A friend is trying to hook me up with this girl,and she had ask that i call her. what are the do say,and don't say for this first conversation?
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Okay, do-says and don't-says...\n\nDo-says:\n\n"Hi, I'm _______, a friend of ________."\n\n"I'd like to get to know you, if that's all right with you."\n\n"If you don't want to, I understand, but from what _______ told me, you sound like a pretty cool girl." (or something like that)\n\n"So, you got a name?" (if she hasn't told you)\n\n"So, is there a time that would be good to get together?"\n\n"Well, I look forward to getting to know you! Do you like _____? How about meeting me there?"\n\n"Yeah, and don't worry, if we hate each other, you can just boot me out the door okay?" (say it in a joking way, of course)\n\nDon't says:\n\nDon't say anything about any past relationships that you've had. That's private stuff that will come later, if the relationship between you guys works out, and it will probably make her feel uncomfortable if that's one of the first things that you start talking about.\n\nDon't start immediately blabbing on about you and your life. Leave some room for her too! If you're talking about your favorite sport, keep it short (don't go into the entire game record of your favorite team), and then ask her if she has a favorite sport. Keep her talking, and that will give her the impression that you really do want to get to know her.\n\nDon't lean too heavily on the fact that your friend referred you. In fact, keep from talking about that as much as possible, or it'll sound like you're just doing this because your friend said so, and that would be VERY offensive to her.\n\nBut other than that, be yourself, and have fun! Let her get to know you for who you really are, be friendly and open, and be mindful of everything she says, even if the conversation doesn't last very long. Make it a conversation to remember, but don't try to hard to make it that way, or it will turn out disasterously. Once you get it going, I think you'll be surprised at how natural the words will start coming to you. Especially if she is a nice girl! So just think it over, maybe jot down a few ideas for what to say on a piece of paper, and call her up. Good luck!
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lAsk someone you trust.  Do not just blirt it out though.  Women have to know that the question is coming so they can prepaire for the response.  Start talking to one of your frinds about sex, and make sure that the person is not going to spread your conversation around like a bad rash.   Let the conversation lead itself for a while, then start asking her questions.  Questions about her sex life, maybe ask about a fantasy she has had, and then say something like, "ya, I was thinking about haveing a three-some, that would be fun."  Then wait for a response, but do not let an awkward silence ensue, if there is not an immediate response, say something like, "I just don't know if I could find anyone that would be willing to be with me and my boyfriend."  Then let your frined respond, if she does not respond, this does not nessesarily mean no, just say something like, "it's just something to think about," and change the subject so you both do not get all wierd about it.
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she may just want to have you as a "buddy" you might just be who she wants a booty call from. hell nobody really knows but her. so ask her.
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Sometimes it is best to be straight forward in situations like this.  I know that's easier said than done but with this approach it leaves no room for guessing on his part.  You don't have to be rude but you do have to be honest.  That way he will get the picture and leave you alone for good.  Good luck.\n\nP.S.  I had to do this before and the guy actually thanked me for being honest and we're actually friends now.  He has a girlfriend and everything.
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Just ask her for her number.  How hard is that?  Worst she can do is say no, and you’re not playing any stupid games which is a good way to start any type of relationship.
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If she is a friend, ask her!\n.\nOK.   This is strange.  <quietly backs away>
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go for it man.  nothing ventured, nothing gained.  what if you wait and she asks someone else?  get in there!!
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There is no good way to tell her the first time should have never happen you lead this friend on and now you don't want to continue what you started that going to hurt just be honest and apologize and let her know that you will always be there as a friend and that's all you can be to her
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We expect to be approached just like anyone. Just walk up and say "hi". Introduce yourself and start talking about anything. Sports, weather, who you are out with tonight, music- whatever. Either the conversation ball will start rolling or it won't. If you approach a girl with stupid lines, or an agenda, any girl who is worth talking to will see right through it.
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THE QUESTION IS this?  DO YOU like HER.?you MUST WANT SOMETHING TO HAPPEN YOU ALLOW HER TO  CALL YOU 10 TIMES A DAY. Plus  you  get  on  here and  talk  about  her  calling  you.  Whats with  that?Someone really  likes  her.Of  coarse she likes  you.OR  maybe  her  girl  friend  is  paying  her  to  call you.
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WHAT DO U MEAN BY U WANTED TO TALK 2 HER AND HER SISTER ? i'D GET MAD 2! BUT N-E WAYZ  I THINK U SHOULD CALL HER AND TELL  HER U DIDN'T MEAN MEAN TO UPSET HER. \n          keep it real pimpin
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Dont just go up to her and the first thing you say is "wanna go out?", its too random. Start a conversation and then start working up to it from there.
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none of that matters\njust give her your number\nwink\nsmile\nand say in nice but firm voice" call me"\nsmile and continue what you were doing\n\nlife is way to short for all this drama..\njust do it\n\ngood luck
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First don´t say "Hi my name is ___".\nInstead compliment her and ask her name, something like "You look great whats your name ___"\nOr ... tease her something funny like "I think I have the same dress at home its great".\nThen get her to talk about herself and try to keep it like you are in total control and casual. She will ask for your name and number later.
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If she is really your friend, she will accept you as you are and not stop talking to you.\nSo I would say "tell her".
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I'd be upfront and ask her abou this other person. It also depends I guess on what your intentions are towards this woman.
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Well I am a girl, so I have experience with this. Hint that you are going to ask her BEFORE you do it!! Just say something like "hey I have something important to ask you later" This prepares her so she kind of knows whats going to happen. Then talk to her FACE-TO-FACE!! This is really important because it shows her that you care and will not be awkward with her if she says yes. Girls are always afraid of losing a friend or making it "wierd" between them.