when she found out that i liked the same boy she liked she said she wasnt mad well i have ppl tellin me that he is playing me because when im not at church he is flirting with her so i talked to him and he said that he has not and that he would never do that to a girl he liked really bad well then i tlked to her and told she some thing bout the softball team that they were goin to play that nite well she told her team that i was laughing and saying that they were going to lose well yesterday said said that she felt bad bout tlking bout me should i for give her
209703
You should forgive your friend...No friendship is worth a guy remember that!  Friends are priceless!  She did make a mistake about talking behind your back but maybe she felt bad in the first place and the reason she was saying something bad about you was to hide her own guiltiness.
56392
are you guys even together? I mean if your not then GO FOR THE OTHER GIRL! because this one is obviously playing games or not interested. If she is talking to other guys and you are together and you think its more than just polite conversation get rid of her its not worth the trouble
174685
I would tell her that she has to ask him out herself. I wouldn't do it because you're not helping yourself any. If she doesn't like you I think she's losing out because you sound nice. Try to find someone else someone that cares about you.
102503
Just keep in mind once a player always a player. You gotta tell him how you feel. Just don't set yaself up for a huge disappointment. Trus me I know I set myself up like that before. But after it all I realized the whole time I was one of his MANY females.
103241
i think she don't want to continue the relationship with that boy....be careful...she is using you
465766
You haven't said if she likes him back!  But if she does, you can't really protect her from him, without sounding like a jealous loser.\n\nThe only thing you could maybe do is to go to this girl and tell her that you know you probably sound like a poor loser, but as her friend, you just want her to know that you are worried about the friendship between her and this guy.  Tell her about the rep this guy has, giving her details and proof if possible.  She will either believe you or not.  But remember, if she doesn't listen to you and has a thing with this guy, she will remember when she bangs her head that you warned her, and she will listen better next time.  And if she doesn't bang her head (maybe this guy treats her right) she will still know in her heart that you were just trying to protect her, and think you are sweet because of it.  Good luck!
88315
just be careful and just see what is up with this girl she is playing her boyfriend so she is probably playing you too be careful because you dont want anyone to get pissed at you even though it is her fault.
361897
Honestly, if she were a true friend, she wouldn't be all up on a guy you like.  You are right to not let a stupid boy come between you and true friend, but this friend doesn't sound true.
646782
well.. if she is your friend then you should feel comfortable with just telling her, and if she decides to get an attitude, bring up the fact that he likes you.. not her.
337236
i would just tell her to be careful... guys can be real jerks... if you tell her exactly what he told you, she might get mad at you, and think that you like him or something, or that you are jealous, but if you just hint around how much of a jerk some guys can be, maybe she will catch on... after all... guys are the ones who don't do subtle very well, we women are masters of subtlety...
43322
hey..i'm a boy..but anyways, i personally do that (act like i dont like them when i do) because of exactly what you say!!! if i SHOW her i like her, then she wont like me, but if i PRETEND i dont like her, then she'll like me...see the problem we GUYS have to deal with??
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You tell exactly how you feel. Let her know that you liked the boy first and she know that she was wrong for going with him. When you tell her this make sure you do not say it mean but in a way to let her know that you are trully hurt. Trust me this will work, I just told my best friend how I felt and she broke up with her boyfriend.
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if you truly like her like you say you do then my best advice is to tell her. i mean look at it this way if she is interested then let her noe tha u r interested this way you both can be together instead of playing around until she gets another man. and yea believe me i have had a guy do tha to me i was interested but he didn't tell me he was interested in me to until i got a man. don't do this to yourself and don't do this to her. if you are defintely and i mean defintely interested then show her or tell her don't play games. and if you are worried about rejections remember wuts the worst tha can happen? don't worry about her stop talking to you remember tha if she showed any interest then she most like you. and don't wait get out there and tell her you are feelin her before its to late.
195154
Hit her where it hurts... Tell her the truth!!!\nDo you know why she picks on you... she knows there is a chance that the boys like you more than her... probably because you are more nice or shy and friendly than her.  she sees you as a threat.  What I would do... tell her to stop making fun of you because your not trying to take all the guys in the school... just a few.
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I don't really believe in playing games. You should mean what you say. If a guy told me that, I think I would take his word for it. The good news is that she held your hand. She may not be calling you so that she doesn't scare you off. She probably is playing it cool in hopes that you may change your mind. I think that you should tell her that you were playing hard to get. Tell her what you REALLY think and how you REALLY feel. If she liked you in the first place, I doubt that ruined your chances. Just find out how she feels too. Maybe she was also playing hard to get....
610160
baby girl, don't do it. this player would like for you to be a back-up. unless that's all you think of yourself as such. don't do it.
502370
tell your friend that you werent flirting. to make her feel better try to talk less to him, cause its obvious that she likes him, and you dont, so just back off for a bit.