she never hangs out with him never hugs or kisses him and its weird even when there around oneanother they act like best friends.  and im the one with prom tickets!
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Be everything he's not!\nDon't be too keen, we don't like desperate!\nDon't act a c@ck in public!\nSpend time talking to her.....but not tooo much as i said we don't like desperate!!!\nDon't let her know how keen you are (bad bad turn off)\nBe mysterious\nMost importantly.............Be yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!\n\n\nHope this helps mate\n\npls make cheques payable to agony aunt Ms Tinkerbell (lol)
490875
this has happened to me before also. if you didnt say anything, find some way to tell your friend that you did, if you did say something, be honest and let her know you are sorry for saying something about her. try to text, IM, email, or get someone else to talk to her in person. im not sure what to do about the crush you have on him, but if he flirts with everyone, than i would forget about him. he is probably a player. my suggestion is find someone else, and say the same to your friends.
484570
Sounds like this B has a lot of jealousy towards you. Ignore it. She was never really your friend to start with.
243416
maybe shes creeped out about him...ask her why she doesnt like him and say its hurting me that u dont wanna hang with him whats up why dont u like him?
174052
I  am unclear about what you are trying to say, she wants to go with this guy to prom, and not you? She needs to understand you feelings, or you need to put your foot down. You are tottaly right for feeling this way. She tries to make you feel uncomfrotable, pay her back, AND see how she feels. Start inviting girls to hang with you, and act like its no big deal. See how she likes it.
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WOw. I've been through the same exact thing this is what i did i just straight up told her that i was feeling left out and when i was hanging out with her and her new friend it was akward cuz she wouldn't act the same. You have to tell her cuz it will drive u carzy and will cause drama. If she is a real true friend she'll understand and make things better. If not find a new best friend that wont skrew u over for another person instead of treatin u the same
349346
thats extremely strange behavior for just being freindly. He probably like you, but doesnt want to do anything wrong, since he is older and is a teacher and all. Reminds me bit of a prevert.
37893
this sounds just like a girl i considered my best friend in high school, even though i knew that if the table was turned she'd not do the same for me.  this was 10 yrs. ago. in retro-spect; while she was my friend, she wasnt the best friend. lack of appreciation and also i think respect.  you dont have to let go, but see for what it is. stay open to other people that will be as good a freind to you.
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Don't run away from him.  Do you like him?  If so, talk to him.  If not, politely tell him you're not interested.  Ignore Adrianna because he doesn't like her, and it's none of her business what you do in this situation beacuse it's not about her at all.  If he doesn't like her, he's not going to end up with her.  As for your friend having a massive crush, it's best to stick with your best friend than to go for a boy, so if it's going to wreck your relationship with her, back off of Brian.  Maybe you should talk to her in private to see what the situation is.
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Your old friend is probably feeling betrayed by you.  She thought that she was doing a good thing by being nice to the 'new girl' and in turn has lost her best friend.  \n\nyou probably need to make it known that she still means as much to you as before and that you dont want another person to come between you.  Good luck and let me know what happens
416039
Yeah darlin' it sounds like you're feelings are stronger than his at this point, sorry.From his point: I think it's hard to be best friends w/ a member of the opposite sex when you're  involved with someone. He may feel like he's betraying her. She may be putting some sort of pressure or negative input. \nAbout you  feeling "used" when he comes back after their break up... (which BTW their future break up is 99.9% probabable, statistically)..though I do see your point,  if you understand human nature, and as you get older you'll see this same thing again and again, very common, because people change, life is change. Change can be difficult, especially in relationships. \nNow as for numbering your friends in a ranking system, and should you call him this lable or that lable... I think once you guys can get past that "disastrous system" and began to see all the people that you really enjoy being around as your "closest friends" without the number/lable system, I believe there will be a lot less hurt feelings and heartache between all of you. Not saying we didn't do the same exact thing when I was your age,and it sucked being  #2,3 or 4 then, just as it does now. But since I did survive my teen years, I want to share that with you! My advice to you is to be the best friend that you feel comfortable with being to him, and her, without crossing the boundaries and getting into their "relationship space". He's your friend, she's your friend until either of them stops being what you consider to be a friend, at which time they are no longer a friend...\nMeanwhile use YOUR energy on YOU not him!  Good luck girl...
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She sounds like she's confused. next time you talk to her, just tell her that you think she's cool but you don't want to get in the middle of her and her bf's relationship. If she wants to be friends with you that's fine but if she wants to take it further she needs to say bye to him. Good luck!!
402394
no he doesnt like you. it was just awkward. also, how can you know someone for only 3 months and hes ur best frend? my best frend i've known for 7 years.
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is this boyfriend by chance jealous of your friendship with her ? it is possible he may have made something up so he could have her to himself...\nI would let her know that best friends are there even when boyfriends come and go, tell her you care about her and how important it is to trust each other.\nLet her also know you have no interest in hanging out with her boyfriend and u would be even more happy to just meet her in town at the mall or coffee shop.\nI too have recently suffered the same fate with my best friend too.\nFortunately we have made it through stronger than ever she has been dealing with a very possessive boyfriend that she is getting ready to leave now.\ngood luck..
236053
Your 'friend' is suffering from an inferiority complex - by feeling that no one would ever ask her out. When finally someone did, it naturally overwhelmed her and made her like this guy. \nBut she still is not too confident that this person really means well in asking her out. And is worried about whether the 'outing' might finally turn-out to be an emotional disaster - for her ! This fear causes her to cry.\n...If you really wish this 'friend' well, you can privately make some discreet inquiries about the guy's past - and pass them on to her. \nIf bad, she will be happy that her caution was correct - and make her smile.\nAnd, if good, she will gain the courage to accept the invite ! And smile all the while, ever after !\nLet us both wish her every Luck and Joy in life.\n:-))
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dude the guy never liked you.... why you stressing?\n\nmove on.. obsessions like that are unhealthy.. find someone who's as crazy about you as you are about them. You can't get mad if the guy liked your best friend, he's entitled to like whoever he choses. \nif he was your boyfriend and liked your friend secretly then u'd have a problem but so far no problem.. get over it
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exactly\nthis girl used to be my friend well she want really my friend just my friend's friend but we all hung out together but i never liked her and i just tolerated her because of my friend\nshe would try to be cool and say all that..but it just annoyed and she was such a bitch..i even asked her why she spoke like that and she just stared at me and said why are you such a nerd..and that is so stupid..she was new and trying to fit in..but she left my friend \nshe had just used her to make other friends\neven though my firend had beene her first friend when she was new\nso whenever i hear people talk like that it just annoys me and the only reason they speak like that is to try to be cool