actually when i am out of station then my gf mingles or meet another guy "so called her friend" nd they talk a loot.but when i am around they behave as if strangers what shoud i do.
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You should trust her I think, but if they are acting like strangers when you are around what are they hiding? Are you a jealous person? Or are they pretending nothings going on! Heidi
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Maybe ur jealous of her. If ur b/f  ares about u and wants to be with u, then I don't think he would leave u, I guess u got a try and trust ur b/f. If u call her then its just gonna make u look bad. Probably sound better if ur b/f ask her him self to stop flirting with him. But don't start forcing ur b/f to tell her to leave him alone. I dunno how u stop being jealous of people.
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Does this mean you want a girlfriend? Maybe you should hang out in more different places! Tell em what you do (rockstar/sk8er) And if she is not immprerssed she is not right for you. No matter what they look like!
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because neither wants to give up their time with you for the other. Before your g f came along you had all the time in the world for your friend right?? now the G f has come along & you have to make time for her (which p!sses off your friend who is used to having all your time) so now you make time for the gf but still try to keep time for your friend & that in turn p!sses off your g f who thinks your time should be spent with her & not your friend.... gotta find a happy medium or it will end in tears... good luck!!! ha ha
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sounds like it could happen..i guess you and your girlfriend have a choice to make....either risk it and attempt to earn some respect form the guys in her neighborhood...but remember, you earn respect by giving it.  or you can choose to not deal with the issue at all and have her meet you away form the neighborhood when you want to spend time together.
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Play it safe. If girls keep doing that to you, why not ask a few of them what they're up to? That will either get them to blurt out the truth right then and there, or turn around in alarm and walk right away...probably never planning to bother you again. Depending on the girls, these ladies may either be after some guy to throw themselves on, or you might just be really popular. You just need to know how to deal with it...and maybe keep your eyes open for the one girl that might look like she is truly interested in you and not just going all flirty and crazy. Do you already have a girlfriend? If you do, tell the girls! They're bound to back-off if they realize you're already taken. You may get tired of saying this after a while, but if you say it for long enough, you might just start to notice that the swarm of girls has decreased to just a few random, hopeful wanderers. \n\nTruthfully, in all other respects I would just say run for the hills whenever they're coming toward you, and hide yourself whenver they're chasing you...but I'm betting you think that probably wouldn't work just as much I do. You have to deal with them. Stand up and ask them what they're doing, or tell them straight out that you're not interested. Or maybe you are? It all depends on what you want, and what they're really after. Think it over, and watch them carefully. Maybe you'll be able to pick up on why they're chasing you just from getting to know some of them a little bit better...\n\nI wish you luck. <:)
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yes ,this happen to me ,my GF ,BF kept hitting on me so we set him up.  O ne night he calledTo prove it was a bootty call he was to walk down the street in boxers /carrying a briefcase wearing knee socks and dress shoes.if he wanted to get with me ."he did" my GF and I watched him walk down the street from her balcony  across the street. .He lost her/we had a laugh and we still have a strong friendship.\nGL
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I actually know what you mean.  At one of my gf's parties i was having fun just talking to this guy and my gf saw that and gave me this look like what the hell are you doing.  She is my first gf too and I haven't really been with anyone else, so I can understand what you must be feeling or fearing might happen.  My gf made it real clear that she was a little disturbed by what she was seeing and after that I realized how much it bothered her and now I am more aware of what I can and can't do.  With us it is kind of a little game though. She has done the same thing to me.  She will look at other girls and make comments just to see my reaction.  It is kinda funny that she is worried about me however, because she happens to be bi while I find myself more straight up gay.  I should really be more afraid of her time alone with a guy she finds attractive.  Perhaps what your gf is going through is similar.  Maybe she knows it bothers you or maybe she is just not sure how much it bothers you. I would definetely talk to her.  Communication is always the best way to treat little problems like these.  Be honest yet compassionate and not too firm with her.  It just seems that the trust between the two of you needs to be strengthened.  Number one thing.  Be brutally honest!  It tends to work out more than not.
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My girlfriend is cold to me at work but alone she is totally opposite.  She says she's a private person (we\nare also practicing Christians) and does not like the \nattention she gets and says she does not like other people\nknowing her business.  She says that's just the way she\nis.
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This person is not your "opponent", because if this your partner, then you 2 are not in a competition for her. However, the real issue here would be, if your gf is flirting back and how this person's advances makes her feel. \n\nIf it is a matter of the gf being drawn in by this, then you've got a problem, not with the other person, but with keeping your gf attention. So yes, you would concentrate on possibly complimenting her more or doing things that entice her. \n\nBut, if she is non-responsive to this other guy's advances, then there is no problem. It's no big deal that someone else like her; I always say, WHO WANTS SOMEBODY THAT NOBODY ELSE WANTS! As long as she's with you, you have nothing to worry about.
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Perhaps you are being a little insecure about the situation. Working in the same establishment as your significant other tends to put extra stress on relationships. I would suggest that you look for work elsewhere. Also, keep in mind who she comes home with each night, you. You may want to mention to her that several of the co-workers indicated to you that they felt she was "hitting on them". Maybe she is just really friendly and those guys are misunderstanding that to be flirting. I have noticed alot over the years that whenever I am nice to guy, such as make small talk with him, that he asks me out or gives me his number. Alot of men confuse being nice for flirting. They think because a girl is nice to them that she is hitting on them, which is not always the case. It's hard to see that going on, so I would suggest having a little chat with her about it and find a job elsewhere and that will relieve alot of the stress you are going rhrough. Couples can spend TOO much time together and then little things start to cause undue stress in their relationship. Good luck with this issue.
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don't let her get to you...surround yourself with people that DON'T talk bad about you! :)
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Well the reason he is not openly flirting with you when other people is around is because he is a smart guy he has a g/f so he does not want anyone telling her and having her get a red azz with him about it..lol  you could say to him when he is alone with you .how come you only flirt with me when we are alone. maybe then he could give you some insight as to why he does this. but how can you get him to see you are really good for him . i don't you think you can . maybe he just See's you as someone he wants to flirt with and have a good time with behind his g/f's back . he might be a player.
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its very normal ,she thinks you prefer to be with her more.I think you need to show her that she is your first priority after all.You should not expect your gf to get along with your other female friends.
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Sounds like your sizing yourself up to other people...what they have....what they do...where they go...what they wear...who their dating...etc. My neighbor is a coal miner and has 2 nice vehicles, another friend of mine owns his own place and wouldn't have to work any more...etc, but if I'm concern with what they do or have then I'm forgeting the most important person....and thats me. Sure I would like to have those things, but I don't and thats alright. Then on the other hand I hear people say they wish they seen what I did in life...so it's a cycle I guess. I know that I need to do things that makes me happy and heck with the others. As for you staking someone...what is it benefiting you or the person your stalking? If it isn't benefiting you then your just wasting your life cause that person is going to continue to do what they do.
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dude, i can relate. maybe we've known each other from childhood. i am also a ladies' man (not the playboy kind but the gentleman kind) and i've seen and been with women with mates who treat them like dirt. and somehow, i've managed to make some of them to wake up and break up (ooh, a rhyme!!!)\n\nsee, what i do is, i protect the girl in any means possible, be there for her when she need a shoulder to cry on, and probably (but never did) kick the guys sorry a**!!! women are fascinating people that should never be taken advantage of, so that's why i try my best to be the gentleman they want. consistent persuasion might work, and don't let the girl look at herself as a doormat. she should learn to get respect from her partner, coz deep down, we know we only want their happiness...\n\n=P ~^_^~
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let your girl know that as much as you enjoy being with her and her friends that you want to spend some alone time with her to talk about somethings that you are not comfortable with all her friends hearing from you cause you know if there that close she will tell them anyways