i really like this girl and wrote her a love letter she never re[plied and i wanted to know if i should get her something for her birthday for her and if so what?
201850
well if she didn't reply to your letter i would say no don't get her a gift just maybe a card.her not replying to your letter mean she probably isn't interested in you that way and doesn't want to hurt your feelings and if you get her something she may feel uncomfortable getting something from you cuz she knows your feelings and she knows hers and she might feel guilty she doesn't like you that way. i could be wrong to just thought i'd give you some advice.
133436
All the answers so far are very nice, make sure you let her know she is your pride and joy.  Most women want to hear it, along with you showing her.  The one thing I would want for my birthday from my husband, is his undivided attention.  Also, he has written me beautiful love letters, some very open where you see his soul, telling me why he loves me, some very sexy.  \n\nThe one thing not to do, would be giving her something very sentimental if you are not sure you will be together forever.  She will put more meaning on it than you do, and she will have to either look at it after your thru, or get rid of it- either way it ends up being painful.\n\nLast of all, the massage idea is great, especially if you are the one giving it!  Your affection and physical touch, will mean so much.  Make sure it lasts for at least a half hour, putting real effort and thought into it.  Look up how to give a massage, so it shows in the act of giving it.  \n\nBless you, and with the thought you are already putting into it, you will be sure to have a lasting impression.
84796
i like handwriiten notes cuz it shows he was thinking of me and HE wrote it! but if u want it to b humorous remind her of a funny memory, but make sure it's a funny memory to HER too, cuz if it's not then it won't go so well. but a note is always fun to receive =) good luck!\n\nand i don't think notes are JH, there somethin nice to show he was thinkin of her..
537003
Take her out for a nice dinner and maybe even a movie so she will not be alone on her birthday.  Since she is only a friend, I would try and give her something on a small scale.  Maybe a framed photo of the two of you, a nice journal or a DVD that has special meaning to the two of you (something that you went together to see).  I think the key is to get her out and have fun together!
498252
It depends on who you are. If you are an adult then don't bother trying to get her specific music because whatever you get will be wrong, unless you know of specific bands that she's into. If you do and she is close and you want to spend some time on the gift, then go on ebay and find an autographed poster or t-shirt or someting, or get concert tickets. If not, then something like an iPod would be great, unless she already has one. If not, you can get gift cards for the iTunes store, or something similar if that's not the program she uses.
245327
Well, call me crazy but you should probably just tell her, and give her some flowers or something special only to her, something that relates to something she has told you or something you have dont together, something that shows you have thought about her. You might want to spend less time on here too ;-)
82538
Wait until your 1 month anniversary.  If you give it to her now it seems a bit desperate.  Also, if your giving her gold after 1 week what are you gonna give her after 6 months, a year?  You'll always have to try to top yourself.  A girl doesn't need presents all the time.  Wait for a special occasion.
267709
You should send something. Even if it's just a nice card and a gift card. NO EMAILS though! Good luck to you.
220455
It couldn't be better. I would love to get a clever little love note. Be sure it is well written and expresses your love. You might want to rhyme but whatever works. I think it is VERY romantic and not one bit wussy!\n\nYou know maybe you shouldn't tell her it is you. Say your secret admirer or anon. then ask her out!
525201
Ask her when she gets off, and could you take her to get coffee afterwards.  Make it light and don't pressure her.  A letter will be waay too creepy.  No matter what you put in the letter, the fact that you took the time to write something will tell her that your feelings for her are a bit premature at best, or obsessive at worst.
318314
yeah, show her what you've posted!! Or rephrase it in a letter. Maybe a poem if you're creative? You could arrange to have a bouquet sent to her, or think of other things you could do. An easy one is to send her an e-card. Aw, nice to hear that there are some men out there who are all loved up and adore their women!
42540
Ok, considering that this is a new relationship and you two are taking time to be together and know each other, if I were the one recieving, I would want something like a card that says something thoughtful and maybe a book, or something useful.  Valentines day doesn't have to be all about flowers and candy and getting all gushy kinds of expensive presents.  If you know what she likes to read, or get her a cookbook if she likes to cook or bake, or even a gift certificate to her favorite store would be good ideas.  Have fun and good luck.
159471
I think just the fact that you asked this girlfriend shows that you WILL make your girlfriend as happy as possible - just by being the type of guy who cares about someone Else's happiness.  You'll do fine, keep it up.  And if I had any real tips for you it would be to keep an eye out for little things that she enjoys, whether it be specific types of candy, stationary with her favorite animal, etc., and bring her little things from time to time.  Nothing expensive of course, you are thirteen.
485666
I guess you could take her with you and lete her choice her gift.\nAlso a box of chocolats and a Happy Birthday card.\n\n=0)\nGood luck
43952
hey dude... give her a rose as of now 'coz ur sayin u dont luv her yet .even a greeting card will do. good luck!
198877
If you're a teacher - \nMy cooperating teacher gave me things I could use in my classroom such as an apple shaped timer, reward stickers, a please sign and return stamp, etc. You could get her things like that. I know I really appreciated it.\n\nIf you're a student- \n\nShe'll love if you make her a card and write something sweet in it, what you liked best that she did, etc.
60591
*Smiling lupinely* You are ALWAYS good enough to give a homemade present, including cards. The kind of person who would not appreciate the fact you took the time and effort to make something just for them is simply too shallow to be worth your bother in the 1st place.\n\nAs to what should be on the card, try to come up with a common interest the two of you share and use that as the theme.\n\nBarring that as most guys are not too into heavy sentiment, a simple "thank you for being you" and how happy they make you will suffice...