Ok, my ex hooked up w/ a guy,not 3 weeks after dumping me, who was a short while later busted for trying to pick up a 13 yr old . So I put together a list of other guys I've been dumped for: drug dealer, wife beater, a married guy, a guy whose idea of work is sitting and drinking beer all day, a guy who has been known to knock girls up then leave, and finally (my favorite) the ex who she left ealier because he cheated on her numerous times. So I'm just wondering how many other people where dumped so that the ex could date a real loser?
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i've never been dumped at all cause i've never had a boyfriend, but i think u should think about what kind of girls ur dating that dump u for scum like that.  u might also want 2 think about y they like u....
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Yes, i have.  I began dating a guy that I met through work.  He was a client.  He began calling me on my business cell and we really clicked.  I really began to care about him, but there was something I couldn't quit put my finger on.  So, I knew a PI and I began asking him questions... and then it was on.  I found out this guy was married with four children.  He was also a police officer and had been fired from jobs in the past for sexual harrassment.  Needless to say, I am VERY glad I found all of this out otherwise, who knows the mess I could have been tangled up in.
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Dump her, how would she feel if you went and drank with your ex? Yeah she wouldn't stand for it, would she! She probably slept with him anyway. Sirens used to lure there victims in with beautiful music and then slaughter them. Would you fall for their music? I guess what I'm saying is don't let ANYONE play games with your head, if it gets to the point where your having mind games played with your head, GET OUT!
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I have been through a similar experience. Just over a year ago the guy who I had planned on marrying & I decided to part ways. Even though it was mutual I had a really hard time moving on. I started dating again right away, but soon realized that in the process of dating my ex I had lost track of who I really was, therefore all the guys I dated after him; I was dating for the wrong reasons. I don't know if that makes sense, but I decided that I had to "date myself" first before I was ready to hit the dating scene again. \n\nAbout 4 or 5 months ago I came across this book: Single "The art of being satisfied, fulfilled, and independent". by Judy Ford  It really opened my eyes as to how I was living my life. It's okay to grieve & find yourself before hitting the dating scene again. I've taken a sabatical from dating & have never been happier. I have more guy friends than I have ever had before & they are teaching me what I really want in a guy.\n\nMaybe you're not ready for the whole dating thing yet, but that shouldn't stop you from getting to know this great guy. It sounds like you two are building a friendship, & friendship is so important when trying to rediscover yourself. Just be totally honest with yourself & do some soul searching ... you'll be surprised by all you don't know about yourself.
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My ex-girlfriend. Her name was Amie. I posted a Christian ad at the personals and she responded telling me everything I wanted to hear.  I looked at her profile and it looked as if she wrote it specifically to match everything I was looking for.  She posed as a Christians girl but after months of her lies being exposed, I found out she was a prostitute (luckily I wasnt having sex with her) which would explain why she was always getting drunk and grabbing at my "member".  I can honestly say I know how it feels for women to be sexually harrassed and "man-handled" all the time- this woman never stopped! Anyways after months of her trying we quit hanging out after some serious arguments- she called me 3-4 times a day to argue with me and hung up on me as soon as she got me angry- it was very hard to remain a Christian with her and even worse when we split up. I got tired of her calls and insults so the last time she hung up on me I called her and left a message and emailed her to tell her what a worthless piece of crap I thought she was- 2 days later I got served with a restraining order and ended up going to court in front of a judge she knew personally (probably a client) and he did not let me say one thing in my defense- so I have a restraining order on my record because someone who wouldnt leave ME alone, got mad when I responded to her insults. I NEVER went to her house or called her to harrass her, she did it to me! Needless to say I am not too happy with our legal system when an innocent person can be victimized so easily by a lunatic with the courts help. The story is much longer but I tried to shorten it up - but this was something I asked for, but found out later it was bad for me- Although, maybe what I was asking for would have been ok, if she wouldnt have been an imposter!?
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funny story...i once did this to my ex. we talked for ever online and he didn't kow it was me. he suspected it but never knew for sure. i causght him in some pretty big lies. he lead "me" to believe he was single and mentioned nothin of our son. (he had 3 children and only said he had 2) he also mentioned meeting up and things like that. that told me all i needed to know as far as what i was thinkin he was up to online all night. so in my opinion no you didn't take it too far
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I am wondering how many people who do online dating are\n1-already married....seen lots of guys do this\n2-been married and divorced many times over\n3-players who just want to have sex and nothing more
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I agree with the other posts. you are doing the right thing. The sooner you forget about him and move on, the better for you. You dont need his issues. His ex is most welcome to him. He sounds like a true loser. And I dont mean to insult on your taste in men. Hopefully this experience will make you stronger and wiser. Find a guy with morals and ethics. He deserves to be with you.
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Leave him behind, if he had another girl on his arm the very next day after you asked him out, then he is definitely not serious about a relationship, he probably said yes to keep all his bases covered, just go to the bar have a few drinks, maybe play some pool, sit back and unwind you'll most likely meet someone that serious about a relationship in no time at all. And if that's not your goal then grab a rebound guy" been one my self a few times" and show him off to your ex and see what his reaction is. well that's all the advice i can give with out breaking a million more of the guy codes, but hey good luck with what ever you chose.
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I don't give a rats ass. We all knew from the beginning that they were a trashy couple that looked like they stepped right off of Jerry Springer. How many of those last? I mean, is anyone surprised?
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You are right, I see some of my old friends play guys and it makes me sick. When they start in a relationship she thinks she wants him and him only, and 2 weeks later, she wants his best friend too. then both guys get hurt (heart break) and she moves on to the next guy, who falls for her... and it goes on and on... Just sickening...  Some men do women the same way though, not as many men as women though. Don't stop being the nice guy, there are some good women left that appreciate a great guy, and that sounds like what you are. Good Luck with the next one.
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I'm a guy and I don't stay "friends" with my exes.  As Sam Kinnison put it "Oh, friends, like some kind of emotional tampon, only without the sex".\nNot trying to be crude, ladies.  I'll be pleasant if I see them on the street, but I won't ask them for coffee so we can "catch up" on each other's lives.
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I had 4 boyfriends excluding the one I am currently with. And 3 out of 4 of them cheated, for dumb reasons. One was not getting any from me, so he looked elsewhere (I was 16 then, what the hell did I know about sex). Later another, cheated with my best friend after she threw herself at him. After the that the last didn't know how to keep it in his pants because of self-esteem issues. I did not want anything to do with any of them after that. It is a sin to cheat and if you know that cheating defines you and relationships then you need not be in one at all. There is no way to avoid a break up I won't even want to be your friend.
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I was 17 and it was our first date. He was 17 too. We went to Makoto in Dothan. We were fine until his girlfriend showed up. I had no idea he had a gf. She punched me in my face so I stood up and knocked the s*** out of her. Then he stood up and told me he was sorry but I told him to take me home NOW. And then Isaid don't ever tlk to me again or ask me out again. He took me home and never spoke to me again.
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I dated a man for five months but after I found out he was married decided to kick him to the curb. My sole purpose for dating is to seek out a potential husband so why would I continue on? I certainly wasn't going to sit around and wait for him to leave his wife for me, I mean come on he cheated on her so it is a high possibility that he'll cheat on me too.
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How juicy do you want to hear?\n\nI used to live with somebody and date other people.  The person I lived with was so drunk or high all the time that I would take money from them and they wouldn't even know it.\n\nI stole a girl's necklace in 6th grade right out of her desk.\n\nI want to have sex at least 4 times a week.\n\n\n\nIs all of this true?  You decide.
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Yes--it's perfectly normal to still miss the person who dumped you and/or the relationship.  Just b/c you miss him doesn't mean that you can't control your behavior or that you have to act on your feelings.  In time, you'll meet other guys, have new experiences, and will enjoy yourself again.  It's impt. to be kind to yourself during this period and take whatever steps are necessary to heal.  I realize it must be tough dealing with the feelings you have, but you will be okay.  It's a real test of your strength and I think you'll be proud of how you dealt with your feelings.  Good Luck