Guys, are you into personality or looks? Which one more?
205556
Good looks help to make you notice a person, but personality is what will keep a person interested. Naturally I have to be attracted to the person, but that doesn't mean she has to be great looking. It could be her laugh, her smile, her eyes, the beauty that comes from inside her etc. Good looks fade with age, so give me a good personality and intelligence any day. If someone is just interested in your looks, then walk away, because their priorities are messed up.\n\nk.m.
592749
i have to say always be who you wanna be. My ideal person is a chick who isnt afraid to act goofy and show off her personality. I happen to think its hot when a girl isnt scared to blow her nose in front of you,or worry about the way she looks when she wakes up.
187193
Yeah, obviously you HAVE to notice appearance before you can notice personality. However, my husband is not my type "appearance wise"--but I got to know him and I know he's my soulmate. I couldn't love him more. So, while looks may initially draw you in, the personality is what keeps you there. Hope that helps!
245132
i prefer a girl who makes me laugh, and to do that, you need to be smart, i mean, if shes really nice looking, its an added bonus, obviously, when i first meet someone it the first thing i notice, but once i talk to someone for a bit, i relized that its the personality that i like best.  smarts are an essential part to a personality, tho, most guys, im sad to say are shallow jerks, so not everyone will feel the same way as me, but yea, smarts and personality are more important to me than looks, especially if im looking for a long term relation ship, i want someone to talk to, i cant talk to their chest, so they had better have more than that.
416408
Physically i like big boobs and a shapely body. Mentally i like someone low keyed. Emotionally and spiritually i love a girl that cares for others in general. Someone who wouldnt mind buying a meal for a homeless person or a girl that is just there for her friends when they need her. Eye color has never meant much to me.
31323
I think BOTH are important. And yes, looks do matter. Would you be attracted to someone wearing dirty clothes and who didn't take a shower or try to style their hair?
253897
I wouldnt care how you looked,coz your personality shines through more :)
563377
I look at the whole package & "paraniod" is not the right word.From your point of view "shallow" would be a better term.I check out the body then the personality,if I like both then I'm attracted to them.That's not shallow.
173312
I like a girl that is go getter and determine. Someone that is fun. Witty and clever is a major turn on for me and a smart girl. A girl that workout and takes care of her body like me.
563844
uhm... good question.  now that i think about it, Eyes attract me 1st.  then pretty much the rest of the face. then bodily appearance.  But most definitely personality.
317464
The truth is that personality is the most important, but there has to be some level of attraction.  However, in my case, once I've gotten to know a guy he's become more and more attractive.
666955
Having a job and a car SHOULD be expected but you would be surprised how many single men have neither. I don't consider myself shallow but that really is a requirement I expect from men I date. It doesn't have to be a Benz and you don't have to be sporting a big bankroll but I need to know up front you are not going to expect me to support you and haul your nappy a s s everywhere you need to go. I would never expect someone to do that for me. I have a job and a car and a place of my own. After that personality is the most important thing I look for but most women are stuck on looks after that. Looks aren't everything. Sure there should be a physical attraction but for me that comes more from a good personality and sense of humor than physical attributes. The ugliest guy on they outside becomes gorgeous in my eyes if he can make me feel good and keep me smiling and happy.
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i look 4 intellegeance, kindness, genoracity, immunity 2 humillity(i LOVE that in a girl), n outgoing, n looks(not rly that important unless she looks like sum1s ass u no?)
243438
sure looks grab your attention.. a person can be gorgeous on the outside and ugly on the inside..looks fade personality is forever..
166525
What I look for in a man is for him to be honest, ready to have a serious relationship, a great personality, ability to communicate, basically all the necessary stuff. As far as looks or how he is at sex, I would have to say looks. There has to be some sort of physical attraction for sex to even happen. I am lucky enough to have a man that has it all. Great personality, easy to be with, extremely good looking, and incredible at sex. Usually, if the relationship is good, then the sex sucks...or, if the sex is great, the relationship sucks, but lucky for be both the sex and relationship are great!
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good looking is relitive. it all depends on your preference.
282545
i dont care about the looks, what i care about is the personality.