My friend is annoying me.  Her parents kind of spoil her, but she never talks to them.  She doesn't notice that having  a good relationship with your 'rents can make your life better, and she only sees what they do wrong.  It really makes me angry, but I don't know if I should tell her to suck it up or not.  She' my best friend, and I don't want to lose that.
216152
wait until she complains again then say something.
420802
This is what she is affraid of. You are her best friend and she can't even talk to you because you haven't talked to her in almost a week. You just proved her point for her.My husband is my best friend. And back when he was just my best friend he told me that he thought we should try going out. We aready were going everywere together anyway. I turned him down also for the same reason I was afraid I would lose my best friend. Do you know what changed my mind. He looked at me and said o.k. can't blame me for trying. Now come out side and help me do the tune up on my car. By doing that by letting me see that he wasn't going to start acting wierd towards me. By just continuing to be himself around me. I realized that their wasn't anything to be scared of because my best friend would be there in this relationship with me.
219148
His parents sound pretty immature and pointlessly mean, if they weren't kidding around. It also sounds like he's picking up on their behavior and imitating it. But his parents' behavior is not as important as his, since he is the one who is your friend. You can confront him about it, if you choose, or you can decide whether his friendship is still valuable to you. Everyone has little things that will annoy us, whether it's friends or family, and you just have to decide whether hanging out with them is worth putting up with them. If his only bad trait is that he occasionally teases your brothers, you might just simply want to ask him to stop.
352990
My best friend does this all the time. She'll call me and ask for advice on what to do about her loser husband who doesn't work, is never home, and treats her like shit. She alreadys know exactly what I'm going to say for the 50 millionth time. So I got to the point where I told her if she wasn't going to listen to my advice then don't ask for it and as a matter of fact, just don't bring the subject up all together. It's gets annoying after a while.
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Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
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She shouldn't tell you that she hates you.  She shouldn't hate your friends either.  Does she hate your family?  I guess you should try to imagine her in your life in the future, and what that would be like.  Would you two be living together, and you'd never get to see your friends?  What's more important then, her or your life before you met her?  Can you imagine having kids with her?  I would hate to think there'd be terrible fights where she screams that she hates you in front of the kids.  I kinda don't think you should stay.  If you really want to stay and you think she has good intentions and that she is saying all of these mean things to you because you are living your life in such a way that it hurts her, then I think you need to think about making some changes in your actions... clean up your act a little bit, and see if she respects you then.  But just think about these things so far, and try to answer some of these questions for yourself so you can make the best decision for yourself.  I wish you all the best.
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I think that with anyone that you spend lots of time with, you are bound to get annoyed at times with your best friend. it just means that it's time to give each other a little space and maybe not hang out every day. Even if it's just a weekend off. But if it's more intense than that, maybe you should discuss it with them and see if they are feeling the same way.
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Have you communicated to her that when she says these things they make you feel bad. She may not realize talking about her fun weekend with another friend was hurting you when she hought she was just making conversation. The fact that she says "you weren't important enough" really hurts! It hurts me to hear that someone you consider a friend would say that to you! It sounds like she is being really immature with her emotions, especially for soemone who is old enough to be married. You can serve as a good example by communicating with her in the way you would like to be communicated with, even to the point of being straight forward and saying, I wish you would say something to me when you are angry with me instead of withdrawing. I want this friendship to work. Try to talk to her in a way that isn't accusatory like "You do this" but talk in a "You make me feeel [blank] when you withdraw.. " or incorporate "We" into your conversation like "I feel we need to work on communicating with eachother better, I care about you and I want to work out whatever is bothering you" If she doesn't change and retains her mature attitude, I would find someone else who respects you enough to be upfront with you. When I read this, it sounded llike a "friend" I have right now who posts her thoughts on an online journal instead of telling me upfront in an appropriate time and place. I tried talking to her a while ago but she hasn't changed and I find that she just makes me more upset than happy and I am trying to find a safe and respectable way out.
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My daughter went through this not very long ago.  It hurt her very much.  Why are girls so evil at this age.  The girl continued to call and my daughter has finally realized that she just enjoys drama.  She finally told her so- called best friend not to call and she no longer wants to have her friendship.  Since, this girl has gossiped and tried to have others ignore my daughter.  Didn't work since they have all realize that she is a phony..
231100
Where are your parents? They need to know what a royal pain in the butt she's being. She has no right to treat you like that...unless you did something to tick her off first. If you did, own up to it. If not, then again--tell your parents.
111834
okay, the only way to get past this is to let your friend be friends with them... let's be honest if you completely make your only friend stay away from them she may end up disliking you for making her pick sides.
524109
maybe have a get together with all the friends.. maybe all of you could , at same time, try one more time to explain to her just how you all feel about it... then back off and leave her alone.. she is an adult, and as such should be treated with respect.. it is her choice, her life and she has final say as to how to live it... be supportive no matter what she decides to do.. a true friend, speaks up, and then backs off and then supports..... God bless
237824
Life's hard enough without having our 'friends' treat us like that. Tell her it was nice knowing her but you feel your friendship has fizzled out & you need your own space & so on. Don't go playing her at her own game & calling her names, try to part on friendly terms cos she sounds like the sort to hold a grudge & may go out for revenge if you end it by telling her where to go.
398138
this girl is obviously a back stabber and you need to eliminate her as one of your friends.  find someone else you could move in with besides nobody knows better than you how your doing financially
577658
If you parents don't like her it's probably for a good reason - they see something you don't.  Why would you want to keep her around if she makes fun of you?  She doesn't sound like a good friend and trust me, money isn't everything - a true friend who is poor is better than one who is rich and treats you like crap.
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First of all, if your house and family are that bad, then she shouldn't come over any more.  Seems like to me she's being a BRAT, and using you and your family.  You should stop hanging with her and enjoy your family.  They can't be replaced, you can get a new friend.
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man yo friend is selfish, i know cuz im sorta the same way but i dont mess with my friend relationship because i know that he is happy with her and thatall that matters. but im saying if the giel do him wrong then she would have to answer to me. juss tell yo friend if she that close to you to let u go, cuz she is doing the same thing. if she like that tell her you wont talk to her ne more till she understands that u not with her and that u need your freedom. there is a nice way to tell her(not in those words) but the rection is gone be the same, feel me?