My question is that why do women in the west prefer to dress in a tempting way towards men in public but when asked they say they are free sprits and they can do what they want but yet they still get annoyed when comfronted as a hoe (when they are dressed as one). And on top of this women who dress modestly are seen by women as being opressed??? But infact they are more respected becasue you would be looking into their mind and thought as opposed to their figure first.
211181
Stop worrying about how everyone else presents themselves and start worrying about how you come across because right now you sound like an a s s.
432266
I think part of it may be to keep others from questioning their sexuality--in other words, it's their own insecurity about how others perceive them. To me it seems that heterosexual men are very concerned that they not be seen as gay, even by accident. Because two women together is often more accepted by heterosexual society (a popular heterosexual male fantasy), I think you won't hear women say this as often. Also, I think women are generally more gay tolerant. Perhaps that's another reason they don't feel the need to separate themselves verbally by the "I'm not" tag.
89804
Well I have never seen a girls "period napkin," while they were out in public, (who calls it that by the way) but I would guess because the ones who show off their bodies - and have a good one to show - like the attention. For the others, they just may not care about how they look, even if it is as you say, they "be naked... [and] they show their panties and period napkin.
522842
maybe it's because of the double standard men show us??? how about the fact that you degrade us by calling us whores? we can't even act like we have a bit of feeling between our thighs without being called a whore or a s1ut,& maybe if you men could please us teh way we want it we wouldn't be out with other men....what you should be asking yourself is why men don't accept a woman with a strong sexual appitite maybe if you did you'd get F***ed the way you wanted to and the cheating would stop on both sides .
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It is not that they are trying to get someone else's attention, it is because they feel empowered by dressing provacatively. This is usually because the person is on the look out for a particular person and is waiting to get noticed by that certain someone. However, if you don't fit the standard they are looking for, you just better not linger your gaze too long. It is about being available but only to a certain type.
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It is condescending yes, and if it was done in another country it would be appalling.However, it is part of their religion and you have to respect that. I do believe though, that it is demeaning to women that they are forced to cover up as they are seen as a temptation to man, if the men are so much more superior to women in these countries, you think that they(the men), would also have the power to control their own sexual urges and lack of ignorance.
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Hi! I'm from India. Here, as well as in some developed Islamic nations like Pakistan, Malaysia, UAE, Turkey etc. Muslim women have lots of freedom. We can pursue higher education and are consented in marriage issues. Although we can get out and roam but still the burkah is obligatory; and yes, even for the elite class ladies. If you do not follow purdah, they stick labels on you, the other women. Many college girls these days go out without it, wear make-up, and even try some western outfits! But suddenly some religious fanatics start making an issue of it, like they did when they blew Sania Mirza's(a tennis pro)case out of proportion for wearing a sports dress too skimpy and 'anti-Islamic'. Why don't they let us wear what we are comfortable in? Also, the divorce laws inflict great injustice upon us as even in today's India, any Muslim man can end his marriage by saying 'talaaq' thrice. Then there is polygamy( my sister's husband married another woman just for her family's money) and what not......! The conclusion? That Muslim women are still in shackles.....!
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I have NEVER understood this one myself Tom. It is rather puzzling. ESPECIALLY the lesbians who swear they HATE men. Then why they bed masculine , manly butch type women?! I think its because at heart, this butch is still a woman. WHether she wears mens clothes, shortens her name to a more gender neutral one or even wears a strap FULL TIME. This WOMAN still has the sensitivity of a woman, the mentality indicative of femininity and still goes through the "womanly" (monthly) things that all Feminine women do.\n\nthey accept them for who they are in their outward apperance because of who they are on the inside! we should all be so lucky as to adapt this way of thinking, huh?\n\nRemember, when we are in our comfort zones, where ever and with WHOM ever that may be, we are our most vulnerable selves. Regardless of the many masks we must wear outside, day 2 day!
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I think they are both equally inappropriate, regardless of the state of mind, because we are humans with intellect and free will, not animals who follow their feelings blindly.\nHowever, since the question was which was worse, I'll state the following: People who dress immodestly usually do so because they have self-esteem issues, and they try to use their bodies to gain power over others. It may or may not be a conscious choice, but most of the time these people are fooling themselves into thinking that what they are doing isn't wrong, because society accepts it, and that they are dressed after all, as opposed to being nude (even though sometimes the line comes pretty close).\nA nude person knows they are nude and is not trying to fool anybody. Whether doing it out of protest, trying to get back to nature, or for some exhibitionist reason, they know what they are doing and know who they are for doing it. They are being honest with themselves.\nNow these are both generalizations, as a nude could be naked to be a whore, and someone dressed like one could feel guilty about looking that way, but who caves in because of a desire to belong. But for the most part from what I've seen the above holds true, and therefore dressing like a whore is "worse".
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I actually just read an article written by a black woman about how she was tired of men assuming she was just some big-lipped, big-butt sex object.  Whenever guys payed her compliments (especially white males) it usually had something to do with how they were "into her chocolate love" or "wanted a black girl to boss them around in bed" or something else racist and degrading.  She wished people could just tell her something nice without pointing out that she was black.  How about we just compliment people for who they are and forget their skin-color-stereostypes?  There are millions of nice things that can be said of all women, and each woman is different -- they are all beatifully and wonderfully made; they are individuals.
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Nice, intelligent people have (sexual) fantasies about these people because it is easier (for a guy who normally wouldn't) to objectify them when they portray themselves so one-dimensionally.\n\nThis is also why I worry about other girls admiring and imitating them. They become the lowest denominator because this gets them attention- which they equate with validation.\n\nAn analogy might be Americans losing jobs because they are moved to Mexico- where they work for a quarter as much. The women who go lower get the attention- but nobody really wins.
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because they want people to look at them and what they fail to realize is that some men are very particular about a woman he meets and once a man see you outside he has no interest for you later on \n\nsome of them may be insecure and they feel that dressing half naked is cute and then they wonder why they are always getting rape--don't get me wrong--I mean a person can dress the way they want but when you start dressing half-naked you are only inviting trouble to lurk around your environment and surroundings
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Well my room mate and I read your post and thought it was very interesting that a guy would just wonder that instead of thanking God for the "blessing" that some men think that is. Some women do show their thongs on purpose. Usually the ones that crave attention (as cliche as that sounds), and i don't get the mini either. I think there is really only one body style that can pull that look off. Since a vast majority of the world is not a size 0, that leaves the rest of us out of luck. And just because you can wear them  doesn't mean that they should. NOW, I have a question for you...\nDo men like seeing girls thongs? Or barely covered in a mini skirts? Or does it matter who is wearing them? What do guys think when they see a girl walking down the street in either/both of these two ways?\n\nps...i don't think your a pervert...:)
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over the centuries we have been taught that that is inappropriate behavior. we have been taught it will mark us as a "loose" woman. no wants to be called or looked at as a "ho". americans are sexually repressed and afraid of open sexuality. we have also been taught that men don't like "aggressive" women, that it is up to the man to make the first move and draw the woman out. stupid i know but that's america. not saying that women shoud just go out and exploit their sexuality, but there's nothing wrong with a little harmless flirting
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I think most of the women like to stare at them this is the reason they wear sexy sort of short, fit, glowing, bright and attractive dresses. They try to show all hidden parts of their bodies on public places only for men to stare at them and to admire their beauty. But some who really cares about this keep their eyes down and cover their body in veil. LIKE MOST OF THE MUSLIM WOMEN WHO REALLY ARE MUSLIMS.
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Does this sura actually tell you that Islam is against hetrosexual activity?? I'm not sure how you got that one\n\nYou might want to think about what your question really is. My question to you is: What is wrong with this verse??? Are you really saying you have a problem with women of a certain faith dressing in a way that dosn't show their cleavage etc?? \nMaybe you can't handle the fact that not all women just want to wear skimpy clothing when with men that arn't family!!! Heres an idea:\nGet over it!!!!!!!
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I have found this to be very unfair and annoying that society is so very rigid with men.  Women can wear men's clothes and it's not looked at twice, but if a man wears woman's clothes, the entire society flips out.  I think that it's taught by the parents to the children of each generation.  I also hope that as each generation lightens up a bit, these rigid rules lighten up.