ok i dress like a girl,act like a girl and stuff like that{which i am a girl}.i don't kno what bi is but i told her no anyways.she thinks i'n lying!!! she just trying 2 get me 2 fall for her, or am i bi??? also what do bi s act like....maybe i am 1......
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Ok, so I was in the exact same situation when I was your age (I'm 37 now).  I had a great gay friend tell me that I was gay.\n\nI was in denial, but I was also confused.  Take your time and let things work themselves out.  Don't be afraid to question your sexuality and don't let anyone try to influence you one way or the other.\n\nGood luck!
455282
She can be bitter and hurt. You said that you went out with her right? well maybe she had true feelings for you and you broke her heart in a very harsh way. So, for her not to be the fool for everyone else she became this nasty Bi@tch. She is like that around you, because that is her cry for her and attention from you. I think that she wants you back.
487404
You have been friends for so long and you have never told her that you are bi? Why not? Does it make you uncomfortable to say it to her?\n\nAnyway, she does sound like she is confusing you big time. Giving double messages, I can imagine that you don't know what to think anymore. \n\nShe might want you and be afraid that your friendship will change after she has told you that. Maybe that's why she denies having feelings for you. On the other hand, maybe she does not have feelings for you in that way, but just tries to tell that she has bisexual feelings herself. That doesn't have to mean that she fancies you. Although to me it looks like she does fancy you. \n\nWhatever the case is, you will not know if you don't start to be clear to her. Why don't you tell her that you are bisexual, and that she is confusing you to the point that you are starting to avoid her? Be honest and open and start to really communicate. \nYour other alternative is going on like this, which can mean the end of your friendship. After such a long time, that sounds crap to me.\n\nGood luck and take care.
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Are you raving MAD???????? Give me one reason why she would like you as a BOYfriend man! Wake up! She has girl friends to do all this stuff! And maybe a brother too! You are being 'Sweet'! Thats what girlfriends of either sex do! I am not saying dont do all these things or that be a 'Bad' boy. But, what you are trying to do is, buy her with gifts and help. You should try to be yourself with her. Dont try too hard to make her like you. Give her some space to like you. People realise they have fallen in love when they know they are missing someone. You need to give her time and space to miss you. Be more like a boyfriend than a friend who is a boy... Best of luck dear!:)
69773
I'll tell you like this: Do you. If thats how you want to express yourself then go for what you know. If a boy isn't interested in you then thats his business. But don't let that make you question your style or your personality. I've had girls turn me down because I wear black or white T's and I look like a thug. But thats how I dress and if they don't like it oh well. I'm a good man and its they're loss. I'm sure you're a good woman so be about you. Don't be concerned with what other girls or boys say. The girls are hatin because you're different and the boys are intimidated because you have the nerve to be different.
199490
What is my life like?  Pretty boring honestly.  \n\nThere is some oppressive sh*t that you have to deal with, and it sucks that it comes from both sides.  When I told me ex boyfriend I was bi, he called me a whore and we don't speak anymore (we were very friendly after the break up and shared a lot of mutual friends so this was a big loss).  He came from a VERY fundie family, so this was a hugh shock to him.  My parents assumed I would never have children.  People whom I expressly told I was bi would call me a lesbian, joke that I was a lesbian, or tell others that I was a lesbian.  A little good natured ribbing is fine, but at some point you have to wonder if that isn't some repressive biphoibic thing rearing its head right there.  Men I don't know are the WORST.  They will not hesitate to harass me and my girlfriend on the street for wearing a pride pin or holding hands, and if they see us dancing or kissing at a straight bar, forget about it.  They will be all over us, propositioning us for sex, groping, grabbing, and when you blow them off, they get angry and rude.  That really is the worst part for me.\n\nFrom gay folks the reaction is mixed.  Older gay people really don't "get" it, but they're usually not rude about it to my face.  They grew up in a binary world where gay was gay and straight was straight and ne'er the two shall meet, so I can forgive them as long as they're not mean about it.  One of the interesting things about being bi is that everyone tells you about their little bi moments -- including gay people.  Two of the most popular most active most effeminate gay guys on campus made it a point to tell me that they actually think they're more bi, they just don't want to be open about it because they would loose face.  Around campus, gay folks are almost uniformly polite to my face, but we're a small batch and word gets around, so I know some of them (lesbians in particular) have been saying that I was just a straight girl who was curious and trendy... that ended when I got a serious girlfriend (2 years).  Again, some people make comments about how my girlfriend and I are lesbians or call us a lesbian couple or talk about a lesbian marriage -- even though neither of us is a lesbian.  It's kinda weird, sometimes there is just not another good word or phrase that fits, sometimes it feels like this passive agressiveness because they don't believe that you're bi anymore since you're with a girl.  \n\nOtherwise, I live a painfully normal life.  I go to school, I have a cat, an apartment, friends.  I go out, I stay in.  I visit my family.  I shower and eat and breathe and all that jazz.  Other then a few isolated occurances and relationships and patterns, being bi doesn't affect 90% of my life.
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I think either your all being a bit hard on Chancer here or some of you are incredibly stupid.\n\nHe has asked a legitimate question and nobody has made an attempt to give an answer.\n\nWhy do some lesbians dress and attempt to look like a man?\n\nIs that such a difficult question to answer?\nThere is a vague attempt of something by a 'butch dyke' as she calls herself but no explanation.\nIt does happen, SOME lesbians do dress in suits and a tie, cut their hair really short.\n\nWhy would someone who finds women attractive want a partner that looks like a man?\n\nI don't think there was an intention to offend, maybe he could have worded the rest a little better.
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I actually know what you mean.  At one of my gf's parties i was having fun just talking to this guy and my gf saw that and gave me this look like what the hell are you doing.  She is my first gf too and I haven't really been with anyone else, so I can understand what you must be feeling or fearing might happen.  My gf made it real clear that she was a little disturbed by what she was seeing and after that I realized how much it bothered her and now I am more aware of what I can and can't do.  With us it is kind of a little game though. She has done the same thing to me.  She will look at other girls and make comments just to see my reaction.  It is kinda funny that she is worried about me however, because she happens to be bi while I find myself more straight up gay.  I should really be more afraid of her time alone with a guy she finds attractive.  Perhaps what your gf is going through is similar.  Maybe she knows it bothers you or maybe she is just not sure how much it bothers you. I would definetely talk to her.  Communication is always the best way to treat little problems like these.  Be honest yet compassionate and not too firm with her.  It just seems that the trust between the two of you needs to be strengthened.  Number one thing.  Be brutally honest!  It tends to work out more than not.
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she might. or, she thinks you are a joke. you need to ask her. see if there are feelings.
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Sounds like he gets your pulse racing.  Love to hear about those feelings.  Im jealous.  All that aside, So you like him and he likes you, whats the problem?  Oh, the girl...that could be a problem if she doesnt know about your bisexuality.  I don't see anything wrong unless someone might get hurt...hhhmmm.
331542
Just let her no that you are only interested in boys but you might want to find out if she is really a lesbian or just wants to be your friend. People have a strange way of showing people how they feel and she could be going about it the wrong way.
367990
HELL NO! Most guys think it is awesome if a girl is bisexual. He is just wondering if he might get included in one of  these "crazy summers". Don't worry about it. If you want to do it again, I'm sure he will  be game. He's lucky to have you.
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Tell her you don't mind being friends with her, but you have absolutely no intentions of being involved sexually with the opposite sex.  Let her know you don't swing that way and her actions are starting to make you feel uncomfortable.  I also like what you said about she's trying to turn you into something your not.  Say that to her too!  Good luck.
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Dont listen to the people trying to say your not Gay or Bisexual, because you might be, only you can know. Yes @ 13 you are going through puburty(sp?) and will experiment. But only you know if you are or are not. If she wants to kiss you to, I say go for it. But as with any friend a relationship can possibly mess it up. \n\nThere is nothing wrong with you, you are normal. Dont ever let someone try to make you bad or that you are wrong for feeling the way you do. Be careful with who you tell because some people are not open and bad things can happen, because people are so close minded.\n\np.s- I am 22 years old and have gone through the same thing you are. So I know from personal experience and I am a Bisexual adult, I always knew ever since I was little. It took me some time to accept myself for who I am.
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If you are interested in this girl just play it straight. its not as if you are going to be with guys at the same time.. if you go out you will be leading a straight life... \n\ni am bi but i am in a gay relationship. i dont cross back over to the straight side of my preferences. \n\nIf you go out and finish you probably wont speak to her after so why tell her.. its only friends that need to know.. not girlfriends.\n\nTake this scenario: you go out with a guy... your not gonna go with a girl at the same time.. so you can just say your gay. Saying your bi will just make the other person be weary and paranoid about both sexes. \n\nBasically a person is gay ro straight... being bi just means you can switch when u need to
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your probably not guy your just bisexual  mebay u are guy who ami to say since i dont know you   personaly i'd wiat to tell ur fionce she might flip out and  this couldturn out to be a stage in ur life that caused u to ruine ur relationship   look into ur sexuality still mebey u can go to a gay bar or something  just keep it on the dl for a min.\ngood luck
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emmmmm isn't it obvious !!!\nshe like  you and says you are hot !! dahhh she want you to do (&#92;&#92;&#92;) with her !! and yah she wana keep her boyfriend coz she probably love him !!!\nwhat you should do ?? just ignore her she's no good for you or anybody ... don't accept to be a tool in her hands !!