recently i moved schools cause i got in 2fghts at my last and i was naughty. so i moved schools for a fresh start to an ALL GILS SCHOOL and iv turned naughtyery than b4 nd this skool is posher bt also i started having feelings 4 a girl there and i told her bst m8. her bst m8 told me to tell her so i did. now they all ahte me i luv her i self harmed cause they were all mean to me i luv her sooooooooo much tho i got really upset. I DONT WANA B GAY. not that theres anyfin rong wiv them its just iv lost them cuase o this and iv rewend mi life so please how could i get her bk everytime i go nar her she runs away. on msn she sed she ran off cause she fought i was gunna start feeling her i onli wanted 2 say i saw sorry 4 the way i luv her. what can i do ?
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Main thing is not to stress honey. Slip a card into her desk explaining things, tell her life is far too short to be making enemies at your ages. Let her know that you want to wipe the slate and make like you are encountering her for the first time. At least if you can start by just saying Hi! & Bye! it's a start. I will say this though. NEVER be ashamed for the way you feel.Ever. I think you are just desperate to be liked. It's human nature. You need to be part of the crowd so to speak. Don't ever tell yourself your bad. Its usually our surrounding circumstances that dictate the way we act.  You will get ther honey. I have faith in you.
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wow I'm just surprise , that you think your self so little. why are you in a competing with your friend, why do you feel like you have be , better than her . you not going to like this but i dint think the girl is the problem , i think the problem is you , not feeling confident in your self to know that you have a great personality, an even if the girl is around you still stand out no matter what trick she tries. so  you need to work on yourself , an dint worrier about what the other girl is doing, because she doing what she likes , now what are you going to do. be yourself an know who you are, an if you friends take her an disc you it just mean there not your true Friend
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not all girls feel that way get to know her better and see if she's feeling you and always be yourself don't change for anybody maybe thats the reason why she started talkin to you just make sure she;s not playin games with you but fellow your heart and remember always be youself
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Talk to parents.  I know it's hard but try to ignore her by not being around her.  Sounds like she is very unhappy and becoming a bully.  Try to talk to her about how you feel too, but definitely let parents know of her abuse.
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Get over it a girl is not worth fighting for. Question for you are you in high school? If so study get ready for the real world it is nothing like high school you need to be ready. Then if the guy got another guy to fight you for him than you should tell the other guy it is over and that you don't need the problems anymore.\n\nHave a nice day
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this will pass so please don't hurt yourself,the same thing happen to my friend her ex best friend turn everybody against her,tell your mom whats going on make her change your school because its really no point being in there no more,my friend changed and she doing really good know she didn't know nobody and they all like her,if theirs anything else here's my e mail sheilalicious197,hope it helps
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Quick Fix/ Do you love her? YES.   Have you been hurt in the past? YES.  Who cares my friend. You are franklly just scared.  Moments of intimacy cover it up sometimes and that is why you feel happy.  Let go of this fear. This girl you have in front of you is going to make you very happy.  Let go of your past, and live.  Otherwise, the next question you are going to be asking us is" How do I get her back?"
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you've already done it to your friend, so i think that you should be thinking of ways to apologize to her, before the whole school finds out, which they will because it's h.s.\nand before you lose your so called friend.
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if this really bothers u, transfer her to the other school.  u cant really blame the principal for bullies but if she didnt do anything about it then u can report her to the department fo education.  but u can always try to talking to her again.
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why are you afraid to tell her that you dont like her behavior? I was in your situation when I was in collage and this girl was always chasing me! she wanted to be where I was because i was with my handsome and popular friends all the time (what could i do if they were my classmates!) anyway, one day I was just not in the mood to deal with her and I said: you know what, you have very good qualities but IT BOTHERS ME that you are with me because you want to hang out with my friends. Soooo.... stop being so obvious and let me have fun with them!  so, she got my point. she never spoke to me again (and my friends were happy for that too). it was sad because after all she was a good girl but A REAL PAIN IN THE BUTT!
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It sounds like you really care about her.  However, she's going to do whatever she wants to do no matter what anyone says to her.  All that will happen is she will distance herself even more.  As I'm sure you realize, that's not a healthy thing to do.  Especially being so young and experiencing lots of 'firsts'.\n\nI would think that the best thing to do is just remind her that you're still around.  Even just saying 'Hey' in the hallway between classes can make all the difference in the world.  When the inevitable (that you believe will happen) happens, chances are, she'll remember that you were at least willing to give her the time of day when she was with this guy when everyone else gave up on her.  Empathize with her (I'm sure you've probably had your share of heartbreaks too), let her know that it's not the end of the world.\n\nI know that this is all easier said than done.  True friendships are built on solid ground.  In this instance, patience really is a virtue.  I'm not saying to spend all of your time waiting around for her to call you, by all means, continue living your life and going to school.  But like I said, just remind her that YOU are still willing to be her friend when she's ready.\n\nGood luck and I hope this helps!!!
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Walk away, unless you feel the female students are in danger.  N thrive on sucking people into their web, and it is no surprise this person is in a position to receive admiration from those who are not his equal.  The trick of the N is to make you feel like you should care, either through them being a victim or being great.  Don't fall for it.  Ultimately, when you are no longer of use in their world of garnering the emotional attention they can't get openly, they will tell you what is wrong with you, and why they can't communicate with you any longer.  It's a long road of anguish.  Why bother?  If you believe he is really a danger to his female students, there are ways to bring this to someone's attention, but make sure you have proof, and not just vague guesses.
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Talk to her about it. Tell her that it is coming between the you and her. Tell her you feel that when she flirts with other boys, it is like betraying you. Tell her how much she means to you and ask her why she does it. Does she feel like their is something lacking in the relationship? Work on it.\n\nSometimes, girls are just like that. There's nothing you can do if talking to her doesn't work. If she knows your feelings about her flirting with other guys, and she doesn't try and change for you, maybe you should consider splitting up with her. Find a girl that wants to give all her romantic attention to you and only you. You can't change her. Only she can do that.
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"A girl is being bullied by my best mate..."  By "best mate" I assume you mean your boyfriend.  Is he picking on someone weaker and more sensitive than he?  If so, what does that say about his character?  Is the girl a belligerant bully herself and he's trying to put her in his place?  If so, do you have an attraction to bullies, male or female?\n\nThe issues here are 1) your right to choose your own friends; 2) being considerate of people's feelings.\n\nDo you genuinely like this girl for herself?  Do you feel a motherly or sisterly need to protect her?  Are you trying to redeem her or change her or help her grow up or cope?\n\nThink about this.  You might talk to your "best mate" and tell him that you retain the right to choose your own friends, but you want to know if he has genuine concerns about this girl and if she is safe for you.  If he's making fun of her purely for his own enjoyment, tell him you don't like such behavior and you want him to stop.  If he won't stop, forget him and dump him.  The boy who bullies others will also bully you.\n\nIf you decide you want to pursue a friendship with this girl--and if she is a safe person--I suppose you know what to do: talk to her in the hallway, join her in the cafeteria, call her on the phone, and all that. If she responds well to you, wonderful!  \n\nWhatever you decide, keep developing your backbone and your heart and your brain, and I hope you have good friends and good mates!\n\nP.S.  If your "best mate" is your best female friend, my advice is basically the same--although I would have a tiny bit of sympathy for your "best mate's" jealousy.  But don't let her jealousy rule you.\n\nRead the book "Blubber" by Judy Blume.
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Sorry to hear you're losing some cool friends. By the way have you found out why you're losing them? They should give you a reason for leaving you and if there's nothing you can do about it forget them and look for new friends. This new girl can't take your friends away without their consent. Have you tried being in their company without success? Try and make this new girl your friend as well and see how things works out. Good luck.....
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Move on. There are lots of girls out there and at least you figured out that she didn't like you before majorly embarrassing yourself, so look at the bright side.
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It was insensitive for her to say that. Going off to college is a huge step and its understandable to have feelings of worry and loss as it is. Adding additional emotions during such a time is hurtful, but forigveable. Talk to her and let her know how hurtful you found the comment. Apologizing and getting feelings across is essential (she'll be around a long time mind you) and it may help her to realize why you took action the way you did.