if your too nice and honest, than your a pushover, but if your too firm then your not nice and undertstanding enough...if you give her space and trust her, then your seemingly being too easy and its no challenge to her...but if your always want to know where she is then, your being too possesive and she wants space, and either way she may cheat on you.....go figure
204488
do everything in moderation...let your girl know what you want & what you feel..it's music to our ears...trust & communication is vital...we want men who are firm and can be as sweet as Romeo the next...and who regards our needs as well...be a friend like the way you care with your best buddies...and be a good lover too who thinks about more what excites her rather than jumping onto her just to get it done.
154114
If you guys are making out.. or whatever, try putting the heavier moves on her. If she goes with it, she wants it. If she pushes you off, then she must not be ready. Go with your instincts.
511693
Some women are shy and don't want to seem desperate or lovey dovey...It is a big possibility that you are more affectionate than she is....She probally don't mean anything by it, But give it a lil time..If she don't start showing you affection after you've been together for a awhile ..then it probally is something else...Good Luck
641262
move on if she lies she is not so much inlove with you as she says. a relationship is based on trust and honesty
417070
Either she doesnt wish to appear to challenge your authority or territory, or is insecure about having to ask or deal with the problem she is asking you about.\n\nBut she appreciates it and maybe it took a lot of herself to have to ask it, how ever trivial it may seem to you.
540694
Maybe she's cheating on you.  Either that or she's insecure.  Guilty parties in relationships will often project what they're doing on to the other person.  If she can get you to admit you're cheating then maybe she won't feel as guilty.  That's just one possibility.  Or maybe she really is insecure, in which case perhaps you both need to go to couples counseling because if she keeps it up you may just get fed up and decide to make her accusations come true.
627215
big big mistake,,never never invite them over for the nite if u dont want her,,maybe for a few hours but not  more then that ,,,us women can get the wrong ideal about love,,,,,,be honest with her sounds like shes  infatuated with you..and if she is thats all your fault..it will hurt her in the long run but let her know before the weekend,,,dont string her along
218070
Depends on the time in the relationship, if you are just going out, than maybe sheis dedicated, not necessarily clingy, if a long relationship, maybe she needs to hear it from you too in order to think it is going somewhere, it all depends on the situation
553352
Trust just like respect is not something that is handed to you in a relationship it is earned.  This is your proving ground now, a second chance in a sense, you earn trust by being trust worthy.  Show her you can be trusted and won't lie again unless you want a nose like Pinocchio!  : ^ )
59279
Let her have her space. If she wants to be with you, she will come and get you. Most woman do not want a lost puppy tagging along or to feel like they are being sufficated. Stand back as hard as it might be fight the urge to see her. She will call you if she wants you. If she doesn't call then move on with your life. Don't play the part of the fool even if you are one.
668959
She must enjoy your company,or she wouldnt call you,and if you think your going over and calling on her too much,just ask her.She sounds like a nice person.Tell her if your bothering her too much,she can tell you,but i dont think this is the case
601701
she will only open up her feelings to you when she is ready, she probaly feels it's just not the right time, and if she's cheating on you then its best to find someone else because if she has it in her mind that youre not the right person for her then she will continue to do it because you have allowed her to do it....
159385
She's freaked out that it's getting serious. She may be in the habit of keeping emotionally distant. Good at being intimate sexually, but when there's the possibility  to add a relationship into the mix, she may freak out and be distant. Her attempt to push you away to make sure doesn't get too serious.
160788
Don't take it seriously unless you're willing to ask her and pursue a relationship.  You're just going to get hurt if you take it seriously and she isn't.  It may be that she's just gotten comfortable around you.  But if you think that its legit, then ask her out.  Then you know just how serious to take it.  Start off slow, and then as you spend time together, you will start to understand the seriousness of the situation.
492673
Sorry:-))) But i am kind of amused...You know, the first thing that men have to learn about women is to give them their space. Hey...if your parting words weren't bitter, there is no cause for alarm. I am sure she'll call..giv her some time. You said she had a boyfriend..well, maybe she is busy..there could be a thousand things you dont know...So dont miss her too much. Try and concentrate on ur GF. I am sure she be in touch shortly.
86383
Should be no reason for her to have guys over if you two are involved in a true loving relationship, this is not a trust issue, it is an issue of hurting a person you supposedly are in a relationship with.  If she doesn't want to help you in this regard, get a new girlfriend.  You should not have to suffer constant anxiety because someone is not respecting your feelings.  Women want that from men all the time, but if they don't reciprocate, it's time to find one that does.
262458
You did the right thing because if you hadn't been blunt with her she would still harbour hopes that you would change your mind and she would become obsessed.  At least this way she has to accept it and will eventually move on. She might be hurt initially but it's best for her in the long run. I don't think the softer aproach would have worked with this girl.x