does she enjoy sex???
203252
Most women don't have an orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation.It doesn't mean that sex isn't enjoyable.
291440
Well if she used sex to "get you"....then it must have been pretty good, right?  Just try to re-kindle that.  You know it's in there somewhere, don't let her stop just because you're together now, you still have to make eachother happy and satisfied.  Don't cheat just yet.  Tell her you want her, and you miss the sex...compliment her and build her up a little..she'll be turned on before you know it.
138710
depends what the women is like if she's an easy women she will just want to have sex and enjoy it
18033
She needs to think this through more clearly. She is certainly going to do something that is new for her. However, she has to have enough trust in her partner for this to work out well and for her to deal with her fears in a way that will have a good outcome for herself and her partner. This is why it really takes a trusting, intimate relationship for sex to work out well.\n\nI would question why she wants to do this right now. "Liking" her isn't a good enough reason for her to have sex, especially since she has waited this long. Her fear of how this will turn out will make her more anxious and more likely to not have a good experience.\n\nShe needs to think this through. She needs to decide if this is really the guy, the time and the place to have her first sexual intercourse. She needs to ask herself if she knows him well enough to trust him with her feelings and her body. If so, she needs to establish some communication with him about this so she can share her fears and so she can also develop some control over this situation.\n\nHaving you to talk to about this will be helpful!
102336
Ask her ! You can love some one without Sex .She may love you ! Sex is too open now .She may explain if you ask .
305130
easy, SEX, she needs sex and likes you, when he comes back, she wont need you for sex.\n\nI could be wrong, want to chance it?
29379
It sounds as if she is into S&M.  If it gets her in the mood and doesn't bother you, then it's ok.  Sounds like no problem.
83362
u must be kidding !!! sure she does
335376
This probably has nothing to do with you! Many girls in America are raised to believe that sex is "dirty" and un-lady-like or whatever. Was she raised in a socially conservative family? If so, she may have some internal conflict (ashamed of doing something she was brought up to feel bad about vs. actually enjoying herself!!!)  She may not even know this about herself, but it's a great starting point (as opposed to thinking she was abused or that you are inadequate)  Just talk to her and let her know you're there to listen and you'll win the good boyfriend award this week. hope this helps.
372929
yes tell her how you feel , try and move closer to her if she can not move closer to you.\nand i would ask why she is on the sex chat site , are you on it with her?
123138
Take the time to feel her responses to you and you can tell.  If you are in tune with her body then you should be able to feel whether she is having an orgasm or faking.
617286
my question is her virginity a trophy or something you admire and respect? That question should give you the answer and also remember that sex is driven by your desired is selfish, but with love (respect, responsibility, honesty and integrity) from both parties with true commitment is unselfish and a bond that will strengthen your relationship to each other. All I can say is don't use her for your gain, ok!
31057
i think you should make a pass at her just to see her reaction. shes playing head games with you, fight back. you have every right to like whatever sex you like, thats not her choice...dont take that from her.
125926
No.  Maybe she's Christian and does not believe in fornication (premarital sex).  Not everyone has sex by the age of twelve!
235320
Not at all.  Well, not unless you do something wrong & she slaps you for it.  Otherwise, it feels great.  This is probably why we're usually more obsessed with sex.
138923
Shes getting bored with it! Women, after a while going out w/ the same guy, get tired, just like men!! Plus, we dont like sex alllllll the time like men do!!
472324
Giving her all your spare time is not what she really wants, what she really wants is you to spend some "QUALITY TIME " with her. Within that quality time she needs some intimacy...."NOT SEX " & she needs you to initiate things that you'all can do together...and most of all....when you're with her she needs your undivided attention.