what to say to someone who just lost their grandpa?
130706
['“We are so sorry for your loss.”', "“I'm going to miss her, too.”", '“I hope you feel surrounded by much love.”', '“Sharing in your sadness as you remember Dan.”', '“Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs. ... ', '“With deepest sympathy as you remember Robert.”', '“I was saddened to hear that your grandfather passed away.']
109674
What you can say instead: “You have my deepest sympathy,” “I'm so saddened to hear about your loss,” “My deepest condolences,” or “My thoughts and prayers are with you.” Just let them know that you care about them and their grief instead of offering empty placations about losing the man they loved.
1373565
Keep it simple - "I'm so sorry for your loss." or "If there's anything you need like dinner/a ride/an errand done, please let me know." Stay away from stuff like "he's in a better place now" or "at least he's not in pain anymore" - those are little comfort to someone who is grieving.
130712
['I am so sorry. ... ', 'He was a wonderful man and a talented musician.', 'Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.', 'I have such fond memories of your aunt. ... ', "When you're ready to talk, please feel free to call me."]
125199
['Knowing what to say when someone passes away can be difficult. ... ', 'Love knows no boundaries. ... ', "Please know that you're in my thoughts and prayers. ... ", 'I hope and pray that you will have strength during this time of loss. ... ', 'You have my deepest sympathy. ... ', 'We are here for you if you need anything. ... ', 'Those who love us never go away.']
457477
['Be intentional, show sympathy, and offer a listening ear. ... ', "Instead of trying to come up with the perfect words, express your sympathy with a simple, “I'm so sorry for your loss.” Then be quiet and truly listen to your friend. ... ", "Even if you've sent a sympathy note, call to express your condolences."]
8838
['I am so sorry for your loss.', 'I wish I had the right words, just know I care.', "I don't know how you feel, but I am here to help in any way I can.", 'You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers.', 'My favorite memory of your loved one is…', 'I am always just a phone call away.']
237405
If you want to talk about the baby, I am here to listen. If you have experienced a loss, you can say, “I remember having some of those same feelings you are feeling when I lost my baby. I know nothing I do or say can take away your pain. Please know I am thinking of you and your family.
684476
["“I'm not sure exactly what to say, but I want you to know I care.”", '“You are in my thoughts/prayers.”', '“Can I bring you a dinner this week? ... ', '“If you want to talk about him/her, please feel free to call (or text) anytime.”', "“If you need me, I'll be there. ... ", '“My favorite memory with (____) is…”']
1197488
["“I'm so sorry. ... ", "“Thank you so much for the way you're handling this.” ... ", '“Take as much time as you need.” ... ', '“Your grandmother was always so proud of you.” ... ', '“She always had so many nice things to say about you.” ... ', "“I don't know what to say, but I do know how to listen.”"]
872767
['“Accept my condolences.”', '“My deepest sympathy.”', "“I'm very saddened to hear of your loss.”", '“I am so sorry for your loss.”', '“My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow.”', '“Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.”', '“My prayers are with you and family.”']
766583
["“I'm Glad You're Okay”", "“I'm Here For You if You Need Anything”", '“How Are You Feeling?”', '“What Can I Do for You?”', "“Don't Be So Upset. Cheer Up!”", '“You Should [Insert Advice]”']
305038
“Please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and your family on your uncle's death. I'm sure that his memory will forever live on in your hearts." This condolence message doesn't need to offer any further call to action. Unless you were close to the uncle, a text message is enough.
1176035
Method 1 Respond to in-person condolences with a genuine “thank you.” People understand that you'll be emotional or in pain. When they say “I'm sorry for your loss,” they just want you to know that they support you, and won't be expecting a longer conversation. A simple “thank you” works.
1324632
["Be simple: “I'm sorry for your loss.”", "Be honest: “I don't know what to say. I can't imagine what you're going through.”", 'Be comforting: “I care about you and your family. Please tell me what I can do to help.”']
81445
["1. “ I'm so sorry for your loss. ... ", '2. “ Remember you are not alone. ... ', '3. “ I\'m thinking of you."', '4. “ ... ', '5. “ ... ', '“Look on the bright side."', '"You must be devastated."', '“At least you know you can get pregnant."']
357992
['Sometimes, you just have to cry it out. ... ', "Talk to someone you love and find out that there is always someone out there that feels the way you do; you're not the only one that has had a loved one die. ... ", 'Keep your head up, think good thoughts. ... ', 'Sometimes you just have to let all the sadness out. ... ', 'Talk to a loved one.']