I am a white woman interested in black men. What is the most important thing to know about black men so that I can get them interested in me?
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its got 2 be a big booty and big breast. with very little its a very good personalty.
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You have to think of Yourself First. Forget about how men see you. Start thinking to make youself a better person.\n\nExecise, lose weight...if you are in shape get some interest like a hobby or some good reading...build some "new you" but not because you have to boost confidence with men, do it because you must boost confidence "in Yourself". You look in the mirror and you think.."I like you now.."\nWhen you have reached this point you will see strange things happening to you...Men will be attracted to you as ever before, even if you were ugly..Why? Because your  self-confidence send out a message, like a scent, telling men that you are OK you are the woman they are looking for, and all of this because you spent time building that confidence\nFOR YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON. DO IT FOR YOU::
173726
no not true!  trust me, i am black, been with black guys, some don't but a lot love to
389417
I am a strong black woman, and I'm 30--and I will tell you that you should NOT only like black men. \n\nThere is a shortage of available black men in America--because many of them are in prison, are gay or bi-sexual, or the ones who are straight  have 4 kids by 3 different women...So, the black men who are available--like the ones in college and the guys working at good jobs--they KNOW that black women are desperate for a man--so these men wont deal with you unless you sleep with them after 5 minutes of knowing them, move in with them, pay half their bills, and do every sexual act under the sun before he even thinks about marriage...The "good black men" also tend to sleep with several different women while they are dating, and they feel that is their right. (not ALL black men are like this--but about 70% of them are). \n\nHoney--if you are smart- you will realize that you should date and marry men of ANY race--Latino, white, East Asian, Arab, whoever. You should be open to men who treat you with respect and kindness, no matter what his color or race is.\n\n--------EDIT---\nHi I Race Relations! Just saw your Post on my question :) I am just keepin it real, thats all. I been around a long time and I seen it all! Not ALL Black men are like this--but MANY are...Trust me, when you get to be 30, you will see that my words are true. Peace!
93750
You have horrible, horrible, horrible media role models.  Flip on any channel and watch the black men (BET included), that is what white America sees.  Local news, black man, MTV gangsta wannabe, black man...\n\n...give it time, they’ll come around. All you can do is be a good representative and get others to follow your lead.
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I've dated black women.  But it was only til they made the move for me.  Its that whole F-ed up past thing of "master and slave" thing and feelings of guilt. Because of that some white men feel weird in themselves.  So they feel the need to wait for approval of a black woman.  Some black women when I look at them are more shocked and some give me a mean look.  Scare the junk out of me. You know what.  No-one has ever mention that maybe a master did love a slave and vice versa. Very good question and I wish there were more women like you.
19736
yea there should be guys interested in you because you are a beautiful woman and i bet that you have alot of good qualities iam interested.
292597
OK, I'm not addressed (white guy here) but I'd date/marry any color woman if we clicked. It'll be interesting to see what sincere black males contribute here.
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I believe I, as a Black man,have a much different idea of what is beautiful.\nBy European standards my choices may seem odd but I believe I look much deeper at a woman than my European or white counterpart.\nWhere whites may look for thin women I look for women who are "healthy".After much consideration I believe this is because I prefer an equal as oppose to some one I can control.\nThe difference between a show wife and one with rough edges is the ability to be there through thick and thin.\nI believe I have a tendency to look for a woman who will be able to carry my offspring with relatively little problems and raise that child with authority when I am at work.This is all on a sub-conscience level but I believe it is my motivation for choosing a woman and the reason I an attracted to certain types of women.\nThere is the rock hard beauty of diamonds and there is the warm beauty of the sunrise.I prefer the beauty of the sunrise.\nI hope this will set your mind at ease.
268544
Lets be honest - men are motivated by skin - show him a bit and you'll get his attention for sure ;o)
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It depends.  You think your strong enough to be a Black woman?  Are you ready for the kind of life we live? Are you an attractive Black woman.  Do you have a nice shape and are you in shape?  But the first thing you should do, is go and get your hair done, cause if you goin from white to black, your hair is probably not going to look too good. The second thing you should do, is go and get some understandg black lady friends, so they can help you out.   Watch out for haters, don't take any bum that comes your way, even if he is black too.  make sure you know how to dress.  make sure you know how to cook.  make sure you have an education.  don't be dumb and think that the only man for you will be black, cause all they want is white,hispanic and asian women anyways.  so YOU should look for white hispanic and asian men, they are all curious.  you know their families don't want them to touch you because your black, but they secretly want you anyways, just don't be offended.  be proud of being a sexy chocolate woman.  and don't worry, after a while being black, you'll know everything we go through, and why you have to be stronger than everyone else.  oh, and know that lots of people will hate your for TRYING TO BE A WOMEN anywayz, PATRICK.
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Why is everyone asking this question??? My man is Black and I'm his Kryptonite. He thinks white women look nasty, just like some white men think black women look nasty. I don't feel less of a person just because a black man likes a white woman. I get hit on by both white men and women, and other races too. It's their preference, so why should we care?\n\nAnd in case that "additional detail" was towards me allybama...\nI'm a black woman. No I didn't choose the dark brown complexion for my avatar because I am not dark brown. I'm more of a caramel or honey complexion. Black people come in different shades of brown in case you didn't know.
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go with your feelings I'm Mexican and I only\ndate Black Men and White Guys only,\n\nI love that dark dark skin and also love that white white skin.\nlatinos don't do anything for me sexually that is.
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I seen your picture, you are a hottie with potential.  Attraction is something must deeper than that.  Guys aren't attracted to women, it's the women who attract the men that get noticed.\n\nIf you as a women wasn't interested, nothing will ever happen to get you noticed.  Just be yourself, and be a lady with class.  If you like someone, and they like being around you without you looking at the clock that is the guy you want to be with.\n\nFun, is the magical word here.  Don't be one of the guys, that will never get you noticed.\n\nDress up in some nice clothes, stop wearing the same thing over, and over.\n\nChange the way you look, experiment.... You are hot without trying, imagine the attention you will get if you worked on it.   \n\nChange your hair style first, then get some designer glasses and shop for new clothes.  Never wear cheap shoes.  \n\nGet yourself a pair of Nine West, and treat yourself to nice clothes.\n\nAlways buy a piece at a time now, for Spring and Fall next year around Feb.
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I noticed that firsthand as well. I can think of four factors to explain that:\n\n1. Because it's unusual. I clearly think it's the dominant factor. Most of the times, people date people from the same "ethnic group". Any relation outside that group tends to attract attention just because it is a rare type of relations and what is rare gets noticed.\nYou can imagine that a couple where the woman is much taller than the man would attract attention for the exact same reason, and no one would suspect "sizism" or any other *ism.\n\n2. "Racial jealousy". I don't know if it's a behaviour selected by evolution or just a culturally aquired one, but people from a specific ethnic group tend to get annoyed if they see one of them "lost" to another ethnic group. \nThis factor might be even more relevant with women. They have long been considered "tradable goods" and they still receive much more social pressure regarding their sexual behaviour than men.\n\n3. Communitarianism. From the minority point of view, such relations can also be seen as "selling out". Might or might not be just the same as factor #2. Some black thinkers suggested that black people dating white people were doing so out of a complex rooted in the period of slavery or colonisation.\n\n4. Just plain racism. Like you can see in some of the answers above, this is obviously a factor. But I tend to think that this is a very marginal one. Might or night not be an extreme version of factor #2 as well.\n\n\nJust to clarify for the few naive persons who think that the whole world has gone Benetton. Interracial relationships *do* attract attention and you just need to be in one to be constantly reminded of that fact.
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I am very much attracted to other races. I like white guys. Latin guys yes oh yes I do.  But I did notice something, I have friends that would be interested in white/latin guys but they do not look at them because they're taught or they think white guys wouldn't be interested in them. I bet a lot of those girls are probably interested but were not too sure of your preferences. Maybe you should become friends with one and then ask her out if you see a black girl you like. Just keep being you.
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First thing I notice: clothing. what you wear says a lot about who you are. generally I look for clean clothes, comfortable, perhaps buttoned shirt or polo. Jeans and their fit say a lot about a person. a person who wears jeans that expose their posterior and most of their boxers says "I'm a faux gangster tryin' to live tha thug lifestyle before mommy comes and picks me up. I have no ambition and fewer prospects." (I should mention that I'm in my early 20's, and this is still the impression I get about guys around my age) a guy who has slightly baggy pants, but shows no a** tells me "I'm relaxed and easy going overall. I'm not too conservative, but I'm decent". a well dressed man in slacks and a nice shirt says "I'm corporate. I make money and I'm doing well for myself". guys who tuck in their shirts and wear tight jeans with big belts say "I'm a dude, and I don't take S**t from women" (basically, it appears they have a stick shoved in their rectum... and who wants to date that?) guys in dirty or seriously ripped clothing says "I don't care about me, and I'll care less about you". and guys in all black with black hair and black painted nails scream "I want to suck your blood and make love to your corpse". Run!\n\nThe next thing is build. since I'm a bigger woman, a man with a small frame is not a good suit for me. I'll break them in half before anything good gets going! then again, huge muscles are kind of creepy, in my opinion. a medium build of medium height is sufficient. weight doesn't really bother me all that much. it's preferrable to be shorter than the guy, but I'd hate to be accused of being sizist. you just don't know who's a good guy until you look.\n\nNext I look at what they are doing. are they flirting with everyone? not really a good choice. their attention is easily divided. are they having a good conversation? that could be interesting. are they looking around? they're interested in what's going on, and so might be easier to approach. are they approaching me? sure, I'll give you the time of day. are they being infantile? Sorry, I'm not a pedophile. I want to be with a man! there are many more situations that can make me assess things in all kinds of ways. but the number one rule: if they are with another woman, HANDS OFF! you automatically assume he is interested in her, and poaching is not cool.\n\nThe last thing to scope is the face. look at the eyes. You really can see a lot about a person in their eyes. knitted eyebrows, small, hard eyes, round, open eyes, laugh lines, etc. all the little details in that area give clues about who you are talking to. the mouth: is it tightly set? is it smiling? scowling? laughing? frowning? going up to a moody guy is not my idea of fun.\n\nOther than that, it's a free-for-all. That's just the preliminary 2 second staredown that I give. for more permanent situations, I'd have to write a book, which I don't think many people would want to read. hope that answers your question!