Isn't this strange? Were we created different? why they don't like it while men LOVE it?\n\nNOTE: I mean in general, so most women. Same apply to men most like it.\n\nI know they like shopping more than men, so don't give example by compare them.. Try to give intellegent answer \n(doesn't have to be long to be intellegent).. It's a psychological question.. Think & Answer\n\nOne of you will get 10 points after 24 hours
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OK, most of our feelings, emotions, whether you like it or not, are our primal instincts back from when we were monkeys coming back into play. So lets relate football to hunting. Women were born to be the gatherers and child bearers, and naturally they wouldnt enjoy hunting. Men however were born to hunt and enjoy adrenaline pumping activities such as football, to aid them in the hunt.\nAnd most of these instincts still remain in the subconcious.\n\nOh and the reason women like shopping do much is their gathering instinct coming into play.
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beacuse men flat out dnt give a damn boo. I honestly think that there thought process is slower than women by the time they stop and think about there actions if they think at all it's 2 late. Not that women are any better but that's part of tha reason i had to leave men alone. There 2 damn dumb for there own good. and the better the looks the worse they are LOL
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Balanced, well rounded men exist just as much as well rounded women exist.  Everyone has a range of interests, and personality traits, but there are also social pressures that try to fit us into boxes.  For men, the machoism is more of a pressure than it is for us women to be feminine.  But there are tons of guys that don't fit into the typical "masculine" frame, aren't homosexual, and certainly get a lot of play.  (Like EMO Bands?  Come on!)\nAnd of course there is the "metrosexual" label.\nTo me a well balanced guy can be who he is without caving in too much to social pressures that he should be otherwise.  My current guy likes classical music, but likes listening to it while riding his Suzuki GSXR (motorcycle).  Loves clothes and knows how to dress better than me (suits specifically, and he even knows how to wear pink!--I don't even wear pink!), but doesn't know a skincare product if it hit him in the face.  Cries during a movie, even though it's a Samurai movie.  Doesn't like mainstream sports, but can catch and throw a baseball.  He can be sensitive and caring when it comes to me.  And he isn't ashamed about any of it.  So yeah, it's possible.
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O.k. some of the guys possibly reading this are not likely to like my answer, but, here goes.\nI believe that women are most definitely "equal to" men in every single way, (except when it comes to physical strength, and that's a general statement)- and superior to (or more "evolved", if you prefer), in other ways. (That is the part men aren't going to like to hear!)\nAnthropological studies have thus far traced the existence of "man" back to a an AFRICAN WOMAN. Women were also the first to learn to "communicate" with one another (referring to humans in general). Women have highly developed social skills right down to this day, and, in my opinion, have developed many skills critical to survival that men just haven't developed much of at all. (They haven't had to. Women have been taking care of them since human beings first appeared on earth!)\nWe, as women, bring forth new life onto this planet- (sure, with the sperm donation of men)- but it's the women who generally care for and raise and teach and nurture these new lives. We don't get half the credit we deserve for our abilities and our intellect, but that is where a big fault with women does apply- because we are generally not motivated by our egos, we have allowed ourselves to take this "back seat" in society, figuring we could profit in other ways- or keep the peace (which is also very important to us). However, now we live in a "man's world", and don't seem to have woke up to the fact that it is just as much our own doing- our own "fault"- as it is men's. It's time for change. It's time for women to band together and be heard. We are not a "minority" in number, and in this country (because we live in a democratic society)- we have the opportunity TO BE HEARD and our "votes to count"- but not enough women seem to care. That needs to change. We will continue to hold this place in society until we (as a whole) accept nothing less than what we deserve, and that is respect- but it begins first with ourselves. \n\nWe need to learn to respect ourselves. If we do not, how can we expect anyone else to do so, and who else then do we have to blame?
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It might start off that way, but feelings change and eventually one person will want more out of the relationship than the other.  From my experience, it's usually the women who think "maybe it'll be different with me".  Women tend to be more emotional and invest a lot more in these types of relationships than men do.  Men are much more able to stay "disconnected" until they're ready for a relationship.
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Wow.  Some of the comments.  Women are more passionate than men at everything???  No broad generalization there...  (chuckling)\n\nI think the answer has to do with subjection.  Even in today's modern American society, and especially in Christian society, women hold a role of "being in subjection" to husbands.  Many grow up and are taught this way.  It probably comes natural for some as well.  \n\nSo, then, many women are already used to the concept of being in subjection to something.  Men, for the most part, are not.  We're fiercely independent, aren't we?  And when it comes to Christianity...to calling Christ Lord and being in subjection to His will...that presents a larger problem for men.\n\nThat, I think, is why we see more females at Church.  Not because they're more spiritual, not because they're more passionate, but because they are blessed in having an easier time at being able to humble themselves to a higher authority.  For this, kudos to women.  \n\nSomebody once wrote that Hell's motto will be "I am mine."  Perhaps this applies.  The Bible tells wives to be subject to their husbands...but it also tells husbands to love their wives to the point of giving up their lives for them, as Christ did for the Church.  The unique thing is, when you love something that much...*you are in subjection to it*.
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Personally I think it's a two way street. Both men and women stereotype the opposite sex. I think most of the women/girls that you see posting these questions are using the site to vent since they know there is going to be at least one women/girl out there who agrees that their husband/boyfriend is a jerk. In doing this they are only emphasizing the stereotype given to them by men that women are whiny, nagging, money grabbing, bitches, that hate sex. \n\nI don't really think there are any rules as you suggest but that there are common courtesies expected of both genders. Men and women both have expectations of how they feel they should be treated or respected and it is up to individuals to know what if any that there partner expects from them. \n\nAs far as rules all women have it again depends on the maturity level of the women. Most are common courtesy although the more immature women tend to have expectations that are not reasonable but this comes from not having the experience in dealing with relationships yet.
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It's more acceptable for women cause it's more aestetically pleasing on them, but it's still a good question.  I for one think there are a lotta women out there who have forgotten what being feminine is all about.  They try to BE men to get ahead.  But what they don't understand is that they have different strengths as women, and should draw off of that.
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Men are not so much stupid as they are simple. They don't really think about what they're doing, why they're doing it and what's going to come of it. They don't think things through. I mean when they(and if they ever) are putting clothes in the washing machine they are thinking about "how fast can i get this done and what am i going to do after this?" whereas women are thinking "ok, this goes with that and i can wash that with the next load right after i iron the last load." Women are complex. We think of what were doing now and what is going to happen because we are doing these things. We think through everything. It's not that men are from mars and women are from venus as one writer said it, it's just that women are complex while men are simple.
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I am honestly not believing some of these answers. lmao. Yes men are men and no not every does it. and don't believe for a minute that its because he finds you lacking and them not. what the heck ppl!! my honest belief. I think you have people that just simply enjoy people. I watch people all day long, men and women. It dont make me a bad person, nor a lesbian. I think women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes. I like how a woman can carry herself, and how she may or may not use her hands to talk. The way she tries to act like she dont realize she is being looked at. A smile. on either a woman or mans face, is a wonderous thing. Just so on how their lips lift slighty at the edges. Its either an amused smile, or a happy smile. Come on.. It does not have to be a bad thing. If you can't beat um join um. I point out women for my husband to look at. To show him, I too can recongnize a looker, but it also lets him know. I am aware of what and who he is looking at, without causing offense. Good luck hon:)
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WOmen just do not understand one thing about men:\nWe are simple animals.\n\nWomen try to make everything too deep.\n\nUs Men like:\n1. Sex\n2. Food\n3. Sports (usually)\n4. Quiet bathroom time\n\nIf you make sure we have those things, all will be well.\nStop trying to make us more complicated than we are.
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men and women have different tastes. thats how nature works\n\nalso you women might enjoy, but we men are clumsy with dancing and after it becomes unconfortable. then we get upset. you dont want us to throw things around do you, for a dancing clasS?\n\nthe only reason a man would go to dancing class it to find a mate or because he is gayish. i have found there are a lot of cute girls in salsa classes so thats why i go there.\n\nyou say: "men should know that women find dancing romantic". well, sorry to say, be in general, men think more about themselves than others. women have a tendency to think about others and would would please them. men do not have this pattern of thinking. men would socialize if he can get more power and status, if he can find immediate pleasure, or if he really is forced to.\n\nif you really enjoy dancing classes, salsa for example, dance with latinos guys, it is the best solution.
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i think women shop less online, because when they have a chance to shop they like going to the malls and stuff to display their clothes and get guys attention and all that fun stuff.
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Men and women are both "programmed", in a sense, by popular culture, peer, pressure, and the media. This starts at a very early age, and by the time we are ready to start getting involved with others, we are already looking for certain things and acting certain ways.\n\nWomen come to believe that they have to look and act a certain way, and sacrifice their individuality to achieve that.\n\nMen are all about bragging rights, and one-upping each other, to the point where early romantic life is not about finding the best mate, but coming home with the best trophy.\n\nThere is good news:\n1) There are lots of guys that are all about individuality, and these are the ones who don't care what others think. They are always looking beyond the looks to see the person inside. (Unfortunately, by shrugging off whatever is currently the cool trends, these guys are by definition not the popular guys.)\n\n2) As guys get older, they finally realize this game, and start looking at women differently. (Unfortunately again, the age this happens on average is in their 30's)\n\nAs a rule of thumb, stick to finding guys who are doing the things you already do. If you are not a "popular culture" kind of girl, then you are looking for someone who is not a "popular culture" kind of guys.
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Ms. Fruitbat does know what you're talking about. There are definitely differences in how males and females communicate, and we women also often think men are nuts because we don't understand their style either. They often seem to me  like there's a whole bunch of nonverbal things going on in the room that show who likes and doesn't like who and all kinds of subtle complex stuff  going on at the same time and it's all going straight over their heads, like if every obvious little thing isn't pointed out to them they just don't have a clue.  \n\nI've heard it all goes back to when men were hunters and communication had to be minimal, direct and simple, (and I assume each males rank had a lot to do with who got to be listened to the most), while females gathered, spread out over a large area without much need for rank, and watching kids too, so they kept up a constant chatter, and as long as they heard everybody carrying on with low key chatter, they could keep track of where everybody was and know that everybody was safe, and what was actually being said wasn't the most important part. Women do say an average of 3 times more words per day than men do.\n\nSo for example even though it seems crystal clear to you, whatever women you're talking about may not realize men mean that harm will come if they don't shut up; they may think that as long as they keep talking, they're keeping negotiations going on that will prevent the next level of force. Also in women-speak, it's considered somewhat rude to bluntly state an opposing opinion, so the way women  participate is to make a neutral comment, or one where their point seems clear to them but is done so subtly that the guys don't even know they're trying to make a point. It is all very interesting, from a distance that is. But close up it's maddening. Ms. Fruitbat wishes you luck.
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LOL  Boy do I know this one...Trying to figure it out.... I think, we tend to exude a confidence that most straight women do not...That is what they observe and is what they gravitate to.... satistics show most of us fancy the same sex at some degree..I think these women who have the curiousity bug unfortuanetly see us as play toys with no regards to our emotions.. This is where we need to take care...     So girls, Becareful!
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Well, it is easy: If you look at the statistics, most women at the age of, say 25 have had more different sexpartners of the opposite sex then most men of the same age... so they have more experience and - if You look at it from a male perspective in a way most males think - are BETTER then the males when it comes to sex... so men have to find a way to "win the competition" after all and got used to bragging about their experiences... and making the women feel bad about theirs...