he doesn't like me back and i'm like in love w/ him but still he said he only wants to be my fren but he neva talks to me how can i get him to like me?
200945
you don't sorry move on .but you know i just bet this guy like you more of what he saying .so if you want your boy hang in there .but don't make a fool of youself it just a game young guys play.
514519
dear confused girl,\ndoes he like you? if he does then tell him that you still have feelings for him. talk to him, and why is your " BFF " telling him you don`t like him anymore? i think you should have a little talk with her too. good luck ! =]
177045
NO!!! NO!!! NO!!! ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! He doesn't like you for you. He just feels he needs a girl friend. He couldn't get you best friend so he's going to try to get back at her by going after you. He's a playa and so not worth the trouble. Besides, there is a reason your best friend turned him down.
128766
What kind of a friend are you really? You say you are really good friends with him, but you want to destroy his relationship with someone he loves for your own personal gain?\n\nYou need to show some respect for yourself, and your guy friend, or he won't be liking you even as a friend.
579612
if he's your friend he wont hate you for being honest. just talk to him and let him know you don't have the same feelings and it's not fair for him to love someone that don't love him back.
74790
maybe he has never imagined being more than friends, i think it happened to me, this girl kept talking to me and i didn't even imagine her liking me, but i didnt notice until recently that she might like me because she kept showing signs of it. but i never even noticed.  Try a little harder. Try talking directly to him.  Get comfortable talking to each other and tell him how you feel.  If you are too shy write a letter and give it to him when hes alone or have a friend do it.
174779
Maybe he is afraid of his own feelings for you, and protect himself,by \nsaying: "he doesn't like you". \nMaybe he is not ready yet, for a friendship, or ,relationship. \nIt sounds to me like an insecure reaction. \nLook out for someone who likes you! Things will fall in place when it is\nmeant to be......
444628
maybe he is just not interested in you. you cant make someone like you or show interest. i would just move on and find someone else to concentrate on and who has time for me.
87854
Take the hints he has been giving you.  He only wants to be friends.  There is no reading between the lines.  He is holding you in reserve until something better comes along and wasting your time by saying only friends now.  You will only hurt yourself waiting for a relationship with him that will never come.
485551
Just tell him how it is ..you can start out with I like you as a friend but I don't love you and can't see us together anymore......\n~Good Luck~
423317
Maybe he liked you but for some reason is trying to back away. Maybe he thinks you don't like him? Try sending clues, like when he talks to you smile at him and keep the conversation going. Don't be shy, you have nothing to lose because he liked you at the begginning anyways. Just remember to not overdo it. Another good thing to do is for YOU to say hi to him once in a while, if he likes you he'll greatly appreciate that! Hope everything goes well!!
220706
well first you need to decide if you do or dont like him that way if you dont then just sit him down and tell him ya know hey this was a big misunderstanding and your a great freind but im not ready for that type of relationship with you and im sure hel;; understand because guys bounce back much faster so no worries he will survive
542719
Because although he might LIKE you he doesn't LIKE you the way YOU like him.  He probably likes you as a friend and you're misreading that to mean he wants a relationship with you.  Learn the difference between liking someone and wanting a relationship with them...in otherwords...you need to grow up.
554615
Flirt a little, if he doesn't flirt back then you know he doesn't like you. Don't throw yourself out there tho, because if you do, and he just thinks of you as a friend, you will look like an idiot. Just drop little hints and do a little flirting, and trust me, you will know if he likes you or not.
305067
Be yourself, don't try and be someone you are not for anyone.  If he likes your personality it will come with time.  Remember no one likes someone that seems desperate, or to forward either, hanging around.  If you treat him with respect, and are always polite, & help him some way he will notice you for your efforts.  Find some common ground to strike up a conversation.  Something you have in common to maybe do to together, then ask him he would like to attend with you.  If it wasn't meant to be, then it isn't.  There are plenty of fish in the sea.
647501
One thing I've learned is you cannot make someone like you, love you, or fall in love with you.  They either will or they wont.\n\nGive it some time and spend time with him.  Be considerate of his feelings but not open about them let him take the path and you follow.\n\nIf not then stay your distance and keep under the radar.
652157
not much u can do besides let him know how u feel and see what he says... u dont have nothing to lose... if he only wants to b friends then you will just have to accept the friendship..........