My boyfriend came to my house and my old friend was there he went out the bacl door but nothing happened he stayed down in the living room. why couldn't i have just came out and said that
200676
Just be straight with him.I've been in a similar situation before and my b/f was just happy that I was honest with him.He didn't get mad about the lie at all.Honesty is the best policy,no matter the consequences!
361968
I'm sorry for you.   I'm going thru something similar, but with 20 years together.  You might never have a reason why this happened.   I've found accepting that I can't MAKE him give me an answer or tell me the truth takes away a lot of the stress.  \n\nThere must be some little things that are better with him gone, though.   Something as small as having your room the way you like it now.   You may never stop loving him, but you will move on.  If you don't, you're wasting the life you have left!   There's so much more to do and see yet.   \n\nStrengthen you relationship with your kids (if you have any), and with your friends.   If you don't have friends, get out and do something you love and you'll meet some new ones.  \n\nI don't know how longs it's been for you, but at 2.5 month for me I can say that I'm really happy most of the time.   I couldn't have imagined that only a few weeks ago!\n\nGood luck to you, and don't stay home or in bed all day!  Force yourself to get out and do things or go places
118522
Move back into the same room, being separate will not help!\nTry  for a weekend get away.
468455
That is very sad for you. You are grieving, mourning the loss of your boyfriend. It may be that he will only be inside for a short time, do you know this? If it's going to be a long time, you may have to get on with life without him. It's only natural that you feel so bad; you can't concentrate on normal life. your whole time is consumed with missing him . The plan of your lives together has been upset. Try writing to him; it will not only help to clarify things for you, but also might help him cope. Remember, he is probably scared and as lonely as hell too. Talk to someone you trust about it. sharing your loneliness often helps. Take care of yourself.
252114
You should not go to your friends house again because the police could bust the place. You really need to tell your parents. Be careful and take care.\n\nHugs!\nG.G.
67030
for those who got a boyfriend or girlfriend.... you can go out with them.... for those who have not... just have fun with your friends and family........ and if you have no one to count on just stay in your house the safetiest place...
245254
Go up and talk to him and talk about the fun you had with him and friends at the pub.  Then suggest you all do it again sometime soon.  See what he SAYS to this.  That's about all you can do.
541799
Talk to him and tell him how you feel.  Let him know that it bothered you even him going to her house, that you trust and believe him, but how would he feel if you had doen the same sort of thing.  Ask him to promise that he will cut communication with her and/or never go to her house without you again.  The only way to get thru those types of situations, is to talk about them.  Communication and trust are the keys to a wonderful relationship.
241560
You are right cause he is your ex and your not together so he should not be sleeping over at your house if you tell him not to. You had every right to wake him up, it's your bed and your house. He needed to go home, but why should it matter if he has not called you today. He is your ex maybe you should move on.
206027
There had to be a reason that your friend ditched you. Try talking to your friend and see whats up!
289886
Honestly i think he's just confused and needs time with out you so that he can see how much he needs you. He might just need room to realize that you all do belong together. Talk to him get all your feelings out because if you keep anything in and away from him you will lose him for longer than planned. trust me. My boyfriend and i were about to take a break and i told him exactly how i felt i was scared to do it because i didn't want him to feel like i was making him stay but he said that he was glad i told him because it let him know that i care deeply for him. Just try talking to him about it and see what happens from there.
228292
All is not well in your home tonight....there is lying and deception going on.....and not by you. He is lying to you, and using you. Tell him to tell the truth, or get out! After he tells you the truth, then you tell him to get out, cause you ain't gonna like what he tells you. Good Luck!
356356
What do you mean she never goes home? Are you saying that she is always at your ex's house? If so, then you are crazy because whether something is going on or not between the two of them, she should have respect for his relationship with you and he should have the balls to tell her that he is in a new relationship and that she can't come over there...and if he has told her that, then he shouldn't allow her over there.
55052
it isn't your boyfriend's fault that you are unmotivated and he shouldn't be expected to entertain you all the time. You need to get a job. Most people meet friends outside of the home, which is where you stand a better chance of meeting them too. If you have agoraphobia (fear of going out into public) then you should get some help with it.
279329
I went through this same dilemma. I came out during my sophmore year of highschool. And there was the most drop dead gorgeous guy there. His name was Gary. Let me tell you. Anyways, I wanted to be with him very badly, but did not know how he felt. So I befriended him. We started hanging out, and stuff like that. Well two years went by and still nothing. Well in December of our senior year a bunch of us were out at a  party. His girlfriend was there and everything. (He had this girl for 3 years now) Well I went outside for a smoke, and he followed me outside and complimented me on my new glasses. Ok no big deal. Well we sat there and talked, smoked a few cigs and went back in. My best friend and I decided to get into the hottub. We had been sitting there for about a half hour or so when Gary came in. My best friend got out and went to go get a beer. I mentioned that my shoulder was buggin me from a fall I had taken earlier that week. So he reaches over and starts to rub it. Then we kissed, and ended up ditching the party and ****ed all night long lol. The next day he dumped his girl and him and I have been in a relationship ever since. So even the most straight acting guys may be gay. You just never know!
89793
I'm thinking you are a bit tired of hanging around in his room.  Decide first what you would rather do, then invite him.  If he choses to not go, please don't let that stop you from having some fun.  Your happiness is up to you, not him.  No more waiting!!
660585
maybe your boyfriend wasn't nice.\nlet's hope he is more considerate when he leaves you.