That will turn my negative thoughts about relationships to positive ones that I will gain from?
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I believe everyone has a sole mate
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If you are already having negative feelings about it then I would suggest you do some research. It is almost impossible to accomplish if you fear it. You will defeat your own efforts. There is nothing evil or devilish about it. God gave us these abilities so that we could connect.\nlove n light\nsharon
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You are a caring loving person. You are valuable and important for this world. Love is all around you. Realize that the past can't be changed but the future belongs to you to make beautiful. Make the choice to love your self and share that love with your children. The lessons you learned as a child have empowered you to make the world of your children a loving and happy place. Indeed, you are polarized by your experiences. Use the negative to make a positive. Good luck to you and bless you.
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lol, chill out, you'll find better love, i just went through something kinda like that, and it hurt at first, but you will gain confidence by saying no.
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Quit thinking about the stuff you don't want and start thinking about the things you do want..  Go after what you want and don't focus on the negative things in your life....
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Everyone has a past, even you, don't choose to dwell on the negative.  There is a reason this person is with you now, and if you want to keep this person with you, you must realize that anything that happened before you was BEFORE you.  Y
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It sounds like your combining all your negatives into one giant lump which over shadows all the positives in your life.  Break those negatives back down into their separate little pieces so they don't seem so large.  Plus, then you can attack and conquer each of them one at a time.
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You have to gradually train your mind to think positive. Some of the things that could help you is reading inspiring artlices and making friends with positive qualities. Also daily tell yourself that you are the Best\n\nHypnosis helped me a lot---provided you find the right person to go to else there are many positive affirmation tapes available in the market which first calm your mind and fill it with positive thoughts\n\nOne of the best course that helped me was the Silva Method Course. Only the lucky ones find out the powerful and potential secrets of the mind\n\nhttp://silvamethod.com/\nhttp://lifepositive.com/\nhttp://www.innertalk.com/\n\nThese sites have a lot of exciting things to offer. \n\nThere was a book that I simply loved and still cherish it\nREAD THE BOOK\n"Awaken The Giant Within"---by Anthony Robbins\nhttp://www.anthonyrobbins.com\nhttp://www.anthonyrobbinsdc.com/...\n\nOnce you try all this, your life will simply change for the better and become more exciting and meaningful
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I completely agree...sometimes there are things that affect our feelings regardless of what we do, but for the most part, it is the way you view the things that happen.  Sometimes it's hard to remember this, but you are completely right...positive attitude=positive day; negative attitude=negative day. :)
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This is a very serious situation. The decisions you make today will play a vital role in everything tht affects you tomorrow. Who can know what you might feel down the road? Be fair in all of your judgements and open and honest. Anything gained while underminding someone else is not a sweet victory. You should seek professional counsel for this situation. Also Remember, sometimes we are in love with the idea of the forbidden. Sometimes it's simply the idea of change that intrigues us. But you are holding hearts in your hand that can be broken for life. Be careful of your next step. Remember too that love is selfless and builds up a person and doesn't destroy someone. This agony you feel doesn't stem from the root of love. True love doesn't agonize. God bless you dear and good luck. Please do get counseling.
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YES!!!\nyou will be happy... life always gives us up and downs but remember to always look at the bright side.. after all things happen for a reason.. the roots of life are bitter but the fruit is sweet.. so relax, enjoy yourself and if you hold resentment.. i know its hard but try writeing it all out on a piece of paper and when your done.. simply rip it into tiny pieces and throw it away and move on.. appologize if you have too... and start over.. life is wonderful.. just like im sure that your a wonderful individual also!!!\nxoxo
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I know what you are probably feeling- nothing is wrong, but it scares you to think that maybe something bad could happen to your relationship.  I think it's a normal thing, but what I try to do is not think about that possibility and focus on the present, focus on how wonderful things are, and not think about the 'what-ifs'.
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After the past couple weeks, I could use any extra luck you can send my way.\n\nAnd I'll be sure to put you on my "good thoughts" list too.\n\nPeace be with you
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Turn ur thoughts into the territory of your best achievements in life and start smiling in their flux.If this can't help out,but I doubt,turn ur thoughts entirely to ur Creator and admire Him and the works of His Hands.
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It's not an external problem so no matter how buff you get, it's not going to fix the problem.  You have self-esteem issues, you think you aren't worthy of love.  That is not true, but you might need the help of some counseling to help you re-program your own thought patterns so you don't keep thinking that way about yourself.  Stop the negative self-talk.
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Find something you dream about and then put your blinders on and go for it. Don't hang around those people who are always gossiping and saying you Can't do something.  If you want to change your life change the people around you.  Find those who smile at you with their eyes and remember positive creates positive creates positive creates positive and negative creates negative creates negative
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I look at it as a sign that the universe has something better for me and keep it moving. You can feel down about it but try to find the lesson from it and give thanks for another oppurtunity to find something better