i dont no if he is serious or not but i really starting to like him and he doesnthave girlfriend and i have no boyfriend what should i do
217489
"say honey, after you pick up the kids what are you doing this weekend?"\n\nor some other lame pick-up line might work so you can spend time together with him away from work and get to know each other better\n\ncaution, though. dating someone at work is awkward, especially after a break-up (personal experience...)
190709
He shouldn't be interested in someone who already has a boyfriend. That causes very bad heartbreak if it breaks up a relationship and it doesn't say much for his character if the relationship does break up because of him. \n\nWhat I would do is continue being his friend. Maybe you can start doing little things for him to hint to him that you really like him. Maybe give him cute little gifts. \n\nMaybe ask how he would feel about going out sometime. \n\nIt might be a good idea to turn his attention away from the young lady that already has a boyfriend. :)
135675
Sounds like he likes u, but remember boys can be silly at times. They think if they show they're emotions it makes them wimps( it's not true) they show it in ways by being silly or joking that's to cover up how they really feel. He also may be a bit shy about it too or  may be he's afraid of being rejected is another reason why he acts silly with it. But I'm bet he likes u, why don't  u get him alone somewhere and have a talk with him about how he feels about u, tell him you'd like to get serious and talk tell him that the talk is between u& him and no one else has to know anything about the talk after. Then ask him how he really feels about you, if he says he likes as a girlfriend then thats nice if he says as a friend thats ok too, because may be it can devolop into boyfriend and girlfriend.\n\nGood Luck sweetie
141806
Ask him out, I guess that is the only way to ever find out if this "girlfriend" is real or just a way to get your attention. I'm guessing he's just trying to get a reaction from you to see if you really like him or not. Go for it and ask him out!
128536
Uh, are you looking for a soap opera script? He has a girlfriend so who cares if he likes you. Pay attention to who is available. Trust me, in the long run, you win if you chose those who are available.
320637
what can you do other than forget it...let's see, he'll be out of your life for the summer, you don't think he likes you and he has a girlfriend...i'd say that makes the prospects about ZERO...what you do is go on and have yourself a great summer...who knows, you might meet someone even better over the summer...or the new kid that comes back to school in the fall...you are young...go have fun!
482682
If he's told you that he has a girlfriend, there's a good chance that he either has a girlfriend or he's not interested. \n\nIf he does have a girlfriend and you entice him to go out with you instead, just remember that a man who will cheat on his wife will cheat on his mistress. Fair warning. \n\nYou can always try to find something that you have in common and start from there, though.
53695
first, u should'nt be upfront and tell him u like him, i usually like a girl that is playful, but not in a sense where u seem to be to agressive. Play it smoothly, and bump into him once in a while. If all possible try to get him alone with u and talk to him, but not so much as to make u seem desparate for him (meaning make him laugh, show him u have a great personality.)
415806
if you guys are already good friends i would let him know you like him, even if he has a girlfriend. Hopefully he will be able to respect the way you feel about him and will share his feelings about you as well.
327535
maybe he just got tired of waiting on you, so now he thinks that you may be playing games since you all have been hanging out for 5 months and now all of a sudden you want to be serious with him.  Find out if maybe he just found another girl and if he hasn't then just let him know how you feel about him
172839
I would just take it slow.  He still has time to grow and learn about life.  Maybe he really would like to do that with you.  Some guys are more ready than others. Just take it slow so u dont get crushed.   The age thing is not a huge deal.  Really you are not that much older than he is.  He could be serious.  Just realize that he is not established yet.  If you are and are comfortable with that, then go for it!!!!
240736
If he's still meeting up with you, he already does like you!\n\nYour real problem is that he probably won't take you seriously.  Tell him how you feel, but be prepared for him to not be ready to put his heart on the line right away.  You'll have to show him over time exactly how serious you are & see if he comes around.\n\nUnfortunately, having been 'trained' for so long to not expect more, he may have decided that the alternative was more fun for him, anyway...\n\nGood luck.
503952
I think you should stop liking him because he's obviously not interested. If he was, he would NOT pretend to have a girlfriend.
212681
Well I think that if you really like him just let him kno how you feel about him and see wha he says. Maybe you could even ask him how he feels about you. You dont have to ask him out or anything but just talk to him and see how he feels about you maybe he is with someone else right now that he doesnt want to be in a relationship with you right now.
27766
You should show him that you like him.You should flirt with him every once and awhile,but dont rush anything.And dont stop talking to him or flirting with him,or he might think you dont like him.
561853
I don't care if you give me the points or not, but I say...If you feel special about this person and he is unattached (or you hope he is)  then go for it!  Really, what is the worst thing that could happen? He could say "No"?\n\nIf both of you are single then talk to him!  Even if he doesn't like you in the same way, perhaps you will have made a friendship that could, (in time) grow to be more!\n\nOh and good luck!
321650
Ask. Don't come in between a guy that has a girlfriend. Its just wrong. Oh and you say he is flirting? Maybe you should tell him to stop or break up with her because you don't deal with men that aren't single. \n\nOr wait...you could find a man on your own. Sounds like a plan. Get ready. Set. Go.