calling...before deciding to answer or not ??
213660
Not me, either.  Then I would have to hear the phone ring 4 times.
78998
welll......who knows she might also be waiting....just call her saying u were just thinking about her so just called...and u'lll come to know from her reaction and also ur this confusion will be over that is she intetdred in talking is it too late or shud u continue talking....u never know she might be busy and couldn't get back to u.....just do it... anwyaz u wont be loosing anything...good luck
91841
Don't! I think it's just a waste. Seems she's just being polite talking to you on the phone because you were the one who called. She's also just being polite that she didn't want to tell you her true reasons on why she cancelled on you twice. Come on! If she's interested on you, don't you think she will try to give you a call besides you making the call? I know you know the answer to your question, it's just that you don't want to admit it yourself that there is nothing between the two you (or at least nothing on her part).
29824
Gauge it based on who exactly you're talking to.\n\n1. If you get a call from a recorded voice saying "I have an important call for you...please hold.", that's grounds for an immediate hang-up.\n\n2. If it's a legitimate business that called you and you want to speak with them and they put you on hold, I'd wait no more than 5 minutes on hold.\n\n3. If it's a business you called and they put you on hold, wait as long as is appropriate given the importance of the call.  For example, if you're doing a phone interview for a job, I would not hang up.\n\n4. A personal call from a friend or relative warrants no hang-up at all.
474352
Do NOT call him. You have already done too much. Distract yourself and let him come to you.
274475
I agree call-not showing up-might hurt you
436987
Wait for him to call?  He already called you several times and you didn't answer.  Why would you want to call someone who stood you up?  You are better off moving on, since he stood you up.  Do not let him walk over you.
123240
hi,  what you could do before you make that phone call, is to   sit down with a pen and paper and   make a few notes on what you would like to say and how best to say it..  she will never know you have a little cheat sheet in front of you  and it   will give  you a reference   if you get tongue tied ! ... you might want to     write down a few  notes such as   something about school  / mutual friends or interests  movies /TV shows  etc..    to start the conversation going..  example = " hi ______  this is _____   (if your in school and have the same class) =  I was wondering if you knew   what pages we were suppose to do for homework, I forget to jot it down "..etc... then branch out in to  any current event / TV show  movie etc... ask her if she saw it /liked it.. etc...    or  if she would like to see  a movie with you  or grab  a bite to  eat etc..  good luck !
635906
There is nothing wrong with calling to confirm an appointment and making sure they have the correct number to reach you at.  Just don't call several times.  Just once the day before would be fine.
393393
Firstly if I were you, I wouldn't call at 7:00. Have you been keeping contact with him throughout the month, or is this the first you've heard from him? If it is the first you've heard from him, I would most definitely not call until like..... 8:15 - 8:45. Make it seem like you haven't been waiting for him, and that you've got better things to do than abide to his schedule. \n\nAs for what to say to him..................... if y'all are still cool,  I don't think it should matter, talk to him like he was just another friend. But again, if I WERE YOU (lol) I wouldn't say much, and I'd give off a "what-is-it-you-need-from-me" kinda attitude.\n\nYa. I'm rude. \n"You must not know 'bout me, you must not know 'bout me............" lol
293277
You haven't called her yet??  Well I guess it would be best not to rush things.  But if you are interested call her tonight and make plans for the weekend.  You don't want her to think that you couldn't find anyone else and wait till the last min. to call her.  You want to give her sometime to prepare. Make sure to tell her how nice of a time you had on fri..  Good luck.
673677
Call, definitely call. \n\nThere is little regret to come if your were to dial those digits, but if you don't do it, there will always be a "what if" for you to wonder about. \n\nIf you don't know what to say, just act like it hasn't been a while since you last spoke. Just sort of pick up where you last left things on a positive note.\n\nLife is too short to play games. If you want to talk to someone, the normal thing to do is to make the call - not sit around waiting for them for fear of looking desperate. He could be sitting on the other side of the phone waiting for you to call, because he doesn't want to look desperate if he were to pick up the phone. Just end the games and make the call. Hopefully it will be well received, if not, it wasn't meant to be. At least you will know.
245083
call around and ask them.
625317
No, they have your number on file. It's good that you called back. Now wait. If you don't hear anything by tomorrow, call again and explain that you wanted to check the status of your application.
204756
Sure, go ahead and call. ONCE. Just say something like, "listen, I really don't know why you're not talking to me, but it matters enough to me to find out. So, here I am, calling. If you are willing to talk about it, know that I would like to. If you're not, then I won't bug you."\n\nAnd, you have to leave it be at that. Otherwise, you'll be making BOTH of yourselves buggy...\n\nIt may be just the opening he's looking for, because it's possible that HE is afraid to call YOU. Maybe not. But you won't know if you don't try. Just ONCE though...
407380
answer the call and talk to her about it
319867
do not call first, wait for him to call you!