my bf dumped me because he found out that I used to cut on my arm. That was in my past though!!!!! Was that fair of him and willl everyone do this to me???
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alot of people are afraid of girls or boys that do this and there is alot of reason people do and the are afraid of what you might do. my daughter was doing this to fit in with friends that was doing it. she would not cut enough to make herself bleed but enough to leave marks and she had alot of things go on to her over it with seeking help and bein watch by everyone around because we all was afraid of her hurting herself and dieing. its hard to deal with things like that because of they might be to afraid of you killing yourself and don't want to deal with it. you really have to look at it as a big part of your life that is going to hurt you and help you. just make sure you let your next boyfriend now. and as far as your ex boyfriend goes he was not good for you anyway. because if he was he would stick with you no matter what. gl hun
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It sounds like you might be insecure...maybe because you have been hurt before.  Don't put extra stress on yourself worrying about things you can't control though.  If its meant to be it will work out!
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i had a BF once, who was way too nice. he did anything i wanted him to, he bought anything i wanted, he believed anything i said, he always told me how beautiful i was and how talented. i regret it now, but i walked all over him.because he let me. but i guess the way i saw it was, if he's going to let me walk all over him, then why not?
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GOOD for YOU!! I'm proud of you girlfriend! If he doesn't have evident injuries, you should be fine, nevertheless, you can say you were defending yourself.  \n\nGod will give you strength right now, don't forget to pray; everything will be much better once he is out of your life, don't look back.
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Smart girl, you have handled that poking incident very well. It was a harmless prank that some boys play to amuse themselves as well as others.\n\nHe is sort of feeling sore being ditched by others. And who doesn’t? I think he still has a liking for you; didn’t he betray himself by blushing (turn red as you put it)?\n\nPlus the fact that you now have a new boyfriend, it is indeed complicated for him. I sure hope that your friends don’t tease him too much, have mercy. Haha.
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Time will heal all wounds.  He is hurt right now.  He needs time.  Yes, it is wrong of him to ignore you, but that is his way of dealing with the issue.  Its not a good way, but its his way. It could also hurt your relationship now, with your new boyfriend, if you let it get in the way.  It is a friend of yours though, and you may need to let your boyfriend know that.  Anyone respecting boyfriend will understand.  Obviously you care, or it wouldn't be bothering you.  A true friend will come back to you.  If he is a true friend he'll be back, if not than he won't.  If you were honest with him than, you shouldn't have to take any abuse.  He may not understand what he is doing to you right now.  Understand his situation also, your not the only one who is hurting right now.  Give him some time.  Time will tell.
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Honey,\nI was in the same spot as you once before. I didn't like it. I didn't brake up with him. He wasn't cheating on me either. My online boyfriend broke his leg and was in the hospital for a few weeks. When I found out I was so freakin sad. I felt bad because I sent him e-mails and told him to stop cheating on me and I totally jumped to conclusions. I have never ever done that after what happened those few weeks. I hope you find out that he is not cheating and that he e-mails you and I hope that you and him  have a good lasting realationship.\nGood luck- babe
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Everyone must be saying this... But girl, move on! I had the same experience... The guy I chucked a year ago suddenly appeared begging for forgivness... Even though he was fit I still said no, like you I broke up with them twice... Guys never change, I kept on making a mistake... Girl don't you...
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Well, Ms. Badass.. You're not a badass after all.\n\nYou haven't told us the reason for the breakup other that "I was really hurt".. What does that mean?  Did he meet another girl that is better looking, more intellegent than you?? Of course not!! No one is better than you.. Remember, you're a badass!\n\nIf he really cares for you and if he hurt you in anyway.  Then it is up to him to apologize to you and try to win your heart back, if he has any type of decency in his bone.  If not, I say... Good riddance..  Pick yourself up and get someone better.  Don't get into the habit of yoyoing back to someone who has hurt you in some way (unless it is just a simple misunderstanding).  \n\nIt is natural to want him back since you miss that companionship and everything that comes with it. But you will have to understand within yourself if you really want him (he, who has hurt you) back or move on to greater things!
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Well, I am concerned that you would hurt yourself because you mention it. So please, if you ever do feel that wayseek medical attention. From what you have said, I think your issues are caused by your ex. I think that you should break off with him and his family for good. He and his family like to play mental games. You will find someone else that will treat you will respect. These people do not respect you, they are into drama. \n\nI know I am not a guy, but I know that what I have read is totally wrong. You can get out of this situation, just walk away.
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It sounds like he isnt very mature- you should talk to your mom and let you know how you feel. It is possible he twisted the story to make himself look better and that isnt right. I cant really say because one of my ex's used to do the same thing and my mother would never side with him unless she heard my side first. I'm her daughter and she wouldnt betray me like that. I think they both have issues. Talk to her.
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Sweetie, unfortunately what he did was very messed up. All that you can do is try your best to move on... I know that it's hard as h*ll, but you have give yourself some stength and courage to keep on moving. Girl I don't have a clue as to what caused him to do that. If anything try to write him a letter about how you feel and let him know that he really hurt you. Tell him that he was wrong for what he did, and that you deserved at least an explanation. Show him that although you are hurting, you are not going to allow him to bring you down. Don't worry b/c What goes around, comes around... EVERYTIME!!... That's why my name is KARMA baby!!!!! Good Luck MaMa!! You are gonna be just fine. Just use that strength that you were born with!!!!!!!!!!
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Bummer!  That is a shitty one!  \n\nOK so, it does actually happen.  Kinda like a slip of the tongue.  I did the same thing to my b/f once.  It really was NOT intentional!  Just kinda happened.  It feels terrible to be on the receiving end I know, but as long as you have made your feelings known to him, and he doesn't do it again - no harm, no foul.  However, if he does it again  -  find a new boyfriend because this means he has NOT got over his X, and it was NOT a slip of the tongue.  Give him the benefit of the doubt THIS time!\n\nMaybe you should also think about mentioning to your b/f that you are uncomfortable with the fact that he still sees his X (if he does) and that this is the reason you may have over-reacted (I am not saying you did - it's just a bit of reverse psychology that will make him feel better about himself)  to his blunder.  As long as you are open and honest about how you feel, he can't turn around at a later date and say he wasn't aware of your feelings.
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ok what i would like to know  is your boyfriend going to dump you after you told everyone on the internet that he has a teeny weeny. not to smart your but might be booted
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Wow, okay you have plenty going on without this guy.  First, don't you already have a boyfriend?  Why are you in a relationship with someone while you're interested in someone else?  You are being mean to your boyfriend by leading him on.\n\nPlus, it sounds like you left something out of your story.  Nobody just stops talking to you and gives you mean looks because you said you are going to miss him.  There's probably a lot more to this than you're willing to tell.\n\nDon't you have enough on your plate to see a therapist already?  Seriously, seek professional help about cutting yourself.  It's not "cool", it's just sick.  Do you think a future guy is going to be turned on by all your scars?  Please seek help before pursuing other relationships.  You have enough baggage for your young age.
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the other night you said you cut your hand on a knife, did you really do it yourself? ryan you need help honey. Its ok to see a therapist and get all the things out that you needed to say a long time ago
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no. your bf should of had the decency to keep you away from him without being asked to do so. im sure hes the type that thinks hes helping his friend or being loyal. but if it was my gf id of fucked my friend off a long time ago.