When someone asks you out that you're not into. I don't want to hurt their feelings nor make up lame excuses.
206954
tell the truth, just not in a harsh way.\n\nsay one of these if you feel like on of these\n\n1)you already have a boyfreind but if you didn't you would say yes\n\n2)he is really nice/cute/smart (whatever) but i just dont feel that "spark"\n\nalso tell him that you are flattered, that helped when i got rejected.
246668
most people cannot come out and just say "i don't like you." and even more people cannot come out and say "you're my second choice, sorry."\n\neven though we all know what it means, it is still easier to say "i'm not interested in a relationship right now" than to say "i'm not interested in you." because we are trying to spare his feelings.\n\nthere are some girls who can be frank. there are some guys who wish that girls were more frank. but on the other side, some girls cannot be straight forward and some guys appreciate that girls are not straight forward.
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Nope - when you are not being 'included' .. that's a very big sign that something is up!\n\nI'm sorry :/  Don't be played like a fool, and just walk away...... don't even go through the drama of 'why'.. anyone that has that kind of disrespect for you or your feelings is never gonna give you an honest 'why' answer anyway!  /comf
85797
"I'm not spitting game or anything. all I want to do is let you know im alive and attracted to you. I would like to get to know you or at least be friends. I like meeting new people and having more company in my life."\n\n\n--- I just changed a couple things you said. Honesty is the best policy.\n\nAlso make sure you look them in the eyes.
172653
There's no need to get in to it with others.\n\nIt's not rude or out of place to say "Sorry, but I'm not interested."\n\nThat's all there is to it.\n\nYou have made your decision - there is no need to have to explain or prove your beliefs.
340447
Just ask because when you blew him off, he probably thought you weren't interested.  Thus, he wouldn't ask again because he doesn't want to come on a creepy guy.
673496
if you don't want to do it with a guy, then don't do it and stop worry ing about it.\n\n\nHere's  your sign.
416439
The right sign is when he comes up to you and asks you out for your phone number or a date.  Until then he doesn't exist and DO NOT approach him!
487927
I don't think it's an excuse, but a lack of confidence. Maybe he was worried that not only would you reject him if he asked you out, but that he may also lose you as a friend. I hope you were kind to him!
668702
look, you;'re being silly at the end.\nbe polite and let her know you are not interested\nyou don't have to hurt her feelings
329865
honestly it is a nice way to rejection . the girl really wants to keep the friendship only friends but concern if she tells you that she isn't into you on a "date" level or bf that she will lose that friendship. truthfully if she was into you as more than friendly there would be no hesitation on a date
112144
I WOULD RATHER YOU KNOW WE LIKE YOU THEN ASK US OUT SO THAT NOBODY FEELINGS GETS HURT.
203290
Girls love being asked out so just say excuse me um would you like to go out sometime if she says no then just say ok and remember that it was good you asked her because if you hadnt you would have never known what she would have said also if she says no just know that she isnt right for you and mabey try again later if she says yes then good for you
190937
I would take it to mean she has a loving respect for you, but is not interested in a relationship, but you never know...It never hurts to ask.
178373
Trust me... he'll appreciate knowing.  He probably doesn't want to feel embarassed or waste his time if you're not going to give in.\n\nJust be nice...  Tell him you're not interested.
14119
don't be afraid of what people think, ask bobby out on a date sometime, and if it makes you feel any better dont tell anyone.
26212
what thet really means is they like they just don't want to show that they like you. thats all that is!!!