my friend emily cheated on her bf and she is tring to break up with the guy she is cheating on what should emily do?
209589
learn fro this experience\n\nBe true to your self\n\n\nBrake it off with your boyfriend. \nStart anew Everyone deserves to be treated with honesty, you have broken respect  for your relationship.
560661
I'm kind of confused.  Her boyfriend has been away right?  She still loves him.  But since he's been gone, she found another guy right?  But the second guy has a another girlfriend???  Ummm....that's real simple.  Dump the second guy since he's obviously got two gals on the string...and go back to the first guy if she still loves HIM.  There's nothing to tell HIM.  Even if she can't make up her mind between the two of them, obviously guy #2 hasn't made up his mind which gal he wants so.....if she isn't his OBVIOUS choice she needn't waste any more of her time.  Why hurt the first guy when it isn't even necessary????
593583
Darling,\nYou've done your bit and you are a real friend for that. There's nothing else you can do but beeing there for him when he'll realize she's been cheating.\nI wish I had friends like you!
274825
If your friend doesn't know that you and your boyfriend are an item, then she is doing nothing wrong.  You need to tell her because if she thinks she has a chance with him and she doesn't she runs the risk of getting hurt.
380712
wow girl you have some problems.. those guys are going out with your friends, if you do make your move on them you'll prove to them exactly how loyal you are. and you just can't do that shyt to a friend, if you really do think of them as your friends. \n\nand if they ever do break up you should talk to your friend first before making your move on her ex. \n\nit's just a unwritten rule that you don't go out with your friends' boyfriends/exes. unless you really do want the drama.
414562
explain to her how she is doing the same thing that she gets mad at her boyfriend for doing and how she should not be so hypocritical, but do it nicely.If you are her friend then it is your job to tell her when she is doing something wrong.
32668
Comfort your friend and tell her NOT TO DO ANYTHING! As in completely nothing... Tell her not to call her boyfriend, not to go to the guy's place, not to talk with his friends, anything that has to do with the guy. Play cool and she should act as if he's not a big loss. DON'T EVER MAKE HIM FEEL SPECIAL. You're all good and he's not the center of her universe. She was born without him anyway plus he is just an OBSTACLE. She'll get over him. Just always be there for your friend. Oh how I hate cheaters! Plus I believe in carma... I say good luck to that di*khead
408623
That blows. Be close with her, focus on having her as a friend, and remember that when they break up you should wait until she has time to recover. Don't do anything more than you trust yourself to-- if you participate in cheating on Graham with Caroline then you will pretty much ruin any possibility of a serious relationship between yourself and Caroline. Good luck, and the world needs more guys like you!
122922
You want to be a good friend and I understand that but if I were in your shoes I would let it happen. If you make a big deal or say anything about it period shes going to wig and maybe end up dating the guy even longer just to spite you and that's just counter-productive. In my opinion she made a bad decision dating one of her friends X's but since that's not the question it's neither here nor there. The point is, she knew how he was before she started dating him, she should have known better. I'm not trying to be cruel but people learn things best firsthand. Be supportive, hope for the best, Maybe your X has changed but be ready to console her and help her move on when he screws her over as well.
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depends on how much the guy likes your friend. He might  just be leaveing more opitions for himself. If he likes that other girl more. then ditch him but if he does like your friend more. Get them together and make it official. If he is still cheating on your friend then get rid of him....
184503
Tell your boyfriend about her behavior, and then explain to your friend her behavior is unacceptable. Seeing as she's probably not going to relent for some time, I'm afriad you'll either have to ditch your boyfriend or your bestfriend. I'd suggest your boyfriend because your BFF is always there while boys come and go.\nBut if your BFF does this all the time with every boyfriend, she's majorly jealous and it's best to ditch her right now.\nJ'adore and good luck!\nConnie\nP.S. She also may be jealous of your boyfriend status, or she make like you boyfriend. Sit down and talk with her about it.
597422
I say you choose.  Either leave your boyfriend and be with the other man, or stop seeing the other man and be with your boyfriend.  It is not fair to either of you, especially him for you to go on having a sham of a relationship.\n   You have to grow up here and make a real choice.  You are treading in dangerous territory and you can only hurt yourself and your boyfriend continuing on the path you are on.\n   Ask yourself why you are cheating, and decide if it can be fixed so you no longer want to.  Or, is it just a selfish need to be with two different men?  Only you can decide, unless he finds out and dumps you because of your cheating ways.  \n   Good luck and I hope you make the right decision.
275630
baby girl, 1. don't date ex's friend. 2. dump anyone one who cheated on you. 3. go out and have fun; don't worry about having boyfriend just yet.
576694
What you did was the right thing to do, expect the reaction you got from her because that is normal too. Now all you have to do is sit her down and tell her that you need to talk. Tell her that what you said was true, even though she chooses not to believe you, tell her that it hurt you that you were honest with her and she turned against you, that she's letting this guy come between  what you thought was a friendship. Tell her you don't appreciate being bad mouthed by her, (especially if your friends) because she chose not to believe you and that the only person that is missing out is her. She messed a friendship up and has a cheating boyfriend too. She looks like the weak one, because your not the only one that knows, if you saw it it other people have also. And ask her what kind of friend she is. Maybe not the kind you want. After that if your not friends then she's not worthy enough to be in your presence. Find a new friend.
142118
Leave both of them alone.  She is not your friend and he is not boyfriend material.  Go on with your life.  This will just continue to go on.  Move on.  Life is way too short for all this stupid drama.  Him and Her both have big time problems.  Let it go...They are not worthy.
479435
mind our own business. let them sort out their own life. my friend's boyfriend was unfaithful as well and we didn't tell her but she did discover and it's for her to deal with it cause it's her relationship, as friends we can only lend an listening ear and be with her if she needs too. we are all adults.
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I know she’s your best mate, so you don’t like to see her act like this or hurt herself and/or her bf by acting this way. \n\nIn a sense this is really a problem between her and her bf. Ultimately, he must decide what he is willing to put up with and then approach her if he has a problem. You’re not part of that equation, directly.\n\nStill, if your embarrassment comes more because you hate to see her make a fool of herself and don’t want to see her ruin this relationship, you could approach her simply as a friend offering your observations and advice.\n\nYou can tell her that her past relationship broke up because she was flirting around, and now she’s sending out the same signals as she did when she dumped her old boyfriend – even if that’s not the image that she means to project to the world. \n\nIf she doesn’t want to confuse everyone (including herself – sometimes by flirting, we can encourage ourselves to fall in love with someone else, so she could easily end up cheating on THIS guy if she doesn’t drive him away first), she should stop.\n\nShe might not want to listen. You can't force her to change. But you can tell her in a way that shows that you care. She'll remember that and appreciate you for it, if the worst does happen.