This girl that i love moved to nevada and shes her on spring break she has the chance to move back this summer but is afraid to leave her mother what should i do?She likes me to but i don't know how to confess my love to her.
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You should jus tell her how you feel, are you actually in a relationship with this girl? The way that you have to look at it is if you tell her that you do love her and she feels the same, maybe you'll get in2 a relationship! if this girl doesnt move back and decides to stay where she is - doesnt mean that you cant still be together. Me and my boyfriend were living real close in the same city, now hes living in a completely different part of the country - we're working out tho, and you could visit her aswell as her visiting you right?
536294
heres to an old addage (SP?)... if you love something... let it go... if it comes back to you... it's yours.... \nIf she wants to study overseas... and you put the brakes on that... she may wind up resenting you for that... (possibly for the rest of her life)... Sometimes to love someone... you have to do things that you don't like doing... you have to put their best interests in mind... \nI can't tell you how much you love her... I don't know... but I do know that you don't want to pressure her into staying... that's a decision she should make entirely on her own...
660344
If you really love her then what's holding you back. Who's to say that she won't want to move with you? If you don't think a long-distance relationship would be worth trying then just break up with her. But if you think there's any chance of you guys staying together and sticking through this then keep her.
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Thanks for saying you were 25.  It is difficult to know what you need to do if you know you have to move away.  You realize the closer you get, the more pain you feel when you have to leave.  I have been through it myself.  I bit the bullet and poured out my heart and told her how I felt.  It didn't get me anywhere, but I felt better about it.  It is best to lay all the cards out on the table and take the consequences, than to regret that you passed up the chance later on.  A nice quite dinner and a little snuggle time without a crowd is all it takes to get a guy to open up.
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:) hmm, a tough question, this one. I can't really say that she is supposed to leave her boyfriend because of you, or, that it is wrong for her to do so when she does love you and have no more feelings for her boyfriend.\n\nHowever, you have only known her for a little while. Don't you think you might just be expecting overly by speculating that she might consider ending her current relationship with her boyfriend?\n\nI only suggested that you should tell her how you felt about her as I know she will respect your determination/courage to let her know. Frankly, I didn't expect that your feeling towards her was strong enough to the point of contemplating whether or not she wants to be with you in the end.\n\nI don't really approve of this but who am I to judge since this is between you and her. No one can guarantee the outcome of both of your future. There's also a possibility after the both of you declare as couples, once you are apart, this sort of thing might happen again and she would leave you for another guy. First of all, imagine you're in the boyfriend's shoe; how would you feel if your girl left you for a guy whom she'd met only few months back?\n\nOn the other hand, it is her choice really, if she does sincerely loves you and her feelings towards her boyfriend is a thing of the past. I believe she is matured enough to think for her own good.\n\nBy the way, don't pressure her to choose between her boyfriend and you. It won't seem fair to anyone.\n\nI hope it helps.
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No matter what you do, DO something. Don't let her be the one that got away. I can relate. I didn't do something. She got away. It might be hard to say something to her after so long, but would you rather let it eat away at you for another 6 years? The rest of your life? Don't pass it up. Maybe reading that article was fate's way of saying "DO IT". Good Luck.
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You really slept with her mom? Did you? if you did, pls do keep this a secret and never let it leak out in whatever way. And, if you would forgive me, stop seeing her mom. It is not good for the friendship and yourself.\n\nBeing lesbian is nothing wrong at all. Just meet up with your own lesbian clicks and who knows, you may find someone you like...which may turn to love in the near future.\n\nCheers! =)
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no matter what your mom thinks follow your heart. my man left me last yr. i moved me and my daughter into my parents house a month later my man came back. my parents were supportive even tho they didnt think it was a good idea. now everyone is happy with each other. follow your heart! good luck!!
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Ok, so you live elsewhere other then california. Your girl's IN cali, but you like to flirt with other girls from the same state she's in but you're not? Doesn't sound like you have a problem with long distance relationships. Sounds like you just don't want to be in one with your current girl. Let her know so she can decide for herself whether she wants to be with you. You owe her that much. 'Sides...statistically...she's probably doing the same thing. Good luck!
673494
The only person that has that answe is her. Go see her and ask her what is up. Ever thought maybe she doesn't want to leave her state. Maybe she would like for you to move there. Good luck!
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write her a letter...let her know how you feel. But this could be something that she needs to do. You will be okay if you move. Life will go on and who knows you might meet some really great people in NC. Do not call her.
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If you guys really love each other you can wait. Keep talking to her and when you get enough money, go see her. I know it's hard not being with the person. you love, but if it's meant to be it will happen eventually. In the mean time talk to her, write to her, and you can chat w/ cam
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i think you should tell that girl that you love her before you go. it's different telling her in person than telling her that you do love her when you're in another country, say using a phone or in an e-mail. if you don't tell her now, you'll regret that the rest of your life so you should just come up to her and see what comes to your mind. trust me, it's better to be spontaneous than plan out what you're going to say (it usually doesn't work out fine when you rehearse the things you want to say). fix yourself up. wear something nice. bring flowers or anything that's going to remind her of you. then just speak. talk to her about how you feel. yeah, you'll have a lot of butterflies in your stomach but you'll feel much better when you've said you love her. although if she loves you back, it's going to be difficult for her, and for you since you're leaving. having a long distance relationship is one of the most difficult things to maintain in this world. good luck!
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okay you can't seriously be inlove with her maybe just obsessed with her. You are in high school and she is  college. She of course is going to be with someone else over there especially since you both haven't even met yet. You are like a play toy to her who she can talk to when she is lonely. Save your self from a real heartache and find someone in your home town. Don't let yourself be miserable over something you have no control over being miles and miles away. Or if you truely mean what you said about you would do anything for her then take a vacation and fly to meet her and really see if she is worth being with in a distant relationship. good luck!
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Might be fun or, at least interesting, to persue online. I have a friend online and I have pretty much the same relationship, as you do with Alice, so I know where you're coming from. \nIs she into girls, besides you? Is she coming to your state for college b/c you're there? You said, "possible that she's coming", which means you may not get to see her? Can you wait a whole 11+ months for her to "possibly" show up? No, I'd definately do the online thing till you can be together. Maybe you girls will find out eventually that you were just meant to be soul mates and best friends, and not lovers. Maybe you were meant to be together. Maybe you two will end up leaving a trail of broken guy's hearts everywhere you go. Being in college, and not being tied down (ie boyfriend) this could be your oppurtunity for a once in a lifetime, amazing experience. \nI'd definately speak to her (yea, like you dont already! lol) and find out her feelings on this matter. Dig deep, and see what she thinks...\nGood luck, and I wish you (and "Alice") all the best!!!\n;o)
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tell her how you feel. maybe the two of you can work it out.
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Keep in contact with her. Let her know you care about her.\n\nAs a girl who's in the opposite situation (leaving the guy I like) I know how much it would mean to me.\n\nPS My email is orange.camels@hotmail.com, I'd love to help you learn Japanese.