do you fake orgasms and why
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Well, I am afraid and embarrassed to say that I have to go with Sarah Barret! I am not fully aware of what an orgasm is. I feel so dumb! I know it's a climax a woman has while she is having sex, but what causes it and how do you know you are having one? I would like it if you could take time out and email me so I might have a damn clue what all this means. Thanks...
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Most women do not have the capability to have an orgasm through intercourse alone. You should try to play with your clitoris or let him do it during sex. Many women fake an orgasm to make their boyfriend happy and its perfectly normal but you will reach a time when you don't want to fake it anymore and want to really have one. Try a position where your boyfriend can reach around with his hand and rub ur clitoris while having intercourse. Try doggie style.
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You should never fake it.  Don't encourage poor performance!  If it doesn't feel good enough to get you off tell him exactly what he needs to do to get you off.... Most guys will take the hint and do exactly what you want...  A large percentage of them will be turned on that you know what you want and will be more aroused and eager hearing it from you.
470927
Why can;t you have an orgasm by yourself?\n\nI would actually experiment and investigate yourself to see what you are capable of
174678
Try Ogoplex.  It makes you orgasm harder too.
585397
Dont feel bad. I have yet to experience an orgasm with my husband. The only way I can reach that peak is with a vibrator....I feel bad because I have to fake them...and I dont understand it because he can put it down in bed!
618886
Yes sometimes i fake it and yes i am still in that relationship, its my marriage lol. I fake it sometimes because maybe he has tried and tried but i just cant get there and he is getting frustrated and beating up on himself. Sometimes i fake it because i want him to feel good about himself so i over play the moans and all that to make him feel like a real stud. Sometimes i fake it cuz i wasn't in the mood to begin with and i want to hurry and get it over with but usually the source behind it all is to save his feelings and boost his ego because i love him and i would never want him to feel like he wasn't enough , because he is all i need.
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Well, thankfully I dont have to fake. But as for myself, I actually will have a small amount of "fluid"  much like a man....no denying what it is! Sadly if a woman fakes how will her man ever know what to do to truly please her? Open and honest is best.
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You're not alone! I've used ben wa balls, and also a small vibrator...\n\nNot to mention just doing it myself....
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I think everybody does it at one time or another.  It's normal, healthy even, to have an active imagination.  Just remember, while your imagining someone else, and not telling her about it, she's faking an orgasm, and not telling you about it.
365709
no thats perfectly normal , it might just help you to find out how to have better orgasms
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Well, with the exception of 2, I have faked climax with all my partners; same for the fantasizing. \n\nAnd I do see as to why you have come to that conclusion, I agree 100%.
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Yes, this is very normal!  I can't say it's controllable or not, but I know some guys orgasm with no reaction at all!  I don't see how, but I guess it depends on the person.
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No. \nSex is oftentimes based on confusion and falsehood. \nConfusion because I'm sure most people mistake lust and physical pleasure they experience during sex for being 'in love', and they don't even know what it is they're feeling. \nFalsehood, because a lot of it's straight up fake. Fake moans, fake orgasms, fake love = 50% fake. \n\nDuring communication, regardless of the means, all aspects of it are intentional and genuine; real. \n\nCommunication is better by far. Generally speaking, anyways. If your talking about relationship wise  - which would make sense since this is the 'Relationships' section of yahoo answers - I think it applies the same way.
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Your desire to have an orgasm is perfectly normal, and the fact you have chosen a stuffed animal is neither normal nor abnormal.  I used to date a girl who used her pillow.  The reason you may use the stuffed animal could be for several reasons - including the need to retain innocence subconsciously, the desire not to be entered, or because it's safe.  \n\nSome women need more stimulation of their clitoris than others to orgasm, while others orgasm quickly.  This is as much a function of physiology as it is mental state.
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Ejaculation, lubrication and orgasm are the correct phases.\n\nAlso it is believed that if you can take advantage of the Gräfenberg spot, or G-spot, you can reach orgasm easier. But it is not scientifically proven.
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Actually there's a large percentage of women who don't have an orgasm during intercourse alone.  A lot of us need clitoral stimulation as well in order to have an orgasm.  Don't be shy about it...do what works!!