If a man does something wrong, says something to upset a woman, the woman retaliates by ignoring them and acting like the perpetrator doesn't exist. But the woman is really hurt inside and the man should appologize but, he never does.
207635
Men don’t get subtleties. If a woman has a problem she should tell the man. If she doesn’t say anything then he will assume nothing is wrong and therefore not realize he has something to apologize for. If he even does.
473921
its hard because women get upset when a man says I am tired then she gets even more upset and starts thinking there is something wrong with her also if your man is suffering from a lot of stress he may not be able to get into the mood as well there are a lot of reasons why men cant express them selves either could be there upbringing maybe dad didn't show mom a lot of affection and it just rubbed of on him
30876
"US" WOMEN WANT YOU TO THINK EMOTIONALLY, BUT SINCE MEN NEVER DO AND YOU GUYS THINK WITH LOGIC,"WE" TRY TO THINK LOGICALLY.HOWEVER WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL CREATURES. WE TRY TO BE LIKE A MAN IN OUR ACTIONS WHEN WERE HURT WE COVER UP HOW WE REALY FEEL BECAUSE ARE EMOTIONS ARE  NEVER ACCEPTED IN THE "REAL WORLD"BUT BECAUSE WE ARE EMOTIONAL PEOPLE WE THEN CHANGE OUR MIND AND STOP TRYING TO COVER UP OUR FEELINGS BUT BY THEN ITS TO LATE.(WE ACT ON LOGIC FIRST THEN EMOTIONS LATTER.)
285015
if a woman wants to hit a man like a man...should she get hit back? my first husband pulled plenty of cheap shots..then i fought back..my daddy didnt raise no sissies..i stabbed that mofo..broke a glass coke bottle over his head and hit him in the back with one of those heavy metal chairs like my gram used to have...then i had him jailed!! he tried another time and got stabbed multiple times...that was like 20 yrs ago and he still has scars!! power to us women!!  hes a coward and a loser
622820
If I had a woman that did things like that, I know that it would take a great amount of pressure off from me in getting ready.  Now a man should be capable of getting his things together for trips, but if he has a woman that just automatically does this for him, I think she would need to be appreciated deeply by her man.  I think that a lot of men would not know how to react to a woman that shows that kind of attentiveness.  that is why they maybe tend toward a woman that acts bitchy?  That is what some men have seen and are most familiar with.
91246
Obviously they don't like themselves at all - so they take it out on the ones that are closest to them . I bet that the man thinks and wants someone do that to him . You know like people who hit themselves - it's to let the other person know that they are already hurting (inside), so it does'nt matter if they hurt them or not . Like  " watch this everyone I can be abusive ! "
647145
Personality clashes are one thing, disrespect is another. If he cannot properly handle a woman who disagrees with him, then he is not going to treat you right, either.
611098
There are cases of women physically abusing men, but it is rarely reported as the men tend to be too embarrassed to report that they have been hit by the women in their lives. It is hard to tell, what the percentage is, again as it is rarely reported, but I believe that it is probably approx. 80/20 percent men abusing women rather than vive versa. Please note that there are other forms of abuse that don't actually involve hitting someone, if the person throws things during a rage, or threatens or intimidates or even simply yelling at someone can be very damaging as it instills fear in their partner.
597778
Men usually hit women when they are angry. Men are not good at expressing their feelings. Oftentimes a physical reaction is the inappropriate means they use. Men who hit will continue to hit without some kind of counseling. Don't wait too long usually during their remorse they offer to do anything. It is the perfect time to offer an ultimatum. Get help or get out! Don't let your guard down though just because he says yes he will. If he stops the counseling before completing it; he will continue to hit. Be very careful and I recommend professional services for both of you. I would be happy to guide you to services. You are right you don't deserve being hit. He has no right and it is extremely inappropriate behavior.
344649
I agree, I always wondered that myself. I work with a lot of women who talk about women can do everything a man can do, but let a heavy box land in front of them and it's like they forgot everything they said about their abilities.
104720
Maybe its the "communication thing"...\n\nYou say that SOME women are like that and thats true - not all of them are. So ask the nagging woman whats wrong with her and you will find out!\n\nAnd then you can make things right and then you will live in harmony with the not so nagging woman! (hopefully)
603042
Because our brains work differently than womens. Women think in emotional terms, men think in logical terms. If there is a problem, we just want to know what the problem is, not how it makes you "feel". We can find ways to fix problems, but we have a very difficult time fixing "how you feel". It is not a cold hearted thing, it is just the different way our brains work.
597855
not all women are like that. we get upset at things that are bothersome or hurt our feelings. if we know youre trying to get us upset then we dont really care.
458019
some women like that. some don't. some MEN act that way some don't. It works with some women and it fails with some women. seriously doubt it's a BLACK MAN thing.
107318
Women and men communicate differently and we need to be aware of this. Men are straight to the point when they talk and sometimes their words can sound strict or hurtful to the woman who speaks with feelings and emotions and flowery words. Men become frustrated with all the floweriness and don't listen to the message hidden within. We need to respect the way each other talks and find the meaning within. That way we can learn to get along.
253637
Having been on both sides of the "ex" fence, I can say with assurance that some females simply cannot grasp that the man they are with can be with someone after her, and some females simply cannot grasp that the man they are with was with someone before her. (Men do it too, it isn't a gender issue, it is a maturity issue.)I was married to a man who currently has a show on A&E! I have to listen to his "woman" tell lies and take credit for my children, and guess what....I hate it. On the other side, I have an ex-boyfriend whose current whateversheis  feels duty-bound to berate me for my conduct in situations that she was not privy to. All I can say for sure is that ultimately, YOU are responsible for YOUR conduct, and while losing your patience is understandable, it is probably better to always take the high road. Additionally, as an often attacked, but never bested ex, I can say without exception that a soft answer always turns away wrath, and ignoring small children(or adults acting like two-year olds) tends to put a stop to immature behavior. (On the practical side, a good log to document another's constant bad behavior goes a long way in court and should always be used.)
639526
No never. There is a lot of fuss made if a man hits a woman but it seems to be acceptable if a woman hits a man. Physical violence is totally unacceptable whether it be a man or woman on the receiving end.