I am in High School and I like this chick and she knows I like her. I want her to like me but she thinks I am a little immature and if I asked her out she would'nt know what to say because she doesn't know if I will mature. So I want to do something romantic but I don't know what, so what should I do?
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show her that you have matured, talk to her in a adult manner. let her know that you can be serious and you that you be a differnt guy.  that and you could always send her roses and chocolates as either a secret admirier or just admitting it was you. whatever you do, just make sure that your serious about it.
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Your question doesn't make much sense, but I'll try. I am 14 and have been through many dating experiences. I take it that u r a popular guy at your school, and this girl thought u would tease her because the other cool kids did (wow, I've been in this situation-I'm a girl by the way). U need to become her friend, get her to trust u and understand that u r not trying to tease her or hurt her in anyway. Once she understands this then maybe u can move further, if she is ready. If she has basically said that all boys r going to tease her, then she has probably been through some bad experiences, so give her time. I know this might sound weird coming from someone who is only one year older than u, but u r still young. Sometimes u can think u like someone, but really not. Take some time, think about it, and if u r sure, trying doing what I said. \nHope it works out well for u, u sound like a great guy.
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first...i know i'm not a girl. haha, secondly...don't push things faster than they need to go, but probably she likes you too. that's why she's shy now, because she knows that you both feel the same, but maybe she's scared to take the next step. i dunno. but good luck! =D
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If you like this girl for more than her looks, then you might know some of the things she is interested in?  If not, take the leap! I am a 20 year old female, I don't know everthing about relationships but one thing I do know is that if you don't take that first step, you may never know what could have been.  If things don't work out and she isn't interested in you like you would hope, then things weren't meant to be.  When I was a sophomore in high school I dated a freshman guy who approached ME.  I knew then as much as I know now that he had a pair of you know what and I credit him for approaching me (I understand it isn't easy!!) And break the habit of talking through the friend to get to the girl, the sooner the better because you're wasting your time!! I hope I was some help : )
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Try making it casual.\n A bunch of us are going________. I'd like you to come with us.Then give a reason why you'd like her to come. \nThere is no need at this point to lay all your' feelings out there.\n\nYou like her and enjoy her company.\nLook for opportunities to see if she enjoys yours.\n\ntruth be known, most people are at least a bit insecure about something. Some are just better about hiding it.\n\nChin up young man.\nAll the Best to you !
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You sound very excited, Al.  Take it easy.  \n\nFrom your descritpion, it sounds like she may like you, but not too much right now.  At my age I know that men imagination is NOT often correct about this. \n\nDo not crowd her too much.  Invite her out to lunch no more than once a week. Flirt with her, but subtly.  Do not grab at her but compliment her hair, smile or clothing etc.  \n\nThen stay away for a couple of days and do not call her on the phone.  I promise you she will begin to like you more.
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Since she didn't take you seriously, it sounds to me like the two of you already know each other.  That's a start.\n\nI wouldn't lay on the "I love you" bit just yet.  It takes some people time to have those feelings for another person.\n\nGet your friends together and ask her or one of her girl friends to go on a picnic or a movie or SOMETHING where there would be a small crowd of you all together. Say, "Bring your friends".\n\nGirls are more likely to go out to places when there are several members of both sexes there.\n\nFrom there just gradually get closer and closer to her until there is a moment when you can kiss her.\n\nDon't ask if it would be OK to kiss her.  Just do it.  Much sexier.\n\nAnother big point.  Don't tell her again that you love her until you feel she is having the same feelings as you.\nOtherwise, you would probably just scare her off.  Wait til you think she's flirting back at you, then make your move.
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Hi\n\n  The only thing that I would have to suggest is to just try and talk to him and tell him how you really feel. If he is mature about the situation tell him it should not matter what his friends think if he really likes you. I know it is hard because everyone wants almost everyone to like them when your in high school and you don't want to appear different. In the end it is his choice and I hope all works out for you both. I hope I helped!
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I've been in this situation before.  Don't give up.  Girls don't come straight out with their feelings like guys do.  She can't tell you that she likes you right now because she still has a boyfriend and she's still loyal to the boyfriend, even after all the shit her boyfriend's putting her through.  Just be a friend for her right now.  Girls don't only date guys that are cute.  They date guys who they can connect with.  Who they can get intimate with, and have deep conversations about life with.  If she thinks you're cute, you're halfway there.  Just stick with her through this hard time.  The relationship will eventually end after she realizes there are other guys out there who will treat her way better than her current boyfriend, such as yourself. :P.
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talk to her about it.  See if she wants to go out with you or if she likes things the way they are.
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Good Call But You May Want To Phrase It Different.\nLike Say " I Just Wanted To Let You Know That I Like You And I Was Wondering If You Wanted To Go Out" You know or something like that because u say im just putting it out there then she might just say ok and walk away and things will never be the same with u two.\nBUT GOOD LUCK\n<3 Lauren
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Being a girl myself, BE NICE TO HER!!!\n\nMy first bf just chatted to me whenever he saw me for awhile. He would wait for me at my stop, and he was always really nice. He acted just like friends. He dropped small hints in his xanga and stuff about likeing me before he finally asked me out. \n\nTalk to her whenever you can. Make eye contact, smile. After a little while, when she seems responsive, start dropping hints that you like her like her. She will most likly know this, but hey, we're girls, we love that stuff. \n\nAnd most importantly, ASK HER OUT YOURSELF!!! DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT get someone else to talk to her or ask her out. Only cowards do that. \n\nGood luck!
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The mature thing to do is to stop trying to impress her. Right now she sees you like a little puppy begging for treats, not as an independent man. Tell her sorry you didn't have a nice time, maybe we can still be friends and then move on. 7 out of 10 times a girl will start to drop her guard down after that and look at you as more then a puppy and start looking at you as boyfriend material, and even if she doesn't the other girls around you will see that and pick up on it too.
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Ok... I've got two answers for you... so here goes...\n\nThe simple answer:  Probably.\n\nThe more complicated, and more important answer....\n\nYou are insecure. You know this... I know you know this, because you are an obviously intelligent person, but you simply haven't gotten to that point where you are really comfortable "going for it." I know this, because I was the same way for most of my life.\n\nGuess what? So is she. So is everyone. Everyone is insecure about things... over time those insecurities change to different things, but everyone has them. Yeah, most likely she likes you... but here's the best part, even if she doesn't, it doesn't really matter. Let's say you go talk to her, and ask her out... there's only really three things that can happen:\n\n1) She says yes, all is well and good with the world, you go off and have a wonderful time, and who knows...\n\n2) She says no. It doesn't matter what the reason is, just be nice and courteous, and let her know that you were interested, and to have a good life or whatever. Remember this: being nice now truly will be good for you later. After all, she might be taken, but that doesn't mean her hot friend is.\n\n3) She doesn't give you a clear answer. This can go a lot of ways, but usually if a girl doesn't make it fairly apparent that the answer is no, that means that the answer would be yes, except there is just something else going on that is keeping her from saying it. That can be anything from purely an insecurity issue, to having just gotten out of a relationship, and not feeling ready to date, etc... but the important thing is this: She didn't say no.\n\nIf #3 happens, let her know you are interested, tell her something nice, and let it go. In a week or two, take another shot and see what happens. If you end up doing this a couple times and she simply isn't going to say yes, then assume there is something you can'd do anything about, and move on.\n\nAnyway, good luck... and ask her out.
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This is too confusing.  Why did you say "she might already like you"? If she was your girlfriend already, isn't she supposed to like you - even more than like you? Are you sure she considers you her boyfriend anyway?
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If you still really like her, let her know how you feel.\nTell her that you think it was wrong of you to not want everyone to know, & that if everyone knows, well, then, so be it.\n\nBut don't try to be with her just for the sake of being with her. Because I can tell that you're worried that you've only had one girlfriend. \nBut that's okay that you haven't had many. Sometimes single is the best thing.\n& you're only 13,  there's plenty more time for you to find yourself a nice girlfriend.\nJust because you only kissed a girl once isn't anything bad, either. So don't worry about it.\nYou're still young.
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Once upon a time a girl that I hung out with told me she had a friend who saw me a lot and thought she might like me, and wanted to know what I liked in a girl to see if she might want to ask me out. I told her that I liked a girl who would talk to me, so that we could both get to know each other a little first before thinking about whether or not we should go out. \n\nSo my advice is to just talk to him and see how he responds to being around you. Since he's in most of your classes then you have plenty of opportunity and excuse to talk to him about things.\n\nEdit: Concerning your additional details.\n\nIf I had to make an educated guess from what you wrote I would say that he does like you and would like to spend some time with you outside of school. You paint him as being smart enough on his own, so he isn't trying to be near you so that he can use you to get good grades. And he is trying to point out things you have in common, like the answers, to show that you two are compatable.