Theres this guy my age and i am sure he is inta me and all dat.  Hes hot and he just called me.  My sis is preg and I dont wnat to end up like her!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Shes 16.  How far do i let a boy go and when do i stay stop???  Yes i have done it before.
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Babygirl listen, you don't have to go there even though you already have. Girls these days always want to please these HORNY, NAPPY headed boys. FOR WHAT!!! Focus on school sweetheart. When he see's you going places and using your mind to better yourself, that's a powerful thing. \n\nIf you don't want to end up like your sister and pregnant at a young age, then quit getting your freak on. WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS? They should be your inspiration to better yourself. Make school your top priority and excel at it as much as possible and any other hobby you like to do. When the time comes for relationships and boy's you'll know. If your into praying, pray about the situation. I've seen to many of my friend's who had babies at a young age and missed out on being teenagers. That life was not for me. I enjoyed being a teenager. PLEASE LEARN FROM THAT. You don' t let a boy disrespect you in anyway or pressure you to do jack squat you hear me!!! \n\nIf he gives you the old everybody's doing it, or all my boy's are laughing at me because I ain't getting none, or better yet if you loved me you would do it, who the hell cares? What matter's is how you feel and if that is what you want and are ready to do. Most teenage girls are not ready for that. It's the hormones sweetie. There outta control, but it's ok. Not saying you can't date and kiss boy's but the whole taking it to the next level might not be what you are prepared for (Dirty diapers and 3am feedings). Not football games and prom...\n\nBecause if you give it up and he drops you, you'll regret it, and he might not give a d*** about you. He might just be thinking with the wrong head. Just being real with you. I'm a bit older than you, and trust me when I say W-A-I-T, you'll thank yourself for it later, take care of yourself, LOVE LIVE LIFE...........................
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wow\nwell im 16.... i know there are constantly urges\nbut for guys it a different story\ncause we dont have to worry - most of the time about the consequences.\ntrust me 14 is too young a age\nwait until at least 17 or 18 hour be an evan better age\ni konw its hard..... this girl i really like talks to me about that kind of stuff - but we say we're kidding.....its too young a age\ngo to any parent and as them "when was your first time"\nsome will rarley say 15 or 16 but most of them say early 20's late teens\n\ntrust me\nWAIT!!
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you don't sorry move on .but you know i just bet this guy like you more of what he saying .so if you want your boy hang in there .but don't make a fool of youself it just a game young guys play.
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i kthink hes more mad at himself then he is at chu. dis boii got ur sis pregnant and dat says u should pretty much stay awaii from him he has a huge responsibility now and if he likes u hel cum back to u but hes havin a babii wit ur sis and u have to give him sum space u cant just keep hooking up wit him and shit u no... xoxo
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tell me and we'll both know.  i'm 31 and my younger bro is 28 and we still don't see eye to eye on most things.  different personalities unfortunately.  if your bro is nasty and swearing than it sounds like you just need to walk away from him until he can speak to you nicely.  be strong when he bugs you for money, he's just using you as he knows you're an easy target.
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You like him... you're in 9 and he's in 12?  Well, do what you like, but try to stay away from anything serious until you are at least 17, or you might get a rep.  Boys who really like you will deal with that, btw.
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YES, a lot of guys are like this, and if you wanted more than a quick fling you should have made that clear before, not after.\n\nI think you're too young for this, even though you feel like you want it. Stick to boys your own age if possible, although that's still no guarantee of not getting hurt.\n\nWhen you're older, if you want casual sex, that's your choice, as long as you're careful, but for now this isn't a good idea. \n\nI know it's not easy when you're permanently horny, but remember to respect yourself or nobody else will.\n\n(PS, I don't want to sound rude, but are you sure this really happened, and you didn't just fantasise about it? Because if you did, then that's cool, best way to go about it.)
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Im having the same problem... and im in the 8th grade too....(check out my ?) well ne ways i called his older sister and she told me how he felt about me and gave me advise, i was sooo glad she did. If he doesnt have an older sibling that you can talk to, then ask one of his friends....they will tell.. trust me.... ok check out my question.... thanx
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You're both young\nand your hormones are getting in the way of your morals and better judgment\n...guys are guys and especially young guys don't know any better. Really think this one through because there are other lots of other guys out there who you can have a great relationship with and would be more interested in something other than sex.\nDon't do something you will regret and be ashamed of later. What you do now will and can shape who you become later in life and may set an example for other people to follow. Also try standing up for yourself and tell him to not treat you that way anymore because you are both related.
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he seems kind of young...and the girl is even YOUNGER!!!   Let him grow before he gets put into such a situation....If by chance, if he is rejected, he wouldn't be able to handle it that well being so young....Let him grow....then you won't need to worry about protecting him....a 13 year old should have other interests besides girls....He is wayyyyyyyyyy too young...My two sons are men now....they were raised w/ me advising them to wait for romance....they took the advise...And they are both very happy....dating so young can lead to early pregnancy umong other probs...
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If you were 8 and he was 2 when you got along and he's 9 now,  that would make you 15?  You're a teenager he's a child.  Case closed.  I am 28 with a 15 year old sister who seems like a martian to me now.  When she was younger we were very close.  Now she is a different person,  as she is trying to "find herself".  YOU are a different person than you were then,  just as he is,  however I am sure that it's not all his fault.  You are asking a group of people who don't know you and don't know who you are to tell you if you hate someone?  How can we tell you your feelings if you don't know yourself?  Furthermore,  hatred is a horrid thing.  It consumes.  I speak from experience.  In addition,  honey your spelling and use of language is horrible.  It's difficult to read posted questions when they barely resemble english.
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Well it sounds like each sister looked up to the other and maybe should not have when it came to this. You have your head on right which is what is most important but your concern for your sister who is way to young to be doing this - and did you say two guys were doing this with her?? \n\nObviously she does not respect herself or her body. She is way too young to even understand the body sexually, what it means and does, how it feels, precautions to takethat sleeping around causes people to talk crap about you and think poorly of you, that waiting for someone you love to share that with is the most important thing.\n\nYou know you are careful so you are not a hypocrite. You are also not 13. Where are your parents? Someone has to start keeping an eye on her and not letting her have boys in the house. She needs some rules and restrictions.. it sounds like she just runs around and does whatever she wants - where are the parents here? As her sister though, you can start to create some rules she should follow - and keep your eye on her. Don't let boys in the house. Not only does she not respect herself but not even the house she lives in. She is way out of her league and can get all types of diseases too - not just a baby. You have to tell her this - that STDs and HIV can be transmitted even when a condom is used, that pregnancy can occur even with a condom.\n\nMaybe she wants attention and takes anything - even negative attention rather than none. I feel bad for her though and your family that no one watched over you all enough to teach you right and wrong. It sounds like you got it so how did you learn that but no one else did?\n\nShe has to respect herself or no one EVER will. Men respect women that are picky about who they share themselves with - not ones who sleep around and treat their body like it is worth nothing. Make her understand how precious this is and how sexy not having sex and waiting can be - how much better it is when you love someone - talk to her very openly. She is not having it because of the way it feels - she has no clue.. she is doing it to feel attractive, get attention and feel better about herself. Try to help her boost her self esteem and spend time with her - hold her hand nad show her the way.\n\nMost important, teach her about how to be safe - about condoms, birth control pill.. everything - go  to a Planned Parenthood (they have a website) in your area and have a counselor there talk to her. She should know having a kid that young is not going to be good - it can end her life essentially - any other dreams she has... anything - watch her, talk to her, show her the way.
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you are sprung.  you wrote, " but i know he's not right for me. he lies alot. but i cant help it."  so he's hot?  so he's 'the ladies man? sure.  what the f ever.  i've seen this 1000 times.  i've been there 100 times.  and you have to get the f over this man.  he's a bad boy for life and you'll be another trophey on his shelf.  just another story to tell at the bar before he picks up his next one.  if you are smart enough to connect to the internet, you are smart enough to get over this man.   if you do him/it once, you'll no longer be his object to be desired.  you'll be his object conquered..  stay a mystery.  it's so much more fun to smile at him and make him wonder, than to blush and make him proud.
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Well if nick is only interested in girls with big boobs, maybe it's not worth your time to go after him.  My best advice is to just tell him how you are feeling.  Ask him if there is any chance of you two hooking up and just go from there.  I don't mean to sound like a mother here, but is Kayla really a bioch?  Or are you just saying that b/c she has something you want?  Anyway, just talk to him and if there is a future there, great, if not, find someone else who isn't only interested in big boobs.
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No, you'll be fine.  The trouble is, boys of that age are still fairly immature.  They need time to get to know your personality.  Relax and don't try to be what you aren't.  It will happen, although not as soon as you'd like, maybe.  It's worth the wait.
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Don't be naughty with your naughty question. You know the right thing to do... but if I was asking this question, I would have the guy in bed next to me. Make that your next aim. Have fun, youre only young once.
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i can say be careful! Okay? I am not sure how old you are....If I knew I could help more. But, i do have a daughter and boys do that to her. I would say the "game" is that the boys are fooling around only to see how you react. If you react in a way that lets them know that you like them then they will respond accordingly. Yes, it is a game. The boys don't want to be found out so quickly is the thing. If they are saying and pickin then yes they all like you. Just don't be "easy". I mean easy as in being the first one to make it clear that you like them. Let them be the one or ones' that show you how they feel. If us girls become easy then they want no part of us. It is not right.....i know but it is true. Boys can be easy and that is okay in this world. Doesn't seem fair and it isn't. Just know that you are liked and go with the flow. Good luck hun.