We have been dating for about 2 1/2 mo. He then tells me that he realized that I may be his wife.....should I take this serious or not?
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He's testing the waters, but isn't completely serious yet. \n\nIt sounds like he really likes you, but it's early. I knew I would either marry my wife or know her forever after the first day I met her, but I spent a few months getting to know her first (and confirm if it just wasn't hormones).\n\nI wouldn't get too freaked out...well, unless you want him to propose to you.
584860
i dont really know what your situation is but if you really love him, i think you should keep trying. you should tell him that you are his wife and he needs to stop going back to that woman. i hope eveything works out for you.
83486
He may be trying to do either.  Just remind him that you are now ex-partners, and he needs to keep his social life to himself.  Refuse to get involved in this sort of discussion.  Sounds like it was a good idea to break it off.  He doesn't have clear boundaries.
347125
You should feel special and irreplaceable, but it will take some time, are you sure you want to stay with him, ask your self is me and my b/f headed down that marriage path? if the answer is no, than why are you with him? your wasting your time, if the answer is yes, get some counseling together, and work things out, fight for your relationship (not the girls he was txt'ing) but work hard, and it will blossom, it will take some time, are you willing to put in that time?
79825
Ask him, point plank, what his intentions are. Perhaps it's time to find out what kind of future your relationship has. Be very clear about what you want and expect from him.
286025
sounds real enough. i think he likes u and wants to see where it goes. i say go for it.
176328
It doesnt sound like he is fully committed to you yet. You should give it time and see where it leads. If it doesnt change look elsewhere.
443115
It would depend on the kind of relationship you have with him.  Evidently it is not that strong if you are feeling so insecure.  If he has not given you any reason to suspect otherwise, I would let it go.  But if it is still bothering you, I wouldn't marry him until we settled the issue once and for all.
63388
Ishamael has a very good point, but it sounds to me like you are the one hinting to him (to feel him out, about kids) you were just not sure what his answer means, I mean come on if it were just a dream, why even tell him, UNLESS... you wanted to he what his reaction was. If you are dating him, just ask him what he means, it is much easier that way!
632740
Does he think you’re a virgin? I think you should tell he just what you told all of us. If he really loves you this should not be the determining factor to whether or not the two of you’ll get married. He really should be understanding about this small “oversight”.
537214
If he is only making comments about the two of you being together when you are alone, I don't think he is very serious about creating a different relationship.  If he says these things in front of others, then he probably wants to pursue a romance with you.
191293
Yep, it means he doesn't want you to think he's playing games with you and your heart, that he's serious about you. Or, he may have said this to throw you off and he really is cheating. Maybe I have some serious trust issues, but I wouldn't put it past any man (or woman) to say some stuff like that to trick you while they're doing wrong behind your back..... But until you have proof, I wouldn't worry about it.
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Have you slept with him yet?  You are sure that you love him?  Im sure he loves his girlfriend right now, but is it really anything serious?  If you could be with him right now, would you?  If you can, tell him and see what he says.  You wouldnt be messing up his relationship if he loves you, well you would be, but if you think you are a better replacement, go for it.
652120
Perhaps he was taking u seriously from the beginning and u were not.  tell him that u were not serious and considered him just a friend...and never indended to convey the signals as he received or perceived.......i think he might understand
368554
Why do you have to be labeled as his girlfriend? If he treats you like one and you have agreed to be exclusive, what more do you want? If you have doubts about where you stand as far as being his one and only, talk to him about the level of commitment in your relationship, but please don't ask him if you're his girlfriend...that sounds so junior high!
612140
say it when you mean it. well done for not saying it just for the sake of it. be flattered that he told you that, i would be. it doesn't matter how long you are together, 2 days, 2 weeks or 2 months. whenever you feel it is the right time to say it!
159642
He never mentioned it to you even when you have been going out for five weeks with him. Did he tell you himself, or did you just had a chance to find out ? If he told you himself, probably he was scared that you would get to know or probably like you said he didnt want to lose you. If you found out by yourself, then he has other things he may not be telling you, like the baby's mother ? legal implications ? his commitments ? Either way, lets give him a benefit of doubt that....probably he does love u a lot and worried of losing you, but he cannot hide issues serious as this from you. It is better you confront him now and ask him all issues related to the baby, and any other facts that you should be knowing. I feel he would open up and tell you everything if he is sincere to you. And when he does that, I think he should be given a chance. Everyone goes through some issues in life or the other. Probably things didnt work out for him, and now he has you, so give him a chance..and accept him the way he is, ofcourse only after your heart tells you that once you know the issues yourself. But if he turns out to be a big bundle of lies..then you know what to do !!\n\ngood luck !