i am a guy of age 20 and desperatly need a grl frnd.i am not out of the world in looks and neither have a macho figure but i am attractive my frnds say so. sujest me the most effective way to get girl.
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Just be YOURSELF. Never try showing off.
418105
A few things come to mind reading your dilemma.  If you're actively trying to get guys' attention and it's not happening, then yes, you're obviously doing something wrong.  That's good news!  You can change your own errors easily enough.  If you were doing everything right and it still wasn't working...well, then you've got a problem because you can't change other people.\n\nAppearance and hygiene are critical.  You want a guy of quality?  You better fix yourself up to get him.  Learn to be impeccable in all you do.  That's the easy, shallow part (but books ARE judged by their cover.  Part of life, deal with it).\n\nIs there something wrong with your personality?  Like someone else asked, "are you rude?"  Also, how's your sense of humor?  Your ambition?  These are all things that can drive decent people away from you.  Be optimistic and outgoing as much as you can be.\n\nFinally, just get your butt out there and enjoy yourself.  As a discriminating man, I can tell you that the girls I've really enjoyed in my life were always the ones who were simply fun to be around.  Hell, find guys that you are attracted to and flat out ask them what they look for in a girl.  You'll learn more in a 5 minute conversation than you will asking online.  Good luck, girl.
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Tell all your friends that you would like to find a good man to date. Every woman in the world knows at least a dozen good, single men that would "be perfect for you!" Of course, I'm exaggerating a bit, but the principle is "to let people know that you're available, should you get asked out." Tell your family(you know they want the best for you).Be observant when you go to the grocery store.....I'll bet you know at least one guy right now that really "trips your trigger"....find out if he's single. If so, then, start up a conversation,  about, preferably manly things, like, "my car sounds funny", or, "I have a cabinet door that sticks".......see where it goes from there! You MIGHT be surprised!! Good Luck...........there's a lot of decent, lonely men out there, just waiting on a nice lady like you.
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right there.. your attitude is going to screw you over.. be confident my friend... by being confident you are being more attractive.. just be your self because in the long run, even though it should be the first thing its not because of the world we live in, personality is going to be your greatest friend... if she doesnt like you for that then she isnt worth is.. but thats not what you want to hear and im sorry for that... you just want advice to get her so thats what i'll give you...be consistently around her.. she'll notice you... start talking to her and have group hang outs and make sure she is invited.. go bowling or the movies.. something where everyone is comfortable.. this way you get to talk to her more and get to know her and vise versa with you... then after you feel everything is good... ask her out... if you think you arent attractive enough then she wont.. also its more than just looks.... maybe she isnt as shallow as you might think\n\ngood luck\nnice guys dont always finish last... i wont let it happen
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Man this is the worst idea for attracting girls.\nyou look so desprate!!!\nnext time try something like: "girls wanna chat??" it works better!!
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From this moment on, you tell yourself that you are an attractive, interesting guy than any girl would be priviledged to have. You are the man! Convince yourself you can have any girl you want. Look in the mirror and find the things that make you look good. If you need to excercise a bit to help things along. You are the Man!  Once you achieve this basic confidence in yourself, put the past behind you, concentrate on the future, which you are in charge of. You have what it takes to handle any girl, any situation. Go up to a girl, ask her out, treat her right.  You are the Man!
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Never lose hope...just keep the smile on and plenty of eye contact on your prey.We don't mind a little hunt.It assures us that we have a chance.Sometimes one too many rejections\ncan make even a stud have doubts.We're half way thru with this decade you know..?When are more woman gonna think like you and "take the bull by the horn"?Society has really pulled a number on us guys...women are more in charge in positions/situations than the recent past...and in return men have different views on women.Although,good thing for females we still have our "manhood" down yonder-trust in that!It won't take long now...go out...explore...have fun.WE've been waiting!!!
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FIRST OFF YOU DON'T NEED A GF. YOU'D LIKE ONE. \n\nIF THEY DON'T TALK TO YOU YOU NEED TO TALK TO THEM\n\nGIRLS LIKE GUYS WITH CONFIDENCE AND WHO SEEM ASSURED. \n\nTALK TO THEM, ASK THEM QUESTIONS AND LISTEN TO THE ANSWERS. LOOK INTO THEIR EYES AS THEY ANSWER. IF YOU ASK THEM STUFF AND SEEM INTERESTED IN WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY, THEY'LL WANT TO TALK TO YOU MORE\n\nYOU JUST NEED TO TALK TO THEM
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TAKE COURAGE ! THERE IS HOPE.\n\nTry to be yourself in front of girls and don't be afraid of them. They won't bite you. Don't be like "OOh, what am I gonna do?" kind of thing when you are talking to them. Build your confidence by going to the gym, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will find yourself having a hard time choosing the best girlfriend.\n\n\nTry this as well: \n\n1. Start with your interests/sports. Hang out with your friends in those places (say, bowling alleys, swimming pools, etc.)\n2. Carry yourself modestly. Don't overdo it. \n3. A well behaved men sometimes attract women (i think).\n4. Attend parties for singles.\n5. Ask for referrals.\n6. don't go to the bars (it's risky).\n7. If you are good to one girl, this will be passed around in a jiffy. And you will meet more girls...for you to choose from.\n\nALL THE BEST.
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Maybe you seem to come off as too perinoid. Maybe if you stop being so concerned with the way you look then you might be able to get a guy alittle faster. Hell, be yourself.
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Since your a male.  Look for females, instead........
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hey dont beat yourself up over it ..im 18 and never had a bf  and i consider myself a really nice person..i guess the saying goes nice guys finish last which is a shame...maybe your trying to hard and it just doesnt work out when your with a girl ..you cant compare yourself with your friends because everyone is different...looks arent everything most girls are looking for a good personality and someone that will treat them nice...some girls are looking for the so called "bad boy" type which really gets them no where.. maybe your looking in the wrong places ..you can always try a dating service which my cousin did shes 32 ..she has met some nice ppl and shes now getting married to the guy from the dating service..or just ask some girl that you are attracted...just be yourself and have confidence in yourself..dont go up to the girl thinking why dont girls like me ..just take your time your young
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yes u are a gud looking man. pls dont be hurry. why dont u try me, i want also a serious relationship...email-me ok... shel
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Hard to get, better than easy to get all the time.  If she won't tell you  Go somewhere else, there are bunch of girls out there.  Have your standards high.  Trial and error.
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Hey i'm 26, and dont have a g/f, but then no one advances towards me, and if they did as long as I find them attractive, I would make a move.  He does have an AA, so he did something.  He is just alittle lazy, but he can find a job with an AA degree.
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Not all girls are. But you have to ask yourself, are you superficial.  A lot of guys in your position look for a hot chick, when there could be a perfect girl for you that isn't the most beautiful or the skinniest.  If you aren't superficial then you'll find her eventually. If you are, prepare for heartbreak.
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ok heres how its gonna go, u guys might work becuz, any guy who can get a chick 10 yrs yunger than him is gonna be happy, and you, you probably want the aspect of hes older he'll want to settle down n all that stuff, now the problem is this...................................... everyone else\n\n\n-one-love-\nLusTlesS