how to know if a relationship is not healthy?
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['Put one person before the other by neglecting yourself or your partner.', 'Feel pressure to change who you are for the other person.', 'Feel worried when you disagree with the other person.', 'Feel pressure to quit activities you usually/used to enjoy.']
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["Your needs aren't being met. ... ", "You're seeking those needs from others. ... ", "You're scared to ask for more from your partner. ... ", "Your friends and family don't support your relationship. ... ", 'You feel obligated to stay with your partner.']
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Accepting vs. A healthy relationship involves accepting the other person, wholeheartedly. ... An unhealthy relationship, in contrast, seeks to change the opposite end of the relationship. It wants the other person to conform to his wants and needs.
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["Honesty. Even if it sometimes seems like that teeny, tiny lie is protecting your partner, it's never a good move to lie. ... ", 'Communication. ... ', 'Commitment. ... ', 'MORE: 10 Signs Your Relationship is Rock-Solid and Going to Last.']
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['Four Signs You Are in a Dead-End Relationship.', 'Your relationship has shifted in a negative direction.', 'You feel unfulfilled and unhappy.', 'Your tolerance fuse is shorter.', "You have a persistent, nagging feeling that something isn't right."]
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["They're Not As Affectionate. ... ", "They're Way Less Intimate. ... ", "They've Stopped Talking About The Future. ... ", 'They No Longer Want To Have Deep Discussions. ... ', "They're Backpedaling In The Relationship. ... ", "They're Picking More Fights. ... ", "They Don't Want To Talk About It."]
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["You're failing to communicate... Getty Images. ... ", "You've gone off sex. ... ", "You're bored. ... ", 'You pick fights. ... ', 'You avoid future plans. ... ', "You don't feel affectionate. ... ", 'You start daydreaming… ... ', 'You fight constantly.']
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Spouses who are intimate, emotionally supportive, trusting, and caring have healthy marriages. Friendship and Spending Time Together. ... Couples often have different hobbies, but a key indicator of a healthy marriage is that couples enjoy each other's company and have a respect for one another. Commitment to Children.
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While in an unhealthy relationship you: Feel worried when you disagree with the other person. Feel pressure to quit activities you usually/used to enjoy. Pressure the other person into agreeing with you or changing to suit you better. Notice one of you has to justify your actions (e.g., where you go, who you see)
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Healthy relationships are about building each other up, not putting each other down. Respect Each Other's Privacy. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to share everything and constantly be together. Healthy relationships require space.
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["You don't like yourself in the relationship. ... ", "There isn't perceived equity in effort. ... ", "You don't feel loved. ... ", "You know you don't love them. ... ", "You love them, but you don't like them. ... ", 'You are putting your life on pause. ... ', 'The negative outweighs the positive.']
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['10 Reasons Why None of Your Relationships Last Longer Than 3 Months. ... ', 'You get excited by the idea of him. ... ', "You're unsure of what you want in the relationship. ... ", "The sex fizzles out and you realize you're not compatible."]
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['You and your partner go through long periods of angry silence. ... ', 'You consistently avoid important emotional issues. ... ', 'There is a pattern of fighting that ends with things worse than before the fighting started. ... ', 'Your partner is constantly and overly critical of you. ... ', 'One of you (or both) is keeping secrets.']
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['No care left to fight. ... ', 'All-out disregard. ... ', 'Zero plans. ... ', 'No time for one another. ... ', 'Failing intimacy. ... ', 'Lack of trust. ... ', 'Abuse and jealousy. ... ', 'Contempt and resentment.']
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While in an unhealthy relationship you: Put one person before the other by neglecting yourself or your partner. Feel pressure to change who you are for the other person. Feel worried when you disagree with the other person. Feel pressure to quit activities you usually/used to enjoy.
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["You think about your partner often when you're not together.", "You respond positively to each other's good news.", 'You spend some time apart, with your own friends.', 'You have a similar sense of humor.', 'You split chores evenly.', 'You try new things together.']
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['You *Only* Feel Passion/Lust. ... ', "You Feel Like You Can't Fully Be Yourself. ... ", 'Your Partner Communicates Infrequently. ... ', "You Don't Like Their Friends. ... ", 'You Notice Your Partner Adopting All Your Interests. ... ', "Your Feel Like Your Opinion Isn't Valued."]