This girl that I really like now hates my guts. I want what we had back, so please help my with suggestions and thanks.
208283
Well, I don't think you should really do anything. I think dislike is a natural emotion that can not be forced or really changed. I am a young girl myself, and I was in a relationship for a long time. I really didn't like the guy I was dating, but didn't break up with him for many reasons. But I really did despise him secretley. After that I realized I couldn't stand anything about him. I tried to make myself like him but I just couldn't. I broke up with him, and he tried to win be back. BUT I HATED HIM! So really nothing was going to work.\n\nSometime that just happens. You could try buying her flowers and all of that but I don't think any of it will work. My advice for you- move on.
390405
she changed her mind. you were her back up plan and something better came through (sorry), don't ask her out again.
73395
You should sit down and talk to her about it. I'm not too sure what you are in "****" means, but if you are having trouble with her then the only way to figure it out is to talk to her and she what she is thinking. Can you give more detail as to her recent actions? What is making you feel that she doesn't like you anymore?\n\nPlease come an update so I can try to help you.
429912
Friends after the fact won't work dude.  If you want a relationship with her or still love her, tell her you want her back.  If that's a no go - you need a clean break - That involves your mate as well.   Explain you still have feelings for her and you can't be around her without feeling awkward.  Then find some new friends.
468484
It's perfectly alright for you to not be physically attracted to her, and wish that she would make herself more attractive for you; however the second that you informed her that you were not happy with her appearance was the exact second that she realized that you did not love her unconditionally. You should have kept that info. to yourself and tried to help her lose the weight by playing a sport together or working out together so you can both be healthy. You blew it, and no matter what you do or say now, you have already made your feelings known and I guarantee you that she will never forget it. The question is...will she forgive you? It is easier to forgive, than to forget. Good luck, I'm afraid you are going to need it. Ouch!
184562
forget her. she treated you badly this time, it WILL happen again. you deserve better.
82112
sit her down and tell her youre sorry...tell her your feelings are jumbled and you didnt know what to get her.
157075
SCREW THAT UGLY CHICK \nignore her
253513
grow some balls\n\nif she doesn't want you\n\ntoo bad get over it\n\nquit bitching and move on
243096
You are so nasty.  Keep trying and she will tell you what she likes.  I hope you can follow directions well.
25616
BOOOOYAAAAH... Something to wake you up...\n\n**Slap**\n\nGirl 1st of all why would you like to get back with him? Don't you smell a rat when it's near you? Imagine your story as a film... Would you advice a girl to get back with the man who wanted nothing but "SEX"? This may sound harsh and everything but good but if try and stay away from him then you might learn something... It wont be easy to stay away from someone you think you love... You want him back bcoz he got the best of you but if you look at the other side of this story it would be a blessing in disguise why coz you were able to learn as early as now that this guy is nothing but "1 bam thank you mam" type of guy... \n\nAlways remember this "ALL GUYS WOULD DO ANYTHING TO GET THOSE PANTIES OFF YOU" the only one who can control things is you...\n\nMy advice give it time and do something else than think of him as the "ONE"... \n\nIm sorry if I offended you in any manner... I have no intentions of doing so...\n\nHope I was able to help you out...
652456
The last time I answered an "urgent" question, the questioner never came back to pick a Best Answer.\n\nBut, anyway, here goes...\n\nIf you're going to play that silly game of "I'm busy over here with my friends" then be prepared to suffer the consequences. Basically, you snubbed her a number of times and she ended doing a "f*ck you too, buddy" on you. Then you wonder why...\n\nWakey, wakey. If you're ever going to have a chance with this girl then you need to stop playing games and communicate with her normally, treat her with respect and just let it lie for now.\n\nIf this is how you typically behave then we now know why she dumped you.
511360
gurl please. dont allow urself to be hurt again. MOVE ON! find a new crush.
272172
omg i have this problem too, i hate it also, wer're getting beter right now, cuz, i haven't seen her for a little bit. So see if you can say at a friends house for a night, or weekend, and chill w/ friends after school. Try to limit your time with her for about a week, that's what i did, and we're ok now  good luck
171949
Get rid of her and get a new chick that it fits in. Im game. *wink wink*.
570759
Dude trust me and give her time and just stay in touch with her and start at the friendship level again and see where it will go if you presist on calling her or showing up where she is you will just piss her off more and push her away
87287
You can't win her back but perhaps there is a chance you could EARN her back. \n\nBy this I mean that you should replace criticism with encouragement, emotional support and praise. After all, she's not supposed to be a mirror image of you, reflecting only your values, opinions and ways of doing things. \n\nIt sounds like both of you need boundaries. There are things that shouldn't be said, like hurtful judgments and criticisms. \n\nIt is so much more pleasant to appreciate and tolerate individual differences than to bicker over personal life styles!\n\nBest of luck to you and your lady!\nI hope it all works out for the best.