I like this girl but i can't get up the courage to ask her out. Advice Please!!!
218157
Get drunk then ask her!
378367
oh just ask her out. don't be shy. if you have to just ask her out as friends and maybe something will grow from that.
503598
yes.  go out with her!  Who knows, she may have the same feelings about u, that u have about her.  If you are nervous to ask her out, just write a note, and have someone to pass it to her, like one of your friends that u can truly trust.  Watch it come out in your favor.  Good luck.
438988
Have you tried talking to her and ask her out?  If not, I suggest you do that and if she turns you down (which won't be the end of the world) then you know she wasn't interested in you for whatever reason. You seem like a confident person by the way you describe yourself so why do you take those good attributes that you have and respect her decision and move on to someone else- There's alot of fish in the sea!!! Good Luck!!!
354457
haha, doesn't look like you're getting the answers you're looking for. Bottom line, don't be afraid of asking girls out, no matter what your occupation is, she might say no... but she might say yes. If you don't ask, that's a definite 'no' so take your chances. be brave, you ARE in the national guard.
296166
Sometimes, you just can't. It all depends what you're into and what lengths you're willing to go to but my personal (and instinctive) advice would be to move on and find someone who's \n\n1. obviously interested and \n2. not into playing silly retrograde games.\n\nThere's a chance, however, that she may just be unsure or genuinely fickle so, if you really like her, you could just sit tight and keep flirting. You've already asked her out so she knows you like her. Now it's up to her to make a move.
507553
yes but time is of the essence! when you ask her out show her a soft side( I wanted to tell you how I felt  but I was afraid it might lead to you rejecting me) she will eat that  up !
177756
you are just scared that she will say no still.  My friend tony once told me that for every 10 people you ask out 9 will say no, but the 1 that says yes makes the other 9 rejections worth it....  so just do it!!!
75581
i think you should go ahead and ask her out i mean the worst thing that can happen is she that she will say no. but if she dosen't know you that well show her another side of yourself but still act yourself.Good Luck
22715
Wow, I'm suprised someone other than me has this probablem! Okay well first off don't ever be nervous around her, even if she thinks it's adorable. Kind of hint it at her, like flirt with her often but not too often. If the hinting don't help gather up all your guts and ask her out, if she says yeah good for ya, if she says no, don't give up just keep it cool with her and wait for a little longer.
218682
You should ask her. If you truly like her you'll ask her. Be brave
220088
I don't think theres anything wrong with wanting a girl to make the first move. As a matter of fact I prefer it that way myself! It makes me feel as if the girl really wants me. But you gotta realize that the girls are just as nervous about it as you are. You'll find that as you get older and the more girls you go out with it gets easier and easier to ask them out. And take my advice bud, now is as good a time as any to start asking them. It is true that you may get rejected a few times, but you gotta learn to pick yourself up and move on. Even rejection gets easier over time! Its all a part of our crazy,wonderful life. Now if you find yourself liking a girl, and you think she likes you just jump right in and ask her out. You may be pleasantly surprised when she says yes-and thats a great ego booster! But even if she says no, its not a biggie-theres lots and lots of girls out there.So get to it buddy!!!
54217
i know exactly where you are coming from.  remember, us guys like girlfriends.  for the longest time i was in the same situation as you (up until a few months ago).  i never did get the courage - she told my friend who told me.  if you really think you cant ask him with the fear of rejection you could ask a friend of him and you to ask him casualy if he would go out with you.  hope i helped - goodluck
93756
It really is not all that hard. Go up to her and try talking to her unless you already do. Then when you get to talk to her and know her better you might be ready to take the next step to writting her a not or in your case have a friend that you trust go up to her and ask her what she thinks of you and if it is an okay answer your friend would then say well that is a relief because he really likes you and was woundering if you would go out with him
95540
Dude, You've already met her.  What are you worried about?  Ask her out.  If she says yes...great.  If she says no...move on with your life.  You don't want to spend weeks on end trying to get up the nerve and then watch her walk away with another man before you do ask her out.\n\nJust do it!
458418
Take a deep breath, it will all be fine, if he's not interested big deal. He's not going to walk around telling everyone you asked him out and he turned you down. You know what my personal moto is- Glory to the brave. When ever I want to ask out a girl or approach a girl and I start to fear rejection I say to myself Glory to the Brave and do it. I've got rejected before, but in a few days you'll never remember and I've also gone out with some beautiful girls, and that wouldn't have happened if I didn't have the balls to make a move
177708
Be brave,ask her out. Simple as that.Some people spend too much time wondering,if I do this,will he or she do that.Just jump right straight to the point.Hi,what's up or whatever and then boom-hammer down-ask her out. Say something like Hi(her name)I'm going out to say a concert,would you like to go with me. All she can say is yes or no. When she says no,don't ask her out again. Make another choice for a girl you would like to date and date them instead. Sometimes when a girl has seen the boy that just asked her out with another,it kinda makes them wonder a little.Especially if she were to find out how much fun was had. Plan someplace you'd like to go that is fun.Then go,maybe even ask others-go as a group.Just have fun. When I was dating,fun was the in thing. Dating wasn't as fun as going in a group because it made the girls feel too attached to the person they were dating,but going as a group,you had more fun,everyone not so serious.Most times each person paid their own way. We used to go to the rivers(had large picnics-cook-outs,Sometimes we'd all get together and go to the local beach,or we'd decide on a movie,you follow what I am saying. Going as a group seems to let everyone be themself more,without all the love stuff involved in a date.Sometimes,no matter what you think of a girl,that girl could be nerveous about being alone with you.Nothing you do to cause this,some girls are just that way.Make it easy for her to say yes.Going as a group,she has time to get to know you without being totally alone with you in a relaxing atmosphere.I think it's funny how some boys think they know everything about girls,but unless you are a girl,how would you know. And about that dance,does Debbie dance well?If she doesn't she may have been scared for you to see how she dances.I see you like to dance,so that is a major plus for you.Almost all girls I've known just love to dance and admires a guy who will dance  with them.Dancing is a universal language.If she can't dance well offer to teach her how. (she'll bug you for dances once she learns)