Okay, my ex boyfriend, who I'm pretty sure I'm in love with, keeps hanging out with his most recent ex. Now, she stil lovesh him, and he misses her. But he promised he wouldn't date her again. But he keeps giving her the look like, "I still want you." GAh! I want to tell him how I feel but...I'm not sure if he feels it back. And everydayt I keep getting more paranoid about if he still even cares about me.
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even if you want to tell him how you feel, i dont think its really gonna help. cause you said he already misses his ex and everything. so he must still have feelings for her.
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If you don't care for him anymore, you may want to ask him to stop texting/IMing you.  Your current boyfriend might not like it that the ex is still in the picture and might not take your word for it that the ex means nothing to you as appearances can be misleading.\n\nIf you've moved on, does it really matter what his feelings are?  Besides, he can't care for you that much if he's swayed so easily and talks against you at the drop of a hat then apologizes later to you in private.  If he loved you, he'd stick up for you in front of his friends.  He sounds wishy-wasy and not a man you want in your life anyway.\n\nBid him begone and be happy with your new beau.
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Well it sounds like he is still in love with her. I mean if I am seeing you and then tlaking with my ex on a regular basis then something is up. Look I have been in this situtaion before. No matter how much he denys it, the fact is that he can't let go. Let him know that he has a choice between you and that other girl. If he really cares for you then he will move one. Now I just hope that you are not doing the same. I think it is important that you both want the same in thing. And no matter what he tells you it is obvouis that he still loves her. Look the worst thing is to countue talking with someone that you were with and then deny that you have no feelings for her. I think you have a choice and it is up to you if your gonna play second place to that other girl.
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If he's admitted he still has feelings for his ex then if i were you i would leave him alone, he's using you to help him get over the brake down of his marriage!! you deserve better than that tell him how you feel and that what he's doing is wrong, people need time to get over stuff like that! walk away before you get really hurt! :)
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You are jealous of his ex, but yet you are considering picking your own ex? I think he really does love you and wants to be with you forever, but you still have feelings for your ex. You cannot comprehend his feelings for his ex because you incorperate your feelings for your ex as his feelings for his ex.\n\nChoice is yours though. I'm leaning towards your current boyfriend if you really love him. If you have feelings for your ex, I'd pick neither. Relationships with an ex usually doesn't work too well in my experiences.
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hi, i feel that you should not be talking to your ex, if\nyou are still close that good but he has a girlfriend, and\ni feel it very  disrespectful of him to be talking to you\nabout his problem with her. because if the shoe was on the\nother foot how would you feel. he need to get his situation\nwith her together and  if it meant for you and him to get back\nyou will. the big guest ion you should ask yourself seriously\nif he so unhappy with her then as you stated why is he still\nthere.
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Yes, Its that the ex is still in love with you, So unconsciously he's going out with you again. My ex has done that twice. (I am the mother of his son) It is kind of freaky. Just look at it like this. " You Know You Still Got It."
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No you shouldn't try and get back with him. He's saying that he's enjoying the single life, due to this reason he's not going to want to get back with you is he?\n\nYou obviously still like him, but he is your ex for a reason, besides which is is dating someone, whether or not its casually, he is seeing someone and you don't want this girl to have a go at you. So just leave things as they are. You are still on speaking terms but leave it at that don't let it go any further because in the long one you are the one that will come of worse
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It's normal.. we all go through the same thing.. (I mean unless we had a flamin' bad break up that is!) Does the current bf know about this? ..and deal w/it? He sounds like a kool dude if so. It'd be hard, but could ya like change where ya R hangin' out, so ya 2 don't meet up? I kow it's rough if ya got the same friends, right? If ya have a bad breakup ONE of the good things about it is you got a TON of bad info. to use mentally to get over the bad dudes. I mean if he beat ya up, dissed ya, you gotta make that memory a WHOLE lot better.. (helps ya get over the hurt.) How long it been since ya broke up? It'll get better, I promise! If it's too new a hurt, I think it's kool ya got wit another guy already too.. later-     melancholia
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It is natural to have feeling for the EX, just remember, there is a reason he's called EX, and you are the only one that really knows the reason for that, so as you began to get these warm feelings inside for the EX also remember what usually would happen after that warm thought would come remember the reality of why you made him an EX and EX-ommunicate your thoughts for even going in that direction, okay, Sista Girl.  Remember, you want your PRESENT to work out, so please, leave the EX, as an EX. He had your PAST, DON'T let him have your FUTURE.  PEACE.*
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Never go for someone who is still holding on to an ex. Now, don't get me wrong...there are times when I still think about my ex's, but it doesn't mean I'm still in love with them, but we did share something that's undeniable. I gave them a piece of my heart, and you can't really take that back. So, if he's still in love, you need to give him time to find closure, but if he just thinks about her once in a blue moon, it's okay to go for it, help him get his mind off of her.
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Because he has still continued some form of relationship (you say they are friends) for your entire relationship, plus they have 9 months of intimacy that preceded your relationship?\n\nBecause he still hangs out with her?\n\nThat's legitimate, right?  Do you maintain friendship or go to public places with your ex-boyfriend?  Even if other people were around, would your boyfriend have a problem with that?  \n\nIf it bothers you and he doesn't hear your complaint, it's still going to bother you.  Even if he doesn't think it's a big deal.  Even if he can rationalize it.\n\nI highly recommend "Getting To Yes," by Roger Fisher.  It's not a love relationship book, but great for negotiation/communication.  It sounds like you need help convincing him that it's as big a deal as it is to you.  http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0140157352/qid=1144087981/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/103-4668860-3658249?s=books&v=glance&n=283155
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i'd feel hurt 2.\ni'd hope it was just the way he is, happy 4 her good fortune, but that dreaded jealousy demon would grab me, 2.\ni think ur entirely normal and feeling a lil hurt by his behaviour.\nthink it's time 4 a heart 2 heart and ask him what his true feelings r 4 his ex.\nyes tell him how hurt u r feeling, nobody likes 2 feel threatened by exs.\nsit him down and ask 4 some reassurances.\nremember 2 stay calm and listen 2 him.
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Apparently your girlfriend is getting some satisfaction in the fact that her ex is still after her. She may tell you that she cares for you, but if she did she'd take steps to put a stop to the calls/harassment. Maybe you should tell her you're going to step back a while, until she settles the issue with her ex and then the two of you can move forward in peace. Her action/reaction to that may tell you if the future holds anything for the two of you.
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I know what you are feeling.  He is only dating that other girl for a rebound.  He follows you everywhere because he he wants to make it a quinky-dink and make sure you aren't around your other ex.  I think you should just tell the ex off and run after your true love.
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I would let it go if I were you. If he really cared about you he would have called you. If he hasn't called you because of your ex, then he isn't going to take this relationship any further whether you call him or not. Sorry, don't set yourself up to get hurt anymore.
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I know what you mean that happens....i think your not really over him yet even though you think to your self that you are....i use to think like you, but i know inside that i still like him alot and i can't stand it when some other girls is all over him...don't know why you are feeling that way but that how i felt...\n\nif i where you i'll tell him my feelings and maybe you and him can continue your relationship that you left off....if you want to talk more personal then IM or email me ok