I do't love any one in my life exept my parents.But now iam far from my home for study purpose. I was very fun boy i was always joking with my friends but now iam 100% alone. Iam always crying and talking with my bed maitress in fact he is my best friend. I don't have any GF , I don't know why ? But i think i love to be sad and always suffer from some thing that i don't know what is it.Is it normal ??
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You can meet people in your class? People that have the same common interest with you? Try making some friends in your classes.
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i could not imagine what you are going through. i personally have never experience or been in that situation.i think you do not love yourself or feel worthy for someone to love you.that is very important no matter what family drama or life changes you have to go through you must always remember to love yourself.
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its because you feel bad for yourself. if u think about it humanity is a bit selfish. now that your alone you wish you still had a partner.
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Yes zool, sometimes I feel very sad and loney too.  My marriage of 27 years broke up about 3 yars ago.  Then I met someone, fell in love and got engaged.  He died last September.  Since then I can't seem to "find my place."  You know, where I belong.  I moved to another state but feel like I need to go back where I came from because my children and grandchildren are there.  What is making you feel sad and lonely?  You can email me at watsoq9@yahoo.com if you like.
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Why do you feel sad?  We reap what we sow.  You were alone today because you haven't gone out of your way to make it any different (make friends).  Do you aknowledge anybody elses birthday?  I'm just asking these questions because I had the same thing happen to me years ago and I realized it had everything to do with my decisions.  \n\nHappy Birthday--we are here!
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You are overreacting.  It is not the end of the world that you don't have a boyfriend...Believe me, I should know--been there and still there.  I don't let it depress me, why should I?  There is so much more to life than having a boyfriend and in time, you will have one if that is what you want.
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Sad? How can that be sad? In this place and time you are a diamond in the rough!  You don't have a thing to be sad about. On the contrary, you should be proud of yourself. You are rare, in this age of anything goes at any time and any place, it's refreshing to know that some young ladies are still holding out!!!  You can change your sexual status at anytime, but you can never go back! Enjoy these teenage years, and unlike most girls your mind isn't clutter with a bunch of misplaced grown-up concerns. DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT, YOUR NOT MISSING A THING! At the end of time their will be some horny little rat-boy still trying to get under your clothing. You hold out for another diamond like yourself, it will be worth it.
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you are very depress and hurt behind something that has happen in your life or you are just a hateful individual that only See's the negatives things in life or in a person . your self-esteem is extremely low and you don't think so much about yourself or even love yourself . talk to your doctor , or even your parents someone in the family that will listen to you or even someone from church . please get help . or you could be bi-polar . talk to your doctor and tell him everything you told us here . wish you the best & good luck . god bless you .
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Hello there! I am sorry to hear you are feeling so down. People are so quick to say someone has depression. You say that you act like you are the happiest person on earth, but you aren't happy on the inside. You just have to believe that you do deserve happiness! I believe that you just have low self-esteem and self worth. 17 is a hard age! Believe me...looking back I felt the same way and wondered what the heck was wrong with myself. Just the pressures nowadays that are being put on young people is enough to make someone want to give up! I know to be happy is easier said than done sometimes, and it is a lot of work sometimes. Once you start believing in yourself it will get more simple. Life is too short not to have fun--experience life. I am not saying go out there and do foolish things, but enjoy the silly stuff. I am an adult and I still like to go to toy stores and play with the puppets! Because it makes me happy. I am not here to make anyone happy but myself. It sounds selfish, but before we can help others, we have to help ourselves. Just the fact that you asked the question on here shows that you are ready and willing to make a change for yourself. I have done a lot of "stupid" things in my life, but I have learned that loved ones are there for you no matter what you do. If people really love you, they are there for you no matter what! You can make little changes in your life. Use positive affirmation..when you start to feel those thoughts of hopelessness creep in--say to yourself that you are not listening anymore. If you are still feeling beyond hopelessness, there are many people you can go to to talk about it. It is not a sign of weakness to ask for some help and guidance. It is you standing up and saying you are sick of being that way and taking control of your life. I wish you luck and hope that I helped a little! Take care!
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I don't think anything is wrong with you. You are coping as best you can with a situation I will never be able to comprehend.\n\nTry a support group or a counsellor. They will have the experience to know how best to deal with your hurt. But don't try to keep it all inside and hide it away.\n\nI hope this, or anything, helps you feel better.
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it is partially what u want and partially who ur mother wants.but u cannot solely base ur opinion on ur mother's wants.i say that u shud be alone for as long as is required and think this through.what happened with me tho,is that i did this as well,i sat down in my room all alone for a while,but nothing came to me,i was still confused.but when i did realize what to do,i was in a taxi,and was not even realy thinking about it.it jus dawned on me what was best.hopefully u will discover soon as well,because u cannot simply think about ur family and freinds,u need to consider urself and the 2 guys involved.which one is better to you?which one is it u think of when u going through a tough time?or a happy time?who is it u think of before u go to bed or when u wake up?and aslo ask urself why u and ur ex broke up in the first place..because even if all ur answers indicate that he is supposedly the one for u,the reasons for ur break-up may be precisely the reasons why u shud not go back to him.
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would you let me cry with you, pleaze :( . hey am kidding...\n\nbut belive me not every one must have a girl or boy friend...just chill out and relax...
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i think Ur facing some kind of depression (not major one).\nu need someone who understand Ur feeling well, mature enough to deal with.\nur wants r normal, but u can't go for it, cauz u develop some complex in urself.\ncome from it, u r young, no one can please everybody, so don't care much for those who don't care for u.\n\nlife is short, live its every second\nGOD bless u
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Looks like Mike P has issues..... perhaps your feelings of loneliness stems from people like that in your life, where the people who love you tell you what you can and cannot do.  If thats the case, your esteem level will steadily decline until you feel alone even when you are surrounded by the people in your life who REALLY love you and you just cant see it.  Mostly due to being beat down by those who must possess and control what is yours.\n\nAll it takes is one negative influence in your inner circle to do that to you.  If thats the case, you have to surgically cut out that influence like a cancer.  If its a family member, you cut contact down to family get-togethers.  If its a friend, find a new one.  If its a lover, 86'em.  Its alot easier to say than to actually do this, but it must be done for you to feel like you again.\n\nJust my humble opinion.  I could be way off, but I'm just tryin to help.\n\nTake care.
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Overall? Yes, I am. Love my family, and I'm sure u feel the sam way, deep inside. There must be something that u love? how bout' ur best friend, for example, if u haven't made decision/moved, u might've never meet ur friend. You have a chance a make a difference in some1 else's life. jus, i'm sure u'll be happy in da futur! jus a  phase. I've been through it. i think. Any other questions? u noe where u can reach me
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hey sweet girl, b/f g/f r only a craze in school times. it's n't ur mistake , in ur age these tye of feelings r normal. when i was at ur age, i don't have b/f, and i don't want to b, but honestily speeking sometimes i also feel bad when my frd talked about their b/fs dates, gifts, etc. etc. even when i was in college i face the same situation....iat college time my frd force me to do friendishp, but i refuse, even now i m in uni situation is same, but u know now i m hapy on my decision....bcoz now the fact come in front of ne and ny age group.\nthat b/f r like a dream which never come true, but on the same time it gaves u lot of problems like main is daiting.im sure u know others.\nnow those girls r crying who had b/f. how can u trust on a person? believe me babay mostly boys  most of the time want only one thing from girl thats physical relation.\nlike glamour world it's a myth that if u want 2 papular then u want a b/f. i don't have b/f still i m popular, coz i have my own id, i m different from others. boys give more respect 2 me. they r good frds.\ni think u must take advise from that person who have b/f, who is older then u. two whom u know. who have life xperience. what ever i told u it's my exp.\nremember one thing if ur frds r true thren they will accept u as u r not as they want u.
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You do not need people to make you happy and I know that you think this might sound crazy but all you need is God. God will be you friend and he will love you far more than any man will. You are beautiful and smart so brush yourself off and keep going. Please do not let people get you down because people are forever changing. Put you trust in God and he will take care of you. Just believe in him and pray that he will mend you broken heart.