she said that is ok, that is just for fun, so why am i feel so guilty specially when i'm having a private or a lapdance
205511
You feel that you cheated on her,even though she gave you permision.\nYour a lucky guy to have such permision,treat her to full body massage.
564421
It's because you feel like you're abandoning your boss. It sounds like you're very loyal to the man and you don't want to leave him hanging minus one employee. But in the long run, I think, you made the right choice for yourself, and that's nothing to feel guilty about.
273564
My marriage for sure - seems there's never enough time to spend time together.  \n\nI also feel like I neglect my kids, while I'm doing housework.  But, I guess they COULD help me so that I get done faster & then we'd have more together time.  I don't feel guilty when I say "Hey, lets go to the show, or out to eat" and neglect housework/other things for the evening.  That stuff can usually wait!!
105740
No sweetie you are not a bad mom, I am also a single mom at 26 and I go out once a week.  You need to get away and be with your friends every now and then.  There were times when I felt guilty about going out and now I don't.  My daughter is six now and someone once told me it is not the quanity of time spent with your child it is if it is quality time or not and if you ae spending quality time with your child than you are fine in the mom department. P.S my mom tries to make me feel guilty too but I tell her just because I am a mom that does not mean that I have to have no life!!
68751
I don't mind. It makes it feel better if she is comfortable enough with you to do things like that.
662480
ok you're obviously feeling crappy about something you've done. whatever it was, if you really want to change, make a sacrifice that will make things better for someone that you've hurt. Also, feeling crap isn't enough. You have to make yourself a promise that you will actually change.. but most importantly, you need to actually stop being a bad person, and excercise some will power when the moment of temptation actually comes. that's what it all come down to- the moments of truth.
418248
It isn't necessarily wrong, but you should definately consider what you have done as an example for future occurences. You shouldn't feel wrong about it unless you are still very young, but to feel guilty about is a possible feeling if you feel that it was not the right time to do it.
195323
its really ok if u feel that kinda stuff coz now u r not being unfaithful and even ur dear husband wud ve wanted the same thing that is........ that u stay happy
281222
because they are fun.\nit sounds silly but thats the truth. all the things  that you name are very enjoyable things to do. it sounds like a pretty good weekend to me.\nmaybe its because people are not brought up with such good morals and ideals as before, or maybe its because in an increasingly stressful and difficult world, you need to go that much further to relax from the day to day grind. me personally, i think that they are all excuses to make you feel less guilty about enjoying things. all of those things are bad in excess but so are most things in life. many people have sex, take dugs, smoke and drink and enjoy a very productive life. one of my family members, however, drove their partner to divorce after discovering god and spending every minute at church. i'm not for a minute saying one is better than the other, but people should also respect the choices that others make in life, be it for good or bad.
271085
There is no reason for you to feel guilty.  Was he worried about hitting you ? was he worried about giving you a swollen face ? He should loose his friends and his job.  Truth is the longer he goes thinking he's not really doing anything wrong the worse he will get.  If more and more people come down on him for his actions and more and more people know about it the better it will be for everyone involved.  Now he has to answer to more people than just you.  That might change his actions.
443725
Take this info with you to the grave.  Don't tell your girlfriends.  If he suspects and questions you, deny it.  That's what a man would do.\n\nWhy would you want to break your boyfriend's heart by telling him, just to relieve your "guilt"?   That would be very selfish of you.   It was just sex, nothing more.  There's no reason to feel guilty, everyone cheats, eventually.  The only reason you feel "guilty" is because you accept society's brainwashing about monogamy.  It doesn't exist among 96% of other mammals, and humans do not show a strong predeliction towards it, either.  Deal with it.  Accept it, revel in it, but don't tell it.  \n\nIt was bad enough telling all of us about it.   \n\n( way to go! )
485386
ooooooooooh yes you can, yes you can. it will be a little hard the first time and you may feel silly but after that you will be ok.\n\nit may not be called romantic i would call it pampering yourself.\nnew outfit and hairdo, bubble bath at nice hotel or spa treatment.\n\nnight on the town and lovely restaurant and just watch the other people watching, while you enjoy yourself.\n\nyou may feel silly but its all about you and what you want, you need worried about impressing someone or making sure you dont screw something up. you are the center of attention because it is just you. i mean you are the center of attention at your table or wherever you going cause you are not trying to entertain someone else or be entertained.
263000
This ex girl of yours needs to get a life and take responsability for her actions. SHe's just trying to make you feel guilty.  Stay away from her, avoid her... otherwise she's just going to take you down w/ her. You don't need that. You are who you are.
152010
Just trust to your heart and the call of your conscience.That s when you have done some thing wrong you feel guilty or when you are doing some thing right you feel happy .
456784
I think that it might just take a little time. You have told him it was just a fantasy and that you would never hurt him and that is all you can do. He might just be a little jumpy about it. But he is still with you and it will just take time. Hopefully after your reassurances and you not hurting him (which you wouldn't) he will get that it is fantasy and maybe will let you inact some fantasies. Have you discussed his fantasies as well?  It might be that he has some on the same lines as yours. I wouldn't worry too much about this and never think that you are messed up for feeling the way you do. It's a part of you and you hurt no one and are just being true to yourself. No thing to feel guilty about at all. I envy you because I have still not told my girl about my fetish. It took courage to do what you did and that's great. Just hang in there and eventually he wil see that there is nothign to be worried about. Take care and good luck.
397894
Actually, many of us *do* know, because we were there.  I'm missing out on feeling guilty because I love another woman who is, like, the other half of my brain, being told to avoid enjoyable media, and being told how to vote.  I'm missing out on having to treat potential friends like dirty rotten sinners who need to hear my "Good News."  I'm missing out on spending Sunday morning in pantyhose and coming home after the race started.  The door, as I told my younger cousins, swings both ways; many of us swung out because we used our brains.  Which, after all, you and I (I'm Pagan now) agree that our Creator gave us.
534902
You are FINE! You really need to stop worrying about that type of thing, and get out and have fun!