Right now he is wearing a jersey that is WAY too small for him, but I don't want to hurt his feelings, especially since he has a car and gives me a ride to school. He thinks he is skinny, I just wish he could realize the truth.
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Tell him the truth. Honesty is the best policy.\nBetter he hears it from a friend than an enemy.
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His little wee-worm will wrinkle up and shrink up inside his belly.It will be some time in April before it comes back out to play.Dang thats to cold for wee-worms.
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The best thing you could do is leave him so he can find someone less shallow.  It sounds like you really don't care about this guy at all, or you would accept him for who he is.  Why did you get with him if you're embarrassed that he eats a lot, anyway?  You admit he's "really fat".  This is what really fat people do.  But even if he is really fat, he still deserves better than someone who is ashamed of him.
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he looks kinda fat.....
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It's your job to give him the confidence he needs. Since it's too late to do anything about the physicals now (should've asked this a month ago) tell him that he can do it. Have him start practicing for next year. Give him some energy boosts (no I do not mean steroids). Tell him how good he is at basketball.
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Tell him to look at the bright side, he may grow into them, learn to play basketball and make millions.  It could happen.\n\n5'2" isn't necessarily short for 12 and there's no real way of knowing what the teenage years will bring.  Get him to stay active!
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you don't sorry move on .but you know i just bet this guy like you more of what he saying .so if you want your boy hang in there .but don't make a fool of youself it just a game young guys play.
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he might have to check that out, b/c he might be sick, but the best thing to do is get him clothes that are light and breathe, so he might not have problems....
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Shrek.... Go to your local second hand shop and buy a pair of brown leggins...(girls but dont tell him) a cream vest and a belt. Paint his skin green with a safe paint.......easy and cheap!
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Your son may be resentful if you sever his relationship with his friend (yes even at 6). However, he is old enough to learn values, like materialism is not the greatest "ism" and all that. You know, some people really don't care about the kind of car they drive because other things are more important. A kid can understand that. He may draw his own conclusion with that information and realize this little girl is icky. Good luck. And I mean that sincerely.
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You should love him for who he is regardless of clothes and sideburns.  Those are superficial.  The only person on this earth that you can change is you.
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yes, too small is no good.... too big is uncomfortable. But if he doesn't know how to move it, size is not an issue.
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Well First of all for him to come to you and talk to you about this was really hard for him. And i feel that if he is willing to talk to you about this that he really want to wear diapers. Their is nothing wrong with it and he could be doing a LOT!! worse things. Like drinking drugs and even worse. If i was you I would let him do it and not tell anyone about it. Let it be yours and his secret. To start with i would get him 1 bag of diapers and let him wear at home only. And yes you can get diapers in his size. Start with one bag because once he trys it he may not want to do it after all. And dont put the diapers on him let him do it his self. And after he gets his first diaper on make him let you see him in his diaper. but only that one time so he will know that you are ok with it. If you do let him try this dont make fun of him or let on like it bothers you . Because it can cause more problems that you can deal with or he can deal with so keep it to your self and let him try them. After about 3 or 4 bags of diaper i think he will get tired of it and wont do it anymore.......Good luck and i hope it works out for you.............
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I would talk to her about it. I think it's cruel to put his hopes up like that. I would tell him he is limited but so are many other people and that doesn't mean he can't live a very normal life. But anything? no
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hey girl all i can say is be up front and honest. it might get you further than you think. if he turns you down becouse of the way you look hes not worth having as a boy friend
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Why does he say that he is skipping school?  Is he going and hanging out with friends?  Is he by himself?  \n\nThere could be several different reasons why he is skipping school.  He could be bored at school, he could be heavily teased and tries to avoid it, he could feel stupid and seeks to avoid that, etc.\n\nYou need to find out why he is skipping.  Once you do that, you can work to help fix it.  \n\nIf he feels stupid, get him a cute female tutor.  That will get him to pay attention and seek to do better.\n\nIf he is teased at school, he might need a new image.  Take him to a contemporary clothing store and a hairstylist.   Enroll him and either yourself or your partner in a fitness class (like weight lifting) at a municipal parks and rec facility.  Sad, but true, most teens (and everyone else) are very superficial.  If you do not dress or look like you belong, you won't.\n\nYou might want to bite the bullet and talk to his friend's parents.  Explain what is happening and ask their opinion of your son.  Ask how they handle their children.  It is embarrassing to do this, but maybe they know something that you don't.\n\nFind out some of the things that your son loves.  Enroll him in classes that will help him learn more about those subjects.  If he loves music, enroll him in guitar or voice lessons.  Let the teacher know what the problem is... if they're decent, they should be able to show the link between knowledge and performance of the activitiy (i.e. music is mathematically based).\n\nGood Luck!
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You are apparantly sending him mixed messages...which says he's probably confused as well.  Perhaps you all should pray a little more, when you're at church....rather than play games.  And dont worry about a lift up bra, until you're old enough for it to do some good.  :)