A lot of the people that knows me doesn't trust me, and rarely believes what I told them was true. I only lie when it's for fun or for important reasons, but I never lie for offending someone purposely. But no one just seems to trust me anymore? Is there anything that I can do? I swear, I didn't do anything so purposely to upset them, I just want to be accepted by everyone.
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You have to be honest with yourself and trust yourself before others can trust you. Would you trust you if you were any of these people? Why? Whynot? Answer these questions to yourself. You could admit to these people that you do occasionally bend the truth, but as you said, not to intentionally hurt anyone. Let them know that deep down you are an honest, trustworthy person.
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don't lie ...  in the end you will only hurt others and yourself... and do you really want a relationship built on lies ???... you know you don't !...    when the right one comes along  being honest will pay off big time!  be patient...it will happen when you least expect it...  best wishes!
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everyone probably has lied at some point in his life, but in general a lot of people dont lie.  most do, but not all.  i dont lie (im telling the truth!:) seriously!) lying really makes relationships difficult (with friends, parents, siblings, boyfriends/girlfriends, everyone
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When without misleading someone too much they are prevented from getting hurt by a lie. Sometimes though honesty is the best policy. It depends on the person/situation.
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I'm a Christian, and it is our belief that people lie because it is within our sin nature.  To lie is to break one of God's commandments, which He gave us to protect us from harm, not to suck the fun out of life.  He knows it hurts both the liar and the one to whom the lie was told - which you have obviously learned by experience - that's why He said not to.  There is always a reason for people's lies, whether to elevate themselves above others, manipulate others, protect themselves, get what they want, or many other reasons.  Even when you think you do something just because you wanted to, ask yourself why you wanted to do it?  What were you out to prove?  That you were smarter, that you could get away with it, that the other person was powerless to stop you or unable to ferret out the truth?  I remember finding great fun as a kid with siblings in lying to our mother, and since there were several of us, she never knew who really stole the candy from under her bed.  It gave us a sense of power, I guess.  \nLying hurts relationships, that's for sure.  I am sorry you had to learn that the hard way, but rejoice in the fact that you now see how you were wrong to do the things you did.  That's a sign of maturity, especially if you can ask for forgiveness from the people you hurt with your behavior.  I wish you well.
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Just hang in there.  I'm sure people are not thinking anything bad about you.  They are in the helping profession because they care about people.  They may be worried about you, but that's okay.\n\nIt's normal, after all you've been through, not to trust people so easily.  Give them the benefit of the doubt.\n\nI pray for you daily.  Keep up the good work.  May God bless you richly.
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I think you need to confront these people and ask them why they think you are lying.  Try to reason with them, and let them know that their doubting you is upsetting, so much so that you posted it on Yahoo Answers.
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Do you respond when questioned? If people say this to you just to get a response, don't play their game.\nIf you don't bite they will soon lose interest in trying to bait you.\nYou know what you are. The problem lies with others.
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trust is a hard thing to earn and should be because if it wasnt then it would not mean so much. There are always people out here that listen and honestly want to help and there are some who want to use you for their own amusement. \nbe sure when you find this person that everything you talk about is always about you and your problems. no one wants to hear about troubles all the time. but when things are private keep them that way. dont wash your clothes in public. ;P
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Sounds like you have some trust issues in general. Maybe you were betrayed by someone you trusted and now you're on guard. It takes time to build trust and to allow yourself to be vulnerable. Once you do, you'll be able to tell that person anything.
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would any of your friends lie to you or would they tell you the truth if the problem was switched around. what would you want the truth or a lie. \n\n\nyeah it may hurt you and them but it is better if its now and not later because if you hold you peace and she finds out later then she will never trues you again if she finds out that you knew about it. if you don't tell your risking your friendship, and if you tell the only thing will happen is that they may get upset, but in time they will thank you for being honest. i know that its not easy and it wont get any easier i wish i could tell you that it will but that will be lying.
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You, like me are a good person and people think that they can walk all over you and treat you like dirt and that you'll always take it.  People want someone to keep their secrets, but they don't want to keep anyone elses, which sucks!\n\nDon't dare listen to anyone who says that you should "toughen up" keep being a sensitive and good person, but when someone does something really rotten you have to push back or they'll always walk all over you.\n\nGood luck Sweetie!
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What ever people said about you, true friends never change their minds because someone spread a rumour. \n\nIf it is very important to you stay in this group you must discover who tell this lie and face him/her in public. \n\nIf you can not find it, try to speak with your "best friend" of this group and ask why they change their mood with you. Tell her/him the truth.\n\nBut mostly I think you should search a new group, true friends does not need an explain, they trust you.
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ALL people are selfish but to different extents\n\nif somebody let you down it doesn't mean you should completely stop trusting people - just be more careful who you trust next time
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don't lie to try and make people happy be yourself i know that it is hard at times just tell people the truth and be all you can be. it doesn't matter what everyone else thinks be yourself and if that makes you happy then you don't have to worry about anyone else don't let ither unhappy people stop you form being happy. stay positive about yourself it is nice to try and help other people be happy but just don't forget that you don't deserve to be unhappy because other people are unhappy
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i had the same problem,and it wasn't good hey. maybe someone you trusted hurt you in someway(just an example) and now you find it hard to open up to others and let them in. well you have to learn to accept the fact that you are an amazing person who deserves friendship and love. you deserve good people around you,you deserve the pleasure of being yourself around others and forming relationships with people you care for, because you are your own person,you owe it to yourself to form relationships with people you feel for.
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some people have nothing exciting to say about them selves,or project a scene simply to get in ladies pants.others say littel and simply leave thingsto an imagination.\ni have no reason to lie and simply state what it is to an extent.\n depends on the person,frankly i wouldnt go through all the bs of covering one lie with anotehr and another like my ex did.\ni simply dont bother.take it or leave it