Why do you think guys want to have sex with "hot" girls only?
207267
Exactly, men and women will have sex with what they find attractive.  So keep looking for that person that enjoys your company and body type.  They do exhist.  Unfortionately, younger generations are influenced by the media and their peers.  Pretty soon people grow up and start being themselves.
154422
i don't know why a lot of guys are so obsessed with sex.    i joke around a lot acting like i want it but i'm just playing around and she knows it.  i wait for her to make the first move letting me know that she wants it before i act back.  to me, sex is a way to express your love to your partner.  sex should not be used only for pleasure.
293412
we love it, it mean the posibility for a threesome is much better in our minds. other than that it doesn't make much difference and to be honest most guys don't care if you have sex with other girls while your with them we think it's hot and would mostly like to watch or even better join in.
203612
It just depends. Is this guy/girl hot? Because if so, then I don't see why you don't feel comfortable. But if they are ugly, then I'd tell them to back the f*ck off and don't freaking do it again.
374075
Sounds like he has intimacy issues. Most guys would jump at the chance to have real sex with a real woman. Obviously, this guy is in love with his fantasy life, the idea of exploring his needs through detached means.
366520
you are likely very beautiful.  if guys say it, they think you are hot.  if women say it, they might be jealous and are trying to make you feel bad or slutty.  ignore the girls!!
523957
You know, I am a smart person, I have always been smart, I am also very pretty. But there seen to be these guys that only want girls that want to give themselves to them. I'm not like that. But a lot of smart girls are forced to become that way because we don;t get guys, we can be the most gorgeous women in the world, but if we don;t have sex right away, the relationship goes nowhere and we are left on our butts wonder " what the hell was that?" Look beyond the most obvious, look for the inner beauty (not saying some snaggle-toothed hill billy) but look for a woman that may not be the blonde hair, blue eye buety every other man wants. You may just find the right smart, attractive woman you want.
571762
I'm not a female, and never have been, but I do understand them well. Guys have sex on the mind because they think it is neccessary to get off as often as the body demands biochemically. Females do not have the same biochemical demands from their body, so they don't feel desparate to copulate, therefore they appreciate the experience more when they do. The guy is so focused on getting off that he forgets to enjoy the act as much as he could have, and the girl is free from such needs so feels the moment is enjoyable.
331265
Guys are attracted to girls because of the "hint" or the "allure ' or "possibility " of sex.  Guys would go out with guys if all they wanted was good conversation, fun and shared experiences.  \n\nThey already have friends ; they want sex.  This does sound so harsh but sex can also mean hugging,snuggling,holding and nonverbal communication as well as intercourse.\n\n\nBut if all you want is fun and getting to know there are plenty of girls to talk to ...who won;t expect sex  in the end
49552
It's the idea of "fresh meat".  A girl who is young, innocent and doesn't have a clue.  Basically, really naive.  They like this idea a lot because when it comes to sex most girls have no idea what to do, etc so the guy likes the idea of being in control.  Basically, he can shape the girl in whatever way he wants.  Show her the ropes so to speak.
271921
porno, well men usually want to watch pornos when they don't have a hot babe to be with.  \n\nif a guy does have a hot babe sometimes he is looking to "enhance" the relationship (like adding adult toys into the bedroom).  \n\nmy final thought is he is addicted to internet porn and replaced the hot babe waiting for him with the myriad of internet babes having sex with other guys, girls, themselves, etc., etc., etc.
262507
Well, I son't think this applies to all girls- in fact, I bet quite a few have the fantasy of doing it, but maybe wouldnt' admit this to just anyone.\n\nI guess part of the reason they often aren't keen is that a girl wants to think that when you are with her, you are only thinking of her. Not someone else. And she will be comparing herslef to the other the girl- is my bum bigger than hers, is my tummy wobblier than hers, are my boobs droopier than hers!!\n\nI have had a threesome before, and my main issue with it was the fact that 3 can actually be a crowd- the girl that me and my boyfriend did it with at the time showed me far more attention than him and he got a bit pis*ed off.\n\nIt's just not girls- I have male friends who also aren't keen on the idea.
274235
He has got the absolute hots for you! He is most likely fantasizing about you right now! He is probably thinking you are so hot that you would never date him! Guys can get like that. We see a girl who is really hot and we think there is no way we would ever have a chance of getting a date with the really hot women. Ask him out! Tell him you think he is really hot! It will turn him on! Good Luck!
298740
I don't think it is all guys want, but I think the desire to have sex is a driving force in a male's life.  Therefore, even if they are in a committed relationship, the desire to have fun with someone else may surpass your wish to be faithful.
70045
Why . . . because they have no game . . . and they don't know how to play.  They are dirt a** broke . . . and are desperate for companionship.\n\nI may not be the hottest guy around . . . but I still get my pick of the litter . . . and I don't have to say a word to do it.
138640
Let me give you a guys perspective, if you give us what we want, we will always take advantage of you. After that starts, you will always end up with guys that only want sex, and it will be that much ahrder to find a guy who loves you for you. Thats what you want eventually isnt it? On a different note, its about the stupidest thing you could ever do.
135683
I consider myself a nice, respectful guy with a good body, and it's difficult to find girls who are the same way.  A lot of girls think that its superficial for a guy to be interested in girls who take good care of themselves, but it's not.  If someone has an active lifestyle and eats reasonably, their body will show it.