It's been almost 2 weeks since my wife's miscarriage and I am planning on something romantic. Dinner and candle lights, wine and then I wanted to take her to this beautiful park where they have this little waterfall where we got married and had our first dance as husband and wife and play the song we danced to which is "Amazed" from Lonestar, I think that's a great song. But anyway the doctor told her to take it easy for the next few weeks. Is the walking and dancing part too strenuous for a woman to do 2 weeks afterwards?
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Dancing and walking really doesn't seem harmful as long as the doctor didn't tell her different but if I am not mistaken walking should be great for her though just don't do anything to rough
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First off if she has moved on with her life and has started a family then maybe you should move on as well. \nI understand how you feel though, and I know its not easy but sometimes its best to just let go. You may get hurt trying to have a relationship with someone who is already in a relationship. She may no longer feel the same way for you and that can be a real heartbreaker. Honestly though I would call her just to let her know how I feel and see how she responds to that. If she gives you a bad reaction then move on with your life there are plenty of women who will love you and only YOU. \nIm pretty sure she wont be looking forward to leaving her husband after just giving birth 3 weeks ago.\n\nAnd you know how some men can be their ego's get all involved and it can be a sticky situation. Just be carefull and don't give your heart to someone who doesnt deserve it.
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Walking works very well for me. It's easy to do, and it utilizes all body parts. Another fun thing to do is have some friends over, and put some upbeat music on, and all of you exercise together. It's not only fun, but healthy. Believe it or not, I lost 17 lbs. in 2 weeks by just doing the Cha Cha Slide with my daughters every day, a few years ago. It was really fun, and I didn't think about how boring and exhausting exercise could be.
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I Made Love for the first time on my wedding night. I was 28 years old at the time and it did hurt a little bit but, not much. It did feel good & hubby did a lot of forplay before hand. I did bleed a little bit. Afterwards I felt tired but, about a half hour later I was ready to make love again!  We got to the hotel at about 12:00 AM that night and didn't get to sleep until about 4:00 AM! We made love 3 times that night and once more before we got up at about 9:00 AM!
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It's perfectly okay, if both of you feel the same way. But, if one of you is feeling deprived, then you are going to have problems. My rule of making sweet sweet love is to not over think it. My wife thinks about everything else first. Our business, house, things that need to be done, cars, money, and many more things. You need to just let go. Sex, or making love, is like a little mini-vacation that you can go on for a few minutes every night if you like, for free! Just let go and enjoy each other. Don't think about how long it's been. Or how quick it was over last time. And most of all if it is over quick wait 15 minutes, and do it all over again it will better the 2nd time I guarantee.
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Well My wife is pregnant and It's okay you don't have to worry about having sex or trying to be sexy you should be worried about trying to relax .... Trust me I understand when my wife is in pain from her back and when her feet are swollen I know I can't help but I try to understand her. But Don't worry try to feel comfortable and relax  don't think about it. I know she is too hormonal meaning almost always horny but I understand it so I just go try to pleasure her or tease  her a little something but not too much cuz we don't want to over do it with the pregnancy.\n\nCongratulations I hope all goes well and you are your child are truly healthy and Happy!
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If it feels right in your heart, then you should just do it, i had the same problem about 2 years ago, and one day i just decided why not?  it felt right, i was aching to get out of the dead end town i was in and wanted to experience new things.  It was scary and bit overwhelming but i was on my feet and running in no time.
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My Dr. and I just discusses this last week. Not all people who go through that are going through it due to being lazy. I have limited things i can do as of exercise as i was a passenger in a car accident that almost broke my neck. My feet are bad and i can't walk much or use a tread mill.\n\nDr. talked about this due to trying to help me lower my blood pressure, diabetes, high cholestrol, ect.\n\n I will review all the info here and all the sites you listed and talk to my Dr. again. Thank you Ziggy for your information.
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my friend mom and her sister in law had it done and they would both do it again they both look great but one in having problems in here marriage because she is older but has a lot of energy she didn't have before and hubby doesn't like the change.  on the other hand i was starting to think about it to you have to go on a waiting list and go through counseling and stuff.  well my other best friends brother was suppose to have it done this past Monday and he almost died on the table he didn't even get to have it done and they are gonna try again in a few weeks.  i don't know if i could lay on that table knowing a may never come off of it alive.  it is a hard decision to decide and think about it long and hard you also have to loose so much weight before they do it and if you can loose that maybe you can keep loosing well i hope the best for you good luck in your decision but we are all stranger don't let us decide something that important  i know a lady at are local walmart who had it done and she had a thyroid problem she has lost 110.  but like i already said it is your decision your life don't let any one else make such an important decision .  well she also said there was support groups for it.  maybe you could find one and check it out and see what you think
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Yes.  It is similar to childbirth.  I bled for a month after childbirth, only to get my period two weeks later.  If it is still heavy and full of clots it may be cause for concern.  I would talk to your midwife/obgyn.  At the very least it will make you feel better.  And I am terribly sorry for your loss!
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My Wife had it done after the birth of our son. He took after me and was broad shouldered, weighed nearly 10 lbs. She tore. She had the procedure done more as self esteem thing.  She was worried our sex life wouldn't be as good or that she was to big now etc.... It did make a difference. I was satisfied before, even better now.  She was sore for a month or more after the surgery though. No nookie for like 6-8 weeks afterwards either.-rob
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Alot of it has to do with how much you exercise during pregnancy. I walked every single day from 1-3 miles! On the day my Daughter was born. I had 12 hours of labor but on 45 minutes of hard labor! If you are in good shape, the delivery will be so much easier than it is for ladies who do little or no exercise. Swimming is also a great exercise to do because you don't feel the extra weight when your in the pool. \nGood luck!
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A miscarriage is different for every woman, but if you were bleeding and having severe cramps, then it may be safe to say you did.  But if you had a period right after, then I highly doubt it.  Your body wouldn't have adjusted that quickly.
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yes, I did get tipsy at my wedding.  Just like your friend, I was on a high, hadn't eatten much the whole day, and starting drinking when I arrived at the reception (the staff was there with a glass when I stepped out of the limo)  But, I ENJOYED every minute of my wedding day, I smiled, I laughed, I danced, and I didn't care what "problems" might have arised.  Sure I wish I hadn't gotten quite that way, but I wouldn't take the night back to do over...I had a great time...and so did all of my guests!  Just tell your friend to focus on the FUN she had all night long
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dear sunshine,\nI am a 31 year old married man with two boys, i left my wife almost two years ago, cuz of cheating, i was about to forgive her and take her back, but i found out she is pregnant.\n\ni still have not decided if i even want to take her back and adopt out her baby, she wants me back, i dont know.\n\nbut one thing i will tell you sunshine,\ni know i loved her, truely\nfor she had the capacity to make me the happiest man in the world,\nand yet at the same time;\nshe could hurt me more than i ever knew i could be hurt.\ni believe that this is what true love is, and that it is unconditional- no conditions, such as; i will love you if you do this, or not if you don't.\n\ni will always love my wife, and have already forgiven her.\nbut that does not mean i want to be with her....\n\nyou should ask yourself this,\nif your man got pregnant from someone else, (God forbid, :) ) - would you take him back??\n\nn e way,\ngood luck.
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Stop worrying about coming and just think about how good it feels.  I am a woman, but I think it is probably about the same.  I have to think about how good it feels even when I don't feel very sensitive.  Think whatever it is you think right before you come and I think it will help.  However, I don't know if you have tried other postions or what, but my hubby loves me to be on my stomach with my legs together and his stradled over mine.  Whenever he's getting too tired to shoot he just flips me on my belly and puts it in and then puts his legs outside mine and is usually off in a minute or two.  I think it works cause I squeeze my muscles together around him, which is only easy to do in this postition.  Best wishes
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I think it's Great! \n\nTo Belize, There's no dancing during the Recessional--It's when the bride and groom walk down the aisle together after the ceremony, and the Recessional Music Should Be the Most Lively music played during the ceremony, as it's a moment of triumph of love.\n\nOf course the rest of the wedding party follows them out while the song plays.  \n\nAnd by the way my hubby and I are going to dance to Thank You by Led Zeppelin as our first dance at our Renewal Ceremony.  (We eloped 25 years ago and are throwing ourselves a wedding for the big anniversary.)