I only feel lust for this guy not love or like so, do you think it's coo, i tell him i  only want to be friends with benefits?
200145
As a guy, I think it's great.  I'm looking for this type of friend myself but girls like you are hard to find!
220701
Maybe you need to back away b/c your sense of judgement is clouded by feelings for him and you are not open to having just a friendship with him yet! You need to tell him how you feel and just back up
333635
Never do the friends with benefits thing!  It's always bad.  One person usually goes into it thinking, eventually, this can turn into a relationship.  The other person says, hey, physical pleasure for free!!!  One person gets romantically attached and the other just wants pleasure for free.  So that's how it gets complicated.  If you seriously only want pleasure and the other person is dumb enough to agree, then have at it.  But if you like the person or start having feelings for them and it's clear they only want the free pleasure, dump them and start respecting yourself.  You deserve more than a friend with benefits (truthfully, this friend is using you thereby isn't that great of a friend).  You deserve a real relationship!  Good luck!
598706
I think you already know how he feels about you. You said it yourself,  He just wants to bang you," nothing more"  and you know this.  Either enjoy the ride, or look for something serious elsewhere
260
You are being used for booty and will never be anything more to him. I wish it didn't sound so harsh, but that's your truth. Either enjoy your "benefits" or move on. You may tell him you love him, but I bet your intuition has already told you the response to that and that is why you are scared. Actually I belive you should tell him, get it off your chest....and still move on.
59658
i say yes, meet the guy someday, but as for whether he has "feelings" for you or not... i am not a mind reader. can't help you there... but i think i can say that he thinks you're a good friend...
37808
I think it could eventually progress into something deeper, but for now, it's lust. Your attraction to him is speaking for you more than your emotions.
588287
emotional attraction is different than physical attraction. you probably were just feeling a little akward because it was the first time you could put a face with the words. Maybe you could spend a little time going out as friends, instead of as a couple, until you are more comfortable around him. Then you could reevaluate the situation and proceed from there. Maybe the feelings need a little more time to fully develope.
334006
Why is that bad? It's natural that you would feel that way. If you want to hook up, go for it. Just make sure the guy understands you will be moving soon. Be honest about your feelings. Go and lean on someone, girl! We all need that from time to time.
421983
WOW! This is CRAZY! I am in the exact, I mean exact same situation! I have a guy friend (best friend at that) and he is a little bit attractive, and I know he is in love with me because he tells me so, but I do not have romantic feelings towards him. Sometimes I get the urge to let things go further (physically) but in the long run, I never let it get that far. I believe, if something is mentally stopping you from going further with him, then you should listen to your gut feeling. It might also make things complicated after you initially sleep together. He'll be calling you all the time, crying about his love for you and whatnot, and you will have to tell him (once again) that you don't have feelings for him. Trust me, this is what happened when I slipped up and accidentally kissed my guy friend....but either/or, GOOD LUCK!!!
273908
He has asked you, you like him. Honestly what is the problem. Go for it. This is your chance to find out how he feels about you. Don't blow it by thinking about it too much. Even if at the end of the night if he only wants to be friends all that matters is that you had a great night with good company that you can look back on it with a smile. Would that be so bad.
227401
Sounds like rebound sex to me honey!  So my answer is LUST!  And there is nothing wrong with that!  Just go with the flow,,,maybe it will turn into more,,,maybe it won't!
82694
I would emotionally distance yourself from him.  You can remain friends, but I would start looking elsewhere.\n\nIt may be that if you hook up with someone else, he'll realize he might lose you, and that might give him the kick in the butt he needs.  Or he could get jealous and retaliate.  If he has no reaction, it may just mean he's not that into you.\n\nEither way, prepare to move on.  I'm not saying you should find someone to make him jealous; that's just self-defeating.
517171
He's probably over you, but was feeling horny in the moment.  It doesn't sound like he has any intention of being with you in a serious way.  He'd probably settle for a booty call relationship, but you sound like you have more class than that, so I'd move on if I were you.
41890
Are you truly attracted to him or do you just feel the need to have a man? I find it kind of odd that you do not wish to even physically kiss him (a sign of physical attraction) yet you feel the need to make love to him when he is not around. Maybe you need to look deeper and find what you truly seek.
443703
Thank you for your maturity on this subject.\nYour wants are describing the "FRIENDS" part of FTF.. There is nothing wrong with actually being friends.\n- a little communication never hurt anyone; be honest and just tell him.\nYou simply want to move from your concept of one night stand to friendship with benefits.. He's probably already in tune with that.\n- good luck
320173
Well he's using you...  Are you using him the same way?  If you've staked your heart in this guy, you might want to start moving on.  If you're having as much fun as he is though, just go with it.  A person's past CAN turn another person off of dating them.  That doesn't mean you can't be friends.  Or friends with benefits.  Seems like your guy wants to be friends with benefits.  Make sure you know and are clear about what you want and expect with him.  If you are both on the same page, great.  If not, you might need to work out a new arrangement...