i want to know how yall ask a guy out so that i can get ideas
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I'm a guy. If a girl just came up to me and asked if I wanted to go out, I would be ecstatic. \n\nJust say "Hey, I think you're attractive and I'd like to take you to dinner and a movie"\n\nHe'll like it. I swear.
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be yourself the ppl that like you for you are always worth it and just ask him practice infront of a mirror or ask one of your guy mates to help you out like practice on him and stuff and ask for ideas
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well i would just flirt with him and get him to ask you out, if he doesnt in like a week, then ask him out, by talking to him and not making it like a proposal.  relax! GOOD LUCK:)!!
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If you are a girl looking for advice: Walk up to him and say 'would you like to go out with me?'\n\nIf you are a guy wanting to know if a girl likes him: Walk up to her and say 'would you like to go out with me?'\n\nIf you are neither, and am only trying to see what kind of crazy responses you get: Hire someone to kidnap her and throw her in a lake, once in you should jump in and save her, while sitting on the beach heaving and sweating and cuddling together so you don't freeze, look her in the eyes and say 'let's have sex'
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if you see a guy you like, strike up a conversation. i've been able to at least get one date using this method. if you are as you describe, then you got two advantages over me, 1. you're attractive and 2. as a woman it's so unusual that you are sure to have a good conversation that could lead to something more.\n\ngood luck.
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ask him what he likes .....\n\ntell him what you like ...\n\n try different things\n\n\n\nSURPRISE HIM
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Well just be more of a flirt than what you are being to him and to see if he wants to ask you out he starts to fiddle with his fingers or some object then from there it just takes patience and wait until he thinks the time is right. Also he will stare into your eyes sometimes when he is talking to you.
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Wherever you two see eachother the most would be a good time to ask him. Make sure you aren't surrounded by all of his friends, but include some of yours for support. If you like movies, bring up the last movie you saw, play off of his response...then suggest going to see one and exchange numbers, this way you can set things up privately. Now, if you meant asking a guy to be your boyfriend, you might want to boost up his ego and confidence when the two of you are alone. Let him know that you could really see yourself being with someone like him. If he's smart, he will bite the bait and end up asking you out. Now he knows for sure you will say yes...he probably wasn't too sure. Men don't get it sometimes!\nIf that doesn't work...Ask him if he has a girlfriend, and does he want one...If he says No to the first part and Yes to the second, then tell him that You want to be his. \n\nThis should seal the deal!
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if you are nervous ask face to face, first ask him for his email address.  If he asks why you need his email , just say you have something to send to him.  Then ask him out by sending him email.
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clues are hard to understand...\njust either ask him out, tell him u like him, or ask one of his close friends
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Can I suggest something?\n\nHow about the next time you meet him, use your sense of humour to have a good chat with him first. See how he responds and then base on his behaviour toward you, you then decide the next move.
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your flirting! its cute ask him to hang out!
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i just go ahead and ask him out
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all right, i'll be honest. i am one of those that say just ask him. the fact is is that i have never done this unless i KNOW that the guy will say yes. otherwise, i flirt with them and wait for them to ask me.\ni am now older, and wiser-i hope, and, i see that i should've asked SOME of them out but, i didn't.\nit was easiest for me to ask them out to "eat". i was always scared to use to word "date" so, i didn't.\n\nPS I KNOW that it really works because it does with us girls!  Wait!  Guys don't use the word "date" much, either!  It just seems that after a while of hanging out you are without knowing irt.  It just happens.
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ask the guy out. you might regret later if you don't
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here'z what i do i ask a friend to ask a guy out for me and it workz every time you should try it.
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Some pretty cynical answers thus far.  Show interest in him, ask questions, smile.  Be yourself.