i am trying to change my nerd ways. i have been asked out before so i take it some girls think i have good looks however i am unsure if this girls will go out with me. her nature is quite friendly. grateful for any help recieved. :)
200019
Change your nerdy Star Wars ways you must not! :P\n\nwow I sound like a nerd, oh well! lol, good luck!
387229
Forget about your friend getting info.  If, as you say, she is nice to you, she is likely to go out with you at least once, or turn you down in a NICE way.  Go ahead and ask her out.
144658
This worked for me a few years ago... My ( now x girlfriend ) played hard to get... I ended up asking her out at one point... Anyways, play hard to get, and when the time is right ( if God allows it ), the guy will ask you out... TRUST ME... IT WORKS...
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Girls like a confident person. It's OK to be nervous when you ask her out. Just be bold, cool. Walk up to her and just ask her out. You know she's going to say yes. Even if she doesn't say yes, whats the worse that can happen. Nothing. She could just say no and you would be just like you are now, still going on with your life and looking for another pretty girl to ask out. Its in your favor by being bold and confident.
22715
Wow, I'm suprised someone other than me has this probablem! Okay well first off don't ever be nervous around her, even if she thinks it's adorable. Kind of hint it at her, like flirt with her often but not too often. If the hinting don't help gather up all your guts and ask her out, if she says yeah good for ya, if she says no, don't give up just keep it cool with her and wait for a little longer.
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Well, it really depends on her confidence level.  I'm not very self-confident, so if I see a guy that I think is super-hot, I really don't think I have a chance with him, so I'll act pretty shy and aloof, and you know, check him out when he's not looking.  Secretly, I want to go up to him and start a conversation, but I'm afraid of getting shot down.  Of course, each girl really is different.
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If she says yes and  doesn't like him, he will only be more hurt later. She shouldn't go out with him. However, even if he's a geek, he may be a really nice guy. Who knows. Give him a chance, with a friendship, and see if anything goes from there.
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aw yes i do think she likes you. she might be flirtiing with other guys in front of you, because she may not think YOU like HER. i think you should ask her out. if she pulls you aside or when your alone, (or you pull HER aside) and just smile and say something like, "your very nice and beautiful, and i was wondering if you would like to be my girlfriend?" or something like that. be sure to smile and look into her eyes. girls love that. if she rejects you (which she probably wont) just do a subtle smile, and be understanding, and stay her friend.\n\n\ngood luck! :]
506177
She wants you to make the first move in asking her out. She may not be shy at all. She may just want to feel important in the fact that it's you who initiated things with her. I say go for it! The signs are all there! &#92;m/
176047
If you don't mind the games as you suggest, then I'd say go for it. If you're looking for something more on the serious side, the best thing to do is ask her out. If I flirted with only one man, I definitely would be trying to send him the signal that I like him. I wouldn't be playing games. Sounds like she's just waiting on some type of response back from you. What are you waiting for?? lol
279019
I'm a guy, I have a girlfriend, most guys (in general, at least those like me) have a tendency to REALLY like a girl if he's looking at her a lot.. I mean, I may find a girl attractive and my eyes may look in that direction as a reaction, but if its something more than that, a guy might try to hide the fact that he likes looking in her direction out of respect for the fact that she might not want to be stared at... so it can be hard to tell if the guy wants you as more than a friend without asking quite clearly and in private.. not in front of too many other people, something like "what do you think of me, do you want to go out with me?" etc.. some guys are too shy to ask the girl they want to be with out without knowing that they'd approve of them in the first place, a lot of guys end up staying single because of this, and I have only asked one girl out and I've had about 6 relationships ... each one a major impact on my life, I hope this helps.
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The girl will think more of you if you ask her out yourself. I personally think it's cute when a guy is shy. Approach her when she's by herself. Take your time and just tell her what you're thinking. I wish you the best babe!
16624
hey, i went online, maybe you can too.  I've gotten lots of attention but haven't found anyone yet that I'm interested in dating full time.  It takes time but if you meet this person online, you could get to know her a little better and then maybe after a few emails, a few message sessions, and a few phone calls you might actually work up your courage to go on a date.  It might work!
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if the guy likes you at all then he will "steal" glances at you.  if you catch him lookin, ask him how his day is going.  this game that girls and guys play is sorta messed up , but so is life.  i like this girl at school, and i've been afraid to introduce myself to her for the past year.  until last week, we started talking about mussolini in the hall way.  she's smart, and cute.  but i'm still afraid to ask her out because we are both going to school.  school should not be the dating game.  but to answer your question: if a girl came up to me and challanged me to a game of paintball, i would be 99.999% likely to say "your on".  just be careful, and let the brain in your cranium do your thinking.
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wow, must've shocked you that the girl you really like, you just turned down! maybe nxt time you see her in math you could say, "sry about last time, i was really out of it! is that offer to help you still free?" if she really needs help and your super good in math she'll probably say yes. if she really likes you and asking for help in math is just a way to spend time with you then AW!
83393
Hello guy, sounds like the girl you are talking about is very much interested. I know that the little things she does is a bit confusing to you, but just look at them as they are bigger than life. she is telling you to ask her out. Ask her to a movie. I bet she will accept. Do this in private, so the situation will be easier for her. sounds like she is a little shy. It will take you to take the first step, to break the ice. That is my advice.
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The only way you are going to know if she will say yes is to ask her out. I understand you're a bit shy, and perhaps intimidated. From what you've shared she seems to be freindly to you and yes likes you. You want to take it to the next level...here's my suggestion..find some private time with her. If you need to,  ask her if you can talk to her alone for a few minutes..Then you say something to this effect...Nicole, you are so popular and pretty and I always like to see you,  and hang out. I don't know if you're dating anyone but I'd  really love to take you the moives and out to eat sometime. Give her time to absorb what you've said. If she states she is dating someone else..say well I hope if it doesn't work out between you two you'll let me know and I can be next in line! She will feel flattered & so honored at your honesty the least you'll get is a smile. IF...she says yes I'd like to go out with you say, how about this weekend? If that doesn't work say can I call you so we can make a date?    The worst case scenerio if you ask her is that she starts laughing hysterically and then you can always say well at least I gave it a shot...I'm not sure I'm gonna give up on you because you are really the sweetest, prettiest girl I know. Lean forward give her a kiss  on the cheek and walk away.... Pretend you're acting in a film you can do it ! When,  you go on the date then yes be your adorable, CONFIDENT SELF. Maybe you can even ask her for a skating lesson! PRIVATE of course. You can do it! Years from now you'll be glad you did! Go for it !!! Just don't call her Nicole if that's not her name....Best wishes to you....