All my friends think i give grate love addvice and every one is scared to ask people they like out so they aks me to do it for the. For exampal my friend %$@%!# likes this boy how has a brother in my grade and age she told me to go out with the boy she likes's brother and learn about the boy she likes and ask him out for her and i have a B/F and i am not sure what to do "please HELP me"
205004
Unless you want to date the yong man just Tell.  Her.  No.
590344
I've had the same exact problem! We are related. No we aren't just the question is sort of related to my life. I had a cool popular boyfriend before he was cool and I was shy. We didn't quite make a good couple but whatever... Maybe you should write a note to him and give it to him without his friends seeing it.
146786
No boy is worth messing up a friendship especially if she is your best friend.  Trust me, BEEN THERE- DONE THAT!. I dove in on one of my friend's bf's once and she hated me for 2 years in high school.  Then she finally forgave me.  We hated each other during two proms and a Senior Trip.  It was not worth it.  Instead...why don't you wait and see what happens with them...chances are it won't last long.  School romances rarely do anyway.  Then after they go their separate ways, like probably in a week or two....then try your luck.  Trust me...don't move in on your friends crush.
489057
maybe you are making it too obvious you like him, until you are older then your friends brother is off limits leave the guy alone, he already seems nervous and will lost likely be voicing his opinion to his sister.  \nand at the end of the day she will choose her brother over you think about that before trying to get envolved in something which is so complacated trust me your mate wont want you with her brother, cos she will want yous to go out and meet guys together.
144567
I think you should get to know the guy and not worry about your friends.  Your friends will learn to like him, and besides, think about this, ok:  The only reason your friends would act that way is if they are very insecure, and need everyone to fit a certain mold to be accepted.  People like that don't do well once school is over, because all molds are broken then.  It's good to get to know interesting people who aren't the way some think everyone should be.  I bet that weird guy is really going to do something awesome with his life when he grows up.  That's the way, I think life is!
134628
I think you like him as a friend because you two never went out together.\nreally, if he is too shy to ask you for a date maybe you should ask him.\nhe should have given you a gift for your birthday but he is too shy except when you are alone together. it is a sad, weak boy.\nanyway, you seems too young to make a final decision. \ntry to be friends with everyone, and sometimes bring the shy boy when your group is spending time together.\nhe wants to like you but too many people at school are saying wrong words.
210545
The problem I see here is that you, as well as me, are the kind of person who assumes too much and is always dreading to take risks because you wouldn't like other people (=not only guys) to dislike you or reject you.  If the game is ASSUMING then why don't you assume that he is as shy as you are and he just doesn't find the way to approach you.  Get rid of assumptions!  You won't go on him and tell him... 'Hey, I like you... no wait... I like you so much that I even think I love you..."  Nahhhhh!  If it is difficult for you to talk to guys they think of him as a girl (=don't laugh I mean it)  I also went to a gilrs school but it was for 3 years and besides I have a brother, anyway, IT DOES WORK!  Any time I wanted to tell something to a guy I thought 'ok he is the same of a girl because both are people'.\n\nThe obstacle here is the fact that you like him so pretend (=just pretend) that you don't like him and that you are going to go on ANYONE else... this way you won't be so nervous and it will be easier.\n\nOnce you talk then you can think on making your movements, you'll be more confident then... you might discover that he is shy too, or that he has the same feelings for you or that he just likes you as a friend (crossed fingers that not).  \n\nIn short,\n#1 Do not assume too much.\n#2 Take the risk.\n#3 Pretend that you don't like him and go on him.\n#4 Talk with him, know him, have fun.\n#5 What other people think is not yerr business.\n\n,-)
516955
me and my brother are 2 years apart and let me tell you it sucks when all of your friends end up dating your brother! it doesn't matter how many times the friends would say to me i promise it wont come between our friendship it always did,your friend needs to think about her friendship before she does any thing,at least talk to her friend first and see how she feels about her dating her brother if she really doesn't have a problem with it then go ahead but I'm telling you i have lost more friends because of my brother than any thing else..he would cheat on them and then break up with them and then they wouldn't want to be around me anymore because of him!
520699
Well I'm a girl but i think you should of asked the boy out yourself but i know that's pretty hard to do. \nBut just think about this if this boy does say yes what's next? I mean you dint even talk to him so try talking to him on Monday and then even though he knows you like him try asking him out yourself because it will make him happier to know that he wont have to go through your friend to get to you.
202189
I had a guy I asked out in the 11th grade. Only time I ever did it and the only reason I did do it is because he had been writing me letters and giving them to my friends. :/ Anyways. When I asked him he said " Oh if you insist " and smiled at me and said he'd love too. Sometimes a little humour and straightforwardness is your best option. Good luck.
417117
I know exactly what you are going through! I was always worried either of them were going to pull the question "Me or Him" or "Me or Her". Luckily I talked to my bff and she and I agreed on walking to school together and my bf and I walk home together, while she and our other friends walk home in an opposite shorter way home. If you end up doing something similar make sure it's even for both your bf and bff... my bf had basketball practice after school on Wednesdays so that also gave me and my bff more time together, while from 4:30-7:00 pm on Sunday nights I would go to church with my bf... so it was even and no relationship was broken... and my bff and bf didn't have to spend any time together!!
394833
Yes, I think your absolutely right about everything  you said that concerns you, your friend, and this guy. Just be glad that it wasn't you with this guy no matter how good he flirts or looks. I really feel for your friend because if she gives it up to him he's going to be gone like the wind soon afterwords. Hopefully things won't get that far for him and her, but if they do I hope that maybe she'll learn a lesson from it. You seem like a very smart girl to me. Don't ever let yourself be taken advantage of. Your worth something.
333501
Being a teenager is real awkward. Try not to worry about everyone else's opinion of you. If you like this boy ask him out.
484781
Don't worry about it until this person actually confronts you. It may not be what you think.  Then if they do confront you, just explain to them that that is not your preference and that you can still be friends.  As far as the guy, why don't you ask him out? :-)
85147
your avatar is cute! Now, if he is a butthead break up wit him. your friend shouldn'y of made u go out wit him if you didn't like him! Anyway, if S.M. did ask you out and if you like him, go for it! Good Luck! :)
626241
a friendly date?Sure why not,nothing wrong with friends hanging out.If you are interested in one of them and you have other things in mind and you ask them both out ,You could ruin your chances with either of them so be careful.You can only love one of them or else you are considered a jerk.
343476
I was in a similar situation with the guy that I'm with now, only we didn't go to the same school.  We were best of friends for a year and stuff then he started going out with my best friend.  They broke up and it was really hard on my best friend so I told her that I would never go out with him.  Yes, as foolish as it may seem, I had an amazing amount of feelings for him.  But I played along and said, "Haha, yes, we're like brother and sister."\n\nWell, long story short, we got past that [so I thought] and we started going out.  Then, he just randomly comes along one day and says "It's akward because we used to be like brother and sister." etc.  So, that ended, we were still friends and now we're "together" again, I suppose, though not exclusive.\n\nSee, boys are undecisive and it may take some time for them to realize their true feelings for you.  I think you are blessed to have such a good friend but, hon, you can't MAKE him like you.  Just be who you are, and that's what he loves you for, is being you.  Just give it time and maybe someday, he will like you in the way you like him.  If you really like him, you shouldn't tell him, so you don't make it akward between you two.  But, if the time comes along when you just can't take it and you NEED to tell him, do so.  But in the right way.  Just cherish what you have with him, because it's better than nothing.