Is there anything that your loved one has asked, or could ask, you to do that you would just have to say no to?\n\nMy ex wanted to try swinging - we didn't even live together. He had to go after that...
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Hard drugs.  Being with a guy.  Some other really kinky stuff.\n\nGood for you Miss dumping him.
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I would change so much! Id go back to the time i was 15 years old and would do so many things differently. Like getting involved with the wrong man and bein with him for nearly 7 yrs. I would have had the guts to end it with him at the 3 month stage but i was foolish. The biggest regret tho is fancying someone, not doin anythin about it and always wondering. And bungee jumping. I regret not doin that too!
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Would you do for him what you wouldn't do for anyone else?  Would you go against yourself if he asked you to?  Would he do the same?  Could you walk away, or can you not live without him?  Do you feel for him so much that it hurts?
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this guy i was dating: i was "Dangerously In Love" with him,but all he could think about was my "Humps", so "Hypothically" he said "Wait", i only have "4 Minutes" so baby let me tell you about my "One Wish",i said no because i dont want to hear from no "Scrub", and from someone who thinks hes a "Hustler". so to end this conversation i told him that im going to just "Shake It Off".......
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I found myself in a similar situation with my fiance.  I couldn't make him quit. Lucky for me, he chose to.  I didn't want to leave mine either but if he didn't quit, I was going to.  It was dragging me down.  I can say this, I had to be supportive and quit with him.  I didn't want to because I felt like I was responsible with it and he had the problem.  But, I see a counselor and talk to my mom a lot and they both felt that it was something that was right for me to do.  When I thought of it the other way around, what if it was me that needed to quit, I would want him to do it for me so I did it for him.  But, he still didn't quit for me or because of me and my quitting wasn't any part of it.  He quit because he chose to because he knew he needed to.  We talked a lot.  I told him how I felt.  But, he did it for himself.  People don't change permanently for anyone but themselves.  Yours will have to quit for himself and if he doesn't want to or chooses not to, you have to decide if you will stay or go.  Don't give him ultimatums either cuz that doesn't work and the only thing worse than him not quitting is him saying he will do it for you and then be sneaking around behind your back and he will if he says he will quit for you.  Just accept that you have no control.  You can talk to him but expect nothing and don't try to force.  Make your decision for you based on what he decides for himself.  Good luck and God Bless!
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Make my sister's illness go away and give her a better quality of life. For me, just a very small one, that my current house exchange goes through.\n\nI never ask for things like money or power - money comes from hard work and who wants that much power anyway?\n\nGod bless.
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Many Many years ago I did just that. I was unsure about my relationship at the time and just wanted to get away from my life and responsibilities and got with someone whom I had no history with. It was an escape which is all it was designed to be. I returned to my life and have been married 21 years and never looked back and can't imagine being with anyone else ever again.
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My girl and I try many things. Why be afraid to ask? If you are afraid to ask the person you are with about this than you shouldn't be together.
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Let someone hurt or violate me in any way.\n\nI wish more women would see it this way and get out
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ive played truth or dare with some of my girlfriends. i was dared to raise the blinds and twirl around naked in front of the window. (it was dark out so you could see right in)  we have lesbian neighbors across the street.....  thank god they never mentioned seeing me!!!!
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If you want to do this now, how do you know you wont ever cheat on him again?  What do you think your soon to be husband would say if you asked him this question????  You might be surprised by the answer....
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I was pretty much like you about golf....What is the point?  Well the point for me was that my sons were golfing and wanted me to golf with them.  \n\nI found someone (another teen friend of my boys' who went to state a couple of times) and had him teach me proper stance and swing and rules and such.  I offered to pay him but he refused.  So I paid for him to golf with me, paid for a bucket of balls just for him every time we went to the driving range, took him out for lunch...just little ways to pay him.  But he was an excellent teacher.  He got me far enough that I could golf with my boys without hurting myself with improper swings and stance.  \n\nI fell in love with golf.  Mostly I think because it was time with my boys but I really did enjoy it and am glad I took the time to learn it properly.  \n\nYou might find someone to give you a few basic lessons and surprise your husband.  It's really great that he wants you to play golf with him.  Don't miss this opportunity.
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An old girlfriend and I actually discussed doing this...putting an ad in Craigslist and asking for 4 different couples (didn't matter the relationship) to come for dinner. In the responses, we wanted to know WHY they should be the ones invited, and HOW they would make the dinner more interesting. (We were NOT looking for anything sexual or drug related).\n\nWe never did it...but talked about it alot. Who would have shown up? What would the conversation have been? Political? Economic? Music? Travel? Prejudices? Books? War? Would any of the couples have ended up as friends with us? Or with each other? Would it have been a complete disaster???\n\nI still wonder....
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What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl.  Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him?  There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them.  Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.
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WHY?  Only you can answer that... is he better is he worse?  Why do you keep going back to him?  \n\nMy only guess is that maybe since it's supposedly so bad and not allowed the "danger" is what's attracting you (may not even be the sex itself).  Did you think about that?
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I woke my wife up one morning with a shrug on her shoulder as we both lay  in bed.  She asked me if I was going to speak to her that morning.  She was referring to my ability to shut down from angst and misery, both what I consider a byproduct of poor choices, and my inability to admit It wasn't for me.  She was right.  Snide, but right.  It was a long time since we spoke.  You'd think we had been asleep for years.\nBut I did answer her.  \nI said, yes I am, I'm leaving. \nI said, I'm miserable can't you tell.  Do I even remotely resemble the man you first met?  You deserve to be wanted, not just a compromise.  \nThat was Eight years ago and we are very close friends.  Oh, she is still a bitch, just somebody elses.  I am happy.  She is too.\n\nI hope this answer just changed a life.  Peace.
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Sweetheart listen, \nI was in a relationship for thirteen years with someone that 25 years later still makes me weak in my knees and I let my family screw it up, but now I am married with 2 great kids and we live hundreds of miles away. My ex-lover and I still talk and I can not tell you how bad it hurts not to be held by her at night and the guilt I have for actually loving two different people so much and for different reasons. My mom would say "you are not gay" and I believe that you can't help with which person you fall in love with, and sweetie here is the deal if you are in love I mean really, really in love then love this person regardless. I know how hard it is to not fit into society but take it from an old broad love who YOU are and love the one you are with.