Well now yahoo answers has led me to believe that men can be intimidated by a gals cuteness....so be it.  So assuming that's the case...what's a girl to do?  Put your thinking caps on people, because I want to hear more than be more outgoing or forward.
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actually i dun get your question
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i was afraid that i wasn't interesting enough for a girl to consider attractive. I felt intimidated and knew that i was never able to have a relationship with a beautiful lady. I saw myself as being a low level guy compared to these built, strong, male models. I compared myself alot and so knowing what women wanted i decided to not approach the ladies whom i thought were attractive, and fantasized instead. Now, i figure that communication can expand and reconstruct the way i look and knowing tht a risk is worth everything in life. Finally, teasing and flirting with an attractive lady isn't difficult at all anymore, because i understand what a women wants from a guy like me. A very good eye connection with proper communication skills.
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I really like Alan's advice and I think he is right on.\nSo please do give what he said a try.\nUs women really do want to get to know you good,shy guys :o)
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sometimes men like women who are agressive or direct.  Maybe you should talk to him, be yourself, and say hey we should hang out at (wherever).  I like you and I think you are great.  Maybe we could get to know eachother better. What is the worst that could happen- you go on never knowing, aching over one person, or, take a chance, find love, or get turned down and move on to someone who does like you- because you are yourself.
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Most men tend to like women who are feminine and girly. It takes an extremely outgoing guy to be able to handle a sporty girl, but dont worry they are out there
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Maybe the girls are too intimidated by your good looks.  Maybe they think they would never measure up.  Make sure you are extra friendly and "approachable" around women, then they'll probably be all over you.  OH, and have fun and laugh, women adore that!
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Well! ... if a girl approached me, I'd probably be less interested in her. Why ? well, that's the last "Man's Job" that we need women to do. Besides, it represents a "masculine" side of the woman, a side which we don't like to see in them (at least me). \nI approach girls everywhere! However, Clubs are NOT the place to look for a relationship, I mean, you know why guys are there, and they're not there to dance!\nI think you should stop approaching men, but try to grap thier attention, a quick look, clothes, perfumes...etc. I can't promise that all of them well approach, some guys with enough confidence will though.
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Maybe you need the right blend of agressive and passive.  Plus, some girls and guys go for one or the other etc.  Also, I know it sounds lame, but just be yourself.  And be ultra-charming.  \nI think you should concentrate on improving yourself, for your own benefit.  And, if you improve, women or men will notice and go "hmmm"
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Yes! Beautiful women ARE indeed intimidating.  I don't want to sound sexist (I'm so not), but you can thank women's lib for how intimidated we are by you.  Women are now in charge of the world.  Maybe not business or government, but the real world.  Women own it.  A beautiful girl is more likely to have a lot of experience... experience rejecting men.  So we think that they are very good at it.  There is a fear that because so many men make rude comments to beautiful women, the women will naturally assume that any guy that approaches her has disgusting things in mind.  So there is this fear that she will not only reject, but be nasty about it too.  And since she can have any guy she wants, she probably already has the guy she wants.  And the chances for rejection are higher.  Since the chances of rejection are higher, there is a higher chance that we will be humiliated.\n\nNot to mention we all picture ourselves marrying a beautiful woman and we don't want to screw up the first impression with the woman we will end up with.  That's a lot of pressure to be under.\n\nTo be more approachable, you've got to disarm yourself.  Don't be so intimidating.  Don't dress to impress so much.  Well, dress nice. Be beautiful, but don't dress like you look like you are advertising your goods.  I know that it might sound counter-intuitive to not enhance your beauty, but if you look like you can have any guy you want, the guys you really want won't think they stand a chance.\n\nIf you see one guy you like, you've got to make it clear to him that you're interested.  Be available.  Make it easy for him to approach you. Encourage him.  Make eye contact and maintain it for 2 seconds, no more.  Then smile and turn away bashfully.  As you pass him by, say "hi".  If any other guys approach you (henceforth known as "creep"), make it clear to the guy  you really are interested in that you aren't into this creep, that your eyes are for him.  If you have to talk to the creep that came up to you, make it clear to him and to the guy you like that you have made your choice.  Keep getting caught looking at the guy you like.  Don't stare of course.  But make eye contact.  And if you really want to make the guy stick, give him a chance to rescue you. At the heart of every man lies a desire to rescue a beauty.  If the creep won't leave you alone, be more obvious to the guy you like that you want him to take you away from the creep. If he's a real courageous gentleman, then he'll grab you and say something like, "come on honey, there's someone I want you to meet."  Oh wouldn't that be nice!\n\nIf there's no creep and you are just eye-flirting with a guy, only a real idiot (like me - hah) won't bite.  And if he doesn't, let me tell you he'll be kicking himself for months.  It's not often that a beautiful girl makes it easy for even an attractive guy to approach her.\n\nI wish I was a peacock.
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be aggressive, B-E aggressive. Don't flirt with everyone, or else they will think you are a whore. And for gods sakes, buy a guy a drink every once in a while. Why are we afraid to talk to girls?  Maybe it's because we know we are going to pay $10 for your drink, and then get a fake phone number.
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My advice to you is to always be yourself - no matter the circumstances. Never you try to be someone else. You may not know this - but some guys are just there appreciating you as you are - a cool headed nice gurl. Maintain whatever virtues you're endowed with. Great advice I think that is. Cheers!
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Well, I think you are wrong.  I tend to have the same problems.  You are too serious even in your approach.  Girls just wanta have fun.  If you approach a girl with such a straight forward attitude you'll scare her off.  Big Yes on the self-confidence though.  You need to come across like you're fun to hang out with and you're looking for others that are fun to hang out with.  Friendship first buddy.  Ask general open-ended questions then listen.  School, work, hobbies, pets, etc  LISTEN to what she is saying and don't let your mind wander.  I know what happens.  She's talking and your thinking, oh crap what do I say, she's pretty, does she like me, how do I look, how can I be funny, what do I say, oh crap... If you're not listening then you can not 'join' the conversation.  The more you talk the more you both will loosen up.
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Don't get discouraged. Guys are pretty visually based beings. Hell it is hard for Humans not to be. I mean if your in a club and a guy comes up to you and has on some nerdy outfit and is dog butt ugly are you going to take the time to get to know his personality? I doubt it. Now you take a guy seeing a hotty Asian girl WITH big boobs? That is what we see that makes us want to talk to you. But relax eventually one of the those guys will take the time to look up and realize you have a head. I guessing that you are kinda young and the guys at that age (ok all ages) are full of hormones. I am not saying that is ok the view women as objects, but I did marry a big boobed Japanese girl and eventually I realized she had more than a chest.
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Why not try to find a girl for him to go out with and try to get her to help to boost his confidence, I honestly think that practical experience will help more than words in this case.
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Not all women are intimidated by other women with positive features.  I for one am not intimidated (maybe a little envious-ha ha).  I say good for you!!
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That's because we get nervous! anyways, guys have told me that they love when we laugh at anything they say... I think that happens to every girl! that's what makes us cute!
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Wow, I'm suprised someone other than me has this probablem! Okay well first off don't ever be nervous around her, even if she thinks it's adorable. Kind of hint it at her, like flirt with her often but not too often. If the hinting don't help gather up all your guts and ask her out, if she says yeah good for ya, if she says no, don't give up just keep it cool with her and wait for a little longer.