if your man was online talkin all mushy to his x bitch that he dog all the time to you. and hates it when u bring her up and don't wanna talk about it cause he luvs u so much ....
200546
Apparently you DO know about it, so that kinda changes the basis of your question...
233484
Stop asking them. Keep the petty questions to yourself. My man hates that I ask him to many questions about petty stuff. I still can't seem to keep my mouth shut tho. Good luck with that. Its not as easy as it sounds.
529416
I would have to tell him that I have read the letter, Apologise for the fact that I was snooping but I would have to confront him and ask him what she means otherwise you are not going to get it out of your head.\nYou take that chance when you snoop through other peoples things you find things that you don't like and it drives you crazy, I'm not condemning you cos Ive done the same thing but I would have to own up and bring the subject out IN the open.\nGood luck, and remember he might have said something meaningless to her and she has took it in the wrong context.
292433
I'm into brutal truth BUT some people can't handle that kind of truth. it would depend on the man. Can he handle it? If something can come back and bite you in the butt later, it's best to just get it out and deal with it. I'm sure your partner would rather hear it from you then someone else.
95108
Lets put it this way, do you think she doesn't know about it already?  If you want misery, tell her, let her know what you think.  I am all for communication, but it is a very sensitive area to women.  I wouldn't even think about bringing it up.  Besides, you should be loving the woman for who she is and not what she looks like...that is really shallow.
364499
he probably thinks there is nothing to worry about and laughs that you are concerned..my fiance does the same thing if i act even the tiniest bit jealous or anything, he thinks it's cute. your fiance probably doesnt  see this woman as a threat
217369
I would be P.O.ed in the worst way.  What was he thinking?  I'd give some serious consideration to what he's done.  How many other things has he concealed from you?  Doesn't he know that behavior like that shows disrepectfulness for your relationship?  Clamp down on that now!
314262
Yes, I agree with the fact that it's his responsiblity to tell her himself, that is was inappropriate, late at night, and disrespectful to you. He needs to confront her, tell her these things, and also, he should actually agree with how you feel about it, because it should just be you that's upset. He should feel discusted with her, as well. That chick needs her own damn boyfriend or husband, and needs to stop messing with yours!
186483
If she really was a stalker, he would have told you about her by now.  You said this is a long-term relationship, so he would have confided that informatiojn in you.  He is lying, and I am a guy!!!  Sorry, dude, you are busted.  Move on, sister, he is not being faithful to you and why has he not made a committment to you?  At the very least, he is being emotionally unloyal to you even if he has done nothing with this online "girlfriend."  It has a long time.  Move on.  P.S.  I am married, so I am not saying this to get you or anything.  I know from experience that guys "cheat" on girlfriends with online hussies.
391780
I wouldn't put up with it. It sounds like your of the same mind. My man would eat a phone if he was with me talking to another girl.
109676
I would confront him but dont be angry about it at first, because he could have a reason. My boyfriend had the same issue , but once i found out the reasons it became okay, talk to your boyfriend calmly , he will react better and might not get so defensive. i would have him delete her from his list so that he couldnt talk to her, that way you and him would feel better. Explain to him it makes you unhappy and that you have insecurities about begin left and that you are worried that you are not making him happy , and he wants what he had. He should then feel sad and will want to cuddle you and then try to be emotional that way he knows you do care about the two of you begin together. Good Luck
210314
Women can play games just like men do.  You always hear the women complain and tell stories of their husbands and boyfriends sneaky affairs but men don't have this happen as often to them.  But sounds to me like she was just playing a game and in her eyes winning.  No it is not wrong for you to not want to converse with her and you should not feel that you have to.  Simply say, After what happened between us I have been left with questions in my mind and have chosen that the best thing for me to do is not talk to you, so if you would please don't talk to me anymore it makes me feel uncomfortable as I just don't trust you.  Harsh, but can be done.
364713
How much do you nag him? Guys hate it when women keep reminding them of little things its annoying
435987
He talks to his ex and hides it because he likes her. You are serving as a filler in his relationship gap.
327283
I personally would tell him that it's not the best idea to lament over the old gf with the new one too much.  It would make me feel as if he was measuring me against her to qualify me.  BUT, you can offer to talk about her with him in context if he just needs to express stuff.
185080
Alright if I have a wife I shouldn't have a girlfriend to tell anything to. Sounds like your getting played out sukafree style. "I do not love her I love you baby and I am gonna leave my wife and kids, naww you see it all the time on Jerry Springer and Maury. Run from this situation.
246624
Girl. please.........You already know the truth. Always go with your initial gut feeling!!! He is a dog!!!