If you've known someone for about a year, and then decide to date them after that almost a year mark..... was it too soon to be intimate with them three weeks into the relationship?
218404
This cannot be stated in a fixed period. You need to assess the level of understanding & closeness in the relation. Some people get closer and reach good understanding soon . In that case you can have sex soon . If you are still didn't reach good understanding better wait .
303266
my husband and I waited about three weeks. I knew I really liked him, and I didn't want to be too easy, so I held out. I wanted to right away.\nwe have been married 4 years now.
372369
i would say no. cause i was with someone before he went home from college and maybe two months after he was down there and calls me up and tells me that he found someone new. after all the things that i had done and all the time we spent together it seemed like it was for nothing.
127499
Well just tell him, explain it the way you did here. Since you two are already intimate, no guarantee that he will wait around the three months. In the future wait longer before you become intimate with someone, instead of changing your mind after wards, and cutting them off. That is going to send some pretty mixed signals. Hope it works out for you, if he does stick around he's a keeper ;)
591693
I met my boyfriend through a friend. Our friend wanted me to go play cards and stuff with him and maybe a little more. Then like I went home and the next day he called me and said you remember the guy that had to leave early? And I responded yeah...why and he told me that he wanted me to go to the movie with him the next Friday. I agreed and we hit it off decent. Went out the next day (Saturday) again and it just kind of happened. I wasn't really looking for anyone at the time but just hoping to get with the guy that hooked us up. It all turned out well though a little of 6 months later we are still happier than ever!
393057
its normal,i would think its best to date some one who is at least 7years older than you if your thinking about a serious relationship,you wouldn't expect the sort of control and authority from some one your age which you would find from some one older.therefore your its absolutely normal and your on the right track
65454
It really depends on the situation at hand and the couple as to whether or not it is too fast. I knew a couple who married after only about 6 months and neither was financially stable which caused problems in the marriage etc. and it ended in divorce because they were both pretty unhappy with the situation. Another couple I know dated for 3 months and then married and they've been married for almost 30 years. They were financially secure. I think being financially secure is a main thing to look at. you dont want to put any extra stress on the relationship because right after you are married is supposed to be one of the best times of your life and the most enjoyable. \n\nOn another note, dating long term doesnt hurt anything either. I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now.
370966
Let's be reasonable here. You dated for 60 days. Can you really expect loyalty from someone who hardly knows you? If you fee like seeing her again when you get home, call her and start fresh. But don't expect devoted loyalty from a person you only spent 60 days with. Just don't expect it.
555906
You just got out of a 4 year relationship and you are ready to jump into a new one after two weeks? You contradict yourself you said you told him you knew he was dating others ..he denies it but tells you that he needs to compare if it was worth it to leave one for the other? Anyway it's ok that he is dating others considering you aren't in a committed relationship, you are just dating. Guess what you can date others too! Don't make someone your priority when you are only their option. I, quite frankly, think it's a lil soon to be jumping into a new relationship so quick but that's your decision to make. Keep dating the guy but don't make yourself completely available to him, create a challenge. Also date other people and let him know about it. After all the two of you aren't exclusive, unless he makes it that way. Just take it slow and do what a psychologist does best, analyze.
445544
I think that you can safely "tease" him for at least a month while you date...you're going to find out more about him, and he will find out more about you.  That will make that eventual sexual encounter so much more meaningful and satisfying!
78546
no one should put a time limit or expect anything in any certain amount of time. it will happen when you are both comfortable with one another. dont try to rush it, four weeks is not a long time. if you want to charish that moment then wait. building momentum and imagination is so sexy. i think it means more to wait and build on something more than sex. wait cause you already know it will be worth it.
45126
Unfortunately, you can never know for sure if a relationship will last. You don't even seem to be sure that YOU want to be with him for the rest of your life. If you were, you wouldn't be asking this question. But in reality, it takes a lot longer than three months to get to know someone, so I say just try to get to know him a little better and ask yourself if he's someone you want to devote your life to. With your commitment, it can become reality.
281464
Personally? I'd go on the date, but no-no to staying over. Sensible may be boring - but is best for long term! If he wants more than a hook-up, he'll wait a little while!
553369
A little over a month...That's pretty fast to be talking about marriage. How do YOU feel about this guy?
16711
If he says he broke up with her, that's all you have to go by.  If you like being with him, then continue on and don't worry about it.  I'm concerned that you have already slept with him, since you haven't even known him for 2 weeks ... but that's your choice, I guess.  I would definitely wait much longer before choosing to get so intimate with some one you don't really know.
100605
No, if you have only dated for 1 month, you havent begun to really know each other.Take your time to see if you have the same interest and to let your feelings for each other develope or not develope.The relationship is still new. wait awhile and see if you still feel the same.
77673
you can, or you can wait and get to know each other better. especially if you dont want to end up dating someone who actually likes someone else. you've got plenty of time before you need to start worrying about this stuff...i know most people are dating by this time, but i waited till i felt i was more mature and the relationship would actually mean something, and i'm very happy that i did.