I have to be friends with them because I have to go to an afterschool program. They're my only friends there. But since they started an 'I hate Emma' club I'm not even sure if they're that. Any advice?
213497
Start an I hate you guys club.  Don't worry too much about people like that, they are probably just jealous of you about something. Screw 'em.
248758
I would ask her why her friends do that and have a talk about it. i think she may be jealous of you and this is her way of dealing with it! and if she gets worse after you talk to her then she does deserve you as a friend.
570210
She was gone and you found a new group to socialize with. I am sure everyone at school was like "wuz up with her skippin' school"? right? So maybe you judged her as well but now things are too weird between ya'll because of your new friends. Ya'll need to talk you can work this out if you truely miss her. Call her up and just start chatting. Before you now it things will work themselves out and ya'll will be hangin' out again.
296974
she is jealous of your friendship with him especially the fact that you have been since kindergarten \na lot of people are like that\nshe is afraid of losing you \nprobably the only one person she hangs out with \nis you so ask her to try a different approach when all of you guys are together\ncause the one she has now is just causing friction \nask her to try being nice and talk about something that interests her and him\nboth\nif she is a real friend she will at least try to approach him with a different attitude
61461
WELL THE PEOPLE YOU SURROUND YOURSELF WITH ARENT REALLY YOUR FRIENDS BECAUSE A FRIEND WOULDNT USE YOU FOR PERSONAL GAIN. IF YOU DONT HAVE EMOTIONAL BONDS WITH THEM YOU CAN FEEL ALONE IN ROOM WITH A THOUSAND PEOPLE IN IT. JOIN CLUBS THAT HAVE TO DO WITH YOUR INTERESTS AND TRY TO START CONVERSATION WITH POEPLE WHO HAVE SIMILAR INTERESTS. AND I WOULD DITCH THOSE LOSER FRIENDS TO START
375723
I have the same situation..I like them both but one doesn't like one of my bestfriend...I realized,if she treat me as a friend she should accept & respect me & my bestfriends.There is no reason to hate my bestfriend because she is not bad..Maybe,if my bestfriend is bad,rude or something which is not acceptable maybe i can understand my friend.But there is no reason because i've known her for so long and became my bestfriend.I realized,that my other friend has been jealous that's why she hate her and she just doesn't like my bestfriend's style.If i were you,as long as you know,trust and you like your bestfriend there's no way to worry about your bestfriend.But the other friend,you have to ask him/her why?then try to analyze and figure ot out...
111834
okay, the only way to get past this is to let your friend be friends with them... let's be honest if you completely make your only friend stay away from them she may end up disliking you for making her pick sides.
48503
Sometimes you can not be their friend. They probably will not like you many times, if you are being a parent. They will thank you later, though. Kids need structure. Kids can make friends. They need parents.
21218
Ask them ... we dnt know ur friends....\nbut if u want friends ... im here!!!
498022
hey, i'm in the sixth grade too!!  I went through this last year.  It sounds like Justice really wants to be YOUR friend (she likes attention)  Tell her you do not apreciate the way she's acting and you would like her to stop or else you will not hang around her anymore.  If she doesn't stop do exactly that!  (The way this works is Justice will be lonely, trust me even if she does say really bad things to you if you have to stop hanging out with her she will most likely come runnning back to you oneday!  When this happens you must set promises in your friendship, like to be your friend she'll have to not talk about your other friends or anyone else.)  If she never does come back you really don't need a friend who talks about others and makes you feel uncomfortable.)  Good luck!!!
483600
Sweetie it is always a big transition going from jr high 2 high school. Some girls still act like their in jr high once they enter high school. Don't put limits on yourself when it comes to meeting new people, you are your own person and high school is a part of growing up not only does high school help you spread your wings but it also helps prepare you for the next level. Tell your friends that you enjoy meeting new people and that you are not gonna limit yourself to just one group of people. If they can't accept it then its their loss and you will always be their friend but you feel that you are maturing and its time that spread your wings and meet new people. They will probally be mad at first but once they realize that its not jr high anymore their whole attitudes will change and they will start to see the big picture. Trust me its okay to have new friends this happens everyday its a part of life and you just happen to be one of those young ladies that has matured a little faster than your friends. We all out grow our friends at one point or another its just that some of our friends choose not to grow up.
189587
We're sorta in the same boat then. I don't have many friends... I have a friend who lives a few streets away, a friend who lives 1/2 an hr away, even tho we have each other's #, we still only talk online... :s Rarely see each other. Then there's my bf of course. I make friends & then I somehow lose friends... :( Sometimes I choose to not be friends w/ them cuz I don't deserve to be treated the way they treated me. I'm a nice girl... why can't I make friends ? Why won't anyone be friends w/ me ? Maybe I'm so nice that I'm regarded as a "loser" :( I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs. I don't think that peeps accept me cuz they think that I'm a "goody goody" :s :( (N)
472031
Don't mean to be rude but this isn't Friends Re-United. You could try there. Start a section on your school and see who turns up.
609182
I have friends like those on the show, Friends. We all gather around someone's apartment, and just hang out. We don't tell each other what to do or what to wear, but we do discuss personal issues. We give each other advice, without being judgemental.\n\nI think what you need to do is open yourself up to the idea of being vulnerable to others. Don't be afraid to ask your current friends for advice on relationships, career, family, or other parts of life.
66135
Well, I have no friends and I'm not complaining. Like you, I am a nerd, but that's a compliment. In essence, they're admitting you're smarter than them. I suggest you accept yourself; don't try to change, because then you'd become a fraud. Besides you have your whole life ahead of you--especially, if you are a middle school or high school student.  Just know that when you do something great (which I hope you think you will and can do. Ambition is a gift.) that you probably won't even remember these people.
72511
I would suggest that you get involved in a school activity so that you can make new friends and get to feeling more confident in yourself. Find a positive group of people to be around so you won't be lonely and you'll be busy with the activities too.  I was shy and bashful at one time.  The drama club at school really helped me.  I see why that person is an ex-friend. Even if something happened and the friendship ended, that's no reason to make fun of you.   Hang in there and don't become like your ex-friend - making fun of people. You be the better person.
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i am in the same position right now! what happened was that is is the three of us Me Mack and Sydney then we started hanging out with this girl named jackie! she is really cool but they started paying more attention to Jackie than me. then what i did was invite them over to my house just Mack an Sydney Not Jackie and they really liked it and i showed how much fun i could have and they really liked hanging out with me so at school the nest day they hung out with me more that Jackie and then Jackie became more inluded until we all were treated the same!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 it was so cool that it worked out like that you should try it it worked to me it might work for you!