My fiance and his friends go out to the stripclub every once in a while. I've asked to come along a few times, I'm very comfortable with my sexuality and no I'm not a lesbian, but always get turned down by 50% of the group. Would you let your girlfriend go with you to a stripclub?
205318
Yes, I would bring you...but the guys that are voting 'no'...they are doing something they shouldn't and they don't want you to know.
620046
That's wierd I say it's time you guys had a serious talk. He sounds like a jerk. I mean I'm totally for guys not inviting their gfs along in order to have alone time to party with their friends but a birthday celebration (ESPECIALLY his own is hardly the time to do this) Unless there were strippers involved and even if that were the case u guys still need to have that talk.
26720
I honor honesty above all. It's your decision want to be involved with her modern life or not. Whatever decision you take, be responsible. I am not that modern and don't believe in pure sex without love, but I don't judge. I respect people with different life style and realize their lives could be much more interesting than mine. You sounded eager to give a modern life a try. If you are prepared, why not? Wish you all the best!
52818
what do you mean not single?you may want to check out were there is a swingers club if you want married people.if you are married does your wife know what you are doing?
275176
Generally, the woman can touch the man, but the man can't touch the woman.  How much touching depends on the establishment.  Remember, these girls work for tips.  you do the math.\n\nJust Trixwagen's rule of thumb:  let your man go to a strip club, but lap dances are off limits.   Sorry, dudes.
525211
I fully understand. My Partner adn I are also in a long term relationship and we finally found the *only* gay bar in Oshkosh. People were constantly coming up to ask us things and were very surprised (but mostly pleasently surprised, I must say) that we were a couple and a long-term one at that. Of course we're Lesbians. Perhaps it's different for us? Actually straight bars are just as rife with people looking for each other; it's just that we're used to seeing it more. Blessings.
447754
f*g hag to the rescue! most of my friends are gay. when we were younger and couldn't get into clubs and such we went to the wreck room on the strip. my best friend did drag there for a long time and was even voted miss gay oklahoma. just like you, peeps at his school didn't know about him. we used to go there and hang out with everyone else that was gay and have a great time! this is the only club/clubs i will go to when i'm home (currently military and stationed in texas, yuck).\ncheck out this website. it lists all the clubs on the strip. you should check it out sometime. hope this helps?
539362
+ I really don't know as I don't seem to have that problem. My girl friend was still having guys call to ask her out when we first started (and she still is) and I suggested that the three of us get together and that never happened. Someone was intimidated, but not me. Seems like the guy would always say no, or that is what I was told. I sure hope that is the truth as I would hate to find out otherwise later.  My thought was that if they thought enough of her to ask her out they probably had the same values as I do so they had to be OK guys and maybe they would be valuable people to know. \nI am getting ready to go on a work trip to South America and I told her that it was OK to have dinner with some of them if she wanted, and I guess that was a wrong answer too. So I am busting back to get everything done and every time I turn around I get asked to do more things. I can't understand it. If I were to do the same thing, would I be considered inconsiderate, thoughtless or greedy for attention? I suppose I will never really understand. I really hope that when I return she will have spent at least one full 48 hour period without having consumed any alcohol as I worry a lot about it and sometimes I stay away because of it. Well I hope my thoughts help you sort out yours. \nGood Luck from a guy who is not intimidated and who cares enough to just walk away if the other person would be happier that way. (Been there done that)
227783
Trust and respect are the cornerstones of a relationship! If he isn't giving you the respect you deserve, by honoring your request in regard to the strip clubs, and is breaking your trust by going to them behind your back, then I would have to say that your relationship is in serious trouble. I dare say that his behavior will not be improving any time soon, so you are going to have to decide whether or not you are willing to continue putting up with him doing as he pleases, whether you like it or not. Good luck!!
377475
If I were going to a dance (like a prom) or even more casual, I would ask a girl who I know can dance.  As a girl the protocol is a little more cloudy.  If a girl asked me I would be excited about it.  Some guys want to do the asking.  There is no clear cut rule about men asking women or visa versa.  Make sure that if you go with someone that they can dance.  Going with friends is benign and does not guarantee you will dance with anyone.  If you go with friends, don't be a wall flower and check out guys who don't seem to be there with anyone.
605172
Hmmm - are you sure trawling the weirdos and misfits who use Yahoo Answers for someone to meet up with a lone female (and one, I presume that you actually like) is a terribly good idea???\n\nAdded: Ah... fair enough....so long as you're going along - safety in numbers and all... we're going to see them in Sheffield - enjoy the show!
541862
never.....that is foul. If the person you're in a relationship with  wants to have a threesome with you and another man, he doesn't respect/care about you...I wouldn't go with my wife to a male strip club b/c she wouldn't be going in the first place.  Also if a man is willing to do these things he must be bisexual.
542640
If you do decide to go, first find out if they allow females in the club -- some do not allow women, even if they are escorted by a man. Also, look for a club that is a restaurant, not just a bar, you will feel more comfortable. \n\nAnd of course, make sure that you go with him to an all male dancer strip club afterwards :)
579349
Oh hell no dude you are so misinformed guys give lap dances all the time and I;'m not talking about at strip clubs (gross) my friend got 4 dances at her graduation party half were just silly the other half were hella hott.  I was in Miami at a club and there was this really hot guy there and I asked him for a lap dance and oh wow he totally turned me on I had never gotten so turned on before in my life I swear I almost came on myself.
293103
Sounds great! Yes I would join, however, I'm 31. So, I guess I'm not invited. Really sad too, because I have a lot of experienced information to offer. \n\nI've been into girls ever since I can remember, and I had my first experience when I was 7 years old. My first actual girlfriend was when I was 16. My parents have always known, and they accept me. I have no problem telling people, and if they hate me for it, then that's on them.\n\nIf you change your mind, feel free to contact me.
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I used to be a stripper. I have never danced in a lesbian bar, but I can tell you this;   \n\nwomen always tip better than men\neven in gentleman's club, the better tips came from women\n\nTo sum it all up, my guess is yes based on experience with men vs. women.
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I wouldn't mind unless she involves you in their outings. If it's just for a hour or so I suppose it's okay, but more than that I would grow suspicious why they are spending much time together than with you.  Now, if it's a mixed crowd and most have good morals and if she's not the flirty type, then it's okay.  I'll be honest, when I'm single, I get much hotter than when I'm with someone.  If you are married, the possibility for variety can come to mind and it can be dangereous if her friend decides to make a pass.  The trust between two friends can be as strong as the love you have for each other.  I believe friends works best and can grow deep.  Not too be doubtful, just keep your eye out. I know because when I get the strange feeling in my stomach when I feel threatened, that's a signed that something is not right or that I'm being disrespected.  Talk to her about it and see if you can come along. \n\nYou will be the best judge if something is going on or not.  Trust to a limit, then you question... Boundaries can be broken so make sure she doesn't break them, that's why she's married to you.  Right? Hopefully for the right reasons.  \n\nPersonally, I enjoy being with my boyfriend.  I get along better with men but there are limits to how much I let them know because it's easy to flirt with guy friends.  Guy friends can let things happen and not worry about it because they know the other person is taken... It's a risk and a thrill for the women, but it's a BIG, BIG, NO, NO.  Not while you are married and devoted to someone.  I suggest to both of you go out, change your looks, and be the couple that can be lover, friend, and wife.  Spice up your life so she doesn't run off to get that kind of "attention"?... who knows. \n\nI'm a women and I've been single.  Now that I'm dating my boyfriend, he still wants to keep the single life active with some gals in a book club he met when he was single... I spoke to him and he decided to ended... I now have to trust him and it will be up to him to do the right thing.  \n\nSummarizing, if your wife invites you because she wants to, then go... keep her in your sight.\n\nGood luck sweatheart!