i like two guys there both really great. but i have no idea what to do im so confused please help me
217317
give it some time and the right one will surface. if not then consider yourself lucky!
658022
Sounds like they both have baggage. Its time to find a new circle of acquaintances. Two guys are not a large enough sample to decide on anything long term. These guys are not in love with you, they are in love with your sex. The first always has a special place but there are very few first and only true loves.
282208
So...talk to this new guy more and make sure it's not just one of those "really good at first...not so good deeper down" kind of things. You might not want to ditch your original guy if it turns out the new one isn't so great after all.\nAt the same time...if your old guy isn't showing that much interest....wouldn't you want to be with someone that actually shows solid interest instead of hesitation?
47860
Just be a real friend to both of them. They both like each other. If you make a move for her, you could lose both of them. There may be another chance later on if this is meant to be.
154273
Well, you have to choose ONE. Consider everything before you do so. Who do you get along better with? Who do you know better? Which one of them could you see yourself with more? Try answeringthose questions, and hopefully it will lead to one guy.
184446
So just concentrate on one man at a time. Less confusing that way, plus you'll find out whether you really like him or not.
278575
You need to be honest to the guy you are with and let him go don't lie to him, if you say you love the other guy then go with him, it is obvious you know what you want, don't waste you time and his time by staying with him knowing you do not love him, I hope you make a decision soon. Good Luck
657376
Join the club! You and I are in like the exact same predicament. Anyways, um, if you two are good friends, then you should just tell him that you like him. There's a chance he'll like you too. God, if only I could follow my own advice...\n\nI know what you're thinking, it's much easier said than done. But that's my best advice. And to tell you the truth, that's what most people in here are going to tell you to do. Sorry if I wasn't very helpful. Good luck!
229769
You have me pretty confused. But if you like him and you both want to go out, then go out.
273675
Before   you  get  involved  with  this  guy,  do  what  any  reasonable   person  would  do. Weigh   the  PROS  and   CONS of  getting  involved  with  him. This  guy is   supposed  to   make  you  happy  not  drown   you  in   worry so  do   what's  best  for  you .Liking  him  is   not  a  bad  thing  all  I'm  saying  is , don't  put  yourself  on  the  line because  of  this.
148296
Then you should give each other time to cool and at the same time think about this guy whether is he worth you liking him.He doesn't seemed to appreciate it.Just give yourself some time and him too.
642108
If he's your best guy friend ... you already know you like each other.  It's workin' out just great the way they are.  Don't rush it.  Things will take care of themselves.
415216
If you like them both, flip a coin, let fate decide. If fate decides one guy, and your first reaction was... DANG... I wanted it to be the other guy. Go with your gut.. choose the guy you wanted it to be!
133527
First you must finish with your boyfriend and as gentle as possible as it's not his fault, then when you are free this other guy might take the hint, If not, then make it clear that you like him. If he dosent make a move then you are wasting your time. You sound young so it may not be the love of your life.
228969
Well, fess up first of all. Admit that you were talking to his friend.  But let him know if it was strictly just talking out of friendship or whatever it is. Be honest, if you were talking to his friend and you think that you're attracted to the friend, then try to date the friend if he's available. Don't keep leading the other guy on and letting him think that you're into him when really you're into the friend because you want them both or something like that. I'm not saying this is the case, I'm just saying you need to explain yourself. If he doesn't respond then let it go, as much as it will irritate you to leave something at that, you'll have the peace of mind to know that you did what you had to do and that you've apologized and offered some sort of explanation. It is his fault for burning any bridges. And remember to look at signs, this may be a sign that you're not compatible with him, if you can honestly see yourself saying that you wouldnt do this if the situation was reversed, then you know you're on different levels. Good luck with this situation.
146218
CLEAR AND MAKE UP UR MIND!!!MAKE A DECISION THEN.WHO DO U LIKE BEST!!AFTER THAT MAYBE U CAN GIVE US ANOTHER QUESTION COZ U SEEM CONFUSE WHAT UR REAL QUESTION IS..BUT FOR REAL JUST CHASE AND GET WHAT U WANT BEFORE IT IS TO LATE!!
286424
he just started dating this other girl, if your quick, tell him how you feel and that you are interested.  He might tell you sorry, and that he's found someone else... but if he liked you and there was somehow a misunderstanding its not too late to fix. Then again its always possible he just likes her better :(