my last girlfriend was a very cute girl whom i really loved but there was a problem, she always made a point to hurt me at the end of the day!! though sometimes it wasnt intentional but atleast she did hurt me!! i decided to dump her after i thought it was enough!! wat u say people????????
211793
You ought to have talked to her first so she could realize why you dumped her. She might have changed.
657626
yep when I was in a bad relationship. I ended it that day. It happens I was with the loser for 3 years. I sit back now and think What the H*ll was I thinking. Atleast you are out of the situation.
116635
you know what...i had a whole paragraph written about how immoral it was and what kind of sleeze you were, but then i erased the entire thing (and wrote this).  i feel like i need to pretect this sixteen year old girl and give her advice...but when i think about it, it is really up to us girls to do what is right.  we cant' rely on guys because many like you don't give a f*** about us.  when girls cry and complain about guys being like you, we really need to take all of the blame because we are letting guys be jerks.  we want so desperatly to be loved and admired that we give all we have and end up with nothing.  she is "down for it"  because you made her believe she is.  and she is dumb for letting you tell her she is.
582035
Man, I just got out of a relationship with a girl I didn't think I felt much for, and you know that saying 'you don't know what you've got till it's gone'? Well, I realized how much I truly loved her. Maybe it will hit your ex just like it hit me. Maybe with some time she'll miss you, especially if it was as good of a relationship as you say. And especially if you were her first. You don't forget something special like that. Even if she downplays it, it should be something that will be with her always. Just give it time I say.
460794
you did the right thing. dont feel bad honestly. if you kept dating her then youw ould have made things a whole lot worse because later on, she might have fallen in love with you. leave things the way it is. tell her to call you once she is okay enough to accept things with how they are and you just want to be friends. that you will always be there for her even though you arent with her.
492673
Sorry:-))) But i am kind of amused...You know, the first thing that men have to learn about women is to give them their space. Hey...if your parting words weren't bitter, there is no cause for alarm. I am sure she'll call..giv her some time. You said she had a boyfriend..well, maybe she is busy..there could be a thousand things you dont know...So dont miss her too much. Try and concentrate on ur GF. I am sure she be in touch shortly.
262458
You did the right thing because if you hadn't been blunt with her she would still harbour hopes that you would change your mind and she would become obsessed.  At least this way she has to accept it and will eventually move on. She might be hurt initially but it's best for her in the long run. I don't think the softer aproach would have worked with this girl.x
224663
i have problems dealing with the same thing. it's like you are just waiting for the other shoe to drop or the bomb to go off.  i have had a lot of problems dealing with stuff in my past and still feel unworthy of love and good things sometimes. just know that you are a good person and worthy of every minute of happiness. keep telling yourself that and eventually you'll start believing it too. ;) eventually bad things will happen, just deal with them and get back to the happy times as quickly as possible. \n\nbtw for some of y'all up there, it's not always cause we are looking to dump someone. sometimes we just have our own issues to work through that have nothing to do with the other person. give her a break and if you can't give good advice don't give any. lol cause non-constructive criticism borders on abuse.
361875
If you guys didnt really have anything in common and you were super happy with her, then you did the right thing. You should never settle for someone, or continue being with someone in fear of hurting their feelings. Its a hard thing to do, I know, because I am the same way, but you have to think, do I really want to spend the rest of my life being moderately happy instead of really happy? And its better to do it now then wait til later when you cant take it anymore and youre much older than you are now and starting over is that much harder.
143412
Why would you want to date someone that already has shown a tendency to cheat?\n\nWhat if her boyfriend is some who can beat the **** out of you (and maybe even her)?\n\nMore trouble than it's worth...\n\nThat's just dumb.
506850
I don't mean to say this to get you upset or angry or anything, but it seems to me that your dissatisfaction stems more from yourself than from her actions, I think. It sounds like you weren't truly sure you were done with the relationship when you ended it, and as a result you couldn't fully own your decision to break up with her. Perhaps you were afraid of something, like her breaking up with you first, or jealousy issues, or something similar, and that is why you ended it?Or maybe you were trying to prove a point, or you thought she'd come back?\nAll in all, the above types of reasons for ending a relationship ultimately do not stem from dissatisfaction with the other person, so much as they stem from personal dissatisfaction, in one form or another, if that makes sense? Jealousy issues are your insecurities acting up... proving a point or thinking she'd come back are manipulative moves which might indicate a lack of trust in the relationship, yet also an inability to let go of something which is making you upset...\nIt really sucks to feel this way, and I'm sure that anyone who has broken up with a few people has probably experienced this at one point or another. Just feel the pain for now - it will pass, and feeling pain is ok. Then, once the pain dies down a bit, examine what is going on with yourself... take care of yourself first. You probably knew what you were doing when you ended the relationship, even if not for the reasons you thought you had ended it for. Personal development is a great way to turn a crappy situation into a good experience.\nGood luck!
210864
Woah she's lucky to have had a boyfriend like you. Dedicated and things like that. Well she's one of those girls who listen to their elderlies without questioning authority. She's probably very sad about having to dump you. Get the picture? She's trying to forget about you, but it's a very painful process. I've done this once. Of course she has feelings for you. She's just saying it.
258376
Apparently, you never loved her.  You were into the chase for her.  You have hurt her badly.  As a person, you will need to grow from this and explain to her about your feelings.  She will feel betrayed by you.  She probably knew that you were not serious, but your persistance made her second guess herself and accept you as a boyfriend.  Know you have thrown this in her face.  Very sad.
647929
it is people like you who destroy girls. I say to you...get out of here before you hurt someone. All it takes is a sad needy girl who is looking for love to stumble across this and give in. Leave if you have nothing better to say.
156031
It could be many of things, no one knows for sure just her, it was immature of the way she handled the situation. If I was you I would pick up the broken pieces and go on about your life, because obvisouly she wasn't the right one for you. Let your heart heal and then go out there and find the women that is worthy of being with a nice guy like you. Good Luck Baby Boy
649557
you already know the right decision.  move on!!!  do you really want to give her another chance to hurt you?  sounds like this is a heartless girl anyways so why would you want to date her? don't be blinded by love cuz nobody deserves to be treated like she treated you.
24871
Many years ago, I dated this one girl.  On the first date, she backed away from my advances. She said she wanted it to be special.\n\nI said OK - that's cool.\n\nI took her out on a second date, and I brought her flowers.  I took her out to a fancy restaurant, then we went out dancing.\n\nOnce again, she pushed me away.  This time, she got a little angry with me.  She said "When I want to have sex, I'll let you know."\n\nI said OK.\n\nThe next four months, we went out a lot.  I bought her jewelry, and I took her to shows.  I treated her  like she was a princess.\n\nShe started asking a lot of questions one night.  Honestly, I felt like I was being interrogated, but I must have answered all the questions correctly, because she said "Make love to me."\n\nAnd so I did.\n\nThen I dumped her @ss.