I've been liking my ex for the past 5 months, and we've finally started to talk again and I need to find out how he feels about me. Any hints?
213561
Start tryin' to get closer 2 him.  Once yer able 2 lean yer head on his shoulder ask, " do you luv me." i know its not that easy but try
357751
He's trying to feel you out and see what your like now since he hasn't seen you in awhile. You never know he might want to see if anything develops. Good luck!
63540
I THINK THE ONLY WAY TO TRUELY FIND OUT IS BY ASKING HIM..ITS HARD TO BUT THATS REALLY THE ONLY WAY...JUST FLAT OUT ASK HIM..DO YOU LIKE ME AS MORE THAN A FRIEND??
18393
Honey I'm not sure what to tell ya.  Don't give up on him.  Do you have anyway to contact him?  You should tell him how you feel.  I don't know why he hasn't talked to you in a month.  That concerns me a little.  Like I said, don't think bad, think good.  Hope things work out for you.
433859
Well then just be honest with the guy.  Inform him that you really enjoyed your time with him and that he is very much a gentleman etc, but that you have to find out for yourself if there is anything left between you and your ex.
413090
He does like you and it is probably "comfortable" to be affectionate with you.  Does that mean he is wanting you back-who knows, he might not even know for sure.maybe  he was testing the waters to see how you would respond.  Don't confess all yet (I love you so much), give it some time and see if you get any more feelings or if he continues spending this kind of time with you.  You'll know soon if you two need to talk or if its going no where.  Remember, the was a reason you broke up.  Don't jump in heart over head.  Only you can tell yourself what to do.  Good luck
120550
All the speculation in the world isn't likely to help you any. Sit down with him and try to get some honest dialog going, or at the very least evaluate if he's willing to talk openly with you or not. Everyone gets preoccupied at some time or another, but candidly address the issue with him, then judge his reaction as only you can. This will tell you in no uncertain terms whether it's worth trying to get it back or not. You can't be in a relationship by yourself. Trust yourself to see what's true. Good luck.
310434
Lexie( cute name)\n\nLexie u said that u  really LOVE him, but he LIKES u\n\nand that u he's an amazing, trustworthy all around  great guy( I can understand why u love if he's all that) but since u and he have been friends forever then u can say it in a friendly way 1st to see how he reacts. If he says it back in return, then theres ur opening.\n\nAsk him how he really feels about u after all these yrs ask him if he loves u in a friendly friendship way or in a girlfriend way? \n\nAnd base it on that.
525743
I'm in a similar situation...the way my ex tells me that he misses me is by saying he thinks about me alot, and mentions specific things he remembers or wants to do next time we have a chance. I think guys in general might have a hard time coming out and saying it, especially if he does think you are over him. I think you'd be able to tell if he didn't though...like if he started ignoring you, not returning your calls, etc. \nSome hints that he misses you would be the phone calls, calling you or returning your calls, texting you frequently, talking about things pertaining to your relationship, making plans to hang out, things like that.\n\nHope things turn out alright!
242958
Go out on a limb and ask him how he feels about you.....Friend or more......What the heck right, you only once????Good Luck!!!!
524566
yeah! that was like ages ago. there's no link btwn you and your ex anymore. so go for it.
210493
It depends on who broke up with who but you could contact him, but just don't sound too desperate. Just act friendly, ask how he's doing and maybe you two can hang out at some point. Then let him make the next move.
385875
Well there might be still some chances to make up if you both still care for each other .It depends on the way you broke up.I think you can realize that from the way he talks to you or from the way he looks at you when you're around.If hes trying to avoid being around you and talking to you ,it could be a sign of being over you.
305363
i was told once, that where there once was a flame, there are still embers waiting to be lit up again.......or something like that lol........basically, it seems quite possible that he may still like you, but honestly, the only way to find out is to just tell him how you feel and find out how he feels. life is too short, as cliche as that may sound but i've seen too many people lose their opportunity to tell someone how they felt. don't let that be you. worse thing to happen is he doesnt like you, but you're friends and you have been for so long, that it shouldn't affect the relationship. hope that helps, good luck!
148070
make sure your not sending mixed messages - tell your ex VERY FIRMLY that if he tries to touch you again you are getting a restraining order and consider getting one
486820
Well, firstly, you need to write down why exactly he's an EX.  I'm sure there's a reason for it.  Then you need to figure out if those reasons are still there.  You broke up with him for a reason, don't get back together with him if those reasons haven't been removed.\n\nSecondly, we always have a soft spot for some of our exes.  They're comfortable.  You know them well, and sometimes, you need the attention that they can give you.  Doesn't mean that you'll make a good couple, just that you'll make good friends.\n\nIf you're interested, spend some time being his friend and see if anything develops.
76091
It doesn't hurt to be honest and sort of confident and tell him, "We should get back together."  Guys respect that.  But DON'T tell him you've been thinking about him a lot and crying over him -- most people get scared off if they find out someone is into them more than the feelings are reciprocated.  Finally, relax and don't worry so much! When I look back on romances I had as a teenager, I realize that none of them were going to last forever, but they are still fond memories.  My only regret is that I took it all too seriously and stressed myself out too much -- in retrospect I would have just relaxed and been more easy-going about everything.