Ok if we r the girl and how do we get the boy to dance with u cuz there's just  like 10 ppl around so it's not like a big party making it more awkward He's just sitting there and he's alil shy and so r u idk and what's the worst thing that could happen and what do u think would be the best I think as soon as we got dancing it'd all fall into place....what do u all think...asking for good advice
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Trust me, asking this question already makes you look like an idiot, so please stop now. And ask somebody in the real world how.
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Tell him you are not comfortable with the physical contact when he dances with your friends.  I think that's fair.  See if it helps the situation at all.  Reassure him that you trust him, and you're not accusing him of "almost cheating" with your friends or anything like that... it's just this one aspect of his behavior that you would like him to change.  If he backs off a little, but the dancing still bothers you, then go from there.  Good luck!
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That shouldn't be too tough for you to do.  Consider school, the swimming pool or lake.  Highschool dances will get you even closer. I find it hard to fanthom that you'd have any difficult time placing yourself where girl meets boy/s in an appropriate manner.
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hey chill out i dance with ivan, i know him personally, and hes a really talented dancer, hes not a dime a dozen... hes a really versatile dancer... of which is hard to find... u need not talk down about another style of dancing, you need to respect it... and if u dance then u should know u need to respect every style of dancing.. cuz i do everything from modern to tap to breakin , salsa, and ballroom, etc... i love it all...and respect it all..you cant say that its not as respectable to do a certain type...i just  think ur upset cuz u think hes cute and u do ballroom.. now i wouldnt know just i dont watch the show consistantly but give these people their props for coming this far.. and just chill ... everyones talented...so chill its just a show.. plus id like to see a ballroom dancer such as yourself to the "dime a dozen" hiphop
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it's ok, girl! life goes on. see if there might be another boy out in the world you like..\nbut if this keeps happening (which i really really doubt that is possible), MAKE UR MOVE!! dont be shy, MAKE HER LOOK BAD!! unless she's like your best friend, or something, but try talking to him a little bit! \notherwise, idk what to do...
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Why not suggest that the three of you...maybe invite some other friends...get together and do something.  Does this have to be a tug of war between you for who is going to be this girl's first choice?
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i have the same problem...i really like this kid but i don't know how to talk to him....i've tried hanging out with some of his friends who are also my friends and he comes up to his friends and starts talking to them and i'll just keep on talking to them...it's worked for me a few times...who knows...it might work for you too!!! tell me about the results!
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I think you should just ask him to dance!  You don't have to let him know that you like him, just ask to dance.  Then maybe you can chat while dancing so he can find out more about you, and you can find out more about him.  \nYou may find out he isn't who you thought he was or maybe you will find out he really likes you too.\nMake sure you come across casual, and not desperate.
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first off im proud to hear a youngin like your self wants to wait u keep that up :) 2nd off tell him how you feel. tell him he doesnt have to be shy around you. you want him to be himself. give him time, maybe yall should hang round more often and get to know one another. i was shy then and still am, but not as bad. but maybe if you tell him a little more bout yourself than he already knows and maybe u ask him ?s u wanna know maybe he'll open up. just takes time
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It's a little wierd, but it's sweet all at the same time. How about Martina McBride's "In my daughter's eyes." It's a very nice song and half way through you could invite other mother/daughter  father/daughter duos onto the floor with you so it wouldn't be so bizarre for so long.\n\nAlso, by inviting people onto the dance floor to be with you two and then having a great song follow, you will really get the dancing party started.
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he still wants to be able to talk to, but it looks like hes a different person. when hes in a big crowd your not the kinda person that he wants to be, its like 2 best friends in different crowds. one goes skater, one goes prep. they still like each other but they turn into two different people. what i would do is just come out and say it. rejection can be hard, but at least you'll know the truth if he says yes. all goes well and y'all give it a chance. if he says no than ask to be friends and leave it at that.
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Maybe you are that ONE person that makes him feel differently.  Or he just didnt want to dance wrong for you SO BADLY that it made him stiff.  It happens, and I bet if you dance with him again and he is more comfortable with you, it will get better.  He probably just wanted to impress you and make sure he didnt scare you off be being too forward with you.\n\n=D
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In order to survive the socialness of school, there are two options:\n\n1.) Don't invite the kid. If he later learns of the party, tell him only a certain number of kids could be invited, and that you're sorry you couldn't include him.\n\nor\n\n2.) Invite him anyway! If he thinks your his friend, why not be nice? I don't think people will remember who was invited to your party a few months after it's over, so why not? You could see a new side to this kid and become the best of friends. You never know until you try!
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You should ask him because you dont want to see another girl take the boy you like and you want to to something before its to late,everyone gets a little shy and shaky around their crush and you dont have to be loud like him ,just be you! to me thats luv!
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girl if this guy told aother girl and he couldn't go to a dance just cuase of hocky and then when u show up hes waiting for u girl he LIKES u!!!!!!!
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Perhaps he is feeling clumsy or awkward, despite the dancing lessons.  I've had dancing lessons as well and I still feel like I look really clumsy.  I'll only dance in the living room where no one else can see me.  Just tell him that you would really appreciate it if he would dance with you at your reception.  Maybe he will, maybe he won't but nagging won't accomplish anything except annoying you both.\nAnother thought just occurred...why not offer to let him select the dance?  Maybe if you let him choose a song and a dance with which he is comfortable he'll concede.
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(1) Many people seem to worry about their dance moves. Here are some ideas to help you look great on the dance floor. \n\nSteps \nRealize that dancing is all about confidence. When you go out, remember you are there to have fun, and so is everyone else. No one is judging you on how you dance, and if they are then they probably aren't the sort of people worth worrying about.If your esteem is low, your body language will reflect this, so go out there with your head held high, back straight and smile. \n\nPractice dancing whenever you have the chance. Dance in the kitchen, in the bedroom and in the living room. Not only will this help to improve your general fitness but you'll start to feel more comfortable in your body. \n\nGet in shape. Once you feel more comfortable with your body, you'll be able to move it in ways you never thought possible. \n\nDon't get too drunk. Drunken dancing never looks good, and you'll end up feeling foolish. \n\nLose yourself in the music. Let your body move naturally to the beats and rhythms. \n\nImprovise. To be perfectly honest, dancing isnt really something that has to be learned, 75% of people who go to dances really just wing it. So have fun. \n\nTips \nDance classes are a very good resource. \nYou are only as good a dancer as you think you are; it's up to you, not anyone else. \nWatch MTV or other music channels. Watch how people dance and try to copy their moves. \nDance how you like. There's no right way! \n\n\n(2) First you need your partner to want you to kiss them, so make sure you smell and taste good. \n\nDon't lunge. Lean in slowly, slow is sensual. \n\nSuck on her lip while she sucks on yours. \n\nMake sure your lips are out of the way, then play with each others tongue. \n\nTips \nTo find out if she'll kiss you, see if you can cuddle up to her. \n\nIf you are a girl, to see if he likes you sweet talk him and if he blushes or smiles sweetly then he likes you. \n\nTry rubbing the backs of the teeth of the other person with your tongue. It creates a ticklish feeling and enhances the fun. \n\nDo circular and flickering motions with your tongue. Be creative! \n\nDo make sure that your partner is actually ready for a French kiss. If they seem comfortable with an open-mouth kiss, ever-so-slightly touch their lip with your tongue, as if by accident. If they seem not to notice or back away, gradually increase the touch. \n\nRub your tongue on the roof of his/her mouth.