i met a guy on the net and only spoke the turth out(no lies i mean) i told him that i am overweight and sent him my photos.he said it was ok and we arranged to meet today.now i don't know what i am going to do.i've never had a date before and i don't even know what to say.i am so nervuous about it.and i am not sure whether i should do it or not.have you got any ideas?
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If you do choose not to go, at least give him a head's up. Don't no-show on him.
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He obviously likes you...thats for sure....just tell him what happened of course. Tell him you are having a problem with your account but that you did contact him and you'd like to get together....no biggy. :-) He looks sad but he'll get over it when he realizes what happened...its not like you rejected him...computers fault!
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Take a deep breath, it will all be fine, if he's not interested big deal. He's not going to walk around telling everyone you asked him out and he turned you down. You know what my personal moto is- Glory to the brave. When ever I want to ask out a girl or approach a girl and I start to fear rejection I say to myself Glory to the Brave and do it. I've got rejected before, but in a few days you'll never remember and I've also gone out with some beautiful girls, and that wouldn't have happened if I didn't have the balls to make a move
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in my past i did, and only 1 did i never meet. the rest and i met and fell for each other. i've had some pretty decent times with that. why are you asking about online dating? i thought you had a boyfriend? will i online date anyone now? no. not for me. i'm waiting for God's best.
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Yes, you are opening your heart back up for hurt again.  But since you made the date don't back out.  Go get your free meal with him (make sure he pays, it'll be knida like him making up to you)  while at dinner, be firm and ask him what's up?  Does he or did he have someone else?  What are his intentions with you?  Let him know that you want a man in your life that believes their word is their bond.
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so a woman posts a profile (on the internet) and a guy responds to her profile because he is interested?\n\nWell, maybe what the women found from the guy who was interested in their profile, was not something that they were interested. \n\nI personally don't think that women posting a profile for a date is desperate because it appears that this world has turned into mostly internet.  And we all have a right to chose who we want to go out with.  We don't have to go out with the first guy that posts to the profile.  We have the right to choose, because we are the ones that need to be happy also.  Not just the guy.\n\nI met my significant other through the internet and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me.
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Haha!  It's good to be back - computer was down for a few days.  Well.. I'm not a guy, (obviously), but unless things go REALLY well on a date it's a turn-off when the guy is all over you.  You've got to conquer the gettin-to-know-you before you jump on that.  So if it's a REALLY good date then you did get to know each other and it's okay to fall into that animal instinct.  If you're like 99% of the guys out there then maybe it is a good idea to relieve your stress before the date.  You may not get the urge to, er, be selfish on the date, and that will tell the girl that you respect her.  Also - it might give that first impression that you're a laid back bad-a*s type that most of the ladies can't resist.  So yeah - I think it is a good idea!  HA!
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I'm the nicest guy I know (and I'm very humble about it), and if you asked me if you should go and meet me after a few years chatting on the net and talking on the phone, I'd still say you were crazy!\n\nBe extremely careful, and dont expect worlds from first meet of a stranger who has no connection with you or anyone you know who is promising you ANYTHING, especially from a different state.
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If you asked me on a date, I would have made arrangements to make it a night that you would want to date me again.I think he was in shock, to be asked and just put some icing on your attempt to get him through that situation,which is very wrong...You need to ask him if he is joking you or not,and be straight forward with him...Whatever you do,don't wait around for the answer,because there are many men that will not turn you down...Unfortunately I would,because I am married to that girl that asked me out...lol
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Im a guy and ive done the whole internet dating thing and to be really honest, most guys are really dishonest and talking on the internet gives them a chance to be even more dishonest. You really have to talk to a guy over the phone to try to form a better opinion on him. I really think the best way to tell whats up with him is to talk to him on the phone a few times and then meet him for the first time but not as a date, just to meet him for maybe 15 minutes and see what hes really like. At that point you can make a better choice on whether to go out on a date or not. good luck.
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Aww im so jealous, i havent been on a date in a long time :)\n\nYou can talk about your careers and goals in life. You can talk about your hobbies and what you enjoy doing on the weekends. Favorite foods, if they like pets, if they have brothers or sisters, movies you've recently seen, vacations you have gone on or places you would love to visit. Think of things that are really important to you and ask them how they feel about these things. Most importantly, have fun and smile a lot and look into his eyes. And order a big meal! Guys hate when we order skimpy meals. Try to joke around too, to make him laugh. I hope you have a great time! :)
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Hmm.. which one to choose...\n\nAbout 2 months ago I agreed to meet a guy that I had met off of a certain dating site. Lets see.. he said his body type was average ( for a hippo maybe ) and that he was 5'6". Now I am 5'3" and I was eye to eye with this guy.. maybe his gut had pulled him down 3 inches I am not sure lol. \n\nAnyway the comedy of errors started with dinner. It was a cute little Italian place. The portions were huge and my date proceeded to eat his entire plate (which took like an hour because he eats so slow) and in the process managed to drop alot of it on his shirt. YUCK!! Then came the bill.. he kept scrounging around for his wallet.. didnt produce it and then went to the bathroom forever... I felt sorry for the server and paid the bill myself, hoping he would at least leave the tip. When he finally came out and saw the bill was gone, he asked if I was ready to leave. I mentioned that she might need a tip and he flipped 2 bucks out of the wallet that had been missing in action 20 minutes ago and put it on the table. No thank you for paying or anything. As we were walking out to our cars, he asked what else I would like to do. Um.. go home was all I could come up with lol. He leaned in for the kiss goodnight and got the famous one handed pat on the back.. the kiss of death on dates!!
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I was "dumped" by a man who lead me to believe that we were working toward marriage. I don't really know how to say this other than just be blunt... I was not physically attracted to him at first, I am 5'11". he was 5'7", our social stations were night and day, I don't claim to be a knock out, but I am above average in the looks department, and he was just kind of non-descript...I realize that we were not a physical match... but I thought that he really appreciated me for who I am on the inside, not what I look like on the outside, because that is how I felt about him. (he was 57, I was 34) total opposites.... but I was in love ( or so I thought). We continue along our road of stupid bliss for months.... with him traveling out of state on business on a regular basis... all the while he is seeing his ex-wife when he leaves. After spendind the weekend together, I left on Sunday afternoon still in love etc.... thinking everything is just fabulous....Monday morning I am reading my e-mails and there is one from him... he dumped me in an e-mail!!!! Told me that it was him and not me, and that I should just "take care". I was devastated to say the least, I have never been dumped in my entire life!!!! The humiliation was total, I couldn't get out of bed for 3 days, and I couldn't stop crying. He refused to take my calls etc.... and the worst thing ever was that we work in the same building, I have to see him almost everyday. I have since worked through this, and was feeling pretty good about life in general and had even gone on a few dates here and there....when *asshole** walks into my firms reception area (where I happened to be talking to the receptionist) and made bee line to me. He asked could we speak privately, I said no, say what you have to say now. So he asked would it be possible for me to come to his house that night for old times sake.... why should we "deny" ourselves just because his ex-wife was back in his life....well, I called him a few choice names and slapped the crap out of him--open handed across the right cheek. Left a pretty good impression of my hand too... that slap felt SO great, I can't describe it even today. I am now involved with a fabulous guy who actually appreciates me for me.... and couldn't be more happy. So, I guess all things happen for a reason.
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you smile get it over with !!!!!! move on, besides you sound like a beautiful lady and you should worry about a thing, you'll find someone. Dont ciber-date, dont be a geek !
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DONT be afraid to approach him on your own. Why do you think it would be strange? If some pretty girl came up to me, and just started chatting to me, do you know how good that would make me feel? I would feel great for like a week, and if it turned into something, I would be thanking God for her braveness in coming to me. I might never know otherwise, and thus would have missed out on something great...Without even knowing it. And that sucks. LOL Go say hi next time. Ask about the music. And NO. Do NOT go smashing into things like a klutz. BAD first impression. Even if he already knows you slightly. DONT bump, or trip, or any of that fake crap. Be REAL!
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Hey, I know the feeling. I know this guy name Kipp and this chick named Cassi who is one of my BFFz and she is always caught up in a love triangle and doesn't know what to do. I say meet this guy and be yourself. Think positive and hold life with a tight grip and loosen up occasionally. I would go up to the movies and be normal and just sit next to him and talk and crack jokes and stuff, but play it cool, don't look like a loser and trip over your own two feet like I did on a date. Good Luck, and I hope it goes well! Oh, and stay away from guys named Zach! By the way, My cat's name is Sherry Ann!! How ironic?!?!
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When its come to dating someone you met online always let someone know where you are going.  I really don't know what kind of suggestions you are looking for but good luck.