what to say to someone who is recovering from an illness?
433104
I hope that you will soon regain some strength. Let me know when you feel up for visitors and I'll come over. This must be a very difficult time in your life right now. I hope that the medications that the doctors are giving you are helping you feel better; and, that you get to return home soon.
1164496
["I hear you have an illness in your family, I'll be thinking of you all. ... ", "I know we never really talk, but I wanted to let you know I'm here. ... ", "If you ever need a listening ear or want to grab a coffee, I'm around. ... ", "I just wanted to let you know I'm praying for your family."]
729869
["“Thank you for all the days you've made brighter just by being you. ... ", "“Thinking of the good life you've lived, the great times we've shared, and feeling so grateful for you.”", "“You've been such an important part of my life, and for that, I'll always be grateful.”"]
1449026
["Let them know you are there. Lots of people can find it hard to open up about how they're feeling. ... ", 'Support them to seek help. Supporting your friend or loved one to seek help can be really important. ... ', "Don't be critical. ... ", 'Think about what you say. ... ', 'Ask them what helps. ... ', 'Help them to plan ahead. ... ', 'Stay in touch. ... ', 'Look after yourself.']
235104
['Can I help by doing x y or z? ... ', 'This is a temporary-yet-painful situation. ... ', 'It IS hard to imagine a way out of this mess. ... ', "I'm here to listen whenever you need me. ... ", "I'm so glad we're friends. ... ", "I'm sorry you have to go through this."]
912326
['Start by simply asking how he/she is.', "Explore what it's like for him/her to have a sick family member.", 'Ask the person what would be helpful to him/her.', 'Follow up; more than one conversation is likely not enough.', 'Say simple yet supportive things.', "The number one rule is don't try to fix it."]
569167
["“I know this wasn't an easy decision to make. ... ", "“I don't like this, but we're going to do our best with this time.”", "“I'm sad, of course, but I'm also glad you're in a place where you don't have to fight so hard anymore.”", "“I'm praying for you to feel at peace and to know how much you're loved.”"]
294626
["“You're doing great. ... ", '“Congratulations.”', '“Awesome job.”', "“I'm so proud of you.”", "“I'm happy for you.”", "“Look how far you've come.”", '“You have done some amazing things with your life in sobriety.”']
1106548
I hope you're feeling better now, and I can't wait to see you get back to your normal routine.” “I'm telling you, this injury/illness picked the wrong person to fight with! As I see, you're already recovering, and I know you will come out of this a winner, as always!” “Sending good wishes to you to brighten your day.
298478
['“I just want to let you know how proud of you I am.”', '“You work really hard for us, and even when things may feel tough, I just want you to know how appreciative I am.”', '“I feel so lucky to have you.”', '“I am here if you need me and I want to help support you in any way I can.”']
514174
["Don't ask 'How are you?' ... ", "Don't just focus on their illness. ... ", "Don't make assumptions. ... ", "Don't describe them as 'dying' ... ", "Don't wait for them to ask."]
1092079
['Listen to what your loved one is really saying. ... ', "Remember that it's not your fault. ... ", 'Be an advocate for your loved one. ... ', "Make sure the patient's physical needs are being adequately met."]
16165
["“I'm not sure what to say, but I want you to know I care.”", "“I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this.”", '“How are you doing?”', "“If you would like to talk about it, I'm here.”", '“Please let me know how I can help.”', "“I'll keep you in my thoughts.”"]
675112
['What can I do to help?', 'What do you need from me?', 'You are strong. I believe in you.', 'Do you want to meet up?', 'Would you like to talk about it?', 'I understand how you must be feeling. ... ', "I'm so sorry. ... ", 'How are you feeling?']
215553
If you're very close to the person having surgery, telling them you love them will always be the way to go. Also, feel free to offer something exciting to look forward to after their recovery. This can be a great source of both comfort and determination. "Okay.
199311
If you are responding anyway, about another matter, you could say “I hope you and yours are well too.” If it is someone you feel closer to, and want to talk about any issues in your life, you could offer a little information. “Fine, just fine. Thank you for asking.” “And, how are Martha and the kids?”
1024799
['What adjectives best describe my state at the moment? Do not worry about how it will look. ... ', 'What does this situation/illness compel me to do? ... ', 'If my wish came true, what would change in my life? ... ', 'If I allowed myself to …']