I must say I am an extremely shy girl to new guys as I had been studying in girl school for 8 years.  I like a guy whom I think he may also like me as sometimes he came and talked to me intentionally.  Although we did not talk that much, we glance and smile to each other when we met.  I noticed that other people knew that, after that I barely glanced at him as I am afraid of other people’s view……..Today, I noticed that his attitude changed, I am afraid I may lose him but I am really too afraid…”TO GUYS”…..If a girl treated you like that, what would you think?  I really hated my shyness and my body just malfunction to react appropriately to him…Can anyone help to how to express my feeling to him indirectly if I am still too shy to look at him?  I really like hime but I really don't know what and how to do!!
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The problem I see here is that you, as well as me, are the kind of person who assumes too much and is always dreading to take risks because you wouldn't like other people (=not only guys) to dislike you or reject you.  If the game is ASSUMING then why don't you assume that he is as shy as you are and he just doesn't find the way to approach you.  Get rid of assumptions!  You won't go on him and tell him... 'Hey, I like you... no wait... I like you so much that I even think I love you..."  Nahhhhh!  If it is difficult for you to talk to guys they think of him as a girl (=don't laugh I mean it)  I also went to a gilrs school but it was for 3 years and besides I have a brother, anyway, IT DOES WORK!  Any time I wanted to tell something to a guy I thought 'ok he is the same of a girl because both are people'.\n\nThe obstacle here is the fact that you like him so pretend (=just pretend) that you don't like him and that you are going to go on ANYONE else... this way you won't be so nervous and it will be easier.\n\nOnce you talk then you can think on making your movements, you'll be more confident then... you might discover that he is shy too, or that he has the same feelings for you or that he just likes you as a friend (crossed fingers that not).  \n\nIn short,\n#1 Do not assume too much.\n#2 Take the risk.\n#3 Pretend that you don't like him and go on him.\n#4 Talk with him, know him, have fun.\n#5 What other people think is not yerr business.\n\n,-)
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Omg...I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I was way too scared to kiss a guy too because I thought he would think less of me or like you say- reject me- if I'm a bad kisser. So earlier this year, I meet this guy. I'm 18 and he's 22. We discussed our past relationships and ok, I wasn't going to be like "I've never had my first kiss" because he was older and I thought he would find me childish, especially since he wasn't even a virgin and I was. So I told him I was a virgin but completely left out the kissing part. THEN...one night...we were watching a movie. And he leaned over and kissed me. I got really nervous. Wondering what to do and whatnot...BUT...it was very very simple! You pretty much have to go with the flow. AND the FUNNIEST part is after we kissed, he said I'm a very good kisser and he doesn't beleive that I'm not a virgin because I seem experienced...haha. I thought that was great. \n\nGuilty, I never confessed that he was my first and he never knew. And I kissed many guys after and guess what- EVERYONE KISSES DIFFERENT! There is no just one way. The problem is that people THINK about it and ANALYZE it too much. Just go with it. And TRUST ME- you'll do fine if not great. Just don't be shy and be CONFIDENT.\n\n If this girl is the sweet kind, I would tell her you lied and have never kissed. It might make you feel better and will make this easier. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about it.\n\nEither way best of luck :-)
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I know just what you mean.  I really don't know how to explain any of this because when I was in school there was this girl that really did like me but she would never asked me how to say anything to me.  She was really shy but very pretty after several years I found out that she really did like me a lot.  I wish I would have knew this or she would have told me because I wouldn't love to go out with her.  Maybe the best thing that you can do is try to find out whether or not this guy is at all interested in her.  If he is maybe you should drop the few hints around and maybe he will get the idea that it is okay for him to ask her out.  Some guys are really intimidated when girls come on to them.  Try to find how he feels and try to get him to make the first move.  Good luck
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sometimes guys can't figure out what to say to a girl.  ask him a question, his response may give you a clue into how he feels about you.  including him into the conversations is one way that you can establish contact with a shy person, without coming right out and saying, "So... do you like me, or what?"  establishing conversation is the best bet for you, I would bet on it!  Guys also aren't like girls, they don't like other people's "he said... She said..." comments as much.  It doesn't accomplish anything for you either.  If you think he's cute, but you've really never spoken to him, you may find out that you're looking at the wrong type of guy for you, once you get to know him.  Get to know him, then worry about the rest.
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I think some guys are shy or they can't handle rejection, and he actually likes you but won't tell anyone he does until he knows you do, so I would be open and just talk to him, probably alone so that he could be truthful and not hold back. If you find out that he doesn't like you, atleast then he will know you like him and respect the fact that you do like him and maybe he will he will respect you more and quit flirting as much.
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Oh.. u sound sweet. Listen, if some guy is to shy to approach a girl, then i think that the guydoesn't like here that much
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I can't answer for everybody of course, but if I like a guy and want him to make a move I'll let him catch me looking at him, smile shyly and then look away quickly, as if I'm embarrassed that he caught me. I also might say hi to him and smile, or say something to get him talking. Good luck!
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The next step is up to him - congratulations on your courage to tell him how you feel - I know it wasn't easy.\n\nSee how he responds to you from now on.  Is he still friendly or is he aloof now because he, too, feels embarrassed by what you told him?\n\nIf he seems aloof to you, then he doesn't share the same feelings as you - ok - you tried - now go find someone who does share those feelings with you.\n\nGood Luck!
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if you tell him what you told me then that is a good way to express your feelings. If he doesn't like you then, he is not the right guy for you. I bet your a great girl and he missed out on someone terrific!☺\n                                   ☺♥♫ Your friend,\n                                                            Chuchi
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i know exactly where you are coming from.  remember, us guys like girlfriends.  for the longest time i was in the same situation as you (up until a few months ago).  i never did get the courage - she told my friend who told me.  if you really think you cant ask him with the fear of rejection you could ask a friend of him and you to ask him casualy if he would go out with you.  hope i helped - goodluck
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say these words to your self\n\nI can talk to a girl\nwhat do I have to loose??\nwhat's the difference between me and "a name of the flirtiest guy you ever know!!!"??\n\nso you think that when you talk to a girl you will get shy and screw everything up?? in fact some girls really like it when a guy get shy while he is speaking to them.
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Some guys will,but others are too "shy" to do so. They are afraid of rejection or seeming weak because they admitted their feelings. It makes them vulnerable and they don't like it.
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If he is shy they he won't show his feelings...... But with ur eye thingy he ofcourse notices u and might like u.....My crush and I keep doing that...Maybe he avoiding u cos he likes u and doesn't wanna do anything stupid around u...It's common. Get to know him better so maybe he'll come out of his shell and talk to u... IF u like him maybe u shud make the 1st move!! GOOD LUCK!
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If you're a shy person try to make eye contact with him. I was shy once too. When y'all make good eye contact make sure to smile at him. Try to get one of your friends to talk to him. Girl if he doesn't know you exist, well make him know you exist.
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Omgoodness you totally just described me. Haha Im exactly the same [[somewhat in between shy and outgoin]] Soo I really wouldnt give you such great advice. Haha except be yourself. Laugh. Smile & Keep Awesome eye contact..and phisically Hug. Play with his hand..joke around..push him..you know all that crazy fun loving stuff =] But either way i think he noticed ur a little shy already but hes still talkin to you. That jsut proves he likes you ...
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they will most likely avoid speaking to the person they like... personally, I'm a shy girl and I don't have the courage to speak to the guy that I like... and I see him everyday at school... and the only thing I do is talk to my friends and look at him sometimes... and I wouldn't talk to him (don't have the nerves to) unless he talks to me first... especially cuz he's an outgoing guy
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i thin kthat he does like you and is trying to get your attention.. maybe he was scared thats why he sed that he didnt like you.. or got nervous or somethingl..i think u shod confont him agen.. n tell him how u feel for him and tell him in a place where hes relaxed.. maybe thru msn.. or on the fone or even face to face where thers not that many ppl around.. its hard..! bt iull get thru it good luck and if it doesnt work.. it was never ment to be anyway