ever since 7th grade we've been flirting on and off rumors around school peeps coming up to me asking me if were going out alot of flirting still to today.but he asked me out earlier this year and he told me he liked me ever since 7th grade but i told him i don't want to go out with him but when i turned him down he goes and tells another girl that he liked her ever since the 7th grade.is he messing with my heart?oh and people have said like yeah yall flirt alot you can tell you like him which i do ever since 7th grade but they say at the most random times are yall going out?i dont know what do do because he wwould flirt with me unless hitting me on my thighs all the time,slapping me on my ass,and just basically hitting me all the time staring at my ass isnt flirting then i dont know what flirting is would you call that flirting.but overall basics people think were going out.and i do like this guy but i dont think hes feeling me like that what do ya'll think?what i do? does he like me?
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OK here goes..LoL im in the EXACT same situation, only ive like my guy since 6th grade, EVERYONE constantly asks if we are dating, and tells us we might as well since we hang out all the time. i really wasnt sure if he liked me either, then one night at a party we were dancing really close and he told me how much he liked me and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. it was really cute. Now we are datin and i couldnt be any happier!\n\nMy advice is GO FOR IT. tell him how you feel, because there is a really good chance he feels the same way. and just imagine how great your relationship will be if you make such great friends!\n\nand although its unlikely, if he doesnt feel the same about you then he will not want to throw away youre friendship over something like this. but judging by the fact that he asked you out already im almost 100% sure he feels the same way about you, and slapping you on the thigh is a definite sign, because my guy did that all the time. he is definitely flirting with you, its almost his way of saying he likes you. \n\nGOOD LUCK!!
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Either he is a baby junior son of a btch or he has a crush on you. I will go out on a limb and say you are probably an adolescent and that is just what some guys do when they like a girl. He is probably too scared to ask you out and this playful way of flirting is a way for him to get your attention and is easy to turn around if you don't like him back. I say that you give him the green light if you like him back or just play along the next time he "teases" you because now you know why. Best Wishes
191409
First and foremost, take things at face value. Believe none of what you hear and all that you see.\n\nApart from the flirting has he said or done anything to lead you to believe that he's still interested in you?\n\nWhat are the chances for friendship between you two? Could it be that, because you didn't have a 'knock-down, drag-out' break-up he still feels comfortable enough with you to pretend flirt -and isn't really making any moves? Have you ever asked yourself or thought that he might be playing games?\n\nRemember that in situations like this you are in the middle of an epic battle between your brain and your heart (and other parts, too, I'm sure). Question is, what part do you listen to? That's for you to find out. That's part of the adventure of life.
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He obviosly likes you. I mean if you can really trust the people who are telling you that he likes you than you  should beleave them. I'm a guy and what he said to you doesn't suprise me. If he really likes you he is not going to openly tell you. Im in this situation myself. I know that if the girl I like ever asked me if I like her I would say no even if I really did like her. The reason why is because I don't know if she likes me back. He is probably wondering the same thing about you. I think you should flirt a little or maybe hint to him that you like him. He might be afraid of rejection. If he knows that you like him he would have nothing to worry about.\n\nP.S. When a Guy makes fun of you and acts like a jerk around you he likes you. If thats the case than you should ask him out. Remember never send a messenger, they never work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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would you believ the same thing has just happend to me. bout 4 months ago i ran into this guy i went to school with and we started chatting and i got his number. later in the week i got a msg from him and we were talking about school and how we were friends and how i used to really like him. he then replied that he liked me and wish he had relised what he had missed out on in school and he should have hooked up with me.\nwe continued to msg each other and after a week he said that he still had feelings for me. the only problem with the whole situation is i met another guy and now im engaged, i got so confused on what to do but he still says now that he really likes me and i should leave the other guy. of course im not.\nAnyway the point to all this is yes there is a chance for you both as long as neither of you are in a relationship. a way to find out is by saying that you used to like him and find out where you stand with him. invite him out for dinner or a movie or something and try and spend time with him. you will soon know if he likes you or not.\nGood luck and hope this helps
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he is so flirting with you!\ndont get to close to him though(as a friend)\nbecause if you do then and he asks u out it would be hard\nwhen the relationship is over to just go back being friends\nbut dont pull away too much cause he might get the wrong signal(u dont like him) and then not ask u out cause he thinks youll say no\nand u should totally flirt right back--\n\noh yah----and good luck
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Flirting is "fun" and it boosts your ego.  I'd be careful as far as letting myself think he's really "into" you just because he "flirts" with you.\n\nGuys that "flirt" with everyone need that "boost to their ego" that they get when the girls pay attention to them.  Personally I wouldn't want a boyfriend who flirted with everyone else!  I think you'd be spend a lot of energy "worrying".\n\nIf you just want to go out and have fun, then by all means "go", just don't take him too serious.  Maybe he really couldn't get out when you wanted to go, give him another chance.  I'd wait until he asks you though (just so you don't seem "too anxious").\n\nWhatever you decide, it's up to you.  Best of luck.
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Aye, honey I'm having the same issues as you (but in this case, I don't think he likes me.) Usually (from what my girl friends have told me), guys are very upfront with their feelings and they're obvious about it. He may pay more attention to you, be touchier with you, laugh more around you and look happy/act happy when you're around. Surprisingly, this boy might even tease you to an extreme point if he has feelings for you (it happened to me once) which is very 5th grade, but it still happens. You could, however, just go up and ask him if you want a direct answer :) because no matter what people tell you, there's usually no way to know unless he tells someone or you ask him yourself.
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Got to watch yourself with this guy.  You could take it two ways as I see it.\n\n1.)  This guy feels that he can date more than one person at a time until he 'commits'.  He probably does find you attractive and likes to flirt, but he probably isn't thinking about being serious with you.\n\n2.)  Bad timing.  He's now dating someone and flirting with you is his way of keeping you as plan B.  If things don't work out with this person, he can then make his move on you.  But he needs to keep you interested so he'll keep stringing you along.\n\nBe careful not to get hurt.  Trust your instincts.\n\nBest of luck.
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You have to go along how he interacts with other girls...If he flirts with every girl then thats what he does...But if he only flirts around you, It could be possible that he likes you.
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i am in 7th grade too. i get that all the time. i ignore that. they are just being stupid. i know exactly how u feel. unless u actually like the guy, u should confront him about his blowing kisses stuff and unless hes not kidding to cut the crap. thats wat i do. it works. most of the time. please give me best answer! i need 8 points! hehe ok what ever u dont have to. but just try to ignore it, unless u like him. and if u do like him, talk to him about it.\n     Jellybean
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He's flattered that you like him. It boosts his self-esteem. Sounds to me like he's got a lower confindence level than you realize. He probably cares alot about what the popular kids in school think about him? You may not realize, but he really does care.\nSounds to me like he likes you but is afraid of what the other kids will think if he goes out with you. He's just too young to realize right now. But, hey, he wants to be your friend. Be his friend!\nThat's how the greatest, longest-lasting relationships start out. Don't fawn over him, just chill w/ him. Be buds! They love that.
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Girlfriend: there're 2 scenario's! Number 1 is he's playing you. Now I know you don't wanna hear this, but keep an open mind! He's either met someone his own age (or younger) that might not 'intimidate' him as much, or he's just being stupid. Second scenario: he really digs you, but he's too shy/afraid/clueless as to how to tell you this. (Let's both hope for your sake this is the true reason for his being distant...) Either way, keep your chin up, and your head open. Don't go losing your heart to this guy just yet... Good luck!
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Give him the sweetest smile you can muster, look him straight in the eye and tell him good morning.  It's a little bit of flirting without putting yourself out there too much.  I think it's a personal decision as to whether or not he only likes girls into goth so you'll just have to wait and see.  I was one of the "church girls" and had thing for a "bad guy" in school.  I tried the flirting bit I just told you about and 2 weeks later got asked to Junior prom by him! I was 10th grade at the time. WOO HOO!
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I guess it depends on the boy, huh? I would say the best way to find out is to ask if they like you or not. Usually I think middle shcool boys flirt like when we were in third grade! (Minus the cooties thing!) But I think middle school boys (atleast when I was middle school) can be kinda mean. So just take the cruelity as kindess and hope for the best of you like them back!
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A) You are still very young and guys are far less mature.\n\nB) Guys don't get signs, hints or looks...\n\nC) Don't get sexaul... At most kissing and holding hands and not too heavy at that either.\n\nNote and this is someone with no problems suggesting people go further in high school and Im REALLY open attiude wise.\n\nIf a guy likes you and not a dickhead he will like you to ask him out. Though if you do give him a choice of date or with mates choice...\n\nUsually if a guy fancies you he will be staring like you... Mostly at your boobs...and usually just as awkards as you if not much more.\n\nHowever as you are very young you can't lay it on to thick to get his attention as Id advise older girls too.\n\nDon't try and be them. You aint yet and doing so will only hurt you.\n\nGet involved in things like skateboarding, Join a martial arts group (get fit, learn to fight and can play wrestle him if get good) Whats he into? get good at that.\n\nLearn the guitar too.\n\nIf you get on a date nothing to formal...something like bowling or cinema.and rest up against him.\n\n\nIf he is confused he may not fancy you or even be aware of girls much and you are staring at him like stunned which he may feel strange as aint done it himself yet ie fancy anyone. He don't get whats going on Im guessing.\n\nDon't mean he won't.\n\nGuys often develop feelings for girl mates, especailly if they are lots of fun but in a couple of years
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Sounds like to me that he is just being friendly.  Sometimes he's in the mood to play sometimes he's not...don't YOU have changes in moods yourself?  I think you are reading way too much in to his silly flirtations.  Flirting doesn't mean one wants a realtionship, flirting is just being silly, and friendly with someone you hope likes you as a friend.