what is your personal idea of the sweetest thing that a person could do that would let you know they were "the one?" For me it's that they would dance in the rain with me. I know it's sounds but it would touch me on so many levels. 1, they are willing to take chances, 2, they have a sense of spontaneouity 3, it is romantic, 4, they have a sense of adventure 5, they are willing to take chance on something even if it is something as odd and silly as dancing in the rain and 6, it is symbolic of the fact that they will be there through the good and bad helping me to make the best of a bad situation. I talk too much sorry. But pls answer. What is your personal idea of the main thing that a person can do that would let you know they were the one?
199712
You are looking for the right thing and you keep on talking they are very sweet words \nMine would be to say they love you when you are down and just support you\n\nps in rain is good
320806
I knew I was really in love when the following happened:\nI cared what his honest opinion was, and I could talk about absolutely anything and everything.  When something bad happened, I wanted HIM to comfort me; when something funny happened, HE was the first person I wanted to share it with.  When I thought of the future, HE was in all the scenes.  It goes beyond butterflies and beating hearts, but sounds like you are on the right track.  Good luck!
261253
the best date...Well, my b/f and I were outside of his house.  WE had just gotten back from a movie which was great.  It was Valentines Day.  Durring the movie he gave me a beautiful necklace and put it on me.  If that wasnt enough to make it great we went to his house after.  We layed out under the stars.  It was so cold but we had a blanket and kept eachother warm.  We saw a shooting star which made it perfect.  I absolutely loved it.  My worst date...with a different guy earlier than my best date.  WE went out for pizza.  He tripped on his shoelaces and fell on the floor, then my sister and his sister, who were with us (which made it bad enough) came up to me and asked if I could take them home.  (They are both younger than us.)  I ended up taking them home ans rode home with a guy who had pizza all over his clothes.  Embarassing.
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♥=The most spectacular,indescribable, deep euphoric feeling for someone. \n\nLove is an incredibly powerful word. When you're in love, you always want to be together, and when you're not, you're thinking about being together because you need that person and without them your life is incomplete.\n\nThis love is unconditional affection with no limits or conditions: completely loving someone. It's when you trust the other with your life and when you would do anything for each other. When you love someone you want nothing more than for them to be truly happy no matter what it takes because that's how much you care about them and because their needs come before your own. You hide nothing of yourself and can tell the other anything because you know they accept you just the way you are and vice versa.\n\nIt's when they're the last thing you think about before you go to sleep and when they're the first thing you think of when you wake up, the feeling that warms your heart and leaves you overcome by a feeling of serenity. Love involves wanting to show your affection and/or devotion to each other. It's the smile on your face you get when you're thinking about them and miss them.\n\nLove can make you do anything and sacrifice for what will be better in the end. Love is intense,and passionate. Everything seems brighter, happier and more wonderful when you're in love. If you find it, don't let it go.\n\nOne word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: \n\nThat word is love.\n\n♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥An inexplainable yet incredibly strong feeling for someone...Most people use the word "love" to get into someone else's pants. Love is overused in today's world, people say they love someone because of the way they look or their body. That isn't love. Love is when you can't do anything without thinking about that person, you always want to be with them. It's not that you want to have sex with them, you just want to spend time with them and you just want to hold them and never let go. Love can be fooling, you can think you're in love and it can lead to the most horrible feeling in the world. Also you can wait so long for someone, loving them, and waiting for them to love you back, but they don't return it for a long time and you spend years thinking and thinking and it tears you up inside but when that person realizes that they love you back it's miraculous. Love is a very strong word, don't overuse it.
266816
My crush. He's sweet, nice, kind, funny, smart...anything I could ask for! Unfortunately...he really doesn't exactly know that I exist...Anyway, nice question!
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David - you are an intelligent, articulate, inquisitive, compassionate, self-assured person - I've only read some of your answers & questions, & I already think you're more than worth my time. \n\nBe you - do what you honestly love to do, and you will attract people who love the same things you do. \n\nQuit looking for your soul mate - sing the song you love, & keep your ears open for the echo - if it's meant to be, you and she will inevitably be drawn together.
89201
Just once, would i like to find someone who loves me, is there for me, is willing to make some sacrifices for me, will actually call me, will remember anniversarys, birthdays, and special days, who will comfort me when i'm down instead of having no idea what to do, to find unconditional love, to really be able to lose some serious weight, stick to diets, and there is so much more but i don't want to spam up your page.\n\nthat was a good release for me. i thank you for asking the question.
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Falling in love with someone and only been in the realtionship less then a month. SLOW DOWN! One day at a time, get to know each other before the I love you's come out. I mean I believe in love at first sight, but i also believe in moving to fast. Just be careful. You'll know if hes the one after time passes
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My instinctive response is love of a significant other, and then I thought about it more. I would have to say lifelong attempt at "fame fortune, whatever......a dream" Because a dream is something you'll always carry with you, people change, relationships change, even close ones, friends change, money is temporary, but dreams are always the hopeful thoughts you carry with you and keep you motivated all your life.
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What won't we humans do for love?  Think about this, love can be transitory sometimes and when we find love we want to hold onto it with both hands and never let go...because what if it went away?  \n\nI'm sure most of us have known "love" in one form or another and I think I'm correct in assuming that a lot of us have had that love taken away.  Whether a relationship ends, we loose a friend, family member or even a pet.  Sometimes love  just goes away.  So when we find it we don't want to loose it and because these feelings are so strong within us it can bring out the best and worst in our behavior.\n\nSo love in any shape or form is a glorious thing but without it in our lives it's truly a great tragedy.
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A lot of things inspire me.\nWhen I see someone who has lost everything in a fire,flood,hurricane,tornado...etc. and they still keep their dignity and compassion for others.\nMy family and friends.They encourage me to reach for the stars.And if I fail they're still there to pick me up.\nThe beauty and majesty of Nature.Sunsets,sunrises,rainbows,cool,crisp Fall mornings.\nAnd of course,some of the people on here.My life would be lacking without their kindness and heartfelt advise.
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1.romantic.. not puching ever to go far or do things but just being sweet and there. saying all the right things to make her smile..\n2.smart.. i don't want someone who's lazy or anything. i want them to not be stupid just someone who tries and is motivated
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The person I am thinking of is a complete gentleman that makes me feel comfortable around him (or his questions and answers), a lovely personality.  A complete and utter romantic that knows how to talk to the ladies, very well if I might add.  He has done an excellent job of raising/taking care of his family.  He brings a smile to my face.  And I miss his answers to my posers when he doesn’t always visit them.  He is witty, intelligent, warm and at ease with himself.  Oh, and he has a respectable past and is honored in his community.
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Hi, I met my husband at my place of employment. I only thought of him as a nice person, possibly a friend. He came in one day and asked me to go to a band job with him(he is a drummer). I said I wanted to go and he was a perfect gentleman in every way. When I got home he said goodnight and patted my hand. I really knew he was a good guy and I would date him many times after that. After two years of dating we had a beautiful wedding. I still love him so much I could not tell you.
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That i always loved him through all our bitter seasons. that i wish we could have lasted longer. that he was the best thing that ever happened to me.\n\nI could keep going, but don't make me cry! :-(
536034
My boyfriend is my best friend.  We have been together for 3 years now and I am so comfortable around him.  He is always willing to listen to me when I've had a bad day and can always make me feel better.  He is kind, thoughtful, and always puts his family and friends before himself.  I love him so much. : )
549215
i dated a guy for a little while who was great at first, really complimentary and crazy about me, and suddenly this started to get a bit stifling so i dumped him, he started to drink heavily and annoy my friends about how he was ever supposed to get over me, honestly he turned into such a stalker. (i only went out with him four times!)\n\n1)i felt dumb for ever thinking that a guy who is technically "perfect" could be the one for me! guys have to have a little bit of a b*st*rd in them to keep it interesting! \n\n2)every time i see him or think of him i feel physically ill and get the shivers.\n\n3)i do my best not to think about it, but it has forever ruined songs like sting's "i'll be watching you" cos they sound like anthems for stalkers, when boys who think they're real romantic by fighting for our affection can't get the hint!!!