Is it wrong for me to be attracted to him? Am I weird?  He doesn't know Should I tell him?
213126
There's nothing wrong with you, it's normal to be attracted to an older guy. However, going out with him now may not be an option. Depending on certain laws, he could get into big trouble messing around with you even you want to, especially since he's probably 18 or older.
565564
Sorry but this somehow sounds a little odd to me.\nHe seems to know that you're interested in him but still doesn't make a move?\nIs there something wrong with him? Saying that if she asks me out I would accept but then not doing the step to ask you out?\nI'm not into the notes thing but if your friends know and told him already, what's he waiting for??\nIf he's soooooooooo shy, do you think he's the right guy for you?\nWell, depending on your preferences about a man, of course...
360974
well, why do you like him? a.do you like the way he is nice to you and to other people? or, b. is it because you find him attractive?\n\na. if this is so, maybe you should think of him more as a sibling instead of someone that you actually like. And just think, didn't you marry husband for his kind heart? your husband would be pretty sad if he knew that you like someone else. but it happens, don't feel bad.\n\nb. just focus on other things. Maybe you shouldn't think about how cute he is all of the time. He doesn't like women, so don't think about his face, but his heart.
212552
Absolutely not!  You should feel lucky to have him.  If you want the relationship to grow then you always have that.  I too am a christian (getting baptized this Sunday!) but I believe what you have is far from wrong.  It seems that your feelings for him are deeper than sexual and that is something Christ cherished, LOVE.
602794
No he doesn't mean it. You will always find another person attractive or you may even be attracted to the person. Just don't act on your feeling unless you are ready to deal with the repercussions of your actions if it's every found out.
33631
No he isn't holier.  But I know what you mean.  I think that you need to see how close you are to him.  Is he your friend? Does he even talk to you?  With these type of men they seek realy spiritual women that will be a help in their ministry. Try to talk to him. Start trying to be friends first.  Then see how it turns out.  I agree with the person that wrote that you might just be infatuated with the role and not the person.  It is realy easy to get that way.  Just start by being friends that way you can see if it's the man or the role that your in love with.
10445
I think you should think about it and tell him if you are relly sure you want to. Does it seem like he feels something for you? If you break up or are rejected there is a possibility that your frienship will change. But it is not good to keep it to yourself because you might have a chance and if you dont tell him you might regret not taking the risk later on in your life.
64658
Why not? But just put your expectation to a minimum level. Be mature enough and it may happen also that when you are out with him may be you dont wanna continue this...you dont know...but you need to know that than living with fantasy...about a guy at least...you know? guys dont have much to offer to really impress you other than...so think what you want...
351234
whatever it is, it's a stupid game so just start liking someone else who doesn't play with your feelings.  I think it's sort of cruel to do that if you have told him you are attracted to him.  He has no class.
201565
You like him, don't you?\n\nOf course it's okay but be careful (i.e. don't expect him to be impressed, esp. if he doesn't appreciate it).  It's just the way guys are.
505808
There is nothing wrong with you.  We can not help who we are attracted to - that just happens on it's own.  If you found yourself attracted to a man of another race I am sure you would (as you already have) given it a try to see where a relationship might lead.  You haven't had luck so far and maybe you never will - or maybe you will in the end.  There is no way of knowing - just be open to love and it will find you.\n\nxoxo!\nPeace!
131773
I'd say he feels the same way. If what your telling us is true sounds to me like he's into you. Why not throw it all out in the open? Tell him you want to jump his bones when he gets home... I'm sure he'll be happy!!!
6045
It sounds like his feelings are all sexual.  You said 'but i don't want to see him', so don't worry about what to say to him.  Oprah had a guest who wrote a book, i believe, "He's just not that into you".  It would be good reading.
243561
I think you should tell him. If you have feelings for him then don't hide that from him and don't hide it from yourself most importantly. This very well could be what you are looking for. In a world with so many people and so many ideas its a good thing to find some one you are compatible with. Just let him know that you want to take it slow. In my experience slow and easy always takes the race. \n Also I think you should take and weigh everything out. What are the good things to making this go further and what are the bad things. There is an upside and a down side to every flip of the coin. \n Very best of luck.
314920
Honestly, I think you should tell him how you feel. The only reason I say that is because he is the only person that will give the truth about the situation. If you ask your friends they might lead you into the wrong direction. yes, it's nerve-racking but once you find out the happier and less confused you'll be.
10049
No it's not weird at all. Why not try to be his friend then you'll find out and have made a new friend in the process.
246095
You are most likely in for some terrible disappointment if you approach him about this. Do not do it. Erotic love is not love if it is not a mutual. Your imagination has run wild, and you have nothing more than a sweet, old-fashioned, one-sided infatuation with this person.\n\nClearly you do not know him as well as you think you do. If you did, then you would already know how to bridge the subject with him -- OR you would realize that it is not wise. The fact that you do not know how to approach him means that you do not know him well enough and that you have only been fantasizing about him. So the best thing you can do is simply settle the issue in your mind, which is what you will inevitably have to do the minute you open your mouth and realize that you have just made an irreversible mistake.