met this guy at a club we danced and  had a great time with him the day ended and i never thought abt him the next thing i know his calling me up and checking out all my moves and its freaking me out alot i never gave him my number but he has it i realy dont know what to do?
204362
The next time he calls you, tell him you don't want anything to do with him and that he should stop calling you and stop following you.  Tell him calmly that if he does not back off you will call the cops.  He might not realize he's being really creepy, so that might make him back off.  If he gets really angry or if he keeps calling, call the cops.
29234
It sounds like you too have a deep connection, he called you and you keep loving him and thinking about him plus you two talked "in silence" too its as if you have a body language connection as well.I think you two should try being together again, try another date and tell him how much you enjoy his company and his personality and how people make mistakes.that might bring him back too you.hope this helps.
323942
if he didn't give u his number u shouldn't call. just grip yourself together and don't call. u might try another way of approaching him and maybe he will give u his number himself. but it is rreally really low for a girl to call a guy if he didn't give her his phone number
373581
maybe he had a change of heart? or he is seriously wondering if your the right one for him. don't contact him. he has your number if he never calls again then your better off. do you want someone to be with you if they don't want to? if, he calls then continue your relationship. in the meantime don't sit around waiting on this man. get out and mingle with friends who knows maybe he is not the one. sorry but i don't want to lie and make you think he will call.
25222
Pretty much what he is doing,\n1. checking you out\n2. flirting\n3. if you have feelings to them as well\nI think you should get to know him a little better before asking him to your birthday party. If you got to know he was really cool, then he probalby wouldn't ruin your game for the rest of the night.\nGOOD LUCK ;)
609494
First you have to ask yourself... Is it really possible that someone I was with for over a year lost my number? I would think after being in a relationship with someone for that long they would know your number and if they truly wanted to be with you they would make the effort to find your number if they had in fact lost it. I think you should move on. It's sounds kind of strange to me and in those two months I doubt he was crying himself to sleep at night missing you. Find someone better!
371784
You know what i actually think that you are worried too much ,and you don`t know may be you`re friend got mixed up !\nIt seems horrible now but you got to just think of the dance and just see what happens on the night !\nI think you should go to dance on friday,it`s up to you now what you want to do ,go with friends  and just don`nt go with any boy  go with a group of girls !\nThis guy is going to be there any way ,dress to thrill! I mean the full works ,go to hairdressers.dress ,everything !!!\nFeel a millon dollars ,have a big smile on you`re face ,dance all night say hello to everyone ,have so much fun !!!\nEvery guy in there will notice you ,and this guy you like, just pretend you didn`t hear any thing before,it could be that s its just gossip  been mixed up or may not be true!!Even if it is true try find a nicer boy,who says nice things to people!\nIf he seems interested on friday at the dance ,don`t seem to desperant !!!Just relax babe ,you are only 16 have fun and if this guy doe`nt seem interested ,you know !!!!his loss !!\nHave you ever heard the phrase "if you don`t love yourself ,how doyou expect others to love you "\nGood luck wee darling it will all work out!have a good time !
372996
I am pretty sure he was showing it around because he was glad that he got invited. if you don't want him to do it again, don't bne afraid to good naturatly teel him that.  and don't be embarrased that people now think that you like him. that wil incraese the chances of him asking you out or somthing of the sort.\nhope this helped and good luck\nand have a happy sweet 16th b-day
54345
Not necessarily.  He probably got scared off.  May be he is interested but perhaps you sounded pretty serious for your relationship.  Give him a little time, but don't close all the doors.  Meet new people (just friends) you don't know what might happend nex
179611
maybe u should just answer the phone and see who it is...and if its freakin u out..tell someone who can help ya
45734
hey, I just got that book out of the library! I'll be reading it soon and I really hope that it gives some answers about those strange beings... men.\n\nWhat should you do? Don't appear to be needy. Tell him about all the fun you've been having since you last saw him. You don't want to be seen moping around the house pining for this guy.\n\nDoes he like you? Maybe. Don't get to worked up over this guy.
439235
this sounds something that has happened to me recently so i'll tell you what i think is the best thing to do...in my opinion the guy is scared of hurting you more in the future so he keeps his distance so you don't get too close in the wrong way...one way you can help this, is to just call him up and invite him to your place to play cards with you and some other friends or just to hang out...or invite him out to go to the new movie playing in town or just a casually lunch at McDonalds....well i hope this helps a little if you need anything else let me know
231322
That is crazy! Don't talk to him every again. No normal person should ever call anyone that many times and leave so many messages, especially if they HAVEN'T met you yet.\n\nIf he was nervous or unsure then he's TOO nervous and unsure. Ugh, what a freak.
590092
Don't ever let anyone control your mind like this. He might just be busy. Let him chase you. Don't call or text him until he calls or texts you. Date other people. If he wants you he knows where to find you and how to make it known. Let him work for you! You're a queen aren't you?
529492
Forget about it after 3days.  Yea, the guy asked for your number but it could have been because he thought it was what he was supposed to do after you two where hanging out that night or because he wanted to look cool to his friends for getting a girls number at some party. What ever his motives are, this guy is a loser and you should totally forget about him!
51679
I think thats why he called you a psycho right there... your reading to much into simple words and look how upset you have gotten yourself. A guy dealing with a chic like that...is not at ease, he always has to becarefull what he says to not freak you out. Maybe you have been a little clingy lately or something. Talk to him later on today, if everything seems fine then just blow it off as passing conversation. It sounds to me like he was trying to make light of you missing him, a form of trying to cheer you up, or maybe just trying to get you to talk about something less sad/depressing. No worries though, ask him about it when your feeling more calm.
147387
Maybe he didn't want to get shot down and while he obviously was into you, the people you were with I would think had something to do with it and by that I mean, I'm sure if you had been alone or right next to him, he might have interacted with you! If you thought he was worth checking out, you should have went over and talked to him! You look pretty cute and I'm sure he would have talked with you!