I love my boyfriend but he is the biggest jerk. He works all the time and that is fine but so do I, and on the one day that we both have off he decides to go fishing with his friend. "Hello I like to fish too", thats what I told him and he said oh well there isn't enough room it's only a two person boat. Well they could have went and just fished off the bank like they usually do. What should I do?
198958
Get a boat and take your friend to the same place the dudes are fishing.lol
373038
I wouldn't be his back up. That is what it sounds like. He keeps her incase you 2 dont work. I duno whats wrong with him. He sounds like a catch. Not. I feel bad for you. What an ass.
346996
are you kidding me no matter how great he seems what kind of  jerk wold do that? he is a total waste of your time if he will do it to you once he will do it to you again.are yuo still freinds with your friend? i wouldnt be why would you even know these people? maybe you should go if you want to but i dont see why your even with him anymore.
268416
If you already told him, great, if not than do so, but just dont put pressure on him or on yourself, let this happen naturally if he doesnt react to it maybe he's not interested and you should try looking the other way for more fishes...
270599
He will never stop loving you. There isn't anything you can say that will stop that. You just have to keep letting him know that nothing can or will ever happen between the two of you. You value his friendship too much to jeopardize that. Tell him that boyfriends come and boyfriends go. You don't want that to happen to him. Friends are forever.
269622
we are going through same situation.  my boyfriend is scheduled to ride a ship this next week and be a seafarer.  we won't see each other for about nine months.  the worst thing is there are a lot of temptations in a seafarer's life.  I know that's why it's really hard for me to take the reality everyday.  I have no choice.  All we can do is to trust the guy we love and believe them with what they are saying.  We have no choice anyway.  Just think possitively and remember that it's part of God's plan.  And whatever they will do, whether they remain faithful or not, it's their choice.  They must just be ready for the thing called "karma".
652256
I believe this "boyfriend" is a looser and you should dump him.  He sounds quite selfish and immature.
631389
Please help ?  Poor, pitiful Pearl.....  clearly you AREN'T "committed to a guy" (but what the heck, you tell him about your obsession with this other idiot and he doesn't break up with you, one has to wonder what the hell is wrong with HIM?)  You suffer from the "I-Can-Save-Him" Syndrome....all he needs is the love of a good woman!!  What a bunch of crapola.  You already know that this guy has fooled around with other women - thereby cheating on his girlfriend (he confessed to this) - and you have said that "every word that comes out of his mouth" is a lie.  Oh, right - but he said he loves you.   Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight.  And so that is enough for you to debase yourself with such an idiot.  You are right - you DO pity him.  But you mistake that for love and, honey, it's not love.  It's not even a reasonable replication of love.  IT'S PITY!!!!!!  Leave him and his protestations and his fake declarations of love alone and pull yourself out of this hellhole of stupidity.  Leave him to some stupid girlfriend who also holds onto him (ever wonder why she continues to keep him in HER life ?  What do you suppose he is telling HER about how he loves?  How much pity do you think she is feeling for him these days ?)  Leave him to his shallow "I-Am-A-Victim-Have-Pity-On-Me-And-Love-Me" routine.  Have a little pride, girl - if not for you, then for the rest of us!!!
133803
Let him go.  It sounds like he is running scared. If he really wants you, he will be back. In the meantime, move on. There are other fish in the sea. You deserve the best.  IN the meantime, enjoy.
548958
Your boyfriend is lying to you.  You have to either accept someone as a friend, or add them yourself.  I think you should just dump his loser butt and get rid of him.  You deserve better than some liar.
461284
Wow, I'm sorry but...what? I don't understand hardly a thing that you wrote. Please fix your writing next time. Anyhow, from what I can tell? Dump him. There is to much drama in this relationship for what's it worth. You deserve a guy who respects you and you deserve the best. We all do. Good luck and God bless.
545985
You wrote that all you want is to be friends, but later state that you want to get back together with him.  It is best for both of you to leave him alone.  It is tough to move on, but just remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.  You're gonna be fine.
540622
Your guy has too many girlfriends.  Don't accept it - move on.  He has way too many things pulling his attention from you.  Love is a passive emotion - we all love lots of things and people.  If he can't walk the walk he needs to go, and please don't try to force him to do what you want through guilt or "but you said you loved me!!" hysterics.  He has a child and that should be his number one priority.
292339
Ditch the jerk. He has no respect for you. If a guy wants to see you he will call you. If not then he has other things going on. Stop wasting your time and go have fun with someone else.
194315
Dump him the jerk!  Why wasting your beauty on some jerk who doesn't appreciate you?  My advice: you should love yourself more and go out with someone who treats you right.
378560
please listen to me..MOVE on..get a new one or two new guys as your boyfriend and NEVER EVER go back to this guy again not even in the future if eh come crawling back..he is not a nice person and if you let him..he WILL hurt you again...and again over and over again...so why let him..move on..like they say..there are plenty of fish in the sea..go out and catch you a few ...\n\nhe is NOT worth it..and from this day forward..he IS a stranger to you..do not even talk to him EVER. make believe he is actually invisible, you CAN not see him, do not LOOK  his way at all\n\ngood luck\nsmile\nyou can do this.....
21659
Is this a trick question?  Find some one else to like ... if the guy you like "hates" you, why would you bother??  Why would you bother exploring ANYTHING with other guys that you hate?  Tons of fish in the sea!!