He was my 1st love, i moved on after everything ended with us..but everytime we meet, he tells me he loves me..i have moved on now but wenever i'm with him..its different. Please someone help!!!
198778
Obsession is dangerous, Look at "Moby Dick".\n\nYou need to let him know that, although there are some wonderful feelings you still have for him (I assume that is the case), it just never worked out. It is time to let go and move on.\n\nIf it gets too weird, you may have to report his as a stalker.
23226
I believe that if you truly love someone you will always love them the only change is the way you love them , if you have remained friends and kept in touch it may be a little hard , because you have gotten used to loving em as just a friend , however if you just run into em one day and start over it wont be if its meant to be . Everything happens for a reason so if the two of you are meant to be together you will . Trust me my first love and I have fallen in and out of love several times over the last 10 years I stopped stressing it when I realized that it will just happen if we are truly meant for eachother !!
181791
i understand you might love the first guy, but if he doesn't feel the same then move on, and love this other guy, you should let it go and follow your heart.  yes you might not love the 2nd like the 1st but not all love is the same.  You will probably always think about the love you had for the first guy, but the key thing here is that he doesn't feel the same, and you can't make someone love you.
2749
Each situation is different, but I would recommend moving on and just keep in touch. It may not seem like it, but there is plenty of time to go on with your life and find him again, if it is meant to be. Find out more about who you are and experience life a bit before committing.
87202
i know whats the feeling of it coz ive also experience that in my past relationship.its not easy,youve been together for how many years.shared memories, sweet thoughts and all the problems you both encountered is not easy to forget.the only thing you can do is to move on,its in the way that little by little.jaz put in your mind the the world is beautiful to live w/.go on w/ life move on coz thats the best solution you can do to mend ur broken heart....Goodluck.......
42836
OMG I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!!! (except I dated the guy for 2 years)..... I guess we never get over them.... thats what it means to love someone..... and we will only get over them when we find someone better.... but i dont think anyone forgets thier first love..... (I still cant atleast)
363368
you no what mate, it happened to me to, but if you both still care for each other and h does like you say he does, then he would talk to you about this, or maybe he just wants to have the both of you, sometimes man cant really say what they wish to say as it's hard for them, but if he wont leave her, then maybe he dont love you the way he did when you were both together, i no it's hard but you will find another man, when you decide its time to move on, take care good luck mate
362198
I love him...but? I don't think you do love him in a way that will sustain your relationship. I think you know that too. It's time to move on.
415818
I know how it feels, I am in a relationship now with the best guy i could ever be with we have been together almost 5 years, and I still find myself wondering about my first love. Me and my first love were together for only 2 and 1/2 years and he was my first everything. I know deep down i still have feelings for him and i always wonder about him. I know i shouldnt be doing that, but i cant help it, i guess he still has some place deep in my heart. As for you i think that you still have a special place in your heart for this guy. Dont let it bother you i think its all part of how special this guy was for you, just be thankful and happy that he is having a great life, and that he is married be happy for him. I am sure that he probably still thinks about you as much as you do him. Maybe you never know what holds in the future. SO dont lose hopes of this guy and dont lose hopes on finding another guy. god only knows whom your soulmate is. I wish the best for you. god bless you
427801
sometimes when your in love with someone it is hard to move on, but things get better within time. try doing things that you like to do to keep your mine off of the guy stay away from things that  reminds you of him one other thing  to do pray and ask God to give you strength to get over him and it will come when you least supect it to good luck
215230
You should respect his wishes and get on with your life. That sounds tough, but if he does love you, he'll come back once he realises you've moved on. If he doesn't, it would never have worked anyway...
627478
the word I love you is powerful only backed up by action. (caring, spending time, being there when you need that person, etc) You were right leaving him because he's just another faker. He knows nothing but to play people's mind. Everybody falls into traps of love nowadays, I can even convince a girl to go out with me without even trying. It works you know. The reason you keep falling into these "traps" is because you do not fully understand what is love and the meaning of it. Not everybody is on the same level. I have fallen into these kind of trap plenty of times, but this is the process of growing up and maturing your mind. It is okay to fall into these trap because you can always learn from your mistakes. Now in order to grow, you have to understand why he left you, what were the signs, what did he do and all that stuff. A common perspective of your situation. He has not showed that he cared for you, he really been there when you needed him, he spent time with you, comfort and hold you. These are the actions to keep his words true. Now if he keeps saying it, it is pointless, he is nothing but a talker. He's the type you should not trust and love completely. If he does back himself up with actions like those things I have mentioned a little bit back, then yea, that is the man of his words. This is just the process of learning and maturing, don't worry. good luck on recovering.
25605
Sometomes when we give up something we're used to having around, it's rough. Your ex was a habit to you, and although you may never be in love with him again, you are wanting another relationship, or at least someone else to love. Plus you probably still really like him (as a person), and you're confusing that for love, when really you're just sorting your feelings out right now.
309812
I've fallen in love only once. Yesterday we broke up, I did it only because it was the right thing to do, yes, I got very hurt. Now I wanna fall out of live with him, if that's even possible. The problem is that love makes me always see all his good qualities, never the bad ones. I hope it's true what they say that time heals, 'cause I'm as sad as my avatar looks. As far as advices go, i don't really have any, love is a different experience for each person. Just enjoy it, take chances and live at 100%, you might get hurt, but otherwise, you might feel like you never lived in the first place. Thanks for letting me share, I know it's quite long. Good luck ;)
619485
move on in life, thers nothin like first love, love happens just once & i can see that u r too young, if this will be ur tru lov n u b luky enuf, u'll hav him, otherwise, think, this isnt love.
116177
I don't think you have true love there or his love. If he loved you then he would speak up or for you. Time to move on and find some one else that will.
57626
Life is short and u only live once...He was part of ur life b4 and it didn't work out, what makes u think that this time is going to work? There's an old saying: "if u hurt me once is ur fault, but if u hurt me twice is my fault". Ur only falling in love with him because he came back in2 ur life...but think of ur current b/f as well...put urself in his shoes...how would u feel if he was 2 leave u 4 his x?? Ask urself the reason why ur x is back in urlife? What was it that 'caused him 2 come back? What happens if u go back with ur x and then u realize that ur current b/f is the one u were meant 2 b with...u would have lost everything...and u might end up alone...do not play with people's emotions because, what goes around comes around...