I know a guy and i think i have deep feelings for him but i dont want to.should i told him
201792
tell him. Tell him exactly how you feel; it might go well or not but you will always be guessing if you dont.
217169
girl i've been there and done that. I think the best thing is to just let him talk to you. If he already knows how you feel then i would just let it go for now.  If its meant to be then it will be
243561
I think you should tell him. If you have feelings for him then don't hide that from him and don't hide it from yourself most importantly. This very well could be what you are looking for. In a world with so many people and so many ideas its a good thing to find some one you are compatible with. Just let him know that you want to take it slow. In my experience slow and easy always takes the race. \n Also I think you should take and weigh everything out. What are the good things to making this go further and what are the bad things. There is an upside and a down side to every flip of the coin. \n Very best of luck.
28724
If you like him you should tell him. Although sense he has a girlfriend you should prepare yourself for him not wanting a relationship, but at least if he knows you like him maybe he will look to you if his current relationship does not work out.
83388
I understand, but I think you'de ought to tell him that you really like him, but don't want your friendship with him and you to break... Break it to him gently, but say you still want to be his friend. Do what your heart tells you!
669586
WELL IF YOU REALLY LIKE HM THEM YOU BETTER LET HIM NOW HOW YOU FEEL CAUSE I MEAN HE ALREADY DID ENOUGH BY ASKING YOU HOW YOU FEEL. TELL HIM BEFORE YOU LOOSE HIM.
220701
Maybe you need to back away b/c your sense of judgement is clouded by feelings for him and you are not open to having just a friendship with him yet! You need to tell him how you feel and just back up
213820
Go for it!!!!! You'll never know what will happen until you tell him how you feel.He could be debating the same thing right now if he likes you too.In my opinion, its better to have told him and he said no, then to have not said anything and have never found out the truth. So, I say go for it. I mean, you only live once; and besides, love waits for no one.
604532
Well if you like him to maybe you should give it a whirl. Don't reject him though. If your not interested tell him.
86531
I know what your going through because i still am im in love with my best friend and before you decide to tell him or not to just relize it sticks with you dont tell him  that your in love with him if its just a crush because it could ruin your friendship maybe not ruin but change it thats how mine is with my friend now  i told them how i felt and was told me they didnt like me as more than a friend,im not discourageing it i think that if you really like him and its not just a crush that  it will have  ruined the friendship even more because when your in love you never just want to be friends cuz it hurts so remember either way you choose if you dont tell him you know youll regret it if he felt the same way about you.Good Luck
399102
Go for it\nThe reason you give for not being with him are shallow, and I suspect that your real feeling run much deeper than that.
166156
it's just one of those things...don't over think it or you will convince your self that you don't love him when you do. if you really feel uncomfortable saying it then maybe your not, but if sometimes you just feel moved to tell him all sorts of warm mushy things, then you probably are.
72165
If you haven't met this guy yet, you could just be in love with the fantasy of him. It's okay to let him know that you think about him. I would try to get a idea of what his feelings are for you first.
431709
I know this is a crap answer but it might be best to stay away from him.  He might have lots of questions about him self that he has not yet answered.  If that is so then you are just setting your self up for a big hurt.  Telling somebody who has a major crush to leave it alone is a fools errand.  But I am a fool and If you are correct in what you are saying, this might be best as the one you let get away.  And not to be crude, but spank bank material at best.\nB
142489
This is confusing were you guys dating or not?  \n\nIf yes, and he said i love you but you didn't feel that way...why were you dating him in the first place?\n\nIf no, just tell him straight out that you don't feel that way about him but he's an amazing friend and you hope you guys can remain friends because this friendship means a lot to you.
430151
You need to explain to your friend that it is your understanding he might be interested in you.  Although you're flattered, and you love him very much as a friend, you simply don't feel that way about him.  Tell him you wanted to say something because you greatly value his friendship, and didn't want to do anything to mislead him.  Once things blow over with this situation, you should then be able to pursue a relationship with his buddy.  Your friend might be upset for awhile, but if you truly care about him you don't want to eventually hurt him more deeply.
218237
tell him you are starting to have feelings for him and that you felt that you really needed to tell him casue you felt that if you didnt you might have regreted it for the rest of you life and that you may want to take it to that next level now