I can’t climax from oral sex or stimulation from my partner, but I can alone from masturbation. Can someone help me with this issue??
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find your g spot, do this on your own first, it will make it easier for your guy to find it, try feeling insde, just at the entrance,  go up a bit and you should feel a squishy bumpy spot, play around with that and it might work, if not, just keep at it, it is just at the entrance and up, near the front... you have to get use to your self and get to know your body!
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actually ,most women cannot acheive orgasm by intercourse alone! this is totally normal. Try using a vibrator before and during sex to stimulate your clitoris during intercourse. The nerves from that clitoris actually run through and this is where the mysterious G-spot comes from. It is just an extension of these nerves. most women's nerves terminate too soon for her to have a intravaginal orgasm. So stimulate those puppies externally! Hope this works for you!
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'the answer to achieving orgasms with a partner is this:\n\nIt depends on the sensitivity of your partner towards your erogenous\n\nzones - if you share sexual intimacy with an experienced, inept or\n\ngreedy lover, you are always pretty much left out in the cold.\n\n\n\nOne of the most difficult things, it seems, for women to do during\n\nintimacy is to clue in their partners to what they want.  For some\n\nreason, men seem to have no problem asking for particulars during\n\nintimacy but women seem to be shyer about it.  The first thing I would\n\nsuggest you do is to be verbal with your lover and communicate to them\n\nwhat you enjoy.  The best way to open a conversation about this is to\n\ninquire the same of your lover.  Thay way, you open the door to be\n\nable to communicate what pleases you.  Tell your lover "Do this" or\n\n"Linger there" or "Slow down!" so that he will know what he is doing\n\nthat makes you feel warm and relaxed.  Don't be shy about saying what\n\nis pleasing to you during sexual intimacy (or what is not) - contrary\n\nto popular belief, men can't read minds. Lol\n\n\n\nUnfortunately, many men (especially younger men) seem to operate under\n\nthe assumption that penetration during sexual intercourse is the most\n\nfulfilling thing they can do for a woman when, actually, the act of\n\npenetration is usually the ultimate goal of the male's satisfaction.\n\n\n\nAlso, men may sometimes rush to fulfill their desire for penetration\n\nand not think to be sensuous with a woman.  There is an old saying\n\n"Men give foreplay to get sex and women give sex to get foreplay." \n\nThis is certainly not true across the board but, by far, many women\n\nseem to enjoy the sensuous intimacy that precedes sexual intercourse\n\nwhile men seem to be running for the penetration goal line.  Lol \n\nPlus, foreplay is what enables a woman to relax and be able to achieve\n\norgasm.\n\n\n\nI don't want you to think anything is "wrong" with you, either,\n\nbecause you don't experience orgasms everytime you have sexual\n\nintercourse.  There are other factors to consider regarding this such\n\nas fatigue, emotional stress, etc.  If you happen to be in an\n\nout-of-the-bedroom situation such as stress on the job or having had a\n\ntiff with a friend, these experiences can affect your ability to relax\n\nduring sexual intimacy - even the thought "I should have washed those\n\ndishes first…" removes your mind from the intimate situation. \n\nConsider these factors and others as being the reasons you sometimes\n\ndon't experience orgasms.  Relaxation is a big key to this.  Sometimes\n\na small glass of wine might do the trick, too, to relax you.\n\n\n\nAs far as tips on experiencing more or frequent orgasms, here are some\n\nlinks that may be of interest to you:\n\n\n\nImtimate Fitness - The Kegel Method\n\nhttp://kegelmaster.8k.com/sex.html\n\nhttp://kegelmaster.8k.com/orgasms.html\n\n\n\nTantra and Tantric Sex \n\nhttp://www.oztantra.com/whatistantra.html\n\nhttp://www.tantra.com/\n\n\n\nA book is available here for $14.95 titled "Pathways to Pleasure - A\n\nWoman's Guide to Orgasm"\n\nhttp://female-orgasms.com/pleasure_4_women.htm\n\n\n\nWomen's Sex Health - An online pay site with intimate secrects for\n\nwomen regarding orgasm - $9.95 for one month accesss\n\nhttp://www.womensexhealth.com/\n\nhttp://www.womensexhealth.com/orgasms_learn_more.htm\n\n\n\nGo Ask Alice - regarding women having more orgasms\n\nhttp://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0117.html\n\n\n\nMyths About Female Sexuality\n\nhttp://www.ualberta.ca/HEALTHINFO/Decisions/mythsf.htm
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See a gyno about. Also, has this probably always been there w/ your husband? Everyone's body is different and unique, and responds differently to certain stimulations. So, perhaps your husband just isn't doing it as your body needs. For myself, if climax is right there but not achieved, due to a change of rythm or whatever, it does start to become painful. I tried KY once, and it burned, so your not alone on that one. My advice, see the gyno and if you get a clean bill of health, then plan a romantic day with your husband in the bedroom. Rediscover each other's bodies. Offer suggestions and be open to suggestions. It'll be fun...and I'm sure he'll enjoy it too!
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I THINK ORGASM CAN BE DIFFERENT B/C SOMETIMES I DON'T NOTICE EVEN THOUGH I AM PLEASURED I DON'T FEEL MYSELF *COMING* BUT  SOMETIMES I DO AND ITS LIKE THE WORLD TURNS UPSIDE DOWN, AND I HAVE HAD ONE DURING SCHOOL OUT OF NO WHERE, WELL I WAS THINKING OF WHEN I GOT MY BOYFRIEND ALONE NEXT, BUT I WAS JUST THINKING.
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by chance are you on any sort of medications, such as anti depresents or anything else of that nature?  heart meds?  those can often affect peoples abilty to orgasim properly or normally. also some people never have internal orgasims from intercourse only... its a really high % of women that are wired that way.  so try what works and learn what works through trial.
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Most women will not be able to achieve orgasm through intercourse alone. Generally a woman will require clitoral stimulation before they can orgasm. Try oral and have him focus on your clit, or go and buy yourself a vibrator.
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well it could be because you are nervous, some women may have the sooner than others some only require physical touch others require mental stimulation.\nif you are with your partner experiment or don't be afraid to tell him or her (if that's your case) what to do what feels good  or where to go. there are many reasons, if you cant with your partner try exploring with your self first then make suggestions  based on the things you tried while alone.\n\nthe main thing is be comfortable and relaxed.\nI dont want to go to deep into it here, if you like to hear more e-mail me \nmy e-mail addres is \n\ndj-roland808@hotmail.com\n\nif you have messenger aol msn or yahooo also let me know can add you and speak live
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(if you are female) you may be one of many women who can only reach orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation, if this is the case have you guy get behind you and penitrate from the back while you or he manually stimulates you. trust me he will be happy to oblige.
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Yes, you have experienced having an orgasm sweetie!  Isn't it a beautiful thing?! : )  Next time, just try to enjoy yourself and don't concentrate on just having an orgasm because sometimes it happens and sometimes it won't, but don't be dissappointed, because it will happen again as long as your boyfriend is handling his business!
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You really need to see your doctor, obviously your    medication for asthma is not working the way it should.  If you can't breathe on your own during sexual activity you shouldn't be having it.  You are putting your life at risk and think how your gf would feel if you died during intercourse?
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First, you need to know that for a woman to not orgasm from penetration while being able to orgasm from masturbation is 100% normal. A lot of women cannot orgasm from standard penetration.\n First, I would say based on your question that you need direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm, which of course you do not get from penetration. So, the solution? \n Actually, there are a couple. First, don't hesitate to combine masturbation with penetration, I.E. stroke your clit while he is inside you. I was with a woman for several years who had to masturbate during sex to climax, and I thought it was a pretty sexy visual as well!\n Second, discover your G-spot, if you have not already. If you are a woman who can orgasm from Gspot stimulation, you will eventually be able to orgasm just from penetration. However, if you have not developed that ability within yourself, you will have to do so first. There are a lot of great books on finding the Gspot, as well as a few resolved answers here on Yahoo Answers that can help you with that.\n GOOD LUCK!!
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Ok dude, I have one word for you “communication”. If you’re a minute man that’s cool but you need to make sure that she gets off as well. You sound like you’re kind of young and if she’s not throwing a fit because she didn’t orgasm she may never have had one. My advice would be to experiment with touch. Try using your hand down south instead of Mr. winky. But most of all just sit down and talk to her about it. See what she says and how she fells about it. If you’re uncomfortable with talking to her then you shouldn’t be having sex with her.
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I was a non orgasmic woman for many years.....When I married my husband, he want out one day and bought some toys for me, cause I would never do it on my own.....WOW, it made a world of difference, it changed my life....Talk to your boyfriend about the toys, they are an enhancement and that the toys would never take his place, but are more of a tool to help you....
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It doesn't matter if it's normal or not...if you're not satisfied when having sex then there's a problem.  And I don't mean having an orgasm, you can definitely be satisfied without an orgasm.  Wearing a condom can definitely help him last longer.  Suggest that he performs oral on you before you have sex, and when you're about to climax have him enter you and stimulate you with his fingers while doing it if you need clitoral stimulation.  Then you two can both orgasm together.  \nGood luck!
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Well, I am afraid and embarrassed to say that I have to go with Sarah Barret! I am not fully aware of what an orgasm is. I feel so dumb! I know it's a climax a woman has while she is having sex, but what causes it and how do you know you are having one? I would like it if you could take time out and email me so I might have a damn clue what all this means. Thanks...
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I didn't have an orgasm through intercourse for about a year after I lost my virginity to my fiance.  I was anxious and nervous and I saw it all as a really big deal which stopped me coming even though oral and masturbation made me come.  When he asked me to marry him, it was like someone switched on a tap and I now orgasm every single time that we have intercourse.\n\nYou could try having your boyfriend stimulate you until you are almost at orgasm before stopping to have sex for a while, then continuing the manual stimulation etc until you orgasm whilst he is inside you.  Different positions might work, try missionary with your legs up over his shoulders or a cushion under your bum, doggy style with him reaching round to stimulate your clitoris, you on top stimulating yourself or having him stimulate you.\n\nGood luck!