she givesme her phone # all the time but when we talk she only talks about her husband
209124
stay away from her, she's bad news.
520530
You need to be honest with her and tell her how you feel. It's easier over the phone rather than face to face.
545185
ask her about items, start asking her where the shampoo is and random stuff. That is how I met my husband...He came through my line at the register 3-4 times a day, he didn't say much but ask me how I was doing, where some things were and then would leave..but back into the store instead of out the door..he repeated this for about 2 weeks. Then one day he went to some other girls line and I realized that I was a bit jealous. I hunted him down and found him in the stationary isle gave him my number and haven't been able to get rid of him for 4 years! Good luck, just be sure to stay on the "normal" side..very fine line you could be considered a stalker.
111985
i think this is the start of friendship..and maybe she is doing job or something like this..so when she busy she dosnt accept your call because she wants to talk to u easily not in a front of anyone...she wants to talk to u alone ON PHONE...when u called her and she dosnt reply..it means that she remove herself to somewhere so she can talk to u easily..well there r alot of reasons too, i dont know the rest of all, i know only this reasion because sometimes u know girl/guy dont like to talk in a front of people on phone..i had this problem too but not now...
272085
OK, in the perfect world, if you want to have a healthy marriage, you should not contact this other woman and just go on living your every day life. And that is just fine and dandy, if only your mind didn't keep drifting away towards this other girl. Maybe it keeps drifting because it's a new and exciting part of your life you don't have anymore, since being married can get to be "boring" or just not as adventurous as it was in the beggining. That is totally understandable. \nWhat you didn't mention, is that if this girl is still contacting you? Has she given up on you? If she has, then it means that she just wanted to say hi and see how you were doing, she's not interested in you in any other way. \nI think you will always wonder "what could have been", until you have some closure in this part of your life. If you do decide to contact her again, you should meet face to face and tell her what she meant to you and how it felt to let her go. But remember that you are a different person now, as is she, in totally different circumstances.\nI don't think an honest luncheon to clear the air, and to put your mind and feelings at ease would be that bad.\nAs long as you know where to draw the line, and as long as you understand that you are a married man with different obligations now.\nGood luck man. Tough call.
551030
Hi you right it's not worth fighting over. Maybe she just feels like she can't talk to you about certain things that are happening in her life right now. I wouldn't worry to much about it. People sometimes find that it is easier to confide in strangers. That way no one will be able to judge her.
227449
It seems that your mother in law is lonely.  She must not have anyone else to confide in.  Although this is a burden you shouldn't have to carry, her talking with you alone is helping her.  Examine the problem you had with her before.  The ex's must have allowed her to have this behavior.  Which is why she kept up with them, not for his benefit, but hers.  Another female to confide in, to sympathize with her.  Does she have any of her own daughters?  Maybe she feels she should be able to be close with you as she sees you as her daughter.  She could feel comfortable talking with you because she trusts and respects your opinions.  Being dogged and treated like crap by your husband truly affects who you are.  You question yourself, your existance, your will to go on.  You eventually lose who you are.  All the while clinching to anything for your sanity.  You must decide how you want to handle this.  Do you want to shrug her off and continue to hold your grudge on what she did to you.  Or choose to forgive her and open your heart to her.  It's your choice.
352990
My best friend does this all the time. She'll call me and ask for advice on what to do about her loser husband who doesn't work, is never home, and treats her like shit. She alreadys know exactly what I'm going to say for the 50 millionth time. So I got to the point where I told her if she wasn't going to listen to my advice then don't ask for it and as a matter of fact, just don't bring the subject up all together. It's gets annoying after a while.
214007
maybe she doesnt answer it because your being to clingy.  Perhaps not calling her, will actually get her to call you.
579608
she might need time to think. dont contact her in any way you will most likely get a call or email within a day.. just guessing but women are like that and so are men so back off for awhile ok? good luck
189392
something is not right here? is this your husbands sister, or is it your brothers wife? because if it is your brothers wife calling your husband! you best watch out, she could be coming to the game to make sure where you are. it is not her place to call your husband. keep your eyes open there maybe be alot more to this than you think. GOOD LUCK!
542936
You say she only calls when she needs something.  What kind of friend is that?!  You don't want someone like that in your life.  She doesn't deserve a friend like you.  Life is short.  Get rid of her and find new ones.
239764
It sounds like she has a very controlling husband.  Maybe email is the only alternative she has for keeping your friendship.  I would continue emailing and just be patient and perhaps she will be able to get together with you at some point.  Is the option open for YOU to just pop by her house to see her?
201555
I know a lot about husbands, maybe these are transferable\nA lot of new male "friends"\nBeing secretive about phone calls\nUnexplained expendatures\nNew items or gifts you did not purchase her\nTime where she cannot give you an explaination of where she was, or it doesn't match up with the facts (she couldn't have been at Beth's house b/c Beth was in Cancun)\nPhone calls that suddenly hang up\nLooking especially nice for no reason\nlack of sexual interest in you\n\nIf you think she is, confront her; often if you have a gut instinct, it is right. I hope all turns out well.
607001
If u had phoned to say that, would u expect her to say something about the call?\nIt is usually 'mutually understood' that the message(which ever tech. u use) is sent and received. No mention of it has to be made.\nDon't take it personal. \nHowever feel free to bring it up if u really want to know how she feels.
637246
Oh yeah, he will want to do more than talk to her.  First of all she should not have told him how she felt.....I don't care what he said to her......the point is the man is married and happily married by what he said.  It was know point in expressing her feelings.  I would not care if he ever talk to me again.
644009
Just let her know that you are happy with the husband you have and it is necessary for her to tell you anything about him unless you ask.  Let her know that you don't believe that telling gossip about one anothers husbands is productive or strengthening for each others relationships with your husbands and is detrimental to establishing a friendship between each other.  If she is has morals she should be able to recognize this and hopefully refrain from those activities.