This guy is great he treats me with so much respect. He buys me things all the time. I have only none him for like 3 weeks and he has a great personality and we love the same things. We have made love or I seem to think we made love and not just screwing around. He makes me feel like a person . I respect him alot and I really trust him. I want to be closer to him than I already am. I tell him how I feel and when I tell him he just grins real big and gives a little smirk (laugh) Is this guy really serious or is just wanting to get laid. I need an answer.
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I think he is intrested because you have already had sex and he is still sticking around (and buying gifts!!) however i think 3 weeks is too soon to be telling him that you want to be closer, you might scare him off.\n\nJust relax and enjoy yourself and if you are still together after a couple of months then you know he might be the one.
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No don't ask him crap. Especially about that. If your already having sex with him all I can say is ''ARE YOU CRAZY?!'' Stop having sex if you are. If he still calls and wants to see you then theres a chance he likes you for more then sex. You've only been together 3 weeks. To a guy 3 weeks doesn't mean a thing. It's not like his in love with you. You need to control your feelings better and not let yourself get all tided up emotional. Guys just don't fall head over hills about a girl. They take their time. To them they have plenty of time before wanting to wear a ring or give one up.Don't wear your heart on your seleve. In other words don't let these guys know that you like them so easily and so quickly. Guys like girls better if they have their own set of friends and don't dump their firends to go out with them. They like girls that aren't high matainace. You know , where you think if they don't call like 6 times a day or something you start calling them wondering why you haven't heard from them. They are loyal to their guy friends and you should be to yours. If he doesn't call you for a month let it go. Go on like it was nothing.  Don't let dating confuse you. It's just a stepping stone to a whole new world for you. Just go with the flow and don't let things like him not calling you get to you. If he doesn't call then he doesn't call. If he go's out with his friends don't jump to conclusions that he was with another girl or flirting. Could be he was but that's none of your business and if you start getting upset over it then he''ll surely feel trapped and he'll never call you. I know it's hard to like someone and then have to watch him flirt or even see him out with someone else but until he tells you himself he wants you to be the only one for him then his going to do just what he wants no matter what you think or feel.
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It sounds like he may really like you, but it also sounds like he is a bit overprotective. If you decide to pursue this relationship, make sure that he understands the rules. You have to have your space, and if he insists on being with you ALL the time, he may be a bit more serious than you would be comfortable with. If you don't want to be in a exclusive relationship (which is what it sounds like he wants), I'd look elsewhere.
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I just wanted to say thanks for spelling ho correctly.  Some guys may look at it that way but in all honesty sometimes a girl just wants to get laid too.  If this is a guy that you see yourself wanting to be in a relationship with I wouldn't recommend it, it may just give him the wrong idea about your previous lifestyle.. but like I said, sometimes a girl just wants to get laid, and if that's all you're trying to do.. go for it girl!
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Ok I've said this before to others and I'll say it again. The best way to find out is to just ask. Start out by just jokingly playing around or something. But then if he plays back with you then it's serious.
415606
He is just using you to get laid. He is telling you this. He does not want a relationship. He just wants to get his rocks off with no strings attached.>
143958
You can't trully know about any serious intentions until you get to know him. I mean really get to know him. If he's popping serious questions now, he's kind of shallow,or he is totally going at it on a feeling.Feelings tend to change,or be heavily conditional. Which means those feeling are only there when the conditions are right. Proceed with caution.
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That makes sense to me. Spend some time with him. See what it is or isn't turning into. If he really really likes you, it wouldn't be JUST for sex. Make sure thats the case. Its natural for BOTH man and women to want sex. Also, I think why lose respect for people for wanting good healthy sex. Either way. Your caution makes a lot of sense to me considering that it sounds like maybe you dated some jerks. Maybe too many.
211401
I would get to know him better before messing with him. But messing do mean sex? I would definetly hold off. Unlsess you don't want something serious then heck go for it.
619264
THIS GUYS ARE THE GUYS YOU DONT RUSH...\nWONT YOU JUST LET HIM BE LIKE THAT AND STILL TALK TO HIM AND IN TIME HE'LL REALIZE YOU'RE THE CHICK HE WANTS TO BE SERIOUS WIH BECAUSE YOU'RE ALWAYS THERE NO MATTER WHAT...
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Have you slept with him yet?  You are sure that you love him?  Im sure he loves his girlfriend right now, but is it really anything serious?  If you could be with him right now, would you?  If you can, tell him and see what he says.  You wouldnt be messing up his relationship if he loves you, well you would be, but if you think you are a better replacement, go for it.
648043
Okay Bella, I've noticed that you have posted several different questions about this guy.  It's going to be difficult, but you need to move on!  This guy obviously doesn't realize what a great woman you are, and probably doesn't love himself to want that in his life.  And you need to realize that you deserve more.  I know your heart is very attached to him right now and it's hard to imagine him not being in your life.  One day you will ask yourself, "Was I stressing over that loser?  What was wrong with me?"\n\nThe right one for you will come along eventually, but this guy is not it.  He'll voice those same promises, but when he does, there will be no question in your heart that he's sincere.
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I would say that he is interested in you to some degree.  He doesn't sound too serious either.  Just enjoy the attention that you do get from him and leave it at that.  Just a flirting thing.  Sometimes it's fun just to flirt and not worry about relationships.
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He may be one of those type of guys that likes to move slow or he could be a player.I have dated both of those types that sound like this guy.It could also be that you are perhaps more into him then he is into you.Watch out for that.You don't want to get to involved with someone who may not be as serious about the relationship as you.I would suggest backing off a little bit and not taking your relationship to serious until he seems more involved with you.
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he knows that he must obviously have a real great thing for you or he wouldnt WANT it as often as you say and if he said he has never acted this way before than you shoulds beleive me i mean him he and you appearantly have a natural attraction when it comes down to it , I (i meant he ) must really love you to want to share something so special with you . and 3 or 4 times aday just makes it that more interessting for the next time yall are experiencing that special bond between the 2 of you and i bet that you enjoy the hell out of turning him on / teasing him otherwise you wouldnt do it so often and appearantly he does too enjoy being teased and turned on dont you think?  he appearantly makes you happy  thats about all i have to say about this love you honey
399410
Um....so you are asking us this...you are attracted to this guy, who either has a girlfriend and just flirts with you, or is not honest with you.  I'm thinking that he is either considering cheating on his mysterious girlfriend with you and just hasn't the courage yet, or  he just wants to fool around a little without commitments...And he knows that he has you hooked..So if you really want to pursue this...be patient..ignore him and don't be so available....see what happens.
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You know what, I'm really sure that guy is flirting with, its just a different approach... You know, when guys like us flirt, it doesn't always mean that we have to touch you or something to make you feel that we are interested with you, always remember that when a guy only talks, makes you laugh, wants to have constant communication with you, that's a solid proof that he flirts with you... And for me, be proud of yourself because that guy will not show respect to you even he flirts with you if you don't deserve it, it only means that for him, you are a descent woman that deserves to be respected... And that's a compliment... And its good that he knows his limitations to you...