All the girls will tell you that they admire a man that is still a virgin, but how do you feel when a guy doesn't live up to the hype during his first time? Sympathy, pitty???
208928
It's sweet 4 a man 2 b a virgin.I remember wen I was 20 and popped a 17 year old lad's cherry.it felt GRRREEATTTT!!!!!!!!!Knowing that he would remember me 4 the rest of his life.
620354
WHAT? you know how girls feel when a guy cheats on them and they don't go back! and guys feel the same way why don't you just tell him what you did! your such a loser!
655970
Yes I was.  I was a virgin until I was 22.  I don't regret waiting at all.  But I wait because I wasnt ready to have sex with anyone that I had met prior to that point.
165776
When a girl is a virgin that means no other guy has had apart of this girl they are seriously falling for. If she isn't a virgin and lost her virginity to some one else, it doesn't feel quite the same - especially if the male is a virgin. Being a virgin means your pure and fairly innocence and that no other male has had a part of you. Considering how territorial men can be, I think that's the reason why.
649913
First off being a virgin is perfectly admirable and I give props to any one that has the ability and will to abstain.  If it was me though I'd go out with someone that had a lil experience maybe 5-10 partners.  That way I already knows she knows what she likes and hopefully she's not too  uptight so we both can play and have a lil fun teaching each other what we've learned.  However, if I were to date a virgin it would be to contain myself but, I'd still try to respect her wishes.
435036
To be honest I was not satisfied, I had this built up image of sex in my head, I thought it was going to be great and enjoyable. But it wasn't, It's not the same as pleasuring yourself lol, because your starting off with that person you have to learn what each others likes and dislikes are, but that was just me, I dont know about other people, I talked to some people and they felt the same way but I guess thas something that changes with time or from person to person well hope your first time is a blast! have fun.
599850
Those people are total weirdos.  I agree with you, that it does not matter. \nThose people need a new hobby or something, if they are like obssed with being a virgin or not.... \nBut you never know, maybe it'll get better.... hopefully.
351284
This whole virgin thing makes me sick. I wish people would accept the fact that virginity is a guilt trip created by so-called religious doctrine that is actually a control with fear tool in order to prevent young members of so-called society from exploring their natural human sexuality at the time they experience it... Thus I could care less whether or not a female member of our so-called society has had sexual intercourse or not, for that is solely her business, and it DOES NOT make her anything other than human.
438894
No, if he is a virgin he is probably nervous and feeling guilty. If he is feeling guilty he may not be able to get off.
216272
Did it ever occur to you that there is nothing wrong?  There are some guys who want to be virgins until married.  Why should that be an issue?  A guy has the right to say no and to wait until marriage.  Some guys don't believe in a double standard...they want a virgin so they will also remain virginal.
379964
being a virgin is great beth am glad to hear that am a virgin to and yes guys love them.  its good to be that way only give yourself to your husband and nobody else cause once you give it away thats it. far as scaring guys off i don't know but in my personal oppion being that way and you lose it to some radom guy is ver disturbing reason why is because you do fine somebody you love very much and he is a virgin and you know he is going to marry you when you both get married you can't give your first to your husband and i think that he really deserves to be your first keep up the good work beth
469092
Please, stay a virgin! I'm one and I'm proud of it even though some may consider me a loser. I'll bet a lot of your friends secretly regret losing theirs to some idiot boy that didn't really care about them. Do not feel pressured to lose your virginity; you're too young and boys at that age are very immature.
153750
i don't believe you would still be a virgin, but that should not mean it is any less special when you chose someone to share your first consensual experience with. you are still pure and being victimized does not take that away. you define yourself any way you wish and make sure any potential partner respects that.
492654
that is very odd. girls are the ones who act like that after having sex with a guy. he may have been a virgin and is still not comfortable around you or he might be feeling guilty about something he is hiding from you, for example: he might be hiding the fact that he has an STI
386768
Unless he penetrated enough to feel what intercourse was actually like, and did more than just one slight poke, he's kidding himself if he thinks he's not the equivalent of a virgin.\n\nI'd say he's still a virgin if he didn't complete the job, but that's just me.
86734
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21. I kept it because I thought it was what God would want me to do. Once I lost it, I almost became a nympho. I felt I had to make up for lost time. All of my friends were out getting laid and partying and now they still think of me as the nerd. You might as well know that one day, sex is going to be a huge part of your life...for the rest of your life so when you feel the time is right, I say go for it. Don't be a slut, but for that person you have feelings for, go for it.
577142
We all loose our virginity eventually.  Whether its a good thing or not, really only depends on you.  If you felt it was right at the time then why bother with anyone else.     The only person to judge you , is you and no one else.   Now that you have lost your virginity,  just be careful.   And it does get better.   I just hope the guy likes you too and isn't just using you.   Take care.