I know this is probably a really stupid question but, if you have sex only with an adult toy, are you still considered a virgin?\nI can't say the "D" word, it get edited and then people get confessed
201370
You are still a virgin.
258511
Nope......you're still a virgin.  Hand jobs and fingering aren't sex.  They are great thing sto do to lead up to sex though.\n\nAnyhow, keep that in mind for later, k?  Since you asked you probably need to educate youself some more before going through with doing anything more.  Just a thought!
671701
Did you expect her to be a virgin?  Come on, seriously.\n\nShe's with you now.  So if she liked their shafts that much, shed be with them.  Maybe at the same time.\n\nJust get over it.\n\nThis is exactly what I mean when I say that I wonder if a relationship isn't just a license to OWN somebody's SEX.  It's silly.  You're getting jealous over the past.
565829
No your not dumb. It takes a woman to stand up to her friends and say YES I'M A VIRGIN and DAMN PROUD OF IT TOO.. It also takes a MAN TO RESPECT YOUR DECISION. I applaud the 2 of you for your decision. Just ignore what your friends are saying to you because they don't need to know if you had sex or not. If you promised your dad and yourself why break that promise now. I was 24 when I lost my virginity, not because I made any promises or had a religious beliefs and just never found that right guy. And besides most of the time many would say that they wish they would have never lost there virginity and still would keep it that way. Good Luck!
649913
First off being a virgin is perfectly admirable and I give props to any one that has the ability and will to abstain.  If it was me though I'd go out with someone that had a lil experience maybe 5-10 partners.  That way I already knows she knows what she likes and hopefully she's not too  uptight so we both can play and have a lil fun teaching each other what we've learned.  However, if I were to date a virgin it would be to contain myself but, I'd still try to respect her wishes.
31253
Nuthin' wrong with being a virgin. Your spelling could use some work though. *disengaging grammar nazi funtionality*
120069
Virginity is a relative term. Remember it applies to both men and women.\n\nA girl/boy who had sex can still be called virgin at heart. \n\nTake the example of a girl who had been raped. It was totally against her desire, will and wish. Does it mean she lost her virginity. Absolutely not. I would say she still is a virgin at heart. Just because her 'cherry' or 'hymen' is broken, it doesnt mean she lost her virginity. \n\nSports women in all probability will have their hymen torn or ripped naturally. Does it mean they have lost their virginity. No.\n\nIf a girl likes a boy and only that boy, as regards to that boy she is a virgin whether her 'cherry' is broken or not.\nAs regards to others, she is not a virgin because she has someone in her heart.\nHope i solved the meaning of virginity.
551978
Virginity is a very subjective definition. For example, if a woman who is not sexually active is sexually assaulted, does that mean she is no longer a virgin?\n\nVirginity is defined differently by each person.  Some lesbian women consider themselves life long virgins, some feel they lose their virginity when using a dildo with a partner, and some feel the first time they have oral sex is when they lost their virginity.\n\nIf you feel that you have not had what you define as sex, then you are still a virgin.  Some people define oral sex or anal sex as sex, others don't.  Some might say that any penetration is sex, where as others feel that they and their partner must climax for it to be real sex.\n\nAll in all, this is your own question to answer.  Do you feel that you're still a virgin? If so, you are, and that's all that matters.\n\nEssin' Em, hotmoviesforher.com
374459
You didn't lose it hon, you gave it away.  Should've really thought about it!\n\nYou need to get over it though, because hating yourself wont' maek you a virgin again...\n\n*laughs*
566383
lier lier is all i can say.. even for a guy when losing his virginity it is kinda a nervous-ish experience. i am sure not as indepth as the ladies BUT STILL AN EXPIERIENCE..why? well there is a stereotype for guys and this dude you speak off seems to be exemplifying this stereotype... more than likely his first time was shorter than that.. maybe 5 to 15 minutes the most... why well even if he was with an experienced female... she probably would have orgasmed by then... with me and my virginity it was like 5 minutes.. i didn't have an orgasm and the primary reason for the above turn out was because i was doing it with my girlfriend and it was her first time as well... in all honesty after like 30 seconds of actual penetration and trust we stopped because it was painful for her... the first time usually encounters physical obstacles... the pain of your hymen breaking... I have had this same experience with 3 more young ladies where they were losing thier virginities. A couple times went by like this until they had healed up, gotten over the psycological fears of pregnancy and all that.. and actually got into enjoying the feelings actually generated by the act of intercourse/making love...after those initial 2 to 3 times ...well it's all climax from there!!!! no pun intended.. hoped this helps.. \n\none more thing.. don't be in such a rush to loose your virginity... it makes a big difference in your life... i guarantee it.. picture yourself at 21 or 27 and a friend asked you about your first time... the answer can either go one of two ways.. ohh its something i'll never forget cause it was with a great guy.. boyfriend of mine where we had a good and long relationship OR i regreted my first time... it was wack... i didn't really feel anything (emothionally or otherwise) i don't even remember that guy. i wish i had waited longer...  when that time comes.. i guarantee you'll remember The Thinker!
80942
Yes.  The dictionary describes virgin as pure.  Thus the word is not strictly sexual.  There is also 'virgin oil'\nHope this has helped, and not further confused you.
398532
I say get some toys, lube up and have fun! No harm in that!\n\nBut I must ask...what does this question have to do with Gay, Lesbian, etc, section of the question/answer board?
230264
Losing your virginity is obviously not something that you can take back - once you do it, that's it.  If you are experiencing increased libido, which is perfectly normal, then try masterbating.  I'm not saying that to be funny - everyone does it.  Call me crazy, but I think that you should know your own body before you decide to give it to someone else.  Ultimately, only you can truly decide if and when to become sexually active.  Personally, I think that if you have doubts, then you are probably not ready.  Also, as you mentioned there can be serious consequences.  If you do decide to become sexually active, then PLEASE protect yourself.
222408
Since the girl has her himen intact, even if she masturbates, or have anal sex, or orgasm, or she puts the finger or other objects into her vagina, she is still virgin. Virginity referes to the integrity of the himen only.
264405
Well i havnt done that, kuz im still a virgin, but i think that when your man is not there with you, its ok to do that, and theres nothing wrong w/masturbating! Cmon lets all be adults here kuz thats the truth. ITs a natural thing, it comes w/both the female and male nature. But its also not healthy doing that everyday(For the girls though, using vibraters and stuff, but for the guyz its ok)! If you cant make love to yourself, how are you going to make love to your husband?
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No, I don't think it is the same thing. Though very unlikely that you would only have an oral encounter and not sex. I think there must be penetration in order to be counted as actual sex referring to intercourse. Now there are sexual acts that includes oral and such but it would not be correct to say you had "sex' with them. Virgins would not loose their virginity by fellatio or cunnilingus.\n\nThe key is the penetration being present or not to define actual sex.
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Yes. You can even use a vibrator or dildo, your hands masturbating and break your hymen and still be a virgin. \n\nA virgin is simply someone who has never experienced sexual intercourse. Really though, there's not much difference between virgins and non-virgins besides a little bit of experience in bed.  Society places too much emphasis on virginity. It's ridiculous!