I want to wait until I'm married to have sex now because I'm tired of having sex with all the wrong guys. I want to hold off so I will appreciate love more.
212401
I agree with the others, keep reminding yourself of that (great goal by the way), get moral support from family and/or friends.  Most importantly make it clear from the beginning with any prospective suitors that is the way it will be and don't put yourself in a position where you have to say no.......never even let it get to a point where it may be an issue......you can do it I have faith!!! :) Good luck!!!!
424322
i know when don't need it i am waiting till marriage
621968
maybe you should get married first then maybe god would help you...but no you are going against god and having sex before you are married.
218100
I think your fiance has a lot of issues that you guys need to work out before you get married. But hold out on him and he will initiate sex soon enough, trust me, you can hold out longer than him.
104333
I am still one ,wait till you get married .Be satisified with masturrbattion till such time
262131
Sex before marriage is not a good idea. I would rather have waited till I got married however, I was young and foolish and wanted experience. Well, after you're experienced what is there to experience more? You keep on having sex, right and so if I were to change this I would have waited for the right time. But this is just my opinion. Different people have different opinions.
574390
I think it is a matter of personal preference. When you  are in love it is hard to wait until marriage. I do think though that when you marry virginity is one of the best gifts you can give your spouse.
420991
I'm in the same boat as you and think you should keep away from fornication. Waiting until your wedding night really shows your new wife that you have waited your entire life to be with her. Sex has nothing to do with love; it is lust and really shouldn't be a factor outside of marriage because both participants know fine well after they have sex they have nothing moer they can give to one another. Outside of wedlock shows they are struggling to keep their relationship going. I know I may sound ignorant but thats the way I see things, it's the way I raised myself. Thinking of showing my devotion to my future (hopefully) wife rather than pleasing my own lust.
37022
I thik now a days it should not realy matter to waite till your married there is some men that do preffer a virgin rather than someone that has been with another man,but the woman is not always lucky do find a man that is a virgin. I think yo explre safe in life is not bad due to you only want to keep your marrige happy and know what he and you may both want intimatly.
631236
sex should be with someone that you love and respect. and they should love and respect you.\nshould wait for marriage.\nthere could health problems when a women reaches 35yr. there are more health risks for the baby and the mom.\nI wish I waited to be married before having sex. I thought I was "missing out" on sex too. started seeing all my classmates around town and they were married and on their second kids.\nthought I was missing out, so I wanted to know what "it" was like too. but then got pregnant and the baby on my own. not fun after the fact.\nhaving sex is a HUGE RESPONSIBILITY AND YOU LEAVE YOURSELF VULNERABLE TO THE OTHER PERSON.\nso PLEASE WAIT FOR MARRIAGE AND IT WILL BE WELL WORTH THE WAIT BELIEVE ME PLEASE WAIT.\n\ndont be in such a rush to "fit in" or "know what it is like" just to know. take your time and know what kind of person has the qualitites you want in the other person and that you take of yourself financially and emotionally on your own.\n\ngood luck and WAIT FOR MARRIAGE: YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DO.!!!!
570404
Uhh...I think it is not a matter of religion but of a moral standpoint.  I do not believe there is anything anywhere that says "You cannot have sex untill you are married."  Like I said...maybe it was a moral issue in the 1900's.  You know what....I think you are on to something.  If people would wait until they got married to have sex there would be less spread of disease, abortion and teen pregnancy.  Plus...if you get AIDS could you imagine yourself saying that "The sex was WAY worth it!"  lol  Is it really so bad?  Half the time I think it is more fun on my own anyway.  hahahaha
285659
The relationship you have is like an addiction. The longer you wait, the more it is going to hurt coming off of it. Bite you lip and end it. Sex can not be the primary focus. Find a way to focus your energies and time toward something a little more beneficial and find a man that wants more from you then just hitting the bed. Don’t you deserve better?
235254
have sex if you want to ruin your life \ni am waiting 4 the perfect guy\nwhich god will send to me!!!!!!!!!
209247
It depends on the people not just about having sex right away...but you still should have waited.
242047
Please, please, please wait. It is so important. My husband was a virgin when we married and I wasn't. I wanted to have my virginity back so badly when we married but it was too late. Our honeymoon was great but it was bittersweet because I had to deal with the regret of him not being my first. It could have been the best experience of my life. And everything else counts too. I wish I wouldn't have even held hands, kissed, or anything like that until I married. It would have been so special. Please save it for marriage.
493641
...if you only THINK your ready... your NOT!!!..slow down...take your time.. a time will come when you love someone and they love you... and you are absolutely sure you are ready.... if you wait until then... sex will prove much more rewarding!!!\nGOOD LUCK!!!
415705
Just tell them you don't want to have sex till you are married. If they get mad or break up with you over that, then that means they are not the right one for you. The right man for you will understand and appreciate you wanting to save yourself for him or whoever you marry.