what to say to someone who is losing a grandparent?
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['I am so sorry for your loss.', 'I wish I had the right words, just know I care.', "I don't know how you feel, but I am here to help in any way I can.", 'You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers.', 'My favorite memory of your loved one is…', 'I am always just a phone call away.']
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Loss Of A Coworker Sympathy Card Messages “I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you.” “May (name) rest in peace. Know that I'm here for you during this time of grieving.”
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What you can say instead: “You have my deepest sympathy,” “I'm so saddened to hear about your loss,” “My deepest condolences,” or “My thoughts and prayers are with you.” Just let them know that you care about them and their grief instead of offering empty placations about losing the man they loved.
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“You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers” will work if it's true. “I will miss your mother; she touched my life in so many ways” is a good opening for writing about ways that she touched your life.
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['"I am very sorry for your loss." Having my loss acknowledged was huge. ... ', '"I am happy to introduce you to people in my network who might be able to help you." ... ', '"Let me check what roles are available in my company that could fit your skills; I am happy to circulate your resume."']
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["Thinking about you and [pet's name]. ... ", 'We can never keep them long enough! ... ', 'Wishing you comfort and peace during this difficult time.', 'I am so sorry for your loss. ... ', "[Pet's name] was such a great [dog/cat/etc.]. ... ", 'Losing such an important part of the family is never easy.']
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Method 1 of 2: Respond to in-person condolences with a genuine “thank you.” People understand that you'll be emotional or in pain. When they say “I'm sorry for your loss,” they just want you to know that they support you, and won't be expecting a longer conversation. A simple “thank you” works.
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['“Thank you.” ... ', '“Thank you for coming.” ... ', '“I appreciate that.” ... ', '“I was lucky to be able to share my life with him/her.” ... ', '“Thank you. ... ', '“Thank you for all your support during these difficult months.” ... ', '“Thank you for reaching out to me. ... ', '“Thank you.']
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Don't try to minimize their loss, provide simplistic solutions, or offer unsolicited advice. It's far better to just listen to your loved one or simply admit: “I'm not sure what to say, but I want you to know I care.” Be willing to sit in silence. Don't press if the grieving person doesn't feel like talking.
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['Sample 1. I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father. If you feel like talking to someone, know that I am a good listener.', 'Sample 2. My heart aches over the loss of your dad. ... ', "Sample 3. I'm sorry about your father's passing."]
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If you can't think of something to say, just offer eye contact, a squeeze of the hand, or a reassuring hug. Offer your support. Ask what you can do for the grieving person. Offer to help with a specific task, such as helping with funeral arrangements, or just be there to hang out with or as a shoulder to cry on.
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I agree with /u/1leggeddog. This is the best way to express your condolences in my experience. If you know the person well enough - just do shit for them without them having to ask. Cook, drop by with drinks or to take a walk.
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['When talking about death, use simple, clear words. ... ', 'Listen and comfort. ... ', 'Put emotions into words. ... ', 'Tell your child what to expect. ... ', 'Talk about funerals and rituals. ... ', 'Give your child a role. ... ', 'Help your child remember the person.']
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['Knowing what to say when someone passes away can be difficult. ... ', 'Love knows no boundaries. ... ', "Please know that you're in my thoughts and prayers. ... ", 'I hope and pray that you will have strength during this time of loss. ... ', 'You have my deepest sympathy. ... ', 'We are here for you if you need anything. ... ', 'Those who love us never go away.']
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It's generally best simply to express your sympathy and let them tell you how they feel. And it's much better to say, "I don't know what to say", than to say nothing at all. Don't suggest what a bereaved parent should be feeling or doing. Everyone grieves in their own way and there are no time limits.
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["Show you care by sending a gift or making a charitable donation in the lost child's name.", 'Be there when the parents need you to be, but give space when they need to be alone with their grief.', "SAY THEIR CHILD'S NAME! ... ", 'Tell stories about their child.']
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["“It's great to see you.”", "“I'm so glad we're all together.”", "“I miss them, but I feel like they're here with us.”"]