ok well i was alone at home waiting for my parents to come back from there meeting and this guy camein my house and took off my clothse and gave me a white thing nd told me to swollow it and he layed me on the bed and thats all i remember when i woke up he was gone and i was still naked and 5 mins l8er my parents came home and i didnt tell them and i feel so weird and bad
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- Its kinda stupid.\n- You have to learn more\n- And know the facts and learn to resist yourself from male kind of attacks.\n- gain the knowledge the keep distance the ppl whom you can evaluate as ugly.\n- Its upto you to guess the situation and the outcome if you complain to others.\n- If the nonsense attitute badly hurts you then dont hesitate to punish the nut.\n-----------------
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Well you know what... i know how that feels i asked for a D'S and a few games for my birthday. My parents kept on saying "NO NO NO NO!" so then i just waited and acted like i didn't exist and put my head down and walked through the house like a zombie. So my parents noticed that I'm not outgoing and crazy like i normally am so the next day they get me it!!! Now i dont know if you parents are like that but just act like they are the bad people... Soon they will feel guilt and soon Cave... (sincerely Mooplaman)
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What were thinking when you guys were having sex. You need to tell your mother and break up with this guy because your just messing up your life and his. If you really want to make sure go to the health clinic and find out for sure it will make you feel a lot better.
201975
I feel bad for you. Get some self esteem and find a guy that really respects you. This guy's using you.
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yea...i remember my now exboyfriend laying on a bed and me and my friends made him get naked so we could make sure he wasn't "sick". then, it switched and i was on the bed naked while they drew all over me with permanent markers....that was quite the story for mom to hear from a 5 year old.
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*confused* you have a child...yet he's never seen you naked....i'd love to hear that explanation.\n\nNo, you're just shy.
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Personally, I think he abused both his position and, more importantly, you.  He'd probably get away with it if there were no witnesses but I think you need to talk this episode through with him (or maybe even his boss) - in a calm and collected manner. \n\nAs to how it's made you feel, you've just experienced something outside of your everyday boundaries.  You're bound to be a little disoriented - if only because you've been forced to address something of which you had been certain, namely how straight you really are.  In an effort to get over the double trauma of nearly drowning (and this guy's efforts in saving you) and then this violation, there are a whole mix of emotions that you're having to juggle.\n\nFear, gratitude, lust for life, anger and, yes, even pleasure are all trying to be reconciled; so no wonder that in all the confusion you're having wild dreams and urges.\n\nFor all that what I have written is plausible, I am not a professional therapist and I would urge you to seek one out, to help you reconcile yourself to your recent experience.\n\nOne thing I am certain of though, you are no more gay now, than you were before this incident. \n\nGood Luck
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You may want to stop though I know it's not that simple. It takes a lot of self control. Try thinking about other things or do exercises when you get those kinds of feelings. God's word says your body is a temple and that you should honor God with your body(1 Corithians 6:18). this may be the reason you feel so dirty after the act. Pray for stength and just keep buisy with other things to occupy your mind :)
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i was outside playing with my cat , she was in front of me, anyways suddently her fur stands up and she's looking behind me all mad and sh it..so i cautiously turn back and there she was. a woman hung on the tree i screamed and ran. she was a white woman with black hair in a black dress. then the next morining everyone was asleep and i looked down the hall to an empty room when suddenly i accidently slam the brush agains the wall and as i looked down i saw this man get up furiously from the floor glaring at me with his mad face. then i ran to school. \n\no i have more ecounters but i dont feel like typing.\n\npoint is...\nu nver forget it!! ever!!
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i understand how you feel , seeing on the news everyday was not a pleasant think , and you have 3 kids at home, , i think its not your fault to lived next to the sex offender, and if you don't feel safe living near that kind of person \n, you have to report them to the autority, like have police check on the neighbourhood , or you could make a petition from the neighbour, about your concern and give it to the manager , and let him do something about it , good think you found out about them , so you could be aware\n, may God bless you and keep your family safe
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stayed in a b and b in whitby with my 2 kids we were on the top floor as we entered the room my 18 month old son jumped onto the bed and nearly bounced out of the window i just caught his leg i still feel sick at the thought of what could av happened if i had turned my back for 1 second :(
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sounds like your upset with yourself for throwing your virginity away. take it for the lesson it is. don't give it away because you're curious
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Hi young lady.  You're bound to get a ton of responses to your question, both from parents and from other teens who consider you either very lucky, or very unlucky.  I suspect that something happened this evening that upset you and probably prompted your to ask the question - perhaps they turned down a request or simply said something at a moment when you really weren't feeling happy with the state of your life.  Regardless, being a successful father myself (my son is now married and working on his master's degree to be a teacher), I can tell you something you probably don't like to think about; that is that raising a child . . . I'm sorry . . . a young man or woman, in today's world is a VERY scary and challenging thing to do.  Particularly in the case of young women, if you follow the newspapers or TV news at all, you'd see that the prevalence of sex crimes in our country is at an all-time high.  The Internet itself is being used as a tool by predators who want nothing more than to take advantage of gullible or naive young people who are too ready to trust, and not ready enough to protect themselves.  Your parents sound like they love you very much . . . enough to want to protect you from the very nasty and ugly side of humanity, for as long as they are able.  When you believe they are simply being mean or too strict, they are actually struggling with the choices they must make as you grow older, regarding how much freedom you should be allowed to have, as opposed to how much risk and danger could be waiting for them to allow you too much freedom, or perhaps more than you are fully equipped to handle.  Parents have a terribly difficult job, and very often they have to be the "bad guys" as far as their children are concerned, in order to ensure that their children remain safe and secure until they are old enough, and hopefully well enough prepared, to step out into this very brutal world on your own.  I don't want to put you to sleep here with a long message (I might have already done so:-), but I believe you will find in the long run, that in order to earn more trust and more freedom from your parents, you're going to have to demonstrate to them how responsible and how trustworthy you can be.  And if you attempt to mislead them, or you abuse a trust that they give to you, you shouldn't be surprised or angry at them if they back off and require you to earn their trust all over again.  As a retired military person, I can tell you most assuredly - freedom is everyone's right, but it is a right that we all have to earn, not once, but every day of our lives, but doing what is right (not just what is the easiest), and by setting a high standard of honesty and integrity for ourselves that no one can put a hole in.  I suspect that when you have become the kind of upstanding person your parents want you to be, you will discover that they will endow you with increasing levels of trust, and freedom, so long as you continue to prove that what they are doing is the right thing, not just for you, but for your entire family.  I apologize for writing so much, but I saw in your note some feelings of disappointment and frustration with your folks.  Try not to only consider their actions from your point of view.  To really understand what is happening in yours and their lives, broaden your point of view and try to consider what they're feelings are, and what they're reasons are for the decisions that they make on your behalf.  Don't be in too big a hurry to be out on your own - it's a far scarier and more dangerous world than you can possibly imagine, and your time in it will come all too soon.  Good luck with your question, and with sifting through all of the many wide-ranging opinions you're likely to see.  Use your brain, and not your emotions to determine who's advice is the most honest and the most intelligent, and don't just choose those answers that suppor
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I can understand you being very uncomfortable with this situation.Dad should have locked the door.\nAll man masturbate and it's nothing to be upset or ashamed of.Just leave him with his business and you to your own business.
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Well, if you feel funny about it, then no you shouldn't.  Just tell your friend that it weirds you out a little.  Maybe you could offer to help him get clothes of his own or give him some old clothes to keep?
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Talk to your Mom about this, she will know what to do, but do it now you wont be in any trouble and have done nothing wrong, but this guy sounds kind of creepy and you need to make sure you are safe
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Sweetheart you need to get some help.  Having sex with a bunch of different men is not the way to get attention.  It's a good way to get something that will kill you.  You did the right thing telling your mom and I hope she finds you some help.  You need some self confidence and you need to understand that you can gain attention for being who you are.  You don't have to have sex with people to be liked.