I really like this girl, and have been talking to her from time to time (just like causal talking: hi, how you been and so on) she always just gives me one or two word answers, she is very hard to talk with. this has been going on for about two years and now i want to see if i should take this further or just let it go, someone PLEASE help me! i called her a couple of times and get the same response, but she keeps showing up wherever i am, and then gives me that big beautiful smile of hers, then nothing. I am totaly confused!Does she like me or not? is she just teasing me? Does she she want me to make the first move? I know that she is painfully shy, as I am.
203424
make the first move. a to of girls are like that. she probably likes you but she is just too shy to make the first move!!!!!! go for it!!! and if this has been happening for 2 years then def go for it. she probably will say yes!!!!
473736
She is playing with you.She sounds like a real nasty if you ask me.You sound sweet there are plenty of nice girls around.Dont take her calls if she tries to call or if you see her ignore her she will soon get the message that your not playing her silly little games.:)
105823
Ha ha ha. It's funny U know. Even i suffer the same. I like one girl. I dont know whether she likes me. But few movements says that she likes me (I guess).\n\nALL THE BEST to you
664638
I think you should just call her, because you sound confused and you just confused me by reading all that....lol. But seriously, if you like her find out for sure, because she may be feeling the same way about you (confused). Sometimes people don't give off clear signs on wether they like a person or not...maybe their shy...maybe their scared..or maybe they don't like you.....you never know. Just keep on untill you get a clear YES or NO!!! But in this case if you do get a No..then don't feel stupid or anything, because you already know your a good person and she would probably end up the one missing out!!! Also don't listen when the people on here tell you to start "playing games" that is soooo immature and a waste of time..do what's in your heart. So find out!!! that way you can make your next move.....either you will start a wonderful relationship or you will move the HELL ON!!!!!! (so you can quit wondering) \nGood Luck and Be Blessed!!!!
107818
Is she flirty? Does she look at you a lot? Does she play with her hair when she talks to you? Does she smile at you? These are things I remember doing when I had a crush on a boy. Slip her a note in her locker or backpack. At this age it is really hard because I'm sure she is always with her friends. Try to get her alone for a sec with out everyone watching just to ask her if she wants to go for a walk or something. Don't think you are going to jump her bones though. Just get the courage to at least say hi and smile at her. If she is not into you, move on. Don't get clingy. Girls don't like that. They like that balance of mystery. Like don't talk too much about stuff. Ask her questions with sincerity. She'll fall for it. I would love to know how this turns out. Good luck! If you have any other questions email me at yahoo using my name.
166118
Well I'm a female, and I'll be the first to admit that women can and do send mixed signals.  Sorry!  I personally find that  tYpe liKe ThIs to be extremely annoying, but then again, maybe  she thinks it's playful.  Sounds like you are on her mind right now, who knows why.  If you want it to be more (again) then respond.  If you are over her, then be polite but don't get engaged in it.
611691
it could be that she is a tease, but normal girls when they do that really means she likes you and want you to approach her.\ni'm speaking for myself because i have done that many times.\nfor me it works\none more thing****\nsome girls give off mixed signals, why i don't know
581383
The best time to talk to a girl when you see her for the first time...talk to her when she's stopped somewhere like in a store or at a drink machine or something, not when she's walking.  Give her a genuine compliment like "You look nice today" or "You have a pretty smile."  Most of the time a girl won't shrug you off or look at you weird when  you compliment them, but there are some people out there who think that every guy who looks at them wants something.  A nice girl will thank you and smile.  Take it from there with something like "I was thinking about buying this cd (name a band or something), have you heard them?  Are they a good band?"  Ask her opinionated questions and if she's nice and wants to be approached by you, she'll continue talking to you.  If she doesn't want to be approached by you, she'll keep it short or give a reason to just walk away.  Don't sweat it.  It's not as hard to get the NICE girls as it seems.  The bitchy ones will be difficult and put up a fight. lol.
153853
it is obvious that she liked you!  So when she found out that you were taken it made her nervous.  She must have thought that you guys had a attraction toward each other especially if you talked for 4 to 5 hours a night.  So when she found out that you didn't feel the same way toward her it made her embarrassed.  She will get over it i think.  Just give her some time.  When you do talk to her, just act as if nothing is wrong or different hopefully this will give her the message that she shouldn't be embarrassed because you thought nothing of it.  I would not ask her why she stoped talking to you though because this will only discourage her to not talk to you since it will make her more embarrassed.
161680
Hey, dont rush girls.  No matter how much we may say, at times we just freak out regretfully the next moment we're alone, believe me.  If she keeps on saying it though, she's probably toying with u, being glad to get ur attention.
158530
she sounds like she likes you more than just friends... i think she had second thoughts after her first refusal of a relationship, if you still want to, you can make your offer again, i think now is a good time and she seems ready.. Good Luck
216361
Keep trying man, but don't push things, just try to talk to here in the more relaxed way possible, like you didn't care about her, and pay attention to what she says, then you could discover what she likes and then start talking about what she likes. This should help you, it it doesn't, move on, there are always other girls.
364760
She likes you, shes probably just shy and is waiting for you to make the first move. Her friends giggle because they know she likes you. Give it a shot talk to her!
33456
if you asked her how she felt before and she hasnt made an effort to tell you differently, her feelings might be the same. She might also be shy and hoping you will ask again..its hard to say. Has she been acting differently around you lately? Do you ever hang out with her alone, and if so what kind of convos do you have? If they are personal and important than thats a good thing.\nPrepare yourself, she may not have feelings for you. If you decide to ask her again she might get creeped out, so just watch her behavior and see how she acts.
619991
Hey is it very tough to find out .. . well I find it very hard .. I can understand your problem .. I have also gone through it .. find out any specific method .. let me advise you .. it is very clear that you are finding it hard to ask her directly .. do one thing ask another girl who is close to her .. or of she does not know then make one girl to ask for you ( she will just ask casually without reveling your name ) well I do thing that is a good ans .. well one question from my side .. how you come to know the a girl loves ( or at least likes you ) ? believe me girls are also humans and has feeling like us .. how to know it .. she will give you hints .. but ..how to catch it. ?
169418
She acts exactly the oppisite of what she feels if she likes you and wants to hide it. \nShe'll try to talk with you if she's not afraid to show it.\nAnd just be yourself, if she doesn't accept you, she's a jerk. There's someone out there for you.
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Its from my personal experience i'm telling you this.. I've been crazy about a guy for over 4 years.. I did everything that you are doing right now.. I'm that kind of girl that can go babbling about anything and mostly i talk to guys only.. But i was completely unable to talk to the guy i liked.. Every time i see him i move away from that place.. It kinda made it look like i didn't like him.. But after 4 years i finally talked and he really liked me as well.. \n\nSo i'd suggest that you make the first move.. Jus ask her.. Maybe she already likes you and is waititng to be asked out.. \nDo your best..\n\nGood Luck Dude ;-)