i like my best guy friend we both flurt with each other all the time but iono wat to do rlly
210145
Sit down and talk to him, just tell him how you feel. Do it privately, so you don't embarrass him or you.  If he really is interested he'll tell you.  If he's not then hopefully, if he really truly is a friend he will let you down gently and be flattered.  Good Luck!
139896
just give each other some distance. the weirdness will go away eventually. this happened with my best friend from middle school. we didnt talk for a really long time and then moved in separate circles for awhile. when we hit high school we sort of gravitated to each other again and were inseperable until college. then the old chemistry came back and we screwed up big time... not to go off the topic... if there are ever feelings involved they don't go away completely. just play it cool. he'll miss you if you stop calling and start hanging out with other people.
667839
Do you have a crush on this best guy friend that's kind of like your brother, even in the slightest? If not then I suggest you relax about it a little. You might want to let them know if they start going out that you love them both, and wish them the best but the second they start having issues you don't want to get involved. Maybe you should also go in to a little more depth with this with your best friend too so she understands. I understand your discomfort with this because when people break up they both seem like jerks and you probably won't want to hear it.
317469
Go out as hang out buddies and keep the emotions on that level. help him with the "he's just friend material" issues, and maybe in the future, you will both grow toward each other.\nDon't write off a friend, there's not too may if them in our lives.
158432
Figure out what you want for real. Do you have the habit of moving from one guy to the next? If so, stop and take a few breaths before you get involved next time.\n\nAs for the guys, stay away from his best friend. You never should date a boyfriend's best friend unless the old relationship is long dead. And even then, it can be a sensitive topic.
343476
I was in a similar situation with the guy that I'm with now, only we didn't go to the same school.  We were best of friends for a year and stuff then he started going out with my best friend.  They broke up and it was really hard on my best friend so I told her that I would never go out with him.  Yes, as foolish as it may seem, I had an amazing amount of feelings for him.  But I played along and said, "Haha, yes, we're like brother and sister."\n\nWell, long story short, we got past that [so I thought] and we started going out.  Then, he just randomly comes along one day and says "It's akward because we used to be like brother and sister." etc.  So, that ended, we were still friends and now we're "together" again, I suppose, though not exclusive.\n\nSee, boys are undecisive and it may take some time for them to realize their true feelings for you.  I think you are blessed to have such a good friend but, hon, you can't MAKE him like you.  Just be who you are, and that's what he loves you for, is being you.  Just give it time and maybe someday, he will like you in the way you like him.  If you really like him, you shouldn't tell him, so you don't make it akward between you two.  But, if the time comes along when you just can't take it and you NEED to tell him, do so.  But in the right way.  Just cherish what you have with him, because it's better than nothing.
55936
Do you like him back? If you don't then you ahve nothing to worry about. If you like him, then discuss this with your friend. Guys come and go, friends are forever.
89222
That happens alot when you're best friend is of different sex. You hang around every day, you talk all the time, so you start to have a crush. You can like him, but you should be aware that if something does happen between yous, then your friendship may never be the same agian. Though you may be happyily in love forever, if that changes, the friendship could be lost. My best friend is a male, and I never had a crush on him, mainly because I know how he is with woman, so I could never date him. Alot of times, girls wish they could have a guy like their best friend. Just think about what you really want to do, and act on it. You only live once.
344255
Tell him the truth.  He is your best friend and that is not something you want to spoil, because boyfriends and girlfriends come and go, but best friends are forever.  But good relationships are built on solid friendship foundations so you never know, but at this point if you know you don't like him as a boyfriend, you will only hurt him and yourself and perhaps lose a friend if you take it down that road.  BTW, shorter doesn't mean anything, it is what is inside him that counts!
634310
It actually won't matter what you get for him if you guys love each other as best friends. As long as it comes from the bottom of your heart, he will like it no matter what it is. You should make it if you want it to be the best! ^ ___ ^
643004
What's wrong with liking him if you do?  I think that once you really get to know someone, you can't help  but love them to some extent.  My best friend in the world is a guy, and I love him.  It's hard sometimes, but you can't ignore the feelings, and nothing's going to make them go away.  It might help if you tell him how you feel.  If he likes you, then maybe you can hook up, or if he doesn't then maybe that'll give you some closure on the subject.
230231
it is so possible girl. but if he is like that and u dont like him just tell him that u guys have to remain best friends and nothing more
398729
If your best friend knows that you like him, she's not being a good friend is she? When she's not there, flirt with this guy but not too much to the point where it annoys him. Next time you like a guy, don't tell her.
394987
Girl, go with the flow.  He probably is freaked out about it and wandering if he should or shouldn't.  When you have been friends and I mean best friends for so long it is a big step to cross that boundary because most of the time once you go all the way you never can get the same friendship back.  Give him time and it will work out if it is meant to be.  Some things just are not made to rush>  Good luck.
172232
I'm sure he likes you "in that way" but he's probably just as freaked out and confused about it as you.  Sooner or later one of you will hurt the other, either by asking the other to "cross the line" or by dating someone else.  I think you could avoid that by trying to be VERY mature and sit down alone and talk about how the 2 of you feel about each other which is probably in the middle between "just friends" and wanting to jump into bed with each other.  You freindship will not be the same after this talk but it might be a better alternative than waiting until this timebomb is set off by hormones rather than diffused by the 2 of you taking an honest look at how much you really care about each other, your special friendship, and I'm sure that niether of you wants to hurt the other emotionally.
325785
Tell him how you feel, if he feels the same then you guys can begin being more then frends, if he doesnt feel the same way oh well atleast he is still your Best
607328
umm stay with ur man u guys just gota do somethign diff to spice things up... from my experience dont go after ur BFF's ex..my ex and i broke up and she went out with my best friend... they ended up breakin up and she tried to get back with me... now i dont like either of them.!! its just not right and could cause a bunch of problems like not ever talking to ur bff anymore and u said he is your friend then if u guys break up u might not be friends anymore.... so stick with ur man!!!