they (meaning many ) would watch your every mood . Some times I feel like saying something and sometime I act like I don't see them . It's like my god get a life . It's makes me feel so uncomfortable just to walk out my door .
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thats  why  i  like  the  place  where we   live,  i  hate   places  where  you  live  right  on  top   of   people. we  love  the   country. rural  living. thats  the  life   for   me. sound  like   green  acres  dont  i. thats  ok.  i  love   it.
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yeah that happens to me all the time \ni talk to my "friends" but they dont seem to be a "friend"\nor even family\ni feel like i cant trust my friends or family\nwith your friends or family you feel like your not connected to them even though your talking and they are right there\nthey dont treat or look at you as a family\nthey look at you like an outsider and that sometimes makes you feel not wanted so you end up getting used to it that you really dont care. you become very numb to it. \nppl like that wont care about you or care about your issues.\ni have dealt with that personally almost all the time\n\nhey wanna be my friend ?
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Yes, it can get on your nerves sometimes. People have a tendency to make the experiences they are having, so much bigger than anyone else's. We all have the same feelings we just react differently according to our personalities. Let's face it, some are not as strong as others. Just bear with them, give them support if you can. If your problems are overwhelming you at the time, back away quietly and tend to your own needs at the time.  So sorry you feel this way. Hope it gets better.
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Yep.  What is it with people that say "well, did you talk to him" or " no" or whatever.  i mean please, can't people see the big picture?  the guy was supportive cause he felt bad and guilty, not because he was genuinely concerned.  Someone who genuinely cares and is concerned makes sure that you lock your doors every night, that  you're okay every day.  I repeat, EVERY DAY.  Not selectively on weekends!
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Some people feel lonely even when they're surrounded by tons of other people.I sort of feel that way too.There can be a million people around you and you feel that no one in that group understands how you feel deep down inside.They think they do but they don't and you can't find anybody to confide in.It's a horrible feeling.
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you want to feel like you fit in with your friends, but you feel somehow like they are being fake or are fake friends (not true friends who will stick with you through thick and thin)\nyou've been doing something that aren't quite 'you' with these friends or they have been talking/thinking about things that you aren't sure you agree with.\n\nyour home is your true self. people in the planes and aliens are your 'friends'. bombing you and shooting you - trying to hurt you and your true self. running away from true self = roof of a building. you want to be true to yourself and are having a hard time finding you to do that with.\n\n'your friends' could also be your alter-ego.\n\ncreme... said it more elequently, but had help. this came from my head (and lots of life experiences)
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Right here!! I was feeling alone on Y! Answers too. I get what you're saying. Not alone as in being alone, but feeling that there aren't many witnesses on answers. I'm so glad to have found some though!! I know what you mean about being sad that ppl are so mean, but they just don't know better. What is however sad is the apostates on here who know better. That's the depressing part to think that ppl can leave Jehovah:( But just be happy that you aren't in that sad situation.   Much love!
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I've read lots of responses of that kind.  They're a dime a dozen.  You mustn't let vicious people upset you or cause you to have hard feelings toward others.  Be a lighthouse and show others how reasonable and imperturbable you can be.
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They must want to be like you and can't be them selves. I'm not sure I could handle that kind of behavior.
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They are afraid to upset you or make you feel bad.  They also probably heard gossip or wrong information about your breakdown.  The best thing to do is act like you usually do and they will stop acting weird after a while.
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Totally know what you mean...  Depending on what you're telling them, they may be finding it too difficult or awkward to deal with on the spot, and so their natural reaction is to walk away.  And there's a fair chance they just don't know what to say to you and feel really really awkward.  Also, keep in mind that, while being told people are going to pray for you can get annoying really fast, that they say it because they want you to know they care, and they generally don't know how else to say it.\nHope things work out for you, and I hope you find someone you can share your thoughts with when you want to, and I hope you get over your depression and feel better.
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Most people who act like that are using it defensively because they're jealous.  So don't feel bad.  They're ugly people, inside and most likely out.  Only go if you want to go to events/occassions.  Otherwise, don't waste your time and don't give them the pleasure of being able to make you feel like crap.  If they say something nasty to you just smile and nod and say "Thanks for letting me know...I had NO idea..."  and then walk away.  They want a reaction out of you and if you respond politely and sweetly they'll either stop or get really pissed off.  My mother always taught me "Kill 'em with kindness"...and it works almost every time!
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I am sorry if you are feeling rejected by people. You might be suffering from mild depression or mild anxiety because you seem very sensitive to other peoples opinions. Or you might be sensitive or shy. Or you might be young or immature for your age. (not meaning that in a bad way) everyone is different and every body's life style and circumstances are different and your life style affects how you grow up and at what level you mature.\n\nWhen someone says something that hurts your feelings or offends you personally; You should say "I beg your pardon" in a firm but polite manner.\n\nThis means "that wasn't a very nice thing to say and you should think about why you said it" (in a short and more affective way).\n\nThis is what my husband told me to try when I was more like you are now and it seems to work.\n\nPeople are funny that way; they give you more respect when you show you respect yourself and stand up for yourself.
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sad to say but it probably happens more often than people think. i know people say an eye for an eye, but what really does that solve. i know i would probably feel different if something ever happened to my girls but i don't really feel it solves anything
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ummm....why are u allowing yourself to feel that way and make a next person (regardless of who it is) affect your life and the things that are important to you...People often can't realize the concept that how you feel about something that happens and how u react to it is entirely your choice...
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I think it may mean that you seem unapproachable.  My gosh, all these women around you and interested in you and no one has shown it?  Are are you blind?  Maybe that's it.\nI have often heard that I seem unapproachable.  Confident to a fault?  When I worked on being more "friendly" and let it be known I was available, I got a lot better results.  I was not a player and did not assume people around me were checking me out.  Deciding to get more flirty opened up a whole new playground for me!
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i believe in what ever u said. it had happened many a times.  sometimes i feel very down and later i come to know that the person whom i love is not feeling well. i can be anything. I could hear my mom scolding me if i 'm late to reach home. i get this uneasy feeling as if something is not just right.  Regarding the phone call i think it works. I definitely believe that there is some sort of communication happening even far far away