She uses people, she is abusive to her daughter and her parents.She in violent, lazy and thinks the world owes her something when she messed up her life! and everytime it is not all about her she will cuss folks out and try to beat people up...she has done this at least once a month.....for the past 10 years  and I am tried of forgiving, and then she keeps doing the same crap...I just dont want anything else to do with her period
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We could have the same sister.  Mine is pretty much the same way.\n\nShe gossips about people all the time (then gets mad when people say something about her), has 5 kids but shows preference for one, tells our mother that she (mom) never did anything for her - when our parents have bent over backwards for both of us, everthing has to be about her - when it isn't she changes the subject to be about her, I could go on and on.\n\nMy suggestion to you is to take it all with a grain of salt.  I quit having to much contact with her and when she calls 90% of the time I don't answer (God bless the person that came up with caller-id), and when we do talk she spends much of the time yelling at the kids or trying to tell me that I must repent my sins - leave the Catholic Church and join up with her church because hers is the One True Christian Church that Jesus intended to set up.\n\nNot to sound mean, but I just laugh to myself.  I have heard all of this for far more than 10 years and I quit forgiving.  In order to be forgiven you must not do what you were doing to need forgiveness for.  For her, that hasn't happened.\n\nI suggest that you keep your distance for a while, make some excuse to not be around her.  I know it sounds just as bad as what she is doing, but you must take care of yourself, and it sounds like her actions are causing you some mental distress.\n\nGood luck.
419845
i hate her already. what a scumbag she is!  tell her to go and get the hell on, and her stupid loser husband too!!!!!!!
552743
Well she is a very immature person. Did she always get her way growing up by acting this way? When she got into trouble was she ever punished for it in a way that made her change? I don't think there is anything wrong with your sister except that she is very immature and very self centered. \n     You, as her sister need to just walk away from her and not even talk to her when she is being this way. You be the more mature person and don't even give that kind of stupid behavior the time of day. I mean literally refuse to deal with her when she is acting like this. Adults should not behave this way and you will notice that most of them do not.
358035
with all that you hear these days, it sounds like an emotional problem to me. those kids need help, as much as she loves her children i think it is also a form of abuse, she is just ignorant to it, and uneducated. someone speak up to her for the kids sake.
277850
Well, she is a harlot, right?\n\nShe can go whore it up on her own time, I'll bet that's what they were thinking?\n\nIs it the parents' fault?\n\nDid THEY have unprotected sex with her?  No.\n\nShe should just have an abortion and move back in, to be honest...
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You could call Child Protective Services in she's violent.  It sounds, however, that you've caused some of your own problems with bad behavior.\nOf course, her bad behavior isn't proper either.\nEmancipated?  Nope.  You have to be older, and able to support yourself and exist in an adult world.\nStay in school, graduate, move away, whatever, but graduate.  There are too many stupid people in the world now.
371423
Yeah she is a b**ch!! Everyone needs to leave poor Michael Jackson alone and pick on someone else for a change!!\n\n♥♥We Love You Michael!!!!♥♥
434291
As long as there are people brain washing her and telling her bad things about you she probably wont come around. You know your a good mother it sounds like your ex needs to find a hobby and quit trying to ruin the relationship between you and your daughter. I havent ever been through this but if my husband were to ever turn our daughter against me it would just break in two. My daughter is my every dream come true and I cant even imagine how things are for you right now. I hope that she doesnt listen to all this garbage thats been said about you and hopefully she will start contacting you again good luck.
182662
wow. you're right. she is psycho. she's going to have lots of problems later in later if she can't handle and control herself.....hurt herself???If i were you, I'd worry about her hurting YOU FIRST!!!....keep your parents appraised of what's going on... try to avoid contact with her, if possible...hopefully, with time, she will move on.....hopefully, she'll move on to a THERAPIST REAL FAST!!
654022
It pains me to say this, but in some ways I feel sorry for her.  I mean, anyone who has ever had kids has had some sort of incident(s).  My first son fell off the bed, pulled a chair onto his head, etc.  Nobody can keep young children perfectly accident-free, no matter how hard they try.  The things that people are judging her for are just part of being a parent...
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I would say she has  a serious problem.  She is very immature -- number one. She definitely needs help of the professional kind.  I know her family cares about her, but this kind of person only is concerned about her own self and how she can meet her own needs - no matter how odd they might be - and at the expence of her own families welfare. She needs a strong husband to stand up and say enough is enough.   And to tell her if she refuses to get the help she needs, then  he can no longer support her - emotionally or financially.  What kind of example is she setting for her children. Her husband should also think of that.  His kids are more important than the pathological relationship he has with his wife.
37645
I have the same problem.  She doesnt take time to do anything, just wants to rush me out and Im having some serious problems.  She just disregards everything I say, like Im overreacting or something.  Its really frustrating!  I havent reported her because she hasnt really done anything fraudulant that I could prove, I just decided not to see her anymore and tell everyone I know how horrible she is.  I figure eventually all of her patients will get sick of it and find someone else.  Then maybe she wont be able to practice anymore.
317102
WHY can't you ditch her? She's having adolescent tantrums and needs to grow up. Help her by teaching her that her mood swings are NOT acceptable - teach her this by leaving her on her own... Some people need to be treated pretty unsympathetically if they are to learn anything!
477651
She has a problem that needs to be addressed with a lot of sensitivity and caring.  As much as it bothers you to see her with a yucky mouth and wiffy breath, it will just hurt her if you attack her for it.  I don't know about her past but I know for myself, I grew up in a family that neglected to teach me the proper routine of hygene.  And a lifetime of problem can not be fixed overnight.  She needs to relearn an entire new daily routine which could take months and months of dedication and effort which she has to want to do.  So unless she is willing to change and has the (non condeming) daily support of a friend who loves her, she may not change.  Please just love her as she is, and give her the time she needs.
80451
Although you can't force her to do anything, I would strongly urge her to seek help.  This is not normal, and if she goes through with it she will hurt a lot more people than just her and her husband.
562674
I think she is going through alot right now. Not only did she just have a kid, she is prego again, by a moron nonetheless. She made a bad decision by marrying him, but she is sticking to it. Shows strength. But on the other hand, is she really that dumb? Driving around with your newborn on your lap in a convertible is just senseless. She is either just that dumb, or there is something not right in her head.
420091
Why do you care what a girl, who has such poor judgment that she had two kids by nineteen, thinks or says about you?  And, she will flip out over many things, that is what drama queens do, and what more dramatic show can she display but that of an outraged mother protecting her young?\n\nShe's pathetic and you should make it clear to her that as long as she insists on acting like a child, throwing tantrums, telling tales, and actually commenting on your gifts or the lack of them (very tacky, even among the most lowly) you cannot interact with her on a personal level, though you will tolerate her behaviour for the sake of family peace.\n\nThen, ignore her.  She sounds like a lowclass tramp to me.