I have wondered this for a long time but  don't really know any gay men well enough to ask, but say you and your s/o just ate at a Mexican resteraunt and comeback home and are feeling a little frisky do you tell then to go use the bathroom first or do you not mind have a little doo doo on your d!ck. I mean wouldn't it kill the mood ? I know you can take an enema(sp?) but is that a little to much prep before sex?
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First of all, it would take about 18-24 hours before the Mexican food is even near your lower intestine. Second, the rectum is almost always clean unless the need to use the bathroom is imminent. The exceptions being some sort of illness. A quick shower to clean the outside is all that is needed to prevent leaving anything behind.\n\nFor those who are really worried about it, there are enemas that can be bought in the store that are relatively small in volume that only take about a minute or two to use.
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wait a second, i think i am confused or u are either using horribly bad puns. if you are implying that you are straight and u know this gay guy who wants to give you anal sex then you should be flattered yet offended because that is still sexual harrassment whether gay or not. u couldnt say that to a woman right. and by the way i'm gay so gay guys dont get mad at my answer.
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actually i just watched a thing on t.v. about germs. they said bathrooms are okay and that although they are dirty, as long as you are not licking your hands afterward, you have nothing to worry about really.  their advice was:  always wear shoes,  go in the very first stall (less people use ones closer to the doors),  unless you can visibly SEE something gross on the toilet seat -it is OK to sit on it, even without a seat cover,  and wash your hands with soap for minimum of 20 seconds (sing the ABC's in your head while washing to do it for the right amount of time).  The germ people actually said that shopping carts from grocery stores fail more health/hygeine inspections than most public bathrooms!!! But no one thinks twice about touching a shopping cart handle.  They tested one and found all sorts of viruses and bacteria including poo. So never, never take free food samples from the grocery store without sanitizing, or your likely to get sick from it. \n\n  \nI don't mind public bathrooms unless they are really, really gross. You always hear horror stories about people who contract diseases from public bathrooms, but I think they are few and far between. I've never known (or met anyone who has known) anyone who has gotten medical problems from a public bathroom....\nIn Switzerland (i think) an artist created a fully functional bathroom on a street corner. it's walls are two-way mirrors. So people on the street just see a mirror, but from the inside you can see everything outside. So you're basically doing your business in front of everyone, but they can't see you.  Apparently no one uses it because it's so strange and they get anxiety about it. Talk about public bathrooms.... haha.
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how about professional use of the English language honey...if you had sex with out a condom he did...there really is no way around it...a small amount of fluid comes out before hand so don't be silly, use condoms.
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I don't know that it's "rude", but it is a bit curious if it happens all the time. I used to date this man who always did that and rarely stayed the night. I became suspicious and followed him one night. He was married. The cad!!\n\nFrom then on any guy who wanted to shower immediately only got to do it once! The snuggle, cuddle nap thing is mandatory. They can shower when they get home! LOL
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Shhhhhhhhhhhh...............If you promise not to tell anyone else I will tell you why. Okay, I'll take that as a promise.........We go to the bathroom in pairs and we meet up with all the other women who also went to the bathroom in pairs.........then, now this is the big secret part, okay?........Once we are safely in the bathroom and it is all just women we have our secret bathroom rituals.............we rarely ever actually go to the bathroom.........instead we, are you sure you won't tell anyone else? Okay, we usually fix our make-up, check for food between our teeth, make sure our hair still looks good, sometimes we do actually go to the bathroom, and the entire time we are tending to these rituals, we talk about the men we are with. Now you know our big secret!
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Wow, if you feel that way sex is going to be difficult for you. I think we have to not be too uptight about exchanging our vital bodily fluids. :)
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it's ok ,will relieve you of all the undigested food in your body along with toxins and bad germs good also in preparation for anal sex, could you be full of sh-t
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i've never had it done but i think it's best to go pee before you go in the doctors office... wouldn't want you peeing all over your doctor... i almost did that a couple times....haha
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What I found worked for me was to only do a short sitzbath after I used the bathroom.  I agree, when I would use it more often or longer, I felt worse.  Once I started to feel better, I would just hop in the shower after, instead of the sitzbath.  Hope you feel better soon!!  It's MISERABLE!!
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I'm not sure if cleaning up is the correct way you should be taking care of chances of contracting an STD. Condoms would be a wonderful way to reduce any chances you have of this. Although clean up male/female sure can help with the stink factor!
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if you eat broccoli your pee and come will smell.  so dont eat broccoli before you have sex.
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There really isn't a single answer to that question. Ingesting either type of human waste, whether urine or feces is very dangerous. Feces with the greatest danger of hepatitis. A very bad infection which scars and hardens the liver. Earlier years it lead to death. Now, there are a series of vacinations, one can get to, possibly, get through the disease. Stimulation, anally, of both men and women increases sexual pleasure. Anal stimulation of the male at the time of orgasm can double the amount of semen, ejaculated, there by, doubling the pleasure. One of the curious things about sex is one's bounderies are generally, easied, during sex. Part of that is from one's early messages about the body, organs & waste. A rebelliousness can appear in sex as "anything goes" with some people. Sweat, body odors including feces, feeling, groping, kissing all lead to a somewhat natural "High." That's when the boundries one may think they have are "thrown to the Wind." That is when people do stupid things & forget about precautions. AIDS is perfect example of the result of dropping all precautions during that natural High. People do get bored and look for new ways of doing the "same old thing." It is OK to experiment but, precautions must always be taken. These days, swallowing a male's semen is an absolute no, no. Anal stimulation can be done with finger condoms. They can be found at your local drugstore in the First Aid Dept. Their called "Finger Protectors" w/ 30 per box. Their used for inserting suppositories, applying hemorrhoidal creams or applying medication to open wounds. \nThe renown book, Joy Of Sex gives a full summary of many sexual techniques including those above. There's another entitled, Joy of Gay Sex, also, filled with many techniques. But, urinating or defecating on another is far, from healthy. Or, as one stated, here, masterbating with pooh. Fecal bacteria are very powerful and a skin infection, very hard to get rid of, plus being painful. Ingested, possibly, fatal. Precautions are the #1 rule in today's society.
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Would you follow the ten second rule in a restaurant?  I guess it depends on how hungry you are to decide whether or not you want to try and eat food off of a floor.  If it was at my mother-in-laws who is ocd with cleaning you could follow a two hour rule there, although I am sure she would have "cleaned it up" before then.
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I do agree that the bathroom looks a little nicer with the seat and the lid closed, but is it really that big of a deal? And for the people that say they have fallen into the toilet because the seat was left up...what the hell are you doing backing into the bathroom? Can you not see that it's up when you go in there? It only takes a second to put the damn thing back down..big deal. My ex-husband and my current boyfriend did both. Sometimes it's up and sometimes it's down. It's not an issue in my house.
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you got it right, why should us guys have to do the double touch on the toilet! up before and down after.\n\nforget that, in this day and age with equality issues all around i think that if guys have to put it down then women have to put it up!\n\nSilly females think they can control us....
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when he gets in greet him at the door in sussies! and go on the pretence that your hubby is due home and you really shouldn't, try and do it in every room in the house, when you get to the kitchen get the cream and choc sauce out-maybe strawberries whatever take your/his fancy.\ni have been married 13 years and we play the just met game and it really turns us on keeps our sex life going anyway-doesn't hurt anyone else all good fun\nhave fun ><