the boy i like is a real hotty he can be a show off sometimes.he is 13 im 12.he has a blondis color of hair.hes a cool and populure guy at school.my real problem is hes going out with this snoby stuck up braty 11 year old.i want to no how to get him to like me.
207306
you can't make someone like you, especially if he already likes someone else.  get over him and find someone else.
52130
In seventh grade, I have the same problem( but with a girl, and I'm a boy). Don't come on really strong, but maybe sit by him, get him to like you, and then you can show him your true self, when he likes you and you can tell.\n\nHope it helps
233145
Your sweet nothings has attracted this boy, Jay, towards you.He tries to ,flirt you and surely wish to have a friendship with you. If you can understand just friendship and nothing more of it.YOU TOO REA LISE THAT YOU ARE YOUNG FOR GETTING HOOKED UP, THIS IS THE MOST NICE PART OF IT.Getting hooked up and no body come to know of it is, just poles apart, statement.Since you are from a very vulnerable age think not only twice but four times before you go for it . You decide, I have a fear that you may  break your heart at this tender age.Staring is a part time with boys of this age, you may also know this.
507720
The best way to resolve this question is to just out of nowhere talk to him. Ask him how is he doing. Or just say hi and once he says hi back just take it slow. If he likes you he will want to continue the conversation. But sweeti you are still young and these things will come and go. I went through the same thing when i was in 8th grade. I liked this boy who was a freshman but i was shy to talk to him. After about 2 weeks of being gutless i braved myself up and talked to him. We set together at lunch and talked the whole lunch hour and at the end of that time i realized that all he was, was a crush. I got over him and i moved on. Don't rush into anything sweeti your leaving yourself open for a let down. And it sucks being hurt. Let him notice you. That is the easiest way to do it. Good Luck and i wish you a very bright future. Go for the gold and stay in school.
448714
i would  suggest getting toget to know him better. This sounds like just a crush to me you are kind of young .
29515
Honestly, I think that he'll probably be really flattered if you tell him that you like him.  I think guys think that it's cool when older girls like them.  Find out his screename and start talking to him online.  You can find out each others interests, and maybe you can start going on a couple dates after that.  Good luck :)
482978
Well I think you should show up looking your best and talk to him or try to get him to notice you if he comes. Just make sure you dont over do it; like trying to be too obvious or all up in his face. Some boys dont find that very attractive. And don't get embarrassed if you fall in front of him or something, you might score by falling because he could come help you up and then maybe something can get started.LOL. But just look your best and be the regular you.
65608
you're twelve and he's thirteen. hmm...first become really good friends with him. with that, you'll know who he really is. and if your feelings for him are true and you really love him, ask him out. love can happen at any age.
179133
You sound like a guy I know. He's determined to do the same thing and he's set his mind on not bothering with girls until he's 21. Don't ask why but he's one of those fellas who likes to be certain I guess. Don't worry about being amazingly good-looking underneath your clothes mate, if a girl likes you, she'll like you for who you are. You don't have to mess with the fact you could be different just for their sake. I'm sure you have your own requirements for a girl though, so you should take into consideration what you're aiming for aswell as how you're feeling. Good luck with those girls.
379331
Well, if you like him you should ask him directly if he likes you.  am thirteen too, and i have the same problem. Look, i think i cant do my own advise, but i think you should. Just ask him, and if he asks why just say i dont know. He will think oy ulike him at this point, and you shouldnt keep it a secret. It is way better for him to know. That way you dont have to tell him. As for if you will be able to tell if helikes you or not . . . i wish i could help. I have no idea. Sorry. GL.
623088
u can't make him. Well try to settle for less. A, it's shallow and I never liked popular and preppy. U might not have a chance w him. Besides he's prolly a jerk. Ur very shallow!
200945
you don't sorry move on .but you know i just bet this guy like you more of what he saying .so if you want your boy hang in there .but don't make a fool of youself it just a game young guys play.
552048
Be yourself, if he doesnt like that then he's not worth it and you can do better with a hot preppy boy.... I suggest sticking to the hot preppy boys.
76054
That's tough isn't it?? I know your pain, I was a teenager once too. I liked many boys who didn't like me and vice versa, then those that came to happy terms with me ended up moving away. :(\n\nWell, look at this way......you like him...he doesn't like you, who's loss is it? it's really not yours because YOU LIKE THE GUY. \nIt's unfortunate because you cannot get someone to like you, you cannot make them like you. \n\nNow that I am thinking, I have met a few boys that didn't like me until I started talking to them and being friendly to them, then they saw the best side of me and they respected it. \n\nHave you tried talking to him and being nice? Maybe you should try talking to him. If you already have and he doesn't respond, then you are just wasting your time and your energy and it's not worth it. You are still young and you have plenty of time . Get out there and have a good time and don't waste your time and energy on one person especially if they are not willing to give you theirs.
533361
You should go out with him...who cares about age. He seems like a caring person. I think he'd be the perfect boyfriend. I have never heard of a 6th grader that mature.
595486
so..your in the 6th grade? if so it explains the name...anyway i dont really get the question,but i see one problem you told him that you like him that takes guts but it was problem no. 1.see that will freak out guys, and thats problably the reason that he said he just wants to be friends. try to really get to know him first. hang out w/ him but not in a stalky way... then when YOU think HE likes you make your move... i mean you are talking about asking him out right???plus the short thing does not matter...and if he still does not like you dont worry there are many other guys out there...good luck!
671341
thats a huge age range you got there kid.  Why not go to school get an education and on your road find a nice boy to like