ok, so for a few years on and off this lad i no that i went to skool with have been tryn 2 get with me but ive never really been interested and always kind off pushed him off!we had a kiss on new years eve, but that ended negatively becus his ex caught us and got really mad, so i ran off!recently he has started working at my place of work and he chat a little bit but ive really started to find him attractive!thing is am a bit worried becuase he may think that there is no point in him tryn with me anymore becus he may think am not interested!but i am!cus he seems so lovely!do u think he would still fancy me!considering we kissed on new year and he tried to get my number then, bu i didnt give it 2 him becuase of him ex being around?
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Hey Tox, well when you see this guy again when you're out (I'm sure you will because he's got a new job in a bar plus the town we live in is pretty small) just chat away to him and be abit flirty with him and I know you can get very flirty when you've had a few! Hehe! You can chat to him about the main thing you have in common with him right now- work place! \n\nI know you're not a nasty girl who goes around messing with guys feelings, in fact you're completely the opposite! I don't blame you for running a mile when his exgirlfriend came on the scene (I would've done the same thing) cos she was a bit psycho! So now she's gone and you two are already chatting to each other as mates, when you're at work, which will just make it easier for you to approach him when you see him out. \n\nDon't get all worked up thinking:\n"Oh my God does he like me or am I going to be making a fool out of myself" \nbecause you are very attractive and I'm sure he can see that because frankly if he can't then he needs his eyes testing! Go for it mate! However don't ditch me when you've got a new boyfriend! Hehe!
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MOVE ON if he really liked you he would of found a way too stay in touch. Better yet, still do what you do and wait to see if he will come around.That way you do not look crazy or desperate.
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Well the fact that you have been talking to this guy every night straight for a week is an indication he is interested.  Now, slow your roll!  If you just ended a bad relationship, try not to get caught up in worrying about where this guys head is at.  You mentioned that you didn't want to rush things but then again you are wanting signs that will tell you if he likes you so you won't be wasting your time.  How are you wasting your time if you aren't trying to rush things?   If anything, you should be looking at him as someone to talk to and if you both share a common interest, enjoy those things.  Down the road, see where things go,if nothing comes of it relationship wise, you might have made a good male friend.  It's possible.
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I`ve been there myself - though I`m much to old to do it - I think you should ignore him and see if that makes him more interested. If not, drop him. I have tried to  "talk" to someone for weeks and then suddenly get dumped without a warning. Chatting is serious business!
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well i think that he is just looking for sex dont go back to him cause he's just goin to use you as the same thing happened to my mate. so dont give into him get a new number!!
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i dont think is a good idea to ask him if he is just being nice or if he likes you. that would be risky. why? because if you say he has your number and he doesnt call at all it means he DOESNT want to be more than friends. he is just nice to you because maybe that's the way he is with everyone else. my ex boss used to call me sweetie and used to give me a ride to school, used to tell me that he liked my dress or this or that but that was the way he was with everyone. so don't confuse yourself.
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Did you ever think of just going over to him to say Hi - and see what happens? Maybe he is shy and one of you needs to break the ice.  It would sound like he might be interested in you and if you are interested in him, then you should approach him soon, or maybe some other lucky girl is going to grab him up.\n\nGood Luck!
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he is not interested. simple as that. he prolly asked for ur # out of obligation as most guys do. if he was interested he would have called.
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Sounds like a great friend. Don't rush things, it's better to have a great friend than an ex-boyfriend. If he decides to change his way of thinking and date friends, I'm sure you will be the one he comes to. but for now just be happy you can spend time with him.
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YAWN.... he likes you. Persue him. PERIOD. Hell give in and you two will get together. You say he doesnt believe that you got over your ex but i can see how you have if your ex wasnt good to you. Its easy to get over a jerk. So go for this new guy. Persue. I know guys are supposed to persue, but i think it will be to your advantage to persue this fellow. Good luck!
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Make the first move if you are interested,he sounds a shy guy.This could go on and on.He probably thinks you are out of his league.go for it girl!
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Back off a bit and see what he does.  If he doesnt seem to notice or actually seems relieved, forget it. But if he starts trying to talk to you more or continues flirting its worth a shot.  If you start focusing on other things it might just give him the push he needs to let you know how he feels. If not, it's probably better this way anyhow because getting involved with a colleague can be a mess.
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OK ,why are you worried? Even though some men like a challenge be careful not all of them like the chase make yourself available like the guy said .You seem to like this guy if your worried so just give it chance .
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I think you should carry on you life and try and get yourself really busy so you do not have time to keep looking at your texts.  Before you know it he will either text or somehow get in contact with you if he really wants to know you.  Perhaps he doesn't like a girl chasing him, I know it maybe that you 'think' you aren't but you have to behave life a bloke to understand a bloke and vice versa.  Life is too short to just wait around, you never know he might have good reasons which he feels he cannot tell you, always turn the situation around, it may help.  Also if and when you see him talk about something that interests him and not you, they like to hear about themselves and what they like.  It is hard, but worth it in the end.  Good Luck!
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You really like this guy huh? That's sweet. I woud suggest that you think back on the time that you two spent together and evaluate whether or not you were able to pick up on any signals from this young lad. Did he flirt with you? Did he drop any hints that he may like you too? If not, I would suggest that you lay off him for a while, and then attempt to contact him (by phone, skip the txt messaging) and ask him if he wants to hang out. The squeaky wheel gets the oil. Perhaps the young lad is shy? If you do not let him know, then perhaps he will never know. Therefore, wait a week, and give him a call and ask him to hang out. If he agrees, do not jump his bones, just play it cool and use the time to really determine if he is throwing any hints or signals that he may like you.  Good luck and have fun.
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OK, sweetie. you gave him your number FIRST? that takes a lot of balls (pardon the language). guys are that way all the time. it took my current boyfriend ages to decide himself and get the guts to ask me out... but i knew from the start he was into me, so i waited patiently.So do you really see him interested? guys flirt all the time, some of them are even close to seducing their moms. so maybe that's not a real sign. maybe you should ask yourself if he's worth the try. like you said, he's a senior... so if you really like the guy, what are you waiting for??? give it a try, YOU ask him out. either way, if he says no, who cares? he's leaving anyway...
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I'm not emailing you...sorry, I don't need any more friends but it sounds like your not even interested in this dude. Why would you even consider dating him if you don't even like him? Remind yourself why it didn't work out with you guys to begin with and just tell him your not interested anymore. Or if you think there might stillbe something there spend some time with him as a friend. No sex or kissing...really just friends for awhile.