I was wondering if there was any way to tell that a girl has either been with a guy with a big penis or has she just had a lot of sex. Do loose vaginas mean been with a big guy or a lot of sex?
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it actually does not necessarily mean either.\nsome people are just genetically like that, i know even women who have had babies and claim that they r not loose at all after doing exercises (Kegel-check out link)\nalso, even if she was with a guy who was big, the muscles would tighten back up after a while of not being with that person.  and same thing with having lots of sex, i mean think about it, just because u use your leg muscles a lot for walking, and even when u stretch them, they dont randomely get loose and sag, right? well, same there.  so maybe u should show this lady the link and get her on her merry way to a tighter and happier vagina! LOL
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There is a difference between "why did you choose to have a lot of sex partners?" and "why did you decide to be a slut?" \n\nSo I would say wording has a lot to do with it.
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Sometimes, after having sex for the first time, women experience pain and bleeding. But that is not always the case. So if nothing happens, that does not mean that she is still a virgin. If she had sex, she's not a virgin. That simple. It is not anything to worry about. In fact, she should feel lucky to be pain-free.
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little people have penises that are proportionate to their size, just like "normal" sized men. I have known a little person who has had a penis that was larger than "normal"
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If she is sexually active if could be a sign of an STD.  Some STD make sex and masturbation painful in the abdomen.\nShe also could have just overexerted herself or bruised interally.  If it persists, she should consult her gyno for tests.  It could be almost anything from something minor or something that requires additional attention.
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Contrary to popular belief, you can't tell how much someone is having sex by how much they ejaculate (this does not count for having sex eight times in one day) Could just be that he hasn't been drinking as many fluids, or exercising more, or eating less. Is he on a diet, or started a new exercise routine?  There are lots of variables.  I wouldn't base my opinion on just that...having said that, if you find some undies that aren't yours or his, you may want to have a conversation.
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a diaphragm would be very high up in the vagina, covering the cervix, and you probably wouldn't be able to feel it at all. i would say what you felt was her hymen, a thin membrane of 'skin' than almost closes the vagina of girls.and is 'torn' during first sex or sometimes from horse riding, sports etc. It sounds as if the girl was a virgin if this was still 'feelably intact'. You say she was not a virgin, but maybe she was saying she had had previoyus experience so as not to sound 'silly' in front of you. \ni think you may have been her first, be nice to her ok??!!\n\nlibbi x
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Speaking from experience, no.\n\nHere is a thought experiment. A lot of girls gain weight out of high school. Does that a lot of girl get looser out of high school even without sex, having babies, and so on?\n\nAnother thought experiment is thinking of guys. Do fatter guys have a larger penis? Does getting fat increase the size of your penis?\n\nedit: Also, sleeping with more people doesn't make you looser. That's an idiotic myth. If having lots of sex is what makes you looser, then a girl that has only slept with one guy her whole life would be looser than a girl that has slept with 100 if she had sex more often with that one guy.\n\nThat leaves us with girls who are fundamentally larger, like one with broad bones who stands at 7 feet tall. Lets think of huge guys first. Do giant basketball players have larger penises? Maybe, on average, larger men have larger penises and larger women have looser vagina's. But this definitely isn't a rule, because there are plenty of small men that are large down there and plenty of large women that are small down there.\n\nWhat actually makes the vagina tight has to do with a muscle down there called the pubococcygeus (PC) muscle. This muscle  is the largest of what is known as the pelvic floor muscles. It controls the opening and closing of the urethra, seminal canal, vagina, and anus. By building strength in this muscle, you can make your vagina tighter, along with other benefits as well. Look up "kegel exercises" for more info.\n\nYou can also get Laser Vaginal Rejuvenation (LVR), to make your vagina tighter.
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First, NEVER EVER HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE WITHOUT WEARING A CONDOM ! There are std's that don't have as noticeable affects in women as what it will in men. Considering this girl is already on birth control pills is a sure indication she has been sexually active already.Since she allowed you to have sex with her not wearing a condom ,safe bet others have had the same priveledge. How do you know she for sure she has not got hiv? You didn't think at the time you had sex that you would be worried about a std right now either did you? People lie, especially when it comes to sex . Don't you think if everybody told the truth about std's and hiv/aids that this problem would be well under control,if not completely extent? Next time wear a condom!! Not for her benefit but for your own safety. As to do you have a STD. Only a doctor will be able TO ANSWER THAT 100% , you should have been there 3 weeks ago. Some std's can make you sterile. If you are to embarrassed to go to the Dr. then call your local health department and see if they can't see you. If you are really worried then call the er at your local hospital and tell them your symptoms without giving your name. Hopefully all you have is a kidney infection. Next time you start to have sex make sure you use a condom! No matter what she may tell you. If your gonna do it be responsible. Good luck!!
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Some vaginas are bigger than others. Personally, i prefer one that is mediocre in size. If a gal knows how to use her muscles, then sex can even be that much better. the most important thing to me about a vagina, is that it always clean and well kept. Also, i guess that i'm kind of old fashioned, but i like one that is nice and hairy. now, here's a question for you. does the size of a man's penis, help to stimulate girls during sex?
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NOPE... Virgin is such a relative term, but basically any sort of sexual penetration makes you no longer a virgin. Sorry sweets!
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Well first of all, this case adds proof to the fact that bigger is not better! Yes, if his penis size is "endowed" it definitely does some damage to the vagina internally especially if he's been tapping it for years. No wonder you have pain; a large penis is not meant for your vagina. Stop having sex with him and allow time to heal!! OR\nIt'll definitely widen and stretch your vagina eventually forming a nice gap for you, not to mention a number of other problems.
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Well, are you a virgin? If so, there is your answer. If not, were you fully ready (meaning were you lubricated)? Is the fella you were hitting it with large (down below)? Were you going at it hard for a long time? If you had a lot of blood, call your doc. If it was just spotting, odds are it was one of those reasons.
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I married and worship a girl who was a virgin when we met.\n\nIf she hadn't been, I would have treated her as just another girl and never married her.  \n\nWhat I mean is that she was far more special than other girls I had dated.  Why?  Because I knew that when she gave herself to me, it was something very valuable and a big step for her.\n\nAs I said, I still worship her.\n\nOh, and she has a personality and innocence that far exceed those of other women I know.  I view her as a rare angel.\n\nI think her willingness to stay a virgin indicated how amazing of a person she truly is.\n\nGirls who don't keep their virginity?  Well, they get divorced every day.  Why not dump a girl who has had another penis in her?  She's not THAT special
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I am not sure if it was a new one but it was a good one. The new partner, whatever his name is started dating a paralegal there in the office and she kept saying vagina to him. Like, "okay, dinner sounds great and then we can go back to my place and you can see my vagina". He thought this was weird and told her he couldn't see her anymore. Well, he was so hot for her that he changed his mind and she told him quietly in the inner-office that she wanted hin to say the word and he wouldn't so she said never mind and walked away. He was so sexually frustrated that he shouted out in the office in front of the other partners, "Vagina"!\nThat was only part of it but I have to go...sorry
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Surprisingly, given the time that guys spend thinking about sex and boobs, most guys don't speak much about their sexual encounters. For example, most of my friends won't reveal any details besides what is self-evident to everyone who has seen the girl.\n\nTo be more precise, guys WILL brag about going with a girl, but they usually WON'T say what they did exactly, how many times, how long, describe her exact anatomy, her taste, smell etc. \n\nA typical description is something like "I did X and it was real good. We did it all night and she enjoyed it a lot".  \n\nYounger men (<18-20) may speak about the act in detail, but only to their few close friends.
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I have a vagina (i think thats what its called).  What exactly is a vagina?  Does that make me a female?  Could I be pregnant since I just thought about sex?  I also just felt a strange pain in my toe!  Could I be pregnant?!  AAAAHHHHHHHHHH! =0)