We were dating for 1 year and 4 months. She moved up north about 3 hours away. We were still dating but Things were getting to rough because of the distances. So we broke up, and because she wanted her space but I didnt. So we weren't talking for about 3 months. Then we started talking again but just as friends. But now still talking to me like if we were dating again. She's calling me baby, babe, boo, and I dont know how to react. We havent seen eachother since She went up to college and now she wants to see me Next weekend. What should I do and How do I get her back?
205428
Well go meet up...dont blurt out your feelings...let the girl come to you. :) If she doesnt then your in control. Hang out with her like a friend...if she tells you she likes you and wants to be with you...then say what you feel i guess....but keep cool...if a girl told you she need space...then shes the type thats comeing back to you cuz maybe she was talking to someone else and now needs someone to talk to. If you want her back...let her show interest and act liek your busy and maybe you got time for her. Tahst the only way to treat a girl theses days :) hahaha i swear thats the kinda guys they want.
105668
I would ask her why she moved so far away if she wanted to "eventually work things out?"  If you and the baby momma are meant to be together, you'll find a way to get back together. Do you love her??? DO you feel like she IS the one?? If so, DONT LOSE HER!! Figure out a way for her to give you another chance. (ROSES AND CHOCOLATE ARE A PLUS!!) Hope I've helped. Good luck!
560235
Hey, hun. I went through that. It was like we never broke up.  After talking we decided to pretend it never happened. Now she and I regret it. But talk to her. You both probably want to get back, a fight shouldn't be the reason you break up.
463959
wow...that's an age difference.  none the less, sounds like she may be afraid of commitment.  But from the sounds of it, you guys never truly split up.  She calls you all the time, you guys do things, that doesn't sound like a normal broke up couple.  Normally they're at each other's throats or just totally avoiding each other.  From the sounds of it, you guys are going to be just fine. Good Luck and hang in there...it'll get better
282506
IT sounds like this girl broke up with you and may be regreetting it, but due to peer pressure she cant talk to you. I know it may be hard but either say hello to her or just ignore her completly make sure she knows that you are still into her. \n\nGood luck
69285
yikes.  what did she say that was so awful?\nmaybe it's okay to move and take some time.  she's family; you can always reconnect later.\nhaving an open conversation about what's going on, though, is far better than her just moving quickly and no one talkign about it.  try to stay friends!
558213
That's a tough one, maybe you two can hang out and try to avoid conversations that will stir up feelings from the previous relationship, but then it will seem like they are avoiding the situation, so maybe the best policy is to talk about whatever has happened and ask the person how do they think they can move forward. Maybe they may say they need sometime to themselves or something, or maybe you can suggest to them that they take up a hobby, like exercising, or jogging or something like that. Hope this helps!!!
85888
If you want her back, apologize and promise to be good, and keep that promise. Otherwise, get out in the world and start dating again. You'll find someone new to care for.
243187
Sad to say, if she doesn't want to go back to you, there is nothing you can do - it just isn't meant to be.\n\nTry to remember the happy times you had together, and when you are ready, go find someone who will want to be with you.\n\nshe is offering friendship, so if it won't hurt your feelings too much, why not try to be her friend.  There are no guarantees, but maybe in the future, if you remain friends, and if you still want to be with her, it might happen - but see how things go.\n\nGood Luck!
308045
im so sorry for u..i see how confussing this must be for you..<i could barely understand this it was so conf..> but i think u need to start from the begginning..why did she think u were ditching her...and tell her "i have a new bff and so do u, u should have thought about ur decsion before u got a new bff" so untill then..lets just stay bf..ok.."\n\nhope this helps..i hope things work out for u..\n\n: )
426613
Give her plenty of space, shes obviously not emotionally ready for a very serious relationship.  \n\nBest advice is to put things on hold, and both of you see other people.  Doubts like this cannot be wiped clean without other experiences.\n\nIf, after you both have some new experiences, you both get back together, then thats great, and if not, you don;t wind up in a relationship either of you regret\n\nEdit .... Ok, I read a little more, and this girl is finished with you.  Make ZERO attempts to contact her for the next couple of months, go out, date other women, have fun, DONT TRY TO GER HER BACK.  It will only push her further away from you.  \n\nIf you move on, and life your life for yourself, then good things will happen
125026
Ok this kinda situation is not that rare... I can't tell you what to do, you'll have to decide that for yourself.  i would suggest thinking of how bad it hurt when she left.  Then how longit was before she called/ spole with you.  Its the little things in life that lead to the big picture.  Think of the little things in the past that made the relationship stronger and compare them to those that pushed you apart.  Asses the nature of the issues that came between you both.  Finally, know that the world is full of beautiful women, there's one around every turn.  Don't let the fact that they may not always be around blur your vision of what will make YOU happy.  Hope this helps,\nHang in there brotha'\nSean
519333
You should definitely give her some time because she just broke up with her boyfriend.  There is still a possiblity that they might get back together.  Also, you do not want to be her rebound guy because rebounders never last long.  Just be a friend to her and let her know she can call you if she needs to talk.  But take it from me, I'm a female.  You do not want to pressure her or else it will turn her off of you.  Give her time.
580710
either two things are going on here: 1. she's just using you, and using crying to make it so you don't think you've been used, or 2. she's suffering from depression. I lean more towards option 2: I don't think she was just using you if she broke up AFTER maui. Perhaps she just needs time to sort things out. If you truly were as cool to her as you say (which I will take at face value), then perhaps what you might want to do is be her friend for a while. I mean a real friend. help her through the rough times, show her you are a loyal and caring person. once the hardships are over, she will know she can trust you and perhaps you two can get back together again. Be there for her, and let her know that whatever she needs she can count on you to do your best to provide it. Try not to be in situations where you'd want to sleep with her. be upstanding and forthright with her. \n\nGood luck, and I hope you two can end up together and happy again.
492972
She's trying to be nice and stay friends, although it is the wrong thing to do.  It's obvious that she broke up with you because she already had someone she was interested in, and wanted to go for it.  It's possible she is trying to have her cake and eat it too.  I would personally tell her it's over, and to leave it at that.  OVER.  No more calls.  Just tell her to leave you alone.  She is being selfish and not thinking of you.
239165
You may be reading too much into what is not? I have heard and seen break ups that do not lead into problems. Then again there are people who always want what they cannot have. You want to be careful with this situation make sure she wants you back so your pride don't get hurt. Another thing you could do is flirt with her the same way she is flirting with you.
671123
Just tell her you guys broke up- you both realized you weren't ready for the commitment and leave it at that- tell her your personal life isn't something you like to discuss and next time, BE HONEST.