why complain if you are not willing to change?
202499
The votes were counted, it just didn't turn out like some people were hoping for. Anyway, they do have the right (freedom of speech) but they're credibility on the issue goes right out the window since if they didn't vote
324499
that because people are not open minded and only think of themselves. we cant change those type of people just be tolerant of them.
42659
Expectations can be high. When they aren't met, we sometimes are less than tolerant. It is a matter of putting ourselves in the place of others in order to understand all circumstances. Then we can be more tolerant and less likely to lose our tempers. Awareness and understanding are key. Understand that we aren't all perfect..........we are fallable.
147964
Geesh, why is it even an issue, You can't change him. Let it be!!!!
223293
Honestly? Yes! All things change. People change. Relationships change. Change is constant in all our lives. The real questions are who’s actively doing the changing? \nTo whom and what? And why? And in which direction? And what do you want to change?\n\nA relationship is between people. To change a relationship you have to change the people. The best place to start is with your-self.\n\nYou cannot simply expect the other to change - and they are going to resist your pressure to force them to anyway. But if YOU change, your partner and your relationship automatically have to follow.\n\nYou were once a baby. You changed. You became a young child. You changed again to a teenager. And again, you changed into a grown-up. \n\nDidn't you? Every time you changed, everyone around you did too and so did your relationships with them. People have a head start on life - changes. They are largely built- in until about twenty years old. \n\nThings happen fairly automatically and are largely to do with our bodies and minds simply growing and developing. And after twenty? Well\n\nWhen we are adults people change when they are thoroughly fed up with banging their head against the same old wall. They change when they cannot stand the boredom of continuing the way they are. They change when they find out, again, what they once and always knew - that they have Choice. that they Can!\n\nChange happens for all three reasons every day but some changes are good, some are bad, and a few are well - just neutral. \nWe need to learn how to be consciously aware of our own change process instead of remaining unaware and letting them just "happen to us", for good, bad or worse.
180891
I would want to change that I wouldn't want to change a thing.
89905
if you can't change the person you must to communicate with try to change your attitude towards him: for example, try to find some strong and positive features and try to excuse weak
573299
Nothing. If I see something I don't like, it's because I need to see the best in her instead of faults. If I see one thing I don't like, I know there might be a lot more in me she want to change.
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first of all you shouldnt change to please other people, you are who you are. in saying that, you are aware that what you say might not always be seen as nice to other people and have to face the consequences of your actions. doing nice things for people will show you have a good heart and eventually people will not notice the side of your personality that you dont like.
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I agree with you.  I also find exceptions to every rule.  Some people truly become some emotionally tied down by their environment that they do not see the options available to them to change and even when they do, the damage has left so many scars that to remove the scar tissue would leave such an embicle that it would be like taking an adult and putting an infants brain into it and beginning from scratch.  It sounds good on paper, but in reality, there are those cases where environment gets the upper hand.  Very fortunately, there are a lot more cases where environment loses out to a stronger will to do something about the way it has been and make choices that alter the way a person has been living.  I know.  I did it.  I do it every day.  So here's to making the choices that change lives!
255558
To answer the question, Complaining is more easy to do. Way go out in the heat when you can stay in the A/C.
640380
Well, it is never easy to change! Just try to be more tough, to make people respect you and do not let anyone to use you, because of that you are too good! It is not fair.....
482379
I tried to change my mind, once.  But when I took it out to put in another one, I fainted.  \nI guess you feel that YOU spend too much time on this site.\nAs for myself, well instead of complaining about being out of work, I tried to find a job.  I felt quite productive, thank you.
291717
Nope, cause then that might lead to the change of something that you didnt want to change.  For every cause there is an effect.
252370
Life has a strange way of just happening; with or without our permission.  Circumstance sometimes dictate change, and change may not always mean a sign of instability, in fact sometimes its the exact opposite.  We all have to constantly go back to the drawing board when it comes to life; in other words--let life happen, accept what we can't change, and hopefully be able to smoothly transition into whatever new challenges come our way........
40047
Ther is no need to ratify the constution for any one particular group's wishes. There are alredy anti-discrimination laws in our country. If someone is unhappy with a law, they should work within the system to change that law. Change cannot be forced and can only come from within. What needs to change is our perception that any group of people should have more or less rights than any other group.
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I don't think there is anyone alive who wouldn't change something or many things in their life if they could. However, the reality is that we can't, so we must live our lives with the knowledge we have learned from each regret. All things happen for a reason. Even though we may hate somethings about our lives I am sure there are awesome things that have come out of those terrible ordeals. For instance anyone who has gotten married only to get divorced, but had children, would say that having their children was the best thing that ever happened to them. Even though they had to go through it with that old hag or that jerk! So, we can complain all we want, but instead I would like to challenge you to thank the old hag and the jerk for the greatest gift of all......your kids!