i have been single for nearly four years and i am worried i will never find someone who is right for me
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no u will find him soon ... just dont run after it ... one day in spcial moment ur heart will tell you ...thats man loves me ...
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Start doing things for yourself.  Follow a dream, get a new hobby, find an activity you always wanted to try.  The key is to do something that you can feel good about doing for yourself, regardless of whos in or out of your life.\n\nIt seems you're thinking too much the guy , a guy  or having no guy.   Your life's about making the most of an opportunity to find and do what makes you happy.  People will come and go and when the right guy comes along, he'll  see how you're enjoying life and want to be part of that... not see that you are waiting for him and give up his life to be the center of yours. Hope this helps put things in perspective.
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Yeah, it does suck to be lonely but you are only 6 months out.  It could take a few years to find "the one".  Be patient.  Dont rush yourself.  Get involved in things where other singles are like church groups and that.  The right one will come along and when she does, she will love you for the man you are.
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Give it time. Get out and get back into things. It does take awhile, but can be done. I stayed single for over 2 years before I was ready to get back out there. Don't give up hope. When i thought i would never meet anyone again..I did. Your whole attitude will change. Make some new friends and try things that you never have. You will be able to show these new things to the kids too.
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go to yahoo personals, there should be somebody there for you.
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You are never going to find a PERFECT mate. Just one that is best suited for you..........\n\nGood luck!
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First of all,let me say this.In all the world their are millions of men out there,I am sure you have not met them all yet.Next thing,you are evidently not with your soul mate yet seeing that you broke up,that's not him,not the right one yet.When you meet that special someone,you nor he will even think about breaking up.Your life will be so wonderful you will feel joy from the top of your head to the tip of your toes.Remember when  your relation-ship starts to sink,let it sink and go out for a new boat.Don't try to force something that isn't going to work. And always,I mean always,in your life when a relationship or anything else doesn't work out for you,be extremely happy because what you are not seeing on this day is that there is always something better down the road waiting for you.Be excited because you haven't met that person yet and wonder who that person will be. Fate can be good to you if you keep your head up and keep those eyes and ears open. You will always find that true love when you are not looking.True Love will find you.Happens everytime.Now get up with that sad self of yours and fix your face,put on those nice clothes you have,go out to greet the wonderful world full of men just waiting on you to arrive in their world. There is someone out there that you haven't met yet who feels just like you.You will never meet this person sitting home and feeling sorry for yourself. And by the way,put a great big smile on your face.Your smile and happy hearted attitude will attract that special someone that will be eager to come into your life.No more whining and crying,go get dressed and get out there.Be Happy that you are rid of your (Nightmare),get prepared to meet the man of your dreams.
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I'd say your doomed.  You will wait and hang around this one in your mind perfect guy..and let the world pass you by.  Then one day you will be old and alone with a bunch of kids and no guy will want you..
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Sometimes, if you just wait, you will be waiting for a long time.  You see, love is one thing that does not necessarily always come looking for you.  I am 18 and i have found love; i have found my one soulmate with whom i am destined to spend the rest of my life.  I almost did not find her, because i was just waiting for love to come into my life.  Only when i started looking and showing interest did she come into my life.  The key is not to look for love in the wrong places, rather, look for it where you'll meet someone who you could imagine spending the rest of your life might be.  Don't go being desperate for love, however.  This will cause you worse heartache than being lonely.  Patience: when it is time, love will come to you; you just might have to help it along a little.  I am sure things will work out for you.  Good luck in love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Keep on dreaming!\nUnless you change your mindset, you will ask the same questions in 10 or 20 or 30 years again!\nIf you're only looking for the perfect match, you will never find it!\nIf instead you're looking for an interesting person to get to know, you will find your perfect match automatically!\nTake the search as the way to happiness without clinging to the ultimate objective! Much better chances for success and definitely this will make you a much happier person!
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No. Staying single for the rest of your life? Just imagine it.....you dying alone, watchign everyone out on the streets holding hands, sex...is this making snese? LOL. You need a special someone in your life. You just need to keep on searching or she'll come to you or he'll come to you or you'll come to them. I mean....if you're still pretty young in the mid age...sure, keep dating, it'll be fun for awhile,but then...you need to get serious because you're aging (no offense).....the worl dis about time. You need to hurry to find a speical someoen if u know what I mean lol
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no problems, took me a long time to find someone myself.  Just be happy with what you got, keep your eyes open, not only for someone but for that little click that just tells you it's right.  Be confident as well.  A nice guy will come around when the time is right.  Just don't make yourself paranoid while you wait.
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Single dating married only results in hurting someone.  It's not right.  Please, stay away from married men even if you feel desperately lonely.  You or someone else will be hurt in the long run, and it won't be a pretty sight.\n\nYou shouldn't "scare men" by the way you look or the way you carry yourself.  Whoever told you that was wrong.  Not everyone is to marry.  Some are to stay single.  The gift of being single is a great one!  Marriage isn't for everyone.  If you are single, don't worry about trying to find a mate for any reason.  It's not a big deal.  Besides, if you are destined to be married, you won't find him by looking.
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You'll never find love if you keep looking for it.\n\nStop trying so hard.\nKnow that God has a plan for you and He will bring you the one in His own time.\nJust have faith in Him.
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Maybe it's true that you haven't met the right guy yet.. but i always look for where i went wrong..is it the guys or me? if they were bad, u wouldn't have stayed that long with them.. so it's not entirely them.. U have to understand that there are steps to finding the right man for you...that's by knowing who u really are and what your looking for in a relationship.....most of us don't know it, but we want someone who's just like us in many aspects.\nNow lets go to the happy part.....huns i don't believe that anyone can make you happy if you're not happy yourself.. i always say that men are a source of happiness, but the main source should be me....if i didn't make my self happy, no one else will be able to make me happy.
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It could be because you just haven't found the right person yet. I know, I know, it sounds totally cliche, but I'm 22 and have a similar problem. The best advice anyone has given me is to just focus yourself and what you want in life and the right person will come along.
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You have to behave yourself and try not to be desperate! The right guy will come your way! Good luck!