I am 29 years old never tried anal sexI am scared too any help or suggestions.  My fiancee want me to do this so bad.  He said it will make me feel good.??????????????
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It's not that bad once u get used to it. If u don't use anything then once it goes in it will hurt for just a second. After that it is great. Tell your b/f to go buy anal ease or Adam and eve. @ the adult store. This will numb the butt so it will not hurt. (Sorry I work in an adult store)
77019
WOW  what is this.. this is terrible. open up loosen up . you'll be ok . every one has to have fun try new things explore you might enjoy it.
439390
it's normal, next time when you do it, use a lot of lube, lay on your belly, put a pillow under your belly to elevate your butt and keep your legs closed kinda tight, make him work to get it in, i find that once it gets in, it is easier, then i open up more for him,  i also use a bullet on my clit to keep my mind off the initial pain, if you do it this way then eventually you will learn to like it....i did  LOL
512216
i've had sex before and yes it does feel good but i warn you, wait! it's not a good idea right now while you're not married, you'll be giving yourself away to someone you don't know is your going to be husband. I'm not very proud of what i do but sometimes you get stuck in a rut that you can't get out of. if you like it too much you'll get stuck and then you'll have a greater chance of getting STD's. Even though i don't know you i beg of you as a friend, don't do it yet! you will regret it so much after you do. You will be sore, and yes you will bleed because you're a virign and you're not used to having something up your vagina. Let me ask a question.. are you ready to be a parent? think on that. but wait! don't do it!
648855
Well maybe your just not good enough for you to like giving them anal.Yep, read it just like I typed it.I repeat: maybe your just not good enough for you to like giving them anal.Maybe you just talk on line to 20 year olds who aren't really 20 all night when you should be perfecting your anal skills.What now? Huh, what are you gonna do?Are you gonna blame Dan for it? Like you do about the trench and the awkward position?Huh, Mr. Not Trusting Of The Sheep, what now? <3
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THIS IS NOT WHAT WE ARE DESIGNED FOR TO HAVE ANAL SEX. THE PURPOSE OF THIS BODY PART IS TO ELIMINATE OUR BOWEL MOVEMENTS. \n\nEVEN THOUGH SOME "STRAIGHT" PEOPLE ENJOY IT, DOESN'T MAKE IT RIGHT JUST LIKE THOSE WHO ENJOY RAPING, MOLESTING CHILDREN OR S&M.
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Anal sex does hurt a lot!  But it can also be very enjoyable for both of you.  Just make sure you use a lot of lubrication and be patient.  Start off slow, be gentle.  After a couple of times of enjoying it the gentle way, when it won't be as painful as it is in the beginning, you're bound to have anal sex fast, loud and rowdy.  Enjoy!
516832
Sounds like fun.  Hopefully you'll find a willing girl with awesome pits to let you do it.  I don't think it's weird, it's practically the same thing as a tittie f-uck.
314563
um this is really gross but try having a w'ank before sex so you arnt so excited...if you havnt had a long term girfriend its prob just lack of experience so dont give up and try not to worry...you will make a great lover one day ...more than i can say for a lot of the guys on this site!....also when you are doing it and you feel like you are about to come stop for a second to get yourself composed before you start again and maybe try just concentrating on her for ages before penetration....good luck you will be fine dont let it bother you.\nand you dont need some doctors drugs....
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Okay first use lots of lube and have him finger you first with one finger than with two to get you use to it or you could use a butt plug put it while you are having s*x than switch to an*l have him go real slow and just try to be really relaxed if you do it right it feels great. Good Luck and P.S. always try to be opened minded when it comes to s*x you never know what you just may like.
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Some like it, some don't.\n\nIt's like any sexual activity - some people really really like it, some find it just OK and for others it doesn't do a lot. It has a certain 'taboo' element to it (just wait for all the 'it's an exit not an entry' posts...sigh) which of course adds to the excitement it can bring.\n\nMany people have considered it, but are afraid because they think it will hurt, be messy or whatever.\n\nHere's a page might help you:\nhttp://www.sexinfo101.com/ic_anal.shtml\nEnjoy.
83896
From what I have read from your previous questions, you are 13? If so I do not think someone of your age should be on here asking these kind of questions. And if you are of a decent age, the fun part of sex is finding out with your partner new sexual positions, by experimenting. I think by asking to describe sexual positions you are inviting explicit answers for another reason other than sex tonight w/ your partner.
404150
OK, your boyfriend wants to have anal sex. Do you? If you are really wanting to try, good for you. Don't be self concious, no need for that. You should get over these feelings before you do it. Sure there's a chance of him sticking his co.ck into your a.ss and pulling it out with sh.it on it, but usually not. Hey, he's sticking it in your butt and this kind of stuff can happen. I have had anal sex with many women and I have only pulled my co.ck out once that it had a little sh.it on it. It's like no big thing. You just wash it off.\n\nBut one thing to remember, do NOT let him stick his coc.k into your vagina after he pulls it out of your butt. There is a lot of bacteria and you can get an infection from that in a place you don't want it.\n\nWhen you let him "do it", make sure that you have plenty of lubricant to make it hurt less. The first time will probably hurt, heck he's gonna stick his di.ck in your butt hole, but do it slowly. Hopefully, it won't hurt and you'll continue to enjoy anal sex with him or who ever. I enjoy anal sex whenever a girl wants it. And don't get embarrassed if he pulls out of your butt with a little poo on his member, it ain't no big deal. I'd think it would be more embarrassing for him to ask you to screw you in the butt.
122853
You first time can be painfull especially if he is not condsiderate.  It should get better but it does not feel good everytime. Some women don't even like it until their in their 30's .  Some never like it.  Women! Go figure.  Just try to relax and concentrate on your body and how it feels. Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself over it.
646955
I would suggest you keep it missionary style. Doggy style will only hurt more and that's something you should work up to.\n\nPlease be sure you are ready to have sex. You can never get your first time back and you will never forget it either.
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I have done it a few times.  My b/f totally surprised me.  Its crazy, wild, crossing that line but totally erotic.  There are seconds on pain then its something you cant explain.  Part of me feels that its not right but if its just the two of you and no one is getting hurt then why not.  You will think its just as erotic as she does!  I promise.....
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Sex, like so many other things is talked about more than done.  It is natural to be scared.  There are a lot of emotions involved and you need to have everything straight in your head before you leap into this.  Take your time and be choosey with your partner.  My husband told me once that there are two kinds of girls, the one you play around with and the one you want to take home to meet mama.  You me dear are definitely the latter.