i don't know how to tell if a guy is flirting with me because if he is then he is flirting with alot of other girls as well.
212180
he is just playing the field - do you want that kinda attention - obviously he is will not be exclusive to you - even if you have him
505866
If he knows you like him, and he asks other girls out other than you, then that means that he doesn't like you back as more than a friend.  \nIt's not comfortable to tell people who like you that the feeling isn't mutual, so he hasn't said anything.  He's hoping you'll "get the hint" and stop coming on to him.
152559
hey, do u think he really loves u? f u know he s, go for him. no matter how often he flirts w/ some other girls yet u have his heart, he s urs. no amount of flirting takes him away from u afterall flirting s just flirting nothing serious and it can b fun too f u try to flirt on him too sometimes
470196
I would find some else because this person is not loyal to his own girlfriend,and he sounds like what we call "a two timer" which means he likes to see more than one girl, and if you do see him, a big chance he'll do the same behind your back, so don't fool yourself and get hurt later on....so find someone else who is himself not someone who wants to flirt and show off in front of other people to get your attention....thats being childish on his behalf....seek a guy who likes who you are as an person not what you are....the relationship will go a long way.....
497069
Your friends are probably right. They would know if he was acting the same with other girls. \n\n1. Find out if he acts this way with other girls. His laughing with other girls doesn't mean he is interested, probably just outgoing. \n\n2. Get your girl friends to help by doing a little detective work and see if he is for real. When he looks ok, get one of your friends to find out for you if he likes you. I hope you are talking about your girl friends, as they will be able to tell if he is lying or not or if he puts any moves on them. \n\n3. If he passes the above tests with your girl friends helping out, then proceed to plan B. You know what to do, and how to do it, so good luck and go for it. \n\nDarryl S.
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If a guy has way too many girlfriends then trust me it is not a good sign. It means he likes the attention he gets from girls and he likes to be flirty. Trust me my boyfriend was the exact same way and I became so jealous of the fact that these girls would constantly call him and they would flirt. Although it was harmless flirting it still sucked from my part and if he is a ladies man there is no way you can be sure that he's not going to break your heart or cheat on you! TRUST ME
265722
you tell me and we will both know. it sounds to me that hes just being a flirt.. i wouldnt worry to much.. if he loves you like he says he does than the flirting hes doing is harmless. I am a flirt big time but my ole man knows that i am his completely and he trusts me.. if you trust him then let him flirt..if you dont trust him then step up girl and stand up for yourself and squash this now.. its kinda up to if you trust him or not.. your choice.. good luck
592746
When you're out, like at a club or party have a friend of yours, one that he's flirted with before (or even better one that he doesn't know and doesn't know that you know) hit on him and see what he does, if he does nothing, then you know he's just a flirt, if he takes the bait, then you know it's time to move on!
547786
It sounds like he suspects, but is not sure and that's why he is joking with you about going out (hints) and he might also have a crush on you and is trying to see how you react to his jokes.
653793
uhh..not at all. Why would u want a guy that flirts with other guys, that's not cool or fashionable. That sends a message out to me that something might be going on in the relationship, or he is gay or wants to be...
463408
Flirting is "fun" and it boosts your ego.  I'd be careful as far as letting myself think he's really "into" you just because he "flirts" with you.\n\nGuys that "flirt" with everyone need that "boost to their ego" that they get when the girls pay attention to them.  Personally I wouldn't want a boyfriend who flirted with everyone else!  I think you'd be spend a lot of energy "worrying".\n\nIf you just want to go out and have fun, then by all means "go", just don't take him too serious.  Maybe he really couldn't get out when you wanted to go, give him another chance.  I'd wait until he asks you though (just so you don't seem "too anxious").\n\nWhatever you decide, it's up to you.  Best of luck.
291523
Why don't you confront them that's the only way your going to find out. If they are play fighting and flirting that shows that there is something going on.
466188
Ok so he flirts with you but he is dating someone else. I'm sorry but this guy may be sweet and all that but he sounds like a player. A guy who is with someone else shouldn't be flirting with someone else. That's just not approiacate. next time he flirts with you, you just need to tell him he needs to stop because he is dating your friend and it's not right.
87968
well normally they will come on to you in some way , does he tease you ? do you see him glancing at you when he talks to someone else, signs he wants you to notice him , well get a new hair do,get ya push up bra on and ya low tops out not slutty clothes but sexy clothes and flirt like hell girl, shake that hair get a little bit more in his face so he gotta notice ya , and flirt like hell girl, good luck
455683
This guy has:\n\n1) "Been Chasing me for ages and ages (even when i was in a serious relationship)" - shows persistency, and also means that you are not just a fling or a crush for him.\n2) "He Always compliments me and makes conversation with me" - could be that's he's trying to get points, or that he simply is a nice guy. find out if he also compliments other women/people. about the conversation, it shows that you guys have chemistry.\n3) "i always catch him looking at me" - and he always catches you... :)\n4) "he doesnt flirt with any other girls" - now, i don't know you so  i could not say how you found this out, or if you are just supposing it. it ccould b that he does when you are not around, as well as that he could really be a no flirt type of guy (good :))\n\nBUT:\n\n1) "he only texts me at the weekends to meet him out" - maybe he is busy/ maybe he thinks YOU are busy/ maybe he is "busy", if you know what i mean (another person...)\n2) "he asked how im enjoying he single life (as if just come out of a 5 year relationship 8 months ago). I said i was enjoying it!" - now, you are, but why do you wonder if he likes you? :)\n3) "He said he wishes he could meet some like me (when i was in my previous relationship)" - it could be that he considers you a good friend and a good person. depending on your relationship, you are the best judge of the meaning of this sentence. he could be cueing you to think you are the right person for him, but it could also mean a sincere compliment.\n\nDoes he like me?Any advice?\nit seems he does, but again, YOU are the best judge for that :)\nit seems to me that YES he does.
51685
The way I look at it is.... When someone I am with looks at other girls, it is me that he is going home with and I would be worried if he wasn't looking at other girls, cuz that would mean that he may be cheating.
94248
Believe me! You never eally can know. Guys can really confuse girls.  have had this happen to. They show all the signs and u like them so u tell them, then they like someone else. best thing to do? ask him if he does or have a friend ask him. good lucky