What annoying habit does he have you want him to change? Have you experienced such habit in common in case of all the men?
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It's the stubborness. And I'm sure every man has it. Wouldn't admit even if they're wrong. A disability to listen. Answering without listening the question. Later be surprised as the first time to know the question...and for giving the wrong answer. Happened all the time, with all the exes and guys friends. Doubt it can be changed. It's in the blood.
103297
idunno but my hubbie will do that too one time i asked him 2 make me some iced tea and he got up went to the kitchen and came back and said there was none and i had just made it  i could go on and on but i dont have your answer just wanted to let you know you are not alone either you deal with it or just leave him you cannot change him
470575
Sex, Alchol and Parties. I have a male model friend - he's all about that. I keep annoying him with "stop, you are harming yourself" comments! ==>>Don't do it!
309598
I will ask one question: Do u do it frequently enough for him?\n\n1. If the answer is NO, then he is normal, and u should talk about it coz he is gonna look for the satisfaction somwhere else.\n\n2. If the answer is YES, then  he has a problem. He is obssessed with it and u gonna look for ways on how to make him control this urge.., or do it as frequently as he wants..
105040
Give him a chance to change on his own, don't push him or you might lose him.  If he is really worth the effort, take your time and don't put too much pressure on him.  It must be his decision to change, or it will not work.
273372
Guess what L****e, I've noticed that too. * really 'dumps' himself on you whenever he feels he needs help. No offence, but I really dont like him as a person anymore. I did like him in the pre-M****e days, but now... YUCK. Plus, hes an EMO which is really starting to bug me. And his hair!! HELLOOO you are plantinum blonde!! Never gonna get it to go black!! Don't worry though, because  when he remembers that you where there when he was dumped the first time, he'll come crawling back. Either that, or I'll make him remember i.e. hurting him. xx
529267
'Chaps' cologne for men stinks like crazy!\nI had to stop dating a man once cause I felt\nlike I was smothering to death!
535714
he does it because he can.\n\ndont ring him for a day or two and then he will wonder why when he asks you just change the converstation. i bet he wont like it.\n\nmaybe he doesnt see it as a proper relationship?\ni had this problem with a guy when i was 17. he just thought we werent exclusive. talk to him about it if it annoys you so much \n\nif he doesnt change move on.
101089
HE NEEDS COUNSELING ON HOW TO CONTROL HIS PROBLEM, PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING. I'M SORRY BUT THAT'S JUST SICK TO HAVE TO BE AROUND THAT ALL THE TIME. I'M NOT BEING MEAN AGAINST HIM, BUT I'M SURE THAT YOU CAN AGREE THAT IT ISN'T A NORMAL THING FOR ANYONE TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH.  HE DEFINETELY NEEDS TO GET IT UNDER CONTROL, AND I THINK THE ONLY WAY IS TO TALK TO A PROFESSIONAL ABOUT IT.  I STILL DON'T THINK THAT'LL GUARANTEE THAT HIS HORMONES WILL ALLOW HIM TO DO THAT THOUGH BUT GOOD LUCK!
147964
Geesh, why is it even an issue, You can't change him. Let it be!!!!
238381
My husband likes to curse.  I tell him it makes him look immature and undignified.  I personally think that's why he does it, because it irritates me.  I only get really mad when he says something and my 2-year old repeats it!
32296
unfortunatly I have to say i reckon men are like that it has happened to me. We do not do it on purpose though. It is just that things seem to get into a routine. Do something dramatic and unexpected. Add a little spice to the relationship. Tell him to chill out, shut up, and have some dang fun or else. LOL    another thing is he could be going through some things in his life. Try talking to him and find out what is wrong.
172600
Well women do mature faster, so that may be the issue! I think by the time you reach your 20s, he may change his tune, he will be a bit older.....and a bit more mature!
190900
it think this is just a man thing...regardless of upbringing.  i tried the first 5 years to get my husband to contribute to the day to day to no avail and i just ended up angry and frustrated.  i've learned that its easier to 'just settle'...you'd be surprised how when you lower your expectations to '0' any little stupid bit thing will thrill  you.  i know this is totally outdated thinking in today's pop psychology world, but its impossible to change a man...the only person you can change is yourself.  so really, you have three choices, 1.  try to change him and only end up frustrated, 2.  settle for less or 3.  leave.\ni'm sure a lot of women out there are angrily shaking their heads thinking you should be able to have it all...but i encourage them to have an honest look at their own marriages and their happiness...
78531
i'm also tired of idiot ignorant wannabe men.  here i am, a young boy, who always figured i was just a little boy.  but lately i've realized that i lead by example, i can actually skew the curve of what a woman should expect of a real man.  any guy who loves a girl should treat said girl like the dread pirate roberts in relation to the princess bride.  you ask your man "would you do the dishes?"  he should say "as you wish" and then get busy doing the dishes a.s.a.p.  you ask your man "have any interest in sweeping the house"?  he should say "as you wish", and then get busy sweeping right then....not tomorrow.  you say "make me dinner, sweetie".  he should reply "as you wish", and he should get off the couch and make you some good healthy real food........not run to mcdonalds with your credit card.  i wish you luck.
475674
It would depend on how many times he has promised to change and what happened before.\n\nIt is true that we all have faults.  However, some faults are easier to deal with than others.  I for one could not stick with someone with temper problems, whether he was violent or not, because I don't like being with someone who makes me nervous.\n\nEven at the end of your question you sounded like you were getting in a mood.
591479
First you need to be blunt and let him know what is bothering you and see if he is willing to modify some of his ways. If he blows it again then you know he is not going to change. Forgive/ Forget-- they are not the same