what to say to your child who is being left out?
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Talk to the parents one on one. Avoid throwing insults about their child. Instead, let them know what is going on without making accusations. Let the parents know you are only wanting what is best for both kids. Be willing to work things out as well as admit that your child may have done something wrong as well.
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['“He/She was such a fine kid with so much potential.”', "“As a parent myself, I think what you're going through must be horrible.”", '“To have a new life end so suddenly is so very sad.”', '“I/We are thinking of you. ... ', '“I/We are shocked and saddened by your loss.']
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Wait until your child is at least 2-years-old to introduce time-outs. Before that age, he'll feel he's being punished but won't understand why, since he can't yet connect his actions with your reactions.
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Our recommendations. Babies and toddlers should never be left alone. Children under 12 years old shouldn't be left home alone for long.
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["“I don't know exactly what to say, but please know how much I care.”", '“What can I do for you?”', "“I'm always here if you ever want to talk.”", "“I'm so sorry this happened to you.”", 'Use humor, but only if you know it will be received positively. ... ', 'No words, just listen.']
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['Use it as a teaching moment—guide and coach them. ... ', 'Ask a question that encourages a response. ... ', 'Problem solve with your littles. ... ', 'Step back and see if they need help with something. ... ', "Acknowledge the emotions they're feeling. ... ", 'Remove them from the situation.']
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The most important thing to say is I'm here for you. Call/text me anytime. Offer to bring food to the hospital and ask what else they need which might include helping with other children at home, taking care of their pets temporarily, etc.
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['Listen First. Whenever I received The Dreaded Call, I resolved to listen first. ... ', 'Try Not to Take it Personally. ... ', 'Believe the Teacher. ... ', 'Ask Questions Calmly. ... ', 'Know Your Child. ... ', 'Find Ways to Support the Positive Behavior at Home.']
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['Make sure your child is both well-fed and well-rested before running errands.', 'Stay cool when your child has a public tantrum. ... ', 'Go over your schedule with the child before heading out. ... ', 'Reward your child with some one-on-one time after each completed task.']
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If you are responding anyway, about another matter, you could say “I hope you and yours are well too.” If it is someone you feel closer to, and want to talk about any issues in your life, you could offer a little information. “Fine, just fine. Thank you for asking.” “And, how are Martha and the kids?”
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Ignore Attention Seeking Behavior If you tell your child to clean their room and they rolls their eyes, don't engage in a lengthy argument over the disrespectful behavior. Each minute you spend in a power struggle is 60 seconds they'll put off cleaning. Give a warning about what will happen if they don't get to work.
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['Let them cry. ... ', "Remind yourself that you're not alone. ... ", "Remind yourself that ignoring a tantrum doesn't make you a bad parent.", 'Take a deep breath…or two…or five. ... ', "When they're done, give them a hug, talk about it and move on with your day!"]
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['Pick your battles. If your child tries to defy you in a fairly trivial situation, it can be helpful to let her do what she wants. ... ', 'Avoid saying “no” too often. ... ', "Know your child's triggers. ... ", "Don't give in."]
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Try to regularly set aside a little one-on-one time with your other children. Tell them how much you appreciate their help. Clear, honest communication is crucial for all family members. For example, don't be afraid to ask both your ill and healthy children how they feel about the changes to the family.
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["Don't say: “Is your child an artistic or musical genius? ... ", "Don't say: “You'd never know by looking at her that she has autism! ... ", "Don't say: “God doesn't give you what you can't handle” or “Everything happens for the best.”"]
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["Can't you do that somewhere else? ... ", "“It's supposed to be easy.” ... ", '“You just need to try harder.” ... ', '“You just need to relax.” ... ', '“Your baby looks really small.” ... ', "“I don't think you're supposed to have to do it that much.”"]
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['Use it as a teaching moment—guide and coach them. ... ', 'Ask a question that encourages a response. ... ', 'Problem solve with your littles. ... ', 'Step back and see if they need help with something. ... ', "Acknowledge the emotions they're feeling."]