well me and my ex broke up becouse i cheated on him but it was only a kiss and he knows that but this guy makes me so happy since my ex that i was with died last year and we was together for 3 years and i found someone who makes me happy and then i got drunk and KISSED someother guy help me i realy care for him and want him back
216007
Apologize, apologize, apologize.\nThen just be honest and talk to him. Will he take your calls? If so just tell him what you just told us, that he is the best thing that has happened to you, and that you made a mistake, while under the influence and that it will never happen again, that you don't want to lose him as a friend, or as the man you love. \n\nAsk him has hasn't he ever done something he truly regrets in a moment of weakness and bad judgement. We all have to grow and learn life lessons as we go
172768
It's the thrill of a new relationship.  Give it some time and you two should be back together soon enough :)
322994
it seems like he is a sweet person and he loves you stay with him you dont want to ruin a good thing!!!!! Thats how me and my boyfriend was i broke up wit him and now i miss him and want him back but he has a new girlfriend and dont want me . dont do what i did you'll be more unhappy then before!!!!!
57626
Life is short and u only live once...He was part of ur life b4 and it didn't work out, what makes u think that this time is going to work? There's an old saying: "if u hurt me once is ur fault, but if u hurt me twice is my fault". Ur only falling in love with him because he came back in2 ur life...but think of ur current b/f as well...put urself in his shoes...how would u feel if he was 2 leave u 4 his x?? Ask urself the reason why ur x is back in urlife? What was it that 'caused him 2 come back? What happens if u go back with ur x and then u realize that ur current b/f is the one u were meant 2 b with...u would have lost everything...and u might end up alone...do not play with people's emotions because, what goes around comes around...
139770
I know how it feel to be broke up but want your ex back, it hurts badly, just see it like this, if it's meant for you to be together, he will come back on his on, if it's not, he won't...even if he does, if it's not meant to last, he will leave again, but if it is, eventually he will be there with you forever.....although nothing last forever, he will be with you until one of you die, so just hold on and see what happens, but remember, although you love him, if he doesn't come back, there are plenty others out ther that will be there, I had to make myself realize that, I thought that no-one else out there can make me feel like he did...A LIE!!! when there's something good there's always something better!!!! good luck!!
582806
I was the some as you and it took me years to completely trust someone again and even then I still gave this guy a hard time. One day it dawned on me that he wanted to be with me and had suffered thru all that I had given him and was still there. He is now my partner of 3 years. He understood how I had been hurt and was prepared to work thru it with me. If the guy really wants to be with you and the feeling is mutual, he will stick with you. Tell him how you feel and why you feel like that. If he is worth his salt, he'll stick with you. You also need to realise that if you don't learn to trust again, you'll always be alone.
519790
Convince yourself that you deserve better and I'm sure you do.  Look at it as his loss, not yours and move on.  You can love someone dearly and still be smart enough to know that you can't actually be with them because it's simply not good for you.  I have an ex from 15 years ago that I'll always adore, but we can't be in the same room without trying to claw each other's eyeballs out.  We've broke up 12 years ago and we have remained friends..on the phone. lol
623955
If you're happy with the new bf (and not just because he buys you things), then tell the ex, sorry bout your luck.  Tell him you actually shuold thank him, because if he hadn't left you you never would have met this guy.  And you are happy, and hope he can find someone to be as happy with.
306234
The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy,treat yourself well,stay away from your ex,and move on,my friend.Best wishes:)
48680
dear broken hearted,you have to understand the difference between a lie and actually physical harm.i know what physical harm is.i loved someone and because of this i trusted him.but i really found out the hard way.i was almost killed due to an accident he caused because i was letting him go for his lies.so be thankful you only have a broken heart to deal with.i forgave him but i can never be with him again .my life is worth more than that.so you will heal in time and find someone who will treat you good and you can trust.i have .so anything is possible.take care and move on.
494947
i give u a thumbs up. i dont usually get along wiht ex lovers as i get dumped for no reason, but there is one that i get along with. his name is brian.we were going out 9 months, i was 16 and he was 19 and we both thought it was love (as u do at 16) we broke up cuz we lived in different town and i couldnt see him every wknd like i used to cuz of work and i was living at home and my mam would not let him come up to me. weve been friends for years now. occasionally we have the odd moment of passion and he swears he still loves me and says that im deadly but also says if he cant have me as a girlfriend he does not want to loose me as a friend either. we live in different town so i dont get to see him as much now, but when i do we have a laugh. he also always stands up for me if someone even looks at me funny.so there u go, this is as long an awnser as i can make it.
220490
since u have broken with ur old bf its better that u forget him and move on with this new guy.\nit 'll b good 4 u both as u both like each other.
610749
I am glad that u say he is your EX. Why then do u care what he thinks about u? Still, you need 2 get him out of your life altogether. When u do get another boyfriend your ex will think that he was right about u that u are a s---. He may even cause conflict with u & your guy. You are being subjected 2 mental abuse that will lower your self-esteem & u need 2 totally reject this guy from your life.
638785
Don't feel guilty.  Get up and have a fantastic time with this new guy.  You aren't mourning, sweetie, you just broke up with someone!  Enjoy yourself and do what makes you happy!  Never feel guilty for doing something that makes you feel good!
371962
I know you would love for me to just give you a simple answer and your problem would be solved....well it's not that simple. Me and my ex boyfried are kind of going through the same thing. I have a new boyfriend and everything but like you i don't feel whole and i miss him. Well the best answer i can give you is you can't forget a love like that that means so much to you. He will always be in your thoughts and you will always feel like you need him. But you just have to think that your decision was the best option and try not to think about all of the regrets but think about the happy times your having now.
223124
You broke up with this guy for a reason. Ask yourself if you really like your ex. Who do you want to be with? maybe you should just be single for a while and just date around. Maybe try to be friends with your ex and see how that works out for you, see if your feelings resurface, but also tell him to date as well. It'll all work out if you think things over.
267443
First of all you need to tell your ex to get over himself! Hes the one that messed up therefore he shouldnt be trying to get back at you! And even if lets say you were the one to cheat first then oh well lifes tough and he needs to move on! You and the "new" guy shouldnt even pay attention to your ex. I mean he is your EX hence the word EX as in he doesnt matter anymore! You guys should just ignore him and be happy!!