I'm not sure many have been as promiscuous as me (I have friends with less than 10 partners in their whole life), or have got away with as much...am I right, or wrong?
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Congratulations. Yep, this is a record. The people from Guiness will be contacting you shortly for verification.
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Most definately. As a woman who has slept with many men, I can count on 1 hand the amount of men who can control themselves. I can also only count on 1 hand the amount of men who really know how to please a woman. This is a very sad state of affairs men. You need to practise and have sex from the woman's perspective. Very disappointing.
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It sounds like maybe you're not being completely up front with them from the beginning about the 'being married' part. Maybe they're getting some kind of vibe from you that you're looking for someone to have an affair with. Are you going out of your way to get men friends? If so, why when you're married?
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Exactly I am in the same situation, I feel as long as we restrict our relation to platonic, then there is no problem...Its like having some one more than a friend, Its a special relation...THERE IS NO WRONG IN IT... Go ahead....
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YES!!! I know a couple myself. Guys who do this are called "Down Low" guys. I would strongly urge you to warn your friends about  how rampant Aids and HiV are in this community. You guys may never know the full truth... but tell your friend to protect her heart and let him GO.
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My oppinion is that you are a few of the smart loyal and honest men out there and I applaud you for your well train of thought and consideration. I do not feel anyone should look down on you just because you have considered things that for others it doesn't even cross their mind. Continue your great way of thought simply because so many of us fall under pressure especially when being tempted with sex, and drugs. I was also a virgin when I got married and so many friends told me I'd regret it but I've been married for a year and the thought of cheating on my husband because I never had anyone before him never crosses my mind. Not to mention the great respect I got and continue to get from my husband everytime we make love!  I'm sure you will find somone someday who is going to also appriciate your well thought in life! Good luck and God bless
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I don't agree.  I know men who are not really that much into sex.  Me, being a woman, however, I  need it often.\n\nI don't mean with different people
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Not everyone is out for sex. Some guys actually have honorable intentions. Sounds like you may have run across one. My advice as a guy is HOLD ON TO HIM. The sex fiends are a dime a dozen.
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uhmm i was in a position where i was in a awkward spot. i didn't have sex with more than one guy at a time..but they would have been game had i said yes. we were up watching a movie..and one of them kissed me and stuff..and then of course the other thought it was time for him to join in. \nwe didn't go all out and have sex, but i guess you could say there was some intimate contact..
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I think we all have a small pool of very compatable partners.  Most people don't wait for someone very compatable, though.
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I agree those are what most people think, and the main one is Why? I think it comes down to, did I do something wrong, why did he/she do it? If your friends or family know about it and don't tell you I feel that's a huge betrayal. They either don't want to get involved but I think it's wrong for them not to, because then you look like a bigger fool when everyone around you knows but you. Both sexes need to be honest if they're cheating because it catches up  with them in the long run anyways. JMO
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If this is a moral question, leave it to your friend to figure out.\n\nIf it's just a concern about health then the more important issue is if your friend is using protection and not how many partners he/she has.
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I think at the end it's not importand how many boyfriends u made to add to ur list. \nThe most importand thing is that u have "one" right name on ur list, 100% right.\nIt looks like very easy but as a mater of fact there is not many people that made it!!
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The reason they want you so much is that you are a rare person. Wonder what percentage of the population has had ONLY one sex partner? VERY SMALL PERCENTAGE, I BET! I admire you for not having multi partners. You found what you wanted, and you stayed with him. Way to go! But the guys just want you because you're practically a virgin, at least to them.Hope that answers your question.
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You are wrong. A friend isn't going to go after a friend's partner. The people who do, are not friends.
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Yes, we all can be in love with many aspects of a person and not lust for them...it is an unsatisfying affair, at best. Your "friend" is looking for someone to take care of him, not a whole lot more. Relationships are built on less, I suppose. Not for me, not my diea of an affair...to each his own.
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I had 4 boyfriends excluding the one I am currently with. And 3 out of 4 of them cheated, for dumb reasons. One was not getting any from me, so he looked elsewhere (I was 16 then, what the hell did I know about sex). Later another, cheated with my best friend after she threw herself at him. After the that the last didn't know how to keep it in his pants because of self-esteem issues. I did not want anything to do with any of them after that. It is a sin to cheat and if you know that cheating defines you and relationships then you need not be in one at all. There is no way to avoid a break up I won't even want to be your friend.