I live in the mountains,Most ladys or woman here are married.I have lot's of friends here but.Would be nice to find someone to share life with.This is mostly a retirement and I'm in my 40's.I bought my home here I find peace and quit,Most woman like the business of the big city life.Can you give me and Idea on this matter?
202171
Have you tried Internet chatrooms? Loads out there, and a great way of meeting ppl. Good luck.
209824
The same thing happened to my second wife.  We did it like rabbits when we were dating but once married, the activity dropped off quite a bit.  I am sure the rigors of married life has something to do with it and the comfort in being in a long term relationship.  I am sure it doesn't happen to all women nor men for that matter.  Could be that you just need to try something different every now and then.  Location, clothing, time of day, etc.  Variety is the spice of life.
249787
Why do you limit yourself to just westerners?  What ever happened to love?  You want to advertise for a wife?  I'm blown away and I've been a wife 3 times over.
671764
As a man, there are different times that I am looking for different things from a wife.  Women often complain that they have to wear so many hats (Lover, Friend, Mother, Housekeeper, etc.), and some ladies are better at one of those then the others...I think a man would be looking to marry one woman who enjoys caring for kids, another who is a "career driven" type, one who he can enjoy quiet walks and "grow old" with, etc.  And when one isn't "in the mood" he can usually find someone who is\n\nBTW - Most polygamist wives prefer NOT to sleep with their husbands, and I know two polygamist familes (well..officially married to one woman, but has several "live in" ladies) and the wives draw straws - the loser with the short straw *has to* sleep with him if he's in the mood.\n\nPersonally, I don't feel "called to that lifestyle" but I can't deny that I am interested in other women.  It human nature - otherwise Affairs would be pretty rare
12085
I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN.I ALSO HAVE FOUGHT SO HARD TO WHERE I AM. I HAVE GONE THRU SO MUCH,AND FOR PEOPLE TO JUDGE YOU BY YOUR AGE. I'M 22 and feel as a 30 year old man, i have my own home, my own car and a good buissnes.i have no problems dateing,but i seem to find the wrong kind of woman that likes to control a man,i have a sense of humor and at times i like to release steam on programs like this yahoo answers,but i'm no kid. i also enjoy the good, silly OR deep answers and questions here at yahoo. i don't care about points,i just need to blow out a little steam and survive another day in this life. FIGHTING FOR AIR as you say. i thank you so much for this public thank you,for you gave me confort and i know i am not alone. THANK YOU!
16355
I have some high chool friends that moved out there after they got married. they love it. good place to raise a family.
440460
There are some women only Goodlife locations. I'm a male and go to Goodlife everyday which is male/female. My wife goes to a women's only location.\n\nhttp://www.goodlifefitness.com/main.html
45401
What about your friends?  Perhaps one of your lady friends is also ready to settle down and have a family but for whatever reason would like to skip the dating etc.... I recommend you talk to them.  It would be better to be married to a friend than a stranger.  Good luck.
645000
this seems to be a problem all over the world  I am looking for a single woman who is in Ga and willing to relocate to a small community let me know if you find your idea man and help me find the lady of my dreams
537333
I also came from a small town, but then moved to San Francisco of all places what a contrast.  Big cities are all full of escapees from middle America.  Seems there is always an inner feeling of doing better, seeing things, getting involved with culture.  Some people have it some dont.   There are people who are content being small town.  Some are jelous of the ones who left, and yes some are ignorant only because they play on sterotypes and what they see on tv.  I was always driven to big city life as some are.  I really think its an inner voice telling you to get out of town before you die of stagnation.  But, dont put the average small town person down because they are doing what comes natural to them, maybe a fast pace and learning arent their bag, just having a job and family in a quiet place suits them.  As for ignorant people, stay away from the troublemakers, but just let the others be who they are.  Go back to the city, have your double latte and just be who you are....
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I can understand your problem.  Is it possible for you to move closer to a city and get your own vehicle?  That way you could have the best of both worlds where you live 10 minutes from the city and yet don't lose the country life your husband loves.  I find living out in the country to be the best thing because I don't have to deal with the city except when I want to.  At the very least make your husband get you your own vehicle so you can do stuff.
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I don't know. I am in the Blue Ridge Mtns. and I am farther north. It snows here once in a while and very seldom on Christmas. So, it's very likely it won't snow there either. What large city is it near? That isn't a familiar place to me. The mountains aren't mush in GA. You have to be in NC, TN, VA, KY, and north for the mountains to be the real thing. That's this mountain womans opinion.
147835
There are many sources for meeting new people.  If you like hiking, there are single hiking clubs.  Take a class just for fun, like something recreational, gym, softball, etc..  If you have a dog, go to a dog park or park. These are few of many things out there.  Enjoy!
306885
"low 40s high 90s all year around easy to find jobs, affordable renting, friendly people"???????\n\nAre you kidding? If this place existed it would have a population of 50 million. And then the rent would no longer be affordable due to supply and demand, and the people would no longer be friendly due to congestion and traffic problems, and all the jobs would be taken.\n\nGood luck finding this utopia.
79978
let me tell you my fellow laid back friend. there is a place for everyone. but the one place that will always be home for me is southern california. there is no more laid back and accepting place in the world. this is especially great if you like to be outdoors or are the sporty type. as you well know the weather is just about always perfect, and you are only an hour and a half away from snow, dessert, mountains, and of course the beautiful beaches. as you also well know the place is heavily populated, i know you dont like crowds, but if you want to find someone with similar intrests, i promis there are thousands there whatever your into. AND you get to learn the value of a dollar. dosnt sound like much, but you have to work hard and not live in excess if you want to get by comfortably. of course you could hate it there, but this is just my opinion. its a wonderful place, but if you dont want to pay that much the pacific nothwest has the same feel without the beautiful weather. ie portland or seatle. very cool places, just not if you like to get out much. good luck man, i hope you find a place you really love.
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What women are you talking about, cause I'm certainly not one of those women.  And to answer your question:  What can you get from a husband that you can't get from friends?  How about commitment?
636225
I am male, 55, and I think it's a great idea. There are a lot of singles on here, both male and female. Most of them are wonderful people too. Some send you e-mails telling you they appreciate the advice, and are almost like family. Great place to make new friends, and possibly more. Who knows?