How did you have sex the first time?
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In a bathroom. I'm such a s.l.u.t. LOL I was 15 and my best friend's brother and I were hanging out watching TV. Dragonball Z to be exact. He was also 15. All of a sudden, we started kissing and since there was no empty bedrooms available, we did it in the bathroom. Not the best time but we've laughed about it since.
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No you don't need to know sex moves for your first time, it will hurt too much, wait a while before experimenting any moves.
615477
Have you tried sex???!!!
447204
the first time my husband and I had sex (while we were dating) it was great!!  I was experienced but never knew sex could be mind blowing.  It still rocks.
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If you're asking about having sex for the first time, it's not now.  You shouldn't have to ask.  If you have any doubts, you're not ready.  Don't let him tell you otherwise- trust me.  I listened to my bf, and I was depressed for four years.  Take care of yourself.  He can take care of himself if you say "no".
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I will tell you this much, make sure you know for sure you are ready.  If it's your first time, there is a LOT to think about in terms of consequences.  For example, are you ready to handle a kid?  Does your bf have STDs you don't know about?  Would you spend the rest of your life with this guy?  Have you talked about having sex with him?  Is he ready for the consequences?  What would happen if you DID get pregnant?  BC and condoms are somewhat trustworthy, however, I'd hate to be in that like 2% of cases where they don't work without knowing what would happen to my relationship.\n\nAnd yes, relationships CAN survive without sex.  My husband and I were virgins the day we were married, and it was so worth it.  To know that he was the only guy and I was his only girl makes it 10X more special.  There are other things you can do without actually having sex, and really, if you are close enough as a couple you don't have to have sex to have a "next level"
200662
I know people older than you that never got laid. Why rush. There can only be a first time once. What you have is priceless and you can never go back. Don't throw your treasure away, it's so much better to share it with someone special.
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If it is the first time for both of you to have sex, may I suggest taking things slow.  Especially if it is her first.  Alot of my friends didn't care much for sex at first because their first partner's were too rough and not the most considerate.   And I think any lady out there would also suggest taking things slow.  It's not a race.  Enjoy yourself and for god's sake use a condom.  Communication is good too, make sure you are both cool with whats going on.  \n\nMy first time I remember it feeling like my head was a blur and I was a bit dizzy, but It was a good feeling.
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First kiss\nFirst time \nFirst love
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If you're not completely sure, you're not ready.  wait until you are, despite what many a person would have you believe, sex is very special , especially your first time and you want to be able to remember it fondly, not regret it.
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Oh honey, was it your first time? Remain calm and breathe. You had sex with a boy you love. That isn't so bad. Maby you weren't ready, but it'll be all right. I wasn't ready my first time either. I cried to and felt like a, well you know what. The fact that it was unprotected sex complicates things, go to Planned Parenthood and take The Morning After Pill, it prevents you from getting pregnant, also talk to the doctor there about getting tested for stds. Do not worry about your parents finding out, Planned Parenthood can not disclose your info to your parents. Also do not worry about money, Planned Parenthood will help you for free. It's going to be ok sweetie, if you need anything, even just someone to talk to email me.
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kissing my first boyfriend for the first time
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Unless it's traumatic, your first sexual experience is highly significant - whether you are a man or a woman.\n\nYour first love is also highly significant.  Even if there was no sex involved.
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If you're worried, don't have sex the first time you see him. And if he sticks around, and you're ready to have sex (along with any consequences [such as pregnancy, STDs, etc] of sex) then do it when YOU feel ready, don't rush into anything or you will regret it.\n\nGood luck and take care.
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First-time sex shouldn't be painful, provided you are with someone you love and you feel completely relaxed with. You have to be completely ready for sex and totally comfortable with the idea. There should also be lots of foreplay to make sure you are well-lubricated. Provided all this is true, you shouldn't experience any pain.\n\nHowever, if a girl feels unsure about having sex, or unsure about the person she's having it with, her vaginal muscles will tense up, which can cause a lot of pain. This is true of any sex, not just first-time sex.\n\nBe safe, have fun.
305752
when the time is right and you meet the right person who wants to do it. *winks* I have a friend who loves being the first with a virgin.
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Your FIRST time??  You will last about 30 seconds or around a dozen thrusts.  You are in for something entirely different in your life.  Nothing like it.   The time will get longer tho.  You stay until she tells you "ok, I'm good"......but, of course you will know when that time comes.   Good luck.  Pops\n\nONE LAST TIDBIT:  While you are losing your virginity, just make SURE that you don't bring something home that you can't wash off, like AIDS, Syphilis, Clap and a host of other STDs.  They are out there and they are rampant!!!!   Pops