Where are men who just want to go out and see bands and just have fun without the sex thing?\nWhere are the men who are not married and available who just want a friend to go out with, maybe should have said gentlemen.  In australia.
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Hey mate, im in Aus and ive got quite the opposite problem! Heaps of male friends who are attached but we still hang out, but cant seem to meet any who want a relationship!! Grass is always greener i suppose!!...
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Ah, the old "hump & dump".  It's not wrong (unless you're married or in a committed relationship).  It can be fun.  If you're a chick, you can just go to any bar in america and walk up to a guy and tell him you are looking for a one night stand and you're all set. You'll just want to make sure he's not gay and make sure he's not already with another chick (if he is, you may have to just wait until she goes to the bathroom-he'll figure out a way to ditch her unless she's his wife or roommate). If you are a guy it is a bit more complicated.
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I fully understand. My Partner adn I are also in a long term relationship and we finally found the *only* gay bar in Oshkosh. People were constantly coming up to ask us things and were very surprised (but mostly pleasently surprised, I must say) that we were a couple and a long-term one at that. Of course we're Lesbians. Perhaps it's different for us? Actually straight bars are just as rife with people looking for each other; it's just that we're used to seeing it more. Blessings.
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NOT in a bar, any more than heterosexuals looking for LTRs. You aren't that different from the rest of us. Bars are for one-night stands.\n\nTry one of the three churches that won't stone you to death for being "possesed by the devil" - MCC, Congregationalsist, Unitarian-Universalists.\n\nWork on a gay rights political committee.\n\nWork for a straight politician with the balls to admit you guys are human and stand up against the right-wing crazies.\n\nTake it slow, obviously. It's harder for you than for the straights; all anyone in a gym, sierra club hike, book group or night class who asks a lady for lunch risks is a turn-down. You can spoil a casual friendship fast by asking someone out if they don't play in your league.
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As a guy, I think it's great.  I'm looking for this type of friend myself but girls like you are hard to find!
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Just because he is bored of being single, unfortunately doesn't mean he will automatically want to go out with you.  Maybe he wants to take your mate out instead.\n\nAsk him out yourself, to be sure.
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i wished i could help i am in Australia . i  know how you feel i am searching for a old school mate i cannot find her . she is obv married and her parents have moved it is so hard \n . so i hope you find your friends and good luck to you.
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Dating sites are great and the stigma is slowly gowing away. But I understand where you are coming from. I suggest to ease into it. Try going into forums where people are talking about travelling. That way your not there to "get a date" but to interact with people with similar interests as you.
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I am recently a single mother, with two kids... I want to find single men too.  I went to bars and did the whole one night stand here and there, but nothing seems right.  I want to find a quality man, quality MEN to date.  But they aren't at bars, or single spots... perhaps match or date.com but that seems like a lot of work to me... \n\nI have always gone with the idea that when we stop looking for someone then that someone comes to us... not sure if you have ever felt this same way... \n\nI know that is hard right now when wanting to meet someone... but it may be true.  not sure.. \n\nI would suggest, just.. and what did they say in that movie "Something New"? Let go.. let love flow or something like that...??? I would suggest open your heart and your mind up to finding someone, or meeting new guys and they will see that you are open to that, and then come to you.... \n\nWhereever you are!! bar, library, grocery store... etc...etc...
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When you write\n "a lot of(men in general)"\n\nI certainly hope you don't think those men are the majority. Because the majority of men I know wouldn't think of that.\n\nI once hear a couple of guys joking about going to vegas and hunting up a brothel. I guess to them that would be a thrill. Sad, but they didn't have the understanding of how a relationship should work. They were only interested in the pleasure aspect....
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What´s does this has anything to do with the "singles & Dating" section, anyway???\n(unless you´re planning to go out on that very day, but you didn´t mention it!)
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Oh yeah. That guy absolutely is head over heels for the girl normally. Too bad he's in the friend zone. I pity those guys more than any other man on the planet since they are so incredibly close to what they want and they will never get it. Its kind of like a homeless person that owns an unbreakable box with $1000 in it. The person wants that money more than anything, but they have no way to get to it. The plight of the "male friend" is truly one of the saddest in the history of humankind.\n\nWhich is why I don't make female friends anymore.
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because men are pigs. \n\nhowever....clubs are a singles scene so you have to expect that. singles go to clubs to party and meet new people, whether to date or f*ck. something you have to deal with. \n\ni love the club scene, but if i don't feel like being bothered by numerous guys, i just bring a guy friend and stick by him. doesn't always work cause as soon as i walk away to take a piss, i get swarmed lol. eh as long as they're hot it's ok haha.
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Why not round up the friends you have and go out? Hit up some bars, shoot some pool, dance the night away. You're still young, man.
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okay...try swappernet.com.  you can look for men, women, couples, single females...whatever you want there.  i think that you can sign up for a free month or something. otherwise, i would suggest bars in your town.  but, i know that's kinda hard.
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Definitely! It used to be considered the best place to meet other singles--until single people started insisting on inviting a date. Too bad, because they missed a great opportunity to meet others in a fun, safe environment.