i dont mean like obese or nothing but like say a girl is 5'9 and weights 164 pounds = very attractive i like women to have some meat on them it is such a turn on, does anyone else feel the same way
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Its good for men to look deeper than the outside package. However if that is what you like, there's nothing wrong with it.
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Hi.\n\nThis is basically a cultural thing.  It really is not healthy for anyone.\n\nIn some cultures, however, being overweight, especially for women is desired.  It shows that they can tolerate stressful times (excess energy is stored up), so if there is a challenge in getting food - she'll survive.  (That is one reason)\n\nThe other reason a more robust woman may be desired is that she is direclty correlated with pregancy and motherhood, which are very desirable attributes in most cultures around the world.  In fact, in several areas sexy drawings or sculptures have been and are made of preganant women, or just large women for this reasons. - health, progenity, and fertility.\n\nLastly, in the West (the U.S.) being more and more slender has become a trend due to the fashion industry.  One era where it really started was in the 1960's with "Twiggy".  After that models began to become more slender.\n\nYou might remember from history, TV, or documentaries that they looked at Sophia Loren and Raquel Welch and Jane Russel (or Mansfield) as full-figure - GORGEGEOUS, Sexy Women.  (They were at least 20percent heavier than today's models. (go ahead and verify my percentage here - I'm going on memory) \n\nYou know - without any weight, it's pretty hard to have much of a figure: where are the breasts or hips?  You need some stored energy to have a really nice figure - at least for most women - maybe not all of them.  Some look feminine and great quite slender, others don't.\n\nUnfortunately, the more we read those fashion magazines we think we have to measure up, and that their standard is "it".  Not so.  Also, unfortunate: guys are starting to "buy into this philosphy" - for women.  That is not healthy - women/girls Don't need more pressure to fit some mold.\n\nLastly, did you know it's white women who have more of an issue with body image than black women?  It's the training, it's the sex typing, it's the culture, and it's what you expose your brain to and accept.  (I'm not making this up - this was part of my Gender Psychology class).\n\nWell, hope this adds good stuff to your answers.\n\nTake care.\ntiny feet
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Actually,, sorry to sound vague, but it all depends. "Hot" women come in all shapes and all forms. Skinny? Nicole Richie is not attractive to me. Give me Kirstie Alley (sorry the only one who comes to mind) anytime.  Larger (probably not the proper term) like Rosie O'Donnell, who obviuously loves food, is not attractive at all to me. Much depends on how the woman carries herself. I've dated skinny women who ate alot, medium sized women who didn't eat anything, and larger women who ate the same portions that I did. Obviously I don't know them, but I'd love to date someone like Cameron Diaz or Jennifer Aniston simply because they have a classy side as well as a side that looks like that they just want to have fun and get dirty. BTW, I'm 34.
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Well, you're the first I've seen that says something like that. I do like a great body, you know, curves, everything in the right place, but you know, its not like im some heartless person. I do like a girl's personality, its just if she's 400lbs then I'd have to pass.
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Yes. This is a hard question to ask. Now you made me even more confused lol. Let me tell you a story. I have this beautiful Asian Girl friend. She is very cute but she is short and a bit chubby that even make her look shorter. She is trying her best to get fit. I still love her but I feel that the rumor that men usually lose interest to the face and start thinking about the body is true :(
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I'd hate to be skinny as I love my boobs. I think women look better with a bit of meat on them but at the same time you must be healthy. If your within a healthy weight then it's all cool.
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to be honest i like a short woman who is just a litle on the heavy side ,but what is realy sexy is an open mind and a kind heart
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yup...totally normal...your not a freak...you were just taught to feel that way cause your a woman...and women are suppose to be pure and not sexual...  ask most men if they find a women attractive they often start wondering what they look like naked...then they wonder what its like to go further...this is normal.
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i luv blk women.they r very very very sexy.and they have the best as.s ever created by God.and they have better body structure toooooo.i m hungry for them
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Every person has his or her own idea of beauty. I have a good friend who is attracted to very large women. Personally, I am very attracted to bookish, quiet, intelligent women who many guys may not look at twice. Yes, many guys chase after the Barbie dolls.... but not all guys do. More important than your looks is your attitude about yourself, and your openess to being accepted by a good man who sees the beauty on your inside and out. I bet one day it happens for you!
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I am a woman, but I have conducted a similar survey myself on the men I know, and just wanted to let you know that they felt that the best figure a woman could have was largish breasts, a nice round bum and long legs. They weren't overly bothered about any tummy, they seemed to like both rounded bellies and flat ones! But definitely, in the same way that no man finds obesity a sexy look, they equally find the sight of loads of bones sticking out a total turn off.
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im 5'6 and i weigh 110 lbs. ive always been a little underweight.. id definitely like to put on a few lbs.. but not necessarily get fat.. id rather gain weight bc of muscle. i dont know of any woman who actually wants to become fat. i think we all want to become stronger and leaner!
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I like thick women myself - but to be honest... if thick women were promoted more in magazines.... than most people, on average, would care even less about their weight and only become fatter. Skinny chicks also tend to be bitchier than other women... so I guess they get more of what they want anyways.
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I for one like small breasts I really think they are very attractive
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Of  course there r, some thick girls are very attractive, others would be horrible even with a perfect body, but i guess this difference is pretty personal
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You definitely aren't str8.  It doesn't mean you will never pork a chick again, but you have definitely found your true turn on.  And since there ARE consenting adults who are into that, fee free to explore that in real life.  Just wear protection.
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From a total porn perspective, it's obviously her body, and specifics vary for each individual.  I like lots of curves and a general "nice body."  Personally, however, I like my girls big, not just overweight, per se, but tall and luscious and able to control me.  I'm far too inexperienced to have a favorite activity or trick, but one of the best things about dating a girl is that you don't have that pressure about sex like you ALWAYS have from guys.  It's cool just to make out for an hour because there's no penis calling the hasty, unappreciated shots.  Making out and cuddling are always my favorite activites.