out. even though i couln't make it to our first date which was suppose to be the sunday after st. patricks day and he says he doesnt know will he ever be able to tell me if the two of us are still goin out?????
214845
Thank you for sharing.  And the question is?
155154
It's a week since you asked.  Maybe it all worked out in the meantime.  \n\nIt sounds like he's not very good to you when he's around his friend.   \nMaybe you could ask him why?  He might not have realized.  \n\nHope it works out for you.
79352
Time will tell.  What about meeting him face to face and going out, spending time together.  Then you will know.\n\nIt is possible. \n\nGood Luck and be careful!
477947
talk to him about it- thats wat i did when i had the same issue.  he and i actually had a great conver about the possiblity of the two of us going out.  good times...
575226
ask him again and if he still doesnt kno that means he dont wanna go out wit u!
452679
Ask him again, say something like "hey so what do you think, would you like to go out".  It could not hurt.  Curious as to why he never did, or does not bring it up, but you should DEF. ask him again, call him out on it.
519340
If there is/was a dance or function...ask him if he went or is going. If he says no, ask  "Didn't your girlfriend want to go?"  Good luck...
325937
it's just dating...you're single now...no harm.  Don't make any commitments until you know what you want this time...make no mistakes again...be sure he knows that as well
424391
#1...Gotta play hard to get.  Men love a challenge.  Do not make yourself so readily available.  DONT call him...Make him call you.  No "last minute dates".  \n\n#2.....If you do have another date with this man...watch for signs he might be married...something fishy about this one...I am willing to bet he is attached somehow....(sorry, you might not want to hear that)...just keep this in the back of your mind hon...\n\nGood luck
256436
go for it.. if nothing else unless you told him that you were dating someone else I believe you should aproach him and say you remember when you asked me out.. well I really think I would like to go out with you.. I have had time to think about it and since you asked I can't forget it.. so how about it.. usually its no big deal but jump on it fast before someone else does... now if you told him that you were going out with someone else tell him that he must forgive you for being such a dumbbutt and that your forever in his dept if he would take it upon himself to save you from the stupidity that you brought yourself into .. (not that you are but men love woman who need rescueing.. lol.... good luck.
148926
I think turning down the invitation to go out was a clue, don't even bother to call him, let it go.    I also think you shouldn't jump to conclusions, noone knows for sure if it's an ethnicity thing, maybe he has a girlfriend or wife in hiding somewhere, if he does not then maybe he just does not like you in that way or he isn't into interracial dating.  To each his own and he is entitled to date or not date who he wants but don't appear desperate, he isn't the only man in the world, I am sure you'll find someone else to like quite soon.
518975
Call the date off, he sounds like someone you wouldnt want to be seen with. If you go out with him, dont be embarrased to say no. Because its better to like yourself then have him like you. And you can flirt with whoever you want.
487594
Sure you should go out with him, sober this time though as you don't want to get into anything too serious or might do so because of being on the rebound. But you never know you might actually hit it off with this fella and have yourself a blast.  Good luck.
265665
Are you an idiot. He asked you on a date. If you aren't sure ASK HIM ITS NOT HARD
579407
If he is your ex-fiancee, why is he still your bf? Doesn't the word EX imply that there was something that is no longer there?\nThere is a difference between you saying 'he leaves you alone on the weekends' and 'go out .. every once and awhile'.\nSorry, but these are two complete different things.\nAt the end, I'd say, nothing wrong if you would like to go out occasionally, but you have to realize that Ex means it's over.\nAnd he at 21 surely wants to enjoy his life and gather more experience before committing himself again.\nSo what about you also moving on and getting a new life? Does this sound like a feasible option for you?
495125
Not knowing is the worst.  But have faith.   What are his reations to you?? any kind words, flirting?    Just tell him if it gets too hard.
208417
how long have you been going out cause if he haven't kissed and you love him its kinda odd.Make a move maybe he's afraid to cause you might turn him away.