Penis 4inch long, Slightly obese person. When I try to have sex my penis slips out & not able to penetrate. what can I do? after few tries I lose interest??
206317
try doing it doggy . or if your on top put her legs over your shoulders. or she could get on top. there are lots of positions you could try. buy a karma sutra for more ideas.
502146
Try Keigal exercises.  Resources which might be helpful can also be found when researching impotence and stamina with regard to sex.
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There are a few things we don't know, like r u a virgin?, or how big are the things you are putting in?. Try different angles maybe, or start wid something with a small diameter and work to something bigger.
560981
NO. This is a question on a par with women's 'my boobs are too small' or 'am I too fat-I weight 98 lbs'. I know you probably feel like you need more length to please a woman, but believe me, I have NEVER stopped a guy before sex to say, "HOLD IT! Gotta measure that thing FIRST." Your confidence in yourself is essential, REGARDLESS of size. Guys with statistically "larger" penises have just as much doubt about their sexual attractiveness if they have no confidence in their ability to interest a woman.
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Many questions here.\n\n"women what is your biggest complaint,about men when it comes to making love?"\n- take your time, enjoy it, don't stress, the more foreplay the better for both. Don't do all the work, let me satisfy you too.\n\n"what do you wish men would do for you,and what do we do right in bed"\n- I need the connection, i need to know it is more then just sex, I need it to be lovemaking. I love kissing, I love eye contact.\n\n"what can we do to make you feel more comfortable,with us and yourselves?"\n- accept our flaws, accept that we have a few extra pounds, tell us we are beautiful, tell us you love our hearts. Spend extra time loving each other before making love.\n\n"i believe it has to do with more heart and listening,than with looks and penis size.am i correct?"\n- Very Correct (for me anyways) feel the connection... enjoy the bonding, enjoy the loving.\n- to me penis size doesnt matter, I have been with a large sized man and an average sized man... to be honest I find more enjoyment with the average sized man for many reasons. \n\nI think alot of your questions have to relate to the circumstance. What someone is looking for in a 1 night stand and what a person is looking for in a long term relationship will be completely different. I have based my answers on Long Term.\n\nGood luck to you!
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I’ll try to answer that as a guy with a short penis based on honest conversations that I‘ve had with girls. Size does matter so don’t feel bad. Some women say that it doesn’t matter but what that really means is that it doesn’t matter to them, obviously it does to you. Nothing wrong with that as long as you don’t play with his feelings. It appears to me that you don’t want to do that. Which is cool! \n\nYou need to see it from a different angle, most men would prefer a tight vagina over a loose one. That’s no secret, tighter feels better. Vaginas come in all sizes just like penises. Some can be short but wide, short and narrow, long and narrow, and on and on. You may in fact have a large vagina, I mean nothing bad by that, really! I hope you know what I mean. You may in fact need a larger penis to satisfy you. \n\nIt may have nothing to do with your size or looks, it may be that you realized that the longer the penis, the more positions that you both can enjoy. I’ll give you an example, I once went to a park in Hollywood and I ran into a couple who were having sex in public. It was a lonely part of the park so I doubt that they expected anyone. He was sitting on bench and the girl was sitting on top of him facing him. By the distance that she was elevating herself, I figured that he was somewhat long. That position worked for them because of the length of his penis. I could not do that position with someone, specially with a large booty and get away with it. As we men bend out bodies at the hips, our penis get shorter upfront. I measured myself standing up and sitting down. I lose about 1 3/4” sitting down. I go from a 4 ¾” standing up to 3” sitting. That’s measuring from the top of my tights (where my penis protrudes from between my tights), to the tip. In the position, the girl can’t hit bottom the same way as in other positions. By the time my penis reaches her opening there’s only about 1 ½ -2” left for her to ride. So I avoid some positions to try to put as much in as possible. \n\nSome women prefer thick penises over long ones.  I used to be just under 7” long by 5” circumference before my surgery (I had a surgery due to medical reasons which had some side effects, including shorting of the penis), I used to hurt some women by hitting their cervices, especially during some positions that allowed deep penetration. Now I’m 4 ¾” long with a circumference of  6”. Which is consider above average thickness. The only women that I’ve had sex after my surgery liked it even though she literally laughed at it and made some bad comments the first time she saw it. Her only complaint was that it’s too thick. So go figure!
432419
It probably wont work for you.  I think you need to have a penis to begin with.
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You are stuck with what you have. Do all you guys asking this or similar questions measure your manhood or ability to satisfy a sexual partner by the size of your dick? If you do I think you need to be asking questions in the mental health section. Like "Why do I feel I'm not a man because my dick is the size of a clit?" or "Why am I so sexually insecure?" or "Why am I not man enough?".\n\nSorry about the attitude but this question appears here about 24 times a day or once an hour. Just learn to use it properly.
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go see your doctor\nor answer one of the spam adverts that claim to add 3" in length\nwhy? genetic disposition, how big was your father's? you are proof that size is immaterial, if it were you would not be here.
239624
perhaps see a urologist for advise on the penis erection problem or u and your wife can try sexual foreplay before having sex.
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While size can provide women a different experience, it really does not matter. It is all in how you use your tool, so to speak. \n\nI've been with guys who have smaller than 5 to 6 inches in length (which is average, actually). The sex was still quite pleasurable. In fact, it was better than the guy who had 7 inches. \n\nYou don't have anything to worry about. You're ok. When you become sexually active if you haven't already, just pay close attention to the noises your woman makes. Ask her what she likes. Ask her what she doesn't like. Be a considerate lover! :)\n\nGood luck to you!
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well i would just see how it goes first before thinking about alternatives just yet!\ni do know someone who had an encounter with a man with a very large penis and i do mean VERY large and she was fine with it, delighted would be a more accurate description.\neveryone is different, because your aunt had problems in that department doesn't mean you will. good luck girl!! :)
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There is not much of a connection between your penis size and your girl's ability to have an orgasm from intercourse. Something like 35% of women never have orgasms from intercourse, only other ways.  Learn how to give her orgasms with your tongue or with your hand (have her show you or guide your hand.)  Learn where a woman's G-spot is and find hers. Every woman has one.\n\nYour penis size is not worth worrying about.  Your penis is like an artist’s paintbrush.  It’s not how long it is that matters.  It’s how skillfully you use it and how many different brush strokes you know.\n\nThese penis size questions come up again and again on this site.  Women almost always say it doesn’t matter to them.  And if it actually does matter to a small minority of women, so what?  There are still plenty left who don’t think it’s very important.  \n\nWhat’s far more important is whether you’re skilled at using your penis to satisfy your woman.  Can you last as long as you want?  Can you vary the depth of your strokes, the pace of them, the angle of them, so that you can offer your woman a little teasing and unpredictability at times?  Are you skilled enough at other ways to pleasure her, so that penis-vagina intercourse is only one of the things on the menu you offer her?  \n\nEven if you can’t do all of these things at present, these are all things you can LEARN to do.  But you can’t learn to have a bigger penis.\n\nAnd let’s not forget, it’s usually the person attached to the penis that decides whether a woman finds you appealing or not.  You could be hung like a horse, but if you’re an inconsiderate jerk you still won’t be very attractive to women.
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PLEASE PEOPLE, STOP LYING TO THIS POOR GUY!!! 4 inches is really small.  sorry to say it sweetie, but the lady is gonna want a little more than that. she may not the first time, but eventually she will if you dont find other ways to complete her (if ya know what i mean)  get that little thing as hard as you can and be passionate with her, she'll appreciate the effort, but you're gonna have to invest in a dildo or something
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I don`1t see where your question is inappropriate at all.Many men have this "problem",and need a little advice.There are many ways that you can still have  sex, and i am not trying to be "dirty" about this.Go to a good sex store, or library and look for  ways to  cohabitate, in ways that satifyfy both of you.The answers are out there.Also, there r many medications for this that work.Go to a good doctor, and have  him or her evaluate your specific case.Then he can advise you on this matter.Dont look at this as a "problem". look at it as a way to learn more about yourself and the subject of intimate relations.Don`t be embarrassed about this, this is very common.DC
525184
size isnt the issue....its what you do with it that counts........i have known people to be totally dissatisfied with 8inches and totally happy with 5inches......just remember that there is a lot more to sex than just penetration.....
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dude stop doing that you are problly breaking vessels or something in ur penis and i wouldnt wanna take a chance of doing that..dude 6 inches is a lil above average..just stop doin that ur good how u r man dont risk losing ur cock