ok so this is a bit too personal to ask my mom... \n\nI wear pantiliners but i don't have my period yet, when i get itfor the first time do you think ((if the flow is light)) my liner will obsorb some of it?? thanks
201960
Yes the pantyliners will absorb some of it, but when you do get your period you should talk to your mum and ger her to buy you some proper pads, but as the flow on the first period if fairly light, pantyliners would probably be fine
464100
It's discharge.  You don't "need" a pantiliner, unless you want to use them :-)  Good luck.
641676
I tried going to the beach when I was on my period. I did not use tampons at the time and really wanted to get into the water. It was extremely embaressing. My pad got too wet from absorbing the water and somehow floated right out of my swimsuit. It was just floating in the water for everyone to see. So my advice would be: \n\n1. maybe try to find some kind of way to secure the pad so it can't float out and ware swim pants. they make swim pants for girls to put over their swim suits.\n\n2. if it is a friendly outing try to bring a girl friend who won't mind staing out of the water with you and make the most of your time.\n\n3. just stay home and find something better to do\n\n4. try using a tampon - it really isn't that hard. it took me almost 8 hours the first time i tried and i was a virgin (very tiny) so it hurt a lot. it is kind of tricky to get it the first time but if you have had sex before it should be no problem.... if not, well it really isn't that difficult. I just was tired of not being to go anywhere and hated the feeling of having all that mess between my legs. tampons are much cleaner and it as if you aren't having a period at all (if you get rid of the cramps :p) \n\nsorry if that was too much detail. hope i helped :D! good luck...
390396
midol helps. ask your mom about it and see if she wouldn't mind you using it. as for the smell WASH EVERY DAY when you're on your period!!!! if you don't you will not be able to control the smell. how to use tampons and pads : with a pad you just peel the paper off and stick the sticky side in your panties. i don't use tampons because i've found them to be dangerous at times if people aren't careful. tampons are cleaner but you have more of a risk.\n\nhow to deal with being on your period out in public : don't worry about it. every girl goes out into public when they're on their period. make sure you start carrying a purse if you don't already and always have a good supply of pads with you.\n\ntips : you may crave like crazy when you're on your period and get emotional or moody. you may also get bloated. midol helps for that too.
431365
I have the same habit... and I have plenty of friends who do the same. It can actually be healthier to go without as long as  your clothing is appropriate. I wouldn't do it with really tight jeans, 'cause I can see how that might cause irritation. Your panties are more of a barrier to protect your clothing than something to protect you.
405893
its normal! happens to EVERY (normal) GIRL!\ndont be afraid and tell your mom!\nokay??\nmake sure you use pads and not tampons (right now)
665314
You're period will be irregular for the first couple of years or so.  Don't worry about telling your mom.  She's probably the best person to go to.  She's been having her period for a while so she could help you.  If it's too embarassing to say, write her a note telling her your problem and maybe asking to talk in private.    Some causes for delayed periods are weight loss and stress.  Don't worry.  If you really want to be sure, you may want to go see a doctor.  Gynecologists are nice and they understand.  I would see a woman gynecologist because I'd feel more comfortable.  Good luck.
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It was 2 month after i turned 11.  I was so determined that that would never happen to me. "I wasnt gonna get a period! I dont want it -so im never gonna get it" i would say to myself.  \nI was at my father's house for the weekend-I woke up on a saturday morning- when i  went to the bathroom i saw that i was bleeding from 'down there'- I started to freak out because i thought it wasnt gonna happen to me because i didnt want it. So I had to tell my father because i didnt know what to do -because i never payed any attention to anyone when they tried to explain it to me, because it just wasnt going to happen to me. I started crying and said " im bleeding from down there:(" He said "you are a woman now" and started telling everyone!! HOW EMBARISING!! I just wanted to go home to my mom -so i called her and she said that i would be fine and she wasnt gonna come and get me.  I still hold resentment about that till this day! and im 26\nwhen i got home -my mom had told everyone too. I was so angry and embarist i wouldnt even stand inline with her if she was buying pads- when i needed some more pads i would call them 'things' so maybe no one else would know what i was talking about\nI eventually got over it- after a few years \n\nAfter a while your period will come on a regular basis(IE: if you have your period on the first of the month it may always come on the first of the month) FYI- you may 'leak' through your clothing from time to time - so keep an extra pair of pants and underwear in your locker -just incase -and DO NOT WEAR WHITE PANTS OR SKIRTS when you are having your period - try to where dark colors- less embarissing if you have a 'leak'\nSorry if i spelled some things incorrectly- spell checker wasnt working
121850
The body doesn't work that way, sorry. Just wear a tampon--you'll be okay!
512149
I wish I could help you, because I have a similar problem.  I just put on my new patch yesterday.  I am supposed to be patch free NEXT monday and begin my period NEXT week, but I started my period today! Is this normal??  Should I tell my doctor? Yeesh.
470306
Sounds like you'll start sometime soon.  I'd wear a panty liner, hardly noticeable but will provide some protection.
203736
it may sound like hell\ni know i was scared but i got mine when i was 11and1/2 i hate using tampons so i use pads...\nyour first few times you shouldnt get any cramps\nafter your first time you might not get ti for a while\ni got mine in may, i felt no cramps what so ever and did not start getting it regularly until october
643069
Tampons are a life saver. I think you should try one everyones body is diffrent. They don't hurt me and it lets me do a lot of things like swim and is less messy at that time of the month. They come in little packages so there really not noticable. Easy to be hidden if thats what you want to do.
408362
i'm taking it this would be your first period.   this brown stuff is normal and might happen again a few times before you get a "real" period.  be prepared for the moodiness too : ( sorry to say.
473952
First of all, don't be embarrased to ask any of these questions. Any trusted adult female, (mother, sister, mother of friend, teacher school nurse etc) will be more then willing to help you and answer your questions. \n\nGenerally you will get your first period between 11 and 14 years old, (but there are some who get it earlier and some later).\n\nIf it happens at school, go to the nurses office, she will definitely help you. If you are in class ask the teacher if you can use the restroom or go to the nurses office, and if they ask why discreetly tell them "I started my period". They have all heard it a million times before and there is nothing to be embarrased about.  It is a very normal part of growing up.\n\nTo be prepared for the first time, have your mom or big sister buy you some pads, or panty liners.  Keep a few in your locker or backpack so you will be ready if it does happen at school. \n\nIt is hard to tell you how heavy or light your flow will be as everyone is different, as with how long it will last, but generally a period lasts about 4-5 days, with maybe a light day or two followed by heavier flow then tapering off to nothing.\n\nPlease do not be embarrased, like I said it is a very normal part of growing up.\n\nPlease visit this website...it has some great info
151387
I have heard from some women who's periods DO stop in water. They are typically women who's flow is very light. I wouldn't rely on water as a form of protection though. Better to stick with a Tampax. Good luck!
584283
This is normal.  You will be fine.  Take a bath --use some of the feminine washes if you want,,--NOT--a douche (those are not good for you).  Wear a pantyliner if you need to so you won't ruin your undergarments.  But this sounds normal. It does happen sometimes, so do not worry.  If you get to feeling itchy or burning sensation, then you could be getting a yeast infection, but from your description, it sounds like you are fine.