How do you know that your female partner had orgasm and not faking?
203327
Well, thankfully I dont have to fake. But as for myself, I actually will have a small amount of "fluid"  much like a man....no denying what it is! Sadly if a woman fakes how will her man ever know what to do to truly please her? Open and honest is best.
271407
Try new things... \n\nBut one thing that I have learned over the years is that if you play with yourself you will know what turns you on... That way you can give him little hints on what to do to get you off. \n\nAnother tip is that when you do reach an orgasm think to yourself what is going on??? are you breathing less or more? Are you taking long slow breaths or quick and fast? are you playing with your clitorus??? (some women that is the only way they can orgasm.) If the last is the case you can train yourself to orgasm without as much clitoral stimulation.... When your having sex with your man. get into the doggy style possition and let him play with your clitorus... After a while your body will associate the other stimulation with orgasm also.
85632
part of the reason for a woman to have an orgasm has to do with her own ability to turn herself on...in addition when the woman is being touched by the guy and she feels how much this guy desires her...that also makes her feel very femenine thus contributing to her potential to have multiple orgasms (5 to 8) in a lapse 1 hour.I mean there are many things in play here. to desire and to be desired, to love and to feel loved,romance(not for everyone),foreplay, fellatio,cunnilingus, touching, teasing each other...etc,etc.(if a woman is not in touch with her femenine animalistic drives that makes it a bit difficult for her) but there are also guys who really dont know how to please women so you get what we have here with you. Reciprocal attraction, sexual communication are very important to a healthy sexual and orgasmic relationship. then there is also that idea that to some women matters. meaning that some women girls...you know what I'm talking about (Size)...so I don't know how the shoe fits on you...good lick...i mean luck...I hope that you areable to get many orgasms.practice with yourself.
123308
Well, let me tell U that I was in your shoes for many time, I had sex and it always felt good, I had orgasms but not during sex, I was so desperate, and frustrated, but one time I had sex with my bf and nothing happened that time, still he didn't give up, and continue doing things to make me get the orgasm.  After three months of having sex with him, and we had tryed almost everything, he told me that I needed to focus on the point, I mean, when I was doing it, I always was thinking in something else, and that didn't make me feel good.\nI found that the way to get the orgasm was being on top, so I did it, in the beginning it was really difficult, but at the end it happened.\nSo, my advice is: focus on the point that U're gonna get it, think that U can get it, no matter your past experiences, if U trust on yourself U'll be able to experience it.\nI'm telling U this, because now I can enjoy it, I have an orgasm during sex and in other situations, like o.r.a.l. sex, been m*stur*b*ated by my bf or myself. and it feels really great.
636678
actually ,most women cannot acheive orgasm by intercourse alone! this is totally normal. Try using a vibrator before and during sex to stimulate your clitoris during intercourse. The nerves from that clitoris actually run through and this is where the mysterious G-spot comes from. It is just an extension of these nerves. most women's nerves terminate too soon for her to have a intravaginal orgasm. So stimulate those puppies externally! Hope this works for you!
123411
so you are looking for balance ....\n\nplay games that require both to participate. \n\nAlso, when you get her almost to the point of orgasm, stop and let it calm down, then do it again, stop and let it calm, finally the third time let it go all the way.\n\nI have also been told that spontanious is a HUGE turn on.\n\nTry anything that sounds good, but remember they won't have fun if you aren't having fun too.
166203
All women are different.  Some women orgasm in a few minutes and there are some who have never had an orgasm.  About the guy finishing first ... that depends on what you do.  some guys like to get the girl off before they finish off.  Others get the guy off first and then work on the girl.  But do whatever you and your partner feel comfortable with, relax, and have a good time!
172269
WHY ,,,would you even think... of faking an orgasm!
113456
My dear Marky, you really can't know (unless she is just terrible at faking it) Just because a woman does not orgasm, DOES NOT mean the she didn't have fun with her partner. The number one reason women will fake an orgasm is because they don't want their partner to feel insecure or that he didn't perform well enough to bring her to orgasm. Don't worry so much!
309062
For some it depends on the intensity of the build up before orgasm.  Some woman can orgasm dry - and some gush and some are somewhere in between.  And sometimes the amount of secretion has nothing to do with arousal, but more of chemistry and body make-up.
247835
Sounds normal. Women aren't wet anymore after they orgasm, just like men aren't hard anymore after they orgasm.
87236
Ok dude, I have one word for you “communication”. If you’re a minute man that’s cool but you need to make sure that she gets off as well. You sound like you’re kind of young and if she’s not throwing a fit because she didn’t orgasm she may never have had one. My advice would be to experiment with touch. Try using your hand down south instead of Mr. winky. But most of all just sit down and talk to her about it. See what she says and how she fells about it. If you’re uncomfortable with talking to her then you shouldn’t be having sex with her.
92629
There body will contract. Literally contract. Forget about noises - they can be fake. But honestly, when a female orgasms, her entired body will contract.
561820
Maybe she was trying to make sure you felt like you did an amazing job... at first, sex with someone new can be awkward, and gets better later on. Maybe she exagerrating, but I wouldn't assume she faked every single time.  Maybe she was nervous that you wouldn't like her if you felt you didn't please her.
13859
Right. Most females have orgasms that do not involve shooting or spraying any liquid, but some do.  Both situations are normal.  The liquid being ejaculated is chemically similar to proatate fluid in a man.
65272
You should be able to tell a real orgasm from a fake one, but in case you really don't know, look at her chest, under her neck but above her breasts.  A real orgasm makes the blood flow in a rush, and right after,  the chest area will turn red for about a minute.  No redness on her chest, not a real orgasm.  And stop worrying about the ding ding size, you have enough to get the job done.  If you get her worked up enough, (lots of foreplay) she'll come before you even get it all in, or very soon thereafter.
320521
as long as you take time and please your woman and show your caring side 1st them she probably wont notice how long it took you to cum - just tell her that she turned you on sooooo much you were bursting she will take this as a compliment