Why is that people can't stand/not like their mates ex's? The concept is rather stupid but we still do it anyway. What do you think?
209817
he used to beat on her up until the day that i found out and went and beat on him...and for everyone else it's because we hate to think about any one having the one we're with either in the past or in the future
504989
what your friend did to you was horrible. I think it's really up to you what you want to do from here- do you want to confront them and have it all out, or would you rather just get away from the situation before it consumes you? Either way, your friend doesn't deserve to be your friend anymore so i would forget about her and move on, clearly she's a pretty low person for wanting your ex.
253778
Using someone to get over another is not a good idea. You can't expect someone else to make you happy, that is something you have to be responsible for.
322654
I wouldn't, because someone is bound to get jealous. Jealous people get angry, and angry people start fights. I'd rather be happy with one than fighting with two or more.
665087
I dont know why, but it's correct.... But when you realize how important and great that sth was, then you just can&#92;t stand the pain.....   \n\nIt is that people are never happy with what they have. They'll always ask for more coz they won't appreciate the beaty of what they have. In this way, we ruin beatuful relationships/friendships/and more, just  because we want sth better......
203160
Nice one mate. Sadly, racism is never going to end. As a species, we are far to negative and we'll always (sometimes without knowing it) find something to dislike about our fellow man. It's too easy this far down the line to hate. The love was lost when we began.
476795
I agree with the previous answer..I dont at all...however, my ex husband LIVES on it. sooooo\n\n\n\nmaybe thats why he is now my EX...hmmmm
160169
Absolutely 100%.  I dated a guy who used to constantly say that his ex was a "psycho".  In fact, him and his friends didn't even call her by her first name...they just called her "the crazy b*tch".  After we broke up guess what my new nickname was....
161766
No, you're not the only one. I don't understand people who are clingy and possessive in relationships--or once the relationship is over, can't cope with the breakup and start acting like stalkers. Jealousy is strictly for losers.
90876
NO, ONCE AN EX ALWAYS AN EX! TAKE IT FROM EXPERIENCE TRIED THIS TO MANY TIMES IN THE PAST. IT NEVER WORKS OUT. HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
156251
I think it would be OK to keep even if it did remind you of your Ex... no matter how good or bad the relationship ended the consideration of you keeping something or not means to me that that "thing" reminds you of a good time. I think even bad relationships have good moments. I am divorced and I still have a few things that remind me of the good times with my ex.
253637
Having been on both sides of the "ex" fence, I can say with assurance that some females simply cannot grasp that the man they are with can be with someone after her, and some females simply cannot grasp that the man they are with was with someone before her. (Men do it too, it isn't a gender issue, it is a maturity issue.)I was married to a man who currently has a show on A&E! I have to listen to his "woman" tell lies and take credit for my children, and guess what....I hate it. On the other side, I have an ex-boyfriend whose current whateversheis  feels duty-bound to berate me for my conduct in situations that she was not privy to. All I can say for sure is that ultimately, YOU are responsible for YOUR conduct, and while losing your patience is understandable, it is probably better to always take the high road. Additionally, as an often attacked, but never bested ex, I can say without exception that a soft answer always turns away wrath, and ignoring small children(or adults acting like two-year olds) tends to put a stop to immature behavior. (On the practical side, a good log to document another's constant bad behavior goes a long way in court and should always be used.)
482703
When I was single I enjoyed it to an extent, but then I got into a relationship that I loved. We broke up about a month ago and I don't like it. I'm right there with ya, so I understand your pain. I don't think its unnatural to hate being single if you have had good experiences while in a relationship.
564853
you have a boyfriend and you want your so called friends approval? sorry i don't get it, if he's your boyfriend and there your mates how come they don't know him and have only seen a pic. my advise get new friends. i could never in a million years tell my friends that their  boyfriends weren't good looking even if that's what i thought, and i would never tell them that they could do better unless he was been horrible to her. true friends accept each others partners and even if your not that keen you pretend for their sakes. Also your the one who is with him not them and like i've said before looks are'nt everything.
519455
never knew people didn't like him.  My EX now hates him b/c my current husband likes him.
270439
It's human natural to be jealous. \n\nI remember one time when my ex-gf was always hangin out with this boy in school, although i know they're clean, but still I don't like it, I'm kinda pissed.
104019
Yes you're right. People always get jealous for some reason or another rather it's over a physical quality or material possession. Either way it's dumb. Everyone is different and we don't all possess the same things so it's best to just be grateful for what you do have. Hating someone for what they have is a waste of energy and it's not going to change anything.