I keep getting looks and shit from people saying i am to young but my husband and i have been married 1 yr and 4 months and have been together for about 6 yrs....am i way to young?
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Absolutely not.  As long as both your husband and your are happy and can face the responsiblities of being married to each other you'll be just fine.
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LOL! I was going to post an answer here elle but there are already a lot of good answers. While I was reading them I noticed Frank whos "baby daddy" run off posted an answer to you. Funny stuff ;)\n\nBTW theres nothing wrong with what youre doing, just be honest with him. One caveat, there are sexy 33 year old guys too :P
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My husband and I are few months apart age wise and he is the older, we met at university and I believe it was love at first sight, even if we didn't realize it immediately, We married within two years of graduating and that was 14 years ago, we are still in love, so from my experience, being in love and marrying someone my own age has been a successful venture.\n\nI do disagree with sweety in saying that age gap with the man being at least 3 to 4 years  older creates respect. What creates respect is mutual understanding, love, trust, taking care of the duties of marriage as dictated by God etc, it has nothing to do with the age of the husband.\nIf your man treats you like his queen like my  husband does with me, you can't but want to care for and respect him because that is what he deserves.
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yeah there are guys that are and they get married and they stay married. Take me for instance I have a fiancee as well and she 22 and I am 24, we are goin to get married in March of next year.\n\nAnywayz to get back to the subject, yeah there are many young couples that get married young and stay married. Do not worry about the other women, if he truly wants to be with you and loves you more than anything he would not pay attention to all the other women.\n\nOther than that I wish you all the luck and blessings in the world. Congrats on the engagement
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LOL, after reading your previous questions on here I just have to laugh.  In one question your'e talking about your wife, the next you husband, your toddler, now your 21 year old.........  \n\nVery entertaining questions (at least some of them) , bet your'e laughing your ar** off reading the replies.
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I'm with you on this one - my husband is the same way. I had to take five years of CONSTANTly telling him how hot he is - make sure he KNOWS how attracted to him you are...jump him...frequently..let him know you only have eyes for him. I mean sadly repetitiveness is the key...it's just like, he can hear it 10000 times, but until HE believe it, it's not going to work.
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well for starters...enjoy looking young while it lasts...although you just may always have a young look about you.\nI'm 29, but most ppl think I'm 22-23ish. * LOVE IT now, hated it at 18 because i looked 15! lmao not fun* \nmy husband is older too, so i understand how ya feel. as if everyone thinks your a stupid kid or something...\nto this day some of his "new" friends treat me like that till they get to know me.\n\ntry dressing a bit older, but still sexy and classy.\nleave the girly girly clothes at home when you go out, and opt for something a bit more classy. \nslacks instead of jeans\nblouses or really nice tops instead of T-shirts\nfix your hair up in something other than a ponytail.\nstick to neutral colored makeup with either smokey eyes, or bright lips *not at the same time...one or the other*\n\nbut of course....keep the jeans and T-shirts for when you and your BF spend time out together.
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happens to me too, i m almost 37 years old, i was born on december 20 th 1969, and people says i look like 25 or 27 at maximum,\nmy husband is 29 years old and people says he looks like 18,, i must say that he looks like 14 lol, because he really looks amazingly young, and it s a problem for him u know,,,because he is a newly degreed doctor, and people don't trust young doctors so much, i told him to grow a beard and mustache and put some glasses, may be make some grey highlights in the hair will help too, dont know.
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First of all, 19!? Ur still young and you've already had a baby. Yikes!!! Slow down. I say just tell him how you feel and if he doesn't respect that then...whatever.
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My wife is now 33, and she's more beautiful now than when she was 23. Your question somehow gets me. Are you wanting to be wanted by a bunch of young dumb skirt-chasers? Did you let yourself go over the last 15 yrs? I'm not feeling that about you, it's just the wording of your question. Kinda hints your a little lost in direction is all. So what, you're 35. If you were attractive at 20, I'm sure you are now. You need to focus on where you are at now, not where you were before and what happened.\nYou don't make up for lost time, because you can't go back in time. You can only learn from experience and try to not make repeat mistakes. Just try to make improvements a day at a time.\nRemember that your state of mind reflects on your appearance. So, if you are depressed, down in the dumps angry, you won't get as much attention or looks as when you are happy and vibrant. Be content with who you are now, and enjoy your life on this planet.......it's short ya know. GBWY
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I have been with My Husband since we have been 15.I am 36.yes there has been time when I wanted to leave and same for him we got married for better or for worse.We have God in our life and that has helped us out ALOT.we have 3 kids 21,14 and 10 and a Half.
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My mom was 19 when she married my dad and he was 26.  They've been married over 25 years.  My husband and I were both 19 when we got married and we couldn't be happier.  The question is, are you two mature enough to get married.  Remember that marriage is a very big step.  People don't take it seriously anymore.  If you chose to get married, honor your vows, and remember, God will always consider the first person you marry to be your spouse unless the marriage is annulled.  You have to put that person first in everything you do and they need to do the same.  It really helps to go to a counselor before saying "I do".  I don't believe there is a certain age to get married but I do believe alot of people get married before they are ready.  Good luck!
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I am 32, husband is 31.\n\nI don't think the age difference is that drastic, having dated a 38 yr old at 19. \n\nI think a lot of older guys like younger women.  Why??? (boy am I going to catch flack for this, ready....?)\n\nBECAUSE THEY'RE NICE.  Women your age (37) have been married & divorced, probably a couple of times by now.  They are overall jaded and in survival mode.  They have kids, probably (which is not that big of a deal but has a lot to do with their priorities in finding another partner, which is as it should be.)  I am not saying all women are like this, but I bet more than a few are, and I bet you dated them too, right?\n\nAt 22, most women are still open to being hurt, and just don't have as much baggage.  I married first at that age & had my daughter- was divorced a couple of years later and was a little bitter & wary.  2 wacko heartbreaking guys later, and I just decided to let go & see.  Enter fabulous now husband.  It's all OK. \n\nI think if you love her, she loves you, and you treat each other with respect and want the same things...\n\nGO FOR IT HONEY!  \n\nAge isn't much when it comes to love.
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Congratulations for starters.  People are very quick to be negative these days...so most people believe that your marriage will fail.  What is the fun in trying to be positive?  I believe that as long as you and your fiance truly love each other and realize that you are making a life long commitment you will make it through life just fine!  My parents got married when they were 19 and 20(because my mom was prego with my sis), and they will be celebrating their 25th anniversary this May.  No marriage is all kittens and cuddles...you will have ups and downs...and honestly it will probably be a WHOLE lot of downs that first year.  Just make sure you stick it out...ad always remember why it is that you got married!  I hope that you have a wonderful life with your husband!
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You just know.  My husband knew I was the one on our first date - I knew a few dates after that.  I was 25 and he was 33.  We looked at rings a month later, were engaged 4 months after that, and got married 2 years later after saving up money for our dream wedding.  We've almost been married a year now.  It's not a feeling you can even explain - it just hits you and sticks with you.  It sounds like you are both too young and not ready yet.
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It depends on your maturity.  There are some women who at 20 have the maturity of a 40-year old.  Do you agree on the same things?  Do you love each other?  Would you mind if people refer to your husband as your father?  Would your children mind if people  refer to their father as their grand-father?  Would you be willing to care for him when you're sixty and he's 80? If you're 20 today and he's 40, it will not show up much, but I guarantee that when you're 60 and he's 80, it's a different story.  Make sure you reflect on all these things before marrying him (not only with your heart but with your brain) and then make a decision which you're sure not to regret in the long run.  Good luck.  \n\nSince I'm a female, I know lots of ladies who are married to men who are 9 or 10 years their senior.  Amazingly, the age gap doesn't seem to take a toll on their marriage and most of them are very happy together.
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VERY Married 28 years Don't be in a rush You will changes so much mentally and emotionally by the time your ready to marry. My husband was 29 and I was 24 when we married.