i dont why i love her. me and her are good friends and hang out a lot. she isnt the prettiest and doesnt have the biggest butt and chest. there is something about her. i just want to run up to her and tell her i love her.
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Honestly gently and sensitively from your heart tell her your feelings towards her openly beauty often comes from within we all too often emphasize the outward appearance we all have have unique qualitiestell her you love her and see what her answer is then you will know what to do
116415
You're a nice guy - that is like the kiss of death label. Don't go begging for her to love you in the romantic sense. You're her "brother" - instead of always being there for her ... drop out of the picture! Let the answering machine or voice mail take her calls - stop being so available - she doesn't think of you as a challenge or as a love interest - you said she dates crappy guys - why? because they are a challenge - some women like to think they can change a guy - when she can't get the crappy guy to do right - she dumps him and runs to her "brother" for those wonderful chats!\n Don't be waiting in the wings for her return - move on and enjoy other friends, hobbies - even ask out other girls you think are nice to be around. If this doesn't spike her love interest (she comes hunting for you- wanting to date) - then you'll know for certain that she doesn't have romantic love  for you... you guys  are friends - sometimes that's all it will be.
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Yes she loves you. She probubly loves alot of people. She sounds like a kind person.  That is probubly what attracts you to her.  but unless she dumps her boyfriend for you she probubly doesn't love you the way you think.  take care to cherish your friendship.  they are hard to come by.
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Wow..had to think about this for awhile. Still cannot absolutely point to one thing..at least not one specific thing. The best I could come up with is..her heart. She has such a warm, loving heart that she overwhelms me with happiness, love, and a need to be near her at all times. This might take way too long to explain in such a short forum so I am trying to be very brief, but, it is her heart which makes me love her with all my soul, all my own heart. It also makes me (how to say this politely...hmmm?) want her in every way, shape and form. How's that?
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maybe she sees you as a really great friend and someone that she likes to spend time with. i don't see the problem here. you love her, she wants to spend time with you, and dude, you will be in Scotland! She obviously enjoys you're company, which is a great start to winning her over. spending more time together will show her that you are the one she should be with or show you that maybe she's not what you thought. it's a no brainer man, go with her.
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I think you should talk to her about your feelings and if she is free and willing to try things again, then there you go there is a good opertunity to ask her out. But she may just be content as friends I would not tell her you are in love with her though. It could make things worse.
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No, there is nothing wrong with you.  You are confused about your feelings for her.  She is your best friend and it natural to feel drawn to her, but that doesn't mean you are attracted to her sexually.  You enjoy her company, as you should.  Don't act on your feelings for her until you are sure about yourself and how you feel.  In the meantime enjoy life and keep her as a friend.  She may not have the same kind of feelings you are having.
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hey come on... that's just an infatuation or maybe you're putting your ilussion into reality. what if time will come that you'll meet her and you'll be surprised with her being over weight and some kind of an elephant-look body-shape, will you still fall in love with that lady. i bet you will run away and thanking of yourself for not introducing yourself to her. check it out boy...
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Apparently, you never loved her.  You were into the chase for her.  You have hurt her badly.  As a person, you will need to grow from this and explain to her about your feelings.  She will feel betrayed by you.  She probably knew that you were not serious, but your persistance made her second guess herself and accept you as a boyfriend.  Know you have thrown this in her face.  Very sad.
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tlk to her about it and tell her how u feel about it etc u should have no secrets tell her that and tel her u love her maybe she doesnt think u love her :) good luck and have fun cya
46513
it might just be a chemical love. I had that back in the day once haha but you should wait awhile before you tell her and give it some time to see if it is really love.
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I love my lady because she care about me and thinks she is a part of me. We do things together and ego doesnt play in between u, unconditional love for each other. thats what makes our love specail
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The one that you love do not love you..Sadly..But she cant said it to you directly because she dont want you to be hurt. I believe she's a good person because although she has a bf she still ahve time to talk to you and befriend you..I know now why you love her. If you are still willing to be there for her, then stay as her true friend, who knows maybe someday she will see you and realize that you should be the one for her..Am i right?But dont hope too much, it will just make you cry at the end if she could not really have a feelings for you.Just think that its not her fault if she could not have feelings for you, always think that, because loving is not pushing yourself to the person you want to have, but loving is giving your best for the good interest of the one you love, being always there and still loving her although she's not feeling the same way.
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i think you should ask her out! I mean i would say i love you as a freind because i would be too shy to say it as i love you! i think she likes you as a boyfriend not a friend!
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Hi. U really cant test sumbody on how they feel for..id rather suggest u to NOT straight away go and tell her ur feelings for her..but im not saying u should never tell her..try to b friends with her..ur love for her seems very true,there r sum people in this world who go only for looks and not for the real person they r. Try to b frnds with her then mayb ud b able to make out her feelings for u as a frnd or even sumthin more than that.Dont bother about what other people think..its their problem..u mind ur own business..and forget abt what the world arnd u thinks.All The Best.Tke Cre.
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You could just have a major crush on her. You could also have affectionate feelings tward her.  Why don't  you ask her out if you feel love for her.
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Sorry to say but you are shallow and might be incapable of true love, at least not at this time and certainly not with this girl.  If you truly loved her, she would be the most beautiful woman in the world to you.  So you obviously do not. Don't marry her as you would be taking away her chance at true happiness with someone who will treat her like the goddess that she is.  You give us real men a bad name!