Also if you got your liscense just recently and you are in the age group, why did you wait to get it? Was it fear and what did you do to overcome those fears? Are there any moms who don't have their liscense yet? Do family members give you a hard time about it?
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I have two friends who don't drive (both are 24) and it is a constant burden to their parents and their friends. If you don't live in a city where bicycling or bus transit is easy, you have to drive and if you don't drive, your friends/relatives have to drive you and it is irritating to say the least.\n\nFor them it is great, they just get drunk and expect people to take them home. If you are planning on not getting a license then be ready to either pick up a boyfriend who is such a puppydog he'll pick you up and dop you off or some friends who don't mind being a doormat.\n\nAs for reasons, the one guy simply uses the excuse of "I'm not good at it" because he is either too afraid of driving or has it too cushy with us driving him around all the time.\n\nThe second guy...wait I think he does have a license but doesn't have a car. He lives about an hour away and is unable to hang out often because his mother must drive him and no one is willing to make the trip.\n\nLong story short, get your license or live in san francisco
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I was about that age when I got my braces (they were off after I was 18) a LOT of people are getting them even later in life than that. Anyway back to YOU having braces, I don't really think it will effect you socially, it didn't me. I wasn't the only one in my high school with braces on at high school, so I didn't feel out of place. I think if anything it made me more aware of brushing my teeth (the last thing I wanted to do was try and talk to this cute guy in English class with food stuck in my braces). I think if anything the retainers are worse than the braces they make you talk funny (BUT most of those can be worn only at night). While I hated my braces I knew they were good for me, and you know in the end it HASN'T been that long since I was in high school, I've already moved on and forgotten about them. They will be a BIG DEAL if you LET them be a big deal. And I hope you understand, your parents will make you get them regardless, so might as well grin and bare it! Best of luck!
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I think I would have been traumatized going in to watch my mom's pelvic...so I would say don't go THAT route!  I started at 9 years old and didn't have regular pelvics till I was 15...and only because I wanted to go on the pill.  So check with the dr...if she's not going on the pill and not sexually active, she may not even NEED to have one done yet!  If she does need to, do some kind of relaxing activity before hand...wether it be taking a walk, reading a book...whatever.  That will put her in a better frame of mind.  Most drs are really good with first time patients and walk them through it without too much trauma. :-)
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Some of the responses on here are nothing but a blatant display of ignorance.\n\nI am dealing with an 11 year old with similar issues and we are having a VERY hard time. It's been this way since he was very small. Early intervention is a good thing.\n\nOne thing I found very helpful when my son was about 8 was the book 1-2-3 Magic. It's a deceptively simple discipline plan and it really worked for a while for us. Not so much these days though. It's definitely worth checking out of the library. I did that and then went and bought myself a copy.
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first of all you should go see a mental health doctor. they can diagnos you if you do in deed have a.d.d. my son was diagnosed at 5 yr old and is now 11 years old . its nothing to be ashamed of.. no matter what people say...he took meds for almost 5 years and now does not . . he is a very senitive ,bright, energetic.creative and very smart.but he struggles every day.its nothing to be scared of its not a disease..it just means you have to focus and work harder . thats all. if you end up on meds and you feel drugged or doped -up  . tell your doctor because that means its not the right medicine for you.there are lots of meds on the market 1 of them is bound to work for you if you and your mom decide to go that route.. hope ive helped
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As a librarian I do not have time to stand around and "watch" what kids are doing on the computers!  We have parents sign permission slips for anyone under 16 and it states that we do not monitor nor do we block.  And we will look up to make sure that the parent has signed this sheet.  We also have a 20 minute time limit for everyone.  \n\nTry going to the library when kids are in school and you will most likely get on a computer with no problems
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Gerontophilia is something that I also suffer with. I am 40 years old and have had numerous questions surrounding my delemma. I have come to understand a few possible reasons why. My mother was nearly 40 when I was born. I had an elderly grandmother who I didn't know very well, but was European and busty and adorable. I have had a difficult time growing up because my parents were indifferent towards me as a teenager. One important factor in keeping me from suicide as a teen, was the prayers and approving smile of an elderly old maid at my church. Subsequently, during my sexual development, my "mother complex" became fused with my "fair young maiden" (Robert Johnson in "He"). There are many other factors that go into this. I don't know how old you are or where you are in your development. But look to God for all things and He will keep you from evil. My life is built on James 1:27, and I am a nurse by profession.
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I wonder how old is this child? if it were me and moms not doing so well I would try talking to the child and explain moms situation. The child may feel like shes losing her mom and doesn't understand how to cope. When I was a tennager I threatened my mom and she has someone come over from the juvenile court to "TALK" to me.... That scared the S!@# out of me and I didn't behave that way anymore.  as far as KY law you could always have someone you know that the child doesn't and have them lie to her and scare her.. At 13 My son thought he could get away with anything and I had a friend (who's in the military) come over in uniform with some phoney brouchers about military school... All BS I made them on my computer.... well it worked my son hasn't acted nasty in a long time that was over a year ago...Right or wrong you need to find a way that works for you because in the end your the adult and they can't forget that...
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I'm 40 and I have the same problem with some of my family.  Wish I had an answer for you.  Sometimes I get the feeling that the people in my life really don't think I can do anything right.  At least their actions say so.  I usually ignore their stupid remarks and go about things my own way.  If the remarks really get to me, I'll just plain tell them that I know what I'm doing.  Usually works too.
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I think parents just want what is best for their kids and tend to go overboard sometimes.  I thought my parents went on too much and I still do!  I'm 25 now with two children of my own and I still feel like a kid, lol.  Maybe they feel the need to be repetitive to get their point across. Hang in there and remember, you'll be an adult before you know it and wishing you were a kid again.  Just remember, they want only great things for you...
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I am the youngest of four, although 2 have since passed away. I was in a unique position because my parents were away from each other for many years. My oldest sister was 16 when I was born, my brother nearly 10, and my other sister almost 6. As a result, I didn't get to play with them as such, but they did become surrogate parents especially as my parents got older and less energetic. I was pretty well raised by them. My parents provided financial and physical support, but my siblings were the ones I went to with my problems. I don't think I grew up spoiled, I had to compete with nieces and nephews from an early age. As the youngest, the tables are turned now and my elderly parents need me. I still have the stamina I might not have had if I were older.
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I count my blessings! It's wonderful to make that kind of connection with people. My family does this often. We have a lot of non-family family members - I've always thought of it as a kind of adoption. It's really a great way to liven up any family gathering - it's nice to have all the family get together for Thanksgiving, but bringing newly 'adopted' family friends always spices things up. :)\n\nWhen I was your age, I had a couple families. My best friend's family was great - it was like having twice as many people care about me. At that age, it really helped me. 13's a rough age to be...so much is going on... I'm 25 now, and I still go visit my 'other' families. \n\nPeople used to say that it takes a village to raise a child. While you're not exactly a child, it's the same idea. The more people who care about you, the better. Don't worry too much - this is really a good thing.
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I hate to get shots to. When I found out that I was going to have my 6th grade shots, I freaked out. When I have to get any kind of shots, I think about different things. I don't think about the needle or the shot. So, just don't think about it. It will be over with before you know it.
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Me too! I'm 35 with 3 kids 12, 7 and 2.  but I don't feel like an adult most of the time. I tease my kids like an older sister I want them to have a good humor mom   best advice i can give is P L A Y   Play anything freeze tag takes me back and so does nighttime hiden seek  have fun make a mess Ask you older sib if they stole your "Heart" tape. or your Banarama tape.  if you have digital cable put on the 80's music channel.
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I don't think there is realy an age that is appropriate, because all people have different maturity levels at different times in their lives. I lost mine at the age of 16 and I'm 22. My boyfriend got my drunk and basically took advantage of me. Don't get me wrong, I could have said no, but I didn't. Today I wish I would have waited. Thinking about when my son gets older and if he ever asked mom, when did yo first have sex. Most parents would never hear that so I probably won't, but what if they were to ask? Although, I would never take it back because it got me where I am today, I've been happily married for two years with a gorgeous ten month old son. People make mistakes, but hopefully they learn from them. Society isn't the problem I don't think. i think the parents and schools need to start at a young age teaching values, because they are lacking somewhere.
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I am going to be 30 this month and I am often mistaken for my sons' sister or their babysitter. Recently, I got the nerve to cut my hair & I ended up with a more mature but sexy 'do. I've never liked short hair but now I love it. I've gotten many comments from people who have known me a long time that I look more mature and not like a young girl. I have also noticed that men my age and not as many teenagers are checking me out now. Try doing something different with your hair or maybe even with your wardrobe. If it doesn't work the way you want, just know that there is going to be a time when you'll wish to look young again but you won't be able to turn back time. We are ALL going to age. I wish you the best!
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What if you aren't bored with your parents?!! Then I'd worry.  (I am 51 and a parent of a 30 y/o, 28 y/o and 13 y/o.)  The older 2 aren't so bored with me now, they call for advice, etc.  But the 13 y/o thinks I'm boring, embarrassing, etc., and so did the older 2 when they were younger.