i asked this dude to prom and he said yes but i also found out he had a gf, eventhough i only want to go as friends i kind of feel bad, i dont have feelings for him or anything though.
217133
he said yes! no matter what he thinks of his girlfriend, he said yes. you do however, need to tell him you only want to go as friends, if you didn't already. and if he likes you, you need to respect his gf and not go ANY further than friends. And if he does just want to go as friends, what a cool guy. Have fun! And good job for asking a guy!
252482
I guess u can't. bcuz, the little things that girls/guys do means something to the other person alot. Would u forgive  him,if he did that w/ur friend? hey, cheer up, if he comes back, i hope you learned ur lesson and if not, move on. Cuz you can't let this bug you for the rest of ur life. plus, ur just gonna feel depress all the time. Hope everything works out! :)
153973
In my senior year I had no intention of going to the prom it just wasn't my thing, but a girl I knew asked me and it turned out to be a fun evening.  If the boy is shy I am sure he will appreciate you asking him out.
600911
I don't want to make you feel bad or anything,nor do I want to make it sound like I am referring to you as a child but, I went through something like this when I was like 15 yrs.-old and I am now ....well let's say I am way over 30 now, but when I went through this it was just a summer fling, I don't know if he had a girlfriend or not, I never saw one, but it was only a summer thing, all we did was met up at the pool, I would be able to get in when others couldn't, I would be able to hang out longer than everyone else, and I do believe that was the only reason why I liked him at the time, it was a nice summer that year, I had a beautiful tan ( : but, my point is, don't work yourself over about this guy, he may have a few girls friends, he is a life gruad, and around a lot of pretty girls, (not to take from you any) I think what I am trying to say is, It's summer time, enjoy yourself, I am sure there are a lot of cute guys out about now, don't just get stuck on one guy, Life is short, enjoy your youth,  "IT'S SUMMER,    PLAY TIME!!!!!
197701
I believe you should relax and just enjoy your life. It is not everyday you get to go to prom.
240760
i hate being single it sucks, i just feel like a piece of s&%t b/c i dont have a g/f and other guys do, what i like is having someone to talk to and spend time with and to care for
193321
be front about it, if its to hard, try it over the phone instead of in person. or be romantic about it. my current boyfriend started things up with me by asking me to prom. in each class that i went to during the course of the day, he left an envelope with some cut up pieces of paper. at the end of the day, i put the pieces of paper together, and it turns out it was a puzzle, which read "will you go to prom with me?" and on the envelope it said to meet him at a certain time, so i did, with my own envelope with a puzzled 'yes' in it. it was really sweet.
302277
Hey......Ok, listen, my advice would be "talk to him," tell him that you really like him, and you were wondering if he would like to hang out once in a while....If he says "sorry I have a girlfriend" or something like that...Don't feel bad, at least you'll know that you tried!\n\nTrust me there isn't anything worse than not doing anything and after going in your head over and over "I wonder what would of happened if I had talked to him"...and things like that! Sometimes you just have to put yourself out there, sometimes you might get hurt but it's the only way you'll know! If he says no or something, just don't feel rejected, it's not gonna be your loss, but his....ok? Life is about taking risks, if nobody took any risks then life would be boring....and trust me it's the only way to learn! That happens to me all the time, I always end up wondering what would of happened, don't make my mistakes, and go for it! Good Luck!
251144
Yes it was because he's reasons for going out w/u weren't because he liked you.  He's an ungreatful skum bag who should feel bad cause he prob. missed out on a great person.  You deff. gave him the right answer.  He shouldn't have done it in the first place.
533469
Really its sort of getting out of hand,have a chat with your mate,sort of bring up the girl in a none committal way,if she is just a casual thing to him let him know you could really go for her,but don't want to upset any one,if you don't find out that way,call it a day with happy memories
367615
I am in the same boat as you, and I have the exact same feelings. I think that we have this problem because people around us are dating, and we're not so we feel left out. Just try to have fun with your friends, like I do. You'll stop wondering about your romantic future. Who knows...maybe you'll see him that night. Just make sure that isn't the only goals to your plan.
247975
sorry 2 hear tht... yeah i saw ur other questions about ths guy b4. actually i also experienced ths kinda situation b4. at first, i was really good friend with ths grl & passed 2 funfull yrs until i found out tht i love her. and i had hint tht she loved me too. but other things came up i couldn't give her a chance 2 express herself. but whn i expressed myself, she rejected saying tht she never felt like ths towards me, which's a lie. also all on a sudden she hooked up with some1 else to take myself off her mind & replace me with him. the most shocking part is, being heartbroken i still tried to be her friend but slowly she made a distance between us & destroyed our beautiful friendship.\n\nmy point is, affection towards a friend happens all the time. but there r some issues involved regarding friendship, other ppl around u etc. as a friend, u were suppose 2 knw tht he already has a gf. but u didn't, which is not usual. so mayb he doesn't hav any gf & story of having a gf is the most reasonable way to dump u with hurting u less. and don't bother if he doesn't like u or not. if he didn't like u, u wouldn't be yur friend. but it can be true tht he's not feeling attracted 2 u as he told u. tht doesn't mean tht u r not attractive or he doesn't like u. there can be a lot of different reasons involved regarding friendship or something else.\n\nfrom my opinion, look into yur heart. if u think tht u really want him & u knw tht he has actually feelings for u thn stick 2gether & mayb someday things'll work out. but the downside is u donno if thts gonna happen. so there's a chance to get heartbroken again frm the same person for the same reason. on the other hand, continue being friend & move on, find another guy who understands u & doesn't hurt u like ths. but whtever happens, yur friendship wth ths guy will not gonna be same frm now on.\n\nhope ths works. feeling sorry 4 u!
336643
that's good you told him, you had to let your feelings out, now ,if he only likes you as a friend let him know it's still OK with you if you'll are still friends.also, if he doesn't show that he likes you back don't feel bad sometimes it is better to have a friendship relationship instead of no relationship at all.but also give him time maybe he likes you too, but has not had a chance to tell you yet.
101497
If you are the asker, you should pay for the tickets. However, if you are going as freinds then you do have the option of asking about going dutch (split it).\n\nIt sounds to me like you really do not like the guy too much (reason why he's an ex) and you are trying to come up with reasons to "cheap out" on your responsibities. If this is the case do not ask him, go with someone else.\n\n* * *  I just looked at your previous question and now understand why you are asking this question. Since you are asking a rotten two faced lying cheater, deffinately do not take that guy.  Use your head and not your heart. It sounds tough but I doubt you would like to remember your last prom with the guy who cheated on you (breaking your heart and probably trust in guys). Always remember, if they cheat once they always will (it's a charater issue).\n\nDo yourself allot of good and stay as far away from this creap as possible. Think of him as poison. I just feel horrible for your next boyfriend after your experiance with this guy.
518481
He could be falling for you, or he could be just hanging out with you because he sees you as a good friend.  Guys sometimes feel really comfortable with their female friends, but they aren't necessarily looking to start a relationship.   I think you should let him know how you feel about him *and* your concerns that you could ruin his relationship with the other girl...since both of these reflect what appears to be your truth.  Honesty is important in any relationship....be it intimate or just friends.  Good luck.
92217
Its just going to take time to get over this other guy.  You shared memories with him and for now they depress u a little but in time when u think of these things it will make u smile and will not hurt anymore.  And before u know it you'll be thinking " what was that guys name that took me to the prom????  hmmmmmm"  Dont allow it to interfere with your new guy.  Otherwise its going to hurt him in the long run!
306184
This sounds like a case of too slow too bad to me.  You never mentioned your feelings to your friend and he made his move before you.  Let it be until hes out of the picture.