me and my boyfriend been together for 3weeks and he found out about the relationship and he broke up with me but he tells me all the time how much he loves me and also we still make plans to go out and he tells me that we are going to get married too. do you think that he really broke up with me or hes just saying that.?
201930
I believe he's just saying it.He probably needs to clear his head.If you get him back,please tell him everything because he sounds like a good man....
206414
you were right. you shouldnt lead him on if you dont feel the same way. the same thing happened to me with my boyfriend and he respected that those feelings hadnt developed for me. eventually i knew for sure that i love him, so when i told him he knew it was real and not a cop out. honesty and trust are the most important things in a realtionship, so never lie.
504087
wow, that's a tough one..  it sounds like he is sort of taking you for granted..  like he's settling for you because he can't have his ex..  you need to show him that you're not to be taken for granted and that he needs to appreciate what he has.. they broke up for a reason, remind him about that too..   it sounds like he's just wanting what he can't have..  maybe if you break up, he'll want you more because he can't have you..
638113
I would see where things lead. And if it end up that you two break up for awhile it will be okay. I am going through a break-up right now. My ex did it because he needed time to himself to figure himself out, that sort of thing. He still loves me.\n\nMove on with your life. Moving on doesn't mean that you don't still love him or that you might not get back together one day, it just means that you're moving on. You can't waste your life waiting on someone who doesn't know what they want.\n\nI wish you the best and remember if you're supposed to be with him you will be.
247430
He may still like you deep inside, so he's afraid that he may fall for you again? Why broke up with who, and what was the reason for it? Were you friends before you started dating? It's always a good thing to make a promise with your significant other that when/if you two brake up, that you will be friends like you were beforehand. Talk to him and ask him; see what he says. I know, its EXTREMELY hard to get guys to open up, that being part of the reason. But it never hurts to try.
162331
Did he give you a reason for the break-up?  I'm thinking that he doesn't want to rush into another relationship right now because he is still nursing a broken heart and doesn't want it broken again.  Give him so time.  The good news is that he still keeps in touch with you. Let him know that you're still interested and let him call the shots unless it looks like he's calling all the wrong plays.  In that case, put your foot down and tell him that you want him back but you agree to take it slow.  Let him know that you love him and don't want to hurt him.
198828
My boyfriend and I got together and less than 2 weeks later we moved in together, and we were talking about marriage after 3 weeks, he is my soul mat e, my whole life, and my futurte husband, we have been together for 2 years and we have had our bad times, really bad times, but it doesnt make me love him, or us any less, so what Im trying to say is, if your ready and he is the one, you will just know, nobody else can tell you when you are ready except for your heart, dont listen to your head so much, i mean listen to it just follow your heaart, you know what is best for you...I wish you the best of luck and hope it all works out for you...xxx
399742
He told you how he felt. You cant change or control him and thats what your trying to do. He was honest with you cuz you asked him to be. Theres nothing more to it, you are now broken up and have been so theres no more relationship. He doesnt have to answer to you for anything. He has every right to have a date if he wants just as you do. You are trying to control something beyond the break up and all that will do is prolong any hurt for YOU, not him. Move on and forget the friends thing for now. Maybe down the road but now you need to let go of it all.
445151
she sounds like she is just telling the truth.  It is just fine I mean she broke up with him so she could hook you and him up.  I mean it is not like he broke up with her and then asked you out and your friend was heart broken.
94306
I can assure you that that is no way to be sure if he is the one or not. He might be just saying those things that you want to hear. You are interested in settling down and get married so he is saying so, and he might leave you when he will finish using you. Keep that in consideration.
432928
Seems like he's still a bit emotionally attached but not ready to jump back into a relationship. I'm not sure if this means he's in love with you still, or if he's just having trouble letting go, but either way he seems just as confused as you.\nIf I were you I'd confront him. See what his deal is, and hopefully you can work it out.
313867
CAN I ASKED YOU A QUESTION \n\nWHAT DO THIS MEAN WHEN YOU BE WITH SOME ONE FOR 2 YEARS AND YOU HAD TOOK ALL OF HIS WORDS ON THE INSIDE AND SAYIN HE LOVE YOU AND HE WANT TO MARRIED YOU   AND NOW 2YEARS YESTERDAY WE WENT TO THE MOVIES FOR THE FIRST TIME TOGETHER AND WE HAD SET IN THE BACK NOBODY COULD'NT SEE US I PUT MY HANDS AROUND HIM AND HE WANT LET ME HE SAID HE'S NOT READY FOR ME TO DOD THAT AROUND PLUBLIC   TEARS JUST FALLING FROM MY EYES RIGHT NOW. BUT ANYWAY HE SAID HE'S CONFORTBLE AROUND GAY PEOPLE BUT NOT AROUND STRAIGHT PEOPLE AND ITS WAS DARK MANNNNNNNN I MEAN IT BEEN FUCKING 2 YEARS AND I DID'NT HEARD THIS SHITED BEFORE HE WANT TO MARRIED ME PLEASE TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO HE'S ON HERE TELL PEOPLE AND THEY SAYING HE NEED TO BE WITH GIRL AND THEY WERE SAYING MAYBLE IT'S NOT MENT TO BE
224968
Wow! All that happened in a week? It sounds like he's just as confused as you are. Most people don't hang out with somebody they just dumped. How can you be cheating on somebody that you don't have a relationship with? I think you need to wait a week or two to see how it goes. It sounds like the first few steps toward a friendship. It doesn't go easy when both parties are insecure. Just remember as the girl you are the prize he has to win over not the other way around.
437954
i think he likes you but wasn't ready to make a big commitment after his last break up. so that's why he said he just wants to be friends! and next time the subject comes up on IM just say you do like him. i hope everything goes well!
612997
Okay first of all since the break up nothing has changed so I'm assuming that you all are still intimate with one another and you're still arguing like lovers do.  The only thing that's bothering you right now is that you don't have that "TITLE" anymore as lovers which means that he can do what he wants and so can you.  So basically this dude is getting his cake and eating it too served on a silver platter with a platinum fork.  Do not allow him to question your where abouts every time especially if he's doing it in a "boyfriend" way.  I mean at this point he's looking at the situation and saying to himself " Why get back together when breaking up with her is just the same plus I get to mess around and not be faulted for it" Does it makes sense to you now!!! Lay down some rules and set boundaries within your relationship as friends and I guarantee you he'll miss that feeling as being your boyfriend and coming running back, it never fells.
392015
What makes you think the Jed wants to be your boyfriend?  Maybe he just wants to sleep with you.  You know that he just broke up with his girlfiriend, right?
330305
His feelings are hurt.  He probably still likes you and realizes he made a mistake breaking up with you.  Give him some time.