all he does is buy buy buy his room is full of the stupid things and i mean full not nicely displayed but all clumped up like a garbage sale sometimes i wonder if he likes them more than me lol its out of control he will rather spend money getting them than on me or kids is he a peter pan as its not only thing its most computer consoles too\nhe says as he dont drink or go out much he can buy wat he likes buthe says he is in debt and aint got the money but he still buys buys buys
210019
try to get him to stop spending money uselessly. if the transformers are an investment then that is another thing. what i mean is, i still buy comic books, and i'm 30 and married. my wife does not like them at all. the difference between me and that guy is that i realize i have responsibilities and i put the comic books behind my family and our way of living. household should always come before entertainment. i call them investments because a few years from now some of those will be worth a lot of money, i'm talking 10's of thousands and up. if your friend is "investing" in selling those things in the future then he should take care of them a lot better. there are a lot of buyers on ebay that collect those things.
484812
he must be a real loser. you need to dump him and get someone who isnt so nosy. he probably goes through youre dresser drawers also.
83723
LOL, that's funny, because I have someone I work with who is like that.  He is about 65, and he makes over $100,000 a year.  He constantly complains about this job. He also talks like he doesn't have any money, saying things like, "One day when I am rich I can move to Florida...", when he knows he can do that now. Other times he brags about how much money he has.  It doesn't make a whole lot of sense.  I believe he stays here because his wife doesn't like him, and he is lonely at home.  His kids moved away, and he doesn't have many friends.  This job is like a second home for him, since he has been here for 15 years.  He even comes in every week on his day off!  I think some people just get so accustomed to their jobs, and they wouldn't know what to do if they retired.  This man is totally miserable! Proof that money doesn't buy happiness.
549210
Call me impersonal, but I'd get him a gift card to Best Buy. The relationship is still young, so you may not know all of his likes and dislikes.  Why risk it? That way you can choose the amount that goes on the card (since I don't know your budget) and he can buy whatever he likes.
663763
He may be an idiot, but he sounds more lazy than anything else.  If you can get to sleep and get up on time, why can't he?  If he can't get to bed at night it's his own damn fault.\n\nDon't let him blame you for his shortcomings, he's only using you as a scapegoat.  He needs to place the blame where it belongs and get himself together if he wants to be a part of your family.  You deserve someone who will work to keep your family happy and healthy.  Be sure you tell him that!
103337
If you live with him it is the courteous thing to do as far paying the bills are concerned. About the kids, you should sit down and talk to him about that and see where that gets you.
297791
It sounds to me that he is just using you for your money, i dont know his past but you should ask him why he nevers sees you at night. If the answer does not seem genuine or if he takes ages to respond, he is using you and you should get rid of him.
506886
Oh, Dragon understands.  She always examines the presents her nose gives her to see if any of them might be worth something.  Unfortunately, she has found that even the really wicked nasty looking ones that she'd think would be worth some sort of monetary compensation end up only eliciting an "Eeeeeeeew!" from the store clerk.\n\nWhat good is that stuff if it can't be used as money?\n\nRAWR!!!!
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Wow, that's tough... and I haven't looked at your other ones yet.\n\nYou're right for not backing down.  If he wants to get the COOL one, he can GET the COOL one.... in absolutely no less than one year.  The fact that you agreed to a similar, age-appropriate toy should be enough to sate him, but it sounds like he's just being a butt.\nUnfortunately, the only thing I can tell you about situations like THE CARD, is that it's best to remind yourself that you're not the a$$hole, and if he wants to play these games, that's his choice.  I wish I could give you some communication tips, but without having seen it all, I can't really stick my nose in the middle of it, you know?  \nThe fact is, he is WRONG, and it really sounds like he needs to learn to see his faults and take some ownership.  Another bad thing about it is that all that is TOTALLY on him, and there is nothing that you can say or do to make him own up to THAT simple fact unless he is willing to see it HIMSELF.\nYou know what I think?  I say LET him get the card, and YOU go buy the 12-36mo Power Wheels.  That is, if you want to be a little vindictive.  If you'd like to appear MORE MATURE about it, you may opt for a couple REALLY COOL (electronic) educational toys.  I think I'd go that route for a 1yo, anyway.
97361
He's addicted to the computer. Or maybe he's a little bored. What do you normally do? Suggest some more interesting activities. Or go somewhere else. Or invite other couples over. =D G'luck!
496402
try to get involved maybe when he is not home practice playing those video games and when he comes home play with him if you beat him he will think that the game was weak so he will stop playing just so that you wont play. or you can like it and challenge eachother with new games.maybe some Sex games would be good. and if he goes out with his friends go along
353669
Maybe he's got better things to do or something else on his mind. Try finding a hobby to keep your mind off him till he figures out what he really wants
527018
Sounds like he already has it all.  I would hope you would knoew your own child well enough you would not ask complete strangers what to buy him,
599313
First of all, he is an adult. He should be working and supporting himself. Why are you paying anything for him??? Stop doing anything for him, and get his happy ass out of your house. He has toatally disrespected you in every way and you are allowing it. Stop enabling him and maybe he will grow up.
460721
It sounds like he has everything he needs in terms of material items so if you are to go this route, perhaps something more thoughtful, personalized or original could be nice?  Try to think of some of his hobbies, interests, passions, places he enjoys going to and either be creative in making something or find a place offering items or services that can respond to his likings.  \n\nIf you are looking to buy something and are out of ideas, I included some links below that might be helpful.\n\nGood luck. :)
194973
I think if at all possible you might have to get moved to a different dorm room. It sounds like you are living with a child personality. Unless his friendship means a lot to you, and unless you are willing to exhibit more patience and explain that you are on a budget and can't share food anymore and then stick to your guns, it sounds like it's time to move.
597853
Maybe it's because he wants an independent woman. Why do you want him to buy you things anyway? Don't be a gold digger.