he is 2 years old and he has challenged me for a fight and i've accepted the challenge .....but i am only six months old...??\n\nnow what should i do??
208862
Well kick him in his little nuts and then curb stomp his face into the floor.
239061
Sounds like you're going through some tough situations.\n\nNO ONE has the right to hit you or abuse you-- if this is happening, you need to seek help.  It sounds dangerous for you and your children.
178577
thts bad, i'd say tell him firmly that if he doesnt stop,his privileges will be curtailed.Spanking or hitting him will only make him more stubborn.
264305
Drop him now! Report him to the authorities. There is *NO* justification for violence, if you don't kick him away now you will regret this for the rest of your life.\n\nI can't overstate this: THROW HIM AWAY LIKE GARBAGE. NOW!
355999
what an idiot.... he is hanging on to unresolved issues.. probably that you moved on and lived great without him.. He's a bully, and he no longer, and hasnt for ages had any hold on you, but being a bully, still feels the need to hurt you, IGNORE HIM at your sons graduation, he dosnt exist, its a shame you have to be at the same venue, at the same time, maybe just a nod in acknowledgement, nothing more, dont, for gods sake get into a convo with him, he will try and bring you down, cause he's still an arsehole, and that will make him the WINNER, cause his bullying has worked again... so IGNORE HIM....please
102208
I would suggest taking a Martial arts course and learn to fight.Also letting the police know about him is a good Idea
325022
Been there and done that .....   :( all i can say is do not let him manipulate u and i do not know the childrens ages but can tell you that kids change their minds quite often and things will surely work out  ......  good luck
480540
How old are you...ignore him, dont go down to his level!...;
60862
I am a parent but I only have six years experience.  Still, you need to kick his little a** out.  I know he is your kid, but dang.  He is taking you for granted, you need to teach him how to take care of himself.  What is he going to do when you aren't there?
597869
you are doing the right thing. if you let him bully you where do you get into the same house with a moron? if he's willing to hurt his children to get back at you he's just as bad a dad as he is a husband. stick up for yourself and dont take his crap.
182694
The only reason he would show up where he knows you're gonna be and then ignore you is to play with your head. I say you are better off with out him and stay strong. I know it hurts now, but it will get better. Remember, if he hurt you and made you cry on purpose then he isn't the one worth your tears. Find a new hobby like a self defense class or maybe take up karate. Something that you can excel at and feel better about yourself. Something that will make you strong in body and in spirit. Go out with friends or better yet, have a sleep over. You're never too old for a good pillow fight. I have been where you are. You will get past him, I promise.
197942
Just listen to his advise...consider it..and make your own decision. His ideas may actually be good. Ask him nicely to please watch his language in front of the child.
304240
Oh for goodness sake!!! HOW old are you!? Are you really unable to sort your own life out? Kids need disipline. If you don't want you're man to be moody, tell them to fight elsewhere! Dependant on their ages, have you not tried teaching your kids correctly about how to behave in this society?? A smack probably wouldn't be out of place either!\nSend them to bed early if they won't stop fighting and if that won't happen, you've not done a good job at parenting, sorry!
620813
Use logic and build an argument for your cause, kind of like a lawyer would. Don't let the fight get emotional from your end. Approach them rationally and ask if you can sit down and talk and then present your case. Explain that you think you are old enough to chose for yourself and give examples to prove it. \nSometimes it is hard for parents to let go a little. They want to protect their kids and keep them safe and it can be hard to let your kid make his or her own decisions and learn on their own. \nGood luck.
410897
It takes TWO TO FIGHT.\n\nYou gotta figure out what you want.\n\nHe's not going to keep coming back to you if it's all confrontation.\n\nThat gets old no matter HOW tough a guy is.\n\nHe will go looking for someone he doesn't have to fight with.\n\ngood luck....
555610
Be supportive. If you attack him (verbally or any other way) you put her in the position of defending him. It happens every time. \n\nThe first two years of a baby's life is the hardest on a marriage (statistically) and when the most divorces happen. I think your hands are tied and all you can do is let it play out, and be there when it ends to pick up the pieces. \n\nWho knows .. maybe they will get some sort of help and be able to work it out. She has to decide for herself.
135811
You try not to fuel the argument. Even if he's yelling at you, keep quiet. In due time maybe he will realise what mistakes he's making, if he doesn't I guess he is not worth it.