willsomeone help me get threw the hard times of love and romance.
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Of course. . .unless your a guy trying to trick us.
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Yes, you have had it rough, but trust me what goes down will go up.  Things go in cycles and you are just in a down cycle now.  Just wait, eventually a new love will come into your life, your mourning will become less painful and things will improve.  The main thing is to never give up.  Even that little kernel of hope is enough to sustain us.  Remember faith the size of a mustard seed can move a mountain, so what can a little hope accomplish?  Just give it time.  I know that sounds stupid and simple, but those are usually the best answers.  Take care and contact me if you need a sympathetic ear.
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Try the Chicken Soup books and Erma Bombeck.  I am sorry you are hurt.  Maybe these will bring a smile.
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I usually like to put the blame on myself, it makes the break up go a little easier. Just be honest though but not blunt. If you listen to your heart it will tell you what you need to do. Good luck!!
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i guess cry a little have a bit of ice cream sleep it off one night and than go fight to keep your love. If you are having those feelings you need to and seriously go talk to your love. let your love know how you are feeling and why. all relationships go through some rocky roads and to get through them you have to communicate. communication is very important and key in any relationship.
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While it is to easy to succumb to the emotional anguish that is consuming you at this early stage you must put a few bricks up to get through it. Do not drive yourself insane with analizing the last five years. Enlist a support group, best friends, family etc. Go out to the movies, nothing romantic, just a good comedy, horror, action you get the point. Invite some friends over for a dinner party or skip the dinner and just party. Ask each of them to bring a new friend, someone you've never met. Meeting new people is a stimulant. Involve yourself in your favorite activities or hobbies to keep your mind occupied. Submerse yourself in some great books. Pamper yourself a little go on a shopping trip, but something fun and frivolous. Keeping busy is the best thing. Of course the nights will be the roughest. Go ahead and allow yourself to think about her if she comes to mind while you are trying to drift off to sleep. It is part of the healing process. Cry if need be, tears are the cleansing of our soul. Eventually the sorrow will subside. While I think it is important to surround yourself with good friends and meet new people just don't hook up with anyone. Five years is a long time to be with someone, you'll need to take a good year being single to rediscover who you are before enerting the dating game. Have fun, and remember it's ok to have your ups and downs. You'll be fine and who knows in the near future you may come to think the break up was a good thing, usually when one door closes it's because another is getting ready to open. Old cliche I know but it is so true.
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Try reading Pride and Predjudice by Jane Austen
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I feel your pain.  All you have to do is, go out with an open mind, and not expect anything to really happen, and that is (well so I am told) it will happen.   When you least expect it.  Don't try so hard.  Let it find you.  And it will.  I know, it is harder than just reading these words.  But, I am in the same boat.  Patience is a virtue.  Good Luck, and It will happen.
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This might be what God intended.  When someone needs to be tough, it'll be him.  When there comes a time in a relationship when someone needs to be soft, it'll be you.\nThe question here really is- Are you able to agree how to handle different circumstances?  Can you compromise?
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Close your eyes for a moment and say this prayer: Lord, help me find the right love, with the right person, at the right time and at the right place. AMEN...\n\nThis was my prayer then before I found my 1st boyfriend who is now my husband for many happy years. You have nothing to loose in prayers.
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Your soul mate will come to you unexpectedly.  Just relax.  Your time will come for love, dont push it.
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Love is difficult and a pain in the ass. It's up to the two of you to make you love last. Love is work. Work to get it and work to keep it. Make sure your arguments are not petty but of some legitament reasons. Jealousy and insecurity are like cancer to relationships. Trust is the cure. Trust in God and yourself.
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You should just give it some time. If you stay true to yourself love will find you eventually. It might not be right when you want it to happen, but it will come. Don't go out there and start looking for somebody to call your own out of desperation because that could mean disaster. Just take care of you and be patient.
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No reason to overcomplicate things. Just go. Maybe a friendly hug is in order. Anything else...just go with what your gut instinct tells you. GOod luck.
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If love is true, then I would suggest counseling and possibly anger management classes or something.  You certainly don't want that to happen again and lose control for either of your sakes!  Good luck!!
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Be the better person and remember to love those who pursecute you.  Love is the greatest!
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you've gotta understand that girls are up and down all the time, it's hormones, and seriously, there is NOTHING that we can do about it. Try to have compassion, I once had to break up with a guy, even though I still loved him, because of ... circumstances. Anyway, try to keep a level head (difficult I know) and not to wallow (even more difficult!). I just want to give you a hug and tell you that it's gonna be ok, just hang in there and most importantly: pray, most people think that today God never answers, he does. I'm living proof. He's helped me get through so much, he'll help you too.