I have reached my daily limits again. I am gathering that people ask about food preference to give away free points. I am not sure why people ask about sexual preferences. I want someone to tell me a fairy tale-the happily ever after type. Thank you.
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Hmmm, Im assuming by daily minutes, you mean bored, stressed or looking for something to do?  When I reach that point, I find a quiet place and breathe deep.  Perhaps read a book, or meditate.  Other time, I pull the wings off flies and watch them hop along the ground.  Theres always breakfast to be had.\nEnjoy your day!
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H-I-B Brilliant man! These simple questions for simpletons, may be too much for them to absorb all at once. It's real hard to decide if it was once, or maybe twice. That is what BI-LESBIANS say about not being a Lesbian. I was BI curious, or maybe SEMI-BI-LESBIAN. So how many HOMOSEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS concluded that you are a HOMOSEXUAL? My example of NEO_CONSERVATIVE dialog, HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!! The crying "RIGHT" can't stand up for themselves, and now have to "CRY" to the left for support. BOOO-FUUUUKIN_HOO. My man here is completely right about the semis-ism, so stand up and take your knocks, it's your turn in the barrel. Vote out the TYRANTS in NOVEMBER, free America!
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Well,\n\nWith my daughters last boyfriend (Around 18 years old then, ditched him and is with somebody else), it got serious enough where I had to meet his family.\n\nSo heck, I am game.  The most memorable line at the cookout was from a woman who said "You can talk to my husband about anything you want, as long as it is God or hunting".\n\nUm, you just can't buy moments like that.\n\nPersonally I write.  Fiction and programs.  Do decently in the stock market.  And, um don't give diddly squat about hunting.  God I care about, but I sensed these were the wrong people to discuss that topic with.\n\nMellow and laid back is good.  Especially for your heart.  Type B personalities tend to live longer than type A's.\n\nDon't know if it makes you less a man.  Makes you more a human anyway. \n\n-Dio
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Because we are still way too Victorian.  Once upon a time (I've told this story before, a long time ago, sex was considered normal....as normal as eating, sleeping, etc...a part of life.  However, it was denigrated by Christians in the past as evil.  Making something forbidden and evil corrupts it.  People abuse it.  Just like eating.  If one has no issues with food, there is no problem.  But food issues causes problems like anorexia, bulimia, obesity, etc.  I like to blame a lot of this on christian because they deny the body thinking only issues of the soul are good.  But we are body and soul.  It is only in acceptance of our body that we become balanced (by the way I know it is not just Christians that do this but they have done so much to destroy peace of mind regarding this.)   Question for uptights:  Who do you think invented sex?  Do you think God did?  And if he/she did, why is it we have that strong urge even when we are alone and without are partner?  Didn't God invent that too?
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why is it a person who goes to macdonalds will order a big mac and large fries and a diet coke to match?   wierd huh???\n\nhow do the keep off the grass signs get there???\n\n\ndo baldy men use shampoo????\n\n\nwhat is the speed of dark????\n\n\n\nif swimming is so good for you why are whales so fat?????
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I've been intimate friends with a gay male for 20 years and we have yet to even dream of that circumstance.  I would be willing to bet money the answer would be a resounding "no".  And why should they?  They'd probably be better off without bringing the sex question into such a dire situation.  Why does everything between a woman and a man have to be about sex anyway?  No self-respecting person, man or woman, would compromise their own essential self for a moment of physical gratification.  The question should be "Would they learn more about what it's like to be a man or a woman, thus bettering the human race as a whole, by learning to appreciate the differences and the similarities?"  Convoluted, but you get the point.  Stop making everything that involves the sexes about sex!  We could enjoy the island much better that way.
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I fully understand. My Partner adn I are also in a long term relationship and we finally found the *only* gay bar in Oshkosh. People were constantly coming up to ask us things and were very surprised (but mostly pleasently surprised, I must say) that we were a couple and a long-term one at that. Of course we're Lesbians. Perhaps it's different for us? Actually straight bars are just as rife with people looking for each other; it's just that we're used to seeing it more. Blessings.
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LOL......well you do get the occasional wacko answer for sure. But for the most part its not too hard to just graze over the "babble" to find the "meat." I do understand your question though. Without any criticism to those on here that I know are much younger than myself, but I have a feeling they probably don't enjoy my questions any more than I can relate to some of the questions they ask. You are probably onto something. Having age categories might help us all weed through to find the type of questions we feel we can appropriately answer. I like it! Hopefully someone will read your question and take some action. Yay for you!
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niranjan, hi!\n\ni don't want to be rude, but it does sound like you're a little narrow-minded when it comes to sex...\n\ni want to make a few analogies before i come to what i'm trying to say... a generation earlier, they believed that non-veg food should be eaten only rarely and that it's bad for health... we know better today.  they also didn't believe that women should go to work, and that white people were Gods, that caste system was correct and that women are not equal to men.\n\ntoday we know things are different.  our ancestors believed that love was bad, and that only arranged marriages work...\n\nsimilarly, you need to understand that sex is a bodily function.  there is no more meaning to the idea that you should only have sex with one's life partner... what happens if your partner is not compatible with you?  what if you never enjoy sex again?  you only have one life... you won't have another chance.\n\nsex is a function like eating or drinking.  everyone masturbates when they can't find a partner.  when you do have a partner, enjoy it to the fullest.\n\nthere's nothing wrong with people having sex before marriage.  it's perfectly normal, and is not a "danger" that needs to be curbed...\n\ndo open your eyes to the new world around you.  culture is the person inside you... it's not the acting you do in front of society and family.  be for real.\n\nlive your life fully.  you only have one chance.  just make sure you don't hurt anyone else in the process...\n\nenjoy!
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Why the mentioning of the "fat" so what if you are fat. That shouldn't be the reason why you feel he pays attention to you? I think fat is georgoeus and find yourself some1 who aint hitched already. It just goes to show that you want to boost your moral, and besides, forbidden fruit is always the best.
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Aww don't worry about the negitive peeps post on here! Just isn't worth your time! TRust me! unless your having fun with it! \npeople on here are not in our shoes and i know i have had a few remarks where wtf but I guess i like to be the better person and not worry about it! some peeps think they have the understanding and somepeople only care about the points and others really do mean well but come off wrong!\nwith it only being text and not all off us are not creative writers it's really easy to miss understand people some times.. But then again there are peeps out there who just want to be mean.  But best of luck to you ! \nnot sure what your question was but  Google doctor sites they tend  to help!!!\nGood luck! :)
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I've had "better than sex cake."  I have to say, it's wildly overrated.  \n\nNot all sex is that great, but when it's in its proper relationship (marriage) and it's mutually satisfying - such that your very souls have connected, there is nothing better.
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Yes, you unwittingly broke a rule.  You just shouldn't comment on your date's choice, except to say, "that sounds delicious" or "great choice."  Your comment could be misconstrued as a criticism of her eating/health habits.  It's like saying, "I would eat that, but fried food is bad/fattening/disgusting and grilled food is far superior."  Thus, it's a little rejection of your date.
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Yes. i find that it is so hard to resist food, but if we each give each other moral support, it just might work! May i ask what diet you are on? or what you recomend? You may e-mail me at gavin_small2003@yahoo.com if you wish, its,up to you. Best wishes in keeping the self control(i'm trying to drink lots of water.
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Exactly. I am really dissapointed with these answers. Thet totally suck.\n\nYeah, so, lets suppose you have a fetish, and it's a Boob fetish. That means that you like boobs, and boobs turn you on. You like to hold, squeaze, fondle, and suck on boobs. So get married and do it to your wife's boobs. Otherwise, it would be forication.\n\n If you are into spanking, BSDM, latex, wax, needles, rape, roleplay, the same thing applies.\n\nI believe it is like this: you like ice cream. So you eat ice cream. But wait, I sorta also go in for, you know, other.....sweet foods. So you eat a piece of cake. Are you a perverted sinner who has, in your own damned sinfullness, twisted God's desire for you to enjoy ice cream, and gone off and turned to the sinfull pasions of cake.\n\nRight? Or no?\n\nIf all you do is bang sombody, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, in and out, it gets old. So spice it up. God wishes you to enjoy yourself.\n\nNow spank that monkey!
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Why would anyone choose a difficult life?  Especially when it would be so easy according to straight people to "choose to be straight."  If so, I have a question for them.  Why don't they CHOOSE TO BE GAY?  See all those emotions running through you straights right now?  That's how we feel.  We feel "how can we change, if we could, wouldn't we?  Same as straights who are asked to think gay."  They find it incomprehensible to think about men, as I do about women.  Its just not normal for me, sorry, does that sound like a choice or something I'm stuck with?  I cannot remember feeling anything other way from the age of 5 on up.  The men were always attractive the women were always the nice ones.  So, while it may be a choice for some, it was not for me.  The very idea that I could have CHOSE this life is laughable.
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It's not silly or dirty! Why judge something you've never participated in? It's called either bestiality or zoosexuality. The second one sounds better in my estimation... less derogatory. I don't know if there are stats on it, though. Why do you want to know about someone else's sex life, which you evidently don't agree with, anyway?