it started off with my secendory classes.i just cant seem 2 reach my own expectations.my mother once told "u have a cursed life ".it seems so much true now.but i dont want 2 give up so easily.i like fighting d fate .but idont know how .ppppplllleeeaaaassssseeee !!!!! help
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If you actually believe you are cursed, then you're subconsciously going to make yourself cursed.  I had a girlfriend once that did this.  She was so convinced she was a screwup that she purposely screwed everything up and wouldn't try to fix herself.  Don't be like that.  It's not too late to make things go your way.  Just get out there and tell yourself (as many times as you have to) that you're exactly who you want to be.  Good things only happen to people that are willing to let them happen.
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Hi Raiden,  well..you are going to get alot different ways to look at your situation.  You sound like an honest, straight-forward kind of guy that has had to deal with alot in 18 years.  My heart goes out to you and if I had the answers I would tell you..but if I told you they would only be the "answers" for myself.  You are the only one that holds all the answers for what is right for you.  As frustrating as that may sound to you it is actually good news.  You don't have to follow any one elses path.  This life is your journey and you are not asking too much out of it.  Sometimes the only thing that holds us back is our own fears...fear of getting hurt, fear of rejection, fear of judgment, fear of failure... I want you to try something for me.  ask yourself what you would do today if you weren't afraid.  Don't push yourself into anything just think about it.  When you are ready you will know it.  There is nothing wrong with you.  You weren't put on this earth to suffer you were put here to discover.  And if you believe nothing else...please believe me that how you feel about yourself and life today will be different with each passing day.
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I was in the same boat you are years ago.  My suggestion is, do some research on various religions.  Find what fit's your morals, ethics, and beliefs.  What makes sense to you.  And here's a secret: Your path can be unique and not be like everyone Else's.  I looked at nature and the world around me, figured out what kind of person I would like to be.  What I believed in, and what made sense. What ever i was comfortable believing.  I've read MANY books.  Just because I agreed with one part, doesn't mean the whole book is law.  Books are the authors views and meant as a resource, not law.  Have fun, be picky, and be true to yourself.  Don't let peer pressure depict who you are.  BB Sdw
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Live one day at a time life to short to worry about what going to happen to you in future. Go get your dream. Make them happen!!!G@@d LUCK
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my dear . . . I am soooo sorry.\n\nYour mother is being a jealous . . . possessive b****.\n\nMost parents want their children to succeed . . . but there are a rare few . . . that will try to hold their children back because they don't want them to do better than they have.\n\nWhat is your plan regarding college . . . will you be moving into a dorm.  Probably getting a part time job . . . did you get a scholarship?  The best thing for you . . . is to get out of that negative environment.  I know it is scary . . . but you can do it . . . and you should do it.\n\nIf you are unable to move out . . . just reply back to her . . . just because I am trying to do something better in my life . . . which you could not do yourself. . . either . . . encourage me or butt out . . . because I won't quit and I don't want to be a loser like you.\n\nWell maybe not in those exact words.  But I think you get my meaning.\n\nTake care of yourself.
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I think my problem is that I want to take life over easy.  Although sometimes I hope to take life sunny side up.  Unfortunately, mostly, I get life scrambled.  What do I'm mean by all that?  I'm not eggs-actly certain.
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I'm sorry, but witches as a whole, are lousy fortune tellers.  Some have vision, but most are just practioners of an ancient carft.  What she said is most likely not true.  Burying something in a cemetary that is made to look like you is an old gypsy/santeria/etc. idea that will bring bad luck.  If you do NOT accept that this affects you at all, and remember that you have free will, you will be fine.  If someone did do this, remember it will come back to them three times.  What we put out there does indeed come back three times.  I don't believe that you are unlucky, I believe you are frightened of taking a step that is important to you.  Center yourself and visualize yourself in this new situation.  Is it good?  Then go for it!  You are in charge of your life, not a witch, not someone who may have put something somewhere (by the way, graveyards are holy ground, that 'trick' doesn't work).  Good way to scare people though.  Now hold your head up high and stop hiding behind luck. Get out there and have a life.
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As stupid as this might sound look at it this way. Things can't really get worse so they have to get better. I like to believe that you are always where your suppose to be and not necessarily were you want to be. Maybe you were able to determine your destiny before you started living your life and choose this way because it was the better way. Use this situation to figure out what it is you want out of life and do what it takes to make it happen whether it means going to school, accepting a job your not crazy about, moving somewhere else. Take it one day at a time and remember what goes around comes around so do good things so that good things happen to you. Problems are messages and maybe the only way for you to learn this message was to go through these hard times. \nGood luck.
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To LIVE ur life as it is fated... cherish de good moments and de bad ones too. Try live ur live as though 2 moro does not exist. u'll find out de answer.
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You have to decide WITCH path you want to follow.  I assume you are an adult.  WITCHEVER one gives you a greater sense of power, go with.
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I do agree with Dilla151 about the school.  Also, you must start believing in yourself if you want to succeed.  It is not going to be on anyone else as to whether you fail or succeed in Law.  It doesn't matter what you want to do, what matters is that you should do something you have a passion for and feel that you CAN do it (but my question to you is, how do you know that you will fail if you don't at least try???).  I would rather try and fail than not try at all!!
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Dealing in black magic is a dangerous thing.  Once you accept the possibility that someone can predict your destiny then you have lost your ability to self-determination and live at the mercy of somebody else morbid obsession with death and pain.
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sounds to me like you need to be applauded! I feel like the more horrible the experiences you have in life, the more of an opportunity you have to see ultimate beauty and positivity as well. Thich nat Hanh says that the seed of hate and regret can grow into a cancer of hate and horrible feeling, which is garbage. But only the stinkiest, foulest, wet, nasty compost grows the best garden. Many times we have to experience every corner of hell and despair before we recognize what good fortune really is, and it sounds like you have. Kudos Mom!
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Every one has a special thing about them. Yours is the ability beyond the unknown. I have always felt, ever since my first memory, that I was different. Apparently, my Mother knew it too, even before I was aware of the "gift". I was always told not to encourage the power I possessed, but that was like telling a bird not to fly. I dream all the time. Most of my dreams come true or have messages in them for me to deliver to others. I am constantly visited by the dead. In fact 2 nights ago, my son-in-law's grandmother let me know she had passed on. I had never even met her. When my daughter called to tell me the next day I was already aware of her passing. I feel people's pain too. This is hard to deal with, because there is so much of it out there. I also can smell death. I usually pick up on this just days before it happens. I am never quite sure who is going to die, but it always happens. Some people stay away from me because I scare them. Others cling to me, in hopes that I will have a message for them from someone they have lost or can tell them something about their future. I am not a fortune teller, a sooth saver, clairvoyant nor am I a medium. There is a name for us that picks up on others emotions, dead or alive, but I can't recall it. I will try and find it again, and get back with you. As far as what does this mean and why you?...there is no answer for that. Just get comfortable with this and try to understand what it is you are given. I know for a fact, that I was called to tell you this, but I don't fully understand it either. Just keep me in mind and if you have other questions, I will try and help you find the answers. This gift is a full time job, but I like to keep it in tack quitely because of all the commotion it causes. I know this much, I was not sent to help everyone, but everyone that knows I have this, thinks I should be there for them and when I have nothing to offer them, they think I am "full of it". But it just doesn't work that way. Or at least mine doesn't. I guess there are level of degrees for this. Anyway, don't be scared. Don't get ancie, and just because you make a call that you feel is totally heads up and it doesn't pan out, don't quit believing in yourself, because its not always in plain sight what is happening. In other words this can be very complicated when played out, and usually its nothing like what you might of dreamed and thought it was. Its all symoblic and it takes time to interpet it, and because it doesn't make sense to us, doesn't mean it want make sense to the person it is meant for. Walk in the dark, but never be alone.
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Every one of us has this BUT only some of us are sensitive enough to it.  Practice it.  Learn it.  Read as much as you can on the subject.  I have been this way all my life so I relate to you.  It's like things happen to you without reason but they lead you to places or things you wouldn't normally do.  You are being guided.  Whatever it is, follow it.  There is no such a thing as coincidence.  The signs are everywhere.  The major block though is not to be skeptical and let it go.  Let it in.
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Essam,\n\nI have to disagree with you. Dreams to exist but you need to set goals in order to achieve them. One goal you can start with is to have more self-esteem. You need to realize that no one can work hard at the things that want in life unless they set out to do so!\n\nYou sound a bit depressed and I can tell why you do. The harsh fact in reality is too many people give up and someone else comes along and obtains or achieves their goals.\n\nIf you are looking for work after graduation you need to start now. Check with your career services department at your college or university and ask for help with creating a resume, ask if they provide on campus interviews and ask for any career help you think you need.\n\nAnother thing you can do is set realistic short term and long term goals for yourself. Write them down and check off the ones you complete. You will be surprised how much you CAN achieve it you see it for yourself!\n\nAffirm what you want to be on a daily basis. Write these down and repeat them aloud EVERY DAY! If you hear what you want to accomplish in life you will start to believe it. Try it out and you'll see.\n\nFind a mentor or someone you can trust to help you along the way. If you find a positive role model that can make a difference in your life this will help you tremendously.\n\nAnd lastly don't get depressed. Whatever you are going through you can do it if you....TRY hard! Don't compare yourself to anyone because you don't know the glory behind their story.\n\nDon't give up and keep reaching for what you want. Your life is only beginning because after graduation, the real fun begins. If you have a positive and optimistic attitude you will be able to cope and deal with the everyday pressure of life.\n\nI hope this info has encouraged you tremendously.\n\nGod Bless.....
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hun, I'm not trying to sound like a snob or anything, but havent you heard that life is too short to not live it, if your gonna get something done, get it done yourself, you really need to put more effort into the things you do because one day i know it sounds funny, but there is going to be no "yahoo answers", or parents, or teachers and when that day comes when theres no one around to help you but yourself you will have to have learned to simply just take this advice, and DO IT YOURSELF. \n\ntake care, and good luck with whatever you're trying to do\n\n~Amarie