I met this guy in gr4 I really liked him then. I left, then I never saw him again =(…until last year he recognized me and I really liked him again! I plan on writing him a note and slipping it in his locker (but I don’t know wat to say) or I’ll wait till graduation to tell him (cuz im too scared of getting rejected + I’m pretty sure he likes these three other girls)
202532
well look i think u should really tell him because if not than u would all way's say to your self i should have told him that i like him.
316321
If he wrote it was too bad you didn't go out, he so likes you.  Call him and see if he asks you out.  If you really do like him, go for it.  If he doesn't ask, see if you can get up the courage to ask him.  He'll probably say yes!!
133531
I had the same problem as you, I was 3yrs younger then this guy at school & i totally loved him & every1 thought he liked me but he never made a move & then graduated & i never saw him again. Its heart breaking! Eventually with time you realise that u dont see him anymore and that he must not have felt the same because he never made a move. Hopefully you'll meet someone soon who's heart you steal away and you feel that same back. It unfortunately takes time. Try to hang out with friends & avoid lovie-dovie movies! Wish you all the best - i know your pain! :)
309839
How do you know he'll stop talking to you when you say you like him. That happened to me. Well he knows now. My friends told him because he was guessing who I like and himself. My friend is a honest person. Just tell him write a note and type it. So he dosn't know you did it. Don't say it was you. Or just sit there and enjoy the moment. Thats what I do every time when I'm with the person I like.
555320
Do you like him? You need to start talking to him and be friends. Since I am shy, I would get one of my friends who know him to introduce him to me when we are all together. You could also approach him and introduce yourself as a friend of one of your friends. Find a common interest (sports, activities) and start up a conversation. This should get you guys talking, and then you can move further. Good luck!
535268
Of course this guy likes you.  He's gotta be awfully shy to not move forward with you even when you say you like him.  I assume his comment was an attempt at humor.  Why don't you take the lead and tell him you want to date.  He'll be overjoyed I guarantee it.
458418
Take a deep breath, it will all be fine, if he's not interested big deal. He's not going to walk around telling everyone you asked him out and he turned you down. You know what my personal moto is- Glory to the brave. When ever I want to ask out a girl or approach a girl and I start to fear rejection I say to myself Glory to the Brave and do it. I've got rejected before, but in a few days you'll never remember and I've also gone out with some beautiful girls, and that wouldn't have happened if I didn't have the balls to make a move
231480
What I would do is something similar to everything that got said before. If you aren't already, be friends with him, get to know him, let him get to know you. If you still feel the same, and he hasn't already done so, you should ask him out. As awkward as it would seem. As a guy that's been asked out in the past myself, I can personally say that this might be the best course of action for you, and maybe een for him.
507720
The best way to resolve this question is to just out of nowhere talk to him. Ask him how is he doing. Or just say hi and once he says hi back just take it slow. If he likes you he will want to continue the conversation. But sweeti you are still young and these things will come and go. I went through the same thing when i was in 8th grade. I liked this boy who was a freshman but i was shy to talk to him. After about 2 weeks of being gutless i braved myself up and talked to him. We set together at lunch and talked the whole lunch hour and at the end of that time i realized that all he was, was a crush. I got over him and i moved on. Don't rush into anything sweeti your leaving yourself open for a let down. And it sucks being hurt. Let him notice you. That is the easiest way to do it. Good Luck and i wish you a very bright future. Go for the gold and stay in school.
624347
♥ I think you should do the note.  Totally.  (Just make sure it falls into the right hands!)  If he likes you as a friend but not as a heart-felt loved one, it's okay, you're still comrades.  If he does like you, jubilation!!!  Or you can ask him for his e-mail, adress, phone, all that stuff, and gather your courage for the time when you feel ready to tell him if you don't think you're prepared just now.  Good luck..!
445860
believe me, i've been in your shoes, and guess what? i told him that i liked him, unfortunately he didnt like me back, but at least he knew how i felt/feel about him.\n\ndont be shy\njust go for it
239676
i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
523356
Just say "I like you (insert guy's name here), and I was just wondering if you like me too?" Don't try to be fancy or anything. Just say it straight out. If you can't say it to his face, then write him a note.
313483
Okay, well I would not ask him out right away, but I would write on a piece of paper the simple words: "I like you". If you do not have the courage to give it to him right away...just wait. If he says "yes", GREAT! If he does not...Well there is someone out there for you. I hope this helps you (oh ya, DO NOT GO OUT WITH HIS FRIEND!!!!! It will make him feel bad, and it will just delay things!)
217133
he said yes! no matter what he thinks of his girlfriend, he said yes. you do however, need to tell him you only want to go as friends, if you didn't already. and if he likes you, you need to respect his gf and not go ANY further than friends. And if he does just want to go as friends, what a cool guy. Have fun! And good job for asking a guy!
182279
if the guy likes you at all then he will "steal" glances at you.  if you catch him lookin, ask him how his day is going.  this game that girls and guys play is sorta messed up , but so is life.  i like this girl at school, and i've been afraid to introduce myself to her for the past year.  until last week, we started talking about mussolini in the hall way.  she's smart, and cute.  but i'm still afraid to ask her out because we are both going to school.  school should not be the dating game.  but to answer your question: if a girl came up to me and challanged me to a game of paintball, i would be 99.999% likely to say "your on".  just be careful, and let the brain in your cranium do your thinking.
156154
I had a HUGE crush on this guy named Gary. I'd use any excuse I could to talk to him...but of course I'd never actually admit to liking him. Somewhere in my diary is the sentence "I think about him all the time, but until he starts thinking about me all the time, we're not getting anywhere."\n\nWe had a tradition in my school called senior slave day, where students would bid actual real money to get the (non-X-rated) services of a senior that day. Of course I "bought" Gary. Poor guy. I made him dress up as a woman (and you know, his bulge showed up MUCH better in a dress *drools*) and carry my books around all day. Luckily he had a good sense of humor and took it all in stride.\n\nWe never did actually date or anything. I think he just put up with me following him around because he was a nice guy. Eventually I realized the obvious when he sat me down in the library and offered to give me a bag of clothes his family didn't need anymore. He eventually graduated and went into the navy, leaving me to spend the next year obsessing over this weird possibly suicidal guy for some odd reason.