my mom found out i shave down there and she had a fit abou it.  she said only sl*ts do it.  im 13 and think i should be ablee to to it  if i want.
200415
Your mum grew up in a different era.  What is right for you is not necessarily what was right for her.  Understand that she can't understand why you'd want to do that.  Agree to differ.
603243
How old are you? If you are still a teenager early 20s you could start to grow more facial hair.If not-who cares most women like men clean shaven or with just a mustache anyway.
255798
well..to be honest waxing, laser and electrolysis hurt sooo  much i am not surprised she refuses them. she is also right about the shaving..I shaved once and regretted it forever..ever since that i wax,it does hurt but only for 30 minutes max. and then its nice and smooth for 3 weeks without the problems of shaving..and its worth it\ntalk to her and convince her that its less of a hassle if she waxed and hopefully she will try it..but a note of warning: make sure its done properly the first time or she will never do it again if its too painful or if she has to go over it again..and if she is not convinced then stop the oral for a while till she accepts waxing
275064
Trustt me, its normal. If you haven't reached puberty yet, then you still have more growing to do, so it should be ok.
92133
If you shave that area don't do it cold man! ALWAYS shave after you get out of a hot shower. Your pores are open and if you use a good lather like collgate or gilette followed by an alcohol after shave you will have no problems. Hey man, I'm 36 with the face smoother than a babies bottom after a good shave. Trust me, I know this one bro.
352155
if you have stubble or fluff then shave, its up to you.
471325
If I have someone "special" in my life, then I make sure I am nice and smooth everyday I don't like the person to know I grow hair on my legs or underarms. But as far as "down there" I like having it nice and tidy but not completely bare, I once heard that completely bare looks like a inappropriate, under-aged little girl before puberty so if someone likes that, then I think there is a problem about them. If you understand, so I keep some hair there.
222883
It depends on how close you are to them. I myself have some unwanted facial hair, and being a female, I had all my best friends suggest waxing, bleaching, whatever. It hurt me the first time said something to me, but only because I thought she was trying to tell me she was ashamed to be seen with me if I had my hair up in a pony tail. Try it out if you want, but don't make it about you. Try saying you only brought it up to save her/him the embarrassment later. Personally, I never did anything about my manly side burns. Mainly because they aren't as bad as some people made it out to be. Although the waxing is still under debate. And the fact that I am so sick of society telling ME what is wrong with ME instead of taking a look in the mirror. Anyways, Good luck, and remember not to let it sound like you are ashamed of this person. =)
181157
i was also into self mutilation and i used to cut myslef too.  i also have my reasons to why i did it. best way i think is to talk to someone you are close to. you are too young for this type of thing.
447091
You shouldn't do that unless you're competing.  I do; however like a man shaved down there.  Makes things much more pleasant for a girl.
64031
STUPID UGLY GIRL. I BET U R HAIRY. I EVEN BET THAT YOU CANT FIND A SHAVER IN YOUR HOUSE BECAUSE YOUR MOM IS A HORRO* SO ANY WAY SHE WOULD GET A FUC* FROM EVRY BODY SHE WANT. YOUR DAD DONT HAVE ANY THING IN HIS DONG AND I BET YOU HIS LOOK LIKE 40 YEARS OLD VIRGI* GUY. SUCKERRRR
80363
Ok, I'm not a guy but I think it would be nasty for a girl to have hairy legs! I know how you feel though, shaving your legs every dam day does get pretty old!
276275
if you're only 13, don't worry too much.  puberty will take care of a lot of that.  working out excessively might injure you, and won't have much effect at your age.  try just cutting down on junk food, walking, and playing sports that you enjoy.\nit's cliche, but everyone has awkward phases.  don't go to any extremes to try and look a certain way, but good exercise and good food always help.
201630
hey, from my point of veiw(mans point of veiw) if im getting it im happy shaved waxed or wee bit. so do whatever is best for you(the wax thing kinda makes me think it would hert) and i wouldent want anyone doing that for me. 0/o
343439
don't worry about it, thats normal back when i was in high school couple of my friends didn't have any, you should be lucky though because you don't have to shave every morning or every other day.most men don't even have hair even when they are like in their late 20's or early 30's.
472669
Try asking if you can It gets really ichy when growing back and women get reactions the first couple of times at east some do and it become very irritating with little shaving bumps which u can buy stuff to help from that happening try talking to her more about it and come to some compromise..Tell her u won't do that if it's not at least trimmed.
668937
Wow, kids and razors.  \n\nDoes your mother know?  go tell an adult ASAP.\n\nIf you are an adult, God help us.