I like this guy and he likes me. My friend invites him over her house and one of the guys that like me caught him and her under the covers. My brother walked in too and all he did was smile like nothing was going on. My friend has a lot of nothing going for her and she has a bad rep and she does me dirty.Thet both said that nothing happen and he said that he wouldn't do nothing to jepardize his chances with me. I don't want to be dumb but I don't want to make any mistakes.
202434
Sounds like they are both playing you.  She is NOT a friend if she could do this to you.  Even if she doesn't have a lot going for her, it's just an unwritten rule that you don't go after people that you know your friend likes!
413561
Go for it!!!  This guy sounds like a keeper!!  Talk to your best friend about it, if you are worried what she may think...she may be absolutely delighted!  This guy knows how to cheer you up at the right time??  What a prize!  The worst thing that can happen is you still have two great friends.  Good luck!
53854
Sounds like she already is brother !\n\nWhy complicate things, if your having fun, just keep it going, if you want more, be a man and step up. You might be afraid of rejection but at least you had a go !
136887
I'm not sure I understand your question?  Don't do anything.  If your friend likes this guy, and he likes her (or him) back, then be happy for them.  You never know, he might be really nice once you get to know him better.
313910
just saying "i think i like you." isnt desperate or clingy... just do it... pretend its like your brother or somthing hah
361897
Honestly, if she were a true friend, she wouldn't be all up on a guy you like.  You are right to not let a stupid boy come between you and true friend, but this friend doesn't sound true.
262805
try talking to ur friend first if u can. Well do u like the guy too??Cause that will deff. make a difference. lol. but if u do like him and he likes u maybe u guys could be. and if ur friend gets mad, then tell her that u already told her that he dont like her and she didnt want to accept that. Then it would be her fault,that she didnt get him and you did. But if u dont like him then dont go for him juss tell him that u dont think that it would work out cause u dont want to hurt ur friendship with ur b.f. or something along them lines. Hope i help  good luck!
267227
you have GOT to be kidding.. you had your sis call to see if he likes you?  You have GOT to be very young.  Stop playing childish games, dear.  Stop spending so much time stressing out over something like this..  it isn't worth it.
552452
Don't worry about it...it doesn't make you a bad friend if she said she wasn't interested in him in the first place. She had her chance and if she is calling you a "whore" it's only because she realized she is an idiot. Not your fault...if you really like the guy just stay with him.
239676
i had the same problem. If he already knows then that is good. If u have any guy friends that may hang out with the guy u like, then, ask ur friend to bring up the subj. on who each of u likes. then, tell ur friend to say: so dude do u like(ur name here)? then tell him to tell u after. if u dont have a guy friend then just........ tell him u wanna c him after class or somtin then say calmly,: u know i like u and i just wannaed 2 know if u like me and if u do. do u wanna... wanna go out with me sometime. \n\nand that is all u really can do. u just have to face ur fears. u go grl
658399
Well if this girl is your friend then she should know that you like him. I guess what I would do if you like him is call him up and plan something just so you know that he knows you like him. Then when you go out with your "Friend" and him she will be shocked maybe because he really won't be paying attention to the flirting that he will recieve from her and pay more attention to you!!!!!!!1 I would personally drop the so called friend if she goes after the same guy!!!!!!!!
466990
Sounds like this guy likes you...a lot.  I think your friend has a bad taste in judgement.  Any guy who keeps coming back for more is definitely interested.  Go for it!-- Don't listen to your friend, she may be jealous.
373190
For the moment forget about your own friend.  You said you " only think of the guy as a friend and but he's okay "...based on that alone why would you choose to go out on a date with him.  You don't have an interest in any potential relationship developing with him so based on that alone...don't accept his invitation for a date.  Now, in addition to that, your friend really likes him, so to add that factor in...certainly don't accept the date.
394833
Yes, I think your absolutely right about everything  you said that concerns you, your friend, and this guy. Just be glad that it wasn't you with this guy no matter how good he flirts or looks. I really feel for your friend because if she gives it up to him he's going to be gone like the wind soon afterwords. Hopefully things won't get that far for him and her, but if they do I hope that maybe she'll learn a lesson from it. You seem like a very smart girl to me. Don't ever let yourself be taken advantage of. Your worth something.
149787
i've had my share of moments like this.  Just pretend it never happened and see how he acts.  if he is intrested, he WILL make a move.  If he is NOT, then he won't.  but if it was me, i would just pretend like nothing happened, and see how he acts.
64222
I've heard about this type of case before, if you like him and he seems to like you too, you guys should give it a try. You wont loose anything, just make sure you guys talk about it and say to each other that if it doesn't work you'll still be as best friends as before :-)
172031
Your friend knows very well that he likes you. You need to ask yourself if you really like him? There is no point in going out with him just for the sake of it. You don't sound very interested in him. If you do like him then go for it. Tell your friend that if he was interested in her he would have ask her out not you.