i'm pretty and smart but they pay no attention to me?
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just be your self and NEVER TRY TO ACT DUMB for any boy, boys are like puppys all you need to do to get the puppy to trust you is by being who you are and they also don't mind if you trow them a bone or 2, and you'll have him kissing your hand for seconds
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Ask yourself why you are attracted to them? What do they have that you admire? Maybe you just need to feel that way about something that you do very well, and have others admire you the way you do them. Find something that you love. It can be anything that's good for your heart, mind, body and spirit. As a young woman you are "raging" on the inside to get out and find something that defines yourself as being that charismatic! You have what it takes to begin to find something unique about yourself that others might look up to you for. Pride is not always a bad thing, as long as you have compassion.\n\nI  have learned that I don't obsess about my body but to look and feel great takes special care to myself. If I feel good that makes me nicer and happier about other people: they can really suck too! The more you obsess too much about others, it means YOU are the one you should be really focused upon, not anyone else. \nTake a closer look at what perfect really is, the definition is insanity. Normal, there's another word that reminds me, "Is normal such a good thing? Why not be different." I love going out to try anything new, that's the reason I don't need a PICTURE OF PERFECTION. My definition is much different than yours.\nYours truly,\nHOLLIE
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Just be yourself and don't worry about ignorant people who think they are better than you. These people have to degrade you to make themselves feel better. Let them call you names, joke about how you function in the world, and laugh at your personality,etc., it's just their way of turning the spotlight away from themselves because they are afraid if you look too closely at "them", you may find a few flaws. If they would turn on their brights, they would realize everyone is different; has bad points and good points; and acceptance brings people closer. Maybe they are just sooooo unhappy, they want to drag you down to their dungeon to suffer with them. Try extending an olive branch or making a peace offering, and if that does not work, forget about them, do your own thing, and sooo politely tell them to kiss your arse.   \nP.S.  I am a Redneck, shhhhhh....don't tell anybody!!(:
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Like when you say something and you are being serious and they just kinda sit back and laugh, When they dont pay very good attention to you, they dont beleive in what you say but they are always tellin you that you are pretty and things like that . so try being serious for one whole day and if that person laughs or says something out of the way from being serious and just compliments you on your looks.........that will work trust me on this............oh yeh and you got to have to want to take them serious to inorder for them to ant to pay u attention when you are being serious.
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You shouldn't worry what other people think of you.  You are not on this earth to please other people, especially rude ones.  Know that you are a good person and from this will arise an inner sense of beauty that will reflect in who you are and not what you think other people want to see in you.  This is real beauty.  Judging from your profile I would say you are pretty cool.
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Maybe you have beautiful eyes ;)\nJust maybe they see genuine kindness which you don't see in most guys(or peoples) eyes.
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It is an old adage. We probably will never know where all the blond jokes started from. We just picked up on what our parents have told us and the blonde jokes we all heard. I do not know why. I agree with you it is not fair. You seem like you are pretty smart and you are deeply hurt. My best advice to you is I know it is hard when you hear the slide remarks but pay no attention and do not pay them any attention. As long as you know different who cares what they think they probably do not know you so how can they judge you.They probably are doing that to hide their imperfections or maybe they are intimidated by you but please keep your head held up high. Remember you are better than that and you are better than them so keep smiling.
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I think you are pretty smart.\n\nI mean trying to find out what total strangers think of you without giving them reason to like or dislike you. \n\nAn excellent way to study human psychology and interaction.\n\nVery well thought out and executed. Keep up the good work!!
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I am one of them but I have been working on it for a while now.  Girl you are probably a great person I would not worry much.  Take care.
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u r fine they should listen to u it sounds like u r a good person dont take it seriously.
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i am intelligent, sweet, and educated...\ni dont know how humorous people find me...\ni am 17...\nas for beautiful and sexy, how would i know?\ndifferent people have different views on beauty...
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They won't listen to you honestly.... sorry to say. SO wait it out, take their remarks and comments, and when they're through thinking your a perve, they'll come around.
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My sign is irrelevant and women who don't believe in astrology are attractive to me.
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They ignore you, don't smile when you talk to them, and cold shoulder you.  Look at other guys when you talk to them, and several other things.  Have Fun!!!
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It sounds as though you are aware of your surroundings. Good for you! Just tell then that you appreciate their thoughts of you, but it's up to you to keep being aware of their true intentions and leave it at that, There is no need to explain it to them unless the situation totally is cause for. You will know when someone will like you for who you truly are and not just for your looks. But, you also must understand that the appearances of a person is what catch the eye of another, so don't be so quick to push a person away, find out what their intentions or feelings are and decide if that's what you are looking for. Just being cute is should not be enough to sustain any relationship. Good Luck!
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Unfortunately, those girls grow up to be women who are simply bitter with themselves.\n\nI've had numerous accounts where women gossip about me, say I am conceited, etc. WITHOUT knowing one thing about me. \n\nI've even had some incidences where women confess that they thought I thought I was on my high-horse to later realize I'm very nice and down-to-earth.\n\nI've now learned to accept all kinds of gossip. I now embrace it and figure that I must have something special about me for people to stare, wonder & talk, without knowing one thing about me. Plus, depending on their own lives, it really amounts to them not having anything going on with themselves.\n\nBe flattered. Some people go unnoticed in life, you should be glad you're noticed and then some.
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Low self esteem; that's what I see. You think that since you don't have the qualities that other popular girls have, that you aren't noticed by the male gender. So deep down you want what the other girls have - attention. The way to acheive this is, to accept the fact that everyone has his or her assigned talents. May it be good looks, voice, dance, writing, music, singing, or whatever it is. So, you have to find what your best talent is and focus on improving it. But don't do it for attention! Do it, because, it's what you want to do! Then as time goes by your talents will show others who you really are - pay attention to yourself first; everything else will follow, eventually. -peace.