HOW MUCH OF YOU LADIES BELIEVE IN THE "NICE GUY THEORY"?
206711
No many ladies would take a nice guy first and leave thebad one back .But the bad guys pretend to be nice  ,so they 360 is not what she thought she had .
671643
Most women don't know what they want even at an older age. I think most of us go through a period of yes, we do want the type of guy listed above, cute, smart, funny, respectful, but when we get that there just not bad enough. Don't have enough edge, they seem sissy to us. As women mature and grow older then we realize that those bad boys are just well, bad boys and we actually want a commitment from a guy not some loser w/o a job or ambition for anything.   While it's hard on guys, you just have to be patient there's  girl out there that's wanting a nice guy and can't find them and get's stuck w/ losers...hell, i always did. I think sometimes it maybe not so much a sense of false hope just maybe afraid of oh, my gosh what are my friends going to think b/c he's just so nice and this might make them think he's too sissy. I wish you luck in you search. God bless.
41797
Yes nice guys finish last. It's all a matter of the nice guys waiting for the right moment, while the bad guys try anytime. Therefore the bad guys have more opportunities to finish first. Nice guys are always going to finish last. As a nice guy myself I know this to be true.
55331
I don't think that all men are in that category. Only you can change that behavior, if that is truely how you see women. Good luck! (My man is very gentle and giving!) They always say the "3rd time's a charm!"
186789
great question and the trouble is you're trying to understand it from a guy's standpoint so you have no chance.  it's definitely down to what the girls here have been saying that they just feel uncomfortable with it and there is also a sense of predictability in treating a woman too nice. I'm single but cool with it as I know the key to all of this is being who you really are and not trying so hard to impress.  concentrate more on what makes you happy in life and the right girl will be attracted to that. don't try and make others happy as you'll lose sight of yourself
123839
Well, maybe U're too sweet to be true! believe, most of the women got scared when they find someone like U, I guess we are used to bad and nasty guys, and sometimes we don't believe a guy could be sweet and nice.\nBut if U feel good the way U're just be patient and U'll find the one who takes U and loves U as U're-.
125565
no. i think it is a coplement cause as a guy i look for personality and if they look good it's a bonus. I don't mean that as an insult though. If you had said that to me i would have been even more in love( if that was the case).
315854
Yes, I do! And I'm lucky enough to have a man like that! It's the younger women out there that put up with ' Mr. Wrong'. Most women over the age of 30 are tired of dealing with immature, ill-mannered men. They'll hold out for a decent man. Remember the saying..." young & stupid....."
484099
It feels pretty...AWESOME! I mean for example: if a guy cheats on you or something, you have every reason to go up to him, smile sweet like so his gaurd's down and give it to him like it's a soccer ball. I mean, I wouldn't go up to just any guy and do that. Their "package" is just a bunch of nerves, but I would only do it to someone who deserves it...
549434
I should hope not .. People say Im pretty and I have hot guys always pestering me .. but they arent nice guys .. they only care about a girls appearence. I like nice guys!
672260
I like the thrill of goin' out with a 'bad guys'. i don't know it's sort of hard to explain. but thing is it depends, on what kind of girl you're talking about. Me for example, like both. i think that 'good guy are very sweet,cute,kind, and caring. And i think 'bad guys' are rebelious, funny, risk-takers, and i'm-bad-and-you-love-it-sexy. But you've got to admit, all guys aren't exactly perfect angels, everyone's got a little naughty streak in them.
129065
You are a f****** p****.  Stop being a nice guy . . . because of you being a nice guys those b****** are walking all over you and you will get nothing.  I bet you are even taking them shopping, buying them dinner, and taking them to movies, etc. . . right.  They are using your dumb a**.\n\nYou have been labeled as a friend or a brother . . . by them . . . you will never get a little something - something.  You see once you received that label . . . you will never get that moved into the lovers category.  \n\nYou act like a friend . . . than a lover.  I bet they even talk to you about their sex life.  About the a**holes and jerks they date and give it up to.  Are you understanding where I am getting at . . . you need to get in touch with your inner a*hole . . . start acting like a jerk . . . stop being reliable and buddy/buddy with them.\n\nHere is something I want you to listen too . . . Monday through Friday between 3-7pm Pacific Time.\n\nhttp://tuner1.dc1.sonixtream.com/solon/media/tuner/Tuner?aff=fmtalki&useSame=true&type=IE\n\nThis is a radio talk show that talks about the issues MEN really care about . . . teaches guys how to get more tail for less money . . . and also teaches girls how men think.\n\nYou need to change your life . . . because right now . . . you have no balls.\n\nI am being blunt as you requested . . . maybe this kick in the a** will help you.
261812
It depends on the person who calls them beautiful.  Even within the television "beauties" people's opinions differ on who is beautiful and who is not.  When I've let myself get beyond the surface (upon meeting a nice guy), I've noticed that his character overshadows his looks.  I hope that is true for women.
502697
Bad boys are apealing for a time....they are exceiting.  But in the end what most women want is  a  nice guy who treats them right.  My husband tells this story about this girl he when with and she  dumped him for a bad boy.  After he and I got married we ran into the women at a  club and she told my husband, "You were the best thing that ever happened to me and I was so stupid.  He turned out to be a real jerk."  Of course, by then I  had already snatched him up and she was left out in the cold.  But she really regretted dumping the nice guy and getting  in with the bad boy...she got burned for it in the end.  I suggest that you forget  her and look for  a nice girl.  The nice girls are probably not the most popular girls because the popular girls are popular for all the wrong reasons.  And the nice girls are not popular because they actually have ethics and values.  When I was in school I wouldn't have sex, wouldn't drink, wouldn't smoke and wouldn't do drugs....wasn't allowed to date until I was 16.  My parents made me dress modestly.  Guess what?  I wasn't very popular.    I wasn't  asked to prom, wasn't asked to  the home coming dance and all of those things.  What  a nice guy needs to do is look for  a  nice girl and forget about  who's popular.
19347
Of course not. Actually, I myself appreciate the quality of independence in girls. And I love travel too, though haven't done much yet. Well, guys are NOT just a group of beings of the same preferrences. I think every individual varies. At least that's what I think.
259571
I don't LET my man out. He's not an animal. He comes and goes as he pleases. I'm not worried cause he's not really that good looking and can't really carry a conversation with a gal, so I trust him totally.
504902
Yeah I think you're pretty well on the money - just as a generalisation and not true for all girls and women (I dated sweet nerdy chess clubs types in high school and rejected all the bad boys).