do u half to tell each other were u are going on a daly bases,just wanting to know. an if you do ask should the other be upset that u want to know? An i do trust this person
203382
Married for 15 years and we still tell each other where we are and what we do and No they shouldn't get mad but they always will but they will get over it and they still love ya . It's good that you let your spouse know what you are doing just in case something bad happens or what if your spouse wins a million dollars wouldn't you want to know right away? There's always a what if and it's better to know and to be prepared than to wonder what the hell happened.Just in case it's your last chance to say I love you.
291193
If I trust that person, no I wouldn't.  If not, I will check it out myself first before I make up my mind, I wouldn't make my decision based on other people opinion, they could be wrong, or they view things according to them.
552938
I don't know but I think you should ask her "Did you need to tell me something else?" If the answer is no then ask "Did you need to ask me something ?" Tell her that these awkward silences give the feeling that something is being left unsaid and you would like to know what it is.
437384
Sounds like you're interested in this other person, so it probably will lead to cheating. You aren't being honest with him or yourself right now.
286422
IF he knows You, he should know your not always right in the head..but if it would make you feel better...it's best to tell him...come to think of it, you should tell him..he has a right to know..if he doesn't already...
422151
Ok, this is where MATH comes in. It's called variables. Youneed to plug in NAMES. A is your signifigant other B is their Ex. using this formula I was able to understand the question. Now, understanding the question, I can answer it! (aren't I smart? LOL!) Well, I'd have to get the whole story. It would REALLY upset be because I'd really care for A, obviously. So after A told me the whole story, then I would be able to apologize. Since B was already out of the picture it wouldnt' be an issue. I would warn A that he probably shouldn't be talking to B anymore but that any other B's that he knew, that I should be with him so they didnt' get any ideas.
566467
Ask yourself if you can trust her. If you can't, regardless of if she is truly being honest or not, then how can you have a healthy relationship? It sounds like there have been issues with trust with her in the past, and games to make each other jealous. Is that the kind of relationship you want to have?
498064
At least your gf told you the truth, which means she cares for you. She could have lied, and you would never know.\n    So don't be too angry
188247
Depends on where you hear it from. i have been on both ends, once my man lied to me because he didn't want to hurt me and didn't want to me  to leave. Then once where i was all rumors.  Who is telling you?????  Is it someone who wants him/you? OR is it someone who just wants attention???
286039
The fact that you feel the need to ask makes me believe that you have your doubts as to whether you are doing the right thing. Go with your gut.
275139
My opinion has always been, if there is confusion in any  relationship, friend, work, boy/girl friend, hubby/wife etc...the only way to know any truths for sure is to ask the one that the problem is with. \nSecond hand info adds more confusion, so, when possible, its best, most of the time, to confront those we might have issues with first.
653909
I asked my husband about his ex before and he asked about mine.  The thing is you get hurt because he is telling you about someone he has had a prior relationship with, someone he has been intament with.  Its hard knowing that someone else has been with the man you love.  I am sure your husband wasn't the only one you have been with either.  Tell your husband..." I am sorry that i am always asking you about your exgirlfriends.  Its just something i need to know about.  If I seem a little upset its because its hard picturing sharing you with others.  Also tell him .." When i get upset i need you to reassure me that i am the only one you want to be with."  My husband reassures me all the time.  He is always telling me how lucky he is to have me.  I am able to trust him because he tells me I am the only one for him.
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Well it depends. How long have you know the other half? If you just met the other half then I wouldn't but if you have know him for a while then....I don't want to sound mean to you but sometimes we all have to do things we don't want to do. If this friend was a true friend try to talk to her about it. She should understand. \n\nOn another note.... CONGRADULATIONS! I hope the best for you and your future spouse!
642638
Tell her.  Turn the tables...wouldn't you want to know?
42852
well chances are, she IS lying to you.  It may not be that big of a deal, and there may be some good reasons for it (although I dont think theres ever good reasons to lie)\n\neither way, I am sure she has her reasons, if you cant bear with it, leave her.
356063
you need to comfront him/her about it. you dont have to acuse them of anything, you just need to ask. if your relationship is strong enough it will all work out.
245514
Its not selfish to let someone know what you want or feel. Just don't get upset if he doesn't agree with you.\n\nfrom your question I don't know if he is the type of guy that is always taking off with his friends or he spends most of his free time with you, that's something to consider also