To prevent these nonsense answers I'm narrowing the list of options of what you find attractive in a man. If you want to stress personality please do so at the end.\n\nOrder these 1-7, the first being most valued and important and so on. Descriptions below each topic are to give you a general idea of what I mean.\n\nMoney:\nIncludes being well dressed, nice car, and can take care of you and the things you want.\n\nCareer:\nHas a career that is well respected, interesting, and allows for a variety of connections that makes him well known.\n\nLooks:\nThe body double of the man you find most attractive, save for a few features which are tuned to your preference.\n\nPhysique:\nNot too skinny or fat, not exploding with muscles, but very fit, athletic, and sexy.\n\nManner:\nCarries himself like Pierce Brosnan in any 00 movie. Can handle any situition in a calm and witty way.\n\nSex:\nIs as good on the dance floor as he is in bed and he knows how to dance.\n\nPenis: \n7th Wonder of the World.
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WOW!!! glad to see that you finally got your book published!  lol\n     to answer your question...i think i would put it in this order.  #1 being the most important:  \n(1)-manner  (2)-sex  (3)-money  (4)-looks  (5)-career  (6)-physique  (7)-penis\n\ni do find it difficult to draw a line between sex and penis, and looks and physique.  i understand your explanations, but they just seem to go together to me.  and, yes, i would like to stress personality.  i can't be with a man that i don't find funny.  he's got to be able to make me laugh!  confidence should be on your list, also.  if it was, that would be my number one!\n\nedit-you are very welcome!  good luck on getting everyone to follow directions.  half of the people on here can't even spell...lol.  well, i guess i'm sticking with that order then.  curious to know what your number one is???\n\nedit-take two-the more i think about it, the more i think that i should have switched money and looks.  i've dated some broke guys that were very attractive!  and i'm not that materialistic.  hmm...guess it's too late.  peace.
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Intelligence, maturity and confidence are up there at the top of the list.  Good sense of humor is near the top too.  Don't use stupid pick up lines, don't act like a jerk and don't make idiotic sexual references to everything!\n\nIf you find any guys like this let me know, because they seem to be extinct or in hiding!\n\nChivalry can't be dead!\n\n(Ha Ha!  Good answer vamp!:-)  I agree!)
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That is all superficial to me! I prefer someone that can stimulate me intellectually and has a lot to offer the world. \n\nBut, since that was not one of the choices, I prefer a guy with a nice looking face but has an out of shape body.
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When I first met my man, the first thing I seen were his beautiful blue eye's, I was in love with his eye's from that moment on. As time went on, I fell in love with many more things about him, they are as follows-\n\n1-His sweet personality\n2-His honesty\n3-He is stable in all the ways that are important to me\n4-I find him incredibly sexy\n5-He interacts very well with my children\n6-He's dedicated\n7-He loves to cuddle as much as I do\n8-He's fun to be around\n\nI could go on and on with all the qualities that I fell in love with in my man but I think y'all got the ideal.\n\nAs in how would one expect to meet Mr. or Mrs. Right, we never know where or when we will meet him or her. I met my man at a local bar. When I met my man, a relationship was the last thing on my mind, I simply was not looking and had that what do I need a man for attitude. But once we met, we connected immediately. Now I can't say love at first sight but I can say I knew I was falling for him very quickly (within a few week's) and I knew it was as real as real gets, something very special and something I had no control over, I really do feel a higher power was involved.\n\nOur relationship has progressed quickly, we are now living together & planning to be married soon and purchase a home together. I can honestly say I have never loved a man as deeply as I love my man, he is the bomb and rocks my world!!!
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wow... that's almost poetic. seriously.\n\nnow as to your question, most guys notice looks first. after all, they see you before they talk to you. it's only now that online dating, chatrooms, and email penpals that have taken over that personality has a chance to shine before your appearance does.\n\nwhile looks are what will initially reel a guy in, it's personality that makes him stay. you know how parents used to tell their kids looks don't matter as much as personality? well they're half right.\n\nlooks are necessary in a relationship. if you can't feel something physically for the person you like personality wise then you WILL have problems. and while not everyone has a supermodel body or superhero looks, they usually have one feature that is their best (eye's, hair, smile, and yes.. their body too)\n\nnow that they have a starting/point of interest. the fun begins and the personalities of the individuals comes out and you find out whether you are compatible with each other. this is where a cute or plain girl can become beautiful in the eyes of a guy... and where a guy who at his best can only rate "cute" uses a sense of humor to go a bit higher in the scale to a "really cute" (or so i've been told :P)\n\nthis is also where a really hot girl can show how shallow and empty headed she can be... just like the bad boy "hot" guy can show how his head is comparible to a piece of wood (yes yes i know... these are sterotypes... but they are stereotypes for a reason. i.e. there were enough instances that it BECAME a stereotype. i know there are exceptions to the rule, trust me, i've met them)\n\nyour looks let them know there is a girl nearby... your personality lets them know that YOU are nearby. hope this helped ;)
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~WHAT MEN LOOK FOR IN WOMEN~\n   A cute/hot guy looks for big boob girls, sexy body, nice look, and good sex.\n   A normal, just want sex guy looks for good sex, pretty everything, big boobs, and good kissing girls.\n   A person that doesn't care about sex like smart, humerous(well,it matters),nice, sometimes pretty, caring, good personality, and some others in a women, counting purfume smell as a maybe.\n~WHAT WOMEN LOOK FOR IN MEN~\n   A like sex lady/women/majesty would like her men to be good at sex, hot/cute, have a big penis, likes tumbling naked either outside in a nice field or under sheets, and she usually likes men that have soft lips for good kissing.\n   A women/lady/majesty that is popular/well known may vary because if it's nice, it would like guys that are smart, humerous(well,it matters),nice, sometimes cute, caring,and have a good personality. But, meaner ones like guys that are hot/cute, good kissers, and sometimes, very SEXY!\n   Ones that are calm will like the same things as men that don't care about sex or kissing or being naked.\n\nhope this helped or met your expectations!!
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For me, intelligence is key.  At the risk of sounding arrogant, I could never date someone I didn't think was on my level.  Besides that, I have to respect him.  He also should have a good sense of humor.  Of course, it's always nice if he's cute, too ;)
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Sorry but he must be physically appealing to me, nice eyes, clean white teeth are nice and to be fit, not over weight.\nNot all girls are like that though.\nNone of that is important to me though if it isn't teamed up with a genuine character, you know , not superficial and fake.  Most girls like a guy who is not afraid to talk about what he believes in and thinks and how he feels.  Nothing is more annoying than some one who can't communicate clearly with thoughtfulness and RESPECT.\n\nIt is good if they can dance and earn a good living ...very good. Ride horses, fix cars, build houses and cook the occasionally a la carte meal.  Ha ha ha ha. etc etc  I could go on but it would fill the whole page up.
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Definitely a good personality.  Looks are always a plus but it's who the person is inside that makes them special and attractive to you.  Many girls can look hot, but only few can possess that certain personality a guy is searching for.  The beauty factor will naturally go up when it is followed by a glowing personality...something know as the halo effect.
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1. Habits-caring, sense of humor, respect for others, willing to accept responsibility.\n2. Height-I'm partial to any man over 6 feet. Weight is not really an issue.\n3. Extra ability- to know what I don't know.  That why with the two of us together we know everything.\n4. Looks- Clear skin helps. I lean more towards Hispanic men. Which is weird since it is hard to find any over 5'10".\nOther than that, not much else counts. Remember love is blind.\n5. Job and money go hand in hand.  If you don't have a job, then you won't have money.  Enough to support me and eventually kids, with some to spare.\n6. Religion never came into consideration.\n      U.S. The thing that really got me about my husband was his lips.  When I would talk to him at school, I would think how it would be nice to suck on his bottom lip.
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HAHAHA, Nice Catagory to put yourself in. That put variety in our world ! hope you find a man that treats you good ! and fits your criteria ( smiles)
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to me a perfect guy will be:\n1-intelligent\n2-humourous\n3-assertive\n4-kind/sensitive\n5-romantic\n\ni could go on but i think they cover the generic wishes of women.  As for looks every woman has her idealistic look but usually ends up  with something completely different.  Personality will always win over looks but women do appreciate a man who grooms, makes an effort and has good personal hygiene.  If in doubt be urseld cos we love confidence, never be fake. and u know what if she doesnt appreciate what uv got or tries to change u - go find someone who'll love u for what u are. good luck in love.
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James, I would be glad to fill you in. One thing I like about other men is their attitudes clearly state "boy". Secondly, many men have attractive bodies (and each person has their own ideal "type"), as for personalities I like the funny and cute guys... if they're shy, that'll work too. Body parts that I like are the face (especially the eyes), and the back (although other gay men like other things.). When I see a cute man, I feel rather anxious. I feel like I want to talk to him, I feel like I want to ask him out, and I also feel sad that I live in a world where I can't just do that freely. Also, if I see a cute man but I'm around my step-dad (the one person in the world I can't come out to for some personal reasons), I feel angry that I might have missed my chance because I couldn't be "out" around him. Hope this helps. Contact me if this isn't clear enough for you.\nAloha,\nDavid
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i would be lying if i said looks do not matter. how a guy looks and carries himself is what draws your eyes to him in the first place. but after the initial attraction, there has to be substance in him. his personality, his values and beliefs, his attitude. what's a good-looking guy with a bad-as  attitude or personality? zero.\nhe has to be one who values his family and cares for them. he has to have a sense of humor and be easy-going but at the same time be as steady as a rock. in what way? he has to be a constant fixture in your life. not just in bed, but in all ways... even when you drag him shopping!:)
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i dont quite go on looks. Looks dsnt matter.. but the personality does. if a guy has a good personality and he'z sweet and easy to talk to and friendly .. datz enough. the guy i would be attracted to wont be BORing... i would go for a decent guy.. not a guy who just wntz 2 hook up with you.
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You will get hundreds of different answers to this question. so here is my personal input: The ability to hold a conversation, a sense of humor, and above all...honesty in all things.\nIf it is physical attraction you want to know about, personally I prefer long hair, dark preferable, mischievious eyes, and a great pair of legs
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I like a chiseled face with good bone structure. Cut but not bulked up, you know, so I can see all the muscles. I like blond but any other may be ok, depends. Not tooo tall but not short. Maybe 5'7" to 5'10. Probably blue or green eyes but brown is ok.. NO body fat. He also has to be kind and strong.And he should be a funny guy. Good sence of humor.