really rude to me whenever her and I are hanging out with someone wlse, but when its just her and me, we get along. Should I stop being with her, and start to hang out with my other frinds??
215357
Your X-friend is just that. She is not your friend. Stop playing her game with her and move on. You can rest assured that someday she will be sorry she lost a real friend and she will know why.
254815
She is jealous and insecure.  You seem to be having success that is eluding her.  So she strikes back by being mean and trying to diminish your accomplishments.\n\nIf you want to give her another chance but not be hurt any more, you will have to tell her that her current behavior is unacceptable.  You don't need friends like that.\n\nBut if you've decided that she is not the kind of friend that you don't want to have, you will have to be honest with her and tell her that you don't need friends who are constantly critical and mean.  You owe her the truth for the sake of your past friendship.\n\nWhatever you decide is really up to you.  But if you just want to know why she did all this, it's jealousy and insecurity on her part.
334270
Some friend she is. Trust me I went thru da same shit in middle school. This bitch ain't worth it. I use to be like you. A lil shy. I look back n it just pisses me off how I let ppl like her walk all over me. U gotta be cool and set her straight. Make some new friends n start ignoring her. When she confronts 2 u about it, u can just tell well u've been doin the same thing to me n u just ain't worth it if ur only gonna be my friend so that u can benefit from me then I ain't goona deal wit it no more cuz u know wat... I don't have to..(walk away)
256801
I think your doing the right thing and you should explain to her that you are just friends and if she continues you'll have to separate yourself from, unless you want your girl to beat your friend's ass.
373399
well i think u should tell her to shut up and mind her own business, she has no right to tell u what friends u can have and what guys you should like, and if she is still in ur way then i say u should punch the bitch
315505
Invite whoever the hell you want to! Don't let one person decide who you can't hang out with because she doesn't like many people...You sound like a very nice person and I think you should party with whoever you want to....Hate to say it but the friend who doesn't like many people...really doesn't seem to be doing much but trying to bring u down with her!! Be yourself and invite everyone lol...The more the merrier..No matter where or when.
676725
Do you think you should, she told you off in the letter and that is not what a friend should do. if she had a problem with you she should've done it in a nicer way. dont let her bring you down find a new friend. GOOD LUCK!!!
455241
If your buddies don't like her and they LIVE with her, maybe they know something about her that you don't ... :S\nTalk to them about it, find out why they don't like her.  It may be some rediculous reason and in that case, by all means, persue her.
375092
YOU can't stop her. this is HER issue, not yours. you can't fix something you didn't break.\n\nignore her, tell your other friends to ignore her...eventually she will get bored w/not getting the attention she wants and she will stop.\nhonestly, if she is the type of person to make herself feel better about herself by making others feel horrible...do you REALLY want her as a friend anyway?
237824
Life's hard enough without having our 'friends' treat us like that. Tell her it was nice knowing her but you feel your friendship has fizzled out & you need your own space & so on. Don't go playing her at her own game & calling her names, try to part on friendly terms cos she sounds like the sort to hold a grudge & may go out for revenge if you end it by telling her where to go.
239481
First rule of thumb. Don't let people walk all over you or make you 2nd guess yourself. If you know that you did nothing wrong than I wouldnt let it bother you and maybe start looking for a new friend because it doesnt sound like she is much of a friend. If my real friends had a problem with me they would tell me what was going on and how they felt. And you have every reason to treat her as she treats you.
69672
i have the same problem and i am looking 4 answers as well but no one answered me...i even talked 2 her 3 times but she doesnt wanna hang out w/ me and thinks her other best friend is funner...im sick of it
238557
u really are not her friend\nu seem to tell her that she's not a friend of yours but u are not saying it as tho u mean it or like u have a back bone\ni'm not saying be mean but just break it down to where she understands\nand quit tolerating her when u don't have to\nu should never force yourself to befriend someone if u don't want to
248758
I would ask her why her friends do that and have a talk about it. i think she may be jealous of you and this is her way of dealing with it! and if she gets worse after you talk to her then she does deserve you as a friend.
183393
very reasonable, the flirting and inuendo that comes with a lot of girl "FRIENDS" is totally inappropriate now, you should have made your choice, you can only keep the ones who are JUST friends, you know the ones, they are the ones who the both of you can hang with and act the same way when she is there!!!
424216
if she makes you uncomfortable let her know. if you've done that and it still happens, maybe its time to walk away from the friendship. if she doesn't respect you enough to respect the fact that you aren't interested its prolly not worth saving in the first place.
552315
IDK, tell her u have other friends that you wanna hang out with, tell her she's NOT ur only friend. tell her how u really feel.