I love her, but the relation is at the end...we don't get along. We have a family though.what should I do?
211967
Well one thing I wouldn't do? Tell her in the kitchen or near any heavy blunt objects. Good Luck
23992
It sounds like she has no respect for you and has no consideration for your feelings.  Why would you want to be with a woman like this? Would she be so understanding if you were spending your free time with another woman?  You need to take charge of the situation and put your foot down let her know that this is unacceptable behavior and if she refuses to put a stop to it you know that she is not the one for you.  Ultimately the decision is yours do you want to live this way and if she is not looking out for your childrens best interest than maybe you need to.
4603
if you really love her be patient enough to understand, try to convince her that nothing would ever change even your far from each other. when she talks, listen in that way you will know whats bugging her. maybe she just miss you a lot.so just hold on if you dont want your relationship to go to waste.
584023
How do you feel about it? Does it bother you that she is mean to him? If it does the best thing you can do is talk to her about it.  Tell her not to say a word to him.  There is a probability that she is jealous and mad at the fact that he chose you or the fact that you guys are together.  But one thing I can tell you is dont choose a man over family.  It is never worth it.......
65326
if you really love each other no it isnt time to end it. Me and My gf are going through a simuliar phase. Fights are expected in a realtionship. There are two people involved and two different views. SO you can expect fights. Me and My gf usually have at least one fight everyday. Manly this is my fault because I am under a lot of stress due to being so far in debt and working so many hours. I take a lot of it out on her although I dont mean to. My gf is going through the stage of life where she is making a lot of deciesions ( whatever that means I am not sure just what some mutual friends have told me) Therefore she gets upset at me alot. LOL But before the night is over we make sure everything is fine between us.   Good Luck I hop everything works out/
558388
In all my years of experience with dramatic relationships the best advice i can give is just to be honest and to communicate. It is hard because you have a child, but you should talk to her, tell her how you feel, test the waters and try to find out how she feels and just talk about it. The worse thing that can happen is that you two don't end up together, you aren't together now, you have nothign to loose. Maybe you will discover that both of you want to try something out, and then you could have a chance at a great relationship. Maybe she is just try to stay back becasue she is worried about how you feel. Either way, you'll never know unless you two talk about it. Call her up and see if you can go out again....then just be honest with her and i bet you she will be honest too.
17840
The sooner you tell her how you feel, the better. If you drag this out, it will be more painful for the two of you. Just sit down with her and discuss the situation like adults and explain to her why you feel that you can't be with her anymore. Don't feel like your reasons aren't good enough. And don't let her convince you to stay with her if you don't want to. She might get emotional, but stand by your feelings and be strong about it.
127732
I would first assure her about how much you love and care about her. Just come out and tell her that it bothers you that she argues a lot and you would like when y'all are together to try to get along. If she gets mad, and if it's really getting to you, you have to give spending time together some space. She will get the picture.
232847
obviously there are a LOT of issues there. u r already unhappy and ther is no legal commitment yet, imagine how it will change when the "I DO" is said.   and u talking to us will not solve the problem.\n\nu are too depended on her. no one should be sucked into the life of another person. u r to compliment not complete each other. u need a balance and other perspectives in life. she may not like others that u like, but if she loves u ( which i doubt or mayb she ahs commitment issues or issues expressing feelings to significant others) she will like them because of u.  \n\nto be honest, sounds like she is just using u, and guess what, ur letting her.  abuse is abuse
67730
She's married and that should be the end of it. Find a woman who is not emotionally attached to someone else.\nIf you think your hurting now, it's going to be twice as bad if you start a relationship with this woman - only to have it end.\nYou need to ask yourself if you would want to be the man to break up a marriage where kids are involved?? The kids will hate you (that's if you were successfull in getting this woman) and most woman would not stay with a man their children do not like or respect.\nShow a little more respect for yourself - don't you think you deserve a woman who isn't running home to a husband every night???
165114
if she has a boyfriend leave her alone \nu dont want to be the one to break up her family just because u want to get a nut. find a single brawd that whats the same thing.
250428
you and her need to sit down and talk about it because it is her family and if u and her are gonna be together its something u 2 need to get worked out maybe u can talk to her family and work something out best luck
520125
hears some options:\n(1) break up with her, it's obviously not gonna work out in the long run, and there is no since in dragging it out\n\nor\n\n(2) buy her an expensive gift and agree with everything she says. it takes two to argue, and if you don't argue then, nobody is arguing and.... problem solved\n\ni personally suggest you go with option #1
415566
Move out and move on.  You are obviously not happy with him and you need to do what is best for you.  Be positive and strong and discuss the situation with your family.  Good luck.
92206
You really need to sit down with her and have a total heart to heart chat.  No games just complete honesty.  Are the problems that caused you to break up been fixed now?  If not they need fixed before even thinking of going back.  Ive seen people who truly do love each other but for some reason they just cannot get along outside of the bedroom.  I feel for u and my heart goes out to you but you need to also think of your own emotional well being in this.  Good luck to u
155703
It doesn't sound like she respects you or the relationship. I'd move on.
202599
If you honestly feel as if the relationship is something you can't handle, then you should get out. Just be sure that if you do decide to leave her, make sure she understands why you are leaving. You're leaving not neccessarily because of her kids, but because you aren't ready to be a father figure and you'd like to travel. Make certain she understands this and be sure to use "I" statements so as to not put her on the defensive side of things.