Ok I like someone alot. But I don't know if this person likes me back. I would die to have this person but I don't know how to got this person to see me? help if you can.\n\n*giggles*
202197
sometimes men like women who are agressive or direct.  Maybe you should talk to him, be yourself, and say hey we should hang out at (wherever).  I like you and I think you are great.  Maybe we could get to know eachother better. What is the worst that could happen- you go on never knowing, aching over one person, or, take a chance, find love, or get turned down and move on to someone who does like you- because you are yourself.
273675
Before   you  get  involved  with  this  guy,  do  what  any  reasonable   person  would  do. Weigh   the  PROS  and   CONS of  getting  involved  with  him. This  guy is   supposed  to   make  you  happy  not  drown   you  in   worry so  do   what's  best  for  you .Liking  him  is   not  a  bad  thing  all  I'm  saying  is , don't  put  yourself  on  the  line because  of  this.
455432
It sounds like he likes you as a friend.  He must enjoy your company.  He probably has no idea that you like him more than just a friend.  Why don't you let him know how you feel about him?  But remember, by doing so, you might be ending the good friendship.  (If I were you, I would go for it.  Life is short.  Why not take chances?)  Good luck!
173616
If he likes any of you, it will be apparent soon. Let him decide. You can't make someone like you.
282381
Sounds like you two have a lot in common...basically wanting someone, but yet not to get hurt again. See if you can take her out and tell her that you really do like her and have like her for the past couple of months, but like her are looking for someone special and are afraid of being hurt. You respect her decision of not dating just to be dating, b/c once again you are looking for someone special to make your life complete. Pray to God for the strength to approach the situation with honor and dignity. Don't ever be afraid of no, b/c you never know until you ask. Keep your head up and your confidence high, you sound like a terrific sweet gentleman and I wish you and her both luck! God Bless!
568152
He might like you, but THINKING someone likes and someone actually liking you are two completeley different things. What I'm saying is, you might suspect something that's not even there. \n\nBut if he does like you, he might not want people to know that.
561853
I don't care if you give me the points or not, but I say...If you feel special about this person and he is unattached (or you hope he is)  then go for it!  Really, what is the worst thing that could happen? He could say "No"?\n\nIf both of you are single then talk to him!  Even if he doesn't like you in the same way, perhaps you will have made a friendship that could, (in time) grow to be more!\n\nOh and good luck!
191519
honey, confess and see what he does..i think he likes you too,  but hes with brit just cause shes close to him. so tell em and see what he does.. evaluate his response and see if hes worth going after. luvs yas!!!
664638
I think you should just call her, because you sound confused and you just confused me by reading all that....lol. But seriously, if you like her find out for sure, because she may be feeling the same way about you (confused). Sometimes people don't give off clear signs on wether they like a person or not...maybe their shy...maybe their scared..or maybe they don't like you.....you never know. Just keep on untill you get a clear YES or NO!!! But in this case if you do get a No..then don't feel stupid or anything, because you already know your a good person and she would probably end up the one missing out!!! Also don't listen when the people on here tell you to start "playing games" that is soooo immature and a waste of time..do what's in your heart. So find out!!! that way you can make your next move.....either you will start a wonderful relationship or you will move the HELL ON!!!!!! (so you can quit wondering) \nGood Luck and Be Blessed!!!!
167955
wow i'm in a very similar situation right now and its tough.  if you are having a conversation with him, try to touch his arm as your making a point.  it also wouldnt be a bad idea to simply say "you're really cute".  its better to let them know that you like them than to never try at all.  good luck, e-mail me if you have any more questions
500474
I guess it depends why you don't think he likes you.  Has he said so or does he treat you in a way that indicates so?  If he's nice to you and just hasn't said he likes you, he may just not know what to do....just like you.  Do you two chat much?  Chat more, but only a little more at a time so you're not being pushy.  You'll start to notice if there's a chemistry.  If you don't feel that, or if you don't notice things like he looks at you more, makes more of an effort to chat with you......well he may not feel the same about you as you do about him.  When you feel the time is right, you can give him a compliment of some sort and see how he responds.  If it comes out that you like him and he likes you well then that's fab!!  If it turns out he doesn't like you that way, it is absolutely not the end of the world.  You will survive it, and in no time at all it will seem like a spec of dust instead of a mountain in your life.  Be you!!  You know who you are and you are wonderful!!  Good luck!!
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i think you should just continue being friends. its very possible that he does like you. but let him come to you about it... try, not in a crazy way, to let him know you like him too. but dont rush... do not rush! make sure this is a guy that you really like. get to know him then if you both like each other then go for it. but it sounds like he does like you and you like him. dont push it.. just dont back off.. stay friends, continue talking, and he'll come around.
663680
I think he likes you, but maybe he is not sure enough about his feelings.Wait a little, or give him a sign.But don't show that you like him a lot.I am telling you from personal experience.Good luck!
56583
From what you're saying, it sounds like you're both interested. I say tell her how you feel. Even if she doesn't like you that way, she'll be flattered.
50412
the person u'v liked the longest! she likes u! go for it! for me VT! i didnt get a chance to so do it. she likes u! its so obvious.
540676
Once upon a time a girl that I hung out with told me she had a friend who saw me a lot and thought she might like me, and wanted to know what I liked in a girl to see if she might want to ask me out. I told her that I liked a girl who would talk to me, so that we could both get to know each other a little first before thinking about whether or not we should go out. \n\nSo my advice is to just talk to him and see how he responds to being around you. Since he's in most of your classes then you have plenty of opportunity and excuse to talk to him about things.\n\nEdit: Concerning your additional details.\n\nIf I had to make an educated guess from what you wrote I would say that he does like you and would like to spend some time with you outside of school. You paint him as being smart enough on his own, so he isn't trying to be near you so that he can use you to get good grades. And he is trying to point out things you have in common, like the answers, to show that you two are compatable.
48006
Ok blue, i know how u feel, so talk to him about your feelings. A guy friend of mine liked me but i didnt cause i just like him as a friend, just like what ur going through. It sucks i know, but i went up to him and asked him if we can talk and so i told him i dont have the same feelings for you. Plus ask him if he is willing to put your guy's friendship on the line if u guys go out, you know what i mean? You guys are probably good friends, right? I know u dont want to loose that,so let him no that. Speak ur mind and he should respect that no matter what.