They're downstairs watching a movie right now.  It's his first "girlfriend".  They're both 15 years old.  How often do you think I should create a "reason" to go down there?
201736
You know your son. You know if he respects you as the authority figure he truly honors. You know in yourself if pleasing you is important and disappointing you is something he really does not want to do. If that is the case, as much as you are tempted, don't spy on him. Be ready in any case to intervene should things get inappropriate, if they do. On the other hand, if the relationship with your son is strained and he does not appreciate his parents, then the battle is already lost. If you move to spy or stop him, then he'll move the activity somewhere else where you are not.
111595
That would depend on how old he is. If he is the same age, cool. If he is 17-up. She needs to find someone closer to her age for now.\n\nPlease repost this with his age, and I can give some good advice to her.
72643
She's having a hard time accepting that her daughter is growing up. Obviously if you will be at a public restaurant, it's not like all of you guys are going to throw her on top of a table, strip her clothes off and pull a chain on her. Her mom is just trippin. At 14, me and my friends hung out at the roller rink together without adult supper vision, but, duh, the people who WORK there were adults. And I was ALWAYS the only girl hangin out with all of the guys. I just got along better with guys than girls at that age. She's making more out of it than is really there. Funny thing is, I grew up to like women. So, for all she knows, her daughter might be gay when she grows up! Boys think about sex a lot, but it's not ALL they think about. She needs to realize this and get a grip. Good luck.
549309
I have been dating my girlfriend for 7mos. and we live about a half hour away.  It is not too bad we sometimes meet halfway to see each other for a while. As for a first date I would go to a movie, you don't have to talk as much, unless you have been talking a while then go to dinner too.(I met my gf and went out with her the next night, so a movie fit well b/c both of us didn't want to talk.  On the second date take her to dinner and have somthing else fun planned, such as bowling, rollerskating, a comedy club ect..\nGood Luck!
179510
In this case -- and this is rare -- it might be okay.  You're definitely better off with an 18-year-old guy who's nice, than a 15 or 16 year old dirtbag.
375823
the best idea for a 14 year old boy and a 7 year old girl is to sleep over at different houses.  You're beginning to sound like a perv. Brand new account, no questions answered, all your questions are this same one.  You're obsessed and coming off as a sicko
100760
Before we say that it is statutory rape, we would first have to know if you are intimate (sexually) with your girlfriend. If you are, then it could be statutory rape depending on the state or country you live in. If not, then that is not an issue. I can see her parent's concern. She is legally considered an adult and you are still considered a child. I am sure they are having a hard time understanding why their adult daughter is dating a child. Since your girlfriend is 18, maybe the best solution to the problem would be for her to move out and find a place of her own. If she insists on living off her parents, then she will have to follow their rules.  You should be involved with girls your own age and enjoying being young. I really can't see what an 18 year old girl sees in a 15 year old boy. She needs to be dating people her own age or a little older and beginning her life as an adult, instead of dating a 15 year old child and planning what dress to wear to your proms. I don't mean to minimize your feelings, but at the age of 15 I doubt seriously if this is true love. It sounds to me as if your girlfriend is immature and is not able to deal with men her own age. I know you don't want to hear this, but it is probably for the best that her parents are putting a stop to this relationship. Move on! Find a nice girl around your own age and enjoy your youth. Take care and good luck! =-)
461391
just say...hey (fill in his name here)....i think ur cute...you wanna go see a movie with me this weekend?...lol.....im sorry....i think thats what i would have done if i was a 14 yr old girl ......\n\nedit\n\ndang....now i remember ...it happened to me when i was a 14 yr old boy and this girl approached me saying i was cute and wanting to go to the movies with me....my response....i ran....lol
547356
Usually 15 year old girls do that. She might need some maturity lessons.   She likes him wants and is feeling him out for a reaction.
607031
well, objectively, they arent going to do anything they arent already doing. if you go to sleep and they have a wild orgy, its certainly not as though you going to sleep put this into their heads. they've done it before. the question is do you want it happening on your watch? i assume all the associated parents know that it is a co-ed sleepover, and have agreed to it. they cant possibly expect you to hover over them all night. and usually, girls are not terribly willing to indulge in sex acts while their parents are in the house. wait until you feel that you have done the best you can, then go to sleep. of course, you could always rig a trip wire with bells on it in front of the girls door.  kids will be kids, and that means that they will misbehave, but for the most part, are fairly good little human beings. if you trust the way you raised your daughter, then she will be fine. in the future, dont agree to something if youre not sure you can trust the parties involved.
242090
Are you alone?  If yes, then it shouldn't really matter, right?\nIf you're not alone, then start the movie a little ahead so that you have a chance to see some of the "acting".\nOr explain to your partner that you get overly sensitive when you put the movie on and then you can clean up and go again when the situation arises again during the movie.  You will last longer a second time around, even longer a third time.
502502
NOT A GOOD IDEA.  She is way too young to be alone with her crush and to spend the night BIG NO NO.  How old is her crush and what would his parents think.  \n\nIt would not be a mature decision to make.  A lot of "things" could happen.\n\nEven though you will be checking on her all night........I think as she gets older she will always feel guys should spend the night with her because she did it at 11.
423435
I was 15 when this happened to me too.  The guy came over to take me out to a movie adn when he pulled up and rang the bell I kind od ushered him inside.  He only went a few feet in and my parents were in the foyer anyway.  I just did the whole, Mom this is Brent.  And so on.  They just said nice to meet you and have fun tonight, home by 11.  It's not a big deal.  Don't bring him over for hour while you get ready.   Just usher him right in the door and quickly introduce him, that's  all you need.  Another tip, when he gets there, be ready.  Don't make the poor guy wait on the first date.  Have fun.
66374
lol leave him alone, he's 17... that's a little old to be lookin' at porn but he's grown, would you rather him be out having sex???
158767
pssst, it's me.  We talked on YIM a lot.  ;)\n\nMy opinion was that you should see how 1 date goes.  If you both have a spectacualr time, then at the end tell him your age.  He won't care whether of not you're 15 if he enjoyed the date.  : )\n\n\nLet me know if ya need more help, Good Luck,\n-Alexis
117789
make up some common thing you both like ask about a movie that you want to see, ask if he has saw it and if he has heard anything about it . if he says no i didnt see it , but i hear its pretty good, say, i want to see it but everyone i know already saw it, would you go as a friend to see it with me. lmao haha , go from there!
590284
The kids shouldn't meet dad's new gf until hes sure that shes going to be sticking around for a long time.  Its not good to introduce kids to a bunch of gf because if they end up liking one then they break up then the kids have to deal with not being able to see that girl anymore.