ever since i started dating this guy there have been spiders around me all the time. he told me stories about his previous girlfriend and her dealing with people using roots to put curses and spell on people. lately he has been threatning to kill me and spiders are everywhere i go for these last 2 years. i have moved in another house and have another car and they are always in them both; he has never been so aggressive, i've known him since middle school; does anyone have any insight? is voodoo real?
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Magic, including voodoo, only works if the victim believes in it. If you believed his curses, you might start to subconsciously see signs of it, like these spider coincidences. If you don't believe in curses, they can't affect you. Unfortunately, you seem to think that these spiders are somehow connected to him. You've got to realize how silly that sounds, if you'll forgive my rudeness; nobody can control spiders. There's a good reason there are spiders in your new abodes; among other things, spring is a time when spiders are hatched and grow and feed on other bugs so you can notice more of them.\n\nOf course, if you find yourself believing in something, it's always hard to stop. In this case, it might be wise for you to try some magic of your own, whichever brand you prefer.\n\nStill, his death threats make me worry about more readily bodily harm for you.
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sounds like a spider to me I'd call the doctor first and he can tell you like if it is severe enough to go to the doc. If it was like a brown recluse then she will definately need to go. My husbands little cousin had the same thing happen to her and they had to cut out the infection. So just keep an eye on it and I'm sure your little one will be fine.\n\nAnd you are not a bad mother, it really makes me mad when people say stuff like that on here. If you were a bad mother you wouldn't be asking anyone, so you just keep doing what you are doing honey and forgot all those other people who are acting like kids on here.
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Touchy subject, and can I just say what a nasty you know what this person must be to be doing this to you!!!  In voodoo/hoodoo we don't believe in bad vibes coming back threefold...shall I do a spell for you?  \n\nI would personally try to keep your religion out of it if you can, and if you can't I would still try to keep yoru decription as vague as possible.  Just say you practice an alternative religion.  The details are no one's business.  And you have a right in this country to believe in what you want to believe...freedom of religion is what brought us here after all.  So, try and keep it as personal as you possibly can.  But I would definitely proceed with the harrassment process.  Good luck!
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Check the windows. they are getting in some where's. They maybe coming in at night and that's why you can't see them during the day. Maybe spiders are night animals....UGH\nI don't know I hate spiders too! Well at least it's a daddy long legs and not a black widow or something....
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what a unusual but very practical question, would not of thought this one up in a million years, you have put poise to alot of things the female sex install upon themselves lol. yes i am female yes i do these things and yes i am sooooooooo afraid of spiders, why????? i guess the way they move so fast, the way they hang on the webs all them legs, and they also want to share your bath. grouse.
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this family I know moved to a fifty acre place they bought, one night they noticed people around a fire at the lake, they called the police, they wouldnt go down there,there witchs. we dont mess with them. he asked them to leave, they wouldnt then, they came back.he called me. we went down there with our rifles and shotguns and they no longer CAN come back.. the evil bastards. well. actually they never left, true story. I am afraid of noone nor anything.when You die, the demons will drag you to hell. my brother is evil. I saw demons flying around his bed when I was four years old, there was a green light in the room, I screamed but no sound came out.
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Frank Castle can't date anyone! How is he supposed to take time away from his psychotic quest to take some girl out to dinner? Even if it is the lovely southern belle, Rogue. \n\nFrank's more likely to satifsy his "needs" with some girl he picks up in a bar and then never sees again than to have a steady.\n\nAnyway, Rogue would never go for Frank. He's too spooky without a hint of charm.\n\nRogue: So, sugah, what are y'all into?\nFrank: Vengance.\nRogue (arching her eyebrows): Anything else?\nFrank: Guns.\n<An uncomfortable moment of silence passes between them.>\nFrank: Bombs.\nRogue: Check, please.
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Any ghost can be evil not just female ones. Have they tried to harm you? If not then try talking to them, find out what they want. They may be trying to tell you something that will help you in life.
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I'm on your side, I don't mind them because I know they are more beneficial than harmful, at least where I live in the U.S. We only have 1 venemous spider in the North East.\nBut oddly enough I've seen many full grown brutish men scream and run like little girls when they spot a spider. \nMaybe it's the influence of horror films, nature shows. Maybe it's something about those gangly 8 legs, or the way the kind of catch you off guard.\nMy suggestion to anyone who's scared of spiders, read up on other household insects such as ants, roaches, ticks, fleas, mosquitos, and flies. You'll soon realize the spiders should be your friends.
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all of them are wrong.  its 3 spiders a year and the ones you eat are dead and just fall in. they dont harm anything because they are small. you cant avoid it and yes it includes people who vaccum their house everyday (which i dont see the point in doing)
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As a man, apologies to you, sister.  I believe it's all about control, and the Dark side that lies in us all, to a greater or lesser degree. Some man saw you, believed he could overpower you, and take what he wanted. Without a strong sense of control over ourselves, are we not animals?  Do dogs go through a dating ritual before mating? Of course not. Testosterone got the better of the S.O.B. who did this to you, his conscience didn't shout loud enough, and he believed he could get away with it.\nI hope the police do find him, and he is put where he is unable to do this, ever again.  My wife, as a young girl of nine, was axe-attacked by a double-murderer and left for dead. If anyone else did anything to her, the law could deal with them, then I would.
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Because males of web-weaving spiders must invade a female's web to mate, it's obvious that this can happen. In addition, there are some species that engage in web takeover and web stealing, this often involves eating the host spider or the host's prey.\n\nOne genus of kleptoparasitic spiders, the Argyrodes, routinely live in other spider's webs and steal prey.\n\nhttp://www.amonline.net.au/factsheets/red_spotted.htm\nhttp://www.americanarachnology.org/JoA_free/JoA_v12_n3/arac_12_3_0363.pdf\nhttp://www.cyberoz.net/city/sekine/zukax105.htm\nhttp://www.americanarachnology.org/JoA_Congress/JoA_v30_n2/arac-30-02-238.pdf
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If it were me I'd stick with you to make sure you are okay.  Even if it's just physical there is something there.  As far as him being creeped out, what is he 16?  If it's no strings and he's a prick he'll probably leave.  Good Luck and whatever happens hold your head up and be positive.
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Tonight, I was out with my 10 yr old and I was spraying some water on our plants. A toad came "running" out of his bush cover to sit in the spray. He was really liking it.  After a couple of minutes laughing at him, a spider crossed the walk about 4 ft away. That toad went on a beeline charge up to the spider. They sat about 4 inches apart - neither one so much as twitching. We froze and watched.  After 2 minutes, the toad pounced in! He tongue-flicked that spider and had a good meal.\nIt was a great moment to share and very educational for him. It cemented some of the things we have spoken about in the past about nature being brutal, but efficient and basically well-planned.\nGo forth and critter. \n\nIf the neighbors think you are "different" - then Thank GOODNESS. Because you are!
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I know we don't know each other, but 2 years ago, my sister was stabbed to death by someone whom she thought loved her. She bore him 2 children. She tried so hard to get away, even going 1400 miles away to Virginia. But he kept telling her things she wanted to hear & she invited him back in her life again. Now I lost a sister because of this monster. She kept saying that he changed & would keep trying to work it out. DIDN'T HAPPEN. Just be there & keep an eye out if possible for her. HE WILL NEVER CHANGE. I'm telling you, if you have to follow her to keep an eye her, if you think she's in danger, then YOU have to make the move. 'Cause when someone is in love with someone who is brutalizing them, they can't see. I hope this may help in some way, shape or form.....
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He's not gay, he's not cruel.\nHe's just doesn't think that a little spider is a threat that's all.\n\nAnother explanation, he was a spider in his past life....lol... just kidding.
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This turban guys is a walking time bomb, no pun intended.  He can't be trusted.  My wife used to work with one and he did the same thing.  He would even go outside for lunch and feed alkaselzor to the pidgeons and when they'd die he'd kick them and say "F***ing infidel birds!"  Don't trust this guy.  I'd give him a good old fashioned ass kicking just to let him know you're not going to sit back and watch him stink the place up and intimidate everyone.\n\nGood Luck!