There is this guy that I like and yesterday I got a ride home from his parents. He sat in the back seat and I sat in the front. All of a sudden I felt his hands rubing my shoulders. I felt so happy, but I don't know if I should tell him how I really feel. What do I do?
212234
let your heart speak for itself be truthful and everything else will work itself out
18532
Play it cool girl!  So what you have a crush on this guy.  If someone trys to blow your spot on the bus today, just simple say "Maybe I do, what's the big deal.  Now that he obviously knows, it's between me and him"!  Then give a little laugh to let them know you're not sweating it.
641286
How long have you two been talking?  If you both like each other that much and have been talking for awhile you should feel comfortable, not "iffy"  If you're feeling that way, then you shouldn't meet him.  Our intuition can be pretty dead on most of the time.\n\nI think it's good that you are thinking this through.  I know it's tempting to meet him, but it's better to be safe than sorry.  If you're going to go, please don't go alone.  Bring your friends, not just one but all of them, and don't necessarily tell him you are going to.  And if you're going to Florida with your parents, offer for him to have dinner with y'all and if he's still willing to meet you I think that's a good thing, but if he trys to get you alone... big red flag!
250729
I'd sit him down...If I could catch him!...and tell him what is on your mind. Tell him that you really like him and the whole point is that you want to spend time with him. Not smother him, but continue to get to know him and have fun. Be honest and tell him that you were pissed off and now hurt. It's always best to be clear..that way he can't come back later and say "but sweetie..you never told me!" And if you can't get him to sit down and talk about it, leave him a message or email....and then go out and continue to work, see your friends nad have fun. Let him catch up to you. I hate to say it, but a little hard to get can be playe both ways. Good luck and I hope it works out for you!
133035
friends over guys! let your friend know how you feel first and if she tells you its okay and you feel its okay then try to find a way to let this guy know!
271301
The next step is up to him - congratulations on your courage to tell him how you feel - I know it wasn't easy.\n\nSee how he responds to you from now on.  Is he still friendly or is he aloof now because he, too, feels embarrassed by what you told him?\n\nIf he seems aloof to you, then he doesn't share the same feelings as you - ok - you tried - now go find someone who does share those feelings with you.\n\nGood Luck!
320129
you sound like a sweet person, and i have been where you are, i just told him i needed some space, that i had alot on my mind, nothing personal, but there are some things you need to work through. that seemed to work! oh yes tell him you really like him , but things are just going to fast. GOD BLESS and good luck:)
217169
girl i've been there and done that. I think the best thing is to just let him talk to you. If he already knows how you feel then i would just let it go for now.  If its meant to be then it will be
457787
Definately tell him. I was in a similar situation and I never told the guy how I really felt.  He's with someone else now and it hurt so bad that I ended up spending less and less time with him. Now we barely ever talk.  I found out later that he had feelings for me, but now it's too late.
96647
you can tell him about your feelings and also clarify that if he does not have such feelings for you, you people can still be good friends.\nAtleast you will feel good that you told him about your feeling.\nCheers !!!!
80162
Let me tell you this. its all up to you. It's either he likes you back or he doesn't. I've been in your exact situation before. I'm female and I developed feelings for my best friend who's also a girl. one day, we were just chatting about normal stuff and i basically blurted out to her that i had feelings for her. she told me that what she felt for me was totally platonic and she didn't think of me any other way. Honestly, it killed me for a while. However, today, the relationship that the two of us have is even closer than the one we had before i told her. We didn't have any sort of awkwardness between the two of us. The only shitty thing is that I still feel for her and although I make it seem like I don't feel for her anymore, inside, I just wanna kiss her everytime she opens her mouth to speak. But I have to say that I was really lucky cuz its really rare that two people can overlook the fact that one person feels more for the other than usual. The funniest thing is that til today, my confession is still discussed between the two of us. Recently, I just asked her if it was the right thing to tell her about it in the first place. And, according to her, my confession saved our friendship. Cuz she had already suspected, but she was in denial about it, seeing that i was her best friend and all. But if i had not told her anything, she'd feel weird and eventually take a step back from the friendship.\n\nSo, whatever you do, just follow what your heart tells you to do. You could jokingly bring it up as a suggestion if you don't want to take the direct approach. See how he reacts, and if it's positive, just let it slip. Say that, you didn't really expect it to happen but it just did and you felt that you needed to let him know.\n\nGood luck though.
441412
Aww. Come on, you should definitely talk to him and see how he feels, maybe he likes you too. But still you are young, and even if he doesn't feel the same about you, it's not the end of the world. Telling someone your true feelings can be tough because we are afraid of what the person may say, which is the position I'm in right now, but someday I have to muster up the courage to tell him. You can wait but don't wait too long.
323746
just let him know how you feel...and then leave it up to him. olny time will tell
399556
IT'S WHATEVER YOU WANT IT TO BE. I'M LONG PAST MY TEENAGE YEARS BUT I STILL THINK THAT'S REALLY SWEET. WHEN YOU GET BACK TELL HIM THAT YOU REALLY LIKE HIM. IM SURE HE ALREADY KNOWS. HAVE A GREAT VACATION!!!!
187724
I think you just need to come out and tell him how you feel.  Say something like; You know that you were my first love don't you?  Well, after hanging out with you for the past several years, it seems that I still have the same sort of feelings for you.  How do you feel about that?  \n\nIt is ultimately going to be a risk, but think of the reward!  Isn't it worth it if he feels the same way but was too shy, nervous or afraid of rejection like you?  Nothing ventured nothing gained.  Good luck!
313873
why do you think there is anything to do?  You told him--and good for you for being brave!--but apparently he doesn't feel the same way and that's life.  Move on, you took a chance, it didn't work out but you should feel good about acting on your feelings.  Some day you will tell someone you like them and they will say they like you, too.
53334
You don't have to tell him anything, unless he comes to you telling you how he feels. If you just know that he likes you, but he hasn't acted on it or persued you, then just take the info for what it is. \n\nIf he has come to you with his feelings, then just be honest with him and tell him how you feel now. You don't even have to tell him how you felt about him in the past, because that will probably make him persue you anyway. He may think he can get you to like him again. If the feelings for him have faded but you still want to maybe rekindle those feelings, then go for it. You know he already likes you and maybe you two can have a good relationship.