How do i figure you spousal support in California for free online. I cant find it.
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It depends on the judge.
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Go to www.martindale.com and do a search for estate planning lawyers in your area.  Find only those with A/V ratings.  \n\nFrom there, check their listing on the California Bar website at www.calbar.ca.gov.  On the right hand side, you'll see a link for "check an attorney's bar membership record."  Form there you can see if they have a legal specialty in estate planning and whether they've ever been disciplined.\n\nWhen you find one that is both A/V rated and has a legal specialty in estate planning, give them a call and ask for a free consultation.
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That's something you REALLY need to talk to a lawyer about, and quickly! Contact Legal Aid of California, they answer questions and provide help on a sliding scale.
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I think this is what you're looking for-\n\nhttp://www.spb.ca.gov/employment/documents/capp.pdf\n\nIt's a .pdf file by the way
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Go to www.marriagebuilders.com.  The info on the site and the member forums literally did save my marriage.
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call a local law office they should give you the information for free
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Check with the Texas Bar Association.  They should have a toll free number listed.
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Ok, so is everybody on yahoo just a jerk?  Didn't your mothers ever teach you that if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all?\n\nSo anyway...the way to go about it is to seek a revision of the child support order.  The fact that you have another child WILL be taken into consideration. \n\nHOWEVER, since the order is 10 years old, there have been no adjustments made for cost of living, increased costs of the child he is paying support for, etc.  Child support normally gets increased over the years for cost of living and based on the expectation that the older the child, the more expensive they are.\n\nSo, unless he is making SIGNIFICANTLY less money, or unless the child's mother is making SIGNIFICANTLY more than your husband, you are probably better off leaving things as they are.\n\nLook into things for your state.  My state has a "child support calculator" on the internet. You can enter the figures and see what the child support would be based on the facts.  \n\nThe courts probably define "hardship" differently than you do, so be careful.  Do you have a nice house, do you have decent vehicles, do you have clothes on your backs and food to eat?  Not to mention luxuries.  You will need to show REAL hardship to draw sympathy from a court when you (or your husband) is the payor.  In my state, as long as the father has $500/month gross, all the rest can go to child support if the calculator says so. Tell me how anyone can live off $500 gross?  All the sympathies are with the child and his/her mother.  \n\nAlso, you would HAVE to get a lawyer.  You never want to go to court alone, as you are sure to get the raw deal (heard that from a judges mouth)\n\nBe careful, you may be opening Pandora's Box.
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If you use a website, generally those cost money.  And each form varies from state to state, so the best bet is really to go to a law library for your state.\n\nYou should consider a lawyer - you might be surprised at how inexpensive it is to file an uncontested divorce.
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maybe you can use this link and try some of the phone numbers if you find any!  sorry about your separation!  Good Luck
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If it isn't in your divorce decree you are out of luck.\n\nCoach
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just look in the telephone directory or call directory assistance
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Some California courts have records available online.  However, San Diego County courts only has a name index available online.  You might be able convince a court clerk to give you the information over the phone, but your best be is to go to the branch court where the case was handled and look it up in person.  The files are public record, so you have pay for a photocopy fo the verdict or judgment.
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if he divorces you? or you divorce him\nhe will pay child support for each child until they reach 18, then they are considered adult and are no longer require to recieved money from the father\nyou are entitled to spousal support for 1 day for every 2 days married ( if you are maarried 10 years for example you get 5 years spousal support ), in some states once you get to 10 years it spousal support until you remarry.\nmost states are no fault states, meaning either party can file for divorce with no fault given for the divorce, but since you have children you can contest the divorce, he or you cannot file for an uncontested divorce if you have children or the marriage was over 5 years and you have any assests. google divorce laws ( then your state ) to see what laws apply to you\nabove all if he does nothing do SOMETHING\nyou can file legal seperation\nand you can then file for divorce ( or file for divorce 1st  and skip legal sepration )\n\nIt's a shame that he runs out on a good Filipina women as those are some of the best women in the world and you are correct about lilttle to no divorce rates, why he is running out of you unfortunately shows his lack of respect for the good Filipina women / culture and for himself and marriage in general. Good luck on what ever your decison.
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Please try to work it out first before you do anything drastic. I would try to find inexpensive or free counseling through the state. Look online and search for your state and family counseling, or ask your family doctor if they know who to call. Or, contact the Family Services dept. in your city or town to find free counseling services. Your next best step is to get a good lawyer. There are some out there that do pro bono (for free) work. \n\nGet your ducks in a row. Make sure you are in good standing with every institution, family member, and friend in your life and workplace. Gather any documentation of your financial ability to care for the kids, and any evidence that your wife is less capable. Keep a record of dates and times when incidents occur where your wife does anything reckless or irresponsible. Document all of the school activities and other kid-related stuff you've been involved in. A lawyer will help you do this the right way.\n\nHere are a couple of helpful links:\n\n\nhttp://www.scfn.org/\nhttp://fatherhood.about.com/od/singledadsresources/\n\nIf the 10 year old is yours and not hers, you can leave with him. If he is both of yours, leaving with him is okay in some areas as long as you remain in the state. But I recommend you discuss this with a law professional (officer or lawyer) before doing anything.\n\nI hope you're doing this for the right reasons. Good luck!
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guess you'll have to check with the child support office...assuming you have a legal right to the information.
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no free websites that i'm aware of. If your wife is suspicious of someone for a good reason, you maybe able to go down to your local police station and have them check. If she's just being nosey (which all of like to do) then you may have to throw down a few bucks.