stalker is known to victim so cannot approach so no posing as salesman etc. maybe I've just backed myself into a corner?
204906
the stalker can pay somone of the ex genger to call up somewhere where she has something to do with and say hi its ______ ive just rang to check what address you have on file for me, and let them read it out.
220959
No. Are you stalking him lol? There's really nothing you can do, especially if he is 13.  He would be under his parent name, and if he is not listed, then really, there's nothing else you can do.  \n\nSince you've done all you can do, maybe go in the vasinity of his location, and knock on everyone's door (j/k).
32562
no thanks I have a wife and a daughter, don't need a stalker at this time but we have your resume on file now and if any openings that match you qualifications come up we will contact you.  Have a nice day.
444512
Sounds like a stalker setting you up.  I would keep watching out the window.\n\nCoach
25109
Hey little buddy! Sounds like you stepped into a big bucket of stuff there. Just goes to show it dosen't pay to try and be nice. This guy must be some kind of freak. The sad part is I'm sure he has done this same thing before. With a nut like this all it takes is a simple HI from a pretty girl and they automaticaly hear "Take me now, I want you for ever and I'll bear your demon seed" What's even sadder than that is he may end up hurting somebody. I'm glad you realized that and ran. The guy needs a  12 step program to stop the voices that are not there. Oh---The only time you should have to put your life on hold is if you have children. They would come first no matter what. Otherwise no man or no one can tell what you will or can't do. And for gods sake, don't be givin' out your danm phone number or address. Be safe and happy
376309
So, you're asking me to lie for you, and cyber-stalk someone I've never heard of?\n\nThanks, but I don't think so.\n\nGood luck.
433477
You're not a stalker yet.  But she is obviously trying to tell you that she either a.) isn't ready to talk to you or b.) doesn't want to talk to you at all.  Take the hint and wait for her to get back to you.  OR (and this is my real suggestion) forget about her altogether.  If she isn't decent enough to explain what's going on, then she isn't decent enough for you.  Find someone else.
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ask her about items, start asking her where the shampoo is and random stuff. That is how I met my husband...He came through my line at the register 3-4 times a day, he didn't say much but ask me how I was doing, where some things were and then would leave..but back into the store instead of out the door..he repeated this for about 2 weeks. Then one day he went to some other girls line and I realized that I was a bit jealous. I hunted him down and found him in the stationary isle gave him my number and haven't been able to get rid of him for 4 years! Good luck, just be sure to stay on the "normal" side..very fine line you could be considered a stalker.
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Don't send an anonymous letter???? That's borderline stalking!\n\nTry to at least get involved with the friends that he hangs out with.  You might be able to learn more about him through them.  You will eventually meet him through them.  This way it doesn't look like your pursuing him directly.\ngood luck
307196
No, not a good idea.  You might be a stalker.  Plus the fact that you did not give enough information.
122017
yeah so what.. are you a stalker?\n\nmaybe if you have correct grammer, then we wont talk like that. your question was vague.\n\nmaybe i am a stalker? your question is dumb, get so many crimes here and talking like that. are you stupid special ed?\n\nim no stalker - you need to prove if your not, cos lives are at stake giving off information about students and names. you foolish person.\n\ni say if you are one because your stupid question sounds like a stalker question. \n\n\nand i hate stalkers, we had one that kidnap a poor kid in our west district in Oahu, Hawaii. we all are hoping to catch the stupid punks that did it. the cops didnt find them.\n\n\n so watch how you say your questions. I AM SERIOUS..\n\nquestion in a better way next time so others wont offend you easly. \n\nALOHA!
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It may be that she is obsessed for some reason - what sort of contact have you had with her?\n\nIf she has created an impression that her attention is/was wanted then she may have become single-minded on that. She may be physically attracted to you or you may be the only person that has been pleasant to her.\n\nI am not saying that you have brought this on yourself but you do need to take precautions to prevent her continuing her behaviour. If necessary go to the police and don't wait until something 'bad' happens.\n\nIf you are being stalked online then take precautions and use whatever facilities are available on your mail, web-page, etc.
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My dear.........there is no doubt, that there are times on YA that you're going to run into something like what you ran into. The best thing to do the minute you feel uncomfortable, is to log off. Of course, if you feel threatened, report it. You have no way of knowing if this person is merely playing sadistic jokes.....or is a serious wack job. Be careful..............LATER
534244
Seriously, what do you REALLY KNOW about this person? Is that person really a woman? I could put any picture I want on my profile and put down any kind of information and all of it false. In reality that person may be an online preditor. If she is a girl, she may be a minor like on those tv shows that try to capture online preditors. In my honest opinion I say, "Watch your back!" If you decide to go on with this any way, use precautions. Meet during the day at a busy place, possibly with some friends. Seriously.
663296
why would you want to reverse a restraining order? Wasn't the person "restrained" for a reason? anyways..I am sure there is a way around it..
190726
go talk to them instead of waiting for them to approach you.. maybe you seem un-approachable
636462
yeah ive had a stalker before. What you do is you turn around and start stalking them. Since someone cant follow someone thats following them, they will most likely back off.\n\nOf you could just do really boring things and they will lose interest and leave. Like on instant messenger just say boring things.