i really like this guy and i'v knowen him for a long long time what should i do?
209474
if ur going out with him i would dump him if ur not tuff luck girl he might not be into u
53767
Tell him how you feel, and ask him if he feels the same way.  There is no harm in asking.  I would rather know now...rather than waiting for years to find out.
167367
Well, I don't know how long you have actually known him because you didn't say, but I would say to just keep your guard up.  It sounds like he may be pretty fickle, where you seem to know what you want.\n\nI would enjoy hanging out with him but try really hard to not allow it to get too serious with him.  \n\nEspecially if he said something "about not caring for you about three years ago".  I would be very careful and keep my eyes open for someone else.\n\nGood Luck
418530
go out with him. he might be a great guy.  you won't know until you get to know him.
71642
talk to him, since you guys been friends for so long, it easy to talk to him. but i dun think you should have sex with him just for the sake of having sex. unless you two have a thing for each other. sex can be out off too a later date
98887
if you've known him and liked him for 8 years its time to find out and make a move or move on. I mean really 8 years!  I would guess that youve got to be in your 20's now to have had romantic feelings for a guy for that long. So go for it!
188309
Give him a chance. 2 years is not a big difference at all, and as time goes by you will decide if he is right for you or not. It sounds like you like him, as well. In a couple years you do not want to be wondering "what if I said yes to that guy." He seems to want to take it slow and that is definately a good thing and a sign that he really takes your wishes and wellbeing into heart. Guys like that are not common at all.
399556
IT'S WHATEVER YOU WANT IT TO BE. I'M LONG PAST MY TEENAGE YEARS BUT I STILL THINK THAT'S REALLY SWEET. WHEN YOU GET BACK TELL HIM THAT YOU REALLY LIKE HIM. IM SURE HE ALREADY KNOWS. HAVE A GREAT VACATION!!!!
93312
if he has been your friend for a long time tell him friends always become boyfriend and girlfriend
287100
Dont Wait. Continue On with Your Life. You seem to be a Sweet Person. You will Make a Man Honored and Happy to be with You.
388249
Sounds to me like you are 13 years old... give or take 1 year. Don't tell him you love him, that will only scare him, especially if he doesn't really know you.
428362
First learn to spell. It will help in your relationship building. Then just hang on for the ride. You'll be the next in long line of conquests for this guy.
552058
sssllllllloooooowwwww ddddoooowwwwwnnnn!!!!!!\n\nDon't rush into anything. if you really like this guy, go ahead, but if this guy is the type that likes to take things slow, let him. Don't start talking about getting married or having his children or anything long term like that. Just let him know that you really LIKE him. Depending on how long the two of you have known each other, I wouldn't even use the word love for a while. Nothing scares a guy off faster than a female that 'latches her claws into him' almost immediately after meeting. \n\nJust follow his lead.
241083
You should find someone else that he's been friends with for a while, then build that person up so that he won't like the old person anymore. I have had so many crushes in my lifetime, and that's what I do, sure... it takes a while, but it's worth it in the end.
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I think you should just stay as friends and see what progresses from there.  If you and he were meant to be a couple, it will happen, but hopefully not for another few years!  In the meantime, have fun, talk about stuff, confide in each other and get a great friendship going.  You will always have that!
461416
well how old are you and if it's not such a huge age difference then just wait. If he has the same feelings he'll be ready to wait for you until you're 18 too so wait but tell him how you feel.
4234
the saying can be try in your case but make sure you dont make a fool of yourself.  chat him up, invite him to coffe/tea - something very casual that will show you if you still like him they way you thought, and will give him a idea of what kind of person you are.  But make sure you give him space - you dont want to scare him off. (also dont get your hopes up- a lot can happen in 2yrs and you may not like him after all)