my little boy is 5 yers old and he is pre k school he has starting cursing,kicking and hitting his classmates, and its like i get a letter from his teacher everyother day about his behavior,could it be that he has adhd??and if it is adhd what medicine should i use on a 5 year old?could he be tested at 5????
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It's obvious all this medication for all these so called "disorders" don't work because 5 year olds are controlling things. Your kid is sick alright, he was born with a sin nature. Ever wonder why babies cry when they don't get their way and are selfish as toddlers?  "Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin my mother conceived me(Psalm 51:5)". "Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far from him(Proverbs 22:15)". Years ago, when there was no such thing as A.D.D. etc, the parents were in control because they spanked their children, thereby teaching them that choices have consequences. "He who withholds his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently(Proverbs 13:23)". "Do not hold back discipline from the child, Although you strike him with the rod, he will not die. You shall strike him with the rod and rescue his soul from Sheol(Proverbs 23:13-14)". If you don't whoop him, he will whoop you. One day he will probably be bigger than you and if you don't get him now, what will you do then? He will be an out of control adult who will be dealt with by society, but only much more harshly. So please, for his sake, yours, and the rest of the world's, raise him right!
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First I would ask how old the child is.  As a teacher I can tell you that ritalin is one of the most overprescribed drugs in the U.S.  People have forgotten that little children are naturally hyper.  If the child does not chemically need ritalin, it will make him more hyper.  If he does, you can expect him to be kind of blah, as ritalin is a stabalizer.  Although I am not a doctor, unless the child is bouncing off the walls uncontrollably, and can't pay attention for more than a few seconds, I do not recommend drugging him.  I have had many students who were presribed these drugs and only two or three that I felt really needed them.  Check out these websites to learn a little more.\nhttp://www.ncpamd.com/Stimulant_Side_Effects.htm\nhttp://www.breggin.com/ritalin.html\nhttp://www.prozactruth.com/ritalineffects.htm\nhttp://www.drugs.com/Ritalin/index.html\nI hope this helps provide your friend the answers he or she is looking for.
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Wow I don't know if I should tell you this... Get her on nutritional supplements as soon as possible. My sister's boy was the same way... he won't eat anything until he is ready to pass out from hunger and he is really not well behaved. He gets violent at the drop of a hat. He has no control over his anger whatsoever, he will most likely be kicked out of school this year (he is ten now) for bashing his classmate over the head with a heavy object, he has to take anti-psychotic medication just to act (somewhat) normal. He is a bright and funny kid, he just can't control himself at all. You should seek professional help, and I will keep my fingers crossed for you. Best of luck.
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First, I'd talk to his pediatrician and/or see a neurologist (I'm sure he's had one in the past with this sort of problem).  Second, ask the doctor (or look into it yourself) about enrolling him in sometype of therapy-- I'm not sure what type would be appropriate- in addition to typical therapy (emotional type- to help him find better coping strategies)also maybe you could enroll him in something like physical therapy or occupational therapy-- where at least they could maybe fit him with some type of helmet or device or install something on the walls to protect him.  Not sure if you live in an area where this is available or how affordable an option it is (I'm from a small town where these things just don't exist) but I would strongly recommend seeing the doctors and considering some sort of therapy.  I truly wish you and your child the best of luck.
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Hum this does sound like a problem. Does he take meds? Try checking with your Regular doctor perhaps on some treatment options. There are also other school programs that might help him. Good luck!
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FIRST get him off the Concerta! It is most likely the cause! Second, improve his diet and see that he gets more exercise! The leading cause of ADHD (which is all BS anyway) is the lack of physical activity. Stop poisoning your children with all the crappy foods and quick-fix medications!  Do the research, you'll be amazed!
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My son had/has ADHD...he is now 19. I would give him a cup of strong coffee or 1/2 an espresso, which counteracts the hyperactivity. He told me that the 'rushing' feeling inside of him was gone, so he didn't feel so restless and could focus on tasks.\n\nAlso, having a list of activities/tasks/responsiblities for the child can help structure their day. As soon as I used to see that idle glare in his eye I would suggest something from the list. As he got older he would look at the list himself instead of me having to suggest choices. \n\nAnother thing is since my son was very physical, when we were out in public if he was too restless I would make him do 5 back-flips, which would use-up that energy. You could use push-ups, jumping jacks, whatever the child can do or is age/situation appropriate.\n\nI always carried a Rubic's Cube or some type of puzzle game once my son was older too, when we were in situations where sitting/waiting were involved i.e. dr's office/dentist, etc.\n\nGood Luck!
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My daughter was on Adderall for years.  When she was in 1st grade she was found to be ADHD. When we got her on the correct medicine and dosage, she went to flunking to straight a's.  \n\nWhen she visited her dads house he would say the same thing.  He thought i was doing it to make it easier on me.  I offered for him to talk to her doctor and read her assessment.  He refused but just kept accusing me of giving her the meds because i was lazy.  Well, now she is 15 and the hyperactivity is gone.  We are now just dealing the the attention deficite part and he can finally see that what i did, was for her own good.  \n\nMaybe you just need to ask to talk to the doctor that diagnosed the boy.  Ask to see the diagnostic tests that were used and the results.  Also the schools do an evaluation if they are aware of a problem with the child.  The parents should get a copy of that.  I would ask for any documentation that is available and then work with the other parent to adjust the dosage or meds so that they work with the boy to help him get good grades in school.
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Yes you have symptoms of being depressed.  My son is exactly like you.  He is 14 years old and is ADHD.  He takes Conserta as well.  He also takes Wellbutrim for his depression.  He was always so very negative and unhappy.  Now with his Conserta and his antidepressant, he is much happier.  I think it helps him to bring more things into perspective for him.  He is also getting older and learning more how to control his temper, moods, etc...he is coping much better.  There is a future for you.  You gotta want it.  The world is not against you sweets...make your decision to make something of your life, use your meds to help you get there. Talk to your doctor and ask about an antidepressant.  Tell him or her how you are feeling, etc...this medicine is a great addition to my son's ADHD meds Conserta.  Be sure to talk to your parents and go see your doctor.  You can do this!  You have a future and I am gonna root for ya!  Take care kiddo!
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My mom's friend (a child psychologist) swears he can predict ADHD by the way infants move.  He says that infants who will later have ADHD will typically show significantly more "purposeless movement" than is typical for their age.  Don't worry, he doesn't label them ADHD or anything, it's just for his own amusement, really, but from what I've heard, he's usually right about it.\n\nMy mom has diagnosed ADHD in preschoolers (about 3 years old) exactly twice in over 20 years as a practicing psychologist, seeing primarily children.  Both were put on Ritalin, and responded quite well.  Although Ritalin is not approved for use in kids under 6, both of these kids were so out of control that it was actually safer to put them on Ritalin than not to.  They were doing things like jumping off playground equiment and hanging from ceiling fans, and had had stitches and even broken bones several times, despite the best efforts of good parents.\n\nBut diagnosing ADHD in a preschooler is rare.  ADHD is most commonly diagnosed in kids around ages 6-8.  That's when they start to be expected that they sit still in class, and when it starts to be problematic for them not to.\n\nADHD can also be newly diagnosed in older kids and even adults.  There's thought to be a genetic component to ADHD, and it's somewhat common for parents to be diagnosed with ADHD after their child is diagnosed with it.  It's more common for women than men since ADHD has traditionally not been diagnosed in girls as often since the symptoms are usually different (mainly because of different social standards), and the classic symptoms are more often seen in boys.
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I sympathize with you!  I have a brother with ADHD and have seen what my parents have gone thru with him.  Have you ever tried to sit down and talk to her about what she is doing?  Let her know the outcomes of her actions.  If sitting down with her is unsuccessful, try a councelor or psychologist to see if that avenue helps.  If still no luck, contact your doctor or CPS to see if there are any options you can do or have to help your daughter.  See if there are any other meds that your daughter can take.  I know for ADHD there is a med called Stratera that I have heard helps(from my brother).  You need to set up a structured adjenda each day for her to follow.  Talk to your schools principal to let him know that they need to be very patient and disaplined with her.  Have some kind of schedule there at school for her.  Maybe shorter class times, half days of school for awhile, one on one classes, whatever will benefit and help your daughter.  There are more resources out there than you think.  Check out on the internet about ADHD, ODD to see if on those websites there are any options and ideas for you to try or if they reccommend any meds or things for her.  Good luck to you and your daughter.
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I had a similar problem a couple wks ago. My sons teacher was labeling him and picking him. I was getting notes every single day just about from his teacher. I was really sure what was going on because he had been making A-B honoroll. Anyways I went up there and spoke with her, found that she had moved him and ONLY HIM to a different part of the class room so he could pay attention. I was not having that since he was making good grades all year long and still is. He said he wasn't misbehaving or disruptive, so I didn't know what the hell the problem was. I also spoke with the principal and asked that my son be moved or we were taking it to the school board. We just put our foot down(husband and I)and let them know that we were serious and wanted it to be resolved. Because he wasn't gonna learn if he's getting discouraged by his teacher. I don't know what grade your sons in, but my son is in 2nd grade. And don't think that you guys are being a pain in the butt or an inconvenience to the "school", because that is your son. I was getting on to my kid every time that I was getting a note, but it wasn't him, I guess the teacher decided to pick on him. And as far as the school staff, who cares what they think of you, but once they start picking or being ugly to your son. Id take it a step further and contact the school board. Good luck!!
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Don't worry. You don't need to call up Police. Instead walk up to a homeopath store. Hyperactive kids suffering from ADHD can be tamed with homeopathic medicines\nHyoscyamus 1m\nCina 200\nLycopodium 1m\nGive 3-4 pills once each on alternate days. Give for 10 days and stop when it is cured. Take it again when the behaviour returns. Gradually she will grow into a docile girl.
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I have a son who still experiences motor skill delays at 7 after being a preemie.  He was in a Montessori-styled program at 4, and it was a disaster!  He needs more structure, more firmly consistently administered discipline and more clearly communicated expectations.  After sending him back to a more traditionally styled preschool, he is in First Grade this year and doing wonderfully.  Don't hesitate to hold him back a year starting Kindergarten.  So many parents are doing it in response to the high expectations placed on Kindergartners.\n\nIt sounds like all your son is doing wrong is being 3. Boys that age do not sit still well, do not complete tasks, and do not communicate as well as girls do at that age.  I also have one that age, so know what is now, and what will be later.
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It's not just you - I happen to agree also. When my son was in first grade the school started in on me to have him diagnosed as ADHD & "suggested" medication - turned out the child had a severe vision problem that normal screening didn't catch & he could not see! I stuck to my guns & told them no drugs, & no, he didn't have a behavior disorder - & I was right! \nEverybody wants a "quick fix" as you said - from everything to making kids behave to losing weight. Take these pills & you'll feel/look/act all better!! It's like Jack & the Magic Beans!! lol And it doesn't always work.\nKids receive little to no discipline at home, the teachers are so busy trying to keep their classrooms disciplined that they can't teach so they learn very little & with TV being the best babysitter on the planet, children don't develop attention spans anymore. They can't sit still & pay attention because no one taught them how to do that. Parents have got to start teaching their children self-discipline at home!!\nOkay, I'll get down off my soapbox now - but yes, ADHD is too widely used as a diagnosis to cover a whole host of ills these days. \nAll I can say is do what you can with your own children & hope other parents will begin to do the same with theirs.
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My son has mild Tourette. It really bothers me that everyone thinks it's a "cursing disease." (Thanks so much, LA Law and Ally McBeal). Less than 10% of people with TS have copralalia.  \n\nAnther misconception that I find upsetting: that most kids with TS exhibit violent behavior (a myth spread by some MOMS of kids with TS and behavior problems--some have it, and some don't, but please don't tell people they ALL do!!)\n\nAlso, it's very hard for people to understand that the condition ebbs and flows. Not just the tics, but the ADHD and obsessive-compulsive symptoms that tend to come with it. Just because a child's symptoms were mild one day doesn't mean that he can control them on another day.
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try spending more time with her... if you do your research children often diagnosised with ADHD often are just wanting and needing attention.  parents (not you) but a lot of parents find it easier not to discipline in a constructive manner by reinforcing, correct behavior, and concistancy. so you often find that so parents can get out the easy way they allow there children to play video games, watch an anormious amount of TV, eat things with red and blue dyes, and are not consistant with reinforcing behaviors that are expected, all of these say to kids play by yourself, watch tv by yourseld, and eat what you want to. leaving children lonely and wanting attention, try to play games with your child, rent a movie for just you and him/her and have a fun popcorn movie night, go for a walk, watch what you child is eating, (look up red, yellow and blue dyes in foods on the net and the effects from them) pay attention to what your child can't verbally express to you and stop trying to feed them pills. we need our children to be productive not so loopy that they can't function. these medicines are addicting and dangerous. did you know a lot of the ADHD meds cause children to halucinate? we have to work with our children and I am sure you are a wonderful parent and concerned other wise you wouldn't be asking this question, but maybe you could start asking your child more questions as well