rite now i m in confused state even i dont know where to head for wht all i want  from life
211941
Some very shallow people on here. Life is whatever you want it to be. Today it may be one thing and tomorrow another. Life is an adventure. Enjoy it. You say you want alot from life, well start with the small stuff, those easily reached goals, and then go from there. Nothing though is ever written stone, you ideas, dreams etc will change. That is one definite thing in life and that is change.... Just enjoy all that you have and don't think of the petty things because those are not what you really want, they are just perks for being here. Find your passion and follow your heart.
462939
I'm Confused alllright!
371591
Forget what other people are doing with there lives, someday it will hit them and they will have things not going for them also.\nYou have to think positive and praying helps also. Talk to a professional counselor at school, maybe you are going in the wrong career direction. Or perhaps you need to get away for the day, by yourself to just think on what you want to do with your life.
141159
I think you're one confused girl. First, it's important to reassess your feelings first. Who do you really care about? What do you want to happen with your life? Who do you really want to stay with? Who do you think will make you happy? Who do you think you can make happy? After clearing out your thoughts, then go for the one who you think is best for you. You even might end up considering that no one is right for you at the moment, and even that is fine. But yeah, just think about everything carefully first before moving into any further decision.
497959
I`m lost. I don`t know where to begin.\n\nTHE END!!
33286
It is a question you should ask yourself where you feel at ease and in best of your composure and feelings I think we by saying this is good and that is bad may confuse you more. The choice is yours and only yours to make. But we could pray that you lead a good and happy life and may you be blessed with the guidance that is best for you.
498678
Go anywhere you want to!\nbe FREEEEE!!!
627684
That sounds normal to me.  I am not moving but I think that you would want to see your friends and the comfortable familiarities of your life because you will be going to a new place. Good luck.
458790
Wow! that's quite a story I think you need to meditate and find out\nin your heart what the best path is
88630
The only person that can help you out of this situation is you. You have a mind set that everyone is leaving you behind and is going on with there own lives getting married gettin wraped up in there jobs. You should find what makes you happy and try not concentrating on what the people around you are doing. Be your own person.. and try to find the little things that make you happy. It also sounds like you might be a litte depressed... talk to some one if you can to help you release what your feeling inside.
258311
I thought about this a lot when I was your age, and for a few years after.  It's normal to think about this, since you're in a transitional period in your life.  You're finishing basic schooling and getting ready to go out into the world for either further schooling or into the job world.  Basically, you're going out on your own either way, and it's scary.  You start thinking about getting older, and what the future may hold for you.  The uncertainty is what leads you into thinking about the finality of your life, and the inevitablity of your "impending doom".  These thoughts will pass as you set your goals, start working toward them, and start accomplishing things.  The secret is: don't let yourself sit around and think about it too much!  Keep busy, and keep your mind occupied with other things.
468489
dont loss the hope of life u may one day find a job and girlfriend and everything same time\ndont loss the hope just wait and also seek for a job
172914
forward with my life and on to better things
645209
the only way to figure this out is by figuring what YOU want to do in life. It's kind of hard to figure out aftre just finishing college, you have resposibilities now, rent, debts and so on. The key here is to find out what you really enjoy doing. that can come about from many different ways. If you're like me, I found out what I wanted to do in life by.....figuring out what I DIDN'T want to do. Had lots of crappy jobs that lead nowhere. took me awhile to figure out that I didn't know what I wanted and that's why i career hopped to various jobs. Look at what you find interest in, not what makes a lot of money or what your parents would like to see you do but what you find interests in. doesn't have to be in accounting either. I grad with a B.A. in English Writing and I'm now a loan officer. either look for what you want to do or just pick something quick and see if you like it.
52517
You have to really know what you want...and then go for it!\n\nFlirting is uncertainty. It's just saying "maybe"...
241853
Not quite where I should be. I started strong and somehow got stuck somewhere...I'm currently looking for the path to take me to where I was initially going.
234586
Don't run away that will make things worse.  To be honest it wont matter what anyone says to you because your going to hear what you want and go from there.  I realize things may be difficult and it sounds like you just need someone positive to talk to and someone who will just listen.