My boyfriend and I work at the same office, we've been thinking about kissin and maybe a quickie in the office, I would imagine its exciting but not really sure If its a good idea.\nShould we do it ?
206194
its not a good idea but its fun......... i should know I've been fired for it...
80099
I think you should do it!!! It's very unique to both of you, which makes it a great way to "personalize" your union.  Congratulations!!
3825
yeah, i do! and she is wonderful.. now it's a parttime job you don't like? absolutely...why not? but it will make work a little odd-and good... be careful ,if the relationship goes bad it can mean drama at work... no peace...
589476
It's very common, and I don't think it's wrong, unless you act on it. It might be awkward if you are working with him, but I don't think that you should change your plans just because you're attracted to him, unless you find a better position. There will likely be more bosses and unavailable coworkers in the future that you will find attractive, so if you want to live your life, you might just have to grin and bear it.
43689
First thing, office romances always go badly, there's just too much time together with no break. In the beginning that sounds great, but after a while, it's just bad news. Secondly, you are both coming off of a bad relationship, you need time to learn who you are again before you try to learn who someone else is.
435644
yes.  it's pretty sweet if you come to think of it.  :D\nbesides, the diary is ALL about you and your boyfriend and what you did.  it's like a time capsule, you know?
406527
I see nothing wrong with that. It's great to have friends or buddies at work. I hang out with my co workers outside of work often. We have different parties and we go out to eat (just us girls) and have some drinks. Go with it. Have fun and good luck.....SAM
613162
Now this is a christian retreat right? So you want to make some treats for the couples, let me see if they are going for a retreat I would think it is to learn more about each other and to find their self. I guess the sex treats might be okay but I am not sure all the couples might be okay with this. Have you spoken to all of them about this?
324912
Not a good call!  She's your supervisor and could get canned if she fools around with you.  Shitting where you eat is never a good idea.  \n\nIf you feel the need to have an office hook-up, bang one your co-workers.
81771
Not recommended.  What if you two break up?  Harassment in the work space.  If you or he were willing to transfer to another department or company, I'd say go for it.
669489
I'm very happy to be workin with someone at same goals.....lucky  woulb be better description.....happy mostly...went thur spells where thought i would leave .marriage takes work.i've learned that the things u work for r more fulfillin..no pain no gain....It's easy to quit and go to next relationship that takes work then when fed up ..move on if that makes u happy do it.....i miss the erotic excitiment of newness....now i have the sweet deep lovin affection that makes me steam sweetly.i believe some people love to be miserable and plenty of rotting relationshps out there......and others who savor what they have
298105
NO dont tell your husband!!! It will only create an argument and make him even more irate and jealous!!! If you want to keep your marriage then i would recommend putting a halt to the steamy make out sessions with this co-worker. But if you are legally seperated and headed for divorce then what you do in your own time is your business.
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I don't think you are prude.  You are just fine.  Don't let dictate how you run your life.  When YOU are ready to kiss then you will.  Don't let anyone rush you.  Experiences like that should be savored.  If you do it get to get it over with you won't really enjoy it.
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I completely understand your dilemma. I'm in it myself. The situation gets more complicated though when you ask "what is sex?" "Do we not want to do the things that resemble sex?" "Is it actual intercourse we're avoiding?" You need to know where the line needs to be drawn.\n\nI'm curious... how old are you two? If you're in your teens, I would say just hold off on everything. Most likely (not to be negative, but just realistic) you're not going to make it until marriage, and in the future, I guarantee that you will regret the decisions that you will make in this relationship if you are that young. However, if you're in your 20s and you two are seriously considering marriage, I would go back to the previous question - "Where do you want to draw the line?" Ask your bf that. Remember though, once small barriers are broken, in time bigger ones will fall. If you two are really trying to avoid sex, you need to avoid the steps that lead to it. It doesn't sound as fun, but waiting is also fun too - honestly - you just have to make it fun when it doesn't seem that way. It's an impressive thing to do.\n\nIn addition to all that, I also think it is extremely important to respect your bf's opinion. I think as a good girlfriend that should be the first concern of yours.\n\nGood luck!
220470
Sure love exists, just sometimes not both ways. You must admit office romances are pretty shaky to begin with. Also I think if you reread your query, you must admit, you sound a bit obsessed. You proposed before knowing about her family? This can be scary to a woman. Probably even more uncomfortable since she works with you. In the same light recognize your own goals and how they differ from hers. Do you really think it would work? Don't give up your dreams of film making, etc. Get on with your life. She is 22 and life still isn't all that serious sometimes. She still has alot going on and may not be ready.
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yes lol this reminds me of my boyfriend if you both are comfortable with one another then ask him/her for a second time as long as you are not taking advantage and let him/her decide without pressure then i think there is nothing wrong with mentioning it well good luck and remember use a condom!
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Never dip your pen in the company ink. Yes, you made a mistake about being open to your coworker. He might take this as a hint. Keep work ...work and sex related things in another place. That is if you want to keep your job.