My Best Friend told me that the guys thought it was totally hot when Girls make out wit each other. So me and her have been practicing together so that when the guys ask us to do that we are really good at it. Well  really dont want to do that in frot of the guys. i fell real uncomfortable in the loker room wit her. But each time we do it i am enjoying it more and more so wat should i do i dont want to turn les like my best friend WAT SHOULD I DO??????????????????
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YOU NEED GOD!!!!!!!!!
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r u 11? if so i have advice for u. (im 11) we have a dance at the end of the school year and i had a best friend named michael. everyone had dates already and i decided 2 ask him. after discussing it w/my friend, i went up 2 him at recess and said, "can i talk 2 u for a minute?" we walked and i beat around the bush for awhile (good tactic) and then i said, "im just gonna come right out and say it. will u come 2 the dance w/me?" he replied (after thinking about it), "ok. but this conversation never happened." u can imagine how happy i was!? but basicly, ask 2 talk, beat around the bush, and then say a sentance that describes what u want (e.g., will you go out w/me? can i be ur girlfriend?). hope it works! and about the other girl, just leave her alone. if she gives u trouble, take it 2 the teacher. just dont mention your boyfriend!
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I can so relate to you.  I'm 22 now, you sound like me at 18 (and i was a pothead too)  anyway, if you've never tried it before it is just great to come on STRONG.  You guys are hanging out, get physically close, you will feel the heat, just kiss him.  HE WON'T RESIST, trust me.  I tried it for the first time with one of my close friends and now i always come on strong when I want a guy, guys respond to that, it makes them feel special because you obviously want them, not just any guy, and they can't help but be turned on.  Guys want nothing more than to be severly wanted by a girl, send the message and he will receive it!
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He sounds like a player.   If he made out with your friend, he should not then turn around and approach you.\n\nSounds like you need to make a new friend (because she was wrong).  Also find another guy, because this one seems to be suffering from short attention span.
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Here is a defining moment in your life.. \nPut yourself in your friends shoes.. as exciting as it may be to be you right now.. \nHOW would you feel if the sitch was reversed.. NOT too fun to get screwed over by your best friend and boyfriend.. \nDO you become a good person, and decide your BEST friend is more important to you then a guy.. \nOR do you become a beotch (sorry, but that is what you would be) and take your best friends man with no regard for her, or her feelings.. I'm saying.. That would be pretty fu**cked up on your part.. (actually what you're doing right now is pretty f**ked up in itself.. just plotting )to do it.. YOU should be more of a friend then that.. And just remember Karma is a beotch, and who's to say he wont leave you for one of your friends.. ?
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You're not ready for sex. Nothing wrong with it, in your own time and space you will be. I think you feel fear because you're rushing into this cos your friends have done it and you don't want to seem left behind. Forget about everyone's need for a change and start focusing on your own. Say no and if they cannot accept it, they are not worth your energy.
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yes, bestfriends can become lovers...i even think that it's actually better because you know each other really well, you care,trust and respect each other and you have the strongest bond: love... i think that you may not have heard from him because he is as confused as you are...he doesn't know if what he did was right and if you feel the same way for him...this kind of thing can be confusing, you see...you want to have this relationship but you're both so scared that if something goes wrong, you lose the friendship you have...since you love him too, i suggest that you do the thing that you said you didn't want to do: confront him...he did the first step of telling you how he feels...it's your turn now...tell him you feel the same, tell him you're scared too but if you talk about it, you cand find a solution together...tell him you don't want to lose your best friend even if things might not go the way you want them to...tell him that you want that 2nd kiss too...hehe!good luck!i hope you work this out... ^_^
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Was that other person seriously talking about tasting Jesus?  Ok seriously was that funny or do I just have a sick mind?\n\nSeems like you lean girls but if you want to kiss a guy just do it.  I'm gonna tell you a secret that not many people know.  I'm a big militant homo, but my secret is that every once in a while, for some reason I like making out with a girl a little bit.  I don't want them to touch "it" and I don't want to actually have sex with them or anything.  Shhhh!  Don't tell anyone else I'm not as 100% gay as I say I am.  But in any case, who cares.  Kiss a boy every once in a while if you want and don't worry about defining yourself with 100% accuracy.  It's just a label.
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Sounds like you are on a great start, already. Man, what I would give for that with a guy. Just be you. Enjoy the friendship. DO not push it. Let it happen, if it does. When you hold hands, squeeze his. Does he kiss you? Have you kissed? Give him a hug and give him a little kiss on the neck. Then, walk away. Bait the hook and see what happens.\n\nIf he likes it, he will come after you. Promise.
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It is so nice that you care so much about  both your friend and you.\n\nYou see whatever happened has happened. It can't be changed. So either you find ways to move on or you just slack back.\n\nYou said you are best friends. A lot of things happen between best friends you know so this should not be a hard one to tackle. It happened because you were both passionate about each other. It now appears you are both bi. No big deal.\n\nFirst you said you liked him and now you are saying you don't know if you like him. NO problem about that, you will soon know if you like him or not.\n\nHowever, since you said you have not seen him in a month and this whole thing is getting into you, well i think is about time you talk with him. It does not matter if you are different persons or not, you still have to find out where you stand. You need to talk with him and find out if you are both embarassed about the things that happened and if you still want to be best of friends. If you both still want to keep on having sexual feelings for each other, well that is when to find out, by talking to each other. Please tell him your mind, what you think, what should stop, what should go on and stuffs like that. It will work out.\n\nYou and i both know you don't want to lose a friend like him. Then i think it's about time you spoke to him.\n\nPlease don't feel shy. OK. Open up and tell him every single thing in your heart.\n\nYou will definitely find your answer. Keep it cool and GOOD LUCK.\n\nHave fun too.
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Best friends make the best lovers. Let him know how you feel. If he doesn't feel the same and doesn't want to give the relationship a try, then so be it. One day he will turn around. If you cant handle not being with him, take some time away from him so you can get over it.
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Unfortunately for the two best friends that girl can not be forced into liking either one of them if she doesn't, you're gonna have to let them move on. As for helping the girl hook up with the other guy, if you dont have a problem helping her than go for it.....i hope everything works out
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If he's doing this behind your best friend's back what make you think he won't do the exact same thing to you IF you 2 were to hook up? When you say "stop" are you really saying it like you mean it--Or are you being playful with it?\n\nI think if you really express to her how much it bothers you & withdraw being around her soo much she'll get the picture. Why be around something that you know isn't right? I'm pretty sure after she sees how much this irks your nerves she'll stop being so foolish. Just watch your back.
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!!!Well , you have a problem there!! I would in this particular situation most likely would somehow leave the (cheating) situation alone and let him now how it feels and that maybe he should think twice before making out with some girl he met that night. Also i would not go out with him because he sound like a slut , especially if he is making out with a girl he just met. I can give you advice but i can not  make the decision for you.\nTootles!!!
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cute accent even in the writing.....well find a nicer looking girl that isnt sleeping with everyone.....you'll forget the other girl because if she is just going around in the circle do you really want your friends making fun of you....or you could just use her and sleep with her thats what american boys do alot of girls go around in the same group of friends....its quite funny thats why thank god i am out of that game...(i shouldn't say alot but alot of the ones that i know) It will eliminate the curiousity
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I'm in an identical situation only i am a guy. And the guys in your story are girls in mine. I'm not gay. Just wait it out and eventually they will break up. However you need to know what your best friend would do if you were to go out with her ex. If she was really your best friend, she would understand and she would let you go out with him-but come on thats never gonna happen. You need to find out who you like more, this guy, or your friend. It sound to me that he sorta like you, and if your friend knows he flirts with you, and shes not jealous shes\n- in it because the guy is popular\n- is a whore that just wants to sleep with her boyfriend until she is bored\n- is trying to tell herself shes being uptight\nYou need to know if he likes you before you do anything about your friend. Ask one of his friends or a brother or sister of his. It will be hard, but if you loose a friend, how good of a friend is she?\nP.S. Do not go out with this guy directly when he breaks up with your friend. She wont like that, and he wont think your much of a friend. Wait at least two weeks, by then your friend should be interested in some other guy.
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yes you were wrong to kiss him. this is why i believe the whole guy and girl friendship thing does not work. and now its too late to go back whether you wanted to ruin the relationship or not its going to happen cause you took things too far to begin with. so just tell him the truth and hopefully things will work out