If your girlfriend needs a lot of foreplay to be in the mood for having sex... is there something wrong about it?
207508
No, one thing that men may not realize is that it takes women longer to reach there max then a man. All We have to do is touch you and rub you a little and your ready but we like the forplay becasue it leads to great sex.
313702
no theres nothing wrong with you your partner just has a higher sex drive than you
379502
Sounds like you LOVE it for the wrong reasons...\nBut....whatever turns you on!  Enjoy !
666553
it is only pleasurable if my lover likes it too.  if done right it is enjoyable for both. i love feeling her going wild, no matter what we are doing, is fun to have her peaking from so many different things, this is only one little part of lovemaking.
34841
Well if she is preggers, sex in the first trimester is kinda icky, to say the least at least it was for me and some other women ive talked to, if she thinks its lacking passion, maybe thats because she has it in her head shes not making love to you anymore shes making a baby with you, maybe thats how your treating it lately, Tell her if she wants passion,youll give her passion... make love to her like you did when you were first together, rediscover every inch of her body, remember that now you probably know how to get her from 0 to 60 in 5 minutes, take your time like you used to, get her to the point where shes close, and start to do something else, tease her with the idea of getting off, dont just hand a orgasum to her on a silver platter, think **here it is but you cant have it** trust me when my better half gets this attitude OMG its MINDBLOWING when he finally lets me have it ;) i hope that helps i know it works when this mentality gets used on me hehe :P
319960
There is nothing wrong by being turned on my her.  You should tell her how you feel and how she feels about having sex before marraige.  Just don't make sex the only thing going on in your relationship with her.  If it is based around that then it probably wont work out.  My boyfriend and I were the same way.  We wanted eachother so bad but we waited for about a month.  We are still together and I know that we are inlove.  We might even get married.  Good luck.  I wish there were more guys like you who didn't just look at girls as sex objects and actually cared about thier feelings.  Bravo to you.  I bet she's a real lucky girl.
29379
It sounds as if she is into S&M.  If it gets her in the mood and doesn't bother you, then it's ok.  Sounds like no problem.
236572
I enjoy any type of foreplay that feeds into further passion.  There are few things that I would ever take off the list of will not do because having fun is part of the enjoyment too.  Variety is the spice of life.  Let me know when you are visiting the east coast. ;)
291440
Well if she used sex to "get you"....then it must have been pretty good, right?  Just try to re-kindle that.  You know it's in there somewhere, don't let her stop just because you're together now, you still have to make eachother happy and satisfied.  Don't cheat just yet.  Tell her you want her, and you miss the sex...compliment her and build her up a little..she'll be turned on before you know it.
9393
Heck yeah we love it, especially if its the one we love doing the rubbing. It takes away stress and makes us feel relaxed. It also makes us feel good that you would be willing to do such a thing for us.  It tells us you care. I'm not sure it puts us in the mood directly, but it takes away the stress and things that would keep us from being in the mood. \n\nA word of caution, if you and your grrr are not yet sexually active, don't use this (by itself) as a way to get there for the first time! But if you are, make it clear that you are doing it for her benefit (not just for sex) then she will usually gladly give freely to you what you want in return.
178339
I dont see the problem...You really cant habe too much sex,I just cant have enough too and so does my woman,we enjoy,every minute,every position,every kinky detail!But the thing is that we're together for almost 7 years,how long have you been together for?When(if) the lust evaporates,suddendly one of you will get suspicious.Is she/he seeing someone else?is he/she getting bored?If you work your way around it youll be fine but questions that are oftenly asked,and seldomly answered could harm your relationship.
196472
Turn your girlfriendon. I don't believe in women with low sex drive, I only beleive in good and bad lovers. No offense meant, but maybe you still haven't got a clue what makes her hot. There's nothing but practise, man. In the meanwhile, take matters in your own hands.
426623
Well you better learn how to take time for foreplay... if she is cold warm it up! Guys like to jump right to it because they are so easily aroused. Face it, you have one part to please she has multiple. Pay attention to all of the special places, make the foreplay last all day by grabbing, fondling, and dirty talk.  Make her feel sexy by telling her how good she looks and what you find sexy about her. \n\nExample: If you catch her bending over go up behind her rub that butt and tell her how you much it turns you on to see her bend over like that.\n\nWhen you are out in public fondle her breast while no one is paying attention but the security cameras, some people find that exciting. \n\nSlow down when you are about to be intimate and maybe give her a full body massage, paying special attentionb with your mouth and hands to those special places that I mentioned before .
11079
Some women think they should only have sex if they are feeling aroused. But the truth is, as she goes about  her day-to-day life, she might not think about sex all that much. So when you ask for sex, she won't be in the mood. Instead, try asking if you can snuggle, kiss, or give her a backrub. Make sure she knows that you won't have sex if she doesn't want to. After fifteen minutes of affection, you can ask if she'd like to have sex. She might be more interested at that point. \n\nTo be fair, you can also try to turn down your sex drive a bit. Try to spend a little less time thinking about sex or looking at things that make you horny. Instead, work on a hobby or spend time with your friends.
52378
i think theres no wrong with that! sex only depends on the two people involve.
402427
Excellent question. And to all the doubting ladies in the answers above, this husband gets his wife surprise flowers. Splits the chores at least 50-50 (ha - she doesn't do any yardwork, but I do about a fourth of the laundry, more than half the cooking, and at least half the cleaning). I tell her how beautiful and sexy she is (and she *is*!) Spend time talking to her (when our 3 kids aren't in the way!) and basically everything everyone says I should be doing. We've talked about our sexual desires and it's quite clear that my sexual satisfaction is last on her list of priorities. What she considers good sex is merely adequate "duty" sex to me. I won't complain too much, but it seems like I'm "owed" more than 10 minutes of sex once a week... Not contemplating an affair, but can totally understand where this guy's question is coming from.
157796
I guess it's a personal thing and everyone's different. I for one love my man doing it as much as possible. Maybe you are doing it wrong, ask her for suggestions to make it better perhaps?