I love my boy friend. I want to know if it is true love. When i'm around him i get this feeling like i'm not all the way there and that he makes me forget all my troubles. He is always in my dreams. And he said he feels exacatly the same way.
199690
if you get butterflies, and if he can make you feel safe in his arms, then its him! go with what your gut tells you... or better still ask him face to face!
651853
Hey girl- My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 9 months. We go to the same college so we are together 9 months out of the year. during the summer, though, I am in another state and he stays there. I really think that the only reason we as girls would think that we have feelings for someone else is that we get the attention from this guy- the attention we usually get from our boyfriend when we are together. Don't let your mind and emotions take over. Stay true to your man- your love, if you believe that it is strong enough, will stand through even the hardest times... God bless!!
421983
WOW! This is CRAZY! I am in the exact, I mean exact same situation! I have a guy friend (best friend at that) and he is a little bit attractive, and I know he is in love with me because he tells me so, but I do not have romantic feelings towards him. Sometimes I get the urge to let things go further (physically) but in the long run, I never let it get that far. I believe, if something is mentally stopping you from going further with him, then you should listen to your gut feeling. It might also make things complicated after you initially sleep together. He'll be calling you all the time, crying about his love for you and whatnot, and you will have to tell him (once again) that you don't have feelings for him. Trust me, this is what happened when I slipped up and accidentally kissed my guy friend....but either/or, GOOD LUCK!!!
288305
you're in love! everything you are feeling is natural. try not to stress out about it or you will drive him away!
532887
There is real love. I have been attached to or dependent on  people that I didn't necessarily love. I have called these experiences love out of desperation, but I have also felt true love for others. I just haven't often had it returned. I've had people swear that they did love me, but it was more need than anything--you can tell who does and does not love you by refusing to be a door mat. The ones who remain love you.
113682
When I fell in love with my guy I just knew he was the one for me. I was happy every single time I thought of him and even happier when I saw him. I couldn't picture myself with anyone else or being by myself. I missed him when he wasn't there and I miss him right now because he's out of town on a business trip. :(
665610
I have known such love... the same feeling there is God's presence in this mystic experience.\nThe thoughts flow to each other without speaking a word...\nAs it goes in 'Alchemist', 'the whole world conspires when you're achieving your dream'... I feel the same way, just that the dream here is, bringing us together... and it's a dream that will never end... \n\nYou should be glad that you're one of the blessed to find the person whom you love and who loves you the same...
81934
If you have to ask if you love him, then its pretty safe to say that you dont. You probably had a good thing going with him and thats why you get jealous, but it doesn't sound like you're in love. And if it doesn't work out and your munky really is chunky you can always holla at me :)
101616
That is what called real love. He is really loving you and don't want to make disturb you by inviting you in his life.  If you could more happiness than he can deliver, he is more satisfier than anybody.\n\nHe is really loving you.  Don't think negatively.  Be positive.
270450
Ive been in love like that and all you can do is keep telling him how you feel. For me, I feel like i cant breathe when hes not around. But its a good feeling not a bad one. Let him know he is the only man for you. That you can never ever feel like this for anyone else. Let him know that your heart beats for him, that you wake up everyday thinking of ways to make him happy, that you love him unconditionally. That you are his forever. If all else fails, tattoo his name on your butt! LOL
666254
If you truly love this guy, that really wouldn't matter, but I can understand where you are coming from.  People say you are a reflection of the people you choose to have around you.  But since he doesn't act that way around you, it's hard to know the real him!  It's makes me think he might be just trying too hard around other people, while he feels comfortable enough around you to just be himself.  If you believe he is more "himself" with you than with other people, then eventually the "true him" will shine through in all his relationships with a little time and maturity.  :)\n\nGood luck!
345012
I absolutely believe that it is possible as I have had it happen to me. But...not all premonitions come true. I feel that you should go on as planned and see what happens. Maybe he'll have another "feeling" that it will happen or maybe he will find out what you both can do to ensure it does happen.
319862
I am sorry to ask you that why do you have this feeling does your boyfriend likes you or not.Why is this feeling aroused in you.See if he had not loved you he might have left you long time back and had gone to some other female so which means that he does'nt love you but if he is there with you and take's care of you that means he certainly loves you.So why that feeling.See what i can tell you is when you love a person never doubt him or her until and unless you feel and see that something is wrong with themBut if nothing that thought of suspesion is there then enjoy loving and enjoy living.
175377
Ah...this is an age-old question. Not an easy answer on this either. Does he feel the same way about you? Would you be willing to give up all that you have to be with him, knowing you can't go back if things fall apart? I know I'm not answering your question but giving you more questions. This is something you have to follow in your heart.
119565
its normal you would feel like this, the heart often rules the head, but does this situation make you feel good, if anything ever did happen properly with this man you would never trust him because of how you met. time is a great thing, things change, even after all that been said you need to give him time to think what he really wants, he seems to be going through a difficult time, he needs to give himself a chance to get his own thoughts in order.  but for yourself as a person, you owe to yourself not to be anybodies second fiddle, it would never be enough for anybody because naturally we always want more. hi how are you anyway gav
589768
ok sweety, don't worry right now, if your b/f is being honist with you right now, he will be in the future aswell and that's great!! just keep in mind that if he is being honist with you now he loves you and well be happy you are loved\nbtw is your name david?
648383
Love is in the heart. How do you feel about this guy. Sometimes to fancy each other is not enough, it could just be lust. Do you have butterflies in your stomach when you see him? How does he treat you? What has he done for you to make you feel that he loves you. Love is not a saying thing, it is a feeling and doing thing. Did he bring you flowers? Did he run to pick up your pencil when you dropped it?  Let me give you a hint. My husband still runs to pick up my pencil when I drop it, sometimes i drop it on purpose. After he picks it up I would give him a big kiss and say\nYES just as if I had made a big sale. Everyone has a little thing out of several that gives them a hint. You must have one. If you cannot find any then hit the road. Love doesn't live there. Some people use that term just to get in your pants. be careful.