lads akways ask lasses what they look for in a man i wondered what men look for in a woman ..
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Being nice goes a long way for me. Of course we all want to have an obviously attractive mate. However, I've met really pretty girls with terrible attitudes that make them the ugliest of creatures. And I've also gone for some really nice girls that may not be the standard in beauty or physical form.\n\nAnother good quality is confidence. Not conceit, but knowing ones self to be good. Confidence is a secret weapon of both male and female. People will be attracted to such a person and may not even know why. \n\nIt also helps if you keep yourself well. Regardless of your physical shape, keep yourself clean and fresh. I've seen too many girls who think that they can just slop by. Every guy wants girl to 'look' like a girl.
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The reason is, after 2 days on a personals site, a women is going to be overwhelm with responses by men. Many will be desperate men. Alot of them will be scum of the earth. If you are a decent guy and meet up to some of the minimum requirements, I would go for it. One word of caution, Don't tryto put on that you are something you are not. It will show up in most cases right there between the lines. No matter what a woman says she is looking for in a man, I can say, without a doubt, the number 1 trait that will get her is honesty.
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You probably are...wouldn't know though......  the things I look for in a guy have nothing to do with what he looks like.....  good sense of humor, caring, generous, fun, honest......  someone i can relate to.  Good looks are just a bonus to a beautiful soul.
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Girl take it from me, looks don't matter, its whats in their heart, get to know him, you might be surprised.  Cause if you think about it, when you go for looks you get all the wrong things, and hurts in return.
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if you take away the physical appearance of the female, which is obviously very important to men, then there are three things to look for in a girl. The first thing is flexibility. there's an incredible attractiveness to a girl that can be flexible on a date and not a miss priss that has to have everything go perfect. The second is integrity. Being straight up and honest with a guy is pricleless. A woman with integrity is a woman that can be trusted when all the evidence points elsewhere. And trust is the most important thing in a relationship. The third thing for a woman to have is that she has to be giving. A woman who is all about herself is very annoying, and needs to be pushed to the curb. As far as what you should do to show guys you like us, that's easy.  Men and women are different is so many ways.  Unlike women we don't give a damn about all the mental mind game crap.  if you like a guy tell him you're interested.  If a guy doesn't like you then he won't ask you out.  if a guy does like you he'll be relieved that you came forward and initiated something.
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Guy:\n\nSomeone who is independent, enjoys and appreciates life genuinely. Someone who is secure with himself (not in the macho-sense, but in the self-accepting sense).\nSomeone who likes women. (Someone who doesn't see women as the ultimate goal to achieve and works to attain her, but rather takes delight in her as a person and chooses to be with her)\nSomeone who WILL not revolve his life around hers.\nSomeone who WILL not allow himself to be led by her.\n\nBottom line: A woman wants a man who can be the one to take her along for the ride and not the way around.\n\n^ If you need clarification to that last line, just ask.\n\nAnyhow, everything I described above is the source of attraction. That's why there's those people that seem to raise attention when they enter a room. \n.
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if you were really looking for a woman, she'd come to you and you'd know it. There's no way in the world any one man can be everything a woman wants because not all women are the same...It's what your woman wants, not what other women want. If you have a girl, concentrate on her. Get to know her needs.
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You know what I really want in a woman?\n\nMe.
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Asking is sometimes nice but to have a man read my body language is excellent.... Woman are so obvious sometimes.. Our body language and conversation and facial expressions can tell you exactlly what we want... You just have to be able to read and listen for the signs...
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'Men are mostly a convenience as they haven't the capacity to listen and respond, are not compelled to communicate as women are. I really dont think they view them as stupid, or ignorant for the most part, though geography has much to do that. No role playing, be the strong women you are. I am , have paid a fair price for it...and so it goes...I have lost nothing I never had and I have had a LOT. I will NOT be bored or play handmaiden to an armchair quarterback...Listen up men, learn your lady's favourite everything. Take a hint....this really works!!!! Please her and you will be pleased in reciprocity. I know. Women may be more petite and therefore seem like bait or the underneeded or we have been treated as convenience stores. Well we are NOT THAT ! All For Now......
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Each woman has her own preference as to what she is attracted to. Some will say eyes, another will be his body, another will say his smile etc. But once we get past the outer layer we really start looking for qualities that we would like that man to have. Such as, honesty (that's the big one). If the man isn't honest we can't trust him. Another one is personality. Can he make the woman laugh?  The most important thing to me is (and hopefully all women)...Does he respect and accept me for who I am? If he can't respect you as a person that guy shouldn't deserve my time. He must accept me for who I am. That he must accept every little quirky thing I might do or say. That also includes a respect of my beliefs and goals. I could go on and on...Hope this helps.
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If I like a woman, I look into her eyes. I smile. I laugh at her jokes. I spend more time with her than with anyone else. I want to spend MORE time with her. I ask about her likes and dislikes. I ask about her family. The more a guy seems to be around you, the more likely he's interested in you.
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I would ask them what guys mistakenly ASSume about them, just because they're hot. I'd like to know [specifically!!] what do guys do wrong most commonly?
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'MENS'.........all like diiff. things.  as for me ,i like a woman 2 be not just beautiful and slim  but also honest,clear hearted and genuine
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ha and thats what most women think about men.... ironic.... just wait for the right one... i lost hope for the whole male population... and then i found a great amazing man... and i love him to death! you just have to wait :D
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no one is perfect and when you realize that you'll be happy with what you choose ,but the qualities i look for is honesty,caring faithful,a good sense of humor fun to be with ,someone who will love me for who i am not what i look like not that i look bad,my point being that outside looks are not all that important it is how you are as a person inside that counts.someone to respect me and care for me when i'm sick,a man who can give me space when i need it.love me unconditionally,and i must do all of the above for him.by the way i have found a man just as i have described and i have had him for 30 yrs and i hope you to find your ideal mate good luck
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I think that it depends on the guy and his age.Most of the time older guys  look for personality,and younger guys go for looks.I think that one should not care what people think, although it is difficult not to get hurt when people are say mean things about you.