how to stop thinking about guys?
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["Don't Try Not To Not Think Of Him. ... ", 'Take Time Away From Him. ... ', 'Start To Do More With Your Life That Has Nothing To Do With Him. ... ', 'Show Yourself Love Instead Of Him. ... ', 'Sort The Less Than Perfect Aspects Of Your Life Out. ... ', 'Forgive Him. ... ', 'Get Back On To The Dating Scene.']
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To get over a guy, start by limiting contact. Stop calling, texting, and emailing. Manage your emotions. Allow yourself to grieve, but remember it's not your fault if someone did not want the same type of relationship you did.
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Take a weekend off with friends—go to a concert—don't clue these guys in on what your plans are. Let them call you and talk to your message machine or voice mail. Live a life that is not dependent upon any man at all. Think of things you like to do with your consistent friends, (who value you) and then do them.
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Weird but true. So stop obsessing and just allow yourself to think about your ex. Let the thoughts flow through your mind and don't try to interfere with them. Accept the thoughts and replace them with take action steps to get past them.
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["Don't lead them on. It's nice when someone has a crush on you. ... ", "Be kind, but clear. It's necessary to let your pal know you don't have feelings for them, but it's just as important to be sensitive about how you do it. ... ", "Don't make it a big deal. ... ", 'Give them space.']
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Give yourself 15 minutes a day to think about him. Every time you start to do it throughout the day, remind yourself to wait for the 15 minutes. Distract yourself in those moments by thinking about something you really like, like sports or a TV show.
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['Be Happy. Being upset and devastated in the early days after a breakup is normal. ... ', 'Start Mingling with Other Boys. ... ', 'Keep the Focus on Yourself. ... ', 'Look and Feel Good. ... ', 'Social Media Works Wonders. ... ', 'Do Not Contact Him. ... ', 'Be Firm. ... ', 'Ignore Him.']
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['Accept the reality. ... ', 'Admit your feelings to yourself. ... ', "But don't let them overwhelm you.", 'Remember this is all part of life. ... ', 'Stop romanticizing the past. ... ', 'Cut all ties. ... ', 'Get rid of all memories.']
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['Recognize thought distortions. ... ', 'Challenge negative thoughts. ... ', 'Take a break from negative thoughts. ... ', 'Release judgment. ... ', 'Practice gratitude. ... ', 'Focus on your strengths.']
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['Go out with your friends. Guys feel very insecure when girls go out without them. ... ', 'Ignore his texts and calls. ... ', "'Accidentally' touch another man. ... ", 'Be mysterious. ... ', "Show him that you don't need him. ... ", 'Tell him that you have to work late. ... ', 'Compliment his best male friend. ... ', 'Talk about your ex.']
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Keep yourself occupied at all times. Look into taking up a new hobby in the aftermath of rejection. Strive to keep busy throughout the day. If you don't keep busy, you're likely to start ruminating and having negative thoughts about yourself and the guy. Take up hobbies you enjoy.
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["Recognize when it's happening. ... ", 'Look for solutions. ... ', 'Set aside time to think. ... ', 'Distract yourself. ... ', 'Practice mindfulness.']
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['Acknowledge Your Emotions. ... ', 'Talk To A Good Friend. ... ', "Don't Make It Personal. ... ", 'Accept Rejection Sooner Rather Than Later. ... ', 'Treat Yourself With Compassion. ... ', 'Do Something Else To Take Your Mind Off Being Rejected.']
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['Tip #1 – Slow Down Instead Of Cut Him Off. ... ', 'Tip #2 – Keep Seeing Him If He Is Still Interested. ... ', 'Tip #3 – Focus On Fun Times. ... ', 'Tip #4 – Continue to Live a Great Life. ... ', 'Tip #5 – Cut It Off If Things Are Stagnating.']
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You can stop thinking about one specific thing by thinking about something else the very moment you catch yourself thinking about that very thing. Simply don't allow it the time.
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['Talk down about yourself. A guy or man who really likes you will care so much about you that he would not want you to wallow in low self-esteem. ... ', 'Be out any kind of way. ... ', 'Let you fight for him. ... ', 'Go to sleep angry. ... ', 'Cut off family for him. ... ', 'Ask you to give up dreams. ... ', 'Put you last.']
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['Accept your feelings. ... ', 'Give it time. ... ', 'Consider your crush from a realistic perspective. ... ', 'Grieve the loss of what you hoped for. ... ', 'Avoid letting your feelings consume you. ... ', 'Talk about it. ... ', 'Stay off social media. ... ', 'Reframe your feelings.']