If you're not feel'in the love with someone should you dump em, or wait and see if it comes around..
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It's a waste of time, I don't think it comes around after a while unless it's grown over time from a friendship. Real love happens and stays...and only grows stronger. If you're ever questioning, it ain't the real thing don't waste your time or his!
20520
If the fold is from you try and work it out \nexpecialy if you love him faigt back.\nBut if it is him give him some time he will \ncome back after he realise what hi miss.
140253
I think you should just walk away hun, I know it hurts but I was in a similair situation and he ended up finding someone to date and left me hanging on, and i held onto him for too long and it hurt even worse, at least this way you can get back to your life and finding that one for you, and come back with some of your heart. I just hate to see you hang on liek this and then if he leaves you for someonelse have you left brokenhearted and left to pick up the pieces.
399102
Go for it\nThe reason you give for not being with him are shallow, and I suspect that your real feeling run much deeper than that.
304352
at this point in the relationship it really does not matter. if she told you she was not feeling you then take it as she said it. SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU....so in her world it doesn,t matter how much you love her,she doesn,t love you. sorry
207054
Hello again Fantasy Foo, I've been were your at, and it's not a good feeling. One good thing about life is....Time heals everything. I was once told: If you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours...if it don't it never was. If you have the fellas number or you know how to get in contact with him...let him know how you feel, but don't hate on his girl...thats tacky.
243277
If he is worth it, wait for him.  If he isn't worth the wait, don't wait.
53424
Tell her how you feel and hope she feels the same way..or wait for her to come to you
484091
Like I tell everybody, I think that you should call whenever you get the feeling.  I hate how people make dating into a game.  There is no certain amount of time that you should wait.  Just because you waited a week doesn't mean that's the reason it didn't work out.  If the moment is right between two people and if they are feeling the vibe of each other, then it doesn't matter.
540314
In love, the thought of consequence will mar the present mood and feeling. Go ahead as long as it works. You should consider a relationship from the point of view of future failure. Cross the bridge when you come to it.
662310
GIVE IT TIME... however, if he's not ready and you are, it may be time for you to re-evaluate your relationship.
110705
It may feel good to be with them at the time but, when it ends it will hurt far worse than it would if you ended it know. If you know its not going to work out move on and find someone that it will work with.
573178
go with what you feel is best. take a break and try the fling. the fling may end up just being a good time and may make you feel good all over again.
499556
people who had been in a bad relationship may feel this way. give her time and just be her friend for now...
563556
Maybe it's the fact that I'm a little older.  But I feel that when a man has doubts about his feelings for me, then it's best that I leave him alone with his feelings.  I refuse to let a man keep me dangling and waiting.  Is it worth the wait, possibly?  But I can't wait forever and so I continue moving on with my life.  If he comes around then great, if not then I know it's not meant to be.
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If you arent feeling that, then tell him NO, no more goodies for him.   I am a big proponent in NOT trying to change someone, so if someone doesnt have feelings for me, then I go with that instead of trying to hope that they realize that they are missing out on a great person.  Its his loss anyways.  You probably have great goodies which is why he keeps coming back but yours arent for FREE...!
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Do what your heart says to do, dont waste time on someone you obviously dont care much about, dont make it a routine with someone, when you could have the real relationship you want! Go for it man!