I AM 16 I AM IN LOVE WITH MY GIRLFRIEND IN SHE IS ABOUT THE SAME AGE OF ME I REALLY WONT TOO SHOW HER HOW MUCH I LOVE HER BUT I DON KNOW HOW TOO DO IT CAN ANYBODY HELP ME I REALLY NEED HELP
200485
Ain't love grand??? If she is in love with you, why the heck can't you two just say so? If she isn't, it ain't gonna happen...such is life in the love lane. You need a lot more experience than you have right now. Don't be in such a hurry to be tied down with a steady...bad for your learning process. Trust me on this one.
163269
I think you have to talk to her. I'm sure it sounds about as much fun as getting teeth pulled, but I think you really must  do it. You can never know how people really feel about you until they tell you themselves. Some people just don't show how they truely feel and maybe she doesn't know how you really feel. If you really love her, you should take the risk and find out for sure. And if worst comes to worst and she tells you that she doesn't feel the same way about you at least you will know and will be able to move on without always wondering .
385779
Talk to her alone, and tell her how much you girlfriend means to you.  If you aren't willing to take a bullet for her or marry her once it gets to that point, then you should just quit right now.  I'm sorry if that may have sounded a bit harsh, but relationships aren't things to be played with.  I am only 16, but I have been trying to find that one person who is willing to stay with me for the long run, and not just for the few months.\n\nAnyways, just tell her how much her daughter means to you, and you would never want to hurt her in any way.  Tell her who you truly are, and your girlfriend's mother will truly appreciate how much courage and self-confidence it took for you to say all that to her.  Your girlfriend will also appreciate your care for her and how much you tried to make her mother accept you.\n\nIt might take a bit to build up all that confidence, but it will be VERY worth it in the end.  You now know what must be done, so good luck!
452324
This is an easy one.  Why not imagine that you had a daughter your age and that it was she not you, that was involved with your bf.  What advice would you tell her?  Simple isn't it?\n\nYou know what to do.  Love is not a competition.
457294
You have no idea what love is.  Noone does.  Especialy is you are only 12.  Everyone thinks they are in love when they are 12 but I'm sorry to say that it won't last.  You should move on. Sorry.
508098
whoa! not trying to bash you but the age difference is probably the reason why you cant have a conversation. plus you need to be carefull talking to minors online and on the phone. Yea you may love her but dont go to jail for it! another thing is the fact that you may be too mature for her as far as the mindset.
130969
How old are you? Everyone should fall in love ay least once.But beware,there is alot of cheats,liars,and dogs out there just waiting for that naive girl to play into their laps.
514262
If you are truly in love, age doesn't matter. Love is too precious to be limited by rules of behaviour. Enjoy yourself.
75661
Sir...I don't know how old she is or where she's from...but I must tell you when it comes to these feelings...I believe every female is the same.\nShe LOVES you...that's why she said it makes it hard for her to accept her reality of dying...But you shouldn't leave her...Do you know why she kept it a secret?  Because she loves you so much so she's afraid that telling you will make you leave.  Though she said she wished she never fell in love with you but think about it...if you were gonna die...wouldn't you feel sad and guilty that you have to leave the person you love so much?\nPlease don't leave her...I believe she needs you....As you said...she has about 3 months...you are in love with her aren't you?  Then stay with her for at least the last three months of her life!!  \nIf she didn't love you she wouldn't care about dying...it is because she loves you so much that she doesn't wanna leave you!  She doesn't want you being by yourself all lonely...that's why she said she wished she never fell in love with you...it's because she loves you a lot!\nDon't leave her!
576682
Sweetheart, you are young and in love; I know it sounds like a hard thing to do, but just be her friend, you are both too young to have this kind of stress in your lives. Be her friend, and be a good friend, things have a really weird way of working themselves out, so don't worry, if you love her you will cherish any relationship you have with her. \n\nP.S. You sound like a guy that any girl would be lucky to have, but I have to tell you; this probably wont be the last time you feel this way. I wish you good luck and good love
623534
First of all, 20 is not the correct age to fall in love. Okay man, you feel it is love. But think from your parents side, what they think? They might be of the feeling that your's is not love but just attraction/infatuation/sexual attraction, likewise. My advice is that you try your best to avoid that girl for a week, and then you decide whether it is love or lust ! About your parents problem, you can have a cool talk with them without any strings. But I personally suggest you try the one week avoiding option and then decide and talk with your parents. Good Luck.
417430
we meet new people everyday.and someone affects us in someway.we cant fight it.we are humans.not God.I guess, being in love with your current girl is not everything it is in the relationship.maybe you have longed for more and you never realised it.probably,this girl you just met made you to feel much better, someway.perhaps this is how you wanted to feel or to be treated.7 years of a relationship is very long.and it started when you were a teen.hats off to you, but now you are saying that this girl makes you to feel special.means that you are being appreciated.maybe this is what you expected from your gf. you never had it.there's no growth in your relationship.you guys have stopped explaoring each orther.maybe she thinks she knows in and out of you.but you know there's more.more about you. be frank about your feelings to your gf.she deserves to know on how you are feeling about the relationship.maybe she has an answer too.
368364
well im the same age and i do all that stuff with my bf.. and no one thinks that it is weird.. and ppl dont say that we're too young. and just tell him you love him randomly when he makes you laugh or something.. it will be hard at first but after you get used to hugging and holding hands, u wil be doing it alot! trust me!
107672
Sounds like you can't just come out and say you love her....I would say, just mention that you care for her a lot every now and then, and then let your actions show your feelings. If you love her, do everything you want to do for her, make her gifts, take care of her when she's sick, help her with her schoolwork or work, you know. Let the actions show your love if you can't tell her. Hopefully then you will be able to tell her in time.
266643
It's Puppy Love!!! How cute!!! Remember as a teenager you are still too young for some responsibilities don't jump the gun and also if you have been in love for 3 yrs. then you can wait  3 more and then you'll know if she is still the one and if she is then you can be together forever. Right? Right! And if not... then the one will come later.
384741
Honestly, I am touched by your story. It is the power of love!\nI am fourteen now and I am also experiencing love now. I really love and care for her and believe that I would do everything for her. However, she told me that she didn't have that special feeling towards me. Maybe she has not realised how much I care for her. What I hope now is for her to wake up someday and receive me in her heart.\n\nSo, yes, follow your heart, if you really love her and she also feels the same, then you deserve that.
582560
Well, I don't think it's love...sorry to say that...I think it's infatuation if anything....Ask her out and give it some time and you will definitely know when you love this girl...So I will be honest here and give you a 1.....Good Luck!!!!