I am madly in love with a girl in my school. She is very popular in my school and she doesn't even know that i exist and because of that i even tried to suicide by jumping from the 3rd floor but i only broke my leg.Please tell me before i try to suicide again. PLEEEEASE! i am 13 years.
199539
She is not the last girl in your life!It gets much sweeter,in time.
337126
you are in this world cause you are needed.  Someone needs to hold you, someone needs to see you smile, someone needs to hear your words, someone needs you to love them.  You need to look at everything that is beautiful in this world....if you are depressed because of a girl, let me tell you that if you are not with her it's for a reason, the person you are supposed to be with is waiting for you....when you find her you'll realize the waiting was worth it.  I've been in your shoes, and thank God I realized there is so much for me to do in this world that I haven't done....believe me, you should be living and enjoying every beautiful thing in life, there are lots of them! =)
439077
Well, first of all, you can't expect other people to love you if you don't love yourself first.  I had the same problem when I was in highschool.  Remember though, your there for yourself, not anyone else.  Your there to get YOUR education so you don't end up at Burger King for the rest of your life.  Don't worry about getting in with the crowd.  Find a few friends that you trust and that respect you and treat you right.  A few bestfriends is better than 100 not-so-best friends.  A best friend is someone you can talk to about anything and they'll be there for you through thick and thin no matter what.  That's all I needed in highschool.  But to be honest, you'll probably never see or talk to the people your going to school with now.  I only talk to one person I went to school with, and that's not even on a daily basis.  We keep in touch and that's about it.  I NEVER see anyone I went to school with.  I haven't seen but maybe 50 out of like 800 people I graduated with back in 2004.  Make the best out of your highschool years because after that your life 'begins.'  Cheer up girl!!!  Hope this helps.  Please feel free to IM me or e-mail me if you ever need someone to talk to.  I'll be here for ya!\n~Courtney~
557029
well, from the sound of it, this is your first time falling in love with somebody.i suggest you spend more time with your pals - hang out, or do stuffs that will take your mind off of her.play some basketball, go to the bowling alley, you know, stuffs.you can't live without her, but you can't live without your grades too.whatever you do,remember that falling in love is not wrong,but failing in exams because of it is not worth it.trust me.i hope things will work out for you man
511360
gurl please. dont allow urself to be hurt again. MOVE ON! find a new crush.
296663
go for it what do you have to lose....it's the end of school you are going to regret it if you don't at least aproach her..i had the same issue..her name was maureen and I thought she was just the cats meow...i sent her flowers at school she did not know that they were from me ..I got her number from a mutual friend and called her up with all the might i could muster. \n  turned out she was a sister of a friend of mine from junior high that i had never met lol\n\nthings didn't turno ut the way I wanted them to but at least i went for it and I now have no regrets about it\n\nI think thats why they call them crushes...because you are bound to get crushed in MOST cases but not all\n\nno regrets just go for it
134336
yes, grow up.  I would guess you are around 14-17.  This is not uncommon to get this feeling.  I've been there, you will be there again.  The girl you meet that makes you feel good to be you and doesn't give you reason to worry, is the girl you want.  Don't settle for less.  There are a lot of unstable girls out there.  But remember, your young, girls at this age are just growing up too.  Don't be too hard on them.
37998
Keep going with your ralationship with her, but keep your eyes open at the same time. Maybe she is with you because she needs something to fill the hole in her broken heart for the moment, but how can you be sure she is loving you because of who you are. Think about when you are about to drown, you would grab anything you can get with the hope it would help you not to sink in the water ... Don't soak yourself in the pain of what had happened, but try to understand why it happened, why and how she (and he) did that ... This will help you to realized better who they really are ...\nKeep the ralationship longer, and sooner or later you will find out if she truelly loves you, because of who you are, and is the right person for you, before you make your life's important decition.\nLook forward, be a man and good luck !
536021
Make it some important to you as it is important to her. My 13 year old was just recently in love and he was sooo happy. Also tell your sister to take things slooooooooooooooooow.
170754
I would like to say That I never have but one of my best friends committed suicide on the 13th November last year. Anyone who is contemplating it please, please, please speak to someone and ask for help. I know its hard to do this and every situation is different but it will be for the best I guarantee it!
347061
You need to start thinking about what is going to be good for you and your future and make up your mind that you are not going to let anyone or anything keep you down any more....Please,...sweetheart...don't even be talking about killing yourself ....You should go and talk to a school counselor, and express your concerns...and tell them why you can't talk to your parents and that you want to succeed in this world..and then, I am going to tell you to pray to God and to Jesus, for your answers..and you need to talk to someone and let some adult that you can really trust, know just why you are feeling so violated and down....which is what I think is going on....Please little one, I think that there is a beautiful horse some where that is waiting to be owned by you..and a wonderful guy who needs you...Jesus Loves you and I bet a lot of people do..
318648
ok first of all suicide is not fun. and if she doesnt like you back, im not trying to sound mean but, DEAL WITH IT!!!!!! people aren't always going to like you back. its the fact of life. and if she says she doesn't like you back than just tell her ok well that doesn't change anything, and im still going to like you. just don't say it stalkerish like. that would just freak her out.
249440
No, Don't commit suicide. there is some who's :-W for you. Please if you feel like you need some one that you talk with contact me.
160345
what a tragic story! you should just leave them be if they seem so happy. if i were you, i would try and be happy for her. you can't force a guy to fall in love with you, it's almost impossible. try writing a letter to him about how you feel [don't send it of course], i guarentee it'll help ! you aren't being punished and beaten up everytime you turn around, life is just pieces of a huge puzzle and you've just placed the wrong piece in the wrong place. take it out and look for a place where it fits =]
1974
wow, sorry to hear about your girl, thats sad. I dont know why you cannot tell the difference but maybe its because you are in a lot of pain right now and you feel like you are hurting all over.  Again I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope things start looking up for you soon! :)
178318
Okay, don't cry.  That is why they are boys.  I am sure you are a beautiful girl.  I had the same issue when I was your age in school. The boys would always go for the really thick girls that looked like they flunked 3 grades.  I used to wonder "what is wrong with me".  I found out that it wasn't me at all.  Some of these girls were fast, meaning they were easy.  They put out and what boy isn't going to be interested in some fast girl that can't say no.  I know it is hard and it was for me too.  Try not to pay it any mind.  I have seen these same girls and boys now since they are adults and my have they changed, and not in a good way.  Don't get down on yourself.  You WILL have a boyfriend but don't get hung up on this.  Just relax and don't think about it so much. I am sure if you are as pretty as you say you are that some boy probably already secretly admires you.  Hang in there, it won't be long before someone sweeps you off your feet.
488654
Ok...I'm going to tell you a true story.\n\nThis 12 year old girl who was new at my school. She was a foster child and had no parents, she wasn't happy with her appeearnce because people made fun of her because she looked like a guy. She only went to our school for a week and then after that week....the whole entire school  heard she had died in her bed and that she cuts herself and on accident, she cutted one of her viens and it spillt a lot of blood, so she lost a lot of blood and died. This was a true story. Viens are everywhere in your body...so pleaese dont cut yourself.\n\nI dont know what you've been thro or whats going on in your life thats making you want to cut yourself but please...whatever you do, dont. There are a lot fo kids now and these days who think they're going thro a lot and they take it out by cutting themselves....taking it out on their flesh and skin which is not good at all. If you cut yourself a lot...you will eventually lose a lot of blood which is unhealthy.\n\nBut whatever you're going thro now....dont think about it...change whatever is bothering you and change it. Write something down in your journal or notebook or diary you keep private and let it all out...you'll feel a whole lot better. Take it out on a notebook papr instead of taking it out on your skin. \n\ngod bless you