I think i'm in love with this woman, but she is married yet I know she likes me, but she is faithful even dough I know i can make her happy. She rather stay witha guy that ignores her. Why would you stay with someone like that, when love is just a few feet away.
206387
She could be like a lot of women...meaning that eventhough she's in a sh*tty marriage, she's still gonna be faithful to him because the bond of marriage does mean something to her. If you try and push the issue with her you're only gonna make her uncomfortable and she'll push you away. I say just bide your time cause eventually she'll realize she's with a d*ckhead and leave his *ss. We all smarten up at some point :D.
518961
LET GO.  She is never going to leave him.  Why leave if she can have you both?  There's obviously something in you that she is missing from the other man (and vice versa) which is why she keeps you both around.  Aside from this, if she does leave him, how can you ever trust that she won't cheat on you when she gets "bored" with you?  I think you deserve much more than this.  Get out now and find a quality woman with more respect for herself (and for you) than to sleep with 2 men and deceive them both.  If you thought more of yourself, you would certainly not put up with this for another day.  You should demand more than to be "the number 2 choice" to anyone.
191550
how long have you known this woman . marry outside of her religion well i am not the kind to stand in the way of love my frien but have you known her for a while or what well that your right i guess let me be the first to say i hope you and this woman will be happy together in my opion it is you as well marry a woman in her religion she cant marry out of her religion i guess well hope all is fine with you in about.2. years from now god bless in my opion i really hope you know what you are doing well anyway i wish you the best you i figure will need it i am not a person to stand in the way of love but that was quick wish you and the woman the best again ?
597996
Sorry to say that I'm inclined to believe that she liked the man she was engaged with.  Why?  Because if she didn't, why did she cry when she learned about him having an affair with another woman?  In stead, she should have been happy to learn that because she would have the chance to choose the man she should marry or at least, if still her parents would choose for her, she would be engaged to someone she might lilke at the end.\n\nWhat I am trying to drive at is that I don't think it's possible for you to have a happy relationship with someone who does not know how to follow what her heart dictates and who knows only how to be an obedient daughter even if it would letting go of someone she loves.\n\nA woman who loves should always find ways to pursue her feelings and should not let anybody else do the choosing for her behalf because marriage is a lifetime career and it will be very depressing and lonely to be married with someone she doesn't love at all.\n\nBelieve me, if she loves you, she will use all means to have a relationship with you even if it would mean her parents' anger and disappointment.  She should learn to live her own life the way she wants to and not how the way others want her to.  \n\nIf she is meant for you, Destiny will work towards your having her.  If not, Destiny will make things happen to make you move on without her.  Believe in Destiny and you will never go wrong.
300130
No, She has no reason to feel that way. Actually, it's a good way to drive her husband into another woman's arms. Marriage's never last when theres jealousy and control in the relationship. Trust is one of the most important elements in marriage.
204331
You've just answered your question. Now, I consider myself to be a gentleman.\nBut, look at what you said here. The women are the ones falling in love in your scenario. The guy is just dating and enjoying what's happening. The woman here is probably reading way too much into it, or she's the kind of woman who's "in love with falling in love".\n\nBy the way, when I was dating the woman who became my wife, I was the one who said the "I love you" first.\nHer response to that?... she said, "I know you do".
590922
I feel sorry for you. I think that she still loves and cares for you, but she has been emotionally drained from the marriage.\n\nWhen a woman is fed up she is fed up. Especially when she in truly in love and her partner is not returning the emotions. She can only keep trying for so long before she has to stop and think about if it is really worth it.\n\nI don't want to say but here it is" You should have treated her like a queen when you had her". It may be to little to late, but try and remain on good terms with her. She may just give you another chance. Just remember, if she does come back, don't fall into the routine of neglecting her feelings. If she leaves again, she may never come back.\n\nGood Luck!
617747
Yes! it sounds to me like you two are definatly in love. and if she didn't give you a good enough reason, like "i met someone else or i want to explore my options" then i think she still loves you, it is just too painful for her to be apart for so long. so i think you need to talk to her. dont just go over there and pop the question right away. but talk to her, make her fall in love with you again and then tell her you need her and that you two need to spend the rest of you lives together...then... "will you marry me?"
545962
it sounds to me like she loves you for the person you are inside, which is honorable.  she is attracted to the outer you now too which is also a beautiful thing.  to me, what makes a man attractive to me is his personality.  he doesnt have to look like the kind of man other women would want BECAUSE of his looks.  i dont fall for that either.  its whats inside.  from what it sounds like, your wife likes your whole package and you can relax and not worry.  she waited until now to tell you, probably because she loved you and felt it was just a matter of time before it would all kick into place, and now that it has, she is telling you so that you can know she has reached an even deeper level of love for you.  she is probably happy and excited to share that with you.  best to you both!!
126115
Sorry to say but even though he sleeps with you ,HE is married to her. and 9 times out of 10 they will never leave their wife. they like having the best of both worlds. he might be screwing you but she has his last name . And why would you want him? if hes screwing around on her what makes you think he wouldnt screw around on you?
282932
She loves you but not willing to give you 100% of her heart and soul..She obviously cares but is in doubt of a future with you..She seems to be questioning her own motives for being in a relationship with you..Maybe shes not totally satisfied with the relationship or feel solid enough in it..Seems to me she is willing to be friends but from a distance..Do not give her an alternative..thats instant death!Give her understanding and your friednship but your heart would be more appreciated elsewhere..Good luck!
190003
Sounds like trouble. Find away to fall in love again with the one you are married to.Its worth the effort, isn't it?
159570
my fiance' was married when i met him at work.his wife and him had been having issues with her cheating and she did not want kids and he did.he told me about 2 weeks after we met that he did not love his wife anymore.i never thought about getting involved with him until right before he seperated from his wife(a month and 1/2 after we met)he told me he loved me.i felt the same for him but i did not want to get in the middle of his marriage.he convinced me to be with him and i'm glad i did,he is the love of my life and says i am his
480119
The idea, in hindsight, appears logical and the answer seems clear.  Anyone would likely say "Just wait" if they could be assured that her love would be waiting for him after that time.  But the real issue here is this:  Would you have still felt the same?  What if you'd waited for her and, in so doing, denied yourself the chance to find love with someone who was ready?  We cannot know the future.  All we can do is live each day the best way we can and enjoy every bit of happiness that we are lucky enough to find.
182632
Are you really in LOVE with HIM?  Or is it the idea of new love and that feeling of new love, that you're in love with?  Especially being a married woman, after a little bit of time you lose that new love/lust euphoria.  Perhaps there are some things that you are missing in your marriage that you are looking for in this new guy.  I know it doesn't answer your question, but perhaps you should work on the marriage that you're already in and see if you can improve it, because you must have LOVED your husband at one time
442024
Even though her marriage is over yours is not.  She has no right to expect you to be faithful to her since you took vows to your wife.  With that said if you are still in love with her you need to ask yourself if you love her enough to end your marriage?  Don't cheat on your wife however because that just causes more pain to everyone involved.
638088
I think you are more infatuated with her than you love her. You got separated and she went to another man, why wouldn't she do it again if she has a problem with you again? Wake up man, this is simple commonsense. She just wants you, she does not need you, and you don't want to be in a relationship where you are just wanted and not needed. Thats not love. You will be used.\n\nWhat you need is a woman of your own and not one you share with another man. She is that other guy's wife and your seeing her is tantamount to adultery and that is treading on dangerous ground.\n\nDivorce? Well, she can get that to be with youbut are you going to marry her and take in that guy's children as your own? And do you see any reason why she won't divorce you as well when she has a problem with you? Don't be naive, you are believing that she loves you because thats what you want to believe. Sorry old boy but you will be a fool if you lick back what you spat out.