i know where he works (as a doorman) and occasionally go in there to see him. He approached me the other night for a chat but spent the whole 3 minute conversation not looking at me once as we spoke. What could the reason be for this strange behaviour?
215315
possibly he is too shy to look at you?
468044
Would love to tell you why but I don't know him. You are going to have to keep talking to him and ask him these questions.
377224
Hmm... well, definitely appear to be interested by giving him lots of eye contact and smiling at him. For awhile, only do that. He will most likely make a move at that point. If he doesn't get the point, be friendly in his presence and find ways to talk to him about work and your social lives. But, the most important thing to remember is to not look desperate (don't go out of your way to talk to him) and if he doesn't pursue it after you know you've made an effort to show him your affection, than he's just not that into you. GOOD LUCK!
500172
maybe hes shy. but one thing is shure you never know until you move. Be a modern women and go talk to him. if he open the door jump in it!
467223
Honey, while you were slipping tha 'Just 2 say' card under his door, he was in his room screwin' his neighbour's friend or something! That's why he was askin' what you were up 2 that night; 2 make sure he weren't gonna get busted! The reason why he's nervous when he's seeing ya, is cause he thinks you heard tha bitch screamin' while you were standing at his door!
526504
A pity you still had a few dick-wads answer you but them aside, it does rather look as though you found a new admirer.\n\nIf he seems to be looking in a "friendly way" - as in the odd smile or at least nothing negative, see what happens perhaps if you smile back - or just say "hi" when you pass in the corridor.\n\nIf he is interested, it will give him a reason to say "hi" back and start a little conversation - if he is not interested, he can just walk on by.\n\nMy guess is he might well like the chance to get to talk to you a little.
98919
He is either shy or not interested in you, but don't want to hurt your feelings why he dosen't comment. If he is someone you talk with  daily and in private, you can confront him then. If he is someone you don't really socialize with and he is in the "cool crowd" as they call it he might embarass you in the end. \nI don't know him, but you do. Ask your self what type of person he is, an embarassing one, or one who cares about others feelings, you can easily decide how you want to approach. Make sure you confront him, don't let a few years pass and you are left wondering what might have happen if you had ask him how he feels about you.
559311
Nowadays, with all the sexual harassment issues at the workplace, people are extremely careful when getting involved like this. Maybe you should ask him to meet you in a place outside the work environment and openly discuss the issue. Some guys, like me are shy and will wait to get a very clear "hint" to make the move.
368637
What about having him over for Dinner with your Family to show him how grateful you are that he helped you so that you could be with your family? Maybe he was mean looking because nobody ever took the time to get to know him? Maybe he "looked mean and was not very talkative" due to how he was being treated by coworkers?
338623
If the relationship is new, it may just be that.  I would ask him, tell him and see what he says.  It may be that he is picking up little clues and gathering the information, or it may be that he isn't interested.  Talking to him is your best bet.
273388
I think he totally likes you. why would he be starring at you.  You guys should talk about it he probably thinks you have changed too and does not know how to interact.
535057
Has he been pursuing you regularly for sex? Does he spend most of his time at home with you or doing activities with you when he isn't at work? Has he started going to the gym more often and doesn't want you joining him? Does he get strange phone calls at odd times? Is he secretive? When you ask questions does he bite your head off in an attempt to thwart your conversation? Is he going out to clubs with the guys routinely?\nHave there been drastic changes in his demeanor and appearance?
565809
Like everyone else has said so far, he is probably flirting with you. Even though staring for more than 10 seconds is creepy. But he may just be a nerdy shy guy that has a crush on you. If you like him back, just ask him why didn't he say anything to you. If you like his response (if he gives you one) ask him to lunch tomorrow. \nIf you don't like him back tell him to stop bothering you because his is creeping you out.
181718
This is a classic case of a temporary lack of confidence...not shyness. Wander over to him and ask if he would like to get a coke with you at _______(name a place, like McD or BK).
329822
I think even though you didnt think he was noticing you he was. He noticed the extra attention you were giving him whether you meant to or not. And now that you are not doing it he wants to know why but will not come out and ask.\nIt may mean he is interested...or it may mean that he just wants the attention. I mean attention in all forms feels good right?
425626
Well... If he was happy to hear from u, and u guys talked for an hour... then maybe he wasn't avoiding you. When u finally talked to him, did you says anything about trying to reach him before? It is kinda weird that he finally answered when u called from a different phone. This is brutally honest, but maybe he was caught off guard when he answered his phone and u were on the other line, so he just decided to talk to u because that would've been obvious if he just hung up when he knew it was u? Did that make sense? lol. I think you should just forget about the dude. If you guys have been flirting for 6 months, and nothing has happened, then he probably isn't as interested as u r! Who knows... just trying to help ya out!\n\n-Eli
538148
Same with guys.A guy I worked with flirted like hell with me,then I asked him if you would like to go out with me sometime and he didn't even answer me,after that he wouldn't say one word to me or even look at me.But I am very glad he didn't say yes because I might be with that p*ssy,instead of with my boyfriend that I love.So things work out for a reason.