I was at the  GAP the other day, about to try on a blazer , when this girl past by (12-13yrs old). with her pants falling down showing at least an inch & a half of butt crack(No Panties). I was shocked , not sure what the protocol was. I stopped what I was doing going in my head OMG what do I do?  Relived when I saw her mom come along ,I thought pweew her mom will tell her to pull those up. \nNope as they were walking out and up the stairs her mom walking from behind all was showing. \nI've let people know when their tag is showing or toilet paper on a shoe . I just didn't know what was appropriate. Do you?
207431
I don't think its appropriate to do anything in this case. Its not likely that she is unaware of this, as she might be if she had a tag showing or toilet paper on her shoe. Its in very poor taste, of course, but I think that a Miss Manners answer would be to turn your head and go about your shopping. \n\nAnd stop looking so hard to see if she has panties on :o)
344943
man o man i agree with you. I mean im almost 15 and i agree that your mom shouldn't get in trouble. I have an abusive brother and they told my mom and dad that they were only aloud to restrain him, but it sounds like its only your mom doing it and its even hard for just my dad to restrain my bro so i couldnt really see how your mom could do that to your sis. and people who dress gothic and crap just look like fricken retards. they need to get over themselves and get a fricken life! they wonder why nobody likes them and its b./c of all that nasty crap they put on themselves. i know its a way to express yourself but come on find a different way to do it!!!!! also there has been many time that my bro has tried to kill my mom and i think yall should try getting her tested for ADHD and also maybe get her a councilor
82906
This is someting your Mom should have talked about a long time ago so you'd be comfortable when it happened. But now it's up to you to say something. I was scared when it happened to me, too, as my mother didn't tell me anything ... I learned it all from my friends. When my daughter started her period, we did it differently. I took her to a nice restaurant to celebrate that she'd become a woman. So here's what to do. Do you have an older sister to help you talk to your mother? If not, is there an aunt or another female relative who can help you? If not, then you'll have to do it on your own. Give her a note if that's easier for you. Just say, "Mom, I need some sanitary supplies." She may be a little surprised, but she'll recover. Honestly, she will... and so will you. This is perfectly normal and nothing to be embarrassed about. But I know how a 14-year-old would feel about this. It's difficult, I know, but like I said, write her a short note if it makes things easier. Leave it on her bed if you don't want to hand it to her. It really will be okay, Hon.
647763
My friend left hers in an apartment laundry in Albuquerque and went back to find "circles" cut out of the center of all of her bras...........lol....\n(that taught HER to not leave her clothes............)\n\nWhen you go to the laundry --- make a habit of chewing gum.......then when YOU have to remove their clothes... stick the gum on something and smash it down........perferably something that looks like it's in good condition......... maybe then, the jerk will quit walking away from his/her stuff.........\n\nI'm usually not this mean............but hey....it's not like I told you to put "poop" in there and smash..........\n.......or you could move to Texas and live with me --- I have my own washer and dryer...........and hell, I'd do your laundry for you!
106115
Well first thing I'd do is make sure the kid that pushed you stops messing with you. I would start by letting one of your parents know about the problem or you could go to the Principle of your school since it happened at the bus stop.  Which ever you decide I think the guy who caused the problem should have to pay the price not you. If nothing else works I'd open a can of whup-ass on the fool who pushed you. You might still have to pay for the torn pants but the guy might not mess with you after that.
385495
Trust me sweetie...no one is looking. You are embarressed right now, but all women need them. Just pick em' up, walk up to the counter and buy it. Walk out with your head held high. Its more embaressing to have the blood running down your leg. Talk to Mom...she will get them too...or SHOULD!
553327
Back at university, I lost my pants while out at a bar with my boyfriend.  Not quite sure how to this day I lost them, but I never did find them...didn't stop our evening out though...we went to several more places after that and oddly enough nobody minded.  (Went to university in New Orleans, LA which might explain why...LOL)\nLately though, the extravagance of my behaviour is sending random emails to entertaining people.
527732
Bill,\nWhatever you do, DON'T report her.\nYou may get lucky, or she might just be nice.\nI am old enough to be your dad, but I just got my rear written up by some chick at work because I asked her if she was staying at the same hotel that the rest of us were while we were out of state.\nIt was a sexual harassment warning that could effect my life.\nNot to sound like a penile unit, but either feel her out for fun, but don't be a pud and screw her over,\nYou have the next 50 years for banging!!!
198864
Oh for cyring out loud, it's a pair of underwear.  Just put them on.. lol  Just don't let her take any photos.  Ya gotta try something new every now and then.  If you try it and it makes you feel positively foolish, let her know this and that you don't want to do it again.  If she doesn't respect that, then you've got bigger problems than a pair of Victoria's Secret's finest skivvies.
371856
well i think your sis should go to her friend and tell her she has something to tell her... and that she knows how awkward it is but she just wants to help before it gets any worse then should give the girl the video and leave her to watch alone to spare the girl more embaressment, then she should go back to her friend a few minutes later and try to figure out together how to stop it... starting by the sourse the jerk she was with in the video.
441868
I am so sorry this happened. Explain it to her. Daddy cannot move his legs and he'll be in a special chair...pics are great. Be honest about it and answer her questions as best you can.
72643
She's having a hard time accepting that her daughter is growing up. Obviously if you will be at a public restaurant, it's not like all of you guys are going to throw her on top of a table, strip her clothes off and pull a chain on her. Her mom is just trippin. At 14, me and my friends hung out at the roller rink together without adult supper vision, but, duh, the people who WORK there were adults. And I was ALWAYS the only girl hangin out with all of the guys. I just got along better with guys than girls at that age. She's making more out of it than is really there. Funny thing is, I grew up to like women. So, for all she knows, her daughter might be gay when she grows up! Boys think about sex a lot, but it's not ALL they think about. She needs to realize this and get a grip. Good luck.
269290
Once there was this kid who got lost in a Fun-N- Fair, the cop tried to ask him if he know where he stays or anything that would help them to trace his parents.. but the kid only kept on saying.. My Mom is the most beautiful women in this world... Helpless cop spread the word around..about this kid who they have found and he claims that his mom is the most beautiful women in this world...hearing this lots of women came to claim the kid.. every time the kid refused.. said my mom is more beautiful then u, ur not my Mom... and after 4 days... there come this black fat lady to claim the Kid is hers... looking at her the kid smiles and jumps into her arms and says to the cops, thats my Mom, isnt she the most beautiful women in the world... Now do u have the answer to your question??? every women is beautiful in her own way and its unair to judge.. or subjective should i Say.\nJust like to add "My Mom is the most beautiful women in this world"
486350
I agreee,that was actually very "cheap" and trashy of her. Actually what can you expect from somebody that walks BAREFOOT in a public bathroom.\n\nIts funny, people now days (well at least people like her)have not one shred of modesty or self respect.\n \nNow pinky dont be surprised that we get called "prudes" or "repressed" or God only knows what.\n\nI wonder what she's got to show after that, what can you do to TOP that? have a televised colonoscopy and pap smear at the same time?
462070
Ok. So I was 13 and i went to a slumber party which wsas  a boy-girl one. And we had fun but at the end of the night we played a game. The person who drew a 6 out of a hat had to dance naked with a boy who choose 7. I choose 6! I removed my bra and underwear infront of 16 girls and 18 boys! suddenly slow music came on and i had 2 dance with my crush naked! Everyone spread a rumer about how big and sexy my boobs were! that was soooo embarrrassong! \n\nAnother one: When we were playing truth or dare and i had to \njump in the pool naked. but when i returned they took my clothes and threw them away! \n\n3rd one: when my bra fell on the ground and the boys used it as sling shots!
308948
I myself would not wear such a thing, and I am in my 30's. I dont know why we people do what we do...Ok. If you are a parent (reading this question out of curiousity) who let your little girl wear any kind of message across her behind, it is not appropriate. The only people who can appreciate it are pedophiles.
312000
This was the hardest period of my life. :)  There really is no right or wrong answer for this issue.  I tried everything when my daughter was the same age.  I tried stickers, treats and I even promised her a BIG surprise if she went in the potty every time.  All that and no results.  My babysitter told me (and she has 3 girls) that the have to be able to pull the pants up and down by themselves before you should even try to potty train them.  So, I took her advice and waited until she was almost three and she started doing it.  There were little accidents still (on occasion) but all in all it worked.  Every child is different and the only true answer is-Keep trying every once in a while (don't force her) and all at once she will do it on her own.