I'm trying to get a guy at school to notice me cos i'm really diggin what he wears n what he does, but he just carries on like normal.\nWe have alaugh and everything though, he's like, my best friend, but i don't know if he like really notices me cos i like him like him.\n      Please help me...
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First of all be true to yourself and always be yourself.  Make yourself approachable by smiling alot.  When u r talking to him and laughing together reach out tough him gently on the arm or shoulder or even leg.  Touch can be a powerful thing!  This will also give him a clue what u r feeling!  You can always kiddingly say " gosh I wish I could find a guy as great as you"  and see how he responds to that.  Talk to him about what interests him.  Guys love to think we r interested in them and their hobbies.  Invite him to a movie.  Say you really wanna see a certain movie-scary one preferrably- and your friends r busy and cant go and ask him if he would go with you cuz You hate going by yourself.  If its a scary movie then you can always PRETEND to be more scared than you really are and be sure to grab ahold of him and hang on out of love....oops I mean out of fear!  ha ha!  Or you can go the direct route and just tell him how u feel.  He may be feeling the same way but afraid to say anything for fear of rejection.  If you dont you will always wonder what might have been!!!!  Good luck to u!
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What are the benefits of having this guy as your "boyfriend"?\n\nIt's possible that your guy is shy, or maybe afraid of getting too involved with a girl, because maybe his friends will harass him. Maybe he feels awkward, and just doesn't know what to do or say. Let him know that you'd like to hang out with him a little more at school, and think of conversation starters. Make a list (for your reference only) of all of the things you'd like to know about him, and the things you want him to know about you. Then, don't deluge or assault him with 2000 questions in one day, but every time you get together with him, try to get a conversation- a dialogue- going. \n\nIf he's still not interested, or is distant, cold, etc, I would suggest that you let this one go, and find a boyfriend who's interested in being half of a couple. You can't expect a school-age boyfriend to dote on you every minute of every day, but you should be able to expect some conversation, and some company. Life's too short to devote it all to someone who's not going to meet you somewhere in the middle. Good luck to ya.
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you don't have to get him to notice you. just get the courage up and go and talk to him. find out what you all have in common, and just plain get to know each other first. i think the first step to becoming gf/bf, (if you want to), is learning what kind of interests you have in common, and other stuff. you need to take the initiative, and go up and ask him his name. it seems like he's really shy---it seems like you are too (so am i), i know how you feel---if you don't go up and ask, you'll never know if he's the guy for you. you'll never know if he's Mr. Right---your Prince Charming. good luck!!!
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Wow, what's amazing is that I'm going through the same thing right now, except in a different setting. See how he is towards you outside of school. Flirt with him, sit on his lap, hold his hand, any kind of gesture will make him wonder, "Hey, does she like me as well?" or "Maybe I should ask her out." What ever you do gets you one step closer. But as far as I can tell, I would go for it. Why don't you give him your number so he can call ya sometime. If you want to continue finding out if he likes ya, go out on a couple more dates. Hope I Helped!
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if the guy likes you at all then he will "steal" glances at you.  if you catch him lookin, ask him how his day is going.  this game that girls and guys play is sorta messed up , but so is life.  i like this girl at school, and i've been afraid to introduce myself to her for the past year.  until last week, we started talking about mussolini in the hall way.  she's smart, and cute.  but i'm still afraid to ask her out because we are both going to school.  school should not be the dating game.  but to answer your question: if a girl came up to me and challanged me to a game of paintball, i would be 99.999% likely to say "your on".  just be careful, and let the brain in your cranium do your thinking.
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He probably feels the same way towards you.\n\nJust try and zoom in on what he and you both like...For example, movies, computers, chat rooms, music, board games, certain books, or something you're both working on in class that you both find interesting...Don't try and tell him you like him in the first conversation...Get to know him really well to see if you actually have feelings for him...If he says he doesn't like you, then you don't have to worry about it anymore and it'll be his loss if that happens, but a lot of people are shy, including guys...It's way easier to talk over the internet, Yahoo Messenger, AOL Messenger, MSN Messenger...Once you get to know him pretty well, y'all can exchange screen names...If you don't already have one, I suggest getting Yahoo Messenger...It's way easier to work with than the others and most people, if they have any mess., they'll have Yahoo, but just to be safe, you should probably get AOL Messenger too.  It's way easier to express your feelings or talk to another person online when you don't have to talk to them face-to-face.  You should try this.  I bet it'll help!  Most importantly, be yourself...Being yourself makes for a stronger relationship where you'll be able to share things, ideas, thoughts, etc. with one another easier.
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ok heres my thought on this its kinda tricky and it depends on what school year your in (like last year of highschool or something)  i reccomend try to get a phone number because if you can get that you know he is willing to be open to you.  if you get the number tell him how you feel and then it'll be a lot easier becasue you have his number already.  also if you both have a sense of humor and he's kinda reacting funny to you telling him how you feel you can always say "you know i have your number i could just call everyday to bother you...." (or something like that) if someone said that to me id bust up laughing  anyway if he likes you you'll get his number and even if you can't get it out that day you can always call during the summer. also a better tactic would be (depending on what year of school you in) to see if he wants to do something with you.  if he likes you he'll probably be relieved that you asked instead of him asking (been there done that its nerve racking)
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well normally they will come on to you in some way , does he tease you ? do you see him glancing at you when he talks to someone else, signs he wants you to notice him , well get a new hair do,get ya push up bra on and ya low tops out not slutty clothes but sexy clothes and flirt like hell girl, shake that hair get a little bit more in his face so he gotta notice ya , and flirt like hell girl, good luck
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yea there's this guy who i like AL0T but he doesn't seem lik he wants to hang out/see me wit me outside of school even though we hug and sometimes talk a lil bit. he didn't even ask me fo my number! so idk ... just try not to stay at tha same level. everyday, talk more. then when you have tha courage ta ask him if he wants to go and hang out then do it. i know i'm still waiting for that day.
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WOAH!! the boob thing was kinda funny! i hope you said something or at least gave him a look. lol. but anywayz! he seems like yea he likes you. though the pepsi thing might not mean anything. i dont get the buck thing. you didnt really explain yourself. he seems to be sorta shy so hes only doing little things to show he likes you. ask him! i say GO WITH IT! lol! *good luck!*
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i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
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I think i know how this guy feels. He's just like me. I'm a very shy person, especially to towards this one girl I like. I think she knows that i like her but my head is confused (about: if she is the one). \nWhat I do is bring a friend that knows the both of us (or a very easy to talk to friend) and i invite HER along to do something. So I told them both I needed help shopping for clothes. And it worked out pretty good.\nSo think of doing something that you both will enjoy and try it. And if he is like me, he might be a klutz too. When I'm around HER I always mess something up, so don't be surprise if he anything like that happens.
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if he likes you than hes trying to get your attention.you need to try to talk to him and ask him why.maybe hes trying to avoid somthing.some problems e has.thats how i had it once and i took it seriously and asked him and it turned out he was just avoiding something that had happended to him and didnt want to tell me.say hi to him and tell him youll always be there for him and be a true friend.that should make him talk.
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If the boy stares at you more than other girsl he is trying to get you to notice him.  Next time you catch his eye go sit down next to him and start up a conversation about school.\n\nIf this works you can move the conversation  to the fun things you like to do and whether you should go out together.
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flirt and talk with him. If your sitting by him in class or something rub ure leg on his or something like that and see how he reacts if he moves it closer your succeeding if not then too bad. and Don't act like a skank, that is definitely a turnoff for me, but some guys may be different. good luck
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OMG!!! this is a common problem, just do it and get it over with before you make yourself look stupid, trust me\nhere i copy and pasted a response to someone else its the same thing\n\nahh a very common problem...... don't worry about it, find an excuse to talk to him, tell him he has cool shoes, hair, or you like his shirt or something like that. It will always work. Then ask him where he got it and he will say something. Then you have the opportunity to talk about where he got it from and eventually conversation will become natural. See its just so easy. You also seem to have approaching problems. If you want to approach him you could try to take a friend along but no more than one. Also you could try hanging out near him, but not too close, and look at him and look away... look at him again and look away again... every now and then and see if he looks at you. If he does he is interested in you. If he still ignores you, you could try accidently bumping into him or something. Find excuses they make it alot easier. If you can build up enough confidence walk up to him and just start talking about watever.
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If you dont want to ask him directly, no problem, are you cool with any of his friends?  Try to find out from his friends.  Or have a friend ask him who he likes.  Does he act differently toward you or does he do this to everyone else?  I know some guys acts extremely nice to you when they first meet you, then after a while, it just seems to fade and it becomes any regular friendship.  \n\nI believe its best to just ask him, because if he does, then he would know exactly how you feel about him too.  Well anyhow, good luck finding out. :]