what to say when someone is dying?
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["Tip # 1: Follow the dying person's lead. ... ", 'Tip #2: If possible, be clear that you know the end is nearing. ... ', 'Tip #3: Deal with regrets by saying, “Please forgive me.” ... ', 'Tip #4: Free yourself of hard feelings by saying, “I forgive you.” ... ', "Tip #5: Appreciate the person's legacy by saying, “Thank you.”"]
1197488
["“I'm so sorry. ... ", "“Thank you so much for the way you're handling this.” ... ", '“Take as much time as you need.” ... ', '“Your grandmother was always so proud of you.” ... ', '“She always had so many nice things to say about you.” ... ', "“I don't know what to say, but I do know how to listen.”"]
802867
["Look for openings. A sermon or song you heard, a book you read, or the way someone else's illness and death unfolded can be an opportunity for remarks that open the door. ... ", 'Broach the topic gently. ... ', 'Seek spiritual counsel. ... ', 'Ask advice about hospice. ... ', 'Ask a doctor to help. ... ', 'Let it go.']
758806
Listen to what the person dying tells you. They may want to talk about dying, their fears or plans. Try not to prompt an answer that confirms what you think or your hope that things could be better. If you think they'd find it easier to talk to a spiritual care practitioner, offer to put them in touch with one.
930259
['"This was such a tragedy. Words can\'t express how sorry I am that this happened."', '"I am so sorry this happened. It makes no sense. Please feel free to call if you need to talk."', '"I was shocked to hear about this tragic news. I\'ll keep you and your family in my prayers."']
79925
It's generally best simply to express your sympathy and let them tell you how they feel. And it's much better to say, "I don't know what to say", than to say nothing at all. Don't suggest what a bereaved parent should be feeling or doing. Everyone grieves in their own way and there are no time limits.
736409
When talking about death, use simple, clear words. To break the news that someone has died, approach your child in a caring way. Use words that are simple and direct. For example, "I have some sad news to tell you. Grandma died today." Pause to give your child a moment to take in your words.
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['“Can I bring you a meal?” ... ', '“I know how much you loved this baby. ... ', '“Remember to be kind to yourself. ... ', '“Our entire family grieves with you.” ... ', '“You and _______ are in my heart.” ... ', "“I love you, and I'm so sorry you are going through this pain.”"]
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Say SOMETHING Acknowledge your friend's grief. Mention their loved one's name, and let your friend know that you're thinking of both of them. It could be as simple as a text that says, “Hey, I know today is one year since [name] died.
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['Be intentional, show sympathy, and offer a listening ear. ... ', "Instead of trying to come up with the perfect words, express your sympathy with a simple, “I'm so sorry for your loss.” Then be quiet and truly listen to your friend. ... ", "Even if you've sent a sympathy note, call to express your condolences."]
621650
The most important thing is to let the person you care about lead the conversation, to go at their pace, and to talk about things they feel comfortable with. The most important thing you can do when you want to talk with someone who knows they're going to die, is to let that person lead the conversation.
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['I am so sorry. Your uncle was loved by many.', 'He was a wonderful man and a talented musician.', 'Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.', 'I have such fond memories of your aunt. She will be missed by everyone who knew her.', "When you're ready to talk, please feel free to call me."]
624565
['With heartfelt condolences.', 'We are so sorry for your loss.', 'I hope you feel surrounded by much love. ... ', 'Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs. ... ', 'With deepest sympathy as you remember Ashley.', 'Holding you close in our thoughts and hoping you are doing OK.', 'It was truly a pleasure knowing Rebecca.']
1373565
Keep it simple - "I'm so sorry for your loss." or "If there's anything you need like dinner/a ride/an errand done, please let me know." Stay away from stuff like "he's in a better place now" or "at least he's not in pain anymore" - those are little comfort to someone who is grieving.
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['Sample 1. I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father. If you feel like talking to someone, know that I am a good listener.', 'Sample 2. My heart aches over the loss of your dad. ... ', "Sample 3. I'm sorry about your father's passing."]
1054895
During the funeral… If you know them well, you may want to stand with them for longer. However, if you are not as close with them, a polite acknowledgement of your sympathy such as “I'm so sorry” or a hug will suffice so they can have the opportunity to talk to others.
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['My heartfelt condolences. ... ', 'Your father always bragged about how wonderful you were. ... ', 'Your father was one of the nicest people I know and I know that he was a great dad too. ... ', 'I am truly sorry for your loss. ... ', "No matter wherever he is, he'll always be watching over you. ... ", "I was so sorry to hear about your father's passing."]