ok. i go with someone but i really like someone else deep down i want to be with that other person bc we both like each other. who should i go with? the guy i go with now or the guy that i really like alot?!?
213969
Stop being with the guy you don't like as much, it is bad for everyone, I am sure he feels it too. Just let him down gently, and then start up with the guy you really like. But Don't do anything until your current relationship is over, start this new one the right way.
264263
Who is it that you really want to be with!?  I was in the same situation, but i stayed with the guy that i was longer with because i knew how he was and i didn't really know the new guy and how his personality really was since i wasn't with him for long
383953
Go out with the guy that is going to ask you. Now, deal with this other guy you like more. Just hang out with him and talk to him. If you find that he likes you and you like him then let this other guy understand that you have feelings for someone else. If you were to continue dating him then you would just be on a guilt trip and that is no fun.
560073
will what i would do is go out with the girl or in your case the guy you have more feelings for b/c but i would go out with iono thats a good question but i would talk to both and then figure out which one i would go and then maybe theyll make me happy and if they dont then thats a mistake i made and thats what i call chances just rember which one you know better the closest frined will long more then a boi you just meet follow your heart not your head iight anymore questions holla at me at babyboychris32@yahoo.com iight duces my frds call me babyboy so yuh holla
508264
welllll i dk  really i mean ur in one big predicament.umm i mena its really up to u i mean go with the one who u feel like you would be more happy with and u like more
140196
Go for someone really cherish u more. I had these experience with me too. Yes, is very natural for u to do a compare. But once a friend did told me, is not fair to do a compare like that, caused they are both different person. I finally understand and moved on. Now I am happy then before. Is not easy. But you must try. Take care.
272201
Okay, honey. If he really loves you, he'd choose you over the other guy. If being with him, and knowing he has someone else makes you feel that way, then he is not worth it. If it is meant to be, then it will, but BOTH of you have to want it to be. He has made it obvious that you are not priority one in his world. You seem like a lovely boy, I'm sure you can find someone just as loving and devoted as you are! Take my advice as a fruit-fly who has seen many gay relationships fall out. He. is not. worth it. Leave him, and if he wants you as badly as he says, he'll come running back and make you his only. Otherwise, you're better off without him.
571335
I think you should go with the guy who is closest to you because most likely the other guy is laid up with some chick and not thinking about you. Boys can manipulate you into wanting you and then drop you like a hot potatoe. Don't take my advice just follow your heart.
108916
Ok if i was you in this situation except it would be a guy,  I would ask him out, and try to get to know him a little better. Then maybe if he had fun we would go out again.  Who gives a crap if she's spending time with this other guy.  Maybe they are just friends!
245566
I have been in the same situation 4 months ago.I went with my ex's friend.Let me tell you that did'nt work out!!!You will always have to see yor ex,and when he moves on to another girl,well that is just unbaerable.Find someone new and exiting.OUT WITH THE OLD AND IN WITH THE NEW!!!
359864
Okay, here's the thing, i may not be a professional relationship advisor or something but for you to try to stop liking someone is just inane. Feelings aren't there for you to just ignore. Admit that you still like the guy even though he has someone else already. And it's not like they are married or anything, right? Oh... please... do not mistaken my last sentence for something like trying to destroy their relationship. DON"T! All i am saying is that, it is normal for you to still like the guy. I mean, if he's really that charming or likeable like what you think, sure. However, ask yourself, do you know what kind of guy he really is? You see, people tend to like other people because they like the idea of actually having someone to adore because so far all you've seen him is be charming. You must consider other factors and possibilities. At this point, try looking for things about him (directly -since you mentioned you are coworkers [you can be a friend to him and not flirt] or indirectly - from other people who knows him well more than you do) Curiosity doesn't always kills a cat, you know. Asking is better for you to find out if he is worth your attention or not. Instead of actually falling for this guy (you did mention that it is just a crush, right?) but after a day or two, that's the only time you'd find out she has more than one current girlfriend.
76483
Which one of them do you have more FUN with? That's how I'd choose! It really depends on what sort of outcome you're looking for, though. \nIf you are looking to be mutually exclusive, you might want to think about it a little more discriminantly- get to know this new guy and his history more thoroughly- then make your decision.\nI obviously don't know you, but sometimes you can tell a lot about someone's feelings about others, simply by looking at the word choice in their question-- yours indicates that, although the 6 years guy is "great", he might be safe & boring, to you. The way you've presented it, it sounds like you are looking to experience something new...
463607
go with your heart, it sounds like the second one has more of the same life style as you do, go for him.
155503
Ok well first of all I wouldn't want to be anyone's sloppy seconds so I would ditch your current guy thats crazy.And second of all if the other guy loves you and you love him and you're the oonly one he loves go 4 it!
13230
If it was ME I would go with the new guy.  I mean look at how you phrased it "your ex or a boy you like".  You have your whole life for long-term relationships.  If one didn't work out move on and have some fun.  Think about what you want.
63519
Are you trying to decide between two guys or is it just one?  If it's a choice then go for the one that you like.  Most of all don't worry too much about it and don't be too serious you are young and have an entire lifetime of boys liking you. : )
666550
get over the other guy and go out with the next and the next.....have fun......the other guy missed out or maybe you did not put out....or maybe you did to quick......either way forget him....talk to the other guy to see what he is about....you might just like it