hi what does it really mean when guys off the street always come up and say nice lady or your a very nice girl are they always talking about the look?
201169
Yes its about looks, they dont know anything about the girl
334921
yeah thats the way to go but what if the girl goes for your looks and money? then what? also you have it all wrong...nice guys never finish last...its all a myth
345481
Don't twist the word "Shorty", it is simply a compliment, and girls LOVE to hear a compliments. Shorty, means good looking, that is all. I guess that guy did not mean to annoy you or insult your sister.
572268
oh i like this topic so much...\n\na real gentleman:\n1- always stays on d danger side when u walk & cross d street\n2- holds ur elbow 2 assist u in crossing d street\n3- opens & closes doors after u\n4- pulls a chair 4u\n5- carries ur stuffs no matter how light / heavy they might b\n\ni think that's abt it & guess wat, i'm lucky 2 know 3 gentlemen who still exist @ this century.. 1 is my bestfrend, d other is a closefrend & d last is my ex-bf\n\nso if ur a gentleman, pls dont change... women will always have a soft spot 4 guys like u... (believe me!)
128618
"Pretty" is giving a complement and being a nice guy, and I wouldn't worry.\n\nIf he says thinks like DAMN YOU'RE HOTT!! Or makes sexual suggestions, etc.... Then maybe you should confront him / be worried.
424582
he means that you shouldn't mistake his "friendliness, niceness for begin stupid.\n\nPeople sometimes meet a nice, kind, or gentile person and think they can take advantage of, trick or fool that person because they are so nice.
544620
wellll.................\n\n\nit depends of whom we are talking about........\n\nsome guys think\n\n"what a nice bun" or "what a nice body"\n\nothers might go\n\n"wow, she has such a beautiful face and eyes"\n\nand other will go \n\n"hmmmm, that is a hot mini-skirt, I can see London"\nI hope most of the ones who admire you, admire for your eyes and personality
31433
I like nice guyz because they give you RESPECT un like bad boyz who don't. To me it doesn't matter if they are alone or with their friends but it would be easier to talk to a guy that is not with his friends.
587322
That depends on each person's definition of a "good girl" or a "nice girl."  Many people say that I'm a "nice girl" but then they will turn around and say otherwise the second I do something that they dislike. Also, do you require a girl to be of a certain religion in order to consider her "good" or "nice?"  You need to consider these factors as well. \n\nMost of the time, though, "good girls" will make out (but only to a certain extent) with someone they are in a meaningful relationship.
275487
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." Maybe they are just confident and would like to meet what they feel is a nice young lady. But maybe the cute girls arent really that nice if they think that the guy approaching them is ugly. You really need to judge people by their actions and words and not their looks.
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We're a bit slow in understanding... No, in se everyone wants a guy that's nice. We're just frightened that 'nice' is all he'll ever be. A man is supposed to be an animal sometimes: It's superficial, but with a nice guy it's only guessing if he'll ever be a challenge in bed. With macho-dudes you're 'sure' of a challenge, and whenever he's sweet, it's even a bigger party, for you know that didn't com easy for him... The rough guy with the soft heart is a stayer on the market. And even when he doesn't have a soft heart, you can always pretend for your friends he has and then they think you're a winner. It's also very 'in' to complain about your guy. Some girls bond by wining. Don't ask me where that comes from. But in the end I think philosopher René Girard has an answer: 'You want what is wanted.' Tough guys get promoted a lot (e.g. by themselves or by 'cool' friends). Nice guys don't promote themselves and get promoted by parents (not really a reference, parents are those people we don't want to become like). And since you want what others you admire want,... you end up with a bully sometimes. Good to know: we do come to sence. When we get to know this nice guy and he surprises us with some unexpected male talents,... Ding Ding Jackpot!
334156
a guy wants a good personality, humorous, nice. Being atracted to the person is always nice, but that is not always the way it works out.
115982
Let me say this way. u r very sweet coz u r the way u r & u recognize that fact. ugly .. beautiful etc r all relative words ...if a guy is fancy u ... u r blessed ... its immaterial how he looks like .i m happy u hv faith in urself ...... God bless
254965
maybe u were to nice. some girls don't like that. i do.. i \nhave wonderful husband that is the nicest man around. u guys only come one in a million
526472
First of all a nice guy will want to know a girl for who she really is  and he wont be so fast to date her really quick unless he really knows that she is a nice girl also. Second of all dont make him chase you. A nice guy with his own personality will see this as a game and he will quickly lose interest. See how he treats all people whether he needs anything from them or not, a nice guy will be nice even to a homless beggar. The most important thing to know if a guy is nice or not is if he really can communicate and share his heart with you. If he can and you wont also then he will leave u. Also dont expect to meet him at nightclubs as mostly scumbag men that are players and partiers are there.
309012
Most guys will be nice to a babe because in the back of their mind they will think they have a chance to get into her Victoria's. Their niceness comes from the desire to have sex with her. The ore the desire, the nicer they are. Because they figure down the line she may like them, then go from like to almost love(at least great enough for a booty call.
101884
There are no nice guys and bad girls. They are all people like you and me. Forget about labels and stereotypes your friends want you to believe. The only important thing is what's in your heart. How do you feel? My advice is to stay healthy and attractive to the opposite sex. That means caring for and loving people that care for and love you.