how many years in the differanc is acceptable??...P.S. how old are you???
216043
I find older men very sexy  I am 25 and I would consider going out with someone thats up to 40.  It just seems they have a presence to them and they are more sexually appealling
384332
nothing wrong with you. I dated a guy for 8 years who was 18 years older than me.... it was a wonderful experience.
479599
I'm 47, have a BA in Romance Languages and Literature.\n\nI would answer "a" to your question.\n\nSue
376001
At 48, give or take a year, most of your classmates will have seen more of the world than they did at 18. With that wider vision comes tolerance, usually. You are what you are. Go, have fun, and don't worry about defending your life choices. Some of your classmates will be sucessful doctors, lawyers or accountants, pillars of the church with lovely wives, 2.3 children, a station wagon and a golden retriever named "Rover". Some won't.  Some will be alcoholics, recovering or not. A few will have died. Some will be living with women half their age, or men 20 years older than them.
40484
I believe age has no difference when it comes to loving someone. If you're married and have no intention to part with your present wife, don't make any promises to that girl which you can't keep. If you're single and this romance might develop into something else, do go ahead and don't let this chance pass by you. I have a son with a man who's 20 years older than me. He was lying to me about being divorced and we spend 2 years living together as man and wife. When I had a baby, I found out he was married and had a wife in another country. We're no longer together, but I tell you age has nothing to do with this. I love every moment we spent together except for his lies that screwed up my whole life. Don't do this to the girl you liked, but definitely enjoy every moment of this feeling if it's rightfully yours regardless of the age difference. Good luck! Nika
473379
That depends on your age and your "experience"
97031
Abso-posi-lu-tively life into years!\nIf I could have left this world 8 years ago, I would have been satisfied at the time of my death.\nNow I am getting older and I have not been able to experience the "live and let live happily" side due to legal vs. moral argument.\nI am under authorative thumb now from standing for my beliefs and not allowed to live freely. It has added years to my life, but would gladly trade the years for life.\n\nHopefully, the Lord has a plan in my coming years to bring back the life. Atleast I will have eternal life and that, my friend, makes it worth living.
142097
Its not at all about the age. Its all about compatiability. You guys should be on the same wavelength and you should have trust. being able to communicate properly is also one of the major criteria.\nAge difference does not matter.
656943
wait for a few more years...ur still a kid
276200
HMM DEPEND.. I'M 6 YRS YOUNGER THAN MY HUSBY :)
163069
there's no specific # of yrs.. it depends if u think ur emotionally, physically & financially stable & ur able 2 picture urself w/ur partner 4d rest of ur lives
306456
Been there done that...whats up with the 23rd year...Its alot of years, you'll never forget the past, my marriage was great the first 20 years, but I could see the dis-interest building as the months after pasted by...and she too felt she was no longer in love with me, however I later found out her interests were directed toward another...suggestions..Seek marriage council advice, put forth a 100% effort to resolve such conflict, and if it doesn't turn out happily ever after, if there ever was an ideal time to be single , its with a good job, no mortgage and your child a grown adult...very simular to my situation...its was 2 yrs separated and 3 years since divorce and those conditions were blessings in disguise.
101977
well, at 21 years you should have your own personality, so you can make decisions that are a part of you. if that friends are real friends they shouldn't try to change you, they should accept you as you are
193210
I am duel citizen.\nDepending on how old you are you might have to go into the Swiss army. (maybe 20-30y) You can however, refuse and either do community service for more than a year or you will have to pay 4% of your taxable income to the army. (for 10-20 years)
464899
in my opinion, around 8-10 months.. or hopefully when you dont see him/her everywhere you go :) more if you're still reminiscing your times together
95767
age is just a number. alot of people need to relize that. my husband is 47 and i am 29. we have a wonderful marriage because we dont let the numbers come between how we feel about each other
47081
I think that the older we get, the smaller the age gap becomes.  Ex.  There are 8 years difference between you now.  At your age, that may seem like a lot, but when you are 30 and the other is 37, that doesn't seem so bad.  Back to an actual answer:  Do YOU think the gap is too big?  I agree that things will be different when you are 18, but if you are truely interested in the other as a person, then I think the age gap is dismissable. But that's just one person's opinion.