Let`s determine what an adult is. Seems most of you think the #21 is the magic number that makes one an adult. That`s true if you vote or buy alcohol but in my opinion that`s just the beginning. Since my thoughts are usually long to explain, what do you all consider an adult is?
208564
I don't think adult is a matter of age but a matter of maturity.  I also think that the transition to adulthood is slow (and painful) so there is no one point where you can say "I am now an adult".
195533
Is there a 'right' to vote? Or should we take a different view and argue that it is a 'privilege' to vote? Let's see.\n\nIf voting is a 'right', especially if you call it a 'civil right' then by definition it can not be taken away. Rights can not be lost, for then they would not be 'rights'. Privileges can be lost (ask any teenager!), but not rights. Also, 'rights' belong to everyone equally, so if you have any rules about voting, it can not be a 'right'. Many countries have a minimum voting age. Well, since many countries are filled with convicted criminals that can not vote, as well as underage people that can not vote, voting can not be legally considered a 'right'.\n\nWell then, it is a privilege? If so, there are rules on earning it and on losing it. How does one 'earn' the privilege to vote? Is it by being a landowner? Is it by being born male, or by being old enough? How old is old enough? Is it 18 or 21 years of age?\n\nDo any of these rules, or the many other ones tried by countries over the centuries ensure quality voters? Many of us know people of voting age that are just plain, well, not intelligent voters. We also know people too young to vote that are very careful and intelligent about casting their vote. I know dumb landowners and intelligent renters. If you want to call voting a privilege, I assure you that any line you draw for people to cross in order to 'earn' that privilege will be a flawed line. I offer you the argument that voting is not a privilege.\n\nVoting in political elections is not a right, nor is it a privilege. Then what is it? I contend that it is a grave responsibility. Those that do not agree, should not be allowed to vote. Those that do agree, should be allowed to vote. They should strive hard to make 'informed' decisions which are best for them in the long-term.
95315
Speaking from experience, my current husband (32 yo) is the same and his mother....well I'm sure you understand .... bascially, it's not his mother, please listen when I say this...IT'S NOT HIS MOTHER....IT'S HIM! If he doesnt want to an adult and think and do for himself as an adult....he WILL NOT change. Do yourself a favor......move on!
245928
LOL OMG! GOOD THING IM 18 AND STUFF AND THAT YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT.\ndumbass
422574
Oh how I long for the days when I was treated like a teenager! Believe it or not some day you will look back on this as the good old days. Life was sweet when I got carded at the bar! Enjoy it while it lasts! By the way you sound very mature for 20 so I can understand why it frustrates you. This too will pass.
654295
Well the majority of people are 18 when they graduate high school so they are technically adults.  It would always be beneficial for parents to get involved and help thir kids make the right decision.  It is hard to judge what would be best for a young adult, whether it be, financially, location, experience, education.
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It is the mother's parental right to make any new boyfriend's life hell.  Now, what age were you when you signed it?  If you were under age, then technically no, it can't be legal.  I don't know the age at which she/you are considered adults in your own community.  When she turns 18, will she be living at home or move out?  If she lives at home, mom's/dad's house rules apply.  OR, maybe certain terms can be negotiated with her parents.  Good Luck!
362186
I dont think that this depends on age.  There are plenty of immature 30 year old, and 40 year olds.  I think it all depends on what kind of person you are.  I know that judging is wrong, I am 26, but sometimes I am biased, it might be my friend, it might be against something that I feel strongly about, or just the fact that I agree with someones situation...  But I try to be fair.  And I know that the saying you learn more as you age is true to a certain degree, but it doesnt change if your an immature idiot.
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I can't believe all the bullkaka I am reading here.\n\nSo a man can be 20 yrs older but not a woman?  Get serious people and start realizing that life is not always about your young tight a$$.  There is much more out there than most of you will ever experience, especially with an attitude like I see from some of you.  LOL
148514
I don't think there is realy an age that is appropriate, because all people have different maturity levels at different times in their lives. I lost mine at the age of 16 and I'm 22. My boyfriend got my drunk and basically took advantage of me. Don't get me wrong, I could have said no, but I didn't. Today I wish I would have waited. Thinking about when my son gets older and if he ever asked mom, when did yo first have sex. Most parents would never hear that so I probably won't, but what if they were to ask? Although, I would never take it back because it got me where I am today, I've been happily married for two years with a gorgeous ten month old son. People make mistakes, but hopefully they learn from them. Society isn't the problem I don't think. i think the parents and schools need to start at a young age teaching values, because they are lacking somewhere.
64635
I am 53. I play Serious Sam on line, I do Teen discos, I head bang to AC/DC, Zep, Van Halen, Jet and Green day. This site is for any age to come and either ask or express or answer. Older people are usually wiser than younger people. All in all I would say the mixture of cultures, races and ages on this site, is second to none. It is necessary to have different views, and just because bushbot acts about 11 and is rude it doesnt mean to say we all follow his silly ways. Hey bushbot, what would you think if we all reported you for abuse. Your question was perfectly legitimate Krystina.
281985
Great idea, I think. My name is Christy, I'm 26 and I'll be 27 later this year. I am a Christian, but pretty unorthodox. I have questions and have answers, and I look for both. I'm a waitress at a 5 star resort, and I will be going to school to be a nurse (RN) soon. I am single and I have no children, but would like both when the timing and the guy is right. As a musician, I play the piano primarily but also alto sax and clarinet. I love to laugh and think, and therefore I seek the people and things that make me laugh and think. I have a whole lot of interests and have no idea exactly what I want to be "when I grow up." I'm of Greek descent, and I inherited the feisty gene. I love to study the culture and history of Greece. I also make some awesome Greek food. Would send you all some if I could. Yummy! I live to "smell the roses." To me, the simple things are often the most beautiful.
108353
Yes, at 18 you're considered to be an adult.
327112
It "isn't" as definitive as normal people-speak "is."\n\nI "am" 31 years old.  I don't "appear" or "seem" 31 years old (I still get carded), I have existed on this planet as a complete unattatched organism for 31 years.
581223
I think the age ranges and even adults can give lousy answers.  I am 24 and have sometimes seen more wisdom from my five year old nephew then I have from people twice my age.
490749
You're in Britain, right?\n\nThat is interesting about the Isle of Man lowering the voting age.  Honestly, I often think 18 is on the young side to be voting (I thought this even when I was 18).  So, my answer, even though we are not discussing my country (US) would be "No".\n\nWhat do you think?
206495
yep your question sure shows that you probably are thirteen! I am not understanding the real question.. are you trying to find out how many people share your narrow minded point of view??? that would be my guess!