I am 45, male, living in Sydney. Currently going through the painful aftermath of a broken relationship. Tried to kill myself, but even God didn't want me. Does someone have the time to help me??
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Don't you dare take your life. I'm sure there are many that have time to help you. Are you willing to accept help from others is the question??
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dear lost soul,\nfirst let me tell you i am sorry for what you are going through for i know exactly how you feel for i have not only had that done to me once but twice. once by a guy that i was engaged to and had with for over 3 years. i had moved from another state to be with him and left all my family behind so when we broke up i was stuck in a state where i knew  no one and had 3 children of my own on top of that. so it was hard. the second man i was with was for almost a year and i first found him cheating online with other woman and thought well he never did take it to that other level and gave him another chance but only to my dimay i got smart and put spyware on my computer and found out a year into the relationship that not only was he lying to me and telling me he was working and not...he was actually doing drug runs for an old buddy of his who i forbid him to be around and i found out he was not talking to woman anymore online but had started talking to men and was actually meeting the men. i was devastated. i finally had enough and called my mother and father and they came and got me and the kids . yeah i need help in the begining being a single mom and being on disability but i made it through it. i went through the dating things online and i came through alot of jerks but i vowed this time i was not going out with anyone that would not accept me for who i was and my children always came first no matter what. for 6 months i struggled paying bills and wondering if i would have food on the table and when the lord seen me at my lowest and down on my knees that is when he picked me up and carried me to my angel. that is the man whom i am engaged to today. see i never told you the first part of my story. over 16 years ago i was married once and over 13 years ago i watched in horror as my husband took a 357 magnum to his head and kill himself.  never until now have i ever found love like that and the love i have now is stronger than i ever had with him. even though you hurt now it is only a trial and it is something that god is putting you through to only make you stronger. i have learned that all my 36 years. i was 17 when married and 21 when widowed and raising 2 baby boys. then 5 years later i dealt with a man who abused me so bad he beat while i was pregnant with my 11 year old daughter now. i am a stronger woman than i would have been . good things happen to those that wait .....that is a good motto to live by.  i hope things go well for you and may god bless you
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I think alot more people than you realize have felt this way. I have suffered form depression also and I have felt that way from time to time. Read my life story (check my questions about this). I have been in an abusive marriage for 12 years and I have not killed myself even though I have thought about it before. I won't do it either because I know that when i put my mind and spirit to it , i can be happy and accomplish anything that I want in life. I look at all the people that I would hurt and leave behind. Not only my wonderful little children but my family and friends who love me. Do you believe in God? have you tapped into your spiritual side? That is what helps me everyday. My brother killed himself 2 years ago and caused so much pain and suffering for every one of us. please don't do it. Continue with your therapist as I will and you can email me whenever you like. Please don't do it. love you, V.
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how old are you?  if you are under 18 tell a trusted adult.  if you are older call a suicide hotline, they have trained professionals that can give you advice.
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Please seek some professional help or help from your church.  My good friend did the same thing when her dad died suddenly.  It's been 10 years and I swear she is stuck in a grieving time warp.  She still cries about it today like she did 10 years ago.  She never sought any kind of help or even medication.  You really need someone who can guide you through the grieving process.
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what you're doing is very kind and compassionate. the world needs more like us, huh? *Hug* if you want to talk to someone who may encourage and pray with YOU let me know. bekki117@yahoo.com or bekki117 on aim or YIM...and yes, i am a born-again christian. on fire for God.
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Fall on your knees & ask God to help you. Also seek counseling right away from a Pastor or a professional > but life is worth living. there is nothing bad enough to take your life. People don't realisze that killing ones self isn't the end~God Bless, you are in my Prayers~
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oh, sweetie, I am so sorry you are going through such a rough time! Is there anyone you can talk to? If not, find a counselor or someone you can trust, because it sounds like you need a good shoulder to cry on. Sometimes, you just have to hold your head up and live for better days, because it feels like there is nothing to hold on to anymore. But things get better, and soon you may find new people and new dreams that are even better than before, as hard as that is to imagine now. Or maybe your old dreams aren't as broken as they seem. There have been times I have lived for nothing but HOPE that someday things will get better. And they DID!!! Don't give up. I hope you find some comfort and peace that you need.
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good day to you,\n\n I understand what you are facing now. but you have to start first by asking forgiveness to the Lord our God and let him rule your life rather than you rule your own life. everybody had a mistake. but it's up to you to fix it. Try to reach God and feel His love deep into your heart. Talk to Him and it's more easier to overcome your problem by crying out all your pains while praying. His always there beside you and and never leave you all alone. He loved you very much simply because He still let see the brighter color of your life, grab this chance that He gave you. Then one day a big surprise will happen. God already touched your heart so don't let him go again. Pray everyday and let Him lead your life. And if you  do all this things, God will do the rest by healing your family's broken hearted.
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I feel for you, you must be broken at the moment, but sadly I think he has made the decision not to be with at the moment for himself and wants to pull himself together on his own. I would ask him once if there's anything you can do to help, if so than he needs you as a support, if not, back off but ask after him to show you care until he's ready to share his life again, good luck.
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I don't know  you but i value your life.\nyou need to seek someone to talk to or can help you.\n\nhttp://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/crisis.aspx\n\nplease look out for yourself.
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You do need help, and you obviously want it, otherwise you wouldn't be here. Contact the 1 800 784-2433 hotline and they will help you. You also need to talk to your parents and get them to realize how you feel. Tell the kids your parents changed their mind and you are happily staying. You are going to die someday, but now you are too young and have to much to live for. Suicide is horrible for anyone around, you will be putting your family through great agony should you choose to go through with it and you will waste something very valuable that was a gift to you: your life.
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Mr. Croatia, I am so sorry to hear your sad news.. really...I hope I can say something that will indeed help you tonight..remember, problems are situations that have yet to be resolved......all problems PASS....just give it time and everything will be alright. I know that you have faith in God....remember, He is running the show, You are His child and he will CARRY you through it all.....Remember, when you had your last job YOU WERE AT FIRST LOOKING FOR A JOB.....another job will come, and hopefully it will be better....If you need some strength right now, remember the bible says - GET YOUR STRENGTH FROM ME WHO CREATED YOU!!!.... good luck to you, my friend, and you are in my prayers..... god bless...
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Have you ever read about Job.  He went through many many many trials and he still prevailed.  I know life can be rough at times and unfortunatly you will continue to go through hard times, they really never end.  But remember, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.  Turning away from your faith would be the wrong thing to do.  It's not that God isn't listening or answering your prayers.  He does listen and he will answer them.  God loves you very much, even when no one else seems to.  You should try talking to your preacher or someone in your church that you can trust. Tell them how you are feeling.  I suggest getting a prayer partner, someone who will help you pray for your needs.  Try smiling as much as you can today.  That will make you feel better too.  Good luck and God bless.
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Is there something on the other side of death?  Well that is a question will only one way of finding out...I personally believe yes there is and God and my passed loved ones are waiting to greet me when my time comes.  If you are thinking about killing yourself there are plenty of people to talk to.  Please call these people 1-800-273-TALK  or 1-800-273-8255, this is a crisis hotline  that can not only help answer your questions but help you, and talk to you if that is all you want to do.  My brother killed himself and it is not something you want to put your loved ones through, not to mention yourself??
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I feel for you deeply, My brother has been like this for 29 years of his life,he has tried to take his own life twice been sectioned once and still the same,he justs exsists really he goes nowhere and has only contact with family! Sorry I cant help you and I hope you find your true self again good luck!
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I AM RECOVERING FROM A SUICIDE ATTEMPT FROM ABOUT 3 WEEKS AGO.  THIS WAS NOT MY FIRST ATTEMPT.  PLEASE EMAIL ME, I WOULD BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO SHARE LIFE STORIES WITH YOU.  YOU ARE NOT ALONE, KRISTEN.  LOOK AT ALL THE RESPONSES YOU'VE RECEIVED.  I DON'T THINK YOU WANT TO KILL YOURSELF, I THINK YOU ARE CYING OUT FOR HELP...THERE IS HELP, BUT YOU HAVE TO HELP YOURSELF FIRST AND THERE ARE OTHERS THERE TO HELP YOU GET HELP, GOT IT, GIRL?  Smile, sweetie :-)