i have not worn shorts in like 17 yrs...i am so ashamed of my legs that when i get with a mate i always have had to keep it dark...i was once married and my exhusband still really made me feel beautiful but i want to wear shorts and skirts and too ashamed to show my legs......i am now almost 33 and donot wear stuff like that and living here in tx it is sooooo hot so what can i use to make these years of spots vanish so i can love my body to its entirety?
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There is a cover up cream for vericose veins that should do the trick. It's rather pricey but I've seen people who've used it and it's some amazing stuff. \n  You know.. you really shouldn't worry about the spots on your legs. You have just as much right to wear shorts as anyone else does. If they don't want to look at your legs, then they don't have too. I've seen all kinds of people wearing shorts from people with fat rolls, vericose veins, scars and everything else and it's never bothered me or anyone else I know.  People probably won't even be looking at your legs so why suffer in the heat over something as silly as chicken pox scars? \n  You're not alive simply for others to look at, you're alive to make yourself happy so stop making yourself miserable. I'll bet that if you went out for a month in your shorts and skirt, you would stop worrying so much about your legs. I'll bet the only ones who even notice are short folks.
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I'm 5' 10" without heels, and almost 6 foot with heels (and I'm always in heels) but I find that a lot of men love tall women.  My ex is 6' 6" and we were simply perfect together, just right.  My boyfriend I have now is 6' 2" and I do feel a little akward in my highest heels, but still he always ask me to wear them.  He loves it!  So don't worry so much about being tall. \n\nAs to what to wear, it depends on the effect you want.  If you are trying to make yourself look shorter, then don't wear a short skirt (that only makes your legs look longer) you want to wear a longer length skirt.  There are those cute ones that come to the knees and have the flirty ruffles at the end.  Or as someone suggested, wear low ride jeans (boot leg cut) with a belt and a cute halter or tank top and a pair of strappy sandals.  The boot leg cut will hide your feet and just show your toes and that way you don't have to wear heels, you can wear a cute pair of flat sandals.  The key is to find your best attribute and work around that.  If it's your breats, wear a v shaped or off the shoulder blouse that shows some (not too much) cleavage.  If it's your hips, again the low-riders.  If it's your butt, then tight low-riders and wear a thong to avoid panty lines.  The trick is to use what you have and take away from what you don't.  If you want you can email or IM me and we can chat more, I love fashion and finding what works!
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Hey girl, I'm in a similar situation (5'7", 150-160 lbs, 22 years old).  I'm definitely not fat, in fact I've been told that I'm very thin.  My problem is my thighs are big because I've been a softball catcher for 6 years.  Plus, big butts and boobs run in my family.  Trust me, 120 pounds is too thin.  I know this is so cliche, but muscle weighs more than fat.  I was 130 at one point and I looked like I was anorexic.  Just do exercise that you enjoy.  I currently do Yoga Booty Ballet, which targets the butt and abs.  It's pretty fun too, especially the YBB Live workouts.  The internet address is below.
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It's when your legs are heavier than they should be.  If you're female and wear pantyhose, the dye only irritates it all the more.  Best thing to do is maintain your weight to where your legs won't rub together.  That, and dry properly after getting that area wet.  Every once in a while you could probably use a talcum or medicated powder to help with the friction.
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Wow I have been asking these questions for years!I'm not afraid to show my body. Been doing that a long time now and I don't mind other people showing theirs. Hairy backs and all ,bring em on!\nLove & Light & a little less clothes\nSharon
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Try mixin things up! Don't wear the same type of things over, and over. Throw in a mix of things so they never know what to expect! lol i think u should see how some of the old farts would do by flashin a few to see a reaction!!
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I used to feel strange about it but now I'm actually fine with it.  I would never go commando with a short short skirt on because it just feels awkward.  I'm indifferent in my preference, so for me its with or without, but if I'm trying to avoid pantylines or wearing white pants, I usually go au natural.
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i know someone who has gone from 253 to 165 and has gone from a size 22 to a size 8...pilates and weights have helped, but she is now running six miles 5 times a week and I think that has really helped...BTW she is 39...so it is never too late to start...P.S. She is hot as HELL!!!
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I actually really did well- the spa was a nice place and the gal was great. I lost 2.5 inches off my midsection alone and it did not come back! At the time I was a womens size 16. I am now a teen size 10 but I still hate my arms- thats 38 lbs from excercise and diet- so I want to go back and have my arms done before the holidays- I was very pleased at how nice it made my skin feel too- I consistaly lost something everywhere thru the series of 4 that I had done and would do it again.(the seaweed smells ugh though-make sure your going straight home after because you can't shower till 8 hours past-also where non special underclothes as they get seaweed gunk on them and a change of undies to wear home with a plastic bag for the worn ones---- it does wash out
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You could probably find the perfect match for you in H_LL!!  Good luck and happy dating!!  FYI - WEAR DEODARANT!!  It's awfully darn hot down there.  And you never want to let them see you sweat.
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I've been wearing them on and off since I was 15. I've found them to be extremly comfortable, feel great and make me feel sexy and at the same time wonder if anyone knows the secret I'm wearing! I've been married for just over a year and my wife is cool with it. I don't wear them all the time. Just once in awhile and sometimes she'll ask me to wear a pair....usually if we're going out and gonna have "fun" Good luck!
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Nudists are not freaks, silly child answering above me. You may want to check out the Naturist Society's web site...I'm sorry I forget the URL. They would be able to help you. Just remember to take your sunscreen. Burns in sensitive places are horrible.\nAha! www.naturistsociety.com  Have a good vacation.
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I was thinking about something like this just the other day, how liberated women are to be able to wear what they like suits, trousers, ties no one bats an eyelid - yet if a man wears a skirt or make up everyone throws a hoohaa and the guy is labelled a pervert or worse. This is simply not right, I hope that society will overcome this shameful stigma rapidly and appreciate that we should be able to wear what we like when we like.\n\nI wish you the best of luck with what you do, but don't keep this as a thing which you are embarrassed or ashamed about - the more people who are proud of who they are, I firmly believe, the faster society will accept it. And if you are planning to surprise your partner with your stilettos I advise you warn them because you don't want any of the above narrow-minded reactions :)
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I watched the Tyra Banks show, and she was talking about how all the models do it in bed..What they do, is lay on their backs, and put their legs up as high as possible... and do the scissors, the pretend bike riding... then you put your knees up high and squeeze up your buttocks, up as high and hold your booty up there as long and hard as possible. not only is this good for your buttocks, but your hips, & thighs, as well.. Then you can do any kind of exercise with those legs up in the air.. Just work them as long and hard as you can until you break out in a sweat, and then repeat this for a couple of nights! And girl you are going to see "RESULTS!!" Immediately!! I did, but I was hit by a car, and have alot of arthritis, and was in agony, after about 1 week, of these exercises! So , I had to take a break from doing it, but I will be going back to doing them, they are that effective, and quick results!! I promise you, you will be feeling the results the very next day!! You Just Go Girl!!! Smile!!!
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Good job on the additional comment you made - getting out of your comfort zone. I absolutely encourage you to continue that. However, a water park really requires something that you will be comfortable in, and certain that you won't lose it. If it's a two piece that's pretty sturdy, then go for it. If it ties or is even the slightest bit loose, top or bottom, go shopping for another suit. Why spend the day worrying about your clothes, when you're supposed to be having fun? Either way, take something to cover up with. And wear sunscreen. Lots and lots of sunscreen. (I just got fried on my vacation, so it's really fresh in my mind.)
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using a razor or a homewaxing kit or getting a brazillian bikini wax. or using produces like nair/veet and such. use a mirror to see wear you are moving about bend your knees and spred legs far apart to reach all hair. gross but you need to feel around to see where you've missed.
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Oh my goodness, don't you worry your head for one more moment about your stretch marks, good men, who are not shallow don't care about stuff like that.  I've never had trouble getting a man and my stomach and waist look horrible what with the stretch marks and old C-section scars.  Its not a biggie, if it is...dump him, why waste your time on someone who can't except you for the way you are.  Learn to love yourself, when you stand in front of the mirror stop looking at whats not right and start looking at what IS right.  How you view yourself is EXACTLY how other people will treat you.  We teach people how to treat us by the crap we take over and over again.  Don't settle.