Had a date on Tuesday, April 4th. I had a great time and she agreed as well. \n\nOn Wednesday, she text messaged me while I was at work and talked for about 20 minutes. she was making fun of me and i was making fun of her...it was fun. \n\nOn Thursday the 6th, I just text her a smiley face \n\nAnd then from April 7th-15th I went on vacation. Sent her a text on the 13th to wish her a Happy Birthday and then when i returned on the 15th I called her up and left a message to let her know that I came back. \n\nHaven't heard from her?????\n\nWhat do you think? Is this a sign to move on or what??? \n\n\nMy CONCERN is that I feel like I might be stalking or seem to eager so I don't want to push to that level....
200713
It hasn't been that long, give her a few more days to get back to you and until then don't contact her.
31325
LOL.....man......I wish I had caller ID a few times too. I had this exact same thing happen to me! You described it well too. I thought I'd split a gut when you said that about the caller ID....ROFL.\n\nWell meaning person, sweet, intelligent....but MAN, just could not understand plain, well-stated english.\n\nOk.....I don't know which way you want to go....\n\n....but I tried and tried...and tried and tried and tried and tried....and did I mention that I tried?...to be polite, respectful, caring.\n\nTo carefully lay barriers (even tho I wanted to hide in a tank), talked with her, communicated in person, on the phone. And it's not like we were strong buds or anything it was just a low-level friendship, but she was treating me like a nuclear-powered soul mate. It was very inappropriate.\n\nI'd speak to her....kindly, clearly, but the message did not sink in. I asked her about what her feelings were, and she squarely, flatly said friendship. I asked her several times...just to be sure, and she emphatically said friendship. \n\nI tried my best to be this woman's friend, but it was never enough. She demanded more and more of my time and attention. It got worse and worse, and I communicated more and more firmly with her. I was starting to look for tickets to the next Shuttle launch so I could get away.\n\nI eventually had to warn her that she was quickly going to lose a friend if she didn't cut it out.....and she didn't....and I had to finally be rude to her. :(\n\nIt's a shame, but I wanted to make sure I did everything I could on my end, to give her every possible chance to keep the friendship. Severing a frendship is a pretty major thing, and I felt bad but things were getting pretty trippy.\n\nDunno what you can glean outta all this, but I wish you luck!     :D
455589
Wait to see what her reaction is. See how she acts around you the next couple of days. Don't come on too strong. Play it cool.
429117
Yeah leave messages on her email and IM account. If you dont hear from her in 24 hours call the cops. Do you have any idea who this guy is she was supposed to meet?  After all online dating can be risky. I understand you being concerned.
624561
I would say she had to be somewhat interested. She wouldn't have called after a month if she wasn't, she would have just let it go. She may just want to be friends, not sure, but, at least you know she was thinkin about you. Long distance relationships are hard, but Wish you luck.
402245
Sounds like she was interested, and waiting for you to make a move. When you didn't she decided to change tactic and see if she gets a reaction out of you with her current behaviour.\n\nTell her how you feel and if she doesn't feel that way, it's not like you lost anything.
492673
Sorry:-))) But i am kind of amused...You know, the first thing that men have to learn about women is to give them their space. Hey...if your parting words weren't bitter, there is no cause for alarm. I am sure she'll call..giv her some time. You said she had a boyfriend..well, maybe she is busy..there could be a thousand things you dont know...So dont miss her too much. Try and concentrate on ur GF. I am sure she be in touch shortly.
517592
I think it's a little weird that she was pissed when you needed to leave the next morning.  It's almost insecure.  When she cut you off on the phone it does sound like a game.  I bet she is waiting to see if you call her, not IM.  If you really like her, get over the issue of calling her place and give her a buzz. Otherwise sooner or later I'm sure she'll call you. Be careful....it seems too soon for her to be so over the top about you not staying longer.
605256
Hang in there buddy, there could be many reasons she hasn't responded yet.  She may not have gone into her email, it may have gotten lost in cyberspace, you may have put  a wrong address, she may have a spam system on her mail that just kicked you to the spam file.  There is also the thought that she is thinking how best to respond to you, she may be busy and hasn't had time to sit down and respond to it.  Give her a few days, if she hasn't responded by then, I suggest what you should have done in the first place...tell her face to face or at least over the phone.  That is much more personal than an email for this kind of thing.  Expressing your feelings is good, it is a sign of maturity, especially for men!  Tell her what you said in the letter basically and see how she feels about that.  Don't get down on yourself, at least you are trying....many people are too scared to even try!  Nothing ventured, nothing gained..you had nothing to lose and everything to gain!  I hope this helps a bit, and good luck with her...hope it all works out for the best!
272604
Wait three days and e-mail her again.\n\nmaske it a nice one, where you comment that you miss her and would like to spend some time with her, perhaps grabbing something at the Starbucks.\n\nIf you get blown off again, then she feels she made a mistake. Take this as your cue to exit gracefully and find someone who is less petulant.
635111
Probably cuz you ignored her.  I always say sometimes it is best to "back off" which is what you did and it worked out for you.  Try not to be TOO interested too fast though as that probably scared her a little.  You did right.
540217
Good to cut it short --- but poor form on announcing to her friend that you liked her instead\n\nChances are the girl you were supposed to be on the date with found you pretty boring too!!
509156
if she dont hit you up in a week then just keep waiting to see if she will hti you up, and if she doesnt within a month... call her saying whats wrong with you bitch... then dont talk to her again...
592676
Give her a call. She's prbably wondering what happened to you. I can tell you from a girl's perspective that when a guy is given a girl's phone number and he doesn't call either not at all or for awhile, the girl is going to think something is wrong. So you give her a call, see if she is still interested in seeing you, if the answer is yes, then ask her out and be honest with her. If and when she asks you why it took so long for you to call her, you tell her you had some business to take care of and things are just now slowing down. That way you're neither lying nor is it giving her too much information than what you want her to know. As far as her reaction, she may be upset a little that it's been 3 weeks since you've had her number, but on the other hand she'll be glad that you finally called if she wants to pursue something with you. Hope this helps you.
417499
Hey, I am Jennifer. I was reading over ur qustion, It seems that she is a play by play...I dont know but if i was u i wouldent date her anymore or see her. For me to say I think u sound like  nice guy and u need better. For what i am trying to say is that she tells u to trust her, how could u ever trust anyone that spends the night with anotheir man..thats not right, if u ask me....If she really cared for u she would be with u and not anotheir man. It sounds like she is sorta a good person and all but i think u so need better then her, she is nothing. I'm sry i hope i dont upset you. But what ever happens good luck. But if u would like to talk just im me it is kikikinky321.. bye for now
375616
Chances are you are playing her to feed your own ego. What are YOU doing to encourage her behavior? Be nice. Tell her you do not feel any chemistry towards her. That's all. Then avoid seeing her and contacting her in any way. Don't take her calls, don't respond to her emails.
605811
If she can't keep her emails straight...I would believe she is pulling one over on you.  And no matter what the relationship, not sure I would advertise I slept with every guy I've dated.  Good luck!!