How should a girl 'gesture' to a guy that she likes him? Do you say the exact words "I think you are a nice guy" or "I quite like you" to them? Is there any other less obvious and clever way to let them know? Because I don't really have any chance to walk up to him and talk to him.
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Get to know him first before you decide whether you like him!  Try to talk to him or at least smile to him when you see him next time!
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Well, if he didn't normally talk to you much before.\nAnd he does now.\nThat could be a sign.\nSmiling.\nWaving.\nI don't really know.\nJust talk to them.\nAnd if you want to tell him you like him.\nAnd don't want to actually say it.\nDo it in person, not on the phone or internet.\nAnd.\nWell, I took a boys cell phone and wrote on his backround.\n"I like you"\nAnd he was planning on writing it on my wall.\nSo.\nMaybe just start a converstaion and start asking random questions.\nAnd let him ask some back.\nAnd maybe just quickly say it.\nAnd if he asks "what".\nJust tell him you heard me. \nAnd it'll turn into a funny non akward situtation.\nHope I helped.
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well you could always right him a note asking him if you like him and make it a nice note dont make it seem like its a bad thing if he likes you because then he will probably say no. or you could always just straight up and ask him if he likes you. but dont have another guy ask him because he will feel akward. i hoped i helped!
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i had one guy actually say to me, "so you like me right?" and i was absolutely stunned. I DID, but it was just very awkward. see if you cant spend some time with her one on one and get a better feel for her.
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When I was in school, I was as kind and polite as I could possibly be to all of the girls I knew.  I would smile, try to be pleasant, open the door for ladies (my mother would slap me if I didn’t), etc.  However, despite these actions I was generally very shy.  Even when there was a girl whom I liked, I would consciously and carefully avoid showing any special attention to her.  I would just try to look for signs that she liked me and that it was *okay* with her for me to like her.  \n\nI hope this helps.  It is possible for seemingly outgoing guys to actually be very shy.  It’s a form of cover-up.
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tell hi straight out something like..."i thing ur really cool/cute/nice/  w/e just tel him, but don't ask him out, guys have to take the lead SOMEWHERE!!!!!!!!!
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Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello. \n\nSteps \nGet a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. \n\nBe yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. \n\nDon't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time. \n\nSmile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!" \n\nFlirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there. \n\nTry to be around him often, such as sitting near him. \nShow off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly. \n\nTry to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them). \n\nGo up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. \nTell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together. \n\nBe a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect. \n\nTips \nDon't change yourself too much. \nA good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch! \n\nSit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested. \n\nListen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude! \nAct confident but try not to seem stuck up. \n'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it. \n\nWarnings \nNo guy likes a person who is snobby. \n\nIf he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was. \n\nDon't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man. \n\nMake sure to brush your teeth! \nBe sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly. \nDon't tell him lies. \n\nIf the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.
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To me,giving "signs" is so easy.I just give him/her that 'look' saying "i wanna gat to know you".You know the look with that smile,with a little blush on da cheecks, but dont give her the "i wanna have you"look,some girls dont like it.Make it friendly and simple,if she smile back,you know thats a good sign.Thats when you approach her and tell her that you want to get to know her.Donno bout you guys,but the "look" never fails me yet!people just cant, not notice it,they just do
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I'm exactly like him.  Too shy to tell someone I like them.  My suggestion is to tell him you like him and ask if he feels the same, and wants to get to know each other.  I'd love it if a girl did that, would make life so much easier for me and other shy guys like me hehe.
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Ask yourself the following questions and try to relax and answer them.  Your heart will not lead you wrong so go with your heart! Does she flirt with you?  Are you the ideal BF!\nHow you get a guy to like you! \n1. Laugh at his jokes, but don't go mental over the lame ones \n2. Smile a LOT \n3. Talk to him a lot, and get really funny/interesting/good conversations going, ya know, get to know him \n4. Be REALLY nice \n5. Stick up 4 him when he is insulted (For instance - "At least HE'S not a loser") \n6. When you talk to him, use his name more than once so he know's that you know his name, (boys like to hear that) \n7. Do not put on makeup/lipgloss/fix your hair in front of him. Always do this BEFORE seeing him. :-) (and don't overdo it) \n8. Be yourself! \n9. Bring him a little something on his birthday - not like a HUGE gift, may B like a little card/note or something (let him know u care) \n10. Talk about things u guys are interested in - maybe you have some similar interests that u can talk about! 11. Never hesitate to let him use your pens/paper/other junk he needs to borrow! And let him use the BEST pen you have. :-) \n12. When other people accuse u of liking him, IN FRONT OF HIM, say that he is very nice (LOOKING j/k), and what is worng with that? \n13. Say hi to him in the hallways \n14. Tell him your e-mail address and get his! \n14. When you talk, do not avoid his eyes. Look straight into those pretty blues! \n15. Make some jokes! (Not lame ones) \n16. Avoid bragging (this goes w/ out saying) \n17. If you ever write a note to him, write "Your friend" or if it is a little more intimate, write a heart or "luv" before your closing. Make the letter *colorful* \n18. When you talk, don't do all the talking - let him say stuff too, and vice versa \n19. Be yourself!!! (yet again!) \n-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------\nOK this would be my IDEAL BOYFRIED.........ALL GUYS SHOULD READ! \nLadies: this will make you tear up :)\nfellas: read it, all of it! :)\n1-touch their waist\n2-talk to her\n3-share secrets\n4-give her your jacket\n5-kiss them slowly\nare you remembering this?\n6-hug her\n7-hold her\n8-laugh with her\n9-invite her somewhere\n10-let her be with you when you're with your friends\nkeep reading\n11-smile with her\n12-take pictures with her\n13-pull her onto your lap\n14-when she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back\n15-when her friends say I love her more than you deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved\nare you thinking about someone?\n16-always hug her and say I love you when you see her\n17-kiss her unexpectedly\n18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST\n19-tell her she’s beautiful not sexy!\n20-tell her the way you feel about her!\n20 u need to show her you mean it too\n21-kiss her on the lips\n22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You buy HER stuff\n23-tell her what feels good\n24-make her feel loved\n25-buy her stuff. small things can still help\nwe might deny it but we actually like and kind of want you to get us things\n26-don't lie to her\n27-dont cheat on her\n28-take her anywhere she wants\n29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her\n30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you\nare you still reading this u better be its important\n31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.\n32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.\n33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them).\n34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.\n35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act
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just be like, "i like u, ur nice and funny and good to talk to" but use the right emphasis. say i like u in that not to meaningful way.
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:) I'm not sure I'm like most women, but personally I do love when a guy asks me out... as long as it's in a nice way. If you don't know her, a look at her eyes and a smile when she notices should make her smile back. If she does, then you can come closer and introduce yourself, then start chatting a bit and ask her to have a coffee (if she can't but is interested she will probably offer to exchange numbers). About numbers, here are my "rules": if I'm really interested I will take his number and give him mine -no risk to miss an opportunity-, if I'm not too interested I will just take his -I decide-, if I want to see if he really is interested (and if I am) I will give him mine -let's see if he wil call-.\nNow if you know her already (classmate, for example) you can try to chat with her from time to time and see if you have something in common that could be used: like if you talk about cinema, maybe she will mention a movie she wanted to see. If you want to be direct with a girl I would go for the "I was wondering if you would have time to have a coffee with me one day?". It's still casual, she can decline easily (important!), and again if she really can't but is interested she will offer another solution. Don't do too much, she has to feel she can refuse.\nOn a more general basis, if I see a guy I like I will do the smile-and-bat-my-eyes trick, this is usually enough to encourage the guy to move ahead. If he smiles backs and seems interested but won't move, I will probably offer a coffee myself if there is a possibility  won't see him again (subaway etc.) :)\nAnd about the bf... you're not supposed to know! If she say she has one, just don't say you're not jealous... please! ;) And don't worry, if you act nicely I don't think a girl will reject you roughly. She will probably be flattered: what girls have everyday it's guys making kiss sounds or saying comments about their body, not an actual sentence. That's not that common... ;)
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I know just what you mean.  I really don't know how to explain any of this because when I was in school there was this girl that really did like me but she would never asked me how to say anything to me.  She was really shy but very pretty after several years I found out that she really did like me a lot.  I wish I would have knew this or she would have told me because I wouldn't love to go out with her.  Maybe the best thing that you can do is try to find out whether or not this guy is at all interested in her.  If he is maybe you should drop the few hints around and maybe he will get the idea that it is okay for him to ask her out.  Some guys are really intimidated when girls come on to them.  Try to find how he feels and try to get him to make the first move.  Good luck
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touch is very important and can send the right message. Don't make it too personal, but touch his arm casually. Brush hands with him. If you know he is looking at you, smile, even if you aren't looking at him. It's like you are acknowledging his flirtation. Guys like girls who are bold. Work on your eye shy, because if you catch his eye just once, that may be all it takes.
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I don't know much about how girls should approach guys, but definitely don't send anyone to ask. This is because guys can get turned off by neediness, like you already presumed. Also guys get a big head and they like the rush of being liked, and they want more.\nWhat you need to do is create a scenario where you and him can get to talk, but directly. Any excuse is good. I assume this happens in school, so there are plenty of legit reasons to approach someone. Find a way to do an activity that requires you to contact several people, like when you have to sell junk to other people and stuff, and go and sell it to him. Then try to build rapport by starting a conversation (you know, change the subject a couple of times to something personal). If he follows the conversation, it's a good sign. That first step of talking is key. I swear I've learned this and I use it all the time just to socialize: any excuse works! What time is it, do you have change for a dollar, have you seen my friend whatever, did you hear about the new memo... etc. Just examples. Good luck.
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he does like you 110%......well, i'm a guy, usually it's pretty hard to talk about stuff like that after he might not know you like him, he wants to do so much stuff with you to be sure that you like him because he's waiting for you to make the move first....you could tell him that you have to talk to him, he will, unless he's an idiot...believe me he's more worried about you not liking him, ect.  if that made sense to you (it did to me obviously), Good luck!
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If a girl takes the time to say she likes a guy...TO the guy, then us guys assume that it is something more than just as a friend. \n\nThen again, there is usually only one thing coming to mind when a girl does this...lol