but really when we say we're ok..we really mean we feel like cuddling up in covers ,and wanting to cry..\n\nsmiles that hide tears..
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plain and simple. its so much easier to say "im fine" than to explain the problem and hope past the next day that they dont think youre an idiot for feeling the way you do. or act like your problem doesnt matter..
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that is a very good Q cause thats how we feel at sometimes we r just saying what comes to our mind no our hearts but we no in the furture that we no were not going 2 wanna deal with them
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Simply put? It feels great, really. To know someone cares about you and you care for them the same way is just a great feeling.
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I'm thinking that I'm sad and I don't know why. . . Maybe I'm just tired- maybe I'm about to start-  I feel the lump in my throat like I'm about to cry.  I think I'm just a little lonely b/c my man and children are sleeping and I'm still awake at 2:09 AM- I'm thinking that there are so many closed-minded people in the R & S section.  \n\nThanks for asking
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Its nice to see really happy and good mood people! I really want to give you a hug!!!
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Some people just don't understand how depressed folks feel.
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Yes, it is normal.  What you choose to do with those feelings is the real question!!
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Because they in someway think they are helping you. Most people can not famthom something that doesn't or is happening to them. Stop explaining why and just say don't feel like it today, but thanks.............
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When some one asks how you are, and you say "fine" \n(even if you feel like crap, you still say fine)...why ?!
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I think that if you dont feel ok its okay death and hard situations are all apart of life we just have to cope with them and ask god to help us through these obstacles of life just stay positive and keep your head up and you will be okay just take one day at a time and try to relax take care and I hope all goes well for you
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Its really made me feel good..that someone there is worried like me..n believe me dear they r more of us..but worryin is not the solution...we need to work this out..instead of layin thousand hands wen something bad happen like earhtquake..etc..we shuld lay our hand in workin out this problem..but how..i am not aware..if u know please consider me with u...best of luck..n if get to know something..i'll definately update my answer......
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I sometimes feel the same way that you feel...and I hate it. I'm so sorry that you feel that way and no I dont think that it should be normal but everybody had bad days so what I try to do is find something to do so I want think about whatever got me down. I love you, so put a smile on your face! :)
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cries and tears ...\na mother's cry for her baby ...\na man's cry for his love ...\na son's tear for his parents ...\na friend' tears for their friends.. their home ...\nall heart' tears for peace and happiness...\na terrible end for human's hope for life ..\n\nand those who left behind ...\nsome depressed and become mentally ill ...\nsome saying still seeing and talking to their family, his/her lover ...\nsome just remain silent, in a deep thoughts that this isn't the true,  this is just a dream .. is it ?
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Is It Normal to Feel This Way?\n \n \n \n\n\nA BEREAVED person writes: "As a child in England, I was taught not to express my feelings in public. I can remember my father, an ex-military man, saying to me through clenched teeth, 'Don't you cry!' when something had caused me pain. I cannot recall whether my mother ever kissed or hugged any of us kids (there were four of us). I was 56 when I saw my father die. I felt a tremendous loss. Yet, at first, I was unable to weep."\n\nIn some cultures, people express their feelings openly. Whether they are happy or sad, others know how they feel. On the other hand, in some parts of the world, notably in northern Europe and Britain, people, especially men, have been conditioned to hide their feelings, to suppress their emotions, to keep a stiff upper lip and not wear their hearts on their sleeves. But when you have suffered the loss of a dear one, is it somehow wrong to express your grief? What does the Bible say?\n \n\n\nThose Who Wept in the Bible\n \n \n\n\nThe Bible was written by Hebrews of the eastern Mediterranean region, who were expressive people. It contains many examples of individuals who openly showed their grief. King David mourned the loss of his murdered son Amnon. In fact, he "wept with a very great weeping." (2 Samuel 13:28-39) He even grieved at the loss of his treacherous son Absalom, who had tried to usurp the kingship. The Bible account tells us: "Then [David] the king became disturbed and went up to the roof chamber over the gateway and gave way to weeping; and this is what he said as he walked: 'My son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! O that I might have died, I myself, instead of you, Absalom my son, my son!'" (2 Samuel 18:33) David mourned like any normal father. And how many times have parents wished they could have died in place of their children! It seems so unnatural for a child to die before a parent.\n\nHow did Jesus react to the death of his friend Lazarus? He wept on nearing his tomb. (John 11:30-38) Later, Mary Magdalene wept as she neared Jesus' sepulcher. (John 20:11-16) True, a Christian with an understanding of the Bible's resurrection hope does not grieve inconsolably, as some do who do not have a clear Bible basis for their beliefs regarding the condition of the dead. But as a human with normal feelings, the true Christian, even with the hope of the resurrection, does grieve and does mourn the loss of any loved one.—1 Thessalonians 4:13, 14.\n \n\n\nTo Weep or Not to Weep\n \n \n\n\nWhat about our reactions today? Do you find it difficult or embarrassing to show your feelings? What do counselors recommend? Their modern views often merely echo the Bible's ancient inspired wisdom. They say that we should express our grief, not repress it. This reminds us of faithful men of old, such as Job, David, and Jeremiah, whose expressions of grief are found in the Bible. They certainly did not bottle up their feelings. Therefore, it is not wise to cut yourself off from people. (Proverbs 18:1) Of course, mourning is expressed in different ways in different cultures, also depending on the prevalent religious beliefs.*\n\n\nWhat if you feel like weeping? It is part of human nature to weep. Recall again the occasion of Lazarus' death, when Jesus "groaned in the spirit and . . . gave way to tears." (John 11:33, 35) He thus showed that weeping is a normal reaction to the death of a loved one.\n\nThis is supported by the case of a mother, Anne, who had lost her baby Rachel to SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome). Her husband commented: "The surprising thing was that neither Anne nor I cried at the funeral. Everyone else was weeping." To this, Anne responded: "Yes, but I have done plenty of crying for both of us. I think it really hit me a few weeks after the tragedy, when I was finally alone one day in the house. I cried all day long. But I believe it helped me. I felt better
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Because we get so filled up with emotions that it spills out of our eyes!
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No.\n\nI think we create things to make us feel better.\nWould be nice to know someone is really walking with you, wouldn't it?\n\nWell, I think it's kinda creepy.
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No. \nThe things we feel Most Deeply\n are the things we cannot---Dare Not\nput into words\n\nThey are sacred.