what do you say to a coworker who has lost a loved one?
53285
['“I am so sorry to hear about your loss. ... ', '“May (name) rest in peace. ... ', '“Thinking of you in these difficult times.”', '“My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. ... ', '“Thinking of you, wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow, comfort in the midst of pain.”']
41779
["I'm so sorry for your loss.", "You're in my thoughts and prayers.", "We'll all miss him very much. ... ", 'I have such fond memories of your brother.', "I'll always remember him as one of the nicest people I knew.", 'He was such a great mentor to all the new people at the office.']
959340
["“I don't know exactly what to say, but please know how much I care.”", '“What can I do for you?”', "“I'm always here if you ever want to talk.”", "“I'm so sorry this happened to you.”", 'Use humor, but only if you know it will be received positively. ... ', 'No words, just listen.']
81445
["1. “ I'm so sorry for your loss. ... ", '2. “ Remember you are not alone. ... ', '3. “ I\'m thinking of you."', '4. “ ... ', '5. “ ... ', '“Look on the bright side."', '"You must be devastated."', '“At least you know you can get pregnant."']
1414602
["Mention your loved one's name in the first sentence.", 'Introduce yourself and explain your relationship to the deceased.', 'Thank those who came to pay tribute to the deceased. ... ', 'Recognize the family members and close friends of your loved one.']
1269496
Keep it simple and honest. Express your sorrow, affirm their pain, admit that you can't find the words, and reassure them that you'll keep them in your thoughts. “I'm so sorry.” “I can see that this is very hard on you.” "I don't know what to say." “I'm thinking of you often.”
1421406
Say SOMETHING Acknowledge your friend's grief. Mention their loved one's name, and let your friend know that you're thinking of both of them. It could be as simple as a text that says, “Hey, I know today is one year since [name] died.
477236
['Write down your heart. This is almost always my first response to pain, grief, sadness, or any strong emotion or reaction. ... ', 'Find the blessings. ... ', 'Make time to heal. ... ', 'Take action. ... ', 'Share your heart.']
895995
Express your concern. For example: “I'm sorry to hear that this happened to you.” Let the bereaved talk about how their loved one died. People who are grieving may need to tell the story over and over again, sometimes in minute detail.
331592
I/We am/are truly sorry to hear of the loss of (insert Name of deceased here.). Please accept our condolences and may our prayers help comfort you and hasten the journey of his/her soul to Heaven. ... In this tough time in your life, may my/our friendship, sympathy and heartfelt condolences bring you comfort.
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["“Whenever you need to call, I'm here.” ... ", '“I wish I could be there right now.” ... ', "“You're still in my thoughts. ... ", '“Your family is lucky to have you through all this.” ... ', "“Maybe I can't be there, but there's definitely something I can do. ... ", '“Hey, get well soon.']
872767
['“Accept my condolences.”', '“My deepest sympathy.”', "“I'm very saddened to hear of your loss.”", '“I am so sorry for your loss.”', '“My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow.”', '“Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.”', '“My prayers are with you and family.”']
429260
['I miss you too.', 'thank you.', 'oh, ok.', 'whatever.', "awwww, that's sweet of you to say.", "what's for lunch — example of just changing the subject."]
624565
['With heartfelt condolences.', 'We are so sorry for your loss.', 'I hope you feel surrounded by much love. ... ', 'Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs. ... ', 'With deepest sympathy as you remember Ashley.', 'Holding you close in our thoughts and hoping you are doing OK.', 'It was truly a pleasure knowing Rebecca.']
286535
['“Gone from our sight, but never from our hearts.”', '“Our thoughts and prayers are with you.”', '“I wish you healing and peace.”', '“I hope you feel surrounded by much love.”', '“We are so sorry for your loss.”', '“We are thinking of you during these difficult times.”']
212488
“I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. If there's anything I can do to help you here at the office, don't hesitate to let me know.” “I just wanted to reach out and let you know that I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts during this difficult time.” “I lost my dad a few years ago.
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["“I'm sorry.”", "“I'm so sorry for your loss.”", "“I'm sorry to hear the news.”", "“I'm thinking of you.”", "“I'm not sure what to say or do but I am here and I am so sorry.”", "“Please let me know if there's anything you need.”"]