smart women,know there,s no such thing as true love, it's true lust. and after awhile that wont matter, how big,small,etc. it's all between your ears.
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First, if you're looking for intelligent women you need to use correct spelling.  So to answer the first part of your multi-question, if I see a question severely grammatically incorrect and incoherent I will ignore it.  \nAs for the rest of what you're saying....???  You've lost me a bit there but I BELIEVE what you're trying to say is that looks don't last forever but the connection of two minds/souls will so why focus on physical attraction only.  IF that's what you're saying then here's my view.  There's an initial attraction between two people that causes sparks.  I really don't think for men or especially women only the physical will cut it.  Maybe initially but not long.  Not long at all.  Then you get to know eachother and what the other is all about, their beliefs, learn how they think, what makes them tick, their sense of humor....lots of things.  These are all things "between the ears."  I agree very much it is this that makes a relationship stick.  The chemistry part must be there if for no other reason than to get the relationship off the ground.  W/o the connection of two minds then it will stay on the ground.  \nMaybe this saying somehow applies as well to what you're wondering???  "A man falls in love with his eyes.  A woman falls in love with her ears."  ...make sense?.....  hope that helped and wish I understood more what you're wanting to know.  Maybe if you just came out and asked it??
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It is lust, or as someone said, desire. Love isn't a feeling, it is a choice. You choose to love someone.
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It is not always so.However 99% men would think about her because anything which is GOOD, Provocative and  Beautiful will attract the Opposite Sex.
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Men are logical , Women are emotional .
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because they dont know what love is and they have never experienced a true relationship..but once they have they know that they wont settle for anything less and they will want that real relationship with love and feelings
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I doubt it's true.  Maybe in marriages, though, because women have to keep repeating themselves in order to be heard!  (Tee-hee!)
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I dont believe all women are illogical. I think that women do act on emotion more then men and much more then they should. But lets be honest thats what we love about them and it definately seperates us from them. A possessive woman pumps up her mans ego. If we had women that said "no honey I dont mind if you look at her" we wouldnt feel as needed or wanted.
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MOST of the married couples I know tolerate each other and the women all tell me if they had to do it all over again, they would NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  And I know a LOT of couples!!!!!!!!!!!! You might find a few here and there who are so used to each other they get familiarity confused with true love.
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As a 30 year old woman, she should be relieved to find such a handsome, successful, intelligent man around her age.  Any person who ends a relationship because of what others might think or say is shallow and inadequate as a partner.  If she's talking about you, you're a cutie and she should be glad you're not bald and impotent.
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Trust me it happens with older women as well, and not surprisingly there are some men who experience settling for second best instead of being patient. The root of the problem is while we want to have a successful career, money in the bank, a big fine house, and the 2.0 children, we don't want to wait until the right person comes along who feels the same way about certain things in life as we do. Therefore, we settle for someone far less mature and serious about life than what we had intended because we don't want to be alone. We hate being alone, we hate spending time with ourselves, we can't stand the quiet. For some reason we believe that it is easier to be with anybody than with nobody.
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Because they don't love women..They love themselves...I love women and appreciate all types,sizes, ages and personalities. There is  a secret excitement to be found underneath the surface of every woman just as every woman has different experiences to share and has her own rythm that leads her to multiple O's..Taking the time to find those things make life an exceptional adventure....
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Women often stay in those types of relationships because they think they can't do any better than that (i.e., low self-esteem).  They also may not think they can "make it" on their own, especially if they do not have a college education.
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Love is comfort. Love is profound and vast. Love is feeling safe with another, a friendship set on fire, or rather, to the extreme, when two people care about one another more than the world, and all other worries can be put aside when the two are together. Love exists between the two no matter where they are. It is unconditional. It waits for everyone but can only be found if not looked for and does not wait forever- you may think you have found your true love, but in a few years, he or she could be married to someone else, another love. It cannot be created in an instant. But it can be found everywhere. Love isn't holding hands, soft music, pretty dresses, or the scent of a cologne or perfume. That's romance. Love is just there without any material objects to get in the way. Love is not proven by a mere ring or necklace. It is proven through acts of love. Showing you care about someone is one of the most important things you will do in your lifetime. So don't force anything on her or don't let her force anything on you. Let each day come individually. Things will work out.
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Loving someone is more rational, you are more aware of their good and bad points and love them anyway.  Falling in love isn't rational, you only see the good, you don't see them in all their humaness.
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Its is common knowledge that when there is an object just beyond your reach you pine for it more than ever.Unfourtunately, humans are programmed to mate, although most of us are praticing monagamy, there are still those who are more in tune with their primal roots. Sexual attraction is a very strong feeling and some of us cannot tell the difference between Love and Lust.
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well sometimes you can trick yourself out of love if you are always so anti- love. If you go into a relationship cynically believing that it will be nothing but lust, then it very well may turn into a self fufilling prophecy. you will never give yourself the chance to experience love because you will always believe it is lust.
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I admire the honest mature questioning. Do men get tired of the same woman? Genetically...deep down where the desire to procreate comes from I'm sure. But that's why we have a developed brain. We can move beyond the animalistic impulses and focus our attentions on the woman we love. If I, as a man, want something new in my sex life, why would I NOT express and share it with the one woman with whom I am comfortable and love the most? Some of us can think this way. Others.....not so much. Judge us not by others, but by our own actions.