Do you find your own race an embarassment? I think I might be that way. I dont hate myself as a person but Im not particular fond of blk ppl mostly blk men. I now it is a mental thing I refuse to get over but I really dont care. Therefore I date outside my race, act nothing like blk ppl(dress, speak, etc.).
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Honestly, there are good and bad in every race of people.  There are some moments that makes me wanna put a foot up their behind, but doesn't mean I'm gonna place hatred on black people for eternity no matter how stupid the reason is.  I grew up in a mixed suburbs where I really didn't have that many problems at all with people until I moved to an all-black neighborhood.  There, I was taunted and bullied based on my intelligence...and yes, for speaking articulate...notice how I didn't say, "talking like a white person"?  On your mental thinking, you're right, no one will ever shake you out of it, and I won't judge you on that...but I do think that your conclusions of black people are based on your negative reactions and experiences that you've obtained throughout your life.  I can tell you, I'm going through the same stuff, but I won't ever think of hating my race...that's like hating my father, mother, and everyone else in my family.\n\nAbout the dating out of race, you have your reasons...hopefully, this better not about hair texture or how exotic your child will look!  I hope you'll love that person for what kind of man he is, and not what race he is.
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Ok, to an extent I think it's funny to make fun of ourselves.  It becomes annoying "if" that's all you ever do and it's always VERY negative.  That's a very unbecoming trait.  We all want to date someone who is confident in their own skin.  It is definitely a turn-off if someone is always down on themselves.  Now, that being said, you HAVE to be able to laugh at yourself, but be confident at the same time.
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How redundant! Have some class here please.  You know, if a black man chooses to go out with a white woman then maybe it is a question to ask the man here?  I live in Tx and believe me interracial couples are as common as cowboys and this is pure racial hatred here.  I am a white woman who has dated a black man before I married and I didn't take him from anyone nor did I go out with him because he was built different or had it all. I went out with this man because he asked me on a date and we had a lot of common interests.   Every person no matter what color we are, we are equal with the exception of those who are racially inept to deal with issues that are too far above them and too ignorant to see that beauty is in every man and every woman...\n\nAnd I can really understand how someone could be offended by seeing a white girl with a black man when the ignorance of this question says it all...no matter what color you are you have a right to date any person you choose.  \n\nThere are a lot of white woman who  "act black" and it doesn't work.   Black women have a lot to proud of and they have been made to overcome struggles that were only based on the color of their skin, as has the black man and every race that isn't white.  When I see a white woman with a black man  and she "acts black" I am appalled and yet a white woman with respect and values does not even create a second look from me let alone thought that she shouldn't be on the arms of that man.   If I were a black woman I sure would be ashamed at how some of the white women act, this isn't some mind game to play within our cultures.  Respect each other for our differences and appreciate who we are and where we have been for goodness sakes.  Don't make statements such as "we aint taken dem from yall!" and expect that your above someone...your insinuation that black women hate it that black men will be be with a white woman and yet....I am white and I would be ashamed if my son was with someone of your substandard intellectualism.  And it isn't anything to do with your IQ which could be of the highest bar at this point...it comes down to ignorance and being true to who you are.
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I feel that everyone deserves to find someone that compliments them best and sometimes that does cross racial lines. I wish the best for everyone and if it's a case of being biracial, homosexual, or anything else considered away from the "norm" then so be it. I live in Texas and yes, from what I've seen, it does happen frequently.
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Visit Online Personals that cater to those interested in interracial dating.  You can sign up with several different Personal Sites that aren't specifically for interracial dating.  You only need to state your preference and wait for the messages to come in.  Whatever you do dude, be yourself and don't do anything to embarrass yourself. :) My last girlfriend tried to be "black" and she looked a like a fool. Haha Be yourself!
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I had a boyfriend who was/is black.  We broke up but it wasn't due to that.  In the South where cultural lines are still packed with prejudice, it heightened our visibility; not only were we gay in the south, we were interracial as well.  I would be lying if I said it didn't have some stressful points, but all in all it was a good experience.  Oddly when I dated a Native American no one batted an eyelash.
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You are absolutely right.  I am white and my girlfriend is black.  theoretically I couldn't be a racist. I don't feel like I am and no one says I am but I still find myself thinking racial epithits in my head toward low class blacks and hispanics.  When I say low class I mean drunk bums on the street and gangsters.  When I see a person that is white in a similar circumstance I just think loser unstead of attaching the racial slur in front.  Why do I do this? There are good and bad in everything in everything.  Race should never be a part of anything. Does this help?
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I would be offended.I admit I find it funny,and sometimes I cringe.We shouldn't support it.If it was my race I would feel like everyone was laughing at me.It would feel the same as being bullied.
488785
Why get over liking white guys when they're just as human as any other race? If you are trying because of a bad experience or because someone had something to say, that's a bad excuse. You shouldn't let one rotten apple ruin the whole bunch and you certainly shouldn't let another person tell you how to live your life or what type of person you should be with because it's what YOU like. People don't get paid to judge you, nor do they get paid to judge what you do or the person you do it with, that's God's job.
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love has no face once again it's all in the emotion...My mother prefers me not to date of another race. and for the record I'm african american (politically speaking)..(ghettolitically speaking) I'm black mixed with some island. just making you guys laugh..I didn't listen to my mom I like to explore exploring is good, ask Mageallen(sp), Noah, Rosa Parks, Malcom X, DR, M. Luther King, scienctist..we need to explore at some point in time. If it wasnt for or mix and variety in choice's half of us would'nt be here today..wether it's because someone decide the world was'nt "Flat"..or I'm not going to sit in the back, or what eva you guys catch my drift..I prefer to date whom eva is going to treat me right. no matter what race.
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it depend on the person, ive seen some hot black guys, ive seen some ugly black guys. ive seen some hot white guys, ive seen some ugly white guys- you just cant group the entire race together in one general subject. you may just have a preference which nothing is worng with that, i prefer dating black guys over white guys cuz thats my preference but i do date white guys, if they are cute, i date them- thats my theory lol
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I don't see the big deal.  If white women are dating all the black men, why can't black women date white men, Mexicans, etc?  Plus I feel like a lot of the black women who are upset by seeing a white woman with a black man have issues with themselves.  Seriously, there are pleny of black men.  If you can't find one re-evaluate yourself.
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So you would date a black man just because he's a black man? Not to say there is anything wrong with dating a black man just saying if his skin is the only reason than its a very sad one.
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why would it be wrong!!!!....im of mixed blood...does that make me less of a human...you need to get away from these racist pigs and start making ur own views...u dun hate someone just cuz they are different , thats the kind of attitude ignorent people displays....
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Oh hell no...i wouldnt approve of anything like that ...i may not be a mixed woman but i know people who are and they have feeling too...if he is going to talk about some one he need to be talking about himself.
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It's not really about being "black" for me, it's about being different from the norm, or anything I have already had.  My fantasy has never been to date a black girl however...just to sleep with one.  Not that I wouldn't date one if I were to develop those feelings.
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As far as I'm concerned, I've got lots of guy friends who're Asian, and I did ask a few of them this online.\nMost of them are rather insecure about *certain things* (the whole size issue) and prefer to stick to the Asian girls.\nHowever, while many of them wouldn't mind dating other races, their parents would completely flip out seeing them bring home a black or a white girl (though whites are more acceptable, it's that double standard and it infuriates everyone, I know.) because most parents would just like their son to marry (they view dating as a process to marriage. Meaning, an automatic process) a "nice, Asian girl".\nThis is especially true for Indians and Chinese, though the Chinese families catch up fast (cept' the traditional ones) and if given enough reasons, they might just grudgingly accept the fact that you're the one their son/daughter wants, no substitutes.\nAnd yes, many Asian guys really dislike Asian girls to go out with other races. They view it as an insult to their manhood, something like how some blacks dislike their black girls to go out dating other races, especially whites.\nSome are pretty impartial to that, though.\n\nA few of my guy friends do want to date a black girl, and have friends who're interested in a black girl at school, but the problem is, they're a little intimidated by black girls.\nSome of them can be really aggressive and that scares some Asian men off. Also, they see it as 'surprising' that a black girl wouldn't mind dating them - most of them have the impression that it's the black girls who don't dig Asian guys.\nHope that helped.\n\n\nJenova\n(d.yuffie@gmail.com)