I was having an intimate moment with a close friend at school and halfway through I put my finger into his bottom and did a voice like a black slave man. he got really wierded out and said it was getting too wierd for him, and he zipped up his pants and went back to grading papers. was it too gay for him or something? I thought most guys were supposed to like that =/
209011
i think what u did is u broke immersion. when im larping with my friends we dun want any dumb people breaking out imaginations, so i think when u stuck ur finger in his bum it broke the fantasy he was having about black slave men. wut u need to do is then bring him back into the fantasy setting by threatening to whip him like the n*gger b*tch that he is unless he takes it in the ass. LOL negroes
378204
i think its probably normal, but its not acceptable. but just wait til he goes to college and joins a frat, if you think thats bad.
303209
well i gave it away I never bleed.. but it was like weird.. there was a pressure and I couldnt really tell what was going on.. it could be because the guy is like maybe 4ines long but yeah it wasnt as cracked up as i thought it would be... and because i didn it it was harder for me not to with my next bf.. because i already gave it up what was i holding on too.. i kinda regret losing when i did.. but cant take it back.. just make sure your not pressured into it... youll regret it later if you do
180909
I'd have to agree with the last post. It seems that most men on the down low are there for a reason...becasue they don't feel that they can openly embrace that part of their sexuality.  I also really think it's a culture based thing, too.  I was doing some reading a while back, and you find a lot of this kind of thing in the Japanese, African American and Hispanic communities.  These communities tend to raise their boys to be strong manly men, and no gay love allowed!
617600
I'm confused too...I don't know how many boys are in that story...but to me it just sounds like being a normal young person....thats what crushes and obsessions are all about. You kind of just have to ride it out and try not to do anything dumb (not an insult to you, but I definitely remember doing dumb stuff bc of boys)
516467
i was walking in the hallway at school with my guy friend who's gay. we were talking about the new hot guy. and then the new hot guy is passing us. me n him make eye contact. i couldnt believe it! he smiled his gorgeous smile at me and then, i smacked into the hallway door that was closed. i was devastated. my friend laughed at me, then helped me up.
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One like this:  'Do you shower in the nude?'  I thought that was dumb because obviously we all do that!! Does he expect us to put on as many clothes as possible and shower with them all on! Come on!!! (i hope the guy doesn't read this!!) It actually made me laugh in a way so that's why i answered it!
510567
I've been flatered when it has happened as a straight man. As it has been said before professional gay men have great tatse. For those of you freaked out and puking your guts out. I think I can say with some certainty you have nothing to worry about, since you wouldn't meet the class requirement.
570326
I have heard of it happening in sororities but not frats.  I am doubtful that it happens much because most people are so homophobic that they would consider it gay for a guys to tickle guys - even if there is not nudity or sexual content.  Now if a sorority was invited to tickle- initiate the new frat boys, that would be a frat I would love to join!
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Why is it the moment a guy acts like a gentleman, not an ape, some [expletive deleted] has to propose that he is gay.  As if the poor girl would not have guessed by now if that was the case!  Give us a break!\n\nA man does not show how much respect he has for a woman, how much real devotion he is capable of, by crawling all over her like a mindless animal, dominated by his passions.  And he certainly does not convey a sense of having self-control, which is, after all, important to being a man.  Self-control, I mean.  Surely you can think of plenty of reasons why that is true.\n\nSo don't fault the guy for not trying to mangle you in a tango.  He was nervous, you were nervous, but you managed to do something like dancing anyway.  And it apparently meant enough to you to spend your points here asking the same plaintiff question over and over again!\n\nGentle men are to be encouraged and rewarded.  The nicest reward of all, of course, would be the love of a woman he wants.
433785
Yes, it is normal, but some guys think it is disgusting and don't like it. Don't get into trouble by staying away from such kind of behavior.
637205
once a guy ask me to talk dirty to him. I was thinking dirty why does he want me to talk dirty. So I said shit, dam, and hell.  I told my friend and she said no you didn't and I said yes I did. She told me that's not what he meant and she told me what he did mean.
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I think it's great that he wants you to do that and it's not "weird" at all.  To me it seems that he is still really attracted to ya!  I mean, it's not like he asked to start borrowing your underwear!!  I mean, just say what comes naturally.  Be sexy!  I am sure you know what to say deep down...practice saying it alone before you leave it on his phone.  And the one answer was cool...start with text messages :)   Good luck, and don't feel silly...he wants ya, girl!
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6th grade?? Discussing "sucking off" someone? What the hell kind of sex ed class was this anyway? Is that what our education system is teaching America's children these days?\nI don't ever remember that kind of talk when I was young.\nMaybe your Mrs. Johnson was a bit of a perv.\n**And BTW...no it's not sick if you are in love and committed to pleasuring each other.
357376
i have had sex with black men.  i wont, however, get into the details.  you should try it sometime (assuming youre single)
317137
I know I'm not a bloke but there is no harm in what you felt.  It doesn't make you gay or nothing.\n\nIt is very difficult to tell the male or female backside apart naked or not.\n\nDon't worry about it, you are maker a bigger deal of it that you should.
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I have told friends personal info over the years.  Nothing like "I was rapped as a small boy" type things.  More along the lines of "wow your mom is banging dude!"  They took it pretty well, and after a few days the swelling on my face went down, so everyone was happy :)  Hope that helped you.  But if you are looking into something like "I'm gay" just go ahead and tell them.  What's the worst that can happen?  He won't like you anymore?  Well, if he is a homophobic and you are gay, well them he wasn't a good friend anyway and you are better off without him.  Have I helped yet?  I hope so.