my boyfriend and i have been dating for a while now. while he knows that i love him, and he says that he loves me too, he is content on seeing me only once maybe twice a week if a am lucky. please help!!!
200265
i dont know i just answering this to get 2 pointss yeaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh lol
107905
you sound almost like a mirror image of me but i'm at the 3 month stage and i don't know if he's with somone else, the other difference is he said to me that he wants to work things out i haven't seen mine in 20 days and yes im counting. the best advice hang in there, me personally i would tell him how much of a many swearwords he is for hurting me and how could he get with somone else so soon. but as i said hang in there im now ruling my own life but it is hard moving ahead without the one you love. Be Good!
133695
try talking to him again, on how he feels about love. ask him when he think its a good time for a couple to say those words. \n\ni know how your feeling, I've been their. with the boyfriend i am with now. i wasn't for sure when to tell him i loved him too. we live in different countries so he wasn't sure if we would even work. \n\nits been a year now and where stronger then ever, even going to move in together. the moment i told him i loved it was about last fall or winter. he eventually saw how great and wonderful of a person i was and with him. he couldn't help but say those words back to me. \n\nyou pretty much just have to guess when to say it. you can't ignore your feelings, no matter if they get hurt or not. if you love him, tell him and then tell him why you love him. show him how you make him feel, by your words. \n\nif he can't appreciated that, then he's a loser lol. you've been together long enough to start talking about love. if you were to tell me you just been together for a week or two, then i would say no and wait more.
50356
Girl, I know how you feel. If this is occuring on more than one occassion then slack off. Don't hound about it. And first and far most PLEASE YOURSELF. You deserve that first of all. Take the time off to PAMPER yourself and then he/she might take notice. If that doesn't work then it is some questions you need to ask about your relationship and where it is going.  I feel you should at least have or get an answer so you can better understand and deal with this issue.  Peace
81699
It sounds like he's committed to you so what's the hold up.  What do you want out of the relationship?  If you really love him tell him.  If you don't let him go. The relationship won't go anywhere if you hold it back.  Tell him how you feel or eventually you will lose him.
86155
Sounds like you guys may not be though. Either way,if you only see each other once in three months,it doesn't sound like much of a relationship. Try to call it off.\nIf he doesn't call you then he doesn't care about you,period. Do yourself a favor and move on.\nPlenty more guys out there... \nYou can IM me for some if you want...
362198
I love him...but? I don't think you do love him in a way that will sustain your relationship. I think you know that too. It's time to move on.
313470
Sounds like you've been doing what men usually do:  assuming that the actual status of the relationship was closer to your expectations than to all the physical evidence.  Sorry to break it to ya, but if he broke up with you for the 2nd time a few months ago, then he hasn't been your bf for a few months now.\n\nYou can't make him love you, no matter how much you love him.  Maybe if you had addressed the reasons he broke up with you twice, he may have given it another chance.  But, maybe not.\n\nStop beating yourself up about it.  Love is a choice; and unfortunately, you've been reinforcing the 'habit' of loving him without much hope for reciprocation.  If you must, re-examine the reasons he broke up with you; but DON'T think that changine this late in the game is likely to win him back.  Think of it as self-improvement that will make you a better person, and more attractive to someone who will appreciate you more.\n\nMy heart goes out to you; I have a little experience in that area, too.
626896
If you think dating a guy after one week of being broke up then think of this, I broke up with my BF and I went back out with him that same day. Talk about pathetic! Then we broke up again and are going back out right now. So I think your relationship is going better than mine is, and by next week I`ll have probable broke up with him again. So do what you think is best for the future relationship you might have with this guy.
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It seems 2 me like he still wants u but he just don't know how 2 be with u right now. He may need a little time out.He's confused because he love u so much, he'll probably do just about anything for u.He's just scared that u may hurt him again & he may not know how 2 react if it ever happens again.U may have lost a little of his trust for u.He'll find out a way 2 fix this.Its just 2 much 4 him right now.Just give it some time. It'll all come out. Good luck!\n My situation is similar 2 urs.
84958
He is the only one who can say if he loves you or not, and right now he probably doesn't know.  He clearly still cares for you, but relationships are complex.  Caring for someone and loving them are not always the same thing.  He has told you that he can't be in a relationship right now, so for now that is the truth that you have to accept.  If you really care about him, it is okay to wait and see what happens with him, but no one can tell what that will be...
107839
It doesn't necessarily mean you don't love him. It's hard to explain if you love him or not. Everyone has a different defenition of "loving someone". Think deep down what has kept you dating him for 6 months. Think about everything that you like about him. If you love him, then you'll know. Love doesn't necessarily mean that you only like him.
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You could "go out" with him, yes; casually; unexclusive.  Why commit to having a boyfriend if you only like him a little bit?  And what's the harm in dating him once or twice?  You might find yourself liking him more than just a little  :-)\nAlternately, you might find that neither one of you likes the other after some time.
420303
Sounds like you already know what you need to do. Have you talked to him about it if so and he won't change then sounds as though you are not happy and who could be with someone so clingy. A good relationship you need some time away from each other as well as together time. So if it doesn't look like things are going to get any better cute your losses and run.
226453
c'mon don't be so hard on yourself. of course he likes you enough to spend so much time with you. however, it would be wise to be cautious and tread carefully. why look for signs, just enjoy the now. it does seem you are happy right now, so don't question and don't let doubts prevail.all the best babe!
18169
If you decide to go with him, make sure you don't develop feelings because you could wind up hurt in the long run.  If he is constantly getting back together with his girlfriend, it may happen after you date him.  Be very wary of this.
634197
Sad but true... and I'm sorry to be the first to break this to you... but...\n\nPeople MAKE TIME to do the things they want.  If he wanted to spend time with you... talk to you... HE WOULD MAKE IT HAPPEN.   Job schedule, busy family life, anything else is just an excuse.\n\nDon't TELL someone you love them... SHOW THEM... \n\nOne of the ways you SHOW them is to SPEND THE TIME with them that you can.\n\nSorry... you seem sweet... but from the outside looking in:\n- If you don't know in 9 months how he feels... somethings wrong there and\n- If he isn't spending major time with you... You may be alone here... in your affections.\n\nMove on... you'll find your next choice much more ATTENTIVE.