I like this boy, but sometimes he talks to me and tells me to tell one of my friends, nadia, that she has a monobrow which wasn't excatly true. I having been trying to impress him fore over a year and I'm afraid he knows i'm trying to impress him and using me to hurt me friends. What can i do to make friends with him??? oh and i'm 12 and in 7th grade
214990
Sounds like he's a little immature. My advice, don't worry about it and make friends with someone else. He isn't the last boy you'll ever like, and if he's that young, chances are you're young too, and you will meed plenty of other boys in your day, Lord willing. And don't give your friend any more of his messages ;)
321524
you can't make a person like you.. but since you've known him since 3rd grade you prob know him really well.. so try to show him how you two have some of the same interests.. and do things for him that you know he likes..
154115
i almost have the same situation like you..\nmaybe you can talk to him on a place where there's no too much people.ask him what he feels about you,let him talk first.but if he doesn't tell what he really feels,he might be shy.but,look at his eyes while he is talking,you might get what he wants to tell you!!\n\nand, you are only 13, that isn't love already..it is only puppy love or a crush, do not take it seriously..when yo gedt older,you can meet other guys and might find another one,for now,just enjoy what is happening on both you! and do not expect anything from him!!don't always give meanings on what is happening on bot of you!!just enjoy!!^^,)
450462
You can make some people talk by pointing a bright light at them and claiming to have ways of making them talk (try a German accent when saying this as apparently that helps.)\n\nIf he liked you he would be all over you like a bad rash, or maybe he is just shy.\n\nIf you don't like him why are you speaking to him and why are you asking this question?\n\n7th grade, is that like karate? If so please don't hit me!
462353
He very well might - you should see if he can hang out outside of school one day... make it a group thing so there is less pressure -like get some friends together to watch a movie or whatever you like to do.... then you two can hang out and talk and get to know eachother more.  thats the best way to go about it!
527387
Tell him to talk with a councilor or teacher at school. Just be there and try to be a good friend without getting caught up in the drama. Your Friend will grow up to be a stronger person with all of this. Good luck to you both.
563892
Take an interest in those things he likes and what he talks about with his other friends and TALK TO HIM!\nBe the better friend.
401782
hmm. i used to have the same problem. don't let the boys see you as a boy (nt that u are) but show them you can be more than jus a friend and if theres one you like make more of an effort to get your feelings across.\n\nxx
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i would get to know him! become his friend look in his eyes when you talk and smile whenever he walks in the room! that gives him a huge hint!\n\ndont break them up because that is just wrong. but once you become his friend be around him alot call him be his buddy then when you know him well enough pull him to the side and tell him how you feel. im sure you will get a good responce\n\nLove ~*Chloe*~
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yes!  he likes you, you already know this so stop acting like a five year old and go talk to him tomorrow at church.  it is ridiculous to send your best friend to go talk to him... i remember doing stuff like that when i was around your age, but i look back on it now -- i am 27--- like it was very immature and ridiculous.  don't make excuses for yourself that you are a wimp or too shy, just stand up for your own, and go talk to the kid, i promise that he will want to hang with you, it is pretty obvious.
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look i dont know the nature of that boy and neither the age..cuz older they r..they bcom a bit more sensible...so..i dont know all that but i know ur situation.....u did a good job..telling him all that truth..cuz the better it is if it comes bfore from u then anyone else.....so u did 100% correct thing.........\nnow bout the thing that whether he'll talk to u or not.....just stop worrying bout that......go ahead and talk to him if he does not comes to u.....dont feel any guilt...cuz that wass right wat u did...jst initiate a talk about anything else and if u feel the things getting right at their original way then resume this matter...just try to take this matter in a calm way and u'll understand it in a better way then...\nbelieve me.....ive seen many such cases and i know ur condition..have faith in urself..u did the right thing.....just stay clam and do all ive said...best of all ur luck !!!!
144567
I think you should get to know the guy and not worry about your friends.  Your friends will learn to like him, and besides, think about this, ok:  The only reason your friends would act that way is if they are very insecure, and need everyone to fit a certain mold to be accepted.  People like that don't do well once school is over, because all molds are broken then.  It's good to get to know interesting people who aren't the way some think everyone should be.  I bet that weird guy is really going to do something awesome with his life when he grows up.  That's the way, I think life is!
440394
well i was once in a situation like this.. maybe call him and tell him your feelings( thats how i did) or ask him to talk to you after school about something without his friends.. \nthen if he likes you he likes you, if he doesnt he doesnt... \n\ndon't listen to that first guy or the one that said 'flirt flirt flirt' ,,... im still very close friends with the guy /best friend i went out with.  we went out like... 2 years ago.. and im still best friends with him, talk to him all the time, his friends and my friends sit at the same table for lunch... went trick or treating with him and his friends and mine..and i didn't flirt with him either..  so don't listen to 'dat wangsta soundin' guy ' (aka the first guy dat talkedid like diss) or the big flirt one   \n(sorry you two if i offended you)
76054
That's tough isn't it?? I know your pain, I was a teenager once too. I liked many boys who didn't like me and vice versa, then those that came to happy terms with me ended up moving away. :(\n\nWell, look at this way......you like him...he doesn't like you, who's loss is it? it's really not yours because YOU LIKE THE GUY. \nIt's unfortunate because you cannot get someone to like you, you cannot make them like you. \n\nNow that I am thinking, I have met a few boys that didn't like me until I started talking to them and being friendly to them, then they saw the best side of me and they respected it. \n\nHave you tried talking to him and being nice? Maybe you should try talking to him. If you already have and he doesn't respond, then you are just wasting your time and your energy and it's not worth it. You are still young and you have plenty of time . Get out there and have a good time and don't waste your time and energy on one person especially if they are not willing to give you theirs.
72704
boys are hard to interpret.  i had guys pick on me from kindergarten to highschool--i thought they hated me, turns out they thought i was hot!! your best bet--ask him to a movie, library study date, or something.  or if you're shy you can just smile, relax, be yourself and see what happens.
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Find a way to communicate with him outside of school.  Try sending him an email, or if you've got his telephone # call him. He probably just don't need the kids teasing him about you and prefer to not deal with it, but that does not mean that he does not like you, he may or may not, but there is only one way to find out, so try to speak with him on different grounds and you'd know exactly how he feels.
169659
Aye, honey I'm having the same issues as you (but in this case, I don't think he likes me.) Usually (from what my girl friends have told me), guys are very upfront with their feelings and they're obvious about it. He may pay more attention to you, be touchier with you, laugh more around you and look happy/act happy when you're around. Surprisingly, this boy might even tease you to an extreme point if he has feelings for you (it happened to me once) which is very 5th grade, but it still happens. You could, however, just go up and ask him if you want a direct answer :) because no matter what people tell you, there's usually no way to know unless he tells someone or you ask him yourself.