Shez my chemistry lecturer,around early 40s.am 18,i like her because she clears our funda very well.i admire her a lot..i see her as a mother.shez unmarried as she had to take up the family burden to raise her younger siblings.now one day she told me in the class to come and meet her in her house as she needed my help,i agreed,i went the next day.she started asking me all sorts of teacher-student relationships and if i could confide my feelings to her.i strictly denied as i didnt feel comfortable.after one hour discussion i frankly asked her why did she call me.she bent towards me and asked,"CAN U SELL YOURSELF?" i was taken aback.i said "NO,NEVER AT ALL" she said then u leave.recently i had a doubt and i rang her up to clear it,i had forgotten it was valentines day,she cleared my doubt and ended "am happy u rung me up in such a good day" IS THAT BLOODY WOMAN A LESBIAN?
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she is!u say shez unmarried,so most probably dull sex life,that has generated a lesbian attitude in her.be careful,such psychos r really dangerous and vindictive.
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She seems like she has some issues. I mean, for one thing she said clearly that she did not want to come over. Then she was like see you later, she was ready to get off the phone with you quick and definitely didn't want to talk any longer. She seems like she is sending you mixed signals, and if she doesn't like you, then she should just tell you. I mean, don't throw hints, just be like she wants to be friends. Then as for being shy, she could have just said that she didn't feel comfortable coming back to your place. You would have understood that I am sure. Basically, you should just see where it goes this time, if she tries to be intimate, like showing you affection, just come out and ask her what is up. Don't be rude, but be like, Do you like me? Do you see me as a boyfriend or just a friend. You need to know, because she can't be like I want you one second and then don't want to be around you next. She needs to be honest. I hope that whatever happens you don't get played, so if you can see it isn't going to get better, leave her alone.
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Not totally good. She either hasn't seen it yet or she is not interested. If you still have the same class together, ask her. What's the worse she could say.....You'll never know until you do.
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Are you sure she doesn't feel the same?\nHumm.\nBut she IS meeting you, right?\n\nLooks like she is playing "hard-to-get"! :-)\n\nDid she explicitly tell you she doesn't love you?\nWell, if not, take it easy, man. \n\n"Quitters never win, and winners never quit - simple."
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What see did was not cool... Lesbian, gay, guy or girl.  Let's say it was a guy and he was a friend... do you thing that it would be nice of him to pull it out and ask you to join him?  There's a sensitivty to these things and a way to approach them.  Be honest about the way it made you feel and ask her to stop. You don't need to worry about what to do because you've done nothing wrong. Just bew authentic to yourself and to her.
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I am in the same boat right now! So, I know how you feel.  I just am there when she needs to talk.  I do not offer ANY negative input about MY feelings about the guy, just listen to how she feels and try to give her answers that are somewhat neutral.  Good luck!
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If she said that she don't want to get involved with anyone for a while, then that's somewhat a good thing. She NEVER told you YES (NOR) did she tell you (NO)! That mean's there's still hope in the future. Maybe she is trying to she if your a patient guy, one who would be true to her, and willing to wait and prove it! Go out together (as friends) and get her to like and admire you more. Good Luck.
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I know I answered the other one and thank you for the above.  And you are very welcome. Was nice "sharing" with you.  I gave a thumbs up on that one.  I really think the sentiment that Dr. Evil (what a name) gave was one I know would melt me and really seems to apply to you. "Dude! Write down this question on a blank card and then write that there were no answers good enough to say how you feel about her. She would SO DIG THAT!" That really sums it up. Good luck again to you and her.  But with that kind of love you are already luckier than most.  Alda
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Hey - it's all good...but, as others said, I'd advise to wait until you are graduated (if not already).  You're of age...why not?  Just one question to consider, though...will it destroy the families?  Does she have kids?  What would they think?  Would your parents approve?  I guess they couldn't really do anything, but you don't want to destroy your relationship with them over something not even real yet...If you feel comfortable with it all, though, hold nothing back...go get her!
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nooooo. the student may be living out a high school fantasy by pursuing you, it is doubtful they are mature enough to be in a relationship with someone 10 years older for awhile. It seems a bit unethical to me as well.
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I'm sure that she was just being kind to you and moving out of your way......Relax, hun........Not everyone (even though we are trained from a very young age to believe so) is rude and cynical......Take care!!!!!!!
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She could have been mad at you but didn't want to tell you (yeah, I know it just makes things difficult but I know I've done it before) if she just doesn't want to hang out. If she just stopped talking to you all together, her religion may prohibit contact like hugging with the opposite sex. She also could have mentioned that her mom didn't want you hanging out but you missed it. I'll be honest. I usually expect people to get what I said the first time so she may have just given up.
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She sounds really confused lol, but no seriously by what you've written it's clear that she likes you and she's just afraid for you if you become a cop.  A lot can happen to a guy or gal in that kind of job and she's probably afraid that if you guys start going out and you get hurt on the job it'll hurt her too much..but i'm sure that if you told her how you really feel and that she shouldn't be so worried you guys will have a chance :D Good luck!
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It sounds as if she was embarrassed that you involved the teacher in this scheme. She might like you, but it sounds as if she thinks you are a "lose cannon" who will embarrass her in front of others. That's the real reason I suspect that she ran out of the room the next day. I think you need to be authentic (and stop the big surprises) and have a conversation with her. Be real, and apologize if you sense she didn't like your "stealth flower surprise". Maybe, if she gets to know the real you, without the "surprises", you'll have a chance with her.
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I'm sorry that happened to you. Some people are way to defensive and try to read too deep into things. What you said was very nice, sweet and polite. Don't let a few grumpies ruin a thoughtful statement, if you read through some of the reply's you did make some girls' nite. Take care :)
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Fool, I'm in late high school too, and after reading your current inquiry, some of your other questions, and some of your responses, I can say one thing with certainty...\n\nYou're being pretty homosexual lately...\n\nNow, excuses aside, you HAVE TO MAN UP!!!\n\nWhen she rejects your soul into oblivion, don't sit there and "feel like [you] don't want to live anymore." You f***in' sit back and play it like you got ALL the answers...\n\nShe doesn't want to be with you, so what? Fool, you gotta let her know there is plenty other p**** out there for you, and Hell yeah you funna go and get it. \n\nGirls don't want someone who can be calm, compassionate and emotional, they can already do that themselves. They need someone who's going to be strong and just show them how to live. That's tight if you're not stoked that she doesn't want to be with you right now, and she never will want to if you let her think she's in control. You need to go out and be the mother-f***in' boss of the hood, and let her know, what time it is...
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Well I'm a female, and I'll be the first to admit that women can and do send mixed signals.  Sorry!  I personally find that  tYpe liKe ThIs to be extremely annoying, but then again, maybe  she thinks it's playful.  Sounds like you are on her mind right now, who knows why.  If you want it to be more (again) then respond.  If you are over her, then be polite but don't get engaged in it.