I don’t think that im anywhere near ugly but I have never been able to attract the right kind of girl...I’m girly and want some one as feminine as me..NOT A BUTCH! I need help...I think I’m goanna go crazy if I don’t have a Girlfriend (as in a relationship) or even just a petty some one (to have sex with) soon. What do I do?
202007
Be yourself and in time you'll find the right girl.
13745
Yes, there are men out there that want the same thing as you, the only bad thing is finding them.  Just from the description you gave of yourself I like you (not like that though) because it's what's on the inside that makes you beautiful or ugly.  I've seen some REALLY beautiful women as far as looks but thought they were ugly because of their 'I'm better than you' attitude.  So just give it time and eventually (even though it may be hard to wait) you'll find your special someone...
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From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. You are the man! Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. You are the Man!  Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself, put the past behind you, concentrate on the future, which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation. Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.  You are the Man!
339423
be yourself, be friendly, know that things won't always be this way.  You will find someone who will accept you for who and what you are.  Try to have a girl as a friend and then maybe she will become a girlfriend.
222801
Stop trying to look for a girl. If God's got a girl in mind for you, then you've just got to trust Him to bring her to you in His time. Instead, try becoming the kind of person you want for your future wife. Once you focus more on making yourself more like Christ, you won't worry so much about trying to find the girl you want because she will come to you.
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I agree with the just go out and do things you like part. that is the best way to find people that like the same things you do. You can even try the personals section in your local newspaper. and unlike the one answer on here, don't drop the BBW. If i was looking for a girl, and she ended up no putting that she was thin on a personals, she would be disappointed when i told her that she wasn't attractive. Be proud to be who you are and trust me, there are alot of guys that like gals like you....hell, I am in a poly relation ship and have been with several BBW's. I just love them
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Mr. Nobody.....\n\nFirst of all, your name suggest a feeling of facelessness....so what I think you need is some confidence.  Believe me dude, you are not faceless.  In fact, hold your face up and look forward.  There is definitely a chick for you out there, as long as you find your groove and ride it out to some lovin'.\n\nSo confidence is number one, tied with having a quality attitude.  Now, people tell you that...but they don't tell you the flip side, which is being turned down.  It will happen, so learn to suck it up, TAKE MENTAL NOTES (very crucial) on what worked and didn't work, and keep truckin'.  Love, like anything else good, never comes easy.\n\nTwo, is finding girls with similar interests as you.  Having things in common is the number one way to maintain a long lasting relationship.  \n\nLet's say you like.....collecting exotic candy from Guam.  You know you have a convention coming up, or weekly get-togethers at TGI Fridays.  Take advantage.  Check out those chicks, because some of them might be hotter than Jennifer Lopez eating homegrown habeneros in the Sahara.  Or at least pretty.  In any case, use your hobby or your job as tools in your search.  Join a club, or actually go out somewhere these things you like are applicable.  You like to paint or history, go to a museum or take an art class.  You like comics, go to a convention.  You like cars....hit up the car show chicks.  Etc, etc, etc.\n\nOne note - do not go to the club or bar on Saturady night and think you will come away with the woman of your dreams.  \n\nThere are more things I could tell you, be this should get you jump started.  Make sure you're clean, breathe is fresh, hair looks decent.......check your clothes and make sure they are at least clean and they reflect how cool you are, or can be.  Don't be a poseur.  \n\nOh...when you are actually talking to someone who might be interested.....speak up and look into her eyes.  Have your spit together.\n\nGood Luck, buddy.
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Hey, i have the same problem. In most girls they trully dont care about looks, but you have those shallow girls too. I'm a guy that feels the same way. well the chance i think, would depend on what you are like, along with your personality. And if this girl is a popular, cheelaeder type, i would say she is going to be shallow , because girls like that don't want to be embarresed in front of their friends, but if she's not liek that try to talk to her learn about her. and if she is shallow just stay away from her.
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You sound desperate and eventually will go out with any1 just because you want a girlfriend. Then you will be unhappy with her, regret having a girlfriend and will then want to be single again. Instead of wishing to have a girlfriend, try to keep yourself occupied and fall in love naturally. Then you will have the best of both worlds, in love with a sincere girl and a girlfirend. \nThen it will be something more than just having a girlfriend, it will be having a bestfriend and lover in one :)
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You are beautiful no matter how you look. You are beautiful just the way you are. Be proud of yourself. I'm sure a right guy will come to you. \n\nI used to think I'm unattractive, and nobody asked me out. But when I say "F*ck this, I don't care what people think about me" and be myself, then my true love (now) just come right to me and say hi. See, ZI think guys got attracted by the woman's confidence, not their look. \n\nDon't rush. Congratulate yourself that you're still single. Don't you see us women who have bf always have to struggle and be hurt?
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Sweet:  Being a male I think like a male!  This translates into being sexually attracted to the opposite sex.  Guys like to fantasize about "what would it be like" if you catch my drift.  You are gifted with beauty and beauty without brains is deadly.  I think you are smart enough to see the big picture concerning yourself (or you wouldn't be asking the question ) - right?  Focus on having "inner" beauty ... this is a major key in attracting the right guy for you without having to go beyond the "past kissing" point.  Any girl can spread her legs to attract any guy but you want a guy who loves you for who you ARE !  Continue to be rare and different by remaining a virgin.  The guys you are attracting want to change that - but don't let them !  Most school romances end up breaking off ... so; date around - have fun - do a lot of neat things .  It's a big world out there !  Good luck to you.
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Hey Miss2good4me,\nI am really very thankful to u for showing so much concern.And Actually i think u r right 'bout me that i am desperate for a Girl....but u can say i am rather confused.coz i think i am really in love and i don't wanna go for anyone else,but i feel really lonely when i see others.I've already missed many opportunities and girls coz i didnt hav the courage to go up to anyone.I was thinkin maybe you wud me the one for me(Atleast online) so that i wud get to know a lill more 'bout  girls(If u dont mind ie).Here's my ID just in case:karan_wagh2001@yahoo.co.in\n\nbye\nPs:i don't think the Gay guys wud turn straight.(waitin 4 ur reply)
76645
The best thing is to ask! You may never find love if you never voice yours. Trust me from experience. I wondered why I didn't have a girlfriend, but then I voiced my love and now I do. So there you go, example given.
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Looks have nothing to do with being sexy, it's something else completely! You could start by practicing your flirting and take it from there! Talk and flirt with as many girls as possible even if you're not that interested. Take it from there. And remember that we all have our own definitions of sexy, so there be no telling who'll be attracted to you. Good luck!!
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If you are comparing yourself to society standards...then you will obviously think something's wrong with you...However if you feel comfortable to go and date a girl then it must be too your comfort level...First get some self confidence and then BAM!!! - you'll be noticed without realising it. There are plenty of women out there...PLENTY and you can find them in all ages, just take time to focus on one that you may be interested and take it nice and easy.\nAnd you know what - the ladies you meet would actually chase you down if you act cool and be yourself...especially if they know that you never been with a girl...AND they will want to teach you everything...BE HONEST
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Dont worry about it.  You are what you are.  People will accept you when you accept yourself.  I would be grateful to have a good woman in my life.
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how about be yourself? when the perfect girl comes along, she's not gonna want you to change yourself just to be with her...trust me, it'll screw the relationship to pieces.Just wear, SOMETHING and don't act like an arrogant jerk, she'll love you for you, it makes you feel a lot better and really improves your chances of making it work. and don't be so desperate that you get a stupid girl...go for personality over popularity, and love her for herself just like you want to be loved!