I don't have any partner but suffering from being alone from time to time, need someone to take care of me, need someone to have me BUT THE REALITY... DON'T HAVE THIS NEED
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In order to counter any time you are feeling depressed you should always look to what is good in your life. For instance, you may be alone right now but that will probably change. You have your health and you also have a certain freedom that people in relationships do not have.\n\nAfter my divorce I found myself living alone. On that first night I had a party for myself, played loud music all night, and enjoyed cooking myself a meal and planning the weekend. I did things that I had never done before and went to places I had never been.\n\nYou can take comfort in your friends and family and utilize ways of making other friends, on-line and in the real world.\n\nUltimately, the opposite sex will be attracted to someone who smiles at life.
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well, being with someone does not mean not being lonely. there are a lot of people out there who are with their someone's but are terribly lonely...anyway, as much as i would like to, i am already with someone. tell me how old you are and i might be able to recommend you to a friend.
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Find a friend, if that doesn't work there is always BEN&JERRYS Chunky Monkey, it always makes everything better.\n\nBut honestly, I have felt all of those things, and that is not a good place to be.  I hope that you can realize that you are special and of infinate worth.  It breaks my heart that you feel that way. Feel free to email and we can talk, you don't have to feel so alone and that can be a start.
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I feel for you, you must be broken at the moment, but sadly I think he has made the decision not to be with at the moment for himself and wants to pull himself together on his own. I would ask him once if there's anything you can do to help, if so than he needs you as a support, if not, back off but ask after him to show you care until he's ready to share his life again, good luck.
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Hmm it's hard to answer why a single person is single. I'm single too and I'm just as frustrated that I can't find someone and be happy like the rest of my friends. I think what it comes down to though, is you need to be happy with yourself first. When you're not, people will see that and it becomes a turn off or people become afraid of dealing it. Just from reading your question, you sound angry at the world. But really, you're the one that has to make it happen. Work on yourself first and I'm sure that person will find you, notice you. Good luck.
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I think you need to learn how to be with yourself for a while. I understand how lonely it can feel, but if you can't learn to deal with yourself, how you can expect you deal with others.\n\nLove yourself, then you can know what it means to love others.\n\nYou can't always expect to have someone else always be there for you. Your always going to end up alone anyway, so its better to get used to it.
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Yeah, it does suck to be lonely but you are only 6 months out.  It could take a few years to find "the one".  Be patient.  Dont rush yourself.  Get involved in things where other singles are like church groups and that.  The right one will come along and when she does, she will love you for the man you are.
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YOUR HIS TRANSITION GIRL. GET OUT FAST.  HE TOLD YOU HOW HE FELT!  DONT YOU WANT SOMEONE WHO REALLY CARES FOR YOU?  OR WOULD YOU RATHER BE IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS THAN BE ALONE?  I'D RATHER BE ALONE!
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You shouldn't be desperate if you don't want to stay single for long.  Being desperate connotes that you want something real bad and there's a saying that if you want something bad enough, you scare it away.  There's some truth to that because the message you're sending to the universe is that by wanting it so much, you still don't have it.\n\nIf you want to create that situation for yourself wherein you will be happy and fulfilled in a relationship, you've got to get into that mindset first EVEN IF you don't currently have a partner.  Then when you're not even looking, that's when it will manifest.  All creation starts with a thought and when the thought is right, the universe will manifest that thought for you.  So don't be desperate. Be complete. Then you will Have.
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You need someone to love.  \n\nYou have a very giving nurturing spirit, but feel there is no one who needs it or deserves it.\n.\nYour boyfriend may also be acting indifferent or too independent for you and you feel somewhat lonely.
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Sweetie, if the guy was married than you had nothing at all an if yall shared such a deep connection why aren't you with him now?Maybe what you should do first is get to know yourself first. Trying being alone and seeing what its like for awhile. If you feel lost because you don't have a man that makes others think that your weak. You should be independent rather your with someone or not. All I'm trying to say is that, how can you be devoted to someone who's already married? What would you do if the tables were turned and you were his wife??? Just don't get lost in the midst of needing someone, and having to have someone-figure out who you are and see how far that gets you!
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I am a hopeless romantic. I want to have a husband that would treat me with the utmost respect, provide for me and the pets. I dont want children as of yet but that can change with the right man. Sadly there are some women that have it all but the husband is abusive or is cheating. I want a good man. Thats all I ask for. Otherwise, I can make it on my own without a man.
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Yes zool, sometimes I feel very sad and loney too.  My marriage of 27 years broke up about 3 yars ago.  Then I met someone, fell in love and got engaged.  He died last September.  Since then I can't seem to "find my place."  You know, where I belong.  I moved to another state but feel like I need to go back where I came from because my children and grandchildren are there.  What is making you feel sad and lonely?  You can email me at watsoq9@yahoo.com if you like.
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So am I, in love and feeling lonely and uncared for :-(
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Kiddoe, I think it's good to be on your own for awhile, to see whom you really are. Loneliness is not as bad as being in an abusive relationship. Be with people who need you, and love you for who you are. Don't be looking for the bf. (He's looking for you!)\n\nWhile you're on this journey, the right guy might just bee bop his way into your heart. \n\nYou'll find what you're looking for a little while after you stop looking! \n\nGet into the best shape of your life, and go for a healthy dose of self esteem. That's what you get while you are serving others in love.
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Stay busy. Keep moving. Treat yourself to a pedicure. Just don't stop moving or your situation will consume you.\nFind ONE great friend and you will NEVER be alone. If depression is a factor, I suggest you seek counseling that would fit your personal beliefs. I have suffered from depression my whole life which makes you afraid of being alone and scared all the time. Counseling was the best step I ever took, but you have to implement what you learn into your life.
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Ya wanna hear something goofy? When I was a teenager, I felt just like you! I would wish to god I was a Siamese twin, just so I wouldn't feel so alone. It is hard to explain, I wasn't really lonely cause I had lots of friends and people who loved me, it's more a feeling that all of them and the whole human race belonged to this,(something) what ever it was except me! I could be in a room full of people yet feel all alone. Then one day I started asking myself: WHAT DO I WANT? As I lay in my dark bed   crying myself to sleep, I would ask: WHAT DO I WANT RIGHT NOW? WHAT WOULD MAKE ME FEEL AND FILL THE VOID IN ME? Perhaps something that would make me a part of something! Well I don't really know what to tell you except I volunteered for a suicide hot line, I served underprivileged children dinners, I  worked at a mission, helping the homeless, I sat with the elderly etc. and as time passed, the awful feeling of being alone gradually went away! That was quite a few years ago and I haven't felt that way since. I don't know what happened, but what ever it was, it sure worked for me. Maybe it will work for you too! Good Luck!