I am a single girl living in the surburbs,and I don't get out much. That's why I am still single. So what type of places are there where I can meet decent guys.Ps.-I don't like clubs/bars.
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Not here, that's for sure.\n\nJust go to where you like to go, you'll most likely see guys who share the same interest as long as it's not too girly of a place like the salon or the mall.
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I think it depends on where you are looking and how!!  My friend asked the same question but was only looking in bars and just really wanted a girlfriend so he didn't have the highest standards.  Many times it's when you aren't looking and you are happy with where you are that someone comes along.  I met my boyfriend through a mutual friend.  Meet up with people who enjoy the same things with you.  \nTrust me... there are great honest girls out there.. you just have to look hard for us! :)  Good Luck :)
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Well one good place is the NET. and the other place is the Mall... Another good place to go is bars but I dont think that most girls that are lesbian would go out to party unless they are of the partying type.\n\nMost lesbians would rather stay at home at watch a movie...
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expand your network, and get out there and meet someone.  guy like you are looking for guys like you.  here are a few links that might help.\n\nhttp://www.connexion.org\nhttp://www.fabuloush.net\nhttp://360.yahoo.com
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Not many places these days. A church. And even if you do meet a guy where their is a place where no sports involved. It does not mean he want be in to sports.
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A lot of the good ones are staying at home wondering the same thing....where can I find her without going to a bar?...LOL, How about organizing something?....maybe you could canvass door to door in your neighbourhood...  advertising a singles event that you organize for a local charity. That way you can meet all the single guys AND be the ONLY one at the event that they ALL have already met!
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i've only been out looking once.. \nstumbled upon it twice..and well, here's the thing..as a woman, i'm kind of looking for a guy who is sexual..and is going to give me what i want that night.. \nmindless, mindnumbing, meaningless sex.. but still a good time.. \n\nseriously, the last one night stand (not intentionally) i had was great.. we ended up back at my place around 2..and we uhmm ya know for a while.. and then had to take a break about 4.. we laughed, joked and had a good time before ya know.. uhmming some more..and then another break.. basically the morning ended with a lot of fun..and a lot more of uhmm..\n\nit's like i don't want to feel trashy after a one night stand, but i still want great sex.. \n\ni go into my regular bar..we get a lot of drifters in and out..i went one night with the intention of hooking up with someone..edned up leaving with someone else, and then hooking up with a completely different person.. odd i iknow..but serioiusly, i was determined to have sex that night.. and for some reason it seems guys decide to have a conscience now.. "i don't want to use you as a one night stand.. but can i get your phone number and we can hang out tomorrow?" wtf??\n\nthe next time.. i was just hanging out with people..and it just happend..and it was mindblowing good time.. \n\nso if you're going into a bar with the intention of a one night stand.. i would recommend going to somewhere you don't want to necessarily return to as the regulars will know the story..or go to wher eyo know you're going to get what you are looking for..
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speaking as a single male, i might ask the same thing about single or divorced women....i would like to take the time to get to know someone (bf/gf sort of thing), then see if it works into a relationship.....yeah, i think that it could be done....the decent guys are out there...they may not simply advertise the fact that they are decent guys...maybe they have been screwed over too many times....have patience....keep looking....they are out there....good luck to you
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sometimes it's nice to be single. enjoy now that u r single. wait for the good guys to come to u.
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Trust me, bars are full of guys looking for a one nighter.  I have gone out and talked with alot of girls who went to online web sites and they told me alot of the guys were real pervs.  I don't know about eharmony though.  Maybe go someplace to meet guys like a dance class, church, take a class at a college, an exercise class, etc.
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depending on what city you live in, you dont have to meet females in the club/bar, etc. you can meet people in the mall, at the library starbucks, anywhere.  work on your people skills, you'll be o'k.
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guys wanna meet girls.  we dont really plan furhter than that usually.  however, a bar hook up almost never lasts.  a club hook up is likewise more physical than anything.  try cafes, starbucks, rallys, places where people are: a. sober b. paying attention and c. able to actually have a conversation.  this way if there is a hook up its about more than how you dance or the drunken flirting you both participated in.
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You probably don't want to meet anyone at bars anyway so maybe it's good you live in a dry county. What are your interests? Maybe there is a club you can join? Sporting events? YMCA? Volunteer somewhere? Good luck!
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Try Craigslist.  Start here...\nhttp://losangeles.craigslist.org/about/cities.html\n\n\nFind the city you live in, or live closest to, or are \nplanning to visit.\n\nThis is a large community site with free ads for housing \nand rentals, finding new friends or lovers, pen pals, \nvarious items for sale, want ads, personals, services, volunteers, job openings, local events and classes, and global discussion forums, ...\n\n\nThey have personals sections to post free ads.\n\nYou can post for a one-night-stand, all the way to \nmarriage, and everything in-between!  Straight, gay, bi- or \n???\n\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey
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First of all, let me say that evilrob that answered your question is a JERK-OFF!\nThere are places to meet decent men...Garage sales are one...hard to believe, but true!\nThe grocery store...\nThe laundry mat...he has to wash his own clothes...\nAlso, have you heard of a group called Parents Without Partners?\nGood luck, be patient.
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theres bars and clubs were you can find some ladies. trust me there out there your just got to get out thhere and look hunny....
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Try Craigslist.  Start here...\nhttp://losangeles.craigslist.org/about/cities.html\n\n\nFind the city you live in, or live closest to, or are \nplanning to visit.\n\nThis is a large community site with free ads for housing \nand rentals, finding new friends or lovers, pen pals, \nvarious items for sale, want ads, personals, services, job \nopenings, local events and classes, and global discussion \nforums, ...\n\nThey have personals sections to post free ads.\n\nYou can post for a one-night-stand, all the way to \nmarriage, and everything in-between!  Straight, gay, bi- or \n???\n\n\nBest of luck,\nJeffrey