I have had several filipino girlfriends..they constantly text..visit..telephone..I need my space now and again.
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It seem that way, this girl that was in my class was clingy to her boyfriend, they argued all of the time. eventually they broke up, but she was still stalkin him and harrassing him, it was crazy, then she tried to move on with this other guy and the same thing happened. I think that she was the problem.....
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she has use her friends, as a escape, she do love you,an want you , but has fear, love is become to real  for her.so she says its because of her friends, long distances love is very hard to handle. words ,on the phone , computer  is some not enough so just take your time , it a risk , but trust your heart, an mind an keep talking to her as a wonderful friend don't talk about love or try to convince her of your love let her come to you. give it time if the love is true it will happen in time.
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First of all, Filipinos are very flexible in so many ways.  They are very attached to their culture but can easily adapt in any cultures.  Do you know how many filipinos around the world? What I can advice to you is to get to know the person better.  It looks like this is a long distance relationship.  You don't have to marry her or invite her right away.  Try to enjoy each other's company. I'm sure you would learn so much from her.  Filipina is one of the best wife in the world.  Once you find the right one, you will surely be pampered.  Very good cook too.  I just don't know about your GF.  It's not all about the money but surely you would help her to grow and be independent.  It is really part of the culture that filipinos help their families.  Good luck and have a wonderful relationship.
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Guess it all depends. My friend has been in a relationship with Tanya from Williston, ND since January. He says he fell in love with her over the phone. when they first met in March he asked her to marry him then went to her home town to move her here to Marinette.  Did not happen. She came to visit again. Again he took her home to move her here and again she did not come.  Since that time they talk on phone daily but not like in beginning. Most times it turned to argument.  His family not like her and her family not like him.  She is again here for a visit.  This time is more to see if any spark still there. Is like when first met she was pretending to be someone she was not. Then while apart she left her real self out.  Guess smartest thing to do is take ones time it does not matter if relationship is far or near it depends on how you get along once you really get to know the person.
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absolutely...i went through this too...if you guys connect really well..and you guys want each other for the right reason..of course..i'm a spiritual person as well..
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Damn, I wish I had his problems, I am a man and I am going through the exact same thing. It's hard when you want to be with a person and you feel they do not want you. I have tried going on trips just the two of you. If nothing else works ask flat out what is up? This was a good month for me, I got it more than once a week, I still had to beg a few times but at least I got it. I know for a fact it is going to be different this month, I will be begging more but I love her.
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I'm going through the same thing. So you're not alone. It's awful....But you're extremely fortunate. My guy friend never came back!!!! He's been gone for a while now...(a month maybe?) and slowly, very slowly, I'm coming back to reality. So I guess all you need is some time. \nI believe that your heart is made up of people. So when someone leaves, the people are ripped out of your heart, leaving a huge gap. A painful gap. And the only way to heal it is to replace it with new people. So try to find someone new to fill in that empty space in your heart. I haven't, that's for sure. It's hard to find someone as special as those guys. \nWhenever memories of those guys come back, just shut it out. Replace those memories with bad ones. Try to forget them.\nOk, I know that's an awful thing to do, but at least it'll help you concentrate for another hour. \nI hope this helps, sister. Good luck. I wish you the best.\n\nP.S. Thanks for your Q. I finally found someone I can relate to.\n\nOooohh! Here's something to cheer you up:\nIn a world of cheerios, be a fruit loop.\nHaha, sorry, I'm really random. But this quote has helped me. It might do the same for you!
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Never mind men needing space, women do too.  I just plain like to be alone sometimes.  I can't speak for him but I know that when he gets home from a day of skiing with friends he's relaxed and in a good mood.  I know I am when I spend a day with friends.  Gives us something to talk about later.
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i really think they (Filipinos) have a very rich culture. yes, discrimination is really rampant for asians but the good thing about them is that they keep on smiling and fighting for who they are and for their culture. you just have to know them more..be with them for some time and see how they live their lives positively.
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having been married to a philipo for 13 yrs her thirst for sex did not stop now divorced from her she has had 7 male friends al different nationalities and i dont think she has finished
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Geez, I'm in a rut right now with one.  I want to believe something will really happen, but the longer it goes, and his stories change, I"m starting to feel he's making me play games now.  \n\nI have however made 2 very good friends from the online dateing!  It's like we have been friends forever. The problem was, we weren't compatable with all the lovey, romance, sex stuff.\nBut I'll love their friendship and hold them dear in my heart forever!
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hmmz..so yu ppl dun have eacch other contak noz or wot.. huh??\n if shez yur gf.. i gues. yu muz be havin her no... so cal her n ask her why??.. n if yu dun have yet shared yur noz..  then its weird.. \ni guess.. yu r an indian by name.. well..  so i think maybe dat can happen in india.. dat without havin eachotherz contak noz.. yu ppl ar involved n all.. anywayz.. well shez not here. maybe.. some unexpected problem came in her lyf. n she did not get tym 2 get online.. or sumthin lyk dat.. \ni wish yu cul mention sumtyn more abt yur reltionship wid her.. so we cul tel yu.. more abt this..\nmay GOD bless yu\nT.
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Can't stop thinking about them...pulse races when the phone rings, thinking it might be them...free time completely consumed by thoughts of them, time with them, planning what to do when you see them next...don't know what you'd do if they were suddenly out of the picture
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Yes I have  the same experience ...understand everything happens for a reason..ever thing, nothing happens by mistake...if it was meant to be ...then you would still be communicating with them...but just know obviously they aren't the one so don't give up your soul mate is out there...and he will find you...keep hope alive
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i have and i didn't always work in my favor most of the time thats all they wanted. The best idea is to make them wait from the start and see if they want to be with you just to be with you or if they keep asking to get in your pants, then you know before it gets serious.
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One of my friends is in this business and she never stops telling me that I should join. I think just because she insists constantly, there must be something wrong with it!!!
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It's good that you seem like a good man if you are showing all the signs that you love and care for her. However, your girl seems to have had enough of you for whatever reason. I think she may feel overwhelmed by the living arrangement you guys have chosen and she finally figured out that she needs her space. Maybe living together put a strain on the relationship and she feels smothered. You can't make her stay if she so desperately wants to go.