I had this bf that cryed all the time and at first it was cute then he cryed over the stupidest stuff and it got anoying and he was 19 so it was so dumb, do you think i am being stupid and mean? he was crying over stupid petty shit!
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yes some men cry. i cried at my mothers funeral and the day she died. i also cried when my son was born. your bf is either depressed or thinks playing sensitive will get him points with you. how women react to a man cring is up to her. my gf at the time of my moms death was very compassionate and held me and listened to me about how i felt. my son is now 2 yrs old and my wife still talks about how sweet she thought it was to see me cring because i was so overwhelmed with happiness to hold my new born son. again though it is all up to the individual on how they react.
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The little bugger doesn't know how to handle his emotions.  My soon to be 8 year old cries when his favorite is voted off American Idle.  I do notice a trend w/ his emotional roller coasters though.\n\nDoes this happen all the time w/ your boy? Is it more often when he is not well rested & well fed?  Is he suffering from a cold or allergies?  A lot of times this emotional download is the result of one of these causes.  If you've cleared him for all of that, check w/ his pediatrician.
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I believe that crying is not weak. It just shows that you may be emotional. Us guys have a big ego... you know its true. We want to think everything is weak, and we are its superior. Hey I know its true. That's why you wont see that many guys crying. However I believe it is better to cry.\nFor ex. Your boyfriend breaks up with you, but you don't cry you try to keep it in. Someone might get the wrong impression that your not upset over this and you really don't mind.\nSo I would say, you must have a strong personality to start crying.
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Oh my goodness! I was JUST like you with the Touchy Feely. I wasn't that at all when I started to date my boyfriend because I've never been used to that emotional display. I was so used to hangin' out w/the boyz that it just rubbed off on me. I'm used to it now because it's just his way of showing me how he feels. But don't let him get too "Fresh"
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It's not nesessarliy the age  but about acting like a man..  when my bf acts like a 2 yr old i tell him i want a man not a boy  and he's 33..LOL
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He's a bully. If you stay with him, get used to a life of walking on egg shells. I bet he was "sorry" later and tried to tell you he didn't know what made him do it, or said you "made" him do it.  It's not a mood swing, it's a precursor to more verbal and emotional abuse.
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> I'm sick of boys acting stupid.\n\nWe are stupid, sorry to say :/\n\nPeople can get tired of most things, and lack of love sucks, of course. Good luck with it.
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BWAAHAHAHAHAHA....Oops sorry, I am just wiping the tear from my eyes from laughing so hard.  You are with a nicer guy than the loser you were with before!  Don't let go of a good thing--this new one adores you.  Now excuse me while I go back to laughing...BBBWWAHAHHHAHAHAA!!!!!
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hmmm first off age sholdnt mattter, im almost 19 and my bfs 17 hes a senior and i graduated last year. and that doenst bother us. so hes dumb if thats a reason. and hunny only he knows wheather he likes you or not or how hes feling right? and the onyl way to know is if you jsut straigeht up ask him. riggt?\n\nwell good luck ok hunny<33
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You are too sensitive.  Even though he was joking he still was somewhat sincere considering it is a very logical question.  Maybe you are taking his comment too seriously because deep inside yourself you know he is somewhat right and it hurts.  Either way, if you take everything he says so seriously and personally you are going to be one unhappy woman as he is not perfect and can't always be wrong about everything.  Disagreements in relationships are common, healthy and expected.  To be able to workout those disagreements together is what creates a great compatible relationship.  Try not to worry so much about such small things and be thankful for the wonderful life and family you have.  Good Luck & God Bless!
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uhum.....report me again...cuz of "insulting"...geez girl i'm serious now....get a life....i hope i didnt make u cry with da' last message....i lost 20 points cuz of u and i am totally indifferent...report me again..i'm not a crybaby like others...\n\nps:i really dunno WTH do u want......these Q r makin' me go nuts..
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Yes, it made me feel so bad.  But I ended up talking to him about our situation, I didn't want him to think I was a bad person.  He was mad at first then he cooled down, and he was fine with it.
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Again...learn to spell, for crying out loud.  Maybe he dumped you because you don't have a brain.
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If by bitchy, you mean a girl who knows her own worth and will not allow anyone to run over her and will tell you when she thinks you have disrespected her, men like this kind of woman because she challenges him to be his best.  He knows that if he wants this better kind of woman, he must be thoughtful of her feelings, work hard for a living because she will not just accept any excuse for a man, have plans for his future (which will not necessarily include her if their plans do not match) and be a man not an excuse for 1.  If you mean a girl who is rude and crude for the heck of it, it is because he is stupid.    By the By, if you feel that you must always agree with your bf or risk losing him, I feel sorry for you
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Yes you have a right to be angry.  No he will never change.  I used to have a bf of 3 yrs that did this, and no matter how many times I would tell him that bothered me he did not change.  Of course he would be good for a bit, but then he'd go right back to his same old ways.  I have had other bfs since then that do not do that.  He is more concerned about himself and what he wants to do which is not call you until he is good and ready.  Its a selfish nature that does not change in them.  I'm sorry to say this, but you have to do one of two things.  Either accept it and stop getting mad, knowing it will never change, or move on and find someone who respects you enough to keep his word.  Right now you are unsure because its a small thing, but this sort of behavior from him, is only a glimpse of what his behavior would be about the bigger things.  Good Luck to you as I know how you feel, torn.
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Girls tend to be more emotional, and tend to do this more then guys. Why did u date her then?! I don't get it. I agree, but I am somewhat more mature then most of them, and older. I'm not a teen. It's a teen thing. How is it hs bs? It's not bs, nor is it hs! He's 19 duh. Stop being so old! But it is kinda young, and I agree it's over. But some need closure. Aint no harm in calling at least prank calling and reading the blog. I do it. I don't comment on it, but I read it. We never dated, he's just a jackass. I don't agree w a break though, nope, u either stay or break-up. A break is a break-up. Seee, ur a real asshole!!!!!!! It's ur s/n! Moron. I don't agree w it's a game, could be tho. But it is what the other person said. Death blow makes NO sense.
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Try appoloigizing, and asking what you did that made him so mad at you. Were you having a bad day and something you said sounded cruel? Was HE having a bad day? Still, nothing works better than a heartfelt appoligy.