Since 9th months he is not affectionate, no interesting in intimacy.  Now is trying to look for other people over the internet to talk to.
214616
you just know. Guilt is written all over them. They change towards you, snap at you, distant from you, make excuses not to come round or go out with you etc etc. You will know beleive me.
93858
Is he in service. You need to wait till he gets home and set down and have a long talk and see if you can work it out. You got a 9 month old that you need to be thinking about right now, not a long distance relationship.
269927
Report him to Yahoo for abuse.  Put him on your IM's ingore list (from the menu bar - Messenger, Preferences and then Ignore List).\n\nHe obviously is in need of some serious medicating.
402173
It sounds like need to move on. He is not satisfying your needs and he has anger issues. What are you trying to hold on to? It is obvious that he doesn't do it for you in more ways than one. Cut your losses and move on. Make that a birthday gift to yourself.
654124
the feeling has been dying down. why dont u talk to him. unless u dont want him really in the first place.
480543
This isn't love, he has just been using you when he's been feeling lonely, worst of all you've allowed him to, tell him to get lost. Good luck.
466413
Because he's a predator and he's trying to have cybersex or worse with you.  Find another chat room.  Don't feed this guys sick fantasies.
634908
sounds like he is loosing interest maybe because its to easy why not play hard to get act as if you don't want it i bet from he hasn't been given it to you you have wanted it more so give him a taste of his own medicine
667896
Take him to a child psychiatrist. Have him evaluated. It could be a physical/ emotional/ or mental disorder.~hugs+sr= *shrugs!
642064
That's actually a tough situation because there's no guaruntee he'll ever been 100% ok with affection. This isn't going to help much, but start out small by trying to be affectionate at home and work your way up. Small things, like hugs, hold hands while watching a movie *at home*, and the occassional kissing that doesn't lead to sex.... IF that ever becomes comfortable then you move up to small social settings with friends. You don't want to jump right into situations where there are a lot of random people around. If you can't get up to or past the stage where you can be affectionate in front of friends it would probably be best to let it go. You don't want to push to hard, and in the end it's not always possible to change a person. I hope this helps.
388200
He's got insecurity issues.  Tell him to take a hike if he's not going to chill.
546279
Maybe he is hurting and still loves you and does not know how to let go.  You sure that he does not want to keep talking with you.  Did you ask.  I know you said that you said you both see other people but your not married and your maybe able to reignite and old flame.  :)
384676
You guys might be headed down different paths is all. As we mature we sometimes out grow some friends. Try talking to him telling thats not really your thing and if continues to push back away for awhile and let him have the space he needs to dicover where hes headed
249044
I'm sorry things aren't working well right now. I think the best thing to do is give him some space. Just let him figure out things in his mind before approaching him. Eventually, he'll probably approach you. If not, you can start contacting him again after a while of waiting. I think it'll be easier for him to sort out his thoughts and emotions if he has some alone time. It'll probably be easier to be friends after a break. If he's still in love, it might be really difficult for him to talk to you and your daughter right now. It might be painful. So if you give him time to just be alone, maybe it'll get better. Good luck!
256994
Bad situation. Maybe things just feel distant because of the rough time he's going through. Hang in a bit longer,after the rough times are over,and take it from there. Good luck with everything.
79450
WOW this must be hard for you maybe hes just moving on and you should do the same or just give it more time and start seeing other people.
350007
It sounds like he just wants sex, I am no expert on relationships.