why is everyone out there looking for love? why dont they enjoy their lives a lil den rush into a relationship.
201462
because they are so afraid of being along.
513306
I understand where you are coming from and I too am single and feel that I will be forever unless I do something pretty soon!. I am a very lovely and single, beautiful 33 year old and grown out of pubs and clubbing where there are streams of teenagers and mid twenties.  \n\nThere is no where in my town appropriate for people of my age socializing-wize and used to meet my partners whilst at University so now I am no longer a student, this makes things akward again!.  Everywhere I go, I see married couples and loved-up youngsters or singles like myself. Most are all now on the internet but I am so wary of that stuff when there are married men posing as single on these sites and men who post on every sight in search of more than one love-interest.\n\nIt is diffocult I must admit but the trick is to remain optomistic and be very specific about what you are looking for in a man and then go to places that you are most likely to meet these types of men. Bars and clubs are okay, but there are a lot out there looking for fun only and unless you are prepared for that and happy with it until you get to know a guy, then sitting around will do not much good either.\n\nI am more conscious as I have gotten older but also more decided about what I want in a man and that is friendship.  This is the best basis for all relationships to be lasting.  I am determined to be married but once I get myself off my but and start making things happen.
337703
a lot of people out there are single. just always think positive and remember that there is one special girl out there who is probably looking for someone like you!! keep looking and good luck!! ♥
533860
I asume you are talking about girl that you fell in love with and know you are losing her. Well it's not the end of the world and the reason that no one is answering you is because frankly people get tired of answering the same problem.  It's seems like every person on here is obessed with some one and goes crazy if single or something. it's totally obsurd. There is more to life that just having a boyfriend or girlfriend. First you need to find yourself rather someone you think you are in love with.  "You have to stand before you can walk"
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I think the main reason that people can't or don't commit to relationships is immaturity and selfishness.  They often want to keep playing the field or go out and play the field.  There is also the fear of being hurt and the fear of what a commitment to a lifelong relationship entails.  I think another problem is their not knowing what they want or what is best for both of them.  I had one friend who dated a girl for about 8 years until he felt that God wanted him to marry the girl.  That girl was frustrated beyond belief.  She had 4 other roommates in the house, including my future wife, and all of them met and married guys after the two of them had started dating.  It really is a tough thing to do since the onus seems to be placed upon the male to ask the lady if she wants to marry them.  Heck, it is hard enough asking a woman to dance with the fear of rejection!!! ;)
21200
Don't be in a hurry to find love ,let love find you.God made someone for each of us,and we will meet them when the time is right. I promise you, you will find love,don't get discouraged! The answer to your question is yes.
437202
Thats so sweet. Isnt it sad how you spend you whole life looking for someone to love, and trying to keep their love for the rest of forever and never lose them. But no matter what you lose them in the end. No matter what..... \n\nLife is strange.
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men mature slower than women.  they want a good time when the women are looking for husbands.  so unfortunately it's up to us to wait for them to want it.  There are a few out there who are great guys... but unfortunately they get snatched up by a few great girls.  sigh. \n\never feel like "everybody's buddy, nobody's hunny?"  lol- that's me.
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I am a believer that a person finds their true love when the are not searching hard for it, or at all. \n\nIt's funny you asked this tonight.  Because I told someone else this earlier at work tonight.  Just be happy with who you are.  Be a worthy person now, because you just never know who is already watching you. :)
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Because your trying to find a girl to "Love".  You need to take things a step at a time.  You need to find a girl you want as a friend.  Then maybe you want her as your gf.  Love is a patience process.  You cant just choose to love somebody.  It happens when you least expect it.
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I think it's because they've had some very nasty experiences with a few jerks. When you've had a satisfying experience, it's very difficult to be bitter. A lot of girls are looking for love in all the wrong places. No, it's NOT just a country song. It's true. They say yes to anyone who gives them a line, knowing deep down that it is a line, but hoping that this one will be THE ONE. When they continually get dumped, it makes for one bitter female. If they would just stop filling that empty hole in their lives with waste-of-space jerks, they'd find out the treasure that they really are. Bitterness always comes from continually beating your head against the same wall. Instead of stopping the hurt, they find another wall to whack against. So, when you ask them about life, the only answer they CAN give you is based on their own failed relationships. I speak from experience, not from judgement. I too have beat my head against those walls for way too long. I finally found it hurt too much and quit. Now, I have a better experience, so my answers would reflect that. <*)))><
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Everyone is flawed in major ways. We are all driven by feelings, emotions and this just totally messes up with the logic that is everyones dream: Trust and Love. The solution is to not give up hope, because there are still some cool people out there that are honest and genuine. Everyone else is a slave to their own small fears, prejudices and silly mood changing crap. Dont accept it from anyone.
101523
because you set expectations...you had high standards...\nregarding to those you like, they are not just the right person for you...and you shouldnt be looking for the guy...love comes, never search for it.it will come in the most unexpected place and time...
409523
because they not nice and mature or either they want the bad girl type.  you will find someone that is nice.  just keep looking but not in the wrong places
423706
A possible missed opportunity.  She's not happy in her present life situation and is looking for something or someone to give her happiness (sadly she doesn't yet know that you have to make your own happiness).
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Maybe you just haven't found the right girl?\n\nKeep looking, she's probably out there. When you're usually lookin' for love, you're not gonna find it. Just enjoy life and someone will come along eventually.
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same problem. i think that every girl is just looking for the same kind of guy, and there are only so many of them, so most of us just get stuck with the left overs. and alot of the times, left overs suck