i love her! but.........one day i went to her and asked her if she would like to take a photo with me. she said "ok". a few minutes later a friend of mine came and took part in our conversation. She blushed when she saw him and she blushed even more when SHE offered him to take a photo with her. she gave me her camera and told me to take a photo of both of 'em. i did it with a heart full of pain. the pain became unbearable when she wanted me to take another photo of both of them. IS SHE IN LOVE WITH MY FRIEND?
203209
Yes.  Those blushes are a big giveaway.
455265
You are so lucky to have each other at this time. I believe you are a gift to each other. I had friends in a similar position as you are in now. They both decided to take everything one day at a time and enjoy every thing including their love each and every day. They went through, thick and thin together in increasing love, for 3 years longer than doctors had predicted. The surviving friend, years later, has told me several times how they would have suffered a much greater loss if they had not been dedicated to each other in love for as long as possible.
43535
I notice you don't mention how things are with your current beau. But as for your bud, maybe he should dump her; she doesn't sound like the most trusting sort. \n\nAnd if you and your friend are that close, maybe you do belong together.
215350
Well if she is your best friend (I'm assuming that is what b.f stands for), and she did that to you, knowing how you felt about him, then she obviously doesn't regard friendship like you do! The joke is on you unfortunately! I would suggests you redefine the quality of what a true friend is and is not! Of course your slowness to be to the point with this guy didn't help. Your friend did what you were hesitant to do and succeeded. You partially have yourself to blame. If this guy is a flirt, it is probably just as well she got him. Flirtation tends to lead to jealously and mistrust. You will see it unfold in front of your eyes, then you can thank your lucky stars that she got stuck with him!
342854
Extremely weird, she wants to look into a relationship, but all the goodies go to your friend.  Sorry, need to next her.  You're friend can have her, no wait he has....
651960
Did I ever....had a friend that I wanted as more than a friend.  My friend moved out of state,  and we kept in touch my telephone for about two years.  Through a couple more moves on his part and some on mine,  we lost touch, for three yrs.  I connected with a  friend of his and found out he'd be in town,  so we made plans to see one another,  only to have a blizzard cancel plans,  he flew out of town the next morning.  When he got home,  he told me on the phone that he'd been in love with me for the last five years or more.  Time goes by,  we lose connection again,  but for FIVE years this time.  We've now been reconnected by phone and internet for about four or five years.  He begs me to move accross the country with him (even with my five kids, lol, he must have it bad, huh??lol).  I told him he should've said something while he lived here,  but he thinks I should've been the one to say it.  Just one of those things that makes ya wonder????What if????  The bad thing about missing the chance,  is that I know we would've been perfect for eachother.  The good thing is that I am in a happy marriage with five wonderful children.  Regretfully,  there's just no way to ever know,  leaving me with more "wonder" than I really care to have sometimes.
143300
This is mean to say but i dont think that your so called friend is doin a very good job bein a friend! If he knew that you had feelings for her he should have backed away and let you and her do ur thing! But it sounds like you really care 4 this gurl and if she left you b/c of long distance relationship i dont think she feels the same for you, thats not alwayz a bad thing. They are other gurlz out there that would be glad to date someone like you that actually cares!!! If you treated her right and you gave her wat she needed ( care and love ) then she will notice that she dont have and she will come back! Give her space and let her think about wat she lost and 4 you..... I think you should keep lookin 4 that special someone! But if you love her..... KEEP TRYIN!!!!! I WISH YOU GOOD LUCK! \nYa gurl ~~ Candi
75800
If this second guy was only after her but they never got together, whats the big deal. She obviously didnt like him then or they would have gotten together so i cant see anything stopping you from bein with him or tryin it on with him. Your not goin to hurt her...You didnt say if she's with this guy you fancied first but if she is, you've def nothing to worry bout!
166925
Okay, well you can look at it both ways. I'd understand why you were mad at your friend for dating her and not even asking you if it was alright with you. Then again, you broke off the engagement with her. Apparently she wasn't what you wanted. She does have a right to remake her life. It just so happened she fell for your friend and your friend for her. I don't think they did it to spite you or hurt you. Things happen. But you shouldn't be mad, you'll find the person for you sooner or later.
11051
I don't know if this will help at all but I know there are two stories I'd like to share first one is I was in canada not to long ago and this girl spoke to me in french ... not to well may I say but she pointed to her camera so I was like ok she wants me to take her picture so I did so and at the end she said thank you in french but and I responded with your welcome wich got her off gaurd and she was like hey you speak enlish and I'm like americans tend to speak that and then we talked for like an hour then we agree to meet up later and well I don't need to discuss later needless to say she's back in australia. Another story. I had just move to hollywood  ..... like 6 months ago lol and I saw this girl and I was like wow she's absolutely gorgeous I mean she wasn't in todays standard but I thought she was she had really short hair ... shorter than mine like 1/4 of an inch and this really cute smile and I saw her with this camera and I thought of going up to her and saying something but I was to nervous so a minute later she walked up to me which was a suprise but she came up and asked me if she could take my picture and I was like yeah sure where do you want me we talked for a little while and then I asked her out to eat if she wasn't busy so we went to dennys ... jsut to find out she's vegan haha. but we talked for like 3 hours and sadly I found out she was moving to oregon in a couple of days and then after that back home to chicago but although we only spent one night talking I think she has ment more to me than any girl I've ever dated and we didn't even date haha but if she had asked me to move to oregon with he I would of. any way hope it helps Mike
373956
I had a friend like that, and one day we just acted on it. It was the greatest relationship I ever had. Circumstances beyond our control came between us, but I will never forget how good the times together were. We don't see each other any more, as both of us are married to someone else, but we talk about once a year.\n\nI say go for it. It's going to drive you crazy otherwise.
56522
Honestly, do you really believe that she is your friend? If I were you, I would tell her how inconsiderate she is for actually dating someone she *KNEW* I had the hots for. I could see if she *didn't* kno, but she *DID*! That's so foul and disrespectful, and truly, I would re-evaluate this friendship with her. She doesn't sound like much of a friend if you ask me! If you allow your "friends" to continue to disregard your feelings, you're going to have a hard life ahead. Friends *DON'T* do things such as that. Guard your heart, hon. God bless you!\n\nHope that helped!
599868
I went through the same thing you did.  It kind of gets frustrating.  How does your friend react to it?  Does your friend go along with it or just gets quiet.  Cause my friend at times gave the hint that we were together.  Sorry to say that She no longer is my friend cause she was in fact giving hints that we were closer that friends.  In order to avoid it talk to your friend and also try not to give certain hints to people when you hang out together.  Sometimes people will jump to conclusions due to you hanging out with your friend way too much.
233678
Long ago, about three months ago I started talking to many people. Among those people were a girl. A very special girl who happened to catch my eye. But little did we know that things were going to end up this way. How did we end up? Madly in love and unable to keep our eyes off of each other. And what was her name? Her name just happens to be the name of a pretty little flower.
284277
you seem like such a lovely guy and to be honest.. from what you have said   that girl does not deserve you.. You deserve someone who will love you as much as you love her.. and im sure she's out there somewhere.. it seems like this girl is keeping you on standby just incase things don't work out with the other guy..and even if she does loose this guy she will have another on standby sooner or later...she knows your too good for her and she's taking advantage of it!!please do yourself a favour and start the process of letting her go now cause it will take time .. and time heals!! and the one thats right for you will come along after you have healed from this girl.You derserve better and i think you know it !!It's not worth loving someone who doesn't do the right thing by you hun!It eventually makes your heart turn cold!
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Here's the deal...\n\nShe could still want to date other guys, maybe even an ex. It doesn't sound like it, since she does call you her first love. But you never know. \n\nOr she could be forgetful and just still have their pics and maybe some trinkets they gave her.\n\nI'd talk to her and ask her about the pictures. Don't accuse her and say she's cheating, just ask her why she keeps the pictures. If she's evasive, then there's something going on. If she admits she just kept the stuff as momentos or for memories, maybe it's not so big. She could be sentimental. Sounds like she's a sensitive and loving person- maybe she keeps momentos of people who have been good to her in life, even those no longer active in hers. She wouldn't be the first person.\n\nSo talk to her. And if she's cheating on you or wants to, then she doesn't deserve you.
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she sounds like she is just telling the truth.  It is just fine I mean she broke up with him so she could hook you and him up.  I mean it is not like he broke up with her and then asked you out and your friend was heart broken.