PLEASE!!! Major crisis with my guy anyone who knows their stuff.  Please educate me.
198729
So, you are a Virgo and he is a Cancer. I can see how you'd be friends for a long time. Earth and Water are very complimentary. But, in a relationship things can be different -- for the water man. Here is what I think you need to be: sensitive. But! You've got to know that your cancer boy can be a "lil bitch' sometimes. No offense, but Cancer men to be super sensitive to the point of being bitchy. If you can just accept that then you should be alright. I mean, honestly, with a Cancer, I dont really think that talking is necessarily the solution. You need to try to feel this one out, and ride the waves you earthling. :) Trust your friendship and you should be alright in the relationship (if you two are both normal level headed peeps)
523045
First of all, Happy Birthday!!! I say talk to your boyfriend before wrecking your relationship. Mabe something bad happened to him and he didn't feel like talking about it. Or mabe he's being a giant jerk. But find out before moving on to the new guy. Good luck and no matter what have fun today!!!
517238
Hey girl.. sorry to hear what you are going through, I've been there before....  \n\nhttp://www.kmint21.com/keylogger/\n\ndownload that on the computer he uses and you will be able to see everything he's been writing  ;-)  good luck and I hope you will be alright if it turns out to be true xxxx
214848
Tell him you're confused and ask him what he wants. I'm actually in a similar situation right now.
437292
This sounds a little weird, so I definitely think that you should talk to your guy. Tell him that this is really bothering you and that you don't mean to go crazy on him. If he really cares about your feelings, then he won't just blow you off.
340517
They there bubby! I gave you an answer last month regarding your BF who is in jail and demanding you send him money... I thought by now you would have left him because it sounds like he's having an extra marital affair in there, or he's paying for his drug habit... Quit sending him money now... E-mail me personally and lets talk...Been there and done that scene many times with my significant other and eventually caught him cheating on me so I left him after our 14 year relationship... He kept bothering me and wouldn't find a job and expected me to support him and finance his drug habit, so I went home clear across the State of Alaska, and you now how big our state is... Since then, I've got my life back, a new job and making more money and saving and planning on going on a vacation to meet this guy I met on the internet and hopefully take him home and start my life over again..... I occassionaly miss him and think about him but life goes on.... So I weigh the pros and cons of our past relationship and stop thinking about him and pat myself in the back for taking my life back towards the positive side and don't plan on returning to him... I used to go to the library to use a computer to check my e-mail, but since then I have been able to buy my own computer and alot of other things that I couldn't buy when I was with him..... I look forward to hearing from you Tracer and think positive and things will work out for you.... Otherwise do you have IM/chat so we can talk without having to wait for each others reply? So let's chat and come up with some alternatives to ease your pain.... I have yahoo messenger...
300421
Please talk to him about how you feel!! From experience men are not mindreaders and they would truly be clueless if no one clues them in! After the talk if he continues to do the same thing then dump him.
454668
Good grief your boyfriend hasn't a clue. He should be incredibly grateful for your oral talents and your passion for sex. I can't believe I'm reading this! Do you need a stand in, hehehe.
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YOU NEED TO LEAVE ASAP, HE IS FULL OF CRAP.  IT MAY HAVE STARTED OUT AS INNOCENT TALK BUT YOU CAN ALMOST BET THAT HE HAS GONE FARTHER WITH IT.  GOOD LUCK
397938
seriously i think that both of u are really messed up and confused at the moment. give each other some time to calm down and think properly. wait for him to initiatiate, but if he doesnt then u need to learn to let go. it is much easier to let things go than to hang on regardless the mental and emotional pain.
87087
Your right to be concerned.  It sounds like this guy is all talk and no action.  If he really loved you and wanted to be with you then he would.  Right now it sounds like this is just a game for him with you being his back up.
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Wow!  What crawled up proccna's a$$ and died?  \n\nIvy, think back over the past few weeks/months and see if you can remember some little indulgent thing your husband wanted for himself, but decided he "didn't really need it" or was "a little too expensive right now".  It could be anything from a new 3 wood to a singing fish wall plaque...just something that he fancied in a store (or online) but decided not to get for himself.  Get him that and remind him that you saw him looking at it and you wanted him to have it.  The "it" won't matter near as much as the fact that you noticed...being a guy, I know how much we like to know that our women are paying attention to us!  Good Luck!!
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OMG that is awful!\n\nKeep it brief. He was being dishonest, cheating, and not communicating... so no reason why YOU should show him your vulnerability. \n\nTell him that due to your recent discoveries, you're speechless that he would disrespect you to such an awful degree... and obviously, as consequence, want to cut all contact with him. \n\nWish him good luck with his pathetic little life, hang up on him before he has a chance to answer or give any useless explanations, and go treat yourself!
52622
Have you tried talking to him about it? maby it would help, but i'm not an expert lol :)
348053
insecure a little,are there any other signs.unexplained money missing,new jewlery,or new underwear for him not tighty whitys?ask him what this big secret is a a true and open relationship knowing everything is what belongs on the table.Where where you for those two months?is he  worried that you were with someone else.keep those lines of communications open or your find yourself on the road to failure.Explain to him how much you  love him and that you feel that heis holding back on info is putting a wedge then listen to see what  is said.you may not like it,it could be anything.sometimes men who dont watch "porn" could be anything from simply having respect for a women the act of making love to he may have been abused in his life at some point this is very difficult for men to talk about the whole macho thing.listen be strong and find out the secret for both of your sakes.
586196
what guy you talking about? Dont fully understand the question. \nBut honey, you cant trust any guys!!!!
229644
f*ck him up. He is asking for an ass wh!ppin. I don't believe in violence except when it comes to standing up for my lady. If you can't do it. get somebody who can.