ia am getting proposals. but i am not in a stage to marry anyone..he likes me but he cannot live with me it seems...he is running away from me...whenever i go near him he goes away from me.. he was not like this before...he used to love to speak with me...he used to call me everytime..but now if i go near he runs away...i love him a lot...i have learnt to love becoz of him...he is a gud person..i hope he comes to me...can you help me so that i can do something so that he comes to me
215131
I am having the same problem as you at the moment but the best advice that I can give you it to leave him alone. Don't call him,don't email him just make out that you don't care anymore and if he really likes you this will bring him back to you. Sometimes you have to treat them mean to keep them keen. Men like a challenge and if they know that they can have you no matter what they do, they tend to get bored of this. Never show a guy how much you really love them as they will take advantage of this.Good luck.x
66417
sounds like he cares a lot about you but is NOT in love with you. you are the best thing in his life right now, the only thing he is sure of and now he is going to lose you. have no regrets about it; you followed your heart and those actions never need to be explained or appologized for. don't worry you'll always be cool, just don't confuse those moments to mean anything for than that and i think you'll be fine. Don't forget to get your ring!
457421
It does sound like you are on a way relationship headed to nowheresville.  I think you should leave.  If he came right out and told you he's not going to marry you why stay?  He's not your last chance for love, there are plenty of men out there, do sell yourself short.
310907
take your time, Love will reveal it's self.\ndoes he call you, or do you do everything in the relationship. test him, see if he really cares. don't bug him about it or give him a big list of what you are looking for, just let him be and see what kind of guy he is. you can't change people so find out if he is really suitable for you through experience in time. you are probably young enough that it isn't crucial that you get married right now. take your time if you can....it reveals many things!
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The fact that he says he doesnt want to marry you is another way of telling you that we are just having fun.But there is no need to mention it.Not everyone will get married but if you love you girl enough, you will say i love you and show her that love.Automatically she will know that this is a worthy relationship.Mentioning that he wont marry you,should give you a light that he is not your guy because you seem to care about getting married.Why on earth would a person claim that they love you a lot and still have some areas of love RESTRICTED.Hit the freeway sister.....
21688
Hold your horses and hang in there, girl... You're bound to find your soulmate out there one day. Maybe it just takes time, so that you'll appreciate him more when he arrives! :)
642038
I didn't even finish reading your note, but from experience I would recommend ditching him... you deserve someone who can make up his mind and can love you 100%!! I had a fellow like that and I think he kept me around as security, so he wasn't alone and felt loved... don't be his love of last resort! Be strong and move on...
44991
First of all, he LIKES you. You used like, not love. Second, have you actually meet this guy face to face? 'cause if you didn't and he wants to marry you, it's kind of creepy, you know ... Are you sure he's gonna take you to "places"? What kind of places? Girl, grow up. If you're really into it, meet this guy first (in real life), get to know him first. Don't take a hasty decision. A sparrow in your hand worth much more than a crow sitting on a fence.
279084
HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!!!!!!   and there is nothing wrong with you!!!!  I'm sorry if this will hit you hard, but from what you are saying something is definetly wrong with this guy, and he is just using you!!   If he is telling you to get away, then you may need to make some Big changes with yourself and your baby
546279
Maybe he is hurting and still loves you and does not know how to let go.  You sure that he does not want to keep talking with you.  Did you ask.  I know you said that you said you both see other people but your not married and your maybe able to reignite and old flame.  :)
365697
He knows you love him dearly, he knows how you feel about him.  You write him a letter and purchased a ring for him.  Sorry, but you already did too much.  Stop immediately all these talks about your feelings and love.  Give him some room and see if he comes your way.  Seriously, you have to stop or he will run, run, run!
48433
Maybe he doesnt want to be with you anymore and is saying he does because he doesnt want anyone else to have you because you are attractive and a sweet person to be with. Dont let him talk down to you and make you change for him, change for yourself.
268808
sounds like a great guy. if you feel like you definatly want more then that give it a shot. i have been in your situation to the  point my parents even call him their surragate son and i'll tell you what he confessed how much he loved me after it was too late. now after marrying others and kids we will never be able to go back to that first innocent love we once had for each other.
137819
Katie before this get out of hand which its close you do not what to lose someone you love so please talk to him thats all he wants get it out in the open and let him responed and than you can carry on there is no perfect relationship there is ups and downs make if people love each other you can get over it and move on. Unless he run around on you than i understand but if this is not that he will be with someone else if he not with you i wish you both the best so you both can move on love is hard to find.
597927
im in a situation just like you ilove my guy to death but i feel isolated but ive been going out with him for 3 years. ive stayed with him by making him want me. i just did simple things like call him and tell him i just wanted to say hi and hear your voice so net i gotta go talk to you later and then i realize (on my ID) that he called me like 3 or 4 times he never leaves a full messge its either hey baby or hi and thats how he keeps me wanting him!\n       good luck!!!!
561622
Hi i did click on the link but question has been removed by Yahoo Answers i guess anyways i hope you did read my answer he loves u give him sometime after telling him what u want if he proposes great if not move on then god bless
171893
Take your time. There is no hurry to get married. If he isn't ready what good will that do you?  I can understand him wanting a job before he marries you. It makes him a good man not wanting to live off you. Slow down and enjoy your time with him right now, it will all work out okay........