I care for her but the sex isn't doing it for me,,she is no good at oral and unwilling to learn...but I care for her..what do you do?
216485
Sex is reproduction, honestly males wont get as much pleasure from sex as females. There are three possible reasons that you  arent satisfied in the act of sex.\n\n1: You are bored with your mate.\n\n2: You were never into her in the first place.\n\n3: You are gay.\n\nThen again, if you are that picky in the first place. Honestly you already know this. You're a primal beast what needs pleasure sexually and loves trying out new things. You want to experience every form of sexual pleasure possible. If you dont get it, you become bored. Honestly, caring for someone and using someone is two different things because if you cared for her sex wouldnt matter. Affection is an useless emotion, humans fool themselves into thinking we are capable of feeling it.\n\nThe answer is yours to decide, because no matter what you hear you'll answer the question on your own.. when you are ready to accept the truth.
534955
This is an awful situation. \n\nYou lie there with an erection, emabarassed not knowing what to do.\n\nYou have to ask her if you can kiss her, and see what happens.\nIf she says no, then you have to ask yourself what the point of the whole exercise is.\n\nThere are a good number of women who don't like sex out there.
431869
i feel you man--but if shes making you happy than make her happy aswell. it might be nasty but do it for once in a while. this is what i did, make a deal with her, for every 5 times she gives you head, you eat her out
40719
the best way is to have her start off giving you oral sex until you cum  then start on her spend a lot of time kissing, fondling, just making her feel good  you'll be back up in no time and it will take longer for you to cum.  if she's not up to the oral sex, masterbate first   it gets the first one out of the way and you won't be as sensitive
55078
hmmm thats hard to say, maybe shes like a lot of women and doesnt really have a strong sex drive, or flat out just doesnt enjoy it.  I on the other hand could have sex on a daily basis.. well depending on wether or not there was compatability... good luck
32948
Well may be the sex was becoming a routine and she got tired of that.  MAy be she never really enjoyed it, u know! Aske her, talk to her about it. try and tell how you feel. Ask her what she likes about it. Try doing what u never did before , that  is during the sex session. But you should try talking to her about. I wouldn't want to sujest Cheating, even though that can be an option. Talk to her.
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Always treat her as an equal and talk to her as a friend. Don't make it sound as if you think she is not able to take care of herself or her judgements aren't good enough. Give her some time and don't stay on her back constantly. Learn to respect her more and listen to her more, then maybe she'll listen to you.\n\nBy the way it's cute you're being such a good brother.
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Okay, she doesn't love you.  If she did she'd be able to say it.  She'd also be willing to leave her primary relationship.  You appear to be merely a plaything on the side.  She probably is getting a major ego boost out of you being her puppy-dog.  If you're willing to be second-best then by all means continue the sex part of the relationship but don't expect her to tell you she loves you anytime soon.
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maybe its time for you to move on then! or maybe she has had enough of your dick and getting a fresh and better on from someone else!\n\nNo offence, anything can happen and you need to talk to her than puting such a question here. Cheers!
101394
Men and women often view sex differently. Men focus on the physical while most women focus on the emotional aspects, especially if they haven't "slept around". If you want to do the right thing ask her what you can do differently. What does she need to satisfy her intimacy needs. Try concentrating on her MIND and not her body. Our brain is the largest sex organ we possess... USE it. Tune in to what she needs and give it to her. Showing her you desire more than just her body will go a long way.
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Do not treat the clit like a d*ck.\n\nStart out slow and soft.\n\nDO not lick her butt hole.\n\nAsk her what feels good.\n\nNotice how she is acting..her breathing, her noises, how her body is reacting.\n\nDo not stick your hand/fist up anything.\n\nTry doing different letters of the alphabet with your tongue on her clit.  Take note as to which ones she seems to respond favorably to.\n\nIf she says something like "Please don't stop"  that means just that.  Don't speed up or slow down or do it faster or slower.\n\nIf she is all giggly after wards, you probably succeeded:)
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Well if she is preggers, sex in the first trimester is kinda icky, to say the least at least it was for me and some other women ive talked to, if she thinks its lacking passion, maybe thats because she has it in her head shes not making love to you anymore shes making a baby with you, maybe thats how your treating it lately, Tell her if she wants passion,youll give her passion... make love to her like you did when you were first together, rediscover every inch of her body, remember that now you probably know how to get her from 0 to 60 in 5 minutes, take your time like you used to, get her to the point where shes close, and start to do something else, tease her with the idea of getting off, dont just hand a orgasum to her on a silver platter, think **here it is but you cant have it** trust me when my better half gets this attitude OMG its MINDBLOWING when he finally lets me have it ;) i hope that helps i know it works when this mentality gets used on me hehe :P
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Keep at it...actually, she is trying too hard and needs to relax.\nGet her to give you guidance...have her tell you things like "just like that"  when you're doing what she wants. \nIt's not unusual that she could take a long time ... but she enjoys it the whole time. So don't just concentrate on the climax ... it's ALL good.
319472
Probably nothing more than what appears is going on.  She's having a very rough time at work and needs your support, not you whining about not getting sex.  Comfort her, and when her work finally slacks off, she will be much more appreciative of your patience than your impatience.
19673
talk to her what you can you do to make her feel good while doing love making.make sure its making love not sex . I hope you do know the differents
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It's probally just a phase, maybe she's overwhelmed with other things right now.  Try going back to the basics and romance her like you did in the beginning I bet she'll go crazy! Oh my situation is kinda similar....try with holding sex from her for awhile but you have to act completly uninterested and I bet you will see a tiger come out possible more so than when you first met!! Good Luck
604483
Maybe she just honestly doesnt like the feel of your fingers in her. Relax and please her any other way she will allow you to.