And if so, why not? Is it because you presume girls wearing glasses to be smart? And if so, why would that prevent your interest in them? (girls, feel free to answer, but I'm really interested in what the guys have to say.) \n\nBTW, feel free to contradict. I'm just saying that in my experience, fewer men have persued me since I started wearing glasses. Coincidence? Hmmmm?
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The first day I met my wife she was wearing glasses. She was smart and very HOT. It was love at first site.\n\n36 years later she still wears glasses, is smarter and even HOTTER!! \n\nQuit showing your insecurity. It will only attract men who will want to take advantage of it and use and abuse you.\n\nBE PATIENT. HE IS OUT THERE.
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Maybe you have beautiful eyes ;)\nJust maybe they see genuine kindness which you don't see in most guys(or peoples) eyes.
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Girls are smarter at the outset but that is their nature in the long run they are normally incorrect if she has no gender complications.  Guys do not like telling half truths besides girls still hate rejection as this society still treats them the same as yesterday.
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i don't. we think differently. if you are in a relationship it usually doesn't matter if the man is right because a smart man will keep his mouth shut to a woman even if he knows he is right. that is wisdom. i don't know if women can be wise. i didn't mean to offend you and i am not a doctor. i just thought it was funny. good night and my apologies.
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Yeah don't waste your precious time with dumb women who "think" their hot and try to front.  It's a numbers game...the more women you can get in front of and talk to chances are your numbers will play out an dyou find the girl "YOU" want-
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Well, I always thought I would be more attracted to the girl who was smarter and more confident.\nBut I wont try to claim that looks mean nothing.  Guys at that age can be frustrating, because we dont know what we want, and are easily hypnotized by something new and pretty.  That's all it is though.  In the end, intelligent guys want intelligent girls, who they dont have to put on an act for.
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I agree somewhat with Katrina, that men can be intimiated by independent and strong women.  But, as a guy, I would say "put off," not exactly intimidated.  For example, I recently dated a gal who I was very attracted to, although she wasn't stunning- she just "did it" for me.  But, she spent too much time telling me about her degrees from MIT, how she worked for Steve Jobs, etc..  Relationships are about humanness to me- life's little problems, emotionality, sensuality.  I talk shop all day at work, and want something deeper in a relationship.  It just got to a point where I didn't want to hold a conversation with her, since we just couldn't connect.  I guess the point is maybe revisit the guys you like with a deeply human approach, and see how that works.  I agree with the rest of the posters-  it's hard to meet someone you like.  It's true for me, too.  I live in the middle of nowhere.
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Absolutely not!  My female friends give me a perspective of life I cannot get from guys.  I am attracted to intelligent women who are interested in more than who's the current hot celeb, or who's with who - who's dumped who.  Getting fresh views of the war, the economy, ethics ... it's very refreshing getting a women's view of the world.
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It is true that some guys are intimidated by women that are more successful, or more intelligent than they are, because they are into the whole "macho" thing, and think the man is supposed to be the "breadwinner", and smarter, more successful, and all that. I find intelligent, successful women very attractive myself, but I don't have a problem with my masculinity either. I am a man, in deed, and action, and don't try to prove it to anyone. If I had that kind of woman in my life, I would encourage her to be the best, most successful woman ever. Together , we would make a great team!
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Because until men get over the fact that they can think without using their eyes, it becomes pointless to pick out a girl based on what she looks like.  Number 1 reason why I have a major distrust of any online dating site.  I'm a guy, but it takes a real guy to say it like it is.  If you got no heart, then you don't (in my opinion) know how to view girls.  And it goes the other way as well.  If girls think that the best way to attract a guy by getting naked and then sharing their naked pictures online, then you are appealing to the eyes, but not the heart.  Unless of course the eyes have had free reign for so long that the heart is screwed every where he looks.
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I have a problem with this black and white / cut and dried assumption that a girl is either pretty OR she is intelligent. Most girls have some of both qualities.\nSomewhere society has assumed if she good looking shes dumb and if shes clever she must look like a bulldog chewing a wasp. Not true.
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They do.  When you get older, the guys get wiser.  We realize the smarties are the hotties, and the dumbasses are, well, just dumb.  Be patient.
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You're right.\n\nTell someone that she is friends with and hope they relay the message.\nAlmost, ALL girls want to look pretty.\n\nI'll bet, she's not even aware of it.  Purhaps she needs glasses.\n\nWOW!...You really ARE a gentlman.  We don't come across YOUR type every day.\n\nThat's sweet.  Walk this way!
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not every girl like that.\ni do think girls like that somehow "stupid".\nbut i think it's because many men prefer big breast, don't they?\ni think men who see girls just by their looks also "stupid" or shallow.
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A guys point of view;\nglasses should be chosen to suit you, you don't go to a ball with lovely dress and wear a pair of wellington boots, so pay attention to the style of the glasses.  I personally find women who wear glasses very very sexy.
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No, I think you are being realistic.  I think intelligent men probably hang out at bars and stuff too, but they probably aren't as brash and stand out like the others.  They are probably more low-keyed.  One way of possibly meeting some is thru your friends and family.  Hopefully, they would be a good judge of character for you.
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i prefer a girl who makes me laugh, and to do that, you need to be smart, i mean, if shes really nice looking, its an added bonus, obviously, when i first meet someone it the first thing i notice, but once i talk to someone for a bit, i relized that its the personality that i like best.  smarts are an essential part to a personality, tho, most guys, im sad to say are shallow jerks, so not everyone will feel the same way as me, but yea, smarts and personality are more important to me than looks, especially if im looking for a long term relation ship, i want someone to talk to, i cant talk to their chest, so they had better have more than that.