Is there a significant difference in the amount of time a man can last having sex with a condom vs without one... my bf seems to come like after half a minute (we*re 18) without one and like 15 min with it... comments?
205256
A man usually last a little longer with a condom . . . because it dulls the sensation for him.  It also dulls the sensation for the girl too unless you have a specialty condom.\n\nWithout a condom . . . I could usually last between 5 - 25 minutes . . . depending on how long since it been since I last had sex and how hot is the actions . . . .\n\nWith a condom . . . I could usually last between 15 - 60 min or longer . . . depending on the same condition above.
445896
i have found that men who aren't circumszed (dated 3 of them) are usually bigger than men who are not..but didn't know how to work it... i've been with a guy who had a smaller one than i was used to but knew how to work with it.... sooo size REALLY doesn't matter if you know what you are doing.... and the best sex overall is make-up sex;)
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A double condom is the worst thing you can do.  It causes friction and almost guaruntees that one will break.  Hormonal methods, like the pill and the ring, are nearly 100% effective if used perfectly.  A condom, when used with spermicide, is pretty effective, too.  Obviously the only 100% effective method is abstinence.  The most important question to ask yourself is: what if I got pregnant?  Do I know what I'd do?  What if I got an STD?  Do I know how to take care of it?  What if my partner breaks up with me?  Can I handle it?  If you can answer those questions, you're ready for sex.  If you have any hestitations, no effective birth control in the world makes a difference.
144083
It doesn't matter if it's normal or not...if you're not satisfied when having sex then there's a problem.  And I don't mean having an orgasm, you can definitely be satisfied without an orgasm.  Wearing a condom can definitely help him last longer.  Suggest that he performs oral on you before you have sex, and when you're about to climax have him enter you and stimulate you with his fingers while doing it if you need clitoral stimulation.  Then you two can both orgasm together.  \nGood luck!
309074
it's not a healthy thing that's for sure..since most kids don't use protection..and rubbers/condoms aren't very effective as they are latex and break down with heat.Like a guys wallet or pocket.Their shelf life isn't very long,never know if they sat in a hot truck on their way to the store either..\n Way too many STDs out there to get one at an early age...many do and pass it on..when they are older,no one wants them when they find out about it
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A condom is a form of birth control.  You mean does a girl have to take a birth control pill.  No, a girl does not necessarily have to go on birth control pill, but it does not hurt to do so.  It adds additional protection against pregnancy.  Condoms do often fail or leak or are improperly used, and each can result in an unplanned pregnancy.  Make sure that when he puts the condom on, he has about an inch of it off the end of his penis, and make sure that he squeezes the air out of it as he is putting it on........read the directions on the box and that will explain better what i mean.  Also, sometimes sex can hurt the girl, and sometimes it does not.  Usually, most pain for a virgin girl with a virgin guy is the result of two things....One is that the guy does not really know how to enter, from a lack of experience, and he rubs the walls of the vagina, causing additional friction and irritation.  The other is the fact that virgin girls have a small piece of skin known as a hymen that stretches across most of the vaginal opening, and as she loses her virginity, the hymen begins to stretch and break.  This results in some minor bleeding, and a slight amount of pain as well.  It may hurt, it may not.  most likely, you will feel something, but it should not hurt a great deal.  if it does, tell him to pull out.  I do not know of any links showing the difference between the vagina and the urethra, but it is hard to mistake the two.  Plus, i have never heard of someone's penis going into the urethra.  \nIn the pubic area, there are small flaps of skin (lips) known as the vulva.  They extend from the frontal pubic area almost to the area of the anus.  Going toward the rear, there is a hole (somewhat of a large hole, as well).  This area is where his penis will go.  Once the two of you get undressed, it will be correctly placed with just a little effort and some moving around.  You should have no worries about this.  Your main concern should be about birth control and using it correctly.
157940
find out whats inside the condom...shud hoefully b empty......\n\notherwise b glad that the bloke use a condom
421822
I will tell you this much, make sure you know for sure you are ready.  If it's your first time, there is a LOT to think about in terms of consequences.  For example, are you ready to handle a kid?  Does your bf have STDs you don't know about?  Would you spend the rest of your life with this guy?  Have you talked about having sex with him?  Is he ready for the consequences?  What would happen if you DID get pregnant?  BC and condoms are somewhat trustworthy, however, I'd hate to be in that like 2% of cases where they don't work without knowing what would happen to my relationship.\n\nAnd yes, relationships CAN survive without sex.  My husband and I were virgins the day we were married, and it was so worth it.  To know that he was the only guy and I was his only girl makes it 10X more special.  There are other things you can do without actually having sex, and really, if you are close enough as a couple you don't have to have sex to have a "next level"
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Well, it's possible, but not probably. Even if a guy had a lot of stuff the chance of it working its way all the way up a tight condom is unlikely. Now, I guess, if he stayed in you, and if he got smaller, and the condom got looser, etc. etc etc. anything is possible. I'd think, though, that if it's a light colored "stuff" it's probably you...your own stuff so to speak. That's happened to me several times, where looking at my g.f I noticed stuff and started to worry only to realize it was her. She says it happens when she's extra hot and cums a lot.
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IT DEPENDS ON THE SIZE OF THE GUY AND HOW RELAXED YOU ARE AT  THE TIME. USE PLENTY OF KY JELLY AND NEVER LET HIM DO IT WITHOUT A CONDOM OR DON'T LET HIM C U M INSIDE YOU. IT CAN BE ENJOYABLE ONCE YOU GET USED TO IT BUT IT DOES USUALLY HURT AT FIRST. DON'T BE FORCED INTO IT THOUGH ONLY DO IT IF YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE.
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i prefer trojan enchanced pleasure for him and her.the cool thing with condoms for guys they come in all different styles and varieties.the femal condom is only one style and one brand.and they suck.they really aren't as effective as a male condom.heres a link for a free sample of trojan
489706
Yes he used a condom and Yes it made the stress level go down. I think if you respect the woman and yourself, you need to be protected, not only from an unplanned pregnancy but from any diseases out there. Even though she might be a virgin (from what she is telling you) you don't know her family history and if either of her parents have AIDS. These are all things to consider when you take a sexual partner.
248755
I've often missed a pill or even two.  Didn't worry about it.  Never got pregnant 'til I went off them for 3 months.  If you're worried then have him use a condom.
650735
So you're 16.. hmmmm you should probably wait for another couple years... but if you're really desperate and both of you are willing and commited and there's no way to stop you from having sex then change the condom right after you ejaculate! it is not just a little risky to still be using a condom with sperm, it is very likely that it will slip off cos your penis will not stay hard for very long after you come. You don't have to stop 'suddenly', you can tell your girl when you are about to come and let her know when you do, she will understand that it's time to stop when that happens. Some suggestions for you if you are really concerned about your girl not having her orgasm yet, you can try fingering her or kissing, wait for a while until your penis becomes hard again and use a NEW condom and do it again. Actually you know what, if it's your first time having sex then I think it's important for you both to talk about the experience right after, pillow talks surely get people closer, communicatoin is a very important part of sex.\nGood luck!!!\np.s have to say this one more time, make sure both of you are ready and have talked over it and are willing!!! if possible wait for a couple more years!!!!
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Used to be about 5 minutes, but that was back in my younger days, lol. Now 20 minutes or so, depending on how much I've had to drink.\n\nTell your husband that sex is like a chinese dinner. It ain't over 'til you both get your cookies... ;)\n\n7 days? wtf? lol
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lier lier is all i can say.. even for a guy when losing his virginity it is kinda a nervous-ish experience. i am sure not as indepth as the ladies BUT STILL AN EXPIERIENCE..why? well there is a stereotype for guys and this dude you speak off seems to be exemplifying this stereotype... more than likely his first time was shorter than that.. maybe 5 to 15 minutes the most... why well even if he was with an experienced female... she probably would have orgasmed by then... with me and my virginity it was like 5 minutes.. i didn't have an orgasm and the primary reason for the above turn out was because i was doing it with my girlfriend and it was her first time as well... in all honesty after like 30 seconds of actual penetration and trust we stopped because it was painful for her... the first time usually encounters physical obstacles... the pain of your hymen breaking... I have had this same experience with 3 more young ladies where they were losing thier virginities. A couple times went by like this until they had healed up, gotten over the psycological fears of pregnancy and all that.. and actually got into enjoying the feelings actually generated by the act of intercourse/making love...after those initial 2 to 3 times ...well it's all climax from there!!!! no pun intended.. hoped this helps.. \n\none more thing.. don't be in such a rush to loose your virginity... it makes a big difference in your life... i guarantee it.. picture yourself at 21 or 27 and a friend asked you about your first time... the answer can either go one of two ways.. ohh its something i'll never forget cause it was with a great guy.. boyfriend of mine where we had a good and long relationship OR i regreted my first time... it was wack... i didn't really feel anything (emothionally or otherwise) i don't even remember that guy. i wish i had waited longer...  when that time comes.. i guarantee you'll remember The Thinker!
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Well, a very highly aroused, young, inexperienced male might last a minute at most.  And Sting (the famous singer) has bragged about being able to go on all night- literally- without a climax.  There's huge variance.\n\nOptimally, a good amount of time is about fifteen to twenty minutes of actual thrusting; with the overall lovemaking experience going from forty five minutes to an hour, if not longer.\n\nIf you can't, there's nothing wrong- you can get better with time.  Just practice controlling yourself (try thinking of non-sexy things when you get close- like grandma on the toilet, lol- and masturbate beforehand so you aren't so close and on the edge going into things.  And let your partner know what's going on- when you get close, stop, take a breather on yourself, and focus on her/him, then go back to spending some time on you or together, and so on, give and take, until you are both breathlessly ready for climax.  It's a thing that both of you can deal with.\n\nIf you still climax too soon, just remember that sex isn't over!  Your partner deserves to climax, too.  Keep a spare dildo in the drawer next to the bed, or even a strap-on (quite a few men wear strap-on dildos over their flaccid penises) to keep things going once you go soft, or just rely on your hands, mouth, and fingers to get help him/her out!\n\nRemember not to stress overmuch, and good luck!