if he says that my sister is hotter than me, is he cheating? Or does he want to? Should i leave him for his sexy brother (i don't want to.)
207252
no, it doesn't mean that he is cheating on you or that he wants to. but it does mean that he's a a$$hole. if he's your boyfriend he should never tell you that someone else, especially your sister, is hotter than you. get rid of him. the guy screams loser.
314307
Now does he say "Wow she's pretty!" or does he say "DAMN!!! lokk at that girls butt" If he says the former, well than maybe you should lighten up a lil' bit.  He compliments you too, and obviously thinks your something special.  If he didn't he wouldn't want to be exclusive with YOU.  If he's fun to be with and he's nice to you than your insecurity is not justified.  Take the time to enjoy yourself and focus on the good things, instead of the tiny bad stuff.  If you find it still bothers you open the lines of communication and let him know
520455
Stop listening to your sister and start trusting your own judgement.  If your man is true to you, you'll know it by his own actions.  If you have too many opportunities to be unsure of what he says, that gut feeling is probably right, and if you get to that point, you don't need proof, you just move on.  Someone who makes you wonder repeatedly, isn't giving you what a relationship is supposed to be about. If you have no reason to doubt him, you'll feel that too.  Stay in touch with your sister, but if she's an instigator and frequently negative, tell her you don't want to hear that stuff and if she continues with it, hang up.  You only get one family.  Don't shut your sister out but just don't buy into gossip or games, and learn to trust in your own judgement.  It's usually the best guide.
286063
I say go for it...unless you know your bro is going to completely flip out, in that case I would run it by him maybe first other wise he will cause a huge family scene and you do not need the drama...it will more than likely turn the hot guy away!
329446
are you saying that this is your x's brother?!?! if so then you need to find another guy. im pretty sure there are other guys out there! why do you want to be that kind of girl who comes between two brothers? come on grow up and instead of knocking on the door down the hall to find a new guy try going down the block at least, not two  guys that live in the same house and who are blood related
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It's very hard to read your question but what I got from it was that your sister called her boyfriend who had one of her friends over there alone and so she thinks he's cheating, am I right? If so then I have a question, does she know for sure? If she doesnt then I think she needs to talk things out with her boyfriend if he is cheating and she for sure knows that then she needs to dump his a** and her friend too!!!
437384
Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
632888
Why does he have the ability to send you messages?  I think you just want attention.  This is the 3rd posting about the same topic!  I think you just want someone to ask you/prove that you are hot!  get over yourself!  And the important question is, "What is wrong with you?"
424214
No your not being to drastic, if he would  make a pass at your sister then he will make a pass at anyone. once a cheater always a cheater. and even if he promises to change how can you ever trust him.
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H E L L yea you should tell her.  I mean MY GOD it's bad enough that you slept with the guy, that shows how much you care for her, but to allow her to marry someone that obviously doesn't care for her.  What kind of sister are you?  I wish I knew you personally because I would personally kick your a s s  and tell your sister.
517676
don't trust his sister. Ask his friends. I hope everything works out for you.
618985
My girlfriend says he is much sexier than me.  Weird huh?
105099
Nope nope nope, what the heck would he even want with you, you are a child in his eyes. Sorry hard cold truth can hurt. Your sister has a small chance but even that is small, most guys in HS, seniors wouldn't date someone your age except for one thing and one thing only. Remember they are much closer to adulthood than you are, and can also get in legal trouble if they did do anything with you. Forget about him and stick to guys closer to your own age.
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He is definitely a cute guy.  I'm in my early 20's, how old is he?  My older sister said she thinks he's super sexy.  Then she said she wondered if that was any different than when grown men make comments on young actresses.  I don't think it's any different.  But anyway, haha, all my sisters and I think he's sexy.
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Uhhh why does it matter if he is short? If you cared for your sister and she was happy with him, why would you hurt her and break them up??? There is nothing wrong with being short, especially if he treats her good and they like or love each other. I think you need to not worry about who your sister dates so much. And if she knew that you would break them up, i can image she would be to happy with you.
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I am not going to lie this is bizarre! Honestly though it could work out pretty well and everyone could be satisfied with the outcome. \n\nFor that to happen you are going to have to express to the guy you like what is going. Be upfront and tell him that you are not interested in his brother and you want to pursue something with him. Then he got a choice, either live by an unspoken code of not dating your brother's girl(since he has a crush on you, you are his girl) or have fun with you. Chances are though if you don't say nothing, things will stay the way they are now.
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I cannot agree or disagree with him.  I was not present during all of those 4 to 5 months that the couple was dating.  He says he never promised her to get into a serious relationship, but did he ever tell her that?  Did he just lead her on for the sex?  Did she ever ask him what his intentions were?  Did she just assume that because they were having sex that the relationship was serious (or would lead to more commitments)?\nAnd what business is this of yours (unless the woman was your sister)?\n... and don't you just hate it when somone answers a question with a bunch of questions?