last week my boyfriend put in in my %^&*...it hurt so bad...i ahavent done it before. should i try it again? will it ever nt hurt?
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Since a couple of the words in your message was scrambled..we're not all sure what you're talking about. But if you're referring to your rear entrance. Yes, it does hurt. The key is for you to RELAX & not tighten up; & "Plenty of K-Y".  That should help...relax and enjoy.
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like everything, it gets better with practice. you may be bad but so what? everyone has a first time. just let him know and you two should have plenty of fun perfecting it!
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What I would do is just continue the way you are now. Sooner or later, the two of you will decide whether you want to take it to the next level or not, and act accordingly. If he is fun to be with, then what can it hurt? Just have fun with it, and see where  it goes.
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no it wont hurt and yes it will automatically pull back.. It might be a little tender for a few days but you will forget the tenderness because of your action with your partner..Believe me i worried about the samething and well was no worries..
583315
I would not rush into anything that you are not comfortable with. If it doesn't feel right don't do it. Later you might change you mind. I wish you the best. Slow it down and think about it.
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It's not that bad once u get used to it. If u don't use anything then once it goes in it will hurt for just a second. After that it is great. Tell your b/f to go buy anal ease or Adam and eve. @ the adult store. This will numb the butt so it will not hurt. (Sorry I work in an adult store)
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my first time was completely painless.  why?  cause the guy was tiny, i'm talking pinky finger.  so it wasn't a problem for me.  good luck!
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i had the same problem...even if i just put a little in i would gag....BUT! I learned....you don't always have to move up and down with your mouth......do as many things you can possibly think of...without hurting him....with your tongue, lips, mouth, hands, take your time and don't think you have to be a porn star....take your time and you know, your boyfriend i'm sure would be happy to tell you what or how he wants it.......just ask
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IT DEPENDS ON THE SIZE OF THE GUY AND HOW RELAXED YOU ARE AT  THE TIME. USE PLENTY OF KY JELLY AND NEVER LET HIM DO IT WITHOUT A CONDOM OR DON'T LET HIM C U M INSIDE YOU. IT CAN BE ENJOYABLE ONCE YOU GET USED TO IT BUT IT DOES USUALLY HURT AT FIRST. DON'T BE FORCED INTO IT THOUGH ONLY DO IT IF YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE.
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For some women it is painful for others they say it didn't hurt that bad. Mostly it depends on if you really ready for it or not. If you are comfortable with the person your with and how much you know about yourself. You need to make sure your ready body and mind. Know what you want and don't do anything that you don't want to do or are not really ready to do. You should love the person that is your first. Go to the doctor before your first time and be check out and get birth control but don't only use that as protection no matter how much you love the guy always use a condom. Be safe if your not ready just say so and if he loves you he will wait. There's no hurry to lose your virginity remember its something you'll never be able to get back and give to someone else you love. If it doesn't work out with this guy its gone there's no going back. Make sure before you take that step.
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You are being used for booty and will never be anything more to him. I wish it didn't sound so harsh, but that's your truth. Either enjoy your "benefits" or move on. You may tell him you love him, but I bet your intuition has already told you the response to that and that is why you are scared. Actually I belive you should tell him, get it off your chest....and still move on.
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i didnt like it. no no no no!!!! \n\nwas a while ago though, he keeps asking, gonna let him do it again soon, but only to please him, i dont get nothing out of it!
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Sex should never be painful (unless you're into S&M or something like that). So, 1) is it painfully in certain positions? 2)just in one particular one? If its painful all the time its either a physical/medical problem. Now, I have heard from friends that the moment they said something to thier partner and their partner changed his position,force or ... it was no longer painful.
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I think that if you have to ask, then no, it wasn't a good idea.  I'm glad that he asked, and I'm glad that you consented.  I'm also glad that you regret it.\nWhat's done is done.  More than likely you will continue the activity, but I want you to consider something....\nJust because the deed is done, doesn't mean you have to keep doing it.  If you really regret it, and feel that you truly were not ready yet, there is absolutely no shame in declining to engage further.  If you feel it appropriate, get together w/ your bf & tell him, "Look, it was really great, but now i regret it, and I just don't think I was ready.  So I'd really like to wait...before I do it again."\nAny good guy will respect that.  If the dude has a fit, drop him.  It's a good test of character.\nAs for you, you can run that game all you want, but I'm willing to bet you'll still be weak enough to give in if the situation comes about  ;-)  Just a fact of life, babe.\nSOooo... yes, it's too late to go back; no, it's not too late to wait; and yes, if you choose to wait, you should avoid situations where you can get caught up in the lust.\nDon't worry.  It happens to the best of us  :-)
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Honestly, I had 2 kids and I waited about 2 weeeks after my second cause my husband wanted to rush it (you know men).  But If it hurts, let him know and wait another few days or a week and try again.  They say not to use your vagina for 4 weeks though, but what happens when you are not ready then?  Do it when you think you are comfortable.  At least wait 2 weeks though!!
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Yes it needs to be around a quarter of an in long. I wouldn't let it get much longer than a half inch. I think it hurts a little more the longer it is. Just remember to have enough for the wax to grab hole of. If your going to do this yourself good luck. I find it easier to have a close friend do it. We usually get together and one does the other. Its hard to self induce pain.... trust me I tried. Ouch it hurt worse when i did it..lol
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try man on top and tell him to go slow! when it hurts, speak up. \n\ndo you use tampons? probably not. they hurt first couple times. Try using tampons on your next period. \ni know this is different but they are related. in the shower you may want to practice "that" feeling and insert your index finger as far in your tunnel as you can. it hurts but it will help you prepare better. \n\nrelax and go with the flow. when you tense up every muscle tenses up include down-there muscles. Always remember to speak up b/c good communication is essencial!!! :)\n\nI'm still a virgin but know alot about sex, wierd? dont worry- waiting until marriage.....