why is sex alwalys the first thing on the mind instead of of \ngetting to know a person and with all the std out there are we just stupid or what still a few good women left
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here is your ans\n\ncoolman_nycity@yahoo.com\n\npics r a must
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Oh please!  You are messed up!!  As if you'd have the balls to compliment a good looking woman in front of her husband!  Once he's left the room maybe, but I'm sure you'd be running for cover then minute he came back. \n\nBy satisfy do you mean infect with your what multiple stds?  \n\nI'd like to add beggars can't be choosers!
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My question exactly.\n\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Av.oiBv4Qa.Cf7C.xVsUIe7sy6IX?qid=20060606132919AAmGtPL\n\nAmerican women are noted to have twice the number of sex partners as the men.\n\nWhen I bring this up I get the old "double standards" nonsense which dodges the issue.  Why are you opening your legs up so much!?  \n\nA couple of friends of mine think its because women usually do the selecting of their mate and they are simply selecting the same guys ....in their youth its typically the guy who is a player jerk because he is "hot" or "cute".  Some get played, some knocked up..etc. \nIts only after they get older and no longer in their physical prime that they look for a good guy to help pay the bills and raise the kids.\n\nI also think that Radio and T.V.  removes natural shame and common sense and makes it look cool to be promiscuous.\n\nP.S.  if she is 21 or 22 and slept with 4 or 5 guys I would say she is quite the slu.t.  And only a slu.t would get mad at that.
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You have already answered your own questions.  You are the only one that can tell you to have sex.  Good for you for not wanting to just have sex to "get it over with."  \n\nYour friends (and even your family members ... FOURTEEN????) are stupid to just haphazardly screw around!  Aside from the potential for getting pregnant, lets not also forget the disease factor!  Stupid to fool around so irresponsibly.\n\nThe bottom line is, you need to tell your critics (because they're not peers or friends when they're telling you to do something stupid that you KNOW is stupid and you don't want to do) that its your body and your choice and they need to mind their own business.  \n\nThere is NOTHING wrong with waiting to have sex...and you're doing it for the right reasons.  Tell your "friends" to shut the hell up and live their own lives.
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You need to look within your self and find out why YOU choose this type of woman. Your the common denominator in all these situations. Right?  Your obviously getting something you like out of being involved with this type of woman and you certainly don't seem capable of learning from your own mistakes. Your a repeat offender.  Not attractive!\n\nYou also have high standards for the type of woman you claim to be looking for. Do you have those same qualities to offer a woman with good character, education, her own money, no kids, and a sense of morals? Or  are you like a lot of men who think that having a di**ck is enough?\n\nI don't know if you've heard the saying " Birds of a feather, flock together."  Based on your description of the women you've encountered I wouldn't be surprised if you were just like them. No educated woman with morals wants a psycho, crazy, sleazy, easy  and STD infested man.
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Sex is natural, sex is good. Only thang is, love takes work and most people nowadays don't have "time". They want what they want when they want it and they dont want last weeks model..Sadly it seems americans are becoming more and more shallow and materialistic in general terms..It's what MTV is teaching em..Have fun now, pay later...Me...Me...Me... The great news is, there are still a huge amount of loving, caring humans around..I meet them all the time. Wait for one, you'll catch em...In the meantime, have lots's of safe sex and enjoy your precious life!   Kevin
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Lack of essence needs to be covered by something. This crass way is the way of the simple minded. \nI understand that discussion between sex partners needs to be open enough, for mutual joy, but there is a long way from open to gross.
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here's teh deal the way I see it;\n\nmarriages are failing faster than ever before, I believe that the reason is people are not taking the time to get to know eachother like they used to.  \n\nIt takes a very long time to get to really know a person good enough to decide if you can live with them for the rest of your life.  Most people (99.5%) go straight to bed after the 1st to 3rd date; when this happens you find out if you are SEXUALLY compatable with a person and it becomes the most important part of the relationship.  \n\nProblem is, even though we all wish we could, a relationship involves much more than sex and you can't spend the next 40 years of your life f****ing.\n\nFor this reason, I am starting to beleive that it is a very good idea to wait for a LONG time before becoming sexually involved in a serious relationship.  Get to know th eperson on a spiritual and emotional level.  \n\nWhat do they do when they first get out of bed in the morning, have you ever seen her without makeup, have you ever seen him around kids, what is his church like, how does her mom cook.  THese are all questions you need to know as they will help you to better choose a partner next time.
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This whole virgin thing makes me sick. I wish people would accept the fact that virginity is a guilt trip created by so-called religious doctrine that is actually a control with fear tool in order to prevent young members of so-called society from exploring their natural human sexuality at the time they experience it... Thus I could care less whether or not a female member of our so-called society has had sexual intercourse or not, for that is solely her business, and it DOES NOT make her anything other than human.
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I feel the reason that STD's are so out of control is because many people are not taking the precautions they should. And also many feel that because someone "looks" clean then they must be.\n\nNot true.\n\n\nEducation is the key to staying healthy and alive, we all love sex, but we  must also "educate" ourselves  - don't go in totally blind so many individuals just charge ahead and never ask questions or use condoms - safe sex isn't on their list.\n\n They don't stop to consider the conquences at all and most feel like "oh it won't happen to me - I'm too careful - I only sleep with someone who I know."\n\nIt doesn't matter.  If your serious then both of you should go to a doctor have tests done.  \n\nNo I can't see people being divided into special groups, nor do I feel at some point that everyone will become infected either - just use common sense and extreme caution - learn about STD's and don't ignore what education there is out there.
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Safe sex is just so important, Why people cant see that i dont Know, good to see some decent ppl on here that think before that jump into bed with a stranger who may be on a 1 person mission to inflict the same suffering as they are going through.\n\nI will get down of my soapbox no promise
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I don't know so much. I am really conservative about sex, I waited until I was married. It was difficult at times, but you, know. i didn't want to regret it. I think it's because I had no choice before, that I would like my first choice to be something I could never regret. I think promiscuis people are kinda meh.. Most of them just don't care, and aren't very for relationships. I like relationships. I'm not a stereotypical girl about them, but I respect a person that a little bit of self control and dignity. Sleepin' around's reaaally gross to me. Sorry.\n\n...I wouldn't know about the number thing. Sorry.
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weight sex masturbation all of them and also does anybody want to talk .why dont they read some of the previous answers before asking and maybe that would help .i think some of them ask questions just to try and shock others but its a case or seen it done and wearing the t-shirt with me ,oh well lets try again .
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The main reason is not to hurt the current guy or have him think we are slutty.  Also it is possible that she's only counting relationships, not the randoms.\n\nPersonally I do think that this is pretty sketchy behavior.  But mostly forgivable if explained.
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We guys are complete idiots sometimes. Unfortunately that also means that we tend to be more interested in women that aren't particularly interested in us. The challenge is part of it.
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Well, you posted your question a while ago, and I kinda feel bad for you. Maybe people are fond of sexual issues because its something many of us can relate to, and know about. There are so many ?'s on here, I have to pass up, because, I'm just clueless, but sex, I know about!!!!! Do you have a sexual issue related question that you need answered?
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they are self centered and have been brain washed into believing they are the only person on the planet who is right.\n Anwser one about why some women are picky ...get slammed by people who didn't even ask the question! I am selective & believe people should get to know someone before committing to sex..then when the "lust/burning urgre" is gone..there aren't 2 total strangers with possiblly a baby involoved..and another case of STDS in one more person.\n It's called values & class..but it's slammed by guys who can't handle rejection & honesty..\n Some dude has been sending me nasty emails because I answered honestly to that question and I am who I am..Never said anyone had to be like me !!Though I believe we'd all have happier & healthier relationships..it's just my opinion,that's all.\n They take it as a personal attack,when it's not even that !!\n I laugh when I read what he has to say..Hhhhhmmm wonder if he's that chick's brother? He can't spell either and says the weirdest things if I send him a reaponse.Well,at least he is my free entertainment & get a chuckle from him !!LOL