See I'm not lesbian or anything.......and I even have a boyfriend but when I see two lesbians making out or having sex it turns me on what do I do what if I become a lesbian?
200684
Would it be so terrible if you did become a lesbian?  You are what you are.  Better to be true to yourself, don't you think?
639497
If you are attracted to both guys and girls, you are bisexual, meaning you are sexually attracted to people of both sexes.  There is nothing wrong with this.  If you have feelings for this woman, feel free to pursue them, but let her know you are struggling with your own sexuality.  Maybe she can help you figure out who you are.
191995
i am straight with some lesbian tendencies... i strictly date men, but i do find some women attractive. but i would never have sex with a woman,
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I think it's to early to tell if your a lesbian or not. But I would encourage you to take time and really try to find yourself before you commit to any relationship. It's only fair to yourself as well as any person getting involved with you. Don't let anybody pressure you into a relationship, that's not healthy and probably won't work out in the long run. Good Luck
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I'd say just give it time. I felt the same towards a girl at my school and we spent a lot of time together but it was never going to happen. It sounds like you know that as well. Stay near her but don't cross that line.\n\nI never did with my friend and everything was good. It was still 5 years after that until I came out. I'm not saying that you are lesbian. I never had any sexual feelings for this friend - I just liked her more than others.\n\nLike you say - don't go obsessing over her. You will become more clear about what you want if she can keep a straight mind. It may just be a fantasty thing because you seem no way inclined to go lesbian. It may just be hormones and discovering who you are or you may just have a natural curiosity.
567432
No clue maybe you like girls & guys??? This actually happend to me once also. What i did was focused on a guy I like, try to do everything you can to get him so now your mind is on him sexually. But since this happens to you before your period maybe you are a lesbian because during & before your period girls are more horny and you appear to be horny to the same sex. I would suggest thinking long & hard about girls sexually and than think about guys an find out wich appeal to you more. good luck with your journy to find yourself!
453583
... you're a girl? (my inference from your name). Well, girls TEND to be more open-minded than guys, so it's good that you're at least not going, "Gross! I don't want to be this way!" like some b*tch in denial. lol Sorry, I've just met so many of them on this site... anyway, it COULD be that you're bicurious or bisexual. I personally believe that EVERYONE is bisexual, but whatever... I myself am omnisexual, so there! Why not like both sexes? There's nothing wrong with being bi. *shrugs* It just means more for you to choose from.
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you could be a lesbian if you want to ''do things'' w/ girls but you're actually normal. guys look at guys and girls look at girls. it's all normal! We all just wonder what it would be like to be him/her. but if you might have unexplainable feelings for girls then you might be a lesbian. but there is nothing wrong w/ that. gays, lesbians, and bisexuals are people too. we should not judge other people who just like the opposite sex or both sexes.
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Have you ever been with a female before?  I don't think you're a lesbian because you have admitted that you want to marry your boyfriend and have children with him.  I think you're just curious about being with a woman.  If it's only for the sexual aspect of it, why not let your boyfriend watch?  That should please all parties involved.  :O)
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The only way to find out is to take small steps toward experimenting.  Take some time and get to know some girls that you know are bi or lesbian.  Hang out with them see what happens.  If you are unsure about that then just go hang out online at a place like anywebcam.com and get to know some of the girls on there and see if it interests you.  There is no harm is looking or even trying.
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If you like being with men, you aren't a lesbian.  People fantasize about all kinds of things during sex that might not necessarily turn them on outside of sex.  I'm a lesbian but I like to watch straight porn.  I think it really boils down to when you are having sex who are you having sex with.  If you're curious, try it out.  You could be disgusted by the thought because you are actually straight (I know I'm disgusted thinking about sex w/ guys in a normal situation - no offense guys!) but it also could be society's pressure on you to be "normal" or your desire to be normal in which case you could be bi.  But if you enjoy being in relationships with a guy and you enjoy sleeping with guys then you are probably straight or bi, definitely not a lesbian.  Sexuality is fluid and on a long continuum.  I think it makes it confusing to dichotomize it.  In my opinion it sounds like you're straight with kinky fantasies... that's all.
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No, you're likely not a lesbian.. it's probably too young to tell. You should probably just wait until it feels right.\n\nAll this is a sign of is that you're not ready for a sexual relationship or anything yet. You should just enjoy life's other pleasures, and concentrate on meeting people and having a good time - you shouldn't need to worry about sex, getting undressed or anything for a while yet : ). Enjoy getting along with your boyfriend, building a nice relationship, and don't get pressured into anything that you're not ready for.\n\nWhen I was younger, the thought of sex discusted me - but now i enjoy it :).
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A homosexual man is a man who finds other men sexually attractive, and wants to have intimate sexual relations with them. \n\nA bisexual man is a man who finds both men and women sexually attractive and wants to have intimate sexual relations with either sex. \n\nA homosexual female (lesbian) is a lady who finds other ladies sexually attractive and wants to have intimate sexual relations with them. \n\nWhat your boyfriend asked you to do, is to put your finger in his rear, you are a girl, so there was nothing remotely homosexual about this request. \n\nThe similar assumption to make would be that when (if) you ask him to perform cunnilingus (kissing and licking your vagina)  on you, because you find this sexually stimulation and pleasant, that you are a lesbian; as this is what a lesbian would do to you during love making.   Of course you are not a lesbian because of this, because you have asked your BF to do it because you find HIM sexually attractive. \n\nHe probably does not want to talk about it because he knows that you are thinking these things.  If you love him and care about him, you will reassure him that you have no questions about his sexuality because of this, and that you are willing to do it as you care about him and his needs.  Your relationship will become much closer as you are trusting each other and communicating your needs and wants which is always a good thing.
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OK SO YOU R NOT A LESBIAN RIGHT?\nWELL WHEN A GIRL LOOKS AT YOU TELL THEM YOU ARE NOT GAY AND DO NOT LIKE THEIR STARES.
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Here are some questions to help you think about this.  I know it's hard to see your friends objectively, especially when you're attracted to them.  Still, try and be honest and ask:\n\nIs she likely to tell someone else what you've said to her? (Does she tell you the secrets of her other friends?  If so, you can't really trust her with yours)\n\nIs she single?  (If she's not single, the answer is no, don't tell her.  She'll tell her boyfriend- and even if she doesn't tell him, there's no future in it)\n\nIs she serious about an anti-gay religion? \n\nHas she ever mentioned any curiosity about lesbianism?\n\nOkay- my honest opinion is that it's a bad idea.  It's a rare friend that will be able to handle that kind of confession without getting weird.  As with most friends, a sexual attraction isn't worth losing the friendship, especially if you can't really see yourself going into an all-out lesbian relationship. As it stands, you're going to confess you want to hook up with her- for what benefit?  Say she's interested in experimenting with you.  You hook up, and then what?  Are you still friends?  Will you be jealous when she still wants to have sex wiht other people?  Think about the long term consequences.  \n\nWhat if she isn't interested at all?  At best, she'll pity you, and mistake all your friendly overtures in the future as attempts at seduction or puppy love.   \n\nBest case scenarios: you tell her, you hook up, you both discover that this works for you and you start a long-term committed sexual relationship.  Or, you hook up, one night only, you both think it's fun but agree you both need a dick for full satisfaction, end of story.  \n\nChances are these fairy tale endings in which you're both on the same page won't happen, and you'll lose a good friend in the process.
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Do they have to be lesbians?  Because most lesbians are, indeed, as you say, 'pretty well over the male body'.  Not to say that there aren't lesbians who sleep with men- I know there's a whole queer renaissance of kinky lesbians and gay men who love to get it on together and call it gay sex (because they're both gay)- but it's a small niche.\n\nIf it's not the fact that they're lesbians, but just that 'lesbian look' (boyish but pretty), so to speak, well, there are a lot of bisexual girls of that nature, and straight ones, too.  I bet you could find yourself one.  Good luck!
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Maybe your are a lesbian - its your life and your choices,  if you never have sex with either a man or a women then you really don't know what you are missing, but at only 18 you have a long time (i hope) to go before you die, so there is always time to change your mind if you so choose.