Is this a game? a dream? or a serious relationship who can end in a happy ending?
215709
its not a game and a dream if u really make it happen and can meet in real life ...and are both serious about it and have the same intentions... and yea it can end in a happy ending...listen to ur heart... good luck :)
560755
Hey.  This is in regards to How do two people stay madly in love with one another for, like 20 years or more?  My answer is that if you have no expectations in a relationship and make sure that yourself is numner one and happy.  Then the relationship will work.  If you expect things to happen you will get disapointed.  If you don't, you get nice surprises every now and then.  If you make sure you are happy, only then can you give yourself to your partner.  There also has to be a mutual understanding and maturity to be in love.  It can't be based off of a physical relationship, it must be based on truth.  If there is no honesty the relationship will fail.  There must be something there that makes you want to be with that person.  If thats not there, then it's not love.  Its not going to last.  Everyone can't fall in love with whomever they want, it's a two-way street.  It's a commitment that both have to make.  If both people aren't on the same page it won't work.  That's about all I have.  Mainly, it has to be basd on some honesty, whether that be in a verbal form or physical form.  And to keep things fresh and exciting and "mad" there must be some spontaneity.  But the only way to have spontaneity is to not have expectations. Thank you.
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it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!
299780
well if u don't want to leave anyone then continue with this relation as long it lasts.\n\nhave fun!!
581594
it might not be him at all but rather the idea of him that is making your mind return to him.  You said you really liked the guy.  Well it could just be your brain returning to thought of settling down or whatever that meant in your mind....i.e. safe place, love, purpose.......But then again I am no dream expert.
140505
I'm in the middle. You do have to think about your future and your goals. But then he is your love. If you say that you know your gonna end up with each other, then don't worry, things will work out at the end for both of you. Plus, if  you say he loves you then he'll want you to be happy no matter what decision you choose.
343492
Hi, I know you really want to know but you never know for sure. Just enjoy the fun and sometimes it will grow into love and sometimes it won't. Have fun and move on when it's over. Always be sincere though. Don't hurt any one's feelings.
39899
Dear Penny,\nBefore asking any questions, or even analysing the myriad of eye movements, hand gestures and pupil dilating which probably indicate commitment, think what YOU want from this relationship. \n\nThe previous respondent talked about friends with benefits, but in this instance I have the feeling it applies to you also. \n\nSo: how do you feel about him? Honestly? Do YOU want to commit? If the answer is yes, be brave, be honest, and let him know you're ready to take this relationship to the next level.\n\nGood luck!
170556
are you planning on having a serious relationship that soon? take it slow.....be friends, the love will flow naturally, if it's meant to be...= )
79808
It's great if you love someone, and they love you back.  However, if you don't feel that she loves you, then you should probably move on.  \n\nPlaying games is not something that people do when they love another person.  Attempting to change IS.  \n\nSo if she keeps playing games, move on.  If she is making an honest attempt to change, then stay with her and see if it works out.
511503
Lucky you.  Sounds like you have the perfect ingredients for a great relationship.  You already know eachother very well and you already have a great time together, so go for it!
6993
Wow, tough problem. I think what I'd do is have a heart to heart with the girlfriend. Maybe she really does want him to be happy with you and maybe it's him that's holding out hope for a renewed relationship with her. If that's the case, she'll need to back off, but you need to find out if that's really the way it is or not first. Good luck. I feel for you.
345012
I absolutely believe that it is possible as I have had it happen to me. But...not all premonitions come true. I feel that you should go on as planned and see what happens. Maybe he'll have another "feeling" that it will happen or maybe he will find out what you both can do to ensure it does happen.
299097
sounds like a perfect couple !! Enjoy your life and don't worry..
159929
The only dating I have done as an adult has been from on here.  I usually kind of know the person, have talked on the phone and online for quite awhile before we meet.  I have usually dreamed about the meeting for some time.  I tend to live a bit in a fantasy world.  I think about will we have as much fun together laughing, will he see me and think that I am not what he expected, etc.  I don't worry about how I will see the other person because I have already formed an emotionally satisfying bond from talking for awhile.
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No, you're not living in dreamland. Things such as this happens in real life and can indeed work itself out. The main thing though, for the both of you is to be more patient. Allow time for things to work themselves out. I was in a similar situaition where I had meet a friend over the net and things turned out good in the beginning. She also lived miles and miles away from me, 13 hours to be exact. And I too, went to visit her and everything, made plans to move to where she lives but she got a little impatient about the entire process and called it quits because in her words, she wanted someone there to hold hands with and to be with whenever she felt the need, she didnt want to wait on it...\n\nI will say this though, since he's over 30, still living with parents, etc....Then you may want to think about stability, does he have it? IIs stability something that you want, etc??? Does he have any real obtainable goals, etc......You should consider all of those things
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I think you should ask yourself , is it fair to both Daniel & brian , are you after monatery things or do you want love , does Brian really feel the same for you or is he playing you , here's a man (Daniel) willing to give you his life , marry you , buy a house , I think if Brian loved you he would be there or he would find a way to have you there , Love is not about the good times , it's about the way you treat each other durring the bad times , and romance is not a place , but who you are with , there's a reason why you are not with Brain , can you remember why , I think Daniel would aready be hurt if he knew , so are you being fair to him , my answer is no! , and I think you are playing them and it is wrong ....