how can i get a really fit boyfriend that lasts for atleast a year?
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BE HONEST,RESPECTFUL,AND HAVE OPEN COMMUNICATION
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time to get another boyfriend
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having a boyfriend has its ups and downs and it is nice to have one, but you're still an adolescent. patience is a virtue. someone will eventually find you.
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Refocus your anger to getting your figure back.  People often say that if you love someone it doesn't matter, blah, blah, blah...Bottom line is that looking good for your significant other is sign of respect for yourself and him/her.  Doesn't matter male or female obesity kills just the same.  If you grew 30 pounds that last 5 years, what about the next 5 years?  Another 30 pounds?  Lose the weight, make him drool, then dump his sorry a** and go get a real man
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Wait it out if they end up not working out make your move.\n-NmD!
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I make this short and sweet. If your bf can't and won't wait than maybe he's not the one for you. Find someone who can respect your morals and most of all someone who can respect your body.
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Look at the bigger picture....the outcome!  Put yourself on a schedule so that it becomes a routine.  Find a partner who enjoys going and you can both be a support system to eachother.
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Tell him to grow up.  If he's not willing wait for you... that doesn't bode well for the long term.
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Lean into him close , and barely move your feet ...little steps shifting your weight from right to left. Make sure your where he isn't stepping on you either as he will be donig the same.
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your bf needs to loose weight
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i am a guy. if you find the right guy we are looking for some one who is kind caring loving and trustworthy.to get a boy friend find some one you like more than a friend. ask them to go hang out at a public place get to know them. if all go's well try a few more dates. if you prove you are loyal and if he is loyal your all set. you now have a good healthy relationship and a boyfriend. don't try to change just be your self some one will love you for who you are. trust me i have had a great relationship for 4 years.
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Go for it and ignore your friends who seem to be a lil shallow. This man is more capable of loving you more than any man can ever love you in more ways than one. For instance, he has to literally explore your body as he make love to you and it becomes like second nature to him he knows your body even better than you. He can sense your mood and he will love you always for who you are and not what you look like ,act like etc. Most important he will never judge you because his love is true
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Give it time. It takes a while for the right one to come. Don't worry about your body; just be you. The one made for you will come.
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ok heres how its gonna go, u guys might work becuz, any guy who can get a chick 10 yrs yunger than him is gonna be happy, and you, you probably want the aspect of hes older he'll want to settle down n all that stuff, now the problem is this...................................... everyone else\n\n\n-one-love-\nLusTlesS
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Unfortunately, you can never know for sure if a relationship will last. You don't even seem to be sure that YOU want to be with him for the rest of your life. If you were, you wouldn't be asking this question. But in reality, it takes a lot longer than three months to get to know someone, so I say just try to get to know him a little better and ask yourself if he's someone you want to devote your life to. With your commitment, it can become reality.
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Set a standard of who you would like to be with, and then search for him. But never lower your standards for anyone!\n\nAnd DON'T use yourself either!\nUse HOPE of finding the right person to keep you going thats what I do!
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Be patient...be good yourself, and a good boy will find you one day.  Don't settle for someone who is no good for you, just because he's there.  Wait for the good one!