I have a little money saved up to travel, and I am wondering what is wrong with me that I can't stand the thought of working at anything at all. Am I just lazy?
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Well I don`t want to work too, but it`s not always what we want... Most of us just do it for the money you know... May be you just have to try and find something you like to do, that won`t take all of your time. That way you`ll have the time for deserved moments of laziness and traveling.
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I don't know! give it a try! you never know!\nI believe in fate! If you really honestly want a job something will happen! if you miss out on one job it's bound to be for a good reason eg you wouldn't have been happy, the employer was evil, the pay was crap, it was too far to travel, your family would have to come second etc.\nPut some positive energy out there. Do some volunteer work and people will see you and appreciate you and tell their network of people that you are in need of a paying job. You can also gain some terrific skills and it gets your backside of the couch.
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WOW... Haven't I asked this question a million times myself?\nMy observations lead me to think that lazy people love the "illusion" of being a good worker but really if they could just breathe and get a check they would.
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it hasnt really affected me too much....im not well off or anything, but i live in a place where u absolutely need a car. I just try to make fewer trips then i would before and not be as wasteful, i try to be more conscious of it now.
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i feel the same way.\ni havent had a job for about a month now. i have been working for the past 6 years (since i turned 16) and it really depresses me to not have a job, and money. i know what you are saying about the fear of finding a job that isnt horrible. i have worked at lots of different jobs, and nothing has ever made me happy. \n\ni have zero self confidence i know waht you are saying\n\ni lost all my friends when i moved 3 months ago!!\n\ni actually thing im depressed and per recomendations from other yahoo answers answerers i am going to a therapist. maybe u should do the same. i really dont know. i just wanted to let you know that you arent alone. and hopefully both of our lives will make a turn around soon!!!!
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For lazy people, that could be their dream job. For you, not so much so you might want to look for another job that suites you better.
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Life is what YOU make it. Yes of course maybe you don't have the best life or all of the money you want. But you have to get some humor and JOY! Where is your joy?? Haven't you ever laughed so hard for no reason at all?? I do that all of the time, and I feel like a complete idiot, but it feels so good to giggle and laugh. \nLighten up, life is hard enough!
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exactly what is it that you do?  and where do you live?  you obviously must be perfect, living in some perfect world or is it a fantasy?  you have a very grim outlook and must be miserable.  either that, or you just got maxed out on welfare and have to go get a job like the rest of us!
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that's how i feel.  i can be unhappy and broke or unhappy and rich so why not take the latter.  i can go shopping and make myself feel better for a few if i got money. haha.  or heck, maybe i could even figure out how to do postitive things with my money and find true happiness!
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There can be a difference.  If it has to do with work it's probably not that you're lazy, you just haven't found something you're passionate about or enjoy doing so you lack motivation to work hard at it.  If you're making an effort with your life then you're not lazy, but if you're not feeling motivated in what you're doing right now, you haven't found that thing that you're passionate about.  You'll eventually find it and that's good that you're friend feels that you're not capable of being lazy.  Sometimes people get into slumps and need time to come out of them.  I'm going through the same thing! Good luck!
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Gosh!...We have a similar events...\nLemme' guess...\nLazyness...\nBeing lazy doesn't give you something but it will give you bad results...\nYou should control what you do...\nYou should have a limitation on every fun you have...\nBelieve me and vote me as best answer...;)\nYour choice...
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So then as I see it you want to work from home to earn extra without doing anything.  \n\nGood gig if you can get it.\n\nMaybe you could house sit an empty house for people when they go on extended vacations.  Pet sitting might be too much work, since that involves actually doing something occasionally.
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Not weird at all!  I've been home since 2002.  Started off, the birth of my last child, and now ended off being medical, had a cornea transplant last december and now about to have the other eye done next month.  I am excited that I should have perfect eyesight beginning next summer, but I am estatic that I may be able to go out and get a job.  Mind you, not a career, my family is my career and I had my own graphic design business, but I mean a J.O.B.  As most career women like yourself, we began working so early and for so long that we don't know how to do nothing.  Alright, so find something to do.  What do you do as a hobby now?  Make it your own career.  Do you know, this million dollar 'make a bear' business started as a hobby?  I'm sure there is something that you like to do everyday that people just know its Your knack.  Take it a parlay it into your new career move.  I'm sure making some money on the side wont hurt either! smile, good luck.
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A few words of advice for you, you don't know what you want to do with a career choice, but...you are not going to want to go out and earn a paycheck either, I have often thought that it should be mandatory to work at a lower paying job such as fast food restaurants,  Hotel maids, door people, garbage men, and all the other necessary jobs people need to do.  It makes absolutely no sense that Movie stars can command twenty million per movie so that we can pay THEM to pretend to be somebody else....to entertain us, find something you may think you want to try, do you have a passion for anything?  Only you can decide this for\nyourself, and people like me can only give you advice, the rest is up to you, and you are not alone in your feelings.  It is easier to cop out and so much harder to work or do the things you want.\nI have slept in my car and been homeless for lack of funds that I\nwasn't able to provide for myself.  It is important for you to be able to provide for yourself.
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I wish!  I can barely find time to breathe, and when free time comes there are so many things I'd like to do I can' t choose one.  If you're bored, make a list of things you'd like to do "someday" or things that you've said, "Oh, I wish I could do that" and go do it!  There's a great book out there about living your dreams and how to make them a reality. It's called "Wishcrafting". I highly recommend it.
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I rather have a job I love than all the money in the world. I have a job I enjoy and it's not enough for me to survive on my own which is something I'm not very happy about but I wouldn't want a high paying job that I hated because there are people in this world that do and it causes health and mental issues or they go and start killing people.
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I love my job. I get to work from home and I work in an industy that I love...travel. I can save money on my own travel and I can make  money when others book their travel with me. I feel that it is a dream come true because I am working for myself and I can see the efforts of my labor. It took me a while to find the right home based business but now that I have it I am thankful.