I am really shy and I dont know how to tell my byguy friendthat I love him the last time I tried to tell him I paniced. I love him with all my heart and he is alot to me
200993
make sure your not to flashey you will scare him away. first you got to hire some back up crew to sniff around to see if there is any talk of him liking you back cause if not then you don't want to tell him it might ruin your freind ship. if there is no talk at all then try writing him a letter note a note like a high schooler but a letter explaining your feelings and that you hope it won't ruin your friends ship. wait and see what happens he might just like you also. good luck
31280
Just tell the guy. I am in total and complete love with someone. I told him. Flat out. I let him know. And he said he loves me too. You just need to tell this person. Try to piece it together as best you can. Your feelings and everything. It doesn't have to be perfect, everything you say, but make it mean something. Let him know.
460437
u can ask one of ur friends or one of his friends to do that\nby indirect way \njust ask his friend to ask him by silly way without know that u who sent him about if he loves u or not\nhe may feel shy from saying it to u face to face\nso he cant feel jelouse because he is allready feel shy from even say he loves u
187724
I think you just need to come out and tell him how you feel.  Say something like; You know that you were my first love don't you?  Well, after hanging out with you for the past several years, it seems that I still have the same sort of feelings for you.  How do you feel about that?  \n\nIt is ultimately going to be a risk, but think of the reward!  Isn't it worth it if he feels the same way but was too shy, nervous or afraid of rejection like you?  Nothing ventured nothing gained.  Good luck!
500763
you need to talk to him..dont leave it alone thats the worst thing to do if you want him to notice your feelings for him you need to start talking if you are to shy you need to boost your confedence..try to talk into a mirror or something like that make sure you dont sound a little of when you tell him...and make sure you do it face to face its alot more atractive if you do it that way.
344320
its okay to be shy belive at lot of the times it can be a good thing the best way i can think of for you to tell you man what you want is to write him a letter and tell him what he could do to make the time you two share together a little more exciteing
25913
Be straightforward with him. Get him when he isn't busy and tell him you need to talk to him. Just say "hey buddy, you know that I love you. But I need to know if you feel the same way about me. If you don't please tell me, because I am not going to waste my time loving someone who doesn't love me back." Just say something similar to that. Good luck girl...
241911
If you don't talk to him, how are you going to find out? You need to communicate SOMEHOW.  But you need to try not to be too pushy so you don't scare him if you know what I mean.  People get scared if they're feeling pushed.  Maybe HE'S afraid to tell YOU how he feels. Try telling him he's really special in your life.  You don't have to come out and say "I love you" -- but everyone likes to hear they are special to others.  Wouldn't you?  I'll be if you heard that from someone (him maybe) -- you wouldn't feel quite so insecure would you?
39348
Awwww, this is soooo cute (sorry, got carried away there).\n\nYeah, have to agree with another answerer. Get him alone, it doesn't work if his friends are there, then he has to act all tuff and cool. Get him alone, and tell him in a quiet way that you really, really like him, a lot. Ask him how he feels about you. Things have a tendency to work out fine after that.\n\nThe best of luck to you :-)
202242
Just be honest with him.  Tell him that you love him.  Of course, you do have to brace yourself just in case he rejects you by not wanting to take your friendship to the next level, but that's better then where you're at now, sexually frustrated because you love someone but they don't love you in the same way.
636980
Here's the easy part:  Tell him how you feel.\n\nHere's the hard part:  You HAVE to accept his answer.  \n\nIf you have fear of rejection, it's only part of the process of relationships (and yes, that means a personal relationship with yourself).\n\nTell him direct.  Guys like that.\n\nGood luck.
128841
Keen as you both may be I think you are both nervous about putting yourself out there... it is scary to say how you feel with no guarantee about how the other feels, and he may be feeling the same.\n\nI would say try not to rush it... try to find things that you can do together as friends... things that include groups of others... then a few others... then a couple of others.\n\nYou dont have to tell someone that you like them... they say actions speak louder than words!\nSo smile at him a lot, send him a cute card when you get a chance, buy him a small easter egg, if he likes a particular group then look up info about them online and learn a bit about them so you can share his enthusiasm...\nit is the little things that make the biggest impact.\n\nOnce both of you are comfortable together... and you are both fairly confident of each others feelings towards each other, nature will probably take over.\n\nGood luck!
6075
well search your heart and find out if you love him or you want to get down with him.  its very goood to clear things out of you or you will hate your self if you don't express your self or you will blow up. but if you love him then this is a way to tell him:\n"i really like you and you have been such an inspiration to me.i don't know if you feel the same way and i hope what i am about to say dosen't ruin our friendship because i like being your friend. i don't know how to put this i find you very attractive and i think i begining to fall in love with you." what about that. sorry i could not help much
499991
I think that is sweet...I think he loves you just like he said...but I think he is watching out for your feelings...a long distance relationship can be hard...Maybe he is also scared cause he just put his heart on his sleeve for you and that is a hard thing for a guy to do...Did you tell him you loved him?...maybe he is afraid that you don't share the same feelings for him?...Think about you feel for him...talk to him and tell him...and if you do have the same feelings for him and you think you can handle a long distance relationship...then tell him...otherwise, be careful...he told you what he feels...and I don't think he wants to lose you as friend...hope this helped some...good luck to you :)
320129
you sound like a sweet person, and i have been where you are, i just told him i needed some space, that i had alot on my mind, nothing personal, but there are some things you need to work through. that seemed to work! oh yes tell him you really like him , but things are just going to fast. GOD BLESS and good luck:)
28202
When you truly love someone, I think it is worth the risk that they may not say it back to you. \n\nIt might make you more comfortable if you put that out there by telling him that you are not expecting him to say it back to you, but that you just wanted him to know how you feel. I told my boyfriend this 7 months before he said it to me. I made sure that he knew that I wanted him to say it in his own time and not feel that he had to say it back, or be uncomfortable if he was not at the same level. Then, just be patient. When he does tell you, you will know that it is truly meant from the heart. \n\nAnd who knows? He just may be waiting to know how you feel because he is just as shy as you!\n\nGood luck!
176444
Life is confusing at 14. It's confusing at a lot of other ages too. Just look at all of the different answers you have and you will see what I mean. Here's my best advice.\n\nWrite your friend who moved and tell him that when you told him that you loved him it was true, but your love for him is a friend's love, not a romantic love. Tell him that his friendship is important and that you love having him as a friend, but the romance is not there for you. \n\nFind some ways to be around the new shy guy. It's ok to be shy at 14 - for guys and girls. If you get into some of the same activities you will have some chances to find out if there is a spark between you. Be patient. If you are both shy it may take some time. At 14, it's ok to use friends to pass along the message that you might be interested in getting to know him better. That can work pretty well sometimes.\n\nI like that it matters to you how your friend feels and that you are honest about your fears and feelings. That makes you a lot more special than some of the people who have answered you. I hope it goes great for you and that this works out just perfect for you. Good luck.