she tells ppl (esp. girls such as my 16 yr-old neice) to avoid marrying a guy like me. tells ppl basically I'm  a loser (my wife is a realtor and makes twice as much as I do). she tells ppl our house is her daughter's house. she does a lot of stuff i hate. simply put, she makes me think evil thoughts. btw, they're using me to get their us citizenship. i wanna report her badly to the INS as she's here illegally.
199080
Duct tape or a really really cheap nursing home
537448
not only that .. she can pretty much just decide shes bored with the marriage and take off with the kid .. force u to sell ur house .. and move in with joe-shmoe whos ten times richer than you while forcing you to pay her ... the laws need to be changed ... no way should a parent be able to just throw in the towel on a whim and leave with the kids ... if they want to leave without a judgement that the spouse their leaving is dangerous, an adulterer, or mental ... then they should leave empty handed period ...
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We all trapped everywhere, when I left Islam.. I really realized how Islamists terrorizing the world and control all over the world.. we can't talk even in America.\n I encourage you to help her and others...her husband who married second wife should be reported to police..it's illegal in USA. and she should move secretly to another place.  I think that's all what she can do. ah, why she stay with her husband if he is so bad like that and also marry another?
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I hope it wakes him up to see that any "comprehensive" plan is impossible to enforce because they are constantly going to try and find some way to show they are exempt....even if it means using their children as pawns.  Even abiding by the rules that the Senate wanted to pass, with the "path to citizenship", she would not have been allowed to stay here.  She was already deported,  had here stay extended.  She's failed at every legal move since.  Even with chances and reprieves she LOST....but still won't abide by the law.  She's 1 and you can imagine all the chaos when they all try their shot at it.  As far as I'm concerned she proved there is no way but strict enforcement to get these people out of here.  They just don't think they have the responsibility to abide by ANY law.  "For the sake of the children" burned out a long time ago.  To me this is the same as some thug holding his child as a shield from bullets.  She looking out for HER best interest.  They make it sound like their children will be taken away from them.  Some even go so far to say the kid couldn't make it in Mexico because they don't know Spanish and it would be stressful to assimilate.  They haven't assimilated here and don't seem to know English either.  All their "excuses" don't work.  They made the choices and any problems for their kids are THEIR fault not ours.  The kids are free to go with them.  If not, then sign them over to a legal guardian. Otherwise they can come back when they are of legal age and hopefully learn from their parents mistakes.  They need to learn that having children doesn't make them exempt from having to abide by the law.
200667
Sounds to me that she will do herself in with a lack of credibility.  Your only recourse is to make sure YOU remain credible - and keep people like this out of your life as much as possible.  She's got it in for you since you have the ability to see her bad side - and she's probably afraid you will expose her to others.  Some day something will happen where it will be proven to the higher ups that she is a liar and manipulator.  Don't spend too much time worrying about it though.  It takes away from your own life and gives too much to hers.
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Well, how well did her parents get along when they were together?\n\nYep, she's gotta add other people into the mix, and it's NEVER easy, but she's dealing with the same thing a billion people have dealt with before. Is she wimpy? No. She just hasn't found out yet, that she can handle anything life throws her way.\n\nShe's tough enough. She just has to dig deep enough to find herself. I talked a 6 yr.-old through a nasty divorce, in about 5 minutes. She knew what was coming, and how to prepare. A 12 can handle it easy. All she needs to know is that she can handle anything.\n\nYes (don't get me wrong), it's not fair to her, or either of her parents, that they made a questionable choice. But, when she goes up to either (both) of them, and asks, "If the only way to make me, was to get married to him/her,... would you take it back?" They're her parents. The answer is no. There is no one sane on this planet who would undo their child. They made a great decision to have her, and now they've got the good sense to get apart from each other, before they **** it up. \n\nI bet she's a good kid. Look out for her, and keep her that way.
408685
This person is a Idiot. Just like Bush, Cheney and Rummy. She has no clue at all just like Rush. Her books sell only to sheep lead by the ring in their nose like her. Must be allot of sheep buying her crap, she owns two homes one is $1.8 million. She got a $25,000 tax reduction on that home calling it her "homestead" exemption. That means she must live there over 50 percent of the time. The court papers I read indicate the locals in the Court House ask for that money back from her. It is a Felony to lie on a application for a tax exemption. She may not understand the law.
225470
OMG!!!!!!!!!! I hate her already. First, tell her no calls past ____ (fill in the time). Say it wakes the kids. Next, if she goes to the store for you, tell her you need the exact change back, because you are saving up for ____. If she wants her kids to play with the toys, let her know that she can have them come over and play, (just watch that they don't leave with them). You have to be upfront with her and let her know that you feel that she is taking advantage of you. Explain all of the reasons. Ask her if she would like to be treated that way. Let her know that your household will no longer support her alchol problem......if she sneeks three beers out the back door that is stealing. Alchol (misspelled, sorry) is a legal drug, if she feels the need to steal it.....then she has a problem with it. Also, tell her that you will not support her smoking habit. If she is bold enough to buy smokes with your change again, aks to see them, then when she hands them to you, put them in your pocket, and say "Thank you". I'm sure she will wonder what you are doing. Say that she bought smokes with YOUR money, there for they are your to keep. I bet she will never do that again. As far as her saying stuff to get your husband in trouble....Let's say she saw your husband look at another chick, if she comes to you saying that, say, "Was she ugly? Cause I heard ugly rubs off. Tell him not to look at the ugly ones." (LOL) And, about bumming toilet paper, why would your mom let someone live there if she can't afford the bare essential??? Sounds like you sis-in-law has a problem about getting something for nothing, no matter what it might be.
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Good job sweetie! If she had nothing to hide in the first place she would have told you about it, or not lie when you confronted her with it. If she didn't tell you because you would have gotten upset, then she should have not been doing it. Maybe you we her only one (meaning the only one to get her legal)for right now until she became a citizen.... then divorced you for the other man she lied about! I'm not saying that all men she talked to could have been potentially dating her, but be aware of her motives.. There are alot of things that I could get away with because my other half does not check up on me.... but why do it??? To betray him, loose his trust, or even potentially break his heart?? NOT WORTH IT!
551610
I would talk to both of my parents about the things this woman is saying.  It really sounds as if she is trying to get rid of you as a student by saying all these terrible things to you.  I'm not sure why your parents are willing to subject you to these ugly comments about them.  And I sure wouldn't pay someone who says those things to my child!  I hate to say it, but if you have to, you may have to tell your parents you would rather quit playing violin than have to deal with this woman.  I wish you luck.  You don't deserve to be treated like this!
407980
Worry.\n\nWhat type of respect is she expecting for herself with a picture like that posted in the first place. She obviously thought about whether or not she wanted it posted and decided to do it. She is advertising herself to perfect strangers for whatever reason she came up with for doing it.\n\nI am sure she had a good explanation for it, did she not?\n\nShe is also showing no respect for you, her husband.\n\nThink about it.
361147
Well, as long as none of your "personalities" is under the age of 18, she isn't doing anything illegal however, this feeling of shame is what is really bothering me.  Have you tried marriage counsuling?  Who are the three personalities?  Moe, Larry and Curly?  Or Huey, Dewy & Louie?????  Good luck with this at any rate.
195382
dude, if she is  bitching about $ then she doesn't love you! Did she love you to begin with is the question? Did she marry you thinking you were rich i wonder. Did she marry you for convenience...? I have to wonder about that too....sorry man but if she loved you she would not care if she was on a deed or not and wouldn't honder you to get the house remodelled when you two cannot afford it and lastly....she SHOULD be helping with the bills......she wants her cake and eat it too.....Divorce her butt! Tell her to find another life and tell her " I love you but not enough to put up with crap baby...bye". IF you say that you will see a turn around. You will be calling her bluff sorta speak....hahha she will fumble over herself so fast...trust me. Just do what you want of course...but know if you two bring a kid into this world....it will only get worse. Take care dude and good luck........You deserve better.
500093
I  think  you  already know what you  have to do.     In  the  first place  how  do you know -besides  what she has told you -  that  her husband was abusive?      One  way or other, it is  absolutely clear to anybody with half a brain  the woman is using you ...   and  using  her  own  children as a   weapon  against you  if you  try to  stand up for yourself.    Well,   the ONLY  thing  possible  for you to do..  unless you want  to   stand there meekly  and let her destroy what should be the peace and  tranquility  of your and your husband's  lives -  is  take a  stand  and Tell  this selfish, self-centered, self-serving piece of  garbage  whom you so unfortunately  have as a daughter,  that  you have already done all -  and in fact  more -  than you have  the means to do..   She is;pulling one of the oldest  games in the book  with those who feel obliged to fall over backwards for her  because of blood relationship   .....emotional blackmail.... and you have  allowed yourselves to  fall for it hook, line, and sinker.    Enough  already.    You  can't   "save the world"  and   those are  HER children,  so you  cannot  be held  responsible for  them  either.      You  have  already allowed this outrageous situation  to go on  waaaaay  too long,  and the  very behaviour that you have  described,  defines her   exactly for what  she  really is....  a  mean,  selfish, ungrateful,  freeloading opportunist  who needs  to be made to  hit the road  before  she  succeeds in  ruining   your  and your husband's  lives,  and  your health.
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Seems a little strange that you would post that. Agree with first answer seems like more than a question.  Did you just want to tell the world that she lives with a 39 year old...well you just did.  Hope if she finds out that the 39 year old is not an attorney or knows one because this could constitute harassment. Just a little friendly advice.
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This is long (I'm sorry).  But I just received it in an e-mail and I think it speaks pretty eloquently about "progressive" income redistribution.  Here goes:\n\nFather-Daughter Talk \n\nA young woman was about to finish her first year of college. Like so many others her age, she considered herself to be a very liberal Democrat, and was very much in favor of the redistribution of wealth. \n\nShe was deeply ashamed that her father was a rather staunch Republican, a feeling she openly expressed. Based on the lectures that she had participated in, and the occasional chat with a professor, she felt that her father had for years harbored an evil, selfish desire to keep what he thought should be his. \n\nOne day she was challenging her father on his opposition to higher taxes on the rich and the addition of more government welfare programs. The self-professed objectivity proclaimed by her professors had to be the truth and she indicated so to her father. He responded by asking how she was doing in school. \n\nTaken aback, she answered rather haughtily that she had a 4.0 GPA, And let him know that it was tough to maintain, insisting that she was taking a very difficult course load and was constantly studying, which left her no time to go out and party like other people she knew. She didn't even have time for a boyfriend, and didn't really have many college friends because she spent all her time studying. \n\nHer father listened and then asked, "How is your friend Audrey doing?" \n\nShe replied, "Audrey is barely getting by. All she takes are easy classes, she never studies, and she barely has a 2.0 GPA.  She is so popular on campus; college for her is a blast. She's always invited to all the parties, and lots of times she doesn't even show up for classes because she‘s too hung over." \n\nHer wise father asked his daughter, "Why don't you go to the Dean's office and ask him to deduct a 1.0 off your GPA and give it to your friend who only has a 2.0. That way you will both have a 3.0 GPA and certainly that would be a fair and equal distribution of GPA." \n\nThe daughter, visibly shocked by her father's suggestion, angrily fired back, "That wouldn't be fair! I have worked really hard for my grades!  I've invested a lot of time, and a lot of hard work! Audrey has done next to nothing toward her degree. She played while I worked my tail off!" \n\nThe father slowly smiled, winked and said gently, "Welcome to the Republican party."
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Seems like she is making some bad decisons Mom!  But you are allowing them and at the same time trying to restrict them!  You can't do both.  Hard mission as her Mother.\n\nAdvice:  She has made the transition from needy child to adult situations.  BUT, she is now back in YOUR home?  You can instill a curfew regardless of her age out of respect to the peace of mind in your own home.  Demand that she respect that!  Stick to it, or she should locate her own level of permission by moving out or the boyfriend needs to allow her to move in with HIM!  And he probally won't (let's hope) I don't agree with the 28 year old Father of 3 dating an 18 year old at all. \n\nYou absolutely can NOT balance what you want for your daughter and what she wants for herself.  Requiring a time frame for her to be home is different from when she was strickly under your wing.  \n\nThe rules change when she becomes a house quest, self sufficent and reliable to her word.    Sit her down, talk to her, explain your thoughts and concerns.  Give her the ground rules for returning home.  Give her a time frame for making her way back out of her parents home.  6 months should be sufficent.\n\nShe lies due to her feeling like an adult, but still answering to Mom.  Tell her she is an adult, but living with Mom, thus she does have certain obligations toward the family.\n\nI understand your anger Mom.  Give allowances, take no acceptions.