why do some women have fantasies about rape ?
217404
funny. i do and i was sexually molested twice growing up. but sometimes i catch myself thinking at night bought someone coming into the house and wanting the rape... WTF!?!
29440
Cos they really fantasize about sex more than we men do. I mean real sex where, they, the women actually have orgasm.
308955
Well, well, from the physical point of view, it is because of our unique anatomies. And from the moral or religious point of view, it is because of the chastity of our bodies. You see, it would be highly prurient for a woman to expose herself in public, i.e. baring those "lovely pairs of coconuts, so luscious and delicious..." that could invite a physical sexual assault from some people. And even without some battering, it would make some people sin by dreaming and lusting about an exposed woman, especially when she is young and beautiful and titillatingly so provocative and too sexy, or making people sick of looking at those sagging breasts from women that are scandalizing themselves by exposing those "dilapidated pieces of cow meat..."\n\nSo, it is not good for girls to expose themselves in public, while it is not in good taste for boys to do so, society is quite lenient on that part of men's bodies.
169717
we all have fantasies and some of them are more socially acceptable than others. however, that does not mean you are sick, it simply means that yours is not socially acceptable. it is also important to distinguish fantasy from reality. if it really bothers you, get off of yahoo and go see a counselor. they know what they're talking about, we're all just dumbasses when it comes to this stuff.
95024
You are a stalker and have deviant behavior.  If you truly don't want to rape someone, and I think it will happen if you get frustrated for too long, go to a psychiatrist..NOW!!!  Spare some women the pain that you will cause them.  You are a very dangerous person right now.
178073
Theres a lot of women who love to get nasty
281370
As a rape survivor, I can say that I believe that women are mistreated by some men, but some men are also mistreated.  For every bad man or woman in this world, there are way more good ones.  I can attest to that fact.  Yes, we women are at a disadvantage in some points, but I would still choose to be a woman, even living through what I have lived through....Good question....:)
114531
Men use rape as power...rape has some sexual component though it is really about power and dominance.  The results of men using their ability to rape women is evident in the many cultures where women are viewed as second class citizens, where virginity is considered a virtue, where women are scared to go out at night.
192709
Golly...you boys certainly do have wild imaginations!  For the record, if all of us women were as homosexual as you think we are/want us to be, we would never have sex with guys, so you should probably get over it.
91048
they usually do it because they think it makes them cool and makes them appear to be more "grown up." as for why people rape, those are the ones that have psychological issues and raping somebody makes them feel better about themselves, for a while at least.
449303
I don't know what it means but I have heard the fantasy many times over and over.  Maybe it is something about 'giving ' her to someone like you have total control over her and you can even control who sleeps with her?
634821
anyone can be a rapist. its really hard to tell by looks.
26838
If it was rape she would most likly have some trauma to her arms or hands from trying to fight back.or maybe a broken nail. She wont talk untill she has had quite some time to let the reallity of it all pass.Good luck.
657747
Sometimes people get these "interests"... Worst kinds are for film stars or members of bands...\n\nYou are best just fantasising about it... Unless the one and only occassion presented itself... Then take it and look back in fond memory or be glad it was only one night and won't ever happen again!!! ;)\n\nSometimes, there can be that nagging problem of the "what if" sneaking in...\n\nAt the end of the day, it is your choice... I'm sure the person you have these "urges" for will never find out... ;)
36960
Physically it is certainly possible.  Rape is forced and/or unwilling sexual activity, so a woman could certainly force a man to unwillingly have sex (see News articles below).\n\nI'm certain from a legal standpoint it is also possible, but different jurisdictions likely define rape differently.  I would be surprised if the definition of rape changes based on gender, however.
488795
The subjugation of females by many church doctrines is why a great many people leave the church.\n\nAnd rape messages don't stop with the bible.  They are prevalent in many areas of society.  By viewing women as the "weaker" sex and subject to male domination, it is easy to see why rape is so commonly practiced as is sexual molestation and rape of children, who are also vulnerable.\n\nRapists look for two criteria.  Availability and vulnerability.  When women are taught on a consistent basis to defend themselves the numbers will drop.  Defense includes not conditioning female children to be "nice".  \n\nPeace.
195363
Either it is social, immaturatity or they just can't deal.\n\nI was raped ,the dective  (older man) wanted to know what I was doing in a bar.If not to meet men.\nMy BF at the time after I told him via phone" I knew it would happen to you because you are  friendly" \n\n *I am sure there are women out there who feel certain that the women it happens too bring it on themselves as well, I just haven't met any.\n\nGL\nThe most violent element in society is ignorance.  ~Emma Goldman\n\nWith the gift of listening comes the gift of healing. \nCatherine de Hueck