Do you think they should dictate each other lives?
209898
I saw my brother last year for the first time in 19 years.  I love him but his problems were my problems and I left the state and moved down south away from all my family so I could start a new life. I miss him every day.  That's kind of sad...)(
212963
yes i think they should
625921
It should be an equal partnership and things should be done based on being considerate of others. Also, no one is obligated to do anything in a relationship, you should want to do things in a relationship that will make your significant other happy.
361805
Yes...that's Where all the blessings lie!\nHowever, I always give my input, but let's face it, sometimes, SOMEONE has to make the final decision, and God says it up to the HUSBAND to be the head of the house, and wives are to submit....it's a wonderful, peaceful life!
498095
Knowing them, I wouldn't be surprised. But, it may be that their relationship really is on the rocks. Most musical artists speak about their lives through their lyrics, so maybe it's true.
397080
I'm absolutely fine with that. To hell with them. If you love each other that's the most important thing!
605792
uh no what do they have to do with your marriage or anyone elses.  your life is your life and theirs is theirs.  people need to get over this crap.
486923
Disagreement in and of itself is NOT the problem.\n\nIt is how we deal with the disagreement.  Do we respect each other's opinions?  Or do we just claim that people who disagree with our way our going to Hell?\n\nDo we let the disagreements get in the way of the practice of love and making the world a better place and especially helping the poor people?\n\nThe choice is ours.  We make it every day.
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Refuse to get caught up in a drama that is not yours.  Your responsibility in the situation is to remain in the relationship with both that you can manage.  You do not have to tell each of them where you stand...and you don't have to share when one is with you or not.  Do not expect that you can change their status...that, too, is not your responsibility.  You can neither separate them, nor bring them together, they have to accomplish this for themselves.
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If you are forced into the marriage do you think they might be forced to be together?  I don't believe it in.  We should have freedom of choice to fall in love with whoever we want.  Everybody deserves to be in love with their mate.  Even choice marriages lack love.
580806
Rules?There should be compromise.
191868
I think that if we continue to give them more and more special rights, we are more separating them from everyday society and I feel that is kind of counter-productive.  It ends up segregating them more. They should be able to live in and enjoy the good and bad of society like everyone else...or as close as they can get.  \nI hope this helps.\n:)
327674
I think overall they both want to do whst is best for the people, but they can't agree on what they think the people really need.  In a way it's like raising children -- one person says never spank your kid, the other one says spanking is okay.  They all think they are experts!
18599
are you closer with one of them? do you have similar beliefs, temperaments, etc? Its hard to say which person you should choose, not knowing much about either one.
146976
Yes, and it's terrible. I think we should just learn to get along with each other and love each other. Instead of hating each other.
523097
perhaps. live and let live should be the standard. somehow people forget all about it though.
256728
So, and in agreeing with your experiences because I find them to be true many times in this web based world, I believe the first thing is to establish right up front that two people actually have some common ground in interests. If so, then seems to me two relatively intelligent and mature adults should be able to sustain some kind of reasonable friendship simply based on those common interests. I'm reasonably intelligent, articulate and enjoy making new friends and finding out how the rest of the world lives and thinks. How about you ?