what do lesbians find in each other? my girl friend asked me this and i thought i'd just put it out here for you girls to answer.
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well im bi and to tell you the truth it feels better when a girl touches me then when i guy does. i love when my gf touches me but when my ex bf would touch me i wouldnt feel anything. i dont know why this is but it is.
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There are plenty of lesbian and bisexual women who are attractive. I know I have ran across my share of unattractive lesbians, but I could say the same thing about men and straight women.The only offensive part of your questions is the term "lesbos."
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If your a lesbian and she is not be careful it may just be horse play and nothing meant by it on her part the only way to know is to ask her if she is and how to find love as a lesbian be patient it will find you
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You are not lesbian at all. You just get attracted towards girls for their looks for the time being but not forever....
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You are making a faulty generalization. No all lesbians use dildos. Some do not want penetration of any kind.
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Would it be so terrible if you did become a lesbian?  You are what you are.  Better to be true to yourself, don't you think?
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I must admit its something that baffled me as a lesbian would obviously have no interest in the guy :0) I guess its more to do with it being more than one woman involved.
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I understand where you are coming from.  That is totally rude of them .  It gives all Lesbians a bad rap because of the holier then thou ones.  I can only say that maybe somewhere in their past life they were dealt a bad rap themselves by men, but not all men. You seem to be fine gentlemen and I as a lesbian applaud you.  I have many guys as friends we have enormous fun.  I love people, no matter what their sexual orientation may be.  Life is to short to be so mean and nasty,  Next time honey, that a lesbian is mean or nasty don't take it personal, its her way of showing her ignorance and lack of self-esteem.\n\n                                   Your al-right
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It's a little difficult to tell just from your description, but from first instinct, I would say no, she's probably not a lesbian. Girls like to have physical intimacy with their friends, not in a sexual way, just to feel close with someone who supports them and who they love, again, in a friend way. I know it may seem odd to you because guys typically feel weird being too close, but think about the way you feel about your friends or teamates. You know you can depend on them to help you out, right? And that if you're in trouble, they'll have your back. And even if you don't need help, they'll be there every day just to be your friends. You probly punch each other around or hit each others fists when you meet up or whatever. Girls are just different. If you're picking up a vibe from other things, well, you may want to talk to her about it. She may just be experimenting, in a very small way. A lot of girls do, especially high school and college. It doesn't necessarily mean they are gay. In your girlfriend's case, it's probably nothing to worry about. It doesn't even sound like experimenting. I'd let it go.
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Sarah,\nThere are lesbians who have romantic dates, intelligent conversations, own their homes, work, have children, members of the PTA -- many of us grow up and settle down with life partners.  We have the same issues as any other couple -- irregardless of sexual orientation.  Kids get in trouble at school -- we have teacher/parent meetings. \n\nThose who are in it for the sex or just that in it for the sex.  Unfortunately there are GLBT persons who think this is all fun and games -- and it's not.  They haven't grown up yet.
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The only way to find out is to take small steps toward experimenting.  Take some time and get to know some girls that you know are bi or lesbian.  Hang out with them see what happens.  If you are unsure about that then just go hang out online at a place like anywebcam.com and get to know some of the girls on there and see if it interests you.  There is no harm is looking or even trying.
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This happened to me 17 years ago. I was in high school and there was this beautiful woman named Jennifer. Her mother was a teacher at our school and she was prom queen.. We use to stare at each other for days. One day she gave me a picture and wrote on the back. " I'm glad I finally found someone like me". She never told me what it meant :( . I think she wanted to tell me she was a lesbian but couldn't because of society. I was openly Lesbian in High School.. Now days have changed and maybe she will tell you. Try to mustard up the guts to ask her to do something with you. Then maybe you can get closer and be in the situation to ask her how she feels about lesbians...
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I worked with a lesbian who has an identical twin. The twin has NO interest in women. The lesbian has NEVER been with a man. She swears that its a choice, not genetics. Makes sense to me.
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No -- I am not lesbian but I think that if I were lesbian I would regard transsexuals as a sort of man. There are a lot of men who go for transsexuals and some hetero women do, too.
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I think all women are a lil bi-curious i could be wrong... I am bi-curious but don't have the guts to go all the way... The only porn that turns me on is lesbian porn... Ask her about it.
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you could be a lesbian if you want to ''do things'' w/ girls but you're actually normal. guys look at guys and girls look at girls. it's all normal! We all just wonder what it would be like to be him/her. but if you might have unexplainable feelings for girls then you might be a lesbian. but there is nothing wrong w/ that. gays, lesbians, and bisexuals are people too. we should not judge other people who just like the opposite sex or both sexes.
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Well I'm one of those fags (bundle of sticks)!!  The girl sounds awesome by the way, and I just want to ask you (since your obviously an expert when it comes to woman...so not!) do you know the real reason why straight girls associate with gay men?  They know that a real man is secure in his manhood to not get hung up on the whole "who she hangs out with" concept.  That may however be to hard for your pea size intelect to wrap around so looks like there is just no hope for you.  This girl is just way to much of a woman for you to handle so I would just leave her to the professionals, and step aside cause your a being a road block.