Met her about a 1/2 month ago and i just feel for her (by internet) and we been talking for awhile now. She just sees me as a friend. What to do?? I need help
214694
I think it's cute that u like her, but don't rush into this so fast. Just try 2 get 2 know her a bit more so that she confides in u & becomes a very good friend. These things tend 2 scare off ppl whom you've just met, so don't react 2 it but just let it take time =)
638891
Just tell her how you feel. It might sound simple but all you have yo do is just be your self and let her know whats on your mind. Tell her that you understand that you are friends now but you would like to take it to the next lvl. Ask her what her feelings are and where her mind is at. You might find that she has some feelings for you too or you might just find that she just wants to be friends. Whtever she says its always best to know something then to not know anything at all.\n\nThis might lead to something in the future if not nothing now. Just tell her what you think and see where it takes you. You never know what could happen......
272495
well, I really appreciate your kind heart..\nalthough there's no chance to prevent her hurting feeling...\nbut I believe, it's much much better you tell her the truth, that you can only keep her as a friend, than act like you're her someone special...\ncause it will be more hurts...\nbe brave.
151523
i think you should let her know how you feel about her.\n\ni think it would be much easier to tell her this in person  so i would just ask her to take some time aside on a day and try to go out somewhere where you can talk dinner/coffee/park but somewhere commercial not too busy tho where there isn't eery silence or awkward feelings for reactions to a conversation like that \n\nbye what u have stated it doesn't seem as if she shares the same feelings with you  but i would not know since i dont know her\n\nbut be cautious  because if in fact that she doesn't feel the same way as you do about each other you might be faced with the problem of just wanting to stay friends \n\nbut also don't obsess or show obsession over the situation because that can push someone away and make them feel uncomfortable around you
135049
I hope she realizes how lucky she is to have a friend like you.  You cared enough about her to let her go and be happy.  I wish there were more ppl like you out in this world.  take care...
620622
try to build the friendship again... by doing that you will give yourself time to asses about your true feeling with her...
434768
Perhaps by meeting her, and being able to spend time with her she'll realize you're what she wants. I'd suggest making sure ya'll have a bunch of fun, whether it's crazy silly random stuff. Or something you have talked about that would be fun. Don't let it be boring, and don't be afraid to try something new. \n\nLet her know you're there for her to talk to if she needs it, try not to let your feelings scare her away. And by this I mean, don't come on strong. Show you care, but keep your distance. So she doesn't feel like you're just another prick on the block. If you know what I mean.\n\nSee how things go tomorrow, invite her to hang out again and do something fun once more. By spending time together you're more likely to know what the other needs. More so than just talking online. Learn about her, and let her learn about you. Sometimes those little quirks are what make you fall for them the most. \n\nIf you both still feel the same after hanging out as friends for a while. Who knows maybe you two could get together, and make an adorable couple.\n\nBest of luck to you.
383235
move on my friend she already has and iam sure shes not thinking of you. it sounds like you two was real close at one time but now she has a new life and so should you. take care friend and move on.
403647
Well you're in a good position b/c most good relationships start with good friendship... but @ the same time, it might be hard for her to adjust to the fact that u really like her b/c she thinks of u more as a friend and she's probably never been in a situation like that. Just give it some time... if you two are really good friends then u dont have anything to worry about! =)
533846
the best you can do for now is just Waite it out.If she likes you she'll come around now that she knows how you feel.If you like all the same things maybe at lest you can be friends.
564988
She feels something for you but she isn't exactly sure what she's feeling. You should talk to her about it to let her know she is safe around you. I also think that she doesn't want to lose your friendship. Sometimes being with someone who is your friend makes things a little awkward, and she doesn't exactly want to do that yet. Keep on being friends for now and see where that takes you.
349623
you are doing the right thing... she's hurt, it ll take her time to trust anyone... even ppl like u who has good intentions.. well if u really feel u ve met the right person, its worth the wait... but be prepared for the worst too... its upto u, whether u think the wait is a waste of time... midly (not in ur face) prove to her u are worthy of her trust.. i hope u like this woman !!! anywyz, good luck with it :)
126287
Well my answer is simply this and that is if she thinks that you are just friends hanging out then that is all it is to her but if you let her know how you feel then that changes.Then she will either think about it and let you know if she feels the same or not but you have to let her know. True love might be passing you both by.
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"I'm not sure how to say this to you...but I get the feeling that you're interested in a relationship with me and I'm not ready for that right now.  I just thought I should say something before I give the wrong impression."  Or something like that.  \n\nHere's the truth:  you're already in a relationship with her.  The issue is defining it. What kind of relationship do you want:  friends? lovers?  occasional coffee / movie buddies?  nothing to do with her at all?  Figure out what you want and see if she's willing to be that with you.  If so, have fun. If not, move on.  I wish you Peace.
385975
the next time you to see each other ask her for her phone number and just talk to her. Maybe ask her to go out to the movies or some where with a group of friends so that she won't feel like your moving to fast for her. Then from then on start hanging out with her more , and talking to her more. so then she'll become closer to you and be comfortable around you as well. the n when the time is right you can talk to her about the way you feel.
343567
Ya, if her feelings for you are ever going to change from friendship to relationship, it's probably not gonna happen when she knows that your waiting for her. I've had friends in the past that have professed their love for me after we had been friends for awhile, pretty much, once your in the friend place it's really hard to come out of. I'm not saying it's impossible but her knowing how you feel probably isn't helping, she knows you'll be there untill she's ready. My advice...move on, still be her friend but date someone else. If there ever is a chance of her feelings toward you changing, it'll happen when she thinks she's lost you. Everyone loves a challenge ;) Good Luck!
322148
i dont think she is ready to make a committment to you right now. unless you just want to be friends,you need to move on and meet someone else who you can have a deeper relationship with.