can a women with there first love stay in love with them
216228
yes if you have not gotten another love. however, it can be dangerous really if the woman has moved ahead to another love that is current. old firewood catches fire faster and if the first love reciprocates the gesture, hearts may be broken eventually and both of you in future may really be thinking the other is cheating - kind of if she's cheated to be back with me, is she not doing so to me now?
602444
Some women are just that way.  You need to decide if you can handle being with someone like that all of the time first, if so you need to let her know that she needs to work on it.  It is worth a shot if you really care for her.
54599
you can never get over your first love. thats why they call it your first love. but you can learn from him and learn to love another guy.
181791
i understand you might love the first guy, but if he doesn't feel the same then move on, and love this other guy, you should let it go and follow your heart.  yes you might not love the 2nd like the 1st but not all love is the same.  You will probably always think about the love you had for the first guy, but the key thing here is that he doesn't feel the same, and you can't make someone love you.
168789
Its love be happy you had the chance to love and eventually you will move on when your heart starts mending but you will always have feelings for her. Its a natural thing when you find your in love.
23226
I believe that if you truly love someone you will always love them the only change is the way you love them , if you have remained friends and kept in touch it may be a little hard , because you have gotten used to loving em as just a friend , however if you just run into em one day and start over it wont be if its meant to be . Everything happens for a reason so if the two of you are meant to be together you will . Trust me my first love and I have fallen in and out of love several times over the last 10 years I stopped stressing it when I realized that it will just happen if we are truly meant for eachother !!
415818
I know how it feels, I am in a relationship now with the best guy i could ever be with we have been together almost 5 years, and I still find myself wondering about my first love. Me and my first love were together for only 2 and 1/2 years and he was my first everything. I know deep down i still have feelings for him and i always wonder about him. I know i shouldnt be doing that, but i cant help it, i guess he still has some place deep in my heart. As for you i think that you still have a special place in your heart for this guy. Dont let it bother you i think its all part of how special this guy was for you, just be thankful and happy that he is having a great life, and that he is married be happy for him. I am sure that he probably still thinks about you as much as you do him. Maybe you never know what holds in the future. SO dont lose hopes of this guy and dont lose hopes on finding another guy. god only knows whom your soulmate is. I wish the best for you. god bless you
101895
yeah i loved more then nything else my 1st grl friend.i was jst crazy 4 her n we had bout 1-2 year long relation.then she told me dat she loved someone else and not me.an witout me knowing nythin c was moving wid him.yeah i loved her but i didnot stopped her bcoz no use of dying 4 someone who doesnt care.i had lot of problem initially but m tellin u no use of getin sad.its of no use.u have your own life n no one have got the right 3 make it hell.why should u care 4 someone who doesnot value and respect your love.get up from it.der iz lott 4rm life den that person get involved with it.n watever hapens hapens 4 the good.there r obiosly much better things hidden 4 u. dis may noy b the perfect answer you r lookin for but hope so it can help it.i myself have xperinced it and is leading a much better life.BEST OF LUCK
556286
If she truly loves you-she won't.  You stated that you love her alot and as long as she feels that and you have been honest with her who cares.  Life is too short and when you find someone you love-let go of judgement and hold on tight to love.  People that are secure and confident might actually find your past adventure a turn on.
524712
As we grow older our values and beliefs change.  If you fall in love with someone at a young age and the grow and mature in the same ways as you do, yes I believe you can fall in love and stay in love.  Love grows over time, and gets stronger and stronger.  To answer your question yes I believe you can love another at any age in a variety of different capacities.
161028
I met a girl on line.  Now she's my wife and we have a son.  But before this happened I visited her in her county for a number of weeks over some months.  It was only after this time that I felt happy enough to ask her to marry me.\n\nSo I suggest if you can go visit her.  Also is this your first real love?
459131
i think that god has someone spl. for you. and when you will meet her you will not regret. do give your first kiss to the best one. who will be committed for you and you only. like indians.\neither they are crazy but still they have very pious love.
211603
I do believe each person has that soulmate out there.  First loves are not necessarily your soulmates but if he is, you will know.  Your presence among each other tells the connection of your souls in love and happiness. That is the main thing to remember, be happy.  Rather, he is or not, you love each other and that deserves something. It's great to be friends and love, at least you know each other.  Good luck.
162084
two people can feel they are right for each other when they first meet, definately. i had it happen to me, five months ago. we were together for a couple of weeks and then i had to go back home... its been 4 months and i still havent even thought of having a relationship with anyone else. we talk every day, the feeling Is still the same. so the point is, it can last, for sure! :)
557709
what we see, well first their is the personality, then who she is, then look in her heart for love and we try to see if she is fun,loveing, trust and can you depend on her to stay with you....
17628
Yes it is possible to love someone that you meet and see only once...this feeling is within your heart.. maybe your attracted to that person and you will never forget her..try to keep the feeling inside and someday maybe it will come true...
661508
i think first love is true love we can't forget that althogh we tried hard 2 forget it\ni can't forget my first love\nalthough she hate me now but i still love her and love her till the end of my life\nbut i dont know who will say this to her