why is it that when ur walking around with ur friends u see a hot girl and they are like wowo she is hot but then if u go out with her there all like she was ugly i never liked her
203391
its a guy thing, they dont want it to seem like u beat them and got the girl so instead of being the guys "who got rejected" they claim they never wanted her in the first place.. hence they didn't lose out to you !!
193255
You'r hot,don't fret.ask her what her name is and stuff so she knows your alive then pop the big ?????,and if she says no maybe she is scared or something,never think you'r ugly,I'm a woman and it shows in men that don't like themself.
161281
Just because you think another girl is attractive does not mean that you are a "lezbo". Maybe your just curious, and should test your curiosity, then you will know your answer for sure.
91623
Well, from your description of yourself, you dont sound very fun. And some guys may chose girls that in your opinion, are ugly because they are beautiful inside. They arent shallow, self absorbed or hung up on their looks. \n\nYou ever hear that looks arent everything? The lack of time you feel she may spend not caring about her looks, she may spend actually getting to know these boys. She may honestly care more about them and less about herself.....\n\nBeing shallow and self centered is the downfall of most "pretty girls." Being pretty doesnt make you better than anyone, nor does it make you worse. It just makes your pretty, and if your beauty is all you have to offer to someone, well it just isnt enough. \n\nKudos to the boys at your school for picking someone of substance over arm candy.
194447
Because you're FRIENDS in her head anyway I do exactly that I can't help it. Well I don't say it but I'm thinking it. It's because they aren't attracted to you sexually but you're a brilliant person that they love spending time with. They're wishing that they were attracted to you because you're perfect they just don't feel that way. It's not to mess with your head it's not on purpose it's just the way things are. At least you know you've got a really good personality.
211664
why are you afraid to tell her that you dont like her behavior? I was in your situation when I was in collage and this girl was always chasing me! she wanted to be where I was because i was with my handsome and popular friends all the time (what could i do if they were my classmates!) anyway, one day I was just not in the mood to deal with her and I said: you know what, you have very good qualities but IT BOTHERS ME that you are with me because you want to hang out with my friends. Soooo.... stop being so obvious and let me have fun with them!  so, she got my point. she never spoke to me again (and my friends were happy for that too). it was sad because after all she was a good girl but A REAL PAIN IN THE BUTT!
208693
BECAUSE,if your like me,you,re too nice for half the girls around you.Cool girls always pick the bad guys and then later cry and complain about what jerks they are!!if you,re like me,just act like you,re happy being single and alone and they,ll begin to notice you.the secret is.... its ok for women to complain about being single,but its unattractive when us men do it,I know from experience
11146
not really, because if they have girlfriends, then they must have something that's attractive and obiously, u see it. u just got to be a little faster. u know what i mean, right?
638555
RIGHT HERE! I have ONE female friend. And because I have a boyfriend AND a job I have one male friend....my boyfriend. Girl its been like that for me since the seventh grade. Girls for whatever reason do not like me. I dont know why either. I'm the nicest person I know for real. I try to talk to females but they just dont like me for some reason. It drives me crazy!
156222
a girl will flirt with u and go out of her way to make u feel special.  first they check to see if ur hot...but thats not the only thing.  if they meet u and think ur the ugliest person alive but u have a great personality, she'll fall for u!  make sure u flirt, flirt, flirt!  and be urself!
351707
Lack of self confidence.  Other girls are looking either because you are gorgious, you dress well or their just stupid women.  Look ppl in the eyes and take control of the situations.
360784
I hate girls that are like that. They are all b!tches... and think they should only hang out with girls that are just like them. I don't know why. That's just how it is.
568725
One woman is hot ... 2, doubly so.\n\nVise versa for guys.\n\nNormal guys do not find other guys sexually appealing.  So if we don't like 1 guy ... 2 guys are twice as disgusting.\n\nSimple math.
318872
The truth is all you need is self esteem; trust me.\n\nIf an extremely hot person presents has a low self esteem she will look ugly and visa versa.  This is caused by when you think you are hot you present yourself better i.e. dress better, have expensive purfumes and such, and stand taller. (generally it makes at least a 200% difference).
239268
Well... The hot ones usualy like it when u come to them. \nIf they're quiet it's wierd cuz u just act like u dont like them then they like you. That jus tprobably me though.
334270
Some friend she is. Trust me I went thru da same shit in middle school. This bitch ain't worth it. I use to be like you. A lil shy. I look back n it just pisses me off how I let ppl like her walk all over me. U gotta be cool and set her straight. Make some new friends n start ignoring her. When she confronts 2 u about it, u can just tell well u've been doin the same thing to me n u just ain't worth it if ur only gonna be my friend so that u can benefit from me then I ain't goona deal wit it no more cuz u know wat... I don't have to..(walk away)
12491
They are your best friend cuz you have stuff in common with them. You already love them as a person so it only stands to reason that you would find them attractive.