I want to go to the experince but dont want to leave my mom and my sister
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Of course you should go I went to camp for the summer when I was a preteen and it was so fun!  I got to sneak around and do defiant kid stuff and I got to learn alot about myself and others not to mention canoeing weaving etc.
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Be honest with you dad, set down and have a father to son talk. remember there are only a few moments we can treasure maybe you can make this the best trip he ever had with you and the family it may be his last of yours. It's your dad you owe it to go. at least you will have done something with him he likes to do and tell him he has to enjoy a trip the you would like to go on.
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Call the UN tell them your sad story and why you want to go. Good luck.
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Hi Mary:\nI don't think you want to leave hey?  You are asking us and I am really happy you are asking?  Feel out all your options.  Something is bothering you.  Really, really bothering you.  You need to talk to someone.  \n\nMoney, tickets are cool when you are older---but it sounds like there is much more behind your ticket.......talk to some adult that you can trust right away.\n\nIf you are a young person, you want to be young and enjoy life.....seek good advise.....okay\n\nluv Ava
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nothing much. just let her know that while you understand that she's the adult and is probably making the decision she thinks is best for everyone, you would appreciate it if she would listen to why you want to stay where you are and that you are really upset about this move. \nyou just have to be respectful or she won't listen at all. and if it doesn't work, i've heard colorado is really nice and moving is kinda fun and u can completly start over and be a diff. person if u want to. \ngood luck, and im sure ur mum is only trying to do the best thing.
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with all the great advise everyone is giving Please tell your mom but tell your mom that your sister felt better comming to you and ask your mom if you should tell your sister something that you may have not have thought of. I know the feeling of going to mom about this but mom needs to know and untell your sister feels better about it all you should confide in mom first with this. Even though it is comming from mom your sister feel better talking with you. Feel proud of this you have the best relationship with your sister and hold onto it while you can.
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B"H\nYou already know the answer as to whether or not you should leave, or you wouldn't be searching for the strength to do it.\n\nUnfortunately, nobody can give you that strength.  It has to come from your own self respect.  Why don't you take a vacation away from the situation and really put some thought into what YOU want and DESERVE out of life?  \n\nYou are royalty.  \n\nActualize that.  Act accordingly.
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I understand what you must be going thru beacuase I faced the same dilema few years ago. Mother is like a shelter, saving her child from all evils. She cares for you and prays for you.\n\nI suggest you should maintain a contact with her. Not physically or mentally but spritually. Do good for her. If she left a sister behind her, pay respect to her as if she is your mom. Feed the poor and hungry on behalf of your mother and rest assured she'd be very happy to receive these gifts from you.\n\nYou will feel comfortable that way and it would be easier to bear the pain.
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going where ,someone does not want u to go
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I read your previous question and I think your mother is afraid of losing her little girl.You are married to your husband and if joining him in U.K, will help you and your husband then do it.Both families must accept and try support your decisions not try put a wedge in your way.I gather that the move to theU.K. is only temporary.Perhaps the separation will allow the paretns to realize that they miss you both and would like to be a part of your lives.In any case you must do what is right for your marriage.
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You can try a small get-together or a family reunion or a family Picnic. When you meet your daughter, tell her about your revelations and dont say anything that might seem as though you may be pointing something in her. dont compare her with the other daughter with who you get along well (as that may unknowning to you be considered a threat to the her.) \nI advise this to my mom whenever I get a chance to talk to her. We are 3 sisters and she cant get through to the middle one but with me she is fine, and many times she unintentionally compares her to me. presently She has stopped doing that and her relation with my sis has improved. \nBest of luck though, be friends! they are pretty grown up with their own family and somewhere in their heatrs they look for a friend in  parents
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You go sister! Parents need to get away sometimes. You should had done it earlier though cause the first time I ever left my kids, I cried all night, wondering if they were missing me. You don't want that to ruin your weekend. But do not feel bad. Everyone does it and its healthy for you. My dr even told me one time, to find a sitter and go out. I'm a stay at home mom. He said that he makes his wife do it.
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First, Im sorry that you are going through such a horrific experience. However, Your are comforting your mother in the best way possible. Telling her the truth helps her prepare and say and do the things she needs to before leaving this place. Your honesty will let her lay in peace and your love will keep her alive longer warm and happy!\n\nMy thoughts are are with you and your family! xoxox
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dont go it causes too many problems, what if she does not want to come back with you? what if you dont want to stay with her, you might have to supporrt her whole family if you get married. but if your sure its what you really want then, go for it, just dont be disapointed and dont take advatnge of her if your intentions are not honourable
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You are old enough to make the decision on where you want to live and whom you want a every other weekend visit.  talk to your parents and explain to them that this is too much for you.  You have enough pressure just surviving your teenage years.  Good luck
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Do you mean you hate your family and you want to leave them and go somewhere and start again, with no friends? Or are you trying to chose between two lots of parents?  The question is a bit hard to understand.  Can you give more information.x
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Maybe it is time for you or one of your Brothers to go visiting with Mom and Sis. I think it sounds like there needs to be more communication between you siblings.\nDoes your sister have anyone that relieves her ever? Is she stuck there 24/7, 365 days a year?\nDon't get me wrong, I love my Mother but she came to visit me for a month and I was so ready for her to leave. She is in good health but she lives in the past. She tells the same stories over and over to the point that I had them memorized myself. \nMaybe it is time for your sister to take a long break, since she is verbally abusive to your Mom. She might be feeling that she is entitle to any money because of the time that she has put in.\nSomeone with suicidal tendencies shouldn't be in charge of any one else, little lone a person in ill health.