Need to know what to expect and what to bring.My ex-husband had borrowed money and didnt return it like he said and now Im in trouble and they want to take my plate for 30 days.I chose to go to this hearing instead of losing my plate or I wont have a way to work.How would you handle this? My youngest son also has asthma and we need a car for emergencies.This lapse was for 5 days and the first thing I did when I could was pay the bill. What should I do?
202335
Bad things.  You are at the mercy of the insurance company and your DMV.\n\nBe upfront with them.  Good luck!
95683
I would probably try to get a hold of something personal of his...and tell him he can have it back when you get your $300!\n Going to court will teach him a lesson...but it may leave you out of pocket!\n Could you get another family member to talk to him about it?
141272
You have to prove to the court you actually made the payments. A bank statement for many months with the amounts highlighted that you withdrew to make cash payments, or actual cancelled checks or a witness that actually saw you hand the cash money to the person who has custody of the child.If you missed the occasional payment you have to admit to that. The judge will decide also on your mannerisms. You must look the judge directly in the eye, answer the questions directly and smoothly. Be sure of the dates you are speaking about do not hesitate or the judge might think you are trying to cover your tracks. Act respectful with yes sir or yes maams. Do not interupt the other person when they are testifying. You should do fine with that.
58628
I am so sorry to hear. It must be very difficult for you and your family. \nI hate to say this, but if my son had this many charges against him, I would have to let him deal with the consequences. Otherwise, the only thing he would learn is that "mom and dad (or one or the other) will bail me out." I've seen this happen to someone who I am very close to and she is on the verge on losing everything, including her mind, trying to keep her son from dealing with the responsibility of his actions. What happens when mom and/or dad are no longer there to bail him out? When does he start learning responsibility for his actions? Chances are that he will outlive you and if he doesn't learn now, then what happens to him? Not to mention the people he has harmed by committing these crimes. It is harsh, I know, and I'm sorry. I know this has to be extremely painful for you. \nHaving said that, if I were determined to try to help him, what I would do is contact an attorney for a consultation. Many atty's give initial consulations for free. I would contact Legal Services which is for people who cannot afford to hire an attorney and is usually located in the blue pages in your local phone book (if your phone book doesn't have blue pages, I mean the section for government phone numbers). I know in our area they have certain times each week you can call, speak to an atty and ask for legal advice, no charge. \nThe website is for a criminal defense lawyer in Lubbock. Don't know how close you are to him but his site says initial consultation is free.
181400
Well, I am sure they have a time limit, although I doubt it is what you'd want to hear. Probably at least ninety days? \nThe losing opponent will have to send the payment to your lawyer who will then put the check into a "trust" account, or some such crap, and then divvy up the proceeds, themselves first, of course, then any fees, doctors with liens, and last of all, you.  I would have you call your attorney and ask these questions.  Get what you paid in fatigue and pain for, answers and monetary compensation. Don't let them blow you off or make you sound greedy, it is your right to ask and their job to answer. End o' story.  Good luck with the timing.
50460
Contact the court and have the hearing rescheduled.  They might have a warrant for your arrest.  But if you show up in court and just get a fine, they will quash the warrant after the hearing.
463478
depends on how backed up the court hearings are.  Once you get in the court and sworn in its brief.  Few Questions and sources for the judge as to see if the claims are legitimate.  30 - 45 once the hearing starts most likely.\n\nYou should go as support for your friend.  She is going to be extremely stressed out and being the good friend, I'm sure you are, will stand beside her for her time in need.
524332
Your employer should notify the county agency where your case is.  They will want to know when you expect to return to work. Hopefully your employer will be able to give them an idea.  Until then, obviously you won't be able to pay.  The time missed will get added onto the end.  In other words...if you miss 6 months... you'll have to make it up later.  If you pay until your child turns 18, if you missed 6 months, you'll have to pay for 6 more months passed their 18th birthday.  The support is due, regardless of how long it takes to pay.  It's in your best interest to get a job ASAP.  You are better off notifying the county child support agency first thing Monday.  They need to know, and if you do it right away, it shows you are concerned about the situation.  Keep them informed.  It is the best thing for you and for your children.
249700
IF EXPLAINED IN COURT, I'M ALMOST 99%SURE YOU'D GET IT ALL, WAS THE CAR YOU WERE DRIVING A POSSESSION OF YOUR MARRIAGE OR WAS IT A CAR YOU HAD BEFORE THE MARRIAGE?.....DID HE AT ANYTIME, "LIVE IN YOUR BODY AND SUFFER YOUR PAIN?.....I THINK NOT........YOUR EX IS TRYING TO INTIMIDATE YOU, I'D FILE A RESTRAINIGN ORDER ON HIM WITH ONLY SUPERVISED VISITATION WITH YOUR CHILD WITH A WITNESS PRESENT AND ALWAYS EITHER RECORD YOUR CONVERSATION OR VIDEOTAPE IT. THIS WILL KEEP HIM AT HIS BEST MANNERS AND HE'LL KNOW YOU ARE DOING THINGS BY THE BOOK. MAKE SURE YOUR ATTY. TELLS THE JUDGE HE IS INTIMIDATING YOU AND THAT YOU ARE AFRAID OF HIM, IT IS OBVIOUS THAT HE IS MONEY MOTIVATED (bad for him in court)AND JUDGES LOOK DOWN ON PEOPLE WHO INTIMIDATE WOMEN. IN ALL STATES
370074
Have you ASKED him why you have to pay for x-rays that YOU provided?  I'd guess that he's not aware that you provided them.  The guy probably sees hundreds of people a month and I'd think that most of them didn't bring their own.  Also, put your request in writing, explaining that he didn't order the x-rays, you brought them with you.  You may also want to mention that if you cannot pick them up within ten days, you will contact an attorney.  Send it registered mail.  \n\nI'm not sure what the laws are in California, but if you have paid receipts for the x-rays, I'd guess that one trip to the local police department with the letter and receipt would do the trick.  At least, that will do it here in Michigan.  \n\nGood Luck!
397429
CarCraze --- you are wrong, sorry to say\n\nWhat you have there, my dear, is a bona fide Court Order for you to appear in court to answer to a Motion to Collect a Debt. If it is on Court paper and has a case number, call the Court to confirm the Docket Number, and find out when the hearing date is.\n\n\nYES, they do have that power.\n\nYES, That is the equivalent of a Subpoena.\n\nIf you "just let it ride", as you say, don't be surprised when you open up your paycheck and you find a good chunk of it GONE !\n\nWhat you should do:\n\nSeek legal counsel (get a lawyer) and come up with a manageable payment plan that is both satisfactory to your creditor, and workable for you.\n\nDON'T HESITATE - you will regret it.
69887
Sorry buddy but you will have to pay it all.  It does not matter how old you child is now. Or even if the new dad is claiming him. All a judge is going to see is that you owe. Just because they may not need the money now they needed it then and did not get it. I know it was hard. It is for most fathers and mothers who have to pay. You can try. But I don't think its gonna go through.
229702
*shakes head in disbelief*  Why do people answer questions when they have absolutely no idea what they are talking about?\n\nDon't bother consulting a lawyer on this one.  It would cost you too much.  This is exactly what small claims is designed for -- someone like you with a case small enough that lawyers should not be involved.\n\nSue.  On the complaint, spell out the facts of your case and then ask for alternative relief.  Meaning -- ask for the car to be put in your name.  Then put down that if the court denies you the car, that you are asking for all payments made on the car to be returned to you.  Assuming the facts as you have presented them are true, then the court will almost certainly grant you one fo these two remedies, possibly with interest.
106269
Talk to the doctor - see if you are satisfied with his explanation.  If you aren't, consult an attorney.
586170
It is very sad that has happened but unfortunatly that may be his best option. Does he still pay his child support? He needs to continue paying it even if he is not seeing his son because if they do end up back in court it will look better on him. I know that if you do not have a child back from visitation on time the police can be called, I wonder if it works the other way to. ( like she's not having the boy there for his visitation time if he can call the police on her) He may also try to contact his local DSS office and explain the situation to them and see if they can help or they may know who to contact to help him. Good luck to your friend!
561990
Yes, you need to take this deadbeat to court.  I don't know where you live, so it I can't give you any specific advice, but every city has people (usually in the family assistance office) that can help you with the paperwork.\n\nYou may not want to see this guy again, but your child--HIS child--needs financial support, and you should get it for your daughter.
410143
You must  act and you  must act in time. Unless there is an agreement  between the prosecutor's  and the defence attorney's office that you won't have to show up on that particular day, the police will take you, doesn't matter what. Now, you are an E.R. nurse. Your institution must have a lawyer. You are part of the team. His job is to be there for you. Do not  hesitate to contact him. Don't feel intimidated.  He cannot charge you any fee. Remember?  Your part of the team. And you asking him to speak up for you to post-pone your court appearence for humanitarian reasons.It is in the Criminal Code. Your fighting for your child. Be brave. My very best wishes for your child's speedy recovery and that you can put all the problems behind you.