My ex-husband is using information he obtained from my internet banking system to sue me in court.  He has also threatened me with using "dirt" he has on me on his computer to show my fiance.  I believe this means he has had access to my e-mail account.
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are you sure he has the real information, not just bluffing?\nif he has illegally obtained information why don't you immediately take out an injunction and try to have it declared inadmissible?\nlastly, forget about your fiance. if he loves you he will stick around.\nyour problem is tidying up the loose ends and dealing with your lawsuit.
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It's bad when you find out that your being watched, or taped at your own home. I was being watched by a P.I. that was hired by an Ins. company to try and prove that I was faking my injury. I had NO Clue it was being done till we got into court. LOL the funny thing is is that there was nothing on there. The Lawyer presented this tape and I was like dammnnn...but then we watched it and there was nothing on there to prove their case. I wish I would have known he was out there, I could have set them up. My Lawyer told me the next time I saw them outside my house watching me I should invite him in for coffee.If your not doing anything wrong, don't let them bring you down. Let them do all the background checks they want, if there isn't anything there then you shouldn't worry about it. Consult a Lawyer! And Talk to your Husband! This can make you a very paranoid person, but that seems to be the goal here. To see how far they can push you...Is it worth it?
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be careful so that he does not sue you for slander, but you can print off his record and mail it to the local neighbor's that isn't slander that's public notice, and any-one can access that info
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It's ok if he sues you, you can recoupe your money after suing his roses. Good luck babe, and give me a call after your rich ;)
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Do you have anything in writing in regards to the work that you did for him?  Do you have proof that these are your tools?  I think that I would try calling the cops first and file a report.  The cops will talk to him and that might be enough for him to let you have your tools.  If that doesn't work, take him to court and provide whatever you have in writing to the judge.
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Maybe he did not get the email.  Maybe the Internet Dog ate it.  Don't leave things up to technology.  Call him and ask him straight out what he thinks about your relationship.
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He can sue you, sure.   Whether or not he can WIN is the real issue, and as long as you told the truth, you have a pretty good defense.  If he is harassing you by phone and threatening, I think THAT's his intent - just to give you a hard time.  His legal costs would be pretty significant, and, even if yor story is only PART true, he stands little chance of collecting from you (although a trail is a hassle, and you would have some expense).\n\nSounds like he's playing "chicken."  Make sure your version of the story is accurate, and then ignore him.  Or if you don't think the harassment is worth posting a complaint, remove it and get over it.  If the complaint is legitimate, you should report him to the BBB.  And if it were me, I would post something with THAT, and just say  you had a very bad experience.
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its illegal but its not just him who can go into ur comp and i doubt he will confess in court or to the police but  he could then get angry and destroy ur comp and everything u have in there so keep on making back ups and try getting a good anti hacker and anti virus program. also download du meter which shows the activity of ur internet connection so u can see whats happening so if your not looking at anything and u see that its moving disconect ur connection straight away.  good luck
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If they are not using there real email I would change email addresses and report the email.(save it and or print it out! You shouldnt be getting threatend. The proper authorities should be able to use there IP address from the computer that is being used!
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OMG! I heard on the news that your identity can be used and there is somekind of shadow record for the person using your identity. Apparently it's nearly impossible for a consumer to find out who and how their identity has been used. Only credit companies, I think, and the gov. have access to ALL the files associated with a certain social security number. I think that they said that it would be an invasion of privacy for you to see the other person's records EVEN if it is on your social security number. CRAZY Huh?! it's true too! (*_*)
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Best bet? Mark it as spam on yahoo. Next time he send and email, yahoo will write to him back that "the email address you are trying to reach is not available"\n\n--> BTW, I like your policy about the ex. X is X. Otherwise it leads to emotional threesomes, a huge turmoil.
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=I think he is sicker than a typical nosey neighbour.  I find this unbelievable as well.  He is what I consider a stalker and there are laws against this behaviour.  I would get proof positive and make copies of this Internet stuff just to be sure and you can also track the address of the computer from which it was posted.  I would then go to his Father and tell hm that you realize this is his son but he needs to do something about it besides taking it off the Internet or you will go to higher authorities and cause them more stress and embarrassment than you have been thru.  Yes, it is your own home and you have rights however, knowing this creep is a peeping tom, be more careful in the future as to where you pleasure yourself or you are just asking for trouble.  Good luck.
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I hope you have kept the emails, if not then keep the future ones and report him.  If you have a Email address with your ISP contact your ISP and ask their advice, you could even possibly go to the police.  Its no different than sending letters.
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You realize that someone could let your instructor/GTA know what you are doing via the email addresses you listed right? \n\nI would suggest you pull this down fast, edit it or report yourself for abuse!\n\nDoh!
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It happened to my sister-in-law, she called her Internet service in order to get it changed on her email account. Something to do with privacy and identity theft, and this worked for her. But, different services has different rules.
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My guy did that. I caught him flirting online and literally blew up on him. He got rid of the computer for about a month. Then when it did come back, any type of Instant Messenger was banned from our computer (it still is!). He promised to never erase the history file and I could "check up" on him whenever I wanted to. And he didn't go to any sites that would be considered questionable. It took time, but I was able to put it behind us. His willingness to be an open book helped me to trust him again. It was never an issue again, and that was many many years ago.
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If this person used your real name and/or address, and said malicious untrue things about you, I think you have a pretty good case for defamation (libel). \nI say, go for it.\n\nRead this article for more information:\nhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Libel