but am trying 2 be strong 4 everybody else but it so hard 2 do
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I'm very sorry for your losses. Allow yourself to grieve, even if you have to be strong for everyone else. Find someone you can talk about it with, even if they only listen. Find a friend to talk to that has lost someone and can understand how you are feeling. You could also find an online chat for people dealing with a loss. I hope things get better.
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It just seems like they are hard on you, in the long run it will all be worth it. You will be a better person for it. You won't let anyone run all over you, and you will stand up for what you believe in. Just look at it like they are molding you into a very responsible human being.
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sadly yes and i live alone so i am getting really bad at being independant and not relying on others, this is bad.
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God bless you for trying, I will pass the kindness to each person I meet, but it is getting really hard. It is never too late to stop hating. Even though attitudes are tough to handle sometimes, I don't hate anybody, even when they hate me.
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physical abilites do not matter atall.i know u miss all that like hell..but u hav to accept lfie the way it is.life isnt candyland and most of including me learnt thatthe hard way. the only thing u can do is turn ur weakness into ur strength. Never lose hope in urslef.just think of it..u have so mnay people who r ready to help u out, u have someone who can really pay for al ur medical treatmenst, i dont know much about u, but everyone has something thats a boon for them, in case talking will make u feel better feel free to talk to me anytime okay?keep ur chin up ^_^
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Be strong.  It's not always your fault.  Don't be so hard on yourself.  You are a loving, generous person, and you have alot to offer.  You are involved with people with whom you are intersted in and, care deeply about and love.  You have thoughts, feelings and desires.  Look deeply within yourself for your answers.  Nothing is easy, and someimes there are no reasons, except that you tried and gave your all, and that what counts.  Don't ever give up but don't ever give-in either.
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dont be afraid if u will be afraid it will be hard
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Thats a hard one. Just Do whats best for everyone,including yourself.
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Nope,Its to hard living my own life, why take on someone elses!
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well try of showin it but what ever u do dont change da way u r dont chage ur personality
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You're not alone.\nI absolutely understand what you're saying as I'm going through it myself... =( I used to be naive & gullible only to have it blow up in my face.\nI tried changing to adapt as to how people would like me to be... but it wasn't easy & a losing battle at the end.\nFor every person you try to please there's gonna be tons more that don't like you for the same reason. After a while it got tired & I stopped, stayed true to myself & adopt a like me/ hate me attitude. To me it's their loss rather than mine.
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its normal 2 feel  tht way but v all know tht smethin has 2 b done, i think u shud trust those people only who r very close 2 u or whom u know frm quite a lot of time \nhumans intend 2 do many mistakes\nbut only those r succesful who after falling rise , overcome fears & move ahead 2 face the wrld wid renewed strength & more experience\nbest of luck****
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Toni, you sure are doing it tough at the moment, my heart goes out to you.\n\nWhat an admiral effort you're making, to go out and work and support you and your bub. \n\nIt sounds to me like these people are jealous of your strength and determination, and you're right, they do want to see you fail.\n\nBut you know what? You're better than that. You've got guts and determination and that's something they can't take from you.\n\nIs there any way you can have someone else look after bub for you, so you don't have to involve them? Maybe a daycare centre or creche? A private babysitter perhaps?\n\nTry not to let them get you down, you're doing ok holding up on your own so far, keep on doing what you're doing, and you'll be just fine.\n\nYou go girlfriend.\n\nGood luck.
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ive been thr also keep ur head up u have your frnds and family tell them thr a ******* loser and 2 **** off and if they dun like the way u r **** them my teacher alwys told us over and over "you are valuable don't let anyone make you think your not!" and i think that goes 4 every1 hope this helps ya out \n\n                                                    -Kyle
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im kinda like that too.  i gave everyone second chances..... until lately, because i realized some people just won't change.  DON'T be a PUSHOVER!!  let these people know you are strong and confident, and can put your foot down.   i believe in forgiveness, but not forgetfulness.  what i mean is, you can forgive them, but remember what happened so it doesn't happen again..  don't let them take advantage of you  because you have feelings too and deserve to be treated with respect!!!
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just hang in there. Its not going to get any easier and dont let anybody tell you otherwise. My ex and I couldnt do it, but good luck to you guys
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I have been through all that you describe above, and a lot more, and I survived it so can you.\n\nTrust me, you will make it through this time, and when you do, you will find yourself to be so much stronger because of it; it's like the old saying "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger."\n\nYou have to find people to talk to and confide in, whether they be peers or middle-aged adults, just find them and get rid of all those negative emotions that are draining your energy and stalling your future.\n\nAnother way to destroy those negative emotions is to exercise vigorously every day, no matter what is going on around you.\n\nMake your daily run, bike ride, basketball game or weight training your sanctuary where you can feel like yourself and escape all of your problems, even if momentarily.\n\nDo not ignore your problems, because then they will only become stronger, and do not run from them, because you will lose sight of where you want the rest of your life to go.\n\nFight your problems head on and don't let them get the best of you.\n\nIf you want advice on how best to do this from someone who already has, (and strikingly similar to your own situation) email me.