Instruct: Classify Amazon reviews into positive or negative sentiment
Query: a little bit too encouraging

I am a single unmarried mom considering a divorced man that I dated a few times. I started learning more by reading many about divorced men. This book certainly explained some struggles of the divorced men and helped you be more understanding to him but it is a bit too encouraging the woman to put effort in some part of the books...this part is making me uneasy because I believe that men, divorced or not, want to please woman and feel that it's him who wins the woman, not the woman wins him. The biggest turn off or pressure to them is that the woman is doing more than he does.This book is also written for those single women with no children. This book will be more helpful if it tells single women to take things very slowly and be very patient WITHOUT trying too hard.(the book has some mixed messages so perhaps the author did tell this I m not sure...hah hah.)