Their is this one girl that is always on my man but he DONT like her (but you kno how boys cant juss let a girl that is on him go)I told her the next time i see her talking to my man i was gon f**k her up & she continues to talk to him but my b/f says their just friends and i KNOW thats all they are.\nWat should i do??Are relationship is great and everything besides dat one B%@?h.
202703
Fighting isn't going to solve the problem, you either trust him or you don't. If he is true to you then you know where he stands.
56392
are you guys even together? I mean if your not then GO FOR THE OTHER GIRL! because this one is obviously playing games or not interested. If she is talking to other guys and you are together and you think its more than just polite conversation get rid of her its not worth the trouble
302881
oooooo k...........talk to your bf see whats going on. thats weird though, has she told you why she disided to talk to this girl all suddenly? lets just hope shes not a hypocrit(however you spell that word)good luck! TALK to her!
215350
Well if she is your best friend (I'm assuming that is what b.f stands for), and she did that to you, knowing how you felt about him, then she obviously doesn't regard friendship like you do! The joke is on you unfortunately! I would suggests you redefine the quality of what a true friend is and is not! Of course your slowness to be to the point with this guy didn't help. Your friend did what you were hesitant to do and succeeded. You partially have yourself to blame. If this guy is a flirt, it is probably just as well she got him. Flirtation tends to lead to jealously and mistrust. You will see it unfold in front of your eyes, then you can thank your lucky stars that she got stuck with him!
281434
Don't get too involed,just tell her that the only reason that the other grrl likes her man is because she's jealouse. Just let her know that it doesn't matter if they stay together or break up. If the other grrl has a problem with it then she's not a true friend.
284277
you seem like such a lovely guy and to be honest.. from what you have said   that girl does not deserve you.. You deserve someone who will love you as much as you love her.. and im sure she's out there somewhere.. it seems like this girl is keeping you on standby just incase things don't work out with the other guy..and even if she does loose this guy she will have another on standby sooner or later...she knows your too good for her and she's taking advantage of it!!please do yourself a favour and start the process of letting her go now cause it will take time .. and time heals!! and the one thats right for you will come along after you have healed from this girl.You derserve better and i think you know it !!It's not worth loving someone who doesn't do the right thing by you hun!It eventually makes your heart turn cold!
241934
roll with it. everyone has personal do's and dont's. rules are made to be broken. i say that too at first. if this dude really likes you he wont want to see his girl goin out with other guys.
526188
are you friends with her? if so, then maybe you could hang out one day, just you two, and tell her you enjoy her friendship and dont want to ruin that, but you feel like she is a wonderful person and deserves much more than the guy can give her. see how she reacts and then maybe you could let her know, that if she ever needs someone you will be there. but just so you know... if you are friends, this could ruin it. but the guy sounds like a dick so SOMEONE needs to say something.
489334
Honey, this girl will get you into trouble, it sounds like this girl wants you for her own!! my advice steer clear!  I have had a similar situation with a Friend of mine, she had a girl that hung around her like a bad smell, and she hated me, she treated my Friend like a minion and called her one!  I must admit she was a bitch 2!!  I think you might just need to sit this girl down and talk to her, perhaps she doesn't realize that her behavior is just a little OTT. The jealousy thing tho, this is harder to resume, but you have to ask yourself, why does she do that?? could she be insecure?  my feeling on this one from reading your little statement is that she is making you unhappy and that is wrong, why should she ruin your life, you are spending time thinking about her and your other Friend, there are times when being a little selfish, taking a step back and saying- 'whoa' this is not about 'me'...is good, do something for you, personally if she is as nagging and annoying as she sounds, you need to click your fingers to the left, click your fingers to the right and click your fingers to the left, (practice this now) its cool!!! and say to this girl- I don't need this drama' and walk away, because when push comes to shove all that matters is you! xxx
661081
My b-friend and his ex talked the whole first year him and I were together.  She too broke up with him and I knew she really hurt him.  It drove me crazy too.  1)  I had to decide if I trusted my b-friend or not.  If I didn't trust him then I shouldn't b with him.  \n2) If the two of them ended up together then him and I weren't meant to be.  \nWe've been together for a little over a year, the ex has faded quickly.  Just hang in there, she's an ex for a reason.
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i think you should talk heart-to-heart with your friend why she has started disliking your boyfriend when she earlier liked him. MAY BE she herself had feelings about him and this is the way she is expressing them after you have got together with him. this is perfectly normal and anyone would react that way. i think you should jus leave things like that. i am sure she'll get over these feelings on her own. just give it time.
411921
I never got that whole if I date him no one can. if you guys are over, and you agreed to see other people then get over it, your not a very good friend if you wont let her have a chance at happiness. I don't see anything wrong with it if she was a good friend, but if she just stared at you and asked you why you were mad, that obviously tells you she's kind of a jerk, she obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings, considering you just told her you were still in love with him, if I started dating my friends ex I would have at least shown that I was sorry for causing any pain, but some thins cant be helped, such as holding back feeling for a guy, dang,...  then I'm sorry but if I were you I would have brought her down. keep in mind though that if you guys are supposed to be together you will and if he wanted to see other people then maybe you deserve better, unless it was your Idea in with case, WHAT ARE YOU BITCHING ABOUT. its not fun but remind yourself of 2 things first of all that she deserves the chance at him, and second of all that you may still have a chance of getting back together with him. I got back together with mine.  Good Enough?
147844
well does she love him? if she does then they should stay togetheR! but if he treats her like shit then no they shouldnt be together~ give her that advice but dont tell her to do ANYTHING! just let her know that then tell her its her choice and make sure she knows you support her in whatever choice she makes!~
377646
If he isn't into his girl, then that sure says a lot about him. I wouldn't worry about hurting your friend's feelings, just tell her. She will be hurt more once she finds out the truth about what a jerk he is. You said you are interested in him? Why? He knows you're taken and you're happy with the one you are with. I would stay where you are and forget about this other guy if I were you.
149869
You dont need to be the one to bitch her out, your boyfriend does! tell your boyfried that he needs to explain to her that he already has a girlfriend and doesnt want any part of being in a relationship with this girl. If you get in on it, she will keep doing this stuff either for attention, or out of jealousy, that your involved. After your boyfriend confronts her (which you should be there with him so she cant say anything else about you) then just ignore her. give her time to calm down and to stop calling your boyfriend. After a little while, if she still doesnt get the point, you might want to contact the police and explain that you already tried to tell her nicely to leave him alone and he even got his number changed and shes still doing stuff. Next time she text's your boyfriend, saying sexual things, save those messages, and it can be used against her as harrasment. Just dont do anything bad like get into a fist fight with her, or be the one to throw the first punch, because then she can complain to the police about that. \n\n\nGood Luck!
316143
HELL NO, Do you want another guy touching your lady? I wouldn't. What the hell is up with people these days over the 3 sums? I like it with me and my partner and NOONE else. But that is up to you. You have to live with the fact that your g/f wants to be with another man. What if she like it or him? Will you be willing to have another? I dont
642363
From what you said it seem to me what went on with buddies of mine when we were young and stupid. I have had buddies that could not stand their girls. And when the sex got boring it was time to bail. If they heard rumor from the girl's posse that she was thinking of dumping him, or that she had dumped him and he was not told yet. they would do a 360 turn and be the most charming you ever seen. To get her liking them again or take them back. Then they DUMPED HER. So, the official story is that SHE did not dump me, I dumped her. I think that is what he did. She came back, he had the power. And he used it. He was never really into her so much as to be the one to turn on and off the tap. She lost. She better just move on.