ok so basicallyyyy\nthere's this guy.. and we're friends.. we went to my prom together and i pretty much talk to him EVERY day online..\nwe're jUST FRIENDS.. (although my friends think i like him :/) and we talk about anything and everything\nso you can say that we're pretty "chill"..\nearlier today he texted me during school and stuff... but today when i IMed him he was acting really different/weird/mean.\nNormally we talk like a mile a minute but now he's not talking at all... and tomorrow is my bday but he doesn't seem to care...(and no he is not going to do something nice for me as a suprise.. he really doesnt care!)\nwhat is goinG ONNNNN?\n(oh and we havent hung out in 2 weeks!)\nwhy do guys act this way?!
200942
Alright, he could have just gone through puberty you know? so, after all that he just get a little confused.. like all of us girls do.. so, give him some time and let him know that u still want to be his friend.. i think it would be best not to confront him being weird and everything, guys dun usually talk about their feelings..\n\nAnother answer would be simply he likes u.. yeah, really. someone once told me that when a guy starts ignoring and acts all different with a girl, that means he likes her and is trying to see if the girl would go after him. So,it's up to u girl, whether to respond or not..\n\nOr... another suggestion is that he may have some inner problem, his family, his friends and other stuff. Maybe he's going through some peer pressure, or he's trying to find out his identity in this world. Usually, ppl like this tends to be a bit withdrawn.. Same answer, give him some time and still let him know you just want to be friends.\n\nI hope this helps! Good luck!
214990
Sounds like he's a little immature. My advice, don't worry about it and make friends with someone else. He isn't the last boy you'll ever like, and if he's that young, chances are you're young too, and you will meed plenty of other boys in your day, Lord willing. And don't give your friend any more of his messages ;)
159034
Give it more time... he borke up with you, you guys dont talk much... he may be over you... and you should too.. MOVE ON.
425626
Well... If he was happy to hear from u, and u guys talked for an hour... then maybe he wasn't avoiding you. When u finally talked to him, did you says anything about trying to reach him before? It is kinda weird that he finally answered when u called from a different phone. This is brutally honest, but maybe he was caught off guard when he answered his phone and u were on the other line, so he just decided to talk to u because that would've been obvious if he just hung up when he knew it was u? Did that make sense? lol. I think you should just forget about the dude. If you guys have been flirting for 6 months, and nothing has happened, then he probably isn't as interested as u r! Who knows... just trying to help ya out!\n\n-Eli
439462
yea i think he likes you, he is deniying it because he doesnt want to look stupid and he still wants to be with you. He is afraid that if you tell him that you wont want to hang out with him anymore. So, i would just hang out with him, and tell him you need to talk to him, tell him exactly how you feel. If that is uncomfortable, then write him, i find this much easier, but not as meanigfull. Good luck!
545351
It sounds like he likes you especially if he's doing all that staring. He may be to shy or maybe he doesn't have a conversation starter. Just talk to him as a friend at first, don't be too flirty. Talk to him about general stuff going on at school, a hard test, music, movies or TV shows. He will be comfortable with stuff like that and then you can move on later. And if there's any kind of party going on casually invite him. Hope this helps.
553100
If you really like this guy, maybe you should ask him how he feels. Lots of guys find it difficult to confess how they feel. He may like you quite alot, but has personal reasons as to why he can't admit to it. Maybe he is going through rough times at home or is starting to question his sexuality. This is not uncommon, if you like him, be there for him as a friend until you feel confident to ask him if he likes you. As for the text message, maybe he's freaked out because he didn't know you liked him? Take your time and don't cling to him-good luck!
219651
I think just keep making small talk with him.  Becoming his friend first may lead to a closer relationship with him.  It sounds like you're showing interest without being too pushy.  A lot of guys like a girl that is challenging and has her own interests.  I'm glad to hear that you don't want to change your style or compromise your moral beliefs to earn attention from a boy.  \nAnd by the way, congratulations on losing weight.  I know it's one of the hardest things in the world to do.  :O)
542583
He sounds very immature and many things could be going on within that framework.  You are lucky he is moving on before he really brings more immature and insensative actions into your life.  Be patient and hold out for a quality guy who cares about you and treats you with respect.  Have a blast while you're patiently waiting.  That will make the time go faster and attract more quality guys to you.  Good luck.
525717
If you know him for a while, he wont think its werid at all. Sometimes the best thing to do is the answering machine cuz then you know for sure if he wants to hang out. If you talk occasionally he wont be think'n your bother'n him.
369982
did ur frn say something to him?.. or may be just got bored??? but my dear online frns???.. trust me and i speak from exp... don't waste a sec more on him....move on ....
460856
This guy doesnt sound like hes being considerate of you in ANY way at all. He is using you. A guy who cares for a girl shows consideration. A guy can say anything to a girl but what do his actions tell you? Those speak louder than words. He is making everything about him and nothing about you. Is that what you really want?
558339
He probably feels the same way towards you.\n\nJust try and zoom in on what he and you both like...For example, movies, computers, chat rooms, music, board games, certain books, or something you're both working on in class that you both find interesting...Don't try and tell him you like him in the first conversation...Get to know him really well to see if you actually have feelings for him...If he says he doesn't like you, then you don't have to worry about it anymore and it'll be his loss if that happens, but a lot of people are shy, including guys...It's way easier to talk over the internet, Yahoo Messenger, AOL Messenger, MSN Messenger...Once you get to know him pretty well, y'all can exchange screen names...If you don't already have one, I suggest getting Yahoo Messenger...It's way easier to work with than the others and most people, if they have any mess., they'll have Yahoo, but just to be safe, you should probably get AOL Messenger too.  It's way easier to express your feelings or talk to another person online when you don't have to talk to them face-to-face.  You should try this.  I bet it'll help!  Most importantly, be yourself...Being yourself makes for a stronger relationship where you'll be able to share things, ideas, thoughts, etc. with one another easier.
135614
he's taking the time to message you..maybe he's just busy this week. don't worry about it unless it becomes a way of life. but in the meantime find ways to be busy yourself, it sounds like you have made this guy your whole life and that is never good, you can't be part of a couple without also being yourself.
509605
Esha, I'm talking to you from the perspectives of a guy. I want to consider you a luck gurl for having a guy who wants to displays his affection for you in public. It's only a guy that has no skeleton in his cupboard that does this to a gurl. He really wants to show you that he's the same person to you whether in private or public. Also, he's just trying to pull your legs with those flirting stuff. He wants to know how jealous you could be, but I can bet you he doesn't mean any harm. The next time he does that, you either pretend you don't notice that or if you can, say something as if you're encouraging him in his flirting game. In the contrary, this will shock him and you'll be better for it - trust me. I wish you a happy and fulfilling relationship with your guy. Cheers!
306184
This sounds like a case of too slow too bad to me.  You never mentioned your feelings to your friend and he made his move before you.  Let it be until hes out of the picture.
539655
Well, it's the holiday, and he probably got busy. Dont play the guessing game with yourself. But on the other hand this could be an official Red Flag, if he's like this as a friend, chances are he sucks at being a boyfriend, because if he knows you have feelings for him and he's being kind of careless, you know, not as sensitive as he should be, you will probably be better off as friends. Dont' set yourself up.