I am 16 years old and met this new boy who packed to our apartment. He disvirgined me, tellinig me that if i could not do so now, i'll find it difficuld delivering a baby when the time comes. After he finished, he told me to be comming to him so he'll be doing it to me so my part won't dry. He also persuded me to be swallowing his sperm that its helps to refresh girl skin and body. But I letter find out that those poeple who do it in the film never swallow it, they spert it off after their show with it. And My friends in school are always saying that I am behaving like am pregnant.
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Find a woman you trust to teach you the "Birds and the Bees"\nThe boy you are talking about , took advantage of your immaturity, ignorance, and complacency in learning to protect yourself.
308335
Your "boyfried" has other, much more serious, things to be doing and taking responsibility for right now.  At 18 he's an adult with a family of his own - why would you even consider dating him?!  Is this what you want for your own life - a guy who has a baby to you then is off to the next 15 year old?  I doubt this will remain a friendship - if it does encourage him to support the baby and it's mother as he should.  Get YOUR priorities in order!!  You deserve much better!  Figure out what you want from life, work hard in school to get it, and stay focused.  Boys at this stage will mess up your goals much more than help them!  Good luck to you and God bless you.
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Well..I'm glad to hear that your not pregnant. If it was my little brother I would help him out in every way possible. I would be a little disappointed that he got a 12 year old pregnant,but I think my little brother would be a great dad.....not that I want him to be....but anyways!!
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Your friend is absolutely wrong. Of course, YOU will not be giving birth, old chap! But your little DNA carriers will(hopefully!). And even if you were more frequent in the use of your self-contained entertainment kit, you'd be none the worse for it. Just be sure you stay clean. But for all's sake - keep off public spaces during the act!
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Be careful, honey. We always put our best foot forward to get what we want ... then things change once we've got it.\n    Here is a wake-up call from an expert. Older men know that our society raises girls to be passive. We know that you probably played house when you were a little girl. We know that you desperately want to leave the nest and that you are seeking your own identity. We'll tell you that you know older men are better providers, we offer more security, we make better lovers because we know how to respect and appreciate women.\n    Knowing this ... we create an illusion of independence just for you. We'll give you a little money and ask you to pay some of our bills  or deposit it in our account while we're at work, we'll treat you real nice and tell you how beautiful and mature you are, we'll let you demonstrate your maturity by allowing you to clean our house or do our dishes because you love us. Pretty soon you'll be begging to get in our bed - because this act allows you to confirm your independence, womanhood, and desirability. We'll give you lovin like you've never had before ... then we disappear before your pregnancy becomes obvious so we can chase other 18 year old girls - and that's when you discover\nyour independence was just an illusion and reality sets in.\n    Your pregnant, we're not there to support you like you thought we would be, and if we are still there we resent it.\nWe start breaking down your self-esteem and confidence by emphasizing your immaturity. And then it gets worse from there.\n     Like i said - it's ok to play around if ya want - but don't let us pull the wool over your eyes. Hopefully, you now recognize your own vulnerability and will proceed with caution.
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sex isn't just an act there are emotions that will go along with being with someone in this way . If he really loves you he will wait dont comprimise your morals  your only a virgin once once you have you cant go back  yes you can remain from having sex but your so young sex will always be there. i dont know him  but the guys i dated will tell you what ever it takes to get you into bed the good ones wont pressure you    i know  its hard  we have all been there   also if you happen to get prenant are you really ready for  all that respnsiblity  it will change your life .  some people are more mature than others at this age  just write down your thoughts  maybe seeing it on paper will help you decide    go talk to girls your age and get there input the ones that have babies on just the ones that have been through this stuff   you said you have morals and goals    if you are a religious person  go talk to a  teen  counselor than can help without judging  you . and if your parents  change their mind and decide to press legal charges against him because of his age  prison isnt going to be a place for him    dont risk  doing that to him     even if you dont want them to they can still override  and go to the law    i'm  not trying to scare you  just want you to get all the  facts before you make the decision   i wish someone would have told me about all the emotionally things that go along with sex    i have been with several  guys  when i was your age  i'm 20 something   and i still have  emotions from my first time  and  the times after  that.  there is so much life to experience  take it and run but be carful.
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I love this question!  I read in RedBook that swallowing after oral sex can help you conceive.  I know you are probably skeptical, but...  The article was written by a female OBGYN.  The idea is to help you body get accustomed to your husband's sperm.  Your body treats sperm like any other foreign substance in the body and will attack it.  By ingesting the sperm your body may be less likely to attack it thereby increasing your chances of conception.  Tell your husband he can thank me later.  As far as I am concerned that is the finest article ever published in a women's magazine.  I should have stolen it when I had the chance!
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It depends on your age.  Teenaged boys or very young men are not usually looking for their life partner, they are looking for experience.  I had a lot of this problem as a teenager/young woman also.  It is not your fault that young men do not know how to behave, especially when they already have a girlfriend.  You just have to tell them, "Just because you don't have any loyalty to SoandSo, doesn't mean I walk all over my friends."  And if they are nasty, you could add, "Besides even if I didn't care, you would be the last man I'd consider."  Some young women exude a confidence and a sexiness that just cannot be helped.  It isn't your fault that these boys don't know how to control their mouths or libidos.
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No sweetie-its not. Its totally natural. Its better to do it youself if you are really young that become intercourse and becoming pregnant and ruining your life.
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I think its because parents are so embarrassed about sex. I think the boy probably was cool with it until everybody started telling him it was bad. How would you like to tell everybody every little detail about your sex life?
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I think he just wants to spread his lil seed everywhere..  does he financially support his kids?  If so WOW 4 would be alot to pay. Can he afford to have another to support?  I would stay on the pill and force him to use condoms.  You don't want to be a single mother and not get any financial support from him..   Be careful..
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Men like this because the feeling is very intense....and they like to watch the girl swallow.\nIts not bad for your health to swallow(only if your bf has been tested...never swallow if you're not sure its safe)but...if you don't like to do it,then don't!He needs to accept that....
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i am totally shocked that you are actually having to even ask if this is normal. That poor daughter of yours!! Shes a young girl who is suffering with extreme tirdness and unbelievable pain and yet u ask if this is normal??Tell u what. re read what ur question was until u eventually come to the same conclsion that most other will come to. Im not going to even justify such a qestion with an answer. Bet shes having a great childhood(NOT!)Shame on u!! I am disgusted u put ur daughter through so much. ....\n\nI have now just read some of your other questions and on one of them you say your are 20 years old(in the question regarding your SO CALLED wax experience. You are saying to us that u have a 14 year old daughter.......oh really??? So u were 6 when u gave birth to her.....were u??? U TOTAL FRUITCAKE!!!!!!!!!! No doubt there are a whole bunch of online readers thinking the same.weirdo!!!!!
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yeah thats true..if you make fun of how small it is, etc...they'll make sure that they push it back in before your in they're sight!! but just do that if they don't listen when you when you explain to them how disturbing it is for you!!! it is a lil weird you must admit! and how old are your brothers!?
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for myself I my bofriend for being supportive and having alot of energy in him although his 4 yrs.younger than me he always try to make me feel young. He says age doesn't matter babe, what matters is that we share a child together and that this baby was created by the love we have for each other. And honey your all the women that I need. we always have our wrestling matches and of course he wins. but it's the fire that keeps on burning that makes a relationship keeps going.
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I did for my first time and i got pregnant so it sucked. I was to young to keep my kid so that was shitty so just wait cause if u do get pregnant its hard to keep the baby and to give him up
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no one would know the answer to this question.  the real question is ,why are you acting like an idiot????  Letting some little boy use you is going to cut your teen years short and believe me, you will be home taking care of a baby with no HS degree and he will be out impregnating other little girls.  Enjoy being a teenager and wait until someone cares about you before you risk being poor and husband- less for the rest of your life.  Little boys tell you anything to have sex with you, it means absolutely NOTHING!!!!!