I have been with someone for 6 months and he cant keep it up.  Im desperate for sex and we use a vibrater but it doesnt do much.
216597
tell him to go and see a doctor
621929
You should stop acting like a sex slave. If you are not in the mood...Don't do it! Are you a partner or property?
612652
Thank goodness you only wasted 5 months with this loser. you've found out that you don't want this one so get ready for your destiny. Get fit and healthy, go the gym, get your hair done, spend time with the girls and have a laugh. you are now free to find someone really great and only your ego got a bit bashed. it's ok you'll get over it. he obviously has so why let him have anymore of your headspace? He was seeing others when he was with you most likely. don't go to bed with someone until after 6 months and it won't happen like this again. if they won't wait you don't date!
95550
Someone in the relationship has to at least try and keep it interesting.  You want excitement?  Get excited.  Get out of the rutine.  Surprise him.  The bedroom isn't the only place for sex.  How about a quickie in places where the possibilities of getting caught are 7 in 10?  \nCome on use your imagination and read Cosmopolitan there's a lot of really good stuff in that magazine.  Trust me.\nGood luck!
634112
Sounds like you feel he doesn't love you and just using you for sex.  You may have that feeling because he is.  If you feel that way you can't be enjoying your time with him , so do something that you can get into with him. Just spend some time together going out to diner or movies you may need some quality time together and rekindle your relationship.
207522
Are you overworked, kids, school or Stress? Maybe, your significant other can help you more with your responsibilities? In order to be intimate you have to be comfortable in the other aspects of your life. Talk to him and explain everything that going on in your life.  Tell him when your ready if he can be patient he'll know! Explain that sex will be more passionate etc when your not pressured, that way it wanted and you both can enjoy.
64929
sweetie you are not a nympho...you are perfectly normal and so is he...a males sex drive goes downhill as they get older and a females sexdrive just keeps going and going and going...no matter what age you get hun you're gonna wanna do it all the time...thats just you...he just dont wanna admit that he cant handle your sexual appetite
470516
Ohhhhhhh, well it is hard when others are around and u can't make much noise.  That could be a key factor.  Maybe try some new positions, change it up.  Lots of foreplay is also what most girls are looking for.
174302
well one of 3 things could be the source of the problem 1. he doesnt actually care about sex all that much and is just happy being with you 2. feels insecure in bed 3. just might not beable to keep up with or sex drive. just let it lay things will change plus only 4 months in a relationship dont let sex rule the relationship cuz then it will fall apart
47648
A guy thinks..."SCORE!!!".  The fact that he called you back and is still dating you doesn't really mean that much.  You could just be easy for him to hit.  Test it.  Tell him how you feel about the situation and tell him you want to take a break from sex for a while (a couple of months at least), and restart your relationship on a non-physical basis.  If he really likes you for who you are there will be no problem and he will respect your need.  If not he'll hit the bricks and you'll be better off and you will have learned a lesson for next time.
640715
Because he's horny. You need to sit and explain that sex is not the goal for you and that he needs to respect the fact that you do not want to go all the way with him. Set up those boundaries at a time when you are not in the heat of the moment so that you do not feel any pressure to go further than you'd like at any time.\n\nAnd, if he doesn't respect that, get him out of the picture. You deserve someone who will respect your body and your choices.
273118
get a vibrator, they work.
14849
You should try to change your outlook. You are the one that is sleeping with him. You are the one that lets him be with you. You can not let anyone use you. It is all up to you. If he get's bent over you not answering the phone...He needs to check himself. You need to decide what you want and then go for it. IF it is just the sex you want then talk about any of the others u want to. If it is more, if you want more of a relationship with him, you need to let him know and be honest. Most guys are so insecure they can't handle the comparison of themselves to anyone else. IF you want him, let him know that and that he is it and no ones else counts. You have to talk to him.
80215
I would think one of the key things you can do is to make sure you have a significant relationship outside of the bedroom.  There's nothing with safely enjoying intercourse with the one you love, but anything in excess is dangerous.  When most all speech/conversation is just a prelude to sex, the relationship might be in trouble.  \n\nYes it may be difficult, but if you really want this to last you'll put the work in to making those communication efforts and restraining yourself.  But it will take work.
558052
He sounds like a young guy who hasn't acquired the knowledge and experience to know or even care what a woman needs from the love making experience.\n\nCommunicate your needs to him. If he doesn't start taking them into consideration soon, kick him to the curb and go get one of those battery operated boyfriends.
289726
I'm assuming you mean that sex isn't as much a part of your relationship as it used to be? That's the way it goes with relationships, at first you can't keep your hands off each other, but after a few months that calms down. The only way to keep that "new love" frequency it to get a new love every 4-6 months. Your alternative is to stick with the love you have now, and be happy that your relationship is morphing into something more substantial than mere physical desire.
615419
yeah, i dont think those tips work at all. i cant wake him up with a bj because he would get so upset! like I would if he tried to have sex with me at 6am. sleeping time is so precious!\nsurprising my man in the shower? dont even try because i know he would be embarrased since he think he is gaining weight.\nwear almost nothing around the house to turn him on? tried that one this morning when he was eating his breakfast... when my bf is tired it doesnt matter how sexy i look or what i do to make him hard. if he is tired he wont move a finger!