ways of convincing a girl to have sex
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touch her in places that will turn her on. kiss lightly on the neck without being too obvioys rub her arm gently, offer a massage. there are a lot of ways to get it started without coming out and saying a word.
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work your way up to it. See how far she is willing to go without having sex. Or you can use the super dooper easy method and just ask!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Well being able to listen to a women is really nice and comforting. Just listening to what she has to say, being there for her, understanding her. \nHaving "game" is not something a guy has to do to get noticed. I think just being yourself will attract a girl that is looking for someone like yourself. \nSo yea, hopefully that answered your question.\n\nIf a girl really likes you, than she will flirt w/ you alot, she will come closer to you when you guys are talking, she will look deep in to your eyes, and if she wants to kiss you, shell look at your lips than in your eyes. \nShell want to go out with you more, shell want to be around you more.\nSome tips...\nListen to your gf, try to understand her, dont control her. Be there for her no matter what.\n1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out\n\n2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.\n\n3. Hug her from behind (we love this)\n\n4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.\n\n5. Wrestle with her :)\n\n6. Don't go hang out with your ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.\n\n7.If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.\n\n8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"\n\n9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.\n\n10. Play with her hair.\n\n11. Pick her up (she loves it)\n\n12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it\n\n13. Make her laugh\n\n14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.\n\n15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.\n\n16. If you care about her, then TELL HER\n\n17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).\n\n18.Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.\n\n19. Look her in the eyes and smile.\n\n20. Hang out with her on weekends\n\n21. Kiss her in the rain (girls love this)\n\n22. Kiss her just for the heck of it\n\n23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.\n\n24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if\nits simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER.\n\n25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)\n\n26.Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.\n\n27. Give her what she wants\n\n28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.\n\n29. tell her shes beautiful... not hott\n\n30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang wit your girl friend all the time\n\n31. If u care about her...SHOW her
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make sure there is a lot of foreplay to make her really aroused and ready.  also, she should be relax about it.
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be patient...do a lot of foreplay..use some lube and wear a condom...she's 18 so some drinks are not out of the question...start kissing, caressing and pleasuring her and she'll let you know when she's juicy and ready for entry...and consider yourself flattered that she asked you to be her partner for this special moment.
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to get a guy exsited a girl needs to do a lot of sexy things like dressing up into fun outfits (hehe), or kiss with her tonge very gentaly. or just lye on the couch naked
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make a big gesture\nsomething that shows her that u care enough to do anything for her\nthink niki FM ( the song from hawthrone heights) \nit tell about a boi that is outside a girls window with a stereo\nit u guys have a special song do that\nor decorate her locker\nand if all else fails show up at her house with flowers\nhope i helped\nGOOD LUCK
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- Tell your desire decently in a manner which should not make her angry.\n- Wait for the result.\n- All the best Wishes for you to be lucky.\n- enjoy....!\n------------------
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touch her Legs and boobs. You'll know when shes Horny.
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Have her come over and have arrows leading to the bedroom, then go to suriseparties.com, check out what they have, order something different, and have a good time.  Try drawing a nice bubble bath for her, and wash her hair,etc. Make a nice dinner in the nude. Just spend a nice nite together watching movies, drink a bit of wine, or beverage of choice, and let things go. I did the arrows and IT WAS GREAT, had the wine, chocolates, and well we got a movie and just got up to eat lunch.  Had a great time. The surpriseparty.com, has a LOT OF GREAT ideas.  LUCK and have fun.
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Just put a little pressure on her shoulders when kissing. She will get the message. If this doesnt work after a few dates then ask her, if that fails then dump her and move on.
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Use a condom.  Talk about how you wanna go about it.  Know boundaries etc.  Decide which position you want to be in and take it from their. Don't forget plenty of foreplay to help and relax the lady and to give her more pleasure.  Don't be a selfish lover!  Once you are "in" you can take it from there and decide how fast/slow you wanna go.  Make the effort to make it special.
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It's inappropriate to just walk up to a girl and start dry-humping her like you're a dog in heat.  But since the noise level in most clubs makes conversation nearly impossible, it is okay to invite her to dance using a minimum of words.  \n\nFirst, try to make eye contact and smile.  \n\nIf she smiles back, go up to her and dance next to her (this gives her a chance to check you out, and either move closer or move away depending on her level of availability and interest).  \n\nWhen the noise level dips, lean in and say in her ear, "Hi, my name's John, wanna dance with me?"  A cheesy compliment at this point is also okay, but don't be too vulgar or over-the-top.\n\nIf she nods or says yes, move in so there is less a foot between you.  Take your cues from her about how close to move in.  Consider closing the gap in stages, about once or twice per song.  Eventually, if she lets you, you'll be locked in an embrace, swaying and grooving on the dance floor.  Do NOT put your hands directly on her breasts or butt - you may slide your hands along the side of her body near these areas, possibly just brushing them, but this is pretty advanced and will not be welcomed by every girl, you'll just have to use your own judgement.\n\nIf she gets tired, ask if she wants to take a break and get some air on the patio, or if you can buy her a drink.  Then you can talk with her and get to know each other.\n\nRemember: always be confident, respectful, and smile!\ngood luck!
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talk about tryin new things to gather. you just dont want to spring something on her shes not ready for. For starters try watching dirty movies, role play or even try out each others fantasy.
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How about this:\n\n*Tell her it must be okay, because Catholic priests and televangelists do it all the time...\n*Remind her that Jesus himself said that the faithful should be able to handle snakes...\n*Tell her that the first people really beloved by God were always naked.\n*Use the old "Be fruitful and multiply" approach.\n*Ask her if she knew that the phrase "Oh God" is the most common phrase women use during sex, so there must be a connection.\n*Don't even bother using any of these lame @ss ideas. Just dump the little goody-two-shoes. She may be hot, but a 7 that puts out is infinately better than a 10 that doesn't...\n\n-SD-
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Make a video of you and a way better looking girl and give it to here. When she watches it and starts to cry, laugh at here.  Hysterically, like its the funniest thing you have ever heard.  Then tell her 'just kidding' and give her that cute Vermont Teddy Bear youve been hiding the whole time.  -Guarunteed to please.
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I think the best thing to do would be to sit down and talk with her about puberty and sex if you haven't already.  Tell her that she should never let anyone pressure her into having sex and that a guy who tries to push her to do something she isn't ready to do is not the guy for her.  Tell her that there is a lot of responsibility that comes along with having sex, like the possibility of STDs or pregnancy.  If you think it's appropriate, talk about contraception.  It isn't unusual for girls to not have entered puberty by her age--she's perfectly normal in that respect.  But if she's hearing about sex from her friends, then she's old enough to get reliable information from her parents instead of relying on what other kids tell her.  I doubt that most kids that age realize that any girl who has started her periods and has sex can get pregnant, and that anyone who has sex could get an STD.