I really like my girlfriend so very much, and we have many feelings for each other. We have been going out for a month. She is a very very hot sexy beautiful female and i do not want her to loose feelings or intrest in me. How can i keep maintaing her intrest and feelings for me without getting bored and tired of me.i am scared and would be  hurt if i lost her.
217681
Do things together, make suggestions, not demands. Show her affection.  Don't treat her like any other girl.
71713
I don't think you could ever MAKE love last, but you could do things to help keep a relationship strong. You always should be 100% honest and truthful, no matter how hard that is. You should respect the other person and get respect back. Listen to one another and give advice. Don't ever try to control a person. If you feel like you have to control them to keep them from cheating on you or something, then you don't trust that person and without trust, you have nothing. Make that person smile as much as you can. Laugh with eachother and don't take little things too seriously. Just have fun and love eachother the best you can.
589342
I think you sound like one hell of a guy.  It's absolutely wonderful that you told her all those things, and she should appreciate it.  You have to remember though....almost every relationship has some problems eventually.   It sounds like you'd never want to hurt her in any way, but to say you'll never fight my be pushing it a little too far.  There is no guarantee that something, someday, might upset either one of you and the fighting will start, although  it seems like you are truly in love, and I'm sure the two of you would work it all out.
234188
seems like you never let yourself move on...is she willing to move with you? does she want to begin a relationship? you need to speak with her and see where her head is at and make sure you both want to make this work
337290
What do you want to do?  If you care about her and want to be with her, give her some time - it sounds like she'll come around, since she obviously still wants you to be a part of her life.  If you want to move on, that's a whole different story, but you need to decide whether what you want is in sync with what she wants, or whether it's time for you to find someone else.  Personally, I don't think a month is a long time - if you wait it out until she's more comfortable with herself, in the long run you two will have a stronger relationship.
193252
What you can do is be happy that she is happy in another relationship, and move on. It may hurt, but that is the only choice you have. She is not going to come back to you right now because she is with someone, and unless your personality has changed signifigantly in that time, she will not be interested in you anymore. It sucks. Most people have a long list of people that they had to break up with before finding the one and they all hurt.
284277
you seem like such a lovely guy and to be honest.. from what you have said   that girl does not deserve you.. You deserve someone who will love you as much as you love her.. and im sure she's out there somewhere.. it seems like this girl is keeping you on standby just incase things don't work out with the other guy..and even if she does loose this guy she will have another on standby sooner or later...she knows your too good for her and she's taking advantage of it!!please do yourself a favour and start the process of letting her go now cause it will take time .. and time heals!! and the one thats right for you will come along after you have healed from this girl.You derserve better and i think you know it !!It's not worth loving someone who doesn't do the right thing by you hun!It eventually makes your heart turn cold!
529447
been there done that. I no excactly how you feel, I had the same thing happen to me with this dude. we kissed and every thing. its a weird situation. since she doesn't talk that much then ask her if you're offically going out. then latter tell her that you don't want her to call you so often. stick with her, once shes gone you'll feel realy bad like I did when I let him go. enjoy every phyisical action she does, it gets better and better. I used to not think about the dude that was with me and we went for a long time. you'll realy miss her if you leave her. I did.
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sounds to me like you're looking for an excuse to wander. if you have to ask why love and loyalty have to come together then i seriously question whether you have ever really felt true love. \nif you feel like you have to "force" yourself to be committed to anyone then you really aren't ready for that committment. that's not wrong. its ok to not be ready. just let her know that although you have strong feelings for her you are still not ready to settle down. just let the girl know that you don't plan on being physically faithful. that is a matter of health as well as heart. if she chooses to stick by you while you make a more firm decision, hurray for you. you found someone who really cares about being with you. \nyou can't be blamed for wanting to explore more of what the world has to offer. i encourage every male AND FEMALE to explore heavily before making a decision to be with that one person. just please let everyone involved that someone else is involved. \nand WEAR A CONDOM.
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Dating is not a life-long commitment.  There is no best way.  Express yourself to her clearly and honestly.  If your romance cannot be transformed into a lasting bonding relationship with her, tell her.  Although you already seem to know that your communication will cause her some emotional pain, you are not responsible for anything except your own emotions and actions.  That you are concerned for her feelings says much about you as a person.  Trust yourself.  You might know her better than anyone else does.  Some things are just not meant to be.
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Yes. Spend a loooooooooot of time.\nI m not talking abt the time 'with her'. But while you are away too. And that will make you really really close to her, and by this you will even know almost her reaction to situations. They love that feeling,that you 'understand her' more than anything else. And remember....that is a loooooot of quality time! You have it with u? Then ur girl will really love you.
99739
You're feeling lust.  But, it hasn't been that long ago since the two of you made love.  Give her some time to come around.  Don't call her until she calls you.  You have left enough messages so.  If she hasn't called in five days, move on.
594604
I don't think that you can expect to "keep" your relationship in the exact same state that it is in now. Your relationship wil undergo changes being that you and your boyfriend will not be seeing each other as much. You will also be meeting tons of new people and experiencing things in life that you never have before.\nThe key to keeping your relationship healthy is communication. The more you share your feeling with your bf the better things will be between you. This way everyone is on the same page.\nRemember that you have your whole life ahead of you and that you may discover while you are away from your boyfriend that perhaps your relationship isn't what you though it was or maybe that all your needs aren't being met. So remember to keep an open heart and mind... this along with constant open communication between you two should give you the best chance if it is meant to be.
300118
Talk to her. Ask her how far she is comfortable going. That way you know what she wants before you get hot and heavy, which makes decision-making much more difficult. If you know each other's boundaries, that can prevent later regret. Still, following this advice would imply that you intend to respect her decision.
238680
You need to sit with your girlfriend and talk to her openly abt how you feel.Sometimes girls just want to be there and be nice to their friends. She might not know that all this is making you uncomfortable. If she tells you there is nothing to worry abt and everything is fine, you need to tell her to be more considerate of your feelings and try to behave in a manner that would not put a strain on your relationship. But if she admits to liking the guy, there is no point in you hanging around there. You just need to let go and tell yourself that somethings r just not meant to be. Sometimes you need to be strong and take decisions with your head and not your heart.
97763
always follow ur heart and do ur best 4 her,av it in mind to b a gorgeous to her , and never go 4 a fake lover but real lover
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relationships r tricky n they would neva b the same from the moment they start n as time goes by .. so if u asked her n she told u dat she hasnt lost love 4 u then dont worry , but u cant expect a person dats under lots of stress 2 b all lovy dubby wit u r any 1, dat u need 2 understand ... but if she doesnt call as much as b 4 dats just cause dats how relationships work , not every 1 can stay the same from day 1 dat everythin starts... but u can call her instead n let her know u still there n anythin she needs she can come 2 u .. but with out u tellin her how u feel then she wont have any idea of wats goin through ur head .. good luck hope it works out 4 the best