i want to tell her to f**** off but i don't feel i can because she is the one who got me and my boyfriend together(because she used to be a friend) and now she is going arround telling ppl i don't really like him!! and i know he knows i do! but it still pisses me off! what do i do?
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OMG, i had that same problem, but mine escilated to a much more intense factor.  What i would tell you would do, that is doesn't matter what other people think about you, as long as your BF knows that you like like him (i wont say love because that might be to deep) then it doesnt matter.  I know noone whats to hear that because from my own experiance just believing that wont help and that is probally what you dont want to hear.  what i would do is spread rumors that is she/he is a lieing bi*ch and then more people would like to beleive you than her because if they think she is a lier then they would believe you...well i hope i helped!  Oh and one other thing.  Dont become her freind again!  i made that mistake, move on, that is what i found out too late
87326
GIRL I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL THATS THE POSITION I'M IN RIGHT NOW BUT DON'T WORRY JUST DON'T TALK 2 YO FRIEND BECAUSE SHE NO GOOD .THAT MEAN SHE LIKED  HIM THE WHOLE TIME BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T EVEN ASK U WAS IT COOL AND HE WRONG FOR ASKING YO FRIEND THAT MEANS HE MAD BECAUSE U BROKE UP WITH HIM JUST STAY COOL OR DO WHAT I'M DOING TALK 2 ONE OF HIS FRIENDS AND ACT LIKE YALL GO OUT 2 GET HIM BACK SO THAT HE WILL KNOW HOW IT FEELS.
56522
Honestly, do you really believe that she is your friend? If I were you, I would tell her how inconsiderate she is for actually dating someone she *KNEW* I had the hots for. I could see if she *didn't* kno, but she *DID*! That's so foul and disrespectful, and truly, I would re-evaluate this friendship with her. She doesn't sound like much of a friend if you ask me! If you allow your "friends" to continue to disregard your feelings, you're going to have a hard life ahead. Friends *DON'T* do things such as that. Guard your heart, hon. God bless you!\n\nHope that helped!
403418
Your best friend cuz she sounds like a jerk. \n\nBut think about it, becuz if you dump her, then if your boyfriend dumps you, your left with nothing.
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I don't think you hate him.  \n\nIf you did, you wouldn't give a rats bum about his feelings.\n\nBut - you do want to break up with him, and so you do it honestly.  Tell him, "I don't want to date you anymore.  You are a nice and loving friend however I want different things....."\n\nOr something like that.\n\nI hope it goes well, good luck.
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Your friend was jelous that you had a boyfriend and she probably didn't have one at the same time you did. She was jelous that you'd hang out with your boyfriend more than her so she's hurt that you'd choose your boyfriend over her. You should tell her that you still want to be friends with her. If she does ignore you, you tried.
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i think you should tell your friend cos if you'll are true friends she will know that you are doing this in her best interest i am saying this because my best friends boyfriend was doing the exact same thing to her and i told my friend that she needs to put her foot down and confront her boyfriend cos if he truly loved her he wouldn't treat her that way.  it's harsh but sometimes you have to be firm with the people you really care about.
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Ummm.  If you hate her, then is she really your best friend?  Seems contradictory to me.  \n\nWhy don't you just hang out with people you actually enjoy spending time with? \n\nGood luck.
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I know that It is REALLY hard to let go of a friend you have had for 10 years but it sounds to like she is trying to ruin your relationship with your boyfriend becuae she isnt happy with her own, and she has to go somewhere else to be happy. She sounds to me like she wants to have the title of having a boyfriend but she doesnt want the responsibility of one. A real friend would be there whenever you needed her and she wouldnt ask you to lie for her. \n~I hope this helps~
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put an end of this relationship if it hurts you this way...seriously...try to get your life back...simply tell him "I want to break up. I can not stand anymore of your "friend to talk with"...I do not like secrets, there should not be any secrets between us...try to learn something from this...bye  bye forever"...and really bye-bye...or else you would live like this forever...my friend lives like that...and I know how you feel...for your own good, let him forever, he will not change, trust me...I am a little hard on you, you do not know me, but I do want to help you and all women that live like this...YOU DESERVE a person that is devoted to you, that adores you, that tells you everything that happens to him, that lives for you (and you for him, of course)...you would like this, don't you?...I thought so...you just need some courage...
308646
she has a bad issue and getting friends i bet? sweetie you just have to slowly slack from her, so she can get the hint, and also tell first and see how she acts by telling her how you feel about the friendship you both have. tell her that to listen to u for a moment and let her know. u seem sweet to let a friend hurt you. be sweet and don't stoop to her level.be straight foward. if he doesn't work and she bitch at you. then she is not a true friend. you can find better.
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The best thing you can do is approach your friend and tell him how you feel. You don't want to ruin the whole trip because of one person. If he understands then you can ask him to possibly go with her another time. Either that or you could tell him that you aren't fond of seeing hm all over his girlfriend and that you would like it if he stopped. I have been in this position before and what I did was tell her that it bothered me that they did that because it was disrespectful to me and my other friends. Perhaps you could try something similar to that. But what you really need to do is approach him and tell him how you are feeling. Don't bottle the feelings up. That's not good for your mental health.
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well, she isn't much of a friend then if you don't like to play with her.\n\nIt is difficult to tell people things like that without hurting their feelings.You need to be polite and allow your friend to know that you would rather not play with her.
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Sounds like she's first trying to make you jealous. I would break the friendship off she obviously doesn't have any respect towards you when rubbing things in your face. If she's your friend as she calls herself she should be willing to hang out with you. Have you told her how she's making you feel and why you feel the need to end the friendship if not do so and see if she changes if not then I would let her go. No sense, in being unhappy nor going through life with someone who calls her self something then doesn't act the part (figuratively speaking)Good Luck!
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why are you afraid to tell her that you dont like her behavior? I was in your situation when I was in collage and this girl was always chasing me! she wanted to be where I was because i was with my handsome and popular friends all the time (what could i do if they were my classmates!) anyway, one day I was just not in the mood to deal with her and I said: you know what, you have very good qualities but IT BOTHERS ME that you are with me because you want to hang out with my friends. Soooo.... stop being so obvious and let me have fun with them!  so, she got my point. she never spoke to me again (and my friends were happy for that too). it was sad because after all she was a good girl but A REAL PAIN IN THE BUTT!
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just break it down to her.. tell her that you want to tell her something that you dont want her to get mad at.. tell her that you dont want to hurt her but you dont want to destroy ur friendship either by being together.. tell her you care about her as a friend..but nothing more.. you got to keep it funky.. feel me.. just be gentle but serious with her
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You may just have to make her angry.  There's no easy way to tell someone to leave you alone.  Just let her know gently, that the two of you have nothing special.  It was just one night and she has a boyfriend.  It's not fair to her boyfriend and it's not fair to you.  Let her know you two aren't right for each other.  Hopefully, she'll get the hint.  You could even be honest and tell her you're just not ready for a commitment right now, and it would be better if the two of you kept some distance.  She may be heartbroken, but I don't think she'll be angry.  If she does something nuts like breaks up with her boyfriend over you, or hurts herself or something.... you might just have to piss her off and tell her she's lost it.