My man doesn't think we have true love.  He thinks we are great in bed blah blah blha we can have fun togehter but we are not in love.  waht does it mean
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true love means when you love a person and a person loves you back, that person will risk their lifes for you, but I dont think that you and youre man are feeling that connection. maybe you will find someone better for you because life isnt all about sex.
610423
This happens alot in relationships and its completely understandable. Its nothing to do with lack of love. \n\nMaybe you two just need to bring something "exciting or new" into the bedroom to spice things up.\n\nJust simply talk to him about it.
191675
Well like you already say... You have been together for months but it feels like it has been years? Could that mean that perhaps everything went pretty quick and you guys have moved fast? Maybe he suddenly realizes that and is wondering about it? Maybe things are becoming more serious and he is scared to take on the responsibility that it brings along? \nIn fact there is not enough information to know what is wrong with him. or if there is anything wrong at all, maybe it is a period he is going trough, for all I know it could even be he cannot love himself yet or love his own life at the moment, which scares him to get involved with someone else her life as well.. \n\nAdvice him to read "art of loving - Erich Fromm" read it yourself as well, it is pretty interesting, I learned a lot from it about how to love and so on..
371754
You're in love.. that's good. Why question yourself of your feelings? Enjoy that love. :)
176802
It means it's time go get busy!\n\nHe is just a bit too shy to tell you how he feels. Perhaps you are too.
43232
It (probably) means that it wasn't meant to be. You two have lived it up and have produced two lovely children. I'm sure the both of you love them more than life itself. But perhaps that's where it ends...It seems like you have tried everything. Hell, you even went to counseling. Good job on both of your parts. You two want it to work. Maybe you're going through a phase? Maybe you should spice things up a bit. Join a club together, join together in a new sport, go hiking, camping, maybe you could spend less time with each other. Mabe ALL you need is a BREAK. C'mon now...16 years together. THAT tells you something. It cannot just stop like that. Do not give up. There is a reason why the two of you are together. There is a reason why you met, why you got married, why you decided to create children. Reminisce together about the days when you were younger, the crazy things you guys did for each other, the first time you told each other 'I Love you', etc. Do not give up. If it's an attraction/physical thing, work it out (Literally). Get sexy, make him look at you like you're the hottest thing to have walked this earth. It's not over sweetie. I believe in you guys.
473483
It means she's not in love with you like she should be to a potential husband.
202766
It sounds as if you are a bit confused, Look at yourself, what this individual likes in you, what about you attracts him.when you find out then you can be the person he loves don't be pushy, give him space make suggestions, never dictate. Ask for his input in things you both do together. Be a lady not a woman, The times you both spend together should not necessary be quantity but quality, find out what turns him on be caring and loving but don't be too frivolous. Give him things to always think positive of you, Be honest in all you do and say
477126
He does not love you,nothing indeed.Find a a man, who will love you indeed.
12103
If he already tells you he loves you, you should be thankful. It takes a lot for men to admit to their feelings and just because they don't say them as much as we would like, doesn't mean they don't feel them. As long as he's showing you he loves you, you are good! And I can totally understand how you feel about wanting to spend more time together, but you just have to make the best of the time you do have together until you reach a point where things are better.
468681
That is a hard question. When you say love what kind of love do you mean? Some people say love and get it confused with lust. If you REALLY love him and if he is interested in you or loves you as well then I wouldn't think there is anything wrong with it. As long as you respect the fact that he should obey his vows he makes to god and stay within the boundries of a holy relationship and leave out the physical for marriage. If not I would have to say it is probably not love you feel but lust or else you love him for what he represents.
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If you guys haven't been together that long then probably. Men also tend to say things because they  sound good. There is really no telling in this situtation. And another thing, sorry to say it, he could just want sex, and feels he will get it if he says he loves you.
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To Ron C: That is English. So if you do not understand, maybe try not to give no meaning answer. 2 points are not worth cheating.\n\nAnswer to the question:\nLove is a simple word, but it has complex meaning. Love is a very strange word that you can say it a thousand times and never really mean it. Or say it none, but there is love in you. Love is something in you. Once you feel desperate for just a hug or a kiss, empty and lonely when the person not around you, heartage and angry (almost dying) when the person with someone else... No scientist or genius can define what love is or when you are in love. But, there is a simple rule: follow you heart. Also, notice that love is sacrify. When you love someone, you can not ask to be loved in return, although it is much better to get return.\nSo are you up for for it? Do you think you are in love? Do you have feeling for him (strong and strange feeling)?\nI do not agree that thinking about someone means you actually love him. My suggestion would be you reconsider and revalue very carefully before you trick your mind and your heart.\nAlso, you may want to change "one guys" to "one guy".
66417
sounds like he cares a lot about you but is NOT in love with you. you are the best thing in his life right now, the only thing he is sure of and now he is going to lose you. have no regrets about it; you followed your heart and those actions never need to be explained or appologized for. don't worry you'll always be cool, just don't confuse those moments to mean anything for than that and i think you'll be fine. Don't forget to get your ring!
351489
you're definitely not in love. its all infatuation. would caution u to think twice before making such decision (to marry). when u have doubts, don't do it.
547550
have you stopped to think that maybe u're suffocating the poor guy? I felt so claustrophobic just by reading about ur issue! Before u can 'love' someone u have to start by loving urself because it seems like without this guy u feel as if u're worthless. Love is not clingy. Love is not insecure. Happiness is not dependable on men alone. If this guy was able to 'love' u at one point...what makes u think the next best thing isn't? Take care girl!
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If you love him, then you're not using him. If you juist have him around because he's caring and generous then you are. I don't think he's so afriad of losing you as he is a sweet natured man who loves you and appreciate you enough to treat you like a queen. How lucky you are!!