How do you start a conversation if you meet someone you like at, let's say, school or university?\nHow do you ask her interests/hobbies?\nWhat to talk to open a conversation in chatroom or sms, besides what are you doing right now?\nHow do you flirt with someone without making a nasty expression/sentence?\nIf you meet someone interesting at a party, mall or cafe?\n\n(Please answer if you're in a position as a teenager)\n\nThank you for your help.
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Complement her on her looks or fashion sense...then after a few sentences...tell her that not only is she beautiful bur smart too... DO NOT tell her she is sexy until after you have spoken to her a few times..If you do she will think that you are only interested in the one thing..if you wait, she will think that you are more aware of the things that she prefers to be recognized as..like smart and beautiful....tell her that she is sexy when it shows that she is trying to be sexy for you...She will look upon that complement as an achievment for her..not as a pigish remark from you.
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Excuse me,but can you help me,there's someone i like and i don't know whtt to say to her--what's good pick up line (i know it's silly,)but help me ,what's the best pick up line  you think a guy could use-i mean really -I really like this girl-alot-do you know any ? you must of had some said to you? some silly once i'm sure-- i don't want to look like a jerk-i like her--help me -what should i say--what kind of line would work on you? " she tells -- you say thanks- take it -turn -take a step stop -turn back-use it!\n\nthey laugh anyway
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Just be normal and ask normal stuff, i.e. 'hi, how are you'? You are more likely to get a nice flowing conversation this way.
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Well hun.. if youve been emo .. for the past two years... Okay actually let me just say this. i have this friend.. some people call her goth, some people call her emo.. although she dresses like a prep. she's only cut once in her life. but, if you do something once, people are never gunna stop labeling you from before.  So, first of all, you'll always be called emo. I hope you've realized that by now. Anyways, if you wanna start a conversation, it depends on the person. For example,  you could go up to them, say Hi I'm ( your name here ) and then you could talk about school or sports or whatever you think they would be into. Just a simple "whats up" can be an easy way to start the flow of conversation. . with a person who likes to talk. So basically, it all depends on the person and their personality. \nGood luck !
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It might be easier for you if you can find out a little about something he likes and start the conversation there. Or something that worked for me is ask about the you both have class. Example: What do you think of the class? or Did you understand that example, blah, blah. Good luck!!
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I have to agree good friendship evolves when there is a lot of communication. Maybe you or her don't know how to carry on a long conversation. Maybe you can talk about other things than just yourselves and jump to other things going on. Keep title after title. And make it humorous so it can be funny and serious at the same time. Also ask her about anything new she's heard or seen. Make compliments about certain things and certain things that don't sound right explain to her that it's unexpected and when she asks why explain because of the type of person she seems but that should be the time to make it into a compliment and make it interesting. But it has to be face to face. Ask her if she would like to go somewhere for a meal where you can enjoy a conversation. I think through that you can land a good friendship. Hope I was helpful.
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Don't go for the cheesy chat up line, just be yourself and chat about anything and everything, there is nothing specific you can say to break the ice, you just need to be open, nice and friendly, if she aint interested in ya after that it aint worth it anyway.
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Talk about her. Ask her questions about her.\n\nWhat do you do?\nWhere do you go to school?\nHave you ever been to a rock concert?\nWhat are your favorite subjects in school? Least?\nHave you seen any new movies?\nWould you rather go shopping or get a manicure?\nWhat's your favorite car and why?\nWhat's your favorite food?\n\nMost people are not willing to admit that they like talking about themselves. :-D\n\nDon't ask about past relationships and ex-boyfriends. She might go on a rant or rave about them. Relationship topics is a BIG no-no when it comes to first conversations.
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walking with her down the hall to her locker is a good idea.  i'd just suggest not waiting by her locker as she puts her stuff away because that might be weird for her...just talk with her on the way to her locker (even if it's out of your way).  ummm...when you walk together, walk close to her.  as close as she feels comfortable with.  she'll move away a bit when you're too close for too long.  maybe bump up against her, not in a real bump but just where you softly run into her shoulder;  kind of like it was accidental.  BUT....skip all of that if you don't know what i mean.  the last thing you want to do is make her feel weird being there so don't bump into her or walk close if you aren't comfortable with that!\n\nyou probably shouldn't ask her to eat with you at lunch.  if it's like my school, people sit with their friends, and she probably sits with her friends and you with yours...that might make it awkward asking her to do that (and it'll start rumors immediately).  but if you both sit at the same table, there's nothing wrong with sitting next to her and talking to her.\n\nthis depends on your relationship previous to now (old friends, new friends, classmates, etc.), but if you know that she likes you, you can be nice and say something nice like "you look nice today" or something like that.  just say something nice.\n\nthis depends somewhat on your age, but i agree that asking her to do something with you is a good idea.  you want it to be something that you both enjoy.  there was one person who liked playing tennis for fun, so i asked her if she would like to do that sometime after school.  asking her to do something gives you both a chance to be around each other and learn more about each other.  just as a note, this does not have to be a date.  it can be just hanging out and doing something.  (it might seem like a date, but there are differences.)\n\nif you go to a game or other sporting event and you see her, you can go up to her and say hi and how are you.  then talk to her.  most likely, she'll be more interested in talking to you, so just keep talking.  by going out of your way to talk to her, it should be obvious that you want to be around her.\n\nevery time you see her, whether in class or in the hallway, make sure that you say hi.  don't ignore her and just pass by.  that can ruin everything that you've done before.  if she likes you, she'll want you to say hi and she'll always look forward to those times that you do.\n\nthose are some ideas, hopefully they help!
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The best way to flirt is to not be shy, but also don't be pushy.  Be nice.  Start with something simple - "Does it look like rain?"  "That guy over there is acting pretty weird, huh?" "What kind of _____ (drink, fruit, coffee, pencil - just about anything that fits the situation) do you recommend?"  If you're natural, a little curious, and not pushy (and she's not in a bad mood), she'll be friendly back.  Don't think about trying to flirt, just think about making good conversation.  If it does look like rain, you might ask about getting out of it.  If she thinks he's weird, confess to being just a little weird yourself sometimes, just for fun.  If she recommends a latte, try it and tell her it's great.  And just let the conversation flow naturally.\n\nOnce you're okay just talking, find a way to ask her about herself.  Just about everyone (and - sorry gals - women most of all) likes to talk about themselves.  And it's a subtle form of flattery to be interested in her.  True interest in a person - her school, her likes, her friends, her job - is the trickiest way to flirt, because you're saying both "You're interesting" and "I like knowing about you."  And everyone likes to be liked.  Pretty soon you're a good friend, and if you are good at being a friend, there's much better odds you'll soon be a boyfriend.\n\nIf you're getting signs that you've overstepped your welcome, bow out gracefully "Hey, its been nice talking to you" and move on.  If you try too hard with someone who just isn't going to work out, you'll not only offend her but also chance getting a bad reputation that will get around, ruining later chances.\n\nDO NOT use a pickup line.  They're lame, and 97% of all girls (women) know they're lame, they're just a come-on, and that you're desperate.  Only desperate women will respond to them, and most desperate women are not the kind you want for a girlfriend!\n\nGood luck - try this out, then come back here and give some other guy some good advice if it works!
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lol one thing dont do.. The cheesy comments.., No girl likes that.., if gives them.., the feeling that., your a major flirt. introduce yourself.., and say, I couldnt resist how beautiful you look, and i had to talk to you.., for i had no oppurtunity to approach you.. and say.. i do admit i was shy.., but it wouldnt have gotton any easier. and ask what her name is.., and if she walks away.. she wasnt interested.. if she flashes you a smile,then shes waiting for you to talk some more.
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this may sound weird or corny but it may work.  if ur not a shy one and able to start a conversation.  if u go to barnes and nobles, look for a guy who's in the same section ur interested in and start a conversation from there ;)
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I think I am the perfect person to help you out lol. I'm very friendly and I try and make conversation with everyone. Okay, well don't ask anything too personal, since you don't want to offend anyone. Start off by asking them general questions. First and foremost, ask the person their name, give your name and tell them that your new in the town and ask them general questions about how long they've been coming to the school and such and go from there. I garuantee you the conversation with bloom and eventually you will make some really nice people. Good luck!
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DOESN'T ONLY DEPEND ON UR INTERESTS,\nUT ALSO WHAT D OTHER PERSON'S INTERESTED IN..\nbut 4 me personally...\nin no particular order...\n1.ask Qs bout him\n2.football-soccer\n3.fave bands n singers\n4.movies\n5.just idle chats-what's going on \nwherever we happen to b at..\nBUT DUDE,I'M 18..so this might not work 4 u?
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if you are sincere in wanting to get to know her, ask a lot of questions and expound on the answer for instance: "do you like sports?" yes I do "like what? volleyball. "did you ever play?" yes in junior high " is it the competiton you like or the teamwork?" and so on. questions are a good way to show you have an interest. I just gave you the key my friend, use it wisely to unlock many doors.
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Actually, it's as old as Adam and Eve, but most conversations start out with Hello, or Hi, or even Aloha.\nIt's just breaking the ice.\nIf you get a polite response, ask him a question, anything simple, like, "I wondered if you ever saw that movie, and what did you think about it" Best use one that you've seen. Ditto for music, TV, etc. Hey he may have even read a book or two.\nHe won't kill you, he might ignore you, but that's the worst that can happen. If he does, then it wasn't meant to be. You must be young, and those things pass and you'll move on to someone new.
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say these words to your self\n\nI can talk to a girl\nwhat do I have to loose??\nwhat's the difference between me and "a name of the flirtiest guy you ever know!!!"??\n\nso you think that when you talk to a girl you will get shy and screw everything up?? in fact some girls really like it when a guy get shy while he is speaking to them.