Why would you ask us if we know if you are going to continue or not continue with the relationship that you are in? How the hec do we know your future.
214691
i get your point but maybe some people just want an outsider's opinion on things...\nPersonally, I would never ask those sort of things on here seriously because I feel that they wouldnt know my situation because they are not me
120554
You continue to remain optimistic, because you already were, and you are still are.\n\nIt also depends on the context of the statement.  What are you referring to and what is the next line.  Lets hear it!
593231
Well its obvious that he's interested in taking your relationship further if you didnt know it.   Many times, people are scared to say the things that you are brave enough to admit.
480119
The idea, in hindsight, appears logical and the answer seems clear.  Anyone would likely say "Just wait" if they could be assured that her love would be waiting for him after that time.  But the real issue here is this:  Would you have still felt the same?  What if you'd waited for her and, in so doing, denied yourself the chance to find love with someone who was ready?  We cannot know the future.  All we can do is live each day the best way we can and enjoy every bit of happiness that we are lucky enough to find.
57005
did you marry the same guy?  It could mean that you want some more romance or something in your relationship.  What do you think it means? that is proabalby the most importatn question
600359
Well,if you know the answer why do you ask.
252807
you are the only one that can answer that. how do you feel about each other and do you trust,and have faith in your relationship to go on with    what is ahead of you.and you love each other
140505
I'm in the middle. You do have to think about your future and your goals. But then he is your love. If you say that you know your gonna end up with each other, then don't worry, things will work out at the end for both of you. Plus, if  you say he loves you then he'll want you to be happy no matter what decision you choose.
285200
i don't understand why he'd tell you something like that after all that you've been through! i think you should ask him yourself what he means by that because it's only either he means something else or he really did not understand how much you've been through already
255556
For me, a little bit of both answers...you ask him if he has any of those to his knowledge, if he says yes, you have to change the type of relationship between both of you, says no, you ask him to have a checkup.\n\nBut I think he would like to know no matter the truth, he may count on you. Assure him you won't run away no matter what he tells you.
250520
Because It gives us the opprotunity to assess any potential opprotunity that you may become.  Its almost like giving you an obvious hint.  Tell the truth.  It matters.
233015
that really is up to him only he knows how he really feels about this girl.\n\nor he probably wants to know if you approve and that could mean something else.
217011
Yeah, he's pretty much giving you a clue where you'll stand in his life.  For his benifit.\nTake it or leave it...
416106
While we like to believe the our friends have the best intentions when telling us something that someone else said about us or our relationship, they don't always get it right.  It sounds like this is the case.  He said, "not at the moment" - he didn't rule it out forever, just not right now.  You have to ask yourself if this person is worth waiting for, if the relationship is worth working for.  Something I have discovered is that when people break up there is usually a reason, and unless that reason is resolved completely, it is only a matter of time, if they get back together, that they break up again.\n\nBottom line here - if you believe him, does it really matter what anyone else says or thinks?
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By the sound of it, I think he is confused. He is asking you these questions to see if you still love or care about him. The same goes for when he hugs another girl he is probably thinking of you. Not saying anything to get your hopes up or down. But he probably compares your hugs and kisses to other/s.
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"I don't know"...only means, that they are not sure at this point. "Chill"! Sounds like you have a smart suitor. They are taking the steps of this courtship seriously. That is what you want if your are looking for a lasting future, right?
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Would love to tell you why but I don't know him. You are going to have to keep talking to him and ask him these questions.