what is the best way to approach a girls that is a complet stranger to you and dont make her feel unconfortable? ladys out there you know what i mean right? i work where there r so many women but is hard to approach them help me out accepting tips. thnx
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smile and just say hello at first. If the one you want to talk to works with you, find something about work you can ask her opinion about or that you might need help with.
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why don't you ask her next time you speak to her or next time she looks at you wave to her, that usually says a silent "hello". if she likes being around you, there's a good chance she doesn't have a b/f, so what's stopping you?after all there's no harm in asking, is there? before someone else does and you could regret it later.
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Give up on the girl who doesn't notice you.  If she hasn't noticed how cool you are by now, then she is not worthy.  There are lots, and I mean LOTS of women around that are hot, down to earth, smart and funny (like me!).  Besides, it sounds like you don't really know her, so what if she is a totat brat or really prude or has no sense of humor or is stuck up or whatever.  You may have seen her from afar, but do you REALLY know who this girl is?  Do you really want to take a GIANT leap and give up what you have for something that may not be as good as what you have now?  The grass isn't always greener on the other side, pal.\n\nAs far as the long distance thing goes, I would give a try for a while and if something does not happen soon with getting closer together, then ditch the situation.  Like I said, there are lots of women out there.
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Are you really as cute and sexy as you say?  Just kidding.  But seriously it's hard to move around and try to make new friends.  Just try smiling and saying hi to people at first and if they seem receptive then start up a convo or ask them out for pizza or something.   Grab that bull by the balls and go for it! (figuratively speaking of course)
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WARNING. THIS THREAD IS FULL OF AWFUL ADVICE.\n\nMan to man, let me give you a very important piece of advice. Do NOT ask women about how to deal with women. Women do not want what they say they want. They may think they hate anticipation, but they secretly thrive on it. Anticipation and unpredictability are good. (Although, I think the line about "I wanna ask you out, but right now am not in the mood" is awful - please don't use that.)\n\nThey're probably going to give me thumbs down for this, but I'm telling you from experience, it's the truth. Again, the two points to take from this:\n\n1. Anticipation and unpredictability are good\n2. Don't trust what women SAY, trust how they RESPOND\n\nSorry ladies, I love you, but the guys who actually follow your advice end up being the guys who are too wussy to get a girl.\n\n[See, there go the thumbs down already! Don't believe em, bro! I'm looking out for you.]
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Women are pretty much the same the world over. Talk to her...tell her you've been noticing her and find her attractive.  Ask her if she'd like to go out for dinner one evening (or to a museum, or someplace where you two can talk and get to know each other).  I would suggest NOT going to a movie or a concert only because you won't really get a chance to talk.  If her culture is one of arranged marriages or dating within her particular religion, etc, she will tell you and there's no reason to feel disappointed.  Nothing ventured, nothing gained. (My man pretty much approached in this manner last year.  It worked!  I just gotten engaged!)
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Oh.. u sound sweet. Listen, if some guy is to shy to approach a girl, then i think that the guydoesn't like here that much
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it sounds like you asked in the most decent way that you could. If she turns you down, there will be other women who are willing to go out with you. im sure you're a nice guy, u didn't come at her in a rude manner. Good luck though.
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try and do things that will get you near her, join a club, hang out with the same people, join a sport. you must find a reason to talk to her. being a lady i know that women cannot read minds. often i will find out a guy has liked me AFTER the fact and after its too late (like when i'm with someone or no longer live near them). many of the times I also have liked these men. ask a mutual friend about what she likes so that you will have something to talk about. just say something to her!!
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dont think in terms of pick up lines women see right through this kind of thing. dont try a clever line, just say whatevers relevant to the social situation, and asking a question is better to get conversation going eg are you enjoying yourself? most important is to go up to her, smile and make eye contact. if she likes you, she'll help you along even if you dont have a clue as to what youre saying
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don't be condescending or know-it-all.  i've heard from women that the best way for a guy to approach them at the gym is to ask the woman for advice on doing an exercise.  lots of them hate it when a guy comes up and starts correcting their form or whatever.  \n\nalso keep in mind that some gyms are pick-up spots, and some gyms are just places people go to exercise.  if you try to pick someone up at the latter you are likely to simply annoy or get shot down.  also, try to size her up before you talk to her.  is she chatty or does she wear headphones and not talk to anyone?  if she isn't much of a talker she probably isn't looking for a boyfriend at the gym and may simply rule you out automatically.\n\nyour best bet is probably to just say hi when you see her next and, if she is at the gym often, say you've seen her around a lot and compliment her dedication.  smile, be nice and thoughtful, and if she gives signs that she's not interested, back off and leave it at that.  this is how you avoid being creepy gym guy.\n\ngood luck!
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The first step, smile. see if you get a smile back. If she holds your gaze that is an invitation to approach her. You could say a variety of things, compliment her clothing/hair/eyes ettc, talk about the weather, the band, anything at all. Something as simple as "Do you go to alot of concerts' can be the beginning of a wonderful conversation. Don't be intimidated it it takes a few tries before you find a girl that wants to talk. We have been raised to be vary. You are in a casual environment though so just go for it. What do you have to lose?
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Well! ... if a girl approached me, I'd probably be less interested in her. Why ? well, that's the last "Man's Job" that we need women to do. Besides, it represents a "masculine" side of the woman, a side which we don't like to see in them (at least me). \nI approach girls everywhere! However, Clubs are NOT the place to look for a relationship, I mean, you know why guys are there, and they're not there to dance!\nI think you should stop approaching men, but try to grap thier attention, a quick look, clothes, perfumes...etc. I can't promise that all of them well approach, some guys with enough confidence will though.
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DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
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I always find a way to touch someone.  If walking by them when you say "excuse me" touch them.  No where that will get you in trouble...  Just physical contact will send subtle hints, over time she'll get it.  Then you can add genuine compliments, but not every day.\nI hope it works out for you!
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go for it man.  nothing ventured, nothing gained.  what if you wait and she asks someone else?  get in there!!
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Be completely natural. Don't try to impress, but don't slack off either. Just be yourself. She's their to meet you, so show her that. A friendly hug is fine, but a wave is good too. Whatever you feel comfortable with.