How much is TOO MUCH? Focus here is on the actual actions (not of sexual nature but in general). What are the major turn offs that are particularly annoying for you and suggestions to avoid those?
212668
It really depends on the maturity level of the person. If a guy is ready to settle down or be serious with someone, then it shouldn't matter. If he's still "sowing his oats" then too much interest could put him off.
570407
its not my favourite, but actually the one i detest the most.. the bloody fart button! how annoying is that?!\n\nalthough my fave one does have to be the ones where you get the chat room window up and the woman pretends to be talkin to you saying "hello, im new here, can you see me typing"\n\njust so you click to help this poor woman out, and then bang! ur caught on a sex chat site!
148202
No that is not a turn off.  That just means she is preserving herself. shes not all used up and she cares about her body and who touches. a woman should never think about what a guy thinks about her. she should always think she is the sh*t no matter what.
615372
Wow, you are every girl's dream! It's perfectly fine to not get turned on by porn. The real thing is better anyway! I think I speak for a lot of women when I say I wish there were more guys like you out there! (Not that I'm necessarily against porn, but I'm not thrilled with some of the sick stuff that's out there.)
159353
i like talking about sex. of course there are times that just aren't appropriate and if you catch me in those times i'm gonna dis you bad. it's all about timing and getting her to open up. and guys don't ever start a pm with a sexual line unless you are married to the female cause you are gonna get iggied or played for a fool at best.
220438
yeah, extremely true...  i usually do that with girls that i really like. For example the other day, this girl i like and I were making fun of each other, and i said to her 'do you know theres a point where you stop talking? yeah? well youve reached your point. so shut up" i know its just plain cheesy stuff, but it just happens because its just manly nature.. i think its cause we dont want the girl to know we're all over them, so we add a little twist to the whole 'procedure'.. but sometimes some guys go way too far, and it hurts the girl, and guys should know where their limits are..
539273
i could never even thinking about doing it myself.  It is something that is totally taboo in my book.  That however is what I think attracts people to it in the first place as taboo things excite them as they are thrived off of the excitement of doing naughty things.
610083
My biggest pet peeve is lack or respect.  I find it such a turn-off when a person violates your opinion, body, etc.
388235
Extremely rude.  If I'd have pulled that on my fiance on our first day I know for sure that there wouldn't have been a second date.  And if I ever did that today, lets just say it wouldn't be pretty.  Ha!  Just goshing a bit there but it is very disrespectful to both women and sounds like this fella could use some lessons in etiquette.
477147
Wouldn't want it. That would totally take the fun out of the dating experience, and having a real live person to interact with. I kinda like not knowing what to totally expect out of a partner. I like the spontaneity that mutual attraction brings. I don't want to have to program anything, besides everyday my needs could change. what I wanted to do yesterday may not be the same thing I want to do today. Then I would have to task of reprogramming the thing. What if I'm not too computer savvy? No thanks. I don't even like the electrical gadgets they have out now for a woman's enjoyment. Personally I Iike a warm, firm hand to touch me, and a nice warm body to lay down with. Don't want nothing robotic, what if it short circuits in the act. Talk about some SHOCKING sex. LOL.
200379
Trimmed & recently showered, please! :)\nBecause, excess hair is not necessary or sexy and is kinda gross and also a mood killer to have to spit one or more out, don't you guys agree?!
611268
Some good answers here.  I agree with what MnG wrote. \n\nI find, when people care to the point of obsession.....this is where you enter the zone of TOO MUCH.  When it becomes dangerous and/or fatal...'stalker-ish'...almost 'insane' in a way.  This is when the 'caring too much' warning signal should go off.  When your only focus is the subject of your 'care' and nothing else matters. \n\nNow, that being said, I am a pretty intense person when it comes to caring.  I put myself out there and give it 100%...never less.  It can be intimidating and I've learned this the 'hard way'.  I can be like a puppy excited to see people, wagging my tail and panting like a freak ( I never go as far as humping legs though *wink*)  So, I've learned to calm down....to not come on so strong.  Does this change my level of 'caring'?  Heck no!  Call me many things but never call me one who doesn't care too much.  Because I do.  And it is a good thing.  As long as you care for all the right reasons......(and I usually do) it is a wonderful thing to care too much.
118463
what really makes someone "popular"? she (or he) is full of he/rself. whats up with the pink hair? is it a transvestite? and she says she's why girls shove their fingers down their throats? wtf? its hideous! ahhhh!!! i may never sleep again...=0/...oops i was mean again...is that really music?
586911
One like this:  'Do you shower in the nude?'  I thought that was dumb because obviously we all do that!! Does he expect us to put on as many clothes as possible and shower with them all on! Come on!!! (i hope the guy doesn't read this!!) It actually made me laugh in a way so that's why i answered it!
316424
I get that all the time.  I accept it as flattering, but nicely let them know they're barking up the wrong tree.  You can snuff it without being ugly.  What would you do if it were someone of opposite sex that you like, but are not attracted to in the least?
568613
I'm sorry, I'll try to stop.  But you radiate an irresistable sexual magnetism.  How can any of us control ourselves around you, for God's sake?
227264
I would really hate that!...I think that's so disrespectful.  I would flirt with guys in front of him just so he can feel hurt and realise it's not that nice of a feeling.