I have known my neighbor for all my life and he always walks around his house naked.  At night when its dark I can totally see everything that he does because the windows are always open.  Recently, I saw someone that goes to my school at his house and I wanted to know if I should do anything or say anything to anyone?
205235
My question to you is why are you looking into his windows? Also, if it is dark, how do you "see everything"? Do you have infra-red goggles? If the person at the mans' house is a juvenile, you should contact the authorities. Then stop looking into the mans house at night.
420737
If it were me I'd stick with you to make sure you are okay.  Even if it's just physical there is something there.  As far as him being creeped out, what is he 16?  If it's no strings and he's a prick he'll probably leave.  Good Luck and whatever happens hold your head up and be positive.
156710
Wow, where do you live?  Hehe.  Um, I don't know what you can tell your kids other than you really think they should find alternatives to hanging out in dark, secluded areas.  You should know that if they are old enough to go out and do things like that, that if you forbid them to do something, if they have a rebellious nature, they may do what they want - against your wishes and better judgement.  \n\nMaybe instead of trying to preach to them you could provide them with an alternative like your driveway, or backyard to hang out in and do whatever it is that they're doing in these spooky places.  It's never too late to teach your kids about entertaining people in the home.  That's something we don't do enough of in our culture anymore, as far as I'm concerned.  (That isn't to say bad things couldn't happen in the home either, but at least then they would be in a more controlled environment, and you [if you were there] could see who was coming and going...)\n\nOther than that, I don't know what else to tell you other than maybe to give them a curfew which doesn't permit these types of activities.  \n\nGood luck.
59655
I'd continue to politely request that the parents control their children, padlock the gate, post no trespassing signs and finally alert the police.  If you are absent during these trespasses, hopefully you can enlist your other neighbor to make the call.  At the very least they should send a patrol car.  Your privacy is being violated and it is an issue you have every right to stand up for and expect no retaliation.  I would also suggest to the parents that your property may have hazards on it and you would be stricken should a child be injured on it.  BE careful not to sound threatening, but more like an ocd individual.
96946
I think communication is important because if there was no communication, I wouldn't be typing this right now. Also, if you are bored and you want to go and hang with a friend, are you going to go and walk all the way to your friend's house or just call her or him?
379203
That sounds so amazingly postmodern.\n\nKings of oblivion and nihlism. Joy for the perishable moment. \n\nAnd an absolute waste of time. \n\nIf you don't throw the dirt into the house, (maybe to the side?) leave when you are told to, and don't make any harrassing gestures - sexual or otherwise - then it is not a crime. \n\nBut I faill to see how this "helps" your neighbors.
265434
You need to tell your parents or the counselor at school. This is sexual harassment and can lead to more dangerous situation if you don't tell someone and get their help stopping him. As long as you do nothing he thinks its OK. Don't let this keep happening to you. Put a stop to it now while you still can.
147516
I think you're pretty sick and twisted.  Whether you suffer from homophobia or not, you should have respect for someone's privacy.\n\nIf your neighbor is homosexual, what business is it of yours?  Why send it to the police or his mother?\n\nYou need some serious counseling and help.
668057
we must remember that it is our duty to not to disturb the neighbour, and this should be the feeling of every neighbour. im so lucky that my neighbour are happy with me and they are with me. i treat other person as i wish to be treated. so try to teach them this message with kindness.and hopefully they will understand your expressions.
355311
If you know where he lives, think of a reason you could give for going over to his house.  While there, you could see how his parents treat him.  If your suspicions are confirmed, talk to your school's guidance counselor.  He or she will know the right people to contact.  Good luck to both you and your friend.
629692
I would, and did, talk to all of my neighbors about it. and most of all, without getting confrontational unless you can protect yourself. I would let him know somehow that you know who/what he is, this could keep him from trying to be friendly, thus trying to work his way to your and others good graces to victimize another women.\nI would, in no instance, move because you cannot live your life like that. anyway if you have access to a sex offender database you would find that there is no place in a city that there is not some peice of trash around. I live in washington and have a neighborhood website that gives neighborhood info but it also has a link to the washington state sex offender website... There are over 100 living within 10 miles from me and two level 3 sex offenders less than a block away, I live in a nice area of town in vancouver also. i can tell you one thing. I make myself visable to the houses near mine with the filth in them, I usually walk my 150lb. Bullmastiff with me when I go by their houses, and i have to admit, I kinda mad-dog'em a little when I see them so I know he knows I know that he is a peice of trash and he will be the first place i go if My wife or kids are missing. \n Please refuse to be intimedated don't live your life in fear. You can equalizes the situation... get a gun and go to the county sherrif (if there isn't anyone you can trust to teach you) and take classes, become comfortable with it and don't worry, i know it is not politicaly correct to say it, but, no amount of self defence training is going to make up for the strength difference between most men and women. Women in this day of age should not feal affraid, it makes me so pissed off that this kind of scum can walk free, but as long as they do I feel a little better knowing that my Wife is a better shot with her pistole than I am (I don't feel bad, My grandfather was a firearms instructer for 30 years and he says that women are usually better with a hand gun than men... at least that is what i tell myself anyway) ... Also It keeps me in line ...
85333
Honey, I often wondered the same thing...but then I realized that while we all live in our own realties, we are linked by our own human existance.  Things don't dissappear into dark nothingness simply because you have left that area.  How do I know this?  Because I am sitting here in Cleveland right now smoking a cigarette (not gange like you are), living in my own little reality.  Also, I think it is important to realize for yourself that you are just a small fragment of a whole.  You need to get over yourself, and I don't mean that in a snotty way, I mean that you are dealing with your id, which is a common human experience, and one needs to give of their selves in order to conquer his or her feelings of isolation.
650494
Yeppers. We have a little boy ghost. He's cooled down alot though. He used to run up and down our stairs and the hallway.\n\nAnd my mom had a dream and there was this little boy outside her window and she opened the window and took out the screen and was grabin his arm to help him in and his arm got all streatchy and when he got in her room his face got blurred and then my bro Eli called bc he said he just had this feeling that he had to call her. (He always does that when shes havin a bad dream) And then after that we heard running up and down the hallway and stairs. \n\nI'm afrade of the dark now because my brother closed my door and then i started hearing footsteps coming toward my bed and he was in his room. And i screamed and he came running into my room and i told him what happened. And now i sleep with my door open and the hallway light on.\n\nAnd we think we have a few other ghosts in our house.
173554
causing arson whether recklessly or intentionally ... Methinks your friend was reckless in this case, surely he should have known the house would blow up when he blew up near a naked flame?!
283465
turn off all of the lights so that it is pitch dark in your house. Open the drapes. If it is lighter outside (full moon, street lights, etc) no one will be able to see in. Then take off all of your clothes and masturbate while looking outside. of course, you may want to go outside and look in just to make sure you can't see in. \nor... go buy a cucumber. ;-)
640331
I think you should absolutely go for it!\nYou never know..... you could be having this unexplained urge for a reason!  It might be well received!  It might even strengthen your relationship with said neighbor...  \n\nAlthough.... I was thinking.... wouldn't it be something if as you were squatting there, bearing down..... the front door opened, and there he was looking at you?  I'm enjoying that train of thought..........\nNever fear.... if that were to actually happen, just look up nonchalantly and say, "Do you happen to have some toilet paper?  I seem to have forgotten mine at home."\n:)
547553
Who cares?\n\nSo they see you naked.  Big deal.\n\nDon't be so self-conscious.  If they don't like it, then tell them to stop looking.