I have seen number of persons especially women who do not have a good behaviour or open heart.  They usually wash their face at least thrice a day and make it up with Fair and Lovely/other creams and face powder.  They do not keep their inner beauty clean say they do not have a good heart.  They used to critise others.  Why do they do so?  They should be open hearted.  They give preference to face rather than to heart.
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OH LOOK AT YOU , YOU ARE SO AWESOME!! I am glad to see people like you. \n\nI am a lady, I like to look my best, but I don't put on 10 pounds of makeup and so on, I put on enough to bring out my finest features. People like me for who I am . there were a few times where I came to work sicker than a dog. No makeup, my hair was pulled back and people still loved me. :D One time someone saw me freshening up at work and they said, you don't need make up, you are pretty enough. \n\nANyway, enough said. I think women feel the pressure of their surroundings. they see these magazines and tv shows and they just have to look beautiful like these people on television because they feel that is what is going to attract people to them. You can look as gorgeous as you want and look like a doll, but if you don't have the personality to match that beautiful face, forget it! They are history. There are guys out there that really do want that beautiful perfect woman and I think that a lot of women are under the dilusion that it's what ALL MEN want. \n\nI know that is not true at all. I have learned that from personal experiences. \n\nMy fiancee does not like when I wear a lot of makeup, he says that he adores a natural face. :) He was attracted to the woman that I am . He was attracted to my kindness and my sense of humor. His family thought that I was a very pretty woman and they loved me. When I was visiting with their family in Peru, I didn't wear makeup because the humidity just wrecked it anyway. Anywhere I went people liked me. They liked me for my personality, they did not care that I had a plain face, they did not care that the curl had fallen out of my hair. \n\nSometimes it takes people like you to help us ladies wake up and make us wipe the paint off our faces. :)\n\nGood thought and I am so happy to see someone like yourself hanging around here. You have good character!
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Petals is right. People you work with today, especially if you are young are always trying to be and act better than the other, especially if there are lots of girls. That is all, it has nothing to do with cheating, which, I presume is why you are asking. Plus they are in the public (if its a public type job) and they don't want to look like they are gross and have no hygeine.
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you just lose your self confidence, i think you;re not really bad inside , because you think you are ugly ,you try to hurt people  i think you experienced that when you're not good looking people dont care about ur inner side ..so you want to act like this to take advantage on people ...am i right?
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You, like me are a good person and people think that they can walk all over you and treat you like dirt and that you'll always take it.  People want someone to keep their secrets, but they don't want to keep anyone elses, which sucks!\n\nDon't dare listen to anyone who says that you should "toughen up" keep being a sensitive and good person, but when someone does something really rotten you have to push back or they'll always walk all over you.\n\nGood luck Sweetie!
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went down down down and the flames went higher\nuhm, In this day and age people are shallow and obsessed with a self image that no one can easily obtain or for that matter maintain. Who wants to be with an image? I agree substance is everything!\nDO NOT give up on those better parts of your nature, there is someone out there that will recognise it for what it is and love you for it. My only advice is to be very careful as there are those types out there in the world that would take advantage. Look before you leap.\nIt sounds as if the tuly ugly people of the world were revealing themselves to be just that, in so far as the opinions and statements they set forth yesterday, their opinions don't matter, be true to yourself.
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Why? Because some people  are here only for the purpose of starting drama. Some people have been programmed that they are right all the time, 24/7. Some people will stop at nothing to prove that they are somehow better that you, and often do not consider the consequences of their actions. Every day I am forced to watch as people degrade themselves and others trying to give themselves the satisfaction of a false superiority.
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like men, women have egos too. they wanna feel like they have the power and charm to change people. when they try to change their partners, they're just testing to see at which level their charms are at. it's stupid, i know. but some women feels good about themselves in this way. Welcome to Women's World.
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It is the heart and soul that makes a person beautiful.  Trouble is, obese people have a lot of paranoia in their heart and soul.  And perhaps some other negative things that helped to make them obese.  But if she has beauty in her heart she is beautiful.  I don't care how corny it sounds.
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I think that part of the problem is our society. We have totally unrealistic ideas about how people - Women in particular - are supposed to look. It becomes difficult to be okay with who you are when you don't measure up to the models. (even the guys who are losing their hair have these issues.) It seems like we are becoming more and more superficial. I have even heard someone remark to someone else that they didn't think somebody else could have any problems because they were so pretty. Imagine that - all my problems could be solved - if only I were pretty enough .... .... usually is not a case. Recommend her Montignac lifestyle. it will change all her world
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Ideally, I'd like to be satisfied with the face I have, and hope other people can be satisfied with their faces.  Of course if you're a burn victim or something like that, I understand wanting to get back a more normal looking face by plastic surgery.  Generally, I like for people to wear less makeup rather than a lot.
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Alrighty, then.  The age old dilemma.  A lot of teen aged girls ARE shallow and are SO concerned with appearances, when really they should be more concerned with what's between their ears.  Beauty eventually fades, but smart is forever.  They always have to pick on people that are different or ugly or slow on the take.  I came to the conclusion years ago that they do it because there is something about themselves that they are insecure about or they are actually jealous of the person they are teasing.  Personally, when I was a teenager, I was friends with people I LIKED; (this will make me sound old) preps, jocks, heads, the "popular" people.  I was part of no clique and didn't want to be.  Work with them if you have to, tolerate them as much as you can, but if they pi$$ you off, open your mouth!  Many of them will be surprised you had the gall to say anything to them (and it's fun to watch the jaws drop!).
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I help people in the gym that are overweight with exercise and dieting tips. Why?  They are motivated enough to join a gym & they show initiative.  My group of friends always do that and shun ignorant people because they make us look arrogant and insensitive. Most of us started working out because we were insecure and can relate to people that might not feel good about themselves. Any woman that is comfortable with herself and is fulfilled is sexy.
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No matter how beautiful you are on the outside if you don't have some beauty on the inside (or can at least fake it) then people aren't going to want to hang around you very much. I see it over and over again... some pretty girl with a "better then you" attitude who has a few people who dote on her, but they aren't real friends.\n\nThus it's far better to be plain on theoutside... because the outside is just a wrapper for what really matters. Besides, I haven't seen one plain jane who couldn't be made to look absolutly beautiful with just  a little effort.
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I tend to agree. (Note the quote says an "element" of narcissism, not that shy people = narcissists).  \nThere is something very egocentric about believing that you and your appearance really matters to other people.\n\nThat doesn't mean that shy people are "bad" or "egotistical", but they are putting way too much emphasis on the impact they think they have on other people.
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Many men/women tend to look past that quality which makes that person special.  Our society rewards beauty, and while this is not fair, it is a fact.\n\nFor those who are guided by their own standards and phiolsophy, we see the person for what they are. Caring, loving. Worth having.  Hope this has helped.
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funny you should mention this, I was just thinking the same thing last night. I dont see anything wrong with it,  but maybe what others are looking at is her lifestyle. People have a way of seeking out negative instead of looking at positive. My opinion, good on her she has love to give so why not give it.
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I hate to say this but I hate it when one person speaks for all. ALL WOMEN are different the same as all men are different. I am a woman who looks for the sensitivity in a man as I appreciate that. I do believe as a society we have come to look at emotions as being a weak thing but I don't agree. I can agree with self resolve though too. The answers are within and we must seek to find them. No one is an authority over us so why run to other people as if they are.