tell me what u think about men who date married women and also what u think of the women and do u think its right in the first place, as in do u think u should have fun
211945
thats horrible, what with people and cheating now-a-days
6700
I did once just for fun. I do know one guy who met his wife that way! That may sound crazy... but people had the same impression about online dating when it first started but it works.\nIt is a fun way of meeting new people...take some friends with you. Even if you don't meet anyone amazing I am sure there will still be entertaining characters around that will amuse you :)\n\nIf you want any tips etc this here is a good article about speed dating: http://www.newagey.com/dating-love/speed-dating-tips/\n\nGood luck :)
77398
Well I can not speak for everyone. But I myself find some black women very attractive. I would like to date one some time . I guess I always wonder what my friends and family would think as well as what her friends and family would think but the bottom line is how we both feel towards each other.
245458
I don't mean to sound disrespectful but... I think it's time to move on.I would say otherwise if he wasn't married but going after another womans husband is wrong and not only that but if you did get to have sex with him again it wouldn't satisfy you only make you want more than a sexual relationship. It obviously wasn't meant to be so getcha grove on girl there are lots of guys that probably would love to go out with you, ya just gotta be patient.
124357
He may find these women exotic but it does not mean he'll leave you for one.  I see a lot of gorgeous women that I am attracted to but it doesn't mean I'm going to leave my wife for one of them.  It also means I would never settle down with one.  There are qualities about my wife that I found to be more suitable to spend the rest of my life with.  Men are very simple creatures.  After they have sex, sex is off their mind and what's left is reality, a woman you love for her being her or the woman you're done with.  The fact he's with you says he loves you for being you.  What is in question here is his respect for you.  Talk to him about it.
665177
I'm confused.. When you say you were speaking to other men.. is that all then? I don't see anything wrong w/that. You say tho 'he stayed w/me' and I don't know why he wouldn't (if it was just conversation.) You say he had a secret relationship.. was it sexual? You two both sound kind of jealous/possessive.. I mean I am basing this on the assumption there was nothing sexual involved in any of this. (If there was, that's a different story..) Let me see here.. He treats you like crap.. I take it that's the real issue on hand here.. I think men are kind of like babies (I'm married to one.. lucky me..) or they want their cake/ to eat it too.. they want us to cook and clean (and spread 'em) but on the other hand they want their 'freedom' to screw around on us at the same time. (We can't do anything along the same line tho..) that sux, right? He stayed because he's been with you and while the other gal's 'something new/exciting & different' you're the one he's 'used to living with' I am thinking. (Hell, this is depressing me!!) Hey, I DO think you've got value/self worth, dont' get me wrong! I'm just kinda bitter about men is all.. It sounds like my marriage of l4 years (boring.. I'm bored..) My ole man's an asshole (cuts me down) and then developed (or so he claims) e.d. so he tries to do the oral thing (doing me 'one big goddamned favor') on me for sex (but it's wearing thin or gettin' old I mean.. fast..) I want to dump him too.. (I think you want to dump THIS guy..) do it!! that's my 'valuable' advice for ya
325102
I dont know how I can top the laster person to post an answer, it was pretty good and she was right on her game. \n But I do want to add a few things that I know for a fact. Firstly that you will never fully forget this guy and that is a good thing. I have been married for nine years now and the woman I was with before I met my wife is still in my thoughts. No I dont want to be with her, but I do want to remember the pain she caused me. It has made me stronger and more gentle all at once. I now see the mistakes I made with her and I make sure that I dont make the same ones with my wife. As far as him hooking up with some ugly gal, get use to that. When guys loose something good even if it was their own reasons for leaving, they have a tendancy of grabing the next closses thing at hand. She just happened to be the unlucky girl, she will soon be dumped and tossed aside. That I can promise. Been there done that. \n As far as you not feeling like you are a good looking ladie. Well I would have to say listen to the crowed on this one. Do you think every one around you would lie. Dont get to proud however as pride does come before distruction. But do be glad that you are who you are and never ever let the sad things in life throw you off your game. Be glad of them and use them to your advantidge. Tuffin up and thank God that you still have plenty of time to meet someone new.
129645
I don't think you are with the right women.   Cuz that's a bunch of crap.  I happen to love sex and I know a lot of women that do too.
507000
After dating several bad boys I realized I was tired and wanted to date a nice guy.  So I tried to find my very best guy friend that was so much fun yet very very nice and when I found him he is now married.  Lesson learned.  I think all women should think twice before pushing the nice guy away for the cool guy.
674475
You just tell them how you honestly feel. You can't concern yourself with if they are going to be hurt or not. Both men and women have a hard time finding a partner when they have young kinds, unfortunately its worse for the woman with young kids. Its a matter of choice, and if you prefer not to date someone with young kids, that is your perogative and you have the right to make that decision. What's important here is your happiness in life with another.
361061
I am a happily married woman. You can't blame yourself for what happens or goes wrong in the marriage, UNLESS you have done something wrong. Not all marriages last, but in that case they were never meant to be! I think women should share an equal role in the relationship and don't ever let a man control you. If you do then you deserve what you get. This is not the "old" days where the woman does what the man says. I know that if my husband would ever try to control me...he would be out...out the door! If you are insecure with yourself, then you need to find yourself and then proceed from there. I have my insecurities too, but that don't mean I take the blame for anything, especially if I didn't do any thing wrong. I am very happy with my marriage and even though it doesn't always go smooth, does not mean that I don't love him and he don't love me
410658
I like all women but I'm looking a for a woman who can fun loving and smart.  I usually look for a woman who seem to have the same interests as me.  I would look for a man at activities you enjoy and hopefully meet one.
250690
I dont necessarily think its wrong as long as its with another adult and you arent doing it with children online.  I would suggest going out on a date rather than online stimulation.
588999
Women are catty, hun  It's not about you.  Its about the *competition* thing.  You could be a hairy smelly hobbit...  your wife could be Jabba the hut....  it wouldn't matter in the least.  Your ex's reaction would be the same.\n\nThe actual sad truth is that a woman need not have ever met your wife in order to consider her the *opposing* team. All it takes, is for you to paint a super model/saint like image of your wife in a woman's mind. That is sometimes enough to unwittingly start a competition. I have personally, on several occasions throughout my life, found myself being verbally attacked by women I hardly knew because men who were never *boyfriends* but were close friends to me referred to me in kind or flattering terms to other women. Within the last few years, when ever that has happened, and it has happened a lot, the first thing I do is call my male friends and ask them *Who is this woman and why did you tell her about me?* \n\nWhen you got married, you became a challenge.  Get used to it.  I tell all my male friends, "If you wanna pick up chicks for quickie one-nighters... get a wallet-sized  photo of a gorgeous woman... put it in your wallet.  Take it to a club with you.. show it around and tell other women that it's your wife and you are madly in love and would never cheat because your wife is "Different and special"...  Women will be clawing eachother's eyes out for a chance to try to be the *one* who could make you change your mind.\n\nYour ex isn't reacting to jealousy.. she is reacting to a feeling that your wife somehow won something she couldnt win.  Looks like she doesn't understand that the game is over... she's still playing.
61253
Comment from my husband: "Guys like looking at attractive women.  We enjoy it. Just like we enjoy nice cars or nice things. It's fun to look at. It doesn't mean we're going to take off with them or anything.  It's the acknowedgement of a pretty thing and there ain't nothing wrong with that."
677229
It's because some women are very greedy and they just want what they can't have.  Have you every wanted something, but were told you couldn't have it?  It's like that.  I'm not saying it's a good thing.  On the contrary, I think dating married men or women is terrible, but the reason they do it is because if they know someone is unatainable (married or seeing someone) they will go after that person to prove that they CAN have him or her.  I'm sorry about this double-date thing, by the way.
543385
I would reccomend it if your mature for your age. Older men are interesting and don't usually play the games that guys in their 20's do. I'm 33 and I won't date anyone under 40.