i have a co worker we are friends but i worked there for about a month and i got her number and we txt message like all the time we talk on the phone, with out her husban not knowing i love her personality shes just a awsome person am i going cazy or whats going on
207095
She's married, get over it, move on, it's wrong and it could become hazardous to your health.
295229
If she has a boyfriend already then you just need to back off.  How would you feel if a co-worker was trying to get with your girl?  As for the work relationship, keep in mind that even a friendship would affect the work relationship, so a romantic relationship will affect it more deeply.  Move on and try someone else.
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It really depends on your girlfriend and the work situation. If it is ok for her to receive your calls, without her getting into trouble, and she doesn't mind that you call everyday, then there really wouldn't be a problem.  However, if she is getting annoyed, or in trouble, she might just dump you for being creepy and obsessive.
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Unless you are very, very, very attracted to each other, it is not a good idea.  What are you going to do if the relationship falls apart?  Will one of you be passing on nasty stories about the other to co-workers and bosses?  You have to consider the possible fallout from a relationship gone sour.
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Calling you in a regular basis is not everything. He is a busy person. So, it is possible to be tired after he finish his job. That is not a perfect time to call you and he might feel that if he starts talking to you at that time, you will be dipressed at his condition. So, he likes to avoid this situation. Is it wrong? I don't think so!\n\nRemember one thing, keeping you in his heart always is far better than paying attention to so many girls - no matter how much time he is being able to give you!
162492
Is there a manager or nurse at your work that could possibly talk with her?  They could tell her that some of the employees are asking about her and are worried about her, and wondering if she is o.k.
338460
If this is a new relationship with him then maybe it's because it's exciting for her. Have you tried to schedual some time with your friend? Ask her to spend sometime with you too.
104274
i think that she might be hiddin somethin from you.she could be the one playin you hun.if i were you i would check up on her and se what she gots to hide.theres somthin shes hiddin and i think you should kno.i hope things go good for you.
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Hey, I am Jennifer. I was reading over ur qustion, It seems that she is a play by play...I dont know but if i was u i wouldent date her anymore or see her. For me to say I think u sound like  nice guy and u need better. For what i am trying to say is that she tells u to trust her, how could u ever trust anyone that spends the night with anotheir man..thats not right, if u ask me....If she really cared for u she would be with u and not anotheir man. It sounds like she is sorta a good person and all but i think u so need better then her, she is nothing. I'm sry i hope i dont upset you. But what ever happens good luck. But if u would like to talk just im me it is kikikinky321.. bye for now
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Are these 'friends' who work with you?  If so, in my experience no matter how close you are and care about each other, you will always first and foremost be work colleagues.  So its natural for them to not want to share information with you, they see you as a threat.  But then its also natural for you to no longer consider them friends.  They're just workmates, I'm sure there are other people in your life who deserve to be called your real friends, so don't let it bother you too much.
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1st i guess that u have to check if she is also a lesbian ! \nif she is then just try to get close to her even with small steps , smiles , saying hi , small talks . the relationship will grow with time because u work together ! and by the way are u sure that u love her ? not just having a crush on her ? just a thought
426377
she may just want to have you as a "buddy" you might just be who she wants a booty call from. hell nobody really knows but her. so ask her.
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i think you should let her know how you feel about her.\n\ni think it would be much easier to tell her this in person  so i would just ask her to take some time aside on a day and try to go out somewhere where you can talk dinner/coffee/park but somewhere commercial not too busy tho where there isn't eery silence or awkward feelings for reactions to a conversation like that \n\nbye what u have stated it doesn't seem as if she shares the same feelings with you  but i would not know since i dont know her\n\nbut be cautious  because if in fact that she doesn't feel the same way as you do about each other you might be faced with the problem of just wanting to stay friends \n\nbut also don't obsess or show obsession over the situation because that can push someone away and make them feel uncomfortable around you
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I'm assuming you are referring to personal info, not work related info. I've worked many jobs and the only thing I can tell you is that there is an "a**hole" at every company, no matter how much you like your job. As someone else said, just communicate with her regarding work related issues. You don't have to be best friends with the people that you work with, but sometimes you have to try to work with them as much as you hate them as a person. If you really can't stand it, find another job. Writing her a letter along with the rest of your coworkers is just going to cause more trouble. When I was younger, I used to let people like that bother me to the point that I would "tattle" on them. But in the end, I'm the one that suffered. Just do your job and only tell your personal business to people that you do not work with.
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Maybe he likes you. I would caution you, though. My experience is that it isn't good to go out with someone that you work with. How are you going to feel after a nasty split with this guy when you have to see his face every day?
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If the co-worker thinks a lot about his/her ex, and talks about him/her alot, then I ur co-worker needs some more time separating himself/herself from her/his ex, but if u know they're BOTH over it, then u should just date him, but only tell ur co-worker when it gets really serious
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no no no no no dont call him to ask him if he can stop by! You can call him but only to tell him that you hope he has a good day at work and tell him to call you later. Actually dont call him at all. TEXT HIM. Just TEXT HIM. This way it wont seem too needy and he can proboly just txt you back, no prob! Find out when he gets off work and you guys can maybe hang out them, wouldn't that be better then five minutes? Good luck.