I love talking to him, we do talk a lot and we like each other a lot. But he is sort of obsessed with me already and i;m getting second thoughts about dating him, he told me he loved me and i didn't know what to say back.
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He probably doesn't know the true meaning of LOVE.  But I bet he's got the infatuation thing down to a science.\n\nOK, let's face it, children (and I mean young persons under the age of 20) experience a rush of hormones.  These powerful chemicals drive us to do strange things and say things we don't have any understanding of.\n\nOK, so he said he loves you.  Take it with a grain of salt.  It may grow into a real love.  And if you are young like I think you are then take it slow, but fight for it if it is what you want.  The young loves are the most intense.  And if it does grow you may find yourself happy for a very long time.\n\nHowever, also keep in mind that he could be thinking with the little head. (hormones again)\n\nObsession?  Since you use that word, it makes me feel that this is NOT the right thing for you.  Remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea.  If this one gets away, there will be another.\n\nUse your head and not your heart.  I know they say to follow your heart, but that's not always good advice.  The heart can want things that are not good for it.  Just read some of the questions people are asking here.  You'll see that there is a lot of people suffering heartache because they made a mistake.  A mistake made by following their heart.
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It sounds like he's committed to you so what's the hold up.  What do you want out of the relationship?  If you really love him tell him.  If you don't let him go. The relationship won't go anywhere if you hold it back.  Tell him how you feel or eventually you will lose him.
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i am in this situation right now. maybe he feels that he rushed into things. maybe he thought he liked you, possibly really did, then realized that there is nothing theree. i need to tell her. damn. \n\nbut really, dont fret. just wait and see.
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Awww! I hate it when that happens... \nMaybe he just wasn't good enough for you...\nI don't know what you told him but possibly, something that you told him about your personal stuff made him think that you're not the right one for him... I don't know! \nDon't worry about it. It was just a date! Move on... there's plenty more fish in the sea :)
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Get him alone, get his number, give him yours, tell him you have something you would like to get off your chest.  More importantly though, make sure you're not confusing "like" with "love".  People throw this word around "love" without really knowing what it means.  He's had feelings for you before, does he have these feelings for you now?  Don't set yourself up to get disappointed or worse yet hurt.  If you've made up your mind, and it's truly coming from the heart then let him know.  Good luck!
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"i really want him to like me and be obsessed with me or watever!" If you are able to tell me what "obsessed with" means-I will answer your question.
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Yes, he might just be saying it so he gets more.  You should expect to be asked for more.  \n\nHow to know his true feelings?  Ask!  Ask him why he decided he loves you now?  When did he knew he felt this way?  If its true, the words should flow from the heart.
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He sounds confused, maybe he doesn't know what he wants..He would love you in the future? Does he have a specific date on his calendar or what? Maybe he likes someone else and just wants to keep you on the back burner..Sounds strange anyways
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Seems like u like him a lot...better have a talk with him first about what u think, then if it's hopeless, end it.
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Have a talk with this guy, find out why he says he loves you because this guy sees something with in you that this guy likes about you. Give this guy some reason why you don't feel the same.Tell him you don't feel comfortable  with hime following you. Tell him could be friends get to know more about each other [ likes- dislikes ] Tell him you are not intrested in him at the present time. who knows maybe in the future a relation ship could develope between you two.
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It sounds like he's confused, too.  Give yourselves some time before comitting to an exclusive relationship.  Stay friends for awhile and tell him you think you like him, too but want to keep things at a just friends level for awhile.  He'll respect your wishes and it gives your relationship time to progress as it will, naturally.
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You probably don't want to hear this but...I don't think he loves you, I think he likes you and he was probably horny. If I was you I would just keep him as a friend and start dating other people and leave my options open. Good luck.
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If you don't talk to him, how are you going to find out? You need to communicate SOMEHOW.  But you need to try not to be too pushy so you don't scare him if you know what I mean.  People get scared if they're feeling pushed.  Maybe HE'S afraid to tell YOU how he feels. Try telling him he's really special in your life.  You don't have to come out and say "I love you" -- but everyone likes to hear they are special to others.  Wouldn't you?  I'll be if you heard that from someone (him maybe) -- you wouldn't feel quite so insecure would you?
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Guys just usually mean what they say so take it at face value.  He's not ready for a relationship yet so either hang around him and wait patiently or move on.
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I think he totally likes you. why would he be starring at you.  You guys should talk about it he probably thinks you have changed too and does not know how to interact.
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i think thats the only way to take it. obviously he thinks hes too good for you. you sound very mature. i hes going to act like a child, then youre too good for him.
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It sounds like you too have a deep connection, he called you and you keep loving him and thinking about him plus you two talked "in silence" too its as if you have a body language connection as well.I think you two should try being together again, try another date and tell him how much you enjoy his company and his personality and how people make mistakes.that might bring him back too you.hope this helps.