we have a baby on the way as well and he has been good to me and has been there throughout the pregnancy...we're planning to get married this summer and i want to get over this
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I'm wondering if this feeling came before or after you got pregnant. Sometimes when a woman is insecure about herself, she will be insecure in her relationship. Don't let it ruin your situation. Theres a good old saying "If it aint broke dont fix it!!
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there is no way anybody here can answer that for you, the fact that you feel the need to ask is not a good sign though.  make sure you can take care of yourself and your baby on your own in case it doesn't though, its the best way to protect yourself against the possibility that it won't and you are now responsible for another life.  why are you having a child with someone you have so many doubts about?
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i think maybe he is starting to feel something for you since u r having his baby,..but if u are with someone else dont blow it.. let ur friend make the first move as to his feelings for u
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u dont say how your relationship is with the baby's dad. if its strong then stick it out or move to be together
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Gosh, how do you get such a depressing reasoning out of the religions?  We're being tested here on earth, and it gets tough, but life isn't just all about pain and suffering, hopefully.  Maybe yours is though??  There are still so many wonderful things in life to celebrate, and having a baby is one of them.  I have a little 11 months old, and he is the light of my life, and I will never regret bringing him into this world.  Life in this world is not the perfect state, but we are all going toward that perfect state - the afterlife - but what we do in this life will reflect our next one.  If you are so sad, and have such a bad outlook on your life, I hope you get some relief in family and friends.  Children are the most wonderful thing in this world, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
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try asking if she needs anything for the baby or send a small card or present,that might get you talking.  I split up from my husband when i was pregnant, it was hard but my little boy knows no different and is bright and happy,  it was hard to let go of the fantsy of a perfect , happy family but what's that these days.  try not to worry, she will need help when the baby comes and will likely turn to you, chin up
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When my husband and I started dating, I had a 2 year old and a 5 month-old. It'll happen, just be patient.
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Many things are possible. Keep up the hope and I'm sure that it'll happen. Wish you and your hubby all the best!
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Congratulations Kimmi!!  I hope it's a boy too.  Lots of good things are happening in my life.  I do the sound for an entertainment group.  We do several shows per year.  There is an exciting one coming up New Years Eve at a local casino.  Also I just got a new puppy, my fifth dog.  She is wonderful.  And then just everyday things are fun too.  I bet you are having fun shopping with your mom for baby things and planning baby showers.  You are really going to have an exciting few months until the baby is born.  Have a lot of fun helping your mom take care of it.  A big sister is a new siblings heroine, so enjoy!!
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Don't know if this is going to offend you, but I suggest Praying for her.  God works in mysterious ways and he has a plan for her and the baby.
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Just enjoy it. Do you know how happy he will be to know that you are carrying his child? It will give him hope and inspiration to come home soon. Another reason to live, when he feels he can't go on. I know that's the way it was with me and my husband. He told me all he thought about everyday was me and our kids, and the unborn baby that he wanted so badly to get a chance to know. Take my advice, you can handle it. Keep the home fires burning for him.
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Don't feel unworthy! You're not!!!! Your miscarriage wasn't your fault and there was probably a very good reason why it happened that was beyond your control. Nature will always do the best thing for you and your baby! Don't blame yourself for something you could never control, even if you knewit was going to happen. As for your partner's ex, she can't stop him from seeing his child and the courts will put that right. More importantly, she brioke into your house and assaulted you! I hope you had her arrested! You are the priority here and you need to deal with the loss of your baby, either with your partner or a professional councellor. Don't leave it go until it becomes a real problem for you!!! Good luck with it all!!
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I am married and pregnant with another man's baby.  I was separated from my husband for 5 months before I got pregnant with my boyfriends baby.  My ex (soon to be ex-husband) still wants me sometimes too.  He said that if he got the chance to have his family back, he would in a heartbeat, even if he had to help raise another man's baby.  BUT......I don't feel right about that.  I should have never married my hubby because I didn't love him enough, and we were pressured because we already had one little girl together a year before we got married, so we went a head and did it.  Now, I have two little girls, already, and one more little girl on the way.  Yeah, i messed up, maybe if i would've given it a little more time after the separation, me and the ex could've worked things out, but I wanted to move on with my life with this other man.  But, anyways, the point is,,,,,,,, i am currently in this situation, and I choose to not go back to my ex husband because I have ruined everything that we could have had together.  I am still in love with my new baby's daddy, but he couldn't handle the situation, either, so we broke up.  So, make the decision that's right for you.  You are the only one that knows your whole situation. Good luck!     Praying a lot helps too!
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it doesn't sound good. I say, see your doctor. There may have been some complication after the birth that is just now manifesting itself. Don't wait. You have a child who needs  you to be healthy.
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better get an EPT and find out...sounds like there is a good chance of it. \nour baby is the joy of our life, if she is she needs to know asap so she can start taking prenatel vitamins and taking good care of her self. \nBest Wishes...this is a big deal and really serious. be positive and know that each and everyone of us are here because of the same condition. it will all work out one way or another. stay positive! Life is a gift...this could be the most important thing she ever does. Do it right and learn as much as you can together. your help is going to mean a lot to her, plus you will be an Auntie!!!!
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Sounds like if he doesn't want the baby he will leave anyhow. I would kinda get ready for that. He might surprise you afterwards the first time he lays eyes on his son or daughter..You being pregnant you do not need any unwanted stress..I would get my support ready, family, friends, ect and go on with my life and get ready for the most beautufil thing in the world.
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It is very hard to sad to deal with. Do you have family near by? That helped me. Do you work? Praying really helped alot! Do you have IM? does he have it too? I know on the AKO you get install the IM and that saves some heatache. \nI remeber when my hubby was there. I was 4 months preggers when he left. That was very diffcult. But you have got to keep your self busy.  I know it sounds mean but you really have to. Hang in there and I will keep you in my prayers as I do for every miltary spouse and their spouses!