i just strted seeing this girl over the weekend. we have both recently got out of dodgy relationships and after an evening together we kissed and started something new. she told mre that i make her feel very different but she could not explain it. she even said she wanted my hands cos they knew what to do. the next day we spent a lot of time together and she told me that i make her incredibly horny and no other guy has made her feel that way. 24 hours later she says she wants to stop and does not want hurt me. What did i do wrong.
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You didn't do anything wrong.  I'm guess that this was just moving a lot faster than she had planned and she became uncomfortable about how much she had revealed to you.  She was embarrassed.  At what I am guessing is your young age, girls feel a certain urgency that guys do, but then their mind puts the brakes on big time because they know how they are supposed to feel and act.  It's a balancing act with girls between what they want to do and what they know they should.  You're OK.
165030
oh my gosh, this just happened to one of my really good guy friends! tell her how you feel about her, if she doesn't want to be with you then she doesn't deserve you
114658
She is totally wacked and needs serious professional help, more than you can give her.  If I were you, I'd run like the wind and don't look back!  I've lost my virginity too, but what's that got to do with anything?  Forget about that BS.  The new chick, let's hope you've improved your selection, but she's bound to be an improvement.  Get a grip man.  This is an obvious...get out while the going's good before she decides to cut her name on your leg or worse, pulls a Bobick on your balls when she thinks you somehow crossed her.
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I'm sorry, but guys do the same... I know... I share your feeling... what's up with that? \nI think she doesn't want to hurt your feelings but is to shy to tell you... but hell... I have no clue... sorry. \n\nMaybe you should ask what's up? Or just forget her... but that doesn't sound like a very attractiv solution, does it? :)\nGood luck with that!
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Congratulations, you have found a girl who isn't a whore.\nShe obviously likes you, so give her some time.  \nThat is of course unless you are a jerk, and just are looking to get laid and dump her.  Then please leave her so you don't break her heart.
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sounds like she used you.  she could see how you felt about her by how you treated her.  some girls/women are idiots & don't realize a good thing when they have it.  just move on & find someone else.
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It sounds to me like she is sexually attracted to you but for some reason this is unacceptable to her. Are you very different from the types of guys she has been with before you? Or perhaps a sexual relationship between the two of you is inappropriate or even off limits for some reason (such as being relatives or having a large age difference)? This might explain her contradictory behavior. But please consider that asking her about this directly probably won't get you anywhere since she has worked hard to convince herself that she has no attraction for you and it's somehow making her feel safe and/or in control of the situation... she is unlikely to let go of this self deception very easily. But what you really need to realize here is that this girl is confused and conflicted and it is not your fault.
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I don't know all of the details, but she probably stops because she might think that you're not gettin' turned on, or that you don't like her. It sounds like she likes you, but the fact she's stopping might mean you need to be more aggressive/less passive. I hav the same problem. \n\nFlirt back. Talk to her. Ask her how she's doing. Smile :). Good Luck!
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Maybe she just thinks that if yous start making out it'll lead to sex and maybe she just doesnt feel like having sex. Just let her know all you wanna do is kiss "causse it makes you feel more connected to her". Or maybe your just a bad kisser, i'd try the first and if its a no-go then i'd consider the second. Goodluck.
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The main reason is not to hurt the current guy or have him think we are slutty.  Also it is possible that she's only counting relationships, not the randoms.\n\nPersonally I do think that this is pretty sketchy behavior.  But mostly forgivable if explained.
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Turn your girlfriendon. I don't believe in women with low sex drive, I only beleive in good and bad lovers. No offense meant, but maybe you still haven't got a clue what makes her hot. There's nothing but practise, man. In the meanwhile, take matters in your own hands.
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I'd avoid getting involved in this mess. If she likes you, let her figure out how to work it out. She sounds a little flaky to me. What happens when someone more interesting comes along once you two hook up? Is she going to want to be friends with him? See my point?
516562
She definitely didn't mean what she said. Very bad you didn't get the message. Next time she said something like that, you do something sexy to her like hugging or kissing her deeply with some foundling and so forth - trust me, you'll be surprised to see another "her" in love action (lol).
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Don't let her suck you in again. I'm only saying this because i am a women and people shouldn't treat people that way. It could mean that she's playing mind games with you and that means that she has an attraction for you but only because she wants to pursue it with you so basically what i am trying to say is that she is a control freak
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she might have found out some dirt about you. did y'all have sex, you might of not treated the booty right. meaning it wasn't good some women like men would quit messing with someone if the sex isn't good. or her boyfriend came back, or got out of jail. if you know any of her friends them talk to them and ask them what's going on with her.
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So friend, it definately sounds like there is some flirting happening.  you should, in a calm manner address your Gf regarding the issue tell her the ruth that it makes you feel uncomfortable and that you would like to do something about it, but the best thing would be is that if she felt strong enough towards you she wouldn't want you to be unhappy and would reduce her time together with dude, especially since school is out.  As colleagues, I can understand that they may have gotten to know each other pretty well and may have a strong mental connection. but there are certain places you just don't go...if my fiancee (we're 29 and 32) knew that a boy at school liked me and flirted sometimes, he would be pretty hurt and I would minimize the chance of that happening by not putting myself in a position that would have me being responsive to the flirting gestures of another and dilating pupils (other signs of flirting that are difficult to prevent), I would just not be around that person to avoid that type of interaction.  \n\nHopefully if you talk with her, she will reassess the motions and actions that she is making and that are happening between them and understand that they are not appropriate.\n\nGood luck, you need to ultimately do what is best for yourself in the long run..whatever course that means you should take.\n\n\noh and the quote: better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all...is in no way from a "show"..it is Saint Augustine (November 13, 354–August 28, 430)...well before they had T.V.
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Well if she used sex to "get you"....then it must have been pretty good, right?  Just try to re-kindle that.  You know it's in there somewhere, don't let her stop just because you're together now, you still have to make eachother happy and satisfied.  Don't cheat just yet.  Tell her you want her, and you miss the sex...compliment her and build her up a little..she'll be turned on before you know it.