I'm a really shy person and the guy i like and who likes me is really shy.. should i wait or should i go ahead and go for it.. but im not that kind of person..! im  the kind of girl that believes that the guy should be the one to do that stuff!
213605
If it will be your first date, then let him ask to take you out.  But if the two of you want to hang out, then it's all right for you to ask first.  Since you are shy, find an event that you would like to attend and ask him if he plans to go.  That will help break the "nervousness" between the two of you.
658140
Well if you are both shy, then someone has to break the ice! Once the ice is broken and you like each other, then it will be history from there.  But sounds like your are going to have to get the nerve and go talk to him!  Just go up adn say Hi how ya doin or whatca up to?  Or find something that you need help with and ask him to help you.  That always makes a guy feel good when you NEED them!  But you have to break that ice or it will go no where!  But it sounds like you have a date coming on if you get the nerve!!!  Good luck and don't get cold feet!  Just do it!!  Or you might miss out and someone else is gonna sneak in and steal him away!
296877
I suggest coming straight out and asking him to the movies or something. Go have fun, then see how things go....Maybe he like you too, just shy about it...GL;)
129015
i'm  shy person to, so i try to get to know the shy guy so that i can get close to him then date the guy, i really like guys that r shy that also have a mature side tothem cuz i'm around loud guys that always speak their minds and it gets really anoying after a while! so shy guys are always my first choice
474871
That all depends how you have been expressing yourself to him. A lot of guys can not pick up signals or they misinterperted signals from girls.\n\nMost people (espically guys) are afriad of rejection. If you know that he has feelings for you and you feel the same way for him and he's too chicken to ask you out, then you should make the first move or you both would be waiting for nothing to happen.....
675941
if the guy is shy and dsnt make a move...then......YOU SHOULD MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!! trust me! i did!! and i never regret any of it...well, his glad i did the first move too.(this is the 21st century,its the century where girls make the first move instead of guys)You deff should make the first move...\n\nIf a guy likes you, \n-he will read your sms over n over again\n-he calls just to say 'hey'\n-he calls just to say where he is and where r u.and how r u? hows ure day? etc etc....\n-pretend 2 go sick,(2 see if he really cares)n if he do...tht means he cares for u :)\n-when ure talking to him face to face,compliment him like 'i like your hair'...then see if he blushes! (if he does...scorre!!)\n-if you see a bunch of hot girls walking your way...purposely walk slightly 1cm behind him...n when you guys pass those hot girls,take a peek at his eyes..to see if his looking at those hot girls..if he didnt...then all he care is YOU.\n-surprise him with gifts..(doenst have to b expensive) n see if he blushes and smile...\n-if u want to know if a guy likes you....whenever u guys r going out...even tho to a nearby store..he will dress smartly...dress to impress...\n-Last but not least...if u want to know if a guy likes you, his tone of voice is different with you than to his homies..his laughter is different whenever his with you...
290412
well it kinda depends on you because im like that sometimes, im very shy but the thing is when i IM him.. im myself cause ur not actually infront of him. but when u talk to him or call him, ders a difference cause u'd actually hear him and ull get really nervous. so yea its up to u. but if i were u, id start IMing him then once u get to know him more and more. i suggest ud talk to him later on since u know him more...
12095
It sounds like he likes you, so if he is too shy to make the first move, it may be up to you to make it. Try asking him if he has seen, or wants to see  a certain movie that is playing. Then say you want to see it too, but have no one to go with... He might just get the hint, if not, then say, "Hey, why don't we go together!?" That way he will know you are not adverse to going out with him and from there, he SHOULD take it. Good Luck.
296861
well bebe......if you like the guy.......step up to the plate maybe he is afraid of being rejected. So if you think he's worth some effort........GO for it.
316253
If you wait he may not.  Whats your relationship with this guy?  He may not even know ur interested.  Show a little interest and see what his reactions are.  Dont wait too late or you may be going stag
293859
Some guys like to tease...he could be staring because he happends to catch you staring and that's all.However,if the guy was me-that would mean that I like you...so maybe he does have a thing for you.It would be wise of you to think of all the possibilities before anything.If you can't handle rejection then maybe you should just wait till he makes a move.On the other hand,he may be a little shy too.Why don't you just talk with him about anything and take it from there...and take it slow.When you both are comfortable in each others presence it will be easier to open up...good luck.
578380
Is he shy? If not then it is best to assume he is not the assertive type. (he may be the type of guy that waits for the girl to come on to him). If thats the case, I don't advise any further energy here.\nIf he is shy, then it may be he doesnt know how to behave around you.
488633
I think shy guys are easier to keep personally. You can get them to open up to you and they get more attatched to you! Plus they are shy right??? no other girls come into the picture wooo!!! so its up to you! if you want someone who you could get attatched too and a long term relationship I would go with the shy guy..... the other not so shy at all guy could end up being a player or get to cocky if he is outspoken. Thats my my personal opinion good luck!
501215
I'm an introvert and normally, it wouldn't really matter to me whether a guy is an extrovert or introvert because I like a guy for who he is... however, because I'm a more reserved and shy person, I would prefer an extrovert so he would have the courage to ask me out because I'm too scared to ask him out...
15850
If you KNOW he likes you, then WHY is it so important for you to actually hear it from him?  He sounds shy - I wouldn't suggest pushing him into saying anything until he's comfortable doing so.
535268
Of course this guy likes you.  He's gotta be awfully shy to not move forward with you even when you say you like him.  I assume his comment was an attempt at humor.  Why don't you take the lead and tell him you want to date.  He'll be overjoyed I guarantee it.
193795
I kind of have the same prob, but with asking this guy out. i don't know what to do, i need to know because i heard he liked me and that he is too scared to ask me out. and i was wondering if it's weird if a girl asks a guy out or not. well, good luck! sorry i was no help! :(