i dont like when my husband touches me. but i love when vikky touch me.he cares a lot for me. i am mad about him.
202529
in a bit of a pickle, aye?
164817
I feel your pain, my husband thinks of sleeping as the greatest hobby. But over the years, I have just come to accept that it is one of his qwirks, and even though it bugs me, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love me, it just means he likes to sleep.
109676
I would confront him but dont be angry about it at first, because he could have a reason. My boyfriend had the same issue , but once i found out the reasons it became okay, talk to your boyfriend calmly , he will react better and might not get so defensive. i would have him delete her from his list so that he couldnt talk to her, that way you and him would feel better. Explain to him it makes you unhappy and that you have insecurities about begin left and that you are worried that you are not making him happy , and he wants what he had. He should then feel sad and will want to cuddle you and then try to be emotional that way he knows you do care about the two of you begin together. Good Luck
514914
i totally agree....i have this guy friend...that when i first met him...started flirting with me...we got a little closer....made out a couple times and i really like him...then he goes and says that he doesnt want a relationship and that he is just cuddly with his friends....it kind of pissed me off...especially because i liked him....we are still good friends tho.
541914
yeah...myhusband nags more than i do, and im the woman!  he gets mad about EVERYTHING.  helping me with the garbage, with dishes, cleaning, always looking over my shoulder and asking my why im doing what im doing and getting mad because i tell hi to leave me the hell alone or dont answer.   whats up with it?!
228398
This is so funny! So refreshing to hear of another hubby with a sense of humor. Did it work? \n\nThank your lucky stars you don't have me! I was upset at my hubby years ago when he wanted me to rub his back with Icy Hot. I lovingly did that for him even though I was mad at him at the time right before bedtime. We went to bed and I spooned behind him gently and lovingly cupping his "jewels" in my hand as I always had. The only difference was that I hadn't washed my hands. I know I'll probably get raked over the coals from you guys out there but it WAS funny. He was "dancing in the sheets". Get it? He forgave me though as I did him for what he'd done.
589460
Ew...I think he's just a big cheese. Who really says things like that without underlying meanings? He's probably just trying to get laid. And I agree with the lady who posted first, I am kind of offended that that is how he described the work we do. My marriage is more like a  partnership where we share all of the responsibilities whether it be child-rearing, house-cleaning, or working. I don't like being described as someone whp has the dinner on the table by five o'clock and has the kids bathed so my husband doesn't have to do a thing to help. That's just ridiculous.
220390
my husband & i have try to have fun in everthing that we do. we watch movie together, we chat through YM even if we are together in the bedroom, eating, bathing, whatever! as long as we are both in the mood, then everything is fun!   = )
604505
Oh my goodness! I was JUST like you with the Touchy Feely. I wasn't that at all when I started to date my boyfriend because I've never been used to that emotional display. I was so used to hangin' out w/the boyz that it just rubbed off on me. I'm used to it now because it's just his way of showing me how he feels. But don't let him get too "Fresh"
259154
apparently you do not really love him if you feel like leaving him. why test him don't you think that is a childish game you are playing with him and he doesn't even know the plan. you do not toy with a mans affection in that way. would you like it done to you? of course not.
625678
My husband and I talk a lot during. Sometimes it's just a matter of telling the other what we want at the moment and other times it can get a bit dirty...LOL...It just has to do with the moment and what we are feeling.
81816
I am married.  I love him and still lust him, with all my heart.  He turns me on both mentally and physically and he makes me feel like I am special in his life too by doing things for me all the time.  He's kind, gentle, honest and hard working.  He makes me laugh, he loves me unconditionally ... my heart still skips a beat when I think of him :) ... just talking about him here, makes me smile and realize how lucky I am to have my soul mate with me!!
102433
I understand your feelings.  Talk to Hubby about it.  Make him understand how it makes you feel.  He should be willing to help with your feeligns.  Some compromise is in order.  Because of the kids, they inlaws will be a part of your life, but how much a part is something you two can discuss.  Sounds to me like he can give a little, and you can as well.  Good luck!
324287
Dont beat yourself up. You told him not to continue with the sexual comments. You didnt meet him. \nWere you looking for friendship or were you looking for an extramarital relationship when you started speaking to him?\n\nThe problem lies more in your relationship with your husband, rather than how some guy you never met made you feel. \n\nWe all have a need to be loved, feel wanted, and ofcourse physical needs. Wanting to feel wanted is human nature, not a weakness of character. Lack of that feeling can make us feel depressed. \n\nI suggest you work on your relationship with your husband. Even if it doesnt work out in the long run, you'll be free to date and wont feel like you do right now.
247264
Not normal to me and I've been with my husband for almost 20 years. To each their own though. I have a friend that only has sex when she wants to have a baby and thinks that this is the only time they need to have any intimate contact. Funny world sometimes.
336249
You are what you are and if he truly loves you, he will definitely respect your feelings. Dont do anything that you feel uncomfortable with now... make things clear now- its better than repenting later. Understanding, mutual respect and honesty are the very basics of any relationship. If he cant compromise and make adjustments now, it doesnt bode well for the future too, does it? So speak out whats in your mind- let him know how you feel. Explain to him that you come from a conservative background and that you dont feel comfortable with the relationship getting physical so soon. DONT DO ANYTHING THAT U FEEL IS NOT RIGHT!
103437
U are in love with ur husband..  I know how u feel..  Believe me you are needing him more and it is not obession.  U love your husband and u miss him very much when he is not around you when u need his attention .. WIth other men ,  they gave you attentions because u are enjoying it very much.. Same with my fiance, he works and works. we see eachother less than we were before. I know hes working hard to save money for the wedding . I dont want to sound so selfish but i had good times being out with men for fun.. NOTHING SERIOUS.. but when i think of him. i wish he was with me to give me a long kisss which would mean anything to me. But in ur sitaution u are little lonely and needs his attention ..so, u are pretty normal ..\n My fiance is getting better to spend times with me more now than he was. but it takes time to make him realize how lonely i was without him because i am in love with him soo much. He knows how much i am needing him . SO i can feel where ur situation is at ths moment .. Just think positive and STAY in faith to ur husband ..Maybe u can have a nice talk to explain ur feelings for him to be aware of ..  So dont be tired of him .. just be happy that u have a husband to love you and take care .. than u go for an affair which will be an ugly mess to suffer through for nothing ..  STAY IN FAITH!