About a year ago i met this guy and he was my babys daddy cousin, yea i know but we fell in "Love" and i really wanted to be with him and about two months after i tattooed his name on my back, my little sister slept with him , well she says he did i don't know any more but of course we broke up after that. Did he really love me cause i still love him and is that stupid of me.
200618
I think you need to stay away from him and also be a bit careful around your sister too...
438391
Don't feel bad okay, he is a jerk that why your sister brake up with him, if he is your sister boyfriend he should treat you like his own family, maybe your sister and him doesn't have any feeling or relationship again so don't worry a thing.
81934
If you have to ask if you love him, then its pretty safe to say that you dont. You probably had a good thing going with him and thats why you get jealous, but it doesn't sound like you're in love. And if it doesn't work out and your munky really is chunky you can always holla at me :)
335690
This is sad. Okay, when I was 17 I fell in love really hard. He was 18 and after only 3 months ... we ran off and moved into together. We worked really hard, had lots of bills and after 2 years together, we had a baby. Later we got married and it was good. Unfortunately the guy I fell in love with got messed up with drugs and alcohol. \n\nI really loved him and after our divorce, I didn't think I'd find anyone else. After a string of broken relationships, not to mention my broken heart I finally found someone else.\n\nWe've been married for 3 yrs. now, together for 5 this July and I love him beyond imagination. It took a long time but it did happen. You know how people say that you'll find love when you least expect it? That's what happened to me, I was almost ready to give up!
550002
Girl, you should have never got messed up with a sitiuation like this, but I know how you feel, I have a crush on a family member who is married, I just stay away from him. If you truly love him, you should give the relationship up and even when they are divorced I wouldn't go back with him to show that you still love your cousin and her children. He might only have the affair because of sex, but I was reading your other questions it sound like he us bit that kind of person. You will feel lost and all alone after you stop seeing him but it has to be done. For the time being I would stop spending time with your cousin and her husband and even their children. I would never talk about this with you cousin until it at least a couple of years behind both of you.
155288
Trust me at 19 you are gonna wish you had dated more, i was in a similar situation.  They guy and I dated for 4 or  rs although he was a good guy there was no motivation or goals I found out on my own and ended up leaving him for someone else. You have to ask what is your future with that person and is your family going o ever accept him?
46870
First of all, why would you marry someone you weren't in love with?  It seems like you "settled" by marrying the other sister.  SHAME ON YOU!  From my perspective, you made your bed, now lie in it.
78538
I honestly started to hate my first love.Now he's just so disrespectful to me.Even though i want to forget i'll always love him.NO i'm not with my first love anymore.YES i will always love him even though if it's only a little.And YES i agrre you never really 101% get over your first love.
338400
My last conversation with my cousin was about baseball also.  It was at his little sister's game.  He was the coach.  They won.  The team threw Gatorade on him.  He tried to hug me and I pushed him away.  We were just kidding around but if I knew that was the last time I'd see him,  I would've hugged him, covered in Gatorade or not.  I've thought about what I'd say for the past 13 years.  I've gone over it a million times.  But it doesn't really matter.  I know he loved me and I know he knew how much he meant to me.  It's hard to even write this.  I believe in my heart when people die, they know who loves them.  Nothing more has to be said.  I do talk to my cousin, I tell him every day.  Don't stop talking to him because he's gone.  Your dad loves you and he knows you love him.  I'm sorry for your lost.  May you find peace.
174321
I met this dude on myspace.. he was a year older than me.. and he became bloody obsessed with me. Called me several times a day.. always asked to meet up.. I ended up saying I was dating my best friend so he would leave me alone. Then he tried to say it was all my fault that he liked me.. how is that MY fault?? hes a weirdo.. and I dont like him. And he has AWFUL taste in fashion.. lol
611991
The short answer:  You never went wrong.  He did.\n\nYou gave your heart and your body to someone you thought would love and cherish you forever.  He paid you back wtih mental abuse and betrayed your trust.\n\nWhat's the deal?  He's a idiot, but sometimes even an idiot realizes when he has screwed up.\n\nDon't worry about looking back any more.  Just look forward and keep your eyes on the prize.  You're building a new life for yourself and your little girl.  Don't lose sight of that and you'll get through it alright.  I'm not saying that it will be easy; I'm just saying that it's the best way to achieve your goals.  Good luck.
304133
i feel ya, girl! yeh, it seems somewhat pathetic to some people that i had this HUGE crush on someone i barley knew but for some reason i can't forget him or anything he said to me the few occasions we talked. I haven't seen him or talked to him in the past 2 years but i'm still completly in love with him!\n      gee.......i didn't really answer your question, well maybe you'll fall in love with someone else and forget all about him. Anywho, good luck with everything!
196438
yes im in love, i love my man he my everything.i love him so much i got his name tattoo on me 2 times, and its the best feeling in the world.. like they say u cant live w/out love..i love him so much that i kill and die for him. hes my best friend my soul my heart my world. when u in love u cant explain it bc words cant describe love. its just that feelin u get in ur heart that leaves u speechless. freddy i love u..
494105
is your sister younger? and if by how much? Sometimes parents are nice to younger children to make them feel appreciated. \n\nIs he your stepfather? Is your sister a half-sister and he being the father? If so that pretty much explains it, parents like their children more. Or he really loves you and thats his way of showing his love. Maybe you did something really bad to piss him off...
624138
I am married and pregnant with another man's baby.  I was separated from my husband for 5 months before I got pregnant with my boyfriends baby.  My ex (soon to be ex-husband) still wants me sometimes too.  He said that if he got the chance to have his family back, he would in a heartbeat, even if he had to help raise another man's baby.  BUT......I don't feel right about that.  I should have never married my hubby because I didn't love him enough, and we were pressured because we already had one little girl together a year before we got married, so we went a head and did it.  Now, I have two little girls, already, and one more little girl on the way.  Yeah, i messed up, maybe if i would've given it a little more time after the separation, me and the ex could've worked things out, but I wanted to move on with my life with this other man.  But, anyways, the point is,,,,,,,, i am currently in this situation, and I choose to not go back to my ex husband because I have ruined everything that we could have had together.  I am still in love with my new baby's daddy, but he couldn't handle the situation, either, so we broke up.  So, make the decision that's right for you.  You are the only one that knows your whole situation. Good luck!     Praying a lot helps too!
457726
I have and he is the only one that ever kissed me on the side of my neck to my shoulders and it's like I melted into him. I am still with him and it's been 3yrs. I adore him. I believe it's a deep connection from you to him and there is nothing to really  say much about.
567866
My first love...gosh..this question brings back memories. His name is Derek. I was 15 years old when I met him. I had never kissed or even held hands with anybody before. I remember the first time we kissed. We were at a mutual friend's house and we walked outside together. I knew what was going to happen and I was so nervous. I started rambling on and on avoiding eye contact. Then I pointed up to a star that was shining really bright and I go "Hey, Look at---" and before I could finish my sentence he turned my face to his and kissed me. It was so sweet, so innocent. I will never forget that first kiss for the rest of my life. Derek and I were together for a year, but of course we are young and we came to a point that we were ready to experience being with other people. I still talk to him from time to time, just to see how he is doing. Even though we aren't together anymore, he will always hold a special place in my heart.