My friend is obsessed with guys with big butts, does it really matter?
214028
hahaha, good question.  I have never found what is attractive about a butt.  I mean sersiouly, you sit on it all day, and funky smells come out of it..... is that attractive???? really?????? :)
287086
as long as you know what youre doing then size really doesnt matter. a lot of guys who are big think they are good because they are big and they are soooooooo wrong. pay attention to what she likes and you'll be fine
237537
Their butts or hips may be bigger than yours.
676856
Just because he's a dancer who dances contemporary dance, is good-looking, has a nice hair style, and has a cute lisp does not make him automatically gay!  With that said, I have no idea.  Besides, your friend can have a huge crush on him even if he is gay.  Why should that change anything?  I highly doubt she'll ever meet him in real life in order to have any chance of hooking up with him, so it should be perfectly fine if she has a crush on him.
7703
I'm thick and i've never had a problem. My thighs touch and i haven't seen i size six since i bought pants for my son. But that's my hang-up. My fiance loves me and he tells me everyday that i'm beautiful. You have to trust that the man that loves you the most is going to love you no matter what size pants you are. And it sounds so cliche, but anyone that makes you question yourself isn't worth your time.
419922
you will not be able to make your butt smaller without making your legs smaller.\n\nwhat your friend wants to do is spot reduce, lose fat in one spot..that is not possible because you can't.  If you lose fat..other parts of your body will also lose fat
335322
just sort of tell her in an indirect way like if you happen to see someone with low cut pants say "things like these make my skin crawl..."then continue with the conversation telling her how you feel about pubic hair  and too much skin that way you will let her know without hurting her feelings. girls do like straight honest guys but putting a sock in it might just scare her away and since you like her i don't think that would be a very good idea.
412374
He has a weak character. I think it's probably virtually impossible for him to compromise. I know guys like that. BUT there are probably some other guys out there who would be so into being close to you, they would not care if you are fat... and some who think you're sexy as you are. Find them instead, and let this guy feel your absence and hurt about it a bit. Maybe he'd learn something valuable.
117776
well it sounds too me that your Friend is as shallow as she is making all men appear to be .. Yes there are plenty of men that prefer whats on the inside of a woman then on the outside and I don't mean their liver and spleen, but their hearts their desires their compassion ... I will say this much take it for whats it's worth the most attractive thing is confidence the least attractive thing is arrogance .. make sure you have one not the other and you should do fine ...(also a little hint love finds you most when your not looking)( I know it's cliche but it's true)
438173
If he starts liking her for her outer beauty, it means he is shallow.  I think real men know that inner beauty is what counts the most.  For you to be deceiving your friend, I think you are putting dirt on your inner beauty.  Learn to be nice, honest, etc. and you'll gain confidence as a person.  Then, you will worry less and have less jealousy.
519734
Random Answer:  WHy would you belittle your friend.  You can do nothing about your physical size, or appearance other than be buff or trim, or allow yourself to be obese.  Maybe you two need to have a measure-off and set the issue to rest.  Otherwise, lay off the size jokes, good friends are far more important in life than stupid put downs that do hurt.
188800
I love when guys have good looking butts, so the more  see of it the better. BUT please know that they don't look right on everyone.
394833
Yes, I think your absolutely right about everything  you said that concerns you, your friend, and this guy. Just be glad that it wasn't you with this guy no matter how good he flirts or looks. I really feel for your friend because if she gives it up to him he's going to be gone like the wind soon afterwords. Hopefully things won't get that far for him and her, but if they do I hope that maybe she'll learn a lesson from it. You seem like a very smart girl to me. Don't ever let yourself be taken advantage of. Your worth something.
84863
No it does not matter!! It depends on how he use's it!!\n  OK look at this and think stick your little finger up your ass, now stick A broom handle up your ass do you like it? But if the guys moves you know motion knows what to do.\n Little or big, movments is the key!! Positions try different ways. size isn't everything.
44783
well to me theres not many things hotter than a good looking butt on a chick, and with anal you can get her in a position where the guy can see all the action thats going on and he can see the full frame of the girl that add's so much pleasure for the guy, to be honest its not better  because its tighter, if a guy tell's the truth about it it's like i said because he gets to see all the girl while its happing and he can get her in a position where he's in full controle, most guys like watching xxx movies during  sex, having  sex that way with a girl its like his own xxx movie and he is the star of it, i hope you can see and understand the full meaning of my answer, (smiles to ya)
25190
I am a BBW and it's just a personal preference thing. I must first ask you what "a little extra weight" is? 10lbs? 20 lbs, 50 lbs? I myself like the man for the heart he has inside, and the way he treats me. These are the things that really matter most. If someone judges you based on your weight, it only proves how shallow they are. You are special just the way you are!
580008
YES!!! I know a couple myself. Guys who do this are called "Down Low" guys. I would strongly urge you to warn your friends about  how rampant Aids and HiV are in this community. You guys may never know the full truth... but tell your friend to protect her heart and let him GO.