I am shy, and single, I want to know how to talk to a girl without her or others that see me, knowing that i might like that girl or something.how do i make it look normal. and dont say be me cuz that does not work so well. remember i am shy.
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Here's your BEST ANSWER:\n\nMy husband was shy (wait this may not work for you because I liked him back) But look I never really knew he was there until he spoke up. It was hot because I did know one thing about him, he didn't speak to just anyone, that made me feel good.\n\nIf she likes you, she WILL notice you! And the fact that you are not like the other boys that are loud and careless, might just play in your favor. Just let her know she was worth talking to. Simple as that!\n\nFor example, try to find some thing she likes and go from there. Watch the movie HITCH. that can help you get into the mood. But please be yourself, DO NOT CHANGE for her, atleast not til she's your wife or something, but that's another story.
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Remember, that every person has a style.  For some girls, talking is very important, however for others it may not be a priority.  You want someone who will appreciate you for your unique qualities.
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Hi. Then make some kind of general comment. Small talk usually works best to build a illusion of a relationship and then bring on the lines. This may or may not work, but it's better than walking up to a girl and saying "hey baby, wanna fuck?"
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Dude just be yourself and get the courage up and talk to her and don't be shy about just relax and i'm sure things will go just fine. You shouldn't put yourself down you have to learn how to accept who you are 1st then that confidence will take you a long way.You can tell if she likes you when you start talking to her she'll act really shy and nervous around you and also look at you from time to time.So i hoped this out.-PEACE OUT
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lol one thing dont do.. The cheesy comments.., No girl likes that.., if gives them.., the feeling that., your a major flirt. introduce yourself.., and say, I couldnt resist how beautiful you look, and i had to talk to you.., for i had no oppurtunity to approach you.. and say.. i do admit i was shy.., but it wouldnt have gotton any easier. and ask what her name is.., and if she walks away.. she wasnt interested.. if she flashes you a smile,then shes waiting for you to talk some more.
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Should tell her how you feel. Don’t feel scare if she would turn you down. If you’re too shy to approach her,\n What i did last time is that i call my secret admire. Sometime i wrote letter and e-mail. But i can say, talk to her in person sure has the edge and more advantage.\n\nLove is a lasting forever thing. So take your time. And no rush. Girls look at 2 things, handsome and good personality. You know what handsome is. Good personality is the way u act and speak and how u behave yourself, also how u conduct yourself. They often look for good qualities. This is quite a tough area to improve. In other words, if they like u, means they really like u. If not, then, don't be sad and give up like others do, maybe there's still a chance u can improve. \n\nAll the best to u.
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Well... as a guy myself, I personally don't think that there's any great secret to getting a girlfriend or boyfriend. If shyness is a really bad problem for you then... just sit with some guys and join in their conversation a bit (btw go with your friends though). Seriously the guys probably won't mind.
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Just be casual. order something and try to have a light sense of humor while trying to make conversation. go easy at first..keep going in to order stuff and keep making conversation. girls like shy and sense of humor but be shy about it..u know..look cute..she will get the hint eventually..after u feel comfotable ask to have lunch or a cup of coffee w/ you....hey, let me know if it works..just remember don't be caulky like "i'm all that" girls hate that but don't be to shy either..be cute,sexy shy..
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As they say practice makes perfect. Just try casually talking to different girls and see what happens. You could also try joining a club or something that alot of girls are in so you can be more socialized and to face you fear of shyness.
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okay, you need  to stop worrying about whether this girl is a potential girlfriend when you talk to her. Rather, whenever you are going to talk to her, try to think of having a potential firned, rather than a potential girlfriend. This should help with the nerves issue. As for things to say, people love to talk about themselves, so ask her about her interests and hobbies, and pay attention to what she says, so that you can enquire about that thing in a later conversation (this proves to her that you're genuinely interested in what she has to say). For example, if you ask her about her hobbies and she tells you she likes movies, then the next time you see her then you could say, "hey, have you seen (insert movie title)?" and if she has by some small miracle seen that movie, you've now got at least five minutes of conversation right there. Good Luck, try to be confident and remind yourself that you rock!!! :)
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Simply put - self confidence.  And don't be afraid to talk to women.  I don't know how many times I will see a guy look at me (By that, I mean LOOK), but won't say anything.  A lot of women are shy, or were taught that they should not approach a guy - to let him approach you.  (My mother taught that a girl should never call a guy first, or approach him.)  I wish that when guys noticed a girl, they would just come up to us and say something (aside from a lame pickup line).  \n\nOh yeah - and you should talk to whoever you feel a connection with.  If you catch someone looking at you, and they kind of grin and look away, go talk to her!
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The best time to talk to a girl when you see her for the first time...talk to her when she's stopped somewhere like in a store or at a drink machine or something, not when she's walking.  Give her a genuine compliment like "You look nice today" or "You have a pretty smile."  Most of the time a girl won't shrug you off or look at you weird when  you compliment them, but there are some people out there who think that every guy who looks at them wants something.  A nice girl will thank you and smile.  Take it from there with something like "I was thinking about buying this cd (name a band or something), have you heard them?  Are they a good band?"  Ask her opinionated questions and if she's nice and wants to be approached by you, she'll continue talking to you.  If she doesn't want to be approached by you, she'll keep it short or give a reason to just walk away.  Don't sweat it.  It's not as hard to get the NICE girls as it seems.  The bitchy ones will be difficult and put up a fight. lol.
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You should take the risk and talk to them face to face just like talking to them on the internet. believe me it is experience and trying.. be nice, be smart, funny and strong...shy is not so good most of the time, because you won't be able to know what you should say quick...the only thing to change such behavior is go and talk, and start as friends. and be the center, don't be the corner.  \nI tried that before and I succeeded honestly.  and I can go out with any I interested in..but I'm not interested in many now. just some.. and believe me, if you see some don't want, then just don't try... take it from easiest to easier to difficult.
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The only thing wrong is that you are very shy and have not found a way to work around the problem. My advice would be to use your hobbies and interests to help you find someone that has things in common with you. Join groups or teams or go places that have to do with your hobbies and interests. The people that you will find in the groups or on the teams will have the same thing in common with you and it will give you something to talk about. Once you have broken the ice it will be easier to continue the conversation. I strongly believe that you don't "Find" love, that it will find you, but it never hurts to put yourself in a place where it will have a chance to find you. By joining groups or going to places that you have an interest in, you are automatically placing yourself with people that have the same interests as yourself and giving you something to open a conversation with that you will feel confident talking about, which will help with your shyness. Good Luck!! =-)
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stop being shy dude\ni was and i neva got a girl\nbut if i were u give it a shot
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its all about practice the more you talk to other girls the more you'll be able to relax. that what i try do, i'm can get very shy around other guys
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There's nothing wrong with being a little shy....some guys find it attractive.  But, if YOU don't like being shy, retrain yourself.  Start by making eye contact with strangers while your shopping.....add a smile....eventually a "hi, how are you?".  I know-it sounds simple and goofy...but it works.  Strangers aren't as threatening as people we know or like. It will still feel uncomfortable at first.....but what have you got to lose.  It also helps to have a few ready made questions for you meet people.  They could be school, family, or hobby related......you get the idea.  Good luck.  You'll be happy to know that confidence comes with age!