My Mom takes of me but my dad is rich and i want a sweet 16 and im 11
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Your Mom takes care of you.  As in, she cares for you and about you and sees to your needs.  Stay with her.\n\nYour Dad probably cares about you too. So when you are 16 and want your sweet 16 you'll get it.\n\nIt's hard to have parents who aren't together.  But it can work out for you.  You have to sort of deal with them "separately but equal."  Don't get into making any more waves than you can handle.
386690
He is just jealous.  You are actually working, not just being given money by your parents.  Your getting real working experience making what is pretty normal pay.  Tell him to either be happy for you or to get lost.
569587
I agree with the others who have responded i think you are over reacting.\nYou are probably right she wanted to spend her 18th with just family or at least as much of the day as possible.\n\nPull yourself together and go talk to her take her out for a fancy meal make it sorry for the fight before her birthday meal. appologise for the argument and ask her why you were not invited to the cake cutting etc.\nTell her you love her and think you are "in love with her" never confuse the TWO. love just means like when you say to your mom or gran i love you. but "I'm in love with you" means a whole lot more it means i love every little thing about you and I don't want to lose you out of my life.\nif you feel hurt then yes you are right to feel hurt, tell her that she hurt you she may not realise she did hurt you.\nthe only time feelings are wrong is never. how you feel is how you feel you have a right to those feelings. just talk to her.\n\ngood luck i hope it all works out for you.
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Seems to me your parents need help with you.\n\nWhile I think 16 is a bit extreme for makeup, it is your parents' rule - and you can't even handle something as simple as that without disobeying.  My children won't be having Instant Messenger either - I think your parents care about you and you're being a typical, petulant snotty teenager.  Why SHOULD you be allowed to go out if you can't even do your chores?  What are you, a princess?  Too good to help around the house, but dang if you don't want your party time.\n\nI suggest you grow up and start acting like a responsible young person.  Maybe then your parents will start treating you like one.
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Your young your parents are just looking out for what they think is best...talk to them dont fight with them sit down with you and your boyfriend and talk to them ... I live in NY and in NY what your doing is illegal in my state it called rape so be carfull and talk to your parents
16083
Obey your mom...she has a good reason for the rules she imposes on you. Find something else to do instead of going to the party.
79612
i've been there done that..how old are u??..my mom done the same thing..u have to earn ur trust back..its hard tho' but i move out of my mom house when i was 17 in  a half..i was out of school..
229893
IN MY OPINION, YOUR MOTHER WOULD BE ENTITLED TO THAT MONEY, NOT YOU.  SHE'S THE ONE WHO HAS DONE WITHOUT TO RAISE YOU.
63090
my dad is a strong belever that chivalry is dead.  i really want to be the best man that i can possablely be to one woman.
118105
well both my parents are deceased but one of my brothers still tries to treat me like the "baby", and i'm 40yrs old.  feel blessed that u still  have ur parents no matter how the treat u.........they r still with u...........u r blessed
641607
dang!!! maybe ask your mother for some money!!
553935
hey sweetie i don't know if it is normal for you to bethinking about this . but i can tell you that not having my mother or grand parents living it is very hard . it does not matter how old you are . you all ways need and want your mom in your life . i miss mine very much and its been 15 years since she died .but i can all so tell you that God he knows whats best for all of us . and he is there for us to . so don't you worry about your mom or grandmother passing away and leaving you . God forbid that ever happened he would take care of you . and you know your so young and life really is short . so you go give your mom and grandmother a big hug and kiss tell them how much you love them . and everyday make them feel special to you . and i have tears in my eyes as i type this to . because its so rare to find such a sweet teenager with a big heart like you have . just live  life and try to not worry and be happy OK ?
258393
yes 16 with parents permission and 18 w/o theirpermission
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You need to question why your fiance seems to fall for your mothers bs.  Have a long talk with her about how you feel about this.  Why does your family have access to your funds? Get your funds put into your name only, move out and concentrate on getting your health back.  All this stress isn't helping you.  The best thing you can do to show her that you want a great future for the two of you is to move far away from your family so that you can start your life off without them getting involved.  You can do it, have faith in yourself...the two of you work together and it will all work out, don't listen to those that say you'll fail.  Good luck, I hope everything works out quickly for you both.
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Honey, I have been there.  I had a 7 pm curfew on weekends when I was 17 years old.  Tell your parents to trust you and if you do anything wrong, then they can take all rights away again.  You can't do no wrong until you try something.  Tell them that you are a levelheaded  responsible 16 year old and that you would like to win their trust, but you won't be able to if they keep you hidden and secluded.  Tell them you will grow up and move away.  Tell them that you will live a sheltered life and it is not good for your health.  Tell them your true feelings and make them listen.  I feel so bad for you because I was there.  Then I turned 17 and moved away from home, had my own apartment while I was a senior.  I had a full time job, gymnastics practice and school.  I did just fine and it taught me how to be mature.  I am not telling you to take off, but I am telling you to talk to  your parents because they may not understand your TRUE feelings and how you want to hurt yourself.  Just think, you will be 18 in a little bit and you will be able to begin your life the way you want and be your own boss.  Don't hurt yourself, because in all honest, it is not worth it.  Talk to the parent you are closer too!  I feel for you, I have been there.  Then I moved to FL.  I moved away so my family would realize what I meant to them and that they didn't have a hold on me.  It doesn't work for anyone, so don't runaway or anything.  I did this all as an adult okay? Let us know how it goes because I am genuinely worried about you!  Good luck!
514123
What you are feeling is quite common.  Your parents care about you and worry about you.  They know that you are going through some of the most difficult and turbulent years of your life right now and even though you may feel you are grown up, you still have a lot of maturing to do.  They know more about the dangers of the world than you do and they want you to be safe.  Show them how mature you can be by accepting their rules without a fuss and you might be surprised with the results.  Your parents will always be your parents and someday you will go to your mom and say, "I'm so sorry for the way I was and the hard time I gave you when I was 14 and 15."  My daughter did.
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well it might seem strange at first wen you want to tell them but u just cant find the words but what u can do is take your mom far away from your dad and just say "mom i'm not a liltle girl any more i'm your lilttle lady"thats what i did and she understood me.im 12 to.