I think a girl likes me a ton, but how can i get her to go out with me
214594
You can never 'get' a girl to love you... she needs to want to offer you her love.  ASK HER to go out with you.... stop the guessing game
286612
Well you should support her as much as you can and talk to her about this,ask her if she wants to feel like this and if she says yes then she might have large feelings for this girl if not then she is just going through a stage wanting things like that or maybe she really thinks this girl is cool!
316153
All of the above and then some. Make her feel special and then, show her what she's in for if she gets with you and then go for it!
527406
umm maybe more then friends. ask her if she wants to go out sometime
167533
Ask her again.  if you like her tell her that cause maybe the girl wont go out wit you cause she might think it is a joke or something
518780
maybe she just likes you coz of who you are and how you treat her. you should know that in life there's no one better than you, ur just different.\nif she likes you, then she saw something in you that she longed for which the jocks and athletes dont have.\nmaybe you know how to speak to her heart and u are a peerson that can be trusted.dont put yourself off ur equally smart and fun to be with thats why she's going out with u.\nhow do you fel when you are with her? can you talk about anything and can she be herself when she is with u and the same for u when ur with her?\nif she finds you attractive,then there's something in you that makes her want to go out with u.she trusts u with her heart and herself and she knows that u dnt expect alot from her.you are different from other guys so dont blow your chance with her& dont ask her why she's with you ask her when your r/ship has grown into something more than just occasional dates then you'll know why it was worthwhile and why she chose you.when u go out dnt try to impress her maybe your cool ways is what drew her to u play your cards right and she'll wanna hang out with u more often
134157
I think you've waited long enough. If you really like this girl, then why don't start talking to her more often. Become good friends with her and then ask her out, this will take longer, will almost be a sure fire way to get her to say yes, and will eliminate all thoughts of you being shallow.
340183
ok dude..u can just ask her out while u and her do ur usual banters and what not..initially just joke around and stuff..then at one point, after u say stuff like where u gonna take me or whatever or she say she's gonna take u somewhere, u just look at her in the eye and say, 'no, i'm serious'..of course u need that serious look when u do that..it's just a matter of timing..might or might not work, but it's worth a try..\n\ngo get her, boy!
413676
Well she might be into you or she might not really get how much you like her, you should just swallow the embarrassment and one day just start flirting with her over lunch or when your out together alone or with some friends not a big group, then if she resists flirt with her til she either flirts back and somethin happens or until she speaks up about you look at her. If she looks at u and says somethin about u lookin at her than tell her about how much u wanna take ur friendship to a new level nd try dating and than ask her if she would consider goin out wit u if she says yea or hesitates than pik a place and when u'll b over to get her than take it form there good luck hope this helps i did this once with the same type of situation and i dated the girl for over 2 years, we still talk NOTE: Just remember friends and dating are totally different so if it goes somewhere keep that in mind dont change but dont treat her like shes just a friend if ur serious about dating her than act like it she'll respect that if u do wut u say nd mean. Actions always speak louder than words no matter wut it is.
519582
Now what I say depends on what you think she feels.  If you feel as if she wants to be just friends I wouldn't recommend being too upfront with her right now, even if she knows you like her.  You really want to be with her romantically, right?  Is explaining to her that you like her going to make her swoon?  I don't think so.  Sure a girl  FRIEND would appreciate the honesty, because she can put a stop to it.  Do you actually want to give her an out?  A chance to turn you down before you have a chance to win her heart?\n\nTo make her your GIRLFRIEND, you've got to win her.  Spend time with her.  Ask lots of questions. Get to know her intimately.  You say you are best friends.  Great!  You have an advantage!  Really put on the charm.  I don't know you, but just in case... don't worry if you don't have the looks.  Personality and a good sense of humor is most important to a girl.  Oh and security.  She has to feel totally secure with you, which means don't be a creep.  Be a gentleman.  Make her feel like a girl/woman.  Seriously on that last one.  Know how to dance? Take her dancing.  Go to dance classes.  Trust me on that.  Dancing is such a great way to woo a girl.\n\nHey! What if she is interested?  Maybe she is!  Look on this website and find someone who's asked about the physiological clues about someone liking someone else.  But for starters, look at her eyes when she looks at you.  Do her pupils get smaller? She doesn't like you.  They get bigger?  She likes you!\n\nAs you get even closer hopefully she will start to draw towards you.  A girl who is interested should make it easy for you.  If you don't feel as if she's making it easy for you, and especially if she's making it hard, now is not the time.  Win her first.  Be patient.\n\nThen again, I do know for a fact that persistence counts.  I know a fantastic girl who was won over by her now boyfriend because he kept asking her out for like 6 months.  They are madly in love now.
450317
Ok i will be straightforward with you. You like her, but dont know if she likes you. Invite her to dinner, wine and dine her, and see if you can take it to the next level. Dont be afraid, try light touching, of the arm and shoulder. Kissing on the cheek and forehead also work. Then at the end of the night, if she kisses you (rent "Hitch" for the 90-10 rule) your in!\n\nShe has to see that your interested, then you will know where you stand. If she says she doesnt like you in that way, its a weight off of your chest. If she says she does then your in for a wild ride.
71562
Dude all I have to say is be patient. You just haven't find the right girl yet. When find her it'll be special. If you like a girl right now then ask her out I bet she really likes you.
566099
just call her. you wont get anywhere unless you call her and start seeing more often. Hang out , get to know each other. hint - a girl wouldnt give you her number unless she liked you and wanted to take things farther. Im a girl, I know. =) have fun bud
367410
Have you tryed explaining your feeling to her???....if yall have been hanging out that much she should be able to open up to you mabi there is a bigger issue that she is tryin to get past...try to confide in her and comfort and make sure she knows that you like her
257667
if you really think that she's sending you signals and you really like her, then i guess theres no harm in asking her out. a safer way may be to have one of her friends explain whats going on, because she may just be acting that way to show that she really does want to continue being friends and that she likes you, even if it isnt on a boyfriend-girlfriend level. so try and find out what shes really thinking. good luck! =]
636029
If there is a girl that you like right now and you want her to like you back then just become god friends, flirt, and then ask her out, or at least let her know how you feel about her. Trust me, we are looking for more guys who will actually ask the girl out before we have to do it are selves. If you don't have someone in mind, just wait, i know it's not what you want to hear but it's true. she will come along sooner then you think.
276569
I think she is testing you to see what you will do. Sometimes girls play hard to get and thats sometimes their way of doing it. Ask her again. Tell her you can't stop thinking about her and that you really like her and you would like to your friendship to a new level like dating.