My husband and i have tried almost everything (in bed) so now theres nothing new we can do! Does anyone have any new ideas, im open to anything (as long as it just involes us, no 3 somes)
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1. Have him draw/paint you nude and then make passionate love to you.\n\n2. Make love somewhere with the risk of getting caught... in a libary, in an elevator, outside, etc.\n\n3. Blindfold him when he comes home. Tie him up to the bed. You take charge.\n\n4. Take a weekend off. Go somewhere exotic. Make love in a swimming pool, or in the ocean.\n\n5. Each of you should write out a fantasy involving the other person. Act out the fantasies for each other.\n\n6. Cook naked together. Include aphrodisiacs such as avocados and chocolate. Have a sexy naked meal; then, enjoy dessert.\n\n7. Get a fancy hotel room and make love in the jacuzzi.\n\n8. Record yourselves having sex, then watch the videos together before going another round.\n\n9. Experiment with temperature. Use ice cubes and candle wax.\n\n10. Go to bed naked. Hold each other and just kiss each other. Stop, and remind each other why you love each other so much. Tell him everything that makes him sexy to you. The result should be an exceptionally passionate lovemaking session.\n\nEnjoy!
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This is my first and only marriage and sometimes we both get bored, but that is the challenge. We keep mixing it up. Nothing kinky but we rediscover each other. Where there is no challenge, there is no marriage.
277753
Happy Anniversary! My husband and I just had our 1st, we went to a bed & breakfast and it was absolutly wonderful. I think what made it so great was that we didn't have our days packed with stuff to do, we were treated like we were the most important people it the world and every thing was slow paced so we could enjoyed every moment of each others company. Maybe you can find one in your area and don't forget to ask for the rose petals: )
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Maybe not a quick orgasm, but you should tell your husband to give you foreplay enough to get you off and then let him go at it. That way you both get yours.
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maybe u need 2 give ur sex life a shove. Try sumthing new like new positions. find sumwer els 2 do it instead of on d bed (do it in d car, u'll enjoy it). Ask ur guy if he wants u to try sumthing new d way he likes. Maybe a bit of change is all you need
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my husband & i have try to have fun in everthing that we do. we watch movie together, we chat through YM even if we are together in the bedroom, eating, bathing, whatever! as long as we are both in the mood, then everything is fun!   = )
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Ohhhhhhh, well it is hard when others are around and u can't make much noise.  That could be a key factor.  Maybe try some new positions, change it up.  Lots of foreplay is also what most girls are looking for.
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I am a wife for 20 and sometime can be! try goin to the sex store together, see if anythin gets your at. also try candles and a beach at nite with no one around or just the blanket dont need to see! baths together or showers and just be open with eachother and see what you end up with sometimes fe.will agree with alot more than you think, good luck!
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yes ...\ni think u need to try something not some1 new. give it a boost, try different positions, and places, maybe toys
82874
Try heating up tea, add lemons, and honey.:)
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Hello Ninjachik, my wife and I went to counsleing for several years. We had only one problem in our marriage. I wanted sex more than she did. We were great in every other way.\nWe tried 3 different counsleors and what happened to us was after a few sessions, the counselor seemed to side with one of us and then the other person felt like they were being picked on by the counselor and our spouse. We gave up with them and started e-mailing each other! We both literally spilled our guts. We were very open with our feelings and the e-mail allowed us to say what we wanted without the other person interrupting! It took a few months of doing this but within about 2 weeks, we both felt that we were on to something! We both agreed to be more positive about things in general. If one of us was down, the other person picked them up. We both made efforts to do things the other person enjoyed. We started having more sex but I was no longer pressuring her to do this. Without the pressure from me, her desire picked back up! Now after almost 11 years of marriage, we go at it like two teenagers! I am not saying that counselling won't work for the two of you but you could try what worked for us. Talk to your husband and see if he is willing. It does take time but it sounds like you still love him. I will keep an eye on this question and if you want to discuss this more, let me know.\nI wish you and your family the very best of luck!
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It's a good question Helen. My wife and I are doing more sexually than ever before! Alot of it would depend on how much BOTH of you enjoy this new act! If you both enjoy it, you may want to take it another step. If one person wasn't so happy about it, I would sit down together and talk about it. Maybe you could try it one more time or maybe that is as far as it should go and not try it again!\nWe have done quite a few things, if you want to e-mail me I may be able to give you some more help.\nEither way, good luck!
280082
try going to adult stores, read up on it. try the pill x. Works wonders just dont get to into it.
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Sounds like you've done everything I would have suggested. I guess just keep talking and try to figure some things to make things interesting. Maybe try creating a different type of relationship for awhile. Try not having sex for a year or so and engage in activities that may remind both of you of sex but are in no way related. Go talk to a sex therapist. Sorry, that's the best I got
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Walking and sex worked for me.  Unfortunately, sometimes you will stay at that point for a couple of weeks.  Don't worry...it'll come...promise!  :)
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Maybe try a new program that gives you more options..  From what i have learned..  you should never make anything off limits  but instead take in small does things you like..   Diet should not be an awful experience.  I wish you luck..
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i see what yu mean. but..... i  don't know if you had the same volves. as me , but mine said in  sickness and in health.. just as it says  in  sickness and in    health...  honey, i know it's hard, but   we have to  endure. my husband  has not given me sex   for 20 years because  of a medical  problem. some times i question   that medical  problem but  i   have to live with it. i masterbate to  fulfill. you may have to  too.  it get old. you can only imagine so much.  i  wish  somehow we could met and satisfy each   other. good luck  humming.....you   want   to get in  touch  with me, my email :tootalljones@yahoo.com we can have im sex want to. im is the   same .yahoo IM down load it.