I am dating this guy that I really like.  He is great except that I think he wants me to play a little harder to get.  Maybe he is in the "game" aspect of dating , I am not.  So should I play hard to get or not.  Oh I am a very attractive person so it is not like I am setteling with him.  I get asked out all the time but most men want one thing, he seems to be different and we have not even went "there" yet.
204233
No it doesn't work.  Unless he is chasing you, don't play hard to get.  Nothing in the world is more flattering to me than when a girl dresses sexy, attracts the other men around her, and then only pays attention to me.
103271
You missed your chance with him and now you are out of luck.  He has moved on and made his choice so let him go and find a single guy to chase after.  If he is doing it to just make you jealous then don't play his games because you deserve to be treated better.
303483
Thats not a bad thing. You have the right to make an informed decision on who you want to date. BUT, be honest with the guys. And try not to make them feel like  they're being played.
389845
Some guys want to tap the town ho but they don't want to be seen with someone every other guy may have had, too. Not saying this is what you are, but it's the mentality of some guys if something comes easy. It seems like he is already on his next conquest. He may contact you for a booty call down the road, but you need to decide if that's all you want from him. Move on dear, you are calling the shots with guys, remember. You have what they want.
157042
well i personaly would not date a big flirt because if u end up getting serious with him he is going to continue to be a flirt, even if its harmless to him, this might lead him to infedelity. i've dated a few guys that were flirts and believ me they all ended up messing around.
527032
Yes! He wants you. But not in a obssesed way like he wants you to be his girlfriend. If you like him too then you try to take a stand and ask him out.
484591
Do you want to be his girlfriend or not?  \n\nIf you don't then just ell him that "I think you are into me way more than I am into you and I think we should cool it for a while" There is no sense in leading him on.
86121
I agree, stop the sexual part of the relationship and see if he still comes around. If he is willing to still date knowing he isn't getting any, then he is interested. If not, then yeah you were a booty call, which then you should kick him to the curb and find someone you deserve. Good Luck!
46992
Guys are born to be straight forward and biologically we should let girls know directly when we want to be with them... although we like challenges too, our attraction is more physically driven... girls like the feeling of reaching to tame a rouge man and therefore the fact that this guy is indiferent increases your attraction even more.  Somehow the balence of power in your relationship has tipped in his favor... the more you confess your feelings for him the more he has you in the palm of his hand... give him space.  I figure he is playing games and dont encourage these but find them necessary to create attraction.
21537
Stop calling him and he might start calling you, otherwise most guys like to play hard to get...N
498826
So, you think it's shallow if he likes you now, but you want to play games like "hard to get"?  That is stupid.  If he likes you better now, it might be because you lost weight, or, more likely, because you have more confidence now.  Or, he might feel exactly the same about you--can you handle that?
252489
The natural way of nature is for the the male to court the female.  He has to impress her in order for her to choose him.  If a woman asks a man out it is turning it the other way around and this can confuse a mans instincts.  A man seeks a female that is hard to acquire (or that he thinks is hard to acquire) so it is much more natural for him to do the asking and the woman to play hard to get.  Playing hard to get is what makes a man think you are a greater prize and all men want the best prize.x
75053
some guys like girls to play hard to get. try flirting, before telling them exactly how you feel.
487402
ASK! (that is how I got my man) We flirted everyday and then I just asked if he wanted to go have a drink some time and he took me to lunch the next day.  We laugh about it now (3yrs later) about how I was more of a man than him by asking him out. Go for it girl, worse come to worse he will say no.  You can not live your life hiding go for it. A man likes a women who is not afraid to take risks.
11376
So what if he has money?  Aren't you being prejustice by thinking he is a "certain type of person" just because he has more money than you?  He obviously doesn't have a problem with it if he is clearly interested in getting with you.  Go on a date and find out what he is all about, besides cash.
312562
Be fun to be with and the guy you date will want to try to win you...sort of like playing hard to get but being someone he would want to get.  And give him a chance...go out with him for a few months to see if something develops within you for him.
236582
not really, i think all men like the chase but want to know that they have a chance at catching you. he needs to know your interested but if he has to chase to hard he will just say F it. the game can get to be a pain in the a$$ so make the game fun