we need a lesbians point of view to see what a couple who dont live together and live in 2 different states would fight over to lead to a break-up!
200638
i don't need to be a lesbian to answer this because the answer is in the question.....\nlong distance makes a relationship fall apart...they live in 2 diff states....
238433
It's not fair to your girlfriend if you don't think it's going to work out. You THINK you love her? You do or you don't. You need to figure out what is going on w/your girlfriend before you start planning for this other girl. Not wanting to hurt someone is not a good enough reason to stay w/them-that sounds harsh, but you'll just end up resenting her.
505302
sounds like it could happen..i guess you and your girlfriend have a choice to make....either risk it and attempt to earn some respect form the guys in her neighborhood...but remember, you earn respect by giving it.  or you can choose to not deal with the issue at all and have her meet you away form the neighborhood when you want to spend time together.
503955
She needs to decide if she's gonna cheat on her love because someone else is cute. She also needs to decide if she's gonna continue to go out with men she doesn't really have feelings for. Since it's not the first time, it sounds like she isn't really in love.
557039
Well, someones getting bitchy & jealous, so ask her!\nst
170554
Here's what really happened.  We'll call your boyfriend bob and you Jane and this other chick Sarah.\n\nSo Jane and bob are dating and Bob sees this chick Sarah who he thinks is really really hot and he's like OMG i would love to have sex with her.  But bob does love Jane and doesn't want to hurt her.  How do i have sex with Sarah and not betray Jane??  Bob asks himself.  Then he comes up with a plan.  "Jane" he says "me and you needs to take a break"\n"ummmm OK" Jane says :(\nring ring\n"hello?" Sarah says\n"this is bob.  OMG i want to have sex with you!!!!"&#92;\n"OMG Bob you are a total loser- aren;t you dating Jane??"\n"yeah but we took a break"\n"yeah, like YESTERDAY.  You loser!" CLICK\n\n\nomg.  bob thinks.  i AM a loser.  \n\nRING RING\n"hello?"\n"Jane this is bob.  i want you back."\n"but i heard about Sarah you loser."\n"oh i was just calling her for some other dude"\n"oh OK!  I love you!!!"\n\n\nPOSSIBLE ENDING:\n\nJane decides she's not so sure about bob.  she gets on yahoo answers and people let her know that bob is in fact a LOSER.\n\nRING RING\n\n"hello"\n"bob this is Jane,  i want to take a break.  A PERMANENT ONE."  :)\n\ntHE END\n\nand Jane lived a happy- loser free life.
636946
just listen to them both...... but thats the best you can do, do not suggest anything cuz they must be responsible for their own actions..... you dont want to take responsibility of being a home wrecker... do not at anytime suggest that they breakup with their existing partner and try each other out..... cuz they might blame you for the disasterous results\njust ask them to talk to each other and sort things out for themselves.....\n\ngood luck
650790
Lesbians are communist?  You are entitled to your view, and they to theirs.  I thought we fought for freedom in this country.
597468
I am not a lesbian however I can tell you stop giving into guys. The girls are just as bad as the guys anymore. There really is no difference in behavior and taking what you want. I lived in a college town and trust me there are some girls who take what they want and leave. First fix yourself and feel good about you and become empowered and the rest will follow.
179350
I guess its your call, finally. I dont know what is the exact status of your relationship, and how involved you are--but this is a dilemma everyone faces, lesbian or heterosexual etc. Its a big decision to settle down and commit.\nThink about it carefully. Talk to friends and go over your feelings. I hope that you make the right decision for you, and are happy.\nGood luck.
207461
We define "normal" between ourselves in relationships. She has to weigh all the factors in the relationship to decide whether or not to stay. I couldn't be with someone like that unless the conversation was fantastic.
636957
An ex girlfriend or another girlfriend? If it's another girlfriend you are two-timing player and it's no small issue. She needs to kick your ass to the curb.
96636
Wow, sounds insecure!  Definitely move on.  Aren't you glad she was the one moving out?!?!?!  It made the whole breaking up process a heck of alot easier on your part!
674642
Neither. The bisexuals would win as they would just console grievieng spouses. There are too many people on one side that would be working for the enemy ( that is either in the closet or pretending to be gay for whatever reason).
556257
I worked with a lesbian who has an identical twin. The twin has NO interest in women. The lesbian has NEVER been with a man. She swears that its a choice, not genetics. Makes sense to me.
480159
Mind your own business. A hidden camera in her bedroom is a cheap shot. If you want to see two Lesbians getting it on, rent some porn..........
127873
Sounds to me like you two need to grow up.\n\nIf you two don't want to get divorved \nDON'T GET DIVORCED! no matter what her mom says.