We are trying to have a family since few months but every time we have sex my wife does not feel any semen flowing inside - is it unusual? Also there is some fluid that flows out of her vagina after sex - is it semen? Is there any problem with me or her? Can anyone help?
201837
it is perfectly normal. it only takes one semen to fertilize the egg and make her pregnant and you have injected her with millions. Don't worry when the time is right it will work for you.
367547
This is very common. I actually am in her shoes.  Did she have a vaginal birth? any tearing? scarring? That could totally diminish her sex drive. Does she get adequate help around the house? with the baby? Is she depressed? How are other things in your marriage? Does she masturbate, and can she reach orgasm that way? Does she reach climax when having intercourse? If you answered negatively to any of the above  questions, then your wife needs to seek medical advice. You both may benefit from sexual therapy. My son was born without a soft spot, and I gave birth in the car, on the side of the road, in a severe storm. So, you can imagine what I have to work through. Give her your total love and support. Let her know your love everyday.\nGood luck!\nmamaofthesweetest4
134710
why did you get married to her if you are getting a divorce four months later? that is just silly! i don't understand what the problem is or was. can you explain more? you should love your wife no matter what. and at least you have had sex more than i have and i have been married six months.we are still very happy and plan to keep it that way. you don't have to have sex to be happy. that is not all marriage is about.
390377
First and foremost, let me just say that I am impressed that you are so active.  Most men at 48 would not be down the gym everyday, so much respect to you.\n\nI think you have perhaps answered your own question and that what this woman said to you a long time ago has effected your satisfaction.  There are some women out there who are awfully catty when it comes to sex and they don't realise that what they say can have an adverse effect on a mans psyche.  Men are very proud and most men want to please their partner so when a women says something like, is that it, it's kind of like bursting a balloon. \n\nMy advice to you is to relax and enjoy your partner.  If you haven't already done so, tell her about your experience with your ex.  When its out in the open, you'll concentrate more on your partner than the actual ejaculating.  Try different positions.  I could explain a method that always makes my partner wild.  If your interested, email me!\n\nGood luck!
251609
Any contact of semen even on or near the vaginal opening can get someone pregnant, so penetration really makes no difference. Not all women can feel a man ejaculate so it is nothing to be worried about.
20760
My first question to you is:\n\nWhy would any man compare his woman with an ex? Tacky, tacky, tacky, and HIGHLY disrespectful to you! \n\nMy second question is- do you feel adequately lubricated to enjoy sex? As long a sex isn't uncomfortable, you don't have to worry about how you compare to other women. Also, depending on where you are at in your cycle, you can produce more or less lubrication. If you are pregnant or breastfeeding, that can affect it, as can many different medications.\n\nIt sounds like *he* is the one with the problem. ;) \n\nIf you want to know more about this, I suggest picking up Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler, it will explain how your hormones fluctuate (in a very easy to understand way, it's not boring at all)- I haven't met a woman who has read this book who wasn't blown away by how much we are NOT taught about our bodies, and how normal we truly are!
192284
I squirt every time my husband and I have sex. I do it multiple times. He said there has been times to where it almost shot off the edge of the bed. Incredable feeling if you've never experienced it!
179316
Yup. When it happens my husband always teases me and says he can't trust me to hold on to anything...lol\n\nYour question however sort of leads me to believe that you must be VERY young if you don't know the answer to that. Or maybe your parents didn't talk about sex at all in your household. Either way, please learn more about sex before you continue having it. There are many other things that can happen that are way worse than sperm leaking out. Go to your local Planned Parenthood or a family doctor to find out everything you should know about sex.
558480
have you tried letting her Gide your member in and is she wet? when my hubby and my self do it he gets too excited and wont's to put it in and cant find it so I'll do it.
643863
has he tried any foreplay? i have learned that foreplay is important for my wife to have a pleasurable experience. \n\nalso, distractions could definately be an issue because i am in a similar situation as you are. my wife has mentioned that she was uncomfortable with the living situation so its hard for her to "be herself" at times...i have learned that the atmosphere has to be just right  for a woman.
474361
You might have a growth on your cervix that needs to be removed and depending on your sexual postions your husband is only hitting it some od the time. I had bleeding after sex a couple times and found out I had a enlarged veesel on my cervix which they removed with a biopsy (only hurt a little) and now I'm fine.
336615
Aww come on dude, a woman needs to feel loved (love not sex)I am always there for my wife, I talk to her, I listen, sometimes she only wants to talk out a problem and does not want me to provide the answer. I take my share of cleaning the house (I work full time to provide the best for her as well).\nShe says she feels warm and contented when with me. I spend as much time as possible with her.\n\nI know what you are worried about, if you get everything else right, then sex will never be a problem, for me it is awesome.
299531
I don't know how she could become pregnant if you didn't put your penis or fingers that have touched your penis inside of her. If you did, then there is always a possiblity since there is semen at the tip of a penis.
357758
First of all, I want to know where I can get pop tarts with semen inside them.  Second, I was wondering if a person could get pregnant from that?  Third, how dumb is that?
95162
i have the same problem and i posted here about it.  they said that it comes with age and some are real shooters and some are not.  but i would definitely like to go back how it used to be.\n\nduring sex, im quite sure that sometimes i ejaculated with a much faster velocity since i can feel it.  few months ago, i was out of town and i have to do it alone, i was so aroused that it shot like it used to.  so i guess, other than age, level of arousal also plays a part.
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Does she have any unpleasant memories attached to her breasts? Was she molested as a child and touched inappropriately? It could be that you ,her husband, bring back bad memories when you play with her nipples. \n   Does she have pleasant thoughts when you touch them, do they turn her on? \n   Does she feel like an object when you touch them excessively? \n   You might talk to her and let her know that you consider them a beautiful part of her body and that you like to touch them and that in no way does it take away from the feelings that you have for her as a person. \n    Having said THAT... I know someone who does not like oral sex performed on her. She says that it is "too much stimulation" and she cannot relax when it is performed on her. She prefers to be touched there, instead. So perhaps overstimulation (pleasure) of the nipples is a sort of pain for your wife. \nI hope this helps. Good luck.  One last thing--\n    A woman who also abstained from sex before marriage, as did her husband, stated that although she loved her husband very much, and vice versa, the sex did not get good until they had been married TWO years. Somehow things just "clicked" after that. It could be that this, with some advice and counseling, might work itself out.
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I feel for you.  You are in a tight spot.  Has your husband seen a urologist?  There are ways nowadays with microscopic procedures to take tissue from the male and extract sperm from it.  You'd be amazed!  I don't know your feeling of donor sperm, but there are a lot of sperm banks where you can purchase sperm and do an insemination in a physicians office.  Right now, is too late to dwell on what happened many years ago.  Deal with the problem, look for solutions and move on.  I'm sure his mother didn't mean to hurt her son.  Let him know that you love him and work as a team to achieve the goal of a happy, health child.