my bf and i have been goin out 4 a month and a week and he is really nice 2 me but freaks out on my friends i am in highschool and need help
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you don't really have to choose between your bf and your friends, they belong to different parts of your heart, so to speak. but you do need to balance your priorities. sometimes your bf will need you more than your friends will and vice versa. good luck with the joggling act!
664947
Talk to him about it.  Tell him that you don't feel secure wit hthe way his "friends" look.  Explain that you love him and are jealous.
135380
At 2 months, relationships are generally at their best. You have just spent more time than usually together, and there seems to have been no problems... I think that your boyfriend is just shy: he feels comfortable around his friends, who he knows, but does not feel inclined to be loving and public in front of your friends, who he is not so familiar with. \nThink about it: if he were not proud of you and your relationship, he wouldn't have wanted to spend that much time with you, and he would not be so evident about your relationship in front of his friends. \nTalk to him: let him know you have noticed that behavior (maybe he hasn't), and ask them if there is a reason for it. It seems that the problem is not you, but his shyness. Good luck.
343659
Id say if your boyfriend doesn't like the fact that your Friends are the ones telling him of your problems then you need to open the communication lines at home and leave your Friends out of the mix!When your in a relationship there is only two people not two people there friends the neighbor the mailman the family and everyone Else just you two!Its obvious that the nosy Friends are causing a problem in your relationship and if its something that you want to save then you need to def work on leaving the friends opinions out! Just because he said he will never break up with you that doesn't mean anything  there are plenty of people who stand in a church b4 god and all of their family and Friends and say till death do us part and still end up divorcing 6 months down the road.Communication is a very important part of a relationship and its something you have to work on and constantly work at if you want things to work out there is no such thing as a perfect relationship they are give and take and that is the only way that one can last Both peoples feelings have to be considered hes told you how he feels now the balls in your court Show him that his feeling matter as well.The trust thing a whole other issue trust is earned and well I dont know that youve done anything to make him wonder otherwise but the smallest of things can hurt a persons trust for you and well unfortunatly you have to start over from square one and gain that trust all over again sucks i know Im going through the same thing and it blows but if you love him you do what it takes to make things work and if hes not worth it to ya then theres plenty of other fish in the sea and you move on to something better.. I hope that I was able to help you some I dont know how these things work but if you have access to my page feel free to message me if you need help again\n\nBrightest of Blessings to you\nWitchy
642759
maybe you are getting the things done your way. remeber two people being together is respect. Are you respecting him on the things he do. I mean maybe after school a group of friend is going to play basketball and you just want to do somethings else? I mean in a group event. of course your boyfriend wants to stay and hang out, but if you are like, "I want to leave, it is boring" which it is, but he still want to stay. you can't blame him. if you don't want to play go home first, have him walk you home or something than have him come back.
389685
You're still young! There isn't anything wrong with going three weeks without a boyfriend. Just enjoy this time with your friends, and I am sure a guy will come along eventually.
296689
ignore your friends and follow your heart ok chica when i got a bf he was so imature and my friends didnt like him all that matters is how you like him \ntake care chica \nmuch love
463475
Sounds like your not being a very good friend. You know boyfriends come and go but friends are here to stay. You need to pay more attention to your friends feelings. How about you make plans with her? or invite her along with you and your boyfriend? I'm positive she is jealous of all the time you spend with your bf. She probably feels neglected. If you want to keep your friend I suggest spending more time with her, and when your with her, DO NOT talk only about your boyfriend. Good Luck.
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your 14. you are too young to be t.o.t.a.l.l.y. committed to any guy. there is no problem with being inseperable. just make sure that you both have enough time to do other things and that you arent hurt when the other makes plans without you. you are bf/gf, not related. make sure your friends and his friends have no problem with this as well.\n\ngood luck with him! he sounds special :)
580782
You need time for yourself.  This is very normal.  Many people, when they get into a relationship they think they have got to be with that person all the time, and they have to change everything that the other person does not like.  But what you need to do, is keep time for yourself and your friends.  So you can be yourself.  You are not always going to like or want to do the same thing all the time, so go out with friends and hang out and have fun without him, so when you are together you are not wanting to go do something else.  Plus, absence makes the heart go fonder.  Now, if he is not wanting to spend anytime with you, then there is a problem.
80740
I've been there and what i did was just start talking to him that way you don't feel so weird to be around him. we both are dating other people and we just talk as normal people b-cuz we realized we cant be as close Friends as we were before but we still hang out with the same people and its better to be talkin to each other than not talkin at all.
472695
I take it you are in high school. You have a very long life to go and thinking you just cant make it over a high school crush is ridiculous. Everything happens for a reason and if it is meant for you to go to different schools then so be it. I not thinking that it is to serious if he doesn't want to admit that you are going out and you cant even talk about the fact you might be dating. I suggest that you go your separate ways and enjoy life as it happens and if it ends up working to be with this guy than so be it.
360432
My girlfriend and I were having similar arguments.  She thought that I chose parties over her.  We were dating for 5 years and took a break for a couple months and recently got back together.  It is easy for your friend to be influenced by his friends, and his friends (especially if they are single) would like nothing more than for him to break up with you so they could have their "buddy" back.  Your boyfriend needs to stand up for you in front of your friends, or else they are going to walk all over you in front of you and behind your back.  You need to talk to your boyfriend and see if he is willing to stand up for you.  If he is then definitely give him another chance.  If he doesn't want to hear it from you then you should probably look elsewhere.  Knowing he will stand up for you will make your relationship stronger, but if you think he is too easily influenced by friends you are in dangerous territory.  The best of luck to you.  \n\nKen Holmgren
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Well you got to  reassure him that well you have been with him this long and you only like them as far as friends and nothing else that youre happy to be with him and happy to be only their friends after that just keep him close by when he meets them! You just gotta hope it works out because a lot of boyfriends aren't always cool w/ their g/f having guy friends
98486
hun, if you like him then go out with him. Do you. If they are your true friends the will accept your relationship. Dont give up on what you want because your friends dont want you to go out with him. Its your life and you only live it once. Good luck.
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Hey, I think I can appreciate your answer but try following what I have been doing and I guess most of the people are happy with me.\n1. Remember you can not make every one happy all the times, Moral: Make some people happy some times, just prioritize your selves and your time.\n2. Put all focus to the people with whom you are: dont think about ur BF when u r with friend and vice versa.
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I have been in a similiar situation. The "pops" will not stay ur friend forever your best friends WILL! it is okay to hang out with them but not so much that ur best friends r jealous. Mayb try to balance ur time until u find out want u want. U could try having a party with both of them invited and c how it goes. It could work and b fun but b careful.