because i have this guy friend and we're close and he did'nt know that i have hidden feelings for him. but he had a girlfriend.
203660
Most guys feel relieved if there's mutual attraction and the girl makes the first move. If he is unsure as to whether his affection will be returned, he might not want to say anything.\n\nIf he doesn't like you, he's not going to be disappointed. He'll likely be taken off guard. If he's a good friend, there aren't going to be negative feelings
210987
I think he was just jealous that you said you were with Josh.  Once he heard you were with another guy, he felt like he had to have a comeback.  That's most likely why he said he has a new girlfriend.  You should sit him down and talk to him about how you really feel.  He's probably confused, so you should tell him that Josh is JUST A FRIEND.  Tell him you really like him & still want to go out with him, and ask if he really does have a girlfriend or not.  Good luck with this!
74190
you just need someone to talk to you probably wont trust but seem like to me the only reason you are doing that is because you brooked up with your girl friend you to express your feelings more
166770
you really can't know for sure if he does like you as more than just a friend without asking him; unfortunately, if you ask him and he doesn't like you that way, it could be detramental to your friendship. I'd suggest just being friends and getting to know him better without bringing up the subject of if he likes you esp. since he already has a girlfriend. If it's ment to be more, it will come in time. Just be patient.
616205
It means he does like you but he doesn't want to tell your friend, maybe if you would ask him yourself he would be more open to tell you that he does, guys don't like everyone knowing there buisness.
649505
thats kinda sad for u and him. if hes supposed to be ur friend he probably cares about ur feelings
5131
Don't mess with things if he has a girlfriend. If he's starting to get feelings for you, then he'll break up with her and start persuing a relationship with you. If you find it hard not to flirt with him, then focus on your other friends and give yourself some space from him. If you like him, you shouldn't want to interfere with his happiness. Don't try to talk about it with him, just see how things unfold.
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The truth is almost 9 times out of 10 a guy will sooner or later develop feelings for his "close" female friend.  It happens all the time even if the girl never finds out because he hides it because:\n1.he doesn't want to get rejected\nOR\n2.he doesn't want to mess up the friendship\nOR\n3.its weird to him to even like his friend\n\nOther than that chances are one way or another the guy will spill the beans.  if the response is awkward he will probably pretend it was a joke or that he didn't say anything.\n\nHe probably really likes you and for probably one of the above reasons never has said anything but wants to.  If you like him like that too, give him a hint of your feelings and it will reassure him.  He will probably be able to make the move if he feels its a "safe" one.
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He could be falling for you, or he could be just hanging out with you because he sees you as a good friend.  Guys sometimes feel really comfortable with their female friends, but they aren't necessarily looking to start a relationship.   I think you should let him know how you feel about him *and* your concerns that you could ruin his relationship with the other girl...since both of these reflect what appears to be your truth.  Honesty is important in any relationship....be it intimate or just friends.  Good luck.
54917
girl , wake up and smell the truth! he is hiding something from you , that is for sure! he either has another girlfriend or he has a secret life ;) but i think the girlfriend thing is more probable
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Maybe it shows your true feelings for him. It is very common to fall for a close male friend. It's easy and convenient, seeing as how you are friends, you already know a great deal about each other. \n\nThat would be my best guess anyways. I would say you may be realizing that there are feelings there that didn't exist before.
309727
May be, he might have found his love with someother girl, when he was away. Firt find out this stuff. Then also you have your rights depends on how close youtwo are. Just talk to him first.
436916
okay...so your friend and his girlfriend broke up.  You think it is because he likes you.  He is under the impression that they broke up a week ago, and she just told him that it's over.  Is that pretty much it.  So basically she ignored him for a week, and just got up the courage to end it.  \n\nWell...if he is your friend, then let him talk to you about it.  That's what friends are for.  You may be the reason, but may not.  Maybe she was jealous that you and him were friends.  Right now, it's not about you, it's about him.  If he wants to talk about it with you, then you, as his friend, should be there to talk to him about it.  \n\nGood luck!
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first of all you are to young to be worrying about is your friend a friend or a jealous person. you are still free to date an see whoever it is you like. and as for your friend come on i know you knew that he was diggin on you, so stop trying to make yourself look like the victim.it seems to me that you may have some feelings for him as well, because if you didn,t you wouldn,t be asking for advice.
436809
He probably don't know you like him.  HE just likes you and since he was there with his girlfriend, it made him uncomfortable and guilty, so he left
101379
It sounds like he probably had some interest in you but possibly not beyond friendship.  I'm betting he has another girl that he likes and he is shutting you out because of that.
377646
If he isn't into his girl, then that sure says a lot about him. I wouldn't worry about hurting your friend's feelings, just tell her. She will be hurt more once she finds out the truth about what a jerk he is. You said you are interested in him? Why? He knows you're taken and you're happy with the one you are with. I would stay where you are and forget about this other guy if I were you.