I am a refugee young man living in a brutal life, having had many problems in my home country and still have got more thesame problems in the refugee camp. so how can I totally change my life?
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I dont believe you. Refugee camp? Wow do they have DSL connections and Starbucks around the corner?
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Life it's not fair! You can't change it, don't even try, just keep up, be smart and learn how to tell your feelings and You'll be fine!
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get a visa or a green card or a passport and go to a country that does have a Democracy and live there or apply for citizenship.\n\nSorry that life sucks for ya dude
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You can't change someone else, so for your own sanity's sake assume he'll never change.  You can, however, try to gently point out that maybe the reason he's miserable all the time is that his life is hollow.  Encourage him to do something for others.  Maybe you could sign up for something like Habitat for Humanity and invite him to come along with you.  It doesn't have to be HFH, but you get the idea.
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I would change myself, because that is the only thing that I have 100% control over.  I would become a better person, and try to make other people's lives better.  \n\nex. Instead of just feeling sorry for starving children, I'd do something about it.....In fact I think I'll go do something about it now!  Gotta run! ;)
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You need to resolve this conflict, don't hang on to the unfortunate events of past. Your experience in life makes you shy away from people.Look ahead and concentrate on the positive aspects of your life. You have had love and marriage and this is what will eventually help you heal. You need to develop some confidence and learn to love yourself. Don't distrust everyone, not all people are bad. Make friends and make efforts to socialize with people in a friendly manner. You will be surprised how people begin to like you. That will help you raise your self-esteem.\nLife is short, live it in the best possible manner, all you have to do is to make efforts towards a positive living.\nGod bless.
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take positive action today, right now. Life is too short and precious. I am your age and have recently retrained after 2 horrible years of illness. I am now doing a job i love. It was tough to get here but well worth it. Be prepared for things to get a little worse before they get better. for example you may be quite low on cash for a while. \nFirst...what do you want to do? need inspiration? look through the job pages, or check out what courses are available. \nsecond...if you don't want to be in this country, where do you want to be? \nthird...how about giving yourself some thinking time and doing something positive and rewarding to fight off the depression? You're young enough to be eligible for loads of charitable organisations, for example BUNAC. They pay for your flights, you do some volunteer work in an interesting place. Might help to get you some perspective.\ngood luck xx
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First, unless you are been physically or psychologically abused DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOME. And if so you just don’t pack and leave, there are steps to follow to ensure your safety and wellbeing.\nHave a talk with your parents, let them know it’s difficult for you at home and it’s causing serious distress on your life. Best wishes
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yeah God can give you hope, change your life correct yourself and go away the gay lifestyle start your new whole life, go to church, make friends spread the word of gGod and you will be loved by someone ESPECIALLY GOD. GOOD LUCK DUDE.
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if you feel that you have finished your earthly duties,change your life style help the needfulls ,particularly help orphans and handicaped peoples,then natuarally you will start living the life you wish
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What your doing now is already the start of a great future for your self, simply by acknowledging, that you have these burning issues in your life is enough to start the ball rolling in the right direction,\nDo some simple things first of all, like change your rooms around, and get rid of old clutter, that should help you wake each morning with a fresh feel about you.\nAlso go to the CAB (Citizens Advice Bureau) about your debts, at the very least it will make you feel a bit more positive about it all, as your doing something towards eradicating them from your life.\nAs for friends, you will find many new friends very easily, just by being your self and smiling, you have already found one new friend today!\nDon't dwell on the past and what you had, look to the future and visualise what you will have!\nTake care,\nLove n light xx x\nIf you ever wanna chat, drop me a line! x
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To acheive this, you 1st have to change human nature. Good luck!
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'No matter where you go. There you are."\n\nIf you are REALLY looking for a new start and brand new life. You need to be "born again". Don't get caught up with that term. Read my study below and you will understand.\n\nMy life was going down, fast. Everyone I knew just wanted to rip me off or use me. My parents were in to drinking and going off to parties or going to Europe and gave me no direction or support. I was dying inside and tried drowning it in Rock music, booze and weed. All that changed in 1971 when I became "born again". 35 years later, my life has been getting better and better. And no matter where I go, I am at peace and full of joy!
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Well, you decide and then don't do what you decided.\nThis would take complete dedication to a lifestyle\nchange which can be most difficult.  I suggest a\nbuddy to check on you keeping you on the new track,\nor one of those self-help group sessions that you attend. (misery loves company). Good Luck
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There is always a way to make your life better.\n\nTeachers, social workers, counselors, (hopefully your parents, but that isn't always possible).......\n\nThere should be at least one person in your life you trust, at least to some extent. This person can help you find your goals, set timelines, find supports and resources, etc.\n\nStay strong and believe in yourself.\n\nNo matter how hopeless it seems, it isn't hopeless.  \n\nI've been there.... and am glad I didn't give up. Things do get better. It can take years, but it does happen.
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Anyone can change ! We have one life to live. Play hard!\nForget about next life your future is now.
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The only thing you can do is set an example.  Live your life in a righteous way, and hope that they see that.  You can't change anyone, it's not your job to change anyone, all you can do is set an example, tell people the message of Christ, and God will work from there.