One day my friend can be Ok and be my friend and next week she wants to be not my friend and not speak to me for weeks.
212300
I know someone whom I'm sure is bi-polar, one day she's so happy and nice, the next she depressed and nasty. The reason it's so hard to get along with someone like this, is because you don't know which way they'll be on any given day- it's hard to determine how they'll feel and act so you don't know how to act towards them in the first place. The person doesn't even know how she will be on any given day- you really just need to support her and give her space when she needs it. I know sometimes these people feel guilty after they've acted a certain way so just show he love and forgiveness.
326397
You may try talking to her and make her understand that you also have a life going on. And she has to learn that someday you might not be there for her and she has to learn to be more independent.
339235
probably. just tell her she is such a good friend u want to keep it that way in all ways.
181755
It doesn't seem to me as though she is too keen on being your friend...  You don't have to put up with being treated like that.
603900
You can't tell people something they are not ready to hear. You are probably right and she probably knows it on some level. When dealing with friends you are always taking a chance when bringing up an issue like that, that you will upset them. You did it, now give her time to calm down, then let her know you only want the best for her because you care about her but your friendship is important to you so you won't bring it up again if she doesn't want you to.
270334
Just keep being her friend.  Keep trying to encourage her.  Do the best you can.  You might not be able to change her, but in the future she will look back and realize how kind and helpful you were.  Stay with her.  And good job!  It's wonderful that you are concerned about her!
261016
a good friend may not live close by and you may not talk as often as you'd like but you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that if you needed her she would be there for you NO MATTER WHAT. My best friend and I work different shifts and seldom get to talk but I know that if I called her at 2am with a problem she'd sit up until 4am with me to help resolve it. I don't have to talk to her every day because she is in my heart and i'm in her's.
150671
it sounds like if you want to be her friend you will have to find another job
308204
Then, she ain't a very good friend.\n\nFriends are supposed to support and understand each other.\n\nTalk less to her.
181998
You're friend is treating you this way because (im assuming she) she has her own insecurities about herself. i dont know you, but you are probably an attractive popular girl? someone genuin? This other friend wants you to feel about about yourself. The way to tackle this is to understadn she is hating something about herself and try to bring it out of her, subtly and perhaps bit by bit. then when you're feeling more confident you can talk to her about the way she speaks to you and the names she calls you.
109367
Going through this right now with one of my best friends and the dumbest part is we are in our 30's (way too old for this crap) anyway, I have decided to let it be for now, but I assure you while I won't be a complete jerk to her I have no desire to be as close as we were, because obviously she doesn't value our friendship the way that I do or this would not have happened.
518685
And... why is she your friend? Don't beat her up. Just don't give her the time of day any more.
170289
I had a friend that was doing bad stuff, and i just told him to either stop or we wouldn't be friends, and i know you still wanna be her friend, but the thing is that in most cases she will tell you that she will, and you guys will stay friends. If you won't do that then maybe you should start to say subtle things to her about her behavior, just slip them into your conversations, that way she doesn't feel bad. That's my advice.
604847
We have all have one or two Friends like that in our lives.\nYou are holding back becos, she is ur friend and u really care about her.\nBut part of that caring means u have to be honest with her about how u feel. She probably doesnt know how annoying she really is...so hopefully, u'll be up to the task of helping her to be a better person.\nHope ur Faith teaches Patience? Cos u'll probably need it.\nAll the best to u and ur Friend.
138440
just leave it  at that if shes a real friend she will come around in a day or two and then u guys can talk it over!!!! (just happened to me!!!!):)
309369
You should give her the opportunity to know how you feel and what is going to happen if she doesn't change the way she is behaving.  She is probably in actuality a very insecure girl that feels that she needs to put others down.  Tell her that a friend doesn't act that way, and that just as you would for her, you are defending your friends and their feelings...that is what friends do.
284286
i think she just wants to be ur friend