove to her parents that he is a steady responsible boy.\n\nIf her parents are fine with her dating, but the girl is un-sure... well he should do basically the same, but perhaps he could broach the subject of dating a little sooner.\n\nBasically he should be respectful of her, and try to get to know her first, proove that he's in it for the long run, and that he really cares for her.
489203
you need to help that child get out of 2nd grade. come his a little to old.maybe if you wounldn;t get drunk you wont be in this situation. you cant judge someone by how they look. the child is yours and you should show him love. uncondition love. thats what a good father would of done. maybe you need to help someone else like him and stop being embrassed of what you created.
520379
sounds like your son is heading a guy life so be prepared
457549
Battling with the other half rarely does much good.  Just be the best parent figures you can for his daughter.  Try to keep a positive co-operative relationship between the girls parents.  Make a stand if and when you are sure you must, just be sure she will benefit from it more than she will lose or be hurt by the conflict between her parents.  She already been hurt a lot, no doubt.
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If either or both kids are girls, watch out.
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it is so sad... kids can be the worse ppl in the world\nyou have to talk with your son and let him know that those kids can not put him down and by trying so they will put themselves down.\nlet him know that those kids are very stupid and they have no brain in their big head to think with.\nand having a girl friend is not a big deal.... he has so much time and if he study hard and work to get a good education all girls will die to be with him\nsupport him but do not give him a hug and kiss in front of other kids at school...\nand may be you can talk with his teacher\nand one more thing try to make him a little football team out of school , may be they can play at weekends\nhe needs to be active\ngood luck
193906
I personally think this is a sweet story.  Your daughter appears to be a lucky little girl to have a daddy like you.
667974
He doesn't really love her if he likes someone else. He has to be respectful of her parents if he really cares. Her parents are doing the right thing and protecting her from major harm. What's wrong with being a concerned parent? When you are a parent, you will understand. I think it will all work out when he goes away to school. The relationship will fizzle and just as well. Except for a few exceptions, young relationships will not last. Stop worrying.
223529
no girl at 17 needs to be with a guy like that, i would sit your daughter down and have an adult conversation about if this is the type of life she wants, a guy who can't afford anything, shrinks responsibilities and screws around? come on tell her to have enough self respect to know that he is gutter trash and not worth her time!
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after seeing that your only 15... i think you shouldn't even be involving yourself in this relationship. No matter what his daughter will be his # 1. he shouldn't have to make up for time spent with his lil girl. your TOO young, go out and have some fun! your better off just being his friend.
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Yes. You need to communicate better with the son, and your girlfriend. If you tell someone you are going to be somewhere, but something comes up, call and say so. Perhaps the 2 of you weren't on the same page. You thought she'd be ok, and she thought you'd be with her. Nobody's wrong, you just didn't see the situatuion the same way. That's called life. Right now, or as soon as possible, go over to their house. Sit the mom and son down. tell them that you know they are feeling slighted, but they need to know that wasn't at all your intention. You were overwhelmed with responsibility at the time, and you should ALL do a better job expressing expectations. A SIMPLE CALL FROM EITHER ONE OF YOU TO PUT YOURSELVES "ON THE SAME PAGE". Even if you disagree, at least the other person will know where you stand and know that there was no bad intention. the son actually sounds like a pretty good communicator for his age!!! Tell them that you love them and you feel terrible that they were upset.Often, when we take the responsibility, it opens up the other person's eyes to the fact that this was not something that you should turn into a bad situation, and we are all human.\nBy theway, the $ issue. tell her exactly what you told us. tell her you'd love to lavish her like the queen she is to you, and give her lots of attention.
550859
You are gonna have a hard time until the kids are all older, and his job doesn't help with things...\n\nJust accept that at the moment, stuff isn't going to work properly and deal with that... As for sex, well, you are in trouble there...
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It is a good idea that he doesn't meet her till you are both sure where your relationship is headed. You don't want to confuse your daughter. Your daughter could also become attached to him and if you both decide to end the relationship it's one less thing you have to worry about.
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That individual must have some issues that we can't help him with. I am a single dad with 3 daughters under 9 so he is an idiot.