I dated a woman by email and didn't accepted well we never talked about it i want to date her again but i'm not sure if she refuses then i will be very depressed but maybe she accepts how to know what to do?
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Cut your losses and find another.\n\nIf she thinks that your a flake from the get go.  You will probably never get a first or second date.
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I feel for you Molly, I have been in that situation twice myself. The one really positive thing in your situation is that you want to move forward.... I know I didn't even want to move on from my first unrequited love, I just kept on hoping that one day she would return my love, which was really stupid since she was straight.  So, I ended up wasting 5 years of my life!  And then, apparently not having learned anything, I fell in love with another girl who was bi, but who couldn't commit to actually having a relationship with another girl.  She only wanted a physical relationship without any emotional ties, so there went another 2 years of my life.  Finally I learned that the only way I was ever going to be happy was if I worked on my self-esteem and learned to trust my intuition.... I had known from the start that both of the girls I fell for were completely unattainable, so really I had nobody to blame but myself for what I perceived as rejection. And I really believe now that subconsciously I wasn't ready for a realtionship, and that's why I was seeking out unattainable people. I needed to love myself and have the confidence to put myself out there in the world, instead of fooling myself that I could find some kind of happiness or fulfilment in unrequited love. I have no idea if you will relate to my story at all or not, but I guess my advice would be to just get out there, meet new people, make friends, enjoy life, be honest and open with yourself and others, and of course love and respect yourself.  Although it may seem impossible to imagine now, you will get over the heartache, but you have to make a conscious effort to do so which you seem to want to do.  I wish you all the very best.  Stay strong! Keep smiling! Love will find you!
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that is very sad... I have a rule of thumb when it comes to dating... IF at any point you evaluate your relationship and you know it's never going to work THEN don't waste anymore of your time or hers.
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It's possible, she may change her mind.  You need to give her some time to miss you.  In a couple of weeks, maybe you could invite her to lunch, and have a talk.  Sounds like she still cares, but perhaps is confused.
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Life seems terrible like that sometimes. I think you should face your fears & confront her. Tell he what you feel now & ask her if she feels the same or if there ever will be a chance of that happening. 1 of 2 things will happen if you do that.. yo might get lucky where she accepts your proposal or you may not be lucky where she will reject you. either way you will have a guaranteed answer without a loose end to haunt you for the rest of your life.\n\nIf you dont confront her, you wont know if there was ever a chance or if she simply didn't want to be with you. In this case you will forever be haunted by the questions beginning with 'what if..'.\nFurther more you would have created that pain all on your own from self-pity & disappointment in self pride as a man.\n\n\n...I've said my say now its time for you to do what you think is best for YOU.\n\nAnd finally.. if you do decide not to confront her & you find yourself losing her in time & space. Your only option will be to force yourself to forget her otherwise the pain will eat at you forever. How do you forget? Change your lifestyle & meet new people & create opportunities for yourself to fall in love with someone new.
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I agree with MissR, let her get her life in some sort of order before you try anything. You should just try to be there for her, a shoulder to cry on and a great friend to talk to. That will mean a lot to her and she will be more likely to come to you when she is ready to date again cuz she knows you will be there for her when she really needs it.
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The date didn`t seem bad at all...and i don`t think the freeway thing scared her off so bad that she doesn`t wanna meet u anymore. She just came out of a relationship maybe she wants to wait a little be4 she gets serious again. U said u told her everything...did u also tell her that u are understanding if she doesn`t want to rush into a new relationship? About the b day...how about u send her a nice b day card with a coupon for a nice dinner?Or...u go over there give her some flowers and the card with the dinner coupon in there..?If she says yes to dinner u guys have some time to talk  and u can let her know that u never wanted to put pressure on her. U know her since 3 yrs..and u still didn`t give up i think thats awesome and i wish u the best of luck !
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she might need time to think. dont contact her in any way you will most likely get a call or email within a day.. just guessing but women are like that and so are men so back off for awhile ok? good luck
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The only dating I have done as an adult has been from on here.  I usually kind of know the person, have talked on the phone and online for quite awhile before we meet.  I have usually dreamed about the meeting for some time.  I tend to live a bit in a fantasy world.  I think about will we have as much fun together laughing, will he see me and think that I am not what he expected, etc.  I don't worry about how I will see the other person because I have already formed an emotionally satisfying bond from talking for awhile.
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Hey, I am Jennifer. I was reading over ur qustion, It seems that she is a play by play...I dont know but if i was u i wouldent date her anymore or see her. For me to say I think u sound like  nice guy and u need better. For what i am trying to say is that she tells u to trust her, how could u ever trust anyone that spends the night with anotheir man..thats not right, if u ask me....If she really cared for u she would be with u and not anotheir man. It sounds like she is sorta a good person and all but i think u so need better then her, she is nothing. I'm sry i hope i dont upset you. But what ever happens good luck. But if u would like to talk just im me it is kikikinky321.. bye for now
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Hiya,sounds like she has issues going on with her life that most likely have nothing to do with you, let it be and do NOT attempt to contact her, if she is interested or whatever has happened in her life has passed she will contact you,you sound like a nice and kind and caring person, you will not be absent from female company for long (smile) peace
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Its really fun....I'm going through the same thing myself...my girlfriend of 2 yrs called it off 3 days ago and I'm suck in the same predicament. I absolutely can relate to you because I'm afraid that I won't ever find someone that I care and love. Not to mention she was my first girlfriend. To make it worse she tells me that she doesn't really see a future with me even though she tells me she loves me. Anyways I just want to tell you that its ok and hopefully both of us will be ok in the future. I wish you luck and I feel your pain. Oh, and the Dr. Steve answer is not fair... I'm not a teenager and I'm going through this so to say that "its a meaningless relationship" is cruel.
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no, do not tell her your real feelings in a text or email  message, really it's not very classy.  you could text or email her that you have something to talk to her about, but please, if you want to make it personal, look her in the eyes and TELL her how  you feel.  once you get started, just say something, it will get easier to follow through and finish.  it's okay to be nervous, it happens to men and women all the time.... i think we all have that fear of rejection that comes with airing our feelings, especially when it comes to relationships.  the thing is though, be a man, tell her in person.  it's the classy thing to do.
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I think its awesome. I know for a fact that I've missed out on many great opportunities simply because I did not think the girl was interested in me. Or even worse, I was too worried about being rejected. My wife of 10 years persued me. I never even knew she felt like that about me. Just think, if she never made "the move" we would probably not be so happy together right now. I say go for it. It was perfectly fine back then and its more acceptable now.
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I guess it's something that ppl hav 2 deal wif..u might probably feel alone,confused..And all you think about is to try to move on but the real thing is, you can't..I went through the same problem too.Fact, I'm actually still stuck!It's hurtful and so confusing realli.It suxs to rejected...Most ppl would say move on...she's not worth it..and realli, she's not. U can't wait for her to accept u..the longer u wait, the deeper u'll go. I mean, she might not feel the same way about u like the way u feel about her. And that's not love. U didn't do anything wrong, it's realli something u hav to accept in life so, at least, try to keep ur mind of her and u may actually realise that there's someone out there which is so much better and will love u like the way u love her...i realli hope this helps..
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If I were single and I received that email form a girl I was not interested in I would ignore her to avoid an uncomfortable situation. The sad truth is he is not interested. Sorry to break your heart.
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This may not be possible.  How hurt was she?\nIf you are serious, look for her.  Try to talk to her in person.  Make sure she understands that you are not a player and that you really do feel sorry for any grief you may have caused.\nLet her know that you want quality time, not just a casual encounter.  Spill you guts.  Confess to your stupidity and lack of sensitivity.  Beg if necessary.\nOf if you don't feel that strongly about her, forget it.  It was never meant to be.