ok i have a baby already and i'm 18 and i just got back with my baby daddy not to long ago but i think i'm pregnant by the person i used to talk to and now my baby daddy thinks its his and its not i told him its not but the person i think i'm pregnant by is coming back thursday and i don't if i should tell him doing to the fact that i go with my baby daddy but if i am i'm gonna give it up for adoption
200564
Please do not be a dumb broad. Do not give up your baby fr adoption because you want to keep some MAN. Are you crazy. This is your baby not his. You mean to tell me, if its not your boyfriends or whatever, that you would give away for flesh and blood!!! Seriously girl, you will ruin your life this way because regret is the hardest thing to live with. Too bad you are already sleeping around without condoms but the deed is done, you need to deal with it. let them know the truth and say hey, either you want to be with me or not. You think that man will stay with you if he found out you gave up your baby to be with him. If so, then he is as dumb as you are. Good luck.\n\nPS: Instead of taking a paternity test try taking an HIV test. That way you will know whats up and if your baby will ave anything. USE CONDOMS!!!\n\nPSS: Monkeybunny, your a dumb broad too, Someone should have given you up for adoption.
55679
Wow, your in a pretty bad situation. You should have never taken him back the first time. This guy is someone who likes to play games.I bet he's seeing that other girl again.\nI'm sorry that you're in such a mess but there's not much you can do. Whatever you do DO NOT!!!!take him back again..You can raise that baby on your own..you don't need him..take it from me, i'm 19 and a single mom of a 2 year old little girl and yes its hard but you can do it.If you decide not to have the baby thats your decision but please im begging you do not take him back.believe me he'll come crawling back saying i love you and all that bullshit but dont buy it cuz he'll just break your heart again.good luck .
332960
my boyfriend's best friend's dad is a physic. He is very spiritual and he also knows a woman who has helped me with questions I had. I recently found out I was pregnant and when i met this woman she said that this would happen to me. She also told me that my boyfriend and I would live together. Which happened when it was said to have happened. I wish you luck e-mail me and I will get all the information for you. Good Luck and God Bless you in you time of Grief. It is always sad to loose a child. Your should never had to do that as a parent. smyle4mae@yahoo.com
585079
I will tell you the same thing I told the last girl.  I am sorry you find yourself in this position.  I wish I could get pregnant so easily.  Please give your baby a chance.  There are many people out there that would love and care for your baby if you cannot.  I would personally love to help out someone like you.
433300
wow well i would forget your friend she'll get over her crush.  If i were you i would try to contact the babies father.  and i know you might be scared now but a baby is a blessing and i would just spend the next nine months getting ready for the arrival.
431780
I think you should do what is best for u and ur child. if he is a good father, and treats you well, and you LOVE him, you should be hopeful. If he isn't any of those, tell him ur  glad he's in ur life, but you'll never be together again.
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youve only been going out for 3-4months over the phone i don no how long youve spent together not on the phone but its to soon. take it from my personal experience i was asked to marry someone after a week of noing him and he told me he wanted me to move with him it scared the crap out of me but i stayed with him. we had a long distant relationship for about ten months when three of them i heard nothing from him. he was in the army he left the army and about five months after spending time with him i feel pregnant i didnt no the true him until i feel pregnant cause he totally changed. i someone was to tell me that agian id tell them to go and get help. my daughter has never met er father and shes two and a half and will never get to meet him cause he was recently killed in a car accident.\n\nbut if its meant to be it will be but take it slow im not going to judge maybe she just wanted to see what your plans of a family are if it starts getting serious
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well the first thing you do is tell your bf.\nyou both need to talk about how you feel about the baby.\n\nYou are going to be facing alot of choices and decisions.  Take time to sort through them all. This is a huge step in life no matter how you handle it.\n\nat this point your best mate has nothing to do with the decisions you have to make. Deal with that issue later.\n\nBest of luck!!!
259334
I guess you should have considered this before you got married and knocked up.  You are in a real pickle honey.  They have to know the truth so you might just as well get it overwith.  They are going to have to deal with it.  Doesnt sound like they have much choice now.  Maybe from now on you shouldnt hide things for so long.
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good for you for getting out of something like that. I'm a single mother though, and the father in my case walked out on us. i have no intentions of tricking anyone into raising my kid. if i meet someone, i tell them immediately that i have child and if they don't like it hey too bad.
228722
Tell Him you only had sex with the only men you love, tell him you are pregnant and you will  keep the baby, he will probably not merry you and that's okay because you don't love him anyway, but when you tell him make sure there are people around you don't want to get hurt.\n\nPS I was going for immacul......conception but i don't think is gonna fly
577857
First of all, 19!? Ur still young and you've already had a baby. Yikes!!! Slow down. I say just tell him how you feel and if he doesn't respect that then...whatever.
136317
Sweetheart, you need to sit down and talk to your parents.  If you want to keep the baby then wait for about 5 more weeks before you tell them.  How old r u????  Is the baby's father going to be in the picture?  I would definetely sit down and talk to your parents.  They will know eventually!  Unless they r blind that is.  In about 6 months there will be no hiding it!  Plus you need prenatal care from a docotr as soon as u know u r pregnant.  You need to take vitamins especially for Pregnant women.  They do have them at any drug store but the ones the doctor will give u are better.  BUT you need to be examined.  The longer u wait the worse.  So u cannot keep it secret for long.  They may be upset in the beginning but remember- they r your parents and they love u very much and they only want the best for u so if they seem upset its because they r worried about your future!  Good luck to u
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Well since that happened to me a yr ago, I suggest that u tell him that it's over and that u want him to be part of the baby's life. In my situation her and me have an understanding where I get to have him for 2 weeks out of the month and so does she. She just came out and told me, I wasn't so happy about it but I got use to it and realized that she really wanted it to be over. Anyways if U need some more advice on this e-mail at elguapo_v12@yahoo.com Well good luck and remember just sit down with him and tell him what u really feel...
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I think if your attitude is honorable and not smart alec like "hey dad, I got your girl pregnant...." that you'll be ok.  Good ol dad needs to know you really love his daughter and that you will take care of her and the baby.  It's all in your attitude, believe me.  As far as telling then in front of everyone, I don't know.  I think it would be great, but that's just me.  If her family does one of those go around the table to tell what you are thankful for you could break it then by saying something like you are so thankful for being a part of their daughter's life and that it will soon be 3 of you not just 2 of you.  Just love on everyone and be positive...it'll come back to you.  Good luck!
99790
That is totally your decision.  Do you want to keep the baby?  Do you want to give the baby a chance at life (you could give the baby up for adoption).  If you don't want it, then give another family who can't have children a chance.  But he at least has the right to know.  He had a part in making the child, he needs to know what happened as a result of his choice.\n\nDo your parents know?  Would they be supportive of you?  In essence, you have a lot of decisions to make for yourself and noone else can tell you what to do.
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For your babies sake, let him go. If you force him to be a part of "this family", he will resent you and the baby for it.\nWhen or if he decides to come back, atleast it will be his decision and for the right reasons.\nI broke up with my daughters father before I knew I was pregnant, but I didn't want to get back together with him once I found out. I knew that in order to raise a happy child, I had to be happy and being with him did not make me happy.\nMove on with your life, if he doesn't come back to you, someday you will meet a man who will truley love you and your child.\nGood luck to you and congratulations on your pregnancy.