if there can be a second chance after years of disapointments and emotional hurt?.. \n\nor maybe she was perfect at a certain time and should forget totally about her.
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Generally speaking if your relationship didn't work before it won't work in round 2.  Old feelings, problems, resentments and other issues will creep in and ruin things.\nThere are over 7 billion people in the world...roughly 50% of them are the opposite sex.  You can and will find someone else.  Just move on.
153583
let the past be in the past and move on with your life.....talk to her see if shes still botherd by it
408200
That all depends!  I would be too hurt and mad to even consider it right away.  You sound like you know what you want to do.  We have our own opinion so I say follow your heart.  If you do give it another try and it happens again, then by all mean do not do it again.
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Think about this. In 10 years from now, will you regret not getting to know her and doing things with her?\n\nI know I can say yes I have regrets due to ignoring my feelings about certain people and letting them slip away.
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I personally feel like if it happens once shame on them if it happens a second time shame on you for letting it happen. Trust is a hard thing to build once its lost you can take that friend with a grain of salt because even if you do give her a second chance this incident will always be in your mind
587313
there was probably something he didnt want to tell her....maybe another girl? but whatever it is theres no trust or communication in their relationship... she shouldnt go back with him..he wont be worth it.
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Hopefully it will serve as a lesson to others that "it ain't over till it's over." \n\nI felt bad for her, I mean she knew she had done something foolish and it cost her, the only good that can come from it is if others don't make the same mistake she did.
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yes, because i could understand if she had trust issues because of past things. alot of ppl do. and if he really loved her then he should be able to forgive her. they just need to sit down and have a real conversation on this matter. she needs to explain why she has trust issuses and tell him it is not him. but things in the past. he doesnt forgive her hes not worth it. (vote me best answer plz)
572234
Perhaps you shouldn't forget about her... just a thought.
256699
If she stays with him, she is not only hurting herself but him as well. He may be a great person but eventually she will come to resent him because he is not "the one". She is also keeping him from finding someone that really loves him and someone he has a spark with. I hope that she finds what she is looking for. I have also been one that picks the ones that don't want to commit. I wish her luck and hope whatever she decides to do it is the right choice for her!
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from a 25 year olds opinion,yes. its because there was an intimacy. like a lost best friend. its normal. i often wonder how she is and if life is good for her even though i havent seen her in 8 years.
384957
YES  YOU ARE WRONG. LET THIS GIRL STAY IN THE PAST\nWHERE SHE BELONG. YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER THEN\nHER. AND YOU SHOULD LET IT GO. AND MOVE ON. OTHER\n'WISE SHE WILL HURT YOU AGAIN.
235555
no .....\ni make the best desisions i can, and when i look back i know there were right, at least at the time, so there is no use in dwelling on the past, you cant change it. so accept it and move on without regrets.
450963
It happens. It doesn't mean anything, so let it go. She already has to feel lousy enough for the mistake.
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I would tell her that she deserves more than to cling to a relationship that's over. There are a lot of really great guys out there that would treat her as she deserves to be treated. Tell her you hate seeing her waste a single day of the wonderful life she could have, but that it's up to her to take that first step to put the past where it belongs...in the past.
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I knew someone who was in an abusive relationship and yes, she did repeat the cycle. It was really sad but it seemed like she would only date guys who were jerks. I think women who are in this cycle have such low self esteem that they really don't know that they deserve better.
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It is easy to forgive and hard to forget, but if in the past relationship wit this chic, if she made the same mistake more than once than don't go back to her, because who is to say she won't do it again. So, if you don't want to get hurt leave her alone.But ,if ya'll situation ain't so bad off then give it a shot and try to make it work.