We live somewhat far apart, like we don't see each other that often.  But he doesn't know I like him though, he just thinks we're really good friends.  It's like, he's like my twin in personality.  We have the same taste of music, parents, and hobbies.  Sometimes we would do something the same and we don't know that we're both doing it at that time.\nwhat shall i do?
202242
Just be honest with him.  Tell him that you love him.  Of course, you do have to brace yourself just in case he rejects you by not wanting to take your friendship to the next level, but that's better then where you're at now, sexually frustrated because you love someone but they don't love you in the same way.
591756
I think u just like him?\n\nforget the past & look forward..\n\nGOOD LUCK
232294
You don't say if you are romantic, or merely friends.\n\nIf you are merely friends, and you are in a long distance friendship - and if your hubby knows about this man, then what the heck?\n\nIf this friendship works for you both, by all means, enjoy it...life is too short to worry about what others think.\n\nEnjoy!
19819
Well you can do alot of different things, but one thing no matter what remain a friend to him. I had the biggest crush on this guy I knew for (now) 9 yrs and just 2 yrs ago he finally asked me out and things are great between us. We now have a set of twins and are planning a wedding. follow your heart and talk to him about it.
128841
Keen as you both may be I think you are both nervous about putting yourself out there... it is scary to say how you feel with no guarantee about how the other feels, and he may be feeling the same.\n\nI would say try not to rush it... try to find things that you can do together as friends... things that include groups of others... then a few others... then a couple of others.\n\nYou dont have to tell someone that you like them... they say actions speak louder than words!\nSo smile at him a lot, send him a cute card when you get a chance, buy him a small easter egg, if he likes a particular group then look up info about them online and learn a bit about them so you can share his enthusiasm...\nit is the little things that make the biggest impact.\n\nOnce both of you are comfortable together... and you are both fairly confident of each others feelings towards each other, nature will probably take over.\n\nGood luck!
432252
OMG!!!! i am in your shoes in the current moment!!! My guy friend of four years lives in Seattle, but is working out here in California. I so like him, but he only admires me as a friend, he loves to hang out with me, even get advise from me!!! what sucks is tht i recently told him tht i liked him & i feel weird & he's his normal self. i think tht a friend is unconditional, but we are trying to put conditions. i just think tht we have to hang in there & hope tht someone will admire us as, we admire them. sooner or later it will come!!!! Sometimes we as humans want to control, when, where & time. We just need to realize tht the time will come. We kinda have to open ourselves to the world & understand tht our love is One sided. Until then we are just hurting ourselves. they r nt the ones causing pain, we r!!!!! Be strong & hang in there. Somedays are harder than ours. But our time will come. Good Luck!!!!!
239676
i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
657376
Join the club! You and I are in like the exact same predicament. Anyways, um, if you two are good friends, then you should just tell him that you like him. There's a chance he'll like you too. God, if only I could follow my own advice...\n\nI know what you're thinking, it's much easier said than done. But that's my best advice. And to tell you the truth, that's what most people in here are going to tell you to do. Sorry if I wasn't very helpful. Good luck!
234152
Why don't you just be friends with him in the time being, since he seems to want that and see if it'll blossom to something more in the future.  If he really likes you, after spending more and more time with you, he'll want more than just friendship.  If he doens't, then he really doesn't like you like he says.  good luck.
135574
it sounds like you guys have a basis for a great relationship. It sounds like you guys genuinely enjoy each others company, so you know what I thinK? I think that yeah, follow your heart. Its obvious you are digging this guy and he is probably digging you so go for it!
570420
well Esha, I think he is your neighbour, you can talk to him, not on this topic but may be on sum other. Wenever he looks at U, just giv him a sweet smile..........but hey, am not sure he relly likes U or he's passing time. How can he love or like U wen he has never talked to u or he does'nt know U.
223108
You must be such a sweet girl and he seems one of your  good friends with you.\n\nPlease be natural, because he likes you the way you are, and I hope that your friendship between you and he will last from now on. \n\nPlease take your time and enjoy your life, being healthy and happy with him and with your good friends around you!  \n\nGood luck!
49551
tell him you are flattered but you dont feel the same way, as you barely know anything about him, but you would like to remain friends.\n\nBe nice but firm.
74790
maybe he has never imagined being more than friends, i think it happened to me, this girl kept talking to me and i didn't even imagine her liking me, but i didnt notice until recently that she might like me because she kept showing signs of it. but i never even noticed.  Try a little harder. Try talking directly to him.  Get comfortable talking to each other and tell him how you feel.  If you are too shy write a letter and give it to him when hes alone or have a friend do it.
364169
I guess he did realise that it would not be right to do something that both of you would regret later. I think he likes you more then he lets on and would like to get to know you better before taking things to another level. There is no problem to see and meet each other as both of you know that nothing happened and it has not affected your friendship.
286542
I think you have some feelings for him your self. I mean it's obvious that you like him, cause if you didn't you wouldn't be asking. You'd deny it now, but sooner or later, you'll stop living in denial and accept that you like him as well. \n\nWell the odds to this is most likely a yes. But he could only want you as a friend. I mean no one will really know the truth. Only he will know. But for now, if I were you just keep this friend ship between him and yourself close. Cause if you do like him as well, you'll know that he will always be there for you. So don't ruin this relationship. You might not know what you really have, when you have it, and when you don't have it, you'll want it back. Trust me, I've been in this same situation. You might not approve, but it'll happen.
445430
Sounds like you guys have a great friendship going on.  Just keep up the good friendship and if you want to take it to the next level and you don't know if he does or not, then you are going to have to find out.  When you think the time is right, talk with him and ask him if he could ever see you two together?  Make sure after you ask that you get a serious answer.  After that you will know if the time is right for a relationship and if he is ready or not.  He may like you but not be ready, so it's your call when and if you want to pursue it further.