Am I bad?  Love just blooms...
200100
u r a guy,u r human. Dont get me wrong, I am not condoning what happened but man, sometimes one yeilds to temptations and prices have to be paid. So  with this baby on the way, it is obvious at some point of ur duble life ur wife will have to know then u will find out if u can keep both, either or neither.So u don't have to decide now. Just ride with it. The decision will be taken out of ur hands once demands cannot meet up with ur supplies.
110670
Unfortunately, your situation is normal.  I know that sucks.  I've been there too.  But as I got older, I had PLENTY of relationships (some I shouldn't have been so willing to rush into.)  Endure and have fun.  This soon shall pass for you.
118984
Well, first everythings are usually bad!  :-)  At least now you know what you are NOT looking for in a man.  You have started a relationship with someone new.  Don't jeopardize that by spending  your time thinking about a bad kisser who didn't respect you enough to know when enough was enough.  Most importantly ... respect yourself!  You deserve better!
310911
I know it seems like playing hard to get or "games" so to speak is the right thing to do, but I've learned from past experiences (or should I say mistakes) that it isn't at all. If I could take back some of those things I did that I thought were right... I would be so much happier today! Trust me girl... you like him right? Then go! If things turn out differntly after, then it just wasn't meant to be. You'll find someone who's more worth your time.
241854
do you like (or love) yourself? a little unsure, hu? not yet enough self-confidence, i suppose.\n\nguess you are a very young girl. \nyour education completed? \nyou and your family ok? \nnot enough boys around?\nor why this hurry?\n\nif you continue your "come and go" behavior you create the image "easy to have but not steady". not the best foundation for happiness.\n\nbtw: if you´re looking for mr. right - sorry, i am no longer in the offer (captured in 1983 - and i love it) :-))\n(2nd attempt - and it works // my wife says, í´m happy - and she´s right!) take your time.\n\nkeep learning but don´t waste yourself, show respect to the boy and his feelings. and to your own.\nwish you luck and patience
109356
It is normal! Its like a "what if" type of problem. I think our subconscious asks what would happen if we were together. And if you care about someone you cant turn those feelings off or erase them. Your normal. Take care!!
36529
Yes Dear,,, Its Really Heartening to be in that Situation,,But if your Love is True and Pure,, then where ever u are what ever you are,, and where ever your Lover Might be ,,and what ever he/she Might be doing,, You must see that he/she  is Happy ,,When u have that Kind of Heart,, Naturally You will Blossom to a Greater Height and you get Far more Love than anything else,, God Bless you,, ""U have Really a Kind Heart"" can i be your Friend,,if u too desire,, just mail me at boreda_chan@yahoo.co.in
634534
Unfortunately, I would have to say you hit the nail on the head.  All too often, people shower those they love with monetary gifts as a show of affection, & it backfires.  Even if the object of their affection had no intention of using them, it becomes all too easy to do, & they do so, sometimes without even realizing it for a while.  Therefore, it may sound elitist, but I would recommend you set your sights higher, & date someone more on your social & financial level.  Next time, look for someone who would be a good partner for you, rather than a man you have to support.  You can really do better.  This may also prevent the hurtful arguments, because I believe a man like this wanted to hurt you because he blamed you for the times he may have been ashamed of himself.
492542
he is being very cool, it sounds to me he likes the thrill of the chase, if i was you i would take a step back for now, which i know is difficult and try to think 'what will be will be' And you are probably still fragile after the end of your previous relationship so some 'you' time might be a good idea then you may be able to think a little clearer.  Hope you get it all sorted out
389841
don't worry about it too much, i was exactly the same way.  i thought i'd always be that way, but when the right guy and the right moment comes, you'll know it and it'll just come naturally to you.  i know you probably don't believe me, but trust me i was the same way.  it just takes time.  good luck!
530056
Geez, I'm in a rut right now with one.  I want to believe something will really happen, but the longer it goes, and his stories change, I"m starting to feel he's making me play games now.  \n\nI have however made 2 very good friends from the online dateing!  It's like we have been friends forever. The problem was, we weren't compatable with all the lovey, romance, sex stuff.\nBut I'll love their friendship and hold them dear in my heart forever!
409206
if its natural.i would say that maybe u had some bad experience with a man before?or maybe u re just not interested,in low chacras stuffs.certain ppl are more into things of the mind or soul.then body level of doingness.if u know what i mean.so..its normal.just let it go, and i believe if.some day u find someone with who u get in "sync" with ,u will give ur mind,.and body to him.in harmony,i feel that u re a smart person,and u re looking for meanful things in ur l ife.keep it up.worry not.u will reach there.good luck
43082
answer to ur original question-no it's not bad n it doesn't make u abad person..UR HUMAN!!\nif i was u ....i wuld tel her,but also at the same time make sure that she understands that ur not trying to pressure her to fall in love with u too just cos she's ur bestfriend.u really shouldn't b expecting her to feel the same way if she doesn't...U SHUD JUST TELL HER FOR THE SIMPLE REASON THAT U CULD B CONTENT AFTERWARDS AS SHE WULD KNOW HOW U REALLY FEEL FOR HER...good luck!!
649356
Thats how I feel. I want a relationship but the person I want it with seems disinterested , when initially they appeared to be. Guess I'm too slow & old fashioned as I wanted them to make the first move & they didn't. Think they may have moved on to another. I don't know for certain but I am still in the same zone, in love with them. I'll always love them. I promised I would & I meant it. I have not gone back on the promise, have seen no one for a VERY LONG  TIME and will not, even though I may have said I did just to make them jealous because I want them to notice me. I love them. I want them. How much more can I say it, prove it, whatever. I feel bad for you. Don't be like me & feel like fading away & dying because you feel useless. Do something before it's too late.
33989
Okay first breath...It hurts but you will grow so much more then you will ever know once you move pass this...Where were you on Saturday...My heart was so broke...I was told today to hang my head high and walk with pride and no matter what always know that you are better then that and you will hurt for a while and then you will see day light...Its not a matter of loveing to much or not enough its a matter of selfishness on the other persons part...Or just know that life moves and breaking up is part of that move and it hurst yes but time will heal all...Good luck
634156
Are you sure you are in love? It sounds like infatuation. You are to young to be so desperately in love with some who disses you. I am sure there are other guys out there. Don't waste your time on a loser. You will regret it later in life. Trust me. I had to find out the hard way. But you live and you learn.
129542
you're not wrong for anything, the heart does what it wants. thats all i can say because i know from experience. just try to spend some more time with him.