I'm falling in love with my bf and wanted to tell him so bad, but before I could he said it to me. You would think I would be happy but it kinda freaked me out and I dont know why. I feel like I love him too but at the same time...when he said it he looked vulnerable to me and I've never seen him like that...he's always been a hustla and now he says shit like I love you and it makes me look at him different.
210724
when the right time comes u Will know u just have to take chances and be prepared for the outcome if u never tell him u might jus regret it
343087
nope, apply common sense. Imagine that you were her bf & someone else was you. If he told her hat he loves her & she starts loving him and leaves you completely - you can imagine how immensely hurt and wounded you would feel.\n\nSo if you said this to her - you can understand how hurt and wounded her bf would feel. It is wrong, so get over it.
283917
Maybe you should explain your reason for saying it to him! He probably did freak a bit, you know how men get when the l word is mentioned. Speak to him and if he doesn't understand drop him he's an idiot and not worth your time! He should feel helluva complimented as you were in such throes of passion and orgasmic bliss that you blurted out the unthinkable!
585001
i think u might be over reacting just a little. if he's still telling u that he loves u then no worries. through the  days, months, years ppl change and that's wut he's doing . but the one thing that izn't changing is the love he haz for u.
14022
i dont know either maybe he isnt ready to really say it to you.he might also have things to worry about,but i know for sure that he doesnt want to lose you,because he is not saying it.u are proably right he does love you,might be to nervous to say it.im sorry that he is not saying it to you.maybe you should talk to him.dont rush him on talking to you,though.good luck!
133940
well itz ok to feel like that, i do that all the time and weird myself out sometimes. Itz going to be over soon. Just be comfortable with yourself and don't try to impress the boy. Don't act different when you are around him. You probably aren't in love, because if you were you would feel comforatble with him. You should get to know him better so you can be more comfortable around him. I'm sure everyone goes through this, it'll pass. DON'T WORRY. Don't avoid him, maybe you should tell him how you feel about him. But don't say, you think you love him. Just say you like him, and you'll know the rest. but know when to stop talking about your feelings,ok.
292169
well it was probably just a dream & didnt mean anything.but i would be worried too if i was in ur situation. if he actually said "i love u ____" then maybe u should talk to him about it.
433820
i had that same situation, my boyfriend told me "i wasnt flirting i was just being nice", from my eyes what i saw it didnt look like just being nice i got so mad that day, he  is still with me and says i love you,  my point is if he is with you still and didnt dump you for other girls that means he truly loves you.
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Bummer!  That is a shitty one!  \n\nOK so, it does actually happen.  Kinda like a slip of the tongue.  I did the same thing to my b/f once.  It really was NOT intentional!  Just kinda happened.  It feels terrible to be on the receiving end I know, but as long as you have made your feelings known to him, and he doesn't do it again - no harm, no foul.  However, if he does it again  -  find a new boyfriend because this means he has NOT got over his X, and it was NOT a slip of the tongue.  Give him the benefit of the doubt THIS time!\n\nMaybe you should also think about mentioning to your b/f that you are uncomfortable with the fact that he still sees his X (if he does) and that this is the reason you may have over-reacted (I am not saying you did - it's just a bit of reverse psychology that will make him feel better about himself)  to his blunder.  As long as you are open and honest about how you feel, he can't turn around at a later date and say he wasn't aware of your feelings.
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it sound like he does. my bf says the same thing to me and so far he's ment it. but, if your having a hard time believeing him, lay off the kisses or follow your gut instinct.\n If he ever does try to go farther than you want and he starts saying things like:\n i love you\nyour my everything\nwe can handle it....\n  I'm pretty sure thats the sign to leave him.\nBut from what ur saying, he hasn't tried anything like that. so i think u can trust him and u never know, he might really really mean it, just don't take any drastict measures until something really goes srong.\n\ngood luck!
498175
NEVER tell a man that you love him first! Not only can it scare him away but it shows weakness on your part! Let him say it first, it will mean so much more when he does. Otherwise if you say it and he says it back how will you know he truly meant it!
18421
Yes you can.... and no, it is not something that happens to everyone because not everyone has been in your shoes.\n\nThis is probably happening to you because you ARE in love with him. Does he know how you feel about him? Do you feel like he needs to know? How does he feel about you?\n\nCould you be feeling this way because you were/are hoping for more? And maybe you feel like more could have been said or done while he was there? \n\nCommunication is the key Hon.\n\nJust a few things to think about
65030
EITHER HE IS SCARED OR HE DIDNT MEAN IT....THIS GUY I KNOW HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME AND I KNOW THAT HE IS TELLING THE TRUTH HE'S JUST NOT READY FOR THE COMMITMENT. SO I'M JUST GIVING HIM A BREAK UNTIL HE CAN FIGURE OUT WHAT HE WANTS...ANOTHER THING YOU SHOULD DO IS TALK TO HIM LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND FIND OUT HOW HE FEELS BECAUSE THERE IS NO SINCE FOR YOU TO KEEP WASTING YOUR TIME ON SOMEONE WHO CANT MAKE UP HIS MIND..JUST GET IT ALL OUT IN THE OPEN SO THAT YOU KNOW WHETHER TO MOVE ON OR NOT
89357
I am going through the same deal, except I am no where close to the love part yet. It is difficult to lay yourself out on a line when your not certain they feel the same. I am beginning to understand you just have to take that plunge if you care enough that it worries you and your ready to express it. I need to take my own advice.
356102
yeh u can say it and say it 100 times over, but u mite not nessecarily mean it!the way2tell is by ur emotions and how you feel when ur arround him!his behaviour will say it all!consider all these things, has he lied2u, given u any reason2 doubt him!ul no if sum1 luvs u, cus theyl be sooo absorbed in u!if u have reason 2 doubt it then it probably wont be love, becus luv is unconditional and can be seen from miles off!although u are doubting it tho, doesnt mean he isnt in love with u!maybe he truely is and ur just wantn it2b tru luv soooo much that ur questioning it becus u cant believe its tru!ul no!hope this helps!
137494
Interesting, you should have mixed feelings. Of course you are going to feel terrible but his comments to you should make you feel a bit better. Some people live in dark when they are infatuated with someone.
446586
Sometimes in life actions speak louder than words. I want you to ask yourself why is it you need to hear him say I love you, why do you want or need him to say that. surely you are aware of his feelings. Some guys cannot say that but they do feel it . It's not about him being the emotinal type or not. It's about your need to hear those words. We cannot make others do or say what we want them to.  love is not about  expecting things from our loved ones it's all about acceptance being aware of each others needs and healthy communication based on honesty etc. so maybe you two need to have a really open honest talk about what each others needs are and what you both can do for one another so that each of you feel loved and appreciated without feeling like you are being to pushy demading or emotional.\n\nBe honest with yourself about your feelings and when you both chat togehter do so without judging one another. enjoy the time you have together making the most of your time and energy and never for one minute take each other for granted. Good luck with everything in life.  Sometimes in life we need to allow ourselves to think differently to improve ourselves and our life in general.