My ex broke up wit me 6 months back and he came,but after he came back,i was da one who used to talk with him,text him,and wen i asked him to have a proper hangout in one of my texts,he didnt reply for 2 weeks and after 2 weeks he called up my bestfriend to restyle his hair,coz she's a black like my ex and knows how to deal with hair i guess,so i forced him for a reply and he said he had nothing to say to my idea.I broke up with him,Am i jealous?shud i have taken all that easy and wait for him?
214015
What?  I have no freaking idea what your question is anymore.  I am not even certain of who broke up with whom. I am not sure if you got back together again or what.
117419
wow i'm sort of in that situation now. not quite as far tho. well, didn't you two split for a reason? i think you should consider those reasons again and see how it might be different if you were to get back together again. another thing, he "bumped" into you. he didn't call you. could it be that he's trying to find an exit to his current unhappy relationship and he knows it's easy to get back with someone familiar? i would think hard before even allowing him back into your love life. to be on the safe side, it never hurts just to be friends. and don't ever seem too available. if he really wants you back, make him work for it! good luck.
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hey girl my ex boyfriend for 1year and a month he also went out with one of my friends when they were going out he relized that he should be with me just give the guy time and maybe you to will get back together just give him space and let him relize that you are the one for him
26414
Heh.\n\nHe prolly doesn't know how to act. Maybe he does want to be with you but feels uncomfortable. Sounds like there's prolly still some bad blood that has to do with the breakup from before.
184623
Just because things went wrong with his relationship with your friend doesnt mean it wont work out for you and him.  SHE could just be telling u things to make u not trust him so you dont go out with him.  NEVER EVER listen to other people!  always go on your own judgement and what he tells u himself!  She was all moddy because she is still hurting  from the break up.  So of course she will be moody and a little upset for awhile.  I say things could work for u and him as long as u stop listening to other people and judge him for himself!  Good luck to u
514983
He's not trying to make you jealous.  You're already jealous.  It's not your place to tell him anything about his girlfriend.  First of all, you don't even know if those rumors are true.  I know that you want something to be wrong with their relationship because you still like him.  You asked this question earlier and you didn't get the answers that you were looking for.  So you asked it again hoping that someone will make it okay for you to sweat your ex. The fact to the matter is...Your ex is in a relationship and there is nothing you can do about it.  Stop allowing your ex to flirt with you because it is only making matters worst for you.  When he flirts with you remember he has a girlfriend.  You are allowing him to have his cake and eat it too.\n\nMove on and find someone else.  This relationship is over.  Don't jump on his back  for rides it only makes you look easy.  He will think that he doesn't have to get back with you because you are acting easy.  Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free? The only person that is getting hurt is you.  I bet he's on the phone right now with his girlfriend so move on.
188096
Nope you're not a bad person.  I had a similiar thing happen, my ex calls me all the time too, we cannot be more than just social friends and I honestly don't feel pain or sympathy when he breaks up or fights with his new girlfriend.  I listen and say I'm sorry for him but I don't feel alot of sympathy.   When people hurt you like that by breaking up, you learn and grow and we've grown past our feelings for them and moved on.
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I think you should call him. But don't be like, "I made a mistake, I want you back." Because any normal person is not going to take you back & not have any grudges. He might be like, "Yeah, she want's me back, so now that I've got her, I'm going to make her suffer a little bit so she will not do this to me again. She made me hurt, I'll make her hurt." and although he may want you back just as much as you want him, he could ACT like he could care less & keep you hanging. Soooo, I would call him, ask him how he is doing, and start a nice conversation. Tell him that although you broke up with him, you still love him as a person & you want to be friends. Then let things maybe slowly grow back into a relationship & tell him after he's not mad & hurt anymore that you made a mistake. But you really can't listen to anyone but yourself, If you feel like you should tell him what a mistake you made now, do it. Everyone's relationship trials are different. And since no one knows this guy, no one on here will know how he will react except for you. So go by that... If things don't work out, or if he refuses to take you back, just remember it wasn't meant to be & it just means there is someone else out there even better. But before you do anything, you need to review why you dumped him in the 1st place, if your friends don't like him & say he is a jerk or something, try seeing thier side. But only you will know if he is right for you. I know a lot of people say my boyfriend is a jerk, but we have been together for 8 years and I KNOW he is not. Doubt and insecurities about you guys relationship will only make it end again. So make sure you resolve all issues before you get back together. Good luck!!!
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the slight possibility and the only now and again says something....he may want to get back with her, so just leave him to it...don't mean to sound bad when i say this but i think it's time to just move on...he has stated that he wants to be just mates with you...so respect him for being honest...you'll find someone else, but waiting around for him is a waste of time...he still has it for his ex
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do u care a lot about the guy ur with like u do now with ex bf? cause if u don't just dump him and go out with ur ex bf and make him happy again. ur ex bf prob. had deep feelings about u and u ruined it for  him and now he is upset about it. so i'd think it over if i were u.\n\nShorty
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Sadly and embarrassingly enough - I know that situation and have been on the girl side. I loved my new bf and just could bear the fact that my ex is just not noticing and forgetting me. Stupid enough I have been to start calling him and even meeting with him saying that I want his friendship. But really I just wanted him to be mine again even though I didn't really need him!!!\n\nBe careful women are fools!! It might not be the same situation, but based on what you said and what I've had it really looks like it!
135259
And we guys can't understand you girls...but anyways, there could be a number of reasons as to why he broke up with her, and him saying that he's bored of her, he sounds like a bastard to me. I don't think that's a very good reason, and it's probably not the reason he did, but then again i don't know the guy. He might have been interested in her at the beginning, just looking for a good time, but now he's found another girl who's  different, which he finds interesting, but will get bored with. Using "I got bored" is a cheap way out, and I'm sure he uses it on all kind of girls after he's had his "fun." Obviously he doesn't love her enough to stick with her, and to talk and say, "We could make more our relationsship more interesting." I say stay away from the guy, get over it, and move on.
116810
Maybe he is still friends with your ex.  Now that the big head is thinking again he may have some remorse.  He may have really just been trying to get his leg over as well.  If he doesn't call you, move on.  There are to many guys out there that would give you a bell after.  Go give one of them a try.  All the best.
103271
You missed your chance with him and now you are out of luck.  He has moved on and made his choice so let him go and find a single guy to chase after.  If he is doing it to just make you jealous then don't play his games because you deserve to be treated better.
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Usually a man will tell the woman when he is breaking up, but one time I was just blown off, and never heard from the guy again.  It was so weird because we had gone out, talked on the phone at least three times a day, never had a fight, and the last conversation we had was really normal.  Then one day he didn't call me back after I left a couple messages, and I never heard from him again.  Granted, it was a really new relationship, but it seemed to be heading somewhere.  I really hope he's in a coma or something.
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It could be either. Relationships are tricky. Especially when it's hard to break the chains between the two of you. If it's been over for 6 months though, and he has not asked to get back together with you, then he might just be looking for and craving the attention and good feelings that you give him. Remember, you are not his consolation prize. I would tell the guy to either shape up or ship out. I'm sure he did leave something great, - I'm also sure you deserve someone who knows what they want. My ex did this to me for a long time and I hung on because I still loved him very much - but he wasn't still in love, he just wanted the attention and affection that I gave him. He wanted me to keep his ego afloat. Stop giving this guy attention and see what he does. Then if he starts to call and come over, either don't let him, or tell him to make a choice. You need communication. Ask him what his intentions are.\nRespect,\n-laura
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Just give it time. I had a situation like that happen to me. I dated a girl for 2 years and 3 days after we broke up, her best friend kinda threw herself at me. No one wants that right after a breakup. I would have dated her where she to give me some time, at least a few weeks before jumping into a relationship again. Just give him some space and be there for him, if there are feelings there it will happen. If his feelings are not the same you will have to settle for being friends. Hope this helps.