Okay, I'm 20-year-old and my beloved girlfriend is 18-year-old. She always wants to have sex, sex, and more sex... is it allright? \n\nAt first, I thought that I have no problem with it and I don't mind at all. \nWell... is 4-5 times everyday too much? Or should we do it more? \nI don't know what's wrong with me, I always keep up my "performance" with her, so that everytime She asks me to "do", i just come over and "satisfy" her. (That doesn't mean I'm her sex slave. I also enjoy our intimacy...)\n\nLook, am I weird or something? I mean, I DO enjoy my intimate relationship with her and as long I make her happy, I'm rather pleased also. But why do I just feel quite fine after doing it 4-5 times everyday (and I still have stamina to do it several times more, that's why sometimes my girlfriend ask me to make love again, again, and again!)? I don't notice it until some of you said that's incredible!\n\nA questions from an Idiot Savant... me.
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there's nothing wrong with having sex multi-times a day it goes to show you that you do have a very healthy active sex life. its normal but than again we are all different some like it less than others visversa.
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Frankly, I don't see what the issue is.  My question to him would be:  "Do you NEVER masterbate?"  to which I doubt he could say that he never does.  It's the same thing.  he should be glad that he has someone who enjoys the aspects of being a sexual woman.  He shouldn't feel threatened by it.  Maybe you could introduce other toys (ones that get used on him) and make your sex life with him more adventuresome.  It's meant to be fun.  Why is he so insecure about it?  It's definitely not as if you were screwing another man.  Good luck, and enjoy your sexuality.
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Nothing wrong with all the time, unless she has a low sex drive in which case that may be asking way too much.\n\nBest to discuss it with her ask her what a good number of frequency is
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Honey, I am 28 yrs. and have been with my fiance for a total of 10 years now. In the beginning, we did have more sex than we do now. How long have you two been together? I totally disagree that it means you are not in love with him. I have more love for my man every year that passes by, even though now we aren't intimate like before. Sure, we love to be with eachother, it's just not the most important thing on our list to do. We have grown to be totally comfortable with that and it doesn't mean there is something wrong...that's my opinion anyways. You should try new and exciting things, even if it is just a laugh with eachother.
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Your question is more like asking: how many times a day you drink  water?  some days you drink 1 or 2 glasses some days more in an avrage normal day.\nhaving sex is something like that depends on your partner situation and his desire. as well as his lifestyle. if he spends at home most the time, he can have more time to have more sex , but if he has to be out most the time, then he wont have sex as much as when he is staying home , DUH! ( unless he pleases himself outdoor.  J/K):)).  \none very effective thing i foundout about having sex is, partner's desire of having sex. if she is willing to have sex more than he does, then she can push him to have more sex and if she is not really active then the guy should go play with him self. so that also does effects the number of times of having sex.\none more thing that can be effective as well , is the emotional stress that both partners are going through. some guys start having more sex when they having more trouble and stress in life , so that's their way of releasing their stress.\nso my point is you can't really put a number on it. to me  3 times a day is ok , for someone else 3 times per week might be normal.
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it's your life, and you should feel fine doing whatever you feel like doing. it's noones buisiness what you do in your sex life. good luck!
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sex, for me, is a very sacred thing.it's only done when u both love each other.actually, there were many times that i & my boyfriend were together.i'm a female & as myself, when i'm with my boyfriend, i just feel like being with him.i don't care where we go or what we do.i don't even care if we don't have money to spend when we're together.what matters to me most is the time we're together, coz this soon will become memories bet.us, & it's healthy.even if he's been my boyfriend for about 3 yrs.,i don't invite him to make love.i just wait for him to say it 1st.when he does, then we do it..maybe u talk to ur gf about this issue.tell her that making love is with someone u love is normal.but make her understand that it's not always like that.it's not even the most basis of love.i mean it's a matter of showing love in other ways like showing u care for the person u love.tell her that the what makes a relationship bet.two people stronger are the memories u are together, & i don't mean having sex all the time.it's more than that.i know u know what i mean.sex is only for physical aspect, but the showing of the person that u care for him a lot is something most valuable & priceless.it's something not all can offer, especially when it's true.
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my question is her virginity a trophy or something you admire and respect? That question should give you the answer and also remember that sex is driven by your desired is selfish, but with love (respect, responsibility, honesty and integrity) from both parties with true commitment is unselfish and a bond that will strengthen your relationship to each other. All I can say is don't use her for your gain, ok!
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I dont see the problem...You really cant habe too much sex,I just cant have enough too and so does my woman,we enjoy,every minute,every position,every kinky detail!But the thing is that we're together for almost 7 years,how long have you been together for?When(if) the lust evaporates,suddendly one of you will get suspicious.Is she/he seeing someone else?is he/she getting bored?If you work your way around it youll be fine but questions that are oftenly asked,and seldomly answered could harm your relationship.
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so you only want it once a night?\n\nseems  reasonable to me at your ages!\n\nmaybe have one night a week where you both try NOT to have it - thats a sure fired way to want it the other 6!!!
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hmmm thats hard to say, maybe shes like a lot of women and doesnt really have a strong sex drive, or flat out just doesnt enjoy it.  I on the other hand could have sex on a daily basis.. well depending on wether or not there was compatability... good luck
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Yea!!  i most definetly agree!\n\nI dont know why ppl think that having a lot of sex (monogomus) is a bad thing. It encourages you to be more weight/body smart- dampers the depression/headaches you might be expierencing... hell it even takes away mentrual cramps. I do it in the daily, sumtymes multiple times--- and im the one jumping on my boyfriend to take a ride...lol....\n\nso saddle up girls and practice your reverse cowgirl... sex is officially one of the best things to happen to man kind!\n\n\n( ALWAYS USE PROTECTION- BE SAFE AND WATCH OUT FOR YOURSELF AND THE ONE YOU LOVE/INTIMATE WITH)\n\n**Raises glass.. cheers!\n\nKC
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There's nothing wrong. But it all depends on both of your age. If you are 20+ and planning to live together, then I think Sex increases your level of intimacy and you will become more closer than before.\n\nBut if you are still in school, then probably you both are doing the right thing and leave sex as something you will explore when you are "there"...\n\nHaving sex, for the sake of "i have done it too" is toooo childish.. \n\nAs someone said above, both of ya sit n have a talk about it.. Im sure u guys will work it out.\n\n.:Fishie:.
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As many times as you both feel the need and are able to. \n\n It's funny how different people always ask this question.  I always think what makes the difference if the average is 2 times a week and you want it 5.  ( or your partner) wants it 1.  What ever you two feel, Is right!  Just do it and please yourself and your partner.  It really doesn't matter if you are below average, average, or above average.
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I think it's great you two have such a close and trusting relationship. It's definitely not for every couple, but you are obviously not the only ones out there. Make sure both partners are comfortable and listen to one another.... Have at it, be careful of std's and such....Wow such trust you guys have.
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There's a number of variables to consider...Age and physical fitness, stress on the job, in the home or health related issues. In general, posters claiming that they want it as often as possible are generally correct. But what's 'possible' will vary from man to man. Most men can attain an erection and sustain sex to orgasm once daily at least through their 40's. But sex is as much about the mind as it is the body, and sometimes familiarity can breed contempt, as the saying goes.\n\nMen's hormonal levels drop over the years as well...just as womens hormones change over time. These drops first occur in the mid 20's, and slowly continue over the next several decades. This can also (negatively) affect sex drive. Certain health conditions can affect performance ability, especially some vascular conditions and spinal surgery or injury; which would affect either the ability to get and maintain an erection from a blood standpoint, or the same ability from a nerve or 'feeling' standpoint.\n\nHow often should a healthy man who loves you and finds you exciting and alluring want to have sex with you? The answer remains as often as possible!\n\nIf you've been in a steady physical relationship for a year or more, and your partner is over 30 years old, don't be surprised to see sex slipping to 2-3 times a week. In the 40's and 50's, it's relatively normal for sex to go down to 1-2 times per week. And an occasional bout of absitnence is not unusual, particularly if there's some stress outside the bedroom that's affecting his mind. Remember, there's almost as much going on with the mind as with the body where sex is concerned!\n\nHope this helps a bit!
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If youre having sex 15 times a day, your girlfriend must have an asbestos f*nny! She'd be seriously hurt by now. Def stop with the laxatives, thats just downrught cruel. Your best bet is to speak to your girlfriend and point out that sex doesnt necessarily mean love. lots of issues here man!