He get sparanoid that iam looking through his phon elocks me out of it and parnoid that i AM GOING THROUGH HIS WALLEY PARANOID ABOUT THE COMPUTER, HE YELLS ALOT AT ME HAS MOOD SWINGS HAPPY ONE MINUTE MAD THE NEXT, I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT HIS DISIRDER IS, DOES ANT ONE KNOW PLUS HE DRINKS CONSTANTLY
208465
I agree that he should not be drinking and taking meds at the same time deadly combination!!! Now for you and your son need to GET OUT OF THE HOUSE!!!!!!!!! Your husband needs help the best way to get the right help for him is to have him admitted to a hospital so correct meds can be given and he can be monitored properly. UNDERSTAND YOU ARE IN DANGER AND SO IS YOUR SON UNFORTUNATELY YOU HUSBAND MAY HURT YOU OR CHILD OR BOTH TILL HE IS PROPERLY MEDICATED AND GETS PROPER COUNSELING
36563
I can't stand how he always asks me, What's wrong? when I tell him nothing, he thinks I'm lying even though nothing is wrong maybe I'm just tired of stressed out thinking about things that are going on at the moment or whatever. He always acts like I am mad at him or something and I won't tell him what he did wrong.
513788
If you were excessively drunk your speech was probably slurred and your whole persona would have been altered. I'm sure he would have been able to tell that you were not yourself. But be careful, he might think you drink Too much.
395967
The guy is a control freak. I have been in similar situations myself. good for you for trying to break free get councelling but please realise it may take years to undo all the psychological damage he has caused you.\n\nYou can only truly break free with professional councelling so please do that for me because i know what it's like.\n\nGood luck, you deserve happiness. :-)
249576
You really need to send him to a good psychiatrist. This is something that is really dangerous. If he gets too crazy, he might turn out like one of those kids who kills people at school or their parents.
637877
Well he could be psychotic, or he could not like you very much and is playing a game or he could be a skitzo or he could've gone through some major trauma and have head problems either physically or now he just has skitzo tendancies or he could be this- DID YOU KNOW THAT MEN HAVE HORMONE CHANGES EVERY HOUR? THAT MUCH LIKE OUR MENTRAL CYCLE THAT HAPPENS ONCE A MONTH WHERE OUR CHEMICAL BALANCES CHANGE THEIRS CHANGES 24 TIMES IN A DAY-it still doesn't give a guy a reason to be a jerk!
126313
have you taken him to the doctors yet for now if he cant hold any thing down  you realy need to get  drinks in him  if he wont drink any thing   get him pideolite ice pops  hel like thoses and it willput back what he looseing you need to try  and get 4 ounces of drinks in him  every four hours or he could die  from looseing so much drinks call your doctor
30572
To me if he keeps playing with you he dosen't take you seriously. Or maybe he's just afraid to tell you what he is really feeling. You should have a talk with him and just lay everything on the tableto see what's really going on.
56532
I think you're right, it's all about him and that's not fair to you.  Not sure what to think about him having an anxiety attack while on the phone with you, sounds kinda weak and shows that he's not very capable of coping.  Go get you someone with a spine.  Don't beat yourself up too much either, it sucks and it's all screwed up, but sometimes ya gotta do what ya gotta do.  So, hope for the best but prepare for the worst.  Good luck.
328366
MAYBE HE IS BI-POLAR OR MANIC DEPRESSANT. THEY GET VERY PARANOID TO WHERE YOU DO THINK THEY ARE ON DRUGS. GET HIM TO A DOCTOR AND GET TESTED.  GOOD LUCK!
297149
is he mentally ill or dependent on chemicals? are you? he may be embarrassed to contact you.\ncall the police or a private investigator. and to calm your mind, you should pray or meditate.
203188
Do you honestly feel that he could be violent? Was he ever threatening and violent with you?\nBi-Polar (manic depression) causes periods of extreme down moods followed by extreme highs. It won't cause him to be violent unless he already has it in him and you will know deep down whether or not he has got it in him.\nI know you are exremely worried. The only thing I can say is to try and keep an eye on the situation and maybe keep a record of the phone calls and any other abuse she may recieve. The more you have the more the police will help in these situations if it comes to that.   xx
170502
Sounds like he's way jealous that you're not a fat drugged out alcoholic.  I really wouldn't suggest stooping to his level to insult him, you sound like you're better than that. He's just bitter and insecure.
664466
Sounds like you should find something else to drink...seriously.  Any reaction could get worse.
482164
If a group of you can sit down with him and tell him he has 2 choices\nHe either goes immediately to treatment and afterwards he must remain sober (go to AA, too)......or\nYou will have to go over his head and report him.  It's ruining your department and you all are NOT going to take the blame for his behavior.
336160
This is a symptom of an obsessive-compulsive disorder.  Have this person visit a doctor, go with him/her and explain to the doc what is happening.  It's psychological...like having to "line up" all the canned vegetables according to size and alphabetize them...my brother in law does that.  There are medications that help with obsessive disorders, which is what this sounds like.  Of course the person is going to deny that anything is wrong.  But to treat a problem, you first have to realize that there IS one and WANT to work on getting better.  My husband is an alcoholic...he will slug down 6 drinks of Seagram's in 90 minutes, but if I ask him how many drinks he has had he will ALWAYS say "Oh, just one or two".  They are in denial, and people in denial are hard to treat.  Be gentle if this person is a family member or good friend....otherwise try to look past that and tell yourself it isn't your problem.  Good luck!
350066
He's a bully. If you stay with him, get used to a life of walking on egg shells. I bet he was "sorry" later and tried to tell you he didn't know what made him do it, or said you "made" him do it.  It's not a mood swing, it's a precursor to more verbal and emotional abuse.