I'm a skinny guy and I can't stand lumpy babes. What is it that's putting the rolls on so many ladies? Lack of exercise? McDonalds? I have no trouble staying fit, why do they? Where can I find ladies that are in shape?
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Ah, Shallow Hal? That movie cracked me up! It's kind of sad that you can't seem to see the person who may be inside of their fat bodies. Depending on how old you are it could be baby fat, sometimes girls do not shed their baby fat until jr. high or high school! Maybe you should look for slender women at the health clubs. Or at the local public pools, they will be the ones swimming the laps. Yes, I think fast food is one of the BIG problems with young people and their weight this time (this is not a gender specific problem either!)...\n\nGirls/Women have to deal with different hormones and things like periods and bloating once a month. Most girls have a curious love of chocolate, and if you find a woman who has PMS, chocolate may save your life one day!\n\nPerhaps it's a lack of motivation to lose the weight or it could be that it's genetic, maybe you could take one of these hefty hefty hefty gals and turn them into the wimpy wimpy wimpy of your dreams? \n\nGood luck, nobody is perfect. It could be that although you are slender, and in good shape...you may not have enough other qualities to be able to get the slender babes to want you. Quite often if a woman looks real hot, she KNOWS it!  But go for it, nothing beats a try but a failure. Summer is coming, so the pools and the beaches should be good hunting ground for the women who have the body to show off their bikinis.  Have fun!\nruthie~
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yeah but how else can some guys, like me, get chicks then? \nprostitution has many cons i dont disagree. but there some guys out there that just can't get a break with the chicks. cause either we're not good looking enough, not buff enough, not enough moeny and those superficial things woemn go for these days thanks to programming like sex and the city. always, always some knight in shining armor. puh-lease. look at amsterdam. those forced into it against their will, i agree is bad and should be fought against. but for those that do it on their own free will, i think they provide a basic, needed service to those guys like me that just can't get any. and by the way, i have't tried one myself. haven't quite gotten the nerve to try it yey. too many risks u know. like disease and all that.
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Yes. This is a hard question to ask. Now you made me even more confused lol. Let me tell you a story. I have this beautiful Asian Girl friend. She is very cute but she is short and a bit chubby that even make her look shorter. She is trying her best to get fit. I still love her but I feel that the rumor that men usually lose interest to the face and start thinking about the body is true :(
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I'm male and 46,  My weight is within healthly limits so my weight isn't the problem.  It's that I'm not in shape.  There is a huge problem with body image in the US.  If one is healthy and in shape.  Weight shouldn't matter.  It's come to the point where eating disorders are hitting younger and younger girls and just recently it's been reported that boys are now having the same body image problems.  Good topic!
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It is a desire to look ones best on their special day.It is a society taught thing.Check the ads. How many large brides do you see in magazines and on t.v.? You can be big and beautiful too! I would suggest some type of workout for better health and longevity. Walk 30 minutes a day.eat healthier snacks.Smaller potions etc.. All can help you be a better you. Peace.
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For me (and a lot of guys) it's all about proportions.\nThat said , there are a lot of men out there that say the fatter the better, these guys aside most (including myself) think like this:\n\nFor example, if a "fat gurl" as you put it, has no or small breasts then we probably not that interested.  In other words if her gut sticks out further than her breasts it's not good!\n\nIf however she has big breasts (ie curves in all the right places) then yeah we're probably interested.  I'm talking about real curvy women here, not huge women
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I joined a gym with a friend.  To be specific (Curves) it is a 30 min workout 3x a week and it doesn't seem like exercise.  The girls are all great and it is a lot of fun.  Met some new and interesting women friends too.
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Hell yeah! I love a beautiful woman with a good pair of legs! I am not much of a breast lesbian but they should be in good shape and not saggy. I personally wouldn't wolf whistle out loud but I may do under my breath if I saw an attractive woman walk past. I appreciate a woman who looks after themselves but you're right, personality does count for a lot more if I was trying to get their number. A beautiful bunny boiler does nothing for me!
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You know what that is ashamed cause you have women out here who's trying to be super models who have the looks but just don't have the sizes, and they go out and damn near kill their self by having a eating disorder (not eating, making their self throw up, etc....) but here it is they can make the ugliest person look fabulous but they can't slim a person down. this world is fucked up and I'm sorry to say it but it is. i know women who want to be models so mad that they go to the extreme but they never make it. i just disapprove on that because their making ppls out to be something that their not.
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Because they are immature boys with no self confidence.  There was another question similar to this one.  Here is what I wrote on that one:  \n\nIn my opinion, as a woman, I have always assumed that men wouldn't want to date a BBW or plus-size woman. (I'm 43 yrs old). About a year ago I met a really great guy who expressed interest in me - extreme interest. I came right out and asked him why he was paying so much attention to me (we had only met and emailed) and he was very honest and he said that women with big hips and thighs turned him on. I nearly fainted. We have been seeing each other over the past year and the attraction has grown. We have talked many, many times and I told him that I thought most men don't want plus-size women. He told me that I would be surprised the number of men that like larger women. Via the internet, he has shown me how much. The number of men who are attracted and adore plus-size women, is absolutely amazing. Believe me when I tell you....it gives us plus-sizers hope. \n\nThe relationship that I've had with this guy in the past year, has been better than any I've ever had. Previously, I never had a guy who wanted to see me in sexy lingerie. I never had a guy who wanted me to dress up in a short skirt and garters. I never had a guy who constantly tells me how beautiful I am. It is incredible and is absolutely wonderful. I can't get enough of it!! Talk about an ego booster and talk about boosting my self esteem! He has made me feel so much better about myself and my body. \n\nMen need to realize that plus-size women are no different than average size, or thinner women. We want a relationship, we want sex, we want exactly what other women want....there is more to us than the exterior. Don't assume we are just stupid fat women. We are regular people, and have feelings too.\n\nMen who like plus-size women need to stop worrying that their friends will laugh at them for liking plus-size women. A woman is a woman... tall, thin, short, average, plus-size... doesn't matter. Be a man and be with who you want to be. \n\nHoney - you need to be more self-confident and be happy with yourself and your body.  No one can do that for you....  A man will notice a self-confident woman.  Your self confidence will improve after he shows you a little attention.  That's what has happened with me.  But generally, you must be happy with yourself first.  \n\nJust be yourself.  Don't try so hard to be what you think guys want.  Just be you....
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I, for one, have never once worried about my weight - or needing to diet, to keep it in 'shape' !\n...It is the MEN and the MEDIA who are all out to brainwash us that 'skinny is sexy' and 'beanpoles are beautiful' ! How else could they market all those fancy 'diet' foods and beverages, plus 'instant reduction' cosmetic surgical techniques like liposuction - and rake in billions in profits ?\nIt is still very much a marketing MAN's world, baby : And it is going to be a real struggle, for us women to unite and stand-up against these stupes to announce : 'We are HAPPY being healthy, and well built. It is these MEN who need be slim and bony' !
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Most heavy girls don't get  "it" that often, if ever.  So if they do, they really get into "it".  They are better in bed than skinny girls, in the giving aspect of "it".  Plus the waves of fat that just ungulate after you get going are just so sexy. NOT!
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This may suck to hear,But yes,wieght does matter.(yes,swamp angel is a guy)I was once huge,over 300 pounds, and recieved no female attention.But i lost @ 90 pounds and started to notice the ladies bieng alot friendlier with me.The funny thing is,my body changed but my personality didn`t,but I was seemingly that much more attractive.So yes,you are going to be judged by your shape,That sounds cold, but thats the way it ussually is.
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Women with flat tummies are bad news. They usually have some kind of compulsive disorder... like they continuously think they have a pooch belly and they constantly try to get rid of it. There is no pleasing psycho women like that.
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thick to obese.they don't work out,so they don't expect you to,there is ALWAYS food around and they have almost always had to take time to educate themselves and develop a personality.most of the time they are just funner to be with and they usually will do more to please there partner than those so-called hot chick with the bad attitudes.I'll take a big girl with a sense of humor over a skinny girl that complains anytime.
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I really have to agree.  Women do come in all shapes and sizes.  All should love their bodies.  That's what makes us all different.  The media does put too much emphasis on being thin.  I just love what Dove is doing with their commercials, putting women of all shapes and sizes, even those who have curves and a tummy.  If you are not sure for what I am talking about, go to campaignforrealbeauty.com This is Dove's website about it.
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I am 54 yo and have been skinny all my life no matter how much I eat.  People used to say things like that to me all the time.  Over time I learned to ignore them.  If you are healthy and feel good just be happy and ignore stupid people.