I told a guy that I didn't like mind games and that if he knows that I like him and he doesn't like me back then don't flirt with me. I told him don't say things like your pretty or whatever...just don't do it cuz I do feed into that stuff.He kinda apologized and that was fine ...but then the next day he told me I had pretty eyes and blah blah
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By telling this man that you feed into was bad because now he has one of your pawns.  Give him a taste of his own medicine.  Ask him for his number...tell him that you will call him sometime later (dont specify when)  don't call him!  Men love a good chase but eventually they will get tired and give up.  If he is really into you, he will be persistant and respectful! Good Luck!
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Don't let him know because I have the same problem and when I told him what I heard wasn't pretty ... He said that I broke his heart and he doesn't want i happening all over again. make him jealous of you and let him hear about you see you most of the time. If you go after him he will always be running away from you.
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Don't mess around, just be forward and don't play those games.  If you wait, he might meet someone else.  I know, it happened to me and it sucks and you will be mad at yourself for not saying something sooner.
24226
your asking him to read your mind , guys are'nt good at that. We think more anaylitcal, 1+1=2 that type of thing.  he did'nt even know he hurt your feelings, if he did find out he hurt your feelings i'm sure he would be very sorry, unless he's a jerk or not your friend. give him the benifit of the doubt
432102
He sounds bipolar. I don't understand but if a guy said to me not to tempt him and then he tells me I'm pretty I'd be freaked out.
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My answer is don't do anything that seems like your flirting.  In other words, from my experience guys seem to read women wrong.  If You are totally flirting most guys think your not.  AND when YOU ARE NOT flirting guys think you are.
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It's possible she told him things that weren't true, just to 'get back' at you.  Try talking to him, one on one, ask him if there is something you can do to improve your game (I know and you know you're good, but it's a way of confronting without being confrontational).  If he still acts the same way, doesn't give you a chance, then he may just be a jerk, who cares more about his personal feelings than his team.  It's a tough lesson to learn, but there are tons of those people out there, whether in sports, or teachers, or bosses.  Good luck.
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Sounds like he meant it, he just wants to prove it to you through his actions .... guys just don't know what to say .... wouldn't you want him to show you through his actions or would you rather he just said 'Of course I meant it' and not really mean it.
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Words are cheap.  Obviously his actions are speaking much louder than his words...\n\nSounds like he said just what you wanted to hear so he could get into your pants..  Once conquered he has lost interest.  You are a notch on his belt.\n\nI'm sorry this happened to you.  Move on and learn from your mistake.
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Do you notice that some guys dont like you to like the things and participate with them some instances?  If you try to participate with him and talk to him during the game perhaps he'll get the hint that there are better things to do with you.  ;)  Good luck.  Peace.
425945
I recently told a guy I was attracted.  It seems like it becomes "game over" for them once they know for sure.  I don't know why.  I guess they like games.
521610
Guys don't usually (OK...NEVER) mess with words...If he said it you can be pretty sure he means it and feels that way.....Guys almost always tell it like it is!...They don't play the mind games women do....
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I expressed attraction for a guy who didn't bother to respond.  It hurts, but I am not sorry I did it.  We had been very flirty so I know he was attracted but for whatever reason my asking him freaked him out.  Maybe he'll come around but probably not.  I wish it could have worked out, but it didn't.  I'm not sorry I asked though, at least I know and I'm not wondering.
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I got the same treatment from my ex-girlfriend.  I think they just don't like you and can't come up with a really strong arguement for it.  In any case, you should move on.  In fact, if you lose all feelings for him and he sees you ignore him, he might actually become attracted to you again.  But you really should move on.
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Please do NOT say anything derogatory about your self. Women have fought long and hard for the right to say who we will and who we will not date. Do not belittle yourself. A good answer would be "I am flattered but I do not like you that way." you said you did not like him that much anyway so don't play games with his feelings. Be blunt and truthful.
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Nope he's just attracted to you and wanted to let you know it.Try giving it back to him and if he don't like it than he'll stop or get defensive.I'd just go with it he could call you alot worse believe me.And to all the man haters no it's not creepy.
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Girlfriend: there're 2 scenario's! Number 1 is he's playing you. Now I know you don't wanna hear this, but keep an open mind! He's either met someone his own age (or younger) that might not 'intimidate' him as much, or he's just being stupid. Second scenario: he really digs you, but he's too shy/afraid/clueless as to how to tell you this. (Let's both hope for your sake this is the true reason for his being distant...) Either way, keep your chin up, and your head open. Don't go losing your heart to this guy just yet... Good luck!