why are nz women afraid to admit to like spanking men and why dont more do it
207812
I love spanking my man and I am PROUD to admit it. I also must admit that I get more spanking then what he does but he does get spanked a lot and it turns me on spanking him just as much as it does when he spanks me!!!!
144355
I know exactly where your coming from, where I work some of the women (well one in particular) is a right bimbo, but because she wears short skirts, low cut tops and licks b*m she seems to get away with everything, but... when things go wrong she really does get it in the neck because its a shock to the system as shes used to having it easy.  I think the reason some people are like this is because they are unhappy in their home life this particular person gets beaten by her husband, people just lack attention and like to source it from other places.\n\nDon't feel sorry for yourself just rise above and at the end of the day you have a better home life then her and you are a much better person without exposing yourself and being nasty xx
627383
Yes we are!! I think it's because they lack respect for women. I think they were raised with "old school" traditions when women "knew there place". They can't handle the fact that women have stepped up to the plate where they have failed miserably. When they encounter problems they whine about it while we deal with it. They resent us.
668374
It's a biological drive. Not all men act like that, some women do. Some people will be deceitful for no reason at all. People are complicated.
606490
Guys (myself included) rarely can express themselves as you indicated because 1) They are afraid of you - afraid of offending you - afraid that you'll think less of them - afraid that  you'll leave them - afraid that their uh uh... you know what supply will be cut off.  2) Guys hate it when a woman says "... can we talk?"  - first thing that goes through most guys minds is ".... oh sh*t... how long is this going to take?"  Guys don't like to put themselves in postions where they have to "discuss" their feelings in some long drawn out manner.  So we act pre-emptively and keep our yap shut.
458052
People judge other people because of fear and ignorance. It sounds icky to them, it offends their sense of decorum and the distaste simply closes their mind. People who fear are very limited in their outlook on life, its a box they hide in and alot of times they want everyone else to hide in it too. \n\nI'm not into scat, sorry it just smells bad. However I've used golden showers in BDSM for a couple of decades now and used it for a variety of reasons. I consider it marking my property. I've had submissives who considered it humiliating and it turned them own or fed some inner need, and I've had others who considered it a privilege and an honor. I don't consider it a fetish as I am not compulsed to do it, I simply use golden showers as another tool.
132048
It's a phase. Each time women get more power and autonomy -- as they have in the past couple of decades -- they seem to get scared of the possible consequences; then they start wearing sexier clothes and saying dumber things, so as not to scare the men too much.  And women have gained a lot of economic power lately, so maybe the back-pedalling is that much more noticeable this time.  It'll be interesting to see how this shakes out.
524113
I don't kno if this will help any \n\nbut deep down men are more scared of being hurt than women are
579680
Its a long old story of Male Dominance that began with religious fevor so long ago.  There are tribes who have had little contact with the outside world who still look upon women with great reverance!\n\nI also believe that the men that are really pains in the butt secretly, way down deep, want a woman to dominate them!  Get out the whips, they calm down REAL fast ;-)
667838
That is definately normal.  Women these days are being attacked on so many fronts.  The chief one being self esteem.  What she really needs to do is have confidence in herself.  Men are drawn to that.  She needs to feel comfortable with her body, and with her personality.  If she doesn't know what to say when around others, that is alright.  If she is confident, the people she is around won't be able to help talking to her.  She can learn all of the other stuff on the go.
297191
Because women are much more vocal than men about their emotions. This is how they relieve the stress of being scared, their basic instinc. And it's good for the heart and lungs too.
214840
I don't think it is a new phenomenon. I think it just gets talked about more these days. \nIn the past people were more afraid of coming forward and reporting abuse because of social stigmas. Now people are a lot more understanding for the victim. I think this is evidenced by the huge number of cases that have come out in recent years here in Australia which date back 30 - 40 years. Grown men have finally found the courage to come forth and talk about what heppened to them without being themselves labelled as "gay" or "dirty".
111683
Women have done things like this since the beginning of time...\n\nYes it is irritating, but sometimes a necessary evil...\n\nUsually it stems from lack of attention in childhood...
474355
You should be ashamed of yourself.\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061104191254AARfhN7&r\nYou think it is funny and it is a turn on.\nHow stupid and cruel can women be? Do you know how damaging that can be, it is a long list, but to keep it short he can have infertility problems or lose a testicle(yes not that rare)! It is not just hitting, in that private place and especially done by the opposite sex, men usually feels sexually abused(even if does not show his feelings). It is a sex offense. Not to mention the emotional trauma.\nAnd women claim they are more sensible than men and non violent, yeah right!\nThat should only be used if someone is trying to rape you or kill you, only emergencies, only extreme cases of self-defense. If you do that in other situations, then you are 10 times worse than the guy you kicked.\nIf you think is funny to hurt and damage men like that, then you don’t deserve to be loved by any man or to have a family.\nDo you think men hurting women or raping them is funny too? No, because it affects you directly, typical female way of thinking. And you are spreading the word that is OK! You are lucky men are not like women, but some day you are going to kick the wrong guy and then you will lose your front teeth, or even worse go to jail.\n\nWant to see the long list of damage, go see my answer, if you care.
662933
I think this reaction is a lot more common than you may think.  I won't spank and tell, but I've known several women who are confirmed spankophiles and one who could reach orgasm through spanking alone.  (I'm talking about 'pleasure' spankings, not disciplinary ones.)
79873
YOu show an awareness of the reason for your discomfort with women.  It could also be a fear of intimacy which is quite common especially if you had some kind of abuse as a child. It is a subconcious fear that you may be hurt somehow. I don't know how you would resolve this without some regular talk therapy. You need to explore it a lot each day and write your thoughts about it in a journal you keep to hlep you figure out and understnad it. Once you understand it completely it will lose its hold on you and you can gradually overcome it.
502275
Not all men are the same.  There are some who finds it challenging to be beaten by women.