or do u like guys that want u to work and go 50 50, I like the old way of looking after mr lady but would likr to here what you girls think?????\n\nCheers Dan
202042
I think it would be nice to have the old way except the old thinking that women were not good enough for working in business.  I think they should have the option, for me --I've been in both situations and I missed my kids something awful and couldn't spend enough time with them.  This is definately a problem in society today.  Too many kids without adult supervision or parents who don't know what they are doing.  The woman who gets with you and can feel free to have kids and actually care for them herself is very lucky and so are the kids.
577892
Not wanting a guy who is a total tool and has no class doesnt make  you picky. There are guys out there that arent like that, most  guys who are younger such as under 20 do things like adjust themselves in public or do wolf call whistles to girls etc. once you get older you will see more and more men who dont do those things. however some men never change and are always pigs.
525976
Hahahahahahahahaha. Im a lady and I do lady things and sh!t and I liked your joke very much young man!!  :o)
615920
I work with 75% men and they all make me feel included. We have more of a fun time working together, but we all know to get the job done. They are never rude because when I started here I laid down the ground rules that I am Queen. :)
635686
I think so but then as I ponder the question, I came up with the following thoughts:\n\nThese labels are so subjective. A guy who may not make as much money as I do may be a better manager of money, which could put him on a different level financially. Should he be willing to compromise his wealth because I can't balance my check book? Probably not, but would it be socially unacceptable for me expect him to help me out? Nope. It would probably be frowned upon if the situation was in the reverse because men are looked upon as the "breadwinner" or "provider." Alot of men evaluate their manhood on the ability to provide for their family. Which I think is the source of the insecurity and intimidation.\n\nOn the flip side...\n\nIf the women who have it "together" knowingly deal with men who are not on the same "level" and are willing to put up with them, it would be expected that they would be willing to support their man in whatever it takes to make the couple a stronger unit and also promote a health self-esteem/ego for the man. That is if the man feels the need to change. If he is okay with the fact that his wife/girlfriend/partner makes more money or has more education, then it should be okay with the other person.
333526
Yes, and I'm glad a male asked that question.  It's all about the right person for the job, who cares if she's female.
229568
well, lots of guys like it.......\ni mean it is good to see a woman telling you what to do......\nisn't it why so many guys like older women especially when they are under 25
303461
I would be, I'm open minded, caring and generous.  Not trying to be a creep though.  Maybe what they are saying is that you need to meet someone genuine, not the "typical" guy who thinks of himself superior to women, and that a women's place is in the kitchen, stuff like that.  But rather a man that would treat you with the respect and understanding that your friends think you desrve.  Good luck on finding that special someone.
483161
I dont. I think when women make that statement, they need to really think about it first.\nWhen I think about equality, its more about fairness. If Im doing a mans job, which I am, I should be paid equally. I work my as* off picking up 60-80 lb cases and I certainly dont wait for my male coworkers to come and help. If I took the job, I should be able to do it. \n I also believe that if I ask a man out for a drink then I should be the one paying and not get pissed off when he doesnt automatically open his wallet.
568576
If he loves you, yes.  If he conciders you an equal, yes.\n\nIf he is an a-hole using you as a trophy, no.  \n\nMost men would be honored if a lady half his age would even look at nim let alone want a relationship with him.
378314
You can be a gentleman at any age.  :)  The most respectful gentleman I have ever met is 16, and I hope he'll keep his respect for women until the day he dies.  First, don't judge people based on the outside alone.  Open doors for people, whether it be an old lady, a mother with kids, the girl you're crushing on.  Always say thank you and please.  Always help when you can, especially if it is something small like helping someone carry their grocery bags to their car, returning a cart for someone in the mall, helping a neighbor shovel their driveway or mow their lawn.  Giving up your seat in a crowded room or on the bus.  Lending someone shivering cold your jacket.  Helping the person in front of you pay for their purchases/orders or whatever if they find they are a couple dollars short.  Help a lady seat first when sitting or eating with her, pass food options to her before yourself.  Offer to run and grab an umbrella for her and walk her to her car when it's raining.  Offering to signal a cab for a lady, and sometimes, maybe even paying! ;) These things seem small, but they go so far to touch the lives of those around you.  :)
19347
Of course not. Actually, I myself appreciate the quality of independence in girls. And I love travel too, though haven't done much yet. Well, guys are NOT just a group of beings of the same preferrences. I think every individual varies. At least that's what I think.
254703
I don't know but you are right. I am a middle aged women and always thought it was correct to treat people decently. Most of my women supervisors are overbearing. It's their way or the highway. Its wrong but how do we change it?
341265
Can you afford to lose this job? Funny thing about some men in authority, they enjoy the effect they have on subordinates, especially pretty ones they know are attracted. If its real enough for him to risk inapropriate behaviour, he should make a move outside of work hours/envioronment, otherwise the only respect you'll earn is to keep your eyes on your work.
477989
please! lol@men taking care of womens emotional needs ..thats what we   have each other for\n\nof course its physical (if you are doing it right; otherwise it is duty)
512989
Just for the record, I'm not a guy. But this DOES NOT make you a jerk at all. You're obviously just looking for someone that would have more time for you without having to worry about a babysitter. There's nothing wrong with that.
436311
I don't.\n\nI prefer ladies who have class and self respect.