I understand it would not be 'life' if it were easy, but all I want to do is stay positive. any ideas would be helpful. thanks
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Spend some time contemplating the stars and realise how small you are in the big scheme of things...it always helps put my problems in perspective.
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Hey, im in the same boat with ya bro, but honestly, you cant solve anything overnight.....so chin up!\nFirst things first, you have to redefine your idea of happiness.....and when you stop prcrastinating in your life you will reduce stress. noones life is perfect! NOONES....look at britney spears for godsakes!\nmotivation doesnt come before  change......\nchange come before motivation....so get out there and do something, anything little thing that might make you a bit happy and one little thing will lead to another and soon you will be motivated enough to make bigger changes..etc....and maybe, go find a therapist you trust and like and talk things out.....cant hurt. good luck!
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Please do not get disheartened moving to a new place i s avery difficult experience everytime even for the most adaptable person. But all one needs to remeebr is that these difficulties are all temporary. soon, u will start finding things that you will like in this new place and one by one things will start falling in place and you will have a great time here. So keep the faith and remember to keep a smile no matter how hard the times are..the good momments are around the corner.
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I have alway's been in the pursuit of life, love...and mom's apple pie!  But yes, life pursuing should be everyone's goal.  We just can't sit around on our laurels while life passes us by.  Things are happening and changing everyday and the only way we can keep up is to pursue life to the utmost!  If any annimosity amongst your group of friends or family exist, overcome that obstacle.  If your partner is downing you, get away from them.  If your job is holding u back from achieving total  success, move on...and pursue life.  Life, like time, slows or waits for no one.  It has alway's came and went at the same pace and it alway's will.  All I can say to u is make sure u are the prime example of what living life is all about.  YOU are too pretty not to be smiling and too determined to be stopped.  Without your smile, there would be no reason to pursue life at all.  Grab life by the bullhorns and hang on...!  (those comments were to u and all the ladies)
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Honey, life isn't supposed to be easy.  Hard times can help a person learn and grow and mature.  It helps you appreciate the times when life is good =)
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You are your own's best support. Even I was having that feeling earlier but then I find out what are my likes and I concentrate on that things. Whatever make me feel good I start doing that. Try to be positive towards life and enjoy whatever you Have. Something is not in your hand to change but you can create a way to be calm/happy in that bad time. Its all up to you to live happy or down. All the best
103055
Its not life that sucks, it's the way to approach it that sucks....\nThe trick is to be content (boastful nevertheless) of what you own
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Only if you make it a bigger problem than it really is.\nJust sit back and chill a little bit.\nYou will be just fine, and the world will not end tomarrow because of it. Life is only as difficult as you want to make it.\nDo what works for you, and enjoy!!!\n\n; )
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Well... look around... Do you like what you see? Are you happy for what lessons you have already learned? Are you pleased on what you are able to do for the better of tomorrow? That is all really. If you are happy. If you are pleased on what you have as a past, to put you in your position you are in now, and where it can lean you from your own ambition from knowing that this is your life. And if you are not happy with anything, well that is something that needs to be worked out within yourself, because you should be happy for everything in your life. Why should there be a reason for you to be un-happy? Are you missing anything? Do you have patience to take the time and effort to get to that point in obtaining that goal? Everything is in your hands. Just remember to take everything as it is and be happy for it. Don't expect anything. Things will flow much better if you do that. Hope this helps. Cheers!
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I'm glad to hear that you're enjoying your life, even thought it may be challenging to do some of the things you're doing!\nMost of the time it is really hard to face life's challenges up ahead since we don't really know what to do, or how it will turn out... i normally cower from them and try to avoid making any changes in my life, but eventually they must happen..  However, there are many "great teachers" in present day life, who can help us through any challenges or problems we have.
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By all means, please don't kill yourself. Life is what you make it. I know this world can be a cruel place, but you can find solace in God. It sounds like you are a good person with a good heart. Don't despair. Pray for your life to be filled with happiness and love. I will pray for you and keep reminding yourself that your life will only get better. I have been a victim of all those things that you have mentioned, but it only made me stronger as a person. Go out more, spend time with your favorite family members, learn a new hobby, go for the job you always wanted,and find a place of worship where you can confess your heartaches to. Also, keep telling yourself that you are lovable, loving, and you are loved. It helped me and I hope it helps you. Feel better.
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Choose to be happy.  Get out of bed and decide right then that it's going to be a great day, even if it might not be.  I bet your attitude will change and life will begin to be happy as a rule.
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take a s*** load of paper work to where ever close your eyes place your palms together and start praying it all works out for you                                    \np.s hope it all goes well
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I know it may be hard, but think about the millions of people out there who have a much worse life than you.  You have a computer, and that's MUCH more than tons of people can say.  Suck it up and decide you're going to start over fresh.  This is the perfect opportunity to turn over a new leaf and change your life for the better!
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Smile! God loves you. Look around and you'll see how many blessings you have compared to others. Don't be sad. Life is not easy but it's sure a lot less difficult when you smile and see the glass is half full.\nTomorrow is a new day!
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You have only 1 life, make of it the best you can. You choose your own paths and can change them at anytime. Things might seem down for you now, but they will get better.Take things 1 day at a time. Set a goal and praise yourself for a job well done. Write each one down each day and then look back and see just how much positive you have done for yourself and others. Even if its just the smallest thing like help an older lady or gave a helping hand to a neighbor, you are giving and making others happy that's the best feeling in the world.That makes life worth living. If you want to be loved then you will need to learn to love yourself, respect yourself. You are better then this. Make every moment count , life is precious and a true gift , don't waste yours. You are here for a reason we all are.
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Sometimes when people complain about the day or the weather I just say 'You're alive aren't you?'. I know that life gets hard but for me just knowing that God loved me enough to allow me to be alive. Maybe begin to appreciate the 'little things'. Like being able to walk, talk, breathe, sing, see, run, eat, laugh, have a roof over your head if its a shack or a mansion. Sometimes you have to force yourself to look for things to appreciate about life. And the simplest is 'at least you're not dead'. I know its cliche but everything happends for a reason. Don't mistake though, you may think 'what she talking about, what has she been through'. Believe me I have been through things and I have just come to the understanding that we need to appreciate what we do have, we need to think positive that everything does really happen for a reason. It is hard to see peopel suffering. I just pray for them and if I can help I try to.